The streamer dissects modern women’s domestic roles, mocking the "women make a house a home" trope as manipulative emotional labor while contrasting it with their own minimalist Barndominium. They cite examples like a WNBA player hiring a $7K/month chef and Gen Z’s shift from romance novels to AI boyfriends, framing women as sources of "drama, debt, and coup d'état." Historical claims—from 1900s Rohypnol overdoses among housewives to 1800s German misogyny—fuel their argument that men seek stability in functional spaces, not performative clutter. The episode ends with a scathing take: no modern woman matches traditional homemaking ideals, leaving homes as "prisons" unless men enforce order. [Automatically generated summary]
Some people call me a wig That's what they're talking about I don't know why you showed up to my house.
I don't know, yeah, it's been so long Sometimes you know that it feels wrong And I don't know where I'm going But I know that my true colors are showing So baby,
let's pretend where we've been doesn't matter And then we'll climb up the corporate ladder Give me a word, okay?
I'll write a song on it Sometimes okay, I need a I need a word chat.
Let's not be let's be helpful here Subconscious, Okay, so the way I think of it, I don't like red you did.
I don't like stakes you did.
I don't like the fall you did.
But tell me why I'm subconsciously, Oh, that kind of fit.
Tell me why I'm subconsciously doing it all, Oh,
you must be in my subconscious That's kind of bad Oh, you must be in my subconscious You must be in my deep down in my dreams You must be there unconscious Yeah,
You know we made the greatest team And I know that it's been a couple years, A lot of fights and a couple tears, But subconsciously I still miss you And all the things that we've been through.
But figuratively Literally Subconsciously, we're supposed to be together.
Figurative Forever00:04:12
Figuratively literally, We're supposed to make it forever.
They said right here, You were my gladiator, Always fixing the radiator, But I fucked it up, you know that's what I do.
Nobody can replace me and you three or four gotta do what they gotta do, Ho's gotta hoe,
that's how I met you Three oh fours gotta do what they gotta do Ho's gotta hoe, that's how I met you And the future is bright, we can't shake it The future is bright, they can't take it Yeah,
they think that we're a bunch of degenerates Baby, I love you so much I'd sign up, Prina Baby,
I love you so much I do all that stuff Baby, I love you so much I'd sign up prena You know that I would do that stuff Hey young nugget,
keep giving me words Holy shit, get your pitch up bitch, I'm trying Let me see you do it better, yeah, you're lying Always the critic,
but you can't do it yourself Okay, thank you Young nugget Our wedding day We came to play Look at all our friends and family We're in love, it feels like a drug Again, I'm gonna spend my life with you.
Too good to be true.
You're like the beef Wellington on top.
That's why I give you that clock lock.
If you ask me, Mary, if you ask me, male birth control is a scam.
So is this whole damn world with Iran?
Our first dance, last chance.
Our first dance, last chance.
That's how we do it.
There's something a little bit sinister to it.
Our first dance, but last chance, let's do it.
There's something a little bit sinister to it.
They don't want us together forever.
Toe tattoo dot.
They said the princess kissed the frog.
What are you doing?
Okay.
We were together and now we're not.
I guess that's what you call a breakup.
But breakup makeup, that's just how we do.
Breakup Goals Sheet00:07:49
I can't help but...
That orange in the flower, yeah, that bouquet.
James Sexton is a lawyer.
Hopefully, we don't need him.
There's potential, that's when you see him.
You can do it, show the people love.
I forgot how I loved you from above.
Men, what the fuck?
Men in cold meningitis?
Okay, what the?
I don't know what that means.
Men in cold meningitis.
Men in cold meningitis.
I know that I'm kind of frightened.
Heartfelt and genuine consistency.
Oh, oh, oh.
Okay, all right.
All right, I don't know.
No, yeah, yes, yes.
I'm waiting for my contract.
I know.
I mean, it's in the mail.
It's in the mail.
My music contract is in the mail.
I'm just waiting.
But don't let it, you know what?
Sometimes influencers, I'll tell you what.
I couldn't really play piano at all until about a year.
I started in January of not this past, but the year before.
And to the point I'm at, it's taken me like pretty much lessons every day.
Yeah.
Don't sign with a major record label.
Screw you if they ask.
I'm going.
Yeah, I'll take zero money.
I don't give a fuck.
I would do it for basically for, I would take the poverty contract just a tour.
I mean, I don't know how to run a tour.
Do you know what I mean?
Like either Doug MPA is my manager or I'm signing it.
That's it.
But every day, my goal is I want to be a really good pianist.
I'm hoping, I think it'll take me, I always think I'm going to be done sooner.
But I'm just taking the test for the second book and I'm almost finished with it.
I'm probably going to pass it.
The third book, I start, I start, I'll probably start it like in the next week.
And usually it takes me like six to eight months to do a book.
And we kind of agreed that it would take, like, I would spend like for both piano and guitar, I'd get through three books.
Although sometimes I get through it and then I want to learn more.
I'm kind of like that.
So, cause I really think I got, I love music and I just know if I could get, if I could, my brain like hears songs, but I can't play them.
And there's just like a gap.
Like I hear them in my head.
I can't play them on the piano.
And I know one day I'm going to figure out how to mix on the computer and write the songs on the piano.
And I'm going to produce music.
But usually like women have men do that for them.
Well, men are teaching me, right?
But at some point, I'm going to get a producer in here to teach me how to produce too.
I know guitar.
Do you guys want to fuck it?
Let's do guitar today too.
No, Okay.
I know how to play guitar though.
So I'm almost through the theory.
Let me let me I have it on my goals sheet.
I have a goals sheet that I just keep as a working Google Doc personally.
But I kind of see it as an investment into the show because I'd like to not torture you guys as much in the intro.
And I would love to bring in other celebrities or like internet celebrities in here.
Like imagine if I could have Nick Fuentes produce a diss track in here.
How funny that would be.
Maybe it can't be him because he's too controversial, but like imagine Megan Callie, Tucker Carlson, Candace owns her beef.
And I'm like, guys, why don't you come in here and do a diss track?
You know what I mean?
Wouldn't that be pretty cool?
So a goals sheet.
Well, I don't know.
I just like to get through certain stuff.
So I've gotten through, if anyone cares, I'm going to tell you anyway.
So I've gotten through anyone that knows music theory.
Wait, let me find it.
I swear I had it in a Google Doc.
Well.
Well, maybe it was in my notebook.
Hold on.
Yeah, these are my books.
Every day I get up, I do a lesson.
Men are smarter than me.
They can teach themselves.
Me, not as, oh, here it is.
So I want to get through majors, minors, harmonic minors, melodic, pentatonic, blues scales.
I'm on harmonic minors, but everyone gets easier to do, I guess.
Oh my God, harmonic minors were like the death of me.
Anybody that knows music theory, that was so hard for me.
The freaking skipping, oh my God, backwards alphabet.
My guitar teacher asked me if I was dyslexic, and I'm like, I don't think so.
I think I'm just retarded.
Yeah. Yeah.
Train my ears.
Well, I don't know.
Well, I think that we're going to have that in.
I have major, minors, and blues.
That's all you need.
Okay.
Well, I appreciate your opinion, but you're just a random person on YouTube.
Do you know what I mean?
So anyways, so I view it because I'm like.
if I learn the theory, then I'll know it forever.
That's my thought.
understand you don't need to know it all to do like pop songs and stuff but i just think it's like better to know it now and then i'm done with it and i'm done with this bullshit um i'm also a rock star who was taught by a hall of famer It's like, well, how do I know that?
Do you know what I mean?
Like, I'm an astronaut.
Talking Music Theory00:05:56
Anyone can say things, guys.
Anybody can say anything.
Do you know what I mean?
It's like, okay, are you going to come teach me?
No.
All right.
Then what's the like, what is your opinion?
Help me.
Are you going to teach me whatever, like the quicker way to do it?
No, you're not here.
Oh, just your opinion?
All right.
Well, you know, anyone can say anything.
It's just like, I've been working on my Facebook marketplace.
That's pretty exciting.
I sold a few things.
A lot of people said people will say they're on their way and they don't come.
I haven't had that experience yet.
Let's see.
Oh, but I take, I'm selling a dresser over there if anyone's in Dallas.
You know what I mean?
When are you jumping into politics?
Why would you want a woman to run for office?
I'm still a woman.
Like, I mean, this is what I can tell sometimes that guys in the chat, you're not there yet.
There's no such thing as a special woman.
If the word is woman, you do you want me to have the nuke button on my period?
Really?
Is that a good idea?
Is that a good idea?
Let's give Earl when she's pissed on her period.
Let's give her the nuke button.
Let's give her the button to nuke another country.
Hold on.
I'm going to, oh my God, I'm not going to be taller.
Spite, like I had the same attitude when I started playing.
Okay, like, are you gonna, are you gonna teach me or no?
That's like, that's my question.
I do not, you don't need to learn it.
It will come with playing, believe it or not.
I'm giving you the shortcuts I wish I had.
Okay, but the thing is, like, you have to teach me the shortcuts.
It's like, all right, yeah, you gotta, I don't know.
Like, are you in Texas?
