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March 14, 2023 - Dennis Prager Show
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Okay.
Dennis Prager here.
And I'm smiling because...
Technical issues in life.
It's really a paradigm for life, my friends, that you've got to get every detail right in life.
Life, what is it?
The devil is in the details.
Actually, God is in the details.
I wonder if anybody has put it that way.
I don't know why the devil is in the details.
Anyway, welcome to the show.
I'm in Miami, Florida for the next week.
And I'm here because I am with Jordan Peterson and the Daily Wire people.
And we are going to be recording part two, eight sessions, two hours each, on the Book of Exodus.
Jordan Peterson has been, throughout his life, a professor of psychology and a major one at the University of Toronto.
And I believe it is fair to say he has led a secular life his entire life.
Affirmed no religion.
I have no idea if he believed in a god.
He may well have, but it was a secular life.
And he has concluded, as I have said all of my life, that secularism is a moral and intellectual dead end.
It is not religious people who say men give birth.
It is secular people.
Now, there are some people who claim to be religious who say men give birth.
But they have simply taken on the secular values and called them Christian or Jewish.
But the traditional believers in Christianity and Judaism don't say men give birth or any of the other absurdities of our time, of which there are many.
So if you don't realize that the whole issue ultimately revolves around whether or not the society takes...
The Bible, seriously, that's what it amounts to.
You don't understand what is going on in the world.
The world just seems absurd and awful, but you don't know why, and now you know why.
Anyway, that's why I'm here in Miami, and these are sessions with seven of us, six plus Jordan, and it is something you would want to watch.
It's available at the Daily Wire.
So they found a more...
Classified documents at Joe Biden's home.
And they're stuck.
There's a sort of stuck because it was very recently that Joe Biden, the least honorable man to ever hold the office of president, in my opinion, I know many of you think it is Donald Trump.
Donald Trump is saintly compared to Joe Biden.
Because Donald Trump at least believes that the country is more important than he is.
Joe Biden does not believe anything is more important than he is.
Anything.
So that's a huge moral distinction.
Anyway, he said what a catastrophe it was for national security, how it endangered national security of finding classified documents in Mar-a-Lago.
And now they have found more and more at his home.
So, they have no way out.
I mean, you can't say those classified documents were really endangering American security, but my classified documents at home don't endanger American security.
Now, as far as I'm concerned, I don't think that either one is a major endangerment of American security, unless I know what is in the classified documents.
There are so many classified documents.
That I don't know.
But if the principle is you've taken from the White House classified documents, then it holds true for Democrats as well as Republicans.
So they really have no way out, to the best of my knowledge.
But there might be a way out because the press will protect them.
The standard press or the mainstream media are to the Democratic Party what Pravda and his vestia were to the Communist Party.
Technically, his vestia was a government paper and Pravda was the party paper, but there was no distinction, just as there's no distinction today between the Democratic Party and the government.
So that is the way in which they are in some trouble.
On another matter, I was so relieved when the Republican House rescinded the order to spend tens of billions of dollars on a staggering number of new IRS agents because, theoretically, the super rich and corporations get away with not paying their, quote, fair share.
This is just a lie.
Everybody knows that with that number of agents, in order to justify, if only for that, just to justify their being hired and their salaries, they will have to get middle-class people as well.
So that Americans buy this stuff, oh, we're just going to stick it to the super wealthy, is very sad.
There's not much to say that Americans bought the line that the Democrats are really protecting middle class Joe.
Middle class Joe is ruined by the left.
You could have gone to Target and CVS and other gigantic stores during the lockdowns, but you couldn't go to middle class Joe's hardware store.
And yet...
And yet the middle class voted for the Democrats.
Not as much as the super rich and the poor.
They tend to vote a Democrat.
They're really poor because they think they'll get more money from the Democrats.
And they might.
What they don't get is more jobs from the Democrats.
So a poor person has a very simple question to ask.
If the Democrats are in power, What do I get?
And if the Republicans are in power, what do I get?
And the answer is, in the former, you get more handouts to further ensure that you stay poor because the only way to get out of poverty is to make money and not to get money for free.
The only way out of poverty is to make money.
And the Republicans enable you to make money.
What is it?
