Matt Walsh vs Annoying Social Behaviors
Matt tackles two of the biggest social annoyances of our time: pay it forward lines and bicyclists. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Matt tackles two of the biggest social annoyances of our time: pay it forward lines and bicyclists. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Thank you for our daily cancellation. | |
We are cancelling the dreaded, the stupid, the pointless, pay-it-forward, drive-through chains. | |
Now, if you aren't familiar with this thoroughly first-world phenomenon, here's a story about the latest one to pop up from CNN. | |
There's a bunch of stories about this yesterday, but CNN says, what started as a random act of kindness from one man paying for the car behind him in a Dairy Queen drive-thru resulted in over 900 cars also taking part in the pay-it-forward chain. | |
At a drive-thru in Brainerd, Minnesota, over 100 miles north of Minneapolis, people stepped up in a small way to show one another that they care. | |
Tina Jensen, the store manager at one of the two Dairy Queens in town, told CNN, a man came by the drive-thru window on Thursday and asked if he could pay for his meal and for the car behind him. | |
Jensen told her cashier, this tends to happen once in a while, but at most it lasts for 15 or 20 cars and fizzles out. | |
This time, the chain continued for two and a half days, with over 900 cars participating, raking in $10,000 in sales. | |
When the next customer came to the fast food chain's window, Jensen explained what the man in front of them had done, and the act of kindness continued to multiply. | |
Jensen said, there's all different types of ways to help people. | |
I think this touched a lot of people that we didn't even know it touched deeper than we know, and you don't know what's going on in a person's life. | |
When the chain closed for the night, on Thursday, one car left $10 to begin the chain back up on Friday morning, and then the same thing happened on Friday night, and it began on Saturday morning. | |
Okay. | |
So that's how it works. | |
Somebody pays for the meal of the person behind them in line, then that person pays for the person behind them, and on and on it goes. | |
But do you know who the real hero in this story is? | |
Not the first person to pay for the next person, no. | |
The real hero is whoever broke the chain and simply accepted the charity from the person in front and drove away, leaving the person behind them to pay for their own damned fudge sundae. | |
All of the people in between the first guy, who may have been well-intentioned but should have thought more about the consequences of his actions, and the last guy, who had the courage to end the whole charade, everybody else, these were just sheep. | |
They weren't performing acts of kindness. | |
This wasn't charity. | |
They did it because they were too embarrassed and felt too much social pressure not to do it. | |
If it's charity at all, it's coerced charity and not for a meaningful cause either. | |
The people in the drive-thru line have disposable income that they were already planning to spend on the same kind of junk that you're buying. | |
They don't need your money. | |
Really, this kind of charity, if it is charity at all, again, is similar to the sort of charity that you perform When you're checking out at the grocery store and the cashier asks if you want to round up and donate your change to, you know, orphaned sea otters or whatever. | |
The only reason you say yes is because you'd feel like a cheap ass refusing to give your 27 cents to the sea otters. | |
It's not something that comes from the kindness of your heart. | |
If you wanted to help the sea otters on your own time, you would. | |
Right now, all you want to do is pay for your carton of eggs and your package of paper towels and leave. | |
The grocery store is taking advantage of your sense of shame to bilk another few cents out of you. | |
Another few cents of which they will surely take a cut, by the way. | |
But while the grocery store charity gambit is a calculated ploy to take advantage of people who don't have the spine to say no, the pay-it-forward chain is more of a case of collective insanity. | |
Everyone is doing it, but nobody knows why. | |
If you want to understand how crazy it is, imagine how it would come across if you took, you know, take the fast food and the cars out of the equation, okay? | |
Now imagine you're standing in a long line of people waiting for something, and the guy in front turns to you, | |
gives you $5 out of his wallet, and then suggests that you turn around and give the person | |
behind you some money out of your wallet, and on and on and on. | |
Now you're all just passing money backwards for absolutely no reason. | |
Nobody wants to be doing it or knows why they're doing it, but it continues until some free thinker accepts the cash from the person in front and says, hey, thanks for the money, puts it in their pocket and gives nothing to the person behind. | |
That person, again, is the admirable character in this strange saga. | |
Now, if I sound like I'm speaking from a place of personal trauma when I talk about this, that's because I am. | |
I used to live near a Starbucks, where this would happen frequently. | |
I was duped by it, I'm ashamed to admit, one time, and one time only. | |
I pulled up to the window to pay for my one single coffee for $2.65, and the girl at the window told me that the bill had been paid by the guy in front. | |
Then she informed me that they were doing this pay-it-forward thing where each person pays for the one behind. | |
And she asked me if I wanted to participate and told me that, you know, they kept the chain going for 50 cars so far, or however many it was. | |
So I said, uh, yeah, okay, sure. | |
And then she said, okay, that'll be $43.50. | |
I had just traded in my $2 coffee for a whole SUV load of lattes and frappuccinos and God only knows what else. | |
It was the worst deal in history, as Trump might have said if he had saw it. | |
So I drove away, broken, confused. | |
My coffee now tinged with a taste of betrayal. | |
