April 29, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
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| Let's get into it! | |
| Let's go! | |
| Let's get into it! | |
| Nobody cares, bro. | |
| Get out. | |
| Get out. Go. | |
| Put your shoes on outside. | |
| You don't got to put them on in here. | |
| All right, we're back. | |
| What's up, guys? | |
| Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast after our edition, man. | |
| Quick analysis before we get into the show. | |
| Number one, rumble.com slash Fresh Fit. | |
| If y'all saw our last podcast... | |
| It was wild. | |
| It was wild, bro, until we get canceled, man. | |
| Making jokes on all kinds of people. | |
| Wild jokes. | |
| Talking about the Crowder situation, giving you guys a pretty base take on it that no one else has the balls to give you guys. | |
| We broke down the whole argument with precision. | |
| So check us out over there because it's coming. | |
| We're also live streaming on Rumble right now. | |
| Also, FreshFit.locals.com, guys. | |
| For all the behind the scenes, man, pre-show and pretty much after the show, we'll do live streams for you guys on Locals and all the Frank Castles as well for behind the scenes. | |
| Yep. | |
| And also, guys, check us out on Microphone for the audio version of the podcast. | |
| As you guys know, just make sure you wear headphones so you don't lose your job. | |
| Also, get the merch, FreshFitPodcastStore.com. | |
| Get the hoodies, t-shirts, even the Legacy Unplugged Fitness shirts are there. | |
| Also, check out our Clips channel, FreshFit Clips, guys. | |
| As you guys know, we post clips on their... | |
| Pretty much every single day. | |
| Six clips, ten shorts, bro. | |
| We're putting out like almost 20 videos for you on that channel alone. | |
| And then we got another one. | |
| If you need even more content, more Fresh Fit Clips over there on more Fresh Fit Clips channel. | |
| And then also check out Fresh Fit Vlog. | |
| Guys, for vlogs, man, funny shorts, and funny videos, check out that channel. | |
| 200K on the way. | |
| And guys, we're going to open up CEO Network on May 1st for more connections and value. | |
| Hop in there when you can. | |
| You won't be disappointed. | |
| And check me out, guys, on Fed1811. | |
| As you guys know, I did the Lucchese crime family that dropped on Thursday, and then I did before that, the shooter with... | |
| Goddammit. | |
| We're putting out so much content, I'd be forgetting. | |
| The Louisville shooter. | |
| I'm starting to do shooting breakdowns as well for you guys. | |
| So if you guys like true crime, go ahead and check out that channel. | |
| I cover serial killers, organized crime. | |
| We're going to do a 9-11 breakdown on May 5th. | |
| So go ahead and check that out with Ryan Dawson. | |
| That's going to be crazy. | |
| Hopefully we don't get canceled. | |
| We're going to see. | |
| Oh, go ahead and get my book. | |
| I forgot about this thing. | |
| Why Women Deserve Less, guys. | |
| I got it on paperback, okay, on hardcover, so make sure to go ahead and get it. | |
| It's an Amazon bestseller. | |
| She's like, hell no, nigga! | |
| I already read it. | |
| Oh, you did? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, shoot. | |
| Okay, she read the book. | |
| Amazon bestseller, guys. | |
| Check it out, man. | |
| And I also got it on Audible, so if you guys want to hear me yell at you, because I do yell in the book, go ahead and check it out on Audible as well. | |
| hey Chris what about you Chris and girls send me a DM on RSC Pox on IG shout out to the girls so far I've received lots of DMs in the past month about coming on to the show when you come on just let me know what's going on with you and let's make it happen and make sure you have photos because no photos I'm not going to answer you I'll leave you on scene because it's wasting my time so I don't know what the fuck but anyways ladies let's have a great show Alright. | |
| Awesome. | |
| Okay, ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we'll start right here. | |
| Welcome back. | |
| Hi, my name's Kim. | |
| I'm 18. | |
| I resell vintage clothing. | |
| Highest level of education is high school. | |
| Dating status? | |
| I like someone. | |
| How's that going? | |
| Good. | |
| Awesome. | |
| Welcome back. | |
| Thank you. | |
| We know who you are, but just tell them. | |
| Icy. | |
| Hi. | |
| How are you? | |
| 28. | |
| I work for a small local radio station in downtown Miami. | |
| Yes, sir! | |
| That's funny. | |
| She unplugged the mic. | |
| Genius! | |
| Stupid! | |
| I will do that after this. | |
| Anyways, excuse me. | |
| Relationship status is retarded? | |
| Oh. | |
| Is that a status? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm just... | |
| I'm here. | |
| I'm trying to figure it out. | |
| Guys, I don't know about you, but this is not that Icy met a couple months ago. | |
| So you transformed, Icy. | |
| Shout out to you. | |
| I mean, fresh really? | |
| Because last week... | |
| I don't know who that was. | |
| If you know what I mean, guys, it's on Locals, just so you know. | |
| I don't know who that was. | |
| I don't know what y'all talk about. | |
| Anyways, yeah, just go follow my Twitch. | |
| I do behind the scenes for everybody. | |
| I just uploaded a video, so go check that out in here. | |
| Cool. | |
| Shout out to you. | |
| What about you? | |
| Hey, everyone. | |
| My name's Chanel. | |
| Hey, y'all. | |
| Hey. | |
| I'm 22. | |
| I'm a licensed massage therapist, a hustler, and I am studying to become a yoga instructor. | |
| Nice. | |
| So, yeah, I'm single, vibing, just living life, yeah. | |
| Where are you from? | |
| I'm from Jersey. | |
| Jersey? | |
| South Jersey. | |
| Okay. | |
| But I live in Broward County now. | |
| Dangerous. | |
| Okay. | |
| Good to know. | |
| It's the hood, ain't it? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Highest education level completed? | |
| Some college, yeah. | |
| Associate's degree? | |
| No. | |
| You said you have a massage therapy cert? | |
| So I started college, I didn't like it, and then I chose to get a license. | |
| Okay, so I put massage therapy. | |
| I gotta ask though, do you give happy endings? | |
| No, that's illegal, and I could lose my license for that. | |
| Wow, okay, good to know. | |
| She has to say that. | |
| No, no, no, for me, the chat. | |
| The chat doesn't even want to know. | |
| Not me, man. | |
| How about Avail's niche? | |
| No, I'm not into prostitution. | |
| Sorry. | |
| W. What about you? | |
| Hello, I'm Isabella. | |
| I'm 24 years old. | |
| I am married with a baby on the way, and I host a daily show on LFA TV on Rumble, and I do a weekly show on Censor.TV, and some may call me a right-wing extremist. | |
| That's probably true. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| Welcome. | |
| Okay. | |
| Where are you originally from? | |
| Originally from Connecticut. | |
| I live in Yeehaw, Texas now. | |
| Yeehaw! | |
| Yeehaw! | |
| What part of Connecticut are you from? | |
| Brooklyn, Connecticut, which no one's ever heard of. | |
| I know, I know. | |
| I went from Brooklyn, Connecticut to Brooklyn, New York, and now I live in Texas. | |
| Where is Brooklyn, Connecticut? | |
| It's right by Yukon. | |
| No one's ever heard of it. | |
| You're out there by stores, that's why. | |
| Yes, exactly. | |
| Okay, I'm from New Britain, so. | |
| Oh, cool, cool. | |
| Okay, so, and you said you're married? | |
| Yes. | |
| How long have you been married for? | |
| Six months. | |
| Okay. | |
| Nice. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And you're 24. | |
| You said you do like podcasting with like conservative talk show? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yep. | |
| Sweet. | |
| And then you're originally from CET. You live in Texas now. | |
| Yep. | |
| And then highest education level completed? | |
| Some college. | |
| I dropped out a month before graduating because I got, I was sick of it. | |
| I was fully for college and then I thought it was stupid during COVID and I was going to go to law school. | |
| And then I realized I just wanted to go to get, I really didn't want to be a lawyer. | |
| I just wanted to start my career in politics that way. | |
| And I realized, I'm like, I'm just going into this elitist education BS. And so my dumb ass dropped out a month before graduating. | |
| And I was like, you know what? | |
| I'm not going to do law school. | |
| I'm going to do TikTok. | |
| And then now I'm here. | |
| So I'm happy though. | |
| How many months are you? | |
| I am four months. | |
| You must be hungry. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, I brought wheat thins just in case. | |
| I'm telling you, they get hungry. | |
| Yeah, that's true. | |
| It's true. | |
| Okay. | |
| Cool. | |
| And then, so you didn't finish. | |
| You dropped out. | |
| Where'd you go to do your undergrad before you decided to leave? | |
| University of Massachusetts Amherst. | |
| Oh shit, Zoomass? | |
| Yes, Zoomass. | |
| Zoomass, yeah. | |
| Alright, cool. | |
| What about you? | |
| Hi, Lori. | |
| I am 25. | |
| I'm sorry, what was your first name? | |
| I'm Lori. | |
| Lori Harvey. | |
| I'm 25. | |
| I'm a business analyst. | |
| Where are you originally from? | |
| I'm from Boston. | |
| Okay. | |
| So I've been living here for a while now though. | |
| Are you actually from Boston or are you from like a suburb? | |
| No, I'm from the greater Boston area, like Malden. | |
| Malden's not Boston. | |
| It's like 15 minutes, right there. | |
| You're in the area, but okay. | |
| So you're from Malden, okay. | |
| And then, what's your... | |
| Excuse me. | |
| So, what do you do for work? | |
| I'm a business analyst. | |
| Business analyst, okay, cool. | |
| High certification level completed? | |
| I got my bachelor's. | |
| I'm currently studying to my master's in data analytics. | |
| Data analytics? | |
| Okay. | |
| And where'd you get your bachelor's from? | |
| FAU. Okay. | |
| You didn't want to go to school in Boston, huh? | |
| It's too cold. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| What's your relationship status? | |
| I'm dating someone. | |
| All right. | |
| How long have I been together? | |
| A year and four months. | |
| Cool. | |
| All right. | |
| And you said you're pursuing your master's right now, right? | |
| You're in grad school? | |
| Mm-hmm. | |
| Okay. | |
| You said a year and a half? | |
| A year and four months. | |
| Is he a boyfriend? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| You just said dating. | |
| But, like, it's dating... | |
| Okay, I'm just curious. | |
| What about you? | |
| My name is Valerie. | |
| I was born in New York. | |
| I'm from Miami. | |
| My family's from Columbia. | |
| Are you from the city or part of New York? | |
| New York, Queens. | |
| Okay, so you're from the city. | |
| Cool. | |
| And how old are you? | |
| 18. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you were saying you're from New York City or Columbia descent. | |
| What do you do for work? | |
| I work on sales. | |
| okay alright okay I'll just say on tails like what do you what do you saw in particular um I saw something I sell something that gets you in a good mood. | |
| Happy. | |
| I got the sauce for you, nigga. | |
| The team's on. | |
| Fantastic. | |
| What's your highest education level completed? | |
| High school. | |
| And then what's your relationship status? | |
| Are you in a relationship? | |
| Talking stage. | |
| Alright. | |
| Let me guess, you're a celibate? | |
| No. | |
| Oh. | |
| She belongs to the streets! | |
| A bit. | |
| That was terrible. | |
| That was actually creative, though. | |
| That was actually very creative. | |
| Genius! | |
| Genius! | |
| What about you? | |
| My name is Dina. | |
| I'm 19. | |
| I'm from Florida, a small town called Titusville. | |
| Nobody knows. | |
| It's like 30 minutes from Cape Canaveral where the shuttles and rockets go off. | |
| I knew a girl from Titusville. | |
| Really? | |
| Yeah. | |
| You guys have a lot of cruise ships coming. | |
| I am a monitor tech right now, so I watch people's heart rate in the hospital. | |
| I used to be a CNA and a medical assistant, and now I'm just kind of having a chillax job. | |
| Wait, nurse? | |
| Wait, nurse? | |
| No. | |
| Wait, certified nursing assistant, but... | |
| Is that Borderline nurse? | |
| Yeah, Borderline. | |
| I'm under a nurse. | |
| Okay. | |
| What's your... | |
| I have a general AA. Oh, I'm also a full-time student and I'm working to get my BS in. | |
| Don't do the noise. | |
| You're pursuing your bachelors, but you have your associates right now. | |
| Yeah, bachelors in nursing. | |
| Okay. | |
| What's your relationship status? | |
| Very taken. | |
| Cool. | |
| How long have I been together? | |
| Technically six years, but like, I mean, technically three, but six at the same time. | |
| Wow. | |
| Was it like on and off again? | |
| Yeah, but not because of me or him. | |
| It was more of crazy parents. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Alright, so six years total, but three years consistently as of recently. | |
| Correct. | |
| Alright, cool. | |
| What about you? | |
| Don't start. | |
| Hey, I'm Ada. | |
| I come from Spain. | |
| I'm 23 years old. | |
| I'm sorry, what was your first name again? | |
| Ada. | |
| Ada? | |
| Ada. | |
| People call me Ada here, but it's Ada. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then how old are you? | |
| I'm 23 years old. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're from Spain? | |
| Yeah, from Barcelona. | |
| Okay. | |
| And I did three years of med school, but I didn't finish. | |
| I have to finish it. | |
| Wait, nurse? | |
| Okay. | |
| No, it was for being a doctor. | |
| Wait, medical? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, so you have your bachelor's degree then? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, so you have a bachelor's degree from Spain or from the United States? | |
| From Spain. | |
| I'm actually going back tomorrow. | |
| It's my last day here. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| Green Cardinal? | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| That's for now. | |
| Okay, Chris. | |
| All right, so you have your bachelor's degree in Spain. | |
| What's your relationship status? | |
| I'm meeting someone. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, you're seeing someone? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, how long have you been seeing each other? | |
| A couple of months, I would say. | |
| Okay. | |
| Nice. | |
| Is he in Spain or America? | |
| America. | |
| That makes sense. | |
| Did you come to visit him? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| And then do you work right now or are you a full-time student? | |
| I'm a full-time student. | |
| I used to be a personal assistant, but not anymore. | |
| Not anymore. | |
| I have an accent, I know. | |
| That's beautiful. | |
| Okay, and you're working on, you said you're working on becoming a doctor, right? | |
| So you're pursuing being a doctor. | |
| I stopped like one year ago, and I may go back. | |
| I'm doing broadcasting now, studying broadcasting online. | |
| Oh, broadcasting. | |
| Broadcasting. | |
| Okay. | |
| What are you broadcasting? | |
| No, like, it's a course to know how to talk, how to be on camera. | |
| Okay, so you're, like, learning, I guess, how to be on camera. | |
| Communication skills, yeah. | |
| It's useful for media training. | |
| News reporting, media training. | |
| Do you not want to be a doctor anymore? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm not sure. | |
| I'm not sure. | |
| I started on Twitter, like, some months ago, so that's growing pretty fast. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's see what happens. | |
| Alright, I'm gonna go ahead and play Audible here. | |
| I got a question for you guys. | |
| I saw this coming. | |
| I'm gonna start here and then work my way back. | |
| I'm gonna switch it up a little bit. | |
| What were you told about this podcast before you came? | |
| And what were your thoughts? | |
| Misogony! | |
| I actually never heard about this podcast. | |
| I'm so sorry. | |
| So, I have no expectations. | |
| So, how'd you hear about it and what made you come? | |
| So, my friend got invited. | |
| She wanted to come. | |
| She was like, maybe you want to come? | |
| I was like, okay, let's do it. | |
| Simple. | |
| To the point. | |
| You didn't do any research before? | |
| No one told you, don't go or go or anything? | |
| No, honestly. | |
| I saw some clips on Instagram. | |
| Okay, what were your thoughts when you saw the clips? | |
| And ladies, I'm not going to attack you. | |
| I'm just literally going to write down what you're saying. | |
| I want to see what your impression was before you came. | |
| So I thought I'm going to have so much fun telling my thoughts to the girls and maybe having some discussion about some topics. | |
| I love controversy. | |
| Nice. | |
| So you thought it'd be fun because it's controversial? | |
| Uh-huh. | |
| You're in the right place then? | |
| Drama. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| What about you? | |
| What were your thoughts before the show and before coming on? | |
| Okay, so I heard from you guys... | |
| You're getting to us wrong. | |
| No one's gonna... | |
| No, yeah, I'm going to. | |
| So my boyfriend started watching you. | |
| I have no clue how he found you guys. | |
| And he showed me a video one day while we were laying in bed, and I was so pissed. | |
| I was like, turn this shit off. | |
| We got into a huge argument about it. | |
| And then I kept watching you guys, and I was like, I actually kind of like these people. | |
| But then I was scared coming here, and I'm still scared now because my boyfriend thinks I'm gonna get kicked off. | |
| But I'm not like that. | |
| He's just... | |
| Weird. | |
| Just out of curiosity, what was it that made you say, turn this shit off and got you angry? | |
| And then what made you say, you know what? | |
| I like this. | |
| When did you have that turning point? | |
| What made you say, fuck this shit first? | |
| I don't know, because I don't even know which video it was. | |
| I don't know. | |
| You guys just started talking crap about them. | |
| Do you remember in particular? | |
| No. | |
| But afterwards, when I kept listening, I was like, you know what? | |
| He's right. | |
| They're right. | |
| And I was like, I know what I really want, but I know also what I've been taught. | |
| I don't know. | |
| So I just kind of feel like sometimes... | |
| It's all a lie. | |
| Like, what I was taught versus what you guys were, like, bringing to reality. | |
| Like, I don't know, because you're taught, like, as a woman, don't do this. | |
| And, like, you know, you need to be independent, blah, blah, blah. | |
| But then I was like, but I really want to be, like, a stay-at-home mom. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| So, I was just like... | |
| So, you were mad at first, and then what, I guess, was the turning point for you that you made to say, you know what, I should watch this stuff more? | |
| What was that aha moment? | |
| My boyfriend was really into you guys, and like, I don't know, he agreed with a lot of the stuff you guys said, so I was like, okay, this is what he's looking for in a woman, and this is what he really likes, and I need to be that woman he's looking for. | |
| Okay. | |
| Question for you, because I've noticed a trend of this. | |
| Was he playing the podcast out loud while you were around and you would just hear it? | |
| Yeah, so he's like a gamer, so he would always be on YouTube. | |
| When I'd be cleaning the house or home and stuff, I would just hear it. | |
| And I used to be like, what are you watching? | |
| Who are all these females that you're watching? | |
| Because you just hear the argument. | |
| And I was like, what are you watching? | |
| He's like, oh, this podcast. | |
| And I would just ignore it. | |
| And then I just kept hearing other controversial stuff. | |
| And I was like... | |
| And then finally one day he decided to put it on right in front of my face. | |
| Listen man, he's smart. | |
| He wanted us to do his dirty work. | |
| He's a smart man. | |
| I noticed that. | |
| Alright, what about you? | |
| Again, be brutally honest, you could say I heard you guys were fucking dickheads, blah blah blah. | |
| Don't cap B. What did you hear about the podcast prior to coming on? | |
| What did you see or what did you hear? | |
| I didn't hear nothing. | |
| Kim invited me. | |
| Okay. | |
| I did speak about it to some people at work, and they told me you guys were like an Andrew Tate part two. | |
| Okay. | |
| Like a version of Andrew Tate. | |
| Okay. | |
| And what was your reaction to that? | |
| Haram! | |
| Obviously shocking. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| In what way? | |
| In what way, how people think the society. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you disagree with his viewpoints? | |
| Not really. | |
| And some things, yes. | |
| Some things, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| What is your main contention, you would say, with his viewpoints? | |
| You want me to come back to you? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sure. | |
| Think of it and let me know. | |
| What about you? | |
| I actually was supposed to go to dinner. | |
| Okay. | |
| And someone came up to me and my cousin and said, hey, would you like to come to this podcast? | |
| But I have seen you guys on Instagram, but it wasn't like a negative light within like racism or talking about girls. | |
| So I wasn't really... | |
| Like with it at all, but it's like you have to give everyone an opportunity to explain their viewpoint. | |
| So this is why I came here to understand exactly what you guys think and analyze. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| You missed dinner for this? | |
| Mm-hmm. | |
| I thought it was an opportunity. | |
| W in the chat. | |
| Most girls what? | |
| Dinner? | |
| Oh, I'm there. | |
| So W for you. | |
| So question. | |
| So you said a negative light with racism. | |
| What in particular did you see that made you think that? | |
| I think this is a very viral clip that you guys had. | |
| It was on the shade room. | |
| And it was about girls of my complexion or darker. | |
| And I was like, okay, wow, they don't like me and they're like me. | |
| But in a sense, it's just a short little clip. | |
| I didn't watch the whole entire thing to get to the conclusion of why you guys said that. | |
| Like I said, everything in social media is not what it really can seem. | |
| So it's better to come here and understand exactly what you guys said. | |
| See, common sense. | |
| Yeah. | |
| For some critical thinking skills. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Cool. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| I know what clip she's talking about. | |
| It was when we said we don't dabble in the dark. | |
| Dabble in the dark, yeah. | |
| About the dating app. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The app itself. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| We could talk about context of that. | |
| We love our Black Queens. | |
| Somebody actually super chatted that and they just read it out loud. | |
| But that's hilarious. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So, we have an interactive show where people put chats in and shit and we were reading it and they were laughing about that shit and then we made a joke and then they took that clip and made it sound crazy. | |
| Shout out to all the Black Queens, man. | |
| What about you? | |
| So I'm here visiting, well actually just going to the beach before I have the baby with my husband and I know Ada and her friend from Twitter because we're all on Twitter and so she was like I'm going on this podcast. | |
| I've seen your clips basically when Andrew Tate took over my TikTok feed. | |
| You guys' clips took over my TikTok feed and I tend to agree with a lot of the stuff you guys say. | |
| the main thing I rail against is feminism and like poor culture these days so I tend to agree with you guys so I was excited I was like oh perfect I was coming on a little beach trip was in the ocean a few hours ago and now I'm here we're ready to have some controversial takes with you guys wow okay well what points um I I'm sure yeah we probably as soon as you said that you're married and you're really uh conservative traditional uh what do you disagree with of anything with what we've said before I honestly haven't seen stuff I've only seen clips, but no. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| And ladies, again, you can be open about it. | |
| I ain't going to attack you. | |
| I just want to hear what you heard prior to coming on. | |
| What about you? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Not going to lie. | |
| I haven't really seen you guys' podcast. | |
| That's fine. | |
| And I was just on Instagram one day scrolling through my request and someone invited me. | |
| It was late. | |
| I'm like a week late, but I was like, yeah, let me do it. | |
| Because like... | |
| I'm like a, you know, Jim Carrey movie, Yes Man. | |
| That's how you have to live your life. | |
| Like, just say yes, because you never know what blessings you'll miss out on. | |
| Guys, you hear that? | |
| Just say yes to anything. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| So, did you do any research before you came on? | |
| Well, yeah, I scrolled through. | |
| What'd you see? | |
| Give us the negative, the positive, whatever it may be. | |
| Well, I asked what it was about, like, relationships and all types of stuff. | |
| I seen the clips, and it just seemed like a good way to just talk shit, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, so you just saw the clips and your takeaway was, I'm sorry? | |
| It's just a good way to talk shit or, you know, get your point across. | |
| Anything. | |
| I'm like... | |
| I have a different mindset than most people, I like to think at least. | |
| So I guess we'll find out today. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Interesting. | |
| So talk shit. | |
| Do you disagree or agree with some of the points or you're just like, you just saw like random us? | |
| Just random. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Just random. | |
| Just scrolling. | |
| I see. | |
| Since you've been on the show before. | |
| You guys are misogynists. | |
| No, let me stop. | |
| What did you think prior to coming on and then how has coming on changed, I guess, your perspective? | |
| And I know that's a lot. | |
| If you could summarize it, because I know it's been a long journey for you. | |
| Right. | |
| Okay. | |
| When I first came on, I was a very entitled woman. | |
| I lived in my own world. | |
| I didn't live in reality. | |
| When I came to this podcast, it was more or less a culture shock within myself. | |
| I got to learn a lot of things about myself as a woman. | |
| Figured a few things that is like, wow, I'm really... | |
| I'm cooked. | |
| But, you know, it's to a certain extent that it's like I got to really understand everything. | |
| I really try to strive my best for my son and for myself. | |
| And I don't know, things have just been in a very positive light ever since. | |
| I left dancing. | |
| I threw away all those clothes. | |
| All my horror clothes, they're gone. | |
| And yeah, I'm happy. | |
| I'm very happy, honestly, living traditionally. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| And I have a follow-up question for you, which I'll get to later. | |
| What about you, Kim? | |
| Before you came, the first time, what'd you hear? | |
| The first time? | |
| Nothing really. | |
| I had never heard of you guys, and nobody really told me anything. | |
| I just came on. | |
| You said, fuck it, no clips, no nothing. | |
| Yep. | |
| But that was the same thing for me as well, too. | |
| Yeah, I didn't really look into it. | |
| I just came and then... | |
| I was like, oh, I was gonna come talk shit! | |
| Let me talk about shit! | |
| All right, cool. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, very interesting. | |
| And as you guys know, it's Friday, so we're going to go ahead and hear some of your guys' questions. | |
| But before I hit your guys' questions, because I know it's going to go into a fucking crazy spiral, I'll save you guys for last. | |
| What is the question, if you have one, for the show prior to you coming on? | |
| Like, yo, I'm going to fucking ask this question or say this point. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| Or if you have one. | |
| Yeah. | |
| When you first saw it, what did you say? | |
| You know what? | |
| I want to fucking say this, or I want to ask this, or what the hell? | |
| What is that question? | |
| Go ahead. | |
| To be honest, I don't really know exactly, but lately... | |
| Well, I want to talk about how people feel about, like, I guess we can't say it, but Transformers and stuff. | |
| So the other day, I was watching Uncut, and I was watching about how a lot of people are detransitioning and stuff. | |
| And another reason why I had to stay off certain social media platforms is because I feel like... | |
| It's mind controlling in a way. | |
| So, you know, I have little cousins. | |
| I'm in high school. | |
| I'm like one of the youngest in my family, but I have two little cousins and like they're different. | |
| Extremely different. | |
| Okay. | |
| And I don't like, you know, between like sexual stuff. | |
| You wanted to touch on that topic. | |
