Nov. 14, 2011 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
03:03
2031 The Judge, The Beating, and The Unreality of Outrage
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It's hard to understand why people are reacting so strongly to the recent video showing a judge beating his daughter.
Over 90% of parents punish their kids by inflicting physical pain, so I'm not sure why everyone is pretending to be so, so shocked.
Is it because the girl in the video is a teenager?
85% of adolescents have been physically punished by their parents, and the video example is far less violent than most of the examples that have been shared with me.
Is it because a belt is used?
30% of parents openly admit to hitting their kids with a belt, a stick, or some other hard object.
Imagine how many more do not openly admit it.
Is it because the man is angry?
More than half of parents admit to hitting their children out of frustration and anger.
Is it the hypocrisy?
The judge recently claimed that he apologized for losing his temper, so no harm was done.
Did he accept apologies from the accused in his courtroom?
Naturally, the outrage is focused on the judge.
The girl's mother, who supports and inflames her husband, hits her daughter as well, and demands that she lie down and take it like a woman, is barely mentioned.
I can't help but think that the shocked reaction of the general public is just a little bit precious.
It's like the pompous posturing of a veteran politician who claims to be shocked about a congressman's corruption.
Or the infamous Captain Renaud in Casablanca.
He closes down Rick's cafe and Rick says, How can you close me up?
On what grounds? And he says, I'm shocked.
Shocked to find that gambling is going on here.
And a croupier hands him his winnings and he says, Oh, thank you very much.
Everybody out at once.
Most parents hit their kids, and when the kids are much younger and more vulnerable than the poor girl in this video.
So why is everyone so shocked?
Are they pretending that such practices are somehow outside the norm?
Statistically, when something is practiced by 90% of the population, claiming to be shocked by it is ridiculous.
I mean, 90% of Italians are Catholic.
Can any Italian claim to be shocked when he runs into one?
Just about everyone knows someone who hits their kids.
How many people have stood up for these poor, beleaguered children?
Have you? How many people have talked to parents about these civilized and civilizing alternatives to hitting defenseless little children?
Have you? If you're not exposing and opposing child abuse, you're an accomplice I want to say to those who are outraged, please, don't pretend to be shocked by the commonplace.