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June 8, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
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OLD Women ADMIT They Don't Like Their Husband!😭w/How To Beast
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Guys, welcome to the Fresh Shirt Podcast After Hours edition.
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Cool.
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So yeah, go ahead and get the book, Why Women Deserve Less.
And other than that, Chris, it's your goal.
Yeah, girls, get me an Aaron C. Parkson on IG. Make sure your page is not private.
I need photos.
And yeah, I mean, just show me some images, girls.
Don't give me a paragraph, an essay, a biography.
I don't want to see that shit.
I don't want to read it.
Just show me some titties.
Let's get it.
What?
Okay.
Alright.
I mean, not nudes, but, you know, cleavage here and there, you know, don't like your face.
Don't show me, hey, Chris, here's a paragraph about me and my backstory and blah, blah, blah.
I really don't want to hear it.
Just show me your image and let's make that awkward.
Yes, sir.
Ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
Your body count.
And we'll start right here.
Welcome back.
Thank you.
My name is Mariola.
I'm 24.
I'm currently working at Takeover Reynolds and as a vet tech.
High school education is my highest degree.
Where are you from?
Puerto Rico.
Ponce.
Okay.
And then you said you're a vet tech and what else?
Takeover Reynolds.
Okay.
And what's your relationships?
Highest education level completed?
High school.
Oh my god, Miami Laws.
And then relationship status?
Single.
Alright.
Cool.
Still?
Still.
Damn.
You messed up.
And body count?
Who said that?
What about you?
What's your name?
Hi, I am Francisca.
I'm from Quito, Ecuador.
Francesca, you said?
Yeah, Francesca is in a Spanish name from Francesca.
Oh wow.
Yeah.
Okay, how old are you?
I don't like to say my age.
Well, you have to as a part of the rules.
Okay, I'm 40.
Wait, 40?
You look amazing!
And you said you're from Ecuador?
Because if I say 30, everybody believe me, so that's it.
So you're from Ecuador?
Yeah.
How long have you been in Miami?
I've been in Miami four years.
Four years, okay.
Yes, and I am a fashion designer.
Okay.
And yeah, I have a degree, university degree.
Okay.
And I'm married.
Okay.
So you have a, what do you have your degree in?
For teaching elementary school.
Okay.
Did you get it here in America or did you get it in Ecuador?
In Ecuador.
Okay.
Yes.
So were you a teacher over there?
No, I no work on that.
I'm working on fashion designer.
So I'm going to study another institute for fashion designers.
Okay.
So you have elementary education, but you were never a teacher?
No.
I finished the university, but I always loved the design.
Okay.
And how long have you been married?
15 years.
How many tattoos do you have?
Like 42.
And Chaz asks what gang you're in.
Just the hood, ain't it?
Chris, just the hood, ain't it?
What about you?
Hi, guys.
I'm Crystal.
I'm from Detroit and I live in Houston.
I'm 26.
You said you're originally from Detroit?
Yeah.
Okay, cool.
Payroll journey.
What are you doing for work?
Payroll work party.
I'm a flight attendant.
I dropped out of college and I am in flight school.
Okay, cool.
So flight attendant, highest education level complete is high school.
And then...
Dating status?
And your status, yeah.
I am currently single.
Cool.
Yep.
All right.
What about you?
Welcome back.
Thanks.
I'm Sarah.
I'm 25.
I am from Toledo, Ohio.
I live in Miami now.
I'm a social media manager and a UGC content creator.
So if you need a social media manager for your small business, please DM me on Instagram.
And I have a bachelor's degree.
I'm single.
That's it.
All right.
What about you?
My name's Mary.
Welcome back.
I'm 29 years old and I work for Takeover T Rentals.
Where are you originally from?
Cuban.
But you're from Miami originally, right?
Oh yeah.
Went to high school here.
Okay.
And then you...
What's Takeover Rentals?
You rent out what, specifically?
ATVs and they also do things for the ocean.
For the ocean?
Yeah, like jet skis.
Okay.
Wait, because you said it's not about rentals too.
Do y'all both do it?
Yeah.
Okay.
And then highest education level completed?
High school.
Alright.
And then relationship status?
Single.
Alright.
Cool.
What about you?
Hi.
I'm Alana.
I am 26 years old.
Highest education level bachelor's degree.
I am a teacher.
I was born in New York.
You're a teacher?
Yes.
Just like Chris.
Are you originally from New York?
Yeah.
Yes, that's where I was born.
The city or?
Yonkers, wherever that is.
Okay, yeah, Yonkers is a little, okay.
So, and why?
And then you said you're a teacher, right?
Yes.
What grade do you teach?
Sixth grade.
Oh, shit.
Some of the worst kids.
They're little angels with horns.
So you teach here in Miami or back up north?
An hour north of here.
Okay, all right.
So like Broward County probably, or West Palm Beach.
And you said you have a BA. Where'd you get your BA from?
FAU. Okay.
In education or?
No, I actually got my BA in psychology and then I got a temporary, whatchamacallit.
I don't know what the whatchamacallit is.
It's like a temporary teaching certificate.
Okay, okay.
Because I was going to say, don't you need a master's degree nowadays to be a teacher?
I think because of the shortage on teachers, they're just kind of making some adjustments.
Okay, cool.
And then relationship status?
I said, I almost said single.
I'm in a relationship.
- Oh shit. - It slipped. - It slipped. - It slipped. - It's a real plan. - It's a real plan. - How long have y'all been together? - Three months.
Is he a teacher too?
No.
He works in finance.
Please don't ask me exactly what he does.
You don't know?
I know it's in finance.
I don't do numbers.
I do people.
What about you?
My name is Chiara.
I'm from Italy.
I'm 37 years old.
What part of Italy are you from?
Bologna, North Italy.
Bless you.
Bologna?
Bologna, yes.
I have a bachelor degree in science education.
What do you do for work?
I try to open my model agency now.
I'm working on that.
At 37?
Sorry.
Never mind.
And then what is your relationship status?
Married.
How long have you been married for?
Five years.
Is he from Italy too?
No, he's American-Colombian.
Do you live in Miami now?
I live in Colorado Springs.
How long have you been here in South Florida?
Six years.
Is that how you get your papers?
I'm an American citizen.
Okay, cool.
Hey, whatever works, whatever works.
You said it was Chiara, right?
Yes.
Okay, cool.
What about you?
My name is Alexandra.
I'm here.
I'm from here, Miami.
How old are you?
And I'm 27.
Okay.
And I... What do you do for work?
I am a server, but I guess I'm trying to upgrade to be like a bottle girl.
Okay.
You're like 4'1 though.
Oh, I'm 4'9.
You're 4'9.
4'9?
Yes, 4'9.
Wait, can't you get like a handicap sticker for that?
- People tell me that all the time.
And I doubt that.
- No, I'm not kidding. - You can go ahead and get it.
I'd get a handicap sticker for sure.
I want one that makes life way easier for me.
$200.
Free parking.
Fresh got a handicap sticker.
I was in accidents.
I have one.
You have one too?
Goddamn.
Oh wait.
That's fugazi!
That's fugazi!
Okay, Server, what's your highest education level completed?
I'm an associate in psychology.
Okay.
And what is your relationship status?
Well, I guess it's single.
I was in a relationship for like 10 years.
10 years?
Yeah.
It's very complicated.
So like I still talk to him.
You know when your life intertwines like that, you just have so many things.
So just blowjobs?
Were you guys living together and stuff?
Yeah.
Do y'all still live together?
No, I just moved out.
Kids?
No, we don't have kids.
Who broke up with who?
It was just like outside forces, honestly.
Translation, I broke up with him.
He broke up with me.
What did you do?
I upset his mom.
Yeah.
Yeah, because his mom is kind of involved in the relationship at times way too much.
How did the mom get involved?
What did she do?
Stop being a ho, bitch!
I mean, she'll just like, you know, she'll live with us.
Oh, she was living with y'all?
Yeah.
Oh, hell no.
So then, like, I don't know, we clash sometimes.
So then, like, things started happening and then he started taking his mom's side more.
And I'm like, come on, like, let's get our own place.
Let's go, like, live somewhere else.
I also feel bad for her because she's going to be by herself.
Oh, okay.
Like, she's not married or anything?
She's single?
The mom?
Hey man, she's a grown woman, bro.
Come on, man.
It is what it is.
So, did she live with y'all or did you guys live with her?
I guess she lived with us.
Okay, so like your boyfriend or ex was paying all the bills?
Yeah, we're like both of us.
We're like helping.
And she also helps too.
She helps too?
Yeah.
Question, is that a Naruto?
Yeah, it's like Naruto, Hinata.
Oh, that's cute.
Naruto tattoo?
I used to watch it all the time.
Now I've like grown out of it, but...
Yeah, but it's still there, so...
Okay, all right, fantastic.
Last but not least, guest of honor.
What's your guest in the house?
Thank y'all.
Thank y'all for having me on again, man.
Good to be here.
Name age.
Body count.
Body count.
No, I was dead serious.
I'm just kidding, bro.
Cricket.
No, just like a quick intro.
I mean, what's the podcast we just did, bro?
I don't know.
What if we don't know?
Yeah, guys, just so you know, we're going to have to make this show two hours because Dave's a little tired, guys.
We got to respect him.
We did a three-peat today.
This is my fourth pod today.
Oh, wow.
So we did one with you, and then you did three with us.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, shit.
Okay, fair enough.
We got you, bro.
Okay, so guys, don't shit on Fresh Too Bad today because...
It wasn't me.
Yeah, it wasn't Freshers' Fall.
You guys could go ahead and blame Dave.
And by the way, we missed an NBA game.
The Heat are about to lose right now.
The Heat are about to lose.
No way.
It's not over yet, but they're down like 15 in the fourth.
Come on, Jimmy.
Come on, man.
Hey, if you're watching right now, you could be anywhere else.
You could be watching the Heat lose, but you're here with us.
Thank you very much.
Okay, so this is what we're going to do.
I'm going to go ahead and read.
Actually, no, no, no.
Sorry.
Hit us with your question, my friend.
Question for the girls.
Okay, so what is something that a guy does or something about a guy that would make you submit to him and follow his lead in a relationship versus maybe the standard path these days of kind of like fighting him for the lead?
That's a good question.
We can start right here on Mr.
Naruto.
What would make you...
No, let me rephrase it.
What would make you immediately submit to a man?
Oh, immediately?
That's pretty much it.
Is it immediately or...
I don't know about immediately, but in general, if you were to start dating him more than just hooking up with him, what's something about him or something he does?
I guess take him serious then.
Have full respect for him and allow him to make the decisions without fighting him around the way.
We'll go with that.
I guess if he's just headstrong and he makes his decisions and I don't have to really do that because I feel like In a lot of relationships, women have to kind of take lead and be like, I want to do this and I want this and that.
And if they do that first and you don't have to ask for it, then I'm kind of like, okay.
So you used a very interesting word.
You said headstrong.
Typically, being called headstrong means you're not agreeing.
You're being not agreeable to someone else's will.
Would you say that it's important that he stays headstrong even if the girl has a conflicting view?
I mean, I kind of sometimes enjoy if someone just kind of sticks with their opinion and if they're...
Regardless of your opinion.
Yeah.
Yeah, this is most important when you guys don't agree on something, right?
Obviously, if you guys agree on shit, it doesn't really matter.
Yeah, I mean, that's okay.
You don't have to confirm to my opinion.
So I like that.
Just stay with your opinion and I like you better like that.
Was your ex more like changing his opinion on things and taking his mom's side more than your side?
Yeah, it was kind of like taking his mom's side on things and, like, I was trying to make him view, like, hey, like, I kind of have, um, I kind of, I felt like I was, like, mostly right in, like, most of the arguments that we would have, but he wouldn't see it that way, so.
By what, though?
Like, they should tell you to come home earlier, or?
Um, I guess it's just, like, just being in the house sometimes and then, uh, my things were also there and I just felt that she would kind of, like, move things around and I just wouldn't like that and I, Like, hey, I have my space and she has her space.
Can, like, she not be in my space?
That's all I want.
And, like, he was like, hey, she could just do that.
It's her house, too.
I'm like, okay.
And sometimes I'll let it go, but then it'll annoy me sometimes.
And I'll, like, kind of start a problem.
Okay.
So headstrong and being decisive.
All right.
All right.
What about you?
Yeah.
I need Kim's help.
Please.
Oh, was that?
Yeah.
The ask question again.
Okay.
Go ahead.
Yes.
So what is something that a guy does or something about a guy that will allow you to submit to him and follow his lead?
With his lips?
No, to allow him to make the decisions in the relationship.
Okay, first of all, I'd like to be submissive to a man.
What?
I don't like to be submitted to a man.
So you don't want to submit to a man?
No.
How come?
What made you submit to your husband?
Like, we take a decision together.
Like, when he's a gentleman, like, he's nice with me, respect, like, I like it.
Okay, so you're in charge?
Who's the leader in your relationship?
You or your man?
Both.
Yes, we are in the same level.
There always has to be one final decision maker.
He's making a final decision maker.
Okay, so he's the leader then.
She doesn't want to accept the label.
No, I don't accept that.
Okay, I think like the woman make believe the man, he's the leader.
But the woman are the leader.
So you allow her to lead.
Yes, like he's saying, he's making decisions, but...
It's really you.
Yeah.
Okay.
So you don't submit to that.
Okay.
So you don't submit to your husband then?
No.
Never.
What the?
Go Queen.
Okay.
All right.
Fair enough.
At least it's honest.
At least it's honest.
What about you?
So, what would make me submit to a man is him being able to admit his shortcomings, admit that, you know, maybe he's not always right.
Vulnerability, you know, like, sharing in, like, his struggles with me.
Aw, I lost my job today.
Yeah, exactly.
Give me all that later on.
- Really?
- Financial and emotional stability and maturity, especially the maturity.
And then compatibility and us sharing goals.
Obviously, like if he has his business, whatever he wants to do, needs my help, doesn't need my help, that's his business.
But for us to have a shared goal of what we want our life to look like.
So he could be broke.
I mean, I would live under a bridge with my man if it came to it.
Stop the cap!
So, would you want your guy to admit his shortcomings to you or just deal with them by himself and then come back better?
I think it depends on the nature of the shortcoming.
Obviously, if we're getting into a heated debate or a discussion, I would like for him to be able to admit that he was wrong about something or that he misunderstood something.
So you're just saying taking responsibility if a decision he makes goes wrong?
If a decision that he makes, a perspective he had, like, whatever it is, just taking responsibility and being like, oh, I misunderstood that.
Or, oh, I wish you had communicated this to me.
But just admitting that, like, not just sticking to one point for the sake of sticking to it, you know?
