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Jan. 21, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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RATCHET HOES Kicked Off After HEATED Debate On Rape Culture Being A Myth!

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	That's your podcast, After Hours Edition.
	We're joining a bunch of lovely ladies.
	Let's get into it.
	Let's go.
	Look at you.
	How many cares, bro?
	Get out. Get out. Get out.
	Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
	All right.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast after our edition.
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	On the boat?
	Yeah.
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	W in the chat.
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	All right.
	Shots are lovely ladies in the back.
	Xena, Red, and Icy.
	Icy.
	All right.
	Now, we didn't forget.
	Ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
	And we'll start right here.
	Welcome back.
	Hi.
	How are you?
	My name is Annette.
	Trippie Little Missy.
	Shout out Carol City, West P. Ryan.
	I'm 25.
	Carol City?
	Goddamn!
	Y'all checked out on the win, right?
	AK now known as Miami Gardens.
	Real estate, cryptocurrency, dog breeding.
	I had my first litter.
	That was fun.
	That was an experience.
	Hold on.
	One more time.
	Okay.
	What's your first name?
	Annette.
	A-N-N-E-T-T-E. Okay.
	Social.
	And how old are you?
	25.
	Okay.
	And you said you're from, well, I'll just put, yeah, Carroll City, Miami Gardens.
	And you said you sell dogs?
	You breed dogs?
	French Bulldogs.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	And?
	Cryptocurrency.
	Real estate.
	I have my real estate license.
	Okay.
	I just started Twitch.
	Okay.
	I play RuneScape on there.
	I want to do GTA role-playing.
	Okay.
	Like T-Grizzly server, maybe Kodak Black server.
	Okay.
	And status, single, sugar daddy, married, gauged.
	I feel like if I disclose my relationship status, it kind of, like, affects my career.
	Alright.
	Go ahead.
	What is it?
	Can I be anonymous?
	Can I say, like, a pass?
	I mean, we already know already.
	Everybody knows.
	Yeah, he did a bad job.
	From last time.
	No, me what?
	Get some muscle, too.
	All right, Kristen, go ahead.
	What is it?
	No, no, no.
	What's she saying?
	Does it matter?
	Okay, I'm single.
	Translation.
	She got to do this again.
	Okay.
	But she still needs the sims.
	Okay, cool.
	Fair enough.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Melanie.
	I am from Des Moines, Iowa.
	I'm Melanie from Des Moines, Iowa.
	35.
	Wait, 35?
	Yes.
	Yep, I was waiting for that.
	I'm in business technology sales.
	And was there anything else?
	Oh, I'm single.
	Highest education level completed?
	Some college.
	So, highest level completed high school.
	Okay.
	And what about you?
	What's your highest education level completed, Annette?
	High school.
	My real estate license.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Khaleesi.
	Hey y'all!
	I do a little bit of everything.
	I'm an artist, audio engineer, producer, singer, songwriter.
	I rap.
	During the day, I do finances.
	You need a house, you need a car, you need some money.
	You work for a bank like you lend?
	No.
	I work for a tax agency and, you know, I kind of partner with him.
	But I'm mainly into music.
	Okay.
	You do a lot.
	How old are you?
	I'm 28.
	Okay.
	Where are you from?
	I was born in New York.
	I was raised in Miami.
	Okay.
	So I read both.
	All right.
	Cool.
	I have my bachelor's degree.
	Okay.
	And what?
	Recording arts, computer science.
	Where'd you get it from?
	Full Sail.
	Where?
	Full Sail University in Orlando.
	Okay.
	And then, single relationship.
	Single couple, sugar daddies.
	Okay.
	Whatever works, bro.
	That's the game.
	At least you're being honest about it.
	A lot of girls have sugar daddies, bro.
	That's a new thing.
	She raps, though.
	Chris, man.
	Alright, nah.
	We can skip it this time, man.
	She did too much, man.
	She did too much.
	Hi, my name is Victoria.
	I'm 26.
	I'm from Long Island, New York.
	I manage a cosmetics counter at a department store.
	My highest education level, I have a bachelor's degree in history and political science, and I'm single.
	Cool.
	Welcome.
	Where'd you get your bachelor's from?
	Stony Brook University.
	Okay.
	And then you said single, right?
	Yes.
	Okay, cool.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Asia Sky.
	I think we were asking what we did.
	I'm a singer and a pianist, and I also...
	Oh, sorry.
	I'm a singer and a pianist, and also I produce a lot of the music.
	Actually, I'm vice president of a record label, Blue Jury Music Group.
	How old are you?
	I want you to guess, right?
	Just kidding.
	No, I'll tell you.
	I'll be honest.
	I'm 30.
	30!
	And where are you originally from?
	I grew up in the UK. You went to high school in the UK? I did.
	My dad was Air Force, so I grew up in the UK and both the United States as well.
	Okay.
	Did you go to like an American school in England?
	Yeah, a little bit American, but also I did a lot of stuff in Mildenhall as well.
	So where were you when you were in the UK? Were you in London?
	Were you in Birmingham?
	So if you know Cambridge, it's 30 minutes away.
	Okay.
	Excuse me.
	I'm so sorry.
	Can you hear me better now?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	And your highest education level completed?
	I have an associate's degree.
	Okay.
	And what?
	Humanities.
	Okay.
	That's a waste.
	I know, but it was a good experience.
	I'm sure I was.
	Yeah, I learned a lot, but yeah, you're right.
	Fair enough.
	I'm sure you did.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Leanne.
	I am 25.
	I'm actually from Seattle, so I'm out here on vacay.
	Red flag.
	Seattle?
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Why?
	You don't want to know.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I do online marketing and I create content.
	I also do public speaking.
	Okay.
	Online marketing, and then you said you create content.
	What kind of content specifically?
	Motivational content, usually.
	Okay.
	What's your audience like?
	I'm assuming women?
	Yeah, women.
	And then what's your highest education level completed?
	Some university.
	Okay.
	Well, I just put high school.
	And then, relationship status?
	Happily taken.
	Okay.
	How long have you been with him?
	Eight years.
	Nice!
	Good job!
	Wait, y'all ain't married yet?
	We will soon.
	Not yet.
	Not officially.
	My nigga winning.
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	I'm Chloe.
	I'm 19.
	I'm a student.
	I currently switched my major.
	I was going to school originally for dermatology.
	And I was like, I also braid hair.
	So I switched my major to business administration.
	And I was like, I was thinking of opening my own salon and like...
	Having people, like, braid with me, if they either, like, either want to have, like, their own station, or I want to kind of make it different.
	I want to add a few.
	I'm still thinking about it.
	Kind of make it different.
	We can tell.
	So I'm assuming, okay, so you're in college right now, undergrad, I'm assuming you're either a freshman or a sophomore at this point, a 19?
	Yes.
	Okay, and highest education level, obviously high school.
	Mm-hmm.
	Uh, relationship status?
	Taken.
	Okay.
	How long have I been together?
	Uh, seven months.
	Oh.
	So fresh.
	Brand new.
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	And then, where are you originally from?
	I'm from here.
	I'm Cuban, too.
	Miami?
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Red flag.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name is Jillian.
	I'm 20 years old.
	I'm from Canada.
	The highest level of education completed was high school.
	I decided not to go to college.
	And I said I'm single, right?
	Just one more time.
	And then what do you do for work?
	I'm a writer.
	Okay.
	Serious writers.
	She doesn't want to tell us what she writes.
	It's not for Vice, though, right?
	No, no.
	I saw that in the comments.
	Fuck Vice.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name is Hollywood.
	I am a certified tax advisor.
	I specialize in credit.
	Oh my gosh.
	Credit acceptance.
	Credit acceptance.
	Credit restoration.
	I love it, guys.
	I also specialize in getting approvals for apartments.
	Oh, really?
	Yes, and I'm also 22 years old.
	Wow!
	Yes!
	And what else?
	Certified!
	Certified!
	Go Queen!
	And I'm actually 22 years old from Miramar, Florida!
	Miramar, oh shit!
	Yes!
	What the fuck is going on right now?
	Um...
	In a relationship!
	Oh shit!
	Is he in jail?
	I'm sorry?
	Is he in jail?
	No!
	Okay.
	How long y'all been together?
	Two, like two years going on three and a half.
	Does he know?
	Huh?
	Does he know?
	I'm sure he knows.
	Right now he doesn't, but right now, you know what I mean?
	Are you always this loud?
	Is it loud?
	A little bit.
	Alright.
	Fantastic.
	Yeah, man.
	Thank God.
	No, we needed that.
	I don't know when she was off when I got off, man.
	Okay.
	Snigger Chris, man.
	Get on purpose.
	All right.
	Here we go.
	Okay, just so y'all know, guys, it's Friday, which means we're going to go ahead and take your guys' questions.
	We got a critique yesterday, earlier today, actually, and they were like, hey, y'all need to spice up the after hours, blah, blah, blah.
	So, hey, man, y'all go ahead and ask some thought-provoking questions and let's get into it, all right?
	And then I got some pretty good question ideas for next week.
	But anyway, Wyatt goes, ladies, please name three countries fresh, no hints.
	So, uh, You want to give them the spiel on this, and then we're going to start hearing the work away.
	So, number one, you can't name USA, Canada, or Mexico, and also as well, whatever she says, you can't repeat.
	So, you get to go first.
	You gotta go!
	Two countries.
	Wakanda.
	Africa.
	Oh, there we go.
	Two more, two more.
	There we go.
	Europe.
	Okay.
	There we go.
	One more, one more.
	Yes, sir.
	Oh, I'm trying to say it.
	One more.
	You got this.
	Vacations.
	Where you want to go?
	Come on, Antarctica.
	Wait.
	You got this.
	One more.
	That's it.
	Egypt.
	Can you name three countries this?
	No.
	I cannot.
	Oh, God.
	Oh, God.
	I guess it's laughing time.
	Alright, what about you?
	Eswatini, Tonga, and Chad, which I personally think should conquer the Virgin Islands.
	Oh, shit.
	She's flexing.
	Alright, what about you?
	Denmark, Albania, Dominica, Chile, Argentina, and Brazil.
	Are you Hispanic yourself?
	You're creative.
	Belgium, Luxembourg, Ireland.
	Vietnam, Cambodia, and Laos.
	Are you a South Asian specification?
	Okay, you're just like, fuck it.
	Go poor Asian countries.
	All right, what about you?
	Tunisia.
	Uh-huh.
	Uh, Turkey.
	Um, Pakistan.
	Okay.
	You Muslim or something?
	No.
	Okay.
	All them countries, you know what I'm saying?
	All right, what about you?
	Germany, Italy, France.
	Okay, simple enough.
	Himalayas.
	What?
	Okay.
	All right.
	Is that a country?
	Two more.
	Bali.
	Okay.
	One more.
	Just one more.
	Antarctica.
	Yo! Good job!
	Woo!
	Did that shit, yo!
	I'm talking about right.
	Yo!
	Yo! Yo!
	This panel was amazing, yo!
	Good job, panel.
	Yo, we got Africa, Europe, Antarctica.
	Shout out to the penguins, man!
	I'm not saying, right?
	Yo, shout out to the penguins, man.
	Yo, shout out to the penguins, man.
	Yo!
	I see someone in the chat used an Aina emoji from Overwatch.
	I used to play her too.
	But anyway, Ken Kareem, that is incredible.
	I'm curious.
	What's the capital of Africa?
	What's the capital of Africa?
	Wow.
	What?
	Hang around for a minute!
	What the fuck did you just say?
	You said Wall of Wall?
	Nigeria.
	I can't, I can't, I can't.
	What's the capital of Antarctica?
	Antarctica.
	I couldn't tell you.
	Where Santa Claus lives?
	No, it's Iceberg.
	North Pole!
	That's the capital, right?
	Iceberg.
	Isn't it?
	North Pole!
	Hey, man.
	Brr, brr. Gucci man.
	Yeah, for sure.
	All right.
	All right.
	For those of you who have male friends, what qualities did they have for them to get that pathetic position?
	Why did you see them as smash material?
	Good question.
	That's actually a pretty good question from King Kareem.
	So we'll go ahead and start right here.
	You have guy friends.
	Why are they friends and not lovers?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	The reason why they're friends and not lovers is the fact that I don't find them sexually attractive.
	I don't like their personality.
	They probably don't have the same values as me, the same morals as me.
	But if you don't like their personality, why would you be friends with them?
	Well, I mean, you know, we can hang out and be cool.
	As a relationship, I don't like their personality as a relationship-wise, I feel like.
	You know what I mean?
	You can tolerate them, but you don't want to be like, be with them.
	Correct.
	You know what I mean?
	Can you tell us what that personality is, to be specific?
	I'm thinking of, I guess, my gay best friend, Omar.
	Hey, y'all!
	Yeah, I don't know.
	But he's gay.
	Okay, like this, well, I have this friend who's my best friend.
	His name is, I'm not gonna say his name actually, but he's bisexual, so that's another reason, right?
	I don't know.
	I can't, honestly, I guess I don't have a lot of guy friends.
	But they don't like you either, though.
	We're talking about guy friends that like...
	No, if they're my guy friend, they don't like me.
	That's number one.
	So are all your guy friends gay?
	Or bisexual?
	No, no, no.
	They're not?
	I wouldn't say.
	So the ones that are heterosexual, why did you say no to them?
	Because I guess I can't think of them at the top of my head because all of the ones that I do consider clothes are...
	Gay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Is his name Destiny?
	Nevermind.
	Okay.
	I was like, wait, what?
	Okay.
	So at this point in my life, I would say I don't really have many male friends.
	When I was younger, I did.
	And the reason that it never progressed to a relationship was either because I knew it would be toxic and not a good relationship, but keeping them as friends just, I don't know, it filled some purpose at that time.
	Yeah.
	How would it be toxic specifically?
	Women use that word interchangeably, and it's not very specific.
	Well, the one person in particular that I'm thinking of, I watched him go through a bunch of different relationships with his girlfriends, so I could see that he wasn't relationship material, but as a friend it didn't matter because we would just party together or whatever.
	Was he not relationship material because he was promiscuous, or was it because he just didn't have his shit together?
	He didn't have his shit together and because he just was jealous and abusive towards his girlfriends.
	And my young immature self didn't really care about that because they weren't my friends.
	It was him that was my friend.
	So I just knew that I would never take it there with him.
	So you had guy friends around before because they offered some kind of like value to you, I guess.
	Yeah, like smoking weed with them or whatever back when I did that.
	I mean, in my younger years, I've progressed past that.
	I was married for four years, so...
	Oh, you cut them off after that?
	Yeah, of course.
	I wasn't having male friends when I was married or in a relationship.
	Okay.
	So he was like an F-boy, basically.
	But...
	But without effing.
	But he didn't smash?
	No.
	Never.
	Never even kissed him.
	Okay.
	And there was one other one that I was friends with for a number of years and it was actually the opposite reason because he was too nice and he was too eager beaver and like would do anything for me and just didn't have- But the F boy never tried to smash you.
	He didn't?
	No, because he was good looking.
	He had a bunch of girls.
	Now I knew that he would.
	That makes sense.
	In a way, I knew he would, but he never tried.
	Okay.
	If he had money, what have you thought about him as a more serious prospect if he had to shit together financially and had a stable life?
	I think the answer is yes.
	Probably, but I just don't, I can't even see him in that way because he still doesn't to this day.
	So, I mean, yeah.
	Fair enough.
	Good point.
	What about you?
	Why are the guys in your life that are friend-zoned, why are they friend-zoned and never elevated to some type of intimacy?
	They're taken, and I'm a respectful-ass bitch.
	So if they made a move at you, you would take it?
	No, because they're taken.
	No, but I'm saying, let's say they became single and made a move at you.
	It depends.
	It depends on where the friendship is.
	If we're too close, I'm not gonna fuck you.
	Because I don't want to cross that border.
	But I'm asking, like, for your guy friends now, you're saying all of them, the reason why you're not, none of them are getting elevated to something more is because they have girlfriends.
	Right?
	So that's the condition under which Why are you friends?
	So I'm saying that condition's gone.
	He's single now and he's hitting on you.
	It's also a combination of the fact that I really don't want a relationship right now.
	Okay, let's say they try to smash them.
	So it's not the fact that they have girls, it's something else.
	Yeah, I mean, it's me, honestly.
	It's you.
	It's me.
	But are you not talking to any guys right now or something like that?
	I got a couple that I'm talking to that I have fun with, but I just don't have...
	So you don't want to have fun with your friends.
	You want to keep them in that friend zone role.
	Yeah, they're taken.
	But I'm saying if they're not taken, what is it that's holding you back?
	Because clearly you're cool other guys.
	So we want to know why these guys can't do it.
	It's a certain line to me.
	If I look at you and I know you and I find out that you're close to my kin and you're too close for comfort, I'm not gonna fuck you.
	Because that's like me.
	Are they friends with like your family members?
	Yeah.
	That's why?
	Yeah.
	Okay, why don't you just say that?
	Well, you didn't ask.
	No, I didn't ask.
	I just had to ask a million times for you to say that.
	I guess.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So the real reason they're never going to get elevated is because they're friends with people close to you family-wise.
	That's not it, though.
	Quite literally said kin.
	It's like, that's a point.
	But the whole thing is that if I have a relationship with you, if I have a working relationship with you, right?
	That's my working relationship with you.
	I'm not going to cross those boundaries.
	If I have a friendship with you, right?
	That's a friendship.
	I'm not going to cross those boundaries.
	Because who's going to fuck it up?
	I'm going to fuck it up.
	I don't care about you.
	You cannot catch feelings or whatever the case is.
	You've never smashed a co-worker or a friend before?
	Ever?
	I don't do that.
	I really try not to mix.
	I have before and that's how I know it's messy.
	Okay, perfect.
	Why did you go ahead and do it with that person?
	What made you say, you know what?
	I'm going to drop all my rules.
	I'm going to just try it.
	Alcohol.
	Okay.
	All the guys that you have friendzoned, why were they never elevated to anything more?
	I don't have male friends.
	Oh, you just don't have any at all?
	No.
	Never?
	No.
	Damn.
	No.
	Why?
	Why?
	I just don't believe they can't really, you know, I don't believe in platonic male friendships.
	Oh, shit.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Oh, shit.
	Beast.
	Alright.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Why did all your guy friends never be elevated from friend to So, you know what's interesting, like, I'm kind of like the queen of, like, platonic relationships, like, with guys.
	I'm sure no, I'm keeping it all the way thousand, like, you know, like, like, I'm friends with guys, and they're like my brothers, like, you know.
	The question is, why did you not never elevate any of these brothers?
	Because if I like a guy, I'm going to let him know the first five minutes.
	It's not like any way this, that or the fourth.
	However, I still vibe with people.
	I still connect with people.
	We still all benefit each other in some sort of way.
	I don't have to fuck you.
	You know, we can just, you know, we can make shit happen.
	How do you benefit guys?
	How do I benefit guys?
	Well, I'm pretty organized.
	A lot of men in general have problems organizing their thoughts, getting their shit together sometimes.
	I know, you ain't talking about organizing thoughts.
	We asked a very direct question and you can't even answer it.
	Okay.
	The question was...
	What specifically is the reason that you did not elevate the guys that are in the friend zone?
	It can be they don't look good.
	They're boring.
	They're too nice.
	They're lame.
	Well, because, yeah, I'm more of a vibe, but I got to be attracted to you in all kind of ways.
	There's like a checkbox of things.
	Give us the checkbox.
	Typically, obviously, like the person's got to be a good vibe, you know, not too freaking wild.
	A little wild is fine, but, you know, too much is too much.
	Yeah.
	You know, at least, I would like to find someone that I would find attractive, you know, personally.
	Someone that at least takes care of themselves, that says a lot about the guy.
	So would it be fair to say that the guys that you have, this is so hard for the girls to answer.
	Would it be fair to say that the guys that you have friend-zoned aren't attractive to you and they don't have the vibe that you just described?
	I mean, they might not be attracted to me, but to be honest with you, like most guys, I just, you know, you have to be connected with me mentally for me to, like, you know.
	So are you going to say pro-sexual?
	I mean, I wouldn't say this.
	I don't want to put myself in a box, you know, but I could be, you know.
	Chris, don't steal my thumbnail, bro.
	You know, it's just...
	As far as attraction goes, a lot has changed over the past years, I would say.
	Why are the guys that are friend-zoned from you, why can't they not fuck you, bro?
	That's what it is.
	Because, yeah, I'm not attracted to them.
	They're ugly?
	Yeah, they're ugly?
	I mean...
	I don't want to say they're ugly, they're just not for me.
	They're not for me, okay?
	Nobody's ugly in this bitch, they're just not for me.
	Yeah, what are you all right now?
	It's okay, nothing.
	Just a little bit of tequila is fine.
	Okay.
	Jesus.
	Alright, what about you?
	I don't really have guy friends.
	You don't?
	None at all?
	If they're my friends, they're usually because they're in business with me.
	Is it because of your man or you just chose not to have friends?
	Yeah, most of them are like his friends that I would be friends with.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Did he tell you not to have guy friends or you just kind of took that?
	I just like having girlfriends.
	Fair enough.
	What about you?
	Any of the guy friends that I have now are usually from like childhood, like up until middle school.
	And like, they're all in college now.
	Why are they stuck in a friend zone?
	Childhood, family, just family ties.
	So you're like her?
	Yeah, basically.
	But also because I'm in a relationship, too.
	So that never went any further.
	I mean, prior to your relationship, it's only been seven months.
	But the main thing is the family ties?
	The main thing is family ties, yeah.
	And then after that, I just never got into it.
	What about you?
	I don't have many guy friends, but the ones that I do have, it's either because they're effeminate or we just don't have the same values, so we'd be totally incompatible if we dated.
	Okay.
	When you say they don't have the same values, what specifically?
	Well, they don't want the same things.
	Like, I want to live in the countryside.
	I'm looking to settle down.
	For me, like, outlooks matter very much.
	So I couldn't be with somebody where philosophically we're totally different.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Yeah.
	Fair enough.
	So they're effeminate and they don't have the same, I guess, ambitions that you do relationship-wise.
	Yeah, but I also just don't have many guy friends.
	Okay.
	Like, I have, like, maybe one or two.
	Alright, what about you?
	Alright, can you reiterate the question?
	Stupid!
	Alright, the question is, the guy friends that you have, the guys that are stuck in the friend zone that you have, think of them.
	Alright, now that you have them, why are they there and why did they never be elevated to something sexual?
	Okay.
	They're not elevated for something sexual because if we're friends, I have a lot of fun with you.
	So, meaning that, like, I don't want to have that type of fun.
	If I wanted that type of fun, it would have been initiated on the first, like, altercation, like, the first instance we met.
	Okay, I understand what she's saying.
	She sucks at saying it, but what she means is fun for her, not fun for the guy.
	She enjoys their company because maybe they pay for a table or whatever the hell it may be or they're showing her an experience and she's having fun and she don't want to get rid of that by making it asexual and losing that opportunity.
	Is that what you're trying to say?
	A little bit somewhat, but me personally, like when it comes to like the using of men, like I only like, you know what I mean?
	But like when it comes to the using of men, I only allow.
	I'm just using the table as an example so the audience can understand.
	I only allow what they allow.
	Okay.
	So it's like, you know what I mean?
	No, it's fine.
	But you know what I mean?
	When it comes to the men, it's like, you know what I mean?
	It's cut and dry.
	Like you can know exactly what they want as soon as it's mostly just mostly like, you know, just an example of using men.
	Well, using men.
	Well, I used to say, I am not a practitioner of using men.
	I'm not a practitioner of using men.
	She goes as far as they're willing to allow her.
	So let's say he gets a table, she'll join in.
	Yes.
	Because he's already doing it.
	If he invites me, then, you know what I mean?
	Like, you want me at your table, you know what I mean?
	But like, when it goes to as far as, you know, like...
	What if he says, yo, after this shorty laugh, I'm feeling you, let's go back to the crib.
