Dennis Prager Show - Do You Fear Death? Aired: 2024-10-22 Duration: 04:43 === Deciding in High School (02:26) === [00:00:00] I am so emotional that I had to figure out how not to have it overwhelm me. [00:00:13] Wow. [00:00:13] Yeah, I know. [00:00:14] It is a wow because I'm so rational. [00:00:18] So I'll give you an example. [00:00:21] I watched The Diary of Anne Frank when I was 17 on television. [00:00:28] It choked me up beyond words. [00:00:32] And I said, how am I going to deal with this? [00:00:36] I'm overwhelmed with sadness about the Holocaust. [00:00:40] And not just the Holocaust. [00:00:43] Evil and unjust suffering generally. [00:00:47] And so what I decided already in high school, I made most of my big decisions in high school, interestingly. [00:00:56] I decided... [00:00:59] That what I would do is channel my emotions into action. [00:01:10] And that way I feel I'm doing something about what I feel so strongly about. [00:01:18] Does this all make sense? [00:01:21] Absolutely. [00:01:22] And so it was a very conscious decision. [00:01:27] To substitute reason for passion. [00:01:30] The passions are still there. [00:01:33] But I have channeled them, it's the best term I guess, into fighting and into reason. [00:01:43] So I just wanted to say that I really, I did fear, to a certain extent I did fear. [00:01:53] That my emotions would get the better of me. [00:01:56] I'll tell you what, emotions. [00:01:58] Sadness over human suffering. [00:02:01] That's the emotion. [00:02:02] I've come to see death a little differently, and it's because of my faith in God. [00:02:08] When I was in Europe this summer, I was in Ireland for a little bit, and I met this beautiful girl, 23 years old, named Eleanor. === A Mother's Peace (02:31) === [00:02:17] She's a dressmaker. [00:02:18] She's just stunning. [00:02:19] So dignified and beautiful. [00:02:22] And she told me that her mother died two weeks. [00:02:26] Before I met her of cancer. [00:02:29] And she handed me a little prayer card, which is very common in Ireland, to have a little prayer card of her mother. [00:02:35] And she had these tears sitting on the edge of her eyes, her beautiful blue eyes. [00:02:41] And I was just so captivated by her because she never let them fall down, but you could just see her heart was broken. [00:02:48] And I said to her, Eleanor, how are you... [00:02:53] How are you out in the world after your mother died? [00:02:58] And she said, But this priest said to her, [00:03:26] the human lifespan is so short. [00:03:29] Think about the span of eternity. [00:03:32] Think about all of the thousands of years that human beings have been on this earth. [00:03:36] And then we each individually come for 50 to 70 years. [00:03:41] Let's hope. [00:03:42] 50 to 100 years. [00:03:44] And this priest said, that is a blip on the radar screen of time. [00:03:50] That is a... [00:03:51] Our earthly minds can't conceptualize it, but it is a tiny, tiny bit of time in the span of eternity. [00:03:57] And this priest said to her, it will be faster than the speed of light in the span of time until you're reunited with your family again. [00:04:07] I believe that. [00:04:09] I really believe that too. [00:04:10] And it was this girl telling this to me and I could see that she really believed it. [00:04:15] And it was what allowed her mother to have peace in her death. [00:04:18] It was what allowed her to have peace through her mother's death. [00:04:21] And that permanently changed the way that I view it. [00:04:25] Is that how you view it? [00:04:27] Oh, totally. [00:04:28] I said my sanity preserver is the afterlife. [00:04:34] Well, you know, I... Not just for my reconnection with loved ones, that God judges the bad and rewards the good. [00:04:42] That's my sanity.