Today, I want to respond to a very commonly asked question, and that is how to obtain a good woman in a time of decadence and degeneracy.
First and foremost, a little black pill I need to give you as a disclaimer, and that is women are more likely to follow the mainstream culture.
The mainstream culture at the moment isn't very good in the sense that it doesn't promote wholesome values, family values, etc.
So, keep that in mind if someone says, Oh, you know, there are plenty of good women out there.
There are good women out there, of course, there are, but the majority of women, I'd say, they are victims, they are products of our time.
So, keep that in mind.
So, I'm not going to say, Oh, just listen to my advice, and you are guaranteed a good woman.
These thoughts I'm about to share just a way for you to maybe optimize your chances of stumbling upon a good woman.
So, basically, this is a huge topic.
It would take longer for me to exhaust the topic, but some general advice.
And again, as I said before, I usually say this whenever I talk about the mujeres, about the women.
I'm not a casanova, I'm merely a philosopher prince wandering in the forest and meditating upon the primordial truth.
So, I approach this from you know a philosophical perspective.
Then, of course, I have a very good wife myself that I love dearly and who's very nice and good, loving, and kind to me.
So, yeah, I can at least have some personal experience to back it up.
But I usually don't like to talk about personal experience because everyone is different, everyone is in a different situation.
So, then it's better to talk.
So, then it's better to talk about the more general things, the more philosophical aspects of it.
So, anyway, what you first and foremost have to do is to present yourself in the best possible way.
Imagine if you are a woman and your primary goal is to get a good husband who can be a good father to her children.
So, then you ask yourself, here we have a woman, she wants to have this.
How should I present myself to be the most attractive match for her?
Is it to present myself as someone who's out and about at nightclubs, you know, taking posing with lightly clad women?
You know, I understand if you're a younger guy, if you're maybe 23 or something, it can be cool to show others, oh, I'm such a lad, I pose with other women.
But if a wife material woman says that, she will probably be a bit hesitant, step back.
What sort of guy is this?
So, instead, it's better to portray yourself as someone who is dedicated to your goals.
And that's also something that is in general speaking, generally speaking, attractive for a woman, a man who is on, you know, he's on his quest, he has a clear purpose.
No woman will like a guy who is unsure of where he's going.
So, that is one thing to keep in mind.
And, you know, you are, optimally speaking, if you're being seen as wanted by other women, that's a good sign for even a good woman because that means you have a high quality in terms of sexual market value.
But if you portray yourself as someone who likes to be out and about, You know, partaking in a degenerate lifestyle, yeah.
A good woman will probably not be all too keen on settling down with you because you are not reliable in that sense.
On the other hand, if you portray yourself as someone who is very disciplined, you have a clear goal, and you also want a woman to share in your journey.
Yeah, that is an attractive prospect for her.
You know, a stable good man who is focused on you know his career or business or whatever it might be, he focuses solely on that and he says to the world via how he portrays himself, you know, I am on this mission, I am on this ship, we're going straight forward.
It would be great to have a wife and a family to share in this journey.
So, contrast that against someone who maybe works at some job and every weekend he goes out to nightclubs, etc.
You know, it's quite easy to understand who will be more attractive for a good woman.
And of course, a good woman is someone who is out to create a family and who hasn't been out and about too much.
Also, speaking of which, if you want a virgin or at least a woman who has not been out and about so much, she will probably appreciate a guy who hasn't been out and about too much, also.
Because if she has a more sound attitude towards intimacy, she views sex as something you know that is between a loving couple, yeah, then she will probably not think it's all too fun to have a potential future husband who has been with many different women.
This also includes pornography, and I can just say that on a personal note.
When I get you know, credit from women, I get you know, you know, a compliment, they say thank you for talking about porn.
And this is natural.
Of course, no woman would like to see her future husband, or her boyfriend, or her husband to watch all of these naked women on a screen.
Same thing there.
If you have a good woman who believes sex to be something intimate between a loving couple, and then she knows you watch porn.
