Pearl Daily critiques modern women’s breakup behavior, contrasting Melania Trump (8–10) and Lauren Sanchez—Jeff Bezos’ mid-level-rated fiancée—who handled rejection gracefully with likability, avoiding public backlash like Amber Heard’s #MeToo accusations. On The Bachelor, Grant Ellis ($4M NBA-turned-day trader) chose Juliana over Latia, who "crashed out" emotionally by pushing her timeline, while Daisy’s calm response to Joey’s "I love you too" to another earned her a later reconciliation. Caller Dustin reveals high-value men prefer women who accept rejection maturely, not those fixated on clout or desperate tactics. The episode argues modern feminism’s rejection-heavy dating culture backfires, with genuine connection over ego key to long-term success. [Automatically generated summary]
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Okay, so today we're gonna talk about mid-level women.
So, as you know, your honorary mid, I love talking about mids.
Now, a lot of people look at mid as an insult, and I really don't.
Being mid just means in the middle, average.
You know, you could say this is four to six, others would say it's three to seven in terms of looks-wise.
I mean, but most people are in the middle, most people are not stunning, most people are not beautiful, and that's okay.
It's not an insult.
Somebody's got to be average.
Otherwise, Pamela Anderson wouldn't have been Pamela Anderson back in the day.
Otherwise, Angelina Jolie wouldn't be Angelina Jolie back in the day.
And so, you know, I do talk about mid-women and their delusion.
You know, I do, I do, that is a common topic for me.
But I also talk about mids that win.
Now, as you guys know, eight to tens can be a headache for men.
I think every man, you know, they've banged a woman pretty hot.
And they've not every man, I mean, but okay, a lot of men have.
And they realize that they're just not worth the trouble.
Now, it's not that they're sluttier than mid-women.
If anything, the mid-women have to give it more for free because they're not as hot, right?
Right?
The eights to tens can give men like a look and they'll buy them dinner.
The eight to tens at 23.
Do you know what's so crazy?
Ladies, your husband, the husband you gave it up for on the first night, second night, even after a month, they would have waited six months for an eight to ten.
She could have got dinner out of him for a week, every week for six months because they're that hot.
They'll wait for that, unfortunately, right?
Just means that the mids have to make up for this with something that women don't like to do too much.
That's character.
That's the hard part.
It's easy to be hot, get a surgery, you know, be born that way.
What's difficult is doing things that, you know, require character.
And a lot of times, the mids that win, what they do is they focus on being likable first.
To my low body count women, there's no proof that you're actually low body count, right?
There's no, men can't prove this.
You could have thrown it back at 16 and there's no evidence, right?
They don't know that.
So, what is the number one thing that men are going to pick on?
How nice you are to them.
How did Melania make it to the White House?
Now, she's an eight to 10, right?
But let's just ask ourselves: how did a woman with nudes on the internet make it to the White House?
She was really nice, right?
She was very nice, likable.
So, I do like to make a point of mids that do win.
And there are mids that find themselves high-value men.
There are mids that get high-value men.
In some cases, they divorce high-value men and get another one.
Now, Jeff Bezos' fiancé, Lauren Sanchez, is the prime example of what I'm talking about.
Just to recap, Lauren Sanchez had a kid with an NFL player, okay?
Then married a man worth over $100 million, then divorced him, and now she's about to marry Jeff Bezos.
I mean, if that, if ladies, if we can't learn anything from a woman like that, I mean, this is a fairy tale.
The equivalent to this is a man.
Let's imagine a guy dated Angelina Jolie then dumped her, right?
Then he went out and then he dated Jessica Alba and then said, nah, I'm good.
It's like the Leonardo DiCaprio of women, okay?
So I think that she did this because she followed a couple of rules.
Number one, the number one rule that mids have to follow.
You cannot get fat.
That is, you, that is the cardinal rule number one.
You may be able to trap a guy, right?
If you get a kid and then get fat.
Like, there's some guys that are just good people, but the next one you will not get done, cooked, donezo.
She also stayed feminine, and more importantly, she never said a bad thing about any of her exes.
Attractive women that handle breakups well, especially breakups with high-value men, tend to get multiple chances with top percentile men in the dating market.
Unfortunately, modern women and all of their delusions do not handle rejection and breakups well.
That's what I call we can't take L's.
I mean, who hasn't taken an L?
And look, when you're younger, men do give you a pass.
I don't want to say a full pass, but they'll give you more grace.
I mean, there's some stuff that you can't come back from, like being a prostitute, right?
But I mean, a girl that freaked out over her 16-year-old, like at 16 or 18 over a breakup, men may give them a pass, right?
They understand, okay, she was young.
The same way, you know, a broke guy at 18 might get a pass.
A broke guy at 22 might get a pass.
But over a certain age, that's going to be your reputation, okay?
So when a man of a certain caliber break up with a woman, they have to worry about the woman saying horrible things about them on social media, writing a tell-all book about him, or in more extreme cases, me tooing him like Amber Heard and Johnny Depp.
So why am I talking about this?
So I was watching a recap episode of the latest season of The Bachelor.
Look, guys, guilty, guilty as charge.
I watched the show.
I am a woman.
It's kind of good sometimes, okay?
Sue me, all right?
I'm flawed, okay?
