Tate Speech - Andrew Tate - EMERGENCY MEETING EPISODE 127 - USING PEOPLE Aired: 2026-03-30 Duration: 32:12 === The Objective of Being Used (15:04) === [00:04:55] Friends, you know, I miss talking to you. [00:04:58] That's why I'm doing all these emergency meetings. [00:05:00] I miss talking to my friends. [00:05:02] So I'm here to give you some more life lessons. [00:05:06] First, I got sneeze. [00:05:08] Sneezing is real nigger shit. [00:05:10] Let's just be honest. [00:05:11] Real niggers sneeze. [00:05:13] Show me a real nigger who's never sneezed in his life. [00:05:18] Sneezing is for real niggers. [00:05:21] You know, everyone around you is like, bless you. [00:05:23] It's like, yeah, that's right. [00:05:25] I did something and now you're all sending me praise. [00:05:29] Give it to me. [00:05:29] Give it to me. [00:05:31] Bless you. [00:05:32] Thanks. [00:05:33] Thanks. [00:05:33] It's like being a celebrity. [00:05:34] You wouldn't know. [00:05:35] I know because I am one. [00:05:36] But everyone's like, wow, you're so cool. [00:05:38] And you don't do anything. [00:05:39] I walk into an establishment. [00:05:40] Everyone's like, wow, that's Top G, that's Top G. [00:05:42] And I'm just having a Shisha. [00:05:44] And they're like, well, that's Top G. [00:05:46] I sneeze and bless me. [00:05:48] Bless me. [00:05:48] That's right. [00:05:49] Bless me. [00:05:50] Sneezing's for real niggers. [00:05:53] But that is not what this emergency meeting is about. [00:05:56] However, do I spend the next one hour talking about sneezing? [00:06:02] I could because I'm a real nigger. [00:06:05] We're going to talk about being used. [00:06:08] The world is going to use you and the world is going to exploit you. [00:06:14] And it is your objective as a man to be so useful that every single person who has any type of access to you is attempting to use you. [00:06:25] You exist as a man with the burden of performance. [00:06:29] Everyone in your life wants to use you all of the time. [00:06:34] Your woman wants to use you. [00:06:35] Your friends want to use you. [00:06:37] Your kids want to use you. [00:06:39] Your employer wants to use you. [00:06:42] If you're a massively influential celebrity like me, companies and political parties want to use you. [00:06:48] Everybody is trying to use you all of the time. [00:06:53] And it is your objective to be so useful that you can sometimes elicit in return less than you give. [00:07:02] And we're going to talk about how you come to terms with the fact that people are going to gain more from you than you will ever gain from them if you're truly a man. [00:07:12] Because people are trying to extract from you all of the time. [00:07:17] And because you're the man, because you're so useful, although there is a value exchange, often you don't get back what you give. [00:07:27] And this is the baseline of masculinity since the dawn of human time. [00:07:32] You are to be used. [00:07:34] A government will use you to die in a ditch. [00:07:37] A woman will use you to pay her bills, keep her safe, educate her, entertain her, make her laugh, spoil her. [00:07:49] A woman will get an entire life out of you. [00:07:51] And in exchange, all you ask for is for her to not fuck someone else. [00:07:56] Should be easy, right? [00:07:57] I mean, who's giving more in the equation? [00:08:00] What does a man give a woman? [00:08:03] A man provides for his woman financially. [00:08:06] So the first thing a man gives a woman is money. [00:08:17] Man gives to woman. [00:08:19] One. [00:08:22] First thing you're going to give a woman is money. [00:08:24] The second thing you're going to give a woman is physical protection. [00:08:28] She expects that when she walks along the street with you, she is physically safe. [00:08:32] If someone breaks in the house, you're going to fight them. [00:08:35] She feels safer with you. [00:08:36] When things get hard, when things go wrong, when she has anxiety, when she's worried, she wants her man next to her because she feels better because she believes you're superhuman. [00:08:46] She believes you can do something about the drones and the bombs or the 5,000 men with guns. [00:08:52] If she really loves you, she believes you can fix that. [00:08:54] So she wants physical safety. [00:09:03] She wants safety from the world. [00:09:06] She wants education. [00:09:08] Women often say, wow, I love talking to you, Andrew. [00:09:11] You know so much. [00:09:12] You teach me so much. [00:09:13] It's so interesting. [00:09:15] I