Now, of course, no one will admit to watching porn just like that, but say you are on Instagram and you see me commenting, you know, stop watching porn, and then you say, Oh, isn't porn good for you?
And then a woman see you commenting that, and um, then she says, You know what, this guy watches porn.
Um, so just a little example there.
Um, but you know, think about the kind of woman you want, try to mirror that.
If you want a woman who has been more virtuous, okay, then you can be virtuous yourself and show with how you present yourself that I live a more wholesome life, should we say.
So, if you have yeah, if you have an Instagram account, you can, of course, decide how you portray yourself.
So, maybe not a good idea to you know show how much you're out on drinking, etc.
It's better to post physique and talk about your goals, what you're doing, etc.
So, basic point: be a good man, and you will increase your chances of attracting a good woman.
Now, of course, this might sound very abstract, but if you have that mentality that you portray yourself as a stable Man, that is a very good candidate to be a good father and a good husband.
And of course, settling down for a woman is a huge investment.
It's a huge investment for a man as well.
But the point is that if she wants to take that leap of faith and settle down with someone, she will, of course, look at as many factors as possible.
And if you portray yourself in a stable way, yeah, more likely to be with a good woman.
And also, in terms of practical measures, you know, portray yourself in a disciplined manner.
You know, be well trained, be well-groomed, be well-dressed, be clean, be friendly, be polite, you know, have confidence, have charisma.
All of these sort of things come into play.
So, yeah, we can talk a lot more about looks maxing and the biological attraction.
But I'm just throwing it in there for good measure: that your looks and how you present yourself, of course, it plays in to attracting a good mate.
You know, you have certain things that applies for both attracting loose relationships and solid relationships.
Then, also, we can talk a bit about what you can look out for in a woman.
So, you know, you have now said it to yourself, okay, I will try to present myself in the best possible way.
I'll start working on my social game, on my goals in life, on my physique, and everything like that.
But then you also ask, okay, what kind of woman do I want?
And it's the same thing.
You know, look for a woman who mirrors your ideals.
So, things to look out for, you know, if she has an Instagram, for example, or in social media, you can see is she posting pictures of her drinking alcohol at some nightclub?
Yeah, might not be the best match for you if you are serious about having a family.
And this is what this video is about.
And maybe I should have said it in the beginning: that we're out for women to have a family with.
We're not out for any short-term relationships or anything like that.
You know, if you want to have short-term relationships, etc., this is not the channel for you.
Plenty of other channels who will talk about game and pickup and that sort of stuff.
It's not what I'm about at all.
But anyway, if you look at her and you see she's about that sort of life, yeah, maybe she's not a good match to settle down with.
Same thing, you can look at her qualities.
So she can say that, oh, I'm a traditional woman and I am out for this and that.
And then you say, okay, do you like to cook and bake?
And she says, nah, I can't really do that because of whatever is.
And yeah, she might not be the best option either because you know a wife should be able to nourish your children.
And if she can't cook, she can't make the best possible nutrition for your sons and daughters, which is of course not a good thing at all.
Then of course, if you're a man, you should know how to cook as well.
But it's even more important for a good woman how to cook.
Can she bake?
That's good also, but the main thing is that can she make good nutritious meals if she can't even cook?
Yeah, that's a warning bell in my view at least.
So that's something to look out for.
Then of course also how is her health?
Has she taken care of herself?
Has she smoked half of her life?
If she has, okay, why has she smoked?
Has she drunken a lot of alcohol?
Yeah, not optimal either.
You know, a woman's body is also a temple.
You know, if she wants to give birth to many healthy children, she can't have misused her body.
So that's something you can, you know, look at as well.
Is she fit, healthy?
Again, comes into play.
You can't have someone who has mistreated herself because it's not good.
You know, self-explanatory.
I don't need to talk more about that.
Then another thing is to ask about her relationship with her family, especially with her father.
You know, again, I feel a bit bad for saying it because there are so many women who perhaps have grown up without a father and they're good anyway.
