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Feb. 2, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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Is DJ Envy A Simp For Letting Wife Go On 20 DAY Girls Trip?

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	Welcome to the Fresh Shift Podcast After Hours Edition.
	We're on time!
	I think, well, maybe four minutes late, but better than usual, right?
	Guys, we've got seven lovely ladies, man.
	We've got a lot to talk about.
	Let's get into it.
	And today's man's birthday.
	Don't forget that.
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	Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
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	What's up, guys?
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	Well, yeah, the stuff that's not safe for YouTube.
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	Yeah, because we got put in YouTube jail for a week because we got hit with a community guideline because YouTube is...
	That's a whole other thing.
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	It's a crime to tell the truth in 2023.
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	Yeah, he said he had a great time on the show.
	He wants to come back.
	Oh, shout out to Charleston White.
	We're going to definitely have him back on.
	Legend.
	I agree with 99% of things that he says, especially when it comes to police brutality and the black community, how they don't want to take accountability.
	But anyway, continuing on with controversial stuff, check us out on FreshRipPodcastStore.com, guys.
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	Can you pull it up, Chris?
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	Yo.
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	And then Fresh...
	Yes, guys.
	Vlog channel is up once again.
	I posted a vlog yesterday with me taking my nephew on a shopping spree and meeting my old mentor from five years ago.
	And he told me the truth about how he feels about me, which is hilarious.
	So if you guys want to see that, tune into the vlog channel.
	And until you get out of the way.
	Let's go.
	And if you guys like the true crime stuff, check me out on Fed1811.
	As you guys know, I break down criminal cases there, former federal agent.
	The last one I did was Casey Anthony.
	As you guys know, the worst mom of all history.
	Did she kill her daughter?
	Did she not?
	Well, watch the episode to find out.
	And then also, I got an episode dropping tomorrow on Daniel Prince, a serial killer from 2021 that got caught thanks to modern technology.
	So your Ted Bunnies, Jeffrey Dahmers, John Wayne Gacy's, they probably wouldn't have been able to escape like they would in 2021 back in the 70s.
	So check me out on Fed1811 if you guys like the crime stuff, because I'm definitely not putting on makeup.
	When I give you all the facts.
	Like these other crime narrative channels.
	But yeah, Chris, what about you?
	And ladies, DM me an RNC Pucks on IG. Make sure your page is not privated.
	I want to see photos.
	Don't send me paragraphs.
	And some girl asked me today about what we're doing in March.
	So please let me know what's going on with that.
	And we're good to go.
	All right, cool.
	And we're going to be in Colombia next week.
	Yes, guys, we're going to be in Colombia.
	We're going to be in Medellin or Medellin, however you guys pronounce it.
	Medellin.
	We're going to be there from February 6th to the 11th.
	Going to film some after-hour shows for y'all.
	And then we're going to be in Dubai from the 16th to probably around the 22nd, 23rd.
	So we're going to be filming some content for y'all.
	We got some important stuff that we're going to be doing in Dubai.
	Obviously, for our homies, the Tate brothers, who are innocent.
	What's going on right now in Romania.
	So any collabs you guys want to do, hit us up on the side, on our page, and we got you guys.
	Yeah.
	If you're a YouTuber out in Dubai or in Colombia and you got a decent following, hit us up on Fresh...
	Well, check me out.
	It's Unplugged Fit on Instagram for me or Freshprint CEO. Hit us up on one of those.
	If you have a decent following on YouTube, we'll definitely do a collab with you.
	But we're going there mostly...
	We got some stuff set up.
	After our shows for Columbia and then Dubai, we got some stuff.
	We got to expose some truth for you guys with Andrew Tate case because he's innocent and we definitely want to make sure that we get this information out there to as many people as possible.
	Facts.
	Okay, cool.
	Ladies on the panel, your turn now.
	Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, height, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
	Someone said, do height this time, so just kidding.
	How about you?
	Name, age, what you do for a living, dating status.
	Name, age, what I do for the game.
	It's fine.
	We'll walk you through it.
	What's your name?
	Okay, okay.
	Marciella.
	Okay.
	How old are you?
	25.
	Where are you from?
	Massachusetts.
	What part of Mass?
	Worcester.
	Okay.
	Very familiar.
	I have to pass by Worcester every time.
	Yeah, it's awful.
	Yeah, it sucks.
	Nothing there.
	You guys got WPI. That's a decent school, but that's about it.
	I don't know.
	There's a lot of good schools in Massachusetts.
	You guys got the river there that they do for the regattas.
	Okay.
	And what do you do for work?
	I do OnlyFans and I'm a bottle girl.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I mean, you have voice with everything.
	Okay.
	What's your relationship status?
	Taken.
	Taken?
	How long have you been taken?
	About six months.
	Okay.
	Nice.
	Yeah.
	Fresh.
	You look familiar.
	You look familiar.
	I need to go somewhere.
	Fresh.
	No, no, no.
	Like in the club.
	Oh, yeah.
	I used to dance on the river.
	There you go.
	That's where it is.
	In 2019, I was always over there.
	There you go.
	And what's your highest education level completed?
	GED. GED? Yeah.
	A good enough degree?
	Yeah, I got it in jail actually.
	Oh shit.
	Oh shit.
	What'd you go to jail for?
	Oh, um...
	Yeah, so I actually...
	I ran over my baby dad with the Dodge Durango.
	Holy!
	You just ran his ass off?
	Yeah.
	It was wild.
	Wow.
	He's cool though.
	He's alive.
	He's alive.
	I hope so.
	I was going to say, why you out, man?
	No, man.
	Yeah.
	Nah, it was my first time getting in trouble when I was pregnant, so they took it a little easier on me.
	What the fuck?
	And he was helping me out in court.
	He was going to every court day.
	Wait, what?
	Yeah.
	Stupid.
	Damn.
	And you ain't with him now anymore, huh?
	No, no, no, no, no.
	Definitely not.
	Okay.
	Did you end up taking a plea bargain or what?
	Yeah, I had to plea out.
	I had to plea out five years probation.
	Okay, what'd you plead to?
	So, the deadly weapon?
	Yeah, A&B on a domestic and a sound battery with a motor vehicle.
	Oh, shit, we got felons in the house.
	Shout out to you.
	We got two, bro.
	No, no.
	Maybe three.
	Who knows?
	How many felons we got in the house?
	We got Cena, we got her.
	Okay.
	Goddamn.
	Fantastic.
	Let me write that down.
	This ain't it pro, too.
	I'm like, damn, nigga.
	It's like, yeah, I ran that nigga off.
	I was like, holy!
	Okay.
	You gotta come in.
	All right.
	She just, after she hit his ass, she just went.
	Is Xena brought her too?
	What was that?
	Is Xena brought her?
	That makes sense.
	Xena's criminal network.
	No bullshit.
	Did you and Xena meet in jail?
	Nah, I was locked up in Boston.
	Oh, okay.
	Xena was in the feds.
	Okay.
	Yeah, no, no, no.
	All right.
	What about you?
	That was fantastic.
	What about you?
	My name is Barbara.
	Okay.
	How old are you, Barbara?
	I'm 23.
	Where are you from?
	Miami, Florida.
	Okay.
	Sorry to hear that.
	How tall are you?
	I'm 5'3".
	How tall are you?
	Yeah, how tall are you, by the way?
	Oh, I'm 5'1".
	Okay.
	Makes sense.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But the energy is six foot, you feel me?
	You heard?
	Oh, man.
	Okay.
	And then, what do you do for it?
	I model, as well as nursing.
	Wait, nurse?
	What's coming?
	What's coming?
	Exactly.
	I don't know what it is.
	What's your martial status?
	Single.
	Okay.
	She belongs to the streets!
	Fantastic.
	Highest education level completed?
	She's like, me?
	Excuse me?
	I'm going to college right now.
	You're in college?
	Okay.
	Pursuing your bachelor's degree?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	What are you majoring in?
	Nursing.
	Okay.
	Once again.
	Alright, cool.
	What about you?
	Hello, I'm Maria.
	I'm Maria Rosa.
	I'm from Venezuela.
	How old are you?
	Twenty-two.
	22?
	You're from Venezuela?
	Yeah.
	How long have you lived in Miami?
	Since 2015.
	Oh, you're from Miami.
	Yeah, but I'm a singer, I'm a songwriter, DJ, and I do OnlyFans too.
	Okay, that's what she really does.
	Okay.
	Okay, what's your current status?
	Single relationship, sugar daddy?
	I am single, and I don't have sugar that is.
	You don't?
	Okay.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	I did my high school, but I didn't complete my university.
	But I did a course for cybersecurity and for bartender.
	Nice.
	Okay, so I'll put high school.
	You didn't do any of those.
	What's your height?
	My ID says that I'm 4'11".
	I'm not sure.
	What's your background?
	Who told you?
	Venezuelan.
	Well, my family is from Colombia.
	Okay, I figured.
	But I am Venezuelan.
	I run in Venezuela.
	Okay, cool.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	My name is Vanessa.
	Okay.
	How old are you, Vanessa?
	30.
	Wait, 30?
	Where are you from?
	Yes.
	I do OnlyFans.
	Okay.
	Wait, wait.
	No, where are you from?
	Not what you do.
	Okay.
	OnlyFans.
	I'm from OnlyFans.
	I guess we could say Broward.
	Oh, shit.
	What part of Broward?
	Fort Lauderdale what?
	Pompano.
	Pembert Pines?
	Yeah.
	Pembert Pines?
	Okay.
	Green flag.
	Okay, and you said you do OnlyFans.
	Alright, what's your status?
	I'm in a relationship.
	Okay, how long have y'all been together?
	About four months now.
	It's fresh.
	You know, all the girls are getting wiped up because it's winter time.
	Love it.
	How did y'all meet?
	Through OnlyFans?
	No, I was out in Fort Lauderdale.
	Highest education ever completed?
	High school.
	How tall are you?
	Five foot.
	What about you?
	My name is Carrie, but I go by Cookie.
	Okay, Cookie.
	How old are you?
	I'm 21.
	Alright, where are you from?
	I'm from Florida, but my family's from Cuba.
	Okay, what part of Florida are you from?
	Where'd you go to high school?
	That's debatable.
	Because, I mean, because, like, my family moved around.
	Okay.
	And so, like, I used to live in Washington, I used to live in Nebraska, I used to live in Houston, Texas, all around Florida.
	So I moved around a lot.
	Okay.
	Where did you do most of your high schooling then?
	In Washington.
	Washington State?
	Yep.
	Okay.
	And what do you do for?
	I model and I also do nursing.
	Wait, nurse?
	Yeah.
	Wait, are you a nurse or do nursing?
	Well, I'm a nursing assistant.
	Okay.
	So you're a CNA? Yes.
	Okay.
	And then what is your relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	Single AF? As fuck, yeah.
	Understood.
	Highest education level completed?
	High school?
	No, I actually been to college and did some college, but completed, yes.
	High school.
	High school.
	Hence the question, completed.
	So what's your height?
	I'm 5'3".
	Okay.
	Go ahead, Chris.
	So chat said you're camping by being 21.
	So is that true?
	You're saying you're 21 going on 35.
	I'm reading the chat right now, so.
	Oh, you can say that, but yes, I am 21, but my birthday is in June 21st, and I'm going to be 22 pretty soon, so.
	Okay, all right.
	All right, chat, there you go.
	Chat, y'all niggas.
	All right, what about you?
	What's your name?
	My name is Kime, but I go by Q. Okay.
	I am 24.
	I'm from Uruguay, Uruguay, but I was raised in North Miami.
	Okay, fair flag.
	Okay, so you're from Miami.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm currently in real estate, but I'm not a realer.
	What do you do particularly in real estate?
	I buy and sell houses in 18 different states.
	How many houses do you own?
	20-something.
	No, that you actually own?
	Yes.
	You own 20 houses?
	About that.
	You own?
	Yeah.
	That's great.
	Nice.
	Sensational.
	By yourself or with a partner?
	With a partner.
	Okay.
	Translation.
	Is it a guy?
	No, a woman.
	Hmm.
	Is Airbnb or actually that you own them?
	Actually houses.
	It's a whole...
	We do an assignment, pretty houses, terms.
	It's a whole thing.
	We buy with no money down.
	Wait, you buy them without no money down?
	Yeah.
	It's a whole thing.
	Y'all get VA loans or what?
	Nope.
	We buy houses and assign them.
	It's a whole thing.
	Something's off here.
	Alright.
	Buying houses with no money down.
	Own 12 houses.
	Because I'm a real estate investor and that just sounds fishy to me.
	I ain't gonna lie to you.
	We can talk after this.
	Is it a program?
	It's a whole thing about buying houses.
	You take over the mortgage and you find someone that's a lease purchase buyer.
	And they pay the mortgage and you give them the option to buy.
	Option to buy.
	So they're not buying already to get them from my actual owner.
	It's an assignment form.
	We buy it, and it's our house, but then we find someone else who wants to live in there, so we find the end buyer.
	And they're taking care of it.
	It's a whole other podcast, you know?
	Is it similar to wholesaling?
	Yeah.
	Similar to wholesaling?
	We do that too.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	Yeah, she might be telling the truth.
	We can talk about it.
	It's all legal.
	Okay.
	Alright then.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	Single.
	Okay.
	And what's your highest education level completed?
	I have a bachelor's degree in psychology.
	Okay, from where?
	Florida International University.
	Okay, FIU. Alright, and then height?
	5'2".
	Alright, cool.
	What about you?
	Welcome back.
	Thanks, appreciate it.
	We're ready for that laugh, right?
	We're ready for it, right?
	Okay, so I'm Asia Sky, right?
	You ready?
	Let's do it again.
	Alright.
	Yeah.
	He's your sky.
	All right.
	So I actually am a singer and a pianist.
	Oh God, I remember you now.
	Yeah, you remember me now, right?
	Oh man.
	All right.
	How old are you?
	I'm 30.
	I was waiting for it.
	Okay.
	What else?
	What else?
	I'm 5'7".
	Okay.
	Where are you from?
	I grew up in the UK in the USA. Oh, sorry.
	I grew up in the UK in the USA. Uh-huh.
	Alright, and then what's your status?
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	Height?
	5'7".
	Okay.
	And highest education level completed?
	Associates.
	Okay.
	In?
	Humanities and have general studies.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Did you have something you were trying to say before?
	Oh, yeah.
	I think I said, okay.
	Oh, I'm also COO of a record label with your music group.
	That's all I need.
	Cool.
	You were on the episode with the feminists from last week, if I'm not mistaken, right?
	I believe so.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Fantastic.
	Alright.
	Christ, man.
	What the fuck, man?
	She's flying out next month, I think.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Cheers, mate.
	Alright, it goes, what value would you bring the man of your dreams?
	And that's from Wyatt.
	So, let's go ahead, ladies.
	I'll start here and then work our way this way.
	What value would you bring the man of your dreams?
	One thing.
	Go ahead.
	What do you bring to the table?
	For the man of your dreams.
	For the man of my dreams.
	Okay.
	So what I bring is, I think a lot of guys need a best friend as a woman.
	True?
	That they can just actually open up and be vulnerable in some sort of way.
	Because, you know, men can't be super vulnerable with people, but with the girl that they like, they can.
	Do you think it's smart for them to be vulnerable with a girl that they're with?
	It's not smart if the girl is not worth it.
	If it's just some girl that doesn't really care about them, no.
	Absolutely not.
	But if it's a girl that you really vibe with, and you guys have a mutual understanding, I think that's really important.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	What about you?
	Myself.
	I can't say a man because I'm not heterosexual.
	But I guess with a woman...
	Wait, you're a lesbian?
	Yes.
	Makes sense now.
	Bro, what the fuck, man?
	What the hell did I tell y'all about lesbians, man?
	Goddamn!
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Telling lesbians what?
	Man.
	Wait, who brought you to the show?
	Pixie.
	Pixie.
	All right, Pixie.
	And I did let her know that.
	I mean, look, look.
	We understand that's your choice.
	You've never dealt with a guy ever?
	I have.
	So you're full on lesbian now after doing it?
	Mm-hmm.
	Man, I need to go say anything, man.
	Goddamn, man.
	Okay.
	What, Chris?
	I say, I need to go say anything nowadays.
	All right.
	So I guess, what would you bring, I guess, in a relationship then, in that case?
	To your girl.
	In a relationship, pretty much bringing a support system.
	It's very hard to find somebody who can understand you for who you are, but kind of more so a listening ear and a supportive system.
	Pretty much someone who can hold it down, you know, regardless of what's going on.
	And someone who can pretty much back you up, but also know how to hold you down like a grounding enforcer.
	Someone who can ground you when you're up in the air, regardless of who they may be, a woman or a man.
	Interesting.
	Support.
	Okay.
	Normally I would disagree, but you're talking about women, so y'all have different relationships.
	Right.
	Alright, what about you?
	What would you bring to the table for a man?
	I have really nothing to say.
	Like, personally speaking.
	I mean, so did I. So did I. I'm gonna be honest.
	Like, for real.
	Single AF. Single AF? Period.
	So I just wrote down nothing for you.
	Fantastic.
	Great.
	What about you?
	I am curious, though.
	What if you met a guy that was like, you know what?
	Damn.
	This guy's different.
	He's actually what I really want and I want to be with him.
	What would be one thing you might actually say, you know what?
	I'm gonna give up my, I guess, past and say, you know what?
	I'm gonna give him this.
	Like, Okay.
	Then if it was that way, like, my past relationship, I was, like, always the person to give.
	Like, I'm a gift giver.
	I'm a gift giver.
	Like, I'm willing to, like, give up my last for the person I care about.
	I've always been that way.
	So, like, literally, whatever I have, I will give.
	So if that person makes me happy, does the thing that I need or whatever the case may be, he's getting everything from me.
	Okay.
	Because he's giving me everything.
	But you said you'd bring nothing, which means you probably gave it all away at this point, huh?
	Period.
	But...
	Fair enough.
	What about you?
	What would you bring to the table for a man?
	I guess the guy that you got right now.
	Cooking, cleaning, housewife things.
	Okay.
	Do housewives show their butthole on OnlyFans?
	I do.
	Housewife thinks until OnlyFans comes in.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	I honestly think the day that I'm going to be with someone That person has to let me be wild and free because I am really wild and free.
	So it's the guy that can't keep up with me.
	So I will be understanding to him.
	Can you describe wild and free?
	Because that's a very broad term.
	Long and wild and free.
	Does it mean being a hoe?
	Let's just be honest here.
	Does it mean going out there and fucking a bunch of dudes and being openly sexual or promiscuous?
	Is that what it means?
	No, but, like, I don't want an insecure guy.
	I want to be...
	Honestly, I have my gang with my best friends.
	We all run around, make it, like, having fun.
	And, you know, like, that's what we do.
	So I don't want to have a relationship.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So let me ask you a question.
	So you want to be young, wild, and free.
	So do you want a man eventually?
	Yeah.
	I will.
	Of course.
	But only if we don't judge each other.
	Because I'm not going to judge you if you see that girl with different eyes.
	I know that you probably like her.
	I can like him.
	Because he's cute.
	Everyone is cute.
	Everyone is attractive.
	But at the end of the day, I will be with you, sleeping with you, no matter what.
	That's the person I want.
	No matter what.
	I can see your red flags and still take it.
	Hold on.
	Let me get it straight.
	For you, you won't cheat on him, but he can cheat.
	That's what you're saying.
	We can both cheat.
	What is that?
	Okay, never mind.
	What is that?
	Not even cheating.
	Like, do whatever the fuck you want.
	Like, if you love him, let him free.
	If he come back, he's yours.
	Yeah, but what if he wants to have sex with other girls and come back to you?
	Would you be okay with that?
	Yeah.
	Okay, but you have to be close on your end.
	Would you be okay with that?
	I will never be close because I love women.
	Okay, but close with men.
	What other men?
	No, only like, I can probably give another man kisses and, you know, this like that.
	But nothing more.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Do you want a man that makes money, that's successful?
	I can make my own money.
	Realistically speaking, do you want a guy that makes more money than you, preferably?
	Probably, yeah, yeah.
	Do you want a guy that's taller than you?
	Yeah, of course.
	Do you want a guy that's like charming and charismatic?
	Why not?
	Okay.
	So you do realize that this man is probably going to have boundaries and rules if you're in a relationship with him, right?
	He will only want me for him only.
	But at the end of the day, he will look other girls.
	He will text other girls.
	So it's the same.
	It's not the same.
	No.
	If he fucks a bunch of girls, he has value.
	If you fuck a bunch of dudes, you lose value.
	Yeah, but he will never know.
	Shut the fuck up!
	I will only be with someone that's the same as me.
	I will only be with someone that's the same as me.
	Someone in the chat said she'd be drinking four locals.
	Yeah, you're right, bro.
	She looked like somebody that drinks four locals.
	Latin kings.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What'd you bring to the table for your dream man?
	What'd you bring?
	Honestly, I would Just like my sister said, I would give everything.
	Oh, y'all are related?
	Yeah, we're twins.
	Wait, she actually said she would give nothing.
	No.
	Okay.
	I said I would give everything.
	If that is my dream, man...
	So you still have something to give unlike her?
	Hey, don't be disrespectful.
	She literally said, I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I had nothing in my head at the time.
	Me, personally, me speaking, I said, honestly, if it was my dream man and he was everything I asked for, that I asked God for, I would give everything to him.
	Alright.
	But you can't describe it particularly.
	What do you mean?
	Something tangible.
	Something of what you would do.
	Well, if he needed, let's say, if he needed money, I would give it.
	If he needed a home-cooked meal, I would give it.
	If he needed his house cleaned, I would give it.
	If he needed me to run some errands for him, I would give it.
	If he needed help with whatever, I would give it.
	So whatever he needs.
	Yeah.
	You got a point?
	What's a dream man?
	That's for you to decide.
	The guy that you actually want.
	What's a dream man for a woman?
	Like for you?
	It's all different.
	They do piensa.
	Wait, you know Spanish?
	Yeah.
	It's Cuban.
	There you go.
	Wait, hold on.
	Fresh.
	What do you think?
	Twin nurses.
	Yeah.
	Today is mom's birthday, so.
	Yes, sir!
	Oh.
	Yes, sir!
	No.
	Yes, sir!
	It's a birthday, bro.
	Yeah, it's a birthday, man.
	It's a twin.
	Yes, sir!
	Yeah!
	Oh, my God.
	You guys need to grow up.
	Mature.
	Mature bastards.
	Chris, man.
	City boys, me up.
	City boys, me up.
	Come on, Marlon.
	City boys, me up.
	What's that?
	Shout out to Fresh and Fit for saving lives out here.
	Grew up without a father and learned from this podcast last nine months more than having 100 fathers keep up the good work and happy business.
	We got you, man.
	We're the big brothers that you guys don't have.
	Let you guys know what it takes to become attractive in all facets, whether it's money, girls, getting in shape, etc.
	You were saying something before?
	Go ahead.
	What's the dream, man?
	Probably my dream man is someone similar, like me, that I can connect with.
	Not too different.
	Like probably if I sing, he sings too.
	If I write, he has to write.
	So we have the same like dreams, so we can actually match.
	That will be my dream guy.
	Okay, good to know.
	What about you?
	I like to believe that I provide a nurturing...
	Injuries?
	Sorry, my bad.
	Battle scars?
	No, so that was an example of what a relationship should not be, which was a really good experience, and I learned...
	A lot of lessons.
	And I learned a lot of lessons during that experience.
	But in regards to me, who I am now, I like to believe that I offer a really nurturing environment for the man.
	So that means, obviously, like, Agreeing with you and the house duties always having you know food and a clean house and offering more of a peaceful environment for him to be able to come home to because I understand that life in general for everyone but especially for men because there's a lot of like weight on you guys's shoulder that it's important to have an escape when you're home.
	I'm curious for your current man what do you give to him?
	Just that.
	I think I nurture him very well.
	Whatever I think in the home, it's like, that's what I focus on most in providing just a very relaxing, calming, open, So you don't nag him?
	No.
	You don't bother him?
	The only thing, so no, like, I'm really cool with a lot of things.
	Like, I've walked in on him watching porn, whacking his shit, whatever.
	Like, I'm okay with that because I understand it's fine.
	But I'm not, like, I'm a little, I like to believe I'm a little bit open-minded, but that's because of what I learned from my first relationship.
	My first relationship, I used to nag a lot.
	And I think that was, and if I'm taking responsibility on my mistakes in that relationship...
	That is probably where I flawed a little bit, where, like you also said, or no, you did, in regards to leaving a little bit of an openness for a man so he can feel comfortable.
	There's something I've always learned that when you know you can't do something, that's when you want to do it even more.
	If your man was caught smashing a girl...
	He's done.
	He's done.
	Finito.
	Over with.
	He's jerking out though.
	Oh, I thought you said fuck.
	No, no, no.
	I'm saying he's smashing a girl in the house.
	Smashing another female?
	Yeah, yeah.
	In my house?
	Yeah.
	Oh, wait, he lives with you?
	Yeah, we live together.
	But who owns the house?
	We moved into an apartment together.
	Okay.
	Both names on natural lease?
	Yep.
	Who pays the bills?
	He does.
	He pays all the bills?
	Yeah.
	You don't pay any of the living expenses?
	No, I mean, in a situation where sometimes he has bad weeks or whatever, a bad month, that's when I think it's fair for me to come in and pick up the slack because it's a team effort.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I don't expect you to always be up.
	So he pays maybe 10 or 11 months out of the year?
	Well, we've been together for like six months.
	Okay, but yeah, yeah, yeah.
	If I was to extrapolate over a long period of time.