I just feel like maybe that's not conducive to a healthy relationship.
Okay, so you're saying admitting if they're wrong.
Right.
Keyword, if they're wrong.
Yeah, if.
Okay.
And then you said admit struggles and vulnerability?
Maybe not admit all his struggles.
Like, I know that sometimes men like to deal with things on their own.
And, like, if it's something that I know nothing about, then maybe I don't need to get involved.
Maybe you don't.
Okay.
That's okay.
We can have opinions, right?
Okay.
So vulnerability is, like...
I like for my man to, like, have, like, maybe a certain image that he portrays to, like, the people around him.
But then, like, with me, he's, like, you know, a little bit softer, you know, just, like, certain things that, of course, I would never make public or, you know, kind of, like, express to people that are close to him, people that are close to me, or really to anybody, because those are private things, like, between us.
So that's what I mean by vulnerability, is, like, certain private, intimate moments in whatever capacity that we can...
So blackmail.
Oh, my boyfriend is black, yes.
No, no, I said black male.
He's a black male.
Get it?
Black male?
Black male?
No.
No, that's evil.
Let me ask the ladies a question here on the panel.
What's more attractive?
Your guy comes to you with a problem or he solves a problem and you never heard of it?
Solves it.
Solves it, for sure.
So is it really better for him to be, you know, open and vulnerable with you about his problems or shortcomings as you claim?
That depends on who you ask.
Would that actually make you want to submit to him, which is the question we asked in the first place?
Yeah, absolutely.
Because it means that he's not always focused on everybody else's problem.
He recognizes that he's a human being and that he also has shortcomings or, you know, that he's just a person.
Um, so if you can admit to me, you know, like you're beloved, that you have, you know, things that you're unsure about or whatever it is, then that makes me want to submit to you because you are self-aware and you're emotionally mature.
He's a human being.
What's the number one thing that women look for in a man?
Are you asking me?
Yes.
How am I supposed to know?
I'm just one girl.
What do you look like?
What's the number one thing you look like?
I don't know.
If I had to put it into like one umbrella term.
That's the best answer possible.
Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.
Me don't know.
I'm just kidding.
Me don't know?
If I had to put it in like an umbrella term.
Would you agree that most women look for security?
That is the one most important thing.
What kind of security?
Financial, physical, emotional.
Financial, physical, emotional.
So we're using security as an umbrella term for all these different...
Most women, if I line up 100, prefer security.
It's the most important factor.
Well, emotional availability as well.
Y'all are going to give a fuck about their emotional availability unless they meet the security first.
Whoa.
I don't know.
Not necessarily.
Whoa.
Whoa.
Emotionally available?
Nah.
Yeah, that's a big one.
But I don't know if I could condense it into just one simple term.
I feel like it's more complex than just being able to narrow it down to just a one-word answer.
But I do think security is important.
Especially emotional security.
I can't do an emotionally immature dude.
I just can't do it.
So wouldn't it be fair to say that being emotionally mature is controlling your emotions?
I think the word control is thrown around too loosely.
I think emotions are things that are felt in your body that we then put labels on.
So like, you know, your heart starts to be fast, you're afraid or you're excited.
Or, you know, like your body starts to shake, you're angry because people forget that anger is an emotion.
So I don't think it's a matter of controlling your emotions.
I think it's a matter of being able to appropriately express them.
Airplane.
Period.
What do I mean?
Sorry, go ahead.
I'm not disturbed.
I'm the no.
You contradicted yourself in a bunch of the things you just said, but it's fine.
We'll move on because I don't want to I want you to continue on with your question and then I'll because I'm sure you probably have a follow-up, right?
Yeah.
Well, let's yeah.
What about you?
Yeah, let's keep moving.
Yeah, the question is what would make you submit to a man?
Nothing.
Nothing.
So you don't want to submit to a man?
I come with a big package.
What's the package?
Oh, two.
Wait, two kids?
Wait, hold on.
Who hurt you?
My baby daddy.
Damn!
But what would it take for you to submit to a man then?
So wait, your baby daddy, so you're not with him anymore?
So did you submit to him?
Yeah.
And that went badly for you?
Yeah.
Really bad.
So you chose the wrong man.
Emotional damage!
How would you know?
How would I know?
Years down the road I went and I knew.
I found out.
Was there an indicator up front that you see now?
What was it?
All he cared about was money.
That's not bad.
That's not bad.
No, he cared about taking my money.
Oh, you see.
But then be specific.
You gotta be specific.
He took your money?
You mean like he spent your money on things?
Yeah.
So was he not making his own money?
No.
He's a bum ass name.
Oh no, so you wouldn't maintain him.
Yeah.
Alright, so what would it take for you to submit to a man then, is the question.
Or is it for you as well?
You're like Miss Italy, you'll never submit.
No.
I mean, I would.
I just need to see that I have to feel comfortable.
What would it take for you to be comfortable, specifically?
That's what he's asking.
I don't know.
I would have to see that you're really a man.
I won't be able to comment.
Wow.
I don't know how to answer that question.
I can't commit.
It makes sense you'd have issues maybe trusting a guy after that.
And pretty much everybody in Miami is the same nowadays.
So it's really hard.
So I'd rather be alone than be with somebody.
Go through it all over again.
That's right.
She's been badly bruised, you know?
I want to see that they have like husband and fatherly like qualities that they're gonna be a good person to start a family with that I can raise my children with.
What's that?
What are those qualities?
That they are caring and loving when I see how he interacts with groups, even just like his friends, you know, when he has guests over at the house, like how does he treat people?
Does he welcome people into his home?
I want to see that he's a hard worker.
I want to see that he is very focused.
He takes care of himself.
He takes care of those around him because I think that men are supposed to take care of and provide and protect.
So I want to see that.
Making sure that when we're out and about, that I'm being respected by others that are around.
He's making sure that I'm safe.
Can you give an example of that?
Because I know that's something a lot of guys, they don't know if they should overreact to situations or not do anything.
So what's an example of something that would happen when you're out and about?
Um, so if I went out with my man, I guess whether we were in like a normal casual situation or if we went to like a restaurant or we went to a club or something together.
If, you know, men were trying to approach me and talk to me, him to kind of step in and be like, hey, she's okay.
She's with me.
And like, that'd be that.
Like, I don't want to have to be the one that says like...
No, I'm okay.
I'm with my man.
Stop talking to me.
Because a lot of times, men, I feel like they don't...
Even when you say, I'm here with my boyfriend, or I'm here with my husband, whatever, they don't care.
Because there's been times that people have approached me that are creepy and weird, and I tell them I'm married.
Because in my head, I'm like, okay, well, maybe they'll walk away.
But they still keep going sometimes, you know?
So...
For me to not be the one that has to speak up in that situation, for him to automatically set that boundary and be like, no, this is my woman.
Like, she's okay.
So I guess those things, just knowing that it's someone, also making me feel like, you know, like, say, someone that I can go to with, you know, my problems, if I'm sad, if I'm scared, if I'm stressed, like, I want to be able to go to him with my problems and him help me find an answer and solve it or just, like, give me a hug or a shoulder to cry on, like, being there for me.
Yeah, she wants to look like a leader, I guess.
Yeah.
She wants to feel safe.
Yeah, yeah.
Someone in charge.
Anyway, we're going to building LBG! Long Beach Griffey announced, she's right, all these women are right.
The women are always right.
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Shout out to Long Beach Griffey.
What about you?
What would it take for you to submit to a man?
So the type of woman that I am, I love to spoil my men and I love to show them like, you know, like acts of service, physical touch and stuff like that.
So I would love that energy reciprocated.
Like I need somebody that's willing to go on my little crazy adventures yet still give me my freedom.
So somebody that's willing, you know, that's down, that's, you know, my partner in crime slash, you know, I'm curious.
You know, my partner.
What is your freedom?
What are you talking about?
Like, allow me to, you know, if I want to just book a flight somewhere, allow me my space to do that, or be with my family.
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Just like...
Yeah, I'm a solo traveler.
I like to travel by myself and, you know, with my friends.
No, but really, like, somebody that's going to be down to do whatever, like...
Supportive.
You like China?
I've never been to China.
Red flag parade.
Legit.
Really?
Have you been?
No, I'm talking shit.
So for you to submit, he would have to give you freedom.
Is that what it is?
You know, personal space to still do me and still, like, be myself.
You know, I don't want to sacrifice my freedom 100%.
I still want time for me, you know, self-care, self-love, like, things that I do before my relationship, I still want to be able to have that, yet still get that respect.
So you want to still be able to behave like you're single even though you're not?
Not exactly, because I know the boundaries and I respect, you know, the relationship that we have.
Would you say that traveling alone is single girl behavior?
Not necessarily.
I'm not going to meet up with nobody.
You know, if you look on my page.
No, if you look on my Instagram, you can see I went to Dubai.
How come you wouldn't want to travel with your guy there?
I would love to.
Absolutely.
That's why I say I need somebody willing to go on my little crazy adventure.
It sounded like you wanted to travel on your own.
I do that too.
And you wanted your guy to let you travel on your own.
I mean, sure, why not?
But can you admit, when you travel alone, things do happen either, for example, you meet people that may take you around or like, you know, you get drunk one night and then you fall into some dick.
No, absolutely not.
No, I'm not interested in, you know.
I don't think, I think you think a lot more, okay, I can't speak for anyone.
A lot of girls do, but I've never, ever, ever, ever, ever went on a trip anywhere, even before I moved to Miami, all the times I came to Miami and hooked up with a random person, ever.
That might be you, but I don't know.
But that might be her too.
Or her.
Again, we live in Miami.
This is true.
That's why I said I can't speak for everyone.
I can't speak for everyone, but I just...
I don't know.
I just took a trip by myself to Los Angeles.
And I went to...
But you're single now.
Well, yeah, but...
But that's a huge difference.
This is what we're talking about.
But, like, I don't know.
I just...
I left and then I didn't...
I went to, like, clubs and stuff and then I just talked to other girls there and, like, kind of, like, made friends with them.
And then I was kind of...
By the end of the night, I wasn't alone, but I was, like, with another girl just, like, getting drunk.
So I wasn't like finding a hookup.
One time I did a solo trip to Miami and I talked to no one.
I didn't even leave my hotel.
It was really fun.
Let me tell you about it though.
So when I went on my solo trip, like I literally was the only, of course, black woman around.
Anyway, so I met these girls and they were all from London.
So what happened was I ended up going to Dubai and it was really, really fun.
By by yourself?
I did.
And I met these beautiful women at Cove Beach, right?
And I was just sitting with my hookah.
We all hooked up, like, you know, talk shit a little bit.
And I ended up going to London and hanging out with them again.
So I kind of built that bond a little bit.
So it was kind of cool.
And we, like, real tight.
So, you know, it's a beautiful experience.
See, that's what I mean.
Like, you don't meet just guys.
You meet, like, girls, too.
Yeah, but there's single behavior.
That's not...
It's a bit odd.
I don't understand why you...
I mean, I'm not doing anything inappropriate.
It's just, you know...
I totally get where you're coming from.
I'd be concerned if my girls asked me to take a trip by myself.
I wouldn't want to if I was in a relationship.
To his point though, if your man was not cool with it, would that stop you?
It just depends.
I mean, I would definitely ask how he felt about it and if he wanted to come.
But I just wouldn't just leave him if he felt insecure about it.
Insecure?
Yeah, like, if you can't allow me to do what I want to do, it's just because...
So if you can't do what you want to do, that means you're guys insecure?
I mean, it could be from insecurity, yeah, or trust issues.
But if you don't trust me, why are we together?
Yeah.
Typical argument.
You know, it's funny about this whole scenario here, right?
Those same things that you want to do alone, just do it with him.
Absolutely.
I'm down for it.
So then why go alone?
I don't have to.
But, you know, I'm currently single, like I said.
So when I went to Dubai, I was single.
You know?
Port-a-potty.
Okay, cool.
Keep moving.
What about you?
The question is, when and how would you submit to your man or why would you submit to your man?
I mean, men love God more than a woman.
Then it's the perfect man that I can submit.
So if he loves God, you're going to submit to him?
Yeah, because it is for sure he's going to be a good man.
He's guided by God.
Yeah.
Well, there's a bunch of losers that love God.
Are you going to submit to that guy that loves God?
No, the man loves God more than a woman.
How do you judge that?
How do you know?
You can see if a man loves more God than you, because he's a very good person, he obeys every...
So a man who has religious values?
Yeah, the values.
So what if y'all don't have the same perspective on religion or spirituality?
How does that work for you?
She's asking if he's Muslim and you're Christian, how does that work?
Make sense or no?
Yeah, I'm Christian.
But what if he's Muslim?
And if you're from another religion, how do you know?
Do you understand?
Yes, I understand.
I don't think so work.
Yeah, I mean...
That if you're from another religion, you're from another religion.
I think it's not working.
Because you have to be in the same spirit.
God is only one, so it doesn't matter.
Not for spirituality.
There's a lot of differences when you go between.
It's different and it's not the same for everybody.
And faith is something that people can argue about regularly if they're not on the same page.
Yeah, exactly.
I have two friends.
One was Muslim and one was Christian.
And they wanted to get married and they wouldn't because it wouldn't work.
Because each one wanted to raise their kids and their own religion.
And it just becomes an issue.
So it's something that you can't agree with it or be okay with it on the same page.
It's pretty hard because my husband, he don't believe in God.
And I'm very...
How does that work?
I'm confused.
Wait, this is the most important thing to you.
Yeah, I said, but it's not in my case.
Bruh!
Bruh is right.
So you think that that...
So it's very hard for me.
It's very hard to be on that.
But it's been 15 years, right?
Yeah, but I met spirituality seven years ago.
So before, we are the same.
But then I found spirituality, and then I started going to church, everything.
And yeah, he respects everything, but he don't like too much.
And I'm happy with that.
So that's like new for you then, is having that value.
It wasn't always like that for you.
It's my dream.
My husband also came, but it's not.
It's not for everybody.
Okay.
What about you?
I feel like...
Merch.
I can't.
It's very hard for me to submit to a man.
I'm very picky.
I like my man to be very family-oriented.
Travels.
I don't know.
I don't know what will make me submit to a man.
Have you submitted to...
Have you had a boyfriend in the past that you've submitted to?
I have.
Yeah.
For about a year and a couple.
But you're in a relationship with him.
Right.
But you're following his lead.
Nah.
How would you know, bud?
I can just tell, man.
Puerto Rico is in trouble, bro.
Yeah, you had a Puerto Rican before.
No comment.
So you just were with him just to be with him, I guess?
No, I mean, we had our differences.
We had our good times and our bad times.
But...
Do you want to be in a relationship where you follow Ben's leaders?
