Whatever Podcast - HEATED DEBATE! She ONLY Dates FAT Men?! He CHEATED On Her With Her MOM?! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk 286
Aired: 2026-03-16
Duration: 08:57:45


=== Entrepreneurial Art & Suspension (06:09) ===

[00:00:41]  Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape.
[00:00:47]  I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
[00:00:50]  We're going to just jump right in here.
[00:00:51]  Sorry that we're a little bit late today.
[00:00:53]  Go ahead.
[00:00:54]  Hi, I'm Lexi.
[00:00:55]  I'm 22.
[00:00:56]  I do OF and I'm from Chicago.
[00:01:00]  All right.
[00:01:02]  You're from Chicago?
[00:01:04]  Yeah, I'm born and raised in Chicago.
[00:01:05]  Okay, how long you been doing that?
[00:01:06]  Well, I mean, specifically like Bridgeview or like Oglon.
[00:01:10]  Yeah.
[00:01:11]  How long you been doing OF for?
[00:01:13]  Like three years.
[00:01:14]  Wait, this is, I'm, my OCD is already triggering.
[00:01:17]  Lexi, one, can you, your seating pad, can you turn it 180 degrees?
[00:01:26]  What do you mean?
[00:01:27]  You see how the tag is.
[00:01:28]  Wow, you fucked that up.
[00:01:31]  Damn, bro.
[00:01:32]  Holy shit.
[00:01:36]  Oh.
[00:01:38]  Is that better?
[00:01:40]  The tag was sticking out, boys.
[00:01:42]  I had to fucking fix it.
[00:01:44]  I think I fixed it.
[00:01:46]  Maybe scoot your chair.
[00:01:48]  All right.
[00:01:48]  Off to a good start, boys.
[00:01:50]  All right.
[00:01:51]  What about you?
[00:01:52]  Hi, I'm Brie Knightwood.
[00:01:54]  I'm an entrepreneur, content creator, and musician from Las Vegas.
[00:02:00]  I also have a degree in forensic neuropsychology.
[00:02:03]  Age?
[00:02:04]  26.
[00:02:06]  26?
[00:02:07]  Yeah.
[00:02:08]  Okay.
[00:02:08]  You said you have a degree in forensic neuropsychology?
[00:02:12]  Correct.
[00:02:12]  Bachelor's.
[00:02:14]  Bachelor's of Science, yes.
[00:02:15]  Okay.
[00:02:18]  Why don't you explain to the viewers and the other panelists what that is?
[00:02:22]  So basically, it's like a mixture of law and neuropsychology.
[00:02:26]  So let's just say like a guy killed his wife or something.
[00:02:31]  And they're like, he's on trial.
[00:02:33]  They'd bring me in and like I would determine if he is criminally insane.
[00:02:39]  And with their neuroscience part, I could scan like the gray matter in his brain to see if maybe it indicated schizophrenia and that could you know indicate that he is actually criminally insane and go to a psych board rather than like prison for life.
[00:02:51]  Yeah.
[00:02:53]  Okay.
[00:02:54]  How recently did you graduate?
[00:02:56]  Oh gosh.
[00:02:57]  It was back like in the pandemic.
[00:02:59]  At the same time my like OF was blowing up and I was actually going to start my PhD but I decided to follow the money because school's always there but like you know just gotta chase that money first.
[00:03:10]  Build my life.
[00:03:11]  So 2022, 23?
[00:03:13]  2020ish, yeah.
[00:03:15]  2020-ish is when you graduated?
[00:03:17]  Correct.
[00:03:18]  Okay.
[00:03:19]  Are you in terms of what you learned, in terms of your degree, are you using that at all for your work?
[00:03:26]  Yeah, definitely like the psychology tactics that really helps with sales in a way, like with OF and just business in general, kind of that did give me an edge with it.
[00:03:36]  But have you had a job in concurrence with your OnlyFans related to your education?
[00:03:45]  I mean, not with my education like on paper, like no, but I've used the skills.
[00:03:50]  That's what I mean.
[00:03:51]  Yeah.
[00:03:51]  All right.
[00:03:53]  I guess one question on this.
[00:03:55]  Can you relate to us your one big takeaway from your program?
[00:04:01]  Oh, gosh.
[00:04:02]  I guess everyone has a little bit of something wrong with them in a way.
[00:04:07]  It's always a bad thing, but we're all a little, I don't know, we all have our quirks.
[00:04:14]  Okay.
[00:04:15]  And you questioned, did you take out student loans for I was fortunate enough to have my tuition covered with scholarships, but living expenses were crazy.
[00:04:27]  Oh my gosh.
[00:04:28]  But that's why I kind of like started OF and like streaming in the first place.
[00:04:32]  And I didn't expect that to like blow up like it did.
[00:04:35]  But yeah, it all works out, I guess.
[00:04:38]  Hmm.
[00:04:41]  So that's your one takeaway?
[00:04:44]  I mean, I guess we all have something a little crazy about us.
[00:04:48]  I mean, I can tell you this.
[00:04:50]  I didn't go to university.
[00:04:51]  I dropped out of college.
[00:04:54]  And I don't have a degree in forensic psychology.
[00:04:56]  And you're just going to be a little bit more.
[00:04:57]  I could tell you that.
[00:05:00]  Well, I could tell you.
[00:05:01]  I mean, all right.
[00:05:02]  Okay.
[00:05:04]  Do you go to college or any college at all?
[00:05:07]  Lexi?
[00:05:08]  Okay.
[00:05:08]  What about you?
[00:05:09]  Hi, I'm Jenny.
[00:05:11]  I am 21.
[00:05:12]  Just moved here from Chicago to San Diego.
[00:05:16]  But I was born and raised in Florida.
[00:05:19]  I am an adult entertainer in the stripping industry.
[00:05:25]  Stripping industry.
[00:05:26]  Okay.
[00:05:27]  I haven't heard that one, but that's the first.
[00:05:31]  I mean, I guess it is an industry, but how long have you been stripping?
[00:05:36]  About three years now.
[00:05:38]  I would probably say two and a half more so.
[00:05:40]  But yeah, since I was 18.
[00:05:44]  Okay.
[00:05:45]  Any college or anything like that?
[00:05:48]  No, just high school.
[00:05:51]  And how often do you work in terms of the stripping?
[00:05:58]  Well, weekends for sure.
[00:06:01]  But I do have lucky days on Wednesdays and Thursdays.
[00:06:06]  Okay.
[00:06:06]  What about you?
[00:06:07]  Hi, I'm Kaylee Chico.
[00:06:09]  I'm 23.
[00:06:11]  And I have my own art brand.
[00:06:13]  So I would say I'm an entrepreneur.
[00:06:15]  I've built my own brand and my business through my art.
[00:06:19]  And I do in vending, like in-person vending markets.
[00:06:22]  And then I also sell on my Shopify.
[00:06:25]  And then I graduated from high school.
[00:06:28]  Okay, and you do body modification?
[00:06:30]  Yes.
[00:06:32]  I also do human suspension.
[00:06:34]  Show it again?
[00:06:35]  The split tongue?
[00:06:37]  Oh, wow.
[00:06:38]  Okay.
[00:06:38]  And then I do human suspension too.
[00:06:40]  So I hang, like, they pierce my back and I hang from my back.
[00:06:46]  And they, I just unmute the audio, Nathan?
[00:06:49]  I just glide.

=== Welding, Ducks, And Body Mods (04:13) ===

[00:06:51]  So, yeah.
[00:06:53]  Yeah.
[00:06:54]  This video blew up that this guy took of me the host.
[00:06:58]  It blew up on Facebook and everyone was like, she's a witch without her broomstick.
[00:07:05]  Do you do OF or no?
[00:07:06]  No.
[00:07:06]  No.
[00:07:07]  No sex work?
[00:07:08]  No.
[00:07:08]  I've been offered, but I haven't taken it.
[00:07:11]  Okay.
[00:07:11]  Nathan, were you able to get the kick thing working?
[00:07:15]  Okay.
[00:07:17]  All right.
[00:07:18]  What about you?
[00:07:19]  Hi, I'm Liliana.
[00:07:20]  I'm 30 and I sell stuff on TikTok live stream.
[00:07:23]  And then I have a bachelor's in studio arts and I almost finished my teaching credential.
[00:07:27]  But low-key, my current job pays a lot more.
[00:07:30]  The TikTok.
[00:07:31]  Yeah.
[00:07:32]  Okay.
[00:07:32]  I might finish it at some point, but I like making money.
[00:07:35]  I live in LA.
[00:07:38]  And where are you from again?
[00:07:39]  I'm from an hour east of LA, the Inland Empire.
[00:07:43]  Okay.
[00:07:43]  But I live in Hollywood.
[00:07:45]  Gotcha.
[00:07:45]  What about you?
[00:07:46]  I'm Alexis XJ.
[00:07:48]  I'm from Upper Michigan.
[00:07:50]  I'm 25.
[00:07:51]  I'm a welder and I do OnlyFans and I sell artwork and restore old vehicles.
[00:08:00]  And you live on a farm?
[00:08:03]  And you have ducks or ducks and chickens.
[00:08:08]  Okay.
[00:08:09]  And you refer to your ducks as baggage.
[00:08:12]  Do I?
[00:08:13]  Oh, yeah.
[00:08:14]  Yeah.
[00:08:15]  Because, yeah.
[00:08:16]  You don't have kids, though.
[00:08:17]  No children.
[00:08:17]  Those are your kids.
[00:08:18]  Your ducks.
[00:08:19]  They are.
[00:08:20]  How many ducks do you have?
[00:08:22]  I think my waterfowl, probably like 60 of them.
[00:08:25]  And I have chickens and turkeys.
[00:08:27]  Do they all have names?
[00:08:29]  All 60 of your waterfowl?
[00:08:31]  Yeah.
[00:08:32]  Okay, special.
[00:08:34]  No.
[00:08:35]  They're all named after Star Wars characters.
[00:08:37]  So Padme, Anakin, Darth Vader.
[00:08:40]  Okay.
[00:08:40]  Charger.
[00:08:41]  How long have you been doing OF for?
[00:08:43]  I began in 2022.
[00:08:46]  Oh, and I do have a degree in welding.
[00:08:48]  In welding?
[00:08:49]  Okay.
[00:08:49]  And you went to like a trade school for that?
[00:08:52]  It's a traditional college with like a trade wing.
[00:08:54]  Okay.
[00:08:55]  Yeah.
[00:08:57]  Interesting.
[00:08:58]  I don't know if we've had a welder on the show before.
[00:09:03]  And are you, do you create welding content?
[00:09:07]  I filmed my welds back in the past.
[00:09:09]  No one really watched it.
[00:09:10]  No one cared.
[00:09:11]  No.
[00:09:13]  All right.
[00:09:13]  Yeah.
[00:09:14]  You have to wear like a protective mask so you don't go blind when you're welding, right?
[00:09:19]  Yeah.
[00:09:19]  Because it causes eye damage.
[00:09:20]  Yeah.
[00:09:21]  But can it still cause, even with the mask, can it still cause some?
[00:09:26]  You're not fully protected, basically.
[00:09:28]  Yeah, if you like wear a shirt like this though, you'll burn your breasts.
[00:09:32]  Like it gives you a sunburn.
[00:09:33]  You'll get a sunburn.
[00:09:34]  That's wild.
[00:09:35]  Okay.
[00:09:35]  Have you ever had a welding accident?
[00:09:38]  I mean, I have burns on my chest, but nothing crazy.
[00:09:43]  Would you ever do underwater welding?
[00:09:45]  I would.
[00:09:46]  I never have.
[00:09:47]  There was one accident when I was in school.
[00:09:48]  My classmate cut the ends of his fingers off on the metal muncher in front of me.
[00:09:52]  That didn't happen to me.
[00:09:53]  I watched this.
[00:09:54]  Nobody's going to, like, three people watching are going to know this.
[00:09:58]  I watched this video about Delta P. Do you know about that?
[00:10:03]  I mean, a lot of, it's not just welders, underwater welders who would experience this, but pretty terrifying shit.
[00:10:08]  Anybody in the chat knows about Delta P, that is terrifying.
[00:10:12]  And a lot of like underwater welders will, anyways, whatever, totally irrelevant.
[00:10:17]  What about you?
[00:10:18]  I'm Nikayla.
[00:10:19]  I'm 28 and I'm currently a graduate student at CSUN and I also teach intro GE classes.
[00:10:28]  I mentor teenagers as a caregiver and I'm a teaching assistant.
[00:10:35]  All right.
[00:10:35]  What about you?
[00:10:37]  I'm Nicole.
[00:10:38]  I am 34 years old and I'm from Kansas City.
[00:10:41]  I'm a stay-at-home mom and I have a degree in Spanish, but I'm a stay-at-home mom.
[00:10:49]  All right.
[00:10:50]  What about you?
[00:10:51]  I'm Alyssa.
[00:10:52]  I'm 33 years old.
[00:10:54]  I'm from Ohio and I am a server.
[00:10:58]  Any college or anything like that?
[00:11:01]  I went to college for a really short time.

=== Traditional Roles vs Modern Dating (14:54) ===

[00:11:04]  Okay.
[00:11:05]  Did you say server or surfer?
[00:11:07]  I'm a server.
[00:11:08]  Oh, okay.
[00:11:09]  Wait, where do you live?
[00:11:10]  I live in Ohio.
[00:11:12]  You think in Ohio?
[00:11:13]  An Ohio professional?
[00:11:15]  I was like, you know, maybe she works here part-time.
[00:11:18]  She surfs up, goes back home.
[00:11:20]  Where are you from?
[00:11:21]  Chicago.
[00:11:22]  Well, born and raised, Indiana.
[00:11:24]  What is she?
[00:11:24]  I live in China.
[00:11:25]  I think, isn't Ohio landlocked completely?
[00:11:28]  Like, yeah, in Chicago, you have like the lady.
[00:11:32]  You know, she makes good money where she could just be like, I'm going to go on a surfing trip.
[00:11:36]  Yeah.
[00:11:37]  Ohio.
[00:11:38]  Fly and surf and then fly back.
[00:11:40]  Exactly.
[00:11:40]  Yes.
[00:11:42]  Maybe if there's way in 20 years, maybe there will be wave parks everywhere.
[00:11:47]  Okay, cool.
[00:11:48]  So we, Roxy, thank you for the gifted subs.
[00:11:51]  Appreciate it.
[00:11:51]  Kaibaka, thank you for the resub.
[00:11:54]  Okay, we are going to go around the table once more.
[00:11:57]  What's your current relationship status?
[00:12:00]  Me, I'm single.
[00:12:01]  Yeah, and then also tell us how long you've been single and tell us the longest relationship you've ever been in.
[00:12:08]  Okay, well, the last relationship I was in was the longest relationship I've ever been in.
[00:12:13]  It was like three years, but we were on and off.
[00:12:15]  So it was like three years consecutively, you know.
[00:12:18]  Okay.
[00:12:19]  Yeah.
[00:12:20]  I've been single for like a year.
[00:12:22]  Who broke up with who?
[00:12:23]  I broke up with him and I broke up with him after I started doing OF.
[00:12:28]  We started doing OF together, I guess.
[00:12:30]  And well, he like convinced me to do it.
[00:12:33]  And then a year later, he was just like taking a lot of money from me.
[00:12:37]  And I was like paying for rent, groceries, everything.
[00:12:40]  And yeah.
[00:12:41]  So I don't know.
[00:12:42]  I just broke up with him.
[00:12:42]  I was like, nah, can't do this anymore.
[00:12:45]  Okay.
[00:12:46]  All right.
[00:12:47]  What about you?
[00:12:48]  I am in an open relationship.
[00:12:50]  My longest relationship was about six or seven years.
[00:12:53]  It was my high school sweetheart.
[00:12:55]  Yeah.
[00:12:56]  Okay.
[00:12:58]  How long have you been in the current relationship?
[00:13:02]  Two years.
[00:13:03]  And it's an open relationship?
[00:13:05]  Correct.
[00:13:05]  Open on both ends?
[00:13:06]  Yes.
[00:13:07]  Okay.
[00:13:08]  And which one of you gets more action?
[00:13:14]  I don't know.
[00:13:14]  We like to kind of make it equal, like even it out.
[00:13:17]  It's like you get one, I get one.
[00:13:19]  Just keep it kind of fair for everyone.
[00:13:23]  Okay.
[00:13:24]  Do you guys also do like engage in swinging or threesomes, foursomes?
[00:13:30]  We've done threesomes, foursomes, mainly for content.
[00:13:34]  Yeah.
[00:13:35]  OF content.
[00:13:37]  Yeah, we're still like, we kind of want to just take it slow with the open part though, because I have endometriosis.
[00:13:44]  I don't know if you know what that is, but it's just like sometimes like sex can be hard in general.
[00:13:49]  So and like my health is very health conscious.
[00:13:51]  So it's like I need to make sure like if we're gonna you know be opening things up and bringing someone in that everyone is tested and you know just don't there's a lot of cooties out there.
[00:14:01]  Have you ever participated in any group sex, orgy, sex club, that sort of thing?
[00:14:08]  Oh my gosh, I was in an orgy with one of like Hugh Hefner's ex-wives once.
[00:14:13]  That was crazy.
[00:14:15]  And they're really, it was for like a content party.
[00:14:18]  That was probably the craziest experience.
[00:14:20]  But I didn't really like do much.
[00:14:22]  I was more like a side character in it.
[00:14:24]  I was kind of just like, yeah, like kind of observing it.
[00:14:28]  Okay.
[00:14:29]  What about you?
[00:14:30]  I'm single, recently single.
[00:14:32]  Our relationship ended early February.
[00:14:36]  We hit the three-month mark and that's where it broke.
[00:14:40]  But my longest relationship was about like a year, but I don't even think it's really a year because it was kind of on and off.
[00:14:49]  So.
[00:14:50]  Okay.
[00:14:52]  So you've been single for about a month?
[00:14:55]  Yeah.
[00:14:56]  Has it been on and off with the three-month guy?
[00:15:00]  Oh, no.
[00:15:00]  The old relationship before him.
[00:15:04]  But the one that ended a month ago is three months, right?
[00:15:06]  Yeah.
[00:15:07]  Yeah.
[00:15:08]  When's the last time you saw him?
[00:15:14]  Like January.
[00:15:16]  Okay, so it was a clean break.
[00:15:18]  Yeah.
[00:15:19]  You're not like, well, we're broken up, but still sleeping together type thing.
[00:15:23]  Yeah, no, we're, he's in San Fran and I'm in San Diego, so eight hours away.
[00:15:29]  It's kind of like hard to see him every day if I tech bro?
[00:15:34]  He's a mechanic.
[00:15:36]  Mechanic?
[00:15:37]  Okay, so would you fly to see him?
[00:15:39]  Yeah, but he would pay for my flights.
[00:15:41]  So I know.
[00:15:42]  Is he a mechanic?
[00:15:43]  Yeah, he's a mechanic.
[00:15:44]  High-end mechanic, or he works at a like Ford dealership.
[00:15:49]  Like, he just like in a not like a Ford dealership, but like a does he own his own business or he's employed?
[00:15:57]  He's employed.
[00:15:58]  How old is he?
[00:16:00]  23 now.
[00:16:01]  You make more money than him, don't you?
[00:16:04]  Yeah.
[00:16:05]  Why?
[00:16:06]  So, why is he flying you out?
[00:16:08]  Because shouldn't you be fucking strippers make a fuck ton of money, right?
[00:16:13]  Because he offered and I'm gonna take it.
[00:16:16]  So because he offered?
[00:16:18]  Yeah.
[00:16:19]  But like, okay, I mean, you don't have to reveal your earnings or whatever, but like, what's like a good night?
[00:16:26]  You'll make a couple thousand?
[00:16:27]  A thousand?
[00:16:29]  Like a thousand or more, yeah.
[00:16:31]  That's a good night to me.
[00:16:33]  And then you monetize in other ways.
[00:16:34]  So like, what?
[00:16:35]  you're making six figures a year?
[00:16:44]  I don't know.
[00:16:45]  Shit, maybe you should pay for the flights.
[00:16:47]  Should have.
[00:16:47]  Maybe that's why it didn't work.
[00:16:49]  He's like, damn, she's making more than me, and why am I paying?
[00:16:52]  Well, when I was dating him, I stopped dancing for him and I got a regular nine to five for him.
[00:17:01]  So you but it was a long-distance relationship.
[00:17:06]  So I really liked him.
[00:17:10]  Okay.
[00:17:12]  All right.
[00:17:13]  Well, here's a question really quick, and we'll get back to the relationship status.
[00:17:17]  Let me present a hypothetical scenario.
[00:17:20]  You have a 23-year-old woman dating a 23-year-old man.
[00:17:26]  She doesn't even have to be a sex worker.
[00:17:29]  But let's say he's paycheck to paycheck.
[00:17:34]  And let's say they even earn the same amount of money.
[00:17:36]  I don't know.
[00:17:36]  They make $25 an hour.
[00:17:39]  He's paycheck to paycheck.
[00:17:41]  She has $70,000 worth of savings.
[00:17:46]  Should he, do you think the guy in that situation should be, let's say they've been together for a year, right?
[00:17:53]  Do you think he should be paying for shit in the relationship?
[00:18:01]  Yes?
[00:18:02]  Yeah.
[00:18:03]  Even though you got $70K in savings?
[00:18:05]  It doesn't matter.
[00:18:06]  What if I had a kid and they need to do like a C-section and I paid for that with all my savings so that I can have a kid with you?
[00:18:12]  Well, what if he had cancer and he needed fucking health care?
[00:18:17]  So in the hypothetical I presented, there was not a granting that you're like pregnant or you have a kid.
[00:18:23]  You're both childless.
[00:18:25]  Yeah, but I just think that a guy should pay for anything at the end of the day because I'm going to be having a kid with you and I need to know that you're going to be there for me and provide for us.
[00:18:33]  So the guy should pay, even like you probably are a high earner, you have a big following.
[00:18:38]  Change split.
[00:18:40]  You're a high earner.
[00:18:41]  You have a big following.
[00:18:43]  I don't know.
[00:18:44]  Do you make like a million dollars a year or more?
[00:18:47]  Less?
[00:18:48]  You make less?
[00:18:50]  You make mid-six figures though, right?
[00:18:53]  Well, every year is different.
[00:18:54]  I've been doing it for three years.
[00:18:55]  So sometimes like it's just like really, really bad.
[00:18:58]  It's like, oh man, what am I doing?
[00:19:01]  Okay.
[00:19:03]  So your argument is men should pay because maybe one day I will be pregnant.
[00:19:09]  Yeah.
[00:19:10]  How many men have you dated?
[00:19:12]  I've dated like a handful of guys, seriously.
[00:19:16]  When I say date, I mean like you went out to dinner once with a guy.
[00:19:21]  Okay, so dating as in like not having sexual relationships?
[00:19:25]  I mean, you could, but basically when I say date, I don't mean like this is your long-term boyfriend.
[00:19:30]  I mean a guy who you entertained, you know, you went out to dinner once.
[00:19:36]  I would count that.
[00:19:37]  I'm asking how many times, how many different men?
[00:19:41]  Probably at least 15.
[00:19:42]  15.
[00:19:43]  How many children do you have?
[00:19:45]  None.
[00:19:45]  Zero?
[00:19:46]  No.
[00:19:46]  So, okay.
[00:19:47]  Men should pay for dates because.
[00:19:50]  What if I did get pregnant on the first date?
[00:19:52]  On the first.
[00:19:53]  But it's like, I don't understand this argument that one day down the road, you probably don't even know.
[00:19:58]  Well, I mean, like, a man is like asking to be in a relationship, and so he should provide for that woman.
[00:20:03]  What if the woman's asking to be in the relationship?
[00:20:05]  Well, I mean, I feel like women are agreeing.
[00:20:06]  Men are like really, you know, asking for it.
[00:20:09]  Well, that would be secondary, but are you on birth control?
[00:20:15]  No.
[00:20:16]  Well, when you're dating a guy, are you on birth control?
[00:20:20]  I just got off of birth control.
[00:20:22]  So you were on birth control?
[00:20:23]  Yeah.
[00:20:23]  So then, how about this?
[00:20:25]  Here's a proposition: if the woman's on birth control, you should not pay for the date.
[00:20:31]  Because she can't have a kid.
[00:20:33]  She can't have a kid.
[00:20:34]  But there's always a 1% chance.
[00:20:37]  It's never like 100%.
[00:20:39]  So while we double down, if the man has a vasectomy and/or he wears a condom, the woman pays for the entire thing.
[00:20:51]  So not just go 50-50 on the date, you know, split the bill.
[00:20:57]  The woman pays the entire bill.
[00:20:59]  Yeah, well, I guess it's just like my preference.
[00:21:01]  Like, I prefer a man to pay for everything.
[00:21:03]  That's like my preference.
[00:21:05]  You know, yeah.
[00:21:06]  You prefer the man to pay for everything?
[00:21:08]  Yes.
[00:21:08]  Why?
[00:21:09]  Because I feel like I deserve that.
[00:21:11]  Why do you deserve that?
[00:21:12]  Because I deserve to have a good life.
[00:21:15]  I want to have kids.
[00:21:16]  So if a man can't provide me kids, I wouldn't date him in the first place.
[00:21:19]  Why do you feel like you can't provide for yourself?
[00:21:22]  Like, pay for your own thing.
[00:21:23]  I don't want to pay for myself.
[00:21:24]  So why don't you?
[00:21:25]  I do.
[00:21:26]  But most of the time you want the man to?
[00:21:28]  No, if I date a man, I want him to provide for me.
[00:21:30]  So even if they do provide for you, if you are dating a man, so you go on a first date, so right off the bat, you consider that he should pay off right off the bat?
[00:21:38]  Yes.
[00:21:38]  Even though he knows nothing about you, you guys are just getting to know each other?
[00:21:41]  Yeah, because he has to get to know me and he has to.
[00:21:45]  So you have to get to know him too.
[00:21:46]  If he wants to do 50-50, we can, but that would be the last time I see him.
[00:21:50]  And that's crazy.
[00:21:51]  Yeah.
[00:21:53]  I feel like it's interesting because I only date girls at this point.
[00:21:56]  And it's interesting because I think some people do that, but then it's usually like who makes more.
[00:22:02]  But I see your perspective.
[00:22:03]  Yeah.
[00:22:03]  But it's like, I do prefer to date somebody that like makes as much money as me because I've dated like a broke mask and like they're a very kind person, but I don't want to be doing that.
[00:22:13]  So I feel the vibe.
[00:22:15]  I've dated a lot of broke guys and I've also, the guy that I'm with right now, I do not expect him to pay for my dinner because he works his ass off for his money.
[00:22:24]  And I am not going to go out of my way to say you need to put your all-Beth doesn't have enough money to go on a date, then why did he ask you?
[00:22:31]  He does have enough money to go on a date.
[00:22:33]  But why would you think that you are like, why do you think that he owes you that?
[00:22:37]  Because I feel that men know you.
[00:22:40]  So it's like, why wouldn't you put yourself out there?
[00:22:42]  Why wouldn't you put yourself out there and say, oh, well, I make this money and I know you make this money, but we could both split the bill because we don't know each other yet.
[00:22:51]  Just we're still getting to know each other.
[00:22:53]  You don't owe me anything.
[00:22:55]  I feel like people with the same mindset just need to like find each other.
[00:22:59]  Yeah.
[00:22:59]  Yeah.
[00:23:01]  But so why you said you deserve a good life?
[00:23:06]  Right.
[00:23:06]  Like I don't want to just waste my life with a guy that doesn't want to have kids because I want to have kids.
[00:23:10]  Well, here, but okay, do men deserve a good life?
[00:23:13]  Yeah.
[00:23:14]  But so here's your argument: I deserve a good life.
[00:23:17]  Ergo, men should pay for dates.
[00:23:21]  Yeah, because that's the thing that men.
[00:23:23]  But if the logic is I deserve a good life, therefore other person who I'm dating should pay for dates, that would have to equally apply to men if men deserve a good life.
[00:23:33]  So you're going to have to make a specific argument as to why you or women specifically deserve to have their shit paid for.
[00:23:42]  So do you see him paying for the date as an investment in your potential future relationship?
[00:23:47]  Yeah.
[00:23:48]  Well, I'd like my question answered first before other people divert away from my question.
[00:23:53]  Go ahead.
[00:23:54]  I'm not sure if I understand the question.
[00:23:56]  I'm looking for, so you're just saying, I'm looking for more of an argument.
[00:24:00]  I mean, I could just repeat what I said again.
[00:24:03]  You said, I deserve a good life.
[00:24:05]  Therefore, men should pay.
[00:24:06]  Okay, I deserve a good life.
[00:24:08]  Should women pay for me?
[00:24:10]  If that's what you want.
[00:24:12]  Okay, if that's what I want.
[00:24:13]  Yeah, if that's what would make you happy in your life, then that's the decisions that you have to make in your life.
[00:24:17]  But I think you're going to need further justification than simply, I deserve a good life.
[00:24:21]  Why specifically do you or women, why do they deserve to, or are they entitled to a man paying for shit?
[00:24:30]  Well, I guess like it's just like your preference, you know, like some women like to go 50-50.
[00:24:34]  Some women like a man to provide everything.
[00:24:37]  And I just, you know, I think you have to make the decisions based on what you want in your life.
[00:24:42]  Okay, but hmm.
[00:24:47]  Like if a guy can't pay for the first date, then I wouldn't see him or I wouldn't go on that date.
[00:24:51]  But how do you know he can't pay for it?
[00:24:53]  If I ask him, you know, where are we going and he says McDonald's or I can't take you anywhere or you can come over, I'm not going.
[00:25:00]  But that's different from already being at the restaurant and being, hey, you want to split the bill or are you going to put it in?
[00:25:05]  Yeah, if he asked me to meet him at a restaurant and we go there and he asked me to go 50-50, that's the last time I'm seeing him.
[00:25:12]  Because why did you ask me to come somewhere nice and then now I have to pay for it?
[00:25:16]  Well now you're hold on.
[00:25:17]  Because you can afford it.
[00:25:18]  Hold on.
[00:25:18]  You're smuggling in something that wasn't even asserted.
[00:25:21]  Now you're adding this other layer to it of, oh, well, if you're going to invite me to a luxury restaurant, like that puts me in like a predicament where I assume you could afford it technically, but if you were to say, invite a college student to like a, I don't know, an example of a super expensive restaurant, that would be to some degree inconsiderate.
[00:25:45]  But let's assume it's just like, I don't know, mid-tier place.
[00:25:48]  Chilies.
[00:25:49]  Yeah, chilies.
[00:25:53]  So, okay, so you are desirous of traditional gender roles?

=== Financial Expectations In Relationships (14:57) ===

[00:25:58]  Do you deserve traditional gender roles?
[00:26:01]  I think, like, what do you mean?
[00:26:03]  Me personally or like women in general?
[00:26:07]  Well, let's start with you and then we can get to women in general.
[00:26:10]  Okay, well, me personally, I think that I make enough to provide for myself.
[00:26:15]  And so I don't really need to like surrender the luxury that I have, like, which is like my peace of mind, my own, you know, comfort that I can pay for my bills and anything like that.
[00:26:25]  Like, if I date a man and I want like traditional gender roles, like he's probably going to want me to not do this kind of line of work, right?
[00:26:32]  Not work at all, probably be home, cook, clean, etc.
[00:26:37]  I would be okay with that.
[00:26:38]  Didn't you just say that some months you don't even know why you're doing OnlyFans?
[00:26:42]  So therefore, you can't always provide for yourself?
[00:26:46]  I do always provide for myself.
[00:26:48]  So even if you don't have the money, you're providing for yourself.
[00:26:50]  Yeah, I've been single for a year.
[00:26:51]  This entire year that I've been single, never Had any issues ever.
[00:26:56]  Carnot paid, bills paid.
[00:26:58]  But you literally just said you struggle some months.
[00:27:01]  Yeah, that's just like where I'm like budgeting.
[00:27:03]  And you know, I think that's normal.
[00:27:05]  I think you just have to make good financial decisions.
[00:27:08]  So during that time when you're budgeting, do you think that the man should still pay for your dinner?
[00:27:13]  You shouldn't split it even though.
[00:27:14]  If I'm struggling, I'm probably not worried about a man.
[00:27:16]  I'm worried about getting my money up.
[00:27:20]  Okay, I still didn't really get an answer to my question.
[00:27:23]  Is so why do you deserve that?
[00:27:27]  Well, I just feel like I built this life that I have for myself already, and I would want someone that can add to it and not take away from it or make me have to go less or feel less in my day-to-day life just because he doesn't make as much money as me or he's not in the same place where I am.
[00:27:46]  Okay, but so you currently are single.
[00:27:50]  So in terms of, and you pay for your own food, you pay your own rent.
[00:27:55]  So if a guy came in and you guys were equitably contributing to the finances of the household, which I'm assuming is like even a year down the road, perhaps even longer before you'd even consider moving in.
[00:28:09]  I mean, some people move in on shorter timelines, but it wouldn't be to it would actually be an improvement in your lifestyle, arguably, to go from he pays everything and you pay nothing versus your current position, which is you're paying entirely for your own rent, your own food, your own bills, everything.
[00:28:33]  So I understand, like, let's say you were, like, let's say you encountered a guy who wants to go 50-50.
[00:28:40]  That's a no-go, though, for you, correct?
[00:28:42]  So it's like, hey, babe, let's move in together, but we're both going to equally contribute to the rent.
[00:28:47]  No go.
[00:28:48]  That's not.
[00:28:49]  So if I'm like just dating a guy, I would expect him to want his financials to be together as well.
[00:28:55]  Like he wants to be financially stable.
[00:28:58]  He wants to, you know, succeed in life.
[00:29:00]  He wants great things for himself.
[00:29:01]  That's what I would want in a man.
[00:29:03]  Yeah, let's go.
[00:29:03]  So he would pay for his own bills, his own things, and everything.
[00:29:06]  I would pay for my own things as well.
[00:29:08]  And so, you know, when we do like move in together, then he would take over paying bills because he knows how to pay bills.
[00:29:15]  You don't know how to pay bills?
[00:29:16]  Well, if he wants to have like a two, three bedroom house with a wife and kids, then he's going to pay for it.
[00:29:23]  Well, okay, that might make sense when you start having kids.
[00:29:28]  So you're going to stop working when you have kids?
[00:29:31]  Well, I mean, yeah, I mean, that's like kind of like what would happen, right?
[00:29:36]  Okay, but so you're 22.
[00:29:38]  When do you want to have your first kid?
[00:29:40]  I would want to have my first kid when I'm financially stable and I have a husband.
[00:29:46]  When you're financially stable.
[00:29:48]  Yeah, when like so, you know.
[00:29:50]  So conceivably, let's say you meet the perfect guy, you could be ready to have kids in six months.
[00:29:58]  Yeah.
[00:30:00]  Okay.
[00:30:02]  I'm okay.
[00:30:05]  Hmm.
[00:30:07]  Well, then I guess the other question is: do you think that a guy providing in that way is a traditional gender role dynamic?
[00:30:14]  Like providing like for everything, yes.
[00:30:18]  It's traditional, right?
[00:30:19]  Yes.
[00:30:19]  Are you a traditional woman?
[00:30:21]  Well, not exactly, so to speak, like because of my line of work.
[00:30:26]  Yeah.
[00:30:26]  Okay.
[00:30:30]  So you're not traditional, but you deserve traditional.
[00:30:34]  Well, everyone has a preference.
[00:30:35]  You know, some guys have a lot of high body count, but they still want to date a virgin.
[00:30:40]  And do that.
[00:30:41]  There's actually nothing wrong with that.
[00:30:44]  It's just a preference, you know?
[00:30:46]  Yeah, I think that would be a little different, a bit different of a scenario.
[00:30:52]  So in terms of you though, so you are a sex worker, you do OnlyFans.
[00:30:56]  Do you do boygirl content?
[00:30:58]  No.
[00:30:59]  Have you ever done boy girl content?
[00:31:00]  Yeah, when me and my ex first started doing OF, then we started doing, well, basically everything.
[00:31:06]  Is it still up on your OF?
[00:31:08]  No.
[00:31:09]  Okay, but you did distribute boy girl content.
[00:31:13]  Yeah.
[00:31:14]  Have you done boy girl content with any other men?
[00:31:16]  No.
[00:31:17]  Just him?
[00:31:17]  Yeah.
[00:31:18]  Okay.
[00:31:20]  Have you done any mainstream content?
[00:31:24]  What does that mean?
[00:31:25]  Mainstream porn.
[00:31:27]  No.
[00:31:27]  Okay.
[00:31:29]  All right.
[00:31:31]  So, look, being a sex worker, it's not really a traditional profession in the sense of being a traditional woman.
[00:31:42]  You're looking for a guy to be traditional, do those sort of chivalrous things, right?
[00:31:46]  You want a guy to be chivalrous, but you are not, through your own conduct, your own profession, you are not doing, moving through life in such a way as to inspire that traditional and chivalrous, or maybe not, inspire is not the right word.
[00:32:02]  Ultimately, you're just not deserving of it.
[00:32:04]  Now, you might still get it.
[00:32:06]  There's a lot of men who are simps.
[00:32:09]  There's a lot of men who, look, you're an attractive girl.
[00:32:12]  I'm sure a lot of guys, they'll take you to those restaurants and they'll pay and they'll do all the shit.
[00:32:17]  So I don't, it's not a doubt in my mind that you'll be able to find guys who are willing to do that.
[00:32:25]  I'm having like a perhaps a bird's eye view conversation.
[00:32:31]  I'm looking at the chessboard of dating dynamics and I'm like, okay, as a woman, if you want a guy to be chivalrous, to protect, to provide, to pay for dates, to do all, you know, open the car door, observe the sidewalk rule, I believe then that women just, women have to hold up their end of the contract, the social contract.
[00:32:55]  And I don't get the impression that women are.
[00:32:58]  But you still, so basically you want to be modern women, but you want men to be trad.
[00:33:05]  Women get to be modern.
[00:33:07]  Women get to pretty much throw any sort of even hint of traditionality completely away.
[00:33:14]  You get to forsake it completely.
[00:33:16]  Meanwhile, you might as, in terms of what you want men to do, you might as well be 1950s bachelorettes.
[00:33:23]  Well, I mean, I think men and women are both modern.
[00:33:28]  Like, you know, guys, like, they're always like, they're going to have like social media.
[00:33:32]  They're always going to have like some kind of history.
[00:33:34]  Nobody's a virgin nowadays.
[00:33:36]  Everybody has a past.
[00:33:37]  So I think we should just grow up.
[00:33:39]  And if we want to have that kind of life together, then it's like it's an achievable thing.
[00:33:44]  You said guys have social media.
[00:33:46]  What do you mean by that?
[00:33:47]  Well, I mean, like, guys, like, I've seen guys do thirst like traps, you know, like showing off their abs, like looking at themselves in the mirror.
[00:33:56]  Oh, their abs.
[00:33:57]  Yeah.
[00:33:58]  They must be gay then.
[00:34:00]  You know, I've like, I've seen guys like with tripods at the gym.
[00:34:05]  Like, just because you don't have an OF doesn't mean like you're not, you know, traditional.
[00:34:09]  I'm not going to dispute that there's definitely men who do that.
[00:34:11]  There's, I mean, that's fucking stupid and they shouldn't be doing that.
[00:34:17]  But I would say the proportion of men who are getting validation through social media pales massively in comparison to women who are on social media for the sake of validation, attention.
[00:34:35]  Well, even if men don't contribute to like, you know, social media, they still consume it and they're like the consumer.
[00:34:42]  Like they're the like people that.
[00:34:44]  Yeah, exactly.
[00:34:45]  Well, yeah, I mean, I don't, I definitely, this criticism isn't exclusively directed at women.
[00:34:52]  I think men in a lot of ways have things that they need to improve on and correct on.
[00:34:58]  They shouldn't be like following a bunch.
[00:35:00]  Although I'm curious what an OF girl thinks about this, but I don't think men should be following a bunch of IG thoughts and IG models.
[00:35:09]  They shouldn't be following any women.
[00:35:13]  They shouldn't be like liking their photos and gooning over their fucking Thirst Trap bikini pics on Instagram.
[00:35:20]  That's fucking lame as a guy.
[00:35:23]  So yeah, I don't know.
[00:35:24]  Hold on.
[00:35:25]  We have a TTS coming in.
[00:35:26]  Just came in.
[00:35:27]  Base Thor, thank you.
[00:35:28]  Base Thor donated $200.
[00:35:31]  Why is it always women in T to print out fits that has the most to say and entitled is fuck?
[00:35:37]  I would smack the fuck out of you against animal abuse.
[00:35:41]  At least famous than the animal SMA.
[00:35:44]  Do you want to respond to Base Thor?
[00:35:47]  smack me where uh okay Also, I do think men there and women too, virgin is still very much a thing for a lot of people.
[00:36:03]  That's not something that's vanished.
[00:36:06]  Actually, I think there's a bit more male virgins than female virgins.
[00:36:11]  I can counter on that.
[00:36:14]  From someone that I've dated, I'm not going to say which boyfriend it was because I don't need that on the internet.
[00:36:19]  It's theirs.
[00:36:20]  But I have taken someone's virginity and they wanted to do the traditional wait till I was in love with someone.
[00:36:25]  And so, yeah, those guys are still out there.
[00:36:27]  They do exist.
[00:36:28]  Yeah.
[00:36:29]  But yeah, I don't know.
[00:36:35]  Does seem like does seem like we're holding men to this traditional standard, but women are really not holding up their end of the deal.
[00:36:46]  Some women are, just to be clear.
[00:36:47]  I'm not saying all women.
[00:36:49]  But it seems to me like, look, if you're a sex worker, just, hey.
[00:36:57]  Go 50-50.
[00:36:59]  No.
[00:37:01]  No.
[00:37:03]  If I'm a sex worker, I will do what I have to do to pay my rent.
[00:37:07]  And if someone wants to save a hoe, I'm here for the saving.
[00:37:12]  That's all I have to say.
[00:37:13]  Would you post boy girl content if it saved your rent?
[00:37:17]  No.
[00:37:18]  No.
[00:37:19]  I just wouldn't do that again because I don't think that I have to in order to make a living.
[00:37:24]  You know, I haven't posted that kind of like content for two years.
[00:37:27]  So I just don't think it makes sense for me to go back into doing it if I haven't done it.
[00:37:33]  Someone offered you $100,000 for a while.
[00:37:37]  You wouldn't do it?
[00:37:38]  No, I wouldn't do it for the money because it's already gone.
[00:37:40]  So why would I put myself back out there like that?
[00:37:43]  It didn't really feel good in the first place.
[00:37:45]  You know, I don't think some people don't.
[00:37:49]  Some people don't like that.
[00:37:50]  You know, some people like it.
[00:37:51]  Some people.
[00:37:51]  They have their preferences.
[00:37:52]  Right.
[00:37:55]  Okay, question for you.
[00:37:59]  Oh, shit.
[00:37:59]  I actually just lost it.
[00:38:01]  Damn.
[00:38:02]  It was a good one.
[00:38:03]  I'm going to conjure a bracket.
[00:38:04]  Yeah, just to be clear.
[00:38:10]  So I'm not saying that women who are sex workers, women who are strippers, women who do OnlyFans, I'm not saying that you should be mistreated.
[00:38:18]  You should still be treated kindly with respect, but what you're asking for is something on top, which is chivalry.
[00:38:24]  So that's men paying for dates, men providing, men protecting.
[00:38:28]  I assume you, I don't know what kind of type of guy you want to go for, because I mean, but like, would you want a guy who has a bit more of a masculine expression to him?
[00:38:39]  Or would you not care?
[00:38:40]  Like, you'll date a liberal soy boy?
[00:38:44]  Um I guess it just like depends on who the guy is.
[00:38:50]  I don't really have like a preference when it comes to like uh masculinity.
[00:38:54]  Okay.
[00:38:55]  Yeah.
[00:38:55]  But in any case, you do want a guy to pay all the bills.
[00:38:59]  He's gonna have to fully provide.
[00:39:01]  Um yeah.
[00:39:03]  Well if he if he did that then I would you know like take care of him as well.
[00:39:08]  I feel like if I like if I'm being taken care of I would take care of that my partner as well.
[00:39:12]  How soon?
[00:39:14]  Well, if he doesn't want me to do OF, I wouldn't do OF anymore as long as he's paying for my bills and I don't have to worry about that, you know?
[00:39:21]  Okay, that's just like how it would go.
[00:39:22]  It would be, let's talk about the, the bills, a little bit but like, aside from you quitting OF, you said you take care of him.
[00:39:29]  How would you take care of him?
[00:39:32]  Well, just like, I guess the traditional way that a man should want to be, like taken care of, like which is what?
[00:39:38]  Like cooking for him and just being there for him, like emotionally, things like that.
[00:39:43]  What about cleaning?
[00:39:44]  Yeah, of course, cleaning the house?
[00:39:46]  Yeah well, I mean, I think that every woman should know how to cook and clean by themselves, like you should know how to maintain your own house and clean and cook your own food, like make your own meals.
[00:39:57]  So should uh, should she be uh, submissive?
[00:40:01]  Um yes, I do believe that like, if you're in a traditional relationship, then it should be traditional by like all.
[00:40:08]  Like I notice here on the questionnaire, normally I save the questionnaire for a little bit later on the show, but for questions one through five.
[00:40:17]  So you agree with the following four statements, men should pay on first dates.
[00:40:21]  Men should provide slash protect.
[00:40:23]  Men should be chivalrous.
[00:40:24]  Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
[00:40:27]  Is everything okay over there?
[00:40:31]  I don't, I don't know.
[00:40:35]  But you for question five or statement five, I will keep my last name, or?
[00:40:43]  Oh actually no, hold on wait, you'll take your husband's last name, is that correct?
[00:40:48]  Okay yeah, all right.
[00:40:50]  Well, that's how it goes.
[00:40:51]  I miss all that.
[00:40:52]  Okay, I thought I thought you had circled it, but my eyes deceived me.

=== Chivalry And Household Authority (04:03) ===

[00:40:56]  Okay, let's see.
[00:40:58]  Hmm, husband should die protecting you.
[00:41:04]  Um okay hmm yeah, still a sex worker.
[00:41:12]  Sorry sorry, doesn't change anything.
[00:41:16]  Doesn't change anything.
[00:41:17]  Look, just date a nice uh guy who goes 50-50.
[00:41:21]  I don't know.
[00:41:22]  I still have my preference.
[00:41:23]  And like my dad, he's like a traditional man.
[00:41:25]  You know, he's like always taking care of like everything.
[00:41:28]  He's like kind of like instilled that into me.
[00:41:30]  Like you don't need to be the richest man in order to provide for a woman.
[00:41:33]  You just like you need to be content with yourself.
[00:41:36]  Well, I mean, I could be wrong, but my initial read on you is you have expensive taste.
[00:41:42]  I don't really care about like living like luxuriously, lavishly.
[00:41:46]  Like I don't care what car you drive.
[00:41:48]  I don't care what brand like my kids backpack is.
[00:41:52]  Like we can go to Walmart.
[00:41:53]  I don't care.
[00:41:54]  I will shop at Walmart.
[00:41:57]  You just said that if he took you to McDonald's, you'd be upset.
[00:42:00]  Well, I mean, like on a first date, that's kind of crazy.
[00:42:02]  A first date at McDonald's, I will go to McDonald's on like another date, you know, a casual date after we've already been seeing each other.
[00:42:12]  Do you have an expensive bag?
[00:42:14]  No, my bag is 30 bucks from Urban Outfitters.
[00:42:18]  Well, maybe not the one you brought, but do you own an expensive bag?
[00:42:22]  If I do, a man bought it.
[00:42:27]  Show us your nails.
[00:42:29]  How recent are those?
[00:42:31]  They are about three weeks grown out and they were 60 bucks.
[00:42:36]  Okay, so let's say you're dating a guy and he's like, look, if I'm going to provide for everything, I'm going to have some authority on certain expenses here in the household.
[00:42:45]  You're not going to get fake nails anymore.
[00:42:47]  You okay with that?
[00:42:48]  Yeah.
[00:42:49]  But.
[00:42:50]  All right, she's fucking got me.
[00:42:51]  She's got me then.
[00:42:52]  I mean, still love sex worker.
[00:42:55]  Still sex worker.
[00:42:59]  Okay.
[00:43:01]  So, okay, ultimately, though, look.
[00:43:03]  And again, women who do OnlyFans or strip or sex work, not saying they should be mistreated, not saying they don't deserve, well, respect, question mark, but ultimately, it's not traditional.
[00:43:20]  Yeah.
[00:43:21]  It's just completely not traditional.
[00:43:26]  So you might still get it.
[00:43:29]  Maybe there's even a good chance you'll still end up in that sort of dynamic.
[00:43:34]  But do you deserve it?
[00:43:35]  I say no.
[00:43:37]  Well, you know, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
[00:43:40]  So that's the beautiful thing about life.
[00:43:42]  Yeah, but I'm not so interested in just like being entitled to my opinion.
[00:43:46]  I'm actually interested in perhaps having people reassess their own standards so they're commensurate to what they're offering and also prescriptively advising men, listen, you're getting a raw deal here a little bit because that woman is not holding up her end of the deal.
[00:44:14]  So I don't know.
[00:44:21]  Okay.
[00:44:23]  Does anybody else want to win on this topic?
[00:44:25]  I was just wondering, you said, so McDonald to be a no-go, like how nice of a first date are you expecting?
[00:44:31]  Because my husband always thought, don't go too high on that first date because that's going to set the expectation for the future.
[00:44:37]  And he actually took me somewhere really nice for our first date, but his best friend was like, dude, if you do that, like she's going to expect it.
[00:44:43]  And it is not the way that it goes for us.
[00:44:46]  But that kind of, what standard, what level do you expect on that first date as compared to on the norm?
[00:44:53]  I guess like mid mid-range and above is good.
[00:44:57]  Like chilies and above is good.

=== Physical Labor And Provider Roles (14:24) ===

[00:44:59]  Do you smoke?
[00:45:00]  I do.
[00:45:02]  So McDonald's, like getting 40 chicken nuggets, fries, and smoking in the car wouldn't be a good date to you?
[00:45:09]  I don't know.
[00:45:10]  It depends.
[00:45:11]  Like if you're a man, no.
[00:45:14]  If you're a girl, yeah, that's a great first date with a girl.
[00:45:17]  But like you're bisexual.
[00:45:20]  Yeah.
[00:45:22]  Okay.
[00:45:23]  So with the girlies, it's okay, but with a guy, you're like, take me to Chili's.
[00:45:27]  Well, I feel like men should be providers.
[00:45:29]  And I feel like women, like, I'm just like, I guess, like, emotionally more sensitive to, like, you know, we are both like in it together.
[00:45:36]  We both have the same problems.
[00:45:37]  Whereas, like, men already, like, biologically have an advantage.
[00:45:41]  But there's a difference between...
[00:45:42]  Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
[00:45:43]  Hold on.
[00:45:43]  Hold on.
[00:45:44]  We keep playing games with worms.
[00:45:47]  What?
[00:45:48]  What advantage do men have?
[00:45:50]  You guys are like at least twice as strong as us.
[00:45:53]  You guys can work longer hours than we can.
[00:45:56]  So I just feel like men are like basically on this planet to traditionally put on this planet to provide for women.
[00:46:05]  Well, you do realize most jobs, at least today, don't require physical strength.
[00:46:17]  Many do, but just being able to walk.
[00:46:21]  Most jobs are not like hard labor jobs.
[00:46:24]  Yeah.
[00:46:25]  Well, either way, I feel like, you know, like men, they have testosterone all day long that like pumps them up full of energy.
[00:46:31]  Like by the end of the night, like most of the time men will still be able to like drive and like they're just like talkative.
[00:46:37]  I don't really think that's a thing.
[00:46:39]  Yeah, my boyfriend, when he gets off work from working at the airport, he's done.
[00:46:43]  Yeah.
[00:46:43]  Like there is no extra.
[00:46:45]  And I think women can work just as many hours as men also.
[00:46:50]  Yeah, I don't know.
[00:46:51]  I just think that like biologically men just they naturally have more energy.
[00:46:57]  They're stronger.
[00:46:57]  Yeah, but I think like endurance wise, that doesn't just come from.
[00:47:02]  Yeah.
[00:47:02]  You can't, yeah.
[00:47:03]  Like I work retail.
[00:47:06]  I used to work retail and I would stand on that floor for 12, 14 hours where my boyfriend, he works at the airport and he can do the same exact thing, but he's still going to be depleted and tired.
[00:47:21]  I don't understand the logic though.
[00:47:23]  So just because men have a capacity, a better capacity for physical labor, it doesn't necessarily follow that in every given situation, a man who's in a physical labor job would outearn a potential girlfriend or a woman.
[00:47:42]  Like you probably outearn 99% of men who do physical labor jobs.
[00:47:48]  You might even earn in a month how much they make in a year.
[00:47:53]  Have you ever made six figures in a month?
[00:47:59]  I don't know.
[00:47:59]  Damn, you got to step your shit up then.
[00:48:01]  You're fucking up.
[00:48:03]  Caught me on that 1%.
[00:48:05]  Come on.
[00:48:07]  Anyways.
[00:48:09]  Or maybe she's just being modest.
[00:48:12]  Yeah, she may not, depending on what she does.
[00:48:14]  She's got to show me.
[00:48:15]  She'll show me her OF findings.
[00:48:16]  Depending on what she sells can be, because some girls sell bikini picks, some girls sell the whole thing.
[00:48:21]  So I think it really is.
[00:48:22]  I mean, my understanding is some of these girls show nothing in the world.
[00:48:27]  Exactly.
[00:48:27]  Yeah.
[00:48:28]  They make a fuck ton.
[00:48:29]  Yes.
[00:48:29]  And then they have, because I've been offered different agencies and I've all turned them down because when my lawyer looked into it, they were all full of crap.
[00:48:37]  Well, that's.
[00:48:39]  Yeah, but it's just there's it's just when it comes to those industries, it's just very it ranges.
[00:48:51]  So, okay, men have male advantage.
[00:48:53]  Are there any other male advantages?
[00:48:59]  No.
[00:49:01]  So do you think women, like a woman, because of what you just outlined, should a woman not be able to become like president, for example?
[00:49:11]  No.
[00:49:12]  I think that we're still like a lot more capable of making like decisions.
[00:49:16]  Like I think that men and women have their own strengths.
[00:49:20]  And I feel like physical strength, that is like where a man, you know, he's usually just better at that.
[00:49:28]  Do you believe in feminism?
[00:49:31]  I don't know if I would call myself a feminist.
[00:49:33]  Okay.
[00:49:37]  Okay.
[00:49:38]  But your argument was that men are able to work longer hours.
[00:49:43]  This would also conceivably have to apply to other, like being president?
[00:49:53]  Well, I mean, it's not really physical labor, you know.
[00:49:58]  So okay, so as long as you're so, okay.
[00:50:01]  If the guy's a physical laborer, then he should pay for the date or be a provider.
[00:50:06]  But if he has an office job, then you can go 50-50 with him.
[00:50:10]  No.
[00:50:12]  Your argument is because men can work longer hours, that's why they should pay for dates.
[00:50:19]  Do you only date men who are in blue-collar work?
[00:50:22]  Well, I just think that because men can work longer hours, they should provide for women.
[00:50:27]  But you just said that in an office setting where there's no physical labor involved, men and women are basically equal.
[00:50:37]  So if you're dating a guy who works an office job, maybe you go 50-50.
[00:50:43]  It seems a bit backwards, though, but...
[00:50:53]  Cricket.
[00:50:54]  Sorry.
[00:50:55]  Nothing.
[00:50:56]  Okay, you had something.
[00:50:57]  Go ahead.
[00:51:00]  I don't remember what I was going to say.
[00:51:04]  Nobody else wants to weigh in.
[00:51:05]  You guys are just going to be fucking silent the whole show?
[00:51:07]  Oh, wait, did you guys the thing?
[00:51:09]  The pop-up?
[00:51:10]  Bro, don't worry about it.
[00:51:11]  Don't worry about it.
[00:51:12]  I was trying to read it.
[00:51:14]  No, it's below the threshold.
[00:51:15]  We're doing 100 and up.
[00:51:16]  Don't worry about it.
[00:51:17]  Okay.
[00:51:18]  I'm going to say something.
[00:51:19]  Oh, yeah, Loyale.
[00:51:22]  So I think sex work kind of has like a toll on like, okay, so before I became a stripper, I was okay with like being 50-50 all the time with like my boyfriends at the time.
[00:51:40]  But after being a dancer, I think what I get from it is if men that don't even know me and it's their first time seeing me like ever, like they know nothing about me, my personality, if they can give me a fuck ton of their fucking money and I don't, like, why can't my boyfriend do that?
[00:52:03]  Like, if men that don't even know me can do that, why would I set my standard below what men don't even know?
[00:52:11]  I love this logic.
[00:52:13]  Okay, so there's women out there who aren't prostitutes.
[00:52:17]  Why as a man do I have to lower my standards to be with a woman who's a prostitute?
[00:52:24]  You don't.
[00:52:25]  Well.
[00:52:26]  But you're okay.
[00:52:27]  Her argument is, hold on.
[00:52:30]  There are men who are financially well off who can pay for everything.
[00:52:33]  I encounter them in the strip club.
[00:52:35]  They're simping and spending all this money.
[00:52:37]  Therefore, why can't a man who I'm dating do the same thing?
[00:52:41]  Great.
[00:52:41]  Why can't I just use that logic for you guys?
[00:52:45]  Well, hold on.
[00:52:45]  There's all these beautiful, well-adjusted women who aren't in doing degenerate work, who aren't prostitutes, who aren't strippers, who aren't OnlyFans girls, who aren't showing their butthole and pussy and everything to the internet.
[00:52:59]  Why can't you be like them?
[00:53:02]  Sure, I'm not speaking for everybody's like preference, but I'm just saying what me being a dancer has done to my mentality and like how, like, what I want from a man.
[00:53:13]  So would you date one of those men who comes and sees you at the strip club?
[00:53:18]  Well, they're kind of really old, but so no, but I mean, like.
[00:53:23]  No, just someone who provides.
[00:53:26]  Like, I do agree that men should pay on the first date.
[00:53:31]  I feel like.
[00:53:31]  And women, how about this?
[00:53:32]  Wait, wait, wait.
[00:53:33]  How about really quick, and I'll let you come in.
[00:53:36]  Okay, men should pay on first dates.
[00:53:38]  Should women not be sex workers?
[00:53:44]  We can do anything we want.
[00:53:46]  Men can do whatever we want.
[00:53:49]  Sure.
[00:53:49]  Men can do whatever we want.
[00:53:51]  You guys can.
[00:53:52]  No, but it's like, okay, you're going to hold men to a standard.
[00:53:57]  And that standard corresponds to traditional gender roles.
[00:54:01]  Traditional gender roles would dictate, hey, don't be promiscuous, don't be a sex worker, don't be a stripper, don't be doing all that shit.
[00:54:11]  So, okay.
[00:54:12]  It's just kind of confusing.
[00:54:14]  If he really loved me and he was a traditional man, then he would want me to not work anymore.
[00:54:22]  And I would be a stay-at-home, lovely girlfriend.
[00:54:25]  A traditional.
[00:54:26]  But frankly, a true traditional man would not date a woman who's a sex worker to begin with.
[00:54:36]  Sure.
[00:54:37]  But I mean, there's some dudes who've got like a fucking, what's that term?
[00:54:42]  Seva.
[00:54:43]  Captain.
[00:54:46]  They're on some of that shit.
[00:54:48]  I feel like people are very fixated online about like stay-at-home girlfriend.
[00:54:52]  And it's interesting because I usually date girls and it's usually like whoever makes the most money.
[00:54:57]  And like, I get the mentality, but I think that people should be careful about like, you know, back in the 1950s, there was like other parts to being a stay-at-home wife.
[00:55:06]  So like also look out for like the kind of guy who's like what kind of guy you're dating if that makes sense, you know?
[00:55:12]  Like you need to also protect like your end of things if you're looking to go all the way back into that kind of dynamic.
[00:55:21]  Yeah.
[00:55:22]  I think also though, like I wouldn't want them paying for like everything.
[00:55:26]  Obviously, if I was making like enough, I would want to put my money towards them as well in a way.
[00:55:33]  But Jenny, you said you would quit if instead be a stay-at-home girlfriend if you were dating someone?
[00:55:43]  And it's really pretty dangerous to not have a work history if you do want to have kids.
[00:55:49]  Because then like, what if like, you know, the person you're dating ends up like turning to be somebody you didn't think they were and you guys are married and then you haven't had a job in a really long time.
[00:55:58]  So I think it's like food for thought type vibe.
[00:56:02]  I don't agree with that.
[00:56:04]  I think if you if you know that you want to have that dynamic of staying home, taking care of the kids, yes, you have to be very careful about who you choose because then you should be making a lifelong commitment.
[00:56:15]  And obviously, yes, people can change.
[00:56:17]  What my husband says all the time, and I've seen this to be true with friends, men don't change even though women often want them to.
[00:56:25]  So what you see is usually what you get.
[00:56:27]  Women change all the time, even if their husbands or boyfriends don't want them to.
[00:56:31]  We're just, I mean, we're slaves to our emotions a lot of the time.
[00:56:34]  You can't deny it.
[00:56:35]  You get a period the week before your period.
[00:56:38]  You're a raging bitch.
[00:56:39]  That's how my husband's like, is it coming?
[00:56:43]  And so you've got to make that decision.
[00:56:46]  And it's dangerous to be like, well, you still need to have a way to provide in case things don't work out.
[00:56:54]  Because if you have one foot out the door going into things, how much are you going to work to make it work when things get tough?
[00:57:00]  That's a good point.
[00:57:01]  I don't think it's having one foot in and one foot out.
[00:57:04]  It's just more or less having a standard for yourself and being like, I know if this were to go south, I can provide for myself.
[00:57:12]  Not, oh, I have a door, like, I have a foot out.
[00:57:14]  I'm like, if I really do need a way out, I can.
[00:57:17]  It's more or less just for your own morals and your own values to be like, I know I'm a strong individual woman and I know that I can pay for things myself, but I have a man.
[00:57:28]  But wouldn't you be living like more of a comfortable lifestyle if you guys are both working and both making money and bringing it in?
[00:57:35]  I also agree with that.
[00:57:36]  You guys can both be working.
[00:57:42]  What about you?
[00:57:44]  What do you want to know?
[00:57:45]  Well, you do OnlyFans, but you're like a country gal, kind of.
[00:57:50]  What are your thoughts?
[00:57:54]  Well, I personally have no preference in what a man makes, if that is relevant to the conversation.
[00:58:03]  I think work ethic is a lot more attractive than income because they don't directly correlate.
[00:58:07]  And if a man works hard and he's a janitor, I think that's attractive to me.
[00:58:17]  Okay.
[00:58:18]  You also, this is totally unrelated.
[00:58:21]  You're a chubby chaser.
[00:58:23]  I am.
[00:58:25]  Like you only date fat dudes.
[00:58:27]  So is it, like, the bigger the better?
[00:58:29]  Mm-hmm.
[00:58:34]  Like obese?
[00:58:35]  Mm-hmm.
[00:58:35]  600 pound live.
[00:58:37]  500 pounds.
[00:58:37]  Yep.
[00:58:38]  So like question for you.
[00:58:39]  500 pounds preferable to 200 pounds.
[00:58:44]  Yeah, I think closer to 500 would be my preference.
[00:58:48]  If I had to pick, there's tons of guys who are like 180 and super, super hot.
[00:58:52]  But typically, yeah, 500 is good.
[00:58:54]  And are you a feeder too?
[00:58:56]  No.
[00:58:57]  What is a feeder?
[00:58:59]  You feed them a bunch of food so they get fat.
[00:59:01]  Oh, okay.
[00:59:04]  Yeah, so okay.
[00:59:05]  Do you film that content?
[00:59:06]  No, I'm not into feeders.
[00:59:08]  Oh, okay, you're not.
[00:59:08]  Okay, okay.
[00:59:09]  No, she just likes fat dudes.
[00:59:10]  So like when you watch like 500 pound life or like 600 pounds, like are you like, dang, I need a number?
[00:59:16]  There were some really good looking guys.
[00:59:17]  Yeah, okay.
[00:59:18]  Okay, okay, I get you.
[00:59:19]  And is it more of just like a relate, like you prefer those men or is it like a fetish thing?

=== Labia Size And Weight Preferences (06:12) ===

[00:59:23]  It's not a fetish.
[00:59:25]  And for example, like a lot of people have an issue with me being a chubby chaser and think, well, what if the guy wants to lose weight?
[00:59:29]  Why do you want to encourage someone to be unhealthy?
[00:59:31]  Like if I'm with a guy and he loses weight, good for him.
[00:59:33]  Yeah.
[00:59:33]  I don't police like his body.
[00:59:35]  It's just like you're not going to like go out of your way and be like, I'm not going to date you because you're fat.
[00:59:39]  No, like my exactly.
[00:59:41]  Yeah.
[00:59:41]  My ex was five foot two.
[00:59:42]  Like I'm five foot three and he was 300 pounds at his heaviest and I loved it.
[00:59:45]  Very hot.
[00:59:46]  But would you lose attraction for a guy if he when you first meet him, he's chubby, but he starts losing weight?
[00:59:53]  Well, if we were together, no.
[00:59:56]  If he's just like a person in passing, yes, he'd become less attractive.
[00:59:59]  But dating, no.
[01:00:00]  Once I'm in, I'm in, you know.
[01:00:02]  Okay.
[01:00:03]  Interesting.
[01:00:04]  Interesting.
[01:00:05]  Huh.
[01:00:08]  Wait, hold on.
[01:00:11]  I don't know.
[01:00:12]  That's.
[01:00:12]  That's an interesting one.
[01:00:16]  Not a feeder, though.
[01:00:17]  No.
[01:00:18]  Okay.
[01:00:19]  It just doesn't do it for me.
[01:00:20]  Do you like cooking?
[01:00:21]  Oh, yeah.
[01:00:22]  Like, it's very good food.
[01:00:23]  So, like, you enjoy giving them proper meals, though?
[01:00:28]  Like, nutritional?
[01:00:29]  You just turn me off to watch them get big.
[01:00:31]  Like, the videos for feederism, you'll watch, like, they'll take a bite and their stomach, they force their stomach to look big, and people get off on that.
[01:00:38]  I gotcha.
[01:00:39]  That doesn't get me off at all.
[01:00:40]  I just think the bigger, there's literally more to love.
[01:00:42]  Like, you ask a guy who's a chubby chaser who likes big women, and they just say there's more woman to love.
[01:00:47]  And, like, yeah, I see that with big guys.
[01:00:50]  Like, I love deep stretch marks, like, the really wide ones that are dark purple, I think, are super high.
[01:00:54]  I think man moves are really hot.
[01:00:56]  Um, big guts are hot.
[01:00:58]  Can I ask you a question?
[01:01:00]  So, you call love keeping them unhealthy?
[01:01:04]  No, people say that to me.
[01:01:07]  People think since I'm a chubby chaser, I would only want them to be obese.
[01:01:10]  I'm like, I'm doing these men a disservice by keeping them obese.
[01:01:14]  But she's not a feeder.
[01:01:15]  No.
[01:01:16]  So, like, I have no interest in keeping them big.
[01:01:17]  If they're big by choice and they want to remain big, that's cool.
[01:01:20]  But if they lose weight, good for them.
[01:01:21]  You know?
[01:01:22]  So you wouldn't encourage them to get better?
[01:01:25]  Like.
[01:01:26]  No.
[01:01:27]  Wait, question for you.
[01:01:28]  How about this?
[01:01:29]  Related to her question.
[01:01:31]  Let's say you've been married to this guy for 10 years and he comes back from the doctor and the doctor said, hey, you have you're like pre-diabetic and you need to lose weight.
[01:01:42]  Under those circumstances, would you advocate your boyfriend or husband to lose weight?
[01:01:48]  Yeah, of course.
[01:01:49]  Okay.
[01:01:49]  If it's for the better and it's what he wants to do, absolutely.
[01:01:52]  You could always hurt.
[01:01:52]  So it's the bigger the better is what you said, right?
[01:01:55]  Bigger the better.
[01:01:56]  Yes.
[01:01:56]  I also, to some degree, have not related to weight, but I relate to the bigger is better thing in the sense of labia.
[01:02:07]  I only date women.
[01:02:09]  I also have kind of an interesting thing.
[01:02:11]  I only date, or at least prefer to.
[01:02:14]  Sometimes I'll give a girl a pass if she's really fantastic.
[01:02:17]  Okay, you've gotten any.
[01:02:19]  I'll tolerate you for a bit.
[01:02:23]  For the labia, the bigger the better.
[01:02:25]  And so, like, I have a rated, you know, there's the looks rating.
[01:02:28]  Uh, you can actually move up quite a bit in attractiveness up to plus five points if the labia is just okay.
[01:02:35]  So, it works like this, right?
[01:02:37]  Let's say a girl's a five, so she's average, but okay, here's the here's the scale for the labia ranking: if it's like a small Audi, small Audi, slight Audi, plus one, medium Audi, plus two, large Audi, plus three, XL Audi, plus four.
[01:02:55]  World stop, don't interrupt, plus five Audi labia, plus five, plus five for the no, no, no, hold on, like the world record labia, like the biggest I've ever seen, the biggest there is.
[01:03:09]  She's in Guinness World Record book, labia plus five.
[01:03:16]  So, she, if she's a five, but she she could be a ten, she could be a ten.
[01:03:20]  So, if it sticks out, that's what you want, correct.
[01:03:24]  But what if it's tucked in but fat?
[01:03:27]  Like, what if you got fat lips and then labe, so it's all tucked in together.
[01:03:35]  So, okay, there's inner, inner labia, and outer labia.
[01:03:38]  Are you referring to the outer labia?
[01:03:39]  Like, she's got like an insanely puffy agar labia, yeah, and it like covers it, so it makes it like kind of like I'm talking when I'm talking about lips, labia, I'm talking about the inner labia, yeah.
[01:03:50]  I'm saying, but like, your lips can cover your labia if they're big enough.
[01:03:53]  Hold on, the lips are the inner labia, so you're okay.
[01:03:58]  You're talking, okay, okay, the the lips, yeah, yeah, there's the outer labia, which is essentially just your normal skin surrounding, yeah, okay, I gotcha.
[01:04:07]  I mean, that it's okay if the outer labia is talking about the inner labia, yeah, yeah, like inside there, all up in there, yeah, got it.
[01:04:15]  Well, it it's external, yeah, so okay, do you need any further clarification?
[01:04:22]  Oh, no, I just was saying that, okay, okay, nothing, no, nothing from anybody, okay.
[01:04:29]  What do the bigger ones do for you?
[01:04:31]  What do you like about them?
[01:04:33]  Uh, visually, it's better, and then actually, like, it feels better.
[01:04:37]  I've heard that lips that grip, I guess.
[01:04:40]  Can you tell if they have one?
[01:04:44]  Uh, you know, sometimes I get like uh, I get an intuition, but I've definitely been wrong like you can sense there, your type, yeah, yeah, like I've yeah, well, like, do you ever see a woman and you're like, oh, I bet she has a huge labia?
[01:04:59]  It's okay, I've developed some theories, okay?
[01:05:06]  Um, so this is gonna sound a little not always, but women who have this is gonna sound fucking crazy, and it's not a hundred percent, but if a woman has a little bit like like arm hair, like a little bit, that can sometimes be an indicator.
[01:05:30]  I shaved my arms before this because of that.

