Tate Speech - Andrew Tate - Tate on Friends Having Your Back
Aired: 2022-07-06
Duration: 03:34


=== Enemies Are Your Strength (03:00) ===

[00:00:00]  Your friends are your biggest weakness.
[00:00:10]  Most people talk about the people around them as if it's their strength.
[00:00:13]  Oh, this person.
[00:00:13]  When I feel down, I go to this person.
[00:00:15]  I go to that person.
[00:00:16]  This person makes me feel better.
[00:00:18]  Blah, blah.
[00:00:19]  Fucking blah.
[00:00:20]  The reality is, the people you hold close to you are your biggest weakness.
[00:00:24]  Because they're the only ones who have the ability to betray you.
[00:00:28]  The reality is, if you want to become a somebody on this planet, if you're going to do things worthwhile, sooner or later you're going to make enemies.
[00:00:34]  But enemies are not actually too big a problem.
[00:00:37]  I have had some extreme enemies.
[00:00:39]  I've had two attempts on my life.
[00:00:40]  But most people are not going to build enemies this extreme.
[00:00:43]  You're going to build enemies of people who don't like you or they hate you.
[00:00:46]  That's fine, because you can deal with that very easily by basically ignoring them.
[00:00:50]  And you also know exactly what to expect from an enemy.
[00:00:54]  An enemy is going to attack you, and you know how to deal with that.
[00:00:59]  A friend, on the other hand, can betray you.
[00:01:00]  And betrayal is much worse than an attack from an enemy for two reasons.
[00:01:04]  One, it catches you by surprise.
[00:01:07]  That's the first thing.
[00:01:08]  And the second thing is your friend knows you well enough to know your weaknesses and knows exactly how to strike.
[00:01:13]  Have you ever watched two girls fall out?
[00:01:16]  And girls are the worst for this because girls have less loyalty than men.
[00:01:19]  Have you ever watched two women fall out?
[00:01:23]  The pretty one will start telling the ugly one she's ugly for the first time ever.
[00:01:26]  Up until that argument, the pretty one's like, no, you're beautiful too, babe.
[00:01:30]  We'll go out together.
[00:01:31]  I can't believe he liked me and not you.
[00:01:33]  That's weird.
[00:01:34]  You're gorgeous.
[00:01:35]  You're gorgeous.
[00:01:35]  The second they start an argument, you say, yeah, well, you're fucking ugly anyway.
[00:01:39]  And the hot one knows that's gonna cut deep.
[00:01:42]  It's gonna hurt the ugly girl at her core.
[00:01:45]  But it doesn't matter because that's how the betrayal goes.
[00:01:46]  You aim for the weakest spot.
[00:01:48]  You blindside them.
[00:01:49]  And you know their weakness.
[00:01:50]  You know exactly how to twist the screw.
[00:01:52]  So the more friends you have, the more vulnerable you are.
[00:01:55]  You're more vulnerable for betrayal.
[00:01:56]  More people know your weaknesses.
[00:01:58]  I'm not saying go through life and don't have friends.
[00:02:00]  I'm saying you're gonna go through life and pretend everyone's your friend.
[00:02:03]  And throw your emotion and your loyalty out there to basically anyone you meet.
[00:02:08]  Untested individuals.
[00:02:09]  Eventually you'll be betrayed and you will find that betrayal is far worse than having an enemy.
[00:02:14]  If I have the choice, if I meet 10 people and I have the choice of making them my friends or making them my enemy, to be honest with you, I have no problems making them enemies.
[00:02:20]  I don't give a fuck.
[00:02:21]  If I sit there and I don't see any genuine value, if I don't genuinely want to be your friend, then I don't give a fuck.
[00:02:27]  Be my enemy.
[00:02:28]  Come for me.
[00:02:28]  Attack me.
[00:02:29]  Insult me.
[00:02:29]  I can deal with all that.
[00:02:30]  I would much rather have 10 guaranteed enemies than one friend I'm not sure of.
[00:02:35]  And I live by this code so strictly, everyone out here is watching this going, yeah, I keep a small circle.
[00:02:41]  I keep a small circle.
[00:02:42]  My circle is one.
[00:02:43]  And that's my brother.
[00:02:44]  That's my fucking circle.
[00:02:46]  One person.
[00:02:47]  So that's how small a circle can be and should be.
[00:02:49]  If you want to be completely the guy who will actually die beside you, won't abandon you at the last minute.
[00:02:55]  You're gonna have one, maybe two people on this planet to pull it off.
[00:02:58]  Nobody else.

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