Which Age Should Men & Women Fall In Love? OLD Women Argue OLDER Is Better For Women?
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And the girls.
By the way, shout out to Friday, the girls on the panel, and the guys for coming out.
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To you guys for coming out.
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We had about 20 girls, I see.
20 girls?
25?
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I gotta say, that was a W for Chris.
Yeah, and ladies, if you want to come on the show, don't DM me refresh.
Like, we're just gonna tell you, go talk to Chris.
Unless you're trying to get fucked.
But other than that, what?
What?
I'm not going to sit here and talk to chicks and be like, I don't give a fuck no more.
Are you trying to smash?
No.
Okay, go talk to Kristen.
What the fuck?
I'm not going to sit here and go back and forth.
One girl asked me, oh, can I pick your brain?
I was like, no.
Bro, I'm going to sit there and talk to you.
This weekend, we had a girl call my phone.
I'm like, yo, call Chris.
Don't call my phone.
What the fuck y'all think this is?
What the fuck do I look like?
Oh, can I pick your brain?
No.
She called me 20 times, bitch.
Okay.
Like, bro, I'm not going to sit here and waste time talking to you.
Fuck out of here, man.
Respectfully.
Either way, ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, we do it for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we're going to start right here.
Welcome back.
Hi, my name is Zoe, or I go by ZZooted online.
I do OnlyFans.
I'm in a relationship, been in a relationship for about two years.
Okay, let's go this systematically.
How old are you?
I'm 22.
Okay, where are you from?
I'm from West Palm Beach, Florida.
Okay, and then you said you do OF? Yes.
Highest education level completed?
Oh, sorry.
My highest level education level is high school.
And you said you have a relationship.
How long have y'all been together?
Like two years.
What about you?
My name is Kai.
I'm 24.
I'm originally from Israel, moved here five years ago, and I'm an esthetician.
And I'm single.
And then our highest education you said is high school?
Well, I just finished esthetician school.
And then you said single?
Yes.
Were you born and raised in Israel?
Yes.
One of them boys.
Fantastic.
What about you?
My name is Audrey.
I do OnlyFans and I'm a dancer.
How old are you?
I'm 18.
Where are you from?
I'm from California in Houston.
Okay, where did you go in high school?
In Houston.
In Houston.
Okay, so I'll say you're from Houston.
And then, do you live in California now?
No, I live here now in Pompano.
Okay.
You live in Pompano?
Oh, shit.
Out of all places in Pompano?
It's getting better!
Okay, and then you said you dance and what?
And do OnlyFans.
Okay, so...
So you script.
Yeah.
Okay.
And then, what's your highest education level?
Complete or high school?
High school, yeah.
Alright.
And then, relationship status?
Single.
Of course.
I am Takiyah, and I am originally from Detroit.
I am 43.
Wait, 43?
Yes.
It's funny.
You know Payroll Giovanni?
Yes.
One of my favorite rappers.
Oh, good.
Shout out to him.
Detroit.
Detroit.
Okay.
What's your profession?
I am a licensed esthetician and I am a spa owner of a company called Degene Beauty.
And I help women get into the beauty industry and help them scale their business to make six figures.
Okay, so you own a spa, you're an esthetician, and you do consulting?
Yes, we do.
Okay.
And then what's your highest education level completed?
Some college.
So a student's degree?
No, some college.
Never finished.
Never finished.
So we'll say high school completed.
Yeah, and then what's your relationship status?
I am in a relationship.
Cool.
How long have you been together?
Three years, and we've been in a relationship for a year.
Nice.
Three years?
That's like 40.
So you still Hail Mary?
This guy, bro.
All right.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Maddie.
I'm 37.
Damn.
Yeah.
Where are you from?
Orlando.
Okay.
Yes.
What do you do for work?
I teach women how to make money in the beauty industry and love their life while they're doing it.
You guys are friends?
We're business partners and best friends.
There you go.
Okay, so the same consulting business.
Yes.
We get them financially free.
Okay, so consulting with getting into the beauty industry to make money.
Yes.
Okay.
I do permanently.
What's your highest education level completed?
I dropped out of high school.
You dropped out of high school.
So middle school is your highest.
Yeah.
That's a first.
Alright.
Or maybe a second.
And then what's your relationship status?
Single.
Okay.
What about you?
My name is Siona.
I'm a realtor and I'm a server as well.
How old are you?
19.
Okay.
And where are you originally from?
Port St.
Lucie.
You're a realtor?
Yes.
How many houses have you sold?
Like three.
I just got it recently.
Okay.
I do a lot of rentals now.
Okay.
Yeah.
Port St.
Lucie, 19.
And then you said you're a realtor and what else?
A server?
Yeah.
Dude, every girl in Miami is a realtor.
What's your highest education level complete?
I'm assuming high school.
I'm in college now.
Okay.
You're in college, but you complete high school.
Yeah.
All right.
What are you majoring in?
Business management.
Okay.
Cool.
A useless degree, fantastic.
And then what's your relationship status?
I'm single.
Alright, cool.
You got something right here on your teeth.
Are you serious?
Yeah.
Oh, it's diamonds.
Oh, I couldn't tell.
Sorry, my bad.
What about you?
Hi, my name is Aisha.
I am 22 years old.
I grew up in Miami, Florida, and I'm currently in school for Integrative Healing Arts.
Are you a full-time student or do you have a job?
I have two part-time jobs.
Okay, what is that?
I work at a fitness club and I dog sit.
Okay.
And you said your highest education level completed is high school?
Yeah.
Okay.
And you're in college?
It's not a regular college.
Is it like a trade school?
It's an institute.
Okay, what is it in particular?
It's a healing arts institute.
Oh, so for hippies.
Hippie school, alright.
Alright, and then what's your relationship status?
I'm single.
Alright, cool.
Are those stones on your necklace?
Yeah.
What kind of stones?
Like quartz.
Onyx and moonstone.
Okay.
Okay.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name is Destiny.
Hey y'all!
Hi.
How old are you?
20.
Okay.
Where are you from?
I'm from Broward County, Florida.
Oh shit.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
I am a stay-at-home girlfriend and I'm a content creator.
Okay.
Wait, content?
Actually, we met her and her boyfriend or husband, I believe, at the event.
They came to watch us.
Oh, okay.
Yes, yes.
I was going to say she did.
She looked familiar.
Okay, okay.
All right.
Cool.
How was the event?
It was great.
Cool.
And then highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay, cool.
And then relationship status?
I'm happily taken.
Cool.
How long have I been together?
About two years.
Nice.
And something's on the way, right?
All right.
Let's take a fresh one.
I'm just saying!
Something's in the oven, bro.
Okay, moving on.
All right, what about you?
My name is Andrea, and I'm 19.
I go to college, and I'm a nail tech.
Where are you originally from?
Serbia.
Oh, shit.
As far as I come back.
Yeah.
And then what do you do for work?
I'm a nail tech.
And then you're originally from Serbia, highest education completed?
I'm in college, so.
Okay, cool.
And relationship status?
Single.
Cool.
Welcome back.
All right.
And who's been on here first time?
Only one person.
Okay, so two have been on before.
Sweet.
Okay, so Fresh, can you get the chance real quick?
Yes.
Wyatt5Buck says, ladies, you find out your daughter has 3x your body count and she's 18.
How would you react to this?
Ooh, that's a pretty good one there.
So, your daughter has three times your body count.
How would you react to this?
Would you care?
Would you tell her, hey, you're fucking up?
What'd you do?
Yeah, first off, I would tell her she's fucking up.
That's so fucked.
Like, three times.
Even if the number was, like, one.
Okay.
Three times my body count at 18.
Not cool.
Like, you need to be...
Sorry.
You need to be saving yourself for someone who's actually going to provide you something good in your life and not just giving yourself away to, like, high school men.
Like...
Okay.
What about you?
Yeah.
I definitely believe that it's, like, an energy exchange.
So, like...
Don't fuck it up.
Like, you have so much, like, good energy and you don't share it with other people.
Soul ties, huh?
Yeah.
Interesting.
What about you?
I would probably just, like, tell her that there's, like, no rush.
Most people regret, like, most of the people they sleep with at a young age, so there's no rush, you know?
Is that you?
No.
What about you?
I actually do have a, she's almost 18, so hopefully she doesn't have three body counts, but I would tell her, like, you know, just hopefully wait until the right person comes along.
Like, I didn't wait at 18.
I probably had three body counts.
So hopefully she wouldn't follow my first time.
Three times your body count.
Oh, no, you said three times?
Oh, absolutely not!
I just said three body counts.
No, no.
That conversation, the way I raised her, it's something deeper than that.
How do you keep her in, not in check, but how do you tell her without telling her specifically?
What do you do to take measures against that?
Well, we actually talk.
I talk to my daughter.
Like, I've been talking to my daughter since she was like 14 because of my upbringing and my family and my friends and my environment.
Been in Detroit and my friends are like, we were wild.
Like, wow.
So I use my life experiences to teach her, like, what not to do.
Let's say she met a guy that was maybe a bad boy in the streets.
Will you tell her, like, don't date him?
What did you do?
No, I don't really believe that.
I tell her to kind of like...
When you guys say bad boys, what do you mean a bad boy?
You know he's not good for her.
He's all going to dog her out.
Yeah, but that's going to go over her head.
I just tell her.
I mean, she hears me, but she doesn't.
Unfortunately, I'm not the one who really communicates.
She has a better relationship with my sister.
So it's good that she has somebody she can talk to.
Because as a kid, you don't give a shit about what your parents think.
I tell her, Kendall, I hope you don't indulge in a bad boy.
But the guy she has now, he's cool.
And I like them.
So hopefully, I haven't had to cross that bridge yet.
How I would deal with it, I don't know.
Cool.
What about you?
First of all, I am dragging that girl's hair across the floor.
She's getting beat.
No.
No, that would happen.
First of all, it's not going to happen because I'm going to communicate things before that so she's aware.
So she's aware of, you know, life and how things work.
So that ain't happening.
And if it does, she's getting dragged.
Okay.
What about you?
Yeah, I'd be pretty pissed.
I mean, I don't even want to think about that.
That's like some crazy shit.
So, yeah, I'd just be pissed.
Why is it crazy?
Is your body count high?
No, but even if it was like one, I feel like that's kind of like...
What's your bot account?
Okay.
Silent mode, I guess.
Alright.
What the hell?
What about you?
Head-daughter?
Three times your body count, what'd you do?
I don't think that would even happen to begin with because I would instill those values in her subconscious at such a young age.
I would teach her to respect her body, that her vessel is not for foreign energy to enter all the time if you don't have a sacred connection with the other person.
But if it did happen, I would have a conversation with her and I would tell her to value herself more, to respect herself more, and to Save her womb space for someone that is actually really special to her.
That's deep.
Just like some nigga in her.
Never mind.
Go ahead.
What about you?
Yeah, definitely not.
But to be honest with you, I would just let her dad handle it.
Because I feel like when it comes to stuff like that, men are better at handling those type of situations.
So I would do that.
Okay.
Pretty smart.
And if you may serve you.
I mean, I'd be upset, but I would just talk to her and tell her, like, to save herself for someone special, not get it too high, like, wait until you're in a relationship and you really like the guy.
I don't know.
Just something where she's not, like, just going out and having sex with whoever she wants.
Like, chill, girl.
Just chill.
Relax.
Yeah.
Cool.
Alright, I got a question.
So, or did you want to go back to the chats?
Alright.
So, hey guys, from this point forward, because I already got almost 10,000 y'all in here, so this is what we're going to do.
From this point forward, we're going to read 20 and up.
However, what I'll do is I'll make sure every single chat that came before, we'll read them.
We got you guys.
But from this point forward, it's going to be 20 and up.
However, also, every single chat will be shown on screen.
So we got y'all.
Don't worry about it.
But I got a question for ladies.
What age do you think a man will find love?
Let's start here on Miss Serbia.
I would say in the 30s.
30s?
Yeah.
Can you give a specific age?
Well, start here, Miss Serbia.
If you had to guess.
I mean, a lot of people fall in love in, like, high school.
I wouldn't say that's, like, real love.
Maybe, like, Manford to find real love.
I would say late 20s, mid-20s.
Okay.
Yeah.
Late 20s?
Yeah.
I would say 27, 28, around there.
Okay.
I would say about late 20s, 30s, just because after that you already developed and you already accomplished all the things that you need to in life to be an established man.
So you said late 20s to early 30s?
Yes.
Okay.
What about you?
I think it depends because there's so many different types of love that one experiences in life, one that's combined with attachment, one that is more puppy honeymoon-based love.
But I think that the mature, secure attachment love happens later on in life when you're like 30, you're ready to settle down.
Okay.
I like that point of view.
What about you?
Um, probably like late 20s.
Late 20s?
Okay.
Can you give us a specific age if you were to copycat?
25.
25.
That's mid 20s.
I know.
Yeah, I guess you're right.
Yeah.
What about you?
I'm gonna say 38 to 40.
Okay.
To 45, probably somewhere in between there.
Okay.
Because I think when they're younger, they have one...
Don't worry, I'll ask you why in a second.
What about you?
I would say like 47 to 55.
So your age.
Yeah.
Exactly.
That was him.
What about you?
Chris, come on, man.
Late 20s, early 30s, because most guys are, you know, they're still in their whole phase.
Like, I think pretty much all their 20s.
Okay, late 20s to, you said early 30s?
Yeah.
Can you give us, like, approximate numbers?
Give us numbers.
Like, 29, 30, 31.
Okay.
Wait a minute.
How do you know that?
I would say, like, 35.
How did you know that?
Just a guess.
What about you?
I would say probably about, like, 34.
Okay.
All right.
Now, what age do you think a woman will find love?
Oh.
Yep.
True love.
True love.
Whatever that means.
Wow.
Probably like 22?
22?
Okay, good.
For you?
I would say like 25, 26.
I feel like a woman like fully develops herself and like I hope she does.
So that's like a good age.
Okay.
What about you?
Oh, probably like early 20s, yeah.
Give a specific age.
We'll try to make it.
22.
22?
Yeah.
Okay.
I would say like 30, 35.
Okay.
30, 35?
Okay.
Yeah, I'm going to say 30, 35.
I'd say probably like 23, 24.
22, 23.
I would say 20, 25.
20 to 25?
Okay, in that range.
What about you?
I would say late 20s, also like 27.
27 too?
Yeah.
Do you ever arrange 27?
No.
You're just saying 27?
Yeah.
Okay.
Why did you give the answer that you gave?
We'll start with you in Serbia.
Why that answer 27?
Because you're done with college usually if you're doing something like six years and you're more established.
When you ask for women I'll probably change my answer on men to like 30 to like 31 but yeah I would just say you're older and you're more mature.
I don't know you have more like experience in life.
So okay okay let me simplify it.
Why did you give your answer that you gave for men and then why did you give the answer that you gave for women?
Okay.
For men, I just think they tend to mature later in life.
So I would say an older age.
And for women, I think they tend to mature younger.
So younger age, by a couple years probably.
And when you say women, men mature later and then women mature later, in what facet do you mean they mature?
Are you talking about mentally, their status, what particularly do you mean?
I would say mentally.
By status, it depends by what you go into, but mentally, for sure, men mature later and men mature.
What are you trying to say?
Do you think women actually mature more mentally when they're younger, or is it that they just get certain opportunities and they have to adapt?
I would say we get certain opportunities when you have to adapt, which forces us to be more mature at a younger age.
Yeah.
And a lot of people think it's like unfair, that whole ordeal.
Okay.
All right, cool.
So you say, so your reason is because men mature later and women mature earlier?
Yeah.
All right.
What about you?
Why did you give the answers that you gave?
For the man, I gave my answer of about like late 20s, early 30s because he already had a chance to kind of do something with his life and become something of himself and also experience enough women to really settle down.
Okay.
Do you think he's experienced women though in his 20s, realistically speaking?
That's cute.
No.
But, I mean, not all, but some.
Okay.
And then why do you think women need to settle down?
Or why women find love later on?
Or earlier on?
Because your answer was 20 to 25.
Just because women are more impressionable.
And the younger we are, the more things we like.
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
Why'd you give the answer that you gave?
You said for men, 30.
Women, 22 to 23.
Well, my answer was very subjective and rooted in personal experiences and conversations that I've had with other men and women.
Okay.
So that's the reason why?
Just because it's subjective?
It was very subjective.
I'm not even going to lie.
It's based on conversations and what I've witnessed and the relationships with my friends.
What did you experience that made you come to that conclusion?
Who hurt you?
Tell us.
Nobody.
What she said is from other conversations.
So what made you come to that conclusion from the subjective interpretation?
So, my friend, she's my age.
She's in love with a 30 year old.
And then my dad met my mom when he was 30.
She was 22.
My grandparents, same thing.
And then other friends, it's like similar, like eight year, seven year difference.
And then my ex-boyfriend, also eight year difference.
Do you think that's the optimal set up?
I think a good age gap is optimal, yes.
Why'd you guys break up?
Do you really want me to do it?
Yeah, of course.
I'm just curious.
She wanted to find herself.
um Today?
I don't...
Emotional damage!
I really don't like drug use and I found out that he was lying to me about not doing drugs and when we're watching a documentary on his phone he got a text message from a dealer asking if he still wanted coke and of course if you're lying to me the trust is broken and I do not like that demon drug.
Guys, lesson here.
On your phone, turn off notifications on text.
I'm telling you, bro!
They'll fuck you up.
Just saying.
Okay.
What about you?
Why'd you give the answer that you gave?
I think you gave men 25 and then women 23 and 24.
Yo, chat chill, man.
Yeah, I mean, to find love, I feel like you kind of realize that soon in life.
From the female around perspective?
Both.
Oh, you think it's for both?
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
All right.
Who do you think is able to accomplish that, you know, want of love at a younger age, men or women?
I think women.
Okay.
All right.
So the reason why you said it is because you think love comes early on in life.
Yeah, regardless of...
Do you think that's optimal, though?
For the man?
No.
Why?
I mean, you can be in love, but that doesn't really do too much for...
Would you agree that men are only loved under the premise that they provide value?
No, I mean, some girls love guys that don't really have much to offer, but just, like, looks and personality, stuff like that.
Yeah, but do those last?
No.
So wouldn't it be fair to say that women only love a man long term under the premise he provides value?
Correct.
You think women have to provide value to be loved?
Yeah.
What kind of value would that be?
Please tell us.
I mean, I also think it's good when women put forth effort and also financially as well.
Not just...
But the question is, do they have to?
No.
Some guys...
Wait, you pay for niggas?
Huh?
You pay for niggas?
No.
I'm just saying, if I was married and had kids, I'd feel kind of bad.
Wait, what would you feel bad about?
Like, not doing anything.
Okay, you mean not contributing financially, you mean?
Mm-hmm.
But what's more important, contributing financially or taking care of the child?
Taking care of the child.
So why would you feel bad about doing your job?
Do your job!
I know.
It'd just be inside me, like an inside feeling like, okay, I kind of feel bad.
Interesting.
Okay.
Why'd you give your answer that you gave?
You said that for men, it's 40, no, 38 to 45, but then 38 to 35 for women.
Yes, I just believe most of them haven't went through enough life experience to really know what they want or to even know themselves enough.
So I think it takes many years and different stages in life to understand who you really are, to even find what you really want.
And I feel like...
Merch, from the female perspective.
Yeah, I feel like for women, they are looking for something human nature early on that they don't even realize.
So they're searching for something, but that changes when you get older because you realize that that's not really what you needed.
And the same with men.
I think that they are searching for something that is instilled in us, but they don't know what it is and they discover it later.
I think it's hard for you to know what it is at an early age until you actually gained wisdom.
From the male or female perspective?
Both.
I think women...
Want love and they don't know how to even love themselves.
So they do a lot of things at a young age before they love themselves.
And I think men, they both have to provide a certain type of value.
And neither one of them really know how to provide that value at an early age.
And they don't even know how to seek it or know it for themselves.
So I think at a later on in life, they both have reached love.
An area where they're like, I know myself, I know what I need to bring, and vice versa.
Not everybody, obviously, they're all, it can all be subjective, it can all be, I know people who have been married since they were teenagers, and you know, they grew together, but I think it matters if they can actually grow together.
If one of them stops growing, and the other one continues growing, they're gonna get a divorce.
