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Feb. 4, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
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Single Mom Denies SugarDaddy Proposal To "Have Fun?!"
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Welcome to the Fresh Shift Podcast, After Hours Edition.
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I think I said Elmo.
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Cool!
Alright, thanks, Chris.
That was quite profound.
Alright, so ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, educational level, and if you want to, of course.
Your body count.
And we'll start.
Name, age, what we do for a living.
Hi, I'm Shannon.
I am 18 years old, and I'm a full-time...
I'm from Long Island, New York.
Okay.
And you said you're a full-time?
I'm a full-time student studying finance.
You're in college right now?
Yes.
Cool.
Do you want to drop where you go to school or no?
I go to UM. Okay.
Cool.
All right.
That makes sense.
And then...
All right.
Cool.
And then what's your status?
Single relationship, sugar daddy?
Single.
All right.
Oh.
Wait.
Single or single AF? I know we act all that.
Single AF. Single AF? Understood.
What are you studying right now at UM? Finance.
Okay.
Cool.
Cool.
What about you?
I go by Tiny, I'm 24, and I wax cookies for a living.
Where are you from?
Palm Beach.
Okay.
Palm Beach?
Palm Beach County.
That's a red flag.
What?
That's my sister.
Your profession is waxing vaginas, you said?
Yes, sir.
Okay.
Waxing badges, alright.
She's an esthetician.
Yes, licensed.
Okay, so waxing is just one of the things you do, but you're an esthetician by profession?
Yes.
Okay, and what's your highest education?
I currently just enrolled back in school.
Maybe for nursing?
I don't know yet.
Wait, nurse?
So you're in college now and your highest education completed is high school though?
Or esthetician school?
Yes.
Okay.
Beauty school.
Okay.
And then what's your status?
No comment.
Tingled right now.
Translation, have a guy but not really sure where y'all stand.
Yeah.
Somewhere there.
Yeah, she's single until the right guy comes along.
I guess your chances are tiny, you could say.
Small chances are very tiny.
What about you?
Okay, my name is B. Hey y'all!
I'm currently in school and I'm 23.
Where are you from?
I'm from Fort Lauderdale.
Okay, and then what do you do for it?
I teach little kids.
I work at a daycare.
Okay.
And then, what's your highest education level completed?
I'm currently in college right now, but for my nursing degree, and yeah, I also do makeup on the side.
Okay.
And then, what's your relationship status?
I'm taking it.
How long have you guys been together?
Personal.
That's amazing.
We just say we've known each other for like a year now.
I think we made it official last year.
Does he know?
Yeah.
So someone here?
Yeah.
Okay.
Cool.
I'm Mariana, I'm 24 years old.
I'm from Venezuela, but I grew up in Canada.
Your citizenship is Canada?
Yeah.
What part of Canada are you from?
I'm from Vancouver and Calgary.
I grew up in both places.
W Canada, man.
You here for vacation or what?
I'm here for a couple months and then I'm going back.
Okay.
And then what do you do for it?
I'm a model, social media content creator.
What kind of content you make?
Only fans.
Sexy content.
And then what's your relationship status?
I'm taken.
How long you been with him?
A week.
Oh wow.
Take in, she's take out.
I don't know, Kimber.
It's only been a week since.
Oh no, right?
Just in time for Valentine's Day.
Did you ask Kimber to be her man or did he ask you to be his girl?
He asked me.
It was a week ago.
Um, we were dating for about a month.
Stupid!
Yo, niggas say, yo, B-Day coming up?
I need somebody!
I need somebody!
Okay, uh, and then what's your high education level completed?
Um, high school.
Okay.
Cool.
About a week ago!
Hi, everyone.
I'm Demi.
I'm 27.
I'm from New York, and I'm a fashion stylist.
What part of New York are you from?
Uptown Manhattan.
That's a fancy way of saying Washington Heights.
That definitely is.
Yeah, she wants to tell you all the truth.
That's where all the Dominicans live.
Okay, so she's from the hood.
Fantastic.
And then what do you do for work?
I'm a fashion stylist.
Fashion stylist?
So let me know if you need me.
So like a personal shopper?
Correct.
Yeah, I do at all events.
Okay.
For men or women?
Everything.
Men, women, you know.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
Associates.
Okay.
And what?
Communication.
Okay.
We'll see if that's true tonight.
Okay.
I'm single.
Very single.
Okay.
So call me.
All right.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name is Crystal.
I'm from Arizona.
I'm 25.
What part of Arizona?
Phoenix, Scottsdale.
Okay.
Phoenix is good.
What do you do for it?
I do Florian, I invest, and OnlyFans.
Okay, so she does OnlyFans.
Alright, fantastic.
That's not the OnlyFans.
That's your main thing.
A little more girls always say OnlyFans last, but that's like the main thing.
I'm an entrepreneur!
I rent Jeskies too!
Yeah, so you do OnlyFans.
What kind of, you said, what is the other two things you did?
Investing and I rent out Jeskies.
Investing in what?
Houses.
You're a real estate investor?
How many properties do you own?
One.
Duplex.
But I also invest in like three other with other people.
Okay.
And it's all yours?
Or did you get other people to help you invest and buy that house?
So the one that's mine is mine.
Okay.
But the other ones I had people help me with.
Okay.
All right.
That's good for you.
That's good.
Solid.
Smart.
And you got tennis in there or you Airbnb it up?
Airbnb.
Okay.
And you said it's a duplex?
Mm-hmm.
All right.
Phoenix?
Scottsdale.
Good market.
All right.
And then what's your highest education level?
High school.
High school.
Cool.
And then what's your status?
Single.
All right.
Doing better than most niggas, man.
That's crazy.
All right.
Cool.
And then what about you?
My name is Diamond.
I am 25.
I'm from Florida.
What part of Florida are you from?
West Palm.
Red flag.
Oh, wow.
What you got against us?
I know, right?
Nothing against y'all, but...
All right.
What do you do for it?
I'm an entrepreneur.
I do OnlyFans.
And I'm a stay-at-home mom.
So, yeah.
Okay.
So, entrepreneur.
Yes.
And then you said you do OnlyFans.
Yes.
Is that the entrepreneurship?
No.
I own a business called Bougie Beauty Bar.
And I sell, like, hair and lashes.
So, yeah.
Okay.
Yeah.
Can you spell entrepreneur?
I'm dead.
Get off her.
Alright, I know it's E-N-T-R-P-U. No, you messed it up.
What are you stopping, man?
Just not get the money.
That's all I care.
Alright, can you spell get the money?
No, I'm just kidding.
I get it every day, so...
What's your status?
Right now, I got options, but...
I don't know.
I'm just living my shit.
Chris, I think you know the sound effect for that one.
Stupid.
No, I belong to the streets.
Just my sugar daddy.
He's the only one that paid the price to be the boss.
So you have a single slash sugar daddy.
Fantastic.
Alright, what about you?
I'm Anna Maria.
I'm 27 years old and I'm originally from Orlando but I currently live in Atlanta.
What do you do for it?
I'm a nurse.
What's your highest education level completed?
Bachelor's degree.
In nursing?
In nursing and in health sciences.
Where'd you get it from?
UCF, University of Central Florida and Emory University in Atlanta.
And where, you said?
Emory.
You have two degrees?
Mm-hmm.
Two BAs.
Two bachelor's degrees.
Okay.
All right.
You have two degrees, right?
Yes.
Do you actually use any of them?
So, not my health sciences degree.
I ended up doing, after that, I worked a little bit, and then I did an accelerated program for nursing.
Okay.
Yeah.
And you had your prerequisites met from the other universities, so you probably got it done in, what, two years, maybe?
The accelerated program was a 15-month program.
Okay.
So that makes sense.
Because, yeah, half a college is a waste of time because they get you through prerequisites or whatever.
So it is what it is.
Okay.
And then what's your status?
I'm single.
All right.
Single or single AF? Single AF. What's your highest education level completed, by the way, Ms.
Entrepreneur?
Oh.
I forgot to ask.
Some college.
I have, like, three credits to my AA. All right.
So high school.
Fantastic.
Fantastic.
What about you?
What's your name?
Hi, my name is Abby.
I'm 24 years old.
I'm from Florida, Florida.
I'm a youth peer specialist.
What does that entail?
What are your job duties as a youth peer specialist?
So basically, I mentor youth ages 14 to 29 who have mental health and substance abuse problems.
Okay.
All right.
And then what's your highest education level completed?
I have my associates in arts.
Okay.
And then what's your status?
I'm single.
All right.
What about you?
Hello, everybody.
My name is Melanie.
I'm 28 years old from Orlando, Florida.
My highest education level completed is high school.
What do you do for?
I don't work right now.
Stay at home, girlfriend.
How long have you been in your relationship?
Two years.
What does he do?
He's in renewable energy.
Solar?
Yeah.
He sells to commercials.
They make bread, bruh.
Have a baby.
No, I'm not.
She's like, have a baby.
I'm not.
No, I'm not.
Alright, what about you?
I'm Amanda.
I'm 19 years old.
I'm currently a full-time student.
I'm originally from Connecticut.
Oh, shit.
What part of Connecticut?
Fairfield County.
Sorry to hear that.
I'm from Connecticut, too.
I'm from New Britain.
Oh, wow.
My folks are in Stratford and Fairfield County, so now they are.
Alright.
Connecticut sucks, so...
Do you live here now, or are you just visiting?
I go to school here.
Okay, UM? Yes.
Alright, are y'all friends on the show?
Yes.
Okay.
Yeah, they know Topwater, the guy I met while Battlers YouTube, the gamer.
Oh, okay.
So I would assume that your profession is full-time student?
Yes.
Okay.
And then...
And then relationship status?
Single AF. And then what are you majoring in at UM? Broadcast journalism and media management.
Okay.
Okay.
Another useless degree.
Fantastic.
No, I'm just kidding.
Alright.
And then I think that's it, man.
Alright.
So guys, as y'all know, it's Friday, which means you guys are going to go ahead and ask the questions, and we will go ahead and ask the ladies a question.
If they're good.
If they're good.
If it's trash, bro, we ain't going to do it.
Yeah, I'm sorry to say.
A lot of y'all be asking some really...
Complicated, wordy-ass questions that, quite frankly, would be boring as hell.
So make sure the question is good or thought-provoking, and we'll definitely take it.
But it's Friday, so you guys go ahead and run the show.
All right, King Kareem goes, Ladies, who strongly believes that they are a queen and why?
Also, who gave you that title?
A king-slash-high-value man or yourself?
Oh, that's a good one.
All right, let's see here.
We'll go around the table real fast, and we'll start here and then work our way this way.
Okay.
Do you believe you're a queen?
And if so, who gave you that title?
Honestly, no.
Okay, no?
Alright, cool.
That's real.
Alright, what about you?
I don't think I'm a queen until I'm appointed a queen.
So I don't think I can self-proclaim be a queen.
Oh, wow.
What the fuck?
Okay.
I think I came to tell her you're a queen.
I don't think you...
No, you tell yourself you're a queen.
Don't worry.
I don't know.
Are you a queen?
And who appointed you if so?
Or is it not self-appointed?
I believe I'm a queen and I believe God calls me a queen, to be honest.
Amen!
What about you?
Are you a queen?
And if so, who appointed you so?
I think I am a queen.
I think we all are queens in our own ways.
Okay, who appointed you so?
Like the other girl said, God.
She lives in Atlanta, so she's heavily influenced.
- Yeah.
- You know what I mean?
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
- I see what she did there.
- Oh, God.
- All right, what about you?
Yes, you're a queen, right?
Who gave you that title?
Who's appointed you that?
Muwa.
Yourself.
But no, I'm not gonna lie.
I get treated like a queen because I treat a man like a queen.
So, I like that.
Like, it's all on how you treat people.
But you appointed yourself queen, though.
No.
I'm not sure you told me too, but you told me what I think.
What about you, Arizona?
Are you a queen?
And if so, who appointed you?
I'm a queen and my dad.
Wait, is that incest?
My dad says I deserve the world.
Daddy's girl.
And I think myself, just your aura, the way you walk, the way you move really.
Fantastic.
What about you?
I think I am.
You think you are too?
Yeah.
Why?
Because of everything that I've gone through to get to the point of where I am right now.
Everything that I've gone through to get to where I am right now.
Not a lot of people are willing to go through everything, right?
I don't know.
The journey.
The journey of OnlyFans.
Alright, what about you?
Are you a queen or are you a queen?
Yeah, I think I was a queen.
Can I pull up that question real quick?
Yeah, sure.
Yeah, I think I'm a queen.
And my father pointed that to me.
You are.
Okay, so your dad gave it to you.
Alright, what about you?
I am and it's because I love myself.
That's it.
Period.
No, no, no.
Don't get it twisted.
I'm not independent.
I need him for certain things.
But that is not one of them.
All right.
All right.
That was the most contradictory statement ever.
It went from period to exclamation point to now question mark.
All right.
What about you?
I think I am a queen.
And I think that God appointed me.
God appointed you?
Amos.
Okay, if you notice, right?
There's a certain trend happening here.
You were an anomaly.
I don't know what happened there, but most everyone that's queen is a black queen.
Shout out to the black queens.
All right.
First, you try to get us canceled again.
You're trying to start that.
I'm going to say it again.
I'm going to say it again.
Can I actually adjust my answer real quick?
So I'm still not a queen, but I'm chilling at this princess level for now until the right person comes along and says like, you are my queen.
Say that to you though.
I mean, or find the confidence in myself to say it.
Listen, my name is Diamond Princessa, and I still move like I'm a queen.
So, that should tell you, I call myself Princessa, which is Princess Spanish.
Before you guys corrupt her, let me ask you a question.
You said a man is going to come in and designate you as the queen, is what you're saying.
I'm assuming you mean a man, right?
Yeah, definitely.
Why a man though?
Like your mom or dad or like someone of value.
It doesn't have to be a man.
A man only has certain things to offer you.
I mean, I'm the first child.
I'm the first grandchild.
So I've always just kind of been the princess in my family.
I know that may come off as like spoiled, but it's okay to be like spoiled.
It's not okay to be a spoiled brat.
Listen, I understand.
I agree.
That's a good point.
Very interesting.
Alright, ladies, who's more appealing?
Big Mo, who buys 100k worth of designer clothes every year, has 50k Audi and outside, or Henny Chris, whose clothes come from Walmart, has two Lambos, but never goes out?
Alright, I know what you're trying to do there.
Alright, ladies, what age do you want to get married?
That's a good question.
We'll start here and then work our way.
How old do you want to get married by?
Definitely before I'm 30, but I'm open to any time as soon as the right person comes along and we've known each other for at least two years.
So even right now?
I mean, if I found the right person, I wouldn't be opposed to it.
Okay.
So it's not necessarily...
For you, it's more about whenever, but it's got to be two years of working.
I mean, not necessarily, but enough time to make sure that it is the right person.
What's your hard line?
What's your cutoff date by?
Like, how age?
Cut off age.
28, 30.
Like, the age that I would be.
Like, I need to be married by this age.
Um, 40.
Okay.
Do you think you'll be able to get the best eligible bachelors by the time you're 40?
Yes.
Alright, so, 40 is your cut off, but you're trying to find it sooner than that.
Yeah, if it comes along.
Okay.
Just out of curiosity, I kind of want to gauge your knowledge on this.
Do you think you have more value now at 18 years old to a man or at 40 years old?
18.
You think at 18?
Okay.
So when it behoove you to get a guy when you're at your prime?
Who's laughing like that?
I'm just asking.
Fight you first.
I mean, I'm just asking.
What are your thoughts on that?
Wait, I don't know what the hoof means.
Can you please explain that?
Wouldn't it prompt you?
You have needs to do better.
But anyway.
It's cool, goddammit!
I'm making it look bad.
Hurricane's taking an L right now.
Hurricane's taking an L. But no, wouldn't it prompt you to want to go ahead and find a guy when your value's higher?
Yeah.
So why 40?
I just think that 40 is like a good age to be married by because you want to have kids by then.
Do you think you can actually bring a child to turn by 40 years old healthily?
Probably younger than that actually.
35 years old.
There's a nurse in the house, isn't there?
35.
35 years old is pretty much when most of your eggs are gone and it's going to be very difficult.
To be fair, my mom did at 40.
what is you want to be married by I actually said that I didn't want to get married because married men still cheat.
But if I find somebody that's, you know, a good obsessed with me, then maybe.
If you know all men are cheat, wouldn't it make more sense to just accept reality and work with it?
If I can have two, then I'll deal with it, but if I can only have one...
Then I'm not going to put up with it.
Exactly.
Period.
If you can have two men?
Yeah.
Why not?
Exactly.
They want multiple women, but we can't have multiple men.
Make it make sense.
Wait, so you want to be a hoe?
I'm not a hoe.
No.
It's not being a hoe.
Open relationship.
Open relationship.
Yeah.
It's not even that because nowadays it's like five of them in a relationship.
It's like plenogamy.
Yeah, whatever.
I don't get a minute.
Okay.
So, all right.
You said a lot there.
By what age do you want to get married by, though?
I mean...
I really don't want to waste my prime on a man if he ain't good.
I honestly don't know because I don't even know if I'm getting married.
Okay.
You said you don't want to waste your prime on a man.
What is the prime?
Being young and fine because I'm going to be like this forever.
Okay.
Out of curiosity, do you think you have more value now with finding the guy that you want at 24 or later on?
I mean, honestly, I would just say you could tell through time.
Because if I meet a man today, and I waste my prime years of me being young and fine on him, and I get 30, and he end up just up and leave me, then what I'm going to be left with?
Just years.
Who initiates most of the breakups, though?
Men or women?
Women.
But it'd be valid points.
Okay, but that doesn't take away from the point that you have kind of an irrational fear knowing that women initiate most of the breakups.
But if men just do what we say, it won't be a problem.
Well, women aren't attracted to men that do what they say.
Yes, they are.
Really?
Yes.
You want a man who's going to be submissive to you?
Damn.
Submissive and manly at the same time.
That's impossible.
It works both ways.
By that logic, I'm a smart retard.
Listen.
It doesn't make sense.
There's no such thing as him.
Manly, hold on.
What?
Anyway, manly, okay, is masculinity.
Masculinity, a big part of masculinity is leadership and dominance, which goes against being submissive, which is a dominant trait.
So listen, listen.
Okay, when it gets down to it, he needs to be able to do all the manly stuff.
Yeah.
He need to have a sweet spot for me.
And that's it.
He need to be mean to everybody else except for me.
And do the manly stuff like, you know, change tires and oil and oil.
That's double standard.
No, it's not.
Yes, it is.
No, it's not.
It is.
So let me get it straight.
He has to do all that for you.
What do you do for him, though?
Exactly.
Everything else.
Like?
What a woman's supposed to do.
Like what?
Like what?
Incredible.
Incredible.
I promise you, bro, the entitlement is crazy in America.
Yeah, man, it's wild.
Damn!
No wonder niggas cheat on you.
I've actually never been cheated on, except for high school, but that don't count because, you know, now it's over.
By what age do you want to be married at?
I never really thought that far, so I would say like 30.
30?
Yeah.
Okay.
Do you think you have more value now or at 30 years old?
At 23 versus 30?
I mean, I feel like you still have value at 30 because it's just not that far from like your...
When I say value, ladies, I don't mean value as in you as a human being in your experiences.
I mean as in your value to a man from an attraction standpoint.
Yeah, because I feel like I've met 30-year-old women and I'm like, damn, okay, like You're prime.
Are you a man though?
No.
So wouldn't it be fair to say that how you assessed her being at her prime is probably not the same as what a man would assess?
From a man's standpoint, yeah, I probably wouldn't have value for a man's standpoint.
If you want a man, wouldn't it make sense to do what a man wants to attract a man versus thinking what you think a man wants?
Are you confusing her?
No, I get what you're saying.
No, I get what you're saying.
But no, yeah, I guess so.
So you still want to get married by 30?
It is basically, like I said, I never really thought that far about marriage when it comes to marriage.
So you asked me that, I'm just giving you an answer.
I would say 30.
If I say 25, it happens.
I'm just trying to see where your minds are at.
So I'm about to be 25.
The perfect age for me is 28, but my cut-up date is 30.
If it happens after that, then okay, it happens after that.
But I want to be married by 30.
Okay.
What about you?
I think like 38 maybe.
Like we start dating like 36 and then we grow, but like I don't want to get married too young.
Let me ask you a question.
You're from New York City.
Yes.
Washington Heights, I know that the rent in that area is one up.
It's for a one bedroom there.
It's probably around $3,000 to $4,000.
And that's an area that isn't necessarily even the most desirable in New York City.
So how much money do you want your man to make per year?
Bare minimum.
300k.
Okay.
What percentage of men do you think earn that kind of money per year?
Five.
Pass his brother over.
Okay.
How tall do you want him to be?
Not that tall, but not short.
I mean, it could be average.
I don't want to be picky.
What's wrong with short people?
Guys, it's her preference.
Please let her answer it.
What's the bare minimum height for you then?
You said average.
What is average to you?
Six feet.
Okay.
Fantastic.
Chris, can we pull up the calculator real fast?
All right.
So, six foot, $300,000 per year, etc.
And you want that guy to want you at 38 years old?
Yes.
Do you think you have more value now at 27?
I want to start at 35.
Okay.
What you want versus what's real are two different things.
Let me ask you a question.
So, you think you're going to meet this guy at 35.
Do you think you're at your prime or on your decline at 38?
Prime.
You think you're at your prime?
Well, yeah.
Do you think he's at his prime or his decline at 38?
I don't know where he's at, but I know he needs to be anywhere else I am at.
Okay, a six-foot man that's making $300,000 per year living in New York City that's 38 years old.
Why don't I live in New York City?
I live in Miami now.
Okay.
Well, let's say, okay, Miami.
That's fine.
You think he's on his prime or his decline?
His prime.
Okay, so this might be hard to hear, but at 38 years old, you're way past your prime as a woman.
Why do you say that?
Because the things that make a woman attractive are intimately tied to her age.
So I don't know a lot of females age like celebrities, but there's a lot of older females that look really good.
Mara Carey?
Looking good.
J-Lo?
But looking good and actually being good is two different things.
Is J-Lo not a good person?
She had like 20 marriages, nigga.
She's still getting married.
She's still getting married.
Let's go ahead and plug your guy in.
So ladies, this is our Build-A-Man calculator here.
Get out of Thank you.
And then, uh, what's the age range?
You said 38, right?
I said 35.
Okay, 35 to 38, right?
Yeah.
Okay, uh, what race do you want them to be?
I'm really open to race.
I don't really, like...
So you're an equal opportunity employer?
Can I ask a question?
I don't want glass, so you can take that off.
Okay.
That's fine, that's fine.
No, no, so you like Asians too?
If he's fine, yeah, maybe I would like him.
He's in his priming.
No, no, no.
We're not talking about fucking Kent.
We're talking about Ling Ling.
I'm talking about that.
Are you down for Ling Ling?
Hold on, let me finish with her.
No, I'm not.
Okay, so what race do you actually want?
Hispanic?
White.
White?
Okay, click white only, Chris.
Nobody else?
Alright, vanilla.
She said six foot.
Click six foot.
And then, do you care if he owns or rents?
He's making 30k.
Do you care about his education level?
No.
Can he be fat?
No.
Can he be married?
No, he needs to marry me.
Let's see how common this guy is.
Let's find out.
Let's see.
Damn.
Shit, broken.
I said five percent.
I don't know.
That's zero point.
You scored a perfect five out of five cat bags.
So the likelihood of you being single is extremely high.
Good job.
Yeah, good job.
Oh, I can't record.
That's crazy how he played.
I think we're going to know our standards just maybe a little.