Are you gonna teach me?
No, you play guitar on a piano.
Theory is not.
Well, I don't know.
I'm just trying to get through.
I feel like I can get through this stuff in like six months.
And then, like, I don't know.
We'll see.
My other goal is: I'm trying to hit my splits.
I recently started training like these weird muscles to try to get my splits, and it might help.
I'll keep you posted.
I'm teaching you.
Put the book down, put on music, train your ear to play what you hear.
I don't know if I could do that.
I could try, but oh my God.
I don't know.
feel like there's no downside to learning, right?
Okay, we're getting off topic.
You, you, you, I'm very interested in this music stuff.
I'm very interested in the music stuff.
So, my thought, hold on.
Well, I'm pretty much out.
Oh my God, I hit the god.
Okay.
Um, here we go.
The I hit my chair.
We're gonna redo this room soon.
Um, we now have a music studio in this room, which is very exciting.
Um, but we need a chair, so we're gonna redo a few things.
I'm very excited for it.
There are no serious musicians that don't know music.
See, now they're fighting in the chat.
You see, I don't know.
Um, you can okay.
Well, I'm already three books into guitar.
So I'm doing like the review now.
Like basically, we go through the books and then we review this stuff.
And then like, if he says it's good enough, then I can like, I take a test on the book.
And then if I pass it, then I'm done.
So right now I'm doing the review on the third book for guitar.
So I've kind of made it.
I've made it through, uh, and I'm on the second, I'm about, I'm taking the test on the second book for piano.
So I'm like, I made it this far.
I might as well just finish the three books.
You know what I mean?
Setting Screens for Giga Chads00:14:24
I don't know.
I just feel like I'm too close to getting through these scales.
You guys are going to, I love talking about music.
I love talking about music.
So you're going to, you're going to draw me back in.
You're going to draw me back in.
Like, okay, the major, minor, and harmonic to me, I kind of understand the concepts of, oh, I've done, yeah, like, I feel like I've gotten through the hardest major, like the major, minor, harmonic.
Melodic, pentatonic, and blues scales aren't that different than the other three.
I don't know.
I don't know.
You guys are kind of drawing me in.
Okay, I'm devastated.
So I love my gym, right?
My gym is like my happy place.
I love going to the gym.
My gym is kind of like a club at certain hours.
I'm not even going to lie to you.
It's like sometimes it's like naked women and a DJ and a billionaire that go to my gym.
But that's not why I like it.
I mean, it's like a good bonus, right?
Who doesn't like naked women?
One in the chat if you like naked women, right?
A lot of women complain, but as long as there's no kids around, I really don't have a problem with women being naked.
I think there's environments where it's like, well, you know.
Yeah.
So, but the reason I picked the gym is it is everything I like.
Okay.
It has, I personally weightlift, but I don't do anything too complicated.
So it doesn't have a ton of like weights, but it has the stuff I need, which is, you know, deadlift, hip thrust, squat racks, hack squat.
You know, Sometimes I have to wait for a machine, but I don't really mind.
The reason I picked my gym is it is a basketball.
I love basketball and volleyball, and it has both at my gym.
And they play in the middle of the day, which is way better because I can go at like noon.
I can do my sport and come back, right?
On top of that, if I want, there's I can get my hair cut.
There's a stretch place if I want.
I don't do Pilates, but it's there.
I like that the options are there.
There's classes.
Yeah, there's coffee.
I think I don't, there's, I don't know, I love that gym.
And today, but the main reason I love the gym is the basketball court because I can play basketball and volleyball.
Those are my two favorite sports.
And today, I got devastating news.
I'm devastated.
Guess what they're taking away?
Put it in the chat.
Guess what they're taking away?
They're getting rid of the basketball court and adding more weights.
Why?
Why would they do this to me?
I know this is first world problems.
You're probably thinking, Pearl, we don't.
I'm going to complain anyway.
I'm going to complain anyway.
There is a sauna.
I don't really use it, but I know.
I know.
I'm like, now I'm, I have to do the treadmill.
Women at the gym are why I don't go to the gym.
I understand that, honestly.
I look around and I'm like, I'm at the gym.
And I'm like, I understand why men don't like they avoid the gym.
I really do.
But I love that gym.
It is my favorite adult daycare for women.
I love it.
I love it.
Nobody's going to, nobody's going to shame me into not loving that gym, but now I'm sad.
Yeah, because there's like, it's not a cheap gym.
It's like an expensive gym.
So, yeah, because when you go to outdoor gyms, that's when Tyrone shows up.
And Tyrone like smells like weed.
And, you know, they get the ghettos all start arguing.
I mean, sometimes the ghettos make it into the nice gyms.
I see that at times.
Usually with money they don't have, right?
But there's still some barrier, you know.
It's like a ghettos that, you know, made money, right?
Now, I wouldn't say Tyrone's really my type.
It's more like what is it?
What is like the black nerd?
Like a nerdy nerdy.
What do you call it Malcolm?
Probably Malcolm, that's more my type.
Um, what's wrong with smelling like weed?
Well, that's the problem, Urkel.
Yeah, Clarence, Yeah, you guys are coming up with some names.
No, I'm never coming back to the UK.
I'm sorry.
That, yeah, there's too many Muslims there for me.
No, thank you.
I should have left way sooner if I'm being honest.
$20 super chat.
Okay, big balla.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Today I got Chipotle, so I didn't continue my cooking thing, but God, the burrito after I played basketball for a bit and it just hit the spot.
You know, men are so nice.
Men are just like the nicest people, right?
So I was playing basketball today.
I was playing basketball and I'm taking shots, whatever.
And it's so nice.
I really, I never insert myself into basketball.
I only really try to do it if there's, they need a person.
But, you know, like guys like to play with guys.
So I think it's actually nice of them to let me play, right?
Because it's mostly dudes.
If there's, I wish there was more girls there that knew how to play because I'd love to go up against a girl, right?
But so anyways, I'm playing basketball and I actually had a few shots today and I'm going up for a layup and I see this giant, this giant guy.
He's like the 6'4 mega giga chad, right?
Whatever at my gym.
And I see him coming behind me for the layup.
And I'm like, I'm about to get my shit rocked.
He's about to knock the ball out of my hand, like this layup.
There's no way I'm going to get this up, you know, because I stole the ball and I'm like, going.
And he didn't end up.
I saw him slow down and let me get the layup.
And I thought about it.
What happens is women, that happens.
Me, I'm grateful that he didn't rock my shit, right?
Because he absolutely could have just rocked my shit.
Like, oh my God, I was so, I was going up and I'm like, ah, you know what I mean?
I'm going up and I'm like, I'm out, bro.
I don't want to.
You know how it is when you got a steal and you're going for the layup, but another $20, you shouldn't have.
And that's happened to me before.
Like one time I have learned, okay, I play pickup with guys and I've learned there's a certain level of play I'm gonna sit out.
Okay.
If there's two or three, like if there's up to four giga chads on the on the court, and this is like six two plus built men that play, okay, I am not playing if there's more than like four, okay.
But like I can kind of keep up against the less like athletic guys.
Um, I mean, they're probably being nice, like, let's just be honest, they're probably like just like the Giga Chad was.
But, and, but if I go onto the court and I see too many Giga Chads, I just think, oh no, I'm not, I'm not getting hurt today.
And it's because one day, I'm going to tell you, I fucked around and found out.
This happened a few months ago.
So a few months ago, I went into basketball.
I went into a basketball game.
And again, the way I rate it, I can usually keep up with men that are a little bit older or didn't actually play.
I can usually somewhat keep up, right?
They didn't play in high school.
They kind of, you know, the Indian guys, like, let's just be at the Pajites.
I can kind of, I mean, come on, I can go one-on-one with a Pajit, you know.
So I forgot what I was talking about.
Oh my God, this is so bad.
Why do I do this for a living?
Oh, so, but this is before I learned my limits.
And I'll tell you how I learned my limit.
So I played in a game, and this game had one former NBA player in it, a few Giga Chads, right?
And I'm going up against, I'm guarding the old guy, a 50, what the hell?
You guys are like generous today.
I'm guarding this old guy.
So it's like fine, right?
Because I'm going up against the old guy.
But even when you're in a game with a bunch of Giga Chads, you know, you set or you set screens, or at least I was a center trained as a center.
So I learned how to set screens.
And that was like, that's actually what I was best at in school.
I would set like a mean screen.
I would be a freaking wall.
Like I used to box girls out and they would just like fall, right?
So, anyways, I set this screen for this, like our best player, but our best player is obviously being guarded by a Giga Chad because obviously your best player is going to be guarded by the and so I'm setting the screen to get him open.
And this guy, I don't think he saw that it was me, right?
I don't think he saw that I was the one screening him because men, like, they just tend to take it easy on women, right?
They just tend to, they don't really want to hurt you.
It's like kind of a lose-lose.
That's why I really now, I only, I only, there's only certain games I'll insert myself into.
Because what happened was I set this screen and I got my shit rocked.
I, this guy hit me so hard, I like bounced.
I'm gonna, I'm gonna send, I'm gonna, I think I tweeted this video.
Oh my God, it hurt so bad.
