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Do you accept that I'm a woman if I say I am?
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You can say you're anything you want.
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Like I just told you, I'm Wonder Woman, so.
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Today I've decided that I am a black gay woman because it's 2018 and who are you to tell me what I can't be?
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Let's see if people agree with that mode of truth and what they think about my new appearance.
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What do you think about that?
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It says I'm a black gay woman.
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You have the right to be whoever you want to be.
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It's okay.
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If you know this, I decided that I am a black gay woman because in the state of California, I can sort of identify as whatever I want.
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Do you think that's good for our state and we should be allowed to identify as what we want?
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Yes, I do.
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Why?
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Because you should be who you want to be.
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Do you agree or disagree that I can be a black gay woman if I want to be?
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No, you can't be a gay woman.
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Well, I mean, the state of California says I could be.
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I don't care if California says it.
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I'm speaking from spirit to spirit, man to man.
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You can't be gay if you wanted to be.
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What's up?
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So, how are you doing today?
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I'm well.
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How are you?
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I'm doing great.
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What's your name?
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Pasquale.
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Today I'm identifying as a black gay woman.
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Do you accept that?
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I think it depends on the way that you can acknowledge what those all mean individually, like what it means to be black, what it means to be gay, what it means to be a woman.
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And I think if you associate yourself with the culture and that you know what the culture stands for, that's okay.
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But if you're just wearing it just for wearing it, that's kind of offensive.
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Yeah, it's slightly offensive, right?
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And so like as a black gay woman, would I be able to join the NAACP?
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After tanning for about a couple of years, keep straight.
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Like don't even sleep.
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Just sit under the sun.
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When the sun rises, you are there.
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When the sun sets, you're still there.
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Like if I'm a man and I change myself in my mind to a woman, does that make me a woman?
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If you change, like if you get your penis cut off, is that what you're talking about?
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Sure.
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Well, no, they don't even need, you don't even have to actually get the surgery anymore.
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They just said in your mind, if you declare that you are, then you are.
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Is that true?
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No, that's not true.
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It can't be that way.
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All right, so you're in college and you're looking at me right now.
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I mean, you have eyes, right?
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You're not blind?
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No, no.
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And you're accepting that I am a black gay woman.
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Yes.
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Why?
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You said you wanted to be one, so I guess that's what you are.
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Okay, so if I wanted to be a bicycle, would you agree that I'm a bicycle?
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I mean, I guess in my head, I wouldn't walk past you and think he's a bicycle.
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But if you kept telling me you were a bicycle, I guess I would just, in my head, let you be a bicycle.
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But the truth of the matter is I'm not wearing it just to wear it.
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It's more like I just got kind of confused because I had seen some people that were transracial.
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Have you heard about that?
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And so there's this kind of like cross-crossing.
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Can people be transracial?
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Yeah, what's your sexual preference?
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I don't have one.
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You don't have one?
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Trisexual.
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Trisexual.
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Is that a thing?
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You like that?
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I've never even heard of it.
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I try everything until I like it.
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Really?
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I've never even heard of that one.
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I just made it up.
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Do you consider yourself a straight man?
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I'm a straight man.
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If you're a white gay guy, a black gay woman, whatever you are, I'm still going to be a straight man.
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Right.
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So then if I'm a woman, would you sleep with me?
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Nah, man.
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Yeah, man.
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You said I could be a woman.
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You can be a woman.
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Don't you like women?
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I love women.
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So why wouldn't you sleep with me?
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It's just too much hair on the chin, man.
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If I shaved, would you?
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You got to shave forever.
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Isn't that kind of like the interesting thing?
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Like the kind of contradiction is we say, okay, you could be a woman, but then I like a woman, but I wouldn't sleep with you because I know secretly in my heart you're not a woman because you have a beard.
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There it is.
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And balls.
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Balls is a big part of it.
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You know, because I have balls, I can't be a woman?
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Yeah, balls is bad.
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That's what I'm saying.
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Am I really a girl just because I want to be a girl?
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No.
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You're not a girl because you don't want to be a girl.
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And I'm not really black because I just want to be black.
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But you just said that I am a black gay woman.
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You can't be that.
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You can be whatever.
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But who am I?
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Am I it to me?
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So am I it to me?
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You're not.
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In real life, I'm not a black gay woman.
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No, no.
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But in fake life.
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I guess just no one wants to hurt your feelings, wife.
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Which is like kind of not the way the real world works.
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It's not.
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Who wants somebody and who wants to be a friend of somebody who you can't actually hurt their feelings?
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Yeah, that's been an issue in our friendship with our friend as well.
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He gets his feelings hurt if he's not referred to.
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What a wuss.
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Play the way he wants to be.
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Right, which is which is being sort of like making the whole world revolve around you, which is what we have is a self-entitled generation where people not only want to live the life they want to live, they want to force you to accept it.
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And I think that that's weird, right?
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I mean, look, if you want to do what you want to do, that's fine, but why should I be allowed to accept, like, why do I have to accept it?
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Hold on one second.
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Hey, Daryl.
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Daryl.
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He's on the bike.
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Yeah, Daryl, Daryl.
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He has a good opinion on this?
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I want him to say something on this.
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Daryl, Daryl, Daryl, Daryl, Daryl, Daryl, we got a good, Daryl's got the wisdom, yeah?
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No, I ain't got the wisdom.
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I got the wisdom.
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I'm just telling you what you're able to do and what you're unable to do.
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There's actually a movement that's out that talks about men having periods.
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Well, there are some men that act like bitches.
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Can I say that on your phone?
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Yeah, this is the internet.
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Who gets to decide whether I'm black or not?
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Someone who's black.
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So a black person does?
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But my roommate's black, and he's okay with it.
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Okay.
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So does he speak for all black people?
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He's not, no.
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So then who's the black spokesman?
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There's none.
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Are you a girl or a boy?
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A girl.
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You're born a girl?
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Yeah.
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Okay, so I was born a boy, but today I identify as a black gay woman.
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Do you accept me for that?
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Yeah, why not?
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I mean, because, like, what do I look like?
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Um, white and man, yeah.
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Okay, but I said I'm a black gay woman, so is me saying I'm a black gay woman, does that, would you still accept me?
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Yeah.
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Why not?
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Like, I'm open mind, so I don't judge people.
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Like, I'm gonna accept you.
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Like, it doesn't matter for me, like, it's okay.
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Do you disagree or agree that I can be a black gay woman?
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You can be anything you want.
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Why?
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Because I said so.
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And what is your opinion?
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And I think I'm wonder flipping woman, so there you go.
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That's a pretty bold statement.
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I like it.
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I was gonna give you respect that.
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I'll give you, oh, the Nux.
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Good.
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You don't leave me hanging.
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Okay, great.
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And so, so then the question is, I mean, as a black gay woman, can I join the NAACP because I identify as black?
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You'd have to ask them.
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I'm a part of an organization called St. John's, and they give free health care, and they support transgenders.
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What does it have to do with me being a self-identified woman?
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Well, it means that you like the same sex.
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But if I'm a woman, but I still like women, am I a lesbian?
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I believe.
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If I still like woman, and I am a woman, and I'm black, you have to accept that in the state of California.
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Do you want to accept that?
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That's a tough question, but I believe that you are a lesbian if you like other women.
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This is your mission in life, to prove them wrong.
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So I'm going to sell you a dress real quick.
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We're going to put you in some high heels.
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You know, get you an Afro wig, and today you will be a gay black woman.
