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[00:07:50] So in order for a guy to go on just a date with you? [00:07:54] Yeah. [00:07:56] A little out of your budget, or no, I you would have to pay me to go on a date with you, let me tell you that much. [00:08:03] But, um, okay, but I would say this well, I want to get everybody's intros out of the way. [00:08:10] Uh, so you do OnlyFans, I don't. [00:08:13] You're a sugar baby, then I can be a sugar baby, yeah, yeah, we can label it as that. [00:08:20] Okay, do you do any porn? [00:08:21] Do you do porn or anything? [00:08:22] No, no, any sexual, nothing's online. [00:08:26] I do offer like video call services, but it's more of like a um. [00:08:31] More of like a therapy session than anything. [00:08:35] Okay. [00:08:35] Yeah. [00:08:38] So no sex work. [00:08:40] Yeah, no, no, just fighting the male loneliness epidemic over here. [00:08:45] Right, yeah. [00:08:46] Yeah, I'm sure. [00:08:48] Thank you. [00:08:49] I didn't compliment you, but okay. [00:08:52] So, what do you do for work? [00:08:55] That's it. [00:08:56] That's it. [00:08:57] That's what I do. [00:08:57] I'm also putting out a few different books, and I have an LLC that I'm starting as well. [00:09:02] What is the LLC? [00:09:04] It's for like waitressing, but it's like it's more of like a party waitress. [00:09:10] So, like, lingerie, topless, nude, bikini girls. [00:09:13] Like, if you're having a bachelor party, or maybe you're just having some drinks and watching football, whatever, you know? [00:09:22] Yeah. [00:09:23] Yeah. [00:09:24] Okay. [00:09:25] It's funny that you said like LLC, you have an LLC. [00:09:29] Like, that is as if that is descriptive of like an LLC can be a company for literally anything. [00:09:35] Yeah. [00:09:36] So, if I ask what you do, I have an LLC. [00:09:38] Okay, do you have a janitorial LLC? [00:09:41] Do you have what? [00:09:42] Like, do you make bake cookies? [00:09:44] Like, no, it's an advertising platform. [00:09:47] So, it allows the instead of going through agents that take 70% of these girls' pay per hour, they would be able to take 100% of each job that they go on to and just pay for advertising on my platform instead. [00:10:02] Okay. === LLC Business Questions (10:37) === [00:10:03] And wait, what is it? [00:10:04] It's like a modeling thing? [00:10:05] Yeah, so it's like an advertising forum, much like Upwork, but instead of for. [00:10:10] You know, like construction type services, it would be for entertainment services. [00:10:16] So they just have a profile to advertise, and the clients can contact them directly. [00:10:22] Okay. [00:10:23] Where are you from? [00:10:27] Long Beach. [00:10:29] Yeah. [00:10:30] Education? [00:10:31] Some college. [00:10:32] I've studied various topics. [00:10:35] Yeah. [00:10:37] When's the last time? [00:10:37] Business, nursing. [00:10:39] When's the last time you did college? [00:10:41] Three years ago. [00:10:42] Okay. [00:10:43] Do you have a degree? [00:10:44] I don't. [00:10:45] I don't complete them, but I do start a lot of them. [00:10:49] All right. [00:10:49] Okay. [00:10:50] What about you? [00:10:51] Hi, I'm Christina and 21 years old. [00:10:54] I'm from Los Angeles and I'm still a student. [00:10:58] I study sociology. [00:11:02] All right. [00:11:03] You go to university? [00:11:05] Yeah. [00:11:06] Online or in person? [00:11:07] In person. [00:11:08] Okay. [00:11:09] So UCLA or USC? [00:11:11] UCLA. [00:11:11] I have some online classes. [00:11:13] What year are you? [00:11:15] A sophomore. [00:11:16] Sophomore. [00:11:17] Okay. [00:11:17] And where are you from originally? [00:11:20] I was born in Beijing. [00:11:22] Beijing, China. [00:11:22] Okay. [00:11:23] You speak Mandarin? [00:11:25] Any Cantonese? [00:11:26] No. [00:11:27] No, just Mandarin. [00:11:28] Okay. [00:11:29] And how long have you been in the United States? [00:11:33] Actually, I studied in San Francisco since I was in middle school. [00:11:38] And then my family just did immigration. [00:11:41] So you've been living in the U.S. since middle school? [00:11:43] Yeah. [00:11:44] Okay. [00:11:45] All right. [00:11:47] And so you moved here. [00:11:48] Do you know what year you moved here? [00:11:51] Uh, moved to LA or the U.S., I think it's the U.S. 2016, 2016, 2016, yeah, 2016. [00:12:02] Okay, and that's when you were in middle school, mm hmm. [00:12:07] Okay, got it. [00:12:09] Uh, what do your parents do? [00:12:11] Uh, my mom, she's a director like in CCTV, you know that, like a Chinese something. [00:12:17] And sorry, the what CCTV, what's that? [00:12:20] It's like, um A TV show and it's for the Chinese New Year. [00:12:28] So my mom is a director for that. [00:12:30] And my dad. [00:12:31] Both your parents are in the US? [00:12:33] No, just my mom. [00:12:34] Just your mom, okay. [00:12:35] And your dad? [00:12:36] My dad, he has his own company and does some business, but it's work with the government. [00:12:43] In Beijing? [00:12:45] Yeah, in Beijing and Shanghai. [00:12:46] Shanghai, okay. [00:12:48] All right, gotcha. [00:12:50] And you're 21? [00:12:51] I'm 21. [00:12:53] I'm turning to 22. [00:12:56] Well, the reason I give you, I raise an eyebrow. [00:13:00] I noticed on your Instagram, and I mean, look, people do drink underage, but there's some Instagram stories of you from like three, four years ago, like drinking wine, drinking alcohol at either bars or clubs or restaurants. [00:13:19] Now people get fake IDs, people drink underage. [00:13:23] But are you actually 21? [00:13:25] Yeah, I'm 21. [00:13:26] Do you have an ID on you? [00:13:28] I can shoot a picture later on my phone. [00:13:30] Okay. [00:13:31] I was born in 2004. [00:13:33] 2004. [00:13:33] So I'm turning to 22, but right now it's still 21. [00:13:37] Okay. [00:13:37] All right. [00:13:38] Gotcha. [00:13:39] Because I don't know. [00:13:39] Sometimes I'm like, I saw those, like, obviously you can drink when you're younger, but so you are 21 though. [00:13:47] Yeah. [00:13:48] Okay. [00:13:48] All right. [00:13:49] What about you? [00:13:51] My name is Niobe Neal and I'm 22. [00:13:53] I'm from Portland, Oregon and I do OnlyFans for work. [00:13:58] All right. [00:13:58] Any school, education? [00:14:00] I went to Cleveland High School and I graduated from there, but I haven't gotten to college. [00:14:08] At all? [00:14:08] No college? [00:14:09] Okay. [00:14:09] All right. [00:14:11] All right. [00:14:11] And you do OnlyFans? [00:14:12] Yes. [00:14:13] How long have you been doing that for? [00:14:14] Probably since I was 18. [00:14:16] Since you're 18? [00:14:17] Okay. [00:14:18] All right. [00:14:19] When did you, like, a month after you turned 18, right when you turned 18? [00:14:23] Probably like a few days after. [00:14:25] A few days after? [00:14:27] Yeah. [00:14:27] So you were like 17, planning to start? [00:14:32] Yes. [00:14:33] Okay. [00:14:34] Was it somebody's idea, like a boyfriend? [00:14:36] Yeah. [00:14:38] A boyfriend's idea? [00:14:39] Yeah. [00:14:39] Are you still dating him? [00:14:40] No. [00:14:41] I don't talk to him anymore. [00:14:43] And this was like a high school boyfriend you had, or? [00:14:46] Well, I was 18 and he was 31. [00:14:48] So you kind of can do the math on that. [00:14:52] Wait, but I'm a bit confused. [00:14:53] You said you started a few days after 18. [00:14:56] Yeah. [00:14:56] So you were dating him when you were 17? [00:14:58] Yes. [00:15:00] Yikes. [00:15:01] That's a. [00:15:04] 31. [00:15:05] I mean, I mean. [00:15:08] Yeah. [00:15:10] Wait, how long were you dating him for? [00:15:12] I want to say three years. [00:15:14] Whoa. [00:15:14] Wait, hold on. [00:15:15] Bigger yikes. [00:15:16] When did you start dating him? [00:15:17] 17. [00:15:18] Oh, at 17. [00:15:19] Yes, yes. [00:15:19] Sorry, guys. [00:15:20] I mean, still bad. [00:15:22] Well, I know, like, I still think, like, anyone who's an adult, like, yeah, dating somebody who's below 18, that's like, yikes. [00:15:37] Yeah. [00:15:37] But I know some states have, like, different. [00:15:41] Like, statute of what is it? [00:15:43] The age of consent or whatever? [00:15:45] Yeah. [00:15:45] So, you're in Washington? [00:15:46] I am, yes. [00:15:48] What's the age of consent in Washington? [00:15:50] I think it's 16. [00:15:51] It's 16? [00:15:52] It's still, I don't know. [00:15:54] Yeah. [00:15:54] Here in California, it's 18. [00:15:56] I think it's still weird. [00:15:56] Like, if you're 31 and you're dating somebody who's 17. [00:16:01] But, okay, I guess technically not illegal then? [00:16:04] Technically not illegal in Washington? [00:16:07] Yes. [00:16:08] Okay. [00:16:09] And, well, here's where it's still weird though. [00:16:12] So, when you were a minor, you know what is illegal though to do is to like produce adult content. [00:16:20] Yes. [00:16:20] Prior, like if you're under 18. [00:16:22] Yeah. [00:16:23] So, it is kind of weird for an adult, 31 year old, to be suggesting when you're still a minor to start producing adult content. [00:16:33] Like, even though technically, like, okay, Washington age of consent or whatever, across all states in the United States, you have to be 18. [00:16:43] To do any kind of adult content, yeah, so that's still pretty yikes. [00:16:50] I don't know, chat, what do you guys think? [00:16:52] That's so yikes! [00:16:53] That's pretty. [00:16:54] I don't know. [00:16:54] I didn't have like the best childhood growing up, and I kind of didn't have like a financial option when I was 17. [00:17:02] So that was kind of my option. [00:17:06] Yeah. [00:17:08] You're Blazian, correct? [00:17:09] Yeah. [00:17:11] Dad, black? [00:17:13] I'm adopted, so I don't know. [00:17:15] Oh, you're adopted? [00:17:16] Yeah. [00:17:17] Okay. [00:17:17] Are your parents white? [00:17:19] Yeah. [00:17:20] Both white? [00:17:20] Yeah. [00:17:21] You're adopted? [00:17:22] Yeah. [00:17:24] So, okay. [00:17:26] You're Japanese? [00:17:27] Yes. [00:17:27] And black? [00:17:28] Yes. [00:17:29] Was this. [00:17:29] Wait. [00:17:30] I was about to say, like, World War II? [00:17:33] That would make zero fucking sense. [00:17:35] Although there are. [00:17:35] We still have, like, what, a base in Okinawa? [00:17:37] Yeah, I was born in Okinawa. [00:17:39] You were born in Okinawa? [00:17:39] Yeah. [00:17:40] Okay, so let me. [00:17:41] Here, let me guess. [00:17:43] Black soldier? [00:17:44] Yes. [00:17:45] Japanese citizen? [00:17:47] I'm not sure on the, like, actual details, but I'm pretty sure that's what happened. [00:17:53] Damn. [00:17:54] Have you tried to, like, track down your. [00:17:56] Parents, or you don't know who they are? [00:17:58] Um, I tried to find my mom, but she's dead, and I don't know where my dad is. [00:18:04] Your mom's dead, yeah. [00:18:06] Damn, what the, yeah, not like not to like ruin the mood, but like, sorry, okay, all right, um, okay, uh, good times, good times, okay. [00:18:17] So, your boyfriend, three year boyfriend, you're not dating him anymore, no, okay, he got you into the OF, yeah. [00:18:26] What about you? [00:18:27] What's up? [00:18:28] It's Steezy Sammy. [00:18:30] I'm 20 years old, and my highest level of education is high school. [00:18:37] My occupation is basically looking pretty on social media and getting paid for it. [00:18:43] And I'm from the Philippines. [00:18:45] All right. [00:18:46] Like born in the Philippines? [00:18:47] All right. [00:18:49] And so you do OF? [00:18:51] Yeah. [00:18:52] Okay. [00:18:52] Any other sex work, like stripping or anything like that? [00:18:55] No, just OF. [00:18:56] Okay. [00:18:57] All right. [00:19:02] School? [00:19:03] High school. [00:19:04] No college? [00:19:05] No college. [00:19:05] Okay. [00:19:05] All right. [00:19:06] What about you? [00:19:07] Hi, I'm Ashlyn Sky. [00:19:10] I'm 30. [00:19:11] I live in Newport Beach and I do social media and OnlyFans. [00:19:14] Any education? [00:19:16] Just high school. [00:19:17] Just high school. [00:19:18] Okay. [00:19:18] No college? [00:19:19] Not even the semester or anything like that? [00:19:21] You said you do OnlyFans? [00:19:23] Yeah. [00:19:24] All right. [00:19:26] Okay. [00:19:29] What about you? [00:19:31] Hi, I'm Chloe Yummy. [00:19:40] I'm 19 and I'm a streamer, like an IRL streamer, and I do OnlyFans and Instagram. [00:19:51] Yeah, but I actually want to move to Kick. [00:19:55] Right now I'm on Twitch, but I keep getting banned on Twitch, so. [00:20:02] They will do that. [00:20:03] All right, what about you? [00:20:05] Hi, I'm Jez. [00:20:06] I'm 29. [00:20:07] I'm from Minnesota, but I live in Indiana. [00:20:11] I just work like in retail. [00:20:12] That's all I've done, pretty much. [00:20:16] And then high school diploma, no college or anything. [00:20:18] Okay, what next? [00:20:21] Hi, I'm Kiko. [00:20:23] I'm 34. [00:20:24] I'm the co founder of a tech startup, and we are building an evolving map of what the world actually thinks. [00:20:31] I'm Chinese. [00:20:32] I grew up in New Zealand, and I came here for college, and then I was away for 10 years. [00:20:37] Just got back in 2025. === Guest Introductions (02:47) === [00:20:41] Okay, all right, next. [00:20:43] Hi, my name is Zakia, also known as Locked In with Zaza. [00:20:47] I'm 26, originally from Chicago, but I now live in Houston, and I'm a stay at home wife. [00:20:55] All right. [00:20:56] Yeah. [00:20:58] Hello, I'm Courtney King. [00:20:59] I'm 25. [00:21:01] I live in Florida and Los Angeles. [00:21:03] I'm like in between two weeks in each one. [00:21:06] I dropped out of college last month because I started making more money than their annual salary. [00:21:13] And what else? [00:21:15] That's it. [00:21:16] Oh, and I'm pregnant. [00:21:19] Happy birthday, Brian. [00:21:20] And nobody knows yet. [00:21:23] How far along are you? [00:21:24] Three months. [00:21:26] Or, well, like two months and a half. [00:21:29] So, baby number four? [00:21:32] Yeah. [00:21:33] And wait, remind me. [00:21:35] Well, actually, we'll get to that later. [00:21:36] Okay. [00:21:37] Did you say education for you two? [00:21:39] No, some college. [00:21:40] Some college. [00:21:41] What about you? [00:21:42] Oh, me? [00:21:43] College, undergrad. [00:21:45] Okay. [00:21:46] All right. [00:21:46] Got it. [00:21:47] All right. [00:21:47] We have a TTS coming through here. [00:21:49] Thank you, Adzils. [00:21:50] Adzils donated $200. [00:21:53] Ye O'Brien, your favorite. [00:21:55] This is Bats. [00:21:56] Couldn't pass without Adorno. [00:21:58] Happy birthday, brother. [00:22:00] Looking forward to your cameo in Michael, part two in the Netherlands scenes. [00:22:05] Tell the story, hashtag Michael is king. [00:22:09] Thank you, man. [00:22:09] Adzils, thank you very much. [00:22:10] Appreciate the TTS. [00:22:14] Thank you, Adzils. [00:22:15] We also have a read that I'm just going to do now. [00:22:23] What? [00:22:24] Oh, shit. [00:22:24] This is for Lexi's garbage. [00:22:27] Chloe, can you read this? [00:22:29] Lexi, what is the definition of cheating and when is the last time you cheated? [00:22:34] Maybe you can tell the truth today. [00:22:37] If you haven't received it yet, check your mail for letters from my attorney. [00:22:42] Okay. [00:22:44] Well, shit. [00:22:46] Yeah, by the way, guys, that's Lexi, but she was late. [00:22:51] So instead of turning her away, this is indentured servitude. [00:22:56] She's technically my slave at this point. [00:22:59] And she's going to be the water girl. [00:23:02] For the show, so if anybody needs a refreshment, they're gonna, you know, shake their cup. [00:23:07] She's gonna get a cup. [00:23:08] I told her she was supposed to dance, she's supposed to like dance back there. [00:23:11] Do the robot, do the robot. [00:23:15] We need Gustavo back, so I don't know. [00:23:17] I'm getting creative here. [00:23:19] I'm getting creative here with the people running late. [00:23:22] They get punished, I guess. [00:23:24] They get punishments now. [00:23:26] So, okay, there's Lexi. === Paid Date Dynamics (09:31) === [00:23:28] And then if somebody gets up, you know, she'll take the seat and she can talk for a little bit. [00:23:33] So, there's that. [00:23:35] Okay. [00:23:36] Why don't you guys tell us? [00:23:39] Yeah, we need to get those pulled like way sooner, by the way. [00:23:44] All right. [00:23:45] Why don't you guys tell us your relationship status, starting with you? [00:23:50] Permanently single. [00:23:53] Permanently single, what does that mean? [00:23:55] It means it's me, myself, and I out here outside of when my rent's getting paid. [00:24:03] Okay, so you're permanently single. [00:24:06] Yeah. [00:24:07] So when's the last time you went on a date? [00:24:10] I go on dates all the time. [00:24:13] I went on one maybe like two nights ago. [00:24:16] Okay. [00:24:16] But what? [00:24:17] So, when you say you're permanently single, why? [00:24:20] I just feel like in today's day and age, I just don't really have time. [00:24:25] I don't have time to traditionally date. [00:24:29] Everything's so expensive. [00:24:31] It doesn't make sense for me to go anywhere unless they're helping a girl out. [00:24:37] So, yeah. [00:24:43] Right. [00:24:43] Okay. [00:24:46] When's the last? [00:24:47] How long? [00:24:47] You know what? [00:24:48] Yeah, yeah. [00:24:48] How long have you been celibate? [00:24:51] Celibate? [00:24:52] No, I put out. [00:24:52] I like to have a good time. [00:24:54] For money? [00:24:56] It's not for money, but it's for my time. [00:24:58] I get paid for my time, but I'm down to have a good time. [00:25:01] Well, yeah, yeah. [00:25:02] I guess as a clarifying question, then when you get paid to go on the dates, you go on the dates and you guys talk and. [00:25:10] Enjoy each other's company and you go to the bowling alley or you do whatever activity is right. [00:25:16] Uh, but towards the end of the night, part of that includes having sex, not necessarily. [00:25:24] Well, not always, right? [00:25:25] They might not want to, I may not want to, or maybe we want to and we get it done. [00:25:30] It's just kind of like, yeah, whatever happens, happens, get it out the way, I guess. [00:25:35] Okay, I mean, I didn't say that, but well, you said get it done, yeah, get it done. [00:25:41] Get it done. [00:25:43] She starts having sex and she can't wait to get it over with. [00:25:47] That's an interesting attitude. [00:25:52] But you will go on a date, you will receive money, and on these dates, sometimes, not always, you do have sex with the men. [00:25:59] I'm open to it, yes. [00:26:00] But there have been dates where you've gone on a date with a guy, you had sex with him, and then he gave you money afterwards. [00:26:08] No, I get paid when I get there. [00:26:09] It's for my time. [00:26:10] You get paid at the beginning? [00:26:11] Yeah, as soon as I arrive. [00:26:13] But okay, so then there have been dates where you go on the date, they give you money, and then you have sex. [00:26:18] No, it's mostly like most people just want company. [00:26:22] So there really is a loneliness epidemic going out here. [00:26:25] There's also instances where it's like high profile individuals and they don't feel comfortable going out with people, per se, off like Tinder, right? [00:26:34] So for me, it's like I'm not going to blow up their phone, I'm not going to show up at their house uninvited. [00:26:42] And you know, some people have had pretty extreme experiences. [00:26:47] With dating. [00:26:49] High profile. [00:26:50] Yeah. [00:26:51] So, what, celebrities or? [00:26:53] Yeah, politicians, doctors, literally anybody and their mom, really. [00:27:01] Okay. [00:27:03] It's fun. [00:27:04] Yeah, and their mom. [00:27:05] So, okay, but I guess ultimately, I understand that sometimes these guys just go get dinner with you or whatever. [00:27:12] The question is, though, are some of these dates you show up, they give you money, And then you sleep with them, you have sex with them? [00:27:21] No, so they give me money for showing up. [00:27:24] The sex part is not a guarantee. [00:27:27] I understand that. [00:27:28] Yeah, yeah. [00:27:29] But yeah, I have. [00:27:31] You have. [00:27:32] And then sometimes you charge them extra for more of your time. [00:27:38] Oh, yeah. [00:27:38] If I'm going to stay longer, then because it's for my time, so it's by the hour. [00:27:45] So if they want me to stay longer, then it's per hour. [00:27:48] Yeah. [00:27:49] Okay, so let's say that it's going good, and originally it was just for dinner, and they were going to put down two hours. [00:27:56] And then they're like, hey, and you want to do this. [00:27:59] You want to go back to their place. [00:28:01] They want you to go back to their place. [00:28:02] You agree. [00:28:04] And then you say, well, it's going to be another $200 or however much it is. [00:28:09] Right? [00:28:09] If it's past the original time that we had set, then it would be, I would let them know, like, hey, if you want me to stay longer, it's going to be more. [00:28:20] That's kind of how they go down. [00:28:22] Do they pay it again up front? [00:28:24] Yeah. [00:28:24] Or then, like. [00:28:25] Everything's up front, never at the end. [00:28:27] Okay. [00:28:29] So, you're a prostitute? [00:28:32] No. [00:28:33] Yes. [00:28:34] I'm rent a girlfriend. [00:28:36] Well. [00:28:36] They even have a website. [00:28:38] It's called Rent a Friend. [00:28:41] Rent a. [00:28:41] Yeah, people are lonely out here. [00:28:43] And there's a lot of people that have been traumatized as well. [00:28:46] Like, you know, just like domestic issues going on out here in the community. [00:28:53] Yeah. [00:28:53] So it's like I provide a safe space for people. [00:28:56] And it's a safe space for me as well. [00:28:58] So it really helps both parties, I feel like. [00:29:02] Right. [00:29:03] I mean, I'm not even. [00:29:04] At this point, I'm not even making. [00:29:05] I'm not standing on Figueroa, but. [00:29:08] Okay. [00:29:09] So at this point, I'm not even. [00:29:10] Yet, leveling a criticism, I'm just defining what it is you do, which is prostitution. [00:29:16] Uh, no, prostitution is soliciting sex, I solicit my time. [00:29:21] So, you okay, do you prefer this escort? [00:29:25] Um, I mean, it's not as abrasive as like calling me a prostitute, but it's still, I mean, it's not my favorite uh terminology. [00:29:36] I'm like a high paid therapist with extras available, but not intended. [00:29:43] Yeah. [00:29:43] Yeah, so I mean, look, we can sugarcoat and we can use. [00:29:48] Sprinkle. [00:29:49] Yeah, we can use flowery language to try to paint something in a more good light way. [00:29:58] But ultimately, if you break down what you're doing, it is prostitution, in fact. [00:30:04] I don't know about all that, but I appreciate the input. [00:30:09] Are you sick? [00:30:10] Or is that just how you. [00:30:12] This is how I sound. [00:30:14] This is me. [00:30:14] All right. [00:30:16] Okay. [00:30:16] Well, I guess we can come back. [00:30:18] So, have you ever been in a relationship? [00:30:20] I have. [00:30:21] It's been a long time ago, though. [00:30:23] It wasn't, it was probably the worst case scenario for a woman, that relationship was, which might be partially in line with why I'm where I am today with everything. [00:30:38] How long were you in the relationship for? [00:30:40] It was two years. [00:30:42] Okay. [00:30:43] Yeah. [00:30:43] He was seeing everybody and their mom outside of me as well. [00:30:49] So it was one of those, along with stealing funds and, you know, being handsy. [00:30:57] So it was interesting. [00:30:59] Not my favorite time. [00:31:01] I prefer how I go about things now. [00:31:03] People are way more respectful and grateful for my presence. [00:31:08] So I appreciate that. [00:31:09] You said he was sleeping with your mom? [00:31:12] No, he was sleeping with everybody and their mom. [00:31:14] Just literally anyone and anything. [00:31:16] Oh, and talked. [00:31:17] Not your mom, though. [00:31:18] And talked. [00:31:18] No. [00:31:19] Okay. [00:31:20] I mean, look. [00:31:20] Not that crazy. [00:31:21] That sounds crazy, but we've actually had women on the show who their boyfriend either tried to get with their mom or did, in fact, get with their mom. [00:31:29] I'm sure. [00:31:30] So, okay. [00:31:32] All right. [00:31:33] Am I allowed to ask a follow up question based on what she said, or is that allowed? [00:31:39] Sure, but if it's irrelevant, I'll. [00:31:42] Oh, it's relevant. [00:31:43] It's relevant. [00:31:43] Well, if it's uninteresting, I should say. [00:31:46] Yeah. [00:31:47] So you've mentioned that you are a therapist. [00:31:50] To solve the male loneliness epidemic. [00:31:52] So, when people reach out to you, how do you decide which patient or which client to treat? [00:31:57] How do you know he's the loneliest and you won't go on a date with him? [00:32:02] Well, just as a point of clarity, she's not literally a therapist. [00:32:05] Oh, no, I know. [00:32:06] Okay. [00:32:06] I know. [00:32:08] Yeah. [00:32:09] How do you decide? [00:32:11] Yeah, no, it's just as long as I feel safe and they're kind, I'm happy to partake in the adventure. [00:32:19] So, is it more about making them feel less lonely or is it more about? [00:32:24] I have really good sociology insight and pattern recognition. [00:32:30] So, you know, people come to me and they kind of vent and confide in me with the things that they're struggling with. [00:32:35] And there's been a lot of times where the things that I've learned and my struggles and sharing it with them, there's such a level of like relief that they have after. [00:32:46] And like I get to see in real time them making those connections that make all of the difference in their perception of what's going on around them, you know? [00:32:58] All right. === Current Relationship Status (08:03) === [00:32:59] Relationship status? [00:33:01] I'm not saying I'm single for now, but I have some like casual things. [00:33:06] Relationship and situations? [00:33:08] Currently. [00:33:09] Uh huh. [00:33:10] Okay. [00:33:11] Have you ever had a relationship? [00:33:14] Yeah, before, like a long time. [00:33:16] One year, one and more years ago. [00:33:19] One year ago? [00:33:20] One and a half years ago. [00:33:22] How long? [00:33:24] Only six months. [00:33:25] And that's the longest relationship you've had? [00:33:28] Yeah. [00:33:28] Okay. [00:33:30] All right. [00:33:30] So currently you said you're seeing some people. [00:33:33] How many? [00:33:37] For this week or? [00:33:41] Yeah. [00:33:42] This week? [00:33:44] Two? [00:33:47] All right. [00:33:49] Okay, so you said there's like seeing some people in situationships. [00:33:54] So, how many total situationships in total do you currently have? [00:34:01] So many. [00:34:02] I think maybe more than 10. [00:34:05] 10? [00:34:06] More than 10. [00:34:07] Okay, so of the 10, more than 10, let's just say 10 for now. [00:34:11] Okay. [00:34:12] What's going on with the cameras? [00:34:15] Okay, so more than 10. [00:34:20] Of the, let's say that's just 10. [00:34:21] Of the 10, how many have you seen in the past month? [00:34:26] All of them? [00:34:27] No, I think only two or three. [00:34:31] Two and three. [00:34:33] What about the past three months? [00:34:34] Have you seen all 10 of them in the past three months? [00:34:39] Five. [00:34:40] Five, okay. [00:34:41] And then there's some maybe that live in a different city or even a country. [00:34:45] So you don't see them very regularly. [00:34:48] Are you an escort? [00:34:52] Okay. [00:34:53] Any sex work? [00:34:54] No. [00:34:56] Okay. [00:34:58] And then you went on two dates this week with different men? [00:35:03] Different men. [00:35:05] Okay. [00:35:06] And these are brand new men? [00:35:08] Like first dates? [00:35:09] I know. [00:35:10] I have dated them before. [00:35:13] Actually, you've dated them before, okay. [00:35:16] Yeah, and when just get back from the other country, why are you looking at me like that? [00:35:25] What I don't know, you've got I don't know if you're mad at me or like blank stare. [00:35:29] Sorry, it wasn't quite a blank stare, it was like a look of disgust. [00:35:32] Sorry, but I don't know, I was kind of I'm getting really mad. [00:35:35] I don't know if she's it, she's doesn't like me or she's just here. [00:35:39] I don't know, whatever. [00:35:40] I'm sorry, I'm not upset. [00:35:42] People look at me up like that all the time. [00:35:44] Uh, okay, so uh. [00:35:46] Wow, okay, so what? [00:35:50] Here, going back to you, how long have you been celibate? [00:35:53] I'm not celibate. [00:35:55] I'm down to have a good time. [00:35:56] Well, okay, when's the last time you hooked up? [00:35:59] Yesterday, today? [00:36:00] I think it was like two days ago. [00:36:02] Okay, two days ago. [00:36:02] What about you? [00:36:03] How long celibate? [00:36:09] In the last time? [00:36:11] Sex. [00:36:12] How do you say sex in Chinese? [00:36:13] Anybody? [00:36:14] So I. Last time is Friday. [00:36:20] Friday. [00:36:20] Friday. [00:36:21] And was that with one of the guys you went on a date? [00:36:24] Question Did he give you money? [00:36:27] No. [00:36:29] No. [00:36:30] But he's way older than me. [00:36:33] He's how old? [00:36:36] 37. [00:36:37] Okay. [00:36:38] Yeah. [00:36:40] What about the other guy you went on a date with? [00:36:42] How old is he? [00:36:45] We have sex Thursday. [00:36:47] Wait, you had sex with a different guy on Thursday? [00:36:50] Actually, it's midnight of Wednesday and then morning sex Thursday. [00:36:56] Wait, okay. [00:36:58] So morning sex on Thursday. [00:37:00] And then you had a date on Friday? [00:37:02] Yeah. [00:37:02] And you had sex with that guy. [00:37:03] Uh huh. [00:37:05] The other one. [00:37:09] Okay. [00:37:11] Excuse me? [00:37:12] Cool, I guess. [00:37:15] So, all right. [00:37:16] And then, how do you meet these guys? [00:37:23] Close the door, please. [00:37:25] Nathan, door, door, door. [00:37:28] No, Nathan, Nathan, Nathan, you do door. [00:37:32] Like, just because the. [00:37:38] Wait, you got to close, Nathan, because you know how to close it. [00:37:41] Just close the one, please. [00:37:43] So it's through Instagram, like social media. [00:37:46] Yeah. [00:37:50] You can leave one open. [00:37:52] All right. [00:37:52] They DM you on Instagram? [00:37:54] Uh huh. [00:37:57] Okay. [00:37:58] All right. [00:38:06] In the past month, how many dates have you been on? [00:38:09] How many dates? [00:38:10] Like, what kind of date? [00:38:11] No sex? [00:38:12] Sex. [00:38:13] Sex, yeah. [00:38:20] Five. [00:38:21] Five? [00:38:24] Okay. [00:38:24] And five? [00:38:26] Sex? [00:38:27] How do you say sex in Mandarin? [00:38:30] Yeah, that. [00:38:33] How many? [00:38:33] Five times that? [00:38:34] Whatever she said? [00:38:35] I mean, like, with five different men. [00:38:39] Yeah, five different men. [00:38:40] I don't know if that makes your case. [00:38:42] Better, but okay, cool. [00:38:45] All right, so are you not looking for anything serious? [00:38:52] I don't know, I'm just trying to figure out. [00:38:55] But you know, I don't know why. [00:38:58] Like, I always attract it for fuckboys. [00:39:03] You attract fuckboys, yeah. [00:39:08] What's the female version of a fuckboy? [00:39:11] What is that? [00:39:15] Hmm? [00:39:15] A whore? [00:39:15] Of course. [00:39:16] Whore? [00:39:16] Say it louder. [00:39:17] I said a whore. [00:39:18] Say with your chest. [00:39:19] A whore. [00:39:20] Okay. [00:39:21] All right. [00:39:23] Oh, boy. [00:39:24] Okay. [00:39:27] That is quite something. [00:39:33] And you don't do escorting? [00:39:36] You're not an escort? [00:39:38] Hmm. [00:39:39] Okay. [00:39:39] All right. [00:39:40] Nope. [00:39:41] What about you? [00:39:43] I want to say like two months ago. [00:39:45] Oh, well, relationship status. [00:39:48] Oh, well, okay. [00:39:49] I'm single. [00:39:50] Okay. [00:39:50] How long have you been single? [00:39:52] Probably over a year. [00:39:55] One year. [00:39:56] And was that the breakup from the long term boyfriend or someone else? [00:40:01] That was kind of a while ago. [00:40:02] It was somebody else, yeah. [00:40:04] How long were you dating him? [00:40:06] The crazy one or the recent one? [00:40:07] Recent one. [00:40:08] I want to say like six months. [00:40:10] Six months. [00:40:10] And the longest relationship, three years? [00:40:12] Yeah. [00:40:12] Okay. [00:40:13] All right. [00:40:14] And you said two months ago is when you. [00:40:18] Carnal knowledge had sex? [00:40:20] Yeah, yeah. [00:40:21] All right. [00:40:22] Okay. [00:40:24] Are there any guys in the picture currently? [00:40:26] No. [00:40:26] No guys? [00:40:27] No guys. [00:40:28] Zero guys? [00:40:28] Zero guys. [00:40:29] Zero dudes? [00:40:30] Zero dudes. [00:40:30] What about women? [00:40:32] Any ladies? [00:40:33] I'm open to it, but no, sadly. [00:40:37] You're not? [00:40:37] So you're bisexual? [00:40:39] What about you? [00:40:39] Bisexual? [00:40:40] No. [00:40:41] Straight? [00:40:41] I'm straight. [00:40:43] I'm here to have a good time. [00:40:44] Yeah. [00:40:46] So you fuck trannies, okay? [00:40:48] What about you? [00:40:49] I'm single. [00:40:50] Okay, how long have you been single? [00:40:54] For a year and a half now. [00:40:57] All right. [00:40:58] Longest relationship? [00:41:00] A year and a half. [00:41:00] A year and a half. === Sexual Orientation Talk (11:04) === [00:41:02] How do you like to know? [00:41:02] I don't know why you're asking these questions. [00:41:06] You know this how I'm asking everybody these questions? [00:41:09] Well, yeah, but what does that pertain to dating? [00:41:13] What does your relationship status pertain to dating? [00:41:15] Yeah, like your current situation. [00:41:18] How does that? [00:41:19] You're asking about past things. [00:41:25] If you're in a history class. [00:41:27] Whoa, hold on. [00:41:29] Wait, wait. [00:41:30] Let me see if this analogy is going to make sense. [00:41:33] Okay, no, since you're asking everybody else a question, can I ask you a question? [00:41:36] If you're in a history class. [00:41:38] And I'm not. [00:41:41] See, that's an explanation from a virgin, honestly. [00:41:44] From a what? [00:41:44] From a virgin. [00:41:46] What's your question? [00:41:48] That was just a statement. [00:41:50] You said you wanted to ask me a question, though, so what is it? [00:41:53] No, fuck the question. [00:41:54] I just wanted to call you a virgin. [00:41:57] Okay. [00:41:58] Yeah. [00:41:59] Why is that? [00:42:00] Can I not say that? [00:42:01] I mean, you've been degrading some girls on the podcast. [00:42:03] Why can't we do it back? [00:42:05] I think it's fair game. [00:42:07] What have I said that's degrading? [00:42:09] I don't know, just the way that you were treating Miss Lady in the front. [00:42:12] I don't know what she's got going on over there, but. [00:42:15] She's got a nice t shirt on. [00:42:17] That's what I know. [00:42:19] Yeah, so I think upholding the standards of our production wouldn't be degrading. [00:42:27] Yeah. [00:42:28] Why don't you explain to me how it's degrading? [00:42:30] I mean, you're inviting sex workers and profiting off of them while bringing them down. [00:42:36] How am I profiting off of sex workers? [00:42:38] By using our platforms. [00:42:40] You don't think so? [00:42:41] How am I using your platform? [00:42:43] We're bringing the audience to you. [00:42:45] You're bringing our audience to us. [00:42:46] You're actually. [00:42:48] You guys don't bring any audience to us. [00:42:51] Okay, so then what are we here for? [00:42:53] Just face or what? [00:42:54] Faith? [00:42:55] Face. [00:42:56] Face. [00:42:57] Can you hear me? [00:42:58] Hello? [00:42:58] Is this working? [00:42:59] I mean, where did you drive from again? [00:43:02] That's none of your business. [00:43:04] Well, I don't really care where you're from. [00:43:07] I don't know why you're being so belligerent here at the start of the show. [00:43:11] Can I go pee? [00:43:12] Maybe it's because my bladder is full. [00:43:15] Okay, the reason I'm asking where you're from is this level of animus seems a bit disproportionate. [00:43:23] You asked me where I was from in the beginning, though, but I'm gonna go pee, so enjoy that. [00:43:30] Okay. [00:43:30] I'll be back. [00:43:32] Yeah. [00:43:37] Nathan, I need you to be very careful. [00:43:40] Like, your finger has to be ready to go for a potential thing like that. [00:43:46] Okay, I mean, there's probably a kick coming, I guess. [00:43:50] I'm shocked. [00:43:53] Okay, do any of the. [00:43:54] What do you guys think? [00:43:54] Was that a little much from her? [00:43:56] That was aggressive. [00:43:57] Yeah, definitely. [00:43:58] I think it might be like kind of like just trying to say something for Cloud. [00:44:02] Oh, yeah, maybe. [00:44:02] Yeah. [00:44:04] Right. [00:44:04] And it's your birthday, Brian. [00:44:06] Like, she should be nice to you. [00:44:08] That was a little mean. [00:44:09] Maybe a little bit. [00:44:12] I might engage her with her a little bit, but she should have probably waited. [00:44:17] Yeah, we already have a troll. [00:44:20] Yeah, chat, I'll probably kick her. [00:44:23] All right. [00:44:24] Relationship status? [00:44:26] I'm single. [00:44:28] You're single. [00:44:29] All right. [00:44:29] How long have you been single? [00:44:31] I've been single for about a year. [00:44:33] All right, one year. [00:44:34] Longest relationship? [00:44:36] Six years. [00:44:37] Six years. [00:44:38] All right. [00:44:41] How long celibate? [00:44:43] Since I broke up with that person, so like a year. [00:44:47] Nothing for. [00:44:47] Nothing. [00:44:49] I've gone out on a date, though. [00:44:51] I recently went on a date this past month. [00:44:54] Okay. [00:44:55] All right. [00:44:57] Hold on, we have a TTS. [00:44:59] One sec. [00:45:01] The unknown soldier donated $200. [00:45:04] Wow. [00:45:05] I can count the collective IQ of the guests on my index finger. [00:45:09] I feel sorry for men still dating. [00:45:12] Nothing but bottom feeding future cat ladies left. [00:45:15] The West has fallen. [00:45:17] Kicks each for now. [00:45:19] Trust me. [00:45:20] Yeah, it's probably coming. [00:45:21] Hold on, I'll be right back. [00:45:23] Courtney, ask a question or something. [00:45:25] To them? [00:45:27] Okay. [00:45:30] Thoughts and opinions on Brian, everybody, you first. [00:45:34] I really love this t shirt that he pulled out of the back for me. [00:45:37] It's really cute. [00:45:38] I think it's cute actually. [00:45:39] You look great. [00:45:40] You look cute. [00:45:41] Thank you. [00:45:42] Yeah. [00:45:43] All right. [00:45:43] You? [00:45:44] Me? [00:45:44] Yeah. [00:45:45] About him? [00:45:46] About, yeah. [00:45:46] What are your thoughts and opinions of Brian? [00:45:49] I don't know. [00:45:50] I don't really know him right now. [00:45:51] It's just off the bat. [00:45:52] Like, since what you've seen so far. [00:45:55] I think he's kind. [00:45:57] Yeah. [00:45:58] All right. [00:45:58] Lexi, it is right here. [00:45:59] This is my second time here. [00:46:01] I think. [00:46:08] Yeah. [00:46:08] All right. [00:46:10] I think that what I've seen, Brian is a rage baiter a little bit. [00:46:15] I think that sometimes he will like to push the agenda of an argument. [00:46:21] But other than that. [00:46:22] What are you doing to the thing? [00:46:26] No, Take it back. [00:46:26] Not right now. [00:46:31] We can't have. [00:46:31] People don't eat at the table at the moment. [00:46:34] So it's like timed when we can eat? [00:46:38] Just not right now. [00:46:39] Okay. [00:46:40] Yeah. [00:46:41] Gotta get to work, slaves. [00:46:42] Come on. [00:46:43] Damn. [00:46:45] Yeah, what's with the attitude? [00:46:46] What do you mean, attitude? [00:46:47] This is just who I am. [00:46:50] Normally, people wait a little bit to troll. [00:46:54] I'm not trolling. [00:46:55] Because, I mean, it's just kind of like if I'm just gonna kick you off at the beginning, like you don't get much out of it. [00:47:00] Did I strike a nerve or what happened? [00:47:02] Because if it didn't bother you, then. [00:47:04] No, it didn't really strike a nerve, but it's. [00:47:07] If you're just gonna troll, like I don't really. [00:47:10] It's okay to have a bit of banter, but if you're just going to troll, it's like there's no point in having you on the show. [00:47:14] I don't think she's trolling. [00:47:15] I think she might just be a bitch. [00:47:18] I just think you don't really have too much going on there. [00:47:21] Pregnancy brain. [00:47:21] What's going on, girl? [00:47:22] No. [00:47:23] Okay, let's be nice. [00:47:24] Please. [00:47:24] Okay. [00:47:25] Yeah, I'm sorry. [00:47:25] That was really mean. [00:47:26] No, I think that was fair, Courtney, to be honest. [00:47:29] I don't like you're defending him, and he literally just made a comment about your baby earlier. [00:47:34] Did you clock that? [00:47:35] I did clock that, but I also was going to say it because it's his birthday. [00:47:40] Okay. [00:47:41] She is, in fact, pregnant. [00:47:44] Yeah. [00:47:44] This is his show. [00:47:45] You agreed to be on it. [00:47:46] Yeah. [00:47:48] I noticed you yourself, though, have a scar on your stomach. [00:47:50] What's that? [00:47:52] It's from an accident. [00:47:53] I got shot when I was 17. [00:47:55] Damn. [00:47:56] Yeah. [00:47:57] Why did you get shot? [00:47:58] It was a house party. [00:47:59] It was an accident. [00:48:00] So it was like an accidental. [00:48:01] Yeah. [00:48:02] Pretty much. [00:48:03] They weren't trying to shoot you? [00:48:05] No. [00:48:09] Huh. [00:48:09] Are you, like, looking for an insult in that or. [00:48:11] No, I'm just curious. [00:48:13] Oh, okay. [00:48:14] I noticed the scar, so. [00:48:17] Well, thanks for asking, I guess. [00:48:18] I don't know. [00:48:20] Yeah, so, uh, you got shot, huh? [00:48:28] Was it a house party? [00:48:30] Yeah, yeah. [00:48:31] Was it white people or? [00:48:33] I mean, it was all people. [00:48:35] All people? [00:48:36] Yeah. [00:48:37] Okay. [00:48:37] Relationship status, Chloe? [00:48:40] Um, I'm single, but, um, I'm like seeing like two guys right now. [00:48:51] Okay, longest relationship? [00:48:55] Like all through high school to three years. [00:48:58] All right, what about you? [00:49:01] I'm single. [00:49:02] I've been single almost four years. [00:49:04] Okay, longest relationship? [00:49:07] Over five years. [00:49:08] All right. [00:49:09] How long have you been single for, you said? [00:49:10] Sorry. [00:49:11] June will be four years. [00:49:14] Four years single. [00:49:15] Okay. [00:49:15] But you were in an on again, off again relationship, situation, right? [00:49:21] Yeah. [00:49:21] Which just ended. [00:49:23] Yeah, like I think it was literally like last week. [00:49:27] Last week. [00:49:28] Okay. [00:49:29] So, how long celibate? [00:49:31] Well, he's the last person I was with. [00:49:33] So, like the beginning of March. [00:49:35] Oh, like a week ago? [00:49:36] Well, we talked like a week ago. [00:49:38] He wanted me to come over and I wouldn't. [00:49:42] So, he deleted me off everything. [00:49:45] Okay. [00:49:45] Chloe, how long celibate? [00:49:49] Since Coachella. [00:49:53] So, like two weeks ago, a week ago? [00:49:55] Last week? [00:49:56] Yeah. [00:49:57] And it was like the best. [00:49:59] Like, I were. [00:50:00] It was like insane, actually. [00:50:04] Like, um. [00:50:06] I like it was at Coachella and like we snuck into like one of the artists like vans and like VIP and like it was honestly so fun. [00:50:19] Was it Tiesta? [00:50:22] No. [00:50:23] Like what? [00:50:24] David Guetta? [00:50:24] Who was it? [00:50:26] What van we snuck into? [00:50:28] The or like who are you? [00:50:31] Never mind. [00:50:32] How long celibate? [00:50:33] A year. [00:50:34] A year? [00:50:34] How long celibate? [00:50:36] I'm not celibate. [00:50:38] Okay, so you. [00:50:40] Or like. [00:50:41] Like, when's the last time you hooked up with somebody? [00:50:44] A month ago. [00:50:45] Okay. [00:50:46] Relationship status? [00:50:48] Yep. [00:50:48] Oh, hi. [00:50:50] I'm married. [00:50:51] All right. [00:50:51] For how long? [00:50:53] I've been together with him since 2015, and we've been married for eight years, seven years. [00:51:00] Okay, so together about nine years? [00:51:03] Or wait, hold on. [00:51:05] 11? [00:51:05] 11 years this year? [00:51:06] Yeah, 11 this year, actually. [00:51:08] Gotcha. [00:51:08] All right. [00:51:09] I'm assuming that's your longest relationship. [00:51:11] Yes. [00:51:11] Any kids? [00:51:12] No. [00:51:13] No? [00:51:14] Okay, no kids. [00:51:16] Planning to have kids? [00:51:18] Thinking about it, might adopt, actually. [00:51:21] So I'm curious to learn more of your story. [00:51:24] So I think maybe adopting first and then having a second kid. [00:51:28] All right. [00:51:31] Okay. [00:51:33] Yeah. [00:51:34] I've been married going on three years. [00:51:37] How long together, total? [00:51:39] Six years. [00:51:40] All right, longest. [00:51:41] I'm assuming that's your longest relationship. [00:51:43] All right, what about you? [00:51:45] I have been, well, I've been with him since 2017, my fiance, but we broke up for like a year and a half, two years, something like that. [00:51:57] And yeah, he's the father of all my kids. [00:52:00] Okay. [00:52:02] So together for what, six years, seven years? [00:52:05] I think like seven, yeah. [00:52:06] Six, seven. === Dual Citizenship Allegiance (07:10) === [00:52:07] All right. [00:52:07] Do you have any kids? [00:52:09] Any kids for you? [00:52:09] No, not yet. [00:52:11] No kids yet. [00:52:12] Okay. [00:52:13] All right. [00:52:14] All right. [00:52:14] That's any. [00:52:15] Wait. [00:52:16] And four kids for you. [00:52:18] Yeah. [00:52:19] All right. [00:52:21] Four kids. [00:52:22] Good to know. [00:52:22] Good to know. [00:52:23] We have a TTS coming through from Paper Clip. [00:52:28] Thank you, man. [00:52:29] Appreciate it. [00:52:29] Paper Clip donated $200. [00:52:32] Sammy is a savage and the prettiest at the table. [00:52:34] Crying face emoji. [00:52:36] The old washed bops hating are just mad FR like that's crazy. [00:52:42] Yeah. [00:52:43] Okay, that's cool. [00:52:49] Do you want to respond? [00:52:50] I think that might have been directed at you. [00:52:51] I don't know. [00:52:54] Yeah, sure. [00:52:56] Fuck you, bitch. [00:52:59] Not you, not you, bitch. [00:53:00] I mean, well, before it, but not this exact second. [00:53:05] All right, okay. [00:53:07] Let's see here. [00:53:08] We're going to get into a segment I'd like to do just because we have some people. [00:53:13] Question for you Are you planning to get your U.S. citizenship? [00:53:18] I think I can change to the passport next year. [00:53:22] I have a green card right now. [00:53:24] You have a green card? [00:53:24] Yeah. [00:53:25] But are you trying to become a U.S. citizen? [00:53:28] Of course. [00:53:29] Of course. [00:53:30] Okay. [00:53:32] So you are wanting to go down that path? [00:53:36] Okay. [00:53:37] I do have a question on this topic. [00:53:39] So, okay, you are born in China, born in Japan, but I mean adopted and American. [00:53:48] Were you born in the Philippines? [00:53:50] Okay. [00:53:51] But you're a U.S. citizen? [00:53:52] Yeah. [00:53:52] Okay. [00:53:54] China? [00:53:55] You were born in China? [00:53:55] Yeah, born in China. [00:53:56] Born in China, but U.S. citizen or? [00:53:58] Permanent residence. [00:53:58] Permanent. [00:53:59] Green card. [00:54:00] When did you move to the United States? [00:54:02] Well, this time around in 2025, but last time was for college and work. [00:54:09] So, in 2009 to the end of 2014, I was here, and then I left for 10 years. [00:54:16] But you first came to the United States in 2009? [00:54:19] Yes. [00:54:20] Okay, gotcha. [00:54:21] Well, a couple questions for, I guess, one, two, three, three of you. [00:54:29] So, in a morally neutral, blame free hypothetical conflict, Between the United States and China for both of you, and the United States and the Philippines for you. [00:54:39] Say where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance starting with you? [00:54:52] State? [00:54:54] What? [00:54:55] The US states. [00:54:58] USA. [00:55:00] Your allegiance is to the United States over China? [00:55:03] Yeah. [00:55:04] But you're not even a citizen yet of the United States. [00:55:07] I mean, that's fine. [00:55:08] That's fine. [00:55:09] Okay, so the USA over China. [00:55:14] Allegiance to the USA. [00:55:15] I'm a little surprised by the answer, but okay. [00:55:18] Philippines. [00:55:19] Your allegiance is to the Philippines. [00:55:21] Why is that? [00:55:23] Because it's where I was born. [00:55:24] I wasn't born in the US. [00:55:26] When did you move to the United States? [00:55:28] I moved here when I was four, but I have family over there. [00:55:31] Okay. [00:55:32] Do you speak Tagalog? [00:55:34] No, I speak a different dialect. [00:55:35] I speak Bisaya. [00:55:36] Okay, fluently? [00:55:37] Yeah. [00:55:38] Okay. [00:55:39] So you moved to the United States when you were four. [00:55:41] Have you been back? [00:55:43] Yeah, I've been back in 2023. [00:55:45] Only once, though? [00:55:46] No, I go every summer. [00:55:48] Oh, every summer for a couple weeks? [00:55:49] For a month. [00:55:51] For one month, okay. [00:55:52] And you have citizenship, remind me, in the U.S.? [00:55:56] You're a U.S. citizen? [00:55:57] Yes. [00:55:57] Do you have Philippine citizenship? [00:55:59] Yeah, I have dual citizenship. [00:56:01] Dual citizen, okay. [00:56:03] But if the United States were to go to war with the Philippines, you would side with the Philippines? [00:56:07] No, I would kill myself. [00:56:10] You would kill yourself. [00:56:11] Yeah, I'm not sitting around for that. [00:56:15] You wouldn't, that doesn't make any sense. [00:56:19] You would just end it even though you wouldn't be involved in the war? [00:56:22] Yeah. [00:56:24] So, assuming the strength of the respective militaries is in this hypothetical remain the same, you would just end it? [00:56:31] Yeah. [00:56:32] Why not? [00:56:33] Why? [00:56:33] Why not? [00:56:34] I mean, why not? [00:56:35] Yeah, that's not an argument. [00:56:36] Why not? [00:56:37] What's your justification? [00:56:39] I don't need to justify it. [00:56:41] Yeah, well, what's the reasoning? [00:56:42] I don't need to have a reason for it. [00:56:47] I mean, okay. [00:56:49] Yeah. [00:56:50] Fair. [00:56:53] But you would side with the Philippines. [00:56:55] That was your original answer. [00:56:57] Okay. [00:56:58] But you're a U.S. citizen. [00:56:59] Yeah. [00:57:02] What about you? [00:57:05] What does allegiance include? [00:57:06] Like fighting on behalf of the country or? [00:57:09] Sure, it could. [00:57:10] It could be. [00:57:11] You wouldn't necessarily have to fight, but where would your loyalty lie? [00:57:16] So, where would your support lie? [00:57:20] Where would your legal allegiance lie? [00:57:23] To the United States or China? [00:57:24] Yeah, I still have a Chinese passport right now. [00:57:27] And under this current president, my allegiance will lie with China. [00:57:35] I think, in that hypothetical, it depends on what the political climate is, and it depends on how the U.S. kind of treats legal and illegal immigration. [00:57:45] What kind of. [00:57:47] So, clarification here. [00:57:49] You don't have your citizenship yet, is that correct? [00:57:52] Correct. [00:57:52] You have permanent residency? [00:57:54] Yes. [00:57:55] And that's through your husband? [00:57:56] The husband's American, yes. [00:57:57] Your husband's American? [00:57:58] Yeah. [00:57:58] And are you planning to have kids? [00:58:01] I am, and if I did, if I do, they would be American, yes. [00:58:06] So, in that hypothetical, if I have kids and adopted or by birth, if they are American, then I'm more likely to side with America to protect my children. [00:58:16] Okay, but currently you would side with China. [00:58:19] Your allegiance would be to China? [00:58:21] Currently, yes. [00:58:22] Okay. [00:58:23] All right. [00:58:24] Now, is it a requirement through green card oath of allegiance? [00:58:31] Maybe not. [00:58:34] No, I think the green card is intent to stay, intent to reside. [00:58:39] Yeah, I don't think you need to take an oath of allegiance for green card or permanent resident status. [00:58:45] What was the thing you were saying, though, about the immigration, like how America handles immigration? [00:58:51] What was your point there, I guess? [00:58:53] Yeah, so I have family in both countries, right? [00:58:59] I think the treatment of my family in one of the countries would impact where my allegiance lies. [00:59:05] So, at a time of war, if my family in one country will be treated extremely unfairly or cannot claim asylum to the other side, that would impact my decision. === Asian Man Dating Preferences (03:39) === [00:59:18] Gotcha. [00:59:18] Okay. [00:59:20] Understood. [00:59:20] Understood. [00:59:21] I have another question, not totally related to this, but let's see here. [00:59:28] I find this question to be interesting. [00:59:30] So, question for you, half you, you, and you. [00:59:37] Have you dated Asian guys? [00:59:39] Yeah. [00:59:40] Have you dated Asian guys? [00:59:42] Yes. [00:59:44] Okay. [00:59:45] Are you attracted to Asian men? [00:59:47] Uh huh. [00:59:48] No. [00:59:49] No. [00:59:51] Yeah, I mean, it depends on the guy. [00:59:52] Okay. [00:59:53] I'm not like blanket attracted to all Asian men. [00:59:55] Sure. [00:59:55] Well, you're married, right? [00:59:57] Yeah, my husband's not Asian. [00:59:58] Your husband is? [00:59:59] My husband's Caucasian. [01:00:01] Your husband's white? [01:00:02] Okay. [01:00:03] Your last boyfriend was it white, black, Asian, Latino? [01:00:08] He was Mexican. [01:00:09] Mexican. [01:00:10] Yes. [01:00:10] Or Asian? [01:00:11] Last boyfriend, Waisian. [01:00:12] Yeah. [01:00:13] Okay, so you half didn't like him, I guess. [01:00:15] Yeah. [01:00:16] Because you said you're not attracted to Asian men. [01:00:19] No. [01:00:20] Okay. [01:00:20] He was more looking white. [01:00:21] More white than. [01:00:22] Yeah, if you get it. [01:00:23] And then what about you? [01:00:24] Are you. [01:00:24] I mean, two guys for this week? [01:00:27] Yeah, the last two guys. [01:00:29] Yeah. [01:00:29] Okay, so one is Korean. [01:00:31] One's Korean. [01:00:32] Yeah, one is half Asian, half Canada. [01:00:38] Half Asian, half. [01:00:41] Like, he's Canadian, but his dad is from Hong Kong. [01:00:47] Yeah. [01:00:47] Okay. [01:00:48] All right. [01:00:50] Question, though. [01:00:51] Question. [01:00:52] Would you rather date a black man or an Asian man? [01:00:58] Asian. [01:00:59] Okay. [01:01:00] Black man. [01:01:01] Black man? [01:01:02] Black man. [01:01:02] Black man? [01:01:04] Probably Asian. [01:01:05] Hey, Tiffany, please switch the cameras. [01:01:08] Holy fuck, I'm going to have an aneurysm. [01:01:10] Asian. [01:01:10] Holy fuck, please. [01:01:12] I have enough already trying to manage the show. [01:01:14] Please be on the cameras. [01:01:17] Oh my God. [01:01:18] Okay. [01:01:21] Can you repeat your answer, please? [01:01:23] Asian. [01:01:23] Okay. [01:01:26] All right. [01:01:29] All right. [01:01:32] Would you rather date an Indian man or an Asian man? [01:01:35] Hell no, Indian man, no. [01:01:37] Asian man. [01:01:38] Yikes, okay. [01:01:39] All right, what about you? [01:01:40] Isn't Indian and Asian man the same thing, technically? [01:01:43] Well, so yes, sometimes people who are from the Indian subcontinent are, you know, especially in like. [01:01:52] Parts of Europe or in the UK. [01:01:56] And technically, I mean, yes, you would consider them Asian, but I think there is a bit of a delineation between like Indians, as in from India, having like a separate distinction from like Southeast Asians. [01:02:09] Well, I guess would they still, if you're in India, are you technically South Asian? [01:02:15] Southeast Asian. [01:02:16] Okay, then more like, what's it called? [01:02:21] More East Asian. [01:02:22] Wait, did I say Southwest? [01:02:24] You said Southeast. [01:02:25] Southeast. [01:02:28] Well, what's the typical term used for like China, Korea, Japan? [01:02:32] That's South. [01:02:33] It's East Asian. [01:02:34] East Asian. [01:02:35] East Asian. [01:02:36] I don't know why I threw the South in there. [01:02:38] Okay, so Indian man or Asian man? [01:02:42] Asian. [01:02:42] Okay. [01:02:43] Asian. [01:02:45] Indian. [01:02:46] Asian. [01:02:47] Okay, would you rather date an Arabic man or an Asian man? [01:02:50] Asian. [01:02:51] Arabic. [01:02:52] Arabic. [01:02:53] Asian. [01:02:54] Would you rather date a Latino man or an Asian man? [01:02:56] Latino. === First Class Travel Costs (03:28) === [01:02:57] Yeah. [01:02:58] Asian. [01:02:59] Latino. [01:03:00] Latino. [01:03:01] Would you rather date a white man or an Asian man? [01:03:05] White. [01:03:06] White. [01:03:06] Asian. [01:03:07] Well, my husband's white, so why? [01:03:10] There you have it, folks. [01:03:11] There you have it. [01:03:12] Okay. [01:03:14] Well, the first thing I wanted to talk about is I saw this viral clip, and it was a boyfriend going on a trip with his girlfriend, and he bought first class tickets. [01:03:23] I don't have the video, it doesn't really matter, though. [01:03:25] He bought first class tickets for him and bought economy for her. [01:03:31] What do you guys think? [01:03:32] He paid for it though. [01:03:34] Does it matter? [01:03:35] Okay, what do you think? [01:03:36] I would just be thankful that he booked the flight. [01:03:39] Still thankful? [01:03:40] Of course it matters. [01:03:42] How can he buy himself like first class? [01:03:47] I will just like work with him and then buy myself a first class too. [01:03:52] I would be fine with it, but I would probably mention it to him at some point. [01:04:00] I agree with you in that sense, but I also think that it matters on like Delivery of it, like I wouldn't care if he did buy me for his class or didn't, but it would be a good heads up to let me know, like, that was the situation. [01:04:17] I feel like I wouldn't care. [01:04:19] Um, I would just be sad that he wasn't sitting next to me because I have like terrible planned anxiety, and I probably would like say something about it. [01:04:33] Oh, is it my turn? [01:04:34] Yeah, so look, guys, I don't want to have to like every single time we go around the table starting here. [01:04:42] We go around the table. [01:04:43] Bro, this girl's got the craziest stink face every time I talk. [01:04:47] She doesn't even mean it. [01:04:48] I don't know if she means it, but like the stink face is unreal. [01:04:52] So, okay, please don't make me have to prompt you. [01:04:55] Like, your turn. [01:04:57] We go around the table usually like this. [01:04:59] If the other person, if I'm asking a question, just go ahead and speak, please. [01:05:04] Go ahead. [01:05:05] Sorry about that. [01:05:05] It's okay. [01:05:06] I kind of agree with what Chloe said. [01:05:08] I would be kind of upset if I wasn't sitting next to my boyfriend because when I fly, I do get kind of nervous. [01:05:15] So I guess, yeah. [01:05:17] Okay. [01:05:18] Do we have more information? [01:05:20] Did he do it out of spite or? [01:05:23] No. [01:05:23] No. [01:05:24] I don't think so. [01:05:26] Yeah, I. [01:05:26] He just wanted to save money, I'm assuming. [01:05:29] Then they should both fly business class. [01:05:31] That will probably cost the same. [01:05:33] So I don't get it. [01:05:35] Sure. [01:05:36] I think it's kind of tacky, but the bottom line is, I feel like if you're not married, then he doesn't really have a financial obligation. [01:05:42] So. [01:05:46] I agree with you, Chloe, but I don't know. [01:05:49] I would make him come into business or whatever, whoever said that. [01:05:53] It's like having a little shack and have me in his yard and his big mansion. [01:05:58] Like, why? [01:05:58] What if he has back problems? [01:06:03] Okay. [01:06:03] Like, and so he's like, look. [01:06:05] Go to a chiropractor. [01:06:07] He's like, look, I'm paying the extra money so that I'm not in excruciating pain. [01:06:14] I don't want to spend the extra money to have us both in first class because it is expensive to fly first class. [01:06:21] So, what about in that circumstance? [01:06:23] Is that fine? [01:06:25] I could rub your back in business. === Fetishizing Relationships (12:34) === [01:06:26] Yeah, same. [01:06:28] If she's okay with it, if they've talked about it before and this is for her, for his health, then maybe. [01:06:36] But yeah. [01:06:38] But she needs to be okay with it as well. [01:06:43] It is a tricky situation. [01:06:46] All the women that were reacting to it, leaving comments, seemed to have hated it, to be honest. [01:06:51] But they were not fans of it. [01:06:55] All right, we're going to get. [01:06:56] You know what? [01:06:57] I kind of want to just jump right into some questionnaire stuff. [01:07:02] Past should not matter. [01:07:04] Alexis, to which you agree. [01:07:08] Let's see. [01:07:09] Samantha, agree. [01:07:12] Let's see if anyone else agrees. [01:07:14] Kiko, agree. [01:07:18] Wait, Kiko. [01:07:19] Ah, yes, okay. [01:07:20] So passionate matter, passionate matter, passion matter. [01:07:25] Why is that? [01:07:28] I feel like every few months, I feel like everybody, a lot, most people change, you know? [01:07:33] So I think what you do in the past doesn't necessarily define your future. [01:07:38] Okay. [01:07:38] All right. [01:07:39] What about you? [01:07:40] I mean, I also agree with what you said. [01:07:43] I don't think it matters what you did in the past, but I do think it's important to clarify the person you were before meeting that person. [01:07:52] Okay. [01:07:53] I think in the questionnaire, it was under the context of body count. [01:07:57] Yeah. [01:07:57] Body count. [01:07:57] Okay, yeah. [01:07:58] So in that case, past doesn't matter, but if there's Other things that happened in the past, there might be a threshold. [01:08:05] But body count doesn't matter. [01:08:06] Body count is not. [01:08:07] Okay. [01:08:08] Body count doesn't matter. [01:08:09] Okay. [01:08:13] Oh, yeah, yeah. [01:08:14] Okay. [01:08:14] I actually have a follow up question. [01:08:16] But before I ask that, body count? [01:08:22] What's mine? [01:08:23] Yeah. [01:08:24] Oh, I don't know. [01:08:27] It's a mystery. [01:08:28] Ballpark. [01:08:30] We're looking at like maybe quadruple digits. [01:08:34] Okay. [01:08:35] I don't know. [01:08:35] So 100 to 200, maybe more? [01:08:39] Maybe, probably more than that. [01:08:41] Yeah. [01:08:42] I'm not sure though. [01:08:42] It's a bit of a mystery. [01:08:44] It's a number though, that's for sure. [01:08:46] Sure. [01:08:46] Throw out an estimate. [01:08:48] You know, it might have three digits, it might have four. [01:08:54] It's just somewhere, somewhere. [01:08:57] Okay, so 300 to, do you want to just say like 300 to 400? [01:09:01] Yeah, it's definitely more than that, but yeah. [01:09:03] Yeah, in your own words though. [01:09:05] Sure. [01:09:06] Yeah. [01:09:09] 300 to 400? [01:09:10] Yeah. [01:09:11] Well, don't just say yeah. [01:09:12] Say yeah, 300 to 400. [01:09:13] Yeah, it's probably more than that, but that's okay. [01:09:16] You're just repeating yourself at this point. [01:09:19] Yeah, I want it to be mysterious on this one. [01:09:21] I'm going to keep it on the DL. [01:09:24] Okay, but between 300 to 400. [01:09:26] Definitely more than that. [01:09:29] She said quadruple digits? [01:09:31] Oh, quad. [01:09:31] I totally missed that. [01:09:33] Not triple. [01:09:33] Oh, good catch, Courtney. [01:09:34] I totally missed that. [01:09:35] I'm not sure if this is playing, but. [01:09:37] Okay, so over 1,000. [01:09:39] Oh, I would hope not, but it's possible. [01:09:44] When did you start having sex? [01:09:47] I think like when I lost my virginity, I think I was like 17. [01:09:51] And you're 27, so 10 years. [01:09:53] Okay. [01:09:53] Yeah. [01:09:54] So like maybe like 100 guys per year? [01:09:56] Yeah, maybe. [01:09:58] Yeah. [01:09:58] Maybe. [01:09:59] I'm just having a good time. [01:10:00] I'm not really out here documenting it like that, but. [01:10:05] Okay. [01:10:05] It's a number, that's for sure. [01:10:09] Okay. [01:10:11] What about you? [01:10:12] About a girl? [01:10:13] Yeah. [01:10:13] Nine and a half. [01:10:15] Nine and a half. [01:10:16] A half is means. [01:10:17] Like we kissed and we went to the hotel and take off the clothes, but he just had some issues with his. [01:10:24] Yeah. [01:10:25] Wait, hold on. [01:10:26] Nine and a half? [01:10:27] Nine and a half. [01:10:28] Two of which were last week? [01:10:31] Uh huh. [01:10:33] That, when did you lose your virginity? [01:10:36] I think it's 18 and a half. [01:10:38] Yeah. [01:10:38] 18, okay. [01:10:41] The math is not mathing on this. [01:10:45] Okay, so two in the past week. [01:10:51] And these were first dates that you had with these guys? [01:10:53] No. [01:10:54] Had you had sex with them before? [01:10:56] Yeah, a long time ago. [01:10:57] When you do hook up with a new guy, is it usually on the first date? [01:11:03] Or first or second or third date? [01:11:05] I think second date. [01:11:07] Sometimes first date. [01:11:10] Sometimes first date. [01:11:11] It depends. [01:11:12] Okay. [01:11:13] All right. [01:11:14] A little, I don't know. [01:11:15] Okay. [01:11:17] It's nine. [01:11:18] It's nine? [01:11:19] Yeah. [01:11:20] Okay. [01:11:24] Nine? [01:11:25] Yeah. [01:11:28] What about you? [01:11:29] 14. [01:11:29] 14? [01:11:31] Nine. [01:11:32] Nine? [01:11:33] Nine. [01:11:34] Okay. [01:11:35] I answered the question before, and my mom said, No, like, talking about your body count anymore. [01:11:42] Come on, Chloe. [01:11:43] You've already said it on the show. [01:11:44] Yeah, it's not even bad. [01:11:45] You do OM. [01:11:47] But my mom said that it's not, like, a good question to answer. [01:11:54] So, did she tell you that only fans? [01:11:56] No, she supports me with only fans. [01:11:59] Like, she wants me to get married, but she's like happy of how much money I'm making and stuff. [01:12:05] And she wants me to start like only doing like streams. [01:12:10] Like, that's what she wants. [01:12:11] But she also doesn't want me to answer that question. [01:12:15] But I, you've already answered it though. [01:12:17] Yeah. [01:12:18] Okay. [01:12:18] I, okay. [01:12:19] I, I'm, if I recall, it's 10. [01:12:22] It's not 10. [01:12:23] Okay. [01:12:23] It's higher. [01:12:24] My bad. [01:12:24] No, it's not. [01:12:26] 17. [01:12:26] 17. [01:12:27] Okay. [01:12:29] I think between 20 and 30. [01:12:31] 20 and 30, okay. [01:12:32] Two. [01:12:33] Two, okay, Courtney. [01:12:34] Nine, but I count eight. [01:12:36] Okay, yeah, yeah, we get that. [01:12:38] All right, there's the body count. [01:12:41] Wow, good times. [01:12:43] Multiply it by three, and that's the real number. [01:12:45] Now, to those of you who said pass shouldn't matter, which was you, you, you, question for you Do you think it's wrong for a guy to say, okay, well, you know, you said it's quadruple, you said, I think, 14 or something, you said 20 to 30? [01:13:02] Do you think it'd be wrong for a guy if you were to tell him your body count and say he didn't want to date you because of it? [01:13:07] And let's say he wasn't a jerk. [01:13:09] He was just like, oh, I don't know. [01:13:12] It could be an issue for me. [01:13:13] I don't feel comfortable. [01:13:14] Do you think it's wrong for him? [01:13:16] But he's not like, you fucking whore. [01:13:18] He's not being rude or anything. [01:13:20] Do you think it's wrong for him to not want to date you because of that? [01:13:25] No. [01:13:26] I don't think it's wrong. [01:13:27] No. [01:13:28] Yeah. [01:13:30] I think anyone who would want to date me would not think it matters. [01:13:35] But yeah, no, I don't think it was wrong. [01:13:38] Okay, so if they didn't want to date you, though, you'd be fine with it, I suppose. [01:13:43] Yeah. [01:13:43] Okay. [01:13:44] Not for me then. [01:13:45] Not for you. [01:13:46] Perhaps I can elucidate it like this. [01:13:52] Perhaps the same apprehension that my, and it's not like a perfect explanation, a perfect comparison. [01:14:00] The women at the table, who here would feel comfortable dating a man who previously had slept with men? [01:14:08] Would that be an issue for any of you? [01:14:12] Just you two? [01:14:14] You okay here? [01:14:15] I'll get verbals then. [01:14:16] Go ahead. [01:14:17] Not my favorite, not my favorite thing, but I'm not a hater, you know. [01:14:23] As long as everybody's having fun, I'm about to, yeah. [01:14:26] Okay, what about you? [01:14:28] No, I can't date a man who like slept with some imps. [01:14:31] Who slept with them? [01:14:32] What about you? [01:14:33] Yeah, it's fine. [01:14:33] I do the same, so. [01:14:35] Okay, you no issue for you. [01:14:37] What about you? [01:14:38] No, don't care. [01:14:40] Okay, what about you? [01:14:42] A little louder, please. [01:14:43] I would not be okay with it. [01:14:44] Okay, Chloe, I would not be okay with that either. [01:14:49] I'd rather not. [01:14:50] Are those prescription glasses? [01:14:52] Yes. [01:14:53] You need them? [01:14:53] Yes. [01:14:54] All right. [01:14:54] What about you? [01:14:55] I think theoretically I will be okay with it, but it would need to happen for me to know. [01:15:01] Like my husband would need to go sleep with a guy and come back for me to know how I feel. [01:15:05] Okay. [01:15:05] What about you? [01:15:06] No. [01:15:07] No. [01:15:08] It would be an issue. [01:15:09] I love a little gay man. [01:15:11] I think that's so cute. [01:15:14] So you would date the guy who slept with him? [01:15:18] Can you open that door all the way, please? [01:15:20] So, if your fiance slept with a man, you'll be like, damn right. [01:15:23] In the past? [01:15:24] Awesome. [01:15:26] Sure. [01:15:28] I sleep with men. [01:15:29] What's wrong with it? [01:15:31] All right. [01:15:32] She's fine with it, I suppose. [01:15:33] That's interesting. [01:15:36] Yeah, ultimately, though, I think a lot of men typically don't want to date women who have high body counts. [01:15:44] I think it's a strong preference that men have. [01:15:47] So, yeah. [01:15:51] No pushback? [01:15:52] No pushback? [01:15:53] I think it goes the other way too. [01:15:54] Like, I wouldn't want to be with somebody with like a thousand body count because that means they're going to cheat on me probably. [01:15:59] I don't, well, I don't have a double standard if a woman doesn't want to date a guy who's promiscuous or has been promiscuous, who's been with a lot of women. [01:16:05] I think that's totally fine. [01:16:06] I think women can have that preference. [01:16:08] No issue with it whatsoever. [01:16:09] But I don't think I would want to date a man with like no body. [01:16:13] He's like that. [01:16:14] I'm not trying to train him. [01:16:15] That's not my job. [01:16:17] And I think that's common and also fair. [01:16:22] So that's, I think, a bit of a difference, though, is that women, while I guess my initial point was that it's okay for women to have this preference, I think women care far less than men do. [01:16:34] Like, women give men a bit more leeway in that sense. [01:16:40] Not to say, of course, there are women who do care about it, but I think the big thing is, like, if you have an experienced woman, she probably, it depends, you know, if she, Wants to lead in the bedroom. [01:16:55] I don't think most women really will. [01:16:56] I mean, look, some women can be more dom or whatever, but if she's not dom, but she's sexually experienced, it's gonna be a turnoff for her to have to teach a guy how to fuck her. [01:17:07] Like, that's a turnoff for women. [01:17:09] For not all women, but probably a good amount of women. [01:17:13] So. [01:17:15] But isn't the parallel of the question you just asked to ask a man if they would date a girl if they've slept with other women? [01:17:22] Because that would be the parallel we're looking for, right? [01:17:25] Like, would you if you're? [01:17:27] It's not quite the same. [01:17:33] I don't think it's quite the same because I don't know. [01:17:38] There's. [01:17:41] I think a lot of men will probably still date a woman if they've slept with other women. [01:17:45] Yes, I would agree that there's a difference there. [01:17:48] Women are going to have more of an issue with dating a man who has slept or is bisexual or whatever, who slept with other men, versus men are a little more lenient towards bisexuality or like experiences with women, women who have had experiences with women. [01:18:07] So, yeah, there is a bit of a difference there too. [01:18:10] Do you think it's because they fetishize? [01:18:12] What is the word? [01:18:13] Fetishized. [01:18:14] Yeah, that or because they're like gay rights, woo. [01:18:17] No, they're fetishizing. [01:18:19] Yeah. [01:18:19] I don't know if it's necessarily fetishizing. [01:18:21] I just think that women who are bisexual can still. [01:18:26] Now, you do have like butch, lesbian, or bisexual women who are more masculine. [01:18:32] However, now look, I guess technically there are like gay guys who are still masculine, but like 90% of most gay men fall into the category of like effeminate. [01:18:43] Most gay men are more feminine. [01:18:48] They have the gay tonality. [01:18:49] They have the gay speaking pattern. [01:18:53] Just like you. [01:18:54] Just like me. [01:18:55] I speak like a homosexual. [01:18:57] Just a little bit. [01:18:58] Just a little bit, right. === Kicking Off Panelists (15:15) === [01:19:01] Yeah, so do we just do the kick now, I guess? [01:19:04] Do we just kick her off? [01:19:05] I was hoping to get into some of her notes, but. [01:19:07] Sweet, I have to mean if you hate me so much, kick me off. [01:19:11] At least you don't sound like you're sick, I guess. [01:19:13] Camera, camera, camera. [01:19:16] Oh, okay. [01:19:18] All right, yeah, she's just gonna be obnoxious, I guess. [01:19:21] I think I do have to, uh. [01:19:23] I think it's probably. [01:19:24] You're kicking me off? [01:19:26] Yeah, I don't know why you're doing the stupid fucking dancing too, like throwing your ass. [01:19:29] That's completely. [01:19:30] I don't know why you're a virgin. [01:19:32] That's completely inappropriate. [01:19:34] Yeah, I'm not a virgin, but I don't see how that would be relevant if I was. [01:19:37] You're fat as fuck and you're a DL twink, though. [01:19:40] Okay, that's definitely a kick, so. [01:19:44] No! [01:19:45] Yeah, need you to, uh. [01:19:47] Need you to get up and leave. [01:19:48] Can you pop that big ass pimple on your nose before I leave? [01:19:51] Please. [01:19:51] Please, please. [01:19:53] I need you to get up and leave. [01:19:55] So get up. [01:19:57] Bye, guys. [01:19:59] I'm kicked off. [01:19:59] Yep. [01:20:00] Love you. [01:20:02] Steezy, stand me out. [01:20:04] All right. [01:20:06] Ta ta. [01:20:07] Ta ta. [01:20:09] Fucking Muppet. [01:20:11] All right. [01:20:12] See her out quickly, please. [01:20:14] See her out quickly. [01:20:17] No lingering, no bathroom. [01:20:19] See her out. [01:20:20] Can I ask a question? [01:20:23] She said, I'm a fatso. [01:20:26] Okay. [01:20:27] There you have it, folks. [01:20:28] Body shaming. [01:20:31] No, no. [01:20:31] Whoa, What's going on? [01:20:34] What's going on? [01:20:36] She was going to go kill herself now. [01:20:37] Like she said before. [01:20:41] Is this actually for real? [01:20:42] Bye, buddy! [01:20:44] Bye. [01:20:45] Where did you find her? [01:20:49] Oh, my. [01:20:50] I'm honestly inclined to have Lexi get the fuck out, too, because that was your friend, Lexi. [01:20:54] Well, I just met her. [01:20:58] And then she went. [01:21:03] Hmm. [01:21:05] Decisions, door locked. [01:21:07] Okay. [01:21:10] Yeah, so that's a new one. [01:21:13] That was a new one. [01:21:19] Is that the record, like, earliest kick? [01:21:22] No, I think we've probably kicked somebody sooner. [01:21:24] But yeah, I mean, she came on to troll, so. [01:21:28] Yeah. [01:21:31] That was so mean. [01:21:33] Hold on. [01:21:34] Yeah, I didn't even insult her, is the thing. [01:21:37] She just got bent out of shape, I guess. [01:21:40] Hmm. [01:21:43] What? [01:21:46] You gotta. [01:21:48] I guess, do we do a collective guilt thing? [01:21:51] I guess, like guilt by association? [01:21:54] Lexi's been on the show before and she was pretty reasonable. [01:21:58] I don't think we kick Lexi. [01:22:00] She can't control that other girl's emotions. [01:22:01] She's been so respectful and nice. [01:22:02] That was. [01:22:03] All right, Lexi, take the seat. [01:22:06] I need to get. [01:22:08] We're just like standing up. [01:22:10] I'm like, oh, shit. [01:22:12] Yeah, your friend is a piece of shit, though. [01:22:14] I'll tell you that much. [01:22:15] Can you scoot your microphone to the corner of the table, please? [01:22:18] Maybe don't be her friend anymore. [01:22:20] Yeah, I just met her, like, quite literally just met her, like, the same day that I posted with her. [01:22:24] And she was late, by the way. [01:22:26] Not, well, Lexi was late, but her friend was like 30 minutes late, too. [01:22:32] Yeah, but I went to church this morning, so. [01:22:34] Oh, my God, you went to church. [01:22:36] Okay. [01:22:38] You can, Argentinian, that's like $4. [01:22:41] So just, yeah, you can take it off. [01:22:43] You can show them, I guess, but. [01:22:46] No, I mean, we already saw it. [01:22:47] You can get rid of it. [01:22:49] Sorry, it has to be like if you're super chatting and you want it to be above the threshold, it has to be like an approximation of USD. [01:22:59] It has to be USD. [01:23:02] So, yeah. [01:23:03] All right, there it is, folks. [01:23:04] Yeah, she came on to troll. [01:23:06] I hope it was worth it for her to have fucking. [01:23:12] Where did she come from? [01:23:12] San Diego? [01:23:14] Do you know where she lives? [01:23:16] Yeah, like we're both in San Diego. [01:23:19] Okay. [01:23:20] So she drove three to four hours to call me fat and to just like be a fucking obnoxious. [01:23:29] I've actually, we've had like 2,000 guests on and no girl has ever done the weird like ass, throwing ass thing. [01:23:36] I've never had a girl do that. [01:23:38] So that's a new, that's a new one. [01:23:41] That's a, it's very low class, like low class subhuman behavior to be honest. [01:23:49] So I need to get up momentarily. [01:23:51] But here's what I want you guys to do. [01:23:53] Talk shit about her while I'm gone. [01:23:55] Thanks, guys. [01:23:55] Appreciate it. [01:23:56] There was nothing shaking. [01:23:58] Who's next? [01:24:00] People with my lights on. [01:24:02] You don't. [01:24:02] They don't. [01:24:03] Who's next? [01:24:03] Who wants to go? [01:24:04] I'm not trying to get canceled. [01:24:04] But nothing too mean and disrespectful. [01:24:06] I'm not trying to get canceled. [01:24:08] You don't. [01:24:08] It's okay. [01:24:09] You don't have to. [01:24:10] Do you think she got shot by a black person? [01:24:12] Yes. [01:24:12] Oh, my God. [01:24:15] As a black person? [01:24:16] Yeah, yeah, definitely. [01:24:17] That is such a creative question. [01:24:19] Okay, who's next? [01:24:20] That was a good one. [01:24:21] I mean, I thought it was interesting. [01:24:23] But at the expense of other people. [01:24:26] But that's kind of what happens to the rest of the panel often, no? [01:24:30] Yeah. [01:24:31] He's going to get some good clips out of that. [01:24:32] Yeah, for sure. [01:24:33] Yeah. [01:24:33] Honestly, I just felt so like guilty a little bit, honestly. [01:24:37] I was just like shaking a little bit in my boots. [01:24:40] You're so sweet. [01:24:41] Yeah. [01:24:41] I feel like picking him out was even an option. [01:24:43] I feel like picking him out was the sweetest ever, too. [01:24:44] Like, I know. [01:24:46] It was just because you know the girl or like just met. [01:24:48] Yeah, I literally just met her. [01:24:49] I was like, hey, you want to collab? [01:24:51] We collabed. [01:24:52] We did like a couple skits and. [01:24:54] Yeah, that was it. [01:24:55] I posted it up and I was like, hey, do you want to come to this podcast? [01:24:57] That's it. [01:24:58] What is her OF content like? [01:25:02] She's very verbal with all her content, I feel like. [01:25:05] She just goes on there and she just says whatever crazy things, and that's how she gets her views. [01:25:10] So this is her brand, I swear, actually. [01:25:12] Yeah, so I was like, I don't know. [01:25:15] I don't know if they had already talked about what they were going to do for the podcast or what, because I remember my first time I came on here, I did kind of discuss a little bit. [01:25:24] I was like, I don't know what I'm doing here. [01:25:27] So I was like, what is it more about? [01:25:30] And he was like, it's just mostly dating, relationships, stuff like that. [01:25:34] I was like, okay, cool. [01:25:34] So, I can like just show my personality or whatever. [01:25:38] Yeah. [01:25:38] Aw, yeah. [01:25:39] Okay, you're so cute. [01:25:40] Yeah, I think anybody coming in being disrespectful off the jump like that, especially when it's his show, is like. [01:25:48] And his birthday. [01:25:49] Yeah. [01:25:50] And like it's awesome. [01:25:53] Yeah, he's gonna be like a little rude. [01:25:55] Like it's like his brand. [01:25:56] Yeah. [01:25:56] Like, have you not watched this show? [01:25:58] Yeah. [01:25:59] We all signed up to be here. [01:26:01] Like, have some decorum. [01:26:03] Yeah, decorum. [01:26:04] Exactly. [01:26:05] Like, be. [01:26:07] A nice person, there's no reason to come in being a fucking bitch, yeah, or like wait or something wasn't even like that long into it, yeah. [01:26:14] She could have gotten so many more clips if she just waited a little bit, like she was giving me anxiety, honestly. [01:26:19] Yeah, I know that's why I had to get up. [01:26:20] I was like, Oh, this is not good, me too. [01:26:23] I didn't like it, yeah. [01:26:24] I felt a lot of tension. [01:26:27] Who's getting kicked off next? [01:26:28] Not