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March 4, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
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Why Women Ghost Men AFTER Sex!
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All right.
Sweet.
Ladies on the panel, welcome.
Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
Your body count.
And we'll start right here.
Welcome.
Hello.
Thank you for having me.
My name is Nicole.
I am 18 years old.
I am actually a senior in high school.
Cool.
Single and zero.
Zero?
You're a virgin?
Mm-hmm.
Thank God.
All right.
Big up everybody.
I go by the name Faya.
I'm a singer-songwriter.
You're from Jamaica?
Yeah.
What was the other question?
We do for a living.
Singer-songwriter.
I'm in a relationship.
How long?
It's been a year now.
Nice.
How'd you guys meet?
Online.
Online?
Wow.
Do you want to know?
Yeah.
Hinge.
Hinge?
There you go.
All right.
Okay, cool.
I'm your age.
27.
27?
Alright, real quick, because I didn't get a chance to write this down.
What's your name?
Nicole.
Nicole, 18, right?
Yes, sir.
Okay, and you're in high school right now?
Senior.
Senior?
Yes, sir.
You got a prom date?
Yes, sir.
And then, do you work or are you just a full-time student?
I tutor.
Okay, tutor.
Alright, and then you said you're single, and then I was going to put education, but I mean, you're in high school, so are you going to, did you commit to a school, like in a university or no?
Not yet.
I actually just got exceptions.
I have to decide.
Okay.
All right.
Cool.
Awesome.
Good for you.
And then you real quick.
It was?
Faya.
Was it?
Faya.
Faya.
Your government name?
Faya.
F-Y-I-A-H. Okay.
All right.
And then?
27.
27.
Where are you originally from?
Born in Jamaica.
Raised in Detroit.
Okay.
And then what do you do for work?
I'm a singer-songwriter.
Okay.
Singer.
And then status.
You said you're in a relationship and you met him on Hinge, right?
How long have you been together?
Right here now.
Oh, nice.
Okay, cool.
And then highest education level completed?
Associate's degree.
Okay.
In?
General studies.
Okay.
Worthless.
And then I'm assuming you're originally from somewhere here in Miami?
Yes, yes, yes.
You're from Miami?
Broward.
Broward?
Oh, God.
And the reason why we ask these questions, ladies, is because we actually have a very detailed list of all the girls that have come on the show from ages, professions, etc.
So we keep the statistics to show we interview a wide demographic of females.
What about you?
My name is Kristen.
I'm 26.
Relationship status.
It's complicated right now.
Where are you from?
Here in Miami.
Okay.
Welcome back.
Thank you.
Yeah, you guys were in a relationship last time, right?
Yeah, bro.
But he's being a dick.
This podcast either makes the relationship stronger or fucks it up.
He's just doing whatever the fuck he wants.
As he should.
Damn!
I think from the last conversation, I know why she's...
Okay, we'll continue on.
And then what do you do for work?
Right now, to be honest, I'm doing OF. So I just started doing that.
If you guys want to follow me, my OF is...
No wonder he's doing what he wants.
No, that's literally why I did it, because he's doing whatever the fuck he wants.
So I'm going to do whatever the fuck I want.
What's your highest education level completed?
High school.
Is it going to be in any of the videos?
Is it going to be in it?
No, I just made it.
I just have videos of me.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Hello, my name is Isabella.
I'm currently single.
I'm 18 years old and I do online school.
Where are you from?
Brazil and Chile.
Okay.
But where did you like go to high school?
Oh, here.
In Miami?
Yeah, I went to date.
Okay.
And then you said you do what for work?
I work as a receptionist at a spa.
Okay.
And then highest education level, complete a high school.
Are you in college right now or no?
No.
Okay.
And then relationship status, it's a single?
Yeah.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
Hi.
What?
Are you a virgin?
If you're a virgin.
Um, no.
Okay.
Okay.
She belongs to the streets.
We figured.
We figured.
Alright, what about you?
Hey guys, so I'm Max.
I'm originally from Trinidad and Tobago.
Max, M-A-X? Yeah, M-A-X. I'm married.
I'm 30 years old.
Highest degree, bachelor's, environmental occupational management.
I have one kid.
My body count is on one hand.
I've been married for seven years, been in a relationship for 10.
Okay.
Yeah, and I love your show.
Shout out to you.
Certified.
Okay, so you threw it a lot out there.
I just want to make sure I got it right.
Max, 30.
You're from Trinidad and Tobago.
What do you do for work?
Environmental.
Okay.
Married and 30.
Yeah, she's married.
Okay, and then you said you have a BA in that same...
Yeah, so I have a bachelor's in environmental, associates in paralegal, and another degree in clandestine labs.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
My name is Suki.
I'm 24.
I do sales for work.
What was the last question?
Okay, so you're 24 sales.
Where are you originally from?
Miami, born and raised.
Okay.
And what's your status?
Single.
Okay.
And highest education level completed?
High school.
All right.
Cool.
Suki Suki now.
Yeah.
All right.
Welcome back.
My name is Kim.
I'm 18.
I finished high school.
I resell vintage clothing.
And I'm single.
Sing it, Virgin.
Alright, and then highest education level complete at high school?
Yeah.
Alright.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Nikki.
I'm 18.
I'm currently single.
And I am a full-time student.
Are you in college?
No, senior year.
Holy shit!
We got the high school brigade in the house?
No, they get like, what the fuck, man?
I guess I'm going to the school today.
Chris really wanted to be a teacher.
Alright, and then you're a full-time student and then where are you originally from?
I'm born and raised in Miami.
Okay.
That's a red flag.
All right.
What about you?
Hi, my name is Rosie.
I'm 22.
Welcome back.
Thank you.
I'm working in a doctor's office as a receptionist, and I'm single.
Big single.
Big single?
Yeah, big single.
What does that mean?
Big single.
It's not regular single.
It's big single.
All right.
What's your highest education level, please?
Associates.
Okay.
And you're originally from Miami?
No, I'm from Cuba, but I stay in Fort Myers.
Okay.
Did you go to high school in Fort Myers?
No, in Kansas.
Oh, okay.
What part of Kansas?
Dock City, Kansas.
Southwest Kansas.
I'm sorry?
Dock City.
Dock City, Kansas.
It's Southwest.
All right.
I don't know what that is.
It's really country.
Midwest.
Yeah.
All right.
What about you?
Hello, my name is Georgia.
Hi, y'all!
My name is Jojo.
I'm 24.
I'm in a relationship.
Okay.
Where are you from?
I'm from here.
Okay.
What are you for?
Jamba Juice.
Okay.
And also I am trained to become a professional wrestler.
Wrestler?
Okay!
She's got them hands on her!
Don't play with her!
Don't play with her, man!
Are you out here giving people suplexes and shit?
No, I can't.
Oh, man.
We need security.
That was easy.
Kicking some of these girls out.
Alright, so, okay.
Aspiring wrestler, that's a first.
What's your highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay.
And you said you've been in a relationship for how long?
One year.
Is he a wrestler too?
Yeah.
Okay, nice.
Is that how you guys met?
Yeah.
I was about to say, wrestling each other, that's how you guys met, huh?
I knew that was coming.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
Hello, my name is Martina.
I am 19 years old.
I was born and raised in Ecuador in South America.
I have been living here in Miami since last year because of my college degree.
And I'm studying business administration and logistics and supply chain with a double major in data analytics.
Okay.
So, all right.
So you're in college now.
Do you work or no?
No.
Okay.
Full-time student?
Yeah.
Okay.
Do you want to drop where you go to school?
It's up to you.
I said, do you want to drop where you go to school?
It's up to you.
You don't have to.
Yeah, FIU. Okay, FIU. That's a red flag.
Are you single or a relationship?
I'm single.
Okay, with that major, I would assume so.
That was a mouthful.
And what was it again one more time?
Something data analytics?
No, it's business administration and logistics supply chain with a double major in data analytics.
Okay.
Yeah.
So smart.
Hopefully you are.
We'll see.
Thank you.
Okay.
All right.
Cool.
Alright, this is a pretty young panel.
I would say the average age is probably around...
20?
Yeah.
Yeah, 20.
20.
Miss Trinidad brought the average up.
Thank you for that.
I appreciate it.
Alright, cool.
This is Sunday or Friday.
Yeah, it's Friday, guys.
So that means that we're going to go ahead and hit your guys' chats.
We already got 8,000 plus y'all here on YouTube alone.
And I think we got some more on Rumble.
So, Chris, call it from this point forward.
20.
Alright, so from this point forward, guys, it's going to be 20 to ask a question in.
However, all these chats that came in, y'all are smart.
You guys got them in before.
So, Mo, you got some?
5,000 on Rumble.
Alright, so we got 13k watching live right now.
We just started.
Alright, ladies.
What's one thing you will give your dream man that no other man has ever gotten from you before?
That's a very good one.
That's a good question, actually.
We'll start here, and then we'll work our way this way.
Remember, ladies, it's going to start here, then go this way, then back the other way around.
So, again, I'll say it one more time to give y'all a chance to think.
Ladies, what's one thing you will give your dream man that no other man has ever gotten from you before?
You gotta think now.
Yeah, like, I mean...
My chastity.
Oh, are you a virgin?
Yeah.
Okay.
Alright.
Okay.
I don't believe her, man.
She's from Ecuador, bro.
I don't know.
You don't even know where Ecuador is located.
All right.
What about you?
Me?
I would say because relationship being feminine.
Okay.
Okay.
Wait, hold on.
Is your current man getting that treatment?
Yes, of course.
Okay.
Otherwise, she'll get hit with the rock bottom.
That's why Woody tells her when she tries to give an opinion.
You want to wrestle me?
Yeah, you want to get rock bottom?
Yes.
Give her the people's elbow and shit?
Alright, what about you?
I would say be more submissive.
Okay, so you're not submissive now.
Yeah, champagne.
That wasn't obvious.
Shout out to Cuba.
Alright, what about you?
Probably think...
I'm not really sure, to be honest.
Man, that's selfish.
All right, so you'll bring nothing to the table.
Fantastic.
That's selfish, man.
Damn.
I'm playing NA, non-applicable.
I'm 18.
My youth, my youth.
What would you bring to a guy that you haven't brought, to your dream man that you haven't brought to anyone else?
I would say be more understanding.
Okay.
Were you not understanding to the guys you had before?
To the one guy?
No.
Okay.
Fair enough.
What about you?
I think I'm going to repeat what they said.
Oh, come on, man.
Being feminine and also being submissive and also being just peaceful because I can be a little toxic sometimes.
Well, I mean, you do sales, so you got to be kind of like...
Manipulative, you know?
Yeah.
I can see that.
That's good.
Yeah.
What about you?
So I am married.
So kids.
Okay.
Because, you know, men want to make sure that their seed goes on.
Yep.
And then new pussy because what's better than new pussy?
So I give him some threesomes.
Okay.
Oh, a sum.
Okay.
Okay.
That's what's up.
All right.
She definitely watches the show.
Yeah, 100%.
What about you?
I think I would just let him do him more than being more controlling than I'd usually be.
Were you controlling what the past guys you had?
For sure.
Like you would tell them what to do and they just follow?
Not necessarily tell him what to do, but just how I feel, how I think he should think.
Damn, she's demanding.
So you want him to subscribe to your way of thinking?
No, just for him to understand where I'm coming from, what he wants me to do, what he's doing.
So probably better communication, you would say?
Probably just like...
I would let him be more lenient.
Like, my last relationships, I was more, like, controlling.
Do you mean, like, you, like, um, I don't know, check up on him all the time?
No, just, like, be more chilling what he does.
Not so controlling.
I think what she means is she'll have more empathy.
Yeah.
There you go.
She'll be able to understand his perspective because before you weren't able to understand his perspective.
Exactly.
You look at it from a female standpoint versus looking at it from a male standpoint.
Yeah.
You're looking at it from an emotional angle where he's looking at it from a logical side.
There you go.
Is that accurate?
Yeah.
There you go.
Okay.
Took it long enough.
What about you?
The question is something that you've never given anybody else before.
Yeah.
What would you give to your dream man that you haven't given to a man before?
Right.
I would say a child because they've never gave birth.
No.
What about you?
I would say be supportive and...
You weren't supportive to all your exes?
And be a good stepmom, because for some reason I keep running into guys and children.
Okay, so you were a bad stepmom before.
Fantastic.
Oh, I never was a stepmom, but...
Does your current guy have a kid?
Yeah, a lot of men come with kids these days, so...
Okay.
What about you?
Speak for yourself.
Or have you ever had a guy before?
No, I haven't.
Okay, so you're just gonna give him...
What would you give him my kiss?
Yeah, like, on my first.
Okay.
Yeah.
Her v-card.
There you go.
No, not just that.
You know, like, a first, like, real date, like, a first kiss.
You haven't had your first kiss?
You didn't have a kiss?
I'll say.
Stop the cap!
Yo, Chris!
Show it away!
What the fuck?
Oh, man.
Look out, Chris, it's served!
How do you see the ID? Fantastic.
Okay.
Skull Buffs goes, hypothetically, your son is dealing with a physically abusive woman.
He calls you.
She spazz on him right now.
What's the advice you give?
Okay.
It's actually from a girl, it looks like.
Okay.
So your son is dealing with a physically abusive girl.
So she's slapping him around and shit like that.
And she spazz on him.
What advice are you going to tell him?
Spazzing?
Sorry.
Oh, spazzing means...
Yeah, she's going crazy.
Erotic.
Yeah.
Like, unpredictable.
My son?
Yeah, your son.
She's spazzing on him.
Yeah, she's attacking him.
What would you tell them?
Try your hardest not to hurt her, but, like, defend yourself.
I don't know.
Just defend yourself and, I don't know, get out of the situation as much as you can.
And if it's gotten to this point, then, like...
So she'd hit her with the...
Which is an uppercut.
I would say defend yourself, especially if it's my son, but at the same time, really do rethink why you're in this relationship to begin with.
What brought you to this point and why have you accepted this behavior from her?
Okay.
What about you?
I would say leave that situation alone.
Leave?
Okay.
What about you?
How old is my son?
Let's say he's uh...
No, I'm thinking.
25.
25?
Oh, because if he was like 18, I would say, give me the girl's mom's number so I could talk to her.
Oh, okay.
I guess I would have to talk to the animal and see what's up.
Did you call her an animal?
Yeah, she's hitting my son.
What the fuck?
How dare you?
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Okay.
What about you?
Just leave.
Tell them to leave?
Just leave, yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
So, I have a few things.
There's option to leave the easiest one.
There's therapy.
There's also, you know, sitting down with you guys and trying to figure out, are you all going to continue hitting on each other because you all can't do that?
And then let him know you could call 911 if it is important and you know, like, things are going down and she's going to call 911 because you retaliated to think she's doing.
Well, she's hitting him.
He's not hitting her.
Well, when someone is hitting you, you can only take hits so long before you retaliate, too.
So if you feel as though you're at your breaking point, feel the need to call 911 if you can't just leave.
Okay.
But you were trying to mediate in the beginning?
Yeah, until I see that they're continuously fighting.
Okay.
What about you?
That's a tough question, really, but I think I would just tell him to leave, because realistically, once the abuse is there, there's really no going back.
Once the disrespect is there, there's no taking that back.
Alright, so you would tell your son to leave a girl like you.
Fantastic.
Exactly.
Alright, what about you?
I would tell him that he's a grown man, that he shouldn't be taking that level of disrespect from a woman to receive hits from her, and he should just leave the situation and leave her That's right, King.
You go, King.
Don't take that shit.
Alright, what about you?
Um, I believe that he should leave.
But, like, also figure out the situation, what, like, led to this abusiveness, what led to, um...
Like, the problems, because honestly, it's just like, why be with somebody if you're going to be abused?
Like, there's no meaning, so just leave and be safe for yourself.
But is it relevant to figure out why it happened if it's already occurring?
There's probably no going back, right?
There is no going back.
So does it matter if you find out why?
Honestly, no.
Okay.
All right.
So just leave, I guess?
Yeah, just leave.
Okay.
What about you?
I would say the same thing.
Just leave the situation because there's no point to entertain, especially if you hit a female at that point.
I'm not going to say the law is always on the female side, but mostly it is.
So I'll just say just leave the situation because it's not going to get no better for no one.
Okay.
Okay.
What about you?
Question.
No, is he married?
Thank you.
Let's say just a regular relationship.
It's his girl.
He can leave.
Because she's going to keep on beating him, honestly.
Are you going to come in and suplex that bitch?
No, because I'm not trying to get arrested.
I've got a career to think of.
What about you?
Just leave.
Question for ladies.
What is the most expensive thing a man has brought for you?
And what's the most expensive thing you've brought for a man?
Your son doesn't count.
Count the times.
We'll start right here.
What's the most expensive thing a man has brought for you?
Maybe like a ring.
Like a promised wedding ring?
No.
I mean, I don't know.
I don't think so.
But yeah, it was a ring.
What was the occasion?
Just random?
Yeah, I think it was...
Yeah, it was random.
So random.
Just because?
It was like my first boyfriend, so I think it was like something special for us, like for our little relationship.
Like a promising?
Little?
Relationship?
Yeah, I mean, I was like...
Was it back in Ecuador?
Yes, it was.
How much did it cost?
I don't know, but I mean, it was Swarovski, so I don't know.
My nigga went to Pagoda.
Hey, give me a ring real quick.
Maybe.
Who knows?
And then what's the most expensive thing you've given?
I don't know.
My time.
Oh, shit!
Tangible gifts.
Okay, tangible.
Okay, so she's never given a gift.
Fantastic.
What about you?
Most expensive gift you've gotten and most expensive you've given?
I ain't gonna lie.
I can't even think of it right now.
Because it's not...
Ass whooping.
I never put my hands on anybody.
But, um...
That's contrary to your profession.
Come here.
I'll say a promise ring.
Do you know how much it cost?
It was like $70.
What the hell?
From Pandora.
What's the most expensive thing you've given?