I don't know the phrase, but I know the gist of it about you can either teach a man how to fish, or you can give him fish.
If you teach him how to fish, you'll never have to give him fish.
But remember, if you don't have to give people something, then it renders you unimportant.
The more people getting government funds, the more votes for the Democratic Party.
The Democratic Party wants more people to get charity from the government.
That way they are more dependent upon the government.
It's so obvious what I'm saying that it's one of those moments that I've had throughout my radio career of, I can't believe I'm being paid to say the obvious.
Well, listen, I'm being paid to say that there are only men and women.
There are only two sexes in the human species.
So, if I'm being paid to say that, this is advanced calculus compared to that.
That the Democratic Party wants you to be dependent upon the government is a given because then they have your vote.
Indeed, they have you.
So the poor have a question to ask themselves.
Do you want a handout or do you want a job?
I think if the Republican Party were ideologically aggressive, that would be a perfect example of a billboard, of a TV ad to put up.
If you want free things, vote Democrat.
If you want a job and dignity...
Vote Republican.
Not bad, eh?
That would be good.
I think we should put that down.
I've never quite articulated it that way, but that's the way it is.
I'm a big believer in dignity.
And there's very little dignity in getting handouts.
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Hi, everybody.
Dennis Prager here making the case here about why people should vote Republican.
It gives you dignity.
And I never put it that way before, the dignity issue.
I got the phrase, by the way, sent to me by my trusty wife.
The actual phrase is, if you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day.
If you teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime.
But if people feed themselves for a lifetime, they don't vote for the people who will give them fish.
Human beings want to be given things for free more than they want liberty, more than they want, I'll put it poetically, more than they want to be free.
They want things for free more than they want to be free.
When you take things for free, you are not free.
Just everyone knows that when you think about it.
You are ultimately controlled by the person who gives you the free fish.
And that's what they want.
They want to control us.
Everything that gives you independence.
Everything that lets you lead a happy life without government intervention, the left loathes you for.
The latest is gas stoves.
Yes, didn't you know that?
Gas stoves were just ruining it for people.
The story out of New York State, Governor Hochul apparently sneaked it into some bill without people knowing it, and New York State will be banning the use of gas ovens.
Industry of chefs said this ends our ability to be chefs in restaurants in New York State.
We can't make meals on an electric stove.
We need fire.
We need a gas stove.
So it will further chase out the entrepreneur known as the chef and the middle-class business owner who owns a restaurant.
In the final analysis, It would be fine with the Hochul's and the Democrats if they owned the restaurants.
I know this sounds far-fetched.
There is no such thing as far-fetched when it comes to the left.
When I was in the Soviet Union, at the height of the Cold War, and I speak Russian, so obviously I read Russian, and there was no such thing as Mike's Restaurant.
If you wanted to go to a restaurant when I was in the Soviet Union, you would just see a sign, restaurant.
That's the Russian for restaurant.
And that was it.
There was no proper noun.
It was not Dmitry's restaurant.
It was no such thing.
And when you went in, there was a menu.
There was almost nothing on the menu available at the restaurant.
And you would not get served.
I don't know if I've retold this on my radio show about what it was like to go into a Soviet restaurant.
There were very few, but they existed.
And if you would go in, you would be given or you would have a piece of paper inside a plastic.
That was the menu.
And then you would wait about a half hour till one of the waiters walked over to you.
And what were they doing?
I remember in most restaurants, I was the only person there.
And what were they doing?
After all, you would think with no other patrons, they could just rush over to you and you would be served, or at least your order would be taken within minutes.
But it was about a half hour.
And what they would do is they would just stand on the other side of the restaurant talking to each other.
And of course, I knew why this was happening.
There was no such thing as tipping.
They would get paid whether or not they did a good job.
You couldn't be fired.
Excellence wasn't demanded.
Mediocrity was the norm.
So I actually would bring books, not just newspapers, which I have...
I always would bring to restaurants in the West as well as in the communism.
I brought books.
That, in the final analysis, is where we're headed, and of course this is laughed at.
People would have laughed at the idea that children would be taken to drag queen story hours in kindergarten ten years ago.
People would have laughed that you can't say boys and girls in schools, that Disney would drop boys and girls.
That the pirate scene would not have the pirates chasing the woman because it was sexist.