So The Bachelor this season was Grant Ellis, a 6'5 former NBA player, turned day trader with a net worth of over $4 million.
He is the quintessential Chad or Tyrone, high-value man for sure.
During the fun finale, Grant had to make a choice between two women, Latia or Juliana, and he ended up having to pick.
So let's go through Grant.
Let's see this.
You know, they always are getting some sort of Chad or Tyrone.
So are we live on YouTube?
I don't know why it's not coming up on YouTube.
Like, weird.
On the website, too?
No, not the website.
I don't know why.
I can't see the chat.
Let me look on my phone.
All right.
So this is Grant Ellis.
Give me a second, guys.
One second.
Let me just, I just want to read you guys' chats a little bit.
I just want to make sure we're going.
Oh, shoot.
Okay.
when we'll just go again.
All right, hold on guys.
All right, guys, on the website.
I'm going to have to redo this.
I'm sorry.
All right, we need to get your app developer to allow pinch zooming on videos.
Doug, MPA, can you make a note of that?
Tradcons think that if a man doesn't drink, gamble, or do drugs, women will stay with them.
And all the evidence is the opposite.
We do love drug dealers.
I really do.
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
Good afternoon.
Good evening, ladies and gentlemen.
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
Last week, I did a show about mid-level women and their delusion.
And if you paid attention to that show, I didn't offer any criticism.
And I made sure to make a point that mids do actually win at times.
They find themselves a high-value man.
In some instances, you get divorce a high-value men and get a man and get another one.
Jeff Bezos's fiancé, Lauren Sanchez, is a prime example of what I'm talking about.
Just to recap, Sanchez had a kid with an NFL player, married a man worth over $100 million, divorced him, and now she's about to marry Jeff Bezos.
Her story is literally a fairy tale.
Lauren was able to do this by following a certain set of rules.
She stayed in shape, she stayed feminine, and most importantly, she never said one bad thing about her exes.
Attractive women that handle breakups well, especially breakups with high-value men, will get multiple chances with top percent men in the dating market.
But unfortunately, modern women and all of their delusions, we just don't, we don't take L's well, right?
We don't handle breakups.
And if a man of a certain caliber breaks up with a woman, he has to worry that the woman will say horrible things about him on social media, write a tell-all book, or in the most extreme cases, me to him like Amber Heard and Johnny Depp.
So why am I telling you this?
I was watching a recap of the end of the latest season of The Bachelor.
I can't help it.
I'm a woman, all right?
This season, The Bachelor was Grant Ellis, a 6'5, former NBA player, turned day trader with a net worth of over $4 million.
He is the quintessential Chad Orta Rone, a high-value man for sure.
And during the finale, Grant had to make a choice between two women, Latia or Juliana.
Grant ended up having to pick between two of them.
So we're going to first show a picture of Grant.
Let me see what we got.
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Okay, so this is The Bachelor.
You know, we got a chat over there.
Now, he was eliminated from Jen Tran's season of The Bachelorette, and then he was cast as the lead.
So we got this guy just so you guys can get like a.
Okay.
So next we got Latia.
Now, I want you guys to rate her in the chat.
I would say she's a six, six, seven.
That's kind of what I would give her.
Her biography is she is a vibrant, empathetic, and confident woman with a lot of love to give.
She's ready for a man to put her first.
I am sure that's what every man wants.
She wants to put you first.
Someone who is honest, vulnerable, and family oriented, just like Grant.
Latia loves sports and enjoys basketball, football, and water polo.
She loves riding horses and is a huge fan of the board game Clue.
Even though she feels playing is not her strongest suit, Latia is so ready to meet her other half and half and hopes that Grant will be the guy.
So this is her.
You know, body yachty, right?
I would say 6'7.
Oh, that's a different girl.
That is a different girl.
Okay, so they had an immediate connection, right?
Now, this is the other girl he was picking against.
Her name is Juliana.
She is a bubbly, outgoing woman who isn't afraid to speak her mind and go after what she wants.
She comes from a big Italian family and aspires to be to have a lasting love like her parents had.
They were high school sweethearts, and she hopes to meet a man who has a good heart, strong ambition, and loves to hang out with family.
Okay, so this is her.
Right, so we got, you know, who do you guys think is better looking?
Let me look at the chat.
Who did you guys, who would you guys pick?
Oh, you guys are saying five, six.
Am I rating them too high?
Am I simping for women?
Okay.
All right.
So the reason that Grant was considering Latia is she was ready to settle down and have kids.
She got along with the family really well when they met and her intentions were clear the whole time.
So I'm going to show you guys they had immediate chemistry.
Immediate chemistry right off the bat.
And she was a frontrunner.
Let me put on these headphones so I can properly watch this with you guys.
Hi, Granite.
Hello, how are you?
I'm good.
I love your hair.
It's nice and your shoes.
Thanks.
I'm Latia.
Can give you a hug.
I'm good.
How are you?
I'm good.
So on your journey, you were very open and honest and vulnerable.
And I wanted to start my journey with some vulnerability.
Okay.
And it might be a deal breaker.
Okay.
I'm really bad at basketball.
Okay.
You could always teach, you know.
Okay.
But I will make you a deal.
Okay.
If you bring this skill, I'll ring the sparkle.