I just got up and I was very intentional to say I'm fine, I'm fine.
But what I wanted to say was, this hurt so bad.
And I literally did not play basketball for like two months because it was so painful.
Oh my God, it was so painful.
I fucked around and found out I had no one to blame but myself.
I had no one to blame but myself.
You want to play with the boys?
This is what happens when you play with the boys.
It's tough though, as a girl that really enjoys sports.
I prefer playing against women.
I don't enjoy, like, I don't want to play against men.
I have no interest in playing against men.
But women just, they don't want to just hang out and play basketball.
They want to hang out and get coffee.
Do you know what my life was like?
Here, I have a video of it.
All right, here.
I'm going to, I'm going to show this.
This was me fucking around and finding out.
Okay.
All right.
So here I am.
I'm, if you see, I'm on the right.
This is from an iPhone.
So this is the Giga Chat.
You see, this is like a 6-4 GigaChat.
I'm trying to get this guy open.
And I was like, I'm fine, but oh my God, that hurt.
Yeah, and it wasn't like if you look, see, this guy's older.
Like, it wasn't like that.
Like, but I learned my lesson, okay?
The Giga Chads, I get the fuck out of their way.
If there is, if they're driving in the middle of the court for a layup, go right ahead, sir.
Do you want, did you want right or left side?
Did you want, which way did you want to go?
The old guys, I mean, I'll, I'll go up with the Pajits I'll go up against, but nope, uh, nope.
I don't think he saw it was me.
I'm going to be honest.
I don't think he saw with, yeah, I, but did you see how big that dude was?
Because I'm six feet.
So, like, if I'm six feet and that guy is that much bigger than me, that's a big dude.
now.
Thank you, Phil.
Thank you.
Yeah, I mean, that hurt.
That hurt like a mof.
Like, so there's certain levels that I just, yeah, today I fell too.
I think there's like a bruise coming in, but it was okay.
It was, it was not that bad.
It was not the giga chads, the giant ass dudes.
Cooking Changes Lives00:11:01
They can just go right ahead.
You can go right ahead.
I mean, left, left, left hook, right hook, what you want.
It's not like I could stop you anyway.
I might as well just get out of the way anyways.
You know what I mean?
All right, let's go through my Twitter.
Let's go through my Twitter today.
Before we get into the topic that I wanted to rant about, you know, I'm a ranter.
You know, ranting is cute on stream, but can you imagine day to day?
Sometimes I just want to rant about things and I have nobody listen to me.
And the people that do listen to me, it's like, they're like, why are you talking this long?
I'm like, oh, apparently this woman, I didn't know I was pregnant, but at least my baby got to midnight sun before I aborted it.
So like, you know, a lot of times they say women have abortions because they're so broke.
What the, you guys are like balling.
My dad passed on Christmas Eve.
I think about him every day.
He is my hero.
Like my dad is to you.
Two days later, his ex-girlfriend claimed they were married to try to take his retirement women.
Isn't that incredible?
I fear the day that happened.
I know I will most likely outlive my father, but sometimes I hope I die first because I think I'll be utterly, I can't even, I get, I get like emotional thinking about that.
I can't even, I don't even like the thought, you know, whenever that happens, I'm going to be dead.
I'm going to like, I probably will just be like destroyed.
Performance and you killed it after the performance.
Isn't that incredible?
Yeah.
So women, again, don't have to be brainwashed into having abortions.
They just want to do it.
RFK apparently is announcing that HHH has a new initiative to teach Americans how to cook again.
Every American can feed themselves cheaper than fast food.
Many of them don't have the cutlery.
They don't have the pots and the pans.
They don't have the cutting boards and they don't know how to shop.
One of the things that we're talking about now with HHH is to use the commission corpse or other groups within our agency to go out and actually teach people how to cook.
I actually would love this.
I mean, there's not really an excuse.
I didn't know how to cook a few years ago, and now I've come to be like a decent cook.
But if we're going to be honest, it's all on YouTube.
So, like, because the thing is, like, my mom, I mean, her cooking was, like, Costco meals reheated, right?
She would cook for like big events, but day to day, she didn't, she didn't teach me any like female skills because my mom was gone a lot, right?
She kind of gave us to nannies to like raise us.
And, you know, you know, but I can, you know, what's so crazy when I say that, I can like hear her in my head saying, no, I didn't.
And I'm like, well, I could hear, you know, isn't that, isn't that crazy?
You could hear your mother like in your head gaslighting you.
Like, isn't that crazy?
Like, even when you're an adult, you still hear your mom in your head gaslighting you.
Anyways, but I honestly feel like cooking kind of changes your life.
It's like kind of a great space.
You can just chill out.
You can eat healthier.
It's just so every American can feed themselves cheaper than fast food.
One of the challenges that we're facing and that we're working on all kinds of innovative devices to solve is that Americans have forgotten how to cook.
The convenience of fast food is one of the things that attracts them.
And many of them don't have the cutlery.
They don't have the pots and pans.
They don't have the cutting boards.
And they don't know how to shop.
And one of the things that we're talking about now to HHS is to use the commission core or other.
Yeah, because sometimes you just want someone to sit down and teach it to you.
You know, I would love that.
I would, I would, I would take that.
I want someone to teach me how to chop better because I just, my chopping skills, I just cannot chop super fine.
Groups within our age just need to go out.
Yeah, because what we're seeing is, you know, they act like the women, like boomer women were really actually not that great of mothers.
They, a lot of them threw us in daycare.
They wouldn't be stay-at-home moms.
They wanted to do all this bullshit instead of watch their kids.
So none of us knew, like, none of us, it's crazy because most men have life skills because their father taught them stuff, but most kids don't have like women's job life skills.
Chloe Kardashian basically admits that she just wanted a sperm donor, not a father.
Look, what's the hardest part of co-parenting?
The hardest part of co-parenting is, I'm sure this is going to sound nuts, but like, I just think they're mine.
Like, I'm like, I have to run this by someone else and get permission.
Like, cause I, in my head, like, obviously that's the right thing to do.
And of course, my kids have a dad, but in my head, I'm like, but I'm the mom.
Like, I would never do anything to hurt my kids, put them in harm's way.
Like, that's how I think.
And Tristan knows that.
And Tristan is like great with like trusting me with it.
Like, he knows who I am as a parent, but it's still a struggle for me sometimes that I have to remind myself, oh, yeah, I have to ask for permission.
Oh, okay.
I have to get this letter signed because he is the dad.
If I want to take them out of the country, he has to like sign a waiver.
It's just like, they're mine.
Like, that's just how I feel in my head.
So for me, that's the hardest part.
Hold on.
All right.
Yeah.
So yeah, women don't want fathers.
They want sperm donors.
Okay.
So this is a WNBA player admitting that she spent more than her WNBA salary on getting a cook.
And this is kind of what I'm predicting is the high status women are just going to hire things that they can't afford for basic life skills they don't have.
I had a chef that was period.
No, that was way too.
Do you want to know what she was charging me for one month?
How much?
Seven grand.
Cameron brink.
I know.
Absurd.
Cameron brink.
Absurd.
For two people, for Benjamin and I. For three meals or just seven meals.
No, not even for three meals.
She was like shopping at Erewhon, though.
That was, that was the issue.
Stay away from Erwan.
Fuck that place.
Actually, I love Erwan.
Sorry.
Yeah.
So she's high status, right?
And so she's going to spend all of her, like, she's probably making social media money.
And then on top of that, like WNBA money.
So now she's like an influencer.
So now she's, and she's good looking, right?
So she's high status.
And while she's high status, she's going to have servants, you know?
So I'm like, that's a treat for me though.
I'm like, my contract is 70K.
We cannot be doing that is more.
That is more than my salary.
That is more than my salary.
That's insane.
No, and it was, we started right when I got hurt.
She's a great person by the way.
You're like, ma'am, I have a membership at Costco.
Like, I'm going to go to Costco.
I'm going to go to In N Out.
I need, I'm on a weight gain program anyway.
So let's just go to In N Out.
I'm going to wait.
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
So it's kind of validating what I was saying.
One of the people at my gym does a car detailing service, and I was like, see, and my gym's expensive.
You got to make decent money to go there.
So I told my girlfriend I wanted three kids to have a legacy.
She asked me to name my great-grandparents.
Oh my gosh.
Gen Z women, 74% of Gen Z women read books.
The category breakdown, 70% of consumption is romance is the top for ages 18 to 24, 40 plus percent engagement, fantasy, 40 to 50 percent.
Thriller and crime is leading overall.
Contemporary literacy and memoirs is rising, especially on women and girlhood.
Nonfiction, 20 to 30%, mainly psychology, self-help, and personal growth.
Overall, women read fiction 47% rate versus men's 28% rate.
Basically, women are checking out of dating and checking into fantasy porn books, AI boyfriends, online attention, and vibrators.
I know they talk about sex bots for men, and I'm like, do you know what?
Women have the big sex bots.
Women have vibrators.
Like, isn't that kind of a sex bot?
Okay, well.
All right.
That's all I got on Twitter today.
Maybe I'll read your comments from last show.
Let me see.
