Pearly Things - Pearl Davis - Why Do Fat Women Talk About Loving Themselves instead of Just Losing Weight
Aired: 2026-03-17
Duration: 02:07:27


=== $500 N-Bomb Drop (07:19) ===

[00:00:01]  What is up, my neck?
[00:00:06]  What's up, my ne what's up, my neck can't say it in this country.
[00:00:15]  Maybe I should say $500.
[00:00:16]  I'll drop an N bomb.
[00:00:18]  $500 in the chat.
[00:00:21]  I will drop an N-bomb.
[00:00:23]  Yes, I'll do it on camera.
[00:00:25]  $500.
[00:00:27]  And then if any, if anytime I'm in an interview in the future, if they say, why'd you drop the N-bomb?
[00:00:32]  I'll say, look, I was paid $500.
[00:00:35]  You could call me a capitalist.
[00:00:37]  You could call me a capitalist.
[00:00:39]  You know what I mean?
[00:00:42]  I am a capitalist.
[00:00:43]  I'm here for it.
[00:00:44]  But thank you guys so much for joining me.
[00:00:47]  I'm sorry.
[00:00:48]  It's been a few days since I went live.
[00:00:50]  I actually got pretty hammered this weekend.
[00:00:52]  I won't even lie to you guys.
[00:00:54]  Pretty hammered.
[00:00:55]  I know I shouldn't say that on stream, but it is what it is.
[00:00:59]  I got to tell you a story.
[00:01:00]  I got to tell you a story where I'm the villain.
[00:01:02]  You know, there's times I basically played this volleyball tournament.
[00:01:12]  And when I did the volleyball tournament, the team was so bad that I just left.
[00:01:16]  I left and I went and had some beers.
[00:01:20]  I left and I'm like, it's St. Patty's Day parade.
[00:01:22]  I'm not missing this.
[00:01:24]  You know what I mean?
[00:01:27]  Yeah.
[00:01:29]  But it was pretty cool.
[00:01:30]  It was pretty cool.
[00:01:31]  I met some of you guys that watched the stream this weekend at the parade, which was kind of cool.
[00:01:36]  I love meeting you guys.
[00:01:37]  Never, I never, I never mind, you know, saying hi.
[00:01:42]  So welcome.
[00:01:43]  Welcome to the show.
[00:01:46]  Thank you guys for tuning in.
[00:01:48]  All right.
[00:01:48]  Let's see what's going on on Twitter this week because I like to, I like to go through and react to the tweets of the day, with the Twitter spheres going.
[00:02:01]  Oh my gosh.
[00:02:02]  So, okay, for those of you that don't know, this woman cheated on her husband at a Cold Play concert and they put her and the boss on screen.
[00:02:12]  And then they like covered their faces and everyone's like, oh, they're cheating.
[00:02:17]  They're cheating for sure.
[00:02:19]  And it turns out they're both married.
[00:02:22]  Okay.
[00:02:23]  And this woman is now pretending to be the victim here.
[00:02:28]  So concert.
[00:02:29]  And my daughter messaged me and said, oh, it's so great that you and Andrew are both at Cold Play.
[00:02:35]  So she let me know that my estranged husband was also at the concert.
[00:02:39]  So I think it's very important.
[00:02:40]  This is what I did not know.
[00:02:42]  Her husband was Oprah's.
[00:02:44]  Oh my god.
[00:02:45]  The story.
[00:02:46]  And y'all can obviously didn't know either that she was separated from her husband and that her boss was also separated or said he was separated from his wife.
[00:03:00]  Did y'all know that?
[00:03:02]  No.
[00:03:04]  Okay.
[00:03:05]  All right.
[00:03:06]  Or that her husband.
[00:03:07]  I got to say, do y'all believe that?
[00:03:09]  No.
[00:03:11]  Why'd you guys hide your faces then?
[00:03:13]  Do you like, it's just, I have to live in this world where my intelligence is constantly insulted.
[00:03:19]  And I don't think I'm the smartest person ever, really.
[00:03:22]  So like, I don't know what it's like for the men on this planet.
[00:03:25]  You guys are better than me in every way, pretty much.
[00:03:29]  So how do the men feel when you're just constantly having to play pretend?
[00:03:33]  Like, now I got to pretend this bitch wasn't cheating.
[00:03:36]  Like, why do I live in a world like this?
[00:03:39]  You know, was there.
[00:03:42]  This is the, this is the thing.
[00:03:43]  So you get texted from one of your children.
[00:03:46]  Yeah, my daughter's like, this is so fun.
[00:03:48]  Great.
[00:03:48]  I was like, and in my mind, I thought, well, that's, is this going to be weird if he sees me with Andy?
[00:03:54]  Like that.
[00:03:55]  So you run into him.
[00:03:56]  Yeah, if I run into him.
[00:03:57]  But then I was like, I'm in Gelect Stadium.
[00:03:59]  55,000 people here.
[00:04:00]  I'm probably not going to run into it, but it doesn't matter.
[00:04:03]  I mean, that would have been better at the end of the day if I just run into him.
[00:04:08]  But it's, you know, he knows, he knows how closely Andy and I work together.
[00:04:12]  He knows we social and got lunches and got drinks.
[00:04:14]  It was fine.
[00:04:15]  So he knew that there was a relationship there.
[00:04:17]  Yes.
[00:04:18]  He just, he knows the nature of my work and the way the really I've shared desks with the CEOs I've worked with.
[00:04:23]  Like it's just a very close.
[00:04:24]  And so it didn't matter.
[00:04:26]  Yeah.
[00:04:27]  And now she's going on an I'm not a whore tour.
[00:04:29]  So you're going to see these throughout your lifetime where, you know, again, it's women go on instead of apology tours, it's I'm not a whore where they gaslight everybody.
[00:04:40]  Not that anyone cares.
[00:04:42]  I made chicken thighs with a peanut sauce yesterday, but you can't.
[00:04:47]  I made a little bit.
[00:04:48]  I didn't make enough.
[00:04:48]  I liked a meal prep where I make the whole bag and I didn't make enough sauce.
[00:04:52]  So you can't really see it, but it was really good actually.
[00:04:55]  So, and then I put some asparagus in and it was, it was, I don't know if I would have, I think I might have like I kind of cooked the asparagus in the noodles.
[00:05:05]  So I don't know.
[00:05:06]  In the future, I might not do that.
[00:05:07]  But if anyone cares, I also have my bread improving.
[00:05:12]  I don't know.
[00:05:13]  It's not, I don't think, I think it's like it's not rising as much as I want.
[00:05:18]  So I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
[00:05:20]  $5 super chat.
[00:05:21]  Thank you.
[00:05:24]  Thank you.
[00:05:25]  I don't know like what I'm doing wrong, but my bread, like it's edible, but it's just not it yet.
[00:05:30]  And then I got bread mogged.
[00:05:32]  Can you believe this?
[00:05:33]  Some guy was like, come back when it looks like this.
[00:05:35]  I'm like, obviously, my bread does not look like this.
[00:05:40]  Like, it's who the fuck?
[00:05:42]  Screw you, Ned, Ned Buntline.
[00:05:45]  Screw you, breadmogging me.
[00:05:49]  Yeast needs more heat.
[00:05:51]  Like, what do you mean?
[00:05:52]  Like, I need to put it in the oven longer or I need the water to be warmer when I like do in the beginning.
[00:05:59]  Well, it's getting better.
[00:06:02]  Not great, but you know, I mean, we all get to start somewhere.
[00:06:05]  And I really want to be able to make every single thing I eat.
[00:06:08]  So I'm kind of excited.
[00:06:09]  I think I'm getting kind of close.
[00:06:11]  So, you know, like I really, I really want to be able to make like every single thing I eat from scratch.
[00:06:20]  So, you know, Pearl could lose a few pounds.
[00:06:28]  Post your physique then.
[00:06:30]  Why don't you post your physique?
[00:06:33]  $10.
[00:06:34]  You guys are.
[00:06:36]  Thank you.
[00:06:37]  You guys are so nice today.
[00:06:38]  look at you guys you know when I was fat when I was fat that actually would have gotten to me I would have actually thought about that comment all day.
[00:06:51]  But now that I know I'm not fat, I'm like, let me see your physique.
[00:06:56]  Let me see what your body looks like.
[00:06:59]  Post it.
[00:07:00]  add some flour when it rises sounds like you're six three one sixty It sounds like you need to build muscle, get to the gym.

=== Father's Absence Trauma (03:46) ===

[00:07:20]  You know what I mean?
[00:07:21]  It's like, yeah.
[00:07:27]  All right.
[00:07:27]  Let me, let me keep going.
[00:07:28]  A woman.
[00:07:29]  Oh, okay.
[00:07:30]  This woman found out her father, she was not actually separated from her father.
[00:07:35]  So let's, let's watch.
[00:07:36]  I'm about to be extremely vulnerable because this might help someone.
[00:07:41]  I've never been this vulnerable online and like ever.
[00:07:45]  Okay.
[00:07:45]  I believe you are as sick as your secrets and saying things out loud helps free you.
[00:07:52]  So my parents were married and then they had me.
[00:07:57]  I guess their marriage was difficult, so they later got divorced.
[00:08:01]  I don't know why.
[00:08:02]  I don't know the details.
[00:08:04]  All I know is that they separated.
[00:08:06]  So I used to be with my mother one week and then I'll go be with my father the next week.
[00:08:12]  Okay.
[00:08:12]  So back and forth.
[00:08:14]  One week, my dad never showed up to come and pick me up.
[00:08:19]  I sat by the door, literally waiting and waiting.
[00:08:22]  He never showed up.
[00:08:23]  The following week, I did the same thing.
[00:08:25]  I did this for months.
[00:08:27]  Okay.
[00:08:28]  He never came.
[00:08:29]  So I felt so rejected.
[00:08:32]  Okay.
[00:08:32]  I still quite literally turn into that little girl when I talk about it.
[00:08:38]  It has changed the trajectory of my life.
[00:08:42]  Okay.
[00:08:43]  So I didn't.
[00:08:45]  Now she has a woman crying on the internet.
[00:08:46]  So take it with a grain of salt.
[00:08:48]  But something else kind of genuine about this.
[00:08:51]  I didn't find out until literally recently as an adult that my father did not abandon me.
[00:08:58]  My mother cut him off because she was afraid that he was going to take me from her.
[00:09:04]  So I literally had to grow up without a father thinking that my father didn't love me.
[00:09:11]  So I would go on dating these men who were amazing to me.
[00:09:15]  I've had wonderful relationships.
[00:09:18]  And I would literally feel like the love was never enough because my father didn't love me.
[00:09:24]  How could another man love me?
[00:09:26]  So it just fucked me up.
[00:09:28]  Okay.
[00:09:29]  Like for good.
[00:09:30]  So this is why I chose the man that I chose to have a baby with.
[00:09:35]  Like everything truly makes sense.
[00:09:37]  And my grandmother tells me this and I was angry at my mom.
[00:09:41]  Angry.
[00:09:42]  Okay.
[00:09:42]  Because how dare you be not fucking selfish and not think of me.
[00:09:46]  You don't think I wanted to have my father.
[00:09:49]  I've forgiven her.
[00:09:50]  Now I've made peace with it.
[00:09:52]  But that's why I feel so strongly about cutting parents or cutting the yeah.
[00:09:59]  So again, the mother was so selfish that she didn't allow this woman to have a father.
[00:10:06]  And, you know, the trauma, like, it repeats itself.
[00:10:10]  I mean, women, once you become an adult, your trauma like is, it's, you got to figure it out.
[00:10:16]  Um, but it turns out her mom was the villain and she spent her life hating her father.
[00:10:21]  Other person off.
[00:10:22]  You don't get to fucking do that.
[00:10:24]  You don't.
[00:10:25]  Okay.
[00:10:25]  Because, like I said, it scarred me.
[00:10:27]  And now my father is dead and it haunts me for the rest of my life.
[00:10:32]  Oh, damn.
[00:10:33]  So she didn't even get to repair the relationship because he died.
[00:10:36]  Holy shit.
[00:10:38]  Because I literally grew up thinking he didn't want me.
[00:10:42]  That wasn't the case.
[00:10:43]  He was coming.
[00:10:45]  They were returning him.
[00:10:46]  And I was sitting there by that door waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting.
[00:10:51]  And he never showed up.
[00:10:55]  And I hope this brings me some type of closure because it literally eats at me all the time, still to this day.

=== Gynocentric Social Order (06:14) ===

[00:11:07]  That crazy.
[00:11:10]  Isn't that crazy?
[00:11:31]  Wait, I'm a little confused.
[00:11:35]  Black.
[00:11:38]  Black woman says black men are cheap.
[00:11:40]  She points to Ryan Davis saying his daughter only wants to be around him to get money as proof.
[00:11:43]  She says Shannon Sharp's willingness to only pay 30K towards his daughter's wedding is proof that they're cheap in relationships and to stop being loyal and go where they're respected.
[00:11:53]  That's not, is that the same woman?
[00:11:57]  I'm a little bit confused.
[00:12:04]  Oh, they look different.
[00:12:06]  Okay, I'm a little confused.
[00:12:10]  Clav can't even bench 135.
[00:12:12]  I have plenty of muscle.
[00:12:13]  I'm sure that did not hit a nerve because you did not send me like five messages saying that your physique is good.
[00:12:23]  Sure, sure.
[00:12:29]  Okay, oh, Sabrina Carpenter is at Lala.
[00:12:40]  And apparently she called men useless here.
[00:12:57]  But there's a cuter word for it.
[00:12:59]  I know.
[00:13:22]  Yeah, so now she's calling men useless as they pay for her entire life.
[00:13:27]  It's incredible, though, because like how bratty can you be?
[00:13:36]  I don't know why.
[00:13:37]  I just have never thought this could be fun.
[00:13:42]  I don't, who likes festivals.
[00:13:43]  Does anyone like festivals in the chat?
[00:13:45]  Can you explain it to me?
[00:13:46]  Because there's just no way I could find this to be comfortable where I'm like jam-packed with other people listening to music I can barely hear.
[00:13:57]  I don't can somebody explain how this is fun.
[00:14:04]  Can anybody explain it?
[00:14:10]  I don't get it.
[00:14:13]  Um, I liked Ryan Stone's point.
[00:14:16]  So it says, parents raised by emotionally mature parents.
[00:14:19]  What's one phrase that your parents use that you want other parents to know?
[00:14:25]  Mix Becca.
[00:14:26]  My husband has an incredible mother, and he talks about how she never said they were bad kids, only that they're behaving badly.
[00:14:32]  She'd say things like, you're such a kind boy.
[00:14:34]  Why would you say those mean things to your sister?
[00:14:36]  You're not a mean person.
[00:14:38]  What's going on?
[00:14:39]  He talks about how he'd be like, wait, I am a kind boy.
[00:14:42]  Why am I being mean?
[00:14:43]  Versus being told he was bad, mean, and thoughtless.
[00:14:46]  It's a small shift in wording, but she raised some very kind and confident kids.
[00:14:51]  Then it says, generally speaking, the industrial revolution has been horrible for children.
[00:14:56]  Women generally parent by identity.
[00:14:58]  Do this or you're a bad boy, which attacks a kid's survival instincts as being rejected by a parent and is an instinctive sentence.
[00:15:08]  Men generally parent by behavior.
[00:15:10]  Follow the rules and everything is good.
[00:15:12]  This gives children control over their safety and comfort.
[00:15:15]  And the other problem is that a woman's mood can change her parenting.
[00:15:18]  And since kids can know that bad boy is bad, they can't tell from day to day whether they have a good mom or a bad mom.
[00:15:25]  So they act in a codependent way to please the mom as a survival strategy.
[00:15:30]  And since men stopped working at home on the farm, they're at factories and cannot parent as much.
[00:15:35]  So women dominate child rearing and codependence dominates childhood formative experience.
[00:15:41]  Add that to the divorce epidemic and you add fuel to the fire.
[00:15:44]  This is why you have a world of codependent validation-seeking men.
[00:15:47]  Women have removed men from parenting and technology has removed men from parenting.
[00:15:52]  This is gynocentric social order.
[00:15:54]  Read the Longhouse, and its core issue is that everything else grows from them.
[00:15:58]  Summary of Robert Glover's No More Mr. Nice Guy.
[00:16:03]  Read Longhouse.
[00:16:04]  I think I've read this before, but let me pull it up.
[00:16:06]  longhouse ryan so maybe okay i'm gonna go back
[00:16:37]  Oh, this is a little throwback of the debate I did.
[00:16:39]  This kind of circulating Twitter.
[00:16:40]  And what women try to do is they go into a man's world and tell them how it should be different.
[00:16:44]  Yeah, because as you've done none of the world, it seems like you are being there.
[00:16:49]  Are we even though they've done none of the work of building the society?
[00:16:52]  Go ahead, sorry.
[00:16:53]  I would argue that our society would be better off if we did have a part in building it.
[00:16:56]  Our society has been stagnated and has been held back because women have been held back.
[00:17:00]  Imagine the prosperity and imagine the opportunity that the world would have if women weren't held back and women weren't stagnated.
[00:17:06]  And you continuously complain about these things that men have to endure and then simultaneously call it a men's world that women should be grateful to be a part of, but we should also be sensitive towards the things that they've built that are detrimental to themselves.