| Yeah, I just want to hear people's opinions and stuff like that. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I really wanted to see if there was an OnlyFans girl on the panel and kind of talk about OnlyFans. | |
| I just like talking about OnlyFans. | |
| It's just fun. | |
| You want to talk about OnlyFans? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I guarantee you'll probably hit that anyway. | |
| Perfect. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you want to talk on OnlyFans? | |
| Yes. | |
| What about you? | |
| Did you have a question or a topic that you were, one, interested in talking to? | |
| I mean, you mentioned the race thing. | |
| I don't know if that's what it was, but go ahead. | |
| Oh no, I would want to know like your mindset. | |
| Sorry. | |
| I would like to understand your mindset on the intellect and how the world is influencing our young youth. | |
| Okay. | |
| Damn. | |
| It got wet. | |
| Red. | |
| I don't know anymore. | |
| Our viewpoint of the world. | |
| In a sense of what we see on TV and the celebrities and people that kids are following. | |
| How do you think it's really influencing everyone? | |
| What about you? | |
| I've gone back to you. | |
| What do you disagree with, Andrew Tate? | |
| Or our I guess viewpoints. | |
| I mean, why are women less? | |
| Okay. | |
| Why are women less? | |
| That's a fair question. | |
| Shocking. | |
| Do you watch novellas? | |
| You should know. | |
| Younger. | |
| That's actually a good question. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| And what I'll do is, like, I want to get every girl to get her question out, and then I'll, since some might overlap, and then we'll answer it, and then we'll go to the questions here. | |
| What about you? | |
| Did you have any comments or questions or something that you wanted to bring up there in the pod? | |
| Not that I can remember, but I know that there's definitely something that I feel like you're contradicting yourself on, but I would have to hear and, like, Okay. | |
| If it comes to you, please let me know so I can write it down. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then what about you? | |
| So I didn't talk about anything, but I would like to discuss how the woke culture is destroying our generation. | |
| Okay. | |
| And I'm very curious about what all these girls think. | |
| Okay, so how the woke culture is destroying. | |
| Let me ask you a question. | |
| Is woke culture very common in Spain? | |
| Yeah, very common, sadly. | |
| Alright, so I guess I'll hit a couple of these real fast and then we can get into the people. | |
| Our world viewpoints, I mean, in general, very traditionally conservative. | |
| The only thing I disagree with on traditional conservative people when it comes to dating and relationships is that I think women have evolved significantly. | |
| And a lot of women want a traditional man while simultaneously not necessarily being traditional themselves. | |
| And with the way that the marriage courts are set up and the way divorce courts are set up, it's not in a man's best interest to adhere to certain traditional values and be chivalrous when at any time a woman can go ahead, pick up, divorce you, and be rewarded for doing so. | |
| I just don't think that marriage is a valid institution for men to the same degree that it was like 50, 60 years ago. | |
| Now there are women that could potentially make it work and everything. | |
| I think for children to exist and have the best upbringing, you need a two-parent household. | |
| Unfortunately, we live in a society now where it's too risky for the man to get into a situation like that, unless there's some serious situations that can protect them, such as maybe not having to stay involved, maybe a prenuptial agreement that's ironclad, that's updated every couple of years, with fantastic attorneys, with notaries there and everything else like that. | |
| But guys have to take a very defensive angle when it comes to marriage. | |
| And then... | |
| That's like the first point, I guess, with being traditionally conservative, which kind of touches on... | |
| Well, I'll address your thing here with why women are less. | |
| But does that kind of answer it to a degree, or were you trying to hone in on something else more specific? | |
| My question to you for that answer is, do you think it's hard for women to be traditional in society? | |
| No. | |
| That's a good question. | |
| I think it's not that it's hard, it's that there's too many temptations and not enough rewards for women to be traditional. | |
| I'll give you an example. | |
| You can look at, and this kind of will tie into the woke culture, etc. | |
| You look at someone like Kim Kardashian, right? | |
| If you look at her career, a lot of women try to emulate that nowadays. | |
| She had sex on camera, did a bunch of Things, pornography, etc. | |
| And she was wildly rewarded for it. | |
| She's basically a billionaire now. | |
| And, you know, they have this saying now that nice girls or quiet girls don't get put in history books. | |
| So I think nowadays women, you know, from being masculine, thanks to feminism, etc., they want to write a legacy. | |
| And the easiest way to write a legacy as a female, unfortunately, is by being promiscuous, being open about your sexuality, doing things that are against traditional grain, shock value, etc., And what women don't realize is that as you write your legacy, you're writing it with the wrong ink. | |
| That ink is going to be red, and it's going to leave red on your family for generations to come. | |
| Because unfortunately, women that leave a legacy, especially through promiscuity, are remembered for the wrong reasons. | |
| So, that's what I think it is. | |
| I think it's that being traditional as a woman nowadays is almost a thankless job. | |
| And women look at it like, why am I going to be traditional and have to rely on a man, right, that honestly I don't even like that much, when I can earn my own money, get my own education, get a higher status guy, and be able to just get it on my own. | |
| Yeah, it's also how you were raised. | |
| For example, you're raised, you're given ideas, you're given a perspective from your parents, from your school, from your friends, from TikTok, Instagram, and that leads to yourself becoming, I want to say, thoughtful. | |
| Get it? | |
| Thoughtful? | |
| So, society itself is prone to make you go in a certain direction, and the agenda is full in foot, so... | |
| Yeah, and then if you look at it like with feminism in general, it's kind of been put in place to... | |
| It's done a couple of things. | |
| I talk about this in detail in the book. | |
| The book isn't just about why women deserve less. | |
| I actually go into detail about how feminism kind of created a rift between the two genders. | |
| But if we're going to summarize it, women entering the workforce, what they're able to do is double the labor force. | |
| When you double the labor force, you're able to pay less wages. | |
| When you pay less wages, obviously that's going to create some economic situations. | |
| And that's why... | |
| We need two income households nowadays to even survive. | |
| It used to be a man could take care of a family on one wage, but nowadays the only way you're going to be able to do that is you've got to be an extremely high earner in the top 1%. | |
| And that women having careers, et cetera, as women make more money, typically they want to get on their level. | |
| So it's kind of like one thing happens and then it creates a chain reaction that might create negative impacts that were unforeseen. | |
| And I'm sure you know about the detriments of feminism and you went to school, you kind of bought it. | |
| No, I never bought it. | |
| So you were against feminism even going into college? | |
| Always, always. | |
| I've always been a woman. | |
| My life's only been easier as a woman. | |
| I don't understand what all these women are crying and bitching about. | |
| And to your point about the women not really getting a legacy, I would say that women need to understand that you don't need a legacy like a man. | |
| Your legacy is your family and your family that you raise and your children. | |
| That's the legacy that women need to understand is important. | |
| You don't need to have a legacy like a man. | |
| Women need to stop trying to become men because they can't become men and they're only going to fail at it. | |
| And when they try to become men, they become OnlyFans whores, sell their bodies online, And guess what? | |
| One day you're going to get old, you're going to get wrinkly, you're going to become like an old miserable hag like Chelsea Handler and be childless, husbandless. | |
| You eventually will want a husband. | |
| You will. | |
| And one day you're not going to be able to have kids and you're going to wish that maybe I didn't spend my whole life trying to be a boss babe and maybe I should have just, you know, done what society tells me not to do and got married and actually found a man. | |
| Like serve your daddy husband and not your corporate boss. | |
| And that's how you'll be happy. | |
| That's your legacy. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| Can I say one thing? | |
| What would you say to women who can't have babies? | |
| They don't have any value? | |
| It's such a small minority. | |
| The amount of women that's out here in this world, it's a very small minority of women that can't give birth. | |
| But I understand that. | |
| I'm saying she's basically saying that as women, our legacy is to procreate. | |
| Also to serve your husband. | |
| Serve your husband. | |
| You can adopt. | |
| There's many other things. | |
| Okay, but I'm just saying you're terminology was have babies. | |
| So I'm just saying, how do you value women who can't have babies? | |
| They serve their husbands and raise a family through adoption if they want to do it. | |
| I don't think, you know, I used to think I've had ovary problems. | |
| I used to think I couldn't get pregnant. | |
| And the day I stopped taking birth control, I got pregnant this year on January 6th. | |
| Here you go. | |
| Yeah, so it can happen. | |
| Good job. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And I'm very excited about that. | |
| But if you can't have kids, that's obviously heartbreaking and doesn't mean that your legacy or you won't have fulfillment in life. | |
| Your fulfillment is through serving your husband. | |
| You're still a homemaker. | |
| Serving your husband, trust me, I've learned. | |
| Serving my husband is a full-time job in itself. | |
| And I do do online streaming and stuff at home, but he's always said if that ever interferes with my wifely duties, then that's gone. | |
| So that's all you want to be? | |
| Yes, that's number one. | |
| I have a question. | |
| It's a fact that there's more women on this earth than there are men. | |
| So where does that leave? | |
| If people follow the righteous laws of marriage and you're supposed to be bound to one person, where does that leave the rest of the women who aren't able to find men? | |
| Because there isn't enough men for everyone. | |
| And let's not also forget that some men are D.L., That is true, but you gotta also understand these men are being shared since it's more of us and less of them. | |
| So regardless, we always share a nigga, whether you like it or not. | |
| Some people believe in polygamy. | |
| Yeah, polygamy. | |
| I'm not necessarily saying I'm for it because I'm also a very selfish person, but at the same time... | |
| That's not selfish. | |
| I wouldn't say wanting to be monogamous is selfish. | |
| No, yeah, but speaking for, like, based on history, polygamy was something that was practiced, especially in Africa and all that. | |
| So, that being said, that is a thing, but what if the goal for some people isn't marriage? | |
| Like, that is not end-all, be-all for life. | |
| Well, that's fine. | |
| That's not your goal, but I will tell you, as someone that used to say, I've always been right-wing, but I was like, I want to focus on my career. | |
| I don't want to get married. | |
| I don't want to have kids. | |
| I just want to live alone and live selfishly. | |
| I promise you, especially as a woman, you will find the most fulfillment in finding a man that will settle down with you, protect you, provide for you, and I I'm telling you this. | |
| I say it in a harsh way online all the time, but it's honestly for your own good. | |
| I really do believe that. | |
| And I think that society too much is telling women that you don't need this. | |
| You don't need a man. | |
| Focus on your career. | |
| Kids are a setback. | |
| This is a trap. | |
| Men are oppressing you. | |
| And no, women, you want to be oppressed by your husband, not a boss. | |
| Trust me. | |
| He loves and cares about you. | |
| Your boss doesn't. | |
| That's true. | |
| I remembered my question. | |
| Going back to what you're saying as far as women not having enough men, what I've come to realize, and I think this is very scary, but most women, especially from all the interviews I've done and looking at the studies, if a woman reaches a certain level of socioeconomic class and making money, etc., and there's not a man that's compatible to her, she'd prefer to stay single than be saddled to a lower status guy. | |
| Which I think sets you up for perpetual sadness because women derive most of their pleasure from relationships and building bonds with people, and women are social creatures. | |
| So women aren't able to, I guess, tolerate solitude to the same degree that men are, right? | |
| Men are more likely to put themselves in solitude, earn money, increase their status, then get back out there. | |
| But for a woman, you guys have a finite amount of time to create and cultivate those relationships, especially when it comes to a man. | |
| Your best years are between 18 and 24, statistically speaking, to get the best guy. | |
| So you do have a deep yearning to find that man. | |
| But the problem with feminism is they tell women to suppress that innate need and focus on school and education instead, when in reality, all I would say is that focusing on school and education sets you up for perpetual solitude because as you earn more money and gain more status, you're likely to find the man that you want at that level Diminishes with it because that man might not want what you're prioritizing school and education in return. | |
| As a matter of fact, as men earn more money in status, they actually want a woman that's more attractive than them. | |
| It's actually funny. | |
| there was a study that was done and they found that for every iq increase for a man his chances of finding a partner increase significantly for every iq point for a woman that goes up her chances of finding her husband drop precipitously so it goes to show how men prioritize uh beauty and youth when it comes to mate selection and women prioritize competence and intelligence and success in mate selection also to your point where you're regarding more women than men. | |
| That is true. | |
| However, look at it this way. | |
| If I'm a man, right, I'm going to go to school for the most part or find a job, become successful, and date women. | |
| So the more income I make, the more I want to provide for my family. | |
| But as a woman, what happens? | |
| You go to school, you get a career. | |
| You have no time for a family. | |
| Exactly. | |
| But more importantly, you make more money so now you have a higher standard of what a man should be. | |
| So for the most part, there's more women than men, but most men don't see most men because they're not on their level or not their type, so to speak. | |
| I mean, that's a good point, though. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| That, like, hey, there's... | |
| We shouldn't even out because there's more women than men, but the reality is that if a woman is of certain status, she'd prefer to stay single than be saddled to a loser a lot of the times. | |
| Does that answer your question, though, kind of on, like, world views? | |
| That was a very broad thing, but... | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| And then with you. | |
| Okay. | |
| Why are women less? | |
| So the reason why I say why women are less. | |
| So let me ask you a question. | |
| The guy that you're currently seeing right now, is he older than you? | |
| No. | |
| No? | |
| He's older than him. | |
| By a little bit. | |
| Okay. | |
| Y'all are both 18? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Then you know what? | |
| Because you're only 18. | |
| If everything was ideal for you, would you prefer a man that was older than you? | |
| Taller, yeah. | |
| Would you prefer a man that was stronger than you physically? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Would you prefer a man that had more world experience than yourself? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Would you prefer a man that earned more money than you? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Would you prefer a man that was more confident, more ambitious than yourself? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| So see how everything that you want is more? | |
| That's why I say women are less because women don't want someone on their level. | |
| They prefer someone typically that's superior to them in every way. | |
| Now, I'm not saying that to say that women are less as in men are better than women. | |
| I'm not saying that. | |
| But what I am saying is that women want a superior man. | |
| The man needs to be able to lead and he has to have certain levels of competence. | |
| So the reason why I say women deserve less is because we live in a day and age now where, quite frankly, a lot of women are entitled and they want a man to That's top 1% a lot of times and they don't necessarily qualify for that, man. | |
| So, you know, it's kind of a funny title, why women deserve less. | |
| And if you look at the title, right, it has money as the L, you know, relationships or like our engagement ring for marriages, social media, and then time. | |
| And the reason why I say that is because most guys, when they date women, give up these four things to a ridiculous level to women that don't appreciate them. | |
| I'm not saying give women less. | |
| I'm saying give women less that don't reciprocate that you give more. | |
| So that's what it is. | |
| So you should deserve it. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And because the thing is, is that, right, it used to be, right, in the days of chivalry, traditional, what we were talking about before, a man can be nice to a woman, be a gentleman, do all these things, give a girl flowers, et cetera, on a first date. | |
| And women used to appreciate and respect that. | |
| But in today's day and age, women will look at them and be like, he's boring, he's a pussy. | |
| Like, women don't really respect nice guys like that. | |
| You know, I always say chivalry's dead and women killed it. | |
| Nice guys finish last. | |
| Why are these things been lasting for the past? | |
| It's actually been like rising as feminism has gotten stronger and stronger because women don't respect nice guys a lot of times, especially when they make their own money, they have their own status, etc. | |
| They need excitement. | |
| And unfortunately, guys that are bad boys, guys that are better than them in everything are able to provide that excitement. | |
| That's why I say women deserve less. | |
| What's the agenda? | |
| Why are you being so nice to me? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, yeah, that's what I was going to say. | |
| I feel like every man wants the same thing at the end of the day. | |
| When you first approach a woman, you want pussy. | |
| Because you're not attracted to someone. | |
| You're not going to approach someone you're not attracted to. | |
| That's the way of life. | |
| That's what we do. | |
| We're humans. | |
| Okay. | |
| So keep it real, you know, is what I'm saying. | |
| Don't be manipulative. | |
| Don't, like, be fake nice. | |
| When, at the end of the day, someone who keeps it real and is straight up and blunt is probably going to have a better chance of having a date rather than someone who's nice and this, then, the, third, whatever. | |
| Do you date men? | |
| Do I date men? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Um... | |
| I've had a bad experience, so I can't really say I've had a man, but I have a dad, so I know what a man is supposed to be like. | |
| So I've dated niggas, but men? | |
| No, I can't say that. | |
| Wow! | |
| Have you dated women as a man? | |
| Have I dated women as a man? | |
| No. | |
| You know what's funny? | |
| You said earlier, why can't they be truthful from the very beginning? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Can I answer your question? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Let's play a scenario here real quick, right? | |
| Let's say you're a woman, and you are. | |
| I'm the man. | |
| And I tell you, for example, you know what? | |
| You're kind of cute, but you're kind of annoying. | |
| I just want to fuck. | |
| How would you respond to that? | |
| Um, depending on my level of attraction to that man, it may or may not work. | |
| So notice, right? | |
| It may or may not work. | |
| Versus, I can tell you what you want to hear and get the box. | |
| And then, from there, it's off to the races. | |
| So notice, one scenario... | |
| Probably won't get anything. | |
| Second scenario, say what you want, I get what I want. | |
| So as a man, for the most part, they're going to say what they need to say to get a box. | |
| Ideally, that would be best, but for the most part, girls, I'm not going to respond to that very well. | |
| Some might, but most won't. | |
| But don't you think that's manipulative? | |
| In a way, make it this too. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| I'm saying in a sense if some women are wary of men being nice because it could be a tactic. | |
| Some people can be nice for a couple months and then get what they want and they can change dramatically. | |
| I agree. | |
| And I think for most women, what they hate the most is women are inconsistent. | |
| However, once again, if that's your concern, wait it out. | |
| See where he's at. | |
| Because I'm telling you right now, he's going to show his colors when he's not getting the pussy. | |
| At some point, he's going to either dip or show his true colors. | |
| That's good advice. | |
| I mean, I tell guys all the time to be honest with women and tell them what their intentions are. | |
| But what I've come to realize is that there's two problems with this. | |
| The first problem is that women typically don't handle the truth well. | |
| And the second problem is that most guys don't have the sexual market value or the attractiveness because you mentioned if he's hot enough, right? | |
| Let's be honest here. | |
| What percentage of men actually are hot enough to tell you that blunt truth? | |
| Probably little to none, right? | |
| Maybe like the 1% a guy that's maybe a celebrity, maybe 6'5", perfect teeth, whatever it may be, right? | |
| I'm 6'3". | |
| I'm not tall enough. | |
| Um, so the problem is that most guys don't have the sexual market value or attractiveness to be painfully blunt and honest with women. | |
| So most guys have to sell a dream to be able to get their dream, right? | |
| Is what it is. | |
| So, uh, and then did you find out what that contradiction was? | |
| Yeah. | |
| So for me, it's the cheating thing. | |
| Like I cheating. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like I don't want a man who cheats. | |
| Like I don't care how, but I also don't care about men of high status either. | |
| So, but my thing is, okay. | |
| So you got half the equation, correct then? | |
| So, but my thing is here, though, you say, okay, women only have sex if they, like, when women have sex, it's, like, more of a feeling. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like, there's a connection, like a real connection versus guys. | |
| It's just, like, literally physical. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So then if your man is going out and sleeping with a bunch of women, all these women are going to be like, because they're emotionally having sex with him, obsessed with your man. | |
| And that just leads to other things like him leaving you for her just because. | |
| Or like you fighting a bunch of girls. | |
| I feel like it gets messy that way. | |
| That's true, but the evil part of this, and I wish it wasn't this way, is that women respect you when they fight for you. | |
| And I would argue that's when they respect you the most is when they have to fight for you. | |
| Because, let's be honest here, I mean, you said it earlier, I love that you said that, a woman's life is significantly easier than a man's. | |
| And the hardest part of a woman's life, a lot of the times, is retaining a man. | |
| Attracting the man is easy. | |
| If you're beautiful, don't be a pain in the ass, he'll probably talk to you. | |
| But retaining the man is probably going to be the hardest thing that you do in your life. | |
| And I would say, What's easy is not respected, but what comes hard is almost always respected and treasured. | |
| And a woman is going to treasure a man that she has to fight for, and she's going to respect it a lot more because she's going to say, damn, he picked me. | |
| I better not fuck this up. | |
| Yeah, that's real. | |
| If it's too easy, then what's the point? | |
| Yeah. | |
| And if you know what you bring to the table, you should be confident enough to know that he won't leave you for... | |
| Close it to the mic. | |
| Move it around if you need to, so if you're talking to her like that, move it there. | |
| If you know what you bring to the table, you should be confident enough to know that your man is not going to leave you. | |
| Worship him, clean for him, cook for him, and he will stay with you. | |
| And no matter how many chicks he have during the night, he will come back home to you, in my opinion. | |
| W, Spain! | |
| But you did bring up a valid concern. | |
| You said, hey, well, I'm not looking for a high-value guy. | |
| Cool. | |
| That actually solves half the problem because as you deal with more and more average men, the likelihood, I would argue, yeah, the likelihood goes down because their ability to cheat on you goes down. | |
| So a lot of the times, more average men or guys that aren't as sexually desirable are monogamous out of necessity. | |
| So that's good in your favor because then you go ahead and you start to get leverage in the relationship. | |
| But the problem is that typically when women have leverage in the relationship, what happens? | |
| They get bored. | |
| But like, I mean, when I say I don't want a high value, I mean, my man is, I don't know. | |
| That's fine. | |
| That's great that you don't want one. | |
| But I don't mean like, I mean, to an extent, like my man, he's like working towards opening up his own business and lawn and like going to school for automotive and stuff like that. | |
| But I don't want like a bum either. | |
| Question. | |
| So your man can't cheat, right? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| I mean, he can physically, but am I going to be with him? | |
| Would you be cool with that? | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| I mean, you watch the show now, so you should know. | |
| I mean, I feel like I'm leaning more towards being okay with it, but I also have, like, a lot of other things and insecurities and stuff, so... | |
| I think Homie put that part of the show on about cheating, and she got triggered. | |
| So, wait, I'm just a little confused, though. | |
| How did I contradict myself by saying men typically cheat? | |
| I don't know, it just feels... | |
| It was contradictory. | |
| Because you're saying it's okay for men to cheat, but then on the other side of women, the women who are also participating in that, I feel like it doesn't make it okay. | |
| I'm not saying that it's okay for men to cheat. | |
| I'm saying that it should be expected, and if it does happen, it's not that big of a deal. | |
| It's not the same treacherous behavior as if a woman cheats. | |
| If a woman cheats on a man, the man needs to end the relationship. | |
| It's over. | |
| But I think, from a female perspective, if you have a man that's taking care of you, that's a good boyfriend, that's a dutiful man, etc., and you find a condom in the bedroom or some shit, and you fucked another chick... | |
| For you to break up that relationship would put you at a disadvantage. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And that's what I've always told him. | |
| Because I'm like, at the end of the day, I'm like in the middle about it. | |
| But like, I don't know. | |
| Like, I love him. | |
| And we've been together for a really long time. | |
| Like, I probably would be pissed. | |
| And that's why I say, like, if you cheated, I probably would be pissed and mad for a while. | |
| But then I feel like I'd be one of those girls who accepts their man back after cheating, which is like, not, it's like frowned upon, you know? | |
| You know, it's a cycle. | |
| It happens all the time. | |
| A girl will be with a guy, right? | |
| And maybe together for like five, ten years, maybe even longer, right? | |
| He cheats. | |
| Oh, you cheated on me? | |
| I'm going to break out with you. | |
| She leaves. | |
| Guess another guy. | |
| Two years from your past, he cheats too. | |
| You're like, damn! | |
| He cheats too as well? | |
| So, for the most part, guys are going to cheat. | |
| Now, how you handle that is up to you. | |
| But he's saying, in a nutshell, if you leave this current situation, you've got time, connections, energy invested in this for one moment of weakness. | |