The most expensive thing I've given?
10k.
What?
What?
I'll just say that.
Okay.
Because I haven't given money.
Let me guess.
You bailed someone out of jail?
No.
It was a period of time.
Okay.
Oh, okay.
Okay, but that means like one gift.
One expensive gift that you could think of.
I'm horrible.
I can't think of it.
Okay.
Well, you're a sugar mama.
There's been a few girls that have spent this magical number of 10,000.
It's always to bail a guy out of jail for some odd reason.
Yeah, 10k.
It's like they're all paying the same bails bonds, guys.
All right.
What about you?
Most expensive gift you've given and one you've received?
What you said for a man?
For my man, do you mean like boyfriend or any man?
Yeah, boyfriend or man that's given you a gift versus you gave him a gift.
Like family members count or not?
No, no, no, no.
Relational.
I would say a necklace.
It was a necklace.
How much is that?
A chain?
Yeah, it was like...
No, it was like $200, I think.
Okay.
$200 to $300.
All right.
What's the most expensive gift you've given, if anything?
I'll say money.
Like, a lot of money.
How much?
That's been within, like...
I don't know.
On one occasion.
One occasion?
Yeah.
Wait, you give men money?
Hey, I'm single too, by the way.
This, yeah.
I think it was like an 800.
Okay.
You paid somebody 800 bucks?
Nah, it wasn't like that though.
For what?
Yeah, like under what circumstances?
For what?
I was like, people go through hard situations, you know?
So he sold you a story, you give him money.
No, it wasn't like that.
So rent.
We've been knowing each other for a long time.
Did he pay you back?
No.
I'm still waiting for my money, though.
And I know you got it, so...
Got it!
Send my money.
My nigga say, yo, my life broke, baby.
Times are hard.
Okay.
So a necklace for $800, but you gave $800 cash.
Yeah.
$200 for necklace.
$800 she gave.
Yeah.
I said $200, right?
You said $800.
Oh, my bad.
$200, sorry.
What about you?
The most expensive thing that I've received from a man was probably an MCM bag.
No way!
I don't know what MCM is.
I already sold it.
How much is an MCM bag?
It's pricey, bro.
Pretty pricey.
He didn't tell me the price, but That ain't cheap.
How much did you sell it for?
I sold it for like $800.
Okay.
Which MCM bag was it?
It was like the pink one.
I don't know.
Hold on.
Was that your man or just a random guy?
It was my man at the moment.
Okay.
And then after you broke up, you sold it?
I sold it.
Okay.
How much was the bag worth?
Do you know?
Probably like 850.
And then what's the most expensive thing you've given, if anything?
PS5. How much did it cost you?
Honestly, I didn't buy it.
My dad gave it to me to sell it, but I just gave it to him.
Whatever.
I'm not gonna spend money on him.
He cheated.
Did he cheat on you?
Yeah.
No way.
You took that?
What?
No, I broke up with him.
I kicked him out of my house.
Good job.
You go quick.
Wait, he was living with you?
Oh, no.
He was sleeping over and I just kicked him out.
I found out.
How'd you find out?
Went through his phone.
Okay.
Okay, so you never got a guy a gift that you spent money on than yourself?
Well, yeah.
Okay, so never.
You got a PlayStation 5, but I wouldn't count that because your dad gave it to you.
Yeah.
Alright.
So she's up $800.
Alright, what about you?
He got us some concert tickets to some artists I wanted to see.
How much did that cost?
Like $300.
Okay.
And what's the most expensive gift you gave?
I got him a PS5 with my money.
With your money?
How much did that cost?
It was like the package with like multiple controllers in the game.
So it was like 800.
800?
Damn.
Okay, she downed 500.
Okay.
She got tickets for three, but down five.
Okay.
What about you?
Materialistic things.
I think the most expensive thing I got him was a Versace bag.
You got him or he got you?
He got me.
How much did that cost?
I don't know, probably like $600, $700.
It's like the big one.
Don't know.
Oh, okay.
Is that cheap?
I think in Orlando, it was when I was living in Orlando, and they have a lot of outlets.
So I think he got it at the outlet.
It definitely wasn't the newer ones.
He said discount.
It's okay, though.
I still got a bag, right?
And then, what's the most expensive gift you got, Guy?
Mmm...
I've gotten a lot of things.
I buy a guy's gifts.
I just don't know what's the most expensive.
I've gotten MCM headphones for my ex.
How much does those run?
I don't remember.
It was a long time ago.
I probably spent like $300 around there.
You're making money, so you can spend some money on your guy.
What's MCM, dude?
It's a brand like LV. Some kind of luxury brand?
Yeah, luxury brand.
What about you?
Most expensive gift you got?
Your guy and Bryce first.
So again, I am married, so I can't spend money on him, and he can't spend money on me.
So vacation, he took me on a birthday trip for my 30th birthday week in Puerto Rico.
He paid for a majority of things.
I just knew, like, we were booking the trip, and I had to take time off.
But everything else, he kind of did that.
Okay.
What would you estimate it cost?
Um, maybe like $2,500 at least.
Oh, really?
Okay.
For all the things we did.
We were there for a week, and we did activities every day.
Okay, so you got a deal then.
All right.
Yeah.
And then what's the most expensive gift you've got him?
Um...
Xbox, the new one that came out when it originally came out, I got it for him.
How much?
Probably $500 or $600 at that time.
Xbox 360?
No, the S1, the new one.
Oh, Xbox One.
Yeah, the one that's out right now.
When it first came out, I got it for him for Christmas.
Okay.
What about you?
Most expensive gift that you've gotten versus one you've given?
I think it was a Pandora necklace and a bracelet.
Okay, how much did that cost?
I couldn't even tell you.
It's like my first relationship.
Give me an estimate.
Or someone help out on the panel.
I don't know.
150 bucks.
Yeah, for sure.
150.
Okay, 150?
Alright, for the bracelet and the necklace.
Yeah, I think so.
Okay, and then what's the most expensive gift you've given I couldn't even tell you.
What about you?
Most expensive gift.
My boyfriend bought me a 2013 Mazda.
Cashed out.
Cash?
He cashed it out.
He bought it from his friend.
How much did that cost?
I know a guy owed him like two bands and I know he put at least $3,500.
$3,500 into it?
Yeah, but I fucked up because I never got my license.
But I'm just being honest.
I'm just being honest.
But I would still drive it, but I didn't get to put it under my name, you know?
Okay.
And then I crashed it, so then I never got to put it under my name.
You drove the car without your license?
Yeah, fuck yeah.
Okay, stay on camera one more time.
One more time, one more time stay on camera.
No, now that I think about it, I passed.
You might want to just be quiet.
I'll tell you that after the show what happens to me.
No, we know what happened to you.
Or it's going to happen to you.
Okay, so he gave you a car.
That's actually a really good gift because you don't got to make a car payment.
And that's like the second biggest expense for most Americans.
Okay, most expensive gift you gave.
I got him Giuseppe shoes and they were like 900 bucks.
Damn.
Who buys Giuseppe?
They were nice.
Nigga, that shit dead.
Okay, but this was like the COVID pandemic.
Everybody was wearing Giuseppes.
They did 10 years ago.
No, I'm just kidding.
I'm not a fashion guy.
Back then, the cars were less expensive.
Right now, cars are really expensive.
I don't know why.
That's very true.
When we were looking for cars, everything was down.
Everything's super high.
So Giuseppe isn't cool is what you're saying?
No, I'm saying that I saw the shoes and now they're lower than what I paid for.
Ah, okay, okay.
I'm just saying, like, three, four years ago, like, all the prices change and shit, but...
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, she still has spent $900, right?
The thought that counts, bro.
The thought that counts.
Shout out to you.
What about you?
Most expensive gift you've given and vice versa?
I feel like the most expensive gift I received from a man was his heart.
Gay!
But the most expensive gift I've given was a car.
Oh shit!
How much did that cost you?
It cost me thousands.
Like how much?
Probably like $30,000.
$30k?
So you paid it cash?
No, it was a car note.
Why'd you buy them a car?
How much did you put down on the payment?
I don't think we put anything down on the payment.
I had good credit at that time.
Hold on, why'd you get them a car?
He was broke?
We're in a relationship, and that's the car that he wanted, and I didn't have a car either, so I was like...
And he still cheated on your ass?
Yeah, he definitely did.
So wait, okay, so you got him a car, and then what's the most expensive gift you've gotten in return?
I know you said a man's heart.
I would say like $1,000.
You gave you just cash?
Yeah, cash.
Was it the same guy that cheated on you?
No, it was a different guy.
City boys, we up.
Alright, what about you?
Oh, okay, nothing.
Okay, fantastic.
Maybe these questions, I don't think.
What's going on?
What am I here?
For real.
What is this place?
Okay, we got here...
Y'all know TK. Ladies, do you believe your wife material right now?
And if so, what makes your wife material?
Because that's going to come through.
Average man or Instagram?
Oh, shit.
Okay, this was the easy one.
All right, ladies.
We can do those ones with a raise of hands.
Yeah.
Okay.
Would you prefer to either, A, have an average man making $30,000 to $50,000 per year, okay, that's 5'8", not necessarily in shape, average guy, right?
Maybe a dad bod.
Or, and he's marriage material, or Instagram.
Okay.
So if you have the average man, you don't have an Instagram account no more.
Or, hold on, or you have the man and you're married to him, but he's average, completely average.
So, let me know if you guys want the Instagram.
Ladies, it's very simple.
You have two choices!
I think I was pretty clear about that, right Chris?
Okay.
Two choices.
Either access to Instagram, Right?
Where you can do all the things that you want to do, post all the thirst traps you want, and get DMs from Blue Chex, right?
Or, you no longer have an Instagram, and you're with an average man in a marriage.
Five foot eight, let's say $50,000 a year, And regular body, dad bod.
Dad bod?
Not the most attractive guy.
Why do you have to say that?
It's an average man.
And he might be loyal.
Dad body, I'm thinking like beer belly.
You can work out.
You can lose your belly.
Okay.
Either way, it's an average man.
Okay.
So average man, marriage, or access your Instagram.
What do you want?
Which one do you want?
So raise your hands if you want the average man.
Okay?
Okay.
Okay.
Okay!
Yo!
Nice!
Alright!
So y'all will all give up your Instagram for an average fan.
Definitely.
So why are you single now?
I ain't put my hand out.
Why am I single now?
If y'all really want an average guy, why y'all single right now?
Because I'm not single.
If we're being serious, like, I'm still young, I'm still learning, I'm still...
We're being serious.
We're talking about right now.
Right now I'm single because...
No, no, no.
Ladies, ladies.
The question I said, you give up your Instagram now.
Oh, yeah.
That's no problem.
I'll give my Instagram up right now for the average man.
But he asked, why am I single right now then?
No.
Yeah, because there's plenty of average guys out there.
Why aren't you giving any of them a chance to learn your relationship with them?
Because, I mean, I want the average man, at least my relationship, to be healthy.
And in order to do that, we both have to be healthy.
Here we go.
This is a perfect example of women say one thing, but do another.
Yep.
There's plenty of average men out there, but there's a bunch of single girls on a panel.
Y'all could easily find an average guy.
Yeah.
Tonight.
But average doesn't mean that they're going to stay loyal.
Average is going to mean that they're going to respect people.
Okay, if they're going to be loyal, then yeah.
But not everybody's loyal nowadays.
I'm not giving up my Instagram.
I didn't put my hand up.
Listen, all these excuses.
Who wants Instagram?
I'm going to give my Instagram.
Oh, she ain't giving it up.
Cuba is the only one?
We know.
Okay, one's keeping it real.
Don't say that.
Alright.
That was some dog shit advice.
Yeah, I mean...
I think that's literally a quintessential example of girls say one thing, but they do another.
Yeah.
If an average guy came in a room, he'd be invisible to y'all.
You'd be like, I'm sure you got offers from average guys in your inbox.
Yeah, and y'all are not giving him a chance.
She's smiling in the back.
At school.
At your workplace, library, I don't know.
All right.
My best friend is getting married soon.
He had to nerve to...
Oh, okay.
Andrew Wood.
Ladies, you know the drill.
Oh, we haven't done this in a minute.
All right, we'll start right here, I think.
I think she started last time.
I just ended it, I think.
Oh, yeah.
Okay, yeah.
You.
My bad.
And here's one caveat.
You can't repeat what the other girls said.
Oh.
So you have to come with your new countries yourself.
All right?
So just name three.
Okay.
Colombia, Mexico, and United States.
Okay, okay.
No, you can't use the U.S. Oh, sorry.
Colombia, Mexico, and Spain.
Cool.
Jamaica, Bahamas, and Brazil.
El Salvador, Venezuela, Nicaragua, Paraguay, Bolivia, and Chile.
Okay.
Barbados, Cinquets, Guyana.
Cheese on bread.
There were so many already named, I guess.
Puerto Rico, right?
You got 120 more plus.
Puerto Rico, Santo Domingo.
Okay.
One more?
Cuba.
Good job!
What about your name?
Three countries.
Honduras, Peru, and Ecuador.
Okay.
Argentina, Canada, and Turkey.
We're gonna give her Canada?
Yeah, she's 18.
We'll give you a chance.
What about you?
I would say Panama, Nicaragua...
No, she said Nicaragua, right?
Sorry, yeah.
Okay, Panama...
Anybody said Brazil?
Yeah.
Al's stuck in South America.
For real!
There's a bunch of other continents, ladies.
I'll say Haiti.
Okay, one more.
I'll say Haiti, Panama, and...
You got this.
We don't believe you.
No, we really don't.
Let's see.
Damn.
It's Asia?
Asia?
Yeah.
What about you?
I think I just took all of them.
What was that?
I think somebody said that.
You got two more.
Dominica.
You mean Dominica?
Yeah.
Okay, cool.
One more.
Where's the last Wrestlemania?
I'm not sure if anybody said that.
Morocco, Greece, Sudan.
Morocco, Greece, where?
Sudan.
Okay, so you messed up with Puerto Rico and Santo Domingo.
Alright, cool.
We came close to naming three countries for every girl, but it's okay.
Light, 20 bucks.
Let's say you are at a party and you see a guy and girl talking and she tells you she needs help with her eyes.
Should you step in even though she's not your girl and you don't know her or just keep walking?
This is actually a pretty good question.
So you're at a bar or a club or whatever it may be, a house party, and a girl's talking to a guy.
I'm sure you guys have been in this situation before.
She's not really that attracted to it.
She gives you those eyes like, help me!
You know?
Are you going to stop and help this girl that you don't know or not?
Yes or no?
We'll start right here and work our way.
Yes or no and why?
Yes, of course, because if she's not feeling comfortable with the situation and I can do something towards it, I'll do it.
What are you going to actually do?
Maybe like, hey, sorry, can you go with me to the bathroom or something?
Okay.
What about you?
I'll legit cap and be like, hey, so your boyfriend's outside.
We gotta go.
Yeah, I would.
And if you want anything, any trouble?
Wrestling.
Would you step in, even though you don't know the situation?
Yeah, I will.
Like, I want somebody to do that for me.
So if I'm in that situation, I want somebody to step up.
I'll do it.
Guys, take your notes right now.
This is proving a point that we talk about on the pod all the time.
What about you?
I'll do the same thing.
I'll step in.
What would you say?
I'll just take her out there.
I'll just grab her?
I'll just grab her.
You don't know her!
It's okay.
If she needs help, she needs help.
She's like, don't touch me.
If she's giving me Help Me Eyes, then I will help her.
Can you just show us what Help Me Eyes look like?
Um...
I don't know what helped me.
I mean, I can tell when a lady is feeling uncomfortable.
I can tell.
I can sense it.
The energy, right?
The vibe.
The vibe.
Right.
Yes.
What is that?
I mean, she's so cute.
If you see a girl and she's just talking to a man and she just looks very, like, fidgety, she's just moving her hands.
It's about body language.
So if she looks uncomfortable, I would just pull her out.
I would just be like, look, she's uncomfortable.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Would you step in?
I mean, if I don't know her and she feels comfortable enough to give me those help me eyes, then it's like serious and I would just like, you know, go to her and be like, hey, I haven't seen you in a while.
Can you come dance with me or like pull her to the side?
Okay.
Okay.
What about you?
I'd probably do the same.
Pretend I know her and be like, hey, let's go grab some drinks or let's go dance or hey, look, our friends are over there just to like get her to walk away from him really.
All right.
What about you?
That's a cue.
So I've definitely done this before, but when I do it, I try to bag the bitch.
Are you sneaky?
Ah, okay.
You try to take her from one situation to another one.
Alright.
You're a trafficker.
Okay.
I'm just kidding.
What about you?
I think I would just pretend that I lost her.
Okay.
And I would just bring her with me.
Girl, where you been, girl?
Okay.
Would you intervene?
And why?
But my question is, is it just a guy talking to her like normal?
Yeah.
He's not doing nothing inappropriate.
No.
Okay.
You would leave it alone?
Yeah.
Okay.
Fair enough.
Why would you leave it alone?
Because unless she's, like, in real danger, like, I'll just let the guy talk to her.
Handle yourself.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Yeah, I'm kind of with her on that one because I've been in a similar situation where a girl was like just arguing with her boyfriend but she was like right next to me as if she wanted to leave the situation.
She was like crying and everything and then later that day I see her like hugged up with her boyfriend.
Okay.
If it was wrong.
Right.
So you don't want to intervene because you don't know the situation.
Yeah, I have to like analyze the situation a little bit better before I Okay.
What about you?
I don't know.
If they're just talking, like, at a club, like what you said.
Yeah.
Or if you're out.
Yeah.
I wouldn't necessarily do it if she's fidgety because maybe that just means that she likes him and she's nervous.
She might be nervous.
Yeah.
Oh, my God.
Exactly.
Like, you know, when you like someone, like, sometimes you're sweaty or you're, like, very nervous or you don't know what to say.
Okay.
That happens to you?
Yeah.