	What are you going to do?
	It's up to my interpretation, I feel.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, if I am attracted to that person, then maybe I do want to go.
	But sometimes I don't get that attraction, and then you do become a friend.
	Okay.
	So the guys that you have in the friend zone, they offer you some kind of benefit, and you don't want to lose that benefit by making it sexual with them.
	No benefit.
	For my friends, my friends are purely for fun.
	My friends are purely for fun.
	You know what I mean?
	Which is a benefit.
	Yeah, that is a benefit, but that's the only benefit I use them for.
	You know what I mean?
	Just for fun.
	So not dates, not dinner dates, nothing like that.
	Why would we go on dates if we're friends?
	So she wants to have a good time.
	But she's the one having the good time.
	Because women think that their presence alone is fun and it's not.
	And she gave a very female answer, which is cool.
	Hey, like I said before, typically for one gender to get what they want, the other one has to concede on what they want.
	If a man wants to get sex with a girl, she has to concede a bit and not necessarily get a relationship and vice versa.
	My thing is that most of the time, girls are winning way more.
	They're getting the attention, they're getting the resources, they're getting the experience, whatever it may be.
	Security as well?
	And this is maybe some sort of security.
	While the guy, a lot of times, doesn't even get sex.
	Or if he does, maybe it's starfish.
	So, what she's saying is, I'm not willing to give up my fun, translation.
	I'm not willing to give up certain experiences, right, with this guy and make it sexual.
	Because, you know, once you fuck a guy, everything changes, right?
	Yes.
	That's what she's trying to say.
	You just suck at articulating yourself, but it's okay.
	We got you.
	Period.
	Yeah.
	I don't know if y'all noticed.
	That experiment was very difficult for the girls to say.
	Because...
	I'll just keep it a thousand.
	If you guys say what we want y'all to say, not what we want y'all to say, but what you really think directly, it'll make you look really bad.
	Which that experiment kind of just displayed that.
	If you had said the real reason why you don't want to fuck with the guys, some of y'all were honest, like her, he's effeminate, they don't have the same thing.
	Someone said something along the lines of maybe family or whatever, but y'all were being around the bush a lot, bro.
	It was very interesting to see that.
	But you said that he was too nice, which is a good point as well.
	He was too pleasing.
	I think there's a reason behind that.
	That's actually another good point as well.
	You said he was so nice that you didn't think it was real.
	I didn't feel he was real with me.
	It was just to win over my affection or my admiration for him.
	When you're too nice, it backfires on you.
	Instead of just being himself, if he was just himself and just let me saw him and see him as he was, really.
	For who he is.
	Yeah.
	Well, this is exactly why, guys.
	I think I can't remember how to say this shit.
	This is why women deserve less.
	And the reason why is because when you pedestalize girls and you're too nice and you give them this bullshit, they don't respect you.
	You know?
	That's so mean.
	That's the reality, huh?
	That's so mean.
	What does that mean?
	Why women deserve less?
	I mean, you know, I feel like if you're not a good person, you know, I understand if you mess up, but however, you know.
	Well, the reason why women deserve less is quite literally because of your answer before.
	Oh, I didn't find them attractive, whatever.
	It really wasn't that.
	It's just more so not about the attraction.
	Me, when I meet people, I don't even necessarily look at them as a sexual type of thing in general.
	I'm just like meeting people.
	It's not like I'm trying to fuck them because obviously, you know, it's just...
	Okay, well, here's the problem.
	I love how you looked at it only through your lens.
	Okay.
	I'm telling you, you got to look at it through the men's lens.
	When they deal with you, they're looking always at sex.
	Men only talk to women for sex, bro.
	So what I'm saying is that if you're looking for sex, you're trying to get laid.
	Women typically deserve less.
	They treat you better when you give them less.
	This is why nice guys finish last.
	Bad boys don't do well.
	So if your goal is to be good with women...
	You need to give them less for them to actually respect you.
	And then they must earn everything else.
	But a lot of guys give women more up front and they don't respect it.
	And also, if you don't care about being with men like that, just bite a dog and die alone.
	Rest in peace, Cass.
	So, do you have something?
	Yes, I was just going to say that you're basically just saying to men by saying women deserve less.
	Kind of like how girls tell their girlfriends, like, if he's going to treat you like that, just move on.
	Like, don't give him the time of day.
	Don't give him your energy.
	You're basically just saying the same thing to guys.
	If she's not interested in you, don't try to keep winning her over by being fake and doing all these things.
	Just move on.
	She doesn't deserve to keep giving her all these things if she's not interested in what you're interested in.
	I'll be very wrong.
	Why don't you guys?
	It's because when you pedestalize women, they become terrible people.
	Well...
	But anytime a woman's with a man that she feels she's superior than, that pedestalizes her, she starts to disrespect that man, she starts to treat him poorly, she starts to abuse him.
	So for a man, he must be on top of the girl as far as, like, hierarchy.
	She needs to respect him more than he respects her.
	She must like him more than he likes her.
	Because women, when they're in a leadership role and they feel like they're being pedestalized by their man, that inherently makes them think, I'm better than this guy.
	When a woman feels like she's better than her guy, she don't want to take him seriously.
	Women only want men that are at their level, but preferably better than them.
	I see you shaking your head.
	I think it's your upbringing.
	Because at the end of the day...
	Who's upbringing specifically?
	It's...
	Based off of you yourself.
	Your experience yourself.
	The man or the woman?
	Each to each, right?
	As a female, my family's from Jamaica and India, right?
	Boop, boop.
	Listen, I cook, I clean, I nurture, I do all of these things.
	I can help you double your money.
	I'm good around the house.
	I'm good everywhere else.
	Listen, right?
	But if my man treats me like a queen and he's putting me on a pedestal, I'm only going to treat him like a king five times as more.
	And that's what makes me a simp.
	That's why I'm single right now.
	Because I know how much I give to the man when I love him.
	I'm very, very selective.
	Stop the show.
	You're telling me you cook and clean for your sugar daddy?
	I do.
	You do?
	I do.
	You have sex with him?
	I do.
	Okay.
	You give him everything he wants?
	I do.
	Okay.
	But you're seeing other men.
	And he knows.
	And he knows.
	Do you think he likes that?
	No.
	If he didn't like it, he wouldn't fuck with me.
	Because the thing is, men that have money like that, they have options.
	Right?
	But here's the problem.
	This is a perfect example of what I mean when I say women deserve less.
	If he gave you less and told you, yo, I don't deal with girls that go out and fuck other guys while I'm dealing with them, you would respect them more and you would stay inside and not do that.
	But the fact that he gives you all these options is quite literally against what he wants.
	It's just that he doesn't have the balls to tell you that.
	My situation is quite different though.
	My situation is different because the type of person that I am, I'm very open.
	I'm very blunt.
	I'm very honest, right?
	When I start fucking with somebody, I need you to know exactly who I am, where I come from, and where I'm going.
	And I want to know all of that shit about you too.
	And I feel like the niggas that I fuck with respect that.
	There's only two of them.
	And they both know about each other.
	No one else is entering that circle.
	Nothing is coming out.
	At the end of the day, I respect them and they respect me.
	But the thing is, I don't I don't associate myself with people who believe in shooting down women.
	You know, it wasn't fun being a woman until recently.
	It wasn't fun.
	It wasn't fun being a woman until recently.
	And to be honest, I don't really agree with a lot of the things that feminists put out there, right?
	But at the end of the day, we wasn't really women back then.
	So we deserve a little bit of glory.
	I agree.
	If you give them too much, some females take that inch for the mile, but it depends on your upbringing.
	Me, when I see you giving me less, I look at you and I say, what's wrong, baby?
	You need some more nurturing?
	I need to take a titty out.
	It gets different.
	Here's the thing.
	Women must invest first.
	The problem is that guys invest in girls first, and girls don't respect that, and they think that they're better than the guys.
	So what I'm saying, I'm not saying that you treat women like shit.
	What I am saying is that you need to have the girl invest in you first before you invest in her.
	The problem is that guys come in, I'll buy you a bag, I'll take you here, I'll take you there.
	And women don't respect you when you do that shit.
	I agree with you.
	So that's why I say white women deserve less.
	So guys need to stop simping.
	So imagine a celebrity, right?
	That's fans.
	They'll do whatever they can for a celebrity.
	He's like, all right, this person's a fan.
	That's it.
	Same thing with girls.
	You treat them like a celebrity?
	Don't you treat them like a fan?
	So we're just saying, look, on some level, if she's into you, obviously you can do things for her.
	But if that is even on a table, then what's the point?
	To be honest, though, here's the thing.
	I feel like a lot of people, I'm Caribbean, so I was taught these morals from young, right?
	Sorry, Twitch.
	You...
	What happened?
	Who said it?
	Keep going, keep going.
	It's fine.
	So, I'm Caribbean.
	You're Caribbean, you're taught your morals.
	So, basically...
	Fucking two guys.
	My bad.
	My whole thing is, I have the understanding of it, right?
	There's no disrespect, right?
	I understand where you guys are coming from, where you give women, right?
	You give them too much.
	And sometimes it's misunderstood, right?
	But from where I come from, right?
	You deserve what I want from you.
	It's the golden rule.
	So at the end of the day, I'm going to show you.
	I'm going to show you who I am.
	I'm going to show you that I can do these things, right?
	And I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt so you see what you're looking at and you can decide how you're going to treat me.
	If you treat me wrongly, I don't mess with you.
	If you treat me rightly, I know that there's something good.
	There's potential in this because I showed you my best.
	Okay, you mentioned morals in the Caribbean, right?
	I'm from the Caribbean as well, Barbados.
	However, you being sugar daddies isn't moral at all.
	So that on premise right there is faulty.
	I didn't say I follow all of them.
	All right, so you know what?
	How about this?
	Since you're going to pick and choose when you want to go ahead and exercise morals, I'm going to pick and choose when women deserve less.
	And most women deserve less.
	That's the reality.
	Because modern day women are no longer traditional.
	They make their own money.
	They have their own jobs.
	They have their own careers.
	And a lot of them, by the time you...
	A regular 25-year-old girl, she has bodies.
	It comes with the culture, truthfully.
	What comes with the culture?
	Like, just in general, like, you know, how you say women deserve less.
	Yes.
	Modern-day women deserve less.
	Now, here's the deal.
	It depends on the type of woman.
	Because if she's giving out less, if she's talking to you, and she's not giving you a whole lot, obviously, you're not going to give back.
	But if she's like, hey, I'm mom- But the problem is that guys give too much.
	Okay, I understand.
	But the thing is, if you're meeting them and they're not putting out enough and at least showing you the same kind of energy that you're giving back to them, don't waste your time.
	However, if this woman has a lot of skills, a lot of capabilities, a lot of talents, a lot of things that she cooks, she does things that are high value for the man as far as him living, that would be good.
	And that's where the culture comes from.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Are you a man dating women?
	My man dating women?
	Yeah.
	What?
	It's a rhetorical question.
	It's no.
	And what I'm telling you is that most modern women are not going to do what you just stated.
	They're just not.
	That's what I was...
	I agree.
	I agree.
	There's something wrong with this culture.
	And it starts with how we think about each other, how we think about men, how we think about women.
	Yeah, most women don't respect most men.
	That's the only way it's going to change.
	The reality is most women don't respect men.
	They shouldn't look at a man just for money.
	That's so wrong.
	Okay, so since most women don't respect men...
	I'm telling guys, in general, women deserve less.
	That's why the title of the book is that way, because most girls don't respect men.
	An undesirable woman deserves less.
	I'm so sorry for interrupting you, but undesirable woman deserves less.
	Okay, but guess what?
	That's a majority of modern day women today.
	A majority of modern women today are undesirable to men in general because they don't have feminine traits and they're not traditional.
	They want you as a man to be a provider, to be a leader, to be strong, to be masculine, etc.
	What do we get in return for that?
	Well, we get a girl that's used up, a whore, masculine as hell, fat, bitchy, rude, abrasive, etc.
	That is the modern day woman.
	And she doesn't respect you because she thinks she's equal to you because of feminism.
	So my thing is, I'm not going to be a traditional man to a typical modern day woman because she's not traditional.
	That's a bad trade for me.
	Well, am I going to go ahead and trade in my success, my masculinity, my protection, my provisioning for a girl that quite frankly doesn't give me that femininity in return?
	It's a misinterpretation.
	It's not a good trade.
	I'm telling you that most of those women don't exist in the West.
	I think is where you look.
	I think is where you look.
	It's a misinterpretation and it's where you look, right?
	Maturity doesn't necessarily go by age, right?
	But it goes with your mental, what you do, how you act, how you move, right?
	It depends on where you look.
	If you're looking in the right places, you're going to find some ratchet bitches, right?
	If you look in the other right places, you're going to find some well-spoken, professional, young women.
	You have a point.
	Back in the day, I would say you're correct.
	Because of social media, the current TikTok pandemic, you could be anywhere in the world.
	It could affect you.
	Most women are not wife material, dude.
	I'm just going to be extremely blunt about that.
	Most women are not wife material.
	Most women are not worthy of a long-term relationship.
	Most women, quite frankly, want you to pay full sticker price for a used-up vehicle.
	And I don't mean to compare you guys to cars, but it's a very simple analogy.
	High mileage, yet they want you to pay full price.
	And I'm telling guys not to do that.
	The car, the dealer, and women deserve less.
	Because if I'm going to go ahead and trade in my resources and time for something that's used up, I'm not going to go all the way.
	How much less?
	Good men are scarce too, nowadays.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	No, no, no, no.
	Let me correct you.
	There's plenty of good men out there.
	The problem is that they're too nice.
	They're not tall enough.
	They don't make enough money.
	They're not attractive enough.
	They're not ambitious enough.
	There's plenty of nice guys out there that would love to date you and take you seriously and make you their main girl.
	But the problem is that most women want a guy that's in the top 2%.
	Social media...
	But hold on, hold on.
	You said earlier, right?
	They're out there, good women.
	Please tell us where they are.
	The good women?
	- Yeah, please tell us. - You gotta pray for that book. - You gotta pray for that book. - If you believe in manifestation, which I have-- - Girl, manifest. - Oh, manifest.
	Manifest it!
	At the end of the day, honestly, there's certain bars.
	There's certain bars.
	Bro, hold on, hold on.
	Stop, stop, stop.
	Manifest it?
	Only women get to say nonsensical things, like manifest it.
	You think I'm going to sit here and be like, I'm going to manifest that I'm going to be rich and famous?
	What is manifestation?
	Listen, listen, listen.
	There's a difference between men and women.
	Men must actually take action to get to where the hell they want to go because success, performance, it's our burden.
	Okay?
	Y'all can live in a Disney fairy tale and say, I'm going to manifest it.
	The science, astrology, blah, blah, blah.
	All this other stuff.
	We got to live in reality, man.
	Listen, I've had to make real money.
	Had to get up off of my ass.
	I had to pray.
	Been in situations that was terrible.
	That was hectic.
	That was crazy.
	Right?
	And my manifestation is the reason why I'm here today.
	Yeah, you manifested too.
	I manifested two sugar daddies, a few businesses, a whole lot of money.
	Hold on, hold on.
	You missed the point.
	You missed the point.
	You had the ability to get saved by two men that have resources.
	We don't get that privilege as men.
	No one's saving us.
	You guys can have cougars.
	No one's stopping you from having the good jobs.
	So we're genuinely asking where you can find quality women.
	I've never heard of her.
	Men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine.
	An average woman can easily find a sim to pay her bills.
	An average man has no fucking chance.
	Even a model guy, he ain't gonna get no cougar to pay his bills.
	She might fuck him because he's like a chad, but she ain't gonna sit there and pay his bills and support him.
	It's the proper approach.
	It's the way that you speak.
	You can get anything by the way that you approach and the way that you speak.
	You could be a short ass.
	You could be four foot two.
	You could have no money.
	Stop the show.
	Stop the show.
	Would you support an air connection?
	Would you support a man financially?
	Yes or no?
	No.
	Would you support a man financially?
	No.
	Temporarily.
	Well, I think, yeah, temporarily.
	Okay.
	Would you support a man financially long-term?
	To help out, but overall, we have, you know, it's a team.
	Yeah.
	Would you support a man financially long-term?
	My husband or...
	A guy that you're with at.
	No.
	No?
	Would you?
	Temporarily.
	Okay.
	Would you?
	Not long-term.
	Okay.
	All the girls here on the panel.
	You didn't ask me.
	Well, I'm showing to prove you.
	If you would have given me the chance to answer, I would have told you that I have.
	Twice.
	Three years.
	And I've been and I've been.
	Where are those men now?
	That's why I don't do that no more.
	That's why I don't do that no more.
	What the fuck are you arguing?
	What I'm arguing is the fact that I tried.
	I tried to be with somebody and it didn't work.
	It clearly doesn't work.
	What are you arguing?
	You're defeating your...
	We're on the same page.
	No.
	Yo.
	You literally said, I said, men can't get saved.
	You respond, get a cougar.
	I'm telling you.
	You want to know why he didn't get saved?
	Stop interrupting.
	That's the problem.
	You're not listening to understand.
	You're listening to respond.
	I said, men can't get saved by women.
	You responded, a cougar can save you.
	So I said, how many of you would take care of a man?
	All of them said no.
	Even you!
	I did, but then I got rid of them because I was supporting a man.
	Thank you for proving my fucking point.
	Women don't provide security for men long term.
	So we can't manifest this bullshit that you're talking about.
	We gotta go out there and perform.
	We can't guess two sugar daddies.
	If you didn't approach the situation properly, you don't get what you want.
	The reason why those men were able to get two to three years out of me helping them out is because the dream that they pitched was actually something I believed in.
	I was like, you know what?
	We can do this.
	But guess what he did?
	He went and fucked around on other people.
	If I'm paying for all of your shit, that's what happened.
	So all that did was teach me not to do that.
	So tell this to all the short guys out there that have a good speech and a good plan to these women, but they say, oh, sweetheart, if only you were taller.
	Tell it to all the guys that are fat, out of shape, and they're like, yo, nigga, you're too fat.
	Listen, I get what you're saying, but it makes no sense.
	You're looking in the wrong place.
	No, where should we look?
	Please tell us.
	Because the guys, I think where they're looking, they're looking at social media.
	They're looking at, damn, I want a bitch that looks like this.
	I want this, this, and that.
	So they're reaching for females that aren't even giving themselves to the public.
	Where should we look?
	Please, let them know.
	Why do you look like you?
	You just be talking to talk, bro.
	You literally just be talking to talk.
	Can we actually tell you?
	Can we ask, like, where people think?
	Yo, somebody sent me a meme about my position that's so good.
	I can't find it on my phone, though.
	Damn it.
	I mean, if you have some...
	Go ahead, shoot.
	Go ahead.
	I'm curious to where people think that you can find good women.
	Yeah.
	It depends.
	Do any of the girls know?
	Any of the girls want to say?
	I know!
	There's the problem.
	I would start by saying...
	We'll start here and then we'll work our way.
	Go ahead.
	Yes.
	If you do not look like you have...
	You need to look like you deserve a bad bitch.
	If you don't look like you deserve a bad bitch, you need to go look for somebody in your category.
	Nobody needs to overextend...
	What was the question?
	That wasn't a question.
	What about you?
	I mean, I don't leave the house that much, but when I do, I listen to live jazz music.
	I play sports on the beach.
	I play a lot of sports, so maybe.
	I go to the farmer's market on Sundays.
	I go to church.
	Don't give too much info.
	She's telling you where to find them.
	I really don't know where to find them.
	What about you?
	Where can you find good quality women?
	I think yeah I think what she just said right now um also if you're well educated I think if you come from a good family I think like a stable family I think if you have a stable family you kind of have a good example of a good relationship um But how are you gonna find a girl from a stable family?
	Well, it depends who you know.
	Like, if you don't know them, then oh well, you don't know them.
	Interesting.
	They're mutual?
	It's whether you know, I guess.
	Okay.
	You asked the question, so go ahead.
	Your turn.
	Oh, I was just gonna say a bookstore.
	Like, somebody who's, like, developing themselves.
	Yeah.
	Barnes& Noble?
	Yeah.
	Those are going extinct.
	Borders?
	Is that over?
	I don't even know if they're still around.
	I know, is that over?
	Yeah, I think they would've gone too.
	What about you?
	Well, I guess guys are going to start off with Tinder first.
	So if you want to, if you do, look, I know what you're going to do.
	So if you're going to get on Tinder, I want you to have a respectable Tinder profile.
	I don't want to see any bullshit.
	I don't want to see your Instagram because if you have your Instagram in the bio, you're for the streets to keep it a thousand.
	I want to see that you're at least trying to do something.
	But also, you know, you're working on yourself and you're working hard.
	At least something.
	Because even with women, men want to see that we're working as well.
	Do you know what the question is?
	Yeah.
	You're saying where we're going to find the women.
	You're saying Tinder?
	Yeah.
	You can find them on Tinder.
	You can go to church.
	You can go wherever.
	Yeah, just try it out.
	Everybody's like, no, I'm anti-choice.
	Well, just try it out.
	Have you ever tried it out?
	Try it out.
	You know, it might be lit.
	You know, or, look, Eventbrite has, like, a lot of events.
	You can just go out, check out new events, and just make the eye contact.
	It's all about the eye contact.
	You know?
	Anywhere about the club, basically.
	You're trying to pick up a girl, look at him.
	Look at him, like, with those eyes.
	Do you think, as a man, you can pick up girls?
	Me?
	Yeah.
	I mean, yeah.
	If I was a dude, heck yeah.
	I can pick up some chicks.
	I'm sure you can.
	On Tinder, of course.
	Where should guys go to find girls?
	Wholesome women.
	Good women?
	Yeah.
	Community events.
	I feel like the list of where to find bad women is much longer.
	Outdoor concerts.
	Outdoor concerts?
	I don't think of country concerts.
	That's a terrible place to meet them, but okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	I'm going to say it again.
	Well, you didn't even know when we asked earlier, so what about you?
	The word of the...
	I'm sorry, darling.
	No, go ahead.
	The power of the tongue is so important.
	And people who are not spiritual won't be able to feel it.
	Right?
	But at the end of the day, I've spoken everything into my life.
	When I wanted a man, I prayed.
	I was like, please send me somebody who's not dumb.
	Please send me somebody who's not going to take all my money.
	Amen.
	Please send me somebody good.
	And he did.
	For the time.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I would say, first and foremost, people just need to get back out into the world again, like these ladies were saying, out from behind the computer and the game consoles and just go places.
	I think the more important thing, not where, but how to vet the women, because you can find a good woman anywhere.
	You just need to know how to identify that woman as a good woman.
	Or how would you vet her then?
	Respect.
	If she respects you and if she is giving you the attention and energy back that you're giving her.
	But if she's kind of blowing you off and just not giving you the time of day, don't continue to pursue her.
	But if she seems shy or interested or whatever...
	I mean, that's the very beginning stage of it, but then it just builds from there as it gets more serious, you know, if you're able to call her out on her disrespect and if she's able to correct herself and appreciate your perspective.
	Give us three traits that make a girl immediately unwifable, since you're talking about vetting.
	Unwifable, I would say someone that's not willing to see your perspective or take it seriously and see your perspective as valid or thinks she's always right.
	Okay.
	Two more?
	Someone that's not willing to...
	I actually agree with you guys that a woman should be sexually available whenever her man wants that.
	So if she's not willing to do that, and then I would say...
	Someone that won't follow your lead, period.
	I mean, if she wants to be the leader of the show and run the show, I would say it's not going to work out long term.
	And I would say I made a lot of those mistakes in my marriage.
	And that's one of the things that helped me paradigm shift was because it was very painful for me to go through that.
	And I wanted to do whatever it took to make sure that I fixed the issues that were in me that caused it.
	Accountability?
	Love that.
	Oh shit.
	Do you think feminism kind of told you to take a more leadership role in your marriage and relationship and that's what caused it?