I like this message.
My name is Latia.
I'm 31 years old and I live in Salt Lake City, Utah.
I grew up with the big family and my parents raised me in the Mormon faith.
And religion is a guiding light in my life.
I was born in Kahuku, Hawaii.
My parents met there and they got married and they had me.
And three months later, my dad passed away in a car accident.
Even though he's gone, I still feel his love.
I still feel his love and his presence in my life.
Okay, so we got a horse girl, very pretty, right?
Okay.
You guys get the deal.
Now, let me look at another one.
This is her getting along with the family.
So this is when she met Grant's family.
And mind you, these are the two frontrunners out of two, out of like 20 women.
Like they bring in 20 hot women and these are the top two.
Hey guys.
I'm excited.
Today's the first day in almost a decade that we've all been together since my parents split.
How are you?
I'm so glad to meet you.
And to have an opinion from the people that love me the most is important.
So tell us, give us some of those memorable moments that you guys have created together.
Yeah, what did you guys do?
What kind of base did you go?
So our first date in LA was when we made like a big connection, but then we went to Madrid, which is big because you played basketball.
Yeah, so you went to Spain.
My most memorable time is the conversation that we had after that date in LA where she reaffirmed to me that her morals really and where she stands.
And when we were in Scotland, that's where we've had our first talk about faith and what that meant to us.
And I was like, okay, she doesn't leave her beauty.
She is somebody who is a lot deeper than that.
And from there, we just continue to grow.
And here we are today.
So you make each other happy.
I mean, you find joy being around one another.
Of course.
Yeah.
That's so important.
Yeah.
You guys look so good together.
I'll tell you that.
Yeah, you guys are cute.
You guys are definitely cute together.
You both have dimples.
I liked you.
They kind of look alike.
Like they could be like siblings since day one.
Oh my god, I'm telling you.
I like you.
Seeing her and him together, I just sense the synergy and I see the joy that he has with her.
But he's still, again, he's still torn.
So happy to see you, Latia.
If he is to be engaged with this woman, the most important thing for me is what makes him special to you?
And does she reciprocate the love feelings that he has for her?
Someone who really is in love should be able to answer those questions.
So what makes you love my son?
What made that happen?
What is it?
So I knew that I loved Grant when I saw him with my family.
He's so conscientious and like aware of everyone's needs and he wants to take care of everyone around him.
That is so Grant.
Which is like such an admirable trait.
And that's a trait that I want and a partner for my kids.
Like he's been like that since a little boy.
I always saw.
It's in him.
Always tell.
So when you leave the surrounding of the bachelor and this has all faded away, what will it look like to you back at work, having to maybe look for a home or having kids at some point?
That's a good question.
I would never expect him to move to me.
So I think if we kind of can start in a neutral place where it's new for both of us and we figure it out together.
You know, my family is amazing and I love them, but I want my kids to learn from.
I want our kids.
Sorry.
Dumbling on a little bit.
Sorry.
That's about it.
But see, she keeps bringing up the kids, right?
This is a crucial mistake.
Okay.
And the reason is, Grant is a guy, I think he's early 30s.
She, here's the thing: if you're 31 as a woman, you really got to make a choice.
Do I want the kid or the man?
Melania did not have her first kid till 34.
How did she pull that off in her early 30s, late 20s?
Now, granted, she's beautiful.
She's an eight, eight plus, right?
Eight plus category.
She's beautiful.
But do you think she would be able to nag him into having kids when she wanted?
Hell no.
Her game plan was be as nice to him as possible and hope I get one or two.
That's that's really all you can get.
And that's really what I would recommend that she do.
Look, this is a guy.
It's going to be tough to replace him.
What I would do in your shoes is I would not bring that up at all.
I would not bring up the biological clock.
I would just eat that.
And every time you're feeling anxious, I would just try to be nicer to him.
That's what I would tell her to do.
I would be like, look, I would just, I would go the route of learning to cook his favorite food, massage.
Do you know what I mean?
Figure out what he wants and do that.
Be really happy to see him.
And if you do this for long enough, he'll probably come around if he's really looking for a wife.
Or you pull the plug if, like, if this timeline, then you got to start going the desperate route.
And really, you're only going to get either a guy that's ready.
So either you might get lucky, right?
Maybe she goes, finds another Mormon guy who he's already thought all this through.
He wants a wife in the next two years.
He is ready now.
Okay, you get lucky.
Or number two, guy that's desperate.
That's it.
That's all you got.
Him, this guy, this is why she fumbled.
This is it.
I would love for them to learn from you.
That is so beautiful.
And from your family, I think.
That is so beautiful.
Yeah, I just, you know, yeah.
You know, Grant, he's gone through a lot.
Yeah.
We have experienced hard times with our family.
Dad having that history of drug abuse, and Grant was struggling to find his happiness.
And so I saw that real down, dark place he was in.
This has been a joy for me to see him so happy.
I see him.
Just with my time with him, I just understood how hard of a time he's had.
It's been lonelier for him than I realized.
Just a major lonely time.
Yeah.
But oh no, he loves you.
So you get the idea.
She is, the family loves her, but she just kept bringing that stuff up.
Now, that was her mistake.
She kept emphasizing her timeline.
She told Grant that she wanted kids within two years, and this was a huge mistake.