So, if she were to, like, look at me and be, like, you know, like, those eyes that you're just, like, Help me get out of here.
Sometimes you don't want to be mean.
I've had friends do that and I would do it for my guy friends too.
If they have a girl that she's talking to and she likes him but he doesn't like her back, then he gives me those eyes and I'm like, hey babe or hey something and get him out of there.
Okay.
Very interesting.
I think that question revealed the sister Uber Alice because I've noticed that girls will happily cock block even if they don't know what's going on.
Which is very interesting.
Okay.
Dog shit advice.
Ten bucks.
My best friend is getting married soon.
He had the nerve to think about a prenup.
Glad I convinced him to throw it out because real love doesn't need a prenup.
Okay, I appreciate that, my friend.
Ladies, do you guys agree with that?
No.
Okay.
Should you guys get a prenup?
Yes.
Raise your hands if you think a guy should get a prenup when he gets married in today's day and age.
Okay.
Yeah.
Some beast women in here.
Okay.
She like, hell no, nigga.
Yeah, the toxic one, of course, says no.
Flaming here on five bucks goes, ladies, would you prefer a guaranteed $1 million with no family or a high value man who provides for you but may step out on you from time to time?
This is a good question.
So we're going to start here and then work our way this way.
So I'll make it simpler for you.
Would you prefer...
A guaranteed $1 million, but you're alone, single with cats, or a higher status guy that could provide you that lifestyle, but he's going to step out from time to time and fuck some girls every now and then, but you're the main.
Which one?
Start here.
High value man, because I prefer having a family over everything else.
Okay.
What about you?
High value man.
Okay.
So you'll accept the cheating?
Sadly.
Don't cheat on me.
Hey, but at the end of the day...
Alright, what about you?
I don't know.
I'm in between of them.
Like...
I'll say high value as well.
Okay.
What about you?
As well, high value.
Didn't you just break up with a guy for cheating on you, though?
Well, if he got money, and then he can just go do whatever he wants.
At the end of the day, I'm wiping my tears on his Lamborghini.
Okay.
So you'll accept the cheating if it's from a certain guy?
Yeah.
Why did you not accept it from the guy that you kicked out your spot?
Because he was a bum.
Okay, okay.
Talk your shit, queen.
Fair enough.
What about you?
Okay.
What about you?
High value, man.
Not for the money, mainly for the family because you could be rich and you're lonely in your style.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
I'll say high value, man, because men are as faithful as their options.
I've been married for 10 years and I can say this for myself.
I've been cheated on.
But it's not really cheating.
It's how you do the cheating.
With the guy that you're with?
Yes.
Okay.
But I mean, we were together when we were 19, 20.
So is he not supposed to experience any of the pussies?
Is he not going to try to learn anything?
Is he not going to want to be a different person?
Is he not going to develop or grow?
So, I mean, I do understand starting earlier means that I'm going to get more in the long run because I have someone who's willing to work with me right now.
And a lot of people out here don't have people who want to work with them.
Everybody's giving up so easily.
Mm-hmm.
She's smart.
See, that's maturity, bro.
She's smart.
That's maturity.
She's fucking smart.
She got it.
Alright.
Cool.
What about you?
High value man with a million bucks or take care of you or are you with your own one million but single?
High value man.
Really?
Okay.
What about you?
I was thinking about the million with the cats, but...
I would love to touch a million dollars.
But I would just stay with my cheating-ass boyfriend, to be honest.
Because I wouldn't want to be by myself or, like, grow old without him, you know?
Okay.
Are you saying, like, hypothetically, or are you talking about the guy that you're with right now?
Like, right now.
If he was a millionaire, you'd work out with him?
Oh my god, even better.
Okay.
So would it be fair to say the only reason you don't accept his infidelity right now is because he doesn't have the financial status to back it up?
No, I still deal with it.
I'm still dealing with it, like, right now.
But you're not happy about it?
Of course I'm not happy.
Who's gonna be happy about it?
Well, let's say he had the million.
Would you be accepted and be happy with it?
That's the question.
Yeah, I'd probably be way cooler with it.
Okay.
Would you still make it OnlyFans?
I did that to be petty.
Wow!
Because I'm not even like...
I'm not even like...
I'm popping, but I'm not like...
It's not like it...
Like, I really did that just to like...
I'm trying to explain myself.
Okay, sorry, go ahead.
Okay, like I did it to like, be like, okay, I'm gonna do whatever the fuck I want to.
Like, you want to do whatever the fuck you want?
Okay, I'll do my little shit.
Like, to piss him off and to also like, to get the feeling of I'm doing whatever the fuck I want.
Did it work?
Did it work?
Did he piss him off?
Yeah.
Of course I pissed him off.
But who do you think gets hurt more in the long run from you getting this vendetta against him?
Probably me.
Definitely you.
So is it worth it to get back at him?
But you don't know what he's doing to me.
I mean, I don't care.
I cry about it all the time.
I'm pretty sure half of everybody that knows me knows about it.
But wouldn't it be fair to say that You getting even with him is hurting your ability to replace him with a better guy in the long run, which actually hurts you more.
Yeah, 100%.
I agree with you.
Because instead of going down to his level and being like, I'm going to be petty and go on OnlyFans and market my sexuality, you're kind of hurting yourself for the very man that you want to replace him with.
Yeah, my public favor for sure.
Yeah.
Yeah, I agree with you.
You might want to close OnlyFans.
Too late enough.
Whatever.
Bust a wide open.
Bust a wide open.
Yeah, you might want to close it down.
Okay, but it's up to you.
It's okay.
Because men are very big on, men are very different than women, and the way a woman presents herself out to the world is typically how men are going to perceive her, even if she's a good girl.
We've had girls on the spot that are only fan chicks or whatever, and they don't really be fucking like that.
It's perception.
And then we've had nurses that definitely be smashing, or flight attacks, they be smashing all over the place, and they have a higher body count, but nobody knows because of their profession.
It's the perception, yeah.
It's the perception.
I agree.
Yeah.
What about you?
One question I have to ask was, does that mean that you guys are married?
You guys are together, yeah.
Okay.
Then the high value man.
Okay.
But it needs to be within a marriage?
Yes.
Okay.
What if he said, okay, let's say he doesn't want to get married though.
He's like, nah man, baby, the state is going to take my money.
I'm good.
We're just together.
You have to negotiate a prenup.
Oh, okay.
So you would negotiate a prenup.
But you get nothing out of the marriage if you divorce.
That's fine.
Okay, you just want the marriage.
Even though you get no incentivization.
I'm going to get something because we negotiate the prenup.
So women usually get something out of...
No, you're not going to get nothing because you're going to keep updating the clause.
I still take it.
Okay.
Because the family in the long run is going to be beneficial.
What about you?
You are too calm.
High value man, 100%.
Okay, damn.
I'm actually shocked that no one said the million dollars by themselves.
Where's the boss babes on this episode?
I think they're on the way.
Not on this episode.
Maybe not yet.
What's the point of being on a mansion if you're by yourself?
Yeah, you're lonely.
Nice, Oprah.
Or what's the point of being like that?
Or somebody else.
What's the point of being, you know, like in a private jet?
It's incredible.
She's only 18 and she's seeing it for what it really is.
But you'd be shocked at how many girls come on this podcast and say, I'm going to have a million to myself.
I don't need no man.
They're going to regret it.
I'm independent.
I'm a boss, babe.
Damn.
Okay.
Would you ladies, real quick, would you ladies say that family and children is more important than a career and money?
Yeah, most definitely.
I think it depends on the woman, the way that she was raised, the way that she like has...
But in general, for most women.
Yeah.
You think family?
Yeah.
More important?
What about you?
Definitely family.
Yeah, reproduce for sure.
I think it goes both ways.
Both ways and which way?
What do you mean?
Like, I would love to have a family and children, but I also would want to have like my own career, like just for myself.
Okay.
But realistically speaking, it's very difficult to do both.
It's almost impossible.
Yeah.
You can't be a top achiever in your career field while simultaneously being the best mom.
One typically has to always give.
Maybe at a different time period.
You focus on your career, you do yourself, and then you get older.
When do you think a girl should focus on her career?
I think in her 20s.
I'll disagree.
Like, on your 20s, you're the most fertile, like, possible.
Like, you're in the peak of your fertility.
Also, you're, like, on your peak of beautiness.
So it's the time where you have to get married, where you have to, you know, have kids, between other things.
So I'll say the career after 30.
Because men look for youth, 100%.
Yeah.
Okay.
You better off finding a man first and then worry about a career.
But I mean, starting young, like working on yourself, you can still have your fun, just like do your own thing, but like progressively growing your money, your career.
But you're less likely to get a man when you're older.
And if you're younger, you're more likely to get a high value man who would provide for you and you wouldn't have to worry so much about that career.
What is going on right now?
No, continue, continue.
Go ahead.
Is it set up?
No, I see literally both ways.
It makes 100% sense what they're all saying.
Well, like, there's also just two different views.
You can't get everything, but...
Accountability?
I don't know if that's what it is, but...
Okay, so do you see their points, though, saying, like, you're the most attractive?
Of course, yes, 100%.
So are you willing to take that gamble when you have the best chance of getting the most attractive guy and putting it into a career versus missing the chance to get the best guy?
Yes.
Okay.
Ladies on the panel, do y'all agree with that or do you guys think that's a bad strategy?
It's okay.
You guys can say what you really think.
It's so circumstantial, though.
When the guy comes, stop and deal with the family.
If he wants family, that's what he wants.
If he doesn't, then you can work on your career for a little bit until he says, I want kids.
But if you have a guy and he's checking majority of the boxes, you can't find somebody who's going to check everything.
So choose your best option that is for you and then work with it.
Okay.
So are you advising...
You're a little bit older and you're married.
So are you advising that the ladies drop their career if the right guy comes along?
Yes.
Okay.
Don't sacrifice the man for the career.
I mean, if you have one year of school left, I wouldn't quit school.
But if you know that he can afford every single thing that it is taken care of, then your career means nothing.
So stop what you're doing.
And if he wants you to be a housewife, be a housewife and help him be more successful so y'all can be more successful.
Okay.
It's because, like, the fulfillment of getting a degree or, like, having this name on a professional field, it's nothing, like, compared to raising your own kids.
A woman finds fulfillment from having a home, having kids, and being married.
Wait, hold on.
Do I need this bottle tonight?
I don't think so.
What the hell is going on, bro?
No, no, no, no, no.
Hold on a second here.
Question.
How many of you guys watched the show before?
Raise your hand.
That makes sense.
That means that we have a foundation where the ladies are operating in some kind of biological reality foundation.
So interesting that you brought that up because you're someone that's in school right now and you're studying a pretty advanced degree with logistics and...
Data analysis and supply chains.
Are you, I mean, with this, are you willing to put your career on the back end for a guy if he comes along?
Yes, of course.
But, like, also, I'm graduating next year, so I know that...
From college?
Yes.
And 19?
Or 20?
20, yes.
Wow, okay.
Because I'm turning 20, like, on October of this year.
Okay.
And in March, maybe.
Yeah, May, I'll be graduating, so...
Okay.
Are you waiting for marriage?
Yes.
Kind of.
Okay.
Hey!
There's nothing wrong with that.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
That's actually great, and more women should adopt that mindset where school is here, but I'm going to go ahead and if the right guy comes along, etc., and I can get a family when I'm at my peak, I mean, yeah, cash out the casino when you're up, right?
I mean, I ain't waiting, but someone else will.
Goddamn!
Yeah, interesting.
Cool.
Oh, shit.
Okay, um...
Oh shit, man.
Okay.
Ladies, what are the characteristics of a man that will exercise options while he's with you?
Meaning, what traits do you think you should look out for that would tell you if a man is likely to cheat on you?
Okay.
So I think to simplify this, what traits you think make a guy a cheater in your opinion and your experience?
Or what signs?
Do you see a guy who might cheat on you?
We can start...
Actually, you wouldn't know.
Did we start here last time?
Yeah.
So we can start here.
I would say his phone constantly being blown up.
Like a guy's cell phone being blown up.
All the time?
All the time.
Random texts.
He's going to the bathroom.
Okay.
Right.
You know, always hiding his phone.
With fishy, right?
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, you probably know some of these signs by experience.
What are some signs that a guy is cheating or prone to cheat?
Okay, so if he's on his phone, he's going to go like this on the side.
Or like, you know how you have your messages that you could read what somebody texts you?
He's going to have that off.
Okay.
That's not always true.
That can be annoying sometimes.
No, like the notification because you can press it.
Like, okay, for example, mine are turned off because it's annoying.
What do you turn off?
Everything.
I think what she means is that when a text message pops up, it doesn't say what's being said.
It just says text message.
You have to unlock it to read the message.
That's what she means.
You can't see none of mine.
Oh, yeah.
There you go.
Like, for example...
Okay.
So, for example, like, the phone keeps just ringing back to back to back.
Like, who's texting you back to back to back?
Okay.
Your homeboy's gonna text you once, not back.
Back to back.
Another thing is, I would say, like, Instagram, in general, when you go on Instagram, if your search bar is clear, that's weird.
Why are you clearing your search bar?
I'm saying the things that I find off.
Why are you clearing your search bar?
Another thing is, if you go on Snapchat and he has a score of 15,000, forget about it.
What the fuck?
I don't even know about it.
Like your Snapchat score.
I know what you mean, but that's some stalker shit.
That's what I look at.
What about you?
What makes it obvious a guy's cheating in your opinion?
If he's always accusing you of cheating.
What about you?
I'm going to say if he's super happy, but there's no reason for him to be super happy.
Are you happy?
So we can't be happy?
No, y'all could be happy, but why are you super happy?
Don't get too happy.
Yeah, you're a little too happy.
I didn't give you a reason to be happy.
I won my championship.
I don't know.
I just came from the gym, got a good pump.
I made a new deal.
It's pretty hard to be happy for me.
So what if your husband now was just super happy?
What would you do now?
I'd be happy with him too, but at the same time, I'd be like, okay, I gotta look out for you now.
I'm watching these signs.
I'm trying to see, are you texting the same thing that everybody else said?
Are you going to text a lot?
Are you turning your phone away?
But I don't have those issues because I could pick his phone up.
I know his password.
He know my password.
So it's a little bit different.
If you have hidden emails or Two phones.
Two phones.
What do you mean hidden emails?
I mean, you can literally have different emails.
Like, why are you making a new email?
What do you need a new email for?
Your email for?
What's wrong with it?
For dating accounts.
For secret people.
For secret Instagram accounts.
Oh, like a text now number.
Like, did you buy a phone?
Yeah.
Oh, you know, he's searching up hotels or motels in the area.
Like, don't you have a place to live?
Like, why are you looking for a hotel or motel?
That's the thing that I would be like, hey, this is a red flag.
I don't think I'm stupid, you know.
All right.
Well, let's say, hypothetically, let's say you found some of this stuff in your husband's phone now.
What would you do now?
After 10 years of happy marriage, what would you do now?
So, I have conversations.
My mental stability is really important to me, so I am not going to give that up.
I have communication.
Just talk about it.
Like, hey, this is what I've seen.
I don't understand why I've seen this.
If you can give me a reason to make this make sense, we're cool.
But if not...
Babe, I just want to smash girls.
You know what?
I'm really happy for you.
You could be single because we only smash girls together.
So you can bring a girl and I can watch y'all do this, but if you're gonna tell me, I'm gonna go find some time at the side or go do something else.
I'm not okay with that.
Wait, so can he be like in the bedroom with her and then you be like in the living room?
Um...
So I'm not watching him have sex because that's what I want to do.
I'm watching it because I also enjoy it.
So if it's somebody that I would enjoy this shit with, that's fine.
I'd watch this.
But I don't like heavyset girls.
So if you're really heavy set, and that's something he's into, or if he likes older women, I don't like older women.
So he would smash somebody who's in, you know, 40 or who's like late 30s.
And I'm just like, she's not attractive to me, but she's attractive to you.
Go for that.
Like, I'm gonna, I'm gonna cheer you on.
You get that nut.
So you'll watch only if the girls meets your requirements.
No, I'll meet his requirements too.
Just, we have to agree.
I'll watch because I enjoy it, but I don't want her to be on top of me.
I don't want to eat her pussy.
I don't want to be like...
Well, that's what I'm saying.
If it's a fat girl and I'm watching, I don't have an issue watching.
But for me joining, that is an issue.
I'm not going to be okay with that.
So I'm not going to sit in the living room because...
It's not a lot of rules.
The only rule I have is we do stuff together.
If there's somebody that you like to do this with, bring it to my attention.
That's it.
Let's talk about it.
What about you?
Signs that he's cheating.
When he's always on his phone when he's with you, but then he can't text you back when you're not with him.
Also, when his phone is on Do Not Disturb, only when you're not around or when you're around type thing.
If you're in his face and he has his phone on Do Not Disturb, he got other bitches.
He's texting other bitches.
There's no questions about that.
Wow.
What about you?
You know too much.
I think most men cheat.
It's just whether you're going to accept it or not.
What are the signs that you think...
So you accept it, but what are the signs you would say?
One or two signs.
When he's with you, he's putting...
So he's black?
He's black.
I'm just kidding.
He's putting his phone facing down.
Okay.
I don't know.
I don't really look for signs.
I don't care.
Well, just so you know, when you put a phone facing down, you say battery life.
What about you?
I believe being accused of cheating or being accused of lying and when you ask them like why being so defensive they become more defensive on what they're saying and what they're trying to prove to you and as well as a second snapchat account.
Oh, a second one?
Second.
That's different.
Second Snapchat.
Okay.
These young people love Snapchat, man.
Yeah.
Alright, what about you?
Cheater's anthem.
I would say also when they accuse you of shitting when you're not really doing nothing.
When they turn into that.
Shitting?
She said cheating.
That's a very Cuban thing.
Go ahead.
When they turn the location off and they say that they didn't do it.
You know, on your phone, you could go on the other side and you could turn it off and they say, no, I didn't do it.
Come on now.
Okay.