learned so much from you. [00:09:17] And I'm like, duh, Top G, suck this. [00:09:21] No, I don't say that. [00:09:22] I don't say that sometimes. [00:09:24] Anyway. [00:09:29] Education. [00:09:31] She wants structure. [00:09:33] She wants to know her life is going somewhere. [00:09:36] And she doesn't want to worry too much about the fate of the world. [00:09:40] Why do men monitor the situation and women don't monitor the situation? [00:09:46] Because men are trying to plan for the collapse of the entire planet and women aren't. [00:09:52] Because they have a man to do it for them. [00:09:54] So they want you to be forward thinking. [00:09:56] They want you to have plans for if it all goes wrong. [00:09:59] When I was in Dubai and the bombs started falling, all my women said, well, you're here. [00:10:04] Bombs are falling. [00:10:05] It's World War III, but you're here. [00:10:08] I can't stop bombs. [00:10:09] I can't stop drones, but I am monitoring the situation and making plans. [00:10:13] I'm doing the best I can. [00:10:15] So they believe you have a plan, a structure. [00:10:18] They believe that everything is going to work out okay if they stay with you. [00:10:27] Girls just want to have fun. [00:10:29] They want to be entertained. [00:10:31] They want you to take them on dates and make them laugh, gesturing. [00:10:35] But they do want, to a degree, some entertainment. [00:10:38] Something else they want. [00:10:43] Money includes gifts, food, traveling. [00:10:47] That's point one, but it links heavily with 0.5. [00:10:50] These are just a few things off the top of my head that woman expects from you. [00:10:55] What do you expect back? [00:10:58] What do you get back? [00:11:07] One second. [00:11:12] What do you expect and get in return? [00:11:18] We expect basically one thing, our bare minimum. [00:11:38] We want sex exclusively. [00:11:41] We want her to have sex with only us in return for money, entertainment, safety, education, a life plan, in return for me being prepared to die for you. [00:11:54] I want you to have sex with only me. [00:11:57] It's not like I'm the only one who enjoys sex. [00:12:00] In fact, I would argue that women enjoy sex more than men. [00:12:03] You enjoy the sex more than me. [00:12:06] Yes, I want sex. [00:12:09] Man gives the woman sex. [00:12:10] You give her sex. [00:12:12] That goes both ways. [00:12:15] But she enjoys it more than you enjoy it, unless your game ain't right. [00:12:19] But we just want her exclusivity. [00:12:22] And if we're really lucky, if you get a real good woman on top of exclusive sex, you'll also get, on top of that, you'll also get some positivity. [00:12:34] You'll get some happy words, some, it'll be okay, babe. [00:12:38] That's what you'll get. [00:12:39] That's the best you can hope for from a woman. [00:12:46] The best you can hope for, a good girl in the modern society is a girl who ain't fucking no one else and is nice to you. [00:12:53] That's it. [00:12:55] She ain't giving you any money. [00:12:57] She's not protecting you when you walk down the street. [00:13:00] She's not teaching you anything. [00:13:02] She has no plan for the end of the world. [00:13:05] She is not planning fun events and dates and activities for you to do. [00:13:09] None of that. [00:13:11] All she is doing is not being a whore and smiling sometimes. [00:13:15] And not even all the time. [00:13:16] Sometimes. [00:13:18] So who's being exploited in this equation? [00:13:20] The man is being used. [00:13:23] The man gives more than the woman gives. [00:13:26] Always. [00:13:27] You are being used. [00:13:30] Let's apply this to a government. [00:13:34] The man, the citizen, is being used by the government more than the government gives you back. [00:13:40] Does the government actually give you safety? [00:13:42] No. [00:13:43] Does the government actually care about you? [00:13:46] No. [00:13:46] What do you give them? [00:13:48] Half your money. [00:13:50] You are being exploited. [00:13:53] And as a man, it is your primary objective to understand that everyone you meet in your life is going to be trying to use you endlessly. [00:14:01] Everyone is out to use you. [00:14:03] That's why you exist. [00:14:04] That's why God birthed men to be used. [00:14:07] How do you come to terms with this? [00:14:10] Because if you're going through the world saying, I don't want anyone to use me, then you're never going to be a useful person to anybody. [00:14:18] What you need to do is go through the world