There's any comments I want to read.
Eggs is a great breakfast.
You're singing destroyed my life.
All right, rude.
Rockefeller didn't brainwash women.
He gave them an excuse and reason to act how they wanted.
Torches for freedom, smoking campaign.
They just need an excuse.
Yeah.
The no-wheel thing has more to do with the lack of domesticatable animals.
I can barely read.
That's so sad.
For example, the Ancas had wheels only for their children's toys because the largest domesticated domesticable animal was the llama.
They had nothing to pull the wheel.
People will not stop calling me.
Leave me alone.
I'm not buying a house.
I'm not buying a house.
Stop calling.
stop calling me um you guys like the history lesson They said the guy sounded like an alien, but he's smart.
This is what I love about men.
Men can like overcome.
Women, if you sound weird or look off or whatever, they just criticize you till the end of time.
But the guys are like, oh, you're pretty smart.
Pearl, don't quit your day job to be a rock star.
I support Pearl the morning person Early bird catches the fly.
Women Better At Cooking?00:15:06
I get up at 5 a.m. without fail.
If I go to bed late, which is rare, I'm usually in bed by nine.
I've been doing this since 2016.
I love the quiet and unhurried, yet productive mornings, and then the chill slowly winding down in the afternoon.
Okay.
All right.
That's that's all I got for the comments from last year.
Okay.
Let's talk about women making a house at home.
So the last few years, I've been trying to find anything women are better than men at.
Anything.
And my journey started a few years ago when I sort of realized, and you don't realize this as a woman.
And I think men must realize this earlier than women, that women have a lot of useless jobs.
And essentially, I had to go through a red pilling of my life.
And a lot of women go through this.
Actually, they don't because they're delusional.
But where I realized that most of my accomplishments in life were merely because I was a woman, not because I was that talented, important, or special.
Now, I could go early into my life.
I was really into sports, right?
And so I actually went to state for volleyball when I was a sophomore.
My senior year, we went to super.
We were one game away from going to state.
We were regional champs for basketball.
I went on to play volleyball in college.
I got freshman of the year, all conference for volleyball.
I transferred to another school.
We made it to the NCAAs twice, made it to 19th in the country for division three.
I ended up going overseas, playing semi-pro volleyball, semi-pro basketball, also.
And so I obviously spent hundreds and hundreds of hours of my life playing volleyball and basketball.
I really cared about the sport.
And I think there were things that were good for me, you know, about it.
It taught me to follow instructions.
It taught me to get along with people.
It taught me to work towards a goal.
But there was a day when I woke up and I realized all my brothers are more athletic than me, but they have less accolodes because I'm in a fake league.
It's all fake, right?
It shouldn't exist.
If we really were having sports based on merit, none of this would be here.
And I also had to reflect back on my sales career.
I wasn't even the best at sales, but I remember like kind of walking into the office and some of the men making comments that I was getting special treatment.
At the time, I thought that I was just super smart and hardworking because I do work hard and I do try.
I think it's apparent to the audience that I do try at things if you've been watching me for a while.
But in all honesty, I don't think I would have been given the best sales territory at the time if I wasn't a 22-year-old hottie.
If I may say so, my I was a little chubby hottie, but I was still a hottie.
You know what I mean?
Who's not a little hot at 2020, 22, you know, as a woman?
So I kept going, right?
I kept going and I went overseas.
I played volleyball semi-pro and I had one of the biggest YouTube channels in the United States.
When I started my YouTube, I got on Pierce Morgan.
I got, but I started kind of looking at my male counterparts, right?
And my male counterparts, like one, let's say, is Terrence Popp.
He covers a lot of the same issues as me.
I've made more money online than Terrence, even though Terrence is a 30-year war, like he's a veteran.
He is not, he doesn't just talk about the system.
He's lived it, right?
He, his ex-wife killed his fucking dog.
Who knows more about these issues than Terrence?
And a lot of times he'll help me out.
He'll give me like, we, he helped me prep for my debate with Anna.
And a lot of the best lines were really from him or from Nuke, right?
So, you know, there's a point where I'm like, do you know what?
I think a lot of the, it's not really fair, but as a young woman, you're entered into the high status and men just have to work 10 times as hard to get the same things that you do.
And it doesn't mean we hate women.
It doesn't mean we can really change the system or you shouldn't accept opportunities that come your way.
But we do have to be real about the fact that as women, we're just kind of given things, you know, and this kind of goes for all the, I'm going to use conservative commentators just because I'm in this industry and I know all of them.
Candace Owens, not nearly as smart as Ben Shapiro, her male counterpart, right?
She's kind of lost in this conspiracy theory nonsense, even if you're kind of buying that.
You know, Ben Shapiro had to be a high-end lawyer.
She just was a black girl with conservative ideas, you know.
And that's kind of Brett Cooper, same thing.
You know, all the women in media, I'm not special or different.
All women, it's just, you know, it's like a different, it's kind of like the special Olympics.
Everyone knows we're not as good, but it's still kind of inspiring to see women go.
You know, it's kind of inspiring to see the guy with the one leg like hobble across the finish line.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, it's still nice to see, you know.
So I'm not saying we eliminate it completely, but we have to be aware that that's where we're at in life.
You know, this isn't to hate women.
It's not to say that some women aren't there because of merit.
But it's really just the only women.
And I was thinking about Trump's press secretaries.
The only press secretary I thought was that good was that fat, ugly one.
Do you know what I'm talking about?
I was like, do you know what?
She might be there on merit, but if they're not fat and ugly, I mean, look at this, you know, you know, I mean, you're probably being given special treatment, you know.
And again, it's, it's really, it's not to say that we, there's no talent.
It's just to say that, you know, we're kind of being given help.
And just over the years, I've kind of all the things they say that women are good at.
I've just sort of kind of tackled them one by one.
So, you know, when I first got into the space, everyone said women are great mothers and they're really nurturing and they just have this special attachment to children.
And I thought about it and I'm like, well, if women love children so much, why do they keep sending them to daycare?
And why do women keep signing up for anything else rather than be a mother?
Women would rather solo travel than be a mother.
Women would rather travel for work than stay home with their kids.
Women would rather like, I mean, like be an obuela.
Like, I know a woman that chose being a nanny to other people's kids and putting her kids in daycare.
Do you know what I mean?
I'm like, why is it that I don't really see women get joy from watching kids?
What I see them get joy from is the attention the kids get.
You know what I mean?
Like, you ever like with your mother, when people come over, then all of the sudden she's like very loving with you and you're like, bitch, bitch.
What the fuck?
Do you know what I mean?
It's like, you know, you're like posing for your mom's Facebook and you're like, why don't I get this attention off camera?
Do you know what I mean?
It's like, and the mothers will be bitches to you behind the scenes.
Then they'll pick up the phone and they'll have a completely different voice.
And the kids are like, my nick.
So, you know, it's just not what I'm seeing.
And I started looking into the stats.
And it turns out, and it didn't shock me at all, mothers are more likely to be negligent towards their kids, abuse kids.
Mothers are more likely to like, I just don't really think women seem to be like loving in any way.
Like even to their boyfriends and their husbands, women just they tend to like the wedding.
And that's why, you know, I don't really care about women being married.
I think people just like having status.
So all it is is status.
It's like fighting for status.
Because I'm like, what's the point of marriage if most of the women getting married aren't even wives?
Like they're like terrible wives.
Because I just don't think women really have like love to give.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, I just don't see it.
I don't see, I don't see women like loving towards their dogs.
I don't see women being loving towards their children.
And everyone fights.
They say it's just the women you know.
And I'm like, well, where do you want me to go?
Because pretty much every girl I knew growing up, their dad was way cooler than their mom.
Like not even close.
Not even close.
Like their dad was, even if the mother did like their best to like kill the dad's reputation.
I remember there's one girl, my mom would always tell me, like, her dad was an alcoholic and abusive, and blah, The mother of this girl ended up cheating, right?
But even before that, you know, I'd met the mother, met the father.
The dad was so chill.
He was so chill.
And I'm like, what did this man do?
You know, the mother was kind of chill too, but like, you could kind of see how she would, because women, it's like they're kind of chill, but like they're also, you're like, oh, I could see why you're like the worst ever.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, I could see why you torture everybody behind closed doors.
The right good path, a little something towards your new house down payment.
Pearl, women are better at saying a lot at one time that mean absolutely nothing.
Yeah, that's another thing.
Like, I'm really tired.
If even Myron says this, and I'd like to, someone should clip this and tag Myron.
Because I think I've heard, you know, Myron say that women are more socially aware.
I don't agree.
I don't agree at all.
Because when I look at women, women maybe say more.
They're less like afraid to say things, but it's because we have tits and men, men let us get away with more.
I don't think women are socially superior.
I think men are better at reading a room.
I think men are better at like picking up on signal.
Like, have you ever seen a woman flirting with a guy who's just not interested?
Like, I think men pick up on a woman not being interested way faster than vice versa.
Maybe when men are younger, they don't pick up on it, but usually another dude will be like, hey, what the fuck?
Like, she doesn't like you, you stupid simp, you know?
And then guys will learn.
$5 super.
