Miss Understood No. 32 dissects Oakville Trafalgar’s trans teacher controversy, linking "rubber boobs" to safety risks and consent debates while critiquing Hollywood’s alleged monogamy decline—5% non-monogamous but 95% still practicing it. Jennifer Lawrence’s hypocrisy over Don’t Look Up earnings and Weinstein ties, Olivia Wilde’s PR-stunt claims about Don’t Worry Darling, Chrissy Teigen’s politicized miscarriage narrative, and Kim Kardashian’s plastic surgery lies are ranked as cultural betrayals. The episode warns of societal instability if monogamy erodes further, framing Hollywood’s hypocrisy as a symptom of broader moral decay. [Automatically generated summary]
Hello and welcome to Misunderstood, a show for all you culturally and politically misunderstood ladies and gents.
We are your hosts.
I'm Katie Nick!
And I'm Nat.
And today we're going to talk about consent and why it is the bare minimum requirement in a sexual encounter.
Then we're going to talk about the dumbest women in Hollywood right now.
But first, our patent and culture shock moment of the week.
Speaking of consent, take it away, Kat.
Well, y'all, you might have seen this going around the internet.
How could you miss it?
Yeah, you couldn't miss it because they'll slap you right in the face, they will.
There is a teacher, and the school that the teacher belongs to is actually Oakville Trafalgar High School.
And this teacher last year came out as trans, so it's a trans woman, possibly.
And this teacher's wearing comically sized, I was going to say butter boobs, rubber boobs in her shop class.
That's, first of all, safety issue.
Nibbles the size of teacups.
You get one and stuck in a saw.
I mean, the good news is that they're made of rubber.
That's the good news.
That's the good news, guys.
Good news.
That's the good news.
But the bad news is what?
Like, you remember like being a student and you asked a teacher a question and sometimes they'd like reach over to you and their breast would touch you and you're kind of like horrified?
Yeah.
What is that?
Not to mention, you know, girls at school are required to cover up.
Yeah.
We're required.
You couldn't wear spaghetti straps.
Exactly.
No local.
I don't think that's a thing anymore.
Okay.
Well, it should still be a thing, I think, because we don't want our male teachers to feel uncomfortable.
And you don't want any false accusations of a young student being like, that teacher's looking at my chest.
It's like kind of hard to miss it, sweetie.
There's a hickey right there.
Yeah.
But this, this completely, this is completely inappropriate.
I can understand why they need to be so big and have rock hard.
I think these people want you to go with what they want so badly that they're like, even though they know it's ridiculous and uncomfortable, they still want to push, they want to be authoritarian almost and say, haha, you have to accept me.
Otherwise, you're a bigot.
Yeah.
And it's like, ha ha ha.
Exactly.
But it's, it's sexual.
Don't look at them.
Exactly.
Exactly.
It's like, you can't miss it, sweetie.
That's sexual harassment.
It's sexual harassment.
It's so inappropriate.
This teacher should be fired.
Yeah.
And if you say anything about it, you're a bigot.
Yeah.
You disgusting bigot.
You disgusting bigot.
That's sickening me.
Nobody consented to looking at those.
Nobody.
And is that what this person thinks real women look like?
Yeah, clearly.
Because huller.
Heller.
Real women.
Heller.
Idiot.
I'm just a big committee club.
Yeah.
Okay.
Like.
Like, there are women with giant natural boobs that don't even come in the same stratosphere as those ones.
I know, because my mom had the biggest boobs I've ever seen in my life.
And guess what?
Most women who have large breasts want them to be reduced.
And my mom got a breast.
Exactly.
So you're just walking around with these fake rubber things is if you understand what it feels like to carry the weight of real breasts, well, you don't.
You just have sweaty it is under there.
Like his man chest is like probably covered in hair under rubber, like bulletproof.
And like, how do you get a shirt to fit over that?
Anyway, we're dying.
Anyway, we digress a little bit.
But you know what?
You know, it's just so.
It's gross.
And it's happening right here in Canada in Ontario.
It's just completely unsurprising.
Yeah.
No, when I saw it, I was like, oh, that's got to be like Milwaukee.
Seattle or something.
But no, it's just down the 401.
It's our own backyard.
So move away from Canada.
Don't send your kids to public school.
Maybe a public school, maybe consider homeschooling.
And let's like, let's reel it in.
Reel it in.
Let's reel it in a little bit.
Okay.
We've lost the plot, everyone.
Okay, so now we're going to talk about consent because it kind of falls into the category.
Nobody consented to those.
Bazongas.
Yikes.
That's the one word to describe those.
Okay, so consent.
Couple things we want to touch on here, a couple different stories, but okay, so there's this author named Louise Perry.
She's from England, and she recently wrote a book.
It's actually from a secular perspective, but it kind of is aligned with biblical notions.
She's like a leftist.
Yeah, she's a progressive, like, not really feminist, but sort of, I guess, in the way that maybe we would identify with feminism.
Anyway, so she wrote a book that basically challenges the conception of all the sexual revolutions, downstream effects that have been universally positive for women.
So she was also on Ali Bastucky recently.
And she talked about the consequences of consent as being the only standard of decency for like it's like the like the bare minimum.
Yeah, it's the bare minimum, right?
And so some of the things she says is sex is in the way our culture defines sex is that it's not significant and can be morally neutral and you don't have to invest any meaning in it based on our culture standard.
It's like shaking hands or anything.
So this means you can buy it, you can sell it, and you can objectify yourself.
But the problem is that if you say sex is no different from any other kind of social interaction, you can't give rape a special status because sex means nothing.
So the same would go for sexual harassment.
So it's as it goes with that teacher, it's like, well, is this person sexually harassing these students because all things are fair game?
And we've seen that kind of those kinds of weird sexual niches become normalized in our society with things like 50 Shades of Gray, for example, where it's like, okay, you can now whip your partner if they consent to it.
But really, that's something that was never mainstream before.
Blurs lines.
There's a lot of blurred lines.
So it's like, what is consent?
Well, consent should be the bare minimum, I guess.
But like, what about respect?
Yeah, exactly.
And like emotional love, you know, like, because I don't think women can disassociate like feelings from sex.
I think we've tried to in our culture, but I don't think it's like the norm for us.