	He's the one who takes care of it, which I like because then I'm able to be in my feminine state and be able to provide that nurturing environment that he needs.
	Let me ask you a question though.
	From a more literal sense, what is the difference between you catching him whacking it off to a chick on the internet versus him fucking another chick?
	I think that sex is a very serious thing and it's not expressed enough in today's age what it does spiritually to you.
	I think that...
	Hold on, let me stop real quick.
	Notice how you said you think it affects you spiritually, whatever.
	Yeah.
	What if I told you for men it's not the same?
	Yeah, I agree because you guys aren't the one who's, you guys are putting something in someone else.
	For us, it's different because someone is devouring us.
	So wouldn't it be fair to say that you're looking at sex from a female standpoint and not a male standpoint and using your female logic to go ahead and attribute it to him as a man when it doesn't affect them the same way?
	Yep, maybe.
	But I think I personally, I'm a little bit jealous.
	I like to believe I'm open-minded in regards to fantasies and stuff.
	But when it comes to physically, I think I provide enough that he shouldn't.
	He should be satisfied?
	He should be satisfied.
	I have a very high sex drive.
	Should and could isn't good enough.
	We operate on what is, and you're never going to sexually satisfy a guy by yourself.
	Right.
	Maybe not.
	Men like variety, and unfortunately, you're not a blonde-haired, blue-eyed bimbo.
	You might want that on a Wednesday.
	Maybe, yeah.
	So, realistically speaking, knowing this, can you really get mad at him?
	For what?
	If you were to see him with another chick?
	Because you didn't have a problem with him whacking off to porn.
	And I look at it like a dude whacking off to porn versus having sex with another girl.
	The only difference is one guy is able to actually physically do it versus another guy might not be able to.
	He's doing action.
	So it's the same exact thing.
	I honestly don't look at it any differently from a male sense because it's the same exact thing.
	Men want variety.
	So would he still be finito?
	If he was fucking someone else, yeah, I mean, I'm understanding to the point where you have your life, you can do that, but it's up to me to decide if I want to be a part of that.
	Okay.
	And I personally wouldn't accept that.
	Okay.
	And that's it.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Interesting.
	All right.
	Let's see here.
	Where are we at here, Chris?
	Welcome back, fellas.
	I just got done watching the Courtney Clenney case, the OF model who killed her boyfriend.
	Would you cover this case?
	It's a perfect example of what you guys teach.
	Yes, I will cover the Courtney Clenney case.
	I'll also cover the...
	Damn, I forgot the guy's name.
	The dude in Orlando that killed his family because of a webcam girl.
	Someone's going to give the name in here.
	I just completely forgot.
	Random commentary.
	Real Fit Lifestyle.
	Thank you so much.
	Welcome back, fellas.
	Chris, when that name comes up, let me know on the chat.
	Welcome back, fellas.
	Question for the Angry Beavers.
	Number one, name three countries besides North America.
	Two, which body type for your husband?
	A muscle bod or dad bod?
	And then three, if you have a beta male friend that you ask to help him score a chick he liked, how would you help him?
	Okay.
	Let's start with...
	Did the name come up?
	Someone in the chat I know put it in there for a fact.
	The dude that killed his family over a webcam girl.
	Someone said Destiny.
	Someone said Destiny.
	Nah, bro.
	It's a Hispanic last name.
	I forget the...
	Damn it.
	Okay.
	Worcester?
	Yeah.
	No.
	No.
	Worcester.
	That's where she's from.
	Worcester.
	Yeah.
	Someone said stop saying the N-word Arab.
	Fuck you, Dave Thomas, you faggot.
	Oh, my bad.
	We gotta get off Twitch.
	We gotta get off Twitch and Twitter and everywhere else.
	Come on over to YouTube, ninjas.
	Come on over to YouTube, bro.
	Friends are fit, man.
	Bro, it's because these dudes are stupid, bro.
	My family's from Sudan, bro.
	Sudan literally means the land of the blacks.
	What the hell are you talking about?
	Don't read the chat.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Whatever.
	Grant Amato.
	There we go.
	Bam.
	It was Grant Amato.
	Yeah.
	I'll be covering Grant Amato and I'll cover Courtney Clenney.
	All right.
	So let's start with the first one.
	Ladies, name three countries besides United States, Mexico and Canada.
	And you can't name whatever she names.
	So whatever she says, you can't repeat.
	Go ahead.
	Start.
	Angola, Bolivia, Brazil.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	Turkey, Cuba, and Jamaica.
	Make a chicken sound, bro.
	What about you?
	Venezuela, Europa, and Colombia.
	What was the second one?
	Colombia?
	No.
	Europa?
	Europe?
	Oh, Europe?
	Alright, fantastic.
	Yeah, that's a continent.
	Stupid!
	What about you?
	Um, Greek, Czech Republic, and Italy?
	Greek?
	Greece, Greek, whatever.
	Okay.
	We'll give it to you.
	What about you?
	China, Japan, and...
	Did you call it Gipan?
	No, Japan.
	Okay.
	You sound like Gipan.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	Uruguay, Morocco, and Egypt.
	Nice.
	What about you?
	Belgium, Germany, Morocco.
	Well, no, she named Morocco.
	One more.
	Oh, shit.
	Egypt.
	She named Egypt.
	Fuck.
	United Kingdom.
	Okay.
	She said Europe.
	Yeah, she said Europe.
	Europe and United Kingdom aren't the same thing.
	You said Europe and United Kingdom are the same thing?
	They're not.
	We know that.
	Which body type for your husband, ladies?
	Muscle bod or dad bod?
	We can start here and then work our way.
	In shape or dad bod?
	Go ahead.
	What do you prefer for your husband?
	In shape.
	Alright, what about you?
	In shape.
	Okay.
	I guess even though she likes chicks.
	Same thing.
	What about you?
	Can I get a little bit in the middle?
	What is the middle?
	Oh, so you mean like...
	You can have like a...
	He's fabletic.
	Yeah!
	So he's flabby but athletic.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Prefer in shape.
	I'll take both.
	Okay.
	Prefer in shape, though.
	Is your guy that you're with right now in shape?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Nice.
	What about you?
	What do you prefer?
	In shape?
	Or...
	That body.
	That body?
	Really?
	So she can run wild and free.
	He won't be able to catch her.
	I'm out here in these streets and you can't stop me.
	Literally.
	They fuck better.
	He just fucks better.
	The guy in shape likes to...
	What?
	I will say this though.
	When you have a gut, the stored energy from your gut gives you power to like push through.
	You know from experience?
	I know from experience.
	Fresh bod.
	Back in the day.
	Back in the day.
	What about you?
	Muscle, yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Dad bod.
	Is the guy you're with has a dad bod?
	No.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	And then, third one here.
	If you have a beta male friend that asks you help to squirt...
	Okay.
	Let's say you got a guy that's really bad with girls.
	What would you do to help him get a girl?
	Start right here and then work our way.
	What would you do?
	I'm not Cupid.
	I'm not helping you out.
	Okay.
	Suffer, nigga.
	That's your problem.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Well, I could just introduce you to the female, but if you can't land the female, that's on you, bro.
	How would you do it?
	Well, I would go to the girl, the woman, and I would be like, hey, blah, blah, blah, so-and-so, and then I... Walk us through it.
	Step by step.
	You compliment her.
	Then you tell her she has a nice smile.
	Then you go on about a random topic.
	And then casually you come in and I'll be like, oh, this is my friend so-and-so.
	He also likes whatever you said you liked.
	So start talking.
	Does that work?
	Yeah.
	That's how you introduce people.
	I know, but does that actually lead to anything?
	Well, that's on him to actually follow through, not my job.
	It's like that quote, you can bring the horse to the river, but you can't let you drink it.
	You know what I'm saying?
	What if the water doesn't want to be drank?
	Fuck it.
	Then you brought it to the wrong river.
	I mean...
	You're drunk in that case.
	You can shut the water in the horse's throat, though.
	Yeah, all right.
	Oh, that's...
	No, that's...
	Wait, what?
	You can throw the water in my throat.
	Get some of it.
	All right.
	I'm just saying.
	All right.
	What would you do if you have a guy friend that's really bad with girls?
	How would you help him get girls?
	I will tell him to get her something she likes or something she likes to eat.
	So feed her?
	So take her to a restaurant?
	Give her something?
	No.
	Actually, that's not a good idea.
	No.
	Okay.
	I don't know what to say.
	You don't know what to say?
	No.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	I would probably just say so-and-so thinks you're cute and let him do the rest.
	So you would go ahead and give his hand like that and let the girl know that he thinks she's cute?
	Well, yeah, because why do I even have to go up in the first place?
	He needs your help, though.
	He's shy.
	He's shy.
	So-and-so thinks you're cute.
	Wow.
	This question is actually very, very telling.
	What about you?
	What would you do?
	I mean, like, I'll just toss him up.
	Like, tell him what it is.
	Like, hey, this is my friend.
	He's this.
	He's a billionaire.
	I wouldn't lie like that.
	I mean, if you do, he do.
	If you don't, he don't.
	But it's mainly like, you got to hype up your friend.
	You got to be like, this is my friend.
	He look like this.
	He do this.
	You feel me?
	Just present him.
	He woke up like this.
	So wait, you're gonna bring him in and you're gonna like show him up like a car in front of the girl?
	Hey, this is him?
	I mean...
	Blah, blah, blah?
	You're asking how I would present my friend to like someone that he's interested in.
	Yeah, but would he be there or would you do it like without her there?
	I mean, he would be there.
	Oh, so you would literally just show him off in front of her.
	Hey, this is my friend.
	Look, he does this and that.
	This car has a thousand miles on it.
	This is your model.
	Oh my God.
	You got to be straight and forward.
	Straight and forward is the best option.
	So if you're there, do it.
	If you're not going to do it, then don't bother asking.
	Do you think women can handle the truth?
	What?
	You think women handle the truth well?
	I mean, you're asking how, like, give my friends...
	Because you're saying be straightforward, which means be truthful.
	Do you think women handle the truth well?
	I mean, it's 50-50.
	It depends on the person.
	Me, personally, like, I can't...
	So if it's a 50% chance of failure, wouldn't it be a bad idea, to be honest?
	I mean, is honesty the best policy?
	But if your goal is to get laid, you're trying to get your guy laid.
	That's his job.
	He's trying to get laid.
	I can only do so far.
	You're saying be honest.
	Yeah, I'm being honest.
	Being honest has nothing to do with me.
	I'm trying to get my friend laid.
	But I see what you're saying.
	I can't believe that this is not sinking in yet.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	Let's say you have a guy friend that is struggling with girls.
	What would you do?
	All right.
	Based on Bass's experience, I guess, pretty much is, all right, see the girl that he's eyeing or checking out, and then I will do my part to, all right, find out what it is that she's doing, go up to her and do my little thing, like find out who she is, find out what her little hot spots are, who she's with.
	Okay.
	Kind of like go up to her, a little flirt, do a little cute thing.
	Wait, you'll flirt with her?
	Right.
	I love it.
	The job isn't to get you late, though.
	No, no.
	I'm trying to get there.
	It's kind of like flirt to see what kind of energy she gives back.
	So I'll bring that information back to my boy.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that if she's heterosexual, she probably won't give you a good reciprocation back?
	Should I get away from me, Lesbo?
	I'm not trying to fuck her.
	It's kind of on a friendly vibe.
	But you're not a girl.
	If you're in a club with girls and you're like, damn, you look good, blah, blah, blah.
	She'll be like, damn, girl, you look good too, blah, blah, blah, whatever.
	So it's like, all right, I'm trying to see what type of time she on.
	If she being a dickhead, then I'm going to be like, you know, fuck her.
	But at the end of the day, if she giving me- But she might just not like girls.
	But I'm not giving that girl on girl vibe.
	If she giving me a fucked up vibe, then I'm going to tell my boy straight up.
	Damn.
	I'm going to tell my boy straight up.
	She giving me a fucked up vibe.
	She an asshole.
	You going to choose for him?
	What?
	He's trying to smash.
	No, what I'm doing is going up to her and getting the information.
	If she's easygoing, if she's friendly, if she's giving me some rapport, then I'm going to go back and be like, alright.
	But you are aware that there's a considerable amount of women that don't like other girls touching them or messing with them.
	They hate girls.
	I'm not touching them or messing with them.
	You're saying, oh my god, girl, you're cute, blah, blah, blah.
	And you're kind of using that as a test.
	I'm just challenging your theory here.
	You're saying, oh, I'm going to go up to her.
	I'm going to touch her.
	I'm going to flirt with her a little bit.
	I didn't say I was going to touch her.
	What I'm saying is, I'm going to mingle.
	You literally explained earlier, like, oh, girl, you're so cute, blah, blah, blah.
	I'm going to mingle.
	Whatever that looks like in that environment, in that scenario, I'm going to mingle with her.
	I'm going to see what kind of energy she gives me.
	If it's very standoffish, then it's like, you don't want nobody bothering you.
	But I'm going to let my boy know she was acting like this.
	Just letting you know.
	But if she was kind of open, like friendly and you know, whatever, then I'm going to come back and be like, yo, her energy was good, whatever, you should come up to her.
	If she's giving me that I'm outside vibe, then what's up?
	That's my boy.
	He outside, you outside, we outside together.
	But if she's not giving that, then it's kind of like, I'm gonna go tell him that he gonna decide what he gonna do.
	Are you taking notes?
	I see what you're saying, but it's just interesting because there are a good amount of girls that just don't like women.
	So they might respond negatively to you, but if your homeboy went up, they would be interested is what I'm trying to say.
	So it's kind of like a faulty test because you go up and you try to be friendly and flirt a little bit and they're like, bitch, get away from me.
	I don't like girls because there's a good amount of women that don't like women.
	Yeah.
	That's very true, but based on my experience being a woman, not only just being a woman who likes women, being a woman who has been in the scene with other straight women and straight men, being that person who is...
	I'm very energetic.
	I'm a very much hype man.
	Oh, you gonna shake that ass, drink, whatever it is.
	I'm gonna...
	Be respectful.
	I'm also going to know how to come up to her.
	It's not going to be on some rah-rah shit like, oh, what's that?
	Nah.
	It's going to be like, all right, I'm going to approach you.
	I'm going to watch you before I approach you because I'm a visual learner.
	I'm going to watch you.
	I'm going to see how you're moving and what you're doing.
	When I see that, then I'm going to approach correct and I'm going to come correct.
	All right.
	What about you?
	So I'm actually going through this with one of my dogs right now.
	So he can't get a woman, like period.
	Wait, your dog?
	He's like my D-A-W-G, my dog.
	Have you and him ever hooked up before?
	Fuck no.
	Completely friend-zoned, but that's my dog.
	So, you know, I'm going to try to, you know, coach him if possible on how to get a woman.
	He got divorced.
	He's, you know, has a problem banging girls and he doesn't fucking listen to me.
	So this is what I keep telling him and he doesn't fucking do it.
	Let's see.
	You have to at least get yourself confident enough to even talk to a woman.
	If there's something in the back of your mind going, like, I don't have enough money, I'm too fat, I'm too this, or I need to do this, or I need to work on that, it's not likely for you to get a woman.
	Or you can, it's just the quality of a woman is not going to be that good.
	Also, you have to pay attention to the environment where you find your women.
	Obviously, if you go to a strip club, you're just going to get fucked.
	That girl really just wants you for your money, truthfully.
	That's cool if you're into that.
	I would just try to say, if you're trying to look for a higher quality woman, look for someone that's trying to further their education.
	I would say even at college campuses.
	We're not talking about what to look for.
	We're talking about what should you do to get girls.
	Stay focused.
	That's what I'm doing.
	I'm telling him what he should do.
	I'm telling him where to look.
	What would you do to help him though?
	So what I could do to help him is, you know, I guess he can just figure out exactly what it is that's holding him back within himself so that he can be confident enough because that's really what it is.
	Well, to be fair, it sounds like...
	To be fair to her, Chris, this is bullshit advice.
	Yes, sir!
	Yes, sir!
	Okay, that's fair.
	I mean, saying just be confident is much easier said than done.
	Yeah, I know.
	You have to work on it.
	It's not like it's going to happen overnight at all, period.
	Interesting.
	No offense, but this experiment really proved kind of what we've always said.
	I tweeted about this yesterday.
	I said, don't ask a fish how to fish.
	You have to ask the fishermen.
	Most women are grossly unaware of what it takes to be attractive to women as a man, right?
	You might know how to flirt as a girl.
	You might know what girls like as a girl.
	But in general, women don't understand that when they interact with a man, it's a much...
	Different dynamic and there's certain unwritten rules that you as a man have to abide by to be attractive to women that girls might not necessarily do, right?
	I mean, you said you're a lesbian.
	Do you guys split the bills in half or who's the breadwinner?
	Whoever.
	It just depends on the relationship and what we're doing.
	Okay.
	See how it's more fluid with your situation?
	In a male-female dynamic, the man should be the breadwinner for it to actually work out.
	What I've noticed with bisexual women that are lesbian a lot of times is women don't hold other women to the same standard when they're in a relationship with a woman.
	However, they will hold the man to a standard.
	For example, you go out on a lesbian date, cool, we can split this date half and half.
	You are not going to accept that from a man, though, a lot of the times.
	So, men have to bring something to the table, mandatory-wise, versus, like, with girls, if you're dating another girl, it's kind of like, eh, it's elective if they have to bring something to the table.
	That's what I've realized.
	So, yeah, no offense, but ladies, y'all all give trash advice.
	Okay!
	Or no advice at all.
	They're like, that's your problem, motherfucker.
	That's really...
	Ladies, would you rather be courtside looking good at an NBA game or a WNBA game?
	I already know the answer, so why wouldn't you support the ladies?
	I don't fucking care.
	You don't care about what?
	I don't care.
	Either one.
	I'll go to either one.
	I don't give a fuck.
	You don't go to a WNBA game.
	Okay.
	Have any of you been to a WNBA game?
	You've been there?
	No.
	Have any of you guys been to an NBA game?
	Yep.
	No.
	There you go.
	Yes, we have.
	At least some have.
	It wasn't an NBA game.
	What was it then?
	It was when my family was struggling.
	It was like an event.
	It was Rick Ross' team versus the owner of Nike's team.
	Celebrity basketball game?
	Yeah.
	It was like in Miami Heat Stadium.
	It was the whole thing.
	Alright, ladies.
	What's more attractive?
	A 31-year-old man that's inexperienced and makes 50k a year or a 21-year-old man that's experienced and makes 100k a year?
	The key word is experienced.
	If they would have switched the inexperience to the 21-year-old, you know, then it would be that.
	So in this case, you'll take the 21-year-old?
	Because of the word experienced.
	Even though he's nine years younger than you?
	Are you kidding me?
	Okay.
	So you'll date a guy younger than you.
	Is that the same across the board here?
	Yeah.
	Y'all will take the 21-year-old?
	No.
	No, you'll prefer the 31-year-old?
	Okay.
	Why the 31-year-old over the 21-year-old?
	I don't date men younger than me.
	Okay.
	He's inexperienced, though.
	Is there a reason for that?
	The inexperience, it doesn't matter.
	You can learn.
	Hold on.
	He's 30 years old.
	He's still a kid.
	You going to train him?
	What?
	No, no.
	He's inexperienced.
	Wait, inexperienced?
	So you're saying age is a factor, right?
	By this example, he's inexperienced.
	Which means he's not very developed in that way.
	What do you mean?
	The 21-year-old has more experience than the 31-year-old.
	Would you take the 31-year-old because he's older?
	Do you care about the age being a thing or do you care about what they have to offer and what they know as far as wisdom?
	Because a 31-year-old can't always have wisdom.
	Because isn't that why you say you don't date guys younger?
	Because of maturity?
	They're using experience as in mindset.
	No, I don't date younger because you just never know.
	If someone were to message me today and be like, oh, I'm 21, I don't trust it.
	Okay, cool.
	I just don't trust it.
	Alright, we got here with Deshaun Watson.
	I don't know where we at.
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	Okay, ladies, what makes you different from other girls?
	We'll start here and then work our way back this way.
	What makes you different from other girls?
	Go ahead.
	I like to believe that...
	You run niggas over.
	So actually, yes, what kind of connects to that?
	I think that from the experience, not specifically, but from the experience that I have had, I think that I have a little bit more...
	Maturity a little bit experience and like in one way open-mindedness because I've been through it before and I've I've learned a few lessons many So I like to believe that yeah maturity I think so you think you what you're different from other girls is you're more mature and open-minded I think so yeah But you have issue with your guy having other girls Yeah, I would like a closed relationship.
	I wouldn't personally want an open relationship.
	But isn't being open-minded being aware of what the opposite person wants?
	Yeah, for sure.
	So you're open-minded until it compromises your feelings.
	So open-minded, but I have my limits as well of what I want and what I don't want.
	And open-minded in a ways, I'm saying like, I understand everyone has their own path.
	You do what you want and what is best for you.
	And in that meantime, you're making that choice and it disrespects what I personally want for myself, then I'll exclude myself from the situation because it's not what I personally want for me.
	So is your man like a traditional man?
	I don't know.
	He's Brazilian.
	Well, okay.
	What I mean by traditional is it looks like he's the breadwinner.
	He pays for everything, takes care of you.
	You live with him.
	Provides and protects.
	And does everything, I guess, I'm assuming since you guys are in a relationship, he probably makes you happy, satisfies a bunch of the masculine stuff that he's supposed to.
	And he gives you a monogamous relationship.
	Okay.
	And you said you're open-minded, but wouldn't it be fair to say that you're not necessarily...
	Yeah, not too open-minded.
	I wouldn't say...
	You're not necessarily a traditional woman, though.
	On the other end, you're on OnlyFans, you're a bottle girl.
	Right.
	So he's very open-minded, it seems, but I don't know if you're as open-minded on your end for him.
	Right.
	So in regards to the OnlyFans, he...
	Since I've been in the relationship, we...
	I definitely haven't made much content...
	But any content that I did make, it had to do with him and he's involved in the part of OnlyFans that it involves communication with other people as well.
	So he's aware of what's going on and it's just him that I do content with when I do do it.
	Is he in the videos?
	He is.
	But it is something that I don't plan on doing for much longer.
	It's something that I'm definitely transitioning out of.
	No, I'm just saying, like, because I just find it interesting because, like, you say you're open-minded.
	He's very open-minded for accepting that from you.
	He is, for sure.
	But if he wanted to, you know, exercise options with other girls, you wouldn't be open to that, which I thought was interesting.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What makes you different from all the other girls?
	Well, I'm me.
	That's it.
	Yeah.
	Fantastic!
	Let me write that down.
	I am me.
	Okay, what about you?
	Probably that I am a singer and I can write songs in seconds.
	Can you sing right now?
	Yeah.
	Let's hear something real quick.
	Yeah, I can sing.
	Yeah, go.
	Okay.
	Oh, no.
	I don't know why.
	You break my heart.
	You leave me.
	Wait.
	I don't know why you're so close to me and you're still lying.
	Yeah.
	Basically.
	Okay.
	What the fuck?
	That was trash.
	Anyway.
	Okay, what about you?
	What makes you different from other girls?
	I would say I'm probably not as toxic as most girls are.
	A little emotionally intelligent.
	Okay.
	Give us an example of where you were able to exercise restraint in a time where most of the girls would have exploded.
	Well, my current relationship, I haven't had no issues like that where I had to...
	Y'all only been together for like four months, though.
	Exactly.
	So I'm saying...
	And I just started being a little more emotionally intelligent.
	Oh, so that's what set you apart.
	So you were crazy before.
	No, yes, I was.
	Okay.
	So you think what sets you apart is that you're...
	Learning.
	More emotionally intelligent now.
	Right.
	Right.
	Would it be fair to say that most girls at your age group, though, at 30 years old can also say that because they're experienced and went through it?
	So it doesn't really set you apart at all?
	Maybe for some, but I don't think all.
	I think there's people dying that are still toxic as fuck.
	Well, no, that's true.
	That's true.
	But what I have realized is, because we've interviewed 1,900 women on this show now at this point, there's a stark contrast between women in their 20s and girls that are in their 30s on the panel.
	A lot of the times, girls on the panel that are older in their 30s typically understand our talking points a lot better than the younger girls.
	We tell them things along the lines of, find a man now when you're young and beautiful, don't believe in feminism, a career isn't going to satisfy you to the same degree as a man and children, etc.
	The older women tend to...
	I guess identify with that a lot better because they made those same mistakes versus the younger girls.
	Like, oh, you can't tell me nothing.
	So in saying that, the question is, what makes you special or different from the other girls?
	You're saying you're not as toxic anymore, but I would argue women in your age group, a lot of them are less toxic because of their experience.
	Anything else?
	Basically, you're old.
	I didn't say that.
	I said anything.
	Is there anything else that makes you unique?
	Because girls in your age group, a lot of them are less toxic than they used to be.
	Okay, then to put it more simply, I have blue eyes.
	I feel like that's a little different.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Well, what I feel that sets me apart is like, personally, like, I'm a very nonchalant person.
	And, like, I let people express who they are.
	And, like, I just feel like I just don't...
	How to come about this.
	Um...
	You let people be who they really are.
	Yeah, I let people express who they are.
	I don't judge.
	I'm very nonchalant.
	And I just feel like personally, like, what I bring to, like, how, like, I can't even bring up my words.
	It's just mostly, like, just point blank simple is, like, just.
	You ain't shit.
	I'm paraphrasing here because you're not talking.
	I'm paraphrasing for you because you're not talking right now.
	No, I'm horrible.
	I explained shit for real, for real, for real.