Thank you.
Thank you.
And, you know, over the years, I just kept hearing these things that women are like good at.
And every one of them, I just keep going through and I'm like, I don't think so.
Like, they say women are better at accounting.
Well, if women are better at like, they would say you should have a woman.
I think I've heard Erin Clary say that.
Women are better at accounting.
They're better at details.
I don't think so.
If women were better at details, like I've never really known women that budget.
They wouldn't have so much debt, right?
I can't, I'm, I'm, I'm out of luck.
I got nothing.
I have nothing I can think of that we're good at.
So, you know, back in London, you know, I would ask a lot of women what they bring to the table in relationships.
And I wish I was as good at cooking now because a lot of women said they could cook back.
Even I said I could cook back then, but it's not until you learn to cook that you realize you couldn't cook at all before.
I thought I could cook because I could cook like three meals.
Now I could cook like 20 meals, right?
And I'm like, I couldn't cook it all.
I'm still getting there, but do you know what I'm saying?
So I kept going, right?
And this one thing I heard is that women make a house a home.
And I'm like, what does that mean?
A woman, you make a house a home.
Okay, most mothers bring problems into the home.
They bring their emotions.
Everybody has to like tiptoe around the mother's emotion.
Like even earlier, I was thinking about it.
I'm like, I can't even say that I was raised by nannies, right?
That my mother worked and the nannies did that job without being scared of my mom.
Isn't that crazy?
Isn't that insane?
It's like, well, I can't even talk about it.
So that's really what mothers do.
They bring in, and it's all women, right?
I certainly bring my emotions home to, I'm not special.
I'm not different, right?
But sometimes even I observe myself where I'm like, damn.
But I just try to call it how I see it.
So making a house a home.
And I was thinking about when women decorate houses, like it's just usually a bunch of useless shit that we don't need.
It's like a bunch of kitchen appliances women don't need.
It's a bunch of throat pillows we don't need.
It's ways to decorate and make things look better, even though it serves practically the same purpose, right?
Practically the same purpose.
And so I saw this guy on Instagram and he basically builds a man's dream home.
And I just thought to myself, I think that kids would like this house better than anything a woman would design.
Okay.
Okay, wait, let me hold on.
Keep going.
If you remember, kitchen appliances that are never used.
Feel free to add in black women being argumentative and coping again.
Thank you for proving my point.
It's just, yeah, it's just incredible.
Thank you.
I love it when black women come in and argue.
They like come in, right?
The black women come in and they say, not all women.
You're just talking about yourself.
You're talking about yourself.
And I'm like, really?
Argumentative black woman right there.
Right there.
Thank you for proving my point.
We do need those damn pillows.
Women don't even realize when men aren't interested.
Yeah.
Like, I honestly, I don't, I don't think women read the room better.
I don't think, I don't think anything, right?
don't think anything.
So anyways, I saw this thing on Instagram and I'm like, if women make a house a home, then men make a house a fucking kingdom or a castle.
Cause this is way cooler.
And this is actually my dad designed something similar to this.
And this is like the coolest thing ever.
Men Make Castles00:10:19
Okay.
Complicate everything and men keep things simple.
Barnum names are simple.
And don't let a woman try to convince you that she wants to move out to the country.
That's a lie.
Why?
You want some eggs?
You want to build you a fancy chicken coop, Rachel?
Is that what it is?
And please don't get me started on horses.
Horse shit and horse stalls?
Uh-uh.
Men want big shops like this.
We want Piranha ironworkers, plasma tables.
We want fork trucks.
Like, by the way, I am forklift certified.
Tell your mom.
And did you know that the average vet bill for a horse is $1,000?
Are you kidding me?
Listen, if Michelle de Chevelle needs a new motor in her and your horse has a broken leg, I'm putting your horse down.
And why are women always washing towels?
I don't get it.
I'm clean.
It's clean.
It's basically clean forever.
Who's with me on this one?
Women want a formal dining room for what?
What a waste of space.
And don't ask me if I make my bed.
I keep that thing in ready position.
Tell your mom.
It's exactly how I rolled out of it this morning.
It's exactly how I'm getting back in.
And I've got the perfect pillow to blanket ratio.
I don't have to kick off a bunch of decorative pillows at night only to put it back on in the morning.
That makes no sense.
Guys, what am I missing?
Put it down in the comments.
Like, subscribe, and share this with your friends.
Hold on.
He's going to, he has more videos.
This wasn't the one I thought it was here.
Getting divorced.
Time to build that Barndominium.
Let's face it, guys.
She was never going to live out in the country, or a 10 can like this, much less.
Let you have a half acre pond with a death trap.
1991 vintage jet ski hide your moms.
A full-size gym and not a CrossFit gym.
We might be divorced like, let's just be real, what?
What would a kid rather have, right?
What would a kid rather have?
Would a kid rather have um, would it?
Would a kid rather have throat pillows or the stuff this guy's gonna show?
But we're still straight, smoky old fashions at 10 a.m cheers.
Oh, and her new boyfriend Chad, I guarantee he doesn't have a 4 500 square foot shop with all the room for activities and toys right bigfoot.
So if you like this kind of Lifestyle, maybe it's a sign to build a barn to menium, or maybe it's just a major sign that you're a raging alcoholic and you have been the problem the entire time.
And maybe you should get some major counseling, medication, even.
But just remember, it takes two to ruin a marriage.
It's usually her and her mom, but let her know as many times as you can whenever you get the opportunity.
Actually, it does help.
So, if you like this kind of content, like, subscribe.
Look at this guy commented.
He said, I love my wife.
I love my wife.
How long will it take to fill up this pond?
Let me give you some details.
Rim to rim on the length, we're 250 foot, and on the width, we're 80 feet.
On the deep end, we're approximately 10 feet deep.
And on the shallow end, women want these huge ass houses, right?
And that take forever to maintain and take care of.
Men just want the simplest thing.
Like they say, women are neater than men.
I don't even think that.
I don't think women are neater because if we were neater, like I think women will waste time cleaning things that don't need to be cleaned.
The black girl saying, I'm not just black.
Well, the black is showing.
The black is showing, right?
You don't need a lot to have the behaviors.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
Oh, wait, wrong one.
And we're about four foot deep.
The surface area comes out to about 20,000 square foot.
That's about a half acre.
And in the upstate of South Carolina, we have an evaporation rate of about 4,000 to 9,000 gallons a day.
That's a lot.
A well at about 11 gallons per minute.
So a real important factor is that we will not be losing any water to ground because we will be using this 36 millimeter liner.
Now that's about 2,800 pounds.
It got delivered on a semi-truck.
I had to lift it off with the telehandler right there.
And I have no idea how we're going to unroll it.
Harambe or Punch, which was the sadder story?
Who cares?
I built this Barnuminium for less than $400,000 and I wasn't abandoned.
The number one question I get, gosh, this thing is annoying to carry.
No wonder why your mom got rid of you.
The number one question I get is about the floor plan.
Everybody wants to see my floor plan.
Guys, I didn't have a floor plan.
I drew this on the back of a napkin, made a ton of mistakes.
I've got 4,500 square foot out there in the shop.
That's where I run my business, Fab Tech Solutions.
And I have 3,000 square foot on the living quarters.
It's two stories, by the way.
I got a full gym on this side.
On the other side is my office area.
Upstairs, two studio apartments.
Let's go take a look at mine.
If you're new to the channel and you haven't seen my 750 square foot executive suite, tell your mom here it is.
Tongue and groove on the ceiling, stained tongue and groove, black on the wall.
Love it.
Got the king-size bed, got the full kitchen over here, got the bathroom, got plenty of loft space up there.
But listen, guys, I post like imagine being a kid and you get to go in the loft.
Like, I think Kanye's kids were saying they liked his apartment better than Kim's house.
These videos to be totally transparent and help you with your build and help you live life on your terms to be happy and help others.
So, if you like this kind of if she's a nurse, paralegal, or a school teacher, she's definitely cheating on you.
Let me show you your future.
Come on, buddy, it'll be okay.
So, while she's secretly looking for an attorney, you should be looking for land.
Time to build that barn dominion.
The first thing you're going to do is clear out the land, kind of like she's clearing out your joint bank account right now.
Barn dominiums are the most versatile way to build because of that wide span, just like your mom.
But there's really no secret to a barn dominion build.
The only real secret is that credit card you don't know about that.
She has maxed out to $8,000.
That's Marital Asset, by the way.
And if she's posting pictures like this at the gym all of a sudden, she's already found an apartment.
So, build yourself a badass gym in your own apartment, an apartment that has no pictures on the wall, just animal heads, big screen TV, and some guns.
And how amazing!
You could go to a family event and not have to take a bunch of pictures.
Oh my God, wouldn't that be amazing?
Oh my god, for the like, I don't know so pro-surrogacy.
It just sounds like heaven on earth bathroom with an enclosed shower so nobody could hear you cry.
Keep your closet and your laundry in the bathroom because it just makes sense.
That sounds amazing.
Hey, divorce sucks.
I hear you, bud.
But listen, when she comes home drunk at 3:30 a.m. and you got a problem with it, that's considered controlling.
