Making Sense - Sam Harris - #9 — Final Thoughts On Chomsky Aired: 2015-05-15 Duration: 10:10 === Difficult Conversations Demystified (09:47) === [00:00:01] I wanted to do another Ask Me Anything podcast, but I know I'm going to get inundated with questions about my conversation with Noam Chomsky. [00:00:28] So in order to inoculate us all against that, or at least to make those questions more informed by my view of what happened there, I want to do a short podcast just dealing with the larger problem. [00:00:42] As I see it, of having conversations of this kind. [00:00:45] More and more, I find myself attempting to have difficult conversations with people who hold very different points of view. [00:00:51] And I consider our general failure to have these conversations well so as to produce an actual convergence of opinion and a general increase in goodwill between the participants. [00:01:04] I consider this the most consequential problem that exists. [00:01:08] Apart from violence and other forms of coercion, all we have is conversation with which to influence one another. [00:01:15] And the fact that it's so difficult for people to have civil and productive discussions about things like U.S. [00:01:21] foreign policy or racial inequality or religious tolerance and free speech This is profoundly disorienting, and it's also dangerous. [00:01:31] If we fail to do this, we will fail to get everything else of value. [00:01:36] Conversation is our only tool for collaborating in a truly open-ended way. [00:01:43] So I've been experimenting by reaching out to people to have difficult conversations. [00:01:47] I recently did this with the Muslim reformer, Majid Nawaz, which resulted in a short book entitled Islam and the Future of Tolerance, which will be published in the fall. [00:01:55] And as you'll read in that book, this was not at all guaranteed to work. [00:01:59] Majid and I had a very inauspicious first meeting. [00:02:03] But when I later saw the work he was doing, I reached out to him. [00:02:05] And the resulting conversation is one in which we made genuine progress. [00:02:09] He opened my mind on several important points. [00:02:12] And most important, it was a genuine pleasure to show readers that conversation, even on very polarizing topics, can occasionally serve its intended purpose, which is to change minds, even one's own. [00:02:26] Now here I would draw a distinction between a conversation and a debate. [00:02:31] They're superficially similar when the parties disagree, but to have one's mind changed in a debate is to lose the debate, and very likely to lose face before one's audience. [00:02:42] Now, this is an incredibly counterproductive way to frame any inquiry into what is true. [00:02:47] Now, occasionally I engage in public debates, but I've never approached them like a high school exercise where one is committed to not changing one's view. [00:02:56] I don't want to be wrong for a moment longer than I need to be. [00:03:01] And if my opponent is right about something and I can see that, I will be very quick to admit it. [00:03:06] So my dialogue with Majid was not a debate, really, even though at times we are pushing rather hard against one another. [00:03:14] It was rather a conversation. [00:03:16] And on the heels of that success, I decided to attempt a similar project with Noam Chomsky. [00:03:21] And the results of my failure are on my blog, For All to See. [00:03:25] Of course, many people understood exactly what I was trying to do and why I published the exchange, and they apparently appreciated my efforts. [00:03:32] I tried to have a civil conversation on an important topic with a very influential thinker, and I failed. [00:03:40] And I published the result because I thought the failure was instructive. [00:03:45] The whole purpose was to extract something of value from what seemed like a truly pointless exercise. [00:03:52] But that's not the lesson that many readers took away from it. [00:03:56] Many of you seem to think that the conversation failed because I arrogantly challenged Chomsky to a debate, probably because I was trying to steal some measure of his fame. [00:04:05] And that I immediately found myself out of my depth. [00:04:08] And when he devastated me with the evidence of my own intellectual misconduct, and my ignorance of history, and my blind faith in the goodness of the U.S. [00:04:17] government, I complained about his being mean to me and I ran away. [00:04:22] Well, I must say, I find this view of the situation genuinely flabbergasting. [00:04:27] Many of you seem to forget that I published the exchange. [00:04:31] You must think I'm a total masochist or just delusional. [00:04:35] I know that some of you think the latter. [00:04:37] I heard from one person, I think it was on Twitter, who said, Sam Harris reminds me of a little kid who thinks he's playing a video game and he thinks he's winning, but his controller isn't actually plugged in. [00:04:48] I happen to love that metaphor. [00:04:50] I'm just not so happy to have it applied to me. [00:04:53] Anyone who thinks I lost a debate here just doesn't understand what I was trying to do, or why, upon seeing that my attempt at dialogue was a total failure, I bailed out. [00:05:04] I really was trying to have a productive conversation with Chomsky, and I encountered little more than contempt and false accusations and highly moralizing language, accusing me of apologizing for atrocities. [00:05:17] And then weird evasions and silly tricks. [00:05:20] It