us, stop. [01:26:31] We're like on death row. [01:26:32] That was the first question you asked when you sat down, right? [01:26:35] You were like, Who's gonna reach quit today, Chloe? [01:26:39] Can you read this? [01:26:40] For us, please. [01:26:41] Thank you, man. [01:26:41] What the fuck, Brian? [01:26:43] Um, why do you allow some of these girls on here? [01:26:46] I swear, when I'm in June, I won't be ignorant. [01:26:51] POS series, though. [01:26:54] What is a high number for guys? [01:26:57] For guys, well, I'd probably let the women uh answer this question what a high body count is for a man, but uh, so I guess we have you scheduled for June. [01:27:08] Uh, cool, yeah. [01:27:09] Wait, can I answer the question? [01:27:11] I think it's Probably for me personally, like over 20. [01:27:16] More than for a guy, I think that's high. [01:27:19] Oh, really quick, here's what we're gonna do. [01:27:20] Can you pull up Twitch, guys? [01:27:22] Go to Twitch, guys. [01:27:23] I need to see like 10 prime subs for that kick. [01:27:27] Yeah, oh, you know what I should have done? [01:27:29] You know what I should have done? [01:27:30] I should have been a grifter and been like, I need to see 20 prime subs and I'm gonna kick her off. [01:27:40] Oh my god, I could have grifted it, I could have been like, all right, I need to see 10 memberships. [01:27:46] On YouTube, I need to see 20 prime subs, then I'll kick her. [01:27:50] So I need it after the fact, you know. [01:27:52] I already delivered, so I'm probably not going to get as many. [01:27:55] Next time, next time, I'm going to grift the shit out of a kick. [01:27:58] But guys, drop us a prime sub. [01:28:00] Vlad, thank you for the prime. [01:28:01] I need to see prime subs for that kick because I probably should have done it like right when she was starting to talk shit. [01:28:08] But I was like, you know what? [01:28:11] Maybe she's just, she'll redeem herself or some shit. [01:28:14] But yeah, unfortunately, it's unfortunate too because we actually had some. [01:28:20] We had some good notes for which is I wanted to at least wait, I guess, a little bit. [01:28:25] But I mean, if you're just going to keep coming at me, you're kind of going to force my hands. [01:28:31] I'll like, I give a little bit of leeway for shit talking. [01:28:35] But if you're just going to keep fucking coming at me, I'm just going to have to kick you. [01:28:40] Wait, hold on. [01:28:40] I'm changing the title of the video. [01:28:42] Brian Kicks. [01:28:45] What's. [01:28:45] Are you Filipino? [01:28:47] I'm Cambodian. [01:28:47] Ah, shit. [01:28:48] I was going to ask, like, what's a Filipino word for bitch? [01:28:51] Brian Kicks Off. [01:28:54] Brian kicks off. [01:29:01] She's kind of ghetto. [01:29:02] She's kind of ghetto. [01:29:03] Girl that got shot? [01:29:04] Yeah, girl that got shot. [01:29:06] Yeah, and she was twerking. [01:29:08] And she was twerking like, oh my god, fucking trash. [01:29:13] Actually subhuman. [01:29:16] Actually subhuman. [01:29:18] Brian kicks off. [01:29:22] Strumpet? [01:29:23] What's a good. [01:29:25] Here, chat. [01:29:26] Wait, wait. [01:29:27] Chat. [01:29:27] Help me. [01:29:30] What should I put in the title chat? [01:29:31] Brian kicks off. [01:29:38] You can't put bad words. [01:29:40] Brian kicks off what? [01:29:42] Brian kicks off. [01:29:46] Feral girl. [01:29:48] Ah, that's too many characters. [01:29:50] Shit. [01:29:51] Brian kicks off feral girl. [01:29:53] Okay. [01:29:54] Going around the table, what's too high of a body count for a man? [01:30:00] I think a high number is just a high number. [01:30:03] I don't think it matters the gender. [01:30:05] For me, though, I personally don't care what somebody's done in the past. [01:30:12] Numbers don't really matter to me. [01:30:14] Unless it's a paycheck. [01:30:18] Unless it's a paycheck, you said? [01:30:21] Period. [01:30:22] Brian kicks off Ghetto 304. [01:30:25] Yo, it's fresh and fit. [01:30:27] Yo, welcome to Fresh and Fit. [01:30:30] Brian kicks off Ghetto 304. [01:30:31] I don't know, I've never put Ghetto 304 in the title, but here's a first. [01:30:36] Here's a first, boys. [01:30:37] All right, I'm changing the title now. [01:30:38] They're going to think it's about me. [01:30:40] Oh no. [01:30:40] That's not a, by the way, that's not a shot at fucking Fresh and Fit. [01:30:43] Fresh and Fit. [01:30:43] I'm not, that's not, that's not me hating. [01:30:45] That's just, I mean, let's be real. [01:30:48] They do kick off Ghetto 305s. [01:30:50] Like, I'm not, I'm not attacking them. [01:30:52] I'm just saying that's, I'm not saying, I'm not saying Fresh and Fit's ghetto. [01:30:55] I'm saying they have ghetto. [01:30:57] There are sometimes, not all the women that are on there, they do have ghetto women on there. [01:31:04] I was just on there. [01:31:05] You were, and did you get kicked off? [01:31:07] Two days ago. [01:31:08] You were on with us. [01:31:09] I just left early. [01:31:11] With Clav, yeah. [01:31:12] You didn't stay the whole show, no. [01:31:14] I was we were there for like 40 minutes because why did Clav have to leave? [01:31:18] Well, he just opened up like a club in Miami and we all went there. [01:31:23] Oh, he had like a super fun club, by the way. [01:31:26] Oh my god, I heard that he's um starting like a isn't doesn't he manage of girls now? [01:31:36] The way you see how she did that with her eyes where it's like no, but it it actually is legit or whatever. [01:31:44] No. [01:31:45] Are you being managed by Clav? [01:31:52] I mean, it's like not a secret anymore. [01:31:54] People know what he's doing. [01:31:57] No, we're just like streaming together. [01:32:01] Yeah. [01:32:02] Okay, so. [01:32:02] He doesn't manage OnlyFans. [01:32:04] Okay, he doesn't manage, but does he have like a. [01:32:06] He's a streamer. [01:32:06] Yeah, but he has a team of, like, he makes money from OF Girls now. [01:32:10] Um. [01:32:19] Hello? [01:32:20] I can't disclose information. [01:32:22] Okay, so you've signed an NDA? [01:32:27] Hey, whoever's running our KIC, can you change the. [01:32:32] I don't like the police sirens, Cool Killer. [01:32:36] Hey, Cool Killer on KIC. [01:32:37] I don't know if you're active as a mod. [01:32:39] Get rid of the sirens, and you need to put an HTTP, so it's actually a clickable link over there on KIC, if you can do that. [01:32:51] So, go ahead, Chloe. [01:32:52] So, you have a deal with Clav? [01:32:56] No, I don't. [01:32:58] No, I don't. [01:33:00] You don't. [01:33:00] He's just focused on streaming and his club right now. [01:33:04] You guys should go to his club. [01:33:08] But I'm not talking about anything else because I really don't know anything about it. [01:33:14] Oh, okay. [01:33:15] Wait, can I change the fucking thing? [01:33:17] Hold on. [01:33:17] Test. [01:33:18] Sorry, I'm testing something on Kik. [01:33:20] We're also streaming on Kik right now. [01:33:22] Can I pin? [01:33:23] Bro, it does. [01:33:24] Yo, people on Kik, I cannot pin messages on Kik, but my mods can. [01:33:35] I just tried to pin something. [01:33:38] Yeah, real cool killer. [01:33:39] Could you replace it? [01:33:42] No. [01:33:43] Hey, cool killer. [01:33:44] I need it to be a clickable link. [01:33:46] So it needs to be HTTP colon backslash backslash or whatever it is. [01:33:52] You need to make it a click. [01:33:53] It's not clickable. [01:33:55] Uh, you should be able to make it a link or whatever. [01:34:00] All right, what the who's this? [01:34:02] I'm not gonna thank you for the simping, I guess. [01:34:04] Thank you, appreciate it, appreciate it, guys. [01:34:07] Uh, okay, uh, yo, noble, thank you for the gifted subs over there on Twitch. [01:34:12] All right, here, sorry, guys. [01:34:14] I know the show like kind of got derailed after the kick there. === Marriage and OnlyFans (15:35) === [01:34:16] I'm gonna get it back on point. [01:34:17] I still haven't posted any of my social stuff, so I need to still get up and do that. [01:34:21] Uh, so we will do that. [01:34:26] Lexi, tell us something bad about your friend. [01:34:29] Something bad? [01:34:30] Yeah. [01:34:31] Like, spill some of her degenerate thoughtery that she does. [01:34:36] Well, I quite literally just met her, and I was trying to keep it professional. [01:34:42] I feel like an issue I have is just I blur the lines too quickly with this OF stuff. [01:34:48] I need to keep my private life and my business life separate. [01:34:52] I don't want to surround myself with people that I don't want to become more like. [01:34:56] If that makes sense, like I know what I do for a living, but like I don't condone it. [01:35:00] Have you done content with her? [01:35:02] No, like skits, yes, but like OF content, I don't collab with nobody ever. [01:35:09] Okay, um, yeah, you should, uh, honestly, from what I've heard, she's kind of a dumb bitch. [01:35:26] Uh, oh my god, bro, hold on. [01:35:28] Oh my god, sorry, there's some bullshit going on in the DMs. [01:35:31] Okay, I gotta get up. [01:35:32] You guys. [01:35:33] Should we talk about the high body count for guys still? [01:35:35] Yeah, or talk about something that's interesting so that the people don't leave the stream. [01:35:39] Be right back. [01:35:40] Okay. [01:35:41] Let's guess Brian's body count. [01:35:45] Okay, I'm just kidding. [01:35:47] How much do you want? [01:35:49] 40. [01:35:49] I'm sorry, Brian. [01:35:50] Four. [01:35:52] That's not sorry. [01:35:52] That's so sweet. [01:35:54] Wait, that means he's like an innocent woman. [01:35:55] Wait, I thought that that meant he didn't get play, but okay. [01:35:59] No, I think he had a whole face. [01:36:00] He's fake, probably. [01:36:01] It could mean he's self controlled. [01:36:03] Yeah. [01:36:03] Yeah. [01:36:04] So, what is your line between a man that's really desirable, that they have a high body count, and a man that's like a hoe? [01:36:12] I feel like men are not really even considered hoes. [01:36:14] Like, they can do whatever they want as long as when they're with you, they're with you. [01:36:18] You know what I mean? [01:36:19] Like, they can do whatever they want before they met you. [01:36:22] That's who they were before they met you. [01:36:23] You know, it's who they are when they're with you. [01:36:25] That's what I'm saying. [01:36:25] But for a woman, you don't think it's the same thing? [01:36:27] No. [01:36:28] No. [01:36:28] Because men, they're more limited in actually experiencing dating and women and stuff like that. [01:36:37] Like, they need to have money and a car and all this stuff. [01:36:40] Like, so for a girl, you don't need to have shit. [01:36:44] You can live with your mom. [01:36:45] And you can do whatever you want. [01:36:47] So, if a girl has a high number, it's kind of showing that she's loose or whatever? [01:36:54] Is that what you mean? [01:36:56] I think everyone has their own past. [01:36:59] It just depends on where you are in life, really, and who you connect with and what they're okay with. [01:37:07] I think biologically, I heard that men would rather be with someone with a low body count because it's less likely that they'll get pregnant with another person's baby. [01:37:19] What? [01:37:19] I don't even know. [01:37:20] It was like some statistic. [01:37:21] Like they are less likely to cheat because they have a lower body count and then therefore less likely to get impregnated by a different man's child. [01:37:28] Kind of crazy. [01:37:29] That makes sense though. [01:37:31] Because if you think about how paternity works, I don't agree with it. [01:37:34] I just. [01:37:34] The man can never really know. [01:37:36] So. [01:37:36] Yeah. [01:37:37] Yeah. [01:37:37] It would make sense for him to want you to have the lower body count because it runs less of a risk. [01:37:41] I know. [01:37:42] Can I ask you a question? [01:37:44] You said that you're married, right? [01:37:45] Yeah. [01:37:46] Does your husband like care about like your past or like how did that conversation like go? [01:37:55] It went fine. [01:37:55] I mean, we've been married for a long time, you heard. [01:37:59] I don't even remember what his body count was before meeting me. [01:38:04] Really? [01:38:04] Yeah, and like, I said 22 30 because I don't remember either. [01:38:10] I think if a man cares about your body count, then they shouldn't be the man for you, like for anyone. [01:38:19] Like, if it's for marriage, if it's for like chlamydia, right? [01:38:24] If it's for like, you know, Like sexual, you know, STIs, yeah, maybe it makes sense because you want to be careful. [01:38:30] But like, if you're marrying someone, you're supposed to be with them for much, much longer than like your dating period. [01:38:38] So, why does it matter? [01:38:41] Because you're committing to not like a person who slept with lots of people, you're committing to a person for like their personality, how well they can support you, how well you can like care for each other, how well you can compromise. [01:38:54] That none of that has to do with body count. [01:38:57] So, like, why does it matter? [01:39:00] Yeah. [01:39:01] I'm saying he shouldn't think it matters if he is committing to you for being your partner. [01:39:06] Yeah, I understand. [01:39:09] Yeah, I agree with that. [01:39:10] You're also married, right? [01:39:11] Yes. [01:39:12] Yeah. [01:39:12] Did that matter to you? [01:39:14] Yeah, it mattered. [01:39:15] Oh, really? [01:39:16] I met my husband. [01:39:17] He asked me about my body count. [01:39:18] I told him one. [01:39:19] He couldn't believe it. [01:39:22] Do you think he was more into you because it was love? [01:39:25] He was excited. [01:39:26] Oh, that's interesting. [01:39:27] So, it kind of worked out for me. [01:39:29] What was his body count? [01:39:30] He told me he didn't know. [01:39:31] Sorry. [01:39:32] He was right on the other. [01:39:34] Yeah. [01:39:34] Yeah, it's like that double standard of men not being a hoe. [01:39:38] Yeah. [01:39:41] I do notice that dating in America now is very shitty. [01:39:47] I keep hearing it from my female friends that they're voluntarily celibate because they don't want to hang out with men and all that. [01:39:54] But then, like, men also don't get a chance to hang out with women. [01:39:59] I think a lot of men, once they find out nowadays that women are successful, will try to incorporate themselves so hard into their life to do anything to get some of that money from her. [01:40:12] Yeah. [01:40:13] Because they're not going to go out of their own way to make their own money. [01:40:16] If your wife is rich, like, why would you? [01:40:19] You would just be a sugar baby. [01:40:21] And if your wife's going to let you do that, then whatever. [01:40:23] But I guess that's okay because women have been doing that with men a lot in the past as well. [01:40:30] I literally have done that with one of my boyfriends and I have no problem with it. [01:40:34] Yeah. [01:40:35] I literally fully financially support my man. [01:40:38] Yeah. [01:40:40] Yeah. [01:40:40] And I think like some women might have a problem with that, but like it's like true to each girl. [01:40:45] They can just get a different man. [01:40:47] Yeah. [01:40:49] My husband's preference. [01:40:51] Yeah. [01:40:51] My husband's goal. [01:40:52] I'm a poor man, sorry, for everything. [01:40:54] Yeah. [01:40:54] Yeah. [01:40:55] I remember your clip. [01:40:56] At first, it's okay. [01:40:58] I'm not saying, okay, instantly he meets me, buy me everything. [01:41:01] No. [01:41:03] I'm reasonable. [01:41:04] I feel like you meet me, we're dating, but once we start getting serious, we're compromising for each other. [01:41:11] Maybe even we stay together, we live together. [01:41:13] Now I want you to participate in actually playing your role, and I play my role. [01:41:18] You know what I mean? [01:41:20] I will be cooking for you, cleaning for you, taking care of you, but you also have to do your job as well. [01:41:25] That way it's fair and equal. [01:41:29] I totally agree with that. [01:41:31] I have like the same mindset as that because I think that it's like really important for the guy to like pay for stuff because, in my opinion, that like makes him more masculine and stuff. [01:41:44] And that's like what I'm personally into. [01:41:46] But like, I would never judge anyone for doing other things. [01:41:50] Yeah. [01:41:50] And even like men will feel emasculated. [01:41:52] You pull out your card at a dinner table, they're not going to like that. [01:41:56] They're not going to feel prideful in that. [01:41:58] Like, it's actually like it's going to hurt their ego a little bit and they're going to, they should want to work harder. [01:42:03] I literally give my husband my card beforehand so that he doesn't have to feel embarrassed because I know, like, socially that's like, yeah, down upon, you know, it's like a social thing, yeah, yeah, for sure. [01:42:13] I think the line gets crossed a little bit when you start dating girls. [01:42:17] Like, for me, I'm bisexual, so like, when I date a girl, it's not really like who's paying for who now, it's kind of like we're both spoiling each other. [01:42:25] So, I think I've gotten kind of used to paying for somebody. [01:42:28] That's interesting. [01:42:29] I feel I'm not bisexual, but um, same thing that goes with like girlfriends, I feel like it's. [01:42:35] Like, if you guys go to like a dinner together, sometimes it's like who's like paying for it, you know what I mean? [01:42:42] Yeah, um, yeah. [01:42:45] There, I've actually been in like many friendships that I feel like I got used a lot, like for my money and like buying her stuff because, like, I will spoil my girlfriend that, like, the guy, but like, oh, yeah, that's real, yeah, yeah, okay. [01:43:03] I have a question for Chloe, yeah, um, so you mentioned that, like, you. [01:43:07] You and your mom both wanting to get married, right? [01:43:11] Which one do you think is more important like doing OnlyFans to get rich or getting married? [01:43:17] Definitely getting married, and I would 100% quit if I found the right guy that would want to like marry me. [01:43:26] He would have to like be okay with my past, but I'm definitely like cutting that off for sure. [01:43:34] And it's just like I didn't even really like want to do OnlyFans, it's just something that I fell into like when I was 18. [01:43:42] And I'm thankful for it, but also it does worry me that I'm like limited options to like guys that still like want to marry me and take me seriously, even though I feel like I would be like a great wife. [01:43:58] But because one in 10 women do OnlyFans in America now, right? [01:44:03] That's the study, yeah. [01:44:04] That's what I read. [01:44:05] That's what I read. [01:44:06] So, like, if it's 10%, then is there still a stigma? [01:44:11] Stigma when people ask you? [01:44:13] Or are you like, this is just my job? [01:44:16] And I happen to love or hate my job because people in real life, they love or hate their jobs. [01:44:21] You don't have to love doing OnlyFans either. [01:44:24] Yeah, well, I really feel like I mainly do social media. [01:44:30] That's what I really focus on and stuff. [01:44:34] And OnlyFans is really just to talk to the people that support me. [01:44:39] But honestly, with dating guys, It hasn't really been a problem. [01:44:45] Like, they kind of thought it was attractive, like, usually. [01:44:50] But I think from other people's, like, perspectives that we're not even dating, but they just, like, think that guys wouldn't like me because of OnlyFans. [01:45:01] But, like, in reality, like, when I am, like, talking to a guy, like, it really doesn't matter, or like they like it or think that it's, like, hot. [01:45:09] Yeah, I agree. [01:45:11] Yeah. [01:45:11] I feel like the guy that I'm talking to right now doesn't. [01:45:14] Like it at all, and I was really scared to tell him I did OnlyFans. [01:45:18] But I, my ex, that's a kid, man. [01:45:21] Yeah, my ex, did he get money off of it? [01:45:23] Your ex, or just like I paid for everything for me, my ex. [01:45:26] Oh, okay, yeah, he did that shit. [01:45:27] Yeah, I want a guy like I feel like I agree with her. [01:45:30] Like, I want a guy that wants to get married, that wants to lock me down. [01:45:34] Like, I feel like I'd be way more fulfilled being someone's wife and like them taking care of me than doing OnlyFans because like I do want to be married and have myself just for my husband and all of that, but. [01:45:47] It was scary telling the person I'm talking to now about how did he handle it. [01:45:51] I was scared. [01:45:52] I called my mom, told her, What should I say? and then I called him. [01:45:56] He was like, Okay, with it, but he was like, If we got more serious, I don't think I'd want you to do it. [01:46:01] Okay, so he's okay with it being there like in the past, but if you guys get married or something, he's like, If I got married, I would totally deactivate my account. [01:46:08] I feel like if I was married, I just want to make my husband happy. [01:46:11] Yeah, but what if like he doesn't have a job and he needs you to keep doing your OnlyFans? [01:46:16] Yeah, but what if like he doesn't have a job again? [01:46:20] Not again. [01:46:21] No. [01:46:22] But, like, I think everyone's entitled to their own opinion, though. [01:46:25] Like, I feel like some people don't like it, some people do. [01:46:28] But at the end of the day, for me, it is just a job. [01:46:31] And, like she said, that's how I talk to people that really support me, that like me. [01:46:35] Yeah. [01:46:36] Everyone, it's like different levels to OnlyFans, I feel like. [01:46:39] Yeah. [01:46:39] Yeah. [01:46:39] It's pretty crazy. [01:46:40] So, like, I, when I decided to come on, my friend, like, I had someone who DM'd me and was like, good job getting invited for someone who doesn't have OnlyFans. [01:46:50] What? [01:46:51] Yeah. [01:46:52] Like, the DM's. [01:46:53] That's kind of backhanded. [01:46:54] I know, I know. [01:46:56] I know. [01:46:57] You're listening. [01:46:58] Yeah, it's backhanded. [01:46:59] Yeah, the judgment kind of extended beyond the person that does OnlyFans to the person who's sitting next to a few seats removed from someone that does OnlyFans, which is crazy. [01:47:09] Like, someone else was like, Oh, you're going on a show, but you're not a sex worker. [01:47:15] I like it when there's OF girls and girls that do different types of sex work or girls that are married. [01:47:20] Like, I love the married women. [01:47:22] Shout out to the married women. [01:47:23] Married girls. [01:47:24] It's good. [01:47:24] It's great. [01:47:25] We want to be like you. [01:47:26] No, literally. [01:47:27] Like, my inspiration is. [01:47:28] Sitting across the table. [01:47:29] Don't tell her. [01:47:32] Yeah, I just think it's a job. [01:47:34] I don't understand why it's so demonized and why people. [01:47:38] I think sex work since the beginning of time has been one of the oldest and not most critical jobs. [01:47:44] I mean, there's nobody in history who has supported sex work back in the days, let alone like why would they support it? [01:47:51] I like hate that word, like sex work. [01:47:53] It's like, I don't think, in my opinion, it applies to like social media and OnlyFans, but like that's my opinion. [01:48:01] I think, I'm sorry. [01:48:03] Yeah. [01:48:03] Like, I think when people use like harsh words like that, like prostitution, sex work, and stuff like that, like it is in a way like it's. [01:48:10] Good that they're demonizing it and like discouraging younger generations from doing it because, like, the rate at which people have been just starting to do OF, like, they don't need to. [01:48:19] Yeah, a lot of people don't need to do that. [01:48:21] Yeah, yeah. [01:48:21] I just want to get your guys' input. [01:48:24] So, it's like, say you're going on a date with a guy, right? [01:48:26] And so he buys you food, you know, and then after you go home and you put out right for him, is that not in some form or fashion technically prostitution? [01:48:37] You didn't get money, but you got food. [01:48:40] So, I mean, legally they say that it's a gift. [01:48:46] Any kind of gift, or it could be funds or something like material. [01:48:50] It's technically if you're doing it and then having a sexy time, that would be. [01:48:56] Yeah, so I'm just curious because, you know, the normality, right? [01:48:59] I think for a lot of people is like, say you meet someone on Tinder and then you go have dinner, right? [01:49:05] And then maybe you have a few drinks and you want to put out, right? [01:49:09] But it's like, that's kind of what just Went down, if you ask me. [01:49:12] I think the difference is obligation. [01:49:15] Like, if someone expects that from you and you feel obligated to provide, then that's a transactional service. [01:49:21] That's a transaction. [01:49:22] Right. [01:49:22] I feel like that's the most, mostly, it's like the normality of everything, I feel like, at this point today. [01:49:30] Also, I feel like the difference with this one is with prostitution, it's looked at as a career. [01:49:36] So, if you're looking at you sleeping with this guy after dinner as work, Then, yes, it is prostitution. [01:49:43] If you look at it like prostitution, it is prostitution. [01:49:46] All right, I've returned. [01:49:47] What kind of crazy stuff have you guys gone into? [01:49:49] Is there room for you to scoot over? === Podcast Reputation Stats (06:59) === [01:49:51] Not really. [01:49:52] Not really. [01:49:53] So, two things I heard while I was back there momentarily that I wanted to respond to. [01:50:00] So, okay, you were saying that the term sex work and prostitution is what? [01:50:06] You said something, I heard the word discouraging. [01:50:10] Can you repeat your thought there? [01:50:12] Yeah, so like I feel like when people like use those kind of words, like it shouldn't really be offensive. [01:50:17] It should just really be like discouraging like the younger generations from wanting to do it, or I guess so to speak, like glamorizing it. [01:50:24] Like when some girls go on and talk about OF and they're like, oh, I don't have to sell like naked pictures. [01:50:29] It's so easy. [01:50:31] Like you just get ready, you don't have to do any work. [01:50:33] Like it's that's like glamorizing it. [01:50:35] And really, it's like not accurate. [01:50:37] Like you get into it and you're trapped. [01:50:39] Like you feel trapped. [01:50:41] Oh no. [01:50:42] Ram Smur, thank you for the gifted 25 subs on Twitch. [01:50:46] Guys. [01:50:47] That's a big, big gifted sub thing. [01:50:50] So thank you, man. [01:50:50] Appreciate it. [01:50:51] Okay, so you think that you actually are fine with the categorization of girls who do OnlyFans or whatever as sex workers or even prostitutes? [01:51:01] Yeah, I think we should not be normalizing it. [01:51:03] Like, as a society, we should not be normalizing girls who do OnlyFans. [01:51:06] You're an OnlyFans girl. [01:51:07] You're participating in the normalization. [01:51:09] I know. [01:51:09] But this is not what I want to do for a living. [01:51:11] So, like, I did get into it, and I feel like even being experienced in how, like, Things work or meeting other people that do it. [01:51:19] Well, the second thing I wanted to address was your point over there. [01:51:23] You said that it was like, oh, wow, they let a non sex worker on the show. [01:51:28] That was what someone told me when I told them I was coming on. [01:51:33] The unfortunate thing with this is that whatever podcast has this unfair reputation for only bringing on sex workers, and although the percentage is a bit higher for this specific panel, you look at our other panels and you look in all the shows we've done, we're almost at 300 shows now. [01:51:59] It's like 15%. [01:52:00] So, 15% of all the guests we've had on are sex workers. [01:52:04] That means the majority of our guests are not sex workers. [01:52:06] They're just normal girls. [01:52:10] Unfortunately, this is going to be something that I think is going to be, it's just such an easy attack for people to do to just be like, oh, they just bring on dumb sex workers and dunk on them, blah, blah, blah. [01:52:19] Even though most of these women that we bring on, I'm not saying even necessarily tonight, most of the women are more educated than me. [01:52:27] They've been to college for longer, they have degrees. [01:52:30] So, It is somewhat frustrating. [01:52:34] And you know what I think I need to do to combat it? [01:52:38] I'm looking for volunteers to help me with something. [01:52:41] So, I had someone like a year ago do stats on our show. [01:52:47] Unfortunately, this person's no longer available. [01:52:50] But I had someone like do stats and okay, what's the age of our guests? [01:52:55] And they created actually, we can pull it up. [01:52:57] Can you pull up the Discord? [01:52:59] And then you're going to go to like, it's like whatever stats or something like that. [01:53:04] In the Discord, and I can actually show you what they did. [01:53:06] Now, the reason I'm asking for volunteers, and maybe we can like do a group effort to do this. [01:53:12] Okay, so it's where is it? [01:53:15] It's research whatever stats. [01:53:19] Do you have it? [01:53:21] Yeah. [01:53:22] Okay, pull it up, please. [01:53:26] It's the first at the very top. [01:53:28] You're going to click on it and show it. [01:53:31] So, someone did this for our first like 200 shows. [01:53:38] All right, so they took some stats, and I'm going to show this. [01:53:41] This is in our Discord, discord.ggslash whatever. [01:53:44] Go to the next one, though. [01:53:48] All right, so, and this is not updated. [01:53:52] This is back like only our first 200 episodes, so we need to add the 100 to this. [01:53:57] Next, next, average age, next, next. [01:54:08] Next, this is the sex worker one. [01:54:12] So, OnlyFans 17%. [01:54:18] Now, I've been kind of keeping some track. [01:54:20] So, there it says it's about 20% in total if you factor in like sex workers slash OnlyFans girls. [01:54:26] But actually, since we've taken this stat, we've had a lot less OnlyFans girls come on. [01:54:31] So, that's why I say the stat is closer to 15% than 20% than we show there. [01:54:35] What I'm looking to try to do is I want to take, and those stats weren't quite as robust as what I'm trying to do now. [01:54:41] I'm trying to like group, bulk group process it. [01:54:47] And basically, if people want to volunteer, and like maybe I could have like somebody go through episode one through 10, and then another person 10 through 20, another person 100 to 110, we're going to get like much more detailed from all the people. [01:55:05] And so we could actually put the stats out there, but it's going to be like age, we're going to do their rating, we're going to do their body count. [01:55:12] So we're going to be able to show you like average. [01:55:15] Looks ratings, like average body counts, highest body count, like all these really interesting stats. [01:55:20] But I, it's like to go through 300 of episodes is like way too much work for just one person. [01:55:26] So, I'm basically looking for volunteers who are down to just spend like an hour, go through, you'll be assigned 10 episodes, and we'll try to do it like that. [01:55:36] And there'll be a formatting for how you do it. [01:55:38] So, if I'm worried, if I tell you guys to DM me, I'm going to get like way too many DMs. [01:55:46] I think the best way to do it would be if you're interested in helping, go to the whatever Instagram. [01:55:53] That's Instagram.com slash whatever, just at whatever. [01:55:57] And if you're interested in helping with that, Tell me how many episodes you're down to do, but the minimum would be 10. [01:56:04] And then I'll assign you like 10, or if you're willing to do more, we could do more. [01:56:11] I would estimate to do 10, it's about an hour's worth of work. [01:56:14] And then you're basically just going through the episodes. [01:56:17] You can use the timestamp feature. [01:56:19] You can even, yeah, I think if you use the, excuse me, not the timestamp, the transcript feature, use transcript, that will help. [01:56:30] Speed things up. [01:56:31] I think you can get it done within like five minutes to 10 minutes per episode. [01:56:35] So, you know, if it's five minutes, it's closer to now. [01:56:38] Anyways, we'll get back to the show, but I did want to point that out. [01:56:41] If you're interested in helping us get statistics so I can fight these people on like Twitter and shit who are like, Brian, you just invited on OnlyFans. [01:56:49] Okay, well, here's our statistics. [01:56:50] It's like 10% 50%. === Editing Women Badly (14:57) === [01:56:51] Have you thought about like why they think that? [01:56:55] Like, do you have guesses? [01:56:56] I have a guess. [01:56:57] Well, I think it's kind of like. [01:57:01] It's the climate of people just not taking their time to do research. [01:57:06] So it's like how people arrive at the idea that Trump is a fascist. [01:57:11] It's the same way how people arrive at Trump is a Nazi. [01:57:15] It's just like, or Trump has like done XYZ bad thing. [01:57:19] But if you literally take five to 10 minutes to actually investigate any of these claims, they're completely bogus. [01:57:24] But people see a like a headline on some dog shit like MSNBC or CNN, or they see some dumbass TikTok and they just immediately go with it. [01:57:33] They don't even, there's no critical thinking. [01:57:35] They just see the headline. [01:57:36] They want to believe it. [01:57:39] It's helpful rhetorically for them to espouse it and to believe it. [01:57:43] So they just run with it. [01:57:45] So I think it's low IQ retardation. [01:57:48] I would say that you ask me why people do that. [01:57:50] I'd say it's low IQ retardation. [01:57:54] And that, yeah. [01:57:59] Go ahead. [01:58:00] You had a question, though? [01:58:01] Kiki? [01:58:02] Kiko. [01:58:03] Kiko, I apologize. [01:58:04] No worries. [01:58:05] The reason I ask that is because when the clip from whatever first got sent to my feed, I also felt like some type of way. [01:58:14] Like I had. [01:58:15] Okay, you felt some type of way that's not communicating anything. [01:58:18] What does that mean? [01:58:19] I felt like the show was portraying women in a negative light. [01:58:24] What does that have to do with sex workers? [01:58:27] And some of the videos, a lot of the videos had a lot of OnlyFans girls kind of talk about their experience. [01:58:35] That's the clip I got fed. [01:58:38] So, first off, anybody who follows me on any of the platforms that we post clips on, Actually, the sex worker convo, pretty. [01:58:48] Occasionally we do clip it, but most of our clips are not like dunking on the sex worker. [01:58:53] There are some of those, but the majority of our clips, if you actually watch the clips, this is what confuses me. [01:58:58] Well, I don't watch the show, Brian. [01:59:00] I watch the clips, and from the clips, it's the sex workers. [01:59:02] It's like, you know, first off, in the clips, the girls aren't like, hi, I'm a sex worker. [01:59:11] So people are just making assumptions. [01:59:13] Like, literally, there'll be a clip where I'm talking to a girl. [01:59:17] And it shows no other women, and that girl is not a sex worker, and they'll be like, How could he be dunked? [01:59:22] All he does is dunk on sex workers. [01:59:23] I'm like, that girl's a college student. [01:59:25] That girl works at a company. [01:59:28] She doesn't do OnlyFans. [01:59:29] They just assume it. [01:59:32] But going back to your original thing, you said that it portrays, what were you saying? [01:59:36] It portrays women in a bad light? [01:59:39] In a negative light. [01:59:40] How so? [01:59:41] A lot of the clips are of women answering or unable to answer math questions, geography questions, or wanting men to do everything for them. [01:59:54] Those are the clips that go viral, I would guess. [01:59:56] That's how they get onto my feed. [01:59:58] Hold on. [01:59:59] So, hold on. [02:00:00] That's two separate categories of clips. [02:00:01] I have like a segment of clips where it's like easy, simple question fails. [02:00:07] Yeah, yeah. [02:00:08] I don't know what that necessarily has to do with the. [02:00:11] Well, okay. [02:00:11] You moved on to it portrays women in a bad light. [02:00:15] What was your phrasing? [02:00:16] It portrays women in a bad light? [02:00:17] In a negative light. [02:00:19] And what I wanted to say is. [02:00:21] Oh, sorry. [02:00:21] Go ahead. [02:00:22] What I wanted to say is I think the clips are not a fair and complete representation of the actual show. [02:00:28] And I didn't realize until I watched like two whole shows. [02:00:33] And I wondered if that's like what you intended. [02:00:36] Or is that just like people, like, is it what you intended? [02:00:40] You put out clips that get a lot of eyeballs and they happen to make women, you know, look dumb. [02:00:46] Or is it that, or is it something else? [02:00:49] I mean, I have a couple contentions there with you. [02:00:52] So, first is this idea that the clips are not representative of the show. [02:00:58] So, my contention there is. [02:01:03] It's not. [02:01:06] How do I frame this? [02:01:08] Obviously, across any production, the clips that are being put out, and this isn't just my show, this is going to be whether it's for a movie, like a movie trailer or a TV show. [02:01:23] You look at a trailer, and the trailer is going to have typically like the enticing, exciting moments that did in fact occur during the show. [02:01:33] So anything that we're clipping. [02:01:35] Did in fact occur during our shows. [02:01:38] And so obviously, we're not going to like release a clip where it's just like the introductions where people are just like, Hi, I'm Becky. [02:01:47] I'm 21. [02:01:48] I went to school, blah, blah, blah. [02:01:50] Like that would be boring. [02:01:51] We're going to, the clips we're going to put out are going to be the interesting conversations, the interesting moments. [02:01:58] So that's my first contention. [02:02:03] Like this is something not unique to the whatever podcast. [02:02:06] But any sort of live streamers, any content, if they're putting out shorts, if they're putting out clips, they're going to be the most exciting or whatever, like the most exciting moments. [02:02:20] This is not something that's unique to the whatever podcast. [02:02:23] The second thing there, I'm trying to recall, you said that makes them look bad. [02:02:30] So, for example, say yes right now. [02:02:34] Just say yes. [02:02:35] Yes. [02:02:36] Okay. [02:02:37] Have you ever abused animals? [02:02:39] No. [02:02:40] Okay, making a clip that were to make you look bad is if I had my editor use your yes in response to me asking you if you abuse animals. [02:02:53] We don't do that. [02:02:54] We don't swap in a woman saying yes to a question that she did not say yes to. [02:03:03] So when you say making them look stupid, that would suggest that the whatever podcast is manufacturing. [02:03:13] Something that isn't doesn't exist. [02:03:17] So, if a woman says some dumb shit, I'm not making her look stupid. [02:03:23] She's making herself look stupid. [02:03:26] Now, if we clip it, that's, again, not us making them look stupid. [02:03:31] They are making themselves look stupid. [02:03:34] I feel a little attacked. [02:03:36] I. [02:03:36] Okay, hold on. [02:03:37] Let's. [02:03:37] With me? [02:03:38] A little bit on one point. [02:03:40] Okay, what's the point? [02:03:41] So, last time I was on the show, I had thought for one of the questions that you said three, I don't even remember what it was, but I got the answer wrong because I misheard you. [02:03:50] And you clipped just the part where I got it wrong instead of the part right directly after where I got it right because I heard you right. [02:03:56] I would have to see the clip in question, but you did in fact get it wrong initially. [02:04:01] So you said three plus something plus something, not times. [02:04:06] Yeah, but this wouldn't really counter the primary thing I was saying there. [02:04:10] That's a different criticism. [02:04:12] The primary thing I said there was we're not like clipping in, we're not clipping in the answer to like, Okay, are you abusing animals? [02:04:23] And then, like, we take a yes from a time you said yes somewhere else in the podcast and putting it there to make it seem like you abuse animals when you otherwise said no. [02:04:32] Yeah. [02:04:33] So there's a difference. [02:04:34] There's a difference that exists there. [02:04:36] Now, you might, in terms of the rapid fire, simple questions or whatever, you did in fact fail in answering the question. [02:04:46] That's secondary, though. [02:04:47] I do need to pass it back to her to give her a response. [02:04:50] Who? [02:04:50] Me? [02:04:51] No, her in the corner. [02:04:52] Oh, me? [02:04:52] Yes. [02:04:53] Should we have Chloe? [02:04:54] Because Chloe has something. [02:04:56] She doesn't have anything. [02:04:57] Trust me. [02:04:58] Go ahead. [02:04:59] Go ahead. [02:05:02] So, maybe what was your question specifically, or were you just responding to her? [02:05:08] I was responding to you. [02:05:09] So, usually, like. [02:05:10] Yeah. [02:05:11] So, I'm sharing my personal opinion, which was when I first saw the clips, I think some of the clips made me angry. [02:05:19] How so? [02:05:20] Like angry towards me, angry towards the women. [02:05:23] I think it had to do with. [02:05:26] Another popular opinion of the show is that it's a red pill podcast, which, because I haven't been in the US for a very long time, I didn't know what that meant in the beginning when people said that to me. [02:05:38] But it seems like it's about men kind of making themselves look better and making women look worse. [02:05:44] It's kind of what it seemed to be. [02:05:47] So I took that perspective and I viewed it with a sliver of anger. [02:05:51] But then when I was deciding whether I would go on the show, I actually learned a lot from watching Ayla on the show. [02:05:59] I think that's her name, A E L L A. [02:06:03] She was the sex worker and also data scientist, data analyst person. [02:06:08] Oh, that was a long time ago. [02:06:09] Yeah, it was a long time ago. [02:06:10] Yeah, I know what you're talking about. [02:06:11] Yeah, so I remember watching that whole thing, and I remember that when she was disrespected, you actually looked visibly uncomfortable, and you wanted to stop the spiral that the debate was going towards. [02:06:23] That's what I observed. [02:06:24] So I didn't think it was your intention to produce a red pill podcast. [02:06:30] Or to produce a podcast that treated women poorly. [02:06:34] But so that's a. [02:06:35] Well, I think it's fair. [02:06:36] Okay, hold on. [02:06:37] You should add some additional context. [02:06:38] Yeah, yeah. [02:06:39] When you said I was looking uncomfortable, that girl who was sitting in chair one, Ayla, was engaging with Andrew Wilson via a video call. [02:06:46] And it wasn't me who was saying anything. [02:06:48] Right. [02:06:49] They're saying Andrew Wilson, I think he called her like autistic or something like that. [02:06:52] He was being a bit abrasive. [02:06:54] Yeah. [02:06:54] And I would. [02:06:55] So, yes. [02:06:57] I think in that specific instance, I did think. [02:07:01] I'm trying to remember exactly what Andrew said. [02:07:03] You tried to like redirect it. [02:07:04] I think Andrew was like, said she was spurging out or being autistic or something. [02:07:10] I don't exactly remember what. [02:07:12] Yeah. [02:07:12] And I do think, I, yeah, I don't recall exactly. [02:07:17] I found it, look, Andrew's a friend of mine. [02:07:19] I have, Andrew's a good friend of mine. [02:07:23] But look, there are instances, and I'm sure there's instances where I've said something stupid, and Andrew's like, oh my God, Brian, you fuck. [02:07:29] Why would you say that? [02:07:31] I think in that instance, it did seem a bit, she was being polite, and I think he might have been like, oh, you're spurring out, or you're being like, you're autism or something. [02:07:42] I think it might have been a little rough, to be honest. [02:07:45] But I mean, okay, besides that? [02:07:47] Yeah, so the reason I made that point is because after I watched the show for more extended periods of time, I realized that there's a lot of interesting information. [02:07:56] I'm learning stuff. [02:07:58] So I'm perceiving that there's this big gap between how the show is perceived and what the show is in reality. [02:08:06] So that's kind of what I'm calling out. [02:08:08] And I'm wondering, are you comfortable with that? [02:08:14] Should we address it? [02:08:16] People think the show has a lot of sex worker, people think the show is red pill, but after people have spent time actually watching it, they will realize it's not that. [02:08:26] Yeah, so I mean, there's a couple things there. [02:08:28] Again, I guess I don't know if I. [02:08:30] We also don't have to stay on this topic, by the way. [02:08:32] This is just. [02:08:32] Yes, that's fine. [02:08:33] Yeah, we won't linger long, but I guess I did want to clarify. [02:08:38] I mean, I already established my position that, and I don't know if you have a contention with, you said that we make them look dumb. [02:08:46] Yeah, I'm saying that was my initial reaction. [02:08:49] And then. [02:08:50] Yeah, well, the reason I bring it up is because we frequently get this criticism. [02:08:55] We've had, like, the New York Post write a thing. [02:08:58] New disturbing trend in podcasting makes women look stupid. [02:09:01] Okay, so that's why I'm so stupid. [02:09:03] Well, no, other people have levied what I think is a false criticism. [02:09:07] But this idea that make them look stupid. [02:09:12] So if I present a platform and it's an open microphone, anybody can talk, people can say things. [02:09:18] If, like, a 39 year old, like, Obese single mom comes on the show and she's like, Yeah, I want to date a six foot three guy who makes a million dollars a year. [02:09:28] Am I making her look stupid or is she saying some incredibly dumb shit? [02:09:32] Like, that's not, huh? [02:09:33] Yeah, you will be presenting the difference between her perception and her reality, right? [02:09:40] Like, you're saying there's like unevenness. [02:09:42] Yeah, but so if we clip that and it's like, Okay, here's a woman who's like definitely has no chance, I mean, I guess never say never, but like, yeah, 40 year old women who are. [02:09:55] Fucking got kids, are probably not at the top of the totem pole in terms of like millionaire men and who they want to date. [02:10:04] So, like, yes, we have women who come on and say delusional shit. [02:10:07] That's not me making them look stupid. [02:10:09] If a woman comes on, like, we had this one woman who came on who was like, well, she was nothing special, let's just say. [02:10:17] And she was like, he needs to make $5 million a year minimum. [02:10:21] I'm like, what? [02:10:22] That's her making her look stupid. [02:10:25] I just have the platform. [02:10:28] That's not me making. [02:10:29] I'm not forcing the women to say these things. [02:10:33] They just say them. [02:10:34] And nor are you. [02:10:36] Is it correct to understand that you're also not like casting people that are more prone to saying stuff like that? [02:10:44] Most of the time, we don't even know how they're going to answer these questions. [02:10:48] Our initial casting thing is like, aside from just basic biographical, I think we ask age, location, relationship status. [02:11:00] Do you have any dating hot takes? [02:11:02] Any dating topics you want to speak on? [02:11:04] Any disagreements? [02:11:05] So, like, we actually don't even really know ahead of time. [02:11:10] We do have this questionnaire here, but you fill this out when you're like already here. [02:11:14] So that wouldn't have anything to do with like they're already here to be on the show. [02:11:17] We're not, we wouldn't be selecting for them. [02:11:20] It's like, oh, you filled this out and you didn't, okay, well, you're not going to, you don't get to be on the show if you don't fill this questionnaire out in a way that we find appropriate. [02:11:29] So that's never happened. [02:11:31] So no, pretty much if you message and you're like, hey, I want to be on and you're able to make it to the studio, that's almost pretty much it. [02:11:41] Like there's not, Sometimes, like, it's a very high acceptance rate. === Red Pill Definitions (04:45) === [02:11:48] Let's just say that. [02:11:49] Like, we have a very high acceptance rate. [02:11:51] Yeah. [02:11:52] There are sometimes, like, if somebody, for example, it's do you have any disagreements? [02:11:56] Do you have any dating hot takes? [02:11:58] Any interesting dating stories? [02:12:00] And if a woman just writes, like, nope, nope, nope to all of those, I'm like, well, why do you want to be on the show? [02:12:06] So I'll turn them away if they're just like, I have nothing to say. [02:12:10] Well, I'm like, it's a dating discussion podcast. [02:12:13] You're. [02:12:14] So, I'll turn them away, but the acceptance rate is very high. [02:12:17] And so, we're not like exclusively looking for the dumb people or whatever. [02:12:22] I guess you're. [02:12:22] Yeah, I think you can clip that entire 10 minutes and use that as justification of why that perception is wrong. [02:12:32] Right. [02:12:34] Perhaps, what was the other thing you said, though? [02:12:36] I'm trying to. [02:12:38] There was another thing you said that I wanted to address. [02:12:40] Okay. [02:12:42] Well, no, I was saying, okay, I'm going to address the like making them look a certain way. [02:12:47] What was the other thing? [02:12:49] The red pill thing. [02:12:50] Oh, the red pill. [02:12:51] Yeah, what's red pill? [02:12:52] What does that even mean? [02:12:52] Yeah, I don't, I didn't know, right? [02:12:55] So I was talking to my team about whether I should come on to the show, and my team was like, Isn't that the red pill podcast? [02:13:03] And then I went and looked up what it meant, and it led me to Andrew Tate, Menosphere. [02:13:11] And I saw this one person who came on the show to do a debate. [02:13:16] I think he has a podcast called Women on Men, and then he was explicitly saying red pill a lot. [02:13:22] Yeah. [02:13:23] So I guess like I'm actually asking for a definition from you. [02:13:26] What does red pill represent and why are you that or not that? [02:13:31] Or why is whatever, not you personally, like why is whatever red pill or not red pill in your definition? [02:13:36] Yeah, sure. [02:13:37] I actually have notes on this. [02:13:38] So I mean, what red pill is, and also you use the term manosphere, and I think it's worth diving into that a little bit. [02:13:47] Yeah. [02:13:48] So the red pill comes from the film The Matrix. [02:13:51] Right. [02:13:51] I don't know if you've seen that movie. [02:13:52] Yes. [02:13:53] So. [02:13:54] Red pill can mean different things to different people. [02:13:57] Now, there's like red pill dating, which has some categorizations you can go of. [02:14:04] I don't consider myself falling under the like strict red pill dating framework, but this is not like some centralized ideology. [02:14:17] Like, there's not a leader, like, there's not really a coherent definition of what red pill means necessarily in a dating context. [02:14:25] But so when it comes from the film, so it's a metaphor for choosing to see the world as it actually is rather than as you're told it is. [02:14:36] So, red pill could be the ugly truth, the blue pill is a beautiful lie. [02:14:41] Red pill truth, red pill reality, embracing the truth, even if the truth could be painful and uncomfortable. [02:14:49] Women can take the red pill too. [02:14:52] So, it's like choosing to be honest with yourself and also with reality. [02:14:56] So, like, honesty, Maxine. [02:14:58] Pretty much. [02:14:59] Yeah. [02:14:59] So, I mean, if you were to ask me, like, when it comes to that, by the way, people can, like, be red pilled on various things. [02:15:05] Like, Elon Musk tweeted about being red pilled. [02:15:08] You can be red pilled on immigration. [02:15:10] You can be red pilled on the trans bullshit. [02:15:12] You can be red pilled on, uh, fuck. [02:15:16] I mean, uh, economics. [02:15:19] You can be red pilled on all sorts of things. [02:15:21] So it's like, okay, what do we mean by this? [02:15:23] What do we mean when we're talking about red pill? [02:15:26] If I use red pill and if I were to refer to myself as red pill, it wouldn't be from like some paradigm of like, okay, you need to be fucking a bunch of different women and you need to be promiscuous as a man and you need to like basically be polyamorous, but all the women are loyal to you. [02:15:43] And, uh, I reject that sense of what the red pill is. [02:15:47] But from my perspective, if I'm ever using the red pill, it simply means to see the truth of a thing. [02:15:55] That's what it means. [02:15:56] But when people use the red pill, they tend to want to smuggle in with it some sort of like, they want to smuggle in misogyny. [02:16:07] They want to maybe sometimes smuggle in racism. [02:16:09] They want to smuggle in like anti female sentiment, which I reject. [02:16:14] Completely reject all those things. [02:16:17] So, it's this nebulous term. [02:16:18] Like, what does it even really mean? [02:16:20] Especially when it's being used as an attack on someone. [02:16:23] What does that mean? [02:16:24] The red pill pipeline. [02:16:26] Then they'll say, okay, you're alt right, alt right pipeline, far right pipeline. [02:16:32] What does that mean? [02:16:33] I don't know what that actually means. === Anti-Female Sentiment (04:24) === [02:16:34] Same with the manosphere. [02:16:35] What does that mean? [02:16:36] Okay, you're a manosphere creator. [02:16:38] Are you MGTOW? [02:16:39] Are you a PUA? [02:16:40] Are you a look maxer? [02:16:41] Are you incel? [02:16:42] Are you what? [02:16:44] What are you? [02:16:45] What does that mean? [02:16:46] What does it mean to be manosphere? [02:16:48] Are you like giving fitness advice? [02:16:50] Are you Andrew Tate? [02:16:53] Are you pro sex worker? [02:16:54] Are you anti sex worker? [02:16:56] What is, are you like Christian nationalist? [02:16:59] What is the manosphere? [02:17:00] It's a nebulous term that has a constantly shifting definition that ultimately means nothing. [02:17:08] It's a labeling tool. [02:17:09] It's a labeling tool to sort of, in the same way that people like to call people incel, it's just this immediate labeling tool in an effort to be like dismissive of a person. [02:17:23] That's what I think it is. [02:17:26] We don't have to stay on this since it's not about dating and relationships. [02:17:31] No, I'm fine with it. [02:17:32] I think it's interesting. [02:17:33] I don't know much about Menosphere. [02:17:35] It's just I saw that there's a documentary about it that features Andrew Tate. [02:17:38] I haven't watched it, actually. [02:17:40] So, what is, I mean, yeah, I'm more interested in the femisphere, to be honest. [02:17:45] I'm actually surprised that there isn't much scrutiny of what I think is actually a much more far reaching. [02:17:56] Much more sexist movement than the supposed manosphere. [02:18:02] In fact, and you have what you have happening is like forces, you have cancel culture, you have deplatforming happening to certain manosphere creators, people in the space. [02:18:16] You know, what happened to Andrew Tate completely deplatformed, some other people deplatformed. [02:18:24] But then you see what is allowed on TikTok from women, and as a woman, You can basically be putting out like the most insane anti male rhetoric slash propaganda and nothing will happen. [02:18:39] The commenters, all the women, like I've seen the most man hating shit on TikTok. [02:18:44] It's like 2 million likes. [02:18:46] All the comments are like, this is like just fucking terrible. [02:18:50] Women can just outright say, I hate men. [02:18:53] And it's completely, there's no issue with it whatsoever. [02:18:56] Whereas you take, you compare some of the things like Drew off Wallow, literally is like an admitted. [02:19:04] Self confessed misandrist. [02:19:06] Like she literally hates men and she's got a blue check mark on TikTok. [02:19:10] She's verified. [02:19:11] She gets book deals. [02:19:13] She gets sponsorships. [02:19:14] And it's like, where is the scrutiny? [02:19:17] Where is the scrutiny of all the anti male rhetoric coming from women? [02:19:22] It's tolerated, it's accepted, and it's rewarded when women hate men. [02:19:27] But the moment you get even a little hint, and I don't think misogyny is good, you get a little hint of misogyny, instant bam. [02:19:36] You're banned off the platform instantly. [02:19:38] But women can literally make videos with captions that say, I hate men, 200,000 likes, 2 million likes. [02:19:45] Here's a blue check mark. [02:19:47] Here's sponsorships for you. [02:19:49] Yeah. [02:19:50] So, why aren't we scrutinizing the femisphere? [02:19:54] And I'm actually going to start, I'm going to fuck inside the manosphere. [02:19:59] I'm going to start a series called Inside the Femisphere. [02:20:02] And I'm actually going to do live stream deep dives into all these women. [02:20:07] On fucking TikTok. [02:20:09] I don't know how TikTok allows this shit. [02:20:11] It's literally rife with anti male rhetoric and hatred on TikTok. [02:20:17] It's insane. [02:20:18] And nobody's fucking talking about it. [02:20:21] These journalists fucking want to come to me and be like, hey, we are doing a hit piece on you. [02:20:27] We'd like a comment. [02:20:28] Meanwhile, I can sit here and say, I don't hate women. [02:20:31] I think women are great. [02:20:32] I'm not a misogynist. [02:20:33] Maybe people call me it, but I'm not a misogynist. [02:20:36] I've never said I hate women. [02:20:38] Never would take the title of misogynist. [02:20:42] Meanwhile, you literally have stated misandrous women who accept the label. [02:20:49] They revel in the label of misandrous on TikTok, completely unopposed. [02:20:55] No censorship from the platform. [02:20:57] It's fucking ridiculous. [02:20:57] Anyways, I'm kind of. === TikTok Anti-Male Rhetoric (14:58) === [02:20:59] We're going into an interesting tangent. [02:21:01] Well, it's not your podcast. [02:21:03] So if I want to talk about surfing for the next two hours, you can all fucking sit here in silence and nod your head like good little submissive. [02:21:12] No, okay. [02:21:12] Just kidding. [02:21:15] Like good, submissive podcast guests while I rant about surfing. [02:21:20] That's how it's going to be. [02:21:22] But yes, I wasn't going to linger on that for much longer. [02:21:26] Yeah, I read this article called The Lost Generation. [02:21:29] I don't know if you've read it. [02:21:31] It's actually quite long, and it talks about how white men are actually being scrutinized over and being mistreated in modern day. [02:21:40] And it's really interesting if you guys want to read it. [02:21:42] And it talks about how everyone still thinks white men are. [02:21:46] More dominant, has more power, has all these unequal treatment. [02:21:51] But in reality, the last few decades, everyone is trying to treat other genders and races properly at the cost of the white man not being put in positions because of meritocracy. [02:22:09] Someone who isn't a white man is getting certain jobs, someone who isn't a white man is being praised for something that a white man is doing better, and things like that. [02:22:19] So it's a very interesting. [02:22:21] Like, trend that I'm like observing. [02:22:25] Yeah. [02:22:26] Well, it definitely is very interesting. [02:22:28] And oh, shoot, there's something else I was going to touch on here as a final little end to this. [02:22:34] Fuck, what was it? [02:22:36] Oh, you know what? [02:22:36] There was an interesting study done that actually, well, there's two things. [02:22:43] There's two things on this. [02:22:48] Women are becoming more radicalized than men are. [02:22:52] So there's a Tiffany. [02:22:54] If you can go into the Discord, there's under the research, it's in infographics, it's right below the whatever stats that I had pulled up. [02:23:03] Oh man, how far up is it? [02:23:06] Let me see where it is. [02:23:07] Ah, yeah. [02:23:07] So you're going to go up to the date on it is January 17th. [02:23:13] Or Nathan, my bad. [02:23:14] I didn't see it was you. [02:23:18] I think that's it. [02:23:20] Let me know when you have it. [02:23:22] All right. [02:23:23] You can pull that up. [02:23:25] All right. [02:23:26] The gap between young men and women almost doubled in the past 25 years. [02:23:30] Political ideology of US 18 to 29. [02:23:33] So you actually notice since 2000, men have mostly, men are the yellow there. [02:23:38] Uh, men have actually stayed the same, so like more conservative on the bottom, more liberal on the top. [02:23:43] Women have gotten way more liberal, whereas men have mostly kind of stayed the same in terms of their politics. [02:23:51] Women have gone much more liberal now. [02:23:54] X out of that, you're gonna scroll up to hold on, uh, there's another one that's interesting. [02:24:02] It's uh from October 20, 2025, so it's like I don't know, a few up 10, 20, 2025. [02:24:09] It's kind of like Bay, uh. [02:24:11] Like, not white, it's beige colored. [02:24:14] This is like the same graph. [02:24:16] Now, this isn't just in the US. [02:24:17] Now, South Korea, shit's going crazy. [02:24:20] Shit's going off in South Korea. [02:24:22] So, men in South Korea have actually gone much more conservative, women much more liberal. [02:24:26] Massive divide in South Korea. [02:24:29] But in the United States, you see that similar trend. [02:24:32] The men staying mostly the same, but women much more liberal. [02:24:36] Germany, women much more liberal. [02:24:39] Women in the UK, much more liberal. [02:24:41] Also, the men, too. [02:24:43] And then, next tab. [02:24:47] Okay, yeah, next one. [02:24:49] I think these are all the same. [02:24:50] Oh, this one's just like bigger. [02:24:53] Yeah, it's the same data, same data. [02:24:55] So there's that. [02:24:56] You're going to X out of that, then you're going to pull up. [02:25:01] You scroll down to December 12th, 12.2. [02:25:05] It's going to be like a graph with two circles. [02:25:07] Actually, that one's not that interesting, actually. [02:25:10] What was the other one? [02:25:12] Oh, wait, there's one more. [02:25:13] Hold on. [02:25:13] Let me see if I can find it. [02:25:16] I don't know if I can find it. [02:25:19] I didn't post it. [02:25:19] That's too bad. [02:25:21] But yeah, women are actually becoming way more radical. [02:25:24] Y'all are radical, yo. [02:25:25] And then the other thing is, ah, shit. [02:25:29] I posted this on X, but I don't know if I posted on Discord. [02:25:31] I'll have to find it. [02:25:33] They're finding that women, I'm not going to get the exact numbers right, but it goes something like this. [02:25:42] If you ask men what you think of women, something like 70% of men have positive attitudes towards women. [02:25:50] Right now, the 30% of men who have negative attitudes towards women, we can sit here and criticize that and maybe have some objections. [02:25:57] But if you ask women what their attitude of men is, something like 70% of women have negative attitudes towards men. [02:26:07] So, my numbers might be a little off. [02:26:10] Don't quote me, that's not exactly, but it's the correct essence of what I'm talking about here. [02:26:16] I don't know. [02:26:18] Any thoughts from anybody on that? [02:26:20] Yeah, I think that makes sense. [02:26:21] I mean, like, just like just going on Instagram or like social media, it makes complete sense. [02:26:26] Like, I literally do see like women like clowning men all the time. [02:26:32] Yeah. [02:26:32] Word, feshizzle? [02:26:34] Feshizzle. [02:26:35] Yeah. [02:26:35] I wish I could find that study. [02:26:38] Can somebody, maybe somebody in Discord can find it? [02:26:41] Sorry, go ahead. [02:26:42] You're going to say, I think it has something to do with fatherlessness being much more prevalent in society, like, overall. [02:26:49] And on top of that, people getting divorced. [02:26:51] So it doesn't seem like people really respect men overall, and a lot of little girls aren't growing up with that example. [02:26:57] So they end up being better women. [02:27:01] Word. [02:27:02] Sorry, I'm trying to find that article that I was. [02:27:07] 70% unfavorable. [02:27:09] Hold on. [02:27:09] Unfavorable view of men. [02:27:14] Oh, yeah. [02:27:15] Okay. [02:27:15] I think I found it. [02:27:17] I'm going to send it to you. [02:27:19] Let me see if I can find the best article on this. [02:27:24] Despite. [02:27:26] Sorry, one sec here. [02:27:29] I know I tweeted about it recently, actually. [02:27:32] Shit. [02:27:33] Dang, this might take me too long. [02:27:35] Let me try one more to see if I found it. [02:27:38] There is an article. [02:27:42] Okay. [02:27:43] There's a new poll. [02:27:44] Do they have the data, though? [02:27:46] Damn. [02:27:48] Here, pull up the soup chats. [02:27:49] Chloe's going to read them while I'm trying to find it. [02:27:55] You take the blue pill, the story ends. [02:27:58] You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. [02:28:03] You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland. [02:28:06] And I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes. [02:28:09] Remember, all I'm offering is the truth, nothing more. [02:28:13] That's the red pill. [02:28:15] That's the red pill. [02:28:19] It's kind of interesting, though. [02:28:21] You guys know the director of those films. [02:28:24] Yeah, he had a sex change. [02:28:25] Yeah. [02:28:26] Both the Wachowski sisters, I guess, the brothers, the Wachowski brothers both transitioned. [02:28:32] Pull up the other one. [02:28:34] Thank you, Mr. Northumberland. [02:28:36] Appreciate it. [02:28:37] Mm hmm. [02:28:38] Watching the show made everything click. [02:28:40] Seeing those debates felt like escaping the matrix. [02:28:44] I realized I was sold lies my whole life as a feminist, but the red pill finally relieved the truth I'd been missing. [02:28:54] Thank you, Laura. [02:28:54] Appreciate it. [02:28:56] Okay. [02:28:56] Guys, this would be a good time to remind you $10 display if you want to get a message in, $100 read, $200 TTS. [02:29:06] Guys, I need to see, you know, I need to grift a little bit here. [02:29:09] Guys, you know, it took a lot in me to kick that. [02:29:12] Strumpet off the show. [02:29:14] You know, it took me, you know, it took a lot. [02:29:17] It was very much. [02:29:19] A, she was a hoa. [02:29:21] B, she was a hoa. [02:29:23] You know, it's very sad that she had to leave. [02:29:25] It was kind of like this. [02:29:26] Great to see you. [02:29:27] Glad you can make it. [02:29:28] Bitches. [02:29:30] It was like that. [02:29:31] Peace out. [02:29:32] Peace out. [02:29:32] You too, homie. [02:29:33] So, anyways, yeah, we had to kick her out, you know. [02:29:36] But, guys, I need to pull up the Twitch. [02:29:37] Go to Twitch. [02:29:38] Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever. [02:29:41] I need a, you know, I need some love over there on Twitch, guys. [02:29:46] We run three minutes of ads over there on Twitch for every hour. [02:29:52] We don't do pre rolls. [02:29:53] That means if you're watching us on Twitch, you're not going to get hit with some bullshit pre roll. [02:29:57] Three minutes per hour, that's very low. [02:30:02] We're not trying to abuse over there on Twitch. [02:30:04] So I need you guys, if you're watching on Twitch and you're not following, drop us a follow. [02:30:08] And if you've got a Prime sub, you got Amazon Prime, drop us a Prime sub. [02:30:13] Let me see three Prime subs. [02:30:14] I'm holding this shit hostage. [02:30:16] Hostage here. [02:30:17] Yeah, yeah. [02:30:20] But Anomaly, thank you for the prime. [02:30:22] Okay, Hazy, thank you for the prime. [02:30:23] Halfpint, thank you for the birthday wishes. [02:30:25] Thank you for the tier one. [02:30:27] Okay, one more, boys. [02:30:28] I'm holding. [02:30:28] Oh my god, they're on fire! [02:30:30] Holy shit, they're on fire! [02:30:32] Oh my god. [02:30:33] Oh my god. [02:30:33] Brendo, the roar. [02:30:34] Skizzy. [02:30:35] Skizzy. [02:30:36] Don't dox. [02:30:37] Damn, that was like five. [02:30:39] Holy shit, they're on fire. [02:30:39] They're on fire over the Twitch. [02:30:41] Can I see three more? [02:30:43] Am I abusing? [02:30:44] I think ten more if you're high value. [02:30:46] Am I abusing? [02:30:47] I don't know. [02:30:49] I need to see three more. [02:30:51] You know what? [02:30:52] Wait. [02:30:52] Oh, I'll do an accent. [02:30:54] Should I do an accent? [02:30:55] Wait, fuck. [02:30:57] What was the accent I can do? [02:30:59] I got British. [02:31:00] I got Southern. [02:31:01] I got Australian. [02:31:03] I got gay. [02:31:05] Fuck, what's the other one? [02:31:06] These are all white people. [02:31:07] Damn, there's no white people. [02:31:07] You have a black accent. [02:31:09] I can't do Indian. [02:31:10] I wish I could do Vietnamese. [02:31:11] I would love if I could do Vietnamese. [02:31:13] Vietnamese? [02:31:14] Vietnamese. [02:31:15] You do it. [02:31:16] No, I'm just kidding. [02:31:17] Do it. [02:31:17] No. [02:31:18] Here, tilt your microphone so it's pointing straight towards you. [02:31:21] Hi. [02:31:22] Oh, yeah, we need to get you to introduce yourself, too. [02:31:25] Oh, hi, I'm Lexi Hart. [02:31:26] You guys have seen me before. [02:31:28] Round two, back again. [02:31:31] I'm 22. [02:31:34] 22, okay. [02:31:35] Yes. [02:31:36] Relationship status? [02:31:38] I'm taken, proudly. [02:31:41] Taken? [02:31:41] Were you single? [02:31:42] I was single the last time I came, but things have changed for the better. [02:31:47] I see, I see. [02:31:49] Interesting, interesting. [02:31:52] Pull a Twitch back up. [02:31:54] What the heck? [02:31:55] Any more? [02:31:59] Burley, thank you for the Prime. [02:32:00] Straya, thank you for the Prime. [02:32:02] Draven, thank you for the tier one. [02:32:03] Southern girl, thank you for the tier one. [02:32:05] Appreciate it, guys. [02:32:05] Thank you, thank you, thank you. [02:32:07] Thank you, guys. [02:32:07] Appreciate the support. [02:32:09] Oh, boy. [02:32:10] All right. [02:32:11] Let's see. [02:32:12] Where were we? [02:32:12] Oh, pull up that article really quick. [02:32:16] Oh, there's a paywall? [02:32:19] Do you know how to get around a paywall? [02:32:21] Pay. [02:32:23] It's just like you go to archive.ph or something. [02:32:27] It's probably already archived. [02:32:31] Wait, fuck. [02:32:32] Can I just send it? [02:32:33] Yeah, it's Internet Archive if you Google it. [02:32:36] That works too. [02:32:38] I need to log into my. [02:32:39] Dang it. [02:32:40] Hold on. [02:32:41] Let me see if I can just log into the. [02:32:43] Man. [02:32:44] All right. [02:32:50] Maybe it's somewhere. [02:32:52] Man, I wish I needed a log. [02:32:53] You know what? [02:32:54] Forget it. [02:32:54] Just forget it. [02:32:55] But essentially. [02:32:56] Oh, wait. [02:32:58] I got it. [02:33:00] Okay, let's see it. [02:33:04] Let's see it. [02:33:05] I just need the segment. [02:33:07] Scroll down. [02:33:08] Make it bigger. [02:33:09] Can you mouse wheel zoom in? [02:33:11] Scroll down. [02:33:12] There's like just a stats somewhere. [02:33:13] Scroll down, scroll down. [02:33:15] Yep, don't care. [02:33:15] Don't care. [02:33:15] Scroll down, scroll down, scroll down. [02:33:17] Holy fuck, how long is this? [02:33:18] Scroll down, keep. [02:33:19] Holy shit. [02:33:20] Where the fuck? [02:33:21] Wait, what? [02:33:22] Where's the fuck? [02:33:23] Scroll down, keep on. [02:33:24] Where's the fucking. [02:33:26] Where's the goddamn. [02:33:27] What? [02:33:28] Okay, fuck it. [02:33:28] Whatever. [02:33:30] Did I send you the wrong article? [02:33:31] I might be retarded. [02:33:32] Okay. [02:33:33] I'm actually retarded then. [02:33:34] Never mind. [02:33:35] Whatever. [02:33:35] It basically, in essence, more women. [02:33:38] View men unfavorably than the reverse. [02:33:41] So there's this big thing in society like, oh, misogyny is such a problem. [02:33:46] We need to deplatform people. [02:33:47] We need to cancel people. [02:33:48] We need to lawfare people. [02:33:50] We need to, like, the British, we need to do, like, Netflix specials. [02:33:54] We need to do what was that? [02:33:56] Not inside the manosphere, but boycott. [02:34:00] No, there's like, there was this Netflix show based in the UK. [02:34:05] It came out like a year ago or something. [02:34:07] It was like boyhood or some shit. [02:34:10] Fuck, what was it? [02:34:12] I forgot the name of it. [02:34:13] It was like. [02:34:13] Oh, the young boy killing his classmate. [02:34:17] Is that the one you're talking about? [02:34:18] Yeah, what's that called? [02:34:19] Adolescent. [02:34:20] Adolescent. [02:34:20] Yeah, they're going to produce propaganda like that. [02:34:25] The UK is going to, like, there's going to be political action done to combat misogyny. [02:34:32] Honestly, the real issue is misandry. [02:34:35] I said it. [02:34:36] No? [02:34:37] Do you guys disagree? [02:34:39] I don't know. [02:34:39] What is that? [02:34:41] It's like women's. [02:34:42] They don't even know what misogyny is. [02:34:44] It's women's people. [02:34:45] That's privilege, isn't it? [02:34:47] Everybody knows what misogyny is. [02:34:49] Nobody knows what misogyny is. [02:34:51] That's privilege. [02:34:52] I found out a lot of people don't know what misogyny is and they just say the word. [02:34:56] Yeah. [02:34:56] Well, they might like, I think they know the essence of it, which is like, uh, essential. [02:35:01] Well, it's like hating women basically or being anti woman. [02:35:06] So, misandry, we've got to do something about that. [02:35:12] Where are the documentaries about all the crazy misandry? [02:35:16] No, no women want to weigh on this? [02:35:19] Okay, well, you should make it. [02:35:21] You have a you basically made it anyway with your shot. [02:35:23] I think I need to do more than just talk about it, I need to start. [02:35:28] Collecting soldiers in Santa Barbara. [02:35:31] And when I say soldiers, I mean that in like a sort of not a literal sense, not literal soldiers, but I need, we need to collectivize as men and like have some sort of coalition, some sort of movement, some sort of advocacy group. [02:35:52] There's like some, but they're very, I don't know, maybe I'm just going to start it. === First Kiss Initiatives (16:23) === [02:35:57] I don't know. [02:35:58] We'll figure it out. [02:35:58] You can make a cult. [02:35:59] I need soldiers. [02:36:01] I need. [02:36:01] Foot soldiers to, I'm gonna, I maybe, they gotta come in person. [02:36:08] Everyone needs to come to Santa Barbara and we're gonna start an organization and it's gonna be like TPUSA, but for male advocacy, not for conservative Republican politics. [02:36:21] We need, like, that's the level we need the men's advocacy movement needs to be on, TPUSA level. [02:36:31] That's where it needs to be. [02:36:33] So I don't know, shit. [02:36:36] Everybody in the chat, I'm fucking recruiting all you guys. [02:36:38] All right. [02:36:40] All right. [02:36:40] We're going to do it. [02:36:41] I don't know. [02:36:41] All right. [02:36:42] Back to dating, I guess. [02:36:45] Back to dating. [02:36:46] Let me just make sure I didn't miss any chats or anything that came through. [02:36:51] No, I think we're good. [02:36:52] All right. [02:36:52] Let's blast into dating. [02:36:55] Hmm. [02:36:56] Does anyone have any disagreements with me as it relates to some of my dating takes or anything you've seen me talk about on the show? [02:37:06] I saw something that was kind of crazy that I feel like got a lot of hate. [02:37:10] Sure. [02:37:11] So I feel like one of the first videos I saw of you was having a girlfriend bow to you. [02:37:15] I was going to say that, yes. [02:37:17] I feel like you got a lot of hate for that. [02:37:20] And my personal opinion, I feel like in your own relationship, whatever you want to do is what you want to do. [02:37:26] I don't think there was anything wrong with it, but I feel like you got a lot of hate for that. [02:37:30] Oh, yeah. [02:37:31] And I literally was like, I thought it was kind of funny, though. [02:37:34] Like that you got so much hate for it because it's like people do crazy stuff behind doors and you said that openly. [02:37:39] Yeah. [02:37:39] And just how people got so upset over it. [02:37:41] Yeah. [02:37:42] It just was wild to me. [02:37:44] True. [02:37:44] It is wild. [02:37:46] It is wild. [02:37:47] So you're in favor of the bow. [02:37:48] I think you should. [02:37:49] You're fine with it. [02:37:50] If your girl's fine with it, yeah, why not? [02:37:52] Yeah, she wants to do it. [02:37:53] Yeah. [02:37:53] I don't think there's anything wrong with it. [02:37:55] Yeah. [02:37:55] You know, it's interesting. [02:37:56] I was thinking about this. [02:37:58] Well, I saw this. [02:37:59] There's this Twitch streamer named Morgpie. [02:38:05] And I think I've heard of her before. [02:38:09] But she. [02:38:11] On stream, she does this. [02:38:12] So I don't know if this is a content angle, and I don't even think it's the guy she's dating. [02:38:16] And we're not going to pull up the clip because it's kind of like gross a little bit. [02:38:22] So she has a guy in a GIMP suit. [02:38:27] What is that? [02:38:27] So it's full black leather or latex. [02:38:31] I think it's latex. [02:38:32] Full black and like the black GIMP mask. [02:38:35] And he's walking around like a dog. [02:38:38] And she's treating him like a dog and like telling him, okay, go sit in your. [02:38:44] She has a dog bed for him. [02:38:46] He doesn't even have a chair. [02:38:47] And it's like kind of gross. [02:38:50] And I was like thinking about how I can get backlash for the bow thing. [02:38:56] Yeah. [02:38:57] And I'm not like having a woman, like, I'm not parading around my girlfriend on the show, like, having her do bows for me in this sort of like degradation ritual. [02:39:09] It's like literally something private. [02:39:11] But that seemed very objectionable. [02:39:14] I don't know if anybody in the chat knows what I'm talking about. [02:39:17] But, and we've had a woman on the show before, actually, who said she had this slave, basically, who I don't know if he wore the outfit or whatever. [02:39:27] But there's this dynamic. [02:39:29] I mean, it's, I guess, within BDSM or whatever. [02:39:31] But I don't know how anybody can be like, look, if you're, yeah, if you're in a consensual relationship and they do it consensually, like, what's the actual problem? [02:39:42] It's like, okay, well, what's, I guess, to the panel, let's show the bow video. [02:39:47] Let's show the bow. [02:39:47] Oh, that was kind of cute. [02:39:48] Let's show the bow video. [02:39:51] So this is a video I took of my ex girlfriend. [02:39:56] And I show this to future girlfriends so they know how to. [02:39:59] Conduct and behave themselves when with me. [02:40:02] Now, this is after. [02:40:03] Go ahead, play it. [02:40:06] Boom, huge bow, deep, respectful bow. [02:40:10] Love to see it. [02:40:13] And then she's, you're going to see in a moment, she has my dinner ready to go. [02:40:18] There it is, scurrying, scampering to the kitchen, cracks open the beer for me, stirs my noodles. [02:40:32] Yeah, so this is the bow video, and then we're going to play it one more time. [02:40:39] Boom! [02:40:40] Huge bow. [02:40:40] You see the submissive hand posture. [02:40:43] That's the expectation. [02:40:44] So, when I get home from a long day of work, I want my girlfriend to greet me at the door with a bow. [02:40:51] What do you think? [02:40:52] Would you do it? [02:40:53] Not to me, just would you do it for a guy? [02:40:55] Yeah, yeah, no, that looks. [02:40:57] Can I have you scoot your mic this way just a teeny bit? [02:41:01] Yeah, that's good. [02:41:02] All right. [02:41:02] What about you? [02:41:03] No. [02:41:04] Can I have you straighten your mic? [02:41:05] Straighten your mic? [02:41:07] Straighten your mic? [02:41:10] That's good, I guess. [02:41:11] No? [02:41:11] No. [02:41:12] No, you wouldn't do it. [02:41:14] Okay, what about you? [02:41:15] I don't think I would either. [02:41:16] Wouldn't do it? [02:41:16] Okay. [02:41:17] I would do it. [02:41:18] She would do it. [02:41:19] I feel like I would do more than bow. [02:41:21] Good answer. [02:41:21] Oh, God. [02:41:22] Good answer. [02:41:23] Chloe. [02:41:24] You know, I would bow for you, Brian. [02:41:27] But I know you were asking for yourself, but I'm just. [02:41:30] Yeah, sure. [02:41:30] You would do it for a guy. [02:41:32] Yeah. [02:41:32] Okay, what about you? [02:41:33] No. [02:41:34] Nope, wouldn't do it. [02:41:35] Okay, what about you? [02:41:36] If it's like 2,000 years ago, I would because that was like traditionally okay in China. [02:41:41] People in China are still bowing. [02:41:45] Cambodian people still bow. [02:41:46] Even when we see our family member, we always bow to each other already. [02:41:49] But so, the answer is no. [02:41:51] No. [02:41:51] Okay, what about you? [02:41:52] Yeah. [02:41:53] Yep. [02:41:54] Like I said last time, no, unless you're going to put a hat on and tip it for me. [02:41:59] Because if you're going to be doing, or if I'm going to be doing weird shit like that, then you need to also. [02:42:04] Love that for you. [02:42:04] Yeah. [02:42:06] So, okay. [02:42:07] No, And then, or wait, did you say yes? [02:42:13] Yeah, I said yes. [02:42:14] Yeah, you said yes. [02:42:14] I did. [02:42:15] I said yes. [02:42:15] All right. [02:42:16] So, why? [02:42:21] Just know why. [02:42:22] I just don't want to do that. [02:42:23] Don't want to do that. [02:42:24] Okay. [02:42:25] I just don't think I've ever met a man in my life that I've needed to do that for or has done anything for me to do that for