Yeah, so you're definitely going to be a cat and or a dog lady in the future.
Wow.
So you want a guy that makes that kind of money, right?
And he's going to be at his prime.
You're going to be on your decline.
Do you actually think you'll be able to attract and retain this type of guy at that age?
Well, now that you did all this, now I'm going to revaluate.
Okay, you're welcome.
Time to switch some things around.
So that's my thing.
Just because she's 35 doesn't mean the guy needs to be 35.
No.
He could be younger.
We never said that.
Or older.
Okay, realistically speaking, let's operate in reality here.
Most women that are 35 years old will prefer a man at their age, if not older.
Yeah.
True.
Yeah.
Okay.
So what about you?
At what age do you want to be married?
Did you change your answer, by the way?
What age do you want to be married by now?
32.
No.
Actually, I don't want to fucking get married no longer.
Can I say something?
Okay.
Alright, go ahead.
Can I say something?
Yeah.
What's wrong with younger guys?
Most of them don't want them.
I want them.
Too many games.
I'm dating one.
He's younger than you?
But he's very mature.
Experience.
Yeah, experience, man.
We could go one month.
He's mature?
I bet you in my house he's not mature.
Let me ask you.
You're 24.
You're about to be 25.
How old is he?
He's 23.
Do you make more money than him?
No, he makes more love.
And what does he do?
Music.
Music?
He's a rapper?
He's an engineer, producer, singer, and there's another one.
Are you okay with him having sex with other girls?
No.
That relationship will last.
What about you?
What age do you want to be married by?
29.
29?
This is amazing.
It's very telling, actually, the ages that they're giving.
What about you?
What do you want to be married by?
Oh, I'm open.
I'm, like, just living life right now.
If I find the one, I find the one.
It's giving streets.
I have niggas literally hand me up.
Niggas?
Yeah, niggas.
That's cool.
But the real question is, do you want them back?
No, I just really want to build myself and become the woman that the man I want to marry.
Okay, so let me ask you a question then.
How much money does that make?
You're an entrepreneur, you're probably fairly successful yourself.
How much do you want your man to make per year?
It doesn't matter to be honest like I'm with either I'm either with like growing and building or you having at least what I got or more.
Okay now you're keeping it for real.
So what is the bare minimum for that?
I don't know it's like 90k Nah, I don't know about that now.
Is that too little?
Not too little, but I fuck with niggas that make more than that.
So at least be equal to what I can get.
So give us a number, please.
Alright, so let's say $450,000.
$450,000.
What percentage of men do you think make that kind of money per year?
Not a lot.
That's why I said I have sugar daddy's.
I don't have a regular boyfriend.
Can you give me a number on what percentage of men you think make that kind of money?
I'm unsure, to be honest.
Alright, so less than 1%.
Okay.
So, are you also not okay with sharing your guy?
I don't care, as long as I'm happy.
Okay, so you're willing to share them, so that's good.
Yeah.
But you want a guy to make $450K per year, you do understand.
No, he doesn't have to make that much.
I'm open to whatever, but the $92 million I get.
Ask me what's the bare minimum.
I would say at least like $200K is bare minimum.
Okay.
Guys that make that kind of money fall into the top 2% of men.
Do you think they want a woman that's older and has had sugar daddies and has a child?
Well, to be honest, I get 16 and I'm 25, so I don't think I'm going to look old.
But it's like, my baby is like, it's a deal breaker.
So if you can't accept my baby, you can't accept me.
So...
I like that.
Mother first.
Yeah, of course.
I'm a momiana.
Hold second.
Hold second.
I'm just trying to be honest here.
A man that has money and status or has reached that level typically wants to build his own family, isn't going to want to go ahead and take on another man's child.
But if he wants you, he wants you.
Yeah, typically it doesn't mean always.
I love the negative, the positive reinforcement.
You got two men that are telling y'all the truth and all the girls here are giving us some bullshit.
It's okay, you queen, don't worry about it.
If we never met men like that, then we wouldn't say it.
Does it know about your kid?
Yes, and he actually supports me and her if I need anything, want anything.
Emotionally, he's there for me.
No, let me ask you this.
Is that your man?
I would say, like, he somewhat is, but right now, it's like, no, I love him, but I'm just living my life.
Like, it's whatever happens for me.
Like, I'm not going to stop myself for someone who may not be there at the end.
But he's there right now.
Okay, that's good for him.
Yeah.
That's good for you.
She don't respect him.
No, but the thing is, I treat him like a king.
Basically, not even fucking.
You don't fuck him?
No, of course I fuck him.
It's like, if he needs help with chores or with his dog, I buy him stuff.
I buy his dog stuff.
With his money?
No, it's actually my money because I do all the sales.
No, but he does give me money.
He does way more than me, but I do do for him.
So let's stay focused here.
What age do you want to be married by?
I don't know.
Let me just boil this down.
According to your requirements of what you want in a man, you really need to consolidate when you're at your peak because the man that you want is going to want a girl at her peak because that man can get other women.
But baby, I'm going to be winning my whole life, so you're going to get winning no matter what.
You do realize that as a woman, it's your job to retain the man.
Of course.
Winning isn't necessarily...
It's up to him, not necessarily you.
It's up to you to win him over.
Listen, no.
I have options, so he will have to win me over.
Question for you.
You have sexual options.
How old are you now?
No, not even sexual.
Financially, mentally.
But no, no.
How old are you now?
I'm 25.
If your sugar daddy said to you, you know what?
Mm-hmm.
Babe, you're the most awesome person in the world.
I don't know how you're right now.
He already asked.
What'd you do?
I didn't really give him an answer.
Because like I said, I'm living life right now.
My daughter is too young when I went to Key West.
Nigga, Sam.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Incredible.
He's taking care of her.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, we got to get on Twitch.
Alright, yo, guys, come on over to YouTube right now.
We're going to get on Twitch, Facebook, and Twitter.
We're on Rumble and YouTube.
That might give her her trips, take care of the kid, money, and lifestyle.
Yo, y'all niggas should have came around when I say, I'm coming out with a book called Why Women Deserve Less.
This is why we should like this.
Wow.
What about you?
What age do you want to be married by?
I would say like 30, 31.
Damn, even being a nurse, knowing that most of your ex are gone by that point?
Well, I ideally want to have kids around like 33.
Definitely before 35.
Oh, you're being risky.
And you're in the medical field.
All right.
Hold on.
I'm curious.
You live in an ATL, right?
What's your type?
Hope you're not gay.
Just saying.
I feel like I don't really have a type if I'm, like, attracted to you.
Stop the cat!
She fucks black, guys.
You ain't tight, man.
Yeah, man.
Very obvious.
Alright, what about you?
What age do you want to be married by?
I say 29, 30.
Wow.
Okay.
What about you?
Being 28, like yesterday.
Okay.
So ASAP for you?
ASAP. Okay.
Yes.
If you could have got married younger, would you?
Absolutely.
Okay.
What about you?
Absolutely.
28.
This is very telling.
All the girls want to get married pretty much either...
So ladies, your peak years are 18 to 24, but all of you guys want to get married past your prime or even way beyond your prime.
And my interesting thing is, like, I'm pretty certain that all of you guys have pretty high standards when it comes to men.
You want a guy that's higher earning, attractive, tall, whatever it may be.
Do you think this man is going to want you when you're on your decline?
No.
So why would you wait?
Yeah.
I mean, like, I can cook today and I can ride it like a pony tomorrow.
That's cool, but why would I go ahead and have you cook and ride it like a pony now when I can go ahead and get a girl that's...
You said you want to get married at, what, 30 years old?
No.
When?
29.
Why would I do that when I can go get a girl that's 21 years old or 19 years old?
Touche.
Well, don't go too low now.
Yeah.
I mean, realistically speaking, that's a woman's peak.
So, like, men are very different.
Like, you guys are trying to go ahead and cash out at the casino when it's, like, almost too late.
Yeah.
See, our grandparents knew what was right.
They got married when they were 18.
And they had a long marriage, but they understood what it was.
I think girls nowadays, they think that, you know, I can wait, have fun first, and they get married later.
But then it's like, yo, the guys that you actually want, they want younger, harder girls.
So it's, like, tough.
But my grandparents weren't happy.
How do you know?
Asked her.
I think it's you.
They stayed married, right?
Huh?
They stayed married, right?
No, he died.
He got killed.
Oh, yeah.
I'm ready to use a widow example as her being sad.
Wait, what?
Yeah, but anyway, it's just very interesting to me how you guys are kind of living life for yourself and not realizing that the man that you want doesn't want what you want.
You want to go ahead and have fun and trips and all this other stuff and experiencing different things, but the guy that you want wants you to have less experience.
That's why men typically prefer younger women and girls that aren't ran through.
To the show.
So that's just what it is.
Anyway, but we'll keep going on.
We got here.
Ladies, what age do you want to get married?
Oh, sorry.
Ladies, how many of you own at least one full Bitcoin?
Don't nobody care about Bitcoin.
Alright, here we go.
So we got here, Nick.
Ladies, please name two tangible things that you would bring to benefit the man of your dreams, not including sex or food.
We'll start right here with Connecticut.
Go ahead.
Two tangible things that you can bring to the relationship and you can't say sex or food.
For your dream man.
No sex.
I'm saying no sex and no food.
Do cleaning skills count?
I'm super organized.
You can hire a maid.
Okay, organized.
What else?
What's the second thing you would bring?
Wait, are we going to consider love a tangible thing?
Not really.
It's not tangible.
I can't touch love.
We're going to keep just the organized part.
Fantastic.
What about you?
You all need it.
Tangible?
Yeah.
Oh man.
What do you give to your man right now?
That's tangible besides sex and you said cooking.
Girl, I can't even do that.
I'm trying to think of tangible because I support him in other ways that I can't think of.
Okay, give us a tangible example of supporting him in other ways.
I mean, he wakes up early for work, so, you know, I make sure, like, he's good to go with, like, coffee in the morning.
I pack his lunch before work, like, so he has things like that.
Like, he's prepared for his day, basically.
That's food.
All right.
That's true.
I'm trying to think of, like, tangible.
Come on.
Well, you know what?
I'll help you out here.
Yeah.
Attensive to his needs.
Yeah.
Yeah.
All right.
What about you?
I would say emotional support.
That's not tangible.
Okay.
Um...
I guess bonding over things that he likes to do.
Isn't that what dogs do?
Emotional support?
Sometimes men don't have emotional support.
What if he's allergic?
Is that tangible?
I guess I'm confused with that.
It's not tangible.
I would say wellness activities, doing things with him that he likes, just learning about things that he likes to do.
Alright, wellness activities.
All right, what about you?
Tangible Give them shots They'll definitely be taken care of So you'll nurse him I guess?
Okay.
Alright, what about you?
I'll bring books and a kayak.
What?
No, because we like reading and we've actually been kayaking before and we really like it.
So that's two things for my man to...
Are you talking about your sugar daddy?
I mean, yeah.
But the question was man of your dreams.
He proposed to you when you declined him, so he's clearly not the man of your dreams.
Well, I mean, like I said, I'm young.
He's older.
I'm just, like, you know.
He's not the man of your dreams, though.
No, I would say, though, like, if I had to choose, I would choose him.
But it's more so if I don't want to choose no one.
So it's not like I don't want him.
It's just...
Okay, the question is tangible.
But that's not her dream man.
That's what I'm trying to say.
The question was specifically for your dream man.
You declined this dude when he tried to marry you, so he's not your dream man.
He's just fulfilling something that you need right now.
True.
Okay.
So your dream man, what tangible asset would you bring to him?
Two things.
I guess I don't have one then.
Fantastic.
Alright, 450k per year though niggas.
Alright, what do I do?
It's just like attentive to his needs and then also like...
What needs?
To make him lunch and pack and stuff.
But also to be like needed by him.
Like, oh, like I need my oil change or something.
I mean, I can't do it, but if he wants to feel superior, then I'm going to tell him that I can't do it.
What about you?
What tangible thing would you bring to the relationship when you can't say sex or food?
I don't have anything to say.
I would say attentive to his needs.
I'm also highly organizational, which means that Autism!
I'm very good when it comes to administration.
So like in my past relationships, I handled a lot of like appointments, paperwork and stuff like that.
So I'm very good with that.
So you could be like a business assistant.
Like a secretary?
Yeah.
Okay.
So assistant and then needs.
You don't want to be a PA. I used to be one.
No.
What about you?
What tangible thing would you bring to your guy?
Same thing with his needs.
I'll just fill in wherever he lacks that.
Can you explain that?
Specifically?
Let's say the man of my dreams doesn't know how to paint a house.
I know how to paint a house.
What about you?
What tech lesson would you bring to your guy?
It's the man of my dreams.
I'm catering to him.
If he need me to run his errands, I'm running the errands.
Washing dishes before work, I'm washing them dishes.
What if one of the...
The errands he needs is you to get another girl.
Then I have to pick her and don't be touching her for too long.
Listen, I'm not jealous, but I'm territorial.
So it's just like, why would I want to watch that?
For real.
Well, don't watch it.
If I know somebody else is there, then I want to make sure.
So you want to pick her but not watch it.
That makes sense.
Yes.
Fantastic.
Unless she's just there for me and he can watch.
Okay.
What fun is that?
Yeah.
It's not a waste because men actually like that.
They like to watch.
Yeah.
And then fuck you after.
Nigga.
Yeah.
What about you?
What tangible thing would you bring to your guy?
Can't say sex or food.
The first one is really simple.
I would say kids, but then I would also say accountability and push him towards his goals.
Accountability!
That's probably the best answer I've heard in a long time.
That's a white friend.
That's a white girl.
All right.
Okay.
That's an accountability.
Alright.
We got here.
Question for ladies.
What advice would you give to your daughter about men dating, how to keep a man, or how to get the ring?
I don't know.
We can ask and get some interesting answers here.
Okay, ladies.
What advice would you give to your future daughter about keeping and retaining a man and eventually getting married?
We should start here.
I'm single, so I mean...
I would say...
Well first of all men like hate when women get emotional so first of all don't do that and also keep high standards because my daughter deserves to have high standards.
I believe that.
Okay what do you mean by high standards?
Don't date someone that's gonna cheat on you.
I don't think that's okay.
Good luck.
So the two things to boil down to, don't be emotional, don't accept infidelity.
Yes.
Okay.
What about you?
Can you repeat the question, please?
Yeah, I got you.
Stupid!
If you had a daughter, what are two things you would tell her to attract and keep a man to get married?
Okay, I would say the way that you meet that man, you need to stay that same way.
If you meet him while you're fine, you need to stay fine two years later.
You don't want nobody to blow up and be big.
Okay.
What's the second thing?
Okay, Chris.
The second thing...
I ain't got a second thing.
Just look fine.
That's it.
What, girl?
What?
Yeah, cater.
What about you?
Yeah, same thing.
Same thing.
I say the same thing.
Like, you know, keep yourself up visually.
Please be an independent thinker.
Yeah, like, well, I really don't know.
I'm not married and I don't know.
Like, I don't know what I would tell my daughter until I get married and then I can tell her.
Do you like bacon?
I don't like bacon.
Never mind.
What about you?
I think in a relationship it's very important when you keep spaces.
So you would tell your daughter to give the man space?
Yeah.
Everybody needs space.
I need my space.
He needs his space.
Okay, give him space.
What's the second thing you would tell her?
To focus on her own career.
Never stop doing something because of a man.
That's the worst mistake you can make.
That's very interesting.
You can never stop.
I got a bombshell for y'all after this.
Okay, what about you?
What would you tell your daughter?
Get married at 38?
I would tell her to slow down and focus up on herself before she gets into anything.
Define focus on yourself.
Do what you have to do.
Define what that having to do is.
I feel like when some females get into a relationship, it kind of, like, distracts you from certain things.
So it's like, if you feel like doing that, then, you know, focus on you, go to school first, do all these things that you would like to do, and then...
So chase a career and money?
Yeah, that's what she feels like doing, yeah.
So you would tell your daughter, for optimal advice, to find and retain a man, chase a career and money?
No, not only do that.
Well, that's the question.
Take your time.
To take her time finding whatever she's looking for.
Well, we described earlier that a woman's peak years is 18 to 24.
Should she really take her time?
She could take her time from 18 to 24, can't she?
I mean, that's a small window.
That's six years.
It's a window, though.
But you're saying take your time in a small window.
It's a window, though.
This is incredible.
All right, so take her time.
And what's the second thing?
Earn money?
Yeah, just to focus on herself, not to get distracted in relationships.
Alright, what about you?
What would you tell your daughter?
To attract and retain a man and get married.
To hit the gym, stay attractive, and then learn cooking skills and how to bring them up and support them.
Are you doing either of those things?
I don't have a man.
Do you want a man?
Huh?
Do you want a man?
Sometimes.
So what does that mean if you want a man?
I mean, I've been able, I've cooked for men and I've done like things for men, but like men suck.
But men suck nowadays.
Like I've been, I've cooked for them.
I've cleaned for them.
I've like taken them lunche and all that.
But question, who picked those men?
Exactly.
Who picked those men?
I don't know.
Not me.
Subconsciously, but not consciously.
How did they come into your life if you had not picked them?
I was bored.
I don't know.
Okay.
So by definition, you did pick them.
You were just bored.
Yeah.
So whose fault is it?
Mine.
Fantastic.
The accountability pill is hard to swallow for women.
Alright, what about you?
What would you tell your daughter to attract and retain a man?
Alright, so first off, just do whatever makes you happy and be with whoever makes you happy.
So, motivate him, fuck him, make sure you cook for him, clean, what else?
That sounds like a slave.
Be like a slave.
What if doing whatever makes her happy isn't to the benefit of the man though?
At the end of the day, it's whatever makes my baby happy, and if that's not a man, then it's not a man.
But the question is, how would you attract and retain a man?
Alright, so the way you attract and retain a man, like you said, look good, motivate him, cater to him, like his wish is my command.
And that's basically what it is now.
So are you switching your answer now?
What do you mean switching?
You said a bunch of things that contradict each other.
Well, whatever the fuck I said, that's what I said.
Do you remember what you said?
I have short-term memories.
The funny part is, you actually have a daughter yourself, right?
Yes.
So, this is going to fly right now?
Because my thing is, right, this advice you're giving to your daughter right now, is it going to work, you think?
To be honest, my baby is very advanced and she comprehends very well.
So it's like she really doesn't need me to say if something is right or wrong.
She knows.
You're her mom.
You should tell her so she knows.
Of course, but I'm saying like she's not an average child.
My baby knows.
If I say don't do that, she knows like fucking three weeks from now, don't do it.
Mommy said no.
You know what I'm saying?
So it's not like something I have to beat into her.
It's something she would know or see herself and understand.
She learns very fast.
Yeah, she's a quick learner like me.
Like you?
What about you?
What advice, two things you would tell your daughter to find and retain a man for marriage?
Please save us.
I would say, you know, obviously focus on, you know, being able to practice healthy habits, like investing in yourself, you know, working out, staying healthy, furthering your education, you know, doing the things that you want to see in someone too.
Out of curiosity, since you have two bachelor's degrees, do you think men are attracted to a woman's education?
I mean, yes, but I also believe that just because you have a degree doesn't mean that you're successful.
Do you think men are attracted to success then?
Yeah.
They're threatened.
They're threatened by it?
Yes, I agree with that.
If you make way more than him, it will be more issues or more problems in their relationship rather than if he's the breadwinner Let me ask you a question.
Let's say you were with a guy who's extremely handsome, but he has more designer than you and he takes longer to get dressed than you.
What would your thoughts be?
Get another nigga.
Okay, tell me why you would get another nigga.
Because you act more girly than me.
Fantastic.
Now let's switch it up.
That's exactly how men feel about women that make a lot of money.
You're acting more manly than me.
Exactly.
That's what I said.
But it's not about it being threatening.
Because you're not threatened by his handsomeness.
You're just annoyed by it, right?
Same thing with men.
A girl that makes a lot of money comes with habits that makes her annoying.
Just like a man that takes a long time to get dressed.
So why is it?
Hold on, stop.
Why is it that when I flip the script and I said, what are your thoughts on a guy that takes forever to get dressed?
You didn't hesitate.
No, I'm gonna get another guy.
But if a guy's with a girl that makes a lot of money or she's masculine or whatever, y'all are like, oh, he's threatened or insecure.
No, you're just annoying.
How about that?
Just like they can do that takes forever to get dressed.
Listen, probably he like what he got and I don't like that.
Like, I'm sorry.
But how are we annoying?
Because he decides to not make more.
Exactly.
If he's a man, he should go out there.
If he's too girly, that's a problem.
You guys are missing the point.
You guys are forgetting that to make a lot of money, it comes with a certain characteristic.
Okay?
People that are high earners tend to be less agreeable.
They tend to be combative.
They tend to be competitive.
They tend to work really hard, etc.
These are traits that men don't care about.
So it's not that you're a high earner.
It's that you're a high earner and that comes with bad and annoying habits that aren't attractive to men.
Just like a handsome man Right?
That takes forever to get dressed.
It wears designer.
Cool to a degree, but it's annoying because now he takes longer to get dressed than you.
He's more feminine than you a lot of times.
He's a little prissy and it's annoying to you.
Same thing with us, with a girl that makes money.
She comes with annoying ass habits just like the pretty boy that comes with annoying ass habits.
I don't think it's annoying.
I think it's us.
Regardless of how you feel about it, it's unattractive, correct?
Same bottom line.
Same thing.
Is he trying to be controlling?
I mean, as long as he looks fine, I don't think it's unattractive.
I just think it's intimidating for most men.
Intimidating?
How?
Because it's a girl with two...
You have two VAs, right?
I have two bachelors.
Two bachelors, yeah.
That would be intimidating to any guy.
Okay, I'm going to be honest with you.
I don't agree with that.
You know what I see when I hear two degrees?
A turn-on.
You wasted a bunch of time.
Intimidating in a nice way.
To be honest with you, we don't care if you have a degree or not.
We really don't care.
It's more like who you are as a person, how you look, that matters to us more than anything else.
Really?
For example, you have a degree, right?
How does it help me?
It doesn't.
Exactly.
Not at all.
So why do I even care?
So if you were to take us out with your friends, like us having no degree and just us talking like dumb as hell, you wouldn't care.
Just as long as we're there and we're attractive.
I don't have degrees.
So are you dumb?
No.
I'm saying, if we had, like, nothing to say to your friends, if we had nothing to say to your friends, like, what would you think about that?
By your logic, not me, everyone who doesn't have a degree is dumb.
However, I'm just saying that a person has a degree, great, but as a guy, I don't need you to...
It's more like, if I take my friends, right, we're talking, we're having a conversation, You have other points you want to talk about.
It doesn't mean you have to have a degree.
So it's like, it's not important.
So we can still add value with that.
Yeah, of course.
First of all, don't talk to my friends.
I mean, because a lot of girls say that men are intimidated by it.
No, it's not that we're intimidated by it.
Like, Let me ask you a question.
Let's say you went out on a date with a guy and he told you, hey, I got this extensive Louis Vuitton wallet collection and I got a bunch of Jordans.
What would your thoughts be?
I don't care.
Fantastic.
That's not what I care about.
Good.
That's how men think when you talk about your career and your money.
Okay.
Just like you don't care, we don't care.
Because my Louis Vuitton wallets and Jordans don't benefit you, right?
Right.
Okay, your career and your money doesn't benefit me.
Right.
So men don't give a shit just like you don't.
Yeah.
But the thing is, is that women dress up.
Men, women that have careers is, oh, it's intimidating.
Men are scared.
No, it's just that we don't give a shit.
Okay.
Okay.