was a horror show. [00:05:22] Now, I concede that I made a few missteps. [00:05:24] I should have dealt with Chomsky's charges that I had misrepresented him immediately and very directly. [00:05:29] They are, in fact, tissue thin. [00:05:31] I did not misrepresent his views at all. [00:05:35] I simply said that he had not thought about certain questions when I should have said he had thought about them badly. [00:05:40] Those of you who have written to tell me that what I did to Chomsky is analogous to what has been done to me by people who actually lie about my views, you're just not interacting honestly with what happened here. [00:05:51] I did not misrepresent Chomsky's position on anything. [00:05:55] And insults aside, he was doing everything in his power to derail the conversation. [00:06:01] And the amazing thing is that highly moralizing accusations work for people who think they're watching a debate. [00:06:07] They convince most of the audience that where there's smoke, there must be fire. [00:06:12] For instance, when Ben Affleck called me and Bill Maher racist, that was all he had to do to convince 50% of the audience. [00:06:19] But I'm sorry to say it was the same with Chomsky. [00:06:22] I can't tell you how many people I heard from who think that he showed how ludicrous and unethical my concern about intentions was, for instance. [00:06:31] He's dealing in the real world, but all my talk about intentions was just a bizarre and useless bit of philosophizing. [00:06:37] But think about that for a second. [00:06:38] Our legal system depends upon weighing intentions in precisely the way I describe. [00:06:44] How else do we differentiate between premeditated murder and crimes of passion and manslaughter and criminal negligence and just terrible accidents for which no one is to blame? [00:06:54] Imagine your neighbor's house burns down and yours with it. [00:06:57] What the hell happened? [00:06:59] Well, what happened has a lot to do with your neighbor's intentions. [00:07:03] If he had a cooking fire that got out of control, that's one thing. [00:07:06] If he tried to burn down his own house to collect the insurance payment, that's another. [00:07:10] If he tried to burn down the whole neighborhood, Because he just hates everyone. [00:07:15] That's another. [00:07:17] Intentions matter because they contain all the information about what your neighbor is likely to do next. [00:07:24] There's a spectrum of culpability here and intention is its very substance. [00:07:28] Chomsky seems to think that he has made a great moral discovery in this area and that not intending a harm can sometimes be morally worse than intending one. [00:07:37] Now, I'm pretty sure that I disagree, but I would have loved to discuss it. [00:07:41] I wasn't debating him about anything. [00:07:43] I was trying to figure out what the man actually believes. [00:07:47] It's still not clear to me, because he appeared to be contradicting himself in our exchange. [00:07:52] But in response to my questions and the thought experiments I was marshalling trying to get to first principles, all I got back were insults. [00:07:59] But worse, many people seem to think that these insults were a sign of the man's moral seriousness. [00:08:05] Many seem to think that belligerence and an unwillingness to have a civil dialogue is a virtue in any encounter like this. [00:08:12] And that simply vilifying one's opponent as a moral monster by merely declaring him to be one is a clever thing to do. [00:08:21] Now, despite what every Chomsky fan seems to think, there was nowhere in that exchange where I signaled my unwillingness to acknowledge or to discuss specific crimes for which the U.S. [00:08:31] government might be responsible. [00:08:33] The United States, and the West generally, has a history of colonialism and slavery and of collusion with dictators and of imposing its will on people all over the world. [00:08:42] I have never denied this. [00:08:45] But I'm hearing from people who say things like, of course ISIS and Al-Qaeda are terrible, but we're just as bad, worse even, because we created them. [00:08:54] Literally. [00:08:55] And through our selfishness and our ineptitude, we created millions of other victims who sympathize with them, for obvious reasons. [00:09:02] We are, in every morally relevant sense, getting exactly what we deserve. [00:09:07] Well, this kind of masochism and misreading of both ourselves and of our enemies has become a kind of religious precept on the left. [00:09:16] I don't think an inability to distinguish George Bush or Bill Clinton from Saddam Hussein or Hitler is philosophically or politically interesting, much less wise. [00:09:26] And many people, most even, who are this morally confused, consider Chomsky their patriarch. [00:09:32] And I suspect that's not an accident. [00:09:34] And I wanted to talk to him to see if there was some way to build a bridge off this island of masochism so that these sorts of people, who I've been hearing from for years, could cross over to something more reasonable. === Morally Confused Followers (00:21) === [00:09:48] And it didn't work out. [00:09:50] The conversation, as I said, was a total failure. [00:09:53] But I thought it was an instructive one. [00:09:55] So, I don't know if that answers all the questions I'm going to get about the Chomsky affair, but When I put out a call for an AMA later this week, forgive me for moving on to other topics because I don't think there's much more to say on this one.