him. [02:42:35] Okay. [02:42:36] What about you? [02:42:37] Why wouldn't you do it? [02:42:38] I think it's just an odd thing to do. [02:42:40] Odd thing to do. [02:42:41] Okay. [02:42:41] All right. [02:42:42] What about you? [02:42:43] Why is that? [02:42:47] I guess, like now that you're. [02:42:48] Okay, I do need you to sit because you're getting in the reflection. [02:42:51] It's not your fault. [02:42:52] You didn't know. [02:42:53] You're too tall. [02:42:54] I just can't even bop around. [02:42:56] It's interesting. [02:42:56] It's a good thing I caught that. [02:42:58] Yeah, because we bow to teachers, we bow to uncles, we bow to the elderly, but I've never bowed to someone I'm dating. [02:43:07] I guess it feels unequal. [02:43:10] I think that's why. [02:43:12] Unequal? [02:43:12] Yeah, if we're like an equal partnership, unless he also bows to me. [02:43:15] Equal partnership? [02:43:16] Yeah. [02:43:16] Okay. [02:43:17] If he bows to me and I also bow to him, maybe it's. [02:43:20] No, not one direction. [02:43:21] No, no, I wouldn't. [02:43:22] So are you in an equal partnership with your husband? [02:43:24] I would say we. [02:43:26] Both are supporting each other in different ways. [02:43:29] I think it's hard to, like, I think equal is hard to evaluate in a relationship. [02:43:34] So. [02:43:35] But you just said equal partnership. [02:43:37] I would say we both are happy with what we have provided and how we support each other. [02:43:46] Did he propose to you? [02:43:47] Yes. [02:43:48] That doesn't seem very equal to me. [02:43:50] Did he get down on one knee to do so? [02:43:53] Yes. [02:43:53] Okay, so he got, and you were standing there looking down, gazing, oh, you were sitting. [02:43:58] Yes. [02:43:58] You were still above him. [02:44:00] You're gazing down at him. [02:44:02] He actually proposed to me with a ring box around the dog's collar. [02:44:08] So it's. [02:44:10] So he was standing or? [02:44:11] He, like, the dog stood up, I saw the ring box, and then he came over with flowers, and then he got down on one knee and then he cried. [02:44:19] He didn't necessarily say the words. [02:44:21] I mean, I knew what he was saying. [02:44:23] Okay. [02:44:23] All right. [02:44:25] And then he paid for the ring. [02:44:26] Do you know how much it cost? [02:44:28] Yes, and I've bought him gifts of similar value or higher. [02:44:31] How much was the ring? [02:44:32] Uh, it was around, I think, two to five thousand, between two to five thousand dollars. [02:44:38] It was in China, I don't remember exactly. [02:44:40] Um, and you both are working, correct? [02:44:42] Yes, would you guys make about equivalent income? [02:44:45] I make more, you make more, okay. [02:44:47] And then, uh, when it came to the initial courtship, did he approach you? [02:44:53] We met on Tinder, met on Tinder, okay. [02:44:56] His Tinder marriage, okay, yeah, it happens, guys. [02:44:59] Okay, he, uh, he was taking the burden of initiative. [02:45:07] I think in the beginning, maybe like in the first month. [02:45:10] Who asked who to go out on the date? [02:45:15] He asked me, and then I moved it up sooner because I had a free day, like earlier than the day he asked me. [02:45:24] Okay, so did he ask for your number? [02:45:27] Yes. [02:45:27] And he set up the date? [02:45:29] No, I suggested where to go. [02:45:32] Well, you suggested where to go, but he was like, let's. [02:45:36] You what? [02:45:36] I booked it. [02:45:37] Oh, it was like a reservation. [02:45:39] What is that noise? [02:45:40] Oh, sorry. [02:45:41] I was, it might have been my nail. [02:45:43] Okay. [02:45:43] And he actually paid, but I did not ask him to pay. [02:45:47] I went to the bathroom and then I came back and he paid. [02:45:51] Okay, so he paid for the date. [02:45:52] What about the second date? [02:45:53] Did he pay for it? [02:45:54] I don't remember. [02:45:55] It was like 11 years ago. [02:45:57] I know, it's a long time ago. [02:45:58] Third date, did he pay for it? [02:45:59] Well, I mean, I understand, like, you might not remember specifics like that, but you could, like, for example, I can think back to, I couldn't tell you, like, on the specific date, like, what exactly happened, but I could be like, oh, yeah, the first 10 dates I paid for. [02:46:12] No, he did not pay for the first 10 days. [02:46:14] I would say he probably paid for the first few days. [02:46:17] And then, whenever we go travel, we share. [02:46:20] Equal partnerships. [02:46:22] But when you use that as evidence, it would be saying that money is the only thing that contributes to value in a relationship if we only talk about who paid for what. [02:46:34] Well, technically, that would have to be your position. [02:46:36] Your position would have to be like. [02:46:39] I see. [02:46:39] Your position would be. [02:46:41] Your position would be more defensible if you. [02:46:44] Like what you just said. [02:46:45] There's more you can bring than money. [02:46:47] Well, if that was the case, then surely he would bring other things besides money, and you guys should equalize on that front by going 50 50 on the date. [02:46:57] If you're an equal partnership, right? [02:47:01] I think if we go back the entire 10 years or 11 years of us together, I would say the monetary value that we both provided into the relationship was maybe I provided more in terms of monetary value. [02:47:17] Sure. [02:47:17] But that doesn't mean I don't see it as an unequal partnership because he provided a lot of emotional value and encouragement. [02:47:24] Yeah. [02:47:25] So, I mean, that might be a fair sort of asterisk to put like, okay, well, yes, he paid those first few dates. [02:47:32] Of course, you could have decided you weren't into him. [02:47:36] And then the financial contribution in that circumstance would have just been exclusively on him. [02:47:41] But yes, over the course of the 10, 11 years, you guys have, according to you, have both sort of equally contributed financially to the relationship. [02:47:49] How long have you been living together? [02:47:54] Nine, I think, eight or nine years. [02:47:56] Okay, and you guys split the rent 50 50? [02:48:00] No, we actually both put how much we get paid into like a joint account. [02:48:08] It's not exactly 50 50. [02:48:09] Like when I get paid more, I would contribute more. [02:48:13] And when he gets paid more. [02:48:14] Well, you guys are married now, so it's like just going, it's all going into one account. [02:48:18] Yeah. [02:48:18] And it's just. [02:48:20] Yeah. [02:48:21] Do you guys maintain like separate accounts or? [02:48:24] Yeah, but like. [02:48:26] Like, I'll use it to buy makeup and stuff. [02:48:28] Like, any. [02:48:29] Well, before you were married, before the joint account, were you guys living together? [02:48:33] We were living together, and then we had a fund that we would put money into as well. [02:48:37] A little closer to the mic, please. [02:48:39] We were living together, and then we had a fund that we put together on, like, Alipay that would, like, go towards together spending. [02:48:48] Even before marriage, though, you guys were going basically 50 50 on rent. [02:48:52] Yeah. [02:48:54] Okay. [02:48:54] All right. [02:48:55] Understood. [02:48:56] Okay. [02:48:57] So. [02:48:58] In terms of the financial, aside from the beginning of the relationship, it sounds like it's been pretty equal between the both of you. [02:49:05] Yeah. [02:49:05] I actually bought him a really expensive gift recently, and then I thought about how it would make him feel. [02:49:13] I was like, because I went on a trip for two weeks and I didn't see him, and I bought him this really expensive watch. [02:49:19] The caveat is we got robbed, someone broke into our house a few months earlier, so he lost his watch. [02:49:24] So I bought him this watch, and it's very expensive. [02:49:26] And then I wondered if he felt belittled. [02:49:30] Like, I wonder if he felt like. [02:49:32] You know, because usually a man will buy women gifts. [02:49:36] Right. [02:49:37] Yeah, so I asked him and he felt he was okay with it. [02:49:40] Okay. [02:49:41] Now, in terms of initiative burden at the beginning of the relationship, I was asking you who asked for the dates, et cetera, et cetera. [02:49:49] Women typically look for men. [02:49:51] Even if women are like liberal and they're okay with 50 50 financial arrangements, which I think a minority, it's the minority of women who are okay with that. [02:50:01] I suspect the initiative burden still fell on him. [02:50:06] Who went for the first kiss? [02:50:09] I said at the end of the first day, when are you going to kiss me? [02:50:14] So, I would guess that's me initiating by asking that question. [02:50:19] That would be, yep. [02:50:19] I guess that would be you initiating to a degree. [02:50:23] To a degree, it wouldn't be like quite to the same level as you just going for it. [02:50:29] But that's definitely leaning heavily on the initiative. [02:50:34] And I think more women should do that. [02:50:36] Yeah, I suppose I'm fine with it. [02:50:37] Although I think a lot of women don't do that. [02:50:40] And if the guy didn't go for the kiss, that kiss is never happening. [02:50:45] Unless the girl really likes the guy, she'll eventually be frustrated and be like, Why haven't you kissed me yet, pussy? [02:50:53] Like, that's crazy. [02:50:55] But I think a lot of women, if the guy doesn't make the initiative, it's just never going to happen. [02:51:00] Like, women aren't going to really go for it, generally speaking. [02:51:06] What about sex? [02:51:07] Were you the initiator? [02:51:11] I don't remember. [02:51:12] Sorry. [02:51:12] I'm like trying to think. [02:51:13] Yeah, I mean, usually there are steps that lead up to it. [02:51:15] So, like, taking clothes off, moving things forward sexually. [02:51:19] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [02:51:19] Usually, I think we like plan for it. [02:51:23] We're like, okay, you know, like I was like, I'm ready to do this. [02:51:27] So then we like arrange to be at his apartment. [02:51:31] Okay. [02:51:32] Sure. [02:51:33] So I would say on the initiative front, you're perhaps slightly an outlier. [02:51:37] Nothing like too crazy in terms of people. [02:51:40] I'm not like jumping, I'm not like taking off his clothes in public or anything. [02:51:43] Right. [02:51:43] Yeah. [02:51:43] But I would say, majority of the time across like all these steps of initiative, it almost always. [02:51:51] Almost always, most of the time, falls on men. [02:51:54] And that starts from approaching you or sending the first message, asking for your number, planning the date, navigating you, flaking once, twice, three times, rescheduling. [02:52:07] Okay, we're on the date, picking the location, paying for the date, moving things forward. [02:52:11] Okay, do I bring her back to my place? [02:52:13] Do I go for the first kiss? [02:52:15] Moving, like navigating all that. [02:52:17] Okay, moving things forward physically, moving things forward sexually. === Chivalrous Protection Duties (16:10) === [02:52:21] All that burden that women just kind of glance over. [02:52:25] That is almost never 50 50. [02:52:27] That almost always falls on men, the initiative burden. [02:52:31] And women aren't even really aware of this because you're very, a lot of women are very passive when it comes to dating. [02:52:39] Men take the initiative, generally speaking. [02:52:43] And so, not all the time, of course, oh, this one time I went for the first kiss. [02:52:47] Okay, great. [02:52:49] It's not your preference, though. [02:52:53] I think women are kind of giving themselves less options. [02:52:57] By doing that, because like if you wait for men to approach you, you only get to pick from the men who approach you, or you like hint real hard and hope they approach you. [02:53:06] But if you go after what you want, then you get to take like make more of a choice for yourself, I think. [02:53:14] Right. [02:53:15] But this idea that then getting back to the bow, yeah, is that you're equal 50 50. [02:53:22] It's like, okay, well, what are the ways in which women expect men to be traditional and to act? [02:53:30] Like men. [02:53:31] Now, I can cite to the questionnaire here for all of you, starting with Chair One, and I'll go one by one through each of you. [02:53:39] You agree with the following statements, all of you. [02:53:42] Men should pay on first dates, men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous, husbands should be willing to die protecting you. [02:53:49] Take the bullet. [02:53:52] First, for Christina, you agree men should pay on first dates, men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous. [02:54:00] For you, Niobe, wait. [02:54:03] Is that actually your real name? [02:54:04] Yes. [02:54:06] I'm not gonna, like, if you have like a fake OF name or whatever, I'm not gonna ask your real name, but it's your legit. [02:54:10] That's my real name, yeah. [02:54:11] Isn't that a Matrix character? [02:54:14] Yeah, it's cool. [02:54:15] Yeah, that's cool. [02:54:15] Okay. [02:54:17] Uh, all right. [02:54:17] You say men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous. [02:54:20] Samantha, men should pay. [02:54:22] Oh, wait, fuck her, I guess. [02:54:26] Damn, she should have stayed. [02:54:28] What a fucking retard. [02:54:29] Maybe, maybe I'll invite her back and tell her she has to pay a deposit. [02:54:33] And if she acts retarded, then I keep the deposit, I guess. [02:54:36] That's unfortunate, though. [02:54:38] She had a lot of retarded shit on there. [02:54:40] I should have kept her. [02:54:42] I should have gone through the questionnaire, then kicked her. [02:54:44] Oh, well, unfortunate. [02:54:46] Ashlyn, men should pay on first dates, men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous. [02:54:51] Chloe, men should pay on first dates, men should provide, protect. [02:54:55] Jay, men should provide, protect. [02:54:57] Kiko, men should provide, protect, so should women. [02:55:01] Okay, well, I have a qualm with that, but we'll get into it maybe later. [02:55:05] Men should be chivalrous. [02:55:08] Zakiya, did I say your name right? [02:55:10] I did. [02:55:11] Men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous, husbands should be willing to die protecting you. [02:55:14] I didn't mean the first name. [02:55:15] Courtney, well, you okay, men should provide protect, men should be chivalrous, husbands should be willing to die protecting you. [02:55:20] Almost all of you basically circled all of those things, right? [02:55:26] What should women do? [02:55:30] Cook, clean. [02:55:31] Wait, wait, let's hear from the others for now. [02:55:35] I know, I feel like women should respect the person they're with, they should be loyal. [02:55:40] I feel like okay, but hold on, men should do the same. [02:55:43] Yeah, men should be respect women, obviously, men should be loyal. [02:55:48] Yeah. [02:55:48] Obviously, bare minimum. [02:55:50] Yeah. [02:55:52] These things are, well, yeah, but I mean, okay, for some men, they don't do this. [02:55:57] Okay, so, well, that would also apply to women. [02:56:01] Like, some women are not respectful, some women are not loyal, too. [02:56:05] So, I think that would be bare minimum for both men and women. [02:56:08] But now we're getting into gender roles. [02:56:11] Men should pay on first dates. [02:56:12] So, the implication of men should pay on first dates means the woman does not pay on the date. [02:56:18] Men should provide, protect, ergo, the woman does not provide and protect. [02:56:23] Men should be chivalrous. [02:56:24] You never hear, ever, women should be chivalrous. [02:56:28] What should women uniquely do? [02:56:32] Give birth. [02:56:34] That's a partial answer. [02:56:37] However, you would agree with me that that's something that happens way down the line, and women have these expectations on men. [02:56:49] Without any intention of like giving birth anytime soon. [02:56:53] Like all these women, the only people who have kids here, and who else has a kid? [02:57:02] These two only. [02:57:03] No, you have a kid? [02:57:04] Right? [02:57:04] Me? [02:57:05] No, it's just one. [02:57:05] Oh, I'm sorry. [02:57:06] So every woman at this table says men should pay on first dates, men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous. [02:57:13] She's the only one with kids. [02:57:14] Yeah. [02:57:14] No other. [02:57:15] So this idea that, well, because kids, like how many first dates have you been on? [02:57:21] How many first dates have you been on? [02:57:23] How many kids did you pop out? [02:57:25] Zero. [02:57:25] Okay, useful. [02:57:28] How do you know? [02:57:29] What if I popped one out the first date? [02:57:31] No, what I'm saying is, is like women will go on first dates with an expectation that, like, if, okay, I pay for, if, okay. [02:57:40] Here's your argument. [02:57:41] Here's your argument. [02:57:42] Men should do these things because women bear children. [02:57:46] Okay, so if I go on a date with a woman and I pay for the date and I'm chivalrous and I provide and protect, blah, blah, blah, and she doesn't. [02:57:55] Provide me children, then you can't use, but women give men children as justification for why men should do these things. [02:58:04] I didn't. [02:58:05] You asked, what do women do? [02:58:08] No, I said, what should women do? [02:58:09] Oh, okay. [02:58:11] My bad. [02:58:11] I think women should show up equally, just not more than, you know, I don't think they should show up and like be a man in the relationship, you know, but I think they should show up equally. [02:58:22] And like in terms of like the providing and protecting, I think there's a level of that that women can do. [02:58:27] Uh, you literally wait, wait, hold on. [02:58:30] You make men pay you to go on dates with you, they call me. [02:58:36] Well, okay. [02:58:37] A condition of you going on a date with a man is that he has to pay for it, yeah. [02:58:44] Not just pay for the date, right? [02:58:46] He also just has to give you money just to go on the date. [02:58:50] Like he's giving you cash. [02:58:51] Okay, well, when toilet paper is free, things will be different. [02:58:55] I don't see how that'd be relevant because men also have to buy toilet paper. [02:58:58] However, you said women also provide. [02:59:02] How do women provide or how do you provide? [02:59:05] Well, just in terms of like providing safety and security, I think there's a level of that that a woman. [02:59:13] Women don't provide physicals. [02:59:15] Are you talking. [02:59:16] I just mean, like, in general, like, you know, say, like, hypothetically, right? [02:59:21] Like, say they were in a social setting, right? [02:59:24] And somebody starts bad mouthing about your partner, right? [02:59:28] There's a level in which I think a female should show up just as equally as a man to provide that level of protection and safety for their partner. [02:59:38] I don't think that it would be equivalent. [02:59:43] Truthfully, I. Not beyond, like, the. [02:59:45] Like, it shouldn't be, like, masculine, you know what I mean? [02:59:48] There's, like, a. [02:59:49] You know, men are bigger and Let me ask you this. [02:59:51] You're out on a date with your boyfriend, and some drunk guy comes up to you and gropes your butt. [02:59:58] You expect your boyfriend to beat that guy up. [03:00:01] I'd probably clock him. [03:00:02] You would clock. [03:00:03] That's fair enough. [03:00:05] And look, if you get groped by a guy, I think fair game, smack him. [03:00:10] Men should not do that. [03:00:11] But I personally, if my girlfriend, like if that happened to me, that'd be quite a peculiar scenario, but. [03:00:22] I wouldn't want my girlfriend to start whooping that girl's ass. [03:00:27] I don't like, I'd just be like, that's completely inappropriate. [03:00:31] Like, if it was really bad, maybe it's technically like a form of essay, like, okay, do we get the police involved? [03:00:37] I don't, I'd probably just not want to fucking be bothered by it. [03:00:42] But maybe if it's really bad, if she grabbed my dick, yeah, we're calling the cops. [03:00:46] If she spanked me or something, I'd be like, that's completely inappropriate, but I don't have the, I don't want to waste my time fucking talking to the police or whatever. [03:00:54] I don't think I'd want my girlfriend to like go and whoop her ass though. [03:01:01] Anyways. [03:01:02] There's different types of case scenarios. [03:01:03] It doesn't have to necessarily be like a physical one. [03:01:06] It could also just be like in terms of what I was talking about, it was like socially. [03:01:10] Sure. [03:01:11] You know, just somebody, you know, talking to your significant other about you and kind of putting you down or sharing information without you being present, you know? [03:01:21] All right. [03:01:22] What should women do? [03:01:24] Like, for me, in my opinion, there's only one thing we need to provide for men because I believe that of the men, they only want sex from women. [03:01:35] So. [03:01:36] I disagree. [03:01:38] So, you say that men only want sex from women. [03:01:42] Yes. [03:01:43] So, the only time that I, for me, anyways, and I think for a lot of men, the only time that's true, if sex is all you're offering, then sex is all I want. [03:01:54] You need to offer more to me than just sex. [03:01:59] If pussy's all you got, pussy's all I want. [03:02:04] But if you bring more, if you bring more and you offer value in other ways, then men are going to value those other things. [03:02:14] So I kind of reject this idea that men just want sex. [03:02:18] Maybe that's just all you have to give. [03:02:25] Now, men do want sex, but I don't think they just want sex. [03:02:32] But at least they want sex first, right? [03:02:36] Sure, maybe they want sex quickly too. [03:02:39] Yeah, I mean, that certainly can be the case. [03:02:42] But I think a woman can still bring value, especially early on, beyond just sex. [03:02:47] Like what kind of value? [03:02:49] The bow to begin with. [03:02:51] She could, I mean, but this gets into something that might be more tenable she can help you with things. [03:02:59] She can make herself helpful. [03:03:02] She can acquiesce to you. [03:03:04] She can be submissive. [03:03:07] She can make it easy to be with her. [03:03:09] And when I say easy, I don't mean having, like, she's easy to bed. [03:03:13] I'm not saying that. [03:03:15] I mean, Make the experience of being with you seamless and simple and easy and not a headache. [03:03:24] Don't make it, and this could be just like your availability, but it could also just be your personality. [03:03:30] Are you just a pain in the ass? [03:03:32] Are you argumentative? [03:03:33] Are you combative? [03:03:34] Are you masculine? [03:03:35] Are you difficult? [03:03:37] Are you a high friction, high, friction's not, well, friction is the word, but I'm looking, what's high conflict individual? [03:03:48] Don't be high conflict. [03:03:52] Make it like a peaceful experience to be with you. [03:03:57] Don't get on his case. [03:03:58] Don't give him an attitude. [03:04:01] Show him respect. [03:04:03] But, shit, I lost track where I was going with that. [03:04:08] The other things that women can give, yeah. [03:04:13] I think that the bowel thing, it's kind of equivalent to when a guy opens your door. [03:04:19] We actually shit on men for that. [03:04:21] We're like, you never open my door. [03:04:22] Look at him. [03:04:23] He's opening that girl's door right now. [03:04:24] See how easy it is? [03:04:26] Yeah, but like, it's so easy to do a bow, too. [03:04:29] It's so easy. [03:04:30] Yeah, it's so easy. [03:04:31] You know, it's kind of like, it's almost like the same. [03:04:33] Like, this guy's going outside of the car. [03:04:36] Like, he's like in the cold. [03:04:37] You know, you're leaving his ass in the cold. [03:04:39] So he can do that for you. [03:04:40] But you wouldn't do that inside the warmth of your own house. [03:04:42] Like, come on, it's so easy. [03:04:45] So, yeah, I mean, ultimately, I actually lost track where I was going, but why no to the bow? [03:04:53] Or wait. [03:04:54] Was that the question we were at? [03:04:55] Yeah, I think so. [03:04:57] Oh, what should women do? [03:04:58] Yes. [03:04:59] What should women do? [03:04:59] Okay, so in this scenario, most of the time for me, when I'm in a relationship and I am talking to a guy, I am usually providing financially, I'm providing home, I'm providing cooking, I'm cleaning, I'm working, I'm doing all of that. [03:05:14] And for me, that is okay, I'm fine with doing that. [03:05:17] But I feel like as a woman, a lot of men, especially younger men, don't learn a lot of life lessons very early on in age. [03:05:26] And I feel like a lot of that responsibility falls onto me to teach said certain man what to do. [03:05:31] I've met men who don't know how to use a dishwasher, who don't know how to fold clothes, et cetera. [03:05:36] But we as women learn that from a very young age because we're supposed to be doing that. [03:05:41] Men don't know how to load a dishwasher. [03:05:44] I actually met a guy, he loaded it, he just didn't know soap was supposed to go in there. [03:05:52] Soap is supposed to go in there. [03:05:54] But is there anything else for you though? [03:05:56] What should women do? [03:05:58] Besides sex, I have a question. [03:05:59] Like, if a man wants to find someone who is personally good and do the cleaning and also cook for them, why just don't pay for a housekeeper? [03:06:15] I mean, I will not do like cleaning and cooking for a man because I think he can find like a housekeeper or a nanny to do that kind of things. [03:06:29] I mean, on the long term, I would say that if you're dating a woman, I'm not sure if all men have the necessary income to pay for all those services. [03:06:43] Also, it's like. [03:06:44] Then everyone will find that income. [03:06:46] There's a level, there's different thresholds, right? [03:06:48] There's different levels. [03:06:49] So, like, there's a level where the woman doesn't have to work, but if she's not working, so the man's paying everything. [03:06:57] If she's not working, what is she supposed to do with her time? [03:07:03] Right. [03:07:03] So it's like, okay, take care of the household. [03:07:06] Also, I don't want to necessarily invite, like, it can be a liability to invite total strangers into your house. [03:07:13] Like, I think she's going to, not always. [03:07:15] I was going to say she can clean better, but sometimes the professionals, well, the professionals can either do a better job or they can do a sloppy job. [03:07:24] Right. [03:07:24] But it's like, okay, if I'm taking care of all the bills, then. [03:07:30] And you're just staying at home, you should cook, you should clean, you should do the laundry, you should do all these things. [03:07:37] No, I don't agree with you. [03:07:40] Okay, so yeah, for you, go ahead. [03:07:42] So if my husband wants me to do all that kind of things, I will not stay with him anymore because I can do my better life when I'm single. [03:07:52] I don't need someone to pay off the bill for me. [03:07:57] Okay, so you're saying that you are successful on your own and you don't have to do those things? [03:08:04] I mean, look, it is realistic if you date a guy, if you're with a guy who is high income enough, then yeah, he can pay for the maid and the professional private chef and all those things, the laundry service, whatever it is. [03:08:20] So, yeah. [03:08:23] But I guess then it's like, okay, well, I don't know. === Childbirth Body Damage (02:54) === [03:08:31] What are you uniquely doing as a woman to provide value outside of sex? [03:08:36] But I mean, it seemed like it was your position that, from your perspective, and I don't, this isn't my perspective, so you guys are going to have to juggle this idea that she actually has a more misogynistic position than I do. [03:08:49] I think women can bring value beyond sex. [03:08:52] It's your position, seemingly, that the value women bring is sex, and that's it. [03:09:02] Sex, yeah. [03:09:03] Okay. [03:09:04] So, what about the kids, though? [03:09:06] So, when you have kids, are you going to be raising the kids or are you going to have a nanny? [03:09:11] I don't want to have kids. [03:09:14] Are you like infertile or? [03:09:15] I mean, can you have kids? [03:09:19] No, I don't want because if I'm pregnant, it's really damage for my body, you know. [03:09:23] Wait, wait, wait, damage for your body? [03:09:26] Yeah. [03:09:26] So you mean, well, hold on, but hold on. [03:09:29] So there's a telos thing here when it comes to purpose. [03:09:34] This idea that damage, like women are built to give birth, like it is of the nature of women to give birth. [03:09:42] So when you say damage to the body, Okay, yes, loose skin, stretch marks. [03:09:47] Perhaps I'm not going to get into detail about like potential impacts, like vaginally or whatever. [03:09:52] But yes, that is true. [03:09:54] But women give birth and recover from it. [03:09:58] But you're saying aesthetically damages the body. [03:10:01] Is that what you're saying? [03:10:03] No, it's really hard to recover it. [03:10:05] Well, I mean, I, you know, recover, what do you mean? [03:10:09] Like the. [03:10:10] Recover from after you have a child. [03:10:12] The body is just different, completely different, you know, from inside to outside. [03:10:17] So that's why you don't want to have children for strictly vanity reasons? [03:10:22] No, I don't want to. [03:10:24] But you don't want to have children because it's going to change your body, or are there other reasons? [03:10:28] Like, change my body. [03:10:30] That's it? [03:10:31] Yeah. [03:10:31] Not like they're annoying or it's a lot of work or they're stressful. [03:10:35] Also, I just don't like babies. [03:10:39] You know, they're really loud. [03:10:41] Babies? [03:10:42] Well, yeah, they can be loud, but I mean, when they grow up, they're like dope and they're continuing your legacy. [03:10:48] Oh my God, I can have a pet, like dope or something. [03:10:53] More better. [03:10:55] Okay, so what? [03:10:56] Do you want to get married, though? [03:10:59] I don't know. [03:11:00] Okay, you're just a bachelorette for your whole life. [03:11:02] Okay, I mean, hey, some people want to live like that. [03:11:05] Okay, so you don't want to have kids. [03:11:07] Are you on birth control? [03:11:10] You're not on birth control? [03:11:11] Yeah. [03:11:13] So what? [03:11:14] Rubbers? [03:11:14] Pull out method? [03:11:17] I mean, I think. [03:11:18] Plan B? [03:11:19] Plan B? [03:11:20] No, never. [03:11:22] Uh oh. [03:11:23] Okay, so they're just like busting nuts and you're just. === Perfect Man Hypotheticals (15:37) === [03:11:25] I think I just have some issue to. [03:11:29] I'm pregnant. [03:11:31] I went to the doctor before, so. [03:11:34] Okay, sure. [03:11:36] All right. [03:11:37] I forgot where we were. [03:11:41] What should women do? [03:11:42] I think was the question. [03:11:43] Yeah, it was. [03:11:45] Here, let's go to you because you're against the bow. [03:11:49] Just like housework, cooking, cleaning, laundry. [03:11:53] I want to be with a man that can make me feel like I want to be very feminine and be a woman. [03:11:57] I want to be with a man that will take control, if that makes sense. [03:12:00] Okay. [03:12:01] What about? [03:12:02] Well, I guess we kind of dived into it with you, I guess. [03:12:07] Yeah. [03:12:08] Do you still want me to say something? [03:12:10] I'm happy to. [03:12:11] Yeah, I guess what? [03:12:12] Yeah, sure. [03:12:13] Yeah, I guess cooking, cleaning, housework, I think we traditionally label them as feminine, but they don't have to be. [03:12:23] They're just like things people provide in a relationship. [03:12:25] Like, I cook, and my husband cleans and does laundry, and he takes care of so many things. [03:12:34] And I think he's really good at those things. [03:12:37] And I'm shitty at it. [03:12:38] Actually, for our six month anniversary, he gave me this handwritten book to teach me how to clean, like using certain cleaning products, because I didn't know how to do them. [03:12:51] Yeah, I don't think it needs to be like a woman must cook, a woman must clean. [03:12:58] I think two people just need to both provide value in a relationship. [03:13:03] And yeah, I don't think it's super gender coded to me. [03:13:09] Okay. [03:13:11] It's not gender coded. [03:13:13] Okay. [03:13:16] What about in the context where a man is, he's the sole breadwinner? [03:13:20] Are you fine with a woman taking on those? [03:13:22] Yes. [03:13:23] Yes. [03:13:23] So they need to both provide value in a relationship. [03:13:26] They need to both provide value in that circumstance. [03:13:30] Okay. [03:13:31] I'm trying to think if there's anything else. [03:13:35] Here we'll do, wait, I have, oh, perfect. [03:13:39] Oh, what the heck? [03:13:40] My pen is shitty. [03:13:43] I had a follow up on this. [03:13:50] Wait, shit. [03:13:51] Where was I going? [03:13:53] Those of you who would not bow, would you bow for the perfect man? [03:13:59] Yeah, it tastes perfect. [03:14:03] You would for the perfect man? [03:14:04] Yeah, perfect for what? [03:14:06] Like painting. [03:14:07] Okay, so when I say perfect here, I'll give a descriptor. [03:14:10] So you might say, well, look, the normal, not to say that you guys are, you'll still date guys who you obviously, Like and who you're attracted to, and who you think have positive traits. [03:14:22] But we are maximizing every single trait that you care about. [03:14:26] So, and obviously there's trade offs when it comes to dating. [03:14:29] Okay, well, he's a supermodel, but he's broke. [03:14:32] He's super rich, but he's not attractive. [03:14:35] He's great in bed, but he has no ambition. [03:14:38] Like, and sometimes the guys will have multiple of these positive or negative characteristics, right? [03:14:43] So when we say perfect, we max out every single positive trait you care about. [03:14:48] So not just like, okay, well, he's like, His looks, his personality, his kindness, he's really successful, best in bed, all these things that you might care about, maximized. [03:15:04] So, this guy, I would assume, really good looking, really rich, treats you amazingly, perfectly loyal, perfect, like all the things you care about, top tier, perfect. [03:15:18] That's what I'm talking about. [03:15:20] Okay. [03:15:21] So, for the perfect man, would you bow? [03:15:23] No, I won't change myself a lot for a man. [03:15:26] You won't change yourself for a man. [03:15:28] Should men change for you? [03:15:31] Of course, yes. [03:15:32] Wow, that's crazy. [03:15:34] So men should change for women. [03:15:40] Does anyone agree with her? [03:15:41] Does anyone agree with her? [03:15:43] It's okay if you do, sort of. [03:15:45] Well, not with both parts. [03:15:47] Is it like. [03:15:49] Can both people change as a whole during their relationship to be. [03:15:55] Better, well, the idea here would be doing something that is so minimal, so benign, so effortless, she won't even do that for the guy, for the man, for the perfect man, which doesn't exist realistically. [03:16:14] For you, uh, you're going to jump from to put it bluntly, from dick to dick to dick. [03:16:20] This guy's going to cheat on you, one guy's going to be abusive, one guy's going to be violent, one guy's going to be boring, one guy's going to be broke. [03:16:27] And it's you're really never going to find the perfect man, truth be told. [03:16:31] Nobody gets the perfect person, even the people we marry. [03:16:34] Now, we might like virtue signal and be like, Oh, well, my husband's the perfect guy. [03:16:37] Well, there's probably something about him that annoys you. [03:16:40] There's probably, and look, I think in relationships, there's going to be little small things like, Okay, she, I don't know, she chews with her mouth open or something. [03:16:47] It's like, Well, do I still love her? [03:16:49] Yes. [03:16:49] Uh, she slightly snores. [03:16:51] Do I still love her? [03:16:52] Yes. [03:16:53] Like, there's going to be things about your partner that are going to slightly annoy you, and we accept them. [03:16:57] Of course, there's stupid people who think that. [03:16:59] Okay, the moment there's like one thing that's just slightly, and then people, I mean, it's because of social media and dating apps. [03:17:08] It's like, we've encountered a slight roadblock, I'm out. [03:17:12] Some people do that, that's stupid. [03:17:13] But I think in relationships, there are going to be certain things you'll have to sometimes tolerate or sometimes accept or that sometimes will get under your skin. [03:17:25] Now, if it's something super serious, then that's a different conversation. [03:17:29] But smaller, minor things you're going to have to Except certain things when it comes to dating. [03:17:36] So, for the perfect man, though, you don't do even that. [03:17:40] It takes three seconds to do it. [03:17:42] Okay. [03:17:44] What about you? [03:17:45] Perfect man? [03:17:45] Yes, but he would not have to be perfect. [03:17:47] He would just have to be good enough for my standards. [03:17:50] Fair. [03:17:50] Fair answer. [03:17:52] For the perfect man, do you do it? [03:17:53] No. [03:17:54] Really? [03:17:55] Why? [03:17:56] Okay, that's interesting. [03:17:57] I'll engage there. [03:17:58] Why not? [03:18:00] I don't know why he would want me to. [03:18:02] Okay, well, how about this scenario? [03:18:04] You have in front of you a magic lantern, a magic, and when you rub it, a genie comes out. [03:18:10] And the genie says, You don't get a wish, but he's like, I will give you the perfect man for you. [03:18:18] And it is the perfect man. [03:18:20] My condition, not the man's condition. [03:18:22] So it's not the man telling you to do it. [03:18:23] The genie tells you, you need to bow in order to get the perfect man. [03:18:28] Do you do it then? [03:18:29] No, because I don't want a perfect man. [03:18:32] Why would you not want a perfect man? [03:18:33] Because I'm not a perfect woman. [03:18:40] I don't see how that would correspond. [03:18:43] So, what are the ways in which you're not perfect? [03:18:48] I mean, I have a lot of issues. [03:18:50] I have like mental issues. [03:18:52] I have issues with past relationships. [03:18:56] I'm still like healing, even though I've been single for like almost four years. [03:18:59] Like, so I have a lot of improvements. [03:19:01] But you hold on. [03:19:02] You've been in an on again, off again situation for three years that just ended a week ago. [03:19:07] Yeah. [03:19:08] Right. [03:19:08] Okay. [03:19:08] So when you say you have mental issues, what are those? [03:19:12] I have major depressive disorder. [03:19:14] Okay. [03:19:14] Do you have BPD, bipolar, NPD? [03:19:18] You don't have a cluster B? [03:19:20] Cluster B. Cluster B, personality disorder. [03:19:22] No, I don't have a personality disorder. [03:19:23] So that'd be like bipolar, borderline personality disorder, narcissistic. [03:19:27] I haven't been diagnosed with anything. [03:19:29] Okay, just what was it? [03:19:30] Massive. [03:19:31] Major depressive disorder. [03:19:32] Major depressive disorder. [03:19:33] Okay. [03:19:34] So do you take SSRIs? [03:19:37] I do not. [03:19:38] Do you take any medication for it? [03:19:40] I do not. [03:19:40] So how does your mental health, the major depressive disorder, how does it manifest itself? [03:19:47] You're just depressed? [03:19:49] Anxiety? [03:19:49] What? [03:19:50] I do have a lot of anxiety, and then sometimes I do have like. [03:19:54] Um, depressive episodes that can last for long periods of time. [03:19:58] Um, so what does that look like when you have a depressive episode? [03:20:02] Like, it's hard for me to even just like get out of bed, do normal things, go to work. [03:20:06] Like, I don't feel good about myself physically. [03:20:10] Um, okay, and I just kind of like isolate. [03:20:13] So, you want to also date a guy then who has major depression? [03:20:19] Would I want to? [03:20:21] Well, you said I'm not perfect, therefore, I don't want the perfect man. [03:20:27] Would I date somebody that has that? [03:20:29] I mean, if I really like them, then yes. [03:20:34] I mean, it would be hard having, you know, me having that and then them having that as well. [03:20:40] So, why wouldn't you date the perfect man then? [03:20:41] I don't know. [03:20:43] There's no such thing. [03:20:45] Well, I know, but it's a hypothetical. [03:20:46] That's true. [03:20:48] So, but I'm confused. [03:20:50] So, on one hand, you acknowledge that it would be suboptimal for your situation to date somebody who has mental health issues. [03:20:57] You have mental health issues. [03:20:58] So, wouldn't the ideal be? [03:21:00] To date a guy who tolerates, well, and the perfect man wouldn't just tolerate, he would be extremely supportive and understanding and patient with you and perhaps even be able to help you with your depression or whatever. [03:21:14] So I don't understand why you wouldn't date the perfect guy. [03:21:16] Well, I don't want to have to put them through that though. [03:21:18] Like, that's not fair to rely on somebody to help you get through that. [03:21:22] Well, so are you just going to become a nun and never date anybody? [03:21:25] Because whether you date the perfect guy or whether you date a terrible man, they're going to have to deal with your bullshit regardless. [03:21:32] That's true. [03:21:33] So, might as well be the perfect guy who knows how to navigate your depression and is supportive and makes it as easy for you in the moment when you are going through an episode instead of like, I'm sure you've maybe dated guys who are like, wow, you're being a fucking bitch. [03:21:52] Like, you're annoying as fuck because you're depressed. [03:21:54] Like, I'm dumping you. [03:21:54] Goodbye. [03:21:55] You're fucking depressed. [03:21:56] Like, wouldn't it be optimal for you to date the perfect guy? [03:22:01] Like, I don't understand. [03:22:03] Sorry, go ahead. [03:22:05] Okay, well, when you word it like that, like, yes, it would be nice to be with somebody who can help me get through that. [03:22:11] But, like, at the same time, I would feel bad, I guess. [03:22:13] You know what I mean? [03:22:15] Because I have mood swings and, you know, dealing with my depression. [03:22:18] Like, who wants to deal with that at the end of the day? [03:22:20] Most people don't. [03:22:21] Well, are you just going to remain celibate for the rest of your life? [03:22:26] I don't know. [03:22:26] Oh, I am so sorry. [03:22:27] It's all good. [03:22:28] My bad. [03:22:28] It's all good. [03:22:29] You're fine. [03:22:29] I'll get a paper towel here. [03:22:31] But, I mean, so. [03:22:32] Sorry, I don't know whose drink that was. [03:22:34] My bad. [03:22:34] It's my coconut water. [03:22:35] It's all right, though. [03:22:36] So, you're going to. [03:22:39] So, what? [03:22:41] You're obviously going to continue dating. [03:22:43] So, I mean,. [03:22:44] We'll get into your show notes in a bit, but I mean, from my recollection, you've not had a great track record with the men you've dated. [03:22:52] Like, they've not been like upstanding, high virtue, like healthy relationships. [03:22:59] Yeah, I've never been in any kind of healthy relationship at all. [03:23:02] Is that because of you? [03:23:05] Probably because in the past, I feel like I used to be very, very toxic, and then I would also date people that were also toxic. [03:23:12] So, yes. [03:23:14] Okay. [03:23:15] So, What's that? [03:23:18] The definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing over and over again, hoping for a different result. [03:23:26] So, in this case, I've presented to you a hypothetical scenario where you could get the perfect man. [03:23:30] The only thing you have to do is once per day, three seconds, back up, and you won't do it. [03:23:39] Interesting. [03:23:40] Because I'll tell you what, I don't think men should bow to women because that's a gendered thing. [03:23:45] It's a bit of a gendered thing. [03:23:48] More, not all relationships are like this, but typically, Men are the leaders in relationships. [03:23:54] Men are more dominant in the relationship. [03:23:56] I'm not even talking about BDSM or anything. [03:24:00] And the woman's more submissive. [03:24:02] So it'd be a man bowing to a woman would be like sort of contradictory to the natural order of the roles between men and women. [03:24:11] For the perfect woman, I'm fucking bowing. [03:24:16] Now I'm not going to be submissive. [03:24:17] I'm not going to be, I don't know, shit, I have to think about that. [03:24:20] Because I think the perfect woman is so exceedingly rare. [03:24:26] So rare is a diamond. [03:24:28] Actually, fuck diamonds. [03:24:29] Is a, I don't know, what's a fucking more, what's a more sought after fucking precious stone or whatever the fuck they're called? [03:24:38] I don't know, a ruby? [03:24:39] What's more, what's better than it? [03:24:41] Cause diamonds, they use. [03:24:42] Sapphire. [03:24:42] Sapphire. [03:24:43] I don't know. [03:24:43] She's a fucking jewel. [03:24:45] She's a jewel. [03:24:46] A perfect woman would be a jewel. [03:24:48] And like the reality is, in reality, people are definitely not perfect. [03:24:53] And then you also have to consider not just that. [03:24:57] Not just the external people are not perfect, but you also have to think who am I? [03:25:04] And then what can I get? [03:25:05] Because I think like there's lots of beautiful women and some of them like fantastic personalities and they meet my threshold. [03:25:14] But then you have to think, and this applies not just to me, but to other men and then to women, are you the type of person that they want to be with? [03:25:24] And realistically speaking, like shit, 36, going on 37. [03:25:29] I'm a little chubby, like I'm average at best, average looking. [03:25:37] Like I'm not, I don't have the leverage. [03:25:40] Like, okay, if you tell me what a perfect woman is, okay, she, well, realistic perfect would be like, I'm not gonna tell you what, but I don't know. [03:25:51] Okay, fine. [03:25:52] It just comes across as superficial. [03:25:53] Like insanely hot, very attractive in terms of personality wise, submissive, basically. [03:26:00] Does everything I want. [03:26:02] Slave, I guess you could say. [03:26:03] Slave would be good. [03:26:05] Indentured servant. [03:26:06] Basically. [03:26:07] No, I'm kidding. [03:26:07] I'm kidding there a little bit. [03:26:08] Big labia. [03:26:09] Like what guy? [03:26:10] Yes, big, yes, giant labia, the biggest labia you've ever seen. [03:26:14] Um, let's see. [03:26:14] And I guess technically, for her to be perfect, she also has to be a trillionaire, billionaire, and then I'd be very happy. [03:26:20] But, um, but, uh, it's like, yo, I'm not, I'm 37. [03:26:26] I'm not going to be like smashing through, I'm not going to be like running through Victoria's Secret models anytime soon. [03:26:32] Like, I'm realistic about my standing and like the type of woman I can get. [03:26:37] Uh, so, uh, I don't know. [03:26:40] So to be, Offered the perfect person, it's like the perfect person is necessarily going to be out of your league. [03:26:50] If you can get the person out of your league, then fuck, man, shit. [03:26:54] Hit a bow. [03:26:57] Hit a bow. [03:26:59] No? [03:27:01] Go ahead, you can respond. [03:27:02] Do you want me to say yes? === Dream Guy Criteria (06:02) === [03:27:03] Will that make you happy? [03:27:04] No, well, I mean, I don't want to just bulldoze over somebody and they just say yes just because. [03:27:11] If I've changed your minds, then say yes. [03:27:13] But if I haven't convinced you, then no, don't lie. [03:27:15] Well, okay. [03:27:16] If they were like 100% perfect, then sure, why not? [03:27:19] But again, I mean, yeah. [03:27:21] Yeah. [03:27:22] But what about like, how about not perfect, but your realistic dream guy? [03:27:29] So he's not perfect, but he's like the dream guy. [03:27:33] Like if I was bowing in like kind of a silly way, like not like a weird way, if that makes sense. [03:27:39] Like, is that what you mean? [03:27:41] Well, to get the dream guy, realistic dream guy. [03:27:44] So, okay, he's not going to be a billionaire. [03:27:45] But he's gonna have a good job and he treats you really well and he's loyal. [03:27:49] And he, you know, he's not like a Giga Chad supermodel, but he's like, he's good looking. [03:27:54] You think he's handsome, you find him attractive. [03:27:58] He's fun. [03:27:59] And I mean, he's not like some like fucking once in a thousand year charisma level thing, but you know, like he's fun and you enjoy his presence. [03:28:09] Do you bow for him? [03:28:11] I may consider it. [03:28:11] I guess if I really, really like them. [03:28:14] Why is it so bad to bow? [03:28:16] Yeah. [03:28:16] Like, why are you so against? [03:28:18] It's like even for the perfect guy? [03:28:19] I don't know. [03:28:20] Maybe just because I feel like it's just like a weird thing to do. [03:28:23] Like, I don't know. [03:28:24] Why is it weird? [03:28:25] It like takes like one second to do. [03:28:28] Go off, Chloe. [03:28:29] I don't know. [03:28:30] It's just something about it. [03:28:31] It's just weird to me. [03:28:33] It's culturally weird for a white person. [03:28:35] Like, it's not something that men ask for, even in like Asian countries. [03:28:41] Like, I assume even in like Korea or Japan or China, Vietnam, Philippines, like it. [03:28:48] They probably wouldn't be cool with it even there, where it's somewhat more culturally relevant to bow. [03:28:56] But it's also, to Chloe's point, it is effortless. [03:29:00] It's completely benign. [03:29:02] It takes three seconds. [03:29:03] Anyone can do it. [03:29:05] And they still won't even do that for like the perfect guy. [03:29:08] I find that somewhat interesting. [03:29:09] Perhaps I can make it more relevant. [03:29:11] Would you do a guy's laundry? [03:29:13] Yes, I have. [03:29:14] Like first time going over to his house, would you do his laundry? [03:29:17] If I really like them and I planned on like, Pursuing them more and like maybe being with them, then yeah. [03:29:24] Okay. [03:29:27] I think a woman should do that's my other thing. [03:29:30] The woman should do laundry first time at the guy's house, unprompted. [03:29:37] I shouldn't even have to ask for it. [03:29:39] She should just be like, Brian, where's your laundry room? [03:29:41] I got you. [03:29:44] Yeah. [03:29:47] You seem to be grimacing, or maybe that's how your face naturally is. [03:29:49] No, it's just how I naturally am. [03:29:51] Yeah. [03:29:53] Okay. [03:29:53] What is grimacing? [03:29:55] Yeah. [03:29:55] I thought that's the purple guy. [03:29:58] It's this. [03:30:00] Yeah. [03:30:00] Yeah. [03:30:01] Okay. [03:30:02] All right. [03:30:02] Well, here. [03:30:04] For the perfect guy. [03:30:07] No, wait. [03:30:07] I don't want to say perfect guy. [03:30:09] Let's say marriageable man. [03:30:11] So, marriageable man is a guy who meets your standards for like long term, like this is the person you want to spend your life with, right? [03:30:20] So, okay, he's not going to be six foot six billionaire. [03:30:23] Let's be realistic. [03:30:25] But he's going to, you're attracted to him. [03:30:27] You like him. [03:30:28] He treats you well. [03:30:29] This is going to be your boyfriend, long term boyfriend, husband, whatever. [03:30:33] For marriageable man, do you delete your Instagram? [03:30:40] Sure, if they had asked me to. [03:30:41] I only just made it a year ago anyway. [03:30:45] No? [03:30:46] No. [03:30:46] Say, yeah, verbalize. [03:30:47] No? [03:30:48] No. [03:30:48] Why is that? [03:30:50] I mean, why I did it on my Instagram for then? [03:30:55] Well, I'm going to come back to that. [03:30:57] What about you? [03:30:58] Perfect man? [03:30:59] Or not perfect, marriageable man? [03:31:00] Yeah, if you wanted me to, yeah. [03:31:01] Yes? [03:31:02] Yes. [03:31:03] Yeah. [03:31:05] Yeah. [03:31:06] I'd consider it. [03:31:07] Consider it? [03:31:08] Okay. [03:31:09] Yes. [03:31:09] I like it. [03:31:09] That's amazing. [03:31:10] You like Instagram? [03:31:11] That's like really all I have. [03:31:13] Like, I would totally delete Facebook and like Snapchat. [03:31:15] TikTok? [03:31:15] What about TikTok? [03:31:16] I don't even have TikTok. [03:31:17] Okay. [03:31:17] So, you use Instagram for reels? [03:31:20] No, I mean, yeah, I do watch a lot. [03:31:22] I have a problem. [03:31:23] I do watch reels. [03:31:23] You post on there. [03:31:24] I don't post a whole lot. [03:31:25] So, what is your attachment to Instagram? [03:31:29] I think reels. [03:31:30] Like, watch the reels. [03:31:30] You watch the reels. [03:31:31] Okay. [03:31:31] What about you, Kiko? [03:31:33] I guess it depends on why he would ask me that. [03:31:35] My husband will never ask me that. [03:31:36] But if he has a valid reason and it's not like insecurities, then I would do it. [03:31:41] Yeah. [03:31:41] Yep. [03:31:42] I make most of my money on Instagram because I'm a UGC creator. [03:31:45] So, like, if he's making a good amount of money, I'd delete it. [03:31:48] Yes. [03:31:48] Let's say he was a sole breadwinner and he was. [03:31:50] Oh, yeah, for sure. [03:31:51] Then, but like, my husband or my fiance is not. [03:31:54] So, I'm not deleting that Instagram. [03:31:57] Throwing a little shade at your husband here. [03:31:59] Love you, Jordan. [03:31:59] The way you said that had like a little resentment in your voice, you know, it was a little, like, step it up. [03:32:06] What's his name? [03:32:07] Jordan? [03:32:07] Yeah. [03:32:08] It sounded like, step it up, Jordan. [03:32:10] What the fuck? [03:32:11] Well, I'm teaching him how to be a UGC creator. [03:32:13] So, he started making a little money. [03:32:15] Hmm. [03:32:17] Okay. [03:32:19] So you are addicted to reels. [03:32:22] Why wouldn't you delete it again? [03:32:24] I just don't know what's the reason I need to delete it for them. [03:32:28] Why? [03:32:29] He is really traditional and he doesn't want you posting your little thirst trap bikini photos on there. [03:32:39] He is so ridiculous. [03:32:41] He's ridiculous. [03:32:43] He's ridiculous for that ask. [03:32:45] You know, I was actually thinking about this. [03:32:47] And my issue with it is well, there's two components there's the posts on it, and then there's the consumption angle. [03:32:58] So I think social media, short form content, even though I mean, I don't know if this is going to get me labeled as a hypocrite. === Doom Scrolling Habits (07:11) === [03:33:06] Obviously, we produce short form content here on the whatever. [03:33:09] Well, I mean, we also do the live podcast too. [03:33:12] The short form content is secondary to a degree, but I think short form content. [03:33:19] Does have some damages that it does on attention span. [03:33:24] And then also the algorithms can be problematic because it'll start feeding you propaganda. [03:33:31] It'll feed you like things that'll make you upset. [03:33:35] Sometimes it depends. [03:33:36] Sometimes the feeds, like, I don't know, if you like, maybe if you're into makeup, it'll just send you makeup videos, which, well, that's a separate topic. [03:33:44] But like makeup videos are not inherently like they're not espousing anything harmful. [03:33:49] Well, I could probably come up with an argument, anti makeup argument, but I don't know. [03:33:54] If you're watching gym videos and you're just getting fitness, that's a better example. [03:33:59] You're just getting fitness content, that's your algorithm, that's pretty harmless. [03:34:03] In fact, it's probably good. [03:34:06] But a lot of these algorithms tend to, it's like a race to the bottom because people engage with things that are upsetting to them. [03:34:14] People engage with things that get them angry, that get them enraged. [03:34:20] People engage with those things. [03:34:22] It's a race to the bottom. [03:34:23] So then you engage with something oh my God, misogyny, racism. [03:34:28] Oh my God, Republicans are so bad, blah, blah, blah. [03:34:32] Conservatives are terrible. [03:34:34] We should assassinate people. [03:34:35] Like, what the fuck? [03:34:36] So, assassination is okay. [03:34:40] He's a fascist. [03:34:41] It's okay to assassinate people. [03:34:43] Yeah. [03:34:44] Punch a Nazi. [03:34:44] Okay, so, anyways, so that's the algorithm. [03:34:47] That's the algorithm slippery slope. [03:34:50] And I do think, honestly, long term, I don't know if I've revealed this on the show. [03:34:58] I think if a girl wants to be my girlfriend, but this is me being a protector, this is me being a protector. [03:35:05] Because I think men, when we talk about protecting, it's not just like, okay, there's a home invasion, there's a burglar, some, you know, we got to fuck a guy up, we got to shoot a guy. [03:35:15] It's not just that. [03:35:17] I think men have a duty to their family, to their girlfriend, to their children, to not just protect them physically, but to protect them of threats, of spirit, and of heart, and of mind. [03:35:33] And I believe TikTok and Instagram and all these things. [03:35:37] Are threats of mind and of spirit. [03:35:42] I believe these are damaging things. [03:35:44] These are damaging platforms. [03:35:47] It fucks your attention span. [03:35:50] It fucks your attention span. [03:35:52] You get fed propaganda. [03:35:54] It takes one video for a woman to decide that she wants to trans her kids. [03:35:58] No. [03:35:59] So I think I have a duty as a boyfriend to tell my girlfriend, you know what? [03:36:07] Look. [03:36:10] I don't want you on Instagram. [03:36:11] I don't want you on TikTok. [03:36:12] You shouldn't be. [03:36:14] Now, it would actually look. [03:36:16] I don't know if she wasn't consuming the reels and she was just like once a fucking month, I don't know, posting like photos of her food or something. [03:36:26] I don't really care. [03:36:27] That's fine, I guess. [03:36:29] I actually think if you want a girlfriend, Max, you got to get her off the fucking apps. [03:36:37] Like, you got to get her off the doom scrolling because I got to protect her mind. [03:36:42] Doom scrolling is bad for your mental health. [03:36:46] She's going to be exposed to propaganda. [03:36:50] As a man, I have a duty to protect my girlfriend. [03:36:55] Obviously, she has free will. [03:36:56] She can do what she wants, but I hope that my girlfriend would defer to my better judgment and realize the damage that social media does. [03:37:06] And if I say, look, babe, I don't want you doom scrolling on fucking TikTok. [03:37:11] I know I'm taking care of everything, you know, I'm door dashing. [03:37:14] You know, I'm. [03:37:15] You're not even fucking cooking. [03:37:17] I'm door dashing all our shit. [03:37:18] So, what are you even doing? [03:37:19] You're just fucking doom scrolling. [03:37:20] You know what? [03:37:20] I'm not door dashing anymore. [03:37:22] You're gonna fucking cook. [03:37:24] You're gonna spend three hours cooking per day. [03:37:27] That's right. [03:37:28] You're doom scrolling too much. [03:37:30] I gotta fill her time with something else, right? [03:37:34] Any response from the women? [03:37:35] Yes, yes, yes. [03:37:36] I agree wholeheartedly. [03:37:38] Sorry. [03:37:39] Just wanted to jump in a little. [03:37:40] Do you ever doom scroll? [03:37:47] Do I doom scroll? [03:37:49] How long do you have to be scrolling to be doom scrolling? [03:37:52] Like more than an hour? [03:37:54] No. [03:37:55] 30 minutes? [03:37:55] Like 30 minutes probably. [03:37:56] And then you forget your entire life and what you're doing because you're so attached to whatever you're watching. [03:38:01] Is I'm because I'm in the social media space, I'm kind of and I'm a social commentator. [03:38:07] Um, I like post things and commentate on them on my ex and Facebook account, and sometimes I'm like looking for like the trending topics, sometimes we react to clips. [03:38:20] It's within the purview of my business, but honestly, the moment I retire from this, TikTok off my phone, it's all gone. [03:38:30] It's all gone. [03:38:32] If it wasn't for my job, I know. [03:38:34] But, like, I'm more so doing it for research. [03:38:38] It's not like entertainment, I guess. [03:38:41] I don't know. [03:38:42] No, I get that. [03:38:42] Because for UGC, you got to scroll through like your niche to warm the account up. [03:38:47] Yeah. [03:38:47] So, I mean, I suppose I do it, but it's for the like, I'm literally looking for clips or dating topics or trending topics for me to react to. [03:38:58] Like, I'm on X and I'm seeing all this stuff. [03:39:01] Like, Caller Daddy's been on X for like three separate things recently. [03:39:05] Maybe I can make them topical. [03:39:08] For the show. [03:39:09] One of the things I saw recently on Caller Daddy was Gwyneth Paltrow. [03:39:15] Alex, what's her fuck? [03:39:16] I can't believe I know her fucking name. [03:39:18] Alex Cooper, the host of Caller Daddy, asked Gwyneth Paltrow something like, Who was better in bed, Ben Affleck or Brad Pitt? [03:39:26] And she actually responds. [03:39:29] And I was like, This is a topic we've talked about on the show, but like, there is a difference between men and women. [03:39:37] Wait, I don't, am I just moving off the, hold on. [03:39:40] I just moved off the topic. [03:39:41] Hold on. [03:39:41] We'll come to that. [03:39:42] Fucking Gwyneth. [03:39:43] Oh my. [03:39:43] What? [03:39:44] This pen's dog shit. [03:39:45] Did anyone want to weigh in on my TikTok thing? [03:39:48] Like, my girlfriend should not have TikTok? [03:39:50] Yes. [03:39:50] I think, like, seriously, like, it is really like a form of protection. [03:39:55] And, like, if, like, that's like, you want a man that's going to protect you, lead you, guide you, all these things, like, I think that's, like, 100% valid. [03:40:01] And, like, that's, like, that's actually, like, desirable in a man. [03:40:05] Like, you would want your man to do that for you. [03:40:07] You know, you can tell that he cares about you. [03:40:10] Like, he tells you, like, which friends are. [03:40:12] Good friends, like, oh, this girl's married, she has all these goals in life. [03:40:15] That's a girl you should be hanging out with. === Cortisol Spikes from News (06:15) === [03:40:17] Like, you shouldn't be hanging out with these girls that have no goals. [03:40:19] I want to be a hoe. [03:40:21] Well, like, so yeah, you probably shouldn't be friends with people like that. [03:40:25] It's not going to bring you anywhere. [03:40:26] Well, here's the interesting thing. [03:40:28] I think, as I was saying this, I think some of the women were like, Brian, that's super controlling, that's super toxic. [03:40:34] Who are you to tell your girlfriend what she should do on her phone, right? [03:40:38] And I would anticipate women feeling that way, like, whoa, that's really controlling. [03:40:43] Like, I wouldn't literally go up to her phone and, like, I'm fucking deleting this shit. [03:40:48] No, I would want her to voluntarily do it. [03:40:52] Like, I'd have a conversation with her, like, hey, look, I think it's not good for you. [03:40:56] Like, I want you. [03:40:58] Like, I don't know. [03:40:58] Maybe this sounds crazy. [03:41:00] Like, let me add some context here. [03:41:02] Like, in social media can be, there was actually a phenomenon before social media got big where people who watched the news constantly. [03:41:14] This is a phenomenon that predates social media. [03:41:17] If you were constantly watching the news, what would you see? [03:41:21] Robberies, murders, killings, because that was the most interesting thing for the news. [03:41:25] That bumped the ratings. [03:41:27] And so people started getting stressed out. [03:41:30] Spikes are cortisol. [03:41:32] Spikes are cortisol. [03:41:34] They'd be watching the news cycle and getting paranoid and thinking, oh my God, things are more dangerous than they actually are because all you're seeing is murder, murder, rape. [03:41:44] Car theft, carjacking, abduction, sex trafficking. [03:41:48] That's the news. [03:41:49] That's the news. [03:41:50] That's what they're reporting on. [03:41:51] And similarly, with social media, certain things get amplified in the algorithm. [03:41:56] And so, like, I guess I'd frame it like this. [03:41:59] Who here thinks, on a balance of things, that overall for society, do you think that social media is harmful? [03:42:10] This is yes. [03:42:11] Now, we might benefit from it in ways. [03:42:13] Like, I think, for example, like, I'm not saying across the board, it's just fucking terrible. [03:42:18] Like, for example, this ability to instantaneously communicate with somebody in a different country or different continent, keep up with your friends, you know. [03:42:30] Entertainment, that to a degree, the entertainment component is cool. [03:42:34] Like, oh my God, 30 years ago, you wanted to, well, I guess fucking phones, I guess, but like, it was more difficult to communicate, you know? [03:42:44] I mean, think before telephones, think before all this shit. [03:42:47] Like, letters, motherfucker, letters? [03:42:51] You would say, even, even, you could live in the same state as somebody before fucking phones. [03:42:59] You would hear back three weeks later some shit. [03:43:01] They send a letter, fucking. [03:43:04] Then they got to respond to you. [03:43:07] So that's cool. [03:43:07] That's a benefit of the internet and technology that we have instantaneous communication, right? [03:43:13] But like social media, though, I think while it has some positives, overall, I think it has been negative. [03:43:21] I say this even as somebody who profits off of social media, right? [03:43:26] So then, perhaps my framing of if social media is harmful and you guys agree with me, am I really such a monster to suggest? [03:43:38] That my girlfriend should not consume the thing that is harmful? [03:43:43] No. [03:43:43] Thoughts? [03:43:45] Nobody, are you guys just gonna be talking? [03:43:46] Wait, I have something. [03:43:48] Actually, in my longest relationship in high school, my ex boyfriend, like, he would just, like, literally brain rot all day on, like, TikTok and, like, just, like, watch, like, really stupid videos. [03:44:04] And, like, I told him, I had a conversation with him, and I was like, dude, like, This is like not helping you at all. [03:44:11] Like, you should watch like motivational shit because at the time I was like super into like watching gym videos and like motivational stuff. [03:44:20] And I was like, why are you like consuming this shit like for hours? [03:44:24] Like, I don't understand like why that's like helpful. [03:44:28] And we like got into this massive argument about it. [03:44:31] And like, he's probably still watching his brain run. [03:44:36] Yeah. [03:44:36] Yeah. [03:44:37] Um, I do have some thoughts on social media. [03:44:39] I do think it's, um, I think it's pretty polarizing. [03:44:42] It's creating two types of content. [03:44:44] Your algorithm is feeding you into two directions. [03:44:47] One is things that you agree with, it just keeps feeding you things you like and you agree with. [03:44:51] And then the other one is fear driven content, because both of those things allow you to spend more time on the platform. [03:44:57] But that's an incentive problem, because the more time you spend on the platform, the more these creators will get paid, and the more the platform gets advertising dollars. [03:45:06] So I think today's social media is very problematic, and everyone has to go to the comment section and scroll down to see what people are really thinking. [03:45:15] But I mean, I pretty much built that's the thesis around my startup. [03:45:20] It's like, what if we can create a more honest internet? [03:45:22] What if we can share what people are really thinking instead of just like the performative information out there? [03:45:28] Like, I do believe the internet can be better and we can create better incentive alignment for people to be more honest and not just so performative on the internet. [03:45:37] And maybe that will change how we think about social media. [03:45:41] But going back to like what you said, which is like protecting your girlfriend from certain brain rot, you know, like just watching things repeatedly. [03:45:51] I think that's valid. [03:45:53] I also only just downloaded TikTok for my business. [03:45:59] And I think the fact that there's no way to train your own algorithm is kind of problematic because we are just passively consuming and just letting the platforms tell us what to think. [03:46:11] I think that's problematic. [03:46:13] I agree with this point. [03:46:14] I do agree that social media is damaging. [03:46:16] I think that it's fine if your partner wants you to delete a certain social media. [03:46:21] However, I do not think that it is okay for your partner to pick and choose your friends. [03:46:26] I think that if you are a grown up, if you're an adult, you should be able to pick and choose who you know who is good for you and who's not. === Irrational Social Media Rules (05:25) === [03:46:32] Disagree. [03:46:33] Okay. [03:46:34] Well, I think that if you're like social, mentally stable, you should be able to decide if this person is a good person. [03:46:42] Like, why would I let my boyfriend choose one of my best friends from childhood years just because men lead? [03:46:48] Men are leading you. [03:46:49] You want a man to lead you. [03:46:50] Lexi, Lexi, you are so pandering right now, Lexi. [03:46:55] They're not leading you. [03:46:58] Men are supposed to tell you what. [03:46:59] Lexi, you are pandering, Lexi. [03:47:02] You're pandering. [03:47:02] Is a man leading you right now? [03:47:05] Huh? [03:47:05] Does your boyfriend lead you? [03:47:06] Is a man leading you right now? [03:47:07] Yeah, I do. [03:47:08] He does. [03:47:09] He does a great job, too. [03:47:10] Shout out to him. [03:47:11] Big shout out to him. [03:47:12] Pandering. [03:47:13] But, well, okay. [03:47:15] So, what if your boyfriend makes a determination that this person is not good? [03:47:22] How about it's your husband? [03:47:24] How about then? [03:47:25] Yes. [03:47:25] And it depends on the person as well. [03:47:28] I think that if I would hear my husband out, absolutely. [03:47:32] I would hear every side that he has out, and I would talk to my friend about it. [03:47:35] And ultimately, it's my decision. [03:47:38] Okay. [03:47:40] I kind of trust myself enough to know who I should and shouldn't hang out with. [03:47:44] I feel like we learned that in elementary school. [03:47:46] So you wouldn't defer to your husband on it? [03:47:48] No, I just said I would. [03:47:49] No, but you said you would take it into consideration. [03:47:52] Let's say, here, how about this? [03:47:55] Let's say your husband is being unreasonable. [03:47:59] Yes. [03:47:59] Like, let's say there really isn't a threat or anything from this friendship, yeah. [03:48:04] And he's maybe being irrational, yeah, but it's still really important to him, yeah. [03:48:10] Would you yield to him then, or would you be like, No, you're wrong? [03:48:14] Like, let's say he's genuinely just like he is factually wrong, yeah. [03:48:19] I think you get rid of the friend, or do you tell your husband to off? [03:48:24] Not like that, but no, I think that it's important that I would stand my ground and I would tell my husband, Stand your ground, yeah. [03:48:30] That I don't believe. [03:48:31] So, in all situations where my girlfriend is being irrational, well, I would say for the man, I should stand my ground if she's being irrational. [03:48:40] Well, I don't know. [03:48:41] What if my girlfriend doesn't want to kill a spider? [03:48:44] I think that's irrational to have an apprehension to killing spiders. [03:48:48] To not kill a spider? [03:48:49] Yeah. [03:48:50] I love killing spiders. [03:48:51] Okay, psycho. [03:48:52] Cool. [03:48:53] I think there are solutions to every problem. [03:48:55] I think that compromise can be made on any point of time. [03:48:58] But so, what if she's like, there's a little mouse and she jumps up on the stool in the kitchen? [03:49:04] Yeah, Tom and Jerry. [03:49:06] I think that. [03:49:07] That's irrational behavior. [03:49:09] I think for you, that might be irrational. [03:49:10] I think if she has a genuine fear of rodents, I think getting away from the rodent might be the rational decision to make. [03:49:17] Well, women will, like, jump up on a chair even if the rodent isn't coming for them. [03:49:21] Yeah. [03:49:22] So, like, the rodent is, like, going in the opposite direction. [03:49:25] Oh, my God. [03:49:26] And I don't mean to say this in a, like, general point of view, but I've genuinely seen some men do that, too. [03:49:31] Yeah, sometimes a man might get surprised. [03:49:33] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [03:49:34] Surprised is pretty good. [03:49:34] It's all in a bit. [03:49:35] I don't know. [03:49:36] In a context. [03:49:36] Yeah. [03:49:36] I don't know. [03:49:37] Like, look, if you walk into a spider web, that's going to be alarming. [03:49:41] Like, oh, fuck. [03:49:42] Yeah, that is going to suck. [03:49:43] You're going to fucking flinch if you walk through a spider web and your face gets, if it's fucking on you or something. [03:49:49] But I don't know. [03:49:51] I think, I think, I don't know where I'm going with my argument on this one. [03:49:55] I actually, I'm not sure where I'm going. [03:49:58] I mean, I was just going to say, even if the man's desire is irrational, actually, I don't know. [03:50:04] Do I want to defend? [03:50:05] I don't know if I want to defend that position. [03:50:10] Well, it's like, okay, if it's such a big deal to them and it's like, It depends how important it is to you. [03:50:20] Yeah, I agree. [03:50:20] I'm trying to say the same thing, I think. [03:50:22] So it's like, let's say, like, think maybe this is a thing. [03:50:30] I don't know if this is maps on. [03:50:33] Your husband has a preference for you wearing purple socks. [03:50:38] Yep. [03:50:39] And it makes no sense. [03:50:40] Yeah. [03:50:41] And you prefer orange socks or something. [03:50:43] I don't know. [03:50:44] But it's like, you want to make him happy. [03:50:45] And it's like, this makes no sense. [03:50:47] Why the fuck would you want me to just wear purple socks? [03:50:49] He's like, I don't know. [03:50:50] I like when you wear purple socks. [03:50:53] It gives me a boner, whatever. [03:50:54] I don't know. [03:50:55] And you're like, okay, well, I don't normally want to only wear purple socks. [03:50:59] Not really in style. [03:51:01] Yeah, yeah. [03:51:01] And then you fucking wear the purple socks, though, because you want to make your husband happy. [03:51:04] Yeah, yeah. [03:51:05] It's irrational. [03:51:06] It's completely irrational. [03:51:07] I don't know. [03:51:07] Yeah. [03:51:08] I need to get up for a moment. [03:51:09] You guys can, I don't know, talk about something interesting. [03:51:13] Don't make it boring. [03:51:14] I know it's difficult when the male presence leaves the table to. [03:51:18] Wow. [03:51:18] I am plenty of male presence. [03:51:21] Will you bow when you get up? [03:51:24] I know it's difficult. [03:51:25] Maybe I need to give you guys a prompt so not to bore the audience before I leave here for a few minutes. [03:51:34] What should you guys talk about while I'm gone? [03:51:36] Well, maybe you seem to disagree with some of the things said. [03:51:42] You know what, here, if anybody can recollect one of the crazy dating stories that you've sent me, maybe without me prompting it, you can just go into that. [03:51:53] I think you have one. [03:51:54] Maybe you could share like one or two of your crazy. === Buying Guns at Walmart (09:46) === [03:51:57] You punched a dude in a dick? [03:51:59] In the dick? [03:52:00] Oh, I did. [03:52:00] Yeah. [03:52:01] Oh, yeah. [03:52:01] All right, so I'm going to get up. [03:52:03] You can share one of your stories. [03:52:05] If anybody else has a story, you can share it. [03:52:07] Go ahead. [03:52:10] Tell us more. [03:52:12] Okay, so when I was with my ex, we were together for over five years. [03:52:16] And kind of towards like the end of our relationship, he started smoking meth. [03:52:21] Oh. [03:52:21] So he became. [03:52:24] Pretty like psychotic and like scary. [03:52:27] Yes. [03:52:28] Yeah, I'm gonna smoke a mess. [03:52:32] You know, that's what I'm saying. [03:52:33] Yeah, I don't know. [03:52:34] And so I moved in with my parents to try to kind of slowly break it off, which it still took a while. [03:52:41] But at night, I would put my phone on do not disturb because there are times where he would just blow my phone up like for no reason. [03:52:49] Like, I always thought I was cheating, even though I wasn't. [03:52:53] So he showed up at my house. [03:52:55] Like in the middle of the night, and walked into my room. [03:52:58] And my little sister, she was five at the time, was sleeping in bed with me. [03:53:02] And he, like, went up to her and, like, shook her, like, really hard. [03:53:05] Oh my God. [03:53:06] And, like, woke her up and, like, scared her. [03:53:08] And it woke me up. [03:53:09] So I just punched him right in the dick. [03:53:11] I don't know. [03:53:11] It was just my first reaction. [03:53:12] Honestly, he deserved it, I thought. [03:53:14] You're a hero. [03:53:15] So that's crazy. [03:53:19] Why is it so easy to get drugs in America? [03:53:23] How did he even start doing this? [03:53:26] Girl, I have a lot of. [03:53:27] What can you not get in America? [03:53:28] Oh my God. [03:53:29] I don't know why or how he started doing it, but yeah. [03:53:32] Like, I've had. [03:53:34] When I went to Australia for a year to model, I went and so many Australians were so fascinated by the fact that you can go to Walmart and you can buy a gun and a sandwich and milk. [03:53:43] You can buy a gun somewhere. [03:53:44] You can buy a gun at Walmart. [03:53:46] Does it work? [03:53:47] It does indeed. [03:53:49] Yeah, it's crazy. [03:53:50] America's crazy. [03:53:51] Walmart stepping it up? [03:53:52] Okay. [03:53:53] Yeah. [03:53:54] Damn. [03:53:56] Any other crazy dating stories? [03:53:57] Yeah, me. [03:53:58] Yeah. [03:53:59] So for me, I dated a really fucking famous guy before. [03:54:02] Really? [03:54:03] Yeah, so he's super famous. [03:54:05] And then he even flew back from his trip just to celebrate birthday for me. [03:54:10] So I feel like I fall in love already, you know. [03:54:14] But something just happened, like, same day, my birthday. [03:54:18] He was in the shower, and I was just playing on my phone. [03:54:22] And I opened social media, I saw a post from one of his fans. [03:54:28] And this is like his photo with another girl in his trip, you know. [03:54:35] All the time he wasn't alone. [03:54:38] I just feel how is that possible because he facetimes with me every night. [03:54:43] There's always time. [03:54:45] I'm so curious who it is. [03:54:47] Just not end like this. [03:54:49] Later I found an open-ended women's pads used for period under his bed. [03:54:55] Ew. [03:54:56] Yeah. [03:54:57] Did you? [03:54:59] I just, I went with him, like, came up and then I showed him everything. [03:55:03] He tried to, like, explain. [03:55:05] Talks. [03:55:06] Yeah. [03:55:06] He tried to explain to me, but I just, Don't really listen. [03:55:10] I just left his house. [03:55:12] Yeah. [03:55:12] Yeah. [03:55:13] It's crazy. [03:55:14] And I found out he has more than 20 girls at the same time. [03:55:19] Oh my God. [03:55:20] But did you think you guys were monogamous? [03:55:23] Like, is that what he told you? [03:55:27] No. [03:55:27] No. [03:55:28] Okay. [03:55:29] Then I also feel like it's okay. [03:55:31] Yeah, same. [03:55:32] Yeah. [03:55:34] Right. [03:55:34] I don't know. [03:55:35] It might be hurtful, but if you guys weren't exclusive, then yeah. [03:55:40] But he said to me, I only have you right now. [03:55:44] Right now. [03:55:45] For like 10 minutes. [03:55:46] For like the next 10 seconds. [03:55:48] Right. [03:55:48] That was kind of honest. [03:55:50] I feel like I had a similar story to you because I also dated someone that was pretty famous. [03:55:58] And it was my first relationship when I moved to LA. [03:56:03] And I literally fell in love with him so hard. [03:56:08] Like, I was his girl. [03:56:12] Like, I know that we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but like, I thought I was like his only one because that's like what he was saying and like how he made me feel. [03:56:20] And then, um, I realized like it was so embarrassing. [03:56:26] Like, I brought like my girl best friend to like meet him for the first time. [03:56:30] Um, and we like pull up to his house and we like go into his house. [03:56:36] And, um, like, I've been to his house like a million times and I open the door to his bedroom and I swear to God, there was like 30 girls in his room. [03:56:46] I'm not kidding. [03:56:48] And there were three girls like sleeping in his bed, like asleep. [03:56:53] And like, I just was like, what the fuck? [03:56:56] And like, to be honest, like when I was dating him, like everyone was telling me, like, oh, he's like such a hoe. [03:57:03] Like, he's known in LA for like being a hoe. [03:57:06] And I always defended him. [03:57:07] I was like, no, he's not like that. [03:57:09] Like, you don't even know him. [03:57:10] You never met him. [03:57:11] Like, you're just seeing shit on social media. [03:57:13] You know what I mean? [03:57:14] And I was like, it was so embarrassing because I was like telling that to like my girlfriend because she was like the main person that was saying that, but like she never met him. [03:57:23] So I was like, and it was the first time that like they met. [03:57:28] And I like was so upset and I just like ended up leaving like with her like right away. [03:57:34] It was so awkward, but it was like Halloween. [03:57:39] So he was trying to make it seem like it was like a Halloween party. [03:57:42] But what I don't understand was