I think it's like anything where if you're exposed to it so much, like if you were a prostitute from a young age, maybe you can because you've had so much of it and you literally can disassociate.
And that's super, super sad.
Yeah.
But I think it's not the natural state of any human, mostly specifically women.
Yeah, and I think like one of the things she touches on is the fact that like men are programmed differently from us and how we have sex.
Yeah, exactly.
With a shame.
But our culture is trying to empower us to have sex like men.
And it's like, well, why are these women all not satisfied?
It's because we're not supposed to be like men.
We're not supposed to have sex like men.
And men are barely satisfied.
Exactly.
That's why they have to spread their seeds.
Spread their seed.
Spread their seed.
Yeah, no, exactly.
That's interesting.
Yeah, I thought it was really interesting too, because if sex has no special status in society, how can you argue that rape has special status?
And it's interesting because we know, and one of the things she talks about is how obviously rape is so viscerally different because it's violent and it's obviously forced.
But it's like, is this kind of what's happened because of sex positivity?
Like, can rape have special meaning if everything's on the table?
I don't know.
I don't know the answer.
I just think it's something that's interesting to think about.
So it's like we're experimenting so much.
If consent is the bare minimum, but you can like, once you have consent, you can do anything.
Anything.
Yeah.
And then it's like, okay, well, where does rape enter into the conversation?
Exactly.
Yeah, I just, I don't know the answer.
I just think it's interesting.
I read a lot of Reddit, and I was actually reading a story about this guy.
He posted that him and his girlfriend wanted to do some like BDSM play and had a safe word.
And he started doing, like, he started whipping her or something like that.
And he said she was super quiet and didn't say anything.
And then he noticed she was crying.
And he's like, she didn't even use the safe word.
And people in the comments are like, it's not so easy.
Like, you're getting beaten with a belt or whatever.
Like, you don't even, like, you, you just break down and she wasn't ready for it.
And it's like, it's just because she gave consent to let him do that.
Like, it doesn't mean that she can't be upset about it while it's happening.
Right.
Well, especially because women are more vulnerable in a sexual situation than a man every single time.
We're usually smaller, weaker, and that is kind of frightening.
Yeah.
So when a man is like doing something aggressive to you, even if you did consent to it, it's a little frightening, I would imagine.
Yeah.
You know, I don't know.
One time my boyfriend, who's my husband now, he was tickling me.
And he was tickling me so much that I, for a moment, like thought he would never stop.
That's terrifying.
I started sobbing.
That's so sad.
It was the clue.
It was mostly so.
And he was, and like, we talked about it just the other day.
It was like 10 years ago.
It was so scary.
And he's like, I've never tickled you since because it was so traumatizing for both of us.
Tickling is torture.
It's torture.
It's literal torture.
But we were having fun and I was enjoying it.
And then it was like, it went too far.
And I sobbed and it was the end.
Yeah.
So that's funny.
And also horrifying.
I do feel your pain.
I hate being tickled.
But I mean, I think consent is important to discuss because like, you know, maybe movies should be more, like, movies is kind of why we started wanting to talk about this because there's that article about that nonprofit who wants lack of consent labels on movies and TV with objectionable sex scenes.
I like this idea a lot.
I actually do too.
At first, I was like, oh, focus, but then I was thinking about it.
And it's like, we have warnings on violent scenes.
We have warnings on smoking, gun violence, and sex, but sex is not rape.
Those are totally different things.
Absolutely.
And what if you're just like, are they just classifying rape and sex as the same thing?
Oh, it's a sexual scene.
It kind of seems like they are, which is kind of interesting.
And then we wonder why young men have such a twisted, distorted view of what sex is.
Yeah, beyond all the porn they're probably watching.
But it's like, it really blurs the line.
So it's actually a really great idea to be like, this is not sex.
This is forced sex, a completely different thing.
I also think, though, wouldn't it be nice if movies and the entertainment industry were just more responsible about not having scenes that didn't need it?
They're never going to.
I know, but like, I just think, like, why should everyone else change around Hollywood?
Like, maybe it's time for Hollywood and Entertainment to be like, hey, maybe we should be a little more responsible about the kinds of messages we're trying to send young women, especially in movies aimed towards a younger audience.
Because you and I can watch a movie where a guy kisses a woman, you know, he forces himself on her and it's supposed to be portrayed as sexy, but we're like, oh, that's kind of we have the critical thinking skills to be like, eh, it's not cool.
But kids don't.
Yeah.
I don't know.
But and you really, like these days, like a kid gets a cell phone at 10 years old.
True.
You don't know what they're watching on there.
Like you can, you can put on safe search, but they're kids are smart.
They're going to get away.
They're going to get around it somehow.
Yeah.
Even if they're just at their friend's house.
Exactly.
So they're going to be exposed to those things no matter what.
So like having, I don't even know like how you protect them because it's like the question is like, why do we need so much violence in movies?
Yeah.
Like I love James Bond.
I do.
I love it.
It's super violent and there's always sex in it.
But like does it make the movie?
I don't know.
I guess.
The sex scenes don't make the movie for me.
I don't want to watch.
No, I like the gadgets.
Yeah, me too.
And like the casinos.
And like the hot.
But if you just had gadgets and casinos, would people watch it?
Like, I think it's a problem that we have that's a lot deeper than just Kin Holly would be more responsible.
It's like, why do humans need to watch violence in general?
I have no answer for that because I like watching MMA.
Like I like watching people beat each other up.
Like, am I sick?
Yes.
No, you raise a good point.
But I do think that the trend in movies has become more and more violent and more and more sexual.
Like any Netflix movie, their violence, because they have the money to do it, is so realistic that it's truly disturbing.
And it's like, is this so necessary?
We get you have great special effects teams, but I don't want to watch that.
No.
I don't enjoy it.
I don't enjoy it either.
I love, like, I think I've said this before, I love a psychological thriller.
Yeah.
But when it's like gory, horror, bloody, I'm just, or it's like sex and gore.
I'm just like, who is this made for?
Who are these sick people?
And even if it is like a true story, I still think there are ways you can be tasteful about it.
Like my husband and I tried to watch the Pam and Tommy show, and I do think it was really, it's really thoughtful and interesting, but like it's so sexual and there's so much nudity.