=== Longest Relationship Backstory (14:31) ===

[01:05:36]  Not all the time, but sometimes if she's like hairy, but that's I don't have a preference for hairy women, so I'm like in this fucking predicament.
[01:05:47]  I'm gonna ask my boyfriend when I get home and be like, Can you just let me know the size?
[01:05:51]  Like, I don't know.
[01:05:52]  Aside from that, it's just some women do have big labia energy, like you can just tell.
[01:05:57]  Wait, so hairy arms is a thing of that, though.
[01:05:59]  Well, it's not a hundred percent.
[01:06:01]  This is like my retarded gross science.
[01:06:04]  That should have been my comeback in high school because they would call me like Chewbacca, and I'd be like, Well, I have a big labia, so I don't know.
[01:06:09]  Do you?
[01:06:10]  I don't know.
[01:06:11]  I mean, I don't like, I'm not down there with a mirror, like, dang, I got a big labia.
[01:06:14]  You've never looked at your family.
[01:06:15]  I mean, I guess, yeah, like yeah, it's fat, yeah.
[01:06:20]  Okay.
[01:06:20]  Yeah.
[01:06:21]  Good to.
[01:06:22]  Nice.
[01:06:23]  Congratulations.
[01:06:24]  Thank you.
[01:06:24]  My boyfriend enjoys it.
[01:06:26]  I'm proud of you.
[01:06:27]  Yeah.
[01:06:34]  Okay, oh here, we'll get back to the relationship status first.
[01:06:37]  Oh, this is below the middle.
[01:06:42]  My bad.
[01:06:42]  What kind of traditional father could you have possibly had who let his daughter become you?
[01:06:47]  Oh, yeah.
[01:06:48]  Also, do you think you deserve a man to ever save a hoe like you?
[01:06:52]  Okay.
[01:06:53]  Sorry, guys.
[01:06:54]  I mean, it doesn't really matter, but the TTS is, just for clarification, is $199 and up.
[01:07:01]  But I mean, that just came through as a read.
[01:07:03]  It's not a big deal.
[01:07:03]  Do you want to answer that question?
[01:07:07]  What kind of father did I have?
[01:07:09]  Well, you said your dad's traditional.
[01:07:12]  Yeah.
[01:07:13]  Are your parents still married?
[01:07:14]  Yeah, they've been together.
[01:07:15]  Well, I mean, okay, so here's some backstory.
[01:07:18]  My dad was a little bit more than a moment.
[01:07:19]  can you do me one favor can you like your like body is no Leave the mic where it is.
[01:07:26]  Your body is like facing this way.
[01:07:28]  Can you face?
[01:07:29]  Yeah, that's good.
[01:07:30]  Okay.
[01:07:31]  Okay.
[01:07:31]  And stirring the mic now.
[01:07:33]  So it's like, yeah.
[01:07:35]  Okay.
[01:07:35]  Nope.
[01:07:36]  Straighten it.
[01:07:37]  So it's like fit.
[01:07:38]  Nope.
[01:07:39]  Straighten it.
[01:07:40]  So it's like 90-degree angle.
[01:07:43]  Yep.
[01:07:44]  Okay.
[01:07:44]  Okay.
[01:07:44]  Good.
[01:07:45]  So, yeah.
[01:07:46]  I mean, my dad wasn't always traditional.
[01:07:49]  He cheated on my mom.
[01:07:51]  W. Just kidding.
[01:07:52]  So, yeah.
[01:07:54]  I mean, but after he cheated on my mom, he stayed with the other woman until this day.
[01:08:02]  So, and they were married.
[01:08:04]  So, you know, I guess a man can change, so a woman can change too.
[01:08:08]  That's so romantic.
[01:08:11]  Like, he's still with her.
[01:08:13]  Yeah.
[01:08:14]  That's so beautiful.
[01:08:16]  You know, I guess it's not once a hoe, always a hoe.
[01:08:19]  Wait, people change.
[01:08:22]  Wait, hold on.
[01:08:23]  So he's.
[01:08:27]  Does he know that you post your butthole on the internet?
[01:08:35]  Does he know?
[01:08:35]  I never asked him directly if he knew, but a lot of people in my family did know, and I know that they knew because some people followed my account and I was like, oh, no, block immediately.
[01:08:47]  So I had an inkling that my dad probably knows just because you talked to him about it or no.
[01:08:53]  Did you talk to your dad?
[01:08:54]  I talked to my dad about other things.
[01:08:56]  Just not that.
[01:08:59]  And then your mom, does she know?
[01:09:00]  My mom knows.
[01:09:02]  And do you have a stepfather or no?
[01:09:04]  No.
[01:09:04]  Okay, your mom's just remained single, I guess.
[01:09:10]  She knows.
[01:09:11]  Yeah.
[01:09:12]  Are you Filipina?
[01:09:13]  No.
[01:09:14]  I'm Cambodian.
[01:09:15]  Cambodian.
[01:09:16]  Okay.
[01:09:18]  You got a Cambodian mom?
[01:09:19]  I have a Cambodian dad.
[01:09:21]  Oh, and your mom is.
[01:09:24]  She's Puerto Rican.
[01:09:25]  A lot of people don't expect an Asian guy to pull a Latina for some reason.
[01:09:30]  Yeah, they can do it.
[01:09:31]  Yeah, they definitely can.
[01:09:33]  Okay.
[01:09:34]  Okay, so you're half.
[01:09:35]  You're Latina, half Latina, half Cambodian.
[01:09:39]  Yeah.
[01:09:40]  Okay.
[01:09:41]  So your Puerto Rican mom was cool with the sex work.
[01:09:48]  She didn't get the belt or anything.
[01:09:50]  She used to be a stripper, so she has like an understanding, I guess.
[01:09:55]  All makes sense.
[01:09:56]  Okay.
[01:09:56]  All makes sense.
[01:10:00]  Does she still strip?
[01:10:01]  No.
[01:10:03]  She stopped stripping a long time ago.
[01:10:05]  Huh.
[01:10:05]  Yeah.
[01:10:06]  Did she like teach you moves or something?
[01:10:08]  No.
[01:10:10]  Okay.
[01:10:13]  Would your dad disown you if he knew?
[01:10:16]  No.
[01:10:17]  I don't think he would.
[01:10:18]  I think he would want me to do better and he would just tell me that, but I don't think he would want to actually tell me that.
[01:10:25]  I think my dad loves me a lot.
[01:10:27]  Okay.
[01:10:28]  All right.
[01:10:29]  Okay.
[01:10:31]  Relationship status for you.
[01:10:34]  I am in a relationship.
[01:10:35]  We've been together for a little over a year.
[01:10:38]  All right.
[01:10:39]  What's the longest relationship you've been in?
[01:10:42]  Three and a half years.
[01:10:43]  Is your boyfriend going to be happy that you revealed you have a giant labia?
[01:10:50]  Honestly, because it's his, yeah.
[01:10:53]  He's fine with it?
[01:10:54]  Okay.
[01:10:54]  I mean, I don't see why causes hairy arms, so I don't know.
[01:10:59]  What about you?
[01:11:00]  I'm single as of 2 a.m. last night.
[01:11:05]  I was like, should I still come?
[01:11:07]  And then I was like, you know, I made a time commitment for you guys.
[01:11:10]  Yeah.
[01:11:10]  So, but yeah, it was the three-month mark, girl.
[01:11:13]  The three-month mark.
[01:11:14]  Yeah, my girlfriend broke up with me, but it's okay.
[01:11:18]  Oh, your girlfriend broke up with me.
[01:11:19]  Yeah.
[01:11:20]  You're bisexual.
[01:11:20]  Although, I'm like, I guess you could consider bi, but I prefer girls a lot more as I get older.
[01:11:28]  Okay.
[01:11:29]  But I've dated men in the past.
[01:11:30]  And you were previously married.
[01:11:34]  That was my longest relationship.
[01:11:36]  He was bi, though.
[01:11:38]  He was bi.
[01:11:39]  Yeah, he's really nice.
[01:11:40]  He's pretty nice.
[01:11:41]  Okay.
[01:11:41]  How long were you married for?
[01:11:43]  Like, we're still getting divorced right now.
[01:11:45]  So you're not.
[01:11:48]  Okay.
[01:11:48]  Yeah, we're figuring out like the end stages of it, but he's really nice.
[01:11:51]  It's very amicable.
[01:11:52]  I formally started divorce.
[01:11:54]  Yeah.
[01:11:55]  When did you guys file for divorce?
[01:11:57]  We started filing in the beginning of last year, and we figured out that our taxes weren't filed correctly.
[01:12:05]  This is boring, but we have a domestic partnership, so it's harder to file taxes.
[01:12:09]  So I'm going to a tax guy and getting my taxes settled and then we're going to finish filing.
[01:12:14]  Okay.
[01:12:14]  How long were you married for?
[01:12:16]  Like, it was 2020 and then to now, so six years.
[01:12:22]  Is he paying you alimony?
[01:12:23]  No, no.
[01:12:24]  We go like 50-50 with stuff.
[01:12:26]  Okay, so it's just going to be a clean, clean break.
[01:12:29]  Yeah.
[01:12:29]  How long were you?
[01:12:30]  You're dating three months, the girl.
[01:12:32]  Yeah.
[01:12:33]  Okay.
[01:12:35]  Were you guys during the marriage was an open marriage?
[01:12:38]  At some points, like towards the end, but then I just started to feel like it wasn't really like equal.
[01:12:45]  And I just felt like it would be better if we split up.
[01:12:49]  Is Mike okay?
[01:12:50]  Uh, yeah.
[01:12:52]  Yeah.
[01:12:53]  Um, hold on.
[01:12:57]  Uh, yeah, yeah, yeah, everything's okay.
[01:13:01]  Okay.
[01:13:02]  Um, okay.
[01:13:09]  Um, so uh, why did you break up with your girlfriend?
[01:13:18]  No, she broke up with me because she said that she didn't have feelings for me and she just thinks I'm attractive.
[01:13:24]  And basically, she was just like not feeling it.
[01:13:28]  But like, it's all right because like I live in LA and it's a fun place to be single.
[01:13:32]  So it was for the best.
[01:13:34]  Okay.
[01:13:34]  Uh, who here's, uh, I guess just coming back, uh, or your sexual orientation?
[01:13:41]  Um, I'm bisexual, but I prefer dating men.
[01:13:45]  Pansexual.
[01:13:47]  Hi.
[01:13:47]  Bye.
[01:13:49]  Wait.
[01:13:50]  Hold on.
[01:13:51]  Bye, pansexual, bye, I will say with a very strong female preference.
[01:14:00]  Like, I don't think I would date a guy again.
[01:14:02]  Okay, so you're done with men.
[01:14:03]  Yeah.
[01:14:05]  Can you do?
[01:14:06]  Oh, no.
[01:14:07]  She's doing the bird hands.
[01:14:09]  She's doing the bird hands, boy.
[01:14:11]  I just feel like I had such a good experience, like, with my kid's dad, and it was, like, definitely, like, a thing.
[01:14:16]  So, like, I don't see the reason.
[01:14:18]  I'm just not into it anymore.
[01:14:21]  But I appreciate the memories.
[01:14:24]  And our child is beautiful.
[01:14:28]  All right.
[01:14:31]  I'm straight.
[01:14:34]  Say your truth, girl.
[01:14:38]  Let's fucking go.
[01:14:42]  Relationship status.
[01:14:43]  I'm single.
[01:14:45]  Louder, louder.
[01:14:46]  I'm single.
[01:14:49]  Longest relationship?
[01:14:51]  I have one singular ex-boyfriend.
[01:14:53]  We were together, I think, eight or nine years.
[01:14:57]  One boyfriend?
[01:14:58]  Yep.
[01:14:58]  Eight or nine years.
[01:14:59]  And you're 25?
[01:15:00]  How long have you been single?
[01:15:01]  We got together when I was like 13.
[01:15:03]  Okay, how long you been single?
[01:15:04]  A couple years, three, four.
[01:15:05]  Close one of those doors, please.
[01:15:06]  Three or four years.
[01:15:09]  Okay.
[01:15:09]  I would have thought you were like married for some reason.
[01:15:11]  No.
[01:15:12]  You're giving like stable guys.
[01:15:13]  You're getting ship energy.
[01:15:15]  You're very secure.
[01:15:15]  You're like, I can weld you anything.
[01:15:18]  That part.
[01:15:20]  Wow.
[01:15:21]  Okay.
[01:15:21]  And is he the only guy you've been with biblically?
[01:15:25]  No, I've had sex with other men, but he's the only one I've ever dated.
[01:15:30]  Okay.
[01:15:30]  All right.
[01:15:31]  Was he the first guy you were ever with, though?
[01:15:34]  No.
[01:15:36]  You started dating at 13?
[01:15:38]  Yeah.
[01:15:39]  How old is he?
[01:15:41]  He's two years older than me.
[01:15:43]  Okay.
[01:15:45]  Did you lose your virginity to him?
[01:15:47]  No.
[01:15:49]  What age did you lose your virginity?
[01:15:52]  Okay, we started when I was 14.
[01:15:54]  I lost it at 14.
[01:15:56]  Damn.
[01:15:58]  I guess going around the table, when did everyone else, I'll even go.
[01:16:02]  When did everyone lose their virginity?
[01:16:04]  I was 17.
[01:16:05]  I was a freshman, so I was 14.
[01:16:09]  Hold on.
[01:16:10]  Oh.
[01:16:12]  A freshman in high school, okay.
[01:16:14]  16.
[01:16:15]  16?
[01:16:16]  Okay.
[01:16:16]  15.
[01:16:17]  15.
[01:16:17]  15, about to be 16.
[01:16:19]  18 for guys and then 19 for girls.
[01:16:23]  14.
[01:16:24]  27.
[01:16:26]  16.
[01:16:27]  Damn, what the fuck?
[01:16:29]  Fucking that late bloomer over here.
[01:16:32]  17.
[01:16:32]  What the fuck?
[01:16:33]  Damn.
[01:16:34]  We did say earlier that I think that's more common in men, that they wait longer, I think.
[01:16:39]  I mean, I feel like it's hard because it's like the gut, like you have to convince, like, a girl, and then like, there's always a guy that's down.
[01:16:48]  Yeah.
[01:16:48]  You know what I mean?
[01:16:49]  Well, it's easier for women to get laid.
[01:16:53]  Yeah.
[01:16:55]  That's why I dated Ben for so old.
[01:16:57]  Like, first the person you asked your virginity to, did they have a large labio?
[01:17:03]  Was that like your first one?
[01:17:04]  Yeah, like when did the whole like I love large, like big labio stuff?
[01:17:08]  Honestly, yeah, that developed a little later.
[01:17:10]  I think maybe around the time I was like 21, 20, 21.
[01:17:16]  But no, I don't.
[01:17:17]  I did not, as far as I recall, she did not have a large labia.
[01:17:21]  Well, because at first you didn't know your preferences, probably.
[01:17:24]  You're still like learning things.
[01:17:26]  True, it develops about your preferences over time.
[01:17:29]  14.
[01:17:30]  Wait, 14?
[01:17:31]  Yeah, well, you're probably just a late bloomer because like women date older guys most of the time.
[01:17:37]  Usually it's like, that's how it goes.
[01:17:38]  I mean, a lot of guys don't really date older girls most of the time.
[01:17:42]  My ex-husband most of the time.
[01:17:46]  Wait, who else can every damn, 14?
[01:17:50]  Shit.
[01:17:53]  Shit, man.
[01:17:55]  I was still playing with Army dolls.
[01:17:57]  Like, that's scary.
[01:17:58]  I like was not interested in boys in high school.
[01:18:01]  I was like, I would make up fake crushes.
[01:18:03]  I'd be like, oh my God, that guy, Justin Bieber.
[01:18:06]  Yeah.
[01:18:07]  And then I was like stressing about my AP test.
[01:18:10]  Okay.
[01:18:11]  Well, every year I have a graph.
[01:18:12]  Jeez, that's crazy.
[01:18:13]  I was in the special class.
[01:18:15]  It's okay, girl.
[01:18:17]  Relationship status?
[01:18:19]  Single, but talking to somebody.
[01:18:20]  Ooh.
[01:18:21]  For how long?
[01:18:22]  Like two weeks.
[01:18:24]  Okay.
[01:18:26]  Wait, single or talking to somebody?
[01:18:29]  That's still single.
[01:18:30]  Like, how long?
[01:18:30]  What?
[01:18:31]  Have you been talking to this person?
[01:18:34]  Okay, two weeks.
[01:18:35]  And I guess how long have you been single then?
[01:18:38]  Like a year.
[01:18:40]  Okay.
[01:18:41]  Longest relationship?
[01:18:43]  Just under three years.
[01:18:45]  All right.
[01:18:48]  The two weeks guy, have you guys had carnal knowledge?
[01:18:52]  No.
[01:18:54]  No?
[01:18:55]  What does that mean?
[01:18:56]  Do you know what carnal knowledge is?
[01:18:59]  No.
[01:19:00]  Here, look at her.
[01:19:06]  Two weeks.
[01:19:07]  Okay.
[01:19:08]  What about you?
[01:19:09]  I'm married.
[01:19:10]  We've been married for almost eight years.
[01:19:14]  It's my longest relationship.
[01:19:16]  He was the first man I ever kissed.
[01:19:19]  And like you, were you a virgin when you guys got married?
[01:19:24]  Yes.
[01:19:24]  Yeah.
[01:19:25]  When we got married, I was still a virgin.
[01:19:26]  You waited till marriage?
[01:19:28]  Yes.
[01:19:28]  Okay, and he's the only guy you've been with.
[01:19:29]  Yes.
[01:19:30]  Okay.
[01:19:31]  And kids?
[01:19:33]  Yeah, we have two.
[01:19:34]  Anybody else here have kids?
[01:19:35]  I have a kid.
[01:19:36]  You have a kid?
[01:19:37]  How old?
[01:19:37]  His name?
[01:19:38]  Four.
[01:19:39]  Is that from your ex-husband?
[01:19:40]  Yeah.
[01:19:41]  Okay.
[01:19:41]  Got it.
[01:19:42]  What about you?
[01:19:42]  I have three kids.
[01:19:44]  What?
[01:19:44]  Relationship status?
[01:19:45]  Oh, I'm single.
[01:19:47]  My longest relationship was eight years.
[01:19:50]  And I've been single for over a year.
[01:19:55]  The relationship that ended one year ago, how long was that one?
[01:20:00]  Like two years.
[01:20:02]  Okay, so your eight-year one, were you married?

=== Narcissism, Abuse, And Virginity (05:06) ===

[01:20:08]  Not to him, no.
[01:20:09]  I was married to my oldest daughter's dad.
[01:20:12]  She's 14.
[01:20:14]  I got married when I was 18, and we split up when she was nine months old.
[01:20:20]  And we actually stayed married for six years until we got divorced.
[01:20:25]  And then I had two more children with another guy.
[01:20:30]  We were together for eight years.
[01:20:31]  For eight years?
[01:20:32]  Yeah.
[01:20:33]  Okay.
[01:20:33]  And you've been married just once?
[01:20:35]  Yeah.
[01:20:36]  Okay.
[01:20:36]  I see.
[01:20:36]  So married for six years, one child from that marriage.
[01:20:41]  Dated a different guy for eight years, two children from him.
[01:20:44]  Do I have that correct?
[01:20:45]  Yes.
[01:20:46]  Okay.
[01:20:48]  The your first marriage, did he or does he pay you alimony?
[01:20:55]  No.
[01:20:56]  No point he paid you alimony?
[01:20:58]  Never.
[01:20:58]  Did you pay him alimony?
[01:21:00]  No.
[01:21:01]  What's the custody arrangement with the first?
[01:21:04]  We have 50-50.
[01:21:05]  Does he pay you child support?
[01:21:07]  No.
[01:21:07]  Do you pay him child support?
[01:21:08]  No.
[01:21:09]  And then the eight-year relationship where you've had two children from that eight-year relationship, does he pay you child support?
[01:21:16]  No.
[01:21:17]  Do you pay him child support?
[01:21:18]  Nope.
[01:21:18]  50-50?
[01:21:20]  Nope.
[01:21:20]  You full custody?
[01:21:22]  Yeah, he's not in my two youngest kids' lives, unfortunately.
[01:21:27]  Okay.
[01:21:28]  All right.
[01:21:29]  But no, you haven't seeked, sought child support?
[01:21:35]  I have not.
[01:21:36]  Okay.
[01:21:38]  Is any particular reason or just don't want to be a dickhead to him or what?
[01:21:43]  What's the I don't really want to get into it on here, but he's just not in jail, prison?
[01:21:50]  No, he probably should be, but he's not.
[01:21:54]  He, um, our lives are just better with, you know, where he doesn't see them.
[01:22:03]  And yeah, it's kind of complicated.
[01:22:06]  I know you're probably thinking, like, how is that better, like, for your kids not to have their dad in their life, but it just is for all of us.
[01:22:16]  For someone who grew up with a person where they shouldn't have their mom in their lives, I understand.
[01:22:20]  Yeah, it's just he shouldn't be around.
[01:22:22]  Yeah.
[01:22:25]  So, I mean, we don't need to get into details, but essentially, are you hinting at or pointing towards there was some abuse?
[01:22:35]  He has, he did abuse me late on in the relationship, but he struggles with addiction and narcissism.
[01:22:46]  Narcissism.
[01:22:47]  Severe.
[01:22:49]  Severe.
[01:22:49]  Like, what's an example of?
[01:22:54]  Whenever something or someone, like an emergency happened, he would either like put the attention on himself or like create another problem.
[01:23:08]  Like, you know, just to like divert away from, like, you know what I'm saying?
[01:23:16]  No, not really.
[01:23:17]  Okay.
[01:23:17]  Could you give an example?
[01:23:23]  When we were having a birthday party for my kids one time, he decided that he wasn't going to be there and he just decided to up and leave.
[01:23:36]  And my, nobody really knew why, but I think it was the addiction, probably.
[01:23:45]  But he would just like disappear like that from time to time.
[01:23:50]  Yeah.
[01:23:52]  Who here, speaking of narcissism, who here has dated someone who you consider to be a narcissist?
[01:24:02]  Show of hands?
[01:24:04]  Is that raise them high, raise them high?
[01:24:07]  Boom, boom, boom, boom.
[01:24:10]  Okay, boom.
[01:24:12]  And then those of you who raised your hand, of those men, were they diagnosed by a clinician, therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist as a narcissist?
[01:24:26]  They were diagnosed with, oh, sorry.
[01:24:28]  They were diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.
[01:24:30]  Not narcissism, but it was like, it was pretty bad.
[01:24:33]  Like, I trauma bonded with the girl that they were like cheating on me with.
[01:24:38]  No.
[01:24:40]  Were they diagnosed?
[01:24:43]  Actually, he was diagnosed with multiple personality disorder, and one of his personalities was a narcissist.
[01:24:52]  One of them?
[01:24:54]  Okay, that's interesting.
[01:24:56]  I do feel like it gets like, the term gets thrown around a lot, though.
[01:25:00]  Like, it's like there's a difference between having narcissistic personality disorder and like other disorders that have that like as a main character trait.
[01:25:10]  We have a chat here from Anon.
[01:25:12]  Lexi, you get to read it.

=== Social Media Lies And Fanbases (02:59) ===

[01:25:14]  Would anyone on the panel that does social media OF not publicly disclose a current relationship to protect their income following?
[01:25:28]  Um, I mean, there's...
[01:25:36]  One retail at the retail.
[01:25:38]  There's probably...
[01:25:39]  Yeah, I mean, well, I don't disclose anyone that I date.
[01:25:43]  Like, honestly, I just like, I just feel like there's just no really point to do that.
[01:25:49]  I mean, in like certain conversations with a fan, like if it's a new fan coming in and he's like, tell me you're single, please.
[01:25:55]  And like, if that might be the thing to get him to spend money, I might just say it.
[01:25:59]  But like, I mean, I'm saying like, I already disclosed it here.
[01:26:02]  Like, I have, you know, like I have a boyfriend, so I'm not, like, going to hide that information from the public, but every now and then it might help with a sale, you know what I mean?
[01:26:13]  Yeah, that makes sense.
[01:26:16]  Me?
[01:26:18]  You do OF, right?
[01:26:20]  Yeah, I think it's fine to like keep parts of your interpersonal relationships private from the internet for your own safety.
[01:26:28]  Yeah.
[01:26:29]  Well, I mean, you don't need to share like specific details.
[01:26:32]  You don't need to post them.
[01:26:33]  But if you were simply asked, hey, you know, when we're going through the relationship questions, are you in a relationship?
[01:26:41]  You know?
[01:26:46]  Okay, you are also doing stuff.
[01:26:49]  Oh, he said social media or OF.
[01:26:51]  You don't do it.
[01:26:52]  You just stream.
[01:26:52]  Yeah, I just.
[01:26:53]  You don't do OF.
[01:26:54]  Okay.
[01:26:55]  All right.
[01:26:55]  Well, I mean, I can speak from my own experience.
[01:26:58]  Of course, women do tell me things off the record.
[01:27:01]  And given my strong journalistic integrity, I would never disclose a source.
[01:27:10]  But I can tell you that many women have told me after the show who do OnlyFans that they're in relationships.
[01:27:18]  But they lied on the show and said that they're single.
[01:27:23]  And that could be OnlyFans girls.
[01:27:24]  It could even be women who just are streamers, do social media because it hurts their bottom line to be seen as taken because these men, these simps, want a chance.
[01:27:36]  And they're probably more inclined to spend more on a woman if she's single in the hopes of possibly having a shot with her.
[01:27:46]  But if she's already in a relationship, that is typically a non-starter.
[01:27:50]  So yeah.
[01:27:53]  Makes sense.
[01:27:54]  Like this girl right here, she's probably been dating a guy for two years for all we know.
[01:27:58]  Oh no.
[01:28:01]  That's why you deleted the content because you didn't want everyone to see his face.
[01:28:06]  Oh, well, I just deleted his content because I didn't want him to say, oh, well, you need to send me money because you still sell content with me in it.

=== Gender Identity And Dating Apps (15:15) ===

[01:28:14]  Yeah.
[01:28:14]  Like yeah, he was very narcissistic.
[01:28:18]  Like it was literally my face on like all these like social media like platforms and he's like, yeah, those are my accounts.
[01:28:25]  So is he like that?
[01:28:27]  For you?
[01:28:28]  Huh?
[01:28:28]  Was he like trying to be a manager type thing for you?
[01:28:31]  I mean, yeah, that's kind of like what we like, we had like a contract deal.
[01:28:35]  So it was just like a lot.
[01:28:38]  Sorry.
[01:28:40]  I think I wonder if I should clip farm.
[01:28:43]  Should I clip farm for a little bit?
[01:28:45]  We need to, for our clips, we always like to maybe, fuck, do we do it now?
[01:28:55]  The lighting is good during the day.
[01:28:58]  Let's do it.
[01:28:59]  You know what?
[01:28:59]  I've never done this on the show, but just for our clips, we always do like have people doing something kind of unique to get people's attention.
[01:29:06]  So for our clips, here, Lexi, make a little funny, silly face into this camera.
[01:29:12]  That wasn't silly.
[01:29:15]  Oh, no, do like do a wink or something or do that.
[01:29:21]  Was terrible.
[01:29:22]  Okay, how about you?
[01:29:23]  Give it a shot right here.
[01:29:24]  Camera right here.
[01:29:25]  Sounds silly.
[01:29:26]  Okay, I don't even know what the fuck you're.
[01:29:30]  Wow, you guys are just This was a terrible idea Put on the squabble I regret even.
[01:29:36]  I regret even.
[01:29:38]  Come on.
[01:29:39]  Here, try it again.
[01:29:40]  Do that again, Lexi.
[01:29:42]  Okay, what the fuck?
[01:29:44]  I'm just kidding.
[01:29:46]  Should we get popsicles?
[01:29:47]  I don't know.
[01:29:48]  Yes.
[01:29:48]  I watched the blonde girl eat the popsicle.
[01:29:52]  That was good.
[01:29:53]  We'll have to stagger the popsicles because if everybody's eating a popsicle, so Lexi goes first.
[01:29:59]  Get Lexi a popsicle.
[01:30:02]  Get Lexi.
[01:30:04]  Are they the Johnny Pops?
[01:30:05]  Yeah.
[01:30:06]  That would be funny.
[01:30:07]  Open that up for me.
[01:30:08]  We get to eat by Popsicles.
[01:30:11]  That would be funny if you're interested by it.
[01:30:13]  No, I'm just all right.
[01:30:16]  So, let's see here.
[01:30:19]  One sec, guys.
[01:30:21]  Behind you, Lexi, you can.
[01:30:23]  Thank you.
[01:30:24]  Wow, so pretty.
[01:30:25]  Pride.
[01:30:26]  I know.
[01:30:27]  Ally.
[01:30:28]  Each color is a different color.
[01:30:29]  I live in a voice town, so.
[01:30:31]  Yeah.
[01:30:32]  Girl.
[01:30:33]  Right here.
[01:30:35]  We need to hang out.
[01:30:36]  Go ahead.
[01:30:37]  Have fun.
[01:30:38]  What are you doing?
[01:30:40]  You got a face.
[01:30:46]  Yeah, I'm sorry.
[01:30:47]  I'm just like giving the camera a little side eye.
[01:30:50]  My gosh, making me nervous.
[01:30:52]  Why are you allowed to have to have the popsicle?
[01:30:54]  It's like it feels so sexual.
[01:30:55]  I'm sorry.
[01:30:56]  Just like the word already.
[01:30:57]  What do you do for fun in Chicago?
[01:30:59]  Why are you?
[01:31:00]  Let her enjoy the...
[01:31:01]  I love you.
[01:31:02]  I was trying to give her something to do while she ate the popsicle.
[01:31:05]  Keep it here, Nathan.
[01:31:08]  Is that how you eat a fucking popsicle?
[01:31:09]  This is how I eat a popsicle.
[01:31:11]  That is.
[01:31:12]  I ate all the frost off of it because I have OCD.
[01:31:17]  Well, I want a nice clean one and then I enjoy it for real, you know?
[01:31:21]  Yeah.
[01:31:22]  All right.
[01:31:23]  So you're pan.
[01:31:24]  Yes.
[01:31:26]  So you date trans people.
[01:31:28]  I haven't actually dated a trans person, but I'm open to it.
[01:31:33]  My boyfriend's like, he's dated a lot of trans people.
[01:31:36]  Slay.
[01:31:37]  Yeah.
[01:31:39]  So you haven't dated a trans person.
[01:31:41]  But no, I consider myself pan, though, still because, like, I'm open to it.
[01:31:44]  I just haven't had the opportunity.
[01:31:48]  Oh my god, these girls are like, don't get it.
[01:31:52]  Oh, my God.
[01:31:53]  Okay.
[01:31:55]  Okay.
[01:31:56]  So you would date a trans person.
[01:32:00]  Yeah.
[01:32:02]  Okay.
[01:32:03]  Cool.
[01:32:04]  Would anybody else here date a trans person?
[01:32:08]  I date.
[01:32:08]  Yeah, why not?
[01:32:09]  I dated a trans person.
[01:32:09]  Oh, I have or would.
[01:32:11]  Is it, how about this?
[01:32:12]  Do you guys think it's do you think it would be straight for me to date a trans woman?
[01:32:20]  I will say, like, I think that it's definitely different.
[01:32:24]  Like, I don't think it would be, like, because I feel like sometimes some trans people will be like, oh, like, this, like, straight man should, like, date me.
[01:32:31]  But, like, I feel like that's definitely, like, you're allowed to have a preference because, like, you know, some lesbians might not want to date like a trans girl, you know, because it's just about like the parts that we appreciate.
[01:32:42]  But what if that trans girl doesn't like, what if they want to date men?
[01:32:46]  Because.
[01:32:47]  Well, I just mean from the other side.
[01:32:49]  Okay.
[01:32:49]  You know what I mean?
[01:32:50]  Like, if he says he's straight, then he might not, like, trans might not be his preference.
[01:32:55]  Yes, you would be considered straight because you are dating a woman who is now a woman and is coming and saying, I am a woman.
[01:33:03]  And on her ID, it says she, her.
[01:33:06]  And also, you can get an ID picture now updated because I have friends that are in the trans community and they have their current pronouns on their card because that's what they are.
[01:33:16]  I did say that.
[01:33:16]  Yeah, so along with their pictures.
[01:33:18]  And I'm sure the women over here on the side of the table want to jump into this.
[01:33:21]  So my position is if I dated a trans woman, that would be gay.
[01:33:28]  But what if they have the bottom surgery?
[01:33:31]  Yeah, that's not pussy.
[01:33:33]  That's like inverted penis.
[01:33:35]  Okay.
[01:33:36]  And like a fucking wound.
[01:33:39]  Have you tried one though?
[01:33:40]  Have you tried one though?
[01:33:44]  No.
[01:33:44]  So how would you know what it feels like?
[01:33:46]  Well, hold on.
[01:33:47]  I've never been shot before, but I can imagine it would be really painful to be shot.
[01:33:52]  Well, yeah, but.
[01:33:52]  So like I can, you know, humans have the gift of creativity.
[01:33:57]  But I know trans females and I know I've seen their puss.
[01:34:01]  I've seen one of them.
[01:34:02]  You don't even know what your pussy looks like, but you know what some trans pussy looks like.
[01:34:05]  I'm not in.
[01:34:06]  I went in there with some like things.
[01:34:08]  But yes, I've seen like, I've been sent photos of like, yes, this was my before and my after.
[01:34:13]  Yeah, that's not pussy, though.
[01:34:15]  That's something else.
[01:34:18]  What?
[01:34:18]  It's considered scientific.
[01:34:19]  Like they made it that way.
[01:34:21]  Scientifically.
[01:34:22]  They made a biologically penis.
[01:34:23]  They took their penis and like they took it and they made it into a vagina.
[01:34:28]  So what you're saying is my penis as it currently is, it is of the nature to potentially become a vagina.
[01:34:43]  I need more water.
[01:34:44]  If you go through the surgeries and you go through the proper needs that you need to, yes.
[01:34:49]  But you're not over here trying to be trans.
[01:34:51]  So if I cut my dick off and made it into.
[01:34:55]  You were a doctor.
[01:34:57]  It doesn't fucking matter.
[01:34:58]  It does.
[01:34:59]  It's irrelevant.
[01:35:01]  Hear the whole question that I'm about to ask.
[01:35:04]  If I were to cut my dick off and like make it into like a fleshlight, would that be, that would be a pussy?
[01:35:11]  But are you going through the like everything that you need to go through?
[01:35:16]  Like if you were to just cut off your dick and be like, hey, I have a fleshlight or whatever, that's not being trans.
[01:35:22]  That's not becoming a woman.
[01:35:24]  Yeah, it's not.
[01:35:25]  But like the material.
[01:35:26]  So what you're saying is, but what you're saying is though, it's not the same realm because you're not here becoming a woman.
[01:35:32]  You're not here taking the proper, what is it, estrogen that they take?
[01:35:37]  The shots.
[01:35:38]  So it's like, it's not the same to sit here and say, oh, well, if I cut my dick off and make a puss, is it going to be a puss?
[01:35:44]  Yeah, I mean, am I like.
[01:35:46]  Sure.
[01:35:46]  Okay, I'm willing to completely set aside the remove like the fleshlight argument then.
[01:35:53]  Let's say it would be to, it were to maintain on me.
[01:35:57]  Like I got the bottom surgery.
[01:35:59]  That's not pussy.
[01:36:00]  Yeah, but why did you get the bottom?
[01:36:04]  Like it's to become and give you what is like supposed to be what you can with what your skin is.
[01:36:10]  That is your pussy.
[01:36:12]  That is what they gave you.
[01:36:13]  So just because you don't have like it's what the doctor created your vagina to look like.
[01:36:17]  Just because it's not a basic looking vagina doesn't mean it's not a vagina.
[01:36:22]  But it's made to look like and to resemble a vagina as closely as possible.
[01:36:26]  So therefore, it's a vagina.
[01:36:28]  It may not be a perfect one, but it is.
[01:36:30]  It's literally not a vagina.
[01:36:32]  And they have feeling down there as well, too.
[01:36:35]  So how do you explain that?
[01:36:36]  Elbow has feeling.
[01:36:37]  Is that a vagina?
[01:36:39]  But they're making it look and they're giving you the exact, like you can pee out of it.
[01:36:43]  So if I were to graft my dick skin onto my elbow.
[01:36:48]  Some people do that.
[01:36:48]  Is it a vagina?
[01:36:50]  Well, if you take someone's nipple and you put the nipple right here and you sew it on, is it still a nipple?
[01:36:55]  Yes.
[01:36:57]  Right.
[01:36:57]  So if I put my penis on my elbow, it's still a penis.
[01:37:00]  No, because you're taking the penis and you're conforming it into completely different anatomy.
[01:37:04]  No, it's just an inverted penis.
[01:37:06]  No, they do.
[01:37:07]  No, there's feeling in there.
[01:37:08]  They can make you a clit.
[01:37:09]  Like, they can do it all.
[01:37:10]  No, that's just part of the penile tissue.
[01:37:13]  It's not a clitoris.
[01:37:14]  It's not a vagina.
[01:37:15]  Well, it's not a penis anymore.
[01:37:20]  Oh, my God.
[01:37:20]  That could be disputed, but for one thing is certain, it's certainly not a vagina.
[01:37:25]  What if you use a real vagina, though?
[01:37:26]  That's a vagina transplant.
[01:37:28]  Has that been done?
[01:37:29]  Is that a thing?
[01:37:29]  Well, pretend you don't.
[01:37:31]  I feel like science can get to that.
[01:37:33]  But no, science, but right now, it's all cause.
[01:37:36]  It's cosmetic.
[01:37:37]  What is it?
[01:37:38]  When it's like looks cause.
[01:37:40]  Cosmetology.
[01:37:41]  Yeah, no, just like the specific word when you just like.
[01:37:44]  Cosmetic.
[01:37:45]  Yeah.
[01:37:45]  It's a cosmetic thing where it's like, yes, it cosmetically looks like a vagina.
[01:37:50]  Does it function like a vagina?
[01:37:51]  Yes, because it is the closest thing that you can get to a vagina.
[01:37:54]  Just because it's not, you weren't born with it doesn't mean that it's not a vagina.
[01:37:58]  I will say I want like an OG.
[01:38:01]  An OG.
[01:38:03]  An OG.
[01:38:05]  I would prefer an OG.
[01:38:07]  We're like an old lady?
[01:38:08]  No, no.
[01:38:09]  We love ladies with preferences.
[01:38:10]  No, I mean like an OG, like, you know.
[01:38:12]  Vagina?
[01:38:13]  Yeah.
[01:38:13]  Oh, okay.
[01:38:15]  This is my personal dating preference.
[01:38:17]  Yes.
[01:38:17]  Basically, what he's saying is that, like, dildals are not like real cocks, right?
[01:38:22]  Because it's like, just because it looks like one performs like one doesn't mean that it is.
[01:38:26]  Because then you could say, like, because then people could say that like someone isn't gay if they like prefer penetration or if they like penetration, you know what I mean?
[01:38:35]  So it's like, if you use that argument, like if you use the argument against him, you're also saying it like the other way around too, if that makes sense.
[01:38:44]  That like if that is a vagina in its original form, then a dildo would be like the same thing.
[01:38:51]  You know what I mean?
[01:38:51]  Yeah.
[01:38:52]  Well, what about on like a prosthetic, like a prosthetic thing?
[01:38:55]  Like if someone gets a prosthetic leg, is it not a leg?
[01:38:58]  Well, it's not a leg, it's a prosthetic.
[01:39:00]  But it's a prosthetic.
[01:39:01]  The word before it, prosthetic.
[01:39:02]  Biological leg.
[01:39:04]  It's a different form of leg.
[01:39:05]  It's still a different form of leg, but it's still a leg.
[01:39:08]  Well, hold on.
[01:39:08]  So if we're just changing the definitions of what things mean.
[01:39:11]  So, okay, somebody who is somebody who is a child abuser is somebody who has piercings in their face.
[01:39:26]  Wait, what do you mean?
[01:39:27]  Someone that's a child abused.
[01:39:28]  So if I just change the definition for what child abuser is to somebody who has more than five piercings in their face, does that parse in terms of actually trying to convey meaning to but what does that have to do with a pair, like a fake leg being called a fake?
[01:39:44]  It's still a leg.
[01:39:45]  What does that mean?
[01:39:46]  If you're essentially changing the definition, so it would.
[01:39:49]  I'm not changing the definition.
[01:39:50]  It's called a prosthetic leg because it's a prosthetic leg.
[01:39:52]  Right, it's still a leg.
[01:39:54]  Therefore, if you were going under surgery and on the document, it says that you were undergoing a surgery to get a vagina.
[01:40:02]  What is that on paper?
[01:40:03]  A vagina.
[01:40:04]  Why are you saying vagina?
[01:40:06]  Vagina.
[01:40:07]  Why are you saying f-f with an F?
[01:40:09]  Vagina.
[01:40:10]  No, so first off, so a prosthetic leg that's either going to be made out of some sort of metal material, some sort of metal alloy.
[01:40:18]  It can be made out of wood.
[01:40:19]  It can be made out of plastic.
[01:40:21]  There's all kinds of different materials.
[01:40:23]  What you're talking about is when they do this procedure, they basically cut a hole into you.
[01:40:32]  They incise a hole and they invert the penis into that hole.
[01:40:36]  So you have penile tissue there.
[01:40:40]  That's a hole which has penile tissue, but it's not a vagina.
[01:40:47]  Now, if you want to call it like no, it's just not a vagina.
[01:40:53]  What would you call it?
[01:40:55]  A gaping wound.
[01:40:57]  Okay.
[01:40:58]  A penis wound.
[01:41:00]  That's what they have.
[01:41:01]  Like, so when you go to pay your medical bills, they're like, you're paying for your penis wound.
[01:41:05]  Well, I don't understand this.
[01:41:06]  So if, so, okay, just because something is labeled as such, does that mean that you are the thing?
[01:41:15]  Well, just because it doesn't have the same, just because it's still a vagina.
[01:41:19]  Okay, so like, for example, you know on the Uber app how they just rolled out nationwide how women can match with other women drivers.
[01:41:29]  And so I could go on the Uber app and just change my gender.
[01:41:34]  Oh, gosh.
[01:41:34]  Does that, because on the Uber app it says that I'm a woman, does that make me a woman?
[01:41:39]  So if you were to go to the doctor and that's my question first.
[01:41:43]  So no, you wouldn't because it's not the same logic.
[01:41:45]  Okay, so I could go, my understanding, at least in California, I could go to the DMV.
[01:41:50]  I believe it's the DMV, or maybe you have to go through the court.
[01:41:53]  I'm not entirely sure.
[01:41:54]  You can do, it's a pretty simple process in California.
[01:41:58]  You can request a change of your listed gender.
[01:42:01]  But you actually doing that and you actually being that are two different things.
[01:42:05]  Right.
[01:42:05]  So just because a doctor who's a activist who is like doing trans surgery refers to the thing as a vagina doesn't make it a vagina.
[01:42:15]  No, but that's not what I'm saying.
[01:42:16]  Just because the doctor has it on the paper, I'm not just saying because it's on paper.
[01:42:20]  That was your paper.
[01:42:20]  I'm saying, no, what I'm saying is, so if it was on paper and it was like, yes, you were paying for this, this, and this, this, it's not just the doctor that is saying that.
[01:42:29]  That is medical science that is saying what it is.
[01:42:33]  You're literally, hold on.
[01:42:34]  You're talking about science.
[01:42:36]  Biology is a hard science.
[01:42:38]  Biology is not a soft science.
[01:42:40]  Biology is a hard science.
[01:42:42]  So it's actually, you're kind of a science denier.
[01:42:45]  It's interesting.
[01:42:46]  You know, the people that are big on the science thing, they're actual science deniers.
[01:42:51]  So it's just a biological reality.
[01:42:53]  Males cannot become females.
[01:42:55]  Females cannot become males.
[01:42:57]  A man, a male, so trans woman cannot have a vagina through the means of cutting a hole in their pubic area and inverting their penis.
[01:43:13]  That is a hole which has been surgically created, which is constituted out of penile tissue.
[01:43:24]  That is not a vagina.
[01:43:27]  Okay.
[01:43:28]  But you still think it is.

=== Transgender Biology Debates (12:58) ===

[01:43:29]  Is that correct?
[01:43:30]  No, I understand what you're saying and I agree.
[01:43:33]  So, wait, are you changing?
[01:43:37]  Yeah, I agree with what you said made sense to me.
[01:43:40]  Yes.
[01:43:40]  Okay.
[01:43:40]  So you're conceding the point.
[01:43:42]  Yeah, I understand what you're saying.
[01:43:43]  So, okay, would it be gay then for me to date a trans woman?
[01:43:46]  I mean, I, if, yeah, because if you technically, if science is saying that it's not a vagina, then yeah, because you're not fucking a vagina.
[01:43:55]  Therefore, you are gay.
[01:43:56]  Well, what do you mean by science is saying it?
[01:44:00]  So because science is science.
[01:44:04]  So when I say that, I mean like when you're born, like what science is saying is a man and a woman.
[01:44:10]  Well, what if sitting next to me was a surgeon who is a trans activist who performs these surgeries and they also do scientific research and they're a scientist and they claim the science is that this is actually a vagina.
[01:44:29]  Are they right?
[01:44:31]  You're saying if they like that based on their research?
[01:44:35]  Yeah, so they're the scientist and they're claiming that that is in fact a vagina.
[01:44:41]  Are they correct?
[01:44:42]  No, because it's not, that's, that's not accurately right based on facts.
[01:44:47]  Okay, so when you say the science says, you're not just referencing.
[01:44:50]  No, what I meant to say was like based on what a man and a woman is supposed to be when you were born.
[01:44:55]  That's what I meant by your position, is it?
[01:44:58]  What do you mean?
[01:44:59]  Well, you believe trans women are women.
[01:45:02]  Yeah, I do.
[01:45:03]  Okay, so trans women who have undergone bottom surgery and is that a vagina?
[01:45:11]  What is on paper?
[01:45:13]  No, it's not.
[01:45:14]  What you've been telling me, no.
[01:45:16]  From what it is, you said it's a hole.
[01:45:19]  Okay, on that specific thing, you've completely conceding on that.
[01:45:23]  I mean, yeah, I mean, that's what the show is about is learning things.
[01:45:26]  And I mean, honestly, I like, yeah, it makes sense to me.
[01:45:30]  Like, yes, it is not considered a vagina.
[01:45:32]  It's a whole.
[01:45:32]  I feel like it's like just a, it's a different thing.
[01:45:35]  You know what I mean?
[01:45:36]  Yeah.
[01:45:37]  I needed the reason.
[01:45:38]  Like, I just needed the why because I didn't have like the, now that I completely understand it, it's like, no, that is not a vagina.
[01:45:44]  Like, yes, it is, you are correct.
[01:45:45]  It is a hole.
[01:45:46]  And it wouldn't be considered a vagina.
[01:45:48]  But even if it is written on paper saying you have a vagina, it's for that doctor because they are an advocate for that, like you said.
[01:45:55]  Okay.
[01:45:56]  Like it's like they created a different thing because the point is to make the person who's paying all this money for this surgery to like feel better.
[01:46:03]  Yeah.
[01:46:03]  But I understand why you're not going on an actual point.
[01:46:06]  No, it is not a vagina.
[01:46:07]  It's not an OG.
[01:46:08]  Yes.
[01:46:08]  Do you guys hear me?
[01:46:12]  Do you guys want to weigh in on the topic?
[01:46:13]  Well, I mean, from the medical perspective, my understanding is if you have a fake vagina, you're not going to an OB to take care of it.
[01:46:20]  You're just going to probably a surgeon for aftercare.
[01:46:24]  Good point.
[01:46:25]  And then you can't change your DNA.
[01:46:26]  So still, scientifically, you're still male or female, no matter what your pronouns are.
[01:46:32]  So then that would make Brian having sex with a trans woman, that would be gay.
[01:46:37]  Because it's too much.
[01:46:38]  It would definitely be like a spectrum.
[01:46:40]  Like, I feel like it'd be on the Kinsey scale.
[01:46:42]  Sex with a trans woman is gay.
[01:46:45]  What if you're attracted to them for their femininity?
[01:46:48]  Or their what?
[01:46:49]  Feminine qualities.
[01:46:50]  Do they have a penis?
[01:46:52]  I mean, you would acknowledge that there are trans women who still have transcription.
[01:46:55]  If you're, like, imagining the butthole as a vagina, though, in your head.
[01:47:00]  I feel like...
[01:47:01]  So a male's butthole...
[01:47:03]  No, but if you're fucking a male in his butthole with your penis.
[01:47:07]  I mean, that sounds really like, I mean, just I'm not using this in a pejorative sense.
[01:47:12]  That's homosexual.
[01:47:14]  I mean, heterosexual.
[01:47:16]  There's like a spectrum to it.
[01:47:18]  If you're fucking a male in his butthole, that is homosexual.
[01:47:24]  I mean, a little bit.
[01:47:26]  No, not just a little bit.
[01:47:28]  That is like the ultimate homosexual act, essentially.
[01:47:31]  It's what he was telling me.
[01:47:32]  To enjoy that, you would have to be like, you know.
[01:47:35]  It's what he was telling me, how the doctor, like, even though the doctor says what it is, it's not that.
[01:47:40]  So even if you do imagine it's a vagina, it's still a bow.
[01:47:42]  I still think there is a difference, though, and people that are attracted to trans females and they're attracted to them for like their feminine qualities and people that are gay and attracted to like, you know, like hairy big men.
[01:47:56]  Like, I feel like there is a difference.
[01:47:57]  Yeah, because like I wouldn't date like somebody who'd like fully transitioned into being like a man.
[01:48:02]  Like, because I'm not like into that kind of thing.
[01:48:05]  I think there is a difference there.
[01:48:07]  Like with someone.
[01:48:07]  Yeah.
[01:48:08]  But I guess like a man is like considered gay once he knows that like that woman is trans, you know, and he still wants to like pursue her.
[01:48:16]  I don't know.
[01:48:16]  I would call it like pansexual because there are men who like anal.
[01:48:21]  And if she looks really feminine.
[01:48:23]  Wait, hold on.
[01:48:24]  What?
[01:48:24]  Wait.
[01:48:25]  Yeah, I would call it like either like bisexuality or like homosexuality.
[01:48:32]  You'd be on the Kinsey scale for sure.
[01:48:34]  Whoa, wait, wait, wait.
[01:48:34]  To your point, you're saying there are men who like anal sex.
[01:48:37]  Are you saying receptive or giving?
[01:48:41]  Giving.
[01:48:42]  So like if she's still feminine.
[01:48:49]  No, no, no.
[01:48:50]  So if you have, look, if you have anal sex with a biological female, that is still a heterosexual act.
[01:48:59]  If you have anal, you have any kind of sexual activity with a biological male and you're a male, that is a homosexual act.
[01:49:08]  Okay.
[01:49:10]  How about like hermaphrodites?
[01:49:12]  People with two.
[01:49:13]  Okay, like 0.0001 of the population.
[01:49:16]  I feel like it's different too if it's like, I know this one trans girl and she's like so pretty.
[01:49:20]  She's like literally beautiful and like she transitioned when she was like 13 years old.
[01:49:24]  So like you could like you really can't tell.
[01:49:26]  So I feel like the kind of person who's like attracted, no, like she's so hot, but like the kind of person who's attracted to like that is different than somebody who's attracted to somebody who still has like masculine characteristics.
[01:49:37]  Like you'd be a little bit more, I would say, like gay if you're like into somebody who looks more like your gender.
[01:49:43]  Yeah.
[01:49:44]  I agree with that.
[01:49:45]  I think like if you like, if you look exactly like if I'm like here right now and I have a dick in my pants and you guys didn't know that and like a guy wanted to fuck me because he thought that I was a girl, that's not gay.
[01:49:56]  That's straight.
[01:49:57]  Yeah, that's pretty straightforward.
[01:49:59]  He's like looking at a girl, a hot girl, and he thinks that she's so fucking hot.
[01:50:03]  He wants to fuck her.
[01:50:04]  Yeah, that's straight.
[01:50:05]  But like, once you know that I have a dick in my pants and you're still turned on, that's where I would say, like, that's like, you know, yeah.
[01:50:12]  Like, everybody thought my expression was not really straight anymore.
[01:50:15]  Men can be deceived.
[01:50:17]  Yeah.
[01:50:17]  Men can be deceived, but yes, if he knows that the person is trans, then yeah, then you're gay.
[01:50:27]  Like, it would be gay.
[01:50:32]  Yeah.
[01:50:32]  Well, how about this?
[01:50:33]  A lesbian woman being penetrated by a transgender woman with a penis.
[01:50:41]  Is that a heterosexual or a homosexual act?
[01:50:46]  Wait, can you repeat that?
[01:50:47]  I would if you don't.
[01:50:48]  A lesbian woman, cis, I fucking hate that term, but a lesbian cis woman who's being penetrated by a transgender woman pre-op.
[01:50:58]  So she, she, she has a penis.
[01:51:02]  Yeah.
[01:51:02]  Is that heterosexual or homosexual?
[01:51:05]  Heterosexual.
[01:51:06]  I feel like you'd be at least more on the by because I wouldn't be okay with that.
[01:51:10]  I would be like, I would give him a good handshake.
[01:51:12]  Right.
[01:51:13]  I would like buy him a coffee.
[01:51:15]  But so then.
[01:51:16]  But not down.
[01:51:17]  Are trans women women?
[01:51:20]  I would say it's a different, like, that's the word for it.
[01:51:23]  So it's like, you know, it's not like you're like trad wife.
[01:51:28]  I feel like if you were a transgender woman that was transitioning to like, you know, fully become like a woman, you wouldn't be using like your dick, you know.
[01:51:38]  Correct.
[01:51:39]  Yeah.
[01:51:40]  Like you would be using as a vagina.
[01:51:43]  You use it to pee, but not like, I don't think you would be using it for penetration if like your intention is to like fully go through with it.
[01:51:51]  That's correct if you because then you wouldn't be that would even if you didn't use your penis it would still be gay.
[01:51:58]  It would still be gay.
[01:52:00]  I mean like if like these two women were together and the woman is a lesbian and she's waiting for her to like go through with her surgery, like she's still a lesbian, you know, at the end of the day.
[01:52:09]  But like if she's being penetrated by like the penis and she's, you know, the woman that has a penis is not going to fully transition, then you know, there's a, there's a little more questions there.
[01:52:20]  I guess you're both like lesbian, but you're, it's like different, like there's different like preferences.
[01:52:26]  Yeah.
[01:52:26]  Like if you only want to date someone who identifies as like female.
[01:52:30]  So I can't speak for our married media training.
[01:52:34]  Trans, but if you were to, if you were going to become a woman, they do not want to use that in like any sexual anything unless you're using the bathroom because it that's not what they want.
[01:52:47]  So if you were to do that, that's kind of going against the whole transformation.
[01:52:51]  Yeah.
[01:52:51]  A lot of trans people don't want you to like touch them at all.
[01:52:54]  In my experience.
[01:52:56]  I've dated trans masked people and they're like, yeah, no, like I have dated so many trans masked people.
[01:53:00]  They love single moms and like they never want you to touch them.
[01:53:04]  Like it's like a thing.
[01:53:05]  It's very ugly.
[01:53:06]  I feel like a lot of people don't want to just be touched.
[01:53:08]  Like I feel like that's an everything.
[01:53:10]  Well, no, it gives you like dysmorphia.
[01:53:12]  Oh, body dysmorphia.
[01:53:13]  Yeah, I mean like they get body dysmorphia.
[01:53:15]  Just from touching them?
[01:53:16]  Yeah, like touching their parts that they don't like.
[01:53:18]  Oh, I know.
[01:53:19]  But you meant just literally like no, like in sex, they don't want it.
[01:53:23]  They just want to be doing things for you.
[01:53:24]  I don't want to.
[01:53:25]  I see what you're saying.
[01:53:26]  Because it reminds them that they don't like their body.
[01:53:28]  Yes.
[01:53:28]  Yeah.
[01:53:29]  Or it reminds them that it's there.
[01:53:31]  It do be that way sometimes.
[01:53:36]  Okay.
[01:53:39]  What is a woman?
[01:53:42]  A woman is a girl with a certain chromosome.
[01:53:47]  I don't know.
[01:53:47]  What is it?
[01:53:48]  The why?
[01:53:49]  I don't know.
[01:53:51]  Can you turn like, okay, just because we don't like to get people's side profile, if you can try to stay like straight to the table or even turn a bit towards the TV, go ahead.
[01:54:03]  I'm a woman.
[01:54:04]  Same thing with you said, the chromosomes, and I guess like feminine qualities, I guess.
[01:54:10]  Lunk hair.
[01:54:12]  I don't know, makeup.
[01:54:15]  So the chromosomes.
[01:54:16]  Well, yeah, that's like the biological.
[01:54:18]  If we're talking like biology, then yes.
[01:54:20]  Yeah, but just what is a woman?
[01:54:22]  Well, XX chromosomes, right?
[01:54:24]  Yeah.
[01:54:27]  You came out of your mom when you were born, and they wrote your gender down on your birth certificate, and it was girl or boy.
[01:54:35]  And apparently now it's like, you know, if you identify as a woman, then you're a woman.
[01:54:39]  So.
[01:54:40]  Okay.
[01:54:41]  When you come out of your mother, if you got a little ding-a-ling or if you got a little hoo-ha.
[01:54:46]  That's what.
[01:54:47]  But I thought trans women are women.
[01:54:49]  Well, no, because remember we just went over this whole thing where you were saying that if it's not a vagina, then so you've just completely changed your entire position on this?
[01:55:00]  I mean, if you're, well, logically, if I'm sitting here and I'm thinking about it, it's like, why would I continue to think that it's a vagina when it's not?
[01:55:09]  You just did the whole explanation and it made sense to me.
[01:55:12]  So no, it's not considered a vagina because of what you said.
[01:55:16]  Right, but somebody who's like a trans person or trans activist would say even prior to having the bottom surgery or any surgery, it would just come down to genuine identification.
[01:55:30]  Yeah, so are you asking me like if I like if a trans woman is a woman?
[01:55:35]  So my understanding is the position that for trans people, trans activists, is as soon as you genuinely ID yourself as a woman, that makes you a woman.
[01:55:50]  You don't have to even now you can better align with your outward appearance in terms of looking like a woman, but as soon as your trans identity, it just requires ID, self-id.
[01:56:05]  Yeah, I think it has to do like what we were saying before.
[01:56:08]  It has to do like with the surgery.
[01:56:10]  Like it's what to make you feel better and to make you feel like a woman, yes.
[01:56:14]  But if you're going to sit here and be like, what is the definition of a woman when you come out of your mother and you have a vagina or a dick?
[01:56:20]  That's what it comes down to.
[01:56:22]  What about you?
[01:56:22]  The people that stress me out in dating.
[01:56:26]  But I agree with you.
[01:56:27]  I agree with you.

=== Surgery Definitions Of Womanhood (03:18) ===

[01:56:28]  Okay.
[01:56:29]  XX chromosomes.
[01:56:32]  2X chromosomes.
[01:56:34]  XX chromosomes.
[01:56:36]  2X chromosomes and a vagina.
[01:56:40]  All right.
[01:56:40]  There it is, folks.
[01:56:41]  There it is.
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=== Merchandise And Camel Toe Humor (03:14) ===

[01:59:47]  I'm wearing our iHeart Big Labia hoodie.
[01:59:50]  There it is.
[01:59:51]  Yep, I'm wearing that one.
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[02:00:00]  They're super comfortable, soft, lightweight, lightweight, excuse me, comfortable fabric.
[02:00:05]  You'll actually want to wear it.
[02:00:06]  Not like a lot of merch that print on like shitty blanks made out of cardboard and dog shit.
[02:00:11]  And if you buy something during the stream, I'll pop it up like this.
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[02:00:20]  And yeah.
[02:00:22]  By the way, beautiful little sunset there.
[02:00:25]  Was it redder?
[02:00:26]  Was it redder before?
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[02:00:28]  Maybe we missed it.
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[02:01:01]  Big Labia Matter or BLM for short.
[02:01:04]  All labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter.
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[02:01:13]  10,000 labia plasty procedures a year in the USA alone.
[02:01:17]  10,000 women are just chopping up, getting surgery, getting rid of their amazing Audis.
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[02:01:25]  If you can't catch the full shows, we have a clip.
[02:01:27]  What's that?
[02:01:28]  I'm sorry.
[02:01:28]  I didn't know that women were doing that.
[02:01:31]  Yeah, 10,000 a year.
[02:01:33]  Has anybody here ever felt like any shame?
[02:01:37]  I thought about it.
[02:01:37]  Or you have an Audi?
[02:01:39]  Well, you know, I have a kid.
[02:01:42]  Sometimes people get labioplasty after they have a kid.
[02:01:44]  Oh, wow.
[02:01:44]  Because like a baby, like, you know, babies are big, bro.
[02:01:48]  I mean it happened after you had your kid?
[02:01:51]  I don't know.
[02:01:51]  I just feel like it's not like it's not the way it was looking.
[02:01:54]  I don't know.
[02:01:55]  Yeah.
[02:01:55]  I was thinking about because Megan Fox got one.
[02:01:58]  Oh.
[02:02:00]  Okay.
[02:02:00]  Well, that's the thing.
[02:02:02]  Do you like camel toe?
[02:02:06]  Do I like camel toe?
[02:02:09]  That's a crazy question.
[02:02:10]  Well, I mean, you like labia, so I was just wondering, is it like a thing for you too?
[02:02:16]  Like you can see the are you talking?
[02:02:17]  Like if I see you, yeah, like if like we're all like at the camera and you can literally like see that thing.
[02:02:22]  I no, not not particularly.
[02:02:25]  Okay, cool.
[02:02:26]  I don't think it camel toe really does much for me, but okay.
[02:02:31]  I don't know.
[02:02:31]  I mean no more than like the normal guy, I guess.
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=== Sewn Abs And Discord Community (04:25) ===

[02:03:01]  Let's just jump into the next topic here.
[02:03:06]  Let's see.
[02:03:07]  I actually need to get up momentarily.
[02:03:09]  So I don't know.
[02:03:11]  Can I trust you guys to actually have an engaging conversation for like two minutes?
[02:03:17]  Or do you need the guiding hand of a male to actually have like an entertaining conversation?
[02:03:23]  We got this.
[02:03:24]  No, I'm just kidding.
[02:03:29]  All right.
[02:03:30]  Let's see how bad the viewership drops off after I leave.
[02:03:33]  All right.
[02:03:33]  So, Army, they are here for you.
[02:03:35]  You're from Chicago, correct?
[02:03:36]  Or you're, yeah.
[02:03:37]  So I literally fucking get up.
[02:03:40]  I get up and she's asking a fucking geographic question.
[02:03:43]  Nobody gives it.
[02:03:44]  What?
[02:03:45]  I was following up.
[02:03:46]  You didn't even let me fit.
[02:03:48]  I was going to go.
[02:03:49]  Would you like deep dish pizza?
[02:03:51]  What the fuck are you going to ask about?
[02:03:54]  I was going to ask her something else.
[02:03:57]  What?
[02:03:58]  So, about the, you know, lady.
[02:04:00]  Do you want to ask her about where she's from?
[02:04:02]  No, so I was going to say, so you're from Chicago, I am too.
[02:04:05]  So when it comes to like nightlife out there, do you.
[02:04:08]  Nobody gives a fuck, bro.
[02:04:10]  What I'm doing.
[02:04:11]  Oh, okay.
[02:04:12]  When it comes to the nightlife?
[02:04:14]  No, yeah.
[02:04:15]  You want to ask her, oh, do you go to that bora on fucking 16?
[02:04:19]  Nobody gives a fuck.
[02:04:20]  What are you doing?
[02:04:21]  No, I was.
[02:04:21]  So somebody else asked a question.
[02:04:24]  Come on.
[02:04:24]  Competence.
[02:04:25]  Let's see it.
[02:04:26]  Crazy.
[02:04:27]  I'm going to ask about your dating life and the nightlife, but so yeah.
[02:04:33]  Who's had plastic surgery?
[02:04:34]  Raise your hands.
[02:04:35]  Me.
[02:04:36]  Me.
[02:04:38]  Yeah, me too.
[02:04:38]  The boobs.
[02:04:39]  Yeah.
[02:04:39]  What about you, girl?
[02:04:40]  Mommy makeover.
[02:04:41]  Well, I lost a ton of weight, and so I don't have to lose skin and then my abs sewn back together.
[02:04:45]  Do you feel like it's chip?
[02:04:46]  Well, you've been with the same person, but do you feel like it's changed like your dating life after you got like plastic surgery?
[02:04:51]  Not for him.
[02:04:52]  Because I feel like people objectify me more now that I have meaner people.
[02:04:56]  My husband likes me.
[02:04:57]  Yeah, I attract like the worst lesbian.
[02:05:00]  My husband likes me to show off my body and he would prefer my boobs were out all the time and stuff like that.
[02:05:07]  But like mommy makeover was for me.
[02:05:10]  Yeah, of course.
[02:05:10]  Because I had lost a lot of skin.
[02:05:12]  Then I had my son was 10 and a half pounds, so I had a lot of loose skin.
[02:05:17]  And between that and losing weight, so that made a huge difference for me, not having the extra skin down below.
[02:05:24]  So you feel better.
[02:05:25]  Yeah, I feel better.
[02:05:26]  That's amazing.
[02:05:26]  I had my abs sewn back together too.
[02:05:28]  Oh, I mean, I love going to the gym.
[02:05:31]  Did you just sew diastoles?
[02:05:32]  I just realized it was like this big of a gap.
[02:05:35]  Yeah.
[02:05:35]  I used to say their fitness instructor.
[02:05:37]  Yeah.
[02:05:37]  So they sew them back together.
[02:05:38]  Yeah.
[02:05:38]  Oh, that's true.
[02:05:39]  Because there's no way, like, you can't do traditional crunches and stuff.
[02:05:42]  Did you get diastasis recti?
[02:05:44]  No.
[02:05:44]  No?
[02:05:45]  Crazy.
[02:05:46]  And you guys are the only ones with we're the only ones with kids, right?
[02:05:48]  I think so.
[02:05:49]  Yeah.
[02:05:49]  It's crazy.
[02:05:50]  You have three.
[02:05:51]  Yeah, um, mine looks the same.
[02:05:54]  You know?
[02:05:56]  She said mine is all good.
[02:05:58]  It does.
[02:05:59]  It is good down there.
[02:06:00]  Do you feel like dating as a mom?
[02:06:02]  You're single right now?
[02:06:03]  Yeah.
[02:06:03]  Do you feel like dating as a mom is hard?
[02:06:05]  Because people don't respect that you're a mom.
[02:06:07]  Yeah.
[02:06:09]  But honestly, I don't, I think I just want to stay single.
[02:06:12]  I don't want to bring anyone around my kids.
[02:06:16]  Yeah, I'm always scared to bring somebody around them.
[02:06:18]  And then like they'll break up with you in like the most savage way possible.
[02:06:21]  And then you need to like be a mom the next day.
[02:06:22]  Yeah, and then you have to heal in front of your kids.
[02:06:24]  Yeah.
[02:06:25]  My son was like, I don't introduce people I'm dating to my son, but he's like, oh, mommy, why are you sad?
[02:06:30]  He's like, are you happy?
[02:06:31]  He's like, he's foreign.
[02:06:32]  He's like interrogating me.
[02:06:33]  Does dick size matter to you guys?
[02:06:36]  That question's irrelevant.
[02:06:37]  Yeah, for us.
[02:06:37]  What about you guys?
[02:06:39]  I don't like dicks.
[02:06:39]  I would say, yeah, but it's like, I don't want it too big.
[02:06:44]  Like, I don't want some bigger.
[02:06:45]  I just care if it's like five and up.
[02:06:46]  Five and up is good.
[02:06:47]  Five and under.
[02:06:49]  That's why I like it.
[02:06:50]  I think five and up is.
[02:06:51]  Five and under?
[02:06:52]  You better be carrying some good energy.
[02:06:55]  Like, seriously, to replace.
[02:06:56]  See, that's how I know that I don't like guys.
[02:06:58]  Because like the fact that you would like go for, like, some people would overlook that and like love them despite having a small penis.
[02:07:07]  I feel like that's like real love.
[02:07:08]  I would, I would love a man if he had a small penis, but he like really like took care of me and he loved me back and I knew that that was love.
[02:07:14]  Do you know like that?
[02:07:15]  Also, I feel like you can work with small.
[02:07:17]  Like it does more than you think it does.
[02:07:19]  Definitely.
[02:07:20]  Yeah.
[02:07:20]  But no, what I was going to ask you was when it comes to you like going to work, well, you too, because you said you're a stripper, right?

=== Brain Fog And Dating Standards (13:26) ===

[02:07:27]  So in the city, do you ever run into just like some straight-up weirdos that are constantly trying to like, I know there's the homeless people and there's some weirds like always walking the street.
[02:07:34]  Honestly, but have you ever followed them?
[02:07:35]  I've never seen them with like stalkers or like people just following you.
[02:07:38]  I've never seen stalkers.
[02:07:39]  I got follows people.
[02:07:41]  I got following this person.
[02:07:43]  And I was surprised.
[02:07:44]  They're like, they stay in their own little groups.
[02:07:46]  Yeah, they're like, no, here.
[02:07:49]  They're in love out here.
[02:07:50]  And the way they talk to each other is like, I don't know.
[02:07:56]  It's like definitely like a separate, like in LA, there's like a homeless community and they don't really interact with like other people.
[02:08:01]  Like in Chicago, like the homeless people are so like not even noticeable.
[02:08:05]  Like you don't even notice them either.
[02:08:07]  They went right by here.
[02:08:09]  I walked by and there was like three or four of them.
[02:08:11]  They were just kind of hanging out, but they seemed like they probably hung out there that same spot like every day.
[02:08:17]  One time I dated a girl who turned out to be couch surfing.
[02:08:20]  And she was like, she actually, she was super masked.
[02:08:23]  Like she literally looked like a boy, but it turned out she was like a homie hopper.
[02:08:26]  Like, does anybody know what a Barracks bunny is?
[02:08:28]  I know what a homie hopper.
[02:08:29]  Yeah, she was a Barracks bunny.
[02:08:30]  And like my ex-husband was in the military.
[02:08:32]  A girl that like, you know, like if you want to get laid, you're going to hook up with this girl.
[02:08:36]  Yeah.
[02:08:36]  So like my super masked to the point that people thought we were like heterosexual.
[02:08:40]  She was a barracks bunny for men.
[02:08:41]  Yeah.
[02:08:42]  And she was like buy on the low.
[02:08:43]  It was pretty crazy.
[02:08:45]  Do you also own a car?
[02:08:46]  Do you do any like if you don't feel comfortable answering, that's fine.
[02:08:50]  But besides OnlyFans, do you do like clubs like escort anything?
[02:08:53]  No, nothing else.
[02:08:54]  Just OF for three years straight.
[02:08:57]  I feel like a lot of girls in LA are low-key escorts because like the math ain't.
[02:09:00]  I was going to say in Chicago, escorts are very, like, it's more, it's more recognized than I would say OnlyFans.
[02:09:06]  They're very popular.
[02:09:07]  We have poker girls in LA.
[02:09:09]  Do you guys have poker girls anywhere else?
[02:09:10]  No.
[02:09:11]  Like there's these like really high-stakes poker nights.
[02:09:14]  And it's like sex worker adjacent.
[02:09:16]  Yeah.
[02:09:16]  I wouldn't do it though.
[02:09:18]  Yeah, I know there's a poker scene like in the city, but I've never like heard of any like other girls and that.
[02:09:23]  But like, I just know that it can be very dangerous if you mess with the wrong people.
[02:09:27]  That's what happened.
[02:09:28]  My friend married, my friend that now she does OnlyFans married one of those guys and they were really weird.
[02:09:32]  Yeah.
[02:09:32]  Yeah.
[02:09:33]  No, I've been offered some like contracts and like when I went and like sent it to my lawyer, it ended up coming back and they're like, this is like, I mean, there's going to always be those companies that have those things, but like as soon as it pops up was crazy.
[02:09:44]  Like, yeah, yeah, I feel like it's just not worth your mental health.
[02:09:49]  Exactly.
[02:09:50]  And also, I've never done anything like that before.
[02:09:52]  So, when I was like, I was like, did I like I was like, if I want to transfer to this, I was, it would change like my morals and everything.
[02:10:00]  Yeah.
[02:10:01]  And it was like, I don't want to just do it for the money.
[02:10:03]  And I was like, I'm not going to change who I am just to sell my body.
[02:10:05]  So, I have a question.
[02:10:07]  You're bi, right?
[02:10:08]  You like girls.
[02:10:09]  I'm not really.
[02:10:10]  I'm more gay.
[02:10:11]  Yeah, I don't really like guys at all.
[02:10:12]  So, what is your opinion on like sex workers?
[02:10:15]  Would you date somebody for if they did like sex work?
[02:10:18]  Probably, but then I don't really date feminine girls.
[02:10:21]  So, I don't really think it would come up, but it would depend.
[02:10:24]  Yeah.
[02:10:25]  Maybe not like I would.
[02:10:26]  I'm monogamous.
[02:10:27]  Would I date someone that does sex work?
[02:10:29]  Yeah.
[02:10:31]  That is a girl?
[02:10:32]  Yes.
[02:10:32]  Can you speak straight?
[02:10:35]  I would not.
[02:10:36]  Why?
[02:10:37]  Because I also don't date feminine girls.
[02:10:40]  And also, moving forward, like it's just like rare for me to even date a girl.
[02:10:45]  Yeah, you're looking for like, you know, what you're looking for.
[02:10:48]  So it's not in your cards type vibe.
[02:10:50]  Honestly, I feel like I messed around with a lot of girls when I was younger because, you know, like I'm just like sexually free.
[02:10:56]  And like, yeah, like sexually, like, I'll do a lot of things.
[02:11:00]  But like romantically, like to like involve myself moving forward, I feel like it just like has to actually mean something for me to want to pursue it.
[02:11:08]  Yeah.
[02:11:08]  Okay, but if like, even if they weren't like very like feminine.
[02:11:12]  So, anyways, let's get into a different topic.
[02:11:17]  Some of you maybe have seen the show.
[02:11:21]  Sorry, I'm trying to save the chat here.
[02:11:25]  Does anybody have any disagreements with me on anything?
[02:11:30]  Some of you have maybe seen clips.
[02:11:32]  You've seen the show, maybe.
[02:11:35]  Maybe you've heard things I've said.
[02:11:36]  Does anybody have any disagreements?
[02:11:42]  Well, I think that I should see you guys on everything.
[02:11:46]  Holy shit.
[02:11:47]  All right.
[02:11:48]  I remember saying something one time.
[02:11:51]  You were talking about dating a 19-year-old and how you said if that's wrong, like there's you said there's nothing wrong with it.
[02:12:01]  I don't necessarily think it's wrong, but I don't think a woman's brain is fully developed at 19.
[02:12:09]  So I feel like she's going to change and like, you know, not be the same person she is now, like, you know, a few years from now.
[02:12:22]  Her beliefs could change.
[02:12:24]  Her, everything could change.
[02:12:28]  But I don't think this is a particularly compelling argument against age gap relationships.
[02:12:35]  So this same phenomenon can be observed in women of any age.
[02:12:41]  They could be 25, 30, 35, 40.
[02:12:44]  People change all the time.
[02:12:46]  People oftentimes hide their true nature.
[02:12:50]  There's a term for this where people are on their best behavior the first couple months, things change up.
[02:12:57]  But women reserve the right at any time to fucking change up.
[02:13:02]  She could be a 30-year-old Christian woman, and then the very next day, she could be a Catholic.
[02:13:09]  She could be Orthodox.
[02:13:11]  The very next day, she can be like, I believe in divorce.
[02:13:14]  Goodbye.
[02:13:15]  So, this idea that, well, your relationship is going to be more stable.
[02:13:21]  I'm 36.
[02:13:22]  Brian, date a 35-year-old woman, and your relationship's going to be more stable.
[02:13:27]  Couldn't be anything further from the truth.
[02:13:30]  I actually think that the reality is my relationship probably would be more stable with a woman who's younger.
[02:13:36]  She doesn't necessarily have to be 19.
[02:13:38]  She could be 22, 23, 24, 25.
[02:13:43]  But I don't know the specific clip you're referencing because I've stated I date women pretty much of all age ranges.
[02:13:50]  I've dated women older than me.
[02:13:52]  I've dated women my age.
[02:13:53]  So I'm not like exclusively like hanging out at college parties to like pick up fucking 18, 19, 20 year olds.
[02:14:03]  But if an 18, 19, 20 year old, like she hits me up, I'm not going to tell her no because she's 18, 19, or 20.
[02:14:16]  But you don't think it's necessarily wrong.
[02:14:18]  You say the brain isn't fully developed.
[02:14:21]  Yeah.
[02:14:22]  I mean, it's not.
[02:14:23]  Well, how do you feel about that?
[02:14:25]  Like, you know, she's still technically growing, you know?
[02:14:30]  But she's not a, like, she's developed.
[02:14:32]  She's not a child.
[02:14:33]  I'm not saying that, but I'm just saying, like, I feel like, you know, their brain's not developed.
[02:14:39]  When you were 18, did you date someone that was older than you ever?
[02:14:42]  Yeah, I dated older, not like 10 years old.
[02:14:45]  Did you feel you were taking advantage of?
[02:14:47]  No.
[02:14:49]  But like, when it comes to decision-making, like, your prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed until you're 25.
[02:14:57]  Yeah.
[02:14:58]  So I just.
[02:15:00]  I mean, I don't, look, the prefrontal cortex thing, I don't know.
[02:15:04]  Like, okay, so what is the actual difference in development?
[02:15:10]  Is it like, okay, at 18, it's 95% developed, and then at 25, it's 100% developed?
[02:15:17]  Are they fucking retarded at 18?
[02:15:19]  And then at 25, they might as well go to Harvard, like they're fucking genius IQ at 25.
[02:15:25]  Ultimately, this idea that like, oh, okay, well, the prefrontal cortex isn't developed.
[02:15:29]  So this person is like a spontaneous, chaotic fucking mess and they're retarded.
[02:15:36]  I don't know if that's actually true.
[02:15:38]  Is there some further degree of development from the age of 18 or 20 up until 25?
[02:15:44]  I suppose so.
[02:15:45]  But then you also would have to counter that with, I actually think that there's mental decline after a certain age.
[02:15:51]  In some ways, I actually feel like I'm not as my mental acuity, my ment, like I actually think in some ways I might have been fucking a little smarter when I, not smarter, I don't know what the right word is.
[02:16:07]  Mental capacity, mental acuity might have actually been stronger when I was a bit younger, maybe in my mid mid-20s.
[02:16:13]  I think there is a bit of a decline.
[02:16:15]  So, I mean, technically, maybe these women, maybe these fucking 25-year-olds or even 20-year-olds, maybe I'm so retarded, they're taking advantage of me.
[02:16:25]  Have you taken an IQ test?
[02:16:26]  I think I have.
[02:16:29]  Not like it was a pretty decent one, but I mean, IQ, there's other, there's like EQ and other kinds.
[02:16:36]  I don't know.
[02:16:37]  I was surprised with my score.
[02:16:39]  Well, you got to be careful with the free tests online.
[02:16:41]  No, no, no.
[02:16:42]  I paid for mine.
[02:16:43]  Even if you pay for it, some of these tests will give you grossly incorrect.
[02:16:48]  I hope that they didn't because they were like, oh, there's like Purdue and like everyone helps with these tests or whatever.
[02:16:55]  And so I didn't get scammed or I'm going to be really upset.
[02:16:58]  I'll tell you this.
[02:16:59]  I had a girl tell me she had 146 IQ.
[02:17:02]  And then the one that I took, I was like, take this one.
[02:17:08]  And then it came back with 107 IQ.
[02:17:10]  I got 118.
[02:17:13]  So some of these online tests, there's quite a bit of variance.
[02:17:17]  I took the Mensa one, but I don't know.
[02:17:26]  But what you were saying, like how I feel like it deeply, it's like, I don't know why, but like when everyone talks about the frontal cortex developing, I like think that when I turn 25, I'm going to have this whole transformation.
[02:17:36]  Like I'm like, I could see it happening.
[02:17:38]  Like my whole life flashes before my eyes.
[02:17:40]  And I feel like that's not really how that's going to be.
[02:17:42]  I feel like it's like about what life stages you're at.
[02:17:44]  Cause like if you dated like Olivia Rodrigo or someone who's like, you know, she has her own place and all that.
[02:17:53]  Olivia Rodrigo, I just like, she's like a character.
[02:17:58]  Who's that?
[02:17:59]  She's like a teeny bopper Disney star, but now she's 19 and she always dates older guys.
[02:18:03]  I just, and nobody has a problem with it because she's been like an adult, basically, since she was.
[02:18:08]  She's like, and I left my career and like nobody ever comments on her age gap relationships because she's like, they see her as more of an adult and she's in that adult life stage type vibe.
[02:18:23]  Right.
[02:18:23]  Like Mellie Bobby Brown.
[02:18:24]  She's 21.
[02:18:25]  She had her second kid.
[02:18:26]  Okay.
[02:18:27]  But I mean, I guess, I don't know, this idea that the brain not fully developed, it's like, okay, well, at 20, how much more development is there to be had, really?
[02:18:41]  Is it 5%?
[02:18:43]  Is it 3%?
[02:18:44]  Also, I mean, look, I have chronic brain fog and like I have a neck injury.
[02:18:53]  So I don't know.
[02:18:54]  I'm kind of retarded.
[02:18:55]  So I think technically these women are actually predators because I have some mental, you know, like I have brain fog.
[02:19:03]  I have a neck injury, which has an impact on, you know, certain things.
[02:19:09]  So these women are actual, they're preying on me because my mental acuity is not, these 18-year-old college girls are predators when they're dating me, to be honest.
[02:19:22]  I have a question.
[02:19:23]  What's your opinion on using the word retarded if like you're not retarded?
[02:19:28]  Well, I am retarded because I'm autistic.
[02:19:30]  Like I can say it.
[02:19:32]  I'm fine with.
[02:19:34]  Are you on the spectrum or you just have neck problems?
[02:19:39]  Like a brain injury?
[02:19:41]  A TB.
[02:19:41]  Because I have brain fog, but it's from my PTSD.
[02:19:44]  Well, okay, on the question of the R word, the retard word, that's totally okay for anybody to use.
[02:19:51]  Okay.
[02:19:51]  You don't have to be a.
[02:19:53]  Hold on.
[02:19:54]  What's that?
[02:19:55]  I got something for this.
[02:19:56]  The black-eyed peas.
[02:19:58]  Everybody knows you never go full retard.
[02:20:01]  You don't call retarded people retards.
[02:20:04]  No.
[02:20:04]  It's bad taste.
[02:20:06]  Yeah, my friends.
[02:20:08]  When they're acting retarded.
[02:20:10]  My friend always says, she's like, Kaylee, you can use that word because you are retarded.
[02:20:14]  But others that are not cannot use that word.
[02:20:17]  And I'm like, I don't think that's true.
[02:20:20]  Yeah, I mean, I'm totally fine with it.
[02:20:23]  Yeah, my question really was: just, are you actually retarded?
[02:20:26]  Or like, do you just have like necks?
[02:20:27]  I mean, I'm saying it.
[02:20:29]  I'm saying it in a joking way.
[02:20:31]  Okay.
[02:20:31]  Okay.
[02:20:31]  I didn't know if you actually were or not.
[02:20:34]  Is there anything else you want to know?
[02:20:37]  What's your zodiac sign?
[02:20:39]  What's your attachment style?
[02:20:41]  Where did you grow up?
[02:20:44]  Where were you?
[02:20:46]  Back on topic, the age gap conversation.
[02:20:48]  Do you have more?
[02:20:52]  Not at this moment.