=== California Living Chaos (02:52) ===

[00:17:21]  So, what do you think men did historically?
[00:17:24]  Like, what do you think their jobs were?
[00:17:26]  Like, 1800s, what were your choices as a man to do as a job?
[00:17:30]  Because you know, you she's like, it does not compete.
[00:17:34]  We talk about how women were held back historically.
[00:17:36]  So, I'm asking, like, what was life like back then?
[00:17:38]  Well, women had to stay home and men had to do all of the jobs because they didn't allow women to help them.
[00:17:43]  What were their jobs that they did?
[00:17:45]  What were the most common methods of employment back then?
[00:17:48]  I mean, what do you mean?
[00:17:49]  I mean, it's going to be construction, it's going to be medicine, it's going to be food production, it's going to be factories, it's going like the same thing that runs all of society.
[00:17:58]  So, they had three choices: coal miner, farmer, factory worker.
[00:18:02]  Nothing else happened in society.
[00:18:04]  I'm not saying nothing else.
[00:18:05]  That was the majority of how people were employed.
[00:18:11]  I just can't believe she's a doctor.
[00:18:14]  Um, apparently, Joey O'Connell has a liberal daughter who is filled with rage and became physical with him when he criticized Kamala.
[00:18:24]  Let's see.
[00:18:24]  I'm going to tell you about a bit of I say this.
[00:18:30]  Will I stay married?
[00:18:31]  Blow it over here.
[00:18:33]  My um, sounds like you're gonna blow it over here.
[00:18:36]  The night of the election, this third one, yeah, third election.
[00:18:41]  Everyone knows what I'm talking about here.
[00:18:44]  Um, I was watching late at night the returns, and I'll be honest with you, I didn't think Trump was gonna win.
[00:18:51]  I live in California, I didn't think he was gonna win.
[00:18:53]  What I was here, I didn't either.
[00:18:55]  I think he was gonna win.
[00:18:56]  This is where I live, you know.
[00:18:59]  Um, I said something along the lines of like there was no planning, this is what they get.
[00:19:08]  There should have been a primary.
[00:19:10]  I said something along those lines, you know, like I was just spitballing ideas as to it was a shock, you know.
[00:19:17]  My wife and daughters, without saying anything, became physical with me.
[00:19:27]  They were they were filled with rage.
[00:19:33]  So, if I am being careful with you in how I say things, yes, I live in California.
[00:19:40]  I live with not one, not two, but three people who, if I made any kind of joke, they would Become very angry with me, you know.
[00:19:53]  I well, so I'm not.
[00:19:55]  I don't want to tell you how to live your life, but I couldn't live that way.
[00:19:58]  I would, whatever household or ecuation I'm in, I say what I truly think.
[00:20:03]  And if it makes you angry, I'm sorry.
[00:20:05]  We'll have to work that out.
[00:20:06]  Well, it makes sense, but I am not going to tuck my tail between my legs and just shut the fuck up.
[00:20:11]  This is what you were dealing with when you were a child.

=== Dating App Gender Rage (13:33) ===

[00:20:13]  Just sit there and don't say anything.
[00:20:16]  Sit on your hands.
[00:20:16]  Well, what happened to Rob Reiner?
[00:20:18]  More of that, Jerry.
[00:20:19]  More of that.
[00:20:21]  Yeah.
[00:20:21]  Yeah.
[00:20:22]  Where's Rob Reiner's ghost when you need him to be?
[00:20:25]  Yeah, he's cucked.
[00:20:26]  Done.
[00:20:30]  Oh, I said this girl on IG was talking about how she was broke.
[00:20:33]  I saw this reel, and this girl was talking about how she was broken up with because her man didn't have time for a relationship just to find out he got married six months later.
[00:20:43]  And I'm like, girl, he didn't have time for two relationships.
[00:20:48]  No guy's marrying you in six months that you're that hung up over.
[00:20:53]  No way.
[00:20:54]  No way.
[00:20:55]  Either this woman blew you out of the water, right?
[00:20:59]  Just in every way, like hotter, younger, whatever.
[00:21:02]  But I really doubt women blow anybody out of the water ever.
[00:21:05]  So yeah, it's just, you know, he had to pick a girlfriend and you were not picked.
[00:21:09]  Sorry.
[00:21:11]  Okay.
[00:21:12]  This black pilled me because I asked men if this body was natural and 86% said yes.
[00:21:17]  She's had lipo.
[00:21:20]  Look, you guys got to understand.
[00:21:22]  Do you see how thick her arms are?
[00:21:24]  And she doesn't have a gut.
[00:21:28]  It black pills me every day.
[00:21:36]  Anyways, 900 men voted.
[00:21:45]  Oh, I watched this guy.
[00:21:46]  Apparently, there's some goth guy.
[00:21:48]  It's getting, I don't know who this is, but what pisses me off most about the human race?
[00:21:53]  Probably what's presented in this book here, Sex and Culture.
[00:21:56]  So what pisses me off most about the human race is I think women throughout history, throughout every civilization, throughout every culture, are in a constant state of trying to slut out all the time.
[00:22:09]  It is men constantly who are the ones responsible for stopping women from doing this.
[00:22:16]  This then makes women see men as oppressors, which is, you know, that sucks for both sides.
[00:22:22]  As a woman, you feel like you're being oppressed.
[00:22:24]  And as a man, you're being viewed as an oppressor all the time.
[00:22:27]  Secondly, the second women are allowed to become complete whores, they do end up dominating society and they get everything.
[00:22:34]  They get all the money, all the power, all the influence, all the success.
[00:22:37]  They get everything they want.
[00:22:39]  The worst part about all of this, and the more you read this book, the more this happens.
[00:22:43]  Every single time this happens, it happens for a very short time before the entirety of the civilization crumbles to dust.
[00:22:51]  So women are in a constant state of trying to be whores.
[00:22:54]  Men are in a constant state of making sure women do not do that the moment women do do.
[00:23:00]  Yeah, you have to understand women whoring gives us power.
[00:23:03]  We got to stop acting like women are like brainwashed into whoring.
[00:23:06]  Whooring, there's no way you can move up faster in society than being naked and being an absolute slut whore.
[00:23:14]  Look, I mean, if I wanted to be a billionaire, you know, it's the fastest way I could do it.
[00:23:18]  It's not hard work.
[00:23:19]  It's not inventing something.
[00:23:20]  I'm retarded.
[00:23:20]  We're all retarded.
[00:23:22]  It's getting naked.
[00:23:24]  I mean, not that, you know, I mean, I'm cute, but I'm not, I'm not hot enough to be a billionaire.
[00:23:28]  Although nowadays, I'm like these OF girls that are getting, I'm too old, but like these OF girls making all this money off of being naked.
[00:23:36]  I'm like, this bitch gets a billion dollars.
[00:23:39]  You know what I mean?
[00:23:40]  This, this man or this woman, I'm like, but, you know, anyways.
[00:23:46]  There's a brief period of utter, total female dominance, which is then abruptly met with total annihilation.
[00:23:55]  The thing I hate about the human race is we've developed these immense tools, our minds, this incredible ability to create what we've created.
[00:24:04]  We are so deeply, profoundly more intelligent than any other creature on earth.
[00:24:11]  And yet, unfortunately, we are plagued by the same instinctual desires to mate and breed.
[00:24:20]  And we are the same slaves to that drive and desire.
[00:24:25]  Yep.
[00:24:25]  Oh, I was on GB News.
[00:24:28]  You can react to this.
[00:24:29]  I think I got mogged here.
[00:24:31]  I'm not going to lie.
[00:24:32]  I was kind of hungover doing this.
[00:24:35]  I agreed to do it, but I'm like, I'm a little bit hungover.
[00:24:38]  I'm a little bit, I'm a little bit hungover right now.
[00:24:41]  I don't know if I should be on the news, but fuck, you know, they asked me that morning and I'm like, oh, I'm like my headache.
[00:24:50]  I'm like, I don't know.
[00:24:53]  And before this interview, I'm like, can I do it?
[00:24:57]  Should I do it?
[00:24:58]  And then I'm like, F it.
[00:25:06]  Invite Jake.
[00:25:07]  Who's Jake?
[00:25:09]  Black-pilled woman and no, you're not old.
[00:25:11]  You're at your prime.
[00:25:12]  Oh, I love, I love you guys.
[00:25:14]  I'll eat that right up today.
[00:25:15]  Jake is an awesome guy.
[00:25:17]  Let his appearance, not let his appearance deceive you.
[00:25:20]  He's a sweetheart.
[00:25:22]  I mean, honestly, the reason I don't love collabs is because I really just like to go live when I feel like it.
[00:25:36]  And that requires me to go live at the same time.
[00:25:41]  I just feel like, you know, I like to, I know, I know.
[00:25:48]  Although I'm going to take a sponsorship soon that's going to require interviews.
[00:25:53]  So I guess, I guess, put them in the comments because I'm going to do more soon.
[00:25:57]  Anyway, so I'm kind of hungover.
[00:25:59]  And I was thinking about it.
[00:26:00]  I'm like, damn, I got absolutely, what do they call it? Mogged.
[00:26:02]  I'm like, this girl mogged me.
[00:26:04]  She looks so cute.
[00:26:06]  Look at her.
[00:26:07]  Anyways.
[00:26:08]  Paul, I'll start with you.
[00:26:09]  Are men immature men, should we say, to blame for Britain's declining birth rate?
[00:26:16]  Well, what do they mean by immature men?
[00:26:18]  Like, if maturity is the problem, why don't women just date older men?
[00:26:21]  That's always an option.
[00:26:24]  It's a good point.
[00:26:25]  It's a good point.
[00:26:26]  I've gone on social media.
[00:26:27]  Sorry, go ahead.
[00:26:29]  It was the echo, wasn't it?
[00:26:32]  No, I was just saying it's a great point.
[00:26:33]  Carol, Caroline.
[00:26:34]  And I looked at the list of things that women said that the reason that men gave them the ick smiling too much, being mothers, boys, tying their shoes, playing pool, doing yoga, opening the car door.
[00:26:47]  You know, when women have lists that are, you know, hundreds of pages long at this point of all the things that men are doing wrong, what gender are the immature ones?
[00:26:56]  You know, to me, women make excuses for the fact that women do not want to be mothers and they want to blame men when really the real issue is women don't want to reproduce with average men and cannot get commitment from the men that they want.
[00:27:09]  So interesting stuff there, Paul.
[00:27:11]  And I'll pass that over to you.
[00:27:12]  Paul's made an interesting observation there.
[00:27:15]  Are both sides to blame?
[00:27:16]  Is it just, is it just, is it immature men or is it perhaps picky women or there's this thing called the ick?
[00:27:22]  I've seen that trend on social media before.
[00:27:25]  What do you think, Annette?
[00:27:27]  Yes, I think that nobody wants actually a man baby.
[00:27:33]  And if we look at the stats, we know that men are very much so sitting at home with their trousers around their ankles and a box of Kleenex and an OnlyFans subscription.
[00:27:44]  And it's not funny.
[00:27:45]  It's not sexy.
[00:27:47]  They're gaming also way too much.
[00:27:49]  They're chronically online way too much.
[00:27:53]  And women don't find it attractive.
[00:27:54]  And yes, you could say go for an older man, but not all women want to procreate with an older man.
[00:27:59]  That's the issue.
[00:28:01]  And actually, if we look back at the 1970s, about 62%.
[00:28:06]  Like, I just feel as though I'm forced.
[00:28:09]  Like, I should never have heard a woman's opinion that's this stupid and bitchy.
[00:28:15]  Like, why am I in a world where I have to listen to your opinion?
[00:28:24]  Am I crazy for thinking this?
[00:28:26]  I'm like, what?
[00:28:28]  Percent of 25-year-olds were married, and today that's only 2%.
[00:28:33]  So I do blame the men, and they need to sort it out.
[00:28:36]  Paul, over to you.
[00:28:38]  If you're going to talk about men's video game addiction, why don't you talk about women's social media addiction?
[00:28:44]  Most women spend like eight hours a day on their phones, and it's far more detrimental to women than it is to men.
[00:28:50]  I mean, we could see women on TikTok complaining about the smallest, littlest things when it comes to men.
[00:28:56]  You have dating apps now where you can filter men by height, by race, by even income on some apps.
[00:29:02]  It's like, what more do you want, ladies?
[00:29:05]  What more could you find?
[00:29:06]  You can get thousands of matches on these apps and you can't find one you like enough, really.
[00:29:11]  Well, that's the whole thing.
[00:29:12]  So, dating apps in general, they have found that they are less people are using them because both sides are actually finding them a nightmare.
[00:29:21]  It's this whole casino effect.
[00:29:23]  It's the same with TikTok and Instagram, with people doom scrolling.
[00:29:26]  It's not good for anybody.
[00:29:28]  But your average person isn't going to not find, you know, they don't want to go on dating apps.
[00:29:34]  And actually, are men taking responsibility for that?
[00:29:38]  Do men have good conversation skills?
[00:29:41]  Do they want to be motivated to be in a relationship?
[00:29:44]  And it seems like a lot.
[00:29:45]  Don't you think that's just complaining about anything, though?
[00:29:48]  I mean, come on, if you gave Ann an app, let me ask you a question.
[00:29:52]  He would find one he likes, right?
[00:29:54]  Okay, let me ask you a question.
[00:29:55]  It just shows that women will complain about anything.
[00:29:58]  Yeah, sure.
[00:29:58]  Okay, let me ask you a question.
[00:30:00]  If you had a husband and he had an OnlyFans subscription and was spending the household money on it, would you be okay with that?
[00:30:08]  I wouldn't blame him if I was obese.
[00:30:10]  I mean, if my mother wanted to stop the OnlyFans, let Pearl finish.
[00:30:16]  Let Paul finish.
[00:30:16]  Go on.
[00:30:17]  Yeah, again, if women really cared about what their husbands wanted, they wouldn't be fat.
[00:30:22]  So as far as I'm concerned, if you're a woman and you're overweight and your husband's, you know, subscribed to OnlyFans, maybe get on the treadmill.
[00:30:30]  Yeah, but what if he likes junk in the trunk?
[00:30:32]  What if that's his thing?
[00:30:33]  Some men like that.
[00:30:34]  What's wrong with that?
[00:30:37]  Well, again, if they liked junk in the trunk, then the OnlyFans models would be fat, but they're not.
[00:30:42]  So I like how.
[00:30:46]  I'm just going to interject just briefly.
[00:30:49]  Sorry, sorry.
[00:30:50]  I just want to interject briefly.
[00:30:53]  I want to put this to you.
[00:30:54]  Is it the case that men?
[00:30:56]  I do not.
[00:30:57]  I look so bad at this.
[00:30:59]  It's all over the place.
[00:31:00]  I was so hungover.
[00:31:02]  And are too immature, or is it actually a product of the society that we've been building?
[00:31:06]  Because, you know, I would say some of your criticisms about OnlyFans are things like that.
[00:31:10]  Well, they are also perpetuated by people like, you know, OnlyFans models.
[00:31:15]  There's some quite famous ones out there that put out some quite racy content.
[00:31:19]  So we've also been talking about the manosphere lately, but there's also another side to that where women are perhaps just as picky.
[00:31:26]  I think Pearl had a really good point about that, you know, women by far on the data showing on these dating apps having lots of connections with men, but men not getting the same in return.
[00:31:35]  So is it fair to put the blame all on men?
[00:31:39]  Well, I think we have to look at when you talk about the word picky when women do actually have children.
[00:31:45]  We know there's a cost of living crisis and that, you know, two household incomes are going on very much so in many families.
[00:31:52]  But women do 65% more household labor than men, as well as working full-time.
[00:31:59]  And that they find difficult.
[00:32:01]  They also lose £65,000 in the first five years of having a child.
[00:32:06]  So, yes, there's a bit of cost of living crisis going on, but they need a secure partnership.
[00:32:11]  And at the end of the day, marriage is a business.
[00:32:14]  All right.
[00:32:14]  Listen, we've run out of time.
[00:32:18]  That data is collected by ungrateful women, and they don't include the things that men do, like assembling things from Amazon and those other household chores.
[00:32:26]  They just come up with a lot of people.
[00:32:26]  There's more to life than I keep.
[00:32:28]  I'm going to leave it there.
[00:32:29]  I'm sorry.
[00:32:29]  We've run out of time.
[00:32:32]  Yeah.
[00:32:37]  Yep.
[00:32:37]  That's me debating hungover.
[00:32:39]  You know what I mean?
[00:32:41]  It's like, my bad.
[00:32:43]  My bad.
[00:32:43]  Oh, this was an old debate.
[00:32:45]  I can't chase women down not because I'm better than them or have an ego.
[00:32:50]  It's for my own mental health.
[00:32:51]  We're in a new age, right?
[00:32:53]  Where women have hyperabundance, meaning that they don't see guys as like, we're like fourth.
[00:32:58]  I think for Zoomer women, we're like seventh most important.
[00:33:02]  And for women past the wall, we're like fourth most important priority, right?
[00:33:05]  We're not as important as we think we are to women, right?
[00:33:09]  If women do not show me that they don't care about being in relationships, right?
[00:33:14]  And why would I chase them down?
[00:33:16]  I've had women that, you know, offer to take care of my puppy, right?
[00:33:22]  Almost lose him, almost get him killed, and then hand him over to me and say, hey, sorry about your dog, and then laugh and say, hey, I can't see you anymore.
[00:33:31]  I'm seeing another guy.
[00:33:32]  And then, like, and then a week before that, we were holding hands at a coffee shop.
[00:33:36]  A lot of men are trying their best and have tried their whole lives to be in the top so they can get a wife and kids.

