Girls Reveal How A Guy Can Get Out The FRIENDZONE!
Dom DeMarco and five women dissect the "friend zone," asserting that genuine platonic friendship is impossible without sexual intent. Panelists like Kelly, Sandy, and Lily argue men must abandon white-collar jobs for manual labor, demonstrate grit, and achieve significant financial wealth to attract partners. While one woman prefers responsible fathers over corporate earners, the group emphasizes ambition and spontaneity as key traits. The episode concludes with a crypto promotion predicting Bitcoin's rise through 2028, framing long-term investment as essential for male success in both dating and finance. [Automatically generated summary]
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I can drive away.
I can drive for the head away.
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What's up, guys?
Welcome to the first year podcast.
After I was disabled, we joined with five lovely ladies.
We just finished doing a Money Monday episode for you guys on cryptocurrency.
It's a pretty good episode with the Crypto Bros.
Are they still here?
Are they showing in the back?
I think they are in the back.
But you should get in crypto now before it goes up to a big point and then drop again.
As they mentioned before in the previous show, of course, down below and in the last video as well.
Yeah.
Any announcements from your end for Fresh real quick?
Because you have some plans for this week, right?
Yeah.
I will stream with Spring Break once again.
We knew Cloud and the rest.
And then 305 podcast as usual.
And then you're going to be out with Cloud tomorrow?
Yeah.
And then 305 as well.
And Chris?
Yep, we're here.
Dom DeMarco, welcome.
It's Monday, man.
Shout out to Mo and Bills.
You know, we got five girls on the panel.
All new girls, we're here.
You know, I'm drinking some energy drinks and I'll hend it to tonight.
You know, I have to, I can't drink for at least a few days.
But other than that, few days.
Yeah, yeah, I know.
I'm on my last round off air medicine, if you know what I mean.
Whatever.
It is what it is.
But anyways, shout out to the chat.
I see you guys on the panel.
Shout out to Castle Club.
Shout out to Rumble.
Shout out to YouTube.
Shout out to onlyfans.com slash Aaron Pox.
I'm talking.
Wait, what?
Yeah, me on my Twitch.
And let's make a great show.
And then also for me, guys, I got a new book out.
As you guys know, Amazon Bestseller.
Why Women Deserve Even Less?
Is it number one?
I can't see.
I can't see.
Can we alert it?
If I scroll up, I'm a dox list.
No, no, you're good.
It just shows like the area coded shit.
That's fine.
Click Kindle.
Kindle?
Let me check it right there.
Right there to your right.
To my right.
Yeah, see where it says Kindle.
That's the paperback you're looking at.
I don't think shit.
Oh, I think Kindle.
Yep, click that.
I can't see.
Hold on, let me make it real nice.
Yeah, I can't see it, bro.
You got to make it bigger for us.
Or do you see it on your side?
Either way, it's Amazon bestseller.
Okay.
There we go.
Number one in sexuality.
There we go.
And then on Kindle.
Dom DeMarco.
If you click paperback real quick on the right again.
There you go.
Right there.
We are number one in dating.
Let's fucking go.
Let's go.
So on Amazon.
Amazon.
Number one right now.
It's been number one for a few weeks.
The book's been out for about two weeks.
We're number one in feminist theory, psychology, dating, sexuality, etc.
The book's only 97 pages because women deserve less.
And don't forget to get the book number one, Why Women Deserve Less.
And then book number two is Why Women Deserve Even Less.
And then book number three is going to be Women Deserve Nothing.
So that's going to come out very soon.
Make sure you get the book, guys.
Audible is coming out very soon.
Hardcover as well.
Me and Chris are literally working on the hardcover version for you guys.
Yeah.
So, yeah, man, get the book.
It has a bunch of five stars ratings, as you guys can see here.
Only a couple of libtards went and gave it a low rating because they're pissed off.
I think it was from the Netflix documentary.
But other than that, of course.
Yeah, man.
Go get the book, guys.
It's live on Amazon right now.
Link is below.
So, yeah.
Well, by the way, shout out to the show on Netflix, by the way.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
Look.
There's a documentary that was released called Inside the Manosphere, filmed by Louis Thoreau.
And as you guys know, he was here last year, literally a year ago, you know, filming.
We had him on the show and everything else like that.
And it's funny because I filmed with him for like hours.
And he only used certain parts and he deceptively edited it.