=== Age Gaps And Legal Limits (15:15) ===

[02:20:53]  I dated older guys when I was in my 20s, and I don't think they were weird.
[02:20:57]  It was like pretty fun, not going to lie.
[02:20:59]  Well, they were like 35, so it wasn't like that much.
[02:21:02]  They were 35 and I was like 25.
[02:21:03]  And honestly, like some of the best dates I've ever had, like, like they knew how to, it was a fun date.
[02:21:08]  And look, to be clear, I'm not like going out.
[02:21:11]  I'm not on dating apps and like setting my age filter for like 18 to 20.
[02:21:16]  I'm not on you dude.
[02:21:17]  I changed my filter from 30 and up.
[02:21:21]  Love that.
[02:21:22]  But I'm not like, I'm not, I'm not even on dating apps, period.
[02:21:27]  I like, but if a 19, 20 year old girl hits me up in the DMs or something, I'm not going to be like, eh.
[02:21:36]  Now, look, I have a pretty crazy vetting process.
[02:21:40]  So I mean she could, it's not like just default I'm gonna date somebody just because they're 20.
[02:21:48]  Yeah.
[02:21:48]  She's gotta also not be fucking idiot too.
[02:21:52]  Yeah, also there's a lot of research that like women supposedly develop quicker like than men, right?
[02:21:58]  So or that like even like some men never develop as much as women do.
[02:22:02]  So well how about this?
[02:22:04]  What if a woman who's 20 who has a genius level IQ and really really high EQ dates a guy who's 30 with a average IQ and average EQ.
[02:22:17]  Yeah, then the maturity.
[02:22:18]  Who's being more predatory?
[02:22:19]  Is it the woman?
[02:22:22]  Who has more assets?
[02:22:23]  I mean, probably the girl.
[02:22:26]  But it's like they're still developed.
[02:22:28]  It's not like one is like incompetent.
[02:22:30]  I mean, I don't know that I think IQ or EQ really has anything to do with it.
[02:22:36]  I think maybe your life goals do.
[02:22:39]  If you're a man and you're wanting like a traditional wife, you may want to look for someone who's younger, who isn't like establishing a career, wasting her younger years, going to college, racking up debt.
[02:22:52]  There's part of me that wishes I hadn't wasted my time going to college simply because I don't use my degree.
[02:22:59]  And I'm very happy being a stay-at-home wife.
[02:23:03]  But I'm also homeschooling my kids.
[02:23:05]  But I mean, like, I did very well in school.
[02:23:08]  And there's a lot of resources to help you really raise smart children without having a degree to support that.
[02:23:14]  My husband's 14 years older than me.
[02:23:17]  And he, we've said in conversations that he would recommend when our son is older that he wait till he's like in his 30s, a bit more established, has his career going before he starts really looking for a wife.
[02:23:29]  And then that he looks for someone who's quite a bit younger so that he can have, if that's the dynamic he's wanting, if he's wanting his wife to be a stay-at-home housewife, then he's able to find it and someone who's going to be less combative.
[02:23:43]  Can I have a Johnny pop?
[02:23:46]  No, maybe later.
[02:23:50]  Let's see.
[02:23:50]  I don't know.
[02:23:52]  Okay.
[02:23:53]  Does anybody here have any want to weigh in on the age gap debate?
[02:23:59]  When I was, it would be 16, turning 17 in high school, I dated this guy.
[02:24:06]  Well, we weren't dating.
[02:24:07]  He strictly wanted to have sex with me.
[02:24:10]  And at first, I 100% thought it was normal.
[02:24:13]  I was like, this is okay.
[02:24:14]  He was 24, 25.
[02:24:18]  And I was like, this is normal.
[02:24:20]  This is okay.
[02:24:20]  And then I realized down the line, I was like, he was definitely taking advantage of me.
[02:24:26]  There was no, there was just a line.
[02:24:29]  Like, I'm 17 and you are over here that almost twice my age.
[02:24:32]  Well, you were a, you were a minor.
[02:24:34]  Yeah.
[02:24:34]  Yeah.
[02:24:35]  Well, no, the legal consent age in Indiana is 17.
[02:24:38]  Oh, really?
[02:24:38]  Yeah.
[02:24:38]  Oh, I didn't know.
[02:24:39]  Actually, I think it's 16.
[02:24:40]  Oh, okay.
[02:24:41]  That makes sense.
[02:24:42]  I feel like, yeah, one time I went on a date with this girl that was like 40.
[02:24:46]  And like, she was so weird about it.
[02:24:48]  Like, she was like, I was like, okay, like, I thought it was going to go great.
[02:24:52]  Like, I thought I was like doing a good job on this date.
[02:24:54]  And then she was acting so weird.
[02:24:56]  She was acting like she thought that like she was a predator.
[02:24:58]  And I was like, girl, we're just like in West Hollywood right now.
[02:25:01]  Like, don't get in your head.
[02:25:04]  It does suck like that because at first you don't realize what's going on.
[02:25:08]  And then I was like, I don't want to ever feel like that.
[02:25:10]  Yeah.
[02:25:10]  I was like, I'm employed.
[02:25:11]  I have like five jobs in my own apartment.
[02:25:14]  Brie, don't you have some thoughts on the age gap stuff?
[02:25:17]  I mean, I think life experience like has a lot to do with it.
[02:25:23]  But yeah, I think it is a little, I don't know, like sauce if there was someone that's, you know, old enough to be my like grandpa.
[02:25:32]  Or if I was like, let's say I was 18 and like, there was a guy that's like in his 60s and he's like, you know, he is in my DMs.
[02:25:38]  I'd be like, okay, that's a little like, why aren't you looking for someone more on your level?
[02:25:43]  And, you know, just because life experience, I, you know, I like, I mean, I prefer dating guys in my age range because we can talk about the same TV shows that we grew up on and just little things like that.
[02:25:54]  And I feel like someone way older than me, it's like, what do we even have to talk about?
[02:25:58]  You know, unless you have like really strong shared interests or something like that.
[02:26:02]  That's true.
[02:26:03]  Can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table?
[02:26:06]  They're here.
[02:26:06]  Yeah.
[02:26:07]  Okay.
[02:26:08]  I mean, yeah, we can go to these kind of extreme examples where you have like a 70-year-old trying to date a 26-year-old.
[02:26:18]  I think probably most the person on the younger end probably isn't going to be into that.
[02:26:26]  Let's say it's money or something.
[02:26:27]  I mean, if you wanted to date him and he wanted to date you, I don't actually see an actual problem with it.
[02:26:35]  I mean, yeah, it's legal and consensual.
[02:26:37]  Well, you're 26, so yes, it would definitely be legal.
[02:26:40]  Okay, yeah, just in general, like if guys that go for like more like 18-year-olds, like, I don't know.
[02:26:46]  That would also be legal.
[02:26:47]  That's true.
[02:26:48]  But I'm just saying that it's still just, I don't know, it's still just, it's like, why not look for someone more in your age range?
[02:26:55]  There's so many people out there.
[02:26:56]  Well, let's do something more realistic.
[02:26:58]  So I'm 36.
[02:27:01]  I want to have kids.
[02:27:02]  I want to have family.
[02:27:04]  So from that perspective, wouldn't that be a really fantastic justification for dating a woman who's like 20?
[02:27:10]  Well, yeah, 20-something, but if it's just like, you know, if it's like exclusively, you're seeking out like the 18, 19, like barely legal, then there is something like it's like, it's like, how low would you go if the law said, like, you know, just say the law said you can date a 13-year-old.
[02:27:24]  It's like, I feel like there's so many guys that would date a 13-year-old.
[02:27:27]  Like how Indiana, the legal age of 17, it's like, would you sink down to 17?
[02:27:31]  Yeah, like, how, yeah, how low would, how low would they go?
[02:27:34]  If it's legal, I just honestly think it's just a little bit weird.
[02:27:37]  Like, as a 30-plus-year-old man, like, why are you going for somebody who just got like out of high school?
[02:27:44]  I think you've lived enough like life to like know like how to live it in in a way.
[02:27:51]  And, you know, when you're freshly 18, you're probably still living with your parents and you're just kind of like, kind of like a like a lost puppy.
[02:27:59]  And it feels like kind of like, I don't know, like, you're not even legal to like drink yet.
[02:28:03]  Like, what do I do with a 30-plus-year-old man if I'm 18?
[02:28:07]  I feel like some guys, they don't really think of it that way.
[02:28:11]  They don't look as a, as you just got out of high school.
[02:28:14]  They look at her as an 18-year-old, not, oh, you're barely legal.
[02:28:17]  It's just how their mind works and how they perceive the girl.
[02:28:21]  They don't look at her like that.
[02:28:22]  Like, they're not going to think about the high school aspect unless there's some weirdo who's trying to purposely harm them.
[02:28:28]  They don't, they're not going to go out of their way and just be like, I know she's freshly out of high school.
[02:28:32]  It's more or less, it came up on Bumble and it said she was 18.
[02:28:35]  I mean, an 18, 19-year-old can be living on their own, finishing up their first year of college.
[02:28:42]  So, I mean, it's your framing there is kind of a bit disingenuous.
[02:28:47]  Fresh, she's literally a child.
[02:28:50]  She's freshly out of high school.
[02:28:52]  It's like, it's very sort of bad light framing.
[02:29:00]  Yeah, it's basically just doing a frame game.
[02:29:04]  But ultimately, yeah, I mean, in terms of, I think you referenced commonality.
[02:29:12]  Yeah.
[02:29:13]  Okay, so do you think men and women have a lot in common?
[02:29:18]  I mean, they can, if you have the similar, like similar tastes, similar interests.
[02:29:23]  I don't think it's really a gender thing.
[02:29:27]  I don't know.
[02:29:27]  Okay, but since when has commonality ever been like the ultimate deciding factor in whether you date somebody you sided to What if you like the same movies and blah blah blah first off?
[02:29:41]  I can show her all the movies I can show her like get her on some good music so I can introduce her to all that, but then also it's like I don't know this this idea of commonality Wouldn't you agree that there would be people who'd be your exact age or older who you have nothing in common with also?
[02:30:05]  Well, yeah, but then you probably wouldn't want to date someone or at least I wouldn't I prefer dating people with my like it doesn't have to be exactly the same exact interests, but it would be nice if we could you know go out and do things that we both enjoy doing together.
[02:30:23]  I mean also I do understand opposites can attract, but I don't know.
[02:30:26]  I'm just saying.
[02:30:26]  Well, it doesn't even have to be opposites, but like, okay, do you think a 30-year-old and a 20-year-old, and they're both part of the same Christian denomination, do you think they have more in common than a 30-year-old Christian man dating a 30-year-old atheist?
[02:30:40]  Well, yeah, probably.
[02:30:42]  So there's probably more alignment on like core, actually important values.
[02:30:47]  I mean, yeah, I guess.
[02:30:49]  Yeah.
[02:30:50]  Despite the age gap.
[02:30:50]  So a 20-year-old Christian woman dating a 20, like Catholic, whatever, dating a 30-year-old Catholic man, there's more alignment and more in common than he would have with a 30-year-old like liberal atheist woman.
[02:31:06]  Well, I suppose, yeah.
[02:31:07]  But I was talking more like just generational things.
[02:31:10]  I'm just thinking in my mindset of like what I'm looking for.
[02:31:13]  I just, I don't know, I couldn't imagine myself dating someone that's way too like cultural touchstones.
[02:31:21]  I guess.
[02:31:21]  Like, oh my God, she didn't have a Game Boy color.
[02:31:24]  Like, I don't give a shit.
[02:31:25]  I don't know.
[02:31:26]  I'm really picky.
[02:31:28]  It's like, we have to like the same video game.
[02:31:30]  I feel like it matters more to some people, but like, I prefer dating older people because I have a kid and I found that like people, at least in LA, because, you know, LA is so like people age slower.
[02:31:40]  It's like, I feel like I have to date someone like 36 for them to be in the same space that I'm at.
[02:31:45]  You know what I mean?
[02:31:46]  Because I'm like, okay, like I'm a mother, you guys.
[02:31:48]  I have to wake up and like show this kid paw patrol.
[02:31:50]  Like, girl.
[02:31:52]  I also feel like it does have to do with like what you like.
[02:31:55]  Like, if I'm going to date a guy, it's going to be because we have similar interests when it comes to what we like.
[02:32:01]  I'm not going to date a guy if we have nothing in common.
[02:32:04]  And when it comes to things like that.
[02:32:07]  Well, okay.
[02:32:09]  But I don't know if I got an answer from my question earlier, which was, I'm 36.
[02:32:14]  Do you think it is more beneficial for me to date a 35-year-old versus a 20-year-old?
[02:32:21]  Well, if you're saying because you want kids, I mean, 35-year-olds can still have kids, especially with like good people.
[02:32:29]  Well, that's true.
[02:32:31]  That's true.
[02:32:32]  But let's say like you guys just met.
[02:32:35]  Well, just to be clear, so okay, yes, women can have kids into their 40s.
[02:32:39]  But of course, once you hit 35, fertility does start decreasing.
[02:32:44]  But it's not, look, some people go about that conversation the wrong way.
[02:32:48]  Oh my God, once she's 35, she can't have kids.
[02:32:51]  That's not true.
[02:32:53]  It does, as you age, actually, I mean, starting at 25 even, your fertility gradually, slowly decreases.
[02:33:03]  So, but yes, of course, women can definitely still get pregnant, but just on that primary component, when a woman's younger, her fertility is better.
[02:33:16]  Her ability to bounce back is much greater if she's younger.
[02:33:20]  And if you want a lot of kids, which it seems like you said you do, then you need a young woman because she's not going to be able to bounce back if she's in her 30s and starting to have kids versus in her early 20s.
[02:33:30]  I will say, like, I can't imagine having a kid right now even.
[02:33:34]  Like, well, I had my first kid when I was 26, and I'd be like, I would be scared of like the exhaustion level at the exhaustion level of somebody at like 26 versus 30 is like so different, you know?
[02:33:44]  Like, I'm tired.
[02:33:45]  I mean, yeah, there's that.
[02:33:46]  There's, you know, okay, say I'm 36.
[02:33:49]  I meet a girl who's 35.
[02:33:52]  Okay, let's date for one to two years and then start.
[02:33:57]  We're not going to have a kid right away, so she's going to be 37 by the time we even start trying to have a kid.
[02:34:03]  And it's like, that's definitely less than ideal.
[02:34:05]  So there's a biological basis for men having an attraction for younger women, younger women.
[02:34:13]  And then also, just the reality is younger women are just more attractive physically.
[02:34:18]  And that's tied to fertility a little bit, but I mean, I don't necessarily agree that women are always attractive younger.
[02:34:26]  Like, I that's not the argument.
[02:34:27]  I mean, okay.
[02:34:28]  Well, back to the point.
[02:34:30]  I guess since you want seven kids, then yeah, it would make sense for you since that's what you want.
[02:34:35]  Like for a 20-year-old.
[02:34:38]  Here, let me double down on this.
[02:34:39]  So even if I didn't want any kids, I'd still prefer to date a 20-year-old.
[02:34:43]  But why?
[02:34:44]  Because she's 20?
[02:34:46]  She's more attractive.
[02:34:47]  Less baggage, less trauma, just more physically attractive.
[02:34:52]  I mean, that's your preference.
[02:34:53]  Like trauma.
[02:34:55]  Trauma is what?
[02:34:56]  I mean, is trauma based on age?
[02:35:00]  Well, not necessarily.
[02:35:02]  So, okay, so yes, is it logically possible that a 20-year-old can have experienced more trauma than somebody who's 30?
[02:35:09]  Yes, absolutely.
[02:35:11]  However, a 30-year-old has had 10 additional years of potential life experience where they've, I mean, it could have been relationship baggage.
[02:35:21]  Even if it's not like abusive levels of trauma, typically people get a bit of relationship baggage, even if it's not like severe abuse.
[02:35:31]  Like, okay, you get more jaded as you get a bit older.
[02:35:34]  You lose a bit of your spark as you get a bit older.
[02:35:37]  Generally speaking, and then just on a purely physical level, this applies to both men and women.
[02:35:43]  Although there's some differences between men and women, yeah, as you age, you're not as typically, you're not as physically attractive.
[02:35:51]  Yeah, I feel like I was talking to my friend about this earlier because my friend and I both went through a breakup and we're like, I feel like it was so much easier to date people when you're younger because you don't have that like relationship baggage.
[02:36:02]  And like somebody at 20 is like a lot more open to like fixing relationship problems and not like huh?

=== Viewer Comments And Relationship Baggage (08:02) ===

[02:36:09]  What's up?
[02:36:09]  What's there, Michael?
[02:36:11]  Everything okay?
[02:36:14]  What's going on back there?
[02:36:16]  She wants to head out.
[02:36:18]  Is there a particular reason?
[02:36:20]  Or can you say it on camera, please?
[02:36:25]  What's that?
[02:36:26]  I'm just gonna head out.
[02:36:27]  Do you want to say it on camera?
[02:36:31]  We should at least do your notes.
[02:36:38]  Okay.
[02:36:39]  Are you okay?
[02:36:40]  Yep, I'm good.
[02:36:42]  Okay.
[02:36:44]  Can you kind of give us an explanation there, I guess?
[02:36:47]  Or what's going on, Alexis?
[02:36:49]  All is well.
[02:36:50]  What would you like to know off my notes?
[02:36:53]  Well, just, I guess, why did you wanted to leave?
[02:36:58]  What's going on?
[02:37:01]  Didn't you like fly out here just to be on the show?
[02:37:05]  Okay.
[02:37:10]  So why did you want to leave?
[02:37:12]  Because I'm tired.
[02:37:14]  Is that okay?
[02:37:15]  What time is it right now?
[02:37:16]  It's seven.
[02:37:17]  Girl, take an energy shot.
[02:37:19]  We have energy drinks.
[02:37:20]  Yeah, it's 10 o'clock our time.
[02:37:22]  I'm tired too, but I'm going to stay.
[02:37:23]  I'm going to do an energy shot.
[02:37:25]  I did have two hours of sleep because I got broken up with it two in the morning and I was doom scrolling.
[02:37:30]  Not to put that on anyone else's.
[02:37:32]  Just take an energy shot.
[02:37:33]  Chillin though.
[02:37:33]  Sorry, is it because you're not getting enough attention or?
[02:37:36]  Oh no.
[02:37:38]  I don't think she cares about that.
[02:37:42]  Okay.
[02:37:45]  I'm happy to answer anything if you'd like.
[02:37:47]  If not, that's fine too.
[02:37:51]  Okay, um, um...
[02:38:02]  Like a few times during this conversation, I've tried to direct conversation towards you, and you're like giving fucking nothing.
[02:38:11]  Oh, if it's about like a so I'm just confused.
[02:38:13]  Like on one hand, it seems like you want to leave because you're not feeling like you're engaged enough in the conversation, but the moments that I've tried to direct the conversation towards you, you've not been contributing.
[02:38:26]  Oh, no, it's okay.
[02:38:28]  I don't, I'm not.
[02:38:29]  The amount of times you've talked to me is fine.
[02:38:33]  Okay.
[02:38:34]  So were you dissatisfied with the level of attention you were getting?
[02:38:37]  I'm just trying to understand.
[02:38:39]  No.
[02:38:40]  Okay, because like in our questions or whatever, we do ask if you're able to make it for the full production.
[02:38:51]  We disclose like how long the show goes.
[02:38:55]  So.
[02:38:56]  Yeah, maybe I didn't read the part of how long it was.
[02:39:00]  Are you hungry or something?
[02:39:02]  You want to order a DoorDash or something?
[02:39:04]  No, I'm just literally tired.
[02:39:06]  That's it.
[02:39:08]  You're tired.
[02:39:09]  Okay.
[02:39:11]  Jude, you got plans after this or what?
[02:39:14]  I go to bed at like 8 p.m. Eastern every night, so this is very late for me too.
[02:39:20]  If it was something else, I'd tell you.
[02:39:21]  Like, if I felt left out, I'd literally just say it or talk about it.
[02:39:24]  He's just wondering why, with the preparation, why you continue to sew.
[02:39:29]  Okay.
[02:39:31]  All right.
[02:39:31]  Well, I'm going to read your notes now for whatever.
[02:39:34]  I do want to come back to, I guess, the age gap stuff.
[02:39:37]  You should take an energy shot.
[02:39:39]  Yeah, try and stay for a little.
[02:39:41]  Productions are always long.
[02:39:43]  Yeah, just take an energy shot.
[02:39:44]  See how you feel.
[02:39:45]  Yeah, I'll take one with you.
[02:39:46]  Yeah, take shots, guys.
[02:39:49]  We can't all get off camera.
[02:39:50]  We can do one at a daddy.
[02:39:52]  Yeah, we can do one other chip.
[02:39:55]  If she wants one, I'm not getting any communication from her if she wants a.
[02:39:59]  Yeah, that's true.
[02:40:01]  I would like one because I'm tired.
[02:40:03]  Can I have some water, please?
[02:40:06]  All right, Tiffany, help them out, please.
[02:40:08]  I do have a bloom energy thing.
[02:40:10]  Thank you, girl.
[02:40:11]  you could pass it to me yeah i definitely see what you mean though with the whole age gap thing because i'm like on i feel like the older i'm gonna i'm gonna table the age gap I'm going to do her notes.
[02:40:23]  Okay, we already went over the Chubby Chaser.
[02:40:26]  You have juicy stories from your experience.
[02:40:29]  Only being with big guys, the one man that you dated in your life, he was 5'2 ⁇ , and 300 pounds.
[02:40:36]  Yeah.
[02:40:38]  Thank you.
[02:40:41]  Let's see.
[02:40:43]  You write, being a thinner woman who likes obese men, doing OnlyFans as a welder.
[02:40:48]  You went to trade school.
[02:40:51]  Thank you.
[02:40:52]  You said some of the viewer comments you disagree with along with a few past guests.
[02:41:00]  So what are your disagreements?
[02:41:03]  With past guests.
[02:41:06]  Yeah, in your notes, you wrote some of the viewer comments you disagree with along with a few past guests.
[02:41:16]  I disagree with some comments I get, but sorry.
[02:41:19]  Wait, what?
[02:41:23]  Okay, what are the things in which you disagree with?
[02:41:30]  Well, I guess I get a lot saying that, you know, I'm being dishonest for liking overweight men, which I'm not being dishonest about.
[02:41:40]  Yeah.
[02:41:41]  Okay.
[02:41:42]  There's our own garbage in there.
[02:41:43]  Okay.
[02:41:48]  So you wrote, though, when the question was anything you disagree with the show/slash host on to which you wrote some of the viewer comments you disagree with along with a few past guests.
[02:42:04]  So as it relates to the past guests, what are the things in which you disagreed with them on?
[02:42:13]  I can't name anything specific, I guess.
[02:42:16]  There's just been some like, you know, directed toward women who do my line of work.
[02:42:23]  And I don't know.
[02:42:27]  I don't have anything too juicy on that.
[02:42:29]  I can't think of anything specific.
[02:42:31]  I'm sorry.
[02:42:32]  Nothing.
[02:42:39]  Are these childproof?
[02:42:41]  I can help you, girl.
[02:42:43]  Yes, the nails.
[02:42:44]  I can't get myself.
[02:42:45]  I'll help.
[02:42:45]  If anybody can help, it's me.
[02:42:47]  Just put the trash on the ground if you can.
[02:42:50]  Or also, my god, this is the best way to do it.
[02:42:52]  Or put it in the pocket.
[02:42:53]  Yeah, or put it in the pocket.
[02:42:55]  Put it on the ground.
[02:42:56]  Okay, the lesbian will help.
[02:42:57]  Do I drink the whole thing?
[02:43:00]  Okay.
[02:43:01]  So?
[02:43:01]  Yeah, you drink the whole thing.
[02:43:02]  That's just one survey.
[02:43:03]  Hey, guys, quiet, please.
[02:43:04]  Go ahead.
[02:43:06]  I can't think of anything specific.
[02:43:08]  Any specific comment at this very moment.
[02:43:12]  You said that you disagreed with comments directed at people in your line of work, your profession.
[02:43:18]  So like OnlyFans, right?
[02:43:20]  Mm-hmm.
[02:43:20]  Okay, what?
[02:43:26]  Hi, dating podcast, where conversation is expected.
[02:43:30]  Sorry if I'm not moving quick enough for you.
[02:43:32]  I'm thinking you can move on to someone else if you'd like.
[02:43:37]  Sorry, I'm trying.
[02:43:40]  So what about the viewer comments you disagree with?
[02:43:47]  I don't know, the mean ones?
[02:43:49]  But is there like a specific, you know, they can't read comments here, and I can't recall, you know, a video I watched six months ago.
[02:43:57]  If I could see the comments here, I'd be happy to share my thoughts.
[02:44:02]  All right.
[02:44:04]  You said you went out with a 500-pound guy who got attention of tens everywhere you guys went.

=== Height Preferences And High Standards (03:31) ===

[02:44:11]  Okay, you say women care less about men's height weight than they think.
[02:44:23]  Mm-hmm.
[02:44:26]  So that's a prompt.
[02:44:28]  Would you like to elaborate on I'm prompting you?
[02:44:34]  I'm prompting you.
[02:44:37]  Yeah, I just think a lot of men in modern dating think that, you know, women won't date a guy who's under six feet tall and make less than six figures.
[02:44:46]  And I just don't find that to be the truth.
[02:44:49]  I think women really don't care about that whole lot.
[02:44:53]  Women, what do you think?
[02:44:55]  I agree.
[02:44:56]  I agree too.
[02:44:57]  Like, I mean, I do, I like to think that I have high standards, but like when it comes to like physically, my standards are not that high.
[02:45:05]  When it comes to height, this has been a hard one for me because I'm tall.
[02:45:09]  I'm 5'9 ⁇ .
[02:45:11]  So when I was in high school and I was very like egotistical and very in my head, I 100% was like, I will only date a guy that's taller than me.
[02:45:20]  And when I did date someone that was my height, I was turned off by it.
[02:45:25]  But it wasn't more or less because of him.
[02:45:27]  It was like, it wasn't because of him.
[02:45:29]  It was just like my mentality and like my high school childish self.
[02:45:33]  And I was like, I was just like, I had a standard and I didn't want to, and I wanted it to meet it.
[02:45:38]  Is your dad taller than your mom?
[02:45:41]  Um, no.
[02:45:43]  Oh, my mom was pretty tall.
[02:45:44]  She passed away last year, but yeah, my mom was really tall.
[02:45:47]  Yeah, my mom's pretty tall, too.
[02:45:49]  Um, but yeah, no, my boyfriend, it's funny because, like, now my boyfriend, he's like shorter than me, so and I love him to death.
[02:45:55]  Honestly, the first time that I dated a guy that was like as tall as I am, and I'm pretty.
[02:45:59]  Speak straight, please.
[02:46:00]  Speak straight.
[02:46:01]  Yes, okay.
[02:46:02]  I am 4'11, and I dated a guy that was like 5'2.
[02:46:06]  And the sex was really good because like the meat is like in a perfect position.
[02:46:11]  Yeah!
[02:46:12]  It's not too tall, you know?
[02:46:13]  Like, I don't have to like arch up.
[02:46:16]  The only thing with being tall and dating someone shorter is like having sex in the shower.
[02:46:21]  It doesn't work because I'm taller.
[02:46:24]  I like girls that are close to my height because like it's weird if they're too tall.
[02:46:28]  Like if they're too tall, I'm like, hey, how's the weather out there?
[02:46:31]  Yeah.
[02:46:31]  How are you doing?
[02:46:32]  Like my boyfriend can climb me like when I'm wearing platforms.
[02:46:35]  Like I feel like he can.
[02:46:36]  Okay, girl.
[02:46:36]  Yeah.
[02:46:37]  Like I like, yeah.
[02:46:38]  I do feel like it depends though because some girls seem to be like more superficial, but I think it's like also a maturity thing.
[02:46:45]  Yeah, 100%.
[02:46:46]  Like when I was in high school, I was like, I want a tall guy.
[02:46:48]  I was ruthless.
[02:46:49]  Yeah.
[02:46:50]  I was awful.
[02:46:51]  I was a hoe in high school.
[02:46:53]  Like I was a hoe and had very high standards and that shouldn't have been it.
[02:46:57]  Yeah, I was so mean to men in high school.
[02:46:59]  If they dated me in high school, I'm sorry.
[02:47:00]  If preferences has anything to do with maturity, I think like me, I'm going to say straight up.
[02:47:05]  Like I like taller men.
[02:47:07]  I will not date a shorter man.
[02:47:08]  You like them tall.
[02:47:10]  That's just like because I think in a way like when you're dating somebody, like in a way, like you're going to have to be like somehow like sexually attractive.
[02:47:17]  You need to be very sexy.
[02:47:18]  Exactly.
[02:47:18]  So it's like when they're tall, like that's like what about Kevin Hart?
[02:47:23]  Kevin Hart.
[02:47:23]  No.
[02:47:24]  He's too little, girl.
[02:47:24]  He's too little.
[02:47:25]  He's funny.
[02:47:28]  He's really funny.
[02:47:29]  But no.
[02:47:30]  I like taller men.
[02:47:31]  I love your tattoos, by the way.
[02:47:33]  Thank you so much.
[02:47:35]  Okay.
[02:47:37]  Here we're going to switch gears.
[02:47:41]  Hmm.
[02:47:42]  Let's do this.

=== Million Dollar Income And Purse Costs (16:59) ===

[02:47:43]  Past.
[02:47:44]  Past should not matter.
[02:47:46]  I think some of you agreed on that.
[02:47:48]  We're just going to do this.
[02:47:50]  We usually do it a bit later, but we'll just do it now.
[02:47:52]  Body count?
[02:47:53]  Body count?
[02:47:54]  Yeah.
[02:47:55]  I have it in my notes app, but I'm pretty sure it's either five or six.
[02:47:59]  Well, I wrote it down because backstory, some girl told me, she was like, what's your body count?
[02:48:04]  And then she was like, check your notes.
[02:48:06]  I was like, what?
[02:48:07]  She was like, yeah, check your notes.
[02:48:08]  Everybody has a notes app.
[02:48:09]  I was like, what?
[02:48:10]  I didn't know that everybody writes down their body count on the notes.
[02:48:14]  I think when you're younger, you do.
[02:48:15]  I do in order.
[02:48:16]  The names.
[02:48:16]  Yes.
[02:48:17]  Because I wanted to know exactly what my real body count was.
[02:48:20]  It's five to six.
[02:48:21]  It's five to six.
[02:48:22]  What about you?
[02:48:23]  28.
[02:48:23]  28.
[02:48:24]  Okay.
[02:48:25]  It's probably 20 and up.
[02:48:27]  Okay.
[02:48:27]  I have a list.
[02:48:28]  It's 16.
[02:48:29]  16.
[02:48:30]  You have a list?
[02:48:30]  Okay.
[02:48:31]  Probably 30.
[02:48:32]  30.
[02:48:33]  Maybe like four.
[02:48:34]  Okay.
[02:48:35]  25.
[02:48:36]  One.
[02:48:37]  Oh.
[02:48:38]  15.
[02:48:41]  Cool.
[02:48:42]  Healthy numbers.
[02:48:43]  What about you?
[02:48:43]  I'm a virgin.
[02:48:45]  He's lying.
[02:48:46]  Don't you have children?
[02:48:47]  What about the labia?
[02:48:47]  Wait a labia.
[02:48:49]  You missed.
[02:48:50]  Oh, no, I just, it's like a thing.
[02:48:51]  Yeah.
[02:48:52]  You can look at ladies and still be a virgin.
[02:48:54]  That's true.
[02:48:55]  Like, what, like, that's probably probably.
[02:48:56]  He said that it grips the lips that grip.
[02:48:58]  Right.
[02:48:59]  That's true.
[02:48:59]  That was a visceral.
[02:49:01]  No, he was watching a video.
[02:49:02]  He saw it on a video.
[02:49:03]  Yeah, no, how would you know that they grip, though?
[02:49:06]  He already knows.
[02:49:07]  Oh, no.
[02:49:08]  With AI technology now, you can actually feel it through the video.
[02:49:12]  Wait, I thought you were going to share yours.
[02:49:14]  That's okay.
[02:49:14]  He's a man with empathy.
[02:49:15]  I'm a virgin.
[02:49:16]  I'm a virgin.
[02:49:17]  But that's not true.
[02:49:18]  I'm actually waiting until I'm 40, so I can claim to be a 40-year-old virgin, like the movie.
[02:49:23]  Do you want to lose your virginity to like 20-year-old?
[02:49:26]  Like.
[02:49:28]  Maybe.
[02:49:29]  I'm actually hoping to lose my virginity to like a geriatric woman.
[02:49:33]  Okay.
[02:49:33]  That's maybe like 60 or 70.
[02:49:35]  Oh, that's sick.
[02:49:36]  That's going to be like cobweb push.
[02:49:38]  Like, I'm going to go to the nursing home.
[02:49:42]  Yeah, like you, you'll like go down there and you'll have to like blow on it.
[02:49:45]  Like and cobwebs will fall off.
[02:49:47]  But like what kind of 60 or 70?
[02:49:48]  Like Calabasas or like no, he's a nursing home.
[02:49:52]  Like the Appalachian Trail.
[02:49:53]  No nursing home.
[02:49:56]  The Appalachian Trail.
[02:49:57]  You might like my grandma.
[02:49:58]  She'll know what to do.
[02:49:59]  Set me up.
[02:50:00]  Hook it up.
[02:50:00]  Yeah.
[02:50:01]  She's in a nursing home right now.
[02:50:03]  Yeah.
[02:50:04]  And you could have, and you'll have mixed children.
[02:50:07]  Mixed?
[02:50:07]  What do you mean?
[02:50:08]  I'm black.
[02:50:08]  My grandma's, I'm half black.
[02:50:10]  My grandma's black.
[02:50:11]  You're black?
[02:50:12]  I'm half black.
[02:50:13]  Yeah, my mom's black.
[02:50:14]  I could see the features.
[02:50:15]  I have a sewing right now.
[02:50:16]  I naturally have really curly hair.
[02:50:18]  I could see it.
[02:50:20]  I just, I used to be darker as a kid, but as I grew older, my melanin kind of just diminished.
[02:50:26]  Okay.
[02:50:27]  I'm actually half black, too.
[02:50:30]  So you'll have full black children.
[02:50:32]  Well, actually, technically, so this is something that always annoys people.
[02:50:36]  My dad was born in North Africa.
[02:50:37]  My mom was born in America.
[02:50:39]  So technically, I'm African-American.
[02:50:41]  Oh, like Morocco?
[02:50:42]  I'm Russian and Ukraine.
[02:50:45]  I'm Mexican, but nobody believes me.
[02:50:47]  I'm Cherokee tribe, Indian, black, Russian, and Ukraine.
[02:50:51]  I could see the Russian girl.
[02:50:54]  Okay, here, we're going to do: what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?
[02:51:01]  60K.
[02:51:03]  That is not what you wrote on the paper.
[02:51:06]  Tell me what you wrote on the paper.
[02:51:11]  Okay, okay, okay.
[02:51:12]  Six to seven figures.
[02:51:14]  Six to seven.
[02:51:15]  Yeah.
[02:51:17]  Well, I mean, like, ideally, that would be like in an ideal world, you know, like, but like what I would be like content with, that's like a minimum, yeah.
[02:51:25]  Minimum yearly income.
[02:51:26]  Yeah.
[02:51:26]  But six to seven, that's a massive range.
[02:51:28]  That's anywhere from $100,000 to $10 million more, even.
[02:51:35]  Or, well, 9.999, whatever.
[02:51:38]  That would be like in a dreamland, you know?
[02:51:42]  Okay, so, but on the six-figure end, what's the minimum?
[02:51:47]  Give me a number.
[02:51:50]  Well, like 60K would be like the actual figure.
[02:51:54]  That is not six figures.
[02:51:55]  That's five figures.
[02:51:56]  Yeah.
[02:51:57]  Yeah, I mean, that would probably go to like an actual like minimum, you know.
[02:52:03]  Oh, my God.
[02:52:04]  So 60K is five figures.
[02:52:09]  Right?
[02:52:10]  So.
[02:52:12]  Oh, my God.
[02:52:13]  Wait, you haven't asked us any, like, when was World War I?
[02:52:19]  You're right.
[02:52:21]  I haven't.
[02:52:22]  I haven't done that yet.
[02:52:24]  That's a great observation.
[02:52:25]  No, my favorite one was: what country was the Vietnam War in?
[02:52:30]  Here, let's save it, please.
[02:52:32]  Oh, my God.
[02:52:33]  Let's save it.
[02:52:34]  Please, guys.
[02:52:36]  So, okay.
[02:52:37]  You wrote down six to seven figures.
[02:52:40]  So, is the minimum 100,000?
[02:52:45]  Well, yeah.
[02:52:45]  I mean, if you're talking about six to seven figures, then that would be a minimum.
[02:52:49]  Yeah.
[02:52:50]  So, not 60K?
[02:52:52]  No.
[02:52:52]  100K.
[02:52:53]  Yeah.
[02:52:54]  But that's only 40,000 more.
[02:52:55]  Okay, what about you?
[02:52:57]  No preference as long as the bills are paid.
[02:53:01]  So there's a preference.
[02:53:02]  Well, preference, bills paid.
[02:53:07]  Okay, do you live with your open relationship boyfriend?
[02:53:10]  Yes.
[02:53:10]  Do you split the rent or does he pay it?
[02:53:13]  Well, I have a mortgage and it's mine.
[02:53:16]  It's in my name, so I don't expect him to.
[02:53:17]  But does he contribute?
[02:53:18]  Yeah, he contributes, but not to like the mortgage.
[02:53:20]  But he gives you money.
[02:53:22]  I mean, like, rent.
[02:53:23]  Oh, he doesn't give really give me like he'll pay for like, you know, groceries and just things like that.
[02:53:29]  Yeah.
[02:53:29]  I don't really, I don't know.
[02:53:30]  I'm not really highly 100,000.
[02:53:33]  100,000.
[02:53:34]  What about you?
[02:53:35]  100,000.
[02:53:36]  That's not what you wrote.
[02:53:37]  What did you write?
[02:53:38]  No, I said 100,000 to 150.
[02:53:39]  100 to 150,000.
[02:53:41]  Oh, did I say, oh, sorry, I thought I did a parenthesis.
[02:53:44]  Yeah, 150.
[02:53:45]  Okay, what about you?
[02:53:46]  I just want a girl who matches my lifestyle.
[02:53:48]  Like, I want to go to Erewhon together.
[02:53:50]  So maybe like 70K, 60K.
[02:53:52]  What about you?
[02:53:53]  Maybe like 20,000.
[02:53:55]  Can you?
[02:53:56]  20, 30.
[02:53:57]  Okay, 20,000, 30,000.
[02:53:59]  Feels a job, that's good.
[02:54:00]  Okay, what about you?
[02:54:02]  I said 30K.
[02:54:03]  What about you?
[02:54:04]  I think I said 70 when I was dating.
[02:54:06]  That's what I imagined, but my husband makes you like 50K.
[02:54:11]  All right.
[02:54:12]  How tall are you?
[02:54:14]  And what's the minimum height?
[02:54:15]  Actually, hold on really quick.
[02:54:16]  $150,000?
[02:54:18]  And you live in Chicago?
[02:54:22]  Why do you say it like that?
[02:54:24]  And you live in Chicago?
[02:54:25]  Well, I mean, based on my spending habits and what.
[02:54:28]  I thought you were in San Diego.
[02:54:30]  Yeah, but Chicago is a city, and I'm from Chicago.
[02:54:32]  I was born and raised over there.
[02:54:33]  Okay, I just got here not too long ago.
[02:54:36]  How long ago?
[02:54:37]  I'm new to this, not true to this.
[02:54:39]  Okay.
[02:54:41]  Just based on my lifestyle and like how I am and just what I've been given, yeah, that would be.
[02:54:48]  I want him to make equal to what or more than my parents make, parent made.
[02:54:54]  You want a guy to make equal to what your parents make?
[02:54:57]  Parent or parent.
[02:54:59]  Yeah.
[02:54:59]  Your parents make $150,000?
[02:55:01]  More, yeah.
[02:55:03]  But I don't understand that.
[02:55:05]  So just so what if your parents made a million dollars?
[02:55:09]  No, no, no, I wouldn't expect that because I mean, well, I wouldn't know because that's not what they have.
[02:55:14]  But what I was given and what I'm used to and what I know, I would, there's certain things that I would get rid of and that I would sacrifice.
[02:55:22]  But when it comes down to what I like and what I want to live, yeah, that would be the salary because I'm not going to dim down what I'm not used to.
[02:55:31]  How much do you make, though?
[02:55:33]  It depends on the month.
[02:55:35]  But are you talking about what I make with Kaylee's Creations or what I made when I worked retail?
[02:55:40]  Well, you're currently because right now I'm applying to work at a dispensary.
[02:55:44]  You've been dating a guy for one year?
[02:55:46]  Over a little year.
[02:55:47]  How much does he make?
[02:55:49]  Well, how old is he?
[02:55:50]  He's 24, and it's hard to say what he makes because he lived in Florida and then he moved to Chicago to be with me.
[02:55:57]  So he just got the job at the airport.
[02:55:59]  So he hasn't had like a yearly pay stub.
[02:56:03]  Okay.
[02:56:04]  So you think he's going to make by the time he's 30, 35, you think he'll make 150K?
[02:56:09]  I think that he can do that, yes.
[02:56:11]  100%.
[02:56:12]  He can, but you think he will?
[02:56:13]  You know, yeah.
[02:56:15]  Does he have a college education?
[02:56:17]  No.
[02:56:18]  He has a job at the airport.
[02:56:22]  What does he do?
[02:56:23]  Baggage handling?
[02:56:24]  No, he has the certification to drive the tugs and to do like all of the actual transporting and he can drive all the like machines that are on the runway.
[02:56:33]  Yeah.
[02:56:34]  He tugs.
[02:56:35]  He drives the tug.
[02:56:37]  And he also transports baggage?
[02:56:39]  Or how much does it pay?
[02:56:41]  I don't know.
[02:56:45]  Okay.
[02:56:46]  Chicago O'Hare.
[02:56:48]  O'Hare.
[02:56:50]  What's the title?
[02:56:54]  He works for airplane tugger salary.
[02:56:57]  Wait, no, because it's a certain company that he works for.
[02:56:59]  He works for AGI.
[02:57:01]  Aircraft ground handling tug driver AGI.
[02:57:07]  Generally range from approximately $18,000 to over $20 an hour.
[02:57:12]  Yeah, and he's not going to keep that job.
[02:57:14]  Annual pay typically falls between $27,000 and $45,000 nationally.
[02:57:19]  It's like poverty.
[02:57:20]  But also, that's like, we live with my dad, so it's like, I don't expect, like, he's not going to keep that job.
[02:57:25]  That's not the job I expect to make $150,000.
[02:57:27]  What is the trajectory from 24 to by the time he's 30, 35, making $150,000?
[02:57:35]  What do you like?
[02:57:37]  Getting a different job that could be more than $100.
[02:57:38]  If he doesn't.
[02:57:39]  Well, you said $150,000 is your minimum.
[02:57:41]  So are you dumping this guy?
[02:57:43]  Yeah.
[02:57:43]  He continues.
[02:57:45]  I thought I put a little one of those things.
[02:57:46]  I said $100 to $150, but then I just decided on $150,000.
[02:57:50]  I think you should have said $100,000.
[02:57:51]  Well, fine, $100,000.
[02:57:53]  If he doesn't make $100,000, that's great, even lower.
[02:57:56]  No, I wouldn't leave him.
[02:57:57]  Would you leave him?
[02:57:58]  Because at that point, well, no, I don't know because it's like I haven't had to make that sacrifice where it's like, oh, put this because you can't get this.
[02:58:07]  I haven't had that with him.
[02:58:09]  So it's not like I haven't had that happen.
[02:58:13]  But okay, let's say this.
[02:58:14]  Let's say you're 23, correct?
[02:58:19]  Let's say you're still single at 30.
[02:58:21]  I'm not single.
[02:58:24]  Huh?
[02:58:25]  I'm not single.
[02:58:27]  If you didn't have breakfast today, how would you feel?
[02:58:32]  Dad?
[02:58:35]  Wait, what?
[02:58:37]  You just said having a, if in 30, you said at 30,000.
[02:58:40]  I'm saying, so I'm posing you a hypothetical.
[02:58:43]  Okay.
[02:58:43]  Let's say at 30, you are single.
[02:58:46]  Right.
[02:58:46]  Okay.
[02:58:46]  That's what I was trying to get at.
[02:58:48]  Oh, okay.
[02:58:49]  Would you only consider dating men who make $150,000?
[02:58:52]  If I was 30 now?
[02:58:55]  Or when you were 10?
[02:58:57]  Yeah.
[02:58:58]  You would only date.
[02:59:00]  No, I would not only date.
[02:59:02]  Wait, I thought you were saying, would I date?
[02:59:06]  Like, is that what I'm doing?
[02:59:08]  No.
[02:59:08]  Because you said your bare minimum is $100.
[02:59:10]  No, I wouldn't only date.
[02:59:11]  $100,000.
[02:59:12]  No, if I was 30 years old, I would not only date men that made 100K.
[02:59:15]  If you were single now, would you only date men who make 100K?
[02:59:18]  But I'm not going out of my way to ask what they make.
[02:59:21]  But you said the minimum income to be your future husband.
[02:59:25]  Yeah.
[02:59:25]  So how about this?
[02:59:26]  You're dating a guy and you have a magic eight ball right here.
[02:59:29]  We'll fucking do it right now.
[02:59:32]  And the magic eight ball tells you, you ask it, will he at any point in his life, say 40?
[02:59:38]  No.
[02:59:38]  Will he make $100,000?
[02:59:40]  And if the Magic Eight Ball could give you a number, it says, no, he'll only make $50,000.
[02:59:46]  Yes, I would leave.
[02:59:47]  You would leave.
[02:59:47]  Okay, so let's see.
[02:59:49]  I'm going to ask the Magic Ape Ball a question.
[02:59:51]  Will she get a guy who makes $100,000 or $150,000 a year?
[03:00:00]  This eight ball fucking sucks.
[03:00:01]  Wait.
[03:00:01]  I have to put it this way.
[03:00:02]  Yeah, you got to go.
[03:00:03]  Wait, wait, wait.
[03:00:04]  Here, you read it for me because I don't want her to think I'm lying.
[03:00:07]  Don't bet on it.
[03:00:10]  We must.
[03:00:11]  I got to make 100,000.
[03:00:11]  We have to defer to the magic eight ball.
[03:00:13]  My dear, I don't think you're going to get a guy who makes $150,000.
[03:00:17]  It's okay because, I mean, at the end of the day, that's what I'm striving to make for myself.
[03:00:21]  So if he can't afford that and I got to pay a couple generators here and there, I'm fine doing the 50-50.
[03:00:27]  Oh, then why put it?
[03:00:28]  Okay, well, you wrote down minimum.
[03:00:30]  So I mean.
[03:00:31]  When that comes down to it, it's like minimum.
[03:00:34]  What would you want your ideal guy to have?
[03:00:36]  I don't know.
[03:00:37]  Ideal, you would want a trillionaire.
[03:00:39]  I don't understand.
[03:00:40]  Yeah.
[03:00:40]  So ideal and minimum are different.
[03:00:43]  Well, minimum, no, it's like, but no, I like minimum, yeah.
[03:00:47]  It's a, yeah, 100,000.
[03:00:50]  But if he doesn't make that, am I going to like, it depends.
[03:00:54]  Like, ideally, wouldn't you want to date a guy who makes $100 million a year?
[03:00:58]  I mean, that's the ideal.
[03:00:59]  If he has a shitty personality and he's a shitty person, no.
[03:01:02]  Right, but like.
[03:01:04]  But yeah, I would.
[03:01:05]  Yeah.
[03:01:06]  Minimum is like, when we're talking about minimum, that's like, I would not date like the normal guy who I would otherwise date.
[03:01:13]  Okay.
[03:01:14]  Okay, 60K.
[03:01:18]  I feel like it has to match like your own lifestyle.
[03:01:21]  That's what I'm saying.
[03:01:21]  That's why I said 100K because that's like I've seen.
[03:01:24]  Question.
[03:01:25]  Question.
[03:01:26]  You said that you have to match the lifestyle, right?
[03:01:28]  Like, well, yeah.
[03:01:29]  But let's say I'm not suggesting this is the case for any of you.
[03:01:33]  Let's say the woman's really obese, but she's really rich.
[03:01:38]  She's going to have a really hard time finding a guy who's a millionaire.
[03:01:43]  That's true.
[03:01:43]  Cause they, at the end of the day, they still like, I feel like, because I also work one of my TikTok streams is luxury sales.
[03:01:51]  And definitely some of my coworkers are like way above like 150.
[03:01:55]  And I will say, like, first of all, I don't think they want to date.
[03:01:58]  They don't want to date somebody that doesn't come from their same background at the end of the day, but then she still has to be hot.
[03:02:05]  Right.
[03:02:06]  So this idea here is like, as a woman, let's say you're a business owner and you make a million dollars a year.
[03:02:14]  If your standard is then good, but you're like 300 pounds, like just because you make a lot of money, that's going to probably close doors for you because you're not willing to date a guy who makes maybe, I don't know, maybe you date a guy who makes 500K, but are you going to want to date a guy who makes 40K, 50, 60K?
[03:02:36]  If you're making a million as a woman, no, probably not.
[03:02:41]  But men don't value a woman's money.
[03:02:45]  Yeah, exactly.
[03:02:46]  But women do.
[03:02:47]  Women want to be taken care of.
[03:02:48]  Women want to be provided for at the end of the day.
[03:02:52]  I mean, you're saying minimum.
[03:02:53]  I'm like, yeah, 60, but what I know and like what I like to spend, I like handbags.
[03:02:57]  I like expensive things.
[03:02:58]  I like designers.
[03:02:59]  So it's like.
[03:03:00]  So you like, so hold on.
[03:03:03]  You like expensive handbags.
[03:03:05]  So perfect guy, but he's not.
[03:03:07]  But like, I buy my own handbags.
[03:03:09]  But I would like my guy to have that because it's like, it's nice to have, but at the end of the day, I can buy my own things.
[03:03:15]  So, okay.
[03:03:16]  Let's say hypothetically, I wasn't the starving college student that I am.
[03:03:22]  I wasn't a starving artist that I am.
[03:03:25]  And, you know, let's say hypothetically, I made seven figures a year, hypothetically.
[03:03:32]  You know, I made a million, two million dollars a year, hypothetically.
[03:03:36]  I'm not asking you to spend that on me.
[03:03:38]  It's just I like to know that you have that.
[03:03:40]  I'm not buying you.
[03:03:41]  Yeah, that's what I do.
[03:03:42]  I don't know where you're going with that.
[03:03:43]  No, I'm saying like, I'm not saying you.
[03:03:45]  I mean, like, if the person.
[03:03:47]  Yeah, you're using you.
[03:03:48]  Okay, I understand.
[03:03:49]  I'm not buying you shit either.
[03:03:51]  Great.
[03:03:51]  Love it.
[03:03:52]  So the question is, though, if I can try to finish my thought, is even if I make a million, two million a year and I'm good and I can afford to buy a $5,000, $10,000 purse.
[03:04:07]  Okay, I did not say that expensive.
[03:04:09]  Okay, I don't know how much purse is fucking cost.
[03:04:11]  Okay, a nice handbag like coach, like $500.
[03:04:14]  The most I spend on a handbag is $1,000.
[03:04:16]  I still have to do that.
[03:04:17]  If I make a million dollars a year, hell will freeze over sooner than I would ever buy my girlfriend a $5,000 purse.
[03:04:28]  I don't expect my boyfriend to buy me a $5,000 purse.
[03:04:30]  Like I said, I would buy it for myself and I bought every single money in my purse.
[03:04:34]  I'm going to buy her a $500 purse.
[03:04:35]  She can get a purse at Costco.
[03:04:37]  She can get a purse at Amazon.
[03:04:39]  You sound like my boyfriend.
[03:04:40]  You'll probably have to do it.
[03:04:40]  Your boyfriend's a fucking legend.

=== Glamour Maintenance Responsibilities (03:28) ===

[03:04:42]  Because he goes, Keely, you don't need your nails done for the show.
[03:04:46]  You don't need them done.
[03:04:48]  And then my dad gave me the money for my nails.
[03:04:52]  Okay.
[03:04:53]  Anyways, I don't know where we were.
[03:04:56]  And this is why I have preferences because I don't want that for myself.
[03:04:59]  This is why I said that you have to make the choices that you want your life to be.
[03:05:03]  Well, also, if you marry to a rich man, and you want to be financially taken care of, you need to make those choices.
[03:05:08]  He is correct, though, because I am not walking on a red carpet.
[03:05:11]  I'm on a podcast.
[03:05:12]  So is he correct?
[03:05:13]  If you just keep on choosing that man, that tells you don't get your nails done.
[03:05:16]  He didn't say I couldn't have your nails done.
[03:05:18]  He was just saying for this trip, do you really need your nails done?
[03:05:21]  And guess what?
[03:05:22]  I still got them done when I wanted to.
[03:05:24]  Potentially, but like he didn't say anything about me getting a sew-in to support you, he knows that I have to get my hair done and he's to choose that man.
[03:05:31]  I mean, well, he was the one who paid for my hotel here, and he was the one who paid for my trip here.
[03:05:35]  So that's sweet again.
[03:05:37]  If it's the nails that weren't it, but he paid for my whole trip, that's something different.
[03:05:41]  It's crazy, like shaving a woman's head isn't off the table as far as I'm concerned.
[03:05:46]  I think it's just interesting because, like, we're really down to it.
[03:05:49]  Yeah, like, I mean, like, if a man wants to have like a good relationship, fertile relationship with seven kids, then he should date a younger girl, you know?
[03:05:58]  And if you want to end up with a rich baby daddy, you should make those choices, you know?
[03:06:03]  I will say, like, my kid's dad, like, it's interesting.
[03:06:06]  You can't just keep on putting your standards down to be with this guy that could be putting your standards down.
[03:06:12]  It's more or less getting, um, what is it called when you meet in the middle of a compromise?
[03:06:16]  Like, I just paid for having faith.
[03:06:18]  I just have your whole, I just paid for your whole entire trip.
[03:06:20]  Why do I also need to get your nails done?
[03:06:21]  You're right, baby.
[03:06:22]  You don't need to get my nails done.
[03:06:24]  You just paid all this money for this.
[03:06:25]  I will find my way to get my nails done.
[03:06:27]  You don't pay for fake nails ever.
[03:06:30]  Why?
[03:06:30]  Because they're fake nails and they cost money and they ruin your nails.
[03:06:34]  Women don't need fake nails.
[03:06:36]  Fake nails serve no utility.
[03:06:38]  They don't.
[03:06:39]  I 100% agree with you.
[03:06:40]  They are cause.
[03:06:41]  They are, I know, but they're, and guess what?
[03:06:43]  It's hard to wipe my butthole and type on my keyboard when I'm gaming.
[03:06:46]  But guess what?
[03:06:47]  I like looking like this.
[03:06:48]  There's probably crazy bacteria under the nails.
[03:06:50]  No, no, no.
[03:06:51]  I just got these done.
[03:06:52]  But no, like when I'm gaming and I have you pooped since you got the nails done?
[03:06:56]  No, no.
[03:06:57]  Actually, I haven't.
[03:06:58]  I've been peeing straight.
[03:06:59]  Constipated.
[03:07:00]  Well, if you always tell your girl, never get your nails done, never get your nails done.
[03:07:03]  And then you see a girl, she has these beautiful nails and you're looking at them.
[03:07:07]  Then I see you looking at yourself.
[03:07:08]  It's so hard to have them.
[03:07:10]  I'm going to be having a day for real.
[03:07:12]  I'm a gamer.
[03:07:12]  It's my first day ever.
[03:07:14]  I can fix her.
[03:07:14]  She's part of the.
[03:07:16]  It's the slave mind.
[03:07:18]  So fake nails, big labia.
[03:07:21]  Fake nails, big labia.
[03:07:22]  She's for you.
[03:07:24]  No, you know, look, you can, you can, you gotta.
[03:07:27]  If you met me and I have my nails done, I have my lashes done, I have my hair done.
[03:07:31]  You should be able to maintain that because that's how you met me.
[03:07:33]  That's how you like solving.
[03:07:34]  But that's not his.
[03:07:35]  You shouldn't be like disappointed whenever, oh, I don't have my hair done.
[03:07:38]  But that's not his responsibility to keep your glamour.
[03:07:42]  You should maintain that.
[03:07:42]  You have to enlighten.
[03:07:45]  You have to enlighten and guide a woman away from her consumerist vain behavior.
[03:07:52]  You got to show her the way, the path.
[03:07:55]  Yeah, but you have to appreciate her.
[03:07:57]  Like, as you can see, I do appreciate her naturally.
[03:07:59]  So, would you not let me get a sew-in?
[03:08:01]  I'm meeting this girl.
[03:08:02]  Them fake titties are out.
[03:08:03]  I'm sending you back under some.
[03:08:05]  Would you not let me get a sew-in if we were dating and I went on the show?
[03:08:09]  What?
[03:08:10]  A sew-in.

=== Consumerism And Male Guidance (13:56) ===

[03:08:11]  What the fuck is that?
[03:08:12]  So I have a show-on right now where they take fake human hair, real human hair, and they sew it into your scalp.
[03:08:18]  I'm putting you in a fucking Burka.
[03:08:19]  That's what I'm doing.
[03:08:20]  In a Birkin?
[03:08:21]  That's fine.
[03:08:23]  I really want to know what your hair is.
[03:08:25]  I'm not even Muslim, but you're waiting.
[03:08:26]  Is that an off-brand Birkin?
[03:08:28]  Wait, you know what a Burka is?
[03:08:30]  No, because it's a bad thing.
[03:08:30]  It's a fucking Muslim.
[03:08:32]  Oh, the funny covers.
[03:08:34]  Like, you want to see your eyes.
[03:08:37]  I will say, it's crazy how much guys have to pay for girls because my kid's dad is like, oh, like this girl has asked me to pay for all these things.
[03:08:44]  And it's like, that's not something that I have to deal with with dating girls.
[03:08:47]  So it's like, it do be expensive.
[03:08:49]  I was supposed to be straight male.
[03:08:51]  Order a Burka.
[03:08:52]  For what?
[03:08:53]  Hey, yeah, just like to see if any girls would be down to put one on on the show.
[03:08:59]  I will.
[03:08:59]  You should put it on the doll.
[03:09:01]  I have a furry one, but it's like made, like, it's like, it's covered in the book.
[03:09:06]  I'm like, Lexi and a Burka.
[03:09:07]  I would be in a Burka.
[03:09:10]  I would be in.
[03:09:10]  I wear my Burka with a Catholic chain on, or what is it called?
[03:09:15]  Rosary.
[03:09:16]  Rosary.
[03:09:17]  I'm so sorry.
[03:09:23]  Is that a seal?
[03:09:25]  One of.
[03:09:25]  I don't know.
[03:09:27]  Okay.
[03:09:28]  How tall are you, and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
[03:09:32]  I'm 4'11, and the minimum height would be 5'7.
[03:09:36]  5'8.
[03:09:37]  I'd say like 5'7.
[03:09:39]  How tall is your boyfriend?
[03:09:40]  5'9.
[03:09:43]  Okay.
[03:09:43]  What about you?
[03:09:44]  I'm 5'1.
[03:09:47]  I think I put 5'5 and above.
[03:09:51]  I'm 5'9, and minimum I would date is 5'7.
[03:09:54]  I'm 4'111, and she can be my height, but preferent preferentially, like an inch or two, like on me, you know?
[03:10:02]  Okay.
[03:10:02]  Like a little.
[03:10:04]  I'm 5'3.
[03:10:06]  I don't really care.
[03:10:06]  I don't have a preference.
[03:10:09]  I'm 5'4 when I'm feeling extra confident.
[03:10:12]  And they just gotta be my height or higher.
[03:10:17]  I'm 5'8.
[03:10:18]  My husband's 6'1.
[03:10:22]  I'm 5'5.
[03:10:24]  I know I wrote 5'4 there, but I'm actually 5'5.
[03:10:30]  The only reason, so I thought I was 5'4 for the longest.
[03:10:35]  And then me and this girl at work, she was like, you gotta be like 5'6.
[03:10:39]  I was like, I'm not 5'6.
[03:10:40]  And so we measured each other, and I'm 5'5.
[03:10:43]  And I would only date 5'7 or higher.
[03:10:48]  Okay, pretty reasonable there from everybody.
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[03:11:16]  Gorlock the Destroyer.
[03:11:19]  On a scale of 0 to 10, rate your own looks.
[03:11:22]  Do it face, body, total.
[03:11:24]  You can't pick seven.
[03:11:25]  So let me give you an example.
[03:11:27]  I guess I can answer it first.
[03:11:29]  Face 4.5, body 4.5, total 4.5.
[03:11:34]  So say it just like that if you can.
[03:11:36]  Go ahead.
[03:11:37]  Okay.
[03:11:38]  Face 6.
[03:11:41]  Body 5.
[03:11:43]  Total 5.5.
[03:11:46]  Okay.
[03:11:47]  Face 5, body 6, total 5.5.
[03:11:54]  Face, probably like 9, 9.5.
[03:11:59]  Body.
[03:12:02]  I would give it a 9.
[03:12:06]  Total.
[03:12:08]  Wait, like as in like 9 plus 9 or like everything else.
[03:12:14]  9.
[03:12:15]  Like what would you say?
[03:12:17]  A 9?
[03:12:18]  The total number would still be on a scale of 0 to 10.
[03:12:21]  Oh.
[03:12:22]  Yeah.
[03:12:24]  9.
[03:12:25]  So you would.
[03:12:25]  9.
[03:12:26]  9.
[03:12:26]  9?
[03:12:27]  Okay.
[03:12:28]  All right.
[03:12:29]  So just to be face 9.5, body 9?
[03:12:32]  Okay.
[03:12:33]  Total 9.
[03:12:33]  Okay.
[03:12:34]  What about you?
[03:12:35]  Face, I would do 8 if I didn't have a double chin, 8.5.
[03:12:38]  And then body, oh, I'm a little chubby right now.
[03:12:41]  I'd say 6.
[03:12:42]  Sorry, face 8.5, you said?
[03:12:45]  LA is like.
[03:12:46]  Wait, wait, hold on.
[03:12:48]  Sorry, I just didn't hear you.
[03:12:50]  Oh, yeah.
[03:12:50]  Face 8.
[03:12:52]  No, 8.
[03:12:53]  It would be 8.5.
[03:12:54]  I didn't have a double chin.
[03:12:55]  And then 6 for my body.
[03:12:57]  Total.
[03:12:58]  So total, eight.
[03:13:08]  What about you?
[03:13:09]  LA is like super cutthroat, so it's humbled me.
[03:13:12]  So I feel like face like six and then body 6.5, so average like 6.25.
[03:13:19]  Okay, what about you?
[03:13:21]  I'd say face five, maybe body five, five.
[03:13:28]  Like face three, body four, so like 3.5.
[03:13:34]  Face six, body five, 5.5.
[03:13:39]  Face five, body five, so five.
[03:13:43]  Okay, mostly pretty reasonable from everybody.
[03:13:47]  Maybe some slight disagreements, except for two of you.
[03:13:55]  9.5, 8.5.
[03:13:58]  I said 8.
[03:13:59]  Oh, excuse me.
[03:14:01]  You said 8 because of the double chin?
[03:14:03]  Yeah.
[03:14:04]  I like when I work out and I'm slim and this is gone and I have like my jawline like this right here.
[03:14:13]  You see this?
[03:14:14]  I do see that.
[03:14:15]  I definitely see that.
[03:14:16]  Yeah, that needs to go.
[03:14:17]  Pull it down a bit more because this is so bad.
[03:14:22]  Like if I, but like, yeah, this needs to go.
[03:14:27]  I get it from my dad.
[03:14:29]  You could get light bows.
[03:14:30]  That's, I know.
[03:14:30]  That's, no, as soon as that's the one thing that's going to go, I'm just waiting until I turn 25.
[03:14:35]  So it actually like.
[03:14:37]  Why can't average women just think that they're average looking?
[03:14:43]  But okay, hold on.
[03:14:44]  I'm going to get into that.
[03:14:44]  But first we have a TTS coming through.
[03:14:48]  Claim donated $200.
[03:14:50]  Yo, thank you.
[03:14:51]  Toxic feminity is the theme tonight.
[03:14:53]  Chair 1 has such a high opinion of herself.
[03:14:56]  Where do Chair 1 and 2 dance?
[03:14:59]  You both look like strippers is the point.
[03:15:02]  They're all full of shit.
[03:15:03]  Where's Andrew?
[03:15:04]  Didn't use Andre 1.
[03:15:06]  Didn't he use Andrew 3.5?
[03:15:07]  Andrew Wilson.
[03:15:08]  Who?
[03:15:09]  Andrew Wilson.
[03:15:10]  He is on the show a lot.
[03:15:12]  Didn't you give yourself a 5.5?
[03:15:14]  I'm exposing myself right now.
[03:15:16]  I've like only seen it on Instagram.
[03:15:18]  I've only seen the show on Instagram.
[03:15:19]  You can pull that up.
[03:15:20]  Natalia, thank you for the gifted 20 memberships.
[03:15:22]  Guys, W's in the chat for Natalia.
[03:15:25]  Thank you, Natalia.
[03:15:26]  She's my favorite, Natalia.
[03:15:29]  Oh.
[03:15:30]  Favorite person I know named Natalia.
[03:15:33]  All right.
[03:15:34]  Thank you, Natalia.
[03:15:34]  Thank you.
[03:15:35]  Thank you for the 20.
[03:15:36]  I don't know why.
[03:15:36]  Wait, why does this?
[03:15:37]  If you think that we look like strippers, like, have you, have you ever taken a step outside of your house?
[03:15:42]  Have you ever touched grass?
[03:15:44]  I was going to say, they said that you're full of yourself.
[03:15:45]  You gave yourself sleeves or pants.
[03:15:48]  Like, what do you think I'm wearing right now?
[03:15:50]  Just like a bikini?
[03:15:51]  Hello?
[03:15:53]  You are wearing a bikini top.
[03:15:54]  I am wearing a bikini top that's zipped up with the long term.
[03:15:57]  Anyways, okay, back to this.
[03:15:59]  So thank you, Claim, by the way, for the message.
[03:16:04]  Okay.
[03:16:05]  Yeah, why don't average women just think that they're average-looking?
[03:16:15]  No, nothing?
[03:16:16]  I feel like it depends on your perspective because like I think like after I've been working on TikTok for like two years and I think you start to see your appearance in more of an objective way.
[03:16:26]  Plus I work for like Chinese companies and they'll be like, your makeup doesn't look good like that.
[03:16:30]  So it's like I love them though.
[03:16:33]  They're amazing.
[03:16:34]  They're so blunt.
[03:16:35]  But like I think when you start to work in an industry that's on your appearance, you start to separate like how you feel about yourself from like your appearance.
[03:16:43]  You know what I mean?
[03:16:43]  Being in the modeling industry, especially being a goth and being alternative, you definitely see a lot of different people in a lot of different ways.
[03:16:50]  Wait, you're a model?
[03:16:53]  I do.
[03:16:55]  Didn't you look at my Instagram before I do amateur modeling?
[03:17:00]  I modeled for the alley in Chicago twice.
[03:17:02]  For who?
[03:17:03]  The Alley.
[03:17:04]  They're like the biggest alternative goth clothing store in Chicago.
[03:17:07]  Who the fuck is that guy?
[03:17:09]  Yeah.
[03:17:09]  Muhammad Ali?
[03:17:11]  No, like goth, like alternative fashion.
[03:17:14]  Okay.
[03:17:16]  I also do modeling with my dashing, striking good looks.
[03:17:22]  And then when I was little.
[03:17:24]  Yeah, when I was little, I did.
[03:17:26]  I think high of myself looks okay.
[03:17:29]  When I was little, my mom grew up with putting me in like agencies and everything.
[03:17:34]  And then as I started gaining weight, I stepped out of the actual like Victoria Secret one-way perfect model and started modeling for alternative brands.
[03:17:44]  I have a couple questions.
[03:17:47]  Tell me a guy.
[03:17:48]  So you're 9.5 face.
[03:17:51]  Tell me a man who you think is a 9.5 face.
[03:18:02]  Repeat that question.
[03:18:04]  A man that's a 9.5 in the face.
[03:18:07]  So describe their face.
[03:18:08]  No, like what is a man that you would consider a 9.5?
[03:18:13]  Like if you think you're 9.5, who's your equal?
[03:18:16]  Like who's your celebrity match?
[03:18:18]  Or just who is a male who's a 9.5?
[03:18:20]  I think Jacob Elordi is pretty hot.
[03:18:29]  Google it, please.
[03:18:30]  What about you?
[03:18:31]  Male.
[03:18:32]  Yeah.
[03:18:36]  Adam Sandler.
[03:18:38]  Adam Sandler's an 8.5.
[03:18:41]  Yeah.
[03:18:41]  To you.
[03:18:42]  Okay, we can see where your scale is coming from.
[03:18:45]  All right.
[03:18:46]  Do you have Jacob Alordi?
[03:18:50]  What?
[03:18:52]  Can you hit the image tabs, please?
[03:18:57]  Wait, why are we comparing ourselves to men?
[03:18:59]  Shouldn't we be doing a woman?
[03:19:00]  Yeah, well, we'll do that in just a second.
[03:19:01]  Okay, so this Jacob Alordi, that is your looks match.
[03:19:09]  Like, who I look like?
[03:19:12]  Like, so obviously, Peter.
[03:19:16]  Young blood is my real.
[03:19:18]  Young blood is my real choice.
[03:19:20]  Yeah.
[03:19:20]  Young blood?
[03:19:21]  Yes.
[03:19:21]  Okay, Google Young Blood, please.
[03:19:25]  8.5, Young Blood.
[03:19:27]  I said 8.
[03:19:28]  Okay, 8.
[03:19:29]  That's fine.
[03:19:30]  Let me know when you have it.
[03:19:33]  Young Blood.
[03:19:36]  Okay.
[03:19:38]  Yep, that dude.
[03:19:40]  Okay.
[03:19:41]  Can you zoom in?
[03:19:43]  Or Ozzy or Ozzy Osborne?
[03:19:45]  All right.
[03:19:46]  Scroll down a little bit.
[03:19:49]  Okay.
[03:19:50]  All right.
[03:19:52]  That's actually pretty spot on.
[03:19:53]  Like, his face is like an 8, but his body?
[03:19:56]  Ten.
[03:20:02]  Okay, and then let's do...
[03:20:04]  And so, Jacob Lorty, that's your match.
[03:20:09]  Youngblood, that's your match.
[03:20:11]  Give us a woman who's a 9.5 and then a woman who's an 8, and then get ready to look them up.
[03:20:21]  Can I actually look at her Instagram?
[03:20:23]  I think her name's Veronica, but I have to double check.
[03:20:26]  Her name's Veronica.
[03:20:27]  Thank you.
[03:20:27]  That's very helpful.
[03:20:28]  Well, no, she does like human suspension.
[03:20:31]  She was my trainer.
[03:20:32]  So I need to look.
[03:20:33]  I believe her Instagram is Veronica Queen of Pain.
[03:20:36]  Just give us a celebrity.
[03:20:38]  Jenna Ortega.
[03:20:42]  Jen Ortega.
[03:20:43]  Isn't she the one who fucked her eyebrows up?
[03:20:46]  Yeah.
[03:20:47]  Let's do pre-fucking up the eyebrows, Jenna Ortega.
[03:20:55]  She's been laughing.
[03:20:57]  That's the fourth picture, Brad.
[03:20:59]  What did she do?
[03:21:00]  She does look pretty dead.
[03:21:03]  She looks so good.
[03:21:04]  She does a pretty dead.
[03:21:05]  I don't know.
[03:21:06]  Some of these photos are not particularly flattering of her.
[03:21:08]  Like, scroll down.
[03:21:09]  Okay, so that's what she looks like, though.
[03:21:11]  So, like, the dead corpse is giving.
[03:21:13]  But, like, scroll up, scroll up.
[03:21:16]  Like, for example, the one where she's wearing that weird fucking tie or whatever.
[03:21:20]  I think the third one is very high.
[03:21:21]  Like, aesthetics there are definitely better than like the one to the left of her Wikipedia.
[03:21:27]  She looks like she's like on something.
[03:21:29]  Yeah, the eyebrows.
[03:21:30]  I love the Tim Burton look.
[03:21:31]  It just makes her dark.
[03:21:33]  Like, it gives the ghost look.
[03:21:35]  But, I mean, scuffed Jenna Ortega, you mog Jenna Ortega, to be honest.
[03:21:41]  Mog.
[03:21:42]  She mogs Jenna Ortega.
[03:21:45]  Okay, girl, for you.
[03:21:51]  It's like celebrity, like big, like.
[03:22:00]  Oh, the girl that plays the mother in Adam's family.