	Subconsciously.
	It's the culture.
	I think it's brainwashing women and I think that we don't even realize it.
	We don't even realize that we're like that.
	Because culture tells us that they're basically like You can do more.
	Yeah, like that we need to.
	We don't need to compete with our man.
	We don't need to be anything you can do, I can do better.
	We don't need to do that because we don't, we're not the same.
	That's why women deserve less.
	Or, yeah, yeah.
	This is out of the book.
	Would y'all prefer to be alone?
	Like, if y'all, we deserve less, I mean, you can just be alone, that's fine.
	Did you not hear what she was saying?
	It's called Why Women Deserve Less.
	You should put why most.
	Why most?
	Why most?
	Why people get mad?
	It's so much nicer.
	It's so much nicer.
	No, that's what I'm saying.
	Because that's probably what you mean too, right?
	Remember, it's a book cover.
	And to be honest, if I line up 100 women today and I go talk to them, like 95 of them are going to deserve less because a lot of them are on a pedestal.
	A lot of them have Instagrams.
	A lot of them have their DMs going up.
	A lot of them have their egos in the sky, think that they deserve more than they really do.
	And they think that they're better than you.
	The average woman nowadays does not respect the average man.
	If a guy makes 50k per year, 5'8", has a blue collar job, most women would never give him the time of day.
	I'm not really sure who would be a role model for someone to be the ideal woman.
	Who would I look at right now?
	Who's your ideal?
	Who do you think is a female role model?
	That will tell me a lot about you.
	A female role model for me?
	Give me a female role model, yeah, that you think is one.
	I would say Beyonce.
	Incredible.
	I would have to.
	Because, you know, that's the person that I strive to be is somebody that's discreet.
	And also, you know what I mean?
	See, here's the thing with Beyonce, because I talked about this in my book in a chapter.
	She is probably one of the biggest con women ever.
	She tells y'all strong and independent.
	She tells you guys, all the single ladies, she tells you guys, I can have another you in a minute, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	But guess what happened?
	She went ahead and married Jay-Z, who has a higher net worth than her, okay?
	When he cheated on her, she ain't going fucking nowhere, right?
	And she's still with him.
	So she tells you and sells you the lie of feminism and being single and you can replace and all this other bullshit.
	Meanwhile, when it actually happened to her, she folded.
	So Beyonce is not a good role model.
	If you're gonna follow her like mantra.
	If you follow her actions, maybe that's one thing.
	But what she sells y'all versus what she does are two different things.
	I believe 75% of men cheat.
	Along with Cardi B. I don't cook, don't clean.
	Offset has recording her dumb ass cooking and cleaning.
	Right?
	City girls.
	Nicki Minaj.
	Terrible example.
	City girl.
	Kim Kardashian.
	She's paying right now the consequences for being a hoe having sex on camera back in 2006.
	She got the fame, but it came at a cost.
	And I predict that we're going to have a bunch of other women that are going to be in that predicament thanks to OnlyFans.
	OnlyFans, girls.
	You know what I mean?
	So, hey, man.
	I'm not saying that...
	Women are terrible people, etc.
	But what I am saying is that your guys' decisions have very strong consequences.
	True.
	Well, you don't have to be completely naked on OnlyFans to make money on OnlyFans.
	That's not the point.
	It's the stigma, though.
	If a guy has OnlyFans is like, damn, she a hoe.
	Also smashed up.
	Maybe not.
	Here's the thing, that fast money comes with slow problems and that slow problem is going to be that men are going to objectify you for the rest of your life and not take you seriously because you're always going to be on the internet naked and you're always going to be looked at as a sexual object versus to be looked at as Annette.
	Absolutely.
	That's the difference.
	I'm still curious, though.
	Where do you find good women?
	You said Tinder.
	That shit's trash, bro.
	That was the worst thing.
	Your church?
	I don't know.
	What about you?
	Where can a guy find a good woman?
	That's cool.
	Botanical Garden. Botanical Garden. Botanical Garden. Botanical Garden. Botanical Garden.
	Video games.
	Yeah, like, you know.
	Alright, put it this way.
	I will finish this part and then we'll go on to the rest of the chats.
	The reason why I say modern day women deserve less is because modern day women today have the easiest existences that they've ever had.
	They have all the same rights and privileges as men and they also have rights and privileges that men don't have.
	Okay?
	So, you guys have the...
	And I get it.
	It's over-correcting with feminism.
	And that's fine.
	But that's why I tell guys to approach the dating game nowadays where you have to give the girl less for her to respect you.
	The days of being a gentleman up front and getting good treatment for it, it doesn't work.
	If a guy goes on a first date now and gives a girl flowers, she's gonna laugh at him, put it in the group chat, and not take him seriously.
	Don't do too much.
	At least do something, but not too much.
	Stop talking for two seconds.
	The fact that you even had to say, don't do too much, goes to show the dating mindset that we're in now.
	It used to be a gentleman would come pick you up, open your car for you, give you flowers, etc.
	And women used to respect that.
	They don't anymore.
	That's why I'm saying women deserve less.
	Because if you give them that treatment, which you're calling too much, but it used to be the norm, and then girls come back and cry, why are there no nice guys anymore?
	Where'd all the good men go?
	Where all the gentlemen go?
	Y'all killed them off!
	Well, you can still do nice things, but not too much.
	What you mean to say is, if you're into the guy already, and you've proven his worth, then if he does things, it's different.
	But if you didn't invest at all, he's doing it for you off-rip.
	It's weird.
	What I described used to be the norm, but now girls look at it like too much.
	So since girls are saying that's too much, I'm saying women deserve less.
	So thank you for proving my point.
	As long as you're devaluing isn't like To the point where it's disrespectful and it's for the duration of the relationship.
	I didn't say that.
	I said as long as it doesn't do that.
	Nobody said that.
	I know.
	I just said as long as.
	See, here's the thing.
	I said that and she automatically assumed that's what it was and that's how she felt.
	I did.
	Well, fuck your feelings.
	I never said that.
	But how you feel versus what's real are two different things.
	Nowhere did I say abuse women, treat them like shit, blah, blah, blah.
	I just said women deserve less.
	You interpret it that way.
	Who spoils that?
	It's the way, it's your approach and how you say it.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Who spoils it for interpreting it that way?
	So anybody else here, the way that he speaks, does he come as though he is trying to tell you that women deserve less because of how they are making men devalue?
	Or does it feel like it's coming from a personal space?
	Here's a problem.
	You kept saying feel, feel, feel.
	All right?
	I conveyed something.
	Instead of listening to what was said, you cared about how it was said.
	That's the difference between men and women.
	We communicate directly.
	I say this.
	You interpret it that way because it was said in a certain way.
	How I say it is irrelevant.
	What is said is what's relevant.
	Me understanding you and you taking a chance to understand me is just communicating.
	And that is the issue that causes a lot of issues between men and females.
	Absolutely.
	At the end of the day, if I respected your opinion and I sit down to listen to it, I'm going to feel you out.
	A lot of females don't do that.
	I feel like your approach, instead of saying women deserve less, how about trying to find a way to teach women men's value because they don't see it?
	And it's not our fault.
	It's what's been pushed into our faces.
	Literally, as a child, you grow up seeing this shit the way you see it.
	You cannot fault the population for that.
	All you can do is try to be the example and spread the word.
	Right.
	Here's the problem.
	We can't change a millennia of what's been going on with this feminist movement over one episode.
	What we can do is tell you what we can do actively right now to kind of combat that.
	That's what we can do right now.
	So I get what you're saying.
	Here's the difference.
	You're listening to respond.
	I'm listening to understand.
	The reason why I'm able to refute every single point that you've made is because I listen I understand.
	And I'm able to come back.
	You're more concerned with how I say something versus what is said.
	What's important is what is said, not how it's said.
	But you being a woman and interpreting everything through your emotions, like normal, which is why the show is so entertaining, is you immediately reacted like, you're devaluing women, blah, blah, blah.
	Nowhere did we ever say that.
	But you automatically assume women deserve less.
	That means abuse.
	No, it just means you can't pedestalize them anymore.
	You asked me about my opinion.
	You asked me about my opinion.
	Your opinion is incorrect.
	And the thing is, you said you refute He said he refuted.
	All I did was present a suggestion.
	Well, your opinion is incorrect.
	Opinions can't be wrong.
	They absolutely can be wrong.
	If I say my opinion is that one plus one is three, that's your opinion.
	A fact is wrong.
	A fact is wrong.
	An opinion is an opinion.
	They teach you that in school.
	An opinion cannot be wrong because it's what happens inside of your head.
	You're from the island?
	I'm ashamed.
	What I'm saying is that a fact Listen, a fact can be true or wrong.
	An opinion is perspective.
	You know why?
	Now I see why this isn't making sense.
	You don't live in reality.
	A fact is real.
	That's what...
	Both of y'all, I guess, aren't living in life.
	Now it makes sense why you're arguing with me when I'm saying things that are true and you're like, blah, blah, blah.
	We're not even operating on the same frequency.
	A fact is a fact.
	An opinion can be wrong.
	I think she's trying to say perspective, not opinion.
	Everybody has their own perspective, but...
	But a perspective can be incorrect.
	Correct.
	Right.
	Yes.
	But what I was going to say too about the title of the book, it's a catchy title.
	You are coaching men.
	You are not here to coach women.
	You're using the women on your panel to help coach men on how to be better men.
	It could also be titled...
	Women don't listen too.
	That's another reason too why we specifically don't really like coaching women because they think they know it all and they don't want to hear the male's perspective, which is why this podcast is so entertaining because...
	Very rarely do men tell women the truth about how the world really works because they want to have sex with them and they don't say anything.
	So guys rarely tell girls, no, this is how it really goes or you're wrong or whatever or telling a girl her opinion is wrong.
	That's why girls come in here like, no, no, no, you're wrong, blah, blah, blah.
	No, an opinion can absolutely be wrong.
	But the message coming from a woman to other women is better taken because they're not as offended by what...
	But women aren't honest with each other.
	Which is why we have that problem right now.
	That's why I want to try to help change it too because your book could also be called Make Her Earn It.
	It could be called Make Her Earn It.
	Instead of just giving her everything, trying to earn her, how about you make her earn the things you give her by the respect that she shows you?
	It's the same thing that you're saying by saying...
	Women deserve less.
	It's just when women hear that, they're immediately, because their feelings, because we are emotional beings, their feelings get triggered by that because they're thinking of it in a derogatory way, like they don't matter or like they're never going to get it.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Yeah, you guys are putting women down instead of lifting men up.
	Let me ask you this.
	Who controls their feelings?
	Well, everyone.
	We should.
	Okay.
	But men can help with that.
	So if you can't control your feelings, who's fault is that?
	Well, I'm not saying it's not.
	I'm not saying you, but you're taking the accountability off women like, oh, their feelings and their emotions.
	No, I'm just saying the message that you're trying to give women is better taken coming from a woman.
	But you're not here to teach the women.
	You're here to teach the men.
	Well, because like I said, a lot of women don't live in reality.
	So I'd rather it's better for me to just teach men because men are the leaders anyway.
	Right, exactly.
	And they have the power.
	They have all the power.
	If they are a competent leader, they can lead a woman out of disrespect by how he treats her and how he will not accept it.
	Stifler's mom.
	Stifler's mom.
	Oh my gosh, I've heard that before.
	That's funny.
	Positive reinforcement.
	You mentioned the book cover.
	Make her earn it, right?
	Yes.
	I feel like you're devaluing women by saying they don't deserve it up front.
	What's wrong with you?
	I mean, nobody just deserves something.
	The title already does that.
	Everyone's going to be mad.
	The moment you put a title on a book, They can put it anywhere they want to.
	So his title could be bad or good.
	At least try to make a connection.
	His perspective on how they take it.
	But honestly speaking, the facts are the facts.
	And somebody said you got to put women down or whatever.
	Yes, in today's day and age, you have to put women down to get them to respect you.
	Sorry.
	No.
	But isn't your book for men?
	Hold on.
	It's for men.
	But the thing is that for modern day women to respect modern day men, men have to put them down to a degree because women's egos are up in the sky.
	You guys don't understand this because you don't date women as men.
	Most men are virtually invisible to women.
	Most girls don't respect most men.
	So you gotta knock her down a couple pegs to bring her back to reality and let her know.
	I'm really sorry you feel that way about a lot of women.
	Truthfully.
	I know it's reality.
	I'm sorry that you feel that.
	Listen, listen, listen.
	How I feel...
	Versus what's real are two different things.
	I wish it wasn't that way, but that's how it is.
	I've met a lot of really good women, truthfully, that are...
	What does that have to do with the conversation?
	You're saying modern day women are that.
	And I agree.
	You're so right.
	However, I've met a lot of modern day women that actually have husbands that they care about and they have families and they're actually dedicated.
	Like, truthfully, I can call them...
	That's a minority.
	They're wiped up already.
	I mean...
	That's a minority.
	You know...
	Most marriages end in divorce.
	Do you want to know why?
	Can I keep it a thousand with you?
	Like, the people that I know that have stayed, like, married, like, is truthfully, like, I'm just going to keep all the way, like, they, like, grew up pretty religious, like, truthfully, like, you know, they went to church, they made it, and they understood the role, like, I'm just going to just keep it transparent.
	There's roles in the Bible, and I'm just teaching you, because this is what they taught me.
	And the Bible is saying women deserve less, too!
	I didn't grow up.
	Every religious text has said women deserve less.
	They need to submit to their husbands.
	That's the problem.
	There's a role between the man and the woman.
	The man should have his own role.
	The woman should have her own.
	It's a guide.
	You don't have to follow the Bible.
	I don't.
	But I'm just saying, it's just the guide.
	I keep it in perception.
	So I would just say, try it out.
	People don't really actively try to do anything like that.
	People want to do their own thing.
	People just want to fuck around.
	This is what it is in this society.
	What's your argument here?
	What I'm saying is there are good women out there, but I'm just saying the women that I know that have stayed in long relationships...
	But that's a minority.
	Okay, well, they're a minority, but I'm telling you, that works for that particular group of people.
	Okay, so we're not making arguments for the minority here when we're having conversations about general public.
	Okay, so for the majority, we do need a culture change between the women.
	It's sad how the women are.
	That's what I'm saying.
	It breaks my heart how the women are.
	It breaks my heart how the men are.
	So if most women are being pedestalized, if most girls think that they're better than most guys, if most girls have egos up in the stratosphere, it would be irresponsible for me to say, oh, well, there's a couple good ones out there.
	No, tell guys, you need to prepare yourself for the majority.
	And the reality is, you have to put women down to a degree.
	I don't want to date the majority, though, truthfully.
	You had to put a name out or just put her out on her disrespect?
	You saying that?
	I'm confused because most guys are going to meet the majority.
	The minority you're talking about...
	Look, if you're a man of high value, you have to conserve yourself.
	You do have to look for a woman that also looks like...
	How are you going to tell a man how to conserve himself?
	A woman, a good woman, and a good woman.
	There's not that many high value guys.
	That's a minority.
	I'm talking about the general masses of men.
	The guy that's 5'8 that makes 50k per year.
	Okay.
	Okay?
	See, you don't even think about that.
	The average guy.
	That doesn't even come into your mind because that dude is invisible to you.
	Not at all.
	Well, not at all.
	When I stated that, you were like, wait, what?
	Oh.
	Well, I might have been thinking in my own way, but I don't believe that person's invisible at all.
	I think they should just try to vibe out and just try to be friends with somebody first before they, you know, at least invest that much time and money.
	I know couples that have stayed together for years and they're maybe off the shits together.
	Like, if you know what I'm saying, I don't know if I can say it on air, right?
	But they be lit together, and they stay together for the full duration until somebody dies, right?
	It's toxic as fuck, right?
	To the outside eye.
	But would you say that that man found a good woman?
	No.
	Okay.
	I mean, just because he's staying there doesn't mean she's good for him, and vice versa.
	Okay.
	Listen, man.
	Let's just put my chat here, because this is crazy, bro.
	Um...
	Freshly BBC. Y'all asking them to name three countries.
	What you should be asking is three ways they could satisfy you in the bedroom because most times they put in no work.
	Trust me, I would know.
	Freshly educate you three or fours on how it's done, bro.
	That's weird.
	Don't trust that girl from Canada in a red dress.
	Something's off, bro.
	No, but someone else said she's the most feminine woman out there, and that's what she comes off as to me, as the epitome of femininity.
	He's saying that she's so perfect, something has to be off.
	Oh, okay.
	Do you want to respond to that?
	I think that's a compliment, so thank you.
	Possibly.
	Max says, question to ladies.
	What is one thing that will make you respect a man and follow his lead before the doubt?
	Be honest, please.
	Okay, very good question.
	So ladies, the one thing you would look for in a guy and say, you know what?
	I respect this guy after what he's done or what he's accomplished.
	What'd you say?
	I like intelligence.
	What?
	Oh.
	Let's start here because you started last time.
	Definitely protective, I feel like.
	So if he can protect you, you'll respect him?
	Nurturing, yeah.
	How would he show that, though?
	There's no danger.
	How would he show that he's protective?
	Because he's big or in shape?
	Simple things, like, for example, making sure you're on the right side of the sidewalk and not the left side of the sidewalk.
	He holds your hand across the street.
	He's, like, guarding you.
	Yes, guarding you.
	Okay, like, oh, I see this guy's looking at you.
	We're, like, you know, just protective, nurturing.
	Okay.
	So protecting you is going to make you respect him.
	Got it.
	What about you?
	I would say just him demanding his respect will make him respect me.
	For example, I dated a guy once that would not take any of my bullshit.
	And if something I did or said or I rolled my eyes at something he said, he called me out right in that moment.
	And he said, I don't like what you just did right there.
	That was disrespectful.
	And I was like, whoa.
	At first I was kind of like, but I liked it.
	Because I think as women, we actually crave that.
	We want a man to- You crave being put down.
	That's not being put down.
	That's not being put down in my opinion.
	Being put down is calling you names or being mean to you.
	That's not being mean.
	That's just him stepping up in his masculinity and demanding respect.
	That's what my point was.
	I never got to say.
	Women have become more masculine because men have become more feminine.
	True.
	That's the culture.
	That's the culture that's made everything backwards because men are more like women and women are more like men and everything is backwards.
	Let me ask you a question.
	When he told you don't do that, He was the authority figure doing that, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	A lot of modern day women don't respond well to authority.
	They look at it like you're putting me down.
	So you might look at it like I'm saying that's putting a girl down.
	You're saying, no, it's not.
	No, it's not.
	A lot of modern day women will look at that as being put down because the man is speaking from an authority.
	I am the leader here.
	A lot of girls think that they're equal to men.
	So they look at that as being put down.
	So that's why I'm saying...
	Because here's the thing.
	You understand that as a guy asserting his masculinity, a lot of modern day women will look at that as he's putting me down.
	Right.
	And that's the problem.
	That is the problem.
	Hence why I say tell guys, yes, you got to put it down sometimes because a lot of girls have egos up.
	I hope you make the message clear though that that's a distinct difference.
	I hope that it's clear because putting someone down in my view is being mean to them, calling them names, doing things that are just outright not right.
	But when you correct a woman and you demand your respect as a man, I think that's actually helping her.
	Well, you gotta knock her off her pedestal, which is, by definition, knocking her down, putting her down.
	They don't like how you're saying it.
	You guys are more concerned with how I'm saying it versus what it is.
	But if you look at it quite literally, depedestalizing her is putting her down.
	Now I understand what you're saying and that's the difference between men and women.
	That opinion causes a problem because you took that, like, people will take that same opinion and then they'll take it and then they're not understanding it.
	What's my opinion?
	Tell me what my opinion is specifically.
	Like, if you're saying that, like, if you're saying that something that, like, oh, I'm going to tell you, like, I don't like, if my hair is pink, I'm going to tell you that I don't like your hair that is pink.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, I'm putting you down like that.
	I feel like you beat a bitch down.
	Yeah, you know what I mean?
	I feel like you beat a bitch down.
	I feel like if she came to you and she was angry, I feel like you would just, what are you wearing?
	Yeah, I see.
	I see it.
	Okay, I think the difference here...
	No.
	First off, number one, I never put my hand on her girl.
	Ever.
	Ever.
	Number two, I'm very honest.
	If I don't like her hair, I will tell her, the hair is terrible.
	It looks awful.
	If my girl gains weight, I'll tell her, go to the gym.
	You're fat.
	See, the problem is this.
	Women don't like boundaries.
	Also, women don't like being told the truth if it makes them feel bad.
	Mmm.
	But my thing is, I have a certain image to keep.
	My last name means something.
	You want to be seen with me, you can't look like shit.
	Period.
	I'm not going to go to the gym and bust my ass to be around some chick that's fat as fuck.
	That's unacceptable.
	Alright?
	I just have to ask that because you look like you might.
	No, I just don't tolerate fuckery.
	A lot of girls come with fuckery and I dislike fuckery and I tell them that's some bullshit and I don't like it.
	But, that's what you have to do as a man.
	You've got to depenestylize these girls because they literally think that they're better than you.
	Women crave that, actually.
	They don't even know they crave it.
	They don't even know it.
	I think it's because, like you're saying, depedalize them when the problem is that you don't want to take them off the pedestal.
	You should leave them on the pedestal.
	The problem is that they're probably falling off of it, doing something wrong, or they're getting fat or whatever you're saying, and they're falling off of it themselves, and you should correct them and put them back on the pedestal where they should be.
	I like that.
	I love it.
	Here's the thing.
	That sounds good on paper, but so does communism.
	And we know that doesn't work.
	Women cannot respect or be with a man that is not better than them.
	Yeah.
	So by default, you can't pedestalize women.
	Celebrity and fan.
	Do you mean like only the ones on the pedestal and the guys here?
	Or do you mean like we're all on a pedestal?
	Like he's a king, she's a queen, we're on a pedestal.
	Most guys put a girl like this.
	You're my savior.
	Whatever you want, girl.
	That right there, you're a fan.
	That never works.
	I agree.
	Pedestalizing women makes you unattractive, period.
	You must be on the pedestal as the man, not the other way around.
	Can we both be on pedestals?
	No.
	You guys can be higher.
	By the way, we got Eric.
	$500 says, this one's for Big Mo.
	I'm psyched that he's involved with Roger Tomarso.
	Ryan Stone making fun of Rolo.
	I need the ladies on the panel to define what winning as a man means and what winning as a woman means.
	Health and wealth to you and all those you care about.
	And by the way, another one on Rumble.
	Eric Fisher, he's W. Goddamn.
	Appreciate it.
	Second one for Big Mo.
	Alright, so Mo, anything you want to say to him?
	Somebody winning.
	Yo, thank you very much, Eric.
	Yo, big shout-out to you.
	I seen you when I was in that episode of Roll Zero.
	So, big ups to you.
	Why the hate we create, buy real estate, we lose weight.
	And Mo, how do you say the last part?
	Tamarzo?
	It was making fun of...
	Tamarasi?
	Yeah, making fun of Rollo.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Shout-out to Eric, man.
	Cool.
	You had a point?
	That's actually a good question.
	Oh, this one?
	Yeah, but sorry, we'll let them finish their points.
	So, to answer your question, what will make me follow him is if he keeps to his word.
	If you show me the proof in the pudding, I have so much to follow because I know you're actually going to do it.
	You say it, you mean it.
	So being a real man, which means, for example, if he says something, he's going to do it.
	Okay.
	That's respect for you.
	I'm sorry, would you?
	So the question was, name one thing a man can do or say or be about.
	I'll make you respect him.
	One thing.
	One thing I can think of is them not being afraid of being chivalrous.
	I mean, the man that I'm dating now, he picked me up at my house, brought flowers.
	Really?
	Yes.
	Question for you.
	When he did that act, right?
	Did you like him beforehand or you liked him after the fact?
	Before he came to your house, he's hot, attractive, I like him.
	I liked him even more after.
