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April 25, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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Who Is The Prize In A Healthy Relationship? Men Or Women? HEATED DEBATE!

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	Okay.
	Ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we'll start right here.
	Welcome back.
	Hi, everybody.
	Kings and Queens.
	My name is Jasmine Jade, but I go by Jazzy.
	I'm 25 years old, and I'm a professional choreographed dancer, and I am a certified yoga instructor, and I swim on the side.
	Okay.
	Where are you originally from?
	Originally from Minnesota, up north, metro area, Twin Cities, Minneapolis.
	Are you just visiting or do you live here now?
	I visit.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	Certified yoga certifications.
	I did two separate schools, but other than that, high school.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	Looking for a husband.
	Oh, not yet?
	Unfortunately.
	Alright, cool.
	Girl.
	What about you?
	Hi, everybody.
	My name is Liz, aka Solissi Bolo.
	I'm 27.
	Where are you from?
	Vallejo, California, but I live in Orlando.
	Vallejo, California.
	Yes, sir.
	Are you aware of the Zodiac Killer?
	No.
	Yes, and I'm a Libra.
	Yeah, he's from your neck of the woods.
	He was out here stabbing and killing people in the 60s.
	Damn!
	Yeah, I did a bunch of research, so Vallejo, California is like stuck in my head from that case.
	Cool.
	What do you do for it?
	I work for myself, but I freelance here and there.
	Freelance, what services?
	What does that mean?
	Well, I have my master's in business.
	I went to Full Sail University.
	Where?
	I'm sorry?
	Tulsa?
	Full Sail University.
	Full Sail.
	Where's that?
	It's in Winter Park by Orlando.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And it was in, what'd you get in?
	Business.
	Master's in business?
	Okay.
	Yes.
	Cool.
	You said you do freelance.
	What kind of work are we talking about?
	Well, I'm good at editing, marketing, digital services.
	Yeah.
	Okay, cool.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	I'm single and my body count is zero because I'm a born-again virgin.
	Fantastic.
	Wow!
	Good job!
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Hey guys, my name is Allie.
	I'm from Brooklyn, New York.
	I am 29 years old.
	And you're from Brooklyn.
	Cool.
	I currently live here.
	I've been living in Miami for about five years now.
	But you were raised in like Brooklyn?
	Brooklyn, yeah.
	Okay.
	And what is your highest education level?
	What do you do for it?
	So I work at the airport for Elysian Airlines.
	I work the ticket counter and I work the gate.
	Okay.
	Y'all are headquartered out of Vegas, if I'm not mistaken, right?
	Yeah, we are.
	Okay.
	And then on the weekends, I'm also a VIP bottle service manager at a club.
	Okay.
	So two jobs.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	And then what's your highest education level completed?
	I have a beauty and esthetician license.
	Okay.
	What's the club?
	Do not sit on the furniture.
	It's in South Beach.
	What?
	It's house music.
	That's why I've never been there.
	What's your relationship status?
	I am single, unfortunately.
	She belongs to the streets.
	What about you?
	Hi everyone, my name is Dara.
	I live in Brooklyn, New York.
	38.
	So you said you reside in Brooklyn?
	Yeah.
	I grew up in New Jersey.
	I live in Brooklyn now.
	What do you do for it?
	I'm a retired nurse, but I do OnlyFans.
	Wait, nurse?
	Yes.
	I was a nurse for 13 years.
	I do OnlyFans now.
	Instagram modeling.
	Wait.
	100K is too little to live in New York?
	You're the one that said that, right?
	It's definitely too little to live in New York.
	I remember now.
	I mean, unless you're in the Bronx.
	You switched your look up a bit.
	I have the braids.
	I have the braids this time.
	She's the one that said 100,000 isn't enough to live in New York City.
	That's why you wanted to OnlyFans, right?
	No.
	We'll talk about that, though.
	So retired nurse, OnlyFans, and then what is your highest education level completed?
	I went to college.
	You have your master's, right?
	No.
	Bachelor's?
	Bachelor's.
	In science, yeah.
	To be a nurse, you don't need your master's.
	Okay.
	Thanks.
	Alright.
	And then, relationship status?
	Single.
	Alright.
	Body count?
	I don't know.
	I gotta ask this question, though.
	I didn't write it down.
	Recently, right, in the news, things are going viral.
	We spoke about it before the show.
	Yeah, a little bit.
	Academics.
	Yeah.
	There's a picture of, I guess, a medicine capsule.
	What is that?
	What's it for?
	Well, apparently some, I guess some girl, I didn't really look into it too much on Twitter, but I saw the picture right before I came here.
	It was weird.
	She posted a picture.
	It looked like it was belly button with some like acne on it or some skin, which doesn't mean you get herpes on your belly button.
	And then she also posted a picture of doxycycline, which is an antibiotic that does not treat herpes.
	It's viral.
	That's antibiotics.
	So it's false news.
	False news from that dumb hoe.
	Stupid!
	There you go.
	Yeah, trying to say that.
	And now Fresh and Fit is talking about it, so that's what she wanted.
	By a nurse.
	Fair fight.
	Yeah, but hey, it's not herpes medicine, as they would say.
	That was weird.
	Everyone should know that.
	Yeah.
	It's antibiotic.
	Well, actually, I guess.
	Okay, if you're in the medical field, you would just be like, it's fake news.
	Yeah.
	Well, fair enough.
	Thank you.
	Thank you for that clarification.
	Fuck that bitch.
	Thanks.
	You know, it is what it is, man.
	We stand by our friends.
	So, okay, cool.
	All right, and single.
	All right, what about you?
	Welcome back.
	Hey, I'm Sarah.
	I'm 25.
	I'm born and raised in the Midwest in Ohio and Michigan.
	I've lived in Miami for a year and a half now.
	I have a bachelor's in communications.
	Chad's going to say useless degree.
	I know.
	I freelance in social media management and I'm a UGC creator which stands for user generated content.
	I make short form video for ads to run ads on social media.
	I'm still single like I was last week.
	That's it.
	What about you?
	Hey, y'all.
	I'm Anna Matthews.
	I am 30.
	Hey, y'all!
	Where are you from?
	Alabama.
	Clearly, we are y'all.
	Born and raised in Alabama.
	Do you live here in Miami now or do you live in Alabama?
	No, I live here now.
	How long have you been in Miami?
	Like 10 years.
	10 years?
	Red flag, bro.
	Why?
	You're corrupted now.
	Why?
	Too late.
	Maybe because I'm here.
	What do you do for work?
	I actually have a production company that I'm opening, 22 Studios, so for music videos, commercials, all that good shit.
	Not Prawn?
	Not the other type of production, if you know what I'm saying?
	Like the kind you probably film?
	She got you there, Myron!
	She got you there, Myron!
	Sorry, Alabama, you first asked.
	Myron's a man of God.
	Myron's a man of God.
	Wait a minute!
	I'll subscribe.
	Yeah, I don't know.
	I don't know if I should incriminate myself right now.
	Allegedly, Mario.
	Allegedly.
	Yeah, any videos that I make are just for me.
	No one else.
	Allegedly, Mario.
	It ain't no production company.
	It's a one-man company.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	I actually graduated high school in Alabama, so that's a whole, you know, I don't know.
	So high school?
	Pretty much.
	But no, I dropped out of college twice.
	I tried to be a vet tech, but I cry.
	I like animals all the time and shit.
	I can't do it.
	Then, yeah, I went to school for business, and I like it, so I had more shit.
	But I still dropped out of that, too.
	Okay.
	So, wait, and your production company specializes, if I'm not mistaken, commercial and music videos?
	Well, anything that you need to film, yeah.
	It will be.
	Like shorter form content, we would say?
	Like what?
	Like shorter form content, like 30 seconds to two minutes?
	Absolutely not.
	Like big budget content.
	But I mean, it could be a big budget, but shorter form.
	Like a music video could cost a million dollars.
	Yeah, but it'll be 30 seconds.
	Whose video is 30 seconds?
	I mean, there's music videos that are like two minutes long that are a million dollars.
	But not 30 seconds.
	That's what I said.
	I mean, you said commercials.
	Commercials could be 30 seconds.
	And you said music videos.
	What's the commercials and music videos?
	Next question.
	I'm just trying to clarify here.
	It's like, okay.
	Is it up and running or not yet?
	It's in the works.
	I mean, it's up and running.
	No, it's up and running.
	But I'm just looking for my commercial location.
	Great.
	Thank you.
	Appreciate that.
	Relationship status?
	Single.
	Yes, by Joyce.
	I know that's coming up.
	What about you?
	Hi.
	Welcome back.
	Thank you.
	I'm Asia.
	I am 30 years old.
	Wait, 30?
	30.
	Where are you from?
	I grew up in the UK in the USA. Okay.
	And then I am a singer and a pianist.
	And I'm a mix engineer as well for music.
	And then also, I am vice president of a recording label, Blue Dream Music Group, R.I.P. Hidden.
	We need to talk after this.
	Oh, shit, my bad.
	Hey.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	I have an associate's degree.
	Okay.
	In what?
	I have music in arts.
	Okay.
	Arts music.
	Cool.
	What's your relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Cool.
	Still?
	Same.
	And you said you're from the UK, but what did you like go to high school?
	In the UK or in the States?
	In the UK. London?
	So where I grew up is Mildenhall.
	So like R.F. Lincoln Heath.
	That's where I grew up.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	They want to know where your gloves are at.
	They're in my pants.
	Come grab them.
	Is that an invitation to grab it by the pussy or what?
	I guess she's super single.
	So my name is Lily.
	I am 26 years old.
	I was born in Cuba, raised in Miami.
	I used to be a property management.
	I did it for eight years, but I'm currently a teacher.
	Oh, like Chris.
	How did you like property management?
	I loved it.
	I will go back with a blink of an eye.
	Okay.
	And I'm assuming like real estate investors would hire you and then you would run the property for them and deal with all the bullshit tenants.
	Yes, of course.
	You understand.
	Yeah, this is a pain in ass.
	Yep.
	Okay.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	Happy single.
	Cool.
	And then what's your highest education level completed?
	So it's high school, but I did get my certified property management license.
	Okay.
	I was going to say you need to serve for that, right?
	Yes.
	Did you run your own business or did you work for someone that had a property management company?
	Well, I was mostly in the management side.
	The developers, like you said, they hire you and then you manage the building.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So highest rank in management.
	All right.
	Fair enough.
	All right.
	So we already got 10,000 plus y'all in here.
	So guys, do me a quick favor, and that's on YouTube alone.
	So like the video, subscribe to the channel if you haven't already.
	So what should I do here, Chris?
	We hit the chats first?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You know what?
	No, no, no.
	Let me go through the question first so that we don't get derailed here.
	All right, ladies.
	And we'll start hearing their work our way back this way, okay?
	First question of the show is...
	Who is a prize in a healthy relationship?
	The man or the woman?
	I'm the prize!
	And then work our way back.
	Okay, so I think it goes both ways.
	Okay.
	I think it goes 50-50.
	I think the man...
	Okay, real quick.
	Let me clarify this question because I knew someone was going to say that and be a smartass and say that.
	In every relationship, one party has to care more than the other.
	One party always has to have leverage.
	That's just the way all relationships are.
	Whether it's a business relationship, a romantic relationship, etc.
	One party is almost always more invested than the other and can do without the other to a degree, right?
	That's just how everything works.
	Okay.
	In that case, in the confinements of a healthy relationship, who is the prize?
	The man or the woman and why?
	The woman.
	Okay, why?
	Just because we're more caring and we can take, I think mentally, we're capable of holding up a lot more when it comes to financial, nurturing, just taking care of households, things.
	I think we're more able to I don't know how to say this.
	Take care of things more patiently.
	I think men are more like outbursts and they act upon reaction and upon whatever's going on in that moment.
	So you think women are more emotionally controlled than men are?
	Yes, I believe I am.
	Okay, but do you think women in general are more emotionally controlled than men are?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So women have more control.
	No, that's not.
	Apparently.
	That's literally what you just said.
	Women have more emotional control.
	Generally.
	Which is a component as to why they are the prize.
	Okay.
	Right?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Who is the prize in a romantic relationship between a man and a woman where the relationship is happy?
	uh so this is actually a really hard fucking question because you know critical thinking like like she said it could be it really like like she said it could depend but you know on the type of person that they are but i would say that it's like a successful like relationship like okay so like if a girl she's like a 10 or a 9 That's like a status type of thing.
	Like if a guy knows, like other guys know, oh, that's my girl.
	She's like a 10.
	Like, you know, so in that aspect, I think that would be the prize.
	So you think the woman is the prize?
	Um...
	Well, she could, you know, she could give you children if that's what you're into, you know?
	I really don't fucking know.
	I really don't.
	If you had to pick one in general in a happy relationship, who is the prize?
	The man or the woman?
	They say happy wife, happy life, right?
	Okay, so you're saying the female.
	Okay, and the female because of the beauty.
	Not just about the beauty.
	Then why?
	Other qualities that women typically do more so than others.
	I would say cooking.
	Now, dudes cook too, but overall, I'd say more women cook.
	That's just me guessing.
	So a woman that can go and cook and just do a lot of things to be of assistance to them.
	So cooking and being an assistant.
	Basically.
	You hire a chef?
	You could, but it's not the same.
	Who is the prize in a good relationship?
	The man or the woman?
	I don't really know why you guys consider it a prize.
	Like you're at a fucking fair or something.
	What do you mean?
	Like a prize?
	Well, one party almost has to have leverage on the other one to a degree and is more of a catch.
	For the relationship to work, in your opinion, who do you think is the prize?
	Generally.
	Both prizes.
	If you have to pick one.
	Both.
	One gender.
	There's always one party that cares more than the other about the relationship.
	The one who cares more has less leverage.
	That's the way it goes with everything.
	For example, if you work for an employer, right?
	He has the leverage because he can replace you with another employee.
	You would depend on them for employment.
	For employment?
	Yeah.
	We're not talking about employment.
	We're talking about partners.
	It's an analogy.
	That's not easy with this one, though.
	We're talking about like...
	But that's what I'm trying to say.
	I'm trying to explain to you that every single relationship has a power dynamic.
	Okay, but not really considered, like, a prize.
	Like, they're both prizes.
	They both should value each other the same equally.
	It's not like...
	Do you need an inhaler?
	What do you mean?
	I mean, do you think men and women actually are equal, realistically speaking?
	I know that you don't.
	I know you want me to say men are the prize.
	No, no, no, no.
	I don't want...
	I'm asking simply...
	I'm just telling you mine.
	Your take and why.
	I think that we should both be equal.
	We're both prizes, if that's the thing.
	One party always has to care more than the other.
	And I'm asking you for the relationship to work, which party needs to care more?
	Both parties have to care.
	That's not realistic.
	Because if not, it's just like, yes it is though.
	Maybe in your mindset, but it is realistic.
	Both parties equally care.
	So...
	You do realize any relationship, whether it's a friendship, a business partnership, employment, a romantic relationship, one party always has to care more than the other and or have leverage.
	Okay.
	Please answer the question.
	What about your parents?
	It's a really fucked up situation.
	So probably why I'm like this here right now.
	Emotional damage!
	That makes sense, but...
	Just had to choose one or the other.
	Just say one.
	Men are the prize.
	Men are the prize.
	Why do you say that?
	Because, look at them.
	They provide.
	They go get shit for us.
	They keep us safe.
	That's the prize.
	Is that how you really feel?
	Well, I don't know.
	I tried to say how I really feel, but you guys wouldn't accept it, so I'm coming up with it.
	Well, a 50-50 just isn't realistic.
	Nothing in life is 50-50.
	Okay.
	I mean, that's just not how the world works.
	Nothing gets really done by a committee.
	Anything that has some type of substance always has a clear and dominant, like a leader to some degree.
	Whether it's a country being run by a president, whether it's a business, Fortune 500 company being run by a CEO, there's always one decision maker at the end of the day.
	That's just life.
	And you're the decision maker right now on your podcast, so man of the prize.
	I want your opinion, not necessarily what I want to hear.
	I'm just asking you an open-ended question, and you can articulate why or why not.
	Women, I don't know what you mean to say at this point.
	I'm telling you what I thought.
	You're telling me it's not...
	I think you're being sarcastic.
	No, this is just me.
	I do think that men and women should equally be the each other's prize.
	You're telling me some stuff about different countries and stuff, so...
	Let's just move on to the next question.
	I don't even know!
	You're talking about a bunch of different shit, different analogies.
	I'm like, what?
	You just asked me who's a prize.
	Okay!
	Alright, so why are they 50-50 then, if that's your take on it?
	Explain why they're 50-50.
	I mean, I feel like in a relationship, not a presidential anything, anything to do with the countries, nothing, none about employment, relationship, because that's what you're asking me about, right?
	The relationships, again, that's what you're asking me about.
	Why is it 50-50?
	Because I feel like if you're in a relationship that you want to work, 50-50, you have to show up equally.
	Why would one person show up more than the other person?
	Okay, let me ask you a question.
	Who has requirements of the opposite gender, men or women?
	Both?
	Realistically speaking, who has more demands?
	Are women pickier or men pickier?
	Both, and I think it's just that you know, like, it's not being picky, it's just like, know your worth, too.
	Okay.
	Who is more likely to know their worth, men or women?
	Oh, fuck.
	Is this about my opinion or what you want, like, what?
	Who is more selective, in general, men or women?
	We both should be.
	Well, we're not operating on should, we're operating on what is.
	I don't fucking know.
	Both of us, I don't know.
	We're both more selective.
	I don't know.
	If you have a guy that'll fuck anything, a girl that'll fuck anything, they don't care.
	They're not selective.
	Realistically speaking, women are far more selective than men are.
	Women have way more requirements of the opposite gender.
	They want them to be taller, make more money typically, have a higher social status, etc.
	So I would argue, just by women's demands alone, it's not a 50-50.
	They're not looking for an equal.
	See why your logic is flawed there?
	When I said it can't be 50-50 because women don't demand a 50-50?
	No, I'm telling you that I'm demanding 50-50 and you're like, that's not okay.
	I'm talking about women in general, not yourself.
	I don't know.
	I don't know what else to tell you right now about it.
	I see why you're single.
	I would like to be.
	It's fine.
	At 30?
	What is it?
	Is it 100?
	I mean, you're 30, so... 30 is the new 20.
	It's the new 20, but with more money.
	Okay.
	Do you see where I'm going here, where the 50-50 thing you're talking about isn't true?
	It's not real, because women don't want a 50-50 partner?
	Hold on, hold on.
	Has it ever worked for you?
	50-50?
	Has it ever worked for you 50-50, half and half?
	Like, is any of you guys supporting each other 50-50?
	You and your man, has it ever worked for you?
	Well, considering I'm single.
	So it didn't work?
	Nope!
	I haven't found someone to do 50-50 with.
	Okay, that's probably a good thing.
	Alright, cool.
	Alright, what about you, Sarah?
	Can you repeat the question?
	Because I forgot it at this point.
	Yeah, sure.
	the question is who do you think is the prize in a relationship where it's a happy healthy relationship the man or the woman women okay why because men like a man can't have kids without a woman And typically men want to reproduce.
	Also, I feel like there's just certain things that men can't do without women.
	Like, men can't really decorate their house nicely!
	Without women like I feel like there's just things I feel like men and women need each other and they need each other for different reasons and different things so when it comes to like keeping the house clean and yeah like those kind of things like there's just like a like woman's touch that men need in their life so like okay so women because they can bear children men can't do without them and they can decorate the house I don't say do without them fully but there's certain things what about you who do you think is the prize in a healthy relationship the man or the woman Well,
	I think if you're asking me personally, I would think that he's the prize to me and he should think that I'm the prize to him.