This is why a girl that wears a McDonald's, that attractive, young, feminine, etc., she's going to beat out the girl that's 28 years old with a law degree for finding the guy that's a millionaire that's attractive because especially men that have status of money, we care even less about a girl that has a degree in money because we know our money is our money, your money is your money.
Yep.
But if you met a girl that's in, let's say, her prime, like you say, she's like the hottest girl you've ever seen.
You go out with her, she makes no conversation, she has no career, what would you do then?
But she's the most beautiful girl you've ever seen.
You're thinking that a career is indicative of someone being able to be intelligent or be a conversationalist.
Now, it could work either way.
There's people that have degrees that are downright stupid as hell, right?
I've dated them.
Doctors, lawyers, etc.
They have nothing to talk about besides their career and their education.
But then there's other people that might not have a degree.
I have a degree myself.
I went to a good school in Boston.
I went to Northeastern.
And then there's people that don't have a degree that are, you know, travel the world.
They've been around.
They've done things, etc.
They're cool to talk to.
So just a degree doesn't mean that having a degree doesn't mean you're smart or whatever.
It just increases the likelihood.
But there's plenty of people that have degrees that are fucking dumb.
Yeah.
So my thing is, I'm just saying a woman's education and income isn't really that important to a majority of men.
That's just the reality.
It's not that men are intimidated or they're scared or whatever it may be.
It's just that women that tend to be educated and higher earning tend to be less attractive because they have certain masculine traits.
Just like a guy that's a pretty boy that's metrosexual, he'll be attractive to a degree, but once you start dealing with him taking forever to get dressed, him getting manicures all the time, him taking more care about his appearance than you do, it's gonna start to get annoying after a while, won't it?
That's how men feel about women that have careers.
Same thing.
It doesn't benefit us.
Just like me getting a manicure doesn't benefit you.
Right.
So two things.
Oh, she said invest in her health and education.
And that's why I asked that question about education.
What about you?
For me, I would tell my daughter to just always be herself, to remain true to herself, remember where she came from, and also to just maintain her overall health, beauty, mental, financial, emotional.
So remember where she came from and maintain her health.
Wait, so just be yourself, right?
Yeah, be yourself.
be a show.
What if she's a hoe?
That's your hoe.
Go off.
I wouldn't raise my shot to be like that.
But that's the lifestyle she chooses.
Then that's the lifestyle she chooses.
Do you think being a hoe will find her a man?
No, I don't think so.
So why would you tell her, give her that advice of just be yourself?
Well, I know what I mean when I say be yourself.
I mean personality-wise.
But she might not.
She had a mind reader.
How about if she wants a man long-term, become the woman at the man that she wants?
Can you say that one more time?
So you said be yourself, right?
Yes.
I'm just saying if she really wants a man to stay there with her and be long term, how about she become the woman that the man actually wants?
Yes.
And by default, what does a man want?
Do you know?
I wouldn't know.
That's a problem.
Because you can't tell her daughter what a man wants.
Well, she's still, I mean, I would tell her, do yourself for God because if a man wants her, he will want her for how she is.
Yeah, but...
- That's right. - That's right. - That's right. - Nice. - Like what's my name?
Let me go. - All right, fantastic.
What would you tell your daughter to attract and retain a man for marriage?
You're all doomed.
First, I would tell her to preserve her value by not being permissuous and also hold the integrity of her femininity.
That's like a good foundation, I think, to start off with.
Okay.
Your man watches the show, huh?
Sorry?
Did your man watch the show?
He started watching it because of me, actually.
Oh, wow.
Oh, shit.
W, girlfriend.
Yeah.
Alright, okay.
What about you?
First off, love yourself because I think if you don't love yourself, it's extremely unfair to, you know, make a man love you.
It's really hard on him.
It's hard on anyone to love you and do all the loving for you if you can't love yourself.
Quick question for you.
Do you think modern women love themselves enough?
Too much.
I'm sorry, what kind of women?
Modern women.
Women nowadays.
Gen Z. I think they're promoted and media promotes them to love themselves, but media can only do so much if you're not constantly consuming it.
If you're not on your phone that much, if you're not on social media that much, you're not constantly seeing those things.
Yeah, but the majority of Gen Z women are.
Like, women in your age group are a perfect example.
You guys grew up with iPhones and iPads.
Again, but they can only do so much.
It's your choice.
No matter how much you consume it, how much you want to listen to it.
No, of course, but I would argue that modern-day women love themselves too much.
I would argue it's to the point of narcissism now.
I think it's more conceited versus love.
It's the same exact thing.
But they don't really love themselves.
Like, they're cocky and stuff.
You gotta talk into the mic.
They're more cocky, but they don't really care about themselves.
Like, it's a front more than it is, like, internal that they actually feel like they care about themselves.
You think so?
Is that how you feel?
Huh?
No.
I'm cool.
I would argue most women love themselves a little too much and they're narcissistic.
Yeah.
Which is why a lot of y'all believe in signs and other hobo jobo that doesn't make sense.
And you're never accountable.
Yeah.
Sorry, continue on.
So you think she should love herself, okay?
What else?
Yeah, love yourself.
And also, if you have a man, even if it's just a boyfriend, if you know something pisses him off, even if it's just a little thing, just don't do it if you're fully aware of it.
It's not cute.
If you think it's cute to just do the little thing that you know pisses him off, it's not.
It's a turn off.
So don't be annoying.
Don't be annoying.
If you know you're annoying, don't be annoying.
Okay.
I think a big reason why girls purposely act annoying and are narcissistic in general is because They know most men aren't going to leave anyway.
Facts.
Yeah.
A lot of girls get away with murder and do stupid shit because they know their man doesn't have the value to replace them.
So, yeah.
Anyway, let me ask this question real fast.
You got a bombshell, right?
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, I kind of said it before, but ladies, men don't care about your careers or your income.
And we actually have brought plenty of women on the show, actually.
We actually had a Russian girl come on, attractive woman, 33 years old.
And she was saying if she could do it all over again and go back in time, right?
What?
She was saying that she wished she had searched and taken a man seriously more and tried to get married and have a family versus chasing her career, etc.
And she lived the New York lifestyle in the city, had a business career, all that stuff.
And now 33 years old, she's like, damn, I wish I went ahead and pursued a family and children when I was younger.
See, the problem is you work on a career, right?
You work on yourself.
That's great.
That's awesome.
You're independent.
Good job.
Problem is when you get older, you're by yourself.
You're like, damn, who do I share this with?
I have no kids, no real family.
It's just me.
That right there is depressing because now it's just you and money.
And not only that, You've directly ostracized yourself from the very man that you want.
You make $300,000 a year.
You're a boss, bitch.
You got money.
You got a business, all this other stuff.
Well, guess what?
Now you want a man that makes $300,000 per year.
Well, we know that this guy is less than 1% of the population.
So that guy is okay with dating an 18-year-old, a 19-year-old, a 20-year-old that works at Burger King.
Meanwhile, you own the Burger King branch.
So he'll go ahead and he'll date one of the receptionists over you.
Why?
Because the things that men are attracted to have nothing to do with income or stability.
You guys look for security.
We don't.
But girls falsely believe, I'm going to chase a career, chase a bag, make money, it's going to make me more attractive.
It actually hurts you.
When men make money, doors open.
When women make money, doors close.
Because your ability to find a guy that you want goes down as you go up the social hierarchy.
But our ability to find a woman goes up as we go up the social hierarchy.
We're not the same.
You want your equivalent or better?
Well, gladly they are equivalent or below.
So, knowing this, wouldn't it make sense to find a guy when you're at your prime and prioritize that over a career because you can always change the career after the fact?
Yes.
So, that's all I'm saying, man.
But here's the thing.
Mainstream media will never tell you this.
They'll lie to you and say, no, you guys can have it all.
Freeze your eggs.
Make your money now.
Your Prince Charming will be out there.
I'll tell you guys right now, multi-millionaire, multi-millionaire, all our friends are multi-millionaires.
Yo, none of them want old chicks.
Yeah.
Period.
None of them.
We all want girls in their 20s, bro.
They're not going to admit this to y'all, of course, but the reality is when men have power, money, and status, they want the best girls that they can get, and those women tend to be between 18 to 24.
They're the ones on the yachts.
You guys didn't say your relationship status.
And I would like to know now.
Multiple girls.
That's just how it goes.
How about you, Fresh?
He's the same way.
He looks worse.
You can't see me.
I'm too black.
No, but as a man of God, you know, I tend to always be able to just see where people really are.
And right now, you know, I'm just trying to figure out what life really is about.
Oh, like, amen.
Exactly.
That's what I'm saying.
No, no, no.
I feel you.
And I was kind of laughing because you guys said that you want a guy that makes a lot of money, but you expect him to be faithful to you.
And that's just not going to happen.
You're either going to be honest and say, I'm going to have other chicks, or they're going to lie to you and sell a dream and say, you're the only one, but fuck other girls anyway.
So you want a successful guy, you got to deal with successful guy problems, and he's going to have other chicks.
Anyway, what?
We're doomed, bro.
All right.
So yeah, y'all can do whatever you want with that information.
They're probably going to forget it and go to and still pursue focus on education.
That's fine.
Money.
That's fine.
So should I drop out?
Okay, I'm not saying that.
Listen, keep going to school, pursue your education, make your money, but you need to prioritize a man while doing that, is what I'm saying.
Okay, but what if it's like, you know, what if it's too hard?
I'd be tired, like...
You'd be tired or what?
Yeah, you better.
Okay, well, let me ask you a question then.
You said you'll be tired.
Do you think you're going to be more tired at 34 or right now at 24 to find that man?
I mean, you're right.
I'm not...
Alright, whatever.
So, you have more energy now.
It's only going to get harder.
I mean, you're right.
There's a new girl turning 18 every day, bro.
I'm dying.
Here's the thing.
Nobody tells women this.
Nobody tells you guys that your value is perishable.
We lie to women and tell them, nah, you can go ahead and chase a career and make money, be 35 years old and still pull a multi-millionaire that's successful 6'3".
And it's not fucking happening.
He's only going to have sex with you.
He's never going to commit to you.
Can I say something?
Go ahead.
I've had friends tell me they've dumped girls just because, oh, she stayed at home and she did nothing.
That's also unattractive to a guy.
You can't have a girl stay home and do nothing.
I love that you went to the extreme.
She has to be pursuing something on her own.
No, it's not that she has to pursue something.
This is the reason why they really got rid of her.
She was useless.
Yeah.
And this is the thing about very beautiful women that I'll tell you guys the dark truth about them.
They're useless 99% of the time because it never had to be useful.
They want to stay at home, but they don't want to do anything in the home.
So a guy will be okay with providing for a woman, but she's got to make his life better, easier, etc.
If I'm paying all the bills, St.
Kerry, whatever, and you don't even cook, you know, clean, we got maid service, whatever, and you're just there existing.
Well, yeah, he's going to get bored because at some point, beauty can only take you so far and sexy can only take you so far.
The reason why they probably got rid of them is because those girls are useless.
Yeah.
And also, notice, right?
She has a man, still, up until this day.
She said what she does.
Coffee in the morning, food for lunch, dinner, and as well, she probably does stuff...
Clean the home, take care of the pets.
She's adding value, and you know what?
She's irreplaceable now.
She's a part of his life where he doesn't want to miss.
Can you believe it?
And she's at home.
And she's attentive to her needs.
It really comes down to, right?
Anytime I say this, girls always go to the extreme.
Well, do you want me to just be stupid and sit at home, blah, blah, blah?
I'm not saying that, but I'm saying add value to the man.
Most girls don't add value.
Most girls come in and extract value and they don't add value back.
Most women are a liability, if I'm going to be honest.
So, and the reason why is because men really don't tell them, yo, you got to contribute.
You got to do something.
You don't think I could just be pretty and stay here and it's going to work.
And that works for a minor time.
But at some point, the guy's going to be like, what the fuck?
Like, it's annoying.
Ladies, if you really want a man to take you serious and be with you long term, find out what he wants and do that.
Yeah, it's like a job.
I feel like it's like a job.
If you don't know what he wants, why is he going to stay with you?
Just easy.
But most girls don't want to change because you guys think you're special.
Facts.
Take me as I am and all this other fuck shit.
It's like, no, bro, that's not how the world works.
I love myself.
They're queens, though.
You want me to go to the gym, make money, be successful, be dominant, assertive.
All these things that I had to learn.
Come home, take care of you.
You don't want to be a lady?
Fuck out of here, bro!
No, I'm going to be a strong, independent woman!
Okay, you're going to be independent for real.
Get out of here.
Alright, question for ladies.
Do you regret who you lost your virginity with, yes or no, and why?
Ooh, that's a good one.
Alright, we can start right here with Miss UM. Y'all start over there.
We're both Miss UM. Do you regret who you lost your virginity to, yes or no, and why?
Um, I'm still a virgin.
Kudos!
Stop the cat!
Stop the cat!
Why are you capping?
I promise I'm not.
She's 18!
I'm 18!
That would be a shit!
You am, bruh!
You am?
Okay, okay, okay.
Alright, um, I'm curious.
You am not a virgin, okay.
I'm curious though.
Like, did he get offers though?
I mean, yeah, I definitely have like opportunities, but...
You just said no?
Yeah.
Are you waiting for marriage?
Not necessarily.
I'm just waiting for the right person and commitment.
Smart.
Alright, what about you?
Hell yes.
Okay, so you regret the person you asked to?
I regret him a thousand percent.
Why?
But you're a queen!
Listen, listen, listen.
You're a queen!
Listen, this was high school.
He was my only boyfriend during the whole time of high school.
What it was, junior and my senior year.
I ended up finding out that he was cheating on me like four months in.
And I'm just like...
Yeah, of course.
No way.
Yes!
So you regret it because he was cheating on you?
I regret it because I didn't know no better.
And I put up with certain shit because I like them.
Okay.
Yeah.
All right.
But you're a queen!
Wait, fresh.
Is that a tattoo of Naruto?
Say that again?
A tattoo of Naruto?
Oh, it's a she-double.
Her name is Samantha Blue.
Oh, okay.
I had her since high school.
Alright, what about you?
Do you regret the person you lost your virginity, yes or no, and why?
Yeah, I regret it.
Why?
But I could have waited.
Because I felt like I was just very impressionable at the time.
So it had nothing to do with him.
It had to do with you could have waited.
Yeah, just being young and like social media, sex, sex, sex.
And I'm like, oh, what's sex like?
And I'm like, oh, okay.
What about you?
It's the yes, but it's a no.
A no, I mean, I don't regret it because now we have a good friendship.
And yes, I do regret it because he turned out to like the opposite sex.
I mean, the same sex.
Oh, are you trying to be gay?
Oh.
And...
Wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on.
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
So the niggas smashed you during games.
And now I finally understand why they went wrong.
Because he's like guys.
Nah, you made him gay.
What about you?
You regret the guy that you lost in Virginia to, yes or no, and why?
No, I don't regret it.
Okay.
Why do you not regret it?
He was a nice guy.
I mean, he's like a little stalker now.
But...
Why aren't y'all together then?
It just didn't really work out when I was young at the time.
It was like something I wanted to experiment with and I did.
Okay.
So no, because he's a nice guy.
But if he's a nice guy, well, women love nice guys, right?
Mm-hmm.
He's too nice.
He was actually too nice.
Question for you.
What race was he?
He was Spanish, and I actually never dated a Spanish guy after that.
Oh lord.
He should be having emotional damage.
What else is it?
EMOTIONAL DAMAGE! Besides him being a pussy, what else is another reason why you didn't want to pursue anything with him?
He was short.
Alright, hold on.
Why don't you let him smash if he was short and too nice?
I mean, I liked him at the time.
I was young.
I was in high school.
It was like, you know, we was vibing.
But when you got older, he was like, fuck this shit.
Yeah.
Okay.
Would it be fair to say that you started to, as you got older, you started to get offers from higher status and better men, which is why you said, you know, fuck this guy can do better?
Yes.
Guys, book coming out soon.
Why Women Deserve Less.
I'm telling you how to do it.
uh and guys stay tuned until the end of the show i'm going to show you guys the book cover that i got it's actually it's done it's going to be released on valentine's day because well of course women deserve less on valentine's day of course so free copies for all of us free copies But no, no, no.
I'm playing around.
Well, the book is real.
The reason why I say that is because I talk about this in a book, how social media, dating apps, and just a plethora of options that women have has made it where the average nice guy can no longer compete.
And this guy that you lost your virginity to, though you shared a very intimate moment with him, and he's nice, and he's a good guy, whatever.
Better offices came along thanks to the internet, Instagram, etc.
So average guys are kind of fucked in the dating game nowadays.
Alright, what about you?
No, I don't regret it.
Okay, why not?
Because he taught me things that I wouldn't have learned on my own.
What did he teach you?
Bed over, do it this way.
How to like suck, slurp, sloppy, all that stuff.
I didn't know that right away.
Oh, you drew this shit?
Spit on it, all that.
So he taught you how to be a 304.
Fantastic.
So you don't regret it because...
So why aren't you with him now then?
I mean, we're friends.
We're cool.
Translation, y'all still have sex.
No, no.
He has a girlfriend.
We don't.
Stop the cat.
On the side.
But if he said, yeah, let's do a threesome, me and my girl, you would do it.
No, he's asked.
Stop the cat.
Stop the cat.
Alright.
So, would you be with him now if you didn't have a girlfriend?
No.
It's done.
Huh?
It's done?
Yeah, it's done.
Who broke up with who?
I left him.
Why'd you leave him?
Because I was attracted to somebody we worked with.
What about you?
A poor guy.
Do you regret the guy you lost your virginity to?
And if so or not, why?
First off, let me say shout out to Eric.
That's my ex.
I would say though, I didn't regret it because I still love him till today.
Like my best friend.
Shit, we've been together for like eight years.
If he proposed to you, would you marry him?
No, don't lie.
Why not?
Because he ain't shit.
I feel like she want him.
Listen, when love is there, love is there.
Even if it's dumb love.
She love him, huh?
So, you don't regret having sex with him because you love him?
I mean, yeah, of course.
And he turned me into a prank.
He really got my OnlyFans.
Is he your baby daddy?
Nah.
I had a baby on him.
Damn.
Wait, what?
You look, hold on.
So, let me get this straight.
You had a man that you loved.
So you had a man that you loved, right?
And you cheated on him and had a baby on him.
No, he left me.
He abandoned me.
And then I got my baby daddy.
Hold on.
I'm trying to understand.
Tell me if I'm right here when I summarize.
So you got pregnant by a guy.
He left you.
No, no, no, no.
I was with my ex.
My ex stopped talking to me for almost a year.
I met my baby daddy or whatever.
Your ex is heir, correct?
Correct.
Yeah.
I got my BD. And then by the time we broke up and me and Eric got back together, I found out I was four months pregnant.
Okay.
And then me and my BD got back together.
Okay.
And then I broke up with him.
Okay.
So you were flip-flopping between Eric and baby daddy.
Not really flip-flopping.
You quite literally described the flip-flop.
No.
They wouldn't leave me alone.
They wouldn't leave.
I mean, the why is irrelevant.
You still flip-flop.
A typical hood love story.
Oh my goodness.
He was my rebound.
My baby daddy is my rebound.
So why keep the baby?
I was four months pregnant when I found out.
We support lives.
Okay, that's fine.
Rebounds.
Okay.
So, Eric, I guess...
Okay.
So, why didn't it ever work out with Eric, then?
Basically, like...
Do not.
Do not.
We're both growing on our like on the growing apart.
Yeah, wait you're growing Just we're both growing right now like mean I It's like if life bring us back together, we're gonna get back together.
Shit, I'm going to the gym, so...
And then where did the sugar daddy fit in all this?
Basically, like...
How did you meet him?
Okay.
Okay.
I basically met him at the Avatar mall.
Avatar mall?
Yeah.
Say that.
For those that are wondering, hold on, because we got a lot of people watching right now.
We got 12k on YouTube and I think probably another 10 or so.
So we got like 20,000 plus watching.
Aventura, guys, is a very affluent mall in Aventura, Florida.
A lot of money out there, if y'all know what I'm saying.
So she knew what she was doing.
Yeah, she knew what she was doing.
But basically, I was just shopping one day, randomly, and he seen me.
We was talking.
I was nice.
Wait, he seen you?
Listen, baby, just because I'm small don't mean I ain't pressure, okay?
What I was about to say was he seen me, we liked each other, and then we just hanged out.
He a white dude?
Maybe.
Yeah, okay.
Fantastic.
Alright, so you lost your virginity and you love him.
That's why I guess you don't regret having- Well, he was actually my first and my high school sweetheart, so...
Yeah, so the question was who you lose your virginity to and do you regret him?
Okay.
And you don't in this case.
Alright, what about you, Miss Two Degrees?
No, I don't regret it.
Okay.
Why don't you regret it?
I feel like at the time, it was the right person.
I was happy that I waited after high school, too.
If he was the right person, why is he not around now?
I said at the time, he was.
What made him fall out with time?
Mr.
Right for now.
Well, I ended up moving away too.
And again, I just felt like we just outgrew each other too.
Okay, let's decode the womanese because women are saying a bunch of bullshit.
The reality is you moved to another city.
You moved to Atlanta, correct?
Yes.
A major city.
Would it be fair to say that you met higher status and better men than your counterpart, which made you say, okay, I'm leaving this guy.
Yeah.
Okay.
Did you initiate the breakup?
I did.
Fantastic.
Wow.
There you go, niggas.
Why women deserve less coming very soon.
Valentine's Day.
I don't think...
See, here's the thing.
I don't think enough guys understand this that a lot of...
Like, when women have options, it changes their view of the world.
Yeah.
And even if you're good enough, they're going to say, nah, I can do better.
And they're going to leave you if they find...
They move to another city, internet, dating apps, etc.
What did your guy...
What does he do that you left?
Like, he didn't have a job.
He didn't finish college.
Okay, he didn't finish college.
Did he find a successful career?
Start something up?
Yeah, I mean, just average, honestly.
Okay.
And then you go to Atlanta with men that aren't average and you kind of broaden your horizons.
You're working in a hospital with doctors, higher earners.
BBC! Alright, fair enough.
What about you?
Do you regret the person you lost in Virginia to, yes or no, and why?
No, I don't regret it because at the time I felt safe and it was comfortable.
So no, I don't regret it.
Okay, so if you felt safe and comfortable, why are you not with him?
We're not compatible.
Okay, translate that for us, please.
What made you not compatible?
Two separate pages.
Kind of immature.
And...
Translation.
He's not producing enough, doesn't have ambition, isn't attractive enough for me.
I don't see a future with him.
Is that what it is?
Yes, that's it.
See, this is why this podcast is so important because, ladies, you guys say a bunch of bullshit.
You try to dress it up in a certain way.
You don't want to say the cold, hard truth.
He wasn't ambitious.
I didn't see a future with him.
He's a broke boy.
He's a bum.
He doesn't go to the gym.
He's not working on himself.
I want a better man.
You guys have to dress it up with, we grew apart, or he just was immature, blah, blah, blah.
All that is to me, translate the womanese, not ambitious enough for my future, which is what I want.
It was mutual.
Fantastic.
Also, let me ask you a question.
Is the reason why you left him is because you felt like you could do better?
Yes.
Fair enough.
What about you?
I definitely regret it.
Because it happened and then he dumped me.
So I just, it was a waste.
Did he turn gay as well?
No.
He just had more experience.
I mean, we both lost our virginity together, so I think I regret it because I'm not with that person anymore.
So I did that for me for nothing, basically.
Okay.
Pumped and dumped.
Goddamn.
What about you?
I don't regret it at all.
I was pretty young.
I was 15, almost 16 when I lost my virginity.
Don't worry, so is he.
Don't worry.