like, why is there three girls asleep in your bed? [03:57:49] How do they all fit? [03:57:51] 30 girls in your room? [03:57:52] That's crazy. [03:57:53] He has a massive house. [03:57:54] I'm impressed. [03:57:56] See, he's wet? [03:57:57] He has like a really big house. [03:57:59] Is he wet? [03:58:00] Yeah, he's wet. [03:58:01] Oh my god. [03:58:02] So that's. [03:58:03] He's so wet. [03:58:04] I hope that we weren't dating the same person because he really was horrible. [03:58:08] Imagine. [03:58:10] Oh my god. [03:58:10] Because you were like. [03:58:11] He had 20 girls and it was like. [03:58:16] Oh. [03:58:17] I cannot say. [03:58:18] Name drop him, please. [03:58:21] Where? [03:58:21] In LA. [03:58:23] Were you in LA? [03:58:24] LA too. [03:58:25] No. [03:58:27] Uh oh. [03:58:27] Can you describe what he looks like? [03:58:30] He's really tall. [03:58:33] Is he fake? [03:58:34] More. [03:58:34] Describe more. [03:58:35] So many people are so tall. [03:58:37] First initial of the first name. [03:58:39] Not that old, but not like 20 years old, that young. [03:58:43] So around. [03:58:45] Can you tell me what he's known for? [03:58:47] It's younger. [03:58:49] No, I'm not even talking about him. [03:58:51] What? [03:58:51] I'm not talking about him. [03:58:52] How many tall guys are you talking about? [03:58:57] What's his name start with? [03:58:59] Like what letter? [03:59:01] Oh. [03:59:03] No. [03:59:04] No. [03:59:05] Thank God, guys. [03:59:07] That would have been really funny, though. [03:59:10] Guys, mine was genuinely so much worse. [03:59:13] Like, and it was a first date, and I just got back from the first date. [03:59:17] He dropped me off outside of my house, and then he turned to me and he said, Can I just pee on you really quick? [03:59:23] Damn. [03:59:23] And I went, What? [03:59:25] Like, I could all do that. [03:59:26] Like, what? [03:59:27] Why do they all do that? [03:59:28] Like, that's so weird. [03:59:29] Like, why does that always happen to me? [03:59:31] He's like, Yeah, I don't think there's anybody around. [03:59:32] And I was like, Yeah, there's no one around because it's like 3 a.m. [03:59:37] Like, I'm trying to get home. [03:59:38] And he was like, Just let me give you a little golden shower, really. [03:59:41] We are. [03:59:42] All right, buddy. [03:59:44] I got it. [03:59:44] What? [03:59:45] Oh. [03:59:45] Never either. [03:59:46] That's happened every time. [03:59:47] Yeah, maybe another day. [03:59:49] Guys want to pee on you, too. [03:59:50] Yeah. [03:59:51] Yeah, like eventually in a relationship. [03:59:52] Never on like a first date or something. [03:59:53] That's weird as fuck. [03:59:54] I like touched our game. [03:59:56] But like eventually. [03:59:56] Dead ass. [03:59:57] No, I was just kidding. [03:59:59] I was just kidding. [04:00:01] I'm joking. [04:00:02] I'm joking. [04:00:03] Don't cancel me. [04:00:05] Thank you. [04:00:07] Yeah, what is that? [04:00:08] Like, what? [04:00:08] Like, men in the peepee fetish? [04:00:10] Yeah. [04:00:11] That's a no for me. [04:00:12] The golden shower? [04:00:13] No. [04:00:14] Ew, and it's not fun. [04:00:16] It's not fun. [04:00:17] It's gross. [04:00:18] Because how can you get you let on? [04:00:20] No. [04:00:20] I just said, yeah, maybe another time. [04:00:23] I was just trying to get away from the situation. [04:00:25] Another time. [04:00:25] Yeah, another time. [04:00:26] Yeah, yeah. [04:00:27] Do they like pee into your. [04:00:28] Mouth. [04:00:29] No! [04:00:30] Where do they pee? [04:00:32] Isn't that a thing? [04:00:32] I wouldn't pee. [04:00:33] I, yeah. [04:00:34] See, being like, yeah. [04:00:36] Man, he smelled like balls, but like, I just put that aside because I don't know. [04:00:42] I'm a good person. [04:00:43] Every time I've ever taken a shower with a man, he's asked to pee with me. [04:00:47] Or they just start peeing in the shower. [04:00:49] Which has been every boyfriend I've ever had. [04:00:50] And I'm just like, well, now it smells like pizzeria. [04:00:52] And it's warm. [04:00:53] It's just like, what is wrong with you? [04:00:54] And everything's wet. [04:00:55] What is wrong with you? [04:00:56] Wait, what camera are we on? [04:00:58] What is wrong with you? [04:00:59] There we go. [04:01:00] I'm glad nobody ever suggested that to me. [04:01:02] Yeah. [04:01:03] What's the weirdest thing anyone has suggested to you? [04:01:06] Yeah. [04:01:06] I mean, honestly, I can't think of anything. [04:01:09] My dating life is extremely weird. [04:01:10] Not even race play? [04:01:12] What? [04:01:13] I'm only dating black people. [04:01:14] Okay, that makes sense. [04:01:15] Oh, you think I'm with the white man? [04:01:16] Yeah. [04:01:16] Okay. [04:01:17] A lot of people think that. [04:01:19] What is that? [04:01:20] Race play is like kind of when, basically, mostly happens when a white guy and a black girl are together and the white guy wants her to act as a slave during sex. [04:01:28] Or maybe it's the opposite way around. [04:01:30] Maybe he wants to be the slave, you know? [04:01:31] Wait, a slave? [04:01:32] A slave. [04:01:33] Like, you know, like historically correct, I guess. [04:01:37] I don't know. [04:01:40] That's insane. [04:01:42] Wait, I have like a crazy story. === Recording Sex Videos (15:52) === [04:01:44] Like, um. [04:01:47] Um, so like my ex boyfriend, he liked putting on like masks and stuff, like scream masks and like doing that. [04:01:58] And he would like pretend to like kidnap me or like scare me. [04:02:03] Report him to the police. [04:02:05] That is so concerning. [04:02:08] I liked it though. [04:02:09] You know why? [04:02:11] It's okay. [04:02:12] You're a little victim. [04:02:13] Oh, yeah. [04:02:13] You're so sweet. [04:02:15] I don't know. [04:02:15] I just like being submissive and I just thought that that was like a cute thing that. [04:02:20] It's not cute, but like, I just thought it was hot. [04:02:24] For sure. [04:02:26] Yeah. [04:02:29] Oh, God. [04:02:30] And actually, like, my first picture that ever went viral on Instagram was like a picture of me and him, and he was like wearing like the screen mask, and he was like holding me up, and like it went viral. [04:02:45] And like, that's how I started getting. [04:02:47] Oh, my God. [04:02:47] Who the hell cares? [04:02:53] Exhilarating story, Chloe. [04:02:55] Lexi, read this for us. [04:02:59] Lexi, I'll still smack the fuck out of you. [04:03:02] Just pop that dump truck like your friend earlier, because I know that's where you like it. [04:03:06] Tell your friend Sammy she can get smacked also. [04:03:10] Why do Asians like cheetah fit? [04:03:13] Because it looked good on our skin tone. [04:03:15] Yellow skin tone, look good. [04:03:19] All right, Base Thor, thank you for the super chat. [04:03:21] Appreciate it, guys. [04:03:23] Reminder if you guys want $10 to display your message, $100 for a batched read, $200 for a near instant TTS. [04:03:35] Let's see here. [04:03:36] Also, let's just do Twitch really quick. [04:03:38] Guys, go to twitch.tvslash whatever. [04:03:40] Drop us a follow, drop us a prime sub. [04:03:44] If you have one, thank you. [04:03:46] Thank you guys. [04:03:47] 24 minutes since we had a prime sub, drop us a prime. [04:03:50] That actually reminds me some people sent in some stuff via Venmo. [04:03:54] Cash App. [04:03:54] Let me shout you guys out really quick. [04:03:57] Paul, thank you for the. [04:04:00] You can show the Venmo Cash App. [04:04:02] Paul, thank you for the 20 via Venmo. [04:04:07] Catherine, thank you for the 37 Cash App. [04:04:09] Shelby, thank you for the 10. [04:04:11] Joshua, thank you for the 25. [04:04:13] Appreciate it, guys. [04:04:13] Thank you, thank you. [04:04:15] Thank you, guys. [04:04:16] A lot of birthday wishes, too. [04:04:17] Appreciate it. [04:04:18] Thank you, thank you. [04:04:20] Val, thank you. [04:04:22] Appreciate it. [04:04:22] All right, right back to this. [04:04:26] I feel like I overheard something back there that I wanted to argue about, but whatever. [04:04:30] I lost my. [04:04:31] I think I lost it. [04:04:33] Was it the peeing thing? [04:04:34] I was going to say that. [04:04:35] Nah, I don't really want to talk about that. [04:04:36] Oh, my God, he's wonderful. [04:04:37] As soon as I go. [04:04:38] Oh, well, this does kind of bring me back quickly, and we're not going to linger on this topic too long because it's not super interesting. [04:04:45] But the Gwyneth Paltrow thing and how she's like revealing she's not nobody. [04:04:53] Like, these are celebrities, and celebrities have a greater. [04:04:57] Usually, a much greater investment to keeping certain intimate details private. [04:05:02] I mean, normal, regular people also want to keep things private, but usually who they date don't have a platform to like widely distribute intimate details about them. [04:05:13] And I think there's a difference between men and women. [04:05:15] Like, maybe I don't know if it's a double standard, but I don't think I could ever imagine Brad Pitt going on a podcast. [04:05:22] Not that he even goes on podcasts, as far as I know. [04:05:25] And like, oh, yeah, you know, fucking Jennifer Aniston, like her pussy was tight. [04:05:31] And, um, Yeah, like fucking Gwyneth Paltrow, like fucking loose pussy. [04:05:36] Like, not that, to be fair, like I'm being a bit exaggerated here. [04:05:41] I don't think when Gwyneth Paltrow was saying this stuff, I don't think it was that bad, but I still think it was a bit of a sharing of a detail that was private. [04:05:53] I don't know. [04:05:54] So, I don't know. [04:05:55] What do you guys think? [04:05:56] What did she say? [04:05:57] Yeah, she was like the response. [04:05:59] She said something along the lines of how. [04:06:04] Brad Pitt, I forgot what she said about Brad Pitt, but she said, like, Ben, oh, he was so technically good or some fucking weird shit like that. [04:06:13] Like, he was technically very skilled in the bed. [04:06:15] I was like, and look, she didn't reveal anything. [04:06:18] She wasn't like, okay, well, Ben's dick is this big, you know, et cetera, et cetera. [04:06:22] But I do think bringing it to a more realistic level, I do think that, and maybe, well, let me ask this question. [04:06:31] When you're hanging out with your gal pals, when you're talking with your girlfriends, and let's say you get with a new guy or. [04:06:37] You know, maybe it's even your boyfriend. [04:06:39] I don't know. [04:06:40] Do you guys, and be honest, please. [04:06:44] Do you guys talk about sex? [04:06:46] Sometimes. [04:06:48] Yes. [04:06:48] Sure, not all the time. [04:06:49] But do you talk, do you reveal private details about your sex life? [04:06:54] I would say to a certain extent. [04:06:57] Like, I do think things need to stay private. [04:06:59] But, like, the only thing I would ever say is, like, it was really good. [04:07:03] But, like, I don't tell them, like, details or, like, anything like that. [04:07:06] Because I feel like that's between, You and the person you're with. [04:07:09] I agree with that, but I do feel like there's a good amount of women who do get into details. [04:07:13] I get into details. [04:07:14] Yes. [04:07:15] I don't get into details. [04:07:16] Me too. [04:07:16] Me too. [04:07:16] Yes. [04:07:17] Okay. [04:07:18] Give me a quick example of what might be a detailed thing. [04:07:24] Like the size. [04:07:25] Okay. [04:07:26] So you'll say big dick, small dick. [04:07:28] Yeah. [04:07:28] And the dirty talk. [04:07:30] Dirty. [04:07:31] Okay. [04:07:31] So what he said to you during sex? [04:07:35] What else? [04:07:35] Did he come quick? [04:07:36] He lasted too long? [04:07:38] What else? [04:07:38] You mean the dirty talk or something? [04:07:41] That's crazy. [04:07:42] Um, uh, yeah, how long does he take? [04:07:47] And um, the post, the what's the what's after the post, post, post, like the position, position, and also the you should just set your phone up for FaceTime and let your friend watch next time. [04:08:07] And also, I mean, that's a lot of questions. [04:08:10] Tell my friend we we record a sex video. [04:08:14] And also shared a video to my friend. [04:08:16] Wait, video? [04:08:17] Video? [04:08:18] Wait, hold on, hold on. [04:08:20] Wait, so you'll take a recording or he takes the recording? [04:08:25] Both. [04:08:26] You record, you both simultaneously record? [04:08:29] And then you show your friends, this is us fucking? [04:08:33] Snap that. [04:08:34] You know? [04:08:34] Just snap, snap that. [04:08:36] Like only one time. [04:08:38] And then. [04:08:38] Snap, snap chat? [04:08:41] Uh huh. [04:08:44] Wait. [04:08:44] You send your female friends. [04:08:46] Uh huh. [04:08:47] Videos of you fucking. [04:08:49] Do the men know that you're like recording it? [04:08:52] What the man knows? [04:08:54] He knows. [04:08:55] He's recording too. [04:08:55] He wants to record a sex video first. [04:08:59] Okay, but you send it to your girl group. [04:09:02] Girlfriend. [04:09:03] This is a bit unusual. [04:09:06] Like, I don't know if. [04:09:08] I know girls talk about sex, but, like, to show them a video of. [04:09:14] Have you done it? [04:09:15] No, I have not. [04:09:16] Like, that's way too personal. [04:09:19] That's beyond. [04:09:22] Like, a girl showing her. [04:09:24] I would almost expect that more of the man. [04:09:27] Like, check it out. [04:09:28] I'm fucking some chick. [04:09:29] Like, I feel like that might be a bit. [04:09:33] I still think it's cringe as fuck for men to do that, but I think it'd be a bit more common, but it's fucking cringe. [04:09:38] It seems almost somewhat odder for a woman to do it for some reason. [04:09:42] I don't know why. [04:09:45] Okay, so you show. [04:09:48] Aren't women like grossed out by. [04:09:51] No. [04:09:51] A little bit? [04:09:52] I don't know. [04:09:53] Maybe not. [04:09:53] Okay, personally, if one of my friends sent them like them getting real to me, I'd be like, dog. [04:10:00] Yeah, no, it's like weird, right? [04:10:03] You'd be like, I don't want to see your pussy, bro. [04:10:07] We share to each other, okay? [04:10:10] Oh, so she also offends you with her sex tape. [04:10:13] Yeah, are you guys like together? [04:10:14] Yeah, are you guys listening? [04:10:17] What do you mean, together? [04:10:18] Like lesbians? [04:10:19] No, are you sure? [04:10:21] We're great. [04:10:25] That's interesting. [04:10:25] Um, wow, okay. [04:10:26] Well, I don't know. [04:10:29] I kind of don't like that. [04:10:30] I mean, that's that's yeah, that's something else, but. [04:10:34] Just the talking, I don't really like that. [04:10:38] I don't think it. [04:10:39] I think, and I think women, do you guys think us men, do you think we talk about sex in the way that you guys talk about sex? [04:10:47] No. [04:10:48] No. [04:10:49] Yeah, I do. [04:10:50] I do. [04:10:51] I think that you guys do. [04:10:52] I've seen a male group chat before, so I know. [04:10:54] Oh, that's right. [04:10:55] Yeah, male group chat? [04:10:56] Yeah. [04:10:57] Like, bro. [04:10:58] Yeah, dude, like a male group chat. [04:11:00] I'm a bit older, so I don't know. [04:11:01] Okay, so like a snap group chat, and it's genuinely the worst things that they've ever talked about in their lives. [04:11:07] It's like. [04:11:08] Multiple naked girls, multiple dick pics, probably, multiple just whatever you could send in a group chat. [04:11:14] That's what's in a male Snapchat group chat. [04:11:16] And I've seen all of it. [04:11:16] I'm actually, yeah, that's pretty wild too. [04:11:18] It's really sad, but yeah. [04:11:22] I don't know. [04:11:22] Maybe it's younger guys are in toxic group chats or whatever. [04:11:28] Nathan, did you just raise your hand? [04:11:31] Are you in a toxic group chat, Nathan? [04:11:33] Nathan? [04:11:36] What the fuck, Nathan? [04:11:37] Bro. [04:11:37] Yeah, but he's like, he's a fucking. [04:11:40] Yeah, but that's what I'm talking about. [04:11:42] That's literally the age I'm talking about. [04:11:43] I'm only 22. [04:11:44] Okay, fair enough. [04:11:45] Yeah, see? [04:11:45] Fair enough. [04:11:46] However, as in, I'm not saying that men never do this. [04:11:50] Like, men definitely fucking do some crazy shit. [04:11:54] As a general observation between a comparison of men and women, I think women more so are sharing verbally, sharing details about, you know, okay, the next day after the first night with a new guy, oh my God, tell us what happened. [04:12:11] And, like, I can tell you, at least from my perspective, I only represent, I don't know how many men I represent, but first off, they don't know anything. [04:12:22] Like, if I'm hanging out with my male friends, I could have just fucked the hottest woman ever the night before. [04:12:27] They're not, they don't know. [04:12:30] I might not even tell them I'm going out on a date. [04:12:34] They might, so they might not even know that, but if I did hook up with her, it wouldn't, the most it would ever be. [04:12:43] Hey, man, how'd it go with Becky yesterday? [04:12:46] Oh, it's good. [04:12:47] That's it. [04:12:49] Now, if it was bad, maybe I might like bad in the sense that she, I don't know, she showed up to the date fucking drunk and like vomited or something. [04:12:56] I might be like, oh, you know, she's fucking on drugs, fucking threw up. [04:13:03] Like, I might say, share that. [04:13:05] But, like, if it goes good, like, say we have sex, hook up, whatever, I am not just good. [04:13:13] Oh, it was good. [04:13:14] That's all he's getting. [04:13:15] He's not getting details. [04:13:16] He's not getting this. [04:13:17] Whereas, y'all women, I feel like you're, okay, dick size, you're gonna talk about the sex a little bit. [04:13:23] I don't know. [04:13:24] Wait, can I say something about what you were saying about showing, like, videos and stuff? [04:13:29] Like, Oh no. [04:13:34] Oh no. [04:13:34] Well, it's like not exactly the same, but like it was literally like yesterday or like the day before. [04:13:45] I was like streaming with Clavicular and his like best friend was like streaming also. [04:13:53] And like both of their chats were like saying like, oh, like Chloe, yummy leaks, like spamming it and like. [04:14:01] Putting like, bro, shut the fuck up. [04:14:03] Oh my god, I know what you're doing. [04:14:05] Come on, that's ridiculous. [04:14:07] What do you mean? [04:14:08] I'm trying, bro, I know what you're doing. [04:14:09] That's ridiculous. [04:14:12] I'm literally not. [04:14:13] What do you okay? [04:14:13] Finish your fucking point then. [04:14:15] Why are you so mad at me, bro? [04:14:17] You're doing this thing. [04:14:18] Like, here, I'm uh, what's that fucking girl's name? [04:14:22] Can I please finish because you don't even know what I'm trying to say? [04:14:26] Make sure not to look at the look up the spider costume video. [04:14:30] I'm not even sure. [04:14:31] Not to look up the spider. [04:14:34] Actually, really upsetting, and I'm trying to like. [04:14:36] Tell you how I felt, and like I'm being like vulnerable right now. [04:14:39] I'm not trying to, like, no, I'm not trying to do that. [04:14:43] But, um, his like best friend, like, was like, oh, like he just kept bringing it up, and um, I didn't really like understand what was going on, and he like clicked on the link, and um, it was like this video of me, like, um, when I was like 17, and um, bro, why now you're talking about CSAM? [04:15:05] What the fuck, dude. [04:15:08] Actually, fucking retarded. [04:15:09] And like, I don't want to hear your CSAM story, bro. [04:15:12] I don't even know what that is. [04:15:13] I don't want to hear your fucking CSAM story. [04:15:16] I don't know what that is. [04:15:17] I'm not going to even fucking, I don't even want to say the fucking words. [04:15:20] I was like super, super upset and I like ran out and I started crying in the bathroom. [04:15:25] And like, Clav's girlfriend came in and she was like, hey, like, are you okay? [04:15:30] Like, what's going on? [04:15:32] And like, I showed her like the video or whatever. [04:15:38] She like made me feel better about it. [04:15:40] Like, she was like, it's not that bad. [04:15:41] Like, um, and it was just like really embarrassing. [04:15:45] Like, um, and she was like, oh, like this happened to me before. [04:15:50] Like, it's okay. [04:15:51] Like, um, and like she's just like, holy fucking buzzkill, holy fucking buzzkill, bro. [04:15:55] What are you doing? [04:15:58] I'm trying to tell you what happened to me the other day. [04:16:02] What the fuck? [04:16:03] Because, like, actually, a lot of people know about it. [04:16:05] And I kept getting like messages about it. [04:16:08] And it was just reminding me because, like, it was similar. [04:16:12] Like, Oh, great. [04:16:13] Thank you for the buzzkill. [04:16:14] Great. [04:16:15] Love it. [04:16:16] I don't understand what I did wrong. [04:16:18] Let me just start telling a story that involves underage fucking criminal material and let me start crying about how traumatic it is. [04:16:27] How is that not buzzkill? [04:16:29] Okay. [04:16:29] Sorry, Brian. [04:16:30] I didn't mean to. [04:16:31] I was just. [04:16:33] I didn't know. [04:16:33] Like, sorry. [04:16:34] I'm sorry. [04:16:35] I didn't mean to, like, say anything. [04:16:38] That was bad. [04:16:40] I'm sorry. [04:16:44] Oh my god, bro, why would you bring it there? [04:16:46] If it's that sensitive for you, why would you bring it there? [04:16:51] Okay, let me just. [04:16:53] We're talking about fucking dicks. [04:16:54] Let me just bring it to shit that's gonna make me cry. [04:16:58] Holy fuck. [04:17:01] I'm sorry, I just like it was really embarrassing and I just like wanted to address it because people keep talking about it. [04:17:09] And literal trauma dump. [04:17:11] Oh my god. [04:17:14] Does anybody else want to share their trauma? [04:17:15] So it's just the buzzkill. [04:17:17] Does anybody else want to trauma dump while we're fucking here? [04:17:20] I didn't mean to trauma dump, Mike. [04:17:22] I'm sorry. [04:17:25] Who here has been to therapy recently? [04:17:27] Does anybody want to share something they told their therapist? [04:17:31] Like, what the fuck, bro? [04:17:33] I mean, it's like all over the internet. [04:17:35] Like, that's something that I'm dealing with. === Therapy Session Secrets (16:24) === [04:17:37] Like, what the fuck? [04:17:38] Like, it was literally yesterday. [04:17:39] This is not your therapist's office. [04:17:41] Talk to your therapist about this. [04:17:42] Sorry. [04:17:50] The fuck? [04:17:52] Oh my God. [04:17:53] What the hell? [04:17:56] We have a TTS. [04:18:00] Alexander Aristotle 11 donated $200. [04:18:04] Happy birthday, Brian, from the world's second ever slash druid combo heroic, which King 10 kill. [04:18:11] Locktar, hope you were hoard. [04:18:13] I also heard Volano Hammer of the Ancient Kings. [04:18:16] Straight man kisses to ULF Guild. [04:18:19] Wow, what a legend that guy is. [04:18:22] That's what I'm talking about! [04:18:24] That's why he's doing it, me! [04:18:26] That's why it's the goat. [04:18:27] The goat. [04:18:30] But hold on. [04:18:30] Are you talking vanilla or are you talking classic? [04:18:33] Like, are you talking back in like 2009 or some shit? [04:18:36] Or I don't know when Wrath came out. [04:18:38] Or are you talking like 20? [04:18:40] Are you talking a few years ago? [04:18:42] Because World First technically, like, World First technically is like the late 2000s or some shit. [04:18:52] I don't even know. [04:18:52] All right. [04:18:53] Sorry, Chloe, but I don't want to talk about CSAM and trauma shit. [04:18:57] I'm sorry, I didn't mean I didn't know that you were gonna react that way. [04:19:04] I just thought that it was like, and I don't know what CSIM is like, what is that, bro? [04:19:12] I don't think you can say it on here. [04:19:13] I don't even want to say it. [04:19:16] It's like, it's just bad for the platforms. [04:19:19] I don't want to even have like surrounding topics about no worries. [04:19:24] Uh, it's just like such a buzzkill. [04:19:28] It has like, I had no idea. [04:19:30] Like, I'm sorry. [04:19:33] All right, okay, I'll move it on. [04:19:36] Here, let's do this. [04:19:37] I'll wait until everyone's back at, or no, I'll have to get into notes until everyone's back at the table. [04:19:43] All right, let's see here. [04:19:46] We're gonna do, who here, is anybody here like more liberal? [04:19:52] Like more liberal? [04:19:54] Democrat? [04:19:55] Anybody? [04:19:56] Like almost. [04:19:57] Nobody? [04:19:58] Everyone? [04:19:58] You voted for Trump? [04:20:00] No, I didn't vote. [04:20:02] I wasn't here. [04:20:04] Would you have voted for Trump? [04:20:05] Probably not. [04:20:06] Okay. [04:20:07] Well, you can't vote? [04:20:08] No. [04:20:09] Liberal? [04:20:10] Yes. [04:20:11] Okay. [04:20:11] Did you vote for Kamala? [04:20:12] I was in Australia, so I actually didn't get time to vote. [04:20:15] Okay. [04:20:15] Don't they have like the can't you still vote? [04:20:17] I guess, even if you're overseas, I guess. [04:20:20] I don't know. [04:20:21] Okay. [04:20:22] Lexi, what about you? [04:20:23] I didn't vote. [04:20:24] Liberal? [04:20:24] Liberal? [04:20:25] I've never voted. [04:20:26] Never voted? [04:20:27] I can't. [04:20:28] No. [04:20:31] I don't know. [04:20:32] Okay. [04:20:34] Who believes in reparations for black people? [04:20:38] Anybody? [04:20:39] What does that mean? [04:20:41] Why are you pointing at me, dog? [04:20:42] Because you're liberal. [04:20:43] I was looking at other people. [04:20:46] Okay, but I thought the question was for everybody. [04:20:49] But well, usually only liberal people are in favor of reparations. [04:20:52] Well, yeah, but that was what if I responded to yes, but I didn't respond though. [04:20:56] So I'm no, I'm asking if you're in favor. [04:20:58] No, what about you? [04:21:00] Reparations? [04:21:00] Should we pay reparations to black people? [04:21:03] I don't know what you mean, like, like because of historical Native Americans, like how they get like designated like certain amounts of like land and like free college or it could be, but I'm monetary reparations because because of the historic injustices perpetrated on black Americans, well, back then, but should. [04:21:26] Reparations be paid to black Americans today? [04:21:30] I'm going to say yes. [04:21:33] If there's room for it, it makes sense the same way they do with the Native Americans, then I would say yes. [04:21:42] Okay. [04:21:42] So, yeah, so we do have a half black woman and a black woman here. [04:21:47] I'm going to insist that you get your wallet and empty your cash. [04:21:53] She's Blazian, so she only gets 50%, but. [04:21:57] You're full black. [04:21:58] So, can you give her some cash right now? [04:22:01] I'm not the government. [04:22:02] I'm balling on a budget. [04:22:03] No, but I mean, so the government would tax people, but so I'm asking you to voluntarily pay reparations. [04:22:09] Oh, yeah. [04:22:10] Yeah, no, I don't have any cash on me. [04:22:12] Otherwise, I'd make it rain in here. [04:22:14] Venmo, they take Venmo, they take Cash App. [04:22:17] Oh, yeah. [04:22:18] Oh, yeah. [04:22:18] I'm not, I feel like the government should be, I don't know if people individually should be like being called out like that, but I think there should be a budget for it. [04:22:29] I'm with you. [04:22:30] Sorry, guys, I tried. [04:22:31] I tried to get you guys some reparations. [04:22:33] It didn't work. [04:22:34] I mean, I didn't try. [04:22:35] I was trying to give you guys a come up. [04:22:37] Trying to give you guys a come up a little bit. [04:22:40] You know what? [04:22:41] Wait, do I? [04:22:42] Yeah, I think that's fine. [04:22:43] Okay. [04:22:44] Zaza, you write that you're a former communist, feminist, anti white, racist. [04:22:51] Yep. [04:22:51] But then you're red pilled. [04:22:53] Yes. [04:22:54] At age. [04:22:54] Christ pilled. [04:22:55] Christ pilled. [04:22:56] Red pilled. [04:22:57] At the age of 22. [04:22:58] Yeah. [04:22:59] So what did you used to believe very quickly, if you want to just lay that out? [04:23:02] And what do you believe now, if you want to just kind of bullet point it? [04:23:05] Yeah, well, I used to believe I was owed reparations due to slavery. [04:23:09] I believed that I couldn't be racist towards white people because I didn't have systemic power. [04:23:13] I believed in Black Lives Matter, George Floyd, all that stuff. [04:23:17] I believed in transgenderism, feminism, pretty much everything that was backwards. [04:23:23] Did you say black words? [04:23:25] Yeah, that was actually a 40 and slip, but yeah, backwards. [04:23:29] And now I'm pretty much the opposite of everything. [04:23:32] I'm not for the feminism, I'm not for the tranny stuff, I'm not for Black Lives Matter or reparations. [04:23:38] None of it. [04:23:38] Just let it go. [04:23:41] Yes. [04:23:42] What happened? [04:23:43] That's awesome. [04:23:44] What happened? [04:23:44] Yeah. [04:23:45] Okay. [04:23:46] Well, I had a situation back in Chicago where I moved in an apartment, and they originally told me I'd be assigned a roommate of the same gender to share a bathroom. [04:23:55] They actually ended up assigning me a transgender as a roommate, and I only found out it was a transgender because the toilet seat was being left up consistently. [04:24:03] And when I reached out to my black housing manager, she told me they weren't allowed to discriminate. [04:24:08] And I could move down the hallway to another room if I had a problem. [04:24:11] And when she used the word discriminate, it made me think about politics. [04:24:15] So I started looking up just what in politics made it legal for a man to be in a woman's space. [04:24:21] And all of a sudden, I'm seeing all the evil, racist Republican white people are the ones with common sense who don't want this weirdness going on. [04:24:27] So I found myself voting for Trump after never, ever taking a MAGA hat. [04:24:34] Did you bring that with me? [04:24:35] I didn't bring it. [04:24:37] Oh, you should have brought a MAGA hat. [04:24:38] And your husband is, he's also red pilled and based. [04:24:42] Yep. [04:24:42] We went through the whole situation together with the transgender person. [04:24:45] So, okay. [04:24:46] Yeah, we're both black. [04:24:47] So, gotcha. [04:24:49] Okay. [04:24:49] There you go. [04:24:51] Rock and roll. [04:24:53] And you became a wife at 23? [04:24:55] I did. [04:24:55] After being a feminist your whole life? [04:24:57] Did. [04:24:58] Okay. [04:24:58] All right. [04:24:59] Cool. [04:24:59] Cool. [04:25:00] Let's see here. [04:25:01] We're going to go around the table on some of the questionnaire stuff. [04:25:04] So, Alexis, you agree that with the statement, women can't be sexist towards men. [04:25:10] Why is that? [04:25:14] I don't really know. [04:25:15] They can't be sexist? [04:25:17] Well, I wouldn't want a man to be sexist towards me, so I think it should go both ways. [04:25:21] No, no, it's not that. [04:25:22] It's. [04:25:24] Do women have the capacity to be racist or, sorry, sexist? [04:25:28] Oh, yeah. [04:25:30] Yeah, I think anybody has the capacity to do just about anything. [04:25:33] All right. [04:25:35] Let's see. [04:25:37] You also agree with the statement men are more privileged in society than women. [04:25:41] You agree with that, Christina? [04:25:44] You agree? [04:25:46] Chloe? [04:25:47] You agree? [04:25:50] Okay. [04:25:51] Why is that? [04:25:54] The tech industry, for example, or like the business industry, I feel like men get a lot more of helping hands and like networking capabilities than women do. [04:26:06] Can I have you tilt your mic up a little bit towards you? [04:26:11] Yeah. [04:26:11] So just, yeah. [04:26:13] Chloe, why do you say that? [04:26:16] Scoot your chair in. [04:26:18] Oh my God. [04:26:19] Okay, men are more privileged in society than women. [04:26:21] You agree with the statement? [04:26:22] Why is that? [04:26:26] Sorry, can you repeat the question? [04:26:27] Nope. [04:26:28] So back to you. [04:26:30] You said that in the tech industry, men are favored by each other. [04:26:38] So I feel like networking or getting any kind of like helping hand or like sense of direction from other people in the industry, I feel like it's given a lot more easily to a man than a woman. [04:26:51] It's just something I noticed as well, trying to get into these new. [04:26:56] And is this just a vibes thing? [04:26:59] Yeah, it's something I've just noticed. [04:27:04] They seem to give handouts a little bit easier to the handouts. [04:27:10] Yeah. [04:27:12] And are you in the tech industry? [04:27:15] I had just started getting myself into it a little bit. [04:27:19] I was building an AI chatbot. [04:27:21] I taught myself how to do coding on ChatGPT. [04:27:25] So I was kind of branching into it. [04:27:26] And then I realized it's just this really big rat race. [04:27:29] And a lot of the men are really just kind of like superseding, and it's not really something where they're like quick to open it up to a female. [04:27:38] So, what are they preventing women from doing? [04:27:43] I think it's just jealousy, really, from what I notice. [04:27:45] I feel like it's just jealousy, it's competition. [04:27:48] Men are competitive. [04:27:49] Men are not jealous of other men? [04:27:52] I don't know what it is. [04:27:53] It's kind of like a problem. [04:27:54] Wait, wait, wait, wait. [04:27:55] I have to interrupt you here. [04:27:56] I just had a great thought. [04:27:58] It's interesting. [04:27:59] So, you say they do this because of jealousy. [04:28:02] But if it is the case that these men, while being both jealous but also sexist, believe that men are better than women, wouldn't the jealousy be stronger towards other men? [04:28:14] And then they would thus have a higher incentive to try to block out other men if they view men as being superior and being greater competition. [04:28:27] They're definitely still in competition with one another, but there's still, I feel like there's, from what I've seen, it's Seems like they have like this more of like a friends kind of like a clicky, you know, like a football team kind of thing vibe. [04:28:40] You know what I mean? [04:28:41] Like they're still all on the same team, even though they're competing with each other to be better, right? [04:28:46] The dorky coding nerds are like a football team. [04:28:49] It's like a rat race. [04:28:50] It's pretty serious. [04:28:51] These people that I've seen, these people are going for it. [04:28:56] So, you, I'm just confused. [04:28:58] So, Chat GPT, the thing that's helping you code your AI app, is it like not allowing you to code it because you're a woman? [04:29:11] Well, it got to a point where like I definitely needed somebody that had more of like a degree, you know? [04:29:17] I like, I don't know everything. [04:29:19] I was just, You know, winging it on my own. [04:29:22] And so I had reached out to a bunch of like different tech companies and I had gotten in touch with them, but it seemed like that it was more of just like a man's race, you know? [04:29:34] So I just kind of just put it on the back burner because I realized I'm not about to fight everybody out here to get this rolling. [04:29:41] What was the evidence that it was the man's race? [04:29:46] It's just like I asked for like assistance with like different things and they were just. [04:29:52] Not really, they're not, they weren't keen, like, they weren't down to help me out. [04:29:58] So you said you reached out to companies? [04:30:02] Yeah, there was. [04:30:03] To help you for free? [04:30:04] No, I was looking to, like, work with them. [04:30:09] So you're just, like, a random person who doesn't know how to code and you're using ChatGPT and you're reaching out. [04:30:15] What are some of the companies you reached out to? [04:30:16] What's the biggest company you reached out to? [04:30:19] So it was, I'm trying to remember. [04:30:22] What it's called, I have the app on my phone, but they were kind of doing like an OnlyFans thing, but with AI is what they were trying to do. [04:30:31] And so I was reaching out to them because I was trying to code for like a FaceTime video calling app where it would be like an interface where it's like you're FaceTiming with me, but it's an AI version of myself, but it was like spicy, spicy chatting, right? [04:30:47] But it gets to a point with like the platforms that are currently available where it's like they block a lot of like the adult content with like. [04:30:54] The AI stuff. [04:30:55] So I was working with, like, I was working to talk with these people to get me on their team to continue, like, working on trying to expand on that because it's not currently something that's there. [04:31:07] What was the benefit they would get? [04:31:11] Well, I showed them, like, all of my work that I had gone done, and they were telling me that they were, like, shocked that I was able to get that far and that I was even able to get ChatGPT to produce the code, the coding that it was producing for me. [04:31:26] So I mean, I realize it's sociology skills. [04:31:29] If you don't know how to communicate with a person, which most people don't, they're not able to use these AI interfaces to their fullest potential. [04:31:38] I mean, there's literally AI programs that will build like entire apps and websites for you. [04:31:45] Yeah. [04:31:45] So, I mean, I could definitely see somebody getting that far with the use of AI, but I just don't understand. [04:31:53] You're a smart guy, but not very many people have the level of social skills that it takes to really program these things. [04:32:01] To get the output that you're looking for. [04:32:03] And you do. [04:32:05] I mean, that's what I was told. [04:32:07] Yeah. [04:32:08] I guess that. [04:32:08] Who told you that? [04:32:10] The tech company. [04:32:11] The tech company that didn't end up working with you told you you had the skills? [04:32:17] There was a big rat race going on. [04:32:18] Like, it was very busy. [04:32:20] And so, like, they had multiple different platforms that they were trying to launch at a singular time. [04:32:26] So, I mean, I'm not surprised I didn't hear back from them. [04:32:28] Like, who am I anyway? [04:32:29] I'm surprised you guys even have me on here. [04:32:32] But here I am. [04:32:33] Well, yeah, but so. [04:32:36] Usually, companies are in the, they have an interest in developing their product. [04:32:44] And so. [04:32:46] I was trying to jump on their bandwagon. [04:32:49] Yeah, that's not offering value. [04:32:51] So, in order to, like, this is the thing with business, like, people are not typically going to just offer their labor and time for free. [04:33:04] Like, they need to benefit too. [04:33:06] So it's always interesting sometimes, and I don't know why companies do this, but like a company will be like, reach out to me, and they're like, Brian, we want you to promote this thing. [04:33:17] And they list out all the things they want me to do. [04:33:22] And buried at the very bottom is like, here's the benefit. [04:33:26] I think it would be much better serving, and this perhaps is a life lesson for all of you. [04:33:31] First off, you should lead with how I'm going to benefit them. [04:33:37] So the company should like, not just what they want, But what they're giving. [04:33:43] Many of these companies that want to sponsor you, they're like, how about $100? [04:33:46] I'm like, yeah, get fucked. [04:33:50] So, like, companies that are focused on their mission are not going to do some charity work for you and help you with your coding project. === Resume Name Discrimination (16:24) === [04:34:02] I don't think that's evidence of sexism. [04:34:04] That's just like business 101. [04:34:06] It's just business. [04:34:08] Like, I'm not here to help you. [04:34:12] Can we help each other? [04:34:14] Is there a value exchange that's happening? [04:34:16] But I'm not here to just like be your tutor, you know? [04:34:20] Yeah, no, I don't think that's sexism. [04:34:23] Yeah, no, it was more of just like the one lady that I was speaking to, like she kept saying to me, like it seemed like their tech team that they had working on the stuff that I was trying to get on board with them with and be an asset as well was it was an all men's group. [04:34:38] And so she was like, you know, like what the men are, you know, they're busy and, you know, it's, I don't know. [04:34:45] It's just kind of the vibe that I got. [04:34:47] But I totally agree with what you're saying as well. [04:34:50] Like, you know, you have to be an asset out here. [04:34:52] You can't just, you know, ask for a charity handout for sure. [04:34:55] Well, yeah. [04:34:56] I mean, you said you went to these companies asking for help developing your product. [04:35:00] What's in it for them? [04:35:01] They made a determination that there was no value proposition. [04:35:05] I don't think it has to do with the fact that you're a woman. [04:35:06] There was just no value. [04:35:08] Like, if a woman had something that she was developing and the company was like, okay, there's value here, then I don't see why they would turn it down. [04:35:18] Simply because she's a woman. [04:35:20] But to counter your point here, I actually think in the tech industry, there's massive amounts of affirmative action. [04:35:27] It's like, okay, this person's actually not qualified or not as qualified as the male counterparts. [04:35:34] But because we're trying to be woke, living at most of these tech jobs are in California, there's like fucking diversity initiatives, there's affirmative action, there's quotas. [04:35:43] And actually, I would argue that there's some push to like put women in these roles who otherwise aren't. [04:35:49] Quite as skilled, perhaps, as their male counterparts. [04:35:52] I mean, you see this like the best example, shifting it off of gender, I would shift it to race. [04:35:58] So it's like, okay, you have Harvard, which is rejecting Asian applicants so that they can let in, no offense to anybody here, but so that they can let in African Americans who don't have near the level of like test scoring or anything else for the sake of diversity at Harvard. [04:36:16] And so is that. [04:36:19] While it's a benefit to the African Americans, is it a similar discrimination towards the Asian American student who arguably worked harder? [04:36:29] You know, I. [04:36:30] Okay, that didn't make sense to you, I guess. [04:36:31] No, no, it does make sense to me. [04:36:33] I just don't feel like it's my place to really comment on that. [04:36:37] Comment on what? [04:36:39] Like what they're doing with diversity and whatnot. [04:36:42] I just don't really know if that's my place to make comments on it. [04:36:47] Because you're white? [04:36:48] I don't know. [04:36:49] I just don't know. [04:36:50] But I don't know. [04:36:52] It was just my experience with out here networking in terms of what I was handed to. [04:36:58] I actually think, truthfully, on the networking topic, but I do want to come back to the not your place thing. [04:37:04] I actually think when it comes to networking, due to, I think women have, to your point, have typically stronger social skills than men do. [04:37:14] Women are typically more sociable. [04:37:17] This is actually really fantastic for networking purposes because that is being sociable. [04:37:23] Women have stronger social attunement than men, especially in the tech space. [04:37:30] Most men in tech are not typically known for their social prowess. [04:37:35] They're typically a bit introverted. [04:37:37] They're typically awkward, socially awkward. [04:37:40] Many of them are autistic. [04:37:42] Not strong. [04:37:44] I don't think there's a strong impression that men in the tech industry have strong social prowess. [04:37:53] So I actually think that'd be advantageous as a woman in the tech industry because women are more socially attuned, typically, generally, than men are. [04:38:03] But also, I think women are kind of. [04:38:07] Viewed more favorably by both men and women. [04:38:10] They've done studies where women have a strong in group bias for other women, and then men have an out group bias for women. [04:38:20] So, I mean, this idea that there's some sort of networking discrimination that's occurring towards women, I just don't believe it. [04:38:29] But why don't you comment because you're white on the Harvard thing that I said? [04:38:34] Oh, no, I can't comment. [04:38:35] I just don't know if it's not something I would generally. [04:38:38] But why would it not be your place? [04:38:41] Um, because I'm just a white girl over here, I don't know. [04:38:49] Um, I don't work in the schools, I don't know. [04:38:51] I don't, well, I don't, I don't, for example, I'm white. [04:38:54] Well, how about this? [04:38:55] I'm white, uh, slavery was bad. [04:38:59] Oh, 100%. [04:39:00] The slavery of African Americans was bad. [04:39:03] I'm not black, the slavery of any people is really right. [04:39:06] I understand that, but I don't see why just because you're white that you can't comment, like, make comment on, uh. [04:39:13] Things to do with another race. [04:39:16] No, I can. [04:39:16] I just, I didn't feel like it was, I don't know. [04:39:19] I just didn't feel like it was. [04:39:20] But so, okay. [04:39:21] So, have you ever had an abortion? [04:39:24] I did, yes. [04:39:25] Okay. [04:39:26] Well, I was going to. [04:39:30] I was going to say, so there are women who, for example, are pro choice who have not had abortions. [04:39:36] Is it their place to comment on abortion? [04:39:38] Can they still have an opinion? [04:39:41] I think, I don't know. [04:39:44] I'm sorry. [04:39:45] I'm like, I'm trying to. [04:39:47] Trying to keep my head in the game over here. [04:39:50] Okay, how about this? [04:39:51] You're white. [04:39:52] Yes, I am. [04:39:53] Can you have an opinion on immigration? [04:39:57] I could, yeah. [04:39:59] Okay, all right. [04:40:01] Yeah. [04:40:01] I don't know if I'm going to get anywhere with this. [04:40:03] Sorry. [04:40:03] All right, men are more privileged in society than women. [04:40:06] Why is that? [04:40:08] What? [04:40:11] I don't know. [04:40:12] I just think I should answer that. [04:40:16] Huh? [04:40:16] I just think that way. [04:40:19] Yeah, how though? [04:40:19] How are men more privileged in society? [04:40:23] I don't have an answer. [04:40:24] I just think. [04:40:26] You just think it to be the case. [04:40:28] Okay. [04:40:29] Well, 18. [04:40:29] Women do not have equal rights in the USA, to which you agree. [04:40:33] To which you agree. [04:40:37] Niobe, you agree. [04:40:40] Let's see if there's anything else. [04:40:43] Nope, that's it, I think. [04:40:44] Did I agree to that one? [04:40:46] Yeah, you agree that women do not have equal rights to men. [04:40:49] Oh, I didn't mean to. [04:40:51] Did you not mean to? [04:40:52] No. [04:40:52] So you think men and women have equal rights? [04:40:55] Yes, in America. [04:40:56] Okay. [04:40:57] So why is that? [04:40:58] No, I don't think so. [04:40:59] Don't have equal rights. [04:41:01] I mean,. [04:41:02] If you go to get a job and interview, I think more companies will want to choose the men more than the women. [04:41:13] Do you go on job interviews frequently? [04:41:15] I hear from my friend. [04:41:18] Yeah. [04:41:19] She went like three, four interviews before, and the company just chose the other men, I think. [04:41:28] You think that? [04:41:30] Uh huh. [04:41:31] I mean, the thing that I would point to on this particular topic is that. [04:41:35] You have diversity initiatives in mass, in like small companies, medium companies, large companies, massive corporations. [04:41:43] And then you also have affirmative action. [04:41:46] So, this idea that like women can't get job interviews or whatever. [04:41:50] Actually, you know what? [04:41:51] There's a recent study they did where, man, I don't know if we can, maybe you can Google this, Nathan, and get off your phone. [04:41:59] But so they had, they did a study where they put, A woman's name on a resume and a male's name on a resume, and women were actually more likely to get like a callback for an interview when it was a female. [04:42:18] The resumes were controlled, so they were the same. [04:42:21] The resumes were exact same qualifications. [04:42:25] And women, if there was a female name on the resume, she was way more likely to get an interview than a man. [04:42:33] Maybe you can find that study, Nathan. [04:42:35] And I think it's not just for the job. [04:42:40] For the whole world, not in the US, it's just unfair between women and men. [04:42:46] You know, like, if you find. [04:42:48] Unfair, you said? [04:42:48] Yeah. [04:42:49] If you find, like, some men, he slept with a lot of girls, maybe you will think he's rich or he's handsome or something. [04:42:57] But if you know women slept with a lot of men, you will think this woman is, like, kind of a whore or, like, a bitch. [04:43:06] Well, that might be a double standard that does exist, but that wouldn't have anything to do with, like, equal rights. [04:43:14] Or, what, like that, equal rights is usually something that relates to the laws, the government. [04:43:21] So, a societal double standard that exists doesn't necessarily have to do with if women are more likely to be perceived in a negative way when they're promiscuous as compared to men, unfair as this may be, it wouldn't be a reflection of unequal rights. [04:43:39] So, is there anything else on the right? [04:43:41] I'll talk to you about that, but is there anything on the rights front that. [04:43:47] No, okay, so just Nathan, were you able to find the thing? [04:43:51] You can find the resume, male name, female name. [04:44:00] Okay, resume, male name, female name. [04:44:13] They've actually, I'm looking at this, apparently, historically, they've done studies on this. [04:44:19] That shows the opposite of what I'm saying. [04:44:21] But I did see a study recently that women, I wish I could find it, that if there was a female name on the resume, they had a higher chance of getting an interview. [04:44:34] But I can't find it either, Nathan. [04:44:36] So no worry there. [04:44:37] What about you? [04:44:38] Women don't have equal rights to men in the USA. [04:44:40] How so? [04:44:42] I just think they're, like I said, like I was making a point before, I feel like it's been a statistic that's long been talked about. [04:44:49] I feel like pretty much yearly where people have made commentary on the fact. [04:44:52] That men make more on average than women do, even when they're in the same job force. [04:44:59] Okay, so you're talking about the wage gap. [04:45:01] Well, that's just one example of an extension of how we're unfairly treated. [04:45:10] Well, so I'm happy to engage with you on the wage gap, which has been debunked, but that wouldn't even have to do with rights, though. [04:45:19] So you would agree that legally, from a legal perspective, there's not. [04:45:26] Well, we should have rights to equal pay. [04:45:28] Women do have rights to equal pay. [04:45:31] In fact, it's been legislated against. [04:45:33] If you can demonstrate legally, you can bring it to a court of law. [04:45:37] And if you can show evidence or proof that you're being discriminated against when it comes to pay and you're being paid less than men, you can bring a lawsuit against your employer. [04:45:48] So there's protections legally. [04:45:50] So you do have like legal protections. [04:45:52] That would be a right. [04:45:55] When we're talking about rights, we're talking about the government, we're talking about laws. [04:45:59] Yeah. [04:46:00] So you can find unequal treatment in society. [04:46:04] That doesn't mean that women don't have equal rights. [04:46:07] Okay. [04:46:07] Yeah. [04:46:07] I didn't know you could, you could, they could go, I didn't realize how easy it was to just pick up a lawsuit on an employer when you're over the wage gap. [04:46:20] So I didn't realize that was such a. [04:46:22] If you, well, such a fluid thing. [04:46:26] Lawsuits, no lawsuit is typically easy. [04:46:30] But if you can prove it, then you can bring a lawsuit. [04:46:35] Now, the thing is, though, again, I'm not asking you about unfair treatment by corporations necessarily, although it doesn't even exist. [04:46:43] I'm asking you about rights. [04:46:46] So, for example, this would be. [04:46:48] Well, hold on. [04:46:50] Well, no. [04:46:51] Well, you could argue that the government has some duty to protect workers. [04:47:04] And so, if the government was protecting certain worker classes over others, this could be something somewhat related to do with rights. [04:47:13] However, it's already been legislated. [04:47:16] So, there are laws that you cannot pay somebody less because they're black. [04:47:21] You can't pay somebody less because of certain other characteristics. [04:47:25] You can't pay them less because they're a woman. [04:47:28] Anti discrimination laws, right? [04:47:30] You can't refuse to hire somebody because they're black or a woman. [04:47:34] Like, you can't, that can't be the basis. [04:47:36] For your refusal to hire them or to pay them a fair wage, right? [04:47:41] But I'm looking for rights. [04:47:42] So, for example, like men have a right to own firearms and women don't. [04:47:46] That would be unequal rights. [04:47:49] Right. [04:47:49] So, you think women don't have equal rights. [04:47:52] What are the rights that men have that women don't? [04:47:56] I think outside of the right to equal pay, I don't have an argument for you. [04:48:02] Now, when you say right to equal pay, do you mean Equal work? [04:48:08] It means like if you and I, we both have the same level of experience and capabilities and we apply for the same job and they give you a higher rate of pay than they would give me, specifically because you're a man, then that would be not equal. [04:48:29] You've missed out a few variables here. [04:48:31] What if I simply negotiated better than you? [04:48:35] No, that's why I say if we have the same capabilities and the same experience, right? [04:48:40] So even if. [04:48:41] Arguably, hold on. [04:48:43] Arguably, even if the woman is more skilled than me, like with her, the skill would be I don't know, she's a fucking lawyer. [04:48:53] Maybe lawyer's a bad example. [04:48:55] She's an architect, but I'm a way better negotiator and she's very, very much not. [04:49:05] Say she's way better than me, but I negotiated for a better wage. [04:49:10] That wouldn't be sexism. [04:49:12] That's fair. [04:49:13] It's probable too. [04:49:15] You could be a lot more savvy with your words, and they favored you over me for that. [04:49:21] It's possible. [04:49:22] 100%. [04:49:24] Companies want to get away with paying. [04:49:27] Well, I was going to say they want to get away with paying their employees as little as possible. [04:49:33] That's not always the case. [04:49:35] I think it's a bit more nuanced than that. [04:49:36] But usually, a lot of the times, companies aren't like. [04:49:42] They're not always going to be like, okay, they're going to offer you their maximum level compensation right away. [04:49:48] They might go like 10, 20% below what their max would actually be, see if you bite. [04:49:53] Whereas, like, there could be a scenario where a woman says, oh my God, yes, I'll take $80,000, but their max was $100,000. [04:50:01] And the man might be like, I'd like $95,000. [04:50:03] That wouldn't be evidence of like sexism or discrimination. [04:50:09] The woman just failed to negotiate. [04:50:11] In the same way that a male could, The woman could negotiate and the male could just be like, oh, $80,000, that sounds great. [04:50:17] It wouldn't be sexism, it's just failure to negotiate. [04:50:20] 100%. [04:50:21] I think there are specific situations in which it's understandable. === Wage Gap Negotiations (15:05) === [04:50:26] But the other variable you forgot there in the wage gap conversation is are we working the same hours? [04:50:33] Because men, generally speaking, work more than women. [04:50:36] Yeah. [04:50:37] Yeah, men work more hours. [04:50:39] Men are more likely to work overtime. [04:50:41] Men are more likely to work graveyard shift, which Tends to, comparatively speaking, pay better than like more favorable, like better lifestyle hours. [04:50:52] That's great. [04:50:52] I didn't know that. [04:50:54] Yeah. [04:50:54] So the wage gap you're referring to, it's basically comparing all like the simple wage gap, which you hear like 73 cents to the dollar. [04:51:03] That's not like a woman in the same geographical location, working the same hours at the same company, doing the exact same job, having the same education level with the same like tenure, the same experience level. [04:51:14] It's comparing. [04:51:15] All the earnings, it's two pools. [04:51:17] All the money that men make, all the money that women make. [04:51:20] So this factors in like women work part time more frequently than men do, I believe. [04:51:27] It's factoring in the husband who works a full time job and the mom who doesn't work at all. [04:51:33] It's factoring in all that. [04:51:35] So when you start controlling for all these variables time worked, location, geography, overtime, hazard pay, the types of fields, like men tend to go, are you? [04:51:47] I don't know if she's shaking her head like she disagrees. [04:51:49] I don't know. [04:51:50] You start factoring in for all the variables that men are more likely to go into certain fields. [04:51:56] Like women are more likely to be either like going into, I don't know, nursing or being a secretary or being a teacher, more of the helping professions, which sometimes can be well paid, but oftentimes not typically. [04:52:12] Maybe moving like medicine, nursing aside. [04:52:16] Whereas men tend to go more so into the higher paid professions, such as engineering. [04:52:24] Women typically don't want to be engineers. [04:52:28] Yeah, I don't really know about that, but it's definitely a spectrum, you know, and I think that. [04:52:35] What did you study in college? [04:52:37] I studied for a bachelor's in business. [04:52:39] And sociology. [04:52:40] I studied a professional tennis instructor. [04:52:44] I also did a personal trainer course, and then I was also doing nursing in Australia prior to returning to America. [04:52:53] Okay. [04:52:55] Yeah, so ultimately, though, the wage gap. [04:52:59] Largely comes down to a couple factors. [04:53:01] Well, I mean, there's a lot of variables, but there's a couple things here. [04:53:05] So, women take time off work to have children. [04:53:09] That's probably the primary factor. [04:53:12] So. [04:53:13] Yeah, I think in some places they are giving men time off now, too, when their partner is pregnant, which I think is great. [04:53:21] Sure, but usually not as much time as women are. [04:53:23] And women will, it's not just maternity leave. [04:53:30] Work so that they can have children and, like, at least be there during those earlier years when it's kind of the most important, and there's not like you know, those first five years or whatever, you can't just ship them off to school typically. [04:53:44] So, there's that. [04:53:45] But, I mean, the other argument I like to make from a dating perspective is putting aside the fact that men work more dangerous jobs, men work the less desirable jobs, men work more overtime, men work more hours, men. [04:54:01] Are more likely to be willing to relocate to undesirable geographical regions. [04:54:06] Men are more likely to do all sorts of things. [04:54:08] There's more workplace deaths, more workplace injuries. [04:54:11] All these things start to stack up as to why men make more money. [04:54:15] One of the big things that doesn't get factored in is as follows Almost every single one of you said men should pay on first aid, men should provide, and protect doesn't really matter to this. [04:54:26] Men should provide. [04:54:28] So I would argue that one of the reasons the wage gap exists that often gets overlooked in the discourse about the wage gap. [04:54:36] Is a sociological one, is a mating one, is a dating one. [04:54:43] If there's a burden that exists on men to show up financially in some capacity that women are completely alleviated from, pay for the first date, provide, there's no pressure on women to pay for first dates. [04:54:58] Maybe the most you might encounter is 50 50. [04:55:02] But even then, it's very rare for a man to ever have the expectation that the woman's going to pick up the entire bill the same way men pick up. [04:55:10] The entire bill. [04:55:11] When it comes to providing, you can be broke as a woman. [04:55:15] It's not going to stop you from getting dick. [04:55:17] Now, look, broke men still get pussy. [04:55:21] Sometimes they lie about their job. [04:55:23] Sometimes they're just good looking or bring in something else to the table. [04:55:27] They're hobosexuals. [04:55:29] Wait, hobosexuals? [04:55:30] I don't know. [04:55:31] Look, that happens. [04:55:32] That happens. [04:55:33] However, in the calculus of your dating effectiveness, It's way harder if you're a broke man to date as compared to a broke woman. [04:55:46] Like, you can be broke as a woman, and oh, she didn't pay for the date. [04:55:53] Next, like, no, we don't think that way. [04:55:55] So, arguably, the reason the wage gap exists is because of women. [04:56:00] The wage gap exists because of women's sexist gender role expectations of men. [04:56:08] Men should pay on first dates. [04:56:09] There won't be a second date if he doesn't pay for the date. [04:56:11] Pressure. [04:56:13] If that places a pressure on men, men are more motivated then. [04:56:20] If the pathway to me getting pussy. [04:56:24] Or to getting love, or to getting a girlfriend, or to marrying a woman is my financial ability or stability. [04:56:34] There's a pressure on me that exists to make money, to get that job. [04:56:43] Now, look, women have a pressure. [04:56:44] Everybody has a pressure to survive. [04:56:48] You need to take care of your housing, food. [04:56:51] So that pressure exists on women. [04:56:55] As it does men, but there's an additional pressure that exists on men that's massive. [04:56:59] And that's the pressure to perform, the pressure to get a woman. [04:57:06] One of the ways you can make yourself more appealing to women is to be economically attractive. [04:57:11] I'm not saying that's all women, just to be clear, women care about more than just men's money. [04:57:15] I'm not going to say women are gold diggers. [04:57:16] I'm not saying that. [04:57:18] But you can't pay for the date. [04:57:20] You've got a beater car. [04:57:22] You don't have a car. [04:57:23] You're living at your parents' house. [04:57:26] All of a sudden, it's a less appealing man to a woman. [04:57:29] I mean, it's possible someone in that position could be down on their luck, right? [04:57:33] But I think for more, you know, nine times out of 10, they're probably just, it looks more as though they're not putting in as much effort into their way of life and for a better way of living. [04:57:46] And I think that's what it comes down to and why it's maybe more difficult for them. [04:57:51] Well, I'm not really interested in the difficulty with which people navigate their life, but what I am talking here about. [04:57:57] Is the existence of the wage gap. [04:57:59] And I think a big, like I said, overlooked component is that women use a man's financial standing as a metric of judgment. [04:58:11] And men almost never, like, now there's like bum dudes who use women, but in terms of a man's attraction to a woman, like, it's never a factor, really. [04:58:26] Like, there's guys who will date a woman out of necessity because they're bums. [04:58:30] And they'll date her because she's got money and that would benefit his life circumstance, but it's not a necessary requirement for attraction. [04:58:39] But for some women, it and even, you know, it's interesting. [04:58:43] If a woman makes a lot of money, the guy also has to make good money typically. [04:58:49] Like she doesn't, now, there obviously are outliers and sugar mamas and all this shit. [04:58:54] Most women who have like a good career, they're not really ready to hold down like some fucking guy who works at the barista. [04:59:02] But I'll tell you what, a man who's a lawyer, who's a doctor, he sees a beautiful barista, he doesn't care about her money. [04:59:10] He'll date her. [04:59:11] He doesn't care. [04:59:12] Now, I'm not, look, sometimes women do that too, but I think for the wage gap here, I guess trying to finally arrive at the point. [04:59:20] I do see the Indy. [04:59:23] I'm going to pull it up in just a moment. [04:59:24] I just wanted to follow, finish my point. [04:59:27] And then Thor, I see your TTS too. [04:59:28] I'm going to pull them up in just a moment. [04:59:32] Men, if you guys make money, we don't derive any benefit. [04:59:36] Like, women really aren't out here simping to that degree. [04:59:39] Sometimes, okay, great, we've been dating for a year. [04:59:41] You're going to get me a birthday present. [04:59:43] Great, thank you. [04:59:45] Y'all will have men literally spending hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars on you, and they just met you. [04:59:52] And you're not even given some of these dudes pussy. [04:59:54] Wait, wait, let me just finish my thought. [04:59:56] Yeah. [04:59:57] And so it's like, okay, great. [04:59:58] The woman makes money. [05:00:00] Well, even if I was inclined to care about a woman's money, you guys don't share your resources with us in the same way. [05:00:08] So great, you make $300,000 a year. [05:00:11] I ain't going to see any of that. [05:00:13] But you women date a guy who makes $300,000 a year? [05:00:16] Hey, look, there's some stingy dudes. [05:00:18] He's gonna buy you. [05:00:20] There's stingy dudes, but like there's a comparatively speaking, a guy who makes a meal versus a woman who makes a meal, that man's gonna give that woman more of that than the woman is gonna give some man that money. [05:00:35] So I don't even receive a benefit from dating y'all. [05:00:38] But final thing on the wage gap it's women. [05:00:43] Because of your standard for men, I would argue that we are more motivated. [05:00:49] Because men are highly, highly motivated romantically and sexually. [05:00:54] That's why men pay for porn. [05:00:56] That's why men pay for prostitutes. [05:00:58] Do women pay for prostitutes? [05:01:01] Like, very rarely. [05:01:03] Like, it does happen, but it's super rare. [05:01:06] Can any of you ever see yourself spending money for dick? [05:01:11] No, you don't have to, but you would never do it. [05:01:14] You would never do it. [05:01:16] Men are more sexually motivated. [05:01:19] So, just to get sex, we have to be generally speaking, We got to be offering something financially. [05:01:26] Again, not saying that's all that women care about. [05:01:28] And especially, like, if you're a younger woman, I think younger women care less because you're in college, all the guys your age, unless you're dating older men. [05:01:38] But then again, younger women, especially if you're in Miami or some shit, yeah, man, a lot of these girls are dating, like, slightly older guys, like mid 20s, late 20s, even into their 30s. [05:01:52] You're 21, you're dating a 37 year old or some shit. [05:01:54] Like, I'm assuming he's not broke, right? [05:01:56] He's not broke. [05:01:57] You got expensive taste. [05:02:00] So it's like, shit, I lost my train of thought. [05:02:04] It's like, fuck, what was I saying? [05:02:07] Can I just, can I say real quick? [05:02:08] Wait, wait, before I lose it, hold on. [05:02:10] Okay. [05:02:10] I got this. [05:02:11] It's coming back. [05:02:11] It's coming back to me. [05:02:13] It's like, we're more, yeah, we're more motivated. [05:02:18] Like, if it, if for me to get a girlfriend, to get laid, to, and that, that person's, I want a family. [05:02:26] Okay. [05:02:26] I want to have kids. [05:02:28] I have to be there financially in a way women don't, then, arguably, as men are very motivated, trust me, to get sex. [05:02:38] Maybe you guys know this. [05:02:39] I don't know if you know this. [05:02:40] Men really want to get sex. [05:02:42] And if it means putting our best foot forward and being attractive in all the ways that we can be attractive, and it's not just money, but it could be our status. [05:02:52] It could be like it's status too. [05:02:54] So it's like, okay, he's a doctor. [05:02:56] That's attractive to a woman. [05:02:58] And it's attractive not just because. [05:03:00] Of the money that he makes, but also the status that comes with it. [05:03:04] It's like there's a prestige to being a doctor, that sort of thing. [05:03:09] And then the status, like if a guy reaches a higher level, like men have a greater drive to rise in the hierarchy. [05:03:19] So for women, yeah, okay. [05:03:22] Women want to make money, right? [05:03:24] But it's not a motivation, getting sex from men, getting relationships from men. [05:03:30] It's not a money motivation. [05:03:32] Like, you getting more money, I think women know this, doesn't like, that's not gonna help you get a better guy. [05:03:40] There's a spectrum of men out here, for sure. [05:03:42] Like, I was trying to tell you, like, my first boyfriend, like, I paid for basically everything. [05:03:50] Like, I booked him a flight and a whole trip for his 18th birthday to Miami, you know, gifts, dinners, you know, little things. [05:04:03] And it's like he was still stealing my money under the table as well at the same time, you know. [05:04:08] But it's like he would also steal from his job. [05:04:11] And it's like he didn't really have a good job. [05:04:13] And he spent most of his time sitting online. [05:04:15] Trying to hit up other females to cheat on me and looking at Yeezy, you know, or Mercedes cars he couldn't afford to buy, you know, and there's a spectrum of men just as there's a spectrum of women out here. [05:04:28] And I think it really comes down at the end of the day that we really all just do our due diligence to do right by each other. [05:04:34] Okay, so I'm not going to dispute that there are, I mean, you were dating a scumbag, but that yes, there are men who will like latch on to a female and Maybe she's doing better than him. [05:04:48] He maybe might use her for money. [05:04:50] I'm not saying that this doesn't happen. [05:04:52] However, what I'm talking like, let's say, like, it's not going to make you more attractive to him, your money. [05:05:04] Like, you're not more attractive to him. [05:05:07] And this phenomenon that you're describing, I would argue, goes more so one way. [05:05:13] And just because that does happen, it doesn't disprove the general rule here that, yes, Like, most men are not looking at a woman and, like, oh, if she doesn't pay for the first date, then there's not going to be a second date. [05:05:26] Like, men aren't going to think that way. [05:05:28] Yeah. [05:05:29] You know what? === Mating Pressure Motivations (05:10) === [05:05:32] She's like fucking beautiful and, like, you know, she's got a good personality, but, you know, she's kind of a barista and she's a fast food worker. [05:05:43] Like, men don't care about that. [05:05:45] It's like, is she pleasant? [05:05:47] Do I like her? [05:05:47] Is she good looking? [05:05:49] Like, that's it. [05:05:50] Money is so. [05:05:52] Is like not even a consideration for us. [05:05:56] So, this, remember, this stems to the wage gap. [05:05:59] Why is it that men make more money? [05:06:01] Well, women place a massive mating pressure on men. [05:06:09] Like, for example, would you agree that men really value perhaps above a lot appearance? [05:06:18] Now, look, also, I think men care about personality too. [05:06:22] Like, men don't want to date like a bitch, right? [05:06:24] You know, they want to date a pleasant girl. [05:06:27] But would you say, like, one of the big things that men exalt that men care about is a woman's appearance? [05:06:32] Yes. [05:06:33] Would you agree that this creates a pressure, for example, to women to wear makeup? [05:06:39] Yes. [05:06:40] To get plastic surgery? [05:06:41] Yes. [05:06:41] To alter their bodies? [05:06:43] Yes. [05:06:43] Botox? [05:06:44] Yes. [05:06:44] Lip filler? [05:06:45] Yes. [05:06:45] Certain clothing? [05:06:47] Push up bras? [05:06:48] Fucking the butt pads or whatever the fuck? [05:06:49] Liposection? [05:06:50] BBLs? [05:06:51] All this shit. [05:06:51] Now, some of that shit's for the female gaze, I guess. [05:06:55] And so, in that same way, Men put a. [05:06:59] Now, women, some of the beauty industry stuff, I think that's almost women doing it to other women to a degree. [05:07:07] But obviously, we know women are motivated, also motivated to find a life partner, get into a relationship, get the best guy you can. [05:07:15] How can you get the best guy you can? [05:07:17] Truthfully, one of the best things you can do is be more physically attractive and be nice and don't be a bitch. [05:07:24] But, so, okay, so that's, I mean, the cosmetic industry is a multi. [05:07:30] Trillion, billion dollar industry. [05:07:33] Men don't put on makeup, usually. [05:07:36] And so there's a pressure, a mating pressure on women because y'all are competing. [05:07:44] Life is a competition, right? [05:07:46] You're competing. [05:07:47] How can I be more attractive? [05:07:49] How can I look better? [05:07:51] So there's a pressure placed on women to look a certain way, you know, whatever it is, right? [05:07:56] And there's criticisms of that. [05:07:57] I think there's criticisms. [05:07:59] But then this mating pressure makes you behave a certain way. [05:08:05] And if it is the case that a man being insanely wealthy gives him better options when it comes to dating, which again, it's not the only thing women care about, but I think a rich man generally fares a little better than a broke man when it comes to dating. [05:08:22] Men will do the thing, men will be competitive. [05:08:26] Like women are more. [05:08:30] In tune with putting on makeup to make themselves like women place more emphasis on beauty and on looks than men do. [05:08:38] So there's a mating pressure that exists for women to look beautiful, and there's a mating pressure on men to make money, to have status, to be successful. [05:08:48] Anyways, I'm kind of fucking rambling. [05:08:49] I feel like I should wrap up here. [05:08:52] I'll just support your argument here for a second. [05:08:55] I actually feel like the social pressure on men, like what's interesting is like the gender, the wage gap is closing in, but. [05:09:05] Women still expect the traditional gender role service from men. [05:09:12] So, in China, for example, a man is expected to put a down payment on for the house, buy a car, provide in all of these ways. [05:09:21] But with the gender gap, with the wage gap closing in, men no longer have privilege to earn more. [05:09:28] And I think that's only going to get worse because the dangerous jobs that you're talking about, the night shifts, a lot of them will be replaced by AI or different kinds of robotics machinery. [05:09:39] I think very soon they will no longer be something that gives men a wage advantage either. [05:09:46] So I actually feel like men are kind of in like a pickle. [05:09:51] Yeah, so that's my perspective. [05:09:52] Well, also, the big thing I mean, there's like so many, so much nuance to the wage gap conversation. [05:09:58] I mean, the big thing is also you actually compare single men to single women, it's actually pretty much equal. [05:10:05] Asian women actually out earn Asian, or Chinese women, I think. [05:10:09] Asian women out earn white men. [05:10:12] So, they're like, if you start looking like race comparisons or whatever, that's another component. [05:10:18] The big thing that they noticed was married men just out earn everybody. [05:10:23] Married men out earn everybody. [05:10:25] But yeah, there is that mating pressure, and essentially, men are very motivated, and men are going to be more motivated. [05:10:32] Like, for example, if you want to be, if you want to do X and you're more motivated to do X, like, there's a good chance you're going to just be better at. === Million Dollar Income Comparisons (14:03) === [05:10:43] X thing, you know? [05:10:44] So, anyways, I'm going to move it off that topic, though. [05:10:46] Nothing else for women do not have equal rights, I guess. [05:10:49] Okay. [05:10:50] Here, let's do this. [05:10:51] What's the. [05:10:52] Somebody. [05:10:54] She's in the bathroom. [05:10:55] Oh, is she? [05:10:56] Okay. [05:10:56] I'm going to wait until she's back to get into this. [05:11:00] Can I scoot in just like a tiny bit? [05:11:01] Yeah. [05:11:02] Okay. [05:11:03] Sorry for the. [05:11:04] I'm so sorry, Indy. [05:11:05] My bad. [05:11:05] I fucked up. [05:11:08] Sorry for the delay. [05:11:09] Timby underscore Indy donated $1,000. [05:11:13] Happy birthday, Brian. [05:11:14] Thank you, man. [05:11:15] Ladies, stop hurrying. [05:11:17] No, appreciate it, bro. [05:11:19] Yo, Andy, I'm sorry, I should have pulled that up sooner. [05:11:21] I don't know, I saw it and I started spurring. [05:11:25] That's a thousand dollars. [05:11:27] It is. [05:11:27] Oh my god! [05:11:28] Yo, Debbie's in the chat for Andy. [05:11:31] Champagne. [05:11:31] I wasn't saying what you said. [05:11:32] Champagne, please. [05:11:33] Oh, oh, oh, oh. [05:11:36] Can I get a paper towel, please? [05:11:38] I can't look. [05:11:38] I'm an alcoholic. [05:11:39] Packing up pups. [05:11:41] Oh my gosh. [05:11:43] Also, sorry for the delay. [05:11:45] Based Thor. [05:11:47] I'm sorry, man. [05:11:48] Based Thor donated $200. [05:11:51] You let him hit it raw. [05:11:53] You didn't have second thoughts. [05:11:54] Now you're a single mom. [05:11:56] Now you're a single mom. [05:11:58] Happy early Mother's Day, Chair 1 New Murderer. [05:12:01] Chair 10, Happy early Mother's Day, also prego, keep it. [05:12:05] Oh, yeah, you're pregnant. [05:12:06] That's right. [05:12:08] Chair 10. [05:12:08] Here, how much champagne do you want? [05:12:10] Boy. [05:12:12] I'm an alcoholic. [05:12:13] I wouldn't even. [05:12:13] Yikes. [05:12:15] Are you actually an alcoholic? [05:12:16] We've talked about this. [05:12:17] Remember, I stabbed myself? [05:12:18] You have to remember, I've had like 3,000 women on the show. [05:12:20] I don't remember anything that y'all said. [05:12:22] Mine was a crazy story, though. [05:12:24] I'm like half paying attention also during the show. [05:12:28] That's why you forget everything. [05:12:29] Pretty much. [05:12:31] All right, thank you, uh, base Thor. [05:12:34] Appreciate the TTS. [05:12:35] Sorry for the delay on that to both of you. [05:12:37] Uh, oh, Katagin, I recognize that name. [05:12:40] Thank you for the membership, ma'am. [05:12:45] Thank you, bro. [05:12:45] Appreciate it. [05:12:46] Uh, who wants champagne? [05:12:48] No champagne shower, no, oh, okay, definitely not. [05:12:52] Uh, yes, yes, wait, hold on. [05:12:55] How old are you? [05:12:56] 22. [05:12:56] Come on now, I know I like Lexi. [05:12:58] 20, I don't drink. [05:13:00] Oh, okay, so no, I'll have a little bit. [05:13:03] No, for Chloe, yes, what about you in the corner? [05:13:05] I'll have a little bit. [05:13:06] Yes. [05:13:07] Okay, wait. [05:13:08] So one, two, three, four, five, six, seven. [05:13:15] Seven cups. [05:13:16] Seven cups. [05:13:17] Seven cups, please. [05:13:20] Seven cups. [05:13:20] We have green lantern with the gifted subs. [05:13:23] Thank you, guys. [05:13:24] Yo, big W's in the chat for Indy. [05:13:26] Appreciate it, man. [05:13:27] Thank you, thank you. [05:13:28] Thank you, sir. [05:13:29] Thank you, thank you. [05:13:30] You're done. [05:13:31] You're done. [05:13:32] All right. [05:13:34] Here, I'm going to pour these. [05:13:36] Here, while I'm doing that, let me pull this up. [05:13:39] Tech introvert. [05:13:40] This is. [05:13:41] Chloe, can you read this? [05:13:44] Chair 1, what happens when you press F12 when you have your web browser open and visible on screen? [05:13:54] I don't remember. [05:13:57] I put everything on the back burner. [05:14:00] I'm very ADD, ADHD. [05:14:06] When I'm onto it, I'm onto it, and then I put it aside, I forget things, but I'm very quick at picking it back up again. [05:14:14] I don't know. [05:14:15] Don't come at me. [05:14:22] I'm excited, though. [05:14:23] I'm happy for you. [05:14:24] Make money, money, make money. [05:14:28] That's funny, dance. [05:14:30] All right. [05:14:30] We're going to cheers to Indy. [05:14:34] Be Timby Indy. [05:14:35] Salut. [05:14:37] Happy birthday, Brian. [05:14:38] Happy birthday. [05:14:40] I guess we should have said cheers. [05:14:41] Oh, yeah. [05:14:42] That's what I said. [05:14:43] Cheers. [05:14:44] It's your birthday. [05:14:45] How are you? [05:14:52] I don't drink alcohol, boys. [05:14:53] The only time I drink alcohol. [05:14:57] The only time I drink alcohol is for champagne pops. [05:15:01] I do not. [05:15:02] Why the fuck are you talking back there, Lexi? [05:15:05] Get fucked. [05:15:09] At full volume, by the way. [05:15:10] Grabbing at full volume. [05:15:12] Jeez. [05:15:15] Sorry. [05:15:17] Okay. [05:15:19] All right. [05:15:20] Where were we? [05:15:21] I forgot. [05:15:22] What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband, starting with you? [05:15:26] I'm pretty open. [05:15:28] I just want somebody that's nice. [05:15:31] Okay. [05:15:33] You charge men for dates, but you charge thousands of. [05:15:37] Green Lantern, thank you. [05:15:38] You charge thousands of dollars for men to go on dates with you, but it doesn't matter. [05:15:43] They're really nice. [05:15:44] They're nicer than men. [05:15:45] All right, that's fine. [05:15:46] Okay. [05:15:47] Okay, so zero dollars minimum? [05:15:50] Yeah, whatever. [05:15:50] Okay. [05:15:51] I'd say at least 15 million to 20 million. [05:15:56] 15. [05:15:57] Hold on. [05:15:57] USD? [05:15:58] Yes. [05:15:59] USD. [05:15:59] A year? [05:16:01] A year. [05:16:04] Okay. [05:16:06] Hold on. [05:16:06] Let me. [05:16:07] 15. [05:16:08] Say it again. [05:16:09] 