If you guys go on my Twitter right now, one of the parts that's like a gotcha moment, I actually put the entire clip there because I didn't trust the mainstream media.
I was recording my own copy.
Inside The Manosphere Doc00:04:18
Smart.
And he cut out like three minutes of content, bro.
That obviously was critical for context.
So, you know, it is what it is, man.
I mean, this is what they do whenever you have, you know, polarizing, yeah, polarizing figures.
These documentarians come in.
And I knew they were going to do it.
So that's why I recorded my own side.
Brett's actually working on a piece where we compile everything for you guys to show you guys all the shit they cut out.
That'll probably drop in like a day or two.
Brett's working on it now.
When is it?
Wednesday, maybe?
Yeah.
It's almost done, but we're just like putting the finishing touches on it because I think it's very important to show you guys what's in the documentary and then what actually transpired because I recorded my own copy of everything because I didn't trust these guys in.
Nice.
Obviously, yeah, yeah, yeah, dude.
Like, I knew they would do this bullshit, and I was like, okay, I don't want to have to drop this stuff, but I was sitting on a nuke the whole time and I was like, oh, okay, bet.
This is what you guys can put in a documentary?
Cool.
Let me get my shit now.
So, also, he even said himself, he's raised by a single feminist mother.
Yeah.
That says everything you need to know.
Right.
So, I mean, he's from England, England is cocked.
They lost in 1776, failed country.
And they're being overrun by Muslims right now.
So, anyways, it is what it is, bro.
Ladies, thank you for waiting.
Hello, my boy!
Welcome to the show.
If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status.
What's up force?
Your bot account.
Welcome to the show.
Let's start right here.
So, name, age, where did you live?
My name's Kelly.
I'm 27.
I work at a dispensary.
What was another question?
Where are you from originally?
Oh, I'm from Philly.
I live in Philly now.
So, you sell like actual weed?
Isn't the plug for real?
Is it legal?
Is it like decriminalized in Pennsylvania?
It's decriminalized, but I work at a medical dispensary.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
Some college, high school.
You got your associates or?
No.
Do you have to go to school for to work at a dispensary or anything or not?
No.
Okay.
Kind of get in where you fit in.
All right.
Relationship status?
Single.
Are your parents together?
They were.
Okay.
Divorced now?
No.
Yeah, they're together.
Let's just go with that.
Okay.
Back together.
They're not a lot.
Well, one of them is not a lot.
They're together.
They were together beforehand.
Okay.
Birth control?
No.
All right.
And then race is black, right?
Yep.
Wait, black girl?
Hey, y'all.
Yeah, I couldn't tell.
I thought she was.
She's foundational.
Foundational black.
Oh, I get it there.
Yeah.
You don't know where you're from, right?
Like, are you Jamaican, Caribbean, or African or anything?
You're just black.
Okay.
What about you?
What's your name?
Wait, how long?
So, dispensary, right?
Dispensary.
All right.
So how many guys you fucked that came in and bought weed from you?
They're not cute at the dispensary, none.
All right.
Body shot, real.
I need me some weed.
Some dudes, too.
All right.
Well, potheads are not.
I'll try to tell you guys, bro, like being a pothead is not good for you as a dude.
It's not very slow-burning candle.
I'm curious.
You said as a dude specifically, why would it be good for women?
Well, the reason why is because for men, your productivity is a large component as to what makes you attractive.
And marijuana directly negatively influences that.
You get lethargic, lazy, you don't want to produce.
So marijuana doesn't have the same, I guess, negative effects on a female as a guy because men don't care about a female's productivity, but women definitely care about a man's productivity.
So weed has like ulterior side effects that fuck you up.
I see what you mean.
I like to tell myself like I'm rewarding myself by smoking later.
I like kids.
Well, I mean, you're a woman.
You're a different standard.
I'll go date someone who does that.
Like, you're never going to, like, most guys you meet are not going to like disqualify you for smoking weed.
True.
Right.
But like, a lot of girls will disqualify a dude for smoking weed if it gets into their ability to be productive.
If they're a product, if they're, what is it called?
If they're like a functioning baby.
Nobody wants to be a little bit more than a lot of people.
Most potheads, I, to this day, can't think of, I can maybe think of only a few like crazy examples of potheads that are like successful.
But for the majority of men, if you're a pothead, you're probably going to be a loser.
To me, a perfect partner does not do drugs at all.
I agree.
Yeah.
I agree.
It's better.