Don't ever try to take away the man's ability to determine when he has kids and who he has them with.
Latia made that mistake and lost.
Grant's first interaction in the finale was with Latia.
He turns her down and she makes many mistakes.
You know, modern women, we just can't take rejection.
Yes, he said he loved you.
Yes, he said he wanted to be with you and have kids with you, but it's TV.
You're on TV.
And also, men have the right, just like women, to change their mind.
So what did she expect?
Latia made the mistake of thinking that Grant owed her something, like most women do.
Grant owed her nothing, and it was his choice to make.
And he made the choice, and she got upset.
Grant.
So this is, we're about to watch her take an L.
So she thinks she's about to get proposed to.
Look at that face.
She doesn't know what's coming.
I started falling for you on week two, but I didn't tell you because I don't like to express it, you know.
And the other thing, too, is mentally, she's just so young.
You can just tell she's stunted.
Like the way she talks, it's not like a 31-year-old woman.
It's like a 21-year-old woman.
And when you get to 31, it's just not as cute anymore, right?
And this happens a lot with the conservatives or religious folks.
They get really stunted because they tell them to delay relationships.
And so a woman is, it's not that abnormal for a woman to have like a crash out breakup, right?
But you're supposed to have that at like 16 or 15, right?
You crash out, you take that L.
But as adults, we just keep pushing this off, right?
In our early 20s.
Now, and we've had women.
Now, it's ideal, right?
For women to never have a crash out, I know, but it's just like it's ideal for men to never simp, right?
Women have a tendency to just have one crash out, right?
I'm just, I'm just trying to be honest here.
You know, all these other conservatives will try to virtue signal and say, oh, we're so above that.
Look, but like, you should have done that at 21.
Now, if you're 31, what you're supposed to bring to the table is maturity.
Like, real maturity, not this annoying maturity.
Like, I know what I want.
Like, you know what men want because you've paid attention, right?
And on our one-on-one in Scotland, I knew that I loved you hearing you talk about your childhood and how hard it was for you growing up and how alone you felt sometimes.
It made me want to give your family where you never have to feel that way.
And it made me want to make a home where our kids will always know that they're loved and cherished.
I kicked to you as my husband and he just felt complete for me.
You see his face?
He's like, I don't want to do this.
I love you so much.
And I feel so lucky to be loved by you.
You just have shown me how I want to be loved forever.
Yeah.
Oh.
Oh, no.
Letia.
Yeah, she knows now.
Uh-oh.
Yeah, this is it.
This is, you guys see this?
I've been looking for an emotional connection.
And I feel like I have that with me.
I feel like.
You do.
Oh, no.
See, this is the coping.
You are one of the most amazing, beautiful women that I've ever met.
And you deserve love.
You deserve to be treated right.
This is hard for me.
Let you know I love you very much.
I want to give you everything that you deserve.
But I'm not your person.
And here's the thing.
How a woman reacts in a breakup shows her true character, right?
That.
Okay.
And I'm sorry to have gotten to this point.
My emotional connection is stronger somewhere else.
When did it change?
There's her real voice.
Isn't that crazy?
It didn't change.
I do love you.
And I don't want you to feel like I haven't been open.
I haven't been honest because I have been.
And I'm truly sorry.
And I hope you don't view me any differently.
And I hope that I can.
I do, for sure.
Go on now.
What was that?
See?
And they're like, now it's like the hood is coming out.
And this is the thing, this reaction, guys.
He is thinking in his head he is so happy that he picked the other woman.
When you crash out, he just, what he's going to do is he's going to say, thank you, God.
Your chance of ever getting back together, if you really loved him, right?
Because if you really loved him, it's like you're going to want to get back with him.
But if you didn't actually love him, which she didn't, she just wanted something out of him.
I mean, so this is great for both of them.
But then you would want, you would take him back.
Do you know what I mean?
Like all these women saying I would never take him back.
They're so full of shit.
They'll beg.
We'll beg.
None of us are about begging, okay?
For the right guy.
But, like, when you crash out, now he just knows you're too much of a flight risk.
This is not about me.
It's hard for you.
It's all about you.
But this moment is not.
It's not.
I'm concerned about how you feel.
And no, I think I got my answers.
I'm disappointed.
Yeah, you're different than I thought.
Is that like, I don't know what so now she's like insulting him, right?
You're a bad person because you didn't pick me.
And if she really loved him, she would want him to be happy.
But she just wanted something out of him.
That necessarily.
Listen.
Yeah, he's afraid of her retribution.
Yeah, he's scared.
He's terrified.
I know that you view me differently, but I hope that you see how.
She's just crashing out.
I would.
Yeah.
I would.
I'm just trying to figure out what best suits me.
And that's where I'm at.
Juliana is a beautiful woman.
And she deserves love.
And I love her.
And I would have a lot of questions if I were her.
From the things that you've said to me.
And I think.
Oh, come on.
Who hasn't said things at some point that they didn't really mean?
Come on.
You're telling me in your 31 years of life you've never let a guy on ever?
Oh, come on.
Come on.
That's for you guys to work out.
That's in my business.
I don't mean to end things like this, but this is how I feel.
Like, he's been really respectful.
I feel.
I have to be honest.
Sure.
Yeah.