People would have laughed at everything that the left has done.
Nothing is laughable.
So don't laugh at the idea that in the final analysis, government-run restaurants would be idyllic.
How are chefs going to prepare food?
That's their argument now to Hochul and the Democrats in New York State.
Kids are getting asthma, have ventilation.
Or if your kid gets asthma from it, test it out.
Stop using a gas stove and see if your kid's asthma improves.
That's what human beings do.
If something hurts a human being, you stop doing it.
You don't ban it for the 90% of humans or 95% for whom it has no effect.
This is where we are at.
You know, I'm still wondering about the, I was going to say lockdown, of all the airlines that the United States engaged in under this giant Pete Buttigieg.
And he explained why, out of an abundance of caution, because of the glitch in the software.
There were no flights in the United States.
I don't know how long, how many hours, or was it a day?
I don't know.
But obviously, it ruined things for tens of thousands of people.
And he said why.
We shut down all flights in America out of an abundance of caution.
Because he doesn't have any idea what the system that went down is.
He doesn't know that pilots were still able to be contacted.
The pilots are furious that this was done.
And here's the corker.
Canada had the same glitch and didn't cancel its flights.
Joe Biden may well be to the left of Justin Trudeau.
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Hey everybody, welcome back.
Dennis Prager here and working on further setting up from the remote, as I explained to you, that I am in Miami.
Yes, so I can't hear your calls right now.
I can read them.
We're working on having that.
This is the first time.
And they're remote that we have these issues, and I don't know why.
Talk about not having freedom.
I don't have technical freedom.
I am in the hands of others.
Frank in Los Angeles loves the idea about that billboard, where can you donate?
Well, I don't have an answer to where you can donate.
And we can't do that at PragerU.
We can buy billboards with messages, but we can't do a Republican or a Democrat message because we're a 501c3, and we can't push, as far as I know, for a party.
We can push ideas, but overt political.
But I will put it out there, and I'm sure that there are people who could raise the funds to do that.
Vote Democrat if you want things for free and vote Republican if you want dignity.
The dignity of having a job.
They give you things, we give you jobs.
The question is, how many people in the United States would prefer free things to a job?
Don't think that if the billboard were up, Everybody would say, oh, now I get it.
Now I get the big difference between Republican and Democrat.
Many might say, oh, I get the difference, and frankly, I'd much rather have free money than a job.
By the way, that is obviously true, even for the non-poor.
During COVID, when people were given handouts and then the jobs would welcome them back, they preferred to get the free money and stay home.
These were not poor people, many of them young people.
Oh, I can get money and stay home, why would I work?
So, the notion, and it's one, I would find, Your response is interesting.
Would your kid respond positively to that message?
I'm not sure.
If you could have free things, hey kid, you who just graduated college where I shelled out $300,000 or more.
Let's see, what's four into, let's see, four times 50 is $200,000.
Let's say $200,000.
By the way, after tax, it's not a write-off.
So that's a lot of money.
And still, I believe a lot would say, oh yeah, if I could get a half or two-thirds, certainly, of what I would earn by working, I'll stay home.
This is the human being is a problematic thing.
Dignity.
To be told what kind of car you drive, to be told what type of oven you can use in your house, to be told that you have to keep your house at a certain temperature.
Isn't there a point where people think, You know what?
I'm not living my own life.
I'm not being allowed to control my own life.
Doesn't that bother people?
It depends on your nature.
My nature is I don't like to be told how to live except by God.
And I'm quite literally speaking.
God is above me.
But I don't regard humans as above me.
Now, there have to be laws in a society I fully recognize, but the fewer the laws, the better it is.
The giants, and they were all giants who founded the United States of America, they understood that.
These people did not want a government to tell them what to do.
The purpose of government is...
It was the opposite when America was founded in 1776, not 1619. Pache, the New York Times.
It was the opposite.
The purpose of government was to protect your freedom.
And that is a very big lesson in what the difference is in our time.
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There's no easy way, dear customer.
There's no easy way to put this.
January bills are likely to be higher than usual.
An unprecedented cold snap across the nation in part has caused natural gas market prices in the West to more than double between December and January.
Much higher than expected.
These people lie with the ease with which you breathe.
Yep, that's it!