Because we're in a relationship.
What do you mean?
What do you mean?
We're in a relationship.
You triggered my trap card!
Never give your location to your girl, guys.
For safety, though.
Like, you know, what if something happens to you?
No, no.
I'm fine.
I've been fine my whole life.
You don't need my location now.
Thank you.
Man, anyways, yeah, like, that location, why are you trying to end up in a new island?
You don't know.
When I ask you about a female, and you be like, oh, no, I don't.
I see you liking her picture.
Your name is right there.
Why are you lying about it?
Oh, shit.
The footprints.
And then I bring that to you when you act defensive.
Why are you acting defensive when I really caught you doing that?
Like, I see you.
That's a very good example.
This is why you don't like pictures on Instagram.
That's modern day cheating.
Alright, what about you?
I don't think it's cheating.
It starts the cheating.
It'll get you on the radar.
Giving bitches attention.
Women deserve less.
You shouldn't be liking their shit anyway.
Unless it's your woman.
That's it.
Even then, really.
When he's twitchy when you ask him certain questions.
Regular questions on who you on the phone with.
It's just weird.
He takes his phone to the bathroom.
He takes his phone to the bathroom.
He talks in there.
Who's on the phone?
He's networking, man.
No.
He takes his phone in the bathroom.
When he received calls, I could clearly hear the girl on the phone.
Who's down on the phone?
On my homeboy.
Okay, is this man that you're talking about still alive, or did you wrestle him into submission?
No.
I'm going to be honest with you, right?
That's a very good point.
She has a good point here, right?
Let me explain something to you about the bathroom.
It's a secret for Stella's, right?
You know where I'm going.
Listen, because my current boyfriend, okay?
Love my baby.
Anywho, my current boyfriend, he goes to the bathroom long periods of time, right?
He can just sit there for a good amount of time, but he's not doing nothing.
He's not on the phone or anything.
He's just chilling, scrolling on Instagram.
Literally nothing.
Let me explain, right?
So this is how you have your secret place of, I want to say, rest and relaxation, right?
For a guy you would buy it from.
You bring your phone, put your pants down, you're taking a shit.
You watch a video.
That's what you do, right?
My current boyfriend.
Wait, who said that?
Never mind, okay.
I don't know where it's going with that.
Good job, Fresh.
And also, I ain't done yet.
Also, he sleeps with his phone under the mattress.
Under the mattress?
Under his pillow?
Yes, my mattress.
My ex used to put it under the bed.
And I was just like, what?
I swear it wasn't under the bed.
You don't want something way to shit.
No, I definitely do too.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But you just sucked at expressing it, but okay.
Alright, what about you?
I think that everything had been set.
Give us one more.
Come on, Ecuador.
I mean...
He gives you a promise ring?
How do you know?
You don't know.
You're assuming.
Yeah, but I do believe that he was a good man with me.
Hold on.
You didn't give him the box?
No.
Oh, he definitely cheated.
You stupid.
I don't think so.
He was like, man, this sucks.
I need to get laid.
I'm a good guy.
I'm a bust a nut, man.
I'm a good guy.
So question, why did you and him break up?
Because I was coming to Miami for college.
Makes sense.
We weren't going to try long distance relationships.
There's no point.
Especially when you never smash.
Alright, Neil Stewart goes, ladies, when you get flown out, how fast do you give up the box?
Anyone here ever been flewed out?
Don't cap.
Okay, one, two.
Y'all in the corner's never been flewed out?
Come on, man.
They're 18.
Huh?
What do you say?
Each corner is 18.
I doubt they've gone out.
That don't matter.
After the show.
Alright, okay.
How fast do you give up the box?
Well, when I got flown out, I actually didn't give him the box.
Stop the cat.
What'd you give him?
Nothing.
And when we came back, he was real petty about it.
Denied.
Oh, wait.
Y'all went somewhere together.
Yeah, we went somewhere together.
Like, he was from Miami.
And he was like, hey, I work for this hotel.
You know, they give me free flights.
I honestly thought he was gay.
Because he was one of those men that were very feminine.
And, you know, I didn't really think much of it.
He never really tried to hit on me to that extent where he was like, oh, he wants to do something with me.
I kind of figured he just wanted to have a friend to get away with.
I was like, sure, why not?
I thought he was gay.
I didn't know.
So then he tried to make his move and then you just denied him and then he just was like, yeah, sorry, Twitch.
Okay, guys.
I forgot that we're on Twitch still.
Alright, guys.
Come on over to YouTube.
Okay, we're going to kill Twitch, Twitter, and Facebook.
We're going to stay on Rumble and YouTube.
Okay, guys?
So come on over right now to YouTube.
And or Rumble.
Rumble.com slash FreshFit or YouTube.
Shouldn't you have clarified with him if he's gay or not?
Before you went on a trip?
I probably should have.
Because, I mean, she wanted a free trip, though.
Where'd y'all go?
To New York.
It wasn't even...
Wait.
Was that your first time in New York?
Yeah, I was.
She was like, free trip, man.
Okay, we out.
What about you, Ms.
Cuba?
Where'd you go?
To Havana?
No.
Okay, where'd you go?
I've been to go places.
But I would say the same day because I knew the person that we'd been talking before that.
Yeah, it was.
Okay, so you knew the person?
Yeah.
But I got, you know.
Okay.
Yeah, he was in a different state.
Where was he at?
Uh-oh.
I'm sorry, I can't.
If you say the state, it's not like people are going to be like...
I'll say Michigan, and the other state was Ohio.
Alright, bro.
It wasn't you, bro.
Somebody else.
Alright, who else?
Blackest Panther.
Ladies, what are the characteristics of a man that will exercise options while he's with you?
I think we read that one.
Meaning, what traits do you think you should look out for that would tell you if a man is likely to cheat on you?
We said that before.
Blackest Panther, let's pretend you're 69 years old.
Now describe what you would hope a typical Tuesday would look like for you from start to finish.
Does it involve you going to work?
What are you doing to prepare for that future?
Someone asked this question because he got his chance.
Mo Vize, bro, they don't give a fuck about what you're doing at 69 years old, man.
Come on.
Thanks for the great podcast, Mark.
Question for the ladies.
Imagine you are married and he provides everything.
You don't have to work.
You want a kid, he doesn't.
What will you do?
Alright.
So, you want a child.
He doesn't, but he takes care of you.
Are you gonna...
We can make this quick.
Yeah.
Raise your hands if you're gonna stay with him.
Hi, hi ladies, so they can get a visual.
Over half the panel would stay with him.
Actually, maybe half.
Okay, so half and half, it looks like, would stay with him.
Okay.
Elojo goes, ladies, you get pregnant while dating several guys.
You think you know who is the dad, but your kid grows up and you see clearly that the real dad is not who you thought.
How do you tell your kid?
Are you telling the dad?
Wow.
Wow.
Okay.
Okay.
That's deep, if you know what I mean.
That's basically something true I saw.
Okay.
So we'll make this one simple, too.
Raise your hands if you're going to tell the dad that he ain't the father.
You're going to be like, man, it's not the cat, bro.
Did he raise the baby?
He raised the baby already?
Yeah, he raised the kid.
He's 18.
Shout out to Maury.
18 years later.
You want to tell the dad?
He deserves to know the truth instead of the kid.
That's a whole different life that they could discover, really.
At that age, don't tell me shit.
You're going to get older and you're going to start realizing that things aren't clicking and then you finding out on your own will probably hurt you more than your parent actually telling you.
No, no, no, not the son.
No, no, no.
Ladies, ladies, ladies.
You're confused.
You're confused.
Are you going to tell the man you had sex with that you thought was the father that the kid isn't his?
Yeah.
It also says, how do you tell your kid?
Yeah, it says, how do you tell your kid?
Okay, so y'all are telling the father, all of you.
I would.
They deserve to know the truth.
Would you guys want to know?
You know you're going to go crazy, right?
Listen, everybody has the right to react the way that they feel is necessary for a certain situation, right?
At the end of the day, it's something shocking for all of us.
A lot of guys won't be able to take that well.
It's something shocking to all of us, and if you can't be understanding of it, and you want to be her, and you want to do something like that, that's...
Hurting me or whatever, then you know, so be it.
You can handle it how you feel.
But at the end of the day, you need to know the truth.
I think it's a big lie.
You already lied.
If you're going to lie and you did that, you might as well just keep it a lie.
Especially if you don't even know who the dad is.
If you knew, that's a different story.
But if you didn't know, you still don't know.
Alright, so you guys are 100% telling the son and then one of y'all is not telling the dad.
I would say the dad did.
That's a good one.
I'm not going to put that on somebody.
I'm hoeing around.
Put a baby on somebody.
That's what I'm saying.
That came from earlier.
I don't think Frank is here today, guys.
Oh my god, 11 kinds of trouble.
Jeff White.
Chris, why are we doing 20 and up?
Chris fell asleep.
10-21.
All right.
Turn 26 today.
Please hit that down on the marker for the boy one time.
FNF doing justice for all men around the world.
Bless y'all.
We got you, my friend.
Free Top G. We all know that they're innocent, especially with that new CCTV footage that came out, guys.
It's exclusive footage that we only got that's really high quality.
Go check out that podcast after this one.
It shows the girls coming and going from the house.
It's fucking capital.
Yeah.
Recently watched one of the Lucario videos and felt like this would be a good question.
Question for the ladies.
Tell us the situation when you slept with a guy one time, then ghosted him, and why?
Alright, that's a good question.
These two can't answer.
Yeah, they can't apply.
What about you?
Go ahead.
Fire.
But the dick wasn't fire, I guess.
What happened?
Yeah, unfortunately it's usually due to that.
Bad performance?
Bad performance.
It's hard for me to tell someone that.
What does that mean when you say bad performance?
Please tell us what that means.
Too small?
Not giving enough?
For me, it's not really necessarily about size.
It's really just about can you last long?
Am I going to enjoy it?
Some guys don't last long.
How long is too long though?
It has to be like hours, but like some guys only last like 10 minutes or like 5.
10 minute man?
Yeah, like I've had situations where a guy only lasts like 5 or 10 minutes.
I mean, that's a long ass time.
What do you do after that?
I have to play it off like...
Because I don't like to hurt people's feelings, but it was like...
So if the duration is too short, you're out.
Yeah, because I didn't...
It was a situation where I had to tell the guy.
He was a good guy, too.
And you could just tell he just did not have that much experience.
And it was hard to tell him.
I don't like the ghost people, but...
Yeah, it was the situation.
But I told him.
I told him.
Your performance was trash.
I told him, like, we could try again.
And we tried again.
It's the same thing.
Wait, what did he say after that?
He was like, you want to try more?
Oh, you want a third chance?
And you're like, nah.
Respect for you even giving him a second chance and telling him what the problem was.
I don't feel like, because he said he was in a relationship for a long time.
And before that.
And I was like...
He was like, yeah, and he was like, yeah, but I was like, she had to cheat on you because, like, it's just no way.
Yo, fellas, if that's you, right, bro?
Pop a Viagra and go crazy, nigga.
Move around, bro.
Don't let that take the L. Move around.
It's a lot of guys that's like that, though.
Pop something, niggas.
Damn!
He's gonna pop his heart listening to you though!
It's the guys that you least expected.
Like a lot of girls expect the guys.
Oh, is he like an attractive guy and shit?
Yeah, a lot of times it's the attractive guys.
I'm gonna tell you this, bro.
I want to say something but I don't think I should say anything Like, when you're, like, making love to somebody or whatever, and they're like, I love you and shit, like, I think I just met you.
Alright, so you ghosted a guy for, like, prematurely saying I love you.
Like, saying it a lot.
Like, I love you, baby.
I'm like, oh.
They're reminiscing for sure.
Okay.
All right.
Fair enough.
What about you?
I've never had a one-night stand.
We've always, like, came back to each other.
Stop the cow!
We've always came back to each other.
Stop the cow!
Get it?
Came back?
But keyword, you said came back.
So that means someone left the other party.
No, like, we just do it again.
Okay, so you've never hooked up with a guy and then just ghosted him after because he had a bad performance or he annoyed you or something?
Come on, dude.
Yeah, but it happened more than once.
Okay, but why did you ghost him, though, is the question.
Because I got annoyed.
What was the annoying behavior?
I was just doing too much.
Such as?
Like, texting me good morning.
Ah, okay.
Wow.
Starting to be nice.
Here's the thing, like, yo, the reason why I want to get these answers, ladies, is so the guys in the chat can kind of learn, like, yo, this is, like, this shit is not...
Because I don't know why dudes send good morning texts.
Yeah.
Like, that shit, bro.
Good morning, baby.
Here's the thing.
Let's say the girl likes you and you send a good morning text.
Yeah, she'll be happy about it in the beginning, but she's eventually going to get worn and torn by that shit and annoyed.
Did you like the guy at first, I'm assuming?
I was feeling him.
Nothing relationship-wise, but I was feeling him at the time.
You were physically attracted to him?
Yeah, at the time.
Now, not at all.
Would it be fair to say that Him hitting you up too much and being annoying is what made you lose arousal for him?
100%.
Even though he was physically attractive?
Yes.
Okay.
Guys, here's a gem, right?
After you smash and you did a very good job, let her do all the pursuant.
Oh yeah.
I agree.
What about you?
I've just never had a one night stand.
Never?
Never goes to the guy ever?
I have never had a one night stand.
That's the cap!
Okay.
Just a one night man.
I've never had sex with a person once and done.
Ever.
Damn.
My body count is on one hand.
Alright.
What about you?
Yeah.
I would say they were attractive but their personality wasn't for me or they showed some characteristics that I didn't like.
Give us the specifics of what made you say no.
Well, I don't know.
It could be the smallest thing.
Let's say they just said something that I didn't like.
Damn.
Women, we have boundaries as to what you can say to us, what you can do to us, things like that.
If there are certain things that you don't do or there are certain things that you say that I don't like, I might fuck you because you're sexy or whatever, but I might not ever pursue nothing with you ever again.
That's fair.
But what I'm asking is, what did they do specifically that made you ghost that particular individual?
What did they say?
Can I see you again?
I don't know what to mention.
Something that icks you.
When they try too hard in the beginning.
That's like an ick, I guess.
I might still give it to them because they're sexy, but if they try too hard for it, I won't give it to them.
Like constantly messaging you or something?
Over-pursuing?
Over-pursuing, for sure.
So you gave it to them, but then you're like, this guy is thirsty.
Thirsty, exactly.
He probably over-pursues everybody.
That cross she's wearing, man.
Who?
That cross she's wearing.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
She's a woman of God.
What about you?
What made you ghost a guy before?
I haven't.
I haven't had that situation where I had, like, a one-night stand.
Stop the cow!
Never?
Nope.
Stop the cow!
Alright.
What about you?
I believe...
Their age, I'm just kind of like, I can't...
It's like, well...
If we go...
If I push more, it's like, I don't want to hear about this stuff.
Yeah, yeah.
We don't.
Alright, go ahead.
Honestly, when a guy is just trying to, like, Make you fond of how he works his body and try to hype his work.
He's cocky.
He's very cocky, but when he puts in the work, it's not all of that.
It's not there.
It's not there at all.
Okay, just so I understand this.
So you're saying before you guys hook up, he talks about how he's going to be really good sexually.
And then he underwhelms you and then you're like, okay, I'm good.
Yeah, like it was not all of that that you told me.
It was I'll talk.
I'll talk.
So you ghosted the guy before because the performance didn't live up to what he said.
Guys, here's a tip.
Under-value yourself and over-perform in the bedroom.
Every single time.
When I worked for the government guys, a famous saying was under-promise, over-deliver.
Always.
Always under-promise, over-deliver.
What about you?
I would say the same thing.
Don't hype yourself up if you're telling me, my dick is good, I have all the girls going crazy.
And then I try you and it's like, what are we talking about?
And then I thought he was fucking with another girl and I was like, We don't even compare.
So that's why you ghosted him too?
Yeah, that was the second reason.
What is your type?
I'm not your type.
It wasn't because you had a farm in Ohio?
I don't want to talk about Ohio.
Fuck Ohio.
What about you?
I've never been in that situation before.
No?
No.
All my relationship, which is two, so...
She tried.
He gave her the DDT. You ain't going nowhere, mom.
Grabbed her like this and like, oh, and boom.
No escape.
Yeah, no escape.
Alright, what about you?
Oh, yeah.
Shit.
Okay, okay.
What have you learned from these answers here?
Oh, yeah.
Like, about the topic?
Yeah.
Well, the...
I don't know, like, there are so many things that play into this kind of situation.
I think that the fact that men are always trying to, you know, like, talk good about their, I don't know, like...
Abilities, it's the thing that maybe can affect more into the situation itself.
You expect something else, and then you receive nothing.
I don't understand anything you said, but okay.
What have you learned?
Same thing.
I agree with most of what they said.
I believe that a lot of people say, I want the guy that texts in the morning and all of this.
You want that?
No, but what I'm saying, it's nice.
I feel like it's nice because it's not usual.
So what you said is true.
When it becomes very normal, then it becomes a point like, okay, again, they're texting every single day, putting too much effort.
I'm just saying, putting too much effort or showing too much, it's like a guy too.
If you have a girl behind you every single time and she's really throwing herself at you and you know you can have her at any moment, you might sleep with her.
But if she's really that desperate, in a way, you're going to get turned off by her.
You're not really going to take her as wife material.
You're not going to take her as seriously.
Sometimes, yeah.
I don't agree with that.
I think if you're throwing yourself at a guy, like a guy has to just choose, like, is he wanting to be with you?
Is he ready for a relationship?
Does he want what you want?
Because, I mean, guys are going to choose their best option as well if they're looking for a relationship.
But if they're looking for sex, then they're going to choose their best option, the easiest.
But if they have a bunch of girls that are after them or a bunch of girls that are desperate for them, then, you know, like, I talk about, let's say, my friends.
Like, if they have a bunch of girls, they might sleep with them.
But they're like, oh, Nicole, like, I would never...