	Okay, so you liked him from the very beginning.
	Yes, that was the first time I'd seen him in person.
	So, I'm just curious because what if you didn't like him at all and he did that for you?
	Would you still feel the same way?
	If I didn't like him at all, why would I say yes to a date?
	Some girls do.
	Free food.
	Good times.
	It's on the house.
	I wouldn't want to waste a man's time like that.
	Okay.
	Maybe a little bit different.
	Interesting.
	I mean, let's be honest here.
	How many of you guys have been on a date with someone that you had zero intention of having sex with?
	Raise your hands.
	Well, so y'all fucked everybody you went on a date with?
	Damn!
	Y'all fucked everybody you went on a date with?
	No, that wasn't the question.
	Yeah.
	No, the question is...
	Because a lot of...
	The point we're trying to make here is that girls go on pointless dates with guys that they don't like all the time.
	Yeah.
	I don't think so.
	Honestly, I feel like I'm 22.
	At 22, that's scary.
	Going on a date that you know you have no intention of talking to that person.
	What if I told you those guys that you have in the friend zone probably thought that it was a date and then you friend zoned them.
	How about that?
	I don't tend to do that.
	I honestly feel like that's scary.
	You can go on a date and then they accidentally find out that you're not playing them.
	They can have a neurological pump in their brain and now I'm gone somewhere.
	I don't like to play with people's emotions.
	The crazy part is we don't know what you mean.
	I'm saying like, basically if I go on a date and they're like, because you can obviously tell unless you're like, you know what I mean?
	Like at a certain level, you can obviously tell if somebody doesn't like you.
	So it's like, if you're somewhere like, you're like, oh yeah, I'm like, you know, I'm going to eat your food.
	Like, you know what I mean?
	I mean, you know, you obviously know when somebody doesn't like you.
	Period.
	There's no way you're sitting there thinking that they like you.
	They don't.
	Okay.
	On some level.
	I meant to take mine back.
	Because, like, I wouldn't go on a date with a guy I'm not interested in.
	But I don't have sex outside of marriage.
	I wasn't gonna have sex with him.
	You're a virgin?
	I just wanted to clarify that.
	You're a virgin?
	Yeah, I'm a virgin, yeah.
	That's what your buddy pointed out on the thing and we couldn't figure out.
	She's a wholesome woman.
	Yo, yo, yo, yo, chat.
	We need a test, bro.
	Who's gonna do it?
	What?
	Oh my God.
	It's okay, love.
	That's dope.
	If you are, that's really dope.
	I'm proud of you if you want.
	We've got two tonight actually.
	I made sure to get her okay before I said that.
	Oh yeah, no worries.
	It was going to come out at some point.
	Hold on.
	That picked you up.
	How long have you guys been talking?
	A month.
	So you don't want to smash?
	He knew I was waiting until marriage before the first date Well that explains her not having guy friends See, the dots are starting to connect to her.
	The chivalry means something to her.
	Because she's a virgin.
	Goddamn, bro, see?
	Girls appreciate men when they're not sluts.
	When you do flowers, you give them certain things, and you treat them like a gentleman.
	And they appreciate it back.
	And she appreciated it back.
	Because it didn't make her not like him.
	I don't know what girls y'all think will get flowers and not appreciate it.
	What are you talking about?
	Yo, you don't get girls as a guy.
	I'm telling you, there's niggas out there that go with this all the time, Tinder especially, Hinge.
	Oh, she's cute.
	She's awesome.
	You know what?
	I want to make a big impression on her.
	I'll pick her up, give her flowers.
	She's like, nigga, I'm just trying to smash.
	What the fuck are you doing?
	I don't think women understand that you don't ask the fish how to fish.
	You ask the fishermen.
	You guys don't know what it takes to be attractive to women as a man because you are not a man dealing with female fuckery when you're in the dating game.
	Okay?
	So therefore, no offense, the advice you guys have dispensed so far has been terrible.
	If any guy followed what you said, oh, be friends, just catch a vibe, I'll be stuck in a friend zone.
	It doesn't work.
	All right?
	Well, it should start there.
	That's what I'm saying.
	No, it should not.
	Absolutely not.
	You should be clear on attention.
	You know what's funny?
	You're eating your own words right now because you quite literally said earlier at the top of the show, I know right away if I like the guy.
	So why the hell is he going to be a friend?
	It's not like that.
	It's more so...
	It's contradicting yourself.
	Pull the L, bro.
	Like, yo.
	You said to yourself earlier, like, yo, I know right away when I like the guy.
	So if you know right away you like the guy, why are you going to be friends?
	I mean, as far as a connection goes, that's what I mean.
	As soon as you set eyes on somebody, you should know if you like them or not.
	Obviously, you're going to see a man.
	If you look at a man, you're not going to be attracted to a man.
	So it's more than one thing, obviously, working at one time.
	But obviously, you're looking at another dude.
	You're not going to be attracted to another dude.
	Obviously, because that's not your preference.
	But obviously, like, women, we're just designing this way to, like, you know, men.
	Here's the difference, bro.
	You guys want to know why you're so clueless?
	I'm going to break it down for you guys.
	You could call me an asshole, sexist, whatever it is.
	The reason why you guys are so clueless, right, is because women have the privilege of not having to understand men to be attractive to them.
	One more time.
	Ah!
	The reason why you guys are clueless is because women have the privilege of not having to understand men to be attractive to them.
	You exist.
	Men come up to you.
	You exist.
	Men email you.
	You exist.
	Men match with you on Tinder.
	Also, on the other hand, not only do we have to understand you guys, we have to be attractive.
	We have to be charismatic.
	We have to be charming.
	We have to be chivalrous.
	We have to understand women to get laid.
	We have to have our apartment clean when you come in.
	We have to make you feel comfortable.
	We have to plan a date.
	We have to know, okay, is she going to like this?
	Is she going to like that?
	I have to touch her away, etc.
	Men must understand women to get laid.
	However, women don't have to understand men to get laid.
	So that is why your advice is pointless because I don't know anything.
	No offense.
	All of those things that you just named, when you're trying to get a woman of a certain caliber, yes.
	A thousand percent.
	All of those things that you just named.
	However, if a man was going after...
	Just sex?
	No.
	Chisha off the street, right?
	And Chisha off the street is down if you got a bed to sleep in.
	She down if you got some food.
	Chisha gonna make sure that you're lit.
	She's gonna make sure that you have a good relationship together.
	You didn't have to buy her flowers.
	She was happy with your smile.
	You didn't have to put food in the cabinet because she was happy with that.
	And this goes to show how little women really know.
	No offense.
	You do realize that even the biggest hoes want something in exchange for sex?
	I'm not.
	Oh, burger?
	No, no, no.
	Okay, cool.
	So let me, let me, because you're trying to, you're trying to insinuate that a girl that's a big ass hoe, it's that easy.
	No, the guy still has to go over there and talk to her.
	No, no, no.
	I'm sorry.
	He still has to have some game.
	I'm not talking about a hoe.
	What I'm talking about, I'm trying, because I'm trying to, like, censor what I'm saying.
	I don't know what I can and can't say.
	I'm talking about...
	Say what you're saying.
	It's fine.
	Okay.
	A bitch that saw some real drugs.
	I don't know if y'all have ever been around a bitch that saw some real drugs.
	No, no.
	Not homeless girls.
	College girls.
	I don't know where you will find these girls, right?
	These girls are normally your tree-huggers.
	These girls are the ones that will subdue to you.
	You tell them what to do.
	It's not that hard.
	You don't have to have money.
	You don't have to have certain things.
	I'm listening to what you guys are saying.
	You have a lot of points, right?
	But what I'm correlating it to...
	Is the type of woman that you're talking to.
	So the thing is, what I think you're telling is men, the short men, the men that can't get the females, right?
	If you want to get this bad bitch, this is what you got to do.
	It's what you were saying earlier.
	It's go and look in your area.
	If you're ugly, you have to stay ugly.
	You should be the best version of yourself.
	Be the best version of yourself.
	That's the only way you can get a girl.
	Truthfully.
	You're saying, okay, just go get a promiscuous girl that does drugs.
	Let's go with that.
	These promiscuous girls that want drugs.
	You still have to go buy the drugs.
	Smoose her over.
	Hey, want to come back to my place?
	I got some weed.
	You're trying to take it to the extreme.
	The point I'm trying to make is the man still has to understand the woman to a degree.
	He has to find out that she likes weed.
	Go buy the fucking weed.
	Come back.
	Talk it to her.
	Hey, you want to smoke pot about my place?
	I got Netflix and be charming to a degree.
	He still has to put work in.
	Versus a girl, all she has to do is exist.
	A girl can walk into a nightclub and go...
	Someone's still gonna wanna fuck her, bro.
	It's like you want the word hi, the word hi to be let me put my dick in you.
	Instead of saying hi, let me see what you feel like.
	But that's what I'm trying to say.
	Men, that's the difference.
	Like, men have to understand women to get laid.
	Women don't have to understand men to get laid.
	It's a small, it's not.
	Are you a man?
	I'm not a man.
	I have male tendencies.
	So how would you know if it's easier or not?
	But what I'm saying is when I talk to females...
	You're a woman.
	Talk to another woman.
	You don't know shit, bro.
	Now that I don't know shit from a man's perspective...
	Then why are you talking?
	Why are you talking about it?
	Your opinion is wrong.
	Your opinion is wrong.
	It's perspective.
	It's how you view something.
	You cannot tell me my opinion is wrong.
	It is absolutely wrong.
	I'm sorry.
	That's your opinion.
	That my opinion is wrong.
	Your opinion is that my opinion is wrong.
	Myron.
	Here's the thing.
	Look, look, look.
	An opinion can be incorrect.
	The crazy thing is that we live in this world where everyone thinks their opinion is valid.
	No, your opinion isn't always valid.
	We need to go back to telling people that they're stupid when they say stupid shit.
	That was a very stupid comment.
	One in three men right now doesn't get laid.
	It's a virgin.
	What are you talking about?
	It's easy to get laid.
	I didn't say that.
	I said it's easy.
	I said what was easy.
	What I said that was easy.
	It doesn't take that hard to understand a woman.
	I walk in, right?
	And I see you.
	I'm not being weird, right?
	But I'm looking at you.
	I'm like, she's quiet.
	She's reserved.
	I'm going to go and I'm going to talk to you.
	I'm going to see what things you're into.
	And I'm going to try to make a relation in my head.
	We're going to go in.
	Let's go to Rumble.
	She said a fact isn't real and opinions can't be wrong.
	I said facts are the only things that can be wrong or right.
	Opinions cannot be wrong.
	That's what I said.
	Your opinion cannot be wrong.
	A fact is wrong or right.
	A fact cannot be wrong.
	No, a fact can be wrong or right.
	An opinion is not wrong or right.
	Your opinion is what goes on in your head.
	It's you subjective as a person.
	It's your actual perception of what's going on.
	A fact is what I can look up on XL. What is it called?
	Encyclopedia, Wikipedia, whatever that shit is called.
	I can go and look it up and see.
	This is a fact.
	This is what happened in 1943.
	Proof, bitch.
	You're wrong.
	Proof.
	Okay, that's a fact that it's wrong or right.
	My opinion is that I look good in my outfit today.
	You could be like, damn, this bitch look dusty.
	But I look good!
	And guess what?
	My opinion is my opinion.
	I don't care what you think.
	You know what you call that?
	Delusion.
	That's delusion right there.
	A fact is something that can be independently verifiable through multiple sources and it is true and correct.
	It cannot be wrong, as you stated.
	That's number one.
	That's a fact.
	An opinion can be right or wrong.
	You can give an opinion that is true, or you can give an opinion that is incorrect and not true.
	I actually want to Google it.
	The fact that we have to even Google it tells me volumes of you don't even know what you're saying.
	Because I trust that you believe very strongly in what you feel, and I respect that.
	It's not what I feel.
	The difference is you trust in what you feel.
	I trust in what I know that is true.
	I trust in what I know too, but you don't know that I know what I know.
	So what I'm saying is for me to know what you know, can we look it up on Google?
	That's why people are delusional.
	Let me get it straight.
	Come on over to Rumble, guys.
	Rumble.com.
	Come on over to Rumble.
	I'm about to go in, bro.
	So you understand, right, how it is to date women as a man, right?
	Can you say you know what we're talking about?
	No, I don't date women.
	Oh, so what are you arguing?
	I said I've been with women.
	I don't date women.
	So how can you tell us how to get women?
	I didn't tell you that I know how to get women.
	You just did!
	I was giving you an opinion.
	No, no!
	But that opinion that you said is backed by what?
	And this is what I'm trying to say to you.
	If you go on Google right now and look up opinion, you're going to see what the definition of an opinion is.
	I'm asking you personally, how does your opinion help guys achieve their goal if it's not true?
	My opinion...
	Perfect.
	What I said is that it's not hard to try to understand a woman.
	What I was trying to do is show you how in three seconds I could break down what I think she would like, right?
	And it would get me into a conversation with her.
	I didn't have to buy her no flowers.
	I didn't have to buy her no whip.
	We didn't have to go out on no date.
	Are you a man?
	I'm sure as hell talking like one.
	Listen, it's not about...
	I'm not discrediting men.
	I love men.
	And I do feel like...
	I know you are.
	I do feel like men do get downplayed.
	Bro, we're gonna move on.
	You're gonna move on.
	You're not even operating in reality here.
	He didn't give you a chance to.
	So your book says women deserve less.
	Why women deserve less.
	Why women deserve less.
	However, you know, you were just finished saying that you guys have...
	Men have to figure out...
	They have to clean their apartment.
	They have to make sure the woman's comfortable.
	They have to this.
	They have to that.
	So, it kind of is confusing when you say...
	And you're here trying to ask us, like, how does a man get a woman?
	But...
	And you're saying women deserve less.
	However, in the same sentence, you're saying that men need to do this for women and men need to do that and men need to do this.
	Like, it's harder for you guys, which I understand.
	But it's kind of taking away from...
	White women deserve less, right?
	I'm a little confused.
	That's why I just wanted more clarification on it.
	Privilege isn't visible to those that have it.
	And what I'm saying here is that men have to understand fundamental rules with intersexual dynamics to be able to get women.
	Right?
	So, outside of these fundamentals, I'm telling guys not to go out and beyond.
	But you wouldn't understand that because you've never had to be a man to attract a woman.
	It takes a lot of work.
	Even though she's trying to say it's easy, what she doesn't realize is she said, oh, I'm going to find out three things about you, I'm going to start a conversation, blah, blah, blah.
	Easier said than done.
	You've got to actually figure it out, have the conversation, be entertaining to a degree, have charisma, have charming.
	Well, here's the thing.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	That is still difficult, but guys will go above that even.
	We have to get our hair done.
	We have to get our nails done.
	We have to get our toes done.
	But you don't have to.
	But you don't have to.
	The point is that you don't have to do that to attract the opposite gender versus you can exist and the opposite gender will approach you.
	If we don't do that...
	I'm sorry.
	Go ahead.
	However, for men, we have to approach the girl, be charming, be charismatic, have all these things in place to even get a chance.
	That's a lie.
	That you faking is a lie.
	Be yourself.
	If the girl can't crack her hair, dude.
	Be yourself doesn't work.
	If you're, like, smelly...
	You know what the average guy's gonna do?
	He's gonna walk up to you.
	Have you noticed a lot of men in Miami smell?
	If a guy walks up to you and tells you, yeah, I like to play video games.
	I like to watch sports.
	Let's talk about Halo or Call of Duty.
	The average girl is going to be like, what the fuck?
	You're boring.
	Guys have to be very well-versed in different things.
	I think a good man has to appeal to all the senses.
	Smell, all of that.
	I think just somebody that's just well put together.
	Anybody that's well put together, it doesn't matter who you are, is always going to get what they want.
	I was told before I came here to smell good.
	I want to tell you something.
	My issue with dating in Miami, to keep it real with you, 95% of y'all, breaths stink.
	when y'all try to talk to me in the club it fucking stinks and i'm just talking with you okay some tic tacs before you talk to me let me finish because you're just randomly interjecting about pods yeah i'm just trying to help y'all out no yes that answered my question When you said that you have to go above, then above and beyond.
	Because you guys already feel like you go above and beyond, is what you're saying.
	The point I'm trying to make is that the courting process for men is significantly harder than it is for women.
	I don't know why you guys just don't understand this.
	It's very, very simple.
	Men must become, women just are.
	Guys have to go out there and learn how to be attractive.
	Women don't have to learn how to be attractive.
	You can accentuate your attractiveness by getting your hair and nails done.
	But look at her.
	She has no makeup on.
	She's 100% natural.
	She's the most attractive girl on the panel.
	Well, here's the thing.
	Most guys will take an average girl.
	What is an average girl?
	No makeup.
	Go ahead.
	Okay, so I think the problem is that this culture and this society has taught women that men are looking for the wrong things.
	Like you're saying, like nails, makeup, all these things are not what you guys require.
	And you're basically just trying to tell women what it is That men want.
	Yeah, pretty much.
	Exactly.
	And so, but where does that conditioning come from?
	I think if we take it a step further, it's a much deeper level.
	Like, women want to be attractive to the opposite sex.
	And why are we conditioned to believe it's in our nails and our hair and our makeup and our ass and, you know...
	Because the TV shows, the movies, social media...
	Now you want to know the truth?
	True.
	Because women don't give a fuck what men want.
	Yeah.
	But I don't think that's necessarily true.
	That's not true.
	Well, maybe it is true.
	How many times have we been telling y'all how it really works and they've been arguing with us when we're like, what the hell?
	I think that that's the problem is that women are so quick to get defensive without even really knowing what they're arguing about because they don't even really know truly what they want.
	They don't even know what they want.
	Like, I've seen your show a lot and a lot of women don't even...
	Like, when you say...
	And they're like, well, I make tons of money and blah, blah, blah.
	And men don't care about that.
	Do women even ever sit there and think to themselves, like, do I want to be a stay at home wife and mom?
	Like, maybe I do want that.
	And it's just never even crossed my mind because it's like impossible in this society.
	Like it doesn't it doesn't get shown to us anymore because we're taught that everybody goes to college, gets a job, becomes successful, becomes rich men and women.
	We're taught that we should be competing with men when really we have our place and our role.
	And if every one of us got true with ourselves and got in touch with our feminine selves and our hearts, do you think that maybe a lot more of us would actually want that and we don't even know that we want it?
	So, you know what's scary?
	We do this show night after night, and we tell a woman, listen, here's what guys want.
	Laid out, strict facts, no bullcrap.
	This is the honest truth, right?
	You know what they do?
	Oh, you think you know what we want?
	No, no, no.
	I know what men want.
	And as a result, they come up with this fabrication of, oh, you know what?
	If I have money, if I do my hair and nails and all that stuff, I'm going to get the guy they want.
	For arguing, niggas.
	And we're like, yo, just take a step back.
	Listen to what we're saying.
	And so you know what?
	Try and see if it works.
	Then when I try it, like, damn, you guys are right.
	Other men are so arrogant and above the pay grid and on a pedestal.
	It's like, oh, shit.
	This shit doesn't work, but I'm going to keep living in a lie and delusion.
	That's the problem.
	If you say, you know what?
	Let me take a step back home and say, you know what?
	This might work.
	I'm going to give it a try.
	That's it.
	That's all we're saying.
	Give it a try.
	And I bet a lot of them go home and actually think about what you said and maybe it hits them different when they're not Triggered.
	I mean, that's the word triggered when you're in the amygdala hijack and your brain is like taking over and you don't even really know why you're fighting.
	Nobody here voted for that women working shit.
	We would all be fine.
	Nobody here voted for that shit.
	So we just a product of our environment at this point, because I would much more rather to be that woman.
	But I live in 2023.
	So it's hard because it's just like finding the balance of being a woman and also, you know, being what we're supposed to be taught as being a strong woman as well.
	So it just comes with that.
	And it's just our problem.
	We're broken as women because of that.
	So I definitely feel like a man.
	Should at least like lay out just sensible things that women could at least follow as a guideline and that's where I believe it'll start to change.
	I really think that like there was a point in time like when I was like 20 years old like I used to go out and with my friends and like a knickers would cater like we would be able to drink we'd be able to smoke as much as we wanted go like as many places as we wanted and it would be no problem.
	But when I turned 21, men were really mean.
	Like, oh, I don't want to pay for this unless you're fucking...
	I don't want to do this.
	I don't want to go to the club.
	Like, all that stuff was, like, men inflicted.
	But it was mostly because you're mad because you were overusing your resources at the time that you were.
	Like, why are you mad that you overused your resources and you're taking it out on me?
	I just used it.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, I just took you up on your offer.
	Okay, and now they pulled the offer away.
	Why are you mad?
	I'm not mad.
	Now there are a whole bunch of niggas in the club in this section with just niggas in the club.
	Yes, I'm not mad.
	I'm bored.
	You're looking around and it's just dicks.
	I'm bored.
	I don't want to see any more hoes.
	I'm a hoe.
	I don't want to see any more hoes.
	Oh my gosh.
	Beyonce would never say that.
	No, like, not as a ho, as in, like, you know, derogatory, as in, like, I'm a female.
	Like, you know what I mean?
	Like, I don't want to see any more, I don't want to see more me's.
	Like, I want to see men.
	Like, I don't see any more men anymore.
	You know what I mean?
	It's just like...
	I do not want to see more you.
	I want a hookah.
	I don't want a hookah with you.
	What?
	I don't understand.
	What was the point of that comment?
	What, the hookah thing?
	Was it just to say basically that men no longer want to share their resources?
	Was that the point of it, what you're saying?
	No, it's like when you go on the conversation of like, women deserve less.
	Yeah.
	It's like, you can't like, that all, it's like, it still boils down to like, how you, like, men started that.
	Like, I'm mad because of the resources I'm overusing.
	Women never had a problem.
	We were still women at the end of the day.
	We were women yesterday and women today.
	And you're mad because we were women.
	Have you ever had a dream?
	You said a lot without saying anything.
	You made zero points.
	The only thing I got from what you just said was that guys no longer want to share their resources in the club.
	That's the only thing you said, basically.
	So it's men's fault is what you're saying.
	No, it's not men's fault.
	I'm just saying, like, the problem, if you want to know where the problem lies, like, women don't have a problem.
	It's like, you know what I mean?
	It's not a fault.
	It's like, you know what I mean?
	Like, it's not a fault.
	Let me make this very clear.
	If you want to fix a problem, you have to find out where the reason is.
	Stop talking.
	I'm going to make this very clear.
	Man, you're not entitled to a man's resources.
	If you want to go ahead and sit in a section and pop bottles with a guy, and he expects to fuck, and you're like, I'm not fucking, he has every right to say, get the fuck out of my section.
	Simple.
	That's how it goes.
	You want to live a certain experience?
	A lot of times, guys are going to want something in exchange for that.
	And if you're not willing to deliver it, they're going to kick you out the section and find a girl that is.
	Sorry.
	Anyway, that's what you quite literally were complaining about.
	I'm not complaining though.
	That's not my problem.
	You were saying that we usually can't tell girls the truth and they get really defensive and things like that.
	But I feel like a lot of women appreciate honesty and being truthful because I feel like it helps benefit a woman.
	Really?
	Yeah, like, oh, your hair looks like Crap, I'm going to fix my hair and you're going to help me out by doing that.
	So I feel like women do appreciate honesty from men.
	Hold on, stop the show.
	I want to have sex with other girls while you stay at home and be loyal to me.
	You can't talk to other guys.
	I don't want you showing your ass on the internet.
	I want you to stay at home, be a dutiful girlfriend.
	Don't embarrass me.
	But I'm going to go out and do what I want to do and you simultaneously stay loyal to me.
	Also, I expect food all the time.
	House clean.
	Be my girlfriend.
	Can I fuck them too?
	What's your thoughts on that?
	If they're honest and they're laying it out on the table, then that's awesome.
	The choice is mine then.