=== Zamora Sexual Misconduct (04:19) ===

[00:33:46]  And guess what?
[00:33:48]  Women still are not asking for relationships.
[00:33:51]  I can promise you.
[00:33:52]  You can't see this, and I don't blame you because you don't date women, right?
[00:33:56]  But I can promise you, most men are feeling this kind of phenomenon where it isn't until they absolutely have to, women will not settle.
[00:34:08]  We created this.
[00:34:09]  We are the ones that throw money at women.
[00:34:11]  We create gold diggers.
[00:34:12]  We create whatever, right?
[00:34:14]  Because we create the market.
[00:34:17]  That was a good debate.
[00:34:18]  She deleted her Twitter after that.
[00:34:25]  I said, if people stop having sex once they get married, why do people get married at all?
[00:34:31]  It's, I just never like, I was thinking about it.
[00:34:33]  If I was a guy, does it make you kind of dumb if you get married?
[00:34:38]  Because you're only giving up.
[00:34:40]  You're like, I want to give up leverage.
[00:34:43]  I don't know.
[00:34:44]  The COVID screen time normalized drugs and microplastics severely damaged our brains and trying to lower human collective consciousness.
[00:34:54]  Stop it.
[00:34:54]  You look prettier than that thing with horrendous makeup.
[00:34:56]  You have a natural charm.
[00:34:57]  The voice of the other woman lowers my testosterone.
[00:35:00]  Yeah, she's crazy.
[00:35:03]  Okay, let's see what else.
[00:35:06]  A 28-year-old married teacher had sex with a sixth grade student.
[00:35:10]  Look at this.
[00:35:11]  Now, from the 12 News I team, hours of reported police interviews released to 12 News detailing evidence in the case of Brittany Zamora.
[00:35:20]  She's the former sixth grade teacher accused of sexually abusing one of her students.
[00:35:25]  And tonight, you'll hear from the parents of that 13-year-old student.
[00:35:28]  His mother and father received a call from the teacher.
[00:35:30]  You can imagine how alarmed they were after they discovered sexually explicit text messages on their son's phone.
[00:35:37]  Team 12's Antonio Mejia takes us inside that explosive phone call.
[00:35:42]  Gotta even Mark, we do want to warn you, what you're about to hear may be considered disturbing.
[00:35:47]  We've also altered the voices of the team's parents to protect their identities.
[00:35:53]  I don't care what you want to.
[00:35:55]  What type of perverted person are you?
[00:35:57]  I want to know right now.
[00:35:59]  A father demanding a response from his son's sixth grade teacher, 28-year-old Britain Zamora.
[00:36:05]  You're a child molester.
[00:36:06]  Do you understand me?
[00:36:08]  No.
[00:36:08]  Why do you say that?
[00:36:09]  Oh, gee, I'm a lot smarter than you.
[00:36:12]  Can we meet, you know, to talk about this?
[00:36:15]  We can settle up, you know, outside.
[00:36:17]  Oh, yeah.
[00:36:18]  Oh, yeah.
[00:36:19]  That's what we can do.
[00:36:19]  So I can give you a chance to do it to some other kid.
[00:36:21]  Yeah, that's exactly.
[00:36:22]  That's exactly what we're going to do.
[00:36:24]  That's exactly.
[00:36:25]  And make sure you tell your husband what's going on.
[00:36:27]  He's right here.
[00:36:28]  Can he talk to you?
[00:36:29]  Oh, yeah.
[00:36:30]  Put your husband on the phone.
[00:36:31]  She's done so much and she made a huge mistake.
[00:36:35]  The biggest mistake of anybody could ever make in a whole entire world.
[00:36:40]  Oh, my God.
[00:36:42]  God preaches forgiveness.
[00:36:44]  A sixth grader?
[00:36:46]  God preaches forgiveness, man.
[00:36:48]  Your wife decided to be a molster and prey on a child.
[00:36:52]  She scarred my son mentally.
[00:36:54]  Do you understand what a 13-year-old boy did?
[00:36:56]  Have sex with a teacher?
[00:36:58]  You get that at all.
[00:36:59]  Do me a favor.
[00:37:00]  Do not call this number back again.
[00:37:02]  The next time you'll hear from me will be in court.
[00:37:04]  But hours later, the teen's parents call Zamora back with detectives in the room.
[00:37:09]  I just don't know why you did this.
[00:37:12]  Honestly, like, I just got really close after I think everything went down.
[00:37:17]  And we were like, oh, like, how could that happen?
[00:37:21]  Ugh.
[00:37:24]  Now, Zamora is facing charges for sexual misconduct with a minor.
[00:37:27]  She is expected back in court tomorrow morning.
[00:37:30]  And the boys family has filed a lawsuit against the Liberty Elementary School District and Zamora's husband, claiming they knew about the sexual abuse and didn't stop it.
[00:37:40]  We're live in the Alert Center.
[00:37:42]  Antonia Mejia, 12 news.
[00:37:43]  All right, Antonia.
[00:37:44]  Thank you.
[00:37:46]  How disgusting is that?
[00:37:53]  I had this teacher once and I went.
[00:37:55]  What is wrong?
[00:37:56]  That's what I said.
[00:37:57]  Guys, like their reaction to this stuff depends on how hot the teacher is.
[00:38:03]  Oh, I was thinking about this.
[00:38:05]  Okay.

=== Cooking Cleanup Struggles (07:02) ===

[00:38:06]  I was thinking about how I went through all this trouble to learn to cook, right?
[00:38:13]  Because growing up, I was kind of a useless person because I did travel sports.
[00:38:18]  And my schedule in high school was I'd get out of school at like two, three, maybe three o'clock.
[00:38:24]  And then I would have a two-hour volleyball practice and a two-hour basketball practice.
[00:38:28]  So, and my mom, she worked and I grew up with like rotating nannies.
[00:38:33]  So there just wasn't a lot of like stability, you know what I mean?
[00:38:36]  Like structure, I'll say.
[00:38:39]  And anyways, I didn't learn like basic cooking and cleaning skills, partially because of the travel sports and partially because my mom, I mean, she was no, she wasn't really, she didn't like cook every day, you know.
[00:38:53]  So, anyways, as an adult, I had to learn all this stuff.
[00:38:57]  And I feel like it freaking took me forever.
[00:39:01]  It took me like so much work to learn.
[00:39:03]  Like, if you start from zero, it just takes like forever.
[00:39:07]  Now I'm to the point where I actually can cook and I'm still messy, but at least I know how to like clean properly, right?
[00:39:15]  Anyways, I realized though, once you get to your mid to late 20s, you're dating guys five, 10, maybe 15 years older.
[00:39:27]  Maybe that's just me, right?
[00:39:29]  And I would say, in my experience, most men, there's two types of men, right?
[00:39:33]  Over the age of like 30, 35.
[00:39:39]  Okay.
[00:39:41]  No, there's three types.
[00:39:42]  Type one.
[00:39:46]  No, I can cook now, but I couldn't cook like five years ago.
[00:39:49]  Okay.
[00:39:51]  Type one, he already learned to cook himself and he would rather do it himself.
[00:39:58]  Because by the time a guy's 30 or 35, he is going to just because being by because he's a man, he is going to have found a better way to cook than you.
[00:40:09]  And to him, it's like a hassle.
[00:40:11]  Like, I have to train you how to do it, even though you're just going to leave me for another man later.
[00:40:16]  Like, that's kind of how they think.
[00:40:18]  So they're like, why?
[00:40:18]  I'll just do it myself.
[00:40:20]  Or I have to watch.
[00:40:21]  Like, they appreciate the effort, right?
[00:40:23]  They do, men always appreciate effort, but they find it a little bit annoying because they could do it better.
[00:40:29]  And a lot of times they would prefer to do it themselves.
[00:40:33]  And many have to the point where they actually love doing it.
[00:40:37]  It's like a joy.
[00:40:39]  Okay.
[00:40:49]  The other type of men you find is, um, and I would say these are men over like a certain income, right?
[00:40:57]  This is women only like see men over a certain income, right?
[00:41:02]  The other type of men eats out all the time.
[00:41:04]  And he genuinely like, these are guys in some, a lot of times they're in finance or some sort of like, they love their restaurants.
[00:41:12]  Like they love where they eat out.
[00:41:14]  They want to eat.
[00:41:15]  Men are creatures of habit.
[00:41:17]  And so by the time a guy is 30 or 40, he has his habits and he likes to eat out.
[00:41:23]  And then there's like maybe 10% or 20% of men that like want you to cook for them, right?
[00:41:30]  They're like they do exist.
[00:41:33]  Yeah, but here's the thing.
[00:41:34]  You can cook with them.
[00:41:36]  But in general, you just slow them down.
[00:41:38]  Even if you're trying your hardest to be helpful, just like by being a woman, you're just slowing them down.
[00:41:50]  And I was thinking about it.
[00:41:51]  I'm like, really, the things that men want are beauty, youth, kids, and you just sitting there and listening and like doing whatever they want to do.
[00:42:03]  I don't think men, I think it does, it kind of makes sense that women are so useless because all the things that men want now are kind of like require no skill, right?
[00:42:23]  Co-cooking never works.
[00:42:25]  Yeah, you know what I mean?
[00:42:29]  Not to, yeah.
[00:42:30]  And so I was thinking about it.
[00:42:31]  I'm like, you know, I went through all this work to learn to cook just to find out it's not really needed for most men.
[00:42:43]  I was like, I was thinking about it.
[00:42:45]  I'm like, most of them, and I know you guys are going to roast me in the chat and say, Pearl, like, you're just a terrible cook.
[00:42:51]  And I'm like, maybe that was true a few years ago, but I'm really not now.
[00:42:54]  I'm like, I'm actually a pretty good cook now.
[00:42:58]  But like, I'm just saying in general, I would say the most, like the things men need the most would be meal prepping, like maybe lunches they'd like, but a lot of times they do that themselves too.
[00:43:09]  And doing the dishes.
[00:43:10]  I would say like doing the dishes, that is something they appreciate.
[00:43:18]  yeah so i mean this is just so it's like i i got this advice you know i put a lot of time and effort into learning this advice
[00:43:40]  Um, just to find out, to be honest, if you're a single woman, it actually is going to be more of an ROI on your time to go to events and stuff where you meet these guys.
[00:43:51]  Um, maybe even like dive bars, a lot of maybe not the girly events.
[00:43:55]  You want to go to like, but do you see what I'm saying?
[00:43:58]  I was thinking about it, and I'm like, wow, I put in all this time.
[00:44:03]  Yeah.
[00:44:03]  Laundry is the other one.
[00:44:04]  Dishes and laundry.
[00:44:18]  I know.
[00:44:18]  I know.
[00:44:19]  I cook and keep my home clean.
[00:44:21]  It's not that hard.
[00:44:22]  And my place gets cleaned in like two hours.
[00:44:24]  Another person in my life would just be to have a woman around.
[00:44:28]  I know.
[00:44:34]  Oh, I talked to a paramedic the other day, and he said he didn't see a difference in the weight of people having heart attacks.
[00:44:40]  And I was like, Wow, life isn't fair.
[00:44:45]  Um, I had a question: How would men treat women if men were half as diabolical at getting revenge?
[00:44:52]  Because you know, men are more capable at everything.
[00:44:56]  So, um, oh, actually, before I get into that talking point, cleanup sucks, but then you don't clean it exactly how they want, and they can clean better than you.
[00:45:04]  And then again, it's like too much work to train you to clean it as well as they clean it.

=== Kids Today vs Yesterday (02:41) ===

[00:45:09]  That they're just like, you know what?
[00:45:10]  Just I'll do it.
[00:45:15]  You know what I mean?
[00:45:16]  Like, it's um, all right, how would men treat women if men were half as diabolical at getting revenge?
[00:45:23]  Um, bro, I've thought about this, and men would be chaos machines if guys had even half the strategic plotting women do.
[00:45:49]  The world would be a war zone full of petty resent revenge.
[00:45:52]  I'd probably be hiding under a rock to survive.
[00:45:55]  That said, I think most men aren't built for that level of cunning.
[00:45:59]  Yeah, so okay.
[00:46:05]  This preschool teacher explains how kids today are different from 10 to 15 years ago.
[00:46:13]  So, for those of you that don't know me, I have owned and operated a daycare center and taught four-year-old preschool for 20 years.
[00:46:23]  Okay.
[00:46:24]  And I had a lady ask me today if I had seen a difference in kids today and the kids 10, 15 years ago.
[00:46:34]  Well, yes, ma'am, I have.
[00:46:37]  I'm going to tell you: 10, 15 years ago, we were sending kids to school reading.
[00:46:41]  Kindergarteners were going in reading.
[00:46:43]  They knew their sight words.
[00:46:45]  Okay.
[00:46:45]  They knew a quarter dime, a nickel, a penny, and then the difference in the amount of it.
[00:46:51]  Okay.
[00:46:53]  They could hold scissors.
[00:46:54]  They could hold pencils.
[00:46:56]  They could color inside the lines.
[00:46:59]  They knew how to write their names correctly with uppercase and all lowercase.
[00:47:04]  They could recognize their names.
[00:47:06]  They recognized letters, uppercase, lowercase, and numbers.
[00:47:11]  Today's kids can't hold scissors.
[00:47:16]  They can't cut and rip paper.
[00:47:19]  They have no clue.
[00:47:24]  You think this is because all the kids are IVF now, or because they're like half retarded?
[00:47:30]  Or is it because are like they're more dumb because the eggs are older or because the parents are less involved?
[00:47:37]  No consistency with any chore.
[00:47:43]  They can't focus.
[00:47:46]  But I know one thing they do know.
[00:47:48]  They know how to operate a phone.

