Before you were born, well before the self-esteem movement was created, I think it was in the 1970s, in California, naturally.
Yeah, shocking.
I even remember who did it.
For some reason, I can't forget his name.
He was a California state senator.
He has since passed away.
John Vasconcelos.
This will fascinate you.
Because most people don't know the origins of the self-esteem movement.
It started in California.
The state of California gave a certain amount of money to explore the self-esteem roots of crime, which sounds great, but as soon as it happened, I knew it was stupid.
What they really were saying is, Poverty causes crime.
Racism causes crime.
And now they were adding a third one.
Low self-esteem causes crime.
By the way, poverty is a lie.
Racism is a lie.
Not that poverty doesn't exist.
It's a lie that causes crime.
And low self-esteem.
Roy Baumeister, one of the greatest criminologists in American life.
Professor of criminology.
Psychologist.
He spent his life with criminals.
I mean, murderers.
Right.
He said to me on my show, Dennis, the people with the highest self-esteem I have ever counseled are murderers.
So related is the high self-esteem.
So you and I have high self-esteem.
It's obvious from what you said.
But there's a very big difference.
Our self-esteem is morally rooted.
I like Dennis when he does good.
I don't like Dennis when he doesn't do good.
I would feel so holly.
That's the point.
I would feel like a cheat.
So your self-esteem would go lower if you cheated to get a disability note.
Yes.
Vast numbers of people, it would not work that way.
If I can get a doctor's note to get on Southwest faster, to have more time taking an LSAT, then damn it, I'm going to get that note.
And their self-esteem does not sink.
Yes, yes, it's an excellent point.
Self-esteem, oh, it's everything.
If self-esteem is rooted in the moral, in other words, I have to earn my own self-esteem.
You know earn is one of my two favorite verbs.
So I have to earn.
That's how I feel.
By the way, I believe I have to earn God's esteem.