I've been sleeping or I've been... I can't.
Come on.
The things that you've said to me all along the way make this decision that you've made so much more devastating for me.
The switch up is crazy.
I didn't switch up.
I have yeah, she's the one switching up.
Do you see us women?
Everything we call men, we are.
So she just switched up.
Like I didn't hear that voice the whole season.
Okay.
You're right.
You guys see, men will just like they don't want to argue and they just say, you're right.
You win.
You're right.
How many of you have done that?
One in the chat.
One in the chat.
If you're fighting with your ex-girlfriend, your ex-wife, and you just say, you're right, you win.
You win.
You're right.
Right.
Do you know how much you have to push a man to crash out?
Because they just don't care.
It takes so.
When I see a guy crash out, like when I see, I hate to say this, but when I see those guys like shoot their families, right?
Or like really crash out.
It's totally wrong.
They shouldn't do that.
That's totally, I'm sure there was a screw loose a little bit.
But like, what did you do to make him crash out so hard?
Do you know what I mean?
Like when they, when they're like normal men and they just like the Gabby Petito, you know, respectfully, not all, not all, not all.
But, and I don't know that's not off of any evidence.
That's just my speculation.
That's speculation.
You just wonder, like, what did you do?
Like, how what did you do to make him crash out?
Because men, I mean, they're just kind of indifferent.
They want to play their video games.
They want to go to work.
They want to make money.
They don't want to fight, you know?
I'll take responsibility for that.
I'm disappointed.
See you.
I still have love for you, but it came down to the final day where I have to make a decision.
And I think that the situation is very awkward and difficult.
And I'm not perfect.
I tried to do my best.
And I'm truly sorry.
I believe that.
I just want to be so clear that I'm confused and I'm sad and I'm mad.
I'm sorry that I made you feel like that.
And I mean that from the bottom of my heart.
I do love you and I wish the best for you.
Thank you.
Yeah.
So, you know, it's interesting.
This franchise is she gonna cry.
How disappointing.
I don't even think she's really sad.
I think she's just mad she didn't get what she wanted.
Okay.
What's interesting is this franchise is known for failed relationships, right?
Like they literally, like, they never stay together ever.
Ever.
And I was curious because there was a couple episodes.
I remembered there was one guy a couple seasons ago who got with like his seventh choice, right?
And I googled how many of the men chose second, like broke up with the first place girl and then went back to the second place girl.
And there were three.
And you know what's crazy?
Two out of three, they're still with her to this day after like a decade and they have kids with them.
The like staying together rate of The Bachelor is like one for 20.
Like none of them are still together.
But the staying together rate of the men that picked their second choice in this franchise is two out of three.
That's kind of crazy.
Okay, so this is the type of woman that handles a breakup badly and that any man that saw this would avoid her like the plague.
A whole different accent came out of this girl when she got upset.
Now, let's contrast this with the rejection of another season of The Bachelor.
Ari, he rejects a woman, and look at how much better she handles the rejection.
I'm just grace in class.
And he ended up dumping his first pick, getting back with her, and they have kids today.
So this is him dumping her, okay?
I just fall in love with you.
I'm extremely confused.
I know.
I know.
And I knew you would be.
I wish you the best.
I don't have a lot else to say other than that.
Do you see that reaction?
That's it.
Okay, wish you the best.
Now he married that woman.
He has kids with her now.
Okay.
See, he's regretting.
He's like, what did I do?
I'm so sorry.
Now he's feeling bad.
Can I walk you out?
You see, he said, Can I walk you out?
The other girl was like, get off of me.
This girl is like, okay.
And the llamas are in the background.
I will say over the years, the women get uglier and uglier.
Like, I would give her a 7-8.
I would give her actually an 8.
She's pretty high.
I didn't know.
I didn't know fully until this morning.
I was in love with her.
I was in love with you.
And I'm sorry I had to put you through this.
I still love you too.
See, that would make you think about it too, wouldn't it, guys?
Every time his first choice starts acting up, he's getting a flashback to this.
Yeah.
Who wants to see him tell his first choice for fun?
Ari breaks up with Becca.
For fun, I'm going to show you this one.
Yeah, look at this.
I decided to call off the engagement and break up with Becca.
I feel terrible.
I never wanted to hurt Becca.
Oh my gosh.
There it is.
Yeah, anyways.
Hold on, hold on.
I want to get to it.
Oh my gosh.
There it is.
I know it's big.
No, I like it.
You're making me really nervous right now.
How do I start this conversation?
You know, that I've been struggling a little bit.
And I think over the last couple times we've been hanging out, I've been really trying to sort my feelings out and trying to trying to grasp this whole thing, you know.
And the reality of it is that, you know, being with you, although it's been everything that I wanted, I still think about her.
And I think you sense that.
Yep, cooked.
What is she?
And I think for me, the more I hung out with you, the more I felt like I was losing the possibility of maybe reconciling things with Lauren.
Wow.
Oh, my God.
Oh, that's such an L.
So what?
Do you want to suck with her?
I want to see if there's that possibility.
Are you kidding me?
Yep, and now he's about to realize, yep, made the right choice.
when i dumped her she was so nice yeah i know i made that commitment to you and i know that this is like this is obviously a shock for you Yep.