saying, I'm going to be used, just like the man there is used by the woman. [00:14:24] I'm going to be used. [00:14:25] I'm going to be exploited from. [00:14:27] And although I will get less than I give, I will still get something I want. [00:14:33] I will be giving less than I am getting, but I am still getting something I want. [00:14:39] And I have come to terms with the fact that I'm the prize, that I'm the giver, that I'm exploited, that I am being used, but at least in return, I am getting something that I want. [00:14:50] And this is how all friendships, all relationships, all business networking, all interactions with humanity as a man are going to operate. [00:15:02] This idea that you don't want anybody to use you is completely incorrect. [00:15:06] It is your job to be useful. [00:15:09] It is your job to be as useful as possible. [00:15:13] Now, if people are using you and you don't get any of the things you want, that's exploitation. [00:15:19] If you're giving a woman all of this and she's fucking other guys, well, now you're being exploited. [00:15:28] You don't have to accept that. [00:15:30] But you do have to accept giving more than you get if you get something that you genuinely do want. [00:15:37] Your primary objective as a man is to be so good and so useful, so capable at giving things, that you open up the free market. [00:15:50] And the free market is what value will you offer in exchange for my utilitarianism. [00:15:58] I have so much money. [00:16:00] I am so strong. [00:16:02] I am so smart. [00:16:04] I have thought ahead with a strong network and I can travel the world. [00:16:08] So I have a lot of money. [00:16:10] I can keep you safe. [00:16:11] I can teach you things. [00:16:12] I've got a plan if it all goes wrong. [00:16:15] And because I'm so charismatic and funny and entertaining and interesting, I can also give you a fun life. [00:16:21] Once you have all these things, then perhaps when you open yourself up to the free market, you now get to choose who gets to benefit from you. [00:16:32] They're still going to get more than you get. [00:16:35] But instead of getting two things, sexually exclusive and happy, you might be able to add in three things. [00:16:47] Now she's a baddie because you can get a sexually exclusive, happy, ugly chick all day long. [00:16:52] You want a hot one. [00:16:54] Now you're giving six points, but instead of getting two in return, you're getting three. [00:17:00] At the peak optimum masculine experience, at the best possible version of being a man, you give six points and you can get five. [00:17:09] You're still being used, but you're getting things you want. [00:17:14] And it's going to be the same for the majority of your life. [00:17:19] It is your primary objective to be as useful as possible all of the time, understanding everyone wants to use you. [00:17:27] Because if they want to use you and everyone else wants to use you, they have to out-compete the other leeches. [00:17:34] All the other baddies, all the other baddies who are happy and aren't whores are now competing for what you give. [00:17:42] Now you got a harem. [00:17:43] Now you got choices. [00:17:45] Do you understand? [00:17:47] You need to advertise yourself as the most useful man here to be used. [00:17:52] I'm useful. [00:17:53] I'm here to be used. [00:17:55] Everyone wants to talk to me. [00:17:56] Everyone wants to know me. [00:17:58] Everybody wants to interact with me. [00:18:00] Every girl wants to suck me off. [00:18:02] You all want to know how to get in my inner circle because I am so fucking good. [00:18:07] You want to use me? [00:18:09] Come do it. [00:18:09] And in exchange, you're going to have to give me some things. [00:18:13] Now, I know what you're asking. [00:18:14] You're asking, what's the point in giving away more than you get back? [00:18:17] We're going to talk about that shortly. [00:18:19] But the free market of using other people is primarily based on you advertising your relevance and your capability. [00:18:28] That's what dating is. [00:18:29] When you go on a date with a girl, you're trying to convince her that you're rich, that you're strong, that you're smart, that you have a plan if it all goes wrong, that you're fun. [00:18:36] That's what you're trying to do. [00:18:37] You're saying, look how you can exploit. [00:18:39] Look how you can extract from me. [00:18:41] Look how you can use me. [00:18:45] That's how you have to go to the world. [00:18:46] If you meet me, take my hoodie off. [00:19:24] If