| I mean, is that worth it? | |
| Probably not. | |
| And that's an example of where I say, like, female emotions can, like, come and fuck you up, because at that time, you feel bad, this sucks, blah, blah, blah. | |
| But the reality is how you feel. | |
| I've always said how you feel, what's real are two different things. | |
| Does he still love you? | |
| Are you the main girl? | |
| Do you have the title? | |
| Do you have some sense of How do I say? | |
| Priority in the relationship. | |
| If the answer is yes, you need to put your feelings aside and just accept it. | |
| Again, like I said before, you've already kind of insulated yourself and protected yourself by getting with a guy that isn't like a multi-millionaire, blue check, all this shit. | |
| That's cool. | |
| But what I'm saying is that those guys are capable of cheating too. | |
| So, the likelihood it just goes down. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And when you hear a secret, if you stick it through, and he's like, damn, you know what? | |
| I'm cheating on her, but, like, she's cool with it. | |
| He's going to stop cheating on you, because, like, damn, I don't want to hurt her no more. | |
| It's kind of reverse psychology, but, like, you being cool with it, and being like, damn, you know what? | |
| I got you, babe. | |
| I'll hold you down. | |
| I was like, damn, I feel bad now. | |
| I don't want to do it no more. | |
| It's crazy. | |
| And just make sure you aren't, like, you know, slipping. | |
| In terms of, like, further down the years, you aren't, like, letting yourself loose. | |
| Because I'll be real with you. | |
| If he will cheat less, if, you know, just go outside, do something, you know? | |
| Like, make sure you're in the best shape of your life. | |
| I'm just putting it in the room. | |
| For the record... | |
| Hey, listen, the chat was saying it all along. | |
| I'm just saying, he will cheat less. | |
| Maintaining your sexual attractiveness is also imperative. | |
| I mean, that's just the reality. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| If, you know, If you're hotter, right? | |
| I mean, granted, he might cheat on you with a girl that's less hotter than you. | |
| But here's the thing. | |
| If he's like, yo, my girl is hotter than this chick, it will decrease the likelihood of him cheating on you as well when he's like, I got a better chick than her. | |
| So keeping yourself, and also on top of that, he's going to be less likely to leave you because he's like, alright, I cheated and fucked this other bitch, but my girl is way hotter than her. | |
| I'm going back to her. | |
| And just cool as hell? | |
| So if we're being honest though like when we got together like I've I've personally experienced it and I think that's what made me start liking guys more I wasn't like this in the beginning like I was 150 pounds like the perfect like slim thick and he like always tells me that but like I got super sick like I have and don't play the sad thing because it's not that but like I just have a lot of like um trauma and like past stuff that contributed to the weight gain so like I have like hypothyroid like disease so it's like It's technically not my fault, | |
| but I do work out every day and I'm actually... | |
| It's 80% diet, right? | |
| 80% diet? | |
| I mean, here's the thing. | |
| I think this is kind of the difference between men and women. | |
| With men, you can be painfully honest with them, and I'll be very honest with you. | |
| If you're obese, it is your fault. | |
| It's not really anyone else's fault. | |
| I know you went through some stuff and everything, but it's on you to get over that and then make sure that you exercise. | |
| If anything, the exercise is going to help you get over it a little bit faster. | |
| That's what I'm doing now, though. | |
| She's on the path. | |
| Yeah, the exercising, mental health and everything else like that. | |
| But if you want to mitigate the risk of Cheating and everything else like that. | |
| Obviously, be as attractive as you can. | |
| Be the best girl that you can. | |
| And if it does happen, well, he's going to stay with you versus these other girls. | |
| For the women that really don't want their men to cheat, what I would say is, so my husband and I are Christian, and I always tell him, yeah, I always tell him, you know, I'm so happy that you have to answer to God if you cheat on me. | |
| And it's... | |
| Praise God. | |
| You have to answer to God. | |
| It's not just me. | |
| It's God. | |
| So you take that up with God if you're going to cheat on me. | |
| And I think that's a way better security to those that are... | |
| It is. | |
| But that's contingent upon the man being religious. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| That's an example of religion being a buffer to sexual promiscuity or whatever. | |
| But let's be honest, in 2023, religion has disintegrated with a lot of people, which is why we kind of live in the crazy loony world that we're in now. | |
| You know what I would do? | |
| As a man of God, God I messed up. | |
| I love you, though. | |
| I talk to God, right? | |
| I hold myself accountable to God. | |
| That's so Catholic to say. | |
| And I think also this is kind of the difference between men giving advice versus women. | |
| Typically, women tend to give advice that's ideal versus men are forced to give advice that's real. | |
| I tell women, listen, be prepared that if you're with a man that more than likely at some point he'll probably cheat on you and the more attractive he is, the higher the likelihood that he is going to cheat on you. | |
| The lower the status, the lower the likelihood because his ability to cheat on you will be diminished or it'll be blunted. | |
| But that does not change the fact that he still wants to do it at some point. | |
| And if given the opportunity, he will do it. | |
| I will say this, if I can leave you guys with like one kind of phrase here. | |
| What I've come to realize from dealing with men and women is this. | |
| Women are opportunistic with relationships. | |
| Men are opportunistic with sex. | |
| What I mean by this is women are opportunistic to find the best guy that they can to take care of them and provide what they want. | |
| Income, status, you know, relationship security, all these things. | |
| And men are opportunistic with sex like, oh, it's available? | |
| I'll take it. | |
| Because it's difficult for women to get a relationship with a man that they truly love and admire and respect. | |
| So they have to be opportunistic. | |
| It's difficult for men to get sex, so they have to be opportunistic. | |
| So I think once women understand that and accept that, right? | |
| We have to accept that you guys are opportunistic with relationships, right? | |
| That you guys want the best and brightest that you can get. | |
| Women have to kind of understand that men are opportunistic with sex. | |
| And if it does occur, it is what it is. | |
| Just make sure that you're still the best option and that other girl doesn't have shit on you. | |
| I think if it happens... | |
| To add to your point, it's very simple, ladies. | |
| If you know what your man wants and you become that, you win. | |
| And as a guy, if you know what your girl wants, you become that, you win. | |
| So ultimately, it's knowing what the other party wants and becoming the best version of yourself to give that. | |
| That's it. | |
| Does that answer your thing, though? | |
| I don't think it was contradictory, but I guess that was more of a question on cheating. | |
| Like, it's fucked up, right? | |
| But does that answer it? | |
| You said you're trying, right? | |
| Someone said you're not trying hard enough. | |
| What the fuck, man? | |
| Y'all niggas wildin', bro. | |
| Yeah, y'all fucked up, man. | |
| But this is the thing. | |
| Self-love is the most important thing ever because if someone... | |
| I think it's dangerous. | |
| No, it's not. | |
| And I know that for a fact because... | |
| It depends where it leads you. | |
| To reach your... | |
| I believe that we're all here on this earth to become our best possible self. | |
| So if you are not loving yourself, then you're not following the right path. | |
| When you love yourself, you're going to attract people that love you too. | |
| Point blank period. | |
| If someone were to do some sheisty stuff like cheating, you should love yourself enough to that point where that shouldn't even affect you in a way. | |
| What does love yourself mean though? | |
| Like what does loving yourself look like? | |
| Knowing that you are the best thing ever. | |
| Like knowing that you're the shit basically. | |
| You're a queen. | |
| Yeah. | |
| No one is the best thing ever. | |
| I believe I am. | |
| Go queen. | |
| You got a queen. | |
| I believe I am. | |
| I got it titled on me. | |
| Self love. | |
| Come on honey baby. | |
| Self love I think is so treacherous to society. | |
| I think people should always be trying to improve and stop thinking that they're the shit. | |
| I don't think people say... | |
| Are you basically making a demarcation? | |
| There's a difference between loving yourself versus narcissism. | |
| Yes. | |
| I think we should strive to be better instead of constantly being like, you're so amazing. | |
| You see it with the body positivity movement. | |
| Of course. | |
| Everybody loves themselves differently. | |
| We can all be better. | |
| When you love yourself, life is a constant thing. | |
| It's always changing. | |
| So yeah, loving yourself means that you're going to always be changing and upgrading every situation. | |
| I'm just so confused what loving yourself means. | |
| It means that when you look into the mirror, you know that you are the shit and that no one else can tell you anything else. | |
| When someone cheats on you, that is... | |
| Hurtful. | |
| It makes you feel less of yourself, right? | |
| If that were to happen, wouldn't you not feel less of yourself? | |
| You love yourself enough that that would not affect you. | |
| So if someone cheating on you would upset you, but you're willing to take them back, that's on you. | |
| But them cheating is not really like... | |
| Has anything to do with your inside. | |
| That's, you know, what I'm saying. | |
| It has to do with them, not really you. | |
| But I think she's saying in a nutshell. | |
| And if you love yourself enough, and you don't want to be cheated on, you wouldn't be with someone that would do that anyway. | |
| Okay, so I think I understand where you're coming from, but I think she's interpreting it as narcissism, which I agree that your interpretation, because that's what I thought to myself too, because I do think that women, modern day women, have a very high level of narcissism, and I think it's because we don't Critique women enough. | |
| I think that we don't tell women the truth about maybe their body weight, their image, how they behave, being masculine, being annoying. | |
| We don't really tell women character flaws because, let's be honest, your guys want to fuck them, so they're not going to critique them. | |
| And I think that's kind of led to... | |
| And then you highlight it with Instagram, social media, all the validation that women get from the opposite gender. | |
| I think we live in kind of a selfie narcissism world where a lot of women are narcissists, if I'm going to be honest. | |
| I know. | |
| I'm sure you guys have noticed it. | |
| All of you have that girlfriend that she walks by and she can't stop looking at herself. | |
| All of you guys know probably a few females like that. | |
| I think that's more common than it should be. | |
| That is also true. | |
| I'm one of them people that always look at themselves in the mirror. | |
| I love myself. | |
| Wouldn't want to be anybody else. | |
| Braces right now. | |
| I'm 22 years old. | |
| I've had braces when I was in middle school and I have them again. | |
| I'm like, yo, I fucking hate my smile. | |
| I love myself enough. | |
| I'm going to fix that. | |
| Things like that. | |
| Always changing yourself. | |
| Never being too complacent. | |
| I guess I'm just being picky on the words. | |
| I just hate the love yourself terminology. | |
| To touch on what you said about women need to hear the truth and stuff. | |
| This happened a couple days ago. | |
| I posted an Instagram video on my bathing suit. | |
| I Full-blown body, whatever. | |
| So why did you post that? | |
| Because I wanted to. | |
| Really no ifs, ands, or buts about it. | |
| My dad's seen my story. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| And he told me I need a BBL. My own dad told me that. | |
| And, like, I love my dad. | |
| Like, I told you we're tight. | |
| But hear me out. | |
| No, he, like, he says, okay, you need to do squats, eat more, gain weight, whatever. | |
| But he said, maybe try that, you know. | |
| Okay. | |
| So... | |
| He told you to exercise or get a BBL or something. | |
| Yeah. | |
| He didn't tell you don't post your body online? | |
| My dad? | |
| No. | |
| He supports me. | |
| That's sad. | |
| Why do you think that? | |
| I just think it's sad to see a father figure in today's society thinking it's commendable for a woman to post her body online. | |
| In a bathing suit? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, what are you posting a bathing suit picture for? | |
| I want to ask you this question. | |
| I'll finish your point and then you can ask. | |
| I mean, I'm just asking, what are you posting a bathing suit picture for? | |
| It's obviously to attract attention. | |
| You want the male validation online. | |
| Um, maybe that is true. | |
| But at the same time, um, I don't really think that deep into it. | |
| I mean, everything you post is for a reason. | |
| Yeah, that's true. | |
| And there's times where I go like a couple of days without postings. | |
| I don't want no one to talk to me. | |
| So yeah, that is true. | |
| So why do you post the bikini photo? | |
| Because she wants people to talk to her. | |
| Yeah, maybe I want to get my hose up. | |
| You know, I'm single. | |
| I'm 22 years old. | |
| Like we have completely different mindsets and that's we can agree to disagree. | |
| I personally don't really judge anybody because I'm always about me. | |
| It's how everybody should live their life. | |
| It really shouldn't affect what the next person does to the next person unless it's affecting your pockets or personally affecting you. | |
| Whatever the next person does, it really shouldn't matter. | |
| But, back to what I was saying about my dad, he told me, like, he's a black man and I've had bad, like, relationships with black men. | |
| You know, I have no ass. | |
| Like, that shit, like, it doesn't... | |
| Maybe you're attracting the wrong men. | |
| Yeah, maybe that is true. | |
| That is true. | |
| Maybe the bikini photos attract the wrong men. | |
| So you're saying that you hate niggas? | |
| No, I don't. | |
| Are you racist? | |
| No, I don't. | |
| But my dad always like you I'm only saying referencing my dad you told me like women don't like to hear the hard truth but it depends on how you're really raised some people can hear that let me ask you a photo we fast-forward five years right and it's a dream scenario you're walking down the aisle And at the end of the aisle, you're walking down with your father. | |
| At the end of the aisle is the man of your dreams, right? | |
| Takes care of you, everything that you want. | |
| And during the marriage ceremony, they take photos from your Instagram and play them in a highlight reel. | |
| Would you be proud of that photo being shown on the highlight reel along with all of your other Instagram photos that are currently there? | |
| Yeah, because I don't post. | |
| Would you be proud of that photo and the other photos on your Instagram reel being highlighted at your wedding in front of the man of your dreams? | |
| Would you be happy? | |
| Yeah, I've always told myself, like, yeah, I want a husband one day, whatever. | |
| So I'm particular about what I post. | |
| Okay. | |
| I hear what she's saying. | |
| Okay, so you'd be okay with it. | |
| Now I want to ask you the real magical question. | |
| Do you think the man would be okay with it? | |
| Like I said, someone needs to be in alignment with you. | |
| There shouldn't really be like a judge zone. | |
| Everybody's different. | |
| What someone may like may not be what the next person wants. | |
| Let me ask you a question. | |
| You said earlier that you would sleep with a guy, right? | |
| Bluntly, if he was blunt with you, if he was attractive enough. | |
| Well, hear me out. | |
| Women need sex just as much as men. | |
| No, that's fake. | |
| I'm not going there. | |
| I'm just saying, because you're saying people shouldn't be judgmental. | |
| But I would argue that everything a woman does when she selects a man is judgmental. | |
| He has to be a certain height, a certain look, a certain income bracket, a certain status, a certain confidence, a certain ambition, etc. | |
| So I would argue that women are far more judgmental than men are when it comes to picking a man. | |
| So my question is this. | |
| Men don't ask much for women. | |
| And I would argue that If that guy was sitting at the aisle, there's probably a 97% chance that he would not be comfortable with his wife who's walking down the aisle that he's about to take a commitment to, to protect and provide it through death and through, you know, poorness. | |
| Take that vow to a woman that is so happy with having that photo up on her thing. | |
| He put her Instagram up. | |
| What photo exactly do you mean? | |
| Damn, she got no ass. | |
| Is it that bikini photo right there? | |
| No, it was a story. | |
| It was a story. | |
| Again, Chris, the reason why I say that is because I get it that you're saying that you're okay with it and you wouldn't mind it at your wedding. | |
| What I'm saying is that the man that's at the end of the aisle waiting for you probably will have a problem with it. | |
| So, I think women really need to be able, and this is where I say, this is a controversial take of mine, I say that women really lack empathy when it comes to the male experience, because what men look for in women is far different than what women look for in men. | |
| Just because you're okay with it, and you like it, doesn't mean that the man will. | |
| I don't think it's fair that I have to be taller than you and be better than you in every regard to attract you, but I have to accept this reality to attract you. | |
| Why is that women don't want to accept the realities of what men want to attract them? | |
| So what type of characteristics are the best? | |
| Like, not the best, but what do they look for? | |
| Because I honestly don't know. | |
| So remember what I said earlier. | |
| It's simple. | |
| If you can figure out what your man wants, you win. | |
| If he figures out what you want, you win as well. | |
| So in retrospect, let's say you're dating a guy, right? | |
| You're really into him. | |
| Ask questions. | |
| Look at his lifestyle. | |
| Business-wise, what he does for a living, maybe who he's around, what he's about. | |
| And you're going to figure out things about him that you say, you know what? | |
| Damn, I can add value in this way. | |
| And that alone makes you stand out. | |
| But what do most women do? | |
| Oh, he should like this about me or that about me. | |
| And you think he should. | |
| Take me for who I am. | |
| Exactly. | |
| But what is he actually like? | |
| Do you know? | |
| Probably not. | |
| Thank you. | |
| That's the biggest issue that I see with dating. | |
| And women don't care about men. | |
| Exactly. | |
| They just don't care. | |
| But it's all about communication, though. | |
| I feel like the best way to have a great relationship is to communicate and ask those tough questions. | |
| But let's be honest, most people don't. | |
| Most people don't. | |
| And I feel like that's a maturity level. | |
| But I say people start getting the mindset where it's like, I understand people don't really value men's opinions, how they feel. | |
| But I say for me, it's like, I want to know what affects you. | |
| I want to know what I do that bothers you because you're a person, you have feelings. | |
| So it's not just about me. | |
| It's about us. | |
| We're growing together. | |
| You're mature, but most people aren't. | |
| And even with that, it's just someone constantly asking you 24-7. | |
| It's just better if they just pick up on it. | |
| You should be able to pick up what your person is doing, their actions. | |
| We're not mind readers. | |
| But you can react. | |
| You can react and see how they react, and then you change that. | |
| Of course, you can pick up on cues. | |
| I'm not fronting that. | |
| You can pick up on cues. | |
| To be ignorant on cues is just your selfish need. | |
| But I'm saying in a sense, with the partner, when you're building marriage and stuff, you have to talk about the hard things. | |
| That's how relationships work. | |
| But you won't get there if you're posting bikini photos. | |
| That's the point. | |
| That's not true. | |
| You can see a lot of people that are married that do post bikini pictures. | |
| I understand you're very religious, but religion is different to everyone. | |
| Not everyone is religious. | |
| I'm actually a baby Christian. | |
| I was saved last year. | |
| I felt the same way when I was a atheist. | |
| I'm saying there's plenty of women that are married that post bikini pictures. | |
| You can't say that you're not going to get married. | |
| But that shows disrespect towards their man. | |
| But that is a personal view. | |
| Yeah, literally. | |
| Some men can support that. | |
| So I think it's very important that women take into account what men want and behave accordingly. | |
| The thing is that this is what I mean. | |
| When I say that, a lot of time women lack empathy. | |
| Women do what they want and expect the society and men that they want to attract to accept them the way that they come. | |
| What she's arguing is that if you behave in a certain manner and you put yourself out in a certain way, you will quite effectively disqualify yourself from that man in the first place and you won't even get a chance. | |
| I always say that men, right, women have to curve men overtly. | |
| Hey, I'm not interested. | |
| I have a boyfriend. | |
| I'm a lesbian. | |
| They have to tell a guy overtly that they're not interested. | |
| Men, however, curve you Covertly. | |
| They just won't say anything. | |
| They won't call you back. | |
| They'll ghost you or they'll just never talk to you. | |
| So if you put yourself out in a certain light, men are going to judge a book by its cover. | |
| And you also got to remember, ladies, men value purity. | |
| So if you put yourself out to look like a whore, even though you're not a whore, guys are going to assume you're a whore. | |
| If I put myself out, right, and I'm a fat piece of shit, right, and I'm not confident and I stutter when I talk and I'm not... | |
| Charismatic. | |
| I'm not charming. | |
| You won't give me a chance if I try to come up to you. | |
| You might not know that I'm rich and famous and all this other shit, but you're like, you're kind of weird. | |
| I'm just going to judge a book by its cover. | |
| I'm not interested. | |
| That's how men move with women, too. | |
| The difference is that men curve women silently, and you won't even know that you missed a chance sometimes. | |
| No, I understand that. | |
| Like I said, I believe that men's opinion matters. | |
| I want to know exactly how they feel. | |
| But I won't lie and say that if you're at the beach and a man picks you up and sees you in a bikini, am I not supposed to wear a bikini anymore? | |
| No one's saying you can't wear a bikini to the beach. | |
| We're just saying posting it online is for male validation specifically. | |
| But I want to say posting online has started with Facebook. | |
| That's how I grew up. | |
| And I remember us posting just not for anything. | |
| I believe Instagram became more of a monetary gain for people. | |
| And when they realized they were getting more... | |
| I'll put it like this though. | |
| Facebook is where you can accept Friends and family. | |
| And it's up to you if you want to have random people on your Facebook. | |
| Now, this is the question I've been trying to ask for the longest. | |
| Do you guys even know how deep is the internet? | |
| It's worldwide. | |
| You're not just posting for your friends and family. | |
| You're posting for the whole entire world to see. | |
| A man in Australia or fucking in the UK could see your shit and like it. | |
| You understand what I'm saying? | |
| And a lot of people, and I feel like a lot of girls are ignorant to this fact that it's worldwide. | |
| Wide. | |
| What you're posting, everybody's going to see it. | |
| Somebody's going to screenshot that. | |
| Let's say you post your husband down the line and you used to do OnlyFans or whatever the case might be. | |
| They're going to send him, you sucking dick, to his DMs. | |
| Like, look, this is your wife. | |
| Ha ha. | |
| And how you think he's going to feel at that point? | |
| Well, that has to be... | |
| I'm just saying an example. | |
| I'm not really... | |
| It's not a general type of thing, but I'm just saying... | |
| In retrospect, when you post that bikini picture, you're posting it for the whole entire world. | |
| And I think a lot of women don't truly understand what the whole world is. | |
| You understand? | |
| Because we're just so used to just being here with our friends and families. | |
| But it's like you literally have random people knowing or looking at you or being obsessed of you without even knowing it. | |
| Yeah, that is scary. | |
| To your point, I get what you're saying because there's a couple out there that actually have a good relationship that are in that scenario. | |
| The girl's posing pictures in a bikini. | |
| However, you don't see the underlying issues that may come up from her doing that. | |
| Of course. | |
| For example, random DMs, you know, getting offers. | |
| Her husband may fall short here and there. | |
| And you know what? | |
| This guy's that 10. | |
| Not like a man anymore. | |
| I'm going to try this opportunity. | |
| So it does lead to certain, I want to say, underlying issues. | |
| But ultimately, it can work. | |
| But is it going to have its hiccups? | |
| Probably it might. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| But I work with data, so I understand the digital footprint. | |
| But your digital footprint is in everything you do. | |
| On Instagram it is. | |
| No, I'm saying it's in everything you do. | |
| I'm saying with texting, where you go, putting your address and maps, your digital footprint is everywhere. | |
| Whatever you put online, it is there. | |
| So I'm not trying to find a way I understand that. | |
| If you're out there doing something and you marry someone, they're going to find out. | |
| But I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like... | |
| It was more towards her bikini picture thing. | |
| The whole bikini pics and all that thing, like I said, I'm 22 years old. | |
| I'm not looking to settle down right now. | |
| Maybe I could be looked bad upon for that, but I'm just not. | |
| I've been in a long relationship. | |
| I know how relationships can be toxic, even though how much you love someone. | |
| I know how much you need to grow as a person before you even get into a serious relationship. | |
| So, my whole thing is, like you said, Instagram is a game. | |
| As a woman, you gotta get it how you live in. | |
| So, by my page, the way I carry myself, I'm not OnlyFans. | |
| I'm not, like, whatever. | |
| I'm not out there like that at all, in my opinion. | |
| I have a question for you. | |
| My Instagram gives me opportunities. | |
| Okay, what are those opportunities? | |
| Like somebody taking you out on a date, modeling gigs, going on a yacht? | |
| Yeah, stuff like that. | |
| Fun stuff. | |
| Yeah, but not even the date part, just like being around celebrities, all that. | |
| I'm not saying that's like what I do for my life, but mind you, I'm a working woman. | |
| I'm a working woman, so my Instagram allows, is my game. | |
| Literally, that's what it is for me. | |
| The thing is, Myron and Fresh always say this. | |
| That's our advantage as a woman. | |
| We're capable of being anywhere. | |
| We just have to be invited. | |
| Now, for the guys, the guys had to work and be at a certain level to have that status, to have that vote, to have those things in order for you guys to enjoy it. | |
| Does that make sense? | |
| And I feel like, again, a lot of women don't really see that or cater to the thought of it. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| They just... | |
| Oh, I'm a guy. | |
| I'm drunk as fuck. | |
| You know, like on some... | |
| New background for a bikini photo. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| Only fans, like, at the end of the day, it comes to a point where it's just like, I don't know, to me, it's just getting disgusting. | |
| It's like, why would you post that? | |
| I mean, that's fine. | |
| I get it. | |
| You're using your Instagram to create opportunities for yourself and everything else like that. | |
| And that's fine. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| I mean, I just want you to understand that there are consequences to what you do now. | |
| And I don't think women understand that you have a finite amount of time to consolidate and find the best man that you can when you're young and beautiful. | |
| And certain behaviors and images, et cetera, might disqualify you from the man that wanted you. | |
| But then he sees a certain image and he might not want to take you seriously. | |