	So it's not 50-50, but he's my prize and I'm his prize.
	If that makes sense to you, that's what I meant.
	Maybe in a magical world, right?
	Where it's fairy tales and rainbows and everything else like that.
	Objectively speaking, one party almost always has the leverage in a relationship.
	Well, for me, I want the man to be the prize.
	Okay.
	Why would you say the man is the prize in a healthy relationship?
	Because I'm tired of doing shit on my own.
	I want him to take care of me.
	I want him to provide for me.
	I want him to be a good father.
	I want that.
	Real quick, going outside of the confinements of your own personal situation, objectively speaking now, would you go ahead and extrapolate that, I guess, that logic and put it on all females that most women want this?
	Or is this just your personal situation?
	I believe that most women want the man to be my prize.
	I can't speak for men because I'm not a man, but I speak for myself as a woman.
	So what makes the man the prize then?
	I understand that you're tired, you don't want to do it alone.
	I wouldn't say all men are a prize.
	I would say it depends on the man.
	What makes the man a prize?
	Somebody that's a good person, has good morals, that you can build with, that supports you, that's loving, that's kind, that's caring, that's providing, that's a good father.
	I mean, you can go on and on.
	Not somebody that's a cheater, a manipulator, abusive.
	Because I've been there in those type of relationships, and I know what that feels like.
	But I can't say I've ever been in the most healthy, happy relationship, but what I would think that one would be, and that I want for myself.
	The guy's got to be the prize in your eyes?
	Okay.
	I would love for him to be.
	I want him to be a prize.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Who do you think is the prize in a healthy relationship?
	The man or the woman and why?
	For me, I feel like a man would be a prize in my eyes because that is just my person.
	So there's nobody else that I would want to be other than him.
	I would need somebody that would love me, you know, just have really good communication skills, no trust issues.
	Okay.
	But real quick, not just, again, ladies, I'm speaking in general here.
	I understand what you want may be in a man, but I'm talking about what do you think would be, in a healthy relationship, who needs to be the prize in the relationship?
	That's my question in general.
	I understand what you want, that's cool, but I'm talking about in general.
	I mean, somebody that could also just be my guidance.
	Do you think it's a man or a woman?
	Do you think it's a man still?
	I think it's a man, yeah.
	Okay.
	And you're saying because what, love and what else?
	Love, like, guidance also.
	You know, if I need any, like, moral support, that would be, like, my person to go to.
	Okay.
	You think male guidance is better than female guidance?
	I think so.
	Okay.
	Anything else?
	Love guidance?
	That's it.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Who do you think is the prize in a healthy relationship, man or woman?
	In a healthy relationship, generally speaking, I would say the man is the prize and the woman is a treasure.
	Because, like, a man could provide a house.
	We make it a home.
	He brings food to the table.
	We make meals.
	He gives us a seed.
	We bear the children.
	So the men are the prize because they're essentially providing the essentials and we like accentuate it in a way.
	Right.
	Okay.
	But who is the person that I guess provides more value to the relationship?
	Who is the prize in this case?
	I would say the man because we look up to the man.
	It makes the roles unbalanced.
	If the woman is running everything, we're very emotional.
	So operating off emotions is very volatile.
	So you disagree with her that women are more emotionally stable than men are?
	It depends on the woman.
	In general?
	In general.
	I don't know.
	You just said a second ago that men are more emotionally stable.
	It's okay.
	I think she could go ahead and you guys can go back and forth on this.
	Men can dissociate better than we can.
	We deal with things in real time and can put it in their subconscious and deal with it years later.
	So you think that's what makes someone more emotionally stable?
	Being able to compartmentalize and deal with it later?
	Yes and no.
	Wow, you're the queen of not answering questions directly.
	I'm a Libra.
	Wow, fantastic.
	Sorry.
	I'm a Libra too, but okay.
	Bro, only would we get the excuse of being able to say ridiculous shit and then blaming it on the mother they were born?
	I'm a Libra.
	Can you imagine if a dude walked around like, oh, I'm sorry I'm incompetent.
	It's because I'm a Scorpio.
	My bad, bro.
	It won't work.
	Yeah, sorry.
	I'm, you know, destroying this job interview right now.
	I don't know what I'm saying, but okay.
	Alright, so you're saying that men are the prize because women have to look up to them and they're more emotionally stable.
	And women are the treasure.
	Okay.
	But, yes.
	I think that's really relevant, but that's fine.
	You're saying that they accentuate...
	By you saying that she's a treasure, the way you described it is that she accentuates the things that a man brings.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Whew, man.
	Alright, what about you?
	Who is the prize in a relationship, in a happy relationship between men and women, the man or the woman, and why?
	For me?
	In general, please.
	Okay.
	I would say a man.
	Okay.
	Why?
	Because the stability and the stability in all spectrums, not just financial, emotional stability, A nourished woman who is nourished by a man is a happy woman.
	And I think that that ripples out into the society.
	Like, if we all had happy husbands, I feel like we would be different.
	Like, we wouldn't, you know.
	Do you disagree with her sentiment about happy wife, happy life?
	Yes.
	Why?
	Why?
	Because that's like a manipulation.
	Like, I feel like when I hear that, because I know a few people who are actually married and who are like, oh, happy wife, happy...
	Like, literally, my adopted dad just said this, happy wife, happy life, like, a week ago.
	And I know what's going on behind the scenes.
	It's basically like manipulation with that.
	Like, I think if it's a happy husband, I'm happy.
	Okay.
	And I... And for me, ultimately...
	Yes, the man.
	But for me personally as well, I think the man is the prize too for me personally.
	Okay, so you think most women would think that, you think in general you think so and then also personally in your life?
	Correct.
	Well, if the man's not happy, he'll cheat.
	He'll let go elsewhere.
	So I think that is important.
	But I think when they're like, oh happy wife, happy life, I don't think the woman, you could do like for those type of women, I don't think anything could make them happy.
	Even when they're man, I don't know.
	I feel like when they say that, it's like the husband's like a pet.
	And they're like, oh, I don't know.
	Absolutely.
	Because if you think about it, look at all the men that are like, oh, happy weight, happy life.
	They're all miserable.
	None of them are ever home.
	Absolutely.
	They're all barstool guys sitting wherever.
	And like, I mean, like you say, they'll go cheat or whatever.
	But I feel like you have to think about the mentalities and the differences.
	Women are meant to be monogamous.
	Men are not.
	And that's just how you're programmed.
	Do you have a disagreement with that?
	They're basically saying that that's a lie.
	That you're wrong.
	Hey, man.
	I just think, like I said, it just really depends on the guy, too, if he's a shitty guy, you know, and you're going to make your girlfriend upset, and it's just, you know...
	We said in a happy relationship.
	In a happy relationship.
	That's what I said.
	Who is the prize in a healthy relationship, man or woman?
	I made sure to make that distinction.
	Well...
	No, I can see, I can kind of see, you know, if he's going out of his way to provide and do things, I can see where that could be the prize.
	But also, if he has a woman that has everything that he needs, she's on point with everything, I think that could have a lot to do with that, too.
	So he would want to make her happy, and the more happy that he would make her, it could potentially, you know, open doors in some ways for him.
	Can I add something?
	Yeah.
	When I say I think it can go both ways a little bit, I just want to generalize and get detailed.
	I think that a woman can make a man's status elevate as well.
	Okay, that's more so what I meant when I said women are the prize, because I feel like women, if it's a good woman, then she's going to accentuate her man.
	Yeah, and it depends on what everybody wants.
	Not everybody wants a power couple relationship.
	That's what I want.
	I think, yeah, that's just natural.
	I'm straight as a board.
	Who elevates whose status more, though, realistically speaking?
	The man elevates the woman's status higher, or does she elevate?
	The man elevates the woman's status at the end of the day.
	And because then, if they're married, then that man gives...
	Yeah, men can't have kids without...
	Women, but we can't be given our children without the man seed.
	And somebody who wants children and wants a husband, I need men and I need a man.
	So yeah, we're like the womb and the mother and the nurturer and stuff, but we can't nurture if we don't have a home or a stable baseline to feel like, okay, I'm taken care of.
	And then you have children.
	And then that mother goes and raises the children and then that ripples out into society and then you have a happy children and then it's just like this domino effect.
	Yeah, that's where the hyper independence comes from.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	And that's priceless having Maybe it's because I'm a woman.
	Does anyone have anything to say?
	Because a couple of you girls said that the woman is the prize.
	Do you guys have any disagreements or anything with that?
	I don't disagree.
	I don't disagree, but I feel like it all really depends on what you've been through.
	I still believe that us as a woman, we are the prize, but I completely agree with the last thing you said.
	100%.
	If we don't have the man, we can really go ahead and continue what we really want.
	I think you were the one who said, give us a house and we'll provide a whole entire home.
	But I still believe in some way, somehow, we women are the price.
	I don't change my decision, but I do completely agree with what she finally said.
	Let me ask you guys a question then.
	So we'll start hearing that work our way.
	Is it harder for a man or a woman to be attractive to the opposite gender?
	And why?
	It's harder for the male to be attractive.
	Why?
	Because it sucks, but being a woman, we have so many boxes to check.
	And I feel like sometimes it gets in the way of seeing an average guy who we could grow with.
	And for me, I have to look at you and want to devour you.
	Like, sexual attraction and looks kind of get my interest peaked.
	So if you're...
	It's hard, because if you're average-looking or below average, it's like you might not even get that chance with me.
	But that's something that I work on.
	So yeah, I think women have way more...
	Requirements to even engage.
	Is it harder for a woman to be attracted to the opposite gender or for a man to be attracted to the opposite gender?
	Yeah, I would say it's harder for a woman just because we're so self-conscious.
	We feel like we gotta be cookie cutter.
	You know, the average IG model.
	And if we're not that, we have to work to become that.
	I feel like it's more simpler for men.
	If a man provides and he's genuine and Okay.
	Well, let's, I guess, equal the playing field to see who has more of an advantage.
	If you take an average man versus an average woman, who do you think has more opportunities with the opposite gender?
	Probably the women, just because there's more of us on the planet.
	Is there?
	There are more women, yes.
	Oh, really?
	Way more.
	So, you think it's easier for the average woman to be attractive then?
	Um...
	It depends on how much confidence she has.
	Do you think men care about confidence?
	I mean, yeah, like, I don't know what a man thinks, but I would think that they would think...
	Wait, so men are depressed, but you don't know what these men want?
	How are they depressed if you don't know what they want?
	We just have to guess.
	We have to play a guessing game about what a man wants, and then whatever sticks.
	Guess?
	You should know!
	Okay, so you think it's harder for women to be attractive to men because they're self-conscious.
	Yes, it's harder for women and it's easier for men because naturally you guys are the providers.
	It's easier for us to like get attention, but it's harder to get the relationship because it's essentially up to the man to like go after the woman because it's not good for a woman to go after the man.
	That's like a turn off.
	Like if I was a man, I'd be turned off.
	But yeah, I don't know.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that you get more opportunities because of the attention?
	Yeah.
	Versus the man might not get the opportunity at all?
	I don't think they care about the opportunity.
	Okay, all right.
	So you think it's harder for women to be attracted to the opposite gender.
	Okay, what about you?
	Who do you think is is it harder for a man to be attractive to a woman or for a woman to be attractive to a man?
	I think it's a lot more harder for a woman because you do have to keep up with your hair, your nails, your eyelashes.
	You have to go to the gym, you have to go tanning, you have to go good.
	Botox.
	Lips, yeah.
	So the upkeep is what makes it hard.
	I feel, yeah.
	I feel like it is, yeah.
	And usually because girls are so insecure, so they just try to do as much as they can to get attention from the guy for them to notice.
	But as guys, I don't really think they notice anything.
	Like, oh, your lashes look nice.
	Or like, did you do something with your hair?
	Like, no, they don't really...
	Care for them.
	So if men who don't care, by your own admission, then why do you do it?
	I mean, for myself, you know.
	But the question is, is it harder for men to attract women or for women to attract men?
	I think it's just a lot more harder for women.
	Because they just have to keep up with everything.
	But do they have to, is the question?
	No, it's just like for yourself as well.
	So you're making it harder for yourself for no reason?
	No, I'm saying that you have to, like, for me, like, I have to keep up with everything.
	Well, let's say you didn't keep up with everything.
	Would you still be able to attract the man?
	Realistically speaking.
	Don't cap.
	I mean, no.
	You don't think so?
	No.
	I mean...
	You really don't think so.
	Wow.
	She's a whole new person.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So you think it's harder for women because they have to keep up with their stuff.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Do you think it's harder for men to attract opposite gender or women?
	I actually disagree.
	I think it's the opposite because you could pay for your looks.
	Look at the Jenners.
	Look at Kylie.
	She paid for herself to become beautiful.
	Look at her back to the now.
	Anybody can become, as a woman, beautiful as long as you have money and you can upkeep yourself.
	I look at myself a few years ago.
	I'm not as good looking as I am now because I have more money now to actually pay for more Filler, lips, hair, makeup, good makeup artist, all those things.
	But a man, there's only a few things that he can do to kind of fix his looks.
	To clarify the answer because you're kind of going back and forth here.
	Is it men, is it harder for men to be attractive to the opposite gender or for women to be attractive to the opposite gender?
	It's harder for a man.
	For a man, okay.
	Yeah, because he can't, you know, just go put makeup on, do all these things.
	Okay, so you're saying it's harder for a man because we have less things in our control.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	My opinion.
	Okay.
	Now, question for you.
	You mentioned all these things that you said that you think you're more attractive now than you were before because you're able to use makeup and all these other things.
	Do you think men care about those things as much as women do, though?
	I'm not sure.
	I noticed there's a trend here with you guys.
	Makeup, keep myself up.
	I don't know, but I think it's trendy now, so men almost expect that.
	They kind of expect from social media somebody to look a certain way.
	You don't know what somebody looks like.
	Women aren't posting themselves without makeup in their natural state all the time, so this is what they see.
	I feel like there's a lot of pressure on us to look a certain way.
	Honestly, I don't want to do any of this stuff.
	Where does that pressure come from?
	Do you think men are the ones putting that pressure on you or other women?
	I think it's other women and social media and the norm now.
	Like when I look at a commercial or social media, everyone looks a certain way and you feel the pressure.
	And so men are kind of, they think that this is normal, which it's not because we don't look like this when I'm not here.
	I don't look like this.
	Sorry to break it to you, but I do not look like that.
	I'm going to go take it off when I get home.
	I don't think there's anything wrong with taking care of yourself, though.
	I think it's a respect for yourself thing.
	It's self-care.
	Not even just that it's self-care, but when you go...
	When you go out and about, people look at the way that you dress and the way you carry yourself.
	So if you look busted and your hair is all nappy and ratty and you didn't brush it and your nails aren't done and you're wearing ugly, dirty clothes, I don't know.
	I like to look nice, so I don't feel like there's anything wrong with looking nice when you go out.
	Do you think an average woman that's all busted, as you said before, versus a man that's dressed fairly well, what do you think is going to get more attention from the opposite gender?
	Well, yeah, of course she's still going to get more attention, but I just, I feel like...
	So was it easier to...
	It's not, it's easier for women, and I was going to say that when I actually answered the question.
	It's easier for women to attract more people.
	Okay, so you think it's easier for women to be attracted to the opposite gender?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course.
	But Bonson first, like, saying, like, It's, like, almost expected to take care of yourself.
	I just feel like you should take care of yourself.
	Like, whether it's expected or not.
	It's, like, first impressions.
	And when they get to know you, I feel like they will love you more, like, for your natural beauty.
	Like, they don't expect that every day.
	But it's, like, a first impression kind of thing.
	Yeah, of course.
	Like, I go out of the house with no makeup on all the time.
	And, like, I'm not embarrassed to do so.
	But, like, that's because I take care of myself.
	Like, I go to the gym.
	I eat healthy.
	I drink a lot of water.
	My skin is clear because of the way that I take care of myself that I don't I have to wear makeup all the time, but I still feel like you should do things to take care of yourself.
	Who puts pressure on women to wear makeup?
	Do you think it's men or other women?
	Women.
	Yeah, women for sure.
	But it's also to look good for the man.
	It's a self-induced thing.
	But do you think men realistically care about makeup as much as you guys care about it?
	Sometimes.
	Would a high-valued man want a woman to go out in public around his friends not looking her best?
	Yeah.
	You wouldn't want her around them at all.
	I was asking to ask where you're going.
	A high-valued guy would probably prefer a woman with less makeup, to be honest with you, in general.
	Men overwhelmingly prefer girls that wear less makeup.
	It just depends.
	I think it depends.
	Because if you look at what makeup does, it's typically to make up for a lack of aesthetics.
	That's why it's called makeup.
	It's makeup for a lack of something.
	And a lot of the times when you look at makeup, what it does is it pushes the clock back for what?
	Youth.
	That's what makeup does most of the time is to push back the clock.
	Why don't I just get a younger girl that doesn't have to wear as much makeup?
	That's why men look for these fertility factors in women.
	Let's say we're going out as friends, right?
	To a trip to, let's say, Mexico.
	We're at the pool and your makeup comes off.
	You're going to see the real you anyway.
	You just said friends, not like in a relationship.
	No, no.
	So you're coming with my friends.
	I'm seeing your friends all together.
	You're going to see it regardless.
	I wouldn't wear makeup to the pool.
	Yeah, there's absolutely no way I'm wearing makeup on the pool, at the beach, on the boat, nothing.
	If the sun's out, I'm not wearing any makeup.
	Hopefully you have your sunscreen.
	Of course.
	What about you?
	Is it harder for men to be attractive to women or for women to be attractive to men?
	Honestly, I think it's harder for men to be attracted to women because women do layer makeup on and lashes that they do feel the need to for whatever reason.
	So I feel like I don't know.
	She looks good now, but what about later?
	That shouldn't matter.
	You shouldn't worry about what a man would think if your makeup is off.
	If he loves you, he's going to love you with it on or off, depending on his expectations.
	Going back here so that I can actually connect this.
	You're saying it's harder for men to be attractive to the opposite gender because women put makeup on, which maybe increases their ego.
	I'm not saying it's harder because we have makeup on.
	That's what you said a second ago.
	All right.
	Well, that's how it came out.
	I'm going to explain it more.
	So when guys don't wear makeup, I look at you, that's how the fuck you look.
	I look at him, that's how he looks.
	You look at all of us, we have makeup on, we look cute.
	Sort of.
	Kind of.
	I don't know.
	My eyelash came off earlier.
	But when I go home, none of us fucking look like this.
	So how would you know?
	So it's harder for men to look at us and be like, I don't know.
	That's what I think.
	You asked me.
	Okay.
	Well, I'm just trying to make sense of it.
	So you're saying it's harder for men to be attractive to women because they don't know what they're getting.
	Yeah, I guess.
	Necessarily.
	Like, I'm saying, like, yes, they're beautiful.
	We're all beautiful.
	But he's just, I don't know, it might be harder.
	Like, what if he likes it more natural?
	And he's like, she's still beautiful, but maybe I want her more natural.
	Or maybe she's natural and he'd prefer her with more makeup.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So it's harder for men because women layer their looks.
	Sure.
	And are deceptive.
	Yeah, we are.
	Alright, what about you?
	Who do you think is harder to attract men or women?
	I think it's harder for men to attract women, mainly for the fact that women is ingrained in us to take care of ourselves.