But, like, some notion in my 15, almost 16-year-old head was, like, you need to lose it now.
You need to get it over with so that when the right person comes along, you don't feel afraid and you feel ready.
I also thought that right person would come along when I was 16.
That did not happen, though.
Okay.
So why didn't it work out with that guy?
Like we weren't like close to begin with.
He wasn't a complete stranger.
We just had like mutual friends.
So it was just like not something either of us pursued.
Okay, so it's just like a transaction.
You're cool.
I'm cool.
We're in the same circle.
Hey, you know what?
I heard this is cool to do.
Let's do it.
Alright, so you had no interest in him.
You just did it kind of to more experiment and you don't regret it because you wanted to learn.
Yes.
Alright.
Fair enough.
Alright.
The value y'all females give to broke dudes and bums is the same value us men give to overweight girls and baby mamas.
Is that fair?
Why or why not?
Okay.
Like double standards.
That's how the world works.
Double standards is how the world works.
Yeah.
Question for the ladies real fast.
I was going to ask this earlier.
I don't go around the table.
Do you think you deserve or you have to work for the man of your dreams?
We'll start here and then work our way.
No, I think you should have to work.
I think any relationship, friend, boyfriend, husband...
What does a woman have to do?
Put in the effort to make it work.
Just literally put in the effort, whatever that effort may be, which could differ depending on the relationship.
Who has to put in more effort, her or the guy?
It depends on how comfortable with themselves they are.
Because as I said before, you have to love yourself first.
So if you're trying to love yourself and love that person of your dreams, that might be more effort.
Okay.
Do you think a woman should have to work for the man of her dreams or she deserves it?
She should work for it, for sure.
Who has to put in more work?
Who or the guy?
Her.
I look at it as a job.
Depending on the job you're applying for, different qualifications for that job.
So I think the woman should work for it.
Okay.
What about you?
Do you think a woman deserves a man of her dreams or she has to work for it?
I agree with working for it because I feel like now a lot of girls feel entitled that they should just have everything handed to them.
Interesting.
Who has to work more in the relationship, her or the man?
Realistically, the woman.
Okay.
What about you?
Does a woman deserve the man of her dreams or does she have to work for it in your opinion?
I believe she has to work for it.
Explain the work.
You know, like the other ladies were saying.
Hold on!
Are you all going to say the same thing?
Are you all going to say the same thing?
Yeah, pretty much.
No, we're not.
I know you won't.
Damn!
Hive mind, bro!
Yeah, this proves even more.
This podcast proves so many of our theories correct every time.
Alright, so you said she has to work for her and you think the girl has to work more?
Yeah.
Do you work for any of the guys that you've had?
Yeah.
Where are they at then?
What about you?
Do you think a woman deserves a man of her dreams or she has to work for it?
Both, to be honest.
That makes zero sense.
Like, basically, like, you have to show me you deserve me, but then again, I have to show you that I deserve you.
So it's like, it's a mixture.
You think so?
Yeah.
Okay.
What's more common?
A man that makes $450,000 per year and is attractive and has status or a woman that's young and beautiful?
Both is common.
Really?
Well, no, no.
I take that back.
I forgot about the niggas in Palm Beach.
So wouldn't it be fair to say that if there's less of the men that the woman has to work since he's more rare?
Yes, I would say yes.
So how can it be both the same?
Well, I was thinking more logically of what...
Actually, you were thinking very illogically.
You're right.
But I was thinking more of me personally, not like women, so...
Yeah, we're speaking in generalities here, though.
Well, yeah, in general, you're right.
But me personally, I feel like it's both.
Like, I don't know.
Fantastic.
What about you?
Do you think women deserve the man of their dreams, or does it work for it?
Deserve.
Okay, tell me why.
Because we can cook and clean.
We can provide for them.
We can hold them accountable.
We can give them kids.
We can give them things that they can't give themselves.
But how many other women can do that though?
A few.
Some ladies can't have kids.
Some ladies can't cook.
Some ladies can't do certain things as well.
But a majority can though.
Okay.
But they're not me.
Well, we're not talking about you.
We're speaking.
The question was specifically phrased.
In general, do women deserve the man of their dreams or should they work for you?
I think we deserve them.
You think they deserve them?
Okay.
On things that cooking, cleaning, etc., which all can be outsourced, by the way.
You can hire a maid.
You can hire someone to come clean your house.
You can get a meal prep service.
I can hire a plumber.
I can hire a mechanic.
But you can't hire a relationship.
You can't hire love, though.
You can't hire love, though.
To an extent.
We can't fake it till we make it.
The reality is that women derive intense pleasure from being around people and being social creatures.
Everything that a man wants from a woman can be outsourced, right?
You can get a prostitute, you can get a maid, you can get someone to cook your food, etc.
But realistically speaking, what women want is security and provisioning from a man that they love, admire, and respect.
You can't outsource that.
Yeah.
So women need men despite the fact that they don't want to admit it.
I have my brothers.
They can kill bugs for me.
They can...
Once your brothers have women, they're no longer going to be there.
They have women, and they'll still be there for me.
They've been there for me.
But they're not going to be able to provide you the security and the provisioning to the same extent as a man will.
At all times.
And if they provide you children, well, that would be strange.
Not the incest.
Oh, Lord.
Okay, I still think you deserve, though.
You were not able to back up your point, but cool.
What about you?
Deserve or earn?
I think we should...
We belong together.
She wants to say deserve.
Go ahead, deserve.
No, we don't.
I think we definitely need to work for it.
Really?
Yes.
Okay.
And it's a lot of work and it's kind of like a job that you're applying for.
Oh.
Sounds familiar.
Yeah.
So, who has to work more, the woman or the man?
The man.
Okay.
Tell me why.
Because he needs to provide more.
I feel like when a woman provides or does the thing that a man needs, it's just like...
No, I mean in the regards of the relationship.
Who needs to work more to keep the other?
A female.
You think the female?
Yes.
Why?
Because men are so like easily distracted, kind of.
So there's always another female that can take your place and do your job.
So you have to make sure that you're the best at it.
Okay.
So are you trying to infer that women aren't special?
No, I'm not, but there is competition.
Which means you're not special.
You can lose your spot via competition.
At any point in time.
Not me, but...
Oh my god, this is incredible.
Wait, are you single?
I am.
Alright, what about you?
Do women deserve the man of their dreams or should they work for it?
I think we should work for it.
Okay.
Who has to put in more work, the girl or the guy, to maintain the relationship?
The girl.
Why?
Because of what she said.
We have to put in a lot of work just to keep them around.
Okay.
Are you going to work harder to keep your guy now?
Yeah, 100%.
What if he told you, I want you to have OnlyFans?
Would you get off?
No.
He understands that.
But I wouldn't.
I guess not everything.
What about you?
Do you think women deserve the man of their dreams or do they have to earn it?
I believe we earn it.
Okay, who has to work harder to keep the relationship together?
The woman realistically.
Why?
Because, like, men, they're just easily swayed.
Like, they could just choose whatever.
They could wake up one day and be like, I want this bed.
They could wake up one day and be like, I really don't need you.
But women, we just gotta, like, we have, like, this notion, like, oh, we gotta do this to make sure he's at bay.
Y'all change your opinions, but I guarantee you, if I asked you guys before the show, you guys would have all said that we deserve the man of our dreams.
No, because, I mean, I'm in a relationship.
But the queen still works under the king type shit?
Yeah, but the king has to appoint you.
She's the only one that said that.
Or actually, no, she's the only one that said that.
So all of y'all were all saying, I'm a queen.
like what well you asked you asked we asked we were hoping you guys were going to go ahead and take some critical thinking into account but of course the female rhetoric of i'm special and i'm a queen anyway kicked in and I'm a queen!
I'm a queen, but I don't expect you to think I'm a queen.
I'm not going to expect you to think I'm a queen and treat me like a queen.
Do you think I'm a queen?
No.
Okay, so why would I expect you to think I'm a queen?
I'd argue most women are not queens.
So that's what I'm saying.
I'm not gonna expect you to think I'm a queen, but I can think I'm a queen. - I think you're a wrestler.
- What the fuck, bro? - I think you're a wrestler.
- What the fuck, bro?
- No, man.
- What the fuck, bro?
- What the fuck, bro?
- Don't stick up, bro. - All right, that's hilarious.
- But no. - Chappie Carter, Mark Henry the whole night?
Y'all think he's our fucking dickheads, bro.
- Nah, she a black queen, man, relax.
- Yeah, man.
- There you go, bro. - She a black queen. - What about you?
Do women deserve the man of their dreams or do they have to earn it?
I say earn it because as time goes, you learn a person.
No, you actually learn a person.
Like you learn what they like, what they don't like, what aggravates them.
Who's got to work hard in their relationship?
The man or the woman?
I would say the man at first, but then like, you know, the woman got to put in some type of work.
What about you?
I would say that women have to work for the man of their dreams.
And I'm not saying that they should have to chase them.
I think that takes women out of their feminine energy.
But they should reciprocate and be thankful and show their appreciation.
Let me ask you a question.
Do you think most women reciprocate and or show appreciation to men even if they like them?
No.
What about you?
I do.
We don't care about you.
Women in general.
Maybe.
Fantastic.
What about you?
Do you think women in general reciprocate and or show appreciation to men even if they like them?
Yes.
I'm just based off of my experience of women in general.
My general.
They do?
Yes.
The women I met, yes.
They actually show effort and do things for their guys?
Yeah.
The women I've been around cater to their men and do the effort and all that stuff.
Interesting.
What about you?
Do you think women show appreciation to and reciprocate men in general?
No, yeah.
I mean, it's kind of, I mean, some woman.
Not all women.
So most you would say no?
Yeah.
Alright, what about you?
Blowjobs don't count.
No.
No?
No.
Have you seen it before where a girl liked a guy and she tried to play some games or play hard to get and then the guy ended up leaving her anyway?
No.
Oh, he stayed.
Even though she was not reciprocating or showing appreciation.
They cheat instead and stay.
Okay.
So they put her in a sex-only category?
Pretty much.
Alright.
So who takes the L there?
They both do.
They're wasting each other's time.
Well, if the man is looking for sex and wants sexual gratification, he has other women, who's actually taking L? Her.
Fair enough.
What about you?
Do you think women reciprocate and show appreciation to men in general?
Yeah.
Okay.
How so?
I like cooking, cleaning, like being there for them.
Do you cook and clean for your guy?
Yeah.
You do?
Yeah.
Where's he at then?
At home in Arizona.
About an hour plus ago, you said that you were single.
Yeah.
It's complicated.
It's complicated.
You didn't ask if I was single or single AF, so...
What the hell?
They're both single.
So, you're in Miami right now.
He's in Arizona.
You're here on vacation?
We're both single.
Okay, that's why you're single right there.
Okay, what about you?
Do women reciprocate and or show appreciation to men?
I believe it just depends on the situation.
Like, some people...
Like, for real, they'll be more appreciative of a nigga getting them a car.
Oh, they'll appreciate a nigga who'll buy them a car rather than a card.
So, it's like, it's different.
I don't know.
Yeah, you appreciate your sugar daddy.
I know that.
No, no, no.
Listen, of course.
You don't?
No, she don't.
Because I'm just saying he ain't never bought me no car yet.
But I do appreciate him, yes.
Sure.
Okay, what about you?
Two degrees.
Do women in general show reciprocation and appreciation for men?
I don't think so.
You don't think so?
Why not?
I think a lot of women think they're entitled and can just get any man, but in the end, they need to be able to show what they really can do for them and what they bring to the household.
Okay.
What about you?
Do you think women in general show reciprocation and appreciation of men?
No, I don't think so.
You don't think so?
Okay.
What about you?
Do you think women in general show reciprocation and appreciation of men?
No.
And I think a good example is looking at girls' Instagrams that have boyfriends and don't even post them.
That's a perfect example right there.
Why you gotta post them?
Why not?
Why wouldn't you post your man?
This is my social, not our social.
That would be part of showing appreciation.
I could post you on my story, but post you on my page?
Well, I disagree.
I do disagree.
But that is an example.
Do you think it's appropriate for you to post sexy pictures of yourself on the internet while you're in a relationship with a man?
If I send it to him first.
Well, sexy, I'm not saying, like, naked.
But, you know, if it's a sexy picture, I'm going to send it to him first and then I'm going to post it.
Okay, what if he tells you no?
Well, then I'm going to take it down.
Wait until then, I'm going to post it.
So you're going to wait for his approval?
Yep.
Okay.
So what if he tells you no in general every time?
Well, you know, I can just go on to close friends and then, yeah, I'd be related.
Okay, so you would do what your man says?
I would.
Alright, what about you?
Do you think women show appreciation and reciprocation for men in general?
Not at all.
Why not?
I mean, like, there are women out there, and too many, that are just in it from the start to take advantage of a man and whatever skills he may possess, and they will keep that up, and, like, they get away with it by playing dumb, and it's honestly the women that seem like they play dumb that are the most manipulative.
Okay, so let me ask you a question.
Most of you pretty much agree that women in general, modern day women, don't show reciprocation or appreciation for men.
What would you tell your son going into the dating market, maybe 10, 15 years from now?
What would you tell your son when dealing with girls?
Shoot.
What advice would you give him?
In terms of like to not be...
Navigating the dating marketplace with modern day women that you are saying don't reciprocate.
What would you tell him as advice?
Obviously, you know, continue to be a gentleman, but there is a spectrum of being a gentleman.
You know, do the simple things like open the car door, pay for that first dinner.
But if you're going on multiple dates and you're not seeing any effort from her, like, it's time to drop.
So you think he should go on multiple dates to figure out if she's useful or not?
Yeah, I mean, a first impression is important.
If you screw up a first impression, like, you screw up a first impression.
So if she screw up the first impression, why take her on other dates?
No, I'm saying if she doesn't screw up the first impression, like, you know, you should keep going.
But if she really screws it up and you know it deep down, if you know it from the surface, like, just move on.
Okay, so give us one or two points then.
Boil it down.
What should they do?
Be a gentleman?
Be a gentleman, but don't overdo it.
Okay.
What is overdoing it?
Being a simp, spending copious amounts of money on her, like just a quick dinner, drinks, apps.
How much did they spend?
On a first date?
Yeah.
For two, I mean, when it's two people and you're getting, say, like, drinks, appetizer, dinner, no more than, like, a hundred.
Okay.
But that's decent.
Let her finish.
Sorry.
Anything else?
So don't be a gentleman, but don't simp.
And what else?
I mean, I think that would be the main point.
Okay.
What about you?
What would you tell your son in today's day and age, knowing that women don't reciprocate or appreciate men?
I would have to agree about the simping.
Definitely don't simp.
What else?
I can't think of another thing.
Can you come back to me?
I'm sorry.
If you guys are going to say something general, I want a specific of don't do this.
What about you?
I would tell my son to don't put in what you're not receiving.
So make sure you're not giving your full 100 and only getting back 30%.
Give us a sign of her not putting in effort.
If you're, like, constantly, you know, giving her flowers, giving her, like, words of assurance, and she's just, like, you know, thanks, or just not, you know, just showing, like, surprising him with gifts, or asking about how your day is.
You would tell your son to buy flowers for girls nowadays?
Yeah, I would tell my son that.
I still receive flowers.
What about you?
What would you tell your son knowing that women don't reciprocate or appreciate?
I would say, you know, continue to focus on leveling up, like you brought up that point, that for men, you know, when you continue to focus on your career, obviously, you guys attract more women that way, so, you know, being that security, but...
So, what else?
I would say, like, being a family man, too, like, Be a family man?
How would you be a family man if you're single though?
No, like close to their own family.
Do you think that's going to make him more attractive to a girl though when he's a mama's boy?
I would just say having a good relationship with them.
It just shows the kind of person that you are.
What about you?
What would you tell your son knowing that women don't reciprocate or appreciate?
Actually, you said they do, right?
Somewhat.
It depends on the situation.
I don't know.
Okay.
What about you?
To be, like, to take their time and kind of get to know the woman more, to see what their intention is, as well as kind of how they said, like, don't be a simp.
Like, don't put in more effort.
Like, if you see that you're texting her more than she's texting you, then kind of, like, just cut that off.
So cut her.
Alright, what about you?
To be cautious and mindful.
Okay, can you describe that specifically?
I feel like every time I get questions, I have to go deep and describe them.
Wow!
And you're in the middle of the table, so you get the benefit of thinking.
Come on, man.
When we're young I feel like we're such in a rush so I would tell my son just to not be in a rush and being mindful is just like be aware of everything that you're doing and be cautious of it.
Be cautious of what?
These hoes.
What part of these hoes do you have to be cautious about?
Um, we're bad sometimes.
We're bad?
We're bad.
Like, females are bad.
Like, sometimes we have bad intentions or we just want to like...
Such as?
Sometimes we just want to juice a nigga.
You define juicing a n***a for all the people out here that don't know what that means.
You want a white man saying n***a?
Juicing a n***a is like when you just want his money, like you just want to deal with him and you just want his money and you don't want anything else to do with him.
Oh, so you want Nick Cannon?
What about you?
What would you tell your son?
Be honest, but be smart.
Do you think you want me to handle the truth?
Depends.
Do you think women in general can handle the truth?
Your face says it all.
I mean, yes, but it's not all women.
I don't like to generalize because we're all different.
That's how the world works.
Y'all are really not that special.
Do women in general, do you think they can accept the truth?
No.
Okay, so wouldn't it be fair to say that telling your son to tell women the truth and be honest would be counterproductive?
I said be honest in a way that be a good boy.
What?
Like, be a good boy.
Be honest.
Good boy, good boy, good boy.
Be a gentleman.
Are you attributing your own definition of honesty?
No, no, no.
Honesty is telling the truth, period.
Yeah, like, be honest.
But we just said women can't handle the truth.
Always tell the truth.
I mean, not a woman.
Most can't.
I can.
Really?
As long as they're honest, I can handle it.
Not the cow.
Okay, what if your boyfriend told you the truth?
Hey, listen, I want you to get off OnlyFans.
Be loyal to me.
I'm going to go have sex with other girls, though, but I expect you to be loyal to me, cook for me, clean for me, and be a dutiful girlfriend.
And that's it.
We break up.
Fantastic.
So you yourself can't even handle the truth.
Nice try.
Yeah, that's what he wants.
I promise you that conversation is coming.
I mean...
And you know it's coming, too.
So you can't even handle the truth.
I know, but the question was what I would tell my son.
Yeah.
You told him to be honest, and I said, well, most of them can handle the truth.
Just be smart.
Oh, no, it's smart.
Okay.
No, like, you just didn't let me finish.
Like, be smart.
But, like, she also has to put some effort.
It's nice when a woman shows independence.
So it's good when a, it's really cool when a guy is, like, paying for the dates and stuff like that.
But it's also very nice when the woman pulls out the wallet and says, it's my turn.
Yep.
Like, it's not all on the guy all the time.
And that's when I say I want my boy to be smart to know when the time to leave is.
If she's not putting any effort, like she's not paying any dates or she's not putting the effort to plan a date, then don't be with that woman.
Interesting.
I get what you're saying.
That is a good point.
If a woman spends money on you, that means she's into you on some level.
So you don't want it to get juiced.
I understand.
Okay.
What about you?
What would you tell your son knowing that most women don't reciprocate and or appreciate I would tell them to practice discernment because when it comes to certain women, I notice that when women can look through a man, it's easy for a man to get lost in that and just drain and lose himself.
How should he practice discernment?
Give us an example.
How should he practice discernment?
More so like Like, what they were saying, like, when it comes to reciprocating, but, like, no, but when it comes to reciprocating, because, like, listen to this, like, if you're with a woman, right, and she's not really doing stuff for you, you do a lot, right?
Let's say you take her to go clean her car, you go out to dinner with her, you do all this other stuff, and she does nothing for you, and, like, you keep doing it, and you keep doing it, I just feel like, as a man, it's gonna, like, deplete your value, because she's gonna be like, oh, yeah, I fuck with you, you're doing all these things, but I can't be like, simple-ass nigga, like, can't.
So I just feel like, just practice a sermon, like, do what you want to do for that woman, when it's like, you know that that's your woman, or like, the bit that you fucking with at the time, but like...
You said bae?
Bae?
What about you?
What would you tell your son knowing that most women don't reciprocate or appreciate?
I would say if she's not obsessed with you, don't put all your eggs in one basket and wrap it up with my second one.
Okay.
Not bad advice.
That's not.
What about you?
You're the one that started this.
So what would you say to your son when it comes to women that don't reciprocate or appreciate?
I would say be very cautious and try to understand which women are trying to use you for your money or for anything in general.
And don't allow that.
Maybe don't come off as a flashy guy and don't show everything you have.
But once you find a woman that truly loves you and you really love her, that's something really special.
And I would say don't mess that up.
She's so pure.
It's interesting.
It's unsettling.
Back to the questions?
Yeah.
Since this lady's not going to be honest about body count, let's change the question.
Question for the ladies.
Have you ever been through a 304 phase or are you currently in one?
Okay.
Have you ever had a hot girl summer, ladies, or been through a whole phase?
We'll start here and then work it well.
Okay.
Have you ever been through a whole phase?
No.
Okay.
No, but I can't wait for it.
Fantastic.
What about you?
No.
All right.
What about you?
High school graduation.
I would never do it again, though.
Okay.
What about you?
Ever been through a whole phase?
No.
Stop the cap!
What about you?
Yeah, during COVID, we're all at home, so...
Okay.
What about you?
I think I'm going through it right now.
Fantastic.
What about you, Miss Nurse?
No.
Stop the cap!
You know how nurses get down.
Hannah went to Atlanta?
Yeah, 1,000% cap.
Alright, what about you?
No.
Stop the cap!
Alright, what about you?
No.
You're 28 though, right?
Correct.
I've been in three long-term relationships.
Okay.
And then what about you, Connecticut?
Oh, 100%.
This episode of FNF is sponsored by BET and iCarly.
Shout out to Carly on the panel.
Who's Carly?
Mark, what are your thoughts on the fixed...
And that's from BigMo89.
What are your thoughts on the fixed deadlift squat machine?
In 2020, I bulged my L4 and L5, so I've been avoiding squats and deadlifts, but through this machine might be good because the moment is fixed.
I think I mean movement is fixed.
Cheers, guys.
Yeah, I mean, if you've got injuries, bro, go ahead and do it.
My wife and I were off for a few days because of Ice Storm.
I listened to you guys, Tate's episode, and the Charleston White episode, too.
Her first time hearing you, and she actually loves this show now.
I couldn't believe it.
And that's from Sulfis.
Good job.
Shout out to you, bro.
Yeah, a lot of married couples watch us, bro.
That's typically why.
Married women love us.
Single women that are feminists typically hate us.
In recognition of Black History Month, can you ask the ladies to name at least one country in Africa?
Just one country in Africa.
No, how about this?
How about three countries?
Since this is one of our staple questions.
Ladies on the panel, if you don't mind, name two countries, not the U.S., Mexico, or Canada, and whatever she says, you can't repeat.
Egypt, Chad, and Tanzania.
Okay.
Okay.
Different.
I mean, just three.
That's right.
I can't even name three.
That's right.
Okay.
Where would you want to have your vacation?
Need a bae first.
That is true!
Okay, what about you?
Okay, Nigeria, Cameroon, and Madagascar.
Okay!
I like to move it, move it!
I like to move it, move it!
Were you in the film?
She was a zebra.
What the fuck?
Can you repeat the question?
Yeah, I got you.
Stupid!
Name three countries.
Three countries?
Yeah.
Spain.
Okay.
Venezuela.
Okay.
I have an inspiration.
You got this.
Oh, I thought it was a mute.
Venezuela.
One more.
Salvador.
Salvador.
