But by a woman psychoanalyst who, psychotherapist, I think psychoanalyst, says, don't take your mother for granted and spend time with her, care for her, contact her, and of course the same, I would add, for fathers.
Just a few of the comments in the comments section.
Following the article.
Message from your mother.
She forgives you for not being there at that moment to hold her hand because you took care of her all those other times.
Dawn F. It's very hard to forgive oneself that.
I wasn't the daughter my mother wanted or understood.
There was a chasm between us.
Neither of us can get across.
She died decades ago now.
I kick myself for not taking her out shopping or to lunch occasionally.
How hard would that have been?
She writes, phew, what stupidity.
Yes, I kick myself for not taking her out shopping or to lunch occasionally.
How hard would that have been?
And another comment by a woman named Grace Hinton.
My adult son called me today wanting some advice.
Best Mother's Day gift I could ever get.
And the final comment I'm reading to you from a reader named Deborah Wright.
Agreed.
It's a gift when your adult children ask for advice.
It makes you feel wanted and respected.
Our Western culture isn't good at respecting elderly.
When I read that, I thought of the portion of the Torah that Jews all over the world read this past Sabbath.
Jews divide the Torah into 52 readings for the 52 Sabbaths.
This one was from Leviticus.
19. And it's a fascinating law.
You shall stand up before an elderly person.
Isn't that interesting?
Of course, the Bible is quaint at Harvard.
Jacques Derrida is in.
Leviticus is out.
Correct?
Yep.
What are you thinking?
I know your face.
How did Jacques Derrida get into it?
No, he didn't.
I'm saying, who do they read?
They don't read Leviticus.
Yeah, they read Jacques Derrida.
They read the post-modernists.
Our Western culture isn't good at respecting elderly.
How many kids are taught?
I was taught.
I'm sure, were you taught?
I'll bet you were taught.
If a person older than you walks into the room, absolutely, right?
I mean, to this day, it never ends.
But who needs that quaint stuff?
Okay.
Well, look at the Hitler Youth that they produce at our universities.