	But, like, just honestly speaking, like, I ain't shit.
	I just ain't shit.
	You're right.
	I ain't shit.
	Hey, niggas like that sometimes.
	I ain't shit.
	Bro, you are.
	What the fuck you mean?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You're the best thing in the world.
	Like, you have the power of creation.
	He can come on you, but still, he's not gonna do nothing.
	You can create.
	Wait, what?
	No, listen, listen, listen.
	Hey, yo.
	No, go ahead.
	Finish your point.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Finish what you're saying.
	He can come on you, but he's not in you?
	Yeah, that's why the sex affects, like, spiritually a girl.
	Because you have the power of creation on you.
	So if another guy comes with his energy, he can, like, fuck you up.
	You know, you feel, like, confused.
	Like, this is not the energy I should be receiving.
	Like, it really affects a woman.
	Alright, okay.
	Let's think.
	Alright, so you, I wrote here, ancient and nonchalant.
	Period.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	What sets you apart from other girls?
	I think what sets me apart is my essence.
	Okay, describe essence for us.
	Kind of my ability to create space for others and create kind of an understanding to accept other people's consciousness and to adapt, my adaptability.
	I like that.
	Have you ever had a dream that you had?
	Can you give us a more clear cut?
	Because I don't want to sound like an asshole, but that's a typical female word silent response.
	No one knows what the hell you meant by that.
	Can you tell us exactly what that is?
	Because my essence is in a very ambiguous term.
	Yeah, that says a lot about you.
	I'm confused.
	Can you be a little bit more direct?
	Your essence is your essence.
	It's what you hold.
	It's what you present.
	It's what you put out into the world.
	Describe to us your essence in particular.
	The three E's.
	Essence, energy, evolution.
	Essence is my essence.
	It's my presence.
	It's what I have as my energy.
	It's how I hold.
	It's what I have in my ether.
	How I walk up to you.
	You're going to feel it as soon as I walk up to you.
	Energy.
	Feel like a boner?
	Maybe.
	A boner?
	That too.
	If you feel a boner, that's not you.
	Alright.
	This is a very revealing question as well.
	Holy.
	Okay, what about you?
	What sets you apart from the other girls?
	Well, Actually, I don't have a lot of baggage.
	I can just be straight up with the guy, and we can talk about anything pretty much openly, honestly.
	Appreciate it.
	And a cool thing, I play piano really well.
	I sing.
	I engineer as well, as far as music goes.
	So, I don't know, I have some pretty cool talents.
	And I fucking cook.
	You sing too?
	Hell yeah.
	I gotta ask.
	Can you say something?
	Baby, I just don't know how to describe how lovely you make me feel inside.
	You give me butterflies.
	Got me flying so high in the sky.
	I can't control the butterflies.
	I can't really hear on this headphones.
	That's actually not bad.
	Okay, chat.
	I'm curious.
	Who did it better?
	Her or her?
	Niggas putting L fresh in the chat.
	Don't put me on the spot like that.
	Like, that is not a good thing to do because everyone has your D. You have your D free.
	Somebody's upset.
	It's because of me.
	I know what it brings to the table.
	Don't worry, y'all.
	I'm sure.
	Yeah.
	I don't care.
	I don't care what anyone says about me.
	Yeah, of course, man.
	Tits and ass, too.
	Bro, could you imagine if dudes could walk around and just say, oh yeah, I ain't shit.
	I bring nonchalantness to the table.
	I bring essence.
	I can play the piano.
	I'm open-minded.
	I'm me.
	Like, yo.
	Entertainment, man.
	No offense, ladies, but like, yo, you guys gave some bullshit-ass answers.
	Well, what's a good answer?
	Well, here's the thing.
	What I mean by that...
	Listen, listen, that exercise basically described that women really don't have to bring much to the table to attract the opposite gender, versus men have to.
	Like, could you imagine if I walked around and told girls, yeah, I'm me.
	And like, no girls gonna fuck with me, I'm me.
	You know, they try that.
	They try that, though.
	Like, what?
	Or, yo, my essence.
	Yes, sir!
	Or, if I went into a chicken trailer straight up.
	Yo, I ain't shit.
	I'm nonchalant.
	Like, it's always crazy when women say stupid shit, right?
	Take that stupid shit they say and put it on a man and you see how ludicrous it sounds.
	Like, girls literally get away with being useless.
	She gave you a chance, bro.
	No chance at all.
	And here's the funny part.
	If I walked up and I said all these things to a bad bitch, she wouldn't give me the time of day, bro.
	That's unfortunate for you, bro.
	That's unfortunate for me.
	What do you mean it's unfortunate for me?
	It's reality, though.
	Any guy that says that bullshit is going to be like, I mean, are you just going to tell them, oh, I got money, so that makes me a good guy?
	Right.
	So what would you say?
	Ladies, you're missing the big point here.
	Men have to have tangible attributes to be attractive.
	Whereas you guys said a bunch of mumbo jumbo word salad that didn't make sense.
	And you guys are still able to attract the opposite gender.
	I'm not saying that to make fun of y'all.
	I'm just saying that the bar is very low for women.
	There's no burden of performance for you guys at all.
	Y'all can get a man by being useless.
	Not saying you guys are useless.
	Maybe a little bit.
	But in general, what I'm saying is that a man would never be able to get away with these things that you guys said.
	As far as like, how do you differentiate yourself from other men?
	Could you imagine if I said, I'm me?
	Like, okay, bye.
	I mean, it sucks coming from either gender saying that.
	I'm him.
	No, but the difference is that a man will accept a girl saying something ludicrous like I'm me versus a woman will not.
	That's my point.
	No.
	I can't.
	I can't.
	I like an open-minded man or a man who like, what have you, what you said, like the ability to offer like flexibility and- Adaptability.
	Yeah, adaptability.
	I like that.
	That's one thing.
	That's not saying that's everything we bring to the table, but that's one thing.
	But I like that.
	I like open-mindedness too.
	Woman to woman, though.
	Man to woman is different.
	Yeah, that's right.
	The only thing I can see working here is if the guy says, oh, I'm an Aries, too.
	Let's bond together.
	We're spiritual.
	Guys, book coming soon.
	It's finished.
	Why Women Deserve Less.
	It's going to be in stores probably by next month.
	Yeah, I wrote a book on y'all.
	Yeah, man.
	You guys should not be simping, man.
	Okay.
	So, ladies, let me ask the question, right?
	So we'll get into the show topic today.
	We'll start here and work our way.
	If you had a little brother...
	I do.
	Okay, even better.
	And you had to tell him the truth.
	What goes on at girls' trips?
	To vacation destinations like maybe a Nashville, a Miami, a Vegas.
	I've never been on a girl's trip.
	Okay, that's fine.
	But I'm sure you have friends that have been on girl's trips, etc.
	If you had to educate your little brother on what goes down on girl's trips, what would you tell him?
	Is he in a relationship with one of the girls going on the trip?
	Yes.
	She's gonna get digged down, I bet.
	Okay.
	Keeping it 1,000?
	Yeah, or I'll just, I don't know, maybe if, I don't know, maybe just not let her go.
	How should he go about saying that?
	Due to the environment of girls' trips and what my sister told me, I don't think it would be a good move on our relationship or I don't feel comfortable not coming with you.
	How about I take you there and we go, you and I, that way we can vibe together instead of you doing your shit with your girls who might not be on the same page as we are in our relationship.
	Do you think it would be attractive for him to say, yo, my sister told me you about to be a hoe, bro?
	But that's not how I said it.
	I'm summarizing it, but you started off with saying my sister said XYZ. Do you think that would be attractive for him to do that?
	Maybe not mention my sister then.
	Maybe just so he seems like he's his own individual.
	Because I don't think...
	It is not attractive for a man to base his knowledge off of someone else.
	Oh my god, what's wrong with you?
	Maybe not mention me.
	Is it too late that she's already...
	No, I don't think it's not.
	Bachelorette party?
	No.
	You would say no?
	If the relationship means enough to you, I think your friends would understand as well that this is something that you look forward to in your future.
	And if you're building a relationship, then it's something, you know, a friend should be your friend regardless.
	And she should be able to understand, especially if it's because of your relationship.
	Your relationship with a friend, your relationship with your man are two different things.
	If you have friends, she should be able to understand that you're not going to make it due to the respect that you have with your relationship.
	Okay, so you would tell him, and what if she says, no, I want to still go?
	What should he do?
	You don't know?
	I don't.
	Where's the trust?
	Don't be secure.
	We'll get to you soon.
	Okay, so you're saying she's going to get dicked down and you wouldn't...
	No, no, no.
	It really depends what her friends are like, too.
	If the friends are also like...
	Actually, no, it doesn't even matter what the friends are like.
	But...
	Okay, so what's your final opinion then?
	Because you kind of switched there.
	You said, first of all, is she going to get digged down?
	I was saying might.
	So, well, yeah, I don't know.
	So that's most likely what would happen, maybe.
	But in regards to your second question, which was...
	What should he do?
	What should he do if she doesn't, if she still wants to go?
	Yeah.
	I wouldn't say in the relationship, especially if there's like a good understanding on things, but maybe...
	You quite literally said she's going to get digged down, though.
	Yeah.
	So you think you should stick around for the infidelity?
	Probably not.
	So we should break up with her.
	Yeah, maybe.
	See the logic I took you through there?
	Yeah, you did, you did.
	Alright, what about you?
	What happens at girls trips?
	In your opinion, what?
	Jigsaw speaking facts?
	Oh, they're calling her Jigsaw.
	Because the voice?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	My voice!
	Alright, what about you?
	Tell us what goes down in girl strips.
	Well, it would depend on the type of girl he's dating.
	If she's the type of girl that'd be like, oh, I was drunk, I don't remember, that's some bullshit.
	And you ain't shit, and you should jump off a cliff.
	God damn!
	But if she's a good girl and she's loyal and she loves my brother, I don't see the problem of her going on a girl strip.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that being loyal means you don't go on a girl strip?
	No.
	So you think a girl can be loyal and go on a girl's trip?
	Yes.
	It's like if she has the intelligence to understand that I'm giving coochie to another man rather than my man, then she should be able to understand that that's wrong and she should keep it in her pants.
	Okay, but that's operating on 20-20 hindsight, but of course you got drugs, you got alcohol, you have peer pressure.
	It doesn't matter.
	It really depends on...
	It doesn't matter.
	No, it depends on the girl's will.
	If she's weak, then she's a weak bitch and you should let girl that bitch.
	Yeah, but what if she's intoxicated and she's in peer pressure?
	No.
	So you're telling me when you go out, you don't get drunk?
	I do.
	So when you're drunk, are you yourself?
	Yes.
	I understand where I'm at, and I understand who's around me, and I understand what's going on.
	I'm not delusional enough or stupid enough to be like, oh, I'm drunk, I didn't remember, blah, blah, blah.
	No, I'm going to remember me.
	I don't ever get so drunk.
	So let's say we take your argument here.
	You can handle your liquor.
	What if she can't?
	She's an idiot.
	Okay.
	So if she's an idiot, wouldn't it be fair to say, yo, why are you going on a girl's trip?
	No, it would be fair to say, why are you dating an idiot?
	Good point.
	Why are you dating an idiot?
	But what I'm saying is that if you're dating an idiot...
	You're also an idiot.
	Okay.
	That is true.
	Wait.
	No, that's true.
	That's true.
	But here's the thing, though.
	They're both idiots together and y'all gonna get hurt.
	So would you say a girl that wants to go on a girl's trip while in a relationship is an idiot?
	No.
	No.
	Girl's trip and being an idiot is two different things.
	Being drunk and acting like you don't know who you are, that's idiot behavior.
	But I'm saying, if you have enough intelligence to understand where you're at, what priorities you hold dear, then you should know this relationship is important to me.
	I made this commitment to this person.
	I shouldn't go overboard and I shouldn't But why even put her at risk?
	Isn't that idiotic?
	No.
	By your logic?
	No.
	It's not even going at risk if you are strong-willed.
	If she is weak, you're dating a weak person, you're an idiot, and you should expect a weakness.
	So going back to the original question, what goes down on girls trips in general?
	Do you know?
	Drinking, throwing up, blah, blah, blah, so on and so forth.
	What about things that might hurt a relationship?
	Like what?
	Like, is there anything that goes down on girl strips that might impede a relationship between a man and a woman?
	Don't cap.
	We never had a girl strip like that.
	No.
	Yeah.
	I've never been on a girl strip.
	What about your friends?
	Yeah, we're not talking about you guys in particular.
	We're speaking in general here.
	No, we have the same best friends.
	We have the same friends.
	We go together everywhere.
	Like, I remember we went out to the club and we spent the night at the hotel, but it wasn't a girl strip.
	Ladies, this is amazing how when we ask women questions, they always put it immediately on themselves.
	We're speaking about, in general, what goes down on girls trips.
	Not you and your friends, not your peers.
	I'm speaking in general, knowing women, being a woman, being around women, being here in Miami, knowing how things happen.
	What goes down on girls trips?
	I guess take the movie Girls Trip.
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay.
	Can you let her answer, please?
	Okay.
	So, are you speaking of women being promiscuous?
	Is that what you're speaking of?
	I mean, does that happen?
	It's up to you.
	You tell me.
	Yes, that happens on a girl's trip.
	Okay.
	Often or sometimes or?
	From my understanding, I guess it's often.
	If the group of women is single.
	Okay.
	Now, what would you tell your brother if his girl, your little brother, if his girl said, I want to go on a girl's trip to Miami, what would you tell him?
	If you trust a girl and you understand that, you know, this is important to you and you can trust her, then I would say let her go.
	But if you can't trust her, you shouldn't be dating her.
	Period.
	If she can't be an adult in adult situations, why are you dating someone like that?
	Alright, let me ask you a question.
	Are women heavily influenced by their friends?
	It depends on the woman.
	In general?
	Yeah.
	Are women emotional?
	Yes.
	Are women fairly indecisive?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Do women have erratic behavior at times based on how they feel?
	Yeah.
	Would it be fair to say that these behaviors are all conducive to infidelity?
	No.
	Actually, they are.
	So you're saying, where's the trust?
	I'm saying, why not trust her to be a woman, which is all the things I stated above.
	But I can trust a man to be a man.
	Men and women aren't the same, though.
	Yeah, but it's still just as toxic, just as ridiculous.
	I'm saying you guys are both adults, and if she can think like an adult, she should be able enough to hold her liquor and have an adult...
	But by your own admission, you admitted a bunch of things that women have characteristic traits that make it more prone for them to...
	Be indecisive, emotionally erratic.
	All traits that are not good for controlling yourself, especially when there's peer pressure and alcohol involved.
	But I'm saying if you are a child, you will get peer pressure.
	I'm saying if you're an adult and you can control yourself, you should be fine.
	But women are emotional regardless of their age and erratic and indecisive.
	Yeah, but does it make them a cheater?
	That doesn't qualify a cheater.
	But those are cheater habits, correct?
	I guess so, yeah.
	So wouldn't it be fair to say that you're putting yourself in a very dangerous situation by having those habits exacerbate them with alcohol along with peer pressure in a vacation destination where promiscuity is rampant?
	But are you trying to say that all women are promiscuous and cheaters?
	No, but all women are fairly emotionally erratic, unstable when it comes to, you know, alcohol being used, peer pressured by their friends, go with the flow, etc.
	So all these things are almost a recipe for disaster.
	Well, I'm just saying, if she can handle herself like an adult...
	Because you're saying...
	Because the only reason I ever brought this up is because you said trust her, right?
	No, I'm saying...
	No, no, no.
	I didn't say trust her.
	I'm saying if you can trust in the way...
	No, I say you should be able to trust in the way she is.
	If she is...
	And my response is that trust her to be a woman, which is the traits I just gave you.
	No, trust her personality.
	If she's the type of person to go on vendors, go party every weekend at the club, obviously this type of person is not the person you should be trusting your relationship in in the girls' trip.
	I'm saying if she's the type of girl to be, you know, very straightforward, you know, goes to work, gets up every morning, you know, does what she's supposed to do, I don't see why she can't, you know, enjoy some time with her friends.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Your little brother has a girl she wants to go on girls' trip.
	First, what do girls' trips mean to you?
	And what should he do?
	Yeah, we know you have fun.
	Girls trips to me mean like becoming a guy in the trip, you know?
	Like getting super wild, you know?
	Describe wild.
	Like dancing, not sleeping, you know?
	Probably guys come to me to talk to me, but that doesn't mean that I will like fuck.
	Stop the cat!
	You know, but I like to flirt.
	I like to talk.
	You know, that is normal.
	Well, you said being a guy.
	Don't you and your friends run around naked?
	Yeah, exactly.
	I'm just saying.
	I love it.
	You know?
	Of course.
	Well, you said being a guy.
	Do you think guys want to flirt with girls and just talk?
	No.
	I think guys like to show girls what's up.
	Which is?
	Like, let me drive you, like, let me get you this to eat.
	Why?
	Why all these things?
	To fuck you.
	Okay.
	So, you said act like a guy, right?
	Guys go on vacations to fuck.
	You're telling me act like a guy and fuck?
	Basically, I pay for my alcohol, for my everything, my parties, I do my plans.
	I get that, but...
	What I'm saying is that you're saying men...
	Because you said girls go on trips to act like guys.
	Well guys go on trips to fuck.
	So are you saying girls go on trips to fuck too?
	In my 21th birthday to Vegas, I didn't know everything was legal there.
	I was like, oh my God, scared to doing things.
	But my friend was fucking a guy in the hotel room.
	She had a boyfriend, but she was fucking the guy.
	The guy that was giving the conference, like he was giving like a tattoo conference for the hair.
	So she fucked him.
	You know, and I know that the normal trips that the girls from Miami do, they get sugar daddies, the sugar daddies pay the trips to Dubai, and Europa, and everywhere, and that's okay.
	You're not answering the question.
	That is what happens in girls trips.
	Okay, so they fuck.
	Yeah.
	Okay, thank you.
	It took you forever to say that.
	But now what would you tell your brother if he wanted, if his girl wanted to go on a girls trip, what would you tell your little brother?
	I will take him out with me.
	If I know that the girl probably is crazy, I will take him out with me to have fun.
	No one will know.
	If no one saw, no one knows.
	So tick for tack.
	So you would take him out with girls?
	In one case, if he tells me, oh, I'm scared that she probably is doing something.
	I'm like, stop.
	No, God's silent.
	Let's do something.
	Or forget about it.
	Let her be.
	And then, yeah, if she comes again, So, don't do anything.
	Just let her go on the girl trip and go out with you instead?
	Yeah!
	How does that help, though?
	Go out with your friends.
	Have your own life.
	What the fuck are you thinking?
	Like, staying there like, what is she doing?
	What is she doing?
	No.
	No guy's gonna do that.
	I know what you're saying, but...
	But this is his girl.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Should he stay with her?
	They're thinking about getting together and being serious.
	And getting married.
	You're just saying you should just go out with you instead?
	And just ignore her?
	The thing is that if you worry too much about something, that will happen.
	If you're like, no, that's never going to happen.
	It will never happen.
	I can tell you, but if you're like...
	So he should just believe and manifest it that it's not going to happen.
	It's not going to happen.
	Just sit in the house and just manifest it.
	She's not going to fuck someone else.
	She's not.
	I guarantee you, that's your advice.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Let's get this fucking straight.
	Hold on.
	If she talks a guy, I will see it in my fucking dream, I swear.
	Stop talking.
	So, what you're saying is that forget about your girl, let her go on the trip, don't say anything, manifest that she's going to be loyal, and then go out with you.
	Exactly, because she's seeing that she's going to miss him.
	She will miss him if she loves him.
	If not, no.
	I guarantee you that girl that went to Vegas, that had the boyfriend, that slept with the guy, her guy was like, you know what?
	Let me manifest her being loyal.
	She's not getting fucked.
	Probably.
	See?
	He never thought they were fucking.
	But they did fuck.
	So it doesn't work then.
	Your own story proves that it doesn't work.
	Oh my goodness.
	No, my friend was just like, moving on, you know.
	Okay, we can move on from that.
	Don't shit advice.
	Yes, sir!
	Take my advice, guys.
	What is a girl's trip?
	And then what if your little brother said, yo, my girl wants to go on a girl's trip?
	What advice would you give him?
	Well, for the most part, I thought girl's trips were pretty...
	Holy, I didn't know all that was going on.
	Holy moly.
	Stop the cap.
	Have you ever been on a girls trip?
	I have not.
	Stop the cap.
	Anyways.
	You've never traveled anywhere with your girlfriends?
	I have not.
	You've never left Miami?
	Not with my girlfriends, no.
	What about staycations here in Miami?
	Like, you go to South Beach, you get lit.
	You go to Philardo, you get lit.
	Yeah.
	And then I go home.
	In your 30 years of life, you've never been on a girl's trip with other women.
	I have not.
	Stop the cap, man.
	It's a smirk for me.
	You got purple hair, man.
	Yeah, bro.
	All right, cool.
	Since you've never been on a girl's trip, which we know.
	Stop the cap.
	Okay, what is a girl's trip?
	I would assume you're going out wherever you're going.
	I'm probably going to flirt with some guys, try to get some free drinks, but I don't know about getting dicked down.
	That sounds like a lot.
	If you're in a relationship, at least.
	Okay.
	What would you tell your little brother if his girl said, I want to go on a girl's trip to Vegas?
	At least to stay on his toes because something might happen.
	Describe staying on his toes.
	I don't know.
	Ask questions?
	Such as?
	Where are you going?
	Who are you going to be with?
	Maybe the people that she's going to be around is not, you know.
	What if she's going with three of her friends that he knows or thoughts and they're going to be staying at the Mandalay Bay?
	Then I would tell him to suggest that she don't go.
	Okay?
	And she says, but no, me and my friends, we haven't seen each other in three years, and one of us is going to get married, or one of them is going to get married.
	Oh, they see each other when they come back from the trip.
	Okay.
	So you would encourage your brother to not let her go?
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	What about you?
	What are girls trips, and what would you tell your little brother?
	Personally, I always wanted a little brother, but what's it called?
	What are girls' trips?
	Or what goes down on girls' trips?
	Girls' trips.
	There's drinking.
	There's obviously shaking some ass.
	There's videos.
	There's like fun.
	Like what you would see at a party, basically.
	That's a girls' trip.
	Okay.
	And if my brother had that situation, personally, I would tell him like, you know your girl.
	You know who you with.
	And if you feel like she's a cheater, break up with her.
	And if you feel like she's not, then hope for the best.
	Like, that's just personal.
	So just hope?
	I mean, if you know her, you know her.
	If you don't, you don't.
	But, like, honestly speaking, like, if that was my little brother, I would want to protect him.
	Like, point blank, period.
	So what would you tell him, then?
	I would tell him, like, Like, is your girl keeping you up to date about the activity she's doing?
	Is she being truthful to you?
	Like, what's going on?
	Like, are you talking to her?
	Do you guys have establishment boundaries?
	Have you established, like, control of, like, alcohol limits while you're out or whatever the case may be?
	But can you realistically enact on that?
	I know he's, like, not there.
	So it's, like, it's you personally as the boyfriend to trust, like, your girl.
	Like, say if you want to continue.
	What if you trust her to be a girl, just like I talked with your sister?
	Girls are emotionally erratic.
	Not as stable.
	More prone to follow their friends.
	Women are followers by design.
	Peer pressure is a thing.
	All of these things can lead to her making bad decisions.
	Okay.
	And then when she does a bad decision, you're breaking up with her immediately.
	And then we're going to go beat her butt.
	Okay.
	So you're saying allow the issue to potentially happen?
	No, I'm not trying to allow the situation to happen.
	Like I said, if you know she's a cheater and you establish these rules and boundaries with her or whatever the case may be, she's a cheater or not, whatever, and you establish these rules and boundaries with her and you're being truthful and she's being truthful with you while she's on the trip or whatever the case.
	Here's my point though.
	How many times have people done things that they normally would never do while sober?
	They weren't a cheater when they were sober, but when they were out drunk or maybe high or peer pressure, the music, whatever, it got to them and next thing you know, I'm sucking some random dude's dick in the bathroom.
	Alright, then don't stay with her.
	Leave.
	Break up with her.
	That's weird.
	Just dump her.
	And that is fucking weird.
	Like, period.
	But I'm not telling my brother to stay with her.
	Like, leave.
	Dump her.
	Kick rocks.
	Very interesting how you guys think whether a girl is drunk or sober, she's going to behave the same way.
	But interesting.
	I never said anything about drunk or sober.
	No, because you kept saying if she's a cheater, she's a cheater.
	What I'm saying is that even if she's not a cheater and she's loyal, the right amount of alcohol with the right people and the right environment can lead to things that are not right.
	And I'm saying if that happens, kick rocks.
	How's he going to know?
	He won't.
	He will.
	No, he will.
	No.
	Okay, there's no proof.
	I'm not saying there's, like, proof, but people's actions change.
	Exactly.
	People, the way they act change.
	People act different.
	Yes, like, they act different.
	Everyone has a tell.
	Even if you have the best poker face, it will come to light.
	It will truly come to light.
	You think the guy's gonna be able to detect it, though?
	Yes.
	Really?
	I mean, if he's smart enough...
	If he knows his women good enough.
	Yeah, exactly.
	The guy, right, that got cheated on.
	Did he ever find out?
	Yeah.
	How do you find out?
	She confessed?
	Probably.
	Someone snitched.
	By the way, he found out.
	It's gonna come into light.
	It's either your friend will tell you or someone else will tell you.
	He robbed her $50,000.
	Not robbed her.
	They were gonna get a house.