I don't know.
Okay.
Salvador.
What about you?
Countries?
I really want to skip, can I? No you can't.
Wait, hold on, hold on.
You want a white man and you can't even think about questions?
Because this is not fun to me.
I don't want to answer being no history class.
I'm sorry.
What if he's watching right now?
Who?
I hope he's not sitting at home watching TV. Okay.
Cuba.
Japan.
Greece.
Huh?
Cuba.
Greece.
Japan.
Okay.
Are we named just countries?
Or Africa?
Just countries.
Okay, okay.
Morocco.
That's one.
Italy.
Europe.
Okay, cool.
Good job.
All right.
Thank you.
Uruguay, Argentina, and Panama.
Okay.
Zimbabwe, Finland, and Turks and Catans.
Nice.
Good job.
Bulgaria, Hungary, Kazakhstan.
Cool.
Mali, Uganda, South Africa, and all African countries, like the original question asked.
Oh, you named all African countries.
I mean, I think they changed it, but the original question on the server asked for Africa.
Good job.
Yeah, that was good.
Okay, so I will say this.
The panel was excellent until we had two skips and Europe.
Okay.
Good try.
Europe is not a country.
Yeah.
Let's support you.
Ladies, is chivalry deserved by women or is it earned by women?
And is chivalry sexist?
That might be a little bit too much for the answer.
Next one.
Sauce Racing says, let me get that Prada shirt fresh.
Pause.
And Chris, stop picking the panel while you're drunk off the Henny.
Everything will be looking fine to you.
Alright, nigga.
Hey, Fresh, thanks to you every time I hear a girl say, I feel like I find myself saying merch.
You mean Chris.
Okay.
And then we got O.M. goes, my ex broke up with me because I watched the pod, also the Tate Brothers, accused me of being a toxic alpha, respected her decision.
Since then, I've doubled my income, bought a house, lost 10 kilograms of body fat, plus new better girlfriend.
Thank you, FNF, for all you do.
You've helped me massively.
I mean, that's not something to really cap about.
Oh, $100?
Oh, he better be telling the truth.
Michael Rodriguez, red-haired chick looks like Greta from the Gremlins movie.
What the fuck?
You have anything you want to say back to him?
What'd he say?
He said you look like Greta from the Gremlins movie.
Look better than your mama.
Hey!
Fantastic.
We got here.
If your man did OnlyFans and made 20k a month, would you date wife him?
Yes.
100%.
Gay porn, though.
Oh, no.
No.
Okay, fantastic.
Nope.
All right.
Here's all my brother.
Oh, man.
That's crazy.
Damn, I'm not better than that now.
All right.
Damn.
We're reading 20 and up only, right, Chris?
Did we tell the people?
Earlier.
Ladies, is dating and getting women easier or harder for men today?
We'll go around the table real fast.
Let's see what their thoughts are on this.
Do you think it's easier or harder for men today to attract and get women?
Start here.
100% harder.
I think there's a lot more.
Since we have more technology, just the standards in general have changed.
I mean, when our grandparents were growing, we were talking about how our grandparents got married by my age, 18, 19.
And there was just so little to do.
There was so little out there that wouldn't impress a woman.
All you needed was shake, fries, drive a movie, and all of a sudden you're married.
Okay.
So you think it's harder?
What about you?
I think it's harder to kind of piggyback off of you with the social media.
We just as women, we just have way more options.
So guys kind of have to compete with all those extra options that we have, like at our hands.
Okay.
So you say because social media?
Yeah, that's part of it.
Okay.
What about you?
I agree that it's harder because of society and how society says how men should act, how women should act, and just women's intentions in general.
You never know where she's coming from, so it's harder for that aspect for a man to know if he's investing in something that's going to be worth it in the end.
Okay, so you think it's harder because women's, I guess, goals are different?
Yeah, their goals and intentions, yes.
Okay.
What about you?
Do you think it's harder for men to get girls nowadays or easier?
I think it's harder because, again, society does push for women to be independent, that they can do things on their own, that they don't need a man.
So I think it's harder.
Okay, so yes, because women are independent?
No, I'm saying that's what society is promoting.
Do you think in general women are more independent?
I think nowadays, that's what everyone's pushing for.
It's for them to...
that they don't need anybody, that they can do things on their own.
Therefore, they're independent.
Again, that's...
I don't...
I don't personally think that, but I feel like that's what...
That's what you're stating, and that's the conclusion from what you said.
I mean, that's what society promotes.
Okay.
What about you?
Do you think it's easier for men to get girls nowadays?
Yeah.
Why do you think it's easier?
I would say social media, like on the contrary, like social media, they can show you what they have or what they could offer you and like buy you that way or they could just buy it if they want it.
Okay.
And then...
Let me ask you a question.
If I took 10 random guys' Instagrams versus 10 random girls' Instagram, who do you think is going to get more DMs?
Oh, girl.
So...
That's why I said it'll be easier.
Well...
I get what you're saying.
But I would say for certain niggas, it's easier.
For some, it's harder.
But we're saying not in general.
Well, then it's harder because options.
Okay.
Okay, so you're saying it's easier for a percentage of men?
Yeah, it's easier for a percentage.
Okay, what percentage of men do you think it's easier for?
The ones that actually like...
Give me a number.
I'd say like 20.
You think the top 20% of men is easier?
Like 30, yeah.
Top 30?
Alright, what about you?
I think it's harder.
Okay, why?
Because women have more options because of social media.
Anybody can just slide in your DMs and just be like, hey, let me take care of you.
Let me do this.
Let me do what your man is not doing.
And I've had things where I'll be like, I'll have a boyfriend and they'll be like, I have a math test.
And I'm like, okay.
- No.
- No. - It's irrelevant.
- Yeah, it's irrelevant. - It's irrelevant that you have.
- Yeah, to them, that you have a man.
- Oh, okay. - Mm-hmm.
- And-- - I understand.
- Oh, okay, so, and then what's your response when they say, "I have a math test?" Do you still entertain it?
I block them.
Well, not the guy that you work with, clearly.
What about you?
Do you think it's easier for men to get girls nowadays or harder?
I think it's easy.
Okay, why?
Not only because of social media, but I feel like if you do the same activities that a girl does, you can possibly gain a friendship.
It doesn't have to be only a relationship.
Do you think men are interested in being platonic friends with women?
No.
Yes, some of them, yeah.
Really?
Yeah.
Do you have platonic male friends?
I don't have much, but I do, yeah.
Do you think they would have sex with you if given the opportunity?
Of course.
So therefore, they're not platonic?
Platonic, by definition, means non-sexual.
Yeah.
Fantastic.
All right.
Well, no, hold on, hold on.
We ain't done with you yet.
So, you think it's easier for men to get girls nowadays?
Yes.
Okay, and you said because they can do the same activities that girls do?
Just, I feel like we all meet each other.
Like, it's easy to meet a female the same way a female can meet a guy anywhere and anytime.
But, realistically speaking...
If a guy meets a girl, do you think girls accept most guys that approach them?
Do girls accept most guys that approach them?
Yes.
Do you accept most guys that approach you?
No.
But as friends, yeah.
I'm starting to now be open to that can possibly be my friend.
But we're already talking about how men don't want to be friends with girls.
Bruh.
They're being friends with you out of necessity because they want to get laid and they think that's the way to go, but they don't really want to be your friend.
Okay, if you say so.
That's the only way.
We know so.
I mean, even your experiences reflect that.
I asked you, do you...
But I do have some male friends that don't...
They don't all want to fuck me, but there is some that don't want to fuck me yet.
Not yet.
I would argue probably most of them, if not all, more than likely want to have sex with you.
Just say you don't know yet or you're being delusional about it.
But most guys, I mean, do you have a lot of female friends?
No.
Why not?
Because I'm very selective with the people I hang around with.
Okay.
Why do you not have female friends in general?
I have not a lot.
Why not?
Because I'm loyal, I feel like, and because...
Excuse me?
What does that have to do with having friends, female friends?
Females are not loyal.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
Females aren't loyal.
Alright, do you prefer to hang out with your male friends or female friends?
Both.
You gotta pick one.
If you had to pick one of the two.
Females.
You prefer, even though you don't like female friends.
Yeah.
Well, the female friends I have now, I like, and that's why I have them.
Okay, so you would say, in general, most girls are not good friends?
Yes.
Okay, so, if you don't even have that many female friends, do you expect men to have female friends?
Yes.
Gotcha, bitch!
You triggered my trap card!
That's what I'm trying to say.
Like, it's funny how girls will sit there and be like, oh yeah, I have guy friends, blah blah blah, but do you have a lot of girlfriends?
No.
Why not?
Oh, because they're not loyal or whatever.
Let me say what I think you don't want to say.
Women don't really offer much utility in friendships.
Yes.
They just don't.
Like, a lot of girls come in like, oh, we're going to split the bill.
I'm not hanging out with this bitch no more.
I can go out with a dude instead and he'll pay for everything.
Like, girls really don't offer that much utility.
And I tell guys all the time, don't be friends with a girl because for you to get the best out of a woman, she's got to be your girl.
She can't be your friend.
Because if we get in a fight, you can't do nothing.
You can't help me with my problems most of the time.
And women just don't experience the same life that men do.
Men live a much harder life than women do.
So every guy wants to fuck every female they meet?
They don't want to have a friendship?
Well, I just said earlier, you don't have that many female friends, right?
No.
So why do you expect me to have female friends?
But why can't you?
Because women are useless.
From a friendship standpoint.
I think about your book.
I am.
To be honest, you literally agree with me, even though you're not saying it, but your actions agree with me.
I agree with half of you, but I do think that 2% is just that 2% you don't believe in.
It doesn't exist, but it does exist.
It's just a small percentage, is it not?
Okay, well, let's go off of this.
I don't operate on what's possible.
I operate on what's probable.
If I know 98% of women are useless as a friend, why would I try to fight for the 2%?
I see your point.
Statistically speaking, 2% is insignificant.
So I'm going to go off to 98.
Most women are useless, so therefore there's no point to pursue that.
Why not just be friends with a guy who has the same experience, same interests, same hobbies, same lifestyle, same mindset, etc.
Women don't share a lot of the same characteristics as men in general.
Like, we don't have the same interests.
Men are more interested in things, women tend to be more interested in people.
That's just how it is.
You know what I mean?
Hell, you don't even have that many female friends, but you expect me to have them?
Hell, duh.
Do you have them?
No.
You don't have no female friends?
No, I have female associates, but in general, female friends are fairly useless.
Like, I know some of y'all might say, oh, we can help you get girls.
Why not have a wingman instead?
Women are terrible at attracting other women.
What if he's ugly?
I get my own girls.
Well, if he got enough money, his money will make him handsome.
Amen!
So there you go.
Okay, where were we?
What was the question?
There it is.
No, what was it?
Okay, do you think it's easier for men or women to get girls?
Men or women?
Yeah, sorry, do you think it's harder for men to get girls in today's day and age?
Why?
Because women, I mean times have changed.
It's not like before.
I mean like I grew up seeing, well the stories that I hear is that everybody like before used to get married at 19 or 20 because oh like drop out of school like I'll give you everything and now it's like women are more independent.
They're more independent.
So I think for guys to get a girl, they have to work a lot harder.
Okay.
Like, I... Well, before I used to...
Before I got into a relationship, I would not answer every single DM. And it was very hard for me to...
Like, for a guy to get my attention.
Yeah.
Like, very, very hard.
So it's not like, oh, like, all flowers and rainbows.
Like, I'll give you this.
I'll give you that.
Out of curiosity, who do you think has more options?
An average-looking woman...
Or an extremely attractive man?
Woman.
You think the average woman has more options?
100%.
Okay.
What about you?
Is it harder for men to attract women nowadays?
Yes or no, and why?
I think it's easy for men to attract women.
Okay, tell me why.
Because they really could just lie and just be flashy and just be like, and women just kind of flock towards it.
How would they explain them being flashy?
It could be, like, Instagram.
It could be you could meet a guy at a gas station.
He'll pay for something for you, and one will be like, oh!
And, you know, so they, like, I don't know.
Like, that's just what it is, I feel like.
You think paying for a girl's gas will get you late?
No, I feel like guys one day can, like, basically, like, faking until you make it.
I feel like that's how a lot of guys get girls.
How would they fake it?
Explain in detail.
Fake it.
Okay, let's say being fake interested.
Let's say they're up one time and then they're not up.
The money could attract the women like that easily.
But notice how you said money.
Is money easy to make?
Money is not easy to make.
So is it really easier if they have to go out there and earn money even to be able to finesse?
No, but like I said, lying.
That's why I feel like a lot of women get trapped by a lot of guys because they lie.
Or not trapped, but get swayed by a lot of guys because they lie about certain aspects of their lies.
Wouldn't it be fair to say that for you to be a skillful liar, you have to be manipulative, which takes social skills and awareness?
Yeah.
So is that easy?
Yeah.
I think it's easy, yeah.
If you want something that you want and you don't have it and you know this person might want it, I feel like you could lie.
Let me ask you a question.
Do you think most men are socially retarded?
Nah.
And awkward?
Keep it a thousand.
How many awkward men have approached you?
Do I think men are socially retarded and awkward?
In general.
Okay, yeah, you can say some of them.
Fair enough, yeah.
But I don't know.
I'm just based off my experience.
That's what I'm asking.
So off your experiences, most guys that approach you are weird, awkward, timid, etc., right?
Sometimes, yeah, like 50-50.
Okay, so you would say that about half of men are socially weird and awkward?
I wouldn't say awkward.
You're timid.
Like, I don't know.
Stand on something.
Stop being a pussy.
I'm not being a pussy.
Okay, so you want me to say, okay.
Say what's on your mind.
I feel like men know.
I feel like it's easy for them to get women because I feel like men can just lie about what they have.
And it's just like easy to sway women.
Like, you can go to a club and like, you can pretend that you have all this other money because you're throwing a few hundred dollars and the woman will flock to you.
But do they not have to earn those hundred dollars?
I don't know.
Just based on my experience, I don't know.
I just feel like...
Because here's the thing.
You're saying they're faking it.
I'm saying even faking it takes skill.
Okay, I get what you said.
That's what I'm trying to say because if they're lying to them and they're being manipulative, well, most men are socially retarded.
I'll say it for you since you're scared.
Most men are socially retarded and socially awkward.
Think of all the times that men have approached you and were awkward or weird or stared at you in a funny way, didn't know how to say their sentence, maybe they're nervous, etc.
So, for a man to be able to lie and be conniving and manipulative does take skill because it's not natural for us to be manipulative.
It's natural for you guys to be manipulative.
That's why you guys wear makeup and say a bunch of bullshit.
But for men, right, it's not natural for men to be manipulative and liars.
They have to learn that to learn skill.
Women typically are more socially aware than men are.
This is not my thought.
This is science.
Women are socially superior to men.
I'm giving y'all a compliment.
Thank you.
I don't know.
Basically, my answer is 50-50.
You have your...
Fantastic.
What about you?
Do you think it's hard for men to attract women in today's day and age?
I say it is because nowadays, Instagram, Twitter, all that is making men insecure.
Okay.
Yeah, I stand on it.
You think it makes them insecure?
Well, some of them because like you said, there's a lot of normal dudes out here.
They don't have like what the flashy guys are putting out on Instagram.
So it's like, why would I want to fuck with you?
He ain't got nothing to offer me when this guy right here is, oh, I can give you money.
I can take you out.
We can be on the balcony.
Like, why would I settle for somebody that...
So you don't want a normal...
So would it be fair to say for you, you don't want a normal man?
No.
5'8", 37, 50K per year?
I mean, I will settle for somebody that's making 70, 80K a year.
That's above average, though.
Yeah, well, he need to make a little bit more money for me.
Okay, so he's got to make 100K. I never said 100, but if it's close to that, then that's better.
Okay, so you want an exceptional man?
Okay.
What you mean exceptional?
Well, he's above average, which means he's exceptional.
Okay.
To a degree.
To a degree, I agree.
Okay, so wouldn't it be fair to say that he's going to come with exceptional problems, which means he's going to want other women?
Can I have other men?
Do you want to be a hoe?
That's not being a hoe.
Is he going to be a hoe?
The definition of a hoe is being promiscuous with other men.
Well, if I'm a hoe, he a hoe.
No, he is the homemaker.
You're the home.
No.
What?
Listen, he cannot have another person if I can't have one too.
Are men and women equal?
We're trying to be.
Do you think you are though?
We're not.
Okay.
How many babies can you bring to term per year?
Zero.
Actually, one.
One.
I'm saying zero because I don't want none.
Okay, fantastic.
But the point is if you tried, you can bring one to term, right?
I guess.
How many women can I impregnate?
A thousand.
Okay.
So, wouldn't it be fair to say that sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive?
Yes.
So, therefore, wouldn't it behoove you?
Well, let me say prompt you, because some people don't know what the behoove means.
Wouldn't it prompt you to think, okay, I need to protect my egg?
From him?
No, for the best guy.
For the best guy.
An exceptional guy, as you discussed earlier.
Well, listen.
Please answer the question.
Can I answer how I want?
No, because I'm asking you a direct question.
Wouldn't it be fair to say that you can only bring one child to term per year, so you would want an exceptional man, by your own definition, to impregnate you, if possible?
Or maybe even more than exceptional.
Yes, because I don't have sex with anybody that I feel like can't take care of me.
Thank you for proving my point.
What point did you prove?
That you want quality, while men want quantity.
No, that is not what I was saying.
What?
I lost.
See, this is why you have to ask women very logically sound questions like this that lead them to a path where there's nothing else.
I feel like you're trying to say it to where it's confusing me and I can't get my point across.
No, it's very direct.
If you say so.
It's not that I say so.
Your own answers align with what I'm trying to say.
You want quality, men want quantity.
You should have been like a therapist or something.
I'm trying to help you out, but you ain't listening.
You're saying that you want to be equal to your man and have sex with more dudes, but the reality is you don't want that.
That's a lie.
I mean, yeah, I don't want that, but...
You're trying to be equal to your man and be a man, and you're not.
Because if he's going to do it, I'm going to do it too, and that's that.
That's not how the world works.
Well, I guess the world revolves around me.
That's how the world works.
This is my world, so whatever I say goes.
Okay, so you want an exceptional man to go ahead and be monogamous to you, even though he had to bust his ass to get to that point.
Meanwhile, you just existed and were pretty.
No, no, no.
Who's saying I'm not busting my ass either?
Busting your ass in what regard?
In everything.
Like?
If he busts his ass, I bust my ass too.
In what?
In what?
You don't even know.
I don't know, but it's whatever y'all talking about.
Don't even know.
It's whatever y'all talking about.
Don't be coming for my sister now.
Nah, she's just taking L's right now.
I'm not taking no L's because I stand on my answer.
But your answer is incorrect.
It's not incorrect.
It's incorrect to you.
It is incorrect period from a biological standpoint.
Since who?
I'm telling you that you're saying you want to be equal to your man, but the reality is no you don't.
I'm not saying I want to be equal.
You quite literally said I want to have multiple women if he has multiple dudes if he wants to have multiple girls.
In some parts.
Because how is that fair?
Period.
Life isn't fair.
Let me ask you a question.
How many celebrities have you met?
Zero.
None?
How many exclusive parties have you been to?
Zero.
How many boats have you been on?
I've been on a few boats.
Did you pay to go on the boat?
No.
Okay.
How many rich men have you dated?
Rich or niggas with money?
Same thing.
Niggas with money.
There you go.
Rich is like, we just take care of me.
I ain't got to work no more.
Okay.
How about this?
How many niggas with money have you been around?
A few.
A few, right?
Yeah, a few.
Okay.
Now, here's the difference between me and you.
For me to be around those people, I have to bring value.
You just existed and were around those people.
I bring value too.
I'm eye candy.
Okay.
Shut up.
That value was given to you.
You didn't earn it.
Yeah, it was given to me by my mama and my daddy.
Okay, you didn't earn it.
You didn't earn it.
I did earn it.
No, you didn't.
Yes, I did.
You quite literally said your parents gave it to you.
She earned it for nine months.
Yeah, y'all just...
Yo, this is...
I'm just playing.
I'm just playing.
Don't worry, guys.
I just learned about manifestation.
Exactly!
You can't get too distant.
Why?
Because I can manifest!
Manifest!
All right, Chris, hold up.
Stop.
I think that entire exchange just kind of proved...
Man.
Yo!
Yeah, man.
That shit was crazy, bro.
That shit was wild.
The only thing I'm going to say is because I've gotten this response from a lot of women that say, oh yeah, well, if he's going to have multiple girls, I'm going to have multiple guys.
The reality is if you're with a guy that you love in my own respect, you don't want multiple guys.
Exactly.
And I wouldn't want him with another woman.
But like you said, life ain't fair.
Life not fair, right?
It's not.
Okay.
So he's going to have other chicks and you're going to have to be monogamous.
No.
Because if you have other dudes, he's going to get rid of you.
It's either that or I'm just going to cheat.
And he's going to get rid of you.
And he's not going to find out.
He's going to get rid of you.
He ain't going to find out.
Trust me, I'll find out.
No, he won't.
Any guy that's attractive that knows about girls is going to know you're a hoe, he's going to leave.
No, no, no.
He ain't going to know that, you know, the girl's a hoe.
If you do it right.
I agree.
I just learned about manifestation.
Alright, do you think it's easier or harder for men to get girls nowadays?
If I remember correctly, the original question said dating, so I am going to say it's easier.
I think that...
You think it's easier?
I do think it's easier because women today, I feel like...
Oh, merch.
Women today...
They're independent because they feel they need to be because we live in such a hookup culture.
So I think that they just become independent as a second plan B. But ultimately, if a man wants to commit to a woman, I don't think that she's going to be opposed to that.
But you're missing a big point.
You're saying you think it's easier because all the guys to do is commit?
Yeah, I mean, I'm saying that a lot of men are...
I guarantee there's a bunch of simps that would love to commit to you, but you don't let them commit to you because they don't meet certain prerequisites, probably.
They're not attractive enough, maybe they're not tall enough, maybe they're not charming enough.
There's a bunch of simps that would love to commit to women, but...
Especially in U.M. And the reversion.
So if you think it's really that men want to commit, I would disagree.
I think that we just live in like a hookup culture where it's just so easy.
But who's dictating who hooks up?
Men or women?
I think women because women have more options.
So if women have more options and women are the ones that dictate who hooks up, wouldn't it be fair to say that women are fairly picky and want the best of the best?
Yes.
So therefore, by default, most of the men are out of luck?
Yeah, you make a good point.
There you go.
The average man is 5'8", $37,000 to $50,000 per year.
Most women would not want...
Yeah, see her look right there?
5'8"?
Yeah.
Not even like 5'10"?
5'7"?
I'm a tall woman.
I came across a long short, man.
I think like between 5'6 to 5'8", making about $37,000 to $50,000 per year.
Most women don't want an average man, unfortunately.
Wow.
Really?
You don't want one?
That's such a foreign concept for them that they don't even know what average is anymore, guys.
I agree to that.
Yeah, most women don't want the average guy.
I'm like six foot.
I don't know how.
No, let me ask you guys a question.
No, no, no.
I got an interesting question for the ladies because we talked about women being independent and not needing men.
So I have a question for y'all.
All right?
Let's have fun with this.
Let's say you met your dream guy, but he already had a very attractive girlfriend and he wanted a second one.
Okay?
And you liked him and you wanted to be with him.
What would you do to get that man?
He already has an attractive girlfriend.
What would you do to get him?
I wouldn't intrude on that relationship.
Let's say you wanted him.
Yeah.
What would you do to get him?
What would differentiate you from the other girl?
I would never intrude on someone's relationship that they are already a monogamous.