That's not your ideal relationship?
I don't.
I do like for him to take initiative and, you know, make the plans.
And I'll just go along with it.
But not me make other plans.
So basically, your last thing you were in charge, making plans for him?
Fuck no.
Never.
Like, you don't want him to tell you what to do.
Exactly.
I don't like being demanding.
I'm confused.
Yeah, I'm confused too, man.
So what she wants is for him to plan the dates and plan the trips and what they're going to eat for dinner and those things.
But she doesn't want him to say, no, I don't like you.
You wear that.
No, I don't want you going on a girl's night.
No, he can have his opinions.
But will you listen to it?
At times.
At times, I will.
It all depends.
I don't know.
I'm very indecisive.
Oh, man.
I do listen, but...
You are chaos.
I hope you guys see the panel here.
They all gave contradictory answers.
They say one thing but then do another.
They say they want this but then they do another.
This is why you need to be the leader in a relationship.
Women literally live in chaos.
They don't know what the fuck is going on.
A lot of them, only women have the privilege of being stupid, and to be honest, a lot of them are dumb and don't make sense.
No offense, ladies.
Y'all said a lot of stupid shit earlier.
Like, for example, you said being vulnerable and, you know, being emotionally available and showing his issues, his shortcomings.
Bro, if a guy's supposed to be the one that's the leader in the relationship, he's supposed to be the one leading you, you're depending on this guy for security.
Him showing you his shortcomings and being vulnerable is the worst thing they can do.
That's 100% counterproductive to gaining your respect.
You said you can't submit to a man because of your baby daddy, which is crazy.
You, I want to be able to take trips and be free even though I'm in a relationship.
What the fuck is that?
And then you, I want a guy that believes in God, but your guy's an atheist.
What the fuck is going on?
And then you, oh, I wanted to be able to make decisions and stuff, but not tell me what to do.
Or he could have his opinion.
Yeah, bro.
Like, bro.
Yeah, bro.
My brain hurts.
Yo, women are literally retarded.
Oh, my God.
Goddamn!
Listen, we're undecisive.
We're very undecisive.
You cannot make it through life as a man, like, being a moron like that.
No offense.
But like, yo, but women could go all day, contradict themselves, don't make sense, say one thing, do another.
As a guy, you'll never be able to make it.
So imagine following their program.
Bro, this is why I tell y'all, you cannot let women lead shit.
They don't even know what they want in a guy.
Leave it to eat, bro.
Oh, no.
We'll have to make the decision to eat.
What the hell?
As soon as I smoke my joint, I will know what to eat.
If we're eating at home, I will make the decision.
Unless you want something specific.
Your guys' answers has to be stressed.
I'm losing hair.
I'm like, what the fuck?
Actions speak a lot of the words, right?
Actions speak a lot of the words.
Bro.
Holy!
Alright, you got another one then?
Sorry.
I got another quick one.
Yeah, please.
Go ahead.
So, at the last part, we went over a lot of red flags of women, yeah?
Yeah.
I'm curious for them, what's their biggest red flag in a guy?
We'll start with Miss Puerto Rico.
What is my biggest red flag?
You're the first one that comes to mind.
There's one red flag in a guy.
Man whore.
Friendly.
Too friendly?
Too friendly, yeah.
Like she said, I would like to be different.
I would like to get treated different than any other random.
Also, hostile to other people, but friendly to you.
Only.
Like, if that's my man, yes.
If that's my man, yes.
What's the red flag?
If it's too friendly, if it's too nice.
Is that what you mean?
Too nice to other girls?
You're right.
So he's very friendly with other girls.
Okay, okay.
I don't like friendly people.
Friendly guys, just friends.
Even though you are, which is hilarious?
Uh, no.
You're very friendly.
I'm single.
I could be.
I'm confused, man.
Okay.
What about you?
I thought it was a simple question.
Yeah, it was.
I tried to dumb down the second question.
So the question is...
What is a red flag, rojo...
What is a flag in Spanish?
Rojo, yeah.
Rojo flag in a man.
Jealous.
When it's jealous.
Jealous.
Oh, jealous.
What about you?
I say bad hygiene.
Could you define that for us?
What is bad hygiene?
If you...
First of all, if you're ugly and you got on this...
Sorry for...
First of all...
Just recently, I seen a guy, whatever, walk past me.
He smelled really good, but his face didn't match the cologne that he was wearing.
I was immediately turned off.
I was like, uh-uh, you smell real good, but your face don't match the cologne.
What does that mean?
That means if you look good and you smell good, it's a green flag.
But if you're ugly and you smell good, it's like, uh, I don't know.
Her red flag is ugly, guys.
I would say my biggest red flag and a guy is overly emotional or too nice like Like, I don't want that.
So like lack of emotional control.
He doesn't stay calm.
If you're a crybaby, that's disgusting.
If you whine or complain, it's disgusting.
Or if they get overly angry and show that they're overly angry and are throwing stuff or punch the wall.
You have anger issues.
You have no control of your emotions.
Immature.
Yeah.
Okay.
Toxic or controlling?
What is toxic?
Define toxic.
Like your baby daddy?
Let's not mention that.
Or if they don't have a job.
I think controlling.
What does controlling mean to you?
When like you can't be yourself like you have to I don't know I would like to be in a relationship that I could be myself.
You know, like a guy that tries to control you, your every move, every second, doesn't trust you, that's a huge red flag to me.
I would argue he cares about you a lot because he wants to make sure that you're good.
And for the most part, if he's going to want, for example, let's say you were something crazy, like more sexy, more like, I guess, like more sexual, you go outside, what's going to happen?
First of all, if I'm with a man, I'm not going to do that because I have to respect you.
All right, so define controlling that.
Yeah, give us an example.
Okay.
Hmm.
Because women throw that term around all the time and don't even know what it means.
Like?
Like right now.
Okay, listen.
For example, I don't know.
Like, let's say, look, for my birthday, we want to know y'all.
You can't make this up, bro.
For our birthday, we want to know y'all, and then it's my birthday.
Like, obviously, I want to get drunk.
It's my birthday.
I want to celebrate.
No, you can't dance.
You got to sit there.
What the fuck?
What did I get on the yacht for?
Why am I here with my friends?
Was he there?
Of course.
So he doesn't want you dancing on your birthday?
With my friends.
With our girls.
It's kind of weird.
It's an odd one.
Yes.
No, I wasn't allowed to do anything.
I can't talk to a guy.
I got in trouble and yelled at because I was talking to a guy that was with his girlfriend there.
And we were talking about food.
It doesn't matter.
So what?
It doesn't matter.
What kind of dance?
Are we talking about twerking and shit like that?
No!
You know girls when they dance with their friends, they want to twerk and do crazy shit.
No, I don't do that.
That looks dirty.
What?
See, but on a boat?
I grind with my friends.
They were doing ballet.
Even worse.
In the boat.
Dirty ballet.
It was time dancing.
No, I don't like twerking.
I'm not a stripper.
All right.
So, I'm going to go to the next one.
So he didn't want you dancing with your friends and potentially embarrassing yourself if it gets clipped.
Okay, fair enough.
That's controlling.
All right, anything else?
Turn off.
I said toxic, but you could go to her.
What do you find toxic?
Because that's another term that girls throw around all the time.
Everything in Miami is toxic.
I want two hours sleep.
We can't tell.
All right, what about you?
Okay, so do I have to narrow it down to one?
I can name like a few things, right?
Okay, so disrespecting his mom, any man who is disrespectful to his mom, I cut to 25 years later, that's going to be me, so I'm good.
The way that he treats people in general, you know, like...
Janitorial staff, wait staff, anybody that he doesn't really need, the way that he addresses those people.
And then if he treats them poorly, that's a red flag.
If he leads a dishonest lifestyle, if he's a scammer and he's scamming people out of their money, getting money from them, and then turning around and he's fine.
And then if something happens to that person, he doesn't care about it, also cuts into the way that he treats people.
Yeah, that stuff is a red flag to me.
Would you say leaving a nice tip is caring for people as well?
Yeah, I like that.
Yeah, I find that to be a green flag.
Okay.
Thank you for being specific.
Finally.
What about you, Miss Italy, right?
Yes, Italy.
For me, when he's toxic too, and when he loves money more than you.
Toxic and loves money.
No, when he loves money more than the people.
Or you.
So when he cares more for money than you.
It's like there is no humanity.
It's like if you get sick, for example, and you need to go to the hospital, you have to pay your bills.
You need money?
No.
Maybe they don't give you money to pay the bills.
So being broke?
I'm not being broke.
Like he's stingy with his money, he doesn't want to share it with you.
Sorry?
Like he's stingy with his money and doesn't want to share it with you?
Because I'm confused with your point.
I met a few people, like a guy, like the woman needs to see the doctor and there was some bills to pay, like not too much.
He prefers to pay the bills to bring her to the show.
Oh, so he's cheap.
He just doesn't want to spend money on things that money should be spent on?
Sorry?
Like he doesn't want to spend money?
Don't want to spend...
No, yes, for important things.
Oh, okay, so she's saying...
For your health, for your health.
Like, this means he love you.
Oh, it's agreed.
So she's saying in a nutshell that he's making money a priority when it comes to your well-being.
He doesn't care about you.
Yes, it's your needs, you know?
That makes sense, like over health.
So her thing is, it's just a cheapskate is what it really came out of.
Yeah.
It's not about he cares about money too much as that he's a cheapskate and won't spend money on things that are important.
Yeah.
Okay.
And then what's the other thing?
You said toxic?
Yes.
What do you mean by toxic?
Don't give you, like, a space or, yes, control you all the time.
And I had a bad experience about that and this history and these studies.
Control how?
Like, where are you going?
Don't go there.
Stay home.
Don't go there, yes.
Why are you wearing these dress or something like that?
Do you think that's controlling though?
Or call you all the times.
Where you at, bitch?
Do you think that's controlling or a man that cares about you?
No.
Controlling.
Like, cares about you?
Yes.
You can call me, like, two times a day.
This is, like, care about me.
But not 50 times.
I guess it could be two sides, because I don't mind if someone calls me all the time.
Like, I enjoy that.
I will say, like, as a woman, I'm hearing all the, like, I want space from my man is a little mind-boggling and confusing to me.
And I'll say that because, like, All I want is their undivided time and attention.
And I know when they're a busy person, I can't have that.
And that's very hard for me because all I want to do is be with them 24-7.
Yeah, that's why I'm not a thingy type like that.
Like, I want to be able to, like, have our own lives and whatever.
You want to go out with your friends and enjoy yourself with your friends.
Like, that's cool, whatever.
But, like...
I want you to come home and crawl in bed with me and I want to be there and I want to cook for you.
If you're asking me where I'm going because I'm leaving and what I'm doing and you don't want me to leave and you want me there with you, I want to stay inside.
Shut up, Chris.
You know that's true.
So for you, it's being cheap and toxic as in they bother you too much.
They call you 50 times a day or whatever.
Yes, I think there is a balance.
Don't call you a lot.
That's fine.
But I disagree with you on like, you know, dressing a certain way.
I think if a woman is with a man, she shouldn't be dressing provocatively unless that man is there.
And she shouldn't be going to nightclubs or going to Places where alcohol is served and there's a bunch of men trying to talk to her without him there.
Yes, agreed.
I don't think a woman should be going to clubs or bars or any of these places without her man.
Or traveling.
You disagree?
Or traveling alone.
I mean, it's not that wrong with traveling alone if you're single.
You have to trust your woman.
Yes.
Like, if you don't trust your woman, it's going to be a relationship.
Okay, but would you trust your man if he goes alone on a trip?
Yes, I do.
Because if I don't trust him, I cannot stay with him.
Because it's not good.
I'm not happy.
I worry all the time about where he goes, who is with him.
No, it's not like a healthy relationship for me.
What's worse, if a man cheats or if a woman cheats?
Which one is worse for the relationship?
I'm asking her.
I think one the man Cheating usually is stay with a woman.
He's like just for have fun when the woman cheating is more dangerous because much of the time he decide he leave the man and go with the Cheating so cheating for women is worse, right?
Okay.
Okay, so bars nightclubs Isn't it easier for women to cheat?
No.
You don't think it's easier for women to cheat than men?
No, because if somebody want to cheat a partner, he can go to the supermarket.
He can go out like five minutes and he can cheat.
It's a really good place to pick up women, actually.
You can find somebody everywhere.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let's say you and your husband went to a nightclub.
Who do you think is going to have an easier time meeting the opposite gender?
Women.
Women, of course.
So it's easier for you to cheat, right?
I have more opportunity to cheat if I want.
So that means it's easier, right?
Yes.
So, since it's easier for you to cheat, doesn't that mean that you have to work a little bit harder to avoid cheating?
Since it's so much easier for you to cheat?
It's just common logic.
I don't know, because like...
No, I agree, because it's not...
I have more opportunity, but I grow up, like, I don't feel I need to cheat my man.
Like, I can have, like, 100 men under me, but I love him.
I love him, so I don't have this temptation to cheating him.
Like...
I don't see them.
I don't see the other ones.
I see just my partner, my husband.
That's when you're in love with a person.
When a woman is in love with somebody, they don't look at another person.
I think the chat sees what I'm seeing.
I get what you're saying because if a woman loves a man, she doesn't want to cheat.
However, she also would say, you know what?
This environment is unhealthy for me to be in.
As a result, if I love my man, I don't want to be here.
Well, for a man, it's a red flag if his girl wants to go out to bars and clubs without him because what's the motivation there?
Why is it happening?
I think, like, stay with a person doesn't mean, like, just him exists.
Like, you have to have friends because it's gonna be a toxic relationship.
You have to have your space.
No, no.
You can have friends, but you don't have to go out to nightclubs.
Yeah, friends are important, like, 100%, but...
If you're a person, like...
Why don't you stay in the house and drink wine?
Why don't you guys stay in the house and drink wine?
You can wine and canvas, go to dinner, you can do coffee dates.
What if you go out with all of your friends that are also in relationships and or married?
You want to go out with your friends, you know?
And they're all in relationships or married, you know?
It's like, oh, let's go out, you know, let's link up or whatever.
Or go on a date, like a double date.
Yeah, where like your husbands all go to, like, I don't know.
I don't want to be in a club without my...
If I'm in a relationship, I don't want to be in a club without them.
Also because, like I said, when people are coming up to you, you can say I have a boyfriend or I'm married or whatever all you want, but people are, as women, going to repetitively come and hit on us and try to take us home and bother us and saying no all night.
Then it just becomes annoying and then my night is ruined and bothered because I'm not having a good time.
I'm telling people to get away from me.
Yeah, it's just not enjoyable.
Interesting.
I agree.
Alright, so you still want to be able to go to the club and dress however you want with your man there or not?
