Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux - 2446 The Biggest Obstacle to the Liberty Movement. Aired: 2013-08-07 Duration: 04:19 === Building a Respectful Community (02:06) === [00:00:00] We need to become a community that people envy. [00:00:07] And I don't think we are a community that people envy yet. [00:00:10] I don't think that we're very effective at dealing with bullies within our own community. [00:00:14] I don't think that we hold ourselves to the highest standards of human interaction in our own community. [00:00:18] I think that we can be self-indulgent, petty, vindictive, vicious. [00:00:22] I think that our public personas are sometimes entirely out of sorts with our professed goals of nonviolence or at least of the non-aggression principle. [00:00:30] I think there's ridiculous infighting. [00:00:32] I think there's a lack of willingness to address essential questions like, does the non-aggression principle apply to spanking? [00:00:40] I've written articles about it. [00:00:41] I've talked about it for years. [00:00:43] And I've yet to find many people in the libertarian movement who are even willing to think about engaging on this as a practical topic. [00:00:50] But Jesus H. Christ on a stick. [00:00:52] Spanking is something we can control. [00:00:54] Federal Reserve, we can't do shit all about. [00:00:56] We can't control foreign policy. [00:00:57] We can't control government policy. [00:00:59] But we can control whether we initiate the use of force against our own children. [00:01:02] If we were to examine our own behavior rather than focus solely on the people over the hill whose actions we can't even approach, let alone change, I think we could do something truly incredible. [00:01:13] If we were to have the highest standards of behavior on the internet, that would be pretty cool. [00:01:17] People would say, wow, there's a movement where people actually behave respectfully and intelligently towards each other and they don't indulge in flame wars and they ask questions and they're curious and they're intelligent. [00:01:26] I think that's really cool. [00:01:28] I kind of maybe want me some of that. [00:01:30] Or if we have, as a community, a commitment to nonviolence within the family, my goodness, we would have some pretty smart children. [00:01:37] My goodness, we would have some pretty amazing children. [00:01:39] We'd have children that people would go like, wow, there's a peaceful family. [00:01:42] There's a family where people really enjoy each other's company. [00:01:45] I want some of that. [00:01:47] I don't know crap all about fiat currency and inflation, but I can see a productive, peaceful and happy community and I can accept and understand that and I can apply that in my own life. [00:01:56] There's a community that's really into self-knowledge. [00:01:59] This is the oldest commandment of Socrates, know thyself. [00:02:01] Here's a community that is really committed to peaceful communication, to negotiation rather than aggression. === Show Us A Better Society (02:12) === [00:02:07] Here's a community that supports each other, that encourages each other, that is willing to confront and clash intellectually in pursuit of the truth. [00:02:15] But not in insulting, vicious, or denigrative ways. [00:02:18] That would be such a departure for most people from particularly societies on the internet or societies that they may have known or whatever that people would just like it would be like, whoa, I think I see a slice of the future. [00:02:28] I like it. [00:02:29] Because every time we come up to people or we present ourselves as a community, what people perceive is what they receive is. [00:02:37] These people want to run my life. [00:02:39] And I know that's not what libertarianism or anarchism is about, but this is what they perceive, is that these people are coming to run my life. [00:02:46] So when you see a bunch of Nazis walking down the street, you know that they want to run your life. [00:02:50] You're like, well, I don't want these people running my life. [00:02:52] Pretty scary. [00:02:53] Pretty volatile. [00:02:54] I want these people running my life. [00:02:56] I don't want these people in charge. [00:02:57] I don't want these people to organize society. [00:02:59] I don't want to live in a society that these people like. [00:03:02] Because if they're Nazis or communists, I don't want to live in the society that they like. [00:03:05] But the question is, do people want to live in the society that libertarians like? [00:03:11] Well, the first thing is that we have to show what that society looks like, which is not blog posts or abstract crap. [00:03:17] It's how do we treat each other? [00:03:18] How do we treat each other? [00:03:20] How do we deal with bullies? [00:03:22] Because we say, well, we don't need the state. [00:03:24] Well, if we can't even manage our own community and deal with bullies in some way, either through reform or ostracism, then who the hell are we to talk about what works in society? [00:03:31] First thing we want to do is show all of these principles at work within our own communities, within our own families, within our own interactions. [00:03:38] What if libertarians had by far the lowest divorce rate? [00:03:41] Because they really got along. [00:03:42] They knew how to negotiate. [00:03:43] They didn't use aggression. [00:03:45] What if they had the smartest, best behaved, most accomplished kids because they didn't use any aggression against them? [00:03:50] They homeschooled them. [00:03:51] Whatever it took to raise this crop of healthy human beings for the first goddamn time in human history. [00:03:55] What if there was an intelligence and a negotiation and a nonviolent confrontation where necessary about differences of agreement within the community? [00:04:04] Wouldn't that be amazing? [00:04:05] We've got to show people. [00:04:06] We can't argue with them based on reason. [00:04:08] People don't even know how to reason. [00:04:10] We might as well be shouting at an ant in Mandarin when we bring arguments from Austrian economics to the average person. [00:04:15] But they can appreciate what they can see tangibly.