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So, is that enough for you to at least be open to the possibility that there are some significant benefits to men in getting married?
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I'm open to the possibility, otherwise, I wouldn't have asked, but I don't find those convincing, and I can tell you why.
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Okay.
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Number one, none of the things you mentioned, and you mentioned a few, are a problem as far as I'm aware.
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Like, men and single men specifically don't have a problem of, you know, stress and anxiety to the levels that women have, as far as I'm aware.
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I'm not comparing men to women, though.
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No, but I'm going to interrupt you because you're strawmanning me.
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You're moving the goalposts and you're not responding to what I just said.
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You're saying, well, but single men are less stressed than women.
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That's not what I'm talking about.
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So why don't you talk about that?
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No, no, no, no, no.
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That's not what I'm talking about.
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That's not what I'm talking about.
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What I'm talking about is that none of no, no.
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I was driving to the point that none of these issues are a problem for men.
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Single men don't need to earn more money and they can spend the money they earn for themselves.
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Married men need to earn more money.
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I accept the fact that they make more money, but they don't spend that money.
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So it's not liberating.
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It's not empowering at all.
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So how is it?
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Hang on.
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So how is it then that married men end up with four times the assets of single men?
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Because they make money, they put it aside, they invest it for their family and their kids.
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I thought you said they spend it all.
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No, the opposite.
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They don't spend it.
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The single men spend it for themselves, which is empowering.
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So you're saying that single men spend more money than married men?
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No, no, listen.
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Married men make more money, and I accept that, but they don't spend it.
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Single men make less money because they don't need as much money for themselves.
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They make the money they need for themselves, and they spend it for themselves.
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It's much more empowering, so it's not a plus.
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It's not a positive.
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And have you yourself ever been married?
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I've got close to it, but I've never been married.
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Okay.
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I mean, as a married man, I can just tell you that you spend more money as a married man because you have a household to take care of.
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That's my thought.
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Oh, so married men spend more and also save more than 50%.
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This is just propaganda.
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This is just nonsense and propaganda because you just find yourself.
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You haven't followed.
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You haven't followed.
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Once again, married men make more money, but they don't spend it for themselves.
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Oh, so they do spend more money than single men?
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Yeah, for the family, not for themselves.
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But they still end up with four times the assets of single men.
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Yeah, because they make more money, they put it aside for the family, not for themselves.
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Okay.
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So they still end up wealthier.
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For the family.
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Well, no, because by the time you retire, like you don't spend the, you don't spend money on your family your whole life, right?
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It's just for the 20 years that you're raising your kids, right?
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So when you get older, you have a lot more money and you can enjoy your retirement a lot better as a married man.
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As a man, you want to leave something to your, you know, your people, right?
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Or not?
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Well, I mean, but you have that choice, right?
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So you're going to have more money.
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You can enjoy your retirement more.
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