15 million. [05:16:11] 20. [05:16:12] Million. [05:16:13] A year. [05:16:16] I'm going to be honest. [05:16:19] There's a lot of hot Chinese women. [05:16:21] I mean, I think they need to be similar or like more than my dad because my dad is fucking rich. [05:16:31] Okay, girl. [05:16:32] How much does your dad make a year? [05:16:34] I think something around 9 million USD. [05:16:41] 9 million. [05:16:42] So a guy has to make more than your dad who's like 50? [05:16:46] Like, what's the age range of men you would date? [05:16:51] I don't care because my dad is fucking old. [05:16:53] He's like 72. [05:16:54] So you're 75. [05:16:56] Just fuck your dad then. [05:16:57] I mean, my mom is 46, so. [05:16:59] Okay, but like what? [05:17:02] You're going to date a 50 year old? [05:17:04] I mean, some women are into that. [05:17:05] That's fine, I guess. [05:17:06] Okay, if he lives in the top of Beverly Hills, yeah, for sure. [05:17:10] I don't care. [05:17:12] Oh, boy. [05:17:14] So 15 to 20 million a year. [05:17:17] You do realize that that's like three dudes? [05:17:20] No, it's more than that. [05:17:21] That's wow, what? [05:17:23] Okay, but it's not exactly like a million dudes. [05:17:27] Like, that's not. [05:17:29] Here, I'll fucking chat GPT it. [05:17:31] Oh, my God. [05:17:32] How many men in the world make. [05:17:36] The world, by the way, I'm not even saying the USA, 15 to 20 million USD per year. [05:17:45] Why would people in the other parts of the world make USD? [05:17:48] It would be the equivalent of USD. [05:17:52] Okay. [05:17:57] Top 0.01% of earners worldwide. [05:18:06] 0.01%. [05:18:08] Are you a 0.01% woman? [05:18:14] I don't know. [05:18:18] Be honest. [05:18:20] Are you even a 1% woman? [05:18:23] Are you even a 10%? [05:18:26] Yeah, 1% or 10. [05:18:33] She's so overconfident. [05:18:36] She's pretty? [05:18:37] She's very pretty, yeah. [05:18:38] Yeah, she's gorgeous. [05:18:39] Gorgeous. [05:18:40] Yeah, she's like the perfect face. [05:18:41] She's getting a little bit of help from a scalpel, but I mean, I don't know what's underneath, but getting a lot of assistance from Dr. Nip Tuck. [05:18:58] But okay. [05:19:02] I'm sorry, but like 15 to 20 mil a year? [05:19:05] That's a lot. [05:19:07] 15 to 20. [05:19:08] Okay, like do you have plastic scalpel? [05:19:10] I put like 100,000 on it, like dead ass. [05:19:12] Wait, wait, wait, but. [05:19:14] Okay, wait, hold on. [05:19:14] Let me. [05:19:15] Let me. [05:19:16] No, wait, wait, wait, wait. [05:19:18] Guys, guys, so I asked this question on the questionnaire, but oftentimes I'm not looking at it and I just let them fucking answer. [05:19:24] Hold on. [05:19:25] This is what she put on the questionnaire. [05:19:27] She downgraded it. [05:19:29] What did you write on the questionnaire? [05:19:32] 10 million to 20? [05:19:34] No, you wrote 20 million to 100 million. [05:19:42] Yes, 20 million to. [05:19:44] See, is it true? [05:19:45] Oh, yeah. [05:19:46] Yep. [05:19:49] You know? [05:19:50] Bro, this is. [05:19:50] I forgot. [05:19:53] Guys, this is what. [05:19:54] If you make 15. [05:19:55] No, sorry, 20 million to 100 million dollars. [05:19:59] This is your options. [05:20:01] You get a plastic Chinese Barbie doll who fucked two men last week. [05:20:10] Oh my god. [05:20:11] And. [05:20:12] Recorded. [05:20:13] What else? [05:20:14] Why are you so mean to me? [05:20:16] And she's lying about her age too. [05:20:18] That's what you get. [05:20:20] What? [05:20:20] What? [05:20:21] You get. [05:20:21] That's what you get. [05:20:23] That's what you get. [05:20:25] Shit, man. [05:20:26] I'm not lying about my age. [05:20:28] I think if you make 15 to 20 million a year, You should get a virgin who's like a nine out of 10, at least, I think. [05:20:41] That's a fair trade off. [05:20:44] I don't know. [05:20:45] Shit. [05:20:46] All right. [05:20:47] Well, all right. [05:20:50] She doesn't want kids, though. [05:20:51] So, okay. [05:20:52] Now, this super wealthy guy, super wealthy guy. [05:20:55] So, okay. [05:20:56] It's like, does he? [05:20:58] Oh, boy. [05:20:58] All right. [05:20:59] I'm coming back to you. [05:21:00] All right. [05:21:01] Minimum yearly income. [05:21:03] Tell me what you wrote on the paper. [05:21:04] I. Put 100,000. [05:21:06] Okay. [05:21:06] All right. [05:21:06] What about you? [05:21:08] Me? [05:21:08] Yeah. [05:21:09] What I would want my mic to make. [05:21:11] I would want him to make. [05:21:14] I really don't have like a. [05:21:15] Can you pass your mic down? [05:21:18] Yeah. [05:21:19] Good. [05:21:19] Go ahead. [05:21:20] I don't really have. [05:21:20] What did you write? [05:21:21] Just tell me. [05:21:22] I didn't write anything. [05:21:23] I didn't have a paper. [05:21:24] Oh, yeah. [05:21:24] Yeah. [05:21:24] Okay. [05:21:25] What is it then? [05:21:26] So. [05:21:27] Come on. [05:21:28] I don't really have like a preference of like what. [05:21:30] What did you say last show? [05:21:33] Just like that. [05:21:33] You said some crazy high shit last show. [05:21:35] Stop fronting, bro. [05:21:37] Yeah, but things can change. [05:21:39] So, like, I think, honestly, like, financial, like, um, stop trifling. [05:21:45] Like, what is it called? [05:21:46] Like, when they have like a financial drive, it's more important than like actually having money. [05:21:50] He's super ambitious, but he works at McDonald's. [05:21:52] Got it. [05:21:52] Yeah. [05:21:53] Like, he knows how to make money. [05:21:54] What about you? [05:21:55] I would say like $200,000. [05:21:57] Nope. [05:21:57] That's not what you put on the questionnaire. [05:21:58] I put $250 to $300,000. [05:22:00] I put $200,000. [05:22:03] No. [05:22:03] There's like a dash. [05:22:04] Am I lying? [05:22:05] Nope. [05:22:06] Ashlyn? [05:22:06] Damn. [05:22:07] Maybe I did it. [05:22:08] Here, Courtney. [05:22:08] What did she put? [05:22:09] $300,000. [05:22:11] Sick. [05:22:12] Okay, $300,000. [05:22:13] But the zero looks like a U. [05:22:15] It's not. [05:22:16] I derived. [05:22:17] Okay, what about Chloe? [05:22:19] What about you? [05:22:19] Into the mic. [05:22:20] Come on. [05:22:22] I put at least a million. [05:22:24] Okay, at least a million. [05:22:25] All right. [05:22:26] $65,000. [05:22:27] Pretty reasonable. [05:22:28] What about you there, Kiko? [05:22:30] I think I put either zero or $30,000. [05:22:34] You did put zero. [05:22:35] Okay. [05:22:37] Yeah, next. [05:22:38] I don't really have a number particularly. [05:22:40] Okay. [05:22:42] My husband or my boyfriend got mad last time when I put 60K because he didn't make 60K. [05:22:47] So I put zero this time. [05:22:48] So, so, um, uh, what was that? [05:23:04] Oh, right, right, right. [05:23:05] Shit. [05:23:06] Okay. [05:23:06] Uh, yeah, yeah. [05:23:07] I was like, what the fuck? [05:23:08] Uh, okay. [05:23:11] Um, Here, I'm going to engage quickly on this, then I have to step away momentarily. [05:23:16] Okay, 20 million for you, 100,000 for you. [05:23:20] It's not wild. [05:23:21] It is a bit above the average. [05:23:23] $300,000 for you, Ashlyn. [05:23:26] $1 million for Chloe. [05:23:27] Everyone else was mostly pretty reasonable. [05:23:30] So you guys get my ire. [05:23:32] Ashlyn, $300K? [05:23:34] That's quite a bit. [05:23:35] I honestly meant to write $200. [05:23:36] Still quite a bit. [05:23:38] Okay, to be fair, 30. [05:23:41] To be completely fair, no. [05:23:43] Okay, sex worker? [05:23:45] Does that mean like doing OnlyFans? [05:23:46] You do OnlyFans? [05:23:47] Yes. [05:23:48] Okay. [05:23:49] Okay, so my reasoning for that. [05:23:51] My past relationship, I paid for everything. [05:23:54] He didn't pay for anything. [05:23:55] Every trip, everything. [05:23:58] So I've told myself since that relationship, I need to be with somebody who can provide, if not the same amount as me, or at least give the same effort. [05:24:09] But I think $300,000 is a lot because I was with somebody that made like nothing and I supported him. [05:24:15] But I want somebody who has like drive, and if something were to happen to me, they could take care of me and vice versa. [05:24:22] Okay. [05:24:23] Well, you did write 300,000 on the thing. [05:24:26] Now you're reducing it to 200,000. [05:24:29] It's still high. [05:24:30] It's not insanely high like Chloe over here or like you, which is, I'm sorry, that, I mean, look, I can bicker a little bit over 200,000, but 20 million to 100 million, that's ridiculous. [05:24:44] That's completely ridiculous. === Dating Money Expectations (03:31) === [05:24:46] It's like, how, that's like such a small portion of men. [05:24:51] Like, how many like plastic Barbie Chinese dolls are there? [05:24:54] There's like a fuck ton, right? [05:24:56] Like, I mean, what are you gonna do? [05:25:00] Do you have photos like before all the surgery? [05:25:04] What? [05:25:04] Like, what do you look like? [05:25:06] Here, I got some. [05:25:06] Can I give you makeup? [05:25:08] I'm so surgery. [05:25:09] Huh? [05:25:10] You think I'm over. [05:25:11] Like, I do a lot of surgery? [05:25:13] Well, I don't know how much surgery, but like, here, watch. [05:25:17] And I'm just looking at you from the front. [05:25:18] You've had a nose job, right? [05:25:20] Oh my god. [05:25:22] Chin? [05:25:23] Chin, nose. [05:25:24] No, a chin. [05:25:27] Well, the under eye might just be makeup. [05:25:29] Makeup, makeup. [05:25:30] It's just makeup. [05:25:31] I mean, I don't know if she has the eyelid surgery that often Koreans or many Asian people get, but I don't know. [05:25:37] Only nose and eye. [05:25:40] Nothing else on your face? [05:25:41] Nothing. [05:25:42] Well, you have some lip filler, it appears. [05:25:44] What? [05:25:45] Lip filler? [05:25:46] Lip flip? [05:25:46] Maybe? [05:25:47] Last year, yeah. [05:25:50] So, I mean, you have fake breasts also. [05:25:54] No, it's real. [05:25:55] I swear to God, it's real. [05:25:58] It's real. [05:25:59] She might be blessed. [05:26:00] You can't touch it, but it's real. [05:26:01] Oh my god. [05:26:03] I wasn't going for it, I wasn't gonna. [05:26:04] That's usually not how I test it out. [05:26:07] 100% real. [05:26:09] 100% real, okay. [05:26:11] It does. [05:26:13] Have you had any other surgeries? [05:26:14] No. [05:26:15] Anything like for the hips or? [05:26:17] No. [05:26:18] You know, lipo, anything like that? [05:26:22] Are they real? [05:26:24] I think they are. [05:26:24] Whenever she moved, they bounced. [05:26:25] So they probably are. [05:26:27] They don't look fake. [05:26:28] They're not like high up. [05:26:29] It's obvious to tell. [05:26:30] If you move and they bounce, they're real. [05:26:33] They're real. [05:26:34] I don't look at it. [05:26:34] Hold on. [05:26:35] Let me look at your Instagram. [05:26:36] Oh my God. [05:26:37] Oh my God. [05:26:38] Look at her fucking Instagram. [05:26:39] I want to look. [05:26:40] Look at me too. [05:26:42] Oh, you're so pretty, girl. [05:26:44] Look at you. [05:26:45] Give me your Instagram later. [05:26:47] Let's just put it on the big screen for us all. [05:26:49] Oh my God. [05:26:51] No. [05:26:51] No, please. [05:26:53] Please. [05:26:55] Also, share her dad's IG. [05:26:56] Please. [05:26:57] Oh, no, it was Mary. [05:26:59] Just kidding. [05:27:00] Never mind. [05:27:01] Hmm. [05:27:04] You haven't had like the what's it called? [05:27:07] The hip dip plastic surgery or whatever. [05:27:11] I'm not that kind of crazy, okay? [05:27:16] It's like sculpture. [05:27:19] I don't think it's a surgery. [05:27:20] They just put something in and like fill it with a filler. [05:27:23] Your hip dips? [05:27:24] Yeah. [05:27:24] You're very pretty. [05:27:25] Or your butt. [05:27:28] Thank you. [05:27:30] He's being so mean to me. [05:27:34] He's jealous. [05:27:35] Wait a second. [05:27:35] What? [05:27:37] That one picture looked a little, but it could be. [05:27:40] I mean, I don't know if it's like photoshopping. [05:27:42] Oh, wow. [05:27:44] That doesn't look fake. [05:27:46] Asian Asians always photoshop their pictures. [05:27:49] I'm telling you that right now. [05:27:50] Every single picture you've seen of an Asian person on Instagram is photoshopped. [05:27:53] Like that doesn't that looks fake, bro. [05:27:56] That specific person, like East Asian. [05:27:58] Yeah, like definitely. [05:27:59] I'm sorry. [05:27:59] They whitewashed it. [05:28:01] That's like, for real. [05:28:03] Like, they don't not like their face. [05:28:05] So, you only, you only, you only, definitely not the skin tone. [05:28:08] Like, I fuck with my skin tone. [05:28:09] I'm not gonna lie. [05:28:10] Thanks for that contribution. [05:28:12] Um, so you like only 50% filter your shit because you're, 50% of the time. [05:28:17] No, I don't. === Monthly Cash Allowances (04:26) === [05:28:18] I probably should. [05:28:19] I would if I knew how. [05:28:20] Bro, I don't know. [05:28:22] Okay, I mean, all right. [05:28:24] If they're real, take it as a compliment, I guess. [05:28:26] But, um. [05:28:28] I'm telling you, I know. [05:28:33] Wait, wait, wait, wait. [05:28:34] Hold on. [05:28:34] Side? [05:28:36] Oh, no, girl. [05:28:36] Look at the side. [05:28:38] Uh oh. [05:28:40] Does that not look fake? [05:28:42] Which picture? [05:28:43] Where? [05:28:44] Bro, that looks fucking fake. [05:28:46] On the screen. [05:28:47] Where? [05:28:48] I'm sorry, but why are you a hater? [05:28:51] Leave the girl and her titties alone. [05:28:53] They look faker online than they do in person. [05:28:56] Sorry to comment on your boobs a million times, but they look really good at it. [05:29:00] Touch it. [05:29:01] Oh, crush it. [05:29:02] They're real. [05:29:06] Don't show it. [05:29:06] Don't show it. [05:29:10] Okay, confirmation. [05:29:13] Anyways. [05:29:14] Do we all get to touch it? [05:29:17] Do we not verify or? [05:29:20] Anyways. [05:29:22] Regardless of the fakeness or realness of your tits, $20 million to $100 million a year is insane. [05:29:34] That's two, your minimum on there of your range is half the money that your 57 year old dad makes. [05:29:43] That's insane. [05:29:47] Insane. [05:29:47] My dad is 72. [05:29:48] Yeah. [05:29:49] Oh, sorry. [05:29:49] Not 57. [05:29:51] Even worse. [05:29:52] Even worse. [05:29:52] So I can't find a 90 year old. [05:29:59] How much money do you spend? [05:30:01] Do you get this? [05:30:01] Do you get what's it called? [05:30:02] Uh, allowance. [05:30:03] Do you get an allowance? [05:30:04] Yeah, thank you. [05:30:05] Like, how many money I get from my dad from your family? [05:30:08] Yeah, from your family. [05:30:09] I think for right now, um, it's 20k one month. [05:30:13] A month. [05:30:15] Oh boy, these 15 to 20 pennies. [05:30:17] Uh, a lot of these Chinese people, man, they're rich as fuck. [05:30:20] That's so cool. [05:30:22] No, I'm not rich. [05:30:24] I want to find a girl. [05:30:25] Do you have any cash on you? [05:30:26] What do you have cash on you? [05:30:28] Cash, I don't use cash. [05:30:29] No cash, no cash, only ample pay. [05:30:32] I was gonna see if you wanted to give me some money, but um, I'm a starving college student after all. [05:30:40] Um, all right, well, uh, yeah, you know, I'm a starving artist, uh, it's hard out here for the whatever podcast, so hard. [05:30:50] Uh, okay, well, twenty thousand dollars, I love that for her. [05:30:55] No, for real. [05:30:56] No wonder she wants if I had a daughter and I was that rich. [05:31:01] I'm sorry, I'm not giving her $20,000 a month. [05:31:04] That's crazy. [05:31:05] I ain't paying, nah, like, I don't know. [05:31:09] She can, like, I would. [05:31:10] If I was that wealthy, I'd like help her with rent and maybe give some allowance. [05:31:19] But you're 21 too. [05:31:20] I don't know. [05:31:24] Nah. [05:31:25] Fuck him. [05:31:26] Yeah. [05:31:28] I don't know. [05:31:30] You can support your kids, but it's like $20,000 a month. [05:31:33] Yeah. [05:31:33] Shit. [05:31:34] That's 15 to 20. [05:31:36] 15 to 20. [05:31:37] Okay. [05:31:37] Yeah. [05:31:38] Well, does he pay for other kids too, right? [05:31:41] Five cakes. [05:31:41] Yeah. [05:31:42] It's like the rent is contained. [05:31:45] You should give me some of that money though. [05:31:47] Her rent money? [05:31:49] Yeah. [05:31:50] Wait, how much is your rent? [05:31:53] It's almost like $3,800. [05:31:57] Yeah. [05:31:57] Okay. [05:31:58] That's it? [05:31:59] That's all you spend on rent? [05:32:00] Yeah. [05:32:02] You get 20K allowance? [05:32:04] And I use it for other like travel or something, makeup things and clothes. [05:32:10] What age did you get the fake titties? [05:32:12] Huh? [05:32:13] What? [05:32:14] What? [05:32:14] Chloe, what age did you get the fake titties? [05:32:17] Let's get into the table. [05:32:22] Oh, I gotta eat the thing. [05:32:25] I was 18. [05:32:27] Cool. [05:32:27] Thank you for sharing. [05:32:31] $20,000 a month. [05:32:33] Damn. [05:32:34] Yeah. [05:32:35] Huh. [05:32:35] Okay. [05:32:37] I forgot where I was gonna go with that. [05:32:38] I don't even know. [05:32:40] What's, you know what? [05:32:41] Okay, here, really quick, and then I gotta step away for a few minutes. === Male Delegation Offers (12:02) === [05:32:45] As representative of the male delegation, I am going to extend to you, to you, and to you an offering. [05:32:54] I represent the male delegation and I will tell you what we are prepared to offer for you. [05:33:04] So, for you, we are going to set you up with a guy named Tai Bo. [05:33:14] He owns a printing company in China. [05:33:20] In China? [05:33:22] Yes. [05:33:22] He's not Chinese, right? [05:33:24] He is Chinese. [05:33:24] Taibo. [05:33:25] Oh my god, I hate fucking Chinese men. [05:33:27] Oh my god! [05:33:28] What? [05:33:29] You're Chinese. [05:33:30] How can you hate Chinese? [05:33:32] Chinese men, I mean. [05:33:34] You know, to be fair, I've been a little sharp with her. [05:33:36] She's a good sport. [05:33:37] But you don't like Chinese? [05:33:39] No. [05:33:39] Why is that? [05:33:41] They're like, personality not good. [05:33:44] And they're. [05:33:45] Oh! [05:33:45] Wait. [05:33:46] Okay, okay. [05:33:47] Whoa, what? [05:33:48] Do it again. [05:33:52] Small dick, so you need a big dick. [05:33:54] Hey, look, I think people can have genitalia preferences. [05:33:57] I personally only date women with a large labia, so I get it. [05:34:01] I get it. [05:34:02] Who here, does anybody here have a large labia? [05:34:04] You already have that. [05:34:05] No, I didn't. [05:34:06] Dude, we don't. [05:34:06] You said we could discriminate if you expose that. [05:34:09] Anybody? [05:34:09] Wait, what constitutes a large labia, though? [05:34:12] Like flaps? [05:34:13] Yeah, the flaps. [05:34:14] Yeah, not like the fatness. [05:34:17] Just like the flaps. [05:34:18] It could be fatness. [05:34:19] The fatness, too? [05:34:20] Anybody? [05:34:22] Large labia? [05:34:23] I have the fatness. [05:34:25] Yeah, I think mine's just a little fat. [05:34:27] Just a little. [05:34:31] What? [05:34:34] I just wanted to do the guy version. [05:34:35] You did a girl version. [05:34:36] What the fuck? [05:34:37] All right, so, okay, you're saying, I thought you're saying the Chinese guys have kind of sex or racist or whatever. [05:34:49] Isn't that like sweaty? [05:34:50] I thought that was a myth. [05:34:51] I thought that it was just like they're the same, pretty much. [05:34:54] I don't know. [05:34:55] Maybe I'm wrong. [05:34:56] No. [05:34:56] All right. [05:34:57] Not that I know about Chinese chips. [05:34:59] I don't know about that, but okay. [05:35:02] I like how everybody at the table is just kind of surprised. [05:35:05] Yeah. [05:35:07] Yeah. [05:35:09] So, okay, you don't like Chinese guys? [05:35:11] No. [05:35:12] Damn. [05:35:14] Okay, so here's the male delegation offer. [05:35:18] His name is, I don't know any Chinese name, so we're just going to call him Jackie. [05:35:26] That's his American name. [05:35:28] Jackie. [05:35:32] No, fuck that. [05:35:32] We're going to name him. [05:35:33] What's like a common, like, you know, when the Chinese people come here, they take like an English or American name? [05:35:40] Kevin. [05:35:40] Yeah. [05:35:42] That's like Vietnamese, though. [05:35:44] All the Vietnamese are Kevin. [05:35:45] Kevin Nguyen. [05:35:46] Kevin Nguyen. [05:35:48] Okay, so fucking Kevin. [05:35:52] I don't know. [05:35:52] Kevin. [05:35:53] Kevin. [05:35:54] He lives in. [05:35:57] Hmm. [05:35:58] He lives in. [05:36:00] Pineapple. [05:36:03] I'm trying to think of my knowledge of Chinese geography. [05:36:05] I actually know a couple different fucking cities in China, but it's actually. [05:36:09] I'm fucking. [05:36:10] Tired and it's evading me. [05:36:12] No, no, I wasn't gonna name one of the major cities. [05:36:14] He lives in Guangzhou. [05:36:20] Wait, uh, Zhang, I don't know, whatever. [05:36:27] He lives in China, right? [05:36:28] He lives in China and uh, he owns a successful printing company, they print signs for like neon signs, and it does pretty well. [05:36:39] Like, he makes a million dollars a year. [05:36:43] A million, one million. [05:36:44] Okay. [05:36:44] One million. [05:36:48] He's a loser. [05:36:53] He makes a million dollars a year, and he does have an opium, slight opium addiction, but besides that, great guy. [05:37:06] Big dick for a Chinese guy, I guess. [05:37:09] What about the face? [05:37:11] I like handsome guys. [05:37:13] He looks like a K pop. [05:37:15] I don't like fucking K pop. [05:37:17] Too bad. [05:37:18] That's who you fucking get. [05:37:20] That's who we're prepared to offer you. [05:37:22] This offer, by the way, expires when you turn 30. [05:37:26] Do you accept the offer? [05:37:28] No. [05:37:29] Okay, tough. [05:37:31] Ashlyn, you want a guy who makes $200,000 a year, $300,000 a year. [05:37:36] We're prepared to offer you a guy named Rupert. [05:37:41] He lives in Boise, Idaho. [05:37:46] He works as a farmhand. [05:37:50] Yeah. [05:37:53] And he, but he's a burly man. [05:37:55] He wears flannels frequently. [05:37:57] Strong, strong hands. [05:37:59] Strong hands. [05:38:01] Big, thick forearms. [05:38:03] Big, thick forearms. [05:38:06] And he likes to fish. [05:38:09] He's a fly fisherman. [05:38:11] And he didn't go to college, but he did go to trade school. [05:38:15] He's thinking of transitioning, not, well, not in that way. [05:38:19] What would? [05:38:20] He's going to start. [05:38:22] He wants to go and get. [05:38:26] He wants to be an electrician. [05:38:28] Uh huh. [05:38:28] So he's going to become an electrician out there in Boise, Idaho. [05:38:32] He owns a house. [05:38:33] He owns a truck. [05:38:34] He owns three chickens. [05:38:37] Cute. [05:38:37] One goat. [05:38:39] And he makes $80,000 a year. [05:38:44] Mm hmm. [05:38:45] And he's 5'11. [05:38:46] Mm hmm. [05:38:48] Is that? [05:38:49] And he has some tattoos. [05:38:53] Well,. [05:38:55] I know. [05:38:55] I'm just, I'm not saying these are negative things. [05:38:56] I'm just saying what his traits are. [05:38:58] Okay. [05:39:00] And he does drink, he's not an alcoholic. [05:39:05] But he does like to every day from work, he does like to kick back with a six pack of Poor's Light. [05:39:11] That's an alcoholic. [05:39:12] No, that's not an alcoholic. [05:39:13] What? [05:39:13] Poor's Light every day. [05:39:15] He's like 2 30. [05:39:16] Relax. [05:39:16] So, anyways. [05:39:18] Do you accept this offer? [05:39:21] The male delegation, that's our maximum offer. [05:39:23] That's like a rough offer. [05:39:25] That's the maximum offer. [05:39:26] And his name is Rupert. [05:39:29] Well, he goes by RJ because he's Rupert Jr. [05:39:36] So he goes by RJ. [05:39:37] Is he willing to relocate or I gotta live in Boise, Idaho? [05:39:41] He's willing to relocate. [05:39:45] That's our final offer as representative of the male delegation. [05:39:47] You didn't tell me the size. [05:39:48] You told her. [05:39:49] Oh, I didn't know you could. [05:39:51] Oh, damn. [05:39:53] I mean, you said he has thick arms and big hands, yeah? [05:39:59] The girth is there, but the length is average. [05:40:01] That's totally fine. [05:40:02] Okay. [05:40:03] Of course. [05:40:04] Tell, like, when does this offer. [05:40:07] Well, you're 30, right? [05:40:08] Yeah. [05:40:08] Like a day, it expires in 14 days. [05:40:11] You have 14 days to expire. [05:40:12] I would probably say no, only because there's like certain things that are like a no for me. [05:40:18] It's not the money, it's not the relocating. [05:40:20] Okay, just certain things are no. [05:40:22] So you reject the offer, yeah. [05:40:25] All right, well, we wish you good luck, but thank you. [05:40:27] I think you're you know, it might be tough. [05:40:29] Now, Chloe, the offer for you, Chloe, is as follows we are going to set you up with a look maxer, but it's not clav. [05:40:40] It's not that other dude you fucked or made out with or whatever. [05:40:43] I didn't fuck him. [05:40:45] He kissed me. [05:40:47] Bagaylee? [05:40:47] Non consensual? [05:40:48] No. [05:40:49] It's not a little bit of a disrespect. [05:40:52] Absolutely not. [05:40:52] Okay, so Chloe. [05:40:54] That guy is. [05:40:56] It's not Clav. [05:40:57] It's not that guy. [05:40:59] We are offering up androgenic. [05:41:04] The guy with the wig. [05:41:06] Who's that? [05:41:07] I honestly like. [05:41:09] The offer expires at 25. [05:41:11] Um. [05:41:13] I think that he's like hot, but it's just like the wig is throwing me up. [05:41:21] Dang. [05:41:21] Do you accept the offer? [05:41:23] Yeah. [05:41:24] Okay. [05:41:24] I'll take it. [05:41:25] Boom. [05:41:25] Deal done. [05:41:26] All right. [05:41:26] I need to step away for five minutes. [05:41:28] You guys can, I don't know, talk about something interesting maybe. [05:41:31] I feel like I got gypped with my offer. [05:41:33] Could have been a little more. [05:41:34] A little more. [05:41:36] A little more. [05:41:37] Fair offer. [05:41:37] I think fair offer actually. [05:41:39] She also had like the lowest amount, you know, like financially. [05:41:42] It's okay. [05:41:42] True. [05:41:43] I mean, you know what? [05:41:44] We could maybe bump his income like by 10,000. [05:41:46] Yes, I have income. [05:41:47] Like, you are stacked, so I feel like that's a value. [05:41:50] Did you say I'm stacked? [05:41:51] Stacked, yes. [05:41:52] That is weird. [05:41:53] And I also have a very good personality, also. [05:41:58] Oh, well, I mean. [05:41:59] And I'm pleasant to be around. [05:42:01] Are you? [05:42:01] I'm very. [05:42:02] You've got to quit the OnlyFans. [05:42:04] No, I agree. [05:42:05] If I'm going to have a real, real serious relationship, I would quit. [05:42:08] All right, guys, talk about something interesting while I'm gone. [05:42:10] If it's not interesting, I'm. [05:42:12] Let's all talk about Brooke. [05:42:13] I'm going to pull out a squirt gun and. [05:42:17] Oh gosh, squirted all over us. [05:42:21] You just have a squirt gun. [05:42:22] I'm kidding. [05:42:23] There is no squirt gun in the studio. [05:42:26] Oh my god, I can't. [05:42:28] Go ahead. [05:42:30] Something interesting. [05:42:31] I know it's hard. [05:42:33] I know you women are not very talkative. [05:42:36] You guys don't talk much. [05:42:38] Who? [05:42:39] You guys don't believe it. [05:42:42] It's hard to get a woman to talk. [05:42:45] It's a tough task, but I know it's difficult. [05:42:51] Us men were just yappers, you know? [05:42:53] What can I say? [05:42:55] All right, well, good luck. [05:42:56] What made you guys? [05:42:57] I was like, yo, it's so funny. [05:43:02] What made you guys all decide to like come on? [05:43:05] Huh? [05:43:05] What made you guys decide to join the podcast? [05:43:08] I think I had heard about it. [05:43:11] One of my friends went on a long time ago. [05:43:12] You probably have seen her, Delilah. [05:43:14] She got like kicked out for like being on her Tamagotchi. [05:43:17] Yeah. [05:43:20] Yeah. [05:43:21] And so, like, I think after that and just like watching her blow up from that and then all of that stuff kind of made me want to come on here. [05:43:28] And also, like, just hearing all of the different girls' opinions was really nice. [05:43:32] Yes. [05:43:32] Yeah. [05:43:33] I agree. [05:43:34] That's like a really good outlook. [05:43:35] Yeah. [05:43:36] Yeah, I mean, how about everyone else? [05:43:42] I saw the application on backstage.com the first time. [05:43:48] And then I applied, and then now they just asked me to come back. [05:43:51] So I was like, yeah, fuck it, whatever. [05:43:53] I like it here. [05:43:54] Yeah. [05:43:55] The first time I came on, someone got kicked off. [05:43:57] Really? [05:43:58] Yeah. [05:43:59] It was like this random girl. [05:44:00] I didn't know her. [05:44:01] I just came on the show. [05:44:02] And, you know, it's kind of like how I just came over here. [05:44:04] Like, it was just like a whole panel of random people. [05:44:07] So she got kicked off. [05:44:08] The second time I came over here, I, well, the first time I also did bring a friend with me, but everything was chill. [05:44:15] This time I've like, you know, kind of extended a branch to this girl like that I didn't really know and it kind of like backfired. [05:44:22] So I'm just like, I don't know. [05:44:22] It's okay. [05:44:23] You can't control that. [05:44:24] Right. [05:44:24] But like, actually, like coming onto the podcast, I feel like it has like benefits for just like, you know, like exposure. [05:44:31] You can talk to other people and it's just like, I just, overall, I like the podcast in general. [05:44:36] I feel like Brian is a really good host also. [05:44:39] So, I really like, I feel grateful to him for even like, you know, letting us come on here and having us. [05:44:44] I love to annoy Brian. [05:44:46] It's like so funny. === Political Voting Takes (02:33) === [05:44:47] How about you? [05:44:48] I'm scared to do that. [05:44:49] Really? [05:44:50] Don't be. [05:44:51] He's funny, so he'll get it unless you're me. [05:44:52] It's really interesting to be a part of. [05:44:54] Like, because I feel like I'm like just a really basic girl that lives in Indiana. [05:45:01] So, I messaged Brian and I didn't expect him to like reply. [05:45:05] And then I was like, oh, okay. [05:45:07] You. [05:45:08] Why are we here? [05:45:09] The podcast. [05:45:10] It's so boring. [05:45:12] I don't know if that's. [05:45:13] Oh, wow. [05:45:13] You have some base political takes. [05:45:16] What? [05:45:16] Tell us something. [05:45:19] Is that why you came on to talk about your base political takes? [05:45:21] Okay. [05:45:22] Yeah, I did. [05:45:23] Well, one of my base political takes is that I believe women shouldn't vote. [05:45:28] Women should not vote. [05:45:29] As a woman, I believe that. [05:45:31] And I stand on that. [05:45:32] I would, if I. What about immigration? [05:45:35] What do you think about immigration? [05:45:36] I don't want the borders to be open. [05:45:38] People who are not supposed to be here need to leave. [05:45:40] Does your husband vote? [05:45:41] Yeah. [05:45:42] Well, if you vote with the same thing what your husband does, then do you consider that as women voting? [05:45:49] I think it's redundant for me to vote if we align, so I don't really bother. [05:45:53] Because then you get double the votes in the household. [05:45:56] Yeah, so for the time being, because voting is still kind of a thing for women, I mean, I'll vote with my husband, but a lot of women aren't doing that. [05:46:03] They're voting differently. [05:46:05] And I think that's the huge problem. [05:46:07] Yes, I agree. [05:46:08] I agree with that. [05:46:08] Yeah, I think that women should follow their man. [05:46:11] I feel like that's a big part of today's dating society. [05:46:15] We're having problems because women don't want to submit to men. [05:46:18] We want to be all girl boss, oh, I'm independent, all this stuff. [05:46:22] And then we're ending up single. [05:46:25] I agree with that. [05:46:26] That's something I'm working on. [05:46:28] Yeah, I think we want a man to do all these things, but we also have to allow it. [05:46:32] Yeah. [05:46:33] I think that women shouldn't be not allowed to vote. [05:46:37] I think everyone should maybe have like an intelligence test or something of that sort and should be like. [05:46:47] More knowledgeable about politics and like the current stuff. [05:46:49] That's why I don't vote because I don't really watch any of that. [05:46:51] Yeah, I mean, like, if you don't, if you can't name three countries off the top of your head, don't vote. [05:46:55] I can't believe people can't name three countries. [05:46:57] Don't vote. [05:46:58] And I've seen so many. [05:46:59] I'm like, so all of the countries in the world, and you just can't do that, or? [05:47:04] No? [05:47:04] Okay. [05:47:05] Yeah. [05:47:05] I don't think you should vote if you genuinely don't know basic math, if you don't know history, genuine USA history. [05:47:12] The reason I said this initially was because I discovered that I was told to be a real feminist, you have to kind of co sign the ideology of transgenderism. === Unisex Restroom Solutions (02:32) === [05:47:21] Oh, my God. [05:47:22] It blew my mind. [05:47:22] There are a lot of women out here who are willing to vote to eclipse their own rights. [05:47:26] That makes me think. [05:47:26] I agree 100% with that. [05:47:28] I think that there shouldn't be trans people in sports or bathrooms or genuinely in. [05:47:33] Public spaces, I think that it should be. [05:47:36] I don't know, should not exist, honestly. [05:47:40] I think that because it does exist, there has to be like somewhere for them to go. [05:47:45] I don't think like a guy with a penis should be going into a woman's restroom. [05:47:49] That's weird, yeah. [05:47:50] But I mean, what if they have the surgery, they're presenting like a woman, then it's like, do you want to send them into the male one? [05:47:56] They should have like maybe a separate bathroom. [05:47:58] That sounds horrible, actually. [05:47:59] Never mind. [05:48:00] Not separate. [05:48:00] My take also was pretty bad, so it's okay, yeah. [05:48:03] Well, honestly, I think like with a like bathroom problem, like a Like, such an easy solution would be like if every restroom was just like unisex and add a lock. [05:48:12] Or, if everywhere you go, it's like women, men, and a family restroom, like that would be so much easier. [05:48:17] Oh, wait, you said has a lock? [05:48:18] Yeah. [05:48:19] Okay, yeah, that's smart. [05:48:19] Yeah. [05:48:20] So you can have like your own privacy, you know, like two stalls, two locks, whoever goes in there just first come, first serve, you know? [05:48:28] How do you guys feel about like the unisex bathrooms? [05:48:31] Like, if we just got rid of the whole issue altogether and we all just go in the same one? [05:48:36] I don't want to see ding dong stuff. [05:48:37] Laying when I attacked, yeah, and also like children still have to use the restroom. [05:48:42] I feel so because I've been to like clubs that, like, um, I only went to like a few clubs, but this one club that I went to in New York, there was like men and women in the same like um restroom, and like it was mad weird. [05:48:57] Like, guys were like trying to hit on me in the bathroom. [05:48:59] I felt like super vulnerable and like not safe at all, like, yeah, absolutely. [05:49:05] I think it's weird how Air One has that where it's like. [05:49:08] Conjoined where you wash your hands and it's like bathroom, bathroom. [05:49:11] I think the lock thing like solves that. [05:49:13] Like, if it were just separate bathrooms with a lock on it, that's smart. [05:49:16] I agree. [05:49:16] Yeah. [05:49:17] Or if every place had a family restroom, like that would be so convenient even for like families or moms, you know? [05:49:23] Like, you can go change your child wherever you want to. [05:49:25] Like, yeah. [05:49:25] It doesn't have to be a whole thing where you have to like take them through public and they're like seeing these things that you don't want to expose your child to. [05:49:32] Like, yeah. [05:49:34] I don't know. [05:49:34] I agree. [05:49:37] Also, separate but almost the same urinals are weird. [05:49:40] Why are y'all pissing in a line? [05:49:42] With your things hanging out by each other, that is so gay. [05:49:44] Yeah, do you guys just like stare at them and like compete for who finishes faster? [05:49:48] Or like, what's going on? [05:49:49] Do you guys look? [05:49:52] There's a few men in this room. [05:49:53] Please answer. === Bathroom Line Etiquette (03:15) === [05:49:54] Yeah. [05:49:56] Go ahead, Nathan. [05:49:59] Wait, this guy told me the guy that I was talking to at Coachella, he said that he went to the bathroom and Justin Bieber was like peeing right next to me. [05:50:10] Oh my God. [05:50:11] I would have looked. [05:50:14] No, Justin Bieber literally looks at him. [05:50:18] He said that he stared right at his dick and he was like, Damn, you're tall as fuck. [05:50:24] And then he just started getting lit as fuck. [05:50:27] And his friends, Justin's friends, came in the bathroom and they were like, Let's fucking go. [05:50:33] Haley, you need to get a control on that, girl. [05:50:35] What the fuck? [05:50:37] I thought that was so funny. [05:50:39] I was like, I love that. [05:50:41] I tell everybody. [05:50:43] Yeah. [05:50:43] That's crazy. [05:50:45] Right? [05:50:45] Kind of a flex. [05:50:46] That is like a B flex. [05:50:47] Justin Bieber. [05:50:48] Justin Bieber said it. [05:50:50] That guy. [05:50:54] Okay, what else? [05:50:54] I don't know if this would be inappropriate, but how do you guys feel about the N word? [05:50:59] Do you guys think that only black people can say it? [05:51:02] I don't even think they should say it because it was like used to be like disrespectful, you know? [05:51:08] So it's like for me, I feel like it's just horrible. [05:51:13] I hate that it's a thing. [05:51:14] You know what I mean? [05:51:15] Like I'm not in any place to tell anybody like what they can, like whatever fucking makes you happy, as long as you're not hurting anybody, right? [05:51:23] But it's like for me, it's just, I feel like we should be at a place where. [05:51:28] We move with more respect for ourselves, you know? [05:51:31] Just being above it. [05:51:33] Yeah. [05:51:33] Are you offended if a non black person says that? [05:51:36] Not at all. [05:51:37] Okay. [05:51:37] I'm actually offended if they choose not to say it because I'm a man. [05:51:40] Really? [05:51:40] How good you're around. [05:51:42] Yeah, but they don't say it. [05:51:44] Like you're censoring yourself for what reason? [05:51:45] So we're in our car, blasting tire, and he says, You don't need permission for me. [05:51:50] I don't want to say it. [05:51:51] No, I just like, honestly, I just don't think it looks right. [05:51:54] Like if I said it right now, it just doesn't look right. [05:51:56] Like it physically, it's like if you see a child saying, A bad word, like cursing. [05:52:01] Like, it just doesn't look right, you know? [05:52:02] Does it look right when black people say it? [05:52:04] Like, either way, I just don't think it's just like, it's just like, it's not very feminine, like, for me to say it. [05:52:11] Like, I just don't think it brings out, it doesn't bring out my best characteristics. [05:52:14] Like, it just doesn't feel right. [05:52:16] Could you explain how you feel about it? [05:52:17] Because maybe that would be interesting to know. [05:52:19] Yeah, so, like, I said earlier, I used to be like a real, like, Democrat, liberal type. [05:52:23] So I would clock anybody who said it that wasn't black. [05:52:26] But now, I don't care. [05:52:28] I realize that just having that pressure to, Feel like you got to tell somebody what they can and can't say, even if you really don't care on the inside. [05:52:36] It's just a game, it's performative. [05:52:38] And I feel like a lot of black people really don't care that much. [05:52:41] They pretend to do it because it's like their role. [05:52:43] Yeah. [05:52:44] So I feel like that whole woke thing. [05:52:46] Like, I completely agree with you. [05:52:48] I think that if anything, you not saying the N word because I'm around is kind of racist. [05:52:55] Because, like, yo, like now you're not, like, now you're choosing not to say because of me. [05:53:01] That's still discrimination, bro. [05:53:02] I'm still getting discriminated against. [05:53:05] Bro, it's crazy. [05:53:05] Yeah, it's just getting too confusing. [05:53:07] So at this point, I feel like just say it. === Height Requirements for Men (05:42) === [05:53:09] Yeah. [05:53:09] You're an adult. [05:53:10] I think every slur is inherently bad. [05:53:13] But I think also, like, if one is okay, then all of them have to be okay, you know? [05:53:18] If you're saying, like, retard and other things that I probably can't say on here. [05:53:21] Just rip it, bro. [05:53:22] Just rip it. [05:53:23] I don't say stuff like that. [05:53:25] So sorry. [05:53:26] But if you can say those things and people normalize all that, then, like, whatever. [05:53:30] Or it's not okay at all. [05:53:31] And none of them are okay. [05:53:33] Yeah. [05:53:33] Like, just any type of slur for a group. [05:53:36] Yeah. [05:53:36] Because black people, from what I understand, a lot of black people aren't even on the same page when it comes to who's allowed to say it. [05:53:42] There are some black people who would say she can't say it because she's mixed. [05:53:46] So, yeah. [05:53:47] It's a mess. [05:53:48] It's not together. [05:53:49] And people are taking it seriously. [05:53:50] And it's like going in legislation and everything. [05:53:52] It's stupid. [05:53:53] Yeah. [05:53:53] And there are black people who say slurs all the time that don't apply to them. [05:53:57] And they think that they can do it because they're black. [05:53:59] Yeah. [05:53:59] Or like I've seen people do this all the time. [05:54:01] Like literally growing up, I've seen people do that all the time or say chink or say like all these different things. [05:54:06] But like, oh, I'm so sorry. [05:54:08] Is that not allowed? [05:54:09] I'm so sorry. [05:54:09] But like people say or make Asian jokes, but like they don't see it like, I don't know. [05:54:15] It's not like racist. [05:54:16] You want to just drop the hard R while you're at it? [05:54:18] I will. [05:54:19] I'm so sorry. [05:54:20] She said I will. [05:54:21] That's crazy. [05:54:23] Oh man. [05:54:24] Okay. [05:54:25] Anyways, moving it on. [05:54:27] Okay. [05:54:28] How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date? [05:54:31] I'm 5'2. [05:54:33] I don't like my men under six foot. [05:54:36] Okay, so six foot maximum. [05:54:40] Or, sorry, minimum. [05:54:42] My mistake. [05:54:44] Okay, what about you? [05:54:48] And 65 centimeters. [05:54:52] I think if a man, like he's under 180, then he's not a man. [05:54:59] Oh. [05:55:00] She said 165, not 180, I thought. [05:55:03] I think. [05:55:03] Okay, so 5'9. [05:55:07] Okay. [05:55:09] I mean, I would argue that I don't think your requirement that the man needs to be 5'9 or taller, I don't think that that's. [05:55:20] Like the average male height is 5'9, but your point about a man's not a man if he's shorter than 5'9, that's fucking ridiculous. [05:55:29] Like, obviously, there are great men who are shorter than 5'9. [05:55:33] You might not find them attractive or whatever, but you're still a man. [05:55:39] You can be more of them. [05:55:40] You can be 5'5 and be more of a man than the guy who's 6'3. [05:55:44] Okay, true. [05:55:47] Look, if you're not attracted to shorter men, it is what it is. [05:55:49] Women are attracted to tall men, but it's like. [05:55:52] That's crazy. [05:55:53] Like, he's not a man because. [05:55:54] I don't like short men. [05:55:56] Okay. [05:55:56] Well, are you less of a woman because you have lip filler? [05:56:01] Oh, my God. [05:56:03] Oh, my God. [05:56:07] I'm asking Are you less of a woman because you have lip filler? [05:56:10] No. [05:56:15] Okay. [05:56:15] Well. [05:56:18] So, but do you think men are less of men? [05:56:21] So, like, do you think a gay man who's six foot three is more of a man than. [05:56:25] I don't know, like some hardworking, good spirited, good hearted man who's five foot five? [05:56:32] I mean, I don't care. [05:56:33] I just need to find someone who is more than 180 centimeters. [05:56:39] Guys, this is what you need to make $20 million to $100 million a year. [05:56:46] And in exchange, you get a woman who doesn't want to have kids, who might be barren. [05:56:53] She was alluding to the fact that she might not even be able to actually even have children, even if she wanted. [05:57:00] She. [05:57:01] Is very vain, very superficial. [05:57:05] If the dick's not big enough, sorry. [05:57:07] If he's not tall enough, sorry. [05:57:10] In fact, it's not even that if the guy's not tall enough, I don't think a 5'9 minimum is that crazy for a woman, given that that's like the average male height. [05:57:18] But her view of short men is you're not even a man. [05:57:23] You're not even a man. [05:57:26] You are subhuman if you're below 5'9. [05:57:30] That is, I find, to be a bit objectionable. [05:57:37] I think 180 is 5'11, but not that it makes any sense. [05:57:40] I literally, oh, really? [05:57:42] I literally googled 180 centimeters to foot, 5'9. [05:57:47] Or, oh, wait. [05:57:49] Oh my God. [05:57:50] It's 5.9 feet. [05:57:54] It's 5'11. [05:57:55] I am wrong, actually. [05:57:56] Okay, hold on. [05:57:57] I saw 5.9, and like retard brain was like 5'9. [05:58:04] So, yes, it's 5.9, which would mean. [05:58:08] Yes, that is closer than I suppose to a five foot eleven. [05:58:10] So it is above the male. [05:58:12] Okay, so her view then just becomes more objectionable with this correction. [05:58:18] I was almost being charitable there. [05:58:20] Good catch there. [05:58:21] I am actually retarded. [05:58:23] All right. [05:58:26] Okay, that's a crazy take. [05:58:28] Okay, what about you? [05:58:29] I'm five five and I put five eight. [05:58:32] Lexi? [05:58:33] I'm four eleven and I would want my guy to be like five seven or taller. [05:58:37] What about you? [05:58:38] I'm five eight. [05:58:39] I'd want the guy to be at least my height or taller. [05:58:41] You said you don't care. [05:58:43] But that would be like my preference, but I don't truly care. [05:58:46] Okay. [05:58:46] What about you, Chloe? [05:58:48] I'm 5'7 and just like 5'7 or taller. === Self-Rating Physical Appearance (14:52) === [05:58:52] Next. [05:58:53] I'm 5'4 and a half. [05:58:54] I just put 5'7. [05:58:55] Next. [05:58:56] I'm 5'10. [05:58:58] I think my lowest is 5. [05:58:59] I have dated someone who's 5'8, but he kind of disappeared behind me in a mirror one time, and that felt a little bit odd. [05:59:07] But I did date him. [05:59:09] Next. [05:59:09] I'm 5'1. [05:59:11] I never had a height preference. [05:59:13] Okay. [05:59:14] I'm 5'8. [05:59:15] I like short little guys. [05:59:18] How old tells your husband? [05:59:20] Five foot six. [05:59:21] Boyfriend. [05:59:22] So, do you dominate him in the bedroom? [05:59:25] We'll define that. [05:59:26] Oh, does he? [05:59:27] I don't know. [05:59:28] Do you boss him around? [05:59:30] Do you tie him up? [05:59:31] Do you. [05:59:31] No, not tie him up. [05:59:34] Okay, but are you like dominant in the bedroom? [05:59:36] Like on top? [05:59:37] Like telling the girl? [05:59:38] That wouldn't be just a girl being on top isn't necessarily. [05:59:40] Like controlling, like the man. [05:59:43] No. [05:59:43] I don't know. [05:59:44] Whatever. [05:59:44] It depends on the day. [05:59:45] Here, we're going to do this. [05:59:46] We have a. [05:59:48] Okay, sometimes she likes to do it. [05:59:50] Oh, wait, really quick. [05:59:51] I have to do a quick read here. [05:59:55] Another read from our sponsor, Rumble. [06:00:00] Guys, so we're also streaming on Rumble. [06:00:02] That's rumble.comslash whatever. 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[06:02:34] Thank you for the tier one. [06:02:36] Gifted Peekaboo. [06:02:37] You gave it to Peekaboo, the World of Warcraft streamer. [06:02:42] Who's streaming? [06:02:43] Who's live on Twitch right now? [06:02:44] Maybe we can go talk to them in their chat. [06:02:46] Is that against the TOS to like, what's it called when you're playing a game and you intentionally fail? [06:02:55] What's that called? [06:02:56] Beating? [06:02:57] No. [06:02:59] Eh, throwing? [06:03:00] Yeah, probably throwing. [06:03:01] Anyways, whatever. [06:03:01] Thank you for the support over there, guys, on Twitch. [06:03:03] All right, we have a thing from Gorlock. [06:03:08] On a scale of zero to 10, rate your own looks, face, body, total. [06:03:14] You can't pick seven. [06:03:15] So, for example, I'll rate myself first so you know how the formatting should be. [06:03:18] Here's how I would like you to respond. [06:03:20] With your own rating. [06:03:22] Face, 4.5. [06:03:24] Body, 4.5. [06:03:25] Total, 4.5. [06:03:27] Obviously, they can be different. [06:03:28] I just went across the board. [06:03:31] So, starting with you, looks rating. [06:03:35] I'd probably say it says I can pick seven. [06:03:37] That's what I wrote on my paper. [06:03:40] Put seven. [06:03:42] Okay. [06:03:44] I feel like I have a nice body, too, but you got me covered up in this t shirt. [06:03:48] I guess my teeth aren't big enough. [06:03:50] That's okay. [06:03:50] They're not big enough. [06:03:51] That's okay. [06:03:52] Maybe next time. [06:03:52] No, it's because they were like. [06:03:54] Two out was the thing. [06:03:55] So, who is this? [06:03:58] Hillary Epstein gifted 10 subs over there on Twitch. [06:04:05] Okay. [06:04:07] Um, nope, damn. [06:04:09] All right. [06:04:10] So, oh, wait, hold on. [06:04:13] Wait, here, read this. [06:04:15] Oh, what the heck? [06:04:17] Uh, Alexis, read this for me. [06:04:21] What the heck? [06:04:22] Okay, go ahead. [06:04:26] Oh, I already answered the. [06:04:27] Oh, you did? [06:04:28] I already pulled it? [06:04:28] Okay, I missed it then. [06:04:32] What happens? [06:04:32] Did you answer it? [06:04:33] No, I'm glad you missed it because I know you're going to jump on there and flame me too. [06:04:37] Did we actually pull this up? [06:04:39] Yeah. [06:04:39] You did. [06:04:40] And she said, I don't remember. [06:04:41] Why do I not remember that? [06:04:42] You don't know what happens when you. [06:04:45] I can't remember. [06:04:45] I don't know. [06:04:46] I don't know any. [06:04:47] My brain's like empty right now. [06:04:48] I'm just, I'm doing my best for my composure. [06:04:51] Inspect element. [06:04:53] Okay, all right. [06:04:56] I just work here. [06:04:57] So, okay, looks rating. [06:04:59] Looks, no, I said seven. [06:05:01] That's what I wrote on my paper. [06:05:03] Face, body, total. [06:05:06] I was seven, seven, seven, seven. [06:05:08] All right, that'd be like face, seven, body, seven, total, seven. [06:05:11] But you can't say seven, so six or eight. [06:05:17] I think I could get away with eight. [06:05:19] We could do eight. [06:05:20] I could pass it. [06:05:22] You think? [06:05:24] Yeah, you can pick eight. [06:05:25] Okay, sure. [06:05:26] But I would appreciate if you said face, eight, body, eight, total, eight. [06:05:32] Face eight, body eight, personality ten. [06:05:36] That's it. [06:05:38] It's okay. [06:05:40] Personality ten? [06:05:41] Yeah. [06:05:43] All right, what about you? [06:05:44] Okay, so face nine, body nine point five, because my boob is real. [06:05:52] Total, it means only the face and body together? [06:05:56] Yeah. [06:05:58] Ten. [06:05:59] So total ten? [06:06:00] Yeah. [06:06:00] Okay, and face nine, what about you? [06:06:02] Face eight, body six, total seven. [06:06:05] Okay. [06:06:07] Face six, body five, total 5.5. [06:06:15] Can we say 7.5? [06:06:16] Nope. [06:06:17] Either eight or six. [06:06:18] Okay. [06:06:19] So I would say face eight, body eight, personality eight, total eight. [06:06:24] Okay. [06:06:24] Next. [06:06:26] Face five, body nine point five, total seven. [06:06:32] Okay. [06:06:34] Face five, body five, total five. [06:06:37] Next. [06:06:38] Face six, body six, personality nine. [06:06:42] Total six. [06:06:46] Okay. [06:06:47] Face six, body six, total six. [06:06:50] Face six, but I can't say 6.5 now. [06:06:52] Nope. [06:06:54] Face six, body six, total six. [06:07:00] All right. [06:07:01] Oh, shit. [06:07:02] I should have written all those down. [06:07:04] Jesus Christ. [06:07:07] Okay. [06:07:07] Well, I guess I could use your answers on the questionnaire. [06:07:10] All right. [06:07:10] I'll give you guys my rating. [06:07:11] So, okay, you give yourself a seven. [06:07:14] We probably split here. [06:07:16] Probably be good. [06:07:17] All right, you give yourself a seven. [06:07:27] I'd give you a five. [06:07:28] You give yourself a nine. [06:07:29] You're wearing a lot of makeup. [06:07:34] I don't know what that style is, but it's quite substantial. [06:07:38] It's hard for me to give you a rating without seeing your bare face. [06:07:44] To be charitable, though, you gave yourself a nine? [06:07:49] Nine. [06:07:52] You do have some procedures though. [06:07:55] So it's nine, not ten. [06:07:57] I don't think it's just a nose job, but. [06:08:00] It's just the nose and eye. [06:08:02] Oh, you did do the eyelid surgery. [06:08:05] So just two. [06:08:06] The eyelid surgery is pretty minor, but. [06:08:10] I don't know. [06:08:10] I'm gonna have to. [06:08:11] Are you down to take your makeup off later? [06:08:13] Oh, okay. [06:08:15] Okay. [06:08:15] I can shoot a picture without the makeup. [06:08:18] What about before the plastic surgery? [06:08:21] Okay. [06:08:24] Go get your phone. [06:08:25] What's her phone? [06:08:27] And then maybe hand it to her. [06:08:30] And then can you send the photos to the whatever Instagram? [06:08:33] Is it that one? [06:08:35] What? [06:08:35] Yeah, it's that one. [06:08:36] Okay. [06:08:37] All right. [06:08:38] You gave yourself a 6.5. [06:08:43] I think it was like a seven, yeah. [06:08:45] Or a seven. [06:08:47] Let's see. [06:08:48] You're wearing fake contacts. [06:08:51] I don't know if you like the freckles or fake or tattooed. [06:08:56] Makeup or tattoo? [06:08:56] They're fake. [06:08:57] They're makeup. [06:08:58] They're makeup. [06:08:58] Yeah. [06:09:00] Septum piercing negative. [06:09:03] Oh, no. [06:09:05] I feel like I should give like one positive, one negative. [06:09:09] Yeah. [06:09:09] Or I just get through the fucking ratings to go quicker. [06:09:13] Well, okay. [06:09:14] One positive. [06:09:14] Yeah, sure. [06:09:15] One positive, strong, like very strong, above average lip aesthetics. [06:09:22] I'm black. [06:09:23] And Asian, too. [06:09:26] Oh, I think that's a combo. [06:09:28] That's more so the Vietnamese, though. [06:09:30] I'm Japanese. [06:09:31] I don't know if the lip status on Japanese, but okay, whatever. [06:09:36] Did I give you a rating? [06:09:37] You said 6.5. [06:09:42] That's hard. [06:09:43] You got the fake, all the makeup and everything. [06:09:46] I want to give you 5.5 to 6 in that range. [06:09:50] Ashlyn, or what did you give yourself? [06:09:53] 6 and 5. [06:09:54] I'm just rating piss. [06:09:56] I'm not going to do body. [06:09:57] You gave yourself 6 in the face. [06:09:59] I don't even know. [06:10:00] 5.5 overall. [06:10:01] I don't know what I gave you last time. [06:10:03] I don't even know. [06:10:03] I'd give you 5 to 5.5. [06:10:07] You gave yourself 7.5 to 8. [06:10:11] Or what did you say? [06:10:11] No, you said 7.5. [06:10:12] You said 8. [06:10:13] Right? [06:10:14] But I said 8 because you can't say 7.5. [06:10:15] All right. [06:10:16] You said 8 face. [06:10:17] I'd give you. [06:10:20] This is rough. [06:10:24] You have some like positives, but some negatives too. [06:10:27] I think you should add the body because the boobs make it higher. [06:10:31] I'm just doing facial aesthetics. [06:10:33] Oh, okay. [06:10:34] Also, I don't know if you'd want me to. [06:10:36] I'm not a boob guy, I'm a labia guy. [06:10:38] I understand. [06:10:40] You'd have to whip it out to get a body rating. [06:10:43] But I mean, even just boo butt, I'm a butt guy. [06:10:46] Oh, okay. [06:10:47] I understand. [06:10:48] That's okay. [06:10:49] Sorry. [06:10:51] Okay, you gave yourself an eight. [06:10:52] I think I'd give you five. [06:10:57] Chloe, you gave yourself a six. [06:11:00] Well, my face is a five. [06:11:02] Oh, face five? [06:11:03] I'd give you 5.5 face. [06:11:06] J, dog. [06:11:10] JM. [06:11:10] You gave yourself a five. [06:11:13] Can you take your glasses off momentarily? [06:11:15] Yeah, look at all that effort she did on her eye makeup, and she's wearing glasses that cover it like nobody can see your eye makeup. [06:11:22] Unfortunately, I'm sorry, I'm blind. [06:11:24] Be blind, then get a headache for the sake of the podcast. [06:11:29] Uh, yeah, that's the benefit of dating a blind girl. [06:11:32] Like, if you just tell her to take her glasses off, it's kind of never mind. [06:11:37] Um, oh, oh my, you know, I'd say I wear glasses too, my vision's uh, okay, you gave yourself a five. [06:11:46] Spot on. [06:11:47] I give you a five. [06:11:48] You gave yourself a six in the corner. [06:11:53] I would give you a four to a 4.5. [06:11:58] Zakiah, you give your. [06:11:59] Sorry, I'm the terrible person. [06:12:03] You gave yourself a six. [06:12:06] Hold on. [06:12:09] I'd give you a five. [06:12:13] Courtney, you gave yourself a 6.5. [06:12:17] A 5.5. [06:12:18] You're like, you rated like almost all of us 5.5. [06:12:22] So I think most people are average looking. [06:12:24] So yeah, it's a pretty average looking panel, to be honest. [06:12:28] You think I look average? [06:12:29] I definitely think you're close to average looking. [06:12:31] I think you're super beautiful. [06:12:33] Like, face? [06:12:37] Facially? [06:12:38] Facially? [06:12:39] My face is natural and like. [06:12:41] Yeah. [06:12:43] Okay. [06:12:43] Doesn't that like add? [06:12:46] I think. [06:12:46] But so, okay. [06:12:47] Five isn't ugly. [06:12:48] Like, five is average. [06:12:49] I feel like five is like. [06:12:50] Yeah, but you rated all of them. [06:12:51] No, no. [06:12:52] It's not like a school thing where like an F is like technically 50 or whatever. [06:12:57] Like, C minus is 70. [06:12:59] Like, if C is average, we all look like very different. [06:13:02] So, we all got an A. [06:13:03] We all look the same. [06:13:06] No, you got, you guys got an average. [06:13:08] So, we got like a B. [06:13:10] No. [06:13:10] Well, A. [06:13:12] It doesn't work that way. [06:13:14] The rating scale is different, but five is average. [06:13:18] So, if you're five, it doesn't mean you're not ugly. [06:13:21] You can still be cute. [06:13:22] What is like, what could I improve? [06:13:25] Like, oh, wow, I'm not. [06:13:27] Look, I'm not gonna get into detail on it, it's just the rating segment. [06:13:30] I'm just curious, like, what could you improve? [06:13:32] I mean, there's what girl, I would not ask. [06:13:37] Yeah, I have a question actually for you though. [06:13:40] When you were with Clav, did he rate you? [06:13:42] Um, no, he didn't rate me. === Nose Job Desires (04:35) === [06:13:44] Okay, I want to know, he doesn't do that anymore, but he does sign girls to his OF management thing or whatever. [06:13:54] I don't understand why the bashfulness. [06:13:56] Like, isn't this just out in the open that this is what he's doing? [06:13:59] Like, didn't he? [06:14:00] I don't know if he admitted to it, but isn't it out there? [06:14:04] I don't. [06:14:05] Okay. [06:14:06] He's also going to become the leader of Iran. [06:14:10] What? [06:14:11] Well, what's weird is in like, I noticed in his earlier clips, he would like kind of hate on OnlyFans girls. [06:14:18] Like, he'd be like, you do OF? [06:14:21] L? [06:14:23] L? [06:14:24] I mean, it's just kind of somewhat surprising that now he's like literally. [06:14:28] I don't even know if he is. [06:14:30] I don't know the actual, maybe people are making shit up. [06:14:33] There's a lot of like misinformation, disinformation surrounding him. [06:14:38] But, yeah, I don't know. [06:14:40] Anyways, whatever. [06:14:42] Uh, you did you send the photos? [06:14:44] I'm sending right now, so you send the photos to the Instagram. [06:14:49] We'll take it back without makeup, okay? [06:14:51] And the last one, you didn't send them. [06:14:53] I didn't, oh, wait, you did, you did. [06:14:55] Oh, wait, this one is before surgery, okay? [06:14:57] Can we see these? [06:14:59] Oh my god, please, bro, wait, hold on, please show us. [06:15:03] Wait, wait, don't pull it up, don't pull it up. [06:15:05] There's like sensitive information, no, it's her ID, yeah. [06:15:11] And I'm not lying about my age, okay? [06:15:14] What's your birthday? [06:15:14] 2004, May 26th. [06:15:17] I'm turning 22. [06:15:19] I'm honest with you. [06:15:20] Oh, but the photo on this? [06:15:22] Wait, hold on. [06:15:24] Don't change the angle. [06:15:25] Leave it here. [06:15:28] Wait, she looks so cute in that, too. [06:15:31] Stop. [06:15:32] It's like a 320p fucking photo of a passport picture. [06:15:41] Permanent resident? [06:15:42] Wait, you have permanent resident status in the USA? [06:15:45] Who's your dad? [06:15:46] Whoa, who's your dad? [06:15:47] What the fuck? [06:15:49] I was aggressive. [06:15:51] Who's your daddy? [06:15:52] Who's your daddy? [06:15:53] Who is my daddy? [06:15:54] Okay, wait, here. [06:15:57] I'm going to do a copy. [06:15:58] I don't know if this is going to load in the private chat. [06:16:01] I don't know if you. [06:16:02] I hope. [06:16:03] What the frick? [06:16:03] Hold on. [06:16:05] All right, we're going to. [06:16:06] This photo is blurry and cropped. [06:16:12] I don't know if this is going to work, but see if you can pull that up. [06:16:15] Private chat. [06:16:18] See if you can pull that up. [06:16:21] And then this is like, yeah, but I mean, that's pretty heavy makeup too. [06:16:24] Here, you have it. [06:16:27] Oh, bro. [06:16:30] Uh, do you have it? [06:16:31] Okay, go ahead, show it. [06:16:33] All right, so this is you. [06:16:35] We don't make up. [06:16:37] You're still wearing the little makeup, a little like super blurry, and there's a filter. [06:16:41] No, we don't make up. [06:16:43] No, I'm at the gym, okay? [06:16:45] We don't make up. [06:16:47] I swear, is this before or after nose job? [06:16:51] After, but your nose looked fine. [06:16:53] Why did you get a nose job? [06:16:54] Your nose was fine. [06:16:56] That's after the nose job. [06:16:57] Oh, okay. [06:16:58] And the last picture is before, but still, it's fine. [06:17:01] All right, here, you can also, I'm going to send this in private chat too. [06:17:05] But I mean, this is also heavily made up, so scoot into the table a little bit. [06:17:10] Scoot in. [06:17:11] All right. [06:17:12] Let's see. [06:17:13] Let's see what we're working with. [06:17:15] This is like professional photo shoot level. [06:17:17] So it's before contact lenses. [06:17:21] But yeah, your nose is fine here. [06:17:23] Why did you get a nose job? [06:17:24] Now you just. [06:17:25] Look, I just want to get a nose job. [06:17:27] You're fine without the nose job. [06:17:28] Your nose is fine. [06:17:29] What's wrong with your nose? [06:17:30] I want a smaller nose. [06:17:31] Like, your nose is yo, ladies. [06:17:35] Does it did her nose look fine? [06:17:37] Yeah, it looks small. [06:17:38] What's wrong with her nose? [06:17:39] It looks fine, but honestly, she can get whatever she wants. [06:17:42] I like her nose now better, though. [06:17:43] She can't get whatever she wants. [06:17:45] She needs to live in a patriarchy where men say, Where men say plastic surgery is, do not buy into the mind virus of vanity. [06:17:57] And superficiality. [06:17:59] Do not cut into your body. [06:18:01] Do not go under anesthesia for the pure pursuit of vain beauty. [06:18:09] You are beautiful as you are. [06:18:11] I think she looks beautiful though. [06:18:14] I think she looks beautiful. [06:18:15] Yeah, but you would also say she looks beautiful if she didn't have the nose drop. === Plastic Surgery Warnings (08:08) === [06:18:19] You can use the same explanation for circumcisions. [06:18:23] It's technically only God. [06:18:25] Wait, hold on. [06:18:26] But yeah, there should. [06:18:27] Wait, hold on. [06:18:28] You think I'm like pro circumcision? [06:18:30] What? [06:18:30] No, fuck circumcision. [06:18:31] There shouldn't be circumcision. [06:18:33] What? [06:18:33] Oh. [06:18:34] Yeah, you thought I was going to be like, oh, yes, we should have circumcised. [06:18:37] My bad. [06:18:38] Didn't. [06:18:39] Nice try. [06:18:39] You thought you had something. [06:18:41] I did. [06:18:41] I did. [06:18:42] No, fuck that. [06:18:42] We need to outlaw circumcision. [06:18:44] We need to make that shit illegal. [06:18:46] We need to make that shit illegal. [06:18:48] Maybe there's sometimes medical reasons for it. [06:18:50] Like there are, you know, if the guy can't, I don't know. [06:18:52] Sometimes it's not retracting or some bullshit. [06:18:56] Like it's causing pain. [06:18:57] But beyond that, no, fuck that. [06:18:59] No circumcision. [06:19:01] You like circumcision? [06:19:03] Am I circumcised? [06:19:04] I don't know. [06:19:05] Any rowdy. [06:19:07] What is that? [06:19:08] Tell me. [06:19:09] Have them look at me. [06:19:10] If you're going to ask if I have, Hold on. [06:19:12] If you're going to ask about the skin around my dick, I think it's fair for me to ask if you have an any or not. [06:19:17] Oh, man. [06:19:18] Any or not? [06:19:18] It's an any. [06:19:23] I am circumcised, yes. [06:19:24] Yeah? [06:19:24] Yeah. [06:19:25] But I don't know why that was. [06:19:26] Was it unconsensual? [06:19:28] Well, I mean, can children consent to getting vaccines? [06:19:33] Not really. [06:19:33] Yeah, no. [06:19:35] It's fucked up. [06:19:36] Well, your parents make medical decisions for you when you're an infant. [06:19:40] Like. [06:19:41] Can I consent to getting my umbilical cord? [06:19:44] Like, I, no, I want to keep my umbilical cord. [06:19:47] Fuck you, doctor. [06:19:48] Come out, I come out the fucking womb looking like a, this is actually how I came out, goddamn motherfucker. [06:19:56] I came out looking like this. [06:19:58] That's actually not this, you guys kind of look related, to be honest. [06:20:03] Oh my god, bro. [06:20:05] How's it for you? [06:20:06] But no, it's like imagine I came out the womb and like I got this fucking umbilical cord, like fucking here, right? [06:20:12] Is that a dick? [06:20:12] What the fuck? [06:20:13] Guys, I don't think Brian lied to me. [06:20:15] And I'm like, and I come out and I'm like, listen up, doctor. [06:20:19] I do not consent to you taking my ambulance. [06:20:24] I don't know if I'm trying to be loud. [06:20:26] Are you tired? [06:20:26] I don't know. [06:20:27] I'm like, oh, that's a black woman. [06:20:28] All right, here you go. [06:20:29] That's your fifth black child. [06:20:32] You do have an interracial marriage. [06:20:34] Yeah, all my kids are black. [06:20:36] Well, there you go. [06:20:36] We're the same man. [06:20:37] What about this one? [06:20:39] Yeah, that's cool. [06:20:40] And you know what? [06:20:41] I also have an Asian baby here because we. [06:20:43] Give that one to her. [06:20:45] You know what? [06:20:45] She doesn't want kids. [06:20:46] Wait, wait, wait. [06:20:47] Here's what we're going to do a little experiment. [06:20:49] I don't want to toss it, so we're going to pass it down this way. [06:20:52] You know, she says she doesn't want kids. [06:20:53] Maybe hold the baby. [06:20:54] Oh my God, the baby is so fucking ugly. [06:20:57] Hey, be nice, bro. [06:20:59] It's Asian. [06:21:01] That's like literally what your kid's going to look like if you ever have a kid. [06:21:04] Don't call it ugly. [06:21:05] Look, all right. [06:21:06] See? [06:21:07] Oh my God, look. [06:21:08] See, look at how natural. [06:21:10] She's got motherly instincts. [06:21:12] Motherly instincts here. [06:21:14] Oh, I'm dead. [06:21:14] Oh, shit, wait. [06:21:15] Yeah, choke it. [06:21:16] Choke it. [06:21:17] No. [06:21:17] Wow. [06:21:18] Good times. [06:21:23] Good talk. [06:21:24] Good talk. [06:21:27] That's good. [06:21:28] Let's see. [06:21:29] Look, you know? [06:21:32] This is crazy. [06:21:34] Here, give me the black child. [06:21:36] Give me the black child. [06:21:38] Of course you want it. [06:21:38] Wait, actually, here. [06:21:39] I can't. [06:21:40] I'm not going to do it with the black child. [06:21:44] Oh, that's racist. [06:21:45] Oh, what? [06:21:47] He couldn't do it to the black baby. [06:21:48] He has to do it to the white baby. [06:21:49] That's not equal. [06:21:50] What's happening? [06:21:52] All right, back to the show. [06:21:54] She's chilling. [06:21:55] Back to the show. [06:21:55] Where were we talking about the looks ratings or whatever? [06:21:57] How are you enjoying the baby? [06:21:59] Just thinking about it. [06:22:00] I want to sew her. [06:22:04] Here, dump it behind you like I did. [06:22:05] Yeah, yeah. [06:22:06] Not too hard. [06:22:07] Just behind you, but not. [06:22:09] No, don't throw it. [06:22:09] Just like. [06:22:09] Oh, cool. [06:22:12] All right, can one of you, Tiffany, get it and then nurture it back to Goodhill? [06:22:17] Nurture it. [06:22:18] Tiffany is Korean, so. [06:22:19] It's so scary looking. [06:22:21] I mean, don't say that. [06:22:23] Where did the hat go? [06:22:25] Isn't there a hat? [06:22:26] Yeah, its hat fell off. [06:22:27] It's on the floor. [06:22:27] Oh my god, it's like creeping me out. [06:22:29] Why are you creeping out? [06:22:31] Why? [06:22:32] Is this what you looked like when you were a child, Tiffany? [06:22:36] The eyes. [06:22:38] The eyes. [06:22:40] Yeah, put that on and then grab the one behind me. [06:22:44] Why are you scared of a fucking. [06:22:45] It's literally a doll you buy on Amazon for 20 bucks. [06:22:49] Put it here, get the one behind me and I'll put it in the counter box. [06:22:53] What did you buy those for? [06:22:55] Huh? [06:22:55] What did you buy those for? [06:22:56] Just a stupid prop on the show. [06:22:58] I've got all kinds of props. [06:22:59] Okay. [06:23:00] And if you're giving me flack here, put that on for five minutes. [06:23:03] That's so cute. [06:23:05] Bruh. [06:23:06] Put it on. [06:23:07] I bet it brings out the color of your eyes. [06:23:09] Yeah, I like the backwards design. [06:23:11] Damn. [06:23:11] You look hot in a backwards hat. [06:23:13] Yeah, that upped the rating. [06:23:14] Honestly, bump up the rating, backwards hat on her, solid. [06:23:18] Somebody blasted Tiger. [06:23:19] I forgot what I rated her. [06:23:20] That is not Tiger, is it? [06:23:24] No. [06:23:25] That's just what I was feeling. [06:23:30] All right. [06:23:31] There you go, folks. [06:23:32] There you go. [06:23:32] All right. [06:23:33] All right, let's blast through the rest of the questionnaire here. [06:23:36] Does anyone have any disagreements with me on anything else? [06:23:39] I don't know. [06:23:39] I do. [06:23:40] What? [06:23:40] So, last time I was on the episode, you said that you don't like any rap music, and I think. [06:23:45] That some rap music is good. [06:23:47] That's your. [06:23:48] Do you want to talk about rap music? [06:23:50] Well, I just. [06:23:50] You said anything to disagree. [06:23:52] No, hold on. [06:23:52] I don't think I said that. [06:23:55] Because there is some rap music that I think is good. [06:23:59] Could you like Kanye West? [06:24:01] Huh? [06:24:02] Can you name some songs you like? [06:24:03] I mean, it's mostly like more so 90s, maybe some 2000s stuff. [06:24:11] I do not like modern rap. [06:24:16] Fuck, I mean, there's like, this is gonna sound hilarious. [06:24:18] Is it like a white guy who listens to Pearl Jam, but like Shook Ones by, is that Mob Deep? [06:24:26] Oh my god. [06:24:26] Wait, who is that? [06:24:27] Wait, wait, is it Mob Deep? [06:24:29] Or maybe it's someone, wait, Mob Deep Shook Ones, is that? [06:24:34] It's Mob Deep. [06:24:35] Mob Shook Ones Part 2. [06:24:37] So cultured. [06:24:38] Should I rap it? [06:24:39] Let me see the lyrics. [06:24:40] Oh no. [06:24:41] Yeah. [06:24:42] Oh my god, please. [06:24:42] It's your birthday. [06:24:44] Shook Ones Part 2. [06:24:47] Word up, son. [06:24:48] Word. [06:24:48] Yeah, yeah, fuck it. [06:24:49] I'm doing it. [06:24:50] Yeah, well, this is more so not wrapped the beginning, the intro. [06:24:55] Yeah, to all the killers and the hundred dollar billas. [06:24:58] Yeah, I'm gonna intentionally do it as wide as possible. [06:25:03] For real, whoa, I can't say that word. [06:25:06] Wait, you help me out. [06:25:07] Wait, so I'll say, oh my gosh, for real, nigga, who ain't got no feelings. [06:25:19] Wait. [06:25:21] The way she just says it so seriously, like monotone. [06:25:25] I got you stuck off the realness. [06:25:27] We be the infamous, you heard us. [06:25:29] Official Queensbridge murderers. [06:25:31] The mob comes equipped for warfare. [06:25:33] Beware of my crime family who got enough shots to share. [06:25:37] Oh boy. [06:25:38] To share. [06:25:39] Okay. [06:25:40] For all those who want to profile and pose, rock you in your face, stab your brain with your nosebone. [06:25:46] Okay. [06:25:46] Y'all alone in these streets, cousin. [06:25:48] Oh, cousin. [06:25:50] Every man for they self in this land, we be gunning. [06:25:52] Oh. [06:25:53] And keep them shook crews running like they're supposed to. [06:25:56] They come around, but they never come close to. [06:25:59] Okay, that's it. [06:26:00] That's too much white boy for me. [06:26:04] That was phenomenal. [06:26:05] There you go. [06:26:05] Yeah, it's good. [06:26:06] But, like, look, we had Tupac, we had Biggie, some Kanye. [06:26:13] You know, I'm trying to think. [06:26:14] We got, yeah, we had Wu Tang, Andre, Andre, was it 3,000, 5,000? [06:26:19] Andre, 3,000. [06:26:22] We had Jay Z. [06:26:23] And now it's like mumble. [06:26:25] It's a. [06:26:27] Maybe that's like 10 years ago. === Weight vs Height Rejection (09:59) === [06:26:28] Never mind. [06:26:29] I don't do that. [06:26:30] Oh my God. [06:26:31] Please fucking end my life now. [06:26:34] Oh my God. [06:26:35] I can't even understand what they're saying. [06:26:37] Like, rap was poetry. [06:26:38] Rap had a poetic component to it. [06:26:40] Now, yeah, there was like bitches and hoes and gang banging and drug dealing. [06:26:43] But even then, like the 90s gang banging, bitches stuff, like it was still to a degree, like you look at some Jay Z stuff, even when he was talking about pimping, like it was at least, it was still like lyrically gifted. [06:26:56] And now it's, I don't know. [06:26:58] Anyways, whatever. [06:26:59] Never mind. [06:26:59] I'm not going to have a conversation about rap music. [06:27:02] We just did for 30 minutes. [06:27:03] All right. [06:27:05] Thank you for wasting time then. [06:27:06] I'm sorry. [06:27:06] I was just mad because Kanye West. [06:27:08] We talked about things. [06:27:09] Any disagreements from anybody else on any topics? [06:27:12] No? [06:27:14] No? [06:27:15] Okay, well, we're going to finish up the questionnaire. [06:27:18] We're going to get some pre show notes. [06:27:19] And then, yeah. [06:27:20] So, where do we begin? [06:27:25] Let me see here. [06:27:25] Hold on. [06:27:26] Let me look for an interesting one. [06:27:27] A woman should not be rejected because of her weight. [06:27:30] Christina, you say that. [06:27:34] Why is that? [06:27:38] The thing is. [06:27:40] It doesn't matter about the weight. [06:27:43] Well, like, let's say, so I guess the suggestion here, the idea here is like, if a woman is fat, she should not be rejected because of her weight. [06:27:51] And so, do you think it's wrong for a man to reject a woman because she's fat? [06:27:56] What about this? [06:27:57] Could even go the other way. [06:27:58] What if she's like too skinny, like she's anorexic or something? [06:28:02] Also wrong? [06:28:04] Yeah, so wrong. [06:28:05] Okay. [06:28:06] Well, like, can you just reject women because of the face or the weight? [06:28:13] Too skinny? [06:28:15] Too fat. [06:28:16] So let me just remind you a few of your positions. [06:28:21] You don't want to date Chinese men. [06:28:23] You don't even seemingly want to date Asian men. [06:28:26] You don't like men with small penises. [06:28:27] No, not Chinese men. [06:28:28] It's okay. [06:28:28] Okay, just not Chinese men. [06:28:29] Yeah. [06:28:30] You don't want to date men with small penises. [06:28:33] You will only date men. [06:28:35] In fact, it's not just that. [06:28:36] You think men who are below 5'11 are not real men. [06:28:44] So that's a physical thing. [06:28:46] That's a. [06:28:47] And men can't control their height. [06:28:48] Women can control their weight. [06:28:50] So, why is it wrong to, if you can reject a guy because of his height, why can't a man reject a woman because of her weight? [06:29:05] I think it's different. [06:29:06] Why is it different? [06:29:08] I would argue that it's more unjust or unfair to reject a guy because of his height because he can't control it at all than it would be to reject a woman because of her weight. [06:29:17] Which is something that she has control over. [06:29:19] Now, to be clear, I think it's okay for women to have height preferences. [06:29:23] I don't think it's wrong for a woman to have that preference. [06:29:28] But it's also not wrong for men to have a weight preference. [06:29:33] And also, not wrong for women to have a weight preference. [06:29:36] Not wrong for men to have a height preference. [06:29:39] No, I think if a man judges a woman from the weight, it's just disrespectful. [06:29:45] Don't you think it's disrespectful to judge a man based on his penis size? [06:29:48] No, I don't think it's wrong. [06:29:49] I need to judge a man. [06:29:51] Because I'm choosing the man. [06:29:54] You're choosing the man. [06:29:55] Yeah, so I need to judge him. [06:29:58] Men are also choosing you. [06:30:00] I don't care. [06:30:02] So it's only bad if men do it? [06:30:04] So men can't judge women, but women can definitely judge men. [06:30:08] Yeah. [06:30:08] Anybody agree with her? [06:30:10] No. [06:30:12] How does it feel that even though women have an in group bias for other women, none of the women agree with you? [06:30:20] How does that make you feel? [06:30:22] Maybe you're wrong on this? [06:30:24] I don't think so. [06:30:25] I was, yeah. [06:30:27] Okay, so, all right. [06:30:29] Well, do any other women think that it's wrong for a guy to reject a woman? [06:30:34] Perhaps you might disagree with her double standard, but do you think it's wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight? [06:30:39] Anyone? [06:30:40] I think that if you tell the woman it's because of her weight, that's messed up. [06:30:45] If you're like, not, you're fat, sorry. [06:30:48] Yeah, I don't think usually when you're rejecting some, by the way, rejection can occur like you haven't even talked to the person. [06:30:56] It's like you're walking by somebody in the street, maybe, and it's like, oh, I wouldn't date her, you're at a bar, you're at a party. [06:31:04] You're on a dating app, swipe yes, swipe no. [06:31:08] That's where rejection can happen. [06:31:10] I do agree with you that, generally speaking, if you are letting somebody down, well, I mean, like the weight is immediate. [06:31:18] Yeah. [06:31:18] Unless she's like hiding it somehow. [06:31:20] Sometimes women do that. [06:31:22] But you could probably, I think it, I think usually you can just reject somebody in a way that doesn't fully disclose the reason for rejection. [06:31:31] But if she asks, Like, if she's like, please be honest with me, she'll probably get pissed off, though. [06:31:39] I think you should probably lie. [06:31:40] She asked, yeah, you should lie. [06:31:42] I think you should probably lie. [06:31:42] Because then sometimes women are like, well, tell me, I'm not going to get mad, but tell me why you don't want to date me. [06:31:48] I've had a situation like that where, like, this girl, I had to let this girl down. [06:31:58] I didn't just ghost her. [06:31:59] I was like, she asked me, though, she's like, oh, can you give me feedback? [06:32:05] Can you tell me why I'm not going to be mad at all? [06:32:07] And I. [06:32:10] I didn't even tell her. [06:32:11] I was just like, hey, look, look, I don't feel the need to really elucidate it further. [06:32:20] I just didn't feel like there was a connection. [06:32:21] And she lost her fucking mind. [06:32:24] Yeah, she got bent out of shape. [06:32:26] And she actually harassed me for a period of time after that. [06:32:30] Like, yeah, so, yeah, I don't know where I'm going with that. [06:32:35] Women want what we can't have. [06:32:36] Like, a girl has straight hair, we want curly hair, you know? [06:32:40] Or, like, we see a girl in a happy relationship, we're like, ah, I wish my man was a little more like that, you know? [06:32:45] Yeah. [06:32:45] But, okay, so men can't have any standards. [06:32:50] No. [06:32:53] Girl. [06:32:54] Damn. [06:32:55] I think, is she a troll, Chad? [06:32:56] I think she's trolling. [06:32:58] I don't think she is. [06:32:59] I just genuinely think her English is, like, not that good, and she's responding with what she can. [06:33:04] That's so racist. [06:33:04] Racist. [06:33:05] I don't think. [06:33:06] I think she just doesn't understand. [06:33:08] She told me that. [06:33:10] It's okay. [06:33:10] My answer is no. [06:33:12] It's okay. [06:33:13] Yeah, I think she's like, she fully understands. [06:33:16] I think she just doesn't want to settle for something that she doesn't want in life. [06:33:21] She wants to go where her life wants to go. [06:33:22] Well, I mean, she has her absurd delusional standards, but I think when it's like to the point where I have these crazy standards, and even if we were to, I wouldn't even think a man caring about, I think that's a normal standard for a man to have to care about weight. [06:33:40] Like, it's actually very simple to be attractive to a man. [06:33:45] Just don't be