=== Underrated Self Ratings And Makeup (15:15) ===

[03:22:07]  Okay, whatever.
[03:22:07]  It doesn't matter.
[03:22:09]  Zeta Jones.
[03:22:10]  Yeah.
[03:22:10]  Catherine Zeta Jones.
[03:22:11]  Here, let's do this.
[03:22:12]  You.
[03:22:13]  Wait, Catherine Zeta.
[03:22:14]  Okay, you can Google that, I guess.
[03:22:18]  Like young Catherine Zeta Jones or Jesus.
[03:22:23]  Type young on that.
[03:22:29]  All right.
[03:22:29]  Show us.
[03:22:36]  Okay.
[03:22:37]  Guys, like the video if you're.
[03:22:40]  Like the video if you're enjoying the stream.
[03:22:43]  TTS 200 reads.
[03:22:46]  100.
[03:22:46]  Do you have it?
[03:22:49]  Oh, slay, girl.
[03:22:51]  Eat it up.
[03:22:52]  Eat it up.
[03:22:53]  She's so.
[03:22:54]  Catherine.
[03:22:56]  It was Catherine Zeta.
[03:22:57]  Okay, whatever.
[03:23:02]  All right.
[03:23:03]  You rate me on this.
[03:23:05]  Just face, I guess.
[03:23:06]  A five.
[03:23:07]  A five.
[03:23:08]  Okay.
[03:23:09]  So, and you're eight.
[03:23:12]  So I'm three points below you.
[03:23:15]  Sure, yeah.
[03:23:16]  Okay, so you would be doing me a lot of favors.
[03:23:19]  Like you would be, you would be settling for me if you were on the looks front, anyways.
[03:23:24]  If we were to date, is that correct?
[03:23:30]  OK, I'm trying to think where else to go with this.
[03:23:38]  I do want to propose: here's my analysis of the number scale.
[03:23:44]  And I'll start with five.
[03:23:45]  Five is average.
[03:23:46]  Six is cute.
[03:23:47]  For women, anyways.
[03:23:48]  Six is cute.
[03:23:49]  Seven is pretty.
[03:23:50]  Eight is beautiful.
[03:23:51]  Nine elite.
[03:23:52]  Ten, perfect.
[03:23:54]  I don't actually believe that there's any tens.
[03:23:57]  Billy Eilish.
[03:23:59]  So would you describe yourself as beautiful?
[03:24:03]  Yes.
[03:24:04]  Okay.
[03:24:07]  Why?
[03:24:08]  Well, I mean, that's what I put as eight is beautiful.
[03:24:11]  You don't consider yourself average looking?
[03:24:12]  No.
[03:24:13]  You're above average looking?
[03:24:14]  Yeah.
[03:24:15]  Well above average looking?
[03:24:18]  I mean, based on my looks and what I've walked into model agencies and what I've been hired for, yeah.
[03:24:24]  And what I look like?
[03:24:25]  Yeah.
[03:24:27]  Just because I have a button right here doesn't fucking well, I mean.
[03:24:33]  What do you can rate me?
[03:24:34]  What do you think I am?
[03:24:35]  Yeah, I mean, I'll rate everybody, but I do think you have pretty substantially overrated yourself.
[03:24:44]  Yeah, but also too, I feel like I knew that this.
[03:24:49]  Is it the tattoos and the piercings?
[03:24:51]  Because I saw that you also give ratings on that as well.
[03:24:55]  My own personal aesthetic choices notwithstanding, I can rate somebody's facial characteristics even if they have tattoos and piercings.
[03:25:06]  Yeah, because I mean, like, what I've, I can show you a picture of what I looked like before piercings.
[03:25:10]  Like, I would say, yeah, it looks better to the normal, like, society, but.
[03:25:14]  Well, what I would do if I was rating somebody, I would basically look at your face and envision it as if you did not have the piercings.
[03:25:21]  Yeah.
[03:25:22]  So I wouldn't, like, specifically.
[03:25:25]  You can envision.
[03:25:26]  I wouldn't specifically lower your rating just because of the piercings.
[03:25:30]  Question for you two.
[03:25:32]  Do you think that the other women rated themselves too low?
[03:25:35]  Yes.
[03:25:36]  Okay.
[03:25:36]  Do you think all women are tens?
[03:25:38]  No.
[03:25:39]  Okay, but they're like eights or nines.
[03:25:42]  All women?
[03:25:43]  Most women.
[03:25:44]  No.
[03:25:45]  How many, what percentage of women are eights?
[03:25:51]  60, 65.
[03:25:53]  65% of women are eights.
[03:25:56]  Well, I guess I can see how you arrived at your own answer.
[03:26:02]  Well, yeah.
[03:26:04]  So, yeah, sure.
[03:26:05]  Yeah.
[03:26:06]  I mean, how many people, I mean, yeah, it's a big percentage.
[03:26:09]  How many people are there in the world?
[03:26:10]  Like, because I feel like tens, that's easier.
[03:26:13]  Like, I feel like that's like nobody's perfect, so that's like a one percenter thing.
[03:26:17]  Would you date an average-looking girl?
[03:26:19]  Yeah.
[03:26:22]  And then do you think you're below average, average, or above average in looks?
[03:26:26]  Above average.
[03:26:27]  Above average.
[03:26:28]  Okay.
[03:26:28]  Wait, for face or body?
[03:26:30]  Or just like in?
[03:26:30]  I guess technically both.
[03:26:32]  I mean, body, like, I need to go to the gym.
[03:26:34]  Like, I'm like.
[03:26:35]  Right.
[03:26:36]  But besides, like, my face, yeah.
[03:26:38]  Okay.
[03:26:43]  What percentage of women in the United States do you think are less attractive than you?
[03:26:50]  Wait, less attractive than me?
[03:26:52]  Yeah.
[03:26:53]  Like.
[03:26:55]  Wait, so if I said, wait.
[03:26:58]  I'm trying to make sure that I say this right.
[03:27:01]  So, wait, am I answering the percentage of who's like who I think would be prettier than me or who the opposite?
[03:27:07]  Would be less attractive than you.
[03:27:09]  So for example, 80% of women in the United States are less attractive than you.
[03:27:15]  Okay, 45.
[03:27:26]  45.
[03:27:27]  Okay.
[03:27:27]  It's almost half of the women.
[03:27:30]  And then what about you?
[03:27:31]  What percentage of women in the United States do you think are less attractive than you?
[03:27:37]  Less attractive?
[03:27:39]  I would give it like in the 30, like 30.
[03:27:42]  So 70% of women are more attractive than you?
[03:27:49]  There's a lot of women in the world.
[03:27:51]  Well, just in the U.S., but you gave yourself a 9.5.
[03:27:54]  That's pretty much peak beauty.
[03:27:59]  So.
[03:28:00]  Have you seen the beauty, by the way?
[03:28:01]  40?
[03:28:02]  Have you seen the beauty, by the way?
[03:28:03]  The beauty?
[03:28:04]  The show on Hulu?
[03:28:05]  Oh, The Beauty.
[03:28:06]  The Beauty.
[03:28:08]  Nope.
[03:28:09]  I recommend.
[03:28:10]  Okay.
[03:28:11]  I'll take that into consideration.
[03:28:16]  Your answer?
[03:28:22]  Okay, I will move it up to like 40.
[03:28:24]  45, 46.
[03:28:26]  Wait, 45% of women are less attractive than you.
[03:28:30]  Okay.
[03:28:30]  I would probably say something.
[03:28:32]  All right.
[03:28:32]  Well, interesting.
[03:28:37]  All right.
[03:28:37]  Well, I'll give the ratings then.
[03:28:39]  I'll give my own ratings.
[03:28:41]  Of course, I have to start with myself.
[03:28:42]  I did give myself 4.5 across the board.
[03:28:46]  Definitely chubby at the moment.
[03:28:49]  Definitely need to lose weight.
[03:28:51]  That's going to impact facial attractiveness because you get fat in your face.
[03:28:55]  You get the jowls.
[03:28:56]  You get the jowls.
[03:28:58]  It widens your face a little bit.
[03:29:00]  So if I lost weight, could improve there.
[03:29:03]  Since I'm currently overweight, that has a negative impact on facial attractiveness, poor under-eye area.
[03:29:10]  Maybe I'm too stressed or I don't sleep enough.
[03:29:13]  Who even knows?
[03:29:14]  But let's see.
[03:29:15]  There's probably other things, but yeah.
[03:29:20]  Anyways, I guess I'll do one positive.
[03:29:24]  Do I no?
[03:29:25]  I'll just give the ratings.
[03:29:26]  So I usually give one positive, one negative.
[03:29:28]  I'll just give ratings.
[03:29:29]  Is there no positives?
[03:29:30]  Is that why?
[03:29:31]  Huh?
[03:29:31]  Why can't we have a positive?
[03:29:33]  No, what I'm saying is, like, just for the sake of time, I would like be like, oh, well, you have good facial symmetry, but your interpupillary distance is slightly.
[03:29:45]  I'm just going to give it a rating.
[03:29:46]  Yeah, I'll just give the rating.
[03:29:48]  So, okay, let's see here.
[03:29:50]  Starting with Lexi.
[03:29:51]  Lexi, you gave your, and I'm just doing face.
[03:29:53]  I'm not doing body or totem.
[03:29:59]  All right, Lexi, you gave yourself six face.
[03:30:07]  Look straight.
[03:30:08]  Can you turn your face that way?
[03:30:10]  More?
[03:30:10]  All the way?
[03:30:12]  Okay.
[03:30:14]  Should I give some positives, some negatives?
[03:30:16]  I don't know.
[03:30:18]  Yeah.
[03:30:19]  Nah.
[03:30:20]  i'll just give the writing um are you wearing uh makeup on your face Okay.
[03:30:31]  You're wearing mascara.
[03:30:32]  Do you have fake lashes in?
[03:30:33]  I'm not wearing mascara.
[03:30:34]  I'm wearing lashes.
[03:30:35]  Eyeliner.
[03:30:36]  Yeah.
[03:30:37]  You do have some eyeliner.
[03:30:38]  Okay.
[03:30:41]  Do you draw your eyebrows or they're just natty?
[03:30:46]  Yeah, they're natural.
[03:30:47]  Okay.
[03:30:47]  Okay.
[03:30:50]  Homegrown.
[03:30:51]  Self-made.
[03:30:54]  Honestly, I don't think you were too far off from your rating.
[03:30:57]  I might say you're between 5.5 to 6.
[03:31:00]  So I don't think you're too far off.
[03:31:02]  You gave yourself a 5.
[03:31:07]  Can you turn your face that way?
[03:31:09]  Other way?
[03:31:10]  Have you had a nose job?
[03:31:11]  No.
[03:31:13]  No.
[03:31:14]  Strong nose.
[03:31:16]  Let's see.
[03:31:17]  You have lip filler, though?
[03:31:19]  No.
[03:31:20]  I haven't had any surgery.
[03:31:22]  Turn that way again.
[03:31:23]  Turn?
[03:31:24]  I use a lip gloss plumper, like a lip plumper gloss.
[03:31:28]  Do you have a lip flip?
[03:31:29]  No.
[03:31:30]  I don't have any fluid.
[03:31:30]  Have you had any procedure done on you?
[03:31:33]  All right.
[03:31:36]  I think five is actually fair.
[03:31:38]  It might be anywhere from 4.5 to 5, but you're pretty reasonable.
[03:31:43]  You gave yourself a 9.5.
[03:31:46]  You're wearing full face of makeup.
[03:31:49]  It looks like.
[03:31:49]  Do you have lip filler?
[03:31:50]  No.
[03:31:51]  Okay.
[03:31:53]  Any surgeries or cosmetic procedure?
[03:31:56]  You're wearing quite a bit of makeup.
[03:31:57]  That makes my assessment a little bit hard here.
[03:32:00]  You did give yourself a 9.5.
[03:32:02]  I would say you're closer to a 5 or a 5.5.
[03:32:07]  You gave yourself an 8.5.
[03:32:09]  8.
[03:32:11]  Okay, 8.
[03:32:12]  You said 8.5 if you didn't have the underchin or whatever.
[03:32:15]  Yeah.
[03:32:16]  The double chin.
[03:32:17]  You gave yourself an 8.
[03:32:19]  I would give you a 4.
[03:32:23]  Yeah.
[03:32:24]  You gave yourself a six.
[03:32:31]  I think I'd put you at 5.5 to 7.5.
[03:32:36]  That's quite different.
[03:32:37]  Or sorry.
[03:32:37]  Sorry.
[03:32:37]  Excuse me.
[03:32:38]  5.
[03:32:39]  I misspoke.
[03:32:40]  I put you at 5.5 to 5.75.
[03:32:43]  Valid.
[03:32:45]  My mistake.
[03:32:46]  All right.
[03:32:46]  Alexis, you gave yourself a 5.5.
[03:32:50]  Alexis, you gave yourself a 5.
[03:32:55]  You are wearing quite a bit of makeup.
[03:32:58]  Quite a bit of eye makeup.
[03:33:01]  I would give you five or excuse me, 4.7525.
[03:33:06]  You, you gave yourself a three.
[03:33:11]  Can you take your glasses off for a moment?
[03:33:13]  Just temporarily.
[03:33:17]  I actually think you underrated yourself a little bit.
[03:33:23]  You're not wearing.
[03:33:23]  Are you wearing makeup on the face or a little bit?
[03:33:26]  Yeah, a little bit.
[03:33:27]  Okay.
[03:33:29]  I think I'd put you at 4.25 to 4.75 in that range.
[03:33:39]  Nicole, you gave yourself six, and you're 34, right?
[03:33:49]  Yeah.
[03:33:49]  Yeah.
[03:33:50]  Okay.
[03:33:53]  I think I'd put you closer to a five.
[03:33:56]  You gave yourself a five.
[03:34:05]  You know what?
[03:34:06]  I think you might have underrated yourself a little bit.
[03:34:14]  You know what?
[03:34:14]  It would have actually been good to give the reasons for what my ratings.
[03:34:18]  Yeah, I wanted to know my reasoning.
[03:34:20]  Like, give some positives and negatives.
[03:34:22]  I want to know if my bone structure is too far to the left or something.
[03:34:25]  The zygomatic process is recessed.
[03:34:28]  I'm just kidding.
[03:34:29]  I feel like you would be so good in med spa sales.
[03:34:32]  Yeah, like where's like that would be your other career?
[03:34:35]  Like, what is a ranking?
[03:34:36]  You should be a plastic surgeon.
[03:34:37]  Like, are you looking like on a scientific scale?
[03:34:40]  How can I fix you?
[03:34:41]  Yeah, no, like, no, like, like, when you come up with your rankings, like, are you like, are you like, are you contacting like top agencies and they're like, what they're looking for?
[03:34:51]  And you're like, this is how I do my scaling.
[03:34:53]  They told me what a beautiful woman looks like.
[03:34:55]  Why would I need to contact a modeling agency?
[03:34:59]  That's what I'm just asking.
[03:35:00]  Like, you could contact someone that is from a sewage and ask them to do it.
[03:35:04]  Did you see Calvin Klein's fucking woke campaign from 2019, where it's like, like, fat days?
[03:35:12]  Yeah.
[03:35:13]  That's like this idea that I'm going to, that the modeling industry has a good pulse.
[03:35:20]  No, that's, I was just like saying, like, like, and like high fashion, these a lot of these models have kind of peculiar aesthetics.
[03:35:29]  Yeah.
[03:35:30]  Yeah.
[03:35:30]  Like the runway models, some of them have kind of like some of them are fucking like they're really aesthetic.
[03:35:38]  Yeah.
[03:35:38]  But some of them look like fucking aliens, so I don't know.
[03:35:41]  But aliens are cool.
[03:35:42]  I love aliens.
[03:35:43]  And I'm the first who would fucking aliens.
[03:35:45]  I love looking like a monster.
[03:35:46]  I know I look like a monster, but I love looking like a monster.
[03:35:49]  No, you just look like a human with body modifications.
[03:35:53]  With, well, split tongue, double chin.
[03:35:58]  I was going to say daddy issues, but daddy issues.
[03:36:00]  I have mommy issues.
[03:36:01]  Sorry, mommy issues.
[03:36:04]  My read was off.
[03:36:05]  I'm mentally ill because of my mother.
[03:36:07]  I think that's it.
[03:36:07]  I don't think, Alyssa, I don't think I rated you, but you didn't.
[03:36:11]  You said I underrated myself, but you didn't.
[03:36:13]  You know what?
[03:36:13]  You got three kids, right?
[03:36:14]  You know, I do.
[03:36:15]  You have three kids, you know.
[03:36:18]  You know, you go through processes and stuff.
[03:36:21]  I have a question.
[03:36:21]  I'm curious.
[03:36:22]  You probably mogged, you know, when you were like 20.
[03:36:27]  Mogged.
[03:36:29]  The whisper.
[03:36:31]  No, you have good, like, base, foundational, strong aesthetics.
[03:36:34]  Thank you.
[03:36:35]  I want to say, and of course, sometimes I'm giving a rating based off of like a comparative age analysis here.
[03:36:44]  I want to say, look, look into the camera for me.
[03:36:50]  I want to say like 5.56.
[03:36:53]  Thank you.
[03:36:54]  Yeah, so you underrated a little bit.
[03:36:57]  Maybe some of you guys were being humble or modest, though.
[03:37:00]  I have a question.
[03:37:01]  Yeah.
[03:37:03]  So my mom was a model.
[03:37:04]  Oh boy.
[03:37:05]  Can you rate my mom?
[03:37:08]  I took some milk.
[03:37:09]  There.
[03:37:10]  Done.
[03:37:11]  Braided.
[03:37:13]  You didn't even see what she looks like.
[03:37:14]  I took some milk.
[03:37:15]  Just did it.
[03:37:16]  We actually had some moms at the tape.
[03:37:19]  Never mind.
[03:37:20]  Wait, what?
[03:37:21]  What?

=== Body Count Preferences And Mom Models (15:24) ===

[03:37:22]  I don't know.
[03:37:24]  What?
[03:37:25]  Who?
[03:37:26]  My mom died.
[03:37:27]  Wow.
[03:37:28]  Yeah.
[03:37:29]  Cool.
[03:37:29]  Yeah, I know.
[03:37:30]  That's not cool, I guess.
[03:37:31]  No, cool.
[03:37:32]  She abused me.
[03:37:33]  So it's kind of, you know, but it's whatever.
[03:37:37]  Water.
[03:37:41]  Can I have that Johnny pop?
[03:37:43]  I'm like shaking out of starvation.
[03:37:45]  I know.
[03:37:46]  He doesn't feed us.
[03:37:47]  I just want the popsicle.
[03:37:49]  You want the popsicle?
[03:37:50]  Okay.
[03:37:51]  Two popsicles, one for her, one for her.
[03:37:54]  Then we'll get, you know, we can't do all of you.
[03:37:56]  You know what?
[03:37:57]  Let's do no, let's just do two for now.
[03:38:00]  And then in the 30 minutes, I will ration out the other popsicles.
[03:38:06]  We should all like, and we should all suck one flavor and pass it.
[03:38:09]  That sounds like herpes.
[03:38:13]  Yeah, I'm not too sad.
[03:38:15]  I'm sorry.
[03:38:17]  I'm gonna pass on that, but that sounds super funny.
[03:38:20]  Like you can have the red, you'll have the orange, yellow, green, blue, and purple.
[03:38:24]  Okay, let's see.
[03:38:25]  Disagreements.
[03:38:29]  Bree, you wrote that you have some disagreements.
[03:38:33]  Oh, I can't really think of too many specific things.
[03:38:37]  I just know like when whatever clips came up on my phone, I'm just like, I don't necessarily agree with that.
[03:38:44]  One that might come up on my head right now is like body count discourse.
[03:38:49]  I know you've mentioned before things I didn't agree with.
[03:38:57]  I can't recall the exact thing.
[03:38:59]  I just know it had to do with body count.
[03:39:02]  So I don't know.
[03:39:05]  I'm sorry.
[03:39:08]  I just know I didn't agree with it.
[03:39:09]  That's all.
[03:39:12]  Okay.
[03:39:14]  Hey, somebody skipped the back.
[03:39:17]  Oh.
[03:39:18]  Wait, hold on.
[03:39:19]  The body count discourse.
[03:39:21]  Okay.
[03:39:22]  So actually, let me just leave it here.
[03:39:25]  Thank you.
[03:39:28]  Yeah.
[03:39:29]  What do you want to know about it?
[03:39:32]  What's your, like, do you think that having a higher body count indicates that, like, you know, like red flags?
[03:39:40]  Or what exactly?
[03:39:43]  I don't know what I'm trying to say.
[03:39:45]  I just know that I didn't agree with what you said about it in an episode before.
[03:39:51]  That's all.
[03:39:52]  So I'd have to hear more of your opinion.
[03:39:54]  That's what I'm trying to say.
[03:39:55]  I just know I didn't agree with what I saw.
[03:40:01]  Yeah, I don't remember specifically what I said, but I would say generally speaking, if most guys are going to be honest, they would prefer a woman with a lower body count versus a higher body count.
[03:40:14]  The lower the better.
[03:40:16]  Oh, wait, I just remembered one thing.
[03:40:17]  I know, like on the paper, I think it said something about it's okay for a guy with a high body count to be with someone with a low body count.
[03:40:28]  I feel like that's kind of biased.
[03:40:30]  I mean, everyone's entitled to their preference, but shouldn't, like, yeah, isn't it kind of unfair if you had, if a guy had a body count of a thousand, you're looking for a virgin, I feel like it, that's just like the other way around.
[03:40:45]  It's a woman with a 1,000 body count.
[03:40:48]  Yeah, I'm totally fine with it.
[03:40:50]  So I'm not like, I don't have a double standard there.
[03:40:53]  So if a woman prefers to date a virgin guy.
[03:40:57]  Now, there's differences though, because assessments of attractiveness as it relates to virginity differ between men and women.
[03:41:07]  Virginity is something that is, in terms of from men to women, it's something that's more desirable.
[03:41:13]  So, the woman being a virgin, whereas women typically are less desirous of that.
[03:41:18]  Of course, there are some women who either prefer lack of promiscuity in a man or low body count in the man or even chastity, virginity in a man.
[03:41:29]  But women just generally seem to just care less about it.
[03:41:34]  Also, I think there's a difference here.
[03:41:37]  Any single woman can be a slut.
[03:41:40]  Any woman, I don't care how fat she is, don't care how ugly she is, don't care how terrible her personality is.
[03:41:47]  Every single woman, if she was so inclined, could be a slut.
[03:41:52]  For a man to be a slut, that requires a higher, say, barrier to entry.
[03:41:58]  For a man to be a slut, I mean, it could be various different ways in which he can make himself appealing and attractive to women.
[03:42:07]  Maybe he's just really good looking.
[03:42:10]  Like, if you're really good-looking, yeah, you can smash a lot of chicks.
[03:42:14]  If you're funny, if you have charisma, if you have a good personality, but you're average-looking, you can smash a lot of chicks.
[03:42:23]  If you have high status, but you're average-looking, you can smash a lot of women.
[03:42:30]  What do you think Elon goes?
[03:42:31]  I mean, he has a wife, but like before that, he's the richest man on the planet.
[03:42:34]  He's got multiple baby mamas.
[03:42:36]  He could, if he wanted the women he picks, I question, but if he was so inclined, he could be smashing fucking 20-year-old baddies.
[03:42:46]  It's just good, by the way.
[03:42:48]  I haven't eaten since like yesterday, so I think you seem a bit enthusiastic over just the way you've been going at the popsicle.
[03:42:59]  It seems a little enthusiastic.
[03:43:01]  I'm saying, sorry.
[03:43:02]  No, I'm not attacking you.
[03:43:04]  Good for you, I guess.
[03:43:05]  But she's observing going at it as in, like, what?
[03:43:10]  The lemon flavor with the yellow.
[03:43:12]  Going at it.
[03:43:14]  I don't know.
[03:43:15]  It was just a little bit of a little bit of a little bit of that pop.
[03:43:17]  A little bit.
[03:43:19]  Wait, do you have a boyfriend?
[03:43:22]  Oh, I was going to say, you missed your boyfriend, don't you?
[03:43:23]  Oh.
[03:43:24]  Oh, no, I don't have a boyfriend.
[03:43:26]  What?
[03:43:27]  Okay.
[03:43:27]  My lesbian gears.
[03:43:29]  Wait, where were we?
[03:43:30]  Oh, yeah, yeah, like the body count thing.
[03:43:33]  So, yeah, basically, a woman could be like any woman can be a slut.
[03:43:38]  She could be, she could be an awful personality, ugly, fat, and she could just.
[03:43:46]  So, what does it take for a man to be a slut?
[03:43:50]  To have a fake job.
[03:43:53]  No, I mean, there is a fake job.
[03:43:55]  There's all kinds of things.
[03:43:57]  I mean, but I mean, one, he has to try.
[03:44:00]  Like, yeah, if you're a really good-looking guy, but you play video games all day.
[03:44:04]  Like, so I think a big part of it is like actually putting in some effort to doing it.
[03:44:10]  But yeah, I mean, for example, like, I think because women are the gatekeepers.
[03:44:19]  That sucks.
[03:44:20]  Yeah, basically.
[03:44:23]  So, so basically, it's just like dipped her pops in a lot of water.
[03:44:30]  You're done.
[03:44:31]  You're done with that.
[03:44:32]  Well, I don't want to detrop you.
[03:44:33]  She's saving it for later.
[03:44:35]  She's making it wet.
[03:44:37]  Stop judging me.
[03:44:40]  Let me live my life.
[03:44:42]  So, yeah, I think maybe like 10, 20% of men can be sluts.
[03:44:50]  100% of women can be sluts.
[03:44:53]  I think the qualifications are basically the same.
[03:44:57]  If you're qualified to be a slut as a man, then you're qualified to be a slut as a woman, you know?
[03:45:01]  So, what do you mean, qualify?
[03:45:04]  Like, for example, if it, like, what are the qualifications to be a slut?
[03:45:08]  You know, like, what is it?
[03:45:10]  What does it take?
[03:45:12]  Cheating or, you know, like being able to entertaining someone else's like attention, I guess.
[03:45:18]  I mean, basically, easily being able to and getting and having sex.
[03:45:28]  I'm sorry, I'm stimming.
[03:45:29]  Don't mind me in the corner.
[03:45:30]  Okay, thank you for that relevant contribution.
[03:45:34]  Yeah, but I think the qualifications are the same.
[03:45:36]  I don't understand what qualifications.
[03:45:38]  Like, I think, like, if a man is qualified to be a slut, like, you know, he's like, he's entertaining a lot of girls and he gets a lot of attention every day.
[03:45:47]  Then, you know, I think it's the same thing for a girl.
[03:45:50]  Like, okay, she gets a lot of attention every day.
[03:45:51]  Then that's like what would make her a slut.
[03:45:53]  Like, it's the same thing.
[03:45:54]  Okay, yes.
[03:45:54]  So, if the guy has the capacity to get that level of attention from women, okay, here, look, if a guy fucks five girls in a day and a woman fucks five guys in a day, are they both equally slutty?
[03:46:10]  Yes.
[03:46:11]  Yes.
[03:46:12]  However, there's way, there's a way higher proportion of women who can fuck five guys in a day than can men fuck five women in a day.
[03:46:20]  Yeah, that's it.
[03:46:21]  In order to fuck five women in a day, you have to like the your level, you basically have to be famous or like the most attractive fucking man on the planet and like super famous.
[03:46:35]  You could be some fucking random chubby chick who goes to this community college and fuck five dudes a day if you wanted to.
[03:46:44]  Whereas again, for the man to do that, you got to be like some A-list celeb to pull that off.
[03:46:51]  Like, do you disagree?
[03:46:54]  You think like the average Joe Schmo can fuck five chicks in a day?
[03:46:59]  Yeah, I think it's just like, I think, yeah, it doesn't take looks to be like fuckable, you know?
[03:47:05]  Yeah, it kind of does.
[03:47:06]  No, for a man, it just takes money.
[03:47:08]  It doesn't take looks.
[03:47:10]  Wait, so okay, now it's like an average.
[03:47:12]  Are you talking about prostitution, though?
[03:47:16]  Because when I'm talking about, I'm not.
[03:47:17]  Yes, if, okay, so technically, I mean, if you have $10,000, you could fuck 10 women in a day, but you'd have to pay for it.
[03:47:27]  I'm not talking about prostitution.
[03:47:29]  I'm talking about genuine desire.
[03:47:32]  Absent transaction.
[03:47:33]  Yeah, like Adam Sandler, you know, he's not really that like attractive, but he's rich, so he can pay for it.
[03:47:38]  He's rich and he has massive status.
[03:47:40]  And he's funny.
[03:47:41]  Yes, he's like, yeah, so I'm talking like the fucking chubby Mexican guy who works at CVS as a cash register.
[03:47:50]  You think he's fucking plowing five chicks a day?
[03:47:53]  If he was like really funny in high school, then like probably.
[03:47:56]  But you're adding these qualifiers.
[03:47:58]  Okay, does a woman, in order for her to fuck five dudes a day, does she have to be really funny?
[03:48:04]  Or can she just have a pussy?
[03:48:09]  She just needs to exist.
[03:48:13]  As a woman, all it takes is, excuse me, sir, want some pussy?
[03:48:18]  Excuse me, sir.
[03:48:22]  You give the pussy on a silver plapper.
[03:48:24]  Guys will take it.
[03:48:25]  If I give Dick, if I go up to fucking chicks, I'm like, and I.
[03:48:30]  Okay, let me frame it like this.
[03:48:32]  As a woman, you don't even need to be pleasant, but all it takes as a woman, just be like, don't be fucking batshit.
[03:48:40]  Don't be like terrifying.
[03:48:41]  But as long as you're like just normal, So, not fucking crit, because some guys will still, even like if you're insane, guys will still stick it in you.
[03:48:54]  But I'm just saying, like, just to make it easier for you, just be like a normal chick.
[03:48:59]  You don't even have to, when I say normal, you don't need any charisma.
[03:49:02]  You can be boring as fuck.
[03:49:04]  Just be normal, like, don't be fucking insane.
[03:49:07]  And then offer pussy and make it easy.
[03:49:09]  Excuse me, sir, want some pussy.
[03:49:12]  You don't even have to do the offering, just pick amongst the men who are offering the dick.
[03:49:18]  Now, however, as a guy, if I'm pleasant and I offer dick, that's not enough to get pussy.
[03:49:28]  If I just go up to a girl, uh, hello, dear, fine evening today.
[03:49:36]  May I interest you in some penis?
[03:49:39]  I think you said the gig.
[03:49:40]  I am not.
[03:49:42]  I could ask a hundred women and I could be very nice about it.
[03:49:46]  Hi, I just thought you're good looking.
[03:49:48]  I just wanted to know if you wanted to engage in sexual intercourse for the night.
[03:49:53]  I am not getting anything.
[03:49:56]  If you do it in the wizard voice, I would 100% accept that side quest.
[03:50:01]  Yeah, I actually, when I have a girlfriend, I actually, you know, I kind of talk to her like this: excuse me, Dia, my loafers.
[03:50:10]  Yeah, that's how me and my boyfriend talk to each other.
[03:50:13]  Chop, chop, like Shrek.
[03:50:15]  Like a Shrek, like we love to mock Shrek, but no, he'll be like, come here.
[03:50:19]  Wait, so anyways, I'm not going to let you distract like we always do.
[03:50:22]  Back to the point.
[03:50:22]  Sorry.
[03:50:23]  So the point here is.
[03:50:24]  Kind of sounds like Stevie Griffin.
[03:50:26]  Yeah.
[03:50:27]  Basically, women will not accept that.
[03:50:32]  For most women, in order for you to be willing to have sex with a guy, there's more of a value proposition beyond just, hi, I'm available.
[03:50:42]  I'm a normal, pleasant enough guy.
[03:50:45]  Maybe I'm a little boring, but I'm normal and I have a penis.
[03:50:50]  Do you want to fuck?
[03:50:52]  Does not work.
[03:50:53]  Doesn't work.
[03:50:55]  So yeah, most men.
[03:50:57]  Yeah, most people can't be sluts.
[03:51:01]  All women can be sluts.
[03:51:02]  What's that?
[03:51:02]  I would think that it would work like that.
[03:51:04]  You know, like a guy is just like, oh, yeah, okay.
[03:51:06]  Here's my dick.
[03:51:07]  Because if you go on any dating app, no man provides anything.
[03:51:11]  Fake notes.
[03:51:11]  But hold on.
[03:51:12]  Before we get to that, who agrees with her?
[03:51:14]  Who agrees with her that men, it's easy for them to get sex.
[03:51:21]  Who agrees with her?
[03:51:22]  Nobody?
[03:51:23]  Nobody?
[03:51:24]  It's pretty hard.
[03:51:25]  Okay, here, let's try it out.
[03:51:26]  Let's try this out.
[03:51:27]  Experiment time.
[03:51:29]  You're single, you're single, single, single, not single, and then single.
[03:51:35]  Okay, let's try it out.
[03:51:37]  Although, I feel like this is going to backfire because I've been sassy tonight, but fuck it.
[03:51:43]  Okay, so after the show, to all the single women, this is a shotgun proposition.
[03:51:52]  Who here would like to have sex with me after the show?
[03:51:56]  Would you like to have it'll be the best three minutes of your life?
[03:52:06]  Would you like to have sex with me after the show?
[03:52:10]  No.
[03:52:11]  Would you like to have sex with me after the show?
[03:52:15]  Well, after you said three minutes, probably not.
[03:52:19]  Round two, you know, be longer.
[03:52:22]  Five minutes.
[03:52:24]  No.
[03:52:24]  Okay, remove the.
[03:52:26]  That was a joke, obviously.
[03:52:27]  I'm my endurance is extraordinary.
[03:52:33]  But that sounds like a no.
[03:52:34]  Well, you're a lesbian, so I guess.
[03:52:36]  Yeah.
[03:52:37]  It's not going to happen.
[03:52:39]  I already have a question.
[03:52:40]  I was like, yeah.
[03:52:42]  If I have a Subaru.
[03:52:43]  Oh my God, you did a Subaru?
[03:52:45]  Does that change anything?
[03:52:46]  No.

=== Podcast Origins And Dating Apps (10:02) ===

[03:52:47]  But I could give a really good hunk.
[03:52:49]  I have really soft hands.
[03:52:50]  Does that change anything?
[03:52:52]  No.
[03:52:53]  I'm impressed that you're not.
[03:52:54]  If you close your eyes, it almost feels like you're being touched by a woman.
[03:52:59]  My hands are softer than.
[03:53:00]  I bet I have soft.
[03:53:02]  Well, that's not a flex.
[03:53:04]  Do you motion your hands often?
[03:53:06]  No, I just naturally have soft hands.
[03:53:08]  I bet I have softer hands than all y'all.
[03:53:10]  You're not mean enough.
[03:53:11]  I like soft, like S-O-F capital T salt.
[03:53:16]  Alexis, definitely.
[03:53:17]  I think I might have a chance with Alexis because I'm a bit shabby.
[03:53:21]  After the show, do you want to have sex with me?
[03:53:23]  I'm really tired and I would like to go to bed, but I think you're good looking.
[03:53:26]  You're cute.
[03:53:27]  Aww.
[03:53:27]  Well, that doesn't answer the question, though, you know?
[03:53:30]  If she wasn't tired, I wouldn't.
[03:53:32]  Well, let's say tomorrow.
[03:53:34]  Fine.
[03:53:34]  Okay, tomorrow, do you want to have carinal knowledge?
[03:53:38]  Oh.
[03:53:38]  You're asking me to fornicate tomorrow?
[03:53:40]  I'm asking you to have sexual intercourse.
[03:53:43]  Can I go home and go to bed for the night?
[03:53:46]  As like right now?
[03:53:48]  Dude, I'm so tired.
[03:53:49]  I know you don't believe me.
[03:53:50]  You need to take another energy shot.
[03:53:54]  Well, okay, that's a good idea.
[03:53:55]  It's like that one girl that fell asleep and you had to give her the yellow card.
[03:53:58]  Answer the question.
[03:53:59]  Answer the question.
[03:54:00]  I don't know what you mean.
[03:54:02]  Okay, whatever.
[03:54:04]  Could I steal you away from your talking stage?
[03:54:07]  No?
[03:54:07]  Okay, and then what Alyssa?
[03:54:10]  No, thank you.
[03:54:13]  I thought it was really easy for guys to get laid.
[03:54:16]  What's going on?
[03:54:17]  Yeah, if you downloaded Tinder right now, you would have like 13 girls at least in one night.
[03:54:21]  Oh my God.
[03:54:22]  Yeah.
[03:54:22]  It would take if I downloaded Tinder.
[03:54:25]  Yeah, Tinder.
[03:54:27]  If I was rude.
[03:54:29]  If I downloaded Tinder, I definitely couldn't tonight.
[03:54:33]  Yes, you could.
[03:54:34]  No, it's 9 p.m.
[03:54:35]  You can't get exactly.
[03:54:36]  It's 9 p.m.
[03:54:37]  This is when the hulls are out.
[03:54:38]  The holes are up at 10.
[03:54:39]  It's a fucking Sunday.
[03:54:40]  You cannot get the same night pussy.
[03:54:43]  Yes, I have a question.
[03:54:45]  It is.
[03:54:46]  I could maybe, if I fucking tried to, if I spent all night messaging, I could maybe arrange something like for Wednesday.
[03:54:57]  But I ain't getting pussy.
[03:55:00]  I don't think y'all understand.
[03:55:01]  I need to do a vocal stim.
[03:55:02]  I'm sorry.
[03:55:02]  Circle, circle, circle, circle, square.
[03:55:04]  Okay.
[03:55:05]  What the fuck?
[03:55:07]  When I'm stimming, I have vocal stims sometimes, okay?
[03:55:11]  As a lesbian, I would like to agree with you.
[03:55:13]  What the fuck?
[03:55:15]  Oh, as a led, because it's hard to.
[03:55:16]  No, because literally, that's why for so long I would like try to date guys after a girl would break up with me and I'd be really sad.
[03:55:21]  Because like, I could arrange something like this evening, probably if I wanted to, if I was in LA.
[03:55:26]  You could look, a woman, 9 p.m.
[03:55:29]  Be quiet, lady.
[03:55:31]  Sorry, you're hydrated.
[03:55:32]  Fuck.
[03:55:32]  He's as a lesbian.
[03:55:34]  I agree.
[03:55:35]  So, as a woman, you could hop on a dating app on a Tuesday at 10 p.m.
[03:55:41]  And you.
[03:55:43]  What's going on?
[03:55:44]  What are you all set up?
[03:55:48]  Okay.
[03:55:48]  I mean.
[03:55:51]  Oh, she's in the bathroom.
[03:55:52]  Well, let's see what the situation is.
[03:55:53]  Is she doing downers in there?
[03:55:55]  No.
[03:55:55]  I'm just kidding.
[03:55:55]  So, anyways.
[03:56:00]  I mean, where was I?
[03:56:02]  Wait, let me see if I have anything else that I needed to hit on for her.
[03:56:07]  Her name's Alex.
[03:56:08]  set guys uh i mean i had one thing left for her but we'll see What are you guys looking for?
[03:56:22]  You don't have them?
[03:56:28]  All right, we'll figure that shit out, I guess.
[03:56:30]  But where were we in the conference?
[03:56:33]  You were saying, like, even with the most, like, even with the most ran-through, because I'm like, all of my friends are gay, like, the most ran-through lesbian I know, like, you could not arrange probably a same night, like, situation with, like, a girl.
[03:56:45]  And then with a guy, it's like you could like probably like any of like you could, it'd be pretty easy.
[03:56:51]  Yeah, I was, I think I was saying that a woman could hop on a dating app 10 p.m. on a Tuesday and she could probably have like a gangbang.
[03:57:01]  Yeah, she could fuck like three dudes, maybe even more.
[03:57:05]  Like, I'm not even exaggerating.
[03:57:07]  Whereas, like, for a guy, even if you've got some game, you know how to maneuver, like, girls are not like down, they're not, they're not ready to go like that.
[03:57:17]  Like, it's gonna take a little bit.
[03:57:19]  Like, they're not ready for the fucking go, huh?
[03:57:21]  They're not ready for the fucking go.
[03:57:23]  Well, I mean, look, some girls are down for hookups, but that's like getting for a man, it's getting lucky.
[03:57:29]  For a girl, that's too sad.
[03:57:33]  There's nothing about getting like women don't get lucky.
[03:57:36]  If you want to fuck, you fuck, right?
[03:57:40]  Like, is it ever like right she knows if a girl wants to fucking get it?
[03:57:55]  Like, a girl can go into a date super confident.
[03:57:58]  Like, you can go into the date thinking this guy's gonna fuck me.
[03:58:04]  I can never, if I'm going into a date, look, I could think she likes me.
[03:58:07]  No, yeah, I can walk into a bar and I can be like, oh, those guys all want to fuck me.
[03:58:11]  Like, I can come up with a bunch of people.
[03:58:11]  But I can never like, I know who it is.
[03:58:13]  I know who wants to do it.
[03:58:15]  I know who's checking it out.
[03:58:17]  If you're meeting a chick off a dating app, she might not, she might want a second, third date.
[03:58:22]  Uh-huh.
[03:58:23]  I might not get it the same day.
[03:58:26]  So, for a guy, it's getting lucky.
[03:58:31]  I can never, if I go on the first date with a girl, like from in a more organic way, like if a girl contact DMs me, then I can vet for that.
[03:58:41]  But if I'm like, I don't know, meeting a girl in person, hey, let me get your number.
[03:58:45]  Let's grab dinner sometime.
[03:58:47]  There's not a guarantee I'm getting a pussy that night.
[03:58:49]  You're telling me that.
[03:58:50]  There's not a guarantee.
[03:58:51]  Wait, what?
[03:58:52]  Wait, the whatever podcast don't get you pussy.
[03:58:54]  You're telling me they're not like, oh my God, the guy from the whatever podcast.
[03:58:58]  So, I mean, look, my situation is.
[03:59:02]  He's going to love my big labia.
[03:59:05]  So, my situation is different because pretty much since I started the podcast, not to say that I haven't shot my shot, but I actually just source entirely from women who contact me.
[03:59:18]  And if you're contacting me, I can set the pace a bit.
[03:59:22]  I'm going to vet you.
[03:59:25]  You're coming into my frame.
[03:59:27]  Whereas if the general status quo when it comes to male-female interaction is the man tends to fall a bit more into the woman's frame a little bit in the sense that the woman gets to dictate the pacing a little bit more.
[03:59:43]  Like, for example, if a girl's like, Brian, I think you're fucking super handsome and I like you and blah, blah, blah.
[03:59:48]  I can be like, Okay, here's my like 100-point girlfriend application.
[03:59:52]  You're going to answer everything.
[03:59:54]  You're going to get on birth control before you meet me.
[03:59:56]  You're going to do XYZ before you meet me.
[03:59:59]  And by the way, like, I'm going to vet.
[04:00:01]  If you come and visit me, you're, I wouldn't say it like this, but your DTF, right?
[04:00:07]  Would she stay up there?
[04:00:08]  And then I can vet, huh?
[04:00:09]  Would she stay up there?
[04:00:11]  The fuck, bro.
[04:00:12]  Her non-sequiturs are real.
[04:00:14]  No, I want to know if you have, like, if she would be here during the podcast.
[04:00:17]  Like, would you have her be here?
[04:00:19]  No, if I was dating a girl, if I had a girlfriend, she'd never be on camera.
[04:00:23]  Okay.
[04:00:24]  I'm not.
[04:00:25]  Anyways, that's fucking.
[04:00:26]  Why do you can you let me stay on track here?
[04:00:29]  You, you like to go in all these directions and I'd like to stay on the central point here.
[04:00:35]  Uh, so where was I?
[04:00:37]  Um, yeah, so like from my experience, uh, and I prefer that dynamic, but that most men don't have that unless they, you know, they have some presence online.
[04:00:53]  Um, so my experience post-starting the podcast is a bit different.
[04:00:59]  Um, so I'm trying to remember how we even got there, though.
[04:01:05]  Uh, yeah, uh, and then also too, I was gonna say when you like refer to like you being chunky and like how you used to be skinny.
[04:01:15]  The fuck does that have to do with anything?
[04:01:17]  Because it was earlier, when earlier when you were saying that, I was just gonna say, like, at what time period, how long ago was that?
[04:01:25]  Why the fuck, what does that have to do with anything?
[04:01:27]  Because I was just because you were saying it earlier, so I was just going back to it.
[04:01:32]  Is it never mind?
[04:01:35]  Okay, what, what the fuck does that have to do with anything?
[04:01:38]  I was asking you, because when we were talking about, I don't have an issue answering the question, I don't see how it's relevant.
[04:01:44]  Objection, relevance, ADHD, sorry, it's not.
[04:01:49]  I was just referring back to the moment.
[04:01:50]  I thought they shut the fuck up for 10 minutes.
[04:01:53]  God damn, bro.
[04:01:55]  Holy shit.
[04:01:57]  It's completely irrelevant.
[04:01:58]  Okay, I got it.
[04:02:01]  Like, you've been doing it all night.
[04:02:03]  Yeah, I have.
[04:02:04]  And it's distracting.
[04:02:05]  It gets us off topic.
[04:02:07]  Jesus fucking grace.
[04:02:08]  It gets, well, like, if you're going to contribute, like, have it be something of substance that relates to the actual.
[04:02:18]  I get that.
[04:02:18]  And I said, okay, I said I have ADHD and I won't do it again.
[04:02:22]  All right.
[04:02:22]  Thank you very much.
[04:02:23]  Appreciate it.
[04:02:25]  Oh, man.
[04:02:26]  Okay.
[04:02:26]  So I don't even know where I was.
[04:02:33]  You were talking about dating women and when you started the podcast, but I don't remember.
[04:02:39]  Like how it's giving you.
[04:02:40]  So actually, my explanation there of like, okay, well, most of the women I've dated in the past three or four years since I started the podcast, they all came to me.

=== Male Effort Versus Female Sluttiness (04:26) ===

[04:02:50]  So that doesn't map on great to like most men or the average men's experience.
[04:02:56]  Luckily for me though, given my age, I have from the age of 17 all the way to 32, 33, which is around the time I started the podcast.
[04:03:06]  I have the typical average guy experience of you approach the girl, you slide into, I don't think I slid into DMs, but I match with, I was on dating apps, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, all that.
[04:03:19]  And that framework is not, although you can sometimes navigate, hey, just come over, let's fuck.
[04:03:28]  Generally speaking, that's not really, you can do it, but you're typically, hey, let's meet up for a drink.
[04:03:36]  Maybe it goes down the first night, maybe it doesn't.
[04:03:38]  Second, third date, maybe it goes down if then.
[04:03:42]  So this idea that men can be sluts to the same degree as women, it's complete fallacy.
[04:03:49]  It's total fallacy.
[04:03:51]  It doesn't exist.
[04:03:52]  Yeah, I mean, I guess that's true.
[04:03:54]  Because I mean, you know, if you wanted to get fucked in one day, yeah, I guess like that time frame, women can be more slutty, I guess.
[04:04:03]  I'd object that gay men have like an advantage compared to strong menu.
[04:04:08]  I'm not clear women right now.
[04:04:11]  I'm obviously not talking about homosexual men.
[04:04:14]  I'm talking about, yes, gay men have it easier than heterosexual women, I would say.
[04:04:22]  Because there's not that bullshit game going on.
[04:04:25]  Yeah, like, but that's not what we're talking about.
[04:04:29]  Yeah.
[04:04:29]  Yes, as a caveat, yeah, gay men can get laid.
[04:04:35]  I mean, I haven't, this is not something I've investigated seriously, but from my understanding, yes, there's less bullshit and less pretense when it comes to same-sex male relationships.
[04:04:52]  With women, there's a lot of fucking what's the right word, performance that there's a lot of song and dance that must be done with women, whereas for men, they just want to fuck.
[04:05:11]  So yeah.
[04:05:13]  Okay.
[04:05:15]  Yeah, I saw that at a party one time when I was younger, before I was a mom, I would go to like, you know, the afters in LA?
[04:05:21]  Like, I'd always end up in an afters.
[04:05:23]  And our friend, he's like a lawyer.
[04:05:25]  And like, objectively, he's pretty hot, I guess.
[04:05:27]  And he's like really wealthy.
[04:05:29]  And all these girls were like all over him.
[04:05:30]  It was the straight.
[04:05:31]  I've never seen it anywhere else, but in that situation, it was crazy.
[04:05:35]  That was like the only time I've ever seen like all these girls at this party were like trying to get his attention.
[04:05:40]  And he was, I was like, I've never seen that before.
[04:05:43]  It was interesting.
[04:05:45]  But he was also, like you said, he's really wealthy.
[04:05:48]  He's really attractive.
[04:05:50]  And I think he was the only guy at the party, actually.
[04:05:55]  Okay.
[04:05:59]  So it is a thing.
[04:06:00]  Yeah.
[04:06:01]  Men can keep sex too.
[04:06:03]  But only like in that specific scenario where like he's meeting all of these criteria that is making him more desirable.
[04:06:12]  Yeah, but ultimately, I mean, look, if it's very easy for women to get laid, it's relatively hard for men to get laid.
[04:06:20]  Now, look, are there some studs who have a pretty easy go at it?
[04:06:22]  Yes, but you, an average or below-average woman has the same, like an equivalent sexual optionality as a professional male athlete, a famous singer, famous musician, famous actor.
[04:06:40]  You can be a nobody woman, below average looking, hop on Tinder, hop on a dating app.
[04:06:46]  You could fuck six guys in a day.
[04:06:49]  Like, as a guy, there's more effort that's put in.
[04:06:53]  Like I said, for most men, it could take a little bit of time.
[04:06:58]  Even if you, like, you don't have to be extraordinary, you, you can kind of maneuver as a guy, but you might have to go on one, two, three dates.
[04:07:06]  Maybe she's not down.
[04:07:07]  Maybe she's not feeling it.
[04:07:10]  So you can't get instant sex the same way women can get instant sex.

=== Sidebar Conversations And Toxicity (02:38) ===

[04:07:16]  And I demonstrated it.
[04:07:18]  I literally asked fucking single women.
[04:07:20]  They want to fuck.
[04:07:23]  Yeah, but if I walk into like a party of guys, blue eyes, dark hair, six foot one, toxic as fuck, to be fair, but and let's see, at least on the podcast, in person, I'm not toxic.
[04:07:41]  You don't tell them I'm going to shut the fuck up in person.
[04:07:43]  I get it.
[04:07:45]  No, actually, I don't.
[04:07:47]  Yeah, no, that was pretty fucking rude.
[04:07:49]  I think it's pretty fucking rude that you've been interrupting all night with your I wasn't interrupting you.
[04:07:53]  I was asking you a question that you were referring to.
[04:07:56]  You've been doing sidebar conversations.
[04:07:58]  Name one sidebar I had because I haven't.
[04:08:01]  Yeah, let me.
[04:08:02]  speaking to myself and stimming to myself is not talking to them if I'm over here like literally I if I recall correctly I don't remember the exact thing you said You definitely had a sidebar with either one of these girls at one point.
[04:08:16]  But you're trying to do a loophole technicality.
[04:08:19]  No, I didn't do a sidebar.
[04:08:20]  What sidebar?
[04:08:21]  Okay, so even if you're, okay, so even if you're not whispering, if you're whispering because you have ADHD, in practice, that's still the fucking thing.
[04:08:33]  When I'm over here, like I'm not talking about me mouthing like I'm mouthing.
[04:08:37]  I mean, me literally saying nothing, like me doing that's me talking to myself.
[04:08:43]  It's stimming, so I don't vocally stim and ruin the podcast.
[04:08:47]  So you're not doing it out loud.
[04:08:48]  That's not even.
[04:08:49]  I know we were saying I'm having sidebars, but I'm not.
[04:08:51]  Because if you were to see me, you did have sidebars.
[04:08:54]  When?
[04:08:54]  Oh my God.
[04:08:56]  Do I need someone in the fucking.
[04:08:57]  You did.
[04:08:58]  I don't recall.
[04:08:59]  You want me to find the timestamp?
[04:09:00]  I don't know the timestamp.
[04:09:01]  The only time that I was here and I was talking to someone is when she passed by me and I was like, are you good?
[04:09:07]  When she didn't want to come back to me.
[04:09:08]  There was another instance.
[04:09:10]  Well, you can pull it up because I didn't.
[04:09:11]  It didn't occur to me to commit it to memory.
[04:09:14]  Like if somebody asked me, Brian, like, you know, those court reporters?
[04:09:18]  What do they call them?
[04:09:19]  The fucking stenographers or whatever?
[04:09:21]  Brian, can you verbatim repeat back?
[04:09:24]  Yeah, but I fucking keep it.
[04:09:26]  But when your role is don't have sidebars, I haven't been sitting here talking about it.
[04:09:30]  I can't either of them.
[04:09:31]  I can't verbatim.
[04:09:32]  Because it didn't happen.
[04:09:34]  I can't verbatim read back every single word that has been uttered on this podcast.
[04:09:39]  Nobody has exactly.
[04:09:41]  And that's why I was going back to certain topics that you had.
[04:09:45]  Yes, you talked about that topic and I went back to it because it was a sidetrack.
[04:09:49]  Sorry, I got sidetracked.
[04:09:50]  It's not a feeling.
[04:09:52]  Get out of your feelings.
[04:09:52]  I'm fucking over it.

=== Protection, Last Names, And Stenographers (06:12) ===

[04:09:54]  I said what I said.
[04:09:54]  I'm not feeling.
[04:09:54]  It's just fucking good.
[04:09:55]  I said what I said.
[04:09:56]  Yeah, I know.
[04:09:57]  And I said what I said.
[04:09:58]  Now shut the fuck up and let's continue the podcast.
[04:10:00]  Yeah, don't be, look, don't be all fucking.
[04:10:03]  I'm not, but when you tell me to shut the fuck up, because it's been constant with you.
[04:10:09]  You said that I interrupted and then I went to I won't speak unless spoken to now.
[04:10:16]  I'm actually okay with that.
[04:10:17]  Yeah, okay, cool.
[04:10:19]  I'm okay with that.
[04:10:20]  Thank you.
[04:10:21]  That's nice that you would offer that.
[04:10:23]  I appreciate that.
[04:10:24]  All right, we have a chat here.
[04:10:28]  Not Myron Gaines donated $200.
[04:10:32]  Hey, QT in the pink.
[04:10:34]  C5.
[04:10:35]  I know you said girls only, but how about a femme?
[04:10:38]  I have a 2000.
[04:10:41]  We can live out of and eat ramen and ice cream every night.
[04:10:44]  BB.
[04:10:45]  What?
[04:10:46]  That's really good.
[04:10:46]  I have a 2004 How to Sig we can live out of and eat ramen and ice cream every night.
[04:10:52]  Yes?
[04:10:52]  Yes.
[04:10:53]  He said, Would you date a femme?
[04:10:54]  That lives in a car.
[04:10:57]  That's beautiful.
[04:10:58]  They'll find somebody great for them.
[04:11:00]  Are you coming back or what's going on?
[04:11:07]  Oh, one quick.
[04:11:08]  Wait, wait, wait.
[04:11:09]  One question, and then how about that?
[04:11:11]  You leave, okay?
[04:11:12]  Yes.
[04:11:13]  It's just one thing I saw in your questionnaire, and then I guess, yeah, she can't stay awake.
[04:11:24]  You should just fucking pass out on the podcast.
[04:11:26]  That would be cool.
[04:11:27]  Just start snoring and shit.
[04:11:28]  All right.
[04:11:29]  So, Alexis, you agree with the following statements.
[04:11:32]  Men should pay on first dates.
[04:11:34]  Men should provide and protect.
[04:11:37]  Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
[04:11:39]  You will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.
[04:11:43]  Yes.
[04:11:44]  Yes, scooting to the table, speaking to the mic, please.
[04:11:48]  Yes.
[04:11:50]  Okay.
[04:11:51]  Why don't what about your kids?
[04:11:54]  Will they hyphenate or have your last name?
[04:11:57]  I'd assume they'd probably take their dads.
[04:11:59]  Why don't you want to take the husband's last name?
[04:12:02]  You do want to get married, right?
[04:12:03]  I have a cool last name.
[04:12:05]  I don't want to change it.
[04:12:07]  Isn't it kind of well, okay?
[04:12:09]  So you said men should pay on first dates, men should provide, protect, but the big one, husband should be willing to die protecting you.
[04:12:16]  So it's kind of cool to stay alive.
[04:12:22]  Well, I wouldn't want my partner to die, of course.
[04:12:26]  Right, but you say your husband should be willing to die protecting you.
[04:12:30]  Take the bullet.
[04:12:32]  I would hope he would want to over having his wife take it, yeah.
[04:12:36]  Right, so in the hypothetical situation where one of you has to take a bullet, he takes it, right?
[04:12:41]  So that you can survive.
[04:12:42]  I guess, yeah.
[04:12:43]  Okay, so that would be the ultimate manifestation of being a protector, traditional gender roles.
[04:12:50]  He, a man, this, this is, guys, this is what you're dealing with in 2026.
[04:12:56]  Uh, you have a woman who, uh, I look, I guess to your credit, you're willing to date like a fat dude so he like can physically like take up more space and block the bullet or whatever.
[04:13:06]  But uh, like 500 pounds or whatever, like, yeah, he's got a fucking meat shield kind of almost literally, I guess.
[04:13:14]  Not literally, sort of literally, I don't know, figuratively.
[04:13:18]  2026, blasted in tattoos, OnlyFans girl, sex worker.
[04:13:23]  You got to pay for first dates, you got to provide protect.
[04:13:27]  You got to be willing to die for her, but she won't take your last name.
[04:13:32]  Well, I mean, I don't think the last name is very important, but I'm a good partner.
[04:13:38]  I paid for everything with my ex.
[04:13:40]  I paid for every single thing ever.
[04:13:42]  I paid our bills.
[04:13:43]  It's just, I think it's just common courtesy and nice to offer to pay for a first date.
[04:13:48]  But you do say men should pay on first dates and then men should provide protect.
[04:13:51]  So conceivably, you wouldn't be opposed to dating a guy who made a million dollars a year and was like, hey, you can stop doing OnlyFans.
[04:13:58]  I'm going to take care of everything, right?
[04:14:00]  I mean, that would be fine.
[04:14:01]  I just don't really care what a man makes.
[04:14:03]  Right, I understand that you don't care because you make good money yourself.
[04:14:07]  But ultimately, my big gripe here is you still do want those things.
[04:14:12]  You want protection for a man, yeah, because that's masculine.
[04:14:14]  I like manly men.
[04:14:16]  Right, but so if we're talking about traditional gender roles, provide, protect, pay for dates, should be willing to die protecting you.
[04:14:24]  Seems like you want him to make a potentially big, not just big, the biggest sacrifice one could make, but you won't make of what sacrifice won't I make?
[04:14:35]  What do you think?
[04:14:36]  Taking his last name.
[04:14:37]  It's literally three hours on a Tuesday and everything has changed.
[04:14:41]  I mean, sure.
[04:14:42]  It's just not a big deal.
[04:14:43]  I just have a cool last name.
[04:14:44]  No, but would you do it?
[04:14:47]  Sure.
[04:14:47]  It's just not really a big deal.
[04:14:49]  Well, because I prefer not to, but it's just not a huge deal.
[04:14:52]  Okay, you would do it then.
[04:14:53]  And I've never met a man that cares if you take his last name.
[04:14:55]  Maybe you can't.
[04:14:56]  Well, that's because men have been completely hen-packed and they're not allowed to want anything.
[04:15:01]  I think men can want whatever they want.
[04:15:04]  Right, but there's massive, there's massive social movement.
[04:15:10]  Yeah, and there shouldn't be.
[04:15:11]  Men can want, you know, whatever they want.
[04:15:13]  I'm against that.
[04:15:13]  I think men can have whatever preference they desire.
[04:15:15]  Right, but there's like massive influence and propaganda pushing men away from there's pathologizing of men's standards and preferences.
[04:15:27]  A man wants a submissive woman, predatory creepy woman wants dominant man.
[04:15:33]  Oh, preference.
[04:15:35]  Woman wants tall guy, preference.
[04:15:38]  Man wants skinny woman.
[04:15:42]  Superficial, shallow.
[04:15:45]  Man wants a woman to cook and clean, misogyny, blah, blah, blah.
[04:15:49]  Sexist, blah, blah, blah.
[04:15:52]  Yeah, you're correct, but I disagree with all of it.
[04:15:54]  I think it's okay for men to have those preferences.
[04:15:57]  Totally fine.
[04:15:58]  Okay.
[04:15:58]  All right.
[04:15:58]  Well, I mean, that's the extent of my inquiry on that.
[04:16:06]  Okay.

=== Hypocrisy Regarding Past Partners (15:16) ===

[04:16:07]  Ta-ta.
[04:16:09]  Sorry, guys.
[04:16:12]  That's my other go-to toodles.
[04:16:14]  All right.
[04:16:14]  Tiddly.
[04:16:15]  I'm going to do some musical chairs here.
[04:16:18]  Can I speak so I can say bye to her?
[04:16:20]  Bye.
[04:16:21]  I hope you guys later.
[04:16:23]  All right.
[04:16:23]  Let me move.
[04:16:25]  I feel like I'm out shader.
[04:16:27]  I'm going to move.
[04:16:28]  I think you talked about it.
[04:16:30]  Like the tea is scooted down two chairs, and I guess Alyssa, you can stay there.
[04:16:34]  You two just scooted.
[04:16:36]  What's that?
[04:16:36]  I said I want to stay here.
[04:16:38]  I mean, if you move me, you move me.
[04:16:40]  No, you're good.
[04:16:42]  Okay, back to the topics.
[04:16:44]  Please address the door, please.
[04:16:47]  If you can send Tiffany, okay.
[04:16:53]  I don't understand why fucking fly here from.
[04:16:57]  Where did she say she was from?
[04:16:58]  Fucking Michigan.
[04:16:59]  We're like from the same spot.
[04:17:00]  That was really rude.
[04:17:02]  I don't know.
[04:17:03]  It's like, why fucking.
[04:17:04]  I get it.
[04:17:04]  You're really tired.
[04:17:05]  Like, I'm tired too, but I'm going to stay.
[04:17:08]  Suck it up.
[04:17:09]  I mean, sleep before you.
[04:17:10]  Suck it up.
[04:17:12]  I literally slept like 13 hours before I got here.
[04:17:15]  Okay.
[04:17:15]  Because I knew I was going to have to drive for like four hours.
[04:17:18]  I had to drive up to Santa Barbara because my flight got in and then my flight to Santa Barbara got canceled.
[04:17:23]  So I had to Uber up here.
[04:17:25]  I didn't sleep at all.
[04:17:27]  Well, I slept for like two hours, then I got a breakup text and I was like, dang, do I have work in four hours?
[04:17:33]  Okay.
[04:17:34]  I guess we'll.
[04:17:36]  I'm trying to remember what we had to like get through.
[04:17:44]  Where the.
[04:17:45]  Wait.
[04:17:47]  Okay, we were talking about the slut thing.
[04:17:51]  It's easier for women to get laid.
[04:17:55]  Yeah, I mean, also, I don't know if anyone in the chat, you guys probably haven't seen this, but what's going on back there?
[04:18:04]  No, just tell me what's going on.
[04:18:06]  What it's not?
[04:18:11]  I was just asking him what side is I was.
[04:18:15]  Are you fucking serious, Tiffany?
[04:18:18]  Why?
[04:18:20]  God, bro.
[04:18:22]  If you're talking, it should.
[04:18:24]  There shouldn't be any talking back there.
[04:18:27]  But you can't be fucking having friend convo.
[04:18:32]  Okay.
[04:18:33]  Oh, my God, bro.
[04:18:37]  All right.
[04:18:37]  Back to that.
[04:18:38]  I'm just going to give this producer a stroke.
[04:18:40]  He's like, sidebar, sidebar?
[04:18:46]  Yeah, there's some expectation that my own team is.
[04:18:51]  He's having nightmares and he's rolling around like sidebar somehow.
[04:18:58]  Okay.
[04:19:00]  I don't know where we were then.
[04:19:02]  You're talking about being a slut.
[04:19:05]  That it's easier for girls to be a slut and you have, it's not equal.
[04:19:10]  Like the it's not equal because you have to be like way above average.
[04:19:15]  Yeah, I mean, I actually did this as an experiment.
[04:19:20]  So I had, I sent out a girl hidden camera, just approach men in the street, point blank, ask them for sex.
[04:19:27]  And then I did the same experiment.
[04:19:29]  And then I even repeated it with like a different guy.
[04:19:34]  And women, just it's a no.
[04:19:37]  It's a no.
[04:19:38]  They don't go for it.
[04:19:40]  Whereas you can send out a girl.
[04:19:43]  She can, it's insane.
[04:19:45]  Yeah, guys will just fuck.
[04:19:46]  I mean, I'm not surprised.
[04:19:47]  I knew going in, that's how it was going to be.
[04:19:51]  But yeah.
[04:19:53]  So I'm curious.
[04:19:56]  I'm trying to remember what led to that convo, though.
[04:20:00]  Like the getting laid thing.
[04:20:07]  No?
[04:20:07]  Does anyone?
[04:20:07]  No one remembers that.
[04:20:08]  No, I have no clue.
[04:20:09]  All I know is that we were talking about like a level of attractiveness and stuff like that.
[04:20:13]  Yeah, yeah.
[04:20:13]  I think you asked, like, if it was, you asked, like, do you agree that it's easier for girls to be sluts?
[04:20:20]  And then you asked that, like, point blank, and that's how it started.
[04:20:22]  I think it was Brie.
[04:20:24]  You were asking about body count.
[04:20:27]  And then I'm trying to remember the exact conversational thread that left that led to that.
[04:20:39]  That one girl had an issue.
[04:20:40]  Like how men, or something about like men having a high body count preferred virgin.
[04:20:45]  Yeah, yeah.
[04:20:46]  So it's like, okay, yeah, yeah.
[04:20:47]  So I think the origination was you took an issue with one of the things here, which was okay for a high body count man to prefer to date a low body count or virgin woman.
[04:21:00]  And we were getting into it and we were talking about the differences in terms of assessment there.
[04:21:06]  And I think I was saying how it's okay for women to want to date a guy with a low body count, but you could have a high body count.
[04:21:20]  But I said typically women don't care about tend to care about body count all that much, generally speaking.
[04:21:27]  Just as long as there's not like a double standard, then I don't really care.
[04:21:30]  Like if you were to say that, you know, a woman with a body count or like a high body count can't prefer a man with a small body count.
[04:21:39]  Yeah, she can't.
[04:21:40]  Yeah, yeah, I'm totally fine with that.
[04:21:42]  So there's not a hypocrisy there.
[04:21:44]  But what I'm saying, it's more so if, let's say the guy slept with 100 women and he's made a determination, well, the women that I find most attractive have lower body counts.
[04:21:56]  I don't actually see anything wrong with him preferring to date a woman with a low body count.
[04:22:04]  So.
[04:22:05]  I mean, like, I'm not going to knock someone for their preference, but I'm just saying it's a little hypocritical.
[04:22:11]  I don't know if, or not hypocritical.
[04:22:13]  How's it hypocritical?
[04:22:14]  Or it's just, I know, I just think it makes more sense to want someone that has your like similar range of experience, at least for me.
[04:22:21]  No, not really.
[04:22:23]  Oh, well, for you, for a woman, that's something different.
[04:22:27]  I think for a woman, that could be the case because let's say you're a woman and when it comes to the bedroom, you want the flow of sex to be a more, I don't know if tradition, a more man-leading dynamic.
[04:22:44]  Women typically, like, if I'm, say, I was having sex with a woman who had really low sexual experience, maybe she's not a virgin, but she, like, has had sex three times.
[04:22:56]  She might look to me to guide her, I guess you could say.
[04:23:02]  Women don't want to teach a guy how to fuck.
[04:23:06]  Women don't want to teach.
[04:23:07]  Now you can give a guy, this is what I like, but a woman doesn't want to be there in the moment, like having to instruct you.
[04:23:17]  No, that's my butthole.
[04:23:19]  My clit is like way up there.
[04:23:22]  Same could be said for the other gender, though, like men.
[04:23:24]  Like, for example, my boyfriend, he said, he actually said my body count is kind of low for his preference.
[04:23:30]  yeah i feel like usually the more Your current boyfriend.
[04:23:37]  Yes.
[04:23:38]  And your body count, you said it was like 10, 20.
[04:23:40]  28.
[04:23:41]  Your boyfriend said your body count is 20.
[04:23:44]  Oh, yeah.
[04:23:45]  His is like 70.
[04:23:50]  How do you keep track of that?
[04:23:51]  Wait, wait, wait, wait.
[04:23:52]  Hold on.
[04:23:53]  But so, look, you have to understand the entailment of that.
[04:23:56]  So what he, let me translate.
[04:23:59]  When your boyfriend says that he wishes your body count was higher, he's saying, I wish you came more pre-fucked.
[04:24:09]  He wants you to have had more dicks in you.
[04:24:14]  And that's kind of gay.
[04:24:17]  Well, he's bisexual.
[04:24:18]  So it all works out.
[04:24:21]  Fucking explains it a bit, but it's weird, like the entailment of, okay, so it's like, if the criticism is, oh, you want a low body count woman, well, what's the opposite of that?
[04:24:33]  So if it's like the anti-low body count argument is she should have a higher body count.
[04:24:42]  So, and if a guy is making that argument, it's like, wait, so you, it seems like the position is less tenable in the sense that it's way less tenable to be like I wish my girlfriend fucked more men before me versus me thinking I wish she fucked less guys before me.
[04:25:01]  I don't think you'd expod it like that.
[04:25:02]  I think it has to do more with experience.
[04:25:04]  Like you said, how you wouldn't want or a girl wouldn't want to teach a man how to have sex.
[04:25:10]  I think has to do with he wants me to have like to keep up at his pace.
[04:25:13]  That's all.
[04:25:14]  Well, okay, how about this?
[04:25:16]  I think that a woman who's fucked 30 guys one time is going to be arguably worse in bed than a girl who's had one boyfriend and they've fucked 300 times.
[04:25:28]  I agree.
[04:25:29]  So like if we're talking about sexual experience here, you can become really good in bed with just one partner.
[04:25:36]  Now there's a different.
[04:25:37]  I mean, oh, sorry.
[04:25:39]  Well, more, like one person.
[04:25:41]  Well, the thing is, more people, that's like, they can teach you more things in a way.
[04:25:46]  Because if, let's just say there's two people and they both only have one body, they only know the experience with each other.
[04:25:52]  Yeah, sure.
[04:25:52]  So yes, if you've had different input from different men and this guy taught you this and this guy, you know, taught you this and blah, blah, blah.
[04:26:04]  Yes, but also it's really easy for women to be good in bed.
[04:26:13]  Like also, if you're a guy and you're dealing with an inexperienced woman or even a virgin and you know what you're doing, so if the dynamic is going to be you're going to lead her, as a guy, if you're leading, you can have amazing sex with a virgin if you're leading.
[04:26:34]  I don't know.
[04:26:35]  Every guy's different.
[04:26:36]  Like my boyfriend, he said he could tell the difference between like a girl that has like 100 bodies and a virgin.
[04:26:41]  Like virgins are like a turn off to him.
[04:26:43]  Well, there would perhaps be some differences, but I mean like sex to begin with, I don't think is a particularly complicated procedure.
[04:26:52]  But then also if you're leading as the guy, like if you're taking charge, you can show and demonstrate what the woman should do.
[04:27:03]  I mean, it's really, I don't know.
[04:27:07]  Maybe like the only thing that could be is like head.
[04:27:10]  Like I feel like it's hard to impart, like also I think there's just natural talent there.
[04:27:17]  Some women, they got there, they don't, you know?
[04:27:19]  Like she could, you could give her fucking instructional videos and tell her exactly.
[04:27:24]  I like also, how do you articulate as a man, like what, you know, when it comes, there's certain things like, okay, don't use your fucking teeth.
[04:27:36]  You know, don't do certain things, but I feel like there's just talent when it comes to oral sex.
[04:27:41]  That's why men are gay, because I don't know.
[04:27:43]  I don't know.
[04:27:44]  That's what I've heard.
[04:27:45]  But my gay friends.
[04:27:46]  But like actual penetrative sex.
[04:27:51]  It's if you know what you're doing as a guy, you can, okay, do this.
[04:27:57]  Come here, move.
[04:28:00]  Come here.
[04:28:01]  Riding, though, that is another thing to where I feel.
[04:28:04]  even girl on top.
[04:28:05]  I'm just, I mean, it's just, okay.
[04:28:08]  Scoot your knees here.
[04:28:11]  Kiss my neck here.
[04:28:13]  I mean, also, I don't like the girl.
[04:28:14]  I like to do the work on bottom, to be honest.
[04:28:19]  I don't know.
[04:28:19]  So what the fuck are you?
[04:28:20]  What are you guys doing?
[04:28:22]  I don't know.
[04:28:23]  They're gooning over here or something.
[04:28:25]  But like doggy style.
[04:28:31]  You just, as long as she isn't doing this, as long as she's not, you know, she.
[04:28:39]  What?
[04:28:41]  Like, is her back if her back isn't arched?
[04:28:45]  Like, yeah, hold on.
[04:28:46]  I might have a tweet about this.
[04:28:47]  Let me see if I can find it.
[04:28:49]  I'm going to send it to the private chat, most likely.
[04:28:52]  Oh, fuck.
[04:28:53]  I won't be able to find it.
[04:28:54]  Yeah, I won't be able to find it.
[04:28:59]  You got to fucking chest down on the bed, arch.
[04:29:03]  That's it.
[04:29:04]  There's also like an energy.
[04:29:06]  Like, I don't know.
[04:29:07]  Yeah, your back could hurt.
[04:29:08]  Like, if you're doing it right, like, your tailbone, like, right where your tailbone is, it starts to hurt.
[04:29:14]  You never do it for like an hour or something.
[04:29:16]  Yeah.
[04:29:17]  I mean, no, like, I, like, I just, like, I have, maybe it's just because I have a bad tailbone.
[04:29:22]  Somebody was saying something over here or energy.
[04:29:26]  Oh, the energy.
[04:29:26]  Yeah, I don't know.
[04:29:28]  I feel like a girl.
[04:29:30]  Oh, a girl that has more experience or there's like sluttier women.
[04:29:34]  I don't know.
[04:29:35]  They have, they'll put more enthusiasm into it while a virgin, they're probably like shy, nervous.
[04:29:39]  They don't really know what's going on.
[04:29:41]  Yeah, I mean, that's fair.
[04:29:44]  But there could be a comfortability threshold where there's a bit of apprehension for someone who's a bit inexperienced.
[04:29:59]  Although, I mean, that could even be to some degree psychologically stimulating for some men.
[04:30:05]  It's like, like, it's the girl who's like, oh, I never do this.
[04:30:09]  And she gives you the Gluck Luck 9,000.
[04:30:11]  And it's like, okay.
[04:30:14]  That's a sus.
[04:30:16]  yeah i never do this and then she they could practice on a dildo for all you know Okay, loophole technicality, I guess, but I don't know.
[04:30:26]  It's very easy.
[04:30:27]  I don't know.
[04:30:28]  For a woman to be bad in bed, you have to like go out of your way to be bad in bed.
[04:30:34]  Yeah.
[04:30:34]  Like fighting it intentionally.
[04:30:36]  And look, there's just a yeah, you'd have to do some crazy shit to be bad in bed.
[04:30:44]  Like, look, if the guy knows how to lead and he can take initiative and he can take leadership in the bedroom, it's you can have great sex and the woman is just being submissive.
[04:31:00]  Like, I don't know.
[04:31:03]  Also, I think there's just a physiological difference.
[04:31:06]  Like, for example, right?
[04:31:08]  Let's say I think this would be the case for the majority of men.
[04:31:14]  Let's say the girl just puts herself perfect, like in doggy style.
[04:31:18]  And the man is doing the penetrating, the hip thrusting.