	Yeah, but you're missing the point that a lot of girls are not willing to hear that and they don't want to know that.
	Hence, women can't handle the truth in general.
	They were taught to be strong and a lot of them took that way to heart, took that way too far to the point where they're now men.
	I don't give a fuck about the why.
	I'm telling you women can't handle the truth.
	I'm just telling you though.
	That's irrelevant.
	She said, oh, men should be honest.
	I just said what most men want in general.
	Multiple girls, you stay loyal to him, don't sexualize yourself, don't be a whore, obey what I say, and we'll be good.
	But most modern women are not willing to accept that and they don't want to hear that.
	So most guys sell their dream.
	Yeah, if they don't like, you know, if they want to be a whore and still have a relationship, how is that going to work?
	How is that going to work if she lives that lifestyle?
	It's not going to work out.
	She has to make a sacrifice.
	He has to make a sacrifice to make the relationship.
	Okay, did you not just hear what I said?
	No, I heard what you said.
	What did I say?
	You're just saying, how do you make it work?
	No, that's not what I said.
	What did I say?
	Go ahead.
	So you don't even know what you responded to?
	No, I'm just saying, why I'm saying this.
	What did I say to what you responded?
	Because you responded to something that has no relevancy to what I just said.
	Thank you.
	You're talking to talk.
	Anyway, going back to you.
	Most women can't handle the truth.
	I just told you the truth.
	Most girls are not going to take that.
	So men can't be honest with women.
	So they should lie even though that's what they want?
	I'm sorry.
	But you also said that I'm going to tell my woman when her hair looks like shit.
	I'm going to tell them when she needs to go to the gym because she looks fat.
	You said that too, right?
	Yeah, but most girls can't handle that.
	Okay, but you said you would still do it.
	I would.
	One majority of men won't.
	Most men won't do it.
	Let us lie to you.
	Oh, baby.
	So either you tell me the truth.
	If most men were like me, we would not have body positivity.
	If most men were like me, women would not be the raging bitches that they are a lot of the times to men for no reason.
	If men were like me, girls would be in line and operate and be with good men.
	And the women would be happier too.
	So are you saying that your book that says why women deserve less basically means tell them the truth?
	To a degree, yes.
	To a degree.
	That's a part of it.
	But most of them can't handle the truth.
	What do you suggest from all of this?
	You say we can't take the truth.
	What do you feel, in your opinion, is the perfect setup?
	What do you mean?
	As far as men go?
	From what perspective?
	As far as men and women go.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So, you're saying that women, we deserve less.
	Out the gate.
	Which is telling the truth.
	How should we act?
	How should people act?
	How should the woman and man act to make it work?
	True.
	The man has to be in a leadership role.
	The woman follows him.
	She's submissive.
	And the woman has to like the guy more than he likes her.
	That's how it goes.
	That's the only way a girl is truly going to respect her man is if she feels that she's got the best deal that she can get.
	The problem is love is a feeling that fades.
	Respect means the foundation is built.
	If you love somebody, today you love them, tomorrow you don't.
	Respect though, you know what?
	My man won't like that.
	He might leave.
	You know what?
	I'm going to think twice before going on a ghost trip.
	And also, I'll give you proof right now that women can't handle the truth.
	We don't tell women that they're fat.
	We say body positivity, love your curves, girl.
	You're special no matter what.
	But we don't tell men that, do we?
	Advertisers, they target women.
	They lie in the ads.
	Oh, take this per shake and you'll lose 30 pounds in 30 days.
	Even advertisers understand that lying is more profitable than telling the truth.
	So we've been lying to women for decades.
	Feminism is a lie.
	She just told you that in a second ago.
	It hurt her marriage.
	So we've been lying to women for decades because it's more profitable to lie to women than tell them the truth.
	If you had a woman, right?
	Two women, right?
	I'm just going to give you a scenario.
	I do.
	One female, right?
	That was kind of in a household.
	She didn't have to pay for anything.
	She was coddled almost, right?
	And you have a female that you know has been taken advantage of in many different ways, if you know what I mean.
	So she paid bills and took care of men?
	No, no, no, no.
	Taken advantage of without me saying.
	We're on the rumble, you can say it.
	Oh, for someone who's been raped, right?
	Somebody who's been taken advantage of, right?
	Would you, with your book, Women Deserve Less, would you treat the both of those women first, first glance, first...
	First interaction, the same.
	The woman who's been abused, right?
	The woman who probably is a virgin, right?
	The woman who probably is so, she has no self-confidence because she's been broken down from so many different places versus the woman who, you actually, right, does deserve the, you deserve less treatment because she has been given everything from the beginning.
	You're going to give both of them the same treatment?
	See, this is why it's very important as a man to understand women and you have to vet them for a year before you take anything seriously.
	And I get what you're saying here.
	The woman that has issues of being, like, you know, affected mentally, physically, his problem.
	I do give her the most in the world.
	She can't appreciate it.
	She doesn't know what it feels like.
	So each person has their scenario, but at the same time, the baseline is, hey, respect is on the table no matter what.
	Society already kisses women's asses.
	Her man's not supposed to do that.
	That's the point I'm trying to make.
	I'm so happy that you just said what you did, though.
	Not to cut you, Myron.
	Because whether you know it or not, right?
	Three out of four women, that's her.
	Three out of four women?
	Three out of four women.
	Hold on, where'd you get those stats from?
	Three out of four women.
	I'm talking about, it's not nothing that you can find out of there.
	This is based off of me.
	Three out of four women have been either raped, have been sexually molested by someone, either someone in their family, someone in their...
	It's more like one in ten, one in seven.
	In my world, it's three out of four.
	I'm giving you my perspective.
	And from what I've seen, these are people, we're women that I've spoken to.
	To be honest, I feel like that's why it's a little difficult for me to relate.
	Like, in certain situations, I'm one of them.
	So that's why it's difficult.
	All right, look.
	Emotional damage!
	I did a whole podcast on this with Rolo Tomasi.
	It was called Rape Culture is a Myth.
	It's not as common as prevalent as mainstream media wants to tell you.
	Because a lot of these stats that say, oh, women are raped and all this other stuff, it comes from faulty CDC polls where they ask the girls, did you feel like you were being assaulted?
	And they asked them, well, did you have a drink with the guy on a date and you guys hooked up?
	If they said yes, that would be considered sexual assault.
	So, a lot of these stats about rape and sexual assault in the United States were done improperly.
	But when you look at the official Department of Justice statistics, it's much less.
	My statistics are coming from 2007.
	I'm sorry.
	My statistics come from when I was 11 years old.
	When I was 11 years old?
	That's an experience.
	It was probably about 8 females.
	It's a real problem.
	We understand it's a real problem.
	Listen, you cannot attribute your own personal experience To reality.
	Okay?
	Like, something might happen to you, that does not necessarily mean that's a reflection of what's going on in the greater society.
	But you said opinions are wrong.
	But you said opinions are wrong.
	And if something happened to me, if something happened to me, and I have an opinion, like, men are bad because they hurt me.
	That's my opinion.
	But he just told me my opinion was wrong.
	But that doesn't mean men are bad.
	My opinion of me hurting so bad because a man hurt me could be wrong because he doesn't know my experience.
	That's fucked up.
	What?
	That's fucked up.
	What are you talking about?
	You don't want to acknowledge the fact that if I just said that I was hurt.
	No, we get it.
	We get it.
	We're just saying your experience may not be her experience.
	So we're just saying, generally speaking, the stats have to prove the majority of what people think.
	And also, your experience is not necessarily reflective of what's going on.
	You said three and four women is sexually assaulted or raped.
	Well, that's not true.
	That's factually not true.
	And then she said, in my reality.
	The thing is, what you guys don't understand is that This is so sensitive.
	It's not talked about.
	No, it is.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Let me tell you something.
	You guys talk about it.
	You guys talk about it.
	What I'm saying to you is that the female that has been taken advantage of, sometimes she don't talk about it.
	So sometimes she goes around and nobody knows that that happened to Shorty.
	Yes.
	So, my thing is, your statistics are great.
	But what I'm saying is, from real life, like real suicidal situations where I had to come up off of my own and talk to other women and actually realize how many other- Ms.
	Jamaica, in general, reality, okay?
	Listen, what I'm saying, in general, reality, I'm saying- Ms.
	Boomaclots, okay?
	Ms.
	Boomaclots, okay?
	Ms.
	Boomaclots!
	You're not hyping me up, bro.
	Why are you hyping me up?
	Like, the world doesn't revolve around you.
	I get it that you had your experience, and I'm sorry that you had that, but your experience does not reflect what's going on in the greater world.
	The problem is that you're extremely solipsistic in everything that we talk about.
	You attribute right back to yourself thinking that the entire world is, everyone is operating and living the same way that you are.
	It doesn't go that way.
	It's so funny because I'm looking at everybody's eyes and everybody's eyes is looking at the female next to them.
	They're like, yo, this girl is weird.
	Why does she keep talking about herself?
	We're thinking about what you're saying, bro.
	No, because you keep attributing everything we're saying when it's a general conversation about what's really going on back to yourself.
	That is solipsistic.
	That's narcissistic.
	And quite frankly, it's a weird way to live your life.
	Y'all think I'm a narcissist?
	100%.
	I really don't.
	100%.
	Me personally?
	I have no issue.
	You're an alcoholic, so no one cares what you're saying.
	I have no issue.
	You're on something, bro.
	You're on something.
	Does anyone else have anything?
	Any other opinions here?
	I don't know how we just turned into that conversation, but rape culture is a myth.
	It's been debunked a million times.
	It's one of five girls getting assaulted.
	It's because you've never been raped, so you don't know what it feels like.
	You know who hurts the most?
	The women are actually being raped.
	Yeah.
	Because those women don't talk a lot.
	Wait, are you telling me?
	The whole thing is, I would have been dead right now.
	The whole thing is, this conversation is not.
	But the thing is, there's other females that are in my situation.
	I just had three females look at me and tell me that the same shit happened to me and you talking about one to seven is mine.
	I just picked out two.
	We don't have 14 people here.
	This is not about you.
	And for you to say you're not a victim so you don't know, that's a terrible argument.
	Girl, you just told me I'm not a man so I can't tell you about dating advice.
	You've never been raped so you can't tell me about rape advice, okay?
	Actually, men are raped more than women are.
	Have you been though?
	No, I haven't.
	Okay, so don't talk to me about that.
	Because I've been raped more than once and I have a real situation with that.
	So please don't go there.
	Look, look, look.
	You're the one that brought it up.
	Emotional!
	I'm the fuck!
	Yo, stop yelling.
	You started it.
	I'm gonna finish it.
	I'm telling you that rape culture is a myth.
	I've studied this extensively.
	It's a myth?
	It's a myth.
	You don't think people get raped?
	I said rape culture is a myth, which is what you're trying to perpetuate.
	That all girls are getting sexually assaulted and raped out here.
	You literally said three out of four.
	Three out of four.
	I think this is too...
	This is not right.
	She brought it up.
	You're invalidating women by saying that.
	You're invalidating.
	You say women deserve less, but...
	Rape culture is a myth.
	It's a myth.
	It's not as prevalent as people want to say it is.
	I think a lot of, I think a lot of just issues, like you said, okay, that's, that's a whole, that's a whole other story.
	The problem is that you guys are arguing with feelings versus facts.
	I'm arguing with facts.
	Fuck both y'all feelings.
	I don't care.
	Hey, hey, hey.
	How is it even relevant?
	How is that even relevant?
	If this hurts the girl's feelings or whatever, y'all can leave.
	You want to leave because of feelings?
	Yeah, then you guys can leave.
	She's the one that brought up the conversation.
	I'm gonna correct you.
	It happens.
	Respectfully, if she's been just a bad experience, then she's feeling it because of my memories.
	However, at the same time, arguing that seeing 405 is ridiculous.
	That's not true.
	I don't think it's even relevant to the meme.
	We had to.
	It had nothing to do with the conversation, but she wanted to bring it up, wanted to be the victim.
	She wanted us to sit here and feel bad for her.
	We're not gonna do that.
	It's PTSD. Some people have had a hard time.
	No, but it's not...
	The conversation...
	But the thing about it...
	This is incredible.
	Like you said, women deserve less.
	Isn't that an example?
	Is that what you mean?
	That's where it comes from.
	Let me make this extremely clear.
	None of your guys' feelings.
	I'm telling you, rape culture is a myth.
	That's a fact.
	I've debunked it a million times.
	It's not as common as you guys want to say.
	You cannot attribute your personal experience and say, oh, yo, I've been raped.
	I get that.
	You have.
	And I'm not trying to invalidate that, but I'm saying it's not as common as people think.
	Your personal experience doesn't reflect reality.
	And if this conversation is too hard, you get the fuck out of here.
	This is not a conversation about feelings.
	Period.
	Stop.
	So if anybody feels uncomfortable and wants to get up and leave, you can leave right now.
	Here's your chance.
	Okay.
	Don't bring up a conversation that you know nothing about and try to bring your personal experiences into it.
	Rape culture is a myth.
	Because you've been raped before.
	It doesn't matter.
	Rape culture is a myth.
	I've broken this down a million times.
	Do you know anyone who's been raped?
	Because I've never been raped before?
	Just because you got raped doesn't mean that a majority of women are getting raped.
	Okay?
	Okay, but why are you telling me?
	I don't know what I'm talking about.
	You don't know about rape culture because you're trying to say it's common out there and it's not.
	What I'm trying to say to you, you can't fathom because you can't go and look it up.
	I'm not saying you're not a victim.
	I didn't say that.
	I said what I'm trying to tell you, you cannot fathom because you cannot go and look it up online.
	There's statistics on this.
	Your statistics are great.
	There's meticulous statistics on this.
	What I'm saying is that every female, you just said a female that's been taken advantage of isn't going to speak.
	What I'm saying to you is...
	You have to ask his prior job though and ask him what he did before.
	His experience is going to explain what he knows is a myth.
	Okay, I will ask him that.
	But what I'm saying to you is that I'm not discrediting what he's saying.
	All I'm saying is that you can go and look up whatever you look up online.
	I'm saying that based on who I've spoken to in my life, right, it's helped me to see that other women have been raped.
	Because it allowed for me to pull myself out of a selfish state of mind thinking, I was raped.
	This only happened to me.
	That's not the topic.
	So the whole thing is, I'm trying to say, based off of the women that I know, the most women that I know have been raped.
	Okay, because you probably went to a trauma center where all other girls were victims.
	I never went to a trauma center.
	I'm Jamaican, so what are you saying?
	You're saying all Jamaicans have been raped?
	I did not say that at all.
	Are you fucking retarded?
	Seriously, get the fuck off the show, bro.
	Get the fuck off the show.
	You're retarded.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	You're stupid as fuck.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	Get the fuck out of here, bro.
	Dumbass bitch making a show about her.
	You don't know what the fuck you're talking about.
	You're fucking dumb.
	It's my reality.
	You're retarded.
	Get the fuck off my shit.
	I'm not making fun of nobody.
	I'm making fun of you.
	You're fucking dumb.
	Focus.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	You're a dumb asshole.
	You're a dumb asshole.
	I'm sorry.
	Man.
	She's traumatized.
	Fuck you.
	You're two sugar daddies.
	Well, you know, women, like I said, we're broken.
	Like, you know, some women, like their backgrounds, all kinds of things happen, and it makes them react.
	That's what I meant by being triggered.
	Women get triggered by stuff and then they can't hear the message.
	Yeah, it's hard because when people do get triggered, it's hard for them to hear.
	Myron, can we answer the question that we weren't able to...
	Which one?
	That was a long time ago, but it's something about what you see in Guy.
	It's about winning.
	What allows you to let a man lead?
	We can switch.
	That dumb bitch wanted to bring in about some dumb shit about her, and it's like, I'm not going to let her sit here and get misinformation and attribute everything back to her experience.
	Like, bro, no one gives a fuck.
	Like, you got raped?
	Cool.
	But that doesn't mean every girl's out here getting raped.
	Like, what the fuck?
	It's a very sensitive topic, and we don't know what people have been through, but at the same time, that was definitely not going up either.
	There's no sensitivity in the topic at all.
	I don't need to put sensitivity in shit.
	I'm talking facts.
	What did I say at the beginning of the podcast?
	What did I say at the beginning of the podcast?
	I said facts over feelings.
	I'm not here to feel sorry for y'all.
	Like, I'm not.
	You don't have to, but cool.
	Okay, you've been raped.
	Cool.
	I feel like that's...
	Because she kept making it about herself versus what the actual topic was.
	I'm just saying that's what you would probably mean.
	I don't have to be sensitive to shit.
	If you don't like it, you get the fuck out of here too.
	I'm not being sensitive to shit.
	This is my shit.
	We talk facts over here.
	This ain't a female podcast.
	We don't go fuck about you guys.
	Oh my god, I'm crying.
	My feelings.
	I'm telling you, rape culture is a mess.
	I studied this extensively.
	It's not making sense.
	Rape culture is a mess.
	Rape culture is a mess.
	Get the fuck off my shit, too.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	Get the fuck off my shit, bro.
	Get the fuck out of here, bro.
	You look crazy.
	You look like a Teletubby.
	You got pig hair.
	You got a wig on.
	You look wild.
	Your weave smell too, bitch.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	Or your wig or whatever the fuck that is, that hair hat you got on.
	You look wild. - Oh my God. - Incredible.
	Always the black girls making everybody look crazy, bro.
	always Fucking embarrassment man fucking I think people have a lot of trauma.
	Because they're hoes, that's why.
	I guarantee you those are the two most promiscuous girls on the fucking panel too.
	Guaranteed.
	Yo, get her the fuck out of here, bro.
	Let's get right back into this shit.
	That was so cute.
	I thought we were gonna have a boy.
	Put your shoes on outside, bro!
	Get the fuck out of here, man!
	Why are you still in here?
	The fuck out of here, bruh!
	Put your shoes on outside, you fucking bitch.
	What the fuck?
	You yell for no reason, man, with your hair hat.
	You look wild.
	Get the fuck out of here, man.
	Get the fuck out the spot, bro.
	You a fucking clown.
	She's awesome.
	She's awesome.
	She's on that Zaza, bro.
	I wonder how many times the neighbors have heard that.
	It's definitely not weed.
	I think she drank and she makes whatever she took with her drink.
	That's not just alcohol.
	An elementary school teacher.
	An elementary school teacher.
	She roasting your ass, nigga.
	Okay.
	Ladies, okay, we're going to go back to normal.
	What just happened earlier.
	That was a little bit intense.
	I'm not going to lie.
	Hold you.
	For no reason?
	Like, it just...
	Yeah.
	I don't know why she brought that up, you know?
	That powerful...
	You know what?
	I... Yeah, like...
	She was...
	It was a lot.
	She was projecting.
	You know, people projected I just think personally, you know, her experience is traumatizing.
	She did that because she knew we were making her look stupid on the show, refuting her argument.
	She's saying facts aren't real, this other shit.
	So she's like, okay, let me talk about something where they're going to feel sorry for me that I can get some, like, validation.
	And then when I said, I didn't want to give her that validation, I told her what you said is incorrect, blah, blah, blah.
	She didn't expect that.
	She tried to argue with emotion.
	I was like, no, we're going to keep it factual.
	That's why she mad.
	It is what it is.
	We got some chat.
	I'll hold the mic's down.
	We got more room, ladies.
	Y'all can...
	Okay, so let's do no more grape talk.
	Wow.
	Big Mo's auntie says, ladies, you're on a dating show of two doors.
	Door one guy is 200k a year, will take care of you every way.
	Door two, 75k a year, expects you to grind every day.
	You choose door one only to discover he's five foot Even?
	Do you regret your choice?
	Why or why not?
	I mean, it's pretty obvious, Big Mo's auntie.
	Christopher Vives says, Yo, man, FNF, I want your advice.
	I'm living with my parents while I'm in college, working full-time, saving money, so I'm not struggling when I move up after graduating.
	Should I focus on dating now or leaving home?
	Leaving home, bro.
	I mean, that's paramount, bro.
	Dude, getting girls at home is an L, okay?
	Yeah.
	Then we have here, Freshers' Balls.
	Yeah, fresh read it.
	Unacceptable, Chris.
	We only want baddies.
	What the hell are you...
	What the hell are we meant to do with Captain Caveman next to us?
	What the fuck?
	I think you meant the girl that just left.
	No, no, no.
	You, Fresh.
	The girl with the pig toast.
	Is that good?
	Nah, bro.
	Moving on.
	Moving on.
	And then Robert Val Francois says, that girl red behind Chris is gorgeous.
	10 out of 10.
	If I ever see her in real life, I'll capture her, have my way with her in my basement.
	Joke.
	Put the camera on her and have her melt my soul with that beautiful smile of hers.
	What the...
	You wanted to say something, didn't you?
	I don't know what that's supposed to be.
	I'm speechless now.
	That's so sweet.
	They love you.
	Okay.
	That was creepy.
	That's kind of weird, guys.
	Jesse Benton says, do you think there's a lack of women's empowerment and equality?
	And, or do you think women and men have equality?
	Bro.
	There's so much women empowerment now that, like, men think masculine or anything...
	Bringing men up is pushed down.
	So it's just crazy.
	Travel Tribe Raw says, dropping by to show some support, fellas.
	Myron, I'm currently traveling the world with my three of my women.
	We're polygamous.
	My buddy has mentioned you're poly, too.
	Could you have your ladies on a show give an example of quality women?
	I think he's gonna bring them on a show, bro.
	At least not all of them.
	Yeah, this is Eric again.
	Cool.
	And Rumble Rants?
	Yeah, give me a second.
	Yo, so this guy was like, yo, I'm polygamous too.
	You should bring your girls on for a show.
	All your girls to talk about being polygamous.
	I was like, bro, he wants to bring all your girls on to talk about being polygamous.
	Because he has it too.
	He's traveling with girls.
	Okay.
	I don't know why that was a good idea.
	Alright, so what topic were we on before?
	The great question.
	No, no, no, no.
	We didn't talk about that.
	The guy said something about winning or something.
	It was about...
	That was a good question, actually.
	Okay, what's winning for women versus what's winning for men?
	Yeah.
	I want to ask a question about one thing a guy can do.
	She really wanted to answer it.
	Okay, so who was last?
	She didn't go yet.
	Oh, yeah.
	So one thing a guy can have or do or say to make you respect him and be with him?
	Well, I would just say that it starts with him knowing himself, his talents.
	I think just really knowing himself.
	I think that's really key to me even being attracted to him.
	Because at least that lets me know where I would fit in with his life as far as what he wants, his goals, things like that.
	And I could just find out if he needed my help, I would be able to help him in that way.
	So, him knowing who he is as a person kind of grounds you.
	Okay, that's good.
	What about you?
	I think mine's kind of similar.
	I think vision.
	So, like, a man who has, like, a vision for his life.
	Yeah, ambition, vision for something, like, something bigger, but also with, like, the action.
	Yeah.
	The action behind it.
	Does your current man have vision for you and himself?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay, that's good.
	What about you?
	Same thing?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	For you?
	I would want someone assertive, but the main thing that I look for is somebody that is free, and not in a way where they do whatever they want, but in a sense where they're not enslaved to any desires, in a sense like, I don't want somebody that has a substance problem.
	I don't want somebody that...
	That's in debt.
	Yeah, that's in debt or that is enslaved to their desires of very easily fooled by women.
	I'd want somebody whose judgment is very clear.
	So you want a monk?
	Someone in control of themselves.
	Someone well-adjusted.
	All right.
	You won a month.
	Awesome.
	All right.
	And the next question is winning.
	Does that remember the question directly?
	Yeah, it was what defines women winning versus and what defines men winning?
	So we could go ahead and take it from here and work this way.
	So what is winning for a woman versus what is winning for a man?
	Basically, like in life.
	Yeah.
	How can she be winning?
	What does that mean?
	You think for a woman?
	And I guess that might be different for every woman in general, but maybe career, kids, life, traveling.