It's not a dress.
It's not a club.
It's a person.
You decide to cheat somebody.
It's not because I'm in the club.
So I cheated somebody.
So you're saying as an individual, you decide what you want to do.
Yes, it's your values.
But once again, the environment is not healthy.
No?
You don't think so?
What's unhealthy about the environment?
What is the environment?
Temptation.
Okay, I work like a model in Italy.
Oh, you're a model?
In Italy, I was a model.
You've been in Vogue?
No.
Then you're not a model.
Go ahead.
No professional.
Like, no high-level model.
When you were a model, how long were you a model for?
From what ages?
What age were you a model?
Like 22 years old until I came here, like 31 years old.
A while ago.
That was a long time ago.
Okay, so 22 to 31.
And then you met your husband when you were how old were you when you met him?
No, I was here.
But I was in a relationship when I was in Italy.
I was a model.
And when you are a model, you met a lot of people.
No, I know.
A lot of men, but I never cheated my husband.
But I'm saying, when did you meet your husband that you have now?
When did you meet him?
2017.
Okay, so you met him when you were like 31?
Six years ago.
Okay.
Alright, so you met him at 31.
And then before him, did you have like another boyfriend?
I had a boyfriend in Italy before I came here.
And why didn't that work out with your boyfriend?
Because it was a long relationship.
We live in a different city.
And I left Italy.
I didn't want to live in Italy anymore.
And he won't stay in Italy.
So we didn't have the same plan for the future.
Was he a model too?
No, he was an engineer.
From 22 to 31?
No, I had 22 to 28.
Okay.
All right.
Very interesting.
Very.
Okay.
All right.
So you don't want nobody to tell you what to do?
No.
Fair enough.
I see what's going on here.
Yeah, I see the pattern here.
That's fine.
And what about you?
What is a red flag for you for ma'am?
Um, I guess, like, a guy that just follows, like, a lot of women on, like, social media, and he's just, like, always liking their pictures and stuff.
Like, I think that's a red flag.
Yeah, that's a red flag for me.
Just, like, liking a bunch of pictures.
And, like, I think that's what falls under her umbrella of friendly.
Because I feel like that's friendly, like, with women, you know?
Like, you gotta, like, hold, like, your girlfriend at a different standard.
And, like, I don't know, show them a different type of love.
Yeah, and, like...
I just don't think it's cool because you kind of put your girlfriend...
You embarrass her by doing that.
By liking all these pictures and following all these girls because he doesn't care about her.
Vice versa though.
Guys, if you do the same thing...
Vice versa.
Guys, if you be liking guys' pictures, they're going to be on your ass too.
Why are you liking these pictures?
You can't because that makes you a hoe.
Exactly, but we have a title but you guys can do it and you guys don't have a title.
A man fucking a bunch of bitches is not the same as a woman fucking a bunch of dudes.
Not even close.
Okay, but one thing is liking and another thing is fucking.
One thing is liking and another thing is fucking.
Yeah, but any type of behavior done by a woman that could lead to fucking is unacceptable.
Especially if you have a man.
Whether that's going to the club.
It's crazy to me how like...
One thing about your guys' answers that I've noticed is like...
Toxic, controlling, calling me, or whatever there may be.
Like, women gotta understand that if you're gonna be in a relationship with a man, and that man has any set of balls or backbone, he's gonna have standards and regulations and boundaries.
So, if you wanna behave like you're single, then be single.
But it's very disrespectful to the man that you behave like you're single when you have a man.
Going to the club, dressing provocatively on the internet, dressing provocatively when he's not there, wanting to go out in social situations, drinking with other people that isn't him.
I find it crazy how girls want to be able to have a man at home but be able to reserve the right to still do all the things that make them look like they're single.
But what if I'm not doing that and he's doing that then?
Men and women aren't the same, too bad.
But like, what do you mean?
Too bad.
That makes no sense.
Yeah, that doesn't...
So you have the freedom and we don't?
Yeah.
So what made you fall in love with me in the first place?
If, you know, like...
Why are you not being a whore?
Can I ask a question?
Men and women are not the same.
A guy that can attract a bunch of chicks or a dude that fucks a bunch of girls is attractive.
A girl that fucks a bunch of dudes or puts herself out there for a bunch of dudes is not attractive.
It's not the same at all.
When you go to a nightclub, you go to a VIP section, it's a higher status man with a bunch of bitches.
You are never going to go into a VIP section and see chicks with a bunch of dudes.
It doesn't work the other way around.
Women love men that have other women.
And it honestly keeps y'all in check.
So it's a good thing.
When you have a bunch of dudes, it's unattractive.
I don't know why women don't understand.
You guys only like the double standards that benefit you.
Getting into night clothes for free, getting attention, getting validation, getting, you know, worship just because you have a vagina.
For men, life is much harder.
So since life is much harder for us to be attracted to the opposite gender, we get to enjoy the fruits of our labor differently than you guys do.
Y'all don't have to work for shit.
Just go in, be hot and young, good enough.
For us, we have to acquire some status, acquire some confidence, dress well, smell good, etc.
You can have everything together.
She's still going to reject you.
Just go over here, right?
So it's like, yo, as a man, we get certain privileges that y'all don't because you don't earn your value.
So I don't know why women don't get this.
I was saying in a relationship, though, because what if I'm at home and I'm not doing any of those things and then you're out in the club and you're doing that?
Okay, and?
What do you mean?
What?
If I busted my ass and I got to a certain point and I'm an attractive man, right?
Why are you in a relationship?
Okay, but then we're in a relationship.
Yeah, I think the big caveat here is that these are boundaries that are, like, set, right?
Like, obviously, if you're a dude and you're like, I'm going to be monogamous with you, I'm never going to cheat on you, and you do that, I don't think that's good, but I think it's okay.
It's going to be more accepted for a guy who's in this position to be able to set these boundaries and still There's not going to be any dudes that are going to be like, okay, you can fuck as many girls as you want.
That's not going to happen.
But in reality, women with a guy who's built his life up, it can happen in practice, right?
A girl will accept a man that has multiple women, but a man almost never will accept a woman that has multiple dudes.
And if he does accept it, those are the guys you don't want anyway.
But can you agree?
Let's say we go to a club, right?
I go to a club.
It's going to be different from when you go to a club.
You may get to go on a table, get free bottles, get free liquor.
If I go, I got to pay for a table.
Man, hold on, hold on.
Let's switch it up.
Because women are retarded with this shit.
Us going to a club are not the same.
Let's say I go to the club and I got a bunch of bad bitches that are going to come up to me that are hotter than you, younger than you, thinner than you, better body than you, more money than you, and they're offering to fly me out, they're offering to give me a bottle, they're offering me a job, they're offering me certain opportunities that you'll never fucking be able to do, right?
And they're going to pay me 10k.
Would you let me go to the club?
Yeah.
You're going to split it.
You're going to bring the money back.
You're going to bring the money back.
You're trying to be funny.
No, it's all my money.
Because my money is my money, remember?
No.
I'm the girl.
Exactly.
Y'all would never allow that shit.
But for some odd reason, you guys want us to accept you going to a nightclub where there's going to be a bunch of thirsty dudes giving you a bunch of things, offering you a bunch of shit.
Guys that might have more money than me, more status than me, et cetera, whatever.
Why the fuck am I going to go ahead and put my Rolex in the hood?
That's essentially what it comes down to.
You're letting your girl, right, which is a prized possession, it should be, if you worked hard to get her, letting her go to a bunch of criminals or hoodlums, leaving it out there.
And it could get stolen.
But if we flipped it around, right, I find it crazy to me how if I was gonna go to the club and have the same opportunities y'all had with all the hot girls coming up to me, giving me all these opportunities, y'all would never let that shit fly.
Y'all be like, fuck no, stay your ass at home.
Drink some wine with your friends.
Does that mean that you would do it though?
What do you mean?
Like, what is a let?
Like, are we talking about somebody being uncomfortable with something?
Or are we talking about her literally standing in front of the door, blocking the door with her body, and hiding your keys and not letting you go anywhere?
No, I'm just giving you an analogy where if the roles were flipped...
And I had all the opportunities in the nightclub that a woman enjoys.
As a man, y'all would have a serious issue with me going.
But women know subconsciously, when men go to the club, they have to pay their way in.
It's annoying to deal with girls there.
It's not as easy to pick up a chick.
I gotta pay to get a section versus girls get in there for free.
If I had the same opportunities as a man in the nightclub that a woman did, you guys would be a lot more cautious about me going to the club.
If I roll up to the club, I'm not gonna accidentally...
Get laid.
It's not an accident, right?
There's like a series of actions that have to take place.
As a woman, you have guys approaching you all night.
If you just are a little bit friendly, all of a sudden now maybe you're sitting next to him in a more exclusive venue and then he's asking you to go back to his place.
Like one thing leads to the next.
For a guy, that all has to be like calculated maneuvers that happen.
But if it's easier for women to cheat, can't that happen anywhere?
Yeah, but at a nightclub, it's a lot more likely to happen than the grocery store.
It's a lot easier if you're at a club when people are very close together, you're drinking when you're drinking, you're not thinking, you're doing drugs.
It's simple.
You got milk, you got a table, two different scenarios.
Yeah.
Okay, I see what you're saying.
Yeah.
Is it true that...
Because I get where she's going here.
Well, I could get hit on anywhere.
If I'm wearing sweatpants, guys are going to come up to me anyway.
That's true.
But it's for the same reason that people want to go and move to a certain place.
For example, you said you teach an hour from here, right?
Yeah.
So people obviously live in that school district, in that area, because it's probably a better school system than here in Miami, right?
We have some of the worst school districts here in South Florida.
So they go to another location...
Now, is the rate of crime and the school, you know, shitty teachers, etc., is it still possible that you're going to get a shitty teacher where you teach?
Of course.
But the likelihood goes down because you're paying more tax dollars, you're getting better teachers, so the probability goes up that your kid's going to get a higher quality education.
Same exact thing.
The probability goes down when my girl doesn't go to the club, but it goes up when she goes to the club.
My girl walks to the target.
She's not going to accidentally get picked.
Maybe she gets approached by one dude or two dudes.
If she goes to the club and she's dressing super sexy, she's going to get approached by 50 news minimum that night.
So, women live life on easy mode.
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Sorry.
Dave, you had something or you had something?
Yeah.
No, I just said what I got.
Okay, so, I mean, first of all, if you have a girl and she's going to a club but you're dating and you guys are together, there's no reason why that girl needs to go to the club without you.
Yeah, that's our point.
That's our point.
Like, that's a hole.
whole you're dating a whole you know so thank you sorry I don't do that list I don't go to I don't go to the club and like I'm at home but if like my boyfriend is going to a club and he's buying girls drinks that would really annoy me like That's disrespectful.
Why are you spending money on another girl?
What if you're going to the club to do that?
To try to pick up girls?
I think it's different.
What do you mean that?
We could go to the strip club together.
Like, you wouldn't like that.
I wouldn't want to go to the strip club with my man, though.
I'm telling you right now, you're in a strip club with a guy that you're dating, and you see him get a lap dance, or you're throwing money at a girl, you are going to be pissed the fuck off.
My man gives me the money, and I throw the money on the hoes.
Yeah, I'm not going to the store club.
Let's just not go to no store club.
Y'all just got to be on the same page.
You shouldn't feel uncomfortable.
You're going there to have fun and enjoy your time.
I'm uncomfortable and insecure now.
Yeah.
I don't know what to tell you.
I'm not too proud to admit it.
Women are the ones that control the dating marketplace and sex.
Since women control that, with great power comes great responsibility.
Since you're the girl, you need to take overt steps to protect yourself from being a thot.
Let's just keep it a thousand, man.
Half of the game of being a man is keeping your girl in check and correcting bad behaviors that are not conducive to good relationships.
The problem is that we live in a world now where girls have a lot of...
The whole behavior is ingrained in them, right?
And it's on the guy to get rid of those bad behaviors.
Oh, you want to go to the club all the time?
You want to do drugs?
You want to be with your girlfriends that are all sluts?
You want to be on boats?
All this other shit?
That's cool.
But you don't deserve a relationship.
And I think if more guys put their foot down and let girls know, this is not acceptable behavior of a girl that I'm going to take seriously, more girls that acclimate.
The problem is that guys don't have the balls to put their foot down and say, no, this isn't acceptable behavior.
And here's the thing.
No one's going to force y'all.
You do what you want.
But I'm not going to give you no fucking commitment if you're going to behave like you're single.
I'm a clown for that.
Well, unfortunately, there's not a lot of guys that have balls in Miami.
That's true.
But for example, he's saying you can get a man by your looks, by how you walk, how you dress.
But can you really retain that man after a while?
Probably not because you're doing these things like traveling alone, wink, wink.
Well, guys who have options are going to choose their best options the same way that women with options will choose their best option.
But the way a man ranks his options is going to be different than how a woman ranks their options, right?
And a guy who's going to be prioritizing women who he thinks are actually going to be loyal and more feminine and fall into that feminine role if all other things being equal.
I think the hardest thing that for women, most women to accept in these scenarios is like, you might be able to get this like really great guy that's really hot and has a lot of money and is very successful and whatever for like a night you can hook up with them or whatever and maybe hook up with them a couple times more.
But if you want to keep behaving the way that you're behaving and you don't want to listen, you don't want to follow his lead, you don't want to do these things and kind of stay at home or only go out with him, things like that.
He's going to realize you're not going to be an option for him.
So you just kind of have to realize if you want a man at that status and that energy to give you those things and provide for you and have this nice life that you want to build with him, then you have to make a sacrifice to keep that.
And if you don't want to make that sacrifice, then that's okay.
But you have to accept that, you know, You're losing what you want.
What if he's cheating on you?
Are you still going to accept that?
Well, I think now you have to, you have to like kind of remind that because if I'm dating a higher status man, okay, and he has a lot of money and I know that I'm taken care of, okay?
He loves me very much.
He provides Marie.
Everything's great.
Everything's cool.
We do things together.
But sometimes when he travels, you know what?
I don't care.
And I think that it's easier...
I think it's easier when...
These scenarios don't work if the man is not high value.
If the man is not making a lot of money and if the man is not...
If the man is not making a lot of money and the man is not like...
Providing and taking care of everything?
Like, these scenarios don't work.
Because I'll be damned if I'm paying for bills and I'm working and you're out fucking bitches, I will be damned.
Okay?
But if you're taking care of me...
Break all your clothes, burn them.
You're more accepting if he's taking care of you.
But you know that he's cheating on you.
So how does that make you feel knowing that another woman is always going to be around and always, like, she can't take your place because she's going to be a sly bitch, obviously, but...