You better watch yourself, bud.
So, if you like this kind of content, like, subscribe, and share this with that one guy that's always liking her.
All right, so you guys can call in today.
My dog, I have to let her out in a second.
So, I will, I will do the commercial when I go get her in a second.
Um, how do women make a house a home?
How do women do women or do you agree with me or disagree?
I don't think women make a house a home.
I think we got to take that off of the list because I think that I think that this barn dominion seems way cooler to live in than any bullshit that a woman would put together, Truly.
All right.
We're going to have Doug M. Maybe Doug MPA could talk to the audience.
Doug MPA, you want to talk to the audience while I let Ellie out?
Yeah, sure.
Okay, well, I'm not in two minutes.
I'm gonna go, but tell me, tell me your take first.
So, okay.
I was arguing with these broads at my day job about this whole house home thing, right?
Because I said women, they don't make a house a home.
They make a house their prison.
What happens is, because what happens is, so they're talking about all the unpaid labor and how, like, I said, look, I've lived with multiple women in my life and what and I do the laundry because I'm obsessive with laundry.
I back in the floors, I do the dishes because I've never met a woman that makes sure that all the socks are rolled or put all of the clothes, all the shirts on the hanger in the same spot in the closet.
Or they leave clothes in the dryer or leave clothes on the bed.
So I'm like, I do the laundry, period.
Don't touch it, right?
And it's the same with dishes, right?
So I said, that's how I don't get nagged when it comes to living in a house with a woman.
Guys, if you choose to live in a house with a woman, don't let her be the arbiter of reality in the house.
See, women complain about how much stuff they have to do around the house.
But then one of the ladies that she said, well, I feel like I have to do all the work in the house because if someone comes over the house and the house looks messy, it's a reflection of the woman, not the man.
Because I said, the problem is you take over everything.
And men, we love women so much that we let women have everything around the house.
And then they come at us later saying, oh, you need to do this.
You need to do that.
And then complain that you can't do it the way they do it.
And they also fixate on useless things.
Like, I remember once my mom and my dad, we were like cleaning his garage.
And my mom slowed us down so much because she was cleaning every single paint can and like wiping it down.
For what?
Like, let's just like, because my dad had a ton of paint cans.
Like, and I'm like, do you know how long that's going to take when they're just going to get dusty again in a week?
Like, let's just do the floor.
You know, we appreciate it, but that's kind of useless, right?
Women have structure.
They set the foundation for a home.
Are you, are you delusional?
I mean, you, have you lived with a man?
Have you maybe you're dating like these bum black?
Women's Role in Home Maintenance00:15:29
I don't know.
I don't know who you're dating.
I keep telling her to Breona Carter.
I said your name.
I'm giving you clout.
Come over to the YouTube.
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So, guys, anyway, once again, all this unpaid labor stuff, women feel like the home directly reflects them, right?
And actually, I saw this article, it was online.
And this woman was talking about how her husband was a software engineer who quit his job to start a software company with his friend.
So, he lived in Connecticut and he worked in New York, right?
And she was a nurse or something, and she stepped away from working to raise their two sons, right?
So, he works like 12 hours a day with their software startup.
He was on the way home, right?
And she said, Hey, I need you to pick up some ground beef because I want to make spaghetti.
He's like, Okay, I'll stop by the store and I will get ground beef.
So, he stopped by the store, came home, and he got some like 50-50 ground beef instead of the 80%, 20% lean ground beef.
So, she looked at the ground beef and looked at him and said, What is this?
He said, It's ground beef.
She's like, Yeah, but it's not the right one.
He's like, What?
So, then she literally wrote an article.
Why didn't he pay attention to the kind of ground beef I normally get?
Apparently, he must not care about me.
Apparently, in all the, so she's scolding her husband over this ground beef, right?
And they have an eight-year-old son.
And she looked at her son when she's scolding her son.
Her son has this look on his face because he's little, he doesn't know what's going on.
He's those other moms yelling at him.
Her husband had the same look on his face, like, what the heck is going on here?
Then she realized, Why am I yelling at my husband over ground beef?
He works at a soft work startup 12 hours a day, so she doesn't have to work to be at home with their sons.
He's a good man, provides for his family, and she's yelling at him over ground beef, guys.
Women don't make a house a home, women make a house a prison.
Okay, I'm gonna bring up Esteban.
Esteban, what's up, buddy?
Hey, what's going on, Doug PA?
What's going on, Pearl?
How are you guys doing?
I'm good.
How are you?
Can't complain.
Can't complain.
All right.
So, how do women make a house a home?
That's a very good and interesting question.
I would say, first and foremost, hopefully, they themselves grew up in a home or house, you know, house home.
Meaning, hopefully, they had the stable, nuclear, two-parent home.
Well, she asked the question I'm answering, you know.
That's what you would like, ideally.
Like, specifics, though, like actively doing, like, how do women make a house a home?
Well, first and foremost, they have to be obedient and submissive to their husband.
That's first and foremost.
Okay, so what Pearl Andrew Clavin said, women make a house a home and make him a better man overall.
And he owes a success to her.
Okay, guys.
Maybe I'm phrasing, maybe I should say it better.
How are women currently making houses homes?
How have you seen, how did your mother, if this is something they do?
Okay, we're going to bring up Sean.
Sean, you there?
Sean?
Sean?
Debt and drama.
Yeah.
So, like, a good answer would be how a woman should make a house a home.
She should be able to cook and provide sustenance for the husband and the children.
She should keep the home neat and tidy, right?
She should be able to, you know, keep track of whether something's gone out.
You know, like, you know, if something needs to be fixed, because the man's usually too busy, you know, if she sees like a pipe leaking or, you know, a water stain in the ceiling, she should be able to point that out to her husband.
You know, that's the type of stuff that a woman could do to make a house.
But it still doesn't offset the emotional chaos.
Like, I don't think like women, even the good women, one of the best women I know is still so chaotic.
Like, she really obeys her husband in all things, but she still drives everyone nuts.
Like, I just don't think, like, I think even like the best women still bring chaos.
I don't think it offsets, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah, 100%.
Well, that's why I told you, I like this whole new stance you have on, like, guys, imagine to you guys who Come from a two-parent household who had a great father, how much better it would have been if your mother wasn't there.
Peace on earth, heaven, Daniel.
How do women make a house a home?
Do you think they do?
What is your opinion on the topic?
So, hey, Pearl, hey, Doug.
So, this idea is that women make a home because they do the cleaning and the cooking and things like that.
But these days, women say that they're tired.
So, a lot of times they'll sit around when they get home.
And then, as soon as you start doing something like Doug was saying, she'll, or one of the kids, she'll get up, start yelling that they're not doing it right.
So, this idea of like a happy home gets instantly sucked out of the air.
And then she gets mad at you for being mad about it and mad at the kids because now they're like sitting around sad, not saying anything and depressed.
And then she plays a victim role, like, oh, it's my fault.
And then she'll start crying and all this kind of stuff.
So, it's just a lot of emotions going on from not taking accountability of being lazy.
And she could have just, when she got home, been like, Hey, I'm tired.
Will you help me clean up?
And it's like, why, why won't she just say that?
You know, that's kind of where I'm at on it.
Yeah.
Yeah, I agree.
I would also argue, guys, look, this making a house a home thing is just another trope.
Because remember, guys, women want, okay, the modern woman playbook is to find a successful, ambitious, competitive man.
When she gets with him, have him set everything aside that made him him to help her achieve her own selfish desires.
And they'll do anything to be able to do that.
Shame, insults, guilt.
And this whole women making a house a home thing is just another trope.
It's another way for the woman to be able to manipulate the man in his house.
The other thing, too, that I noticed, a lot of women that would say that on my show would have heavy makeup and like fake nails and all this stuff.
But that takes a lot of time.
Like if you go to the nail salon, especially if you have the long fake ones, that takes like four hours.
You get your nose, like your nail, both.
Like, on top of that, your Botox, like, that's all going to take a lot of time.
I'm like, are you really spending the time making a house a home?
It looks like you're like, when I see women, when I think of women that actually did try their best to make a house a home, they look like they don't, they don't have like a lot of the fake stuff because they're busy.
You know what I'm saying?
Like the housewives I know, they don't look like they don't have the Botox, the fake, they don't have all that stuff because they're busy making a house at home.
Do you know what I'm saying?
Am I following?
Yeah, but even, but even the ones like I'm thinking of that were better than like most, they still brought chaos, like nagging, complaining.
Like, it's just like the deep lying, you know.
Even if it's lying about stupid stuff, that's still like chaos, you know.
Also, it used to be that coming from like a humble background used to be, you know, something you could respect.
But it seems like a lot of women these days are kind of on this like cruise ship type of mentality.
So like they'll get into a relationship and it'll go good for a few years.
Like, you know, it'll be like one day I'll cook because you're tired and I don't mind doing the laundry.
She does the laundry, this, that, and the other.
But then it'll get to a point where the women start to take advantage of it and they just start not doing anything.
And then they get mad because the man, when the man get home, when the man gets home, he's like, screw this.
I'm just going to go out there and like ride my riding lawnmower, even though the grass doesn't need to be cut.