=== Identity Theft Backlash (03:12) ===

[00:47:50]  Damn.
[00:47:51]  They know how to turn an iPad on.
[00:47:53]  They know how to put a password in.
[00:47:55]  And they can play games on the iPad.
[00:47:59]  But they don't recognize their own name.
[00:48:02]  Is anyone else seeing this?
[00:48:04]  Damn.
[00:48:16]  Oh.
[00:48:18]  So this guy's wife is coping again.
[00:48:24]  Akash's wife.
[00:48:25]  Obviously, Myron does what he does and then the incels do what they do.
[00:48:32]  My question, because I've never gotten to ask somebody who was really on the receiving end of the internet in that, to that scale.
[00:48:41]  Yeah.
[00:48:42]  Like you were.
[00:48:44]  How did you feel?
[00:48:45]  I remember because you asked me this question, like, what is it like to look at like think pieces and people analyzing your marriage and your personality?
[00:48:53]  It feels weird and it feels surreal because you're like, but you don't know me.
[00:48:58]  You don't know anything about me.
[00:49:00]  You've never talked to me.
[00:49:02]  Like you're taking.
[00:49:03]  I think that if I talked to you, I would actually believe it more.
[00:49:07]  Picking the intention of this video in the complete wrong way.
[00:49:12]  And I mean, this obviously goes without saying, but the misogyny was like really crazy because obviously we know it exists in our society, but to see it so rampant and like full force and just like unapologetically there, I was like, oh my God, like this is a real fucking thing.
[00:49:32]  And it's like, it was bizarre to me because I'm like, my husband can go on stage and literally has a joke in his special about like getting a hooker isn't like cheating.
[00:49:44]  It's just outsourcing, which I really don't care.
[00:49:47]  Like, I think it's a funny joke.
[00:49:48]  But it's like, if I say something that's equally, you know, because men and women are equal and it wasn't equally disrespectful at all.
[00:49:56]  No.
[00:49:57]  Raunchy, like, then I'm a whore or all these things.
[00:50:01]  When it's like, but the reality is what the reality is, it's like, I was a virgin when I met my husband.
[00:50:07]  We lost our virginity to each other.
[00:50:10]  And I never made that a part of my identity.
[00:50:12]  I only shared that because I share my life story because I'm an oversharer.
[00:50:17]  Y'all made it a part of my identity and then used it against me.
[00:50:21]  I don't give a fuck if I was a virgin or I wasn't or if my body count was 100, but it wasn't.
[00:50:26]  Those are just facts.
[00:50:27]  So if you want to take like tongue-in-cheek videos and make it into something it's not, like that's not really a reflection of me.
[00:50:35]  That's a reflection of them.
[00:50:36]  And I think moreover, what people don't realize, like I just have never seen a woman cope so hard.
[00:50:44]  I don't even want to say his fucking name, but this fucking loser whose name you said, like he was on the flagrant podcast like five fucking years ago.
[00:50:52]  And my husband just humbled the shit out of him and basically embarrassed him because he was like, I think what you do is corny and it's not really helping men.
[00:51:02]  So there's that.

=== Male Self-Doubt Fear (14:57) ===

[00:51:03]  And I think every year he would try to like bait them by being like, oh, you guys are pussies or you guys are this.
[00:51:09]  But then every year that clip would circulate.
[00:51:11]  And I think deep down it really embarrassed and humiliated and emasculated him.
[00:51:17]  So when all of this first started, I can't listen to anymore.
[00:51:21]  Oh my God.
[00:51:22]  It's just her voice.
[00:51:27]  All right.
[00:51:27]  That's enough.
[00:51:28]  I think that's my intro today is just going through Twitter.
[00:51:32]  If you're asking why there's a table that's a right side up in the background, mind your business.
[00:51:38]  Mind your business.
[00:51:39]  Stop asking questions.
[00:51:42]  There's a good reason.
[00:51:43]  Okay.
[00:51:43]  There's a total good reason.
[00:51:46]  Okay.
[00:51:51]  All right.
[00:51:52]  So today we are talking about women's self-help.
[00:51:59]  And I'm going to put the link in the chat for you guys to put in your comments, your questions, and concerns.
[00:52:08]  So I've noticed that women's self-improvement includes things start over.
[00:52:18]  I've noticed that men and women have different forms of self-improvement.
[00:52:23]  And there's a big difference between men's self-improvement and women's self-improvement.
[00:52:28]  You know, a man's self-improvement might be to get in shape, get to the gym, get gains, six-pack abs, make a bunch of money, right?
[00:52:39]  Go to work, work really hard, get a second job, you know, get make some money so you can pull bitches, get out of debt, you know, stop being a simping, overcoming your simpery, overcoming the simpiness.
[00:53:01]  Men improve not only for themselves, but for others.
[00:53:04]  They improve to be a better husband, to be a better father, and be more productive for society.
[00:53:10]  Their self-improvement has tangible outcomes and goals for their efforts.
[00:53:14]  And I think me personally, I am an expert on men's self-improvement because I've been in this self-improvement space for years.
[00:53:23]  Well, I don't tell personally tell men what to do.
[00:53:25]  I work with a lot of men that do, like Myron, Justin Waller.
[00:53:28]  You know, Justin Waller will tell you how to get your rotation in order, how to pull more bitches, how to stop being run by your women, right?
[00:53:37]  Myron, he'll tell you how to make more money, how to get in shape.
[00:53:40]  I mean, who's more in the gym than I mean?
[00:53:43]  Myron goes like three days a week, no stair, like six billion days a week, no steroids, right?
[00:53:49]  Sneak goes out there fighting.
[00:53:51]  All these, all these guys are just working fresh, you know, exists, right?
[00:54:00]  Sorry, I'm kidding.
[00:54:01]  I'm kidding.
[00:54:05]  But all these guys are really, are really, are really telling people to improve, you know.
[00:54:13]  But then there's women's self-help.
[00:54:20]  Then there's women's self-help.
[00:54:22]  And women's self-help is to be more confident, Queen.
[00:54:31]  And what is really detrimental about women's self-help is women want to have confidence with no accomplishments.
[00:54:37]  Now, I was talking to this with somebody today.
[00:54:40]  I play volleyball, right?
[00:54:41]  And there's a woman who just is not the best at volleyball.
[00:54:45]  She's not the worst, but she's just not that good.
[00:54:47]  Like on one to 10, I give her like a 3.54.
[00:54:51]  Now, me in this league, I'm going to give myself a 10 because just, you know, out of the 10, 15 people that go, you know, there's probably one or two guys at about the same level, but I'm in the top, you know, quadrant.
[00:55:05]  It's not, this is just a rec league.
[00:55:06]  It doesn't take much.
[00:55:08]  I'm not a 10 in the context of all of volleyball, but just I've been playing so long.
[00:55:11]  Do you know what I mean?
[00:55:12]  I just, I'm not even going to be humble about this.
[00:55:15]  So like what?
[00:55:19]  I'm going to be humble for the point of what I'm the best in the rec league.
[00:55:22]  Okay.
[00:55:23]  I'm the best just in the rec league.
[00:55:25]  And anyways, today we're arguing about a call, right?
[00:55:36]  And this woman and this, this guy, white guy, of course, this white guy, he's arguing with her.
[00:55:44]  She is calling.
[00:55:45]  I hit the ball and she's call.
[00:55:47]  I didn't really see it, right?
[00:55:48]  I couldn't tell because I hit it.
[00:55:50]  It was a sharp cross.
[00:55:51]  And so I would have accepted anything.
[00:55:53]  But everyone's saying the ball's in.
[00:55:54]  But this woman was very confident the ball was out.
[00:55:58]  And she's the white guy crossing on my side of the net.
[00:56:01]  It's like, no, that was it.
[00:56:02]  And both of me, I know this white guy.
[00:56:04]  He doesn't really have a big ego.
[00:56:05]  So like we're both kind of on the same level of like play.
[00:56:10]  And neither of us have huge egos, right?
[00:56:18]  And so I know this white guy, like, I know the woman has a big ego.
[00:56:23]  And the problem is she sucks, but there's no humility, right?
[00:56:28]  Confidence, you know, we're not against confidence, but confidence, we know has to come with competence, right?
[00:56:35]  So like I'm confident in this league because I'm one of the most confident ones.
[00:56:39]  But if you put me in a different league, my confidence would go down because in that room, I'm less competent.
[00:56:46]  But in this league, I'm, I'm pretty like, hey, this is where you're supposed to be.
[00:56:51]  This is with the calls.
[00:56:53]  But again, if I get into a room with more competent people, I try to know my place, right?
[00:56:57]  I'm like, ooh, okay.
[00:57:00]  And this woman, her confidence is like here to the point she's arguing.
[00:57:07]  Me, the white guy, there's like one other white guy.
[00:57:08]  She argues with them all the time.
[00:57:10]  And I'm thinking, you are the one of the worst ones here.
[00:57:16]  I mean, today there was a call and I just said, do you guys not think I know what I'm like to the woman?
[00:57:21]  I'm like, do you not think I know what I'm, this was a different day, a different woman?
[00:57:25]  You know, she made a call and I was kind of getting annoyed because she was arguing with me about the call.
[00:57:33]  And I'm like, bitch, I played overseas.
[00:57:34]  Do you not think I know what I'm talking about?
[00:57:37]  You're like B team Reckley.
[00:57:41]  There's like too much of a difference for you to be arguing with me.
[00:57:45]  And I feel the same way when I play basketball, right?
[00:57:48]  I mean, there's an ex-NBA player that goes to my gym.
[00:57:51]  And honestly, if he made a call, I'd just give it to him because that's deference, right?
[00:57:54]  I'm like, well, you've been playing longer than I have, you know.
[00:57:59]  And, but this is the problem.
[00:58:00]  I realize that women's self-help, women's self-help and women in general build these monsters because, you know, they give us confidence with no accomplishments.
[00:58:11]  You know, it's why I've heard of anyone heard of imposter syndrome?
[00:58:15]  Imposter syndrome.
[00:58:17]  I think imposter syndrome is simply a female.
[00:58:22]  I want to share my screen.
[00:58:23]  It's a female thing.
[00:58:26]  It's an internal experience of self-doubt and fear of being exposed as a fraud despite evidence of success.
[00:58:32]  I think this is mostly women because we do get evidence of success in society, right?
[00:58:37]  We'll get a promotion, make more money than we deserve.
[00:58:45]  But we still have self-doubt and inability to recognize our own competence because we shouldn't be there, right?
[00:58:54]  Attributing success to external factors.
[00:58:56]  You know, I've noticed that the most successful men, they don't really care about like all they want to do is get the job done.
[00:59:06]  They don't really care about credit or if they deserve it.
[00:59:10]  They look at that as a waste of time.
[00:59:12]  Fear of being found out, constant fear that peers or superiors will expose you as a fraud.
[00:59:17]  Well, again, that's a women thing.
[00:59:19]  That's women.
[00:59:22]  You know, overworking, a superhero mentality where individuals work excessively hard to prevent being exposed.
[00:59:31]  Perfectionism, setting unattainable goals and feeling disappointed when falling short.
[00:59:36]  So, um, women set unattainable goals that they won't work for and then say they're perfectionists, but I don't think so, right?
[00:59:45]  Overworking, you know, women will think they're overworking, but people that actually overwork they always say they can do more.
[00:59:52]  You know what I mean?
[01:00:00]  How to overcome it.
[01:00:01]  Talk about it.
[01:00:02]  See, that's what women do.
[01:00:03]  They don't solve the problem, they talk about it.
[01:00:05]  Separate feelings from facts.
[01:00:07]  So, this is where the therapist will say, Look at the title you have and not recognize the retarded mistakes the woman makes every single day, right?
[01:00:17]  Um, yeah, again, list the title accomplishments, um, but everyone knows you're not doing your job.
[01:00:22]  Challenge perfectionism, setting realistic rather than perfect goals and accepting mistakes as part of learning, practicing self-compassion, challenging self-sabotaging thoughts, and do self-talk.
[01:00:34]  Like men, they say increase skill.
[01:00:37]  Women say increase self-talk.
[01:00:46]  The next tenet of women's self-help is loving yourself, even though you're fat, broken, and dead.
[01:00:54]  Yeah, so women are overweight in this country, we're in a bunch of debt, and we're broke, not very good parents either.
[01:01:01]  And women's self-help say love yourself anyway.
[01:01:05]  Men want to plan, so when they want to solve something, they say, What's step one?
[01:01:09]  And as a woman, guys, we can learn a lot from men.
[01:01:13]  I mean, that's always what I ask anybody.
[01:01:15]  Um, I say, What's step one?
[01:01:17]  Step two.
[01:01:17]  I want to step, I want a autistic level step by step.
[01:01:22]  So, prove to me that you know what you're talking about.
[01:01:27]  That's the thing.
[01:01:28]  We fix things because we like to see them working, not for validation.
[01:01:31]  Oh my gosh, that is a great point.
[01:01:33]  I love you guys as super chats.
[01:01:34]  Sometimes you guys have better points than probably all the time, you have better points than me.
[01:01:39]  I mean, you guys are mad on women, you know.
[01:01:41]  I don't, we work for ourselves to feel better, not to impress some random girl on the street.
[01:01:47]  Yeah, women want higher self-esteem while being worse people.
[01:01:57]  Oh, in debt.
[01:01:58]  Sorry if I'm so women will simultaneously be more selfish, less giving, and a worse overall person, and demand to feel better about themselves.
[01:02:13]  Now, again, when you're a selfless person, confidence ensues, right?
[01:02:18]  When you're useful, competent, and selfless.
[01:02:22]  But women want the good feeling of being a good person while doing no work for the good person.
[01:02:28]  Isn't it crazy?
[01:02:29]  Women, part of women's self-help is to live a soft life, demand more, right?
[01:02:38]  Um, women want to stop people pleasing, even though they're worshipped 24/7.
[01:02:46]  All of society and the world caters to women, and women's self-help is to stop people pleasing.
[01:02:55]  Isn't that incredible?
[01:02:57]  Women can't cook, can't clean, can't lose weight, and yet they demand and they say, I let me please people.
[01:03:08]  Let me be more useless.
[01:03:12]  It's incredible.
[01:03:13]  My gender, ladies.
[01:03:15]  I mean, you guys keep me employed.
[01:03:18]  You are incredible.
[01:03:21]  You're incredible, right?
[01:03:23]  It's like incredible how delusional you can be just when you think the delusion is here.
[01:03:34]  We find a way to break a bit.
[01:03:35]  Men break barriers by inventing things and doing all of the work.
[01:03:39]  Women break barriers by breaking the barrier of how delusional we can be, right?
[01:03:50]  Mindfulness.
[01:03:51]  Now, I get to Google what that meant because when women say mindfulness, I'm like, what the what does that even mean?
[01:04:02]  The practice of intentionally focusing on the present moment with openness and not in judgment, helping to reduce stress and increase emotional regulation.
[01:04:15]  So, our next self-improvement is to do more nothing than we already do, ladies.
[01:04:22]  You're going to keep me employed forever.
[01:04:24]  I love you guys.
[01:04:27]  Another self-help that I found is that women ask for more money while doing less work.
[01:04:35]  So, again, the self-help isn't, you know, how to be more useful to your boss.
[01:04:41]  It's how to ask for a raise, how to ask for even more as if we don't have enough.
[01:04:47]  Thank you for the $20 super chat.
[01:04:50]  I love you.
[01:04:51]  Thank you.
[01:04:55]  Give me more money.
[01:04:56]  See, I'm doing self-help.
[01:05:00]  Give me more money, bitches.
[01:05:01]  Sorry, just kidding.
[01:05:03]  I'm just kidding.
[01:05:04]  I'm just kidding.
[01:05:04]  I'm just kidding, you know.
[01:05:09]  The next self-help is asking for a softer life, having a softer life, even though we do the softer jobs.
[01:05:21]  We do less work.
[01:05:25]  We have Uber Eats.
[01:05:26]  We don't cook.
[01:05:27]  We don't clean.
[01:05:29]  And society said, Do you know what you need, ladies?
[01:05:32]  A softer life.
[01:05:33]  Oh, $50.
[01:05:36]  See that?
[01:05:38]  Do you know what?
[01:05:39]  Praiser.
[01:05:42]  You know, it's just, wait, how, actually, let me Google women's self-help.
[01:05:48]  How to ask for a raise.
[01:05:51]  All right, let's see.
[01:05:55]  Prepare your case.
[01:05:56]  List achievements and focus on the wins.
[01:05:59]  All right.
[01:06:00]  Praiser.