Okay, let's get morals aside.
Let's get morals aside of your feelings.
Alright.
What would you do to attract the man that already has a girl?
I'm going somewhere with this.
Come on, you, um...
Go ahead.
You're smart.
She'd never even smash.
How would she know?
I might have lost, like, I wouldn't...
Yeah, she wouldn't know, bro.
I was hoping she would mention things outside of sex, but okay.
Alright, what about you?
The man's your dream man, but he already has a girl.
What would you do?
I'm doing everything she not.
Such as?
Such as...
Listen, if he wants his dick sucked every day, that's what I'm doing.
She does that.
So what she don't do?
I'm asking you.
How would I know?
I just named something you're talking about.
She already did it.
Alright.
Let me give us an example of what you would do.
I don't know.
Well...
I don't know.
I can't...
I don't know.
I don't know.
Interesting.
What about you?
What would you do?
I wouldn't know if she's there.
Why do you not feel so big?
It's my heart.
It's so big.
I'm not that big.
Relax.
I'm not that big.
Relax.
Go ahead.
Yeah, but no.
I obviously wouldn't know.
You wouldn't know?
No, because if she already has her and he's kept Like, what I would do to like...
What about you?
What would you do if the guy already had a hot girlfriend, but you want to get him and you want to get into that relationship, differentiate yourself?
Go ahead.
I wouldn't know.
You wouldn't know?
I would probably find my dream guy somewhere else.
Yeah, look.
Like, if he's taken...
So you would leave?
Yeah.
Okay.
I would leave.
You would leave too?
But if you're not already in it, how would you leave?
No, I'm saying she just wouldn't.
She's saying she wouldn't pursue.
I just wouldn't even try.
Yeah, like if he already has a girlfriend, he seems like I'm not going to try.
I'm not going to try harder.
Can you tell us what to do?
I'm not going to try harder than a girl.
I'm going somewhere with this.
I don't know.
Like, you already got it.
I don't know.
What would you do to attract a man that has a hot girl already?
What would you do?
Be a part of the relationship.
Okay, what would you do to be a part of that relationship and get him?
My guests have threesomes because I guess some guys like that.
But if the female lacks anything that I can help to be a part of the relationship because I want that man, then I'm going to do that.
Okay.
What if it's you are basically his personal assistant, like you answer emails and phones and you, you know, you got to get rid of your Instagram.
He wants you to not be out there in the clubs and doing all this other stuff.
No girl strips.
Would you be willing to do all that?
Not really.
It depends how much the situation is benefiting me, honestly.
So you're not willing to do everything.
Okay.
What about you?
I would post us.
Because that would make her mad.
And then kind of how you said, I would do everything.
The goal, the objective wasn't to piss her off.
The objective was to join and differentiate and attract that man.
What would you do?
Okay, kind of how she said I would join the relationship, kind of get to know him on his downtime, like when he's not working, get to know what he likes and doesn't like.
um maybe get closer to her as well and find out the things that she nitpicks about him that because i feel like girls talk a lot so i will be able to find out right away like what he finds annoying about her and then do the exact opposite of that okay so kind of get close to her yeah all right what about you what would you do if anything she's a demon bro you know too much no i'm not but honestly not your marriage oh i was about to say i mean I
would show them that whatever she could do, I could do better.
Such as?
Anything.
It don't matter.
Like, emotional support, fucking him, cooking, cleaning.
Emotional support?
Yeah.
What's emotional support?
Let's say if he's having a bad day.
Oh, emotional support.
Okay, I was about to say emotional support.
Like, you moving him around?
All right.
Okay.
Fantastic.
What about you, Miss Two Degrees?
What would you do?
Guy has a hot chick already.
What would you do to differentiate?
I'm a nurse.
Well, I would definitely help them practice healthy habits, make sure that they're working on themselves, they're being able to, you know, better their lives.
We're going to the gym or, you know, eating right.
Just things like that.
Well, they're already attractive and in shape, but okay.
Nice.
What about you?
What would you do?
Realistically, I wouldn't pursue, but I would try, hypothetically, I would just boss up on her and just be better than her and everything.
Such as?
Looks, my health, my mental health, my emotional health.
Okay.
So you would actually compete and become a better woman.
Yeah, exactly.
Oh, interesting.
Okay.
What about you?
So I guess I have to think hypothetically.
Yeah, hypothetically.
Because obviously I'm with my dream man.
Actually, no.
We can make it funnier.
Not funnier.
Better.
Girl wants to get into the relationship with you and your man.
With the champs.
I don't want to know about none of that.
No, no.
This is going to actually be good because now you can think about your weak points and what you would do to augment them.
It's actually really good critical thinking.
I was going to answer hypothetically and say that No, no, no.
The girl that comes in your relationship, what she got to do to...
And this is going to make you a better girlfriend, actually.
Facts.
Know your weak points.
I feel like you aren't married yet, so...
Know your role!
What would she do come in to potentially destabilize you?
What would she need to do?
I mean, I don't know how to answer that.
That's how I was going to answer hypothetically, because I would have just asked that guy, what are his deficits that she's not fulfilling?
And then that's how I would come in and, I guess, overshine her.
But I don't know how to answer how you're asking me, like, to allow another girl.
Right.
I don't know.
She just doesn't want to admit her weak points.
That's cool.
What about you?
What would you do in Connecticut?
I mean...
I mean, like, a lot of people say, like, oh, like, it's the right person, just the wrong time.
Like, I don't believe in that.
It's either, like, the right person and the right time, or it's, like, just completely the wrong person.
So all this effort that, like, you know, some of you may want to put in to intrude and get that, like, dream man.
Like, is your dream man, you know, someone that is already with another girl?
No.
No, the answer actually is yes.
We went over the economics of this already.
Attractive men that would be your dream man already have a plethora of options.
So, realistically speaking, if you want a top 1% man that 99% of women are interested in, by default, you're competing.
I mean, like, they may have one right now.
It doesn't mean they're going to have one in the future.
So, you're going to sit there and wait?
I mean, or you can find someone that maybe...
Like, dreams can change.
But you get what he's saying?
I understand what he's saying.
Because he's a dream man, he has so many options, he probably has one right now.
But how do you get that man?
What if I just want a man that wants me?
Is that too much to ask?
The reality is a bunch of men want you and you don't want them back.
Come on, let's keep it a thousand.
So how do you stand out?
Here's the thing.
If I really were to want to put in the effort to intrude myself on a relationship that is going well...
I do consider myself a pretty nosy person.
She's cool.
She wants a third girl.
She wants a second girl.
So what would you do to come in and add value in?
He already has a hot chick.
What are you going to do?
I'm a pretty nosy person.
I also like to think I'm very...
I am nosy.
I will find out even ahead of time what your strengths and weaknesses could be.
Obviously, I'm going to find out more in the moment.
Not with too much intention, but I like to think I'm easy to talk to.
I like to think that people like to open up to me.
I like to think that I'm accepting of that openness.
You know what?
The point of this exercise, ladies, I'm going to reveal it right now.
You triggered my trap card!
What I basically describe to you guys is how women that have money and are independent think of men.
A lot of you guys, right, make your own money and think, okay, I just want a man, right?
And when I ask you guys the same exact thing, guy has his own trick already.
What are you going to do to come in?
A lot of you were just like, oh, I'm not going to deal with it.
That's exactly how men feel a lot of times when girls are strong and independent and make their own money.
They're like, fuck that shit.
I'm not needed here.
Fuck this chick.
I'm going to go find another one.
But here's the difference.
When you're strong and independent, there's only a small minority of men that qualify for you.
With a man that's independent and strong, there's a lot of women that qualify for him.
That's what I'm trying to say.
That same level of I don't care or there's not much I can bring here, that's how a lot of men feel about strong and independent women.
Now you know.
Now you know.
A nice little switcheroo there.
I feel like I've been to that.
No, you didn't.
You gave a shitty answer.
I feel like you were pressing it, though.
I said it the same way.
I look at a girl that's strong and independent and makes money as a guy that already has a hot girlfriend.
If you're strong and independent, you're going to have less tolerance for men in general.
You make your own money, right?
Same thing.
If I got a bad bitch at home, I'm not going to tolerate your fuckery.
And that's why I tell guys personally, have more than one girl.
Women behave better.
She admitted it earlier.
You didn't want to admit it.
But what I've realized is if a girl does want to compete for you, and you have another chick, she's going to be on her best behavior.
Or even just the illusion of having multiple women.
There you go.
And that's what women want, is a guy that has multiple girls.
Not a girl that has multiple dudes.
Well...
That's a turn off.
What?
That's a turn off.
No, he gonna know.
But if he finds out, what do you think's gonna happen?
Well, if he finds out, then listen, we gonna have to have a talk.
No, there's no talking at that point.
There is talking.
There's no talking, bro.
He's gonna kick you to the curb like...
My house!
Get out, bitch!
Bam!
You're done.
You know what?
I might be gonna put myself out there.
I was gonna say something.
No, say it.
Stand on your queerness.
Men don't accept cheating a lot of the times.
Well, exceptional men.
Let me rephrase that.
Listen, that's why you gotta let them know from the jump.
If you cheat on me, I'm cheating back.
That's it.
Nah, because I didn't accept it or not.
Let's look at the economics of this.
If you're with a guy, would it be fair to say that most men cheat?
Yes.
Okay.
If you know that most men cheat, and then you cheat back and lose that guy, and then you get another guy that's going to cheat, who's the dumb one?
Well, I expect my man not to cheat.
But you, by your own admission, most men cheat.
Most men do.
Okay, so if most men cheat, and then you cheat back, and you get kicked to the curb.
I just hope I pick that one.
I want that one that don't cheat.
Do you think that's going to happen?
It might not.
That's why I said I might have to cheat back.
But if you cheat back, he's going to get rid of you.
How will he know?
He will find out eventually.
That's a lie.
Your vagina's going to smell something, bro.
Hold on.
First of all, take a shower.
That's rule number one.
If you're going to do something...
If your pH is fucked up, they'll know.
That's personal.
Get that together.
That's too personal.
That's personal.
That's one of the telltale signs of girls fucking a lot.
Without condoms is her pussy stank.
Oh, you didn't know that?
No, so messed with the page balance.
Also, your actions say a lot as well.
Like, for example, you come home at like 5 p.m.
every day.
They come home at 7 p.m., 8 p.m.
It's like, where's she at?
You catch on eventually.
Over time.
Yeah, over time.
I don't know.
I've been trying to figure that out.
I've always laugh when women play this get back game because I look at it like, you'll get back but you'll definitely get back outside.
And it's a wrap for you because you know most guys go cheat.
You're gonna go with someone else, they're gonna cheat too.
You're done.
You lost the guy of your dreams.
Not unless they're obsessed with you, okay?
I've met a guy.
But he's not the guy of your dreams if he's cheating.
That's not the guy of my dream.
Do you live in real world or Lalo land?
In La La Land.
I would not stay in a relationship if the guy's cheating because then he goes from being the guy of my dreams to just not being it anymore.
I would not stay in that relationship.
Let me ask you a question.
Do you want a traditional man that earns more money than you and is monogamous and a provider protector?
No.
I want a guy that's independent and I want to be independent as well.
I want both of us to be.
Well, that's what I said.
The guy.
I'm not talking about you.
Please pay attention.
I said, do you want a guy that's gonna be monogamous to you?
Yes.
A provider?
Yeah.
A protector?
Yes.
Your emotional rock?
Yes.
You want a traditional man?
Yeah, I do.
Are you a traditional woman?
I am.
No, you're not.
You've got OnlyFans.
Nope!
That's not my only source of income.
I have many sources.
That's irrelevant.
OnlyFans is not my career.
It's one of my incomes, but it's not my career.
It's irrelevant because you're still not a traditional woman, but you want a traditional man in return.
So what do you consider traditional?
Let me ask you, think about this for a second.
Is that a fair deal for a man to be traditional, be a gentleman, even be monogamous to you when you and yourself are not a traditional woman?
Is that a fair trade?
No.
Answer the question.
Is it a fair trade?
Yes or no?
No.
Okay.
So why do you expect him to be traditional on his end if you're not traditional on yours?
Because there are men that are not traditional that are not cheaters.
Do you understand what I'm saying?
Everything I named, though, you said you want, which is a traditional man.
But you don't want to be traditional on your end back.
What do you mean by traditional?
The things I just described which you agreed to?
A traditional job?
Traditional man.
But what falls into a traditional man?
I just described it to you a second ago.
And you agreed to it.
Can you repeat it again?
A provider.
A protector.
More money than you?
Or status to some degree?
Mm-hmm.
Okay, provisioner?
And then I said monogamous, right?
Yeah.
You said yes to all of that.
That's a traditional man.
I'm not going to discuss that.
You just don't want to admit that you're wrong, which is cool, but the reality is you want a traditional man, but you're not a traditional woman yourself.
But he's not...
Okay, I'm not gonna...
It's okay.
And okay, that's what I'm trying to say.
Your guy...
That's what I said earlier in the show.
Your man is a traditional.
I guarantee you he's gonna be asking to fuck bitches.
Or he's gonna do it.
You said he's a musician?
Producer.
Or a producer?
Well, he's a singer, too.
He does a bunch of stuff.
Oh, that's even worse.
I don't know, man.
I'll give you some game right now.
As a girl that does OnlyFans, whatever, take what you can get, man.
If he's the guy, and you like him, and you're attracted to him, whatever it may be, and he makes money, if he fucks another bitch, take what you can get, because you're not a traditional woman.
Him cheating on you is the least of your worries.
Any man that has status or money is going to cheat on you.
That's just how it goes.
Especially one weekend.
You know what I mean?
So, is every man supposed to cheat, but we're supposed to stay faithful?
Yes.
Okay, well, it's not even a science.
It's biology.
Let me ask you a question.
Do you want to run around and fuck other guys?
No.
If you were the man that you love and respect, would it be fair to say that men around you are invisible?
Yes.
Okay.
Now, let's flip it on the guy side.
I can have a girl that I truly love and mind respect.
I love her.
But I still want to fuck other bitches.
100%.
Okay.
So, it's natural for me to want to do so, right?
And it's natural for you to get the best guy that you can.
Why is it that you only get what you want, but I can't get what I want?
But why does...
Hold on, hold on.
Answer the question.
Why is it that you can accomplish your goal and get the best man that you want, but I can't accomplish my goal and get the most girls that I want?
But is he my best man if he has to cheat?
Yes, because you are never going to sexually satisfy a man by yourself.
Okay, I agree with that.
Okay, so now that you know that fact, why is it fair, right?
Or why do you think it's okay for you to get what you want, but not the guy to get what he wants?
It's kind of fair if he's doing everything he has to do.
There you go.
I would agree with it.
That's why I was asking.
So you were arguing for no reason earlier.
No, it wasn't an argument.
She was going to say, do you expect us to be faithful?
And the answer is yes.
Yeah, I knew that that would be your answer.
I was literally asking, but I knew that was the answer.
Because the reason why you guys were expected to be faithful is because it's, would it be fair to say, you know what, is it easy for women to get sex?
Yes or no?
Yeah.
Is it universal?
Yeah?
Okay.
You guys even admitted earlier that it's harder for men to get sex.
So what's hard to get is typically respected, right?
A guy that can fuck a lot of girls is respected.
A woman that fucks a lot of guys is not respected.
There's a reason for that.
So, if I want to have sex with other girls and I've earned the ability to do so, I should be able to do that because you're getting the best guy that you can get, right?
Just stay single.
Yeah, honestly.
Just stay single?
Instead of dealing with this.
Yeah, but if I stay single, then you're going to keep saying, oh no, I want a relationship, blah, blah, blah.
Move on to the next.
Yeah.
Amen.
Keep it moving.
Women don't want those guys.
Women want guys that can get other girls.
That's how it goes.
Yeah.
I mean, I've been cheated on, and that's why I'm changing the guys that I go with.
You're literally with a musician.
I mean, I know, but not all, it's like you're generalizing.
I'm sorry for my broken English.
I'm really sorry, but not every musician has to be a fuckboy.
It doesn't.
Like, I just don't believe They are.
It's not that he's a fuckboy, it's that he's enacting on his ability to have other women.
Let me ask you ladies a question.
Let's go into a dream world.
Let's say, right, we both grew up, right, together.
You grew up poor, I grew up rich, okay?
We're neighbors though, okay?
I turn 18, I get a million dollar, two million dollar endowment, right, in inheritance.
You, on the other hand, had to work to get it out the mud.
So 10 years passes, right?
I spent my money partying with hoes in Las Vegas, having fun on yachts, throwing parties, raging all over the place on Instagram.
You've seen it too.
It had been lit.
You, on the other hand, took you that 10 years and you went to college, made a couple of businesses, scaled up.
Now you're a multimillionaire.
You're worth $2 million.
I lost my $2 million.
Then we meet up at a high school graduation.
And I tell you, hey man, you should really start investing in XYZ. Would you take my financial advice seriously, knowing that I had lost my money?
Hold on, we'll go through the table.
Would you take my financial advice seriously?
No.
Why not?
Well, you never had to earn anything in the first place.
And that's the first step to having financial responsibilities and being able to give financial advice is knowing how to earn it.
Wow, okay.
What about you?
Yeah, I agree because you don't know what it took to even earn that money.
Okay.
What about you?
I agree basically what they said.
Yeah, you don't have the knowledge.
Yeah, of course.
The proper knowledge, I would say.
What about you, two degrees?
What would you do?
Yeah, I'd put in the work.
Okay.
You know, you just...
You want to respect my opinion?
Yeah.
No.
Okay.
What about you?
What would you do?
Would you take my financial advice?
Nah.
I'm very frugal, so no.
Okay.
What about you?
What would you do if I gave you that financial advice?
I wouldn't take it.
Why not?
Because you already lost it.
Amen.
Okay.
Fair enough.
What about you?
Would you take my financial advice?
Yes.
Okay.
Why?
Because sometimes you gotta take L's to make some wins, so maybe this is just his low point right now, and then it's gonna come back, or he can double it, or something like that.
Would you actually take the moves that I made, though, knowing that I lost the money?
Or would you rather learn from my mistakes?
Yeah, I would rather learn from it, but that doesn't mean I'm not gonna take your advice.
Okay, so you would listen to see why I fucked up versus making my moves.
Correct.
Okay.
Okay.
But you would still look at it from a risk mitigation standpoint, not necessarily a I'm going to take this and use it advice.
Right.
All right.
Same thing, though.
What about you?
I agree with everything she said.
I'm what you said?
Stupid!
All right.
What about you?
I'll still take your advice because I wouldn't want to know how you lost it.
Okay.
So same thing.
Risk mitigation.
Yes.
What about you?
I wouldn't take it because you shouldn't take advice from people that's like not in the same boat as you.
I wouldn't take it.
You don't know what it's like to earn money and to have to make it and you also lost the money that you were given.
That's exactly how men feel about women that try to say you should be monogamous.
What?
Where did it come from?
I know, right?
Men are self-made millionaires.
Women are trust fund babies.
You guys get your inheritance at 18 years old.
$2 million.
It's up to you how you want to spend it.
Us, though, we have to go out there and earn our millions.
So if I earn my money, how the hell are you going to tell me how to invest it or make it when I made it self-earned?
Versus you got it.
That's the same thing with your attractiveness, your sexual market value.
It's given to you.
So you can't tell us how to spend hours.
Bam.
That's the difference between men and women, ladies.
Okay, homegirl talking to the right afresh is like, at best, a 3 out of 10.
Good luck with getting any high value men.
Alright, you have anything you want to say?
You're talking about me, what they say?
He said you were 3 out of 10 at best.
That's fine, because I still get niggas.
Okay, but the reality is, can you keep them?
Yes, I can.
Where's he at?
I got two of them right now.
Don't play.
You got two of them?
Two.
So why are you single?
I said I'm tingle, not single.
She didn't say tingle.
Yes, she did.
Tingle.
Tingle.
Okay.
Have either of them committed to you or are you just fucking them?
Yes.
One of them.
And why did you commit back to them?
I'm committed halfway.
Okay.
That means you don't respect him and he's not the best guy.
No, I do respect him.
It's just that when you do certain...
If you respect him, you wouldn't be fucking another guy.
Let me finish.
You wouldn't fuck another guy.
Listen.
Hold on.
First of all, just because I got two niggas don't mean I'm fucking both of them.
Period.
Oh, so you're not fucking both of them.
So what are you doing?
What?
What do you mean what I'm doing?
Just sucking?
Did you say earlier that you can have two niggas and fuck them?
Didn't you say that quite literally earlier?
I did.
Oh, but you actually said otherwise to what you said.
No, listen.
Stop trying to confuse my words and stuff, okay?
No, I've been listening very closely.
I've been writing it down.
I see.
You got a whole book over there.
Yeah.
Okay, listen.
Just move on to the next person.
He's about to get me started in here.
Next person.
Happy belated birthday, Mr.
Gaines.
Please accept my humble donation.
Thank you.
I appreciate that, man.
I'm old.
I believe I'm a king because my mom appointed it.
Yeah!
Yo!
It's amazing.
If you take the things that women say and have a man say it, you sound fucking retarded.
I'm a king!
Love these curves!
You know what I mean?
Like, could you imagine that shit if dudes walked around?
I live in my own world.
I'm an Aries.
Oh, man.
All right.
Question for the women.
If you divorce a high-earning man for cheating, will it be difficult to downgrade your lifestyle after alimony runs out?
Yeah, absolutely.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's pretty expensive.
Wait, Chris, what's the 20 and up?
No, 50 and up, bro.
About there?
Okay.
Girls saying men should be attracted to their careers like guys telling girls to enjoy being catcalled because we would like it.
What?
No.
No, no, no.
Okay, I'll slow it down for y'all real fast.
What he said is, like girls, you guys have been saying, oh yeah, man should be attracted to a girl that has a career?
That's like us saying you should...
Well, a couple of you guys said a career is attractive to men.
A couple of you said that.
No.
I think I said education.
Are you guys on the same podcast?
Yeah!
A couple of y'all said getting a bag and making money and career and education is attractive to men.
Nah, keeping them happy is what gonna keep them.
I thought that's what we all meant.
Oh yeah, now y'all want to switch it up.
No!
I feel like everyone's answers are all the same.
Duh, because you're all listening to us and then she didn't answer.
He said, let me run it back.
Why would you say that if you ask one person and then it gets our mind thinking and then we start thinking.
It's called being hive-minded.
It's like a hive combination of thoughts.
What if I was already thinking that and she said it and it's like, oh, okay, she's right.
Like, okay, it's validating what I'm thinking.
Like, It's kind of hard to say that when you're asking a question and you ask the first person and then ask the middle.
That's why people do interviews separately.
How can it be different though?
Because if it's all the yes or no questions.
Man, y'all just copy each other.
You just copy us all.
You think that?
Approximately five of you, looking back at my notes, gave education, earning ability, stability, etc.
as things that men find attractive.
Okay.
So less than half.
No, it was still a majority.
Five out of 11 is not a majority.
I said approximately five.
I'm looking through right now.
I found five.
Either way!
There's still a clear amount of you guys, there's still an alarming amount of you that think that career and education is attractive.
Okay?
And women, a lot of you guys are pursuing education in your career or talking about your career.
You talked about it in a way is like, oh yeah, this is very important to me.
And what he's saying is that you guys saying that a woman care, men care about careers is like a guy, a girl thinking that men cat calling her is attractive.
He's giving an analogy.
Okay.
Damn.
Alright.
We get it.
It's okay.
When I said it earlier, you didn't get it.
Alright.
Two girls down for fresh.
No one wants your ex, ma'am.
Okay?
Listen, I don't want to give you my ex either.
Fantastic.
Chris, the type of dude...