And you're like, I don't really.
I don't want to apply it.
Yeah, like I want to watch that with my husband.
Like I don't want to.
Are you supposed to watch it with like who I don't want to watch it with you either?
It's like there's just tits and penises everywhere and you're like, this is super awkward.
The Sexual Revolution's Legacy00:10:16
Yeah.
It's like a prosthetic penis and it's like animated and it talks.
But it's not cool.
It's like very like jarring.
You're like, this is not, I don't want, like my husband's probably like uncomfortable that I'm staring at this weird talking penis and I'm uncomfortable that he's staring at Lily James' fake tits.
Like it's just weird.
It's not healthy for people to, you know?
I don't know.
Like they can tell the story without all that.
I like when they imply it.
Like if you're having a sex scene and they're like, ooh, like we pan to the window.
Yeah, like they're struggling with their keys and then they close the door.
Exactly.
You know what you do and you don't need to show it.
It's so true.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I just.
There's so many articles here that are great.
Yes, there's a lot.
There's a lot of interest.
And I mean, it just speaks to the fact that our culture, we've talked about this a lot the last couple episodes, just like the oversexualization of our culture.
And it's just so unnecessary.
And I don't understand why.
It's like they want to try to normalize sex outside of marriage so that everyone is just miserable and just having all this sex and they're like not entering real meaningful relationships.
So they're not getting married and they're not having kids.
Maybe I'm having a tinfoil hat moment right now.
Have a tinfoil gnat moment.
Tinfoil gnat moment.
But it's like, we know that like sex is only really complicated outside of marriage because in the confines of marriage, there's stability.
I'm missing a page.
Still have to, we'll find her page.
I just wanted to, I had a thing about the history of the sexual revolution.
Yeah.
But basically it was interesting because the let me try to remember.
So the greatest generation, which was our parents' parents, like our grandparents' generation, they had on average three sexual partners in their life.
Wow.
And then our parents, after the sexual revolution, had on average 11 sexual partners in their lifetime.
Mom, dad, gross.
And then our generation actually has less.
We're at eight on average.
Yeah.
And I think the generation below us is even less.
Maybe.
So it's like, that's kind of interesting because although our culture is so much, it's so hybrid.
It's like sexual.
Yeah.
We're almost like, I don't understand.
Maybe we consume so much, we don't actually.
Yeah, it's kind of like maybe like your parents raised you to be conservative, so you reject that.
So our like millennial parents raise us to be so, not our parents per se, but like on average, so sex positive.
Like I had like friends and classmates who were having sex so young, like, and you're like, and their parents knew about it.
They weren't even hiding it from their parents.
So I'm like, this is not normal.
You haven't even finished puberty.
You're like the cool mom buying her like teenage daughter and condoms and stuff.
Right.
And so like the pendulum has maybe swung so far.
It also might be, I feel like we talked about this on a previous episode where our generation or even the gen Z are like kind of scared of the opposite sex.
And like people consume so much pornography and digital media in sexual like form like sexual forms of digital media.
I don't know what I'm saying.
But like they consume so much of it online that in person they're like, it's like awkward.
It doesn't live up to their expectations and it's like devoid of meaning.
So they're just like not interested in doing it at all.
And then there's like the MGTOW movement.
Yeah.
Like it's kind of like in cells and now there's a new movement called Femmcel, which is a little less like violent and scary.
Still stinky though.
But it's still not, it's not great.
Yeah.
But and then one of the things, this Louise, what's her name again?
Thumbnail.
Louise Perry.
There we go.
One of the things Louise Perry talked about on this episode with Alibi is that this is this oversexualized culture of maybe why young women are becoming transgender because they're uncomfortable with the oversexualization of their bodies and they're like, the only way to get rid of this is to become a man.
Yeah.
Which is so scary.
It's so sad.
Like what a horrible side effect of the sexual revolution.
Yeah.
One of the, like, there's so many bad side effects.
Well, that's the thing.
Like, I think that the sexual revolution was a natural part of human history where instead of being like, oh, top button, like, don't talk about sex, don't talk about feelings.
Yeah, no, I like a top button.
But actually, we actually have a baby outfit that looks exactly like this.
I'm going to put a picture of it.
Goo-goo, gaga.
Exactly.
In santalization.
Happening right here.
Where is my baby a skank?
I don't know.
What was it saying?
Okay, so I think the sexual revolution was a natural part of history.
And like, I think it was a good thing to an extent, but like so many things, the pendulum has swung so far where we're just like, show me your tits.
And it's like empowering.
And it's like, no.
And then you got this teacher with its big nipples in your face.
And it's like, that's not empowering for nobody.
It's not.
No.
It's not.
No, I agree.
We need to reel it back.
Yeah, I think so.
And I think it all stems from, you know, the direction we need to go is like get married and have kids.
You sound so crazy.
Sorry.
Be in a stable relationship because that's the most fulfilling thing for both a man and a woman.
Like that's, that's where people we know statistically are more content.
So I understand, man.
We've all had our slutty years, okay?
But she kissed a boy.
I kissed one boy before my husband.
Let me tell you.
Oh, my God.
It was great.
No, she has redeemed herself.
I've redeemed myself, but you know, it's just, it's not fulfilling.
I've been there.
It's not fulfilling.
Yeah.
It wasn't fulfilling for me.
It's not fulfilling for any of my slutty friends.
No, it's not.
And they lied to themselves.
And culture's lying to you.
Yeah.
And there's this crazy pressure, and that kind of leads into the Kelly Clarkson article from Evie, but there's this crazy pressure on women to be sexy, and this is not at a young age.
At a young age.
We've talked about this a million times.
We talked about it last week, the week before, probably the week before.
Yeah, with infantilization and Ready Spears and her little kilt, you know, Ariana Grande.
Yeah, and so this article is from Evie magazine, and it's Kelly Clarkson was pressured to be sexual as a young rising star.
She had to fight just to be herself.
Now, Kelly Clarkson is a really interesting example of this because she went from literally a regular human being one day and then she won American Idol and then the next day she was super famous.
Yeah, and this was before social media, so her fame was literally like on Zero to 100 on television.
Like I remember, I don't watch those shows, but at the time I did because it was so long ago.