I'm just curious, knowing this information right now, what age would you actually date somebody as a man?
I'm sorry?
For example, what age would you want to date a man now?
Because you're 37, so what age would be good for you, do you think?
I want someone my age or 45.
Not younger, right?
Not really, no.
Interesting.
No, did you want to touch on that more?
So do you think a woman has the best dating options when she's 30 to 35?
I think it depends.
It depends on the woman's, what she thinks about herself.
Because I feel like I have more dating options now than when I was young.
Stop the cap!
Just saying.
Getting gay.
Yeah, I mean, would it be fair to say that how you feel about something doesn't necessarily mean that it's real?
Because, you know, feelings are subjective, but, you know, reality is fairly objective.
And what I mean by that is, you know, you might feel like you have more options now, but do you think you would have had more men now or 15 years prior?
A long time ago.
Well, I was 15 years prior.
No, I think you don't show up as that person when you're that young.
I didn't believe in my own self when I was that young.
Now I show up like, oh no.
I'm that bitch.
Oh no.
But do you think that's attractive to the man you're trying to attract?
Yes.
Because I don't think I'm an independent woman.
I value a man.
And I want a man.
And I love a man.
And I need a man.
I don't sit here and be like, oh, I'm this independent.
I don't even know.
I want you.
And I'm going to value you.
And I'm going to bring you what you need.
So I'm bringing peace.
I've worked on myself a lot.
So you want a man.
Do you feel like you need a man?
Yes.
So which one is it?
Is it you want a man or do you need a man?
I want a man and I need a man.
They're the same thing.
Not necessarily.
Well, if you need food, you still want the food and you need it.
Yeah, but one's like elected versus the other one is like mandatory.
So both, I don't know.
Okay, so you're saying both, but which one weighs out more?
I like men and I need a man.
I feel like in human nature, women are designed to have a man be with him and vice versa.
Okay.
I follow principles.
Did you have something for us?
No.
No, I was going to say, so you think it's best to be 30 to 35 as a woman to find?
I think that is when you're going to probably find what you really want.
You'll know yourself better.
You're not going to search for something that is not what you really want.
You're going to know yourself better.
So you're going to be like, this is what I really want.
You're not going to put up with, well, I'm not going to say you're not because it depends on everybody's journey.
No, you're right.
You're not going to put up with certain behaviors when you're older as a female.
But that will also hurt you.
And I agree.
I disagree with you on that woman.
And I guess because you're probably going to say something similar about being older and being able to find a guy.
I think as women age, Their ability to find the guy that they want goes down alongside it.
You're going to have to make more and more concessions as you get older.
No, I don't think so.
You don't think so?
I don't think so.
I found way better men at this age now.
So you're single right now and she just got with someone for three years at 40.
Oh no, but we just broke up.
Like, I was married for a long time.
We were together for two years.
Why?
I just felt like he...
I didn't break...
It wasn't a breakup because of...
He was an...
He's an amazing person.
And I love him.
Stop the crap.
No.
I think...
No, no, no.
No.
Everybody has different...
Okay.
I'm not a selfish person.
But you are.
I'm...
No, no, no.
That's why I broke up.
Because I feel like he needed himself.
He didn't ever have a time to work on.
I feel like he should have.
You caught me right now.
Or I feel like he...
I felt like he needed himself to build himself and not really focus on me.
Hold on.
Did he tell you that?
In a way, in a way.
I didn't want to be selfish because I'm like, you know what?
Live your life.
Do what you have to do.
I'm going to do what I have to do.
And when you feel more confident in the relationship, come back.
And if you find somebody else, that's okay too.
So you made the choice for him.
Yeah, because I feel like it was not...
I didn't feel like it was healthy.
Okay, so...
I wasn't being...
It wasn't fair.
So, question.
How did he feel not confident, though?
Did he go out...
No, no, no.
I don't know if it...
I don't know if it made him feel uncomfortable.
That's not for me to know.
I just felt like in the relationship, he was putting a lot of stress...
To...
On himself.
To make it work?
On himself, yeah.
And I just wanted him to focus on what he needed to focus on on his own career building because he's working on stocks and stuff like that.
It's not you, it's me.
No, for real.
Basically, no.
So true love is freedom.
I feel like it.
You're making that choice for him, though.
I mean, that's kind of...
No.
Well, I know there was options, but...
Oh, I'm sure there was.
Yeah, there was.
I said, let's be a team player.
He felt he needed more time for himself.
So I said, now I felt like that was selfish on his part.
So I said, you know what?
I'm not going to be selfish.
I'm going to give you what you need.
And if we come back around...
So he wanted to work on his business, but you wanted more time for you.
He didn't want to do that.
No, no.
I wanted us to build a team.
I have a business he's run.
And I wanted us to do it together.
He was like, no, I need to focus on mine.
So I was like, I don't feel like...
So I just felt like he needed to be him.
Like, just focus on him.
And then maybe a year from now, we can try it again or whatever.
I don't know.
But it's not for me.
I don't want to force anything.
A year from now, three dicks down the line, who knows?
Yeah.
You guys want me to translate that woman ease for y'all?
Yes, please do.
I got you guys right now, man.
Translation.
I was exceeding him in financial situations.
I was the leader in the relationship.
He necessarily didn't have frame.
I was dictating the shots.
I had more value to bring than he did.
It wasn't an equal value exchange.
I know my worth because I built myself to a certain point.
He was more focused on me versus his own business.
I'm outgrowing him.
I'm going to find something better, so I'm going to make the executive decision to leave this guy and find something worth my while.
Yeah.
In a sense.
I can't say no because I do love him.
He was the one that wasn't willing to give me the love.
This is exactly why younger women are better candidates a lot of times for relationships.
Women have less tolerance for ineptitude as they age.
And you're a perfect example of that.
You're successful.
You make your own money.
You're an entrepreneur.
If he doesn't have his shit all the way together...
But I didn't need that.
He needed it.
I never said, you have to have all your shit together.
I said, let's work together.
He didn't want to work together.
So I was like, bro, why am I with you?
If you notice, right?
The point is, though, is that like, see, you were like, yo, let's work together because I don't like where you're at.
We need to exceed.
We need to get better.
You put a burner performance on him and he didn't like that.
Yeah.
Okay.
You're right.
And I acknowledge that.
But here's the thing.
Let's say he dated a 19-year-old, a 20-year-old, a 21-year-old.
She wouldn't be on him like that to do that and emasculate him because when women do stuff like that, whether you accept it or not, you're emasculating him to a degree.
That's a very...
And here's the other thing, too.
Women don't even notice this.
When a woman is trying to tell you, oh, let's work together or, hey, let me coach her, let me motivate you, blah, blah, blah, they take on a masculine role and that shit's annoying.
Oh, you need to do this.
You need to do that.
Women become naturally bitchy when they're in that vibe where they're trying to tell you what to do.
So, guys hate that shit.
So, You're in your masculine.
He's in his feminine.
You're trying to push him to be better, blah, blah, blah.
I've always said it.
When a girl's got to push you to be better, you're already lost.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, the moment you're going to tell him to become better for himself, you're already lost right there and then.
Because once again, you want to love him, but he needs time for himself, which is true.
But at the same time, you tell him what to do, it's kind of a trauma.
And the thing is that older women that have their own money that are successful, Have less tolerance for a dude that's not on his shit.
That's just how it goes.
You know what I mean?
I mean, you're an example of that.
You're a successful entrepreneur.
He's not in his P's and Q's.
Hey, you're not in your P's and Q's.
Let's work together.
Let's get you up.
Well, what you don't realize is that you're inadvertently putting him in a more feminine role by doing that.
That's why we broke up.
Because I didn't want to do that.
I never did it to him.
I never told him, do this.
But I said...
Work on you.
Focus on you.
And then we can come back around to it.
Because it wasn't fair.
I'm not going to sit there and tell him what he has to do.
I'm not.
I understand that.
You know what, babe?
I'll follow your lead.
But you're already salvaged.
So for you, it's like, you know what?
I'm already here.
See, I have to translate it for her to finally admit that.
No, I'll follow the lead.
I'll follow lead all day.
I'm not one of those...
I know how to submit.
Stop the cap!
So why'd you leave?
Because he...
I felt like...
Like he said, I was...
I was...
I felt like we were battling for no reason.
So I'm like, this is stupid.
And I knew I could see where it was going.
But do you see my point now?
This all is to bring back to my original argument that younger women don't have that habit of doing that.
Older women will sit there and challenge you and say what the fuck and get your shit together.
No, I never said nothing to him.
You battled him and you tried to motivate him to be better.
But 15 years ago, you wouldn't have been in that position to battle him, etc.
You would have been more happier With his earning capacity.
But since you've accomplished yourself, you've gained some income, you've gained some status, etc.
You're going to hold them to a higher standard.
This is what I'm trying to say.
Older women have higher standards, which is cool.
But the problem is that as you get higher standards, the pool of candidates that qualify shrink.
That's true.
So that's why I argue, as a woman, you're better off finding a guy when you're younger versus older.
Because as you age, your standards go up, but men don't necessarily care about what you bring to the table financially now.
And then when a younger woman gets with a man, when she hits 30, she's divorcing him.
She's like, I'm out of here.
So the same shit, it doesn't matter.
What do you mean?
She's going to wake up and be like, this ain't what I want.
So what's the point?
You might as well wait till you're a little older and then make sure you really are solid with that person.
You both are on solid grounds.
Well, I mean, statistically speaking, older women initiate divorce way more than younger women do.
Right.
So they're going to be married for seven, eight years, and the girl's going to divorce them anyway.
Yeah, but it's better to get...
Now he's 50.
Why not?
If they're going to divorce anyway, why not get younger?
So they're still going to end up older, single.
No, because for the man, why not get a younger, hotter girl, have a child with her, decrease the chances of potentially being divorced because now she has a little bit more to lose, and get a girl when she's at her prime.
Why get a girl that's older?
She can't give you kids.
She's going to give you a headache.
She's going to be more focused on her career.
Why get that when you can get a younger woman?
I feel like I give them less headaches than the younger girls.
No, you don't.
That's what you could think.
You're single.
I was just in a relationship.
I wonder why.
Most of the girls here are single.
Clearly, that doesn't make a difference.
No, no, no, but you don't understand that.
Your age is the difference.
Like, yeah, like, the thing is, is that...
I'm telling y'all, y'all don't know.
See, you don't even notice it.
Like, you've been interrupting me several times when I've been making points, which is a very masculine trait, which is cool.
That's probably why you earn quite a bit of money.
But understand that that is not attractive to a majority of men.
Like when you're combative, not agreeable, assertive, dominant, which is cool.
Make your money.
It's not attractive to men, though.
She said, I'm going to do what I got to do.
Yeah.
So you know what you got to do.
Yeah.
All right.
Do you agree with...
I'm assuming you probably agree with some of her sentiments.
Some stuff.
I agree.
But the reason why...
Really, I don't think there's an age on men when they find love.
I just think it's the right woman.
When she comes along, they want to change.
That's why I put like 55.
It might be 60.
There's no age on that.
But I do believe in...
As far as your worth, meaning you don't have to be old to know what your worth is.
I was like this at 19 and 20.
And when they go about, you know, if a man is older, he wants a younger girl, he wants a pushover because she doesn't know anything.
I need a man.
A pushover.
A man who's going to lead me.
And I was like this at 19, I was like this at 20, 21, 22, because my father, who's a leader, who let my mom, who's been married for 43 years old, he instilled that into me.
So there is a difference.
So yeah, I'm not even attracted by men who, I say, prey on younger women to their benefit.
That's a turnoff to me.
And it has nothing to do with age.
I feel like any woman who, if they knew their worth, would understand, I have a voice.
I am a woman.
It's not about me cutting you off or being disrespectful.
It's about a man being a leader and not being intimidated by whatever it might be.
You know, so I do get a little irritated when I hear that whole age thing.
We want a younger girl.
We want a younger girl because that's a weak man.
Yeah.
That's a weak man.
He doesn't want the battle.
I do also agree that, yes, a woman should allow a man to have a voice.
I struggle with that.
I was married and I'm not divorced.
I had to learn that.
To not be so in his face and pointing fingers and trying to break him down.
That was my...
Yeah, nigga!
Right.
That was me.
Right.
So, no, I understand how that feels.
Like, let me just calm down and I found ways to be able to communicate to him like he's a man.
Alright, let me ask you a question.
So you think a guy that wants a woman that's younger wants a pushover?
Absolutely.
What you just said to me is how that sounds to me.
Okay.
Do you want a man that's taller than you?
Do I want a man that's what?
Would you, if given the chance, would you prefer a man that's taller than you?
That's taller than me?
Yes.
It doesn't really matter to me.
Preference-wise, yes or yes?
Preference-wise, my height, yeah.
Okay, bare minimum, right?
If not taller.
Would you want a guy that's stronger than you physically?
Absolutely, he needs to be able to protect me.
Okay, would you want a man that makes more money than you?
Yes, preferably, but if he's there and he has the will to go, we could do it together.
Would you want a man that is more competent than yourself and has more experience than yourself?
No, I need a man that's willing to learn.
He doesn't always have to know everything.
Should he be more competent than yourself?
Because you said you want a man that's a leader, correct?
Yes.
But competent and being a leader, that's not the same thing.
You can't be if you're not competent.
Well, on some things.
It depends on what we're talking about.
But overall, you want him to be the leader most of the time, correct?
That's his role as a man, to be a leader.
So these are your preferences, correct?
Yes.
And I would argue most women probably want these things, right?
Yes.
What if I said women that want a man who's better than men of regard are stupid, retarded, short, and weak?
And that's okay.
That's your opinion.
No, no, no.
Hold on.
I sound stupid, don't I? For saying that.
No, you just sound like that.
It is stupid.
Let's keep it.
Let's call a spade a spade.
That's your opinion.
If I were to say that women are stupid, weak, short, and inadequate for wanting a man that's taller, stronger, makes more money than them, I would sound like a moron.
Because these are hardwired traits that women look for in men, which is natural.
It's reality.
Why is it that when a man says, I want a younger woman who's going to be feminine and submissive and follow my lead, that's considered being a pushover?
Stop the show.
Hold on.
See what I did there?
I took your biological wants and I demonized them and I sounded like a fucking idiot.
Why is it that it's okay for women to demonize a man's biological wants and not be an idiot?
It's not because you're the man.
You're supposed to live by core principles.
You're not supposed to do that.
You're supposed to be the man.
That is what God intended for you to be.
You are the man.
You are the leader.
We follow your suit.
You're supposed to be, as a man, uplift a woman and get a woman to be on your level.
You didn't answer the question.
Why are your biological wants and needs not demonized, but mine are?
Me personally, I haven't demonized them.
You literally said a second ago, a man that wants a woman that's going to follow his lead that's younger than him is a pushover.
But then when I took your biological wants and needs, and I said them, and I said, oh, you're a weak, stupid, incompetent retard.
I sound stupid saying that.
Sorry, Twitch.
Why is it okay for women to attack what men want, but if I attack what women want, I sound like an idiot.
Men don't attack what women want.
We accept it.
If I'm a bum as a man, I gotta get my money up.
I want a bad bitch.
I gotta get my money up, get my status up, get my clout up, etc.
Men understand that we have to perform to get women.
Well, why do women, for some odd reason, think that what a man wants is stupid or he's a pushover or he's controlling or this other stuff?
Why are our preferences demonized?
I didn't write this.
God wrote this.
That's your rule.
I didn't write this.
This is biblical.
You're the man.
Where in the Bible does it say that?
You're the leader.
You guys are the man.
You guys are the one who's supposed, like I said, lead.
The woman supports her man and uplifts her man.
That's how that works.
I didn't write this.
This is what we decide to do and change the narrative of what the Bible says.
That's something different, but that's your role.
What chapter says men can't date younger women?
I can't quote it.
But I know I've read it.
And you guys know this.
Stupid.
Not more to me.
But if you read it, then you know it.
You know it.
I understand leadership.
I'm just saying what portion says, hey, if you're an older guy, don't eat younger women.
And I didn't say that.
Listen, you can do whatever you want to do and date whoever you like.
These are my principles and what I believe in.
You can date someone.
You can be 80 and have a 22-year-old girlfriend.
I don't care.
But for me and my standards and for the women who I try to uplift and empower, I believe that a very strong man really age shouldn't even be a factor.
He should want a queen.
It should not be an age thing.
He should go to work, go to his business, battle all those battles.
Come on, battle you two.
You said what?
No, I'm not going to battle you.
You just said he should be able to fight.
What is he fighting?
War.
What is he fighting?
What I'm trying to say, once again, a man is a leader and I follow his lead.
I am his queen.
I'm here to support him.
And he should support me the same way.
And this is a team effort.
That's it.
And age should not be a factor.
And to go back to the reason why I picked the age, I just threw that age out there.
But really, in reality, a man finds love whatever age he decides to find love.
See, I like how you said, so age shouldn't be a factor.
Fair.
We're going to go ahead and kill the Twitch stream.
Guys, come on over to YouTube.
We're going to kill Twitch, Facebook, and Twitter.
Come on over to YouTube and rumble.
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Okay, so let's go ahead and say it shouldn't be a factor.
How about this?
Height shouldn't be a factor for men.
Women should date guys that are 5'2".
Money shouldn't be a factor either.
Girls should date bums.
Go king.
Go king.
As a leader, why would you want to be a bum?
Why would you want your family to be in a cardboard box?
As a queen, why not accept the guy?
No, no, no.
You're a king.
You're a leader.
Why would you want your family homeless on the streets in a cardboard box as a man and a leader?
Damn.
That makes sense.
Why would a king want an older woman who's old and she can't get birth properly and she's like, oh, my back hurts, my neck hurts?
It's a king!
Why should he have a nice girl with a big ass walking around Miami who's full of vitality?
You know what I'm saying?
Why?
He's a king, though, right?
It's just funny to me because, like, here's the thing.
You're saying men Shouldn't want younger women.
It shouldn't be that way.
They should just pick a queen.
But if I were to go ahead and say, well, it shouldn't be that way, you should find a guy.
There's a bunch of bums that are great men, great personalities, can tell you stories for days.
Why don't women pick them?
Do you think God really wanted you to pick someone who's homeless and in a box?
Oh.
Hold on.
Do you really think that God wants you to suffer?
Hold on, stop.
Do you really think that's what it's intended?
No, I heard what you said, but I'm just going below the surface.
Because you don't see here that on one side, men can't have preferences while they should accept women how they come, but men are supposed to accept women how they come.
No, you can have whatever preference you want.
You ask me my opinion.
Your opinion is incorrect, unfortunately.
And I think yours is incorrect.
What's incorrect specifically?
You basically said that all men want younger women.
Most men prefer younger women.
I never said all.
I'm just telling you my opinion and my preference.
And also you have to factor he might not want kids.
What if he doesn't want kids?
Even better.
So, once again, age shouldn't be a factor.
There's so many other things...
Men, I shouldn't be a factor and neither should income.
But that's asinine for me to say that because women look for these things, correct?
So?
A majority do.
Some.
A majority of women.
Because they want stability.
Okay.
They want a king.
And men.
They need to feel safe.
And men want a woman that's long.
They want to feel safe.
That's attractive.
That they feel safe is going to be able to bear their kids.
As a man, it is your job to make a woman feel safe.
So figure it out.
Figure it out.
Regardless of whatever it is that she needs to do, as a man, it is your job to make a woman feel safe.
As a woman, it's your job to bear children so they don't come out retarded like leech.
- Exactly, so I wanna say this.
Exactly.
So I'm gonna say, I wanna say this.
I want to say this.
I get it.
I hear you guys.
I hear exactly what you're saying.
You're saying it from a man's perspective and I'm saying it from a woman's perspective.
You guys all have mothers, right?
Yes.
What kind of man would you want your mother to date?
I mean, she had me when she was 20.
Regardless, what kind of man would you envision your mother being with?
Can I get the crooked sound thing?
No, because you're deflecting.
No, I'm not deflecting.
You're 1000% deflecting.
No, I'm just saying a man is supposed to leave.
I just said...
Cool!
And a woman should be able to bear his children and younger women have a better chance of doing that.
Period.
Like, there's no discussion here.
Men since the beginning of time have preferred younger Fertile, attractive women.