fat. [06:33:46] Like, honestly, like, don't be fat. [06:33:49] That's literally for 90% of men. [06:33:56] That's it. [06:33:57] Really? [06:33:57] That's it. [06:33:58] That's all it takes to be attractive to a guy. [06:34:00] Just don't be fat. [06:34:02] Yep. [06:34:02] True. [06:34:03] True story. [06:34:03] That's crazy. [06:34:04] It's in a book somewhere. [06:34:06] Oh. [06:34:06] It might even be in the Quran. [06:34:10] Oh, wait. [06:34:11] I should not go there. [06:34:12] Just kidding. [06:34:13] Just a joke. [06:34:14] Whole audience gone. [06:34:15] Just a fucking joke. [06:34:15] Please don't fucking kill me. [06:34:19] All right. [06:34:19] So, anyways, yeah, there's probably like a hadith like, thou shalt not. [06:34:25] Well, that would be the Bible, right? [06:34:26] Thou shalt not. [06:34:28] Thou shalt not date fat bitches. [06:34:30] No, that's in the. [06:34:30] I'm pretty sure that's in there. [06:34:33] I call that Atlas 312. [06:34:37] Thou shalt not date fat bitches. [06:34:39] Also, if you care about your partner, you're fat. [06:34:41] Hey, look, I'm fat. [06:34:42] It's like, you know how black people can say the N word? [06:34:44] I'm fat, so I get a pass to give to them. [06:34:47] Why don't you say the N word? [06:34:49] Huh? [06:34:49] Why don't you say the N word? [06:34:51] That's a bad idea. [06:34:52] Why? [06:34:53] Because, nah, nah, nah. [06:34:55] I don't believe in using that kind of language, but no. [06:34:57] Okay. [06:34:58] Why are you giving me the pass? [06:34:59] You can only give me 50% of a pass though, so fuck. [06:35:02] Can you give him the other part? [06:35:04] Yeah, sure. [06:35:05] I still wouldn't do it even if they gave him that. [06:35:08] But I will say, I will say, you are my Caucasian. [06:35:12] You're my Caucasian. [06:35:13] You're my Caucasian. [06:35:14] And you're my Caucasian. [06:35:16] And then you're half my Caucasian. [06:35:17] Well, wait, no. [06:35:18] You're Blasian. [06:35:20] Fucked. [06:35:20] You are my. [06:35:22] Damn, okay. [06:35:23] I don't even know. [06:35:24] Are Asian people white? [06:35:26] No. [06:35:26] Yeah. [06:35:27] Yes. [06:35:28] Like the color. [06:35:29] What? [06:35:29] Like the skin color, yes. [06:35:32] All right, Chloe, read this, please. [06:35:33] More like yellow. [06:35:34] Read this, please. [06:35:36] But he was being mean to me, so I don't really want to read it. [06:35:40] I already read it. [06:35:41] And I don't really understand what you're saying. [06:35:43] Oh, my God. [06:35:44] You got to read the super chat, please. [06:35:46] Okay. [06:35:48] So I'm going to waste some money here and hope it helps someone. [06:35:52] You don't need to be all these stereotypes. [06:35:56] These girls can't even afford. [06:35:58] First of all, like, what are you even trying to say? [06:36:01] Make the best of yourself. [06:36:03] That's better and more attractive than just trying to. [06:36:06] Fit some mold, don't be a Chloe and live lost. [06:36:12] Yeah. [06:36:13] They're so mean to you. [06:36:14] What the heck? [06:36:15] You didn't even say anything. [06:36:16] Okay. [06:36:17] Well, rubbing is racing. [06:36:19] Merci beaucoup for the Canadian 100. [06:36:21] I think I can buy a burrito with that. === Condom Usage Scenarios (15:11) === [06:36:27] Kiko, you agree with the following statement wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex. [06:36:35] Why is that? [06:36:37] I think there's probably other paths they can explore. [06:36:41] Maybe they can have like an open arrangement. [06:36:44] Maybe, like, this is under a condition like, if they have like a really great, like, emotionally fulfilling life and they're both willing to maybe like open up and like maybe she's okay for him to like pay for escort just to like satisfy something. [06:37:02] Like, I think if everything else is great and it's just sex, there's probably a way to work around it. [06:37:06] Yeah, but I mean, like, realistically, I don't think even women who are Contributing or the sole reason for a dead bedroom in a relationship, I don't think the solution is you can fuck other women. [06:37:19] Like most women are monogamous, they want their boyfriend or husband to be monogamous. [06:37:25] It might be an option in some instances, but I think like go fuck other people is not. [06:37:30] Most girlfriends are probably not going to be on board with that, even if the sex is irregular. [06:37:38] Here's a situation I heard from a friend of mine just recently. [06:37:42] So she was with this guy for like. [06:37:45] Over a year, they're living together, and he's Korean. [06:37:49] So, like, she took him to Korea to like meet his parents and was ready to propose. [06:37:56] And then, right before that, she realized that he's been sleeping with other people. [06:38:00] Like, she found out there's multiple phones. [06:38:04] And she confronted him, and then he said, Well, we weren't having sex, so I'm gonna go get it elsewhere. [06:38:10] But they never had a conversation about it. [06:38:12] And, like, she had some condition that made her not able to have sex for like half of their relationship. [06:38:19] But like everything else is going fine. [06:38:21] And if only he had spoken to her about it, there could have been maybe like a different solution of him cheating. [06:38:28] Okay, but I can come up with like a bunch of hypothetical situations. [06:38:31] I think in the hypothetical here, for the sake of simplicity, there isn't a health problem. [06:38:36] There isn't, I mean, even we could even say that, yeah, there is a health problem, right? [06:38:43] The man is not being sexually satisfied in the relationship, she's regularly rejecting and turning him down for sex. [06:38:52] You think it'd be wrong for him to dump her? [06:38:55] I think they should at least have a conversation about it. [06:38:58] Let's assume there's been a conversation had. [06:39:01] Then, yeah, it will be okay for him to break up with her. [06:39:06] Oh, okay. [06:39:07] So, but isn't the conversation like the guy tries to have sex and the girl's like, I'm not in the mood, I have a headache? [06:39:17] Like, that's a conversation, isn't it? [06:39:18] Why is there. [06:39:20] So, it depends on if the conversation is honest or not. [06:39:23] So, like, if she's like avoiding it, she's like, I'm just not feeling it, but maybe there's a different reason. [06:39:28] If they had an honest and open conversation about it, there could have been, you know, maybe he would be like, then I want to go pay for sex. [06:39:35] Are you okay with that? [06:39:35] And she could be like, oh, you know, I don't love it, but maybe pay for sex. [06:39:40] Wait, pay for sex? [06:39:42] Or I don't know, right? [06:39:45] Yeah. [06:39:45] I don't know. [06:39:46] Prostitute? [06:39:47] I think the context should be they've had a conversation and they're not avoiding it. [06:39:53] It's not like pretending. [06:39:54] Everything is okay, or like pretending she's not feeling well every time he initiates. [06:40:00] I think my whole point is just like honesty maxing, like everyone should be like honest in the relationship. [06:40:05] Yeah, but so, like, let's say there's a conversation and the girl's just like, No, nothing's really wrong. [06:40:10] I just have like low libido, low sex drive. [06:40:12] And the guy wants to fuck every single day. [06:40:15] Um, and you might say that's like too much, maybe there's a compromise, but she's like, Nope, once a week. [06:40:20] And the guy's like, Well, what about three, four times a week? [06:40:22] Not every day, every other day. [06:40:24] Well, and then she's like, Nope, once a week. [06:40:26] Maybe, like, is that a dump? [06:40:27] Is that a fair dump? [06:40:28] Maybe she can do like hand stuff. [06:40:30] I don't know. [06:40:30] Oh my God. [06:40:31] Mouth stuff. [06:40:32] Mouth stuff. [06:40:33] Honestly, let me tell you this much. [06:40:35] And I, chat, tell me if you agree. [06:40:39] If a girl, I don't care, I don't know what her skill level is, but if a girl was like, look, I don't want to fuck, but I'll give you a hand job, I'd be like, nah, I'm good. [06:40:50] Nah. [06:40:50] Like, I'd rather just not. [06:40:53] You agree? [06:40:54] I totally agree. [06:40:55] Yeah. [06:40:55] Well, is it because you don't want to give a hand job or is it just, you know, it's not pleasurable for the guy? [06:40:58] I love giving. [06:40:59] I'm going to do whatever my man wants. [06:41:00] I love giving head. [06:41:01] I love having sex. [06:41:02] So, like, I wouldn't be turning him down at all. [06:41:04] What if it's like hurting you, like physically causing you pain? [06:41:06] It ain't going to hurt me. [06:41:08] Is this a common thing? [06:41:09] Like, just vagina pain? [06:41:11] I mean, yeah. [06:41:12] If it's like super rough, crazy sex, or like really barbecue pain. [06:41:16] Yeah, it's a more common thing than I don't know. [06:41:18] I don't think girls should be. [06:41:19] One might realize. [06:41:21] Okay, well, in any case, now we're getting into these scenarios where there's like a justified reason for it. [06:41:28] I'm more, I think this is coming more so from the angle where. [06:41:31] There aren't like any hurdles or obstacles really when it comes to the sex. [06:41:36] It's just her drive. [06:41:37] It's her drive. [06:41:38] Okay. [06:41:39] Then that's okay. [06:41:39] She's lost interest or whatever. [06:41:41] But like the hand job thing, oh my God. [06:41:44] Again, I would rather just know, don't even give. [06:41:49] No. [06:41:50] Wait, because if it's a hand job, can men not do it themselves? [06:41:52] Also, aren't they like the experts at it? [06:41:54] Because they do it. [06:41:55] It's not even that. [06:41:56] It's just like a hand job is just like. [06:42:00] It's so bare minimum. [06:42:02] I don't. [06:42:03] I could be so horny, and if a girl's like, I'll give you a hand job, I'd be like, put your hands back in your pants. [06:42:09] I don't get your hand away from me. [06:42:11] I don't want to. [06:42:12] I'd rather not have the hand job. [06:42:14] Well, here, here's a here. [06:42:15] This one might be more crazy. [06:42:16] Okay, this, you guys, I don't know if this is too much, if I'm exposing too much, but fuck it, whatever. [06:42:24] I'm an honest guy. [06:42:28] If a, okay, fuck, whatever. [06:42:31] Condoms. [06:42:32] Uh huh. [06:42:35] I honestly, if I have to use a condom, I'd rather just not have sex. [06:42:39] Bro, I actually just had this talk with somebody. [06:42:43] Now, so I will actually, like, if the girl's like, wants to use it, like, I'll actually pass up on sex. [06:42:50] If she's like only condom, I'm like, eh. [06:42:53] Do you guys both just get tested and then do it? [06:42:55] Yeah, sure. [06:42:56] You can get tested. [06:42:57] Or you're just like free for all, raw. [06:42:59] Like, we're just going for it. [06:43:01] No, ideally, like, this is not just like, first off, I don't go to bars, clubs. [06:43:05] Yeah. [06:43:05] I'm not drinking. [06:43:06] Like, so it's not like a drunken hookup. [06:43:08] This would be something somebody who I've talked to for a while. [06:43:11] And there's been some vetting. [06:43:14] We've talked about, okay, have you been tested? [06:43:17] When's the last time you were sexually active? [06:43:18] Are you sexually active with anybody else? [06:43:20] No. [06:43:21] Okay, cool. [06:43:22] So, testing can definitely be a component of that. [06:43:25] But truthfully, I don't know. [06:43:28] Once you've had a girlfriend, you've been dating for like three years and she's on birth control or whatever, she has an IUD, whatever it is. [06:43:35] How do you go back to condo? [06:43:37] It's just like, I don't know. [06:43:39] Maybe that makes me a terrible guy. [06:43:41] I'd rather just not have sex, to be honest, though. [06:43:43] So, if she's the perfect woman, if she's the perfect woman, and the only condition for you to be with her is you can't go bareback, bareback is crazy. [06:43:53] Well, what do you mean? [06:43:53] I want to get her pregnant. [06:43:55] Oh, you want to. [06:43:56] Oh, you want to. [06:43:56] She's a perfect woman. [06:43:58] Yeah, true. [06:43:58] Yeah, she's getting five. [06:43:59] We're having 10 children. [06:44:01] We're only fucking wrong. [06:44:02] What? [06:44:03] She's perfect. [06:44:04] Okay, if she's perfect, she's never going to leave me if she's perfect. [06:44:09] So, yeah, she's pumping out 10 kids. [06:44:12] No, immediately. [06:44:13] I mean, right? [06:44:14] Isn't that the. [06:44:15] Okay, this is the perfect woman. [06:44:17] No woman could be better, right? [06:44:20] Might as well just knock her up right away. [06:44:22] I mean, why wait? [06:44:23] Might as well. [06:44:23] What if she's not a perfect woman? [06:44:25] Oh, and we're going to wait a year or two. [06:44:28] A year or two. [06:44:28] A year or two. [06:44:29] Still not that long. [06:44:30] A year or two. [06:44:30] Well, you know, who knows? [06:44:32] I need to start pumping. [06:44:34] My eggs are drying up here. [06:44:35] Uh oh. [06:44:36] I got to start pumping. [06:44:37] Eggs. [06:44:38] Oh my God. [06:44:39] Yeah. [06:44:40] Yeah. [06:44:41] Oh man, Brian, I got to start pumping. [06:44:43] I can't be 40 and like fucking first kid at 40. [06:44:48] I need to pump out a kid within a year or two. [06:44:51] What? [06:44:52] Do you even have a girlfriend right now? [06:44:55] I don't reveal my relationship status on the podcast. [06:45:00] I don't know. [06:45:01] I have had girlfriends throughout my life. [06:45:05] I will say that much. [06:45:07] Oh my God, no way. [06:45:08] I will say that much. [06:45:09] But yeah, I need to get on it, to be honest. [06:45:11] I don't want to be like fucking 70 and like dropping my kid off at fucking elementary school. [06:45:18] That shit's retarded. [06:45:19] I seriously got to get on that shit. [06:45:23] Okay, so, anyways, it's in the works. [06:45:26] All right, so where was I? [06:45:27] I don't know. [06:45:27] You're talking about hand jobs, no condoms. [06:45:31] Clavicular and Chloe know about that. [06:45:35] I'm just kidding. [06:45:35] They didn't fuck. [06:45:36] I don't know. [06:45:38] Have you guys encountered that? [06:45:39] Like, I don't know. [06:45:40] Do you guys prefer having sex with a condom? [06:45:41] Be honest. [06:45:42] Can I actually ask a question about that? [06:45:44] Sure. [06:45:45] So, like, now that I'm trying to get back into the dating world, I started talking to this guy and he was saying, like, he doesn't want to use a condom. [06:45:51] And for me, I've only done that with one person and I was with them for a very, very, very, very long time. [06:45:57] So it seems very intimate to me. [06:46:00] And that's like my issue with it. [06:46:02] To not use a condom. [06:46:04] What was the thing you said there at the end? [06:46:05] It just feels really intimate. [06:46:06] Like, I've only done that with one person. [06:46:08] Okay. [06:46:09] So, for me, he doesn't want to, but I'm like, if we're going to, I feel like we have to because I don't want to get pregnant. [06:46:16] I'm not. [06:46:17] Like, if I was going to sleep with somebody else, I would want them to use a condom. [06:46:20] Well, okay, hold on. [06:46:21] Just to be clear, that's a perfectly acceptable standard for men and women to have. [06:46:26] Yeah. [06:46:27] Like, if you're a man and you want to use a rubber, you're a woman, you want to use a rubber. [06:46:30] That's totally. [06:46:31] I'm not like anti other people doing it. [06:46:33] Okay, okay, okay. [06:46:33] I'm just saying, from like, it honestly, I'm going to be honest, like, yeah, there's different, there's like thin condoms or whatever. [06:46:41] I just don't. [06:46:43] I'd honestly rather, like, okay, let's just, I guess, Not have sex and she can give me head or something, just to be blunt, until she's ready for that. [06:46:52] If she wants to wait. [06:46:53] What's the reasoning? [06:46:53] Can you explain? [06:46:54] Honestly, I just don't find it pleasurable. [06:46:57] Really? [06:46:58] It's like really like that big of a difference for a guy? [06:47:02] For me, condom versus no condom, it's such a huge difference. [06:47:07] I'd rather not even have sex. [06:47:08] That's really interesting. [06:47:09] There's a difference for women too, you don't think? [06:47:11] Honestly, I don't really know. [06:47:13] I think it's a bit different for women. [06:47:15] I think you can maybe like feel the difference, but. [06:47:19] I think psychologically it's more stimulating for both men and women. [06:47:23] No, yeah, I agree. [06:47:24] Yeah. [06:47:25] It's like, okay, it's more intimate, more connection. [06:47:29] Yeah. [06:47:29] Like literally, physically, more. [06:47:31] I don't know. [06:47:32] Maybe the chat's like, what the fuck? [06:47:33] Yeah, more like you feel more connected. [06:47:35] Now, look, you can't be doing, you can't be moving like that and like fucking four girls a week, five girls a week. [06:47:41] Or as a woman, you can't be fucking a lot of people. [06:47:43] Like, you have to be dating intentionally. [06:47:45] I have no interest in a one night stand. [06:47:47] I have no interest in like. [06:47:49] Girl, girl, like Monday, Wednesday, Friday. [06:47:52] No, like I'm much more intentional with how I date. [06:47:54] If I sleep with a girl, that's basically going to be my girlfriend. [06:47:58] Like, that's my view. [06:48:00] I'm not interested in sport fucking. [06:48:02] I'm not interested in fucking a girl once or two or three times. [06:48:06] Now, look, sometimes you fuck a chick and she held back on how crazy she fucking is. [06:48:12] And unfortunately, even though you're crazy and better, crazy. [06:48:14] No, just like she's not a good fit. [06:48:18] But you had the intentions going in, like, I'm looking for a girlfriend. [06:48:22] I'm looking for the like that's literally my approach. [06:48:26] If I'm sleeping with you, like I have you're potentially the one. [06:48:30] Like that's I'm not interested in just running through chicks, that's useless to me. [06:48:35] It's interesting to me that guys like can think like that because I well, I mean, a lot of guys just want to, right? [06:48:41] But no, I mean, to me, it's just I've really never been interested in just like having a one night stand or just sleeping with a girl once, I find it kind of pointless. [06:48:51] I've always preferred continuity and longer term dating. [06:48:55] Also, even if you were sex motivated, I don't know if you guys disagree with me. [06:48:59] Maybe the chat disagrees with me. [06:49:01] I believe even if sex is your only motivation, I think sex is better with a girl you love. [06:49:08] And I think sex is better. [06:49:09] There's a couple angles here. [06:49:11] One, you've had sex 10, 20, 30 times. [06:49:14] You become comfortable. [06:49:15] You're comfortable with each other, not just in the bedroom, but just hanging out. [06:49:19] You build a comfort and a level of connection and rapport with each other. [06:49:24] And that translates to sex. [06:49:25] That's like you're comfortable with each other. [06:49:28] And then, just from a technical perspective, if you've had sex with somebody 10, 20, 30, et cetera, many times, you know what she likes. [06:49:37] You know what gets her going. [06:49:38] She knows what you like. [06:49:40] You guys have communicated to each other your wants and things you want to try or whatever it is. [06:49:47] And so the sex is better. [06:49:50] Yeah, no, totally. [06:49:50] And then also, I mean, look, some guys are going to be playing Russian roulette with their dick. [06:49:56] And they're fucking one night stands raw. [06:49:59] But yeah, obviously, if you're like more intentional with your dating, then it's like, okay, it's a bit safer to have unprotected sex, you know? [06:50:08] And so it's more pleasurable in that way, too. [06:50:11] But it's also just, I don't know. [06:50:15] It's more. [06:50:16] It's your preference. [06:50:18] Yeah, the sex, I guess what I was trying to say is the sex is better with a girl that you have a relationship with and who you know or at least plan to have a relationship with. [06:50:30] So, I don't know if that makes sense, but. [06:50:34] No, that totally makes sense. [06:50:35] I agree with that. [06:50:35] I don't know. [06:50:36] These guys that just want to fuck a girl once, that's always been weird to me. [06:50:41] Okay, like. [06:50:43] The sex isn't even gonna be. [06:50:45] I mean, look, yeah, okay, fine. [06:50:46] The first time you fuck can be good, but I don't know if it's always gonna be the best. [06:50:50] Like, is the first time you fuck, is it the best? [06:50:53] No. [06:50:54] Sometimes it can be. [06:50:55] Usually, I mean, maybe it can be, like, if you're both just really on point, but I don't know. [06:51:00] I don't know. [06:51:03] But it seems like a waste of time because, like, maybe if it's just the time investment to get laid, it's just a waste of time. [06:51:15] Like, I'm not saying you're like doing a fucking circus act to get some pussy, but it's like I'm gonna do all that just for 30 minutes of pleasure. [06:51:27] Like, I'm gonna spend hours investing to this girl and telling her about my fake job to get some pussy. [06:51:34] I'm kidding. [06:51:35] I don't lie about my job, but some men be fucking, they be lying. === Conservative Dating Positions (06:02) === [06:51:39] They be, oh my god, I'm a. [06:51:41] You're just intentional. [06:51:41] I'm an influencer. [06:51:44] What do they say? [06:51:46] They rent like a Ferrari or some bullshit. [06:51:48] 30 minutes? [06:51:50] 30 minutes is too short? [06:51:52] I think a long time. [06:51:52] Is that too short? [06:51:53] People in the chat? [06:51:54] That is a long time. [06:51:55] 30 minutes is a lot of time. [06:51:57] That's a long time. [06:51:59] That's a decent amount. [06:52:00] More than about that. [06:52:01] Maybe they're thinking like I'm factoring in 30 minutes. [06:52:03] I feel like 10 minutes is like, that's desirable because it's okay. [06:52:06] Like, we don't need to go that long. [06:52:08] Yeah, I mean, I think anywhere, I mean, obviously can sometimes be shorter. [06:52:11] More than, I feel like more than 30 minutes, like of actual intercourse is ridiculous. [06:52:16] It's like, how many fucking positions? [06:52:17] Yeah. [06:52:18] Poor girl. [06:52:19] And every time, multiple times a day? [06:52:23] Nah. [06:52:24] But I don't know. [06:52:27] I don't know. [06:52:28] What was I saying? [06:52:29] Where was I going with that? [06:52:30] Fucking a girl once, useless. [06:52:32] What's the point? [06:52:33] Oh, compromising too. [06:52:34] I don't know. [06:52:34] I'm going to listen to this girl on a date. [06:52:36] Like, oh, that's so interesting. [06:52:38] I'm just going to fuck her once. [06:52:40] If I'm going to listen to a girl tell me about some shit, I'm going to fuck her as many times as possible. [06:52:45] This sounds so bad. [06:52:46] Oh, my God. [06:52:47] I don't know. [06:52:47] I'm just saying. [06:52:48] Like, fuck. [06:52:50] What if it took less time from a man? [06:52:52] Like, what if it's really simple? [06:52:54] You just. [06:52:55] Match someone and then just fuck. [06:52:56] I mean, I'm at it. [06:52:57] Yeah, yeah, that's fair. [06:52:58] I'm adding another layer to why it's hard, like, stupid to just fuck a girl once. [06:53:03] But, like, obviously, there's more reasons beyond just the time investment. [06:53:07] Because, yeah, there's definitely situations where you can just, like, I mean, if it can happen quick sometimes, maybe you meet at a bar, club, whatever. [06:53:16] And I don't go to these places, but maybe on a dating app. [06:53:19] Okay, come over. [06:53:20] Let's fuck. [06:53:21] But then you're on the dating app and you're going to have to be messaging, like, A hundred chicks before you find one who's like DTF like that. [06:53:29] So, do you have groupies? [06:53:31] Does anyone like reach out to you and just want to be with you? [06:53:37] Um, women usually aren't. [06:53:38] I mean, knowing my position on this topic, women usually aren't just like, Hey, Brian, I just want to come and never talk to you again. [06:53:45] But yeah, I mean, I've had like, I don't know, since I started this podcast, hundreds of women DM me on Instagram and some of whom I've met, but I have a vetting process. [06:53:57] Only hundreds? [06:53:58] I feel like. [06:54:00] Well, you have to understand. [06:54:01] I mean, you have to understand, like, the male experience is different. [06:54:05] Also, like, I'm. [06:54:11] I'm like, yes, asshole. [06:54:13] Yeah. [06:54:14] And I have some hot, spicy takes. [06:54:18] So, okay, the girl has to be probably conservative to like fuck with me. [06:54:22] Not literally, but the girl probably has to be conservative. [06:54:25] Like, liberal chicks want nothing to do with me. [06:54:28] Good. [06:54:29] But she. [06:54:31] And then, like, I'm chubby right now. [06:54:33] So, like, that hurts my prospects. [06:54:37] And I'm like, average looking dude. [06:54:38] I'm nothing special. [06:54:40] Do they have to bow as like a test, as like a screening process? [06:54:43] They send you a video. [06:54:45] I have had women send me bow videos. [06:54:46] Like some of them. [06:54:47] I don't even ask for it. [06:54:48] They'll just send it unprompted. [06:54:49] That sounds crazy. [06:54:50] Bro, but I mean, I have a girlfriend application. [06:54:52] There's 100 questions on it. [06:54:54] What? [06:54:54] No way. [06:54:55] What the fuck? [06:54:56] Yep. [06:54:56] That sounds like autism. [06:54:57] That's serious. [06:54:59] It is autistic. [06:54:59] What branch? [06:55:00] What branch? [06:55:01] Yeah, of autism is it? [06:55:03] The retarded? [06:55:03] I don't know. [06:55:04] It's just. [06:55:05] No, it's definitely. [06:55:06] I've literally had women be like, oh my God, Brian, can I meet you? [06:55:09] And I'm like, yeah, here. [06:55:10] Here's the girlfriend application. [06:55:12] And then they're like, ah, never mind. [06:55:14] Why is it bad? [06:55:16] I mean, it's very direct. [06:55:19] You should tell us your name. [06:55:20] It's not just like, what's your favorite color? [06:55:21] It's like, what are your mental illnesses? [06:55:23] Do you take medication? [06:55:24] Oh my God. [06:55:26] It's literally autistic as fuck. [06:55:28] I didn't do that. [06:55:29] It's so autistic. [06:55:31] But it's like, if they're coming to me, it's like, get with the program. [06:55:38] If you're coming to me, I'm going to call the shots. [06:55:41] Yeah, like, why wouldn't you call the shots? [06:55:43] You got to be on my page. [06:55:45] So, um, I feel like by the way, like that, I let like the girls would have to like sign an NDA or something to like, yeah, they do really do, yeah. [06:55:57] Well, the thing is, is because of like, here's the thing is, um, because of the nature of my job, uh, yeah, you, I don't need some, first off, I don't date typically, I don't date content creators. [06:56:13] I don't, um, I'm trying to think if I, Like, I usually date just like normal chicks. [06:56:19] I don't date OF girls. [06:56:20] That's hard to know. [06:56:23] I don't date content creators. [06:56:25] So, like, that helps protect and insulate me a little bit because a woman who, like, I could see a woman trying to date me and, like, either using the breakup for, like, content or something like that. [06:56:40] So, there's that. [06:56:41] But, yes, absolutely. [06:56:43] If a woman wants to date me, she has to sign an NDA. [06:56:46] But, I mean, you see this with content creators insofar as. [06:56:51] The reality is, I have opposition out there. [06:56:54] I have ops. [06:56:55] And, like, I just have to have peace of mind when it comes to private communications with somebody I'm going to date or be intimate with. [06:57:05] And it's unfortunate. [06:57:07] I wish I didn't have to have NDAs, but in the current social climate, you have people wanting to leak private communications, private DMs. [06:57:18] And in my position, Like, I don't want that out there. [06:57:24] I've actually, I don't think I've ever revealed this on the show. [06:57:29] But it's mostly for my peace of mind. [06:57:32] Also, there's definitely like situations where I don't know, some fucking journalist is trying to find an ex girlfriend or whatever. === Dinner Date Leaks (03:03) === [06:57:41] Has there been like girls that like you were in like a situation with and then they try to like ruin your reputation or like. [06:57:51] It hasn't happened yet. [06:57:53] I think I had like. [06:58:01] I think there's like maybe one or two, but one of the girls I wasn't even dating, like it was just one girl, this is like 2023, she came on the show and she was actually flirting with me. [06:58:13] And then luckily, like, well, okay, so I asked her to dinner. [06:58:18] I was like, hey, let's grab some food. [06:58:20] And that was it. [06:58:23] We didn't go for the dinner. [06:58:24] Like, there wasn't, there was no like, Lewd conversation, no sexting, anything like that. [06:58:31] It was just like, hey, let's grab dinner sometime. [06:58:34] And I just got busy. [06:58:35] And then, like, I started detecting that she was fucking insane. [06:58:38] She was crazy, like, actually crazy. [06:58:41] And then, and by the way, and then, like, she got on my case. [06:58:45] She was like, oh, why are you ghosting me? [06:58:47] She got all bent out of shape. [06:58:48] And I wasn't, like, being, I wasn't rude to her, but I was just like, ooh, she's, like, way too pushy. [06:58:55] And, like, she was getting aggressive when I wasn't, I was like, hey, I'm busy. [06:58:59] I don't know. [06:58:59] I, you know, whatever. [06:59:00] She's getting, like, I'm sure maybe you guys have dealt with a guy who likes to get aggressive when maybe you were interested, but he gets too pushy. [06:59:08] And he was like, What the fuck? [06:59:09] You didn't respond to me in five minutes. [06:59:12] That's like kind of scary. [06:59:14] Well, I'm sure it's scary for the women, for sure. [06:59:16] But she was being too pushy with it. [06:59:17] And then, like, I kind of just didn't reject her. [06:59:20] I just kind of like, I don't know if I want to grab dinner. [06:59:23] I don't remember what I said. [06:59:25] And then she goes on fucking Twitter. [06:59:28] She goes on Twitter. [06:59:30] And mind you, we never met up for the date. [06:59:32] Never like so basically nothing, and then she played it out like I was all up on her. [06:59:39] I have all the text messages, she literally was like, Hey, come to my Airbnb in Mexico, come with me. [06:59:49] So she was all up on me, and I was kind of like, Nah, and then she's she like leaks like DMs. [06:59:56] Oh my god, he asked me for dinner. [06:59:57] Oh my god, he's such a creeper, bitch. [06:59:59] You were asking, she was asking me, she was trying to get me. [07:00:03] Oh, come. [07:00:04] Come to fucking, where was she? [07:00:07] She was like in LA. [07:00:08] Oh, come to LA, come to LA, come to Texas, come to Mexico. [07:00:12] She was in Mexico, come at my Airbnb. [07:00:16] And she leaked like exchanges, right? [07:00:21] And so, yeah, I mean, so to answer your question, yes, I've had women who like, I've tried to like shoot my shog or whatever, and they've, none of the girls I've like, I've dated long term have ever. [07:00:37] You know, even ones I don't have NDAs with have ever, like, oh my God, Brian's so terrible, blah, blah. === Clout Chasing Bowing (09:33) === [07:00:45] No, none of them have. [07:00:46] But yeah, I need to have an NDA now to protect myself because I don't know, some bullshit could happen. [07:00:53] So, yeah. [07:00:55] You know, the girl. [07:00:56] But also, I mean, I'm also very respectful of whoever I'm with. [07:00:59] Like, if I'm dating somebody, I'm not sharing anything on the podcast. [07:01:05] So, and I would never, like, leak. [07:01:09] Messages or DMs or anything like that. [07:01:12] Yeah. [07:01:12] Yes, go ahead. [07:01:13] You know, the, the, your ex girlfriend in the bowing video, does she give you her consent for showing the video? [07:01:21] She, well, I mean, she, obviously, because I've filmed it, but I don't know if you, it's not actually my girlfriend. [07:01:29] Oh, I didn't know that. [07:01:30] It's just a fucking video I found on the internet. [07:01:32] Oh, no way. [07:01:33] I thought it's actually, she believed in it. [07:01:34] Wait, you guys, did you have this girlfriend for real? [07:01:37] Yeah, I did. [07:01:38] I mean, I could probably like, I could probably pull, but. [07:01:42] That aura. [07:01:43] No, I mean, no, that was obviously not my girlfriend. [07:01:45] Wow. [07:01:46] No, it's obviously a joke. [07:01:48] I mean, I do want a girl to bow and do all that shit, but no, it wasn't my girlfriend. [07:01:52] Yeah, she's on Instagram. [07:01:53] I put a Chinese subtitle too at the end to. [07:01:56] Yeah, I just thought it's supposed to be Chinese. [07:02:00] I'm fluent in Mandarin. [07:02:02] Are you actually? [07:02:03] No. [07:02:04] No. [07:02:07] I'm obviously being sarcastic, yeah. [07:02:09] Has your girlfriend done similar stuff as that video? [07:02:14] Like, bowed for you, cooked for you, done your laundry? [07:02:18] Absolutely. [07:02:19] Yeah. [07:02:20] Yeah. [07:02:20] But like the bowing specifically? [07:02:23] Yep. [07:02:24] If you've had all that, why did it not work out? [07:02:27] Why did it not work out? [07:02:30] I don't know. [07:02:32] Relationships end. [07:02:33] Nothing like toxic or bad or anything. [07:02:38] Yeah. [07:02:39] Yeah. [07:02:40] But I mean, I don't understand. [07:02:42] Like, how, okay, how many, how much, how often do you date the guy who meets like XYZ and it doesn't work out? [07:02:49] I mean, it happens all the time. [07:02:51] Whenever like my relationship ends, I try to figure out like what the reason is, like why it didn't work out. [07:02:56] Am I the problem or is he the problem, you know? [07:02:58] Yeah. [07:02:58] Yeah. [07:02:59] Honestly, I think, well, for one of the longer ones I had, I would say that it was jealousy on her part. [07:03:06] Because obviously, it can be difficult for a woman to like see me with like surrounded by girls. [07:03:14] Even though I don't really make it a habit to like fuck the women who come on the show. [07:03:18] Or like attention, right? [07:03:20] Yeah, I feel like. [07:03:21] So for her, she had like some jealousy stuff, and that caused kind of a blowout in this one situation. [07:03:26] And I did some like stream with some girl, and she. [07:03:31] It was a girl who had a boyfriend, by the way. [07:03:32] Like, there was nothing, there's nothing going on there. [07:03:35] But she got kind of jealous. [07:03:37] And yeah, so that was, that kind of created some conflict. [07:03:41] But yeah, and I mean, I wouldn't say she had like everything, too. [07:03:46] So perhaps there was like some fence sitting on my end. [07:03:51] But yeah, but no, yes, vow, cook, clean, first time, they'll do it. [07:03:58] They'll do it. [07:03:59] I have a question. [07:04:00] But keep it, I want to make something clear. [07:04:03] I'm in a unique situation because of my presence on social media. [07:04:07] And I'm not saying I'm anything special. [07:04:09] Like, there's guys who have more clout or even less clout, but maybe they're younger. [07:04:13] It's also hard because I'm a bit on the older side. [07:04:15] But if I was like 22, 23 in my position and as thin as I was when I was 22 or 23, oh boy, oh boy, it'd be a different story. [07:04:27] But I guess what I'm trying to say is what I'm saying here with the bow, with the cooking and the cleaning and all this shit, it's different when the girl's coming to you. [07:04:35] Yeah. [07:04:36] Like, I don't, if I meet a girl on a dating app, I don't have that leverage. [07:04:41] You can try, but it's, I mean, if she, maybe she's already inclined to do that. [07:04:48] But if you meet some chick on a dating app or like you approach her, she's got all the power. [07:04:53] The girl has all the leverage if you're the pursuer. [07:04:57] But a girl comes to me, hey, Brian, I think you're attractive. [07:04:59] Let me slide into your DMs. [07:05:01] Okay, sign this NDA. [07:05:02] Okay, tell me every, answer any single question I want. [07:05:07] Okay, here's a 100 question girlfriend application. [07:05:12] If they want to be with me, they're going to do it. [07:05:14] Yes, I agree. [07:05:16] They're going to do it. [07:05:16] Don't settle. [07:05:17] You keep talking about dating apps. [07:05:20] Are you on dating apps? [07:05:22] No, I'm not. [07:05:23] I haven't been on dating apps since like 2023. [07:05:25] But yeah, like I don't know when it was. [07:05:30] Yeah, mid 2023. [07:05:31] I've been off of all dating apps. [07:05:33] But oh shit, what was I going to say? [07:05:37] Something about the girlfriend application. [07:05:40] Oh, the other thing is, a lot of these girls don't live in. [07:05:43] Near me. [07:05:45] So then there's this other component. [07:05:46] It's just not the autistic girlfriend application. [07:05:50] The other component is if you're going to travel, if you're going to fly five hours, if you're going to fly from Europe to come and see me, some of them are spending their own money to come and see me, then let's make sure that we're a match before you come. [07:06:11] Like, oh, so you might say, okay, it's really autistic to have this 100 point girlfriend application. [07:06:17] Like, if a girl lived here in Santa Barbara, Okay, let's meet for let's grab uh, let's grab food. [07:06:25] I'll ask you a few things, but it's much more like let's do a vibe check, let's meet for 10 minutes versus oh, you're gonna fly across the country to come see me before you do that. [07:06:36] And maybe we're gonna spend multiple days together. [07:06:39] Let's make sure that it's a good fit first. [07:06:41] That's a different, it's a different, like it's not a typical dating dynamic, I think. [07:06:46] So that's part of the reason why if a girl, yeah, like it just for my sake, so I'm not wasting my time, but also. [07:06:54] I mean, if she's not the right fit, or if I'm not even the right fit for her, then it's like we probably shouldn't even waste our time. [07:07:02] So the vetting thing isn't just purely autism. [07:07:05] It's just like being considerate of both our time. [07:07:08] So we're not wasting each other's time. [07:07:10] And I think you can even do that in more like, okay, you live in the same city. [07:07:14] Hey, let's hop on a call for 10 minutes. [07:07:16] Let's, let's, because why go on a one hour dinner date? [07:07:19] You can hop on a phone call for 10, 15 minutes, get to know each other. [07:07:23] Ooh, I don't, I don't know if this is, Because sometimes over text message, I don't know if you guys can agree, you can't always get a good feel for a person just from texting. [07:07:33] Like, I think you always have to have that phone call with a person. [07:07:37] And I think that also just builds comfort too, because it's like, it can be if you've had that phone call and you guys are vibing on the phone, like, then the date is easy. [07:07:47] But like, if you haven't talked verbally, you've just been texting and then you meet, I think that puts more pressure on the date because you're going in blind. [07:07:56] And also, it's a safety thing too. [07:07:57] You should definitely talk to somebody on the phone. [07:08:00] Yeah. [07:08:00] And just like make sure they're actually a person, like all this AI stuff. [07:08:04] Like, come on. [07:08:05] Well, yeah, that too. [07:08:07] A lot of things are so fake nowadays. [07:08:08] It's just, it's nice to have some authenticity. [07:08:11] True. [07:08:12] True. [07:08:12] Okay. [07:08:13] Anyways, enough about me. [07:08:14] I feel like. [07:08:15] Thanks for sharing so much. [07:08:17] Yeah. [07:08:17] I don't know if I've shared. [07:08:18] Happy birthday. [07:08:19] Thanks for being so honest. [07:08:20] Wow. [07:08:21] He gets his own therapy session. [07:08:22] Does that answer your question, Chloe? [07:08:25] Thanks for your answer. [07:08:25] But yes, the women, like. [07:08:28] The women cook, the women clean, the women bow, and bow. [07:08:34] You know, the thing with the bow is like, if I get the impression that she's like a hundred percent down to do it, I don't even need her to do it, if that makes sense. [07:08:47] Yeah, like I don't even need it, but if she's down to do it, that's what makes sure she's like submissive, right? [07:08:55] To a degree, yeah, pretty much. [07:08:57] I mean, it's better if she does bow because I think it's cute. [07:09:01] And it's like, okay, you're doing the thing. [07:09:03] I appreciate that. [07:09:04] But, like, okay, she doesn't bow. [07:09:06] I'm not going to be like, what the fuck, bitch? [07:09:08] I'm not going to be like, yeah, backhander, like, how dare you? [07:09:15] Yeah, like, if you can't change the girl, then change the girl. [07:09:17] Like some 1950s shit. [07:09:19] I'm not going to, like, fucking smack a girl. [07:09:20] Oh, my, papa. [07:09:22] No, fuck that. [07:09:24] I'm not going to scold her. [07:09:27] Yeah, I think masculine. [07:09:28] I'll playfully tease her, like, where's my bow? [07:09:31] I didn't get a bow today. [07:09:32] I don't know. [07:09:33] Where is the bow? [07:09:35] Anyways, here, let me move on to the. [07:09:36] I think actually, are we done with the questionnaire? [07:09:40] I think we're almost done. [07:09:41] Hold on, let me see if there's anything else in the questionnaire. [07:09:43] Then we have rapid fire questions, and then we have some notes. [07:09:47] Do we have the AI photos, by the way? [07:09:52] Again. [07:09:52] Hello, Tiffany, Nathan. [07:09:55] AI photos, do we have those pulled up? [07:09:59] Like one sec, as in you need to pull them up, or one sec they've already been pulled up? [07:10:05] Okay. [07:10:06] Do those, please. [07:10:08] I think we're done with the questionnaire. [07:10:11] Let me just double check. [07:10:12] One sec. [07:10:14] Does anyone have any disagreements while I'm going through the questionnaire? === Hyphenated Last Names (15:03) === [07:10:18] Hello? [07:10:18] No. [07:10:19] Nothing? [07:10:19] No, Nothing? [07:10:21] Okay. [07:10:21] Final thing from the questionnaire. [07:10:23] Men should pay on first dates. [07:10:24] Men should provide protection. [07:10:25] Men should be chivalrous. [07:10:27] Husbands should be willing to die protecting you. [07:10:29] You're going to keep your last name when you get married? [07:10:33] It depends. [07:10:34] If I don't like their last name, like if they have a weird one. [07:10:39] Yeah. [07:10:40] Yeah. [07:10:41] What if their last name was like Roach? [07:10:44] And then you're like, you got a cockroach as your last name. [07:10:47] Yeah, you still take it. [07:10:47] I don't care how bad the man's last name is, you still take it. [07:10:51] It's like Epstein. [07:10:52] I had a Miss Roach, like my teacher, her name was Miss Roach. [07:10:56] Yeah. [07:10:56] Honestly. [07:10:57] I wasn't even married. [07:10:59] That was just her last name. [07:11:01] So, elect. [07:11:01] Well, okay. [07:11:02] What if it's like a normal last name? [07:11:04] Do you take it? [07:11:05] Yeah, whatever. [07:11:06] But you said you want to keep your last name or hyphenate? [07:11:09] I'm just picky. [07:11:10] It just depends on what it is. [07:11:13] I don't want it to ruin my. [07:11:14] I have a weird. [07:11:15] Also, Kiko, you're going to keep your last name. [07:11:18] Well, you are married. [07:11:19] I am married and I kept my last name. [07:11:22] So, there's like, remember how you talked about a study of. [07:11:26] How a man and a woman resume that study. [07:11:30] There was another study I saw on LinkedIn that's like an Asian name versus like a generic American name, and the Asian name will get called back less. [07:11:38] So, like, I thought about changing my last name to get more job opportunities. [07:11:45] But then I didn't because my first name is also very Asian. [07:11:49] And are you planning on having kids? [07:11:51] Yes. [07:11:52] Can you open the door all the way? [07:11:53] Yes. [07:11:55] How many kids? [07:11:57] One adopted, maybe two, one to two by birth. [07:12:00] What will the last name be for the kids? [07:12:05] I think hyphen it. [07:12:07] Hyphen it. [07:12:08] Yeah. [07:12:10] L hyphens. [07:12:12] Would it be your last name or no? [07:12:14] It will. [07:12:15] Oh, like which one comes first? [07:12:16] No, will it def. [07:12:17] Well, it's definitely going to be hyphenated. [07:12:21] I mean, they're going to be Weijian, right? [07:12:23] So I want their name to embrace both parts of their identity for the last name. [07:12:31] I don't get the hyphenation thing because think about it this way, right? [07:12:34] Let's say everyone hyphenated their last names. [07:12:38] How many generations can that realistically go? [07:12:42] Because, okay, a hyphenated person and the hyphenated person get married. [07:12:47] That's four last names. [07:12:48] Yeah. [07:12:49] Their kids have four last names if you keep all the hyphenations. [07:12:54] And then a kid with four last names and marries a kid with four last names. [07:12:58] That's eight last names. [07:13:00] That's like Smith. [07:13:02] Bogota, I can't even think at this time. [07:13:08] We haven't talked about it. [07:13:10] But that's why I feel like hyphenation would not be practical on a large scale because eventually you'd have people with like 300 million last names. [07:13:23] And then it's like, okay, well, what if we merge the hyphenated? [07:13:27] So, okay, it's one of the hyphenated last names with like the, you flip a coin. [07:13:34] But then that defeats the purpose of the hyphenate originate hyphenation. [07:13:39] Yeah, my whole point is I just want the name to be some has some Asian influence, like because if we took my husband's last name, they would just sound white. [07:13:51] Okay, I don't know. [07:13:55] Okay, but you're gonna keep your last name and depending, Kiko, you wrote though that. [07:14:03] You want men to provide, protect, be chivalrous. [07:14:06] Although, I mean, you give some leeway on protecting you. [07:14:09] Men, you don't really care about men paying on the first date, I guess. [07:14:13] Yeah, I don't know. [07:14:14] But it's like, okay, why should men be traditional if women don't even want to be traditional? [07:14:19] Like, I mean, he did propose to you. [07:14:21] He bought a ring. [07:14:22] He got down on one knee. [07:14:23] The traditional thing in marriage is the wife takes the husband's, or the woman takes the man's last name. [07:14:32] The kids take the man's last name. [07:14:34] That's the traditional thing. [07:14:37] That's how it should be. [07:14:38] You want me to respond to that? [07:14:41] If you want to, yeah. [07:14:43] I think every family makes its own ritual. [07:14:48] Okay, cool. [07:14:49] Yeah. [07:14:49] And like, I'm in an untraditional marriage, right? [07:14:52] Obviously, like, I take different roles from my husband from a traditional marriage. [07:14:55] I suppose, yeah. [07:14:57] People can negotiate all kinds of arrangements. [07:15:01] Like, if he came to me and he's like, I really need our kids to take my last name, I will be fine with it, but he hasn't brought it up. [07:15:08] Well, he should do it. [07:15:12] If you're that malleable, he should just take the W on that then. [07:15:16] But okay, I don't know. [07:15:17] It seems like. [07:15:19] It's only a W for people who care, right? [07:15:21] If he cares, yeah, sure. [07:15:23] So your husband should be willing to die protecting you? [07:15:26] I would hope so. [07:15:27] But you won't take his last name. [07:15:29] Only if it's like something weird. [07:15:31] Yeah, but what if it's weird, but he's willing to die protecting you? [07:15:34] Well, that's great, but I'm just gonna, of course. [07:15:38] You know. [07:15:39] Okay. [07:15:39] We make it work. [07:15:40] We make it work. [07:15:46] I think we need to give. [07:15:49] Is there like something that you can do to like unstiffen somebody's face? [07:15:58] I know it's about me, bro. [07:16:01] My fucking arm. [07:16:01] I don't know if it's Botox that will just relax your face. [07:16:04] No, that would make it worse. [07:16:06] But would it? [07:16:06] I feel like it would just like freeze your face. [07:16:08] I feel like this. [07:16:12] That's pretty hot. [07:16:13] But. [07:16:14] But no, I feel, I don't know. [07:16:15] It's just sometimes, I don't know if it's intentional. [07:16:18] I'm just listening to it. [07:16:18] I'm like, damn, she hates me. [07:16:19] I'm listening intently. [07:16:20] Because, like, your face gets, like, all twisted up. [07:16:24] I know. [07:16:25] Like, it gets all, like, did she smell? [07:16:27] Is something bad? [07:16:28] I think she's just thinking about it. [07:16:30] Like, did Lexi fart? [07:16:31] Like, what is it? [07:16:32] Yeah, sometimes I do look at it and I'm like, did I sting? [07:16:34] I'm just kidding. [07:16:35] Okay, so that's it with the questionnaire, I'm pretty sure. [07:16:38] We're going to blast through the notes for all of you guys. [07:16:41] So, okay, we have got Christina Liu. [07:16:47] Uh, okay. [07:16:48] You said sometimes conversation around dating becomes too transactional. [07:16:54] Transactional? [07:16:55] Yeah, that's what you wrote. [07:17:00] Oh, okay. [07:17:00] What did you think it was? [07:17:02] Meth. [07:17:03] Oh, not this time. [07:17:13] What? [07:17:13] Go, answer, speak. [07:17:17] Speak what? [07:17:18] Speak it, speak. [07:17:20] Wait, don't, no, no, no, no, don't go that way, don't go that way, just close the door. [07:17:26] Wait, was this my topic? [07:17:28] It was in the notes that you sent. [07:17:32] Really? [07:17:33] I don't remember it. [07:17:36] Did your pimp fill this out for you? [07:17:41] Oh, no, I mean. [07:17:42] You wrote in your notes to us, I think sometimes conversation around dating. [07:17:46] Becomes too transactional. [07:17:49] And that's it? [07:17:50] Well, that's one of the things you wrote. [07:17:52] I think I wrote a lot. [07:17:53] No, I know you wrote more than that, but that's the first thing I'm getting to. [07:17:59] So, okay, do you think, regardless of whether you recall writing that or not, do you think that the con, well, sometimes the conversation, so I think you're referring to the show around dating becomes too transactional? [07:18:10] Do you think dating is too transactional? [07:18:14] Mind you, you want a guy who makes 20 million to 100 million dollars a year. [07:18:20] Speaking of transaction. [07:18:22] Okay. [07:18:23] All right. [07:18:25] There's a bug up there. [07:18:31] I know, I see the bug. [07:18:34] Okay. [07:18:35] All right. [07:18:37] You dated someone who is very famous. [07:18:39] Uh huh. [07:18:40] Who? [07:18:42] Can you say? [07:18:43] I can't say. [07:18:44] What? [07:18:44] Can you say? [07:18:45] Actually, I did three. [07:18:46] I did three before. [07:18:47] Three famous people. [07:18:48] Uh huh. [07:18:50] Can you say what they did? [07:18:52] Like actor, musician, athlete? [07:18:55] Actor, singer, and two singers and one actor. [07:19:00] American singer? [07:19:03] I can't. [07:19:04] I don't think that would be enough to figure it out. [07:19:07] Or like Korean? [07:19:09] K pop? [07:19:10] Korean and American? [07:19:12] Okay. [07:19:14] Remind me before we wrap, I do want to do the. [07:19:16] Hold on, put it on a different. [07:19:21] We're going to do the makeup before we wrap, so please. [07:19:26] Everyone at the table and my producers, do not let me forget the makeup segment. [07:19:31] Okay, dating in China. [07:19:34] Dating in China? [07:19:36] Yes. [07:19:38] What do you mean, dating in China? [07:19:40] I don't know. [07:19:41] Is it bad? [07:19:42] Did you want to talk about it? [07:19:44] I think you wrote something about that. [07:19:46] No, I think I wrote something about dating, like more than dating or something. [07:19:53] Not China. [07:19:54] Okay, maybe I'll come back to you. [07:19:55] Sue Storm? [07:19:57] Who the fuck is that? [07:19:59] Sue Storm? [07:20:01] Who's Sue? [07:20:02] Wait, wasn't it the girl who left? [07:20:03] Yeah, Sammy. [07:20:04] Didn't she announce her name as something different? [07:20:07] Huh? [07:20:08] No, it wasn't her. [07:20:11] Sue. [07:20:12] Who the fuck is Sue? [07:20:16] Who the fuck is this? [07:20:18] Like a superhero or where is Mary? [07:20:21] Leilani, you said you're permanently single. [07:20:24] Yeah. [07:20:26] I think we already went into that though. [07:20:27] You didn't really give me a great answer, but permanently single. [07:20:31] Okay, well, whatever. [07:20:33] Suki. [07:20:34] That's me. [07:20:35] I thought your name was Nairobi or what? [07:20:38] OnlyFans. [07:20:40] Okay. [07:20:41] You said men and women are equal in relationships. [07:20:44] We just have different purposes. [07:20:45] What do you mean by that? [07:20:46] I think exactly what I said. [07:20:48] I think we have different roles. [07:20:49] I think that we're both equal. [07:20:50] I think we should be treated equally, but I think we have different roles. [07:20:56] Okay. [07:20:58] Cool. [07:21:04] Like, was I supposed to say? [07:21:06] Are men and women equal in relationships? [07:21:09] Well, I guess that depends on your relationship. [07:21:15] But so when you're asking for, when you say different purposes, like, so what is the male purpose? [07:21:22] That also depends on your relationship. [07:21:24] It depends on what you want your man to do. [07:21:27] Okay. [07:21:27] So then what do you mean by equal? [07:21:32] I mean, if you are treated the same as you are treating your partner. [07:21:36] Okay. [07:21:36] So. [07:21:38] If I pay for dates, should the woman pay for dates? [07:21:42] Because only one person. [07:21:44] I mean, this doesn't mean like equally transactionally only. [07:21:46] It also means like in value. [07:21:48] If you are doing something for somebody and you see that they are doing the same thing for you, equal in value, then that's the same thing. [07:21:56] I mean, I want a girl to clean my house. [07:21:58] I don't want to clean the house. [07:22:00] Yeah. [07:22:00] And if you go to work, you don't have to clean the house. [07:22:03] That's my job. [07:22:06] Okay. [07:22:07] Ashlyn, you said you've always dated men who take advantage of you. [07:22:10] You have a big heart. [07:22:13] Oh, I forgot I wrote that. [07:22:14] Yeah. [07:22:15] Now you're learning to date the right way. [07:22:17] You're just single, focusing on you and your puppy. [07:22:19] Yeah. [07:22:21] So you only date men who take advantage of you? [07:22:23] That's not. [07:22:24] I feel like. [07:22:25] Are you toxic in a relationship? [07:22:27] No, I think I just had low standards, I guess. [07:22:32] And I. [07:22:32] So they're bums or what? [07:22:33] They just mooch off you? [07:22:35] To be fair, when I was younger, I didn't have high standards. [07:22:39] And then I met somebody, I was with them for a very long time, and it was like that kind of situation where I. Paid for everything, but I really loved them. [07:22:46] I thought like we were gonna get married and I didn't mind it, and then they just dipped. [07:22:50] So now I'm trying to realize like time doesn't mean they're gonna stay with you, and like you should find somebody who's gonna put in the same effort as you rather than just completely supporting somebody. [07:23:02] Okay, so is this like financially taken advantage of, or um, I mean, they were like talking to other girls behind my back, and like financially, I was paying for everything, like all our trips. [07:23:16] Like helping him with his bills, stuff like that. [07:23:19] W man, good for him. [07:23:21] I mean, I really loved him. [07:23:22] I don't regret it, but I definitely won't do that again. [07:23:25] I think it's a better dynamic if the woman is a simp, to be honest. [07:23:30] I mean, the woman just has to be a massive simp. [07:23:32] Now, look, in my relationship, I'll take care of everything, but I guess it depends. [07:23:39] Hold on. [07:23:39] Well, it's like it's that dynamic. [07:23:42] Like, I just didn't. [07:23:42] But it's like, I think here's so I understand that traditionally, like, men pay and men provide. [07:23:49] But I think my angle here for like the woman simping is if she's willing to go so far against traditional gender roles, it's our fault. [07:24:00] Well, it's like as long as she doesn't use that as a pretext to be masculine and she can still remain feminine because women can still simp and still be feminine. [07:24:09] Yeah. [07:24:10] But it's like, I'd much rather, I know this might sound crazy. [07:24:17] How do I frame this? [07:24:18] I'd much rather the woman. [07:24:21] Spend a fuck ton of money, but be like really, really into me. [07:24:24] And usually, like a woman who's willing to spend money on a dude, yeah, like she has to be really fucking into it. [07:24:29] So, like, spend money on the guy. [07:24:30] Well, let me just finish my thought, okay? [07:24:32] Um, versus like the male traditional role as pursuer, you'll be you'll find yourself in instances where you're like you're you're pursuing, you're courting a woman and she's a fence sitter, and here you are like spending all this money, and like, yeah, that's traditional gender role. [07:24:52] But I'd much rather, like, if I had to pick between two options, me pursuing, and part of that would, like, encompass, like, paying for dates, blah, blah, blah, like, spending money. [07:25:03] But she's on the fence about me versus the girls, like, no, Brian, I'm paying the bill. [07:25:09] No, actually, wait, not like that. [07:25:11] No, no, no. [07:25:11] That was too aggressive. [07:25:13] The girls, like, buying me shit and spending money. [07:25:16] No, Brian, you don't have to pay for anything. [07:25:17] Let me pay for it. [07:25:18] But she's, like, obsessed with me. === Open Marriage Experiences (13:13) === [07:25:22] I take that trade any single fucking day. [07:25:24] So, for example, I'll take that trade any day. [07:25:26] That's how it was for us. [07:25:27] And, like, let me ask the chat chat, okay, do you take that trade? [07:25:31] So, the trade is okay, you can be a traditional male and be a provider and paying for dates and shit, but she's like on the fence. [07:25:40] You guys have all been there, right? [07:25:41] You take a girl out on a date, she's not really feeling yet, whatever. [07:25:45] And you know, or the girl's paying for shit and she's fucking obsessed with you and simping over you. [07:25:52] I don't know. [07:25:55] Chat, what do you pick? [07:25:57] What do you pick? [07:25:58] I take the trade. [07:25:59] I think I take the fucking trade. [07:26:01] Even if I'm not in my provider role, as long as she can't be masculine, of course. [07:26:07] No. [07:26:07] She has to still be feminine and have that softness to her. [07:26:10] But okay, go ahead. [07:26:11] So, what I was going to say is, for example, my ex, we'd always go to Hawaii all the time and I'd pay for it. [07:26:18] W, good job. [07:26:19] But for example, his dream, his absolute dream in life was to go to Japan and see Mount Fuji. [07:26:26] Personally, I don't think I could do a flight that long, so that wasn't a dream of mine. [07:26:31] And so I saved up a bunch of money and booked that for him for our anniversary so that he could go with his best friend. [07:26:37] And I know that he would never have the opportunity to make the money that I do, so I wanted to make his dream come true, even though I couldn't be a part of it. [07:26:46] And then he cheated on me and left. [07:26:50] Damn, yeah, you got played. [07:26:53] I don't think I got played. [07:26:54] I just think, I mean, kind of. [07:26:56] Well, I mean, I don't think I got played. [07:26:58] It was just like we were together for so long. [07:26:59] Do you think he smashed some Japanese chicks? [07:27:01] No, he was just talking to girls online behind my back. [07:27:04] So it wasn't like. [07:27:06] It was like emotionally. [07:27:07] Shit. [07:27:08] But still, like, I don't regret any of it because, like, at the end of the day, I think it's all about, like, how you treat somebody. [07:27:13] You can't control how they treat you back. [07:27:16] And I was all in it. [07:27:17] Shit. [07:27:18] That's, like, reversal. [07:27:20] But it's okay. [07:27:20] Like, that's, like, the story of dudes who be spending money on a chick doing all this extra shit and then she's not really feeling you. [07:27:29] And then. [07:27:30] But that happened to you. [07:27:32] Like that, I mean, but that's the position. [07:27:34] I honestly, that's the position to be in. [07:27:37] It's okay. [07:27:37] I learned from it. [07:27:38] And now I want to be with you. [07:27:39] Do you want to send me to Japan? [07:27:41] I'm not a, you know what? [07:27:42] It is a long flight. [07:27:43] I got back problems. [07:27:44] I'll accept Hawaii. [07:27:45] I'm a nice guy. [07:27:47] First class, though. [07:27:48] Hawaiian Airlines, book it. [07:27:50] Thank you. [07:27:51] I'll go solo and I'll send you a postcard. [07:27:54] But okay. [07:27:55] Yeah, I mean, I think it's, I mean, that's fucked up. [07:27:59] Obviously, men should. [07:28:01] It is what it is. [07:28:02] Sounds like welcome to being a dude. [07:28:07] I don't know. [07:28:09] Okay. [07:28:10] This is actually, I feel like I'm kind of stingy, not going to lie. [07:28:16] I feel like I really have not. [07:28:20] I don't know. [07:28:23] I think once I have a kid with a girl, then she can get some benefits. [07:28:28] That's fair. [07:28:28] Like, we could be fucking for two years, and I'm like. [07:28:31] What about married? [07:28:34] I don't want to get married. [07:28:35] I'm not going to get married. [07:28:36] Oh, okay. [07:28:36] No marriage for me. [07:28:38] I'll stay with a girl forever, monogamous forever, kids, all that. [07:28:42] But marriage? [07:28:43] Nope. [07:28:44] Unless she's rich. [07:28:45] If she has more money than me, then we can get married. [07:28:49] That's crazy. [07:28:51] If she doesn't have more money than me, we can be together. [07:28:54] Not marriage, though. [07:28:55] Not marriage. [07:28:56] But yeah, I don't know. [07:28:59] Where was I going with that? [07:29:01] Hawaii? [07:29:02] Something about Hawaii? [07:29:04] Yeah. [07:29:05] Shit. [07:29:06] Damn. [07:29:09] Where was I going with that? [07:29:13] To Hawaii? [07:29:14] Being the dude? [07:29:17] Yeah, I don't know. [07:29:18] Aurora. [07:29:20] Oh, wait. [07:29:21] Oh, that's my Instagram name. [07:29:24] That's just what I wrote down. [07:29:26] So you're married, but you had an open marriage at one point. [07:29:30] Yes. [07:29:31] Okay, so polyamory now open for both of you? [07:29:35] Yeah, that's a little different from polyamory because polyamory, you like love a lot of people at the same time, but open marriage doesn't need that. [07:29:44] Like, you can just like sleep with people. [07:29:47] Okay. [07:29:48] Sorry, Chloe's BBL is getting in the way. [07:29:52] It's hard for her to get over it. [07:29:54] You guys have to make. [07:29:56] Give Chloe a wide berth so she can get her BBL. [07:30:02] Careful, Chloe. [07:30:03] You almost fell out the window with your BBL. [07:30:05] That's crazy, Chloe. [07:30:06] Jeez, what is she doing? [07:30:08] This Chloe girl. [07:30:09] Is this your second or third BBL, Chloe? [07:30:14] I love her. [07:30:15] Girl. [07:30:16] I'm sorry. [07:30:17] Girl, please. [07:30:18] Girl, please. [07:30:20] Okay, so open marriage. [07:30:21] Chloe has a great body, though. [07:30:22] You have a great body. [07:30:23] She has an amazing body. [07:30:25] I'm back. [07:30:26] Sorry. [07:30:28] Is she in the bathroom? [07:30:29] No, she's right there. [07:30:30] Oh, shit. [07:30:31] I was about to talk shit about Chloe. [07:30:32] Just kidding. [07:30:33] I love Chloe. [07:30:34] Chloe's my homegirl. [07:30:35] Chloe's got a centaur body. [07:30:37] You know what I'm talking about? [07:30:38] What? [07:30:39] That's like the thing on the horse. [07:30:40] I've never heard of that. [07:30:41] You're an owl. [07:30:42] So she's built like a horse? [07:30:44] No, like a centaur. [07:30:45] The centaurs are half human, half horse. [07:30:47] Right. [07:30:48] And like the girls with the BBL and the hip thing. [07:30:52] She's laughing back there. [07:30:53] She thinks it's funny. [07:30:54] She's like, here, Google, find the Wikipedia page for centaur. [07:30:59] I think we. [07:31:00] No, what is centaur? [07:31:01] Some people don't know. [07:31:01] I'm gonna show Chloe when she's back. [07:31:03] Oh no. [07:31:03] I'm gonna show the centaur. [07:31:06] Maybe that's a compliment. [07:31:07] She's built like a centaur, bro. [07:31:08] That would not compliment me, though. [07:31:10] It's okay. [07:31:11] I'm built like a fucking marshmallow. [07:31:12] Like, what the fuck? [07:31:13] That's a compliment. [07:31:13] Marshmallows are yummy. [07:31:15] Whoa, okay. [07:31:15] Pump the brakes. [07:31:16] Whoa, not like that. [07:31:17] Not like that. [07:31:18] Relax. [07:31:18] Not like that. [07:31:19] I meant everybody looks more. [07:31:20] Yeah, it's like Megan the Stallion. [07:31:21] Like, she's built like a horse, right? [07:31:22] Like, that's like, that's a compliment. [07:31:24] Whoa. [07:31:24] Is that not a compliment? [07:31:25] Yeah, that's a compliment. [07:31:26] That's true. [07:31:26] I guess. [07:31:27] Okay, open marriage. [07:31:28] So, how long was it open for and how soon into the marriage? [07:31:33] The longest, it was open for about eight months. [07:31:37] Oh, so it was open multiple times? [07:31:39] So you would open, close, open, close, open, close, snip, snap, snip, snap? [07:31:45] Yes. [07:31:46] How many? [07:31:47] Okay, how many times? [07:31:48] Like three times. [07:31:49] Three times? [07:31:50] Yeah. [07:31:51] Okay, so longest was eight months. [07:31:54] And how soon into the marriage did it open up? [07:31:57] So that's the longest time. [07:31:59] And it's like long, long by far. [07:32:01] The longest by far. [07:32:02] No, but how? [07:32:03] It was about. [07:32:05] One year in, two years in? [07:32:06] No, it was four, five years into the marriage. [07:32:13] Four years, I think. [07:32:14] Yeah. [07:32:15] Okay. [07:32:16] And was it ever open before the marriage? [07:32:19] Yes, but we actually didn't do anything. [07:32:21] Just like there wasn't someone that either of us really liked when we opened it up before. [07:32:29] As far as you know? [07:32:30] No, like if he did, he would tell me. [07:32:32] Okay. [07:32:32] Like during this period when it was open, he told me about his encounter. [07:32:37] Okay, I see. [07:32:38] So, three separate times it was open. [07:32:42] How many? [07:32:43] I mean, there's three. [07:32:44] Let's just assume it's just like one big open thing. [07:32:47] Okay. [07:32:48] How many other men were you with? [07:32:50] All together, I think four. [07:32:53] And how many women was he with? [07:32:56] I think one to two. [07:32:58] Ooh, that's, ooh, it stinks. [07:33:01] Ooh, that stinks. [07:33:02] You can't, the woman can't fuck more. [07:33:05] You know? [07:33:06] You know what I mean? [07:33:06] Like, if you're going to have an open marriage. [07:33:08] Who, wait, ooh, good question. [07:33:11] Whose idea was it to open the marriage? [07:33:15] It was mine. [07:33:16] All three times? [07:33:18] Yes. [07:33:19] And then what about prior to the marriage? [07:33:20] You said it was open then? [07:33:22] Yeah, it was. [07:33:24] I've had a polyamorous encounter before with other people. [07:33:27] Oh, you've been poly in like other people before you met your husband? [07:33:31] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [07:33:32] Ooh, okay. [07:33:33] But when I say before the marriage, like you guys were dating, obviously, for a period of time before you got married, and it was an open relationship, correct? [07:33:41] So it usually happens when we're apart, like physically apart. [07:33:46] But it was also open before the marriage for a period of time. [07:33:52] Like when we're apart sometimes. [07:33:55] When you say apart, are you talking distance, long distance? [07:33:57] Yeah, physically. [07:33:58] Long distance. [07:33:58] And it's always been your idea to have an open marriage. [07:34:02] Yes. [07:34:03] Now, the first time you ever brought it up, I suppose this is even before you got married, was he resistant? [07:34:13] No. [07:34:14] He was for it? [07:34:15] He was not opposed, but he's never done it before. [07:34:21] Now, a question for you. [07:34:22] The first time you opened up the relationship, the person that you had this extra relationship affair with, Did you know him prior to the opening? [07:34:37] No. [07:34:38] Of the relationship? [07:34:39] No. [07:34:41] Of any of the men during the open period? [07:34:44] None. [07:34:45] Did you know them prior to the opening? [07:34:48] No. [07:34:50] How did you meet them? [07:34:52] Same way I meet my husband. [07:34:54] I met my husband. [07:34:55] Tinder, apps, or like IRL, like in person. [07:34:59] And your husband's only been with, you said, one? [07:35:01] I think one to two. [07:35:03] Yeah. [07:35:03] Wait, what do you mean one to two? [07:35:04] I thought you guys could be two. [07:35:05] He told me about one. [07:35:07] And then one was like a shitty blowjob. [07:35:09] Yeah, he didn't really go into other encounters. [07:35:12] So he didn't fuck. [07:35:14] He didn't fuck, but he got like a shitty handjob. [07:35:16] I don't know. [07:35:17] I'm going to speak for him. [07:35:17] That's like a quarter of a body. [07:35:20] A handjob's like a quarter of a body. [07:35:22] I feel like I got started asking the girls, what's your blowjob count or something? [07:35:26] What? [07:35:26] That shit's got way higher. [07:35:28] You forgot, bro? [07:35:29] Yeah. [07:35:30] 200? [07:35:30] What? [07:35:30] Really? [07:35:31] I don't know. [07:35:31] Who counts this thing? [07:35:32] Who blowjobs count? [07:35:34] Like, moral sex is still sex. [07:35:35] When I say a blowjob count, I don't mean like, You sucked one dude's dick 200 times. [07:35:40] No, I mean, like individual dicks. [07:35:42] Oh, no, no, that's what I did. [07:35:44] I sucked one dude's dick like 200 times. [07:35:46] Oh, no, I'm saying like, so the blowjob count would be like you sucked the dick of 20 guys. [07:35:54] Nope, just one guy. [07:35:55] You've only sucked one dick. [07:35:57] No, no, no, no, like three dicks. [07:35:59] Yeah, at the same time. [07:36:00] No, what the fuck? [07:36:02] What? [07:36:02] What? [07:36:03] Brian, what are you insinuating on me that you must have a big mouthful? [07:36:09] All that space. [07:36:10] What the fuck? [07:36:11] What? [07:36:11] Three at the same time? [07:36:12] Who's fitting that? [07:36:13] No, it's four. [07:36:14] It's one after. [07:36:15] Never mind. [07:36:15] That's not at the same time? [07:36:16] Yeah. [07:36:17] That's just in the same session? [07:36:18] Same time? [07:36:19] I don't know. [07:36:20] Okay. [07:36:20] Open marriage. [07:36:21] Back to the open marriage. [07:36:22] So I can share the context. [07:36:24] Sure. [07:36:25] Okay. [07:36:28] We had been living in Shanghai for seven years. [07:36:30] Before that, I didn't speak very good Chinese. [07:36:32] And then I finally learned and I wanted to date in Chinese. [07:36:36] I had never done it before. [07:36:38] So then we. [07:36:39] And then COVID happened, and then we were separated for about three months. [07:36:43] During that time, I started, I told him, I was like, I'm curious about dating. [07:36:47] A Chinese guy, are you open to it? [07:36:49] And he's like, okay, then I'm going to start dating in the US. [07:36:52] And I was like, all right. [07:36:53] So then I did. [07:36:56] And what I learned from that, which I didn't realize before, was that the third person or whoever the extra person is, it's really painful for them, which I didn't realize. [07:37:09] Wait, it's painful? [07:37:11] Yeah, it's like tough for them to. [07:37:13] For your husband? [07:37:14] For my husband, and also, it was a little uncomfortable for my husband, but also, It was tough for the third person, the person I was dating. [07:37:23] Yeah, because they want to be with you or whatever. [07:37:25] Yeah, and I think that realization was like, I didn't think of that. [07:37:30] And you also said that, and I'm going to come back to some of the open marriage stuff. [07:37:35] When it was open, it was the first time you dated within your race during the open marriage. [07:37:39] Yeah. [07:37:40] So you're like, you're 36 or 34? [07:37:42] Yeah, so I'm 34. [07:37:43] Wait, you're 34? [07:37:44] I'm 34. [07:37:45] And so, like, the first time you ever dated an Asian guy or I guess a Chinese guy, you were? [07:37:51] Early 30s. [07:37:52] Damn. [07:37:53] Yeah, because I grew up in New Zealand. [07:37:55] That'd be like me saying, the first time I fucked a white woman, it was 30 years old. [07:38:02] Yeah, I grew up. [07:38:03] Before then, I only fucked Asian women. [07:38:05] I grew up in New Zealand. [07:38:06] You know what I mean? [07:38:07] I did not have any Asians around me during my. [07:38:10] New Zealand? [07:38:11] Yeah, age 12 to 17. [07:38:13] There's some. [07:38:13] I grew up in Timaru, two hours out of Christchurch. [07:38:16] There's no Asians there. [07:38:18] I can find you some Asians in New Zealand. [07:38:20] Oh, I mean, you weren't there when I was going through this. [07:38:23] Right, put me anywhere. [07:38:25] I will find you an Asian. [07:38:26] I will find you an Asian, yeah. [07:38:29] I think I wanted to experiment. [07:38:31] There's a will, there's a way. [07:38:34] I mean, find you a blasian. === Cheating Double Standards (14:42) === [07:38:36] All right, all right. [07:38:37] Uh, okay, so open marriage, it was your idea every single time, and he was okay with it. [07:38:46] I gotta be honest, if it's the woman's idea. [07:38:56] But if it's the guys, it's okay? [07:38:59] Well, so I'm not really. [07:39:03] Why is it different? [07:39:04] Look, I think traditional dynamics, one man, one woman, ideal. [07:39:11] I don't think it's typically good for, on the sort of individual level, societal level, for there to be polyamory, polygamy, et cetera. [07:39:24] But yes, it is different. [07:39:27] It is different, and it is a terrible double standard. [07:39:30] Terrible double standard, but it's a valid one. [07:39:34] So if the woman, here's the difference, and you guys are gonna fucking hate this. [07:39:39] All of you are gonna fucking hate me. [07:39:42] A man, like, okay, just to be clear, I'm cool with monogamy. [07:39:49] Like, I can be with one girl. [07:39:50] I'm not trying to, but I'm gonna be honest with you. [07:39:56] I could fuck another woman and still love my girl. [07:39:59] Dude, somebody just told me this. [07:40:01] I agree. [07:40:01] A girl cannot. [07:40:03] If a girl is fucking another man, she cannot love you. [07:40:08] That is inaccurate. [07:40:09] Hey, I don't care what you, you might be like, I still love my husband. [07:40:12] I don't care if I could fuck, and I can be loyal, but I'm just saying, I could fuck another woman and still be fucking head over heels in love with my girlfriend. [07:40:28] Because you're not emotional like women, right? [07:40:31] However, if a girl is fucking around on her boyfriend, She doesn't love him. [07:40:38] Yes. [07:40:38] That is your opinion, and that is untrue in my lived experience. [07:40:42] Well, okay, so I understand that there are outliers and sometimes women cheat and they fucked up. [07:40:51] However, I do think there's a component where, look, hey, I don't know, it is what it is. [07:40:57] Don't shoot the messenger, but yeah, you could. [07:41:02] I think it's different. [07:41:02] And also, it's kind of just more gross when women do that. [07:41:08] What? [07:41:08] Why? [07:41:09] I'll explain it. [07:41:10] I'll explain it. [07:41:11] So, again, and by the way, cheating is bad. [07:41:14] Nobody cheat. [07:41:14] Don't cheat. [07:41:15] Don't cheat on your husband. [07:41:16] Don't cheat on your wife. [07:41:17] Don't cheat on your girlfriend. [07:41:18] Don't cheat on your boyfriend. [07:41:20] But I'm just saying a guy could fuck another woman and still love his girl. [07:41:27] So, okay, but why is it gross? [07:41:29] Why is it gross, you might ask? [07:41:31] Well, I'll tell you this much. [07:41:33] So, if I have 10 women, there's 10 of you. [07:41:40] There are? [07:41:41] Your math is terrible. [07:41:42] Wait. [07:41:43] Yeah. [07:41:43] Yeah, there's four here. [07:41:44] If I had 10. [07:41:46] Well, Tiffany's here too. [07:41:48] If I had 11 wives, 11 concubines, and they're all loyal to me, and I'm the, I mean, they're loyal, so I'm the only one who's having sex with them. [07:42:00] In each instance, we know who the father is and we know who the mother is. [07:42:06] If you're a woman and you have 11 husbands, and they're all loyal to you, and you're fucking all of them at the same time, who the fuck is the father? [07:42:17] Who's the father of the kid? [07:42:19] And they're all blasting around the same time, whatever. [07:42:22] Who's the dad? [07:42:23] We don't fucking know. [07:42:26] That's why it's more acceptable. [07:42:30] Because if you get pregnant, you know you're the mom. [07:42:33] If I knock up one of you, unless I have you on 24 hour surveillance, and even then, you women are sneaky fucks when you're going to cheat. [07:42:43] True. [07:42:45] There's no way for us guys to really know. [07:42:50] Like when women cheat, they're sneaky as fuck about it. [07:42:52] Like sometimes you fucking know, as far as I know, I haven't been cheated on, but women are. [07:42:58] How do you fucking know? [07:42:59] Okay, because men get sloppy when they cheat. [07:43:01] Men make that shit. [07:43:02] They just are stupid when they. [07:43:03] Yeah, they're sloppy. [07:43:04] By the way, don't cheat. [07:43:04] But the point is, if y'all fucking with multiple men, you got 10 husbands, who's the father of the kid? [07:43:12] Now, oh, okay, Brian, there's DNA testing. [07:43:14] Let's go back 60 years. [07:43:17] Let's go back when evolutionary psychology, let's go back. [07:43:24] Men are more invested in women's purity. [07:43:27] Men are more invested in lack of promiscuity in women. [07:43:32] Because if I'm going to be investing my resources and taking care of you and protecting you and providing for you, and the kid's not mine, like women never have to worry. [07:43:40] Women can never worry about this. [07:43:42] This is a fear women can never have. [07:43:44] The kid's not yours. [07:43:46] You know, if you pump a kid out of you, that's your kid. [07:43:50] Like that's you. [07:43:52] Whereas, like men, it's a massive L for us to be. [07:43:55] Tricked to be duped to be lied to, it's your kid, but it's not your kid. [07:44:02] How you gonna invest all that time and resource and love? [07:44:06] That's like a double, triple, quadruple fuckery. [07:44:11] Now you're loving, you got love for a kid that's not your blood. [07:44:15] Fuck them, no offense to the kid. [07:44:16] Nah, fuck the kid. [07:44:17] Like, I mean, it's not the kid's fault, but like, well, not like that. [07:44:22] I what the fuck? [07:44:22] Not like, yeah, what the fuck, weirdo? [07:44:25] But, like, honestly, look, this is going to sound fucking terrible, but I'm going to just tell you point blank. [07:44:30] If I'm with a girl and she gets pregnant, and I think it's my kid, and she tells me it's my kid, and then two years later, three years later, four years later, I find out it's not my kid. [07:44:43] That's not my fucking kid. [07:44:45] Yeah. [07:44:45] It's over. [07:44:47] The relationship's over. [07:44:49] I can't. [07:44:50] You know what? [07:44:50] There's some shit I can't say on stream. [07:44:52] I'm going to be honest. [07:44:53] If a woman played me that bad, you are not the one. [07:44:58] I'm not going to say anything on stream. [07:45:00] But if I got played that fucking bad by a chick. [07:45:03] That's insane. [07:45:05] If I got. [07:45:08] You can't even think about it. [07:45:10] So. [07:45:10] But hold on. [07:45:11] Wait, really quick, really quick. [07:45:13] So. [07:45:14] Where was I going? [07:45:15] Oh, yeah. [07:45:16] I'm just honestly like. [07:45:20] I think I have to abandon the child. [07:45:22] Yeah, I would too. [07:45:23] I think I have to abandon the child. [07:45:24] Like, honestly, it's not my fucking blood. [07:45:27] Like, I got duped. [07:45:28] Fuck her. [07:45:29] It's over. [07:45:30] You're done. [07:45:32] Like, I'm actually crushed, though. [07:45:35] Actually crushed. [07:45:37] That would be so crushing. [07:45:39] But yeah, right, chat? [07:45:40] I don't know. [07:45:41] Maybe that makes me a dick. [07:45:43] But. [07:45:45] I get it. [07:45:47] I'm sorry, it's not my blood. [07:45:49] I got duped. [07:45:50] I'm a sucker. [07:45:53] So, in that condition. [07:45:54] I might do prison time, though. [07:45:55] I'm not going to fucking lie, to be honest. [07:45:57] I might do fucking prison time if that happens to me. [07:46:00] But, anyways. [07:46:01] In that condition. [07:46:02] I'm not a violent person. [07:46:03] I might do prison time. [07:46:04] This person cheated, so didn't tell you and then lied to you, right? [07:46:09] She didn't tell you honest information two times in a row. [07:46:15] I think that's a different situation. [07:46:16] In a video game. [07:46:17] Yeah, I think that's a different situation. [07:46:20] We did talk about a lot of these things. [07:46:22] The open period did allow us to have a lot of these honest conversations, which is why, actually, after that last time, we decided to close it and we're not going to open in the foreseeable future because of some of the problems and some of the potential questions that it's brought up. [07:46:40] Here's my thinking, right? [07:46:41] If my girl, so, okay, put all the bastard child shit to the side. [07:46:48] My girl comes to me and she's like, hey, Brian, I want to fuck other men, which is what an open relationship is. [07:46:55] I'm like, excuse me, bitch. [07:46:58] And I don't call women bitch, by the way. [07:47:00] Like, if