=== Climax Capabilities And Body Counts (10:48) ===

[04:31:23]  99% of men can probably bring themselves to climax and the girl's not moving at all.
[04:31:29]  She's just completely stationary.
[04:31:31]  Not saying that that should be the case, but let's just hypothetically, the woman is just completely stationary.
[04:31:37]  And the guy's doing the work.
[04:31:38]  99% of men can bring themselves to climax.
[04:31:42]  Now, you as the woman, you put the man in whichever position you prefer, whether that's him laying down, you on top, doggy style, and you're throwing it back, whatever.
[04:31:52]  Can as high a percentage of women bring themselves to climax if the guy is just standing or laying there with a stiffy.
[04:32:01]  With a stiffy?
[04:32:02]  Like, it's hard.
[04:32:02]  But he's doing nothing.
[04:32:04]  No thrusting, but he's hard.
[04:32:06]  And you can ride or you can.
[04:32:08]  If I'm riding, yeah.
[04:32:10]  Okay, I'm not.
[04:32:11]  Yes, someone can do that, but I'd say the percentage of women is way lower who can bring themselves to climax without.
[04:32:19]  Even with them moving, it's kind of rare, you know?
[04:32:23]  Even like the first time that you have sex with a man, like the likelihood of a woman actually coming to orgasm the first time you have sex with a man, it's very low.
[04:32:32]  Because you're just not comfortable with that.
[04:32:33]  You were going to say?
[04:32:34]  Yeah, I was going to say, like a guy with like, a guy can have a really big dig, but like if he's not using it right, it's going to be really hard for us to come.
[04:32:42]  Well, I'm saying, so in the scenario, the scenario is he's hard, he's erect, it's whatever position you prefer, and he's just stationary.
[04:32:53]  Can most women, through thrusting their hips or throwing it back, whatever, can they bring themselves to climax?
[04:33:02]  Some can.
[04:33:03]  Some can.
[04:33:03]  But I would argue far fewer can.
[04:33:05]  So physiologically, there's a higher burden of performance on men than there is on women.
[04:33:12]  So like we can, as men, you can basically be a pillow princess.
[04:33:18]  We can still come.
[04:33:19]  We can still climax.
[04:33:20]  Like every time a man has sex, almost, 99% of the time that a man has sex, they come every time.
[04:33:26]  Almost.
[04:33:29]  Most of the time.
[04:33:30]  Yeah, most of the time.
[04:33:31]  90%.
[04:33:31]  Yeah.
[04:33:32]  Yeah, 99% of the time.
[04:33:33]  So there's like, it's for a man to be good in bed, there's a higher threshold.
[04:33:38]  Physiologically, it's just, there's a difference between men and women.
[04:33:43]  So you can take a virgin, put her in doggy style.
[04:33:48]  No, don't do this.
[04:33:49]  Don't fucking have your back be all rounded.
[04:33:51]  Even so, a guy will still come.
[04:33:54]  A lot of guys will.
[04:33:55]  They will come.
[04:33:57]  Even if you have a paper bag on your head, they will still come.
[04:34:00]  Okay.
[04:34:00]  Like, even if they had a blindfold on, they would still come.
[04:34:05]  Like, men are dirty, okay?
[04:34:07]  I'm sorry.
[04:34:08]  So.
[04:34:08]  Men be awful.
[04:34:10]  So yeah, I mean.
[04:34:11]  They're so easy, those little sluts.
[04:34:17]  And the mask lesbians are awful.
[04:34:21]  As far as like a high-body count man preferring to date low-body count woman, I just think, again, don't have a double standard.
[04:34:30]  The woman can want to date a virgin man.
[04:34:32]  I just find that most women who have sexual experience, it's not their preference to date low experience or virgin men.
[04:34:40]  Whereas like it could actually even be the case that as a guy gets more experience, he wants a woman with less experience.
[04:34:50]  And I'm talking maybe more so from a relationship perspective.
[04:34:54]  Like, I don't know.
[04:34:57]  I think women, the more dick they have, the more baggage.
[04:35:00]  Oh, the more trauma.
[04:35:02]  I mean, I guess so.
[04:35:03]  Like, the first time that I ever had sex, like, the guy told me that I was not good at giving head.
[04:35:08]  And I was like, so embarrassed.
[04:35:09]  I was like looking up videos.
[04:35:10]  I was like, oh, head.
[04:35:12]  Not the result of it.
[04:35:13]  Oh, yeah.
[04:35:14]  Look, head is different.
[04:35:15]  Head is different.
[04:35:16]  But if we're talking about just intercourse.
[04:35:18]  Yeah.
[04:35:19]  But we were both virgins at the time.
[04:35:21]  So at the time, like while we were both virgins, he like wanted me to have more experience.
[04:35:25]  And I wanted him to have less experience.
[04:35:27]  I was like, yeah, I don't want you to even talk to a girl.
[04:35:30]  Like the fact that you've even dated another girl pisses me off.
[04:35:34]  Yeah.
[04:35:35]  Yeah.
[04:35:35]  I don't know.
[04:35:35]  Does anyone else want to weigh in on that?
[04:35:38]  I also want a low body count woman for my next W. Good for you.
[04:35:42]  No, I was dating someone one time that said they had a body count of 300.
[04:35:46]  I was like, how is that possible?
[04:35:48]  I don't know if they were exaggerating.
[04:35:50]  It was like a Caucasian mask, but.
[04:35:51]  Is it okay if I take another energy shot?
[04:35:55]  Those are like 200.
[04:35:56]  I just want to make sure I'm not going to like die or anything.
[04:35:58]  I've never had them before.
[04:36:00]  Wouldn't that make you more likely to die?
[04:36:04]  Okay, so I'm going to go ahead and get a little bit of a drink.
[04:36:04]  Well, I need to get up for a moment.
[04:36:06]  If you guys want to discuss a topic of your choosing, I'm sure we're not.
[04:36:09]  I'm not choosing.
[04:36:10]  He yelled at me last time.
[04:36:11]  We have some conservative women here.
[04:36:13]  Maybe you guys want to discuss some.
[04:36:15]  What should we debate about, guys?
[04:36:18]  Conservative women.
[04:36:19]  Disagree.
[04:36:20]  Well, not conservative topics, but what's the highest body count you guys would date?
[04:36:28]  Um, wow, so what are you?
[04:36:32]  I don't really care about a man's body count.
[04:36:34]  I have a lot of bad body.
[04:36:34]  I don't go out of my way to ask.
[04:36:35]  I don't want any.
[04:36:36]  I don't even ask them.
[04:36:37]  I don't want to, right?
[04:36:38]  I don't want to know that.
[04:36:40]  It hurts my feelings.
[04:36:41]  Yeah, exactly.
[04:36:42]  Like, that disgusts me.
[04:36:43]  I don't want to think about how you got mad when just the fact that your boyfriend dated another girl.
[04:36:48]  It used to be like that too.
[04:36:49]  Exactly.
[04:36:49]  I feel like I grew out of it because you, I don't know, you come to like reality.
[04:36:54]  Like, you know, that's not reality.
[04:36:56]  Yeah.
[04:36:57]  Like, I don't believe in checking phones.
[04:36:58]  Like, if you still check that man's phone, you're asking for somebody.
[04:37:01]  If you're looking for something, you're going to find something.
[04:37:04]  Exactly.
[04:37:04]  I feel you already have the inkling.
[04:37:05]  Maybe you guys shouldn't be together.
[04:37:07]  Exactly.
[04:37:07]  Like, I feel like when you get to our age, it's like if you feel that, you know that they're like not a good partner.
[04:37:13]  Exactly.
[04:37:13]  Like, so that's why I feel like having a relationship where you know that you're loved is more important than like, you know, the size of their dick.
[04:37:20]  Yeah, definitely.
[04:37:23]  What about your next question?
[04:37:24]  As long as they're like, you know, clean, getting tested.
[04:37:27]  Yeah.
[04:37:28]  And like, you know, like they're assuming like if you were like monogamous, as long as they're not, you know, having sex with people and well, you're dating.
[04:37:36]  Like they're not cheating on you.
[04:37:38]  Yeah, exactly.
[04:37:39]  Then, I mean, it doesn't matter too much.
[04:37:42]  Have you guys heard of Canada's dating coach?
[04:37:45]  No.
[04:37:45]  No.
[04:37:46]  She goes live.
[04:37:47]  Her name's Chantel.
[04:37:48]  She goes live and it's just this big thing above her and it says body count doesn't matter.
[04:37:54]  And she goes on a factual, no feeling, scientific debates only.
[04:38:00]  And so you're not allowed to start any sentence of like, I feel, I think, or, you know, anything like that.
[04:38:08]  And her, I guess, like, the whole idea of it is that body count doesn't matter as long as you are like a high-valued person and you know, you're honest and you respect yourself and do you have a good worth work ethic and all that.
[04:38:26]  Because her, I guess, her like idea of it is like somebody who has only been with one person can be lazy, a liar, and all those things.
[04:38:37]  So that's just her.
[04:38:38]  Yeah.
[04:38:38]  Yeah.
[04:38:38]  She's body count really doesn't matter.
[04:38:41]  But she also says, you know, you need to be getting tested and show the paper to them from the doctor that you've been tested.
[04:38:49]  But I'm pretty sure there are studies out there that show for women, once your body count passes five, your ability to pair bond and the likelihood of you leaving your partner significantly increases, especially with marriage.
[04:39:01]  And so I know divorce statistics are super high.
[04:39:05]  And if both people in the marriage go into it as virgins, they like have the highest chance of staying together.
[04:39:14]  But it depends mostly on the woman.
[04:39:16]  Does the woman have a low body count?
[04:39:18]  Is her ability to pair bond and with that then stick through things not impact it as bad?
[04:39:26]  I mean, I think that you can decide because you have a high body pound and you decide to get married, you can decide that you're going to stick with that person.
[04:39:34]  But I think biologically, something has been messed up and you're going to be fighting really hard.
[04:39:39]  Yeah, like you feel like you have too many options.
[04:39:42]  It's like the option.
[04:39:43]  You know too much.
[04:39:44]  Yeah, you know too much and you feel like you can just find another person because you've had so much experience rather than trying to like work it out.
[04:39:50]  I think there is something to ignorance is bliss.
[04:39:52]  And like, I don't want that to sound like innocent.
[04:39:56]  And I know that I'm like coming from the perspective of I was a virgin when I got married, but I saw all my friends going from guy to guy and, you know, some of them getting pregnant outside of marriage.
[04:40:09]  And I, you know, I'm not judging anyone who does that.
[04:40:13]  That's just not the choices that I've made.
[04:40:17]  And I can see where people struggle more because they went into their serious relationship without setting themselves up for the best that they could.
[04:40:29]  And I mean, my husband, I mean, it wouldn't have been expected for him to have been a virgin at 39 when I met him.
[04:40:35]  And he was actually divorced, but his wife left him.
[04:40:40]  And so he, I mean, also fit into that statistic of it's usually the woman who leaves.
[04:40:45]  And so if she already has a super high body count going into it, I think that can definitely have an impact.
[04:40:50]  What about you?
[04:40:52]  What's the question?
[04:40:54]  I was like, do you think like what's the highest body count you would date?
[04:40:59]  Do you think it matters?
[04:41:01]  I don't really, I guess like 100.
[04:41:05]  100?
[04:41:06]  Yeah, if he's had sex with more than 100 people, then I'm like, it's a little bit high, in my opinion.
[04:41:14]  That's just my preference.
[04:41:15]  100's really.
[04:41:16]  Does anybody else feel like 100's high?
[04:41:18]  That's really good.
[04:41:18]  I feel like 100's high.
[04:41:19]  I would say fine with like 90, though.
[04:41:23]  I think it's all relative then.
[04:41:26]  As soon as it hits like triple digits, I'd be like.
[04:41:29]  The triple digits was crazy.
[04:41:30]  I was like, you've had sex with 300 people.
[04:41:32]  It's a lot.
[04:41:34]  So all 300 people.
[04:41:35]  So along that line, who all here wants to eventually get married?
[04:41:40]  Or are you just looking for a long-term relationship?
[04:41:44]  Yeah, like I want to get married.
[04:41:46]  It'd be nice.
[04:41:47]  Yeah.
[04:41:48]  I don't care if I'm like legally married, as long as I have like a little ceremony, I'm fine.
[04:41:55]  I honestly don't know if I want to get married or not.
[04:41:58]  I don't know.
[04:41:58]  Because you're divorced, right?
[04:42:00]  Yeah, but I was still like a kid when I got, like, I was 18 when I got married.
[04:42:06]  So it was just, I didn't have any like guidance when I freshly turned an adult.

=== Voting Rights And Marriage Plans (14:48) ===

[04:42:11]  So I just didn't make a lot of like great decisions.
[04:42:16]  But I realized early on that it wasn't what I wanted.
[04:42:20]  It wasn't going to be what I wanted, like, you know, for the long term.
[04:42:25]  I feel that I need to get back up, but then we're going to jump into some pretty juicy topics.
[04:42:34]  But while I'm gone, I feel the need to even guide things as I'm away from the table.
[04:42:42]  Nicole.
[04:42:46]  You think that you don't think women should be drafted?
[04:42:50]  You would rather repeal the 19th Amendment.
[04:42:53]  Now, question though.
[04:42:55]  Do you want to repeal the 19th Amendment, period?
[04:43:01]  I wouldn't have a problem with it.
[04:43:03]  I think that most women at the time didn't want the right to vote.
[04:43:07]  It was men who pushed that with just a few key women kind of like leading the female voices, but they weren't actually the female voices of the time.
[04:43:18]  Women were able to get laws passed without the right to vote before that, like prohibition.
[04:43:23]  That was a movement that was pushed strictly by women and they didn't have the right to vote.
[04:43:28]  Now, what I'm going to do is, and I hope you guys, without the guiding hand of a man at the table, I'm going to be gone for about five to ten minutes.
[04:43:39]  I want you guys to engage in that conversation.
[04:43:43]  So when she's talking about repealing the 19th, for those of you who don't know, she wants to claw back women's right to vote.
[04:43:51]  That's the 19th Amendment.
[04:43:53]  I'm assuming some of you here are in favor of women being able to vote.
[04:44:00]  So with that said, let's hear the people who disagree with her.
[04:44:04]  Go ahead.
[04:44:07]  I think Women were more so like empathetic more than men.
[04:44:15]  And I think we're more like intuitional.
[04:44:17]  And we kind of just go based off like our heart more.
[04:44:21]  And so I think we need a lot of empathy.
[04:44:26]  Like in the world right now, I feel like there's a lot of really horrible shit going on in the fucking world right now.
[04:44:35]  And it's like it's all being done by like men.
[04:44:40]  And like, I just like think the world is very heartless right now.
[04:44:44]  And women should, you know, have the right to vote.
[04:44:52]  Go ahead.
[04:44:54]  Are you done?
[04:44:55]  Yeah.
[04:44:56]  I was just going to say that, I mean, I think women should be able to have the right to vote.
[04:45:00]  I mean, we're here living it and we're here every day.
[04:45:03]  We wake up every single day.
[04:45:04]  So we should have the same right to be able to vote for the place that we're living in.
[04:45:08]  So should women be drafted then to make it equal?
[04:45:11]  No.
[04:45:11]  Well, also, I agree with what you're saying.
[04:45:14]  I don't think that, like, if women didn't even want the choice to vote, like, we should respect women, right?
[04:45:20]  Okay, then.
[04:45:21]  So we didn't even want that choice, so we should respect that.
[04:45:24]  Hello?
[04:45:25]  I'm just kidding.
[04:45:26]  Wait, are you saying that?
[04:45:27]  Actually, like, if we, like, if we didn't have the right to vote, a lot of people in general, like, just like the general population, a lot of people don't vote.
[04:45:36]  So if, like, if all of our votes were taken away, like, I don't think it would really impact much because a lot of people in general don't vote.
[04:45:45]  So you see what you mean.
[04:45:47]  So you, so you're saying because.
[04:45:50]  And then we would also be able to like hold men more accountable for, you know.
[04:45:54]  I mean, if you want to be able to put, yeah, the blame, so to speak, on men, then yeah, give them the only literal written voice.
[04:46:04]  But, I mean, women have a power with men.
[04:46:06]  Yeah.
[04:46:07]  And that's why they were able to get laws passed before they had the right to vote because they weren't a voting block that could be bought by the government by men.
[04:46:16]  So they had to convince their husbands, they had to convince Congress that things should be done.
[04:46:21]  And no one could sway them.
[04:46:24]  And I actually think the kind of the empathy thing, I get what you're saying.
[04:46:28]  Like looking at the world, things do look really dark at times.
[04:46:33]  But I don't think that's a good argument for women having a right to vote because when you make your decisions purely on emotion, you're not looking at the bigger picture.
[04:46:42]  And I think that's a benefit with men is they're able to kind of separate emotions from the issue and be a bit more black and white.
[04:46:50]  Like, how is this going to impact my taxes?
[04:46:52]  Oh, it feels good that we're giving extra welfare to women, but where's the bottom line?
[04:46:59]  You know, oh, it feels good that my property taxes are going to X, Y, and Z.
[04:47:03]  So yeah, I'll, I guess, agree to a slight raise because it's not that big of a deal.
[04:47:09]  No, like, they look at the numbers.
[04:47:10]  My husband is always like pinching all of the numbers when it comes to any law that's being presented that we can vote on.
[04:47:18]  And I'm just like, okay, I'll just vote the way you want.
[04:47:22]  So I mean, like, in that instance, there's a double, but then there's a lot of households that get divided over it.
[04:47:28]  And so they're just canceling each other out.
[04:47:30]  I think that women can have an influence over the men in their lives and still have a voice that way.
[04:47:36]  But like you just said, that would count double, like, because you have the right to vote.
[04:47:40]  So even if you're following your husband's guidance, it's two points.
[04:47:43]  So I guess.
[04:47:44]  But there's just as many women.
[04:47:46]  Like, I thought it was terribly, terribly trashy during whatever election it was where women were cheering that they were like, oh, my husband wants me to vote for so-and-so, but I'm voting for so-and-so.
[04:47:58]  And it was like a big trend you were seeing all over social media.
[04:48:01]  And I was like, that's so disrespectful.
[04:48:03]  Like, men don't ask a lot of their wives.
[04:48:06]  My husband's always like, food, sex, respect.
[04:48:08]  Those are the three things.
[04:48:09]  if you can meet those three markers, we're going to be happy.
[04:48:12]  And I would never be like, my husband wants me to vote for this man, but I'm going to vote for the other person despite him.
[04:48:18]  Like, I think that's crazy.
[04:48:20]  And it's like a pure reason why women shouldn't be able to vote because they're just purely being spiteful in something that affects our country or our state or our city, whatever.
[04:48:28]  I don't think all women do it out of spite.
[04:48:31]  I mean, that's possible.
[04:48:32]  I mean, I'm sure there are some.
[04:48:33]  Yeah, like, I mean, there are some very powerful women in this world that have, we have the reason to vote for a reason.
[04:48:42]  And not all women, most a lot, research and do a lot of learning about the different parties and learning about who they want.
[04:48:51]  It's not just a, oh, I'm going to do this because everybody else is.
[04:48:55]  There's a lot of women out here.
[04:48:56]  And that's why we, thank God, have the reason to vote and put our voice out there because we can have a different opinion than men.
[04:49:03]  Not out of spite, because that's who I want to vote for.
[04:49:06]  And just because my husband wants to vote for somebody else, I'm going to put my foot down and vote for them because that's who I am and that's who I stand for.
[04:49:13]  I'm not going to change my morals and my values for somebody just to meet theirs.
[04:49:17]  And then also too, I would have that conversation before it even got to that point with my partner of, hey, I'm voting for this person.
[04:49:23]  And if you do not agree, we can't be together.
[04:49:26]  Where I would never break up with someone because of their political views unless they didn't think mine like were matching theirs.
[04:49:33]  So would you make sure that you politically aligned before getting with your partner?
[04:49:37]  That's what I'm saying.
[04:49:37]  So like if my, so like my partner, like I would make sure that like before we even got into that, that like our political views aligned.
[04:49:44]  But even if they didn't, it's not something that's going to be a breaker for me as long as it's not a breaker for them.
[04:49:49]  Where it's like if they can understand that I'm going to vote for who I want to vote for, like me and my dad, we have very different political views.
[04:49:54]  But at the end of the day, that's my dad and I love him.
[04:49:56]  So it's just something that you have to be able to think about and not, it's always just like spite or what the woman wants because they want the opposite.
[04:50:04]  So is there something that should be done to equalize the fact that like men can't vote unless they register for the draft?
[04:50:11]  And like right now, we're closest that we've ever been to the chance that a draft could be called.
[04:50:18]  And the women won't have to do anything if that happens, but we still get to vote.
[04:50:23]  So what should be done to make that equal?
[04:50:27]  Like what should women have to do to make it equal?
[04:50:29]  I mean, yeah, is there an equal sacrifice that women should have to make?
[04:50:33]  I mean, we are, I mean, it's not the same as going to war, but we are staying home with the kids.
[04:50:37]  We're cooking, we're cleaning, we're taking care of the other household while they're gone.
[04:50:40]  We're taking care of the whole house.
[04:50:42]  So I mean, it's kind of like a push and a shove, not as much, but you're going to war and while you're there, I'm going to take care of the kids, cook, clean.
[04:50:49]  If you don't have kids, you're taking care of the house just to maintain it.
[04:50:53]  So I think doing that kind of puts in that what I'm going to do while you're gone.
[04:50:59]  I will say, I see your point.
[04:51:00]  It's pretty insane that we have the draft as an extra thing for men, especially since do you have a boy?
[04:51:05]  I do.
[04:51:06]  Yeah, except like as a boy mom, I'm like, that's terrifying to think about that, like, you have to like sign off that right.
[04:51:12]  Cause it's like, you know, we haven't had one in a while, but potentially it could happen.
[04:51:17]  I mean, my husband was in the military.
[04:51:18]  I mean, I have family members who are in the military.
[04:51:20]  Yes, did that, you know, free of, you know, of their own free will.
[04:51:23]  Yeah.
[04:51:24]  But that's completely different.
[04:51:25]  Free will is like you're like offering it.
[04:51:28]  Right.
[04:51:28]  And then there's all these incentives much of the time too.
[04:51:31]  Like you get rewards from the government versus like you don't have a choice.
[04:51:34]  That's scary.
[04:51:35]  I would like to say that.
[04:51:35]  Also like during like war, isn't like a lot of like the casualties like women?
[04:51:41]  No, because men.
[04:51:42]  Well, I mean like when we're it's like the United States went to war like historically a lot of the women here would also be like we would be endangered as well.
[04:51:52]  You know like we wouldn't be like safe just because we're at home.
[04:51:55]  Well, I mean, if there was fighting on the ground in the United States, I'm sure there would be some civilian casualties, but it's still going to be 99% men.
[04:52:06]  Like all the wars that there have been, sure, there have probably been some casualties of women and children.
[04:52:11]  But it's the vast majority of the people who've died in the war were the men.
[04:52:15]  I will say I agree with your point on that too, because I've seen like I've had friends in the military and even the friends that have served in the front lines and stuff like or like closer to that.
[04:52:25]  It seems like they're just not put in as dangerous situations.
[04:52:28]  And then historically, we haven't really had like a fight on U.S. soil and like a very, we have a crazy military budget.
[04:52:34]  So the chances of that happening are like significantly low, even with stuff happening in Iran right now.
[04:52:40]  Right.
[04:52:40]  Yeah.
[04:52:41]  I mean, because Canada and Mexico aren't going to attack us.
[04:52:43]  So most likely no one's going to bring the continuous United States.
[04:52:47]  Like we're more protected against like random civilian attacks and stuff like that.
[04:52:52]  Yeah.
[04:52:52]  Yeah.
[04:52:53]  That's true.
[04:52:54]  So I think we should either abolish the draft or add women to it.
[04:53:00]  And then also with women not being able to vote and wanting to repeal the 19th Amendment, what about single women or like lesbian couples?
[04:53:10]  Well, I mean, you still have an opportunity to sway the men around you.
[04:53:16]  You don't know any men if you're a lesbian.
[04:53:18]  I mean, no men.
[04:53:21]  So you can have conversations with them.
[04:53:22]  You can still go to your representatives.
[04:53:24]  You can write letters.
[04:53:24]  You can make phone calls.
[04:53:26]  I mean, that's what the women did in the early 1900s before they had the chance to vote is they just gathered in groups and then they went and spoke to groups of men and said, this is why we think that this should happen.
[04:53:38]  So you think instead of having your own ballot, it's better to try to manipulate the men around you?
[04:53:44]  I think that men are not easily emotionally manipulated and women are.
[04:53:51]  I think that it's really easy to pull on a woman's heartstrings.
[04:53:54]  And unfortunately, God made us so that it's easy for our heartstrings to be pulled.
[04:54:00]  I think that that's why we're good moms.
[04:54:02]  Exactly.
[04:54:03]  I think that's why we're good caregivers.
[04:54:04]  Exactly.
[04:54:05]  But it also makes it hard for us to sometimes be able to look through the tears to the facts of any given situation.
[04:54:14]  Yeah.
[04:54:15]  I think like men and women, like we all have our strengths and weaknesses.
[04:54:19]  Yeah.
[04:54:20]  So, you know, I don't think the going to war is one of our strengths here.
[04:54:27]  I mean, I think if it was, I don't think we can abolish the draft, unfortunately.
[04:54:32]  Because you need to have some sort of safeguard if World War III happens or whatever.
[04:54:39]  But I think I would, you know, I wouldn't want to be drafted.
[04:54:43]  I'm probably too old.
[04:54:44]  I think that it's like- Oh, is there an age cut off?
[04:54:46]  The first group is like 20s, something like that.
[04:54:50]  18 to 20 something.
[04:54:52]  And then if they get desperate, they'll just keep calling the age groups.
[04:54:57]  But I mean, women can serve in other capacities.
[04:55:00]  They could be medics.
[04:55:02]  They could be operations people.
[04:55:04]  Like, they probably wouldn't put women on the front line because we're not as strong as men.
[04:55:07]  We're not.
[04:55:08]  And I think Brian Sundrings likes to make the point that if women were on the front line, the enemy would just be like, well, let's ravage the women.
[04:55:16]  Yeah.
[04:55:17]  I mean, that's a strategy that's been used by armies in the past.
[04:55:21]  But I think that there's a lot of support roles women could play if necessary that would free up more women to be on the front or more men to be on the front lines if it came down to that.
[04:55:31]  Child-free woman?
[04:55:32]  Because then what would happen to the kids?
[04:55:35]  Yeah.
[04:55:35]  I mean, that is why women have to stay home right now.
[04:55:38]  Yes.
[04:55:38]  And that is, that is, I think, like, if a woman decides to join the military and then gets cold feet or is going to be, what is it, is going to be, what is the word where she's sent?
[04:55:51]  Anyway, when a soldier is like sent overseas or whatever, she ends up pregnant, then they keep her home.
[04:55:56]  Yeah.
[04:55:57]  So, I mean, I don't think that would be terrible because we also have a birth decline, um, like worldwide.
[04:56:03]  So, uh, I guess if the women just all want to get out of the draft by having babies, that'll overall be for the good.
[04:56:10]  Yeah, um, seriously.
[04:56:12]  So, I feel like it's harder to be like a mom now these days, too, like, compared to like, well, like, depending on your situation, because like child care gets so expensive, and then it's like it's so hard to be like a stay-at-home mom sometimes for people.
[04:56:27]  You have to make sacrifices if that's the plan that you're you and your husband or partner have agreed upon for sure.
[04:56:35]  I feel like the draft is scary.
[04:56:36]  Is for me, like, the president would be like there being no draft, like fixing the draft part of it because it is scary thinking of like in a situation if like your kid had to be drafted, it doesn't feel like it's like a very fair trade-off.
[04:56:52]  Yeah, but what if we went to war and we don't have anyone to fight for our country because nobody wants to volunteer?
[04:56:58]  That's true, yeah.

=== Military Conscription For Women (16:01) ===

[04:57:00]  Do you think sometimes you like you know, like this is why like things are like that?
[04:57:05]  Don't we have a large enough military?
[04:57:07]  Do you think we know this?
[04:57:09]  Well, I don't, I don't know that much about that, but um, I mean, I think we're we're all right right now, but if a war were to break out, then after you know, so much time, now who knows?
[04:57:21]  This is kind of we're in a world of everything's being fought mostly with like drones and AIs and like people flying planes and dropping bombs, and so there's less hand-to-hand type of stuff going on.
[04:57:32]  Yeah, that's just button to button, yeah.
[04:57:34]  But I mean, I just don't think you I think any giant um conflict would eventually lead to the place where you would have to pull in people who weren't as willing to go.
[04:57:45]  Yeah, do you feel like also like I'm interested in your thoughts on this since like you have the ideas of like the whole psyche thing?
[04:57:51]  Do you think that like war would be less efficient if women were running it?
[04:57:55]  Like, remember the movie Oppenheimer?
[04:57:57]  Did you see that?
[04:57:57]  I did not see that, yeah, you didn't see that, but like making hard decisions like that would be hard for women.
[04:58:03]  Um, I mean, I think, yes, I think it would be harder to like, I don't think that women should be in that position where they're you know saying drop this bomb or whatever.
[04:58:13]  Like, I had an uncle who was in, I don't know, one of the wars in the mid-1900s.
[04:58:19]  Oh, sorry.
[04:58:20]  Um, and he would talk about like he was the guy in the air traffic tower who had to make the call on a plane dropping a payload payload, and that haunted him as he got older.
[04:58:31]  My great uncle.
[04:58:32]  Um, and so I don't think women could do that.
[04:58:34]  I think it yeah, we would hesitate way too long.
[04:58:37]  I think I think we have a tendency to nuke things.
[04:58:40]  Um, so yeah, but then, like, even though that was like a hard decision for him, too, I'm sure at the time it's like, okay, then if he doesn't do that, what is the other person going to do?
[04:58:49]  He's looking at the greater good, and this is the role that he's placed in to serve.
[04:58:53]  Yeah.
[04:58:55]  Um, is your um, because do you have the military background?
[04:58:59]  Is your husband in the my husband was in the Navy for six years?
[04:59:01]  Oh, okay, okay, yeah, he served in Japan.
[04:59:05]  So, have you had to move anywhere?
[04:59:07]  No, that was before we met.
[04:59:09]  I got you.
[04:59:09]  So, I just have the pictures, and he wears his coveralls from time to time.
[04:59:13]  Oh, was he serving in Okinawa?
[04:59:16]  Um, no, he so I don't, I don't know where he was stationed in Japan, but he was there during 9/11, so then they got pulled out immediately.
[04:59:23]  Oh, no, yeah, so um, yeah, what else should we say, guys?
[04:59:34]  Um, I don't know, I got yelled at last time I made a topic.
[04:59:39]  Do you guys feel like do you feel like um so you feel like men are better off like running military stuff, anyways?
[04:59:48]  I, I, I mean, I think so.
[04:59:50]  Think what do you guys think?
[04:59:52]  Oh, I have another question.
[04:59:53]  So, do you guys think that women can be president?
[04:59:57]  Because you guys are saying that women can't make these big decisions.
[05:00:01]  And we talked about like having a woman as a president.
[05:00:03]  Everybody was like, Oh, yeah, women can be presidents.
[05:00:06]  Now, you guys are kind of rechecking.
[05:00:07]  I think they can, but I think, like, in the context of the United States, like it's hard to say, like, when people say, Sometimes people, like, I'm feeling like I'm more moderate, but people will say things like, We're gonna take away everyone's firearms.
[05:00:18]  And I'm like, That's never gonna work in the United States.
[05:00:21]  This isn't Japan.
[05:00:22]  You know what I mean?
[05:00:23]  So, I feel like, in the context of like realistically, where our country is at, I don't think it would like elect a woman president in the near future.
[05:00:32]  And then, like, the kind of like disrupt, the disrupt that that would like cause would make the political parties like go even further.
[05:00:41]  I agree.
[05:00:41]  I don't think that a woman can be president.
[05:00:44]  Um, and I know that might sound misogynist or whatever, but I think that we're way too emotional again.
[05:00:52]  Um, and I think that it would just turn everything into this like cat fight everywhere.
[05:01:02]  Um, I think that there's a place for women in politics.
[05:01:05]  I think, like, press secretary, great place for politics because she can snap back when people are giving her attitude and shut things down.
[05:01:13]  But I think when you're leading a country and you're the face of the country, there's just too many ways that the emotions can be plagued to.
[05:01:24]  You can't help the fact that you're like this all month long, depending on where you are in your cycle.
[05:01:28]  It's an unfortunate reality.
[05:01:30]  Um, and then, I mean, God forbid the president gets pregnant.
[05:01:36]  Um, that would be something.
[05:01:37]  I think that would be really bad.
[05:01:39]  Period and broken up with.
[05:01:42]  Girl, I will say, as somebody who dates girls, there is a thing where like the mood swings are a thing.
[05:01:47]  There's also a thing.
[05:01:48]  It's like, literally, like baby daddy came back.
[05:01:50]  Literally, you're dating like a different person.
[05:01:52]  Like, if she's like, depending on like if people have extreme periods, I had a girlfriend with PMDD, so it's like the person that I was dating when she's like on her period is like not the person I was dating.
[05:02:02]  Like, I don't want her in control of a nuke.
[05:02:05]  I think women like to get offended by it, but it's an unfortunate reality of our life, and you can't get rid of it.
[05:02:11]  There's been a huge shift away from hormonal birth controls because of what it does to women.
[05:02:17]  As a result, like for me, I just track everything on a calendar, and that's how my husband have done everything.
[05:02:23]  We haven't gotten pregnant unless we wanted to get pregnant.
[05:02:27]  But I definitely know, like, oh, it's coming.
[05:02:30]  Like, and I feel so much better when it's done.
[05:02:33]  And yeah, but to be fair, when do we ever elect someone like under the age of 60?
[05:02:38]  So, I feel like hormones, you're like, your whole board hormones won't be as intense at that age.
[05:02:44]  I mean, it's fair.
[05:02:44]  It could be a menopausal woman, but her hormones are still crazy.
[05:02:48]  Yeah, I mean, it's really bad.
[05:02:50]  Yeah, I feel like pre-menopause, menopause, perimenopause.
[05:02:54]  Unfortunately, we never get rid of the crazy hormones because then when you lose your estrogen, then you're crazy too.
[05:03:01]  Like, I just you could say that.
[05:03:03]  And I've got a lot of men that are like older, much older.
[05:03:05]  And you know, how like people say, like, oh, they're like beyond their years.
[05:03:08]  Like, that's how I feel about a lot of people that are older in general, like men and women.
[05:03:13]  I will say, like, ladies are old guys, you know, like they just, like, they just seem so smart.
[05:03:18]  Yeah, no, I was just saying I agree with you.
[05:03:21]  Like, I feel like men, like, in my experience, like, even though I prefer dating, that's how I know I prefer dating girls because, like, girls be crazy.
[05:03:28]  Like, the men will, like, if you're having the same argument with a man sometimes, unless it's really bad, like, I feel like it just doesn't scale to the, it doesn't get out of hand as fast.
[05:03:37]  And they're over it.
[05:03:38]  They don't hold a girl.
[05:03:40]  I will like want to go to my husband and like apologize for something stupid I said earlier in the afternoon that he got mad and left.
[05:03:45]  And he's like, What are you talking about?
[05:03:48]  Yeah.
[05:03:49]  That's exactly what I'm trying to bring about.
[05:03:51]  Because men are not emotional like that.
[05:03:52]  They won't hold on to something just because of like an emotional response to it.
[05:03:56]  They'll hold on to something because it's like actually a problem that's like reoccurring.
[05:04:00]  Right.
[05:04:01]  Yeah.
[05:04:01]  Yeah.
[05:04:03]  Did you have any input on this, Bri, the voting thing?
[05:04:06]  Um, did she?
[05:04:08]  Jack already said something.
[05:04:09]  Okay, what did I say?
[05:04:11]  I swear I said something.
[05:04:13]  No, I know you responded to her question.
[05:04:16]  I just don't know what you said.
[05:04:17]  You were a few minutes ago.
[05:04:20]  I forgot.
[05:04:22]  Well, I think she had brought up the draft.
[05:04:26]  And look, I don't think that we should point blank repeal the 19th.
[05:04:31]  Caveat, though, if we make, I mean, this is the current status quo.
[05:04:36]  Men are subject to military conscription.
[05:04:39]  The United States government can force men to go into the military, go to the front line.
[05:04:45]  Women have no such obligation or duty or responsibility.
[05:04:50]  Women have a privilege, thus, by having access to the vote without any duty to the country, without any responsibility to the country, any obligation.
[05:05:00]  That puts women in a privileged position over men.
[05:05:04]  Women just got the thing for free.
[05:05:09]  Men have to be subject to potentially fucking dying in order to be able to vote.
[05:05:16]  If there was some sort of reversal of that, in order for women to be able to vote, they had to potentially die, and men didn't have that.
[05:05:25]  Feminists would be losing their fucking mind.
[05:05:27]  Oh my God, it's so unfair.
[05:05:29]  We have to close this inequality.
[05:05:32]  I think if we're not going to have a serious conversation about delivering equality to women, then we got to take away your right to vote.
[05:05:43]  Or you get half the power of men's vote.
[05:05:48]  That's only if.
[05:05:49]  Now, my first step is not that.
[05:05:51]  My first step is women can maintain their right to vote, but you also have to be subject to military conscription.
[05:05:58]  That's equal.
[05:05:59]  That's equality.
[05:06:00]  And even then, you would still be privileged because you wouldn't be sent to the front lines.
[05:06:04]  Well, we wouldn't be women are not sent to the front lines.
[05:06:07]  Women are predominantly in support roles.
[05:06:09]  Oh, no, I was going to say we do risk our lives in childbirth, though.
[05:06:13]  Okay, can the government force you to have a child?
[05:06:16]  Here, for this engagement, please switch back to Nathan.
[05:06:24]  Go ahead.
[05:06:25]  Oh, wait.
[05:06:26]  Go ahead.
[05:06:26]  You're good.
[05:06:27]  That's what I did.
[05:06:30]  We risk our lives.
[05:06:31]  My question was: can the government force women to have children?
[05:06:35]  Oh, no.
[05:06:36]  But okay, can the government force women to do anything?
[05:06:42]  I don't know.
[05:06:43]  Right, so can a woman who is like never plans on ever having a child, can she vote?
[05:06:49]  I mean, yes.
[05:06:50]  Right.
[05:06:51]  So would you make it an obligation for a woman to be able to vote to have a child?
[05:06:56]  No.
[05:06:57]  Okay, so what is it?
[05:06:58]  I just meant because you said how, I don't know.
[05:07:02]  I thought you implied for a second, like, we don't risk our lives at all, like in general.
[05:07:06]  But that is like something to where women do risk their lives.
[05:07:08]  I know we don't, not every woman does not.
[05:07:10]  The mortality rate, hold on.
[05:07:13]  We live in 2026.
[05:07:15]  It's pretty high.
[05:07:16]  No, it's not high.
[05:07:17]  Women get pregnant and give birth, and the chance of you dying is like incredibly low.
[05:07:23]  While it happens, no.
[05:07:28]  No.
[05:07:30]  There's still risks, but yeah.
[05:07:31]  Okay, there's still risks, but there's not, even if, even if, even if that was true, even if we grant it, the government isn't forcing a woman ever to get pregnant.
[05:07:43]  I know.
[05:07:45]  Right, so that's irrelevant.
[05:07:46]  Okay.
[05:07:48]  Right.
[05:07:48]  So again, and also, even if you're saying, well, look, okay, Brian, obviously the government's not going to force women to have children, but it's like a social obligation, a social duty.
[05:07:59]  It clearly isn't.
[05:08:00]  Women are not having children, or they're waiting until their fucking late 20s and 30s to start having kids.
[05:08:07]  We're below replacement level.
[05:08:09]  We're having like 1.5 kids or some shit.
[05:08:12]  And most of that, it's not even immigrants who are having the fucking kids.
[05:08:20]  It's not even Americans, really.
[05:08:25]  So this idea that, well, women are risking their lives.
[05:08:29]  It's like, well, are they?
[05:08:31]  I mean, there's one way we can risk our life.
[05:08:33]  That's what I mean to say.
[05:08:34]  Okay, well, men can risk their lives doing things that aren't related to the military.
[05:08:39]  Like, men's jobs are predominantly way more dangerous than women's jobs.
[05:08:44]  93% of workplace fatalities are men.
[05:08:47]  Majority of workplace injuries, men.
[05:08:51]  So we risk our lives beyond just military.
[05:08:53]  We risk our lives in the workforce.
[05:08:56]  Women, y'all, mostly are in air-conditioned office jobs that are comfortable.
[05:09:05]  So, yeah.
[05:09:10]  Do you want to respond?
[05:09:11]  I mean, yeah, I said I agree.
[05:09:13]  So, okay, you're in favor of us giving women like three-fifths power to their vote.
[05:09:20]  Well, okay, I actually just remembered what I said in response to her.
[05:09:24]  I said her right to vote because she said how she would.
[05:09:30]  Oh, I vote how my husband.
[05:09:32]  Yeah, yeah.
[05:09:32]  So it's technically counting like your vote is adding to his.
[05:09:37]  So sure, I guess.
[05:09:42]  Yeah, so if she didn't have the right, then I don't know.
[05:09:45]  It wouldn't count.
[05:09:47]  Like, I mean, it would just be her husband's vote.
[05:09:49]  It wouldn't be double the power.
[05:09:51]  Okay.
[05:09:52]  But it doesn't.
[05:09:52]  So if we're talking about equality, though, I mean, perhaps there's another form of equity that could exist.
[05:10:00]  If you're saying women's obligation is to birth children, then maybe we should have a birthing draft.
[05:10:15]  Yeah, I mean, they can choose their partner, but no, seriously, though, because the birth rate is declining.
[05:10:20]  So that would help actually a lot.
[05:10:22]  But I mean, that's completely politically untenable.
[05:10:25]  Feminists will lose their mind.
[05:10:27]  Even conservative women will lose their mind.
[05:10:30]  So, and I'm not in favor of that, just to be clear.
[05:10:35]  But I think actually feminists would sooner prefer equality in the draft than having like this weird equity thing where, yeah, women have to like birth children or something to get the right to vote.
[05:10:49]  That's probably way less preferable.
[05:10:52]  Well, me out would be getting pregnant than if you were going to get drafted.
[05:10:56]  Well, that's the other thing is that yes, that would help.
[05:10:59]  Well, the other thing is the well, that's an interesting outlook on that.
[05:11:03]  But if a woman volunteers to join the military, which they can, women can avoid deployment if they get pregnant.
[05:11:12]  So like, yes, even if you did have a draft, women, even if they're not pregnant, women typically aren't going to be drafted to be like frontline soldiers, like busting down doors in Baghdad.
[05:11:26]  You know, they're not going to be doing that, at least when we were in the conflict in Iraq many years ago.
[05:11:33]  But I mean, women will always find a way to escape that, even if they were drafted.
[05:11:42]  Yeah, okay, just get knocked up.
[05:11:44]  Women actually, women, volunteer soldiers who are women, when they're like, oh shit, we're going to get deployed to the Middle East.
[05:11:50]  Oopsie got pregnant.
[05:11:52]  Discharge.
[05:11:53]  I have heard that happens, actually.
[05:11:54]  Oh, they do it all the time.
[05:11:55]  They're like, fuck, I don't want to go to Afghanistan.
[05:11:57]  Whoops, got pregnant.
[05:11:59]  Okay, discharge me.
[05:12:01]  Yeah.
[05:12:01]  I mean, so women will always find a way to get themselves out of that situation.
[05:12:06]  Not all women, but.
[05:12:10]  Yep.
[05:12:12]  So I don't know.
[05:12:13]  I don't really know the solution, but at least a good starting point is women should be subject to military conscription.
[05:12:19]  I'm fine with women keeping the right to vote, but it should be in the same way that it's tied to men's being subject to military conscription.
[05:12:27]  Women should also be subject to military conscription.
[05:12:32]  And fuck it.
[05:12:32]  Just send all the women.
[05:12:34]  Don't even send any men.
[05:12:35]  Just send women.
[05:12:36]  See how that goes.
[05:12:38]  Well, my husband would rather go to war and have me keep the kids.
[05:12:42]  Well, maybe you get a pass if you have children, but well, I guess men who have children don't get the pass even then.
[05:12:52]  That's unfair.
[05:12:55]  So, yeah.
[05:12:56]  Okay.
[05:12:57]  Let's see here.
[05:12:58]  We have some things on the questionnaire.
[05:13:00]  Why don't we go there?

=== Witchcraft, Dreams, And War Drafts (02:01) ===

[05:13:01]  Do we have the things from the Discord?
[05:13:04]  Like the research tab or whatever?
[05:13:07]  Like all the AI swaps?
[05:13:11]  Okay.
[05:13:13]  Let's see here.
[05:13:16]  All right.
[05:13:18]  Let's just go into some notes here.
[05:13:21]  Kaylee, you're a clairvoyant.
[05:13:26]  Yeah, so I practice witchcraft and then hoodoo.
[05:13:33]  What is hoodoo?
[05:13:34]  So hoodoo is, it's not voodoo for anyone out there who's not familiar.
[05:13:38]  Voodoo and hoodoo are two separate things.
[05:13:39]  Voodoo is going to be more like sacrifices and using different animals, live animals and different things to do rituals, where hoodoo is very much ancestrally derived.
[05:13:52]  So for my black ancestors, I use my ancestral background to bring forth, I guess, just like good luck, just my values and morals.
[05:14:07]  And then when it comes to being able to see things before they happen, it's normally in my dreams.
[05:14:15]  It's always, I either have a really visual night terror where I end up like punching the headboard or like I'm I have night terrors.
[05:14:22]  So I always am like doing things in my sleep and I speak in my sleep.
[05:14:26]  I see things in my sleep and they happen in real life.
[05:14:29]  Okay, so clairvoyant.
[05:14:31]  Isn't that like telepathy kind of or is that something?
[05:14:33]  No, it's not all through the mind.
[05:14:35]  You can get things through dreams, see things before they happen, things like that.
[05:14:40]  And you do witchcraft?
[05:14:41]  Yes.
[05:14:43]  Have you cast any hexes?
[05:14:45]  I've done one.
[05:14:47]  Do you do dark magic?
[05:14:49]  I don't do anything that unbalances the scale.
[05:14:52]  So like I would never put a spell on someone that would make them love me because I want them to love me for me.
[05:14:58]  But as far as like black magic goes, yeah, there are things in the book that are written that are considered black magic.

=== Primary Victims Of War Claims (04:22) ===

[05:15:03]  Yeah.
[05:15:04]  But I don't do anything where it's like I won't make anyone like fall in love with me.
[05:15:08]  I don't do any glamour or anything.
[05:15:11]  What about like a spell that would somebody would like have an accident?
[05:15:17]  No.
[05:15:17]  I don't do anything that causes a scale.
[05:15:21]  I'm not God.
[05:15:21]  I don't play God.
[05:15:22]  So that's not my choice to make.
[05:15:24]  But if I, what I would do is call a justice spell.
[05:15:28]  So it's giving that person whatever they deserve and what the bat and what life thinks they deserve.
[05:15:33]  Did you cast a spell on the whatever podcast?
[05:15:35]  No, I did not.
[05:15:36]  Are you going to cast a spell on the whatever podcast?
[05:15:38]  No, you just pissed me off that one time, but we're fine.
[05:15:40]  We're homies again?
[05:15:41]  We're homies again.
[05:15:42]  All right.
[05:15:43]  You're my Caucasian.
[05:15:44]  Oh, I'm mixed.
[05:15:46]  I know.
[05:15:46]  You're half my Caucasian then.
[05:15:49]  Wait, my.
[05:15:50]  I'm half your Caucasian.
[05:15:52]  Yeah, because you're half white.
[05:15:53]  So half my Caucasian.
[05:15:55]  Okay, I like that.
[05:15:56]  And you're an empath.
[05:15:57]  What does that mean?
[05:15:59]  So let's say she was just going through a really hard time in her life or someone passed away.
[05:16:07]  I can pick up on that or it's I can feel I put myself into other people's shoes, but on a different level where it's like even if I wasn't in that situation, I'm able to take myself, put them in their shoes and analyze everything from within, not just from my own views and standpoint, but from what anyone can see.
[05:16:28]  Okay, cool.
[05:16:31]  you said actually you know what let's just oh and i worship hakati Let's do the questionnaire stuff here.
[05:16:36]  Alexi, women are the primary victims of war, not men, to which you agree.
[05:16:40]  Why is that?
[05:16:42]  Because women get raped and killed.
[05:16:46]  Yeah, I'm not, I mean, I'm not going to dispute that.
[05:16:47]  Women definitely do encounter that during wartime.
[05:16:51]  It's definitely happened.
[05:16:53]  But so we're doing like a comparative analysis here between the collective suffering of men and the collective suffering of women.
[05:17:02]  So I'm not going to dispute, absolutely, during wartime, women do get raped.
[05:17:05]  Although I think they actually found in a recent conflict in Ukraine, I think they actually found that Ukrainian men were being raped at higher instances than Ukrainian women.
[05:17:18]  Even putting that aside, though, I guess the question is, how many men do you kill to prevent one rape?
[05:17:29]  One.
[05:17:31]  Okay, you'd kill one man to prevent one rape.
[05:17:35]  Okay.
[05:17:35]  So if more.
[05:17:37]  I mean, I would kill half a man then, if that makes sense.
[05:17:42]  So like, if one man dies, two women get raped.
[05:17:45]  That's like pretty like equal, I guess.
[05:17:48]  Wait, hold on.
[05:17:52]  Okay, I think I understand.
[05:17:54]  Yeah.
[05:17:57]  Yeah.
[05:17:58]  Because like that's a whole life.
[05:18:00]  A whole life.
[05:18:01]  Right.
[05:18:01]  You know, but also a whole lifetime worth of trauma that's fucked up.
[05:18:06]  Okay.
[05:18:07]  Yeah, I mean.
[05:18:07]  And plus losing your husband or child or whatever, that could possibly happen.
[05:18:11]  You would acknowledge that while this is a very grave abuse of somebody, that, and not in all instances, but some people can overcome their traumas.
[05:18:26]  Yes.
[05:18:27]  And heal and move on, right?
[05:18:31]  In any case, though, the military, the male military deaths in, I would argue, every single military conflict that there has ever been is much higher than the rate of women who are SA'd.
[05:18:52]  And so your position, though, is women are the primary victims of war, not men.
[05:18:58]  Oh, no, I just asked the question.
[05:19:00]  I was just confused about that.
[05:19:02]  No, but on the questionnaire, the statement, women are the primary victims of war, not men, you agreed.
[05:19:07]  And then while I was gone, I overheard as a religious, I think you'd brought up something about women are the primary victims or something.
[05:19:15]  I don't remember exactly, but are women the primary victims of war?

=== Physical Strength Comparisons Between Genders (15:16) ===

[05:19:26]  No.
[05:19:27]  So men are the primary victims of war?
[05:19:28]  Yes, because men actually die.
[05:19:31]  Okay, all right.
[05:19:31]  There's nothing else to discuss on that.
[05:19:33]  All right.
[05:19:36]  23.
[05:19:39]  Jennifer.
[05:19:41]  Jennifer.
[05:19:42]  Jennington, Jennings, Jennifer, Jennifer Jenningson.
[05:19:46]  Stop!
[05:19:47]  I'm literally gonna wake you up to her.
[05:19:51]  Actually, yes, you're friends, right?
[05:19:52]  Call her Jennington.
[05:19:53]  No, we're more than just friends, actually.
[05:19:58]  Lovers.
[05:19:58]  I'm outing us right now.
[05:20:00]  We are besties for the resties.
[05:20:04]  Oh, thought you were gonna come out as gay.
[05:20:08]  No, but that's actually my girl for life.
[05:20:11]  I mean, I like her.
[05:20:13]  Looked in.
[05:20:14]  Okay.
[05:20:15]  Jennifer, you agree with the following statement.
[05:20:19]  Women are just as physically strong as men.
[05:20:23]  Is that correct?
[05:20:24]  Yeah, I believe so.
[05:20:25]  I believe that we well, naturally, probably not, but I think you can definitely, like, women are capable of going to the gym and becoming stronger than they are right now.
[05:20:37]  Yes.
[05:20:38]  Or then, like, the same as men.
[05:20:41]  Like, but say a man can lift a 200-pound weight.
[05:20:44]  I believe that's physically possible for a woman to do too.
[05:20:48]  You, you did a bicep curl motion there, and you said 200 pounds.
[05:20:54]  I don't even aren't there.
[05:20:57]  I don't even think.
[05:20:59]  I mean, I don't know the records on single arm bicep curls.
[05:21:06]  But I don't even know if the strongest woman in the world could single arm bicep curl 200 pounds.
[05:21:15]  Yeah, that's crazy.
[05:21:16]  Like, I'm not even sure.
[05:21:20]  I think a man could, like, really strong men could bicep curl 200 pounds.
[05:21:26]  Single arm bicep curl.
[05:21:27]  That's like the world.
[05:21:28]  I mean, has it been physically?
[05:21:29]  I'm just like, can we search?
[05:21:30]  Like, bicep curl is not like.
[05:21:32]  I don't know if they do competitions for bicep curls, but like world record bicep curls.
[05:21:37]  Are they talking about the long bar with like weights on the end on each side?
[05:21:40]  Wait, get this.
[05:21:41]  Okay, the world record for a strict bicep curl back against a wall is generally recognized as 251 pounds.
[05:21:50]  That's two arms.
[05:21:52]  Oh.
[05:21:52]  So yeah, no women, not even men, can single arm bicep curl.
[05:21:57]  Oh, wait, hold on.
[05:21:59]  Wait.
[05:21:59]  Oh, cheat curls.
[05:22:01]  Cheat curls, LaVon, the fucking arm wrestler, did like 400 pounds.
[05:22:09]  One hand?
[05:22:10]  It's possible.
[05:22:11]  Two hands.
[05:22:12]  Okay.
[05:22:12]  Two hands.
[05:22:13]  Yeah.
[05:22:13]  But in any case, so there are some women who can be stronger than some men.
[05:22:19]  There's no dispute there.
[05:22:21]  But in general, on average, women are not stronger than men.
[05:22:29]  Yeah.
[05:22:29]  Like naturally, if we were both afraid.
[05:22:34]  That wasn't the question.
[05:22:36]  If you'd say average, you lately didn't.
[05:22:37]  Well, no, it says women are just as physically strong as men.
[05:22:40]  Just as.
[05:22:41]  Like, as in, like.
[05:22:43]  But the statement isn't.
[05:22:45]  The statement isn't, can a singular woman be stronger than a singular man?
[05:22:52]  It's women.
[05:22:56]  Well, my ex couldn't leg press 200 and I can, so could he beat you up, though?
[05:23:06]  Possibly.
[05:23:07]  We never got at it to know.
[05:23:09]  Well, I don't know if he lifted, but there's actually some recent funny videos on this.
[05:23:14]  They put like fitness women against dwarves.
[05:23:18]  Oh, I've seen that.
[05:23:19]  And the dwarves outperformed the women, and then they put like skinny dudes against athlete women, and the skinny dudes still won.
[05:23:29]  So it's like, there are definitely some women who are stronger than some men, but this statement is more about like in general on average.
[05:23:41]  How about this?
[05:23:42]  Is the strongest man alive stronger than the strongest woman alive?
[05:23:48]  I don't know.
[05:23:49]  You don't know?
[05:23:50]  I don't know.
[05:23:52]  We're gonna get stats on that.
[05:23:55]  Probably.
[05:23:56]  Okay.
[05:23:57]  Probably not.
[05:23:59]  Okay.
[05:24:00]  On average, are men stronger than women?
[05:24:02]  On average?
[05:24:03]  Yeah.
[05:24:06]  No?
[05:24:07]  So what?
[05:24:08]  Are they weaker?
[05:24:09]  Are they equal?
[05:24:12]  I think that, like, let's say nobody.
[05:24:15]  Okay, so if, you know, a woman and a man are put into a room, they don't go to the gym.
[05:24:22]  I think a man would be stronger than that.
[05:24:24]  Woman, naturally.
[05:24:27]  Naturally, genes, biologically, whatever.
[05:24:29]  Yeah.
[05:24:30]  Right.
[05:24:31]  And who participates in weightlifting more?
[05:24:32]  Men or women?
[05:24:35]  Weightlifting more?
[05:24:38]  Probably men, but women do it too.
[05:24:42]  Yes, that's true.
[05:24:43]  But if you're saying that two untrained, like an untrained woman and an untrained man, they're in the room, just the baseline, the man's going to be stronger.
[05:24:54]  This, this, I honestly think the gap would actually start to increase even if you compare a trained woman to a trained man.
[05:25:05]  Yeah.
[05:25:06]  Well, I agree.
[05:25:09]  But when I saw that sentence, I was thinking like, you know, like, oh, like women cannot be stronger than men, which I completely disagree with.
[05:25:19]  In general, they can't.
[05:25:21]  Like, in totality.
[05:25:23]  In general.
[05:25:24]  They can't.
[05:25:29]  Nathan, can you?
[05:25:32]  I ordered some stuff.
[05:25:34]  Can you just go down and or maybe we yeah, hold on.
[05:25:39]  I ordered pizza for peeps.
[05:25:44]  Okay.
[05:25:47]  Yeah.
[05:25:50]  Go ahead.
[05:25:54]  Oh, I was just saying that, like, to say that they just, like, you know, you're saying generally can't, like, they can.
[05:26:05]  No, but I'm acknowledging that there are some women who are stronger than some men.
[05:26:13]  But when I'm using women, I'm using a plural, plural women.
[05:26:18]  I'm saying women collectively.
[05:26:21]  So collectively, women are weaker than men.
[05:26:33]  I would even argue the, like an average guy can probably lift more weights than, oh my God.
[05:26:43]  Sorry, guys.
[05:26:45]  Then a like not like a fucking Olympic weightlifter woman, but like an athlete female.
[05:27:01]  Like I think your average dude is physically stronger than your average female athlete.
[05:27:09]  Dude who's never stepped foot in the gym stronger than a woman.
[05:27:16]  Most women.
[05:27:18]  Sure, then yeah, when you say it like that, then yeah.
[05:27:23]  Yes.
[05:27:23]  Okay.
[05:27:24]  All right.
[05:27:28]  Can somebody take over the conversation for me, please, while I need a yeah, I feel I was just gonna say, I feel like it's a thing because like I've had a few friends that took testosterone and they got strong.
[05:27:41]  It was crazy.
[05:27:42]  It was like the whole females.
[05:27:44]  Well, yeah, like people born female and then they took testosterone and then they started getting like super strong or like more muscle and stuff.
[05:27:51]  It's like there was this one person I was talking to ages ago and they were starting to take tea and it was like they started getting abs just like not working out exactly.
[05:27:59]  Yeah, exactly.
[05:28:00]  Because men by default are stronger and they have a higher, much higher endurance than women.
[05:28:07]  They don't get tired as quickly as we do.
[05:28:09]  If I worked eight hours and a man worked the same eight hours, he will be fine after.
[05:28:14]  That is a thing.
[05:28:16]  Well, it's the same reason why there's been such a big push to make sure that it's only biological females competing against each other.
[05:28:23]  Because even a trans woman who's been taking the hormones for years is still stronger than the other professional athletes in that sport.
[05:28:32]  Yeah, that are like it's just the natural testosterone that is in a man's body.
[05:28:37]  My husband never goes to the gym.
[05:28:40]  He is in decent shape.
[05:28:41]  Like he's fit, but he never goes to the gym.
[05:28:44]  I go to the gym multiple times a week.
[05:28:46]  And I think if he went, he could easily outdo my leg press, which is my highest thing.
[05:28:51]  Like, I don't think it would be hard for him.
[05:28:53]  Yeah.
[05:28:54]  And so, and then I would be really annoyed because I've been working up for this like a year and a half.
[05:29:00]  But I feel like you're so annoying.
[05:29:03]  But there it goes with the testosterone.
[05:29:05]  Like, we just can't.
[05:29:07]  Yeah, I think that's a huge factor when we don't have it.
[05:29:10]  I think it shows with like just trans people in general when it comes to a male transitioning to a woman and a woman transitioning to a male.
[05:29:18]  Once that woman starts taking that testosterone, they transition so much quicker.
[05:29:23]  That's a thing.
[05:29:24]  Yeah, because it takes so much for a trans, a woman that's transitioning into a woman, to look feminine if they don't already have the features, because it's so hard for like their body to like cut it out and realize you're switching, because testosterone is just like so strong.
[05:29:38]  It's like once somebody, once somebody has gone through like male puberty, like you need straight up like facial feminization surgery and even then, like some people just like are, have too masculine features uh yeah, I know some girls in the trans community who go like through a black market route uh, to get higher estrogen because um, it's just not high enough and it's not doing anything.
[05:30:00]  So they go on the black market because that's where they can get, where it's faster for them to look like a female and to get those um, feminine features.
[05:30:07]  Yeah, I feel like there's definitely like strong women, though don't get me wrong.
[05:30:11]  Yeah, but I think it just definitely takes like a lot more training or like how you were saying with my ex-husband, because he would like you know how men go through like periods of like wanting to get back in shape, and then it's like the second he starts working on again, he's like back to his old shape.
[05:30:24]  He literally like just like, crash dieted for two weeks and he's doing a pull-up and i'm like over here, like I hope I can lift I yeah my, there's a pull-up bar in her basement and I was like, so how many can you do?
[05:30:35]  My husband's like I haven't been working on them so I can do like five.
[05:30:38]  And I was like I hate you because i've been trying to use the machine at the gym to get myself to a normal pull-up and i'm still not there.
[05:30:46]  Like yeah, and he just like, every once in a while he tries some pull-ups and he can do them.
[05:30:50]  And i'm like, not fair, not fair, even my son is strong.
[05:30:57]  Is your son?
[05:30:57]  How old is your son?
[05:30:58]  He's three.
[05:30:59]  Yeah, is he's like strong?
[05:31:00]  Like i'm like, oh my gosh yes, oh man, he's so proud to carry in, like my big thing of protein shakes from the band.
[05:31:08]  He's nine and he's so eager like he won't let me carry in the water or anything.
[05:31:13]  He's like I got it, mom.
[05:31:14]  Like i'm good.
[05:31:15]  I'm like oh bob, he's like.
[05:31:16]  He's really solid too and strong.
[05:31:19]  He's a strong boy, I know.
[05:31:20]  My son is like three foot six.
[05:31:22]  He's really tall.
[05:31:23]  It's crazy.
[05:31:25]  Yeah, I definitely feel like um Yeah, men are just naturally stronger.
[05:31:30]  Also, too, then, like, I think the debating is so interesting because then it's like, if you say that, like, men aren't naturally stronger than women, then in some ways, I feel like that kind of hurts the argument of like men can be dangerous.
[05:31:42]  You know what I mean?
[05:31:43]  That's like, it's like from a debating perspective.
[05:31:47]  What do you guys think?
[05:31:48]  What do you think, girl?
[05:31:49]  What was the question?
[05:31:50]  Sorry.
[05:31:51]  Do you think men are naturally stronger than women?
[05:31:54]  Yeah, absolutely.
[05:31:54]  I think biologically men have more muscle mass than women.
[05:31:58]  So that would naturally lead to them being stronger.
[05:32:02]  Well, yeah.
[05:32:03]  And actually, yeah, that's a really good point because women's bodies have naturally have to carry more fat because we're supposed to have babies.
[05:32:13]  And so we need fat to protect those organs.
[05:32:16]  One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, seven.
[05:32:23]  Yeah, like with the runway models, or like anybody not wanting to, women definitely need, like more fat on their bodies, or like how like um like, if you have multiple kids, sometimes your body just won't let you like lose weight because your body is like oh, you need to be able to have, like the next baby.
[05:32:55]  My tailbone is starting to give out I like severely injured it when I learned how to snowboard, so like it taps out like after three hours it starts like severely hurting your men.
[05:33:09]  I mean, I have really bad posture, so i'm like trying to sit up nice, but even if like, I rest, like it, it's just a tailbone.
[05:33:16]  It hurts when you're trying to set up.
[05:33:17]  So uh, I do have a question for you um so, with me being i'm 23 and I hear a lot, like just with women that are my age uh, that they're like oh, you need to live your 20s and then have a baby later on in your later 30s, where I want to have a kid in the next, like two, three years, when you do it sooner rather than later.
[05:33:39]  I didn't have my first kid till I was 20 I think I just turned 29 when she was born and then and then I was 31.
[05:33:49]  Then with my second.
[05:33:49]  They're 20 months apart um, and like it was just hard recovering.
[05:33:55]  Now I had to have c-section, so that also complicates things.
[05:33:59]  But you just, you see, like women who are younger, who start in their early 20s having kids, and they, like they lose the the baby fat so much faster yeah, their skin like goes back in so much quicker yeah um plus, you have the energy.
[05:34:14]  Yeah, the energy to work out is the biggest thing.
[05:34:17]  Everyone's just like live, like live your life.
[05:34:19]  I'm like girl, I partied when I was 21, like i'm 23 now, like i'm over it like yes, I want to have a kid next year.
[05:34:24]  Have like, if you've got that partner that you're in it to win it.
[05:34:28]  Like have kids because um, like I like going to the gym but I have to get up at 4, 30 in the morning to get it done before my kids start waking up.
[05:34:37]  Why does he give it to me now?
[05:34:38]  Why are we gonna give me a pizza to pass it?

=== Kids, Eczema, And Partner Safety (04:05) ===

[05:34:42]  Yeah, I feel like because it's you know, Nara Smith.
[05:34:45]  Yeah, she got.
[05:34:46]  That's why she gets back so fast.
[05:34:48]  Well, because she had her first kid when she's 20 and she has like, I think, five kids now.
[05:34:52]  Yeah, and she's like, she's so tiny.
[05:34:54]  She's tinier than like, but I also do.
[05:34:57]  That has to do with like.
[05:34:57]  She's diagnosed with really bad, severe eczema.
[05:35:00]  That's the whole reason she started her channel with making the food from scratch.
[05:35:03]  Oh really yeah, she has severe eczema.
[05:35:05]  So, um it.
[05:35:06]  That was like where the whole like no no, Nara Smith oh, the really pretty trad wife.
[05:35:13]  Something else too.
[05:35:13]  She has like lupus or something.
[05:35:15]  Yeah, so she's like a little.
[05:35:16]  Yeah, so she uses her hair information yeah.
[05:35:20]  So that's the whole reason why she started doing the from scratch series.
[05:35:23]  It wasn't just a, oh, I make this because I have the time and I'm a trad wife.
[05:35:26]  It's I need to for me and my kids because I have a condition.
[05:35:30]  So yeah, I think that also has to do with it too.
[05:35:33]  Yeah.
[05:35:33]  I feel like as long as you know you have a partner that's going to like, you want, you feel comfortable having a kid with them and that like you feel like you're ready to have a kid, that you should have it whatever you yeah.
[05:35:44]  Every time like I say that around people that are my age, they're like, you're crazy.
[05:35:47]  Like what are you saying?
[05:35:48]  And I'm like, why would I want to have a kid later on in life and then not be able to live what my 40s and 50s while they're in college?
[05:35:55]  Yeah.
[05:35:56]  Like there's life to live afterwards.
[05:35:58]  Yeah, exactly.
[05:35:59]  So like Rachel Wilson talks about how like her youngest is in high school.
[05:36:05]  So like she's written, you know, she wrote a book a couple years ago.
[05:36:08]  She is doing all the stuff she wanted to now.
[05:36:11]  She had her first kid at 20.
[05:36:12]  So she's had five kids.
[05:36:14]  Yeah.
[05:36:15]  And now she's in her late 40s and like she's done having kids.
[05:36:18]  Her kids are mostly grown.
[05:36:20]  Like I can't imagine.
[05:36:21]  My, you know, I've got 15 more years.
[05:36:24]  I was 19 when I had my oldest.
[05:36:26]  And like, yeah, I've struggled.
[05:36:28]  Yes, I've had to work my ass off.
[05:36:30]  But I, I honestly, I would, I wouldn't have it any other way.
[05:36:34]  Because when I'm 40, my kids are going to be like grown.
[05:36:38]  Yeah.
[05:36:39]  I feel like girls that are like, oh, I regret having kids, it's because they didn't, they didn't, they didn't ever want kids in the first place.
[05:36:45]  Right.
[05:36:45]  Where it's like, every time, like my sister, she had kids a little bit earlier, like in her later 20s, and she doesn't regret a damn thing.
[05:36:53]  I think, and I don't think that that is the case very often.
[05:36:57]  I don't think there's that many women out there going, I wish I never had my kids.
[05:37:00]  No, a lot of them.
[05:37:01]  A lot of them.
[05:37:01]  No, there's a lot.
[05:37:03]  Or like, oh, I wish I had them later.
[05:37:05]  I'm always like, don't have kids.
[05:37:07]  Yeah.
[05:37:07]  Don't have so many women are against like having kids.
[05:37:11]  They're like, I wish I would have just lived my life.
[05:37:14]  Yeah, they're like, I wish I lived my 20s.
[05:37:16]  Like, you should start having kids when you're like 28, 29.
[05:37:19]  I'm like, no, I want my third kid by the side of the kids.
[05:37:22]  Make sure that I want to have kids with this person.
[05:37:24]  Like, this guy's going to take care of me.
[05:37:27]  Yeah.
[05:37:27]  I think you need to make sure that the person that you're having kids with is like a safe enough person to do that.
[05:37:34]  Because it's like, I feel like I have a lot of child care help.
[05:37:36]  So it's like, take my advice with a grain of salt.
[05:37:38]  But like, I like being a young mom.
[05:37:40]  Yeah.
[05:37:40]  I think I'll be 44 when my son is 18.
[05:37:43]  Yeah, like my dad gives me a cross eye when I tell him I want kids in two years.
[05:37:46]  Like, I mean, he's my dad, obviously, but he's like.
[05:37:49]  I'm sorry.
[05:37:50]  And you said that how tired you are and stuff.
[05:37:53]  Honestly, I couldn't imagine having to change diapers right now.
[05:37:57]  I know.
[05:37:57]  I'm like at the end of potty training, but even though I'm all done with that.
[05:38:00]  My kids are 14, 10, and 9.
[05:38:04]  So I'm like, I'm all done with the diapers and potty training and all that stuff.
[05:38:11]  So thank you for the food.
[05:38:13]  I feel like if I had to do all that now, I would be exhausted.
[05:38:16]  I know.
[05:38:16]  I can't even imagine doing that at 35.
[05:38:19]  Like all I really want for my future is to find like a person who can play a good like support role to my kid as they get older.
[05:38:26]  But like diapers, no.
[05:38:28]  So we're just taking like a kid.
[05:38:30]  I don't miss it.
[05:38:33]  Yeah.
[05:38:35]  You want more kids?
[05:38:36]  No, we're done.
[05:38:37]  Yeah.
[05:38:37]  No, my husband, because he's 14 years older, you know, he, when we started dating and started talking about kids, his son was about to graduate high school.