	What makes a woman win?
	I would say I would want to find a long-term relationship, a husband, and have children, and explore my passions, like my hobbies, as well as really take pride in having a garden and that sort of thing.
	Is it hard in the current dating market to find a guy that doesn't want to smash right away?
	Is it hard for you?
	Yeah, so I guess what I have is, like, guys like that I'm a virgin, but they don't want to wait until marriage, which is kind of a problem.
	Yeah.
	So, yeah.
	Yeah.
	You would have been good back in 1950, but you kind of fucked in 2023.
	You know, because, and it goes both ways, right?
	Kind of like, you know, you got traditional girls that are, like, want to wait or whatever, but, like, the guys are, like, because here's the thing.
	There's no way that you're going to find a guy that's like a...
	Well, I mean, the guys that are virgins, you don't want them anyway.
	The days of a guy being able to be a virgin and still be attractive and find a virgin wife, those days are done.
	Because guys understand that if I'm a virgin as a guy, I'm not going to be as attractive to women.
	No girl wants a virgin guy.
	You know what I mean?
	Unfortunately.
	We'll take virgin girls, but no girl wants a virgin guy.
	Yeah, and I know now that, like, I mean, I don't need to have a virgin guy, and I know the society we live in, and the chances are that he's probably not.
	Would you prefer a virgin guy, out of curiosity?
	Yes.
	I mean, ideally, I know statistically it will make for the best outcomes in marriage, but it's not a requirement.
	You can imagine trying to figure shit out.
	Oh shit!
	Where's the hole?
	That'll be fine.
	But he said, would you prefer that though?
	Not statistically, just yourself.
	I mean, I think it would be really beautiful to have with my future husband for us to only know each other like that.
	But I mean, it's okay to want that girl.
	It's okay.
	Is it idiot?
	Yeah, I think she's living in reality, though.
	She wants it, but it's like, all right, it's probably more than likely not going to happen.
	And luckily for you as a woman, you know, men don't, I guess, suffer from the same debilitations from a high body count that women do.
	Like when a woman has a higher body count, the rates of divorce go up significantly.
	But if a guy has a higher body count...
	Obviously, there is a point where it starts to fuck with them, too, as far as divorce.
	Yeah.
	But, you know, the number is much higher.
	It's much harder.
	Men rarely initiate divorce in the first place.
	Would you like a guy that could teach you certain things, probably?
	Oh, yeah, of course.
	Okay.
	So, a little experience wouldn't be bad.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Fair enough.
	But to what you were saying, there was actually a study that said...
	Because men are naturally more they want to sow their seed.
	There was a certain amount of bodies that he had where if he, let's just say, had like 10, he's actually more likely to be monogamous within marriage because he knows that women are more or less the same.
	Well said.
	Yes, I also read that.
	W Canada.
	Sexual experience helps men, but it hurts women, typically.
	They're going to wonder, like, wait, what about her?
	What about her?
	So you're saying you never gave a blowjob before?
	Or a handjob?
	No.
	I think Chris would ask that shit.
	I mean...
	He's got a know-how version you are.
	No diamond, no diamond, yeah.
	No, but okay.
	No, I mean, yeah.
	But yeah, sex affects the genders very differently, but girls think that they can sport fuck like guys, and I'm like, well, you can if you want, but it's going to cause you issues later.
	Some bad issues later.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	One thing...
	I guess you could say winning in life for a woman.
	What does that mean?
	Winning in life for women, at least...
	Well, aside from having your shit together, you can...
	Define having your shit together.
	Okay.
	You're not getting...
	Okay.
	I guess...
	Not taking things the wrong way.
	I think that's one thing that...
	Okay.
	I wouldn't...
	I have a bad time articulating.
	Got you.
	Have you ever had a dream that...
	Are you saying that they're more focused on what they want in life?
	Is that what you're saying?
	I think if you are, that's when you have your shit together.
	If you don't get distracted by...
	Have you ever had a dream that...
	We'll move on.
	Yeah.
	I think she's a little bit...
	Okay, so it's...
	The question is, what defines winning for you?
	As a woman.
	Oh, as a woman.
	I think definitely just being happy.
	So, having a family, living in a nice house, a nice lawn.
	Like, literally, I mean, every woman's gonna...
	Something else is gonna make her happy.
	So, whatever that is, having her man, like, provide that.
	And, you know, living in love like that.
	Are you happy right now?
	Let me ask you this.
	Your happiness, is it internal or is it depending on what your man does for you?
	It's internal, but it's both.
	I have my own happiness and he adds to it.
	Okay.
	Winning as a woman.
	Winning as a woman.
	What does that mean for you?
	I think just as a woman, it's hard to battle our own minds.
	So if we're able to conquer our own minds, our own emotions, that's a big win for us.
	Shatterwake.
	Right.
	But also, we're all born.
	Right?
	Chris, what'd you say?
	Shatterwake.
	Yeah.
	Shatterwake.
	Adrian.
	Adrian.
	Alright, go ahead.
	I think we're all born with special abilities, special talents.
	So, if we can...
	I'm psychic.
	You are?
	Oh, wow.
	Yeah.
	Move it.
	Oh, right now?
	Yeah.
	Who said that?
	I did.
	She did.
	I'm just curious.
	We can.
	Divorce.
	No.
	I'm just kidding.
	I'm just kidding.
	I don't think anyone's married here.
	Oh my God.
	Yeah.
	So like I said, you know, somebody that's just, you know, really follows their passions with their talents, their abilities, and just can kind of keep up with it.
	As opposed to following what everybody else sees on Instagram, wherever they look at stuff.
	Just someone that just really knows themselves and then can be emotionally intelligent and conquer their mind.
	What does emotional intelligence mean?
	Emotional intelligence means that you are aware of your emotions.
	However, you know, the proper way to act, there's a right way to act and a wrong way to act.
	And we do get triggered, but you can't always react when you're triggered.
	You know, sometimes you have to, you know, bite it.
	It's fine because if you don't bite it, imagine the greater reaction.
	It'll bite you.
	True.
	Why are you in the ass, right?
	You know, you don't want to set yourself up.
	Yeah, I know.
	People make fun of my laugh, right?
	I like it.
	I appreciate that.
	Actually, I had a brain injury, so I'm actually coming back to normal.
	Oh, wow.
	Yeah, I did.
	But I'm fine.
	Emotional damage.
	Yeah, I know.
	So the funny, yeah, right?
	So that's exactly what I mean, though.
	Just being able to conquer your mind because going through that concussion and just dealing with that, I actually broke my tooth, too, like in the whole thing.
	It was tough.
	But, you know, you just can't focus on the things that really bring you down.
	And just try not to.
	It's hard, but just try not to.
	I'm glad you're still here.
	Thank you.
	But never mind.
	Winning for a woman.
	Security.
	Not self-produced.
	I think it's important to feel that security from the man that you're with, both emotionally, financially, physically.
	I would say that's winning for any woman.
	Mm-hmm.
	Alright.
	Damn.
	I was actually going to say the exact same thing.
	Safety and security for a woman to feel safe in her relationship.
	Okay.
	And just the freedom to be able to focus on her passions and what makes her more feminine.
	Because I believe that's how you become more feminine.
	What about you?
	I feel like winning is honestly being able to be truly feminine and not have to bring out your masculinity.
	How do you get that?
	Through a man.
	He gives security and stability.
	And winning for a man I guess would be Well, I guess I can't speak for that, honestly.
	But I know that was a part of the question.
	Yeah.
	Well, you know, I'd like to get their...
	Let's get their takes on it to see if they know.
	I don't think they do it, but okay.
	Yeah.
	What's winning for a man?
	Go ahead.
	Shoot.
	I feel like for them it would be financial stability and freedom to do whatever they want, whenever they want.
	That's what I feel like is winning for a man.
	I feel like winning for a man is feeling respected and admired and feeling like he respects and admires himself as well and proud of his accomplishments and proud of his ability to make his family secure.
	Interesting.
	Options.
	A man being of a status of a certain degree where he can choose whatever he would like.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	I'd say definitely a man just being comfortable with himself and whatever it took for him to get there, that's what he would need to do.
	Okay.
	Comfort?
	I think a man winning would be financially successful, emotionally successful, successful relationship, basically just like check all the boxes of like top tier.
	Interesting.
	Top G. Pre-take.
	Pre-take.
	Um, to care with himself, kind of a little bit similar to hers, where...
	Oh, sorry.
	Um...
	Secure with himself, financially, every single way.
	And also having a relationship where he can...
	Where he doesn't feel like he can...
	Where he has to, like, go the extra mile, I guess?
	Is your man, that person you just described?
	Is he fully secure, successful?
	Or is he on the way up?
	On the way up.
	Yeah.
	I figured.
	That's good.
	What about you?
	What's winning for a man, in your opinion?
	Somebody that's respected, prosperity, and someone with a strong, loyal support system.
	You know, it's very interesting because when we asked the girls what's winning for a woman, it was typically contingent upon an outside resource, another human being, because women tend to be interested in people.
	But when we asked them what is winning for a man, it was external.
	It was being successful, making money, etc.
	And I would add to that that, like, Guys want to make money, be successful, have respect, and have a bunch of chicks.
	No guy wants to be monogamous.
	Most men are monogamous out of necessity, not necessarily out of wants.
	So let me ask the two girls here that want a long-term relationship that are virgins.
	Would you be okay with your guy being...
	You know, we go around the table on this one.
	We'll make it fun.
	Would you be...
	My bad.
	Would you be okay with your guy having options, having other women?
	Or would you expect them to be monogamous to you?
	It would depend on the guy.
	If he had everything I was looking for, but there would have to be rules around it.
	If I was married, I wouldn't want to get any distance.
	I wouldn't want to see or hear from them.
	I did this before, but it didn't work because it just caused so many problems.
	Not within me, but just externally.
	I don't know if I With the other girl?
	Yeah, with the other girl.
	Oh, she got mad.
	It was a situation, yeah, because, like, I'm not going to go in detail on it here, but it was a situation where I had a lot of responsibilities that I would have to fulfill, and because of the age at the time, it just wasn't good.
	So I was like, okay, and because I'm a virgin ready for marriage, I was like, okay, maybe you can have sex with like this girl for a certain amount of time until I'm ready to fulfill those responsibilities.
	So I didn't think it was fair.
	He supported me and was an agonist to me.
	And then it was a certain amount of time.
	I knew he loved me.
	It was no problem.
	But then, yeah, it just, it just caused so many problems with her.
	What about you?
	Would you be okay with your guy having other girls?
	Honestly, no, but...
	No.
	Like, no.
	You'd be okay with it?
	I wouldn't be okay with it.
	Oh, you would not be okay?
	No, I would not be okay with it.
	You would not?
	Okay.
	Okay, your guy's monogamous to you?
	Or so you think?
	I know.
	You know?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	There's just always an imbalance.
	So polygamy, it just, the idea is lit, I guess, for a lot of people, but it doesn't work out.
	And truthfully, there's always somebody going to be more jealous.
	Somebody's going to get mad.
	You didn't bang me more.
	You didn't hang out with me more.
	You bought this for her.
	It's always something.
	I just try to keep it as much simple as possible.
	If I can just be in a monogamous relationship where we both trust, I don't care if he hangs out with other girls.
	I don't care.
	Just don't fuck him.
	That's it.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that that chaos that you're talking about and polygamy actually makes the women more attracted to the man?
	I'm not attracted to a dude in polygamy, me personally.
	Now, other girls, they might.
	They might think that's cool.
	For me, it's not going to work for me.
	You might say that, but the reality is that you're attracted to men that can be polygamous.
	Not really.
	Really?
	True.
	You're not?
	I'm not.
	It's not in my opinion.
	You don't like guys that are tall?
	If a guy tells me he's polygamous, I'm like, I have a good day.
	No, he's not going to tell you that.
	But I'm saying you're attracted to men that are capable of being polygamous is my point.
	Anybody can be polygamous.
	No, absolutely not.
	Only a minority of men can actually pull it off.
	Well, I don't know.
	Maybe that's just me because I don't really look at a guy as, oh, this dude can be polygamous or not.
	It's just not going in my brain.
	Because you're looking at it through a female lens.
	Like I said before, women have the privilege of not having to understand men to attract them.
	But men have to understand women to attract them.
	So What you don't realize is that the guy that you're attracted to, I promise you, he's probably attractive to a bunch of other girls too.
	Because the things that make a man attractive are hard to come by.
	Tall, handsome, money, status, you know, charisma, charm, etc.
	It's not even all of that.
	For me, it's not all of that.
	But for women, I guess, the modern woman, I guess you're right.
	So you don't like any of the traits I just mentioned?
	I mean, they're cool.
	They're not everything, though.
	Yeah, but I'm saying that women are typically chasing the same archetype of man.
	Do they get them?
	No.
	But they still want it.
	It's biologically hardwired in you.
	Like, you're not that special.
	No offense.
	Just like men are biologically hardwired to like certain things in women, women are biologically hardwired to look for certain things in men.
	Sorry, what were you saying?
	I was just wondering what the point was.
	The point of what?
	Of what you were saying.
	Because she's saying, I don't want a guy that's polygamous.
	And what I'm saying is that the men that are attractive have the capability of being polygamous.
	She said she would want her man to be polygamous.
	Yeah, because for me personally, I haven't been in a relationship for a long time, but when I do, eventually, I want to be my best Version of myself.
	But also, I want to be the best woman possible that I can be for him.
	Whether, you know, I connect with him.
	Let's say you get with a guy.
	Whether I give him the time that he needs.
	Whatever he needs.
	That's why I feel like...
	Okay, he needs another chick.
	Why would he need another chick, though?
	Is it his ego?
	What is it?
	Because you guys are not as special as you think you are.
	Men always want other girls.
	So we could say the same thing about men.
	No, because women typically want to share security with one man.
	All of you guys said, I want a relationship with a guy, marriage, and children.
	Men don't think that way.
	We want a main girl, but we always want other girls.
	And what is it about the other girls that y'all need?
	What are you missing?
	Men like variety.
	They like variety.
	Yeah.
	Men like variety, period.
	You will never...
	Ladies, I want y'all to know this.
	Especially you miss a long-term relationship because it's going to come down the line for you as well.
	I promise you it will.
	You will never sexually satisfy your man by yourself.
	I promise you.
	You guys are going to have that tough talk eventually where he's going to say, I want to have other girls or you catch him cheating.
	One of the two is going to happen.
	I mean, he hasn't married you yet.
	Y'all been together for eight years.
	So something's up.
	I'm not ready to get married.
	That's cute.
	There's certain things that we know that's right and wrong, you know, sometimes.
	And, you know, we want to do wrong.
	It's a lot, but we don't have to do wrong.
	Okay.
	It's not about that.
	Haven't you heard about like...
	Sure.
	Monogamous is like not...
	Sorry.
	Monogamy?
	Polyamorous, whatever it is.
	Polygamy?
	Polygamy.
	There was like a study done that shows that if everyone was...
	Probably then, like, the society wouldn't sustain itself.
	Yeah, well here's the thing.
	Countries that practice polygamy tend to be less stable, that is true, but that does not change the fact that from a biological human evolutionary standpoint, women are wired to be in a polygamous relationship because women are willing to share higher status men.
	Most women would prefer to have a high status man and share him than to have a loser to herself.
	You think so?
	I think so.
	This is the way it's been since the beginning of time.
	If you look at, like, kings, sultans, powerful men.
	I guess most women.
	Yeah, powerful men have always had a multitude of women.
	But that's where the brokenness is.
	And not every woman is broken.
	No, I call that intelligent, actually.
	But I just don't think a high-quality woman would.
	Okay, for example, Nick Cannon has a lot of kids.
	He's obviously had a bunch of babies from a lot of women.
	The problem with that, it's cool to be fruitful and multiply.
	However, those children are the ones that's going to be suffering at the end of the day.
	Their father might come or call every six months.
	That takes a lot from someone growing up.
	So that's why it's important for men and women to be in harmony with each other so that we can create better families.
	And it starts with us making the right decisions and fighting against the things that we know are wrong and right.
	Well, here's the thing.
	A man doesn't have to be in his child's life every single day.
	That's a mom's job.
	Yeah, he doesn't.
	But if he doesn't hear it from six months, that's a problem.
	If he's providing, he sees his kids all the time.
	They're all living the same.
	He sees his kids all the time.
	The other thing, too, is that he's providing the resources, taking care of the kids, giving them a stable home.
	The dad doesn't have to be there every day.
	So that's one thing.
	He doesn't have to be, but everybody's different.
	They might need that support.
	Akon doesn't want to go to his children's recitals or whatever.
	That kid, that might mean a lot to them.
	Somebody showing up, being there for them, that means a lot to people.
	It does.
	Well, here's the thing.
	That's tough.
	You're not always going to get what you want.
	The mom can be there.
	The dad might not be there all the time, but that's fine.
	No, but you want to try to do the right thing as much as possible.
	Here's the thing.
	You don't think it'll affect the kids at all?
	Kids need to suffer.
	You want your women to suffer?
	I thought that was the whole thing is that you don't want your women to go through trauma.
	Boys need to...
	If a man doesn't make it to every single recital, every single game, that's not the end of the world.
	And if a son doesn't get every single thing he wants from his father, I think obviously the daughter's got to get everything to a degree, of course.
	But sons...
	He's gotta suffer.
	Men need to suffer to become.
	Yeah, I get that.
	But I'm just talking about, like, let's say he has girls.
	You know what I'm saying?
	What do you mean a girl?
	Oh, as in girls?
	As kids.
	You're saying that it wouldn't matter if the father's out there?
	Yeah, go as much as you can.
	But like, he's, realistically speaking, a man that's out there making money, being successful.
	He's not going to be able to be there all the time.
	I think we're also forgetting as well, if the dad is a good role model and he's actually putting food on the table for the family, him being a role model does a lot by itself.
	But wouldn't it be better if both of the parents were together and they avoided all of that?
	It's ideal, but let's be real here.
	In the real world, nothing really ideal.
	I get what you're saying.
	It doesn't make sense, but I'm just saying most people are not going to be in that scenario.
	And just to be real with you, They're probably going to break up anyway.
	So ideally, the guy's a good role model.
	He's doing what he needs to do and visits periodically.
	It's going to work regardless.
	Now, but going back to the whole monogamy thing, you know, men are typically only are as faithful as their options.
	So a guy that's like in demand, that's attractive, that has things going for him, he's going to want to exercise options.
	So I tell girls just get in front of it and accept that at some point you might catch a guy cheating or he's going to want to have that talk like, yo, I want to have other girls.
	Men always want variety.
	We don't look for security like you guys do.
	We provide it.
	Well, then now you're going to make women just boss up themselves and start becoming masculine because they just want a guy who's going to love them a lot and not cheat on them.
	Okay, how about this?
	If I tell you it's raining outside and here's an umbrella and you choose to go outside and get hit with water, whose fault is that?
	What does that do then?
	I don't know where you're comparing the analogy to.
	The analogy is I'm telling you that men are only as faithful as their options.
	So in other words, there's a high likelihood that your man will go ahead and exercise those options, especially if he's attractive.
	But just because you want to bang somebody doesn't mean you should.
	Can you stop interrupting?
	So I'm telling you, here's an umbrella.
	It's raining outside so that you can prepare yourself.
	Whose fault is it if you don't take the umbrella and get wet?
	No, I'm just saying that women are going to go get their own fucking umbrella and become masculine and not have to worry about guys cheating on her.
	And that's the problem, right?
	Too many masculine women, not enough feminine women that the guys are looking for.
	Here's the thing, they can go ahead and make their own money, as you would say, but that doesn't fix the problem at all.
	Yeah, they'll go find a loyal guy.
	They'll just play a bigger role.
	I'm telling you, men are naturally not loyal.
	It's not in our DNA to be loyal to one woman.
	No guy wants to sit there and say, I'm going to have sex with you for the rest of my life.
	No.
	I think there are.
	There are.
	Really?
	Yeah, there are.
	You think so?
	Yes.
	If I lined up 100 dudes, 95 of them would prefer to have more than one girl.
	It's because social media and porn.
	But I'm telling you, with the right girl, with the right girl, with the right wife, the man will be faithful.
	No, he won't.
	If you told your man...
	If you told your man, right, yo, babe, you know what?
	I respect you.
	I care about you.
	I love you.
	You can have any girl you want and me.
	You know what I'm going to say?
	Yes!
	That's what I really want.
	However, however, because he respects you, he doesn't want to challenge you, but you know what?
	I love only you.
	I guarantee you, a hot chick down the street, nine or ten, he's going to go for it.
	It's not a safe lifestyle.
	See how you guys are fighting against what I'm telling you?
	But it's just not safe.
	That's why we're just saying it's not a good idea.
	Look, look, look.
	You know?
	Look.
	Because if you have babies by the woman, all kinds of things.
	Look, look, look.
	Look, look.
	This is the perfect quintessential example of what I mean when I say women can't handle the truth.
	I'm telling you guys, bold face, biological fact.
	Men are quantitative in their mating process, are quantity based in their mating process.
	Women are quality based.
	Men want other girls.
	You guys are sitting here trying to fight me on it, and I'm telling you, society wouldn't sustain itself, so how would it be biologically that way?
	What do you mean by society?
	Society couldn't sustain itself if all of the guys just got to be Whatever, Polly.
	But most men can't be Polly's my point.
	Most men don't have the status, income, ability, frame, etc.
	So then why does it bother you guys that we don't want a guy who would cheat on us?
	No, we're just saying expect what may come.
	But you're saying most guys don't do that anyways.
	They can't, but they want to.
	They want to.
	So if they get the chance, they're going to do it.
	They're going to do it.
	Oh wait, fresh.
	So you've been with your man for eight years, right?
	You might want to rob a bank.
	Eight years, yeah.
	So are you married?
	Not yet.
	Why not?
	Because I want an extravagant wedding.
	I mean, is he trying to marry you or did he tell you?
	I just said that I don't want to get married because I want to have an extravagant wedding.
	That's on him.
	If you really wanted to, he'd find a way to do it.
	You borrow some money, you do a favor.
	Fiancee?
	I don't think you guys understand what I want in life.
	You want a wedding?
	You want him?
	I want a massive wedding.
	No, you want him.
	I could go get a lope if we really wanted to, but we don't care.
	I don't care that much about marriage to get married because I already know I have a solid relationship.
	You care enough to have an expensive wedding though?
	Yeah, I want to have a big party someday to celebrate how long we've been together and how we're going to be together forever.
	A big party doesn't cost that much money if you plan for it in advance.
	So I'll invite you to my wedding in like five years when I'm ready for it.
	But eight years, you should, come on.
	Eight years, come on.
	Do you know how old I am?
	I'm 25.
	What do you mean, eight years?
	You want me to start planning for my wedding when I was 17 years old?
	Really?
	You're at your pick right now.
	If that's what you want, with your guy, yeah, why not?
	Yeah.
	It's your dream wedding.
	Dreams come through over a period of time.
	Okay, so I've been working on it.
	He's been working on it.
	What do you mean?
	My extravagant wedding will come when I'm ready.
	Be honest, is he broke?
	No.
	So he has money, right?
	Yeah.
	So why is he not doing a wedding?
	It's not what I want yet.
	What?
	He doesn't have enough money to pay for hundreds of thousands of dollars of a wedding that I want, but he will soon.
	Why would you want to do that to your man?
	What do you mean, why would I want to do that to my man?
	That's for me.
	It's a celebration for me.
	You think he wants to spend that?
	I have my own money too.
	Yeah, but do you think he wants to spend that on the wedding?
	No, he doesn't.
	It doesn't matter.
	So you're prioritizing what you want over what he wants?
	In a wedding, yeah.
	That's messed up.
	What do you mean?
	Have you ever heard of bridezilla?
	It's common.
	The guy is there to get married, but I don't think the guy cares that much about the actual wedding itself.