I'm dating a girl, I'd never call her a bitch. [07:47:02] Okay. [07:47:03] In that moment, I'd call her a bitch. [07:47:05] Excuse me, bitch. [07:47:06] Excuse me. [07:47:08] And I'd be black for 10 seconds. [07:47:11] What'd you say to me? [07:47:12] Sorry. [07:47:13] Okay. [07:47:13] Sorry. [07:47:14] It's very country. [07:47:15] I'm being cringe. [07:47:16] Very country. [07:47:18] Oh, gosh. [07:47:20] First off, the relationship's immediately over. [07:47:26] If a girl ever came to me and was like, I want an open relationship, she might cut. [07:47:31] If she comes to me and she's like, Brian, listen, I know we already fuck once a day, but I see your sexual prowess and I wish for you to have sex with other women. [07:47:41] I'll remain loyal to you, Brian, and you can fuck other women. [07:47:43] I might be willing to hear her out because I'm a nice guy. [07:47:47] I'm a nice guy. [07:47:48] I'm a nice guy. [07:47:49] Hey, I'm generous. [07:47:50] Look, if my girlfriend comes to me and is like, Look, I will always be loyal to you, Brian. [07:47:57] I only want you. [07:47:58] I only want you romantically, sexually, other, I don't know what other ways, okay. [07:48:07] You can fuck other women, I'll accept it. [07:48:10] That's okay. [07:48:10] You want to have that open? [07:48:11] Fine. [07:48:13] If you insist, I guess. [07:48:16] I guess I can go fuck other women. [07:48:18] If you insist. [07:48:21] But a girl comes to me and she says she wants to fuck other men, I'm. [07:48:29] I don't even think I'm going to ask her a question. [07:48:31] I'm just going to be like, oh, you want an open relationship? [07:48:36] That's an open door right there. [07:48:38] Get the fuck out. [07:48:39] Out you fucking go. [07:48:40] Oh, no, I didn't mean it. [07:48:41] I'm sorry, I take it back. [07:48:42] I don't want to open it. [07:48:43] I don't give a fuck. [07:48:45] Out you go. [07:48:46] Out the fucking door. [07:48:48] Out you. [07:48:49] We have a dog together. [07:48:50] It's my dog now. [07:48:51] That's what happened to me. [07:48:52] We have a house together. [07:48:54] Well, fucking breaking the lease then, motherfucker. [07:48:58] I'm just saying. [07:49:00] No? [07:49:01] I condone that. [07:49:01] Look, I'm just saying. [07:49:03] A girl comes to me and wants to fuck another man. [07:49:05] Oh my God. [07:49:06] Yeah. [07:49:07] Ugh. [07:49:08] Ew. [07:49:10] Disgusting. [07:49:11] I don't know. [07:49:11] I don't like sharing my husband. [07:49:13] I wouldn't want to share my man. [07:49:14] If my man said, Oh, you're not doing enough for me. [07:49:16] I need more sex. [07:49:17] I'm doing it. [07:49:18] I'll give you more head. [07:49:19] I'll practice. [07:49:21] Like, I don't want you fucking another girl. [07:49:23] I'm not saying I'm gonna go for the open relationship, but it's like a girl comes to me and wants to have another man. [07:49:31] Are you fucking out of your mind? [07:49:33] That's nasty. [07:49:33] If this was the 1950s, I'm just kidding. [07:49:36] What if you're not doing it enough, though? [07:49:38] Like, what if she wants it like 12 times a day and you're only getting like three, four? [07:49:41] Oh, she's got the higher sex drive? [07:49:42] Yeah. [07:49:43] Then she's gotta, hey, she's gotta suffer a little bit. [07:49:45] Is she local? [07:49:46] She's gotta suffer for the relationship, though. [07:49:49] And you too? [07:49:50] Hey man, look, men have a refractory period. [07:49:55] Men have a refractory period. [07:49:58] Us men, we can't be, we can't be, look, some men can do it. [07:50:01] Some men are studs. [07:50:02] Maybe I'm over here. [07:50:03] Look, I'm honestly happy once, twice a day. [07:50:06] Like, I don't even need it once. [07:50:08] I could go every other day. [07:50:10] Like, I don't need sex all that much. [07:50:12] So, yeah, there are some women that just need the constant dick. [07:50:15] It's constant. [07:50:17] I've had women try, like, Brian, I need some dick. [07:50:19] I'm like, I'm tired. [07:50:20] I've told the girl I have a headache. [07:50:24] I've been the one like, nah, relax. [07:50:28] Wait. [07:50:29] Patience. [07:50:31] Relax, lady. [07:50:34] Blue ball yourself. [07:50:35] Tomorrow, wait. [07:50:38] And if she breaks up with you over it? [07:50:42] Because that was the part that women would never break up with me over it. [07:50:44] I see. [07:50:45] Oh my God. [07:50:46] Okay. [07:50:47] Never mind. [07:50:48] Yeah, I feel like women are able to be celibate more than men are. [07:50:51] Like, men are like, oh, well, I just needed sex. [07:50:53] Like, I don't want to be in a relationship. [07:50:54] No, I mean, look, if I wasn't fucking her for three months, maybe that's fair. [07:50:57] But, nah, but I don't think that's the issue. [07:51:01] I think it's not that the woman needs more frequent dick. [07:51:05] She wants different dick. [07:51:06] That's not why open. [07:51:07] I don't really think that's why people have open marriages. [07:51:10] You're married, just. [07:51:11] And usually men have the higher sex drive, generally speaking. [07:51:15] I mean, was that the reason for you? [07:51:17] Your husband didn't want to fuck you? [07:51:18] How? [07:51:18] I just stabbed myself. [07:51:20] Yeah, I'm good. [07:51:23] Usually the. [07:51:24] It's not the. [07:51:24] Sometimes the woman wants to fuck too much. [07:51:27] But then you got to tell her to calm down. [07:51:29] Go watch. [07:51:30] Oprah or some shit. [07:51:31] And then it's good. [07:51:32] Then she's good. [07:51:33] Yeah. [07:51:33] Like. [07:51:35] But. [07:51:37] No, so for you, when you open the marriage, it's like. [07:51:40] It's like I'm in a new place or like. [07:51:43] But it's because you wanted novelty. [07:51:46] It wasn't because you weren't getting enough dick. [07:51:48] It's because you wanted new dick. [07:51:50] You wanted novelty dick. [07:51:51] You wanted some Chinese dick. [07:51:54] You wanted some Barracuda dick. [07:51:57] You wanted some Gorilla dick. [07:51:58] I don't know what. [07:52:00] Wait, okay, whoa, that's crazy. [07:52:01] Never mind. [07:52:02] You were not fucking animals, to be clear. [07:52:04] Yeah. [07:52:06] She wanted to try something new. [07:52:08] Yeah. [07:52:09] And to be fair, it's not for everyone. [07:52:10] And I do think there are times where a woman can separate sex and feelings. [07:52:17] And, you know, maybe not as well as men can. [07:52:19] I don't really know. [07:52:20] But I don't think ever in that period I lost sight of the fact that I love my husband. [07:52:26] And, like, when I saw some of the complications it was causing, we ended up closing it. [07:52:33] But you opened it on four separate occasions. [07:52:36] Four separate occasions. [07:52:37] And it's like, man, this gotta be brutal. [07:52:40] Like, oh shit, we closed it. [07:52:41] Wait, who was trying to close it? [07:52:44] Was it him? [07:52:44] No, it's just like when we stop being physically distant, like when we go back to the same place, usually. [07:52:52] I don't know. [07:52:54] I just think it's an L as the guy. [07:52:58] If your woman wants, hey, if your woman wants a new dick, stop. [07:53:03] She belongs to the streets. [07:53:05] Back to the streets. [07:53:06] Be single. [07:53:07] No, just be, look, be single. [07:53:08] You want dick? [07:53:09] Like, I think men should be, look, if you're in a relationship with a chick and you need some new pussy. [07:53:14] You got to break up with your girl. [07:53:16] Just be single. === Shower After Intercourse (09:07) === [07:53:18] You know? [07:53:20] She's got an Innie. [07:53:21] You want a girl with an Audi. [07:53:23] You got to dump her. [07:53:24] It is what it is. [07:53:25] Sorry, ladies. [07:53:29] Okay, good talk. [07:53:32] I'm just kidding. [07:53:33] You know, the thing is, if a girl has an Innie, I'll still date her. [07:53:36] What does that mean? [07:53:37] Resentfully, I'll be resentful. [07:53:39] I'm not against Innie. [07:53:39] Like, I'll be resentful in the relationship, but. [07:53:42] Well, I'm kidding. [07:53:43] But she has to make up for it. [07:53:45] You know how, like, Short guys have to make up for it in other ways. [07:53:48] Yeah, it has to compensate more. [07:53:50] A woman who has an Innie has to make up for it. [07:53:52] Are you serious? [07:53:53] I'm dead serious. [07:53:53] Why? [07:53:55] Because she doesn't have an Audi. [07:53:56] Why is that important? [07:53:58] Why is the Audi important? [07:54:00] Yes. [07:54:00] Versus an Innie. [07:54:01] Are you feeling a little self conscious? [07:54:03] No, a little. [07:54:04] Okay. [07:54:05] You see, I'm covering my stomach. [07:54:07] Why does she have to make up for it? [07:54:09] Yeah. [07:54:10] You know, because she doesn't have a characteristic that I want. [07:54:20] So she's got to make up for it. [07:54:21] Okay. [07:54:23] She's got to make that steak extra better. [07:54:26] She's got to do my laundry extra better. [07:54:29] She's got to clean extra better. [07:54:31] She's got to have skills extra better. [07:54:37] Okay, moving on. [07:54:38] Next topic. [07:54:39] But yeah, my advice to men no offense to your husband. [07:54:47] If your girlfriend or wife wants to open the relationship, Bro, you're not going to convince her. [07:54:56] You're not going to. [07:54:58] There's no conversation. [07:54:59] It's over. [07:55:01] Your girl even thinks. [07:55:03] Bro, you need to be on some minority report shit, precognition. [07:55:08] Like, if you even. [07:55:09] She's thinking about that shit, it's over. [07:55:13] I feel like the minority report is like aging me. [07:55:17] What is that? [07:55:18] It is. [07:55:18] It's like a movie from the early 2000s with Tom Cruise where there are these weird fucking things in like pools or something. [07:55:25] These like alien human things that could like tell when somebody was going to commit a crime before they commit a crime. [07:55:33] That's so smart. [07:55:34] I'm butchering the plot synopsis, but that's basically it. [07:55:40] So you got to be on some minority pre crime, you got to be on some minority report shit. [07:55:45] If this woman's even thinking about other dick, it's over. [07:55:51] If she's thinking about pussy too, it's also over. [07:55:54] If she's thinking about some pussy, also over. [07:55:59] If she's willing to bring you pussy, I'll think about it. [07:56:02] Okay. [07:56:03] Oh my God. [07:56:03] Next topic interracial dating. [07:56:09] Me? [07:56:15] You, no, the, Oh. [07:56:24] Yeah. [07:56:26] Now that I've watched the whole streams, I know what I'm trying to think. [07:56:34] Okay, changed your mind. [07:56:35] Yeah. [07:56:36] You said it carries the conversation under the male gaze. [07:56:38] What does that mean? [07:56:40] Well, case in point, you just used your perspective to tell your audience what to do. [07:56:46] That's your perspective. [07:56:47] You're a male. [07:56:49] No, Hold on. [07:56:51] Rewind the tape. [07:56:53] Rewind. [07:56:54] Well, it's not really a rewind, it's more of a record stuff. [07:57:00] So, fuck opinions. [07:57:06] I'm speaking facts, son. [07:57:08] This is, hold on. [07:57:09] What I'm saying here is not just the male opinion, it's not the male. [07:57:13] If your woman wants other dick, beside, I'll break it down as simple as possible. [07:57:20] Your girl wants other dick, no longer does she get your dick. [07:57:27] Your woman, she wants fuck other men, you know fucky fucky no more. [07:57:34] No more, let me long time. [07:57:36] No more fucky fucky. [07:57:38] Woman, your girl, your girl, oh no, want fuck other men. [07:57:47] You know her, no more. [07:57:50] Okay, you sound weird. [07:57:52] I just the eye contact is just like killing me with who. [07:57:58] Oh, I don't know. [07:57:59] Um, but you think that's the male gaze? [07:58:03] Is like, hold on, can't wait, wait, couldn't it? [07:58:08] Doesn't even seem like it's gendered. [07:58:10] If you're in a relationship, I think it's okay for women, it's certainly okay, just as valid for women to be like, the boyfriend goes to her, hey, I want to other women. [07:58:20] And the woman, it's totally like the okay for the woman to be like, um, no, it's over. [07:58:28] Yeah, this is not a male thing. [07:58:31] If fine, I'll make it gender neutral. [07:58:34] If your boyfriend or girlfriend, your wife or husband wants to fuck other people, it's over. [07:58:42] But it's more gross if it's the woman who wants to fuck other men. [07:58:46] So that particular statement, right? [07:58:48] Okay, so maybe I'll turn to the panel. [07:58:50] Do you guys feel like the podcast is often spoken under the male gaze? [07:58:55] Or no, or you think it's quite fair? [07:58:57] I think it's quite fair. [07:58:58] I think it's quite fair. [07:58:59] Yeah, because I think women want to be led by a man. [07:59:05] Like, realistically, we don't really want to think about our future, think about things like that. [07:59:10] Like, we want to trust our husband, and that's really why traditional values should kind of follow into today's modern dating. [07:59:17] W. [07:59:17] I also agree with Brian when he's saying that it's more gross for a girl to cheat than a guy because. [07:59:26] Like a guy can, like, have sex with a girl and then, like, take a shower and, like, it's gone. [07:59:33] Yes. [07:59:34] But it's like a girl. [07:59:35] You're learning. [07:59:36] Yes. [07:59:37] You're learning. [07:59:37] Like a guy, like, comes in you or just, like, even fucks you. [07:59:41] Like, that's, like, inside of you. [07:59:43] Like, you're not, you can't really do anything about that. [07:59:48] Wow. [07:59:48] Oh, my God. [07:59:50] She's so fucking right. [07:59:51] It actually, she's true. [07:59:52] She's true. [07:59:54] I didn't actually let on to that. [07:59:56] One of the big things. [07:59:59] Well, I mean, she already pretty much perfectly stated it. [08:00:02] If I fuck a girl and I take a shower after, I'm like a. [08:00:08] Let's remove STDs from both scenarios. [08:00:11] STDs gone. [08:00:13] I could fuck a girl and I take a shower, I'm like good as new. [08:00:18] Is this satire? [08:00:20] No, it's. [08:00:20] Wait, listen up. [08:00:21] Listen up. [08:00:22] If I have sex with a girl and I take a shower after, good as new, I might as well be a fucking virgin. [08:00:29] Might as well be a virgin. [08:00:30] Virgin dick. [08:00:31] No STDs, right? [08:00:33] A woman fucks a guy and the guy came inside her. [08:00:41] That's like a 72 hour waiting period. [08:00:45] Even after he doesn't even come, you're still stretched out or you've had dick in you. [08:00:53] A guy is the same. [08:00:56] You know what I mean? [08:00:59] Girls can be sore after, or it's just completely different, I think. [08:01:04] Personally. [08:01:05] Well, yeah, but the primary thing here is okay, as a guy, if I come inside a girl, if I come inside a girl and then I shower after, I don't care if she's got the fuck, her pussy's like Niagara Falls. [08:01:17] I don't care how wet the pussy is. [08:01:19] I don't care if she's a squirter. [08:01:21] I don't care if she's like grueling. [08:01:24] Is that the fucking word? [08:01:25] Gruel? [08:01:25] She's literally like, she ejaculates so much. [08:01:30] Well, I'm just saying, I'm just saying, I take a shower. [08:01:35] I'm good. [08:01:37] If you're getting blasted inside by a semen demon and the guy's got like multiple strings of cum, just it's like insane. [08:01:44] It's like boom, and it's like you're literally leaking with this fucking cum. [08:01:49] That shit's in there for three days. [08:01:50] So I think that's what I'm saying. [08:01:52] You're leaking out another man's cum because women, you're not supposed to clean in there. [08:01:56] Like you're not supposed to douche. [08:01:58] You're not supposed to douche. [08:01:59] Like the vagina is self cleaning. [08:02:01] So you're not supposed to put soap in there. [08:02:04] You can't put soap in the vagina. [08:02:06] You're going to throw your shit off. [08:02:07] So that's why it's worse if a woman cheats because there's. [08:02:14] If I fuck a girl and I shower right after, I'm good as new. [08:02:21] So that particular example aside. [08:02:25] That's a big example. === Illegal Immigrants Housing (16:10) === [08:02:26] It is one big example, but there's also other examples of where I think for you, the purpose of like. [08:02:32] The point you're trying to get across is that there are many cases where returning to traditional values is better for modern dating. [08:02:40] Is that fair to say? [08:02:42] Yes. [08:02:43] Okay. [08:02:44] Sorry, it's the champagne. [08:02:46] In a traditional gender roled environment, male is more dominant. [08:02:52] Yes. [08:02:52] And therefore, things are spoken through the male gaze because the male is more dominant and therefore control the perspective. [08:02:58] Patriarchy is the state, though. [08:02:59] So that is my statement. [08:03:01] That is the purpose of my statement. [08:03:02] Yes, but women should acquiesce to the male order of things. [08:03:09] Whether a woman would is different from whether a woman should. [08:03:13] You're saying they should, but that doesn't mean they would. [08:03:15] I would, could, all of the above, green eggs and ham. [08:03:19] I do declare, Sam, I am. [08:03:20] Yeah, I should have, I could have. [08:03:22] If men are in charge, society functions. [08:03:26] Back to patriarchy, back to male order. [08:03:29] Fuck the sex work. [08:03:31] Bad. [08:03:32] Bad. [08:03:33] Go stand in the corner and think about what you've done. [08:03:35] It's because I'm black. [08:03:36] Go into the corner. [08:03:37] Think about what you've done. [08:03:38] Oh, my God. [08:03:39] Yeah, actually, just that window, stand up and face the window. [08:03:43] Face the window. [08:03:44] Pull your dress down a bit. [08:03:45] No, no, no. [08:03:46] Face the window. [08:03:47] Think about what you've done. [08:03:50] Think about what you've done. [08:03:51] You know what? [08:03:53] I'm going to send you guys next. [08:03:55] I'm sending you both to think of. [08:03:57] No, hey. [08:03:58] Good girls. [08:03:59] Look out the window. [08:04:00] Actually, there's a. [08:04:01] So there's actually. [08:04:02] You can see your eyes, right? [08:04:04] Wait, can you see your eyes? [08:04:05] Can you see your reflection in the window? [08:04:07] I can. [08:04:08] I want you to look deep in your own eyes. [08:04:11] And just look deep into your soul. [08:04:14] Real black. [08:04:15] And think about. [08:04:19] Think about what you've done. [08:04:22] Can you see me in here? [08:04:24] No, I can't see you. [08:04:26] Think about what you've done, and maybe you'll change your way. [08:04:32] I think she'll change her way, boys. [08:04:35] Can I sit down now? [08:04:36] No, you have to stay there for two minutes and think about it. [08:04:40] Okay, so, anyways, where were we? [08:04:42] Yes, I think the male order, the male order of things, we need a return to patriarchy. [08:04:48] We need a return to masculinity. [08:04:50] We need a return to tradition. [08:04:54] No more sex work, no more OnlyFans, no more. [08:04:59] Nose jobs, no more bikini pictures. [08:05:02] We need a return to tradition and order. [08:05:06] We must reject chaos and we must embrace order. [08:05:11] Reject soy, embrace masculinity. [08:05:15] Reject modernity, embrace masculinity. [08:05:18] Back to tradition we go. [08:05:20] Back to tradition, there's too much degeneracy. [08:05:24] We need order. [08:05:26] And order supersedes. [08:05:29] Thank you very much. [08:05:30] Oh my God, you spit like 40 times around. [08:05:32] All right, you can sit back down. [08:05:34] All right. [08:05:35] Oh my gosh. [08:05:37] Look, I'm just saying, we need some strong male leadership. [08:05:41] We need some strong male leadership. [08:05:44] Everything's so soft. [08:05:45] You know, China's doing a decent job. [08:05:46] I feel like China is very authoritarian and, well, it's not really communist, but they have the CCP, you know, fucking. [08:05:53] China, they want to build a highway. [08:05:56] They do that shit in two days. [08:05:57] There's a fucking bullshit. [08:05:59] Like, there's so much construction here in Santa Barbara. [08:06:01] These motherfuckers take two years to. [08:06:05] To lay down a fucking railing for a one mile long segment of fucking highway. [08:06:12] It's bullshit. [08:06:13] We need dictatorship. [08:06:15] We need authority. [08:06:15] I'll be, if you want to make it me, I'll, you know, that's fine with me. [08:06:20] We need, I don't know, we need something. [08:06:24] But right now, shit, we got all the drugs, all the, all the, all the only, what the fuck, that computer came out of nowhere. [08:06:35] Literally, it's like a whole night. [08:06:37] Yo, we need a return. [08:06:39] We need a return. [08:06:42] There's two, and look, men are fucking up too, man. [08:06:45] Men are being idiots. [08:06:48] Men are doing stupid shit. [08:06:50] Six, seven, if you're a man and you're doing that, get fucked. [08:06:52] You just did it. [08:06:53] I'm demonstrating it. [08:06:56] Like, bro, we need strong men. [08:06:59] I'm not saying I'm perfect, but we need a return to strength. [08:07:02] We need a return to virtue. [08:07:06] We need a return to decency. [08:07:08] Yeah. [08:07:10] Not this fucking OnlyFans fucking beer drinking. [08:07:15] Actually, beer's okay. [08:07:17] Maybe a little beer, not too much beer. [08:07:20] No weed. [08:07:20] Get rid of the weed. [08:07:21] Get rid of the drugs. [08:07:22] Okay, I don't know. [08:07:23] What the fuck? [08:07:23] Let me get back to the show. [08:07:24] Let me finish the show. [08:07:25] Do you want to respond to that? [08:07:27] Sorry, I was monologuing. [08:07:28] I mean, you just proved my point about this being under the male gaze, so I don't have more things to say. [08:07:34] But it's not the male gaze to be like, yo, open relationships suck. [08:07:39] Yeah, that wasn't the only thing, right? [08:07:41] You just went on like a five minute rant about. [08:07:44] Traditional values and needing strong male leadership, et cetera. [08:07:47] So, we need to stand up. [08:07:49] Okay. [08:07:49] We need to say Are we doing five more minutes? [08:07:52] Yes, we are. [08:07:52] Okay. [08:07:53] I'm almost done though. [08:07:54] Don't worry. [08:07:56] Don't worry. [08:07:57] I'm sorry. [08:07:58] I'm tired. [08:07:58] 10 seconds. [08:07:59] Yeah, I think we can move off on that particular point. [08:08:01] It's okay. [08:08:01] Don't worry about it. [08:08:02] Is that the big voice? [08:08:04] A little bit. [08:08:05] I can do it better. [08:08:06] Look, here's what I'm saying No, we're not going to let illegal immigrants into the country. [08:08:13] No, we're not going to let fucking people trans our kids. [08:08:17] No, trans women don't get to play in men's sports. [08:08:20] Or, no, excuse me, trans women don't get to play in women's sports. [08:08:23] My bad. [08:08:24] Sorry, it's the champagne. [08:08:26] Yeah, no, we need to literally fucking deport them all. [08:08:30] What? [08:08:30] Deport them all. [08:08:33] Close the borders. [08:08:34] Fuck, we got to even claw back legal immigration. [08:08:39] Legal immigration needs to be paused. [08:08:43] What else do we need to do? [08:08:46] Why do you think legal immigration needs to be paused? [08:08:49] Well, right now we have a massive illegal immigration issue, and obviously legal immigration is something different. [08:08:56] But we need to, like, before we can put resources into that, yeah, I'm not saying completely get rid of it, but there needs to be a halting on that. [08:09:06] There's way too many fucking people in the United States. [08:09:08] We need to deport about 10, 20, 30 million people. [08:09:12] And rent is bullshit. [08:09:14] Cost of living is bullshit. [08:09:16] I understand that these are nuanced economic issues that extend beyond just the fact that we have 20, 30 million people taking up the housing stock in this country. [08:09:26] There's other things, there's inflation, there's other components to it. [08:09:29] However, Until we can get our prices in place where American citizens can afford to buy a house and have a family and raise kids and they don't feel this economic pressure to not have kids because they just can't. [08:09:44] Yeah, no more immigrants, even if they're legal, come into the country taking our housing stock. [08:09:50] We need to drive the housing prices down. [08:09:52] We need to drive rent down so that people can feel like they're in a place financially where they can have a family, where they can have a house. [08:10:02] And the American dream is. [08:10:04] Is pretty much gone. [08:10:05] How many people, you get most of you are in your 20s, you think you're going to buy a house? [08:10:09] Get fucked. [08:10:11] And I don't mean that in a bad way. [08:10:12] You're not going to be able to buy a fucking house. [08:10:14] And do you think the only way to do that is to halt legal immigration? [08:10:19] We can build more supply. [08:10:21] However, I can't think of a more immediate solution than deporting the people who are taking the housing stock from our genuine citizens. [08:10:30] Get fucked. [08:10:31] Deport them all. [08:10:35] Sorry, what? [08:10:36] All right. [08:10:38] If you watched a big short, you probably remember that the housing crisis was caused by Wall Street the last time around. [08:10:46] No, no, no, no. [08:10:47] You're talking about subprime mortgages? [08:10:49] People got, no, no, no, no. [08:10:50] Hold on. [08:10:51] People got fucked financially because the banks were giving out like subprime loans. [08:10:56] But it had, like, hold on, what? [08:11:00] So that was contributing to the housing bubble last time around, right? [08:11:05] Because of the subprime mortgages, and also because people were able to give out loans with very little proof points. [08:11:12] So, this is just based on a movie, by the way. [08:11:14] I didn't read a book. [08:11:15] But in the movie, there was a lot of proof points. [08:11:17] That was like 2008, 2007? [08:11:19] Yeah, yeah. [08:11:20] Yeah, but okay, that's not an issue at the moment. [08:11:23] So, what do you think is causing the housing issue right now? [08:11:26] Well, okay, it's very complicated. [08:11:28] It's very complicated. [08:11:29] Exactly. [08:11:30] The cost of living is not just tied to illegal immigration. [08:11:34] But one of the ways we could perhaps alleviate. [08:11:37] 10%, 20%, 30% is, I do think, if you open up 10, 20 million housing stock, excuse me, I'm not wording that right. [08:11:49] If you open up like 10 to 20 million housing and rental opportunities for American citizens, you're going to see rent prices down. [08:11:57] You're going to see house prices down. [08:12:00] We also need to get rid of these foreign investors that are just buying up property in the United States. [08:12:09] I mean, that's a small percentage of it. [08:12:10] But in Canada, these foreign investors who just buy houses in Canada, it's fucking terrible. [08:12:18] The housing prices in Canada are terrible. [08:12:20] We need an outright ban on it here. [08:12:22] You shouldn't, if you live in fucking, no offense, if you're a citizen in China, hey, you can rent in the United States if you're visiting. [08:12:30] You should not be able to own a fucking house in the United States if you're not an American citizen. [08:12:35] If you're an American citizen, you can own a house. [08:12:37] Until then, get fucked. [08:12:39] I think there are different ways to channel foreign investment into boosting the economy of certain parts of the country. [08:12:46] Like, I'm saying it's a very nuanced and complicated situation. [08:12:51] It is. [08:12:52] Halting legal immigration, which is already very challenging for a lot of people to obtain, may not be the first solution or the solution, one of the first solutions to go for. [08:13:05] I think America has a lot of systemic issues. [08:13:07] Education is one of the biggest ones. [08:13:10] Educators get paid so little, and therefore, you don't get the right quality of teachers, and therefore, kids are not growing up with the right qualifications, going for jobs, and they're not taught to go look for different types of jobs. [08:13:23] Provide a prosperous future for themselves, and as a result, they can't afford housing. [08:13:28] Like, there's so many problems. [08:13:29] Why is illegal immigration the first thing we go for? [08:13:32] Well, first of all, immigration. [08:13:33] So, first off, if the illegal immigrants are occupying housing stock and you can deport them within what takes longer to deport one illegal immigrant or to build one house? [08:13:44] What takes longer? [08:13:47] Building a house. [08:13:49] Yeah, I think it really depends. [08:13:51] It really depends. [08:13:52] You think how long does it typically take to build one house? [08:13:55] Is it the illegal immigrants that Like causing the housing crisis, though I said it's a nuanced thing and there's other factors, however, yes, it's very, it's really not that complicated to comprehend what I'm saying. [08:14:08] Say that there's 20 to 30 million illegal immigrants in the United States, they're not homeless, they're living somewhere. [08:14:15] If you deport them, that opens up housing for citizens. [08:14:20] Super simple. [08:14:23] So they paid money for those houses, and now their houses are claimed by the government. [08:14:29] Should be given, is that what you mean, or what? [08:14:33] When you say it opens up housing for citizens, are you saying that illegal immigrants? [08:14:37] I would assume most illegal immigrants rent. [08:14:41] Some of them might own houses. [08:14:44] It's probably 90%, it's on the low end, 90% of illegal immigrants are renting. [08:14:52] So you can at least open it up to American citizen renters. [08:14:58] And that'll drive the prices down on rent. [08:15:01] Ultimately, though, one of the big reasons people aren't getting married and having kids. [08:15:06] The big marriage to the side, the reason people aren't having kids. [08:15:12] What look again, this is also nuanced, it's not just economics, but that's a massive part. [08:15:19] If people don't feel economically comfortable, they are hesitating and delaying having children. [08:15:27] People should be able to live a house, like have a house and have a space, and not be throwing away such massive chunks of their income just to rent. [08:15:39] Like just to the rent, just to the housing prices. [08:15:43] Yeah, I think that's valid. [08:15:46] Are you familiar with how Singapore does the housing program? [08:15:51] No, I'm not familiar with Singapore's housing program. [08:15:54] So, what they do is a couple needs to be engaged to marry to be in line for a subsidized housing program. [08:16:04] So, it's like a way to get people to get married and have kids and be able to have affordable housing. [08:16:11] Affordable housing as a result. [08:16:12] Does Singapore have massive illegal immigration issues? [08:16:16] Singapore has a very robust legal immigration program, but they're in different tiers. [08:16:21] So there are certain individuals that immigrate to Singapore, that work in Singapore, that their visa cannot allow them to obtain full immigration or residency. [08:16:31] So it depends on the work that they do. [08:16:34] Okay, look, there's all kinds of solutions that we can employ. [08:16:37] I mean, your proposition that people who get married get some sort of housing subsidy, that's an interesting thought. [08:16:47] Perhaps it might be effective. [08:16:49] Ultimately, though, it's cheaper and quicker to deport someone than to build more housing stock. [08:16:59] Now, should we build more housing stock? [08:17:02] Yes, we should. [08:17:03] We need more supply. [08:17:05] However, yeah, we need to just deport all the illegal immigrants. [08:17:14] It got really quiet at the table. [08:17:15] That's crazy that that happened. [08:17:16] I think we're all just pretty tired or maybe drained a little. [08:17:20] I'm exhausted. [08:17:20] I'm tired. [08:17:22] And there's no sugar in our body. [08:17:23] There's snacks back there, but we're going to wrap up pretty soon. [08:17:28] I just need to do the rapid fire questions. [08:17:31] Thank you. [08:17:31] Well, okay, so are you against the deportations? [08:17:36] No, I was more for having a better program for legal immigration. [08:17:41] I was more for having a better program for legal immigration. [08:17:43] No, but are you against deportations? [08:17:47] I'm not familiar enough with illegal immigration, to be honest. [08:17:51] So, deportations, if they overstay, Right? [08:17:54] Well, if they're caught and they overstay. [08:17:56] Well, there's people who come here like for travel or for they have visas, and yes, they do overstay, but the majority of illegal immigrants cross the border illegally. [08:18:05] I think if they came here illegally, then there should be, like, unless it's asylum. [08:18:12] Are we also Mexico is a safe country? [08:18:14] That's bullshit that you need to come to the United States for asylum. [08:18:18] Yeah, so Mexico is slave. [08:18:20] I'm sorry. [08:18:20] Mexico, well, hold on. [08:18:22] Mexico has issues, but this idea that if you're like fleeing from Venezuela, That there aren't countries between Venezuela and the United States that would grant you asylum if it's genuine asylum. [08:18:35] But that's bullshit. === Empathy and Immigration Controls (08:50) === [08:18:36] The reality is, most illegal immigrants are economic migrants. [08:18:40] It's not, oh my God, the government's prosecuting me. [08:18:43] No, they just want better economic prospects. [08:18:50] Yeah, I don't have a strong enough opinion on illegal immigration, to be honest. [08:18:53] Okay, but so are you against deportations? [08:19:02] I guess it's too nuanced for me to have an opinion. [08:19:08] There's literally no nuance. [08:19:10] They're here illegally. [08:19:11] We have laws. [08:19:13] It's against the law. [08:19:15] We have laws. [08:19:16] We should enforce our laws. [08:19:17] This is why we're talking about the male gaze. [08:19:20] This is why we need, like, you women, no offense, you women with your empathy. [08:19:26] I'm the empathetic one. [08:19:28] You women want to do the short term nice thing, which is, oh, this poor illegal immigrant wants a better life. [08:19:33] You know what? [08:19:34] I want a better life. [08:19:35] For the citizenry of this country. [08:19:38] Why? [08:19:38] I want a better life for my fellow citizens. [08:19:42] And I'm protecting my fellow citizens. [08:19:45] And you just don't understand that it's actually us men, us who actually want to deport the people. [08:19:55] We have the true empathy. [08:19:57] We are the true empathetic ones. [08:20:00] Because we empathize with our citizens. [08:20:02] Like, what the fuck? [08:20:05] Are the laws not being enforced because of female empathy? [08:20:09] It's literally. [08:20:10] I don't know enough about the situation. [08:20:12] If only men voted, there would never be a Democrat ever in power. [08:20:18] It's women who are like, open the borders, trans the kids. [08:20:21] It's women overwhelmingly who do that. [08:20:23] Now, to be clear, there are conservative women, there are Republican women, there are women who are on board with what we're trying to do. [08:20:31] However, it is predominantly women who are in favor of these self destructive political. [08:20:39] Uh, policy that is destructive to nations and destructive to people because of your so called empathy, yeah. [08:20:52] Yeah, look, I mean, I'm pretty sure she's the one that already said all these things that you're already saying, yeah. [08:20:58] Literally, I'm like, wow, she already said that, she clucked it. [08:21:01] Look, it's like, yeah, you want, look, these people come here for a better life. [08:21:04] If I was a, if I lived in a different country and it was, I'd probably want to come here too. [08:21:10] America's dope. [08:21:11] And look, I love Mexicans. [08:21:12] I love Mexicans. [08:21:13] I love Peruvians. [08:21:14] I love Colombians. [08:21:16] I love them all. [08:21:17] They're all great people. [08:21:18] They're all good people. [08:21:18] I'm sure most of them, 99% of them that come here are good people. [08:21:22] However, we have laws. [08:21:24] We have laws, and you can't just import 100 million, 200 million, 300 million people into the country. [08:21:32] It would not be good. [08:21:34] There's 1.4 billion people in India. [08:21:39] We have like what, 350 to 400 million people in the United States? [08:21:44] I think you ask most people who live in India, hey, do you want an American? [08:21:48] Come to America, be an American citizen. [08:21:50] We don't have the infrastructure to support half of India coming to live here. [08:21:55] In addition to that, if half of India moved here, we'd stop looking like America and we'd start looking like India. [08:22:03] And look, ultimately, like, it would, the America would no longer resemble America. [08:22:13] Like, that's why you can't just have completely, like, you need to have controls on immigration. [08:22:23] Okay. [08:22:25] Any response? [08:22:27] No? [08:22:27] I agree. [08:22:28] And also, whenever you go other places, I'll be fine. [08:22:30] Did that hurt your feelings? [08:22:31] No. [08:22:31] I mean, my feelings are not wrapped up in this because I'm not an illegal immigrant. [08:22:35] Well, I know, but you could be an American citizen and be pro, you could be fine with illegal immigration. [08:22:44] Yeah, I think I don't have enough information to make a judgment about for or against this particular situation. [08:22:53] This particular topic. [08:22:55] So that's my final response. [08:22:56] You don't need additional information. [08:22:58] That's my final response. [08:22:58] Legal immigration is a net negative for the United States. [08:23:02] It's a net negative for almost any country. [08:23:05] Let me ask you a question. [08:23:08] Have you been to Japan? [08:23:10] Yes. [08:23:11] Do you like the culture of Japan? [08:23:15] It's fine. [08:23:16] Do you know the population of Japan? [08:23:17] Isn't it like 2 million or something? [08:23:19] Hold on. [08:23:19] I could be off. [08:23:20] Let me just Google it. [08:23:22] Population. [08:23:23] So I understand the perspective of a country prioritizing its citizens, of course. [08:23:27] Well, I was wrong. [08:23:28] So it's 122 million in Japan. [08:23:30] That's crazy. [08:23:31] 122 million. [08:23:33] Well, I mean, I don't commit to memory the exact population of various countries, but okay, it's 122 million in Japan. [08:23:44] Should the Japanese, like, if let's say 200 million people from India moved to Japan, is it still Japan? [08:23:59] Is that a question for me? [08:24:01] Sure. [08:24:04] I wouldn't know. [08:24:05] It depends on what makes Japan Japan. [08:24:09] Right? [08:24:09] Like, if it's geographical, it will still be Japan. [08:24:13] If the culture gets contaminated in some way or gets diluted in some way, culturally it could change, yeah. [08:24:20] Well, okay, so is Japan an ethnostate? [08:24:24] I'm not sure. [08:24:25] I would need a definition. [08:24:25] Okay, so if somebody tells you they're Japanese, are they black usually? [08:24:29] Like, is their skin color black? [08:24:30] What the fuck? [08:24:31] Okay, so a bad example. [08:24:34] Bad example. [08:24:35] Bad example. [08:24:37] If somebody tells you there's. [08:24:39] If somebody tells you they're Japanese, are they white? [08:24:41] I think that's a very different point from the one maybe I believe you're trying to make because in America, there's people with all kinds of skin colors and they're still all American. [08:24:50] No, I know. [08:24:51] So there's a difference, obviously, in the United States a little bit here just because we do have some multiculturalism that certain other countries do not. [08:25:01] But it still sort of gets to the idea here, which is if you just completely import an entire different culture and the numbers from that culture. [08:25:12] Uh, either over time or quickly or through second and third generations, uh, start changing you know, changing how things look in your country. [08:25:23] Uh, do you lose your country? [08:25:30] I think some people might say you do. [08:25:33] Um, I think America is a country, like you said, uh, there's an American dream. [08:25:37] American dream implies people have um, pursuit of happiness, freedom, etc. [08:25:41] A lot of people come for that. [08:25:43] I think America has created a great ideology for people to want to come. [08:25:46] And one of the consequences is that people will come whatever it takes. [08:25:50] So that's the shadow side of having this amazing ideology and attracting people. [08:25:57] There are certain measures that you have to take in order to protect its citizens and to retain its culture. [08:26:03] I think America right now is kind of losing its own identity in a little bit, which is why I think for this podcast, a lot of people are trying to regain that identity in some way. [08:26:14] But that doesn't mean. [08:26:15] Deporting everyone or having a very strong hand, a firm hand on legal immigration is the solution. [08:26:23] There can be better education of culture, trying to bring people together around some kind of shared identity, shared reality. [08:26:34] There's lots of other ways. [08:26:35] Well, yeah. [08:26:37] Okay, final thing, I'm just going to move it on for the sake of time. [08:26:42] So, even if America has a past, Of being quite welcoming, oftentimes to legal immigrants. [08:26:52] Nothing prevents a citizenry from determining that perhaps how things were or how things are are no longer beneficial to the well being of a nation and a citizenry. [08:27:08] So even if it is the case that, yes, America was very much welcoming, open arms, blah, blah, blah, nothing, there's nothing there, especially constitutionally. [08:27:19] There's no constitutional guarantee that we ought to just allow for rampant illegal immigration. === Found Cheating Situations (02:56) === [08:27:27] I'm sorry, thank you for interrupting me while I was trying to finish up my fucking point. [08:27:30] I'm sorry. [08:27:32] So, we can change our view on the immigration question. [08:27:37] And so, ultimately, if we've come to a determination that immigration is no longer to America's benefit, then I think it compels us to change it. [08:27:47] Yeah, I think I can agree with that. [08:27:49] Yes. [08:27:50] Okay. [08:27:52] Here, let me finish up the notes here from everybody. [08:27:56] JDOG. [08:27:57] You said mind blowing stories about some of your exes. [08:27:59] I know I stepped away when you talked about some of them. [08:28:02] I'm just going to read it and you tell me if there's anything you want to add. [08:28:05] You dated this guy for five plus years. [08:28:07] You took his virginity, and by the time you had broken up, he had slept with around seven or eight other girls that you know of. [08:28:14] That's correct. [08:28:15] Besides you. [08:28:16] Then he started doing meth. [08:28:18] Yes. [08:28:19] And then he became scary. [08:28:20] He was physically abusive. [08:28:22] He pulled a gun on you. [08:28:23] Yes. [08:28:25] He tried to grab you by the hair, and then he grabbed your ear and pulled so hard he ripped two of your earrings out. [08:28:31] Yes. [08:28:32] And drew blood. [08:28:32] He broke up and then stalked you and showed up at your work and took a picture of your car in a public place. [08:28:38] Yikes. [08:28:40] And sent your picture of a gun saying he knew where you were and what you were doing. [08:28:45] Yikes. [08:28:47] Okay, that's crazy. [08:28:50] Then you were with, I guess, a different ex. [08:28:51] Five years, the time you found out he cheated on you, you gave him money for weed. [08:28:59] Oh, yeah, that's the same guy. [08:29:01] That was the very first time I found out that he cheated on me. [08:29:04] Did you tell the punching him in the Dick story, yeah, yeah, I did. [08:29:08] All right, uh, you said, let's see, uh, you'd like to discuss how the dating pool is now compared to just a few years ago, years ago, how high expectations of both men and women, uh, yeah, high expectations, how so? [08:29:26] Um, well, I feel like social media has a lot to do with it. [08:29:29] Like, people go online and they like see other people having certain things or being treated a certain way in relationships, and they're like expecting that. [08:29:38] Or, like, I don't know. [08:29:40] I feel like a lot of guys expect women to be like a 10 out of 10, and they're like, they're not, or they don't really bring a lot to the table. [08:29:55] Or they're with somebody and they kind of expect them to be a certain way because they see other women on social media looking a certain way, if that makes sense. [08:30:05] And then also, like, women being influenced to get a lot of plastic surgery or getting work done. [08:30:12] Yeah, against that. [08:30:14] You said that you feel like some men have become princesses. [08:30:19] Sometimes, yeah, some men are. === Romance Scam Details (15:17) === [08:30:23] Okay, and you said you were, we talked about this, you were in a situation on and off for about three and a half years. [08:30:29] Did you say, I love you to him? [08:30:32] Like during sex, I don't think that counts, though. [08:30:35] You lied. [08:30:36] You lied about being in love. [08:30:38] Did he? [08:30:39] Okay, that's interesting. [08:30:42] Were you not boyfriend girlfriend though? [08:30:45] Situationship three and a half years? [08:30:46] That's long. [08:30:46] Yeah, we were never like boyfriend girlfriend. [08:30:49] Fuck. [08:30:50] Shit. [08:30:51] And how old are you? [08:30:51] You're 20. [08:30:52] I'm almost 30. [08:30:53] I'm 29. [08:30:54] Shit. [08:30:54] He took some good years, man. [08:30:56] Three and a half years. [08:30:57] Situation shit. [08:30:58] That's fucked. [08:30:59] Kind of my fault, though, because when you come back, I would. [08:31:01] You participated. [08:31:03] Yep. [08:31:03] So. [08:31:04] Okay. [08:31:05] Lexi, your hot take is not all left mode. [08:31:09] Models are automatically hoes. [08:31:11] Yeah. [08:31:12] Because I don't consider myself a hoe. [08:31:14] I don't leave the house. [08:31:15] I don't sleep with men. [08:31:16] Same. [08:31:17] So I don't consider myself a hoe. [08:31:19] I know what I send pictures, but like a lot of regular women also send pictures as well. [08:31:25] So, as far as that goes, I just don't consider myself a hoe. [08:31:31] Okay, got it. [08:31:32] We're going to do a little pick me up segment here really quick. [08:31:34] Then we have some rapid fire questions. [08:31:36] Then we're going to wrap the show. [08:31:37] Let's do the AI segment super quick. [08:31:41] Pull up the super chat really quick first. [08:31:43] Let's just do the super chat. [08:31:44] Chloe, can you read this? [08:31:48] Happy birthday, Brian. [08:31:51] This has been a good panel, nothing crazy, but solid all around. [08:31:55] Well, there was a kick at the beginning. [08:31:57] For putting Chloe on blast. [08:32:00] You're more humble than you seem. [08:32:03] Rest of the panel has also been equally positive compared to like Crash Out Kylie still missed. [08:32:11] All right, doubly. [08:32:14] Andrew Wilson, rubbing, thank you for like the $2 USD, but Canadian or whatever. [08:32:20] Thank you, man. [08:32:20] Appreciate it. [08:32:21] It's, I don't know, what, $70 or something? [08:32:23] Thank you, man. [08:32:23] Appreciate it. [08:32:23] Thank you for the soup chat. [08:32:25] Okay, let's do the AI segment. [08:32:26] We've changed all of you into Sam. [08:32:29] Sam, you're hot as a guy. [08:32:30] We changed. [08:32:32] You turned us into guys? [08:32:33] Hold on. [08:32:33] We changed all of you into dudes. [08:32:35] I want your quick answer for the sake of time. [08:32:38] Oh, we have Lexi. [08:32:40] Read this. [08:32:42] What the fuck? [08:32:43] Play, please. [08:32:44] Oh my God. [08:32:46] Holy fuck. [08:32:47] Streamlabs. [08:32:47] Please fucking work. [08:32:48] Holy shit. [08:32:49] Lexi has experienced duping people and seeing multiple men at the same time. [08:32:53] Pandering is one way to put it. [08:32:55] I've never cheated on anyone. [08:32:56] What did you do, Lexi? [08:32:58] What did I do? [08:32:59] Tell us quickly what you did. [08:33:00] What did you do? [08:33:01] Okay, I'm going to give you the quick rundown and I'm going to be so fucking real right now. [08:33:04] Like, honestly, it's like. [08:33:05] Quite embarrassing, but I was on Telegram and I had an opportunity where this guy reached out to me. [08:33:12] This is quite typical in what I do for a line of work. [08:33:15] He's reaching out to me, he says, Hey, something along the lines of, I can send you 15,000 every week if you're like willing to talk to me, chat with me, and he eventually wanted to meet up. [08:33:25] We didn't end up meeting up, but I was talking to him and he was sending me like some gifts and whatnot. [08:33:31] But then after, we never met up, and it would turn from like, Okay, I'm gonna see you in one week to, Okay, I'm gonna see you like. [08:33:39] In three months, and it just like turned into this whole thing where I felt like I was like talking to him a lot online. [08:33:46] And it kind of like what I do for a living, it's like it kind of does affect my mindset on that. [08:33:51] It's like you're using me, like you're using my services, you know, for free. [08:33:56] So, yeah, I was just like, okay, I called it off. [08:34:00] And then now he's saying, like, okay, that I was participating in a romance scam and that I was just using him for his money and stuff like that. [08:34:08] But I already, I mean, did you romance scam him? [08:34:11] No. [08:34:12] Oh, okay. [08:34:13] Um, But how much money did he send you in total? [08:34:18] Well, it's like if we're talking about monetary value, like I also provided calling and that I do for a living. [08:34:25] So. [08:34:25] Okay, you, yes, you provided the girlfriend experience. [08:34:29] How much money did he send you? [08:34:31] He didn't send me like much money. [08:34:33] He sent me $250. [08:34:35] $250 is the exact amount. [08:34:37] No, no, he said $15,000. [08:34:40] Didn't you say that? [08:34:40] No, but he initially said that, but he only sent me $250. [08:34:45] But that was the initial agreement, and that never even happened. [08:34:48] So that's why I was. [08:34:48] How long were you talking to this guy? [08:34:50] That's why I was. [08:34:51] How long were you talking to him? [08:34:53] Not long. [08:34:54] A couple weeks? [08:34:55] A couple months? [08:34:55] A couple weeks. [08:34:57] And he offered to pay you $15,000 a week? [08:35:00] Yes. [08:35:00] And then I was hoping it would happen. [08:35:02] Yeah. [08:35:02] Not $1,500, $15,000. [08:35:04] $15,000 a week if he saw me, but we never met. [08:35:07] Oh, but you never met. [08:35:08] Well, okay. [08:35:10] Yeah, so then that's why he set a romance scam. [08:35:13] So he only paid you $250,000? [08:35:15] Yeah, $250,000. [08:35:16] What am I going to do with that? [08:35:17] I felt very nervous. [08:35:17] I was about to say $15,000. [08:35:18] That's like. [08:35:19] I'm sorry, but this is my. [08:35:21] My life, yeah. [08:35:22] I was gonna say, you're a terrible negotiator if you offered 15,000 and you only ended up with 250. [08:35:30] Yeah, well, I did get my nails paid for, so it was nice. [08:35:33] You know, that's it though, that's it, quite literally. [08:35:36] That's all my hands and toes. [08:35:37] Such a romance scammer, you fucking romance scammed him. [08:35:40] I know, I'm horrible, terrible. [08:35:42] Is that the guy? [08:35:43] Yeah, I'm assuming he was like literally harassing me, sending me emails every day, calling me non stop, using different numbers. [08:35:50] Like, did you him? [08:35:51] No, I never met him. [08:35:53] Never seen him face to face. [08:35:54] Never smelled his air. [08:35:55] Okay. [08:35:55] All right. [08:35:56] Never smelled his air. [08:35:57] All right. [08:35:58] Well, I mean, I feel like just, I don't know. [08:36:04] How do you look? [08:36:07] I'm not into the whole OF girlfriend experience, romance, scam bullshit. [08:36:13] But like to go from 15,000 down to 250, like, yeah, if he was able to provide 15,000, If he was able to provide $15,000 a week, I feel like $250 is not like a huge loss, you know? [08:36:31] Right. [08:36:33] But, yeah. [08:36:38] And the fact that he was saying that I was doing a romance scan, but he said to me that he's done this with multiple women. [08:36:43] Like he sent them actually a lot of money. [08:36:45] And he never said that they did a romance scan on him or whatever. [08:36:48] I don't, yeah, I don't know. [08:36:49] I don't know all the details, but. [08:36:51] I think more so he just wanted to get money out of me. [08:36:53] Like, uh, Scare me into thinking that there was like a lawsuit or some type of basis for this kid. [08:36:58] Oh, he was going to romance scam you. [08:36:59] Right, exactly. [08:37:00] Like he wanted my OF money. [08:37:02] Boy, get out of here. [08:37:03] This is why, honestly, look, I know you're pandering on the show or whatever, but like you can get in. [08:37:09] I feel like these situations are just bad, man. [08:37:13] Like it's just, you're. [08:37:15] I don't know. [08:37:16] It's a bad situation. [08:37:19] The guys start wanting more and then. [08:37:21] Yeah. [08:37:23] And then the guys feel scammed and then you're dealing with. [08:37:27] Pushy man, I don't know, man. [08:37:28] I feel like as an OF girl, you have to like want to not do it. [08:37:31] Like, if you tell a man, This is what I do for a living right now, but I don't want to do this for the rest of my life, now you guys can come up with a plan that you guys are actually going to do something of action to where you can get to where you want to be. [08:37:43] Yeah, you got to cut that shit out, yo. [08:37:46] You got to cut that shit. [08:37:47] You got to get rid of that. [08:37:49] Uh, okay, let me make sure I think I pretty much hit all the notes I wanted to. [08:37:53] All right, rapid fire question here. [08:37:55] Rapid fire. [08:37:55] Oh, wait, no, no, the AI. [08:37:56] Okay, let's blast through it. [08:37:58] Uh, okay. [08:37:59] The question is for you as I show you these photos of you as an AI person, would you date the male version of you? [08:38:09] No. [08:38:10] Really? [08:38:11] No. [08:38:12] What is that? [08:38:12] Really? [08:38:13] He's gorgeous. [08:38:13] Honestly, he mogs the shit out of you. [08:38:16] He mogs the shit out of you. [08:38:18] You guys would be a power couple. [08:38:20] He mogs the fucking shit out of you. [08:38:22] He looks a little bit like Ben Affleck. [08:38:24] Out of you. [08:38:24] He's sexy. [08:38:27] The middle one? [08:38:28] Oh my god. [08:38:30] No, the last one. [08:38:31] The last one is definitely sexier than the middle one. [08:38:33] I think the middle one mogs harder, to be honest. [08:38:36] No, the last one with black hair. [08:38:38] Yeah. [08:38:38] Boom. [08:38:38] All right. [08:38:39] So, would you date him, yes or no? [08:38:40] No, I don't know what that was. [08:38:42] That was crazy. [08:38:43] I think one or thing two in the photo. [08:38:46] Okay, next. [08:38:49] Oh, shit. [08:38:49] Oh, yeah. [08:38:51] You know what? [08:38:51] Why are these so sexy? [08:38:53] Okay, would you date them? [08:38:55] What? [08:38:56] No. [08:38:57] Wait, can you zoom in on these a bit? [08:38:58] Because they're kind of like. [08:39:00] Yeah, you're going to have to like. [08:39:01] Yeah, that's kind of how I'd like it. [08:39:03] Can you scroll down a bit more? [08:39:05] That looks like my ex. [08:39:07] That's better. [08:39:10] Would you date them? [08:39:10] Do you need to fix the other ones? [08:39:13] Or. [08:39:15] Okay, while they're doing that, let me just do some quick shout outs here. [08:39:19] Just get those fixed if you can. [08:39:20] Guys, like the video, please, if you're enjoying the stream. [08:39:23] Also, if you want to learn how to become a master debater, go to debateuniversity.com. [08:39:29] If you want to learn how to become a master debater, also, please support my movement, Big Labia Matter, or BLM for short. [08:39:38] BLM. [08:39:40] Yep. [08:39:42] $10 if you want your message displayed, $100 if you want to read, $200 TTS. [08:39:47] You can always support Venmo Cash App. [08:39:51] Let's see, did somebody? [08:39:52] No, we're good there. [08:39:53] Let me see if there's anything else. [08:39:55] Guys, go to twitch.tvslash whatever, drop us a follow on the Prime sub. [08:39:58] All right, do you have them fixed? [08:40:00] Okay, let's pull them up. [08:40:05] Next. [08:40:07] Oh, man. [08:40:09] Oh, man. [08:40:10] Don't show it again. [08:40:12] Oh, man. [08:40:13] What? [08:40:14] He's uglier than me. [08:40:16] Hold on. [08:40:17] You can't even lie. [08:40:18] Don't lie. [08:40:18] Imagine if he had a deep, sexy voice. [08:40:21] To be fair, the AI did you some fairy shit, too. [08:40:24] What? [08:40:25] That's not actually, that's like you, but AI'd. [08:40:28] Oh, okay, so you're mean. [08:40:29] It cleans you up. [08:40:30] Okay, okay, okay. [08:40:30] Hey, they do it to me too, don't worry. [08:40:32] It's not me. [08:40:34] Okay, so no, wouldn't do it. [08:40:36] No. [08:40:37] You only date white guys, you don't like black guys? [08:40:38] What? [08:40:38] I like black guys, just not that one. [08:40:40] Oh, wow, that's. [08:40:41] He's like half black, that doesn't count. [08:40:43] Okay, he's light skinned, you don't like light skin? [08:40:45] It doesn't count. [08:40:46] He's blatant. [08:40:48] Okay, next. [08:40:51] Wait, what? [08:40:51] What? [08:40:52] Yeah, it doesn't look like me at all. [08:40:54] Well, honestly, I would date him. [08:40:55] I would date the fuck out of him. [08:40:57] He's sexy. [08:40:58] I do see the vision. [08:41:00] Yeah, he looks like an ex criminal though. [08:41:02] Or like he could be a convict. [08:41:05] Like, why does he look so mischievous? [08:41:07] Okay. [08:41:08] Next. [08:41:10] Bro, absolutely not. [08:41:12] What? [08:41:12] You look so retweeting. [08:41:13] No, the middle one looks gay. [08:41:15] You look so. [08:41:15] No, not the middle one. [08:41:16] Wait, absolutely not. [08:41:17] I'm just looking at the last one. [08:41:18] That's the point. [08:41:19] The beard, I think the beard is good. [08:41:21] Yeah, the beard is good. [08:41:23] He looks like an alien. [08:41:24] He's got lip filler in the middle. [08:41:27] Why is he gay in the middle? [08:41:29] Yeah. [08:41:30] He looks like an alien in the middle. [08:41:32] No, no. [08:41:32] But the beard one, that's actually pretty. [08:41:34] He mugs, not gonna lie. [08:41:36] No? [08:41:37] Absolutely not. [08:41:37] You only date black guys? [08:41:39] No. [08:41:40] Into the mic, but okay. [08:41:42] Next. [08:41:43] Mine is always so bad. [08:41:44] It's not bad. [08:41:46] Why do ours look related? [08:41:48] Yeah, like they're brothers. [08:41:51] Dude, the middle one is so tired. [08:41:54] Why does it look like that? [08:41:57] Would you date them, Chloe? [08:42:00] The middle one, yeah, probably at home. [08:42:02] Okay. [08:42:03] I don't know. [08:42:03] Next. [08:42:06] Yeah, I think he's okay. [08:42:09] Some random white guy, he mocks. [08:42:12] I mean, really weird. [08:42:14] I like the beard. [08:42:14] Would you date him? [08:42:15] They're not child, yeah. [08:42:16] The guy with the beard, yeah, okay, yeah. [08:42:19] All right, wait, quite, quite over there, please. [08:42:21] Quiet. [08:42:22] Uh, next, no, he mocks. [08:42:27] To be honest, he looks like he works at Home Depot. [08:42:30] Looks nice, all right, all right. [08:42:34] Let's do next. [08:42:36] Is that your husband? [08:42:40] That's a yes for me. [08:42:44] Yeah. [08:42:45] Well, you're married, so I don't know if you want to. [08:42:48] Okay. [08:42:49] Next. [08:42:51] That looks the same as last time. [08:42:54] That's not my brother. [08:42:55] Would you date him? [08:42:57] No, because he looks like my brother. [08:42:58] Sorry, you only date black guys. [08:42:59] I should go back to the last time. [08:43:00] That is not true. [08:43:02] Your baby daddy. [08:43:03] Are you married or I'm confused? [08:43:04] No, I'm engaged. [08:43:05] Okay, so baby daddy, I guess. [08:43:08] That sounds like. [08:43:09] Your boyfriend is black, correct? [08:43:12] Well, yeah. [08:43:13] Okay. [08:43:14] Congrats. [08:43:15] Thanks. [08:43:16] Congrats. [08:43:18] Are they gonna do you as a girl? [08:43:19] Yep, next, bro. [08:43:22] Oh, she's fine. [08:43:25] No, bro, they did me so dirty. [08:43:26] That looks like, yeah, she looks like an author. [08:43:29] They gave her lip filler and like she looks plastic surgery. [08:43:35] Honestly, dog, I gotta pass on both, bro. [08:43:38] Like, usually they do, even yours is so hot, but today, I know they they threw me over today. [08:43:45] Yeah, looks too, looks very plastic. [08:43:50] Like, that's no, that's just looks tired. [08:43:54] I look tired to begin with, but um, and then did they do like the looks one too? [08:43:58] No, there's no looks batch. [08:44:01] Do you know what I'm talking about? [08:44:04] Yeah, oh, okay, that's fine. [08:44:06] All right, rapid fire questions, and then we're gonna wrap. [08:44:10] Okay, gotta go through this quick, gotta go quick, quick, all gas, no brakes. [08:44:14] Yes, please, yeah, whoa, four hour drive here, yes, sir. [08:44:17] Hey, whoa, don't give me flack. [08:44:20] You were no, we're in it to win 40. [08:44:22] You were 40 minutes. [08:44:24] Late, you were 40 minutes late. [08:44:26] I'm so sorry. [08:44:27] No, I was only like 20 minutes late. [08:44:30] You guys took a while to open the door. [08:44:31] You were not 20 minutes late. [08:44:33] You were not, yeah. [08:44:34] I got here at like 4 26. [08:44:35] Bullshit, you were 30 minutes late at minimum. [08:44:38] 26 minutes late, whatever. [08:44:41] Uh, okay, so take my master debating class. [08:44:46] Hold on, I'm trying to find. [08:44:48] Uh, does anyone here think I'm a misogynist? [08:44:53] No, no, show of hands, raise your hand. [08:44:55] No, to the no, this is a no. [08:44:57] No, raise your hand if you think I'm a misogynist. [08:45:00] Nobody? [08:45:00] Really? [08:45:01] Come on, I won't be mean. [08:45:02] No. [08:45:03] Okay, well. [08:45:04] It seems like you love women, you support women, you want a woman. [08:45:07] I love women. [08:45:08] Period. [08:45:08] But I also believe in the patriarchy. [08:45:10] But there is no patriarchy. [08:45:11] But also, we should have a patriarchy, but there is no patriarchy. [08:45:15] But, anyways, is anybody here a feminist? [08:45:18] Show of hands? [08:45:19] What the? [08:45:20] Who raised their hand right there? [08:45:22] Tiffany, put your hand down. [08:45:24] Put your hand down. [08:45:24] She's a Kanye fan. [08:45:25] That's different. [08:45:28] Okay. [08:45:28] What the fuck is that? [08:45:31] All right. [08:45:32] Yeah, don't worry about it. [08:45:34] Just ignore. [08:45:36] Okay, so let's see here. === Feminist Show of Hands (06:40) === [08:45:40] Oh, who's in a relationship? [08:45:43] Lexi, and then you, and then you're married, right? [08:45:47] Okay, don't worry about it. [08:45:49] So, anyways, you're married. [08:45:54] Do you have a hall pass from your husband? [08:45:55] Like, you have a celebrity crush that he would give you a pass for? [08:45:59] You've been in an open relationship? [08:46:01] We've never talked about it. [08:46:03] Do you have a celebrity crush? [08:46:05] No. [08:46:07] Like, I don't know, Brad Pitt wants to fuck? [08:46:09] Like, you're going to go for it? [08:46:10] Or, like, young Brad Pitt? [08:46:11] If he wants to fuck, I will first need to talk to my husband about whether it's okay. [08:46:16] And then. [08:46:17] Yeah, let me have a conversation. [08:46:20] Hey, is it okay if I touch on Brad Pitt over here really quick? [08:46:23] Is that okay? [08:46:24] Is it okay if I touch Selena Gomez real quick? [08:46:27] Like, she's like offering a marriage. [08:46:30] You got to be. [08:46:31] Titanic Leo. [08:46:33] Like, do I want to do that? [08:46:35] Probably, but I would still need to talk to him. [08:46:37] No, I know, but like, let's say Titanic Leo approached you and he was like, Look, I know you're in a marriage. [08:46:43] You need to go ask your husband for permission. [08:46:45] Yeah. [08:46:45] If he gives you permission, I'm down. [08:46:47] Do you approach your husband and ask him, Titanic Leo wants to fuck on a boat? [08:46:55] Yeah. [08:46:56] So, so between that and Brad Pitt Fight Club, I would choose Brad Pitt Fight Club. [08:47:00] And yeah, I'll ask him. [08:47:02] Okay. [08:47:03] And your husband says yes. [08:47:04] Do you do it? [08:47:05] I'll do it. [08:47:06] Oh my God. [08:47:06] Huge L. Huge L. Divorce. [08:47:09] Okay. [08:47:09] Anyways. [08:47:11] Let's see here. [08:47:13] Uh, where are we? [08:47:14] Are these the rapid fire questions? [08:47:15] Yeah, can I answer that one? [08:47:16] I don't think so. [08:47:17] Can I just say, like, hell no? [08:47:19] Like, that's very disrespectful to my man. [08:47:21] I would never do that. [08:47:22] Like, I would literally say that to the other man. [08:47:24] Rapid fire questions. [08:47:25] Rapid fire questions. [08:47:26] What species are we? [08:47:30] Human. [08:47:31] Human. [08:47:32] Uh, and I'm gonna point to you. [08:47:35] Uh, just random things. [08:47:37] Can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table? [08:47:40] Word space? [08:47:41] Oh, wait. [08:47:41] You. [08:47:42] Can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table? [08:47:44] Okay. [08:47:45] Homo sapien? [08:47:47] Human? [08:47:48] Mammal? [08:47:48] Human? [08:47:49] Homo sapien? [08:47:50] Homo sapien? [08:47:52] We are Homo sapien. [08:47:54] You guys are copying me. [08:47:55] Homo sapien is it? [08:47:57] All right. [08:47:58] Name three countries besides the USA you cannot repeat. [08:48:01] Wait. [08:48:02] You know what? [08:48:02] Let's start over here. [08:48:03] Oh my God. [08:48:04] Okay. [08:48:05] Well, Mexico, Brazil, and Argentina. [08:48:11] Should I say something about the hall pass? [08:48:13] If my husband gets to fuck Ann Hathaway or whatever, 100% go for it. [08:48:17] He can go for it. [08:48:18] Ann Hathaway. [08:48:19] Whoever, whoever, that's like the worst. [08:48:21] That's my, that's my like, that would be my female. [08:48:24] I mean, look, she's she can get it, like, I'd crack, but yeah, I'm just saying, like, if he gets that opportunity, I will also give him that. [08:48:32] I gave you Titanic Leo and Fight Club Brad Pitt. [08:48:35] You don't think Anne Hathaway from Love and Other Drugs is hot? [08:48:38] No, you're gonna be hot. [08:48:40] That was the question. [08:48:41] I have to try. [08:48:42] Shut up, shut up, Lexi. [08:48:45] Countries, yes, can you answer, please? [08:48:47] Japan, China, Australia. [08:48:49] Okay, nice. [08:48:53] Let's see. [08:48:54] Canada. [08:48:56] Sorry, I'm so tired. [08:48:59] Switzerland, Norway. [08:49:03] France, Germany, and Russia. [08:49:10] Don't wait for me to prompt you. [08:49:11] Africa. [08:49:12] Next, Asia. [08:49:18] And. [08:49:18] I can't even think of a third one that hasn't already been said. [08:49:27] Spain, Colombia, Cambodia. [08:49:30] Egypt, Thailand. [08:49:31] Wait, Africa? [08:49:32] What the f what are you? [08:49:34] Africa, Asia? [08:49:35] Why? [08:49:35] Those are continents, girl. [08:49:38] Probably, yeah. [08:49:39] Africa. [08:49:40] So can you repeat the two that you said? [08:49:42] Africa and Asia. [08:49:43] Okay, got it. [08:49:44] Lexi? [08:49:47] Wait, what? [08:49:49] Three countries. [08:49:51] Ukraine, Cambodia, Colombia. [08:49:55] Egypt, Thailand, Ethiopia. [08:49:58] Korea? [08:50:00] Oh, God. [08:50:03] Um, I don't know. [08:50:15] Just think of Asian countries. [08:50:20] India? [08:50:21] Huh? [08:50:21] India. [08:50:21] Okay, yeah. [08:50:22] You? [08:50:24] Three countries. [08:50:25] Okay. [08:50:26] New Zealand, Australia, Finland. [08:50:32] Nice. [08:50:33] Thank you. [08:50:34] How many continents are there? [08:50:39] Seven, eight. [08:50:41] Yeah. [08:50:42] Seven. [08:50:43] Seven. [08:50:43] You sure? [08:50:44] How many continents? [08:50:46] Six. [08:50:47] Six. [08:50:49] Seven. [08:50:50] Okay. [08:50:51] Name one continent North America. [08:51:06] Do I need to answer? [08:51:14] One continent. [08:51:26] Can you just skip me first? [08:51:28] Well, how about this? [08:51:28] Let me help. [08:51:29] I'll give a hint. [08:51:30] You're from which country? [08:51:32] China. [08:51:33] Which is where? [08:51:38] West, West, I don't know. [08:51:39] West Coast? [08:51:41] East? [08:51:42] West versus East Coast? [08:51:43] Big E, Tupac? [08:51:45] No, so what? [08:51:46] East to China. [08:51:49] China is in which continent? [08:51:52] Oh. [08:51:54] Because you're from China. [08:51:56] China's from which continent? [08:52:03] East Asia? [08:52:07] That was close. [08:52:07] Just give it to her, bro. [08:52:12] Okay, I guess it's a skip. [08:52:14] Antarctica. [08:52:16] Around the table, continue, please. [08:52:18] Australia. [08:52:20] South Africa. === Planet Continent Trivia (04:07) === [08:52:21] I'm sorry. [08:52:23] I'm so tired. [08:52:25] Asia. [08:52:26] Did you give one? [08:52:27] Yeah, I said South Africa. [08:52:29] Africa. [08:52:30] Okay. [08:52:31] Europe. [08:52:32] I feel like we're running out of continents at this point. [08:52:37] Okay, what two countries border the USA? [08:52:43] Canada, Mexico? [08:52:46] Canada and Mexico. [08:52:47] Are you sure? [08:52:49] Canada and Mexico. [08:52:50] Chloe? [08:52:50] Canada and Mexico. [08:52:52] Okay, how many states are in the USA? [08:52:55] 50, 51. [08:52:56] 51, okay. [08:52:57] 50. [08:53:03] Congratulations. [08:53:06] Let's see, we're going to skip some of these. [08:53:07] What is the. [08:53:10] We're going to skip. [08:53:11] How many planets are in our solar system? [08:53:14] Starting with you going around. [08:53:15] The planet we live in is crazy. [08:53:20] Don't read it, bro. [08:53:23] Sorry. [08:53:24] I don't remember. [08:53:25] I'm going to just use the bathroom super quick. [08:53:27] I'll be back in like one minute. [08:53:28] Go ahead. [08:53:29] I want to talk about leaves or something. [08:53:34] We can count it. [08:53:36] So. [08:53:38] Earth. [08:53:38] Yeah, that's eight. [08:53:40] It should be eight. [08:53:41] But Pluto's like canceled. [08:53:42] Yeah. [08:53:43] It literally exploded. [08:53:45] Yeah. [08:53:45] It exploded. [08:53:46] Yeah. [08:53:46] Yeah. [08:53:48] Anything else y'all want to know? [08:53:49] We should have asked these people. [08:53:51] Anything else y'all got to know? [08:53:52] Literally anything else y'all got to know. [08:53:53] Because I got a lot of answers. [08:53:55] I can't think of anything right now. [08:53:57] It's so late. [08:53:58] I would ask you. [08:53:59] I just don't want to take away from the questions itself. [08:54:02] Oh, you're smart like that? [08:54:04] Very. [08:54:05] I'm Japanese. [08:54:10] I'm Japanese. [08:54:17] I think there's like five, right? [08:54:19] There's like Saturn, Jupiter, Uranus. [08:54:23] Oh, there's eight. [08:54:24] There's eight. [08:54:25] Guys, there's like people outside like screaming and honking. [08:54:29] Guys, how many letters are in the alphabet? [08:54:31] Oh my god. [08:54:33] Is that inside? [08:54:34] Yeah, it's been here though. [08:54:35] It's been. [08:54:36] It's like not touching you. [08:54:37] It was on that wall and then it came over. [08:54:40] Massive. [08:54:40] Yeah, somebody killed that thing. [08:54:42] Yeah. [08:54:42] Okay. [08:54:43] I agree. [08:54:43] So he said to talk about boobs. [08:54:44] Who wants to go first? [08:54:47] I love my boobs. [08:54:47] I don't have any titties. [08:54:48] You do have very nice boobs. [08:54:49] Thank you. [08:54:50] I love them. [08:54:51] Stick it out. [08:54:52] I want to say that I can easily lie about not having a boob job because my boobs are super soft. [08:54:59] And I usually wear a push up bra too to make them look bigger. [08:55:04] And to be honest, I lie a lot. [08:55:07] That's real. [08:55:08] And girls are like, oh my God, let me feel them. [08:55:12] And then they literally believe me that they're real. [08:55:16] The other day, one girl was like, you're lying. [08:55:19] Let me shine a flashlight like to your titty, and like I let her do it. [08:55:24] And like, you can't even, it looks like just a regular boob. [08:55:29] So I think my surgeon is just like, Fire, thank you. [08:55:33] Yeah, do you think Sydney Sweeney's boobs are real or fake? [08:55:36] They're real, no, they're real. [08:55:38] Yeah, they're real. [08:55:39] She's my muse. [08:55:40] Do you guys think Sydney Sweeney is pretty? [08:55:42] Because I heard the on here last time that a lot of people don't think that I think she's really, I think she's actually hot. [08:55:49] I think she's okay. [08:55:50] I think her boobs are amazing, but I think her face is average. [08:55:54] She's like not model pretty, but she's really attractive in my opinion. [08:55:57] I'm going to get through this as quick as possible. [08:55:59] Just really curious Does France mean anything to you? [08:56:04] Yes. [08:56:05] How so? [08:56:07] I. I. Like, are you just. [08:56:13] Are you like heading. [08:56:13] You're from Washington? [08:56:15] Yes. [08:56:15] You're like heading back to Washington after this? [08:56:17] Yes, I'm driving. [08:56:18] Oh, you're driving back? [08:56:19] Yep. [08:56:20] Yep. [08:56:21] Yep, see, see, always confirm. [08:56:24] Okay, so we're gonna blast through the rest of these questions. [08:56:26] I'm hoping it takes maybe 20 minutes. === Pentagon Shape Guesses (05:59) === [08:56:28] Okay, so what planet do we live on? [08:56:33] Earth. [08:56:38] Man, you guys are very smart tonight. [08:56:39] Good for you. [08:56:42] The government building the Pentagon is what shape? [08:56:47] I think. [08:56:48] Wait, what? [08:56:50] You know, the building, the Pentagon, what shape? [08:56:53] It's in the shape of a Pentagon? [08:56:54] What shape is it? [08:56:56] A pentagon. [08:56:58] What shape is it? [08:56:59] The pentagon. [08:57:00] What shape? [08:57:01] A pentagon? [08:57:01] What shape is it? [08:57:02] A pentagon. [08:57:03] Chloe? [08:57:04] Congratulations. [08:57:05] You guys got it correct. [08:57:06] No, yeah. [08:57:09] First time. [08:57:10] Okay. [08:57:11] What country is directly north of Mexico? [08:57:15] Chloe. [08:57:27] North is up or down? [08:57:30] Wait, okay, so. [08:57:32] America, USA. [08:57:35] I just was, I'm confused with the north south. [08:57:39] Well, on the map, if you're looking at a map with your finger, is north, what direction is north and what direction is south? [08:57:48] On the map. [08:57:50] I don't know why that's always been so confusing to me. [08:57:53] Like, I'm sorry if that's stupid. [08:57:55] No, just. [08:57:56] Quick, just point in the direction north, south. [08:57:59] Okay, perfect. [08:58:00] Uh, what country is wait? [08:58:04] Hold on, I'm skipping a bunch of these. [08:58:09] How many sides does a triangle have? [08:58:11] Three. [08:58:13] What country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the United States? [08:58:18] Oh, um, the Statue of Liberty, you know, in New York, like the was it England? [08:58:29] No, was it France? [08:58:31] Okay. [08:58:32] Anybody have a different answer? [08:58:34] I thought France. [08:58:36] Wow. [08:58:39] Is that right? [08:58:40] I'm skipping like most of these just for time. [08:58:43] What continent is Brazil in? [08:58:50] Africa. [08:58:50] Okay, Africa. [08:58:51] What do you think? [08:58:55] Just guess. [08:58:56] Guess a country. [08:58:57] Or wait, did I say continent? [08:58:59] Sorry, my bad. [08:58:59] Didn't mean to confuse you. [08:59:01] Guess a continent. [08:59:03] North America? [08:59:04] North America, sure. [08:59:05] South America? [08:59:06] South America. [08:59:07] South America. [08:59:08] Chloe? [08:59:09] I got flinged for this question last time. [08:59:11] I literally don't know. [08:59:12] Don't know? [08:59:13] South America. [08:59:14] Okay, we'll stop there. [08:59:15] On that question, anyways, what continent is Egypt in, starting with you? [08:59:24] South America. [08:59:25] South America? [08:59:26] Yeah. [08:59:29] Wait. [08:59:29] Throw a country. [08:59:30] Just guess the country. [08:59:31] Guess the country. [08:59:32] I'm tired. [08:59:32] Continent. [08:59:33] It's okay. [08:59:33] Continent. [08:59:34] Oh my God, I'm sorry. [08:59:35] I'm sorry. [08:59:36] Wolfland. [08:59:37] Asia. [08:59:38] Okay. [08:59:38] Africa. [08:59:39] Africa. [08:59:40] North Africa. [08:59:41] North Africa, not a continent, but. [08:59:43] I remember last time I said the Middle East. [08:59:45] I don't like that. [08:59:46] Not again. [08:59:46] Chloe. [08:59:48] Chloe, not. [08:59:48] You said the Middle East. [08:59:50] Not again. [08:59:51] Okay. [08:59:54] What continent is Japan in? [09:00:00] Asia. [09:00:05] Asia. [09:00:06] Chloe. [09:00:08] Teach me, Brian. [09:00:10] Oh my god. [09:00:11] Chloe. [09:00:14] That's the clip I saw. [09:00:16] How many dimes make a dollar? [09:00:22] Ten? [09:00:24] Twelve? [09:00:25] Ten. [09:00:25] Twelve? [09:00:26] Ten. [09:00:27] Ten. [09:00:27] Okay. [09:00:28] What is the capital of France? [09:00:34] Wow. [09:00:35] I love this. [09:00:36] I don't know that one. [09:00:37] I love this around two. [09:00:39] Have you been to France? [09:00:40] I haven't been to France. [09:00:41] Wait, haven't? [09:00:42] No, I've been to Dubai, but I haven't done Europe. [09:00:46] You've been to Dubai, huh? [09:00:47] Yeah. [09:00:48] Yeah. [09:00:49] Did you pay for the flight? [09:00:50] No, I didn't. [09:00:52] She's been to Dubai and she didn't pay for the flight. [09:00:55] Meow. [09:00:59] Yikes. [09:01:01] Was it a prince? [09:01:04] Is it not a flex? [09:01:05] What? [09:01:06] It was not a prince. [09:01:07] Not a flex. [09:01:08] Definitely not a flex. [09:01:10] You know you want those free Dubai flights. [09:01:13] They're not free. [09:01:14] I'm so sorry. [09:01:15] Okay. [09:01:16] What is the capital of Japan? [09:01:19] Tokyo. [09:01:20] Okay. [09:01:21] What is the capital of France? [09:01:23] Paris. [09:01:24] Oh. [09:01:25] Yep. [09:01:26] Okay. [09:01:27] That's what they keep on commenting on my TikTok. [09:01:29] Every time I open it, it's Italy, Italy. [09:01:30] Bro, hello? [09:01:31] Wait, what the fuck's running? [09:01:35] Oh my god. [09:01:36] Who the hell cares? [09:01:38] Okay. [09:01:40] What country is immediately south of the United States? [09:01:45] Mexico. [09:01:47] Chloe? [09:01:48] Can you teach me? [09:01:48] Because I don't understand where like south and north is. [09:01:54] You're not ever like. [09:01:56] Fix this. [09:02:00] You don't know where south and north are? [09:02:04] I don't know why it's. [09:02:05] Is north. [09:02:06] Okay, look, with my finger on the map, is north this way or this way? [09:02:11] Why would I know about a map? [09:02:14] Is south this way or this way? [09:02:16] I believe south is down because I'm from the south and I think that that's correct. [09:02:22] All right. [09:02:25] What is. === Mount Everest Weight (09:52) === [09:02:27] If today is Monday, what day is it in three days? [09:02:31] Wednesday? [09:02:31] Yep. [09:02:33] Thursday? [09:02:33] Thursday. [09:02:36] Okay, you guys are so smart. [09:02:40] Who painted the Mona Lisa? [09:02:45] I know this. [09:02:49] I'm thinking, sorry, I'm trying to think. [09:02:51] Oh, you just like were looking off into the. [09:02:52] Yeah, I know, I was thinking. [09:02:54] I'm like, I remember visually. [09:02:58] No, I don't know, I can't think of it. [09:03:00] I think his name started with D, right? [09:03:04] Yes. [09:03:05] Da Vinci. [09:03:06] Yeah, Leonardo Da Vinci. [09:03:08] Okay, what is the name of the famous car company founded by Henry Ford? [09:03:19] If it takes three minutes to boil one egg, how many minutes does it take to boil three eggs? [09:03:24] Three minutes? [09:03:27] Wait, what? [09:03:27] I'm confused. [09:03:28] Yeah, pretty much. [09:03:29] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [09:03:31] How many nickels make a dollar? [09:03:34] 20. [09:03:36] Okay. [09:03:36] What is five times five? [09:03:39] 25. [09:03:40] Should I just ask the Asian girl all the math questions? [09:03:44] Kiko, 12 divide by three? [09:03:47] Four. [09:03:47] 100 divide by four? [09:03:49] 25. [09:03:50] 15 plus 35? [09:03:51] 50. [09:03:52] 90 minus 45? [09:03:54] 45. [09:03:54] You see how it works, Chloe? [09:03:56] I'm just gonna. [09:03:56] I'm terrible. [09:03:57] You see how that works? [09:03:58] I'm really good. [09:04:00] You literally just asked all the Asians. [09:04:02] That wasn't fair. [09:04:06] How many branches of the U.S. government, starting with you? [09:04:09] Three. [09:04:10] Name one branch of the US government. [09:04:14] Executive. [09:04:17] I don't know. [09:04:18] Executive. [09:04:20] Come on. [09:04:22] She just said it, but okay. [09:04:25] Legislative. [09:04:26] Judicial. [09:04:27] Correct. [09:04:28] Okay. [09:04:29] That's right. [09:04:30] Yeah. [09:04:30] Good job. [09:04:31] What document? [09:04:32] That one's boring. [09:04:34] How many stars are on the US flag? [09:04:37] Who said that? [09:04:39] 50. [09:04:42] 45? [09:04:42] 45? [09:04:43] 50. [09:04:44] 50 states? [09:04:45] 50. [09:04:48] What century are we in? [09:04:52] 21st. [09:04:53] Are you sure? [09:04:54] Chloe, what do you think? [09:04:55] 21st. [09:04:55] I'm going to go with 21st. [09:04:58] 18th century? [09:04:59] 17th century? [09:05:01] 17th century. [09:05:02] All right. [09:05:04] What galaxy do we live in? [09:05:09] The Milky Way. [09:05:11] I don't know. [09:05:13] Andromeda Galaxy, maybe? [09:05:14] Milky Way. [09:05:15] Milky Way, maybe? [09:05:16] Milky Way. [09:05:17] Milky, Milky Way. [09:05:19] Oh my god. [09:05:22] I'm still drunk. [09:05:27] How many months in a decade? [09:05:31] Whoa. [09:05:32] That's a lot of math for right now. [09:05:34] Can I pass? [09:05:36] It's not a lot of math. [09:05:39] A decade is 10 years. [09:05:41] Yep. [09:05:43] So 12 times 10 is? [09:05:48] Is it 120? [09:05:50] Okay, nice. [09:05:51] Good job. [09:05:52] Yeah, I do. [09:05:53] So proud of you. [09:05:54] What country? [09:05:56] Is the Great Wall of China in, Chloe? [09:06:00] Asia. [09:06:02] Oh, China. [09:06:04] Sorry, I thought you said continent. [09:06:11] Okay. [09:06:14] What country? [09:06:14] China. [09:06:17] China. [09:06:18] You sure? [09:06:19] China. [09:06:19] You sure? [09:06:20] Yeah. [09:06:22] China, yeah. [09:06:23] What country is Wuhan in? [09:06:25] What is Wuhan? [09:06:28] Oh, yeah. [09:06:29] Sorry, did I not pronounce it correctly? [09:06:33] Oh, China. [09:06:34] I fucked it up. [09:06:35] I fucked up the pronunciation. [09:06:37] All right. [09:06:40] Skip, skip, skip. [09:06:42] You can thank me later. [09:06:43] How many days of the week end with the letter Y? [09:06:49] Oh. [09:06:50] Every day? [09:06:52] Every day? [09:06:53] Wow, good job. [09:06:54] How many letters in the alphabet, Chloe? [09:06:59] I don't know. [09:07:00] Ashlyn, time. [09:07:00] 26. 