=== Women's Soft Life Myth (14:56) ===

[01:06:01]  So I have accomplished nothing, but I talk for a living.
[01:06:05]  Okay.
[01:06:06]  I talk for a living.
[01:06:08]  My views are down actually this year.
[01:06:11]  I would say my peak was in 2023 and I've never quite recovered.
[01:06:18]  But call her daddy, it says, do your research.
[01:06:21]  And call her daddy makes $50 million.
[01:06:25]  And even though I don't have the views, the money, or create the revenue, right?
[01:06:35]  I think I deserve more money.
[01:06:38]  It says, start with positivity.
[01:06:41]  So I'm going to, you know, I love, I'm following the script here.
[01:06:49]  I love this job.
[01:06:54]  The achievements.
[01:06:55]  Let's skip over that.
[01:07:01]  I am requesting $500.
[01:07:06]  No, Sorry.
[01:07:09]  As a woman, it says, I might not ask for enough.
[01:07:12]  I am requesting $1,000 for this show.
[01:07:21]  Now I'm supposed to stop talking.
[01:07:28]  I can't do that.
[01:07:32]  I can't do that.
[01:07:36]  I guess I'll never get the raise.
[01:07:38]  Oh, well.
[01:07:39]  It says, don't assume your work speaks for itself.
[01:07:42]  So I got to say, hey, I really talk.
[01:07:45]  I talk.
[01:07:47]  I'm a talker.
[01:07:49]  Avoid emotional arguments.
[01:07:51]  Focus on market value and business.
[01:07:52]  You know, I had a bitch do this to me once.
[01:07:54]  She asked for double the salary, but she was so dumb.
[01:07:58]  100.
[01:08:00]  Thank you, Praiser.
[01:08:01]  You got your dropping this today.
[01:08:03]  And you know what?
[01:08:04]  She did.
[01:08:04]  She asked for double the salary.
[01:08:06]  And it turns out this bitch wasn't working.
[01:08:08]  And when I fired her, I didn't notice a difference.
[01:08:10]  Turns out, my bad.
[01:08:20]  I was off by a zero.
[01:08:22]  I mean, I appreciate it.
[01:08:23]  My bad.
[01:08:24]  So, and by the way, basically, she asked for double her salary, causing me to look into what she was doing because I'm like, okay, why don't I see if you're really doing that much work?
[01:08:34]  Turns out she was doing nothing and got her ass fired.
[01:08:37]  So sometimes, ladies, you got to take it.
[01:08:39]  You got to take it while you're ahead because she probably would have milked me for another six months.
[01:08:44]  You know what I mean?
[01:08:46]  She probably, like, before I would have noticed.
[01:08:48]  So.
[01:08:51]  All right.
[01:08:51]  The next part of women's self-help is morning routines doing useless shit.
[01:08:57]  More makeup, more skincare, more hair.
[01:09:03]  Not again, producing value.
[01:09:08]  But again, doing useless things.
[01:09:11]  It's not being more useful to the people around them, but more self-centeredness.
[01:09:18]  It's incredible.
[01:09:19]  Incredible.
[01:09:25]  Therapy, where they just have a woman tell them to stop fucking bad boys, which is actually next.
[01:09:31]  They would say toxic relationship, which relationships, which is again, fucking bad boys.
[01:09:37]  We'll never stop doing that.
[01:09:39]  So if we get the chance, unless we get fat, we'll do it forever.
[01:09:43]  So things not listed for self-help.
[01:09:57]  Get out of debt.
[01:10:02]  Lose weight.
[01:10:05]  Be less annoying.
[01:10:09]  Be more useful.
[01:10:12]  That would probably solve a lot of women's self-esteem problems.
[01:10:17]  Again, thank you, Praiser.
[01:10:18]  That was very nice of you.
[01:10:19]  Thank you for the super chat.
[01:10:23]  But unfortunately, I want to do it's not enough because I'm a woman.
[01:10:28]  Yeah, it's not enough.
[01:10:29]  I want to do less work, more money.
[01:10:34]  I'm just kidding.
[01:10:38]  They said, ladies, I'm a bad boy.
[01:10:44]  Anyways, so if you guys have any observations you have about women's self-help, please call in.
[01:10:51]  I'm going to give Doug MPA the floor and I'm also going to put the link in the chat.
[01:11:07]  me go and the question is i would love for you guys not a question i would love for you guys to list other things you have seen when it comes to women's self-help and how it differs from men
[01:11:37]  Again, I don't really have a question.
[01:11:39]  I just kind of want to have a general conversation about it.
[01:11:42]  And you guys are welcome to call in.
[01:11:44]  Anybody can call in, but I must, but again, if you guys bore me too much, I will drop you because there needs to be a, and I wish I could say what exactly I'm looking for, but it's kind of, you got to, you got to have an interesting point.
[01:12:02]  Okay.
[01:12:03]  And again, if I drop you one day because it's uninteresting, don't take it personal.
[01:12:08]  Just try to be more interesting next time.
[01:12:10]  You know, it is what it is.
[01:12:13]  Everyone's got to start somewhere.
[01:12:15]  You know, my first call to Kevin Samuel show, I was a nervous wreck.
[01:12:21]  You know, I mean, I was kind of nervous.
[01:12:23]  So it just, it is what it is.
[01:12:26]  If you drone on too long, you know, I'll drop you too.
[01:12:29]  But don't worry because I'll kick you.
[01:12:31]  So don't feel like if I'm letting you talk, that means you're doing okay.
[01:12:36]  You're, yeah.
[01:12:37]  And if I kick you, then you got your answer.
[01:12:39]  Try again next time.
[01:12:41]  The link is in the chat.
[01:12:42]  Doug MPA, if you wouldn't mind pinning it, if I didn't already, I think I know I think I pinned it.
[01:12:47]  And all you got to do is click the link and it allows you to come right in.
[01:12:51]  It's StreamYard.
[01:12:52]  So you can do it on a phone, a computer, camera offer on.
[01:12:56]  Doesn't really matter today, but maybe in the future we'll only do camera on.
[01:13:00]  But if you have any thoughts on women's self-help in general and men's self-help, feel free to call in.
[01:13:08]  You got a story for me?
[01:13:09]  Make sure it's on the topic because if you start droning on about your ex-wife, unless it's specifically self-help, I'm going to kick you.
[01:13:17]  And it's not personal.
[01:13:19]  Doesn't mean I hate you.
[01:13:20]  Doesn't mean I'm mad at you.
[01:13:22]  It just means you're the quality of the show was here and you brought it here.
[01:13:26]  And look, you guys are normal people.
[01:13:28]  So I don't, I don't, I understand that sometimes it just is what it is.
[01:13:33]  Like, I, you know, I'm not here to insult you.
[01:13:36]  It's just, you know, we're trying to get, you know.
[01:13:40]  Hey, how's it going, my friend?
[01:13:42]  Hey, Doug MPA.
[01:13:44]  All right.
[01:13:44]  So what are your thoughts on women's self-help?
[01:13:46]  And what differences have you noticed from men's self-help?
[01:13:50]  Difference between men self-help and women's self-help is tangibles and intangibles.
[01:13:57]  So men will set a goal and a timeline and put themselves in a position to be disappointed if they don't achieve it.
[01:14:05]  Whereas women, they keep their self-help intangible.
[01:14:10]  So they don't set, they don't put numbers to it.
[01:14:13]  They don't put a timeline to it and they call it a journey.
[01:14:16]  Right.
[01:14:17]  Women always leave themselves an out, guys.
[01:14:20]  If someone, if a woman is on a weight loss journey, a debt journey, whatever, it means they are putting themselves in a position to be able to change their mind or quit whenever they want.
[01:14:32]  That's what a journey is.
[01:14:33]  Oh, that's a great point.
[01:14:35]  Yeah, I know.
[01:14:40]  Men will put ourselves in a position where if we set out a goal or a self-help goal or something, we will put ourselves at risk to being ashamed or, you know, understanding the put ourselves at risk where if we fail, you know, it could be, you know what I'm saying?
[01:14:58]  Like we're putting ourselves out there to be able to fail at something and feel ashamed.
[01:15:04]  Whereas women, they won't do that.
[01:15:05]  They always keep themselves.
[01:15:07]  Because remember, guys, in society, women reserve the right to change their mind about anything and everything at any given time.
[01:15:12]  And men, children, and society have to facilitate when they change their mind.
[01:15:19]  That's completely true.
[01:15:21]  Yep.
[01:15:22]  And then I'll also say men's self-help ultimately translates to something good for everyone around that man.
[01:15:32]  So, you know, if he gets in shape, if he earns more money, if he learns a skill, most skills that men learn when it comes to their version of self-help can translate to it benefiting others, whereas women are selfish in nature.
[01:15:46]  Even their self-help is selfish.
[01:15:49]  Yeah, like if your wife gets in shape, she's about to leave your ass.
[01:15:52]  Yeah, exactly.
[01:15:54]  She's going to use that new shape that she has for her personal trainer.
[01:15:59]  Maybe a jiu-jitsu instructor.
[01:16:02]  Maybe who else, Doug?
[01:16:03]  Who else will she use that new shape for?
[01:16:08]  Yeah, her jiu-jitsu instructor, the yoga teacher, the streamer.
[01:16:17]  Women make more money.
[01:16:19]  We're just, we use it on plastic surgery.
[01:16:26]  Crap, Amazon boxes we don't need if we're if we're fat, eating out, restaurants.
[01:16:33]  Think about weight loss.
[01:16:34]  Women are most likely to lose weight when they get divorced as a selfish means to get back at the husband that she left or to get a Chad, not to keep you, the man that committed to her.
[01:16:48]  How many times have you seen if she would have just did what she was doing in the divorce in the marriage, she never would have got divorced?
[01:16:57]  Guys, make sure to like the video, subscribe to the channel if you haven't already.
[01:17:01]  And praiser, praise.
[01:17:05]  Thank you for all the donations.
[01:17:07]  We really appreciate it.
[01:17:07]  All the donations go to the divorce documentary.
[01:17:10]  So keep hitting that super chat button.
[01:17:14]  Women ruminate on their thoughts and have a higher trait, neuropathy, more difficult dealing with negative thoughts.
[01:17:20]  That is why their self-help is more internalized in their minds.
[01:17:24]  Crap from Target, his replacement, the husband's best friend, someone put.
[01:17:33]  Yeah.
[01:17:34]  In Kevin Costner's case, the neighbor.
[01:17:38]  Yeah, that's why, you know, a lot of men, they think, they think, I'll just have my wife at home.
[01:17:45]  Then she won't cheat on me.
[01:17:47]  But where there's a will, there's a way.
[01:17:50]  You know, women's self-help actually is finding a better man to bang.
[01:17:57]  That's women's self-help.
[01:17:59]  And he might not actually be better, but it's like better in the woman's mind, right?
[01:18:03]  Maybe he's better at like one thing, you know, in bed.
[01:18:07]  Probably.
[01:18:08]  That's probably what it is.
[01:18:10]  Yeah, like women will bang the pool guy, the neighbor.
[01:18:15]  Nowadays, you could send her to a school and be like, it's all women and children.
[01:18:20]  I'm safe there.
[01:18:21]  And then they're like, you're a sixth grader.
[01:18:23]  Yeah.
[01:18:24]  And then the husband will defend his wife for sleep.
[01:18:27]  That was disgusting, guys.
[01:18:30]  And like I said in the chat, guys, first off, no, no adult should be sleeping with a child.
[01:18:38]  And then two, none of my public school teachers were attractive.
[01:18:43]  All of them were goblins, every single one of them.
[01:18:46]  From first grade all the way to senior, there wasn't one attractive teacher in any of my schools.
[01:18:53]  Period.
[01:18:56]  I don't know who else had that experience, but that was mine.
[01:19:01]  Did I?
[01:19:03]  I don't think we had any attractive ones I can think of either.
[01:19:06]  Maybe high school.
[01:19:07]  There was probably one or two that were cute.
[01:19:09]  There was actually a rumor that my English teacher was banging a student.
[01:19:13]  No idea if it was true.
[01:19:15]  I had a journalism teacher who was like this young Volkswagen buser driving hippie guy that hiked a lot.
[01:19:24]  He was a total Chad.
[01:19:25]  And all four years of high school, he would wait for one of his students to turn 18 and graduate and then date that girl during the summer and then halfway through fall.
[01:19:37]  Then you usually break up with that girl around New Year and then start the cycle all over again.
[01:19:45]  Sorry, what'd you say?
[01:19:47]  There was a journalism teacher at my school that was a total, you know, liberal hiking Chad.
[01:19:55]  And he would always start dating a girl who just graduated like in May or June and then date her till after New Year's, break up with her.
[01:20:07]  And then the cycle would start all over again.
[01:20:11]  How did he not get in trouble?
[01:20:13]  I mean, this is a long time.
[01:20:15]  Well, not a long time ago, but you know, this is back in like the 90s, early 2000s.
[01:20:20]  I guess he could still get away with it back then.
[01:20:22]  I was wondering, did he ever get in trouble?
[01:20:24]  Like later?
[01:20:25]  I don't know.
[01:20:26]  All the women, I withdraw my consent.
[01:20:29]  Wouldn't that surprise me?
[01:20:31]  And guys, that interview that Pearl had on the news, I said it in the chat.
[01:20:38]  I'll say, English women are just ugly as all hell.
[01:20:41]  And they age like sour milk.
[01:20:43]  Guys, put in the chat any attractive older English female celebrity besides Elizabeth Hurley.
[01:20:51]  English women age like sour milk, dude.
[01:20:54]  So believe me, you did not get mogged on that interview, Pearl.