The only reason for the spike in prices in California is because it was freezing in Buffalo.
Get it?
That's right.
And it's very uncommon for it to be that cold in Buffalo.
I can't believe that happened.
With global warming, how could there be so many cold places?
We swim in a sea of lies.
It's very simple, folks.
We have enough natural gas in this country for your price to be completely reasonable for your energy.
The damn despicable, sick, bored, affluent environmentalists are ruining everything.
Everything.
These are bad people who think they are angelic.
That's the worst.
It's better when bad people think they're bad.
Like the cartels.
I don't think they think they're good.
But the environmentalists.
And I'm not comparing them to the cartels because they're not murdering people like cartels do.
They're slaughtering society, but they're not murdering people.
This country was doing great under Donald Trump and has nothing to do with whether you like or dislike Donald Trump.
I have no interest in Donald Trump, the man.
I have interest in the United States of America when he was president, or for that matter, any Republican who would be president now.
And allow natural gas, and we have staggering reserves in this country.
There's a term in German, I don't know the German term, but in English it's energy poor.
That's what Americans are going to be, energy poor.
Bill Gates can afford the bills, the rich can afford the bills, and the rich are the environmentalists.
You ever meet a poor environmentalist?
Yeah, so this is the reason that you're, this is the letter that went out from Southern California Gas.
Wow.
As a result, SoCal Gas residential customers can expect a typical January bill.
Are you ready?
Likely to be more than double the typical bill last January.
Assuming the same amount of natural gas is used.
Double!
You're paying double because of a cold snap in the East.
Do you believe that?
Is there one person listening to this show who believes that?
We all know why.
It's because of Joe Biden and the Democrats who are run by every radical idea on the left.
And environmentalism is the most fanatic of all of them.
It is a true fanaticism.
These are sick people doing sick things to society.
On the basis, of course, of computer models.
Yes, we will all be inundated by rising oceans.
So then why do the rich build homes on seashores?
Has anybody ever answered that?
Do they believe?
See, I'm not sure they believe what they say.
I don't know the answer.
It's been a puzzle my whole life.
Do leftists believe what they say?
When Newsom said all restaurants have to be closed in California and then attended one without a mask, what did that mean?
It didn't mean he's a hypocrite.
It meant he didn't believe the order he gave out.
He knew it was a bloody lie that restaurants had to be closed because he ate in one.
Nancy Pelosi knew it was a damn lie that every business had to shut down because she went to one.
So all these poor people, the salon my own wife had gone to for years, they went out of business.
And this doesn't bother one Democrat in office.
They don't care if a small business goes out of business.
It's actually one less Republican voter, probably.
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By the way, I was just looking at a New York Times piece from November saying, The Republicans lie when they say that Joe Biden is responsible for the higher energy prices.
It's not true.
It's Putin's invasion of Russia and because, I don't know what else they wrote, it was gobbledygook.
Oh, it has nothing to do with the XL pipeline.
It has nothing to do with the war on fossil fuels.
How could they say that?
On the one hand, they keep telling you that we have to make war on fossil fuels, and then they say our war on fossil fuels has had no impact on whether or not you have energy.
How could they say both things?
And the answer is, who's going to catch them?
The New York Times, The Washington Post, CNN, NBC, ABC, CBS, PBS, NPR. Who is going to call them on the lie?
They make war on fossil fuels.
And then they tell you, oh, it's not our war on fossil fuels that have any impact on the prices.
It's because there was a cold snap in Buffalo.
And you're supposed to believe it.
And if you went to college, the odds are you do believe it.
We shall return in a moment.
I'm Dennis Prager.
The Dennis Prager Show.
Hey, everybody.
It's the happiness hour on the Dennis Prager Show!
Hello from Miami, Florida.
That's why I'm not singing along, because it's a remote.
Well, I don't know.
Maybe it will work this time.
Hey, everybody!
The happy make the world better, and the unhappy make it worse.
This is a rule of life.
Happiness is a moral project.
It is not just an emotional project.
That's the essence of my view on happiness.
And I have a very, well, I always have an important subject, so it's silly for me to say I have an important subject today.
It's about friends.
Long before loneliness became a national issue to the point where...
In Britain, they actually appointed a minister of loneliness.