Women since the beginning of time have preferred men that were taller, stronger, and more competent than themselves.
Why is it that the female standard doesn't need to move?
Girls should be able to demand whatever she wants.
But if I say, okay, well, men want this in return.
Whoa!
It shouldn't be that way.
You shouldn't want a woman that's younger because she's a pushover.
No!
We don't look at y'all and say, you guys are stupid because you want a man that's more competent than you.
Why is it that the male standard is always demonized?
You're sitting here coping times a million on biological fact.
Men...
Universally, prefer women that are 18 to 25 years old.
They've done studies on this.
If you had a daughter, what kind of man would you want your daughter to be?
Actually, you guys do talk shit.
I'll be talking mad shit about girls.
Y'all call them simps.
Y'all say, why are all these girls wanting men who make all this money?
Well...
No, we accept it over here.
Oh, no, y'all don't.
We do.
No, y'all call them simps.
Y'all say you guys are simps.
Why do girls all they care about is our money?
Y'all say the same thing.
No, no, no, no, no.
Hold on.
We have an entire playlist teaching you guys how to make money because we understand that for men to be attractive to women, finance is a crucial component.
Yeah.
But our thing is...
So why are they crying about it?
I don't know what you're talking about.
Our thing is we want reciprocated attraction.
So we don't want guys spending money on women that don't reciprocate value.
Right.
That's fair.
Absolutely.
That's fair.
That's fair.
We're telling guys not to sin.
That's fair.
To your point about the Bible, right?
So the greatest king in the Bible was who?
I don't know.
Oh, Solomon.
King Solomon.
You got it.
His wives.
And it ruined his life.
No, no, but hold on.
What age were they?
Roughly.
I'm assuming very young.
Very young, very fair, very beautiful.
So, the greatest king of the Bible had young women as wives.
And it ruined his life.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
He ruined his life from doing that.
I'm getting there.
But what is the reference that you're talking about in the Bible where it should say, mention Dick Young- It doesn't say that.
It says, follow a Christian-like woman.
A woman who follows core principles.
And a woman should find a man who follows core principles.
But no- The two should follow- Nowhere did it say age.
Nowhere does it say age.
I could date a 20-year-old if he follows core principles.
Exactly.
He could date a 50-year-old if she follows core principles.
That's what it says in the book.
So going back to you, is your opinion still correct?
I stand on what I said.
I'm not here to put a man down.
I hear you guys loud and clear.
And I'm a huge advocate on a man as a man.
And as a woman, we play our role.
I hear you guys.
But at the end of the day, we only go with you guys how you set the tone.
That's it.
That's our job.
That's our role.
And who is more likely to follow the tone?
A younger woman who is still moldable or an older woman who's stuck in her waist?
That's the word I don't like moldable and it depends on her upbringing and what her parents instilled in her.
Don't use the word moldable.
What did you say?
I don't like moldable.
Number one, I'm going to use whatever term I want to use.
Don't forget your place.
If I want to say moldable, I'm going to say moldable.
It is moldable because a man needs to teach his girl to be the best girlfriend for him.
So what does he have to do?
He has to mold her to become that woman.
God teaches her.
She gotta follow principles.
Well, guess what?
It's 2023 and a lot of these women ain't religious no more.
And that's the problem.
So none of them are red.
Exactly.
Stop interrupting.
It's 2023.
Men have to adapt to the current world that we're in.
Women are more promiscuous than ever before.
Women don't have religion.
A lot of women don't have a father.
Absolutely.
So what has to happen?
The boyfriend has to come in a lot of times or the masculine figure in her life, a lot of times going to be the boyfriend or the fiance, whatever it may be.
He's got to teach her how to be a proper girlfriend for him.
That's a leader.
Okay?
Because a lot of women don't come pre-assembled as they used to be 67 years ago, which is what you guys are referring to.
So the guy's got to mold her into the girlfriend he wants.
Now, who's more likely to follow his lead appropriately?
A younger woman who's more impressionable or an older woman stuck in her ways that's an entrepreneur, aggressive, assertive, and built herself up?
It depends on her upbringing.
The answer is A. It's the woman that's younger and more impressionable, not the older woman.
Period.
Because the woman that's older, that's built herself up, she's going to be less agreeable, more assertive, more dominant, because that's how she made herself into the woman that she is.
When a person is an A-type personality, they're not going to sit there and let someone else dictate how they do things, because that's what made them successful in the first place, being A-type personality.
You can't turn it off.
That's a lie.
I'm an A-type personality myself, so I know that everything that I do, I'm not agreeable.
That's just how it is.
That's a tenement of successful people.
Can I ask you a question?
Yeah.
When you look for a woman, do you like a woman who you can mow?
Or do you like a woman who has a voice and has an opinion?
Or do you want a woman who does everything that you say?
Well, let me ask you this to answer it.
Why is it that across all Latin countries, there's a certain saying, the quieter you are, the more beautiful you are.
Since the beginning of time, they've been saying women are to be seen and not be heard.
Why is that?
Ask yourself.
Why do they say it's better?
I'm not even Christian.
Why do they say it's better to sleep on the roof of a home than share a home with a quarrelsome wife?
Well, what book do you read?
Which one is it?
He's saying as an example.
I'm just telling you from all different cultures, all different religions.
What religion do you believe in?
I mean, that's irrelevant to the point I'm trying to make here.
But I want to know what book you follow.
What principles you follow.
Well, here's the thing.
I grew up Muslim.
Quran.
So you follow the Quran?
Yeah.
That's the same?
It has the same core principles.
Value a woman, value a man.
Let me finish real quick, because he's going somewhere with this.
The point I'm trying to make is that since the beginning of time, across different texts, different biblical Bibles, different religious texts, it's always been Your opinion as a female is not that important.
The man is supposed to be the leader.
Your opinion can be taken into account, etc.
But men don't want to sit there and have to argue with their wife or justify their position.
It's been that way.
Absolutely.
So what are y'all trying to say?
I'm saying a man has to follow certain principles and And the woman has to follow certain principles and the man has to be the...
It says it in your book and in the Bible.
The man is the first one and the woman will follow.
But if they both are not following those principles, they don't have shit anyways.
So also...
How does that take away from my argument that men are supposed to lead and women are supposed to follow?
And cause some women are not attractive.
And it says find a man who lives by core principles that I am teaching you in the book.
If we follow a man who's not living by those principles, we will seek our own self.
So hold on, hold on.
It also says, be what?
Submissive to your husband.
Right.
So ultimately, here's a hierarchy here.
God, the man, woman and kids.
So the man has to mold you to be a wife for him.
So ultimately, molding is actually good for you.
So submission comes with a leader.
So what are you saying to say?
Most of them do not live by any principle.
They're just living.
Can I just say something?
The molding part, what is that?
When you say mold, what does that mean?
For example...
Let's say you meet me for the first time.
You don't know what I like.
You don't know what I'm about.
But over time, I'll tell you, hey, you know what?
I'm into this.
I'm into this.
Then, as a woman that wants to be with me, alright, this is what he wants me to be for him.
Simple.
It's being moldable.
Being culturable.
It's simple.
It's your job to fall into frame.
Like, I get what you're saying, like, oh, but a woman's voice, blah, blah, blah.
Okay, I'm not saying a woman's opinion is completely irrelevant, but there's a reason why across different cultures since the beginning of time, men have preferred quiet women.
Sex silence and sandwiches, they make that joke.
Men don't really give a shit about opinionated women.
No one likes a girl that always has an opinion on everything.
It's a turn off.
The most annoying thing ever is bringing her girl to a social function, and she's over here talking with everybody, giving her opinion, blah, blah, blah.
Men don't give a fuck about none of that stuff.
We never said they do.
We don't care.
And I did say that.
So why are I making an argument for being able to give an opinion?
No, we didn't.
This is why men like dating younger women because they're less opinionated versus older.
It's like, oh, I have an opinion.
Don't ask for your opinion.
No, but they don't know.
They never met Maddie and Caddy.
I feel like we talk less.
Thank God.
Yo!
I mean, look, man.
I'm just saying.
Look, like I said before, men overwhelmingly prefer younger women.
That's a fact.
Okay?
Men like women that are more submissive, docile, etc.
That's a fact.
And women that are combative, assertive, dominant, which you two are, because you guys are both entrepreneurs.
That's cool, but that's less attractive to men.
But we follow principles.
So you only date Christian men?
No.
I follow a man who follows certain principles.
I actually dated a Moroccan man who was Muslim for seven years.
And we were very good together.
And I only broke up with him because he became an alcoholic.
Where's the principles now?
Exactly.
But we built a really good business together.
We had fun together.
We were great together because we both followed certain principles.
We respected one another.
We valued one another.
And look, in the Bible, in the Quran, or whatever book you follow, because you got to follow something.
Because if you're out here following the streets, you're going to get...
How do you know?
I've seen it.
People are drug suiciding.
People are killing themselves.
Who is telling these people these things?
What are they following?
I'll be quiet to a man who's showing me that they live by certain principles and that they can lead me in the right direction.
You're missing a big point here.
That guy probably won't even give you a chance.
No, he still loves me to this day.
Look, look, look.
What you ladies don't understand, right, is that men curve women silently, women curve men overtly.
If a guy comes up to you that you don't like, you're going to tell him, I have a boyfriend, I'm not interested, blah, blah, blah, to get him out of there.
Or give him a fake number.
If a guy meets a girl he doesn't like, he's going to have sex with her, do something casual, never give her the title.
The thing is that women don't understand that men curve you silently when you do stupid shit that he doesn't like.
He's just never going to tell you.
Man, you're really annoying.
Damn.
Man, you're really loud.
Man, you got an opinion about everything.
Damn, she's always fighting me on shit.
They just don't take you seriously.
They keep you in the sex loop only, and that's what it is.
So the thing is with y'all is you say, oh, I got these guys hitting me up, blah, blah, blah.
Guys that are super masculine, guys that got their shit together, etc.
They don't want to come home and have to debate their wife or have a discussion about her opinions.
They don't want that shit.
They want a girl that's just going to be quiet, submissive.
They already got to go out into the world and fight.
They don't want to come home and fight you.
And this is what older women can't get through their head a lot of the times is that you're never going to be able to compete with a girl that's 21, that's attractive, that's feminine and docile.
You're just not.
Like, we don't care about your money.
We don't care about your status.
We don't care about how much of a queen you are.
No, we will go ahead and elevate a girl that is a peasant into a queen versus dealing with a woman who thinks she's a queen.
Bro, she made him drink, man.
The crazy part is everything he's saying, I agree with, though.
I agree with it.
Seven years?
What about you?
I've got a question all of a sudden.
It was, why did you pick the age that you picked?
For men and for women.
And for her, she picked man 29 and 31, and then for a girl, 22.
Yeah, I think, like, most women look for, like, love when they're younger and stuff.
That's just, like, in, like, our nature.
But, like, men, like, I just don't think, like, most men, like, are ready to, like, settle down until they're older.
Okay.
So why younger, girl?
Huh?
Why'd you give 22 for females?
Because most, like, women look for love when they're younger.
That's just, like, how it is.
Do you think a girl is better off looking for love at 22 or chasing her career and making money at 22?
Definitely a career, but that's just what happens.
So if a girl is chasing her career, do you think she can focus on finding a man to the same degree?
No, probably not.
So she obviously has to pick one, right?
What do you think is more beneficial for long-term success for her happiness?
Chasing that career in that bag or trying to find that man?
Chasing her career.
Why do you say that?
Um, because at the end of the day, like, you really, like, only have, like, yourself.
So, like, to fall back on, like, if you have a man who can give you, like, everything you want, and then something happens, and y'all break up, like, what do you have?
Like, nothing.
Okay.
So, do you think you're going to be happier as a very successful single woman at 35 years old?
Or...
35 years old with a husband, children, and a family as a female.
That's a hard question.
But personally, probably, like where I am right now, I see myself probably wanting to be more successful and independent.
Okay.
What do you think a majority of women would prefer, though?
35 and single with money or 35 with a family and children?
Probably a family and children.
Okay.
So do you think you're going to derive more pleasure from being money, 35 years old, or a family, personally for you?
A career and being successful, yeah.
Okay.
Do you think a part of that is because you're young right now and you're getting attention from men, but as you get older, it might drop off?
I mean, yeah, I could change my mind when I'm older, but as of right now, that's where I see myself.
Okay.
So you want to end up like her?
Yep.
Damn!
I'm happy as hell, though!
Come over here to the money team.
Yeah, come over here, girl.
Come over here.
We got you.
We got you over here.
I said I am not an independent woman.
I said I need a woman.
She said she's independent.
Don't interrupt you, okay?
She's younger.
Change your mindset.
What about you?
It's Israel.
What do you think?
Feminism is one of the biggest lies told to women, man.
Get a career.
Get a bag.
That's going to create happiness for you.
Look, both these women are successful entrepreneurs, but they still want a man.
Yep.
And we don't teach that either.
We don't teach them to not want a man.
You need a man.
You need a man.
Find a man and live by certain principles.
I would argue the other way around.
We tell women, you don't need a man.
Get it yourself.
No.
You need a man.
It says it.
That's a principle.
It says men and women are...
Yeah, but in mainstream society nowadays...
I'm not following that.
I follow what is taught in the book.
I mean, you're saying that, but your actions show otherwise.
I mean...
You just said you don't date Christian men.
No, I follow a man who follows principles.
It doesn't have to be Christian.
It could be a Muslim man.
As long as he's following certain principles that align with mine.
That is what it says in the Bible.
Find a man who follows these principles.
Wait, what?
It says it in the Bible.
A woman should look for a man who lives by...
I have to look.
I'll send it to you.
Okay, so it's context, right?
It is context.
It is in the book.
So you're taking it out of context.
Because if you are a true Christian, you would understand.
I didn't say I'm a Christian.
I follow the Bible principles.
Oh, so you just follow the book without having the actual court.
I was in love with a man who was Muslim.
And I was open to reading the Quran and hearing the Quran's principles, which were very similar.
I'm talking about principles in the book.
I didn't say religion.
So I get to know.
You read it for principles.
I believe in the principles it teaches.
It was written because those books understand how human nature is designed.
If we follow them, our life will be a lot more easier and more happier if we follow them.
But the problem is we follow what the world tells us to do.
We don't follow what is already written to try to say, save you.
So you're half Christian.
No, I'm a spiritual person.
Yes.
Okay, so get it back.
She going to hell, man.
Okay, we'll talk about feminism because maybe you could be saved.
You're only 18.
But yeah, bro.
I think that's one of the biggest lies we tell women is, like, chase a career, chase a bag, etc.
Versus, like, chasing a man and a family because you only have a certain amount of time as a female to get the best guy that you can get.
And it's typically going to be in your best years where you can attract the best man.
But as you get older, your chances of finding that guy kind of go down, unfortunately.
Like, you got a chance.
You got a chance.
You got a chance.
Y'all too late.
Y'all disagree?
But you got a chance.
Ah!
You got a chance.
I feel like you're not as smart when you're young.
So you be looking for those bozos that are your age and you're...
Hold on.
Let me ask you a question.
Do men care about competence to the same level as women?
No.
No.
So why do y'all...
So...
See, here's a...
But they don't want a bozo girl either who's lost.
What did I say before?
Moldable, correct?
If a girl's moldable, coachable, she's willing to learn, correct?
Yeah.
Okay, so you can meet her and she's not the smartest, but you can make her better, correct?
But that could happen at any age.
As long as she's moldable.
At a certain age, sometimes you gotta admit that women would be stubborn.
True.
A girl is less likely to learn at 30 versus at 20.
I agree.
A girl that's younger is more willing to change and accept your frame versus a woman that's sturdy.
Like, that's just what it is.
So, like, you're saying, oh, y'all want a bozo, blah, blah, blah.
Men don't care about competence at the same level that you do because men don't look for security.
Women look for security.
I'm not getting with a chick expecting her, man, I need a girl that's going to be a leader and not be an idiot so that she can lead me.
No, I get with a girl, yo, is she attractive?
Is she not going to give me a pain and a headache and shit like that?
That's what men look for.
Like, it's funny how girls, like, take their wants and needs and they expect men to have the same wants and needs.
We're not the same.
We don't give a fuck about your ability to provide security.
That's why I could walk into a Burger King.
If it's a bad chick and she's attractive and she's not a pain in ass, I'll take her on a date.
Y'all go to Burger King, you seen Attractive Bathers 21?
Y'all ain't looking at that nigga twice.
I do agree with that though.
It's not the same.
I said that all the time.
They can make me a burger.
We never disagreed with you though.
It's not about disagreeing.
It's about y'all think that we have the same wants and attractions that you guys do and we don't.
It's different.
Most women do.
Most women, at their age, they don't even know what they want.
They don't even know that they need a guy to provide for them.
So they're just like, oh, this guy's cute.
They don't even have enough wisdom in life.
Wait, are you calling them dumb?
No!
Don't take that!
Don't take that, yo!
We love our people.
We love our girls.
Guys, do not let them fool you.
Don't let them fool you because we live our best life.
Let me tell you, I'm living my best life now way better than in my life.
Any time a girl tells me I'm living my best life, that's a red flag to me, bro.
I'm like, we already know what time that is.
No.
9 out of 10 times, living your best life means engaging in behavior that leads to potential promiscuity.
If you live worldly, we live principally.
Wait, wait, wait.
He's 100% right.
You're right.
You're right.
Have I not proved that women say something and then mean another?
I had to translate that BS you said earlier.
That your guy was just a bum and you made more money than him.
You didn't want to say that.
I've never said that.
Have I ever said that to Kia?
No.
I don't think he's a bum at all.
No, no, no.
He's not a bum at all.
No, no.
We're not saying he's a bum.
We're just saying he was not on your level.
He was on my level.
I feel like he needed time for himself.
He was just selfish.
That's it.
Yeah.
There was a little bit of selfishness.
This is why, bro, like, women say one thing, but they do another, bro.
This is why this podcast is so important.
Well, if you really love them, you would have worked it out.
No, love, you give them freedom.
No, no.
Love is freedom.
Correct.
However, love will sustain until freedom is all the only option.
Right.
So if we come back around, we might work out.
What about you?
Why did you give the numbers that you gave?
To remind you, I think it was 35 for the man, 25 to 26 for the female.
I would say 35 for a man because I feel like most of them would know what they want at that age.
I wouldn't say that they're fully accomplished, but I would say they're getting there.
I'm there to support them.
I'm not there to tell them what to do, but I'm there to...
Do whatever you need me to do to help you get where you need to get.
Okay.
I'm not there to, like, be in your business.
Support.
Like, I'm not there to, like, tell you what to do and, like, all that.
But I'm there to support you.
Okay.
You know, you're tired.
You want a massage.
We'll give you a massage.
You want a foot rub.
I'll give you a foot rub.
Um, so I rub Jewish, um...
Are your parents still together?
They got divorced.
How old were you when they got divorced?
I was five years old.
Are they in Israel right now?
My mom is in Israel.
I actually did not get along with my mom so much.
I've been living with my dad since I was 15 years old.
I moved with him.
I felt like he was a better Parent and educator and leader for what I needed at the time.
Yeah, I definitely love that.
I love my dad.
He's, like, amazing.
Statistically speaking, single fathers do better than single mothers.
It is true.
That's not even talking shit.
That's a fact.
They do better when raising children.
Because my mom, she just, you know, she got divorced and it was, like, all these men coming into the house and it was, like, not a good environment.
And, like, again, I love my mom.
Yeah.
She belongs to the street.
Goddamn, though, man.
But it was just like not a place for me to grow up.
I didn't feel like she knew how to lead me.
What does your father do?
My dad owns real estate.
He's been retired for over 20 years.
Smart guy.
Does he engage in private equity?
In banks?
You can map out the structure of them boys.
Hey man, hey.
Smart, smart.
I've been losing my real estate to them boys, man.
Sorry, continue on.
Just some jokes.
I grew up in, like, seeing that...
You graduate high school.
If you choose to do school, that's your decision.
In our culture, we do army right after high school.
So you finish the army.
You can do your little trip.
Mandatory for two years, if I'm not mistaken?
Three years for men, two and a half years for women.
And I see it as you finish that and you start looking for a family.
I feel like the age that you get to 25, 26 is a good age.