And that's where it comes.
That's where the difference lies with men and women, okay?
It's because she'll never take my place.
I know that I am the loved one.
I know that I am his.
I know that he loves me and he cares about me because I'm the one he's taking care of.
What if y'all are married?
He might sleep with one girl for one night.
Whatever.
Men are men.
And...
Justin Waller.
I just saw a video of Justin Waller the other day.
And what he said perfectly, I feel like, explains this.
He was like, if I could look at the woman that I love and be truthful when I say I only want to be with you and sleep with you for the rest of my life, I wish it were true, but it's not.
Because men don't think like that.
I will always, no matter how much I'm in love with my woman, I will look at other women and think you're hot.
I want to fuck you.
And that's just how men think.
Whether you're at this value or this value, like, of status, it doesn't matter.
They all think the same.
But I think the higher value people have a better chance of doing it because, A, they're probably going to be a little more open about it.
And also, like, you're going to be secure, like, financially, emotionally.
Like, they're going to be taking care of you.
You know what I'm saying?
If we're struggling financially and you're out spending your money on other bitches, now I'll be fucking damned.
It's still emotionally damaging to go through that.
If there's a guy who's a loser and he's not setting these boundaries and he's cheating on you, that's just a weak dude.
But if it's a guy who's built up his life to a certain extent and he lets you know up front, hey, from time to time this may happen, That's a completely different story.
Exactly.
And knowing about it.
It's not like they're sneaking around your back or anything like that, you know, and lying to your face.
I think if they're lying to your face about it, that becomes an issue and that's where most damage and trust issues come in.
And now, just because I'm okay with this scenario, you might not be.
And that's okay.
We're all not going to be okay with that scenario and we're all not going to be okay with the same things and that's fine.
A lot of women will accept a higher status man that says, hey, you know what?
I love you and I'm going to take care of you, but sometimes I'm going to fuck other bitches, either accept it or don't.
Or, hey, I'm going to have a couple main girls and you guys are going to share me, accept it or don't.
Chris!
Question for you.
How does that make you feel?
This conversation?
Yeah.
No, I learned a different pattern for you.
So would you ever submit to that man?
Yes or no?
I never submit to a man.
I never submit to a man.
Would you ever submit to that man?
You said earlier that you wouldn't.
Yes.
Yes.
You're going to ask me and I'm going to say yes.
Would you submit to that man?
That man who's cheating on me?
Well, he's...
What's that cheating?
I mean, he's not cheating.
He's there for you.
He loves you.
But every now and then, you know, when he travels, he may smash you.
Have I gotten to the point where I agreed, where I consent to being cheated on?
Well, you're looking at it the wrong way because you're going to know about it.
So, okay, so...
He's not sticking around.
At the end of the day, call it what you want to call it, whether you're being honest about it or not.
It's only if you're, like, not aware of it.
But if you're aware of it...
No, that's a...
But that's adultery, though.
I would rather not be aware.
Like, you're sleeping with somebody.
You are forming, like, an intimate sexual, like, covenant with somebody else.
We're not married.
Huh?
We're not married yet.
That's an open relationship.
So I'm submitting to somebody I'm not married to?
Yeah, why not?
Okay, we're not married and you're having sex with other women.
I mean, you're supposed to...
You don't submit to your boyfriend before?
I do that under the guise of maybe the delusional belief that he's not having sex with other women.
Yeah, delusional because he probably is.
So do you go into the relationship with the knowledge of this man could possibly cheat on me and vice versa?
Well, yeah.
I call that trust.
Would you submit to that man?
To...
Be honest.
I couldn't be in a relationship with somebody like that.
If you're in love, love will make you do anything.
Yes, ma'am.
Here's my thing.
Think about it this way.
That's a dangerous place to be in.
Think about it this way.
So you have this man, okay?
And he's taking care of you.
And you love him.
And he loves you.
But he says, hey, sometimes when I travel, like, you know, he's rich, whatever.
I might fuck another bitch.
Would you leave that to go find another man who's just gonna cheat on you anyways?
Because every man cheats.
I'm telling you right now.
They all do.
They all do.
So whether you know it or whether you don't, your man's fucking another bitch.
Except for Dave.
For sure.
Like 99%.
He's an honest man.
Would you submit to that man?
I would still submit.
Because if I'm in love with you, and I know, like, in all honesty, it's just what it is.
Like you said, all men cheat, which is possibly true.
And women all cheat too.
That's true.
Yes, they do.
Shut up.
They have the potential to.
The potential, but all don't, though.
No, they don't.
If they're in love and they're taken care of.
Absolutely.
How little respect do you have to have for yourself to consent to that and allow something like that to happen to you?
Allow somebody to tell you to your face that you are literally not worth me sacrificing my own selfish desires?
But can you admit though, ultimately speaking, the guy that's going to say to you, oh yeah, I know what you know, I'm only going to be with you.
Maybe it'll cross his mind, right?
But not everybody who looks at other women who even loves after other women or finds other women desirable, right?
Because it's a fallacy to believe that if you're going to be with somebody for three months, three years, 30 years, it's a fallacy to believe that they're not going to be attracted to other people.
Sure.
Correct.
So I can accept that, you know, especially when I'm like in my 40s and my man is in his 50s, that he's going to look at other women and be like, damn, that's a fine piece of ass.
Okay.
Like, all right.
Like, I can accept that because I'm not ignorant.
But for somebody to tell me to my face that I... Because this is the subtitles, right?
You're not worth me staying faithful to you even though I love you.
For somebody to tell me that to my face, I don't think...
Yeah, hold on.
Do you want a guy that's taller than you?
Huh?
Do you want a guy that's taller than you?
That's taller than me?
Yes.
Does he make more money than you?
He does.
Is he more competent than yourself?
In what capacity?
Is he, I guess, has a better awareness of the world and how things really work?
He's more competent than yourself.
He's able to lead and guide you.
Well, he's older than me, so yeah, I would expect that.
So yes, and you want these things, right?
Is he stronger than you physically?
Uh, yes.
So, how about this?
You need to put your selfish desires aside and go ahead and date a guy that makes the same amount of money as you, as tall as you, so y'all can share clothes and get along, and go ahead and get a guy that's at your level of competence.
How does that sound?
Um, abrasive, but...
No, no, no, no, no.
How does that sound?
Foolish, doesn't it?
No, it just sounds like you love who you love.
You don't get to choose who you love.
Like...
You know, sometimes you take people that are as tall as you, or shorter than you, and like, if you love them, then, you know...
Look, look, look.
Hold on, I was in the middle of what I was saying.
No, because you're a bunch of bullshit.
You're not gonna love the man and actually give a fuck about him unless he meets certain prerequisites.
He's got to be at a point where maybe he's got to be tall enough for you, make enough money for you, have enough confidence for you, have enough ambition for you.
You see a future with him.
Then you've got to go ahead and give a fuck about his personality.
But he's got to meet these requirements first.
No, everybody has standards, though.
Everybody has standards, no matter what they are.
That's fine.
But look, the point I'm trying to make is this.
You said that it's selfish for men to want to have sex with other women, right?
But what if I told you that's hardwired- I'm not saying that it's selfish for men to want to have sex with other women.
Wait, let's really say that a second ago.
No, I'm saying that it's selfish for them to actually go and do it.
If you want to have sex with other women, I can understand that.
Okay, by that logic, then it's selfish for you to want a man that's taller than you, makes more money than you, more confident, more ambitious than you.
But here's the thing.
We don't demonize what women want in men.
These are hardwired things.
You were born that way, where you want the man to have these things in place.
I'm the person that I ended up with because I love and care about him.
But if you notice, right?
You wouldn't have cared and loved him if he did not have these prerequisites first.
See, this is what I try to say about women.
No offense.
But women lack critical thinking skills.
He would not qualify and you wouldn't even have given him a chance had he not brought these things to the table first.
But I named my red flags already.
I'm sorry.
Can you listen for two seconds?
What I'm saying is that these are your hard-wired preferences.
Tall than you, makes more money than you, competent, older than you, more world experience, etc.
Fine!
You are within your prerogative to want these things, and most women do.
I'm not knocking you for it.
But what I'm saying is that, why is it that we don't call women selfish for what they want?
Why is it that we don't demonize what women want?
You know what?
Lower your fucking standards.
Just get with a regular guy.
That's your height.
Share clothes.
Lower it.
Settle.
We never tell women this fucking bullshit, but we tell men, settle.
Get one girl.
You should be happy with one chick.
Blah, blah, blah.
Why the fuck am I going to bust my ass, go through life as a man, which is way harder than a woman, by the way, make this money, get this status, become the man that I become to fuck one bitch.
Because y'all ain't settling.
Why the fuck should I? It's crazy to me how women will never settle.
They want a guy better than them in every regard.
Then they expect that man to treat them like an equal.
Fuck out of here.
If I bust my ass to make this money, become successful, bitch, you're on my program.
I'm gonna fuck other bitches.
I'm gonna do what I want to do because I had to work to get here.
You didn't have to work to get to where you're at because you got me.
And I am dating down.
That's how it is.
This is how all men think.
But we sit here somehow and let women have their preferences.
Oh, you're selfish for going out fucking other girls.
But if the tables were turned, yeah, it would never give us a chance if we're a fucking nobody.
You're hype making your money.
I have a question.
So why the hell should we go ahead and prioritize what women want, but what the men want is always demonized?
Why do you got to go out there and get other bitches?
Why do you got to go out there and fuck other bitches?
Because I busted my ass and earned this.
Fuck out of here, man.
This is crazy to me.
I mean, but you should...
We are not the same.
Women want a superior, so I'm going to behave superior.
I do what the fuck I want to do.
You stay your ass at home.
You don't fuck no other body else.
That's how it goes.
That's how it goes.
My way or the fucking highway.
Go back to the streets and fuck a regular guy if you want.
But once you get a guy's status, this is how it goes.
I do what I want.
Fuck what you think.
So do you date down?
Or like, can you date somebody that's more superior than you?
Like a woman that makes more than you, that's more...
Like, no, for real.
Can you handle dating a woman that makes more, more, you know...
99% of women don't.
But I'm saying, can you handle that?
Are you attracted to that?
Can you be with someone like that?
Saying, can you handle that?
Does that make you insecure?
So saying, can you handle that and does that make you insecure is like presupposing a certain set of values on me or on us as men.
Men don't find A hyper successful financial woman attractive.
That's not what we're hardwired to find attractive.
So it's not that we can't handle it.
It's that we don't find it attractive.
So you're assuming that like we should find it attractive, but that's not how it works.
Do you care about what a woman brings to the table?
Yes, but I'm not looking for a woman to financially support me.
I'm looking for her to bring other things to the table.
Is that dating down then?
In the sense of these statistics, yes.
Because for a man, a lot of times, like, we all, there's women want men that are attractive.
Men want women that are attractive.
But our list of things is more, she's attractive, she's pleasant, she follows Miley, she's loyal.
So that's settling then.
No, the difference is, like, what we're looking for, like, what's attractive to men and what's attractive to women is two totally different things.
Because what's attractive to women are things that tend to be given, right?
Your looks, your youthfulness, your feminine energy.
The things that women find attractive to men, they're not given to us.
That shit is years of hard work and experience.
It's a different set of things.
Yeah, it's like...
You want a man that's tall and strong and handsome and smells good and provides for you and takes care of you, but is going to stand up for you.
Men don't need a woman that's a loud mouth that's going to fight and protect someone.
You know what I'm saying?
They want someone that's quiet and soft and feminine, and they don't really care if she works or not.
You don't work if you want to, but you don't have to.
He doesn't care if you're a bartender or you are a Stupid.
Lawyer.
I don't know.
I mean, the whole term, handle, I mean, why the hell should I have to handle a woman?
Because last I checked as a man, I already got to go out and handle the world.
So why would I want to come home and handle my girl?
Women that make a lot of money a lot of times are fucking annoying if I'm going to be all the way a thousand.
They, very combative, assertive, dominant, non-agreeable.
Oh, my opinion on this?
Fuck your opinion.
Who cares?
Men lead, women follow.
There's a reason why men want sex silence in their sandwiches.
Female opinions really don't matter.
And as a matter of fact, my friends around shut the fuck up even more.
Don't talk.
But the thing is that we don't have these raw, real conversations with women because we let women think that they're equal to men.
The reality is you're not equal.
We don't give a fuck what you think.
Just be hot.
Be pleasant.
Don't be a whore.
Don't embarrass me.
You'll be able to lock a guy down.
But men are okay with dating down.
So since we're okay with dating down, right?
You gotta follow our program.
So she can't have a mind for herself?
It sounds like you want to be controlling and manipulative a little bit.
The word handle.
Are you an animal?
Why do I want to handle you?
I'm just saying, as a couple, I'll handle the bills.
I'll handle the hard work and the labor.
Just handle the family.
That's it.
I'll handle the house.
That's it.
The family?
The food.
It's a traditional gender role.
Well, but here's the thing.
Even the high-earning, successful, high-earning females, they still want to find a guy who's making more than them.
And that's what kind of disproves all this shit.
Yep, that's true.
Yeah, like you're saying, would you date a woman that makes more than you?
Realistically speaking, a woman that makes more than me wouldn't care to date me in the first place.
Because women are terrible people when they have leverage.
Women aren't trying to be the provider.
Women that make a lot of money a lot of the times think that they deserve a guy that makes the same amount of money, if not more.
Because women are not like men, where men will go ahead and date down a girl and turn a fucking bum into a princess.
A girl that's a princess or a queen would never look a bum's way.
So, since men can elevate a woman's status, That comes with certain...
The thing is, girls want to be able to get everything and have it all.
That's just not how the world works.
If you want a guy that's a winner, you're going to have to deal with winner problems.
That's going to be...
Other chicks are going to want him.
You're not going to have him all the time.
He's going to be busy.
He's going to be working.
He's not going to be able to give you all the attention that you want.
If you want all the attention that you want, get a bum.
Well, girls don't want that.
I think you're categorizing women into, like, just one thing because there's some women that, like, actually, like, go by their feelings and they, like, fall in love with people and they don't have, like, any status or, you know, any money or anything.
They get hurt.
They feel bad.
A woman loves a guy that doesn't have status, which you're trying to say, blah, blah, blah?
Yeah.
Yeah, like, they just fall in love because they like them.
Yeah, and then they become raging bitches and annoying, and they nag you.
Get a job!
Oh my god!
No, this is facts because that was my old relationship.
Like, yeah, girls can fall in love with a bum, but then they become a raging, nagging, annoying bitch.
Like, it's a terrible existence for the man.
Because the more inadequate the man is, the more the woman has to compensate because he's inadequate, and then she's got to get in her masculine.
Get a job!
