Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux - 2031 The Judge, The Beating, and The Unreality of Outrage Aired: 2011-11-14 Duration: 03:03 === 90% Admit Hitting Kids (03:03) === [00:00:00] It's hard to understand why people are reacting so strongly to the recent video showing a judge beating his daughter. [00:00:07] Over 90% of parents punish their kids by inflicting physical pain, so I'm not sure why everyone is pretending to be so, so shocked. [00:00:17] Is it because the girl in the video is a teenager? [00:00:21] 85% of adolescents have been physically punished by their parents, and the video example is far less violent than most of the examples that have been shared with me. [00:00:32] Is it because a belt is used? [00:00:34] 30% of parents openly admit to hitting their kids with a belt, a stick, or some other hard object. [00:00:42] Imagine how many more do not openly admit it. [00:00:47] Is it because the man is angry? [00:00:49] More than half of parents admit to hitting their children out of frustration and anger. [00:00:55] Is it the hypocrisy? [00:00:58] The judge recently claimed that he apologized for losing his temper, so no harm was done. [00:01:03] Did he accept apologies from the accused in his courtroom? [00:01:10] Naturally, the outrage is focused on the judge. [00:01:13] The girl's mother, who supports and inflames her husband, hits her daughter as well, and demands that she lie down and take it like a woman, is barely mentioned. [00:01:24] I can't help but think that the shocked reaction of the general public is just a little bit precious. [00:01:32] It's like the pompous posturing of a veteran politician who claims to be shocked about a congressman's corruption. [00:01:39] Or the infamous Captain Renaud in Casablanca. [00:01:43] He closes down Rick's cafe and Rick says, How can you close me up? [00:01:46] On what grounds? And he says, I'm shocked. [00:01:48] Shocked to find that gambling is going on here. [00:01:50] And a croupier hands him his winnings and he says, Oh, thank you very much. [00:01:53] Everybody out at once. [00:01:56] Most parents hit their kids, and when the kids are much younger and more vulnerable than the poor girl in this video. [00:02:03] So why is everyone so shocked? [00:02:05] Are they pretending that such practices are somehow outside the norm? [00:02:11] Statistically, when something is practiced by 90% of the population, claiming to be shocked by it is ridiculous. [00:02:18] I mean, 90% of Italians are Catholic. [00:02:21] Can any Italian claim to be shocked when he runs into one? [00:02:26] Just about everyone knows someone who hits their kids. [00:02:29] How many people have stood up for these poor, beleaguered children? [00:02:35] Have you? How many people have talked to parents about these civilized and civilizing alternatives to hitting defenseless little children? [00:02:45] Have you? If you're not exposing and opposing child abuse, you're an accomplice I want to say to those who are outraged, please, don't pretend to be shocked by the commonplace.