I do believe in that moldable thing because every man is so different and you have to be there for him at the end of the day.
He is living with you in that house.
He is building a family with you.
He chose you.
So you need to provide what he wants from you for him.
So I do think that...
Dating in a younger age or getting that in a younger age for men is right because you're there for him at the end of the day.
Because he's providing you with everything at the end of the day.
You're there to be like his wife, take care of the kids, cook, clean.
that's your job alright human power yeah man what about you What are your thoughts on this?
Why did you pick 34 for men and then 22 for women?
Um, so 34 for men, uh, mainly because around that age, it's like, obviously when they, they're going to have like more money than they had when they're in their twenties.
Um, they're going to be like somewhat more established, just overall more attractive to women, had more game with women, met more women.
Like overall, they're going to have a better chance with women for women.
Um, So you think experience for a guy is important?
Experience for a guy is important.
Most women are not going to date a guy who has no experience.
It's pretty rare that a girl is going to date a virgin.
Very, very rare.
So experience for men is mandatory, but experience for women is not, I guess?
Experience for women is frowned upon for men, really.
Oh my god, your misogyny is showing.
Yeah, ever so slightly.
I mean, meninist, if anything.
Misogyny!
So I guess the two things for women as to why I think like 22 is a good age.
Number one, like you said, nobody wants babies to come out like lava and peach.
You know, nobody wants that.
Yo, Doug and Pig here, bro.
Yo, Doug and Pig here, whatever here that is.
Well, yeah, you don't want your kids to be a window lickers.
All right.
Sorry.
Go ahead.
So, and the second reason for that being that women, I feel like saying 18 would be, like, ideal, obviously, but a lot of women around the age of 18 just don't hit that, like, submissive role.
Like, I'm 22 now, and I'm just now learning how to be the perfect, like, submissive, stop questioning my boyfriend, because, like, we've been together for two years.
If I was, like, the perfect girlfriend, he would already propose, so...
I've had a lot of learning and growing to do in our relationship.
I've had to learn to not question him, to be more of a submissive girlfriend, trust him in his role, and I'm learning to do that more now that I'm 22.
Wow.
And all your fans.
Right.
I mean, that really takes some critical thinking to say, like, this is why I didn't get proposed to XYZ and then work it backwards.
It's honest.
I mean, like, why would I sit here and, like, lie to myself and be like, oh, I'm the perfect girlfriend, the perfect wife?
He would have married me by now.
We've been together for two years.
She's taking accountability.
Yeah.
She's amazing.
Do you think the OF plays into it?
Why he doesn't want to commit?
Or are you doing that under his authority?
He manages my OnlyFans and we do it together.
We only do OnlyFans.
We do threesomes with other girls.
I don't film with other men.
It's only him filming with other girls.
I don't do anything with other men.
He manages it.
I feel like he likes that we do OnlyFans because that's how we make money.
I always look at it this way.
You know, girls that do OF or do this type of shit, if it's under the male's authority and he wants to do it and he's managing it, whatever, that's different.
But my issue is when the guy doesn't like it and the girl does it anyway.
Like, every guy's different.
Remember how I said moldable?
Something that I might not accept, another guy might and he might want to be involved in it.
But again, every guy's different.
If she respects her man enough as a leader, he says he doesn't like it, she'll stop it.
So I think as long as it's done under the male's authority, I'm cool with it.
But when the girl's doing it, like, in, I guess, to combat her man, that's when it's an issue.
That's when, like, alright, your girl don't respect you.
Battle.
Yeah, battle.
Whatever it may be.
Anybody else have anything?
I want to turn it to ladies if y'all have any disagreements or thoughts on the discussions I had.
No.
More chats!
Alright, cool.
I'll hit the chats real quick.
And from this point forward, guys, I'm going to read 15 up because we got 16 pretty much K of y'all watching on YouTube alone, and then we got another...
Guys, we need to like some, man.
Yeah.
What, 4K likes?
Yeah, something like that.
Come on, guys.
Get the engagement up.
Cam two times goes, women say men be choosing the wrong women, but ladies, if you have more than one body, never mind, F that, if you have at least one body and you're single, you're choosing the wrong man, okay?
Okay.
We got here, Dr.
Evil goes, what's good, y'all?
I'm an art director and I work in the key art industry.
Long story short, I make the movie posters and TV posters for the studios.
If I cook something up for y'all, how do I get it to you?
Can I email it over?
Yes, you can.
Freshfitpod at gmail?
Freshfitpodcast at gmail.com.
Our email, guys, freshfitpodcast at gmail.com.
And please don't send crazy shit.
Question for ladies.
Can you respect the man who liked getting milked?
Alright, good question.
Ladies!
Yeah, ladies!
If your man, or the man that you might be talking to, gets on all fours, likes his ass milked, and likes a prostate orgasm, would you accept that and respect it?
How about that?
Would you accept and respect a man that likes to be on all fours getting a prostate orgasm?
Start here with Miss Serbia.
Go ahead.
Like you're jacking him off while he's on all fours?
Yes.
And finger in the butthole.
Or something in a bubble.
Prostate orgasm.
Keep it real.
It's okay.
I don't know if I'm able to do that.
Okay.
I've never, I don't think I've been able to do that.
That's a no?
Nope.
What about you?
Would you accept that?
Not y'all in our business, but to be honest, it really depends on just, you know, like the guy's preference and if you're pleasing him.
Okay, so would you take a guy seriously that wants prostate orgasms?
Yes or no?
Yeah.
Okay.
No.
No?
Okay.
Yeah, no.
No?
No.
No.
Absolutely not.
No.
Definitely not.
That's against the Torah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Definitely don't like fruitcakes like Lava and Leach.
Don't want my man to dance to Lady Gaga.
Don't want him wearing a unitard posing on stage.
I'm good on all that.
Do you guys want Leach one eye?
I would say, just to be clear, though, as long as it's with a girl, not, like, on some gay shit, though.
No, he's with you.
He's with you.
Yeah, like, no shit and no gay shit, and then we're good.
Alright, there you go.
One would do it.
Alright, there you go.
No monkeying around.
Byron got a rock.
Yo, does he have to...
Yo, what the fuck, bro?
Shout out to the Fresher Pitbull.
Yo!
We really don't give a fuck on this side of the internet, man.
It goes again.
Also, Myron, site updates.
I need a shirt, but I gotta rock.
Yo, shout out to y'all, man.
Y'all are fucking hilarious.
Zay, say that thing you said last time you was on into the camera because the Simps need to know y'all did...
This one?
Yeah, this one right here.
No, no, no, no.
Right here.
This one?
Yeah.
Alright.
Just remember that if you pay for porn, you are a little dick loser.
There you go.
There you go, man.
You got a porn star telling y'all that, so stop being fucking Sims.
Uh-oh.
Blackest Panther, ladies, let's start off again with some basic reality check.
Since none of you is a 10, name a female celebrity you consider a 10, looks only.
Now rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10.
Go on the table on that one.
Actually, save it.
Save that one.
Yes, later.
Chris, keep that one started.
I just want to make sure I get through everything else.
Black Panther again.
Ladies, do you think you deserve to be with a better man than your father?
If so, name at least two things that make you a better woman than your mother or grandmother.
Okay, keep that one started as well.
Black Panther asks good questions.
If a man pays all the bills, does he deserve to have more than one woman, and if so, how many?
That's actually a very good question.
Okay, we'll make this nice and simple.
If a guy pays all the bills and takes care of you, does he deserve to have more than one woman?
Raise your hands if you think yes.
Two girls.
Okay, the rest of you say no.
He needs to be monogamous.
Yes.
Well, that's against my religion, so...
Okay.
Well, it's also against your religion to have tattoos.
But, uh...
They're gonna bury you in an Israeli cemetery, in a Jewish cemetery.
Uh-oh.
About the boys.
Okay, we'll go around the table.
So only two girls are okay with it.
Real quick, why not?
First, your reason was because it's against your religion, right?
Yeah.
Okay, must be monogamous.
Yeah.
Okay, what about you?
Why not?
Sorry, what was the question again?
So you disagree with something you don't even know the question is?
Stupid!
Alright, the question was, if a man was paying all the bills, okay, Could he have more than one girl?
Oh, no.
No?
Okay, why not for you?
Um, I don't know.
I just, like, never really, like, heard of that.
Like, I don't think that that's right.
Okay, you just don't think it's right?
No.
Okay.
What about threesomes?
I mean, like, not in a relationship.
So, single?
Only?
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
Why can't he have...
He's paying all the bills to take care of you.
Why can't he not have multiple girls?
My man does pay all the bills and no, he cannot because he's a leader.
What the fuck?
Wouldn't he be a leader?
No, I'm just joking.
Seriously, no.
My man does pay all the bills and no, it's just me.
Just me.
I don't believe in him having other women.
If he's a leader...
I don't believe in him having other women.
No, but isn't he making choices for you?
What do you mean?
Because he's paying my bills?
Yeah, as a leader, he should be leading you, right?
Yeah, absolutely.
What if his direction is saying, hey, you know what, baby?
I love you, but every now and then we'll bring some girls in.
I would have to lead because that doesn't stand by my principles.
Wait, I thought you was a queen.
I am a queen, but I still have my principles that I stand by.
I'm not going to lower my standards for things that are unethical to make him happy.
He still has to be lived by principles.
He cannot bring another woman into the bedroom.
Yeah, mine.
Man, fuck your standards.
So what if I ask him?
If I pay the bills, right?
You have no standards.
You live with me, alright?
Shut the fuck up.
Do what I ask you to do.
Simple as that.
What roots do you have?
Okay, that's your opinion.
So if I paid all the bills, the shoes return, would you let me bring multiple men into the room?
First of all, you wouldn't date a guy who paid the bills.
You don't know that.
You wouldn't date a guy Well, let me ask you a question.
I see your analogy here.
If you're with a man, would you want to be having sex with other guys?
No.
Okay.
You think if a man's with a woman, he doesn't want to have sex with other women?
Absolutely, he probably does.
It's a control thing, for sure.
I'm not naive.
It's not a control thing.
It's that, why is it that you can be happy, but he can't be?
Because when you get a relationship, a woman's fulfilling what she wants, a relationship, a security with a man.
Why is it a problem for the man to be able to get what he wants?
Because most men want to be able to have sex with a multitude of women.
Men want variety.
So why is it that your sexual strategy needs to be accomplished, but not his?
Because that's not principle.
That's not what the Bible says.
Can we have multiple men paying our bills?
What was that?
Can we have multiple men paying our bills?
Realistically speaking, do you want multiple men to be paying your bills?
If we can have it our way.
If they want to have sex with multiple women, fuck it.
Let me have multiple men paying my bills.
So now we're both happy.
It's not one-sided.
That's disingenuous because most women overwhelmingly would prefer to get security, love, and everything else from one man.
However, men don't operate the same way.
We could love our girl the same and she's the best girl, but we're always going to want other women.
So that's a disingenuous argument.
So you're never going to get married?
It's not about being married.
Men always want multiple women.
We don't want variety.
Right, so you're never going to get married.
I would just have multiple chicks, but that's what it is.
But going back to what you're saying, so you want monogamy.
Question for you.
If your guy cheated on you and you found out he had sex with another girl, what would you do?
We'll talk about it.
I'm not going to say I will leave them the first time.
Smart.
Okay.
No.
I won't say I will leave them the first time.
Okay.
All right.
Can you admit, though, that most men are going to cheat?
Absolutely.
I tell my girlfriends that all the time.
I think 98% of men cheat.
So, wouldn't it be fair to say that, like, if you know this and you actually accept it, your man would love you even more?
Yeah.
I'm not willing to cross that bridge.
Hold on.
You acknowledge it, but you don't want to cross it.
No, I don't like that.
I don't like how that makes me feel.
See how her feelings are prioritized over his?
He wants to put other bitches that are younger and more attractive.
Keep it a thousand with you.
But if he loves me enough, he'll know what's important to me and he won't do that.
He's paying the bills.
You're fed.
He's gonna pay my bills and love me enough and respect me.
In my opinion, just vice versa.
It's her rules.
It's not my rules.
It is her rules.
It's both of our rules.
Nah, he wants to fuck other girls.
He wants to fuck other girls.
That's a fact.
I know you love me so much.
Go fuck her and come back to me.
Wait, is your guy a millionaire?
No.
Okay, is he financially successful?
Yes.
You think men bust their ass to earn money, become successful to fuck one girl?
No, but that's just, no, I don't think that.
No, but we just don't like it though.
No.
No, no, no.
You don't like it.
Most women, well, you guys are saying most men, most women would not like it.
It doesn't make us feel comfortable.
But if he's a leader and he's leading you in the family, I think women just need to, like, accept the fact that if your guy's successful and he's attractive, he's gonna fuck other girls, you just need to be the number one girl.
Like, that's how I get girls.
Like, the thing is, is that if you know most men are gonna cheat, anyway, at some point, right?
Why not just deal with reality, accept reality, and be prepared for reality?
Like, if I tell you it's about a rain outside, here's an umbrella, and you walk outside without that umbrella and you get wet, whose fault is it?
It's your fault for getting wet when I armed you with the umbrella.
But it's a respect thing.
I can't control or stay single or it's a control thing.
I can't...
Alright, then you can stay single.
Basically, it's like a respect thing.
I don't have control of what I can't see.
I'm not going to be okay with a man coming home telling me he's sleeping with multiple women.
What he does when he walks outside the door...
He probably is.
I don't know.
You can't crucify me.
I don't know.
Once you don't hear about it or see it, you're good.
I can't control that.
I can't crucify.
Here's the other two.
Older women don't have leverage.
That's another thing that I really hate to say it, but as the man has more success and more status, and you have more success and you have more status, you don't have leverage anymore.
Because he could go get a 19-year-old, a 20-year-old, a 21-year-old that's more attractive than you, but you can't go and find a guy that's 21 years old that's attractive that's going to turn you on.
Let's keep it a thousand.
There's a reason why Beyonce, she got cheated on by Jay-Z. She didn't fucking go nowhere.
Even though she'd be lying to y'all.
Irreplaceable.
All the single ladies.
Beyonce is one of the biggest feminist propaganda females out there, but she does not practice what she preaches.
I have a whole chapter dedicated to this shit.
Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, all these women, they've lied to y'all, telling y'all that the single girl life is it.
But when Beyonce actually got her foot...
Foot to the fire.
Jay-Z cheated on you.
Make him replaceable.
She couldn't do it.
Why?
Because she's successful.
She has money.
And guess what?
She's old now.
She can't find another Jay-Z, but Jay-Z can absolutely find a hotter, younger Beyonce because we don't have the same requirements of a woman.
Y'all want status, money, etc.
We don't give a fuck about none of that.
But she ain't go anywhere.
So what I tell women, especially older women, no offense to you ladies, if your man cheats on you, you better stick by his side because you ain't going to be able to replace him to the same level he can replace you.
Be happy.
But women don't want to hear that.
What about you?
Where's my feelings?
Would you pay all your bills?
Multiple chicks?
Oh no, we didn't do her.
They said hell no, both of them.
I just feel like the man could stay single.
Why even get with a girl?
If you want to fuck bitches, just stay single.
And keep it real.
Just be honest.
Doesn't make sense.
Why settle down then?
No, just stay single.
Just stay single.
Why get in a relationship if you want to fuck bitches?
Because we can't handle the truth.
We can.
If you just say, I want to fuck other bitches, I don't want to be the only shit.
And then you're gone, right?
Goodbye.
Exactly.
So they're not going to tell you the truth.
So they don't say the truth, yeah.
Not all women think like that.
I don't think like that.
If you're single, then no, I'm not one of those women.
If you're single, I can't.
Why would I leave you?
I'm single.
You can fuck whoever you want to fuck.
You're single.
Just bring value to me.
Guy walks up to you.
You're both single.
Hey, listen.
I don't really ever want to commit to you or take you seriously.
I just want to have sex with you, and I'm also going to go ahead and have sex with other women as well, but I want to be able to call you whenever I get warning at 2 a.m., and we can continue to have sex casually, but I don't want to commit to you.
Would you take that guy seriously?
Yes, absolutely.
If he wants to pay all my bills.
If he wants to pay all my bills, he sure could.
Man, these chicks No, I'm not.
The reason why men lie to women is because women can't fucking handle the truth.
Y'all can't even face yourselves.
That's why y'all wear makeup every day.
Women be lying.
Men can't be honest with girls.
If a guy wanted to be a thousand percent honest, he'd say, listen, I find you sexually attractive.
I want to continue to have sex with you.
However, I don't know if I want to commit to you because there might be hotter girls, so I'm going to keep you in the rotation.
Are you okay with that?
99% of girls will say, what the fuck?
No, no.
And the same with the girls.
Girls nowadays have a lot of options.
There's a lot of guys that are willing to pay their...
You go to a strip club, you don't see men shaking their asses waiting for money.
Men are throwing money at women.
So girls are...
For sex only.
For sex only.
What?
For sex only.
No, no, let her finish her point.
Continue.
No, so girls nowadays actually like multiple men rather than being in a relationship because they actually get more by being single than being in a relationship.
Yeah, but that's cool.
Most girls would prefer to get one guy.
The problem is this.
Most guys don't have all the things that a girl wants.
One guy might be attractive, but he's a fucking bum.
One guy might be charismatic and charming, but he's ugly.
Very rarely can a girl find a guy that has money, status, good-looking, charming, charismatic in one package.
If given the choice, a girl would prefer to have one guy have all these things.
We don't operate that way.
A girl can have everything.
Man, she's fucking perfect!
You're still going to want to fuck a bitch.
That's the difference between the two.
And then also, what you said, the reason why women can handle the truth is because we never tell women the truth, but men have to deal with reality.
If I'm an ugly bum, reality is going to tell me I'm an ugly bum.
Chicks aren't going to give me dates.
Girls are going to flake on me.
No one's going to respect me.
Men have to live in reality to become successful.
Wait, don't.
Like, y'all get lied to all day.
And also, to your argument on the strip club, yeah, they don't want money, but that girl doesn't want all those guys.
They're not all options.
Some may be, but a lot of them are not.
So, ultimately speaking, she may have options, but are they really good for her?
Matter of fact, bro, we've interviewed, like, thousands of women on this podcast.
You know what every single stripper tells me?
What?
I want a guy so I can get the fuck off this pole.
Every girl wants to get the hell off that pole as soon as possible.
No girl dances long term and says, oh, this is great.
They all want to either transition to OnlyFans or find a man to get them the fuck out of that industry.
No girl wants to sit there being touched by random dudes they don't know.
Creeps, by the way.
Right, but they still are doing it.
They do add an assessment.
Do you want to strip forever?
No.
Why?
That's just not something that I want to do.
I'm just doing it while I'm young so I can save my money and invest in other stuff.
So right there in the flesh is a plan to get out eventually.
No girl wants to do it long term.
They just don't.
Real quick, we've interviewed 2,200 different women ages 18 to 46 from 46 U.S. states, 63 different countries.
187 job titles, including unemployment and only 166 friend castles.
Yeah, I don't kick girls off just for anything.
Real quick, guys, how many likes are we at right now?
We got 16,000 y'all watching right now on YouTube.
Another four to five.
So we got 20,000 plus y'all watching live right now.
So shout out to all y'all.
Number one men's podcast in the fucking world.
I'm gonna try to copy, but they know they can't.
Where we at here?
Did anyone else have anything?
Sorry, before...
Oh, no, we were talking about, okay, guy pays all the bills, want multiple chicks, yes or no?
No.
No?
Why not?
It's just, I don't know, if I'm going to be with a guy, I mean, that's what I want him to do, is, like, pay the bills.
That doesn't mean, like, you get to have other girls.
I mean, a good boy.
But wouldn't it be, do you think that most men cheat if given the chances?
Yes.
So, if most men cheat, shouldn't it be smart to gauge your expectations?
Yeah, but that's just what would be ideal for me.
Okay.
Wouldn't it be fair to say that what's ideal versus what's real are two different things?
Yeah.
So if you find a guy that takes care of all the bills, etc., that's fairly hard to find.
You might want 100 girls.
You wouldn't acclimate to that?
I mean, I wouldn't want to know.
That's what was going on, I mean.
You wouldn't want to know?
Maybe.
If you play me, keep it on the low.
Okay.
Well, I guess my grandparents are a major exception to the rule.
