Overbearing moms and absent dads, or in the Jewish case, nebbish fathers. And, you know, like Jewish, my Jewish friends always call their marriages are like lion taming, you know, where you have a sort of nebish, scholarly, bookish dad and a larger-than-life mom who, you know, one day decides she's going to be a rabbi. You know, that, or in the black community, of course, it's the fatherlessness.