What are you doing?
We're struggling with the bills!
Blah, blah, blah.
Every girl deep down wants a guy that just has it handled and she can just sit back and be pretty.
But that comes at a cost.
You don't tell me what to fucking do.
The man leads, the woman follows.
But the thing is that no one puts their foot down and tells girls to shut up anymore.
Y'all say a lot of dumb shit.
At the top of the show, y'all contradicted yourselves, said a bunch of retardedness.
Y'all think you can lead a relationship?
Fuck out of here.
Like, y'all don't even know what you want to eat for dinner.
And to your point, you are right.
It just happened that way, but let's grow here.
That whole dynamic ends pretty fast because it doesn't last long.
So yeah, she may date that guy for a period of time, but he's a bum.
She's gonna be miserable.
She's not gonna respect him.
She's gonna be annoying.
When women are in a breadwinner position, they're terrible people.
They're terrible people, bro.
They're nagging you.
They're annoying you.
It's hell on earth.
But when a man's in a breadwinner position, the girl's feminine.
She's more submissive.
She'll follow your lead.
She won't be as annoying.
It is what it is.
And the thing, too, you guys might not like this.
When a guy has multiple girls, women tend to behave a bit more.
They act right.
Because they know, damn, he could replace me tomorrow if I act up.
And that gets girls in line.
That's the only way women really respect you, is you being able to leave them.
And how high would you say the self-worth of that woman is?
What do you mean?
Like a woman who's dealing with, or who's, you know...
Who wants to, you know, sign up for something like that and sign up for that kind of treatment?
How high would you say her self-worth is?
Well, this is where women have to come to reality and understand that you guys are not as special as you think you are.
The reality is the things that make a woman attractive, being beautiful, young, not a pain in the ass, follow my lead, it's pretty common.
It's pretty common.
There's a lot of chicks out there turning 18 every single day that aren't going to be annoying.
However, how many guys are tall enough for you?
Make enough money for you?
Confident, ambitious, don't stink, look good, etc.
Very few, aren't there?
But that's not necessarily...
I don't know if you're asking me or if you're asking what I think regarding all women.
Because women have different values depending on who you ask.
Okay, women are not as special as you think.
They're all chasing a very similar demographic of men.
Well, yeah, that's why the dude who's fucking everybody is fucking everybody.
Exactly.
Because they're fucking all the same girls.
That's a low value, man.
Because what women want is way more linear than you guys think.
You guys think you're special and you're different.
Y'all are all very similar.
We've interviewed 2200, y'all.
Women want pretty much the same things in all guys.
Now, is there variance in maybe a little bit of the way they look, maybe the way they dress, their style?
Of course.
But in general, women are looking for the same things.
Security, provisioning, strength, height.
Smelly good to a degree.
Charismatic, charming.
There's a reason why Fifty Shades of Grey is the most popular book.
Women are looking for the same fucking traits.
It's just that y'all lie and say you're special.
You're not!
You guys really are.
Men aren't special either.
Men aren't special either.
That's not my argument, though, is that women are special.
I mean, even though the odds of any of us even being born at this time to the parents that we're born to, looking the way that we look is like one in like 400 billion or whatever.
No, but you're arguing, right?
You're arguing like, oh, a girl doesn't know her self-worth, blah, blah, blah.
What I'm saying is that your self-worth isn't as high as you think it is because what you want in a man is much rarer than what women provide.
The things that men look for are common, so therefore you can be replaced easier.
But wouldn't that mean that your standards are lower?
If all you're looking for are those good things?
Men are simple.
Yeah, very simple.
Men are simple.
Welcome.
We don't need much.
We don't need much.
Who am I going to go with?
Am I going to go with the 27-year-old law student who's annoying as fuck and smart or whatever?
Or am I going to go with the 18-year-old that's young, attractive, not a whore, and not annoying?
I'm going to go probably with the 18-year-old.
Okay, so then I guess in your opinion, then like women don't have anything to offer besides those four things?
No, no, no.
I never said that.
What I'm saying is that the things that make a man happy are easy to find.
Peace.
So therefore, women need to understand this and know that you guys are not as special as you think you are.
Get on the man's program and if you're with a guy that's a winner, you need to understand that there's way less of him than there is of you.
But isn't, but so there's no, so it's either bum or loser.
Is this not a spectrum?
What?
That's the same thing.
What do you mean?
What do you mean by bum?
Sorry, bum or winner.
These are the only two categories that men are put into.
The bums are going to fuck other bitches too.
You're just not going to know.
The bums are going to fuck other bitches too.
Men typically are only faithfuls or options.
Can I give an example?
Because I experienced this.
Yeah, sure.
Then we gotta hit the charts after this.
I did a guy for seven and a half years.
Very average.
Loved him very much.
Was in love.
Was the emotions thing.
No one else existed to me.
That was it.
Wanted to marry him, have his kids, blah blah.
But he wanted to run around and do whatever he wanted.
Gambling.
We were struggling to pay for things and he's gambling at the casino, wasting his money on garbage, racking up credit card bills.
That's disgusting.
That's unattractive.
So, like, Well, to be fair, I think that a lot of relationships with weaker dudes create a lot of the problems because if a girl is in a relationship with a weaker dude where she has to grind, she has to provide the money.
And now I have to guide you and I have to say like...
And she's also playing the mom role.
Now when she leaves that, even if she meets a high-value guy at first, she has some of these bad habits kind of ingrained because she had to, in the previous relationship, have some of that masculine energy.
so to be fair to women a lot of these problems maybe started with weaker dudes who set the tone and a girl feels like oh i have to overcompensate now because i had to in my last relationship yes which is facts because then i met a high value guy and ruined it and scared him away because i was doing all these masculine energy needy nagging arguing bossing him around that i had to do in my last relationship because i had to pick up the slack where he was lacking like I was having to try and pick up and lead when he wasn't because 99% of the time he wasn't leading and it was very hard.
And even when I had to walk away from that, I still left him very much.
It was hard for me to walk away, but it was just not working.
And then I lost a very good high value person that probably would have took care of me for a very long time.
But wait, what did you have to nag him about if he's like a high-value guy?
No, no, no, no, no.
I'm talking about the problem.
So I lost the high-value guy because I had all this masculine energy in my head that that's how I thought relationships were supposed to be because that was like my first serious relationship is the one with a weaker guy, right?
What didn't he like?
What made him go away, if you don't mind?
Who?
The high value guy?
I was argumentative.
I was rude.
I was demanding of things.
I was nagging him all the time, complaining about everything, making his life more difficult.
Men want a woman to be their piece, not to give them more stress, especially an entrepreneur, CEO, people that are very high value and deal with a lot of stress in their work environment, in their day-to-day life with other men and money situations.
When they come home to you and they're dealing with their woman, they don't want more stress.
So if you're adding stress to their life, like, sayonara.
They don't want to deal with it.
And they're not going to.
I know we could hit the super chats.
The only thing I'll add is advice for guys out there is you still need to try it.
Because a lot of times girls will come bring this energy up front.
From my experience, if you set strong boundaries, put a girl in their place up front, a lot of girls will do a 180 and then relax more into your masculine energy.
So just because a girl has this energy, like the first or second date, it's not necessarily, if other things seem promising, it's not a reason just to write her off.
At least try and set a few boundaries, see how that goes.
To your point, you can't turn it around.
It might be a headache, but you can.
You said it from the very beginning.
You've got to craft the relationship.
You've got to create it.
Yeah, I mean, because you were saying, like, how did that happen or whatever.
And this is what I mean when I say a lot of times guys have to deprogram bad habits out of girls.
Because, you know, ladies, I feel for you.
There's a lot of guys out there that are not ambitious.
They don't have their shit together.
They try to get you to do things, and they don't even know where the fuck they're going in life.
I understand that there's a lot of losers out there.
That leads you astray.
But it's on you as the girl to be able to figure out, okay, this guy's not decisive.
I'm making a lot of decisions here.
This guy probably isn't the one.
And you've got to be smart enough to understand your place as a woman that you shouldn't be leading.
If you're leading, you already lost.
What are you doing?
You know what I mean?
Or if a guy's bumming off you, whatever.
Like, girls got to be able to exercise critical thinking skills.
You and the man are not equal.
If you're going ahead and making a lot of decisions, you're paying bills, or you're taking care of him, you really need to rethink what the hell you're doing.
And God forbid you give him a kid.
Alright, so from this point forward, guys, we're going to read 100 and up, but I'll read all these that came through, so thank you so much.
Wyatt goes, ladies, what's the most crazy thing you've been offered or got away with just for being a woman?
Bro, you already know this is going to be a bunch of shit.
Blackish Panther, let's start the show with a classy reality check.
Ladies, name a celeb you consider a 10 and looks only.
Now rate yourself from a scale of 1 to 10.
Let me keep going through here.
Master Channel goes...
Sorry, Master Hansel.
Ladies, what does loving yourself mean to you?
I keep hearing women need to have a journey in order to find slash love yourself.
Don't you love yourself automatically?
Also, how does loving yourself help you find a man?
You got a lot of self-love.
Yeah, bro.
I mean, dude.
When girls, a lot of times when they say I'm going to go on a healing journey or whatever, that typically means fucking a bunch of dudes.
Saying that a man is insecure for not wanting a woman with a high body count is like a man saying that a woman is insecure for not wanting an abusive man.
If she was secure, an abusive man wouldn't intimidate her.
Thoughts?
Yeah, I mean, it is what it is.
Ladies, do you think women with high body counts respect themselves?
No.
Raise your hands if anyone thinks that a girl that does have a high body count respects herself.
And does it?
Wait.
No kidding.
She does respect herself with a high body count.
So, yeah, I'll say no.
Okay.
Question, ladies.
What do you bring to the table besides you know what?
Let me keep going here.
Screw naming three countries.
Can you name three sports teams?
Miami Heat, Dolphins.
If you had a dollar for every time Chris is late, I'll be on Money Mondays by now.
Poopy Puppy goes, Myron, I know content is nice, but to progress the final goal, you got to shut down the idiotic thoughts before a total manifestation that leads you to argument semantics versus the root cause.
Myron, women have an issue, bimbo, but men, be the better debater.
That's confusing.
Poopy Puppy!
You know what, man?
How about this?
I'm going to take the fresh route.
Start your podcast and go ahead and debate that, man.
Let's see how you do it.
There you go.
Crazy, bro.
Byron got a rock.
Just captured Nate with my watermelon drink and fried chicken trap.
Got leech in the cage right now.
What should I do with him, chat?
Shout out to you, my friend.
Play Just Dance.
Yeah, Play Just Dance on Lady Gaga.
Chris Gannon is back blown out by his master.
Ow!
Ow!
Anus and Reach Bloman.
Instead of rating 1 to 10, we need to bag or tag.
Let's bring back the paper bags for some of these taco hoes.
Shorty got a 5 o'clock shadow with W Fresh to Fit for content.
L to the pick of the litter.
Shorty with the scruff.
What are you talking about?
All right.
Call me.
Scott goes, I landed in Cartagena yesterday.
How should I deal with women in a different culture without coming off as a typical angry American?
The Colombians seem pretty chill, but residual RP rage makes it seem like I'm just an asshole without reason.
But really, I'm just maintaining.
Are you mad at Colombian girls?
They're not American girls, by the way.
And secondly, bro, you're Colombian.
They're super peaceful and feminine.
Just relax, bro.
It is what it is.
And ultimately, bro, what are you there for?
Obviously, you want to smash girls.
Why get mad?
Yeah, bro.
Stop getting mad at girls for what they're never going to be to you, which is an idealistic lover.
Get this romantic bullshit out of your head.
Girls don't love you for you.
They love you for what you provide.
Once you accept that, you're going to be okay.
And if you're worried, bro, use Google Translate.
Thank you.
So yeah, man, you gotta, bro, you can't hate women for what they'll never be to you.
We teach you guys this stuff, not so that you get mad at women, you get so that you understand them.
You get it?
Like girls are opportunistic lovers.
I know some of you ladies might not like me saying that, but women are opportunistic lovers.
The guy has to provide value for you to even give him a chance, right?
I know you over here saying like, oh, but I like my guy, but you wouldn't like them if he wasn't in finance, making money taller than you, more competent.
You wouldn't even give him a chance.
There's plenty of nice homeless guys.
Why don't you talk to them?
Is that a real question?
That's my point.
I did have a question for the guys.
Because women sit there and say, oh, I like a guy for his personality.
That's a bunch of cap.
He's got to have certain things in place for you to give a fuck about his personality.
Well, we both have the same level of degree.
So that's just something that I can respect.
The fact that he's taller than me.
But he's still superior to you.
In what way?
In every way that I describe.
He's taller than you, stronger than you, makes more money than you.
He's superior to every metric, which is okay.
Is he superior to me because he's taller than me and he's a man?
Or is every person who's taller than me superior to me?
Well, I'm talking about a bunch of things.
He's superior to physically, mentally, financially, superior to in every way.
From a dating standpoint.
Which is okay because that's what women look for.
I'm not knocking you for it.
I'm just saying that's how women may select.
They don't look for an equal.
They look for a superior.
Wait, mentally?
What makes you say mentally, though?
Because we don't know if she's actually smarter than him.
He's more competent than him.
He's more competent than her.
If someone's made more money, built themselves up more physically, had more experience in life, there's some mental aspect there, right?
Yeah, I feel like when it comes to knowing the world, he's probably smarter than me.
He's superior to in every way.
Here's the thing.
Women want a guy who's better than them.
Then they want to be able to sit there and say it's an equal partnership.
No!
The guy is better than you.
See the fucking lunacy with females?
You want a guy that's better than you in every regard.
Don't sit there and say, no, we're equal.
No, you're not.
He's better than you in everything, which is okay.
That's what women look for.
Women don't look for an equal.
So, that's how I... The thing is this.
I'm just vocalizing it.
For you, it's like mind-blown.
Like, wait, hold on.
Are you saying he's better than me and everything?
Yes, he is, which is why you're with him in the first place.
Women don't look for their equal.
They look for a superior.
And my thing is, I'm just saying, if I'm a man and I'm superior to you in every way, and I'm the leader in the relationship, I get certain perks and privileges that you don't because you're just subordinate.
I'm the fucking boss.
You're an employee.
That's just how it goes.
But most guys don't have the balls to tell women this shit.
Well, people commonly say women date up, right?
That's a common thing people say.
This is just the full-length explanation of that.
Yeah, pretty much.
I find it crazy that women will sit there and say, I want an equal partnership.
Get the fuck out of here.
No, you don't.
You want a guy that's better than you in everything.
Unless you don't get that equal partnership, it ends.
Yeah, women never seek their equal.
I have a question for the guys.