So your friends right now, they're young.
Exactly.
That's very different because we're very different, like...
Let's say 10 years from now, you can talk to those guys.
They're not going to...
They're probably looking for someone who's...
They're looking to settle down.
Like, at a certain point, you want to settle down.
Because when you meet the guy, like, is he ready for that or is he not ready for that?
Mm-hmm.
So you can be a girl who's going to wait with a guy who's not ready for that and you're going to put your best foot out and you're going to clean his house and cook for him and you still don't have a title and eventually he might give you the title but you're still going to have to do the work before you get that title.
You know, actually, that's a very good point that you made because a lot of girls, you'll get the man sometimes simply by attrition.
And what I mean by that is you just waited longer than the other girls.
You added more value than the other girls over a long period of time.
And this is kind of like the double-edged sword for women is that because women have a finite amount of time to find the best guy that they can.
So a lot of girls are scared to lose their 20s to a guy that they don't feel is worth it.
But if you meet that guy and you think he's worth it and you sacrifice your 20s for him, right?
It is a risk.
It's a gamble.
But more than likely, since most of these girls are useless, you're going to be the only one that's useful.
He probably will give you a title.
Yeah.
I'll be honest with you.
If a girl pursues a guy long enough, because the thing is that most girls don't pursue guys, and most girls don't add value.
So let's say you're not the most attractive girl, but you do everything, and you help them out, and you actually are a value, like a two-in-as-asset person.
Box.
You'll beat out all the other girls simply by being useful over a long term.
And he'll probably wife you up.
This is why you see a lot of guys, if you look at a lot of millionaires, a lot of guys who are successful, you look at their wife, she's underwhelming.
She's not that hot.
But she probably stayed the course and realized, I'm not leaving your side.
I'm going to stick by you because I see the potential and I want to be with you.
And then he'll pick her because she's just the best one.
She's like loyal, the most loyal.
Yeah, and then the other thing too is that, I'll be honest with y'all, man, like, I tell guys this all the time, you're better off wifing up a girl that isn't the baddest, 6'7", right, in that range, because those girls tend to be the best when it comes to utility and offering value back, versus the girls that are dying pieces, they're useless a lot of times because they never had to be useful.
So, yeah.
So, I mean, that's some advanced game right there.
Because I've told girls this too, like, listen, it's a gamble, but if you're with a guy that's attractive, let's say he's not ready to settle down now, but you just stick it out and you wait and you're still there.
You're the one that's always consistent and reliable, etc.
You're probably going to get the title and beat out all the other girls simply by attrition.
Hmm.
That's how it works?
Yeah.
Because most girls don't have the patience and or the ability to provide long-term value to a guy.
Because a lot of girls are taught, do what's best for you right now.
And if that means leaving that guy and going to something better, girls are far more likely to initiate breakups and jump on the next best thing.
But could you also just say, like, wait for them?
Like, not necessarily...
I don't know.
I feel like that also brings a lot of heartbreak.
I completely understand what you're saying.
It's a risk.
That's what I mean.
That's why I said it's a risk.
And it really hurts.
If I was in love with someone right now, but my age, we're about to go to college, and they're very handsome or whatever, and they're going to go through their stuff, and they're going to go out with girls and whatever, I wouldn't necessarily be like, On them all the time.
Like, I really, really like you and I really want to be with you.
It's more like, you know, you know how I feel about you.
And if you ever need a friend, like, I'm here when you want to talk about it or whatever.
Like, if I really like someone, I would wait for them.
But when I'm saying, like, desperate is, like, all the time, like, constantly nagging.
Like, you know she's desperate.
Can I ask you a question?
What's the oldest book on your bookshelf?
Do you know the name of that book?
It's old.
It's just there.
You know, it's collecting dust.
If it's not doing anything for you, then why would you?
For him to know that it's, like, I'm not just here because I want to sleep with you.
I'm not just here because I think you're cute.
I want you to think of me as a friend.
I want you to think of someone that you can rely on.
But you're just another block.
You're just another light.
You're nothing different.
You're just there.
To continue to stand up.
You have to give more.
I feel like in a way, we also put men through that same string along where we're like, are you good enough?
Are you not?
Men have to prove themselves in order for us to give ourselves to them in the first place.
So I feel like it's kind of equal.
Women should also fight for their men or prove your point.
I'd argue, and I think, well, not even I think.
I know most girls don't fight for their men, which is why so many girls are single.
And if you do fight for your guy, trust me, that's going to leave an impression.
It's exactly what you said at the beginning.
I completely agree.
Nowadays, everybody just wants to give up.
Nobody really wants to understand or nobody wants to sit down and talk about it or go to counseling.
And when you said about the high-value man at the beginning, I always say I would hate cheating, but under certain circumstances, I would accept it because there's very different stuff that happens along the way.
Another thing, too, also for the ladies is that you also kind of have to be intelligent enough to understand, like, let's say you're 21 and you're looking to consolidate on the best guy.
You probably want to date a guy that's a little bit older than you.
You know, 7, 8, 10 years above because...
As you're coming to fruition, he's going to be coming to a point where he's like, you know what?
I can get married at this point, etc.
He's more established.
He's a little bit more mature.
He might have gotten maybe the random sex out of the system.
He's still going to always want to fuck bitches.
Don't get it twisted.
But maybe not to the same level.
So that's also where it's important.
As a girl, you want to date a guy that's older as well.
And it just typically tends to work out.
Older men typically go better with younger women.
Do you guys think there's such a thing as too old?
For a man or a woman?
Like, the difference between them.
That's actually a pretty good question.
You mean the age gap specifically?
Yeah, the age gap.
No, I don't think there's...
No.
I think, honestly, once the guy's mature, it doesn't really matter that much.
I mean, generations are going to be different, but, like, I mean, still...
Ideally...
Probably somewhere between 7 to 10 years.
7 to 15 on that scale, because it could range very drastically depending on culture, country, upbringing, etc.
I'd say 10, bro.
Well, I'm saying depending on the culture.
That's why I gave it more variance, 7 to 15.
But I would say for a man, like A guy can get married and bust it up to whenever for a woman.
I would say, yo, you want to be married by the time you're before 30, at least.
Did you see Britney Spears' husband?
No.
Which one?
The Kevin Federline guy?
I don't know, but they showed a video of her when she was younger with this little boy, and they're saying that that's her husband now.
And there's a 15 year difference.
You know what?
That's a perfect example.
Britney Spears, what you just described, that's a perfect example of what happens when a woman becomes too successful and basically she out-markets herself.
And what I mean by that is, Britney Spears now is kind of in a point, and for those of you that don't know, because she's kind of, if you're young, you might not know who the hell she is.
Famous pop singer, literally took over the world in the fucking 90s and early 2000s, etc.
She was at the peak.
But her status, her income, her stature, all that stuff, basically what it's done is it's made 99% of men not qualifiable for her to her degree.
So now she's older, way past her peak.
So she's got to settle on what does she end up doing, which you just described.
She's with a younger man.
She's with a younger guy that probably isn't on her social status, etc.
And she's got to settle down.
And I tell you this, women are almost never happy when they're in a leadership role where she's inevitably going to be with this guy.
Did she make that song, Oops?
Yeah.
You're pretty good.
That's way before her time.
But yeah, Britney Spears, yeah.
It's our generation of Madonna, essentially.
She's like a sugar mama.
Essentially, yeah.
But that's what happens a lot of times when women become too successful is they get stuck a lot of times with guys that they would never be happy with.
She married Kevin Federline, who I think was a backup dancer of hers back in the earlier 2000s.
Nigga won a jackpot.
Yeah, he won a jackpot, but it didn't last because it never lasts when a woman is in the leadership role.
Yeah, she just got married.
Yeah, that's an L. This panel is so fine.
Y'all making me send in a super chat.
Ladies, you think a guy will still want you the same in your 30s versus your 20s and why?
We kind of covered that earlier.
Yeah, this came from before.
Oh, IRS. He goes, ladies, did you file your taxes yet?
And if you get a refund, what are you planning to do with it?
P.S. All unreported income will eventually be mine.
Don't play with my money.
Shut the IRS. Yo, man.
Yo, when those girls...
IRS, you're funny as fuck, bro.
Yesterday when they talked about the girls getting all that money and shit, that was funny as chat.
Saying, you bitches better than baby.
Yo, who's this person, bro?
Shorty, fresh as balls.
Okay, fresh, you got this.
It's your balls.
Shorty, you blot leather.
Fresh, but tuned-y weeks has arrived and is ready to make your fantasy of him clapping your cheeks in reality.
Who?
Big homie.
Let's give her some my nigga love.
What the fuck, bro?
Okay, move on.
What did you say?
Bro, I don't want to know.
Dizzle says, Before finding the RP, I thought the only way out of my sexless marriage was self-deletion.
Since then, I've lost 45 pounds, put on some muscle, leveled up my mindset and finances, credit from 515 to 760, free to taste.
Good job, bro.
Shout out to you.
Bleak my balls.
Greetings from the Netherlands.
Question.
Do ladies think men like a tattoo on a woman?
And question for the men, do you actually?
Hmm.
What's the question if we like tattoos?
I think he's asking if men like tattoos on women.
That's like a personal preference.
Some guys think it looks dirty.
But generally, do you think guys like that on women?
Honestly, it depends on your mother.
If she's religious and you come home with a whole bunch of tattoos, some moms are going to be like, what is this?
Once again, it's a guy.
Yeah, but is he gonna want to, like, be around her, like, with a whole bunch of tatted up?
Like, I don't know.
Depends if he doesn't care.
Some people care about, like, how they look with somebody.
Hmm.
Probably when it looks tacky.
Like if you get your homeboy like, ayo, I do tattoos.
And then everything is on your body.
It's just unorganized.
When it looks symmetrical and it looks nice, most guys would probably.
I think one or two maybe, but you got a whole damn arm and it's just like...
She's here to tie it up.
Me personally, I don't really care.
Okay, cool.
We got here.
Sauce Blueprint says, Free Top G. Ladies, if your man bought your engagement ring on sale, would you be mad?
Original price, $1,000.
So price, $350.
Cool.
I'm always for a bargain, so no.
Okay, that's not bad.
Education system says, I don't appreciate how y'all motherfuckers roasted me for using death instead of debt on the last show.
I was exhausted from grading these 304 quizzes on naming three countries.
Now all you motherfuckers got 30% increase on them loan payments.
That's messed up, bro.
Okay, leprechaun says, ladies, give the pH level to go next to you.
Give the pH level to go next to you.
Okay, so...
No, no, no.
That's a little bit off-putting.
Them boys...
I don't know who this is, but it says, I don't want to be a pessimist, but I'm scared that the Tate brothers might never get out because of these super traffic crimes, but that they would try to frame them on some kind of financial crime the average person wouldn't understand.
I mean, we don't know.
We're just waiting, bro, at this point.
Hopefully that doesn't happen.
J Sparrow 09 says, Ladies, your daughter's husband is a millionaire and she comes home crying, saying that he cheated.
What advice would you give to your daughter?
Yeah, we kind of touched that topic earlier.
Okay, HZ? I'm 18, born in Baghdad, live by Detroit at the moment.
Any advice on how to invest in real estate other than wholesaling because everyone does it?
I'm also getting into mechanical work.
Question for the ladies.
Is four wives okay?
Alright, so I'll make this one simple.
Is four wives, would you accept a guy that is from the Muslim background and has four wives?
Yes or no?
Actually, I think it depends on my culture as well.
Okay.
So I'm a Christian and I want to accept four wives.
But in another context, like having into consideration that I was raised in a Muslim family, for example.
You were?
No, no, no.
Oh, okay, okay.
Yes, you were.
Okay, okay.
I'm elaborating.
Hypothetically, hypothetically.
So I will accept that.
I mean, it's pretty common for that culture.
Okay.
Would you accept the guy that wants four wives?
No.
No, he got to be monogamous to you.
What if he's a millionaire, though, that we talked about?
Listen, if I was raised differently, probably, but no.
Okay.
So, you would accept the cheating, but not four wives?
Or multiple wives?
Okay.
Oh, no.
Okay.
What about you?
I would say it depends on the money, how I was talking about earlier.
It depends.
Okay.
Yeah.
All right.
So, he could have four wives if he has money.
Yeah.
What about you?
Same thing.
Four wives for, like, money.
Yeah.
All right.
I'm keeping it real.
What about you?
Yeah, I'm gonna be a sister wife.
Ha ha!
What about you?
Would you accept it, Ms.
Toxic?
I think the only way I'll be a sister wife is if that man was like a perfect man that I can never find again.
Like, that's the only way.
What are those perfect checkboxes that you need in place?
Good communication, understanding, patient.
You know, things like that.
I love how girls use these.
What would you need to be attracted to them in the first place?
Because there's a bunch of nice guys that have those assets you just mentioned, but you don't give them a chance.
So let's talk about the stuff that must be there that's more physical.
That's more physical?
Yeah, keep it a thousand.
Yeah, because girls like to cap about what they're really attracted to versus what they're aroused by.
Yeah.
Gentle, nice, blah, blah.
You don't give a fuck about none of that unless he meets the prerequisites first of you being attracted to him.
I'm going to be honest, though.
Like, I know some people would say looks.
I mean, looks is a factor.
Like, you're obviously going to...
The first thing you're going to look at is looks.
All right, Chris, pull up the calculator.
She ain't going to do it.
So we're going to do it for her.
Pull up the calculator, Chris.
We'll come back to you.
What about you?
No, I'm not sharing.
No, four wives.
No.
So if you're a man right now, convert it to Islam and say, you know what?
I want four wives.
You know, you talk about women don't want to hear the truth.
I can hear the truth.
Tell me you want four wives because I'm not going to stay there to be one of them four.
But can you accept the truth that I'm not going to be there?
Well, we'll have three or four other wives then, I guess.
Alright, so you wouldn't accept it.
What about you?
No, I wouldn't accept it.
Why not?
I just wouldn't like it.
Sharing.
Sharing.
What if he's gonna fund your business?
Well, you would share the millionaire.
They're gonna share regardless.
But like three?
Like three?
Like three more other girls?
He'll probably have six that are a secret.
Yeah, but it's like separate.
Like, I don't know.
I don't really have to know about that.
I mean, he's a millionaire.
He's gonna sleep with hundreds of women.
You're just not gonna be aware of it.
Either you know or you don't.
I just much rather not know.
That's what I'm saying.
At least you know those are three, four girls that he's constantly fucking and they're clean and he's clean.
I mean, he's a millionaire, so...
I think it makes it more personal.
Like, it's different when he's just fucking other bitches.
Like, I don't care.
Like, it could be anywhere.
Listen, ladies.
Sharing is caring, okay?
Wait, you were saying to her?
Go ahead.
Like, one day you could be like, look, I don't want to cook.
I'll clean today.
You go cook and vice versa.
It's like, she's going to be your best.
Alright.
Anything else you want to say on that one?
So, okay, you just want to do it because you don't want him having...
You're okay with him fucking other bitches, but not wifing anybody else.
Yeah.
Okay, what about you?
Would you accept four wives?
Or multiple wives?
I have a question.
Alright.
Do I have to be in a relationship with these four wives?
Or it's just...
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
No, you don't have to be...
No.
You have your own house, technically by Islamic...
I have my own house, and I don't have to live with them?
No.
Girl, take it, man.
Yeah, according to Quran, you have to treat all the four wives the same.
If you give one $100,000, you gotta give the second one $100,000.
It's a check and balance to make sure that only men of status and stature can have multiple women.
I mean, I've never been with somebody that believes in that religion, but, like, why not?
I would try it.
I don't know.
I don't have to see them every day.
Give it a try.
I don't know.
If I don't have to see them every day and I don't have to, like, Be with them.
Nah, you wouldn't even see your husband every day.
Oh my god.
Seven days is horrible.
I need to see my husband every day.
No, you don't.
Yeah, I do.
Seven days a week for girls.
Alright, so yes or no?
Would you accept it or no?
I'm not going to see my husband every day.
No.
Probably not.
No.
Okay, so you wouldn't accept it.
No.
Alright, what about you?
If he's the African prince.
Hey, she's not my name.
Shout out to French.
So I'll take that as a yeah.
And then what about you?
Would you accept the guy that has four wives or wants four wives?
No?
Nope.
Fantastic.
And wasn't there a second part?
Oh, as far as real estate, I mean, wholesaling can get you into the game, my friend.
Nothing wrong with that.
Watch our real estate videos.
I have a bunch of videos on how to invest in real estate.
But don't buy Michigan.
Michigan is one of the worst markets, man.
Detroit.
He said he's from near Detroit, which probably means he's probably from Dearborn if he's Muslim.
Okay, K. Martin, at the end of each podcast, could you ask the...
Could you ask the women if the man of their dreams watched this episode, do you think he would want to pursue you?
I think the answer is probably yes at this point.
I don't know.
Mr.
Gaines, during your time at DHS, I'm sure you arrested people for one crime, discovered evidence for possible other crimes, and the prosecutor decides to pad the charges.
You've read Miranda.
Sorry, Fresh.
Anything you say can or do...
What?
I don't get it.
Or do a Ken and will be used.
The Miranda case?
The Supreme Court case?
No?
Court case?
Yeah, it's a court case.
He's playing dumb because of a certain person.
It's fine.
Alright.
Three Diglets.
To the wrestler, what would be your ideal theme song to make an entrance to?
What would it be?
It would actually be either techno or house music.
What about that sound that goes...
And also a mix of rocks, so yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
So what would it be nugget if you bugger some shit like that?
That's exactly what I was thinking about.
All right.
We were being racist there.
Wait, wait, wait.
Stop.
You think so?
So a question.
Who's your favorite wrestler?
Mine's Jeff Hardy.
You did a lot of drugs, but that's okay.
Are you pro-attitude era or are you more this new era?
Attitude.
What do you think killed wrestling then?
When they actually started, honestly, revealing that it's fake.
Because, honestly, it's an art.