| I mean, I'll be honest with you. | |
| Like, this is how men look at a woman's Instagram. | |
| If a guy sees a girl partying all the time on boats and exclusive parties around celebrities in certain social situations of exclusivity and luxury. | |
| He's going to assume she's promiscuous and not take her seriously. | |
| He's going to think, okay, this is that type of girl. | |
| He's going to put her in that box. | |
| And here's the thing. | |
| I met plenty of girls that do that type of shit and aren't necessarily hoes. | |
| They're just teasers. | |
| They like to have fun, etc. | |
| But the problem is that you're going to get put in a box with all those girls and they're going to assume that you're behaving that way. | |
| Which is what sucks because... | |
| Girls really do. | |
| The thing is, y'all get judged, but you guys don't even know you're getting judged because you're getting silently curved by a lot of guys. | |
| And if you're okay with that and you are okay with the fact that you're going to potentially limit options for yourself in the future that will take you seriously, that's fine. | |
| But I just want women to understand that what you do, especially on the internet, definitely has consequences that can come back to haunt you. | |
| I mean, we've had girls on this show that used to be city girls and OnlyFans or maybe have some kind of sex work, and they deeply regret the decisions they made. | |
| When they were younger. | |
| Icy can tell you about this from experience. | |
| I'm 28. | |
| I used to be a dancer. | |
| When did you stop? | |
| A year and a half ago. | |
| Yeah, a year and a half ago. | |
| So you just came to this realization, really? | |
| It was more or less because of my son and survival, you know, and then I came across this podcast randomly. | |
| And yeah. | |
| Aaron, you know what? | |
| I never gave this man his real credit. | |
| Shout out to Aaron to actually believing in me. | |
| Because shit, if it wasn't for him, I wouldn't be here and I would have never changed my life the way it did. | |
| Well, to be fair, he used to be a teacher. | |
| He saw the light in you, Icy. | |
| Saw the light in me? | |
| Icy, do you want to... | |
| I mean, it's up to you if you want to talk about this. | |
| I was going to mention this later, but I guess that's why the topic... | |
| I mean, do you want to tell her kind of... | |
| Because you were in her shoes four or five years ago easily, right? | |
| What's my shoes exactly? | |
| I mean, you're posting a bikini picture compared to me just being on a strip pole dancing and going crazy and being on ceilings. | |
| You know, I was crazy party lifestyle promoter. | |
| I was doing everything nightlife. | |
| I was making my money. | |
| And at the end of the day, I was not doing sex work. | |
| I would like to make that very clear. | |
| It was more or less on the lines of finessing. | |
| I like to finesse. | |
| I like playing the teasing and like, oh yeah! | |
| You think you got some pussy? | |
| No, you're not. | |
| But at the end of the day, it gets to a point where it's like, it's all fun and games. | |
| But look where I'm at right now. | |
| I had a child out of wedlock. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| I don't have a man that is secure by my side right now with my child. | |
| And as I'm raising my child, I'm seeing how badly... | |
| Fuck, I feel like this girl. | |
| Stop! | |
| Stop! | |
| I don't want to do it. | |
| I'm not going to cry on camera. | |
| I refuse. | |
| I think they need to hear this. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I mean, Chris, don't be a fucking moron. | |
| Let her speak, please. | |
| At the end of the day, it's important to have a man in your life. | |
| Fuck. | |
| It's really important because of the simple fact that just seeing my son raised without a son, like a father, it hurts. | |
| It really does. | |
| And you know what? | |
| I'm happy for you because it's like... | |
| When you have that situation, you realize that it's like, this is my man. | |
| I'm going to worship him. | |
| And this is the family I'm going to create. | |
| When I'm a grandma and I have the whole entire room filled with my grandchildren, that is your real value. | |
| And no women really talk about that. | |
| Andrew Tate spoke about it here in the podcast. | |
| And that's something that he said that I will always hold to me because of my son, you know? | |
| So at the end of the day... | |
| A man plays an important role in our lives, and we always want to sit there, oh, they ain't shit, they ain't shit, just because they're cheating. | |
| What's a real thing that a man does besides cheating that hurts you? | |
| Can y'all answer that question? | |
| Lying, deceit. | |
| But that's selling the dream. | |
| Let's take that out of the thing. | |
| If a man... | |
| No, fuck that. | |
| I'm going to take that back in. | |
| If a man lies to you, but yet he's providing everything for you... | |
| I will put it like this. | |
| You should take it with a grain of salt. | |
| Because if he tells you the truth, he does not give two fucks about you. | |
| Why should I accept that? | |
| Why not play the dance? | |
| But why should I accept that? | |
| Because he's doing his job as a man. | |
| But that's what you value as a man. | |
| I feel like everything is a perception of yourself. | |
| That's all I can say. | |
| So what do you value? | |
| What I value? | |
| I value morals. | |
| From your man. | |
| For my man, honesty, integrity, to make sure if he wants to support, that's fine. | |
| I mean, I hope that we can be a great household that, you know, unites, but I do want him to be a leader. | |
| I mean, I want to be able to lean on my man, but I don't need him to cheat on me and then just accept it because he helps provide. | |
| So in that sense, he could be broke? | |
| No, but I don't need a man that's like making millions of dollars. | |
| If I'm making a great income, if he's making a great income as well, why can't we just survive? | |
| Well, that just goes into what they say when a woman isn't making a certain amount of money, her mindset changes and you're at a point where you can no longer be submissive to a man. | |
| But no, I'm definitely submissive to my mind. | |
| But to a certain level, you can't be fully submissive because of the amount of money you're making. | |
| Because you have that mindset that I'm making X amount of money. | |
| I can do that for myself, so I don't need him to provide for me. | |
| So I'm not going to accept that from him. | |
| But that's not my mindset. | |
| But that's exactly what you just said. | |
| My mindset, in a sense, is like, I don't think I can survive him. | |
| You said you've been in a relationship for a year. | |
| You and your guy are equal? | |
| No. | |
| Is he better than you? | |
| Does he make more money than you? | |
| Does he have more status than you? | |
| Is he older than you? | |
| More experienced than you? | |
| No, he's older than me. | |
| More experienced than me. | |
| So you guys are not equal? | |
| Yeah, we're not equal. | |
| So you submit to him because he's better than you. | |
| That's their point, pretty much. | |
| No, in a sense, I submit to him the way he treats me. | |
| I'm very... | |
| The way I was raised is not in a sense of, oh, someone has to provide and make sure that this is that and this is that. | |
| The way he treats you, he's a leader in the relationship, his masculinity, etc. | |
| All these things are what make you submit, is what she's trying to say. | |
| Like a woman, it's very difficult for a woman to submit to a man who is lesser than herself. | |
| Not in a sense. | |
| For me, my thing is communication. | |
| The reason why I submit to the man I'm with now is because he listens to me. | |
| No, I'm so serious. | |
| I'm saying in a sense, I talk to people who've made a lot of money, but they don't respect me as a person. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I want to be able to say, hey, something bothers me and someone actually listen. | |
| They don't have to say like, oh, well, you got to deal with it. | |
| Well, I just want to be like, okay, well, I understand where you came from. | |
| This is what I'm going to continue doing. | |
| I just want to let you know. | |
| I think the bottom line here is that the man has to exercise some level of competence. | |
| Yeah, emotional maturity. | |
| For you to be able to submit to him, which is what they're trying to establish. | |
| And they're saying... | |
| For you to find a guy like that, it's not easy. | |
| So if he fucks another girl, it ain't that serious. | |
| But I think just because we kind of went off on a tangent there with that. | |
| Icy, do you have anything else that you want to say as far as like, as far as like mistakes that girls make when they're... | |
| I mean, again... | |
| I mean, it's just having... | |
| Our opportunities are spinning plates. | |
| And what I mean by spinning plates is having as many options of guys as you want. | |
| And the thing is, you have to learn how to vet correctly in order to be in a great situation. | |
| Now, if you just go by life and just live through it and not give a fuck, and it's always a party, it's always this, it's always like... | |
| The same insane routine, but it's getting you nowhere. | |
| It's not worth it, man. | |
| Honestly. | |
| Do you have anything you want to respond to that? | |
| I feel like... | |
| She's basically kind of lived the life that you're living now to a degree. | |
| Maybe even more so. | |
| And she's kind of warning you. | |
| And I mean, it's up to you how you want to adapt. | |
| And this is what I'm saying. | |
| There's a balance, I believe. | |
| And I don't know. | |
| Do you guys believe in soulmates? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like finding a soulmate? | |
| No. | |
| No? | |
| No. | |
| I believe that. | |
| You can have multiple soulmates in your life at different periods of time that can always teach you different things and elevate you to learn to the next level. | |
| Like I said, we're here to experience and to reach our highest point of enlightenment. | |
| You believe in reincarnation? | |
| Only if you haven't finished your job here, and I mean that to a certain extent, like, you would have to come back here and do that shit over again. | |
| I see your problem. | |
| That could be your opinion. | |
| Get some help. | |
| I'm not an Aries. | |
| I'm an Aquarius. | |
| So these soulmates, right, when you find them, do they go away? | |
| No, not. | |
| They don't ever go away. | |
| I found one soulmate before. | |
| How'd you know? | |
| He was a soulmate. | |
| How'd you know? | |
| Because the experience that I've had with him shaped me into the person that I am now. | |
| Wouldn't you say that most people you meet are going to shape you in a good or bad way? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Soulmate or not? | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| Everyone you meet is a reflection of you. | |
| So that means they're all your soulmates? | |
| Yeah. | |
| No, but when you find that one person that you guys, it's... | |
| I think you mean soul ties is where you're trying to get at. | |
| Not really so much as soul mates. | |
| She didn't mean soul mates, but I'm trying to understand what's the difference between that and someone regular. | |
| What's the difference between that and someone regular? | |
| Because there's no friction. | |
| There's no question about it. | |
| There's no what someone did on Instagram 10 years ago coming to play. | |
| There's no what someone does with their money, what career they have. | |
| That shit doesn't really matter. | |
| What you're trying to fit... | |
| Come on. | |
| If someone's judging you and willing to leave you and this and the third discard you, then they are not the person for you. | |
| No if, ands, or what's about it. | |
| I think the wording of soulmate should be changed with compatible because your example of it is not a soulmate. | |
| A soulmate is someone in a dictionary, I would say, is someone that actually is meant for you no matter what. | |
| But if they leave, then they weren't really meant for you. | |
| So I think the word compatible is more the word you want to use just because the context is different. | |
| Sure. | |
| But like I was saying, you do have to meet certain people in your life to experience what you do like and what you do need. | |
| So like I said, I've had one really serious relationship and that was enough for me. | |
| I'm literally only 22. | |
| That may be old to some people. | |
| Some people have kids in high school. | |
| It's them the third. | |
| Like that's not me. | |
| That's not the life I want to live. | |
| So let me ask you a question. | |
| What's a higher likelihood of success? | |
| Something that's possible or something that's probable? | |
| For me, something possible. | |
| And I know that because I'm successful now. | |
| Okay. | |
| Statistically speaking, right? | |
| What would you rather go with? | |
| If it was life or death, would you want to go with something that was probable versus something that was possible? | |
| Probable. | |
| Okay. | |
| Why probable? | |
| Because the likelihood but like sometimes like okay good Because you're mentioning something about soulmate and someone compatible and there's someone out there and I've noticed that with women They tend to lean on the side of possible and men typically have to operate on the side of probable See, men don't have the privilege of saying, I'm going to find a soulmate. | |
| For a man, it's got to be a soulmate. | |
| What I mean by that is I got to make myself a girl's dream soulmate. | |
| I got to get out there, make money, become successful, go to the gym, become competent, etc. | |
| Men don't believe in this heebie-jeebie, it's possible soulmate stuff. | |
| I got to make myself the soulmate that a girl would want, right? | |
| And then women have the privilege of finding the guy and be like, that's my soulmate. | |
| What she doesn't realize is that guy had to suffer for years, if not decades, to become that soulmate for her. | |
| Now, what I'm saying is on the female side, imagine if woman preserved their value, stayed feminine, went to the gym, took care of herself, didn't abstain from certain behaviors that might lower her value, lower her purity. | |
| I would argue her chances, the probability of finding the man that she wants goes up. | |
| Just like the man working on himself, the probability goes up. | |
| Because what you're saying about finding a guy that will like you as you come, though it is possible, is it probable? | |
| No. | |
| Because what women don't realize is The very man that you want has options, is attractive, has money, has status, etc. | |
| To a degree. | |
| It doesn't have to be a multi-millionaire, but the man that you want, that dream man, that Christian Grey that women want, Other women want him, too. | |
| So how are you going to set yourself apart? | |
| If you want that guy, you're going to have to work on yourself, too, because he damn sure worked on himself. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| If you're doing what every other girl is doing, partying, living life, being single, young, wild, and free, how do you really set yourself up from all the other girls when this guy worked to set himself apart? | |
| I can't speak. | |
| Your probability of attracting that guy comes down. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Like, yeah. | |
| But like I just said, you have to go through experiences in life as a woman to also know what you like to, because... | |
| I disagree. | |
| I would say that lowers your value to a man, the more experienced. | |
| Like, what do you mean by experience? | |
| I mean, meeting people. | |
| It doesn't have to be sexual. | |
| I've been in relationships with people where we never had sex before. | |
| No, I'm being surreal. | |
| I've liked certain things about people before I've had sex with them, but then before they even took a tad spot, there were certain things that I know I didn't like about them, which would make me not want to have sex with them. | |
| That's an experience. | |
| So seeing what this person brought to the table versus what they didn't bring is going to make me more experienced to find what I do like. | |
| Because I do not want to be an unhappy marriage. | |
| I don't want to. | |
| That experience that you're talking about getting comes at a cost. | |
| As you gain more experience, you lose value. | |
| As a man gains more experience, he gains value because men are admired and respected under the pretense that they provide value. | |
| And for a man to provide value, he has to go out there and conquer and experience. | |
| Women are loved under the pretense that they're pure and they're untouched. | |
| This is why since the beginning of time, even to this day, women walk down in a white dress in their wedding. | |
| Why? | |
| To signify purity. | |
| That's what men want. | |
| So I get what you're saying. | |
| I think I should have experience, blah, blah, blah. | |
| But I have to keep telling you, what does the man want? | |
| What does the man want? | |
| If a guy's going to bust his ass for decades and become a somebody, typically he's going to want to go ahead and get a girl that hasn't been with that many bodies. | |
| That's just how it is. | |
| That's how men may select. | |
| Just like it's deep in your ingrained brain that you want a guy to solve and you make more money, you need more status. | |
| Men is deep in our brain. | |
| We want a girl that doesn't have experience. | |
| Doesn't make money, doesn't have status? | |
| No, I'm saying you want that. | |
| I'm asking for, speaking for men, is that what men want? | |
| It's not as important to us as it is for you. | |
| If I was to give it an equivalent, if I had an amazing sneaker collection, would you really care about that, realistically speaking? | |
| That's how men feel about your career and your education. | |
| Same love, love, eh, that benefits you, but it doesn't benefit me. | |
| I believe every man wants a modest woman, a woman that doesn't twerk around, that doesn't drink, that doesn't party, that stays home, that cleans for them, and that cooks, that worships them. | |
| And if you show yourself as a party girl, no man will want you. | |
| Maybe for one night stand, but that's not wifey material. | |
| And I promise you, you want to be wifey material. | |
| And we can all have a past and you can go through there and you can build yourself to be wifey material. | |
| That's how you're going to find the happiness when you're a wife and when you're raising your sons and they are proud of you and not ashamed. | |
| And I'm sure with these bikini pictures, they are going to be ashamed. | |
| Wow. | |
| You can go back to my Instagram. | |
| There's no bikini pictures. | |
| I feel like that has drawn way too much out of context. | |
| It's not the pictures. | |
| It's literally drawn way too much out of context. | |
| You've got to understand that men are visual creatures. | |
| So if you have that, they're going to insinuate certain things. | |
| And just remember, I'll put it this way. | |
| So it's simple. | |
| So you guys kind of have a cheat code. | |
| Men and women are opposites, right? | |
| So women value men that can attract other women and have experience. | |
| Men value women that don't attract other men and are pure. | |
| Women want guys that are tall and strong. | |
| Men want women that are feminine and docile. | |
| Women want a guy that's strong and masculine. | |
| It's just how it is. | |
| We're opposites. | |
| So whenever you ask yourself, what does a man want? | |
| What do I want? | |
| And then put the opposite of that, there's a high likelihood you're going to be correct. | |
| But I think what women make the mistake of is they think that men want the same things in them that they want in a man. | |
| And the reality is that's not true. | |
| I mean, look at your relationship. | |
| I guarantee you, right? | |
| Her man's a breadwinner. | |
| He's a leader. | |
| He's a decision maker. | |
| He's the authority in the household. | |
| She's the submissive. | |
| She takes care of the household, etc. | |
| Men and women shine when we lean into our characteristics that make us different. | |
| But when women try to be men, and men try to be women, that's when we end up in the clown world that we're in now. | |
| It just doesn't work. | |
| To be fair, your pitch isn't that bad. | |
| Yeah, it's not terrible. | |
| I know they're not. | |
| But the principle, it's what you're trying to establish. | |
| I hear the principle, and trust me, I know it. | |
| My parents were married. | |
| My mom, TMI, whatever the comms are going to say, my mom used to be a dancer. | |
| My dad was married with her throughout that whole entire time, regardless of whether or not they're married now. | |
| But... | |
| What I'm saying is he accepted her and they love each other still to this day, whether they're not married now, but I have both of my parents in my life and they're the strongest people I have. | |
| Their relationship is just as tight as it once was, even though they're not married. | |
| That is a soulmate, in my opinion, soul tie. | |
| Like we are still a family. | |
| How long did the marriage last? | |
| At least 15 years. | |
| 15 years. | |
| It was toxic, I'm not gonna lie. | |
| It wasn't the best situation. | |
| My dad wasn't the breadwinner throughout the entire relationship. | |
| So that's why the marriage didn't work. | |
| So I don't think my dad was fucking hoes on the side. | |
| Let's reiterate that. | |
| So your mom was the breadwinner? | |
| They both did carry their part, but there was times where she was above him. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that's just how life works sometimes. | |
| It's not gonna be black and white how we want it to be. | |
| It's just not. | |
| I get that, but why not? | |
| Here's the thing. | |
| I get that, you know, you can't control life or whatever, but there are certain things that you are in control of to make yourself a more attractive, make sure that you have more options. | |
| I'm just telling you, as a woman, the game to be the most attractive, to get more options, isn't what mainstream media tells you. | |
| Mainstream media tells you, live your life. | |
| Go out there. | |
| Fuck men. | |
| You know, get your degree. | |
| Earn money. | |
| You deserve the best still. | |
| Like, what I'm saying is that this is going to set you up for failure a lot of times and destruction. | |
| I mean, I hate to use IC as an example, but she quite literally is telling you, yo, I believed and did exactly what you're doing six years ago, and look at me now. | |
| I made a lot of mistakes. | |
| And it set me up for... | |
| I mean, she was about... | |
| No offense, I don't mean to pick on you, but she was about to cry about it, talking about it. | |
| So, I mean... | |
| Again, you can do the lifestyle that you want. | |
| It's cool. | |
| I'm not bashing you for it. | |
| But what I am saying is that I want you to understand that it's going to come with consequences. | |
| That's all. | |
| Did you have something? | |
| I don't really think so. | |
| Someone wanted to say something. | |
| I want to say something. | |
| You were saying that everyone has a past, right? | |
| Yeah, they do. | |
| Wouldn't you want to look back to this moment in your life and be like, I wasn't like everyone. | |
| I don't have a past. | |
| I wasn't partying around. | |
| I wasn't fucking around. | |
| I don't have a past like everybody. | |
| Why would you want to be like everybody? | |
| Wait, what? | |
| I think it's more of a cope. | |
| You're saying it should be better for a woman to want to basically say they haven't done all that, basically. | |
| Yeah, like you said, everyone has a past. | |
| Why would you want to be like everybody? | |
| Why would you want to say, yeah, I had to party, I had to do all that to learn. | |
| Why can't you learn? | |
| Icy's selling you her story. | |
| Why can't you learn from someone else going through it? | |
| I don't have her life. | |
| Her life is different than mine. | |
| We are never going to live that same path. | |
| Everyone has a past, meaning when you meet the person that you're supposed to be with, there was a past before that. | |
| You've lived a life. | |
| I can't speak on her situation. | |
| I've seen my cousin struggle with having two sons. | |
| That's part of the reason why I would never put myself in that position. | |
| You do when you have sex, though. | |
| Who said I was having sex? | |
| Well, you said I haven't had sex with everyone I've been with. | |
| We went from bikini pictures to sex out of nowhere. | |
| Let's not attack her for sexual assault. | |
| To be fair, she didn't say she's having sex. | |
| That's true. | |
| And you know why I believe her? | |
| Niggas take on a date, niggas say no ass, they can wait. | |
| Oh my god! | |
| Sure, whatever you're saying. | |
| I meant your long-term relationship. | |
| I wasn't saying that you're just having sex with a bunch of people. | |
| What about it? | |
| I'm saying that you probably had sex with your long-term boyfriend. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| You could maybe get a child through having sex. | |
| Yeah, but I'm careful because, like I said, I live my life differently than y'all. | |
| So I know when I'm ovulating. | |
| I keep track of my hormones. | |
| I know all of that. | |
| So I would never put myself in that position to get pregnant out of wedlock. | |
| And honestly, the whole idea of marriage, I... Not too big on it because financially it's not smart to get married in today's time. | |
| Yeah, I want a wedding ceremony, a ring and all that, but to be married on a paper is not for me because I am actually trying to break away from everything that the government has. | |
| Yeah, I feel you. | |
| We're not married under the law. | |
| Our church married us. | |
| Yeah, so we're not married under the law. | |
| I didn't even... | |
| This is his, it's like a family heirloom this ring. | |
| Yeah, I'm like the same way. | |
| I'm against weddings though. | |
| And you have two years on me too. | |
| Yeah, no, and I, listen, I used to not want to get married and listen, I think weddings, off topic, huge scam. | |
| I don't want to pay for a bunch of people to go to dinner. | |
| So many women are like the biggest, the bigger the ring, that's how much my fiance loves me. | |
| It's such a waste of money to show for everyone else. | |
| So I think weddings are a huge scam and yeah, when the government gets involved, that's not good. | |
| So we're only married before God. | |
| That's what matters to me. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| We'll hit some of these chats real quick. | |
| Mo, you have the best ones, right? | |
| Alright, question for ladies. | |
| What is the most romantic thing a man can do for a woman and what's the most romantic thing a woman can do for a man? | |
| Oh my god. | |
| That's pretty good. | |
| That's a good question. | |
| I think the most romantic thing a woman can do for a man is acts of service. | |
| Make sure the man is pleased. | |
| Make sure the man has everything he needs. | |
| You listen to him. | |
| You support him emotionally. | |
| I like when my man makes me feel safe, when he provides for me, when he makes sure I have a house, I have food, and I have a safe environment. | |
| That's good. | |
| For you? | |
| The most romantic thing a man can do? | |
| Yeah, or you could say something maybe your boyfriend did for you since you're in a relationship. | |
| If he did any. | |
| I'm sure he did if they're in a relationship still. | |
| Maybe not. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| He's just... | |
| All the same things. | |
| I mean, he provides for me. | |
| He gives me money. | |
| It's funny because I actually call him my sugar daddy, jokingly. | |
| But, like, to girls I'm around because most... | |
| How old are my 19-year-olds don't have other, you know, man who actually... | |
| Who's 21, who actually, like, gives money and doesn't, you know... | |
| So he provides for you, so that's the most romantic thing for you. | |
| And then what do you do? | |
| What's the most romantic thing you do for him? | |
| Um... | |
| That's rude. | |
| Anyways... | |
| Dang, fresh? | |
| I couldn't help it, sorry. | |
| Also, to add back to earlier, what's one thing before this show that I knew was going to happen? | |
| I knew everybody was going to call me away. | |
| I knew they were going to make fun of me for being fat. | |
| Like, I already knew that was going to happen. | |
| But anyways... | |
| Alright, cool. | |
| What's the most romantic thing you've done for your guy? | |
| I cook and clean and do everything else in the house. | |
| Cool. | |
| Alright. | |
| Um, kind of the same thing that they said. | |
| Nah, we need something new. | |
| Come on. | |
| New York? | |
| We need something new in New York. | |
| Come on, ping pong. | |
| Romantic. | |
| Think of a novella. | |
| A chapter. | |
| A date. | |
| A trip. | |
| Okay. | |
| On whose end? | |
| On whose end? | |
| The man or woman? | |
| On the man. | |
| So the man taking you on a trip? | |
| Half and half. | |
| Wait, your dude don't take you on dates? | |
| Nah, man. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Where? | |
| To the hood? | |
| They're both 18. | |
| The Bronx, BX. Alright, dates. | |
| And then what's the most romantic thing a woman can do? | |
| Yeah, cook and clean and provide. | |
| Do you do that? | |
| Cardi B? Do I do that? | |
| No, not right now. | |
| I'm in a talking stage. | |
| Alright. | |
| I guess he's not dating you because y'all are in a talking stage. | |