I know men cheat.
You don't know what your granddad was doing?
No.
Back in my days.
Yeah.
They have a very traditional relationship.
He paid for everything.
And my grandma was a housewife.
She took care of the kids.
She took care of the house chores.
She took care of everything.
Okay.
He never, ever would go out without her unless it was a business meeting.
Was your grandma a traditional woman, it seems?
Yes.
Okay, do you think modern women today are traditional?
No.
So do they deserve traditional treatment from men?
No, but I think that there's a sliver of the population that do hold traditional values.
Is it the majority?
No, especially in big cities.
If you are in Miami, the chances of you finding a traditional girl is slim to none.
But if you go to other places in the world, you might find them.
Other places in the world?
Nebraska.
I would argue most women in the United States are not traditional at all.
I said other places in the world.
Oh yeah, you have to go outside the world where those things are.
But in the United States, I'm saying they're not.
If you take a 21-year-old chick and a 21-year-old dude, the chick has way more bites.
I agree.
So do modern-day women in the United States deserve traditional treatment when most of them are fairly promiscuous?
No, but I'm going to personalize it and I believe I hold traditional values.
Are you a virgin?
No.
But I hold traditional values doesn't mean...
Not the cap!
So you hold bodies too?
You hold the traditional values that benefit you.
- Oh, fresh.
- Good one, fresh.
- Oh, that was good.
- No? - I said yes.
- No, no, no, I was saying for her.
- But at least you're improving, right?
- Fresh.
- Don't apologize, man.
- Come on, man.
- No, I'm just saying, bro.
- Come on, fresh.
- You're becoming a better person, right? - I feel like I'm returning to my core values as I age, as I become wiser and I go through certain experiences.
I feel like a lot of my relationships have been a contrast of what I do not align with.
Man, you sound like them.
She on the 19th.
Part of the 19th.
But you still ain't a virgin though, so sign up.
But you still ain't sign up.
I know, but I lost it to my first love of my life.
Where's he now?
Well, I don't know if he's still doing drugs or not.
I don't talk to him.
But the question is though, can you return those bodies?
Nope.
Can I what?
Nothing.
Alright, move on.
Alright, what about you?
Would you be okay with your guy paying all your bills and having another chick?
Of course.
Oh, yeah, yeah, you raise your hand.
It was only you two.
Okay, and then what about you?
No, I wouldn't be okay with it.
Why not?
Serbia, why not?
Because...
I don't know.
I just don't think it's okay.
I can't, like, envision that.
It's more of an emotional thing.
I wouldn't want him...
What if you don't envision it?
You don't know.
If I didn't know he was doing it, ignorance is bliss.
I think most girls would go that route as I just don't want to know.
All these tricks are Mario Winans on the low, bro.
Okay, Prince J. Myron, you do not understand how many YouTubers you are feeding by acting like the villain both in the RP space and on YouTube.
Do you think it's intelligent to be feeding these people?
Listen, bro, they're going to talk shit anyway, so we might as well cook them.
And like I said before, they just proved that they're pussy-ass comedians.
They're not really, you know, they're not willing to go the other way.
I'm going to make another video!
Anally reached, and that's from Reach.
I appreciate that, my friend.
Brother of mine, I saw the stream with Sneeko, and I disagree with 39 IQ. You gave a couple clowns who only know to lie and deflect those IQ can be counted on one hand.
Okay, I think you're trying to say that they're stupid.
Fair enough.
W to Chris for not stuttering.
I'm too late.
Prince J, respect you for always reading Super Chat.
Nat was literally not reading our chats.
Also, I'm happy you brought up Mel Monkey Branch and she loves to act like she is morally good when she literally left a man for another man.
Yeah, Brian.
Yeah.
Shay is a perfect example of a woman that says one thing but behaves in another.
Like, all her behavior is demonstrating what we're talking about, yet she claims all this other BS. It is what it is, bro.
We wish her the best, though.
Yeah, yeah.
No hate on her.
So, Destiny's girl.
Yeah, like, literally, she jumped on Destiny from another guy.
And she did that shit on stream.
Well, to be fair, that was her destiny.
Yeah.
Let's see what you did there.
Come on, Chris!
That's a not bad one, man.
And then, where else do we have?
Oh, Derek the Trader goes, question for the ladies.
When it comes to your previous relationship breakup, can you name one thing you...
You did wrong and the guy did wrong.
Okay, this is a staple.
Yes.
We're going to start here with Ms.
Serbia.
Name one thing you did wrong in the relationship and one thing the guy did wrong in the relationship.
Be honest.
We're watching you.
Yeah.
Go ahead.
Be honest.
I guess I could say I was like toxic in some ways.
What does that mean?
Chemical waste?
Like, doing things on purpose to get them upset, arguing, bringing up the past, even though you're trying to focus on the future.
What past did you bring up?
Like, when he cheated.
That was, like, one thing I would say.
Question for you.
When you forgave him, did it ever leave your conscience, for example, like, he cheated.
Was that easy to get over or no?
No, not at all.
Could he get over it or no?
No, I don't think he ever fully gets over that.
Especially not with that same person.
How'd you find out?
Did he tell you or did you see results?
No, the girl he did it with told me.
Oh shit!
What a snake, bro!
Fucking snake behavior.
Okay, so you were starting arguments in gasoline.
Okay, what did he do wrong?
I could say like the cheating, yeah.
And like lying.
But was it really that bad though?
I mean, he still came out to you, right?
Yeah, at the end, but it still hurt in the way everything went down.
You know, you're young, impressionable.
What about you?
One thing you did wrong in your last relationship and one thing he did wrong?
For me, one, I just think I was young and dumb and I didn't completely understand and I didn't completely understand men's nature so I took a lot of his actions out of context and judged him wrongly about certain things.
What did you judge him wrongly about?
What did he do with that?
Certain things he would get angry about and things like that.
What did he get angry about?
You know, me not being submissive as I should.
And as for him in the wrong, I just don't think he was as ambitious that he should be in the sense of providing for us.
What about you?
One thing you did wrong in the relationship, one thing you did wrong.
I think we know what he did wrong.
- Actually. - Well, yeah, the drug on his part.
And I think that I didn't endure that hardship when it came up.
I feel like I could have stayed and supported him because I know that he did struggle with addiction before we were in a relationship.
So I feel like I could have been there to help him move past that addiction and break free from it.
That's not your problem though.
I know it's not, but I loved and cared for him, so I wanted to be...
And you still broke up.
Yeah.
Cool world.
That's messed up, man.
Alright, what about you?
I don't like liars.
One thing he did.
I just don't think I put, like, enough effort.
But he also did the same.
He just couldn't.
Like, he was younger than me.
Didn't, like, have as good as a job.
How did you not put an effort, and then how did he not put an effort?
I just wouldn't, like, call or text often unless, like, he would be the first to do everything.
Damn, okay.
And then what did he do wrong?
He didn't put effort in either, even though he called and texted you every time?
Yeah, just in other ways.
Like, he wouldn't drive because he didn't have a car, and he wouldn't, like, spend money on me, really.
Smart man.
Did he have money, though?
Yeah, he didn't have really anything to offer.
All he had was the game.
Fantastic.
What about you?
Last relationship, one thing you did wrong, one thing you did wrong.
Okay, Myron, you know I'm perfect.
So we already went through.
So nothing you did wrong.
Okay, just kidding.
No, we actually went over that earlier.
I was trying to rush his success.
I understood that.
I actually admitted that.
We actually understood that.
And he wasn't putting enough effort Okay.
What about you?
I talk too much.
Fox.
At least she's honest, bro.
I talk too much.
I had to learn how to let a man lead, even though I push a lot, leader, leader, leader, but I was trying to push him to make him be a leader, and that just wasn't his timing.
He didn't have the capacity to try to retain what I was trying to say.
So I talk too much.
So now I realize with my new relationship to just be a little bit humble, listen to a man, kind of be a little submissive, but not be overbearing.
Kind of a little bit submissive.
Just kind of.
Just a little bit submissive.
It took like 47 years.
I've never been in a serious relationship We can tell.
Fair enough.
I guess the last relationship that you had, why did it end?
What did you do wrong and what did you do wrong?
Um...
Even if though it wasn't serious, but why the end?
Oh, it's just so pretty.
Just because, like, no guy's, like, really looking for anything, like, serious right now, like, at my age, so it's, like, I'm not gonna waste my time on somebody.
You never date a guy older?
Um, I mean, no, not really.
I mean, I'm 18, so, like, like I said earlier, like, 29, 30, I'm not really gonna, like, date a guy that's, like, 30.
What about you?
For me, it was that he would complain that I wouldn't trust him, but then he ended up cheating on me.
Okay.
Did he cheat on you first and then you were always asking him questions?
I was never asking questions, but he could feel that the trust is not fully there.
Okay.
And then you caught him after the fact.
Yeah.
And then what did you do wrong?
Um...
I guess for him it was like that I didn't trust him and that was like a big thing.
Probably being annoying?
A little bit.
Not annoying, but like I would say stuff and he would be like, why would you say that?
And seeing two guys?
Huh?
Never mind.
It's a chat.
Never mind.
I'm confused.
Okay.
Whatever, Chris.
Was he one of them?
Sorry, was he Jewish as well?
No, Christian.
And he was older too.
Freaking all the rules.
Actually, it passes through the female.
Wait, is it allowed in Jewish faith to marry men?
What do you guys call them?
Goddammit, what's the term for someone that's not Jewish?
I don't know.
Gentile.
I don't know if it's for Mary, but I grew up a more open person.
I dated Muslims, I dated Christians, I dated Jewish people.
I'm open to it.
It's not everything.
I think it's frowned upon, but they can't do it because it passes from the female side.
My kids will be Jewish because I'm Jewish.
Fair enough.
In Islamic faith, you can marry a woman that isn't Muslim.
I support everybody.
What about you?
So I'm kind of in the same boat.
Like, my current boyfriend is my first, like, serious relationship.
But I guess, like, the last, like, situation I had, the thing he did wrong was, it was, like, an open relationship because we were, like, never officially together.
But, one, he was lying about, like, hooking up with other girls, which, like...
Even though it was open?
That's what I'm saying.
Why did you lie?
Which I didn't like that.
And I found out that all of his money was not his and it was his mom's the whole time.
We went to dinner and he paid with his mom's card.
And I was like...
Wait, how'd you find out?
We went to dinner at Salt Bae's restaurant and he paid with his mom's card.
And I was like, who is Karen?
Because you're not Karen.
And yeah, so that's how I found that out.
Wow.
His mom's a Karen.
Damn.
Okay.
Yeah.
All right.
So what do we got here?
Somebody said W Hakimi.
Jay the car guy, I gave a gift to Mark Fresh and Moe last week when I was in Miami.
Chris, I looked at every bench I thought you could be sleeping on and no luck, I didn't find you.
I'll owe you a bottle of Hennessy or a blanket next time.
Appreciate that, my friend.
Shout out to you.
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Shout out to Big Mo and the lovely Icy and Xena for the love and picks.
And huge shout out to Myron for signing my book and future flag.
Let's do it again soon.
Shout out to my friend.
Yeah, that was great.
I remember you.
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Respond to reality.
Shout out to Freshman, Respect Myron.
I reached out to him.
He gave me his blessing to keep these professional point missers on their toes, paying my early dues and respect.
Shout out to you, my friend.
I appreciate it.
Also, Destiny is the biggest enemy to this space.
He has a huge problem with you guys, and he has been using his space to get back relevant.
I think you guys should be more intelligent with your talking points because of him, and that's from Prince J. Yeah, I mean, you guys got to remember that Destiny is a contrarian.
He's a professional contrarian, so that's what he does.
I mean, it's funny because Destiny practices a lot of RP practices.
He doesn't say it on camera.
He just won't say it on camera because a lot of his audience are pussies that, quite frankly, don't have the ability to attract multiple women.
Fucks.
Yo, what's up, Fresh and Fit?
Just want to say thank you for what you do.
You guys got me through some rough shit.
Keep me laughing and taught me a lot.
I'm now in the Army, just graduated basic training, and now in AIT. Much love to you guys.
Shout out to you, my friend.
Thank you for your service.
That's Kongju.
And that damn eyes.
we have hate on us now gentlemen for making women look stupid i counted that we let it unfold sit back and watch the show and like the damn video appreciate that my friend uh these song goes after watching the bbc interview with andrew tate i am fully convinced that he is being set up to be arrested in the uk the next time you talk to tate please advise him to not go to the uk ps ask melina if she has slept with men in an open relationship uh I guess next time we see her.
Been a while since I watched a live stream.
Usually the playback.
Shout out to you guys for everything you do.
Shout out to Sneeko and Zerka for the hilarious last shows.
Keep speaking truth, and hopefully I can make it to the next live show.
Desmond Ramsey goes, Myron, did you see the girl in Australia that was protesting in the street because she got fired from her corporate job because she had an OF and was calling her boss a creep for finding her on OF? Question for the ladies.
Is she right or wrong about the situation?
Good question.
Every woman has a corporate job and she is fired for having an OnlyFans.
Do you guys think that's a fair practice or not?
We can start with you.
I think it's fair to an extent because when you're doing something that's corporate, you're representing the business.
So when people are looking you up, they're finding everything about you online, literally everything about you.
It's going to make the whole business look bad and then people just aren't going to want to hire you.
So overall, don't mix corporate and OnlyFans.
It doesn't work.
Fair enough.
What about you?
What are your thoughts?
I would say, why are you still in your corporate job?
If you're doing OnlyFans, you should be making money off of that.
Not a corporate job.
So pick one, I guess.
Yeah, pick one.
What about you?
Yeah, you should probably make sure before you start the job, if they allow that or not.
And if they don't, then...
So ask?
Yeah, I guess.
You think asking at an interview would be a good idea though?
Hey, I'm just curious.
Hey, I got some butthole pictures here though.
Is this okay?
Is it okay, sir?
I mean, it's better to be honest, I guess.
Hold on, did you tell the strip club I do OnlyFans?
No, that's not like a really serious business.
Okay, fair enough.
Just curious.
What about you?
I agree with the ladies.
Yeah, it should be.
It depends on what you're doing.
Okay, so if you're doing it on OnlyFans, you, I guess, be prepared to get fired?
Be prepared to get fired, pretty much.
What about you?
What are your thoughts on that?
I think it just depends.
I guess it has to do with what is written in the contract and what business they're representing, you know?
I mean, do they have to put there explicitly, you can't be on OnlyFans?
I would think so, yeah.
It depends on what their values of the company are.
I mean, if it's a sexually...
So that means it's, you know, making money and capitalism.
Could you imagine you work for a company, right?
And you do have to do like a presentation in front of a whole group.
Someone says, isn't that so-and-so XX OnlyFans?
Me personally?
Right.
I wouldn't.
But if we're looking at what's right and wrong, I guess it would just depend on the company.
I don't know.
Well, you guys run a business yourself, Aesthetics Consulting.
Would you be okay with one of your female employees busting it wide open on OnlyFans?
Busting it wide open.
Would y'all actually hire her and let her be a part of the team?
We try not to judge people for what they do, but we do have values that we stand by and that we teach.
So what would y'all do?
So you are judging.
We would inspire her to choose a different path to make more money in a different way.
So you wouldn't even accept it.
No, we would.
We wouldn't fire her for it.
But you would encourage her probably to get off, correct?
Because it's not what we stand for.
That's not what we teach.
We teach making money through beauty industry.
She's making money using her beauty.
Right, but we wouldn't fire her.
We would be like, alright girl, we got another way you can make some money.
Like what?
This is awesome.
This is awesome.
Like, this podcast just shows female, uh, you know, contradictions and delusions all over the place.
I love it.
Yeah, that's crazy, bruh.
Okay.
Only women can, like, make it through life, bro, be, like, contradicting everything they say and move.
Oh, no, no, they shouldn't do it.
Okay, what about your business?
Ah, nah.
We wouldn't encourage them to not do that.
We wouldn't fire them.
We won't fire you today, but tomorrow.
What did she say?
I'm not quitting.
I'm not quitting.
I make more doing that than this.
What are you doing?
What are you doing?
Yeah, niggas be like, all right, girl.
Yeah, yeah, you turn it to Donald Trump, you're fired.
Listen.
Next day.
Listen, man.
You're wrong.
Exactly what you're like.
Wrong.
All right, what about you?
Yeah, I mean, that's, like, a big reason why I don't have an OnlyFans, just because of, like, my future, and I go to school, and I'm a realtor, I don't want, like, that image for myself, so it makes sense, yeah.
What about you?
You might sell more doing OnlyFans.
Yeah.
I'm just kidding.
Sorry, go ahead.
I don't think OnlyFans and corporate world merge.
They're not compatible.
So I think it would be fair if they were fired, if they had nudity or sex scenes on the internet.
You are representing the company at the end of the day.
Has anyone ever told you you work great in HR? I just see it right now.
No.
No?
I'm telling you right now, you would.
Why?
You'd kill it.
Why?
You speak very deep.
Okay.
What about you?
I definitely think she's in the wrong because you know what you have online and you know what you're getting into having a corporate job and that most corporate jobs look down upon that because honestly, when it comes to OnlyFans, people do look at you in a different type of way because of it.
Alright, fair enough.
What about you?
Yeah, I think it looks bad on the business if you hire somebody and you can see in their background pictures of them nude.
Alright.
Would you hire someone that does OnlyFans for your nail tech business that you got?
No, I don't think so.
Okay.
Damn.
Alright.
Damn, none of the girls would give them...
Y'all are fucked up.
T.J. King, well, if it's their business, savage.
Most people get stuck in their ways around 25, in my opinion.
Anyone disagree?
I disagree.
You disagree?
Okay, why do you disagree?
Because I don't think it's ever too late to realize that you may have been living out of alignment, that you may have been following maybe the mainstream way of living.
I don't think that 50 is too late because I've seen also with my own family members, I've seen with other people in my life, wake up and realize, oh wait, I've been living in an illusion.
I've been living in a matrix.
Yes.
Okay.
So HR can deliver bad news in a nice way.
What else?
Tom Jones goes, and bestow upon him, we don't dabble in the dark.
Amen!
W. Meyer, amen!
Okay.
Oh, man.
All right.
As Maher proves three nights a week, these American women are now salvageable.
International is the best option, particularly Colombia.
Better mindset, most importantly, a better pH.
Any of y'all agree with him that American women can't be saved?
What do y'all think?
Oh, my God.
Do you guys think American women can be saved?
Yes.
We're trying right now.
We're trying.
The Israeli girl says no.
What about you?
You think American women can be saved?
Yeah.
She don't want to be saved.
I mean, maybe like one day.
What about you?
Do you think American Woman can be saved?
Yeah, I think so.
What about y'all too?
Yes, absolutely.
Okay, what about you?
Hell no.
Hell no, damn.
Okay, what about you?
I don't really think so.
You don't think so?
Why do you say no?
I want to know why you ladies say no.
Because they're too far gone and they're too wrapped up in feminist bullshit.
Yeah.
Is that why?
And the younger ones are even worse.
Yeah.
This doesn't get better with social media and everything.
She's trying y'all right now.
You can take that from her?
Yeah.
I can take that from her.
So are you guys saying feminism is a lie?
Like 100%.
How many of y'all think feminism is a lie to women?
I know the older chick.
Oh, well y'all know now because y'all say that.
Okay, why do you think feminism is a lie?
Well, I'll hear it from one of the boys.
Why do you...
What do you say?
Because we're not in the world that men and women are equal.
It was never equal.
It was never meant to be equal.
And I don't understand, like...
Is feminism a thing in the homeland?
Yeah, a little bit.
Nowadays, but like...
No.
We know our place.
We know our place.
In the kitchen.
Yeah.
No, yeah.
Why are you living in a fake world that you think that you're going to get the same salary as him, you're going to get the same treatment as him, you're going to get the same everything as him?
No.
And you weren't meant to.
So know your place and say thank you.
Anyone disagree with that?
Do you think if a girl and a guy are doing the exact same job that the girl should still be getting paid less?
I don't think it should, but that's the world we live in.
There's a bunch of reasons why women get paid less, though.
It's not just because of, like, typically women work less hours, women take more time off.
There's a bunch of reasons for it.