=== False Promises And Straight Conversion (05:26) ===

[05:38:48]  And he said that like we didn't get married.
[05:38:51]  We got married like the month after his son graduated because he wasn't going to do that.
[05:38:55]  And then he was like, I want to be straight.
[05:38:58]  Face straight.
[05:38:59]  Stop.
[05:39:00]  I want to be done by the time I am 46 or something.
[05:39:03]  So he's like, time for me.
[05:39:05]  No.
[05:39:05]  No, I was just waiting.
[05:39:06]  Oh, okay.
[05:39:07]  Thank you for the food, by the way.
[05:39:09]  Yeah, thank you.
[05:39:11]  So if I eat, it's not going to like make wet noises in the park.
[05:39:14]  I mean, If you're chewing, be a little further back, I guess.
[05:39:20]  But yeah.
[05:39:22]  Okay.
[05:39:26]  All right.
[05:39:28]  Let's see where we were.
[05:39:29]  Let me hide that.
[05:39:30]  Don't need that.
[05:39:34]  All right, back to the nuts then.
[05:39:37]  Kaylee, you wanted to talk about dating toxic bums who made false promises.
[05:39:41]  What false promises?
[05:39:43]  So I was in a relationship where he told me right off the bat he had really bad social anxiety.
[05:39:51]  So I knew like going into it what he had.
[05:39:54]  But as we started dating and we started getting into serious conversations, like, hey, I'm moving to Chicago.
[05:39:59]  Do you want to come with me?
[05:40:01]  And our actual plans for the future, he started developing this thing where he was like, I'm going to get a job eventually.
[05:40:08]  So I started helping him get apply for jobs.
[05:40:11]  I basically did the whole thing for him.
[05:40:13]  I ended up getting him a job.
[05:40:15]  He ended up moving to Chicago with me.
[05:40:17]  And he would just have an excuse every single time about why he couldn't go to work.
[05:40:21]  Oh, well, I have social anxiety.
[05:40:22]  Oh, well, I want a job where I don't have to start.
[05:40:24]  I should just be making money right away.
[05:40:26]  Like, I don't want to be working for somebody else.
[05:40:28]  I want to work for myself.
[05:40:29]  Like, I could do crypto.
[05:40:30]  And it was just always these false promises of, oh, well, I'm going to do this.
[05:40:33]  No, my social anxiety will get better.
[05:40:35]  I will get a better job.
[05:40:36]  Like, I know I can do this.
[05:40:38]  I can make money.
[05:40:39]  It's just right now I don't want to.
[05:40:41]  So I ended up having to leave him and kick him out of my house because he just kept promising false promises and I had to kick him out.
[05:40:49]  Do you think it was just excuses?
[05:40:51]  He didn't.
[05:40:52]  He was fine talking to people at parties and stuff.
[05:40:54]  So what do you mean you have social anxiety?
[05:40:57]  And then the whole thing with like, he also was one of those people that would go on those like betting sites and like put in $500 but then lose $500.
[05:41:07]  And he would continuously do that and be like, well, I broke even.
[05:41:10]  Yeah.
[05:41:11]  On that day.
[05:41:12]  So it was just always just like false, like, oh, I'm going to do this.
[05:41:15]  I will get this.
[05:41:16]  And it's like, at the end of the day, I don't mind making a sacrifice where you don't have a job right now.
[05:41:21]  I'll put in some money.
[05:41:22]  But that needs to come to a stopping point at some point.
[05:41:24]  You wrote that, yes, dating in the rave industry and how toxic it is.
[05:41:28]  How so?
[05:41:30]  So in the Chicago rave scene, I got like a sneak peek of why you asked for pizza.
[05:41:37]  You take one.
[05:41:37]  Oh my gosh.
[05:41:38]  You didn't wait for me.
[05:41:39]  I could have had a lot of time.
[05:41:40]  I could have had that fucking slice.
[05:41:42]  So just being like, I mean, I guess it goes in any industry, whether it's the rapping industry, rave, EDM, whatever.
[05:41:48]  When you get into that scene, there's going to be those opportunities where you get to meet those people that can give you something and they're going to expect something in return.
[05:41:59]  And I met the wrong people and I met some really shady people that promised some like they were just in the industry.
[05:42:07]  So they're like, I can get you this.
[05:42:08]  I can put you here.
[05:42:09]  I can help you get here.
[05:42:11]  And then at the end of the day, they wanted sex or money or something in return.
[05:42:16]  And I just wasn't for it.
[05:42:18]  And it got into the point where they would do anything to get that, whether it was drugging you, whether it was taking advantage of you, anything.
[05:42:26]  So in that scene, it's just, it's different from the underground is different from actual clubs and venues because you don't, you're booking that venue, you're booking that venue and you know the people that are there.
[05:42:36]  When you're in the underground, you're setting up this random abandoned place for people to come and party.
[05:42:42]  Well, there's no real security there.
[05:42:43]  There's no real ID checking.
[05:42:45]  It's just a very toxic thing and you can get very wrapped up in it very quickly.
[05:42:50]  Okay, you're done with your pizza.
[05:42:52]  Pass the plate down that way.
[05:42:53]  I'll have Nathan collect your finished plates, those of you who are done.
[05:42:59]  So if you get offered to go to a rave.
[05:43:01]  Bro, motherfucker.
[05:43:03]  Do you want to eat it?
[05:43:04]  Damn, bro.
[05:43:05]  Why people asking for pizza?
[05:43:06]  I would.
[05:43:07]  I mean, it's domino.
[05:43:08]  Some people have it.
[05:43:10]  Yep.
[05:43:10]  Just.
[05:43:12]  If you get asked to go to a rave.
[05:43:13]  Damn, bro.
[05:43:14]  People be asking for pizza and then they'll be like, I didn't like it.
[05:43:17]  It wasn't good.
[05:43:18]  Domino.
[05:43:20]  Domino's sauce is weird.
[05:43:22]  I think so.
[05:43:22]  You're from Michigan, right?
[05:43:24]  I was style.
[05:43:25]  Oh, so like you, you're you.
[05:43:26]  Yeah, I understand.
[05:43:27]  You guys have different pizza out there.
[05:43:29]  It's different because I'm from Indiana, so I get it.
[05:43:32]  Our pizza has way more cheese.
[05:43:34]  Yes, I understand what you're saying.
[05:43:35]  Yeah, yeah.
[05:43:36]  Dude, too much cheese is fucking gross.
[05:43:38]  No, it's the sauce.
[05:43:39]  It's the sauce.
[05:43:40]  The sauce is fine.
[05:43:41]  No, Indiana sauce in Ohio is.
[05:43:45]  You're done pastors down, please.
[05:43:46]  Here, pass those down.
[05:43:49]  I'm going to nibble.
[05:43:50]  Here, we should have Tiffany do it.
[05:43:51]  Nathan, you take, you take the home.
[05:43:56]  This has water in it.
[05:43:58]  If you get invited to a rave, go.
[05:44:00]  But if you get invited back to Green Room, do not go.
[05:44:03]  Are you going to eat your pizza?
[05:44:04]  I'm nibbling, yeah.
[05:44:05]  Okay.
[05:44:06]  Is that okay?
[05:44:06]  Yeah, that's fine.
[05:44:07]  All right.
[05:44:08]  Mick, you always lose interest in the good ones and you tend to pick not great people.

=== Flat Earth Theories And Pizza Sauce (16:01) ===

[05:44:14]  You don't think you shape.
[05:44:17]  You don't think you should be allowed anymore.
[05:44:21]  Okay, why don't you elaborate?
[05:44:23]  Hold on, let's do some seat adjustments.
[05:44:25]  You guys have scooted.
[05:44:26]  I need you to scoot, scoot, scoot into frame.
[05:44:29]  Okay, go ahead.
[05:44:31]  So, like, I'll have an opportunity to be with like a green flag of a man.
[05:44:36]  Like, really great people, but I just like lose interest in them.
[05:44:40]  And then I choose the men with the red flags.
[05:44:44]  And I continually make those decisions.
[05:44:48]  So I said I shouldn't be allowed anymore.
[05:44:50]  I shouldn't be allowed to pick because you're going to pick the wrong.
[05:44:53]  Because I keep picking the wrong ones.
[05:44:55]  Same girl.
[05:44:59]  Yeah, I'm trying to see.
[05:45:00]  Yeah, you wrote in your notes, you don't know why, but you're attracted to the red flags.
[05:45:05]  You can't help yourself.
[05:45:06]  There are amazing men out there, and you still fall for the ones that treat you like shit.
[05:45:11]  Yes.
[05:45:11]  You haven't figured out why.
[05:45:13]  Yeah, I don't know why I picked them, but that's just a pattern I have noticed.
[05:45:19]  You think you could fix them?
[05:45:21]  It's not that I want to fix them, it's just I get bored with the green flags.
[05:45:26]  So you just like, you just like choose men that make you feel good.
[05:45:29]  Yeah, I'm like, maybe that's what they're doing.
[05:45:30]  They'll make her feel bad.
[05:45:31]  No, that like make her feel good in the moment, but it's not actually doing good.
[05:45:36]  Like earning their love feels good.
[05:45:38]  Yeah.
[05:45:38]  It's like it feels fun.
[05:45:40]  It feels like exhilarating.
[05:45:41]  Like you know it's kind of wrong, but like they're treating you so well, but like you just feel kind of special.
[05:45:46]  Yeah, like they're mean to everybody else.
[05:45:49]  They treat everybody else like shit.
[05:45:50]  So I'm like, maybe if I can get them to treat me.
[05:45:53]  Like it feels like everybody else.
[05:45:56]  No, maybe possibly.
[05:45:58]  Yeah, that's completely dysfunctional.
[05:46:00]  You should see a fucking therapist.
[05:46:01]  I was like a therapist for that.
[05:46:03]  I had the same issue, but it was more or less me thinking that I could fix them and being like, I could fix the hurt in them.
[05:46:11]  So, and then I realized once like you can't fix everyone.
[05:46:15]  Yes, they are.
[05:46:16]  What?
[05:46:16]  I don't understand this thing with women, this affinity for toxic, jerk, asshole, abusive men.
[05:46:25]  I do not understand that whatsoever.
[05:46:29]  I mean, I haven't dated anyone abusive, but as far as just like being talking about her.
[05:46:35]  Do you know what solipsism is?
[05:46:37]  Solipsism is when this idea that you stop.
[05:46:41]  Let me finish.
[05:46:42]  When people think that they're they used to think, well, this would be heliocentrism, heliocentric, when the sun was the center of the universe.
[05:46:52]  But solipsism is when you think you're the center of the universe.
[05:46:56]  So when I'm saying something like, I'm not saying all women.
[05:47:01]  I'm using speaking in generalities here.
[05:47:06]  I know.
[05:47:07]  I was speaking like about you.
[05:47:10]  Well, you were asking, so I was just saying.
[05:47:13]  Bro, I'm so fucking tempted.
[05:47:14]  I'm just putting in my input.
[05:47:16]  But it was her turn to talk.
[05:47:19]  She's barely said anything tonight.
[05:47:21]  It was clearly her conversational thread.
[05:47:24]  Shut up.
[05:47:25]  But it's like women do this thing where it's like, okay, women are attracted to tall men.
[05:47:33]  Well, I like short guys.
[05:47:35]  It's like, oh my God, yes, some women like short men.
[05:47:40]  Most women like tall men.
[05:47:51]  Like what?
[05:47:52]  Oh, my God.
[05:47:55]  Like, I'm trying to have an engagement right here for a little bit.
[05:47:59]  All right.
[05:48:01]  Okay.
[05:48:02]  So why are you all fucked up?
[05:48:08]  I don't know.
[05:48:09]  I just, I don't know.
[05:48:13]  Those are the ones that I pick because it's kind of like exciting.
[05:48:16]  And it's, it's boring when they're just 100% green flag, I think.
[05:48:25]  Oh, hold on.
[05:48:26]  Didn't mean to do that.
[05:48:27]  Yeah, that's completely dysfunctional.
[05:48:31]  And you're how old?
[05:48:32]  You're.
[05:48:32]  I'm 28.
[05:48:33]  You're 28.
[05:48:34]  Yeah.
[05:48:35]  So you like the bad boys, the jerks, assholes.
[05:48:38]  Have you ever dated a guy with a face with face tattoos?
[05:48:40]  Oh my gosh.
[05:48:41]  I drove two and a half hours to go on a date with this dude who didn't have a car.
[05:48:49]  He was a SoundCloud rapper.
[05:48:51]  No.
[05:48:52]  And then I found out that he believed in conspiracy theories.
[05:48:57]  Girl, I'm just gonna.
[05:48:59]  Oh, and conspiracy theories was the.
[05:49:04]  Wait, what about the face of that?
[05:49:05]  Is he even good at rapping?
[05:49:07]  No.
[05:49:07]  Girl.
[05:49:08]  I know.
[05:49:09]  I didn't know of this until I went out there.
[05:49:12]  That's where you drew the lines.
[05:49:14]  Was it cute?
[05:49:15]  Wait.
[05:49:16]  No, there's more.
[05:49:17]  So we went on a double date-ish.
[05:49:20]  So we went with his friends on a date, and one of his friends didn't have a date, and his friend that didn't have a date paid for everybody.
[05:49:27]  Wait, you went on a date with two dudes?
[05:49:30]  No, I went.
[05:49:31]  So I went on a date with one dude, and then his friend brought a date.
[05:49:35]  And then there was another friend there that paid for everybody.
[05:49:41]  So it was three dudes and two girls.
[05:49:44]  Yes.
[05:49:46]  Okay.
[05:49:47]  What does that have to do with anything?
[05:49:51]  I would have paid for the date.
[05:49:53]  I tried to pay for my portion of the date.
[05:49:55]  Okay, but so back to you preferring to date men with red flags.
[05:50:00]  Yes.
[05:50:02]  You drove two and a half hours to a guy who had face tattoos.
[05:50:07]  Yes.
[05:50:08]  Like how much of his face?
[05:50:10]  Like just a couple.
[05:50:11]  Neck tattoos?
[05:50:13]  Yes.
[05:50:13]  Hand tattoos?
[05:50:14]  Yes.
[05:50:17]  And then he was a SoundCloud rapper.
[05:50:21]  The conspiracy theory.
[05:50:22]  I mean, that's whatever.
[05:50:25]  I'm not.
[05:50:26]  That's not a big deal.
[05:50:29]  Did you fuck him?
[05:50:30]  No.
[05:50:31]  Really?
[05:50:32]  I'm a geologist.
[05:50:33]  I did not.
[05:50:34]  You're a G?
[05:50:35]  I'm a geologist, right?
[05:50:37]  And he believed in flat Earth.
[05:50:38]  And I was like, I can't do it.
[05:50:40]  He believed in flat earth.
[05:50:41]  Wait, you're a geologist?
[05:50:43]  Yes.
[05:50:43]  What did you say he believed in?
[05:50:44]  Did you say that at the intro?
[05:50:46]  Oh, must have missed it.
[05:50:49]  What did you say he believed in?
[05:50:50]  Flat Earth.
[05:50:51]  Oh, okay.
[05:50:53]  If he wasn't a flat earth earther, would you have fucked him?
[05:50:56]  No.
[05:50:57]  Really?
[05:50:58]  Really?
[05:50:59]  You drove.
[05:51:00]  I'm just, what, what were you looking for?
[05:51:03]  Was he in a wheelchair too?
[05:51:04]  Or is this his favorite?
[05:51:05]  That was a different one.
[05:51:07]  Okay, we'll get to that in a second.
[05:51:09]  But I'm just confused.
[05:51:10]  So it's like he was cute.
[05:51:13]  What were you hoping for, though?
[05:51:16]  Driving two and a half hours.
[05:51:17]  Like, what?
[05:51:18]  I was hoping he had a cool personality and we would like to.
[05:51:23]  There's not eligible men in your city, I guess.
[05:51:27]  It just seems like a lot of work, not gonna lie.
[05:51:29]  But to not fuck him, too.
[05:51:31]  I mean, look, obviously, I'm not saying you had to fuck him.
[05:51:33]  I'm just like, I if the guy's worth driving two and a half hours for, he should be worth fucking.
[05:51:42]  Like, I feel like, okay, fine.
[05:51:45]  The guy who lives 10 minutes away, he waits for the third date.
[05:51:50]  But if you're driving two and a half hours and he's not fuckworthy, well, I just met him.
[05:51:56]  You don't just like go meet somebody and fuck them.
[05:51:58]  Have you ever fucked somebody like that?
[05:52:01]  When I was younger, yeah.
[05:52:03]  Okay, so you do do it.
[05:52:05]  When I was like 21, maybe.
[05:52:08]  And you're 28, and how long ago was this?
[05:52:11]  Like six months ago.
[05:52:14]  Six.
[05:52:16]  I don't understand this.
[05:52:16]  So it's like on one hand, you're like, well, I'm more mature now, but I'm also going to date a guy with face tattoos.
[05:52:25]  That's why I said I shouldn't be allowed to make these decisions.
[05:52:28]  You probably shouldn't.
[05:52:29]  I charge $300 an hour to give personalized dating advice so people like you don't fuck their life up.
[05:52:37]  But yeah, if you want my services, yeah, but no date.
[05:52:44]  Yeah, I mean, that's ridiculous.
[05:52:47]  I understand this thing, though, on that topic of like, so you wouldn't have sex with a guy quickly now.
[05:52:55]  Now, okay, now, but in when you were young, you just right away.
[05:53:00]  Well, yeah, I guess.
[05:53:02]  That's such a raw deal for men.
[05:53:04]  Like, imagine, imagine, like, and I've, I've actually encountered this myself, like, with dating.
[05:53:10]  I remember one particular girl.
[05:53:12]  Um, part of me thinks it's like, are they that into you?
[05:53:16]  But the other thing, like, women do this for sure.
[05:53:19]  Uh, I remember one girl, it was like the third or fourth date, and she was like, oh, you know, I prefer to wait.
[05:53:25]  And I was like, and she's like, oh, yeah, a year ago, I fucked a guy right away.
[05:53:30]  I was like, and she was like, oh, but I really like you, Brian.
[05:53:34]  I think you're long-term.
[05:53:36]  And I'm like, so just to be clear, the guy who's a piece of shit, he gets the pussy.
[05:53:42]  But I'm the good guy, the guy you want to be in a relationship with.
[05:53:45]  And I don't get the reward.
[05:53:49]  So I'm your ideal boyfriend material.
[05:53:54]  I got to wait.
[05:53:55]  But the piece of shit, drug addict, fucking whatever, he gets to hit right away.
[05:54:01]  That's a fucking raw deal.
[05:54:03]  Imagine, imagine if men.
[05:54:06]  Imagine if a guy who was like, listen, I think I see long-term.
[05:54:10]  You could be my future wife.
[05:54:11]  You're wifey.
[05:54:13]  But you know what?
[05:54:14]  Because of that, I think I want to take things slow.
[05:54:18]  I don't want to get you gifts.
[05:54:19]  I don't want to take you on vacation.
[05:54:21]  I don't want to do these romantic gestures.
[05:54:23]  I don't want to protect and provide for you.
[05:54:26]  I want to wait until we're more established before I do that stuff, you know?
[05:54:30]  But the girl who I'm telling you, she didn't really matter.
[05:54:34]  I didn't care about her.
[05:54:35]  She was just fun.
[05:54:36]  She was just for fun.
[05:54:37]  I just wanted to fuck her.
[05:54:38]  She got the gifts.
[05:54:39]  She got the dates.
[05:54:41]  She got the vacations, but she was just for sex.
[05:54:44]  But my future wifey, my girlfriend, who I'm supposed to cherish, you get to wait for it.
[05:54:50]  I'm not doing any of that shit with you.
[05:54:52]  Y'all women would lose your fucking minds.
[05:54:54]  No, I've actually had a guy do that backwards.
[05:54:56]  Yeah, he was like, well, I feel like I've done this so many times.
[05:54:59]  Like, I've wasted so many resources, been on so many dates for no reason.
[05:55:02]  I don't want to ruin what we have.
[05:55:04]  And I was like, block, that's what we have.
[05:55:08]  Nothing.
[05:55:10]  I don't know, man.
[05:55:11]  I mean, like, it's a raw deal.
[05:55:13]  I feel like, shit.
[05:55:15]  If you fucked a guy within an hour.
[05:55:19]  Like, I take it back.
[05:55:20]  You shouldn't.
[05:55:20]  No, when I was younger, I feel like, you know, you can wait because, you know, you want to be in a good relationship.
[05:55:27]  But now that I'm older, it's like, okay, like, you've done stuff.
[05:55:30]  I've done stuff.
[05:55:31]  We're grown.
[05:55:33]  Sorry.
[05:55:33]  Yeah.
[05:55:35]  What were you going to say?
[05:55:36]  I was going to say, I take it back.
[05:55:37]  I might have hooked up with somebody like 24 hours after meeting them.
[05:55:43]  But they took me and my motorcycle to a bike meet on my birthday and drove like three hours to come to my house to pick me in the bike up.
[05:55:55]  And also, I'll pay for a first date, you know?
[05:55:58]  Because I feel like dudes pay for a lot of first dates.
[05:56:01]  I prefer paying for the first date now.
[05:56:04]  On the waiting for sex thing, though, and look, it's I want to be somewhat charitable.
[05:56:10]  It is a bit of a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
[05:56:12]  So it's like, okay, for example, if a woman used to do heroin, it's probably better she stops doing heroin.
[05:56:21]  Just because she used to do heroin doesn't mean she has to keep doing heroin.
[05:56:25]  In that same vein, if a woman is fucking guys super quick and that's not how she wants to like move, I understand it.
[05:56:36]  But and if a woman feels like it's a better way to move to kind of like, hmm, let's third date or longer even, I understand that.
[05:56:47]  But from the male's perspective, and if you want to fuck her and she likes you and you know she fucked another dude really quick, I'm like, who the fuck am I then?
[05:57:01]  I'm like, oh, okay.
[05:57:03]  So that douchebag that you fucked really quick, he like, who am I?
[05:57:14]  I don't know.
[05:57:15]  And so I don't know.
[05:57:19]  I feel like there's a better way to articulate this point.
[05:57:21]  That's a vague thing.
[05:57:22]  Yeah, like, so basically you think he's more deserving, or that's how it seems, that he's like more deserving of it, even though he's a piece of shit.
[05:57:33]  It just seems like a raw deal for the man.
[05:57:36]  Like, if that was on the table for that dude, I want it on the table for me.
[05:57:42]  Yeah.
[05:57:43]  Now, I don't know if that makes me a jerk or whatever, but I don't know.
[05:57:50]  Yeah, I feel like it's normal or it's ideal to have sex like within the first three dates.
[05:57:56]  I would, I mean, I'm a little bit like of a horndog.
[05:58:00]  Like, I like to have sex on the first date because I feel like that's my intention.
[05:58:03]  I'm like, yeah, I want you to fuck the shit out of me.
[05:58:05]  But that's just.
[05:58:06]  She's a slut and she knows it.
[05:58:10]  Here comes the whore.
[05:58:15]  Hey, no, look, I'm, I mean, the little soundboard things or whatever.
[05:58:19]  I respect it.
[05:58:19]  I respect it.
[05:58:22]  Yeah.
[05:58:23]  I mean, because you've, we've done so many things in high school.
[05:58:26]  I've had sex in a car in high school.
[05:58:28]  Okay.
[05:58:29]  So once like I've already like passed that threshold, I'm like, okay, like I'm going to give it up for my husband too, you know?
[05:58:35]  Like, I don't know.
[05:58:37]  I feel like if I'm like even on a date with you, like it means something.
[05:58:40]  Like we talked already.
[05:58:41]  We have enough substance.
[05:58:42]  We can fuck.
[05:58:44]  Is that why you have such high date standards?
[05:58:49]  I don't know, actually.
[05:58:52]  Well, I guess so, because I feel like I haven't been fucked in a long time.
[05:58:57]  So it's like, if I get fucked on this off occasion where I am getting fucked, I want to get fucked by a guy I like.
[05:59:05]  That's valid.
[05:59:06]  Yeah.
[05:59:06]  And like, you know, I like you.
[05:59:08]  We're talking, we're dating.
[05:59:09]  Okay, fuck me.
[05:59:12]  Sorry.
[05:59:13]  If you give away the milk for free, everyone will want free milk.
[05:59:19]  Like, no one wants to pay for something that they can get from somewhere else for free.
[05:59:26]  I don't know.
[05:59:28]  Like, imagine a man having a reputation for spending obscene amounts of money on women he had no interest in dating, just wanted to sleep with them.
[05:59:38]  But then when he dates you, he says he won't spend a dime on you until you prove yourself to him.
[05:59:46]  I think women would not accept this.
[05:59:49]  So, I don't know.
[05:59:53]  I don't know.
[05:59:54]  I feel guilty when they try to buy me things.
[05:59:57]  Okay.
[05:59:58]  Yeah.
[06:00:01]  It's kind of like, I don't know.
[06:00:04]  I don't know.
[06:00:05]  It just seems like women are leveraging the sex.
[06:00:10]  I don't know.
[06:00:11]  It seems like, I don't know.
[06:00:14]  Okay.

=== Toxic Relationships And Green Flags (04:00) ===

[06:00:16]  But you do date these toxic guys for whatever.
[06:00:21]  The guys who have green flags, you disregard them.
[06:00:27]  You don't find them attractive.
[06:00:30]  Mostly.
[06:00:32]  Valid girl.
[06:00:33]  Or like I'm not physically attracted to them.
[06:00:36]  So, like, no matter how many green flags they have, it's just like there's nothing there.
[06:00:41]  You have to have physical attraction, but are there men who are physically attractive who don't have the red flags and you're not attracted to them?
[06:00:49]  I mean, like, they're physically attractive, but not like they're not my type.
[06:00:55]  What's your type?
[06:00:56]  Abusive?
[06:00:59]  Apparently.
[06:01:00]  Um, I don't know.
[06:01:03]  I don't know if I have so dysfunctional, bro.
[06:01:07]  So dysfunctional.
[06:01:09]  Have you ever been with a guy that was at first toxic and then was like, you're the one, I'm going to treat you great, and you lost interest?
[06:01:19]  No.
[06:01:20]  They've always just been like just a little toxic in the beginning and then like it gets more toxic.
[06:01:26]  And I'm like, oh, and then I leave.
[06:01:29]  It normally doesn't get better.
[06:01:30]  No.
[06:01:31]  It gets worse.
[06:01:32]  Yeah.
[06:01:32]  Yeah.
[06:01:33]  Dysfunctional.
[06:01:35]  See a therapist.
[06:01:36]  Fix your problems.
[06:01:39]  Yeah, I don't know.
[06:01:40]  It's, I don't know if men operate this way.
[06:01:44]  I mean, obviously, toxic people can be drawn to each other, but it's like, wow, she's really kind and nice to me.
[06:01:53]  Nah.
[06:01:54]  Like, what?
[06:01:55]  I don't, I don't get that.
[06:01:58]  I don't know.
[06:01:59]  I think it's a woman thing.
[06:02:00]  Oh, yeah.
[06:02:01]  I feel like for sure.
[06:02:05]  Guys and girls like toxic people.
[06:02:07]  A lot of guys like toxic girls.
[06:02:10]  I think guys who don't have a lot of options or who have dysfunction in their own life might like toxic women.
[06:02:22]  But like some men will accept it or tolerate it out of necessity because they can't get higher quality women who treat them well, I guess.
[06:02:37]  What?
[06:02:38]  You disagree?
[06:02:40]  They can't get a higher quality woman.
[06:02:42]  Like we come out of a factory.
[06:02:48]  Okay.
[06:02:49]  It's true.
[06:02:52]  Yeah.
[06:02:52]  I mean, well, you know, it's like kind of like a little bit of a meme, I feel like.
[06:02:56]  Like guys make jokes about like women being toxic and like how they're like drawn to that all the time.
[06:03:02]  I want a girl a little bit.
[06:03:03]  Yeah, like when a girl's like a little crazy, like, you know, like when they can't go out with their boys, like, it's like a joke, you know?
[06:03:08]  It's a joke, but it's not.
[06:03:09]  It's real.
[06:03:10]  I mean, I think that's like super simp.
[06:03:14]  Like, I don't know.
[06:03:15]  That's that's weird for a guy to operate that way, but yeah.
[06:03:23]  This is more of a stereotype, though, in terms of women.
[06:03:26]  Like, you don't hear men like, I want the bad.
[06:03:29]  Well, women would say, uh, I like bad boys.
[06:03:33]  Yeah, and then guys will say, I like toxicas.
[06:03:36]  No, they fucking don't.
[06:03:37]  No, they don't.
[06:03:38]  They're just fucking, they can't get good women.
[06:03:43]  They date them out of necessity because they can't get a woman who treats them right.
[06:03:48]  I tried to treat a guy right one time, and he was like telling me, He was like, You're boring.
[06:03:53]  I was like, What?
[06:03:55]  He was like, Yeah, I like you're boring.
[06:03:56]  I like, I like girls that are a little spicy.
[06:03:58]  Yeah.
[06:03:59]  And I was like, Yeah.
[06:04:02]  Yeah, I mean, that's retarded.
[06:04:03]  I definitely have seen some really nice-looking guys who are like, I want a toxic girl that's going to be me.
[06:04:08]  Yeah.
[06:04:09]  And it's like, I think completely dysfunctional.
[06:04:12]  Just people who have problems are saying these things.

=== Racism Towards White Men In Dating (12:54) ===

[06:04:17]  Well, yeah, I think that's a basis for a lot of it, for sure.
[06:04:23]  Okay, but going back to your notes, Mick, you drove 2.5 hours to meet a man in the wheelchair.
[06:04:28]  You wheeled him around the mall, bought him a skateboard deck for when he recovers as a first date.
[06:04:34]  You caught feelings, you drove out to him multiple times and even spent the night in the ICU with him when he got a skin graft.
[06:04:40]  Yes.
[06:04:41]  His brother texted you one day and told you he gave away the deck, lied about the accident that put him in the wheelchair, and he had warrants.
[06:04:49]  Yes.
[06:04:49]  Did he have face tattoos?
[06:04:51]  No.
[06:04:52]  Neck tattoo?
[06:04:53]  No.
[06:04:54]  So, okay, what was the accident?
[06:04:56]  He got so he was on a motorcycle and he ran a red light going over 100 miles per hour and got T-boned.
[06:05:05]  Okay, so he was at fault, but he told you that somebody else was at fault.
[06:05:09]  Yeah, he told me that he was, it didn't like click at first, but he told me he was taking a left turn and he had a green arrow.
[06:05:16]  Okay, so he lied about that.
[06:05:17]  The only problem was that he was going over 100 miles per hour.
[06:05:21]  And it didn't click that, like, how are you going to take a turn over 100 miles per hour?
[06:05:28]  What did he have warrants for?
[06:05:30]  It was like not having a license in a different county and then like just stop signs and stuff.
[06:05:37]  And then he didn't go to the court dates.
[06:05:40]  Okay.
[06:05:41]  And then you wrote, your dumbass kept talking to him for like another month before you got sick of the lies.
[06:05:46]  Yeah.
[06:05:48]  He also told me stuff like he needed to go to the hospital and the ambulance wouldn't come get him because there was a DNR.
[06:05:56]  And I was like, that doesn't make any sense.
[06:05:59]  And he was like, I'll put you in my will and I'll give you all of my cars and bikes.
[06:06:05]  And that's when I was like, all right.
[06:06:09]  You also wrote that you were talking to one dude who was a walking green flag.
[06:06:15]  Yeah.
[06:06:16]  Total sweetheart treated you amazing, but you cut things off with him because you still had feelings for wheelchair man.
[06:06:22]  Yes.
[06:06:23]  And that wasn't fair to walking green flag guy.
[06:06:25]  Walking green flag guy deserved better and eventually found better.
[06:06:29]  Yes.
[06:06:31]  Okay.
[06:06:32]  Yeah.
[06:06:33]  And now he has an amazing girlfriend, and I like ruined that friendship and I can't be friends with you.
[06:06:38]  What?
[06:06:39]  What is like I could, but that would be really awkward.
[06:06:41]  What is the most down bad you've ever been for a guy?
[06:06:44]  Is it the wheelchair guy or even worse?
[06:06:47]  Tiffany, can you give me two water bottles, please?
[06:06:51]  What do you mean?
[06:06:52]  Like what?
[06:06:54]  Like, just the most desperate, like, cringe, I don't know, like, just doing way too much extra shit for a guy who just treated you like shit.
[06:07:06]  Well, recently, definitely Wheelchairman.
[06:07:09]  Oh.
[06:07:09]  Besides Wheelchairman.
[06:07:11]  My ex had sex with a prostitute in the bed that I bought for us, and then I got back together.
[06:07:19]  So we broke up for like a week, and then I got back together with him.
[06:07:22]  And then he would regularly go get like happy endings.
[06:07:26]  Oh, oh, my God.
[06:07:27]  So I would make him like get tested.
[06:07:29]  And then after a while, it was just, I was just done.
[06:07:33]  You never wanted to stab him?
[06:07:35]  Wait, you, whoa, wait, hold on.
[06:07:37]  Let me just recap.
[06:07:39]  You were dating a guy, you were living together?
[06:07:41]  Yeah.
[06:07:42]  And he would go out while you were together, living together, and sleep with prostitutes.
[06:07:48]  Yeah.
[06:07:48]  And you stayed with him.
[06:07:50]  Yeah, I would go home on the weekends and he would go sleep with prostitutes on the weekends while I wasn't home.
[06:07:55]  And he told you?
[06:07:56]  Yes.
[06:07:57]  He told me and his friends told me.
[06:08:00]  And you stayed with him for how long?
[06:08:03]  After the first time he did it, it was a solid like year.
[06:08:10]  Wait, so I'm just confused.
[06:08:11]  He was open about his prostitution usage.
[06:08:14]  Yes.
[06:08:15]  Blamed it on.
[06:08:16]  Were you sleeping with other men?
[06:08:17]  No.
[06:08:21]  On one hand, she's very ride or die.
[06:08:24]  I mean.
[06:08:27]  So.
[06:08:28]  Are you toxic at all?
[06:08:30]  I mean...
[06:08:31]  Are you clingy, needy, jealous?
[06:08:37]  I mean, only when I'm drink, but I would say, like, I'm more just, like, pay attention to me.
[06:08:44]  Like, pay attention, hug me.
[06:08:46]  Hang on.
[06:08:47]  If a guy doesn't text you back fast enough, do you get mad?
[06:08:50]  I'll pout about it for like 10 minutes, but then I'll get over it.
[06:08:55]  Okay.
[06:08:59]  That's way worse than the wheelchair guy, I think.
[06:09:01]  I mean, I don't.
[06:09:04]  Damn.
[06:09:05]  It's not just even like he's fucking like some college girl.
[06:09:09]  It's a fucking prostitute.
[06:09:11]  I know.
[06:09:12]  I was like, you had to pay to cheat on me.
[06:09:15]  That's crazy.
[06:09:16]  Were you not fucking?
[06:09:17]  No, we were.
[06:09:21]  Okay.
[06:09:21]  That's fucked up.
[06:09:23]  Once you get it.
[06:09:23]  Yeah, you should see a therapist, not gonna lie.
[06:09:25]  I don't even like therapy, but you should fucking see a therapist.
[06:09:28]  Did you still do anything with him after you found out?
[06:09:31]  Oh, can we clear the kids from the table, please?
[06:09:33]  Before I would do anything with him.
[06:09:35]  So even though the test came back or negative, but you knew he was sleeping with another prostitute, you would still have sex with him?
[06:09:41]  If he had sex with the prostitute, I would make him get tested and wait for the test results to come back to have sex with him again.
[06:09:49]  Okay.
[06:09:51]  On one hand, this is such a fucked up situation.
[06:09:55]  On the other hand, I would want a girl who stayed with me after I had a drug-fueled prostitution bang marathon, you know?
[06:10:06]  Like, you know what I mean?
[06:10:07]  So it's kind of ride or die, I guess.
[06:10:09]  Not that I want to ever fuck a prostitute, but you seem loyal, I guess.
[06:10:16]  Thank you.
[06:10:16]  To a fault.
[06:10:19]  Okay, Nicole, you're a stay-at-home mom who homeschools.
[06:10:23]  You remained a virgin until you were 27.
[06:10:25]  You married your husband, who's 14 years older than you.
[06:10:28]  You're a conservative Christian, Lutheran.
[06:10:32]  You think age gap relationships are fine.
[06:10:34]  You understand why men would want to get more established.
[06:10:37]  Yep, we talked about that.
[06:10:39]  We talked about the 19th.
[06:10:42]  You believe body count should include any sort of sexual activity with another person.
[06:10:49]  Like that OF girl who claimed to be a virgin a few shows ago.
[06:10:54]  Yeah, I feel like you got to factor in low jobs.
[06:10:59]  You know?
[06:11:00]  Like, she's a virgin, but she sucked 20 dicks.
[06:11:03]  Yeah, that's weird.
[06:11:04]  That's different with straight people.
[06:11:06]  Sex is sex.
[06:11:07]  yeah you touched them it's like are you uh yeah you write nicole Being a virgin should be associated with some level of purity of actions.
[06:11:24]  So it's like a girl who slept with one guy and that's it versus a girl who hasn't had intercourse, sexual intercourse, but sucked 100 dicks.
[06:11:40]  Where's that on the balance of purity?
[06:11:48]  Definitely the girl.
[06:11:50]  So with Christianity, you can have anal sex, right?
[06:11:54]  But it still doesn't.
[06:11:55]  You shouldn't have any sex.
[06:11:57]  You can't have anal.
[06:11:59]  As a Christian, you can't do anal sex.
[06:12:00]  Oh, I mean, you can do it.
[06:12:01]  Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[06:12:03]  Because the Bible says to give your body to your husband.
[06:12:06]  I think it might technically be sodomy.
[06:12:09]  I feel like, yeah.
[06:12:11]  I don't think technically Christians are supposed to engage in anal sex, even heterosexual anal sex.
[06:12:19]  She's like, oh, fuck.
[06:12:20]  Well, I don't, I don't.
[06:12:23]  I can't think.
[06:12:24]  I mean, I can't think of any passages that specifically say that.
[06:12:27]  There are passages that specifically say, yeah, within the context of like two men.
[06:12:33]  I know.
[06:12:33]  I'll have to Google it.
[06:12:34]  Yeah.
[06:12:35]  Christianity.
[06:12:36]  Oh, wait, hold on.
[06:12:38]  Christianity does not explicitly forbid or allow anal sex in the Bible.
[06:12:43]  Many interpret biblical principles on purity, wisdom, and avoiding unnatural relations, Romans 1, as advising against it.
[06:12:53]  There seems to be some back and forth here.
[06:12:58]  While not explicitly mentioned, some interpret verses in 1 Corinthians 6 and Hebrews 13 as warning against sexual acts viewed as immoral or unnatural.
[06:13:09]  So up for interpretation.
[06:13:14]  Yeah.
[06:13:15]  Isn't it Catholics like you can like sex is for the purpose of reproduction?
[06:13:24]  So if you're fucking a woman in the ass, she definitely can't get pregnant from that.
[06:13:29]  So it would be unnatural.
[06:13:31]  I don't know.
[06:13:32]  I'm not sure.
[06:13:32]  Yeah.
[06:13:33]  And in Islam, you can't go to heaven.
[06:13:35]  They say heaven's off the table.
[06:13:39]  For anal sex.
[06:13:40]  Yeah.
[06:13:41]  Oh, well, probably based on a different interpretation.
[06:13:44]  Well, and if you read like the Song of Solomon's in the Bible, it's pretty, the metaphors for a woman's body are very graphic.
[06:13:52]  So sex is not taboo within Christianity, but you're supposed to keep it within your marriage.
[06:13:59]  Right.
[06:13:59]  And there are verses that explicitly say, like, your body is to be your husband's and your husband's is to be yours, and you're never to deny each other access to that.
[06:14:08]  But I don't think it would a woman who's like in a Christian marriage who's like, I don't want to do anal sex, I don't think that would be in contradiction to the owing each other your body thing.
[06:14:22]  Sure.
[06:14:22]  Yeah.
[06:14:23]  I mean, yeah, because if you love your partner, you're not going to force them to do something that they're uncomfortable with.
[06:14:28]  Sure.
[06:14:29]  Yeah.
[06:14:30]  Okay.
[06:14:31]  Let's see here.
[06:14:32]  You know what?
[06:14:32]  Let's go back to the questionnaire for a little bit here.
[06:14:34]  Lexi, people of color can't be racist towards white people.
[06:14:38]  Yes.
[06:14:39]  How so?
[06:14:41]  Because they, white people have never been enslaved.
[06:14:46]  You sure about that?
[06:14:47]  Yeah, they have.
[06:14:47]  So do you know the etymology of the word slave?
[06:14:51]  No.
[06:14:51]  Slavic slave.
[06:14:53]  So the first slaves were actually white people.
[06:14:56]  And then there was the Barbary slave trade in parts of Europe where you had, is it Arabic or North African or Muslim slave traders, slavers?
[06:15:11]  They would abduct white people and that went on for, I believe, hundreds of years.
[06:15:17]  So yeah, white people have definitely been slaves.
[06:15:20]  Okay, well then I retract my statement.
[06:15:25]  Oh, okay.
[06:15:25]  So you concede then?
[06:15:27]  Yeah.
[06:15:29]  Well, so how about this though?
[06:15:32]  Can black people in the United States be racist towards white people?
[06:15:36]  Because you'd agree that black people, well, maybe somebody in the chat might say, wait, wait, let me just finish.
[06:15:45]  People in the chat might be like, Brian, you're actually wrong on this, but at least African Americans at no point in the United States history, African Americans did not make slaves of white people.
[06:15:57]  So can black people in the United States be racist towards white people?
[06:16:02]  I think that everyone can be prejudiced towards each other and racism definitely exists for both parties, like black and white.
[06:16:09]  Or, you know, if that's what we're going to go based off of, then yeah.
[06:16:12]  I think that racism exists in both.
[06:16:15]  Yes.
[06:16:16]  Racism.
[06:16:16]  Yes.
[06:16:17]  Okay.
[06:16:18]  Can Asian people, can Cambodian Latinas be racist towards African Americans?
[06:16:26]  Oh.
[06:16:28]  White people.
[06:16:29]  Me.
[06:16:30]  White people?
[06:16:33]  Well, I guess white people.
[06:16:35]  White people.
[06:16:39]  You know, I guess there's definitely some prejudice that we can have against each other, but.
[06:16:44]  No, racism.
[06:16:45]  Can you, a Cambodian Puerto Rican lady, be racist towards pale as fuck white guy, blue eyes?
[06:16:54]  Okay.
[06:16:55]  Can, yeah.
[06:16:57]  Well, I would say, yeah, you know, that's like if I had like a nail salon and I was like, no white people.
[06:17:03]  No white people.
[06:17:04]  Can you actually do the rest of the podcast?
[06:17:06]  Racist.
[06:17:07]  Wait, can you do the rest of the podcast with that accent?

=== Oppression Claims And Equal Rights (16:18) ===

[06:17:11]  No.
[06:17:11]  No, do it.
[06:17:13]  No.
[06:17:13]  Do it.
[06:17:15]  No, it'd be fun.
[06:17:16]  No.
[06:17:17]  Wow, lame.
[06:17:20]  Okay.
[06:17:21]  So let's see.
[06:17:25]  Alexi.
[06:17:26]  Yes, that's right.
[06:17:27]  Women do not have equal rights to men in the USA, to which you agree.
[06:17:30]  Why is that?
[06:17:32]  Well, women and men are not equal.
[06:17:36]  We have our own strengths and weaknesses, you know.
[06:17:39]  So I think we all have like, you know, different biases, I guess.
[06:17:47]  But what rights do men have that women don't?
[06:17:52]  Well, they have the right to be shirtless in public easily.
[06:17:58]  Is there anything else, though?
[06:17:59]  So I actually agree with you.
[06:18:00]  That's the only thing I ever cite to, but.
[06:18:03]  Yeah.
[06:18:03]  I mean, like, you know, it's like showing genitalia is like a lot more easy for a man to get away with it.
[06:18:10]  Absolutely not.
[06:18:11]  Yeah, like they can show their nipples.
[06:18:13]  And it's not that.
[06:18:14]  That's not genitalia.
[06:18:15]  I mean, well, if I was showing my nipples, it would be considered like genitalia or something, right?
[06:18:20]  It'd be a secondary sex attribute, but genitalia, I think, would refer to, I don't think bare breasts are genitalia.
[06:18:32]  That would be like your vagina.
[06:18:34]  Would it include the butthole?
[06:18:37]  But it wouldn't be your breast.
[06:18:39]  I don't know.
[06:18:39]  I don't think it would be.
[06:18:40]  Yeah, but in any case, but on that individual note, I think Like, if a man exposed his penis versus a woman exposing her vagina, it would be appraised like way worse the man doing that.
[06:18:56]  Like, that's way gonna be viewed way worse.
[06:19:01]  Well, I mean, it's kind of like you know, like when teachers have like relationships with like their students, like women and men both, like it's just not okay in general, right?
[06:19:10]  So I just don't think it's okay.
[06:19:11]  For example, I would put it like this: if there was like a woman who was just walking around the street naked and there were children around, people would be like, whoa, that's really fucked up.
[06:19:24]  Whereas I think, but maybe people call the cops on you and blah, blah, blah.
[06:19:29]  I think if there's a guy who's walking around naked and like a father is there with his kids, I could see a father like fucking maybe not murking the guy, but whooping his fucking ass.
[06:19:45]  Whereas I don't think like a woman would start beating on the naked woman.
[06:19:49]  I don't think a man would start beating on the naked woman.
[06:19:53]  So I think there are like the assessment would be a bit different.
[06:19:56]  Now in terms of like, would they both be arrested?
[06:20:00]  Probably.
[06:20:00]  Yeah.
[06:20:02]  Even then, the severity, typically women don't face as harsh punishments, but that's besides the point.
[06:20:10]  Beyond that, can you actually, and by the way, some jurisdictions, it is allowed for women to go topless.
[06:20:17]  There are some areas where women can go topless.
[06:20:20]  Ohio, I think you can go topless.
[06:20:23]  Yeah, but it's like, I'm all for it.
[06:20:25]  Free the titty.
[06:20:26]  But even women don't want to be walking around with their bare breasts out.
[06:20:31]  Most of them, anyways.
[06:20:33]  And if they do, I don't think men really would have a problem with it.
[06:20:38]  Let them breathe, I guess.
[06:20:41]  But besides that, is there anything else?
[06:20:43]  Anything in terms of because I mean, this, even though it's technically true, this seems very minor, right?
[06:20:51]  So women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.
[06:20:54]  Can you point to anything else?
[06:20:58]  Well, I think like even like politically, like men are just taken more seriously than women.
[06:21:03]  Like, like women, like, yeah, I mean, like, what's her name?
[06:21:07]  I forgot her name.
[06:21:09]  Kamala.
[06:21:09]  Yeah.
[06:21:10]  You don't even remember her.
[06:21:11]  I'm sorry.
[06:21:12]  Gosh, I'm not so political.
[06:21:14]  Women don't get taken seriously, but you're a woman and you don't recall.
[06:21:17]  I don't take politics seriously.
[06:21:19]  I don't really invest myself in them personally.
[06:21:23]  But I just find it somewhat interesting that you don't even recall the name of the yeah, all I remember about her is that she was a meme.
[06:21:31]  Like people clowned her for ages.
[06:21:34]  Like from the day that she even started her like campaign.
[06:21:38]  Right, but so do you think people don't take her seriously because she's a woman or yes, no, or because she was a dog shit candidate.
[06:21:46]  I think both because you know Bernie Sanders, like he was kind of stupid too, and people weren't clowning him as much as like they were clowning her.
[06:21:53]  Like there were like memes.
[06:21:55]  There's valid criticism.
[06:21:56]  Yeah, or even like, you know, Trump right now.
[06:21:58]  Like there's a lot of like memes that can be made, but it's not, it's not really going as viral as like Kamala.
[06:22:03]  Like her memes were like really.
[06:22:05]  Wait, Trump is the most attacked and maligned person in arguably the history of the world.
[06:22:15]  Like, I mean, perhaps absent some dictators in the mid-20th century, but this idea of like, I mean, like, even Diddy, you know, like, Diddy did some horrible things, but they're just like making a joke out of it.
[06:22:30]  It's just like, he's in jail.
[06:22:33]  Wait, I'm so confused.
[06:22:35]  What does Diddy have to do with it?
[06:22:37]  But okay, so women don't, you said women don't get taken as seriously, even granting this.
[06:22:45]  I mean, like, nobody really sees, like, uh.
[06:22:47]  Sorry.
[06:22:47]  Hold on.
[06:22:48]  What would that have to do with rights?
[06:22:52]  Even granting it's true, which I contest, but what does it have to do with equal rights?
[06:22:59]  Well, I just think, you know, women are probably never going to be president or a lot of things.
[06:23:05]  Is that true?
[06:23:07]  I definitely see it happening.
[06:23:09]  I think it'll happen in our lifetime.
[06:23:13]  I don't know.
[06:23:14]  Well, you would agree that a woman can be president, right?
[06:23:19]  There's nothing legally preventing her from being president, right?
[06:23:23]  Okay, so what is it?
[06:23:24]  In any case, even if the populace just, there's just better male candidates or whatever, or even if his sexism does exist in society, you would have to agree.
[06:23:36]  Are you okay?
[06:23:37]  Oh, I was just stimming.
[06:23:38]  Sorry.
[06:23:39]  What is that?
[06:23:39]  Sorry, you should have disclosed.
[06:23:41]  I mean, you should have disclosed it to me that you're stimming.
[06:23:45]  Yeah, it's just a thing with autism.
[06:23:47]  It's just like when I get, I just do like hand motions or things like that.
[06:23:50]  Okay, I mean, that's fine.
[06:23:51]  We'll do an uh, we'll do an accommodation, but to somebody who's not aware of your stimming.
[06:24:01]  I know, it looks like I'm yeah, I mean, yeah, it's a disability.
[06:24:05]  Uh, okay, but yeah, anyways, so sorry, I lost my train of thought.
[06:24:14]  Well, I think that men, um, like men's rights, like they're favored, I guess.
[06:24:22]  How so?
[06:24:23]  Like, um, people just love men.
[06:24:27]  Even if that was true, which I, again, I disagree with, you have things like the women are wonderful effect, where uh, people tend to give women a halo, whereas people, both men and women, are a bit apprehensive when it comes to men.
[06:24:40]  People assess men as more potentially as threats, whereas there's like for both men and women, there's a bias towards women.
[06:24:50]  Women have a strong in-group bias for other women, men have a slight out-group bias for women.
[06:24:57]  So, this idea that people love men, I'm not actually sure if that's true.
[06:25:04]  But in any case, though, even granting that, what does that have to do with rights?
[06:25:11]  I don't know.
[06:25:16]  So, can you name a right that a man has that a woman doesn't besides the topless thing?
[06:25:22]  No.
[06:25:23]  So, men and women, do how about this?
[06:25:25]  Do men and women have equal rights?
[06:25:28]  Um, I guess, okay.
[06:25:35]  Damn, I'm getting a lot of W's tonight.
[06:25:36]  Everybody's changing their mind on everything.
[06:25:39]  Um, uh, okay, let's see.
[06:25:42]  Hold on, uh, Kaylee, you think, oh, wait, you write women are oppressed in the USA and men are more privileged in society than women.
[06:25:52]  Those are two separate ones.
[06:25:53]  Do you agree with that?
[06:25:54]  Why is that?
[06:25:56]  Wait, I said that I agree that men are more you agree that women are oppressed in the USA and you think men are more privileged in society.
[06:26:07]  Yeah, so when my thing of oppressed is like what I think what it meant was like being oppressed is being like what did I literally asked you what it was and you told me being taken advantage of I wouldn't categorize being taken advantage of as oppression, but I'll give you the definition.
[06:26:32]  Thank you.
[06:26:35]  Hold on.
[06:26:36]  Prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control.
[06:26:42]  Oh, did they change it?
[06:26:50]  Yeah.
[06:26:53]  Can you repeat it?
[06:26:55]  Prolonged, cruel, or unjust treatment or control.
[06:26:59]  So what I circled was saying that women go through the cruel is what I was saying and when I circled that uh so the statement is women are oppressed in the USA and you circled it.
[06:27:11]  So going through like the definition that you said the cruel and yeah so typically this would mean like from the state down like there's something in in the government or society that is cruel or unjust to women.
[06:27:34]  So like for example dating an abusive guy would not be oppression.
[06:27:43]  Okay.
[06:27:44]  You've been in an abusive relationship.
[06:27:47]  You might have been abused, but I don't think you would it would fall under the purview of oppression.
[06:27:52]  Okay.
[06:27:53]  So then no, I wouldn't agree with that.
[06:27:57]  Okay, so you just thought it was women are poorly treated or yeah, I didn't understand the definition of it.
[06:28:02]  Okay.
[06:28:03]  And then, well, I'm going to skip that one then.
[06:28:07]  Lexi, wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.
[06:28:12]  Why is that?
[06:28:13]  Well, because if the girl is saying no, you can't have sex with me, I'm assuming that there's a reason why she said no.
[06:28:20]  You know, so there's probably an issue that you have to fix in your relationship and then you can have sex.
[06:28:25]  That's how you see it as.
[06:28:26]  Seriously.
[06:28:26]  I used to say no to my ex all the time.
[06:28:28]  I'd be like, no, we can't have sex.
[06:28:30]  You pissed me off today.
[06:28:31]  And we talked about this issue multiple times.
[06:28:33]  So I'm not going to give you what you want.
[06:28:34]  You can't give me what I want.
[06:28:37]  Before I respond to that, Jennifer, you also agree.
[06:28:41]  Why is that?
[06:28:44]  Oh, with the question you just asked.
[06:28:46]  Yeah, wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.
[06:28:50]  You know, I 100% agree.
[06:28:52]  Like, why wouldn't I?
[06:28:53]  Like, no means no.
[06:28:55]  If I don't want to have sex with you today, I don't have to have sex with you today.
[06:28:59]  Like.
[06:29:00]  Right, but it's not a question about consent.
[06:29:03]  We all agree that consent is, what's the right word?
[06:29:10]  100% necessary.
[06:29:13]  But you're okay.
[06:29:15]  The statement, once again, wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.
[06:29:22]  So why?
[06:29:23]  Because the relationship shouldn't just be based on sex.
[06:29:26]  It should be like based off of like how you guys connect, like energy-wise, like what you guys bring to the table.
[06:29:34]  Okay, so if I was dating a girl and I was doing nothing wrong and she just like completely for six months, she didn't want to fuck, I'm in the wrong for wanting to dump her.
[06:29:50]  Yeah.
[06:29:51]  Why would I be in the wrong?
[06:29:55]  Because well, I guess that's like your preference, but it's just like that shouldn't be the reason why like somebody gets dumped for it for not wanting to have sex.
[06:30:05]  Like people have like religion is a thing.
[06:30:09]  Like some people can't like have sex like before marriage, you know?
[06:30:12]  Like but so yeah, religion is a thing, but I mean, I'm not making a religious argument on this.
[06:30:22]  If also it's sort of implied in the question, if the man is being turned down for sex, he's clearly not waiting until marriage for sex.
[06:30:33]  So he wants to have sex.
[06:30:36]  So it's baked into the question.
[06:30:38]  Would probably not apply to a relationship where both people are waiting for marriage.
[06:30:44]  So, putting that thing aside, if I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman and she's expressed an expectation that I'm monogamous to her and she all of a sudden stops having sex, what would be actually be wrong with me dumping her?
[06:31:09]  Am I is it okay for me to cheat on her then?
[06:31:11]  What's worse leaving her?
[06:31:16]  Because it would be better for me to stay with her and cheat on her than to dump her.
[06:31:26]  No, I just said that like it's better if you if you just dump her than to cheat on her, right?
[06:31:32]  But so what would be wrong would it be wrong for a woman to dump her boyfriend if he just decided to stop paying the bills?
[06:31:44]  For example, Lexi here, she wants a guy to pay all the bills.
[06:31:47]  What if he just decided to stop doing that?
[06:31:50]  Would it be okay for her to dump him?
[06:31:59]  Why would that be okay?
[06:32:05]  Because that's like your preference.
[06:32:11]  Like if you if you like if he's coming to the table and saying that I'm gonna do this, then he should keep his word.
[06:32:20]  So if a girl asks me to be her boyfriend and there's an implication of monogamy, meaning I can only have sex with her and she was previously providing sex, She's not holding up her end of the deal.
[06:32:49]  Okay.
[06:32:52]  Are you laughing because you realize you're wrong, or are you laughing for another reason?
[06:32:59]  Well, in a way, I guess I am wrong because at the end of the day, it's a preference.
[06:33:04]  If you want your relationship to be about sex and it's a problem when it stops happening, then would you be happy in a sexless relationship?
[06:33:13]  Like, you want to fuck, but your boyfriend's like, nah, I'm good.
[06:33:17]  Would you tolerate that?
[06:33:19]  I would definitely question.
[06:33:22]  Okay, me personally, I have a high sex drive, so no.
[06:33:29]  Like, I would not.

=== Rejected Sex And Pegging Vibes (13:09) ===

[06:33:30]  Have you ever been, have you?
[06:33:31]  Has a guy ever rejected you for sex, like a boyfriend?
[06:33:35]  Rejected me for sex?
[06:33:36]  Like, said no to sex?
[06:33:38]  Yes.
[06:33:38]  No?
[06:33:40]  That's funny.
[06:33:42]  Would you be bent out of shape if a guy turned you down?
[06:33:47]  And you want, you really wanted to fuck.
[06:33:50]  And the guy's like, nah.
[06:33:52]  Like, yeah, like, I would just be like, I would just be like, damn, okay.
[06:33:56]  Like, I'm not gonna, like.
[06:34:00]  Like, are we talking about like a random guy or like boyfriend?
[06:34:04]  Could be your boyfriend, yeah.
[06:34:09]  Now, let's say he doesn't actually go ahead and answer the question.
[06:34:13]  Like, if it was my boyfriend and wait, I'm so sorry.
[06:34:20]  Repeat that?
[06:34:21]  Like, this is so funny.
[06:34:22]  She can't even comprehend the idea of being sexually rejected.
[06:34:29]  She doesn't even, she can't even comprehend it.
[06:34:32]  It doesn't even compute for her.
[06:34:36]  And yet she has an objection to a man dumping his girlfriend for regularly turning him down for sex.
[06:34:46]  Women don't like taking L's.
[06:34:48]  Like women will be really bent out of shape if the guy turns them down for sex.
[06:34:54]  But okay, how about this?
[06:35:03]  Your boyfriend doesn't fuck you for three months.
[06:35:05]  Are you staying with him?
[06:35:08]  I can go that long.
[06:35:11]  Like, yeah.
[06:35:12]  Depends on the reason.
[06:35:13]  It depends on the reason, I guess.
[06:35:15]  I don't know.
[06:35:16]  You just haven't been acting right recently.
[06:35:21]  Like, and he's just jerking it to porn.
[06:35:23]  So you know he can get up.
[06:35:25]  He's just jerking it to porn.
[06:35:27]  Well, then he's cheating.
[06:35:29]  I mean, that's not technically cheating.
[06:35:31]  I mean, porn is men shouldn't watch porn in a relationship or if he has the sexual energy to bust a nut to something else, but he just doesn't want to do it to me.
[06:35:41]  On the low, he's cheating.
[06:35:43]  He has to be.
[06:35:44]  So women can also have the sexual energy to fuck, but they could be turning down their boyfriend because, like Alexi said, oh, he's just not acting right.
[06:35:54]  Yeah.
[06:35:55]  Also, even look.
[06:35:57]  Well, I just.
[06:35:58]  Just to be clear, this is within the context of consent, right?
[06:36:02]  Even if your boyfriend like pissed you off that day, like you could still fuck him.
[06:36:08]  Well, maybe that'll make things better.
[06:36:10]  I don't know.
[06:36:11]  If he pissed me off about that one certain thing for like repeatedly for like months, I'm not going to have sex with him after he's that one thing to me.
[06:36:18]  But I would have sex with him if he did something else completely like never happened before.
[06:36:23]  He pissed me off that day.
[06:36:23]  It's okay, whatever.
[06:36:24]  I'll suck your dick.
[06:36:26]  But yeah.
[06:36:27]  If it's like a continuous problem, like you need to learn your lesson.
[06:36:31]  And just to be clear, look, I've had girl, like a girlfriend will piss me off and she's all like, oh, let me make it up to you.
[06:36:37]  I'm like, nah, go away.
[06:36:39]  Like, so I get it.
[06:36:40]  I'm not saying like, if you're upset with your partner, you don't have to fuck him.
[06:36:44]  Yeah.
[06:36:45]  Maybe I can make it better, you know, honestly.
[06:36:47]  But I've definitely like turned down my girlfriend before if she's just fucking annoyed me or something.
[06:36:51]  And she's like, can I make it better?
[06:36:53]  It's like, nah, just go in the other room.
[06:36:55]  You know, like, but I guess what I'm getting at here is like, yeah, okay.
[06:37:01]  You're adding these qualifiers of, oh my God, the boyfriend's not acting right.
[06:37:06]  So yeah, of course I don't want to fuck him.
[06:37:08]  What about in this situation though?
[06:37:10]  The boyfriend's not doing anything wrong, as far as we know.
[06:37:14]  The girl, maybe they've been together for three years and she's just, I don't know, maybe she lost a little bit of attraction, but he's otherwise the same exact guy.
[06:37:24]  Her sex drive diminished, whatever.
[06:37:28]  Let's assume the guy's not doing anything wrong.
[06:37:30]  He wants to have sex.
[06:37:33]  And maybe she fucks once a month, but he wants to fuck five times a week.
[06:37:41]  It's been three months and she's only fucked him three times.
[06:37:45]  Is it wrong for him to dump her?
[06:37:49]  I mean, they should communicate about it.
[06:37:51]  And like, assuming there's been like a communication and she's still like not, you know, having sex, then yeah, he should dump her because they're obviously not compatible.
[06:37:59]  Exactly.
[06:37:59]  I'm not saying I would disagree with you that he should dump her.
[06:38:04]  That's a determination that a man can make.
[06:38:07]  But I don't think it's wrong if he does.
[06:38:09]  Like he could opt to stay in the relationship.
[06:38:12]  Okay, maybe she's going through some shit.
[06:38:14]  We can work it out.
[06:38:16]  Men also go through phases where they might not be.
[06:38:19]  Maybe they're going through stress or they have an injury or something and their sex drive is lower.
[06:38:26]  If there's like a valid reason, like let's just say she's going through chemo or something, then obviously that's going to mess up if he were to dump her.
[06:38:33]  Sure.
[06:38:34]  But I think, like, if she's otherwise healthy and she's not having sex with him as frequently as possible and he talks about it and she's not willing to, you know, perhaps make a change.
[06:38:47]  There can be a compromise, but she won't even compromise.
[06:38:50]  I don't actually.
[06:38:51]  I think people look can break up with somebody for any reason or no reason at all.
[06:39:00]  People reserve the right to break up with anyone for any reason.
[06:39:06]  I'm just, oh, I just don't really, I don't know.
[06:39:08]  I want to date other people.
[06:39:09]  How about that?
[06:39:10]  You didn't do anything wrong, but I want to date other people.
[06:39:15]  I don't think that's wrong.
[06:39:16]  Do you?
[06:39:20]  I mean, if that's your desire.
[06:39:23]  Yeah.
[06:39:24]  All right.
[06:39:25]  Let's see.
[06:39:26]  What else is there?
[06:39:28]  I'm not going to do everything on the questionnaire.
[06:39:31]  Let's see.
[06:39:34]  A woman, Jennifer, a woman should not be rejected because of her weight.
[06:39:38]  Why is that?
[06:39:40]  A woman should not be rejected.
[06:39:46]  I circled that?
[06:39:48]  Yeah.
[06:39:50]  It was an accident.
[06:39:52]  I think I completely misunderstood that because maybe you accidentally.
[06:39:57]  Yeah, no, I definitely think that's totally fine.
[06:40:00]  Totally fine.
[06:40:00]  That's valid.
[06:40:01]  Yeah.
[06:40:01]  Nothing there then.
[06:40:04]  Oh my gosh.
[06:40:05]  Yeah, she was like, that is not that girl that she likes chubby guys.
[06:40:11]  Yeah.
[06:40:12]  Yeah, you were like, you're making him unhealthier?
[06:40:15]  No.
[06:40:17]  I'm sorry.
[06:40:18]  All right.
[06:40:19]  Let's see what else we can blast through here.
[06:40:23]  Let's do the bout video.
[06:40:25]  Let's do the bow video.
[06:40:26]  I want to see.
[06:40:27]  All right.
[06:40:28]  So this is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend and I dumped her, but this is really toxic.
[06:40:35]  But what I do is, I don't, like, I like to make things easy for myself.
[06:40:43]  So I recorded a tutorial video to show to new women.
[06:40:51]  And like, you should do this.
[06:40:55]  You will get blocked so quick.
[06:40:59]  I admire like the dedication.
[06:41:01]  I don't.
[06:41:02]  I would be like, bro, someone took the time to do this.
[06:41:05]  It's like when you get a list of like your pros and cons.
[06:41:08]  Yeah.
[06:41:09]  But is there room for you guys to scoot this way a little bit?
[06:41:13]  Or just you three?
[06:41:14]  Scoot that way, scoot that way.
[06:41:16]  Oh, yeah.
[06:41:18]  Scoot, Thank you.
[06:41:23]  All right.
[06:41:24]  And like scoot into the table.
[06:41:26]  Perfect.
[06:41:27]  Scoot in, scoot in.
[06:41:28]  All right.
[06:41:29]  That's mostly good.
[06:41:31]  Okay.
[06:41:32]  I almost, hold on, let me adjust.
[06:41:36]  All right.
[06:41:38]  So, yeah, I took this video of my ex-girlfriend so that I could show it to new girlfriends so they knew how to act.
[06:41:47]  Like a tutorial video.
[06:41:48]  All right, go ahead and play it.
[06:41:50]  Yeah.
[06:41:51]  All right.
[06:41:52]  Boom.
[06:41:53]  Huge bow.
[06:41:54]  She's got a bow as soon as I get home.
[06:41:55]  This was after a long podcast recording.
[06:41:58]  And yeah, you know, laundry right away.
[06:42:03]  And then she has my dinner ready.
[06:42:05]  As soon as I get home, the scampering, skimpering, scampering.
[06:42:09]  That's always good.
[06:42:10]  Cracks open a beer for me.
[06:42:13]  Stirs my noodles.
[06:42:15]  I dumped her.
[06:42:16]  You see those raw tomatoes in the bottom right?
[06:42:18]  That's actually why I dumped her.
[06:42:19]  Like, who the fuck eats raw tomatoes?
[06:42:22]  Disgusting.
[06:42:23]  I do.
[06:42:24]  And then I like to add Chinese skip to the end again.
[06:42:31]  Play it.
[06:42:33]  I add Chinese characters to my videos too, just to really play the bow part just at the beginning.
[06:42:43]  At the beginning.
[06:42:45]  Boom.
[06:42:46]  Huge bow.
[06:42:47]  Do you see the submissive hand posture?
[06:42:48]  Deep, good depth.
[06:42:49]  It could be.
[06:42:50]  You know, yeah, it could definitely be lower and straighter.
[06:42:53]  You know, it could be lower.
[06:42:55]  She should kiss your feet.
[06:42:56]  And she should be praying to you to bless you.
[06:42:58]  Yeah.
[06:42:59]  Yeah.
[06:43:00]  What is she doing?
[06:43:01]  She's holding on to herself.
[06:43:02]  She's holding on to herself.
[06:43:04]  She doesn't care about you.
[06:43:04]  She cares about her.
[06:43:07]  She needs to kiss your feet.
[06:43:08]  She should have your shoes off.
[06:43:09]  She should have taken my shoes off for me.
[06:43:12]  Yeah, she should have been holding you.
[06:43:13]  She should have been holding your hand instead of holding herself.
[06:43:16]  She needs a fresh pair of socks for you to step into.
[06:43:19]  Yeah.
[06:43:20]  So what do you guys think?
[06:43:21]  Would you do that for a guy?
[06:43:22]  He did towel on the floor.
[06:43:24]  Yeah, she's lacking.
[06:43:26]  Would you do that for a guy?
[06:43:28]  Yeah, I would.
[06:43:29]  I've done a lot of things for a man.
[06:43:31]  Yeah, I'd do that.
[06:43:32]  Wait, let's fix the mics.
[06:43:33]  Can you?
[06:43:34]  Yeah.
[06:43:35]  I mean, yeah, but I'd be like, I wouldn't want you to like film it and play it for like behind closed doors.
[06:43:49]  I wouldn't want it too much.
[06:43:50]  Like, why are you filming this room just to be room?
[06:43:54]  Oh, my God.
[06:43:56]  Okay.
[06:43:56]  All right.
[06:43:57]  What about you?
[06:43:57]  Would you do that for a guy?
[06:43:59]  I do that for my boyfriend now.
[06:44:01]  Like, I have dinner ready for him when you come to me.
[06:44:02]  Do you do the bow, though?
[06:44:03]  I'm talking about the bow.
[06:44:04]  I mean, fuck yeah.
[06:44:05]  I'll be like, good morning, sir.
[06:44:07]  Okay, W.
[06:44:08]  No.
[06:44:09]  Would you do it for a woman?
[06:44:10]  Sorry.
[06:44:10]  Yeah, probably.
[06:44:12]  But, like, she better not film it.
[06:44:13]  Oh, yeah, yeah, of course.
[06:44:14]  Yeah.
[06:44:14]  Yeah.
[06:44:15]  Don't film it.
[06:44:15]  But that was just for instruction purposes.
[06:44:18]  Absolutely.
[06:44:19]  Yeah.
[06:44:19]  Yes.
[06:44:20]  Oh, okay.
[06:44:21]  Well, true love.
[06:44:22]  Nothing to argue with then.
[06:44:24]  Nothing to argue with.
[06:44:24]  We're too agreeable.
[06:44:25]  We need to, like, I'd wear a white.
[06:44:28]  We're just a group of submissive women.
[06:44:31]  Okay, Lexi.
[06:44:31]  Okay.
[06:44:32]  A man's worst nightmare.
[06:44:34]  I bet Lexi pegs her boyfriend.
[06:44:37]  Okay, I'd be down for pegging.
[06:44:38]  Lexi's like, oh, I'm such a submissive woman.
[06:44:41]  No, she probably yells in Cambodian and Spanish at the same time to her boyfriend.
[06:44:46]  She probably whips him.
[06:44:48]  She takes her belt off when she gets home.
[06:44:50]  She fucking whips him.
[06:44:51]  She bends him over and just spanks him.
[06:44:53]  She's, well, that's okay.
[06:44:55]  Hold on.
[06:44:55]  This is getting a little fucking ridiculous.
[06:44:59]  What else do I do?
[06:45:01]  Have you pegged a guy?
[06:45:02]  I've never.
[06:45:02]  You seem like I've never pegged a man.
[06:45:05]  I get pegging vibes from you, to be honest.
[06:45:07]  I have never pegged a man.
[06:45:09]  And I've only had anal once.
[06:45:11]  Wow.
[06:45:12]  Thank you for sharing that.
[06:45:14]  Just putting it out there.
[06:45:15]  Okay.
[06:45:16]  I have a button for this.
[06:45:18]  That's why I stick to anal sex.
[06:45:20]  Can't get pregnant, you know?
[06:45:22]  Fair.
[06:45:28]  It's because I don't really like butt stuff, okay?
[06:45:31]  I'm not really the biggest fan.
[06:45:32]  I mean, I would do it if I'm really attracted to the guy that I'm with because it's like he's doing it to me.
[06:45:37]  It's like, oh my God, what are you doing to me, crazy man?
[06:45:41]  But yeah.
[06:45:45]  All right.
[06:45:46]  I love that for you, Lexi.
[06:45:48]  I love that for you.
[06:45:49]  You know, like, my butt is my new virginity.
[06:45:52]  I'm only going to let my husband have it.
[06:45:56]  I'm saving my ass.
[06:46:00]  I'm saving my ass.
[06:46:02]  As you should.
[06:46:03]  I can't stop.
[06:46:04]  Stop it.
[06:46:09]  Jeez.
[06:46:09]  Okay.
[06:46:10]  Alyssa here next to me.
[06:46:12]  You in your Instagram profile, it says hashtag supermom.
[06:46:16]  Hashtag single mommy life.
[06:46:20]  What is a super mom?
[06:46:21]  What's a super mom, Alyssa?
[06:46:23]  A super mom is just basically a mom that does it all on her own, I guess.
[06:46:30]  Cooking, the cleaning, taking kids to school, the laundry, homework, the driving, the working.