=== English Women Aging Sour (04:03) ===

[01:20:58]  Let me tell you.
[01:20:59]  You don't think so?
[01:21:00]  I thought, yeah.
[01:21:01]  The big bomb super chat.
[01:21:02]  Look at that.
[01:21:07]  Damn.
[01:21:08]  Oh, 100.
[01:21:09]  Wow.
[01:21:10]  I'm a woman living in a woman apartment for years.
[01:21:13]  I've renovated a closed balcony, repainted the thing, made it nice, did the same thing to the guest room.
[01:21:18]  Now, there is a certain part that needs to be fixed in order to do that.
[01:21:24]  The kitchen needs to be torn apart.
[01:21:25]  I can't do that.
[01:21:26]  She looked at me as if I was an idiot.
[01:21:30]  I've renovated a closed.
[01:21:31]  now they're just starting to be thank you 50 bucks.
[01:21:39]  You guys are balling today.
[01:21:43]  It's never enough.
[01:21:44]  18.
[01:21:44]  These super chats are getting bigger.
[01:21:46]  I better close out soon.
[01:21:47]  Otherwise, I might have to say the N-word if someone drives it.
[01:21:52]  I'll do it.
[01:21:53]  I promised it.
[01:21:54]  But we're going to wrap up this show.
[01:21:57]  I'm going to be, no, don't do it.
[01:22:04]  Okay.
[01:22:05]  Your device is not connected.
[01:22:07]  You got to have a different username.
[01:22:09]  Yeah, I'm going to call you Bob.
[01:22:12]  It's, I think it's Abdelfar.
[01:22:17]  Abdulfar.
[01:22:19]  Your device is not connected, buddy.
[01:22:21]  Yeah, it's okay.
[01:22:23]  Well, he can either figure it out or not.
[01:22:26]  It only has the power people give it.
[01:22:29]  Well, I'll pay.
[01:22:31]  Yeah, it's $500 charge.
[01:22:36]  That's what I'm going to do.
[01:22:37]  I'm going to be like, yeah.
[01:22:42]  Pearl will call me and I'll say, what up?
[01:22:46]  My Jinja.
[01:22:47]  Yeah.
[01:22:49]  And I never drop it ever.
[01:22:53]  No.
[01:22:54]  I would.
[01:22:55]  You know what's funny?
[01:22:56]  know it's funny um the do you know who's pushed me to say the n-word more than anyone else Black people.
[01:23:09]  Yeah.
[01:23:09]  Especially when you're a young white girl.
[01:23:11]  Black people always want you to say the N-word.
[01:23:13]  But then it's like, why are you guys trying to trap me?
[01:23:16]  This is entrapment.
[01:23:18]  Yeah.
[01:23:19]  And the thing about it nowadays is if someone's wearing a pair of glasses, don't say it because they could be wearing those meta glasses and catch you on camera.
[01:23:30]  Yeah.
[01:23:34]  It's so funny.
[01:23:35]  Guys, are you going to call in?
[01:23:37]  Call in.
[01:23:37]  Call in and tell me.
[01:23:39]  Someone just sent me an interesting email.
[01:23:45]  Actually, I won't read it, but.
[01:23:51]  But it was basically saying how the number one white guy rule is that you're not allowed to complain if one does not have a workable solution or even a theory about a solution.
[01:24:04]  Yeah, it's like my father told me one of the best pieces of advice.
[01:24:10]  And guys, you need to implement this in any kind of interaction or relationship with a woman.
[01:24:16]  Disapproval is not a position.
[01:24:19]  It's not.
[01:24:21]  So like how you get caught, you have a plan or you'll be doing something and a woman will say, well, I don't want to do that.
[01:24:33]  Think of something else.
[01:24:35]  Or you say, oh, look, let's eat here.
[01:24:36]  She'll say, I don't want to eat there.
[01:24:38]  Well, let's eat here.
[01:24:39]  I don't want to eat there.
[01:24:40]  Guys, disapproval is not a position.
[01:24:42]  Do what you want to do unless she has another solution, like unless she has another suggestion.
[01:24:50]  But women will just disapprove as a position.
[01:24:53]  Oh, yeah.
[01:24:54]  Homeboy's on camera now.
[01:24:58]  Thank you.
[01:24:59]  Good afternoon.
[01:25:00]  Thank you.

=== Disapproval Is Not A Position (15:14) ===

[01:25:01]  Welcome from Youngstown, Ohio.
[01:25:03]  How everybody's doing?
[01:25:04]  You're from, oh, you're from Ohio?
[01:25:06]  Youngston, Ohio.
[01:25:07]  Yes, ma'am.
[01:25:08]  Oh, nice.
[01:25:08]  And I was in high school.
[01:25:09]  I looked at that college, right?
[01:25:11]  Oh, Youngstown State University?
[01:25:13]  Yeah, I didn't go, but I did look at it.
[01:25:16]  It's okay.
[01:25:17]  Thank you for accepting me to join here.
[01:25:19]  And I do, I do have, sorry for, I'm just nervous a little bit.
[01:25:25]  I haven't experienced really some of the feminist issues within the last four months.
[01:25:34]  And I forgot the topic, but if that's okay, I would love to share my story.
[01:25:41]  What's the story on?
[01:25:44]  How woman can be so selfish?
[01:25:48]  I'm so sorry.
[01:25:50]  I'm so sorry.
[01:25:53]  Yeah, no, we gotta, we gotta stay on topic.
[01:25:56]  We gotta show topic.
[01:25:59]  I know.
[01:25:59]  I know we could do a woman selfish, you know, a woman's selfish one, but we gotta stay on topic, you know.
[01:26:07]  Different day.
[01:26:09]  I did appreciate the enthusiasm.
[01:26:11]  He was very happy to be here.
[01:26:13]  We love you.
[01:26:14]  But yeah, next, next on you got to watch the show and contribute to the topic.
[01:26:22]  What do you think are the differences between the biggest differences between male self-help gurus and female self-help gurus?
[01:26:33]  The biggest difference between male and female self-help gurus are, oh, is that the male ones do actual work and the women don't.
[01:26:44]  It's the same thing as everything.
[01:26:46]  You know what I mean?
[01:26:47]  It's the men, the men, they give you a plan, a step one, step two.
[01:26:53]  The women say, feel better, queen.
[01:26:56]  You know, we're such insufferable people that it makes us very insecure.
[01:27:01]  And because of that, because it makes us so insecure, we have low self-esteem as we should, right?
[01:27:10]  Because if you're a bad person, you have low self-esteem.
[01:27:13]  And instead of making better habits and better choices, they just say to do the same thing and feel better.
[01:27:18]  So, yeah, yeah.
[01:27:20]  Omni TMX says male self-help gurus ego, you can be better.
[01:27:24]  Female egos, you are fine as you are.
[01:27:27]  And also, male self-help gurus, they don't feel threatened by the, I think that female self-help gurus, they don't want you to get better because no woman wants another woman doing better than them.
[01:27:43]  Whereas a male self-help guru wants to see the people seeking his guidance, wants to see them do better.
[01:27:55]  Yeah, that's true.
[01:27:57]  And women just want, um, because a lot of times it's younger women that seek advice.
[01:28:01]  Older women can't help but give advice, right?
[01:28:04]  And so they just want to, you know, steer the younger women towards destruction.
[01:28:10]  Uh, women can't, like, I was thinking about how it's almost feminist even for women to, I always say that my show is entertainment, you know.
[01:28:18]  Um, I really try my best not to give advice, but I was thinking how it's even feminist for women to coach other women because why would you not be destructive?
[01:28:29]  Like, you we destroy everything, like, but like even that is feminist because why isn't a man teaching the women?
[01:28:38]  Like, a man, if men can do everything better than women, then why don't they just like men are entering into women's beauty competitions and winning them?
[01:28:46]  So, men can even be beautiful better than women.
[01:28:49]  Um, men are raising children better than women, men.
[01:28:52]  Um, I, you know, I think they probably glut gluck 9,000 better than women because I don't know why these trannies are still in our men.
[01:28:59]  You know what I mean?
[01:29:00]  Like, there's some like rappers and shit that actually have female choice that are saying, you know what, I'm going to go get a training.
[01:29:06]  So, they probably are glut gluck 9,000 better than women.
[01:29:11]  So, why would you have a woman teach other women anything?
[01:29:15]  You know what I mean?
[01:29:16]  The only self-help, it should be ask your boyfriend.
[01:29:19]  Like, what did your boyfriend say or what did your husband say?
[01:29:22]  What did your dad say?
[01:29:23]  Like, that should be the redirect.
[01:29:24]  Like, okay, well, what did this person say?
[01:29:28]  Now, to be fair, there's a lot of blue-pilled simps out there that can't help you.
[01:29:31]  So, that's that is the problem.
[01:29:33]  But you got to find a real nick to ask.
[01:29:38]  That's why there's why podcasts like Caller Daddy are so are such an anomaly.
[01:29:48]  In general, people, even women, don't like podcasts where it's just a bunch of women talking.
[01:29:55]  So, it's so specialized that like a caller daddy can make a bunch of money.
[01:29:59]  But if you look at the top like 20, it's it's usually all men.
[01:30:05]  But, guys, the age of a bunch of women squawking at a microphone is slowly starting to fade away, guys.
[01:30:13]  Even women are tired of women talking in a circle because nothing.
[01:30:18]  I'm just going to share my experience.
[01:30:20]  There's no practical solution, no nothing.
[01:30:22]  It's just a bunch of women squawking.
[01:30:25]  Hey, hey, let's not speak ill of call her daddy.
[01:30:29]  Hey, hey, that is the number one self-help women's podcast.
[01:30:35]  You know what?
[01:30:35]  I respect the hustle, man.
[01:30:37]  You know, I respect the hustle.
[01:30:41]  So, that's our update.
[01:30:42]  Um, we had three dates, whatever.
[01:30:43]  Well, Asid, if you live in New York, I see like a picture with you, and I don't know where it is, but it's a 30-minute one.
[01:30:49]  But hey, IB, that's at least a tutorial That saved marriages across the United.
[01:30:56]  I mean, they will tell you to leave your husband and click 9,000 on someone else, right?
[01:31:00]  Call her daddy.
[01:31:01]  But let's just be honest here.
[01:31:03]  That at least saved the marriage for a little bit.
[01:31:05]  I heard women when they're cheating get better at sex.
[01:31:08]  Like, I heard that, like, um, like, one of the guys, you remember he called in.
[01:31:13]  He said the best sex he ever had with his wife was when she started cheating on him.
[01:31:17]  You know why, right?
[01:31:19]  Because, okay, men, we don't project as much as women project.
[01:31:26]  A woman will be cheating, and then she'll women'll find a way to try to make themselves feel better about their situation, even if it's giving to the husband somehow to justify herself cheating.
[01:31:43]  And that's what it is.
[01:31:44]  It's just her projecting and trying to get over her guilt of cheating that small little bit by giving her husband a little bit of sex.
[01:31:54]  Men do that too when they're cheating.
[01:31:56]  I mean, they'll take you on a trip or something.
[01:31:58]  You're like, what did I do?
[01:32:02]  So, ladies, if you didn't have any, it's like the most elaborate.
[01:32:06]  You've been perfect.
[01:32:07]  Like, you have, wow.
[01:32:10]  So, so, if your husband buys you a new car out of the blue, he's cheating on you.
[01:32:16]  You know, if you get a new handbag out of the blue, yeah, he's cheating on you.
[01:32:20]  Yeah, if you think I've done nothing to deserve this, well, you probably he did something.
[01:32:26]  Yeah, 100% true.
[01:32:30]  All right, Danny, welcome to the show.
[01:32:32]  You got any thoughts on women's self-help versus a men's self-help?
[01:32:37]  Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry for the accent.
[01:32:39]  First of all, I have thoughts on both women and men's self-help.
[01:32:45]  And I have pointed into the chat.
[01:32:49]  I think they're both scammers.
[01:32:52]  I think those people prey on people's insecurities and they are trying to sell them cheap, easy, and absolutely non-working solutions to problems they don't have.
[01:33:09]  Actually, do you think all of them are scammers or most like what percentage would you say are scammers?
[01:33:15]  Like 100%, 80%, 70%?
[01:33:18]  I think like 80% of them, I think they prey on the weak.
[01:33:26]  I think they do this for their own profit and their in order to make money.
[01:33:36]  It's all about markets these days.
[01:33:39]  So, whenever a person is feeling weak, whenever they're insecure, they prey on that thing.
[01:33:44]  And I think that should be fucking illegal.
[01:33:49]  I think those people should be held accountable in some way.
[01:33:54]  I don't know what way.
[01:33:57]  All right.
[01:33:57]  Thanks for calling in, Danny.
[01:33:59]  Appreciate the input.
[01:34:00]  Yeah, great, great, great call.
[01:34:02]  See that?
[01:34:03]  He got right to the point.
[01:34:04]  He said his thing.
[01:34:05]  It was good energy.
[01:34:07]  The first guy that called in, I just want you guys to know so you can call in better in the future.
[01:34:11]  You know, the first guy had great energy.
[01:34:14]  But in the beginning, just to give you guys, you don't need to tell me you're nervous or that you're a big fan.
[01:34:20]  Just get into what you want to say.
[01:34:22]  All right.
[01:34:23]  I do appreciate I've been nervous as well.
[01:34:26]  I've done all those things.
[01:34:27]  So I'm not judging you guys for it.
[01:34:29]  But, you know, just come in with your topic.
[01:34:32]  And then you can call into more shows.
[01:34:34]  And then all the hosts will love you.
[01:34:36]  So, how do you think Doug MPA got here?
[01:34:38]  Right.
[01:34:41]  That's true.
[01:34:41]  I started as a fan.
[01:34:43]  Yeah.
[01:34:43]  So, all right, Matt, welcome to the show.
[01:34:46]  What is your thoughts on women versus men's self-improvement?
[01:34:51]  I think men's self-improvement is usually based off of either pain or shame.
[01:34:57]  And women's self-improvement, the motivation is making them feel better.
[01:35:04]  And they have to basically just feel better about themselves.
[01:35:11]  And then they can improve themselves.
[01:35:15]  Oh, so it's about making the feeling go away.
[01:35:19]  Men, it's about men, it's about making the feeling go away.
[01:35:22]  For women, it's about they have to be happy first and then they can self-improve.
[01:35:30]  Oh, okay.
[01:35:33]  So, but wouldn't that make women also trying to make the feeling go away or am I misunderstanding?
[01:35:40]  I think they women need to be in a positive place to self-improve, whereas a man needs to be in a negative place.
[01:35:54]  Okay.
[01:35:55]  Then women don't self-improve at all.
[01:35:58]  Right.
[01:35:58]  Yeah, pretty much.
[01:35:59]  I mean, they need to be able to be happy before they'll improve.
[01:36:06]  So they'll never improve.
[01:36:08]  So what you're saying is, is men, men's self-improvement, a male self-improvement person will say, you need to start taking steps forward.
[01:36:17]  A female self-improvement person will have you sit there and just pow wow and complain and cry before and not really take to take steps forward.
[01:36:26]  Is that what you're saying?
[01:36:28]  Yep.
[01:36:29]  Makes sense to me.
[01:36:30]  I think that's 100% true.
[01:36:32]  Yeah, I do too.
[01:36:35]  They'll pay for a woman's self-help guru and be like, I feel so much better after like six months.
[01:36:40]  But it's like, what have you accomplished this whole time?
[01:36:45]  That response gets you to stay on the panel if you wish.
[01:36:48]  All right.
[01:36:49]  Welcome.
[01:36:49]  Welcome.
[01:36:50]  Hey, my brother.
[01:36:54]  Thank you.
[01:36:54]  Oh, you're all official today.
[01:36:56]  You got a new set?
[01:36:58]  Yeah, yeah.
[01:36:59]  I got a new crib, got a new set, got a new me.
[01:37:02]  Yeah, let's go.
[01:37:04]  Looks good.
[01:37:05]  He's upgrading.
[01:37:06]  So what are your thoughts on the topic about men versus women's self-improvement?
[01:37:10]  And side question I'm thinking of now.
[01:37:13]  Do you ever have the ladies on your program self-improve?
[01:37:17]  Do you ever like, which is that just seems like something you would do?
[01:37:20]  Like you would have them, I don't know, like lose weight or do something to make their lives better.
[01:37:26]  I don't know.
[01:37:27]  Heck yeah.
[01:37:28]  I mean, I could start there, but heck yeah, man.
[01:37:30]  I mean, I'll be telling girls of you like, hey, look, you fat.
[01:37:33]  You need to work that out.
[01:37:35]  But this is the thing.
[01:37:36]  This is how I say it.
[01:37:37]  I usually like, dang, you know, you're overweight, man.
[01:37:40]  That's why you're pulling your pants up to your belly button.
[01:37:42]  You know, that joints is ridiculous.
[01:37:44]  And she's like, oh, you know how they try to cover it up.
[01:37:47]  And I'm like, hey, look, there's no problem.
[01:37:48]  You can fix that.
[01:37:49]  That's something that's controllable, right?
[01:37:52]  So the power is yours.
[01:37:54]  And I usually say, like, you look like this now, but imagine when you actually fix that weight.
[01:37:58]  You know, you're going to be on Instagram trying to show everybody your six fact or your stomach now.
[01:38:02]  So where do you want to be?
[01:38:04]  You want to be tucking your goddamn shirt all the way up to your nipples?
[01:38:07]  Or you want to actually be having your pants down low so they can see your stomach?
[01:38:11]  Do you do you give them like a meal plan and like tell them what to eat and stuff?
[01:38:15]  Hell no, no, you know what that is.
[01:38:17]  That joints is that's a coat, man.
[01:38:18]  Go ahead.
[01:38:19]  You know, you know, you're eating too much Dunkin' Donuts, fruit rollups, and cold cuts in KFC.
[01:38:23]  Like, come on, eat vegetables and fruit.
[01:38:26]  I never saw somebody do that and was overweight.
[01:38:30]  All right.
[01:38:31]  Since for men, people look into his future so you can improve.
[01:38:33]  For women, we look at her past.
[01:38:35]  It's impossible to improve your past.
[01:38:37]  That's a great point.
[01:38:39]  Holy crap.
[01:38:40]  Wow.
[01:38:45]  Yeah.
[01:38:45]  Because, you know, women's self-improvement's just lying better.
[01:38:50]  Yeah.
[01:38:51]  So, you know, example, you always say that a lot of the issues with women and a lot of the issues with black people are the same.
[01:39:00]  I always say that about black people.
[01:39:01]  And Sean, you can back me up on this.
[01:39:03]  Black people, there are too many of us who keep talking about the past and they don't, they don't.
[01:39:13]  Okay.
[01:39:13]  One of the biggest issues you can ask yourself, whenever I would have a problem, my dad would listen to me.
[01:39:19]  He said, okay, okay, are you done?
[01:39:21]  Are you done?
[01:39:21]  Are you done?
[01:39:22]  What are you going to do about it now?
[01:39:23]  And Black people, we always talk about the past and we stop ourselves from asking, what are we going to do about it now?
[01:39:31]  And that's women's self-help.
[01:39:33]  They talk about the past, but they don't include, what are you going to do about it now?
[01:39:38]  How are you going to move forward?
[01:39:39]  Whereas men's self-help, that's the first thing they ask you.
[01:39:42]  What are you going to do about it?
[01:39:45]  You have these problems.
[01:39:46]  Oh, well, what are you going to do about it?
[01:39:50]  Yeah, that's so true.
[01:39:51]  That's a really Lars just knocked it out of the park.
[01:39:54]  That's great.
[01:39:55]  You got to call.
[01:39:57]  Sometimes these guys, they come up with like the best stuff.
[01:40:01]  Yeah, right.
[01:40:03]  Jackson, welcome to the show.
[01:40:05]  Actually, Sean, why don't you finish what you were saying about the idea?
[01:40:09]  I think it would do the self-help aspect.
[01:40:13]  Yeah, yeah.
[01:40:13]  So I was going to say, like, it's very interesting.

