P*RN is DESTROYING Men - Here's How he Fixed it | Slightly Clips
Of the all attacks constantly waged against men, the widespread accessibility of p*rnography is perhaps the worst. Everywhere in society, for all ages, a social experiment has been conducted. The results are in.
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And you came up with a list that I thought was pretty fantastic.
I got to say, it is, it is impressive, my man.
It is.
This is the roadmap to health.
And for the audio-only listeners who are there listening to this on podcasts, on Spotify member, this is mainly an audio podcast.
We are on Rumble.
We are on YouTube.
But if you aren't downloading the audio podcast and you're not joining the fun, and the roadmap to health as a man, you will start with list one.
These are practical steps.
Why'd you start it out with quitting porn?
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Because I believe porn is one of the ultimate masculinity destroyers, and particularly for men right now, I think it basically conditions the mindset to choose pleasure over pain and discomfort.
And if you compound that over time, it gets really ugly.
The fact that the default mode, if you're bored at home or whether you just want to give yourself a cheap dopamine hit, porn is just so accessible.
And I think we, you know, I could go on a tangent around not only does it stop you from being disciplined and being dedicated, but it also then distorts your reality of women.
Like there's a whole myriad of awful, awful issues that come from watching porn consistently and doing that a lot.
And yeah, I'm a big advocate of getting rid of it.
I mean, is this like, and I bring up this example, right?
I've recently started unfollowing a bunch of meme pages on Instagram because they do these collab posts.
And the boys, you're listening to this, y'all know what the hell I'm talking about.
It's like some ad for some girls page for some OnlyFans.
It's basically nudity.
It's sexual.
It's like sex with clothes on.
And they have this ad.
I mean, hey, I'm not faulting the meme pages.
You got to pay the bills.
But it's like, what is the standard of porn, right?
I mean, like, do you define that as sexual intercourse, nudity, only fans, TikTok, you know, following hot model chicks?
Like, where, where do you draw the line?
unidentified
Well, I mean, classically, it's the more graphic sense, isn't it?
It's like porn arb, like the sexual.
But I think there'd be a good argument for getting into like if you're filling your Instagram feeds with models or women that are in bikinis and you're looking at that all the time, you are creating your reality.
And what that's going to do is lull you into this false sense of security that women, you're going to find women that are like that and women do those things.
And it's just, that is so superficial.
It's it is not reality.
So I think there's a good argument for what you mentioned there around actually that transcending into model pictures, nude photos, anything that's kind of glorifying something that just isn't comparable to real life.
You know, and I know you're not claiming to be a scientist, but like, how much do you agree with the statement that other people make about how like ejaculation drains energy or as the rappers say, when I come, I come to my senses?
I mean, like, do you, do you throw, do you throw masturbation into this?
Like, where, where, where is the energy and the mind like getting sucked from?
Is it the graphicness?
Is it the addictive behavior?
Is it the coming itself?
Like, where are we getting our masculinity lowered through this action?
unidentified
I think it's all of those things.
I think it's all things.
I think it's like your masturbation, consistent masturbation is not healthy for mindset.
I mean, scientifically, I know that there's a study that shows if you don't masturbate, there was an increase of testosterone by like 40% in a week, and then it started to taper off.
But just subjectively, just from my own personal experience, putting the science to one side, I find that the longer I go without masturbation, the easier that I find discipline, the easier that I find consistency, like all of these difficult traits that we find hard to muster up become so much easier.
And I think what porn does is it's a catalyst in if you, if, if the default setting when you're in your day or you get back after a hard day at work or you've got some free time at home, if it's to just go on porn and rub one out, that if that over time, like every now and again, there's a better case.
But if that becomes consistent, you're ingraining that into your routine and that becomes a part of your identity.
And that then starts corrupting the dopamine, the reward systems, all the rest of all of the rest of those things that we need, particularly as men, we rely on to get, you know, to get up and get going and really and help kind of spark fuel behind a healthy masculinity.
And I just think porn is really trying to corrupt that.
And we need that right now, particularly right now, because I feel like masculinity is kind of under siege right now.
And I think it's getting a lot of unhealthy press.
And I think, you know, as you've mentioned before, with generations coming through, I think with TikTok and being on screens, you know, outside of just porn and just looking at 30-second reels and getting information through the ways that we are, I think it's creating this very, I think, ugly abyss.
And I'm concerned about the future with people being able to divert their attention intentionally and being conscious around the decisions they're making rather than being at the mercy of their phones and their screens and distraction.
How true do you feel like the statement is, though, with the reality?
Like, let's say you're banging your girlfriend, your fiancé, your wife.
And of course, I know a lot of the base is Christian.
So a lot of people would say those are morally wrong behaviors.
But let's just go bluntly scientifically, right?
With the female.
Some of y'all are gay, probably too, but let's just stick to the females here on this regard.
You know, if you're having sex, some sports players talk about the fact that they literally don't have sex before games.
I don't even know if that's true.
I've just heard that, you know, around or people like don't have sex to focus.
The Bible also talks about, you know, for the Christian audience, that one of the only times it actually permits abstaining from sex and not having sex with your wife or your wife and your husband is if you do it for prayer, basically for focus and connection and to set your heart on spiritual things.
So from your perspective, I mean, like, is it sex in general?
Like, should we be having a different direction?
Because I know a lot of guys are like, well, I just look at porn because, you know, I don't have a hot chick to bang.
And that's literally what I hear all the time.
Almost be easy not to look at porn because you're married, which is objectively an untrue statement.
And that's been proven scientifically.
That doesn't really change.
It's a drug.
It's an addiction.
It's a problem.
Like, how much should we be focusing on sex overall?
How much should that be a priority?
And does it distract us when we're just putting our energy into that, even when it's morally correct or it's with an actual person?
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But yeah, I think, but when it's real and it's with a partner or it's with someone that you have a connection with, I think that's a very different kettle of fish.
And I think that's what that's what concerns me about porn in this culture that we're going into is it's kind of like objectifying women and objectifying a very kind of deep and meaningful experience, right?
I think if men were conditioned to understand that sex is just an extension of being able to bond and Connect better with your partner or whoever it is.
I think that'd be far more powerful rather than seeing women like we do in porn where they're, you know, being, I guess it depends on what type you watch, but usually it's a very, it's just a very superficial, not real, not real way of doing it, whether they get it, whether it's aggressive or whatever angle they might take on that.
And I think it's kind of undermining the connection, the connection between the masculine and the feminine right now.
And I think that has, that will have grave consequences if that's then conditioned into a young, impressionable mind that will that will get worse and worse.
So, um, but I definitely think rather than rather than you know, masturbating to pixels on a screen, you know, if you've got something real, that's a very different, that's just a very different Kepler-ish because that's conducive to what's reality as opposed to you know, if you're on a screen or or or masturbating it to pixels, it's just that's not that's just not ancestrally consistent with anything we've ever done in our history.
And I feel like the last, whenever the advent of porn or this came out, I think it's just corrupted that.
And I think we need to start advocating more the other way, if that makes sense.
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