	So that happened.
	They were fighting because of that.
	If a girl is well taken care of, she will never do nothing.
	She will respect him.
	So he stole $50,000 from her before she went to Vegas?
	Something like that happened with some money, so they were fighting.
	I don't know the story.
	What about you?
	What happens at girls trips?
	Girls have fun.
	Describe fun.
	Girls just wanna have fun.
	Personally, I can say I've never been like on a girl's trip like you see on like Instagram and things like that.
	Stop the cow!
	I went on a girl's trip, but it was like my friends and I was with a girl.
	So you did go on a girl's trip.
	Yeah, but I was with my girlfriend at the time.
	So I don't know if like that corresponds with the questions you're asking because my partner was there.
	But I went on a girl's trip.
	It was me and my best friend.
	And we didn't do shit.
	Like we went to San Diego.
	We went kayaking.
	We went to go out, smoke hookah, drink.
	And I mean, that's pretty much it.
	We didn't.
	Okay.
	So, what would you say to your brother if he had a girl and she wanted to go on a girl's trip to, let's say, Miami?
	Or Vegas, in this case, since you're from Miami.
	Okay.
	If I had a little brother and his girlfriend wanted to go on a girl's trip.
	Okay.
	First, I would ask, what is the event?
	Why?
	What's the occasion?
	Bachelorette party.
	All right.
	Bachelorette party.
	Then I would kind of ask him to gauge their relationship.
	Like, what's going on?
	They've been together for two years.
	Two years.
	There's more questions than that, but...
	What other questions would you ask him to ask?
	What kind of state are you guys in?
	Are you communicative?
	Have there been any problems recently?
	Like, problems as far as commitment?
	Everything is smooth.
	Everything is smooth.
	Alright.
	At the moment.
	Well, if you know the girls that she's going with...
	Their thoughts.
	I don't know, big dog.
	You're going to have to gauge that yourself because if they're acting like that, she's going to act like a thought.
	I agree.
	If you feel some type of way and if you're secure in a relationship, yes, it's not always just black and white.
	But if you feel some kind of way about your partner, like You're comfortable.
	All right.
	But at the end of the day, if you go with some thoughts, they're going to do some thought behavior.
	And at the end of the day, she's going to be mixed in it.
	So if you're OK with that, you're OK with that.
	So what would you tell your brother in that situation?
	Clearly, he's not OK with that.
	So what advice would you tell him? - Honestly, I'll be like, it's up to you.
	At the end of the day, I would tell him, either you trust her and you want to move forward and see what happens, or you decide not to and you want to play it safe and, you know, have that card in your pocket.
	Have what card in your pocket?
	Like, alright, you didn't go, so when my boys, whatever, I'm not gonna go.
	Because you don't feel comfortable.
	Do you think men and women are the same and play by the same set of rules?
	No, but it depends on the scenario.
	Do you think a guy's trip is equivalent to a girl's trip?
	Oh, God.
	Depends on...
	Depends on what we're doing.
	It depends on what kind of...
	Bachelor and bachelorette?
	Like, that's what you mean?
	Like, guy's trip, bachelor, girl's trip, bachelorette?
	I mean, if you want to use that as a specific example, but you're trying to say, like, oh, well, you have a card honors, now you can go ahead and go on a guy's trip, but realistically speaking...
	If one party were to commit infidelity on a guy's trip versus one party were to commit infidelity on the girl's trip, which would hurt the relationship more?
	Oh, but that's not what I'm talking about.
	But that's the overall premise of the question is, this is protecting the relationship, correct?
	Right.
	So that's what I'm asking.
	Okay.
	Whose infidelity is worse for the relationship overall?
	Because you're trying to equate it and I'm saying they're not equal.
	I'm not trying to equate it and they're not equal.
	You quite literally tried to equate it because you said you got a card in your back pocket.
	But the card is, you have this with what happened.
	You said this about how you felt.
	My card doesn't equate to your card at the end of the day.
	What I'm trying to say is, we each have a card.
	That doesn't mean we're going to play it, but we have a card.
	We decide how we're going to use it.
	Uno.
	Uno out.
	I don't think you understand where I'm going with this.
	I don't think you understand.
	Because you're trying to say, okay, well, let her go, but now you can go ahead and go on a guy's trip.
	What I'm saying is that that's a false equivalent.
	Okay, so what I would say to my brother is, alright, you don't want anything to happen?
	Alright, you play it safe.
	You think nothing's going to happen?
	You trust her?
	Alright, let her go.
	That's what I would say to my brother.
	That was the question, right?
	It's not about what he thinks.
	I'm asking you, what do you think?
	What advice would you dispense to me saying, sis, I need your help?
	That's my advice.
	My advice would say, if you trust her and if you're comfortable in your relationship and you're secure enough, let her go.
	If you feel like there's an if and or but, don't.
	But there's clearly an if, and, or, but, which is why he's asking you.
	And that would be my advice.
	If there's an if, and, or, but, you shouldn't be asking me.
	At the end of the day, I'm telling you, this is what might happen.
	Oh, sister, man.
	Yo, man.
	Don't ask me for advice.
	Alright.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	That's my advice.
	If you think there's an if, and, or, but, then don't.
	Then you should voice your opinion.
	Do you feel some kind of way?
	Voice how you feel.
	Say that shit.
	He doesn't know.
	That's why he asked me for advice.
	That's exactly why he's asking you.
	But then how am I supposed to know how he feels in his relationship?
	Because he's telling you!
	Am I in a clown world right now?
	Am I wild?
	That's exactly what I was saying.
	You're not crazy, bro.
	She said that.
	I said that.
	Yes.
	Niggas are putting Elle's sister in the chat.
	Okay.
	What am I supposed to tell you don't go?
	Yes.
	Am I supposed to tell him to tell her not to go?
	Yes.
	Well, I mean, not that, but like a decisive answer.
	Like, God damn.
	It's like, oh, well, go off of how you feel.
	Well, clearly he's not sure.
	He's asking you.
	That's the thing.
	If you feel comfortable, if you feel safe, all right, cool.
	Let her go.
	If you don't, then don't.
	All right.
	That's my answer.
	Yeah.
	Chat spamming Elle's sister.
	All right.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What happens at Girl Strips?
	And this whole podcast has been very, very telling on a bunch of situations.
	But what goes on in girls' trips?
	And then what would you tell your little brother if his chick wanted to go on a girls' trip?
	So I've actually been to a lot of girls trips and none of them...
	Someone being honest about it to you.
	Okay, but in the girls trips, none of the girls fucked other dudes.
	None of them.
	I swear to God, none of them did.
	We all hung out.
	We were all together.
	We all danced together.
	We got drunk.
	We didn't get too fucked up.
	But then the next day we went to a museum.
	So first of all, if you was drunk, how would you know?
	I wasn't fucked up.
	I'm not off my face.
	And how do you know they didn't slide off with a guy in the bathroom?
	Because they were with me the whole time.
	But you were drunk.
	I wasn't fucked up.
	I wasn't completely fucking wasted.
	You know what happens?
	Girls come together.
	They stay together.
	Somebody gets a phone number from a guy or Instagram DM. And you go to the hotel.
	You go to sleep.
	She lives with a guy.
	You don't know.
	Are you a girl?
	I feel like guys trips are way worse.
	You guys hire prostitutes and stuff.
	Girls don't do that.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Since you want to say that, let me ask you a better question since you're trying to say that a guy's trip is worse than a girl's trip.
	If a guy goes out on a guy's trip and fucks another chick, right?
	Then a girl goes on a girl's trip and fucks another guy.
	When they come back to their significant other, which relationship is more fucked up?
	The one where the guy cheated or the one where the girl cheated?
	Answer that.
	Let her answer.
	The girl or the guy.
	I'm gonna think about this one hard.
	Which one is worse?
	Which one is more detrimental to the relationship?
	I mean, honestly, it would have fucked them both up, truthfully.
	Which one is more detrimental?
	Why would...
	So, is it just because...
	You know what the answer is, you just don't want to be wrong.
	Because she received a dick, you know what I'm saying, instead of him paying...
	So, say she received a dick, and he paid for pussy.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like, what is worse?
	Women are emotional.
	That's why.
	Alright, let me go to the rest of the panel.
	What infidelity is worse?
	The guy going and fucking another chick on a boy's trip, or the girl fucking another guy on a girl's trip?
	You said the girl.
	Who do you think is worse?
	Which relationship is going to be more fucked up?
	I think cheating is horrible.
	Which one has more impact on the outcome of the relationship?
	If you had to choose.
	Negatively.
	It's on her.
	I don't know.
	What about you?
	The woman.
	What about you?
	I will agree with you, Myron, on this one.
	Because of the simple fact that guys just...
	Miss Lesbian, what about you?
	Who does it hurt more?
	Which relationship does it hurt more?
	In your opinion.
	Well, it depends on how they feel about each other, like who's more involved emotionally, but I feel like the woman because they're more emotional.
	Okay.
	And then now you're saying that you think it's a girl?
	I would say because guys just, like you told me the last time, you're more a variety, whereas women, we're more so, you know, they want to make the connection.
	So by your own answer, right?
	Because you went immediately and reverted to saying, well, guys do terrible things on guys trips too.
	It doesn't matter because it's not equal.
	It's still not good though.
	It's not good for the relationship either way.
	But if you want to talk about something being worse, of course, the woman, sure.
	But at the end of the day, both of it's detrimental to the relationship regardless.
	Not to the same level.
	If my brother had an issue with his girl on the girl trip, I would ask him a couple questions.
	I'd be like, hey, do you know the girls that she's with?
	How comfortable are you with this?
	Okay.
	And on a scale of one to ten, how much do you trust her?
	I would just kind of like measure that out.
	If it's like on the low end, just fuck it.
	You can find another girl.
	I trust her, but not around those girls.
	You trust her, but then fuck it.
	Don't do it.
	Okay, how should you go about not doing it?
	Just say, like, you know, or if you really, if you really must, I would say, hey, girl, we got to check up, you know, you can FaceTime me if he's like feeling like that kind of way, like check up on me every couple hours so I can, you know, feel comfortable with this.
	Do you think that would realistically help though?
	I mean, it might, because the girl will probably feel some type of way.
	If I have, you know, not every girl, but if I'm calling and checking up on my dude every couple hours, me, I'm not going to be likely to fuck another dude just because, you know, in me personally, my mind is going to be on the other guy.
	You know what's funny?
	Many girls will call their guy and say, hey, babe, I miss you, whatever.
	They're at a dude's house.
	Does he trust her though?
	I'm sure he does.
	But she's not there.
	She might even be fucking at the same time.
	You don't know.
	If you don't want to do the relationship, don't do it.
	But I do want to bring something up though.
	The whole monogamy thing.
	So...
	I thought about this because the last time, like, you know, y'all were like, hey, would you let your girl, your dude fuck another girl?
	Typically, I still don't like it.
	However, here's my thing.
	I would make one...
	The only way I would make one little offer...
	Hey, if you're in a relationship, would you be okay with your girl, your main girl, watching you bang another girl?
	She has to be there every single time you bang another girl.
	Niggas don't want that.
	Exactly.
	You guys want to do stuff behind our backs.
	You don't want to do everything out in the open.
	Because y'all knowing.
	Do you think we're gonna handle the truth?
	Y'all don't think it's annoying that I have to cook and clean and do all this shit and pick up after you all the time?
	Hey, listen.
	Like, overeats every day?
	No, because if you're fucking a girl, why are you fucking so hard, you know?
	You don't fucking be happy.
	Oh, okay.
	The pacing is too fast.
	I just think that, you know...
	Okay, so here's another thing.
	Okay, I give you the...
	I am with a dude, and I let him fuck 20 girls.
	Whatever.
	We'll get into this when we turn it to the ladies, but we're trying to stay on topic here with girls trips.
	Is that what you were writing all this time?
	No, it wasn't.
	Okay.
	Ha ha ha.
	Ha ha ha.
	You ready?
	Ha ha ha.
	That was good, huh?
	You said you hit your head when you were younger, right?
	No, it was actually a few months ago.
	Yeah, I had a concussion.
	Then broke my tooth.
	Okay, interesting.
	Guys, I'll make fun of her.
	She hit her head.
	All right.
	So let's go ahead and play that clip real quick.
	So we're going to play a clip from y'all on girls trips.
	Yes.
	Okay?
	This comes from the Breakfast Club.
	DJ Envy and his wife.
	Okay?
	And then I'll go ahead and get my thoughts on it.
	We'll get the ladies' thoughts on it, then I'll get my thoughts on it and see if the ladies agree or not.
	Chris?
	Come on, man.
	El Christmas Chat, man.
	He got it.
	Nigga.
	Oh no, it's the DJ Envy one.
	Hold on, Chad.
	Chris, I literally set it up on the third monitor for you, bro.
	On Firefox.
	You have one job.
	How's it going?
	I set it up.
	Well, basically, there's a clip going around that's going viral where DJ Envy's wife went on a girl strip.
	So we're gonna watch right now.
	For 20 days.
	Quite a long time.
	For Girl's Trip.
	Girl's Trip shouldn't take 20 days.
	Chris, I literally had a Mozilla Firefox tab on the right screen, bro.
	That's 21 days.
	Are you kidding me?
	So, listen, let me take over, Chris.
	I'm going to repost it for you.
	Guys, get your shirts!
	Chris the Bump shirts in stores right now, guys.
	This is why.
	It's there.
	Someone said, no wonder Chris got fired from teacher.
	What the fuck?
	I think he left.
	I think he left.
	Yo.
	In his defense, I think he left.
	said L production unit.
	Hey, we do a lot.
	Hey, man.
	We all get mistakes here.
	Here it is.
	Yo, man.
	I mean.
	Snicker, bro.
	Okay.
	Here we go.
	This is it, guys.
	So Twitter reacts to DJ Envy's wife 20-day girl trip vacation.
	That's fucking nuts.
	Let's go ahead and run the clip.
	My wife, she went on a girls' trip.
	She's gone for 20 days.
	I've been packing the kids' lunch, and when I've been packing the lunch, I've been seeing your comments saying, why you put so many snacks in the bag?
	Why donuts?
	Why pop-ums?
	Why salami and cheese sandwich?
	Of course, my wife, she went on a girls' trip.
	These are some comments.
	What'd you say to him when you heard this?
	Alright, and then keep going.
	Envy's wife got the ball in her court after he cheated with Erica Mena and had to apologize on radio.
	What do I tell y'all, man?
	Right?
	This is what happens when you try to sell the dream.
	Honesty.
	Oh, yeah.
	I love you, baby.
	And you get caught cheating.
	Then she's going to make your life miserable, bro.
	Alright, let's keep going.
	Spicy Sprite goes, oh, she most definitely getting her lick back.
	Look at that.
	Wifey took a leave of absence on the marriage.
	Tough.
	Alright, let's keep going.
	And then, 20 days, pocket option.
	That's what I'm saying, bro.
	What else?
	He goes, y'all might as well split that first month's rent together.
	Comments here are hilarious, too.
	She can't clap to comfort.
	So we'll start hearing their work our way.
	20 day vacation, girls trip.
	What are your thoughts?
	20 days.
	I think that's really selfish.
	That's entirely too long.
	If you got kids too and he's packing all the lunch and shit, that's fucked up.
	No, that's entirely too long.
	Truthfully, there's something called excessive and that's excessive.
	You think that's excessive?
	What if she spent her whole life She wants a break.
	Isn't that fair?
	I'm sorry?
	She spent her whole, I guess, pregnancy dealing with the kids, you know, all that stuff.
	She wants a break.
	Isn't that...
	Yeah, but a three-week break away from your family and your kids, it's a bit sus, truthfully.
	Okay.
	So she doesn't deserve it.
	I mean...
	She deserves less.
	Yeah, if she's gonna give herself 20, if you're gonna give up 20 days, yeah, you deserve less.
	Absolutely.
	But coming out soon.
	No, talk like it's happening to you.
	Talk like you're the woman.
	Okay, if me, me personally, I would, I don't take 20 days off of my priorities.
	No.
	Got it.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	20 days, ghost trip.
	Am I that fucking funny?
	Leaving kids.
	20 days.
	Husband.
	Like, for real.
	I think that's a long time to be away.
	But then, to your point, you know, if you're dealing with this, if you're my husband and you're away all the time and I don't see you as much, then I feel like you should be spending time with the kids for these amount of days, yes.
	But it's not going to come out like a...
	Like vengeance or me trying to get back at that.
	But 20 days, I feel like it's a lot.
	It's a little expensive.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	21.
	Personally speaking, like, personally, 21 days, no, not 21, 20 days is a lot.
	Like, I wouldn't even be that, like, far away from my family.
	But if it was, like, a meditation type of thing, get away from, like, the situation about what was going on, all the stress I was, like, piling up, like, with her, I'm pretty sure, like, the whole, like, Instagram got crazy, tweets got crazy, everyone was bashing her, like, whatever the case may be, right?
	And if you need to take a trip, so be it.
	But 20 days, that's too much.
	Like, you gotta come back home.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Same thing?
	For you?
	Yeah, 20 days is a lot.
	I think you should spread it out some.
	She has kids.
	But she needs a break though.
	She works hard.
	She needs a break.
	But you got kids.
	Right.
	What can you do that you need 20 days that you can't do in like 5 days?
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like 20 days for vacation is just too much.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Is that too young, wild and free?
	Well, she was because he's a DJ. He understands that the parties in Ibiza last one week, one party.
	And then the other week, there's another complete week with a party.
	And the parties go a complete month.
	So that's normal.
	How do you know all this?
	Right.
	Because I DJ. You go to Ibiza?
	No, I've never been.
	But I know the parties last that long.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	You been to Dubai?
	No.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	What are your thoughts on that situation?
	Yeah, like 20 days is entirely excessive.
	Like you're doing entirely too much.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Too much.
	I'm actually...
	She's gonna dick down all 20 of those days according to your own words?
	Honestly, I'm anti-girls trip in general if you're in a relationship.
	I just don't...
	Say that again?
	I'm anti-girls trip if you're in a relationship in general.
	So 20 days is just...
	Are you anti-guys trips too?
	Yep.
	Sensational.
	So just trips together?
	Yep.
	I'm curious.
	No, go ahead.
	I'm curious.
	Sure.
	Let's say you were DJ Envy.
	How would you feel if your wife said that to you?
	Would you say, no, she can't go?
	Or, you know what?
	You deserve a break.
	Mind you, I cheated on you before in the past, and you've been with the kids most of the time.
	How would you feel if you were DJ Envy?
	Good question.
	I need a trip 20 days.
	I gotta get away.
	How would you say you would feel in that sense?
	How would I feel if he wouldn't allow me?
	If you were DJ Envy.
	If I was DJ Envy.
	And that was your wife.
	Cheated on your girl, got caught.
	Cheated on her, got caught.
	And now she wants a 20-day vacation.
	What are you saying?
	Charge it to the game.
	Damn.
	Risk the marriage.
	Just like that?
	Charge it to the game.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	When you say charge it to the game, do you mean drop her or let her go?
	I mean, let her go.
	You did you, right?
	You did you.
	I mean, if she still took you back, then I mean, you're going to have to charge her to the game.
	So let her go and accept what comes with it.
	Okay.
	When we say charge to the game, it means get rid of her.
	Okay, that's fine.
	Oh, really?
	Yeah.
	That's what our boy Locario will be saying.
	Shout out to him.
	Shout out to him.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You made your bed.
	You got to lay in it.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Same thing.
	Let her do what she wants.
	Yeah, because you cheated.
	What the hell?
	You don't deserve any respect.
	Really?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I will let her fly.
	You will let her too?
	Fly away.
	What about you?
	What would you do?
	No, got you.
	Stupid!
	The question was...
	You're a DJ Envy.
	You're a world-renowned DJ in hip-hop, respected, etc.
	You're a celebrity.
	You got caught cheating on your girl, though.
	Now she wants to go on a 20-day girls' trip.
	What are you saying?
	Not 20 days.
	Not 20 days.
	Okay.
	How long?
	How long?
	Five days.
	Three days.
	25 days?
	So you're letting her go?
	Yeah.
	I mean, yeah, she can go, but not for 20 days.
	What if you didn't cheat?
	Would you let her go still?
	Yes, but not for 20 days.
	Oh, you would still let her go regardless?
	I mean, yeah, why not?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You're DJ Envy.
	What are you doing?
	How do you feel?
	Emotionally.
	20-day trip.
	Can't stop this bitch.
	It was good.
	I mean, you did what you did.
	You got a lie in your bed.
	You got a head freak.
	Alright, so if she cheats, she cheats, same thing for you.
	Wait, no, she cheats?
	Okay, okay.
	If I cheated, DJ Envy, right?
	You're saying DJ Envy?
	Yes.
	That's quite literally what we said in the question.
	Please pay attention.
	Okay, so DJ Envy, right?
	And he cheated, he did his rah-rah.
	Okay, you let her go, you lie in your bed.
	You didn't change your answer whatsoever.
	Okay, but I didn't finish it, because I laughed.
	And she cheats, right?
	Is your choice as DJ Envy to stay or not to stay?
	She decides to stay when you cheated, so it's now your turn to decide.
	Is male and female cheating equivalent?
	I guess...
	No.
	So why are you trying to make it equal?
	For the relationship.
	Like you said.
	Damn.
	Yeah, we got you guys using your brains.
	I know it's not often, but yeah.
	Who knows if she cheated?
	I'm just saying, like you say, as DJ Envy.
	Yes.
	He cheated.
	Yeah.
	You let her go.
	Yep.
	Now she cheats.
	Now is your time to decide if you want to stay or not, because she obviously stayed.
	Because you cheated.
	Would you stay?
	As DJ Envy?
	At DJ Envy?
	No.
	Okay.
	Why not?
	Because it's my choice.
	Like, I didn't want to stay.
	But why did you come to that choice of no?
	Because it's like...
	You did it to get back at me.
	And...
	Does that change it?
	Whether she did it to get back, or she was drunk, or she just wanted some attention, does it change what the reasoning was?
	No, not really.
	No.
	Like, I don't want to stay because you cheated.
	And you stay because I cheated.
	That's your choice.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	I mean, it's the same thing.
	Like, literally, she stayed and he decided to let her go on a trip.
	And she cheats and, like...
	But you're telling him to not...
	If you were him, you wouldn't accept if she did cheat, though, is what you're saying.
	Okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	You're DJ Envy.
	You got caught cheating on your girl.
	She wants to go on a 20-day girls trip.
	What are you doing?
	My question to her would be, why you need 20 days?
	Did I go on a trip for 20 days and cheat on her?
	No, you just got caught cheating with some other girl around you.
	Oh, okay.
	The question is, what would I do?
	If you were DJ Envy.
	Yes.
	What would you do?
	That's a predicament.
	This is incredible.
	You literally had time to think about it with 500 girls that went ahead of you.
	Yeah, I did.
	I did.
	But now I'm putting myself in them shoes.
	Damn.
	Honestly.
	It's tough, right?
	Yeah.
	I cheated on her.
	She going on a trip for 20 days.
	Damn.
	She stay with me.
	I can't even think about it.
	I'll be upset.
	I'll be with women.
	I'll be upset.
	I'll be upset.
	I'm not gonna lie.
	But I cheated, so fuck.
	I don't know.
	This is W Pano.
	Last one here.
	So, what I think, because he has children with her, they're married, I think that the relationship, the dynamic of the relationship is really different.
	I don't have kids, so I wouldn't know, but I think in some sort of way, when someone's married...
	With kids, they might have, they may or may not have a special connection with their spouse.
	So if she goes on that girl's trip, even though knowing that he cheated, you know, he probably know that he put her through a lot of shit.
	It would just be one of those things like, yeah, you know, karma does eventually, you know, eat back at you, you know, when you continue to do wrong things.
	So it would just be more of the things like, If I were him, I don't know.
	Would you stay?
	If I were him, would I stay?
	I would for 20 days.
	I would probably be like, I'm really upset about this.
	Honestly, if you do this again, we're going to divorce.
	Because they have kids.
	She probably felt really hurt by him cheating, so she's acting out.
	Usually women don't go for 20 days.
	I've never heard of a fucking 20-day Unless you're getting paid.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So it's just too excessive.
	It's too much.
	And it's obvious.
	So what would you actually say?
	I would say, hey, we can work things out.
	But going forward, let's not do this anymore.
	So you let her go on to 20 days?
	I mean, if I made her feel some type of way because I cheated on her and I put her through a lot of shit and she's taking care of my kids, probably.
	Because I'd probably feel bad.
	Alright, so you would let her go?
	Yeah.
	And you would just deal with the consequences of her potential cheating?
	I deal with the consequences, but then going forward, we would have to make different changes and adjustments to make the relationship work.
	Let's say she cheats.
	What are you going to do now?
	Again?
	Or after the 20 days?
	After the 20 days.
	She cheats.
	She cheats during the 20 days?
	Yeah.
	Well...
	I would try to keep the family together as much as possible.
	I would try to ask her, does she have any interest in being with this person long term, whoever the fuck you wanted to be?
	Eddie, you never know.
	She gave her a hall pass.
	Sorry?
	He gave her a hall pass.
	He gave her a hall pass.
	She's giving a very feminine answer.
	I'm just saying.
	I'm trying to keep the family together, but at the same time, I knew that I fucked up.
	And I know that what I did is weighing on my wife.
	And I'm going to do what I can to try to make my wife happy, even though she's trying to get back at me.
	And it's not right.
	I would talk with her after the whatever.
	I don't like to control people, me personally.
	If you want to go, fuck it.
	You know, that's fine.
	But you're the man now.