I was like 12.
But she was thrust into the limelight so fast.
And one of these quotes is she's talking to Variety and she recalls what it's like to be thrust into the limelight after winning American Idol.
She said it was not great.
It was just really hard for me to navigate the industry.
She goes on to say, I remember this one tool I worked with.
This dude came over to my house and put down some magazines and was like, so this is what you're competing with.
And she said there was naked people on it.
Do you think they ever do that to men?
I don't know.
I don't think so, because Leonardo DiCaprio would never work again.
Yeah.
And it's just like, so she is famous for her voice.
Because she's incredible.
She's incredibly talented at singing.
Why does she need to be naked to do that?
And it's just like this whole...
It's not America's Next Nude Model.
No, exactly.
We have those.
We literally have those.
And even models, like America's Next Top Model, I used to watch that too.
Those girls are running around naked in the back.
All the time.
Well, and apparently it's come out even about that show that there was so much pressure for them to take their clothes off.
Otherwise, they get eliminated, like all the Christian models, which is kind of an oxymoron in a way, I guess, if you think about it.
But they were like pressured by Tyra Banks to take off their clothes.
And they were like, I don't feel comfortable doing this.
Superb.
Like, it's like, but why do they have to take off their clothes?
I thought it was all in the face.
Yeah.
And I thought it's about modeling clothes.
Clothes?
Like, that actually, where's that article about, oh, the models wear nothing but sex tape on New York Fashion Week Runaway?
So this one is.
I was thinking, this one inspired me.
I was thinking we should start our own.
We should absolutely.
This is the kind of crap.
We should absolutely do it because I literally have some gorilla electrical tape.
Perfect at my house.
I got some duct tape.
We can make it work.
We can make it work.
Now I'm going to use more of it.
Me too.
Yeah.
It'll be like modest sex tape.
Yeah, but okay, so they talk about how it's sex tape.
Have you ever heard of such a thing?
I don't know what sex tape is.
I know sex tape.
I know about the kind of tape where you like use it as a bra and you're like, oh, yeah.
I don't think that's what they're talking about.
That's like bra, that's like boob tape.
Okay, yeah.
They sell it Aritzia.
Right.
But this is like, oh.
Oh, I love that brand.
Yeah.
Aritzia.
Sponsor.
What did they say?
They're like something about bringing sex tape to the next level or something.
And I'm like, first of all, back up.
And apparently there's a wardrobe malfunction.
Course.
Course there was.
Like, this isn't fashion.
No.
And it's not cute.
And it's a man.
The designer is a man.
And the, so this is a quote from the article, The Hot and Sticky Showcase.
Gross, okay?
Gross.
Nobody likes sticky.
There's no cotton involved.
So of course it's hot and sticky.
The hot and sticky showcase was part of the sold-out black tape project, an unconventional sartorial initiative dreamed up by self-proclaimed.
Dreamed up.
Dreamed up by self-proclaimed body tape pioneer Joel Alvarez.
Interesting.
Everyone in the audience was a dude, probably.
Yeah, like this guy's no pioneer.
It's like a modern day Davey Crockett.
Like he's just like pioneering fashion.
All he wants to do is tape up models.
He just nanies.
He wants to look at their tits and tape them up.
But he was taping them like downstairs too.
Yeah, that's so inappropriate.
You know the feeling of like ripping tape off your skin?
Has anyone had a little kidney and the little hairs coming up?
Like, ow!
That's not sexy.
What is sexy about that?
No.
And it's speaking of kids.
Facebook.
Yeah.
No, but if you want to be a model, you're going to let this guy tape up your V your V. I guess so.
Whatever gets you paid.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's creepy.
And like, of course it looks good.
They're all friggin' tens.
They're 12s out of 10 walking down the like.
Put that tape on a regular body.
It's like, woo!
Put it on David Menzies.
And then let me know if you still like it, okay?
Freckled and hairy.
Why Monogamy Matters00:06:27
Don't get too specific.
I'm so good.
I've seen him in a leotard.
I apologize.
Beautiful man.
Yeah.
It's just, it's not fashion and it's gross.
And Joel Alvarez should be ashamed of himself, but he's probably rolling in cash because they're like, oh my god, it's so brave.
Hot women wearing nothing.
Like, oh, who had to rip that tape off them at the end of the night?
Hopefully, they didn't have to do it to themselves because I think they're not.
Hopefully, that's some sort of like solvent that dissolved the sky.
I would love that for them.
We'll be sure to follow up with them.
Like what they do to canola oil, like a solvent bag.
Oh, yeah.
That's good.
You've got a future career in.
I don't know.
Yeah.
I don't know what they're calling.
Anyways.
Anyway.
We have to be happy here.
Yeah.
What about the one from BuzzFeed?
Oh, yes.
This is actually, this is interesting.
This is actually something that Louise, what's her name again?
Oh, my God.
Louise Perry.
Lord help me.
She actually talked about how monogamy is actually the most preferable for women because it actually protects women and children the most.
Because in a polygamous relationship, men are able to go willy-nilly.
There's typically more abuse, apparently, more crime.
And it's obviously not great for women to see that they're, because it's typically meant with multiple women in history and in other cultures and stuff like that.
It's not great, I imagine, to see your baby daddy.
I guess Nick Cannon can speak to this better than we can.
He's called out, Nick.
All of his baby mamas.
But it must not be nice to see the father of your child run around with other women.
Kristen Thompson.
Yeah.
Yeah, exactly.
Although that's like cheating.
Oh, they're not even together, but it's like, she's like, we're not together because he's not here and he's cheating on me.
Yeah, so we're not together.
We're not together.
But this article basically tries to argue that monogamy is super out, which I.
I didn't know that.
Yeah.
This is, there's a couple quotes from here that are freaking hilarious.
Yes, there are.
So I just want to say, like, so the article talks about polyamory.
And I'm a Christian, and I'm not prone to polyamory, and I never will be.
But I know people who are, and they're happily married, and I, it's not my place to judge, again, as a Christian, it's not my place to judge their marriage.
And I think that they have something that works for them.
However, this article takes it to a whole, like this.
So, okay.
Here's a quote from the article.
I'm scared.
Both of my husbands are also in relationships with my girlfriend.
What?
What?