=== Jackson Debate Victory (15:46) ===

[01:40:16]  I see women's self-help is actually helping themselves.
[01:40:19]  Now, let me explain.
[01:40:22]  So they do do self-help, but they help themselves.
[01:40:24]  Now, helping themselves across the board is actually them being the center of everything, even over the family.
[01:40:30]  So women try to self-help themselves over everybody else.
[01:40:34]  They're not helping others.
[01:40:36]  Whereas men, when they do self-help, it's centered around helping others.
[01:40:40]  Like often you will hear guys telling you, hey, self-improve for your family, self-improve for your society, the nation, et cetera, right?
[01:40:47]  It's always improving for someone else versus women's self-improvement is like, hey, improve for you.
[01:40:55]  Improve so you can leave your family.
[01:40:57]  Improve so you can take the kids and alienate them.
[01:41:00]  Improve.
[01:41:00]  Like it's always something that's self around their happiness and their existence.
[01:41:05]  So I would say they do attempt to help themselves a lot, but it's just over everybody else, over the society, over the neighbor, over the guy down the street.
[01:41:14]  Even when women give like gifts and stuff, it's like to help themselves to get more stuff from you later or to ask for favors later or to hold it over your head later.
[01:41:25]  And hence why it was often that men took young children away from women when they were young.
[01:41:31]  Because if you allowed a kid, especially a young boy, to stay with the mother, she would help him, but it would be not for himself.
[01:41:38]  It would be for the mother.
[01:41:40]  He will never grow.
[01:41:41]  He will never progress.
[01:41:42]  He'll never go through pains and sufferings and obstacles.
[01:41:45]  They would just be detrimental to their growth.
[01:41:48]  So they took them away.
[01:41:49]  Really?
[01:41:50]  When did they do that?
[01:41:51]  Yeah, like a tribe.
[01:41:52]  You never seen like a tribe take the boys away and then they go and be go, you know, on their own passage, their crucible.
[01:42:01]  Like a certain age.
[01:42:02]  Yeah, like let's say around like 11, 16, they're taking them away from the mother because the influence is so powerful, right?
[01:42:11]  They'll seek to coddle them.
[01:42:12]  They'll seek to actually give them safety and security where they need that danger.
[01:42:17]  They need those obstacles in order to develop a character where they'll stay forever moist.
[01:42:22]  Jackson, welcome to the show.
[01:42:25]  What is your thought on women's versus men's self-help?
[01:42:28]  Hey, well, this does go right along with what's already been said, but I thought this might be worth pointing out.
[01:42:36]  One difference I see between men's self-help and women's self-help, in addition to all the things you guys have just said, is that women's self-help tends to be broader in my experience, whereas men's self-help tends to be more about a specific topic.
[01:42:51]  For example, as a man, I might just Google, hey, how do I lose fat or something like that?
[01:42:57]  Or how do I get a girlfriend or how do I get my finances in order?
[01:43:00]  And usually, the self-help gurus for men are about one topic, like they might be dating coaches.
[01:43:06]  I'm not saying they never ever branch into other topics, but usually they have one or a few topics that they specialize in.
[01:43:14]  Whereas female self-help coaches usually seem to encompass like this strange broadness I've noticed.
[01:43:22]  Like one of the things that really stood out to me as unusual about the guest you had recently about losing the last 15 or 20 pounds.
[01:43:30]  I took mental note at the time.
[01:43:32]  That's one of the most specific female self-help things I've ever seen because she has a very specific thing that she's marketing and trying to help women with.
[01:43:42]  Very often, I'll be looking at advice on, let's say, nutrition.
[01:43:46]  And let's say a woman will be giving nutrition advice.
[01:43:49]  And sometimes it's even a woman who clearly does know something about what she's talking about about the subject, but then she also wants to broaden it to having a healthy relationship with food when I'm just asking about what's healthy and what isn't, if that makes sense.
[01:44:03]  So this strange broadening is something I see as a big difference between male and female self-help.
[01:44:10]  Or intuitively eating.
[01:44:12]  That's another.
[01:44:12]  Yeah.
[01:44:13]  Well, that's just basically be fat and stay fat.
[01:44:16]  That's what I'm intuitively eat.
[01:44:18]  I'll intuitively eat like sugar.
[01:44:20]  Like 600 calories.
[01:44:25]  That's a great point.
[01:44:26]  Do you have anything else you wanted to add on the topic?
[01:44:28]  No, that's pretty much it.
[01:44:30]  I'll keep listening to the show.
[01:44:31]  Cool.
[01:44:31]  Thanks for calling in, Jackson.
[01:44:34]  That was, see, that was a great call, guys.
[01:44:36]  Just you guys know.
[01:44:37]  That was.
[01:44:38]  He could have stayed.
[01:44:39]  He left, but I would have let him stay.
[01:44:42]  That's the kind of point you bring, and you get to stay on the panel, you know.
[01:44:49]  Danny's back.
[01:44:50]  What you got for us, Danny?
[01:44:52]  You have another thought?
[01:44:54]  Yeah.
[01:44:56]  Oh, fuck.
[01:44:57]  I'm on.
[01:44:58]  I'm sorry.
[01:45:00]  Well, let's suppose for a second that all those people aren't scammers.
[01:45:06]  The thing that I think I've seen the most on the internet is like men's self-help is usually when it's done properly, it's actually telling men that they need to go through a really tough time.
[01:45:29]  Okay.
[01:45:31]  And they need to like fight their demons, and that's going to be painful, and that's going to be a struggle, and that's going to be like a fucking nightmare that they need to crawl out of in order to discover something better on the other side.
[01:45:50]  While women's self-help on the other side is rarely that, it's actually quite the opposite.
[01:46:00]  It's like, I have seen some gym content, actually, that maybe can prove my point that there's a fucking bimbo with the you know, with the fake boobs and the other fucking shit.
[01:46:18]  And she's telling, like, okay, girls, we're not going too heavy today.
[01:46:24]  We don't want to look like a man and we don't want to like push ourselves too hard.
[01:46:33]  We want to just get toned a little bit.
[01:46:37]  Like, bitch, what the fuck are you talking about?
[01:46:40]  You're in the gym.
[01:46:41]  What are you doing?
[01:46:42]  Put some effort.
[01:46:46]  You're like some okay.
[01:46:49]  If you want to train light, like train light, whatever, but you're not going to look like a man because you lift heavy.
[01:46:56]  It's quite the opposite, actually.
[01:46:58]  You're going to look more defined.
[01:47:00]  You're going to look more attractive.
[01:47:02]  You're going to look better.
[01:47:03]  But yes, it is going to be fucking painful.
[01:47:07]  And you better be ready for that.
[01:47:09]  And that's what none of the fucking women's self-help, quote-unquote, content creators.
[01:47:23]  Yeah, I would add to what you're saying.
[01:47:24]  I would say men self-help, it's about they're usually saying, look, life is only going to get harder.
[01:47:33]  And if you, if you embrace hardship, you'll get ahead.
[01:47:37]  Whereas women's self-help find ways to blame everything else except for the person.
[01:47:44]  No self-reflection.
[01:47:47]  Yeah.
[01:47:47]  Every single outside thing.
[01:47:49]  It was everything, everything outside you's fault.
[01:47:52]  And figuring out where it came.
[01:47:56]  You didn't cause what happened.
[01:47:58]  Something happened to you.
[01:48:00]  And they absolutely did that.
[01:48:03]  They absolutely munched on their donuts and their fucking chocolate and their fucking ice cream.
[01:48:09]  And they need a justification that it's not their fault.
[01:48:15]  You see, it's not, that's just who they are.
[01:48:19]  Which is yeah, it's like their mother's fault or their upbringing.
[01:48:24]  Yeah.
[01:48:25]  Yeah.
[01:48:28]  Guys, like the video, see if we can get over 200 likes.
[01:48:31]  So anyway, sorry, Doug, keep going.
[01:48:33]  I just say, yeah, you know, your ex-husband or your ex-boyfriend was a narcissist.
[01:48:39]  You know, all that stuff.
[01:48:40]  Or probably the FDA.
[01:48:42]  It's always someone else's fault.
[01:48:44]  It is your cat's fault, basically.
[01:48:47]  Yeah.
[01:48:51]  Danny's on fire, man.
[01:48:53]  Great call.
[01:48:55]  Thank you.
[01:48:56]  Thank you.
[01:48:56]  I might be again for another one, but it's getting too late for me.
[01:49:01]  But I love this.
[01:49:02]  I really love this.
[01:49:03]  Thanks.
[01:49:04]  Danny, appreciate it.
[01:49:05]  Thanks for calling.
[01:49:07]  Awesome.
[01:49:10]  See that?
[01:49:10]  He just got right to it.
[01:49:12]  See that?
[01:49:13]  That's the type of call I keep you on the panel for.
[01:49:17]  So, yeah.
[01:49:18]  See, these guys, these guys have proven their caller effectiveness.
[01:49:22]  See, that's how they get to stay every time.
[01:49:24]  But, you know.
[01:49:27]  Sean, do you have any thoughts on that?
[01:49:29]  Anything you want to add?
[01:49:31]  Yeah, yeah, no.
[01:49:32]  Especially the fat stuff, man.
[01:49:33]  I mean, a lot of people blame it on the FDA.
[01:49:36]  They blame it on the FDI and the CIA.
[01:49:39]  And I just think a lot of times it's just coke.
[01:49:41]  But it's very important to realize that, like, even what's it called?
[01:49:45]  Ozimpic.
[01:49:45]  If you just even look at that, right?
[01:49:47]  Like, that's blown up, you know, buy stock in Ozimpic for real, for real.
[01:49:51]  Because it's just a shortcut.
[01:49:53]  And people love making shortcuts and they don't like doing the work, especially women.
[01:49:57]  It's like, do you remember when they were getting that stomach stapling surgery?
[01:50:01]  And then they would eat too much and then break it.
[01:50:04]  Yeah.
[01:50:05]  And break it and be right back in the deficit.
[01:50:07]  And now they're hurt.
[01:50:08]  They're busted up.
[01:50:09]  Yeah.
[01:50:11]  So I don't know if either one of you are old enough to remember this, but back in the 90s, women used to get their jaws wired shut to lose weight.
[01:50:22]  Seriously, you used to be able to get your jaw wired shut for like 60 days and not be able to eat.
[01:50:29]  I'll tell you this.
[01:50:29]  I'll tell you this, man.
[01:50:30]  It's bad, Pearl.
[01:50:32]  I come from the fattest community, allegedly.
[01:50:35]  I don't claim them, but they would claim me.
[01:50:37]  The black folks, like, man, I remember I used to get vegetables or watermelon and stuff like that at the house.
[01:50:45]  And my family would be like, oh, look at you.
[01:50:47]  You're eating that rabbit food.
[01:50:49]  Boy, you need some help.
[01:50:50]  You need some.
[01:50:51]  It's just like, bro, the coke.
[01:50:53]  They're bullies.
[01:50:54]  They're not good people.
[01:50:55]  Also, too.
[01:50:56]  So fat people need to cope in order to build their own alternative universe.
[01:51:00]  I'll bounce off that.
[01:51:03]  Remember, well, this is in general, but especially in our community, the fat girls can make fun of the skinny girls, but the skinny curls can't make fun of the fat girls because it's fat shaming.
[01:51:16]  Yeah.
[01:51:17]  And then they'll just bully you.
[01:51:18]  They'll probably sit on you.
[01:51:19]  They'll probably roll on you, like stuff like that.
[01:51:21]  They'll probably just move real fast towards you.
[01:51:24]  You know, I'm using this opportunity to say what I always say: guys, American black women are the scum of the earth, dude.
[01:51:31]  Now, these aren't Pearl's views.
[01:51:33]  These are Doug MPA's views.
[01:51:35]  But, guys, the worst women on the planet, worst mothers on the planet, worst women on the planet.
[01:51:39]  You cannot tell me different.
[01:51:40]  You can't.
[01:51:41]  You can't.
[01:51:42]  Worst women.
[01:51:43]  No one has worse women to pick from than American black men.
[01:51:47]  You know what?
[01:51:47]  I got to be honest.
[01:51:48]  I covered a story of a black woman putting her kid in the oven this year.
[01:51:52]  Oh, yeah.
[01:51:53]  Yeah.
[01:51:53]  I see.
[01:51:54]  The kid alive.
[01:51:55]  So, you know, I do have my gripes with white women.
[01:51:58]  I really don't let us get off the hook at all, but I can't say that the stuff I cover really helps black women's case.
[01:52:06]  I got to be honest.
[01:52:07]  Remember that story we did a couple months ago where the lady shot her daughter.
[01:52:13]  And then when the police came, she convinced her daughter to lie to the police about shooting her.
[01:52:19]  And she did.
[01:52:20]  How brainwashed you got to be crazy the level of like hypnosis you can be under from your mother.
[01:52:28]  It's like especially you can distance when you're like, holy shit.
[01:52:32]  Yeah, go ahead.
[01:52:33]  No, I was saying it's probably interesting.
[01:52:35]  When I remember when Eminem used to talk about his mom, he'd be like, you were a bad mom, F you.
[01:52:41]  And it's funny, like, you hear Tupac say when she was a crack thing, she still was a black man.
[01:52:45]  Always was a black woman.
[01:52:46]  It was like what?
[01:52:48]  I never heard a white man say, like, you were on junk and you were still an ice queen.
[01:52:52]  Like, I never heard that.
[01:52:54]  I just heard him say, like, F you, mom, if she was a loser.
[01:52:57]  So I'm just like, yeah, it's pretty bad in that in that thing called black community.
[01:53:01]  It's terrible.
[01:53:02]  Like, she got shot and still had to protect her mom.
[01:53:06]  Yep.
[01:53:06]  It's like emotional torture.
[01:53:09]  Uh, Brad, welcome to the show.
[01:53:11]  What are your thoughts on women versus men self-improvement?
[01:53:17]  Yeah, thought I have is uh-oh, I think it's your audio.
[01:53:25]  Your sound went out, Brad.
[01:53:28]  Your sound went out.
[01:53:29]  All right, yeah, I'm gonna let him figure it out.
[01:53:35]  Um, but yeah, yeah, but black women will put their kids in the oven, apparently.
[01:53:41]  It doesn't surprise me at all, kill them in the woods if they get that far.
[01:53:45]  Yeah, I'm about to say, if they keep that far, you know, and it's not that I think white women are great, I just think we're a bit less violent, like physically.
[01:53:53]  We're more like emotionally and verbally violent.
[01:53:55]  So, like, we'll be a lot nicer on the front end, a lot more crazy on the back end.
[01:53:59]  Yeah, the black women, at least they put it up front.
[01:54:02]  They're like, I am in the crazy.
[01:54:06]  The white women will be like, Teehee, yeah, yeah, like the Tilly girl now.
[01:54:12]  You know, Tilly, um, the girl, she's falsely accusing like Andrew of being a rape.
[01:54:19]  I forgot what she said exactly.
[01:54:22]  The girl that was on like the British girl.
[01:54:25]  Yeah, she's like, Teehee, uh, Tee, Andrew.
[01:54:29]  Yeah, I gotta find the actually, I'm gonna, I'm gonna see if no way.
[01:54:36]  Yeah, you have to find it on Twitter.
[01:54:39]  Oh, yeah, I mean, here, if you put it in the, put the link in the chat, I'll play it.
[01:54:43]  We can talk, but uh, okay, so here is one.
[01:54:50]  Hold on, give me one second because I found, hold on, one second, you guys.
[01:54:55]  Oh, my gosh.
[01:54:56]  It won't work until she acquiesces him, but women aren't trying to make space for anyone other than the top guy.
[01:55:04]  And men don't want to take the risk of divorce.
[01:55:06]  How do we fix the standoff we're in?
[01:55:08]  You can't fix it, right?
[01:55:09]  I mean, that's the girl.
[01:55:14]  The women don't want the top guys either.
[01:55:17]  They don't want us neither.
[01:55:18]  Like, they don't want nobody but themselves.
[01:55:21]  They don't want no top guys.
[01:55:22]  Tom Brady, what happened with him?
[01:55:24]  Yeah.
[01:55:25]  Elon Musk.
[01:55:26]  Elon Musk, he almost a trillionaire.
[01:55:28]  And the shorties be doing away with him.
[01:55:30]  Grimes and shit, taking his kids.
[01:55:32]  Like, bro, they don't want the top man neither.
[01:55:35]  Just a high value target, man.
[01:55:37]  Get it right.
[01:55:38]  It's not you.
[01:55:39]  It's us.
[01:55:40]  Like, women are just unhappy with everything.
[01:55:43]  So it's got nothing to do with you guys.
[01:55:45]  Like, it's, I mean, unless you're fat, maybe, but it might have something to do with you.
[01:55:50]  But, in general, like, you know, we're just not happy with anything ever.
[01:55:56]  We're not happy with ourselves.
[01:55:58]  We're not happy with each other.
[01:56:00]  Like, we just torture everybody.
[01:56:02]  Okay, yeah.