When do you know when you are in love with a woman?
What is it?
What's the...
How do you know when you're in love with her?
What is it?
I can't speak for every man, but I don't know that's how most men think.
I think a healthy way that at least happened in my relationship was just slowly investing more and more as things seem more and more promising across multiple fronts.
So I don't know.
the concept of falling in love is an abstract one.
So I guess it's hard to give like a concrete answer to that.
I don't think men should ever fall in love with women.
Women got to fall in love with the guy.
The guy's got to have love for the girl.
But when men fall in love with women, that's when crazy shit starts to happen.
Cause it's like, okay, now I'm going to be ruled by my emotions.
I'm going to do what feels right versus what actually is right.
Like women can have the privilege of falling in love and being all emotionally attached.
I think for women, that's very important because women are ruled by their emotions.
But as a guy, obviously love your girl, right?
But being in love with her is a problem because now you lose deductive problems, zombie skills.
You're more concerned with how you feel versus what's real.
And when you love a girl, a lot of times that's when guys do stupid shit.
I think when that girl has a desire for you that's healthy, sexual, that's one.
And then two, she's following your program.
She's coachable.
All right, my man wants this.
I'm going to do this.
I think the effort along with the desire goes a long way.
And over a period of time, you have love for that girl.
The girl has to love the man way more than he loves her.
I was just about to ask you that.
Do you think in order for the relationship to work, does the woman have to love the man more or does the man have to love the woman more?
The woman absolutely has to love the man more and the reason why is because women constantly want to upgrade.
They want to get the best man that they can get.
The only way that a girl is going to be truly satisfied in a relationship is when she's chasing her man, not the other way around.
Chasing him?
Yes.
Or are pursuing him.
You want to ensure he doesn't go.
When the woman feels like she has the best guy that she can get, everyone else is invisible to her.
Yes.
But, if she's in a relationship where she's kind of just settling, right, Then other guys are still visible and she is looking to upgrade to a degree.
She might not enact on it, but the eye is going to be going around.
So for a woman to be the most loyal, she has to feel like she has the best option that she can get.
And the only way for that to happen is she has to like him more.
In other words, the man's got to be pedestalized, not the girl.
When a girl is pedestalized, she thinks that she's better than the man.
And when a woman feels that she's better than her man, that's when the terrible things happen.
Yeah.
Here's an example.
Let's say you're dating a guy, right?
And all you can think about is him.
What's he doing?
Where's he at?
Oh my God, is he going to call me?
That's like your focus on him.
Versus he's calling me all the time.
Damn, this nigga annoying.
I can't wait to get rid of this nigga.
It's kind of like that and I'm right there.
Think about it.
You would love him.
So you want to chase him.
We'll keep it simple.
Who do you think during the course of their life gets more gifts?
Men or women?
Women.
Women.
Okay.
During the course of their life, who do you think gets more compliments?
Men or women?
Women.
Okay.
During the course of their life, who do you think gets more appreciation just for being their gender?
Women.
Hey, y'all!
Women, right?
Yeah.
So would it be fair to say that a girl that's attractive gets all of these things in abundance and doesn't value it to the same degree?
Right?
It happens all the time, so it's like, ah, another Tuesday, right?
Yeah.
Okay.
See, this is why women can't be in a leadership role, because women don't appreciate things that are given to them.
So when guys simp on them, pedestalize them, etc., women's natural response is, I get this all the time, I don't appreciate it.
However, when a man is being simped on, being treated well, etc., he actually grows to appreciate it.
A guy might go through his entire life, 30 years old, been complimented three times.
If that, or maybe never by a woman.
Some guys get to 30 and they're a virgin.
So men tend to operate a lot better when they get validation and appreciation for women.
But women a lot of times, especially if she's bad, they get it all the time.
They don't appreciate it.
This is why the man's got to be in the leadership role.
We know how to appreciate genuine care, desire, etc.
because women don't.
Y'all need a guy to be an asshole to you guys.
That's why women love assholes so much.
When I'm an asshole, it takes you off your pedestal.
I'm not valuing you to the same degree that simps do.
Women only value when you don't value them to the same degree.
That's how it goes.
It sucks, but that's female nature.
That's why bad boys win, right?
Bad boys are no fun.
They're the best.
They are the best.
I don't want to hear it.
Alejandro Esteban goes, hi bros, I'm Cuban, got my business, own my rental, down 20 pounds of too much.
Shout out to you guys.
Shout out to you, my friend.
Yeah, being fed is unacceptable.
First super chair after watching for a year now and liking every video from a year and watching older clips.
Flight attendants are known to be thoughts like nurses because they literally get around.
Do you have anything you want to say back to them?
Hell yeah.
Fuck you because that's not true.
I just know a couple thoughts but you know they girls the girls you know.
I'm curious to see how you take notes.
Can we see your notebook?
Man, you can't even read those notes.
Yeah, it's kind of fucked up handwriting, bro.
Yeah, we don't know what he's saying, bro.
Okay, when you guys say, don't be vulnerable, this is what they mean.
We got pulled over, my lady was scared, and got emotional afterwards.
Regardless of if I was scared or not, I'm not allowed to be, nor should I show I was in that moment.
Yep, fair enough.
Rams goes, I do this and I believe if it does, ask the ladies if when a man is honest and straightforward from the very start, is it respectful or disrespectful?
Respectful.
Oh, really?
We want that.
Hey, just so you know, I want to only have sex with you.
I don't want to take you seriously.
I'm going to have other girls on the rotation.
Are you okay with that?
Thank you, next.
See, that's why guys aren't honest.
No.
But that's not every woman, though.
But then you're going to get a bad reaction.
But this is why guys aren't honest with girls.
What if a girl wanted to do the same thing with you?
I would appreciate it.
So you're going to go out and fuck a bunch of dudes?
No.
So it's not the same?
No, but let's say you want that guy and you don't want a serious relationship right now at the moment and you only want to have sex with that person and that person wants to only have sex with you and you don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend.
What's wrong with that?
Check this, right?
Ten girls in a room.
He says that to ten girls.
How many are actually going to go for it?
One or two maybe?
Yeah.
So why not just like get all 10?
No.
The odds are not in my favor.
Yeah, women can't handle the truth, which is why men lie.
Yeah.
They can handle it, but they don't have to comply with it.
Otherwise, my mind won't mess.
Yeah, it's true.
Women decide if they want to stay with you or not.
Why should they have to just say yes just because you're honest?
If I'm going to significantly reduce my ability to fuck girls by being honest, why would I be honest?
Yeah, why?
I mean, that's up to you and whatever you believe your maker is.
How about this?
You don't wear makeup for two months.
Let's see what happens.
Would you be okay with that?
Yeah.
I do it every day.
I mean, sure.
I don't wear makeup on a day-to-day.
Man.
Y'all lie to yourselves and you be lying to us.
That's why y'all wear makeup every day.
No!
That's true.
That's bad for your skin.
Question slash statement for the ladies.
Most women say they'll be submissive for the right guy, but what if the right guy is waiting to be the right guy for the woman that's submissive?
So he's saying in a nutshell, most women are masculine on certain points, and then they say, oh, I want a man that's going to be a leader.
But that man as leader is like, yo, if you're masculine, I don't want you.
So why not just be submissive all the time?
Danger.
There you go.
She's building herself.
So that consists of a little masculine energy.
Like when you starting a business or trying to apply for a job, you got to like hustle.
You know what I'm saying?
You don't want to not be a bum, you know, and not be able to take care of yourself.
So I feel like that does consist of a little masculine energy, which could be healthy for the relationship.
Because even though you're the breadwinner, I could bring bread to the table too, you know, but not as much.
But you know what I'm saying?
Okay, but why?
Okay, real talk.
Do you really believe that?
Because what's going to happen is, you're going to pay half the bills?
I've done that before, but I felt like it was a roommate situation and I didn't like that, no.
That's the whole point.
Okay, I mean, I see what you're saying, but like, you know, if I can help contribute, why wouldn't I want to do that?
Because you don't want to.
I don't mind, though.
You literally said two seconds ago, I did do it, and I didn't like it.
You don't mind, but you prefer not to.
You know, I wouldn't mind doing it.
It's just like...
That is exactly why we don't give a fuck how much money y'all make, because when you guys make money, it doesn't matter.
We don't benefit.
Yep.
Y'all don't want to share your resources anyway.
So if I'm going to deal with a girl, right, that doesn't want to share her money anyway, I might as well go ahead and get a bad trick that's not going to give me a headache.
Because y'all don't want to share money anyway.
Why am I going to deal with a girl?
Oh, I make 100k a year, but I'm going to be a raging bitch and pay half the bills but annoy you all the time.
Fuck that shit.
I'd rather just take care of a girl that's not going to give me a headache if I have the money.
A lot of guys deal with masculine-ass women because they don't have the choice.
Mm-hmm.
They have to deal with that shit because they gotta go half and half on bills.
Like, they can't afford to live by themselves or they can't afford to support their girl.
So, hey, babe, sorry, you gotta work.
But if you gave every guy a chance, hey, bro, if you made enough money and your girl didn't have to work, would you take it and she could just stay at home?
They prefer that shit.
Yeah.
Because then she's not gonna be as annoying.
Girls that work are annoying.
I like to be a little busy.
You're annoying.
Okay, all right.
Go ahead.
Or at least girls that work like a serious career are annoying.
There you go.
Broward County Firefighter goes, pleasure meeting you guys at your live show.
Looking forward to the next one, ladies.
At what age do you think is a good age to settle down with the man you want?
What values would you bring to that man?
Okay, you know what?
We'll just go around the table real quick.
Age, and then we'll have the other chat safe.
Age, you should settle down with the guy.
The woman's age or the man's age?
I think...
The woman's age, I think.
I think the woman's.
Yeah, with the man you want.
Late 30s?
Goddamn.
As a woman?
No, no.
That's okay.
What about you?
What about you?
At what age you can get married?
Yeah, what age should you settle down?
Yeah, pretty much.
Yeah, I think maybe 30.
Okay.
Okay.
That's kind of hard to answer.
My mom didn't have me until she was in her 30s, so I would say 30s as well.
But then again, I feel like now would be a good time, but I'm not ready for that commitment.
I'm about to be 26 next month, and I wish that I was already married.
Like, I wish I would have started looking for something...
Well, I mean, I was in a serious relationship when I was 23, I guess.
But I wish I would have, like, settled down with the right person then.
I get married when I was 26, and it's a good age.
It's good?
Yeah.
Like, okay.
Honestly, I don't think there's such a number.
I think it depends on the...
I think it depends on the person, on the guy that you meet.
I don't think there's such a thing with a number.
An age.
Yeah.
What about you?
What age do you think is optimal for a girl to settle down?
I'd probably say like mid-20s.
Mid-20s?
Okay.
What about you?
I'd say around 30.
Around 30?
Okay.
Yeah, like 24, 25, honestly.
I would have already been settled.
Like, I would want to also be married, too.
I'm not going to lie.
Now, let me ask you guys a question.
What age do you think men want a girl?
Young.
I mean, you keep saying 18, so I'm assuming 18, 19, 20, right?
Don't worry about me.
No, what do you think?
What do you think?
That's what I'm assuming.
That's what I've been, like, looking online on the internet.
You always see, like, guys want younger girls.
Okay.
What about you, Miss Italy?
I think from 18 to 25.
Okay.
What about you?
I'd probably say early 20s, like, you know, between like 21 to 23.
Okay.
So before 25, what about you?
Me too.
21 and 23.
Okay.
What about you?
Young 20s, like 21, 23.
What do you think men prefer?
I still don't know what age, but I feel like when a guy is able to provide is when he might be ready to settle.
No, but I'm asking at what age would he want the girl to be when he's at that age?
Oh, most likely in her 20s.
Okay.
What about you?
In the thirties?
I don't understand the question.
I'm sorry.
At what age do you think?
A que edad está lista para...
Como un hombre quiere casarse con una mujer.
Como que en que edad ellos quieren una mujer.
Pero para casarse.
Sí, para casarse.
Para estar con una mujer.
Pero no para novio.
No para casarse.
- It's not that hard.
At what age would a guy...
30.
She said 30?
Yes.
What about you?
Mid-20s.
Mid-20s.
25.
Okay.
So why the hell did you guys give the retarded answers you guys gave earlier when significantly younger than you guys said?
What?
All of you guys gave an age, which was a lot older.
I said, when do you think a woman should settle down?
Then I asked, when do you think a man wants a woman to settle down?
All of you guys gave an age that's a lot younger than what you said before.
I said the same age.
I said 21 to 23.
I said I wish I would have been married by 23.
Except for you.
But the rest of y'all gave significantly older ages.
I mean, I want to have fun.
I want to enjoy my life.
I want to travel before I have kids, before I get married.
Once you have kids...
I want to smoke weed and eat Cheetos!
Well, you see, I can smoke weed and still be active.
That's the thing.
No, no, no, no.
But, like, I'm going to smoke weed and eat Cheetos and get a bad bitch.
I deserve it, don't I? I don't know.
Like, no, you know, I just want to have fun.
I'm going to play video games, eat some Cheetos.
But that's not fun.
Listen, I wouldn't want to travel with my man, though, like, because they're going to pay for it.
You want to pay for your own trip?
I don't want to pay for my own trip.
I mean, no, you guys missed the point here.
Yeah, yeah.
What I'm saying is that I have to build myself up, right, to get the guy, to get the girl that I want.
Right.
Right?
I can't demand a bad bitch and be a bum.
So why is that you want to go and have your fun and get older and expect the man to settle down with you?
But you want to do the same thing.
Men and women don't age the same.
You lose value as you get older.
Facts.
Men get hotter as they get older.
I don't look for men in their 20s.
Mid-30s to late 30s.
They're hotter.
I hate them.
So the answer here is that ultimately, you don't care what men want.
You just care about what you want.
Yeah.
Just that exercise literally.
Like, we asked them first.
Man, y'all are easy.
Yo, we asked y'all.
Come on.
What age do you think women should settle?
You guys all gave these old ass answers.
Then we asked, what age do you think the man wants?
All of you gave way younger answers.
And then instead of saying, damn, wait, hold on, they got me.
I should probably go what the men want.
Y'all are like, nah, I want to have my fun and shit.
Do you realize that by having your fun, you're going to probably fuck yourself up and not get the man that you want?
How do you know he's the man, though?
You make the wrong choice.
Look, you have your preferences.
Just be aware.
I'm confused here because I'm literally saying, like, I'm asking them, like, wouldn't you want to have your fun, like, with your man?
And you're like, what?
Like, I'm crazy over here.
Here's the thing.
You're 25, but you weren't thinking that way at 20.
Yeah.
At 19?
You weren't thinking that way.