And now, now he's, now he's more sure, right?
We just did the side-by-side of the breakups, right?
So girl one was like, I love you.
I still love you.
Okay.
And she was like, are you fucking kidding me?
Now there's even more clarity in his decision.
And I know that it's, you've always said, you know, guard your heart, figure out where your heart is.
And I know that the last week's been really tough for you.
I have to follow my heart She's probably never been dumped in her life and now she's getting dumped on TV.
Was this when you had your conversation with her?
And what?
When I spoke to her, I just realized that there was all that feeling there.
So I know, here's the thing.
So whatever.
She's going to go crash out.
So now, Ari, let's see who gets back.
Lauren, let's see them get back together for fun.
All right.
Come up here.
Now he's back.
I'm going to pass out.
I've made some bad decisions, but the best decision was running back to you.
I can't imagine a life without you.
You have shown me a love that is patient.
A lot of that is kind.
And I truly believe you are my soulmate.
I'm ready to face this life with you and all that comes with it.
The good and the bad.
I love you so much.
And I want to do this in front of everyone because I want to show you that I should have done this a long time ago.
Elizabeth Burnham.
Were you married?
Definitely.
Yeah, okay.
So you guys get the idea.
I'm sorry I'm torturing you with reality TV today, but I think there's some interesting lessons here.
So now I want to show you guys another one of a woman who did a very good breakup.
Now, to be fair, she did not get back with the guy.
But do you know what's crazy?
She got back with a different ex and she's married now, this woman.
So she realized in the car that the other contestant had said, I love you too.
So she realized, oh, he didn't say that to me.
She knew going in.
Now she could have crashed out.
I feel beautiful.
Thank you.
You look very handsome.
Thank you.
Daisy.
From the beginning of all this, I had fears of if I was going to create a real connection.
And to know that you were my first connection, to know how much we built during that time, to have the last night that we did, which I truthfully thought was the best night we had yet, where I knew that you understood me, my fears, my insecurities, but just got me to my core.
Showed me how strong the connection really was.
Joey, it's crazy to think how far we've come from the beginning, me getting out with my Christmas tree and how we just progressed to telling each other we were falling in love with each other.
And I know that you came to my life for a reason because you've shown me so much about a different part of me that lights up and how special it is to show that light.
And you showed me how important it is to know my worth.
Falling in love with you has been so fun.
And I do love you.
Oh.
But the thing is, you're not going to choose me.
She says, you're not going to choose me, right?
In the last couple of days, I realized that, you know, you're not my person.
And I know that you know about me.
And as much as that hurts, I know you said you were the best for me.
So I'm going to do what's the best for me.
And I'm going to go.
So this was very classy, right?
She says, I know you're not going to pick me.
So I'm going to do what's best for me and I'm going to go.
You can't fault that.
Do you know what I mean?
You can't.
I knew, I knew when I saw her get rejected, I was like, she's going to be married within like two years.
And I just googled her.
I guess she's taking some L's and dating because her college boyfriend dumped her too.
But I guess maybe he saw her on TV and was like, damn, I liked Daisy and now they just are getting married.
Yeah.
I mean, so, you know, sometimes guys, I've seen this where they'll go through their 20s, right?
And these are like the better-looking guys.
And then they get to their early 30s or maybe mid-30s when they want to settle down.
And sometimes they pick the best woman from their past.
So they pick like, I know another woman this happened to.
She got, she got divorced, right?
And long story short, her high school boyfriend reached out to her and she like got back with him because she was such a good woman, but he wanted to go slay some hoes, right?
He wanted to go out.
And so sometimes that happens.
I wouldn't bet on it, ladies, and he's most likely not going to come back.
But if he does, that's it.
So then they walk each other back.
I mean, I'm torturing you guys a little bit with this episode today, but I don't care.
I made this show.
I'm doing it.
Okay, so there's a couple lessons we can learn from this.
And before I get into that, I want to read any comments.
Hold on, actually.
I'm going to do this first.
I'm going to tell you the lessons.
So, number one, as a woman, you're probably not going to get your ex back.
It's probably not going to happen.
But if he does come back, it's really highly dependent on how you act during the breakup.
Crash out, it's going to be tougher.
He might come back, but it's only because he has no other choice.
Yeah, that's it.
But if you really crash out, you're never.
See, it was women do code switch like crazy.
Latia literally had two different voices and we didn't know.
Three, and the world will reward women like Latia for bad behavior.
She's probably going to get to be the bachelorette or have other brand opportunities because she crashed out on a man on live TV.
Unfortunately, the world does reward you for that.
And four, Latia tried to make her timeline his problem.
So you have two choices as a woman.
You can decide what you want more.
The kids or the man.
I'm not saying you can't get both.
You can, but only if you're young when you're crunching the time.
You really got to pick.
It's get on his timeline or find a guy that is ready or wants to get on yours because of desperation.
Number three, the only time a guy is going to change when he wants children is because he has no other choice.
So we're going to do a Zoom link quick.
And guys, I need you guys to get to the point.
It's going to be four minutes or less.
We started late today, so I do want to get some sleep, you know.
So, but I do want to know what is the worst way a girl handed a breakup or rejection?
And are there any X's that you would get back with?
Or that you, yeah, that you would get back with.