=== Top Men Unwanted Targets (11:24) ===

[01:56:03]  So again, THE, I'm a white girl.
[01:56:06]  He's a rapist.
[01:56:07]  Andrew Wilson's a rapist.
[01:56:08]  I saw you do, did you do, sit with Andrew Wilson?
[01:56:11]  That's one thing I would disagree with you doing, which is interesting.
[01:56:15]  Like maybe that's the way the debate happened.
[01:56:19]  Yeah.
[01:56:19]  Oh, interesting.
[01:56:21]  I just worry immediately for your safety in that moment because of the fact that he's a rapist.
[01:56:28]  Andrew Wilson's a rapist.
[01:56:30]  I mean, he's admitted on live streams before on his podcast that he doesn't really believe in what he understands the modern version of consent to look like.
[01:56:40]  And his entire career is upon a foundational premise that you get clicks by bullying underage girls or women who are underqualified to speak about political problems.
[01:56:51]  And I'm not saying that that's you.
[01:56:52]  I actually don't think that that is you at all.
[01:56:54]  And I think that he went out on a limb when he debated you because that's not usually the type of person that he would engage with.
[01:57:00]  But like, I think that that's for the men.
[01:57:03]  I think Andrew Wilson is for the men to tackle because his audience are so, I mean, I've watched, I've watched, I've probably watched 20 hours or more of his podcast.
[01:57:15]  And I've been approached before to come on whatever.
[01:57:18]  And I just said no, because I don't think there's any winning.
[01:57:22]  And that's, yeah.
[01:57:23]  So I just smart enough.
[01:57:27]  Okay, first off, we support Andrew Wilson over here.
[01:57:30]  And both these two can go straight to hell, dude, straight up.
[01:57:33]  I'm hoping that Andrew Wilson sues the pants off this girl.
[01:57:37]  And odds are he will.
[01:57:40]  This is the type of thing I think that Rachel and Andrew will put their full force into and they have a really good team around him.
[01:57:47]  She messed up by doing this.
[01:57:50]  She messed up.
[01:57:52]  You fucking idiot.
[01:57:54]  Oh, I'm sorry.
[01:57:55]  I'm out cussing.
[01:57:56]  No, it's okay.
[01:57:57]  We support Andrew Wilson over here, man.
[01:57:58]  Andrew, get her, man.
[01:58:00]  Get this chick.
[01:58:01]  Yeah, it's just like, THE, you're a rapist.
[01:58:04]  Like, what is wrong with these women?
[01:58:06]  See, this is white women for you.
[01:58:07]  You know, it's not that black women don't do this too, but again, black women put their aggression up front.
[01:58:12]  So they're like, yep, I am crazy.
[01:58:15]  Here it is, guys.
[01:58:16]  So like, you know, they kind of, even if something crazy happens later, you can't say you didn't really see it coming.
[01:58:22]  Like every time Doug MPA tells me a story about a bad date with a black American woman, it's like he's like, he's like, why did I do this again?
[01:58:29]  Like, you know, that's at least upfront.
[01:58:32]  But white women, it's like, now, now the rug's kind of been pulled.
[01:58:36]  Like, now it's a lot more out in the open.
[01:58:38]  Like after Amber Heard came out, now it's a lot more like, okay, you know, okay, white women are fucking crazy.
[01:58:45]  You know, remember how hot Amber Heard was young?
[01:58:47]  And like, she seemed sweet and she was fucking insane.
[01:58:50]  This is just another one to that.
[01:58:53]  On this post, Brian said, I will be pursuing a lawsuit against Tilly Middlehurst for numerous libelous comments.
[01:59:01]  Further, I strongly encourage Andrew Wilson to pursue his own particularly strong legal case against this liar.
[01:59:06]  Her false and fabricated claims that Andrew Wilson is a grapist are defamation per, you know, per se.
[01:59:14]  Is it despicable that leftists must resort to such egregious slander without a second thought?
[01:59:19]  So to casually falsely accuse someone of grape is terrifying.
[01:59:24]  So she was too much of a coward to debate Andrew Wilson, so instead resorts to pathetic attacks and false accusations.
[01:59:30]  This woman has zero credibility.
[01:59:32]  I strongly encourage any men, professionally, or otherwise, to stay away from this woman, given her propensity for baseless false accusations.
[01:59:39]  She's also a nightmare to deal with when we attempted to book her for a debate with Andrew Wilson.
[01:59:43]  Awful attitude, total diva.
[01:59:46]  There you go.
[01:59:47]  That was it.
[01:59:47]  I was frankly not going to go and sit in a room with a bunch of men who don't believe in consent.
[01:59:52]  I was fuked.
[01:59:55]  Yeah.
[01:59:58]  It feels correct me if I'm wrong.
[02:00:00]  It feels like a commentary on platforming in general.
[02:00:03]  And I have very mixed thoughts about platforming.
[02:00:05]  And maybe you disagree.
[02:00:06]  Maybe it is not a platforming.
[02:00:07]  And so correct me.
[02:00:08]  Am I misunderstanding you and saying it's somewhat feeling a little.
[02:00:11]  Okay.
[02:00:12]  Maybe a little.
[02:00:13]  Because I'm usually, I'm not big on the argument of you platforming, you're legitimizing these ideas.
[02:00:18]  I think that that's actually a really complex and nuanced topic that people slap a big thought-terminating cliche on.
[02:00:23]  You're legitimizing, you're doing this.
[02:00:25]  I was genuinely just worried that A, a woman was engaging in the debate.
[02:00:29]  I think that in this instance, when it comes to men like this, it should be a man who engages in that particular debate.
[02:00:34]  And also, I was literally physical safety.
[02:00:37]  I'm worried for the physical safety of the women who go in person to these podcast environments.
[02:00:41]  I've heard.
[02:00:42]  What the fuck is wrong with this woman, bro?
[02:00:45]  Like, Andrew's so nice.
[02:00:46]  Like, he's so nice.
[02:00:48]  He's actually such a nice guy that it's like, it's just incredible that she would say this.
[02:00:56]  I think we're losing the point.
[02:00:57]  I think it's actually pretty smart that she says this because this is her soft power.
[02:01:02]  When someone can't beat you in a debate, especially a woman, this is one of the ways they beat you.
[02:01:07]  It's called discredit.
[02:01:09]  Shame, insult, the guilt that needs to be right.
[02:01:11]  Like, this is her tactic.
[02:01:13]  This is called soft power.
[02:01:15]  This is what it looks like, and it's on display.
[02:01:17]  No, I'm not disagreeing with you.
[02:01:20]  What, you disagree that she's doing this because this is how she rolls?
[02:01:24]  No, no, no.
[02:01:25]  I'm not saying it's right.
[02:01:26]  I'm saying this is what she does.
[02:01:28]  Well, she can't beat Andrew Wilson in a debate.
[02:01:31]  She doesn't want to engage in that.
[02:01:33]  So, how would she try to beat him by discrediting his character and calling him this obscene things that she's claiming him to be?
[02:01:40]  That is her play in this, and that is soft power.
[02:01:43]  Yeah, but I would say if she would have called him anything else except that, it would have been soft power.
[02:01:51]  But, like, to toss that R word around, like, that's there are things where, okay, she called you something and you let that slide.
[02:02:00]  But, like, that right there is not so.
[02:02:03]  That's one of the only things you can call someone that's not soft power.
[02:02:07]  You know what I'm saying?
[02:02:09]  I get what you're saying, but the accusation isn't soft.
[02:02:13]  Huh?
[02:02:13]  Yeah, I get you.
[02:02:14]  It's a serious accusation, but again, but it's launched all across society.
[02:02:19]  Most women say three words and put most men in jail.
[02:02:22]  And it's a soft power technique in the realm of actually evaluating what hard and soft power is.
[02:02:27]  Now, I get what you're saying.
[02:02:29]  It has serious implications.
[02:02:31]  Again, women have been able to push their soft power to this point where they can just say these words.
[02:02:37]  And most people take it as true.
[02:02:39]  Most people say, believe all women.
[02:02:41]  That is a very powerful thing.
[02:02:43]  So it's very serious.
[02:02:44]  I agree with you saying, but that is soft power.
[02:02:49]  And they just reached the crazy limb.
[02:02:51]  Go ahead.
[02:02:51]  Go ahead.
[02:02:52]  Stories of them forcing you to film for eight, nine hours, and then promising you reimbursement, but then they're dragging out and dragging out the debate until they get until they're satisfied.
[02:03:01]  And only then will they reimburse you?
[02:03:02]  And people have been stranded out in the desert trying to get back home because of that.
[02:03:07]  Like I've heard horror stories from so many women.
[02:03:09]  Obviously, I'm not going to be able to do that.
[02:03:10]  But women keep going on there.
[02:03:11]  Women who've spoken to me personally about their experiences, and none of them have been good.
[02:03:16]  So that was, I disagreed with you going because I was just thinking, oh, what is she doing?
[02:03:20]  Nothing to do with platforming, you know?
[02:03:22]  Yeah.
[02:03:23]  So I suppose in my experience, I have a pretty decent working relationship with Brian Atlas, the host.
[02:03:29]  He repaid me.
[02:03:30]  So we negotiated ahead of time that he was going to pay for travel and stay.
[02:03:34]  And he reimbursed me within 24 hours.
[02:03:36]  So I had no reimbursement issues.
[02:03:39]  Afterwards, he offered to take me out for food.
[02:03:41]  He got food on set, but I've definitely never felt for even a second physically under threat from either of these individuals, like in no way, shape, or form.
[02:03:49]  In fact, he's a rape.
[02:03:50]  Damn.
[02:03:51]  So even the super far even the super far leftist woke chick was like, no, I felt fine.
[02:04:02]  Like that's Danny here.
[02:04:04]  That's their only move, calling them the issue words without any evidence to support their claims.
[02:04:09]  Yeah, I mean, what other, yeah, I guess what other power does she have?
[02:04:13]  Dude, what else?
[02:04:15]  What else does she have?
[02:04:17]  It's the only card she can play.
[02:04:19]  And it's interesting, too, if you see the actual like soft position that the actual host took.
[02:04:26]  It wasn't a straight confrontation.
[02:04:28]  It was just like, hey, that's not my experience.
[02:04:30]  But the allegation was still allowed to linger.
[02:04:33]  Yeah, exactly, Sean.
[02:04:35]  Good picking up on that.
[02:04:37]  Most men would have been like, no, you cat, dude.
[02:04:39]  You tap.
[02:04:40]  You got to prove it.
[02:04:41]  That's the difference between women communication.
[02:04:47]  Damn.
[02:04:49]  Like, what do you even?
[02:04:51]  I'm hoping Andrew and Rachel could come for her neck.
[02:04:55]  Yeah.
[02:04:56]  What a, what a crazy woman.
[02:04:59]  Um, that's their only move.
[02:05:02]  Well, that's all I got on the topic.
[02:05:04]  You guys got anything else?
[02:05:06]  Um, um, yeah, you know, I women's self-help.
[02:05:12]  Well, women's nature is selfish, so their self-help is uh selfish.
[02:05:18]  Men's self-help, it's about improving everything that has to do with men's self-help is something that will that a man can invest in that that could potentially benefit others around him, him making more money, learning a skill, becoming more competent, all that stuff.
[02:05:36]  But women's is the exact opposite.
[02:05:39]  Um, and and one last thing: men, we we i honestly think that women's self-help will um women feel threatened by other women, so self-help, but they don't want to help each other because they see each other as threats.
[02:05:59]  What are your final thoughts, Sean?
[02:06:01]  Yeah, man, basically, look, women will have a lot of weight to their body, you're not really fat, you just have a lot of mass on you.
[02:06:11]  And one of the things that's important is you got to move in order to get it off of you.
[02:06:16]  Eat right, diet right, because it's not good to be fat.
[02:06:20]  Stop the coat.
[02:06:21]  Shout outs to Pearl.
[02:06:22]  Shout out to Doug.
[02:06:23]  Peace.
[02:06:24]  Thanks for calling in, both of you.
[02:06:28]  All right, guys.
[02:06:31]  Yeah, you know, women talk about loving themselves instead of losing weight, in my opinion, because we're lazy.
[02:06:44]  I really think every answer to all these questions can just be we're coping and lazy and just not as good of people as men.
[02:06:51]  So I don't say people think I'm trolling and I'm really not.
[02:06:55]  People think I hate women, kind of.
[02:06:57]  Not completely, but you know, a little bit at least.
[02:07:01]  But, you know, that's just women for you.
[02:07:03]  So like the video, subscribe to the channel.
[02:07:04]  I love you guys.
[02:07:05]  Thanks for tuning in.
[02:07:06]  Thank you for the super chats.
[02:07:07]  You guys are super generous this show.
[02:07:09]  Like seriously.
[02:07:10]  I guess no one.
[02:07:11]  Oh, darn.
[02:07:12]  I can't say the N-word today.
[02:07:14]  Oh, ah.
[02:07:17]  Oh, I'll see you in my.
[02:07:20]  I'll see you in my next.
[02:07:24]  I'll see you.
[02:07:25]  I love you guys.
[02:07:26]  Bye-bye.