I wonder if in order to have that job, you had to be lonely.
I never thought of that.
Well, probably not.
After all, you don't have to have had any background in transportation to be the Secretary of Transportation in the United States.
Maybe you don't have to be lonely to be the Minister of Loneliness in the UK. At any rate, I've talked about the need for friends.
I'm not going to talk about the need for friends.
I'm going to talk about how to keep friends.
One way to keep friends that I'd like to bring to your attention, and that is to understand.
It's a theme that I have addressed in the past, but I have more thoughts, and it's...
Like everything else, everything needs to be repeated over and over.
Think of how many times you said to your child, say thank you, say please.
Why is that?
Because humans apparently don't learn on first hearing.
By the way, that really is a big distinction among people.
There are people who hear a very important idea once and they incorporate it into their lives.
Most people, it takes massive repetition.
Anyway, the subject is everyone, you have to know everyone is a package.
It's pretty obvious when one says it, but it's not something people incorporate into their lives.
It's not something people incorporate into their lives.
And it's true on the macro level as well as the micro.
People who support a candidate, and then the candidate takes a different position from them on one subject, and they say, oh, I can't support this person anymore.
And I've told you that I've had that, and I've even read those emails on the air, not because they hurt my feelings.
They didn't.
To be honest, it's hard to hurt my feelings.
The reason that I read them was for people to learn from it.
People would actually write, I've listened to you for 30 years.
I've been a big admirer and follower of yours.
And then you said, and now I realize I was hoodwinked all these years.
You're a fraud.
Or whatever the term that they would use.
Because I now said something that they differed with.
The mature response is, I still admire this person.
And on this particular issue, we differ.
I have enormous admiration for Tucker Carlson.
We differ on Ukraine.
So what?
So therefore, it ends my admiration.
It wouldn't speak poorly of Tucker Carlson.
It would speak poorly about me if that's what I ended up saying.
And the same thing is, and today I'm addressing the micro.
You have to understand everybody is a package, meaning that everybody comes with a whole bundle of traits.
The chances that you will be crazy about every single trait of the human being only means that you have opted to disregard, which may be a wonderful thing, which actually I advocate.
If the person in your life could be a spouse, it could be a friend.
I'm addressing this especially about friends.
Because you have to figure out why is it that you have let a lot of erstwhile, meaning former friends, out of your life?
What exactly would cause that?
And you may have dropped all these people because there was something about them that you finally realized you just didn't like or thought you couldn't live with.
But the truth is, if the person is essentially good and has all these other traits or many of these other traits that are helpful or even essential to a friendship, you don't drop them because of that.
I realized this very early in my life.
My dearest friend from high school, Joseph, said to me, I think it was already in our, I don't think, I'm certain it was in our early 20s.
We had met when we were 15. We're still friends.
And he, very maturely, he's a mature man, he said to me, he was, look, I've made peace with the fact that you don't like to talk on the telephone.
I would like to talk on the phone.
I'd like to be more in touch.
It's terrific when we're together in person, but I finally, I've made peace with the fact that you, Dennis, are not a phone talker and, you know, won't respond if I leave a message immediately.
So, that could be very well a flaw in me.
But it doesn't invalidate the possibility and the desirability, better than possibility, of my being his friend, which has proven to be the case for half a century, and it has been a blessing in both our lives.
You have to ask yourself, is the rest of the package worth it?
That's the question you have to ask.
And as I said, it is true in the macro.
It is true about politicians or people who you listen to, whether it's broadcast listened to or read.
And it is true with friends, and it is true with a spouse for that matter.
I think it's one reason that people let good people out of their lives.
It's because they found what they deem a flaw.
It may not even be a flaw.
It may be a flaw in your eyes.
But if they held the same standard with regard to you, then they would drop you as a friend.
The big picture is the only way to go through life.
In my book on happiness, I call it Perspective.
If you don't have perspective, you can't be happy.
You have to analyze the big picture.
And the big picture is, look at all these wonderful parts of this person.
So yeah, I put up with X or Y or Z. So what?
I've said on many occasions, I think, so what?
Are two of the most wonderful words that we have.
So what?
Yes.
That is the question.
1-8-Prager-776-877-243-776 Did you, in your life, let go of a friend and then ultimately regret it when you realized, wow.