Imagine, a man is working the same job, and you got pregnant, now you're out for like a year, year and a half to, whatever you decide.
Yeah, I understand.
It would be like excluding that.
And then the company needs to have more resources to find a replacement for you, train that person, do all that, wasting their time.
Women generally earn less because they deserve less.
If I'm going to be all the way honest, women are inherently lazy.
What I mean by this is they're lazy when it comes to booking stores, guys.
I talk about this in detail, why women actually make less money than men.
It's not because they're just women.
It's because women don't have the same proclivity to earn income and status that men do.
Men have a stronger driving force to go out there and perform.
Women just don't.
Like women typically are just lazier than men when it comes to resource acquisition.
That is so true.
That's just the truth.
I'm 24 and I am already ready to be a housewife.
I'm so done with work.
9 to 5 bullshit.
There's a biological reason for it.
Like as a man, right?
If I don't go out there and perform, I'm not going to be able to make, I'm not going to be able to find a woman and have a family and settle down.
However, as a woman, if you don't create resources, it's okay.
If you're attractive enough, a guy will come in and save you.
So men don't have a safety net of being able to be a house husband.
Women do.
So that's why women in general just are lazier than men when it comes to creating resources.
Now, when it comes to children, women are way harder working than men, right?
That is what it is.
And that's because women are the ones that create the children.
They're more than likely going to be more invested in that child's success, right?
But they need a man by their side.
Typically, that's why we know single mother households lead to L's.
But In general, women are laser when it comes to creating resources.
It's just a fact.
I mean, in short, men are providers.
Women are nurturers.
And if you look at the United States, for example, if you look at the top 10 jobs that pay the least, women dominate those fields, and they're all based around people and socialist-type jobs, right?
Daycare, teachers, nurses, whatever it may be.
The top 10 jobs that make the most money that are dangerous, they're dominated by men.
Women don't want to go into job fields that are dangerous or labor-intensive, right?
Women don't want to be...
They don't want to be, you know, Alaskan, wild fishermen and shit like that, like, or jobs that are very dangerous.
They don't want to be drillers.
They don't want to be in construction.
They don't want to do these jobs.
They want to be able to kind of sit back and work in an air-conditioned environment, and unfortunately, those jobs sometimes don't pay the same.
Think about it.
Have you ever seen a woman working as waste management?
I haven't.
No.
As what?
We're also not physically as capable.
Yeah.
Huh?
We're not physically as capable, you know?
I mean, we get our periods, and that's something we can't control.
No, but here's the thing.
These jobs now, a lot of the times it's not as manually intensive.
So women can go into these jobs.
They just don't want to.
You drive a truck, put on a suit, pick up garbage.
Yeah, women just don't want to do it, which is cool.
But women can't sit there and say, oh, I make less because I'm a woman.
No, you make less because of your personal choices.
And women in general are just lazy.
I'm just going to be a thousand.
They just are.
I don't think so.
You don't think so?
No.
Why not?
Because look at how many single women households there are because men are not standing up.
Women are starting to take over in this country because men are not.
Take over in which way?
Financially.
Well, women are out-earning men in a lot of places, but men control most of the wealth, though.
Because it was designed that way from...
So we're almost like when there was slavery and things, we're trying to...
You gotta look at where we came from.
We came from being suppressed.
So now we're having to overcome that.
Imagine if we were never suppressed.
I'm just saying.
I get where you're coming from, but women dominate college attendance nowadays, but they still are going into stupid careers and stupid majors and they don't make as much money.
They're not being trained.
Nobody's teaching them.
What?
They're going to university at a higher rate than men are.
Now, in today's time, so we'll see how it's going to look in 20 years from now.
This is scary.
Because we don't know how it's going to look, which means your example of having principles in the book, which is the Bible, never stated women should be in power.
If women are in power, what does that mean?
The leaders are failing us, which is the men.
It starts at the man.
If our country is going down, it's because the men are failing us.
And I agree, but who's going to lead it?
I agree.
The men are supposed to lead us.
They're not.
They're failing us.
If the women lead it, what's going to happen?
We don't want to lead it.
That's why we're lazy.
Because we don't want to lead it.
Because we don't want to do it.
We're not supposed to.
We don't want to do that.
We don't want that.
We have to.
And what I mean by this is like, the reason why I say women are naturally just lazy is because if I lined up like a hundred chicks and I asked them, would you prefer to be at home with children and take care of them or work a job?
Most would say I prefer to be at home with the children and being taken care of.
It's human nature.
I'm not knocking women for that, but like, you know, it's a fact.
Women earn less because they deserve less, on average.
Yeah, but at the same time...
Because they don't take the same risk.
Go ahead.
At the same time, I think that, like, it's...
Men are not doing what they're supposed to because women nowadays, they want everything.
They want you to make money.
They want you to provide and everything and give you all this.
Like, girl, he can't give you all this attention if he's working.
Like, you got to respect that.
He's not going to be...
Home all the time.
He's not gonna give you all that attention 24-7 because he needs to focus on providing for that family.
So you gotta understand that and let him do what he needs to do and stop being like, hey babe, what are you doing?
He left the house 30 minutes ago.
What the fuck he's doing?
He's on the way to work.
Nothing happened.
Nothing changed.
I think, you know, I think men should be the providers They're terrible people.
Women are terrible people when they're the leader in the relationship.
Yeah, she's laughing because she knows it's true.
It's the truth, though.
Yeah, when women make more money than their men or their leader in their relationship, they emasculate their man, they're a bitchy, they're annoying, they're crappy.
It's just not good to be around women when they're the leader in the relationship.
So you got to do it, guys.
And honestly, I agree with the ladies.
Like, yo...
A lot of women are taking leadership because a lot of guys are incompetent.
And that's what ends up happening.
When we have women in leadership roles, it's a L. And it's the man's fault.
Yeah, it's the man's fault.
Stop being bums, guys.
That's why this podcast teaches you how to make money.
They live where we are.
Oh, John goes, let's be honest.
You older women only complain about men wanting younger women because you are naturally selfish and you think your preferences should override reality.
Stop with the reverse psychology tactics.
A majority of men on planet Earth prefer younger women.
Amazing.
They're the ones who love me!
It's going over his head.
Nobody...
they...
good.
Love the women.
They just admitted the younger women are more toxic anyways!
That went over his head.
Wait, how are the younger women more toxic?
Who said that?
They question men.
They don't understand men.
They are...
I mean, you do the same tip.
I haven't questioned anything.
I'm living by principles.
What am I questioning?
You've questioned everything that we're saying about men preferring younger women.
No, I'm not mad about it.
They could prefer the younger women.
Great.
But there's men out here who have loved me.
All right, Queen.
Thanks.
Past tense, loved.
Men overwhelmingly prefer younger women, ladies.
That's a biological fact.
Great.
That's great.
And when men acquire more resources and status, typically they go ahead and date a woman that's younger.
And the younger girls don't like the older men.
Yeah, they do.
Let's do a poll.
We love them.
Y'all like the 45-year-olds?
Yeah.
If he's accomplished, he got everything he can provide for me.
Until you get to a certain age, that goes out the window, too.
Wait, hold on.
When I asked y'all, you said you want a guy your age, if not older.
You said you want a guy your age, if not older.
But when I was in my 20s, I didn't.
I did not want a man who was over 30.
I thought he was old.
But you still want him older than you?
Yes.
That's my point.
Women overwhelmingly prefer men that are older than them between 5 to 10 years.
Yeah, it depends on what age you're asking that question, though.
If you're asking me 20-year-old, yes, I want it.
My ex-husband was 10 years older than me.
If you're asking me now at 43, I don't want a man 70.
I just don't.
Wait, you're 43?
I'm 43.
But you still want a man older than you?
No, within my age, not too much.
I would say like seven years is like after that, I'm ready to retire.
Okay, but you still want a man older than you is my point.
Yeah, like no more than seven years.
Yeah, women prefer men that are older than them.
Men prefer women that are younger than them.
Yeah.
No, that's great.
That's fine.
Every man is different.
If you can find someone that's the same as that age...
You can find a guy at 43 that's mature?
No.
What?
What are we talking about?
They're lost out here.
They don't live by principles.
They live by the world.
That does not change whether you guys are 18 or 21.
You live by the world too.
We do our best to live by certain principles.
You know, I'm a Christian.
I don't have to be Christian.
I live by principles.
Okay, so you're following the book and the foundation is you being Christian though.
No, I'm following...
I'll follow the Quran's principles if they align.
They all say the same thing.
No, Buddhism, read the principles.
She's a principle grifter.
Principles.
From book to book.
No, I'm not listening to the stories.
I'm listening to the principles in the book, not the stories.
They're saying stories in the book.
There's principles that are all, even Buddhism says the same principles.
Even quantum physics says the same principles.
Scientists says the same principles.
They all lead with same principles.
These aren't things that are made up.
Read it.
Read Buddhism.
Read a Christian Bible.
Read the Quran.
Look over quantum physics.
They all say the same thing.
So you're taking a portion of the book, principles only, and leaving the essence of the book.
The essence of the book is to teach you how to live your life without problems.
If we follow the book...
I'm glad you said that.
But for what reason?
So that we live in a happy life.
So we live a happy life.
It's supposed to be instructions to live on earth for the afterlife.
Not for now.
Okay, because heaven is already here.
We're supposed to live heavenly on earth.
But when we try to do it our way, it will never work.
You're going to be miserable.
You're going to want to commit suicide.
You're going to end up on drugs.
You're not going to like who you are.
When you start living by certain principles and you discover those principles and you follow them, even when it's hard, you start to become a very happy, joyful person who is loving, who loves their life, who does things for people, who lives in a whole different...
You could walk in the room and people could feel your light.
So you're living for yourself?
No, I serve.
The Bible says serve people.
What are you talking about?
It says serve people.
You're supposed to serve God.
And God, and it also says, love your neighbor as though you love yourself.
I'm supposed to treat her, her, her as though they are me.
I'm going to show up for them if they need me.
You're taking the principles out of context.
No.
You've got to read the whole Bible.
You've got to follow everyone.
It's a puzzle.
I follow all the principles as best as I can and I get better at them every day.
You would know that that makes no sense.
What makes no sense?
Because it's not by works.
It's by faith.
Right.
So you're doing it by works though.
What do you mean?
I have faith in God that if I follow his principles that my life will be right.
But that's false though because God doesn't want that.
What do you mean?
God says I'm laying these principles out for you to follow and if you follow them you will have a joyful life.
He doesn't say that?
Okay, okay.
No!
Where?
The whole point of the Bible is for you to follow his example.
Right.
Obviously, he's the one that you follow and serve him, not yourself.
And he also says you will find him in the people.
Yeah, but you're doing it for the wrong reason, though.
No.
Yeah, you are.
No, I'm following like a puzzle.
You got to follow every one.
You can't just pick and choose which ones you want to follow.
That's what you're doing.
No, I'm not.
I'm trying to live unselfishly as it says in the Bible, as it says in the Quran, as it says in Buddhism.
Live unselfishly.
You live for other people.
Just like in marriages, I should be serving my husband.
My husband should be serving me.
I think this is going over your head, but I'll give you that.
I read every single day, two times a day, morning and night.
Goddamn.
You know what's funny about this whole topic here, right?
You know who knows the Bible better than all of us?
Who?
The devil.
Right.
So you can understand the book, but do you know why he made the book for us?
That's the whole reason.
Yes.
Have you ever read the book Outwitting the Devil?
No.
Read that book.
For what?
Just read it.
And then come back to me and talk.
About what?
You'll understand what I'm saying.
Your principles are wrong anyway.
How?
Are you a Christian?
You got a cross on your chain.
I definitely understand the Bible.
So then if you understood, you would not battle me right now.
Do I live by it?
No.
But I understand enough to know the truth.
Why don't you live by it?
You don't live by faith.
Holy war?
I do.
If you did, you would follow it.
His problem, right?
You're not doing it either.
I'm not, but I'm doing better.
I make a conscious decision to do the best I can every day.
Then, once again, you understand that that makes no sense.
Because it's not by works, it's by faith.
Right, but if you don't follow his principles, that means you don't have faith in him.
No.
Because he's trying to tell you how to live.
I get what you're saying, but the whole context is, if he's not your lord and savior, you're not following his word to that extent where he's the one that you're supposed to be serving.
Right.
It's false.
What are you saying?
He says serve your people.
No, no.
You can't serve them if you don't serve him first.
Right, and I serve him by following his rules, by following his principles.
No, you don't.
So how do you serve him?
If you go to the Quran, you go to Hindu, you're not following his word.
You're following multiple words and that means you're serving false idols.
Then that's fine.
You don't understand what I understand, and that's okay.
I'm not gonna battle it.
I said it to be a pastor, but I didn't do that because I wanted to kind of mind me to be a thot.
The point is that I've been a conscious choice.
You're a cabin to yourself and life is all.
No, I never said I'm a Christian.
No, no, no.
I said I follow principles.
But you said you're doing the right thing by following principles, which is not true.
Right.
I do the best I can every day to follow certain principles.
Your dough works.
Okay, I'm lost.
The core principles for biblical marriage is referring to husband one, Agape, we'll have two.
Agape.
Okay, you got this fresh.
Two, protect.
Three, provide.
Four, advice slash lead.
Five, procreate.
Wives, one.
Be silent, two.
Respect, three.
Reverence, admire.
And a four, submit and follow.
And five, obey.
Alright, IRS. The two grandmas in the middle are living in the world of delusion.
Nobody wants to battle with you.
Don't worry about dating just to go tend to your cart and pay your taxes on time and don't be a headache.
I appreciate that IRS. Question from Michael Mistro.
Do you think you deserve a high value man and why?
Good question.
Let me go around the table on that one after.
Let me just make sure I get through all these.
Porcelain and Onyx Slimfast sisters need to open their minds to reality.
FNF, much love from Long Island.
Appreciate that.
What the fuck, bro?
And then Fresh is balls.
Fresh, after the show call, one of your fine Latina women you got on rotation.
At least they can polish your helmet and can make you laugh like Elmer Fudd when you bust.
Yes, sir!
Y'all think it's weird, man.
Trick and trade goes, did y'all see that 123-year-old virgin still looking for a man?
I used to have hope, but not anymore.
Send this asteroid, please.
Yeah, it is what it is, man.
Where we at here?
TJ King goes, a woman I work with got pregnant.
She was out for a year, and I went from working eight-hour shifts to 16s.
Goddamn.
Fair enough.
Jonathan Castillo goes, pastor fresh cooking.
All right.
What are we at here?
Shit and Bricks goes, for the two ladies in the black tank top, don't hold your breath on finding the right guy.
The milk has expired and you're trying to resell it as brand new.
Bad deal, ladies.
Does your IG show wife material?
Like the video.
Oh, shit.
Does your IG show wife material?
Yep.
Okay.
Okay, your wife material?
I've been married before.
Yeah, I've been married before.
My wife material, absolutely.
Yeah.
All right, Chris, you know what to do.
Where are we at here?
That was it?
All right, cool.
We're caught up.
I'll go around the table real quick.
There was a good one from Blackest Panther.
Go back to that one.
In the meantime, ladies, think of a question for us on the panel or for the whole panel itself.
Yeah, yeah.
It's going to be your chance.
Ladies, do you think you deserve to be with a man better than your father, i.e.
a high-value man?
And if so, name at least two things that make you a better woman than your mother.
We'll start, right, what, last, last time?
Was it Serbia?
Yeah.
Okay, so I don't necessarily...
Okay, well, first off, I don't know my dad.
So let's start there.
So I don't know what I can say about that.
Um, but as far as, like, do I deserve a high-value man, I guess.
Not, like, kind of.
Like, I'm working to be a better woman that deserves a high-value man, but honestly, I don't want to think about another man.
I love my boyfriend.
Is the guy you're with right now a high-value man?
No.
Like, yes and no.
Like, we're growing together.
Like, he's, like, growing.
It's not a yes or no.
It's just a yes or a no.
It's a very...
And I'll go ahead and define it for you.
Does he have respect from his peers?
Does he make a good amount of income?
Is he able to support you by himself without you necessarily contributing?
Does he have...
What's it called?
Leadership qualities.
Like, do other women want to be with him and other men want to be him?
Yeah, I would say yes to all of those things.
Because at one point in time, he did fully support me.
So, like, all of those things are definitely true about him.
What about you?
Yeah, I definitely think I deserve a high-value man.
Because I know my place.
And I know what I need to do to get one.
So, yeah.
Alright, what about you?
I do think that I deserve, like, a high-value man.
What is funny?
Sorry, my bad.
I jumped.
Because, you know, I can be independent, but I can also listen.
And, you know, I have a lot to learn, so I can be, like, very moldable.
Do you think a high value man is going to want a girl that's a stripper and or OnlyFans girl?
I mean, that's why I'm not looking for a man right now, but...
But wouldn't it be fair to say that your past matters?
No.
No?
Not really.
Definitely.
Do you care about a man's future?
Yeah.
Isn't it fair for him to care about your past?
Not really.
Gotcha, bitch!
I don't think you see what I did there.
Like, men are very interested in a woman's past.
Yeah.
Women are very interested in a man's future.
So, if you want a high-value man, he's going to definitely care about what you did before you met him.
Because they want kids in the family.
And if you're a bad bet, then it's like, you're not the one.
I mean, I don't really see, like, why he would care about, like, what...
Like, why would I care about what he did before he met me?
Why would he care about what I did before I, like, met him?
Do you care about a man's body count?
No.
Do you think he's gonna care about your body count?
Probably.
But I don't think, like...
Yeah, but...
So, there you go.
Proves my point.
So, what he did in the past doesn't matter because you don't care about a man's body count.
But a man definitely cares about a woman's body count.
Okay.
So, they're gonna care about your past.
Maybe.
Ha!
Ha!
It's not a maybe.
If a guy's high value and he's attractive and he can get other girls, why would he pick you when you get a girl that doesn't have that past?
Well, I don't want to be with a man that's going to be really judgmental of me, and I want a guy who's going to love me for who I am.
It's not your choice, though.
Yeah, I mean, you have standards, right?
Yeah.
So why can't he have standards?
He can.
And I'm telling you what the standards are.
Men care a lot about a woman's past.
I mean, not every guy has the same standards.
The guy you want has those standards.
Men care about women's past.
They do.
I mean, okay, what's your body count?
I don't want to answer that.
Exactly.
See, hold on, hold on.
I know you weren't going to answer it.
And the reason why you don't want to answer is because you know deep down that your body count defines your value as a female.
Women know that their past matters.
They just don't want to accept it or acknowledge it.
But the truth is that a woman's past absolutely matters when it comes to the man that she wants.
Just like a man's future absolutely matters when it comes to the man that a woman wants.
She saw that the future with her guy wasn't as bright.
She tried to push him because she's concerned with his future.
That's just how it is.
That's how women are.
You want a guy that makes more money than you, more status than you, has a bright future.
We want a girl that is submissive, docile, and not a hoe.
I have one question for you.
Not saying that you're a hoe, it's a stripper, but guys are going to assume that.
Let's say, right, you found a guy that was your type, was going to take care of you, and actually was a leader for you.
Would you stop doing OnlyFans and stripping?
Yeah.
If he's going to pay all my bills, that's 100% fine.
If someone has a say in what I'm doing and they want to judge me for it, my response is just like, are you paying my bills?
Then no, you don't get to have a say in it.
But wouldn't it be fair to say that by you saying you don't have a say in me paying my bills or whatever, that's going to hurt you because you pay your bills in a way that's not acceptable to most men.
You're missing the big point here.
It's like you're telling me you can't tell me what to do because you're not paying my bills but you already forfeited the opportunity to get your bills paid in the first place by being in that profession.
I mean like I just said like I could stop like I'm not with the person like already so like I'm not just gonna like not do like whatever I'm doing just like in hopes of like finding like a man who will like pay my bills.
So in the meantime you're gonna do this for now?
Yeah.
But we're saying, in the meantime, he might not, he'll be like, nah, I'm good.
Like, he won't even give you the chance because of what you're doing in the meantime.
Okay, that's fine.
Okay.
If you accept that, then that's fine.
That's different.
But what I'm saying is that, unfortunately, given your path, you probably don't qualify for this guy, is what I'm trying to explain to you.
Like, women gotta understand that actions come with consequences.