you meet me on the street, your objective is to become my friend, right? [00:19:31] Why do you want to be friends with Andrew Tate? [00:19:33] Well, because Andrew Tate is famous and rich. [00:19:35] So you want to use me. [00:19:37] That's fine. [00:19:39] I'm asking you, what are you going to give me back? [00:19:41] So when you meet me, your objective is to say, hey, I'm really good at this. [00:19:45] I know a guy in Bolivia who wants to meet you and I can facilitate a state-level visit to Bolivia for you. [00:19:53] You're showing me usefulness so that I'll accept you extracting from me. === Gracefully Accepting Exploitation (12:12) === [00:19:59] That's how the world works. [00:20:02] It is your job as a man to be used. [00:20:06] And you need to be good at being used, which means you need to be one, capable, very capable as a man. [00:20:13] And two, this is the most important thing. [00:20:16] Although you need to keep the parameters in check to avoid exploitation, to ensure that you're not giving and not getting anything back, to make sure that you're giving more than you get, but you are getting something. [00:20:29] You need to be graceful in this. [00:20:32] This is what most men struggle with. [00:20:34] They struggle to gracefully give more than they get back. [00:20:39] If you give a woman all these things and she gives you this, and then you start complaining that you spent money on her, she's going to bounce. [00:20:49] Even though you should be able to remove some of these because she's only given you three. [00:20:56] So you should be able to remove it and make it fair. [00:20:58] But if you take away safety saying someone tries to stab you, I'm going to let them do it. [00:21:02] I'm not giving you a penny. [00:21:04] And also, I'm not going to talk to you or teach you anything. [00:21:08] She's out. [00:21:09] She doesn't want a fair exchange. [00:21:10] Nobody wants a fair exchange from you. [00:21:13] So you have to learn how to gracefully accept the world extracting from you. [00:21:17] How do you do that? [00:21:22] That is a battle which must be fought and won inside of your heart, internally, inside of yourself. [00:21:32] You must understand how the world works, understand it is your purpose, understand it is your mission, and accept it. [00:21:42] That people are going to take from me. [00:21:44] And I'm going to stand up and I'm going to work anyway. [00:21:48] And I'm going to give more than I get. [00:21:50] And nobody's going to care about me. [00:21:52] And I'm just going to go through the world struggling. [00:21:54] I'm not even going to mention it. [00:21:55] I'm going to gracefully accept handing out more than I ever get back. [00:22:00] But if I get a few crumbs of the things I want, over time, I can build a life worth living. [00:22:07] Because why would you keep your money, keep your muscles, keep all your information, and keep your plan if you don't have a woman to use them for? [00:22:18] What are you going to do with them? [00:22:21] This alone, this simple logical question proves that God has created men specifically to give more than we get. [00:22:28] Because if we have everything, we want to give it to get less back. [00:22:33] You want to give it. [00:22:34] You don't want to be rich without a girl. [00:22:36] You don't want to be strong without a girl. [00:22:38] You don't want to be smart and educated without a girl. [00:22:40] You don't want to plan for the end of the world without a girl. [00:22:42] All of this is based on, I need a woman, preferably a woman who gives me kids on top. [00:22:49] We are built to give. [00:22:52] This is why we were created. [00:22:55] So who are you to argue with the universe or the cosmos or God himself? [00:23:02] Who are you to disagree with the very fabric of physics? [00:23:07] You were built to do this. [00:23:10] And the best men do this well and gracefully. [00:23:14] And the worst men either can't do this. [00:23:17] Or if they can do it, they do it and they're bitter about it. [00:23:21] They're sad about it. [00:23:24] Now, of course, you must avoid exploitation. [00:23:27] That is true. [00:23:28] If a woman is not giving you the few things you ask for back, if she's constantly in a bad mood with you, or constantly talking to you like shit, or constantly negative, then yes, she's exploiting you and she must go. [00:23:42] And the best thing you can do is remind her of how much she is taking and how little she is giving back. [00:23:49] Because the woman's mind, she