| Alright. | |
| He's not taking you on dates. | |
| What about you? | |
| What's the most romantic thing a woman can do in a relationship and a man? | |
| I think quality time. | |
| I don't think people realize how. | |
| On whose part? | |
| On both sides. | |
| Time is very precious. | |
| Okay. | |
| So I just think if someone takes time out their day to think and spend time with me, then that's something. | |
| Because you could be doing anything else in the world, but you want to spend time with me. | |
| That's powerful. | |
| Right. | |
| That's powerful. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, give us one sex specific for the two genders. | |
| So it's... | |
| In specific, I would say like... | |
| For a man, I would still say quality time, even if it's just sitting down and watching a show that we don't really care for. | |
| But as a woman, I would say the nurturing aspect and paying attention to what your man needs, it's not even just like, because a lot of men don't buy things that they actually need for themselves and taking care of themselves, but noticing that and then just having it there, I think they really appreciate that. | |
| Powerful. | |
| What about you? | |
| Okay, so I'd say the most romantic thing... | |
| I'll just use my own marriage, for instance. | |
| Obviously, for a woman, being able to cook and clean, but I'll give some more specific examples, like what I do. | |
| I wake my husband up with a massage and coffee every single morning, and every single night, I'm scratching his... | |
| Scalp and giving him a back massage until he falls asleep. | |
| It's important that he falls asleep first. | |
| And I would say something that's romantic that he does for me. | |
| Well, since I do all the cooking, it's nice when he takes me out for dinner because it's like a little break and it's just special. | |
| And then also even just while we're here in Miami, he's kind of like my little bodyguard, like making sure if there's any men walking by, he just puts his arm around me and just making sure that I'm protected. | |
| That's what it's really romantic. | |
| And that's something that a woman could never do for a man. | |
| W. Wow. | |
| Fantastic. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay. | |
| I like it. | |
| You are blessed. | |
| What about you? | |
| Holy. | |
| I want to say like... | |
| Just say that you don't know. | |
| No. | |
| On both sides, like, just being able to talk about, like, your deepest thoughts is very important. | |
| That's how you get to know someone. | |
| I think that's the most romantic-est thing you can do. | |
| Okay. | |
| Now give us sex-specific ones, yeah. | |
| Well, sex-specific. | |
| Well, gender-specific. | |
| But let me tell you, like, it's very important that a man makes a woman come first. | |
| If that happens... | |
| Literary? | |
| You mean literally or figuratively? | |
| C-U-M or C-O-M-E? C-U-M. Because... | |
| Okay. | |
| That alleviates a lot of problems. | |
| Like I said, sex is very important to women. | |
| It may be in different importance to men and women, but it's very important to women. | |
| For me, at least. | |
| Or speaking from what I know, that can alleviate a lot of issues, attitudes, and all that. | |
| So if you're caring in the bedroom, then that just makes a woman want to do so much more for you. | |
| And then what makes a woman, I guess, romantic for her man? | |
| The romantic thing she does. | |
| Basically letting him be vulnerable. | |
| Some men are not able to do that because they haven't found someone they can be vulnerable with, but that's very important because men have feelings. | |
| I'll ask you a question. | |
| Do you want a crybaby? | |
| I'm not a crybaby, but I want someone who's genuine and able to break down to me. | |
| Let me ask you this. | |
| For a relationship to last and long-term, whose sexual satisfaction you think is more important The woman. | |
| You think the woman's? | |
| Yeah, I do. | |
| Would you say women get into relationships with men for sex first? | |
| No. | |
| So how is it the most important thing? | |
| Because on the flip side, why do men deal with women? | |
| Sex first. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| I guess. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I can't really speak for men. | |
| I can only speak for me as a woman. | |
| But I know that... | |
| What is the number one reason why men talk to and court women? | |
| Well, yeah, for sex. | |
| Fantastic. | |
| Now, what is the number one reason why women deal with men? | |
| So... | |
| It's not sex. | |
| Yeah, okay, yeah, but this is what I'm saying. | |
| See how the logic is kind of... | |
| No, hear me out. | |
| All right, sure, go ahead. | |
| So... | |
| As a man, you want to be catered to, like, point blank, period. | |
| A woman needs to have her satisfactions filled so she can literally give her all to a man. | |
| If the man is not able to fulfill those because of whatever reasons, it could be selfish reasons, I don't know, it won't work. | |
| Like, that's my opinion. | |
| For men, right? | |
| Who has more requirements? | |
| Sexual requirements? | |
| No, who has more requirements of the other partner? | |
| Do women have more requirements of men, or do men have more requirements of women? | |
| Men? | |
| Women have more requirements for men. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| That being said, If he can meet those requirements, the woman should be able to do the cook, clean, whatever, all that housewife stuff, and be emotional catering to him. | |
| But as long as he's fulfilling, you know, the basics and the sexual part... | |
| Let me get this straight. | |
| So he has to fulfill all those requirements and make you cum, when for him, all he needs is really to cum and you just not be annoying? | |
| Is that a fair deal? | |
| Or is that a fair trade for the man, realistically speaking? | |
| Okay. | |
| But you're contradicting yourself in a way. | |
| How so? | |
| Because what is the woman supposed to bring to the table then? | |
| The catering stuff, right? | |
| Her main agency is her sexual agency. | |
| No, no. | |
| That's important for women, I said. | |
| For men, men can get sex anywhere, right? | |
| We've just been talking about that the whole time. | |
| And they will cheat if they want to. | |
| Well, actually, it's not that simple. | |
| Because remember, you're kind of going here in circles. | |
| You're not really addressing the main point here. | |
| You're saying that a woman's sexual satisfaction is extremely important to a relationship. | |
| It is. | |
| You can make that argument. | |
| But what I'm saying is that, and then I asked you, Whose sexual satisfaction is more important for the relationship to last? | |
| And then you said the woman's. | |
| Think about it. | |
| I respectfully disagree. | |
| Isn't it? | |
| You literally just sat here and said if a woman cheats, the man needs to leave her automatically. | |
| Yes. | |
| So why would a woman cheat on a man? | |
| For a multitude of reasons. | |
| For emotional reasons, typically. | |
| She doesn't respect him? | |
| Yeah. | |
| She doesn't respect him? | |
| She's not getting her emotional... | |
| I know what you're gonna say. | |
| You're gonna say because she's not satisfied. | |
| Especially in the bedroom. | |
| She's not satisfied that way. | |
| And he also may not be doing the other thing also. | |
| But a woman needs to be satisfied so she can give her all to the man. | |
| So I agree with you on the part where you gotta make your girl cum. | |
| I think that's mandatory. | |
| I mean, we could say you don't have to, but you probably should just because you're fulfilling all her sexual needs. | |
| However, at the same time, if I'm giving her the provision, the quality time, and protecting her, and giving her sex, I mean, that's a lot on my plate as a man. | |
| So what are you giving to me after all that? | |
| Other than We just talked about how men don't like women that actually bring stuff to the table. | |
| They don't care about education, job, career. | |
| That's bullshit to them. | |
| But for me, that would never be the case. | |
| So I'm going to bring what I can to the table. | |
| You need to provide for me so that I can actually have the energy to give back to you and want to give back to you. | |
| The energy? | |
| The energy, the want, the need, the encouragement. | |
| If you can't satisfy me in that specific way, I'm not saying that's the only thing, but if... | |
| Listen, hear me out. | |
| If you're doing it with your partner and it's not... | |
| It's selfish in a way where it feels like it's more about him, then it doesn't make the woman, or for me, want to do anything. | |
| So you're saying I have to do all of that and then put you... | |
| I believe that you can... | |
| A woman should bring stuff to the table other than just cooking and cleaning. | |
| Like what? | |
| She can have her own hustle. | |
| She can have her own ability to actually take care of herself. | |
| I'm not saying that that is what's supposed to happen. | |
| But women shouldn't be helpless. | |
| You're not paying the bills for the man. | |
| I'm just saying we can give to him personally. | |
| That's tangible. | |
| Your own hustle. | |
| That's not our hustle. | |
| For him tangibly. | |
| What can you give to him other than sex? | |
| Emotional support. | |
| Tangible means like Something you can touch. | |
| Can't touch emotions. | |
| So there's not much. | |
| Okay, so I think the biggest... | |
| I'll just make it very simple. | |
| I simply asked who needs to be sexually satisfied in a relationship for it to last. | |
| And what I'm arguing is that the man needs to be fulfilled because that is the predominant thing we care about when we deal with you. | |
| If a man can protect you, you're not going to take him seriously because that's the predominant thing that you care about when we get with you. | |
| So in other words, me protecting you is my duty. | |
| I need to do that. | |
| Your duty as a woman is to sexually satisfy your man. | |
| It's the main reason we get with you. | |
| The main reason you get with us is for security. | |
| The main reason we get with you is sex, if we're going to keep it all the way 1000. | |
| So, with all due respect, your sexual satisfaction is kind of at the bottom of the totem pole because I have to bring all these other things to the table to even get a date. | |
| Men have to bring a lot more to the table than women do to deal with the opposite gender. | |
| That's just a fact. | |
| I mean, you quite literally admitted it yourself. | |
| You're 22 years old. | |
| You're kind of figuring life out. | |
| You're living your life, but you're able to be around celebrities. | |
| You're getting certain opportunities, et cetera. | |
| Think about that. | |
| How you're getting these opportunities is because of your sexual agency. | |
| So your own life experiences validate what I'm telling you. | |
| A woman's primary agency is her sexual agency. | |
| That's it. | |
| A man's primary agency is success, status, security, etc. | |
| So how can a woman's sexual satisfaction be at the top of the totem pole when men have to bring way more to the relationship and men look at you from a sexual standpoint? | |
| Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right. | |
| But my whole thing is for a woman to just, you know, shut up and do as told, that needs to be something that makes her want to do that. | |
| You just gotta pick the right guy. | |
| If it's not the guy that's worth doing that for, then it's not necessary and you don't have to be that way. | |
| But if you run into the guy that you like and you want it to last, that's how it should be. | |
| But it's more of an emotional thing. | |
| I want to highlight this real fast. | |
| Just to show you the power of female beauty and sexuality. | |
| I could be the most handsome man in the world. | |
| Best looking guy. | |
| I'm not going to get invited on a yacht by a bunch of chicks. | |
| It's not happening. | |
| It's not fucking happening. | |
| I could be a celebrity with a blue check and some money. | |
| Girls still aren't going to invite me on their yacht. | |
| A woman, though, that's a nobody, can get invited on a yacht by a bunch of millionaires, celebrities, etc. | |
| That is the power of female sexuality. | |
| It creates opportunities for you, which you admitted yourself... | |
| Right? | |
| That a man would never be able to have. | |
| So how is it that a woman's sexual satisfaction is at the top of the list? | |
| That's ludicrous. | |
| Because it's the entire reason why we deal with you in the first place. | |
| When you get older, you're going to understand what we're saying here. | |
| I think she gets it now. | |
| I think she gets it when I use the example of that you can move worlds and get in situations that I would never be able to get into. | |
| Even me as a... | |
| I'll be honest with you. | |
| You're fairly average, 22 years old. | |
| You're going through life, whatever. | |
| You have more pull than myself and I'm an international celebrity. | |
| Think about that. | |
| Literally let that sink in as a woman. | |
| You're able to get into rooms that I have to bust my ass and become somebody to get into just by being a female. | |
| If that's not power of sexuality, I don't know what else proves it. | |
| Especially when the booty Don't ignore that last part. | |
| You see where I'm going with that though? | |
| And it's a great power. | |
| I understand what you're saying 100%. | |
| I just wanted to emphasize the fact that as much as sex is important to guys, it's also important to women. | |
| That's understandable. | |
| I just think it's not as important in the hierarchy for this successful relationship because men really value it. | |
| Women don't value it as much. | |
| That's why women are able to say crazy shit like I'm a sapiosexual. | |
| Have you ever been a guy that said I'm a sapiosexual? | |
| I actually have. | |
| Just so you know, right? | |
| I want to support. | |
| I could buy a dog. | |
| I'm not saying that a female's sexual needs aren't important. | |
| They definitely are. | |
| I'm just saying it's not the same priority as a man. | |
| And I understand what you're saying. | |
| I get 100%. | |
| But like I said, you know, I've I see my parents being married and stuff. | |
| I've seen my mom carry a lot of the weight that men should carry. | |
| So my perspective on life is a little bit different. | |
| Like, I don't believe that it should always be the man. | |
| I just don't believe that. | |
| I honestly believe, as a woman, there's nothing more satisfying than giving pleasure to your men. | |
| Of course! | |
| Yeah, I agree with you. | |
| Can you say it one more time? | |
| Can you say it a little slower? | |
| One more time? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| And look right into the camera, okay? | |
| Over here. | |
| Where's the camera? | |
| Okay. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Here? | |
| That one? | |
| Okay. | |
| As a woman, I believe... | |
| No, no, no. | |
| No? | |
| That one. | |
| Okay. | |
| As a woman, I believe there's nothing more satisfying... | |
| Okay, that camera again. | |
| Okay. | |
| As a woman, I believe there's nothing more satisfying than giving pleasure to your man. | |
| Ooh la la. | |
| That was a commercial right there. | |
| Awesome. | |
| That was French. | |
| Oh yeah, you're right. | |
| It's true, no? | |
| What do you think, woman? | |
| Yeah, I mean, I'll be honest. | |
| A lot of women admit that they actually get off on getting their guy off. | |
| And I make that argument because women understand that their sexuality is their primary power. | |
| But it has to be the right man, though. | |
| Of course. | |
| If it's a loser, then you're going to be like, you need to make me come, you suck. | |
| Yo, chat, calm down. | |
| I think... | |
| One romantic thing for a man and one for a woman. | |
| I mean, if you want me to be honest with you, Myron, everybody already stated what a woman should do and what a man... | |
| Act of service, is that what you want to say? | |
| Yes, act of service. | |
| And then what about for a guy for you? | |
| Provide, give me a crib, make sure me and my baby are straight, and give me another baby. | |
| Just out of curiosity, what would you have thought was romantic six years ago when you were living life, versus now? | |
| Well, like, how my ex used to do. | |
| He used to just spoil me and buy me everything. | |
| And, like, you know? | |
| So you thought that was romantic, like, material things? | |
| Yeah, in a sense, yeah. | |
| Like, you know? | |
| And we used to be little stoners, too, so he'll get creative with the blunts. | |
| And that's, to me, he used to be like, aww! | |
| What the fuck? | |
| No, like, you know how... | |
| I'm not gonna talk about this on the internet. | |
| No, but it's just... | |
| I ain't gonna talk about it. | |
| I get it. | |
| What about you, Kim? | |
| On the woman's side, I mean, making sure your man doesn't have to worry about what he's gonna eat for breakfast. | |
| He knows you're gonna get up, make him breakfast, make him lunch, make him dinner, something he likes. | |
| Making sure he doesn't have to worry about the house being clean and his laundry being done. | |
| Making sure he's sexually satisfied. | |
| For the man... | |
| Planning dates and keeping his hygiene good. | |
| Can I add one that women can do for men? | |
| Sure, go ahead. | |
| When a man comes home from work, making the house as pleasant and being as pleasant to him as possible and being there to serve him because he just had a long, hard day at work and your job is to make it as attractive and great for him to come home to. | |
| Make him excited to come home to you. | |
| What do you do? | |
| I mean, I'm cooking dinner. | |
| I'm making sure the house is clean. | |
| Like, things like making sure that your dishes are done before they get home so it's not, like, loud for them, you know? | |
| Just making it fun and cozy and making sure that everything's set up to do whatever he wants to do. | |
| And she adds massages. | |
| Yes, massages. | |
| Can be that. | |
| And scratches. | |
| I think a lot of women should really take heed to what you're saying. | |
| That's really, really, really great stuff. | |
| Some very good points. | |
| Both you guys. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Realistically, though, I would do all those things, but I still have to work. | |
| Did you say it? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| He does. | |
| Not 100%. | |
| I mean, he's 21. | |
| He only... | |
| Okay. | |
| Wait. | |
| Whose fault is that? | |
| You two is that man, though. | |
| Just saying. | |
| Just saying. | |
| I'm messing with you. | |
| I'm on your head top. | |
| I'm on your head top. | |
| We got some chats here. | |
| He has potential though. | |
| You said he's like in mechanic school and opening a business, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Cool. | |
| He's on the way up. | |
| That's great for 21. | |
| That's really good. | |
| He got his head on straight, which is fantastic. | |
| Ladies, why do you think women are permitted to use hormones in pregnancy as an excuse for poor, abusive, and destructive behavior, but men are not permitted to use hormones as an excuse for their behaviors, i.e. | |
| aggression? | |
| He's talking about the... | |
| You mean testosterone? | |
| I believe a woman should not have an abusive... | |
| How like a woman can say, oh, I'm a period, like it's fine, and a man can't do that. | |
| Yeah, pretty much. | |
| Yes, it's a little bit of a disjointed question. | |
| I guess, okay, basically, alright, so why is it that women are allowed to blame their period, my hormones, you know, I know I'm emotionally erratic, etc., and be really bad, like, abusive to men, right? | |
| But men are not allowed to use their hormones as an excuse. | |
| You mean the testosterone? | |
| I guess you can use that as an aglas. | |
| Is this more of a rhetorical question? | |
| Because, I mean, we don't really have the type of like... | |
| I mean, I don't think the... | |
| I think the point is, bro, is that you gotta understand that men are expected to be men at all times. | |
| Yeah, we don't have that. | |
| That's the mask and burner performance, bro. | |
| Control your emotions. | |
| That's a big one. | |
| IRS, if y'all ladies are smart, you will save your return for the next filing year. | |
| Instead of wasting it, doing nonsensical things, just reuse them umbrellas. | |
| What is the most important thing to keep a healthy relationship? | |
| Okay. | |
| You know what? | |
| Let me ask the married woman. | |
| What is the most important thing to keep a relationship, in your opinion? | |
| I would say just knowing that my job right now for myself is to serve my husband and understanding that and being, you know, obedient to him. | |
| And I have a very strong personality. | |
| So there's obviously been some like times where he's like, no, you promised, you vowed to me that you would be obedient. | |
| So that means that you're going to be obedient even when you disagree with me. | |
| So that's something that I've had to learn, but everything is just so much more smoothly. | |
| I'm so indecisive. | |
| As a woman, we're so indecisive. | |
| I make a decision, and then I'm immediately second-guessing it, and he just makes the decision. | |
| So it keeps all that responsibility out of my hands and just trusting your husband. | |
| He's always like, do you trust me? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, so stop bitching about the decision I made. | |
| And I just listen to him. | |
| So I honestly think listening and trusting your man. | |
| That's a good point, though. | |
| I love that. | |
| I saw that you were making some faces. | |
| You disagree. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I'll open it up to you. | |
| Do you disagree? | |
| Go, queen. | |
| Honestly, the way you're referring to yourself sounds like a dog. | |
| I'm so sorry. | |
| I'm so sorry. | |
| I am a bitch. | |
| I am a bitch. | |
| No, no. | |
| I would never call you a dog. | |
| I mean, that is a female dog. | |
| In definition. | |
| I'm saying that you're obedient and, like, Probably obedience. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| But you also have to remember, too, she did say she got married under a church. | |
| Not by papers, but under the church. | |
| And in church, they do vow to each other certain things. | |
| And obedience is one of them. | |
| I'm a Roman Catholic, so I do not know. | |
| I mean, if you're being a Roman Catholic, how can you say it's being treated as a dog if you're supposed to be this way? | |
| I'm saying the way she sounds. | |
| I do know all the seven vows. | |
| I do know them. | |
| But I'm just saying in a sense, I would never refer to myself as obedient to my... | |
| It's supposed to be a team. | |
| Why don't we ask the men here? | |
| Why not be obedient to the man that you want to be with? | |
| That doesn't make any sense to me. | |
| Because I'm not his child. | |
| Or property. | |
| But if he's going to take responsibility and provide everything and be... | |
| I will let him lead. | |
| You won't let him? | |
| You won't let him? | |
| You're supposed to let him lead. | |
| You're supposed to have him lead. | |
| But I'm not saying I'm not going to be obedient. | |
| I'm saying in a sense, in a sense... | |
| But why not be obedient to your leader? | |
| Hold on, hold on. | |
| I got this. | |
| Pastor Fredstappen in here. | |
| So you're counting, right? | |
| So do you read your Bible? | |
| Yes. | |
| What does your Bible say about marriage? | |
| Marriage is a vow. | |
| Under what? | |
| It's a sacred vow. | |
| Under what? | |
| I don't know. | |
| The Lord, yeah. | |
| The Lord's understanding. | |
| And what does that mean? | |
| God, man, woman, kids. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, by default, she's saying what the Bible says. | |
| You're saying, oh, you know what? | |
| I'm making my own rules, so I don't have to be a dog. | |
| I'm not saying that. | |
| I'm saying the way she sounded. | |
| I can interpret her the way she sounded. | |
| Also, how she said it. | |
| How she said it. | |
| I'm saying it sounded like if you're going to say that, I'm saying if you're going to say that, that's what the Bible sounds. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You're not supposed to interpret the Bible literally. | |
| It's not sexy. | |
| You just sound like the way you're hearing it, but it doesn't change the fact that it's true. | |
| You guys aren't even letting me speak. | |
| Let me finish my opinion. | |
| But I'm just saying in a sense, like, I will let my man lead. | |
| That's not like, let him. | |
| I'm saying I would want him to lead. | |
| I want to follow his path. | |
| I want to depend on him. | |
| But I'm saying I want him to also listen when I say like, hey, like, you know, I don't really feel too great about this. | |
| I want him to tell him to be shut up and just listen. | |
| I want him to be like, hey, this is what we're doing for a reason. | |
| I want mutual respect. | |
| I respect him as someone to make decisions, to do things and everything. | |
| But I do not want to be disrespected in a sense where it's like, you don't know anything. | |
| So just shut up and do it. | |
| I would hardly say the way she phrased it kind of sounded like that, but at the end of the day, y'all literally just said the same thing. | |
| If you want me to be honest with you, y'all just said the same thing. | |
| You just danced around it, but she was just off point. | |
| You understand? | |
| It's not. | |
| You want to be able to question your man and not feel like You don't have to say so. | |
| But in reality speaking, she's saying, you know what? | |
| I may question it, but I made a choice to make him the leader. | |
| So if he made a choice for me and my family, you know what? | |
| I'm not like it in the moment, but he may have a, I want to say, general idea more than I do. | |
| And I would say this too. | |
| Dogs can't disagree, but still choose to obey. | |
| But I'm saying in a sense, with your husband, if you're an admin on something you don't like, do you just give up? | |
| I have to. | |
| For instance, I'm a big picky eater. | |
| I'm a big picky eater. | |
| He'll be like, eat that just to break me from it. | |
| And it sucks. | |
| It sucks. | |
| I don't like it. | |
| But it's a big thing of just trusting your husband. | |
| I can tell him if I, trust me, one of his biggest complaints about me is I'm a big complainer. | |
| And, you know, I give my opinions too much. | |
| That's an honest fault of mine. | |
| But I can say what I want to say. | |
| And then he's going to make the decision. | |
| And since I vowed to him that I'm going to be trusting him and be obedient to him, that I will be happy. | |
| And I will not just obey, but put a smile on my face. | |
| Well, that's another thing is I have to make I'm not going to be miserable during the entire time we're doing something just because I don't want to do it. | |
| It's I chose to be obedient and I'm trusting him. | |
| And every time I do this, guess what? | |
| I'm always happy with what we're doing. | |
| It's never bad. | |
| I swear. | |
| He knows better than me. | |
| A man, he does know better than me. | |
| I wanted to marry him because he knows better than I do. | |
| I guess we just disagree on that aspect. | |
| But I respect how you go about your marriage. | |
| I'm not going to deny that. | |
| I'm just saying in a sense, if I don't like something, I want my significant other to appreciate that. | |
| I wouldn't want to be like, oh, I don't want to eat this. | |
| And he'd be like, eat it. | |
| And I'd do it. | |
| Like, that's just absurd to me. | |
| Like, I get it. | |
| That's how it works for you, and I appreciate that for you. | |
| I love that for you. | |
| I'm just saying, in a sense, I want my own voice. | |
| The eating part, I got good to you. | |
| That's kind of like, yo, but I get it. | |
| I get it. | |
| Eat that, nigga! | |
| Put a smile on your face! | |
| Was the food that he was telling you to eat, was it healthier for you and better than what you had prior? | |
| Yes. | |
| I mean, for example, I've been vegetarian since I was like eight. | |
| I'm pregnant now. | |
| And, you know, I'm not a high protein diet. | |
| It's better for me to eat meat. | |
| Now, eating to me dead flesh sounds the most disgusting thing ever because I haven't had it since I was eight years old. | |
| But it's healthy for the baby. | |
| So he's, you know, made me eat chicken. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So you ask another question and you get the real answer. | |
| He's doing that. | |
| Why? | |
| Not just for her betterment, but for the betterment of the child. | |
| And this is why, since the beginning of time, men have typically been in leadership and that's why patriarchies work. | |
| And I get it that you're saying, oh, well, that's not fair or whatever. | |
| But let me ask you a question. | |
| Let's go into a dream world real fast. | |
| This is specifically for you. | |
| Let's say you ran a Fortune 500 company, right? | |
| But, you know, you were responsible for all the W's and L's, but you couldn't make all the decisions. | |
| And one day, you take a 10% loss. | |
| Then another day, you take a 15% loss. | |
| Then another day, you take a 20% loss. | |
| How'd you feel, the fact that you're taking all the responsibility for the L's, but you don't get to make all the decisions? | |
| I kind of... | |
| Can you repeat the last part? | |
| So you're responsible for this company, right? | |
| So all the W's and L's come your way, but you can't make all the decisions. | |