It takes two to tango to make the show.
And now it's like, oh my gosh, it's fake!
Alright, take a bump on the actual ring.
You can actually get hurt.
That thing is...
Honestly, no.
Some of the hits really hurt, right?
Like when you bleed and stuff, you really bleed, right?
It's not like fake blood.
A lot of times they actually cut themselves with razors.
But yeah, no...
I think John Cena killed wrestling, but that's just me.
I think once John Cena started to pop off, that's when, like, 03, 04, that's when she started to get fucked up.
Shut up, Chris.
What about Randy Orton?
Do you like Randy Orton?
Randy's Orton.
He's not bad.
I mean...
I liked him because he was so bad.
Everyone hated him.
Once The Rock and Stone Cold started to exit the WWE, that's when things started to get fucked up.
What was this one?
That's DX. Yeah.
Dominate.
How do y'all even know about wrestling?
What the fuck?
My brother was in love with that little...
He would go and watch the shows and everything.
That would get him tickets all the time.
The golden era was the mid-late 90s into the early 2000s was the best.
But yeah, once John Cena started to take over, I would say that's when wrestling started to hit the decline in the PG era because John Cena brought in a lot of children and then they had to water it down a little bit to get into the PG and then once it became PG, wrestling started getting lame.
Honestly, Ruthless Aggression, which was honestly, that's when John Cena came with his little tighty-whities.
Yeah.
It was good.
But once they started giving the spotlight to John Cena, it's like...
Oh, you agree.
That's when the decline started.
I want to say a decline, but it also, it just went all the attention was on him.
Everybody else was like, honestly, side character.
Back when the Attitude Era was there, everyone had a piece.
Right.
That's the thing.
So...
Yep, the Rock had a lane, the Undertaker had a lane, the Kane had a lane, Mankind.
But yeah, I agree with you.
They started pushing him way too much and it was getting annoying.
And then at that point too, people don't know this, that WWE became a publicly traded stock.
And since it became a publicly traded stock, they had to make it more marketable to other people so investors would come in.
So they had to make it PG for that purpose and that's what kind of fucked it up.
Because it used to be, if you watch old wrestling shit, there were DDT and old ass chicks and shit.
If you watch old wrestling clips, Now?
Yeah.
Yo, there's no way it would be on television, bro.
Cancel.
Slapping girls on the ass.
Oh, yeah.
Nice one.
You know, like, crazy shit, man.
Yeah, like, yo, it was wild shit.
You know who I like?
Rikishi.
That nigga funny, bro.
You would.
Imagine more than giving you that rikishi face.
Yeah, that stink face?
Yeah.
Hey, yo.
Pause, man.
All right.
Pause.
Yeah, that was a nice trip down memory lane right there.
But anyway.
The Odie Podcast.
We in this bitch.
You looking good, bae.
That's me.
I do the early podcast.
Oh, okay.
Cool.
There you go.
Christopher Vibe goes, I recently got a new job and on the online training course, they had an anti-misogyny test you had to pass to get in.
What kind of clown world are we living in?
Yeah, bro.
Yeah, anything that says biological truth is misogynistic.
All right.
Name three countries.
We got that one.
We do.
We appreciate that.
Louis Terezes goes, such a young panel.
Listen to the advice and get married young versus trying to scramble for a man at 35 or even 45.
Y'all want to do this?
For sure.
Yeah, I mean, they're pretty base.
Are you guys all prioritizing marriage over a career right now at this point?
Ladies finding a man?
Damn.
This is crazy.
Yeah, they watch the show.
Nah, but here's the thing.
For me, I ain't gonna lie.
Because my baby is doing wrestling.
Honestly, I'm living my drink through him.
Okay.
If I'm having his kids.
Because I will have his kids.
You know what I'm saying?
She ain't playing.
But of course, you know, when I'm done, I'm saying, I probably might get back in the ring.
Because honestly, it's never a time where a wrestler would be like, yeah, I'm retired.
They always come back.
Yeah, yeah.
Literally.
So it's like...
What's your stage name?
Ravena.
That's cute.
Let's be real here.
I want to see no old lady wrestling in the ring.
Honestly, I'm very happy that you're with a guy that has a similar interest and y'all are doing the same thing.
That's cool.
Let's see here.
Ladies, would you trade you for man parts?
I think it means would you trade being a girl for a guy?
I don't think any of the girls here would trade being a girl.
I would.
You would prefer to be a man?
Yeah, I know it's hard, but...
I'm sure it's hard.
That's what she said.
What makes you...
Real quick, before we go into...
Does anyone else here portray places and be a man instead of a woman?
For a day?
But y'all would not be it long-term, right?
Not permanent.
Who do you think has an easier life, men or women?
Men.
Women.
Women?
Neither.
Neither?
Neither.
Oh, you got a lot to learn.
Okay, hold on.
In certain things, yes.
I've seen your podcast.
Yes.
I understand, like...
Misogony!
No, no, no, no, no.
I think that men have it really, really hard.
I do think that you guys have to create your own value.
Yeah.
I think that you guys, you know, stupid examples, but you don't get as many compliments.
You guys really don't have as much as reaffirmation.
In a way, you're expected to, like, in a way, suppress your feelings.
Yeah.
So how do girls have it easier, then?
Or sorry, how do girls have it harder, then?
No, I'm not saying that they have it harder.
I'm just saying that in a way, especially right now with what you guys talk about, like gender theory and all these changes, everything is changing so much that in a way you guys are getting suppressed.
Society's telling you guys that you have to change this way.
For example, you guys are called misogynists and all of this when in reality you're just saying your opinion, right?
Yeah.
And same thing for me.
I feel like they're telling, because I'm so young, they're telling me stuff that I'm like, maybe I just don't feel that way.
And it also gets confusing.
That's what I'm trying to say.
It's just confusing for everybody.
I feel like life is hard for everybody, but in very different areas, if that makes sense.
But in general, I would say women in 2023...
I think not all women though.
I don't think not all women.
Well, not as I said in general.
If I took 100 women versus 100 men, I would guarantee that 90% of those women probably lived an easier life than 90% of those guys.
Are we talking materialistically?
In everything.
Because you've got to remember that women are afforded all the same rights and privileges that men do with extra privileges only afforded to them as women.
There's not a right or privilege that a man has and a woman doesn't.
You're right.
That I could think of.
But I can think of a bunch of privileges and rights that women have that men don't.
So I would say women get the benefit of equality while simultaneously getting the benefit of being treated like a lady as well.
So it works both ways.
They can pick and choose when they want to be a lady.
When I say it's also hard for us, I think it's in our mind.
I think we also make ourselves less happy.
But you got to remember, what you feel versus what's real are two different things.
Yeah.
So if you feel, oh my god, I feel like the sky is green when the reality is that the sky is blue, then that's on you for not understanding what's really true.
Bam.
I'm a rapper on the side.
You were trying to say, why would you be a guy?
Why would you prefer to be a man?
So, I don't have any family in the US and I work like a Mexican.
I make sure that I have what I need or he gets what I need.
Like, we're providing for ourselves.
So, I have a different look on the way Women in the US may look at life versus the way I look at life.
I have to work for certain things.
So the same way you as a man are taught when you're a young age, these are the things you have to do.
That's what I'm learning now.
So I think women learn that later on in life, the older that they get versus younger.
Plus, I'd like to make my own choices on everything so I can cheat versus being cheated on.
I can choose how I do certain things.
That sounds cool, but reality fact is I've never been a man, so I don't know if I'd really enjoy being a man.
I do understand it's hard, though.
Yeah, you get that authority, but a lot of times it comes with a lot of responsibility.
And I'll be honest, with men, That responsibility almost always smacks you in the face a lot harder than when you're a woman.
You know, women are kind of always able to kind of be like, oh, well, you know, I felt this way and it's like, oh, it's okay.
I agree with you on that.
There was a lady that did that, you know, sex change to become a man.
She lived her life as a man for a period of time.
She said, you know what?
It's too hard.
Yeah.
She ended up self-deleting.
It was a radical feminist.
She lived as a man.
She cut her hair and was a man for a couple years.
I think somewhere between a year and a half to three years.
And she ended up ending herself after because she realized how tough it is to be a man.
She was invisible.
Nobody cares a shit about you.
She was a lesbian too, if I'm not mistaken.
So she tried to get with girls and none of them gave her a chance.
Did she get the change?
The sex change?
I've seen recently on Twitter that they're doing...
I don't think she did a full-on sex change, but she dressed and behaved like a man.
Oh, okay.
And she was appalled at how different the world treated her as a man.
I just feel like women are more judged than men, though.
Like, women get more anything that women do.
I could have sex with 20 dudes and I'm gonna be called a hoe, but if I do dudes, like, you know, it's just women are more judged.
Depends what it is.
Well, they're judged for a reason, though.
Like, what do you mean?
It's easy for you to have sex, so no one respects it.
Whereas for a man, it's hard for us to have sex, so people do respect it.
Yeah, 20 dudes?
20 dudes?
Goddamn.
I feel like men will judge more.
That's what you really want?
I feel like a man and a woman can both do the same thing, and the man will get the hate for it compared to a woman.
A woman will do the same thing, and they'll get like, it doesn't matter.
If a guy does it, it's wrong.
Like what?
So recently there was a topic about how if a 40-year-old is with a 19-year-old, the 40-year-old is getting the hate for that.
The man is getting the hate for that.
But the woman isn't the one getting the hate for that.
I have a bad example.
A lot of people would call the woman a gold digger because For having sex or a widow.
But most men...
But the guy's getting called a pedophile.
Yeah, they'll probably...
They both have for each other once.
He'll be called a pedophile even though that woman is 19 and over age.
Look at Leonard DiCaprio.
Good point.
They're shitting on him for dating that 19-year-old right now.
But no one is saying anything about the 19-year-old.
Like, they might say, oh, she'll go there a little bit, but they're calling him a pedophile, predator, whatever.
And also, as a guy, that affects your status.
And your credibility.
So like, for example, gold digger, alright, whatever.
But for a guy, that's his image.
So that's like out of the window.
And even a woman being called a gold digger, women themselves will hype that up.
Be like, oh my god, yeah, I get that bad.
Yeah, finesse that nigga.
Women don't get as much hate as men do, and they will do the same thing.
So we can say we want guys who are tall.
We want guys who make more money.
But then a guy says, I don't want a girl who's fat.
And whoo, why are you fat shaming?
That's actually why I started looking at your podcast.
I appreciate that.
Men honestly just can't have standards, which is why this podcast always gets labeled as misogynistic, blah, blah, blah.
But girls literally will sit here and say, oh, you talk shit about fat girls, but you got small dick energy.
I'm like, wait.
Hold on.
Aren't you body shaming me back?
Like, I don't get it.
But it goes over everyone's head.
You know what I mean?
But I think that's an issue right now in everything in society.
Not just like, you know, you can't say what you think.
You can't really, like, you have to accept everything and everybody and that's it.
If not, you're something phobic and that's not fair.
Yeah.
Like, I completely agree.
If it's your, you know, your opinion, like, you're a fit dude, whatever.
If you don't want to be with a girl that's, you know, not your type, whether that's she's not, you know, white or she's not healthy or she's not, you know, whatever.
Like, that's your own thing.
Like, everybody has to respect that no matter what.
I feel like girls are more judged in a sense of like body like on Instagram and all that stuff.
But at the same time, we judge ourselves too.
Like girls judge girls.
I'll say women put the most pressure on each other.
It's not guys.
Oh, she's cute.
I go with my girls.
Why is she wearing that?
She looks like something too.
Yeah, that's true.
Yeah, girls are the ones that put the most pressure on each other.
We're judging.
Okay, are you ready for your actual assessment?
Yeah, it's okay.
What it takes for four husbands.
Sorry, four wives.
So we're going to go ahead because girls are very not honest about what they actually want in a man.
So let's go ahead and build your dream man right now.
What is the bare minimum income that he's got to make for you per year?
I mean, income doesn't matter.
Come on, bro.
You can't live in Miami with 30K. Exactly.
At the same time, building a man, you're not going to look at just their income.
No, no, no.
Remember how you said earlier?
Dream man.
We're building him right now.
And just so you know, this is the most accurate way to assess because this comes from the U.S. Census Bureau and the National Center for Health Statistics.
So what is the bare minimum income your dream man has to make per year?
Probably like 80,000, 90,000.
Okay, let's put 85 in the middle.
Okay, and we could just put, yeah.
Okay, age?
From like right now, like my age, what would I go for?
Right now at this point.
Like minimum and highest I'll go?
Yeah.
Minimum would probably be like 27.
Okay.
26.
Okay, to what?
Uh, probably like 35.
Okay, it's a 35.
Let's give her 26, Chris.
Give her a little bit more variance.
Okay.
Alright, and then race?
Uh, I'm not picky.
I mean, I like black.
I like Latinos.
Okay.
Yeah, of course.
Okay, black and Latinos.
Alright, no, any white guys?
I don't think I've ever been with a white girl.
What about an Asian?
Love you a long time.
I don't think I've been with an Asian girl.
I'm not saying I wouldn't, but...
Asian is so generic.
There's so many Asians.
And then height.
What's the parameter of height?
As long as they're at least a little bit taller than me.
So we can say 5'5".
You'll do 5-5?
Yeah.
Okay.
5-5.
Let's go ahead.
It's not.
It's not.
Do you care if he rents or owns?
Remember, this is your dream man now.
The one that can have four wives.
Owns.
You're taking 5-5 from a dream man?
Hyte?
You're gonna accept four wives from a 5'5 dude?
You guys are like picking up the little things that literally don't matter.
Like Hyte.
That matters a lot.
Hyte?
How is Hyte gonna affect how he treats you or how?
I don't think a 5'5 guy can protect you as much as a six foot guy.
Why not?
Yeah.
Me on 5'3".
All right, let's continue.
I don't want to influence her too much.
So, all right, 5'5", cool.
And this is your dream man with four wives, right?
You will accept four wives from this guy.
Yeah.
All right, cool.
And then schooling.
Do you care what his education level is?
High school?
Wait, wait, wait.
If we're talking about four wives, he needs more than $85,000.
That's what the question was!
Your dream man!
But we didn't mention the four wives.
Yes, that's how this all started.
No, he needs to be at least a millionaire.
Four wives.
Alright, so that changed everything.
Okay, so we'll max it out.
Does the age and race and everything else the same?
That stays the same.
Because remember, don't forget, I asked you, would you accept a man that has four wives?
And you said, if he was my dream man.
Yeah, if he was my dream man.
Okay, so, alright.
So, height is still the same, 5'5"?
Alright, owner occupied, do you care about his schooling level?
I obviously don't want him to be a dumbass.
Okay, so what's the minimum education?
Associate.
Master's.
Which one?
Post-grad.
We could do like bachelors, associates.
It doesn't even have to be too high because nowadays people can make money without that, right?
We'll go with associates.
Can he be obese?
No.
Sorry, Mo.
And then, can he be married?
Well, we said he has four wives so we can't say anything.
Okay, so include married men.
Go ahead.
But she wants a millionaire though.
If he has four wives, yes, he needs to be a millionaire.
How else is he going to support four women?
Alright, okay!
You scored a perfect!
Congratulations!
So yeah, your chance of finding your guy.
Anybody else wants to get their dreams crushed?
No.
No?
Okay.
Smart panel.
But that's for four men, so that's a little bit different.
Alright, where we at here?
My students are here on a field trip to learn about the world of misogyny.
They're not the brightest, so go easy on them, Myron.
That's from Mr.
Frizzle's Magic School Bus.
Legendary.
Hunter goes, good evening from Vermont, ladies.
If you could tell your past self one thing, what would it be?
Ah!
I mean, they're pretty young though.
Yeah, but who knows?
Maybe they got some.
We'll start here.
If you could tell your younger self one thing, what would it be?
Don't leave Ecuador.
Oh, my bad.
It's okay.
Don't waste my time and energy on people like friends that does not deserve it because they do not align with my mission and vision for my life.
Alright, go quick.
Okay.
What about you?
Don't be delusional.
What would you do that made you delusional?
Honestly, I would say, because my past relationship, I would say that.
It's just more so like, Don't give $10,000 to a dude.
That was what made you delusional, I guess.
That could be my serious account right now.
Alright, because you were delusional because you thought he was going to fix himself or something?
Basically.
Okay.
What about you?
I said, do not expect nothing from no one, especially no man.
Who hurt you?
Ohio.
Ohio.
Alright, what about you?
Don't tell your personal business because they will use that against you.
What personal business did you use that got you in trouble?
Nothing.
It's just like...
Don't tell.
It's just...
Why would you tell someone that...
You told them the PlayStation 5 you didn't pay for it?
It was my dad, stupid!
Stupid!
Awesome!
But, like, overall, I just believe, like, you shouldn't give yourself away so much to a point where people can judge you for, like, what you've done in the past or something like that.
Did you tell your boyfriend too much, you think?
Your ex?
Oh, he just knew too much.
Okay, so you wouldn't disclose less to him then.
Okay, what about you?
Have higher standards and don't expect anything in return from anybody.
Alright, what about you?
To live more in the present instead of worrying about the past and the future.
Oh, what had you harped up in the past?
I'm just the type of person that I overthink.
It's not necessarily anything in specific.
It could just be one day something pops into my head and that's it.
My whole train of thought is gone for the rest of the day.
That's women.
Here's the thing.
I really admire you for admitting that because there's so many girls that have that bad habit of being extremely erratic and making a stupid decision off of how they feel.
Exactly.
Do you tell your dates that?
Yes.
And I'm the type to admit where I'm wrong.
Like, let's say we're in an argument and you tell me like, hey, look, you did this wrong.
If I'm able to see from your point of view, like, yes, I'm wrong, I'll admit it.
Yeah, I'm wrong.
You're right.
I shouldn't have done that.
I'm sorry.
But wouldn't it be fair to say that you wouldn't see it from his point of view?
At the moment, it's kind of like what you said, we lead with emotion.