thinks, well, I give him this and this and this, and they forget all you give. [00:23:53] That's why it's so hard to be graceful, so hard to be accepting of this parameter. [00:24:00] But this is the true test of Zen. [00:24:02] This is the true test of Qi, of mental clarity for you to wake up as a man and say, okay, another day of giving more than I'll ever get back. [00:24:12] Another day of struggle so that I'm underappreciated and under-renumerated, but I'm a man. [00:24:21] And if you get good at that, if you get good at that, you can win. [00:24:27] Because every man, whether he likes it or not, will be extracted from. [00:24:31] Most give all of this to get one or zero points in return. [00:24:36] Some men are giving a woman money, safety, education, plans, and she's fucking other men. [00:24:41] Some men give a woman everything and get zero or one. [00:24:44] But if you're good at giving and you can do it gracefully, you can get three or four or five things. [00:24:50] So although you're still being used, you're being used less than every other man. [00:24:56] And that's the world. [00:24:58] The goal isn't to not be used. [00:25:01] It's to be used the least. [00:25:04] We're all going to die. [00:25:06] You want to live the longest. [00:25:08] You don't want to be immortal. [00:25:09] You want to live the longest. [00:25:12] There's limits to human strength. [00:25:14] You still want to be the strongest. [00:25:18] We will be used as men. [00:25:20] You want to be used the least. [00:25:23] That's the competition. [00:25:25] A real G with a good woman who loves him is used less than all the other men are. [00:25:33] He's still used, but he's used less, which means he must be hyper-useful and hyper-graceful about it because that opens up the free market of all the users in the world. [00:25:46] And all of a sudden, you can get a lot more bang for your buck. [00:25:52] Don't go through the world saying, I don't want to be used. [00:25:55] You don't want to be exploited, true. [00:25:58] But you are here to be used. [00:26:00] This is why God birthed you. [00:26:02] This is what you exist for. [00:26:05] You need to come to terms with that. [00:26:09] Accept it. [00:26:11] And feel the duty of it gracefully. [00:26:14] Gracefully wake up and say, I'm about to struggle while my girlfriend drinks matcha, but she needs me. [00:26:23] So it's worth the pain. [00:26:25] It's worth the struggle. [00:26:27] I'm going to go through this so I can be useful, so I have a utility. [00:26:33] This is where certain ideas which are alien to the woman are so intrinsic to the makeup of the man. [00:26:40] Duty. [00:26:41] Women don't have duty. [00:26:42] They don't care. [00:26:43] Honor, women don't have honor. [00:26:45] They don't care. [00:26:46] Women don't have loyalty like a man does. [00:26:48] Women are loyal to what they're getting. [00:26:50] Women ain't loyal to the man. [00:26:52] A woman's not loyal to the man. [00:26:54] She's loyal to this. [00:26:55] She's loyal to the cash, the safety. [00:26:57] She's loyal to all the paydays. [00:27:00] She's not loyal intrinsically to the man. [00:27:03] Whereas a man is intrinsically loyal to the woman. [00:27:05] That's why men miss their exes longer than women miss their exes. [00:27:09] Because when a woman loses her ex, all the money and all the stuff ends. [00:27:13] So she doesn't give a shit. [00:27:14] Payday's gone, next. [00:27:16] Whereas a man's like, you know what? [00:27:18] Although I was giving her more than she's ever given me, I have loyalty to her as a person because we're built to die for others. [00:27:26] We're built to love someone enough to die for them. [00:27:29] No woman is ever going to die for you, bro. [00:27:32] No woman is ever going to die for you because she doesn't feel duty. [00:27:36] She doesn't feel honor. [00:27:37] She doesn't feel responsibility. [00:27:39] She wakes up and asks where her fucking payday is. [00:27:44] That's it. [00:27:44] Men are in love. [00:27:46] Women are in business. [00:27:47] Don't hate the game. [00:27:50] Don't be bitter about it. [00:27:52] Don't cry about it. [00:27:54] Accept it. [00:27:56] This is the game we all play. [00:28:00] The better you are at providing without complaining, the better a deal you can get and you can get used the least. [00:28:08] But you are going to be used. [00:28:11] Your goal as a man is not only to be as useful as possible. [00:28:17] Not only to avoid exploitation by making sure you get some things in return, but