You can't be.
Okay.
Anyways.
Another line from the article is: forms of sexual, sorry, forms of sexual consensual non-monogamy have been popular or at least openly visible among gay men for a long time.
It's called an orgy.
Yeah, and they are also contracting a monkeypox monkey.
Like, what a time to be pushing non-monogamy.
I love, though, the way they were talking about this as if it's actually mainstream.
And then they say that 4% to 5% of U.S. adults are non-monogamous.
It's like, that's not mainstream.
It's mainstream.
And then my favorite was.
But monogamy is in its flop.
It's in its flop, though, you guys.
It's out.
95%.
Yeah, it's been a crime.
95% of people are doing it still, but it's like most people monogamous, but it's mainstream.
My favorite was this girl named Allie, a 36-year-old from Chicago.
She shared a story about her current partner to reflect on how she's changed.
They'd planned a date after not seeing each other in weeks.
This is her and her, I don't know, mayhaps.
Like when I have a bad day and I go home and I feel better when I see my husband because he makes me happy.
Yeah.
And a snack, hopefully.
No, he won't.
That's no.
He killed Doordasha something.
That's the sweetest.
Like, come on, people.
Like, you're really, really grasping at straws here if you're trying to convince the population.
If we were monogamous, like, we wouldn't have stability at all.
I would have had to perform a fan dance for him.
Oh my gosh.
What does she think women do for their husbands?
She has no idea.
She has no idea.
Obviously, no, I think that's probably the same girl who said both of my husbands are in relationships with my girlfriend.
Like, what are you saying?
You're not in anything.
I don't think that that's going to be long-term.
I think that we're...
Maybe not.
Maybe it's a phase.
Maybe it's a phase.
I don't see how that can be fulfilling just in like a spiritual sense.
But they're not trying to live a Christian life.
Yeah, but we have like an inherent, we have a soul.
And like, I still think that, I don't know.
I still think that.
Yeah, it's not for me.
It's not for me.
I'll tell you that.
I just think like God gave us a nature to yearn to be with someone for that like stability.
And again, like no one's a monolith.
You're right.
But like I think inherently that's just like the way we're built.
But like I just like we know for the most part, I'm going to say most people who are in those kinds of relationships are not going to end up being fulfilled.
Like they're just, it just isn't.
It's fair.
Because we know, first of all, like society is going to crumble if we like continue to pursue these kinds of things.
And like you just, you can't, you can't ignore the stats.
Like men and women who are married happier.
Yeah, and it's also like are children in the picture or not.
Exactly.
Like, yes, that also plays.
With these couples, they're not.
Thank God.
Yeah.
It wouldn't, it couldn't, like, it's almost like child abuse.
Yeah, I think so too.
Yeah.
And if everyone, like you, to what you were saying, if everyone did this and no one had children, like, we're literally doomed.
We're done.
We're doomed.
Yeah.
It's like, it's like Dante's first level of hell or something like that.
It sounds really fun.
It's like orgies, but no children, and then jealousy and rage, and then the next level.
So unfortunate that this is mainstream.
Yeah.
Oh, wait, it's not.
Yeah.
But it's just funny.
They're like, monogamy is in its flop area.
It's 95% of the population that are still monogamous.
I bet before because you're not going to try, yeah.
I'm sure like half of these people who are, half of this 5% of these people are probably going to just be like, nah, I'm going to stick with my favorite partner.
You know, I don't know.
Florence Pugh's Take00:10:31
I actually read a story about that on Reddit as well.
Oh, good.
This woman got married to a man, and once they were married, she said, oh, I want to be in an open relationship.
I want to be polyamorous.
And he was like, not about it at all.
He's monogamous.
And he was heartbroken.
Yeah.
Well, that's, she completely catfished him.
So she was pushing it and pushing it.
And so she started dating other people.
And she was like, I always came home to him, though.
And then eventually he met a woman and fell in love with her and divorced this woman for this other woman.
And she's like, I've totally messed up.
Like, I love him.
And it's like, you, yeah.
Yeah.
You, you tried to force a monogamous man to be polyamorous.
It destroyed his heart.
Yeah.
You broke your marriage and now you're alone.
Because people are so like desperate to seek pleasure.
Yeah.
Everyone's just obsessed with pleasure.
Well, guess what?
Pleasure doesn't keep you warm at night.
Have a nice piece of pie with ice cream.
Honestly, just like indulge in like a brownie or something.
Don't overindulge, okay?
Overindulge.
All right.
It's just like, yeah.
And also even that gluttony is one of the sins, right?
I don't know.
I have to tell myself that all the time.
Just enjoy.
Yeah.
Just enjoy being pregnant.
Yeah.
You're beautiful.
Thank you.
All right.
Speaking of beautiful, should we move on?
Yeah.
To the women in Hollywood who are the biggest idiots so far.
We have four for y'all today.
Yeah, we're going to feature four in beautiful snitches.
Snitches get stitches.
Snitches get butches.
Alrighty, so everyone's favorite Oscar winner, Oscar Wiener, Oscar Wiener, Jennifer Lawrence from the beautiful state of Kentucky, everybody.
Well, that seems like a somewhat conservative place to grow up if you ask Merr.
So we all remember from a couple weeks ago that she claimed that she has nightmares about Tucker Carlson.
Not Harvey Weinstein, though.
Yeah, no, she's fine with Harvey Weinstein, who I'm like going to assume she whatever finagled.
Maybe.
Allegedly.
Not fact.
Not a fact.
But she has nightmares about Taco Carlson.
She was praised for fighting, starting picking fights with her conservative slash Republican father.
That article is, we don't need to like dive into it, but I just found it so, I think it's BuzzFeed.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Jennifer Lawrence is being praised for admitting that she can't get over her Republican dad's political views after she revealed they fell out during the 2016 election.
So you people are praising this woman for falling out with her father?
For not respecting her dad's opinions.
That's what we're doing now?
Pretty open-minded, if you ask me.
So mature and open-minded.
And it comes on the back of, remember a couple weeks ago to Sidney Sweeney, that actress?
Yes.
I keep moving this.
I'm so sorry.
It's awful.
She had, there was a 60th birthday party for her mother, and there was some people in her family that were wearing MAGA hats and Blue Life Matter hats, and people like freaked out on her.