	So, it's just...
	expected from us so guys on the other hand they really kind of don't guys can kind of go like three days and nobody would know without showering they will know with a girl that hey this girl has not showered this bitch is a fucking ratchet they know that so in in that way I think women are more like fresh and I think that people are more just attracted to fresh no pun intended So more women are more fresh.
	If you eat a fucking, I don't know, banana and you just peel it as opposed to a banana that's fucking old as fuck, you're going to want to go for the fresher one.
	Women take care of themselves better, generally speaking.
	So you think it's harder for men to be attractive to women because women take care of themselves better?
	Yeah, I would say so, because most part, most of the time, a woman that really takes care of herself kind of wants a man that also takes care of himself really well, too.
	We don't want a dude that's really fucking nasty that we have to train how to fucking just do basic shit, you know?
	You think women put, because you're mentioning physical and looks here, it seems, because I guess the more attractive she is or the more upkeep she has, the more she might demand the man that has the looks.
	Yeah.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that women don't care about looks as much as men care about looks in women?
	Um...
	I've seen plenty of ugly rich guys with hot girls.
	Yeah, I mean, it really...
	Shout out for us.
	Certain girls, you know...
	Chris, fuck you.
	Yeah.
	Some girls are down with kissing grandpa, not me, but some people like me.
	You know, whatever floats your boat.
	Oh my god.
	Alright, so you think it's harder for men because women take care of themselves and I guess we could say have a higher standard because they take care of themselves?
	Well, we take care of ourselves.
	We're just more appealing because we have to do more things.
	We have to brush our hair.
	We have to get up, brush our teeth.
	We have to shower every fucking day.
	Lotion.
	Everything.
	Did you put fucking lotion on today?
	You know that?
	Hell no, man.
	So you think it's harder for a woman to be attractive?
	Well, do you think it's harder for a woman to be attractive or a man to be attractive?
	It's harder for a man just because men just typically don't take care of themselves as well as women do.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Because you're complaining about it as if it's hard or something like that.
	It is hard.
	But it's harder for men.
	That is fair, though.
	I mean, we don't really...
	Alright, what about you?
	Who do you think?
	Is it harder for men to be attractive to women or women to be attractive to men?
	I'm going to go ahead and say it's harder for men to be attracted to women.
	Just because aesthetically, physically, I agree with the girls.
	Men are more superficial.
	They kind of look just into how a girl appears.
	It takes a little bit more of a step for them to see more of them.
	Bi-wise, like, I feel like a woman, like she said, you guys are more like, there's not much to keep up with.
	And we read more of the men.
	And it's like, okay, we don't have to see above the, like, yes, we do see the physical side, but we do see above and we know how to read them.
	Like, okay, how can I say this?
	Yeah, you're kind of making an argument for women being harder for women.
	I'm confused here.
	Is it harder for men to be attractive to women or women to be attractive to men?
	Meant to be attracted to women.
	You think it's harder for men to be attractive to women?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	What makes it harder?
	Because you're talking about how tough it is for women.
	Well, society nowadays makes it hard for women, but...
	I don't know how to put my words into this.
	You're the last one!
	You're all the time!
	Okay.
	Men.
	Why is it harder for men to be attractive to women than it is for women to be attractive to men?
	Look at your notes.
	No.
	I know.
	I didn't take no notes.
	Okay.
	Men, because in general, they...
	I'm not completely...
	Espera, espera.
	Espera.
	Oh, you see?
	You understand?
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Men.
	Men are more difficult to be attracted to women.
	Like I said, or like the girl said, it's more because of the physical, the appearance.
	Yes, for girls it's harder to keep up, but men...
	I can't get my word out.
	Have you ever had a dream?
	Incredible.
	No, I feel like what she means is like, women always have...
	All right, let me ask another question so that we can put things in perspective here.
	I don't think this is going to be this difficult for you ladies.
	Who do you think is going to go further in the dating game?
	An average man or an average woman?
	Go ahead.
	Men.
	An average man has more chances than an average woman, you think?
	Yes.
	Why?
	Because society nowadays, girls, the way that they keep up with themselves and the way that they handle...
	Do you think those women want average men, though?
	Girls nowadays are hard.
	Like, they don't even know what they want.
	I know what I want.
	What you just said Oh The question is, who's gonna go further in the dating game?
	An average man or an average woman?
	An average man.
	And you think an average man because?
	What I just said!
	I had an argument for an average woman, though.
	It all depends on what you consider average, too, because my average is not the same as the girls, but So, okay, so why do you think an average man has an easier time in the dating game?
	Why?
	Because of society nowadays and how girls manage themselves.
	Okay, so you think girls are easier?
	Nowadays, yes.
	I agree.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	Not myself, but what I've seen and what I, life to life today in Miami at least.
	What have you seen in Miami that makes you say this?
	Girls are crazy and it's just...
	They're hooking up?
	Yeah.
	Okay, ask yourself, what kind of guys are they hooking up with though?
	Average guys.
	Are they hooking up with average dudes?
	I've seen everything.
	Sugar daddies.
	I've seen everything and not just sugar daddies, just in general.
	Girls in Miami are not hooking up with broke dudes.
	Well, you'd be surprised.
	You'd be surprised.
	Well, in Hialeah.
	Yeah, not the good one.
	But we're not in Hialeah.
	We're not in Hialeah, but you'd be surprised because I feel like girls nowadays, their mentality is basically like It's very hard to find an average guy, a decent looking or mentally and physically well put together.
	So I feel like girls are like, now they just gave up and it's like, okay, I'll set up for whatever.
	And it's like, no, it's not like that.
	We'll move on.
	So you think an average man has a better chance in the dating game than an average woman?
	All right.
	What about you?
	I think it's, you said more difficult.
	Yeah.
	Who has an easier time in the dating game, an average man or an average woman?
	I would say...
	I would say a woman.
	Mainly for that.
	Mainly because, say, there's a rich billionaire dude, and he's 73 years old, and this is an average-looking girl, and she might be 26.
	And she shows interest in him, and she's like, yeah, daddy, marry me.
	And then they get married, and it was just an easy thing.
	But...
	I don't know.
	It could be easy for an average guy if he's trying to go for girls that are really ratchet.
	If he's just on a fucking roll and he's like, ratchet, ratchet, ratchet, bitch.
	He can get all of those.
	Okay.
	So you think an average guy can get low socioeconomic women?
	Fuck yeah.
	Interesting.
	What about you?
	Who do you think is going further in the dating game?
	An average man or an average woman?
	Average woman.
	Why is she getting further?
	She is...
	Fuck, I don't know.
	I don't know.
	This is the average question.
	I don't know.
	I don't really know how to answer this right now.
	I don't know what to tell you.
	I mean, it's kind of a simple question.
	I mean, who do you think will get further into dating game and why do you think so?
	It's open-ended.
	Can't really be wrong here.
	I guess women might have...
	We all have so many options, I guess.
	Okay, so better options.
	Maybe women.
	Maybe women.
	Maybe we have more options.
	Okay, cool.
	Alright, what about you?
	Do you think who has...
	Who can go further into dating game?
	Average women or average men?
	Average women.
	Because I feel like no matter what a woman looks like, men are going to approach them when you're out anywhere.
	If you're in a club, if you're at a bar, if you're at a restaurant, if you're at the mall walking down the street, men are going to holler at you no matter what you look like, no matter what you're wearing.
	But, I mean, it's very rare that I'll see a guy out that I'm like, wow, I'm interested.
	What about you?
	Who has an easier time dating?
	Women or average men?
	And why?
	I'm not really sure because I know there's more.
	If you had to pick one then.
	I had to pick one.
	What is it based on?
	Looks wise or just in general?
	We can go ahead with a complete package.
	We can say an average man is about 5'7", making 40 to 50k per year.
	5'7", 5'8".
	An average woman is average.
	I mean, she's very plain Jane, regular girl, 5'5", maybe 120, 130 pounds.
	I would say an average man because there's more women just based on numbers.
	So maybe he has more of a chance because there's so many women trying to get his attention or to settle down.
	Okay, so you think the average man has easier time because there's more women?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Do you think most women would prefer to be with a higher status guy and share him or have a regular guy alter herself?
	Most women?
	Yes.
	If I lined up 100 women, would they rather have a winner and share him?
	Women are always taking back cheating men, so I think that they'd rather just share a man, because they're always taking a cheater back.
	Fantastic.
	So wouldn't that kind of make your last point null and void, if you're saying there's more women, but the reality is women are okay with sharing?
	That doesn't have anything to do with an average man, like who has the easier...
	No, I asked you, who has it easier in a dating game, an average man or an average woman?
	And you said an average man, simply because there's more women out there.
	And then I said, to counter, you really think so if women are willing to share a higher status guy?
	That's not average.
	There's nothing to do with average.
	I can't answer that question.
	You completely missed my point.
	You said that it's easier for an average man to attract women based upon the fact that there's more women.
	Okay, yeah.
	Now, my argument is, and I asked you, do you think most women would share a high-value man or have a loser to themselves?
	You said they would prefer to share a high-value man.
	So if women would prefer to share a high-value man, that by default means that women are all sharing the same higher-level guys.
	That doesn't mean there's enough women to go around for these average men that you're talking about.
	There's not that many high-value men.
	That's my point.
	That means they're being shared.
	All the girls are going to the top.
	Sharing is caring.
	So you're saying that there's more women, but I'm saying, does it really matter that there's more women if all the women are sharing the same guys anyway?
	At the top, which you just admitted that they do.
	There's not all women are sharing the same man at the top.
	A majority.
	Like, two women.
	Like, come on.
	How many are they cheating on?
	Like, 3,000 girls?
	Please.
	Well, if you've got the top 10% of guys having sex with the majority of the women...
	But you said average.
	Not no top 10%.
	Context.
	Are you not?
	Are you not tracking the conversation?
	Is it a high value man?
	Is it going to go be with an average woman or anything?
	Who do you think is going to be better?
	An average man or an average woman?
	Okay.
	Now, if you aligned 100 women up, would those women want to share your high value man or do you want to fuck the basic average guy?
	Wow.
	Do y'all not see what I see here?
	I think that I can hear.
	I don't know.
	I can hear.
	I'm just I'm losing everything.
	Let's start from step number one.
	Please pay attention because I don't think you are.
	I'm trying.
	Well, try a little bit harder, please.
	I don't know.
	I'm going to make this very simple.
	I asked her, who do you think has an easier time in the dating game?
	Men or women?
	She said men.
	I said why?
	She responded, because there's more women out there in the dating game, which on paper sounds great.
	There's more women.
	It should be easier for average guys to get average women, correct?
	On paper, yeah.
	Then I went the next step and asked you.
	So I'll just answer that.
	Hold on, hold on.
	But it's connected.
	Then I asked you, do you think most women are willing to share a higher status guy, which means he has multiple females, Or have an average guy or loser to themselves.
	You responded, most women would prefer to have a higher status guy and share him, whether it's known to them or not.
	So by default, that means that there's less women to go around because they're sharing the same top tier of guys.
	So you literally just made an argument against the point you just made.
	You're saying there's more women, but I'm arguing these women are sharing the same guys.
	See the math here?
	They're not trying to...
	Holy...
	Okay, listen.
	If I was a high-value man, which I'm not, I'm a woman, but if I was a high-value man, I wouldn't want to go sleep with an average-looking woman.
	I'd want to sleep with a top-tier woman, so there's not that many women.
	But I'm just saying, me personally, if I was me, but I'm not, so I can't really...
	So, that's my answer.
	Just because I gave you an answer to the first part, and then you changed it because you didn't like my answer.
	No, no, it's not that I didn't like your answer.
	I just challenged your answer, and then by your own answer, you disproved what you said prior.
	I didn't disprove it.
	I don't think I did.
	I think the context is all to whack here.
	So, I mean, we followed a straight linear line here with logic.
	Like, her point is that it's easier for an average man because there's more women.
	And I argue these same women want a higher tier guy and would rather share him than get an average guy.
	Yeah, and those girls would rather be single and not have sex with average guys.
	And they would rather wait for higher than average guys.
	Holy.
	Alright.
	Okay, well, you think it's average men have more advantage because there's more women?
	If you were asking me that, I said yes, and then you went and asked a totally different question.
	So I said, in that sense, it's kind of invalid for the first question.
	I think my personal opinion...
	I didn't invalidate it.
	Your own answer invalidated it.
	We can just agree to disagree at that point.
	There's no disagreeing or agreeing.
	You said it yourself.
	You agreed.
	I don't agree with you, but okay.
	Yo, chat, am I in a Disney, like what's going on here?
	Or am I like in a fucking crazy...
	I think it's simple math, but okay, that's fine.
	You think it's average math?
	Give us statistics because you always know them, so give it to us.
	But we couldn't answer the question without the statistics.
	I will go ahead and cover it after.
	But maybe I can answer differently if you gave me the stats.
	But this is just a common discussion here.
	This is just like a hypothetical question about average, not average.
	I would love the stats.
	I will give it to you here in a second, but I don't think you caught what I was doing there, but that's fine.
	Let me make my answer a few different.
	All right.
	Alright, who do you think gets further in a dating game?
	An average man or an average woman?
	I believe it would be an average woman.
	Why?
	Because all she has to do is just bat her eyes and she just gets whatever she wants.
	You know, she just has to say a couple of things that the guy wants to hear and after that she basically just traps him.
	Just traps him.
	And that's it.
	And then he's just under her spell.
	I just think it's a lot easier.
	Alright.
	What do you think?
	Do you think an average woman or an average man has more pull in a dating game?
	It's definitely easier for the women because with, like, average women, men will flood the DMs.
	There's OnlyFans.
	So, like, the men, it's harder for the men because they have to play the whole pick and roll.
	Women, we just do the whole itty-mitty-mitty-mo thing, I guess.
	What is a pick and roll exactly?
	Like, I don't know.
	Well, if you don't know, then that's a problem.
	You're the one that used the term.
	It's just the same.
	Like, men will have to, like, pick the woman, I guess.
	But, like, for us, I don't know.
	Like, me personally, are we speaking generally?
	Yeah.
	Generally speaking, it's easier for the women just because men just flirt with everybody.
	Women, we're more reserved.
	We don't talk to everybody.
	This is why you're a virgin?
	Yeah.
	Oh, okay.
	And I'm still a bit.
	And it's parturist.
	Are you still a bit?
	Yeah.
	That must be it.
	You see that movie, Free Willy?
	It's a great movie.
	Alright, what about you?
	Who do you think has more pull in a dating game?
	An average man or an average woman?
	Probably an average woman.
	Why so?
	I think men don't need much.
	And they're very horny.
	And they think differently.
	They operate on a different frequency.
	They literally have different biology.
	And so when we engage with somebody...
	I look at you and I think, could you be my partner?
	Could you be my life partner?
	I'm not even going to date you.
	If I go on a date with you, I've already thought about long-term.
	Would you be a potential partner or mate?
	I think men, they don't think like that.
	I think that they just...
	So you think that because women think more long-term in their mate selection that it makes it harder for men to be, I guess, compete in a dating game?
	Because men's requirements aren't as...
	Yeah, so if we're talking about an average man, then yes.
	But if we're talking about a higher, I think if it was a higher caliber man, I think the man would get further.
	Because there's so many single women who say they don't want a husband and I'm single by choice.
	But I think that's Cap.
	I think that we all long and have a deep burning desire to have a husband and have a man to slut out to.
	And we are supposed to be monogamous.
	That's, yeah.
	Alright.
	Hold on.
	Are you going to take that?
	She's calling you out.
	Are you going to take that?
	She's calling you out.
	About what?
	We said earlier.
	I would love to have a husband.
	Are you being a single boy choice?
	I'm 30.
	Is everybody 30?
	Are you married?
	I was married.
	How old are you?
	How long were you married for?
	He's lying about his age.
	He's not 30.
	How old am I? I think.
	40.
	Oh man.
	But do you guys believe in marriage?
	I feel like marriage is a traditional construct.
	It's not like normal these days.
	You get what I'm saying?
	Like marriage was more normal in the 1960s.
	But don't you think that's why all the girls are lost and depressed and on OnlyFans trying to, like, get attention because they want a husband?
	Well, when I say attention, I guess.
	I know girls who aren't just working on OnlyFans.
	They enjoy The energy and the attention from men.
	But I think that's like a root from the desire to have one man.
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	That's just what I've picked up.
	Maybe I'm wrong.
	So who in here wants a husband?
	Real quick.
	God willing.
	So everyone, right?
	So this husband that you want, do you know what he wants?
	Oh yeah.
	What does he want?
	Well, he wants some good food.
	He wants me to...
	Okay, good food, what else?
	He wants to laugh every day.
	He wants somebody to be sweet and shit.
	He wants somebody to bring him peace and all of that.
	Fold his clothes.
	All of that good assistant type shit, you know?
	Oh no, a lot more.
	Assistant type shit, it encompasses a lot of shit.
	Somebody that he can trust, that could potentially be a good mother.
	Could raise his children.
	He wants somebody that'll fuck him every day.
	Someone who has good genes.
	Somebody, yeah.
	Do you know what your husband wants, generally?
	He better want me.
	I mean, everything she just said.
	She literally went down the list of what every girl needs to provide and what a husband wants.
	I want to hear it in your own words.
	Somebody that can nurture the home, somebody that can cook, somebody that can clean, somebody that can upkeep himself, somebody that can provide a mental and peace mind to a man and keep him focused, somebody that can as well as a man provide for the woman, but mostly like Somebody that can be slutty, too, in the bed.
	Like, everything.
	Like, from being to the sluttiest, to being the finest, to being the classiest, to being everything that a man wants.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Respectfully.
	Twitch.
	Oh, yeah.
	Guys, come on over to YouTube.
	I got a point that I got to make here in a little bit.
	But yeah, come on over to YouTube, guys.
	Fresh Fit on YouTube.
	And also, guys, get in the crypto course right now, man.
	It is live.
	Get in there.
	Stop being a fucking brokie.
	You guys can see here how delusional a lot of these girls are.
	So if you guys want to be able to command leadership in your relationship, you need to fucking get your money on point.
	Holy!
	Sorry, continue on with the thing, and then I'm going to come after.
	What does your husband want, generally?
	I don't have one, so when I get ready to find one, when I get ready to find a husband or get ready for that, then I'll figure it out.
	But I'm not really looking for a husband right now.
	I'm very career-oriented, so I want to...
	You said you're 30, right?
	Yes, 30.
	How long are you going to wait for this husband to appear?
	As long as I want.
	Is there a certain, is there like a cutoff date?
	Do you have eggs?
	Do I have what?
	Don't eggs go rotten.
	What's that going to do with the husband?
	She could freeze him.
	Could do whatever.
	What does it do with the husband?
	What if he doesn't want kids?
	What if he does?
	What if he does not?
	What if he does?
	And if he doesn't?
	And if he does?
	Then okay, we'll figure it out then.
	But what if he doesn't?
	I think we can ask a simpler question.
	Do you think you're more attractive to the men of your dreams right now?
	Who's the man of my dreams?
	I haven't met him or I'd be with him.
	Okay.
	Well, a guy that checks off a lot of check marks for women, do you think he would find you more attractive now at 30 or later on when you're ready to settle?
	When I'm ready.
	When I'm ready.
	So you think you're going to have higher dating value or you're going to be more attractive to the man in five years versus now?
	I'm going to be able to devote more time to the man that I'm looking for in five years versus now.
	Yes, because like I said, I'm very career oriented and I'm working on that.
	I don't have that time to focus on being with someone.
	Being with someone doesn't complete me.