	The money you spend on a wedding could go towards your kids, your future, a vacation.
	And I'm going to have a lot of money to go through all of those things, because that's my point.
	Yo, man.
	Yo, real talk.
	She wants to get married.
	She don't want to be a wife.
	That's what it is.
	She's already a wife.
	Bro.
	If you were a wife, you would have wifed you up by now.
	Yeah, you would.
	A guy doesn't date a girl for eight years and not wife it up?
	That's a huge red flag.
	I'm telling you.
	Niggas will literally sell their watches, chain their soul for their girl if they really want them.
	And then to get married?
	To find out a price?
	But he doesn't have to.
	I'm not telling him to.
	Come on.
	If I was like, I'm desperate to get married and he wants to get married, yeah, we would go get married.
	But I'm not desperate to have a wedding yet.
	Like, it doesn't matter to me that much.
	So they don't have a wedding then?
	Yeah.
	But I do want to have a wedding eventually.
	Which is why I'm waiting.
	That he has to pay for it.
	And not you.
	We'll both pay for it.
	Nah, he's paying.
	He's paying the majority.
	That's why it's taking a while.
	All right, man.
	Yo, man.
	Yo.
	So you guys have nothing to say, but it's fine.
	No, no, no.
	We know.
	We're dudes.
	We know.
	Eight years with a chick.
	And here's the other thing, too.
	You got to remember, you're at your peak now.
	You're at your peak now.
	So typically, you want to leave the casino when the cash is up.
	You don't want to leave the casino when the chips are down.
	In five years, you're going to be 30 years old.
	Most of your ex are going to be gone.
	The ability to bring a child to term is going to be significantly diminished.
	Yeah.
	So, if he's not going to marry you now at your peak, what makes you think he's going to ask you?
	He is going to marry me now.
	When?
	Pretty much already married.
	I don't understand.
	No, you're not.
	You guys don't get about that.
	You have a ring on your finger?
	Huh?
	You married legally?
	Actually, in some states, there's like the year...
	If you've been together, common love.
	Yeah, we basically have that.
	So then, why have a big wedding then?
	Huh?
	Because I want to have a party and celebrate.
	No, you do, but does he want to have a party?
	I'm sure he'd love it, but he doesn't care that much.
	But he cares about making me happy, so of course he's going to do it.
	That's selfish, though.
	You know why that's selfish?
	How is it selfish?
	He's about to spend maybe $100,000 on one day, right?
	When, realistically speaking, what does Matt want to do?
	Make sure you're happy and the kid's happy and the family's happy, right?
	But that one day you're spending all that money for is for what?
	Oh, I got married!
	Wait, wait, I'm fresh.
	Well, eventually it's not going to be that much money.
	That's the goal.
	Wait, so question.
	Do you have kids?
	No.
	With him?
	No.
	So why the fuck you spend that much money on a wedding, on a party, when you spend it on the kids?
	I don't have kids.
	No, but with him.
	You stay prepared for the future.
	I will.
	I'm going to have enough money for all of it.
	You?
	Yes, both of us.
	So, use that money and spend it on a fucking wedding and just make it happen!
	I will!
	I don't understand!
	Do you get what we're saying here?
	We're saying, for example, in this case...
	Yeah, it's crazy because we should have gotten married and we could have already gotten, and if he wanted it, then we would have, but it doesn't matter that much to both of us because we're already committed and we know we're going to get married eventually.
	Yeah.
	That's what he's telling you, bro.
	That's what he's telling her, bro.
	Yo, eight years, no ring, red flag.
	Remember we said earlier on the show...
	Who has the red flag, though?
	Do I have a red flag?
	Who's the red flag?
	If he didn't commit to you yet, and he's been with you for eight years, you're not his fiancée.
	Y'all just kind of live together and cohabitate, and you're saying, I want a big, expensive wedding, and I'm waiting.
	Like...
	I want to be surprised if he's like having second thoughts or something like that because I'll keep it a thousand.
	When a girl tells me I want a big extravagant wedding, she's more interested in getting married than being a wife.
	And I'm telling you how men think.
	But that also means that I don't care that much because I haven't done it yet.
	No, no, but you still want to do it.
	Yeah, eventually someday when we have a lot of money.
	But I'm not pressuring him to get married right now.
	What if he never gets a lot of money?
	What if he stays the same?
	What are you going to do?
	He will.
	And so will I. No, no, but how do you know that?
	Because I have vision and I have work.
	And the other thing too, you got to understand is that you're 25 now.
	You're literally at your peak fertility, your peak value as a woman.
	No offense.
	Okay.
	From a biological standpoint.
	Y'all are talking as if I won't get engaged fucking tomorrow.
	After this, you probably will.
	I know.
	I already know that I will, but I'm just like, it's crazy that we're having this conversation because you guys are just tripping over eight years.
	And I'm only saying that because he's going to watch it and then probably feel like he has to.
	No, it'll be funny.
	It'll be funny.
	No, because she's going to pressure him now.
	Yeah.
	After she has this conversation with him, she'll be like, why am I not engaged with you?
	Yo, Jenna Ortega.
	Shout out to Wednesday.
	Yeah.
	The ironic thing is he's the one that watches your show and brought her here.
	Is he?
	Yeah.
	He knows what he's doing.
	He's pretty smart.
	Remember, we can't handle the truth.
	He actually told me I should go on the show because I give good opinions with things.
	He'll be watching your guys' show and then he'll ask me my opinion because he's like, wow, your opinion's pretty different than mine.
	I'm going to give you the best advice you're going to get because all your friends probably are too scared to tell you this shit.
	Don't worry about the extravagant wedding.
	Get married to the man.
	Have children.
	Focus on that.
	You could do the party and all the other bullshit later on because you're at your peak now.
	Get out the casino while you can when your chips are up.
	Because your value is only going down as you age.
	But why would I... I don't understand why I would need to get married right this second.
	I could still have kids, create a house, do all of these things, and then have my extravagant wedding later.
	What's wrong with that?
	I'm trying to give you the advantage here, but okay.
	You want to have kids out of wedlock and not be married?
	I'm not saying I will.
	You're saying you can have kids right now and you're not married.
	I'm just saying I could.
	That's not optimal in your situation.
	I'm giving you the game right now.
	That actually puts him at a disadvantage of what I just told you.
	We're already going to get married and we're going to have kids.
	You assume that.
	Ten years later.
	Okay.
	This is what I mean when I say women can't handle the truth, man.
	No offense.
	I'm telling you, bro.
	Eight years.
	No marriage.
	Crazy.
	Bro, eight years?
	Monogamy?
	Eh.
	Guys always want other girls.
	Everyone's just jealous that they don't have someone for eight years.
	Trust me.
	I'm happy it's all right now.
	Guys want quantity.
	You guys look for security in a bunch of...
	Men want quantity, so...
	Lele Zero.
	What?
	Ladies.
	Spit, swallow, cream, fire, facial.
	That's a nigga, bro.
	Leaio.
	Leaio.
	We'll just move on.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That was from before.
	By the way.
	What did I have her say?
	Yeah, Paris.
	To the woman, he said, I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing.
	In pain you shall bring forth children.
	Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but ye shall rule over you.
	Is that for her?
	Yeah, pretty much.
	$500?
	What is that?
	So basically, it wasn't for you at first, but you could apply it to you.
	So, he shall rule over you.
	You're demanding him to give you a big-ass wedding.
	I'm not demanding him.
	I think that's what I want.
	He said that chat much earlier.
	But what does he want?
	What does he want?
	Do you know?
	I know what he wants out of me.
	He doesn't care about a big wedding.
	That's the whole point.
	Okay.
	He shall rule over you.
	So do what he wants.
	Which is probably not a big ass wedding.
	Why can't I get what I want also?
	Alright, nevermind.
	Let's just move on, man.
	I don't get it.
	No, I'm just saying, right?
	This big, extravagant wedding that you want, it's gonna cost some money.
	The money that you guys are gonna spend on that, I get it, it's your decision, you can do whatever you want, but from a holistic standpoint, why blow on one day, you can spread out over a period of time?
	I'm a multi-millionaire.
	I would never spend fucking even $20,000 on a wedding.
	Yeah.
	Just to give you a little bit of perspective.
	Well, then I don't think you're looking at high value women who have high expectations.
	No, because I'm looking for a wife.
	I'm not looking for a girl that wants to get married.
	There's a difference.
	You want to get married.
	I'm looking for a wife.
	I literally just said that I don't care about getting married.
	That's the funny part.
	You quite literally do.
	I said I want to have a big wedding and I think that would be exciting.
	That is the contingency.
	But you want to get married.
	You want to get married.
	You want a wedding.
	You don't necessarily want to be a wife.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	I'm already a wife.
	And I'll eventually have a big wedding.
	You're living as husband and wife without the paper.
	So basically, yeah.
	So one day we'll have a big celebration.
	Until then, it's fine.
	We wish you the best, by the way.
	Thank you.
	You guys can have him on the show someday.
	Chris, you brought on a literal retard.
	Well, she left.
	Both of them.
	Yeah, those bitches are stupid.
	Okay.
	Xena the Witch.
	That's cool and all, but what the fuck is she wearing?
	Gloves?
	Four.
	Please answer that.
	Also, Whitler in this bed.
	Yeah, 24 W Misogany.
	Okay.
	Why are you wearing gloves?
	She was on the show before it wasn't.
	Because I can do that.
	I'm a little chilly.
	I like to keep my hands warm.
	Okay.
	It's Asia.
	My name is Asia.
	But your fingers are exposed and it's lace.
	Does it really keep you warm?
	It does, actually.
	It's a cute accessory.
	Thank you.
	Okay.
	Her sugar daddies must have manifested a bitch with low IQ and high pH and got a two-for-one deal.
	Sanitize her secrets.
	Wow.
	That right there was a violation.
	Okay.
	Dreamer says, ladies, which girl on the panel would you choose as your daughter-in-law?
	Which one do you choose to tell your son to stay away from?
	We can start here.
	When you would choose for daughter-in-law and what to stay away from.
	You can pick the two chicks that got kicked out to if you wanted.
	Daughter-in-law?
	You can use them in this example is what I'm saying.
	Daughter-in-law?
	The one that was sitting in this corner.
	Why did you pick her?
	Give it raw.
	She ain't here.
	The way she just composed herself.
	She was over-talking everyone.
	She wouldn't let other people say what they had to say.
	She just obviously wanted the center of attention.
	That right there, I just feel like...
	And she said she fucks on two sugar daddies at the same time.
	I just...
	Okay.
	Save your chest.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	I would pick Julian for the daughter-in-law because she's very feminine and beautiful.
	Victoria.
	Victoria, because you also are sweet and feminine.
	Thank you.
	Not saying everybody else isn't, but I mean, we have to choose.
	And then...
	Dr.
	Cap!
	No, I'm serious.
	I would say her because she's got trauma, and just with trauma comes that emotional...
	Emotional damage!
	Fair enough.
	That's fair.
	For you?
	Myself?
	I would say myself or Jillian, for sure, as a daughter-in-law.
	As someone I would not want as my daughter-in-law, the woman that was next to me.
	New York.
	What was that?
	The accent.
	We love it.
	But, I mean, someone promiscuous enough to have several sugar daddies, I would never want for my son to be married to.
	Absolutely not.
	Well said.
	I think she's actually the perfect role model for a lot of women.
	You know, I think guys secretly do want a girl that's more pure, that's less out there.
	It's not a secret, that's what we want.
	Well, some of them do want hoes.
	They're like, hey, I'm ready to get the hoes.
	You don't like the smash.
	The smash.
	The sex only category.
	True.
	Yeah, but to actually wife up, yeah, they want a girl that's not out there catching bodies, out there partying every day, you know, somebody that kind of knows themselves.
	So she would definitely be the perfect, you know, daughter-in-law for anybody.
	Who would you not pick then?
	I mean, she was traumatized and it was bad because it was just like it was projecting.
	And, you know, if somebody can't, you know, has been traumatized that bad to the point where they can't Maintain it in a public setting.
	She just needs some more counseling, some more work.
	So that wouldn't be what I would want if I had a son because I would want somebody that's more stable.
	Yeah, trauma ruins women, man.
	It makes me mad, but it ruins women.
	What about you?
	For my son, yeah.
	That girl was...
	I don't know, but this other girl, she was on drugs, so I don't know.
	I don't know what's worse.
	And then, honestly, for my son, myself, or one of these two lovely women here.
	Okay.
	For you?
	Oh, I choose Jillian.
	She's really sweet.
	But she seems like she has no bad intentions.
	She seems like she would live a virtuous life.
	Alright.
	Who not?
	For trauma reasons.
	Yikes.
	Typical.
	Jillian, what about you?
	See, even girls know women are to be seen and not heard.
	Says it all.
	Alright, sorry.
	Go ahead.
	I would choose Melanie or Victoria for the daughter-in-law, and then probably the girl in the corner that left.
	She's just very combative.
	That's an understatement.
	Yeah, very combative.
	Fighting with fists too, goddamn.
	Yeah, yeah, we need we need to hire like a female wrestler like fuck girls up I was gonna ask real quick because we're would you be okay with your future guy?
	be having other chicks we Would you expect them to be monogamous to you?
	I believe the only men really capable of Having multiple women like that, or the top 10, top 5% of men, that percentage wouldn't be looking for...
	Okay.
	You'd be settling down with a more average guy?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	But those men, the top 5, top 10, they wouldn't look for someone like me anyway.
	Okay.
	How about if your more average guy says, hey, I want to have other women, or you catch him cheating, let's say.
	Would you break it up, or would you stay with him?
	Is he my husband?
	Yeah.
	Is it a pattern?
	Well, let's say you catch them cheating once.
	Yeah.
	Oh, that...
	If we're married...
	You stay?
	Yes.
	Smart.
	Then you catch them cheating again, would you stay?
	Do we have children together?
	Let's say yeah.
	Yeah.
	For the statistical benefit of my children, I would stay.
	Okay.
	Let's see you catch them again.
	I would want to keep the family under one home.
	Let's see you catch them again, though.
	Third time.
	Third time.
	Let's say it is a pattern.
	Do I have children?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	I'm going to put them first.
	Okay.
	All right.
	My answer would be pretty much identical to hers.
	I would have to know that he's bringing everything else to the table for me to be...
	I don't think...
	I don't know.
	I believe a lot in polarity, and I believe that when the polarity is balanced, as it should be between the masculine and feminine, I believe that causes the two people to be really attracted to each other.
	And so...
	I don't know.
	One of the fundamental tenements of masculinity is having multiple women, though.
	It's literally put in our DNA. Like, guys are literally programmed to want to have sex all the time.
	I'm part of a group that's a relationship group, and the men in there I respect, I trust, and I look up to them, and they just have a different opinion.
	I would like to share the group with you, actually.
	They're telling you that.
	But deep down?
	Is that a choice to make?
	I don't believe they're lying men.
	Huh?
	I don't know how to answer that without being in the position because like she said, I don't believe that the top percentage of men that are able to do that would be who I'm going to be married to.
	So I would have to feel secure in every other way and I would want him to be honest because honesty is a big thing for me.
	So then I could cope with it how I needed to cope with it.
	I could talk to him about things openly instead of it being a hiding dark secret.
	So are you okay with a man making maybe 50k per year, 5'7"?
	Oh, if you only knew, yes.
	My ex, yeah.
	But you left him, though.
	Well, I didn't, that wasn't my husband that I'm talking about, because my husband was taller.
	And, yeah, this is so complicated.
	I was hoping this didn't get this deep into it.
	Was he black?
	Every man I've ever dated.
	Every man I've ever dated.
	She's from Iowa, Chris.
	Oh, there's lots of culture in Iowa, but diversity.
	Was he black?
	Sorry, continue on.
	What was I even saying?
	Oh, every man that I've ever dated, other than my husband, did not make...
	I made more than money.
	And they were all my same height.
	And I'm saying all, like there's a bunch of them, like two.
	But yeah, they were my height.
	How tall are you?
	5'6".
	But my husband was taller than me.
	He is taller than me.
	I mean, he's still alive and everything.
	But I don't blame him for our divorce.
	And I don't blame me.
	I blame the situation that has a lot to do with me being masculine in the sense of trying to fix things all the time.
	I believe men are the fixers.
	You were the breadwinner in that one, right?
	It's a very complicated situation because he comes from a very well-to-do family, so he didn't have to work.
	I call this a trust fund syndrome, where the guy has money, but he didn't develop the character and the attractive traits from making said money.
	Therefore, he's able to provision, but he's not masculine because he hasn't went through the making.
	He hasn't become the man to make that kind of money.
	But he's still a very good man and has a lot like the qualities that I would look for.
	It's just that dynamic of me going to work every day and me being the masculine one of trying to fix our problems because the men are supposed to be the ones fixing it.
	I kept trying to solve the problems.
	He didn't suffer enough to be able to understand that he's got to be the leader.
	This is why men need to...
	When I have my kids, my sons, I'll put them with my fucking parents.
	They're going to live poor.
	Fuck that shit.
	And I grew up in poverty, so we came from very different backgrounds.
	You got it out the mud while he got it out the fucking kitchen.
	But he's still...
	He's a good man.
	I'm sure he is.
	He also doesn't like the fact that he didn't experience that strife.
	He wishes he had more hardship in life in a way, you know?
	And you still left him?
	Alright, cool.
	Well, I didn't necessarily leave him.
	It was more of a mutual divorce because we were living in a toxic environment.
	A mutual?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, you left him.
	Okay.
	She left him, yeah.
	It's fine.
	You're the more masculine one.
	He couldn't take that shit.
	But that caused my whole paradigm shift.
	So I'm grateful for the experience because that's the only reason that I opened my eyes.
	Okay.
	Because I got involved in these groups.
	So you want monogamy though?
	That's so hard to answer for me.
	It's very hard to answer because I want to say yes, I do.
	But in a certain situation, if he came to me honestly, like my needs aren't getting met.
	And if I'm with a man where all I want to do is meet his needs, you know, I would be willing to sacrifice if it was the right situation.
	Comes back to what I've said.
	If the guy's value is high enough, man, she's going to accept it.
	All right, cool.
	What about you?
	If I'm okay with my man being polyamorous?
	Yeah, or polygamous or having other girls.
	Honestly, I'm pretty...
	I guess I have jealousy, so...
	No?
	What if you didn't know about it?
	Like, you knew he was doing it, but he didn't show you the chicks.
	I mean, if I knew about it, I honestly don't know if I could...
	Stay?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	How much money do you want your guy to make per year?
	At least over 100.
	Okay.
	How tall do you want him to be?
	At least taller than me.
	Which is?
	At least over two inches taller than me.
	Okay, give us that height.
	Oh, I'm 5'4".
	Okay, so you want the guy to be 5'6"?
	Or above.
	Okay, give us the bare minimum.
	We'll keep it real.
	Six feet?
	5'10"?
	5'8"?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Six feet, yeah.
	Six feet, yeah.
	Okay.
	Does he have to be handsome?
	No.
	Looks is not everything.
	So you can be ugly?
	Yes.
	So 6 feet, 100 gram per year.
	You know what percentage of men fit that?
	No.
	Take a guess.
	30%?
	Interesting.
	Is that your final answer?
	15%.
	Is that your final answer?
	Yes.
	The answer actually is more around 2-3% of guys meet that requirement.
	100,000?
	Well, remember, only 15% of men are 6 feet tall or above, and only 15% of the U.S. population makes about $100,000 or more.
	That's men and women.
	So, if you cut that in half, right, let's say 7%, and then you go ahead and add in the fact that you're the filter of 6 feet.
	We're talking about the top 2-3% of men.
	That would be ideally, but I... So let me ask you a question.
	Let's say you get that guy.
	Are there more beautiful women?
	Are there more guys that meet his numbers, metrics?
	That's a good question.
	Who's more common, you or him?
	I feel like I would be more common than...
	So if you're more common, who has the leverage?
	He does.
	So who really picks if they're going to be monogamous or not?
	He would.
	So, would it be intelligent for you to leave that guy and find another guy that wants to do the same exact thing?
	I'm not going to put up with that.
	You've got to be making millions for me to accept Polly app.
	Even better.
	Do you know what percentage of men make a million dollars a year?
	Six feet tall, too?
	Less than 1%.
	Way less.
	Like 0.3.
	Top 1% makes 400k a year.
	You want a dude that makes a million and that's when they can accept the cheating?
	See how ridiculous you sound now?
	I'm just saying, me knowing myself, I would just be jealous and it would be toxic and I don't want to, you know...
	Instead of trying to bend reality, why don't you just work on that and become more accepting of reality.
	Like work on my jealousy?
	I guess I would have to be put in that situation in order to work on it and hope that that person has the patience to deal with that jealousy.
	What if I tell you in five years you're going to get punched in the stomach?
	Would you go to the gym every day and do sit-ups and go train in the boxing gym and be prepared to get punched?
	Or would you just sit there and say, I'll deal with it when I get punched?
	I guess I'd rather train up for that.
	Exactly.
	So I'm telling you right now, if you meet that man, there's way less of him than there is of you.
	So why not be prepared now and accept the fact that it probably will come with the type of guy that you're looking for.
	You may miss your chance.
	Waiting for it to happen.
	Thanks.
	I feel like I could build that man.
	What?
	Right?
	Like anyone you can help.
	Nah.
	Let me explain something to you.
	Guys that make a lot of money are never built by women.
	So you don't feel like women have value?
	What?
	Women have value.
	Women can bring value to the table.
	Stupid.
	He makes a million dollars.
	Do you make a million dollars?
	High-earning men?
	Mm-hmm.
	Don't need women to become high-earning men.
	Do you not understand that it's intrinsic?
	It's in their mind.
	They're go-getters regardless of their situation.
	So they don't need you.
	That's what I'm trying to tell you.
	Not every man is a go-getter.
	The man that you want is a go-getter.
	Okay.
	So what I'm telling you is that he's self-made.
	He doesn't need you.
	So since he doesn't need you, you're replaceable.
	Since you're replaceable, you need to act as if you're replaceable and understand that you're not special and get on his program.
	But women don't like hearing this, that they're not special.
	When you're with a guy that's attractive, there's way less of him than you.
	There's beautiful girls turning 18 every day.
	Be the main girl and be happy with that.
	But women don't like hearing this.
	Freshly 18?
	Is that what you just said?
	Yes.
	There's new girls starting 18 every day.
	So, for example, the man wants to be in a polygamous relationship.
	Typically women were designed not to want to be in a polyamorous relationship.
	I disagree.
	You're designed to want to be in a polygamous relationship.
	I don't know.
	Maybe me.
	Maybe not me.
	But yeah, I guess...
	Since the beginning of time, women have shared higher status men.
	It's a survival tactic.
	The only reason that women are able to say stupid shit like you guys are saying now, saying I want monogamy and all this other stuff, is because of feminism.
	Feminism has told women that you can make your own money.
	You can do your own thing.
	You don't need a man.
	Well, since you don't need a man...
	We need each other, but...
	You know society tells you don't need a man.
	Okay, I think we do.
	Okay, that's fine But society tells women in general they don't need a man So girls take this indoctrination say I don't need a man and they say I'm equal to a man I will not accept the man.
	That's not monogamous to me What I'm saying is that before feminism before industrialization women needed men So since women needed men they had to deal with what men brought to the table and a lot of the time that was infidelity because the man was providing for her so girls understood that Well, am I going to survive and be with this man who takes care of me, he loves me, but he fucks bitches from time to time?
	Or am I going to go ahead and break up with him and be out on the streets or have to go back to my family?
	Most women chose the former.
	It's a survival tactic.
	When a woman got conquered by Genghis Khan and his people, what did she have to do?
	She had to acclimate to the new people.
	This whole new concept of I'm equal to a man, monogamy, and all this other crap, it's a modern concept that, quite frankly, isn't how the world was built.
	Sorry, guys, I'm...
	Well, I was going to ask if you think the survival thing is why a lot of men aren't becoming that higher quality man because everybody's too comfortable just across the board.