But one thing you can at least keep a lookout for is their relationship with her father.
Is it good?
Then it's good.
If it's not good, then it might be a good idea to talk about it, what might have happened there.
And this is something for future reference that I am, you know, the absence of fathers in children, huge problem.
But that's for another video, just throwing it out there so you can keep it in mind.
Then, of course, what sort of friendship group does she have?
Does she have friends who are also out for the same sort of goal?
You know, getting a good husband and creating a family?
Or are her friends more inclined to be out doing normie stuff, being out at nightclubs, etc.?
Because women, of course, they follow again, they follow the social setting to a higher extent.
So her friends are important.
Her friends and family are important.
You are not only marrying a woman, you're also marrying into her family, you're also marrying into a lot of different things.
So understanding that makes it easier to make a rational decision when it comes to these things.
Then also, of course, you should always have your good friends at hand and you should listen to their advice.
And they can say to you if this is a good match or not.
Because it's quite often quite common for guys to, you know, some guys are weak mentally, so they are being very easily led by women.
So they fall in love or they have some sort of crush on a woman and then they act all not in the most rational way, so to speak.
Then it's good if you have good friends who can point you, who can steer you in the right direction, say, like, okay, no, this is not a woman you can have a long-term relationship with.
Just because you feel a physical attraction to her doesn't mean it's good in the long term.
So then it's also good to listen to your mates and let them have a say in whichever woman you wish to proceed with.
So yeah, a lot of things to keep in mind.
A lot of things to meditate upon when it comes to this complicated and oh so important question.
But basically to conclude, imagine you're looking yourself in a mirror.
What do you see?
Do you see a guy who is being perceived by potentially good women as a stable family father who can protect his family, who can provide for his family and who is on his way somewhere?
Who is not just lingering about, who's not just unsure of himself and what he wants to do in life.
And yeah, if you want a virtuous woman, it might be a good idea to be a virtuous man and portray that as often as possible.
That this is what I'm about.
I'm about this set of values.
I've said this before.
Look at this ring.
I have named it unbreakable loyalty for a reason.
And the culture I want to present to I want to present to especially younger guys is one of honor, is one of being a stable family father.
It's not about saying, oh, it's cool to pick up women and having one night stands and game and everything like that.
It's not what I'm about at all.
And ultimately, it's not particularly cool because ultimately you don't get anything from it.
You get a quick validation from a woman.
Why do you need a validation from a woman?
It's my question.
If you're about that lifestyle, maybe you have some sort of insecurities that you need to work on, but you know, your insecurities can't be cured because a woman finds you sexually attractive.
You can only heal yourself from within.
So that's something to keep in mind as well.
Anyway, point being: if you want to be if you want a virtuous woman, be a virtuous man and present yourself as such.
Then also, of course, if you are on the lookout for a woman, view her in the same sort of light as you view yourself.
Will she be a stable mother?
Can you create a future?
Can you create a nuclear, can you create a nuclear family with this individual?
Is she a chaotic individual who likes to be out and about?
Or is she someone who has a clear goal?
She wants a family.
She has that female nourishing side of her.
Is she healthy?
Is she happy?
Does she have any problems?
You know, all of these sort of things they matter in the final calculation.
If it's a good match, is it good for your children to settle down with this woman?
If she has a lot of problems, then they might come up later on in life, which will be to the detriment of your children.
If she's stable, if she, you know, she has the same vision as you, you're on the same page, so to speak.
When it comes to your future, yeah, it's a good thing.
So I have rambled enough, but I hope it was somewhat enlightening at least.
And to all guys out there, have a low time preference.
Don't despair that you don't have someone right now, but work at yourself so that in a few years you might have someone to settle down with.
And yeah, best of luck, although luck has little to do with it.
So focus on yourself.
First and foremost, create yourself into a good match.
Create yourself into an attractive man who can supply, protect for his family in a good way.
And you might stumble upon a woman and then you are ready and you can say to her, you know what, I'm a good match.