So yeah, at the moment, I might have not seen it from his point of view.
We always think about ourselves first.
So yeah.
So that point made no sense.
Okay.
What do you mean?
No, like, I saw it from my point of view first, so I reacted.
Now, if you bring it to me, if you bring it to my attention, you say, hey, look, when you did this, it wasn't right, then yeah, I'm going to see it from your point of view, and I'm going to understand, I'm going to apologize.
Taking accountability.
I think what she means is that it would have to be after the event occurred.
Yeah, after.
Because you mentioned that we act erratic.
Yeah.
Based on our emotions.
Yes.
Aren't our emotions in the moment?
Yes.
Right.
So that's Miyaki in the moment.
You didn't tell the people that this would be after the fact.
I said I would apologize.
If he came to me and he told me, hey, look, you did this, this, and wrong, I would say, you're right.
Because obviously when you're acting out emotionally, he wouldn't be able to reason with you then.
Yeah.
See, you're doing it right now.
Alright, what about you?
Control what I control.
If it's out of my control, I just can't do anything about it.
And then surround myself with like-minded people.
If I'm trying to reach somewhere, that's what I want to have around me.
People who have goals like myself.
Alright.
What about you?
I think surround myself with people that respect me more and not let people walk over me.
You had friends that walked all over you?
Not friends.
Associates?
All men?
Yeah.
How'd they walk all over you?
Weren't you the boss in the relationship from before?
Yeah, but...
Yeah, but...
There's some information I don't want to exclude out in the air.
BDSM? That was him.
That was not me.
That was him.
I think what you meant to say is there's some information you don't want to express on the air?
Yeah.
I mean, is that bad?
It's just not something you want to put out on the internet.
You don't want to put it out there.
All right.
Don't put it out there.
What about you?
I forgot the question.
What was the question?
Yeah, I got you.
Stupid!
I know.
Pull it up again, Chris.
It was, what would you tell your younger self?
One thing.
One thing.
Just like about myself not to do with my relationship or like...
It could be that, yeah.
Something you learned about yourself that your past self would want to know, I guess you could say.
My what?
My past would want to know?
Yeah.
No, something you would tell.
A message to your younger self.
Yeah, a message to your younger self you could have learned from.
Oh my god.
Don't take that bum.
It could work in this case.
No, I thought of something really good, but I don't want to say it, so just pass me.
Why the fuck you lying?
I swear to God!
Why you always lying?
You guys, bro.
Jesus, I'm not lying.
I had to pay something and I did end up doing the payments and I lost it.
Want my car?
No, I'm not going to say it.
Alright.
A house.
That's the first thing I thought of.
What about you?
Be more responsible and...
Don't dip bumps.
Go buy a nigga a car.
What's your good credit?
Yeah, don't be colourful and be responsible.
Nigga, you're too nice, nigga.
Alright, what about you?
Oh, wait.
No, it could be anything in life.
Go ahead.
What'd you tell your younger self?
I don't know.
I think one of them would be to believe in yourself a little bit more.
And, yeah.
I mean, like, academically and stuff, okay?
All right, where are we at, Chris?
And the other one would be like, stop overthinking.
Okay.
Oh, you overthink too, just like her?
Yeah, but in a different...
I'm the person that I'll re-text something like a thousand million times to make sure that I'll put the right emoji and the right thing so my message doesn't get that kind of overthinking.
You guys actually made me realize that I'm doing good in my life.
I'm 24 making 50k plus with a credit score of 790.
It's just up from here.
Keep up the great work, boys, and keep motivating everyone to be the best person they can be.
We got you.
Good job, bro.
That's a great score to have.
Yeah, facts.
You're going to be able to get a house easy.
The chat hating on these women, even though they're the most intelligent ones I've ever seen on the podcast.
Also, somebody said Chris deserves less.
Chase Stern.
Miami-Dade County Sheriff's Office.
Okay, appreciate that.
Miami-Dade County Sheriff's Office again.
Have you heard we need our assistance?
Please do not drive unlicensed.
Miami-Dade County Sheriff's Office.
Yeah, she's going to go to jail.
Shout out to Chris for getting Predator on the show.
Second from Myron.
You got anything you want to say to him?
I'm going to put you in a full Nelson.
Yeah, bro.
I'm going to kill that dog.
You got some?
No?
Okay, she's actually laughing.
Alright, Gary Diaz goes, there are less...
Oh no, Giga Moe goes, Salon Brothers, question for the biological man three down from fresh with the anvil-shaped jawline.
When did you get your transformation surgery and are you able to get a refund?
I don't think you're making it far as a woman.
Who's he talking about?
I don't know.
Oh, okay.
You have anything you want to say to him?
He's trying to say that you're a dude.
Me?
And not you.
Me?
Yeah.
I don't give a fuck when I'm really sad about me.
I'm a fucking fat dog.
I don't know what she said in Spanish, but I think it was something along the lines of a I said my kitty's fat.
Send for rent.
TMI. What's a good fam?
Send for rent.
Gary Diaz.
There are less high-value men than there are beautiful women.
Okay, that's true.
I am Maddy from Myron.
Mia Khali.
Okay, so he's rating you guys now.
All right, so he's giving you a three.
Black69, two.
King Kong, four.
Meg from Family Guy, three.
Oh my god.
A 304, five.
FatGodzilla, 4.
Jada, 4.
FatFace, 5.
Nun from The Conjuring, 5.
Jiajain, 4.
And then FakeChinese, 3.
Is that the same person that said I was a fucking dude?
Anybody have anything you want to say back to this guy?
Yeah, is this the same guy that insulted me earlier?
No.
What does he look like?
Honestly, who cares?
Like...
It's YouTube.
Yeah, YouTube.
They'll probably never be able to be in the same room.
You're both big and five.
Shout out to you.
Mara Toobin goes, Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, granted us permission to marry four wives as long as we treated them equally.
Even from financial terms, that's why he gave four chambers to one heart.
Shout out to FNF. Okay, appreciate that.
Thank you.
Wolf Rider Storm goes, FNF has helped me become a well-rounded man in the 21 years and appreciate your content.
You guys are strong male role models.
I need and still learn from With Money Mondays.
Joining the Marines next month and I'll miss the show the most.
Thanks for teaching me.
I can still be nice and put my foot down.
Absolutely, man.
Make it through basic.
And remember, being kind and being nice are not the same.
You can be kind, but don't be nice.
I appreciate the information and awareness you guys are putting out there for the Tates.
Just a heads up, Myron and Fresh.
Tucker Carlson just did a segment tonight with Tate's attorney essentially saying Tate was set up.
Shout out to Tucker Carlson.
We believe it, bro.
He's one of the few reporters here that isn't controlled by the Matrix.
He's innocent, guys.
Leave your heart as he goes.
Thanks, you fresh and fit for the quality content.
Got my score from 650 to 700.
Question for the ladies.
Those of you that have 304 tendencies, the club, ladies trips, etc.
What's your plan for getting the guy of your dreams?
Okay.
any ladies here like going to the club I mean yeah so one two wells don't lie I know you'd be going to wait who's going to the club tonight okay nobody okay any who ladies here likes to take girls trips yeah okay what is your strategy to get your dream man We'll start with you over here, Ms.
PlayStation 5.
The strategy.
Yeah, what is the strategy?
That's a pretty good question.
You don't have one?
I'm not looking for a man right now.
I'm 18, Fresh.
What are you looking for?
Just enjoying my life, living how I want to.
18, Fresh.
You're single now.
Yeah, I like being single.
Yeah, of course.
I like being independent.
That's great.
Awesome.
Alright, what about you?
Me?
Yeah, you agree with her?
Wait, what did you say?
I just said I like being single and I like being independent.
Yeah, me too.
Yeah, he did!
All right, then what about you, Miss Toxic?
What's your strategy for getting your dream guy?
How many dreams?
My strategy?
Yeah.
Sell him.
Exactly.
Sell him.
I gotta sell myself to him.
So it looks like none of y'all have a plan to get him in.
The party girls, no?
It's gonna manifest eventually.
It's just gonna fall into their laps.
The dream man, this millionaire that y'all want, he's just gonna come out of nowhere.
I'm sure they have, they're just not thinking.
I'm pretty sure you guys have come up with something good.
No, I'm pretty sure that they don't.
I just learned about manifestation.
Yeah, that's what you do for your man.
You cook, you clean, you cater to them.
Why?
Because I can manifest.
I don't need old gods anymore.
I answered to no one.
It's a video for manifestation.
So you guys, how are you going to find your man then?
Are you going to manifest him?
What are you going to know?
No, it's kind of like what you said earlier that you need to like prove yourself to them.
You got to cook them.
How are you going to find them?
The same way you find people.
Like you go outside to the grocery store.
What if you touch the same apple?
What about you?
How are you going to find your guy?
I'm not finding my guy right now.
Maybe in a couple years.
I just learned about manifestation!
So, do you think you're going to be more attractive to the guy of your dreams now or in a few years?
Maybe more now, but...
Do you want to be fair to say that you should try to find them when your value is the highest?
I just learned about...
Alright, Chris.
Am I supposed to get married, like, right now?
Like, why?
You gotta find them, so what are you gonna do to find a guy?
Um...
I just learned about...
It's such a broad question, like, what am I supposed to do?
Like, what am I supposed to do?
Alright, what about you?
You got any plans or nothing?
What are you gonna do?
Nothing.
Yeah, exactly.
There you go.
I just learned about manifestation!
See, I want to get married and find a man, but y'all ain't looking.
Alright, fantastic.
You just think I'll manifest it, bro.
Yo, Fresh, could you imagine if we just were like, yeah, we're just gonna manifest it.
We're gonna get bad, bitch.
Yo, you know what?
Give me like two months, bro.
You should have been a pair At this table, ready for me to just, like, pick up and take home.
You know what, man?
It's gonna happen.
Yeah.
Because we believe.
I'm a king.
You're a king.
Yeah.
You believe.
I just learned about manifestation.
Now I'm gonna get so much money.
So much money.
So much money.
Yeah.
Amazing.
How did we sound just now when we said that?
Delusional.
Thank you!
That's how it sounds.
That's how y'all sound when you say that.
This is why you deserve less.
The freshman goes, WWE, but Big W the Tates.
Alright, shout out to you.
Thanks for the advice.
Also, my green card is expiring next year.
Suggestions, and I'm finding a self-defense case in Garden City.
All four wives will be living together in a villa.
Ladies, how do you attract a woman as a man?
They don't know.
They don't know, bro.
They don't know.
Jeremiah Daniel.
Get a green card, marry a chick.
Jeremiah Daniel, first show I've seen live.
Dope to see the messages being heard.
I appreciate the panel and fellows continue your great after hours.
Ladies, think of a question because we're going to turn it to you to ask a question to us.
Nora Vincent, self-made man.
Cool.
That's all the way from New Zealand.
Swain Czar goes, do women think guys like tattoos on women?
Yes or no?
And why?
Fellows do weigh in on this.
We did that earlier.
Okay.
Shout out to my Christian sisters on the podcast and throughout the world for staying pure until marriage.
God rewards faithfulness.
Also, a bigger shout out to the parents for raising them right.
We got two virgins on the panel.
Thank you for saying that.
So-called virgins.
So-called virgins that we...
Yeah.
Okay.
Eddie Boss...
Oh, no.
Ja Rule.
$20.
Okay.
Carlos Monstre goes...
Appreciate that.
Okay.
Ladies on the panel...
We had a great discussion.
Now, here's the last part of the show.
Give us a question, statement, comment you want to ask us on the panel, or a lot of thoughts on the show.
Close it out here.
So we can start right here.
Question, comment, statement, last thoughts on the show.
Have you guys ever, like, fallen in love?
Like, deeply?
Nope.
Great made a song and in this song he talked about these lyrics of his mom and his bed and I agree.
Yeah.
I think he meant lyrics and his bed.
Mom and his bed.
The only thing I love is my mom and my bed, right?
Yeah, those two.
And my dog.
Had love for a girl but never in love.
As a man you can't afford to fall in love with a girl that will fuck you up.
So then what are you looking for in a woman?
Not love.
No, no, no, but honestly speaking, man, like, for example, once again, we have two different strategies here.
I think for a guy, at least us on the panel here, we look for stability, of course, in terms of, like, does she add value to my life?
Is she attractive?
Is she not a hoe?
Is she, like, actually loyal?
That means a lot to us, and respect, of course, comes with all that.
Yeah.
But I think it's very dangerous for a man to fall in love.
I think the girl should fall in love, but not the man.
Because the girl has to like the guy more than he likes her.
So it's okay to love the girl, but not be in love with the girl.
Yeah, have love for her, but not be in love.
Because when you're in love with her, then you start to become emotional.
When you become emotional, you become erratic.
And the last thing you want to be as a man is emotional.
You've got to stay logical.
Look at any prison.
That's a bunch of emotional dudes in there.
Made bad decisions based off how they feel.
That's kind of true.
But aren't guys feeling with their dicks?
So that's what they're using when they have sex.
So aren't you all really thinking emotionally with your small head instead of your big head?
You'd be surprised at how logically sound guys are when they're trying to get laid.
Okay.
Like, yeah, they're thinking with their dick, but they're still taking logical steps to get laid.
As a matter of fact, when a man sees an attractive woman, the part of his brain that starts to activate is the part of the brain that figures out how to solve problems.
So the point of not being in love is the fear of that, of being in love will cost you guys.
There's no fear.
The thing is, it's just an awareness that when you are in love as a man, you lose control of rational and logical thoughts.
You'll do stupid things.
are very pragmatic when they deal with men they're actually very logically sound as in how much value is this guy providing for me and then once that value starts to deteriorate that's when girls start to say you know i'm falling out of love with this guy but the guy will still start to love her i i always say like men love women idealistically women love men opportunistically okay Could you imagine a pilot, right, going to work, and he has problems with his girlfriend or a girl during that morning.
He's going to go fly a plane.
He's emotional on the plane.
He might crash the plane.
So as a guy in a relationship, if you want to be that guy that's going to be a leader, you've got to be a rock solid and logical.
You can't be like wishy-washy.
Yeah.
Letting your emotions take over as a man is very dangerous.
You look at school shooters, you look at any of these guys that are in prison or doing stupid shit, it's because they let their emotions get the best of them.
Guys that slap girls let their emotions get the best of them.
P.S. Don't ever hit women.
Hit yourself first.
What about you?
I think I had two questions.
The first one was, what do you guys think about guys who pay for sex?
That's a good question, actually.
And the other one is, what do you guys think about race when it comes to a relationship?
And, yeah.
Race?
Okay, I'll hit the box one first.
Okay, so paying for sex.
We don't encourage that.
My thing is I tell guys not to pay for sex because what ends up happening when you pay for sex?
And I know some guys like to, oh no, because this is a debate that's been had a million times.
When a man pays for sex, you see the worst side of male nature and then you also see the worst side of female nature.
The woman looks at you as nothing more than a wallet.
You look at her as nothing more than a hole.
And then that's how the genders end up having a lot of resentment towards each other.
We've had girls on the podcast that used to be escorts or were involved in sex work or whatever, and a lot of them end up hating men because they see the weird, perverse side of male nature because the man is objectifying her, treating her as nothing more than a whole.
Versus I've also met guys that pay for a lot of hookers.
Those guys always end up being the biggest misogynist because the woman only is dealing with them because of their wallet.
So both genders see the worst side of each other, and it creates a very unhealthy balance in how you perceive the other gender.
But isn't a lot of high-value men...
They'd rather pay for sex instead of having to deal with...
A lot of them do.
They're paying for time.
They're paying for time at that point.
But I think you're better...
I don't agree with paying for sex with women.
Some guys do it.
I ain't going to knock the guys that do it, but definitely what I've noticed is that when guys pay for sex, they start to have a very unhealthy relationship with women in general and start to resent them.
It's very lazy.
And here's the other thing too.
There's no way that you can pay for sex while simultaneously garnering respect from that woman.
So they cannot coexist.
So if you're paying a girl for sex, by default, she doesn't respect you.
Because sex is an equal value exchange and you're paying her for it, which you're implying her value is higher than yours.
So at that point, how would a high value man pursue women outside of life?
Be attractive and not use your wallet to get box?
Be charismatic, charming, build an emotional attachment.
These are all things that grow.
I mean, your status is important.
That's why we tell guys, get your money on point, get in shape so you're actually sexually arousing.
Understand female nature so that you can be charming and charismatic and hit emotional triggers because women fall in love with what they hear.
Men fall in love with what they see.
That's why girls wear makeup and guys lie.
You want to build a genuine connection with that person.
Yeah.
That's how you get a girl really attached because she can't respect you if you're paying her for sex.
That's why Trix and all these other dudes, they might fuck or whatever, but the girl doesn't really respect them.
And for you to get the best treatment out of a girl where she respects you, she admires you, she follows your lead, she does everything that you ask, she has to submit to you.
She can only submit to you if she respects you.
And she can't respect you while you simultaneously pay her money.
That's true.
And then I think the second one was, how do you guys feel about dating outside of your race?
Yeah, go for it.
Yeah, I think it's great.
We don't dabble in the dark.
I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
We've dated black girls before.
I think interracial dating is great.
I like playing in the snow.
I love caramel.
So you prefer to date outside your race?
Do you prefer to date outside your race?
It's not about me.
It's about the world itself.
Yeah.
So you're basically open to dating all nationalities.
Yeah, of course.
Everybody.
Yeah, I mean, I got preferences.
Everybody.
But yeah, I mean, I tend to not, not saying that I never will, but I tend to not like Indian girls and black girls.
Why is that?
I don't know.
I just don't find them as attractive.
Is it physically attractive or is it just like...
Some cultural things and then also some looks, features, things that I just don't like.
Haram!
Now, have I been with an Indian or a black girl before?
Absolutely.
There's always going to be attractive girls within any race, right?
But I've just found a lower propensity to find that demographic attractive.
I like my black queens.
There's always exceptions.
I love my black queens.