	Yeah, I'm the man now.
	You're in control of this relationship.
	As a man, I knew I put her through some shit.
	So I want to make it right.
	But if she cheats on me and we kind of talk about it and we had the understanding.
	Oh, you would actually still talk to her.
	Here's the deal, like, you know.
	You're asking a woman what she would do in a man's position, though.
	But we've never been a man.
	Thank you.
	That's the point.
	That's the whole purpose of this situation.
	You got it.
	You finally used your brain.
	I'm going to hold my tongue to see what everybody else says.
	Here we go.
	Like, bro, what was that you said?
	I've been trying to see what everybody else is on, because, you know.
	And you still could have come up with the answer.
	When it got to you.
	Shit, I gotta keep the pace.
	Okay, you were trying to say something before I saw you raise your hand.
	No.
	No, I'm okay.
	You're trying to say something?
	Okay.
	So here's my thing when it comes to girl strips.
	Ladies, I mean, this might be offensive, but I'm just going to say it.
	Girl strips in general are an excuse for women to enact on all their darkest desires under the comfort of their thought friends in an anonymous location.
	If your girl wants a girl strip, in my eyes, she's effectively single.
	And...
	And the only girl really that said this was you.
	The rest of you guys were like, well, it depends on the trust.
	One of you guys said manifest.
	Some of you guys were like, I don't know.
	Where do you stand here?
	You kind of gave a half answer of like, well, maybe you can.
	And then someone else was saying caller and FaceTime her.
	None of that's going to stop anything.
	I look at it.
	If your girl wants a girl strip, she never liked you that much in the first place.
	Or she doesn't respect you.
	And it's just interesting how...
	The reason why I asked you guys, what would you tell your little brother, because I want to see what you guys, what type of advice you guys would dispense as a woman, right?
	Because people think, oh, they're women.
	They know how to behave and how to deal with other women, but the reality is all of you guys gave terrible advice.
	So I've said it before, I'll say it again.
	Women rarely know what to do As a man dealing with a woman in a relationship.
	Y'all know how each other think or whatever, but it's amazing how when it comes to male and female dynamics, you guys have no clue.
	And all you guys gave pretty much bad advice.
	Except for you, but then you kind of went back a little bit.
	Well, maybe she might get fucked or whatever.
	And then you gave kind of like half-assed advice.
	The reality, ladies, is if your brother comes to you and says, yo, my girl wants to go on a girl trip to Vegas.
	Oh, if you go, that's cool.
	But you're fucking single when you leave here.
	Done.
	I just find it funny you brought up trust, right?
	And I agree with you.
	There should be trust there in that dynamic.
	However...
	Trust there to be a woman.
	Yeah.
	However, my problem is the environment.
	So, for example, if his girl, right, is going on a trip, she may be trustworthy to him, but her friends, they want to have fun, they're single, hey, you know what, girl?
	Let loose, girl.
	Nobody's here.
	No one's going to know.
	And that environment with some alcohol, music, good vibes, hot guys, maybe on an island or maybe in Miami, things happen.
	So we're just saying as a guy, if Michael says to me, hey, I want to do a trip with my girls for a couple days in Miami, you know what I'm thinking?
	I'm like, damn, I live in Miami.
	I know what happens in Miami.
	The environment's there.
	Things can happen.
	So if I want to protect that girl in a relationship, what do I do?
	The way I say to her, hey, you know what, babe?
	I appreciate you.
	Obviously, I care about you, but this trip is going to cause us problems.
	Or the way I say, you know what?
	Go have fun!
	But deep down, I'm like, damn.
	She's about to go cheat on my ass.
	Or it's possible that it might happen.
	So we're just saying, as a guy, it's hard to handle that because you don't know what's going to happen in that scenario.
	And it's a 50-50.
	She might cheat.
	She might not cheat.
	But that environment breeds that to happen.
	It's a possibility.
	It's tough.
	And as a guy, think about it.
	You did envy.
	What do you do?
	It's tough.
	Well, the thing is, DJ Envy is a cheater.
	And she made it obvious by, like, what her intentions were by making a 20-day trip.
	By making it a 20-day trip.
	I mean, personally, me, if I have children, and I have a husband, and he so happens to be...
	Unfaithful.
	Unfaithful.
	I wouldn't continue the relationship.
	I think you can do, I think you can raise decent children, decent human beings, without the need to keep, you know, a monogamous marriage.
	When it was already broken.
	Yeah.
	You should be, you know, you should be in it for the kids.
	And like, yeah, and your duty to the kids doesn't change all because of infidelity.
	You can do the same thing and raise a decent human being.
	Separately.
	You know what I mean?
	Because she doesn't trust him, obviously.
	She's going on a 20-day girl's trip.
	And he doesn't respect her, obviously, for fucking with Erica Mena.
	So it just makes no sense.
	You just look goofy.
	The both of y'all look goofy.
	No, I disagree.
	He's DJ Envy.
	He's a somebody.
	She's just a random bitch.
	And the reality is, ladies, is that when you deal with a man who's a somebody that has status, power, and money, you have to deal with the consequence of that.
	And that means you're going to have to share him.
	You can't get back at a guy who's better than you in every regard.
	But if she was a woman of high status?
	It doesn't matter.
	Well, number one, she's not a woman of high status.
	But let's say she was.
	Well, that means she has to comply even more.
	You want to know why?
	Because she has an even lesser chance of replacing him.
	So you're saying, in a sense, Jay-Z cheats on Beyonce.
	Beyonce has to stay faithful to Jay-Z, even though she's Beyonce.
	I wrote a whole chapter on this in my book.
	Beyonce is probably one of the biggest cappers on Earth.
	She says, I could have another you in a minute.
	You're replaceable, all the single ladies.
	She basically makes all this, yeah, book coming very soon, Why Women Deserve Less.
	And in this book, I talk about how Beyonce has indoctrinated so many modern day women to think that they can replace their man, be single, be independent, be strong, whatever.
	But when push came to shove and Jay-Z cheated on her, her ass stayed put right there.
	Why?
	Because Jay-Z is a billionaire.
	He's successful.
	He has more status than she does.
	And here's the problem.
	Beyonce has status too.
	But how many men are going to rise up to Beyonce's level?
	Like Jay-Z. Thank you.
	None.
	So here's the reality.
	Jay-Z is universally attractive.
	Beyonce, yes, a lot of women want him.
	I never heard that before.
	I never heard that before.
	Wait.
	You're talking about Jay-Z.
	No, he's talking about status and stuff like that.
	Jay-Z is universally attractive.
	Yes, but you're thinking about looks.
	Oh, okay.
	I think he was.
	Yo, yo.
	Let's use some common sense here.
	There's girls right now that would line up to have sex with him, that would hook up with him, right?
	A random girl from McDonald's that's 18 years old, he'll date her.
	He's a billionaire.
	But Beyonce, on the other hand, She can't replace Jay-Z to the same level that Jay-Z can replace her.
	Because men don't have the same amount of standards.
	Women date across and above.
	Men date down and up.
	So who's actually replaceable here?
	Her.
	There you go.
	That's why, with DJ Envy, in this situation, the girl has no choice.
	She has no leverage.
	When you date with a man who's superior to you in every regard, you have no leverage.
	But she's still going on a 20-day girl's trip.
	That's where he fucked up.
	He should've told her that's not how this goes.
	Me and you are not the same.
	That's what I'm trying to tell y'all.
	A guy's trip is not the same as a girl's trip.
	If a man cheats on a girl, it ain't that big a deal.
	I could love my chick.
	If a woman cheats on you, it's a wrap.
	It says a lot about the man's standards.
	It's emotional.
	What do you mean it says a lot about the man's standards?
	Like you were saying how they go above and below, but women go across and above.
	It says a lot about their standards that they go below.
	Well, that's how the world works.
	There's a reason why a king can marry a peasant and turn her into a queen, but a queen will never look a peasant's way.
	Men are okay with dating down, women are not.
	Question.
	Did DJ Envy have that status before It's irrelevant.
	He has it now.
	Well, no, because I was going to say, especially if she knew who he was, then that's what she signed up for, agreeing with what you said.
	What I'm saying is that even if he gets...
	Let's say they get together and he's a nobody, and then he rises up and becomes a somebody.
	Well, hey, more money, more problems.
	So she has to deal with that.
	The cheating isn't a problem.
	It's a...
	I can see us also as well.
	They're looking at the cheating part.
	So you know what?
	It might be okay because of the cheating part.
	Let's say average guy.
	He ain't cheating probably not that she knows about.
	And she still wants to go on a girls trip.
	It's quite similar.
	So my question is...
	So women basically dating a man with money basically...
	What rights do we have then?
	If we just let our man fuck whatever, we don't have anything?
	None.
	And the reason why you have none is because you didn't have to work for anything in your life.
	Really?
	Yes.
	Let me explain.
	Interesting.
	Women are born with value.
	You guys can be on a yacht tomorrow with multi-millionaires that are successful to have blue checks.
	We can't.
	We have to become the multi-millionaires with the blue checks to get the yacht.
	You guys, when it comes to attraction, remember, I'm not talking about your worth as a human being.
	I'm talking about your value to men when it comes to dating.
	You're giving it up front.
	Okay?
	This is why a 21-year-old girl can be at a party with a bunch of multi-millionaire successful guys that have changed the world.
	Women that are young and attractive nowadays have access to the top-tier men.
	But men have to become top-tier to have access to women.
	So we're not the same.
	I understand.
	We don't play by the same set of rules.
	So the reason why you don't get the same accesses and privileges that we do is because you never work for it.
	Because we have more value.
	You're born with value, yes.
	Up front.
	Yeah, like an advantage.
	I get that.
	So basically what you're saying is we don't have any rights as a woman.
	I'm not saying you don't have any rights.
	No, I'm just saying in a relationship, what's the woman's role?
	We just have to just let our man fuck all the time.
	Stay in the kitchen.
	Is that what it is?
	Get a more average man.
	But most women don't want an average man.
	It's not about that.
	You can if you want to, but you gotta know what you're signing up for.
	You gonna date average men?
	I've dated average men.
	I've dated...
	No, no.
	Right now, 30.
	I mean...
	Do you know what the average man is?
	Don't cap.
	The average man makes, what, 50K? 37 to 50,000 a year.
	Okay.
	And 5'8".
	That doesn't bother me too much, truthfully.
	If average men are okay, why didn't you make it work with any of those average men?
	Because we didn't make a connection, truthfully.
	Translation, he wasn't good enough.
	That's the reality.
	You broke up with them, correct?
	I mean, we just kind of...
	Did you break up with them, yes or no?
	We just kind of...
	We're friends.
	We just kind of fell off, obviously.
	Not worth it then.
	Either way, see, this is what I mean when I say girls say one thing, but they behave a different way.
	The more successful the guy, the less leverage you have.
	Period.
	That's how it goes.
	That's why I kind of find it funny when girls are with a successful guy and think, he's going to be monogamous to me.
	That's what you think.
	He might tell you, he might not, but it just doesn't go that way, which I look at it like DJ Envy.
	He's kind of a simp for letting her go for 20 days.
	Like, bro, you're DJ Envy.
	Because if she goes out and fucks another dude, you look crazy.
	If you fuck another chick, yeah, it might cause her a little bit of embarrassment, but it doesn't matter.
	She's still your woman.
	She got the house.
	She got the keys.
	Kids, she got the fucking relationship.
	She got the last name.
	That's what matters.
	But we live in a clown world where we think men and women are equal.
	A woman cheating is the highest form of treachery.
	A man cheating, eh.
	Because deep down, I guarantee you, he doesn't want to go on that trip at all, deep down.
	Hell no, but it's because he feels bad.
	Yeah, that he cheated in the past.
	And to that point, I was going to say earlier, like, when I thought about it, and I'm like, damn, I want my partner to go on the trip with me.
	Like, I want to spend this time and have fun with my partner.
	If they're not there, then...
	Why go?
	Yeah, like, if I feel that type of way about you, like, I love you, but you're coming with me.
	But that's why.
	But we better have fun together, and I... No, it makes sense.
	If it's like, damn, I'm going with my girls right here.
	I don't know about you.
	At the end of the day, I want you to come with me if I fuck with you.
	And more often than not, if a girl goes on a girls trip, she doesn't want her guy there.
	Because of what happens.
	She knows her friends.
	They get wild, they get loose.
	She might get into the environment as well.
	She might want to partake.
	Girls act like hoes when they're in different area codes, man.
	That's the truth, bro.
	Girls like to go and travel and do all this fuck shit.
	Like, they like to do it because they have the anonymity of another geographic location where nobody knows them, right?
	And then they got their friends there to, you know, reinforce their bad behavior.
	And that's why I asked you earlier, are women emotional?
	Yes.
	Are they indecisive?
	Yes.
	Are they easily peer pressured in followers?
	Yes.
	These are all traits that are literally a recipe for disaster.
	And you add alcohol and drugs into the mix with a bunch of guys that want to have sex with them?
	Come on, man.
	Even if she's not a cheater like you said before, all these factors coming in can override her values.
	Men are the same.
	Men are just as emotional.
	Their anger gets spiraling and they get out of control.
	Is a man cheating the same as a woman cheating?
	It's disrespectful.
	Period.
	All cheating is disrespectful.
	But what is more detrimental to a relationship?
	Cheating, cheating.
	What is more detrimental to the relationship, men or women?
	Because you're trying to say it's the same and I'm telling you it's not.
	At all.
	And I think you know the answer, too.
	No, it's how I view it.
	If I'm in a relationship and he cheats, I'm leaving.
	That's cool.
	But if I cheat on him, he should be leaving.
	You should respect yourself enough to have, you know, like, respect.
	It should be a respectful thing.
	See, but here's the problem.
	You're trying to say that infidelity is the same between the two genders, and I'm telling you it's not.
	A man can love his chick and go fuck another girl.
	You, however, cannot love your man and go fuck another dude.
	That's my point.
	He may love me, but he doesn't respect me.
	And that is also very important.
	So do you think it's worse if a guy has sex with 20 girls and one girl has sex with one guy in a relationship?
	Do you think that's worse?
	Do you think that's worse?
	Women move off of emotions.
	You keep bringing up random topics.
	It's the same thing.
	Let me just address this.
	Because you're saying it's respect.
	Men and women respect each other differently.
	And if I find that disrespectfully disrespecting me.
	No, no, no, no.
	The man is the authority in the relationship, not the woman.
	Sure, yeah.
	So when it comes to respect from, yo, respect me, it needs to be the woman respects the man's authority.
	Which a big part of it is not fucking other people.
	Because here's the problem.
	When a man deals with a woman, he has to meet a bunch of different requirements.
	Tall enough, attractive enough, charisma, charm, etc.
	Men have to have a bunch of things in line to be attractive to a woman, right?
	Women, on the other hand, all y'all gotta do is be pretty and not be a hoe.
	So if you act like a hoe, that's way worse than me acting like a hoe.
	Because at least, even though I fucked another girl, I'm checking off a bunch of boxes for you.
	For us though, you not being a hoe is the box.
	So it's not the same.
	But if I'm being submissive and I'm giving my full trust to this man and I say explicitly, I want a monogamous relationship and he cheats on me with 20 women, it's disrespectful and he doesn't respect me.
	Okay, let's operate in reality here.
	Do you think men that are of higher status and have money are going to be monogamous?
	If they want a monogamous relationship.
	The answer is no.
	The answer is no.
	The answer is just straight up no.
	Is that all men that have money?
	A majority of them.
	Majority.
	The man you want probably ain't gonna be monogamous to you.
	Yeah, pretty much.
	I don't believe that.
	You don't believe that?
	I don't believe that.
	Wait, so...
	Well, fresh.
	Good.
	So, tell me this.
	What's the difference between you and your sister?
	Because you both are twins, right?
	So, what's the difference between you and her?
	Because if I was a guy trying to date two girls, right?
	What's the difference between you and her?
	Like, why would I date you over her?
	So why would he pick you over her?
	Why are you comparing me and my sister to begin with?
	It's not a comparison.
	I'm not going to compare myself to my sister.
	She is her own person.
	I am my own person.
	So there's no comparison, right?
	No.
	So all the same?
	Okay.
	I'm just saying there's no comparison.
	Why would I compare myself to someone that has my same DNA? Okay, so then there's no difference, right?
	There is a difference because we are our own person.
	We are who we are.
	But we just are saying that, like, personally speaking, we don't talk about, like, us as separated.
	We like to talk as a whole.
	We don't like having those conversations.
	I don't know how to explain it.
	It's just personally, like, how we were raised, we don't like having those conversations.
	Like, our parents, like, never...
	I never was in competition.
	Yeah, basically never like in competition.
	And that's all our parents are.
	And what I'm saying is, if I was a guy, I just not mean you two, right?
	Why would I choose either or?
	It's like, at the end of the day, it's, you know, a guy looks at you and says, you know, I want something different.
	I want something, you know, the same.
	But so why should I choose you over your sister?
	I mean, it's your preference.
	What?
	It's up to you.
	Yeah, it's your preference.
	You choose my sister because you like my sister and the way she does for you.
	Let me stop.
	Hold on.
	What he's trying to illustrate here is that women are not that special.
	Let's go through it.
	What do you bring that's different?
	I'm open-minded and mature.
	Well, a lot of girls are.
	I'm me.
	I'm a singer.
	I have blue eyes.
	I'm not shitting on Amishalant.
	I have essence.
	And then you said you play the piano.
	The reality is, ladies, is that...
	That wasn't the only thing I said.
	So here's the thing.
	We lie to women.
	We tell them that they're special.
	We tell them they're irreplaceable.
	We prop them up to think that they're, you know, individual.
	The reality is you guys are all very similar and behave the same way.
	So since you guys are all very similar, men want a variety of different women when it comes to looks.
	You guys are not as special as you think you are.
	Men always want other chicks.
	That's just how it goes.
	Now, you can accept reality or continue to live in your delusional fantasy where you think, I'm me!
	And I deserve someone that's going to be monogamous to me.
	Or you.
	I'm going to manifest it.
	See, women get the privilege of being delusional.
	Men don't.
	If a man has the ability to cheat, he will.
	I'm telling you the truth.
	That's just how it goes.
	How you take it is up to you.
	You want to live in a delusional world like, I'm me!
	He ain't going to cheat on me!
	That's cool.
	But there's a bunch of chicks that are more attractive than you that he would fuck if he had the chance to do it.
	You might be the main.
	And if he's that type of man, go do that.
	But you're not staying with me.
	Oh, men are like that.
	Oh, no.
	He won't tell you, though.
	He just won't tell you, bro.
	Smash them and come back to you like nothing happened.
	All I'm trying to tell you is that you guys are not that special.
	And it's crazy how we got almost 13,000 people watching.
	The reason why this podcast is so popular is because very rarely do women get told to their face they're not that special.
	Men would never dare tell you this because they're trying to fuck.
	Some of the men are pretty special.
	Do you think men are special?
	We never said that we were.
	They're not.
	Women, yes, depending on what they can provide for that woman.
	That's what makes a man special.
	Here's the difference.
	Men don't run around and say that they're special, that they're princesses, that they deserve the world, etc.
	Women live in entitlement.
	Men don't.
	Men understand they must earn everything they get.
	So you're trying to tell me a man earns status, he earns income, he earns respect from his peers, he earns a title, and you expect him to go ahead and take you seriously when you didn't earn shit as a woman?
	No.
	And again, your career, your money, etc.
	It doesn't matter.
	I mean, your sexuality, what makes you attractive to a man?
	You didn't earn it.
	So you can't tell someone who had to earn their sexual market value how to use it.
	And of course, we're talking about a case-by-case basis.
	What?
	We're talking about a case-by-case.
	Nobody's special, but everyone's different.
	Yeah.
	What he said.
	Women are all very similar.
	I've interviewed like 1900 y'all.
	Y'all say the same dumb shit over and over.
	But you said men are not that special either.
	That's the difference, but men don't run around and say they're special.
	I'm a 10, I'm a 9.
	Men don't have the same grand illusion about where they stand in the marketplace.
	And the thing is that a lot of y'all want a man that is special.
	That's my point.
	You want a high earner, over 6 feet tall, attractive, charismatic, charming, etc.
	That man is special.
	You're not.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	Special to you.
	No, he's special to a majority of women, hence why he can cheat in the first place.
	Can't relate.
	Yeah, you're a lesbian.
	That's why you don't know.
	I don't even know why I'm on here.
	I don't know either.
	Shout out to Pixie, man.
	I said that.
	But that's what I'm trying to say.
	The man that you want is exceptional.
	He's special.
	You're really not.
	Because the things that make a woman attractive aren't special and hard to find.
	Youth and beauty, man.
	Don't be a ho.
	Three things.
	You can pull any guy.
	The thing is that we stop thinking that people are less special just because they do things.
	But we have the same value.
	We just do mistakes.
	We are the same.
	Why am I going to stop loving you if you fuck up?
	You cheat on your head with your eyes.
	Like, fuck, I want to fuck her.
	Why don't you just tell me or something?
	Because most girls can't handle the truth.
	You saw how she reacted.
	I didn't react any certain way.
	You said you would leave him if he cheated on you.
	Yes, I would.
	So why would he tell you the truth if he wants to keep you around?
	He's going to cap.
	But I'm going to find out regardless.
	Maybe not.
	Maybe not.
	Hopefully you find out maybe not.
	That's why a lot of guys just pay escorts.
	Yeah.
	Secrecy.
	Confidentiality.
	There's too much secrecy going on.
	A lot of girls, let's be honest, you said you wouldn't accept cheating.
	You wouldn't accept cheating.
	Who else here said they wouldn't accept cheating?
	You wouldn't accept it.
	But she would.
	You said you would?
	Not on her.
	I mean, I've been there.
	I don't like it because it's not safe.
	Okay, so hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Let's use the table here.
	Most of y'all said you would not accept cheating, so why are men going to be honest?
	You're right.
	Why would they be honest?
	They won't be.
	Which is why you won't find out.
	You're right.
	Is honesty not important in a relationship?
	Honesty is important in a relationship, but if they're cheating, they're not going to tell you.
	They're not going to benefit if they're honest.
	If it's not beneficial to them, they're not going to do it.
	So why do you want to be with a girl if you don't want to be honest with her?
	Women can't handle the truth in general.
	They want the girl, but the honesty is going to mess it up.
	So they're like, you know what?
	I'll tell her what she wants to hear.
	That way we both work out.
	Kind of selfish.
	And what you don't know won't hurt you.
	Probably.
	But hey, it's what it is, reality.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Does a man love a girl more?
	If a man has two girlfriends, okay?
	He lies to one, but he tells the other one the truth that he's having sex with other girls.
	Who does he love more?
	The one he's telling the truth to?
	Hold on, stop.
	No, the one he's lying to.
	Wait, wait.
	So if a man has two girlfriends, he lies to one, and he tells the truth to the other, who does he love more?
	Who does he actually love more?
	Well, I mean, that's obvious.
	The one he tells the truth to more.
	You think so?
	No.
	I disagree.
	Look at the other girls.
	The one he lies to, right?
	Yeah.
	Preserve her feelings.
	Yeah.
	He's scared of losing you.
	Exactly.
	Or whatever that made it like.
	Alright, so Rumble switch?
	Guys, come on over to Rumble right now.
	Guys, we're going to move over to RumbleRumble.com slash Fresh and Fit Man and then we're going to turn it to a lady to ask a question because I know she had something about monogamy which is hilarious.
	But come on over guys right now.
	RumbleRumbleRumble.com slash Fresh and Fit.
	Come on over guys right now.
	We're live.
	Let's go.
	Okay.
	Alright, so what's up?
	We'll hit some of these chats?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Shout out to the mods, by the way.
	But mods, not delete chats like this.
	It's fine.
	Let Myron address it.
	Okay.
	Alejandra Cash goes, Myron, you sound like you're jealous of us women because you're assuming our life is easy.
	I believe in equality.
	Both women and men's life are equally as difficult.
	Alejandra Cash, you are incorrect.
	In the United States, in the West, 2023, women have far easier lives than men do.
	And the reason why is because technology, affirmative action...
	Preferential treatment.
	Women still get the benefits of being treated like a lady while simultaneously being treated like an equal.
	So I don't know what you're talking about.
	I can't name one right or privilege that men have that women don't have.
	But I can name a bunch of rights and privileges that women have that men don't in 2023.
	So I'm not mad about the differences.
	I just acknowledge them and I tell men to stop putting women on pedestals because they do have these advantages.
	That's the difference.
	Cool.
	Anything else?
	Question, who carries more of the blame if a woman cheats on her man?
	The woman that cheated, the man she cheated with, assuming he knew she was in a relationship, or the man she cheated on?
	Defend your response.
	That's a pretty good question.
	Who carries more of the blame in a relationship?
	Okay, we'll start here.
	Who carries more of the blame in a relationship if a woman cheats on her man?
	The woman that cheated, the man she cheated with, assuming he knew, or the man she cheated on?
	Defend your response.
	Go ahead.
	I think the woman.
	Why?
	It goes back to the idea that women are more emotional, so I think the guilt would probably affect her more than...
	I think the guy who knows that she's in a relationship, I feel like he probably doesn't give a fuck because he did it.
	Do you think women feel guilty after they cheat most of the time?
	Because we're emotional, yeah.
	I think they don't.
	I think they've been checked out by the time they cheat.
	Yeah true So who do you think is actually the main culprit The man she cheated on then I don't think the man who she cheated with.
	So the first guy that she cheated on, you think it's his fault?
	I'm sorry?
	You think it's her partner's fault that she cheats in the first place?
	Oh, whose fault it is?
