Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux - As a Woman Online, What Is Your Experience of Men?
Aired: 2025-07-26
Duration: 04:54


=== Women Online Simps (03:41) ===

[00:00:00]  Okay, so let me ask you this.
[00:00:02]  Congratulations on your child, of course.
[00:00:05]  So that was 14 years ago now.
[00:00:08]  All right.
[00:00:09]  Time travel.
[00:00:10]  Congratulations.
[00:00:11]  We're back.
[00:00:11]  Now, as a woman online, what is your experience of men as a whole?
[00:00:24]  Well, I have a tiny YouTube channel and I write and edit books.
[00:00:32]  And because of because of that, for about seven years now, because of that, what I have seen, and I work in comics, so there's a lot of male viewers.
[00:00:51]  There's a lot of men.
[00:00:52]  And they tend to be simps, which I hate.
[00:00:57]  Okay, so tell me how you, like, how do you know?
[00:00:59]  I'm not disagreeing with you, but what are the signs?
[00:01:01]  Help us understand, classify, and identify the common male simp.
[00:01:08]  Well, the simp is someone who will do anything for you despite anything you do.
[00:01:25]  It's just this push economy of like, I'd love to help you move.
[00:01:29]  You go skiing.
[00:01:30]  I'll drop you off.
[00:01:31]  Like just this offer of constant resources with no expectation or desire for reciprocity.
[00:01:37]  And they tend to flatter a lot.
[00:01:40]  But if you are, if you're a woman and you want to be, to feed into those sims, then your time online is really easy.
[00:01:51]  It's really easy to be a woman online if you give into the sims.
[00:01:56]  It's so much harder to, and I'm not saying that to be like, oh, poor me.
[00:02:03]  But because I'm not doing what I do for money, I'm not doing it for attention.
[00:02:09]  Wait, you don't do what you do, you mean online.
[00:02:12]  You mean, but you, you have a job that pays.
[00:02:13]  You're just talking about like your activities online?
[00:02:16]  Yeah, well, I'm a stay-at-home married homeschool mom.
[00:02:19]  So okay, got it, got it.
[00:02:20]  So you're online for a course or for connection, but not for money.
[00:02:24]  Okay.
[00:02:24]  Yeah.
[00:02:24]  And the stuff I do for money online is like supplemental fun time income.
[00:02:32]  So I guess I'm lucky in that maybe.
[00:02:35]  But if you are a woman who wants to show virtue online, who doesn't want to play into the simpage, it's a million times harder than it is to just play into the simps because all these little thoughts women.
[00:02:57]  Sorry, thought women?
[00:02:59]  Yeah, T-H-O-T.
[00:03:00]  It means that hoe over there.
[00:03:02]  Yeah, yeah.
[00:03:02]  I know the acronym.
[00:03:04]  I've been accused of thought control myself, and I just wanted to make sure I understood it.
[00:03:07]  Okay, so go ahead.
[00:03:08]  Sorry.
[00:03:09]  All of those women tend to gather in blocks and they'll attack you if you so much as say, like I got a huge amount of hate from a small group of people who have a lot of sim followers because I said, oh, this person only lets women on who if they'll show their kids.
[00:03:28]  Like this, this person only lets women on if they'll do jumping jacks on stream.
[00:03:33]  And they'll call it like, oh, we're doing it for physical purposes, you know, like we're working out.

=== Flattery or Force (01:12) ===

[00:03:41]  And it's like, no one believes that.
[00:03:43]  And I'm not going to debase myself and embarrass my family, embarrass my legacy just for some use.
[00:03:53]  No, and listen, I don't want to debase the audience or myself by asking for the name of this channel.
[00:03:58]  You can just DM that to me after the show.
[00:04:00]  But sorry, go on.
[00:04:02]  Okay.
[00:04:04]  Well, these women get really mad when you say that.
[00:04:07]  And then their simps will fight on behalf of them.
[00:04:11]  And that gets, it's not scary because it's all online, but it gets really stupid.
[00:04:17]  And they'll get violent.
[00:04:20]  It's kind of shocking.
[00:04:22]  Well, sorry, on the other side of flattery is almost always aggression.
[00:04:25]  Right.
[00:04:25]  So flattery is the carrot.
[00:04:28]  And if you don't go for the carrot, they'll just give you the stick.
[00:04:31]  Right.
[00:04:32]  Like, oh, you're doing your civic duty by getting the vax.
[00:04:35]  You're a good person.
[00:04:36]  You care about your community.
[00:04:37]  If you don't get the vax, you can't travel.
[00:04:39]  You can't have a like it's always, if you don't fall for the flattery, you know, out comes the brass knuckles.
[00:04:45]  Yeah.
[00:04:45]  If you're not with us, then you're against us and it's time to attack you.
[00:04:49]  And they'll make up crazy stories.
[00:04:53]  Really?