	I don't need that.
	And that's okay.
	It's just not my focus right now.
	Now, do you think men in general or the man that you want will want or care about your career?
	Or your status or earning potential?
	Yeah, absolutely.
	And how he can elevate that.
	So you think men care about a woman's status and career?
	Status is in like what?
	Like is she...
	Where she stands as society, her ability to earn money.
	Like is she a teacher?
	Is she a stripper?
	I mean, they care.
	Of course they care.
	You think they care about career and income?
	I would hope that they care.
	Not that as much as I care, you know, like...
	Is the question not what you hope, do they?
	Yes.
	Yes, there are some that do, yes.
	Okay.
	Are you going to pay all the bills?
	Am I? Yeah.
	What do I look like?
	For my if I live alone, yeah, I pay them, yeah.
	But if I'm married to someone, then...
	So you're working all this time and energy into your career.
	To leave a legacy.
	Yes, to leave a legacy behind for my sister and my nephews.
	Do you want children?
	I personally don't really want children, no.
	I have epilepsy, so I don't really want to pass that down.
	But I have two amazing nephews.
	I have two boys, five and two, my sister's sons.
	I love them and I would leave everything to them.
	I'm not worried about looking for a man to have a kid with.
	I'm fine.
	I'm here to work on me and finding a man isn't I need that in life.
	I'll find them along the way, and that's great, but I don't need it.
	Wishful thinking.
	Yeah.
	Very wishful thinking.
	He doesn't need him.
	Got it.
	I would argue he doesn't need her in return either.
	That's fine.
	You're going to make money for yourself.
	In general, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but men really don't care about your socioeconomic status, your money, your career, or your title.
	Men don't care at all.
	Yeah.
	Which men?
	All men?
	100% in the world?
	I would say on a balance of probabilities, men typically don't care about a woman's career, and the man that you want that has the ability to actually take care of you, pay the bills, where you're in a situation where you're electively working, he definitely doesn't care about your career.
	That's not the man that I would want.
	Okay, so you want a 50-50 partnership, like you said before?
	You're not paying no bills.
	No one even said that.
	No one even said that.
	It's not about...
	50-50 pay of bills.
	I don't even know what the fuck you asked me.
	I think she's right though because the right men would find her.
	I'm not like, oh my god, husband, please find me.
	Make my life complete.
	I need a man to make me complete.
	I like to work.
	I like to create art.
	You're here creating what you like to create, art, right?
	Or a podcast.
	Maybe it's not art to you.
	Whatever the fuck it is to you.
	This is what you like to do.
	I want to work.
	I want to do what I like to do too.
	I don't have to be like, hey, husband.
	Help me work.
	Do you care about this?
	A man creating something or creating a legacy is a lot different than a woman doing it.
	Sure.
	Because the thing is that a woman takes a man's last name on.
	Why?
	Because she wants to be a part of his legacy.
	A man doesn't take a woman's last name on because he doesn't care about her legacy.
	That's my point.
	Women don't really create legacies.
	Men do.
	That's why women want to be a part of that.
	Maybe you haven't met women that create legacies.
	That's why women chase men that are better than themselves in general.
	I think it's more of like a mentor thing.
	I like men that do better than me because it pushes me to do more.
	Congratulations, that's you and every other female.
	Which proves my point.
	Do we want people to be able to teach us?
	That's every female, which is my point.
	Shouldn't we want that?
	You don't want to learn anything from your partner?
	If I'm the mentor, then I mean...
	Do you know everything?
	You can't be like, I can't learn anything from her.
	I mean, to be honest, women don't really understand masculine problems or the burden of performance for men.
	We have very different roles and life experiences.
	Of course.
	Which, I mean, I was going to kind of get to that here, because a lot of you guys said before...
	At the top of the show, I asked a couple of questions.
	I said, who is a prize in a healthy relationship, man or woman?
	Some of you said men, some of you said women.
	And then I asked, who is it harder to attract?
	A man attract a woman or a woman attract a man, right?
	Or whatever, the opposite.
	And then I also asked who gets further, an average woman in dating or an average man?
	And most of you guys said an average woman.
	And then most of you also said it's harder for a man to be attractive to women.
	So my thing is if most of you agree that it's harder for an average man and it's harder for men to be attractive and attract the opposite gender in general, how is it that the woman is the prize?
	Sorry.
	Can I interject?
	Yeah, sure, please.
	I thought it was on mute.
	How is Omar the prize when the man has to go through a lot more to become attractive in the first place to attract a woman?
	I think because having a wife and having a woman that will bear your children and raise those children and breastfeed those children and nurture them for years until while you are providing, I think that goes into play with the legacy that they're leaving as well.
	If you have a crazy broad that you knocked up, that is just...
	Your life is over.
	But I can make the argument that as a higher status man, with my stuff together, a new girl turns 18 every day.
	Because the thing you just mentioned, you basically boiled down the female's role to bearing a child and bringing them to, you know, to term, which a young, attractive girl who's an impressionable that isn't a hoe that hasn't been through a lot of life experiences can provide.
	I think it's more so a factor of, like, if you find a really great girl that, like, takes care of herself and she supports you and she's quiet, she doesn't embarrass you, she, like, listens to you, she takes care of your home, like, she takes care of your children, like, she does everything that she's supposed to be doing in her role as a wife.
	Let me ask you a question.
	All these traits that you just mentioned, being submissive, quiet, not annoying, etc.
	What's easier to find?
	That or a guy that is a leader, competent, attractive, enough for you, that checks all the other check marks that you want, confidence, ambition, good looking, in shape.
	Who?
	Today.
	Who has to bring?
	Yeah.
	What's harder to find?
	Okay, so I feel like...
	Oh, here we go.
	No, no, no, no.
	I feel like women today are very masculine.
	And I feel like they're very masculine because there is a lot of men nowadays that are very feminine.
	I was just going to say that, please.
	They're masculine in the United States, but men have the ability to go other places.
	Well, yes, of course.
	So realistically speaking, what's more common?
	The woman you described or the man I described?
	The woman I described for sure.
	Okay, so then who is the prize for real then?
	There you go.
	And here's another thing too, since some of you guys were saying, oh, numbers, numbers, numbers.
	So I wrote a whole book about this, Why Women Deserve Less, where I go over these numbers, but I'll just summarize it real quick so that we don't go over the entire book.
	So right now, right, one in three men, because you guys were saying, oh yeah, an average man can get further.
	The reality is that one in three men right now is either a virgin or hasn't had sex in a year.
	Have any of you not had sex in a year?
	Involuntarily?
	Yes.
	No, you voluntarily are choosing to not have sex.
	If I had my choice, I wouldn't be.
	Exactly.
	If I had consistent dick, that was safe.
	But you can go get laid any second, right?
	But the quality of the lay is not...
	But the point is that it's voluntary.
	Correct.
	My argument with the men is that a lot of times it's involuntary.
	Okay.
	Yeah, they have no choice.
	Can I go to the bathroom?
	I think she's going.
	Let's see here.
	I'll wait until she comes back so we can make our points here.
	Some chats?
	Bad timing, Chris.
	Alright.
	Yeah, I'll hit some of these chats real quick.
	And guys, do me a favor.
	We've got 15,000 of y'all in here.
	Do me a favor.
	Like the video.
	Subscribe to the channel if you haven't already.
	Ladies, what's the cheapest thing a man can buy for you that would make you happy?
	It's a thought that counts.
	That's pretty good.
	A bottle of water.
	So, we'll start here.
	For you.
	What's the cheapest thing a man can buy for me?
	To make you happy.
	Moe can buy me a bottle of water.
	I'll be happy.
	Is it somebody I'm seeing?
	Or just like an average person?
	Pay attention to the soul.
	A meal?
	Okay, food.
	What about you?
	I would say an experience, like going to the beach or to the library or teaching me something.
	Just an experience that I'll remember.
	The beach?
	Something like that.
	Got it.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	Definitely food.
	Food?
	100%.
	Alright.
	We can have a conversation while we're having a meal.
	Is that the key to your heart?
	Good food?
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Anyone that knows me knows you can buy me a plant and I like that more than a Rolex or Birkin.
	I want plants.
	Wow.
	Simple.
	What about you?
	I love plants.
	Food or flowers?
	Food or flowers.
	Which is more priority for you?
	Isn't that crazy that we're just going to gloss over the fact that she said, guys, buy me Birkins and Rolexes and I prefer plants?
	I didn't say that.
	No one has ever bought me a Rolex or Birkin.
	Go ahead.
	Never?
	No.
	So why would you compare getting a plant to that?
	I know it would make me more excited.
	Like, I really truly like plants.
	Anyone that knows me on social media.
	I mean, typically when people bring things up, they've either experienced it or had the opportunity to experience it.
	Have you been offered a Rolex or a Birkin before?
	Because I already know what I like.
	I don't really care about a watch or a handbag.
	I care about it.
	Has someone offered that to you before for you to bring that up?
	No, but I wouldn't care.
	I'm just telling you what I like.
	Am I allowed to like what I like?
	No, it's not that.
	It's just very interesting that you would bring those specific things up.
	It's a cheap thing.
	And I said, I really like plants.
	I have plant pages.
	If you guys follow me on Instagram.
	What's your favorite plant?
	My favorite plant is the Monstera.
	What's that?
	What is that?
	It's a plant.
	It's a beautiful plant.
	Okay.
	Plant talk.
	Yeah.
	Fantastic.
	So, welcome back.
	Cheapest gift.
	For you, cheapest gift possible that I can give you to make you happy?
	Blunt wrap.
	Okay.
	To the point.
	What about you?
	What about you?
	No, I said food and flowers.
	Oh, food and flowers.
	Okay.
	Cheapest gift.
	Preferably food.
	Yeah, I'm pretty simple.
	Probably something to eat.
	Just food?
	Yeah.
	And for you?
	Something you can't buy, but I say it is time.
	But like, something funny you should mention, something at a gas station, like if you're like, oh, what do you want something to drink?
	A Celsius or a water or whatever it is, something minimum that you're like, oh, are you thirsty or something?
	Something minimum like that.
	Is it the thought that counts?
	You know what's cheap that would make me really happy?
	You know when women are always like, man, if they're gonna go run inside and grab themselves something, they're always like, do you want something?
	And every time they say, no, I'm okay!
	But they really do want something, so if the man brings them something, then I know you want something.
	You know what I do?
	I'm like, I know you want water, so I'll bring water.
	Simple.
	Exactly.
	You can't go wrong.
	I think an important caveat to this is that the girl has to like the guy for them to even accept these cheap gifts from the guy.
	That is very true.
	In the first place.
	I think that's a very, very important distinction.
	I accept all plans.
	I don't have to like you.
	You'll take it, but it won't mean shit though.
	Yeah, it won't have any real value.
	But if I don't like someone, I'm not going to go sit and eat food with them.
	You can Uber.
	You might not, but other girls will.
	Free for it?
	Oh yeah.
	It's a business.
	Or it's an expensive spot or some shit like that.
	It's an experience.
	Where's the nicest place you can make a reservation?
	Okay.
	What's the next one?
	What else?
	Cam two times.
	Xena, you look at my man.
	Pause.
	Big Mo with that.
	That's there again.
	I'll huff and puff and I'll blow your eyes away and you'll have to use echolocation.
	Ecolocation.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	David K goes, since most women can't get many analogies, I suggest using the general statement that human beings have two legs.
	How is it safer to assume you'll meet women with two legs and hope and pray you meet one with only one?
	Bro, you just made it even harder.
	What?
	Yeah.
	Alright, so ladies, going back to before, like I said, the general conversation today was who is the prize in a relationship, man or woman?
	Most of you said that average women have more pull in the dating marketplace than men do.
	Most of you guys said that men have a harder time with being attractive to women.
	And actually, a good amount of you guys actually said that men are the prize in relationships.
	And my argument is based on some of these statistics, right?
	That one in three men are virgins or haven't had sex in a year, which I guarantee none of you have that problem.
	Women swipe right on only about 5% of men on Tinder.
	Women find 80 plus percent of men is unattractive on dating apps.
	And women initiate 70-80% of the divorces.
	I'd argue that it's way harder for men to be attracted to the opposite gender and even keep a girl in some states, situations.
	So I think if a relationship is happy in general and the girl's in a good position with the guy, More than likely, the guy is the prize in a relationship because he has the leverage.
	I'm a genuine believer and I'm open to suffer discussion for y'all, but I think the woman has to like the man more than the man likes the woman for the relationship to be happy.
	In other words, the woman has to feel like she's getting a prize and or a deal that she can't necessarily replace the guy with.
	Versus on the other hand, when a woman thinks that she could do better, she typically enacts on that and cheats and talks to other men, etc.
	I'll open it up to you guys if you disagree, but I think men are the prize in general in relationships that are fruitful.
	I agree.
	I think it just really depends on the quality, but yeah, for the most part, the quality person, obviously, if a dude has a girl that's just, like I said, checks everything that he wants, that of course, right?
	My argument is that more women will check the boxes than a man will check for women, if that makes sense.
	So in other words, it's easier to find a replacement female than it is to find a replacement male.
	That's attractive.
	Because women's requirements are far harder to reach.
	Versus men's requirements are very low.
	Be attractive, not a pain in the ass, not a hoe.
	You'll probably be able to lock down a millionaire.
	But on the other hand, for a woman that's attractive, she's going to want to be tall, competent, confident, etc.
	I mean, let's be brutally honest here.
	I have some pretty straightforward questions here during this podcast, and a lot of you had issues answering them or didn't understand logic.
	So there's no real burning performance on women to be competent or intelligent either, with all due respect.
	But why?
	Women are able to get by on their looks.
	So women can afford to be stupid.
	And somebody will still date you.
	And someone will still take you seriously.
	Versus, if I had that level of confidence, I'd be struggling.
	Yeah.
	Women have to care more, for sure.
	Because...
	I think the men have to care more.
	I don't think so at all, because, especially when it comes to, like, a sexual standpoint in a relationship, like, if you're actually in a committed relationship, like, as a woman with a man...
	Women cheat a lot, right?
	But they cheat because they don't actually love the man and they don't actually care.
	They're going to run around and do what they want to do because they don't care.
	But if you actually care about a man, you have tunnel vision for that man, period.
	Other men don't exist.
	They're not attractive.
	You don't hear them when they talk to you.
	You don't see them when you're out and about.
	They just don't exist.
	That is true.
	Men's different.
	So, ladies, quick question, because some of you said women are the prize.
	You, you, you, yeah, you three, I think, said that.
	Me?
	Yeah, that's what I have.
	Actually, no.
	Hold on.
	My bad.
	It was only three.
	So, one, two.
	I said women, but I changed my answer.
	You changed your answer.
	Okay, I was going to say, for the ladies, I said women before.
	You change your mind now, based off what I said?
	I changed my mind back in the conversation when she mentioned the last thing regarding the...
	The last comment that you made, I gave it to her because it's very true.
	It's very true.
	Men are the prize.
	You gave it to her, but you still said women.
	No, but I was the first one to answer.
	Yeah, she said women originally.
	Yeah, we ran around the table.
	So you changed your mind.
	You think men are the prize now?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	Because before you said it's because women are caring, hold up their finances, take care of the home.
	100%.
	Women have more emotional control, which I would disagree that women have more emotional control.
	It depends on what you've been through and everybody's stage of life.
	But once again, I changed my mind.
	Well, the reason why men are more emotionally controlled is because men are deductive problem solvers, right?
	If you look at the world around us, it was created and built by men, not women.
	Men are more logically sound.
	I mean, when I gave logic before, some of you guys had issues with tracking it, and it's not because you guys are stupid or something like that.
	It's just that women don't have the same level of competence with following logic and ration that men do.
	Women are very emotional.
	If you guys have noticed, a lot of you guys have given me any emotional answers.
	Not really, you know, logically sound answers, especially her in the corner.
	Which is a great experiment, right?
	To see the difference between how men interpret information versus how women interpret information.
	When I give factual data, etc., she responds with an emotional reaction.
	Oh, I think it's 50-50.
	Well, realistically speaking, nothing in the world is 50-50.
	But women give emotional reactions a lot of times, and that's an emotional reaction.
	And then before with you, right, I was explaining to you that top tier, you know, men have a majority of the women, which by default means that men, there being more women is null and void.
	Because if there's more women, it doesn't matter because all the women are chasing the top tier guys.
	So does it really matter that there's more women out there?
	I would say the average man is virtually invisible to an average woman.
	An average woman gets more attention on Instagram than a celebrity male.
	I don't know if you guys know that.
	That's crazy, by the way.
	Yeah, there was a study done on messages on dating apps and social media, and they found that women that were average or below average had more messages than the top 1% of men.
	See, that would help me answer my question if I knew the statistics.
	I mean...
	I'm just saying.
	I said that before, though.
	Well, I kind of wanted to see where you stood first, and then what your general ideology on it was.
	But yeah, the reality is that an average woman has way more pull.
	I wasn't trying to argue.
	I was just trying to say that.
	Well, you tried to argue and lost, but that's fine.
	I would say it's kind of like a status thing in a way, just because there's really three things that people can be.
	They can be above average, they can be average, and then below average.
	So for a person that's below average, the person that's above average is the prize.
	Compared to them, more to, you know.
	Yeah.
	But the point is that average women have above average standards.
	If you take a girl that's a five, right?
	Very average.
	Plain Jane, etc.
	She's going to demand a man to be at least a six or a seven or an eight.
	That's a good thing.
	Because women date up.
	But I know.
	I'm not saying it's a bad thing.
	That's how we manifest.
	Because even if we can't meet, like, the quota, we could, like, reach something close to that.
	I'm not shaming women for having a standard above their own.
	I'm simply saying that most women want a man that's better than them.
	So what happens is all average women want above average men.
	What does that lead to average men?
	With no women.
	I would say it motivates them to become better than average.
	Not really.
	We have more single men than ever before.
	More guys who are just watching porn and whacking off.
	I used to date somebody that was not good looking at all.
	But it wasn't for his looks.
	It was mostly for how he treated me.
	Personality?
	Yeah.
	So you had charisma and charm?
	Yeah, I guess also because we were friends before, and it just happened organically, because for me, it would always be based on looks more.
	So he was handsome, too?
	No.
	It's just how he made you feel?
	Yeah.
	Well, you just said it was based on looks, but now you're saying he's not good looking.
	No, I'm saying he wasn't good looking.
	For me, it was always about looks, but with him, it wasn't.
	Okay.
	So he had charisma and charm.
	Yeah.
	That still takes personal development to do.
	Yeah.
	So what I'm trying to argue here is that men have to bring something to the table.
	Women don't.
	Women can just exist.
	I mean, you said it yourself.
	Flutter your eyes and a guy will come up to you, right?
	So that's why I argue that if in a happy relationship nine out of ten times, the man is surprised because the woman doesn't feel like she can replace him.
	In a healthy relationship, the man has the leverage, not the other way around.
	I mean, some of you guys alluded to that before, right?
	Some of you guys that are a little bit older or maybe higher earners, you guys know the struggle of finding a man at your level, right?
	Especially living in Miami.
	Yep.
	And here's the other part that sucks, right?
	For you older ladies, right?
	You're 38, you're 30.
	You said that you want to be super successful with your production company.
	You do realize as you make more money and become more successful, it's going to be harder for you to find a husband, right?
	Yeah.
	If you think so, yes.
	Maybe the type of man that you're, the audience that you have here, maybe, yeah, but...
	It's not that I think so.
	It's literally the numbers.
	The only men that want to date a woman that has more money than them is a bum.