Because it's her fault.
Her family was.
Where's her mom's birthday?
not even her party and she's supposed because I'm famous and I can't be seen with you people like we're supposed to So now we're praising people.
Like, it's sad when family relationships devolve.
But now we're praising people for breaking up their families over because of freaking Trump.
Are you crazy?
Are you crazy?
It's crazy that you let Trump have that much power over your life, y'all.
Yeah.
Just saying.
When that happens, it's sad.
We shouldn't be praising people for it.
No, it's so true.
And she said that the Roe v. Wade, Jennifer Lawrence, was what really inspired her to open up, which is interesting because this comes after she just gave birth to a human baby that she carried for nine months.
So it's like, sorry.
I find it so confusing when women who are pregnant or have just given birth are like super pro-abortion.
And I'm like, you can tell your baby.
Yeah, like, hello.
Hello.
Do you not remember?
You grew one inside of you for nine months.
Meanwhile.
It's just weird.
Like, I get still being pro-choice, having a baby, but I don't understand being like so hardcore about it and being like, this is my, this is the moment to talk about it.
It's like, it's really not.
Yeah.
Like, don't you value the life that you grew?
Anyways.
Yeah.
So she's annoying, but also she, like, side note, she complained about making $25 million on Don't Look Up, which was a sh ⁇ movie.
Sorry.
Such a bad movie.
She's mad because Leonardo DiCaprio made 30 and she made 25.
Like, perhaps she has a grievance.
They were both lead actors.
Yeah.
Like, well, I think we negotiated better.
Yeah, maybe.
She get-go, I don't know.
I don't know.
Like, maybe she deserved more money.
I would argue they both deserved less money.
I think so, too, like, for such a crappy film.
It was crappy.
And it's just so obnoxious that people like her who push these progressive policies that impact the economy so poorly are like, oh my gosh, $25 million.
$20 million.
Like, you're like, excuse me, there's, have you heard of inflation?
No, you haven't, because it's not affecting you.
And I'm also sick of her face.
I know.
She's beautiful.
But, like, I'm sick of Leonardo DiCaprio's face.
I'm sick of her face.
I'm sick of literally all the same people in all the same movies.
You're lucky that you have a job and that people want to see your face.
Yeah.
Is what I think.
So I wouldn't be complaining.
And if I was a filmmaker, I mean, I wouldn't because I would just be, you know.
Anyways, I wouldn't, yeah.
Okay.
I'm thinking of not asking people to show me their butts, is what I'm thinking.
So it wouldn't work because I wouldn't be that deprived.
However, I wouldn't cast her after complaining about only making $25 million.
I'd be like, you know what?
We'll just get some other girl.
Yeah.
Because what you did was not that exciting.
Yeah.
It's true.
And Stephen Crowder made a really good point about her because in 2012 or something, she was in an interview where she talked about how she's going to buy herself a derg in a gern.
That's a dog in a gun.
And it's interesting because it's like she goes to Hollywood.
It's been 10 years since that 2012 interview.
I don't remember which magazine it was with.
And she's changed so much.
So it's like, is Hollywood just like, do they force people to conform?
Or do these people just think it's what the public wants to hear?
I think it's both.
I think everyone thinks that it's what they want to hear and then it and then it becomes like it almost like insists upon itself and it becomes the reality.
And then if you are like, hmm, I'm in Hollywood, but I kind of like, I still want a dog in a gun.
People are going to be like, oh, you're not working again.
Right.
You're not coming to the vanity.
But it's so interesting.
It's interesting.
Because one of the points Stephen Crowder made is that all these people in Hollywood come from other states.
Most of them are raised in Hollywood.
So that means they come from different values and backgrounds.
And they all merge together.
And then they all merge together.
It's like, that doesn't, that's not how it works.
The melting pot.
And for an industry that's so obsessed with diversity, you'd think that we would be able to value and appreciate other people's belief systems, but no, no.
No, no.
It's not diversity of thought.
Exactly.
My mistake, my moustache.
It's just diversity of skin color and waistline.
Interesting.
All that matters.
Well, sad.
Who else stinks?
Olivia Wilde.
Olivia Wilde stinks.
She's such a biz nas.
She stinks.
Get her out of here.
She's.
Okay.
Where do we even begin?
For context.
Okay, so people think that she cheated on her husband, Harry, not Harry Stelder, Jason Sudekis with Harry Styles while filming Don't Worry, Darling, the film she directed starring Florence Pugh and Harry Styles.
Apparently, like, people saw Jason Sudeikis visiting her on set and then also saw her like canodling.
Yes, and that's.
So it's like, that's an overlap.
Exactly.
And that's why there's also apparently a feud between Florence Pugh and Olivia Wilde.
And people think that that's actually where it stems from.
It's the fact that she caught her being a slur with a guy who wears dresses all the time while her husband and kids were just out back eating cookies.
Yeah.
So like this, this movie, Don't Worry Darling, premiered last week.
There's a ton of controversy around it.
It's subject matter, but just the production in itself.
She claims that she fired Shia LaBeouf, who was originally supposed to play Harry Styles' part.
It would have been way better.
But he has receipts that prove, and I watched one of the videos that that is not the case.
He says he quit because he didn't have enough time.
He felt pressured to like rehearse.
Yeah, he didn't have enough time to prepare and rehearse.
So there's a video, there's apparently emails, texts, and a video, and I watched the video myself.
And it's literally, okay, first of all, she's driving in her car while taking the video.
Because she's signaling and like looking and it's like, okay, anyways, that's a side note.
But she's literally like, I wrote down what she said.
She writes, she's driving and basically says, I'm not ready to give up on this yet.
And is there still any hope?
And she says, like, oh, this is a good wake-up call for Flo, Florence Pugh.
So in her story, she says, oh, I fired Shia LaBeouf because he made Florence Pugh uncomfortable and not creating a safe place and he was confrontational.
But in reality, it seems that Shia left on his own accord.
And Olivia Wilde completely threw Florence Pugh under the bus when trying to get him to come back.
And then she starts hooking up with his replacement while she's still, and she wasn't married to, she was engaged to Jason Sudeikis and they had two children together and they were engaged for seven years.
So what did he served her custody papers?