And I resolved then to never allow myself to be shamed into empty gestures of pointless charity. | |
And from then on, whenever someone in front paid for my drink, I said, oh, great. | |
I accepted the free coffee, drove away with no remorse. | |
In fact, proud that I had saved others from this farce. | |
And even when the cashier asks me now about the sea otters, I say, no, thank you. | |
I don't want to help them. | |
In fact, the sea otters can go to hell. | |
And I walk away feeling fine, though wondering if I was a little harsher towards the sea otters than necessary. | |
Anyway, this is why the pay-it-forward drive-through lines are cancelled. | |
Forever and always. | |
By the way, I must also acknowledge my own debt for the cancellation today. | |
This was inspired by Amanda Prestigiacomo, a writer for The Daily Wire, who spoke out against this yesterday. | |
The pay-it-forward lines on Twitter got me thinking about this. | |
So she is the opposite of cancelled, but everybody else in that 900 person chain in Minnesota is, | |
unfortunately, cancelled. | |
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So today we're going to cancel this man, Ryan Dorsey, and all his kind, all his ilk. | |
He's a Baltimore City Council member, I should say. | |
And I don't mean that kind. | |
That's not the kind I'm referring to. | |
Though, sure, we can cancel the Baltimore City Council, I guess. | |
Why not? | |
They really haven't been doing much good recently. | |
And by recently, I mean for the past, I don't know, five decades or so. | |
But that's not the point today. | |
The point is this tweet from Dorsey, and there's a picture there of a FedEx truck in a bike lane in the city and it says, quote, Hey FedEx, I told your driver here to get out of the bike lane he was obstructing, which I happen to be biking in. | |
His response was, get a car. | |
Now, needless to say, this FedEx driver is awesome. | |
Ryan Dorsey, on the other hand, is the lamest dork this side of Justin Trudeau. | |
Not only is he riding a bike and bitching at a delivery guy, but after the delivery guy verbally backhands him, he posts his own humiliation on social media, thinking he'll get sympathy from the public rather than the relentless mockery and scorn he deserves. | |
Quick tip here, even for people who aren't lame dorks, When the internet has to choose between sympathy or scorn, it will always choose scorn. | |
Always. | |
So, keep that in mind, or learn it the hard way, as Ryan Dorsey has. | |
But, this behavior is what I would expect from Dorsey, given that he is a cyclist. | |
Cyclists, and I mean those who ride bikes on the street, and you know, streets, those things where cars go, Those kinds of cyclists are a cursed breed. | |
They are among the worst people on earth. | |
The absolute dregs of humanity. | |
No offense intended. | |
Every time I'm driving down a busy street and traffic is backed up for miles because everyone has to navigate around some weirdo on a bike, I am perplexed anew. | |
How is this even legal? | |
I think to myself. | |
Why are we allowing people to ride their bikes on roads where cars are supposed to go? | |
Now, I get that you want to exercise. | |
That's fine. | |
But why are you exercising in the damned street during rush hour? | |
I like to exercise, too. | |
I'm not going to set up a bench press on the freeway. | |
I'm not going to take an ab roller down to the nearest intersection. | |
Hey, give me a minute. | |
I got three more sets, alright? | |
Hold on. | |
Why won't I do that? | |
Because I'm not a lunatic. | |
And I care about other people. | |
Sort of. | |
At least, I'm not going to go out of my way to make their commute longer and more stressful than it already is. | |
I'm not going to do that. | |
Cyclists do that. | |
Now, what gets me about the bike riders is their sense of entitlement. | |
It's not just that they have the audacity to play with their toy in the street. | |
It's that they get angry at you for being there. | |
They act like you are inconveniencing them. | |
They act like you just jumped on the same elliptical that they were using at the gym. | |
But the street is not your elliptical. | |
It's a street. | |
If you want an elliptical, go use an elliptical. | |
And if you want to play with your bike, go to a park or a bike trail in the woods. | |
Or maybe Daddy can take you down to the tennis courts near the playground so you can ride your big wheel around. | |
Maybe that. | |
Or better yet, ditch the bike and be an adult. | |
Find a hobby that isn't as likely to make you a victim of vehicular manslaughter. | |
Just a thought. | |
Now, I know I'll be told that some people use bikes as transportation, not as toys or exercise equipment. | |
Fine. | |
But the street is for a certain type of transportation. | |
Vehicle transportation. | |
If you can use your bike as transportation on the street, then why can't I use a pogo stick? | |
Why can't I pogo down to work? | |
Maybe the city can build me a pogo lane. | |
Just for me. | |
You know, why can't I take this office chair right here? | |
It's got wheels. | |
I just roll it down the highway. | |
Why can't I go out to 10th Avenue and do cartwheels for five blocks? | |
It's just transportation. | |
Hey, this is how I get to work, all right? | |
I cartwheel to work. | |
We all have our methods. | |
Why not? | |
Because, again, that would be insane. | |
And the road isn't made for it. | |
The road, in fact, is made so that 5,000 pound hunks of metal can fly down them at high speeds. | |
That's what it's there for. | |
It's not made so that middle-aged vegetarians in spandex shorts can burn off some calories on the way to work. | |
Commuting is not a time for burning calories anyway. | |
That's the other annoying thing. | |
The rest of us are jamming donuts into our fat faces while we sit in traffic and stew in our own body fat and misery, and you're riding by all brisk and healthy and happy. | |
It's irritating. | |
Especially around Thanksgiving. | |
And it's grotesque. | |
And it's dangerous. | |
And it's an inconvenience to me. | |
So, cyclists are cancelled. |