Like, if you behave in certain ways or you have a certain type of profession or a certain past, the man that you want isn't gonna take you seriously a lot of the times.
It's going to be tough.
It's going to be really tough.
That's just a cold hard reality.
Women think, I should do whatever I want and men should accept me as I am.
And what I'm saying is that he's not going to accept you as you am.
Just like you wouldn't accept a guy that's a bum.
He's a bum.
He lives with his mom.
He eats Cheetos every day.
He's fat.
You wouldn't give him a chance, would you?
No.
Okay, so why should he give you a chance when you do the same exact thing but from the female side?
A chick that's a stripper is the same thing as a dude that's a homeless bum.
Same exact situation.
That's how men view women.
I mean, yeah, but he could change me, so.
Okay, are you going to take a bum from the street and then change him and get him a job?
Probably not.
So why should he change you?
See what I mean?
Like, yo, like, you want to give a bum a chance on the street, move him in and get him a job?
You wouldn't.
So why should he move you in and change you and try to, you know, when he could go ahead and get a chick that doesn't do that?
It's gonna be tough.
All I'm saying is that women expect men to accept them how they come, and I'm saying that that's just not how the world works.
It's not happening.
Alright, what about you?
Do you think you deserve a high-value man?
If so, then why?
According to what you said, I have a high-value man.
I got one, nigga.
You got one?
I got one, nigga.
Stop the cap!
And y'all been together for like two to three years, right?
Three years in relation to four years.
Alright, if you fucks another chick, stay by him.
Don't leave.
Yeah, don't leave, bro.
You...
You're hanging on by the screen.
Yeah, man.
He's right above the 21-year-old right now as he speaks.
I can't control it.
I can't see.
I'm free now.
Yeah, cool.
Just go blind.
You walk in one day, you're poking a bitch.
Babe, I'm going on a podcast.
How long is it going to be?
Three hours?
All right, what about you?
You deserve a high value man, yes or no, or why?
Oh, I'm Of course.
Of course.
Because I show up in a way and I do the work that I need to do that supposedly high value man, which I don't even know what that means because I don't know who's judging a high value man.
Is it women judging it or men?
All right.
Well, What makes the guy have value is that he's respected by society.
He does something that's respectable, earns a good amount of money.
Women want to be him and men want to be him.
So basically the marketplace will decide, men and women.
Yeah.
Because unlike women, men don't arbitrarily dictate their own value.
I'm a 10!
Women go ahead and say, I'm perfect, I'm a 10, I'm whatever, I should be accepted however I come, I'm a queen.
That's retarded talk.
Men dictate your value, and then a man's value is dictated by society.
So in other words, I go out into the world, I create resources, I create value for people, I get money in exchange, I get status, society respects me, boom, I elevate my status.
A woman, you can go out and do the same exact thing as me, but no one gives a fuck about a chick with money.
Guys only care about beauty and youth.
That's what men care about.
So a woman, a woman that's high value is a woman that can...
Capture a man that's high value and take his last name.
Because unfortunately for females, no one cares about your status, your money, or your ability to create resources.
But for a man, it does.
So every woman here deserves a high value man.
Because you said that they don't have to do anything but be pretty and be youthful.
But you've got to be able to lock him in.
Most girls can't do that.
So what is the requirements?
Get that guy to take you seriously and keep him.
And you're his girl.
That's how you become a high-value woman.
Land yourself a high-value man and keep him.
Most girls can't keep a guy.
It's not easy, though.
Well, I've had high-value men, so...
Well, you can't keep them, so...
I left.
Even better.
Yeah, like, it's high-value if you can keep him.
See, this is the thing, ladies.
Can you keep a man?
Yes, sometimes they're assholes and you don't want to.
Amen.
What was he being an asshole about?
Well, no.
One of them became...
He started drinking more and I just...
Because of you!
Probably, yeah.
Because of you!
Have you ever thought about maybe why he drank?
Yeah, why?
He used to drink before we met.
It just got...
Maddie's getting me mad.
I mean, I'll be honest with you.
Talking with you during this podcast has been extremely uncomfortable.
I can only imagine being with you in a relationship and coming home to you every single day and having discussions, etc.
Like, bro, I might want to drink some water.
I don't do these discussions.
I'm just doing it with you because we're on a podcast.
At some point it comes out.
Look, man.
I've dated so many successful women.
You can't turn it off.
That's a lie.
Lawyers, doctors, women that are special agents, whatever the fuck it may be, law enforcement, successful women love to tell you that they're successful.
They like to be non-agreeable.
They like to go ahead and challenge your authority all the time, which is cool.
I gotta put them in their place.
But that shit gets annoying after a while, having to constantly check my girl.
Gets very annoying.
I don't feel like I ever had to be checked.
We actually had great...
All of our relationships were good.
It was just...
We had different viewpoints.
Seven years later.
You're a fairly masculine woman.
You need to be checked.
Nobody ever checked me.
Hence why we are where we are right now.
We're on a podcast with debates.
No, no.
What I'm saying is that the reason why...
You haven't had a guy long term or got married or whatever is because you have to be checked.
You don't even see what I'm trying to explain here.
Masculine women are not ideal wife candidates because the constant need to always check them, the constant need to always be in your super strong masculine frame, it's very burdensome for a man to always have to fight with this girl and get her in line.
No, battled, yes you have.
No, only if they weren't in line with the same principles.
I choose a certain type of man who is in line with me, so I never have to argue with him about anything because he believes the same way I believe.
You just said you battled with your man, didn't you?
No, I was trying to rush his success.
It wasn't a battle.
We didn't battle.
So you run off false principles, you have false ideals, and you want your man to align with those?
That's crazy.
He was, but he just was not where he wanted to be in that.
It's not where you wanted him to be.
Over your head.
No, even with himself.
Alright, so why don't you deserve a high value guy?
Because I am a woman who puts in the work to...
Go queen!
Yes.
That's right.
Who puts in the work and I know my value.
Your worth.
Yes, because I actually do the work to support a man and understand a man's mindset so that I can show up in a way that he needs.
Wait, so question.
The whole night, what did you provide to your man?
Like, what is your value?
Like, what do you give to your man?
Wait, tonight?
What'd you say?
I said, what do you give to your man?
What is your worth?
My worth is me being Maddie Jean.
No, but, nigga.
Could you imagine if you walked around as a dude and you said my worth is me being Myron Gaines?
I just said I work on myself.
I understand a man's mindset.
I understand what he needs.
I would argue that you don't understand a man's mindset.
That's because I'm not dating you.
Maddie, Maddie.
You don't understand a man's mindset.
Yes.
What does a man need?
A man needs sex.
He needs food.
He needs to feel peace.
He needs to feel understood.
He needs to feel respected.
He needs to feel valued.
Alright, so why don't you have a man right now?
I just broke up with him one month ago.
It wasn't because of anything he did per se.
It was just our...
I felt like he needed more time for himself.
I wasn't going to be selfish.
I'm like, that's cool.
Work on your business.
Work on your stuff.
I wasn't gonna keep asking him or trying to do things.
I know he needs to work on his foundation of him.
You're doomed, man.
I'll just keep it a thousand.
You're doomed.
You're doomed.
That's fine.
You're doomed.
I'm still happy.
That's cool.
That's cool.
But you're doomed.
It's...
Like so.
Yeah.
We got to keep it a thousand, bro.
When girls reach a certain age and make a certain amount of money, you can't tell them nothing.
They turn into Kanye West.
So the man that can put you in your place that has the money and status to tell you to shut up, he's not going to want to tell you to shut up.
He's going to go get a girl that he doesn't have to tell to shut up.
That's the reality.
And that's what so many older women that are successful will never understand.
I do understand that.
We never argued.
No, he drunk.
Yo!
Okay, what about you?
Do you deserve a high value man?
Yes or no and why?
Yeah, I do.
I mean, I'm pretty hardworking.
I have good morals.
What are those morals that you have?
I'm pretty.
I go to school.
I work.
I'm interested in helping and being there and that's kind of what I want to do in my life.
Help people and That's a lot of effort.
It is.
I'm just being bland, I guess.
Alright, what about you?
Do you deserve a high-value guy?
Yes or no?
Why?
Like a chicken, bland.
Spiritually, it depends.
I guess we'll find out if I deserve one or not.
I'll let life unfold itself.
If I attract a high-value man, great.
And if I don't, then I think I have a different definition of a high-value man anyways.
I just told you what the general definition is.
The general definition?
Girls always want to change the rules and this is my definition and this is my viewpoint.
We're telling you what the objective definition is.
I'm curious to know, what is your definition of a high-value man?
Well, to me, a high-value man is someone that serves God, truth, expresses truth, lives by truth, lives the path.
Yes, but also has ambition, drive, is constantly trying to better himself, improve on all the levels of his being, not just the material world.
He's also trying to improve mentally.
That, that you, um, you had, you, you, you could, you do, you, you want...
Go ahead, sorry, I'll continue on.
He's also trying to optimize his well-being.
He wants to contribute to the community.
He wants to contribute to the world, to society, not just by building a business and investing in Bitcoin, but because he cares about people that are in need.
He cares about animals.
He cares about nature and he cares about restoring the natural balance of this world.
To me, that's a high-value man.
What the fuck?
That's a high-value man.
I agree 1000%.
That's a high-value man.
Those are the ones I choose.
Those are the ones we like.
The blue man.
Not he-man.
Other cartoon.
Smurfs?
Smurfs?
Captain Planet?
Captain Planet.
Captain Planet.
Yeah, I mean, we're keeping it simple here because you gotta understand that not everyone has...
Religious viewpoints or doesn't prioritize religion.
If we're going to play that religion thing, none of us here are religious.
None of you guys are virgins.
None of you guys over here are going to church every single week.
Let's keep it a thousand.
Everyone here is not that religious.
I'm talking about in a modern day world what a high-value guy is in a simplified version.
So, I get it what you're saying.
Like, they have these things, but I mean...
I don't know.
You think if he finds you, I guess.
Yeah, if he finds me, great.
I don't know if I do or not.
That's my answer.
At least you're honest.
What about you?
Okay, I would say I have a high-value man, and in my opinion, I deserve him as long as I stay in my place and follow his leadership.
Alright.
What about you, Miss Serbia?
No, I currently don't.
You don't think so?
Why not?
Um...
I'll probably say just because of like what I put out there on the internet, like what I post and stuff, wouldn't probably be the best thing to post when you're in a relationship, especially with me.
You would post on thirst traps?
Yeah.
Yeah.
All right.
Interesting.
Fair enough.
Every other girl said they deserve one except for one.
Every time we ask this question, all the girls say they deserve one pretty much.
Impressive.
Which is very interesting.
Impressive.
What else do we got here?
Lucia.
Lucia.
Nah, bro.
Nah.
Average age differences between men and women in marriage is five years.
So usually women don't want ten years older.
Men with multiple women are also looking frowned upon in a Muslim country like Indonesia.
Men need self-control.
Don't normalize cheating.
Hey, Lucia, I'm just telling you what men want, okay?
Men always want multiple women.
The only difference between a guy that wants multiple women and a guy that actually fucks multiple women is the guy's ability to do so nine out of ten times.
So, again, we demonize what men want, but we don't demonize what women want.
You know, it is what it is.
We're telling you how things really work.
Men are only as faithful as their options.
I like how women say what we should do and what we actually are going to do.
Yeah.
Which is crazy to me, but...
Because they operate in an ideal world.
A lot of girls don't live in the real world, bro.
You know what I mean?
The Disney fairy tale, and it should be this way, blah, blah, blah.
We outran what it is.
Shoulda, coulda, woulda.
Yeah.
Question for ladies under 30.
Do you want to be like the two women at the head of the table by the time you get their age?
Be honest.
Oh, shit.
Like, really asking them questions.
Okay.
Ladies, do you want to be like the two successful entrepreneurs here at the edge of the table?
Where's your hand?
37 and 43, if I'm not mistaken.
One has a guy that she's been with for how long?
For one year?
Three years.
Three years?
Okay.
Um...
Wait, why hasn't he married you yet?
Because I didn't want to be married.
We've just been in a relationship for a year.
We've been dating for three years.
And we do discuss marriage.
Did he ask you or did you ask him to be serious?
He asked me.
We asked each other, basically.
He asked me to be his girlfriend.
Okay, so he asked you.
Okay, to your knowledge, you don't know if he has other chicks.
I don't know if any of my niggas have had the chicks.
Wait, niggas?
Hey, why didn't you wait three years?
You said what?
Why do you wait three years to ask you to be his girl?
Two years.
We were just dating.
I date.
I'm not one who jump into relationships.
I believe in dating.
You were fucking him for a year.
If that's what you need to say.
Absolutely.
If that's what you need to say.
Was it ultimatum?
You said, hey, you know what?
No.
No rush on my end.
I was married for 10 years.
No rush on my end.
That's fine.
Do you ladies want to be like the ladies here?
Yes or no?
Keep it a thousand.
Don't lie.
Wait, Kelly, we have these two closer eyes?
Should we do that?
I see what Chris is saying.
We're not going to take it.
No, you know what?
We'll keep it saying because women are pussies.
Close your eyes, ladies.
Close your eyes.
I want to see.
We don't give a fuck what y'all want.
We want to go see how they're not going to...
We'll still be honest.
I'll be honest.
Yeah, but the other girls might not be.
Women are non-confrontational.
Good idea, Chris.
Ladies, close your eyes.
Actually, matter of fact, turn around all the way.
We're not perfect here.
Actually no, they can see the reflection.
We're strong!
We don't care.
Yo, Chris, Chris, take them out, put them in the dead area, in the front.
No, no, all the way.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
Wait, wait, wait.
Wait, wait, wait.
No.
Wait.
Throw her off?
Just get them out of here.
Just get them.
Put them in the front.
Put them in the front where they can't see anything.
Put them in the front.
I want to actually ask the girls this so they don't have any type of pressure because, you know, it is what is women are non-confrontational creatures.
So I just want to get the reality.
For you, maybe, but not for the rest of the girls.
You got to understand that not all girls are like you.
All right.
Put them in front over there.
We good?
All right.
We're going to do this with raising hands.
Y'all don't even got to talk because I don't want them to be able to hear voices.
We'll say to keep things nice and simple, do you want to be like the girl that's 37?
No, man.
Keep it a band.
Yeah.
So, raise a hand if you would want to be like her.
Yes or no.
Yes, if you want to be like her.
All right.
First, good.
Okay.
All right.
What about, like, the other situation?
In a somewhat relationship with a guy?
And girls, they cannot hit you right now.
No?
At 43.
Okay.
Okay.
Damn, universal.
That's a universal, uh...
Nope!
Okay, let's go ahead and bring them back.
All right, girls!
We good.
Woo!
America!
All right, girls!
All right, We got Dio here.
Go ahead, throw your headphones back on, ladies.
You let your lips and lives preach two different messages.
You can't pick, choose, and think you're living righteously.
There's no room for fence-sitting when it comes to God.
Either accept the entire word or none of it at all.
Virtue signaling, Quinn.
That is very true.
It is true.
No, that is absolutely true.
But you never know someone's walk.
They're learning every step.
So you cannot judge what they haven't been.
But as long as they're working on becoming a better person.
Remember, it says in the Bible, nobody is perfect.
So that's okay.
As long as you're working on becoming a better person and following certain principles.
No, but you can't say that and then knowingly know what the Bible says.
For example, you're sitting in the middle.
God said either be cold or not lukewarm.
So you're lukewarm right now.
No, I'm doing the best that I can and I follow his principles.
But it teaches you it's not about works.
It's about faith.
Right, and faith means I'm going to follow his word.
Yeah, but you're doing work saying, okay, I'll just try my best.
Hopefully it turns out.
No, that's not what I'm saying.
I'm saying every day I learn better to do better, right?
Mm-hmm.
We were not born perfect.
None of us were born perfect.
So we have to learn from his principles, from his teachings, how to become a better person.
I'm not there yet.
What is the core book that you follow?
I follow, I read, I listen to quantum physics, Buddhism, the Quran.
See, you already lost.
No, I haven't.
They all say the same thing.
They're all principles and all the same.
You mentioned King Solomon, right?
They all say the same thing.
Women carried him astray.
And they believed in different gods, which is why he got carried astray.
I don't believe in different gods.
You're doing the same thing.
I don't believe in different gods.
Who said I believe in different gods?
So who do you believe in?
I believe in God, who's teaching principles that is said in many different books, including Buddhism.
Which God?
God, that's it.
There's only one.
So no son, Holy Spirit, just God?
It's just God.
Yeah, your answer, fellas.
That's your answer right there.
I never said I was religious.
I said I follow principles.
I never said I am religious.
Man, you're going to hell, man.
All right, cool.
Let's move on.
I follow principles more than probably you.
That's blasphemy, man.
That's blasphemy.
Yeah.
It is.
Okay.
All right, man.
I know.
Oh, man.
This is awesome.
Yo, I learn a lot when you guys have these religious debates.
I understand, bro.
You can't be on the fence.
It's going to either be hot or cold.
I'm cold, bro.
I know I'm cold.
Only women cannot make sense and make it through life, bro.
Do you say crazy shit like that?
Bro, you're fucking dumb.
Ladies with the tattoos, why did you get ink?
Do you think you've attacked your own femininity and or do you think your ink represents emotional scars from the pain you've experienced from the past?
Fresh Fit Gray Pod.
What's that?
Is every girl tied it up here?
No, that's cute.
Okay, go ahead.
Why did you get ink?
Okay, so for me, I actually wanted to be a tattoo artist.
I still kind of want to be a tattoo artist, but realistically, it's probably not going to work out.
But honestly, if I could go back, I might not get the neck tattoo.
I feel like that does diminish my femininity a lot.
Stupid.
Yeah, I know.
I was like 18.
Imagine being so dumb and getting that as your second tattoo, by the way.
Don't do that.
Don't be like me.
Don't get a neck tattoo.
It's not worth it.
People will stare at you 24-7.
You don't look feminine.
Yeah, don't get a neck tattoo.
Yeah, all right.
Well, thanks for keeping it real.
Why'd you get...
Keep the chat up, Chris, so they can see it, so they can answer the question properly.
And that's from Options Gamma.
It goes, why did you get the ink?
Do you think you've attacked your own femininity and or think your ink represents emotional scars from the pain you've experienced from the past?
Um, I got most of my tattoos just for the appreciation of the art.
They're more like artsy than anything else.
Where?
They're more like artsy than anything else.
She has them on her left arm.
And, um, they're mostly on my back.
So most of them are covered.
So if I'm wearing a long sleep shirt, you can't see.
Is that a slug?
Yes.
A snail?
Yes, I get it.
With a skull?
Yeah.
It has a deeper meaning than it is.
I have 8 to 8 here, which in the Bible means all things work together for good.
Wait, so back to tramp stamp?
No.
But yeah, most of my tattoos can be covered if I do choose to have a professional job and from wearing a long-sleeved shirt.
Nothing is damaged and I like it.
Well, you can't be buried in a cemetery with them boys.
Oh, that's okay.
It's okay.
What about you?
Do you have any tattoos?
Yeah, I have, like, three, I think.
But they're all pretty, like, small.
And I really just got them because, like, I thought it was, like, cute.
And I don't really...
So do you think they've attacked your femininity, these tattoos?
Where are they?
No, I think they're pretty feminine.
Like, I have, like, this is my biggest one right here.
But it's, like, just, like, a few butterflies.
On your shoulder?
Yeah, it's, like, pretty feminine.
Is that why you're here?
No.
Extensions?
Interesting.
Most girls don't have their real hair.
What about you?
I don't have any tattoos.
What about you?
I like my tattoos.
You think it's attacked your femininity?
I don't think it's attacked my femininity.
You think it represents emotional scars from pain?
No.
Emotional damage!
No, but it is funny because this one I actually covered my kid's father's name on it, so I guess so.
Okay.
How many kids do you have?
What's his name?
Three?
Yeah.
You are doomed!
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Three by the same nigga?
Yes.
Okay, that's not bad.
The Hennessy talking.
My boys are grown.
All right, what about you?
Wait, how old are they?
19, 16, and 15.
Damn!
They're my age!
Can I cancel?
Granny pants!
At least she's not on OnlyFans.
They don't get bullied in high school.
I don't have any tattoos.
None?
Yeah, you do.