	That's true.
	Someone said it.
	That's true.
	I mean, like, realistically speaking, let's say you earn $100,000 a year, right?
	Let's say with your production company.
	Now, only about maybe 5% to 10% of men are suitable candidates for you.
	Possibly, yeah.
	I mean, but it's not based on that.
	Like, I don't know.
	Again, you're bringing all this up.
	I'm not out here looking for a candidate right now.
	It's just not my focus.
	No, and that's fine.
	That's fine.
	But what I'm saying is that when you do decide to find a man, it's going to be even harder for you because you're going to make more money and you're going to be older.
	And the same men at your level that make the same kind of money you do and are your age, they're going to want girls that are younger.
	That's fine.
	They can go for the younger ones.
	So are you content with the statistical...
	I guess, situation where you're probably going to end up single and childless and have a family.
	Are you okay with that?
	You're going to be alone.
	In your eyes, I'll be alone.
	In my eyes, yeah, I'm a dog.
	No, I mean, you'll have to buy a dog.
	I have one.
	Okay, well, he'll stick around.
	I guess he'll be the husband.
	But what I'm saying is that as women get older and earn more money, their chances of finding a man drop down with it.
	Uh, weaker men, yeah.
	They can't handle a woman that has money, yeah.
	They're like, oh god, no.
	Not someone that has money.
	I can't handle it.
	Well, here's the thing.
	Why should a man have to handle a woman?
	I don't know.
	You're the one asking me.
	You just used that phrase yourself.
	I'm asking you, why should a man have to handle a woman, as you would say?
	Men don't want to handle a woman.
	I think men should handle a woman.
	You think they should handle a woman?
	Why?
	Because, like, if the man's a leader, he would know how to, like, rule the relationship.
	So you think a man should be in control?
	Most definitely.
	But women in other ways...
	Like, we could plan, you know, agendas and things of that nature.
	But when it comes to, like, making money and stuff or, like, making plans, that should be a man's thing.
	Who thinks men should handle women?
	Yeah, who agrees with that sentiment?
	You agree?
	Who else agrees with that?
	You're the one that brought her up.
	How does it sound for a woman to handle a man?
	Like, I'm going to handle you.
	That doesn't even make sense.
	Your man should not handle you.
	Maybe that came out wrong when I said it.
	I don't think that's what I meant.
	That's what you said.
	What did I say?
	How did it come out?
	What did I say?
	Wow, I have to repeat what you said yourself to you.
	Please, please do.
	Are you not in control?
	Do you not know what you say?
	I'm just asking, how did I say it back?
	You quite literally said, I make money.
	I mean, I can't handle that.
	That's what you said, basically.
	Summarize.
	No, I didn't say a man can't handle that.
	Holy, wow.
	That if there's a man with a certain mindset, like, that thinks...
	I don't know why a man would be like, oh, no.
	It might hurt his ego.
	This woman makes money.
	I can't...
	Handle her is what you're basically saying.
	Okay, I didn't mean handle.
	A higher-earning woman, why should a man have to...
	You say, he can't handle me.
	He can't.
	Maybe he feels he can't be equal, so maybe he wants to go for someone that might make less money.
	What if I told you a guy that is superior to him and makes more money is probably still going to not want to handle you, as you would say, because why should a man have to handle a woman when he's already got to go out into the world and handle life?
	Again, handle could have been the wrong term, clearly.
	That's why I said, wait, what did I say?
	Because I did not mean for it to come out that way, so...
	Are you not aware of what you're saying and the statements that you're making?
	But wouldn't a woman of status have...
	This is what I'm trying to say.
	No offense, right?
	I'm going to be brutally honest here.
	Please do.
	You're fairly incompetent.
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	I mean, you make statements and don't even remember what you're saying and can't even recall little data.
	I have to go ahead and re-say back to you what you said and then summarize it for you when it was what you said.
	But you're able to be so because you're a female.
	If I was a guy with this level of incompetence, I'd be struggling through earth.
	I wouldn't be able to make it.
	Like, I would literally get no dates, no food, I'd be struggling.
	But you're able to get by because you're a female.
	And I'm sure there's plenty of guys that'll line up to date you even though you're 30 and don't even remember what you said 10 seconds ago.
	But women are able to get by.
	This is my point.
	So who really is the prize?
	I think the men are.
	Women can make it through life and be fairly retarded and still make it.
	If they're pretty enough.
	If this doesn't prove female privilege and entitlement in modern day society, I don't know what does.
	You gotta bat your eyes.
	Incredible.
	Ladies, be honest though, you want to date a guy that's dumb?
	You don't want to.
	What's the point?
	Men of the price.
	Did anybody else have anything to say?
	No?
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Anyway, going back to what I was saying about the handling thing, because you were saying men should handle women.
	I disagree with that sentiment, and the reason why is because why should a man have to handle a woman who's already got to go out into the world and handle the world?
	So we have to handle ourselves.
	Absolutely.
	Well, yeah.
	Life is significantly harder for men than it is for women.
	So, for men, you already have to go out and fight for everything you get.
	Last thing you want to do is fight your girl and handle your girl.
	But women were very diplomatic.
	Men are, like, they go to war.
	Women are more so, like...
	We're about reasoning when it comes to finding solutions to problems.
	I disagree.
	Women are far less reasoned than men are.
	So can I ask you a question?
	If you have a husband, do you want him to take care of you?
	Of course.
	Do you want him to pay for all the bills?
	Do you want him to handle everything outside of the house?
	Well, I can handle the emotional aspect of things.
	In other words, nothing.
	So, why, if he's handling everything outside of the house to provide for you, why would he want to come home and handle you arguing with him and nagging him and things like that?
	Because that's the point that they're making about a man.
	Not having to handle a woman.
	Because they don't want that.
	Real quick, higher earning women typically tend to be more argumentative, less agreeable, more masculine, more dominant, more competitive.
	They're more prone to be, you know, a pain in the ass.
	So it's not that higher earning women were intimidated because, or we weren't scared to handle you.
	It's just that higher earning women are annoying, to be honest with you.
	I've dated plenty of them.
	They're annoying as fuck.
	I don't care how much money you make.
	I don't care about your career.
	It doesn't benefit me.
	You're not paying for the date anyway.
	It doesn't matter how much money a woman makes.
	You ain't paying for a first date.
	A man is.
	So it's useless to have a woman that makes a lot of money a lot of the times, quite frankly.
	From the practical standpoint.
	Is it because you think their egos are too high?
	The females?
	Yeah.
	What's your specific question?
	Is it that they don't want to pay on a date because of their egos, or is it because they don't want to comply because of their egos?
	Because they think that they're probably a lot more financially better than the man.
	Well, women that make a lot of money a lot of times don't want to date a man that makes less than themselves.
	Typically, right?
	You're a higher earner.
	You lived in New York City.
	I'm sure you probably dated a bum here or there.
	How was that experience?
	Miserable?
	I'm single still.
	So women in general typically don't do well with guys that make less than them.
	I dated somebody.
	We almost made the same amount of money.
	I made a little bit more when I was a nurse and he worked at New York Sports Club.
	He did corporate sales, but because I made a little bit more money than him and I worked less hours, it just caused the relationship to just crumble.
	So did you guys talk about your money status?
	Because I feel like money shouldn't be a talk in relationships.
	It has to be.
	So what should be then?
	We lived together.
	We paid bills together.
	Well, she used a keyword.
	She said should.
	I mean, cool.
	I get it.
	This shouldn't be a thing.
	But let's be honest here.
	Women care a lot about a man's ability to provide.
	If anything, I would say it's a big deciding factor in whether a woman gets with a man or not, is his earning capacity.
	And if it's not his earning capacity, it's his confidence capacity, which directly ties to earning potential in the future.
	That's why I've always said this.
	People steal my quote, but I say this all the time.
	I think...
	All women are gold diggers.
	Some are just better at hiding the shovel.
	What I mean by this is some girls are able to dress it up and say, oh, I just want a guy with ambition.
	I just want a guy that's confident.
	I just want a smart guy.
	I just want a guy that has these traits that are indicative of a higher earner.
	They won't say straight up, I want a guy that makes a lot of money.
	Some girls don't give a fuck and say that shit.
	So they'll put the shovel out there, but a lot of girls are able to hide it better.
	Or I want a guy on my level.
	Well, she's a high earner.
	By her saying, I want a guy on my level, what's she saying?
	I want a guy that's a high earner too.
	I'm sure there's apps for that.
	Like...
	What?
	High status dating apps.
	There is.
	Yeah, there is.
	But it's always the man being high status and the woman being a nobody.
	AKA sugar babies.
	So what are some things that you find annoying in those type of women?
	What do you mean?
	You mean like successful women or women that are annoying in general?
	In your dating experience, when you dated a girl that was really rich compared to a girl not so much, what pissed you off?
	Well, there's a difference.
	If a girl comes from a rich family, that's actually good.
	Yeah, I've done like I really like girls that come from money because their father a lot of times was the provider and he was in the household, etc.
	And there's a night and day difference between a girl that has a father in her life and doesn't.
	And especially if that father was a provider.
	So that's good.
	But girls that are like entrepreneurs or girls that are higher earning girls that work in law enforcement, girls that are doctors, lawyers, etc.
	I mean, they're just annoying, to be honest with you.
	Like, I mean, I just typically, nine out of ten times, I'll go on a date with them, I'll have sex with them, but I won't take them seriously because they just have certain characteristics that are annoying that I can't see myself with all the time.
	They're more argumentative, they're competitive, they're focused on their career instead of, you know, helping me out, which is cool, I get it, right?
	They gotta focus on their shit, but that's not That's not what I want.
	That's not what most men want in general.
	Or they're busy all the time and shit.
	I'm not trying to date myself.
	Do you want children, Myron?
	Yeah, of course, in the future.
	And a girl that makes a lot of money, a lot of times she might not want to have kids sometimes.
	I think for a guy that meets a woman with a career, you're entering her frame in a sense because that's her priority.
	Versus if you're a man of value, you want her to enter your frame as a man.
	So if she's always busy with her work, It's kind of useless.
	Let's say you went out with a guy and he was really handsome and he gets pedicures with you every week.
	Would you care?
	Well, they could compliment each other in business.
	Okay.
	Let's say you had a really handsome boyfriend and he went out with you for pedicures and he had really nice sneakers and shit like that.
	Would you realistically care long-term?
	Yeah.
	Why wouldn't I? He didn't pay your bills or take care of you or anything.
	Absolutely not.
	Would you care?
	Absolutely not.
	I'm already a woman of status.
	I know I'm not, but I said if I was, that part wouldn't matter.
	The relationship would matter.
	The money wouldn't matter.
	The money would matter because you'd have to match you.
	Okay.
	So it does absolutely matter.
	The point I'm trying to make is that it's very simple.
	Just like a guy that's very attractive, that's handsome, that gets pedicures, like no one cares.
	That's how men feel about women with a career.
	Like a guy that gets pedicures with you doesn't really benefit you.
	Like, cool, he's handsome.
	All right.
	But it doesn't benefit you.
	Just like a woman that has a lot of money doesn't benefit me.
	I still got to pay for the dates.
	Yep.
	Right?
	The woman still has to wear makeup and look hot.
	So what does it benefit her that the guy's handsome?
	Not much.
	Fantastic.
	Does that make sense?
	Yes.
	Cool.
	This is a great panel.
	Awesome panel, bro.
	Awesome panel.
	A lot of charisma.
	You're welcome.
	That was my point again.
	Girls don't gotta have charisma.
	Good job, Chris.
	You want a quiet woman, right?
	You want women to be quiet.
	Oh, but you're not quiet.
	Stop trying to cap.
	No, you ain't quiet.
	Outside of here?
	What does that mean?
	Come on.
	I don't know what that means.
	I'm very submissive to a man.
	I love how I'm submissive.
	No, it's the truth.
	But it shouldn't be easy to submit to a man.
	It shouldn't be.
	I want it to be easy to submit to a man.
	It's gotta be the right man.
	You can't just give your energy out to anybody.
	I don't think an alpha man would appreciate a woman just submitting left to right.
	No, I love submitting to a man.
	I think that's exactly what I love.
	I love that for you.
	Hold on.
	Do you think alpha men Huh?
	Do you date alpha men?
	Yeah, I mean, sure.
	I'm not against it.
	What do they want from women?
	Do you know?
	I have no idea.
	Alright, next.
	Okay.
	Blackest Panther goes, ladies, a man sleeping around is like you putting your finger in a stranger's mouth.
	A woman sleeping around is like having a stranger put their finger in your mouth.
	Which one sounds worse and more emotionally traumatizing?
	Okay.
	Ew.
	Ew.
	Okay.
	That's what you did there.
	Vincent Vega.
	Hope Frank Castle shows up tonight.
	I wonder who will get the pimp hand.
	I don't think.
	Hopefully he doesn't have to show up.
	I'm trying to be calm here.
	Black Panther again.
	Sleeping with a man on the first day is not what makes you a hoe.
	Moving on without getting attached is what makes you a hoe.
	If you can sleep with a man without becoming attached to him, you are a hoe.
	You lost your pair bonding.
	Anyone agree or disagree with that sentiment?
	Wait, can you say it one more time?
	Because I didn't know we were going to answer it.
	He's saying sleeping with a guy doesn't necessarily...
	Sleeping with a guy quickly doesn't make you a hoe.
	Sleeping with a guy quickly and then moving on to another guy is what makes you a hoe.
	I agree.
	I agree.
	Okay.
	Demon time, Mo.
	Ladies, what are you manifesting in 2023?
	I don't care about the truth, only your truth.
	So let's hear it, Queen.
	Tell us what a strong, independent queen like you is going to accomplish in 2023.
	Go around the panel, Myron.
	Alright, we're going to do this?
	Wait.
	Alright, what are you going to accomplish in 2023?
	No, what are you going to manifest?
	What am I going to manifest?
	Tell us what you're going to manifest.
	This is your year.
	Queen, you got this.
	Where's the crown?
	Pass around the crown.
	I am manifesting opening my own company for Event Company.
	I am manifesting more self-development mentally, emotionally, and physically.
	And I am manifesting a lot of traveling this year.
	By yourself?
	Hell yeah.
	No man?
	No.
	I mean, if the right one comes along and wants to tag along with me, he's more than welcome to.
	With friends?
	He ain't tagging along.
	He's gonna have to pay if he comes up.
	I know how to compromise.
	Wait, you paid for the ultra before?
	Ask Anna.
	She's my best friend.
	She knows.
	Where's that guy know?
	We still talk.
	We're friends.
	No, I haven't fucked him in a while.
	And he still talks to you?
	I'm nice to everybody.
	He's lurking.
	Of course, they all are.
	But it doesn't mean that, you know, I'm going to take you on trips again.
	But if he offered you a trip, you'd go?
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	Take the free trip.
	I want to go on a trip with somebody I like.
	Take the free trip.
	Oh, you don't like it anymore?
	No.
	We're not.
	Fair enough.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What are you manifesting, UK? Well, I'm not manifesting anything, honestly.
	I'm just making a fuckload of music.
	It takes a long time.
	I mix music on the computer.
	That's pretty much what the fuck I'm doing.
	What about you?
	What are you manifesting?
	Nothing but music.
	What are you manifesting?
	I'm manifesting my commercial location to work out for me.
	You got it.
	What about you, Sarah?
	I'm manifesting my husband.
	My lease is up in November and I would hope someone moves me in by November.
	Manifesting a husband.
	What about you?
	What are you manifesting?
	I would love to be in a relationship so I'm manifesting that.
	What happened to your last one?
	My last one?
	I'm single now.
	I was dating somebody.
	She had one last time she was here?
	I was seeing somebody.
	It just kind of fizzled with the distance and stuff.
	Translation, he broke up with her.
	No.
	You broke up with him?
	We just stopped talking.
	Like, it wasn't...
	Okay, he broke up with her.
	We were dating and it didn't work out.
	It was long distance.
	He lived in Miami.
	Someone always ends the relationship, though.
	It didn't really end.
	If it's Miami, he definitely broke up with her.
	This nigga, bro.
	You can't even say what...
	Let me ask you this.
	At 38 years old and being in OnlyFans, being in the sex industry, do you think you have to work harder to find a man now than ever before?
	Do I have to work harder?
	They would come to her.
	To be in a relationship.
	I just don't.
	Honestly, like you said, I know a lot of men don't want to date a female in the sex industry and what I do.
	So I wouldn't say I have to work harder at a relationship.
	I just think that there's less opportunity for me to be in a relationship.
	I would have to work harder to find somebody kind of like you attract what you are.
	So maybe somebody in the same industry as me.
	And that's like harder to find.
	Because there's a lot more females in the OnlyFans industry that are content creators, but I might be able to find somebody in the industry that's a content creator that's a guy that we can create content together and be in the same industry, but that is very hard.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So you don't think that you have to just maybe work harder to get a guy, maybe even quit that industry?
	I would have to, yeah, I would have to quit that industry or go back to my old being a nurse.
	Would you be willing to do that to find the guy?
	If I found a man that I was in love with and happy and he was going to provide me and support for me, I would quit to be in a relationship if I felt secure and safe.
	I mean, I have enough money saved and I have my future.
	I have a pension.
	I was a nurse for a really long time.
	I could always go back to being a nurse.
	It's not like I have to do OnlyFans.
	I want to do OnlyFans to make more money.
	Why not go back and open up your pool of suitable men that would take you seriously?
	Because I don't want to work as hard.
	Being a nurse is a lot of...
	It's a joke to everybody.
	I would hand people their dying child.
	I was a neonatal intensive care nurse.
	So I would rather make more money.
	I would rather not go home.
	I worry if I killed somebody's child with a medication error.
	I'd rather have this stress of finding a man than the stress of being a nurse and being that stressed.
	I don't think people understand this stress.
	Would you get a different type of job and maybe pursue a different career?
	As a nurse, you mean?
	No.
	Like a different career or what?
	Anything other than OnlyFans.
	There's a lot of things I could do.
	But honestly, I like the freedom it gives me.
	I like traveling.
	I like the money it gives me.
	I do like it.
	So if it's just because...
	If you ask me if I'd rather be in a relationship or I'd rather be where I am right now...
	How I live my lifestyle, I probably would just rather stay single and do what I do now.
	Because there's no shortage of sex.
	What do I have to be in a relationship?
	So you'd be okay without a husband?
	I would be okay without it.
	If I want to manifest, you asked me, the perfect...
	I'm allowed to manifest a relationship.
	Something that I would love.
	So you're okay with just having casual sex long term and not getting a guy?
	Because you said sex is always there.
	But I would argue that women don't chase that.
	They chase relationships.
	Yeah, I'm saying I would love to find somebody that is...
	I don't mind being on OnlyFans.
	I love it.
	I would love to have a guy where we could date and we could fuck live on OnlyFans, create content together, be freaks, make a bunch of money together.
	That's a vibe for me.
	And I know that's rare and a lot of people understand that, but there are people that are in the adult industry or porn stars that actually meet somebody in their own industry and they're happy and they're in love and they have a healthy relationship and they don't do that anymore or retire from it.
	I haven't So you think that would be the move?
	See Riley Reid get married and that was a fucking dumpster fire.
	Disaster.
	But you don't understand that OnlyFind's dynamic and you don't understand there are a lot of people that are married like I have friends I know that are in the industry that maybe their husband and then they create this whole entire like He's a photographer.
	They have a really dope dynamic.
	And I see that in some girls with the OnlyFans industry.
	It's not just everyone's on here.