| So when W's come, fantastic. | |
| I didn't have to make all the decisions. | |
| But when L's come, it hurts because you're taking 10% losses, 50% losses. | |
| People are complaining. | |
| People are threatening to sue, etc. | |
| But you're not the one making all the decisions. | |
| How'd that make you feel? | |
| Obviously it makes me feel like, you know, I need to do better. | |
| But I feel like it's more like... | |
| How can you do better when you're not making all the decisions and you don't have 100% authority? | |
| You only have 70% authority, 50% authority. | |
| But that's where you provide analytical facts. | |
| I'm very... | |
| What do you mean by analytical facts? | |
| In a sense, it's like, why did you fail? | |
| You may not have made the decisions, but you can come up with a... | |
| But it's out of your control. | |
| Someone else made the decisions. | |
| But you can come with the explanation, can you not? | |
| No, you can't because you're only making 50% of the decisions. | |
| So you're virtually operating blind. | |
| I'm saying the L's has happened, right? | |
| But we all have to look into why things happen. | |
| That's how we learn in life. | |
| But you can't reflect. | |
| Hold on. | |
| You can't reflect unless you have a clear image of what the hell to reflect on. | |
| You only have 50% of the image. | |
| That's my point. | |
| So if a decision is made, you only saw 50% of why the decision was made? | |
| Yes, but you're responsible for all the L's. | |
| But you're also responsible for the W's as well. | |
| Yes, but the W's are far between because you're not making all the best decisions because you can't make them. | |
| But how does that relate in a sense of... | |
| Because you don't have full control. | |
| When a man doesn't have full control, right, what ends up happening is he still has 100% responsibility. | |
| Because if... | |
| Here's the thing. | |
| If you go on a date with a guy, let's say he wasn't the most interesting guy, or maybe he picked a bland place or whatever, but the reality is you were just boring yourself, and you didn't really contribute to the conversation. | |
| Let's keep it all the way to 1,000 here. | |
| When a girl goes on a bad first date, does she say... | |
| You know, I was a boring, uncharismatic bitch. | |
| No, she blames the man every time. | |
| It was boring. | |
| He wasn't charismatic. | |
| He wasn't funny. | |
| He wasn't charming. | |
| Women go on a first date a lot of the times expecting to be entertained, correct? | |
| Let's be honest here. | |
| It's a man's job, correct? | |
| I don't think so. | |
| Let's keep it a thousand. | |
| This is me. | |
| This is me. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| But what about most women? | |
| Most women... | |
| I don't date women, so I just don't... | |
| I don't know. | |
| Well, let me... | |
| And that's the problem. | |
| Let me aware you. | |
| Most women would look at it as the man's failure. | |
| Even if she was an objective failure during date, it didn't contribute anything. | |
| Men... | |
| In the reality, have to bear all the responsibility for wins and losses. | |
| And here's the thing. | |
| If I have to bear the responsibility for the outcome, I better have the fucking authority to make the decisions. | |
| So when it comes to a relationship, if the relationship fails, 9 out of 10 times, it was the guy's fault. | |
| It was the guy's fault because he lacked leadership skills. | |
| So he had to do what? | |
| Relinquish some of that authority to the woman because she 100% didn't trust him. | |
| That's my point. | |
| Women, for the longest, women are not good decision makers. | |
| They're not leaders, etc. | |
| And we have an entire humanity to prove that. | |
| Name one matriarchy that stood the test of time. | |
| Doesn't work. | |
| Women are not born leaders. | |
| Are there some that could do it? | |
| Maybe you might be a leader. | |
| I don't know. | |
| You might be an exception to the rule. | |
| But the reality is, most women are not good leaders. | |
| And most women don't want to lead a relationship with a man. | |
| They don't. | |
| It's stressful. | |
| And I would argue, women say they want a 50-50 relationship, but the reality is, y'all don't want a 50-50 relationship. | |
| Because if something fucks up, the guy's going to be 100% responsible anyway. | |
| But I never said I wanted a 50-50% relationship. | |
| I've never stated that. | |
| I'm just saying I want to be valued and understood. | |
| I'm not saying that I need to tell him what to do. | |
| He wants to be heard. | |
| That's cool you want to be heard, but you also have to be able to understand that Men typically make their decisions based on rationale, logic, deductive problem solving. | |
| Women lack in these skills from a biological level. | |
| Like women just lack in these skills because women are ruled by their emotions. | |
| They're not deductive problem solvers the same level as men. | |
| And it's funny too. | |
| Let's go over the example just now. | |
| She mentioned her husband telling her he needs to eat certain food. | |
| How did all of you respond? | |
| Whoa! | |
| That's crazy! | |
| I'm not a dog! | |
| What's going on here? | |
| I'm not a dog! | |
| Obedient, etc. | |
| But it wasn't until I peeled the layer back. | |
| Hold on. | |
| What did he tell you to eat specifically? | |
| Oh, he wanted you to eat a meal with meat, etc. | |
| Why? | |
| Oh, because she's carrying his child. | |
| So he doesn't give a fuck about her feelings. | |
| He's doing what's best for her and the child long term. | |
| Men typically have to think this way. | |
| Women think about the now and how I feel. | |
| Men have to think about the future and what's going to lead to this successful outcome. | |
| This is why men have built society. | |
| Men, by nature and by... | |
| Existence have to be long-term thinkers. | |
| It's why we enjoy all the modern conveniences we have now. | |
| This is why women are not inventors. | |
| This is why women are not innovators. | |
| This is why women are not risk takers in general. | |
| You might be. | |
| Hey, you might be an exception to the rule, but most women are not. | |
| Just like your men in leadership roles and men in inventing things, I just realized you have to look at history and realize why women couldn't do that. | |
| I'm not trying to front that, but women couldn't do anything. | |
| I just don't want to take that as into it now. | |
| That's all I want to say. | |
| Men have to take responsibility. | |
| If things fail, it's their fault. | |
| That's how people view things. | |
| No one blames women for anything. | |
| It's a selfish way. | |
| You said women didn't have these things. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| We can make the argument that women were oppressed to a degree. | |
| But I would argue in today's day and age, women aren't oppressed at all. | |
| I would argue women have more rights and privileges than ever before and they're more educated. | |
| So why is it that women still don't dominate certain fields that create infrastructure that keep the world running? | |
| But have we had the time to really... | |
| You go all the time in the world. | |
| About 70 years. | |
| But in a sense, if you look at the, you know, if you look at boards, right? | |
| Just the boards of companies. | |
| The majority is white males. | |
| But that's, in a sense, it's like they've been with the company for 25, 26 plus years. | |
| That's just how it's been. | |
| But in a sense, it's like you're saying, like, women have the opportunity, but it's not yet. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| There's still things like women are the first to do something. | |
| Men control the wealth and men are on boards. | |
| Well, let's also talk about men also die at higher rates. | |
| They do. | |
| Men also are the majority of poor people. | |
| Men are also the majority of mentally retarded people. | |
| Men are also the majority of degenerates, alcoholics, criminals, etc. | |
| So if you're going to look at the good side, right? | |
| Fantastic. | |
| We can look at the good side of the top performing men. | |
| We also have to look at the bad side. | |
| Men also suffer way more than women do in general. | |
| But the problem is that women tend to look at the successful men that are the 1%. | |
| They don't look at all the other guys that are at the bottom that are the ones that are suffering. | |
| I agree with you wholeheartedly. | |
| I know men typically commit suicide more than women. | |
| It's a hard world for men. | |
| There are so many things that they challenge and they face and they have to live up to these certain societal standards. | |
| And also female choice as well. | |
| Women choose to not go into certain career fields and women choose to not work as many hours and work as many if they take more vacation. | |
| This is all statistically proven too why women earn less in general and why women Aren't in positions of power a lot of times. | |
| I would argue if women really tried hard and wanted to get in positions of power, they would have a higher likelihood of doing so than men. | |
| Thanks to affirmative action, thanks to the kind of centric society that we're in nowadays, like women have more opportunities than men do nowadays. | |
| So, you knowing this, why do you want to be like a man so bad? | |
| I don't. | |
| So then why are you arguing for this point? | |
| I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like... | |
| I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like... | |
| The only thing that bothered me when he said was that women aren't competitive as men, but I'm just saying, in our history, it's always been a patriarchy. | |
| I mean, men have always had complete control. | |
| There used to be times where women could... | |
| Well, patriarchies have existed, but what happened? | |
| But I'm saying, in a sense, it was like 50, 57 years ago when a woman could have a bank account. | |
| So I'm just saying in a sense, that's my main fact. | |
| How does that affect women now? | |
| But I'm saying he's saying there's no women in power. | |
| There's not a woman in power. | |
| I mean, we have Kabbalah who got ahead by giving head. | |
| I mean, that's your honest opinion. | |
| No, that's a fact. | |
| But I'm just saying in a sense with where your statement said, that's why I was like, you know, like women have been oppressed. | |
| Yeah, they've been oppressed, but I'm saying nowadays, women don't have those chains on them, and I would argue that we've overcorrected where women have more opportunities, rights, and privileges than men do, and they enjoy more of them because women are able to be treated as equal citizens while simultaneously enjoying the benefits of being a lady. | |
| And they get female privileges that men don't get, but Going back to what you're saying, I think, you know, we always talk about successful men, guys run the boards, the top wealth is controlled by men, blah, blah, blah. | |
| But we also want to talk about all the guys at the bottom that are degenerates, bums, etc., that are visible. | |
| So the good comes with the bad. | |
| You're always going to have, like, men, right? | |
| We typically tend to operate on, like, the ends of the bell curves. | |
| Like, the most geniuses, exceptional people, they're men. | |
| But all the losers are also majority men. | |
| But can I say something? | |
| Because I've taken a lot of technical database classes, SQL classes. | |
| I was always the only woman in that class. | |
| In a sense, it's like, okay, this has not been a thing. | |
| So you chose to be there, right? | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| Where are your female peers? | |
| They chose to not be there. | |
| It's a choice. | |
| Can I, like, finish? | |
| But I gotta make that distinction, though. | |
| No, no, of course, of course. | |
| But I'm saying, in a sense, it's a male-dominated field. | |
| In a sense, where my, like, there's a company now that has women in STEM. That's been a big thing. | |
| Was this in college, by the way? | |
| Yeah, it was in college. | |
| But I'm saying, I had to go to, like, not conventions, but it's, like, empowerment of women. | |
| Not in just STEM, but in anything. | |
| Well, let me ask you a question. | |
| Are you aware that three quarters of college students nowadays are female and most graduates are female? | |
| Yeah, but they've been announced. | |
| It's not just a hold on. | |
| That's a very important fact. | |
| Explain to me how women dominate college attendance, yet they're the minority in the job fields that are important for infrastructure. | |
| Did you know that when most women go to a job interview, they're offered less while a man is offered more? | |
| There's a lot of reasons for that. | |
| I'm just saying, men will bargain a price, but I'm just saying in a sense, as a woman who had to do it, this is just my own personal experience, going into a field where it's mostly male-dominated, you are not respected. | |
| Like, nobody takes you seriously. | |
| So that's, congrats. | |
| But I'm just saying, that's my own personal experience. | |
| Welcome to being a man. | |
| Because when you're a man and you get into a job brand new, you're going to get bullied, you're going to get made fun of, you're going to get shit on, you're going to get hazed, etc. | |
| Until? | |
| So yeah, you might not get respected as a lady to a degree because you're a woman, so you've got to prove yourself. | |
| But men have to as well. | |
| And men get hazed way harder than women do. | |
| Excellent. | |
| Of course. | |
| I feel like you're not understanding my point. | |
| No, I'm not understanding your point completely. | |
| But what I'm saying is that how is it that women dominate college attendance, women graduate at a higher rate, yet they're still a minority in higher education when it comes to certain fields? | |
| My argument isn't that women are oppressed. | |
| My argument is that women simply don't want to do these jobs and choose not to do them. | |
| Because They're hard, and they don't go to female strengths, which is what? | |
| Deductive problem solving. | |
| You gotta remember, just because you do it, doesn't necessarily mean... | |
| Doesn't mean everyone else does it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I understand that. | |
| You're clearly an exception to the rule. | |
| But I'm just saying, my thing is, like, we go out and we try to, like, educate that it's just not for men. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Because I feel like those fields have always been like, oh, this is what, like, you know, you go into nursing. | |
| Because when I was a kid, Everyone's like, you know, you go into nursing, you go into, you know, what women do. | |
| Yeah, I mean, because when you grow up, you're like, women like pink, men like blue. | |
| So in a sense, it's like that was kind of ingrained in me and growing in society. | |
| But I'm saying as I got older, and I opened my mind more, it's like, hey, like, you know, I can do this. | |
| This is not something that I need to lift or anything. | |
| But it's just something it's a coding language, you're learning it. | |
| It's ultimately choice. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Men are hairdressers today. | |
| They do women's hair because they made a choice. | |
| So ultimately, it's a choice. | |
| And as well, you know what's happening to you? | |
| Victim mindset. | |
| You're saying, oh, I'm a woman. | |
| They should treat me this way. | |
| No. | |
| You've got to prove yourself. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| You have to prove yourself anyways. | |
| I'm not saying, and I'm saying in a sense, I feel like for me, I'm saying for my personal experience, it was kind of an intimidation factor to walk into a class of, what, 70, 80 people and you're the only girl? | |
| It's intimidating. | |
| Is that in your mind or is that... | |
| But I'm saying this is my personal experience. | |
| So that is my mind. | |
| Right. | |
| But I'm just saying in a sense where I joined like, you know, organizations where you have like CEOs, you have CIOs going to talk to people and be like, hey, this is something that everyone should be welcome to do. | |
| I said how you feel versus what's real are two different things. | |
| Just because you walk into a room and you feel intimidated doesn't necessarily mean that you're about to be oppressed. | |
| Of course. | |
| I'm not saying that I was. | |
| I did tech, right? | |
| We did computer science. | |
| There's only one black girl in that group, right? | |
| She said to herself, you know what? | |
| Damn. | |
| I'm the only girl in here. | |
| I'm going to own it. | |
| She came up to the class, first raised her hand, always made sure that she was heard in that class. | |
| Because you know what? | |
| She knows as a woman, she had to prove a point. | |
| So you took it the other way. | |
| No, I'm not saying that I didn't go and do that. | |
| I'm saying when you first walk in, especially this is like my freshman year of school, it's first class. | |
| You walk in, you're so used to having mixed classes, and then you sit there and you're like, okay, well, you know, it's shocking. | |
| But it's like, I had a female teacher in that class. | |
| So it was like, okay, like, I'm going to do it. | |
| I'm going to show, like, I can do what I need to do and be great at it. | |
| But I'm just saying in a sense where, like, I'm just going off of what that one sentence that you did. | |
| Which is what, men are better leaders? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, in society. | |
| That's a fact. | |
| But I'm saying we don't have enough data. | |
| We don't have enough time frame where women could have been leaders. | |
| Could have. | |
| I mean, if you want to say that, look how modern time is now, right? | |
| Women now are being praised, worshipped, and all these things. | |
| And in a sense, this woke culture for us being promiscuous, us selling the sexuality through social media, If you kind of look at it, we're low-key destructing. | |
| What's the word again? | |
| We're destructing ourselves on accident because we want to do what the fuck we want. | |
| But that's not all women. | |
| I understand that it's not all women, but this is something that's being pushed out to everybody. | |
| Your kids are going to see this. | |
| I'm going to pick it up. | |
| I ain't worried about it. | |
| I'm trying to make my point. | |
| But at the end of the day, when it comes down to it, it's like, We're having the freedom to do what the fuck we want and look what we're doing with it. | |
| You understand what I'm saying? | |
| Not all women are doing it, but in general, majority of women are selling their sexuality. | |
| They're promiscuous. | |
| They're just out there and they don't give a fuck. | |
| I have something to say about that. | |
| Living in South Florida, I realize like Promiscuity is really big here. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, sex sells here, right? | |
| If you go to certain countries, like, not countries, certain states... | |
| It's not like that. | |
| It's not like that at all. | |
| At all. | |
| So it's like, I've almost went to school in Iowa, and what they did for fun was go to the barn and, like, kick hay. | |
| Like, they did the most... | |
| Kick hay? | |
| Yeah, I'm so serious. | |
| And they did the most basic things. | |
| So it's in a sense, it's like, when I came here, being over-sexual was normalized here. | |
| Seeing people in thong bikinis, this, that, that was normal here. | |
| So in a sense, it's like if you're surrounded in a society where that's your norm, you're going to only see that. | |
| All right, we're digressing here a bit because the whole point was you didn't like that I said that men are better leaders and you didn't really refute my argument. | |
| You went into kind of a topic of women are victims and women aren't represented in higher society and in certain jobs. | |
| And my argument was that women aren't built for certain jobs because of their biological makeup. | |
| Men are better deductive problem solvers, which is my men Dominate jobs that create infrastructure, STEM, etc. | |
| And that's female choice because women dominate college, yet they choose to not go in it. | |
| I feel like you didn't listen to what I heard. | |
| I just said over the years, you only have statistical data of men being in charge for years. | |
| That's all I'm saying. | |
| In your society, yes, there's so many men. | |
| My point is, if things are equal now and it's overcorrected and women have more opportunity now than men do, What is the excuse that women have for not entering STEM in the job fields that you are literally saying women are underrepresented? | |
| You're saying there's not enough time. | |
| I'm arguing we've overcorrected for time where women are literally hired for jobs, even if they're underqualified just because of affirmative action. | |
| Yeah, but I'm saying the numbers have changed now. | |
| Like, the numbers for women in STEM have gone significantly up. | |
| They've gone up. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But it's because we have all these incentives for them, but women still choose to not do it. | |
| Like, you gotta get it through your head that women and men are different, and we have different interests, and most women don't want to have anything to do with STEM or certain career fields. | |
| Women are more likely to chase their dream than men are. | |
| And the reason for that is because women, right, I want to do art. | |
| I want to do this. | |
| They're not going to face the same heavy penalizations, right, for not pursuing money. | |
| If I'm a man and I want to be an artist, but I realize I need to be a doctor because my family's putting pressure on me and I need to earn money because that is my value as a man, is my status and my legacy. | |
| We discussed before, I'm more likely to pursue that career even though I don't want to do it. | |
| You said earlier that you were pursuing medical school, but you're like, you know what? | |
| I'm going to take a pivot real quick because I want to do broadcasting. | |
| Well, women have the privilege of doing that because women aren't held to a financial burden of performance or rising a certain socioeconomic class. | |
| Men do. | |
| That's why men take more risks. | |
| Men are more likely to go into career fields that they hate. | |
| Why is it that there's all these men garbage men? | |
| Why are all these guys doing all these difficult jobs, labor, construction, etc.? | |
| You think they dream of wanting to do that? | |
| No. | |
| They do it because they understand for me to get a wife, for me to get a family, etc., I have to do things that I don't want to do to earn money because my name is dependent upon my status and my income ability. | |
| Women don't have that same burden. | |
| That's why women can go into career fields that don't make money. | |
| Look at the top 10 jobs that don't make money. | |
| Women dominate those. | |
| Top 10 jobs that do earn money, especially that are dangerous, dominated by men. | |
| Men are willing to take more risks. | |
| This is biological. | |
| Because we have a burden of performance. | |
| Women don't have that same urgency. | |
| You might, but a lot of women don't. | |
| That's my point. | |
| Women can have the safety net of finding a man and being rescued. | |
| Men don't have that. | |
| That plays a big role in our decisions and how we move in life. | |
| I guess my circle of people around me are different. | |
| So like I said, the people around me, the women around me, they're all... | |
| Men and women are different. | |
| We know that. | |
| But I've seen a comment saying both of us, the black women, we're the most combative and stuff. | |
| Combative. | |
| We have to realize that white women's experiences are going to be different than black women's experiences. | |
| I don't know where her background is, but I'm pretty sure she wanted to get out and start a career so she can make something of herself because maybe she didn't have that security back then. | |
| We have to look at it in a different perspective in a way. | |
| I don't understand your argument. | |
| I'm trying to say that men and women are different in their experiences. | |
| And I hate to say this because I try to live a peaceful life. | |
| But there is still a discrepancy between how white people experience the world and how black people experience the world. | |
| She read the comment in the chat saying that most two combative people on the panel are black. | |
| So she's referring to that. | |
| Because I was confused why she... | |
| But that's kind of... | |
| That doesn't really have to do with... | |
| Yeah, no, I understand what you're saying. | |
| I was making a gender argument, not necessarily a race argument. | |
| But if you want to make a race argument. | |
| No, I don't. | |
| But I was just saying, like, that could be another reason why, you know, we have different views in some things. | |
| Because we went through different life experiences. | |
| I mean, I get it. | |
| We all raise differently, but at the end of the day, we all have vaginas. | |
| And at the end of the day, men are still after our vaginas. | |
| Whether you're white, whether you're black, whether you're purple or blue, you still have a vagina. | |
| I mean, I don't want to use your past experience as an example again, but you have rappers and you've been around celebrities, etc. | |
| you have the safety net and the privilege to go ahead and attract one of these guys or the opportunity to attract one of them and not enter the workforce if you don't want to. | |
| want to yeah i don't have that privilege agreed so that's why i'm trying to say that there's a performance on men and men are more likely to take risk which is why we are in the positions that we're in which is to answer her point why when I'm just going to say it. | |
| You might not like me saying this. | |
| Women are naturally lazy. | |
| And what I mean by that is women are naturally lazy when it comes to creating excess resources. | |
| Because there's no proclivity on women to create excess resources. | |
| Because at the end of the day, that's not your primary mission on Earth. | |
| Your primary mission on Earth is to have a family and children. | |
| That's what we're biologically hardwired to do. | |
| Here's the difference. | |
| You can mate without being successful. | |
| I can't mate unless I'm successful. | |
| You do realize human beings are put on earth to mate. | |
| That's the number one reason why we're here. | |
| That's why you have all these survival mechanisms. | |
| When you cut yourself and you bleed, your body starts automatically repairing itself. | |
| You get sick. | |
| You fight off viruses. | |
| Everything is to stay alive so you can create more life. | |
| Okay? | |
| You can go ahead and mate and have children without being successful. | |
| I must provide excess resources to become successful with mating. | |
| So therefore, I have a higher natural tendency to go out and create resources. | |
| This is why men take more risks than women when it comes to creating resources. | |
| Now I know what you're going to say. | |
| My circle isn't like that. | |
| The girls I know aren't like that. | |
| I'm not like that. | |
| Congratulations. | |
| You are an exception to the rule, and your circle of friends are an exception to the rule. | |
| But most women, if I gave them the option, you could stay at home and have a man take care of all your bills, or you go out into the workforce and be strong and independent, or maybe have a guy be 50-50. | |
| Most women would elect to stay at home with a man. | |
| That's the majority. | |
| And we're biologically hardwired to be that way. | |
| This is fact. | |
| This isn't just my opinion. | |
| Women just don't have the same level of work ethic when it comes to creating excess resources. | |
| That's why men are stronger than men who deduct the problem solvers. | |
| We have more spatial awareness. | |
| We're better with directions. | |
| We have more dexterity. | |
| It's all biological function to work harder than women. | |
| And even when you look at the numbers, men work more hours on average. | |
| They work harder jobs on average. | |
| They're more willing to take risks. | |
| This is all fact. | |
| So it's not that women aren't where they want to be because of oppression and all this other stuff. | |
| A lot of it is choice too. | |
| And biological constraints. | |
| Perfect! | |
| I guess we just have to agree to disagree. | |
| Yes. | |
| No, you're incorrect. | |
| With all due respect, you're just simply incorrect. | |
| There's no agree to disagree. | |
| You are incorrect in your assessment of why men and women are different and why men are in leadership roles and women are not. | |
| You're 1,000% incorrect. | |
| I literally outlined biological fact why men have a higher proclivity to make money. | |
| You're just incorrect. | |
| And that's a masculine tendency that you have right there because you don't want to be wrong. | |
| No, I just... | |
| But you're incorrect in this situation. | |
| I feel like you just don't want to... | |
| I'm not going to dive deep into it, but I just don't agree. | |
| So, when you're engaged, then tell us we're incorrect. | |
| Right now, you're still dating. | |
| So... | |
| Alright, we're going to move on. | |
| That wasn't the argument, Chris. | |
| I said men are in leadership roles because we're more capable of being in leadership roles. | |
| And I literally outlined why. | |
| From a biological sense, a human reproductive sense. | |
| And you refuse to accept it because you don't feel... | |