What?
Where we at?
Mark Yellen.
Fresh in mind.
I love the podcast.
You guys are killing it.
I'm an accountant looking for new clients to do bookkeeping work for.
Any suggestions?
Network.
I'm a network.
I mean, go out there, meet new clients, ask for recommendations, go ahead and meet people in your space, ask them how to get clients, and do the same thing.
Did they pay $100 for that comment?
Yes.
If he's a little crooked, we might need him.
I'm talking about for the one with the eggs.
He don't got no sperm.
Z says, Chris, the type of dude to chow down on Opalaka 304's roast beef, and then when she falls on this big head, it goes, we go live.
Chow to Z. Y'all want to just walk the streets while the men pave them.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Ladies, now it's your turn to actually ask us questions as well.
And we'll do questions, statements, or last thoughts on the show.
Okay, can I ask a question?
Okay, because I had a debate with my homeboy.
I had to ask him, because he was going through a breakup, and I had to ask him, like, he's been cheating on her, right?
So when they finally stepped out, when she finally broke up with him, right, and she fucked another nigga, he was like, I'm done.
I can't do it.
I was just like, I'm trying to understand from his step on.
I'm like, how are you done?
You can't do it.
But like, all of a sudden she was asking you to do, you couldn't do it and you stepped out.
So when she finally was like, I fucked up, I'm going to step out.
Like, you couldn't handle that.
So why is that?
And she's still fucking with you.
And she don't even fuck with a nigga like that.
So like, the emotions is out the window.
Like, she just did it because like, you're not fucking with her like that.
She does.
Yeah.
She cheated, but he cheated.
So it's like, how was she?
When y'all break up and she fucked another nigga and she tells you, being honest, that you just kind of like, I can't deal with that.
What do women want in a man?
What do women want in a man?
I was thinking women want in a man from like his honesty and just...
No, they don't.
Go into the real tangibles.
What do women want in men?
Money.
Money.
Protection.
Okay, what else?
Let her answer, guys.
Let her answer.
I feel like what really women want...
Is what?
Security.
What encompasses security?
Let me answer it for you.
Security, right, is encompassed through finances, protection, provisioning, stability, leadership, companionship, etc.
Also, they want him to be attractive, charming, charismatic, and a bunch of other things.
But he's providing all that.
Okay, he does, right?
Fantastic.
What do you think the man wants in exchange?
Loyalty.
Nah, he didn't say he wanted loyalty.
That's the thing.
I was trying to figure out, like, what did you want?
Look, look, look, look.
He said that for him, from his standpoint, he told me that he gave her everything that he wanted.
It's just like, it's whatever.
Look, look, look.
So I'm just trying to ask, like...
Look, look.
Yeah.
We just described, like, seven or eight characteristics that the woman wants in a man, right?
Right.
Men only want two things, typically.
Don't be a whore.
Don't embarrass me.
Those are the two biggest things.
So the dope being a whore part was a deal breaker.
He told me that.
I was like, that's the fact that she fucked out on him was a deal breaker.
Because, look, look, look.
Men don't ask for much from women.
Right.
So since we don't ask for much, if you can't even keep your fucking legs closed, You're useless.
So what about a guy?
If you can't even, like, just keep your part up, you're useless.
Did you not hear the article in the show when I said, literally 10 seconds ago?
He just said it.
What did the guy provide to her?
Everything I described.
Correct?
He provided all these things for her.
What does he ask for in return?
Very little.
But why wouldn't he want her back?
Okay, but in her standpoint, she didn't provide that much.
But in his standpoint, he felt like a lot.
Ladies, it's very simple.
If I have two requests of you, wouldn't it be fair to say that each of those requests carries 50% weight?
Yes.
Which means it's more important?
Yeah.
Versus, I provide all these different things for you as a man.
I only ask for two things, and you fuck up one of them?
Right.
Yeah.
Deal breaker.
I don't care what you feel like.
I'm telling you what it is.
It's done, bro.
Answer the question.
But if he's not providing that...
Here's what I'm saying in her scenario.
No, I'm saying in his scenario...
On his scenario, he didn't provide that.
That's why she broke up with him and then stepped out on him.
So I'm trying to figure out how her fucking another nigga...
How did that affect him so much?
It's a deal breaker for men.
That's it for them.
We have to bring so much to the table.
Let's say this.
Let's say he didn't bring everything she wanted.
Maybe he wasn't the most attractive.
He probably made up for something else.
Maybe he had money.
Maybe he was charming.
Maybe he was charismatic.
Maybe he was good looking.
Maybe he had a good body.
Men have to bring something to the table to deal with women.
Period.
Women don't have to bring shit to the table besides not be a slut.
So therefore...
That's shit crazy.
Yeah, I know.
Isn't it crazy how we asked for so little and y'all still fuck it up?
Nah, because I don't know.
Sometimes we want you to cook, clean, do all those other stuff.
That's easy.
That's not that hard.
That's easy.
You cook it clean for yourself most of the time.
You won't do it for a man, though.
Yeah, we can tell.
Like, women don't even want to do the bare minimum sometimes.
No, I do that for my nigga.
Cook and clean for him.
Alright, why are you complaining then?
No, I'm just asking for my homeboy.
Like, when he speaks to me...
We just told you!
No, yeah, he asked me why am I complaining.
So I'm telling him, like, this is what I'm just...
The point is this.
Your homeboy said he didn't care about it, but he clearly does because now he's checked out.
He don't want to fuck with her no more because it is unacceptable for a guard cheat on a mad period.
Okay, so I get that.
We look at it as a big problem because men don't ask much for women, so if you fuck that up, it's the biggest betrayal a girl can do is have sex with another man.
Okay.
It's unacceptable.
And you should break up with her.
There are guys that will take you back, so why would they take you back versus the ones that won't?
Because they're simps.
Because they don't know what they're doing.
And you don't respect them niggas anyway because you'll cheat on them again.
Facts.
So damn, are we simps, though, if we take a nigga back?
No, you're not.
You're a smart woman if you take him back.
Really?
Wait, you're calling us smart for once?
Okay, so, okay.
I know, right?
No, no, I'm trying to figure it out.
Like, okay, if I take a nigga back for cheating, I'm smart.
Yes.
Okay.
Let's look at the economics.
So would you tell your daughter that?
Yes.
100%.
Damn!
That shit crazy.
You have kids?
Yo!
Oh no!
That shit crazy.
So tell your daughter like...
I'm gonna stop talking to you, Mark Henry.
So Mark Henry, what's Mark Henry?
Hey, don't disrespect me, Michael Blackson.
If I'm a guy that gives you the world, I give you what you want, and I, for whatever reason, step out and I spot somebody else.
But, I come home to you, I give you the same treatment, and at the end of the day, you're happy.
Now, let's say that you find out I cheated, and then you left, right?
So you leave me, and you find another guy.
What's he gonna do?
Same shit.
How do you know?
I'm just saying, you will leave a guy that loves you, cares about you, taking care of you, for another guy that might not like you that much, that's still gonna cheat anyway!
So who's the idiot?
You are.
It's the girl.
All of us.
The girl is dumb.
And here's the other thing too.
If you meet a man that's attractive, tall, has money, dream man, every other bitch wants him too.
So if you got the title and you leave him, you quite literally are a retard.
And the reason why you're a retard is because he has more leverage than you do in the relationship.
He can get the girls, right?
Versus you can't get that same man.
If you want a man that's successful, you have to deal with successful problems, which is you have to share him.
You're never going to have him to yourself.
Y'all are not that special.
Men will date and fuck anything.
So therefore, be happy with getting a relationship because the man won't wife up anything.
Is that the same thing for women though, man?
Women will fuck anything too.
Oh, y'all fuck anything?
No, man.
Okay, if you ask a guy and he'll fuck anything and he says no, would you be like...
What?
But they still will.
There's some guys out here be like, I won't fucking eat.
I'm not trying to put my dick in now.
Like, what the fuck?
I'm not trying to catch this.
Niggas tell me the same shit.
And I'm not fucking these niggas and they're telling me that.
To be fair, she won't fuck anything, bro.
she'll eat anything Not me.
How tall are you?
Why does it matter?
So you can rip me?
I mean, I can't rip you.
I'm taller than you, bro.
I mean, probably.
It's just very simple, man.
What's more common?
Attractive women or successful men?
Attractive women are more common, right?
So, are you guys aware of supply and demand?
Are you guys aware of supply and demand?
So, if something is in more supply, what happens to the value?
It lowers.
So, who has the leverage when there's an attractive woman and a successful man?
The man because it's left of them.
Thank you.
So that means he has a lever.
So if he decides to go and have sex with other girls, that's what comes with it.
Because he can replace you.
Yeah, I'm not arguing that.
I just wanted to know why my homeboy thought that way.
That's it.
I'm saying that...
No, I'm going...
You're behind.
What I was saying is that women should accept a man that cheats, is what I'm trying to tell you.
But at what age...
At what age should we take them serious?
Because I've met, like, successful men at, like...
Talking to Mike, please.
I've met a successful man at, like, 20, 21, 22, and it's like, they're like, oh, like, let me wife you up.
But I'm like, you're a baby still.
Like, I don't want to wife you up.
They're going to want to fuck you.
If you mean to do us 21 or 41, they're just going to want to fuck bitches, bro.
Okay.
So either way, if he wanted to marry me, I marry him.
He's going to fucking cheat on me?
More than likely.
If you want a rich man, that's probably going to happen.
I have a question.
What if...
You're not that special, ladies.
I'm trying to explain this to you guys.
Get this through your heads.
You are not that special.
Chill, future.
Chill.
You are not that special.
So guys are more special.
I'm helping you with your future, but you don't want to listen.
To hell?
Alright, go ahead.
You guys have something?
Go ahead.
I don't want to see it anymore.
I really don't matter whoever you end up with.
I'm just saying.
I know.
I'm just saying.
Have you proposed to anybody yet?
How are they going to deal with you?
Do you think you're more trusted now than when you were 21?
Why do you think that?
Because men age like wine and women age like milk.
Yeah, the things that make a man attractive take time to acquire.
Pull up a photo of you when you're turning on.
Let's see it.
That's a very low IQ question because here's the thing.
The things that make a man attractive take time to acquire.
Status, money, confidence, ambition, success, respect, maturity.
That takes time.
The things that make a woman attractive, she's born with.
So it's not the same at all.
Matter of fact, you even mentioned to yourself, a 21-year-old comes up to you and you say, well, he doesn't seem mature.
So your own dating practices even know that a man that's older has more value.
Gotcha, bitch!
The difference between me and you ladies is that I'm listening to you guys and I understand what you're saying, which is why I'm able to rebut what you guys say versus y'all just respond.
This is hilarious.
Where are you from?
Both of you guys.
Connecticut.
Barbados.
Where are you from, French?
Barbados.
Okay, Rihanna.
Wait, I have a question.
Shout out to Rihanna.
Did she name three countries properly?
No.
I ain't never get off on me about Europe.
I ain't know about Europe.
She got two out of three.
Fantastic.
Somebody else has some?
I did.
Oh wait, you weren't even here for the part where we were naming three countries.
No, I wasn't, but...
Exactly, you named three countries.
You name it.
Wait, we're in Africa.
We probably already did some bunch of times that we didn't name already.
We probably did this a bunch of times that we could say three countries would be okay.
All right, I'll talk.
Yeah.
It can't be any we named him.
Mr.
Machista, when he seriously did a man with a baby mama, how many children would he be the cutoff?
Mr.
Machista wants to know.
When he did a man with kids, how many children would be the cutoff?
How many of y'all would you date a man with kids?
Raise your hands.
I did.
Would you or have I? No, would you.
How many kids is a cutoff for you?
Like three kids?
Two.
Two is max.
Listen, I ain't gonna lie.
The nigga I used to fuck with has seven kids.
Oh my God.
What the hell?
WTF, bro.
Oh my God.
Seven kids?
WTF?
He's from Boyden.
He's from Boyden.
All right, you had something?
Go ahead.
So you mentioned before you have a true crime podcast, correct?
Yes.
And would you say most of your episodes feature male serial killers?
So would you say more Men don't get away with murder than women?
Well, men are the main perpetrators of violent crime.
Yes, but would you, you know, could you argue that there are more women out there that get away with murder than men?
Well, I mean, that's a strange question.
I'm getting to a point.
This is why I'm asking.
I'm getting to a point.
Do women get away with more murder than men?
Yeah, if they're, I mean, they're convicted less clearly if you're doing more episodes on men than women.
Mm-hmm.
Men are the main perpetrators of crime, hence why they are mostly serial killers.
No, because they're the main ones convicted.
It doesn't mean that there are not women out there doing these crimes.
Not to the same degree as men.
Men are overwhelmingly the murderers, not women.
Okay, either way, if more women or a lot more women could get away with murder than men, then could more women get away with cheating than men even realize?
That's a false equivalency.
Okay, I'm trying to see where she's going with this.
I know it's like a drastic difference and I know you guys have that like PH fact.
I'm not going to deny a scientific fact, but is it possible that like all this manipulation that we have the ability to do is falling like right under the cracks and we are cheating more than you realize?
Oh no, women aren't cheating more.
Why did you just say that?
The thing you tried to compare it to makes zero sense because men are the main perpetrators of violent crime and murderers are overwhelmingly men compared to women.
And serial killers even more so men.
What about overall crime?
Let's make it simpler.
Overall crime is still perpetrated far more by men.
It's way more men.
Or more women getting away with it.
Just leave the crime out of it.
If we want to talk about convictions, yes, women do way less time.
Men do 66% more time for the same crimes.
But in general, men are overwhelmingly more criminal than women are.
Because a lot of times when men commit crimes, there's a higher burden of performance on men to earn money.
So men are more likely to take risks, which a lot of times comes into crime.
This is why men earn more money than women in general.
That's a component of it.
Men are more willing to make sacrifices and take risks to earn money that women are not.
This is why women get paid less.
Women get paid less because, quite frankly, they don't take as many risks.
They work less hours.
They're lazier in general when it comes to creating resources.
And just how it is.
Or is that how it's built upon us as women, though?
What?
Like, as women, like, we weren't, like, allowed to get jobs.
We weren't allowed to vote.
I would argue nowadays women have more rights and privileges than men do.
Yeah, but we've had less time to prove ourselves that we could do that, too.
It took us a while to get to that point.
Okay, please explain to me how women are dominating college attendance right now.
Almost three quarters are female.
Yet men still are the major representatives in all the highest earning professions that, you know, engineering, science, technology, math, et cetera, versus you major in journalism and broadcasting.
I feel like, yeah.
It's choice.
It's choice.
You said I have a bullshit major?
Yeah, sure.
I have a bullshit major.
Yeah, I chose it.
I could do something with it if I wanted to.
And maybe my life will lead me that way.
I don't know.
I'm 19.
You guys know that.
But here's the thing.
I'm also okay with settling down if someone good comes along.
That's my point.
Women, right, don't have the same proclivity to go out and earn money.
Men do.
I think with the school thing, however, it's because of all these older generations telling us as daughters or granddaughters, you need to go to school because I didn't have the ability to.
I think there is a lot of pressure in that.
Okay, but they're not forcing you to go into broadcasting.
If they wanted you to really go to school and earn money, they would tell you to be a lawyer or doctor, etc.
But women go into useless majors 99% of the time.
I go into this in detail in my book.
The top 10 majors that make the least money, women major in those.
Versus the top majors that make the most money, men major in those.
Men are more willing to make sacrifices and take risks to earn money because men understand that their value is derived by their status and how much money they make, which includes being a criminal, which is why men are overrepresented in the prison systems with crimes.
I don't know.
I just think in general, like, I just really don't want to be in jail.
I feel like that's not a big ask.
That's not the point.
The point I was trying to make is that men are more willing to take risks, even if it includes breaking the law.
Ooh, that's crazy.
So you were saying about cheating, yes, women cheat more than men.
Okay, you weren't, but do you think they're getting, you know, they have a higher ability to get away with it than you realized?
Absolutely.
You were not saying that before.
Men are socially retarded.
Yeah, no, you were not saying that before.
You were saying the second they find out, they're gone.
Yes, if they find out, keyword is if.
And if the man is exceptional and attractive, he's going to be able to tell those signs.
I don't know.
I made that distinction.
You were given a lot of reasons why they could find out.
I made the distinction.
If he's exceptional, he has options, he can get girls, he's going to be able to tell when his girl's being unfaithful to him.
Unless it's a pool man.
No, just kidding.
And also the keyword I said is if, but I also said that men are social retarded and women are better manipulators.
This is a fact.
Everything about the female psyche is manipulative.
You guys wear makeup.
You guys wear hair extensions.
You guys do eyelashes.
It's like guys getting haircuts and all this other shit, getting their car tinted out.
It's still an appearance.
When a guy gives a beard, it's a whole different type of nigga.
Hold on, hold on.
Hold on.
Hold on.
Everything about female nature is manipulative in a sense.
The makeup industry, hair extensions, weave, eyelashes, eyeliner.
The fact that you guys are on your period and no one really knows about it.
When you guys are here, nobody knows about it.
Women are more deceptive when it comes to showing attraction.
Women rarely approach men.
Women conceal how they feel about men.
They're not going to say, I want to openly fuck you.
Most girls go ahead and don't approach men or they don't reveal these things.
Okay, most women don't, though.
I think that's crazy.
I think most women do, though.
Everything about women in general is pretty much put to be reserved.
I feel like in this generation, most women are going to stay like, yo, this is what I want.
I'll approach it.
How is that effective its reality?
What?
What?
I feel like everything...
You just said how is it effective its reality?
Okay.
Your reality.
How is it effective its your reality?
I worded it wrong.
A fact is something that could be independently corroborated through multiple other sources It's not what I think, it's a fact.
I feel like it's 2023, bro.
It's crazy.
It's 2023, but I feel like...
Really?
Are you not wearing makeup, eyelashes, and weave right now?
Yeah, just like a guy wearing jewelry, having money he don't got, and doing all this other stuff.
Hold on.
Men don't manipulate their appearance to the same degree that women do on a balance of probabilities.
There isn't a multi-billion dollar industry for male aesthetics like there is for female aesthetics.
I don't feel that.
When they wear a hat on their balls...
During COVID. I feel like a lot of women have been, just as men have been, I'm not going to discredit that women can manipulate men, but just because, just the same as men, men bamboozled women just as much too.
Let me ask you a question.
Are there more men finessing women or more women finessing men?
I feel like there's more men finessing women.
Because men literally can literally just...
Men could put on a show and then attract one.
Who's finessing more?
Women or men from the opposite gender?
I feel like it's men.
Really?
Because when I talked to my homeboys, they were like, bro, I could put this on, this, this, and that.
How many times have you been on a date with a guy that you had zero intention of having sex with and got a free dinner?
Or invited to a party that you had zero intention of fucking anybody?
See, I'm not one of those percentage that do that.
Oh, you don't do that.
But what about other women, though?
I guarantee every single lady here has been on a date with a guy that they didn't really like or got a free dinner from a rich guy or something like that.
Has every single lady been on a date with a guy that they never really fought with like that?
You got a sugar daddy!
You got one person that got a sugar daddy.
You got one person that's on a relationship that's been in a relationship for a long term.
So I'm asking all the other, let's say, 10, 11, 16, 19 women.
What do you think is more common, a male simp or a female simp?
Female simps.
The female simps.
No, the reality is there's more male simps.
Yeah, there's more male.
So you mean to tell me you'd never hear men, women be like, oh my god, I did all this.
How many girls in this table have OnlyFans?
A couple, right?
Two.
Okay.
Less than, way less than half.
Here's the thing, here's the thing.
Pornography, strip clubs, OnlyFans.
There's an entire industry built upon the fact that women can finesse men and the men never get the sex that they want.
Oh, wow.
If that doesn't prove that women are finessing men to the highest level, I don't know how to prove it.
But same things like porn with guys.
Do women watch porn as much as men?
Nope.
No, I feel like shit.
You know what?
I actually have the stats on that.
Women watch porn about 125th as much as men.
But I feel like porn still makes a...
You say I feel like every sentence.
I know.
The difference is I know you feel like.
You feel like.
You don't know the stats.
You're incorrect.
Alright, so then you know what?
Women watch porn 125 as much as men.
Hold the L, bro.
I wrote a book on this.
You don't know what you're talking about.
I do know what I'm talking about.
No, you don't.
Okay, but you're going to say, so based off of facts, you're going to basically say, okay, there's facts and there's experience.
You talk to your homeboys.
Five of them.
The world's bigger than your homeboys.
When you talk to the majority of niggas and they have the same response to a lot of stuff that you talk about, how is that a fact?
Your personal experience.
Every day.
Your personal experience doesn't reflect reality.
I'm a multimillionaire.
I don't go hungry, but I would be stupid to say world hunger doesn't exist.
Correct?
Right.
Exactly.
So my personal experience does not necessarily reflect the reality of the world.
Okay.
Wait, what was the question?
I'm so lost.
Chris, pull up a picture of Michael Blackson, bro.
I'm not Mark Henry.
Don't try me.
Michael Blackson for years.
That's my nigga.
We actually had him on the show.
It was hilarious.
That's crazy.
I've never been called Mark Henry.
That's crazy.
You tell your mama like that?
Shit.
He actually does.
She actually does.
I know she don't tell that for you.
Is she Barbada too?
I know she don't take that.
You're still talking?
Alright, so I think the main takeaway here is that your personal experience doesn't necessarily reflect reality.
Alright, that's cool.
Alright, the world does not revolve around you, unfortunately.
I know you're trying to say that, but...
Wait, I had an actual question.
So, a man, is he okay with settling down if he's not where he wants to be, like, successful-wise?
Settle down in what way?
Like, with a woman, like, would he want to marry her, date her, if he isn't where he wants to be, like, financially?
I think so.
There's guys that will do that.
Yeah?
Okay.
Yeah.
Depends on the guy.
Okay, we got some more chats here, because we got a lot of luck that's coming in.
Oh, do we?
Yeah.
Okay, and guys, stay to the end, and I'll show you guys the cover of the book.
I got it in the Telegram, by the way, for you guys.
All right, a few more.
Tiger T goes 100 bucks.
Thank you so much.
The music is really fun with y'all.
Hey man, we add value, man.
We show them how delusional y'all are, bro.
Yeah, women in general are very delusional.
Is this conversation not showing you guys how delusional some women are?
Yes.
No.
I'm sick of this.
And women work jobs that just talk and men work jobs you do with actions.
That's true.
I did both.
That's not true.
What do you say?
How do you just talk when you do work?
Like, I work with kids all day.
That's not just talking.
What he means is that men take on jobs that are physically demanding that create the infrastructure that you enjoy nowadays versus women do not.
Like labor intensive.
Oh, like construction and all this other stuff.
Construction, engineering.
That's a man's job.
That's like the label.
That's a society label of men's job.
I do flooring.
Do you really know?
You're actually in there flooring with a hard hat on and stuff?
Yeah, my friend taught me.
No, you're showing your asshole on OnlyFans.
I got them done yesterday.
Hold up.
Isn't this job literally talking?
It's like a podcast.
What about you?
What do you do for asking?
You talk for making money.
Hold on.
They said it had to be built.
It wasn't just like, you're sitting on a talk.
Number one, I physically built this studio.
Prior to this, I was a special angel at Homeland Security.
That was a physical manual labor job.
So, the point I'm trying to make is that men in general go into jobs that are more labor-intensive and physically demanding than women do.
This is not my opinion or what I think.
As they should.
But as they should, make more money as well.
Yeah, right.
Which is why men make more money because women are naturally lazy.
I hate to say it like that.
It's not lazy.
Let me explain.
Women are inherently lazy when it comes to creating excess resources.