Yeah.
Okay, yeah.
So they just have cuss.
They both have hussy of a kid.
Yeah, okay.
So they were together a very long time.
Interesting because the way she speaks about Shia LaBeouf, it's like, if he's such an aggressive person, you would know that already in the industry.
Like, it's a small thing.
I mean, I think we all know that.
Yeah, but like, it's a tight-knit industry.
So, like, if there's, if you knew about issues about his aggression before, why cast him in the first place?
Like, it just doesn't make sense to me.
I find that to be really suspicious.
Yeah.
Super sus.
And also seemingly untrue based on the fact that there's a video of her.
Yeah.
Literally, and he released it.
So, okay, so that happened a couple weeks ago.
She's basically, I think this is just a big PR stunt, frankly.
Well, there's tons.
That's the thing.
No publicity is bad publicity.
And this movie is getting so much publicity.
Bad publicity, because no one's talking about the actual film, by the way.
No, like, no one cares about the movie.
Apparently, it's super feminist.
Oh, it's about Jordan Peterson.
Kim's Miscarriage Controversy00:11:25
Yeah.
Apparently, the character played by Chris Pine is supposed to be a Jordan Peterson type character.
Who's apparently an incel.
Yeah.
Jordan Peterson, who's happily married with two children.
Yeah, who's an incel.
Who has openly critiqued incels multiple times?
She's never listened or watched him at all.
That's what other people have said.
It's like, yeah.
Okay.
Anyway, so she's, she's interesting.
Maybe at the end of the show, we'll rate who we think's the worst.
Yeah, that'll be fun.
This one's a doozer.
This one's a doozer.
You guys.
This is one of my least favorite people in Hollywood.
And of the four women that we're profiling, this is one of the two who are famous for nothing.
Yes.
That's interesting to point out because at least Olivia Wilde and at least what's her face?
Jennifer Lawrence.
What's her blank, dead stare face?
Yeah.
They at least have jobs.
They're performers and directors.
And they have, well, I think Olivia Wilde is very mediocre, but Jennifer Lawrence is a very good actor.
She is.
She is.
I've enjoyed her in the past.
Yes.
And they work.
Yes.
Okay.
But now we're profiling the two on our list who are famous for being famous.
The first is Chrissy Teigen.
Yes.
And take it away.
Okay, so Chrissy Teigen, apparently her miscarriage in 2020 was really an abortion to save my life.
So Chrissy Teigen is speaking out on the death of her 20-week-old unborn child, Jack, in 2020, saying she actually had an abortion, not a miscarriage, as was originally reported.
So Evie reported there are a few red flags about the whole situation that people couldn't help but notice for starters.
So she posted photos of this, which people thought were really strange, of her when she had the alleged abortion in 2020.
So the photos she shared were professionally taken.
People thought that was weird.
And those who were skeptical looked a little closer at the photos and noticed that if you zoom in on where she was crying in the hospital bed, there's a bracelet.
Her hospital bracelet has a different woman's name on it.
Super weird.
That's weird.
So anyway, what really happened is that they induced labor.
Yeah, so she was 20 months pregnant.
Yes.
Sorry.
20 weeks.
Weeks, my goodness.
20 months pregnancy.
Woo-hoo!
What is she?
Well, so she's 20 weeks pregnant.
And like you were about to say, I just want to give a little context because she was bleeding for a month prior to being admitted to the hospital.
Okay, sorry.
Yes.
So she was diagnosed with partial placenta abruption.
Basically.
That's terrible.
Yeah, and she, I guess, had struggled with placenta issues in the past.
So she was induced and they gave her an epidural to deliver her son.
And basically she delivered this baby who can't survive.
But could survive on its own.
So I don't know all the details about abortions, but I'm pretty sure it's not an abortion.
Pretty sure that's a miscarriage.
That's the thing.
You can just, I think the definition of abortion has been shifting because what the article talks about.
I think we talked about this in a previous episode when Roe v. Wade had just been overturned about how people are freaking out because, oh, what if you need chemo for cancer treatments?
It's like, okay, if you do a life-saving measure on yourself and as a result, your child dies, that is not an abortion.
That is not a friggin abortion.
Like, it's not a word.
Like, you're not opting.
Yeah.
You're not choosing to murder your baby.
It's so different.
And I think she mentions that it wasn't until a couple months ago from like this week or last week that she realized that this wasn't a miscarriage.
She just smacked her in the face.
Just smacked her in the face, but it's like two years later.
What happened a couple months ago that may want change her mind?
Hmm.
Did a major legal proceeding get overturned?
Oh my gosh.
And then celebrities.
Yes.
And then celebrities all of a sudden started coming out about their abortion stories.
And it's like, oh, this week this person's talking about, oh, how I, you know, my career.
Michelle, what's her name?
Williams.
Yeah, like, oh, I would never have won this Academy Award if I didn't have my abortion.
Yeah, Michelle Williams, because people care so much about you.
Yeah.
You know?
I just think it's pretty evil, actually, to blur, like to blur the lines between an abortion and a miscarriage because they're so completely different.
And words matter and the meanings of words matter.
And like we know that we talk about that a lot on the show.
And in this case, it matters too because like a woman who miscarriages, that's a horrible thing that happens to her and that's so emotional.
But that's how she's, that's how it looked like.
And that's the way she portrayed it.
Exactly.
And I named her baby.
Yeah, she named her baby and she was crying in the pictures.
And I remember at the time, like, I really don't like Chrissy Teigen either.
But you sympathize with her.
I completely sympathized with her.
It was really, really sad.
And she said because she was losing so much blood, she was having all these transfusions, and they were going through bags and bags of blood until the doctors were like, it's just falling out of you.
You can't do this.
So it's like, so were you, so was this an optional abortion where you're like, eh.
I don't think so.
Because she even celebrated the baby's one-year anniversary, like after the baby had died.
So it sounds like you really wanted that kid.
And it sounds like a miscarriage is super sad on its own.
Why do you need be politicizing?
Well, because it's super in vogue.
And like I mentioned at the top of this Chrissy Teigen segment, she is famous for nothing.
Yeah, she just needed to get her name.
Naming it again out there again.
It's like every week, Demi Lovada does something atrocious.