	Yeah, that guy a lot of the time is sexless and the girl's fucking a random other guy and then she comes home and she's too tired to give him sex.
	One of our good friends was a porn star.
	Oh, they're making content together on OnlyFans.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Oh, did they get together and then make the porn after the fact?
	She wasn't already an established porn star.
	That's different.
	That's much different.
	Not everyone on OnlyFans is an established porn star in the porn industry.
	The OnlyFans industry kind of meshed porn and OnlyFans together.
	I understand that, but what I'm asking you is it's much different where a couple's in a relationship and then decide to make OnlyFans content together, but they were in a relationship prior versus a girl who's already a creator, and then she's finding a guy that is also a creator or in the industry.
	That's way different.
	Because if the guy was with her, that girl better stick with that guy because she's fucked after that.
	But I'm saying with a girl, she's already a creator.
	It's going to be substantially harder for her to find a guy as a creator because there's going to be always videos out there of her having sex and or showing her body out to other guys.
	Yeah, like, I'm not sitting here saying, there's a lot of girls on OnlyFans that don't sell, like, sex content or, like, masturbation because I didn't sell a nude photo until I left my nursing job out of respect for my career.
	And then I was like, you know what?
	YOLO. It's COVID. YOLO. You know, I was living paycheck.
	Like you said, I know you laughed last time.
	I was living paycheck to paycheck as a nurse, like, stressed out.
	So I said, you know what?
	I'm taking this opportunity.
	Well, you were making six figures a year.
	I was making about $100K a year.
	But we can go through my finances of how that translates into New York City with, like, My rent, almost two grand.
	It's nothing.
	And then my car payment, having a decent car, having everything on myself.
	Most workers don't even have cars.
	I got rid of my car after a while.
	But I had a car, you know.
	But it was literally two weeks of work.
	I remember working two weeks of work just to pay for my rent and my car.
	And then I said, I couldn't go on vacations.
	I can't buy myself nice things like I'm working overtime.
	I'm stressed out at a job.
	And it was just, you know, either let me stay in this job in this situation just because, oh my God, I might find a man that wants to date me 10 years down the road.
	I didn't care.
	I made a decision for myself to put myself in a better situation and I'll be stressed and I'm happy and healthier and happier.
	It's not for everybody.
	Honestly, I'm happier today.
	Can't you just do OnlyFans on the side so you have two sorts of incomes?
	I don't think that's possible.
	I did that for a long time.
	But it wasn't the same thing as it is now.
	It was a mainstream.
	You couldn't make $20,000, $30,000.
	It was just beginning in the beginning.
	She made a choice.
	I owe my choice.
	You're going to have to be content with the fact that more than likely you're probably going to die single.
	I might.
	There's a high likelihood.
	Because the thing is that what you've basically done, right?
	You're 38 years old.
	You make a good amount of money.
	You've outpriced yourself for what you give a man in return.
	A man that makes the kind of money that you make nowadays is typically going to want to get with a girl that's younger, is not only fans, doesn't have a past, doesn't have certain traumas, etc.
	I completely get it.
	You've probably made lifestyle choices and changes that you're not willing to concede with to a man anymore.
	You know what I mean?
	And that's fine.
	But I think once women understand that once you reach a certain age or you reach a certain lifestyle or reach a certain income bracket, it's going to be very difficult for you to go backwards.
	And a guy that makes that kind of same money, it's not a good trade for him to date a girl like you when he can go date a girl that's 18 that doesn't have that background.
	No, I get it.
	I'm not saying I don't get it.
	And I'm like, oh my God, I'm so worried about who I'm going to end up with when I'm in a relationship.
	Because like you said, my parents are an amazing example of what a relationship should be.
	They're amazing.
	I have an amazing father that works really hard, like you said.
	Are they still together?
	Yeah, they're still together.
	My parents are still together.
	Old school Italian relationships.
	My mom never worked.
	My grandmother never worked.
	Forget about it!
	I'm just, for some reason, I'm very different.
	Like my dad said to me, go get a job at 15.
	You want a car?
	Go get a job.
	I said, okay.
	But I've always been this hard worker and I've just been this like hustler.
	So maybe it backfired instead of me wanting to just have a man take care of me.
	I don't know why.
	I always like to have my own money.
	Yeah, I think, because this is the trend I've seen with girls that typically aren't only fans or porn or sex work or whatever, it's one of two things.
	Either A, you'll be single and you won't be able to find the guy that you want, or you'll find a guy, what'll happen is he'll make you pay for your decisions.
	What I realize is they try to finesse the girl, she's got to buy him gifts, she makes money so quickly and so fast, she's paying the bills, etc., and they just kind of live off her.
	So...
	I've never seen a girl that does sex work be able to land a guy that's higher status, respectable, etc., because that guy cares about his image.
	Doesn't want to be made fun of when he walks into a club or walks into a social situation with his girl.
	So the guys that do get with those girls, a lot of times, they just finesse the girl and use her.
	And the girl ends up buying him gifts and being stuck with him and not being happy and satisfied.
	Hey, but I think you've made the decision and you kind of know what comes with it.
	So I'll give you that versus like a lot of these other girls are just delusional.
	But I also think that girls like I'm making enough money to be happy with this decision.
	It's a girl that goes on to OnlyFans and she thinks that she's just going to go on there and it's not a lot of work and she's just going to all of a sudden sell it sexy.
	That's a decision you have to live with.
	It might be on the internet.
	Your kids might see it.
	Your family might see it.
	Yeah.
	I would not do that unless I was making a certain amount of money.
	And I was like, okay, you know what?
	If I'm going to sell myself for this, this is the repercussions and this is the financial decision because I don't want to be stressed.
	I don't want to be worrying about where my next paycheck is coming from and killing myself as a nurse for 13 years, like dealing with that.
	I'd rather just make this decision and be happy with it.
	And I don't care about the man, the relationship, the baby, the husband.
	I'm tired.
	I'm almost 38.
	I think I want to have a kid right now.
	I might not.
	And you're okay with that?
	That's fine for you?
	I'm not happy about it, but I'm okay with it.
	I would love to have a family.
	I don't want to be 40 and freezing eggs and going through IVF. But you might be 70 and suicidal.
	Well, your parents are doing it now, then later.
	I don't care.
	At 38, man, it's a wrap.
	Let's keep it a thousand times.
	Forget about it!
	I also was a NICU nurse, and I see what happens when a female after age 35, you're Yep.
	The chances of you having a healthy pregnancy.
	So when people argue with that, I'm like, I don't want that.
	It might be a selfish thing.
	I don't want to have a child with disabilities.
	I just don't want that risk.
	So what are you going to do, a doc?
	Women give each other terrible advice.
	Y'all are seeing it right now.
	I'm going to be the cool aunt.
	I'm going to buy my niece and nephew cool shit.
	And maybe I'll have a kid one day.
	I don't know.
	Whatever will be, will be.
	We'll keep going on.
	You're going to figure it out.
	I think the thing is that she's made peace with her decision.
	She accepts it.
	At least other girls have come on here like, bro, they're delusional.
	Like, okay.
	To Dara, you have a perfect face, perfect waist, and lips that seem like they have a sweet taste.
	I'm 29, working on three independent films.
	Just wait until I become the man who will give you all remember the name Jimmy.
	You guys think that nobody would want me, maybe.
	You know what's funny?
	You don't want him though.
	I don't know.
	I might.
	Listen, I've dated guys.
	I'm probably a lot different than most women.
	You've dated those guys, but what happened?
	It didn't last.
	Yeah, it didn't last.
	Nope.
	I date on looks.
	Like, I want to be attracted to you.
	I don't care about how much money you want to have good sex.
	Maybe because I'm in the sex industry.
	I want to have good sex.
	No, that's cool.
	You want a guy that's attractive and, you know, you can have sex with, which is already a minority of men because most men are not attractive to most women.
	And then on top of that, he's got to make money to keep up with you financially, bro.
	So I don't have a lot of sex.
	You want a top 1% guy?
	I don't have a lot of sex.
	There's not a lot of men.
	Is that by choice?
	No, it's not by choice.
	She's 38, so she gets tired.
	I want to be attracted to men.
	There's not, like, I'm just not attracted to everybody out there.
	So what's your type?
	Manifest it.
	Jesus.
	For real.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Attracted men, tattooed.
	My type of man is the one that's going to fuck me and my OnlyFans and we're going to make Hundreds and hundreds of millions of thousands of dollars together and be freaks.
	He's out there.
	Hey man, wishful thinking bro.
	Subscribe and let me know.
	Link in bio.
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	K.O. Original Passport Bro 1997 says, Ladies, your son is worth 10 million and his fiancee doesn't want to sign a prenup and he's thinking about marrying without one.
	What do you tell him?
	Make that bitch sign one.
	Is that pretty much the sentiment across the table?
	Make her sign it?
	How many would make her sign it?
	Raise your hands.
	It depends on what kind of woman she is.
	She's going to give me my grandchildren.
	You're already banking on taking half his money.
	Listen, I would put everything in my name if that was mine.
	Let's make this simple.
	Let's make this very simple.
	How many of you would tell your son to not marry her?
	Raise your hands if you would tell your son to not marry her.
	Raise your hands.
	It depends on who she is.
	He's worth 10 million and she doesn't want to sign a prenup.
	It doesn't matter.
	Who does the fuck if he loves her or not?
	Camera one, Chris.
	Come on, man.
	Get with it.
	So only two girls?
	I would tell her don't marry him or just be careful.
	Don't do it.
	That's a lot of fucking money.
	She didn't have as much money as he did.
	Then, like, that would make sense because, like, she's with a man of status.
	But if she had, like, status or money, then that could be a debatable topic.
	Then they can both sign one.
	If she's worth a lot of money, if her family's worth a lot of money, then you both sign one.
	Easy peasy.
	Protects you both.
	Alright, so only two girls would have their son not sign.
	I would just say because she's so adamant about it, you know?
	It would depend, like...
	Yeah, I think it would depend.
	Yeah, this is why we need fathers in a household, bro.
	Hold on.
	I'm a mom.
	I'm a mom.
	Are you going to say your what?
	I am a mom and I trust my child to make that decision.
	Oh, you're a mom?
	Yes.
	So, if your son was worth $10 million and his wife didn't want to sign a prenup, you would not say anything?
	The way I raised my kid, I believe that he has.
	I have a girl, but I believe that she or he would have.
	Don't have.
	Listen, then it doesn't apply.
	It's the same thing.
	I trust my child.
	I have a kid.
	Wait, you have a what?
	I trust my child.
	But I trust my child to make that decision.
	But you're an adult.
	I would suggest marriage.
	You know better than the kid.
	The human body is made to when you tell them, don't marry this person, they're going to do it.
	So I wouldn't say that.
	So what if you laid out pros and cons and said, listen, mija or mija, here's what you do.
	If she marries him, right?
	Who has to deal with it?
	You.
	I have to deal with it 100%.
	So are you cool with that?
	I'm not cool with it.
	See, I don't want to sound like an asshole.
	I would sit her down or sit him down and talk to him.
	You didn't say that just now.
	See, here's the thing.
	This is why y'all are not equipped.
	You guys don't know what you're talking about.
	I'm going to be very blunt here.
	Ten million dollars.
	To be worth ten million dollars, that takes a lot of work.
	If your son becomes a self-made multimillionaire to that point where he's worth ten million dollars, see, women can't even fathom that because, I'll be honest, most women are lazy when it comes to creating resources.
	There's a reason why men, on average, make more money than women.
	It's not because, you know, Women are, men are, you know, women are being oppressed or whatever.
	It's because women in general don't tend to work as hard as men.
	Because men understand that our value is determined by what we provide.
	Men need to make money.
	Women, if they make money, it's elective.
	It's a cool little plus.
	But men must make money and become successful.
	So if a man becomes worth $10 million, that's hard.
	Very difficult.
	So, of course, a woman would understand the level of work it takes to make that kind of money.
	So a woman's not going to tell her son, oh, don't marry that bitch.
	But a father will.
	He'll tell her, yo, what the fuck are you doing, bro?
	You need to get a prenuptial agreement.
	We're $10 million.
	This chick is going to try to take you to cleaners.
	What's wrong with you?
	I think it was the way you asked the question.
	You're like, would you make him?
	Instead of like, would you have a conversation?
	Would you tell him to drop her or not do it or whatever?
	I mean, $10 million, you should intervene and say, what are you doing?
	You would tell him like, hey, you have a conversation.
	Yeah, you'd have a conversation.
	But you can't make somebody do something.
	But it comes back to what I was saying.
	Most of them can't even fathom what it would take to make $10 million.
	The amount of work it would take to build up a business to be worth that much.
	10 million sales.
	Because most women are lazy when it comes to creating resources in general.
	Women are generally lazy when it comes to making money.
	Now, are there women out there that are entrepreneurial-minded and make a lot of money?
	Absolutely.
	But in general, men have a higher proclivity to earn resources because our value is based on the resources we create.
	Your value is based on the children you create.
	This is why women are very hardworking when it comes to their children and their family.
	When it comes to making money and becoming successful, eh.
	I'll make money for me.
	I want to live a certain lifestyle.
	See, if you notice, when she was talking about making money, it was a very selfish perspective.
	No offense.
	Because when women make money, it's about becoming independent.
	Of who?
	Men.
	When men make money, it's about making money so people can be dependent upon them.
	That's the difference when the genders make different money.
	It's not good to have a man depend on you.
	What are you talking about?
	I kind of proved my point by her saying that.
	Yes.
	When women make money, they don't want a man to depend on them.
	Her money is her money.
	The man's money is our money.
	But that's exactly what I mean when I say women are lazy in general because they make money for themselves to live a lifestyle.
	The only people that women will share money with a lot of times is children and their family.
	That's about it.
	They're not sharing it with their man, though.
	Fuck that.
	That's always on a time clock.
	They'll pay the bills for maybe two months, three months.
	He could invest the money.
	What does that have to do with the conversation?
	Bruh.
	I just feel like women are a lot more lazier these days because they know that they're going to find a man that's going to support them.
	That's why a lot of women are lazy.
	They don't want to have jobs or if they do have jobs, they don't work as hard as they need to because they know that they're...
	Well, women are men in a lot of places and they're dominating college attendance.
	It's just that women don't go into career fields that make the most money because women are higher risk takers.
	The top 10 jobs that make the least money are dominated by women.
	Top 10 jobs that make the most money are dominated by men.
	Women in general don't like to go into labor jobs, take risks, work hard, you know, long hours like men do.
	But women will go into the workforce.
	It's just that, I guess, not at the same level.
	Take the same risk.
	I just find it funny, man.
	They don't work as hard.
	That too.
	Yeah.
	Hence, why women deserve less.
	Book and storage, motherfuckers.
	I break this shit down in detail.
	It's not just me talking shit.
	It's the truth that women make less because they deserve less most of the time.
	Even though they dominate college attendance.
	That's fine.
	Anybody else add anything?
	Okay, fair enough.
	Praxis, quick question.
	What are your thoughts on getting a CFA? I'm in law school but want to level up even more by eventually getting the charter and pivoting into investment management.
	Thank you guys for all that you do.
	I'm confused.
	What's a CFA? I'm confused.
	If it makes you happy, man, get it.
	Yeah.
	Certified forensic accountant?
	I think it's a financial accountant?
	Yeah, man.
	Go ahead and do it, bro.
	I mean, if you want to be a CFA or CPA, there's always going to be a job demand for...
	For accountants.
	Martin626, shout out to Fresh and Fear for keeping me accountable in every regard.
	We hit into the gym Monday through Friday, 5 a.m., then working 8 a.m.
	to 8 p.m.
	Thanks again, Fresh and Fit, and also have a great night, ladies.
	All right, thanks, bro.
	I appreciate that.
	All right, Martin.
	Twisted Magic, quick question for the panel tonight.
	Why is it when a woman doesn't have a man, she often has to take on a masculine role, but when a man doesn't have a woman, he doesn't necessarily have to take on a feminine role?
	Interesting question.
	That's a very good question.
	Because we have to be both roles.
	When we don't have the male role in our life.
	Why is that?
	I mean, I think it's easier for women to play both roles.
	And that's why a lot of societies are the way they are today.
	Why men look for the mother role unless if he's high status.
	I mean, at the end of the day...
	Nothing you said made sense.
	What the fuck was that?
	If I'm gonna be honest.
	Nothing you said made sense.
	What the fuck?
	No, like it's easier for the woman to play both roles when we don't have a man in our life, like to get a job, to have a home and things of that nature.
	But when it comes to men, like men just are men.
	It's easier for us to switch, I guess.
	I think she means also by paying bills as well.
	You have to be by yourself.
	Paying the bills or just going grocery shopping or watering the plants.
	At the end of the day, before you do have and find a husband, you do have to take care of yourself in an aspect.
	I pay my own bills.
	My parents don't give me money.
	Nobody gives me money, but do I want to?
	No.
	This is why I'm a big proponent.
	I think unmarried women should stay with their families.
	I think unmarried women, genuinely speaking, I don't think girls should be living on their own.
	What if they don't have a family support?
	That's an extreme.
	That's a luxury, though.
	I think women should stay at home with their parents until they find a man.
	But think about it.
	But what if they don't have that option?
	What if they don't have family?
	Then what do they do?
	That's a great question.
	Well, here's the thing.
	We have a societal problem here where we don't have two-parent households anymore.
	That's why the United States is in a shitty position right now.
	We live in a fatherless society.
	My mom's a boss.
	She would tell me to boss up, get a job.
	You can't just be in the house.
	I think that men are more men instead of women.
	Women are more manly in that aspect because men are already automatically supposed to be the provider.
	When a woman is single, she also has to be her provider as well.
	She also has to be her own provider as well.
	It's kind of one of those things in society.
	Obviously, years ago, the men would go hunt and provide.
	It's just kind of like a long-term DNA thing that went along.
	As I said, the woman's providing.
	What does she have to do to provide for herself?
	Sometimes that will require a Yeah, well, like, if she's single, that's what I meant.
	If she's single, like, she's gonna have to provide for herself, you know?
	And sometimes a girl will have to get like...
	Yeah, so that's what I'm saying.
	So basically, we gotta make sure we're straight no matter what, regardless if the man is there or not.
	I just like...
	And that's just what bosses do.
	Well, I'm from, like, a really small-minded town, you know, like, where I wouldn't have met anyone.
	I mean, there's definitely nobody that I want to be my husband where I'm from, and that's why I want to come here.
	But you moved to the right spot, Miami.
	What do you mean?
	Dating in Miami is horrible.
	Everybody just wants to go out, go to a pub.
	I was just kidding.
	I came here!
	I was kidding, okay?
	I've had some good people, okay?
	I'm sure you have.
	Shut up!
	Okay.
	Alright, fantastic.
	Alright, where are we at here?
	Martin, 626.
	We gotta go 15 up.
	Yeah, 15 up, bro.
	Appreciate it, though.
	Do you show all the other ones on screen?
	Yeah, we do.
	Captain Bama Lamb goes, yo, this is for you, Chris.
	You funny as fuck.
	still a bumbo Isaiah James goes hey y'all I'm 29 and took out a girl who was 22 but she turned me off talking about her male friends to the point I stopped being interested You say date younger girls, but how far can the dating age gap be before the immaturity level is too much?
	From Austin, visit soon.
	Here's the thing.
	You gotta understand that most girls, quite frankly, are not girlfriend material.
	That's why you gotta get out there.
	Who says to each their own?
	Sorry.
	Why do you disagree?
	Please.
	I just feel like...
	Can you repeat the question again?
	Fantastic.