| No, I said, the main thing that I did not agree with what you said is that there's no proof that men are born leaders, better leaders than women. | |
| I'm just saying, in a sense, there's not enough data, in a sense, where men have been leaders for years. | |
| For years! | |
| That's all I'm saying. | |
| In a sense, it's like, for you to be like, women have had this frequent time frame and you're comparing it to years, that's all it is. | |
| That's all I can say. | |
| What I'm saying is that even if women get in leadership roles, they're not going to be innovators and creators anyway. | |
| But we have time to tell. | |
| I mean, we're seeing it now. | |
| We're seeing it now. | |
| Social media is destructive. | |
| What's going on right now? | |
| We're all the female inventors now with all the rights and privileges and accesses that women have. | |
| What's holding women back? | |
| Nothing holds women back, but they choose to still not get in these jobs. | |
| They still choose to not innovate or create. | |
| Why do men still dominate all infrastructure jobs, even though women have all the same rights and privileges since the 60s? | |
| But I'm saying in a sense, if you look at history, there's been a lot of things that have been shown that women have created that men took and put their names on. | |
| That's just facts. | |
| Name one. | |
| There's the NASA launch. | |
| There was two women that created all the analytical data. | |
| Two? | |
| I think it was two or three. | |
| I think it was a couple. | |
| Actually, it was a couple. | |
| They made a whole movie about it. | |
| Four. | |
| They made a whole movie about it. | |
| Six? | |
| Of course they made a movie about it. | |
| There's literally books. | |
| The one time women create something, they make a movie about it. | |
| They make a movie on things that guys create. | |
| Graphics. | |
| I'm just saying, in a sense, there's a bunch of books, like, you know, ideas that have been shown that women were the ones who made them, but they had to come under a male name. | |
| But I'm just saying, in a sense, it's like they weren't able to do those things because in a society where men were the main ones. | |
| Women also chose not to do a lot of those things. | |
| Let's talk about voting, for example, which women love to talk about. | |
| Women chose not to vote for a very long time because it came with responsibilities. | |
| I'm saying before when I was talking about the NASA thing and then also talking about books and stuff. | |
| If you came out as a woman, no one would read it because women weren't respected. | |
| Women were supposed to read or write. | |
| You would get stoned. | |
| You would get killed. | |
| No one would respect you. | |
| I believe we should have kept it like that because this life sucks. | |
| Honestly. | |
| I'm gonna have to like, yeah. | |
| The system, the whole way society that we live in, it's wrong. | |
| It's been distorted and we shouldn't be living like that. | |
| I guess it's been distorted. | |
| Let's move on. | |
| I think we're in the best time to be alive ever. | |
| What a time. | |
| Like, I mean, I think there's things that sucks and things aren't fair, but that's just life in general. | |
| I think we live in the best time to live ever, and we live in, like, probably one of the best countries to live ever. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think that's just a very unappreciative thing to say, but that's fine. | |
| I mean, if you think it would be better in the Stone Ages. | |
| No, I'm not saying that. | |
| I'm just saying, like, you know, our values have changed, so it's different than what it once was. | |
| But I would argue our values changed to benefit women significantly. | |
| You said that they did change to benefit women? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, that is the truth, but at the same time, look at what it's caused to the relationship dynamic in marriage. | |
| It's like you said, what we talked about in the beginning, like, That's the cost of feminism. | |
| Yeah, and I don't like feminism. | |
| I'm against that, is what I was saying. | |
| Everything you've stated before is very femme-centric, though. | |
| How? | |
| How so? | |
| Because I'm like, I was making narcissistic comments, I guess. | |
| Love yourself? | |
| Okay, fine. | |
| But I still believe that... | |
| I mean, you made several comments. | |
| I still believe that there's a role that men should play. | |
| Such as? | |
| The provider role, the strong, all that. | |
| What were you just talking about? | |
| So you want a man that's traditional? | |
| Yeah. | |
| But are you a traditional woman? | |
| I guess not, not at the moment. | |
| So do you qualify for a traditional man? | |
| I'm not ready for a relationship right now. | |
| But I still, but what I'm saying is I've went from my experiences in history, looking at past relationships that I've seen in my family. | |
| Emotional damage! | |
| Well, you do realize that a part of being a traditional woman, a component of that, isn't necessarily saying, I'm not ready to settle down. | |
| Like, you gotta be ready to settle down when you're at your peak value, when men want you the most. | |
| Facts. | |
| The problem is that you're looking at it through your lens of a female, but what do the men want? | |
| And I think that's a cardinal mistake that so many girls make is they think, what do I want? | |
| Fuck what the guy wants. | |
| He should accept me. | |
| I'm telling you what's going to make you most attractive to the guys so you actually get them. | |
| So if you want a traditional man, you should be a traditional woman and a part of being a traditional woman is preserving your value. | |
| Men have to create their value. | |
| Women have to preserve their value. | |
| Women are born millionaires. | |
| But girls make the terrible mistake of staying in a casino too long, gambling all their money, waiting until 5am when the casino closes and thinking that they're going to be able to hit it big. | |
| And a lot of the times you don't hit it big. | |
| Facts. | |
| Facts. | |
| Okay. | |
| 30 minutes. | |
| Watch Flower. | |
| Ladies, why are women quick to reject a man that lives with his mother or quick to accept a man that lives with his wife? | |
| That's a very good question. | |
| Anyone want to answer that one? | |
| I would say the man that lives with his mother doesn't have his shit together because he doesn't have his own crib. | |
| So there's not a spot where there is security. | |
| And the other one, they quick to accept the man with a wife because he already could show that he provides and he has the whole house thing And sometimes certain women, like how they say, we follow each other. | |
| So it's kind of like, oh, you have that? | |
| I want that. | |
| So certain women are like that, but you know what I'm saying? | |
| Well said. | |
| Okay. | |
| We have here, Eric Gatlin says, Shout out to Fresh and Fit. | |
| Just got promoted. | |
| Making $150,000 per year. | |
| I'm going to be buying my first property soon because of y'all. | |
| Shout out to you. | |
| Ladies, Instagram, or marriageable man, and why? | |
| That's a very good question. | |
| So ladies, you gotta choose for yourself. | |
| Instagram, the app itself, or marriageable man, what'd you choose? | |
| The marriageable man. | |
| Why? | |
| Because social media isn't important to me. | |
| I don't care about how, like, keeping people updated on my life. | |
| That man's my man. | |
| I'm gonna marry him. | |
| I have a family. | |
| I'm good. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you, AC? I'll say man. | |
| Why? | |
| I mean, shit. | |
| Whenever that day comes, I'll drop everything, so... | |
| I want that. | |
| Well, why though? | |
| For my kid, and I want more kids. | |
| Got it. | |
| What about you? | |
| Well, they'll demand... | |
| I don't care about social media either that much, and... | |
| We can tell. | |
| Stop the cow! | |
| No, y'all... | |
| You guys can think what you want, but... | |
| Stop the cow! | |
| That's my answer. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, marriageable man, obviously. | |
| I want my validation from my husband, not from random men online. | |
| Ooh! | |
| Deep. | |
| What about you? | |
| Oh, queen. | |
| Marriageable man. | |
| What? | |
| Instagram is... | |
| Data. | |
| Data is totally interchangeable. | |
| It's not relative. | |
| Things will die out. | |
| What if Instagram lets you talk back to them? | |
| Talk back to who? | |
| But the man doesn't. | |
| Talk back to who? | |
| The man in your DMs. | |
| I don't answer DMs. | |
| Okay. | |
| Stop the cat! | |
| What about you? | |
| Marriageable man. | |
| Why? | |
| Instagram is draining sometimes. | |
| Why? | |
| How's it draining? | |
| I mean... | |
| Explain, New York. | |
| Just looking at problems every day, people's opinions, everything. | |
| Okay. | |
| That was insightful. | |
| What about you? | |
| Definitely a marriageable man. | |
| I already, in my relationship, we don't, neither one of us have social media. | |
| Like, I downloaded it just so I could talk to you guys. | |
| But, like, we don't, I mean, we don't care about it, so. | |
| That's dope. | |
| And you? | |
| Of course, a man. | |
| My definition of success is to build a happy, healthy nuclear family. | |
| So I would go for the man. | |
| I don't care about Instagram at all. | |
| When did you come to this realization that you wanted a family over maybe pursuing being a doctor? | |
| Actually, that's one of the reasons why I dropped medicine. | |
| Because it's a very dedicated career and I want to be dedicated to my family. | |
| So I wasn't imagining myself in 10 years being all day in the hospital and leaving my kids and husband at home. | |
| How did you meet your current guy you're talking to now? | |
| He was one of my best friends. | |
| A long time. | |
| Well, hey, I think that's a good decision. | |
| I think a lot of people will talk shit and say, you're stupid, you should go back to school, blah, blah, blah. | |
| But I think... | |
| Your best chance of finding a guy is now when you're younger. | |
| And if you want to get that family, you want to maximize, you know, the chances of getting that family, the probability when you're younger, more attractive. | |
| Hey, do it, man. | |
| That's good. | |
| That's good. | |
| That's fantastic. | |
| I think I wish more women had that mindset. | |
| I think that'd be good. | |
| Good example. | |
| Nuclear families is the number one contributing thing to good societies. | |
| I think this is the first panel that sent all men over Instagram, too. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Is this the first? | |
| Yeah, this was the first panel. | |
| All right. | |
| Rick1991 says, Shout out to Fresh and Fit and the Great Tate for pulling me out of my symptom. | |
| Because girls think they are smart and begin every sentence with, I feel... | |
| Bring back the stats, girls. | |
| Even with the incomplete stats, at least we know what to debunk other than feelings. | |
| Okay? | |
| And then Jared Meyer says, Ladies, what was that moment when you knew you were done with your last boyfriend? | |
| Love you FNF. Chris, love you roasting us. | |
| Chat and Big Mo keep on losing weight. | |
| This actually might be very telling for the guys to learn some lessons here. | |
| Okay. | |
| So at what moment did you know that you were done with your boyfriend? | |
| Your ex. | |
| Start that way. | |
| I think it's because I always wanted kids and he did not want kids. | |
| When did you find out? | |
| That he did not. | |
| I was still in the middle of the relationship and I was like, okay, that's not gonna work. | |
| But still, I consider him my family. | |
| He makes sure I'm safe every time and I keep him close. | |
| What about you? | |
| My boyfriend is my first boyfriend since my high school sweetheart. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm curious. | |
| For you to leave him, what would we have to do? | |
| Probably not, but if that were the worst thing, then yeah. | |
| Understandable. | |
| What about you? | |
| When my ex moved away from college. | |
| You can't do long distance? | |
| She said I need you right here. | |
| You mean when your ex moved away to college? | |
| Yeah, to college. | |
| For you? | |
| Just explosive tantrums, I guess. | |
| Your last boyfriend had tantrums? | |
| Like he was... | |
| Like, if I said, like, oh, I think cereal is not that nutritional, I'd be like, you're stupid. | |
| Like, what do you mean? | |
| And I'm like, let me leave! | |
| Let me leave you! | |
| Stop questioning everything I do! | |
| No, it's just, like, little tiny things, and I'm just like, I don't need to be, like, yelling over cereal. | |
| So it was just a loss of emotions or control of emotions. | |
| Alright. | |
| Okay. | |
| So I dated my ex-boyfriend for like three to four years. | |
| And it's basically he had no ambition. | |
| I was way more ambitious with my career. | |
| And I just never could respect him over it. | |
| He let me do whatever I wanted to do. | |
| And I, at the time, thought I loved it. | |
| But he always would say, I'm going to buy you a ring. | |
| And I always would tell him, do not propose to me because I'm not going to say yes. | |
| Because I knew I did not see a future with him. | |
| I'm going to buy you a ring. | |
| Right. | |
| And now my husband now, by the way, he told me we're getting married. | |
| He did not get down on his knees for me. | |
| He's no bitch. | |
| And I just knew right away feeling comfortable. | |
| And I've never been happier. | |
| And back then I would have said, like, I don't want someone controlling me. | |
| Like I said, I never was a feminist, but I still thought, like, I knew what's best for me. | |
| And, you know, I just never respected him, my ex-boyfriend. | |
| And I have so much respect for my husband now because I do value him as the leader of the relationship. | |
| And I'm telling, like, women, trust me, you think that you want to have the control, you think that you know what's best, but you don't. | |
| And you're happier when you do submit to a man that's worthy of your submission. | |
| Thanks. | |
| This is the first time that I've been on the show. | |
| And I've always said that women are spitting mirror image of that man's masculinity. | |
| You could tell a lot about the man by the way the woman speaks about him when he's not in the room. | |
| This is probably one of the first times where I can see this is a true situation where a woman respects her man. | |
| The guy is very masculine. | |
| And I can tell that simply by the way she speaks about him. | |
| And you can see, the more masculine a man, the more happy the woman is, man. | |
| Normally, right? | |
| Is that a close time, Aaron? | |
| What is that? | |
| Yeah, he's doing the right job. | |
| Normally, right, I'm very keen to listen to women talk on the show and agree with our points. | |
| But genuinely, she feels this way about her man and her life. | |
| So this is great. | |
| So shout out to you. | |
| That's great. | |
| Does America have hope? | |
| Does America have hope? | |
| Is there hope for the West? | |
| It's not for her to save her, bros. | |
| What about you? | |
| I was trolling, by the way. | |
| I was just kidding. | |
| I think, like, there's probably just too much trauma, distrust, and just ended up, I didn't feel that connection anymore, so I had to walk away. | |
| So he wasn't your soulmate? | |
| Damn. | |
| Life is tough. | |
| What was, like, what was, like, the, I guess, the straw that broke the camel's back? | |
| What made you say, fuck this shit? | |
| When I couldn't stand to be around him, when I was irritated by him touching me, by his presence, just made my skin crawl. | |
| Okay, what led to that though? | |
| Damn! | |
| Women typically fall out of love with the guy, or you have to get there through something else. | |
| What did he lack that made you say, you don't even want him to touch me no more? | |
| I started doing better than him. | |
| See, you gotta peel the layers back, baby. | |
| It's always the same answers. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| So he had no ambition. | |
| Yeah, pretty much. | |
| Am I a fucking psychic or what? | |
| Why is it the same things over and over and over again with women turning them off? | |
| Alright, what about you? | |
| Oh, I think I know what your situation is. | |
| Can we do Kim first and then I'll say it? | |
| Alright, go ahead. | |
| I saw myself building him up and his business. | |
| And then when it got to talking about a future kids marriage and all that, he was just like very hesitant about it. | |
| So I realized that was just a placeholder for the next woman. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay. | |
| Damn. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's fine. | |
| And you helped him build up and he still wasn't like on some bullshit? | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| Smart move. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| Well. | |
| Well, I think the chat does this one. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Keep it YouTube safe. | |
| Uh, yeah. | |
| He just cheated on me with another man and I found out. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| Wait. | |
| Wait a minute. | |
| This is the guy. | |
| I'm just kidding. | |
| I'm talking about it. | |
| It's okay. | |
| I got you. | |
| That's the right side of front, Chris. | |
| Chris. | |
| That is not the Marco. | |
| Anyways, so... | |
| He was getting with Marco. | |
| Down with DeMarco? | |
| Down with DeMarco? | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, we got the joke, guys. | |
| - All right, let's go ahead. - All right, what's up there? | |
| - Oh, got the more gold. | |
| - Okay. | |
| - All right. | |
| - Okay, let's go ahead. | |
| - Yeah. | |
| - Yes, sir! - I guess you're both. - I guess you're both. | |
| Are you worried that if you don't self-improve, you'll be alone for a long time? | |
| Shorty 3 down from Fresh, Netflix, and chill. | |
| Fresh's new film, Buster Booty, is out now. | |
| You'll see why they call Fresh the booty band. | |
| Yes, sir! | |
| Yes, sir! | |
| Ignore that. | |
| Yeah, just... | |
| Jungle Echoes, question for the ladies. | |
| When given the opportunity to choose between having a six-figure successful business and having an already successful man to provide for you financially, which do you choose? | |
| One catch. | |
| Successful business equals you die alone. | |
| Successful man, he will have side pieces. | |
| It's different. | |
| It is significantly different. | |
| So, six-figure business, successful, right? | |
| But you're going to be by yourself. | |
| Or, Financially dependent upon a guy, but he's going to have side chicks. | |
| We can start here. | |
| I would go with a successful man. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| A successful man, but I don't want to know about the side pieces. | |
| Okay. | |
| Alright, Mario Winans. | |
| What about me? | |
| Successful man. | |
| Successful man. | |
| What about you? | |
| Successful business. | |
| Okay. | |
| Wait, wait. | |
| Hold on. | |
| You can do with the side pieces? | |
| It is what it is. | |
| She's Colombian, bro. | |
| If they got enough money, she'll care. | |
| A successful man. | |
| Okay. | |
| You said the business, right? | |
| The business. | |
| Isn't it funny? | |
| Psychic. | |
| Chris, I know you're not talking again. | |
| I see. | |
| Which one? | |
| Honestly, if I'm capable of being friends with the side bitches, I would just be better, in a sense. | |
| I want to have my friends. | |
| Like, we could be a group, you know what I'm saying? | |
| I mean, hey, listen, when you have a child, it takes a village. | |
| So it's like, if you could take care of him for the night, you know what I'm saying? | |
| Or like, if I need to, you know, if you're trying to spend time with me, you know, vice versa, help me out. | |
| It can work. | |
| I'll tell you that, I see. | |
| It definitely can work. | |
| It's a village at the end of the day. | |
| Someone here does it. | |
| Hey, yo. | |
| So, you want a poly relationship? | |
| Huh? | |
| You want a poly relationship? | |
| Yeah. | |
| In a sense, I will be down for it. | |
| I've never experienced it, you know? | |
| They've always done it behind my back, and it's kind of like, but why? | |
| With men. | |
| Well, that was just one. | |
| Relax. | |
| You better chill, man. | |
| Local. | |
| The man, as long as I'm one of the main ones. | |
| Okay. | |
| Question for you guys. | |
| Why the business over the man? | |
| I just don't tolerate cheating. | |
| That's just me. | |
| I don't know if it has something to do with the cheating so much, but I don't know. | |
| Like... | |
| I'm just kind of more secure in myself. | |
| I feel like you can call me masculine for this, but I would want to take care of my parents when they're older and I have to rely on someone. | |
| So if that comes with me having my own business and I don't have a man to die with, then okay. | |
| But I'd rather that than to be unhappy because I don't know for y'all, but if I know a man's cheating on me, that's not going to make me feel good. | |
| It's just not. | |
| Okay. | |
| Same thing with you. | |
| You just can't fathom like the And if I can have the option to support myself with my own business, I would damn sure take that route than to be provided for and disrespected in my face. | |
| Okay. | |
| What's up next here? | |
| I saw you're speaking at FX Summit. | |
| What's the stutter on stage, bro? | |
| Happy to meet you there, flying in from New York. | |
| My friend, that is pretty much cured, so good to go. | |
| Light purple dress, why did you choose your husband? | |
| What made him stand out from the other men you dated in your life? | |
| That's a good one. | |
| Just how masculine he was, how much of a leader he is. | |
| He's even younger than me, which is weird. | |
| We were really good friends for the longest time. | |
| We're friends. | |
| Yeah, we were friends. | |
| Wait, who said that? | |
| Chris. | |
| Yeah, so we were friends. | |
| Actually, I mean, this is kind of a weird story of how I actually, because I never looked at him as romantic because he was younger than me, but we were such good friends and he was with me when I randomly had a seizure and took care of me. | |
| So he really protected me and I felt so protected and safe around him that I started to look at him differently. | |
| I know it's kind of random, but that's truly what made me feel super protected with him and I just respected him so much. | |
| I know. | |
| I mean, that's great. | |
| People would wish they could say, this is how I met my husband. | |
| When a girl says, she has guy friends, be careful, bro. | |
| Just saying. | |
| Just saying, bro. | |
| Oh, he's just a friend! | |
| Oh, right, yeah, no. | |
| No, for sure, yeah, no, I don't think that. | |
| It'd be weird if I just had a bunch of guy friends now. | |
| That's very strange. | |
| Well, I mean, he was able to assert his masculinity and she was attracted to him. | |
| But notice, right? | |
| She had a dude that wasn't the man, but she met the man Well, she's in distress and came to save herself. | |
| That's great. | |
| I'll tell you this, that's a great story to tell to your girlfriends. | |
| They're over here swiping on Tinder and you'll be like, oh yeah, I met my guy getting a seizure. | |
| Even for her child. | |
| That's great. | |
| Alright. | |
| Manuel J. Hernandez. | |
| Ladies, she may get checked by women. | |
| I see zip the twins. | |
| They just, for me only. | |
| I... Why do you have to be such a pervert, bro? | |
| Goddamn, nigga! | |
| Should men get checked by women? | |
| Nah. | |
| Mediterranean mailman. | |
| Myron, ask Miss Spain if she knows who Isabella Peraza is. | |
| If she's really against the woke, she will know who she is. | |
| Instagram model? | |
| I actually have no idea who she is. | |
| I'm the worst at names, though. | |
| What does against the woke mean? | |
| Against feminism? | |
| Feminism is a component of woke ideology. | |
| Transformers. | |
| Transformers, like you were saying earlier. | |
| That's a part of being woke. | |
| Oh, my definition of woke is different. | |
| It's more of a spiritual way. | |
| Well, there's spiritual wokeness. | |
| There's that. | |
| But then there's also... | |
| I wanted to take that away. | |
| The mainstream definition of woke, how most people understand it, is an ideology of Typically radical leftism of super acceptance for anything, everyone is special, being super politically correct, not saying certain things, you know, caring about people's feelings. | |
| And I would say feminism is a component of that to a degree. | |
| Because feminism is kind of what stimulated this and then, you know, it is what it is. | |
| Sorry, this is pretty funny. | |
| Red Hood, I guess she seized the opportunity. | |
| Can we get a baboom tis for that? | |
| Oh, CJ! Alright, Manuel J, Hernandez. | |
| Black is bound to Chris. | |
| Come on, man. | |
| Chris still on Danny. | |
| So, love is... | |
| Literally. | |
| Self-love is literally the cornerstone of narcissism, self-awareness, self-discipline, and self-respect will achieve all the things that you think narcissism self-love gives you without all the attached delusion and irreparable trauma. | |
| Good breakdown. | |
| You have anything you want to say back to him? | |
| Um, no. | |
| Fantastic. | |
| Tyroid. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| Why do whales always blame me for everything? | |
| I didn't force you to eat 50 pounds of butter and sugar for 30 years. | |
| She's 19. | |
| You haven't been 150 pounds since second grade. | |
| Stop the cap. | |
| What is the point of reading now? | |
| You have everything you want to say? | |
| Ignore it. | |
| Fuck you. | |
| I don't care. | |
| Yeah, ignore him. | |
| Fuck you. | |
| Or it. | |
| I mean, Danny says, we don't need to fully understand why we're different, but we need to accept that we live entirely different experiences. | |
| Yeah, and want different things out of life as well. | |
| Not everyone aims and drives for the same thing. | |
| But we can say in generalities there's certain things that a majority of women want and a majority of men want. | |
| And, you know, I was just saying that typically we operate on generalities. | |
| Question, which is more important? | |
| Love or contentment? | |
| Love or contentment? | |
| What's more important? | |
| Do you know what contentment means? | |
| Yeah, I don't. | |
| I would say love. | |
| Why? | |
| From a woman point of view, you want to love the man you're with. | |
| Okay. | |
| Love or contentment? | |
| Like, what do you mean by that? | |
| Love is, for example, a feeling or maybe an action. | |
| Contentment means you're content in your scenario. | |
| You're satisfied. | |
| Yeah, you're happy to be where you're at. | |
| You don't need much more. | |
| Hm. | |
| I don't wanna f- Hm. | |
| Hm. | |
| I will take your, in love, your content, no? | |
| I will say the other one, the second one. | |
| I will rather, I want to be satisfied. | |
| My feelings, put them to the side. | |
| Stop the cap! | |
| Got it. | |
| But you're a female. | |
| I'll try my best. | |
| For you? | |
| I'm going to say love just because content means you're not striving for anything more. | |
| And like I said, that's not what life is about. | |
| It's not to be stationary. | |
| Can you agree that love can... | |
| Make you content? | |
| Love can change? | |
| Like you can fall out of love and fall in love? | |
| Can you agree? | |
| I mean, yeah, that's very much true. | |
| But the past relationships that I had when I was referencing soul, I do still love them. | |
| Where'd they now? | |
| Down the road somewhere. | |
| Still in my life for, you know, moral support and everything, but they served their purpose for that time and I love them for that. | |
| okay I'm going to say contentment because I think what makes marriages last and I've talked to people that have been married for decades and there's going to be periods of your marriage where you fall in and out of love and I think that being content is more important being content with the values the shared values and raising the family and just you know even when you're older you're not going to be having sex as much and just being content and just like I don't know just really appreciating the values that someone else brings to the marriage I | |
| I think being content lasts longer than necessarily feeling that gushy, loving feeling. | |
| Okay. | |
| You have a sister? | |
| Yes. | |
| Myra would love her. | |
| Okay, go ahead. | |
| She'd have to be wife number five. | |
| I don't think she'd want that. | |
| I would say contentment. | |
| Just because a peace of mind is everything. | |
| And I think that's the best thing that men want you to be is their peace of mind. | |
| Good point. | |
| They don't want you to argue. | |
| Or tell them that they're serious. | |
| Serial sucks. | |
| So you know the truth then. | |
| I'm saying I want to be my man's piece. | |
| She knows the data. | |
| She knows the data. | |
| What about you? | |
| Love? | |
| Why? | |
| Because, I mean, I grew up on love. | |
| You mean money? | |
| No, we... | |
| I can make my own money. | |
| It's good having both. | |
| For you? | |
| Contentment. | |
| I'd rather be, like, I don't want to say satisfied because everybody else said that, but like, I don't know, happy. | |
| Secure, I guess you could say. | |
| Secure, okay. | |
| For you. | |
| I would say contentment, even though I don't really understand what it means. | |
| Satisfied, calm, relaxed. | |
| I mean, love comes and goes and at the end you have unconditional love for your partner. | |