That's a good question, though, with the prostitution.
Yeah, I was just curious.
Because a lot of guys be paying for boxing in Miami, so I understand why you're asking that.
A lot of guys that are considered high value.
How many girls pay for sex in Miami?
It's wild.
How many girls...
Take money too.
Well, that's like common, especially out here.
So I'm just like, you know, a lot of guys say they have high value.
Don't do it, guys.
Don't freaking do it.
A lot of guys do it, but I advocated against it.
And the reason why is because you can never get the best out of a woman while you're paying her for sex.
It's no fun, bro.
It's lazy.
So what's the difference with that and a guy going to the strip club and throwing money at the strip club?
I don't advocate.
We don't advocate tricking or simping or any of that stuff when we're spending money on girls.
Because once you spend money at a strip club, you go into what we call the customer.
And she can't keep you there so that she can continue to extract money from you.
Girls always treat you however you allow them to treat you.
A lot of times.
Yeah, men are always in the lead.
Well, ideally they should be, but a lot of times they aren't.
The girl's in the lead, and that's when girls can manipulate you.
And I talk about it in the book, actually.
I have a whole chapter, how women are able to monetize on men's thirst for sex because most women don't like most men.
So since most women don't like most men, but most men like most girls, that gives women an upper hand in being able to finesse them.
Oh, I don't really like you, but I'm going to pretend I do so that I can extract resources and time from you.
Yeah, because that's why OnlyFans is so popular.
I mean, they don't have to physically see the girl, but they're getting a fantasy.
Girls are becoming millionaires off of guys' lust for them.
Versus all the way around, as a man, you make OnlyFans, bruh.
You ain't gonna make shit unless you got some clout.
And most of the people that get on your shit are gonna be gay guys.
They're not even gonna be females.
What about you?
I have a question for you and Fresh and Myron.
Wait, what?
You and Fresh and Myron?
I meant like you, but then I'm like, let me just say your name.
Yeah, go ahead.
When you guys started this podcast, did you guys think you guys were going to be this popular on the internet?
What did you guys think when you first started?
What was your intentions and the outcome now that you see it?
The goal is always to grow.
I called it from the beginning.
I said, yo, we're going to put as much into this as we can.
Failure is not an option.
I've been saying we got next since 2020.
I didn't think it would be this fast.
I think personally, we used to put in the work just because we wanted to see it grow and become better.
But the goal was to hit a million.
We hit a million.
And it's kind of like What's the next step?
Just adding more value.
So, I mean, you know, who would have thought it would ever be this big?
More testimonials, more guys saying, you know.
Then also to get the Cliffs channel to 1 million as well, guys.
So subscribe to our Cliffs channel.
But yeah, I was screaming, we're good next since 2020.
As soon as I left the government.
But, you know, I am very happy as to how quickly we grew.
Even with some setbacks.
Start from the bottom now we're here.
A million, a million, a million.
Yes, sir!
Chris, you gay, bro.
Yeah, bro.
That was whack.
What the fuck was that?
Alright, what about you?
You got some?
No, I don't, but I loved hearing everybody's opinions and point of views on everything.
It puts everything into more.
What was your favorite opinion that you heard?
No, stop it.
Don't listen to me.
Don't listen to me.
Stop.
Okay, like, I can't.
Okay, hold on.
About the...
What's it called?
No, no, wait.
Wait, I got this.
I got this.
Two hours later.
No, no, no.
Have you ever had a dream that you had?
We were talking about how you should, instead of, remember my first mindset was on career and then children and family, but then now I see why it should be children and family first and then drop the career in the beginning.
Are you actually going to do it though?
Probably not.
Possibly.
Nope.
You just said a second ago you agree with her being independent.
I do.
I'm 18 years old.
I can be independent right now.
18, yeah.
I'm a boss babe.
Okay.
Well, we wish you the best.
Okay, what about you?
Definitely enjoy the podcast.
They all do an awesome job.
Enjoy all the guests as well.
I have two questions for guys and for girls.
So for the girl question, if she's already been on OnlyFans, if she has a high body count, is there any room for saving her?
And if there is, what should she do to be able to find someone aside from just settle for bare minimum?
It's actually a really good question.
So what I've realized is that The worse a woman's past is, the more she's got to accept the fact that her future might not be as bright.
And what I mean by that is men typically look at a woman's past, women look at a man's future.
And the cleaner your past as a woman, the brighter your future will be.
But if the dirtier your past is, well, you're going to have to make a consolation with yourself that the future might not be as bright.
So you won't necessarily be able to get the best guy that you can get if you come with a shitty past as a woman.
So if you have a crappy past, just accept that you're probably going to end up a side chick.
You might not be able to attract the guy of your dreams.
You might have to settle with a guy that's a little bit less than what you think you're worth.
And I think that's something that's a lot of women have a hard time swallowing, the pill that they have a hard time swallowing, that your past qualifies you for your future.
And if your past is fucked up as a woman, it sucks because, man, fortunately for us, if our past is fucked up, it actually makes us, assuming we do the work, our future brighter.
But women don't enjoy that same privilege.
I think women in that career field, sometimes they have to do way more extra just to even be on the same playing field as a regular girl because all the stuff in the past haunts them and it's like, damn, let me do more because if I don't do more, I'm not going to stand out.
So you got to do way more.
And I'll give you all some game real quick.
We had a girl come on.
I won't say who.
Who?
I won't say.
Black, white, Spanish?
I don't know what a race is.
I think Puerto Rican.
But anyway...
Very famous OnlyFans girl, right?
Fucked a bunch of rappers, whatever.
The chat's gonna know who the hell it is, probably.
Right?
And she had a very dark past with having sex with a lot of guys and a very, very bad reputation.
So she ended up getting in a relationship with a guy.
The guy knew that she had this bad reputation, right?
She was kind of embarrassed to be around, whatever, because they were like, oh, bro, I fucked your girl, blah, blah, blah.
So what he did, he was like, alright, this girl's a hoe, etc.
I'm gonna be her boyfriend, but I'm gonna cheat on her, and I'm gonna make her buy me gifts and take care of me.
And when you're a girl...
Chat, chill.
Yeah, I know.
When you're a girl, right?
You end up having to put yourself in a position where you have no leverage when you're a hoe.
Because you can't demand a man to take you seriously and treat you well when you come with a bad background.
So that's what ended up happening in that situation where she ended up having to pay for him, take care of him, all this other stuff.
And he was just living life because that's what ends up happening.
When you're a hoe, you're going to have to pay for it in the future.
Yo, chat, chill.
Does the name rhyme to Elena?
Yeah.
Hey, you know what I'm saying?
So that's what it is.
I think that's something that...
Obviously, that's the most extreme end, right?
But when a girl has a very bad past, she's going to have to make up for it somehow.
A lot of times, she's going to have to end up taking care of a man or being in a situation she'll want to be in because she no longer qualifies for that guy that she wants.
Got you.
Question for the guys.
So if a guy has a small pee-pee, how should he break this?
Or when is the right time to really break this to a girl?
Because it's not something that you can work with, but it's possible.
So you have everything else.
You look good.
You got the money.
At what point do you want to waste your time with it?
What do you do?
Well, you can't break much with a small wee-wee.
But I'll just say...
Ultimately, you gotta get her mine.
Because if you can't do it on the stairs physically, go to it mentally.
Get the soul first, bro.
Get the soul.
It's the whole package.
I would just say personally, though, if you want to be her main guy to go to for sex...
If you can't do it physically with your parts, do it mentally, which means, for example, you've got to start from actually the first date.
So when you meet for the first time, like, literally get into her head.
Now, I can go into detail, but I won't do it here on the show.
Go to our Patreon or something like that.
But the point is that, like, mentally, you have to stimulate her mentally.
So when you get in the bedroom, it's like, okay, cool.
I'm already turned on.
And when you go do your thing, hopefully that satisfies her enough.
But, yeah.
Okay.
Let's make up for it.
All right, so I guess I have a question for the men.
Earlier we talked about how men need to be sold, not sold, but you guys mentioned that women need to put in the work to get the man.
So I guess my question would be like, what exactly do you look for when you look for a woman that's putting in the work?
Number one she can't be a whore and the reason for that is because you know she's gonna potentially might carry your name and I feel like not even I feel like sorry merch myself I know that as a man when a girl and you have a girlfriend and she goes out she represents you so if she acts crazy and That's going to make you look bad because no one's going to say, oh, bro, this girl's acting like a ho.
They're going to be like, yo, this girl is acting crazy.
Will Smith.
Think about Will Smith.
Yeah, like no one knew who the fuck Jada Pinkett Smith was until the Red Table talk because she made him look crazy.
She got a name off of making him look bad.
But at the end of the day, people know her because of Will Smith, not because of her.
She's a fucking mediocre actress and musician.
So I think women don't...
I don't think women understand the importance of carrying their man's name and his presence when they're out and about.
So number one, she can't be a whore, for those reasons I specified.
And then number two...
Be cooperative and submissive because if you're not, then we can't even build a foundation.
If you don't understand basic principle that I lead and you follow, then you're useless because you're going to challenge my authority and that's annoying because I already have to go ahead and get challenged by the world.
The last thing I want to do is get challenged by my girl.
Women say stupid shit like, I'll be his motivation.
Fuck out of here.
If you need your girl to motivate you, you already lost because women are inherently lazy.
No offense.
And the reason why I say that is that women are lazy when it comes to creating excess resources, not lazy with creating a family.
When they have children, yeah, they're going to work hard.
They have a family, yeah, they're going to work hard.
When it comes to working overtime, making extra money, putting in the hours, putting in the work, etc., in general, women are very lazy.
And this has been documented across all the workforce.
There's a reason why women get paid less.
So if you're going to go and look to a woman as your motivation when they inherently are lazier than you, you lost as a man.
You lost.
Girls don't want to deal with a guy that they need to motivate.
It's like, I'm successful with or without you.
That's what a girl wants.
The ship is sailing, whether you're on it or not.
So yeah, those are the main things.
Not being a whore, being feminine.
And then the third thing would be being asset versus being a liability.
And that's on the girl to figure out how to be an asset depending on the man.
Because every man is different.
Some guys might be entrepreneurs.
They need you to be their assistant.
Some guys might be police officers.
They need you to make sure that there's coffee when they wake up in the morning or you come to the department and make food for him and his team, whatever the hell it is.
Every guy is different based on where they are in life.
So it's on the woman to kind of come in and be an independent critical thinker and be able to figure out those weak points and those gaps and then help them get from 100% to 103 or from 95 to 101, something like that.
But she's got to be an asset.
Okay.
Cool.
It was dope being on here like always.
Shout out Detox for getting me on here.
Shout out Detox.
What do you guys think is the worst quality trait in women now in this generation?
Being a hoe.
Simple.
For being wifed up.
Yeah, being a hoe.
For being wifed up.
Yeah.
Because that's the most embarrassing.
Yeah.
That's by far the most embarrassing.
You can settle with a girl that might be a little masculine.
You can settle with a girl that ain't, like, the most attractive.
Hell, you can even settle with a girl that's a little pudgy.
She could lose the weight.
That's all fixable.
Or tats.
You know?
Yeah, or tats.
But if a girl is just a hoe, it's like, bro, you can't fix that.
And the problem is that it makes you look bad as a guy.
That's where the issue is.
It's embarrassing.
Yeah, for men.
It's like the worst.
What about you?
Also, shout out to Detox.
I don't think I have a question, but thank you for having me on the show.
Cool.
No comments or disagreements or anything?
No?
Oh, I had a learning experience.
What was the thing you learned the most?
Or the most important thing you learned?
That's a good question.
Come on, man.
Give her a chance.
Sorry, sorry, sorry.
Honestly, about...
Twelve hours later.
The...
Like, the four wives and...
What's it called?
The man.
And just basically, like, different opinions...
Different opinions on whether or not people agree with...
That even if women don't agree with the cheating as well.
So basically they're just cheating whether like you know with the four wives and everything WHAT?!
I need to turn it!
What the hell did she say?
If you ever need an example of a word salad, there you go.
Thank you for coming.
Thank you guys.
Thank you guys for inviting me again.
And I'm just really glad that everyone here was really smart today.
Everyone was chill and yeah.
Damn, Friday night?
This was a little bit higher IQ than I thought.
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, even though two ladies here in the corner fucked it up a little bit, but it's okay.
It's okay.
Y'all were pleasant to be out of power.
Y'all were cool.
Y'all were cool.
They're 18.
Yeah, it's all good.
I'll give y'all a pass.
TikTok brands.
Alright, what about you?
Alright, to piggyback on the women being lazy.
Uh-huh, go ahead.
Oh, I'm sorry.
To piggyback on the women being lazy.
Brother!
Body positivity.
Cut it.
Cut it.
I ain't gonna lie.
Cut it.
Cut it.
Because, like, honestly, most women are like, oh, I want this man, like, six feet.
In the gym.
Doing all that.
What makes you think he doesn't want you to do that?
And you're like, oh, take me as I am.
So you should take him as he is.
Fat.
Ugly.
And all that.
I don't get it.
Honestly, all of that is just BS. Honestly, if you feel bad about yourself and you don't look good and all...
Go to the gym.
Just go to the gym.
If you got money, BBL. But keep up with the gym because you're not trying to look like an ant.
That's all I got.
Use BBL and have BBLs and it looks good.
Hey man, real talk man.
What's those more girls that thought like you?
W wrestler.
Yeah, W wrestler.
Okay, so I want to ask you if it's okay for a girl to make the first move.
That's a good question.
Yeah, it is.
It depends on how you want to go about it.
I typically advise girls, if you're going to make a first move, do it in a way where it's a little bit more subtle.
You could do the whole movie situation where you drop some books in front of them and it instigates his male instincts to help a girl out in need.
Being the damsel in distress definitely helps.
Bumping into him.
Right?
These kind of more nuanced things.
Because even if he does find out that, like, she wanted to talk to me or whatever, you did it in a way where it's not too, too obvious.
If it's too forced or too, like, then it's going to be weird.
But if you make it, like, seamless where it's like, oh, by accident?
Yeah.
But at least you're in this environment.
Here's the formula.
So initiate some type of interaction with him where you're in a position of help, of needing help.
That's how you do it.
Because, right, and I'll give you an example so you ladies understand this.
Let's say you're walking down the street, right, and you see a very strong, able-bodied man walking with 10 grocery bags, right, all across his arms and shit, and he's walking and he's doing okay.
Would you stop him and help him?
No.
No, you wouldn't, right?
Because he's on his own.
He's doing well, right?
However, if you're walking down the street and an old lady is struggling, right, with the bags, would you help her?
Yes.
Because it's very obvious that she needs help, right?
With a man, that's how you do it.
Because you want to basically be that old lady where it's like, oh, shit.
Because as a girl, you got to remember, men already have a natural instinct and proclivity to help women in need.
So, if you drop something in front of him or you fall or something like that, you might hurt your knee a little bit.
Be a good actress, right?
Figure it out.
He will come and help you.
If he has some semblance.
Is it wrong to just ask, put glue on a coffee date or something?
No.
You could do that, but I advise against that.
Yeah.
You don't want the guy to think, and I'm giving you all the raw deal, you don't want him to think like, oh, I got this in the bag.
Off rip.
You know what I mean?
So, Test his masculinity.
If he doesn't help you, then you already know he'll lose her anyway.
Or they might be like, for example, what does she want from me?
Why are you so...
It's kind of like if you're too direct, it's got to be indirect.
Being direct works sometimes.
If girls are direct with me, I personally reward it.
I'm like, oh, awesome.
I'll hang out with her if she's attractive.
Because I know it takes a lot of courage for a woman to do that.
But other guys might not think like me, so I gotta give you the best advice in general, right?
Because if a girl did it to me, I'd be like, oh yeah, cool, right?
But I know most guys might not take it that way, so the best advice I could give is put yourself in a vulnerable position, wink wink, where you need help, and then that's gonna activate his masculinity to help you out.
Okay.
And then y'all can start up a conversation off that.
We love an easy setup, but I don't know.
We've got to give the girls a real game.
For most guys, yeah, yeah, yeah.
We've given y'all a real game.
All right.
Hunter Coinier, where is the freakiest place you have done it?
Also, the girl on the left next to Myron, you are gorgeous.
Okay.
So he said that you're cute.
Don't let her.
Thank you.
And then W Girls by Myron and Fresh, El Jamaican and Caveman.
Chris, what the fuck?
Also, Free Top G and Talisman.
All right.
And then K2, 20 bucks.
I appreciate that.
Thanks, bro.
So, Rumble.
Oh, Rumble Rants?
Okay.
And guys, do me a favor, bro, while Chris pulls this up.
Go subscribe to our Fresh Fit Cliffs channel so we can hit 1 million subscribers on that shit.
So we can flex on the fucking haters.
We got it, Chris?
Yep.
Alright, we'll close this thing out.
Blue Nuts goes, I tried to buy the shirt, but all I saw was some homeless guy with a tip cup.
Chris the Bump shirt, live in stores.
Bro, someone in the chat said, Maren always keeps a cutie between him and the hookers.
LMFAO, I'm dead.
Oh, okay.
No.
No.
I'm confused.
No.
No, no.
Alright, this panel is giving loose pussy energy.
Alright, man.
Alright, guys.
We're going to be back on Monday.
Monday.
With a Money Monday for y'all.
And then also we're going to have...
Guests on Tuesday for y'all.
And then I'm going to go to Dubai on Wednesday.
So no shows after Tuesday of next week.
Yes.
All right.
We got some stuff that we're going to be doing.
Fresh, I think, is going to go to Vegas.
I'm going to go to Dubai.
Yep.
So we got some big things coming for y'all.
We'll catch you guys on Monday, 7 p.m.
for Money Monday.
Love y'all.
Don't forget to get the book, Women Deserve Less.
All the girls' Instagrams are below in the description.
So go ahead and send a dick pic because I'm sure they would love it.
Don't do that.
Peace out, guys.
Nice.
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