	If you disagree with something, you don't even know.
	And fucking credible.
	He literally asked.
	Incredible.
	I think 22.
	That does not prove my point.
	Okay, okay.
	That women are emotional creatures.
	She doesn't even remember what I said.
	But here's the thing.
	She remembers how she felt and immediately disagreed with her.
	Okay, let me make a split second.
	You don't remember what I said, right?
	Okay, I do remember what you said.
	What did I say?
	I feel like there has to be...
	Wait, what did I say?
	About the age gap and where a guy should take a girl seriously, that there should be, that there is a sort of age gap.
	No, what did I say that you actually had an issue with?
	Most women aren't girlfriend material.
	See?
	This is, bro, right there, guys.
	Yo, stop the show real quick.
	Pause that, clip that part, proves my point.
	Women respond emotionally.
	She didn't like the way my statement made her feel, so she immediately says...
	Wait, wait, hold on!
	I feel like...
	Wait, hold on, what'd you say again?
	She didn't even remember what I said.
	She just remembered how it made her feel.
	Yeah.
	Alright, but now that you remember, go ahead.
	What's your point?
	I don't know.
	For me, I feel like for the age gap, it has to be...
	I can't date anybody that's younger than me.
	I've done that, and it didn't go anywhere.
	This is a man, though.
	Well.
	Gotcha, bitch.
	Holy.
	So, I'm going to say this, man.
	I think if you guys can't make a connection.
	Yeah, I think women in general want men that are about 7 to 10 years older than themselves.
	But he's younger.
	I mean, sorry, he's the man.
	He said he was older.
	29, 22 is a lot.
	So that makes perfect sense that he's 29 and she's 22.
	She's probably just a tomboy if she talks about her girlfriends.
	There's so many other girls that would be better for mindset.
	Before the ladies made no sense in their comments, what I was trying to tell you, bro, is that you gotta date more girls and understand that most women, especially first world feminist countries, are not wife material, my friend.
	That's it.
	Just accept that.
	And you gotta go through a lot of girls.
	I genuinely think, and you guys can open it up to ladies here for discussion, I think a guy shouldn't take any girl seriously until they're 35 years old.
	Making $100,000 per year, six months to one year of money saved, in shape, and had sex with 50 women.
	Because I would argue that you take an average 25-year-old girl, she's going to be close to that body count easily.
	So, you got to get out there and have sex with a bunch of girls and date a bunch of girls to figure out what you like, what you dislike, what you want to tolerate, what you're not.
	And if you don't have experience, how the fuck are you going to figure out what you like and you don't like as a man?
	It's the numbers game.
	Yeah, he's got to make that connection.
	If she's too immature, like, it's just not happening.
	It's cool.
	You can have, like, an intellectual conversation.
	She's not for him.
	That's fine.
	Well, it's not even about her being immature.
	A girl that has a lot of guy friends a lot of times tends to be a hoe.
	That's the problem.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	A little bit.
	Point proven.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Billy C. Billy C. says, What's up, Fresh and Fit?
	Just wanted to say, Myron, I don't usually comment much, but I gotta give you props, my guy.
	Just finished watching the Zodiac Killer breakdown.
	Fantastic job.
	Absolutely amazing.
	Best breakdown I've ever seen anyone do.
	Big Up Fresh in the crew.
	I appreciate that, man.
	We cover a lot of stuff.
	I went over all the suspects, etc.
	I would say that's the most infamous serial killer in U.S. history, and they never caught him.
	Top only.
	Yeah, he's from Vallejo.
	Well, he committed his first few murders in Vallejo.
	What's up, FNF? Can y'all think about this sound effect in Fresh's voice?
	Also, ladies, looking for a high-value man that's faithful makes you a three or four because you'll keep hopping from guy to guy and racking bodies.
	Be smart.
	Do any of the ladies disagree with this?
	Alright, so he's saying chasing a high value guy is going to make you a hoe because you're going to keep hopping from dude to dude.
	Do you guys agree with that?
	Well, there's not a lot of high value men, so how could she be a hoe if there's not a lot of high value men?
	Is he talking sexually faithful?
	Like a woman wants a high value man that's sexually faithful.
	What's a 304?
	A hoe.
	Yes.
	I don't really necessarily know if that means you're hopping from guy to guy, but alright.
	So what are you doing then?
	Yeah, you're talking to them.
	You're making connections.
	So you're not smashing?
	Are you really just talking?
	I mean, many times.
	This is crazy.
	Alright, we'll move on.
	Yeah.
	Nobunaga, the only prize in her relationships is a bucket of chicken nuggets.
	Who?
	Oh.
	Oh.
	Nobunaga.
	Do you have anything you want to say back?
	Let me talk a shit.
	To me?
	Yes.
	Chicken nuggets.
	Yeah, he said that you like chicken nuggets.
	Wendy's.
	I love chicken nuggets.
	McDonald's has the best, but I'm trying to get on my fit.
	I can have fries, but I can't eat that right now.
	Why are you lying?
	It's Chick-fil-A.
	Why the fuck is this Chick-fil-A?
	Chick-fil-A, don't get so good.
	I think Wendy's has really good Chick-fil-A.
	Wendy's has a superior in Dippa-Menebrosti.
	Why you be eating McDonald's?
	No, I haven't had McDonald's in a while.
	I'm trying to eat better yet.
	We couldn't tell.
	In like three days?
	It's all about portions.
	You can eat what you want as long as a portion.
	Wait, are you giving them advice about fitness?
	I'm learning.
	That's what I'm being taught.
	Caution control.
	Listen, one thing I've learned is...
	Alright!
	Fantastic.
	We'll move on here to Keith Groves.
	Whatever I can't do, plastic surgery can.
	Why not just go to the gym and eat a calorie deficit?
	Well, I have to do that too.
	Okay.
	Or you could just go to the gym and just save a bunch of money.
	Or you could stop eating.
	Who said that?
	Maybe for some people.
	Who said that?
	You?
	No, I didn't say that was Chris!
	Yeah.
	That was...
	Chris!
	That was you!
	Chris!
	I would've never...
	Go to the gym!
	How dare you!
	No, the gym is essential for, like, health and wellness.
	Like, it's essential, but, I mean...
	The gym can't do everything, you guys.
	All right.
	We can tell.
	Fantastic.
	Keep Grooms.
	Keep Grooms goes, give me a broke, appreciative woman any day.
	No education.
	We only want the two things that fit always talks about.
	Full stomach and an empty sack.
	Fair enough.
	Okay.
	Yo, Chuck.
	Keep it real.
	Unaga goes, fresh looks like a shadow puppet.
	Great show, guys.
	All right.
	He's saying you're blank as hell.
	Shit and Bricks, 50 bucks goes, these ladies are talking about having a husband, but I don't see a ring on that finger or heard any points about being a great wife or mother.
	Since I'm getting a headache trying to understand your logic on men, name three countries, don't let me down.
	Okay, we'll start right here.
	Name three countries, and you can't say USA, Mexico, or Canada.
	Damn.
	Go ahead.
	Name three countries.
	Two countries.
	Well, we're starting with you.
	Miss, I'm a mom.
	Where are you from?
	I'm Cuba.
	Okay, two more.
	Name two other countries.
	Nicaragua.
	Okay.
	And Venezuela.
	All right.
	Oh, cool.
	Germany, France, Belgium.
	We're gonna do...
	Wait, hold on.
	No, we're gonna do like Afghanistan.
	What is that?
	Afghanistan.
	Okay.
	Okay, Antarctica.
	Okay.
	What's the capital of Antarctica?
	I have no idea.
	South America.
	And what's the third country?
	South Pole.
	South America?
	Yo! - No!
	Only in America.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Only in America, bro.
	Fantastic.
	Alright, what about you?
	Okay.
	Poland, Lithuania, Greece.
	Alright, okay.
	What about you?
	Russia, China, Canada.
	Alright.
	No, you can't say Canada.
	Why?
	Oh, yeah.
	You said no?
	No North American country.
	Oh.
	- One more. - Asia. - Fantastic.
	Russia, Berlin, and Germany?
	You can't say Russia.
	Yeah, I think she said Russia.
	Miss Asia.
	And she said Germany too.
	Ukraine.
	Okay.
	One more.
	Barely a country, but still one right now.
	One more.
	Germany?
	Berlin?
	She called her before you.
	Yeah, she said Germany.
	So you guys want more?
	Something else.
	Australia.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	Name three countries.
	You've had plenty of time.
	Ireland, Peru, Cambodia.
	What about you?
	Europe.
	China.
	Okay.
	China was named already.
	ready.
	Greenland?
	Greenland?
	Greenland is a place.
	Where?
	All right.
	All right, cool.
	Stop it.
	Get some help.
	She did good enough.
	J. Martin says, Chris, send someone downstairs and pay the valet to park the short bus these rocket scientists rode in on.
	It's going to be a long night.
	Okay?
	J. Martin again says, Bama, what do you think you were going to do on a podcast?
	You seem surprisingly...
	Surprised you're having to answer questions.
	Speak and think.
	It's basically walking around sense.
	How do you even make it to the studio this evening?
	Someone get her country ass a chaperone.
	What the?
	Who wants to be my chaperone?
	Are you going to hold her hand?
	He's on your ass.
	Oh, Jay Martin.
	Keep spending that money, though.
	We like it.
	Keep asking these other questions.
	Okay.
	Dollar Cost Crypto!
	Don DeMarco.
	Guys, course is out now.
	Make the woman of your life financially irrelevant.
	Grandmothers tell sons to get prenups.
	Make mothers great again.
	Here's a course link, guys.
	Go support Fresh and Fit.
	And Miguel and Charlie Cultivate Crypto.
	Sheesh!
	There we go, man.
	Yo, Miguel, why should they buy crypto, bro?
	So they're not a poor pleb, man.
	You make these women financially irrelevant, man.
	Sheesh!
	Sheesh!
	That's it.
	No poor plebs around here, man.
	No broke boys.
	There you go.
	Get in crypto or be fucking destitute.
	Well said.
	Okay.
	Well, Attraction says, just bought the Crypto Mindset course.
	Earlier episode was Insane Value.
	Also bought two copies of Why Women Deserve Less.
	Small book, major value.
	If I see you in Brickell and I have a pen, send my copy.
	Thanks for what you guys do.
	We all leave refreshing.
	Gotcha, bro.
	If you guys catch me out in public, man, always come say what's up.
	I'll always take a picture with you and I'll always sign your book.
	He got you.
	Yeah, man.
	I never say no to a picture ever.
	We're not Hollywood over here.
	Baby lady Yoda Boba goes, after a long day at work, you decide to buy lottery tickets, you check your numbers, and win $20 million.
	Do you go home to your husband and start a family knowing the sex is horrible?
	Or do you bail your ex out of prison and get the best sex every night?
	That's actually an interesting question.
	Alright, so let's go ahead and go around the table on this one.
	So you win $20 million, okay?
	Your husband doesn't know it, but do you go ahead and start a family with him even though the sex is horrible, or do you bail out your ex out of prison and get the best sex every night?
	Let's start here.
	Which one are you doing?
	Boring husband, sex for life, or bail out the prisoner that gives you the grade?
	Bad boy.
	Yeah.
	Rude boy.
	So I'm already in a long-term committed relationship?
	Yes.
	But he's boring as hell.
	And he barely pays the bills.
	But you love him?
	Kind of.
	And the sex is mid?
	Yes.
	Terrible.
	Sex is such a big deal for me.
	You can't even come.
	How am I gonna have children then?
	Oh, I don't come?
	Or he doesn't come?
	No, he does, but you don't.
	I mean, female ejaculations are unnecessary anyway, to be honest.
	Why am I with him if he's boring?
	Why am I with him if he's boring?
	This is a whole other debate.
	This needs to be like a realistic question.
	I just want to say this real quick, and we'll turn this over.
	After this question, I genuinely don't think a woman's ejaculation is important.
	I never said that.
	I just said, if he's...
	Okay.
	Why am I in a long-term relationship with somebody that I barely like, is boring as fuck, and the sex is mad?
	I don't understand.
	Because you've been pursuing a husband aggressively, remember?
	Yep.
	But I'd have to love him!
	Then I would probably stay with who I'm with.
	Because you're probably comfortable.
	If I saw that he could be the father of my child, and we had money, I had money, 20 mil, absolutely.
	I'd stay with him.
	Alright, so you're gonna stay with him.
	Alright, what about you?
	Which one are you doing?
	I would try the dick enhancement first.
	What is going on?
	And if it doesn't, I would, I would bail him out because, well, even if he's my ex, because he wants to be in prison.
	Oh, you're so sweet.
	Just all general principles.
	You're so sweet.
	You're a great person.
	She is.
	I like her.
	She's the queen of bringing up random things that have nothing to do with the conversation.
	Well, if he's bad at sex, a dick enhancement, or something, like, you know...
	Yeah, I think that's a great idea.
	20 million?
	That's only a couple thousand.
	What about you?
	For me, I would bail out my ex.
	I would bail out my ex because if I haven't seen my ex in so long, I would know that the sex would be really good.
	The sex would be fucking phenomenal.
	What if the sex was bad before?
	Then you know what?
	Just throw out the whole man and just find a new one.
	Is he a black dude?
	Is he a Russian dude?
	Is he a white dude?
	Is he a Chinese dude?
	What is he?
	I personally don't like white guys.
	I need some flavor.
	I'm Ukrainian.
	I'm white.
	You're Ukrainian?
	Yeah.
	Interesting.
	BBC, buddy!
	Well, okay, we can see why she don't like Russians.
	I don't like my own Russians.
	Okay.
	Understandable.
	All right, what about you?
	I want good sex, so my ex.
	Damn.
	Cool.
	Put yourself first, queen.
	That's right.
	Terrible advice.
	What about you?
	Do I love them?
	If I love the husband?
	Yeah, let's say you love him, but the sex sucks.
	Well, you kind of love him, sort of.
	If I love him, what?
	Kind of.
	kind of you're going to say what am I going to leave for sex one time get Jamal from prison Jamal whatever I don't know if you prefer Asians whites what do you prefer Chad, Brad, what do you prefer?
	I like mutts.
	It's really all about the motion.
	Can you guys let her answer?
	Why are you talking?
	I don't know.
	I feel like typically blank Israelis are like Middle Eastern men.
	Okay, so Ezra.
	Ezra's in jail.
	What are you doing?
	You bailing him out?
	Ezekiel!
	Yeah.
	No, but I just don't see the point.
	If I have a husband, if I like it, if I love him, what?
	I'm going to bail him out to have sex one time?
	Who said it has to be one time?
	Yeah, it's probably going to be multiple times.
	Fuck him forever.
	Well, if he's in jail, he's probably a loser.
	She's spreading the blood from Moses.
	Just bail him out.
	Damn boys!
	Damn boys!
	Oh, now it's Middle Eastern.
	Nah, man.
	There's a difference.
	No, I said it's Bailies or Middle Eastern men because I like...
	Tan, dark hair, dark brown eyes.
	That's what I like.
	She said both.
	So I'll give her that.
	Thank you.
	Okay, what about you?
	Nah, she's like them boys from Masada.
	What about you?
	I would stay with my husband.
	Maybe the sex will get better when we have the money.
	Instead of breaking out like a dusty ex.
	That's what I'm saying.
	You got 20M now.
	Who cares?
	I want my dusty ex in jail to come up on my 20 mil when I got like...
	You just proved my point why men don't care about women's money.
	See?
	You got the money.
	It don't matter.
	You ain't sharing it with him anyway.
	Proven by her own actions.
	That's why men don't care about women with money.
	You ain't sharing it regardless.
	20 million.
	It don't matter.
	She'll go, fuck.
	You dusty.
	All right.
	On to the next.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	So for me, I try to go for the more peaceful decision, and he's fucking in jail and shit.
	I don't know why he's in jail, but I don't know.
	It just doesn't sound right.
	I'm just going to stay with my husband.
	We'll buy toys, whatever we need.
	It's fine.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	What are you doing?
	I married him for a reason.
	I love him.
	Okay.
	Maybe the sex is just the negative part of the marriage.
	You married him for papers.
	No, I did not.
	No, I did not.
	No, I'm kidding.
	I did not.
	But yeah, I married him for a reason.
	I'm not taking no ex out because of 12 mil.
	20 mil.
	You know what you should do to all y'all?
	Marry you and stay married and then divorce your ass.
	Stay half.
	That's what you should do.
	That's why I said I married him for a reason.
	20 million is not going to change.
	Marriage is very sacred.
	Alright.
	We'll go on over to Rumble.
	And then ladies, we're going to turn it over to you guys so you guys can ask us a question.
	And do me a favor.
	We got 15,000.
	Y'all pretty much watching right now.
	Like the video.
	Subscribe to the channel if you guys haven't already.
	Go ahead, Chris.
	And then get the course as well, guys.
	Yes.
	Get the Goddamn course.
	You fucking guys.
	Stop being brokeies, man.
	Closes on Tuesday.
	Get in there because it's going to close on Tuesday.
	If you guys are tired of being poor, you guys are tired of being broke, and you have bad credit, well, you can go ahead and get into crypto because you don't necessarily have to have a good credit score to get into crypto, man.
	Just make an account on an exchange and start investing, man.
	DZJK goes to the dugong two down for fresh.
	Oh, shit.
	What is a dugong?
	Okay, so does the game, right?
	It's a polon.
	No, no.
	Isn't that a monster?
	I'm gonna catch them all then.
	No, no, no.
	There's a monster in Zelda called a Dugong.
	You gotta fight.
	I think they're talking about the Pokemon.
	I think they mean the monster.
	Silence to violence.
	Thank you.
	Pull up a dugong on screen.
	If you want a man to take care of you and pay your bills, you're going to need to drop the Debbie Cakes and get on Insta to hit up King Keto or Mike Rashid.
	Do you have anything you want to say back to him?
	I don't even know who that is.
	You don't need to know who that is.
	You don't need to know.
	You want to say anything back to him?
	Mind your business.
	Mind your business.
	There you go.
	3488 goes, L fake Christian crybaby next to fresh.
	L rocky record zero and three.
	No way two from fresh isn't the oldest.
	Blue wells body count is 200 plus in pounds.
	Man the harpoons.
	W sensible blonde in the black top.
	So he insulted everyone on the panel pretty much.
	Wait, go back to that shit.
	Any of y'all have anything you want to say back to that guy for talking shit?
	Eat my ass.
	Eat your ass?
	He didn't say that to me, though.
	Lincoln bio.
	Wait, go back.
	Pull it back up, Chris.
	His share.
	So he called you L-Fake Christian.
	Do you have anything you want to say back to him?
	I'm not fake just because I'm not perfect.
	Who is?
	And then L-Rocky.
	Who's Rocky?
	I don't want it too long from you, Mari.
	Oh!
	Adriel!
	Adriel!
	I don't want to say this song, but y'all niggas.
	Chris is so mean.
	Yo, what the fuck?
	Adriel!
	Come back!
	I don't want to say it to ya, but y'all niggas, man.
	Somebody else on the last show said that she sounds like Slowpoke.
	You know the Pokemon?
	Yeah.
	- Hey, hey, hey.
	- No, it's not poke.
	- Yeah, I knew I'd step back.
	- Roll that nigga.
	Roll that nigga, man. - This nigga could really eat my whole ass.
	He doesn't even deserve that.
	Nah, I want to shit in his mouth.
	Oh shit!
	Come here bitch.
	Yay!
	Okay, okay.
	Miss Nuggets, do you have anything you want to say back?