Good friends, possible friends, don't grow on trees.
I should not have let that person go.
Does this make sense to you that everybody is a package?
And it's very hard to get rid of that one or two or three traits that you think make that package imperfect.
Anyway, it's good to know you're a package as well.
That's our theme today.
Everybody is a package.
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You're listening to the Happiness Hour.
Hi everybody, Dennis Prager here.
Happiness Hour.
You're not going to have any friends if you don't realize that people are packages.
And you have to simply make peace with those aspects of the person you want in your life that may bug you.
You make peace with it.
Look, if something can be done about it, that's fine.
Okay.
But otherwise, you just make peace with it.
People give in to their feelings way too much.
Feelings make us human, but being guided by feelings makes you live a pretty awful life, and you come to terrible decisions.
The world is hurt by people being guided by their feelings rather than by their mind.
And by good values.
That's true in the macro, but it's true in the micro as well.
If you don't realize, this is a wonderful person who has attributes I'm not crazy about.
But that's inevitable.
The only person whose attributes you're crazy about is you.
So you'll end up being friends with you and not friends with anybody else.
That's just the way it is.
You tune it out.
I mean, you don't fixate on it.
It's narcissistic to fixate on a good friend's quote-unquote flaws.
They may not even be flaws, by the way.
They may just be a different mode of operation on their part.
Some people's nature is not to be particularly warm, but their...
Terrific friends, and they're there when you need them.
Other people are very warm, and they may come with their own set of issues.
Some people make too many demands on a friendship.
Some people are more remote in the way they conduct the friendship.
So you just bend to it and enjoy the person.
For all the wonderful things that they exist about.
So, it would be interesting to know if you have done this with a friend or, for that matter, with a spouse.
What have you done?
What have you made peace with about another person?
Because the more examples that we can offer, the more help it will be.
To people, there have to be bottom lines in relationships.
I mean, if the person is just mean, abusive, chronically dishonest, I mean, of course these are people not to be in your life.
But the flaw part, that's a very different thing.
It might not even be a flaw.
It might be a quirk.
It might be an idiosyncrasy.
I mean, you could give it any sort of label.
But otherwise, you truly would end up friendless.
All right, John, Virginia Beach, Virginia.
Hello.
John, I can't press the button for whatever reason.
Do you hear me?
Yes, I can.
Yes, I do.
Thank you.
Thanks for taking my call.
I had a friend, and on my father's, what would have been his 100th birthday, September 19th, 2018, I texted him.
Would have been, Dad, would have been a hunter today.
You're lying.
Can't possibly be.
You're lying.
We went round and round on texting for about 20 texts.
The next day, I said, Randy, we're done.
Oops, shouldn't have said his name.
I said, we're done.
And that was it, you know?
And calling me a liar for my father's birthday, something I absolutely knew.
And, you know, I've got two other friends from high school, and we're still buddies, and, you know...
Wait, I'm very confused.
Okay.
Was he serious?
He absolutely was.
Okay, why would he think you would lie about that?
I don't know because his father was, you know, my dad was old when I was born.
He was 42. So he was old and his dad was like 80. So mine couldn't have possibly been 100. Wait, your father would have been 100. He was born in 1918. Yes, he would have been 100 on that day.
I understand, but why would anybody think you're lying about that?
The story is a little bizarre.
That's why I had to lose him as a friend, Dennis.
Wait, how long were you friends?
From high school.
Wait, so he was a friend for how many years?
40 years?
How many years?
40 years.
I don't know why.
Okay, all right.
Fine.
I think everybody shares my confusion.
He said something bizarre after 40 years.
Had he been a good friend for 40 years?
It doesn't add up.
Let me tell you one more thing about the guy.
When we talked about it, when we talked, he would say, oh, what about Bob?
Oh, I had a fight with Bob a whole bunch of years ago.
Don't talk to Bob.
What about Bill?
He broke up with Bill.
I was one of his last friends.
So it was him, I think.
Okay, all right, that's fair.
All right, I was just curious.
All right, thank you.
Sean, let it go.
Thank you very much.
I can't operate the phones for whatever reason from here.
Sean, do you have any idea why I have no control over the lines?
Yeah, I guess not.
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