=== Polyamory, MILF Tags, And Saving Ass (10:08) ===

[06:46:40]  Okay, and you also in your Instagram bio, it says cancer moon goddess.
[06:46:44]  What the fuck?
[06:46:47]  What is that?
[06:46:48]  I'm a cancer moon sign.
[06:46:51]  So I'm cancer moon, cancer sun.
[06:46:53]  I'm Capricorn Rising.
[06:46:55]  I'm sorry.
[06:46:56]  And I'm Capricorn Rising.
[06:46:59]  Yeah, I'm just, I, um, I like astrology.
[06:47:02]  I'm really into like the moon energy and stuff.
[06:47:05]  And I have the moon and both my moon and sun signs.
[06:47:10]  So I'm like really feel like connected to the moon.
[06:47:14]  I love that for you.
[06:47:16]  Slay queen.
[06:47:17]  You dated a guy over the summer and he ended up ditching you for an older lady because he turned out to have mommy issues.
[06:47:23]  Oh my gosh.
[06:47:24]  So wait, you're 33?
[06:47:26]  Yeah.
[06:47:26]  How old was the woman?
[06:47:28]  She was like 46.
[06:47:30]  Was she Waysian?
[06:47:33]  She wasn't that good looking at all, honestly.
[06:47:36]  I don't understand what, I don't know.
[06:47:38]  It was really weird.
[06:47:41]  Damn.
[06:47:42]  And yeah, I don't know.
[06:47:43]  Wait, I have a question.
[06:47:44]  Wait, he cheated on you or he just left you?
[06:47:46]  No, we actually never were in a relationship.
[06:47:49]  Like we just basically dated, hung out for three months.
[06:47:53]  Carnal knowledge?
[06:47:54]  Yeah.
[06:47:55]  Like we were like trying to get to know each other and like thought it was gonna be a relationship, but he got really weird two times and then he tried to come back both times.
[06:48:07]  Wait, so he had like a MILF thing?
[06:48:10]  Yeah, he had a MILF.
[06:48:12]  The woman before me, she was also, she was like in her 50s and not good looking.
[06:48:19]  And I just was he like weird in bed?
[06:48:22]  No.
[06:48:22]  Like he wanted to suckle at the teat?
[06:48:27]  No, not like that.
[06:48:28]  He was pretty normal.
[06:48:30]  It's just he definitely had a thing for older women and he couldn't even really admit it.
[06:48:36]  So because I, you know, called him out on it and he was like, well, the other, I didn't even know she was older because she's on hormone therapy.
[06:48:44]  She's a hormone therapy doctor.
[06:48:47]  So she looks really young.
[06:48:48]  And I'm like, and when I went to her page, I'm like, she does not look young.
[06:48:54]  She looks 46.
[06:48:55]  She looks her age.
[06:48:57]  No.
[06:48:57]  That's okay.
[06:48:58]  And that's fine, but he was trying to lie about it.
[06:49:02]  Like being like, you're into older women.
[06:49:04]  It's okay.
[06:49:07]  I guess question for the panel on this.
[06:49:10]  Would you prefer, like, if a guy dumps you, would you prefer if the next girl he got with, even if it's like he got with her pretty quick after?
[06:49:21]  Yeah, like right after?
[06:49:22]  We went to southern Ohio together for a work trip.
[06:49:25]  It was a work trip slash vacation for him.
[06:49:28]  I went with him.
[06:49:29]  We went down on the motorcycle.
[06:49:32]  And a week later, like we got back, he got weird again.
[06:49:37]  I already knew like he, I don't know, just didn't have interest anymore or whatever.
[06:49:41]  And then, you know, a week later, he messages me and says, I got some karma.
[06:49:48]  You might be interested in hearing it.
[06:49:51]  And I was like, okay, so I called him.
[06:49:54]  I was like, bet.
[06:49:56]  what is it?
[06:49:57]  And he was like, did you just say bet?
[06:49:59]  Yeah.
[06:49:59]  Yeah, I did.
[06:50:01]  So funny, it must be an Ohio thing.
[06:50:03]  We're too old for bet.
[06:50:05]  Yeah, I don't know.
[06:50:07]  That's just a thing.
[06:50:09]  Millennials can't aren't allowed to say that.
[06:50:11]  Really?
[06:50:12]  I'm not allowed to say that.
[06:50:13]  I think a lot of millennials say bet.
[06:50:17]  We have to give that one to the Gen Z.
[06:50:19]  Okay.
[06:50:19]  We can't say bet.
[06:50:20]  All right, I won't say it anymore.
[06:50:21]  But now you got me forgetting what I was saying.
[06:50:24]  Okay, he called you off the karma.
[06:50:27]  Me up and told me, yeah, so she called me and said she wanted me to come over.
[06:50:32]  And I was like, okay, so I drove right over there and she wanted to break up with her boyfriend.
[06:50:39]  She?
[06:50:40]  Yeah, him.
[06:50:41]  He called me.
[06:50:42]  He tells me the older woman calls him and says, I want you to come over.
[06:50:48]  So he goes over and she's like, hey, I have a boyfriend, but I want to break up with him.
[06:50:53]  And so apparently her boyfriend showed up there.
[06:50:56]  Well, he was there.
[06:50:57]  She broke up with him.
[06:50:58]  He left.
[06:50:59]  She's like, well, I had these plans to go to Hocking Hills, Ohio.
[06:51:07]  And so he's like, well, I'll go with you.
[06:51:09]  So they went together.
[06:51:10]  And he was thinking, he told me he was like, oh my God, this is going to be for real.
[06:51:13]  This time we're going to be in a relationship.
[06:51:15]  He said they like did the thing.
[06:51:17]  They like had sex the whole time.
[06:51:18]  He's like telling me this.
[06:51:21]  Yeah.
[06:51:21]  And then he's like, and they have broke up with me.
[06:51:25]  She broke up with me.
[06:51:27]  And I'm just like, okay.
[06:51:29]  So he's like, so I'm, you know, I got my karma.
[06:51:33]  I got what I deserved.
[06:51:34]  And then I went on his Facebook.
[06:51:35]  He's like making these big posts about like women turn men into assholes and everything.
[06:51:40]  Oh my God.
[06:51:40]  I just blocked him.
[06:51:42]  And then he showed up at my work.
[06:51:45]  I was like, what?
[06:51:50]  Never mind.
[06:51:51]  The question I was going to ask, though, is if you were.
[06:51:56]  So it was like within a week or something, he was with her?
[06:52:01]  Yeah.
[06:52:03]  Okay.
[06:52:04]  So for the question that I was going to ask for the panel, would you prefer your ex, say he's going to get with another girl within a week or a couple days?
[06:52:14]  Would you prefer him to get with a girl who's hotter or uglier?
[06:52:20]  Hotter.
[06:52:21]  Hotter.
[06:52:22]  Doesn't really matter because we're not together anymore, but I can't.
[06:52:26]  Well, how about ugly?
[06:52:27]  I would be happier if she was uglier.
[06:52:29]  Yeah.
[06:52:30]  But I would be proud of him if she was hotter.
[06:52:32]  Yeah, I agree.
[06:52:33]  I agree.
[06:52:37]  Oh, yeah.
[06:52:39]  For me, yeah, no.
[06:52:40]  I would be proud of him if he was.
[06:52:42]  Can you scoot the mic so it's like center body?
[06:52:44]  Go ahead.
[06:52:45]  Yeah.
[06:52:46]  Yeah.
[06:52:47]  I would be happy.
[06:52:48]  I mean, not happy, but I'd be like, dang, he bagged a baddie.
[06:52:52]  Uglier.
[06:52:53]  Prefer if she's uglier.
[06:52:54]  Yeah.
[06:52:55]  Right.
[06:52:56]  Uglier?
[06:52:58]  Probably uglier.
[06:52:59]  Uglier.
[06:53:00]  Now, what about for cheating?
[06:53:01]  Would you prefer they cheat on you with somebody uglier or more attractive?
[06:53:07]  For cheating, I don't care.
[06:53:09]  Because either way, I'm not proud of you now.
[06:53:11]  Now you're just a disgusting piece of shit.
[06:53:13]  I get that it's still bad.
[06:53:14]  Yeah.
[06:53:15]  Well, if I think this is, it's hard.
[06:53:20]  Me personally, I think I'd feel better about it.
[06:53:25]  It's like pros and cons for both.
[06:53:29]  Yeah.
[06:53:29]  It's kind of better if they're uglier, though.
[06:53:33]  I feel like emotionally it's better if they're hotter because it's like, okay, well, so I'm like lacking in something else.
[06:53:39]  Like, because if you go and you have sex with an ugly girl, it's like, wow.
[06:53:43]  Like, you had this.
[06:53:45]  Wow.
[06:53:47]  Like, what can she give you?
[06:53:49]  And, like, now I'm disgusted and like, just like a whole bunch of emotions.
[06:53:53]  So you're saying, like, if she's like hotter, it's like, okay, it makes sense.
[06:53:58]  You know?
[06:54:00]  I'd say uglier because if she was hotter, then I'd probably compare myself to her likewise.
[06:54:05]  Yeah.
[06:54:07]  She being uglier for sure.
[06:54:09]  What she said, I'd rather have them be prettier so then it's like a reason.
[06:54:13]  Like, oh, it's because you thought that they were better looking.
[06:54:16]  Uglier, so I would know that it's something very wrong with them.
[06:54:20]  Uglier.
[06:54:22]  I would say uglier because for men, it's usually just sex when they cheat.
[06:54:26]  Okay.
[06:54:27]  Alyssa, your final note here.
[06:54:29]  Women who refuse to do 50-50 with men and why, dating older men, marrying older men, women who say they bring nothing to the table.
[06:54:35]  Paulie, have you been in a polyamorous relationship?
[06:54:38]  I have not, but I know a couple people who are.
[06:54:42]  And I mean, okay.
[06:54:44]  They, I don't know.
[06:54:45]  I don't, and it seems like it's becoming more of a thing now.
[06:54:49]  I don't know.
[06:54:50]  You also wrote that you don't usually disagree with me, although this might be changing tonight.
[06:54:57]  You strongly disagreed with Andrew Wilson and his choice of words towards the women on the podcast.
[06:55:03]  I can't really say I totally disagree with you.
[06:55:05]  So what specifically, I guess?
[06:55:07]  Didn't I just don't agree with him?
[06:55:10]  Like, just he full-on crashes out on some girls.
[06:55:14]  I do that sometimes.
[06:55:15]  You do?
[06:55:16]  Tonight?
[06:55:16]  Like a little bit.
[06:55:17]  Well, I don't know.
[06:55:18]  You didn't say shut the fuck up.
[06:55:20]  He did say shut the fuck up, but he didn't call her a stupid bitch.
[06:55:24]  I usually don't resort to personal insults.
[06:55:27]  Yeah, that's the R words.
[06:55:29]  That's the only thing with Andrew I don't agree with is him calling people stupid bitches on the podcast.
[06:55:36]  I think that's kind of.
[06:55:37]  Has he done yes?
[06:55:39]  He said, shut the fuck up, you stupid bitch.
[06:55:47]  I'm trying to recall, but in any case, all right.
[06:55:49]  Well, he's not here, so nothing there.
[06:55:51]  Alexis, gone, rude.
[06:55:54]  See, it's because men have more endurance.
[06:55:57]  Women get tired.
[06:56:00]  You might be right.
[06:56:01]  She's got a welder body.
[06:56:03]  See, I said it.
[06:56:04]  I knew it.
[06:56:05]  I feel like I'm so tired.
[06:56:06]  No, it's actually science.
[06:56:07]  It's science.
[06:56:08]  Yeah.
[06:56:08]  Are the cars okay?
[06:56:10]  In the log?
[06:56:11]  Whoa, stop, Oh, yeah.
[06:56:14]  Wait, stop, stop, stop, stop.
[06:56:16]  Yes, everything's fine.
[06:56:17]  Okay.
[06:56:19]  Oh, my gosh.
[06:56:19]  Yeah.
[06:56:20]  We already disclosed this in the beginning, guys.
[06:56:23]  Bro, holy fuck.
[06:56:26]  Okay.
[06:56:29]  So where were we fucking talking about?
[06:56:33]  You were asking her something.
[06:56:36]  Polyamorous.
[06:56:37]  Oh, yeah.
[06:56:37]  Polyamorous.
[06:56:39]  Oh, yeah, and how they're becoming more common.
[06:56:42]  50-50.
[06:56:46]  I think you asked her if she's ever been in a polyamorous.
[06:56:48]  I'm talking about Alexis.

=== Aura Colors And Anomaly Status (06:04) ===

[06:56:49]  I don't know.
[06:56:51]  50-50 on dates and polyamorous.
[06:56:55]  You said you had friends that are poly, but like they say you don't know how you feel about it.
[06:56:59]  Jenny, Jenny, you're an anonymous.
[06:57:02]  In your Instagram bio, it says anomaly.
[06:57:06]  Sorry, guys.
[06:57:07]  I hope you don't mind me being fucking cutthroat, but sometimes I have to just move things on.
[06:57:11]  No, they were thinking.
[06:57:14]  What does that mean, anomaly?
[06:57:17]  Just something that isn't like something that isn't supposed to be there, like in a way.
[06:57:28]  So what are, are you an anomaly?
[06:57:31]  I feel like, well, I'm thinking of that, like, more so, like, everywhere I am, like, I can, like, say, like, a lot.
[06:57:43]  I do say, like a lot, actually.
[06:57:45]  Okay.
[06:57:46]  But I feel like in like groups or like even like in like spaces of like people, I'm kind of just like in the background.
[06:57:57]  Like you see me, like I'm there, but it's like, you know, I'm not really like there.
[06:58:04]  You're not a main character?
[06:58:06]  Is that what you're saying?
[06:58:07]  Even though you look like one?
[06:58:12]  She's the main character, but she doesn't say anything.
[06:58:14]  I was like, anomaly.
[06:58:16]  Something that deviates from what is standard, normal, or expected.
[06:58:20]  So I would imagine, like, is the implication here that, like, you're an exceptional person, or what do you mean by an anomaly?
[06:58:30]  Like, I'm just different.
[06:58:38]  I'm different.
[06:58:40]  Like, how?
[06:58:41]  Like.
[06:58:43]  I'm sorry.
[06:58:44]  Um.
[06:58:49]  I think, like, energy-wise, like, I don't know.
[06:58:54]  Like.
[06:58:56]  Erroneous!
[06:58:58]  Erroneous.
[06:59:00]  Okay, what else?
[06:59:03]  Um.
[06:59:07]  All right.
[06:59:07]  Oh, my.
[06:59:09]  Your energy?
[06:59:12]  Like, what do you mean?
[06:59:14]  Like, you're lower energy than most people?
[06:59:18]  Like, it's just like every, well, in a way, like, everybody's, like, energy is different.
[06:59:22]  Do you have aura?
[06:59:24]  I would say I have aura.
[06:59:26]  I believe everybody has aura.
[06:59:28]  If everyone has aura, then what does that even mean?
[06:59:32]  Isn't aura something like all these other people are sheep and they're unremarkable, but this one person, something about them is different and draws you to them.
[06:59:43]  That would be aura.
[06:59:46]  If all people have aura, then what does it even mean?
[06:59:52]  Like, do you think you have aura?
[06:59:55]  Yeah.
[06:59:57]  Do you think you've demonstrated that tonight?
[07:00:02]  Probably not so much.
[07:00:04]  Have you been anomalous tonight?
[07:00:07]  In a way, like, yeah, like the standard would be to like, you know, be more like in there.
[07:00:12]  But I'm just kind of like, I don't know, I'm pretty tired too, honestly.
[07:00:17]  But I've still been talking.
[07:00:21]  Do you think you have charisma?
[07:00:26]  I would say like my energy is like different everywhere.
[07:00:29]  Like I think like here, I'm kind of more like, I don't know, but like with people I'm closer to, they would definitely say I'm pretty like.
[07:00:38]  Okay, so I think that to be charitable, that some people can blossom after they've become more comfortable with someone, or it takes you a bit longer to unravel the person's personality a bit.
[07:00:58]  Either they wait to get comfortable or whatever, whatever.
[07:01:01]  But if we're talking about aura, that shit permeates through fucking everything.
[07:01:06]  If you've got aura, you've got it all the fucking time.
[07:01:12]  And just because, just because you're on a podcast and your aura ought to permeate, I don't know.
[07:01:21]  I don't know.
[07:01:23]  That just sounded like a commercial.
[07:01:26]  Come out all the time.
[07:01:28]  At 1800s.
[07:01:31]  There it is.
[07:01:31]  I do voiceovers.
[07:01:36]  Do you think you're?
[07:01:37]  I don't know.
[07:01:38]  You're just kind of intimidating in a way.
[07:01:41]  And I'm just like.
[07:01:42]  So am I the one with aura?
[07:01:44]  It's your podcast for sure.
[07:01:48]  It's right here.
[07:01:50]  Blonde hair.
[07:01:51]  Yeah, right there.
[07:01:51]  There you go.
[07:01:52]  Oh, it's princess.
[07:01:53]  It is princess.
[07:01:57]  Okay.
[07:02:02]  I haven't felt the aura.
[07:02:04]  No, I haven't really felt any aura.
[07:02:06]  No aura.
[07:02:08]  I mean, to be fair, I don't think most people don't have aura.
[07:02:12]  Apparently.
[07:02:13]  Lexi has like a percent of an aura.
[07:02:16]  I have two percent aura.
[07:02:17]  Who else here has?
[07:02:18]  Just like no.
[07:02:20]  Apparently, there's colors to aura.
[07:02:21]  I think Lexi has like a little bit of aura.
[07:02:24]  I think I have a little tism.
[07:02:26]  You definitely let's not discount that.
[07:02:29]  That's definitely abundant.
[07:02:32]  I don't know.
[07:02:33]  Yeah.
[07:02:34]  By the way, people in the chat are like, Brian's intimidating.
[07:02:40]  Chubby Brian intimidating.
[07:02:43]  Scary.
[07:02:44]  I don't know.
[07:02:44]  Okay.
[07:02:46]  But you said anomaly.
[07:02:47]  The reason we're even talking about this, you write anomaly in Instagram bio.
[07:02:51]  You know what this reminds me of?

=== Snapchat Stories And Arab Exes (14:43) ===

[07:02:53]  It's like those guys who call themselves alpha males.
[07:02:57]  But they're like definitely not alpha male.
[07:03:00]  Any guy who says there are alpha males is the opposite.
[07:03:04]  Anyone who must call himself the king is no true king.
[07:03:08]  Not a king.
[07:03:09]  So if you call yourself an alpha male, it's like you're fucking lame as fuck.
[07:03:13]  I hate when guys call themselves Top G's or alpha males.
[07:03:17]  Like you just sound so like you just sound like you take it up the butt.
[07:03:21]  Like you love it.
[07:03:22]  Whoa, what is this?
[07:03:23]  Like 2022, 2023?
[07:03:25]  It just sounds horrible.
[07:03:26]  Like, oh my God.
[07:03:27]  Yeah, that's cringe as fuck.
[07:03:28]  It's cringe as fuck.
[07:03:29]  All right, Jennington.
[07:03:34]  If you actually, Jennington.
[07:03:38]  If you actually want to start aura farming, by the way, is that your stripper name?
[07:03:45]  I'm not going to ask for your real name, but is it your stripper name?
[07:03:48]  What's her real name?
[07:03:49]  Jennington?
[07:03:50]  Jenna.
[07:03:51]  Jennifer.
[07:03:51]  Jennifer.
[07:03:53]  Oh my God, doxing her.
[07:03:55]  But Jenna's short for Jennifer, but Jenny's short for Jennifer, yeah.
[07:04:00]  Jenny from the block.
[07:04:02]  Oh, but wait, so.
[07:04:06]  What is your stripper name?
[07:04:07]  Heaven.
[07:04:08]  Heaven?
[07:04:09]  Oh, that's cute.
[07:04:10]  You should change that shit to anomaly.
[07:04:12]  You should.
[07:04:13]  You know what?
[07:04:13]  You should.
[07:04:16]  You should.
[07:04:18]  Anomaly.
[07:04:18]  You know what you should do, Jen?
[07:04:20]  Wait, can I give you, can I send you a list of like 10 stripper names to use?
[07:04:24]  But here's.
[07:04:25]  Here's what I think you should do, Jennington.
[07:04:27]  Jennington, I think you should.
[07:04:31]  I think instead of heaven, maybe like purgatory.
[07:04:35]  That'd be cute.
[07:04:36]  You should introduce yourself as Purgo.
[07:04:38]  Or maybe Limbo.
[07:04:40]  Or like, hi, I'm Hell.
[07:04:44]  Nice to meet you.
[07:04:44]  What's the name on our Instagram?
[07:04:46]  The word?
[07:04:47]  Anomaly.
[07:04:48]  I like that one.
[07:04:49]  Yeah, I think you should actually, you know what, Jennington?
[07:04:53]  You are going to, just for one night, you can even just do it for one or two guys, three guys, ten guys.
[07:05:02]  Introduce yourself as Jennington.
[07:05:05]  And you're going to get such crazy tips that night.
[07:05:08]  Hi, sir.
[07:05:09]  I'm Jennington.
[07:05:10]  Would you like a dance?
[07:05:13]  Do it.
[07:05:13]  Here, pretend you're a stripper right now.
[07:05:16]  Approach me as a stripper.
[07:05:17]  Go ahead.
[07:05:18]  Not like, don't get up, just like, what would you say verbally as a stripper?
[07:05:23]  Well, my name is Jennington.
[07:05:27]  No, like, give me the stripper Riz.
[07:05:30]  Oh, no.
[07:05:30]  I just, okay, well, I. How do you approach?
[07:05:32]  Because you go up to guys at the club, right?
[07:05:34]  Right.
[07:05:34]  Yeah, okay.
[07:05:35]  Give me the demo.
[07:05:36]  What's your opening?
[07:05:38]  I'm just like, how's your night going?
[07:05:41]  Like, okay, wait, restart.
[07:05:42]  We started.
[07:05:42]  Do you introduce your name?
[07:05:44]  Okay, yeah, yeah.
[07:05:44]  Jennington, don't forget.
[07:05:46]  It has to be fine.
[07:05:49]  Hi, what's your name?
[07:05:52]  I'm Baxter.
[07:05:54]  I'm Jennington.
[07:05:55]  Nice to meet you.
[07:05:56]  Have you been here before?
[07:05:59]  No, it's my first time.
[07:06:00]  Okay, well, I'll give you the rundown of the rules.
[07:06:04]  The rooms are, you know, so-and-so.
[07:06:06]  They're different.
[07:06:07]  There we go.
[07:06:07]  Can you just show me your titties?
[07:06:10]  No, not here.
[07:06:11]  I'm role-playing.
[07:06:12]  Oh, yeah, no, no, no.
[07:06:14]  Be like, we're going to have to go to a room for that.
[07:06:17]  For titties?
[07:06:18]  Yeah, you have to.
[07:06:19]  I could do it on the floor.
[07:06:20]  Why pay money when titty internet-free Google search $1 billion?
[07:06:27]  Because they're asking me, they want my titties.
[07:06:30]  Not just any titties.
[07:06:31]  They want to know that they're on my body.
[07:06:35]  That's why.
[07:06:37]  Would the guy get kicked out for what I just said?
[07:06:40]  No.
[07:06:41]  Probably.
[07:06:41]  I don't know.
[07:06:42]  Probably just touching your body.
[07:06:43]  I wouldn't say that.
[07:06:44]  If I was a security guard, I would be like, all right, that's enough.
[07:06:48]  Okay, but seriously, do you promise me?
[07:06:51]  Do you promise me you have to approach a guy and introduce yourself?
[07:06:55]  Let's do, let's even, let's spice things up.
[07:06:57]  Jennington III.
[07:07:00]  That'd be good.
[07:07:02]  And you have to do like a British, like a posh British accent.
[07:07:06]  I mean, would you like a dance with me?
[07:07:10]  Like pulling this on the rich.
[07:07:12]  Excuse me.
[07:07:14]  Oh my god.
[07:07:16]  I'm Jennington III.
[07:07:19]  Would you like a dance?
[07:07:22]  Yeah, you got to do that shit.
[07:07:23]  That's an exception, too.
[07:07:25]  Oh, and by the way, actually, hey, I haven't forgotten about you.
[07:07:30]  You think your name's Lexi?
[07:07:31]  No, it's fucking Lexington now.
[07:07:33]  Oh, your name's fucking Lexington.
[07:07:36]  Lexa Pro.
[07:07:37]  Lexington.
[07:07:38]  Lexa Pro.
[07:07:39]  I used to take Lexa Pro.
[07:07:40]  I can tell.
[07:07:42]  Not anymore.
[07:07:43]  Wow, maybe you should get back.
[07:07:47]  No, when I was on that, I was like never functioning to my highest potential.
[07:07:52]  Like now, 24.
[07:07:53]  You're aura farming now.
[07:07:54]  What is that?
[07:07:55]  Aura never gets hired.
[07:07:57]  Never.
[07:07:57]  Lexa Pro?
[07:07:58]  Yeah.
[07:07:59]  Jennington.
[07:08:00]  You also wrote that you dated an A-rab.
[07:08:03]  Why did I say that?
[07:08:04]  She loves.
[07:08:05]  An A-rab.
[07:08:06]  She loves Arab.
[07:08:07]  She loves A-Rab.
[07:08:08]  I'm just saying it weird.
[07:08:10]  You got cheated on by him with what?
[07:08:16]  A male.
[07:08:17]  No, not just.
[07:08:18]  Multiple people.
[07:08:20]  So you're Arab boy.
[07:08:22]  Why am I saying it like that?
[07:08:24]  Arab.
[07:08:28]  Boyfriend slept with multiple men.
[07:08:33]  Okay, I'm going to just tell you this story.
[07:08:34]  So I would never go through his phone just because, you know, peace of mind.
[07:08:39]  But something was telling me, something was telling me that he was cheating on me.
[07:08:43]  So then I went through, like, when we were in the car and he went to like, he was in a gas station.
[07:08:49]  I went through his phone.
[07:08:50]  And then I seen, I logged out of his Snapchat.
[07:08:53]  And then when I logged out of the Snapchat, I seen he had another Snapchat.
[07:08:57]  So I went into that Snapchat.
[07:08:59]  And then I seen the first, the first name that popped up.
[07:09:02]  I don't remember the name.
[07:09:03]  Went into the chat.
[07:09:04]  There was a video of him sucking his peanut.
[07:09:11]  Excuse me?
[07:09:12]  That's fucking disgusting.
[07:09:16]  And there was.
[07:09:16]  Oh, God.
[07:09:17]  Yeah, and there were multiple chats.
[07:09:19]  Like, that Snapchat was specifically.
[07:09:22]  That happened to me too.
[07:09:24]  They have a gay Snapchat.
[07:09:25]  Oh my God.
[07:09:26]  Yeah.
[07:09:26]  Oh, yeah.
[07:09:27]  That is fucked up.
[07:09:29]  I wasn't even mad when that happened to me.
[07:09:31]  I was just like, wow.
[07:09:32]  And there is.
[07:09:33]  I feel like you're deep in like a damn thing.
[07:09:36]  I just want to tell you, Jennington, I would only cheat on you with women.
[07:09:41]  That's beautiful.
[07:09:43]  Thank you.
[07:09:43]  Is that too much to ask?
[07:09:45]  Big labia woman.
[07:09:47]  I'm an excited.
[07:09:48]  I would rather that.
[07:09:49]  I would never do that.
[07:09:50]  Yeah, I'm at this day and age.
[07:09:51]  I'm a gentleman.
[07:09:53]  I would never.
[07:09:55]  Okay, that's crazy.
[07:09:57]  You, you, oh shit.
[07:09:58]  Wait, I feel like I got, I forgot about this.
[07:10:02]  I shouldn't have been coming at you so hard, Jennington.
[07:10:06]  You almost got arrested by beating your ex at the time with a croc shoe.
[07:10:13]  What?
[07:10:13]  Like a croc?
[07:10:14]  Yeah.
[07:10:15]  Girl.
[07:10:17]  Damn.
[07:10:18]  What did I wasn't?
[07:10:21]  It was on the 4th of July and he, oh my gosh, because he wanted, okay, from what I remember, maybe I'm not too exact, but he wanted to go out with his friends.
[07:10:34]  His friends didn't like me, so he wanted me to stay home or go to work.
[07:10:40]  So I got pissed off and through a whole relationship, I moved, like, okay, so I moved in with him.
[07:10:48]  Like, I genuinely felt like he hated me.
[07:10:50]  Like, why did you even have me, like, move in with you if you, like, don't even like me?
[07:10:54]  You know, because he knew I was a stripper, but he wasn't okay with me being a stripper.
[07:10:57]  That's the gym part.
[07:10:58]  Huh?
[07:10:59]  That's the guy that took you to the gym all the time?
[07:11:00]  Yes.
[07:11:01]  Oh.
[07:11:02]  Oh, you got insight.
[07:11:04]  Oh, so he's healthy, but he's lying.
[07:11:07]  Yeah.
[07:11:07]  And so.
[07:11:08]  Her Latina just came up.
[07:11:10]  I heard that.
[07:11:11]  I heard that.
[07:11:11]  She said she's lying.
[07:11:15]  I heard her team with her.
[07:11:16]  Oh, my God.
[07:11:17]  Yeah, but you know.
[07:11:18]  So you beat, you almost got arrested.
[07:11:21]  So the cops got called.
[07:11:22]  Yeah, like when I was having a conversation with the cops, they were like, technically we can, but it's, and they talked to him too, and they were just like, well, he doesn't want it.
[07:11:34]  He doesn't want you to get arrested anymore.
[07:11:36]  He just wants you to stay home while he goes out and that's the best choice.
[07:11:41]  You know, you guys should just separate.
[07:11:43]  So he is going to go out and you're going to just have to be okay with it.
[07:11:47]  Or you should just move out.
[07:11:49]  I was just like, okay, well, I was home alone.
[07:11:53]  And yeah.
[07:11:55]  Damn.
[07:11:56]  Didn't get arrested though.
[07:11:59]  The gay Snapchat.
[07:12:00]  And I wasn't even, it's like, you know, like, was I even hitting him that hard?
[07:12:04]  Like, I don't know.
[07:12:05]  It's a croc.
[07:12:06]  There's not a phone.
[07:12:07]  I think it's a little bit of a drink.
[07:12:07]  Was there the things on it?
[07:12:09]  Was there the, like, did it have the gibbets on it?
[07:12:12]  No.
[07:12:13]  Oh, well, girl, he's fine.
[07:12:16]  I mean, technically, that's not okay.
[07:12:18]  That's not okay.
[07:12:19]  But it's the fact that he got me on a character like that.
[07:12:22]  Because this is the one with the gay Snapchat.
[07:12:24]  No.
[07:12:25]  Different one?
[07:12:25]  Yeah.
[07:12:26]  Were they both Arab?
[07:12:28]  No.
[07:12:29]  One's Arab, one's Mexican.
[07:12:32]  The Arab guys are gay.
[07:12:34]  Yeah, exactly.
[07:12:35]  No, exactly.
[07:12:35]  One of my exes, he, like, hooked up with a bunch of Arab guys.
[07:12:39]  He was like, they're all good.
[07:12:40]  And he was even.
[07:12:41]  No, he was Indian.
[07:12:43]  Oh.
[07:12:43]  Yeah, but there's the thing with the Arab.
[07:12:45]  The Arab guys low-key be gay.
[07:12:47]  And they won't come out because they're Arab.
[07:12:50]  Yeah, they need that.
[07:12:51]  They need that inheritance.
[07:12:56]  What causes that?
[07:12:57]  What causes it?
[07:12:57]  Sorry.
[07:12:58]  Sorry for any prejudice.
[07:13:00]  Like, why does it just run through their?
[07:13:01]  I feel like they're just closeted.
[07:13:05]  They can't admit it to themselves.
[07:13:08]  Yeah.
[07:13:09]  Sad if you think about it.
[07:13:10]  You know, like the Snapchat thing is just so horrifying.
[07:13:12]  You know, like, I'm just trying to log into my Snapchat.
[07:13:14]  Now I have to find out you have a null a whole other life.
[07:13:17]  No.
[07:13:18]  Like, it just animated stuff if you think about it.
[07:13:21]  like the way they treat women, like they're...
[07:13:23]  That part.
[07:13:24]  They're closeted.
[07:13:25]  That part.
[07:13:25]  You want to suppress it.
[07:13:26]  No, because only like gay men will treat women that bad.
[07:13:29]  Yeah.
[07:13:30]  I agree.
[07:13:31]  They're mad you're not a man.
[07:13:32]  They hate.
[07:13:33]  Yeah.
[07:13:35]  What did I miss?
[07:13:36]  Talking about gay.
[07:13:38]  We're still talking about the gay Snapchat.
[07:13:40]  Okay, nice.
[07:13:42]  All right.
[07:13:42]  Liliana.
[07:13:44]  That's you.
[07:13:45]  My body was boring.
[07:13:46]  You broke up with somebody yesterday.
[07:13:48]  Oh my god.
[07:13:49]  No, she broke up with me, but like I was about to break up with her.
[07:13:52]  Like I was so done.
[07:13:53]  But yeah, she basically told me that like I'm hot and she likes hooking up with me, but then like she doesn't want to be my girlfriend anymore.
[07:14:00]  So I'm like, what do you really say after that?
[07:14:01]  Plus, she had three DUIs.
[07:14:04]  That's a lot.
[07:14:05]  My mom had seven.
[07:14:07]  Three is a lot.
[07:14:07]  I thought they cut you off after three.
[07:14:09]  Right now.
[07:14:10]  Yeah, but we were like planning to go to Mexico.
[07:14:13]  Like she invited me to Mexico and gave me a clicker to her apartment.
[07:14:16]  And then I do think she cheated though, because I found a hair tie.
[07:14:19]  Like, if you guys found a hair tie that wasn't your hair tie at your partner's apartment, wouldn't you be concerned?
[07:14:24]  Yeah, and she doesn't have hair, does she?
[07:14:25]  No, exactly.
[07:14:26]  You know my time.
[07:14:26]  She doesn't have any ball.
[07:14:28]  And like, I tried to give her an out.
[07:14:29]  I'm like, oh, you're a hairdresser.
[07:14:31]  Like, is this your hair tie?
[07:14:32]  And then she's like, no, that must be yours.
[07:14:35]  Right?
[07:14:36]  Right?
[07:14:37]  Because she knows I use a scrunchie.
[07:14:38]  You know, one time this guy, my ex, gave me this girl's lip gloss.
[07:14:42]  He was like, isn't this yours?
[07:14:44]  And I looked at it.
[07:14:45]  I turned it around a couple times.
[07:14:47]  I was like, hmm.
[07:14:49]  Yeah.
[07:14:50]  But it's okay.
[07:14:52]  No, and then there was a paddle.
[07:14:53]  There was a paddle out at her.
[07:14:55]  And they're like, girl, like, I've never used that.
[07:14:57]  And she was like, no, we must have used it.
[07:14:58]  I was like, no, we didn't.
[07:14:59]  We must have.
[07:15:00]  I was like, oh, okay.
[07:15:01]  And like, you know, like a fun time paddle.
[07:15:06]  So I think she was cheating, but that's okay.
[07:15:08]  Because I have a roster.
[07:15:10]  We're good.
[07:15:10]  Oh.
[07:15:11]  Back up.
[07:15:12]  All right, Lexi's notes.
[07:15:14]  Your last ex, you guys were together for three years on and off, broke up a year ago.
[07:15:18]  Yeah.
[07:15:19]  He ended up convincing you to do OF.
[07:15:21]  Yes, I talked about this in the beginning.
[07:15:23]  Full circle.
[07:15:24]  Yeah.
[07:15:24]  He would get mad that so many guys were talking to you and he ended up cheating and you left.
[07:15:29]  Yes.
[07:15:30]  Well, he cheated on me multiple times.
[07:15:32]  So the first year that we were together, we broke up because he was cheating on me with like this really tall girl.
[07:15:37]  And mind you, he was like 5'2 ⁇ .
[07:15:39]  He was the first short guy I gave like a chance.
[07:15:42]  we were together for three years yeah but he oh you're 4 11.
[07:15:47]  He cheated on me with like a girl that was like 5'8.
[07:15:49]  I was like, you're not even 5'8.
[07:15:50]  What are you doing?
[07:15:52]  I was so mad.
[07:15:53]  And then I broke up with him.
[07:15:54]  This is gonna sound bad.
[07:15:55]  And like, I have solid, I'm six foot one.
[07:15:59]  I have solidarity with short guys.
[07:16:02]  Pro-short king, pro-short king.
[07:16:07]  But if you're 5'2, you gotta be loyal.
[07:16:15]  Like, you know what I mean?
[07:16:17]  Yeah, exactly.
[07:16:18]  Like, you're lacking already.
[07:16:19]  Like, make up for it.
[07:16:20]  You know what I'm saying?
[07:16:22]  I don't know.
[07:16:23]  You have one job.
[07:16:26]  But then again, he was, I guess, well, if he's fucking other women, then.
[07:16:29]  No, yeah.
[07:16:30]  And at the time, we were also doing 50-50.
[07:16:32]  I was working at Walgreens and everything.
[07:16:34]  And then he convinced me to do OF because our mutual friend was doing really well on OF.
[07:16:39]  And he was like, yeah, we can make so much money.
[07:16:42]  And so we ended up getting back together after I started doing OF.
[07:16:45]  And he cheated on me again with another girl, a Mexican girl.
[07:16:49]  And then I was like, well, he went out to the club a lot too.
[07:16:53]  And I used to get mad about that.
[07:16:54]  But I was like, well, he's not cheating on me.
[07:16:55]  He's just going out with the boys.
[07:16:58]  Yeah, but then once I found out that he was like cheating on me again, I was like, no.
[07:17:01]  And I kicked him out and we were moved in together.
[07:17:03]  And it wasn't the boys.
[07:17:05]  No.
[07:17:06]  I'm sorry, girl.
[07:17:07]  It was not the boys.
[07:17:08]  Did you does he have a lethal face card?
[07:17:15]  No.
[07:17:16]  His face card is giving toad.
[07:17:19]  But, you know, personality was there at the time.
[07:17:22]  In the beginning, he got me in the first half, okay?
[07:17:25]  He really did.
[07:17:26]  He really did.
[07:17:27]  He would open my doors.
[07:17:28]  He would treat me so sweet and nice, show me off, buy me flowers, all the cute stuff.
[07:17:33]  You know, he didn't have to be the richest man.
[07:17:35]  I just liked the way that he treated me.

=== Age Gaps And Cheating Revelations (11:49) ===

[07:17:37]  Yeah.
[07:17:37]  And then he switched up on you.
[07:17:38]  Cheating.
[07:17:39]  Yeah.
[07:17:40]  I like guys that are nice to me.
[07:17:42]  Like, extremely nice to me.
[07:17:44]  Not even jokingly, like, mean to me.
[07:17:46]  That's a good.
[07:17:47]  Okay.
[07:17:49]  He got a Mercedes AMG and a Corvette from the money he made from you.
[07:17:55]  Oh, yeah.
[07:17:55]  And then the Corvette got stolen.
[07:17:57]  Yeah, I'm happy about that.
[07:17:59]  I don't get fucked.
[07:18:02]  Insurance money?
[07:18:04]  Nope.
[07:18:04]  Not insured yet.
[07:18:07]  He just got that car.
[07:18:08]  Two days later, stolen.
[07:18:11]  God's timing.
[07:18:12]  You know, God has a plan.
[07:18:14]  Karma.
[07:18:16]  She's like, I set it up.
[07:18:19]  Low-key, I set him up.
[07:18:20]  Now I'm just kidding.
[07:18:22]  My lots of money.
[07:18:23]  Maybe he's sold it.
[07:18:25]  I don't know.
[07:18:26]  No, yeah, it definitely got stolen.
[07:18:28]  How much is a Mercedes AMG?
[07:18:30]  Well, the one that he had is GLE 63.
[07:18:34]  So I think it was like 60K.
[07:18:38]  Wait, when did you get the fake Tatas?
[07:18:42]  Me?
[07:18:42]  Yeah.
[07:18:43]  That's you.
[07:18:46]  Was it after OF?
[07:18:47]  Or before?
[07:18:48]  It was just recently, actually.
[07:18:50]  And I did it while I was single after me and him broke up because every guy that I've like talked to or like deliberated it with was like, oh no, don't do it.
[07:18:59]  You look perfect.
[07:19:00]  Guys love natural girls.
[07:19:02]  I love fake titties.
[07:19:05]  So you know, at the end of the day, I have to live with me and I'm going to love myself more.
[07:19:10]  And I'm going to be happier with myself more if I love my big fat titties, you know?
[07:19:15]  I didn't have any titties before.
[07:19:17]  I was bored.
[07:19:18]  Like this.
[07:19:19]  Now I know you're not a natural beauty, but I think with the right clothes and the right look, you can be very striking.
[07:19:24]  Exactly.
[07:19:24]  That's how I felt.
[07:19:26]  I was like, you know what?
[07:19:27]  I see the potential.
[07:19:28]  And guess what?
[07:19:29]  After I got them, I love them.
[07:19:31]  I love my boobs.
[07:19:32]  I literally love them so much.
[07:19:33]  Like, I show them to girls all the time.
[07:19:35]  I go to the restroom in public and I would be like, do you want to see my boobs?
[07:19:39]  Like, they look amazing.
[07:19:40]  Like, they look amazing.
[07:19:44]  What month did you get?
[07:19:45]  Stay focused, bro.
[07:19:46]  What month?
[07:19:48]  I got them.
[07:19:49]  I got them in August.
[07:19:51]  Oh, okay.
[07:19:52]  Get the rocks.
[07:19:53]  Abdul?
[07:19:54]  Yeah.
[07:19:54]  Get the rocks.
[07:19:55]  Get the rock.
[07:19:55]  Was your healing?
[07:19:57]  It was pretty easy.
[07:20:00]  Yeah, mine wasn't bad.
[07:20:01]  Yeah, it was pretty easy.
[07:20:02]  You know, like the first two days was just like, you know, you can't really lift your arms.
[07:20:07]  But other than that, it was like, it was kind of like having like a fever.
[07:20:11]  You know, like your body just aches a little.
[07:20:12]  Yeah.
[07:20:13]  You can't really get out of bed because you feel like shit.
[07:20:15]  Women with small breasts try harder.
[07:20:20]  I was a small breast in high school and then, I don't know, I was a small breast until August.
[07:20:27]  You dated a guy that cheated with your mom.
[07:20:29]  Oh, yeah.
[07:20:31]  Oh, yeah.
[07:20:31]  And he was 27 and I was 17.
[07:20:36]  A crime.
[07:20:37]  No, it was legal in Illinois, you know, like the age of consent is 17.
[07:20:42]  Oh.
[07:20:43]  Still a little closer.
[07:20:45]  Isn't there a federal age of consent?
[07:20:49]  Yeah.
[07:20:49]  Well, you know.
[07:20:51]  The states are different or whatever, but that's still a, I mean.
[07:20:55]  Just questionable.
[07:20:56]  You were a senior in high school or junior.
[07:21:00]  27-year-old dating a junior in high school?
[07:21:03]  Yeah.
[07:21:04]  I mean, even if it's technically legal, that's a little.
[07:21:09]  Exactly.
[07:21:10]  And then, you know, like, he would, like, make jokes.
[07:21:12]  He would be like, you know, I'm like basically old enough to be with your mom.
[07:21:16]  He was with my mom.
[07:21:18]  That's crazy.
[07:21:19]  Oh, my God.
[07:21:20]  I don't believe it.
[07:21:21]  I don't believe it.
[07:21:22]  There's no way.
[07:21:23]  No, he was.
[07:21:24]  He fucked your mom?
[07:21:25]  He, okay, so.
[07:21:28]  She would never admit that.
[07:21:29]  But I know that what happened because I had his location and we were like arguing and stuff.
[07:21:35]  And my mom, she was like at the house.
[07:21:36]  We were all three at the house.
[07:21:38]  Like me.
[07:21:38]  You can talk.
[07:21:39]  Oh, yes.
[07:21:40]  My mom, me, him, we're all at the house.
[07:21:42]  And my mom has two other daughters.
[07:21:45]  So my little sisters were all at the house.
[07:21:47]  We're all having like a cute family day or so, I thought.
[07:21:51]  And then me and him, we started arguing and whatnot.
[07:21:54]  And, you know, he like left or something.
[07:21:57]  And then she like went after him or something.
[07:21:59]  And his location showed that he was at a hotel.
[07:22:02]  And it was like a long time later.
[07:22:03]  And I started calling them and they weren't answering.
[07:22:05]  So I was like, oh, no, they're definitely fucking.
[07:22:08]  So then, yeah.
[07:22:09]  I mean, I stayed the night for the rest of the night and I watched my sisters.
[07:22:12]  But after that, we broke up.
[07:22:14]  And I just found a rebound and I was like, okay, yeah, it's not that bad.
[07:22:19]  You know, just bigger dicks out there.
[07:22:21]  Do you have a good relationship with your mom?
[07:22:24]  My mom was never there growing up.
[07:22:26]  I always lived with my dad and my stepmom.
[07:22:29]  So, I mean, the year that I was-your bio-mom or your stepmom?
[07:22:33]  Yeah, my biological mom.
[07:22:35]  He cheated on me with my biological mom.
[07:22:38]  Yeah.
[07:22:40]  Yeah, but it was like a year where I was trying to like get to know my mom or something, you know?
[07:22:44]  I was like, oh, yeah, I want to get to know her.
[07:22:45]  How old was your mom at the time?
[07:22:47]  Um 36 36.
[07:22:52]  But he never admitted it either.
[07:22:54]  36, 37, because I'm 22 now and I was 17 at the time.
[07:22:59]  Okay, so she had you when she was like 18.
[07:23:02]  Oh, 15.
[07:23:03]  Yeah, she conceived me when she was 15 and she gave birth at 16.
[07:23:08]  Okay.
[07:23:09]  Huh.
[07:23:12]  But he didn't admit it to sleeping with you.
[07:23:14]  No, he did.
[07:23:15]  He did.
[07:23:15]  He did.
[07:23:16]  Oh, that's cool.
[07:23:16]  He did.
[07:23:17]  He texted me about it because, you know, when I left him, he was like, yeah, this is why I fucked your mom.
[07:23:23]  I was like, oh, my God.
[07:23:26]  Wow.
[07:23:27]  Your mom never?
[07:23:28]  No, she always denies it.
[07:23:30]  I literally brought it up to her on multiple accounts.
[07:23:32]  I was like, yeah, and you fucked Drake.
[07:23:35]  And she, like, you're like, I say it as a joke.
[07:23:38]  You know, I say it very lightheartedly because I want to have a conversation about it.
[07:23:41]  But she's just like, that never happened.
[07:23:43]  Like, I would not do that.
[07:23:44]  Like, you're crazy.
[07:23:46]  I'm like, okay.
[07:23:49]  Well, wait.
[07:23:50]  So you said he texted you though this is why I did this.
[07:23:54]  Why, what was his reason?
[07:23:57]  I guess because I'm absent or I like crash out.
[07:24:00]  I call him names.
[07:24:02]  Like I told him like, yeah, like, well, you know, like sometimes whenever we're fighting, I don't like, I won't keep on texting him all night long.
[07:24:09]  I'll block him.
[07:24:11]  And then the next day I'll text him.
[07:24:13]  Wait, and then what was you call him names?
[07:24:15]  Yeah, I would call him names.
[07:24:16]  I would be like, you're literally a bitch.
[07:24:18]  Like, how could you do this to me?
[07:24:19]  Like, you're horrible.
[07:24:20]  Do you do that in other relationships?
[07:24:22]  No.
[07:24:23]  Moving forward, I don't, I don't believe in like calling men names because I wouldn't like that if someone did that to me too.
[07:24:29]  So just basically treating people how you want to be treated.
[07:24:32]  You know what I just noticed looking at the monitor?
[07:24:36]  Mark.
[07:24:39]  So the way your center bang falls right between your eyebrows, it kind of looks like you have a unibrow.
[07:24:50]  It's kind of giving, though.
[07:24:51]  No, my eyebrows are faded.
[07:24:54]  No, but like when it was covering the center, because you do have prominent eyebrows.
[07:25:04]  And that strand has been there the entire show.
[07:25:07]  No, it hasn't.
[07:25:08]  It's been faded out because I've been messing with my bangs the entire show.
[07:25:12]  Okay, if you say so.
[07:25:14]  Let's see.
[07:25:15]  I think the final thing here, you cheat.
[07:25:18]  Or wait, no, your ex.
[07:25:19]  I've never cheated on anyone.
[07:25:22]  Your ex cheated, and then you dated his best friend after.
[07:25:27]  That was my first relationship ever.
[07:25:29]  At 14?
[07:25:31]  Yeah.
[07:25:32]  So I dated this guy, and he was older than me.
[07:25:35]  He was a senior, and I was a freshman.
[07:25:37]  So he was like trying to convince me to have sex with him or whatever.
[07:25:41]  And during that process, like I tried to have sex with him.
[07:25:44]  I tried to slip it in, but it didn't really work.
[07:25:47]  It was just too painful.
[07:25:48]  It didn't work.
[07:25:49]  So anyways, his best friend showed me a video.
[07:25:53]  Talk.
[07:25:53]  Okay.
[07:25:54]  Talk straight.
[07:25:55]  Talk to me.
[07:25:56]  Talk to me.
[07:25:57]  Don't do that.
[07:25:57]  Because I'm looking at you.
[07:25:58]  Don't do girl talk.
[07:25:58]  Don't do girl talk.
[07:25:59]  Looking at my girls.
[07:26:01]  I'm one of the girls.
[07:26:05]  Talk to me.
[07:26:05]  Talk to me.
[07:26:06]  Yeah.
[07:26:07]  So, yeah, I was a freshman.
[07:26:09]  He was a senior.
[07:26:12]  He was trying to have sex with me, and his best friend, like me and him, rode the same bus.
[07:26:16]  So we were sitting on the bus together, and he showed me on his phone, like a like on Snap, like he was texting my boyfriend at the time.
[07:26:23]  And there was a video of him fucking another girl.
[07:26:27]  So I was like, oh my gosh.
[07:26:28]  So I broke up with him and then I ended up dating that guy that told me.
[07:26:32]  Wow.
[07:26:33]  Yeah.
[07:26:33]  And then relationship dynamics here.
[07:26:36]  He was so mad at me.
[07:26:37]  Brie, going to your notes, you did have a tweet.
[07:26:40]  I think we hit on this, the age gap stuff.
[07:26:43]  You find it odd for someone in their 30s to go strictly for 18 or 19-year-olds.
[07:26:48]  Makes you wonder how young they would go if there were no age consent of no age of consent laws.
[07:26:54]  If she was 24, 25, and her frontal lobe was fully developed, then my take would be completely different.
[07:26:59]  But the key word here that you used is strictly for 18 or 19-year-olds.
[07:27:04]  So what about a guy who says, who's like, well, I'll just say my age, who's 36, who would date a woman who's 20, but would also date a woman who's 35.
[07:27:16]  I guess that's.
[07:27:17]  Is there an objection there?
[07:27:18]  I guess that's fine as long as he's not just going after them because they are an age.
[07:27:24]  Like, because that'd be weird.
[07:27:25]  Like, why are you?
[07:27:26]  Why is that?
[07:27:27]  What does that matter?
[07:27:28]  Like, because if it's someone that he's he likes and is compatible with, then yeah, it doesn't matter as long as they're above 18.
[07:27:36]  It's consensual.
[07:27:37]  Yeah.
[07:27:37]  Well, I mean, like, for example, I think I'd rather date a 30-year-old who's really hot and like has a fit body versus an 18-year-old who's obese.
[07:27:52]  Yeah.
[07:27:53]  So it's not just the age, it's about the physical attractiveness.
[07:27:58]  Well, that's fine.
[07:27:58]  And then some other factors too.
[07:28:00]  Yeah, that's fair.
[07:28:01]  As long as it's like you don't have a weird like age fetish or something.
[07:28:06]  I don't know.
[07:28:06]  Not really.
[07:28:07]  Although generally, I think generally speaking, though, and there's they've done some polling on this throughout men, like as they get older, even like from 20 all the way to like 40s and 50s, and they say, and this isn't necessarily who they would date, but which women do you find the most physically attractive?
[07:28:30]  Men always say between like it's around 20, 21 is when men assess women as being most physically attractive.
[07:28:39]  Well then explain why like the biggest sex symbols like Sidney Sweeney, Margot Robbie, they're all like in their mid-20s, like early 30s on average.
[07:28:47]  If you look at those like celebrities, Megan Fox.
[07:28:49]  Robbie like a sex symbol.
[07:28:51]  I mean, she's an celebrities that are considered like, you know, like being on the most beautiful woman list.
[07:28:58]  Yeah.
[07:28:59]  They're always like, I noticed that they're usually late 20s.
[07:29:02]  Well, I would say that we're talking about celebrity and famous people and that it generally takes some amount of time to develop celebrity.
[07:29:16]  Although like Megan Fox, for example, when she was 18, 19, 20, many people viewed her in that way.
[07:29:23]  She looks better now, but to be fair, totally disagree.

=== Celebrity Sex Symbols And Age (10:14) ===

[07:29:27]  Totally disagree.
[07:29:27]  Have you seen the new Instagram pictures?
[07:29:29]  Like, she looks great.
[07:29:30]  Where she's, yeah, where she's completely plastic and probably been airbrushed and Photoshopped and full-faced, professional, best of the best makeup artist and stylist.
[07:29:40]  And even then, no, she was hotter when she was 19.
[07:29:45]  Now, that's the female gaze, what you're talking about.
[07:29:48]  The male gaze is different.
[07:29:51]  Yeah.
[07:29:55]  Fashizzle.
[07:29:57]  Man isl.
[07:29:59]  Okay.
[07:30:01]  All right.
[07:30:02]  Well, do you think that there's a I'm going to skip that?
[07:30:08]  Threpple story.
[07:30:09]  Why don't you tell us the thrupple story?
[07:30:11]  Gosh, so I was in a thrupple.
[07:30:13]  It was this like pretty well-known DJ and this Latina dancer.
[07:30:20]  And pretty much at first, like everything seemed fine.
[07:30:24]  But then one thing that was kind of a red flag that I brushed off, all of his like artwork and just, I don't know, like all his designs, like all his clothing designs, there were Satanist imagery.
[07:30:37]  And I just thought first, like, oh, that's just like a vibe, like, whatever.
[07:30:41]  Like, I didn't think he was like actually a Satanist, but then I found out like he was a Satanist and like he had an altar.
[07:30:46]  Like, he was literally like writing like a list to write down like to take people's souls.
[07:30:51]  Like weird.
[07:30:51]  Money death note thing.
[07:30:53]  Pretty much.
[07:30:53]  Yeah.
[07:30:53]  No.
[07:30:55]  And it wasn't until we like broke up.
[07:30:57]  I found a USB and pretty much there were like subliminal mind control frequencies.
[07:31:02]  And it was like, it literally had like a list to play around, like Brie, to play around the other girl.
[07:31:07]  And he, so it makes me think like when he was DJing and like playing a set, which he would do all day long.
[07:31:13]  It's like, was he playing those frequencies?
[07:31:16]  And I always felt like I was kind of under like a trance because he wasn't like the best looking.
[07:31:19]  But I felt so like attracted to him.
[07:31:21]  So I was like, was it the frequencies?
[07:31:23]  And then not too long after, the girl, and his self-defer where we broke him up.
[07:31:28]  The girl in the throttle, she died kind of suspiciously.
[07:31:32]  And then I found out like 12 of his exes died.
[07:31:36]  And I'm the only living ex of his.
[07:31:38]  Girl.
[07:31:40]  12 women dead.
[07:31:41]  Wait, what?
[07:31:42]  Yeah, 12 women dead.
[07:31:44]  12?
[07:31:45]  12.
[07:31:45]  Maybe you should report that to the police.
[07:31:47]  No, for real, girl.
[07:31:48]  Like, dad out.
[07:31:50]  She's like, I signed an NDA.
[07:31:51]  I can't.
[07:31:52]  I've signed a lot of videos.
[07:31:53]  She's like, I'm actually his only living ex.
[07:31:55]  I am.
[07:31:56]  I swear to God.
[07:31:57]  Does he just like fuck really old women?
[07:32:00]  No, no, no.
[07:32:00]  They're all young.
[07:32:01]  Like, they were all like 18 to 30.
[07:32:04]  Women he's dated have died.
[07:32:06]  Yes, ex-popular DJ.
[07:32:08]  Yeah, like he's not, like, too popular.
[07:32:10]  Like, he has like 30 K and instead.
[07:32:12]  So he's not like crazy.
[07:32:13]  Okay.
[07:32:14]  Okay.
[07:32:14]  So I'm not like going to hear this through like Apple music, like, but it's a possibility.
[07:32:19]  Okay.
[07:32:19]  This is great.
[07:32:21]  Damn.
[07:32:22]  I mean, like, is he dating like severe drug addicts?
[07:32:26]  Oh, there were a few drug addicts in the mix.
[07:32:28]  Like, some of them.
[07:32:28]  But I don't know if they or something.
[07:32:30]  Probably a couple of them.
[07:32:31]  But that is.
[07:32:33]  Sus.
[07:32:34]  That's more than a coincidence.
[07:32:37]  Maybe it's a statement or something.
[07:32:39]  I don't know.
[07:32:39]  Who knows the details?
[07:32:41]  But I told myself I wouldn't do an open relationship after that one, but then I ended up right in an open relationship.
[07:32:49]  Wow.
[07:32:50]  Okay.
[07:32:51]  Let's see here.
[07:32:52]  What else do we have?
[07:32:53]  Oh, show of hands.
[07:32:56]  Who here's a sex worker?
[07:33:00]  And then that Alexis, she left.
[07:33:02]  So it's just you three.
[07:33:03]  All right.
[07:33:04]  I've been skipping doing this one recently, but I'll just try it tonight.
[07:33:07]  So, you know, you women, you get a lot of, you know, simps while you're a stripper.
[07:33:16]  So men just throw money at you.
[07:33:18]  I'm sure you guys get like men in your DMs.
[07:33:21]  Here's some money on your OnlyFans.
[07:33:23]  Here's a tip.
[07:33:24]  Here's money.
[07:33:25]  Blah, blah, blah.
[07:33:26]  And I want to do a novelty thing for all three of you.
[07:33:29]  My first question is: have you ever just given a man money just for the sake of it?
[07:33:38]  Given a man money?
[07:33:40]  Yeah.
[07:33:41]  I'm not dating him.
[07:33:41]  He's not giving me something.
[07:33:42]  Just a dude who you're like, he's hot.
[07:33:45]  No.
[07:33:46]  Or you don't even think he's hot, but you want to give him money.
[07:33:50]  No.
[07:33:52]  A homeless guy like on the street.
[07:33:55]  I mean, I don't know.
[07:33:58]  Okay.
[07:33:59]  So I want to do a role reversal here.
[07:34:04]  Role reversal.
[07:34:07]  You can say this is like a bucket list thing, you know, novelty.
[07:34:10]  Do you guys have any just curious?
[07:34:11]  Do you have any cash on you?
[07:34:14]  Me?
[07:34:14]  Yeah, I do.
[07:34:15]  Cash.
[07:34:16]  You guys got some cash on you?
[07:34:17]  I do.
[07:34:18]  Oh, yeah.
[07:34:19]  I don't.
[07:34:19]  You don't have any cash?
[07:34:20]  I didn't really bring them up.
[07:34:22]  Oh, well, you know, I thought I feel like it'd be, you know, just, you know, you guys should just give me money.
[07:34:31]  What?
[07:34:31]  Just give me your cash.
[07:34:35]  Like, and as this, guys, this one time I went on this podcast and this really toxic guy and I gave him money.
[07:34:44]  Oh.
[07:34:45]  Yeah.
[07:34:46]  So I'm ready whenever you are.
[07:34:51]  Girl, you got played.
[07:34:55]  Somebody playing me all for you.
[07:34:56]  I would if I had money on me.
[07:35:01]  Give me money right now.
[07:35:02]  Yeah, give me your cash.
[07:35:03]  Like, go get your wallet.
[07:35:05]  No.
[07:35:07]  Lexington.
[07:35:09]  Garrington.
[07:35:10]  Go get your wallet and give me the money.
[07:35:16]  You will give me money first.
[07:35:19]  Oh, my.
[07:35:20]  All right.
[07:35:20]  I tried.
[07:35:21]  I tried.
[07:35:24]  Okay.
[07:35:25]  What else do we have?
[07:35:28]  Finishing up your notes.
[07:35:29]  Almost.
[07:35:30]  You're the last one.
[07:35:36]  One hot take you have about modern dating is the body count convo.
[07:35:40]  You think people focus way too much on the number itself instead of the context.
[07:35:43]  To you, it's more about quality, responsibility, and honesty rather than just quantity.
[07:35:48]  Obviously, extremely high numbers can be a red flag.
[07:35:52]  They aren't always.
[07:35:53]  People are different, and relationships aren't one size fits all.
[07:35:56]  What matters more is being responsible about your health, communicating openly, and getting tested regularly.
[07:36:03]  Yeah.
[07:36:04]  So I actually half, I halfway agree with this.
[07:36:09]  So I have this theory that I developed.
[07:36:13]  So some people do get a little bogged down on just the number, the quantity component, but there is a quality component.
[07:36:22]  But it's not that if a girl fucks has a body count of 100, but they're all really quality dudes, still ew, still ick.
[07:36:31]  My thing is, let's say a girl has fucked one dude, but it's like the Island Boy guy.
[07:36:40]  Or like, or like NLE Choppa, or like who the.
[07:36:45]  I don't know.
[07:36:45]  I'm trying to think of something like just like a guy that would gross me out a little bit.
[07:36:50]  Like she, I don't know, just like a dirty guy.
[07:36:55]  Like she fucks like a sleaze bag or like a fucking meth.
[07:36:59]  Like it could be a nobody, but like she fucked a fucking heroin addict or some shit.
[07:37:06]  That's like a, I call it the body count multiplier.
[07:37:10]  So if a girl has a body of one, but she done fucked a needle user, her body count might as well be 50.
[07:37:19]  Yeah, I agree.
[07:37:20]  If she fucked Lil Pump and that's the only guy she's fucked, her body counts 50.
[07:37:30]  I agree.
[07:37:30]  The body count multiplier.
[07:37:33]  I don't believe in the multiplier because if women have a multiplier, men need one too.
[07:37:38]  Because men fucks needle users too.
[07:37:41]  Absolutely.
[07:37:41]  And men fucks prostitutes.
[07:37:43]  Yep.
[07:37:44]  All the time.
[07:37:45]  True.
[07:37:46]  Disgusting.
[07:37:46]  Like, how about this?
[07:37:47]  A guy who fucked Bonnie Blue.
[07:37:50]  Multiplier, right?
[07:37:51]  The guy who fucked Bonnie Blue.
[07:37:54]  Yeah, that works out.
[07:37:55]  The odds are in.
[07:37:56]  Okay.
[07:37:57]  All right.
[07:37:57]  Well, I'm just saying.
[07:37:59]  You know, I just don't believe in double standards.
[07:38:05]  Yeah, I mean, I think, yeah, if the guy's fucking dirt and McDirt chicks, then yeah, she's Megan Fox.
[07:38:15]  She can be wait, that would be bad.
[07:38:18]  Yeah.
[07:38:19]  Why Megan Fox?
[07:38:22]  Is she she probably has a lot of bodies?
[07:38:24]  And she's Megan Fox.
[07:38:26]  That's like me fucking Enali Choppa.
[07:38:28]  It's the same thing.
[07:38:29]  Whoa, whoa.
[07:38:30]  No, no, That's not comparable.
[07:38:35]  That's not comparable.
[07:38:41]  You think that's one to one ratio?
[07:38:43]  Megan Fox, NLE Chapa?
[07:38:46]  Yeah.
[07:38:49]  I don't know.
[07:38:50]  That's crazy.
[07:38:51]  That's great.
[07:38:51]  Who's another fucking...
[07:38:53]  Like if a girl fucked Lil Wayne.
[07:38:56]  Cute.
[07:38:59]  If a girl fucked.
[07:39:01]  I don't even know half these fucking rappers with the face tattoos.
[07:39:03]  I don't know, fucking.
[07:39:04]  Lil Zan.
[07:39:06]  Yes, that is like a grimy.
[07:39:09]  Like girls who fuck grimy dudes, it's a body count multiplier.
[07:39:13]  Yes.
[07:39:14]  Shit.
[07:39:14]  Who else?
[07:39:14]  Oh, Trippy Red.
[07:39:15]  Sure, Trippy Red.
[07:39:20]  Scrim and Ruby from Suicide Boys.
[07:39:22]  Who's like a...
[07:39:23]  I mean, Scrim is Ruby, but love them both.
[07:39:27]  Ruby Rose.
[07:39:29]  Who's like a grimy dude?
[07:39:31]  Hmm.
[07:39:35]  Who's the one that has herpes?
[07:39:37]  Oh, my God, Timothy Chalamet.
[07:39:39]  What?
[07:39:40]  Seriously?

=== Labia Ratings And STD Disclaimers (13:21) ===

[07:39:41]  He gave NYU Chlamydia.
[07:39:43]  What?
[07:39:44]  Yeah, my friend went to like NYU or like she.
[07:39:47]  Wait, wait, but hold on.
[07:39:48]  Chlamydia is not herpes.
[07:39:50]  Yeah.
[07:39:50]  I just thought they might get goddamn.
[07:39:52]  Diagnosed.
[07:39:53]  Who has herpes?
[07:39:55]  It's not NBA Youngboy.
[07:39:57]  Is it?
[07:39:57]  Who?
[07:39:58]  There's a rapper that has herpes.
[07:40:01]  I wouldn't be surprised.
[07:40:02]  And like, he had sex with a woman and like it was a whole lawsuit because he didn't tell her that she had herpes.
[07:40:07]  Kanye has herpes.
[07:40:08]  I don't think Kanye has herpes.
[07:40:10]  There's a lot of women.
[07:40:11]  I don't think Kanye has herpes just for the fact of like who he is.
[07:40:14]  And he knows that if Kim found out about that, I don't know.
[07:40:17]  I just think he probably has herpes.
[07:40:18]  Kanye, I mean, Kim probably has.
[07:40:20]  Kanye's like, oh my God.
[07:40:21]  So I don't know.
[07:40:22]  I just feel like he's not like a.
[07:40:24]  I feel like he's smart, you know?
[07:40:25]  He's like, wrap that.
[07:40:26]  Wrap it up.
[07:40:27]  I don't know.
[07:40:28]  Who knows?
[07:40:29]  Let's see here.
[07:40:32]  Going back to you.
[07:40:34]  You offer the girlfriend experience.
[07:40:36]  What's that?
[07:40:37]  Pretty much it's one-on-one like priority treatment.
[07:40:43]  I send daily like hello videos and like just videos throughout the day and good night videos, and it comes with like free sexting and pretty much just like a lot of perks to where it kind of saves money too, to where, instead of like buying every menu item individually, it all comes in one package.
[07:41:05]  Yeah, how much does that cost?
[07:41:08]  It runs from like $200 at the cheapest one to like 5k.
[07:41:14]  Okay, you also rate cocks.
[07:41:17]  Yes, that's my.
[07:41:18]  I made a million dollars off of cockrates.
[07:41:21]  Wow yeah, stop the cap.
[07:41:23]  No, I'm serious.
[07:41:24]  People alone.
[07:41:26]  I did believe it, don't?
[07:41:28]  I could show you the numbers.
[07:41:30]  Yeah yeah, I could deem it too after a podcast.
[07:41:33]  Don't have it on my device because I gotta photoshop it.
[07:41:39]  So wait, how much is a dick rating?
[07:41:41]  It's um, it ranges from like $20 is the lowest, but then it can go up to like 500 if they want like a full video and I'm like writing a dull do and like moaning their name.
[07:41:50]  What the fuck?
[07:41:51]  Yeah.
[07:41:51]  So How many dick ratings have you done?
[07:41:55]  Oh my god, over a thousand by now.
[07:41:57]  Probably 10,000 since I started.
[07:41:59]  Oh, fuck.
[07:41:59]  Yeah.
[07:42:00]  Yeah.
[07:42:00]  Wait, it's like it's a very common thing on OnlyFans.
[07:42:04]  When you say rating, do you mean like you literally just rate it out of tonight and like what's wrong with it?
[07:42:09]  Or like some guys, I actually, there's a lot of guys to where they come in and they want a small penis humiliation.
[07:42:15]  So I have a question just because like one of the main things too that like I just personally wouldn't be able to keep up with all the like messages.
[07:42:22]  Is there ever a time where you're just like, dude, I don't want to be performing today?
[07:42:27]  Yeah, and then I'll take the day off.
[07:42:29]  That's like the cool thing about being self-employed.
[07:42:31]  I can just clock out whenever.
[07:42:33]  But like even like if that lasts for like, have you ever had like a time period where it's like a couple days a week where you're just like, I feel like crap.
[07:42:38]  I don't want to all the time.
[07:42:40]  And you can still make it by and everything.
[07:42:42]  Yeah, because I have, because I get a lot of unlocks with the day on like videos that I send out and schedule like a week prior even.
[07:42:49]  So fortunately, I can take off some time when needed.
[07:42:52]  I know some girls like too.
[07:42:53]  They like, if you find the right man, you could get a pay peg.
[07:42:55]  I know.
[07:42:56]  Yeah, it's really popular in Chicago.
[07:42:59]  I'm actually, I'd like to offer my services.
[07:43:02]  I offer labia ratings.
[07:43:05]  First man ever to do it.
[07:43:07]  Probably somebody's done it, but I offer labia ratings.
[07:43:10]  I'm an expert in labia.
[07:43:13]  I do have the bias towards the large labia, though.
[07:43:16]  So, I mean, if any, I will charge.
[07:43:24]  How much do you think I should charge to rate labia?
[07:43:27]  Does that make me a sex worker technically?
[07:43:29]  Yeah, if I charge for labia ratings, what if I do it for free?
[07:43:34]  Am I still a sex worker?
[07:43:35]  I guess not, right?
[07:43:37]  Like sex work.
[07:43:37]  Like, you're just like sex laborers.
[07:43:42]  Well, think about it this way, right?
[07:43:43]  You're a sex pro bono.
[07:43:45]  A woman who charges for sex, sex worker.
[07:43:48]  A woman who just fucks a bunch of men for free?
[07:43:51]  Bony blue.
[07:43:52]  Slut, but not a sex worker.
[07:43:56]  Okay.
[07:43:57]  Well, I guess I have to do it for free then.
[07:44:00]  Because I'm not opposed to receiving nude photos from women.
[07:44:04]  Like if they send it to me.
[07:44:06]  But I don't want to be a sex worker is a thing, but I also want money.
[07:44:13]  So you can market it as kind of like a vaginal examiner.
[07:44:19]  There's got to be, you know what?
[07:44:20]  There's a loophole.
[07:44:22]  You get to text me.
[07:44:23]  I'm an escort.
[07:44:24]  You get to text me and I'll talk to you for money.
[07:44:31]  And bundled in that, you can send a labia pick and I'll rate it.
[07:44:37]  But I'm charging you for the convo that only involves me rating your labia.
[07:44:45]  I think that that's a loophole.
[07:44:47]  What's wrong with being a sex worker, though?
[07:44:48]  Why don't you want to be a sex worker?
[07:44:51]  You mean the guy who has the anti-sex worker podcast?
[07:44:57]  Look, hey, I don't hate sex workers, by the way.
[07:45:00]  I don't want, I wish good things for sex workers.
[07:45:03]  I hope they get out of it.
[07:45:06]  I don't have hatred towards them, but I'm not a fan of sex work.
[07:45:11]  I'm kind of against it.
[07:45:12]  I think it's bad for the women.
[07:45:13]  It's bad for the men, bad for society.
[07:45:16]  And yeah.
[07:45:18]  But I don't hate them, you know?
[07:45:21]  I don't hate Lexi.
[07:45:23]  I hate Jenny a little bit.
[07:45:25]  Just careful.
[07:45:26]  I hate her aura.
[07:45:27]  It pisses me off.
[07:45:28]  What's discrimination against sex workers called?
[07:45:31]  Discrimination.
[07:45:32]  Based.
[07:45:32]  It's called being fucking based in a legend, bro.
[07:45:37]  Based in red pills.
[07:45:39]  Look at Lexi.
[07:45:40]  Look at all the upset over there.
[07:45:42]  Oh, my abs.
[07:45:43]  Based.
[07:45:44]  That's what it's called.
[07:45:46]  My tummy hurt.
[07:45:47]  Oh, yeah.
[07:45:48]  My stomach is grounded.
[07:45:49]  Oh, there's Advilene's ibuprofen.
[07:45:51]  They said that.
[07:45:52]  I took that with Samuel.
[07:45:55]  There's so feminist here.
[07:45:56]  I want, look, if there's any women in the audience, you know what?
[07:45:59]  I'm doing a specialty offer.
[07:46:03]  I'm not going to be a sex worker.
[07:46:04]  I'm going to do it limited time only.
[07:46:07]  I'll just do it for free.
[07:46:08]  I will give labia ratings.
[07:46:09]  Sex work, but no, I will give labia ratings for free.
[07:46:14]  My DMs are open for the next 24 days.
[07:46:16]  Free sex works.
[07:46:17]  Disclaimer at 18 and up.
[07:46:19]  You just get to 18 and up.
[07:46:21]  Disclaimer.
[07:46:22]  That would be terrible.
[07:46:23]  18 and up, disclaimer.
[07:46:25]  Can only send your labia if you're 18.
[07:46:27]  Oh, yeah.
[07:46:27]  You have to send me your fucking ID.
[07:46:28]  You have to be 18 and up.
[07:46:29]  Yeah, duh.
[07:46:30]  Yeah, you have to be an adult.
[07:46:32]  Here's my ID.
[07:46:33]  Here's my labia.
[07:46:35]  Signs up here.
[07:46:36]  I have the budget ID on the badge.
[07:46:39]  That works, I guess.
[07:46:42]  Maybe she pops it out.
[07:46:44]  Or you could hold the ID with your lips.
[07:46:48]  Kind of like.
[07:46:49]  Or you can stick it in between the labia, you know, like between the outer lip and like the labia.
[07:46:56]  So I can like hold it out.
[07:47:01]  Do I laugh like Adam Sandler?
[07:47:07]  I've told that I laugh like a guy who laughs.
[07:47:09]  You laugh like a gopher.
[07:47:11]  Oh my God.
[07:47:12]  Thank you.
[07:47:13]  I don't even know what that sounds like.
[07:47:14]  No, it's the guy.
[07:47:16]  He's like a stoner.
[07:47:18]  He has the curly hair.
[07:47:21]  Oh my God.
[07:47:21]  Who the hell?
[07:47:23]  Yeah.
[07:47:25]  Is that you know what's crazy?
[07:47:26]  My cat, my fucking cat murked a gopher yesterday.
[07:47:30]  What?
[07:47:31]  I was like trying to prep for the podcast and I heard a yelp outside and my cat fucking murked a gopher.
[07:47:37]  Now here's the disgusting thing: the cat started fucking eating the gopher.
[07:47:43]  I would have started crying.
[07:47:44]  But the thing is, I went back outside like 10 minutes later.
[07:47:47]  This is, I don't know if this is TMI.
[07:47:49]  Do I see?
[07:47:50]  Carnivores says.
[07:47:50]  Just say it.
[07:47:52]  Let's just say there was only a half of the gopher.
[07:47:56]  Oh my god.
[07:47:56]  Oh my god.
[07:47:57]  And I was traumatized.
[07:47:58]  Did you watch it?
[07:47:59]  It's so healthy for your cat though.
[07:48:00]  Like that's like the most natural instinct.
[07:48:03]  Yeah, no, my ferrets.
[07:48:04]  No, my ferrets do that.
[07:48:06]  No, it is.
[07:48:08]  It's really healthy for ferrets.
[07:48:10]  To eat raw, not from the outdoors, but like I buy like raw rabbit off the internet.
[07:48:16]  Fucking murking gophers and eating.
[07:48:18]  No, no, not outside.
[07:48:20]  It's natural gopher, like off the internet, like ground.
[07:48:23]  That's how God gets to beat it.
[07:48:24]  And like eat it, like it's really nice.
[07:48:26]  That's how your cat gets fucking worms and shit.
[07:48:28]  No, no, no.
[07:48:29]  It's like all that legal, like they know what they're doing.
[07:48:31]  There's no pesticides.
[07:48:32]  Like rabbit too is really good, like for ferrets.
[07:48:35]  Yeah.
[07:48:35]  They like to squirrels.
[07:48:37]  That is cool.
[07:48:39]  Anyways, here, we got to do a couple things, right?
[07:48:42]  Let's do Twitch really quick.
[07:48:44]  Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video.
[07:48:46]  Like the video.
[07:48:47]  Also, I don't know, Big Labia Matter, I guess.
[07:48:49]  I've been talking about that.
[07:48:50]  Big Labia Matter.
[07:48:51]  I might order this.
[07:48:52]  BLM.
[07:48:53]  The Fist BLM.
[07:48:54]  Yep.
[07:48:55]  Just curious.
[07:48:56]  I don't know.
[07:48:56]  I'm just curious.
[07:48:57]  Does anybody here have Audi?
[07:49:03]  Like, I just feel like I'm revealing way too much on here.
[07:49:05]  Okay.
[07:49:06]  So my electifying.
[07:49:07]  It's just going to be titled like Lexi TMI.
[07:49:11]  So you have an Audi, is what you're saying?
[07:49:15]  I wouldn't call it an any.
[07:49:17]  She has an any.
[07:49:18]  Girls, I've been labia fish before by chicks.
[07:49:21]  Like a girl tells me she has an Audi, but they don't know.
[07:49:24]  Like in like, yeah, I don't know.
[07:49:26]  I'm going to look up a picture after this and like see what that actually looks like.
[07:49:30]  I've been labia fish though.
[07:49:31]  I'm like, what do you?
[07:49:32]  But I feel like girls probably have these.
[07:49:34]  Oh my gosh, Jenny, you girls have seen it?
[07:49:36]  She doesn't have any?
[07:49:37]  No.
[07:49:38]  She has an any.
[07:49:40]  Do I have an any?
[07:49:41]  Would you consider it an innie?
[07:49:42]  Exactly.
[07:49:43]  That's why I'm like, I don't know where it falls on the spectrum.
[07:49:46]  You know if you have an Audi babia.
[07:49:50]  I don't know.
[07:49:51]  In any case, I don't know.
[07:49:52]  Like, don't you girls get upset if a guy says he has a big dick, but he doesn't have a big dick?
[07:49:56]  Yeah, I do.
[07:49:57]  I get upset when they're like nine inches, and then it's like four.
[07:50:02]  Why would you lie about that?
[07:50:03]  Why would you lie about that?
[07:50:05]  Guys don't know actually how big that is.
[07:50:07]  They say it, and then they do it with their hands, and they're like, Wait, that's how big that is.
[07:50:11]  Oh, no, and I hate when they're like, Oh, and I measured it with the ruler.
[07:50:15]  Women, why are you?
[07:50:16]  I'm like this.
[07:50:16]  Women are like, I'm like that, and then I see it's like a little slit innie.
[07:50:20]  I'm like, bro, fuck my life.
[07:50:22]  I'm confused.
[07:50:23]  I'm like thinking you're talking about like some roast beef, like yes.
[07:50:26]  I'm talking about roast beef.
[07:50:27]  That's what I'm talking about.
[07:50:28]  Yeah.
[07:50:29]  Fucking sandwich motherfuckers.
[07:50:30]  Yes, Barbie's hands.
[07:50:31]  Hands that flap.
[07:50:32]  He wants big ones.
[07:50:35]  Okay.
[07:50:37]  All right.
[07:50:38]  Pull up Twitch really quick, guys.
[07:50:39]  Twitch.tv slash whatever.
[07:50:40]  Drop us a follow.
[07:50:41]  Drop us a prime sub.
[07:50:43]  Oh my goodness.
[07:50:44]  It's 22 minutes since we had a prime sub.
[07:50:45]  Yo, Jay, thank you for the prime.
[07:50:47]  Appreciate it.
[07:50:47]  Guys, drop us a follow.
[07:50:48]  Drop us a prime sub.
[07:50:50]  Tail ends of the show here.
[07:50:51]  Show some love over there on Twitch.
[07:50:52]  Twitch.tv slash whatever.
[07:50:54]  Drop us a prime sub.
[07:50:55]  Thank you guys.
[07:50:56]  Okay, final segment of the show.
[07:50:58]  The questions.
[07:50:58]  Rapid fire questions.
[07:51:00]  Here we go.
[07:51:01]  Oh, shit.
[07:51:02]  Going around the table, do you think you're beautiful?
[07:51:04]  Yes.
[07:51:05]  Sure.
[07:51:06]  Looks-wise.
[07:51:07]  Yes.
[07:51:07]  Yes.
[07:51:08]  Sure.
[07:51:09]  Into the mics.
[07:51:09]  No.
[07:51:10]  Yeah.
[07:51:11]  Sure.
[07:51:12]  Sure.
[07:51:15]  Do you think I'm a misogynist?
[07:51:18]  No. No. No. Nah. No. No. No.
[07:51:24]  Really?
[07:51:25]  You cool.
[07:51:26]  No, I don't think so.
[07:51:27]  I feel like you explained yourself well.
[07:51:28]  I'm pretty much a feminist.
[07:51:29]  After you saw that you had Tylenol here, I was like, he's a feminist.
[07:51:32]  Do you have tampons in the bathroom too?
[07:51:34]  There might be.
[07:51:35]  Ah, see, you know what you're doing.
[07:51:37]  See, exactly.
[07:51:38]  Free tampons in this economy?
[07:51:40]  He's like 25 cents.
[07:51:42]  And I have a small waistback basket in my personal bathroom.
[07:51:47]  Oh, that's very feminist.
[07:51:49]  Oh, wow.
[07:51:50]  Bonus points.
[07:51:51]  Bonus points.
[07:51:53]  Nice.
[07:51:54]  Yep.
[07:51:55]  I know.
[07:51:58]  Okay.
[07:52:00]  Do you believe in we'll probably skip those?
[07:52:06]  Do I have white privilege?
[07:52:09]  Yes.
[07:52:10]  And you can use it very wisely.
[07:52:12]  How?
[07:52:14]  By using your white voice.
[07:52:16]  My voice.
[07:52:17]  Ooh, for ally.
[07:52:19]  Yes, be an ally.
[07:52:20]  Be an ally.
[07:52:21]  Your voice helps and it contributes.
[07:52:25]  Okay.
[07:52:26]  Let's see here.
[07:52:30]  Your voice is heard more than a black man's.
[07:52:34]  Question for you.
[07:52:35]  You said that you're kind of like waiting when it comes to sex at the moment.
[07:52:39]  Like you want to wait a little bit.
[07:52:41]  Do you have a celebrity crush?
[07:52:45]  Ryan Reynolds.
[07:52:47]  Let's say Ryan Reynolds was single and he was like, Hi.
[07:52:53]  Do you want to have sex?
[07:52:54]  Would you fuck?
[07:52:59]  Yeah, probably.
[07:53:02]  Crazy.

