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July 11, 2025 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
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Married Men: The Benefits of Getting Married
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So, is that enough for you to at least be open to the possibility that there are some significant benefits to men in getting married?
I'm open to the possibility, otherwise, I wouldn't have asked, but I don't find those convincing, and I can tell you why.
Okay.
Number one, none of the things you mentioned, and you mentioned a few, are a problem as far as I'm aware.
Like, men and single men specifically don't have a problem of, you know, stress and anxiety to the levels that women have, as far as I'm aware.
I'm not comparing men to women, though.
No, but I'm going to interrupt you because you're strawmanning me.
You're moving the goalposts and you're not responding to what I just said.
You're saying, well, but single men are less stressed than women.
That's not what I'm talking about.
So why don't you talk about that?
No, no, no, no, no.
That's not what I'm talking about.
That's not what I'm talking about.
What I'm talking about is that none of no, no.
I was driving to the point that none of these issues are a problem for men.
Single men don't need to earn more money and they can spend the money they earn for themselves.
Married men need to earn more money.
I accept the fact that they make more money, but they don't spend that money.
So it's not liberating.
It's not empowering at all.
So how is it?
Hang on.
So how is it then that married men end up with four times the assets of single men?
Because they make money, they put it aside, they invest it for their family and their kids.
I thought you said they spend it all.
No, the opposite.
They don't spend it.
The single men spend it for themselves, which is empowering.
So you're saying that single men spend more money than married men?
No, no, listen.
Married men make more money, and I accept that, but they don't spend it.
Single men make less money because they don't need as much money for themselves.
They make the money they need for themselves, and they spend it for themselves.
It's much more empowering, so it's not a plus.
It's not a positive.
And have you yourself ever been married?
I've got close to it, but I've never been married.
Okay.
I mean, as a married man, I can just tell you that you spend more money as a married man because you have a household to take care of.
That's my thought.
Oh, so married men spend more and also save more than 50%.
This is just propaganda.
This is just nonsense and propaganda because you just find yourself.
You haven't followed.
You haven't followed.
Once again, married men make more money, but they don't spend it for themselves.
Oh, so they do spend more money than single men?
Yeah, for the family, not for themselves.
But they still end up with four times the assets of single men.
Yeah, because they make more money, they put it aside for the family, not for themselves.
Okay.
So they still end up wealthier.
For the family.
Well, no, because by the time you retire, like you don't spend the, you don't spend money on your family your whole life, right?
It's just for the 20 years that you're raising your kids, right?
So when you get older, you have a lot more money and you can enjoy your retirement a lot better as a married man.
As a man, you want to leave something to your, you know, your people, right?
Or not?
Well, I mean, but you have that choice, right?
So you're going to have more money.
You can enjoy your retirement more.
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