Okay?
They're not lazy when it comes to raising a family and creating children in life.
But when it comes to making money, becoming successful, etc.
Well, most women, if you're given the option, they prefer to have a man that took care of the majority of bills.
They had a job on the side from home that's nice air-conditioned or in the office.
That's how it goes.
Why are you looking at me like that?
I didn't even look at you.
Let me go into social work.
Let me go into comfortable office jobs that are more social in nature and they get paid less, as they should.
Men create the infrastructure that you enjoy.
Everything that you see here was built by men.
All the modern conveniences, the inventors, majority, all men.
Matter of fact, I talk about this in a book too.
Women in general don't contribute to society like that.
And when you actually extrapolate the numbers and you look at it, in New Zealand they did a study.
They find that women were net negative when it came to contributing to the economy.
Wow.
Babies.
Aren't us pushing out babies contributing to the economy?
Well, again, that's why I said women are natural when it comes to creating excess resources for society, not necessarily creating children and their family.
But isn't that still like a physical job?
Unfortunately, the Department of Labor doesn't cover that as a job.
So you can't carry statistics on that.
I'm not trying to say that that's minimized.
I'm saying that's what women should do and should focus on.
What I'm saying is that when it comes to economic contribution, etc., women are not economic contributors.
If anything, they take away from the economy a lot of times.
Don't leave school, okay?
Don't leave school.
This is fact.
This is not like some bullshit, whatever.
These are numbers.
This is empirical data.
Women in general do not contribute to the economy for things that are worthwhile.
Wow.
And the future?
This is a fact.
What?
Oh.
I am Anthony.
Attack goes.
Ladies, three things you bring to the table different than the other girls that makes you think you deserve a guy who's not average.
They answered that earlier.
Miguelian, what is worse?
You finding out your mom is cheating on your dad or your dad cheating on your mom?
That's a good question.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Stop the show.
Let's start here.
What's worse?
You find out that your mom was cheating on your dad or your dad cheating on your mom?
I mean, like, for myself personally, I think my dad is a lot more wholesome than my mom, so I feel like that would be a lot of a bigger shock.
Okay, so what would piss you off more, though?
I mean...
What would infuriate you more?
I mean, like, yeah, my mom...
Your mom cheating would be worse?
Well, my mom cheating would be worse because I would expect it, but my dad cheating would also be bad because I wouldn't...
Which one would piss you off more?
I don't know, it's just like...
Which would be a bigger act of betrayal?
I think, like...
Hmm...
You know the answer.
If she knows the answer, she just don't want to say it.
Yeah, I mean, like, here's the thing.
I think my...
I think my dad is, in terms of...
- In terms of- - Have you ever had a dream?
- Yeah.
- That you, you, you, you, you want, you can do so. - You haven't answered the poll.
- Honestly, yeah, it'd be equally as bad.
Give us the worst one, man.
You gotta pick one, please.
Which one would be a bigger act of betrayal or worse?
I guess my dad because I wouldn't expect it from him.
What about you?
My mom.
It's simple.
It's emotional cheating.
You need some sort of emotional tie to that person.
So that means my dad's not fulfilling her in that way.
Fair enough.
What about you?
My mom.
Your mom cheating?
Why?
Because as someone who's taking care of my dad, why are you betraying the person who's helping us?
Damn.
Okay.
What about you?
I would say my mom.
Why?
Because I feel like Merch.
With men, it's more of like a transactional thing, whereas women, it's more like there's more of an emotional tie to it.
Interesting.
What about you?
What's worse?
Mom.
Mom?
That's funny coming from you.
you what we're more closer and I value her marriage so So it's like that will hurt me a little more because then it make me not want to get married.
All right.
What about you?
What's worse?
My dad.
Your dad cheating?
Yeah.
Why?
Because he kind of set a standard for men, for me and my sisters.
Does your dad have money?
Yeah, my dad owns a trucking business.
You don't think he's ever fucked another bitch?
I know he has.
He's already done it.
But I've seen what it does to my mom.
My mom's foreign.
She's not from here.
So I've seen how it broke her down.
I've seen how it affected her.
She left for a little bit and then she came back.
Do you think your mom was smart or stupid for coming back?
Stupid as fuck.
Really?
I'm so mad at her until this day.
Okay, so hold on, hold on.
Let me get this straight.
So she's stupid for coming back, creating a two-parent household for you to be more stable, to have a better life, etc.
I don't think it was better.
I think it was very toxic growing up.
You think you would have been better off with a single parent?
Absolutely.
Or with her with another man and him with another woman, I think it would have been better.
I would have grown up less.
Did you say earlier that your dad made you a princess?
Yeah.
You attributed yourself being a queen to your dad?
He was a great dad.
Great dad, but as a partner, he lacked.
Wait, wait, wait.
What?
They had her, though.
So if she would have left, you wouldn't have been here.
No, he didn't.
And cheat till like seven years after me.
No, no, no.
Nigga was always cheating.
Don't talk about my daddy.
I'm not talking about my dad.
You're talking about him.
Yeah.
What the hell?
You got caught.
Yeah.
Yeah, but.
You got caught now.
I think your mom is smart.
You think so?
Absolutely, she's smart.
He makes a lot of money.
She's being taken care of right now, right?
Versus she can go with a bum who's going to cheat on her anyway.
Yeah.
Might want to take a page out your mom's book.
Alright, what about you?
I would say my mom because I feel like for females to cheat is like an emotional attachment.
Ah, interesting.
What about you?
What's worse?
My dad.
Okay, why your dad?
I just...
He was a perfect man.
So for me, for him to cheat would have taken me by surprise if that did happen.
Are human beings perfect?
No.
What?
What?
I said, are human beings perfect?
Uh, no.
But in my eyes, my dad was.
Okay, so you would hate it more because that image of him being perfect.
So your mom is...
Because he gave everything for my mom and for my sisters and myself.
Was your mom perfect?
No.
But my dad did everything to make her happy.
So, like, if he did, like, if it came to the situation that he was cheating, that would have taken me more by surprise.
Like, that would have hurt me more, you know, because of everything I saw him do.
Yeah.
You expect more.
I expect more from my dad.
So he could do all that and you still would be more disappointed from him cheating than your mom.
Yes.
So you hold your dad to a higher standard.
Yeah.
Why women deserve less?
They hold you to a higher standard.
Alright, what about you?
Disgusting.
After I started cheating, I would feel like my dad is wrong.
Your dad is wrong?
I would feel bad.
What's more embarrassing, having a mom that's a hoe or a dad that gets around?
Ew!
It's based on culture.
What does it make her a hoe?
A married woman having sex with another dude isn't a hoe?
A married fucking husband doesn't make him a hoe?
He's a hoe maker.
I still call him a hoe.
He's both.
He's a hoe maker.
He's a hoe ass hoe maker.
Ladies, you do realize that men can't be hoes, correct?
Okay.
Thoughts?
Like I was saying, the reason why I think my dad, I would be disappointed in my dad because my parents, they clutch onto each other.
Adultery.
They're like each other's balance.
So like for him to fuck up on my mom like that when she kind of like...
What would be more embarrassing to you though personally if people find out your mom was a hoe or your dad stepped out?
My dad stepped out.
Really?
You don't live in the real world.
Okay, what about you?
You said your dad?
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
I need to listen.
You over here cheating on a woman that's taking care of your five kids, cooking, cleaning, doing all this for you?
No.
That's fucked up.
My dad didn't hire a maid.
He didn't hire a cook.
Exactly.
And you could have done that.
My parents are well lost.
So it's like, you cheat on my mom.
It's like crazy.
She's the one who created a foundation of you.
You bring in the money, my mom will organize it.
Hold on, hold on.
One mic at a time.
My parents are not the type that were my mom.
We're off of you now.
You said your dad.
You said also your dad would be more embarrassing?
Yeah, because it's just like, why would you do somebody like that that'd do everything for you?
Except for like, you know, financially.
Everything else you take care of.
Wait, do you have a dad?
What the hell is that dad?
Well, I mean, is he your father?
Yes, I know my father.
My whole 24 years.
Are your parents still together?
No.
They divorced after 22 years.
Yeah.
Okay, who initiated the divorce?
My mom.
My mom.
Why?
Because she wanted to be a ho.
Wait, what the fuck?
A ho!
It was a joke.
It was a joke.
But no, she got remarried.
No, she...
No.
Okay, so this is what it is.
When you're in a long-term relationship, sometimes stuff stayed over time.
So, like, the feelings that somebody may have for you, if you're not sticking to, like...
to leave your friend here more.
I know.
My sister.
Trying to dress it up.
I am not.
She just she's been for saying that by my mom.
No, I'm just being funny.
Wait, do you all have different moms?
No, no.
We have the same mom and dad.
What the fuck?
Sis.
Sis.
I'm my real sister.
I'm more than her.
All right.
We're going to move on.
What about you?
That's how we talk.
What would be a better, bigger act of portrayal Your mom cheating or your dad cheating?
Definitely my mom cheating.
To reiterate what a bunch of people said already, men cheat because of physical reasons.
And I think that if my mom cheated, it would be to fill an emotional void.
I think y'all know your mom's cheating would be worse.
It's just that y'all don't want to do it.
I don't know my dad.
Are you going to get made fun of harder at the schoolyard for your mom being a hoe or your dad stepping out?
Realistically speaking.
Nobody's going to know.
Mom.
Nobody has to know.
I'll say both.
Why am I going to tell my business like that?
Do you think you're going to get made fun of more for your mom being a hoe or your dad?
I'll run a piece of money.
This has been going for a minute.
It's almost four hours.
Ladies, would you rather work in a sewer for 100K a year or work in media work?
Making 10k a year.
Where's your hand for sewer?
Hazmat.
Do I have a man in this situation?
Yeah, you have a man.
Media.
If he's able to supply for me...
10k a year?
Hang on.
Well, she has a man, though.
Yeah, if I have a man that is the breadwinner and I have the ability to do something I love, especially for me who is studying media, then I'm going to go for something I love.
This proves my point.
It's good.
Women are less likely to drop their dreams than men are.
You know how many engineers that hate their job, but they do it because they know that making money is more important than their personal dreams?
Versus girls major in stupid shit like art or media, no offense.
And they do it because it's their dream?
Because, here's the thing, a woman could be a failure and nobody cares.
If she's hot enough, someone will come rescue her.
But if a man's a failure, no one's rescuing you, bro.
You better make that money, nigga.
Clean that sewer.
I feel like, realistically, a lot of women don't like doing OnlyFans, but they do it because of the money.
Amen.
That's the only reason why.
Exactly.
They don't follow their dreams.
They don't follow their dreams.
Bro, it's a choice and it's easier.
You're making the point even more valid.
He said that men are more likely to quit their dreams.
Women can quit their dreams, too.
No.
What dream would that be if you're on OnlyFans?
Exactly.
Materialism and making money, which is what OnlyFans allows you to do.
You are chasing your dreams.
After this show, check out IQs, man.
I ain't gonna lie.
You've been contradicting yourselves and saying a bunch of other stuff.
The only people that get the privilege of being stupid are women, bro.
Real talk, man.
Men can't be stupid, man.
Bro, I'm losing brain cells.
Men have earned that privilege to demand.
Did anybody else have a question?
You asked something, didn't you?
Which then you said, no, I'm scared.
Just say it, bro.
Just say it.
It was about entertaining.
I feel like, do you guys consider entertaining cheating?
So if a man cheats on a female and a female goes and entertains a nigga just...
I'll take it a step further.
I think it's cheating if you even have sexy photos of yourself on the internet when you have a real man.
Oh, I agree with that actually.
I'm a cheater.
It's a for sale sign.
It's a for sale sign on your neck.
Permanent.
Oh, no.
I disagree.
Why do you disagree?
Go ahead.
Because why are you so insecure?
Yeah.
Do we say anything while you're scrolling and you tapping like on a bitch that's half naked?
No.
So don't have that energy towards me.
Actually, if anything, it means I'm extremely secure because I understand that women don't market themselves the same way men do.
Men have to go ahead, approach a girl, introduce themselves, make everything happen.
Women don't do that.
Women initiate covertly.
They do it by showing their sexuality.
What about men?
They be showing off their cars, whips, monies, all that shit on Instagram.
It's how the bitches be DMing me.
But once again, a promiscuous man is not the same as a promiscuous woman.
I actually do this on Instagram.
I'll tell you this right now.
The volume of checks that DM me compared to the DM you, not you in particular, somebody else.
That's hot.
But bikini pictures, it's way different.
It's vastly different.
So if I post cards and chains, all right, they may be like, heart, maybe here and there.
But you post a bikini picture, niggas are like, yo, where you at?
Where you doing tonight?
So there's a vast difference between volume of DMs.
Here's the other thing.
They did an experiment.
They took an actor, a male actor, extremely attractive, in the top tier, one percentile of men.
They made a Tinder profile for him.
They took a girl that was morbidly obese, 300 pounds, et cetera, made a profile for her.
That woman had like 500 matches versus the guy only had about 50.
Wow.
What?
Yes.
No way.
This is why hoes are not respected.
You guys play life on easy mode.
That's what I'm trying to say.
We all literally play life on easy mode.
We play life on extremely hard mode.
Me, the guy I am, guy clout, blue check, all this bullshit, I cannot even compete with an average looking girl.
That's how it is.
That's just how it is.
So you don't get respected for being out there entertaining guys and doing all this other shit.
It's easy for women to get attention.
What do you think you are?
Let's kill one to ten.
What would you rate yourself?
That's so crazy.
That's a good question.
I mean, on what metric are we using here?
What do you mean one metric?
One to ten.
Just answer the question.
There's one to ten.
It's not centimeters or meters.
Like, high, face, body.
Let's hear it.
Your numbers are all the same.
The thing is that men are evaluated on way more things than just our looks.
I'm asking you to clarify the question so I can answer appropriately.
The difference between me and you guys is that I actually listen, understand, then answer.
You just talk.
So body, face, and height.
What would you rate yourself?
Nothing else.
Just straight looks.
You're above average.
I get myself maybe like a 7, 6.
Are you packing?
It's a question.
Are you packing?
Girl, we took a left.
We took a hard left.
I don't think Eric wants me to answer that question.
Oh! - It's a bit harder than Josh.
We're trying to be a 304.
We got your neck.
Yay!
Put your hair right here.
So would you get some more set?
Yeah, but again...
You're taller than most.
You're a lighter complexion.
You're a multi-millionaire.
That's why I specifically asked her on what metric.
She wanted physical only.
So I went off only physical.
So what's the difference between you and him?
What do you mean?
In the sense of being average, because you consider yourself above average.
Okay, considering the stats, you're above average.
And he's not above average because he's a little bit shorter than you.
And you guys are both multi-millionaires, so what's the difference between you guys?
Because money makes men handsome.
Yep.
He has more hair.
Okay, like, statistically, wouldn't you get more of the bitches because...
No, he actually gets more girls than I do.
I can see that.
I can see it.
He genuinely gets more girls than I do.
He gets more blunt.
Girls, girls, if Fred stands on top of his Lambo, he'll be taller than mine.
I'm just talking about the calculator we went through and all that stuff.
I'm just trying to figure out what's the difference between both of y'all.
One of the benefits of being a man is you're able to make up for things when it comes to attraction in other regards.
If you're a woman and you're ugly, life sucks for you.
But if you're a man and you're not the most handsome, you can make up for it with having good physique, charming, charisma, get your teeth straight into the degree, wear better clothes, go to the gym, make money, all these, get your status up.
I mean, Gucci Mane famously said it, my money makes me handsome, and that's very, very true a lot of the times.
But Gucci Mane is handsome.
A lot of other girls, he might not be as handsome, however his status makes up for it.
That's what I'm trying to say.
Men are able to redeem themselves in many other ways.
That's why I asked her, what do you mean specifically?
Yeah, Lizzo, fuck, bro.
That's like Lil Wayne.
Lil Wayne's saying he's handsome.
He still gets tricked off.
Yeah, but I would never.
Okay, but other girls will.
Yeah, no, you're right.
So, yeah, irrelevant.
So, and then you were saying, yeah, Lizzo is fucked.
She got money and she's ugly.
Bro, that's L. I don't think she's ugly.
Why?
So you think Lizzo's real ugly?
Yes.
Is your mom going to say hi to her?
What does her weight have to do with her looks?
What does her weight have to do with her looks?
Yeah, you said she's obese.
She asked you if she's ugly.
If that's the case, being obese makes you ugly as a woman.
Hold on, hold on.
When I asked you earlier to describe your man, you don't want an obese guy.
Hmm.
Are you asking me that?
But no, I don't want a fat guy, but that doesn't mean that they're ugly.
I wrote it down.
You literally didn't want an obese guy when we did the calculator.
I understand that I don't want a fat guy, but I don't think that that makes them ugly.
So you expect us to want a fat bitch?
It doesn't make them ugly.
Men don't ask for much.
Just look good in a big part of your looks.
Lizzle's big, but she's not ugly.
Yes, she is, because she's big.
That's your opinion.
That's it.
Most men...
Yo, are you guys drunk?
There's cute fat guys.
Is your muggies big?
It's cute probably because he has money and charming and christmas.
No, for me.
No, for me.
Like, do you ladies not understand that looks are very important for men and you being obese is completely unacceptable to men?
Well, I believe, like, it don't really matter.
So a high-value man does not want an obese woman.
How are you?
Because I'm small.
I don't like being small.
I'd rather be, like, bigger, I guess.
I don't know.
You'd rather be bigger.
This isn't about what you believe.
This is about what men are attracted to.
I'm just saying, though, like...
That's the problem you're just saying.
You're right.
I'm stating.
I know that men in general don't want fat girls.
And I know they don't want skinny bitches either.
Some men out there love fat girls.
Yeah.
Okay, let me correct you.
If I gave that same man that you're talking about a Lamborghini, blue check, a couple million dollars, he'll be fucking models and he'll never go back to ugly bitches.
And he's still going to be fucking fat bitches too.
No, he won't.
Yes, he will.
Some bitches like him a little thicker.
Some bitches like him a little thicker.
Stop.
Look, men fuck what they can.
If a man's able to fuck bad bitches, he ain't going back.
I feel like a man will fuck anything.
It doesn't matter what you feel like.
It doesn't matter what you feel like.
I know that a man will fuck anything.
I know guys that like more thickness because it like feels better.
Yeah, that's all I said.
Think and fast, two different things.
Yeah, thick and fat are two different things.
If you take a girl that is attractive and in shape versus a girl that's fat and attractive, he's gonna go with the fit girl every time.
I don't know.
Like, see, this is what I'm trying to say when I say women live in delusional.
We live in a world now where we tell women, body positivity, love your curves, fat is beautiful.
That's not what men want.
We don't like you fat hoes.
We just don't.
Period.
So would you guys call your mom ugly and a fat ho?
If your mom was fat?
She was dating one day.
I don't believe your mom was like skinny.
I made fun of my mom for being fat.
She lost the weight.
That is so mean.
No lie.
- You are. - You wanna tell her to my mom? - I'm gonna head out. - What do you think?
Just 'cause my son said I'm fat, I'm gonna lose weight. - I'm gonna tell her the truth.
'Cause she's my mom and I love her.
I'm not gonna lie to her and tell her you're perfect and what you are.
- Are you Habibi?
- What?
- Am I Arab?
- Yes.
- Wait, was your mom trying to yell out?
- Which is why we don't tolerate this fuckery that you guys are talking about right now.
- Anya ha-be.
- Fat fat lemon and shit. - I'm trying to figure out, like, I know your mom would be crazy.
- I'm just not real with y'all.
- Yo, yo, do you guys not under, like this is common sense, Men don't like fat girls.
Am I speaking Chinese?
No, it's not bad.
Y'all don't like broken niggas?
I can't say I don't like fat girls?
Exactly.
You don't like fat girls.
We call them fat girls ugly.
They are.
Because they're fat.
That's his.
That's his feeling.
To most men that have common sense and have options, yes.
Listen, your common sense is not everybody else's common sense.
Again, men have options.
The men that you want that can actually get other girls typically don't fuck fat girls.
Maybe on a slow Tuesday, but in general, no.
So if you're in Arabic, were you born into money?
And that's why you feel so entitled?
What?
Were you born into money?
Because I feel like a lot of Arabics are born into money.
No, I grew up poor.
You did?
Yes.
Michigan?
Detroit?
No.
Can I say that earlier?
Abdul, get the rocks.
She was in Michigan.
Somebody had something that they wanted to say.
I mean, I can't believe that we're on the concept of fat women.
You guys had a question earlier about moms.
Dating dads with kids and all that stuff.
Would we date single moms?
Single moms are recreational use only.
What about single dads?
I really feel offended.
Well, you got some other word about it.
You're having recreation right now.
Yeah.
Incredible.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You triggered my heart.
This is too easy.
Listen to the single dad and a single mom.
A single dad has to bring value, which is hence why he's a dad in the first place versus a woman doesn't have to bring value to be a single mom.
Okay, but you came in us.
What if we actually liked you?
What if we were dating for a while?
Why did you like him?
I don't know.
What if he was like a good person at the time we met him?
Women don't like nice guys.
She already explained that earlier.
That's not all the time.
That's not for every woman.
Oh, you date nice guys?
Yeah, I have.
Where's he at now?
He stole my text messages.
Okay, why aren't you with him then?
Why aren't you with him then?
Thank you for proving my point.
That doesn't prove anything!
Y'all just take a straight L, man.
It's too easy.
If nice guys were so great, you'd be with one.
Okay.
what does a queen represent slash do oh hello miss blondie from long island if you're not backs i'll pay for your trip to come to japan I was supposed to go to Japan this summer with like a travel group and then they changed it to Iceland so I decided not to go because I don't really want to go to Iceland.
So literally take me to Japan please.
She said you can't be vaxxed though.
You go to UN, they probably vaxxed you.
I am vaxxed.
She's the wrong V. Alright guys, just so y'all know, all the girls' Instagrams are below.
Feel free to send them dick pics, I'm sure they'd love it.
Fuck that.
Guys, I'm going to go ahead and show you guys the cover of my new book.
It's probably going to drop on February 14th, a.k.a.
Valentine's Day.
It's called Why Women Deserve Less.
I know it's a catchy title, haha, but I'm going to go into the details of the simp economy, why most girls don't respect you, why most girls don't like you, and why you need to give them less.
Chris, can you pull up the book?
Do you know where it is, Chris?
They're gonna read it and still not know.
Is it in chat?
That's why we came up with the crystal ball, I'm sure, guys.
They won't do not read.
It's in the chat, Chris.
All right.
One second.
Remind me to take over, Chris, Chris.
We said that's at the beginning of the show, bro.
Yo, these niggas don't give me nothing.
I thought it was a physical copy, nigga.
All right.
Here we go.
The book is out yet.
It's not out yet.
How would it be a physical copy?
It's right there, bro.
All right.
Here's the cover of the book, guys.
Let's see how we go.
And here's the grand reveal.
Bam.
Everyone deserves rest.
All right.
Official!
As you can see, that's gonna be the official cover, guys.
I know you guys wanted me to reveal it, so I figured I'd reveal it here on the show for y'all.
As you guys can see, the L-E-S-S, and it represents different things.
But you're single, why do you have an opinion?
Oop!
Oop!
Okay!
See, uh, once again...
Because he's a high-value man that you can have any woman he watches.
Your brain power is probably very low.
Once again, you just talk, just to talk.
That song was made for him.
Okay, who said the single thing again?
Did I not state earlier that I have multiple women?
Yeah.
But you're still single, right?
No, he's not.
Are you a sugar daddy?
You're a sugar daddy?
When this is done, get an IQ test.
And then read.
I'll do what I want.
I do read.
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