to do all of this gracefully. [00:28:25] And I've applied it to women because it's easy to understand, but this applies also to business relationships. [00:28:30] It applies to everything. [00:28:31] People are out to use you. [00:28:33] Human nature is pretty simple. [00:28:36] If somebody can't use you, they don't talk to you. [00:28:41] If somebody can't use you, they don't talk to you. [00:28:45] Let me repeat. [00:28:46] Human nature is pretty simple. [00:28:48] If somebody can't use you, they don't talk to you. [00:28:54] Amongst men, which is a far more honest dialogue, because men operate from duty, honor, and are not emotional. [00:29:03] You can't say to your woman, you use me. [00:29:06] No, I don't, because she's a liar. [00:29:09] But men, you can say, I'm using you for this, and you're going to use me for that. [00:29:13] Deal. [00:29:14] Safe. [00:29:14] And now you're best friends for life. [00:29:17] No problem. [00:29:18] No problem. [00:29:19] It doesn't mean you don't like each other. [00:29:21] It doesn't mean it's shallow. [00:29:24] It means this is how the world works. [00:29:27] When you're completely useless as a man, you're abandoned by everyone for a reason. [00:29:31] No one can find a way to use a broke drug addict. [00:29:33] You're no good to me. [00:29:37] So your job as a man is to wake up every day and you're already doing it, whether you accept it or not, and show the world how useful you are. [00:29:45] Hi, everyone. [00:29:46] You can use me. [00:29:47] Look at my car. [00:29:48] Look at my money. [00:29:50] Look at my connections. [00:29:51] Look at my network. [00:29:52] Look at my big house. [00:29:53] Look at all the pretty girls around me. [00:29:55] Look at all the countries I go to. [00:29:57] Imagine how you could use me. [00:29:59] Imagine if you were my best friend and you were rolling with me to these places. [00:30:02] Imagine the money you could get. [00:30:04] Imagine the women you'd have access to. [00:30:06] Come use me, world. [00:30:07] Come use me. [00:30:08] Open up the market. [00:30:10] Look at the ideas. [00:30:11] What are you going to offer me back? [00:30:12] What are you going to offer me back? [00:30:14] That's how it works. [00:30:16] There's a whole bunch of feminized men in the world today, and I see it because they're complaining about being used. [00:30:23] I don't want to buy a girl dinner on a date. [00:30:25] What if she uses me? [00:30:26] It's your job to be used. [00:30:29] That's your job. [00:30:30] Not to be exploited. [00:30:31] She has to give you something back, of course. [00:30:33] Your job is not to be a fucking cuck. [00:30:36] That's some other streamer if you want to talk about cucking. [00:30:40] But it is your job to be used. [00:30:43] And feminized men are going through the world saying, oh, I don't want anyone to take advantage of me. [00:30:47] This job. [00:30:48] It ain't worth it. [00:30:48] They're using me. [00:30:49] Yes, they are. [00:30:50] Dig that hole. [00:30:51] They are using you for your shit paycheck. [00:30:54] You're destroying your fucking body to get a paycheck. [00:30:56] Now do what you're meant to do and dig that hole. [00:30:59] Because if you become better as a man, if you become more useful, you won't have to dig holes because there's better things you can do. [00:31:08] So while you're useless outside of anything other than digging a hole in the ground, then commit and complete your job. [00:31:17] Be used for what you can do. [00:31:19] And if you don't want to be used for that, show that you can do something else. [00:31:23] Your woman's going to use you. [00:31:25] Your job's going to use you. [00:31:26] Everyone's fucking out to exploit you. [00:31:28] That's what they're out to do. [00:31:29] You're not going to let them exploit you. [00:31:30] You're going to get what you need back. [00:31:32] That's the game. [00:31:34] And if you do it right, if you do it right, you end up less used than everyone else. [00:31:42] And if you are the man who is less used than everyone else, you are a king. [00:31:49] Because all the other men, all the other men are getting exploited so badly. [00:31:53] All the other men are giving away their money, the safety, the education. [00:31:57] All the other men are giving girls money, protecting them, teaching them things, planning things for them, making them have fun. [00:32:04] And they're still fucking other guys. [00:32:05] If you're doing this and you have a super exclusive, happy all-the-time baddie, you are