So if either of those questions apply, do you call in, tell me the story.
I'm going to pay attention to the chat and also do a shameless plug.
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Okay, so if Latia, Doug MPA says, if Latia is Mormon, why isn't she married already?
What has she been doing up to this point?
Getting her back blown out.
Thank you, Doug MPA.
Let's see.
He also says I'd smash, though.
I mean, yeah.
Let's see.
Let me see.
Let me see if there's any other Pearl Reed.
I don't see any other Pearl Reed from the chat on the website.
So, Doug MPA, why don't you give your thoughts first and then we'll move on to the call line?
Thanks for calling in.
As usual, it's a pleasure.
So, a couple of thoughts.
I put it in the chat on both, but this is what women watch instead of the WNBA.
This is why the WNBA never take off because they watch garbage like The Bachelor.
Yeah, it's kind of good, all right?
Pro Sephida.
She was gonna do this show today, and I was like, No way, yeah, and she did.
Yeah, I did, I meant it.
Okay, but there was, I thought it was so interesting that two out of three of the men that picked their second choice were still with them.
Do you know how low the success rate is of The Bachelor?
I couldn't believe those numbers now.
Now, I think we talked about it offline, but tell them your theory about a woman being second place and still you said that they have to be humble.
Yeah.
So, the reason I thought that this worked, right?
The reason I think the second place women seem to work out.
So, they all got dumped on national TV.
Do you know how embarrassing that is as a woman?
Like, to get like they got dumped to the extreme because they were promised marriage.
So, they got all the clout of getting proposed to, right?
They got all the attention.
They got all the, they got to be like a famous couple.
That's like women's dream.
And so, they got that high and then it got taken away, right?
So, that's like giving a girl candy and then saying, Never mind, right?
And so, if the woman, what now?
Let's say the guy, um, Ari, when he got back with that woman, what would have given her the most clout is if she said, No, I deserve somebody that picks me first, and she could go be a victim of Polly, right?
She could do like that whole charade.
But if the women are willing to say, Do you know what?
I understand that that was a difficult situation, and I want to be with you, they care about him more than the clout.
And they also have the fear of like, I think that the best girlfriends are girlfriends you've dumped, like at least once because they know they know you'll do it, right?
So, what you're talking about is the difference between you can have the short-term gratification of pleasing the sisterhood and shutting the high-value man down that came back to you, or you can look at the long-term strategy.
Yeah, I'm saying, yeah, and so the women a lot of these women don't realize when they do something like that for the sisterhood, you only have about I'd say a little more than 15 minutes of fame, maybe about 25 to 30 minutes of fame, and then the sisterhood's moved on to something else, and you're stuck being single with your cats.
Yeah, and the so the women that pick the men, even after that, one, they know they can get dumped, so they have to be on their best behavior.
Um, two, they have to kill their ego because a lot of women are gonna make fun of them and say that like you shouldn't be with him.
Um, yeah, so that's my theory.
Yeah, I agree, they like him more than the clout, which is a lot for women.
We love clout, we love it.
So, to like a man more than the clout, it's like she must really love him.
Yeah, so why don't we go first to um, do you know who's first, Doug MPA?
Uh, the producer has to let people into the show because I don't see anybody.
Oh, you can't, okay.
So, we'll do um, Dustin first, maybe.
And so, the two questions we're allowing people to answer, um, and you can answer Dustin when you come on.
Just tell me which one of these is relevant.
If they both are, you're welcome to tell two stories.
But the questions are: are there any exes that you would get back with because of how they handled the breakup, or what was the worst way a girl handled a breakup or rejection?
Yeah, so there was uh, just gonna say, like, fucking awesome.
I really got turned on to you when you beat when you debated that Daily Wire guy, and he made me save some money on that subscription.
But, um, let's go.
Uh, there was a I dated this super beautiful woman when I was younger, and she was like everything that a guy that's 27 could ask for.
Like, she didn't care that I messed around with other chicks, she just said, Don't embarrass me.
And one time, I embarrassed her, and she was like, Don't like if you do it, just don't let me hear about it.
Like, I don't want to, I can hear about it from you, but not anyone else.
And um, I broke up with her just because she drank too much.
And, you know, when women are on antidepressants, that is a huge red flag.
Man, if you see a pill bottle on the night, then you gotta bounce.
And so, I would take her back, and when she kind of got correct, I really wanted to go back to her.
But she got like you know, she got knocked up by some other guy, so maybe it was maybe I dodged a bullet there.
And in regards to a breakup, man, no one really says these things, but I had a girl create five different phone numbers because she really wanted to get back to me.
She said she loved me and all that, but I think it was just like infatuation-type thing.
Um, it wasn't a real life.
I had a lot of money from a car accident that I got into when I was younger, and four people died.
I was the only one that lived, and they didn't think I would make it.
So, I got a lot of money out of settlement.
So, my whole relationship with this woman was fake.
Like, she was way out of my league and everything.
But when I broke up with her, there was no one to take her on nice dates anymore.
And she just went really psycho.
What did you do to quote-unquote embarrass her?
You don't have to get into too big a detail, but yeah, I just had just slept.
I had just slept with like a couple other women that were in our circle.
Oh, so someone she knew, yeah.