	Yeah, whose fault is it?
	Who carries the most of the blame?
	Her.
	If you're cheating, I mean, if she's cheating and she's already mentally checked out to the point where she can cheat, if we're emotionally creatures and you have it in you to cheat, then just leave, I think.
	Okay, so you blame the girl because she could have just left?
	Yeah, just leave.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Same.
	This is a female's, like, it's a woman's fault.
	Why do you say that?
	She could have just left.
	Same reason?
	You think it's because she could have left?
	Yeah, like, come on now.
	Like, it's just immature and childish at this point.
	Like, if you don't love that person anymore, leave.
	Like, leave.
	You're wasting both of y'all times.
	I agree.
	That's a good point.
	They should leave, but most people don't.
	That's not most people.
	Most people are idiots.
	I don't, like...
	If you mentally checked out and you no longer love this person, the best way for y'all to move forward is to leave, not to cause more drama.
	It doesn't help anyone.
	You're not making money.
	You just look foolish.
	Like, grow up.
	Beating a dead horse.
	Truly.
	Yay.
	What about you?
	Who is more to blame here?
	The woman?
	The man that she cheated with?
	Or the man himself?
	When you go young, wild, and free, whose fault is it that you went free?
	You, the guy you cheated on, or the guy you cheated with?
	It's my fault for being super wild, but I don't take nothing personal, so I would just do my thing.
	I have a lot of things to worry about.
	No, I will not blame you.
	So whose fault is it then?
	I didn't understand the question.
	Well, sometimes it's the fault of the other person because the other person comes to like, you know...
	Which other person?
	The person that he's cheating with.
	Okay, so you blame the guy that she cheated with.
	Yeah.
	Why?
	Why?
	Because it's temptation.
	Sometimes they come to you.
	That happened to me.
	Yeah.
	So you blame the guy for cheating on your boyfriend?
	Wait, I blame the guy for cheating on my boyfriend.
	No, no, porque me fui.
	Okay, la pregunta es, si una mujer se fue una noche y hizo trampa a su pareja, ¿verdad?
	¿Quién es el culpable?
	¿La mujer?
	¿El nombre que ella usó para engañar al otro o el pareja?
	Sí.
	It's my fault.
	She's saying it's her fault.
	Why?
	Because it's my decision going out, cheating on you.
	Cheating.
	You know, cheetos.
	Like eating a cheeto.
	Ay Dios.
	A hot cheeto.
	What about you?
	Whose fault is it?
	The girl that cheated?
	The guy she cheated with?
	Or the original partner that allowed the cheating to happen?
	Tell us.
	It's the woman's fault for making the move.
	But I feel like a lot of times women cheat because of something that the man did prior.
	Or is lacking.
	Does that make it right?
	No, not at all.
	Okay.
	Just curious.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	The woman.
	Why do you think the woman?
	Because you could just break up with him.
	Leave.
	Like, you don't have to do all that.
	Just be single.
	Yeah.
	Unnecessary.
	Yeah, but he has money and he takes care of her.
	I mean, then why cheat?
	Because maybe he's a lame.
	Maybe she got bored.
	Then leave.
	What?
	But she wants the benefits.
	I can't speak for her.
	Okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	Whose fault is it?
	I feel like whoever went and cheated is the person who's at fault, regardless of what anyone else did.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	It's undoubtedly the woman's fault for cheating.
	She made that decision.
	You made a commitment to somebody and you want to be secretive.
	So, yeah.
	Alright.
	So then, why would a guy allow his girl to go on a girl's trip if he knows she might cheat or frip?
	Don't let her.
	Thank you.
	Y'all said, who's the blame for cheating, right?
	The woman.
	So why would a guy say, you know what?
	Go on a girl's trip!
	Go have fun!
	She might cheat.
	I feel like if he's done, it's not a definite thing.
	But we're talking about if I cheated, let's say I cheated on you because that's a definite thing that happened, then it's my fault that I cheated on you because I committed the act.
	But you're saying that if I go on a girl's trip, you have the fear that I might cheat.
	No, but not all the facts from today, from your arguments, from your statements earlier, and to the fact if women cheat, they don't have much remorse, so to speak.
	Why would they even let you go?
	I get your question now.
	So I'm going to go a little bit different.
	I disagree with all of you guys.
	I think it's the partner's fault that she cheated.
	And the reason why is because as the man, you're the leader.
	It's your job to vet the girl for at least one to two years.
	I tell guys all the time when you date a girl, vet her for a year before you give her anything as far as the title goes.
	And if she has promiscuous tendencies, such as wanting to go on a girl's trip, showing her body all over the place, wanting male attention, etc., you don't take that girl seriously.
	So I think it's on the guy for not vetting the woman properly.
	If a girl cheats on you, a lot of times it's because you're inadequate in something, and on top of that, you didn't vet her properly.
	So I take it on the guy.
	Because as the leader, as the breadwinner, as the decision maker, you need to know who you employ at your place of business.
	You gonna say something?
	Go ahead.
	So you're going to say, like, let's say your girlfriend cheats on you, you know, hypothetically.
	Yeah.
	If you believe that you are to blame, sorry, blame for that?
	Yeah.
	Because typically women cheat from emotion and there's some type of issue that arise with the man.
	He didn't fulfill something.
	Right.
	So I'll give you an example.
	Let's say a guy has money, but he's really, he's very weak.
	His girl...
	Walks all over him, buy me a bag here, take me here.
	His dumb ass, okay, baby, please.
	Well, she's not going to respect him.
	She's going to look for that more assertive, dominant man elsewhere.
	But on the other side, let's say the guy is attractive, right?
	And he's assertive and dominant, maybe to a degree, but he's a bum and he can't actually provide security.
	Well, she's going to go and use that, get that security from some other guy.
	Right?
	Which is still cheating.
	Whether or not she fucks him is irrelevant.
	She's getting resources from another man, which props her up to potentially cheat.
	So, what I tell guys, you gotta be a complete package.
	Be the complete package, and then when you are, she's gonna love, admire, and respect you, and then at that point, she can't really cheat.
	Women have a very difficult time to cheat when they're with a man that they actually respect.
	What if you are the complete package, and she cheats?
	She won't.
	That's the key.
	But most men are not the complete package is the problem.
	But what if she does?
	It will not happen.
	Well, hold on.
	You want to know why it won't happen?
	Because you vetted her out for a long period of time and you're that guy.
	What if she changes her mind?
	What do you mean changing her mind?
	No, I get what she's saying because let's say she's happy with you now, but she may get bored.
	She may say, you know what?
	What if she just sees a guy that is fucking fine?
	And she says, yeah, I love my dude, but this dude is fine.
	But you're still the whole package.
	What do you do then?
	Okay, let me see.
	Here's the thing.
	Even though that sounds like it could happen on paper, etc., the likelihood of it happening is very slim.
	If a woman truly feels fulfilled with her man and he's that guy, all of their men are virtually invisible to her.
	That's the truth.
	Yes.
	It's a way lower chance.
	It's a way lower chance.
	Okay.
	Once a girl's emotionally attached to you and you're that guy, she ain't going fucking nowhere, bro.
	And here's other reason, too.
	That's why you can never put her on a pedestal.
	Again, book coming soon.
	Why women deserve less.
	Your girl's got to be like third or fourth on the priority list.
	It's got to be your business, you focusing on being the best version of yourself.
	Then your girl comes after that because what made you attractive to her in the first place is what you need to continue to maintain.
	Now, what you mentioned, oh, well, what about, let's say she falls out of love with you or some other crap like that.
	Well, if you're always working on yourself and you're the best man, more than likely she's going to be chasing your validation and she's not going to cheat on you.
	Which is why I also say your girl needs to like you more than you like her.
	Even though that goes contrary to popular belief.
	But the girl needs to feel happy to feel lucky to have you.
	When it goes the other way around, girls think that they can go ahead and do whatever they want.
	But basically, women are terrible people when they have leverage.
	Sorry, I'll just say it.
	They're terrible people when they have leverage.
	They'll say dumb shit like, I'm young, wild, and free.
	They'll be hoes.
	They'll go on girls trips, etc.
	Anytime a girl cheats on you, she doesn't respect you.
	And they're going to make you pay the price for it.
	Versus if I go out and cheat on my girl, she's still my chick.
	I still love her.
	I just fuck that bitch.
	But you're my main girl.
	But when a woman cheats, there's not much...
	It's a wrap.
	It's over.
	What if you fuck your best friend?
	It counts like cheating.
	What?
	If you fuck your best friend.
	A female?
	Yeah.
	Women can't fuck each other.
	That doesn't count.
	No, no, no, like...
	Yeah, I'll just scissor, bro.
	A woman best friend, a guy best friend.
	Oh, you mean as a guy?
	Mm-hmm.
	So if I fuck a female best friend, I would never have a female best friend.
	It is pointless to have a female friend.
	Unless we're having sex.
	Exactly.
	I'm just laughing at all this because of my situation.
	I have friends that we don't fuck.
	You gotta look at it from a male perspective.
	There's very little utility that women provide to men as friends.
	They're just waiting on you.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Stop the show.
	Earlier in the show, I wrote this shit down.
	We asked y'all, you got a friend that doesn't know how to get girls.
	What would you tell him?
	All you guys gave dog shit advice.
	Yeah.
	So please explain to me how having a female friend is useful to you as a man.
	Not you as a girl.
	It's useful to you.
	But it's useless to us.
	It doesn't benefit men to have female friends at all.
	Y'all can't fight?
	Can't protect us?
	You want us to pay for food when we go and hang out?
	That's your reality.
	That's your reality.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Stop, stop.
	You're emotional.
	You can't really provide much utility to me.
	You can't give me advice because women don't live the same experiences as men.
	Like, women are useless as platonic friends.
	How many female friends do you have?
	I have a lot of female friends and I got male friends that I don't have sex with.
	Who do you prefer to hang out with?
	Your male friends or your female friends?
	Probably the males.
	Exactly.
	You only want to hang out with female friends.
	Thank you.
	You only want to hang out with your female friends and you expect me to hang out with them?
	Hey, man.
	Sorry, man.
	Hey, man.
	All I'm saying is...
	All I'm saying is...
	I don't know.
	Because having a female friend...
	Hey, man.
	Right?
	Hey, man.
	Hey, man.
	I'm not...
	I'm just...
	Yo, I'm telling y'all, man.
	Here's the thing.
	When a man is platonic friends with you, he wants to fuck, bro.
	That's not true, man.
	No.
	No, that's not.
	Like, I have plenty of friends, and we actually, you know, we do...
	Business things together, like all kinds of things.
	And if you offer to fuck them, they will.
	I'm not on that vibe with them.
	Who cares if they want to fuck me?
	It's not going to be that.
	But you're not on that vibe.
	But they're not, so it doesn't matter.
	All right, look, look, here's the thing.
	I need you to exercise some critical thinking skills.
	I know it's tough.
	Maybe a concussion.
	But I need you to exercise some critical thinking skills.
	Stop looking at the world through your own lens.
	You need to be able to look at it from a male perspective.
	I know, and I was trying to give you some other perspective on women that actually do different shit.
	That's what he's saying.
	We're talking about the men.
	Yeah, I get it.
	Do you know what the word platonic means?
	Yeah.
	What does it mean?
	That means y'all are friends that don't fuck.
	Okay.
	Non-sexual.
	What I'm telling you is that if they want to fuck you, it is not platonic.
	You're making it platonic, but for him, it's not because he's waiting.
	So that is my point.
	How you feel about the situation is irrelevant because he still has ulterior motives.
	I think that this is just a projection of a different reality, truthfully.
	That is the reality.
	They want to fuck.
	A lot of guys do want to fuck, but also you can still have good relationships with people, with men, Where it's not even like that.
	For now.
	No, it's not.
	I've been friends with men for years.
	Those guys will wait for years.
	They know they're not going to get it.
	Guys respect me more because I don't fuck them.
	Get it through your fucking head.
	It doesn't matter what you think.
	I'm telling you what the men think.
	They want to fuck, which is why they're dealing with you.
	Period.
	Yeah.
	Okay?
	So it's platonic on your end, but they're hoping for more, which proves my point.
	Women don't offer much utility as friends.
	The only time men actually are stupid enough to allow a girl to friend zone them is when they're trying to have sex with a girl, aka ulterior motives.
	Here's the difference between men and women.
	You keep looking at things from a female perspective.
	It doesn't matter because I don't want to fuck them.
	Men have to understand women to fuck them.
	You don't have to understand men to fuck them, which is why you can live in a delusional world that you're in right now saying that, it doesn't matter if they want to fuck me because I make the final choice.
	That's true.
	But men have to understand women to have sex.
	Privilege is invisible to those that have it, and this entire exchange has proved my point.
	Why men have to understand women to fuck them?
	Let me ask you a question.
	If a guy walked up to you in the club and said, I want to fuck right here, right now, what's your response?
	No.
	Exactly.
	Thank you.
	Nope.
	What does he have to do to get you?
	Let me answer it for you.
	He's got to be charming, charismatic, turn you on a little bit but not be too creepy, smell good, maybe be taller than you, have a little bit of money, show you that he could take you on a date, court you properly, be able to properly touch you so you don't feel uncomfortable but at the same time still show you that he's interested.
	He's got to do all these things.
	What does that need?
	Understanding of what turns the opposite gender on.
	Men have to lead and initiate all types of interactions that lead to sex.
	You just sit there and you accept it.
	Or not.
	You can reject them or not, but the man still has to understand you to get laid.
	You, on the other hand, don't have to understand him to get laid.
	You just exist.
	But, Maren, it's the essence, though, that's...
	The essence.
	I can't go to a girl and say, let's just have sex.
	It won't work.
	No matter how charming I am, it's going to fail 99% of the time.
	You won't know that I can go up to a guy and say, let's fuck.
	They're going to say yes.
	So men must understand women.
	Women don't have to understand men.
	What does that mean?
	He puts in and takes it out.
	So, that's what I mean.
	Like, women have a privilege of not having to understand men to attract them.
	We have to understand you guys to attract you, which is why such a minority of men actually get girls.
	It doesn't take a lot for a woman to turn on a man, you feel me?
	That's very much true.
	Yeah, so you guys play the game on easy mode.
	Alright, cool.
	Do you have anything else you want to say besides your friends wanting to have sex with you?
	I don't know.
	I know, y'all just love that shit, huh, right?
	Just loving that shit.
	Simple, easy questions.
	Since most women won't settle for a broken year, would it be wrong for a man to turn down a woman because she's overweight or has kids?
	Oh, okay.
	I'll ask that question.
	Is it wrong for a guy to turn a girl down because she's overweight and or has children?
	Yes or no?
	I'm sorry, I need to read that one more time.
	It says, most women won't settle for a brokie, so is it fair that a guy can turn a woman down because she's overweight or has kids?
	Yes or no?
	That's fair.
	If that's what you don't want, fine.
	It's not a super good reason, but hey, man, if that's not your thing, fuck it.
	You don't think her being overweight and having children is a super good reason?
	Oh, yeah.
	It is a super good reason.
	For some guys, it's not.
	Maybe that's your type.
	I know.
	My dog that I was telling you about, he doesn't give a fuck.
	Do you think it's a wise investment for a guy to take a girl seriously that has children?
	I'm asking her because you said maybe it's his type.
	Me?
	Yes.
	Is it wise for a guy to take a woman seriously that has children?
	If he isn't able to bear kids, maybe.
	If he appreciates them and whatever, yeah.
	But if you're trying to build a family and you want to do your own thing, then no.
	Okay, so because you said it's maybe it's this type and I'm saying like what taking on risk?
	Maybe if you're feeling risky, if you're feeling like you want to do that.
	Adventurous.
	I ain't got the type.
	Incredible, bro.
	Incredible.
	All right.
	What about you then?
	I guess do you think can a guy turn a girl down because she's overweight or has children?
	Who are you talking to?
	The lesbian.
	Oh, me still?
	Yes.
	Is it wrong for them to turn him down?
	Yes, yes or no.
	Is it wrong?
	No, you like what you like.
	Alright, what about you?
	No, it's valid.
	You think it's valid?
	Yeah, you like what you like, girl.
	So you think it's only because you like what you like, not because of the other reasons?
	No.
	What are the reasons?
	Don't be overweight and having kids.
	I mean...
	If you like somebody that's overweight...
	If you don't want to do...
	Okay.
	That's what you like.
	Have you watched porn lately?
	No, it's not even that.
	So it's valid.
	It's valid.
	And if you don't want to deal with someone that's overweight or you don't like the appearance or whatever the case is, that's your choice.
	And if you don't want to deal with someone that has kids because you know it's responsibility, step-daddy role, or whatever the case may be, that's valid for you to not want to do that.
	You don't have to do that.
	You don't have to deal with that.
	What about you?
	Do you think a guy turning a girl down because she's overweight or has children is fucked up?
	No.
	Why not?
	Everybody else is saying that's his choice.
	If he wants to get into that type of responsibility with kids, that's on him.
	Okay, what about you?
	Well, my uncle, I'm saying it from other perspective, because he can't have children, like, he can't come, you know, like, so it's like, of course, he wants to take care of a girl with a children, you know?
	Yeah.
	Do you think that's smart for him to do that, though?
	It is smart.
	Like, I never had a father either, so...
	I always appreciated, like, the guys that took care of me.
	You know?
	My mom was very, like...
	So that's...
	Okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	Do you think it's fair for a guy to turn a girl down because she's overweight and or has children?
	It seems pretty fair.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	It seems pretty fair.
	What makes it fair?
	It's just not your cup of tea.
	It's not your cup of tea.
	That's all.
	Interesting.
	All right.
	What about you?
	You have kids, right?
	I do.
	I have two daughters.
	Oh shit, that's why she's having issues with me.
	I am, I am.
	Because I want to agree and say, yeah, to each his own, because I also think if that's what you like.
	Here, let me make it easier for you.
	Let's go on to an imaginary world.
	Your son, 35 years old, built himself up, multi-millionaire, successful, attractive.
	He comes and says, hey mom, I met this girl, she's 50 pounds overweight and she has two kids.
	Should he take her seriously and date her?
	Hey, y'all!
	What does she provide for him?
	He just likes her.
	He just likes her?
	Yeah.
	That's it?
	Yeah, I know it's amazing to believe this, but men really don't have that many standards for women.
	If that's what he likes.
	True.
	Yeah, then...
	You would let him do it?
	Oh, if I would let him?
	If I was his mom?
	Yeah, what would you say?
	Keep it a thousand.
	You guys can see the cognitive dissonance right now.
	I would say...
	Yeah, I would say probably that's not what I would want from my son.
	I would probably want him to start from...
	Especially with the kids' situation, I would probably want him to have his own family, maybe.
	Okay.
	Why do you want him to have his own family versus taking on someone else's kids?
	It's hard because I have kids and I'm in a relationship with someone who's not the father of my kids.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Exactly.
	I'm trying to think about him.
	I'm about to help you appreciate that nigga more.
	Yeah, no, no, no.
	He's very appreciated.
	So you should let him cheat.
	I think you should let him fuck other chicks.
	You're real lucky to even find a guy that's taking care of you and your kids, paying all the bills, etc.
	I don't want to sound like an asshole, but you don't have much negotiating power here.
	Not many men are willing to take on a woman, her kids, with a past, That comes from OnlyFans and is a bottle girl.
	And the bills.
	And the bills.
	And it's not just you.
	He got paid for the kids too.
	Yeah.
	I honestly think you need to appreciate him more.
	And if he wants to fuck another bitch, bro, you better stick around because you ain't going to find somebody else to take care of you like that.
	And overweight too, so.
	Yeah.
	And he loves the kids.
	Overweight.
	This nigga, Chris.
	If you lost some pounds, hey, listen.
	What is this, man?
	This nigga, bro.
	Hey, it's been the truth, man.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	What are your thoughts?
	She ain't bad, man.
	She ain't bad.
	Nah, nigga.
	and they go hit the gym.
	It's bubble, man.
	Come on, man.
	I mean, yeah, so then, yeah, I wouldn't say it's ideal.
	Probably not.
	So I have a saying.
	I went viral for saying this on TikTok.
	And I don't mean this to any disrespect to the ladies on the panel that have children.
	But I've always said it.
	I've said single moms are typically recreational use only.
	And the reason why I say that, speaking from a man's perspective, and you guys should know, I know it sounds offensive, right?
	Yeah, we went viral for saying that.
	Like the mainstream news.
	But when I said that, the reason why I said that is because I'm going to run some numbers by you guys, okay?
	50% of marriages end in divorce.
	Roughly 45 to 50% of marriages end in divorce.
	Women initiate 70 to 80% of the divorces.
	And alimony is paid about 90% plus of the time from men to women.
	And on top of that, 90 plus percent of the time, the children go to the woman.
	Now that you have these raw numbers, can you actually advise your son to go ahead and marry a woman that has children that aren't his, she could divorce him, take his money, and he probably will never see those children that he doesn't have any legal rights to anyway?
	Now that you know the raw numbers?
	Yeah, most of the panel said no.
	Huh?
	Most of the panel said no.
	Exactly.
	So, I know you guys said it before, preference or whatever.
	It's not about preference.
	It's about being realistic and making the best decisions for yourself as a man.
	If you get with a single mom, you're putting yourself in a very dangerous situation as a man.
	And I didn't say that earlier to disrespect you.
	No, no, no.
	Not at all.
	I'm just saying it so that you can understand that you have something special.
	Yeah.
	Don't fuck it up.
	For sure.
	Because...
	I'll tell you right now, myself as a multi-millionaire, him, success, whatever, I'm never taking a single mom seriously.
	Ever.
	And I did it before.
	I won't do it again.
	Won't do it again.
	So if a guy does take it, I think women need to have a newfound appreciation if a man's willing to come in, take care of you, your children, and be the breadwinner.
	I think they get certain privileges that you might not necessarily exercise to another guy personally.
	So and I don't think women are appreciative enough of that.
	How number one, how cold the streets are.
	Number two, how hard it is to actually find a man that's going to take care of you.
	And then number three, how hard it is to retain a guy.
	So if you do have a guy, he's a good guy.
	Trust me, the grass is always greener on the other side, man.
	Be happy with what you got.
	Nine out of ten times.
	And as you get older, your value only goes down.
	So it's like consolidate on the best guy that you can when you're still young and beautiful.
	Or go back to baby daddy.
	But you don't want to do that, do you?
	Yeah, you don't want to do that.
	So all I'm saying is if you catch a fucking another bitch, you might want to look the other way.
	No bullshit.
	Yeah.
	Real talk, man.
	But going back to what I was saying, So yeah, I think for men, it's not in your best interest to get with a single mom.
	Now, are there exceptions to the rule?
	Of course.
	There's always going to be maybe a single mom out there that might be great, better than all the other girls that don't have kids.
	But on a likelihood, balance of probabilities, it's a very slim chance.
	That's all.
	Anybody have anything?
	No.
	You want to turn it to ladies?
	Yeah, we'll turn it to ladies now.
	Okay, ladies.
	Now it's your turn.
	Ask us a question.
	Statement that was made earlier.
	Comment.
	Disagreements.
	Whatever y'all want.
	Disagreements.
	The floor is yours.
	Ask away.
	And then we'll do a lot of thoughts on the show and then head out of here.
	So, questions, comments, and of course, statements you want to make.
	I know you're ready to ask some questions here.
	I already know.
	But anybody want to start first?
	Anybody else besides her?
	All right, go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	How do you treat a woman outside when you go out?
	How do you approach a woman to be with her?
	How would I approach her?
	Uh-huh.
	Well, are you asking me or him?
	Well...
	You want me to go first fresh, I guess?
	Yeah.
	Don't think too much.
	No, no.
	I mean, because it depends.
	There's many ways you could do it.
	You could approach a girl outside.
	You could approach a girl on the internet.
	You could approach a girl on a dating app, Instagram.
	There's many ways.
	So which way do you want?
	How do you treat or approach a girl?
	I will not take you seriously if you approach me in a dating app.
	Never.
	What about Instagram?
	Are you on dating apps?
	In Instagram, no.
	It has to be in person.
	Like the destiny push there for me.
	Message from Instagram.
	What you doing?
	You know what I'm going?
	Bad Bunny, what do you feel?
	Like, why do you think?
	I don't know if Bad Bunny is hiding, like, an infection or whatever.
	It's just like...
	Bro, if Bad Bunny DMs you, you're responding.
	Stop.
	If Bad Bunny DMs you, you're responding.
	If Drake DMs you, you're responding.
	If the Miami Heat DMs you, you're responding.
	Yeah.
	Like, come on, man.
	Not like I take it like that because I've been in Drake's birthday party.
	Huh?
	I've been in Drake's birthday party.
	In his birthday.
	How'd you get invited to that party?
	I paid to be there inside.
	But I was there.
	You paid?
	Yeah.
	Who'd you pay?
	My friend.
	NSC. Yeah, it's not a lie.
	I'm not lying.
	It was October 24th.
	Was he a promoter?
	Was she a promoter?
	He's my friend, friend.
	He ain't your friend, nigga.
	Because he was...
	I don't even want to say this here.
	But yeah, we were coming out through the kitchen.
	Because it was a party, like already planned already.
	A lot of rich people and everything.
	So they got me inside through the kitchen.
	Don't say nothing.
	Oh my God.
	I'm gonna be honest with you, bro.
	If he charged you, he didn't charge me.
	It was the person that he was working with.
	What?
	Oh, okay.
	So I get it now.
	So her friend brought her to the party, but to get her in...
	No, he didn't even, like, he was not there.
	He was other people, you know, that he was working with.
	So let me explain.