	He said, "Blue Whale's body count is 200+ and counts." But I could lose it though.
	Oh, the facts.
	I could lose it though.
	You can't change ugly.
	I found Dugan, by the way, and it's not what you think it is.
	What is it?
	I'm scared.
	I could have sworn it's a Pokemon.
	It's like the seal Pokemon.
	It's a monster, if I'm correct.
	It's a Pokemon, right?
	I like Pokemon.
	That's not it.
	That's a whale.
	What the fuck?
	It's a Pokemon as well.
	Good images, bro.
	Pokemon.
	Good images.
	Gotta catch them all.
	What is his statue of Pokemon, though?
	It's the same thing.
	It's the same.
	So cute.
	Take it as a compliment.
	I love Pokemon.
	Go to Images, bro.
	Nigga, relax.
	No, no, no.
	Bang, bang.
	Back.
	Turn on.
	Images there.
	Oh, this is great.
	Y'all are witnessing an argument between Chris and Fresh.
	This is awesome.
	Well, dolphins are highly intelligent.
	Okay.
	Where, Fresh?
	Shit.
	What the fuck is that?
	It looks like a dolphin.
	Kind of.
	Fantastic.
	I think we'll turn it over to the ladies.
	Ladies, any questions, comments, disagreements on anything that we discussed today?
	Basically, the premise was men are the prize, not women.
	Yes.
	Or in a good relationship.
	Last thoughts on the show.
	Last thoughts on the show or questions, comments.
	I think for the boys, what is constructive criticism that we should do instead of just like being argumentative and being like, okay, let's go on our separate ways.
	Do you have advice for women who would like to bear children and build a legacy through a husband and a family?
	And then do you have advice for women who don't desire that and just want to be only fans?
	You want to Bro, you're cheating.
	So, I guess, advice for women to get married and have kids.
	I would just say, ideally, if that's one of your goals, make sure you understand what that man wants from you.
	And it's because most women nowadays, they date with no type of, like, I want to say, knowledge of what a guy wants.
	And you wonder why he broke up with me.
	It's because you didn't bring value to what he really wanted in his life.
	So knowing what that man wants is very important.
	And then two, I guess when you don't want that in your life at all, for example, no kids and no men, I mean, ultimately just do what you want because it don't really matter at that point.
	So that's what I would say.
	I feel like some people date just to date.
	They don't really have a self-worth.
	They just date because they're either bored or because they have no money or they just have nothing going for themselves.
	More is fun to do.
	Women or men?
	Both.
	I mean, if guys don't have money, it's going to be real tough to date.
	I mean, there are some bimbos that would take care of the guys.
	I would want to know.
	Don't do that.
	And where's that guy now?
	I absolutely know where I kicked him out.
	So fantastic.
	It doesn't work long term.
	I would say for girls, well, number one, find a guy that is worthy, right?
	And then when you do find that guy, don't be a hoe.
	Be feminine, be fit, be friendly, and be quiet.
	We don't care about your opinion that much.
	I think something that's understated is that when you're out with your guy, especially when he's around his friends or whatever, shut the fuck up and don't talk less spoken to.
	And I know that sounds, oh, that's so misogynistic, but guys really do appreciate quiet girls like we do.
	You know, your opinion is not that important, and you're probably going to say something dumb anyway that isn't going to align with what the men are saying.
	So...
	Also, I feel like if you're with the guy friends, if you don't agree with something, you don't have that argument in front of the friends.
	You do that in private.
	Maybe when you get home or you just step to the side, but you don't bring those problems.
	I would say don't even argue because a lot of times girls will disagree or argue with something based off how they feel.
	Like a second ago, well, not a second ago, but maybe like 30 minutes ago when I said something...
	That most women aren't worthy of a relationship.
	You couldn't even remember what I said.
	You just didn't like how it made you feel.
	It was based out of emotions.
	So I think women need to also control their emotions as well and not just get in nonsensical arguments with their guy.
	And that's on the guy too also to kind of have some kind of semblance of masculinity.
	When your girl brings up stupid shit or tries to argue with you, you just ignore her.
	Anytime one of my chicks pisses me off, I just ignore them and then they kind of come back to reality and realize, oh, he's not going to talk to me if I keep acting like this.
	Which one?
	Shut up, man.
	One of many.
	No, but ultimately, though, ladies, I would just say, figure out what that man actually wants, do that, and then you're good to go.
	Yeah, pretty much.
	I would say these things I mentioned, all guys want this.
	Be fit, be friendly, be quiet, don't be feminine, don't be a hoe, and that will put you in a really good position because you'll be attractive, Right?
	And you won't be a pain in the ass to be around.
	And then really on that point, like, just keep the guy.
	Be submissive.
	Serve him.
	And add value as well.
	Add value.
	Life business.
	It's home.
	Just be there for him.
	You said that you can't learn anything from her.
	So how, like, add value how?
	Like, physical labor?
	So what I always say is, like, the girl's got to come in and be a deductive problem solver.
	So she comes into the guy, relationship, whatever, she notices.
	Okay, um...
	He likes coffee, but he doesn't have coffee in the morning when he wakes up.
	Let me solve that problem.
	Bam, I always have it there.
	Without asking, right?
	He really enjoys this type of food.
	Let me have it here, ready, so when he comes back from the gym, he's there.
	He likes to have a shake after the gym, whatever.
	You prepare.
	Once you start almost taking things on that he does himself, and you become more of a compliment to his life, and you assist him, and you help him.
	I always say the best girlfriends are the best assistants.
	You make his life easier so that he's able to operate at 99% to 103%.
	And that extra percentage points really makes a difference.
	And here's the thing with guys.
	Guys really appreciate when women do gestures because most of the time women don't provide shit.
	Most girls come in, they'll just take, take, take, and never give.
	So if you're able to come in and give and actually make his life easier, trust me, they're going to remember that shit.
	Men rarely get complimented.
	Men rarely get gifts.
	Men rarely get anything from women.
	Do men like compliments?
	Oh, they love it.
	It's cool.
	They appreciate them.
	They appreciate them for sure.
	But I'm just speaking in general of what men typically never get from girls.
	So that's how you're able to make yourself stand out from other females immediately.
	Because most girls play hard to get.
	Most girls want to try to play a game.
	Most girls do these stupid mind tricks or whatever and think that it makes them more attractive.
	So when you're able to go against the grain and actually be a fucking Pick me, bro.
	Like, girls get mad at girls that are pick me's, but it's like, who's getting picked?
	What's a pick me?
	The pick me's!
	The girls that basically do what men typically desire.
	Like, girls that understand how men think, girls that understand how men behave.
	And it's crazy, because girls will give terrible advice and be like, oh, stop being a fucking pick me.
	What do you mean you cook and clean for your guy?
	What do you mean you serve your man?
	Are you a slave?
	Wow, girl, you're dumb.
	Like, whatever.
	And, like, women give each other this terrible advice, right?
	I would also suggest don't hang out with your single friends once you have a man.
	Like, all your friends that like to party and do ho shit, stop hanging out with those girls.
	Because they're going to set you down a bad path.
	They're going to tell you, oh, why do you do all this shit for him?
	Are you a slave?
	They're going to start getting in your head and try to make you think, like, damn, what would I do if I was single, maybe?
	And they're going to fuck you up.
	They're going to manufacture arguments between you and your man.
	And a lot of times it's because they want to commiserate with you.
	Because girls aren't happiest when they're single.
	No offense, ladies that are single.
	But the reality is most women want a guy.
	Absolutely.
	I don't want to sit there and be single and be by themselves and shit like that.
	Women are creatures that want social interaction, right?
	That's why women are more social.
	And they would hope to get a guy that they can be in a relationship with long-term.
	And your girls will sabotage that shit because they want you to be hoes like them and commiserate in their singleness.
	They just want you for the street activities.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Facts.
	So, I would say, to summarize it real quick, we'll recap.
	Don't be a hoe.
	Be feminine.
	Be fit.
	Be friendly.
	Be quiet.
	Don't be a pain in the ass.
	Come into the guy's life and be...
	An asset versus a liability.
	Most girls come in and they're a liability.
	They take, take, take.
	They don't give.
	Find out where that guy is deficient and then it's on you as the girl to be creative, be attentive, and help him with whatever he's deficient in.
	And every guy, this is the kicker, every guy is different.
	So you got to figure out what that guy likes, what he dislikes, etc., and appeal to that.
	You basically conform to his situation.
	And trust me, that's going to go such a far way because most guys don't get shit for women in general.
	And that's it.
	You'll be able to keep the guy.
	That right there will set you apart from like 99% of girls and you'll probably get a commitment.
	He might fuck other bitches.
	That's another thing too.
	Oh, except cheating too.
	That's another thing.
	Except him stepping up from time to time.
	I forgot that one.
	I have one more added to your list.
	And the more money he has, the more likely he's going to fuck other bitches.
	That's just the game, baby.
	That's just how it is.
	Does he tell me?
	I mean, I would say that's irrelevant.
	Do you want to know?
	No.
	Yes.
	No, you don't.
	No, you don't.
	It's probably better you don't know.
	But the thing is, is that if you find a condom...
	How are you going to ask me if I want to know and I say yes and you say no, I don't?
	Because women typically don't want honesty and transparency.
	I do.
	We say we do.
	You want them to say, hey, I fucked this black bitch yesterday.
	It was great.
	Absolutely.
	Shaniqua gave me great dome.
	Yes.
	You need to improve.
	I do.
	Okay.
	Well, you can handle the truth, but most of us can't.
	I do.
	What I'm saying is this.
	Be prepared for it.
	So if you see a condom wrapper one day, you're like...
	And I know that hurts to hear that, but it's like, yo, guys always want new bucks, man.
	The more money he makes, the higher the likelihood he's gonna fuck other bitches.
	So that's a little caveat for a higher status guy.
	But regular niggas cheat too, so might as well just find the guy there's one to accept the cheating from.
	Those are my tips.
	If you are able to do those things, you will 100% find a man to take you seriously.
	100%.
	Just the fact that you can accept him fucking other bitches is going to put you head and shoulders above all the other chicks.
	Well, he should really be careful because I have worked in the medical field a little bit and you still can get herpes from using condoms.
	So please be careful.
	Yes, you can.
	A.K. Wait.
	Whoa, whoa, whoa.
	You guys don't know that.
	You be careful.
	We just covered it.
	I'm just being a troll.
	That doesn't mean it's happening.
	Who knows?
	You stupid.
	We proved it's not herpes.
	That chick that tried to expose me was a dumb hoe.
	Not necessarily him, but it could happen.
	If you're promiscuously fucking around with a lot of girls and you're still wearing condoms, you can still get herpes that way.
	So just be careful.
	That's all I say.
	I get that, but the point I'm trying to make is that If a girl accepts this, right?
	I'm basically telling y'all that it's raining outside.
	Here's an umbrella.
	You can choose if you want to take the umbrella or not.
	I'm just saying most men are as faithful as their options.
	Men are always going to want to fuck other girls.
	You'll never sexually satisfy a man by yourself.
	Never.
	Men always want variety.
	Options.
	What was that?
	Options.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I mean, they want variety.
	Just different chicks.
	Okay.
	Did that answer your question?
	Yeah, I think that answered...
	Well, no, she asked, and then she didn't...
	Yeah, I think you gave me better advice than he did.
	I gave her an answer.
	Yeah, I'm trying to give you advice.
	Okay, so I feel like also another one added to your list is that you can't just be friendly with everyone.
	Like, if you're at with...
	The man or the guy?
	If, like, you're just saying, like, you're at with your dude, and the dude has the guy friends.
	Like, you can't just be, like, really...
	Friendly with them or, like, too open because the other guy is probably going to think, like, what the fuck is this girl?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	You should have talked unless spoken to.
	I think that's the golden rule.
	If you're at a social function as a woman with your man and he's there around his other guys, you literally shut up and don't say anything.
	You just be pretty, help him out, be willing to, like, go get juice and drinks or whatever, right?
	Like, if I got friends over or whatever, like, you need to be serving him and his friends.
	And honestly, just get the fuck out the room and let them talk.
	Yeah, usually it's like, hey babe, can you roll blunt?
	Yeah, like come in and check in.
	Hey, do any of you guys want anything?
	No, and then you leave.
	Sometimes just like being like just, I don't want to say being a servant or whatever, but serving your man goes very far.
	Because most girls think, I'm strong and independent.
	I don't need to serve no man.
	Serve yourself then.
	Anything else?
	Before, you guys have said like...
	When men meet women, they put them into one of two categories.
	Just like women put men into one of two categories.
	So I guess how as a woman would you differentiate?
	If you feel like you're checking the boxes, you're spending time with this person, how do you know?
	And then how do you know that you're off the market?
	And how do you know when you should...
	Okay, so what should the girl know that she's...
	Well, here's the thing.
	You need to behave like you're off the market when you find the guy that you like.
	Being a girl and seeing a bunch of guys at the same time, at some point, the guy's going to find out, especially if he's good with girls, he's going to find out that you're seeing other guys, and that might fuck you up and shoot you in the foot.
	So, I mean, it's a risk.
	Because I know some girls are like, oh, I don't know where I stand with this guy.
	Let me talk to somebody else, etc.
	If the guy that you're talking to finds out that you're seeing other people, it's gonna make him lose attraction for you.
	Because he's gonna think, oh, she's...
	Because guys, the way we think is, if you're talking to another guy, you're probably fucking him.
	Whore.
	That's it.
	That's just how men think.
	If a guy sees you, another thing too that girls don't understand that makes them less attractive.
	If I see you in a Lamborghini, if I see you at expensive restaurants, if I see you in foreign locations, private jets, anything like super luxurious, I'm automatically going to assume you're a whore.
	Even if you paid for it yourself.
	Because I know most of the time girls don't pay for these luxuries.
	Men do.
	If I see you in Tulum, like a whore.
	I'm going to just assume that, unfortunately.
	And it sucks for ladies because, like, you know, men judge or bookbites cover a lot of times, but women do too.
	So a lot of times, if you have certain things or you're living a certain lifestyle, guys are going to assume a man provided that.
	You're a whore.
	So I would say as a girl, if you're talking to a guy, you need to behave like you're in a relationship with that guy.
	You know, if you want to get a job at a prestigious law firm, you want to get a job at any prestigious place, what do you have to do?
	You have to be a model employee to get promoted, right?
	Otherwise, you wouldn't respect the job.
	They have standards and regulations and dress code, etc.
	that you have to adhere to.
	Same thing with a man.
	If you're with a guy that other girls want to be with, he's the employer.
	He's a sought-after position.
	To get that position, you have to rise up above all the other candidates and be the best candidate so that you can get elevated to worker, to secretary, to vice president, whatever it is.
	At some point, you want to be at the top of that company.
	You want to be the main girl.
	You have to, you know, show these things from the beginning.
	That's what I would say.
	Do you like that answer?
	Probably not.
	Was that good?
	No, that answered my question.
	Anybody else?
	They're like, fuck y'all.
	Alright, fair enough.
	Last one.
	Cougar Slayer 91 goes, at this point, femme movement isn't about rights.
	That happened in 1900.
	It's about making three or four socially accepted.
	SMH, ladies, do you all agree?
	100%.
	So he said that feminism is about accepting promiscuous women, not necessarily about equality anymore.
	Do you guys agree or disagree?
	Agree.
	You agree?
	Anybody else disagree with that?
	Whole culture is a thing.
	It definitely could come from that.
	Whatever helps you sleep at night.
	I think it's both.
	Anybody else have anything they want to say?
	I think it could be both, just because when they masculate the women, I don't know, I feel like they're trying to control the population to a certain extent, and when they break up the homes and they target the men and the women, and making them hoes,
	and it's cute to be an OnlyFans, and You know, all this stuff with social media, especially being a woman, that I see being somebody who's more natural and doesn't have big tits, and I don't have a big ass, and I... All of these things.
	I don't wear a bunch of makeup.
	Yeah, it's hard.
	But yeah, I think it just comes down to control.
	Thanks for confirming, Chris.
	Appreciate it.
	Thanks, Chris.
	Fantastic.
	Anything else?
	Yeah, I feel like in the 1900s, we wouldn't have this whole twerking shit like we do in 2023.
	Because, you know, I mean, it's fine if you do it.
	You know, hey, do what you need to do.
	1900s, it would have been different.
	They'd be like, if I shake it, they butt it.
	I just don't, I don't see it happening back in the, in the 1900s.
	Like where women just twerking on the beach more so.
	It's also because of the music.
	It could be the music, but yeah, I think it's more of like an empowerment thing.
	Like, this bitch worked the fucking fastest.
	But the empowerment leads back down to disempowerment, though.
	Like, you think you're empowered, but at the tail end of it, you're literally like shooting yourself in the foot.
	It's subjective because it's good and bad.
	It's good in the sense that women could be more sexually liberated.
	It's bad in the sense that it's a trend, which makes it look cool to people that wouldn't subscribe to that if...
	But I feel like it's more so a fact that you should be sexually liberated for your man.
	You shouldn't be exposing yourself for anyone except for like...
	I think you could explore that sexual liberation and awakening through your husband and the cock that you're fucking.
	Not just like shaking ass on the beach.
	It would be fair to say that all the ladies here on the panel, would you prefer to have just one guy you're having sex with or would you feel better with two or three guys that you're seeing?
	One.
	I want monogamy.
	Strictly.
	All of you just want one?
	I don't like to share.
	I want monogamy.
	Does anyone want a rotation?
	Nobody?
	No.
	But they're all single.
	I'd rather be single than throw my cake.
	You're single too though, aren't you?
	Yeah, Chris.
	My choice!
	Is a single man the same as a single woman though, honestly?
	Nope.
	Nothing's equal in this world, so no.
	I would argue a girl that says, oh, I choose to be single is like a guy that says that's a virgin saying, I choose to not have sex with women.
	That's involuntary celibate.
	I'm not choosing either.
	I just think we're all hoes.
	Speak for yourself.
	What?
	I just feel like not like that.
	Women want relationships.
	You can't say I'm single by choice, but you're not the one that chooses relationships.
	The men do.
	That's like me being a virgin and I can't get laid and I'm saying, oh yeah, I'm a virgin by choice.
	No, I'm not.
	Women made me involuntary celibate.
	It's the same thing.
	Women control sex, men control relationships.
	I always laugh when girls say, oh, I'm single by choice.
	No, you're single because the man that you want doesn't want you in return.
	Yeah.
	And it's not by choice.
	I think it's the quality of man that I want.
	I feel like I'm also holding out for.
	Yeah.
	Which...
	Yeah.
	And he ain't holding out for you.
	He ain't holding out for me.
	It sucks.
	It's a drought.
	Because the reality is, I'm sure all of you have been with a man that you really like, but he just didn't commit, so you had to move on.
	Absolutely.
	Every single man of mine.
	There you go.
	So, that's what it comes down to.
	Hopefully, if you guys take my tips, you'll be better at having girl game, because I'd argue most women don't have girl game.
	They're great at getting a guy, fucking a guy, but they suck at keeping that guy after they fuck.
	Yeah, it's tough.
	It's all about retention.
	But anyway, guys, all of these Instagrams are below.
	Feel free to go ahead and send them a dick pic.
	I'm sure they'd really enjoy it.
	No.
	And get the course.
	Get the quicker course.
	Because real talk, if y'all are not believing me, you gotta have your money on point nowadays, bro.
	The average woman wants a guy that is well above average when it comes to income.
	You gotta be making six figures per year nowadays to get women to submit to you, man.
	It's fucking crazy.
	Easy.
	That's the world that we're in, bro.
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