No, I don't.
I'm just kidding.
What about you?
Do you have any?
Yeah, and I'm getting them removed.
Oh, shit.
Why are you getting them removed?
Because I got them at a very young age.
I was 18.
She belongs to the street!
What are the tattoos of?
I know it contradicts maintaining my femininity, but this one represents the Divine Feminine.
Oh, okay.
What?
What do you think?
Don't worry about him.
The Divine Feminine, anything else?
Yeah, and this one was right after...
Holy!
I know, it's big.
Okay.
Yep.
This one was right after my spiritual awakening and I wanted something to represent.
Ayahuasca?
It's big, alright.
No.
No?
Okay.
What was it covering?
That's gonna be painful.
Yeah, sure.
Getting those tattoos removed.
Yep.
Alright, cool.
And then you said, I guess it doesn't really necessarily represent...
Does it represent trauma, you would say, or no?
Getting a spiritual awakening?
What led to your spiritual awakening though?
I was 18 and right after high school I traveled by myself for six months and I spent most of my time in nature and that's when I really connected to God to the Holy Spirit, to myself to my body and started to uncover truth and peel the layers of truth over time What's your definitive, I guess, religion?
I don't have a religion.
Just spiritual?
Sure.
Dicks.
I'm actually celibate, so you keep saying dick.
How long?
Two and a half years.
Wow, I'm proud of you.
Wait, so what's it like being celibate?
It feels normal.
You're saying you haven't had sex in two and a half years?
This is amazing bro!
You can press stop the cap.
I don't care.
I know.
You can ask any of my friends.
Anyone close to me.
How would they know though?
Because they're the people closest to me.
They know everything about me.
No.
Late night?
Alone?
Late night?
I'm in bed, and I'm sleeping.
Pull up.
None of that?
What?
Not over one time?
No.
You gotta use toys, come on.
Bro.
Use toys?
No, nothing.
Yo, refresh.
I've met girls who are spiritual, and trust me, they are fucking not celibate.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay, look at you.
It's been two and a half years.
Okay.
I have two bald spots on white hair.
Okay, your opinion's irrelevant, Xena.
Okay, what about you?
Gotcha, bitch!
Alright, what about you?
I have a few tattoos, but they all have meaning to them.
Okay.
Was it through trauma?
One of them is my grandmother's name because she passed away.
Another one is a yin yang tattoo.
Want to be fair to say that that's from trauma then?
Maybe the pain that was caused from her passing away?
Oh yeah, definitely.
Okay, I'm just curious.
I'm just curious, right?
Because I also wanted this question.
They're dead though.
They're dead!
What's the point?
They're already dead.
well you're close to me bro me Yo, welcome to Fresh and Fit, man.
Goddamn, this dude cold blooded.
Holy!
All right.
What about you?
Do you have any tattoos, Ms.
Serbia?
I have one tattoo and it's not visible.
Where is it?
It's tiny.
It's on my butt.
It's a heart.
Okay.
Wait.
Wait.
TMI! TMI! TMI! Wait, wait, wait.
You can't see it in a bathing suit or something, but yeah, it's only a tattoo, and I don't really plan on getting any more.
I think that they don't look that good on women, and it usually is a sign of emotional damage.
Yeah, I would say so.
Damn.
Alright.
TMI. You asked.
I shouldn't ask.
Okay, move it up.
For us, the best part of the show?
We're caught up?
Okay, so we're going to turn it to the ladies, right?
To ask a question now.
Questions, statements, comments, disagreements, or thoughts on the show.
Man, when was the last time you smashed?
I gotta go.
Yesterday, when was the last time you had sex?
Or you celebrated two?
Like, two?
Like, yesterday, probably?
I don't know.
I lived with my boyfriend.
What about you?
Like, three weeks ago.
That's cap.
That's cap.
You live in Miami?
No, Port Lauderdale.
Nah, definitely.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Okay, what about you?
Ify.
Um, like a month and a half.
That's cap, man.
What the fuck, man?
Come on, man.
Put it on, man.
What about you?
Three days ago.
Yeah, yeah.
Well, you might need some Cialis to get up.
Like a month ago.
A month ago?
It's these hats for me.
No!
What about you?
Last night.
Was it the same dude that didn't have a car?
No.
He pulled up.
Two and a half years ago.
You don't have to believe me.
I know.
I believe you.
She said a year and a half ago.
I said two and a half years ago.
Replay.
A few days ago.
Yeah, that makes sense.
There's a bump there.
And then what about you?
Like a week ago.
How about a week ago?
How about a week ago?
Alright, Bobby.
It was like a week ago.
Why was that cap?
Alright.
What was it?
What else?
Alright, we'll go back to the chats here.
Oh, was this going to say bling?
James Eckert Jr.
Bling.
Bling.
Appreciate that, my friend.
Shout out to you, bro.
What was I going to say?
Raptic?
Full on.
Full on.
I don't know what that means.
Thank you, Raptic, for the rumble right.
I appreciate that.
Anything else?
Nope.
All right, so we're going to turn to the girls now.
One more.
Question for the two women in the middle that said, it went over your head.
Why is it that only older women complain about men wanting younger women?
I've never seen younger women complain about this.
Very true.
Why do you guys think so?
We never complained about it.
You said that guys want pushovers.
We never complained about it, though.
We find the men who love us.
We ain't worried about the men who want the younger ones.
It's not a problem.
No, we never do.
We never ever talk about that.
We never care.
We have a lot of young girls in our shop.
We never care.
What I mean by when I say the word pushover, they're very naive to life because they don't have the wisdom because of their age.
That's what that means.
Because they're 18.
A woman 18, like me, to a woman 70, I'm naive to her.
That's your wisdom.
I was naive when I was younger.
That's what age, to a man, if he's 70, to you, that's the same.
So it's not a jab, it's just reality.
With age comes wisdom.
That's it.
But we don't care.
We don't care.
I'm not in competition with an 18-year-old.
You actually are.
I don't care.
So ladies, questions, statement, comment, or last thoughts on the show.
And we'll start right here.
Um, so I guess I have a question for you guys.
Um, so what do you guys feel about the wave of like, I guess, soy boy men who are pretending that they care about women and their feelings and their opinions just to like, you know, get with them?
So, I think, once again, men are horny and they want to smash.
So, by any means possible, they'll do it.
But at the same time, like, it's a lie because they know deep down don't give a fuck.
They just want to play the part to smash.
So, ultimately speaking, they're liars and they're captains.
So, I would just say it's another method to, you know, get sex, but ultimately they're cowards and they don't want to just say it out right.
That's what I would say.
Yeah, it's simply a sexual strategy for a lot of guys.
Like, most guys don't have the value, the masculinity, and the frame to be honest with women and tell them what it really is.
So, you know, they go the roundabout way and say, oh, I'm a feminist.
Oh, yeah, I support women's causes and all this other bullshit.
I'm your friend!
Even though the reality is a lot of the times is they'll sit there and be your friend, but they have ulterior motives.
And I'm sure you ladies have all experienced a guy that's your friend but tries to fuck you.
So, anyway, yeah.
You said earlier that she can't keep a man.
What, in your opinion, a woman needs to do to keep a man?
Good one.
Be moldable.
Because every guy has different standards and wants and needs.
So your job as the girl is to come in and make yourself an indispensable part of that man's life.
So a lot of girls can come in, be hot, attractive, suck his dick, fuck him, maybe make some food here and there.
But how many girls can come in and help him operate at 105% versus him operating at 100%?
A lot of times it's like being his assistant to a degree.
But every guy is different.
Like an entrepreneurial guy is going to want different things versus a guy that might work in the work field.
so it's on the girl to come in be a critical thinker see where the weak points are and be able to adapt and become to a point where he can't operate at a thousand percent without you there that's when girls end up holding their spot and another thing too is if your guy fucks another bitch it ain't that serious like we live in a world nowadays where we live in a deregulated sexual marketplace what i mean by that is that women are going to get the best guy that they can get men that have options are typically going to excise those options we don't have religion and social structure to the point where all these things are a place that would like demonize it
Right?
Used to be if you committed adultery, right?
You'd be shamed for it or you'd be killed or whatever.
Those things are gone.
So just like women have a bunch of options, men have a bunch of options if they're attractive enough.
So if your guy goes and fucks another girl, I think, and your guy's a somebody, it's stupid for you as the woman to leave that guy because you're going to go get with another guy that is of similar value, if not less, and he's going to fuck another bitch too.
Mm-hmm.
So you might as well just stick it out with that guy and be the best girl so that he always comes back to you.
Okay.
A lot of times girls end up getting a guy off of attrition.
Like all the other girls just like thought they could do better and they went off and they just stayed single instead of sticking by that guy and he ends up wifing her and staying seriously with her.
She gets the last name.
She gets the title.
She gets the benefits of being the main girl and the other girls just get dick.
Okay.
That's how it is.
But a lot of girls can't put their ego to the side and realize that, yo, I got a winner.
Women are always going to want him.
And a lot of girls, like, you know, because a lot of girls have this princess-diva complex that they think that they're the same value as their guy, and the reality is no.
The more you go up the tonal pole with a man, the less leverage you have.
If you want a more faithful man, get a more average man.
But most women don't want an average man.
5'8", 37K per year?
Fuck no.
Girls don't want that.
So you got to deal with the consequences of a successful man.
These other bitches want him.
I think if women ask the question to themselves, what men really want, and let's say, for example, you meet a guy you actually want to be with long-term, he's successful, he's what you want, and you ask the question, when it's too late, do you lost him?
Versus, okay, you know what?
Let me prepare now, before I meet this guy, to see, okay, what does a man actually want?
You figured that out?
You got him.
But if you don't know, you know, to answer that question, what are you really doing?
I mean, to be honest with you guys, like...
When I've hooked up with other girls, it'll make me appreciate my main chicks more.
I'll be like, man, this girl's annoying as fuck.
It makes you appreciate your chick more because men are able to divorce sex from emotion.
Women, it's very difficult for them to do that.
Girls can't do it, for sure.
But at that point, she fucked.
So that's what I think.
As a woman, if you're with a successful man, you have to put your ego to the side and understand there's probably going to be other girls.
If you catch them cheating, take a deep breath.
It's okay.
It's not that big of a deal.
He's back.
You know what I mean?
It is what it is.
And for all the people, oh, Myron, you tell people, you're saying cheating is okay, blah, blah.
I'm not saying cheating is okay.
What I am saying is that it's going to probably happen.
Alright, not every guy's gonna be honest about that shit like me.
They're gonna lie.
Oh, you're the only one.
I love you.
They're gonna sell you a fucking dream.
Alright, so fresh mind.
Chad wants Instagram.
Wait, wait.
So, Chad, if you want a wifey or not, put a one in the chat.
If you want to pass on, then put a two in the chat.
Ladies, let's play a game.
Wifey or not.
You know how this game works?
No.
Well, she said that she's wife material.
Has Instagram, right?
Who in here is wife material?
Raise your hand.
Okay.
One, two, three, four.
I don't know.
I don't know.
You think so, right?
So, these ladies here in the middle.
Well, she deserves a high-value man.
So, Chris, you see the ones that are white material, right?
Yeah.
Spiritual awakening.
Let's begin the game.
You don't?
Miss, I would fire a chick if she did OnlyFans working for me.
She should be able to do what she wants.
Oh, they won the game in the chat.
Miss Orlando.
Okay.
Who's that?
Me.
With her?
Maddie Jean.
Maddie.
Okay.
You live in Orlando?
Yeah.
I just came back.
Okay.
So, she's showing her ass sets.
Wait, is this her personal IG or is this her...
That's the only one I have.
You only have one?
Yeah, it's good.
It's business.
It's not terrible, terrible.
Is this your main page?
Yeah, that's my only page.
I mean, she's old.
It's okay.
I still love myself.
Who posts quotes anymore?
Me!
Who does that?
I am selling...
You really are old!
Who does that?
Nobody does that anymore!
Yeah, but we have a different...
It works!
It works!
Be yourself!
Stay humble!
No, those are not just random quotes.
No, no, no.
Okay, they're saying not too bad.
I mean, there's some questionable pictures, but it's fixable.
Yeah, for sure.
Not bad.
All right, cool.
Who's up next?
That said that they're white material.
Let's go with the scripper.
Someone said, I clapped that.
Let's go with the scrapper.
Scrapper?
Yeah, that deserves a high value man.
She's like, hell no, y'all niggas want it.
Alright, let's see.
Is this it?
What's this?
Oh, this is a spiritual woman.
Ashikana?
Okay.
Aisha Gianni.
Got it.
Sorry, I said it wrong.
My bad, Aisha.
I mean, it's not bad, though.
Nature?
Bikini's in nature?
Oh yeah, she's outside.
She's traveling.
She's outside, nigga!
Who's paying for these trips?
Me.
I worked so hard in high school to be able to travel as soon as I got out of high school.
Interesting.
I can relate.
I'm just kidding.
Now, when guys see girls traveling like this, even if you didn't pay for yourself, they're going to assume you're fucking dudes to get the money to travel.
Okay.
More importantly, who took these pictures for you?
Who is that?
What do you mean?
Taking those photos for you.
That one?
Yeah.
My friend took that one.
Who's your friend?
Guy?
Girl?
No, it was a girl.
I don't have guy friends.
Stop the cap!
I really don't have guy friends.
Okay, so when you traveled, you didn't meet anybody?
Yeah, I did.
But they're not my friends.
If I meet someone, that doesn't mean that they're automatically your friends.
Whenever girls say that they travel, bro, I... That's from 20...
I was 18.
That looks good, though.
My face looks good.
Alright, who's this?
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah, we know who this is.
She didn't say that.
She didn't say that, so...
And she got a man.
Oh, yeah.
Okay, this is...
Miss, I deserve a high value, man.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
She belongs to the streets.
Surprisingly, this isn't as terrible, but definitely...
It's not too bad.
It's just her.
You know that's not me, right?
No, that's not me.
That wasn't me.
That's not your profile?
No.
Someone stole her pictures?
That was her.
I mean, I can't tell.
What the fuck?
Wait, hold on.
You ready to say outfit?
No, it's not.
They do look a lot of light.
That's you?
Yeah.
Wait, that's the same outfit!
I told you!
She has it in blue.
It's the same outfit, though!
Yeah, it's the same outfit, but she has it in blue, it looks like.
Turquoise.
She has it in, like, a dark blue.
Yo, what the fuck?
Coffee cats!
Bro!
Wait!
Are you guys friends?
Yes!
We literally took those pictures together.
Wait!
I'm seeing double, bro.
Yo, yo, what the fuck?
What the fuck, bro?
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
I'm so fucking boss right now.
Same girl.
Wait, what about the Oscar before originally?
What's up?
I'm the same girl.
Yo, Mo, what's the Arkady song?
Yo, Ash, what up, Cal?
Yeah, different girl.
Same girl.
Go back.
This is my first girl, Rufo.
Bro, I was like, what the hell?
Who are you?
Yo, nigga, what?
Yo, I hate the internet, bro.
I hate the internet.
Alright, move on to the next one.
I hate Instagram, bro.
Yo, I hate Instagram, too.
Alright, now, okay, this is the best I deserve a high-value guy, right?
Yep.
They look the exact same, bro.
Yo, sorry, chap.
Yo.
Y'all go ahead and make your assumptions.
Chris, enlarge on our side so the girls can actually see.
Scroll up.
Is that you?
Yeah, it's me.
Definitely wife material.
I think so too.
Emerald Cove, Arizona?
What are you doing out there in Arizona?
I'm visiting my family.
Oh.
I got a note.
My sister.
Alright, let's move on.
Let's move on.
We already know what type of...
She didn't claim to be white.
Then it's Serbia.
And then who else?
Wait.
What?
Oh, okay.
Yeah, that's you.
Okay.
Yeah, but she didn't.
Oh, no, no, no, wait.
No, no, no, no, no.
No?
Okay, cool.
No, no, no, no.
Alright, next.
Kim Kai, baby?
What the fuck is it?
Who's that?
Me.
Oh, okay.
What was it?
Wait, what?
Oh, yeah.
Bro.
Yo, yo, no, I'm kidding.
Yo! Them boys! Them boys! Them boys!
Oh, shit!
More than a clue.
What?
The motorcycle.
Oh yeah.
Whose bike is that?
My ex.
You're a bad girl, man.
Okay.
Okay.
Oh, man.
Just ask...
That's mine.
Just Sakia.
Hey, y'all!
I mean, these aren't...
That's our business.
Yeah, these aren't not bad.
Yeah, I mean...
Oh, shit.
Oh, shit.
What was that pic?
Wait.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
What?
No!
No!
Okay.
No!
Get off that shit.
Get off that shit, bro.
Okay.
Fantastic.
What was that?
Intimate bleaching.
I mean, it didn't actually show it, but goddamn.
It didn't show anything.
It didn't show anything, but goddamn, Ellis.
I just fucked them.
Yeah, what the fuck?
All right, so.
How was I able to be on Instagram?
Because it's not showing.
It's not the actual nudity.
Chris throwing up in the back here.
All right.
What else?
Where we at?
Question, statement, comment, not thoughts on the show.
I don't have any questions, but yeah.
Are you going to change for the better?
Yes.
Hopefully.
Thank you for motivating me.
Anytime.
It was an amazing show.
It was good to be around the table and hear different opinions and perspectives of how people values and everything of that nature.
So I definitely enjoyed the show.
Thank you guys for having us.
And for you ladies, I'm called the money team.
Pretty mogul.
All right.
Cool.
I'll get you all together and come over here with the principles.
You were cool.
You were cool.
What about you?
First of all, I just want to say thank you for having us on the show.
I know putting a production like this is not easy so I appreciate you guys and I applaud you guys for showing up for your people and I respect your hustle and I respect your grind very much so I'm giving you guys all kudos everybody in the team and I admire all of you guys.
And respect all of you guys' opinion.
It was definitely fun.
I loved hearing everybody's different opinions.
I loved meeting everybody.
We say a lot of facts too, but it's okay.
But no, it was fun.
And yeah, I just definitely learned a lot.
What's the number one thing you learned?
To respect everybody's opinions.
I learned that men don't listen.
I learned that once again.
But no, honestly, it was a great show.
And I appreciate all of you guys.
And yeah, to the ladies, just keep doing you, believe in you and love yourself more than anything.
And to the fellas, the same thing.
What about you?
Yeah, it was good.
I liked hearing everyone's thoughts on everything.
Excellent.
All right.
That was great.
Thank you.
What about you, Miss Spirituality?
Any comments, disagreements, thoughts, ayahuasca?
No, I would say that I agree with a lot of the things that you guys express and I respect that you guys have created this platform to share truth, to share objective truth and not personalize it and be like, no, this is my truth and try to externalize it.
So I respect that.
I respect that you guys see through the lenses of objectivity instead of subjective perspectives that are rooted in your own personal experiences.
I do see that.
I do recognize that and I value it.
I wish girls would accept bums, but that's not real.
So we can't tell guys, just be yourself, bro!
You gotta get out there and become a better man, make money, get in the gym, etc.
Girls aren't gonna accept a bum.
Be a leader.
Men have to be objective when it comes to what's attractive.
Alright, cool.
And go to HR. They'll love you.
I'm pursuing something else.
She's beautiful.
Okay, fair enough.
What about you?
I think it was a great podcast.
Like today, it was a great show.
And I thank Icy for helping me be here.
And I also thank you guys for just existing in general.
You know, you guys definitely changed my mindset on a lot of things and helped me become a better woman for my man.
I'm sure your man would be proud of you, so shout out to him.
We met him at the event, so good job.
You didn't embarrass him.
What about you, Mr.
Rubio?
Nothing.
No questions.
What the fuck?
It was nice being here.
No, nothing to say?
Nothing?
At all?
No, like...
How do you say, like, something?
I love this show in Serbian.
She hated us last time.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
That was so lifeless.
Thank you.
Thank you.
She has a lot of charisma.
That was easy.
Alright, cool.
We got here James Eckert lighting on mouse pointer.
Okay.
Appreciate that.
What does it mean by that?
I don't know.
I'm lost.
Alright, Christianity is the only religion that says humans can't be good.
Isaiah 64 6 says our works are filthy rags, so we depend on Christ crucified.
Every other religion says humans can be good and God will accept their good works.