	Your friend invited you to the party, but the people that were at the party said, yo, pay me, I'll get her in.
	No, no.
	It was his birthday party.
	How long have you been in Miami?
	Since 2015.
	Bro, why are your English so trash?
	No, because she's...
	What the fuck?
	Hey, booty and tits, man.
	How you been in Miami?
	I'm not trash, bro.
	No, no, no, you're English.
	How does your English suck you've been here for eight years, bro?
	You don't have to know English in Miami.
	Yeah, I know.
	- You go, here it goes.
	And you want yachts?
	It's .
	- Okay.
	- Thank you.
	- I don't think it's nothing first of all. - That's stupid.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	Nothing.
	My English is trash.
	Yeah, that's right.
	It is.
	It sucks, bro.
	No offense.
	It's the truth.
	It sucks.
	I don't know.
	I guess nobody told you this because they were trying to have sex, but bro, that is terrible.
	Let's go to the Yim.
	Let's go to Yim.
	Not really.
	Like, I'm not like, I might look sexy, but, and you think that I fuck so much, but I don't, honestly.
	Nobody said that.
	I just said your English sucks.
	I didn't say you suck.
	I said your English sucks.
	Yeah, simple.
	Yeah, yeah.
	You're fine.
	So you didn't even understand me!
	No, no, you think I didn't understand you.
	If you understood me, then you would have said that!
	What thing?
	See?
	Holy!
	Like, that it sucks, that it's trash, that it's basura, of course, I know how to translate.
	Basura!
	But no one said you're fucking!
	Yeah, but I'm just laughing because I don't take shit personal.
	Like, I'm never gonna get mad.
	If you insult me, it has nothing to do with me.
	It has to do with you.
	But nobody said you were fucking!
	Yeah, no one...
	Nobody said!
	How'd you come to that conclusion?
	Fucking?
	Did I say that?
	Whatever.
	You did!
	Keep going.
	Oh, he triggered Mara.
	Yo, this is great content.
	Alright!
	You have some?
	Okay.
	I do have a couple questions.
	So...
	Oh, shit.
	Just want to take away from a lot of girls.
	You ready for that?
	Everybody in a bag.
	okay yeah alright so look boom alright so you talk a lot about women and modern women What in your mindset is the absolute perfect relationship?
	How should the woman act?
	How should the man act?
	In your opinion.
	The guy has multiple girls, right?
	Maybe two or three main girlfriends.
	He still goes out and has sex with other girls.
	Whether he wants to deal with his girls is up to him.
	And he provides and takes care of those three women.
	Now what about for the women?
	They only fuck him and they're loyal to him.
	So basically he'd just be like one pimp and just with a bunch of hoes, basically.
	Nobody said pimp.
	I mean, kind of.
	He's taking care of her and paying all the stuff.
	Let me explain this.
	How is he a pimp when they're not having sex with anyone else but him?
	I mean, he's pimping him out to himself.
	Wait, a perfect relationship to you means three women and one man?
	Yeah.
	Or four.
	That's, you know, that's your reality because you wild it, but that's fine.
	So would you...
	Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	The reason why I said that is because men want variety.
	Okay.
	Women want quality.
	So if the guy is high status and has shit together, he's attractive.
	The girls get their mission fulfilled.
	I got the best quality guy I can.
	Then on the other end, the man gets variety, which is what he wants.
	Women want quality, men want quantity.
	Both genders get exactly what they want.
	So how is that my reality, whatever?
	The thing is that most guys can't do this, so they must be monogamous out of necessity.
	And they cheat on the side.
	Well, wait.
	I think...
	What's your...
	So how is that...
	That works because both genders get what they want, but we live in a...
	I think that...
	We live in a pussified world.
	If a dude is with a bunch of girls, somebody is going to get upset.
	The energy balance is going to be fucked up at one point.
	Can you successfully...
	Have you done it?
	I'm just saying I've seen a lot of it.
	I've seen a lot.
	Have you done it?
	I don't want to do it.
	I want to hear him.
	Yeah, she's talking too much, right?
	No, like...
	I just really want to hear what you have to say because there are a lot of relationships that are open.
	Polyamorous.
	Yeah, polyamorous.
	Yeah, because it works.
	Because women want to consolidate on the best guy that they can.
	Women will gladly share a winner versus having a loser to themselves.
	So if the man is successful, has status, power, attractive, checks all the boxes, guess what?
	Other women want him too because there's not enough of these guys to go around.
	Beauty is common.
	Success isn't.
	You think the women are going to get along, though?
	Yes, it has happened.
	It doesn't matter.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Trust me.
	You know what?
	They will get along.
	You want to know why?
	Because they love that man and want to be with him that bad that they're going to find a way to get along.
	So would you agree that the man can give a woman emotional damage?
	Wait, what?
	Wouldn't you agree that a man...
	Emotional damage!
	Yeah, exactly.
	Wouldn't you agree the emotional damage...
	What are you talking about?
	Explain this to me.
	How is she going to be emotionally damaged when she has other females that she could be friends with, that share common characteristics, being with a man, being together, so she gets her camaraderie and friendship from the women, she gets the relationship and security provisioning from the man.
	How is that emotional damage she's being taken care of in every which way, emotionally and financially?
	I mean, it's not brunch.
	You're sharing a husband.
	Would you rather share the husband knowingly or unknowingly?
	I'd rather not share him, period.
	That's not how the world works.
	I'd rather just not have a husband.
	You know what?
	Hold on, hold on.
	Let me use your logic.
	I don't think it's fair that women want guys that are six feet tall on average.
	I also don't like the fact that women want men that make more money than them.
	Now, in one side, I say, I'm not going to accept this, and I'm going to continue to do what I'm doing.
	On the other side, I'm going to make more money and get in better shape.
	Who's actually taking a more active role in adapting reality?
	The one that's getting fit.
	Okay, so I'm telling you that if you have a successful man, he's going to want other women.
	Then he can have other women.
	Just not me, though.
	Okay, well, you're not going to get a successful man.
	That's not Are you okay with that?
	No.
	Okay, there you go with your delusion again.
	I believe.
	No.
	But do you know?
	I'm telling you.
	I'm a multi-millionaire.
	He's a multi-millionaire.
	We have friends.
	They're all multi-millionaires.
	They all fuck bitches, bro.
	Let them do that.
	So then what are you going to do about it?
	Just not marry, if that's okay.
	I don't need to marry.
	Okay, so you won't get the security or just fuck on them for free?
	No.
	I don't need to have sex with them.
	Are you okay with a more average man, then?
	If it's the case that I'm not getting my dream guy, if I'm not getting my dream guy and I have to settle, I'd just rather not marry, period, and just be successful by myself.
	Okay.
	We literally had a girl on the panel Monday, 33 years old, chased a career, went with that feminist dream that you're saying.
	She regrets it.
	That's not her.
	What if I told you that most women derive pleasure and fulfillment from a family and children and not a career and income?
	That's most women.
	I'm not like most women.
	That is real.
	Okay, so you think that you're special and that you will not also get the same feelings and needs for wanting a family?
	I might get the needs for wanting a family, but I won't accept cheating and disrespect.
	That's just plain and simple.
	So you're willing to give up on your dream because of a minor inconvenience of him potentially not being all the way faithful to you?
	It's not a minor inconvenience.
	That is very serious.
	So you're not willing to accept what's required to get an exceptional man?
	That's not required.
	It is required.
	You must accept it or not.
	And if you don't accept it, you're going to be single.
	But that's you, not me.
	It's not a requirement for me.
	Do you not realize when you're with an exceptional man, it doesn't matter what you want.
	It matters what he wants.
	You got to keep him.
	But this is a mutual relationship.
	No, it's not when you're with that type of guy.
	He has leverage.
	He has leverage.
	You don't.
	See, this is what I'm trying to explain to you, ladies.
	Y'all are really not that special, bro.
	When you're with a guy that's exceptional, it's his rules, not yours.
	It's his world.
	You're just living in it.
	So it's up to you what you're going to do with that.
	That's like me saying, I'm going to continue to be fat, be broke, but I deserve a bad bitch.
	You think I'm going to get a bad bitch being a fat loser playing video games in my mom's basement?
	Eating Cheetos.
	Can I still get a bad bitch doing that?
	No.
	Okay, you're not going to get a rich, successful man that's going to be monogamous to you.
	Can I add something?
	I actually have an experience about being in an environment where I met...
	You're a lesbian, bro.
	It's not what I think.
	It's actually based on what you were talking about.
	All right, go ahead.
	Having a man that had multiple wives, and he has three women, and he provides for them, and he does everything.
	They do everything for him.
	He decided he wanted to have three women, and one of them he's been with her for about 15 years, the other one about maybe 10, and the other one maybe 5.
	And he, based on what I've understood based on them and what he said, he doesn't really step out, but he does look for other wives if they add to their relationship.
	Each one does something different.
	One is more business-oriented, one is more housewife, one is more...
	Technical vibes, like does more of the computer stuff.
	And they all have a very balanced relationship.
	And I witnessed it firsthand.
	And I admired it.
	I loved it.
	It's not easy.
	The man has to have very strong leadership qualities.
	He's got to have his shit together.
	It's hard.
	But it works because all genders, both genders are getting what they want.
	The women are getting the quality man versus the man is getting the quantity that he wants.
	They all provide something different, but he provides everything that each of them need.
	But yes, they've had their debacles.
	They've had their arguments.
	Of course, we are women.
	We are going to feel some type of way.
	Why are you giving her more attention than me?
	Well, she requires this type of attention.
	You might not, but she holds herself to this caliber because she does this for me.
	She's helped me build three businesses.
	What have you done for me?
	You create this household.
	A home.
	But this one makes me money.
	So you hold this character, she holds this character, but all of you mean something different to me.
	And that's how you keep girls attached is because they get emotional and they're competing for you.
	Women actually become really good girlfriends when they know that you have other girls.
	I get the best treatment from girls whenever there's like two or three of them with me.
	I can add as well.
	I've been in a trouble with two women and each of them provided something different for me and I provided something different for each of them and we all had our own kind of relationship with each other and we all had our relationship ourselves.
	It doesn't matter what you think!
	So you were saying something?
	Did you have another thing?
	So you said what's an ideal relationship?
	I think that's what every man wishes they could do.
	But the problem is that most guys can't.
	They can't.
	I get it.
	I mean, it's a cool fantasy to have, but...
	And most guys will never attain it, and that's true.
	Yeah.
	Very.
	But, like I said, women in general, you have that many together...
	With one dude, it can get really tricky.
	It is tricky.
	For sure.
	Hence why I said most guys can't do it.
	It requires a level of structure.
	Yeah, exactly.
	And what if one of the girls is promiscuous, you know?
	She's single.
	Yeah, exactly.
	The guy's not going to go for that.
	She goes behind her back, you know, it's not super safe.
	You want to know why she's not going to be promiscuous?
	The other two girls will fucking snitch her ass out immediately.
	Exactly.
	Because they have something they want to keep.
	And they're going to come into an alliance.
	So it's a beautiful check and balances.
	Because what happens is the other girls behave because they know that their spot isn't certain.
	And then on top of that, infidelity doing any hoe shit is immediately going to be reported to the guy.
	So it actually works in his favor.
	Yep.
	Nice try though.
	This is why having multiple women works.
	It works its way out.
	When women compete, it's a beautiful thing, guys, because girls aren't used to competing.
	My lovely ladies are...
	Myron, happy birthday, you sick cunt.
	Appreciate that, bro.
	And that's from...
	Happy birthday, brother.
	Keep up the good work with putting these hoes on check.
	Read that one before.
	Shout out to you, City Boys.
	We appreciate that.
	Question.
	Who would win in a fight?
	Male grizzly bear, male polar bear, male silverback, gorilla, or strongest women in the world?
	The women, duh.
	Yeah.
	Shorty at the top right belongs to the streets.
	No cap.
	FNF gang.
	We up.
	Deshaun Watson.
	You have anything you want to respond back to?
	Wait.
	He said top right.
	Who's top right?
	He said he belonged to the streets.
	Yeah, she knows.
	Can somebody say it in Spanish?
	I understand.
	I understand, amigo.
	But no, no, no.
	I honestly spend a lot of time alone.
	In the streets, yeah, I know.
	All right.
	I saw a fat girl with a guest shirt on and I said 375.
	Apparently she can't say that.
	That's funny, bro.
	For the ladies on the panel, how much do women benefit in terms of saving money when there are so many men supplying all dinners and outings?
	In other words, do you find yourself saving a lot?
	Of course they do, bro.
	They don't pay for shit.
	Ladies, do you guys find yourself saving a lot because guys are simps or no?
	Yes.
	I save a lot, but it has nothing to do with that.
	Okay.
	What about anybody else saving a lot because men are sims?
	No?
	Can't relate.
	There's nothing to do with that.
	So you guys pay for all your own dates?
	I pretty much...
	I don't mind paying for dates sometimes.
	It's not a problem.
	When's the last time you paid for a date?
	A few months ago.
	Exactly.
	Alright.
	How do you define irony?
	A man that can't dodge getting run over by a dodge.
	Was it a dodge?
	He can't dodge it.
	That's kind of funny.
	He can't dodge that.
	He did not dodge.
	Go on, dodge!
	Damn, son.
	Where'd you find this?
	Yo, what the fuck, bro?
	Where'd you find that?
	Yo, the chat got no chill, bro.
	Hey, Minor Fresh, I do window and glass repair in the Miami area.
	I had a crack in the windows after the first girl sang and the second one caused a complete shatter.
	When can I come out for a quote?
	I'm going to have to take the headphones off when I sing because I can't hear it with the headphones on.
	Nice excuse.
	Manage Deb goes, we are in the cells if they are not able to see the thottery.
	Hire a PI every time they go to a girl's trip because she will fall and trip on a pole.
	I'm going to save you all the money instead of a PI. If your girl says, I want to go on a girl's trip, you just simply tell her, cool.
	If you go, you're single when you come home.
	That's it.
	And then you'll see how much she cares about you.
	It's better to have two separate happy homes than one miserable home for the children.
	Does somebody have anything they want to respond to that?
	Because I think you were saying...
	I'm sorry, can you do that?
	Okay, never mind then.
	Baby, what's her name?
	The guy wanted her to say Christian Dior in the mic.
	I don't know.
	I saw the comment.
	I saw that one, too.
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Okay.
	Go ahead and say Christian Dior, I guess.
	Christian Dior.
	Are you happy?
	Does it make you feel good?
	Okay.
	Shamibo's project goes, From this conversation, I remembered when my ex asked why I let her go on a girls' night just to the city.
	Even women know when they respect the man that it's bad.
	Shit.
	Just connect the dots.
	P.S. Happy birthday, Marion.
	Yeah, bro.
	Yeah, a lot of times.
	Sometimes, bro.
	Your girl will come out dressed out sexy as hell on purpose to say, oh, girl's night out!
	So that you can say, what are you doing?
	No, you're staying your ass home.
	You know what I mean?
	But honestly, bro, if your girl is like that where she wants to always get attention from dudes, she wants to do girl's nights, girl's trips, whatever...
	She doesn't like you that much, man.
	Yeah, ask the question why.
	She doesn't respect you, bro.
	Can I ask you guys a question?
	Sure.
	She's going to lose it.
	I already know.
	Go ahead, ask it.
	No, it's just a question about going out.
	Let's say your girl had a photo shoot with girls and they want to go out for a drink after.
	How do you feel about that?
	She had a photo shoot?
	Yeah.
	Networking, whatever event.
	She was at an event with her friends, with the girls.
	And it's my main chick?
	Yeah.
	Hell no.
	And they're like, Dan, let's go get some food.
	Let's get a couple drinks, let's get some food, let's eat.
	I wouldn't commit to a girl that's like that, period.
	That wants to go...
	What time of day is it?
	Day or night?
	The evening?
	That night?
	I don't know.
	8, 9, 10 o'clock?
	If it's in the day, and they just had a work event?
	Yeah, like a work event.
	Then that's different.
	But if it's like nighttime by a bar?
	Nah, bruh.
	I don't think I would commit to a girl that sells her sexuality, period.
	Wait, we're not talking about sexuality.
	Why is she doing a photo shoot?
	A work event.
	If it's work, she's selling her sexuality.
	Yeah.
	So you don't want that at all?
	No.
	I would not commit to a girl that sells her sexuality.
	What if she's not selling her sexuality?
	She definitely won't be the main girlfriend.
	What if it was a business event?
	Like a job site?
	I thought that's what you meant.
	If you meant business, then yeah.
	When you say photo shoot, I'm assuming on the beach with bikinis.
	No, I mean I just said photo shoot as a thing that girls do together.
	But let's just say it's a business event.
	If it's business work, corporate attire, that's fine.
	And then they're like, hey, this is done.
	The way you phrased the question implied her being a model and being in scantily clad clothing.
	I think everyone else here on the panel thought that too.
	I understood when you switched it.
	Just something that she's doing with her girls.
	If it's a business thing and it's work or whatever, that's one thing, but I don't think I would commit to a girl that sells her sexuality.
	It's just not...
	There's too many problems that could arise from committing to girls like that.
	Well, my question wasn't her, you know, selling her sexuality, just kind of, she's at an event doing something business related and her friends are saying, okay, let's get some food and get a drink.
	I know, I understand that.
	Well, I wouldn't appreciate her going out to go drink with her friends after.
	So after the event, boom, go home.
	Yeah, go home.
	Yo, you know the reason behind why a girl sells her sexuality?
	Go ahead.
	Do you know?
	It's profitable.
	Because, like, of course, you don't have other options to make money.
	So that's why you do that.
	There's no options to make other money?
	Of course, yeah.
	You can get a job that pays you, you know, less money, but that gives you more money.
	Okay.
	So, question for you.
	If I decide to sell drugs and I get arrested and they put me in jail, whose fault is it?
	Your fault.
	It's my fault, right?
	Yeah.
	Because I broke the law.
	So if you decide to be an OnlyFans and sell your sexuality and people don't respect you or take you seriously, whose fault is that?
	Exactly.
	Honestly, I don't think that's like that.
	Okay, he might be enjoying my picture.
	It doesn't matter what you think.
	Society is going to think that they want to think the way they think.
	And unfortunately, when you have certain professions, they don't respect it.
	There's a reason why if you're a doctor, they respect you because it took a lot of hard work to go to medical school.
	You're saving lives.
	It comes with a prestigious title.
	There's a reason why porn stars don't get respected because you didn't have to go through so much to earn that kind of money.
	So, I always say fast money comes with slow problems.
	You can do what you want, but you cannot attribute your morality to society.
	Most people are going to frown upon you for getting involved in sex work.
	Just like most people are not going to be okay with me selling drugs and I've got to deal with the consequences of my decisions.
	Because I know you're saying, well, you have to do it to make money.
	There's other ways to make money.
	Now, if you're willing to sell your soul and respect for that, that's fine.
	That's a personal decision.
	But you can't get mad at other people for not accepting it.
	It is what it is.
	To each their own.
	And I tell girls this.
	You want to have OnlyFans?
	Go ahead.
	But understand that not many guys are going to take you seriously.
	That comes with its own shit.
	Everything comes with its own shit.
	For sure.
	Keith Kurt, I make over 100k a year.
	I'm dating with a 25-year-old who makes 25k a year.
	Can't see a woman making over 100k a year and dating a guy making 25k a year.
	LOL. 25k a year?
	What you doing?
	There you go.
	The answer says it all y'all need to know.
	What he's saying is that a man can make that kind of money and date a girl that makes $25,000 versus a guy that makes $25,000, a girl $100,000 a year won't even look his way.
	Yeah, at all.
	As the guy...
	I already know the answer, pretty much.
	What's the answer?
	If I'm making $100,000 a year and a girl's making $25,000 a year...
	Right.
	That's why I didn't say that.
	Yeah, bro.
	Nobody cares.
	You guys all look exquisite, but I'm more interested in your parental relationship.
	Have you ever said, thank you, Father, for raising me and meant it with action, not word.
	Pass it out of the ways.
	Be quick.
	Okay.
	Okay, raise your hands.
	Who has dads here?
	Were they actively in your life?
	Yes.
	Yeah?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Let me Anthony goes.
	Do you think Middle East has more simps than Western world?
	Since girls there are mostly virgins and won't give you box unless y'all get married.
	What?
	What does a simp have to do?
	Okay, so what he's saying is that are men out in the Middle East more simps?
	Well, there's a lot of dudes out there in the Middle East that are simps, but what I will say is that you're not going to be punished to the same degree for being a simp in certain places.
	So, for example, you go somewhere like Romania, Ukraine, Colombia, etc.
	The culture is different.
	And women respect chivalry there.
	Versus the United States, you get a girl with flowers on a first date, she's going to look at you like, yo, you fucking sucker.
	What's the angle here?
	Why are you so nice to me?
	We just met.
	The difference is that you like flowers from a certain guy.
	Women don't treat chivalry well in the United States.
	Unfortunately.
	I'll just say thank you, man.
	That's it.
	I mean, there's a reason why...
	Are you going to fuck that guy?
	I would fuck him, yeah.
	There's a reason why they say nice guys finish last in the United States.
	And the reason why is because being a nice guy, being chivalrous will get you in last place.
	I love that, though.
	I love it.
	Personally, I think at the end of the day, money comes and goes.
	You might be on top one day, but that doesn't always mean you'll be on top.
	Tomorrow.
	Tomorrow.
	And attractiveness, too.
	That goes away with time.
	I'll rather have a guy who's nice than have a guy who has a lot of money and doesn't look at the little small things because what if one day he loses all that money?
	Then I'm going to be left with this guy.
	To be fair, she's right.
	She has kids, so I mean, she's got to take what she can get.
	I'm the same, bro.
	But I was like that before kids, too.
	I liked just nice.
	I like nice guys.
	I think money comes and goes.
	That's just me.
	I'm sorry?
	You're always like that?
	Yeah.
	Oh, hold on.
	Is your baby daddy nice?
	Yeah, he was.
	No, she ran him over.
	So eventually, yeah, but that was like, and I'm not, I would never put him on blast in any type of way like that.
	But he, you know, him being, he was nice when I met him, but his flaws, which the reason why I ran him over had to do with him personally and his own mental state.
	So that's not, I don't think.
	So he was mentally impaired and you ran him over?
	No, no, no.
	He wasn't mentally impaired.
	He's all there.
	He's out there.
	I just think, you know, whatever personal reasons, circumstances, in his life that happened caused him to act certain ways under the influence of certain drugs, alcohol, and that's when he would change.
	So he was a fuckboy.
	Yeah.
	He was a nice fuckboy.
	Oh, nice fuckboy.
	The basic premise here, what I'm saying is that being a gentleman in other parts of the world where women are more traditionally feminine will go further than being a gentleman in the United States where women are more hyper-masculinized.
	Like Ukraine, Romania.
	Yeah.
	You know, you buy a girl flowers, you know, in Colombia, it might go a little bit further than if you did that shit here in the United States, where girls are going to look at you like you're a sucker.
	What's the angle?
	I want to say something.
	Go ahead.
	Because my neighbor, front door neighbor, he knocked my door this day, and my mom wanted me to be with him.
	I was like, no, no, no, no.
	Then he knocked my door, he has these flowers, and I'm like...
	Okay, come in.
	I was doing my chicken, normal cooking, you know?
	And he was, like, super comfortable.
	Like, just because he's a lawyer, he was, like, a little guy, you know?
	Just because he's a lawyer, like, I felt, like, questioned, like, and I saw myself, like, I got mad, and I was, like, look, this is your chicken.
	You can take it and go.
	And he, like, smashed my door.
	Uh-huh, just like that.
	And he made me flowers.
	Like, I was cooking.
	And I was like, uh-huh.
	He got mad because I didn't, like, eat with him or whatever.
	But he was trying to kiss me in my, like, my room.
	And I'm like, There's so many things here.
	Was this here in Miami or in Venezuela?
	This is currently where I live.
	Your mom shut him in.
	So, she just proved our point.
	Look, the guy came with flowers, was trying to be a gentleman.
	It failed.
	I mean, it was my point.
	Are you trying to say he was asserting his dominance because he felt he was a lawyer and he deserved to be there?
	Yeah, he was acting super serious in my couch and I'm like...
	What are you doing so serious there while I'm cooking and you're here in my house?
	I don't feel comfortable.
	How did you get to the room, though?
	Okay, okay.
	Basically, he gave her flowers and she didn't deserve it.
	We went step by step.
	I was waiting for my Prince Charming.
	For my groceries, you know, from Instacart.
	And then all that happened.
	But he tried to keep me.
	Get the book, bro.
	Why women deserve less.
	I think I'm kidding around when I say women don't respect guys that are nice, bro.
	This lawyer comes in successful, probably makes money, gave her flowers, and all she did was give her some chicken and tell him, get the fuck out of my house.
	No, he didn't even cook the chicken, but how the fuck?
	Okay, my friend...
	Okay, my friend died because this is another story.
	Yo, you're the queen of going on random tangents.
	Like that has nothing to do with the podcast at all.
	Like she was out with a Tinder date.
	This is a good story.
	So she died and the guy was never found.
	She died and the guy was never found?
	No.
	They just put her inside the ambulance and bye.
	Yeah.
	So the thing is that, okay, I download Tinder because I want to see, like, you know what type of guys are in Tinder?
	Like, I wanted to put my OnlyFans there so people can subscribe, you know?
	And I see him in Tinder.
	And I'm like, bitch, you think I'm going to take this seriously?
	Thank God I didn't.
	You know?
	I saw him in Tinder, too.
	I'm like, 30 motherfuckers!
	I've never had Tinder.