So it was, it was uh, like she was actually my boss, and um, so it kind of got a little like you shouldn't, you know, wait, hold on.
You cheated.
The girl you were dating wasn't your boss, but you cheated on the girl with your boss.
No, I was dating my boss.
We were both at the same employment level when we first started working together.
I was bartending at a casino, and then she got promoted to my manager.
And then, like, I just kept shagging all the other servers because, you know, like Valentine's Day.
Restaurants, bro.
I understand.
I waited tables for eight and a half years, bro.
I know all about it.
Yeah, dude.
Every Valentine's Day, you hear one of the girls, they go, it's single awareness day.
And once I hear that, I know who I'm sleeping with.
It's true.
It's true, guys.
He's facts.
He is 100% facts.
And don't become a bartender.
Servers get it, but when you become a bartender, man, it's over.
It's because like people just think you know everything.
And it's like, it's just people respect you when you can make a good drink.
I don't know.
It's not even that hard.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, thank you for calling in.
We're going to move on to the next call.
Yeah, thanks, Colin.
Yeah.
Thanks.
Yeah.
Bye.
Bye.
Guys, I just want to tell the chat that was perfect.
You see, he got right to the story.
He got right to the point.
He gave him back to back.
Didn't drone on.
That was great.
You be like Dustin.
Okay.
And I don't mean this to be rude.
It's just, I need to tell you guys how we're going to try to do the show.
Yeah.
So it's not to be rude, but that like we need people to call in and we love the stories, but we want to get multiple to make it a better show.
We got C. Hello.
So the two questions we are asking people, and you can respond to either one that applies.
Are there any exes you would get back with because of how they handled the breakup?
Or what was the worst way a girl handled a breakup or rejection?
Yeah, sure.
What's up, Pearl?
I would probably go with the first question.
And my answer to that would be yes.
There is a certain girlfriend actually a few years ago.
So we broke up probably like five or six years ago.
But I remember about three or maybe two or three years ago, I wanted to actually get back with her.
And a big reason for that was well she took the breakup, how understanding she was.
And it kind of gave me a feeling I hadn't felt before with previous exes because it's always been one of those big crash outs.
But anyways, yeah.
So about two years ago, you know, I was, I don't know why, but I just had thought of her again and I wanted to reach back out.
Saw her on Facebook and it turns out that she was engaged.
So I wasn't too surprised to see that.
But yeah.
But yeah, it's kind of crazy how it works.
Yeah.
Well, how did she handle the breakup that was better than other women?
Like, was there something that she said to you that stuck out?
Or what was it in particular?
Yeah.
I mean, I think, yeah, it was more just, she definitely said all the right things for one.
I mean, like, she said, like, I deserve to be happy.
And something else that actually threw me off, I don't know why, but when she initially reacted and even after I broke up with her, it never really sat well with me.
It was just a situation where I didn't want to be committed to one person.
I was still young and I wanted to sleep around.
That's just the reality of it.
But she even, one thing that did stand out was she did take the initiative to apologize for some of her shortcomings, I guess, during the relationship, which like really, again, it just threw me for a loop because I'm just so used to, you know, the biggest crash outs or what feel like the biggest crash outs.
So I think when she almost like.
I wouldn't say she was calm because she was crying, but it was more like sorrow and no anger.
I just think that that was a big thing.
And then as I got older and as the years progressed and after dealing with more crazy women, I think it made it really easy for that girl to come back in my mind.
Were there any women, like what was the worst crash out you had?
Nothing too crazy or too extreme.
I would say just like the usual, like, like I've had a I've had a girl, you know, like basically like break one of my belongings.
Like I had a monitor broken, which was kind of extreme at the time.
She had tried to actually break my PlayStation as well, but thankfully I was able to revive it.
A PS4, PS5?
What are we talking about here?
It was a PS5, actually.
Oh, man.
So she ripped my PS5, which was attached to my monitor off my desk.
And then thankfully she stormed out because obviously, like, if she had not left after that, I would have obviously had to call the cops.
But that was basically the extent of what she did.
It was basically more of a physical crash out than anything.
They always go for the PC or the gaming console.
Always.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I wasn't surprised.
I was trying to protect it, but.
Well, thank you very much for calling in.
Appreciate it, bro.
Have a good one.
You too.
Those were perfect callers.
You guys did great.
You have any final thoughts?
I think that's all the calls we have.
Yeah.
Guys, I always say life is never going to be fair for men.
So modern feminism is women fighting for life to be as unfair for them as it is for men.
So you're going to see women trying to go out here, go after men that are out of their league and take L's.
Women are having to face rejection in mass for the first time in history.
Yeah.
I mean, men have gone for women out of their league and taken L's forever.
You know what I mean?
But they eat them, right?
They don't crash out.
They just, well, occasionally.
But I would say overall, men just take the L and they move on.
Yeah, we're going to have to do a show on women getting rejected and crashing out because that's another thing, unfortunately, that women put all over social media just them crashing out and getting rejected.
Yeah, we should do a how to take an L lesson.
Okay, thanks so much for calling in, Doug MPA.
As always, talk to you later.
Talk to you later.
All right, guys.
Thanks so much for watching tonight.
I really appreciate all of you.
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And let me know in the comments what's the worst crash out you've ever had a woman have over a breakup like the video.
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