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Jan. 14, 2020 - Dennis Prager Show
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Ultimate Issues: Is it Natural to Love God?
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Love God and not behave properly?
And can you behave properly and not love God?
How's this?
Are you ready for a confession?
I don't find it easy to love God.
I never did.
I am God-centered.
I want to do what God wants me to do.
I've always felt that deeply.
It is the animating impulse of my life.
But I don't find it easy.
The amount of suffering that is built into this world does not make it easy for me.
I've had a great life.
I mean, I've suffered, but everybody's suffered somewhat.
But compared to others, I haven't.
On scales that I know exist.
And, by the way, I think that...
I am a reason that there is a commandment to love God because if it came naturally, there would be no commandment.
As I said earlier, there's no commandment to love your child.
That comes naturally to normal people.
So, this is a very real question.
Believe me, there are people who think they love God and they don't act very well.
Alright, let's see here.
Tim in Detroit, thank you for calling.
Hey Dennis, I got a quick question.
You said earlier that a commandment that comes, something that comes naturally to you, God did not command us.
So I was wondering, right when you said that, I'm a yeshiva student, I study the Torah the whole day.
And so one question that came up to me is that, We are commanded to love our parents, right?
No, we're not...
We're obligated to honor them and love them.
That's right.
No, no.
Just honor.
Just honor?
Yep.
Okay.
In fact, I write about that in...
Take a look at my Torah commentary, The Rational Bible.
I write when it says, Honor your father and mother.
It's unique.
We're told to love God, love the stranger, love our neighbor.
But we're never told to love our parents.
So, too, we're never told to honor anyone except our parents.
Parents are unique.
Whether you love them or not is your business, not God's.
Whether you honor them or not is God's business.
Very important call.
Glad he did.
Okay.
Let's go to...
Let's see here.
David in Phoenixville, Pennsylvania.
Hi.
Dennis?
Yes, sir.
Long-term listener.
Thank you.
My favorite.
Very good question to ask, sir.
You brought up the issue of the Ten Commandments, and rightly so.
My perspective on that, from a 5,000-foot view and looking at the Ten Commandments, we use those as a measuring stick.
To see how well we're doing.
Now, looking at loving the Lord, we have to look above and get ourselves away from the world.
How do we do that?
We have to pray, spend time reading the Bible, because if we love the Father, we want to get to know Him.
All right, so let me ask you the questions that I posed.
Is it possible to love God and not do what he commands?
Yes, because we're sinners and we constantly...
No, no, okay.
Well, obviously, I understand.
Yeah.
Let's put it...
All right.
Alright, is it possible to love God and be a serial murderer?
I wouldn't think so.
Is it possible to do what God wants and not love him?
Thank you.
That informs some type of detachment from God, which...
No, it's an emotional detachment, not detachment.
It's emotional detachment, but it's not detachment.
Look, I'm a living example of that.
I admit it.
And it may be disappointing to some of you, but That's okay.
We'll both have to live with it.
I just, by the way, my theory, and I know I've done this so long that I know this theory actually works.
The more real you are, the more people will take religion seriously.
A lot of religious people, in a well-intentioned way, but they offer some sort of Pre-written script About their religious convictions and it doesn't come across as real There's nothing quite as Influential that is influencing of others as real then people can
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