It's like, oh, well, how can I get in the headlines again?
It's like, well, oh, I just realized that I had an abortion.
Like, no, you did not.
Pretty sure it's different kind of trauma between a miscarriage and an abortion.
And I just think, like, we got to stress delivering a baby early in order to protect the life of a moment.
It's not an abortion.
It's not an abortion.
Okay.
The baby was never going to live.
Yeah.
The doctors told her that she could have died if she kept bleeding as much as she did.
Yeah.
They wanted the kid.
She's pregnant again.
They named the child, celebrated its anniversary.
Doesn't sound like an abortion, Chris.
If the baby came out and somehow miraculous, because even at 24 weeks, a baby's viable.
Maybe the baby could have survived.
It could have survived.
I've seen like 19-week fetuses survive.
And sometimes they don't, which is.
Of course, most of the time they don't.
There's always it like it goes up and up percentage-wise every week.
So I'm sure she would have kept it.
Yes.
She wasn't flushing it.
No.
Like you were going to keep, you named it.
Like you loved that kid already.
It was super sad for everyone to watch you go through that.
Yeah.
And then now you're like, no, oopsies.
It was an abortion and Roe v. Wade, and me too.
Like, get off it.
Go away.
Just go away.
You need to go away.
Just get out of here.
Just get out of here.
Worst.
Okay, you are the worst.
But I don't know.
This person might be the worst.
Yeah, we have one more.
We have one more.
Who would have guessed this person would make our list?
Oh, cat, cat, cat.
What do we have to say about this?
Honestly, I only wrote she's the worst in general.
Okay, so let's just provide some context.
Kim Kardashian is who she's talking about.
So Ray J goes off on Chris Jenner, Kim Kardashian, saying they lied about the sex tape.
So they're apparently actually, okay, so we talked about this briefly, briefly, like months ago, but on the Kardashians' new show, The Kardashians, there's a scene where Kim Kardashian discovers on the internet that Ray J, is was involved with allegedly releasing the first sex tape that got her famous in 2007 or something had a second copy or like a different tape okay it turned out take two take two Yeah, exactly.
So Ray J is now claiming he shot three sex tapes with Kim Kardashian, and Chris Jenner picked the best.
What?
Oh my God.
Oh!
Can you imagine?
That's your mom watching you have sex.
I actually think that's demonic.
Like I actually think that's the same thing.
And she picked the one that Kim looked best in.
What are you?
What?
Yeah.
So these people are just so depraved and so disgusting and just evil.
Like it's so weird.
That's your child.
Like that should be illegal.
It should be illegal.
It's kind of, it's like your child and it's porn.
Is it not child porn?
Like it's so gross.
It's just so gross.
Like three times he watched you do it.
She watched you do it three times.
And then she was like, oh, the lighting's better in this one.
Like her.
And you want our sympathy for this guy allegedly releasing these tapes, which we know obviously that's completely contrived.
And you guys, this is a concerted effort to get your baby Kim famous.
And it worked.
It worked.
But like, goodness gracious, like, this is, it's just so disgusting.
And they're trying to defame Ray J now saying that he like stuck things up her butt while she was sleeping and stuff like that.
And it's like, I don't, I mean, he's obviously not an upstanding citizen, but I kind of sympathize with him a little bit.
Yeah.
Like, what the heck?
They're making, well, I saw the text that he sent to Kim about that.
And he was like, can you not tell people that I basically raped you while you were sleeping?
Yeah.
He's like, would you not have woken up?
Like, what kind of a story is that?
Yeah, like, is your butt so fake that you just can't feel it anything?
Completely numb.
Yeah.
It's just it's so gross and like these people like she's a mother.
And they're exploiting this person who they all were clearly in cahoots.
It's like, why are you playing a victim when you're not?
Like, that's just.
And he's had it.
Yeah.
He's had it.
Which is good.
Like, I really hope that more truth, like, more of the truth starts to come out about this because it's just, it's gross.
And like, the Kardashians just need to go.
They need to go.
They need to go.
She's just the worst in general.
And so is, like, I think Chris is the worst.
She's the worst.
But she's not, we should have put her on the list.
But one of the things that bothers me the most about Kim Kardashian is how much she lies about her plastic surgery.
I know.
Like, she still hasn't admitted to her butt implants.
Yeah.
No, she is just.
Like, she's the worst example for women.
She's the worst.
She's had a nose job, cheeks.
Like, she's had her whole face done.
Yeah.
Her whole body.
And her breasts completely redone.
Like, if you want to be plastic, just be like, yeah, I'm plastic.
Yeah.
Like, and it's working.
This is something Sebastian and I have talked about, too.
And sorry, we're going to wrap things up here because this is going a little long, I think.
But when you've had so much work done, how can people actually call you beautiful when it's all fake?
Like, true beauty is that's like Bella Hadid.
She's had hundreds and hundreds of thousands of dollars of facial reconstruction.
We shouldn't look to these people for like beauty standards.
They're not setting them.
They're buying them.
Yeah.
And that's so unfair.
You're not ugly.
You're just poor.
Yeah, exactly.
Like the rest of us have to suffer with whatever's going on here.
Okay.
Thank God, you know.
Yeah, it's blessed.
And it's the lighting, obviously, thanks to our wonderful producer.
But like, I just don't think it counts.
No.
And you shouldn't be allowed to be an influencer or a model if it's all fake.
I'm sorry, because like, unless you're only influencing other plastic surgery addicts, you could be like a model for a plastic surgery company.
That'd be cool.
Yeah.
And you have children.
And I've mentioned this before, but it's another atrocious thing about her.
Not quickly, quickly.
She photoshops her children's photos on Instagram.
She makes their noses smaller, their lips bigger, their eyes bigger, their bellies flatter.
Like it's good for their health.
I don't need mental health.
I don't even need to comment on it because you guys know.
You already know.
It's just disgusting.
Okay, so who's the worst?
Why Influencers Shouldn't Be Fake00:01:09
Before we finish things off.
Honestly, I think Kim, just because she's the most famous and the most damage.
Kim, Chrissy, Olivia Wilde, Jennifer Lawrence.
That's my order.
Yeah, I agree.
Okay, great.
Well, that's the sure.
That's the first one.
That's the sure, okay?
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