Or what they'll do is at the beginning of the relationship in the beginning of the marriage, they're doing stuff for you, but they're keeping tally, right?
They're building up credit and they're going to cash that in later.
That's true.
Yeah.
They'll remember, oh, it'll be 20 years later.
Remember all that stuff I did at the beginning?
So then you owe me for all this now.
Now that you've become a man, now you make all this money, I should be able to spend it because I used to wash your underwear when we first got married.
It's like Guy's was his wife.
She was an assistant.
She like did the front desk and now she's entitled to half his company.
100% true.
Here's the thing.
So my mom is in her 70s, right?
And there was a generational shift.
So like most of our mothers were part of the generation where they were obsessed with stuff.
So like, like they had kids, got a house, your mom and dad, and they filled it full of stuff, right?
But right around my age, I'm 45, right?
And the women got less obsessed with stuff and more obsessed with like a lifestyle and things.
Which women traveling and doing all these things.
And the problem with getting with these women and as they get older is that the price tag of that lifestyle increases, guys.
Yeah.
They will expect you to pay for it.
What are your thoughts on the topic?
So shout out to you and shout outs to the women as far as Amazon goes.
I'm a stockholder and it's been marvelous since women have actually positioned me and students in society.
So, as an Amazon stockholder, I love them.
But as I said in the chat, it's just drama, debt, and coup d'état.
That's about it.
Like, that's what they create in the household.
And then, I would, I would say, like, I like how you always go back to the past a bit and kind of check us on that.
Because if you really go back to the past, daddies was going to the bar spot.
They wouldn't come back home.
Those guys went to brothels.
They went to the little Jimmy Joints around the corner.
They had to go to those lodges to get away from women.
Like, there was articles.
What's his name?
Stroppenhaiger or something.
I don't know.
There's some philosopher from the 1800s who had, I can, he's like a German guy, but he had an article about how terrible women are.
Like, this is like, this has been going on for all of time, you know.
Facts.
And if the home was ever good and she made a home, then why did the guy have to create a cave inside the home?
No.
That's 100%.
I'm going to say this the most appropriate way, but remember that women would actually have doctors that they would go to because the men wouldn't even be there.
And the doctors would, well, they would, they would, you know, make him happy and then they would go back home.
Yep.
Yeah.
You got the pool boy, you got the mailman, you got ruffelins, you got boxes of wine.
I mean, there's proof in the pudding.
Back when they were household wives, they were just medicating themselves too much.
That was a whole big thing.
That's why, even what was the Roofies, they got like X'd out because housewives were just overdosing on those, drinking and filling up with those.
So remember in the early 1900s, you could order all sorts of designer drugs through the DC Penny catalog.
Yeah, heroin.
What about those guys who used to come to the doors and knock and then sell Tubberware to your wives?
Or what about the QTC when they used to have the hands and they would show like, man, Shorty's always been buying up and had consumerism.
So e-commerce is not to blame.
Yeah.
And do you know what?
I was thinking about it.
I don't mind, you know, because they always say, Pearl, like, you're so hard on women, but I just like to be accurate.
You know, I'm just trying to be accurate here.
And if there was anything I could think of that we did better than men, I would say it.
I just can't think of anything.
And recently, I think my next show is going to be on women lying.
I don't think we're that good at liars.
I really don't.
I think when you pay attention, because the men I know, I don't know if you guys ever know like a serial cheater.
That's it.
That's a guy.
That's it.
He is a good liar.
Oh my God.
They will die on the hill.
Women start crying.
Like our biggest tell is we just start crying.
You know what I mean?
That's the reason we get to get out of jail-free card because men feel bad when we cry.
But I don't think like our lying is that good.
Like, I just, I, you know, I think our values go up.
It's like we have these ticks.
I think it's just men like see the tits or something and forget.
I'll bring up an example of talking about, guys, whoever's been divorced or has gotten out of a long-term relationship and she did something to end the relationship.
Guys, remember that feeling when you used to think this woman had something that nobody else had.
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You know, she shone like an angel from heaven.
Then she cheated on you or she spent a bunch of your money and stuff.
And you found out and the magic was gone.
She's saying the same things to you, but the magic is gone.
Understand what I'm saying?
That's what Pearl's talking about.
Men let our women let women lie to us.
We literally let them do it.
And once that magic is gone, they can't lie to you anymore.
Like, you're telling me men could invent civilization, but they couldn't, they can't lie well if they really put their minds to it.
Men have like a conscience, so they don't want to do that.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, but if men didn't have consciences, I mean, I think they would lie to the moon.
I mean, they, they, you know what, in a way, they do lie to us all the time.
They never tell us the truth, but it's like in a nice way, you know.
Well, if you say they're the greatest liars or they're very good at it, I would say they are.
And in fact, when she gets off the stripper pole and then friends try to tell, don't marry that girl, the guy often says, but she's different.
She's changed.
So men lie to themselves.
They're the greatest liars to themselves, I believe.
I think, Pearl, you just see through the veneer.
You see through the veil.
So most of it, you're like, damn, women suck at lying, but men don't see it.
Men don't see it one bit, unfortunately.
I think women just lie more.
Like men lie better.
Like, I'm telling you, I was asking, I know like some of the PUAs, right?
This guy goes through like 100 women a year.
It's like incredible.
And I'm like, and I've seen him, I've seen him take home like three or four different women in a weekend and he'll always have three or four different girlfriends.
I don't know if you guys have ever met a demon like that.
But it's like, you know, the time.
And I ask him, I'm like, what do you say if like they do this?
He has like a protocol in his head for, oh, if they say that, I say X, Y, and Z. Like he has a whole and I, and he sat down and explained the system.
I'm like, I don't know how anyone would figure that out.
Like, if you get caught by this, this dude, you're just done.
Like, no one's gonna figure this out.
I mean, men, men lie so less that 90% of people know when a man is lying.
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Yeah.
Yeah.
And you know what?
I agree with what the other guy said is that like men do lie to themselves.
And part of that is like, you know, for a lot of men, it's very hard to find a quality girl.
So once you find her and she starts acting up, like you start like telling yourselves different things because you're like trying to fix it.
You're trying to get it to work because you don't want to go back out there and have to deal with the other 99.9% that are trash.
Like, you know, that doesn't work.
And so you're trying to get the thing that you're working with to work and you're just lying to yourself.
And, you know, just like Doug said, you know, it's not until, you know, you guys end up splitting it and she leaves, does your house go back to a home, right?
Because all that drama is just out the window and you're just like, man, I feel really good again.
What is your thought on the, do women make a house a home?
I mean, my thoughts on that is, I mean, she basically has to be from like the 1930s or the 1940s.
Like, you know, like she has to be very traditional, or in today's society, she basically has to be Amish.
Like, that's the only way I see it really working.
And like, those types of women, like, you know, I had a mother who was like that.
And, you know, she's from another country, from another culture.
But like, in her mindset, it's like her role in the house is to make the house to serve the best interests of her husband and her children, first and foremost.
So she will not buy things for herself.
She asks herself is like, how does it make the other people feel?
Are they going to feel calm, cool, collected when they get to the house?
Like, so it's not very materialistic if you look outside the house.
And I have neighbors in their 90s who are from a traditional Christian background who think very similarly.
You walk into their house, it's like you went back to the 1970s.
Like there's no remodel this.
There's no, you know, new furniture that it's just whatever is in the house is to make their husband or their children feel warm and welcome when they go into that, right?
But you look at most modern women today, it's like their home looks like a hotel.
You know what I mean?
Like it's all aesthetics.
It's nothing else.
And you even look how they raise their kids, right?
You might have people in the same room, but they're all on different devices.
Yeah.
How is that a home?
100% true.
That's so true.
And so, you know, it just becomes very performative and decorative.
And I'll agree.
It's, you know, Amazon has made a lot of money off of that, right?
No doubt.
But, you know, the reality is it's more like museum-like aesthetics than it is anything that's actually like welcoming for you to want to come to.
Wow, that's actually a really good point.
Because it does kind of look like a lot of homes today look like influencer houses.
They don't look like anyone lives there.
Like when people, when you actually spend a lot of time in the main areas, there's going to be a little bit of a mess.
It's going to look a little worn, you know.
It looks like a woman's car.
Looks like MTV Crips, right?
So the cars are even worse than their houses.
All the crap that they leave in their cars is insane.
Yeah.
I wanted to go ahead.
I wanted to refer back to what Doug was saying about what you said, Pearl.
I think that at least over half of the inventions that men have created for our world was because they were chasing trying to get women to see that they were great or make him happy or whatever,
because there are rare women like this, but I think most men kind of find joy out of taking time to build things or do things and appreciate all the little things around it that are created to create something as a whole.
You know, what I don't understand is like men have created so many different inventions and devices for household appliances to make making a home so much easier.
Like it used to be, you know, 50, 60 years you had to wash your clothes, maybe a little bit before that, right?
It would take a very long time.
You have to do it by hand, you know, whether it's drying things, stuff like that.
Like all household appliances have been built by men over the last 60, 70 years.