	Did he kill your friend?
	Did he kill your friend?
	No, no, no, no.
	That's another story.
	Okay.
	Like, of course, it has to do...
	Bro!
	I didn't kill my friend, but I was like, I'm never taking it.
	Where'd she go?
	What happened to her?
	I don't really know, like, what happened.
	Let me tell you the story.
	No.
	No, no, no, no.
	What stories?
	Let me tell you the story because it's actually something that I want to know because, okay, my birthday was the 21st.
	And like she went out and they found her like the 23 in the hospital.
	Sorry.
	He's laughing.
	Sorry.
	Sorry.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Do a lot of guys approach you?
	Right?
	Sometimes.
	But I don't like...
	Do you get a lot of...
	Okay.
	Do you get a lot of messages on Instagram?
	Almost.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Do you get a lot of attention from men in general?
	No.
	I mean, you got lawyers pulling up to your house with flowers, so I would say you're doing pretty well.
	It's okay to say yes.
	They are stupid because, like, I can't connect with a guy that don't understand me.
	But you have your choice of men, correct?
	Not really.
	No, because sometimes I like a bald guy.
	Sometimes I like him with long hair.
	Sometimes...
	I like to fuck my best friend.
	What the fuck?
	That's it!
	Let me be honest with y'all.
	I've said this before, I'll say it again.
	Only women get the privilege of being stupid and still making it in the world.
	Real talk, man.
	No offense to you, but you're pretty dumb.
	Don't you think that's good?
	You don't want to fuck with nobody's feelings.
	You don't want to be letting...
	She's saying have somebody that you care about.
	That's not even what I'm talking about.
	I don't want someone to fall in love with me that is not my soulmate.
	Okay, you missed the whole point.
	The point I'm trying to say is that only women can be dumb and make it in life and find a man.
	If a man is not competent, he will not get a bad chick.
	He will not live a fulfilling life.
	A woman could be rescued and be stupid.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	He's not saying you're stupid.
	No, she is dumb.
	She's kind of dumb.
	But it's okay.
	She's pretty.
	So she'll make it in life.
	Okay, let's move on.
	But she's kind of dumb.
	Let's move on.
	No more stories, bro.
	Telling stories that have nothing to do with the topic.
	Daisy JJK says, messed up Monday, not tonight.
	Write the girls in the middle names in Death Note.
	What the fuck?
	Bitch to blow more cocks than the Falcons blow leads.
	Kill yourself.
	The thought of reason there was no bounds like Antonio Brown's stupidity.
	What is this bullshit?
	What is this bullshit?
	HK12191 says, girl with the cut conex are fresh.
	You...
	Oh God, I can't read that.
	Tell me!
	Tell me!
	I like it!
	Hey, hey, hey!
	They're not talking about you.
	I know you love attention, but they're not talking about you.
	They're talking about me.
	Yo, Venezuela, sit down, bro.
	You won't have family.
	Yo!
	They're not talking about you!
	Yo!
	Yo!
	Sit down.
	They're not talking about you.
	Stop being an attention whore, man.
	Holy!
	All right.
	Grow a cuckold next to fresh.
	You fat as hell.
	Lose weight.
	The hope for Venezuela.
	You won't have a family with your trash voice.
	Ground red.
	Hit us with your laugh one more time.
	Okay.
	Wow.
	All right.
	Keep crushing it, boys.
	Okay.
	Do you have anything you want to say back to him for saying that about you?
	You want to tell him fuck you or some shit?
	Who?
	The guy that said that shit about you?
	No, he could think that.
	That's fine.
	Okay.
	Do you have anything you want to say back?
	Keep it nice and concise.
	All right.
	Simple.
	Honestly, I could have, like, a lot of families if I want.
	What?
	But I just don't take the dick, bitch.
	You stupid.
	Yeah, me like, bro, I speak Spanish.
	I roast you.
	Should I consider a woman starting or maintaining an OnlyFans account regardless of when he found it was cheating?
	As cheating?
	Wait.
	I think it's cheating any time your girl puts her sexuality out in the marketplace, personally.
	If it's your main chick, that's unacceptable.
	The average IQ of this panel is lower than that room temperature.
	They're trying to fight logic with nonsensical arguments.
	So ladies on OF, stay there, that's your saving grace, and shake your whole rapidly.
	Vague Biles goes, the uglier twin keep calling people dumb.
	She is dumb and confuse her education with intelligence.
	It's very common nowadays.
	No one ever say that about her.
	That's not extra for no reason.
	Okay.
	So, who's the ugly twin?
	What the fuck?
	We don't know who he's talking to.
	He's talking about his education.
	He can't even spell education.
	This Venezuela bitch is a lost cause.
	Goddamn.
	I know.
	Goddamn.
	What did he say again?
	Nothing.
	Tell me!
	Tell me!
	I want to know.
	It doesn't matter.
	Tell me!
	I will see it.
	Reputation, time, wealth, and fame.
	In what order do you personally place these by what's important to you?
	One through four.
	Reputation, time, wealth, and fame.
	Time, reputation, wealth, and fame.
	Okay.
	Fame last.
	You guys all said fame last?
	Yeah.
	Stop the cow!
	I don't give a fuck if he's famous.
	Happy birthday, my RNW stream as always, and Whitler.
	Okay, thank you.
	I appreciate that, Xena.
	Or Axler, in this case.
	Zittler.
	Rarely able to watch live because I'm on the Grind Life, so I wanted to show some love to the FNF podcast.
	By the way, Fresh Soul Black, Stevie Wonder sees him every day.
	I appreciate that.
	Don't make it as dark as hell, and he's wearing all black, too.
	Baris Sadiq goes candy shop.
	I think I explained it to the woman.
	I explained it earlier why a man having sex with a bunch of girls is not the same as a woman.
	Yo, first of all, Marcus, this is W's Bros.
	I'm from the UK, and you should get UK girls on the show to compare attitudes.
	Question for the girls on the pod.
	Your dream man loses 100% money.
	You stand?
	You know the answer to that.
	The answer is no.
	I've always said it before.
	If you lose all your money, your girl might not leave you immediately, but that clock has definitely started, my friend.
	Okay?
	And then, as far as UK women, bro, we had...
	UK girls, we had plenty of British girls on the show.
	It's the same.
	Bro, British girls are worse than American girls, bro.
	Yeah.
	I agree with you.
	Well, I'm...
	That makes sense.
	There you go.
	Okay, ladies.
	Can you also subscribe to the channel on Rumble Plays?
	Follow the channel on Rumble and like the video.
	How many of you guys watching on Rumble right now, Mo?
	You're pretty funny.
	Sorry.
	Okay, so we'll do last thoughts on the show.
	How was the show for you?
	Hate it, love it, how was the show?
	Questions, comments.
	We'll start right here.
	How was the show for you?
	I like it.
	I like that everyone's giving their own opinion.
	I like that there's different ways to look at perspective of things.
	Thank you.
	That there's so many different opinions, and it really gets you to just think about...
	Well, we stayed at mostly facts, but...
	Yeah, yeah.
	But I like that everyone's able to just give their opinion, and it's a decent place.
	The real question is, do you appreciate your guy more now?
	I've already been appreciated.
	Now if you catch another chick, what are you gonna do?
	What you gonna do?
	The thing is, here's the thing, and it was actually a question that I wanted to ask but I didn't get to it.
	You mentioned that it would be a man who has everything.
	You used a specific term, but I can't think of it.
	You said something like a guy who has everything.
	We could say well-diversified.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Do you think that even if he is not wealthy, should he still be able to...
	Or maybe it's not wealthy.
	Maybe it's looks.
	Maybe he doesn't have the looks or wealthy or whatever it is that if the person doesn't have the full package that you mentioned, should he still be able to?
	Or is that when you say that some men just...
	Get what they can.
	You said not every man gets the opportunity to do that.
	Men are only as faithful as their options.
	So if I tell you that it's raining outside and I give you an umbrella and you choose to go outside without the umbrella and you get wet, who's stupid?
	Did you offer me an umbrella?
	Yeah.
	And that's what I'm offering you now.
	I'm telling you that more than likely at some point a guy is going to cheat or maybe an exercise is an option on you.
	Maybe he gets quality, maybe he doesn't.
	So I think it's better to just, yo, if you love the guy, you respect the guy, you want to be with the guy, he provides everything for you, it's probably better to just accept it.
	And what I would say is, as a woman, if you have children, if you're not the most attractive, or if you have bad habits or you have any of these traits, you have to be more willing to conceive.
	Because you might not necessarily qualify for that man that has everything.
	Right.
	For sure.
	Yeah.
	So I'm not saying that's you in particular.
	No, no, no.
	I wasn't taking it personally at all.
	What I've noticed about women is that they want a man that's exceptional and then they get mad when they realize they don't qualify for that man.
	Right, right, right.
	You might qualify for some dick from that man, but you're not going to qualify for a relationship with that man.
	Right.
	So what I say is if you got something good...
	Yeah, appreciate it.
	Like, what's the point of you...
	Yeah, I definitely think that...
	Let's say you catch up cheating, right?
	Yeah.
	Then you go to the next guy.
	He gonna cheat too.
	Yeah, they all cheat.
	So I'd rather...
	So you even know that they all cheat.
	So why leave?
	At one point, there's like that hope that, you know, they won't, but I mean...
	Hope doesn't get problems solved.
	Right, but for the most part, all men do cheat at one point or the other.
	So you even know in the back of your mind that all men cheat, right?
	I didn't even say all, I said most.
	All.
	So you said all.
	Cool.
	Let's take that mindset.
	Wouldn't it be fairly foolish knowing that all men cheat to leave your man when he fulfills everything else?
	Yeah.
	There you go.
	Here's your answer.
	So that is something that I guess the show definitely changed my...
	So I guess in a way, yes, I would appreciate from the beginning of the show to the end of the show, I did appreciate him in the beginning, but now, in a sense, I would appreciate him more, considering that all men do cheat, and at the end of the day, I'd rather be cheated on with someone who's nice to me and is doing what he's supposed to as his role, and...
	So in summary...
	He's going above and beyond.
	He's taking care of children that aren't his, too.
	That goes against his very nature.
	In summary, who would get to cheat?
	He's watching.
	No.
	Dammit.
	No, it's okay.
	He doesn't understand.
	He speaks only Portuguese.
	Someone translate this for him.
	No, no.
	Sit down.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	Yeah, yeah.
	But no, I'm glad that we helped.
	Hey, that made my night.
	It'll help you appreciate your guy more.
	I think that's something that more women need to kind of look into is like, yo, if you're in a good relationship, bro, these streets are cold, man.
	It is.
	Just be happy with what you got.
	You know men are going to cheat anyway.
	Just find the guy that you're willing to accept it from, man.
	Exactly.
	Hopefully you're not capping.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	It was very funny and entertaining.
	I liked it.
	I think we crushed her dreams.
	She still thinks that guy's out there that's gonna be loyal to her.
	But love, you did not crush my dreams.
	What was that?
	You did not crush my dreams.
	She's convinced.
	So what are you gonna do now that you know the truth?
	Live ignoring the truth.
	Yeah.
	You said what?
	Live ignoring the truth?
	Yeah.
	I'll be just fine.
	I'm just fine right now.
	I'm going to be fine in the future.
	Wait, you're 20 how long?
	27?
	23.
	She got it.
	She got it.
	Yeah, 23.
	She got it.
	This is crazy.
	What about you?
	I'm just going to ignore the truth.
	Okay.
	That's a first.
	I honestly love it that I can see the real character of the guys.
	It's something I really appreciate.
	Has your best friend ever told you what we told you?
	More than that.
	More.
	Then why did you look so surprised when we said these things?
	What things?
	Everything.
	Stupid!
	I don't think he tells you anything.
	What do you mean?
	Are you insulting me?
	In front of people?
	That makes you feel better?
	What?
	What?
	I don't get it.
	Yo, she's crazy as fuck, though.
	No, I said, I said, does your guy tell you this?
	And you said, yes.
	And I said, I don't know if he did because he's still having sex with you, so he probably doesn't tell you any of this.
	What any of this?
	I already know.
	You said that your best friend explained all of this to you about men.
	Like he talks to you about men.
	You said that, right?
	He don't have to tell me.
	I already experienced it.
	So basically what he said was, why did you act surprised if you knew how men were?
	I never act as a surprise.
	Okay, so you weren't surprised.
	No, I'm not.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Alright, watch the show back and you'll see that you were pretty surprised.
	I love it.
	It's a little past my bedtime, but yeah.
	Are you going to appreciate your guy more now, too?
	Oh yeah, I've never stopped.
	Always have.
	Alright.
	It's your job to keep him, bro.
	Say that again?
	Let's OnlyFans.
	Alright.
	Yeah.
	No, for real.
	I mean, yo, man.
	You're 30 years old.
	Four months together.
	You gotta start to consolidate, man.
	If he asks, I'll do it.
	Keep him, you know.
	It's the girl's job to keep the man.
	It was fun, honestly.
	Nonchalant, I guess.
	He's doing shit Yeah, oh, oh Fantastic.
	What are your last thoughts?
	This was very interesting.
	It doesn't matter!
	That sound effect is exclusively for the lesbian to come on the show.
	I wasn't even invited.
	I'm a big team, man.
	That's a good question, man.
	Alright, go ahead.
	Oh, you still want to hear what I think?
	Yeah, sure.
	It don't matter, though.
	No, I'm just kidding.
	Go ahead.
	Nah, I like the debate.
	That's pretty much how I feel.
	Like, I like this back and forth shit, so I fuck with it.
	What about you?
	You were writing something down.
	So I really love to see the modern perspective of men and women.
	I would like to say that I think our generation is kind of fucked.
	It's really fucking fucked.
	Do you want me to just be honest?
	It's fucked.
	Which gender would you blame for the fuckery?
	I blame it on the fucking men and you know why?
	You know why I'm going to tell you that?
	Because y'all start girls off really fucking young.
	How many of y'all girls in here have been hit on by a dude older than you by the time age 15?
	Y'all start us off fucking young when we're vulnerable and then y'all, you know, a lot of girls want to find love and want to be accepted and y'all fucking do that to us.
	And then y'all fuck with our minds.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Who do you think has changed more in the past 100 years?
	Men or women?
	Men.
	Probably women's roles.
	Women are more like working roles as opposed to being...
	So if women changed, then who fucked it up?
	Well, here's the deal.
	Men, uh, have, uh, when we are raised as young, like, in this generation, a lot of us- Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	You're missing the point.
	You said our generation is fucked.
	Yeah, I'm trying to tell you.
	Okay, what about generations past?
	Were they fucked?
	No, right?
	Well, they cared more about family and actually marriage.
	So here's the thing.
	It's very simple.
	Men have become more feminine all the time.
	Yeah, they don't care.
	They don't have responsibilities.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	You guys don't want to take accountability.
	The reason why things are fucked up is because of feminism.
	Women have changed.
	Men haven't really changed.
	Men are the same.
	Y'all do a lot of stuff to us really young, too.
	I think the role of a man became less masculine over time.
	Making women more masculine.
	It's because the women became more masculine that the men became less masculine.
	That's what she said.
	But you're saying that it's the men's fault.
	I think it's feminism.
	The women have changed in the past 100 years.
	The men have been the same.
	Yeah.
	And you can't blame men for adapting to the new sexual marketplace.
	Men are deductive problem solvers.
	I want to get laid.
	What do I need to get laid?
	I need to be sensitive.
	I need to be vulnerable.
	I need to be more feminine.
	Social media pushes this sort of stigma onto women.
	Who's the main user of...
	Okay, hold on, hold on.
	Who's the main consumer of social media?
	Women.
	You can't argue with this one.
	TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat, women.
	It doesn't matter.
	I'm just trying to make sense of it.
	But the sense is right there, though.
	Women have been changing.
	Men have stood the same.
	Okay, I understand that.
	Even nonchalant is bienchalant.
	I swear I am!
	Swear!
	Yeah, and feminism ruined it for like the females who didn't necessarily, who don't want that idea of like, you know what I'm saying?
	I think it's a mixture between both the men and the feminism.
	I definitely think both parts.
	Of course.
	Right, you understand where it all came from.
	But what I'm saying is that it's both genders fucked up, but what I'm saying is that the stimuli for the fuckery came from women.
	It's feminism.
	The birth control pill.
	All of these things came in, right, to change things because now women no longer need men so they operate on a want need versus a need.
	Want based over a need.
	So when women are want based, what do they do?
	They don't behave the same.
	They don't feel like they need to work as hard.
	When I asked you guys before, what do you guys bring to the table?
	You guys want me to read those answers again?
	The reason why women can say that nowadays is because women don't have to perform anymore.
	So what would be a good answer for you for a woman to say what she brings to the table?
	Yeah, that's a good question.
	Not what you all said.
	What would you say?
	What would I say?
	What would you like a woman to bring to the table for you?
	The scary part is that, see, this proves my point, that women don't have to understand men to get men, but men must understand men.
	If we were in Ukraine, Romania, maybe even Colombia, they would know what it means to be a woman, to a man of their dreams.
	But we're just asking you what that idea is for you.
	Exactly.
	What would the perfect woman for you answer to what do you bring to the table right here, right now?
	What would you want a woman to bring to you?
	You would be an indispensable component of the man's life.
	What I mean by that is you would come in and you would figure out how you can enhance and make that man's life better and easier.
	You would become something that is not an interchangeable part.
	You would add value versus taking value and you would not be a liability like most women.
	You would be an asset.
	What that means is you need to exercise critical thinking, go into the man's life, see where the weak points are, come and augment those points, and become indispensable where he can't operate at 100% or 102% without you by his side.
	That's how you keep a man.
	But the problem is that most girls think, I'm going to show up I'm special.
	Give me everything.
	Pay for this, pay for that, etc.
	Well, guess what?
	You and a thousand other bitches say for the same stupid shit and you guys all got different pussies, different tits.
	So I'm going to continue to exchange you guys out.
	But this is how you get the main girl title versus just being a girl title.
	And there'll be a hoe.
	Yeah.
	If you can do that and you're attractive and not fat, trust me, you'll beg a millionaire easy.
	So how do you scale off the main to the second bitch to the third bitch?
	Who me?
	Yeah.
	You find girls that you find more interchangeable parts.
	Not interchangeable parts.
	You find more of them.
	Okay.
	But the problem is that most girls come in.
	What value can I get from this guy?
	What can I extract versus how can I add value?
	So you don't think that there's no woman in the world that could potentially have all the qualities that a guy would want?
	I never said that.
	I'm just saying that most women are useless because they've never been useful.
	But there are women out there that are useful.
	It's just that they're hard to find.
	And the guy's got to have his leadership on point to be able to direct and get the girl to follow.
	The man also has to have leadership skills.
	But the woman's got to be submissive and cooperative to be able to take that coaching.
	100%.
	If a girl tells me some dumb shit like I don't listen to men or whatever streets, you're sucking dick only and you're getting out after this.
	Right.
	Okay.
	Combative women that don't follow direction are the worst.
	You don't want those girls around you.
	Okay.
	So there's a pro tip right there, ladies.
	Don't go in there saying, I'm strong, I'm independent, blah, blah, blah.
	You'll turn the guy off.
	He's going to put you in a sex-only category.
	Yeah.
	That was easy.
	What was that?
	There's like one more thing I kind of wanted to touch on, the monogamy thing, and then I'm out.
	Yeah, sure.
	You really don't want to grasp this concept.
	So look, okay, so me, okay, I'm single, but me, I'm trying, I'm thinking.
	We can tell.
	Yeah, you can tell, right?
	Okay, yeah.
	So look, say I'm in a relationship with a guy, a future relationship.
	My job is to, you know, be there for my man in every single way.
	But also, I kind of want to protect him from things that could potentially harm him.
	Now, I would like to keep an open mind for my man.
	Like, there's just a lot of dirty women that try to trap people.
	There's all type of men.
	There's all kind of shit that can happen.
	I try to think ahead.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I think a lot of problem is people don't think about the consequences.
	They don't think ahead about anything.
	And they just make decisions based off whatever emotion that they're feeling at that particular moment without thinking too much.
	You want me to answer your question for you right now before you even finish?
	Please do.
	You want to be attracted to a man that you have to protect?
	That's not true.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	You didn't even, like, you're off in your man land, in your man brain?
	Not in the logic land.
	Okay, so what I'm saying is, I'm trying to, like, as a woman in a relationship, I want to protect my man from STDs, from bullshit, from all kind of stuff.
	So, I particularly would like to be in a monogamous relationship.
	However, if he's like, man, I just want to go fuck a girl so bad, and I'm just, you know...
	Okay, what's wrong with me watching, being there while you do it?
	Because it's weird.
	It's weird, but you like to be secretive?
	Is that what the relationship...
	Do people care about morals anymore?
	Is that what it is?
	People don't give a fuck about it.
	Is it more moral for you to watch him have sex with another girl?
	The thing is, the point is, you wouldn't want to do it.
	You wouldn't want to do it.
	If I say, okay, you can fuck other girls in the relationship, but I gotta do it.
	So it's not about him being happy, it's about you trying to exert dominance.
	No, it's not about exerting dominance.
	It's about a commitment.
	You're saying if it wasn't a secret, they wouldn't want to do it.
	Exactly.
	If it wasn't a secret, they wouldn't want to do it.
	But it's the commitment.
	If I'm like, okay, you can have sex with a girl, we're in a relationship, we're committed, but hey, look, I'm gonna watch.
	I'm sitting over here, but we're going to watch.
	Some guys might say yes, but a lot of guys are going to be like, that's weird.
	Exactly.
	Because they're not going to want to do it.
	So why would you want to just do stuff behind people's back all the time?
	Because women can't handle the truth in general.
	Is that going to make you feel good?
	Because women can't handle the truth.
	That's why.
	What if she can't and she's sitting in a room if she wants to?
	Yeah.
	What if you want to record?
	What if you want to join?
	Most women would not be okay with that, watching the man that they love.
	You're not answering the question.
	Yeah, but if she really loves the guy, like, say she really loves the guy, and she wants to do everything to make him happy, but they have to make some sort of agreement.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And he really wants her, but hey, I want to fuck a girl.
	Your job isn't...
	See, here's the problem.
	You're negotiating in bad faith.
	Your job isn't...
	It's not a good...
	You're not trying to make him happy.
	You're trying to exert dominance, which is why you're trying to say, I want to be here and do that.
	Well, he's going behind my back in bad faith.
	You know what's funny?
	You know he's not going to be monogamous.
	He wants to do it alone.
	He's truly happy doing it alone.
	You want to come in and say, oh, I need to be there.
	Who's going to be happy or not?
	It's you.
	Because you want to be comfortable saying, you know what?
	I'm there to supervise my man.
	What can I watch?
	He's happy doing it alone.
	He doesn't need you in the room.
	He doesn't want you in the room.
	And I'll be honest with you, the guy that actually has the capability of fucking multiple girls will look you dead in your face and say no and laugh at you.
	Guys that are dominant that can pull girls like that, don't let their girls boss them around, bro.
	If me and you were in a relationship and you said that, I would laugh in your face and say no.
	If you're in that level of that relationship where you're going to allow that, you already have succumbed to him saying that shit.
	The point of me saying that was that guys would rather just do things in secret.
	They don't want to be straight up.
	That's why relationships don't fucking work because nobody's honest.
	Bro, were you not listening earlier in the show?
	I asked the panel, who loves the...
	Who does the guy love more?
	The girl he lies to or the girl he tells the truth to when he has two girlfriends?
	Most of the panel said the girl he lies to.
	Most women can't handle the truth, bro.
	Like, you might be able to, but the other 95 girls can't.
	Okay.
	Yeah, we're not talking about all women here.
	We're not talking about what's possible.
	I'm single because that's my choice.
	I can get in a relationship.
	Not by a man that you respect.
	Oh yeah, of course I can.
	It's not a problem.
	Men are the ones that give out relationships.
	You give out sex.
	You're funny.
	Ha ha!
	You're dirty!
	You're dirtier!
	You're dirty boy!
	Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!
	Show me your notes!
	You wanna see them?
	Yeah, I wanna see them.
	They lit, huh?
	Screw it, Scrabble.
	Yeah, they lit.
	Anyway.
	Anyway, going back to what I was saying, number one, men control who gets relationships, women control who has sex.
	You saying that I'm not in a relationship because I don't want to be is like a dude that's a virgin saying I haven't had sex because I don't feel like it.
	It's not true.
	You don't pick who commits to you.
	Men pick who they commit to.
	That's number one.
	Number two, most women can't handle the truth.
	The panel even said it.
	I've asked this question to hundreds of women and most of the time they say the girl he lies to is the one he loves more because women can't handle the truth in general.
	So if I know that most women can't handle the truth, I gotta go on what's probable versus what's possible.
	Just because you can't handle the truth doesn't mean that 95 other women can't.
	Facts.
	You can't take your personal experience and extrapolate that to the general consensus of other women.
	Most women can handle the truth in general.
	So it's stupid for me to think that, oh, let me just fuck another girl in front of her.
	I hope she accepts it.
	Most girls won't, bro.
	Merry Christmas.
	So, we got any more chats, Chris?
	No, we're done.
	Alright, we're caught up.
	Well, today is a special day.
	No, no, no.
	Alright man, we'll catch y'all on Friday.
	My birthday!
	Happy Birthday to you!
	Are those cookies low-calorie?
	They're gluten free, right?
	I appreciate it, guys.
	We'll catch you guys on Friday.
	I'll do an episode for you guys on fitness, getting in shape, how to build muscle, and we're gonna do a call-in show.
	Love y'all.
	Thank you for watching.

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