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Yeah.
I mean, I don't believe.
I've never done a drug in my life, but yeah.
Anyway, we'll go with you, right?
And then, okay, what's your name?
Sandy.
Hey y'all!
How are you, Sandy?
Hi, I'm about to be 24 in like a month.
Okay, where are you from?
I'm 100% African, Cameroonian.
Okay, okay.
So she knows you wig.
How many languages do you speak?
I speak French.
We, we?
Okay, um, but like, where do you live in the United States now?
I just moved to Miami from North Carolina because I used to go to college there.
Okay, where'd you go to school?
High Point University.
Okay.
Where'd you graduate in?
I didn't get my degree, but I was a business major.
Okay.
I just stopped going.
I don't really like the word dropout.
That's the definition of dropout.
I mean, that's what it means, but okay.
That's fine.
We'll go with it.
Okay, so you're 23.
You live in Miami now, but you grew up, like, where'd you go to high school in North Carolina?
No, Africa.
I came here for college, like, four years ago.
Okay, so you speak very good English.
Did you go to an American school there?
No, they speak English in Cameroon.
English and French.
I thought that was French.
I was going to say French.
I thought it would be French.
We're a bilingual, like Canada.
Oh.
Okay.
But I'm from the English-speaking side.
Okay, all right.
All right.
Yeah, because I thought French would be.
Okay.
What do you mean?
Do you guys have an official language or no?
Or is it both French and French?
Both.
Yeah, English and French.
Most people, because it's like 80% French, so most people move to like France, but I like America better.
Gotcha.
Okay.
Relationship status?
Single.
All right.
And then what do you do for work?
I'm in sales.
Well, I was in sales, but I just got like my work permit renewed.
So I'm like in the hiring process for sales, but I also model.
Okay.
So you're unemployed.
I get money.
That H1B.
I'm unemployed.
That H-1B.
I'm working.
No, it's just like a work permit.
I like apply for a political asylum.
This is like we're everywhere.
But I came here legally.
I'm legally.
Well, no, no, I know that.
I'm just, you know, asylum is crazy.
But okay.
Are you pairs together or not?
They are together.
Back in Cameroon?
All right.
Birth control?
Birth control.
All right.
Cool.
What about you?
What's your name?
All right.
Body count, Miss Africa.
I am not going to answer that because y'all are not going to believe me anyway.
I'll believe you.
Don't mind.
I'll believe you.
I got you.
Fresh.
She just moved to Miami, bro.
She's a ballpark figure.
Less than 20.
So 19?
I don't know how.
Wait, what?
How old are you kidding?
Less than 20, so she's 23.
23.
And you got 20 bodies already?
And you're lying about it?
I'm less than 20.
Yeah, but you're lying about it, though.
I was at less than 20.
Wait, how long you been here?
Four years.
Oh, shit.
Oh, shit.
Never mind.
Yeah, okay.
I've started dating since I was like 15.
Oh, God.
That's even worse, nigga.
I don't even know.
Hello, my boss.
That's fine.
What about you?
Yeah, what's your name?
My name is Lily.
All right.
How old are you, Lily?
I'm 35.
Where are you from?
35?
35?
Damn.
Where?
Yes, 35.
Maryland.
Okay, what part of Maryland?
I'm from Annapolis, Maryland.
Okay.
The naval school's there, right?
Okay.
You have to hood, Mario?
You have kids?
Nah, it's like a big school's there.
I do have kids.
You have kids?
How many kids?
Two.
Makes sense.
Okay.
Why does that make sense?
35.
I mean, at some point you have kids, so I'm just saying.
All right.
What do you do for work?
I'm a bus driver.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Fucking kids.
Bro, that is a thankless fucking job, bro.
Like, it is for kids or like a sit state.
Yeah.
Holy shit.
Damn.
Yeah, no, that's tough.
That's a very hard job.
No, it is.
Wait, boy, it is.
How'd you get into that?
Badass kids, bro.
Hold on.
What ages, though?
Middle school, high school?
So I have middle and alternative high school.
Oh, what's our turn of school?
So kids that are in school until they're 21, they get put out of regular high school.
Oh, bro, the dumb niggas.
School bus is suit?
Yeah, Jamal.
It's sold a school bus, nigga.
Yeah, Chris, you know, you'll be under, right?
That's a good gig, though.
Bro, being a bus driver is a really good gig.