And despite how easily it is to do it now, women will still complain that they either don't want to do it, they want to outsource it to a maid, or they're expecting the man to, you know, do his quote-unquote fair share of the laundry and this, that, and the other.
And it's like, they don't even want to do the job of making it into a home, even when we've made it easier.
That's the part that just perplexes me.
And the sad part about it is a lot of the stuff that they've that they have to do to make a house a home is the stuff that they'd have to do whether the man was there or not.
Okay.
They just want to do a period.
Well, they view it as beneath them.
That's what it really comes down to.
I'm looking at this girl on YouTube, just like the titles of, it says five tips to make your house a home.
One, be intent.
Yeah, okay, I can.
I think this is Ben Shapiro's sister.
But I was just reading this.
Yeah.
It says, yeah, I think this is the sister.
Be intentional.
Choose colors wisely.
Have a mixture of inherited pieces.
Put up wall decor and keep your house clean.
I'm like, three out of the five of these men, I don't think they care about.
Like, I don't think they care about wall decor.
I don't think they care that much about colors.
As long as it's like not rainbow, right?
Yeah.
I was just thinking, I don't.
What would you guys say is the most useful thing a woman could bring into your life?
Like day to day.
Give me three, Doug.
You can start.
Like obedience, just no, it has to be like, no, not it has to be like a like a thing, yeah, a skill.
Um, uh, honestly, like, um, active listening.
Like, I'm one of those people where it helps me solve my problems if I just say them out loud because I'm working through as I'm talking to you.
So, like, even if you don't care, just listen.
That's a big one.
Um, I would say, honestly, like, I like when a woman cooks food and serves on a plate.
So, for me, cooking does work.
And then, three would be listening, cooking.
Uh, I would say cleaning, but I clean better than most of the women I know.
And I was like, you just said laundry and dishes.
That's like half the battle.
Like, what sweeping, I guess.
But no, you said you vacuum too.
Yeah, I mean, I just do that.
So, I mean, I'll just keep it a two for now.
Honestly, active listening and cooking.
Daniel, what about you?
Sewing, uh, ability to work together.
Um, and I would say, um, kind of, kind of like what Doug said, just kind of like being able to listen outside of the way that you think.
So, I won't put too much on it, but like, if I come home and I'm having a bad day at work and I tell you what happened, like, I don't want you to be my mom and be like, oh, well, you should have listened.
It's like, well, I wouldn't do that with you.
Why would you do that with me?
You know, I guess, but that's my opinion.
Okay, Sean, what about you?
Yeah, I mean, for me, I would say, I mean, obviously, peace and quiet, but you know, putting that one aside, you know, just being friendly and bubbly, even if she's not feeling it, like, even if she has to fake it, but she, because she knows it's going to make you just happier to be around her because of that.
Because what I've noticed is for a lot of guys, they'll come home to a girl who, you know, had a bad day at work and then she takes it out on that guy.
Or she's just very like depressing to be around or very unhappy and bitter.
Like, guys don't want to come to a home that has just turned into a hell.
Like, they'd rather just come to a home that's empty than come to a home with a girl who's bringing her drama from work.
You know, but we would prefer her to be very friendly, warm, and bubbly.
So I would say, even when she's not feeling it, just being in a very friendly and bubbly state.
I would say, yeah, cooking and cleaning, that's very helpful.
And then just being appreciative and grateful.
Like, I think guys just really want that.
Like, the floor is so low these days because most guys are pretty much single, and we've learned to take care of pretty much everything else ourselves.
That if we can find a girl who can cook and clean, be friendly, and appreciative, those three things for most guys, I think that that's that covers pretty much 90% of what they want.
Oh, what about you, Sean?
What was the question again?
I just want to make sure I got it right.
What are things that a woman can bring to your life, like skills, like three things that would be useful to you?
Okay, be a robot.
Bubbly, great energy, like the last person said, shout outs to Sean.
And then also, on top of being the robot, cook food with TLC.
That's it.
Those are some things that would be added value because I had a chef before, and you know, it's cool and everything, but that would be the last point.
And the other two is basically be a robot and treat me like you're daddy and the king.
That would be it.
If you can't do that, then you got to get out.
Can I add in one more, Pearl?
Yeah, go ahead.
Um, the positive low maintenance that that is helpful as far as a good one, like how much makeup you need, you know, how much you know, do you not have to have the you know the five thousand dollar couches, do you?
Or, or how about be able to get ready in 15 minutes or less, right?
Right.
To where I don't have to lie and be like, oh, the movie starts at two, but it really starts at 3:30.
And then you get mad because you realize you think I manipulated you, but it's like, no, I just know how long it takes you to get ready.
Yeah, yeah, that was a good point.
Yeah, so basically, Pearl, be financially literate and financially competent.
That's that's number one, actually.
That's number one.
Well, yeah, be a robot and then be financially competent.
Robot is number one.
Boston dynamics type.
Nice.
I would also add, you know, and this maybe wraps up with low maintenance, but be self-sufficient.
Like anything you, you know, need to do, like, take care of yourself.
Like, yeah, men can solve certain problems, but like solving your petty stuff from day to day or like, you know, where you need to get your makeup, stuff like that.
Like, you got to be able to take care of that stuff yourself instead of like pulling men to the outlet mall every time.
And, you know, how does this outlet make me look good?
Like, we don't want to be involved in that.
Women are to set the tone of the home, providing peace, respect, and submission.
However, it can be just as bad by bringing chaos, challenge, and defiance.
Thank you for the super chat.
Well, that's all I really have on the topic.
Do you guys have anything else you want to add before we close out the show?
Doug, MPA.
I'm sorry, go ahead.
Oh, I just said that's all I got on the topic: is that I don't really think most women make a house a home.
I think men, I think men make a house a home, and women can listen if they want, but they usually don't.
I think that's if the woman in the home is mad, everyone has to suffer.
If the man in the house is mad, no one notices or no one cares.
Yeah, 100%.
A man will be mad at the world going through all the stresses of life, but will put the emotional needs of others in the house over his, and you won't even know what's going on with him.
But every little, I'm telling you, women, modern women, make a home a prison for their husbands and their children.
And she's the warden.
Yeah, I would add to that.
Yeah, definitely.
As you said, Peril, they don't right now.
But I think never have that type of mindset.
Like at the end of the day, I create the happy home because there's no home if the mortgage is not getting paid.
There's no home if there's no food in the refrigerator.
So at the end of the day, I think men, you always have to be in charge and you never say, oh, this is your box.
This is where you're in charge.
Okay, she's going to take over and it's going to be tyranny, right?
A woman lead and will lead you into destruction.
So at all times, you are inside my house, but I make the home a happy home because I create everything.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Men make the home the happy home and women can either try to ruin it or listen.
You know, I think women need to learn personally how to deal with being happy even though things aren't the way that she wants them and not take every little thing that happens to her every day personally, whether at work or at home or whatever.
Yeah.
That's never going to happen, dude.
Well, it's only going to get worse and worse.
Enjoy the decline, fellas.
Thanks for coming on.
Have a good one.
Yeah, you know, I just, this is just my thought process.
I just, all the things that we say about women, I just keep questioning.
I keep thinking.
I'm like, it doesn't make any sense.
I have a friend who the day she realized her dad wasn't the bad guy her mom told her was because her mom ran away for like two weeks.
And it was the best time of her life.
She was like, every night we had dinner.
We'd all hang out in the kitchen.
It was amazing.
And yeah, I think that's kind of how it is.
I wanted to ask George Farmer, Sean said from the back, how does Candace Owens make a house a home while talking about massage agents and Egyptian planes?
Hard Time Believing00:02:15
Yeah, and that's what you kind of have to realize.
And I'll just say this to the YouTubers out there: being in the news cycle is just not good for our mental.
We can do it, right?
Like I could, but mentally, I don't, I don't think being like, I enjoy my shows more when I just talk about what I see in real life versus like online.
Because the news is always going to be like the worst stuff possible, you know.
So I have a hard time believing most of these trad influencers can make their house a home while covering like the worst things going on in society.
I just have a hard time because we're not really built to see that information, you know?
And I personally, I think my show's better the less I like stay in the news cycle, you know, and the more I just talk about what I see.
And I think you could be in a better mood about, anyways, my two cents.
But I'm always like, whenever the women are like, yeah, I'm like a great wife and I'm great at this and I do it all.
I'm like, do you?
Because I have a hard time.
Like, I have a hard time with it.
You don't struggle at all.
Because sometimes, like, social media addiction is a real thing.
You know, it does affect you.
So, nine.
Can you tell me a woman who you think is a nine?
Angelina Jolie.
And you're a nine?
Yes.
I have symmetrical eyes.
I have full lips.
Those of you watching, drag a window and put Angelina Jolie's face like right next to her face.
Can you turn your face that way?
More, more, more, more, and then turn your face the other way.
Angelina Jolie Caliber, everybody.
Holy.
Yeah.
All right.
I just thought that was funny.
Okay, guys.
Let me know what you think in the comments.
Did your mom make a house a home?
I'll read them next show.
Leave the comments.
If she did, how did she do that?
And please don't simp out.
I just sometimes when I hear the simping, I just got to tune out.