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Exploiting Vulnerabilities
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| We have real cases that we can discuss. | |
| I'll give you a brief example, a real case. | |
| We'll call this girl Sarah. | |
| Sarah's thirteen. | |
| She has a deep desire to play on a soccer team. | |
| She doesn't make the team, but she serves the team as kind of a water girl, right? | |
| This predator notices this online, because she talks about that. | |
| She talks that her sister makes the varsity team. | |
| The predator starts affirming her, encouraging her for nine months until one day he shows up at her soccer game. | |
| He flies two states over, takes a selfie with her in the background, doesn't introduce himself to her, goes back home. | |
| Two weeks later, he sends her the selfie. | |
| And he said, when your dad doesn't show up, I will show up. | |
| You can trust me. | |
| He's earning her favor. | |
| She says to him online, you should have said hello. | |
| There's such a deep desire for that child to be seen, to be affirmed. | |
| So it's the exploitation of vulnerabilities. | |
| Unfortunately, Gen Z display their vulnerabilities publicly. | |
| It's not hidden. | |
| They overshare publicly. | |
| It's easy to read them. | |
| And so that's why you see some of the movements in our country where it feels like, why would they just be swept up in a movement? | |
| Because they can be. | |
| Because they're looking for a purpose. | |
| If the purpose is nefarious and it's an exploiter, they will always implicate the victim in the crime. | |
| And here's what happens, Jan, that we've now determined unilaterally. | |
| The second sexual exploitation happens to a person, whether it's a rape, as egregious as a rape, or repeated violation or trafficking, right? | |
| We have to do better in this country looking at EQ, not IQ. | |
| The emotional health of our nation is not good. | |
| The first thing that happens to that person is guilt, shame, and condemnation floods them. | |
| They feel guilty, but they're not the perpetrator. | |
| They're the victim. | |
| But that's the nature of humanity. | |
| It's in Genesis 3. | |
| It's biblical. | |
| It's literally in Genesis when Adam and Eve realize they're naked, they hide from God because of what? | |
| Shame, guilt, condemnation. | |
| So now you have predators that are so good that they coerce the victims to feel, it's my fault, I did something. | |
| This is why sextortion is exploding with young boys in our country. | |
| Because they don't talk about it. | |
| They get trapped. | |
| And so it's really just an assessment of vulnerabilities. | |