I was in a serious relationship at 20.
I didn't go out without my man when I was then.
From 17...
I get that.
To 24, I was in a relationship.
I get that.
But like a lot of girls that are younger, they'll be like, I want to have my fun.
I want to go out there and experience.
I want to do certain things.
And that's girls.
That's fine.
But, you know, I just find it amazing how like girls prioritize what they want out of life.
And then they think a guy's going to be sitting there at the finish line waiting for them.
I don't know.
It's kind of funny because it's like, If I decided to be a bum and not work on myself, y'all would never accept me.
But y'all think being a hoe and living your life and doing all this extra shit, living your life, right, as they say, like, I'm going to be there waiting for you.
Not a chance.
Well, now I settled down, like, when I was, like, what, like, 19?
I was in a serious relationship, and then now I'm, like, 27.
And...
Yeah, you're old.
Yeah, and now it sucks.
Now it ended.
Exactly, at 27.
And I started early.
So, it's like, what about, like, what happens to others?
How about this?
Let's say I won the lottery, right?
I won $10 million.
And I spent all that money, and then eight years later, I'm broke.
Whose fault is it?
Yours.
It's your fault.
Yeah.
Congratulations.
As a woman, by the time you turn 18, you literally have the lottery.
You have a million dollars to your name.
It's up to you to invest that money properly.
If you get to 30 and the casino closes, it's on you and you're down.
I don't think women understand that.
You guys have a certain amount of time to get the best guy that you can get.
And as you get older, yeah, some of y'all, the casino's already closed.
He got two doors?
Two doors left?
Or...
You can go to the casino down the street where you're not going to make as much money.
You might have to pay half and half.
You know what I mean?
When you take your winnings.
Oh, shit.
You know?
Okay.
IRS. Where are you at here?
Official IRS ratings.
Mariola, five.
Francesca, five.
Crystal, five.
Sarah, six.
Mary, six.
Alana, 6.5.
I like the way you gripped that pen.
Have you written anything with that pen?
Yeah, I have.
Okay, what'd you write on there?
Misogamy.
No, I'm not that ignorant.
Just a few notes so that I wouldn't forget my answers to the questions.
Okay.
Nice.
Sierra, four.
Alexandra, four.
Don't blink too fast with those...
Anybody disagree with those ratings?
No.
I'm definitely not a 5.
What do you rate yourself out of 10 then?
Out of 10, I would say 8 because there's still room for improvement.
Period.
8 out of 10 too?
Bro, an 8?
You're Puerto Rican.
But I'm not perfect.
Yeah, thanks.
So I can't be a 10.
Just from perspective, like an 8 is like a chick on a...
Like you're almost perfect.
Yeah, you're a model.
Like you're on a magazine somewhere.
Okay, so we're 5.
I'm good with 5.
Yeah, like 5 is average, 6 is attractive.
Everybody's average.
7 is hot.
8 is like really fucking hot.
9 is like damn near doesn't exist and the 10 is like doesn't exist.
People like using the 5 to 10 scale instead of the full 1 to 10 scale.
Yeah.
What would you rate us?
Oh shit.
Do you want me to do that?
Yes.
Absolutely.
You know what?
Based off intelligence, physical attraction.
He's a very man and successful.
You got it, David.
Yeah, Dave, you're ready.
And then we'll rate y'all, and then I'll go after.
Yeah, David.
You're like, fuck, man.
Fuck.
Damn.
Get me out of here.
I give...
Okay, so we'll just go through it.
6.5...
5...
5...
7...
6.5, 6.5, 5, 6.
Okay, that's fair.
Wait, her 5?
Me?
Yeah, you go first.
No, you.
He was more than a 5 to 10 scale, Chris.
5 to 10.
Yeah.
You go first.
Oh, man.
Okay.
I'll give you a smooth 6.5.
A what?
6.5.
I'll give you I thought I said like a 2.5 I'll give you a 6 I'll give you a 6 I'll give you a 0 Wait, I'm adding the kids here I'll give you a 6 Should we have the girl stand up so the audience knows?
No.
I'll give you a 6.
I'll give you a five.
I'll give you a six.
Fair.
Go on, bro.
Okay, so...
Everybody has six.
Don't try to sneak your way out of that one.
I'm going to rate you guys 1 to 10, just so you guys know.
1 is a fucking garden gnome.
2 is ugly.
3 is terrible.
4 is okay.
Whatever.
Maybe somewhat average.
5 is average.
6 is above average.
7 is attractive.
8 is hot.
9 is really fucking hot.
Then 10 is like perfection.
Understand that my scale is very honest.
We'll start with you.
I'll give you A five.
Give you...
a four.
I'll give you...
a three.
Okay, Simon.
Okay.
Hey, man.
I'll give you...
a six.
Six.
Five.
Four.
Three.
Three.
I'll give her a five.
Cool.
So yeah, just being honest.
And I'm going strictly off looks, not your personalities, etc.
That's fair.
Yeah, I mean, again, five is average, man.
No wrong with being average, ladies.
Most women are average.
They just don't want to admit that shit.
They don't want to say it.
And then six is above average, and then seven is higher.
I admit it.
I am average.
Man, women don't admit when they're average, bro.
They never do.
Every girl's a queen or a princess.
No, that's not true.
You have things to work on.
Nobody's perfect.
Bro, you should watch the show more.
Everyone that comes on here and says they're a 10.
Well, that's them.
Okay.
I mean, Chad, you want me to go?
Because you guys are saying that, but if not, I'll...
No, no.
Chris might care about your opinion.
You always want to be in the videos.
Yeah, bro.
Always be in the back.
Yeah.
Hot dog, hot.
So you're like, worse than Diddy, bro.
Salute to the entire FNF fam.
Highest quality and most consistent content in the game, and it ain't even close.
We got your back.
Appreciate that, bro.
Give y'all a bunch more guys than those fucking losers.
Yeah, he really is Dame Dash.
And your likes getting two paws.
Get the likes up, blubber lovers.
And that's right.
Call me G.S. Scott goes, ladies, call it when you want, but the fact is, whether you know about it or not, men do not cheat.
They simply enjoy the options they've worked long and hard to have.
G. Scott, okay.
He's basically saying men don't cheat, they just exercise options.
I just feel like cheat is the easiest word to use because that's what every woman is going to call it.
So I feel like when you're talking about it, that's what they're going to talk about.
We got two girls out here that are married.
If your guy cheated on you, would you leave him?
If he fucked another girl?
No.
You wouldn't leave?
Why not?
Por qué?
Because.
Por qué?
Because what?
Because we are married.
We don't need to be with another.
No, no.
No, pero él está preguntando que si te pegó los tarros.
Oh, before.
No, ahora.
Si él te pega los tarros, tú te quedas con él o tú lo dejas.
Ah, no.
Aquí, aquí, aquí.
You're leaving?
Yeah, for sure.
She's gone.
Yes.
Do you think you'll still be able to find another man to take you seriously at 40?
Sí.
¿Tú crees que otro hombre estaría contigo a los 40, que te pueda cuidar a los 40, cuando tú llegues a los 40?
I'm a businesswoman, so I don't need a man to pay for me.
We all need a man no matter what.
Yeah, but I for sure because I'm I know for sure some because not Right now, a lot of boys come to me because I'm in the fashion industry and I always go with Evans, Runways, and I have to say, no, I'm married, so I know for sure if I get separated, somebody can come with me.
Yeah, but would those men want you for you or would they just want to have sex?
Sex.
Someone translate this.
Solo, solo, esos muchachos solo te quieren por ti o por solo sexo?
No, for sure it's about, not just for sex.
For sure it's not about that.
Alright, female delusion once again.
Okay, what about you?
Would you leave your guy if he cheated on you?
Yes.
You will leave?
Yes.
Do you think you'll still be able to find another man to take you seriously at 37?
Yes.
Stop the cow!
Wow.
Yeah, for sure he is.
Why not?
Shit, I feel like the doors are closing on me.
I'm about to turn 30.
Dude, I'm gonna be 26.
I feel like I'm out of time.
I never hear about him before.
Y'all don't like your husbands that much, bro.
She gave a little smirk.
Y'all don't like your husbands that much.
You guys don't.
It's very obvious.
He can't tell me what to do.
He's got to love God, but he doesn't, so I'm still with him anyway.
Y'all, uh, they have placeholder husbands, man.
Guys, this is how you don't want your girl to be.
No, you want them to, like, fiercely have your back when you're not around.
Exactly.
exactly like y'all kind of you guys can tell her in Spanish she don't like her man that much and it's very obvious they don't care Yeah, but you know I have three kids with my husband, so that is the reason why we get well together.
For the kids.
I can respect that for the kids.
No, but I'm just like, bro, we don't fucking miss!
Yeah.
We don't miss, bro.
But that foundation is only the kids.
It's not only about that.
But when I get married, I decide to be with my husband till my kids are 18 years.
Then you're gone.
For sure.
So I have to...
Three more years, nigga.
Yeah.
You're going to wait till your kids are older and then you can't find a guy because you were there to be with your husband.
Maybe I can't even stay with my husband.
Maybe, maybe.
No, because you don't understand what I mean.
I have two kids.
I have two kids.
Let her say it in Spanish.
Go ahead and say it in Spanish and translate it.
Go ahead and say it in Spanish.
Okay, mira, les digo que no...
A ver, cuando yo me casé, yo decidí y mi esposo decidimos que vamos a estar juntos hasta que mis hijos sean grandes porque queremos darles un hogar con padres porque nosotros no tuvimos ese hogar.
Y cuando nos juntamos, para mí era muy triste no tener a mi padre cerca y a él también.
Entonces decidimos ser fuertes y enfocarnos en estar juntos.
What the fuck?
Exactly what you said.
She had kids and they both agreed upon when they got old enough, like 18 years old, that then they were separated.
They didn't want to be with each other.
But at least their kids grew up with them having a family.
I don't understand that.
No, no, no.
I mean, that's great that she prioritized duty.
But what I'm saying is that Clearly, and here's the thing.
I knew this at the beginning of the fucking show.
A woman is a mirror image of her man.
When a girl's with a guy that she really loves, admires, respects, when she talks about him, she's excited.
She's happy.
My man's a fucking boss.
I don't do nothing.
Like, I just blah, blah, blah.
Like, no offense to you, two ladies, but y'all don't really like your husbands that much.
It's very obvious.
You, declining model career.
He's gonna marry me.
Alright, it is what it is.
She still goes out and looks for other dudes.
And then her...
Eh, I gotta make it work with the kids.
It's cool.
You know, it is what it is.
But this is what happens when guys don't have their shit together and they don't keep their attraction levels high.
Your girl just tolerates you, bro.
I'll never submit.
Yeah, I'll never submit.
But that means that you're not happy.
I want to be happy.
Happy with doing what?
With, like, the men that I'm with.
Like, why would I be with you just because I have kids?
Well, that's you, but that's not them.
Yeah.
And you're not married yet.
I don't want to be ever married.
I don't ever want to get married.
Marco with the shots.
Damn.
All right.
Well, okay.
But no, just very interesting stuff.
Where are we at here?
Shoddy next to us.
This nigga.
Where do you put Fresh to BBC? You put Fresh to BBC in the peanut hole.
For demonstration purposes, Fresh will show you what we mean after the show.
You know what to do, big homie.
Yes, sir!
Get him fresh!
Do you have anything you want to say back to Fresh to Balls?
No, no.
Get him fresh!
What does that mean?
I think he means big black cock.
Beautiful right?
Yes, sir!
All right.
John and Alice goes-- Does it mean that?
Does it mean that?
I don't even know.
All right.
I think you guys need to bust out the calculator for this one.
one.
We need to knock down some of that female delusion.
FBI!
Oh, yeah!
You can't even do the sound effects right, man.
Shout out to you, my friend.
I mean, Daniel goes, crazy how the lady seems to have no clue how men think and what men want.
Do y'all know what the man you want wants?
Well, I think you know that already.
Have you ever asked yourselves that question?
If no, why?
Yo, I think if anything, this show's proven that time and time again, they prioritize what they want and then you need to accept it.
Correct.
They might care at 30 years old, maybe.
I do, I do, I do.
I learned that today.
Long live game, this podcast proves that women just talk a lot without actually saying anything.
Repeal the 19th.
Controversial take.
I think that a woman's vote should only count as half of a man's vote.
And the reason why I say that is because women don't enter selective service.
So, since y'all don't enter selective service, I don't think y'all vote should matter the full way, but hey, it is what it is.
Taco Man ATG, get the likes up.
Love y'all.
No pause.
Xena, I love the curls.
Icy looking elegant too.
Shout out to everybody.
Shout out to you, my friends.
Peace, do you have anything else, man?
Oh, me?
Yeah.
Oh, Beast.
Oh, yeah.
Or David.
Beast is alright.
Nah, man.
When can I find you, bro?
How to Beast, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, not Twitter.
I never created a Twitter.
Yeah, it's tough, bro.
Before we close, I want to give the ladies an opportunity real fast.
Hey, guys, I know...
It's a little short, but I'll turn it to ladies here in a second.
Dave's dying.
You know, we got to respect the guest's time.
So that's the only reason why.
So don't jump on Fresh too much.
Just jump on Dave instead.
Any ladies have any questions or last thoughts on the show or anything that they wanted to bring up or disagreements on what we talked about today?
No.
I did want to give a shout out to Detox for bringing me on the show.
Detox in the building?
Oh, I wanted to give a shout out to...
I met him today in my friend's lobby.
He was like, hey, you want to go on a podcast?
I said, we're on a podcast.
He goes Fresh and Fit.
And I was like, I've already been on it four times.
Sweet.
Shout him.
WA here says, ladies, don't listen to these bums.
You're strong and independent.
Thank you, FNF. My chewing investment has been booming.
Second chick next to Myron looks like Mr.
Bean.
Oh, shit.
Come on, bro.
Goddamn.
That is messed up.
Guys, all the ladies' Instagrams are below.
Go ahead and send them a dick pic.
I'm sure they'd really appreciate it.
Go ahead and check out Dave's social guys below on YouTube and Instagram.
Check them out.
When are you going to drop that interview with us?
Oh man, perhaps.
Probably a week, maybe?
Yeah, probably next Thursday, I think.
Next Thursday.
Next Thursday, if not the Thursday after, guys.
Great interview.
So yeah, guys, we'll catch you on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Friday.
We got Ryan Dawson.
We're going to talk about 9-11.
It's going to be fucking lit.
Part two.
Part two.
We're going to be talking about them boys.
So hopefully we don't get canceled.
Guys, don't forget to like the video, subscribe to the channel.
Catch you guys on the next one.
Love you guys.
Peace!
I'm far away.
I just ran.
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