| So I prefer to be content with them and just deal with the hard times and continue with them rather than going from love to love. | |
| I disagree with some of the ladies. | |
| I think for it to really work, the woman must love the man and the man must be content. | |
| And the reason why I say that is because in order for a relationship to really work on what I've seen, women are most happy when they truly love their man and they like him more than he likes her in return. | |
| And for men, we're simple. | |
| We can be content in a relationship and be good because men don't need much. | |
| But women, on the other hand, they need to love you and the only way they're going to love you is if they respect you. | |
| They're only going to respect you if you achieve all their fucking standards and then some. | |
| So I think for a relationship to work, the woman's got to love you. | |
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| Facts. | |
| Cougarslayer91 goes, These two chicks next to the married one prove my point on what I said about feminism pushing to socially accept 304s. | |
| The way to look and discuss at any point married makes LMAO listen to lord, gains, or die alone with cats. | |
| You ladies have anything you want to say? | |
| Of course. | |
| Go ahead, please. | |
| I would say I don't disagree with a lot of things she said. | |
| I don't like the way she says it, but I do like the way she lives her life. | |
| I just don't like the way she explains it. | |
| That's my point. | |
| Let me ask you a question. | |
| Let's say, well, you're a math person, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Let's say you're in a math class and the math teacher tells you one day one plus one is two and another day says one plus one is fucking two. | |
| Does it change the fact that it's two? | |
| No. | |
| I just said that. | |
| I said I liked the way she lived. | |
| I just didn't like how it came up. | |
| It may have come from bad end. | |
| But why is delivery so important? | |
| Because delivery is how you interpret everything in life. | |
| Is it not? | |
| It's how your children are impressionable. | |
| What you just said right there showed and revealed one of the carnal differences between men and women. | |
| Of course, we are different. | |
| Men are concerned with, and this is why women are not good leaders. | |
| Women, right, are concerned with how information is conveyed. | |
| Men are concerned with what information is conveyed. | |
| Men don't care about tone or delivery or this fuck shit. | |
| Matter of fact, some of the best coaches for men yell at men. | |
| When I tell guys, yo, you got to get in shape, stop being a fat piece of shit, etc., men respond favorably to that because they don't care about the delivery. | |
| They care more about the message. | |
| Women, on the other hand, care about the delivery. | |
| She quite effectively told you what it takes to get in a successful marriage with a man that you love and respect and be happy and get a traditional relationship, which is what all women want to a degree, yet you have a point of contention with how she conveyed the information. | |
| I would disagree because why would men's suicide rates be higher if they just accept anything said to them? | |
| It's not that they accept anything said to them, it's that they can't rise to the expectations of what is said to them. | |
| Exactly. | |
| But I'm saying in a sense, if society is telling you what to do and how to do it, isn't that interpreting? | |
| Well, here's the thing. | |
| Actually, a matter of fact, there's not enough information for men out there to be masculine, strong men and go through life. | |
| A big reason why so many guys, you know, commit suicide is because men don't have guidance. | |
| Because we teach them the female way of thinking is what matters. | |
| How you're told information matters. | |
| Your feelings matter. | |
| But when a man learns the masculine identity, Controlling your feelings, using it to do good versus hurting yourself, that's when change happens. | |
| But I think a big reason why we have high suicide rates with men is because we coach them to think like women. | |
| The only reason, with all due respect, the only reason you're able to have a lot of the thought process and world observations you have is because you're female. | |
| A man with your mindset would never be successful, unfortunately. | |
| And the reason why is because based on a lot of things that you said, with all due respect, You have a victim mindset. | |
| But if I was talking to a man, I would tell him, you're a fucking bitch. | |
| You're a pussy. | |
| Thinking like this is not going to get you successful. | |
| However, you're able to think that way because you're female and there's certain privileges that are afforded to women that men are not afforded. | |
| For example, you had a point of contention with how she delivered things that were straight, factual. | |
| But men don't have these issues that women have. | |
| But isn't it a society where all impressionable? | |
| I have a stance on how things are being taught to our kids because it leaves an impression. | |
| There's topics in school that kids should not be listening to. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| Anything someone says, it leaves an impression, no matter how it's delivered. | |
| Women are far more impressionable than men. | |
| That's a fact. | |
| If you look at advertisers, you look at women, women are group thinkers in general. | |
| Men are more independent thinkers. | |
| Women are followers. | |
| Men are leaders. | |
| Women are far more impressionable than men are. | |
| But in society, don't you think we do things because it's said in government to do? | |
| This is true, but who's more likely to rebel against the government? | |
| Well, historically speaking, it's been men. | |
| Women. | |
| The name of the war that women led. | |
| Oh, you're talking about wars? | |
| I'm thinking you're talking about change and, like, the system. | |
| Men are the ones that lead change. | |
| Feminism wouldn't even be a thing if it weren't for men pushing feminism in the first place. | |
| We signed on board for that. | |
| Some of us. | |
| I'm just saying, I know women are more sensitive and more impressionable. | |
| I feel like as a society, we're all impressionable. | |
| That's true, but women are far more impressionable, which is why they're not as good of leaders as men. | |
| The fact that she conveyed something very direct, very succinct, and gave the blueprint from it, and you were more concerned with how it was said versus what was said is the difference from men and women and why women are not as capable leaders because they're not able to interpret information But I'll say in a sense, when she said that one comment, and he even said, hey, like, you know, that's a bit out there. | |
| It wasn't until you asked this follow up question that we got the understanding of what she meant. | |
| Well, with all due respect, I'm a very logically sound guy, so that's why I asked that question. | |
| But I'm just saying, in a sense, like, I'm just saying, you even said the thought, like, telling her what to eat, you were like, oh, wow, that's a bit excessive, until he asked a follow-up question. | |
| So I'm just saying, I'm not trying to be like, oh, what she's doing is wrong. | |
| I'm just saying, the way she came off certain things, I was like, whoa, that seems very, like, to the point. | |
| I don't think you realize, he did it for comedic relief. | |
| Y'all did it because, whoa, that's controlling. | |
| I'm laughing at it because it's funny. | |
| That's not how it came off to me. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| In actual fact, you know what's funny? | |
| Y'all didn't laugh. | |
| Y'all were legitimately like, what the fuck? | |
| Y'all were concerned. | |
| He laughed about it. | |
| There's a difference. | |
| Context definitely matters. | |
| And you're arguing for what she's saying. | |
| It doesn't sound right. | |
| But the logic behind it makes sense. | |
| So we're just saying, look, if that's going to be your argument, we understand that. | |
| But she's saying the truth. | |
| So whether you like it or not, it's the truth. | |
| But I'm referring to the question. | |
| They make it seem like I was disagreeing with everything or I was negative to what thing. | |
| It's just how it was interpreted to me. | |
| You do realize you're proving our point even further. | |
| You agree with the information. | |
| You didn't like the way it was conveyed. | |
| That's the difference between men and women. | |
| I'm just answering the question. | |
| But that shows the quintessential difference between men and women. | |
| We interpret information differently. | |
| You interpreted it through your feelings. | |
| It didn't make you feel good. | |
| You rejected it to a degree. | |
| Men are different. | |
| When you go to basic training in the military for infantry, they're not sitting there like, soldier? | |
| Target. | |
| Move left to right. | |
| I want to see how you feel when you do it, by the way. | |
| Okay? | |
| Sensitivity training. | |
| I'm going to convey this to you in a certain way. | |
| No! | |
| Hey, bitch! | |
| Grab the fucking rifle! | |
| Shoot! | |
| If you don't, you're going to fucking die, you pussy! | |
| That's how men communicate with each other. | |
| We don't care about tone and all this other pussy shit. | |
| Women do. | |
| But that's the problem. | |
| That's why women are not good leaders because they're more concerned with how they feel when information comes to them versus what needs to be done on the real. | |
| Could you imagine how many wars would be starting? | |
| You approved it right now with your response. | |
| Your female emotional hardwiring overtakes logic and rationale. | |
| And everyone is seeing it in 4K right now. | |
| Only you can't see it because you're feeling a bunch of emotions right now because I've got to call you out. | |
| If you had a female president and she took information, we'd be nuking everybody by tomorrow. | |
| And they've proven this. | |
| Female leaders are actually far more prone to getting into wars and conflict than men are. | |
| It's proven this. | |
| Alright, we've got some more chats here. | |
| Concretta. | |
| Girls in the green listen to the wifey in between y'all. | |
| If you want to get somewhere in life, otherwise, enjoy your cats. | |
| I think they are comfortable with that. | |
| Yeah, bro. | |
| They're going to get a dog, bro. | |
| It's okay. | |
| Man Man says, you always ask them to name countries. | |
| Ask them if they can name three elements on the periodic table. | |
| Like what? | |
| Do those swaggings. | |
| FNF doing God's work. | |
| The two black women chose the business. | |
| This is why 80% of black children are from single parent households. | |
| The refusal to accept males for who they are is a downfall of that community. | |
| That's not good. | |
| Damn. | |
| You have anything you want to say back to that? | |
| Go back to it. | |
| Okay. | |
| The refusal to accept males for who they are is the downfall of the community, but I was the one that's sitting here and said that men need to be emotionally catered to, and then you said you want to bitch, so I'm not understanding. | |
| Well, you prioritize emotional catering versus you didn't mention anything about not being a hoe, your purity, being feminine, submissive. | |
| You mentioned catering. | |
| That's great. | |
| And what's more important? | |
| A girl that's pure. | |
| Your priorities are kind of incorrect. | |
| Also, emotional support is great, but I can buy a dog, like I said earlier. | |
| And a lot of women can provide emotional support, to be honest. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I wouldn't want a man that, like, demands emotional support, to be honest. | |
| Get a caller. | |
| Emotional support. | |
| I mean, I'm just speaking from my own experience where I've been not, I haven't played my part in the emotional support that a man actually does need, whether we want to believe it or not, and that's probably why. | |
| So I've learned through my experience that men do need that, and that's okay. | |
| Were you attracted to those men, though? | |
| That needed emotional support. | |
| Yeah, but here's the thing. | |
| If you're attracted to that, you would still be with them. | |
| Let's sink in. | |
| Ooh. | |
| Women lose respect for a man when he needs that emotional support and they show weakness. | |
| That's just a fact. | |
| And that's biologically driven or innate within us, so... | |
| Well, I also like to point out earlier, remember you said that cringing feeling that you got from your last relationship? | |
| Because I was going better than him. | |
| Exactly. | |
| So that also is another fine line of like, if a man is too emotional, with time, However you stay with him, it will turn you the fuck off. | |
| If he's a fucking crybaby, if he's a bitch-ass nigga, if he's always coming to you, oh, why are you doing this? | |
| Or why are you going to talk to me like that? | |
| Like, you don't want to fucking hear that from a man. | |
| Yeah, I agree, but I'm saying, like, I want to know about their trauma, basically, and I want to... | |
| Getting to know them and their past, that's completely fine if they want to open that door with you. | |
| But if you want me to be real with you, with a man, you shouldn't be looking into his closet. | |
| You should see the future versus what he had. | |
| He's going to automatically show you how he is and what character traits he has to provide for you. | |
| You don't need to dig up some old shit or know what he did in the past. | |
| Like, look forward, not backwards. | |
| You feel me? | |
| Crypto AI. Divorced my wife a few months ago. | |
| Reasons... | |
| Okay, he goes, reasons being, acting too macho, disrespectful, lazy, wanted to go cuddling with her whole sister and friends. | |
| Months later after divorce, she doesn't stop calling. | |
| By the way, I lost 40 pounds, fixed myself up, and now seeing many women. | |
| Controversial take, but what do I always say? | |
| Women only respect you when you can replace them. | |
| That's just a game, bro. | |
| That's how it is, my friend. | |
| And then JN, modern men have to work five times harder than their grandfathers. | |
| For women 20 times worse than what their grandmothers were. | |
| What are your thoughts on Hoflation? | |
| Anybody have any comments on this? | |
| That's why we need to bring traditional values back. | |
| It's so important. | |
| This generation is so lost. | |
| It's never happening though, unfortunately. | |
| I think feminism and modern age society is afforded women so many benefits and privileges that traditional relationships no longer afford them that they're like, dude, you're telling me I can have my cake and eat it too? | |
| Why the fuck am I going to be a housewife? | |
| Fuck that shit. | |
| The floodgates are open. | |
| So sad. | |
| Anybody have a comment on this? | |
| I thought you would have a comment on it. | |
| You were outspoken about the OnlyFans girls. | |
| Yeah, I mean, feminism, women ruin everything. | |
| Feminism has ruined everything for women, too. | |
| They think that they're fighting for women, but it's actually hurting women the most, and that's the sad thing. | |
| And too many women are just hearing, become an OnlyFans girl, make your bread, be a boss, babe. | |
| And it's honestly a trap. | |
| It's leading them down to a lifelong... | |
| Life worth of misery. | |
| And before they know it, they will be too old to have kids and no man will want them because the older they get, the more experiences they have, their value goes down. | |
| And that's why I try to speak up about it because I feel like not enough young women are hearing this side of things. | |
| And I actually got into a Twitter fight recently with Iggy Azalea because her failed rapping career led her to do OnlyFans. | |
| Oh, shit. | |
| She actually asked my husband for a dick pic too on Twitter. | |
| It was a very strange, very strange, sad situation. | |
| What? | |
| Yeah, she's... | |
| Oh, the mighty have fallen. | |
| She's wild, but she tells young girls to start OnlyFans and she's promoting it. | |
| And it's just like, I think it's very different if a girl used to do OnlyFans and kind of speaks down upon it and says this is not right for women. | |
| But it's a difference when you see these women. | |
| And like you guys have said, women by nature are followers. | |
| So they will follow all these girls that they idolize. | |
| And so many young women think it's okay to do OnlyFans, not knowing the consequences that are inevitable. | |
| Like not being able to find a high value husband. | |
| So that's why I like to speak out against it. | |
| Twitter sounds lit, bro. | |
| You gotta pick and choose what you want to fight with. | |
| See, I made Twitter. | |
| I tweet some random shit. | |
| No, you're supposed to retweet, quote, and talk shit to the people that are saying controversy stuff. | |
| And that's how everything is like... | |
| I post on my dog. | |
| It's not Instagram. | |
| You don't just post shit just to post shit. | |
| You want shit to talk shit. | |
| Oh, for real? | |
| I guess we'll turn it over to the ladies. | |
| Yes, last part of the show, ladies. | |
| Best part for me. | |
| Questions, comments, statements, or last thoughts on the show? | |
| How's the show for you? | |
| We'll start. | |
| Thank you for having me again. | |
| It was a great show, like always. | |
| Welcome back. | |
| She's also polite, man. | |
| So sweet. | |
| I love her. | |
| What about you? | |
| Guys, go ahead and follow my Twitch for the behind-the-scenes content for Fresh and Fit. | |
| Get ready for a little surprise sooner or later. | |
| And also... | |
| OnlyFans? | |
| Chris? | |
| Reach up, Mike, Chris. | |
| Anyways. | |
| Let me see. | |
| It was great. | |
| I loved it. | |
| It was great conversations. | |
| I actually liked this panel. | |
| Shout out to this panel. | |
| It was a very good panel. | |
| I know some of you guys might not like some of the things I told you, but I think it was a great, fruitful discussion. | |
| Yeah, I just don't understand what I go through here. | |
| That's all I'm going to say. | |
| And then, honestly, this is my last thought for the chat for what happened on Monday. | |
| I just want to say I'm sorry. | |
| I felt bad. | |
| That wasn't me. | |
| But she brought the bad side out of me, and I just want to apologize to you guys. | |
| I'm just saying, you know, it's on locals, but I genuinely felt bad over that situation. | |
| I wish I could have executed that a little bit better. | |
| I told you already, it was self-defense. | |
| I know, but I genuinely still feel bad. | |
| It's just my heart. | |
| Why did you even get into my face? | |
| You ain't had to do that. | |
| I see. | |
| She deserved it. | |
| Well, I gotta be honest, though. | |
| If anyone's gonna fight you, I think logically, she wasn't thinking logically. | |
| Because they're gonna lose. | |
| Just saying. | |
| I don't know. | |
| But it's on Locals, though. | |
| It's on Locals. | |
| I don't know what she was thinking, but for the chat, I really genuinely want to say this, because a lot of people were saying a whole bunch of shit. | |
| You know, I watch everything, so I just wanted to clear that up. | |
| Like, I did not want to do that, genuinely. | |
| Like, I felt bad for her. | |
| Fuck the shit, Togriff, man. | |
| Fuck the shit. | |
| What'd you say? | |
| Letting them shit talkers! | |
| Fuck them shit talkers! | |
| Fuck them niggas! | |
| Yeah, I put W Henny Chris in the chat right now, because, hey. | |
| What the? | |
| The boys is coming for Icee. | |
| No, they're not. | |
| They better not. | |
| What about you? | |
| Oh, um, yeah, thank you guys for having me. | |
| I'm always willing to open my mind and experience new things. | |
| So I'm happy about the information that everyone was willing to share. | |
| Definitely on the path to... | |
| She's like, fuck y'all. | |
| That was fine. | |
| Well, thank you for having me, as everyone is going to say. | |
| And, you know, I know the things I say can be offensive to a lot of women, but I'm honestly trying to help you. | |
| And I know I can come off a little harsh. | |
| That's just my delivery. | |
| I enjoy being harsh. | |
| Keep doing it, man. | |
| Women need to hear this shit. | |
| They need to hear from a female and they need to hear it. | |
| Stop being dumb hoes. | |
| Yes. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And if you want to see more of it, Twitter at Isabella Riley US. But yeah, thank you guys for having me on. | |
| It was a lot of fun. | |
| I bet you're hungry. | |
| Your child is hungry. | |
| What about you? | |
| This was definitely an interesting experience. | |
| I didn't expect to be here at all, guys. | |
| So it was definitely nice to hear everyone's opinions. | |
| I do value and appreciate them all. | |
| But thank you. | |
| Glad you made it. | |
| I'm happy you stayed. | |
| She literally asked me, she was like, I have dinner at 10.30. | |
| And I literally looked at her and I was like, it's up to you if you want to capitalize on this opportunity. | |
| I told this was going to be 30 minutes. | |
| It's like, I'm literally on the street. | |
| I'm so serious. | |
| Omar, shout out to you, man. | |
| It's space time, because it's three hours now. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Shout out to Omar, man. | |
| He's been putting the work. | |
| So shout out to you. | |
| He saw you. | |
| No reputable podcast that's halfway decent. | |
| I had no clue. | |
| He just said, hey, we're missing two girls. | |
| Y'all want to go? | |
| We're like, oh, we got dinner. | |
| And he's like, yeah, yeah, y'all make it. | |
| Y'all make it. | |
| Shut up. | |
| Shut up. | |
| I want you to watch back the show and let me know your thoughts. | |
| I'd be interested to watch it back with your guy too, especially. | |
| What about you? | |
| Thank you guys for having me. | |
| Thank you, Kim, for inviting me. | |
| You know what? | |
| I was actually I'm a very outspoken person, but I wanted to stay quiet today. | |
| And I said that before I came here. | |
| I really wanted to stay quiet because I really want to seek in The first question I asked you, why women are less? | |
| Okay. | |
| And I got the answer. | |
| And I'm really happy. | |
| And I'm really happy all of you guys told me. | |
| That's not less than your value. | |
| I want to make that very clear. | |
| That doesn't mean that women are less than their value. | |
| It's just that women demand more, so therefore they have to be less than their men. | |
| And I agree because at the end of the day, you guys have more experience than me. | |
| I'm only 18. | |
| Facts. | |
| So, I really appreciate all of you guys. | |
| That was so sweet. | |
| Alright, shout out to the queens. | |
| No, I'm just kidding. | |
| With that mindset, you'll go far. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Thank you for having me. | |
| I have learned a lot, and I'm still learning a lot, because I'm going to be honest, I was very masculine. | |
| And surprisingly enough, I was raised with both parents, and my dad taught me not to trust men. | |
| Which, it's super crazy, but he also used to tell me other... | |
| My boyfriend now, when we were first dating before he made us break up, I told my boyfriend, I was like, I want you to control me. | |
| I don't know what the context was, but I said that and he was like, you don't ever tell a man you want him to control you. | |
| That's the worst thing you can ever do. | |
| It's taken a lot of training to break all these bad habits. | |
| Listening to other people and Seeing people like... | |
| What's your name? | |
| Isabella. | |
| Isabella. | |
| That actually have successful relationships and things of that sort is really nice. | |
| I just wish, like she said, people would speak out more about this. | |
| Because when I told people I was coming here and they were like, well, what's a podcast about? | |
| And I told them, they were like, oh, well, I don't agree with that. | |
| That's weird. | |
| And people just judged 100%. | |
| I don't know. | |
| So we need to know. | |
| What? | |
| Now, there's info. | |
| Mm-hmm. | |
| Can that nigga cheat? | |
| Come on now. | |
| I mean, not my nigga. | |
| We tried, bro. | |
| Get your values and she'll accept it. | |
| Get that mechanic shit going and everything and she won't have a choice. | |
| I mean, I told him, like, I'm starting to, like, just be, like, whatever. | |
| Because I'm just... | |
| Wait, Tarsa, what the what? | |
| You gonna let it rock? | |
| I mean, I guess it's whatever. | |
| You know what's my advice to you? | |
| As long as it's not disrespectful and like overtly in your face, then you're great, sweetie. | |
| No. | |
| I already know what you're going to say. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| If it's behind closed doors and like, you know what I'm saying? | |
| Sorry, I see. | |
| Your man sent you here for a reason. | |
| He didn't send me here. | |
| Chris, Chris, Chris. | |
| Okay. | |
| Of course, thank you very much for having me. | |
| And as Isabella, I'm trying to bring traditional values back. | |
| So if you want to follow me on my Twitter, it's Ada LLUCH. Good job, ladies. | |
| All right. | |
| Yeah, ladies. | |
| So, guys, all the girls' Instagrams are going to be below. | |
| Make sure to go ahead and send them a dick pic. | |
| I'm sure they'd appreciate it. | |
| Maybe not the marriage girl, but the rest of them will love it, I'm sure. | |
| W Show, man. | |
| Yeah, W Show. | |
| Great panel with ladies. | |
| I like y'all, even though some of you guys disagree with our points, but that's cool. | |
| I think that's important to have these conversations. | |
| And, guys, don't forget to like the video. | |
| Oh, Rumble Rants. | |
| Oh, Chris, producer. | |
| Ephesians 5.22. | |
| 824 says, 22 wives, obey your husbands as you obey the Lord. | |
| 24 wives should obey their husbands in everything. | |
| Just as church people obey Christ. | |
| Common Catholic L. 24 wives? | |
| I think it's like the verse 24. | |
| You have anything you want to say back to him? | |
| You want to say... | |
| No, no, I'm just saying, if you take the Bible literally, it's literally, like, been... | |
| How else is it to take it, though, if you don't take it? | |
| It's God's word. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not going to debate my religion. | |
| I've been going to, like, private Catholic school my whole life, so I will take it out. | |
| I want to. | |
| So it's open to interpretation. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, religion is how you take it. | |
| Religion is faith. | |
| No, it's not. | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| If that was the case, I could say the sky is blue because I think it's really... | |
| And it's really blue. | |
| But you can't tell me how I should serve my Lord. | |
| No, no, but it's black and white. | |
| You could have said, yes, I can. | |
| No, but I'm just saying... | |
| But is there black and white for you to read? | |
| No, but when you go to class and they give you a scripture to read, they ask you to interpret it in your own words. | |
| Not by your own understanding, but who's understanding? | |
| The Holy Ghost. | |
| But I'm saying, when you go, because I've taken religion classes my whole life, when you go and you read things, they want you to understand and talk about how did that make you feel? | |
| What did you take into this consideration? | |
| Remember, everything you've been taught as a child is from perception of what people told you to think. | |
| So you can't really say, oh, I'm going to interpret it because you don't even know where it's coming from. | |
| Your belief system is built off of what people tell you. | |
| So, when you read the word, it is literal. | |
| Now, Things can be said in parables, or for example, it can be analogies, but for the most part, it is literal. | |
| But the Bible is written in someone else's word. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Inspired by the Holy Ghost. | |
| So it takes faith to read the Bible and understand it for what it really is. | |
| So you can't just say, oh, I'm going to interpret it this way, that way. | |
| It doesn't make any sense. | |
| And I went to Catholic school my whole life, too. | |
| And the entire time I was in Catholic school, I was a hardcore atheist. | |
| A lot of Catholic school is traditions and just really focusing on the church traditions rather than focusing on the literal word of God. | |
| That's another thing, though. | |
| They live to sin rather than sin to live. | |
| I know some of the most godliest people who claim to be, but actually are the... | |
| Catholics? | |
| I'm just saying that my religion is... | |
| It's very interesting when you guys have these religious... | |
| Look at the Pope, bro. | |
| Look at the Pope. | |
| Look at the Pope, bro. | |
| Biggest L ever. | |
| Any L? Sorry. | |
| Okay, girl too down for my heart. | |
| Looks like she could taste food by touching it. | |
| That is so good. | |
| You have anything you want to say back to Lepracud? | |
| No. | |
| All right. | |
| Guys, all the girls' Instagrams are below. | |
| Like I said before, I'm sure they'd love some dick pics. | |
| And besides the married girl, maybe. | |
| What does that mean? | |
| What does what mean? | |
| You can taste food without touching it. | |
| They're making fun of me because I'm fat. | |
| Oh. | |
| No, you're just big bones. | |
| Let's just end the show. | |
| End the show. | |
| Peace, guys. | |
| I'm so far away. | |
| I just ran. |
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