26. 26. 26. [09:07:03] I don't know. [09:07:06] Okay. [09:07:07] Is it 26? [09:07:09] What is the closest star to Earth? [09:07:16] I don't know that. [09:07:18] Well, you know how there's stars in the sky. [09:07:20] Which one is the closest? [09:07:21] What's the name of it? [09:07:23] Is it the North Star? [09:07:25] I feel like that's the same. [09:07:25] North Star? [09:07:26] Okay, that's a good guess. [09:07:27] Sun? [09:07:28] I don't know. [09:07:29] Maybe? [09:07:29] What do you think? [09:07:30] Sun. [09:07:30] Maybe the Sun? [09:07:32] Sun. [09:07:32] The moon? [09:07:33] The. [09:07:35] Oh, stop. [09:07:36] I'm sorry. [09:07:38] It's close. [09:07:39] We should have done this first. [09:07:41] I know. [09:07:43] The moon? [09:07:44] Okay. [09:07:45] Where are we? [09:07:47] What year did the War of 1812 start? [09:07:51] What year did the War of 1812 start? [09:07:53] Yeah. [09:07:55] 1812? [09:07:57] Final answer. [09:07:58] Final answer. [09:07:59] Yeah. [09:08:00] You are correct. [09:08:00] Congratulations. [09:08:01] What weighs more, a pound of feathers or a pound of bricks? [09:08:05] Mm hmm. [09:08:07] A pound. [09:08:08] Wait, are they both a pound? [09:08:13] There's a pound of feathers and a pound of bricks. [09:08:15] Which one of them weighs more, though? [09:08:16] Because think about bricks, right? [09:08:18] They're like dense, bro. [09:08:20] Yeah, but aren't they both a pound? [09:08:22] If it's a pound, that's a pound, right? [09:08:25] I don't know. [09:08:25] You tell me. [09:08:27] I can't answer for you. [09:08:28] I feel like I can answer for you. [09:08:29] I'm not trying to trick you. [09:08:30] I think that's right. [09:08:31] I'm not trying to trick you. [09:08:33] Okay. [09:08:34] What country is the Panama Canal in Clowington? [09:08:39] Country. [09:08:42] Pamela? [09:08:44] Pamela? [09:08:47] Pamela Anderson. [09:08:48] Yes, thank you. [09:08:50] She's Pamela. [09:08:52] What do you think, Ashlyn? [09:08:53] Panama? [09:08:55] Panama. [09:08:57] I missed it, sorry. [09:08:58] Yeah, disregard what they were saying, they were wrong. [09:09:00] What country is the Panama Canal in? [09:09:05] I'm going to say Panama. [09:09:07] Final answer. [09:09:09] That's all I got. [09:09:11] You got it right. [09:09:12] Congratulations. [09:09:13] Thank you. [09:09:13] What language do people in Mexico speak? [09:09:16] Spanish. [09:09:19] You sure? [09:09:19] Maybe Cantonese? [09:09:21] Mandarin? [09:09:21] No, because my mom's boyfriend is spending so much time with me. [09:09:24] I love those Chinese speaking Mexicans. [09:09:28] Those are my favorite. [09:09:31] Okay, good. [09:09:32] All right. [09:09:34] If you. [09:09:35] Gotta wait for the crickets. [09:09:37] If you pass the person in second place, what place are you in? [09:09:41] First. [09:09:41] First? [09:09:42] Okay. [09:09:42] First place? [09:09:43] Third place. [09:09:44] If you pass the person in second, you're in first place. [09:09:46] What place are you in? [09:09:47] Okay. [09:09:48] Second. [09:09:48] You're in second? [09:09:49] Okay. [09:09:49] First. [09:09:49] First. [09:09:51] First place? [09:09:52] Second. [09:09:53] Second place? [09:09:53] Second. [09:09:54] Second. [09:09:55] Yeah, you just took second place. [09:09:56] Took a. [09:09:57] Oh, you were passing him. [09:09:58] Yeah, that's what I was saying. [09:09:59] Yeah, you were running past him. [09:10:00] Yeah, you passed him. [09:10:01] You did. [09:10:01] Now you're second. [09:10:03] Oh, I forgot this. [09:10:06] Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place? [09:10:11] Pearl Harbor. [09:10:12] Hawaii? [09:10:14] The United States. [09:10:16] More specific. [09:10:17] I don't know. [09:10:22] Come on, Lexi, you got this. [09:10:23] I want to say Boston, are you New York? [09:10:25] But I don't know, honestly. [09:10:26] I really don't. [09:10:31] Wait, I'm so stupid. [09:10:32] Is Pearl Harbor like not even a place? [09:10:38] Boston is where Pearl Harbor, like the Boston Tea Party. [09:10:42] That's in Hawaii. [09:10:44] Boston Tea Party. [09:10:45] That was Pearl Harbor and it was Boston. [09:10:48] I don't know. [09:10:49] All I know is that Pearl Harbor got bombed. [09:10:51] Hawaii. [09:10:53] Hawaii? [09:10:54] I'm pretty sure it's Hawaii. [09:11:01] What country is the Eiffel Tower in? [09:11:05] Eiffel Tower, that's in New York. [09:11:10] So, United States, America. [09:11:12] France. [09:11:13] Yeah. [09:11:13] France. [09:11:15] Paris. [09:11:20] France. [09:11:21] Congrats, everybody. [09:11:22] What currency is used in Japan? [09:11:25] Ooh. [09:11:26] Starting with you. [09:11:27] It's hard. [09:11:28] You get to go first. [09:11:29] Is it Yen? [09:11:33] Yep. [09:11:34] Adolf Hitler ruled which country? [09:11:38] Germany. [09:11:40] Germington? [09:11:40] Germany. [09:11:41] Germania? [09:11:43] Was it? [09:11:44] Yeah. [09:11:45] Germania, you say? [09:11:47] Before Mount Everest was discovered, what was the tallest mountain in the world? [09:11:58] Mount, wait, what'd you say? [09:12:00] Mount Everest. [09:12:01] What was the tallest mountain in the world? [09:12:06] I don't know that one. [09:12:08] Okay. [09:12:09] I don't know. [09:12:10] I know it, I just can't pronounce it. [09:12:12] Spell it. [09:12:14] I don't know how to spell it. [09:12:15] If I can't pronounce it, I definitely don't know how to spell it, dog. [09:12:17] Cat, make noises or something. === World War I Dates (07:10) === [09:12:20] Start with a K. [09:12:21] I don't know. [09:12:21] Sklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsklafsk Mount Caucasus? [09:12:31] Caucasus or something like that? [09:12:32] Caucasus Mountains up there. [09:12:33] Mount Everest? [09:12:35] Mount Everest, okay, Chloe? [09:12:37] I have no idea. [09:12:39] Mount Everest? [09:12:40] Kilimanjaro. [09:12:42] Mount Everest. [09:12:43] Mount Everest. [09:12:44] It is Mount Everest. [09:12:47] It was still there before it was discovered. [09:12:50] What country did the Vietnam War happen in? [09:12:53] Vietnam. [09:12:55] Final answer. [09:12:56] I'm just, yeah. [09:12:58] Yeah, you're just confused. [09:12:59] Yes, girl. [09:12:59] Yeah, my head. [09:13:00] Absolutely. [09:13:02] How much is a quarter of an hour? [09:13:04] A quarter of an hour? [09:13:08] 15 minutes. [09:13:10] Any disagreement from anybody? [09:13:12] What is 34 plus 66? [09:13:14] 100. [09:13:15] What is 100 minus 66? [09:13:18] 34. [09:13:19] Who's the current US president? [09:13:24] Donald Trump? [09:13:28] Who's the current president of China? [09:13:31] Oh. [09:13:33] Presidency? [09:13:36] Prime Minister. [09:13:37] Are you not allowed to say? [09:13:38] No, there's no president. [09:13:41] Is it like a chairman? [09:13:42] No, what is it? [09:13:43] I don't know what the president is. [09:13:44] Chairman, chairman Xi. [09:13:46] Okay, what's the leader of China, I should say then? [09:13:49] Xi Jinping. [09:13:51] Can I say that? [09:13:52] Can you? [09:13:53] Are you guys not allowed to? [09:13:55] We're allowed to say that. [09:13:56] I don't know. [09:13:56] What do you know? [09:13:57] They're loud. [09:13:58] Okay. [09:14:00] Okay. [09:14:01] What is 100 minus 34? [09:14:06] It's 66. [09:14:08] Chloe, 34 plus 66 is what? [09:14:12] 100. [09:14:13] Wow, you guys are getting so smart. [09:14:15] I'm proud of you guys. [09:14:16] 77 plus 33. [09:14:24] Almost done. [09:14:26] Is it 110? [09:14:28] Maybe. [09:14:28] I'm trying to figure out. [09:14:30] If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today? [09:14:33] 110. [09:14:34] So if you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today? [09:14:38] 10. [09:14:39] 10. [09:14:39] 22. [09:14:40] 22, okay. [09:14:42] 26. [09:14:42] 26, what about you? [09:14:44] You said 10 years ago? [09:14:45] Yeah, how old would you be today? [09:14:47] Oh, I fucked up. [09:14:50] How old would you be today? [09:14:51] 10 years ago. [09:14:52] Because how old are you currently? [09:14:54] I'm 27. [09:14:55] What year were you born? [09:14:57] 99. [09:14:58] Okay, so like just doing the math. [09:14:59] So, okay, if you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today? [09:15:03] 17. [09:15:04] 17. [09:15:04] Chloe, what about you? [09:15:05] 10 years old. [09:15:06] What about you? [09:15:07] 10. [09:15:07] Congratulations. [09:15:08] You guys are all geniuses. [09:15:09] Oh my God. [09:15:10] How many world wars were there? [09:15:16] Two. [09:15:18] You were about to say three, though. [09:15:19] Well, we're there. [09:15:21] We're there yet. [09:15:22] How many world wars? [09:15:23] Two. [09:15:25] Two. [09:15:27] Yep. [09:15:28] You guys can also, if you want, but I've just been hearing silence. [09:15:31] So, okay. [09:15:34] What decade was World War I? [09:15:37] So, 1820s, 1950s. [09:15:40] What's the decade? [09:15:43] I'm going to pass on this. [09:15:44] I don't guess. [09:15:45] Throw out a guess. [09:15:45] Wild guess. [09:15:49] I'm going to say the 20s. [09:15:51] That's what you just said. [09:15:52] The 1820s? [09:15:54] Yeah, we'll just roll with it. [09:15:57] 1820s. [09:15:58] Yeah. [09:15:59] You said it. [09:16:00] Okay, no, yeah. [09:16:02] We'll just say 1820. [09:16:03] 1820? [09:16:04] Okay. [09:16:04] I don't know. [09:16:05] Just throw a wild guess. [09:16:06] 1600s. [09:16:07] 1700s. [09:16:08] 1600s. [09:16:09] Well, that's a century. [09:16:10] Give me a decade. [09:16:11] Oh, man. [09:16:12] Like 1660. [09:16:13] Wait, 1640. [09:16:15] 1640. [09:16:15] Okay. [09:16:16] There you go. [09:16:18] 1910s. [09:16:20] Okay. [09:16:20] Yeah, 1910. [09:16:22] What are we talking about? [09:16:23] World War I. What was the decade that it happened? [09:16:28] I really don't know. [09:16:29] What about you? [09:16:30] 1910s. [09:16:31] Throw out a guess, Chloe. [09:16:32] Guess. [09:16:33] 16, 17, 50? [09:16:35] Can you teach me? [09:16:37] Yes. [09:16:38] Teach us all. [09:16:41] She wants to be taught. [09:16:42] Yeah, like tutoring. [09:16:44] What about a decade? [09:16:45] I think it was 1920. [09:16:47] 1920s. [09:16:49] 1918, I think. [09:16:51] Well, 1910s. [09:16:52] Okay. [09:16:53] Primary, because the following war, World War II, took place in two separate decades. [09:17:01] But what was the primary decade it was in? [09:17:04] World War II? [09:17:08] I'm like, I'm forgetting my history knowledge. [09:17:13] Well, when did you say World War I? [09:17:14] You said World War I was 1820. [09:17:16] Yeah, but I don't think that's actually right. [09:17:18] But you do know if World War I was 1820, World War II was definitely after 1820. [09:17:26] After World War I, so. [09:17:28] Yeah. [09:17:29] World War II, what decade? [09:17:32] Primary decade? [09:17:38] 1900s? [09:17:39] Which, that's a century. [09:17:41] What decade? [09:17:41] I'm trying to think. [09:17:45] The 1800s, maybe? [09:17:48] No. [09:17:49] No, because. [09:17:50] Okay, just throw one out so I can get to the. [09:17:53] 1960s. [09:17:55] 1960s, the Beatles love it. [09:17:57] Oh my god, I'm heading. [09:17:59] 1680? [09:18:02] 1680? [09:18:04] Okay. [09:18:04] 1920s? [09:18:06] Just leave it split and adjust the. [09:18:08] Adjust the split. [09:18:10] What was it? [09:18:11] 1920s. [09:18:13] 1920s, okay. [09:18:14] 1930s. [09:18:15] 30s. [09:18:15] 1940. [09:18:20] 1890. [09:18:22] Next. [09:18:23] 1940s. [09:18:24] I think 1930s. [09:18:26] I think the 40s. [09:18:28] 30s. [09:18:29] Okay. [09:18:31] Multiple choice question. [09:18:33] And this isn't approximate, but which is closer? [09:18:36] Of the people that died, the soldiers that died in World War II, what number is the closest? [09:18:43] I'm going to give you four options 100, 1,000, 10,000, or 10 million. [09:18:53] Which number is closer? [09:18:57] I'm going to say 10,000. [09:19:00] 10,000, okay. [09:19:01] 10 million. [09:19:02] 10 million. [09:19:02] 10,000. [09:19:04] 10,000, okay. [09:19:05] 10 million. [09:19:06] 10 million. [09:19:07] 10,000. [09:19:08] 10 million. [09:19:11] 10 million. [09:19:13] You said World War II? [09:19:14] Yeah. [09:19:15] 10 million. [09:19:16] I mean, we could even swap it out for World War I, too. [09:19:20] I think both were upwards of 20 to 50 million. [09:19:24] Yeah. [09:19:24] We got a real chat GPT over here. [09:19:26] We're going to call it chat GPLEC. === Kardashian Percentage Guesses (06:21) === [09:19:30] Never mind. [09:19:31] If I fail a test, you gotta study again. [09:19:33] Name. [09:19:34] Who here isn't a K pop? [09:19:36] Anybody a K pop stan? [09:19:38] Nobody, nobody, nobody, nobody. [09:19:41] Can anybody name three K pop artists? [09:19:44] Nobody? [09:19:45] Okay, I can. [09:19:46] Okay, let's hear it. [09:19:47] Blackpink, Big Ben, BTS. [09:19:54] That was three. [09:19:55] Okay, who here has seen Keeping Up with the Kardashians or. [09:20:00] Are you familiar with the Jenners and the Kardashians? [09:20:02] Name, who here thinks they could name three Kardashians? [09:20:05] Show of hands. [09:20:05] Name all of them. [09:20:07] Name all of them? [09:20:07] Okay. [09:20:08] Yes, you too? [09:20:10] Three Kardashians. [09:20:11] Yes. [09:20:12] Okay. [09:20:14] You go first, and then we'll have everyone else answer. [09:20:17] Just three? [09:20:18] Yeah. [09:20:18] Oh, no, name them all if you know that. [09:20:20] Okay. [09:20:21] Kim, Courtney, Chloe, Robert, Robert Jr., Dream Kardashian also got the last name. [09:20:29] No one else is a Kardashian. [09:20:32] Like in that, like famous. [09:20:33] Okay. [09:20:35] Chloe, I guess. [09:20:39] Can you open the door all the way? [09:20:41] Does the Jenner's count? [09:20:43] Sure, me and Jenner. [09:20:44] I'll accept Jenner. [09:20:45] No, you can repeat. [09:20:45] Kylie Jenner. [09:20:46] You can repeat if you want. [09:20:47] Okay. [09:20:48] Kylie Jenner, Kendall Jenner, Courtney Kardashian, Kim Kardashian. [09:20:56] What is the mom's name? [09:20:58] Chris Jenner. [09:21:01] Kim Courtney. [09:21:05] And Robert Kim, Chloe, Courtney, Kim, Courtney, Kim, or wait, my bad, I was going too fast. [09:21:18] Kim, Courtney, Kylie, Chloe, Courtney, Kim, Kim, Chloe, and Courtney. [09:21:29] Okay, uh, let's see, do you guys think it's fat phobic or wrong to reject a woman because of her weight? [09:21:34] I guess we already talked about that, yeah. [09:21:36] Um Let's see here. [09:21:38] Is it. [09:21:40] Is anyone here a virgin besides me? [09:21:43] I'm trying to lose it before I'm 40. [09:21:47] Okay. [09:21:48] No, no virgins. [09:21:48] All right. [09:21:49] Never mind. [09:21:49] That question doesn't apply. [09:21:51] Almost here at the tail end. [09:21:55] Let's see here. [09:21:55] Do you guys think it's sexist for men to have the expectation that women cook, clean, do laundry, be submissive? [09:22:02] Do you think it's sexist? [09:22:03] Anybody? [09:22:03] No. [09:22:04] Anybody? [09:22:04] Gone once, twice, three times. [09:22:05] I think it's sexist, but there's nothing wrong with that. [09:22:08] Nothing wrong. [09:22:09] It is sexist, but nothing wrong with it, is what you're saying. [09:22:11] I can see that. [09:22:12] Yeah. [09:22:13] Okay, valid. [09:22:13] Valid. [09:22:15] Let's see here. [09:22:16] What percentage of men do you think, and try to spit out an answer just super quick and on to the next. [09:22:22] What percent of men do you think are over six feet tall? [09:22:26] I don't know. [09:22:28] Maybe like 30%. [09:22:29] 30%? [09:22:31] Uh, 20? [09:22:32] Yeah, like 20. [09:22:34] I'm sorry, I wasn't paying attention. [09:22:37] 15% of men do you think are over six feet? [09:22:40] Um, 10. [09:22:43] 15%? [09:22:44] 25? [09:22:45] Uh, 15. [09:22:48] Maybe 10%. [09:22:50] Probably less than 10. [09:22:51] I think it's less than 1%. [09:22:53] Really? [09:22:54] What? [09:22:54] I might be so wrong. [09:22:56] Nope. [09:22:57] Okay, what percentage of men make at least $1 million a year? [09:23:00] I don't know, maybe 20%. [09:23:06] 20% make a mil? [09:23:08] 40%? [09:23:14] Yeah. [09:23:14] Not 14, 40. [09:23:16] 40. [09:23:17] Like a 40 ounce handle of liquor. [09:23:22] I got me and my 40 ounce, yo. [09:23:25] Okay, sorry, I'm being cringe. [09:23:26] 1%. [09:23:27] Huh? [09:23:28] 1%. [09:23:28] Has anybody played Edward 40? [09:23:30] Wait, what is that game called? [09:23:31] Edward 40. [09:23:32] Edward 40, where they tape. [09:23:34] Four Locos? [09:23:35] Yeah, bro, I hate that game. [09:23:36] No, they tape 40s. [09:23:39] 40s and shorties? [09:23:41] No, 40 ounce. [09:23:42] You don't know Edward 40 hands? [09:23:44] No, I've. [09:23:45] They tape. [09:23:46] Okay, they tape. [09:23:47] Okay, whatever. [09:23:49] What percentage of men make at least $1 million a year? [09:23:52] A mil? [09:23:52] A year? [09:23:53] Yeah. [09:23:54] A year? [09:23:55] 5%. [09:23:55] What did you answer? [09:23:56] Yeah, I said one. [09:23:57] One percent? [09:23:57] Maybe like five. [09:23:58] Five percent, Chloe? [09:24:00] Unfortunately, I think it's one percent. [09:24:02] Okay, unfortunately. [09:24:03] Three? [09:24:04] One. [09:24:05] A little less than one percent. [09:24:06] That was the thing I got confused with before. [09:24:10] Okay, what percent of men do you find attractive, like in your acceptable age range? [09:24:17] Like, okay, yeah, you go to the grocery store, you see a grandpa, obviously you don't want to fuck unless he's rich and you're her. [09:24:24] But so when you just like the age group of men that you're Into what percentage of them do you find attractive? [09:24:33] Probably like one percent. [09:24:35] I'm not really one percent, maybe. [09:24:38] Yeah, I'm very picky. [09:24:40] It's over, boys. [09:24:43] You're picky, you, yeah. [09:24:46] Oh boy, I'm down to have a good time though. [09:24:49] If they pay you for it, uh, yeah, 0.1 percent, 0.0 wait, 0.1 or 0.01 percent. [09:25:00] 0.01. [09:25:02] Remember the thing that you got earlier? [09:25:04] What was it? [09:25:05] How many percentage of men make $20 million a year or whatever? [09:25:10] What percentage of men do you find attractive? [09:25:13] For my age range, I would say like 25%. [09:25:17] I'll say 5%. [09:25:20] Say like 35%. [09:25:22] Like 20%? [09:25:24] Like 50. [09:25:31] Like 20 to 30%. [09:25:34] All right. [09:25:35] What percent of men have yachts? [09:25:40] Yachts? [09:25:42] I'm going to say maybe like 20%. [09:25:47] 20%? [09:25:47] Okay. [09:25:48] 100%. [09:25:50] What? [09:25:51] 100%. === Belly Button Sizes (14:59) === [09:25:52] I thought you did math and shit. [09:25:54] Where? [09:25:55] The fuck? [09:25:56] Goddamn, bro. [09:25:58] 100% of men have yachts. [09:26:00] I'll show you. [09:26:00] I don't even got a yacht. [09:26:02] Why? [09:26:02] We're fucked. [09:26:04] I'm the one man in the world who doesn't have a yacht. [09:26:06] I'm fucked, man. [09:26:08] Of course, that's why I don't get pussy. [09:26:10] All these other men have yachts, but I'm fucking up. [09:26:14] Can somebody snag me a bottle of water, please? [09:26:18] Like 0.01%. [09:26:19] 0.01%? [09:26:22] Less than 1%. [09:26:24] No idea. [09:26:24] Maybe like 2%. [09:26:25] 2%. [09:26:26] I was just on a yacht yesterday. [09:26:28] It was fun. [09:26:30] With your pimp? [09:26:31] No. [09:26:33] With Cobb. [09:26:34] Your pimp? [09:26:35] Yeah, your pimp. [09:26:36] That's what I was talking about. [09:26:38] What about you? [09:26:39] 1%. [09:26:40] 1%? [09:26:40] Okay. [09:26:41] 1%. [09:26:41] 1%? [09:26:42] One. [09:26:43] Courtney? [09:26:45] Probably less than one, also. [09:26:47] Right? [09:26:47] Yeah. [09:26:49] Is this like in America or in the world? [09:26:52] How do people even know this? [09:26:54] I just leaked, or what's it called? [09:26:55] I saw. [09:26:56] Gleaked. [09:26:57] Is it gleaked? [09:26:58] Yeah. [09:26:58] Fucking gleaked my daughter. [09:26:59] That's so funny. [09:27:02] Hey, relax, Tiffany. [09:27:04] Tiffany's enjoying it a bit too much. [09:27:07] Tiffany's enjoying it a bit too much. [09:27:10] Who here has a roster currently of dudes? [09:27:13] Be honest. [09:27:14] Why are you pointing at me, dude? [09:27:15] I just get vibes. [09:27:16] I get vibes. [09:27:17] Why? [09:27:17] Because I'm plagiar? [09:27:19] Because I'm like. [09:27:19] Don't make it racist. [09:27:21] And if you were wondering. [09:27:23] It wouldn't be because of the black side. [09:27:25] Yeah? [09:27:25] It'd be because of the Asian side. [09:27:27] Yeah. [09:27:27] Because I know how Lexi moves. [09:27:28] I know. [09:27:29] No, I'm just kidding. [09:27:30] How I move. [09:27:31] I had the lowest body count last time. [09:27:33] Bullshit. [09:27:34] Okay, anyways. [09:27:36] No, but it's not because you're black. [09:27:37] Okay. [09:27:38] No. [09:27:39] It's because you have a septum piercing. [09:27:41] Okay. [09:27:43] That's why. [09:27:44] Okay, okay. [09:27:46] Roster. [09:27:47] Who has a roster? [09:27:48] I don't even know what that means. [09:27:49] Dating multiple men. [09:27:51] Ah. [09:27:51] Chloe? [09:27:52] Alyssa Men. [09:27:53] Chloe's got Young Gravy. [09:27:54] She's got Clav. [09:27:55] She's got another looks maxer. [09:27:57] She fucked Androjnik. [09:27:59] Is that even his name? [09:28:00] No, he did not. [09:28:01] She fucked Androjnik. [09:28:03] She fucked Clav. [09:28:04] She fucked Fresh from the Fresh Pot. [09:28:06] Just kidding. [09:28:07] Wait, question. [09:28:08] Big Mo, Big Mo, Myron, or Fresh? [09:28:12] Dude, I genuinely don't know any of those guys. [09:28:15] You only know Big Mo? [09:28:15] He's like the lovable, chubby guy. [09:28:18] He's the lovable. [09:28:20] He's the big, happy personality. [09:28:23] Big Mo. [09:28:24] Man, I'm telling you what, I ain't gay. [09:28:26] But if I was gay and I had to pick a choice between the fresh and fit, this is going to be gay. [09:28:31] Is that the guy who's going to be gay? [09:28:34] Big Mo can get it, dog. [09:28:36] Big Mo? [09:28:37] Nobody knows who I'm talking about. [09:28:39] Big Mo. [09:28:40] If I had to pick one of the fresh and fit crew, Big Mo. [09:28:44] Why do you have to pick one? [09:28:45] Man, he's got more. [09:28:46] He's cuddly, bro. [09:28:47] Okay, this is. [09:28:48] Please don't clip it in. [09:28:49] Please don't. [09:28:52] Don't send it to them. [09:28:53] It's a joke. [09:28:54] It's a joke. [09:28:54] I hope they're not offended by that. [09:28:55] I think it's funny. [09:28:57] I'm just messing. [09:28:57] It's just a joke. [09:28:59] I have no beef. [09:28:59] I don't got beef. [09:29:01] I'm just saying, Big Mo, he seems like a. [09:29:04] I'm gonna edit that in a crazy way and post it. [09:29:07] Great, thank you, Chloe, appreciate it. [09:29:09] Okay, no roster. [09:29:12] Has anyone here had the threesome? [09:29:13] Show of hands. [09:29:14] Threesome. [09:29:17] More than the threesome. [09:29:18] Foursome. [09:29:19] Going once. [09:29:20] Foursome. [09:29:20] Foursome. [09:29:20] Can I get the foursome? [09:29:21] Foursome. [09:29:22] Foursome. [09:29:22] Anybody with foursome? [09:29:23] Foursome. [09:29:24] Fivesome. [09:29:24] Fivesome. [09:29:25] More than orgy. [09:29:26] Gangbang. [09:29:27] What? [09:29:27] Well, what the fuck? [09:29:28] That had to be racially motivated. [09:29:31] That was not racially motivated. [09:29:33] Oh, yeah, I said emotionally radiated, but you get what I mean. [09:29:36] You get what I mean. [09:29:38] Let's see. [09:29:39] Has anyone here slept with. [09:29:41] I'll answer it first. [09:29:42] Slept with someone the same day you met them? [09:29:44] I have. [09:29:45] I've done it. [09:29:47] Who's done it? [09:29:48] Everybody's done it. [09:29:49] I've never done it. [09:29:50] No, I haven't. [09:29:52] Like the same day you meet them? [09:29:54] Wait, the same day you meet them or like the same day you went on a date with them? [09:29:57] Like the first day, I've done it on the first date, but now I met them. [09:30:00] Well, it could either be you meet them on a dating app, then you fuck. [09:30:03] No, no, no. [09:30:04] I never met anybody from an app. [09:30:06] Like I meet people in my app. [09:30:08] Whatever, DM, yeah. [09:30:10] Um, I've never met anyone from just DMs. [09:30:12] Bar, nightclub, really? [09:30:14] I swear on everything I've known about that. [09:30:16] Okay, if you say so. [09:30:17] Who's had a hoe face? [09:30:17] Show of hands, who's had a whole phase? [09:30:20] I had a whole phase, but I only talked to guys. [09:30:22] Like, I had a lot of friends. [09:30:23] Who's gone on two dates in one night? [09:30:26] Anybody? [09:30:28] Two dates one night. [09:30:28] Chloe, two dates one night. [09:30:29] You did it two, two, three, three. [09:30:31] Can I get three, three? [09:30:32] Anybody going three, three, three? [09:30:33] Can I get three dates, three dates, three dates one night? [09:30:35] Three dates one night. [09:30:36] You did three dates, three dates, four dates. [09:30:37] Can I get four, four, four, four dates? [09:30:39] Five, five, five. [09:30:40] Can I? [09:30:42] How do you even do that? [09:30:43] Do what? [09:30:44] Go on three dates in one night. [09:30:45] Why do you do that? [09:30:48] The auctioneer, okay, thanks, Courtney. [09:30:53] Rude, it was slow for an auction. [09:30:55] All right, well, I'm an amateur, and yeah, my I'm still getting used to my auctioneering. [09:31:03] I could auction you guys off, all right. [09:31:06] Oh my god, strumpet, strumpet, can I get three dollars, three dollars for the blue haired strumpet? [09:31:10] Three dollars, three dollars, Nathan, Nathan, did you take her? [09:31:12] Nathan, Nathan, three dollars, uh, Chinese Barbie, Barbie, Chinese Barbie, she's she's good, she's good, a hundred dollars, a hundred dollars for the Chinese Barbie, no, no, no. [09:31:20] Filipino romance. [09:31:23] Filipino? [09:31:24] Oh, sorry, my bad. [09:31:25] Don't say the romance. [09:31:26] Sorry. [09:31:27] Aren't you Filipino? [09:31:28] No, I'm just a little offended when people say that. [09:31:30] You're Mexican? [09:31:30] She's Cambodian. [09:31:31] She's Cambodian. [09:31:32] Oh, that's right. [09:31:33] Fuck. [09:31:33] Just come on. [09:31:35] Okay. [09:31:36] $300 for the Cambodian romance. [09:31:38] Just because I'm a little brown doesn't make me Filipino. [09:31:40] Oh, okay. [09:31:42] Is that a new tattoo, Lexi? [09:31:43] No, it's very old. [09:31:45] I just, last time I came on the show, I had a jacket. [09:31:48] And I have another tattoo here. [09:31:51] You guys can. [09:31:51] Oh my god, who the hell cares? [09:31:56] Uh, would you prefer to live in the world without men? [09:32:00] Oh, no, anybody? [09:32:03] Show of hands, anybody? [09:32:04] Anyone going once, going twice? [09:32:06] Uh, do men suck sometimes in general? [09:32:10] No, are men trash in general? [09:32:13] No, yes, yeah. [09:32:15] Do you would you prefer to live in the world without men and say like you could reproduce either asexually so you lay an egg? [09:32:23] Like a literal, like you have to be a chicken. [09:32:25] Like you're a chicken as women. [09:32:27] You pop out a little egg and it like pops out easily. [09:32:30] It's not like some crazy birth shit. [09:32:31] You just pop out a little egg, pop it out. [09:32:33] Like it's an egg. [09:32:34] It's the size of a chicken egg. [09:32:37] And you have to sit on it for three months. [09:32:40] And then you have more women. [09:32:43] And sometimes you eat them too. [09:32:45] Who's going to build the road? [09:32:46] Cannibalism. [09:32:48] That is a good point. [09:32:49] You guys are definitely fucked when it comes to the roads. [09:32:52] But would you prefer to live in the world without men? [09:32:56] Who's going to program the AI? [09:32:58] I need to have sex. [09:33:00] So I need men. [09:33:01] Okay, how about women? [09:33:03] They are trash. [09:33:04] What about sex robots? [09:33:05] Oh, no. [09:33:06] No, it's different. [09:33:09] She needs cum. [09:33:10] She needs the cum. [09:33:12] You heard it here first. [09:33:14] Do you hate men? [09:33:15] Yes. [09:33:15] What the fuck? [09:33:17] How do you say that? [09:33:19] Why? [09:33:19] Why do you hate men? [09:33:20] They are all cheaters. [09:33:22] All cheaters? [09:33:23] Yeah. [09:33:23] You fucked two guys last week. [09:33:26] All cheaters. [09:33:27] Have you ever cheated? [09:33:29] Yes, of course. [09:33:32] What? [09:33:34] Bro. [09:33:35] So, when I have a feeling my man will cheat on me, I will. [09:33:38] Oh, it's the guy's fault. [09:33:39] I will cheat on him first. [09:33:41] Oh, my God. [09:33:42] So, it's the guy's fault? [09:33:43] Yeah. [09:33:44] Oh, man, that's so toxic. [09:33:46] Wait, you cheated first and then he cheated? [09:33:48] I have a feeling that he will cheat on me. [09:33:52] So, I choose to, like, cheat first. [09:33:57] I only cheat on a girl if she has an innie. [09:34:00] Dude. [09:34:00] I'm kidding. [09:34:01] I thought you meant belly buttons when you first said that. [09:34:03] I also thought you were talking about belly buttons. [09:34:06] You are not. [09:34:07] You thought I was talking about belly buttons. [09:34:08] I thought it was a belly button. [09:34:10] When you asked me Innie or Audi, I was like, yo, I got an Innie. [09:34:12] What does that make me? [09:34:13] Yeah, I think that's what I was saying. [09:34:15] You have to clarify. [09:34:16] No, Ennies. [09:34:18] No, it's labia. [09:34:20] I have an Ennies. [09:34:21] Well, my bad, dog. [09:34:22] I'm not labia. [09:34:24] Labia. [09:34:25] Labia. [09:34:25] Pussy lips. [09:34:28] And then you asked me if I was insecure about my belly button. [09:34:32] I said no. [09:34:33] That's a crazy way to come back. [09:34:35] Pussy lips. [09:34:38] Bro, she's saying. [09:34:40] Why the fuck would I have a thing? [09:34:41] Why would you ask me if I was insecure about my belly button, bro? [09:34:44] I don't know. [09:34:45] That was eight hours ago. [09:34:46] I don't remember the context or the fucking context. [09:34:49] Eight hours ago. [09:34:50] I was like, I asked about it, but I don't remember what the context was. [09:34:52] And then you made me stand in a corner. [09:34:54] It wasn't about the pussy. [09:34:56] I made you stand in the corner because of the OnlyFans and your septum piercing and your racism against white people. [09:35:03] Wait, so you don't like Ennies? [09:35:05] Wait, how am I racist against white people? [09:35:07] Because you murdered one. [09:35:13] What? [09:35:15] Be honest. [09:35:16] It's something. [09:35:17] Be honest. [09:35:17] What are we talking about? [09:35:19] Anyways, what was your question? [09:35:20] Wait, what? [09:35:21] What? [09:35:22] Exactly. [09:35:22] Confused. [09:35:23] Evasion okay, lawyered. [09:35:25] I said, so you don't like now that I know what we're talking about. [09:35:29] How did you not know? [09:35:30] Well, she said belly button. [09:35:32] I asked, why the fuck would I be into belly buttons? [09:35:34] Who the fuck is into belly buttons? [09:35:36] Okay, so we're gonna blast another belly button. [09:35:38] What the fuck? [09:35:39] Shame, so you're not into in this then? [09:35:43] I thought we all knew we were talking about like no, no, I thought labia, pussy, pussy lips. [09:35:50] Why you have you have an inny? [09:35:52] Is that it? [09:35:53] I'm not insecure about my belly. [09:35:56] Well, I mean, it's not, uh, I mean, most men prefer it, so I mean, you're not in trouble, I guess. [09:36:02] Matt Reif. [09:36:03] Fuck Matt Reif. [09:36:04] Yo, fuck Matt Reif. [09:36:06] Fuck Kanye West. [09:36:07] Why? [09:36:08] Because Matt Reif, I don't know. [09:36:10] Matt Reif talks shit about women with Audis. [09:36:12] Kanye talks shit about women without Audis. [09:36:15] I think Howard Stern, he can get fucked. [09:36:17] Oh, bro. [09:36:19] See, the thing with me is, like, I've been labia fished. [09:36:22] Like, women will tell me they have an Audi. [09:36:25] Like, think about it. [09:36:26] You women, you women. [09:36:28] Oh, my God. [09:36:28] Like that, here, show of hands from all the women, listen up. [09:36:32] Show of hands Has a guy ever said his dick was big and then it wasn't? [09:36:39] Uh, has it has that happened to you? [09:36:42] Maybe, like, I'm not saying it had to be small, but it wasn't big, you know what I mean? [09:36:47] What if you like, I got a big dick. [09:36:48] What if you like felt I got a big dick and then it wasn't? [09:36:51] And then it's like, no, it's not a big dick. [09:36:53] He's like the same size with the lipstick, you know, the mix, lipstick, yeah, lipstick, size of dick, uh huh, rice grain. [09:37:03] What? [09:37:04] What? [09:37:04] This is crazy. [09:37:06] Never mind. [09:37:07] Jasmine or. [09:37:10] What's the other kind of rice? [09:37:12] Wait, Jasmine rice? [09:37:13] And then there's. [09:37:13] Jasmine rice? [09:37:14] Basmati. [09:37:17] bro. [09:37:17] Basmati. [09:37:18] Basmati, bro. [09:37:18] Basmati. [09:37:19] Which one's the long one? [09:37:20] Basmati. [09:37:21] Basmati rice. [09:37:22] That's what's up, bro. [09:37:23] I got some basmati. [09:37:25] Bro. [09:37:25] I'm on that basmati dick. [09:37:27] What the fuck? [09:37:28] Well, that sounded good. [09:37:29] Yeah, I did. [09:37:30] Wait, where were we talking about? [09:37:31] Innies or outies? [09:37:33] Look, I'm just saying, I've been labia fished. [09:37:35] I've been labia fished. [09:37:36] Girls be. [09:37:37] Fucking lying trying to, oh, I got an Audi. [09:37:39] And then I'm like, and then I'd see it. [09:37:40] I'm like, they probably thought you were talking about belly buttons. [09:37:43] Yeah, bro. [09:37:44] What the hell? [09:37:45] No, I'm clear. [09:37:46] I make it clear. [09:37:47] They didn't make it clear that time. [09:37:50] How do y'all think it's about belly buttons, bro? [09:37:52] Because I haven't always been on this ever. [09:37:55] Big labia matter. [09:37:56] How's that BLM? [09:37:58] Big labia matter. [09:37:58] I've never been asked about my labia size. [09:38:00] I've never even been asked if I have a clear Audi size. [09:38:03] You know how, I don't know if this is fucked up, but you know how a lot of men are insecure about their penis size, right? [09:38:11] I'm starting a movement, right? [09:38:13] Yes. [09:38:14] I think we need to reverse this shit because y'all, women with the innies and the men shame women with the Audis too. [09:38:24] We got to reverse it. [09:38:27] We got to have any women starting to second guess their shit, yo. [09:38:33] We need to have them, any women like second guessing. [09:38:36] What if this man needs a big pussy? [09:38:39] Wait, sorry, not big pussy. [09:38:40] Excuse me. [09:38:41] Oh my God. [09:38:42] What if he's one of those guys who likes Audis? [09:38:46] What if he doesn't like my any pussy? [09:38:48] What if it's not? [09:38:48] That's what we need to do. [09:38:50] We need to get these women on the back foot. [09:38:54] Because the same way men are insecure about their dick, we need to get y'all on the insecure genitalia game. [09:39:01] I don't know about all that. [09:39:02] We need women to start being a little insecure. [09:39:05] And we need, you know how big dick men got confidence? [09:39:08] We need big labia women to have confidence. [09:39:11] I'm sure they do. [09:39:11] We need them to have some confidence. [09:39:12] They need to be bold and proud of their big labia. [09:39:16] BLM. [09:39:17] Sure they are. [09:39:18] Yeah, I'm sure they are. [09:39:19] I don't know, man. [09:39:20] A lot of them are insecure, man. [09:39:22] They're a little. [09:39:23] She knows what I'm talking about. [09:39:23] You see her shaking her head like that? [09:39:25] You see how she's shaking her head like that? [09:39:26] I'll tell you what, man, back in the day, I'm sprung out. [09:39:31] Yeah, dude. [09:39:32] Okay, wait, wait, wait. [09:39:33] I think we're almost done. [09:39:35] No more labyrinth. [09:39:36] You, if you could, big labia girl, if you could snap your finger and all men disappeared, would you do it? [09:39:43] Oh, wait. [09:39:44] She said she needs dick. [09:39:45] Yeah. [09:39:45] Yeah, yeah. [09:39:46] She needs sex. [09:39:47] Is it gay for a man to date a trans woman? [09:39:51] What? [09:39:52] Oh my god. [09:39:52] Yeah? [09:39:53] Starting with you, is it gay? [09:39:55] I'm gonna say no. [09:39:56] It's technically a woman, right? [09:40:01] Kind of technically, no. [09:40:02] I mean, what if they got the surgery, though? [09:40:05] Honey, that's still a medical seizure. [09:40:08] I'm a girl. [09:40:09] Remember, I clocked you? [09:40:10] Is it gay? [09:40:11] It's a gay. [09:40:11] It's so weird to deal with a W China. [09:40:14] Extremely. [09:40:15] Wait, question. [09:40:16] Gay. [09:40:17] Is trans a thing in China? [09:40:19] Yes. [09:40:21] You're trans? [09:40:21] What the fuck? [09:40:23] Show me your dick. [09:40:24] Whip it out! [09:40:25] Yeah, there's a really famous media personality that's trans. [09:40:30] No, but is it as acceptable as it is in the United States? [09:40:35] I don't think so, right? [09:40:37] No, I don't think so. [09:40:38] Like some dude, some Chinese dude walking around with some fake titties. [09:40:44] No, in Thailand, it is. [09:40:45] Yeah, in Thailand. [09:40:46] They got the ladyboys there. [09:40:49] They got the ladyboys. === Transgender Anatomy Questions (11:22) === [09:40:51] Would you, question, would you guys find it insulting if a guy. [09:40:56] Asked if you were not like to insult you, he was genuinely like, Yo, are you trans? [09:41:02] Would that be insulting? [09:41:04] I would literally just take my pants off. [09:41:08] Like, you'd be really, I'd be like, No, are you trans? [09:41:13] Show them everything, okay? [09:41:15] I mean, if you want, it's a good way to prove it real quick. [09:41:20] That's intense, okay? [09:41:23] If a guy asked me that, I would just be like, Why, what made you think that? [09:41:27] Yeah, that's kind of good. [09:41:28] I don't know. [09:41:28] I don't think I would be mad. [09:41:29] Sometimes I look at you. [09:41:30] I would be a little offended because I would be like, what drew you to that conclusion? [09:41:34] Like, what led you there? [09:41:36] The bulge in your pants. [09:41:37] Oh my God. [09:41:38] Yeah, but what if it's just fat? [09:41:39] Now, sometimes look, because I date women with large labia, and sometimes it creates a bulge. [09:41:44] Oh my God. [09:41:46] Like, sometimes it's just fat. [09:41:48] I'm so. [09:41:48] What are we even talking about? [09:41:49] Oh no. [09:41:50] I'm so confused right now. [09:41:52] No. [09:41:52] Like the lips, the pussy lips. [09:41:54] Like that come out? [09:41:55] Yeah, it's so bad. [09:41:56] Yeah, you're going to make someone else look like this. [09:41:58] Then they call it like this. [09:41:59] What are we even talking about? [09:42:00] Oh my god. [09:42:01] Talking about. [09:42:03] But is it gay to date a trans woman? [09:42:06] Gay. [09:42:07] Yes. [09:42:08] Is it gay? [09:42:08] I'm not sure. [09:42:10] Okay, how about this? [09:42:12] A trans woman, you would agree that some trans women are pre op and post op. [09:42:17] Yeah, I agree. [09:42:17] Okay, so they got a dick. [09:42:18] They have a dick? [09:42:19] Is that gay? [09:42:20] Then I would say that they're a woman, but they have a dick. [09:42:23] A woman with a dick. [09:42:24] Do they also have a vagina or no? [09:42:27] No, it's a dude wearing a wig. [09:42:29] But it's a woman. [09:42:31] Then I would say he's special. [09:42:34] That might be worse. [09:42:37] So, like, let's say you saw Nathan or Joshua back there. [09:42:43] Is Joshua still? [09:42:44] Nathan and Ash. [09:42:45] Yeah, that guy right there. [09:42:46] You saw Joshua, and he was on a date with a woman. [09:42:55] And this woman was wearing a wig and had a cock. [09:43:02] And you know what? [09:43:03] I don't want to make it about Joshua. [09:43:04] I don't want to make him uncomfortable. [09:43:07] Let's just say a random dude. [09:43:08] And the dude, it's a dude. [09:43:10] It's a dude. [09:43:11] And you see the dude, the straight dude. [09:43:14] Sucking a dick. [09:43:16] But it's a woman. [09:43:17] It's a woman with a dick. [09:43:19] That's gay. [09:43:20] Is it gay? [09:43:20] Yeah, it's the gayest you can get. [09:43:22] Is it gay? [09:43:23] That's the gayest you can get. [09:43:24] But when they get a vagina, it's what? [09:43:26] It's definitely queer. [09:43:27] But I don't know if there's like. [09:43:28] Well, they. [09:43:29] Okay, how about this? [09:43:29] Is it straight? [09:43:30] It's not straight. [09:43:31] Definitely not straight. [09:43:32] It's not straight. [09:43:32] It's gay. [09:43:36] I mean, I don't know about you guys, but I don't think queer means straight. [09:43:38] What do you think, Courtney? [09:43:39] What was the question I asked you last time and you were like genuinely stumped and then I was too because I didn't even know I asked it. [09:43:44] I don't know. [09:43:44] You'll have to. [09:43:45] It was like. [09:43:45] It was. [09:43:48] Would it be gay for you to be with a trans man? [09:43:54] I wasn't stumped. [09:43:55] Wait, what? [09:43:56] Yeah, you were like logically, like, I don't know. [09:43:58] Like, yeah, I guess it would be. [09:43:59] Well, it wouldn't technically be a penis. [09:44:01] It would be like. [09:44:03] It would be like an invert, exverted. [09:44:07] Wait, what? [09:44:07] What's the opposite of invert? [09:44:10] What's the opposite of invert? [09:44:12] Extrovert. [09:44:13] Extrovert. [09:44:15] Wait, exvert? [09:44:15] No, extrovert. [09:44:16] What's the opposite of invert? [09:44:17] Overt. [09:44:18] Is it overt? [09:44:18] Invert? [09:44:19] Overt? [09:44:19] I think it's overt. [09:44:20] No, not overt. [09:44:22] Is it not? [09:44:22] Fuck. [09:44:23] I have no idea what the fuck. [09:44:25] Well, okay, so. [09:44:28] Flipped. [09:44:29] I have to question a minute. [09:44:31] Technically, it would still remain if that is a biological woman and she's had her pussy rearranged into some malformed dick. [09:44:43] A dick pussy. [09:44:46] That's weird as fuck, bro. [09:44:48] But technically, it's heterosexual. [09:44:51] What the fuck is wrong with you? [09:44:53] What do you mean? [09:44:53] Bro, it's technically heterosexual. [09:44:55] You know what I looked up to after that episode? [09:44:57] If trans people have balls, and a lot of times they do get ball surgery too. [09:45:02] Thank you for sharing that. [09:45:03] So, if you fuck a trans, the balls are gay. [09:45:05] Is it gay? [09:45:06] For you? [09:45:07] I think if they have a dick, then it's gay. [09:45:10] If they don't, I feel like that's, I don't know, it's a gray area. [09:45:15] It's still gay. [09:45:16] It's still definitely gay. [09:45:17] I don't know. [09:45:18] Still gay. [09:45:18] I'm gonna give it to you. [09:45:19] Still gay. [09:45:20] It's not gay. [09:45:22] It's definitely gay because it's still penis material. [09:45:25] Would you think the man is gay like that? [09:45:28] That is penis material. [09:45:30] Material. [09:45:30] It's penile material. [09:45:32] Shit. [09:45:33] If I put, instead of putting the penis material there, if I put the penis material on the hand, like on my hand, and it's just a penis material, and I make my hand into a fist, are you fucking the vagina? [09:45:47] I don't know what. [09:45:48] Okay, a trans woman, a trans woman, right? [09:45:51] Yeah, okay. [09:45:51] So they have a dick. [09:45:53] Yeah. [09:45:53] But then they remove the dick and put the dick skin on a hand. [09:45:58] You know what a hand job is? [09:45:59] And they're. [09:46:00] They're going like that. [09:46:01] I don't like that. [09:46:02] Are you fucking a pussy? [09:46:03] Dude, what is this? [09:46:04] I don't know. [09:46:05] This is real. [09:46:06] This is deep shit, bro. [09:46:08] I love this concept. [09:46:09] Philosophical, deep level, motherfucking important discussions we're having here at. [09:46:16] Sorry, I'll let you finish. [09:46:17] It's very important. [09:46:18] What do you mean? [09:46:20] Have you fucked it? [09:46:21] Dude, are you into trans people? [09:46:23] It's okay if you are. [09:46:23] Look, it's okay. [09:46:24] No, I think this is literally wild what you're saying. [09:46:26] What do you mean? [09:46:28] Like, I just think the dick, the hand dick. [09:46:31] Wait, the hand, all of it is dick. [09:46:35] The hand dick pussy is a bit too much for you. [09:46:37] Yeah. [09:46:38] You do OnlyFans, girl. [09:46:39] What's up? [09:46:40] Dude, I'm a good girl. [09:46:41] I'm a good girl. [09:46:43] Only fans, I'm a good girl with only fans. [09:46:48] You're literally giving Carmen from South Park right now. [09:46:51] I'm giving Carmen, yeah, how he sings. [09:46:54] I give, I don't really watch South Park, but love that. [09:46:58] Is it gay? [09:47:00] Um, I feel like the correct answer is yes. [09:47:04] She's giving the answer that we want to hear. [09:47:06] What is a woman? [09:47:08] Uh, someone with a vagina, Ignatidic. [09:47:13] Okay, what is a woman? [09:47:17] Born with a vagina. [09:47:19] What's a woman? [09:47:20] What is a woman, Kiko? [09:47:23] Mike, Someone who has a vagina and identifies as a woman. [09:47:30] So, trans women are not women? [09:47:33] If they are pulse op and they inverted their penis into a vagina. [09:47:38] That's not pussy. [09:47:38] That's not trans. [09:47:40] I have a similar but different question. [09:47:43] If someone was burned, if they're a burn victim and someone took like skin from their Butt and their thigh, and put it on their face. [09:47:50] Are you touching their face or their butt or their leg? [09:47:52] Period. [09:47:54] Oh my gosh. [09:47:54] Yeah. [09:47:55] What are you touching when you touch your face? [09:47:56] Because the skin came from somewhere else. [09:47:58] Or from her foot. [09:48:00] I think this is a bit of a difference. [09:48:02] So the tissue that is on their face originated from their butt, but I don't think this is a bit of a false equivalence here to suggest. [09:48:11] Yeah. [09:48:11] So, for example, the tissue, like genital tissue, is very different than just regular skin. [09:48:17] Also, this is like more of a. [09:48:20] When we're talking about a plastic surgery, this isn't changing the nature of the person. [09:48:25] It's not changing the nature of the skin. [09:48:27] So, yes, people get skin grafts to correct like burns and this sort of thing, but it's typically like skin from one part of the body to cover skin from another part of the body. [09:48:36] Like, for example, you wouldn't say that I'm trying to think of a good example here. [09:48:43] You wouldn't say that like skin grafted from the arm and put onto the leg, like, That is still anatomically, you still have your skeletal. [09:48:57] There's still other material in that region that is of the leg. [09:49:02] So, I mean, you would not then call the entirety of that region like your arm because you're just using the skin of the arm. [09:49:11] But when it comes to genitalia, we're referring to something very specific here that just by virtue of. [09:49:19] If someone has no eyebrows, And they transplant their pubes onto their eyebrow. [09:49:23] Is that their eyebrow or their pubes on our face? [09:49:25] It's not a one, it doesn't map on as a comparison. [09:49:30] Okay. [09:49:31] But so, yes, like you can get hair transplants or whatever. [09:49:36] And yeah, I mean, like the penis is an organ. [09:49:44] I mean, how do I explain this? [09:49:46] I don't even know how to explain this. [09:49:48] Like the penis is an organ, it's genitalia. [09:49:51] So cutting it. [09:49:56] Creating a hole inside of you. [09:49:59] I mean, this is what they do. [09:50:00] This is just so insane. [09:50:02] This is what the trans people do. [09:50:04] And then they inverting the penis skin into a wound. [09:50:11] That's a wound with penis, penile material. [09:50:15] And it's self inflicted. [09:50:16] Like, for example, if I was a scrotal. [09:50:18] That's the craziest thing ever. [09:50:19] Can I ask you a question? [09:50:20] You know the gooch area? [09:50:22] You know where the gooch is? [09:50:23] So let's say I didn't invert the penile material, but you just incised a hole where the gooch was. [09:50:30] So it's not the anus, but there's no penile material really. [09:50:33] I guess there's some scrotal material. [09:50:36] But you put a hole in the body. [09:50:40] Is that a vagina because it's a hole? [09:50:45] I think it's meant to serve a similar purpose, right? [09:50:50] No. [09:50:50] Well, one, neo vagina trans pussy. [09:50:55] So they're not. [09:50:56] That's not one, they can't get pregnant. [09:50:59] Right. [09:51:00] So I think that's the biggest difference. [09:51:01] Like that makes them not a natural born woman because they cannot get pregnant. [09:51:06] Right. [09:51:06] But so you said it serves the purpose. [09:51:09] Like a vagina's purpose is not just a hole for ejaculation. [09:51:14] Is a flesh light, like, is a masturbatory tool a vagina? [09:51:18] No. [09:51:19] But it serves a part, it's a hole. [09:51:21] Yeah, it's a pocket vagina, as they would call it. [09:51:25] Well, yeah, but that's used more. [09:51:28] It's not referring to like it's an anatomical, actual, like it's not an actual flesh and blood vagina. [09:51:37] It's different, that's for sure. [09:51:38] Like, for example, you would agree with me, like, a dildo can be shaped like a penis, but it's not a penis. [09:51:43] Right. [09:51:44] Right. [09:51:45] It's like a separate artificial invention. [09:51:47] Yes. [09:51:49] Right. [09:51:50] So a pocket pussy, a masturbatory vagina or whatever, that's not like actual biological vagina. [09:52:00] So, but your question is is a trans woman a biological woman, right? [09:52:04] They're not a biological woman, they're a trans woman. [09:52:07] No. [09:52:07] Well, I don't know if that was the question, but the question was just simply that's not vagina. [09:52:12] It's not a vagina. === Ending the Show Stream (10:36) === [09:52:13] Oh my God, you say so much. [09:52:17] Wait, what? [09:52:19] I've heard vagina 30 times in the last 10 seconds. [09:52:21] Yeah, that's what it is there. [09:52:22] I mean, it's literally not. [09:52:23] It's like an imitation. [09:52:25] It's an imitation vagina. [09:52:27] All right. [09:52:27] As much as imitation crab is crab, like, isn't it some fish or some shit? [09:52:32] But yeah, no, it's not pussy. [09:52:35] It's not vagina. [09:52:37] Nope. [09:52:39] Okay. [09:52:39] Can we agree to disagree? [09:52:40] Yeah. [09:52:40] No, there's no agree to disagree. [09:52:42] It's just truth. [09:52:43] It's just. [09:52:43] Like, whatever works. [09:52:44] Why is this uncomfortable for you guys? [09:52:46] Like, we need to combat this shit. [09:52:47] Look, you've been talking about it for like 10 minutes. [09:52:49] All right, let's see if there's anything else. [09:52:51] I think we're pretty much done with all the questions. [09:52:53] Why is everyone saying? [09:52:56] Oh, do you think Trump is a fascist? [09:53:00] No. [09:53:01] Is Trump a fascist? [09:53:03] No. [09:53:04] I'm not really political. [09:53:06] Okay, that's fine. [09:53:10] I think we're done with all the questions. [09:53:13] Here, take off. [09:53:14] Everyone take off their makeup. [09:53:15] Holy shit. [09:53:17] I'm so excited. [09:53:19] Take the makeup off. [09:53:20] Yeah, good. [09:53:21] Okay, guys. [09:53:21] We're going to all take off our makeup and we're going to go to bed right now, ladies. [09:53:24] Who's so excited? [09:53:26] I have somewhere I have to go with. [09:53:30] Honestly, we're ending the show. [09:53:32] We're ending the show here in five minutes. [09:53:34] Everything is closed. [09:53:35] Here, be quiet while I let some of these chats come through. [09:53:37] Chloe, can you read these? [09:53:38] Yeah. [09:53:39] Everything is closed. [09:53:41] There was no girlfriend experience when you tell someone you love them repeatedly and removed your birth control to get pregnant. [09:53:53] Stop lying. [09:53:54] I have all the receipts. [09:53:56] It was $7,000. [09:53:59] Oh, are you lying, Lexi? [09:54:00] Are you fucking lying? [09:54:01] He said he spent $7,600. [09:54:03] You said it was $250. [09:54:05] Yeah, because I can show you my bank account. [09:54:06] I have $250. [09:54:07] It's still sitting there. [09:54:08] I didn't even cash it out yet. [09:54:11] So he's lying. [09:54:12] You're saying he's lying. [09:54:13] Yeah, because he just wants to make it seem like he gave all this money to me and I'm scamming him so that he can get money for me. [09:54:20] But there's really just no basis for a case. [09:54:22] I'm sorry. [09:54:23] That's all he was contacting me for, is just to say that he's starting a case against me. [09:54:27] Like, boy, I never even met you, never even seen your face. [09:54:30] So, you didn't have sex with him? [09:54:32] No, I never even met him. [09:54:34] How could I have sex with him? [09:54:35] I never met him. [09:54:37] Read this one, Chloe. [09:54:39] Happy birthday, big dog. [09:54:41] Hope your day was exceptional. [09:54:44] I wish you and these wonderful ladies the ability to better yourselves perpetually. [09:54:54] Perpetually. [09:54:55] Perple la plu? [09:54:57] No bottle popping tonight. [09:54:59] We did. [09:54:59] Hey, black marker. [09:55:01] Wait, he sent that in. [09:55:03] Oh, damn. [09:55:03] These came in like an hour ago. [09:55:05] They are reads, though, so we batched them at. [09:55:07] Convenient breaks. [09:55:08] But LARPing Lexi, thank you. [09:55:10] Black Market, I don't know if you're still watching, Zyra. [09:55:13] Thank you very much for the birthday wishes. [09:55:16] Crash out, Brian. [09:55:17] Yep, crashing out. [09:55:18] I'm crashing out here. [09:55:21] Zyra, it's not too late. [09:55:22] Papa Ball champagne. [09:55:23] We got like three minutes here. [09:55:25] Do we make it to the 10 hour mark or do I? [09:55:27] It's like five minutes away from 10 hours. [09:55:28] I don't know. [09:55:30] Those of you, makeup, makeup, you want to take it off? [09:55:32] Makeup, makeup, makeup, makeup. [09:55:33] I use like cleansing. [09:55:34] Here's what we're going to do save the wipes, show us the damage. [09:55:38] Hold it up. [09:55:38] Do you want to take your makeup off? [09:55:40] I have somewhere to go after you. [09:55:41] Oh, you got a party? [09:55:42] You're going to a party? [09:55:43] Look, this is an L. [09:55:44] It's literally genuinely an L. Wait, wait. [09:55:47] Hold it up to the camera here. [09:55:48] That's a big L. Did you take it off? [09:55:50] I didn't take it off. [09:55:51] No? [09:55:52] Take it off? [09:55:52] Take it off? [09:55:54] Over here, Courtney. [09:55:54] I got a lot of extensions. [09:55:55] Where did Homegirl go? [09:55:57] Where did. [09:56:00] I love having extensions. [09:56:02] Once I started, I was like, I'm not going to. [09:56:05] I can't. [09:56:05] I need them to see, dog. [09:56:06] Oh, their prescription. [09:56:07] Yeah. [09:56:08] Did you call me dog? [09:56:09] Yeah. [09:56:10] What's up, dog? [09:56:10] What's up, dog? [09:56:12] High five. [09:56:13] It smells like a big one. [09:56:13] Love that for you. [09:56:14] I just have seed oils. [09:56:16] What's up, dog? [09:56:17] All right. [09:56:19] Any final thoughts from anybody before I wrap the show? [09:56:23] Any final thoughts from anybody? [09:56:25] No. [09:56:27] Thank you. [09:56:28] Honestly, yeah. [09:56:28] Thank you so much for letting me take off my makeup. [09:56:31] I really appreciate it. [09:56:32] Thank you, guys. [09:56:33] Thank you. [09:56:34] We love you. [09:56:34] Yeah, that honestly felt so refreshing. [09:56:37] You know, like I feel a wig. [09:56:38] Did you bring your other wig or just this one? [09:56:40] No, I brought the other one too. [09:56:41] We didn't get to do it, but that's okay. [09:56:43] No, I thought you were just going to do it. [09:56:45] Just. [09:56:46] Wait, what color is your natural hair? [09:56:48] Makeup? [09:56:49] Currently, it's black. [09:56:50] I dyed it black. [09:56:51] Black? [09:56:52] Yeah, but I have 26 different wigs. [09:56:55] One for every personality. [09:56:57] Oh, shit. [09:56:57] Maybe we should have you back and you can wear the wig and the. [09:57:03] Yeah, I can wear the pink and blonde one. [09:57:05] Yeah. [09:57:06] You know what? [09:57:08] I gotta give everyone compliments. [09:57:10] I was a little in the mood today. [09:57:15] I was a little rough on her at the beginning. [09:57:18] I'm not gonna lie. [09:57:19] She was very sank her. [09:57:20] You know what? [09:57:21] She was, and her? [09:57:23] Who? [09:57:23] Yeah, both. [09:57:24] Both of those two. [09:57:24] To her? [09:57:25] Yeah. [09:57:25] You were kind of like, just a little bit. [09:57:27] Maybe a little bit. [09:57:27] Maybe a little bit. [09:57:29] Yeah. [09:57:30] Oh, she's taking, wait. [09:57:31] Yeah, she's taking them off. [09:57:32] Oh, she's taking the fake, she took the fake lashes off. [09:57:35] You go, girl. [09:57:36] You go, girl. [09:57:37] You can't take the fake titties out then. [09:57:39] Huh? [09:57:39] What? [09:57:40] Nothing. [09:57:41] So you're going to give everybody a compliment? [09:57:45] I mean, something. [09:57:46] That was the compliment. [09:57:47] Yeah, I don't think that was a compliment, bro. [09:57:49] I think I was just going to. [09:57:50] I think that was the opposite. [09:57:51] That's rough. [09:57:51] I was going to say she was a good sport. [09:57:54] I was a little rough on her, but she was a good sport. [09:58:01] Why was I rough on her? [09:58:02] I forgot. [09:58:03] Was it the outfit? [09:58:03] Yeah. [09:58:04] I think it was the outfit. [09:58:05] When I was a little lady, I'm so happy. [09:58:07] Oh, you were late. [09:58:10] You were late. [09:58:13] I think a couple other people were late too. [09:58:17] But yeah. [09:58:20] And then the freaking girl I had to kick off, she was late. [09:58:25] She was late. [09:58:26] I got fat shamed. [09:58:27] That was a fr- I don't think I got fat shamed. [09:58:29] Multiple times. [09:58:29] Yeah, like, she didn't say that. [09:58:31] That was extreme. [09:58:32] Like, I'm not fat on you. [09:58:34] You know what I'm saying? [09:58:35] Fatso. [09:58:35] He makes you fat and he's acne. [09:58:36] I mean, the thing is, I know I'm chubby, so it's like- No. [09:58:42] I call myself fat. [09:58:43] Fatso is not creative, though. [09:58:45] You gotta come in with like a jiggly belly or something that's hurtful. [09:58:48] But, uh. [09:58:49] Yeah, nah, she was late. [09:58:51] I don't even think she apologized. [09:58:53] She was twerked and left. [09:58:55] Yep, twice. [09:58:55] Yeah, I don't even get it. [09:58:58] It's like she could have gotten way more out of it. [09:59:02] Like, even if you're going to troll, I feel like you can get way more out of it just by, like, I don't know, save it till the end or something. [09:59:11] That way you can actually get content. [09:59:13] Like, she could get content for herself or whatever. [09:59:15] Like, be on the show. [09:59:16] But instead, just, you're going to just get kicked. [09:59:20] You just drove. [09:59:21] Did she take an Uber? [09:59:22] Wait. [09:59:23] I would kill you. [09:59:23] Wait, wait, wait. [09:59:24] Or was that you who took the Uber? [09:59:26] No, I didn't. [09:59:27] Oh, wait, wait. [09:59:28] Let me look. [09:59:29] And I met her because I think it was her. [09:59:30] She Ubered here? [09:59:31] She Ubered? [09:59:32] Wait, does she live in San Diego? [09:59:34] Yeah, she told me she's from San Diego. [09:59:36] So she, hold on, let me see. [09:59:41] She Ubered. [09:59:42] No. [09:59:42] She took an Uber from San Diego. [09:59:44] That's probably like 300, 400 bucks. [09:59:46] One way. [09:59:47] Bro, an Uber back? [09:59:49] No, I thought like from LA an Uber is like 200, I think. [09:59:53] It's still 240? [09:59:54] Like downstairs? [09:59:55] Do you think she sells that? [09:59:56] I don't know. [09:59:56] But, but, uh, but, uh, hold on. [09:59:59] But, um, no, yeah, she. [10:00:01] I thought this was a long time to do something. [10:00:03] Well, so she said. [10:00:05] I was like, oh my God. [10:00:07] Okay, fine, I got it. [10:00:09] Well, so. [10:00:10] Wait, hold on, guys. [10:00:10] Hold on. [10:00:12] Hold on. [10:00:12] Stop. [10:00:13] We're about to wrap. [10:00:14] I don't know why she keeps disappearing. [10:00:16] I just need to do the makeup thing and we can wrap it up. [10:00:18] Is there any. [10:00:18] Oh, she wants to go wash her face. [10:00:19] She said she wanted to do it in the. [10:00:21] Oh, she wants to do it pro? [10:00:22] Okay. [10:00:22] Yeah. [10:00:24] No, yeah, she took a fucking Uber. [10:00:26] So it's like. [10:00:27] You spent 400 bucks to get kicked off the. [10:00:31] How quick was the kick? [10:00:32] Like one hour in? [10:00:33] No, like an hour? [10:00:36] Two minutes. [10:00:36] Like, yeah, we just started. [10:00:38] No, I think, no, yeah, I was only standing for like 20, 30. [10:00:41] I had it in like 35 minutes. [10:00:44] Yeah, that's why I was very surprised because I was like, no, I don't know. [10:00:48] I felt very surprised. [10:00:50] Wait, how much is an Uber from San Diego to Santa Rosa? [10:00:56] Not only does she pay it here, she has to pay it back. [10:00:59] Okay, so it says, it says, so it's, yeah, all right, um, it says, hello. [10:01:08] Are you okay? [10:01:10] Cool. [10:01:11] A journey of 230 miles typically costs between $300 and $450 for a standard UberX. [10:01:19] So then round trip. [10:01:22] Eight hours. [10:01:23] So, like, okay, it's what, four hours? [10:01:25] Is it four? [10:01:26] How long is the drive, Lexi? [10:01:27] Four hours, 300 miles. [10:01:28] Yeah, my drive was. [10:01:29] So, eight hours total. [10:01:31] You're looking at between $600 and $900 for the Uber. [10:01:37] She. [10:01:39] That's crazy. [10:01:40] She came eight, so eight hour round trip to call me fat. [10:01:45] I think I take the W. That's a W for me. [10:01:48] She's low key, bro. [10:01:49] She traveled all that way for you. [10:01:51] Wow. [10:01:51] Yeah. [10:01:52] Like last time, a girl flew in and then she got kicked off too. [10:01:57] So I'm like, is this something the first time I came? [10:02:00] But really, I don't want to kick people off. [10:02:04] Who did I kick off? [10:02:05] Um, I was just wondering, like, if this is like something that you always have to do, like, you always like kicking girls off. [10:02:10] Oh, no, it's actually rare. [10:02:11] Yeah, I'm like, maybe that's like a part of it. [10:02:15] I really try not to, um, but like, I don't know, yeah, she forced my hand. [10:02:23] I get that. [10:02:24] Like, there's an extent. [10:02:25] Bro, it's like, okay, you can tease me a little bit. [10:02:28] You can rib me. [10:02:29] I do it too. [10:02:30] So, like, I'm not going to be. [10:02:31] Oh, yeah, like in good nature. [10:02:33] Well, I'm not going to be. [10:02:34] Like, yeah, sometimes I'm a dick. [10:02:35] Sometimes I'm kind of like roasting or teasing or whatever. [10:02:39] I do it. [10:02:39] Like, I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I think there's a degree to it. [10:02:46] Yeah, and it's like good banter. [10:02:48] There's a degree. [10:02:49] And what? === Good Night Compliments (14:29) === [10:02:50] I think she got pressed because you were on her ass in the first. [10:02:53] Because she mentioned, like, when you started talking to her, she was like, Why are you, like, arguing with her so much? [10:02:59] blah blah blah blah. [10:03:00] And then she started going off and shaking ass. [10:03:02] Wait, why am I? [10:03:03] Yeah, remind me, what was the thing? [10:03:05] I don't know, bro. [10:03:05] You were just like talking to her, and I think you were arguing a little bit, bantering. [10:03:09] And then, oh no, she got upset with that. [10:03:12] You said it to her, yeah. [10:03:13] Well, she's it was something like, Why are you asking about the past relationships? [10:03:17] I'm like, It's a podcast, yeah. [10:03:20] You've never been on a pod. [10:03:22] What is the past? [10:03:23] What is our past? [10:03:24] Have to do with the day, it's like erroneous. [10:03:27] Oh, whoops. [10:03:27] I didn't mean, I did not mean he's a brave and a decent man, he's a pioneer. [10:03:33] I haven't played that. [10:03:34] Where, how long does it take this girl? [10:03:37] Man, how long does it take? [10:03:41] I'm waiting for her, guys. [10:03:42] Yeah, bro, she might be taking out her contacts. [10:03:44] Where's she gonna put them? [10:03:45] She's coming, she's coming. [10:03:48] Teach me some Mandarin, Nihao. [10:03:50] It's beautiful, yeah. [10:03:51] She's still very gorgeous. [10:03:54] She's still like as pretty as ever, yeah. [10:03:57] Wait, can you step up really quick? [10:03:59] Can you just step up? [10:04:00] Really? [10:04:01] Can you step back up? [10:04:02] And then wait, I'll tell you when to come back. [10:04:04] Hold on. [10:04:05] Yeah, no, step up. [10:04:06] Step up. [10:04:06] Over there? [10:04:07] Yeah. [10:04:07] And then like, yep. [10:04:10] Okay. [10:04:11] And then like, step over there. [10:04:12] And then like, come back. [10:04:14] Okay, go ahead, take your seat. [10:04:17] I'm sorry. [10:04:17] I'm sorry. [10:04:19] Oh my God, bro. [10:04:20] I'm sorry. [10:04:21] I'm sorry. [10:04:22] I had a new thing on my thing I had to play. [10:04:24] Aw, you are so pretty. [10:04:25] Thank you. [10:04:28] Yeah. [10:04:30] Look in the. [10:04:30] You still got the fake contacts in the. [10:04:33] Dog, where are we supposed to go? [10:04:33] There's still a bit of makeup. [10:04:34] There is still a bit of makeup. [10:04:36] A little bit of eyeliner still on there. [10:04:38] No, I used to. [10:04:39] It's hard to get off. [10:04:41] Did you. [10:04:43] Did you save it? [10:04:44] It's in there. [10:04:46] She put it inside? [10:04:47] Yeah, because there's no more in here. [10:04:48] Oh, it's empty. [10:04:49] Yeah, I did it too. [10:04:50] I did too. [10:04:50] Oh, okay. [10:04:51] All right, forget it then. [10:04:52] Sorry. [10:04:52] Any final thoughts from anybody before I wrap up? [10:04:54] Speak now forever. [10:04:54] Hold your peace. [10:04:56] Holding it. [10:04:57] Thank you so much for what you do on this show. [10:04:59] Oh, thank you. [10:04:59] You definitely helped me stop being a feminist personally. [10:05:03] So let's go. [10:05:04] I admire what you do here. [10:05:05] Yeah, W. Hey, what's your Instagram name? [10:05:08] It's kind of funny at locked in with Zaza. [10:05:11] No, it's maybe not the Instagram name, but it's the you have like another name you use. [10:05:16] Oh, my favorite. [10:05:17] Y'all's favorite. [10:05:21] Oh my god, that's crazy. [10:05:23] That's wild. [10:05:24] That's fire. [10:05:25] Um, okay. [10:05:26] Uh, what do you think about that? [10:05:28] Y'all's favorite can. [10:05:29] I thought that was me, but that's fine. [10:05:31] We can share. [10:05:32] Oh, shut up. [10:05:33] That's fine. [10:05:35] Oh, okay. [10:05:36] Um, well, I'm trying to see if just double checking, making sure there's like nothing left. [10:05:42] I might have missed. [10:05:43] Let me just double check here. [10:05:45] Whoa! [10:05:47] Uh, good show, guys. [10:05:48] You guys were fun. [10:05:49] I appreciate you guys. [10:05:51] You know, I was a little harsh, so let me pay all of you compliments. [10:05:55] You're sweet. [10:05:57] Oh, boy. [10:05:57] This is going to be a hard one. [10:05:59] Compliments. [10:06:01] You have wonderful. [10:06:03] I can't tell if your breasts are real, to be honest. [10:06:06] Oh, nice. [10:06:07] Stay calm and touch. [10:06:10] You're funny. [10:06:11] You're funny. [10:06:12] Not like in a laughing at you way. [10:06:13] You've got a good sense of humor. [10:06:18] You're my favorite gold digger who's ever come on the show. [10:06:22] So there you go. [10:06:23] You're my favorite gold digger. [10:06:25] You have a good attitude. [10:06:26] You're a good sport. [10:06:29] So props. [10:06:30] You're my favorite Blazian ever come on the show. [10:06:34] You're, I think, the only, maybe the only? [10:06:36] Maybe we've had one or two. [10:06:38] So, I mean, there you go. [10:06:40] You do have to lose the septum piercing, though. [10:06:43] Do you have any tattoos? [10:06:45] No. [10:06:46] Okay. [10:06:47] You're my favorite adopted Blazian. [10:06:50] I have a friend of mine. [10:06:52] Oh, I'm gonna tell my mom and dad. [10:06:53] Put it on your resume. [10:06:55] I'm gonna tell my white parents. [10:06:56] Yep. [10:06:58] Yeah. [10:06:58] Do you have a brother named like Tucker or something? [10:07:00] Yeah, dog. [10:07:01] Oh, my God. [10:07:01] His name is Jason. [10:07:02] Oh. [10:07:03] Almost got it. [10:07:05] Lexi, your friend's bitch. [10:07:08] Oh. [10:07:08] So you know how to pick them. [10:07:10] Not a compliment, but that's all right. [10:07:12] Can I spell some lore? [10:07:13] My bad. [10:07:14] How about your friend? [10:07:15] Not really. [10:07:16] Compliment, though. [10:07:17] Okay. [10:07:18] Lexi. [10:07:20] I should try to make these genuine compliments. [10:07:21] Yeah. [10:07:22] Lexi. [10:07:24] Some people dislike your laugh, but I actually like your laugh. [10:07:27] Wait, that still sounds so bad. [10:07:29] Yeah, that sounds so mean. [10:07:30] Oh my god, I'm so autistic. [10:07:31] I'm sorry. [10:07:32] I like her laugh though. [10:07:34] No, I like her laugh. [10:07:36] Maybe. [10:07:36] Yeah, a lot of people don't like my laugh and they think I'm faking it or I'm obnoxious. [10:07:41] Do you fake orgasms also? [10:07:43] No, I laugh really loud, but that's just like I'm naturally loud. [10:07:48] This girl, this OnlyFans girl, is clutching her pearls. [10:07:51] Oh my god. [10:07:52] You're not clutching no pearls. [10:07:53] She's clutching her pearls. [10:07:54] Oh my god, he's talking about. [10:07:56] Faking orgasms. [10:07:56] Oh my god. [10:07:57] Well, because even when I do my own content, I don't really know. [10:08:01] Ashlyn, do you do dick ratings on your Instagram or your OnlyFans? [10:08:05] Do you offer dick ratings? [10:08:07] I've done them a couple times. [10:08:08] But she does dick ratings and she's clutching pearls about. [10:08:12] How is that faking an orgasm? [10:08:15] What? [10:08:16] You were talking about faking an orgasm. [10:08:17] She fakes her lap. [10:08:19] Never mind. [10:08:20] Okay, Ashlyn, you're really smart. [10:08:28] I'm sorry. [10:08:28] I'm such a dick. [10:08:29] Yeah. [10:08:30] Chloe, really smart. [10:08:33] Stop. [10:08:34] These are ass. [10:08:36] You have more to say about me than I've been on here like four times. [10:08:40] Okay, I'll tell you this. [10:08:42] Some people think you're faking your voice, some people dislike your voice. [10:08:50] I actually like your voice. [10:08:51] I like your voice. [10:08:52] That's like the equivalent of the one that you gave me. [10:08:55] It's just so backhanded. [10:08:56] You know, he literally said I'm serious. [10:08:58] I like your voice. [10:08:59] I don't know why people are harsh. [10:09:01] I don't know what. [10:09:03] Well, Chloe's like a. [10:09:05] You're very. [10:09:07] There's a lot of polarity with you because, like, some people love you. [10:09:10] They're like, more Chloe. [10:09:12] We love Chloe. [10:09:13] And then other people are like, oh my God, her voice. [10:09:16] Some people really don't like me and some people really love me. [10:09:19] There it is. [10:09:20] There it is. [10:09:21] Polarity. [10:09:22] Yeah. [10:09:23] You, honestly, I got to be honest, you talked way too much tonight. [10:09:27] So, fuck you. [10:09:29] You were way too talkative. [10:09:30] You wasted a bunch of time. [10:09:33] Please, like, learn to shut your yap sometimes, okay? [10:09:36] Who? [10:09:37] Her. [10:09:39] Like you talked way too much. [10:09:40] It was fucked up. [10:09:41] Did I really? [10:09:41] Are you being sarcastic? [10:09:43] No, you were way too talkative. [10:09:45] I wish you gave, like, I wish you gave, like, her more time to talk. [10:09:51] I wish you gave Kiko more time to talk. [10:09:53] Like, it was really fucking, honestly, really rude. [10:09:57] And, um, fuck you. [10:09:59] Didn't I tell you happy birthday as soon as I, like, walked in here? [10:10:02] No, did you? [10:10:03] Yes, I said happy birthday. [10:10:04] You didn't bring me a gift, though. [10:10:06] But at least I told you happy birthday. [10:10:08] No girls gave me a gift. [10:10:10] You know, I let you tell people I was pregnant. [10:10:13] Okay, that is true. [10:10:13] She did give me a gift. [10:10:14] All right, Kiko. [10:10:16] Damn good gift. [10:10:17] Oh boy. [10:10:18] Oh. [10:10:19] Kiko, you were a good sport. [10:10:23] We disagreed on a couple different topics, but you kept your composure and you were a good interlocutor. [10:10:35] Am I saying that right? [10:10:36] What do you mean? [10:10:37] It's like a debate opponent, essentially. [10:10:42] Oh, thanks. [10:10:43] Interlocutor. [10:10:43] Interlocutor. [10:10:44] And we're matching in our looks that you rated on yourself and on us. [10:10:48] Wait, really? [10:10:49] What did I give you? [10:10:50] I thought I gave you a four. [10:10:51] Four, four, 4.5, and you're ready yourself a 4.5. [10:10:55] Okay. [10:10:57] Well, I mean, keep your marriage closed. [10:10:59] Oh, of course. [10:11:01] I wouldn't lose him for the world. [10:11:03] Yeah. [10:11:05] Based, red pilled black woman, W. [10:11:09] We need more strong, independent, conservative black women. [10:11:15] Yeah, you want to do it? [10:11:16] We need more, we need, we need more based. [10:11:21] Black people to come to our side so we can get more of the black vote. [10:11:28] So, W, I guess. [10:11:29] And then Courtney. [10:11:31] Hello. [10:11:32] Can you scoot into the table, please? [10:11:37] No, I can't get past you. [10:11:39] Courtney, you said you're three months pregnant, but you only look two months pregnant. [10:11:43] That's my compliment. [10:11:45] That is my compliment. [10:11:46] I actually said I was only two months, but almost like three. [10:11:50] Okay, then you look like six weeks. [10:11:52] You're welcome. [10:11:53] Thank you. [10:11:53] I'm such a nice guy. [10:11:54] See, I end the show with some compliments. [10:11:56] I know how to. [10:11:56] I'm a gentleman. [10:11:58] I'm a gentleman. [10:12:00] No, but truthfully, for all of you, you guys were wonderful. [10:12:04] I know the show went late, so thank you for guys' patience here. [10:12:07] It was a wonderful panel. [10:12:08] Thank you for being here with me on my birthday stream. [10:12:12] Wait, happy birthday. [10:12:13] I'm going out with Brian for his birthday. [10:12:15] Brian's going to bed. [10:12:16] It is 4 a.m. [10:12:18] Nope. [10:12:19] It's like. [10:12:20] Let's see if there's anything. [10:12:22] Yeah, by the time we get home, it's going to be 8 a.m. [10:12:24] It's going to be like 6. [10:12:26] Yeah, it's crazy. [10:12:27] Yeah, drive you to polish rings. [10:12:29] Your notes are so big. [10:12:30] Let me not. [10:12:31] Are they? [10:12:31] I don't know. [10:12:31] They're just so big. [10:12:32] I need to go. [10:12:33] Yeah, I agree too. [10:12:34] Let me just double check the thing. [10:12:37] Here, final call. [10:12:38] Pull up Twitch really quick. [10:12:39] Guys, if you enjoyed the stream, like the video. [10:12:41] If you enjoyed the stream, like the video. [10:12:43] Guys, let me see one Twitch Prime. [10:12:48] One Twitch Prime. [10:12:50] Drop us a follow. [10:12:51] We still got 1,200 over there on Twitch. [10:12:53] Check if you have a Prime sub available. [10:12:55] Give me a little birthday. [10:12:56] A birthday Prime on the way out. [10:12:59] I need a birthday Prime. [10:13:01] Show some love, show a brother some love. [10:13:03] Come on, guys, lock in. [10:13:05] Show a brother some love. [10:13:08] Um, there it is. [10:13:09] Oh, oh my god, they're on fire! [10:13:12] Oh my god, oh my god, 20 sub 20 gifted subs on chat in the chat. [10:13:16] Oh my goodness, sh shino, thank you for the prime off sauce. [10:13:20] Thank you for the prime. [10:13:21] It's okay. [10:13:22] Hey, where are you going? [10:13:24] Oh, do you want to just stay for a minute? [10:13:25] I'm like wrapping the show right now. [10:13:27] It's okay. [10:13:27] Do you want the water ball? [10:13:28] You can do it under the table. [10:13:30] All right, thank you guys for you know what'd be funny. [10:13:33] I'm gonna actually install. [10:13:35] Thank you guys for the support over there on Twitch. [10:13:37] Big W's for, wait, where the fuck? [10:13:40] For black, was it black market Zyra with the prime? [10:13:44] Behave, thank you for the prime. [10:13:46] We need to invent tubes under the table for urine. [10:13:51] That's that's the most man stuff I've ever heard. [10:13:57] What the okay, that was a terrible idea. [10:14:00] Okay, yeah, all right. [10:14:01] Well, uh, thank you guys. [10:14:02] Like the stream, always remember big labia matter, but like the what's oh my god, where are you clutching? [10:14:08] I'm just so glad I learned that because oh, okay, yeah, I've learned genuinely, yeah. [10:14:15] How weird we were so wrong with what we thought. [10:14:18] No, not belly buttons. [10:14:19] You better clip that. [10:14:21] That's so funny. [10:14:22] Clip what? [10:14:23] Can you clip the part about me being insecure about my freaking belly button? [10:14:26] Because you said, Yeah, bro. [10:14:28] I genuinely was covering my stomach for like two minutes. [10:14:31] She did. [10:14:32] All right, guys, like the video if you enjoyed the stream. [10:14:34] Like the video if you enjoyed the stream. [10:14:36] Let me just do the outro here. [10:14:39] All right. [10:14:41] Okay, guys, I want to say, Holy shit, I need to clean this up. [10:14:45] Okay, GG. [10:14:46] Well played. [10:14:47] GG, well played. [10:14:48] Last call. [10:14:49] Hit the like button, please, on your way out. [10:14:51] Also, please leave a nice comment once the live ends. [10:14:54] It takes about 20 to 30 seconds after the stream ends, and then you're able to refresh and leave a comment. [10:14:59] Leave a comment, guys. [10:15:00] Give me a little happy birthday in the comments on YouTube. [10:15:03] I read them. [10:15:04] Positivity is nice, helps the algorithm. [10:15:09] Thank you for tuning in tonight. [10:15:10] You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. [10:15:14] I appreciate that. [10:15:15] On your birthday. [10:15:16] On my birthday. [10:15:16] Thank you. [10:15:17] Thank you. [10:15:17] Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show. [10:15:22] We will be live again Sunday at 5 p.m. Pacific. [10:15:24] Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM at whatever on Instagram if you can make it to San Barber. [10:15:28] I promise double pinky swear, double dog, double dare. [10:15:33] I will not be, if you schedule yourself to be on the show, I won't be as toxic as I was tonight. [10:15:39] I'll be the perfect gentleman. [10:15:41] He's like, I like shit right now. [10:15:44] I'll be the perfect gentleman for whichever episode you guys are on. [10:15:48] No! [10:15:49] 07's in the chat. [10:15:50] 07's in the chat. [10:15:52] And we will. [10:15:54] Hold on, let me just check this. [10:15:56] 07's in the chat. [10:15:56] Good night, guys. [10:15:57] And we will see you next time. [10:16:00] Good night, guys. [10:16:01] Bye. [10:16:01] Bye. [10:16:02] All right. [10:16:03] Really quick before everybody gets up, we are wrapped. [10:16:05] Just curious did anybody lie about their body count? [10:16:08] No. [10:16:08] I don't think so. [10:16:09] No. [10:16:09] Did we even talk about our body count? [10:16:11] Yeah, I think we did. [10:16:12] Oh, what's your body count? [10:16:15] It was six. [10:16:16] It is now seven. [10:16:17] Oh, I think I asked the body count when your friend was sitting there. [10:16:21] And then Sammy. [10:16:22] Oh, yeah. [10:16:22] And then she left, so we did, but you weren't sitting at the table. [10:16:26] I guess that ultimately worked out for you, Lexi. [10:16:28] You didn't have to stand. [10:16:29] You weren't even doing any dancing, by the way. [10:16:31] I told you to do like the robot dance, and you didn't do it. [10:16:35] Do you want me to do it now? [10:16:36] I can. [10:16:36] Oh, yeah, do it, do it, do it. [10:16:38] I'm not really good at it. [10:16:41] Oh, what the fuck? [10:16:42] Wait, wait, wait. [10:16:42] Holy shit, Nathan. [10:16:43] Sorry. [10:16:43] This is the best I can do. [10:16:45] We're still live. [10:16:46] We're still live. [10:16:47] We. [10:16:47] Wait, we're still live? [10:16:49] I don't know. [10:16:50] I don't know. [10:16:51] Oh, fuck. [10:16:52] Oh, fuck. [10:16:53] Oh, shit. [10:16:53] Okay, good night, guys. [10:16:55] Bro, Nathan, what? [10:16:56] Tiffany, what the f? [10:16:57] Guys. [10:16:57] Guys, by the way, it's been a week since I posted a video. [10:17:00] I just posted a video. [10:17:00] Happy birthday. [10:17:01] Okay. [10:17:02] All right, good night, guys. [10:17:06] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [10:17:06] Now we're done. [10:17:07] Now we're done. [10:17:07] I was watching that. [10:17:08] We're done. [10:17:08] Wait. [10:17:09] I think that's still on. [10:17:11] Imagine someone did that. [10:17:12] Bro, Nathan, what the fuck? [10:17:16] Wait, say that again. [10:17:17] Say that again. [10:17:18] Okay.