	I guess I'm kind of changing the subject.
	I was going to say this a whole other way.
	I was talking about women need men for survival, which is why polygamy is more natural for women.
	Women are okay sharing their guy if he's high status enough.
	But men are never okay sharing their girl.
	I see what you're saying.
	That's why when she said that shit about those two sugar daddies and they know each other, I know that they're pussies.
	No guy that's worth his weight is ever gonna allow his girl to fuck another girl.
	Or they don't care about her.
	Which I think it's actually they don't give a fuck about her.
	And then she's like, ah, this is some random bitch that we fuck.
	That's more likely what it is.
	But once a man starts to actually put boundaries on you, here's some game for you ladies.
	Once a guy says, I don't like you going to a club.
	Hey, I don't like these pictures.
	Or, hey, you shouldn't leave the house dressed like that.
	It means he gives a fuck about you.
	You should be happy.
	Instead of saying, no, I'm gonna dress the way I want.
	Okay, I ain't taking this bitch serious.
	I agree.
	You're right.
	When a man starts to pull boundaries on you, that's when he actually cares.
	When he doesn't pull boundaries on you, he doesn't care.
	So that's why it's one of the two things.
	Those sugar daddies either are simps and they're suckers, or, which I think, she's just a hoe that they're fucking.
	And that's how they look at her.
	You turn, huh?
	Alright, we'll do the last thoughts.
	She's not contributing to anything in the conversation anyway, so it's fine.
	But ladies, does that make sense?
	I get it.
	I just don't think it's a safe lifestyle for me personally.
	That's why I wouldn't want to go with it.
	If you're having sex with a bunch of girls, you can get a lot of them pregnant, you can catch ACDs, y'all can get drunk, all kinds of stuff.
	What if it breaks?
	All kinds of things can happen.
	99%.
	What if something happens?
	Like what?
	There's all kinds of things.
	You know what I love?
	Girls always use the safety excuse for why they want to accept polygamy, but that's not the real reason.
	Your ego can't handle him fucking another bitch.
	That's the reality.
	Yep.
	Okay, so what if he gave me something?
	I would be pretty upset about that.
	Y'all be fucking niggas raw anyway.
	Yeah, y'all be fucking niggas raw anyway.
	Girls always cite diseases as the reason why they want to accept polygamy.
	The reality is y'all can't fathom him having sex with another girl because you can't fathom having sex with another man if you're in a relationship.
	But we are not the same.
	We can have sex with other girls and love our chick the same.
	Your guy that's been with you for years can go fuck a hooker, come back to you, and love you the same.
	But you, on the other hand, can't go fuck another guy and love him the same.
	If you fuck another guy, you're checked out.
	Bars.
	Your argument was, oh, you're not special.
	You're replaceable.
	The guy is not replaceable.
	Once you reach a certain level of guy, it's hard to replace him.
	The man you described is hard to find.
	But that doesn't mean that just because he's a high-status man that he's not loyal.
	They wish you the best, honestly.
	If you don't make that connection.
	I feel like when you're doing that with multiple women, you're looking for something in multiple women because one woman doesn't have everything that you want.
	No, it's just sex.
	And that's it?
	Like, it's just because we're just that carnal.
	We're that animalistic.
	Does every pussy feel different or something?
	Men just want to have sex with different girls.
	Like, I mean...
	Like, I just, you know, they can just get that out of their way before they get in a relationship.
	You know what?
	I'm going to do the candy store analogy.
	Oh, you know what?
	Go ahead.
	I thought somebody said that after, like, 10 girls, the guy said to 10 girls, like, he's done.
	No, it's not that he's done.
	It's just that you can...
	Yeah, it's harder to build a connection.
	Divorce rates go down or something like that.
	Because, you know, it messes with the women, too.
	Like...
	You know what, ladies?
	How about this?
	How about this?
	I'm gonna give you guys an analogy.
	If you don't understand this, I fucking give up.
	Alright?
	There's a candy store.
	Alright?
	This candy store is highly desired.
	Everyone wants to go.
	But, the women are allowed in at 18 years old.
	The men, however, can't go into this candy store until they're 35, have $100,000 saved up, and been going to the gym consistently for 5 years.
	Right?
	So, as you can see, the women go in, 18 years old, no line.
	On the guy's side, there's a line around the fucking corner.
	Right?
	So the guys...
	Every now and then, two or three guys hits that number, 35 years old, $100,000 saved, the gym, etc.
	They let them into the fucking candy store, right?
	You've been in there chilling, figuring out, oh, I like this aisle.
	I like chocolate.
	Some of y'all figure out you like chocolate.
	Some of you guys like white chocolate.
	Some of you guys like Tootsie Rolls, which are disgusting, but whatever.
	Some of you guys figure out you don't like candy corn.
	Some of you guys do like candy corn.
	But at some point, you start to stick in the aisle that you like.
	You figure out what candy you like.
	You've been there for a bit.
	You know the candy store very well, right?
	You know what aisles to stay away from, which aisles to go to.
	The five guys are let in.
	Bang!
	They go crazy!
	They're swinging on the fucking rafters.
	They're eating all the candy.
	They're eating Tootsie Rolls that you guys left there five years ago because you realize this shit is disgusting.
	And then on top of that, dudes are outside screaming, yeah, eat that candy!
	Woo!
	Cheering for them.
	They're going nuts!
	Right?
	You, on the other hand, you've been there for ten plus years.
	You're like, what the fuck is wrong with these guys?
	So you're pulling these guys aside, like, yo!
	Woo!
	What's wrong with you, bro?
	Like, why are you eating all this candy?
	And the guy looks you in the face and says, you don't have to bust your ass to get in here.
	Shut up.
	I'm going to have as many pieces of candy as I want.
	And that's what women don't understand.
	Men have to bust their ass to get into the candy store.
	You don't.
	So how are you going to tell them how many pieces of candy you can eat?
	What is the candy store, though?
	What?
	I'm sorry, like...
	The candy is the women.
	Bro, you can't be that dense.
	Oh, the women?
	It's an analogy for life.
	Oh my God, bro.
	Did you come up with that yourself?
	It comes with self-control.
	Self-control is a really good thing to have.
	How are you going to tell him to self-control when you didn't have to control yourself?
	You're in a candy store.
	You can't eat all.
	You can get diabetes from all that sugar.
	Stop.
	You didn't have to work to get into the candy store.
	How are you going to tell him how many pieces of candy you can eat?
	Well, that's what I'm saying.
	I'm not telling him what he can, but I'm just saying it's not a good idea to eat all that candy.
	And I'm telling you, the guys are going to eat the candy anyway, so what do you want to do about it?
	You've got to prepare for them coming in.
	You've just got to make sure you're the favorite candy.
	But the women don't want to do the work and become the favorite candy.
	I want to be able to exist and act like, no, just like me because I'm candy.
	No, there's a bunch of Tootsie Rolls in here that are just like you.
	What do you cheat on me?
	What do you cheat on me?
	Oh my God.
	I agree.
	Women should work on themselves.
	They got to be their best version.
	True.
	Everybody.
	But most women don't feel like they have to work on themselves.
	They should, though.
	Most don't feel like they have to.
	But they won't.
	I'm special.
	Body positivity.
	Accept me as I am, nigga.
	That's how most girls think.
	The two bitches that were in here, that's how they think.
	I think they'll be happier.
	If you work on yourself, you'll be much happier with yourself and in a relationship, for sure.
	Once again, the moral of the story is this.
	You didn't have to work to get into the candy store.
	You can't tell the guys that had to work to get into the candy store how much candy they can eat.
	You have some?
	Yeah.
	Please.
	So, I think, I don't know, I could be inferring But I think what he's trying to say is it may not be moral, and it may not be moral in the eyes of God, but it's going to happen because they're innately going to do that.
	So, I mean, it is what it is.
	And if you want monogamy, be the best version of yourself.
	Work towards it.
	That won't even save you, though.
	Try and be irreplaceable.
	Just be the main girl.
	Be hard to replace.
	Be the main girl.
	That was sweet.
	That was nice.
	But he's always going to want new pussy.
	Make the best connection with them for sure.
	But he's still going to want new pussy.
	Yeah, that won't help either.
	Why can't y'all just accept it, bro?
	Why can't y'all just accept it?
	I don't know.
	I would just rather not deal with it at all.
	Completely.
	I don't want to deal with it at all.
	I've been single.
	I've been single.
	Yeah, it's fine.
	I don't want to deal with that lifestyle.
	Truthfully.
	It's okay.
	This one's saving him.
	Alright.
	I call the cast of the black dude in bra.
	W. Big balls.
	Alright.
	Amorsk, they don't from fresh and the one in pink are low-key dumb as fuck.
	The pink hair keeps cheering the morons on.
	Kick them off.
	Fucking annoying, bro.
	Yeah, they're gone, bro.
	Dreamer says, blame my society?
	If I was raised in a rough environment, taught to sell drugs, and they got in trouble for selling the drugs, who's to blame?
	Society or my decisions?
	That's going back to that girl, because she kept saying, I'm a product of my environment, which is a typical naked thing to say.
	Like, oh, yo, I'm a product of my environment, bro.
	Sorry, I'm a criminal.
	Like, no, you can do better.
	The fuck?
	Thing says, I just have to donate for Miss Canada.
	She's representing us in the North flawlessly.
	More like her on the panel in the future, she gives us hope.
	Yeah, bro, don't...
	Hope is, uh...
	Yeah, we've interviewed...
	You know what?
	We've interviewed how many girls on this show?
	1900?
	Almost?
	1900, but there's two versions right here.
	I think we've only...
	I think we've had less than 10 versions on this show.
	Yeah, less than 10.
	So that should give you guys...
	Yeah, that should live.
	And then two on one night is fucking crazy.
	Breaking records here, girl.
	It's Kuma says...
	Kuma-san says, yo, Kelsey, go see a therapist.
	Stop being a headache.
	Walk around the world broken as hell.
	Get your shit together.
	I think that was the...
	Oh, the Jamaican girl.
	Yeah, yeah.
	And then modern tradition says, trauma should have humbled women.
	Instead, it made her a pain in the ass and a headache to deal with.
	Humbled women.
	Bro.
	Somebody paid $10 to say bro.
	It was probably when that chick was wilding out.
	She got kicked out.
	She got kicked out?
	Oh yeah, because she wouldn't fucking leave.
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	Go ahead, Fresh, your favorite part, right?
	Okay.
	Well, I mean, you want to do another hour?
	I'm always down.
	I'm always down.
	Well, we should turn to ladies to ask a question if they want.
	Okay, ladies.
	Questions, comments, or a lot of thoughts on the show?
	We'll start right here.
	Not right now.
	Not that I can think of.
	You can accept cheating now that you know the numbers?
	Are you going to accept cheating now that you know the numbers that your guy is?
	I'll work on my jealousy.
	Okay.
	That's all we ask for.
	There you go.
	I would just like to say that I do not believe there's any such thing as toxic masculinity.
	Oh, cool.
	People are just who they are.
	There's masculine men, there's masculine women, there's feminine men, there's feminine women, and there's toxic people.
	But there's no such thing as toxic masculinity.
	I like that.
	Well said.
	Hezka.
	Yeah, and I don't think there's toxic femininity either.
	I just think there's toxic people.
	Yeah, bad people are everywhere.
	Yeah, trying to say something is toxic.
	I mean, yeah, whatever.
	It's stupid.
	What about you?
	You said last thoughts.
	Thank you so much for having me.
	I've been watching this podcast for a little over a year now.
	I think I was silent for the most part because I agree with most of what you two gentlemen say.
	Continue to preserve your value.
	Thank you.
	Shout out to y'all, man.
	Make it virgins cool again.
	And here's the other thing too I want to say.
	Don't let no other girl fucking try to shame you and tell you, nah, whatever.
	Women be sabotaging each other.
	That just means they're jealous.
	You did a good job.
	Thank you very much.
	So, I appreciate being here.
	It was great.
	It was fun.
	I think just kind of Oh, sorry.
	I just think a kind of a lot of it comes from just maybe it was just my perspective, but I do appreciate hearing everybody else, you know, what they know, what they've experienced.
	But what I found in the past is, you know, sex does complicate a lot of things.
	When you have sex with somebody, it just is what it is.
	You can't go around it.
	So that's where I come from when I say I want monogamy, you know, and I do want to be realistic at the same time.
	I want to be able to try to cater to whenever I do get into a relationship to my man's needs.
	So I'll definitely put it into perspective.
	However, me personally, with what I know, people, when it comes to sex, they're not very educated on what it is, what it does.
	And I just think from there, that's where things can start to, you know, be better.
	You know, amended between men and women when we understand what we're doing.
	You know, if we're just banging people senselessly, we just get lost in the sauce.
	Yes, girl, yes.
	Banging people senselessly.
	Banging them senselessly.
	Yeah, and it's just like, okay, I've got another appointment.
	You know, there's a lot to deal with.
	I would rather just do something, you know, just more creative with my brain, truthfully.
	Because, like, sex energy...
	It's the energy.
	You can convert that into better things.
	Sometimes you have to tell yourself, hey, I don't have to do this.
	It's okay.
	I'm going to do something better.
	It's fine.
	Yeah, that's what you want, though.
	I know.
	I'm speaking for myself.
	Yeah, but I'll definitely keep that in consideration.
	But the man doesn't want that.
	Well, some of them.
	Some of them.
	Most guys want to fuck girls, bro.
	I agree.
	Get this through your head.
	I get it.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Yo, if you argue like this with your men...
	I'm not.
	Here's the other thing, too.
	You're 30 years old.
	You ain't getting no younger.
	You out here with these demands and shit like that?
	I don't have demands.
	I just don't want to have sex with somebody that's having sex with a bunch of people.
	That's it.
	I mean...
	He can hang out with her.
	They can hug.
	I don't care.
	It's not a big deal.
	I mean, 30 years old, brain damage.
	If you were 21 making these demands, it'd be different.
	But bro, you 30.
	You got to take what you can get at this point.
	Yeah, thanks.
	The casino's about to close soon for you.
	You're funny.
	You're funny.
	Adrian.
	You're hilarious.
	I'm being honest.
	You're funny.
	Adrian.
	are you not aware that's Chris in the back that's Chris in the back men overwhelmingly prefer women between 18 and 24 It's cute.
	It's the truth.
	I get it, but you know You're not winning this battle.
	We don't have to talk about this.
	And this is another reason why guys don't like older women.
	Because y'all are stuck in your ways.
	I'm telling you factual things and you're saying, well, I think so.
	I get it.
	Look, I told you that, hey, I'm going to keep an open mind about men if they want to be polygraphic.
	That's it.
	That's all I said.
	Keep an open mind.
	Okay.
	I just don't agree with it, but I mean, I'll keep an open mind.
	I swear to God, but you talk a lot, n***a.
	I don't know if it's funny.
	is funny I don't know I missed it go ahead um people quiz it's not funny like 30 is okay it's rumble Tell us your thoughts.
	Tell us your thoughts.
	I was just going to say that I liked his little candy shop analogy.
	Take it to the candy shop.
	But I also would think that it would be interesting to think of it in a way like the girls that you guys are looking for, maybe if you only allowed those to enter the candy store, then maybe it would be even.
	We can't control the candy store.
	I know what I'm saying.
	I'm saying there would be less options for you if you were focused on what actually tasted good, essentially.
	The kind of girls that you guys are looking for, right?
	You guys are looking for women who haven't slept around, right?
	So that's going to eliminate candy in the store, right?
	Okay, you're literally going immediately off.
	You're taking the analogy a bit too literally.
	But since you want to go that route...
	No, I'm just curious.
	The point is that the women are allowed into the candy store at 18.
	Nothing else.
	So they're just allowed in.
	So whether the woman is aware...
	Hey, she might go in a candy store and not eat a piece, but she's still in there.
	And she's able to see what's going on.
	That's why a regular 18-year-old girl that does nothing can get invited on a yacht with millionaires.
	A regular 18-year-old guy will never get invited on a yacht with millionaires.
	That's the difference.
	Okay.
	I thought you guys were talking about when it comes to being monogamous.
	As a guy in the candy shop, it's going to be...
	You're going to have all these options, right?
	If you have all these women.
	But I think that the women that the guys are looking for, if I'm thinking of it in the candy shop store, if they have a wide variety of women who haven't slept around, haven't done all these things, haven't been on these yachts, have been very raised correctly, then there's a lot less options.
	And I think the men would be Loyal.
	The candy is the women.
	The candy represents the women.
	So there's a lot less candy that you guys actually want.
	No, you want to try every candy because you just got in there.
	And you've been waiting for 17 years to get inside.
	Oh, ultimately it's like eight years.
	Yeah, eight years.
	Well, no, I said, well, her boyfriend.
	But yeah, the point of the analogy is that men have to bust their ass to get in the candy store, which is a dating marketplace versus women don't have to.
	So, of course, you guys aren't going to appreciate it to the same degree and you would think, yo, I want a guy to be a monogamous to me, but you can say that.
	That sounds great, but you don't have to work to get in a candy store.
	We had to work on something.
	I'm talking about the girls that you guys actually want, right?
	As wives.
	Not just to have sex with.
	When a man is attractive enough to be able to get a girl or girls, they're going to want to explore and have those girls.
	So they don't care about body count?
	No.
	They're going to wife up the best one, but they're going to want to have other girls.
	But do you think the one that they wife up is going to accept that?
	Most women...
	Because I'm talking to the girl, like we just interviewed the girls who haven't had sex with people, right?
	You know what, let me ask you a question.
	You're with your man right now, right?
	Let's say you guys went on vacation and he decided to propose to you, right?
	But before he proposed to you, you knew it was coming because he took you to the place that you guys met, right?
	Before he proposed to you, you find out that he used to be a porn star and he did a gangbang with 10 girls.
	He banged all of them.
	He was the only guy who knows 10 chicks.
	And he said, hey, I got the money for the wedding.
	We're going to get married.
	Would you break up with him?
	When did he gangbang these girls?
	I'm asking you.
	10 years ago.
	Oh, I wouldn't care.
	You wouldn't care.
	Because it was before me.
	You triggered my trap card!
	Duh!
	Because a woman's past...
	Well, women don't...
	Sorry, excuse me.
	Because a woman doesn't care about a man's past.
	Let's reverse it, though.
	Yeah, I'm talking about interrelationship.
	Hold on.
	Let's reverse it.
	I guarantee you, if he was going to propose to you and he saw a video of you getting banged by ten guys, he would call off the wedding.
	Okay.
	I'm talking about interrelationship, though.
	Not, like, before or after.
	Like, these girls just said that they would most likely, they would rather have a guy who was loyal to them only.
	So that's what the girls that you guys want to wife up are looking for.
	Does that not interest you to know that?
	No, because women don't, you quite literally proved my point a second ago.
	Ladies, do you not see what, like, I asked you, he fucked a bunch of girls ten years ago on camera.
	You don't care.
	You're still doing the wedding.
	Because women don't care about a man's past when it comes to sexuality.
	They care about the future.
	Exactly.
	So, but a man, on the other hand, cares a lot about a woman's past.
	So, women, you could say, oh, well, girls want the guy to be loyal, blah, blah, blah.
	It doesn't matter if he was loyal before or if he had sex with a bunch of girls.
	I'm talking about in the future relationship.
	You're trying to get with girls who have a low body count.
	You're trying to get with girls who have a low body count, right?
	And there's not going to be a lot of them.
	And the ones that are that way are looking for men.
	She's saying that if there was another shop full of creme brulee and the most immaculate desserts that are not just candy, but completely above candy.
	That's what she's trying to say.
	We understand what she's saying, but she's not understanding the foundation.
	Those women aren't looking for the guys who are going to sleep around.
	They don't want the men in the candy store, is what she's saying.
	They don't want the men that are going to be checking on them.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Here's the thing.
	The men...
	They didn't save themselves this entire long just so that they could get a relationship with the guy who's gonna cheat on them.
	You just heard her say, experience is good.
	She said that she doesn't...
	I'm not talking about the past.
	I'm talking about in the future.
	She does not want to have a guy who's sleeping around while he's with her.
	She didn't know what hurt her.
	Oh my god.
	Yo, like, do you not understand?
	Like, you're saying, I don't want a guy that's sleeping around, blah, blah, blah.
	Mm-hmm.
	The most attractive men sleep around.
	Yeah.
	The most attractive men sleep around.
	For the guy to be attractive to you, he probably was attractive to her and to her and to her and to her.
	The most attractive men are playboys.
	Playboys are attractive because they have attractive traits to a multitude of different women and their ability to attract and have sex with other women is what makes them attractive in the first place.
	I'm just giving you a tip on what girls who have low body counts are looking for and it's not that.
	Even if they are attractive.
	Yes.
	I just asked you a second ago.
	You found out your husband fucked 10 girls 10 years ago on camera and you said you would still do the wedding.
	Yeah.
	Thank you for contradicting yourself.
	I have a low body.
	How does that contradict myself?
	Watch this back with your guy and then you can understand.
	Yo, chat, what the fuck is going on right now?
	I don't know, bro.
	You're talking about the past and she's talking about being cheated on in the relationship.
	I'm not talking about this.
	I'm talking about a current relationship.
	Women with low body counts from the past and the current relationship are going to be looking for a man who hasn't slept around.
	Let's say you guys have your wedding and then you find out they had sex with two girls after the wedding.
	Would you realistically leave him?
	Yeah, most likely.
	You wouldn't leave him.
	You would not leave him.
	At that point, you would be 27 years old.
	You guys would have been married.
	You guys have been together for 10 years.
	You would leave him?
	Most likely.
	The answer is no.
	Someone said, no, I know why she's still not married.
	You're saying that you would leave him, but you wouldn't.
	Because when you proposed to him and you found out, or when he proposed to you and he had 10 girls that he fucked on camera, you didn't care then.
	I promise you, you would not leave him if you found out he cheated on you.
	And if you did, you ain't like him that much.
	Which might be why you're trying to get him to pay for an expensive ass wedding.
	You guys can bring up the expensive wedding.
	Listen, man, when a woman truly loves, admires, and respects you and desires you, she don't give a fuck.
	She just wants to get, like, tie you down immediately.
	Hey, man, we wish you the best.
	Yeah.
	My son's off here.
	Son's off.
	Something's off.
	What about you?
	I kind of understood what everyone was saying, and I understood the message.
	What was the message?
	Basically, I'm saying in general about the whole podcast.
	I didn't know what to expect.
	I wasn't really talking that much.
	Misogony!
	You were shaken up by the whole grape song.
	Misogony!
	Whatever.
	Good show?
	Yeah, good show.
	I mean, you just have to be quick with your words, too.
	What was the message?
	Pause.
	Let me talk.
	You weren't saying nothing.
	I'm saying how was it overall?
	It was good.
	What was the best part?
	Probably once you walked out.
	Alright, what was the message?
	Overall?
	The message overall?
	We talked about a lot of things.
	Okay, what we were speaking on right now was if you would be okay with...
	Jesus!
	You stupid.
	Good.
	Thank you for having me.
	Good night, everyone.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	First one, I go to the club, guys.
	No, I got to play the catch.
	Rumble, guys.
	Yeah, rumble.com slash freshfit.
	Yo, help us hit 100k.
	Where are we at now?
	99.3?
	Yeah.
	Yep.
	Yo, there's $22,000 in here, man.
	Come on, bro.
	Subscribe to the goddamn channel.
	That's what we asked for.
	Yeah, subscribe.
	All right, guys.
	I hope you guys enjoyed that show.
	Pray for my hair, because those two girls fucking definitely made me lose some more hair for all of this.
	Yeah, fucking Ratchet's name.
	Shut up, Chris.
	You're a part of those fucking harlots.
	All right, guys.
	We'll catch you guys on Money Monday next week, probably around 7.30 or 8 when this nigga get back.
	All right, guys.
	Hope you guys enjoyed that one.
	Peace.

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