=== White Voice Privilege And Allyship (04:41) ===

[07:53:03]  On the first two?
[07:53:04]  Crazy.
[07:53:04]  See, you got to break rules.
[07:53:05]  People breaking rules.
[07:53:09]  It's not about an actual standard.
[07:53:12]  Like, he's funny.
[07:53:15]  Okay.
[07:53:16]  I'm funny.
[07:53:16]  Do you want to?
[07:53:17]  Never mind.
[07:53:19]  I mean, I think when it comes to.
[07:53:22]  Go ahead.
[07:53:23]  Oh, what?
[07:53:24]  Oh, you opened your mouth.
[07:53:25]  I thought you were going to.
[07:53:25]  You were just breathing.
[07:53:26]  I got it.
[07:53:30]  I'm a very vocal breather.
[07:53:32]  Go ahead.
[07:53:32]  I forgot what I was going to say.
[07:53:34]  Okay.
[07:53:36]  Let's see.
[07:53:37]  If men should pay for dates, if men should provide, if men should protect, men should be chivalrous.
[07:53:43]  What should women do?
[07:53:45]  Cook and clean and maintain the house and give birth.
[07:53:50]  That was actually a pretty good answer.
[07:53:54]  Is it financial abuse if a rich man won't buy his dependent wife luxury goods?
[07:54:00]  We talked about that a little bit, but no.
[07:54:03]  Not abuse.
[07:54:03]  Okay.
[07:54:05]  Here we go.
[07:54:06]  Here we go.
[07:54:06]  Ready?
[07:54:08]  Lexington.
[07:54:09]  Ready?
[07:54:10]  Okay.
[07:54:11]  Name three countries besides the USA.
[07:54:14]  You can't repeat.
[07:54:19]  Puerto Rican Camobian.
[07:54:21]  I'm not that silly.
[07:54:25]  Africa.
[07:54:27]  Wait, you said countries?
[07:54:29]  What did you say?
[07:54:30]  Keep going.
[07:54:31]  Africa.
[07:54:33]  Africa, Europe, Asia.
[07:54:35]  What are we talking about?
[07:54:35]  Continents or countries?
[07:54:38]  Those are countries.
[07:54:40]  My turn comes.
[07:54:41]  Canada, Mexico, Russia?
[07:54:59]  I can't.
[07:55:00]  I'm sorry.
[07:55:01]  I can't.
[07:55:02]  I can't.
[07:55:03]  I can't do it.
[07:55:05]  Antarctica?
[07:55:06]  Huh?
[07:55:06]  Huh?
[07:55:08]  Three countries.
[07:55:09]  You can't repeat hers, but you've only heard three so far, because those were continents that she said.
[07:55:32]  Russia?
[07:55:33]  Do we all want them?
[07:55:36]  So there's like about 200 people.
[07:55:39]  If you watch the Olympics, like what teams are you going to see?
[07:55:45]  Brazil?
[07:55:48]  Two more.
[07:55:53]  Barcelona?
[07:55:56]  Barcelona.
[07:55:56]  Okay, that's a country.
[07:55:58]  Yeah.
[07:55:59]  Next.
[07:56:02]  Sure.
[07:56:03]  Yeah.
[07:56:10]  Japan?
[07:56:12]  There you go.
[07:56:13]  Barcelona is not a country.
[07:56:15]  That is true.
[07:56:15]  Barcelona is not a country.
[07:56:18]  You know, you know, sometimes I'm a bit harsh on the sex workers, but sometimes it's the only option.
[07:56:31]  Okay, what about you?
[07:56:33]  Um, Sweden.
[07:56:35]  Um, you said Russia already, right?
[07:56:41]  Um, Poland.
[07:56:49]  Oh, did I say three?
[07:56:50]  Or do I have one more?
[07:56:51]  Or I still have three.
[07:56:52]  Oh, those aren't countries.
[07:56:53]  Oh, I did one.
[07:56:54]  I have two more.
[07:56:58]  One more.
[07:56:59]  Oh, oh, I did it.
[07:57:00]  Yay.
[07:57:00]  Um, Thailand?
[07:57:04]  Did you say Thailand?
[07:57:07]  Indonesia?
[07:57:08]  Okay, you.
[07:57:09]  Costa Rica, Brazil, and Australia.
[07:57:12]  Shut your mic down.
[07:57:12]  What about you?
[07:57:14]  Chile, Australia, and Italy.
[07:57:19]  Bhutan, Ukraine, and Denmark.
[07:57:22]  France, Egypt, and Portugal.
[07:57:27]  Okay, what two countries border the USA?
[07:57:43]  The Dominican Republic.

=== US Geography Trivia Round One (03:17) ===

[07:57:45]  Wait, wait, wait.
[07:57:45]  Hold on.
[07:57:46]  Nobody help.
[07:57:46]  I'm going to help.
[07:57:56]  Canada and Mexico?
[07:57:57]  I'm sorry.
[07:57:57]  Oh.
[07:57:57]  Oh, what the fuck?
[07:57:58]  Why did it take her fucking 10 minutes to do it?
[07:58:00]  Yeah, you're right.
[07:58:03]  What other countries were you contemplating?
[07:58:07]  I was just thinking about countries.
[07:58:10]  Okay, all right.
[07:58:12]  How many states are in the USA?
[07:58:13]  I'm gonna pick on you, Jennington.
[07:58:15]  You didn't give me no money.
[07:58:17]  You're gonna get picked on me because I'm African-American.
[07:58:22]  What just whoa, that sounds like never run.
[07:58:29]  I say retarded shit at this hour of night.
[07:58:31]  What time is it?
[07:58:32]  It's like how many states are in the USA.
[07:58:35]  Just got to get through this.
[07:58:38]  25-26?
[07:58:40]  What?
[07:58:41]  25-26?
[07:58:44]  There's 25 in front of me.
[07:58:45]  There's a flag right there.
[07:58:50]  Jennington.
[07:58:54]  Here, count on your fingers.
[07:58:57]  That should help.
[07:58:59]  Are you actually?
[07:59:00]  She's actually counting.
[07:59:05]  Are you counting the stars?
[07:59:19]  Let's hope so.
[07:59:23]  Jenny, after you know, you're going to be like, oh my god.
[07:59:29]  Oh, my God, Liz.
[07:59:33]  Nobody can see you, guys.
[07:59:35]  Okay, go ahead.
[07:59:38]  What are you?
[07:59:39]  She's counting the stars.
[07:59:40]  Oh, my God.
[07:59:42]  Here, does anybody not know the answer besides her?
[07:59:46]  Here, throw out a number.
[07:59:48]  What is it?
[07:59:49]  Stop.
[07:59:50]  No, no, just answer.
[07:59:51]  What is it?
[07:59:55]  How many states are there?
[08:00:02]  Just throw out guess.
[08:00:03]  Just guess.
[08:00:07]  Here, I'll give you a hint.
[08:00:08]  You said it was 25, 26.
[08:00:09]  It's more than that.
[08:00:10]  There's your hint.
[08:00:12]  How about this?
[08:00:13]  Now, shh, what?
[08:00:19]  Am I close?
[08:00:26]  Finish your answer.
[08:00:28]  50.
[08:00:49]  I feel like I'm in a side quest right now.

=== New York Cities And Solar Systems (03:57) ===

[08:01:02]  Okay.
[08:01:03]  All right.
[08:01:05]  All right.
[08:01:07]  What is the capital of the USA?
[08:01:13]  DC.
[08:01:16]  Name three U.S. states.
[08:01:18]  California, Nevada, Arizona.
[08:01:21]  How many planets are in our solar system?
[08:01:24]  I don't know.
[08:01:26]  I'm sorry.
[08:01:27]  Eight. I just threw something.
[08:01:35]  Seven.
[08:01:36]  Okay.
[08:01:38]  Name two countries in Europe.
[08:01:47]  London Yep.
[08:01:50]  What's the other one?
[08:02:06]  Donald King's son.
[08:02:09]  Russia?
[08:02:11]  Huh?
[08:02:12]  Italy?
[08:02:15]  Fucking London.
[08:02:16]  All right.
[08:02:18]  Let's see.
[08:02:19]  What here, how about this?
[08:02:20]  What planet do we live on?
[08:02:22]  Earth.
[08:02:24]  Okay, she got that one.
[08:02:26]  Thank goodness.
[08:02:29]  Lexi, what planet do we live on?
[08:02:31]  Earth.
[08:02:32]  You sure?
[08:02:33]  Final answer?
[08:02:34]  Yes.
[08:02:34]  Final answer?
[08:02:37]  We live in your anus.
[08:02:43]  I'm sorry.
[08:02:45]  She's like your specific anus.
[08:02:47]  We live in.
[08:02:48]  Yeah.
[08:02:50]  Okay.
[08:02:52]  What is the capital of California?
[08:02:55]  Oh, gosh.
[08:02:56]  Is it Sacramento?
[08:02:57]  I think so.
[08:02:58]  Sacramento.
[08:02:59]  You are correct.
[08:03:02]  The government building, the Pentagon, is what shape?
[08:03:08]  Pentagon?
[08:03:10]  Sorry, was that a question mark?
[08:03:12]  No, Pentagon.
[08:03:13]  It's a Pentagon?
[08:03:13]  Okay, good job.
[08:03:16]  What is the capital of New York State?
[08:03:21]  I don't know.
[08:03:27]  Wait.
[08:03:28]  Guess.
[08:03:30]  New York City.
[08:03:31]  Could it be New York City?
[08:03:37]  It could be.
[08:03:38]  I mean, that's the big city.
[08:03:40]  New York City.
[08:03:42]  The capital?
[08:03:43]  The capital.
[08:03:44]  Of New York City.
[08:03:46]  No, of New York, the state.
[08:03:48]  New York City is a city in New York.
[08:03:53]  But it's very big.
[08:03:55]  So it could be the capital.
[08:03:59]  I just have a feeling that it just might be New York City.
[08:04:04]  I just don't know.
[08:04:07]  It's New York City.
[08:04:09]  New York City?
[08:04:09]  Okay.
[08:04:10]  Isn't it Albany?
[08:04:11]  I don't know.
[08:04:12]  Is it?
[08:04:13]  I think it's Albany.
[08:04:14]  What is it?
[08:04:15]  Albany.
[08:04:16]  Is it? Albany.
[08:04:17]  It's not Buffalo?
[08:04:18]  Albany is a candy store.
[08:04:20]  Hello?
[08:04:21]  From the inner city.
[08:04:21]  Albany's candy is a candy store.
[08:04:23]  Okay.
[08:04:24]  Let's see.
[08:04:25]  Yeah, Albany, New York.
[08:04:26]  I love some Albany chocolate.
[08:04:28]  What river runs through Egypt?
[08:04:30]  The Nile.
[08:04:32]  The Nile is going to be the Nile.
[08:04:34]  I'm sure you were.
[08:04:35]  Yeah, I was.
[08:04:36]  What country is directly north of Mexico?
[08:04:45]  The U.S. United States of America.
[08:04:49]  Yeah.
[08:04:49]  Yeah.
[08:04:50]  You had to do a bit of hand gestures to figure it out.
[08:04:53]  But you know, those people, as they read, they have to like trace or not trace, but what's it called when you follow the words with your finger?

=== Favorite Continents And Musical Preferences (06:55) ===

[08:05:00]  Tip, how many months are in a year?
[08:05:05]  12.
[08:05:06]  How many hours are in a day?
[08:05:08]  24.
[08:05:08]  How many minutes are in an hour?
[08:05:10]  16.
[08:05:11]  How many seconds are in a minute?
[08:05:13]  120.
[08:05:14]  How many sides does a triangle have?
[08:05:16]  Three.
[08:05:16]  How many sides does a triangle have?
[08:05:18]  Three.
[08:05:20]  What do you call a shape with five sides?
[08:05:23]  What do you call a shape with eight sides?
[08:05:25]  Octagon.
[08:05:27]  What country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the USA?
[08:05:30]  France?
[08:05:33]  Final answer?
[08:05:33]  France.
[08:05:34]  Lexi?
[08:05:36]  I don't know.
[08:05:41]  Guess.
[08:05:43]  I'm gonna guess with my best friend is right.
[08:05:47]  Am I?
[08:05:48]  Wait, no, I'm gonna lie.
[08:05:51]  What gas do humans breathe in to survive?
[08:05:54]  Oxygen.
[08:05:56]  What gas do plants absorb from the air?
[08:06:01]  Carbon dioxide?
[08:06:04]  Is it?
[08:06:05]  I don't know.
[08:06:08]  Wait.
[08:06:08]  Or is it oxygen?
[08:06:11]  I don't know.
[08:06:12]  Wait.
[08:06:12]  I'm asking you.
[08:06:14]  I don't know any of these.
[08:06:16]  It might be oxygen.
[08:06:17]  I don't know.
[08:06:17]  Who knows?
[08:06:19]  Let's see.
[08:06:19]  What organ pumps blood through your body?
[08:06:24]  A heart.
[08:06:27]  Yeah, your heart.
[08:06:28]  What continent is Brazil in?
[08:06:32]  Spain.
[08:06:33]  Spain?
[08:06:35]  That's my favorite continent.
[08:06:38]  I love visiting the Spanish continent.
[08:06:43]  And the many various states in Spain.
[08:06:49]  The continent.
[08:06:51]  Spain.
[08:06:52]  North America.
[08:06:53]  North America.
[08:06:55]  Brazil is in North America.
[08:06:58]  Is that Lexi?
[08:06:59]  You believe it.
[08:07:00]  Repeat that, Lexi?
[08:07:01]  Lexington?
[08:07:02]  North America, question mark.
[08:07:04]  Brazil is in North America.
[08:07:06]  North America question mark.
[08:07:07]  Wait, question.
[08:07:08]  Brazil, is it west, east, north, or south of the United States?
[08:07:16]  Oh, it's South America.
[08:07:17]  I'm so slow.
[08:07:18]  Sorry.
[08:07:20]  Okay.
[08:07:20]  What continent is Egypt in?
[08:07:23]  Ah, I would not know that.
[08:07:27]  What?
[08:07:27]  I don't know.
[08:07:28]  Guess.
[08:07:30]  The Middle East.
[08:07:33]  That's not a continent, though.
[08:07:35]  Sorry.
[08:07:35]  It's a region.
[08:07:36]  Yeah, that's where it is.
[08:07:39]  Which continent, though?
[08:07:42]  I wouldn't know.
[08:07:44]  Did we name the continents?
[08:07:46]  We might have skipped that one.
[08:07:49]  Oh, how many?
[08:07:50]  Here, let's do going around the table.
[08:07:52]  Name one continent.
[08:07:54]  Antarctica.
[08:07:55]  Can't repeat.
[08:07:56]  Asia.
[08:08:00]  Jennington. Spain.
[08:08:17]  Europe.
[08:08:18]  Wait, sorry.
[08:08:20]  Brazil.
[08:08:22]  Brazil, okay.
[08:08:23]  Africa.
[08:08:24]  Africa.
[08:08:25]  Australia.
[08:08:26]  South America.
[08:08:28]  North America.
[08:08:30]  My favorite continent is Sweden.
[08:08:33]  I've been there.
[08:08:34]  My favorite is the United States.
[08:08:37]  I love that.
[08:08:38]  Go USA!
[08:08:41]  Red, white, and blue.
[08:08:51]  What are you looking at?
[08:08:53]  Me?
[08:08:53]  I just space out sometimes.
[08:08:54]  I'm like, wow.
[08:08:55]  Yeah.
[08:08:56]  Are you looking deep into Nicole's eyes?
[08:08:58]  I'm looking deep into my future.
[08:09:02]  It's not looking very bright at the moment.
[08:09:04]  It's looking very dark outside.
[08:09:05]  Are you a theater kid?
[08:09:07]  No.
[08:09:08]  Actually, never took theater.
[08:09:10]  Jennington, on the other hand.
[08:09:13]  Yeah.
[08:09:15]  Yeah.
[08:09:15]  She loves her musicals.
[08:09:18]  Oh, my God.
[08:09:18]  I actually hate musicals, and I can't stand them.
[08:09:21]  Oh, my God.
[08:09:21]  Do you?
[08:09:22]  I hate Strech the Musical.
[08:09:23]  I hate all musicals.
[08:09:24]  I hate high school musical.
[08:09:25]  Stupid.
[08:09:26]  Oh, my God.
[08:09:27]  I hate the musicals.
[08:09:28]  I don't like them because I'm so emo.
[08:09:32]  I'm so emo and I just hate life so much that I just hate music.
[08:09:36]  So emo.
[08:09:37]  She listens to my chemical romance like strictly, strictly.
[08:09:42]  It's her favorite band, it's the only band.
[08:09:48]  Why do you look in that direction?
[08:09:50]  Do you have like something wrong?
[08:09:53]  Yes, like you can't turn to feast.
[08:09:56]  Okay, I can't face you uh okay, what continent?
[08:10:05]  What continent is Japan, then?
[08:10:09]  Are you gonna?
[08:10:10]  She looks like she's gonna have cramps.
[08:10:12]  Oh nice, me too.
[08:10:15]  My period right now.
[08:10:16]  Asia, there we go.
[08:10:17]  Okay, how many dimes make a dollar ten?
[08:10:22]  What is the capital of France?
[08:10:28]  Italy, I don't know, I'm sorry.
[08:10:30]  Capital of France is Italy.
[08:10:32]  Okay, I'm sorry.
[08:10:34]  Apology accepted, try again.
[08:10:38]  Yeah, I can't think of it.
[08:10:39]  Okay, Sicily?
[08:10:41]  No, it's definitely not.
[08:10:43]  It's like a country in France or something.
[08:10:48]  Is it Paris?
[08:10:51]  Question mark, or is that still wrong?
[08:10:57]  i'm gonna assume it's wrong by your deep breath okay uh what is the capital of japan Tokyo, or Tokyo Tokyo?
[08:11:14]  What country is immediately south of the United States?
[08:11:19]  Africa, not only is it, is Africa not there, it's not even a country.
[08:11:35]  wow okay i'm sorry Can I restart?
[08:11:46]  What country is immediately south of the United States?
[08:11:52]  Um Mexico, you are correct, thank you.

=== Panama Canals And Day Counts (10:06) ===

[08:11:56]  If today is Monday, what day is it in three days Wednesday?
[08:12:03]  Huh, did you point at me?
[08:12:05]  Yeah, Wednesday in three.
[08:12:12]  Wait, Thursday period, no question mark Thursday.
[08:12:21]  I mean, some people count like Monday.
[08:12:24]  Yeah, that whole day has to happen.
[08:12:26]  You know, it's like Monday Tuesday, Wednesday.
[08:12:29]  You know?
[08:12:30]  I'm sorry, this is my bestie, I'm gonna back her up.
[08:12:32]  Okay, watch though Monday.
[08:12:38]  So three, Monday, 3 p.m.
[08:12:41]  Tuesday 3 p.m.
[08:12:42]  What about Monday 12 a.m?
[08:12:46]  Yeah right, when it turns, exactly you in bed.
[08:12:51]  Okay, look at it.
[08:12:57]  Okay, it's Sunday night, it's.
[08:12:59]  1159.
[08:13:00]  Boom Monday morning.
[08:13:01]  Just like that one win.
[08:13:03]  Okay, if you have three quarters, how much money do you have?
[08:13:06]  I have 75 cents.
[08:13:08]  I think any of the money stuff, the sex workers will do pretty well with it.
[08:13:12]  Yeah, how many nickel?
[08:13:14]  How many nickels make a dollar?
[08:13:18]  Oh, do you get coins at the strip club?
[08:13:21]  I'm gonna bring a roll of quarters to the strip club.
[08:13:25]  I feel like that's like paying a drug dealer in quarters.
[08:13:27]  You don't do that.
[08:13:28]  Oh, 20.
[08:13:29]  There you go.
[08:13:31]  What is 50% of 200?
[08:13:33]  100.
[08:13:34]  What is 10% of 100?
[08:13:36]  10.
[08:13:36]  5 times 5.
[08:13:39]  25.
[08:13:39]  12 divide by 3.
[08:13:42]  4.
[08:13:42]  100 divide by 4.
[08:13:44]  25.
[08:13:45]  15 plus 35.
[08:13:48]  15 plus 35 is.
[08:13:53]  50.
[08:13:55]  90 minus 45.
[08:13:56]  45.
[08:13:58]  How many branches of U.S. government are there?
[08:14:01]  Three.
[08:14:03]  Name one branch of the U.S. government.
[08:14:08]  Judiciary.
[08:14:28]  That water sounded so loud.
[08:14:31]  Yep.
[08:14:32]  That was a loud sip.
[08:14:33]  Yeah.
[08:14:34]  Legislative.
[08:14:36]  Executive.
[08:14:38]  There we go.
[08:14:39]  What document begins with we the people?
[08:14:43]  Um, the Constitution.
[08:14:47]  No?
[08:14:47]  Sorry.
[08:14:49]  My bad.
[08:14:50]  How many stars are on the U.S. flag?
[08:14:55]  Why are you looking at me that way?
[08:14:57]  She's counting the stars.
[08:15:00]  Oh my god.
[08:15:02]  I mean, she was looking at me.
[08:15:04]  mean that's kind of racist just because she's asian doesn't mean no she was counting the stars earlier No, but she was looking at me.
[08:15:14]  Like, I feel like that was really racially incensed.
[08:15:16]  I see her eyes.
[08:15:17]  To suggest, like, just because she has Asian eyes that she's like looking at.
[08:15:22]  I think you're racist.
[08:15:22]  Yeah, just because you're Asian doesn't mean you get to look at me sideways.
[08:15:25]  You're racist for thinking that I thought.
[08:15:27]  I think you're racist.
[08:15:27]  No, I think you're racist.
[08:15:29]  I think you're racist.
[08:15:29]  No, you're definitely racist.
[08:15:31]  No, I think you're definitely the racist one.
[08:15:38]  Just answer.
[08:15:39]  Hey, hey, hey, hey.
[08:15:41]  Stop counting.
[08:15:42]  Answer the question.
[08:15:47]  It's 50-something.
[08:15:48]  I don't know the exact number.
[08:15:51]  53?
[08:15:53]  I think.
[08:15:56]  I think not.
[08:15:57]  I think it's more than 53.
[08:16:00]  What?
[08:16:01]  Tony, it's 52.
[08:16:02]  How many states are there?
[08:16:04]  I don't know.
[08:16:04]  She said 53.
[08:16:05]  52.
[08:16:06]  No, there's 50 states.
[08:16:07]  Oh, boy.
[08:16:08]  50 states?
[08:16:09]  Like the song.
[08:16:10]  50, nifty, united.
[08:16:12]  And American Chinese.
[08:16:16]  That's all I know, though.
[08:16:17]  What century are we in?
[08:16:19]  The 20th century.
[08:16:21]  Right?
[08:16:22]  What?
[08:16:25]  21st.
[08:16:26]  Oh.
[08:16:27]  Well, it's not 2100 right now, so that's why I was like, oh, it's the 20th century, right?
[08:16:31]  Because we're still into the 2000s.
[08:16:34]  I've never heard of like the 21st century.
[08:16:37]  Like 21st century, girl.
[08:16:40]  Yeah, you don't know that song.
[08:16:41]  By Willow Smith.
[08:16:43]  No, I don't know that song.
[08:16:45]  What galaxy do we live in?
[08:16:52]  That's the Milky Way.
[08:16:53]  Oh, there we go.
[08:16:56]  Okay.
[08:16:57]  How many in one dozen?
[08:17:00]  12.
[08:17:01]  How many months in a decade?
[08:17:04]  Really?
[08:17:05]  Yeah.
[08:17:10]  120.
[08:17:13]  You are correct.
[08:17:14]  What year was the U.S. founded?
[08:17:17]  1776.
[08:17:19]  What country did the U.S. gain its independence from?
[08:17:25]  The British.
[08:17:26]  Lexi?
[08:17:30]  I don't know.
[08:17:31]  Guess.
[08:17:32]  Guess.
[08:17:33]  What is it?
[08:17:36]  Yeah, the British.
[08:17:37]  Final answer?
[08:17:38]  Yeah, because we had the Boston Tea Party and all that shit.
[08:17:41]  That could have been the Japanese.
[08:17:44]  No, they wanted.
[08:17:45]  The British are coming.
[08:17:46]  The British are coming.
[08:17:48]  I remember.
[08:17:49]  No, it could have been the Irish or the Carl.
[08:17:51]  No, the British are fucking coming, okay?
[08:17:53]  Body salt tea.
[08:17:54]  The British are coming.
[08:17:56]  That's how I remember.
[08:17:59]  What's that?
[08:18:00]  Body.
[08:18:00]  Oh, I got burned.
[08:18:02]  Yeah.
[08:18:04]  I got burned a couple times.
[08:18:05]  I have a lot of scars.
[08:18:06]  A lot.
[08:18:10]  Where are we?
[08:18:11]  Sorry, last time.
[08:18:12]  Who was the first president of the USA?
[08:18:15]  George Washington.
[08:18:16]  Hmm.
[08:18:17]  What?
[08:18:20]  What country is the Great Wall of China in?
[08:18:25]  Now I've been picking on the Asian women so far tonight, but maybe I should.
[08:18:33]  China. China. China.
[08:18:39]  How many days in a year?
[08:18:41]  365.
[08:18:42]  How many letters in the alphabet?
[08:18:45]  26 or 27?
[08:18:48]  Maybe 28?
[08:18:49]  I don't know.
[08:18:50]  Gotta account for.
[08:18:52]  Should I?
[08:18:53]  Should I count?
[08:18:54]  Yeah, if you can.
[08:18:58]  No.
[08:18:59]  How many days of the week end with the letter Y?
[08:19:02]  Wait, what?
[08:19:03]  Huh?
[08:19:04]  Me?
[08:19:04]  Yeah.
[08:19:06]  What's your question?
[08:19:07]  How many days of the week end with the letter Y?
[08:19:11]  Oh, all of them.
[08:19:14]  You are correct.
[08:19:15]  What language do the people in Idaho speak?
[08:19:18]  Language in Idaho?
[08:19:19]  What do they speak there?
[08:19:20]  English.
[08:19:21]  Are you sure?
[08:19:22]  Lexi?
[08:19:23]  Yes, English.
[08:19:24]  Okay.
[08:19:25]  What ocean is California next to?
[08:19:28]  Um, I don't know.
[08:19:30]  Atlantic?
[08:19:38]  Pacific.
[08:19:39]  Oh.
[08:19:40]  Yeah, because I just remembered PB and it's like Pacific Beach.
[08:19:44]  If a dozen eggs cost $3, how much is each egg?
[08:19:48]  Wait, what?
[08:19:49]  Huh?
[08:19:49]  $3?
[08:19:51]  If a dozen eggs cost $3, how much is each egg?
[08:19:56]  $4?
[08:19:59]  Or each egg?
[08:20:01]  It'd be like $1 over 12.
[08:20:03]  So like 3.
[08:20:07]  25 cents?
[08:20:08]  I don't know.
[08:20:14]  A dozen eggs.
[08:20:15]  You said $3?
[08:20:16]  It'd be 25 cents each.
[08:20:18]  I agree.
[08:20:19]  And 25 cents each.
[08:20:22]  What do you think?
[08:20:29]  25 cents.
[08:20:30]  What is the closest star to Earth?
[08:20:34]  The moon?
[08:20:36]  The sun.
[08:20:37]  The sun.
[08:20:38]  Closest star.
[08:20:39]  Star.
[08:20:40]  Yes, closest star, though.
[08:20:42]  Oh, to Earth?
[08:20:43]  Yeah, to closest star.
[08:20:44]  Sun.
[08:20:46]  Final answer.
[08:20:47]  Yes.
[08:20:48]  You are correct.
[08:20:49]  Do you know what year the War of 1812 started?
[08:20:53]  1812.
[08:20:54]  You are correct.
[08:20:55]  What country is the Panama Canal in?
[08:21:00]  Huh?
[08:21:02]  I don't know, honestly.
[08:21:04]  Lexi?
[08:21:05]  What country is the what?
[08:21:07]  What country is the Panama Canal in?
[08:21:09]  Yeah, I don't know what that means.
[08:21:11]  Can you face straight?
[08:21:13]  I have no clue what that means.
[08:21:15]  Turn your body straight.
[08:21:19]  Zero clue.
[08:21:21]  Guess.
[08:21:21]  Just throw out a country.
[08:21:23]  Um, Spain.
[08:21:25]  Guess a country.
[08:21:26]  Is Panama a country?
[08:21:37]  Wait, can you repeat the question?
[08:21:39]  What country is the Panama Canaland?
[08:21:40]  Panama.
[08:21:41]  Panama.
[08:21:42]  You guys are correct.
[08:21:44]  Let's see.
[08:21:45]  What is 34 plus 66?

=== Math Problems And Pearl Harbor Locations (07:05) ===

[08:22:03]  100.
[08:22:05]  Wait, say the numbers again?
[08:22:06]  34 plus 66.
[08:22:08]  Do you need to do your math again?
[08:22:10]  104.
[08:22:14]  100.
[08:22:17]  100.
[08:22:20]  104?
[08:22:21]  100.
[08:22:22]  100.
[08:22:23]  Yes.
[08:22:23]  100.
[08:22:25]  Okay.
[08:22:26]  Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
[08:22:31]  Japan?
[08:22:35]  Pearl Harbor.
[08:22:40]  Was it Nagasaki that was attacked during Pearl Harbor?
[08:22:43]  Or was it Hiroshima?
[08:22:46]  I think it was Pearl Harbor.
[08:22:49]  But I don't know.
[08:22:50]  But the Japanese Pearl Harbor.
[08:22:54]  That's the English translation of the Pearl.
[08:22:57]  Pearl Harbor.
[08:23:01]  What is 100 minus 66?
[08:23:08]  100 minus 66.
[08:23:13]  It's very simple It's 66 Wow, good for you.
[08:23:29]  Okay.
[08:23:29]  What country did the Vietnam War happen in?
[08:23:32]  Vietnam.
[08:23:34]  What is 100 minus 34?
[08:23:36]  66.
[08:23:38]  How much is a quarter of an hour?
[08:23:43]  How much is a quarter of an hour?
[08:23:53]  Quarter of an hour Yeah, how much is that?
[08:23:56]  Oh, I got it correct.
[08:23:58]  No.
[08:24:01]  Text for it.
[08:24:07]  Yeah, but how much?
[08:24:07]  What's the number?
[08:24:08]  How much is that?
[08:24:09]  How many minutes?
[08:24:14]  25 minutes?
[08:24:16]  I don't know, quarter, 25.
[08:24:20]  25 minutes?
[08:24:23]  Final answer?
[08:24:28]  Good posture.
[08:24:30]  There you go.
[08:24:32]  Okay, how about this?
[08:24:34]  How much is a fourth of an hour?
[08:24:37]  One-fourth of an hour.
[08:24:39]  much as that what is one fourth One over four.
[08:24:51]  Yeah, but what's the word for a fourth?
[08:24:56]  The term.
[08:25:04]  Wow.
[08:25:06]  My lack of water is just like very clear.
[08:25:09]  It's just like very prominent in my mind.
[08:25:11]  How I don't have the term for one-fourth?
[08:25:14]  Yeah, what is the term?
[08:25:15]  Do you want more?
[08:25:18]  It's okay.
[08:25:20]  One-fourth.
[08:25:23]  Okay, so how much is one-fourth of an hour?
[08:25:32]  Just throw out a number.
[08:25:33]  Give us a number.
[08:25:41]  30 minutes.
[08:25:45]  So, a quarter of an hour is 25 minutes.
[08:25:49]  One-fourth of an hour is 30 minutes.
[08:25:52]  Do I have that right?
[08:25:54]  It can be anything it wants it to be.
[08:25:58]  No, it can't.
[08:26:01]  No, it can't.
[08:26:03]  We'd have to redefine, you'd have to change the definition of these words for it to mean that.
[08:26:08]  Okay, who's the current U.S. president?
[08:26:10]  Donald Trump.
[08:26:11]  Who was the U.S. president before Trump?
[08:26:14]  Barack Obama.
[08:26:20]  uh who was the president before trump this term wasn't it Wasn't it Bernie?
[08:26:38]  No, not Bernie.
[08:26:39]  Sorry.
[08:26:40]  Barack?
[08:26:43]  From okay, for the president from 2020 to 2024, who was it?
[08:26:49]  2020 to 2024?
[08:26:51]  Yeah, who's the president?
[08:26:58]  They're not gonna help you.
[08:27:00]  They're not going to say.
[08:27:01]  Why not?
[08:27:02]  I'll help you.
[08:27:04]  Hey, yeah.
[08:27:07]  Just use your phone, a friend.
[08:27:10]  Oh, boy.
[08:27:11]  Wasn't it Trump?
[08:27:12]  When was he not president?
[08:27:15]  Before four years.
[08:27:16]  I want to answer, but I don't want to.
[08:27:18]  Can I say what I think it is?
[08:27:19]  It's Joe Biden, right?
[08:27:21]  Are you sure?
[08:27:21]  Yeah, 100%.
[08:27:23]  Yeah.
[08:27:23]  Joe Biden?
[08:27:24]  Like, yeah, remember all those memes?
[08:27:26]  Joe Biden.
[08:27:27]  Last three U.S. presidents.
[08:27:30]  Trump, Trump, Barack Obama.
[08:27:34]  No?
[08:27:38]  How about this?
[08:27:40]  If we were to exclude Donald Trump, who were the three last presidents?
[08:27:52]  Trump?
[08:27:54]  Barack Obama?
[08:27:55]  No, you can't.
[08:27:55]  No, Trump.
[08:27:57]  No, Trump?
[08:27:58]  No, Trump.
[08:27:59]  Who were the last three presidents?
[08:28:03]  I don't know.
[08:28:04]  All I know is that Barack Obama had two terms, right?
[08:28:07]  Because he can't go again.
[08:28:08]  That's why we didn't vote for him.
[08:28:09]  Who was after Obama?
[08:28:13]  Trump.
[08:28:14]  Well, after Trump.
[08:28:18]  Definitely was not Hillary Bill Clinton.
[08:28:22]  Bill Clinton was after Trump and Obama.
[08:28:27]  Joe Biden?
[08:28:29]  Who was before Barack Obama?
[08:28:34]  I don't know.
[08:28:38]  I'll give you a hint.
[08:28:40]  George Bush?
[08:28:44]  You are correct.
[08:28:45]  Okay.
[08:28:46]  Yeah, it's not 24.
[08:28:48]  What is 77 plus 33?
[08:28:52]  You know what, Lexi?
[08:28:54]  77 plus 33.
[08:28:56]  77 plus 33.
[08:28:58]  Yeah, 77 plus 110.
[08:28:59]  Huh?
[08:29:00]  110.
[08:29:00]  Good job.
[08:29:01]  66 plus 44.
[08:29:05]  Oh, my God.
[08:29:07]  110.

=== WWII Casualty Estimates And Axis Powers (07:08) ===

[08:29:09]  If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today?
[08:29:14]  10.
[08:29:17]  Lexi?
[08:29:18]  10.
[08:29:19]  But you're 22, right?
[08:29:20]  Yeah, but I was born 10 years ago.
[08:29:22]  So I was in 10 years.
[08:29:23]  But like, you were how old?
[08:29:26]  28?
[08:29:27]  28.
[08:29:27]  Yeah, so if you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be?
[08:29:30]  10.
[08:29:31]  Okay, good job.
[08:29:32]  How many world wars were there?
[08:29:34]  Three.
[08:29:36]  Two?
[08:29:37]  Two.
[08:29:37]  Three.
[08:29:38]  Two.
[08:29:39]  Two.
[08:29:40]  Into the mics, guys.
[08:29:41]  Mics.
[08:29:41]  Two.
[08:29:42]  Two.
[08:29:43]  Okay.
[08:29:44]  What decade, what decade was World War I?
[08:29:48]  So when I asked for a decade, I'm 1820s, 1930s.
[08:29:53]  I'm looking for the decade.
[08:29:59]  I don't know.
[08:30:00]  Just guess.
[08:30:02]  Was it the 1810s, 1850s?
[08:30:06]  I will say the 1820s.
[08:30:08]  Okay.
[08:30:09]  Okay.
[08:30:09]  1910s?
[08:30:13]  17 decade, 1770s?
[08:30:19]  Oh.
[08:30:20]  Or 1780s?
[08:30:24]  Like 1780s?
[08:30:28]  You said World War I?
[08:30:29]  Yeah.
[08:30:29]  1914.
[08:30:31]  1910s, yeah.
[08:30:32]  1910s.
[08:30:36]  What was the primary decade of World War II?
[08:30:39]  The what?
[08:30:40]  World War II.
[08:30:40]  Primary decade.
[08:30:45]  I don't know.
[08:30:46]  2000s.
[08:30:49]  But World.
[08:30:51]  Hold on.
[08:30:52]  World War II took place in the 2000s.
[08:30:57]  Well, definitely after the 1910s.
[08:31:01]  1920s?
[08:31:03]  So World War II took place the decade you were born.
[08:31:08]  I don't know when anything took place.
[08:31:11]  I have a question.
[08:31:20]  Um.
[08:31:21]  The 30s through 40s.
[08:31:25]  The 1940s?
[08:31:29]  30s?
[08:31:30]  But World War I was in the 17 something?
[08:31:35]  The 1700s.
[08:31:35]  Yeah, so which World War II?
[08:31:37]  So it happened after the 17th?
[08:31:38]  Okay, yeah.
[08:31:39]  1940s.
[08:31:41]  Yeah, the 40s.
[08:31:43]  1940s.
[08:31:47]  Okay, multiple choice question.
[08:31:50]  How many people died during World War II?
[08:31:56]  10,000, 100,000, 2 million.
[08:32:04]  Well, I guess this would be military casualties or 20 million.
[08:32:10]  2 million.
[08:32:10]  2 million?
[08:32:11]  They were not counting like the Holocaust deaths?
[08:32:14]  Just the military casualties.
[08:32:18]  Which one's closer?
[08:32:20]  Can I hear the question?
[08:32:21]  I mean, the 10,000, 100,000, 2 million, 20 million.
[08:32:25]  I think 2 million?
[08:32:27]  2 million?
[08:32:28]  Okay.
[08:32:29]  She's been pretty correct on a lot of these.
[08:32:33]  Like 10,000?
[08:32:36]  10,000 died during World War II?
[08:32:38]  Let me repeat the numbers again.
[08:32:39]  Okay, so the question is: how many people died during World War II?
[08:32:43]  Multiple choice question: 10,000, 100,000, 2 million, 20 million.
[08:32:49]  Which one's closer?
[08:32:51]  2 million.
[08:32:52]  2 million?
[08:32:53]  Okay.
[08:32:54]  I would say 2.
[08:32:55]  2 million?
[08:32:59]  2 million.
[08:33:00]  You all got that wrong.
[08:33:02]  I was going to say 20 million, 2 million.
[08:33:04]  All got it wrong.
[08:33:05]  Closer to 20 million.
[08:33:06]  Wow, that's crazy.
[08:33:07]  That's the presentation.
[08:33:07]  That's right, I just remember it was like a crazy.
[08:33:10]  I was like, what the fuck?
[08:33:11]  Well, I did say military deaths.
[08:33:13]  How many military deaths World War II?
[08:33:17]  Yeah.
[08:33:18]  Total.
[08:33:19]  Wait.
[08:33:21]  That's.
[08:33:22]  Well, no, that's for just the Soviet Union.
[08:33:24]  Total civilian.
[08:33:25]  Wait.
[08:33:26]  What the fuck?
[08:33:31]  Wait.
[08:33:32]  What the fuck?
[08:33:34]  Where's the fucking total?
[08:33:37]  For military casual.
[08:33:39]  What the fuck?
[08:33:40]  What's the fuck?
[08:33:41]  Okay, it's not fucking giving it to me.
[08:33:44]  Rude.
[08:33:45]  Tautabao.
[08:33:48]  Military deaths.
[08:33:50]  Anyways, whatever.
[08:33:53]  Wait, hold on.
[08:33:54]  Where's my notes?
[08:33:59]  Oh, name one Allied power, one Axis power from World War II, and I'll start.
[08:34:05]  I'll give you.
[08:34:05]  So, okay, one Allied power, USA, one Axis power, Germany.
[08:34:10]  So tell me one other of each.
[08:34:14]  The Soviet Union was an ally, allied power.
[08:34:19]  And then one Axis power?
[08:34:23]  That was not Germany.
[08:34:29]  Didn't you just say Russia?
[08:34:31]  Wait, didn't she.
[08:34:32]  Russia was both an allied power and an Axis power.
[08:34:38]  Sorry.
[08:34:39]  Interesting.
[08:34:42]  Apology, not accepted.
[08:34:44]  You should go stand in the corner and think about what you've done.
[08:34:48]  I would, but I don't call you daddy, so I can't do it.
[08:34:54]  You know?
[08:34:55]  It's never too late to start.
[08:34:58]  Wait, what?
[08:35:00]  What about you?
[08:35:01]  Allied power.
[08:35:04]  Should I witch war?
[08:35:05]  Sorry?
[08:35:06]  World War II.
[08:35:07]  Oh, oh, gosh.
[08:35:10]  Was France on our side?
[08:35:12]  That was one.
[08:35:14]  And then Axis.
[08:35:16]  Did you say Germany?
[08:35:17]  No, I said the Soviet Union.
[08:35:18]  Okay, then Germany.
[08:35:19]  I already said Germany.
[08:35:21]  Oh, also China?
[08:35:24]  China was an Axis power?
[08:35:26]  What was Japan?
[08:35:28]  Oh, wait, was it wait, then Japan?
[08:35:30]  Were they allied?
[08:35:32]  No, we were against them.
[08:35:34]  So they were.
[08:35:35]  Wait, I'm confused.
[08:35:37]  I'm confused too.
[08:35:38]  That's crazy.
[08:35:40]  This is not my strong question.
[08:35:42]  Is Axis power?
[08:35:45]  Japan.
[08:35:47]  Japan and Russia were Axis powers, and then obviously Germany, but then we already said that.
[08:35:53]  And then the U.S. and France were allied powers.
[08:35:59]  Axis were the bad ones.
[08:36:00]  K-pop stars Do you not know any Name three K-pop stars?
[08:36:11]  Jimin, Chung Cook, TOP.
[08:36:14]  Name three Kardashians.

=== Percentages, Yachts, And K-Pop Stars (05:03) ===

[08:36:17]  Wait, let me let her do this one.
[08:36:20]  Three Kardashians.
[08:36:23]  Kim.
[08:36:28]  Kendall?
[08:36:30]  And Kylie?
[08:36:33]  Even though.
[08:36:34]  Does it count?
[08:36:35]  We will accept it.
[08:36:36]  Let's see here.
[08:36:37]  Final few.
[08:36:43]  Ah, yes.
[08:36:44]  Okay.
[08:36:44]  What percentage of men do you think are over six feet?
[08:36:48]  Ah, 30.
[08:36:51]  one in the whole world Let's just say the USA.
[08:37:00]  30%.
[08:37:01]  Like one to ten.
[08:37:03]  I don't know.
[08:37:04]  Twenty.
[08:37:06]  Like five.
[08:37:07]  I feel like ten percent.
[08:37:09]  It's like maybe five.
[08:37:11]  Fifteen.
[08:37:11]  I'll say like eight percent.
[08:37:13]  What percent of men make at least one million dollars a year?
[08:37:16]  One percent.
[08:37:17]  One percent.
[08:37:18]  One.
[08:37:19]  One percent.
[08:37:20]  I feel like more like ten percent.
[08:37:21]  Like, not 1%.
[08:37:23]  10% of men make a million?
[08:37:24]  Yeah, maybe less than 1%.
[08:37:26]  Less than a percent?
[08:37:28]  Less than 1%.
[08:37:29]  What percentage of men have yachts?
[08:37:32]  I would say less.
[08:37:33]  Because, like, if there's 10% are like making a mill, you know.
[08:37:36]  Well, not everybody wants a yacht because it's really expensive to maintain.
[08:37:40]  I would say, like, maybe of the 10% that make a million, like 30%, because the rest of them probably want to hang out with their friends that have yachts.
[08:37:51]  Three to four.
[08:37:51]  Yeah, because I feel like if one person in the friend group has a yacht, like they all have a yacht, and yachts are expensive to maintain.
[08:37:57]  So 3% of men have yachts.
[08:37:59]  I would say less than 1%.
[08:38:03]  0.1%.
[08:38:08]  2%.
[08:38:09]  Posture.
[08:38:11]  I would say 5%.
[08:38:16]  Less than 1%.
[08:38:17]  Less than a percent.
[08:38:18]  Less than a percent.
[08:38:21]  Let's see.
[08:38:24]  Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?
[08:38:26]  I have.
[08:38:27]  Yeah.
[08:38:28]  Yes.
[08:38:30]  Yeah.
[08:38:31]  Yes.
[08:38:32]  No.
[08:38:33]  Yes.
[08:38:36]  What's the quickest?
[08:38:37]  I'll answer first.
[08:38:38]  I'll be nice.
[08:38:41]  It was under three hours.
[08:38:44]  Well, I talked to them for at least a week, and then the first time that we met up, three hours.
[08:38:50]  Six hours?
[08:38:53]  Five.
[08:38:54]  Like three days.
[08:38:55]  Like an hour with my ex-girlfriend.
[08:38:59]  Like 18 hours.
[08:39:00]  18 hours?
[08:39:03]  What about the one guy?
[08:39:04]  So specific.
[08:39:05]  It's a little suspicious.
[08:39:08]  18 hours.
[08:39:10]  Like, he stayed over three hours.
[08:39:13]  Three hours?
[08:39:14]  Okay.
[08:39:15]  Yeah.
[08:39:15]  Anyone here had a threesome show of hands?
[08:39:18]  Never.
[08:39:18]  Never.
[08:39:19]  I've kind of.
[08:39:20]  I've never had a threesome.
[08:39:21]  I got mad at the girl.
[08:39:24]  I've been offered.
[08:39:25]  I've never heard of those one person.
[08:39:26]  But I felt like it would be awkward.
[08:39:27]  Yeah, you wouldn't.
[08:39:28]  It didn't even happen.
[08:39:29]  Super awkward.
[08:39:29]  Yeah, I would.
[08:39:30]  Like, I don't want that man touching me.
[08:39:32]  That's your man.
[08:39:33]  Get him away from me, girl.
[08:39:34]  Like, have higher standards.
[08:39:36]  Has anybody had more than the threesome?
[08:39:37]  Foursome?
[08:39:38]  Or G?
[08:39:39]  Or G. Or G. Anyone had a whole phase?
[08:39:43]  I've had a whole phase.
[08:39:45]  I don't know if I would consider it a whole phase, but I dated a lot of people, but I would not fuck them.
[08:39:49]  I would just keep on dating.
[08:39:50]  Like, speed dating.
[08:39:51]  You were a homie hopper?
[08:39:52]  What's that?
[08:39:53]  Yeah.
[08:39:54]  So I had a guy friend.
[08:39:56]  We ended up dating and then we broke up.
[08:39:57]  So I fucked everyone in his friend group.
[08:39:59]  That's yikes.
[08:40:02]  That's what I added to the list.
[08:40:05]  I feel like it's easier for women to do that.
[08:40:08]  I feel like they get away with it more.
[08:40:11]  Like, I don't know.
[08:40:14]  Just to be clear, there was like five friends total.
[08:40:17]  It wasn't like crazy.
[08:40:18]  That's a good amount of time.
[08:40:20]  But I mean, but like, and with how much of a time span?
[08:40:23]  Because like, it wasn't like I was like back to back with them.
[08:40:25]  Has anyone here hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?
[08:40:29]  Nope.
[08:40:30]  Yes?
[08:40:33]  Yeah.
[08:40:33]  Three guys, 24-hour period?
[08:40:36]  No.
[08:40:36]  That's too much.
[08:40:37]  Too much.
[08:40:38]  How many in the seven-day period?
[08:40:41]  Oh, in high school, probably like four.
[08:40:45]  I think three.
[08:40:47]  Within a seven-day period.
[08:40:50]  In a seven-day period?
[08:40:52]  Four?
[08:40:52]  In a seven-day period?
[08:40:53]  I mean, maybe like a two-week period.
[08:40:57]  Yeah, maybe like a, yeah, a three, a three, a solid three.
[08:41:01]  Like in a college phase.
[08:41:02]  I was trying to go through the friends, okay?
[08:41:04]  How many in the one-month period?
[08:41:06]  How many have you had carnal knowledge with?
[08:41:11]  Honestly, as of lately, zero, but that's just me, though.
[08:41:15]  I've been celebrating.
[08:41:16]  Well, I mean, it would at least be one per month?

=== Phone Lists And Carnal Knowledge Counts (03:59) ===

[08:41:21]  No.
[08:41:21]  No.
[08:41:21]  No, per week.
[08:41:22]  In a one-month period, if you're not a virgin, is that your list?
[08:41:27]  Oh, like how many guys are like the most amount of men that I've like had sexual intercourse with in a month?
[08:41:32]  It's in one month, yeah.
[08:41:34]  Okay.
[08:41:35]  Two.
[08:41:35]  Two?
[08:41:36]  Yeah.
[08:41:37]  Like three or four?
[08:41:39]  Two.
[08:41:41]  Big three.
[08:41:43]  Three.
[08:41:45]  One.
[08:41:49]  Oh my gosh.
[08:41:50]  Are you waiting on me?
[08:41:51]  Yeah.
[08:41:51]  Oh, I'm sorry.
[08:41:52]  I'm looking up like the word bodies.
[08:41:54]  The bodies?
[08:41:55]  Because it's in my nose.
[08:41:57]  Wait, what's the body count again for you?
[08:41:59]  16.
[08:42:00]  You want to read the list?
[08:42:02]  Close to them.
[08:42:02]  Yeah.
[08:42:03]  Just first name.
[08:42:04]  First name.
[08:42:04]  Close to the mic, please.
[08:42:05]  Close to the mic.
[08:42:06]  Oh, my God.
[08:42:07]  I'm sorry.
[08:42:08]  Did I get my list too?
[08:42:09]  Yes, actually, go get your phone.
[08:42:11]  Actually?
[08:42:11]  Yeah, just do it.
[08:42:12]  We'll do list.
[08:42:13]  First names only?
[08:42:13]  Do you have a list?
[08:42:14]  There's too many like celebrities on my list to name on.
[08:42:17]  Can you do just first name?
[08:42:19]  Uh, I think.
[08:42:21]  Would that give it away?
[08:42:21]  Sure.
[08:42:22]  Do you have a list?
[08:42:23]  No.
[08:42:24]  Okay.
[08:42:24]  Don't tell me I have an iPod.
[08:42:25]  Should I show my list?
[08:42:27]  Did you want?
[08:42:27]  You shouldn't show your list, but you can read it.
[08:42:29]  Did you want to?
[08:42:29]  Okay.
[08:42:30]  Did she go in?
[08:42:31]  Wait, she's got all that.
[08:42:34]  Maybe I should have just had you bring the.
[08:42:35]  Oh my god, I lied at 17, not 16.
[08:42:38]  Where is it?
[08:42:39]  Oh, I found it.
[08:42:41]  One, Omar, John, Jovan, Drake, Kevin, and Darwin.
[08:42:45]  Stop, They already got it, right?
[08:42:48]  Oh, you need yours?
[08:42:49]  No, it's okay.
[08:42:49]  No, no, no.
[08:42:50]  So it's six.
[08:42:51]  Officially six.
[08:42:52]  Here, what's your phone?
[08:42:53]  What's your phone?
[08:42:54]  Here, I have to have you redo it because.
[08:42:56]  Oh, sorry.
[08:42:57]  Yeah, go ahead.
[08:42:58]  Okay, let's see.
[08:42:59]  Okay.
[08:43:00]  Give her the phone, please.
[08:43:01]  Oh, here.
[08:43:02]  Here's the phone.
[08:43:02]  No, no.
[08:43:03]  Oh, my God.
[08:43:04]  Give her, give her her, her phone, please.
[08:43:08]  Which phone is yours?
[08:43:09]  This is my phone.
[08:43:10]  My phone.
[08:43:11]  Oh, my God.
[08:43:12]  I'm going to blow my fucking brains out.
[08:43:13]  Give her her phone.
[08:43:15]  This is my phone.
[08:43:17]  Not you.
[08:43:18]  Oh, my God.
[08:43:18]  Tiffany, give her the fucking phone.
[08:43:21]  The pink one.
[08:43:22]  Holy fuck.
[08:43:23]  Holy fuck.
[08:43:25]  You were trying to hand me your phone.
[08:43:26]  You ridiculous.
[08:43:31]  Wait a thing with the numbers.
[08:43:34]  Me, I start digging in my butt.
[08:43:36]  I'm like, where?
[08:43:37]  You have numbers in your butt?
[08:43:38]  Where's the phone?
[08:43:41]  You lost a phone in your butt.
[08:43:42]  That's crazy.
[08:43:43]  You know, it might be up my ass.
[08:43:47]  Okay, read it again, please.
[08:43:53]  Omar, John, Jovan, Drake, Kevin, and Darwin.
[08:44:00]  Oh, gosh.
[08:44:01]  Chris, Nate, Adam, Kai, Carlos, Carlos' friend, Michael Surly, male.
[08:44:08]  Caleb.
[08:44:09]  Oh, sorry.
[08:44:10]  Zeno, Sean, Riley, Ernesto, Alex, Sergi, JP, Noah, Jack, Toma, Roger, Daniel, John, Logan, and Tony.
[08:44:21]  Rocco, Adrian, Caleb, Brendan, Harley, Nick, Mason, Jalen, Kyle, Marco, Aiden, Eli, Evan, Indy, EBK.
[08:44:29]  I didn't know his real name.
[08:44:30]  He was a drug dealer.
[08:44:32]  Tony, Charles.
[08:44:34]  Mine got deleted.
[08:44:36]  Oh, my God.
[08:44:37]  I had a fucking aneurysm in your fucking list.
[08:44:42]  Your fucking list isn't fucking there.
[08:44:45]  See, I told you every girl has a list.
[08:44:48]  I didn't know that every girl had a list.
[08:44:51]  I like knowing.
[08:44:52]  I didn't know that until just recently.
[08:44:53]  It's history.
[08:44:54]  I had to rebuke fucking Tiffany for you.
[08:44:58]  Oh, my God.
[08:45:00]  You owe Tiffany apology.
[08:45:02]  I'm sorry.
[08:45:03]  Tiffany deserves a hug.
[08:45:04]  I'm gaslighting.
[08:45:05]  She deserves free therapy.
[08:45:07]  You should give her one.
[08:45:07]  Does anyone have like them raised?
[08:45:09]  I'm not a lesbian either.
[08:45:11]  Actually, I'm biologically, but I prefer men.
[08:45:15]  I love that for you.
[08:45:16]  Okay.
[08:45:17]  Let's see.
[08:45:18]  I think we have like three more.

=== Inherent Racism And Deleted Exes (03:25) ===

[08:45:20]  Are men the problem?
[08:45:22]  Yes.
[08:45:23]  What?
[08:45:24]  It depends on the relationship.
[08:45:28]  Men are always the problem.
[08:45:30]  Exhibit A. You're toxic.
[08:45:35]  Okay.
[08:45:35]  I thought she had aura.
[08:45:36]  How is she toxic?
[08:45:37]  I said she had 1% aura.
[08:45:39]  Oh, yeah.
[08:45:43]  What color do you think her aura is?
[08:45:45]  I thought you were about to ask what color.
[08:45:47]  What colors are labia?
[08:45:49]  I thought you were.
[08:45:49]  What color is it?
[08:45:50]  I thought that sounds like fucking crazy, dude.
[08:45:53]  Actually, does a carpet match the drapes?
[08:45:55]  What color is your lips?
[08:45:57]  Does your carpet match the drapes?
[08:46:00]  It's the same color.
[08:46:01]  What time is it?
[08:46:03]  It's time for me to try to wrap this up.
[08:46:04]  If you guys fucking answered questions in an efficient way, damn, this is what I'm saying.
[08:46:09]  Okay, guys, just straight up answer no more Thai talk.
[08:46:11]  Okay.
[08:46:13]  Do men suck?
[08:46:15]  Yes.
[08:46:15]  Are men trash?
[08:46:17]  Yes.
[08:46:17]  You're a fucking terrible person.
[08:46:19]  Thank you.
[08:46:25]  Thank you.
[08:46:25]  And fuck you.
[08:46:26]  Do we need men?
[08:46:29]  And fuck you.
[08:46:33]  Do women need men?
[08:46:34]  Yes.
[08:46:35]  Do women need men?
[08:46:37]  Yeah.
[08:46:37]  Yes.
[08:46:38]  I need a man.
[08:46:39]  I need a man.
[08:46:40]  I love men, but I also hate men.
[08:46:42]  So, you know, love and hate hand in hand.
[08:46:44]  If you could snap your finger and all men disappeared and women could reproduce without men, no, no, no.
[08:46:51]  I love men.
[08:46:52]  But you hate them.
[08:46:53]  I love and hate them.
[08:46:55]  I hate them when they're menning.
[08:46:59]  But, you know, I love them when like men are just like men and they're just like being a man, you know, like it's so sexy is shit.
[08:47:06]  Yeah.
[08:47:08]  I love that for you guys.
[08:47:10]  Yeah.
[08:47:11]  Okay.
[08:47:12]  Do you think white people are inherently racist?
[08:47:17]  I think that they're inherently prejudiced, but it's not entirely their fault, you know?
[08:47:23]  They just don't really understand the discrimination that other races or minority feel because they've never experienced it, and that's okay.
[08:47:31]  That's not okay.
[08:47:34]  That is not okay.
[08:47:35]  I think that they're just born with a little bit more prejudice than minorities.
[08:47:41]  That's all.
[08:47:42]  I think white people are actually the most tolerant group of people to pretty much have ever existed in all of human history.
[08:47:50]  Caucasians.
[08:47:53]  Malaysians.
[08:47:54]  Like, let me ask you a question.
[08:47:55]  Do you think Chinese people are more or less tolerant than Western white people?
[08:48:01]  Tolerant?
[08:48:03]  As in, like, they're more well-behaved?
[08:48:05]  The word you used was prejudice, I think.
[08:48:07]  Yes.
[08:48:08]  So do you think Chinese people are more prejudiced or do you think white people, like American white people, are more prejudiced?
[08:48:16]  I don't know.
[08:48:17]  I guess.
[08:48:18]  You want to hear something crazy?
[08:48:20]  Chinese people are more prejudiced against other Asian groups than white people are against pretty much any racial group.
[08:48:31]  I can attest to this as somebody who works at Chinese companies.
[08:48:35]  You work at Chinese companies?
[08:48:37]  Yeah.
[08:48:37]  Don't get them started.
[08:48:39]  Yeah, like the cut company.
[08:48:40]  Non-Asian.
[08:48:40]  Oh my God.
[08:48:41]  Don't even get me started on that.
[08:48:42]  That part.
[08:48:43]  Don't even get her started.
[08:48:45]  She's literally.

=== Makeup Removal And Final Trivia (08:58) ===

[08:48:46]  Oh, my God.
[08:48:47]  I love my companies, though.
[08:48:48]  If you guys are watching this, I love you all.
[08:48:51]  Yeah, sponsor her more.
[08:48:52]  Okay.
[08:48:54]  Is everyone inherently racist?
[08:48:58]  Like our Puerto Rican camera is inherently racist.
[08:49:03]  I think everybody understands what discrimination and racism is to an extent.
[08:49:08]  And everyone kind of finds it a little bit humorous.
[08:49:12]  Do you think Trump is a fascist?
[08:49:16]  No.
[08:49:17]  Anybody think Trump is a fascist?
[08:49:18]  Can I get the definition of a fascist?
[08:49:21]  That's gonna be open confidence.
[08:49:26]  I feel like it's a little extreme.
[08:49:27]  A little extreme.
[08:49:28]  Yeah, we got a bass lesbian girl here.
[08:49:31]  All right.
[08:49:31]  Reasonable.
[08:49:32]  Everybody assumes that I'm like going to be like the crazy super left one just because I'm gay.
[08:49:37]  I didn't assume.
[08:49:37]  I'm just, you know.
[08:49:40]  Well, I'm from Orange County.
[08:49:41]  Oh, there you go.
[08:49:42]  That explains.
[08:49:43]  That makes you moderate.
[08:49:45]  Okay, well, that's pretty much it for my questions.
[08:49:48]  Any final thoughts from anybody before we wrap up the show?
[08:49:51]  This was fun.
[08:49:52]  Well, I had a good time.
[08:49:53]  It was okay.
[08:49:54]  Yeah.
[08:49:54]  It was all right.
[08:49:56]  What do you think about the USA?
[08:49:58]  Well, I think that it's a great place to be free.
[08:50:03]  God bless America.
[08:50:05]  That's all I have to say about it.
[08:50:08]  Safer than a lot of countries.
[08:50:11]  I always think about moving to Costa Rica on like a private island.
[08:50:14]  What do you think about the USA?
[08:50:17]  I could leave it.
[08:50:18]  I could stay here.
[08:50:19]  You do not like the USA?
[08:50:20]  Every place has their pros and cons.
[08:50:22]  Yeah, I'm not like, I'm not opposed to leaving, but also I would leave the U.S.
[08:50:27]  I would live like outside of the U.S.
[08:50:29]  But I mean, yeah, the U.S. is my home, so.
[08:50:32]  For shizzle.
[08:50:33]  Any final thoughts from any of you before I wrap the show up?
[08:50:37]  Should we do makeup removal?
[08:50:38]  Who's down to take off their makeup?
[08:50:40]  I'd love to.
[08:50:40]  I mean, go do it.
[08:50:42]  Can I?
[08:50:43]  Yeah.
[08:50:44]  Okay.
[08:50:45]  Wait, are they like actually good makeup wipes or is it going to leave residue on my face?
[08:50:49]  Okay.
[08:50:49]  Are you lying to me?
[08:50:50]  They're the best.
[08:50:51]  Oh, no, they're Britsbees.
[08:50:52]  Oh, they are the nice ones.
[08:50:53]  Not exactly, though.
[08:50:55]  Oh, those are Kirkland.
[08:50:56]  No, I'm good.
[08:50:56]  Lexi?
[08:50:57]  You actually want me to remove my makeup remote?
[08:50:59]  If you have sensitive skin, do not use those.
[08:51:02]  No, that's not true.
[08:51:03]  These are the best for skins.
[08:51:03]  Those baroque me the freaking.
[08:51:05]  No, these are the best for sensitive skin.
[08:51:07]  No, I have very acne-prone skin.
[08:51:09]  No, you don't.
[08:51:09]  Your skin's flawless and beautiful.
[08:51:10]  Fucking do it.
[08:51:11]  I have very dad's sensitivity.
[08:51:13]  What are you talking about?
[08:51:14]  You're flawless.
[08:51:15]  It's better than the makeup skin.
[08:51:17]  You are stunning, Lexi.
[08:51:19]  Stunning.
[08:51:20]  Stunning.
[08:51:22]  You are just so fly.
[08:51:24]  You know, for shizzle.
[08:51:26]  And like, I have my parents saying.
[08:51:31]  Lexi, come on.
[08:51:32]  No.
[08:51:33]  Come on.
[08:51:34]  No, I'm going out tonight.
[08:51:35]  No, you're not.
[08:51:39]  It is 2 a.m.
[08:51:40]  It is 2 a.m.
[08:51:42]  Oh, yeah, we're not going nowhere.
[08:51:44]  There you go.
[08:51:46]  You're going to do it.
[08:51:47]  Makeup.
[08:51:47]  Okay, thanks.
[08:51:48]  All right, give her some wipes.
[08:51:49]  Pass the wipes down, please.
[08:51:50]  Are you going to do it?
[08:51:51]  I don't want to do it.
[08:51:52]  Okay.
[08:51:53]  Can I have it?
[08:51:53]  Yeah, can I use it?
[08:51:54]  All right.
[08:51:54]  And don't toss them because don't toss them, hold them.
[08:51:57]  Keep them because we're going to.
[08:51:59]  I'll make you beautiful, baby.
[08:52:02]  Mine.
[08:52:03]  You're going to do it?
[08:52:04]  You're going to do it.
[08:52:06]  Mine's mine.
[08:52:08]  Bro, she can't count.
[08:52:10]  She can't remove makeup wipes.
[08:52:11]  She doesn't know how many states there are.
[08:52:13]  Help this girl.
[08:52:13]  Let me get out of the health system.
[08:52:16]  She's my best friend.
[08:52:17]  I can laugh about this stuff.
[08:52:19]  Not you.
[08:52:20]  I'm just kidding.
[08:52:23]  All right.
[08:52:23]  Well, while they're doing that, I guess a couple of final things here as I do my closing outro for the show.
[08:52:30]  Of course, Big Labya Matter.
[08:52:33]  Guys, like the video.
[08:52:35]  I guess we can exit this.
[08:52:36]  Oh my god, it is so late right now.
[08:52:40]  Yeah, I'm just going to wrap actually.
[08:52:42]  All right.
[08:52:43]  Like the video, please.
[08:52:45]  Like the video if you guys enjoyed the stream.
[08:52:48]  I can't believe that we're like just like sitting here taking off our makeup.
[08:52:52]  Oh my god.
[08:52:54]  Like why would I do that?
[08:52:56]  That's so crazy.
[08:52:58]  GG.
[08:52:59]  Oops, hold on.
[08:53:00]  GG gang.
[08:53:01]  GG.
[08:53:02]  Well played.
[08:53:03]  To the panel.
[08:53:03]  Last call, hit the like button, please, on your way out.
[08:53:06]  Also, please leave a nice comment once the live ends.
[08:53:09]  I read them.
[08:53:09]  Positivity is nice.
[08:53:10]  Helps the algo.
[08:53:11]  Thank you for tuning in tonight.
[08:53:13]  You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
[08:53:15]  I have a four-hour drive.
[08:53:18]  All the way back.
[08:53:19]  Nice.
[08:53:19]  You'll get to see the sunset.
[08:53:20]  That's so cool.
[08:53:21]  Sunrise.
[08:53:22]  Sorry, yeah.
[08:53:23]  Sunrise.
[08:53:23]  Yeah.
[08:53:24]  Thanks for saving me questions.
[08:53:25]  I'm going to wash my face when I get home.
[08:53:27]  I got you.
[08:53:27]  I'm a nice guy like that.
[08:53:28]  I'm a gentleman.
[08:53:30]  So, do I look like immensely different?
[08:53:33]  Oh, I thought you were about to say, do you look mentally?
[08:53:37]  Did anybody else hear that?
[08:53:38]  I heard that.
[08:53:39]  Mentally.
[08:53:40]  I thought she said mentally different.
[08:53:42]  There's a bit more.
[08:53:42]  You didn't get all of it, to be honest.
[08:53:44]  No, I think I got all of it.
[08:53:47]  I think that's all of it.
[08:53:48]  I can see myself.
[08:53:48]  I'm still grown for it.
[08:53:49]  I'm just making sure it's all ah.
[08:53:52]  Hold up.
[08:53:53]  Guys, those of you who are done, hold it up.
[08:53:55]  Spread up.
[08:53:55]  Oh, there's a little blood on your piercing.
[08:53:58]  What?
[08:53:58]  I'm just saying.
[08:53:59]  Like, there's nothing.
[08:54:00]  There's nothing there.
[08:54:02]  Hold it up.
[08:54:03]  Show them.
[08:54:04]  Show them.
[08:54:04]  Spread.
[08:54:05]  There it is.
[08:54:06]  There's the damage.
[08:54:08]  There's some blood on here for my piercing.
[08:54:11]  Oh, shit.
[08:54:13]  All right.
[08:54:15]  Yes.
[08:54:16]  That's circumstantial.
[08:54:17]  That's like a little heavy makeup day.
[08:54:22]  Wait, put your phones on.
[08:54:26]  Put the screen down.
[08:54:27]  Put your screen down for your phone, Lexi.
[08:54:29]  Lexi, Lexi, Lexi, screen down, please.
[08:54:37]  Hold it up.
[08:54:37]  Hold it up, Jennington.
[08:54:43]  What does your tattoo say?
[08:54:44]  Handle with care?
[08:54:47]  It's cute.
[08:54:48]  Wow.
[08:54:49]  You know, it's not very good.
[08:54:51]  You should get one that you should get a hooked on phonics tattoo.
[08:54:57]  A what?
[08:54:57]  What?
[08:54:58]  Maybe that's a millennial thing.
[08:55:00]  I don't know.
[08:55:00]  Okay.
[08:55:00]  I remember.
[08:55:02]  Guys, thank you for tuning in tonight.
[08:55:03]  That was an interesting stream.
[08:55:05]  I was on my period tonight.
[08:55:07]  You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
[08:55:09]  I appreciate that.
[08:55:10]  Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
[08:55:13]  Thank you guys.
[08:55:14]  We'll be live again Sunday, 5 p.m. Pacific.
[08:55:16]  We might have a debate on Friday, actually.
[08:55:21]  Things are a little up in the air.
[08:55:22]  Wait, Friday or Saturday?
[08:55:26]  Can you put your white beat?
[08:55:28]  Is it the 19th?
[08:55:33]  Wait, the 19th?
[08:55:35]  That's a Friday.
[08:55:36]  Okay.
[08:55:36]  I think we have a debate on the 19th.
[08:55:40]  So we'll see.
[08:55:40]  And then we have Rachel Wilson at the end of the month for one debate and one dating talk.
[08:55:44]  Any girls who want to be on the show, if you want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara.
[08:55:49]  07's in the chat.
[08:55:51]  Is there anything we're forgetting here?
[08:55:53]  She took her.
[08:55:55]  She's wearing it as a hat.
[08:55:57]  Nice.
[08:55:58]  It looks good.
[08:55:59]  That's a good look on you.
[08:56:00]  Thank you.
[08:56:00]  It looks, you look stunning and brave.
[08:56:03]  Let's see here.
[08:56:05]  Like the video, boys.
[08:56:06]  Like the video if you enjoyed the stream.
[08:56:08]  I'm trying to think if there's anything else.
[08:56:10]  I don't think so.
[08:56:11]  You stressed me out so bad I broke his head off.
[08:56:14]  I noticed that.
[08:56:20]  I saw his head.
[08:56:21]  I literally broke it.
[08:56:23]  You like decapitated it early on.
[08:56:25]  I didn't mean, no, I know.
[08:56:26]  It was early on.
[08:56:27]  No, no, no.
[08:56:27]  I didn't want to.
[08:56:28]  I was trying so hard not to stim, but there was a couple times.
[08:56:30]  That was definitely early on.
[08:56:32]  All right.
[08:56:32]  Well, yeah.
[08:56:33]  Thank you guys for tuning in.
[08:56:35]  Thank you guys for tuning in.
[08:56:37]  07's in the chat, guys.
[08:56:39]  07's in the chat.
[08:56:41]  Good night, guys.
[08:56:42]  Good night.
[08:56:42]  And we will see you next time.
[08:56:46]  All right.
[08:56:47]  Hey, that was a great show, guys.
[08:56:48]  We're wrapping up really quick.
[08:56:49]  Just really quick, you know, just now that the show's over.
[08:56:53]  Did anybody like lie about their body count or relationship status or anything?
[08:56:57]  Like, do you have a boyfriend?
[08:56:59]  No.
[08:57:00]  You still seek early.
[08:57:02]  Oh, my God.
[08:57:02]  I'm in a period of time where I just don't like men.
[08:57:05]  I don't like men, but I do love them only if they come into my life with the music.
[08:57:10]  Oh, my God.
[08:57:11]  Who the hell?
[08:57:13]  Oh, but like, so I actually lied about my body count.
[08:57:16]  I said I was a virgin.
[08:57:18]  We knew.
[08:57:19]  Oh, yeah.
[08:57:20]  It's not true.
[08:57:21]  It's not true.
[08:57:22]  But did anybody lie about their body count?
[08:57:24]  Just curious.
[08:57:24]  No.
[08:57:25]  30 is a money.
[08:57:26]  Yeah, I'm actually a virgin.
[08:57:27]  Did anybody lie?
[08:57:28]  Nobody lied?
[08:57:29]  I don't lie.
[08:57:30]  Oh, okay.
[08:57:32]  He's like, okay, oh my God, Tiffany's new.
[08:57:37]  Tiffany, you give her such a hard time.
[08:57:41]  I'm sorry, Tiffany didn't.
[08:57:42]  Tiffany, end the stream.
[08:57:44]  End the stream.