The Golden One - Marcus Follin - My Experiences on Becoming a Father
Aired: 2019-04-17
Duration: 05:18


=== Increase in Motivation (04:54) ===

[00:00:00]  Greetings Laddingtons, I am back and I am back with some profound knowledge for you to partake in.
[00:00:09]  So all I have to say is make your woman pregnant.
[00:00:13]  It is a glorious and joyous thing indeed.
[00:00:17]  So since I'm back and I aim to restart my regular YouTube video production, I thought just get the perhaps the most commonly asked question out of the way first and that is what my experiences are with becoming a father.
[00:00:34]  So, to conclude, an increase in motivation, among other things, and obviously it is the absolutely cuddliest thing in the world with having a.
[00:00:45]  Well, of course, for me she is the cutest thing ever, but I'm sure all fathers would say the same for their little daughters.
[00:00:53]  But yeah, I think she's really cute and very cuddly and it's very emotional when she falls asleep on my chest and yeah, it's been a very joyous experience thus far.
[00:01:06]  So I can start with the early pregnancy.
[00:01:09]  The first symptom of on myself that I noticed was a increase in focus, a sharpening in focus.
[00:01:18]  I was focused before too but this was something else so that allowed me to work even harder on the book, the companies and also on the YouTube game.
[00:01:29]  So an increase in focus and motivation was the first thing I noticed and then the late stages of pregnancy and the labor itself it went really really fine.
[00:01:41]  I'm very proud of my wife.
[00:01:43]  She was in supreme physical condition so the labor itself was really smooth.
[00:01:47]  Only took three hours since we got to the hospital.
[00:01:51]  Also shout out to the midwives and nurses in Stockholm, Sweden for being so professional.
[00:01:58]  Made the whole thing a very smooth experience.
[00:02:03]  And since then the birth was around four weeks ago and yeah she's a very good child so I don't really have any complaints.
[00:02:12]  I thought it would be much worse.
[00:02:14]  Then obviously, my wife is very, very good in caring towards our little princess too, so I don't have to do all too much, even though I try to help as much as possible.
[00:02:24]  And yeah, I will be honest, it is more work and it is less sleep, but it's not something I mind in the least.
[00:02:31]  It's something you do for a higher purpose and you know you can mind doing extra work or sleeping less if it's for something that doesn't count.
[00:02:41]  But I wouldn't say that there is anything higher and more glorious than caring for your own daughter or son, if you have that.
[00:02:50]  So it's all positive experiences thus far at least.
[00:02:54]  I might say differently in a few months if I get very little sleep.
[00:02:59]  I don't know but thus far at least it's been very good and I thought it would be worse in terms of things to do and sleeping etc.
[00:03:10]  Other children might be more problematic I don't know, but I would say that if you have a good woman, making her pregnant might be a good idea.
[00:03:20]  Something else is that I have been able to train quite hard over this last four weeks.
[00:03:28]  And also, something that perhaps the great enemy would have you believe is that your life ends when you have a child.
[00:03:37]  Might be true if you are used to being out and about getting drunk during the weekends, but I was never about that life anyway.
[00:03:44]  So, for me, just living the grind, perfect match, really.
[00:03:49]  And you know, you can still hang out with your lads, you can still do things, you can still train hard, you can still game if you want that.
[00:03:57]  It's no problem, it's just that you have to be a bit more alert to if your wife needs help with anything or your baby wants some attention.
[00:04:05]  In my case, I just pick her up every once in a while if she's looking for attention.
[00:04:10]  And then I watch on YouTube and have her sleeping on my chest.
[00:04:15]  Absolutely, cuddliest thing in the world, highly recommended.
[00:04:19]  So, yeah, fatherhood thus far, very positive experience.
[00:04:23]  Then, also, a note on motivation for the struggle.
[00:04:28]  It's sky-high, obviously, especially since I have a daughter.
[00:04:32]  We have multiculturalism on one side, we have degenerate Hollywood culture on the other side.
[00:04:38]  So, yeah, a lot of work to do, but my motivation to just keep pushing the pace for the metapolitical crusade sky high because I know that there are a lot of things to do to make the world a better place for our children when they get older.

=== Sky-High Motivation (00:23) ===

[00:04:55]  So, motivation is high, and with that being said, I will now go and train a bit in the sun.
[00:05:02]  Spring is here, highly joyous.
[00:05:05]  And as I said, I will restart my YouTube game.
[00:05:09]  I have some cool videos and some cool projects in coming, so stay tuned for that.
[00:05:17]  XXO.