It's like, uh, because you're a benefit employee, right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
So you get all the benefits, everything.
They get paid pretty damn well.
It's hard though.
You gotta have a CDO and everything.
Yeah.
Oh, CDL is crazy.
Thankless job, bro.
It is so painful.
Kids are so bad.
Man, I could only imagine eight years.
You've been doing it for okay.
Tell us a craziest story, like a fight or some shit that went down.
We'll be here for days.
How many fights have you had to do?
Did you give us one?
There's probably a fight every day.
Every day, yeah.
Honestly, every day.
Alternative school, Myra.
I see you on a school bus.
Yeah, yeah.
See you on school bus.
Alternative school.
That's like the hood is of the hood.
Yeah, bro.
That's what I'm like.
Damn, like.
And it's crazy because like every day you're breaking it up.
Yeah, so they're in like this alternative school, but they live in like the biggest mansions.
You know what I mean?
So it's kind of like.
Oh, so it's white kids?
No.
Black kids?
Predominantly black kids.
So the parents are balling.
They're just bad kids.
Right.
Damn.
It makes sense.
Kids that are not white can also be balling.
Yeah, but no, no, no, no.
Just you wouldn't think that they are, you know.
Yeah, I'm just so are these alternative schools like because I've never heard of an alternative school.
Are they private?
Are they state?
No, no, no, they're state.
So like if a kid gets in so much trouble in a public school, they get put out.
Yeah.
They have to go to an alternative school.
Oh.
Which is kind of like a less curriculum thing going on to make sure they graduate.
Is this like a new thing?
Because I never heard about this growing up.
Maybe it's just a Maryland thing.
Yeah, I told you when you said that, I thought you meant like for like the special ed.
Yeah, yeah.
The special ed digger.
Yeah, they're not.
They're just really bad.
Or GED.
It's not really academically.
It's just behavioral.
Probably the same server, but I could be bad.
That's the pass.
So you're saying that like these kids that go to this alternative school, a lot of them come from like affluent backgrounds?
Yes.
Your parents all care, bro.
Kind of like a military school.
Yeah.
Like cute, like mansions.
Like I dropped them off to their door.
Like the majority or majority.
Really?
Wow.
Maryland has a lot of money.
You would think like it would be in the hood, right?
Well, you said you, you, I'm assuming the school that you serve is in Annapolis.
No, in Bowie.
Okay, but you live in Annapolis.
Okay.
Damn.
That's pretty different.
That's something.
Yeah, that's crazy.
Because you would think, okay, they probably came from a broken home or whatever, but they're just spoiled brats.
That's what it comes down to.
Did he give you like tips?
No.
I mean, I get like Christmas, you know, gift cards and stuff around the holidays, but that's uh, that's nice.
It's a rewarding job mentally.
No, it's tough, bro.
Because I remember when I was like a kid, like, I'm like, damn, being a bus driver is tough.
Like, sit down.
Hey, if you don't, if you don't obey, we're gonna kick.
I'm gonna kick you off my bus and stuff.
Like, you know what I mean?
I remember it used to be kids fighting with the bus driver and shit.
It's fun, though.
My mom used to pay for school.
Fair enough.
I have candy, so.
All right.
Relation status?
Single.
Is this the first bus driver we met on the show?
Yeah, pretty much.
Yeah.
First known one.
Yeah.
Are your parents together?
No.
Okay.
And then birth control for you?
Nope.
All right.
And then you're, I'm assuming, white?
Yes.
Are you a sick bitch?
Damn.
Maryland.
All right.
What about you?
What's your name?
Where's the baby daddy?
Yeah, where is he?
Our daddies.
Who knows?
Is he black?
He is black.
Yeah, I know.
I know it.
I knew he's black.
Yeah, one or two.
Two.
Wait, wait, both of them are black?
Different dads?
One Spanish.
I see.
I know.
Let's go.
Let's go.
Puerto Rican.
He is Puerto Rican.
Yeah.
It's a North East group.
Worst type.
Bro, like, oh.
Wait, that's uh is that braids in your hair?
It is braids.
She's a white girl with braids, man.
White girl with braids.
She fuck niggas, man.
Obviously.
Wait, wait, so who's uh the kids at home right now watching themselves?
No, they're not watching themselves.
What are they at, though?
They're with this sitter.
Okay.
So you got money then?
I do got money.
Okay.
All right.
That's good.
All right.
All right.
What about you?
Wait, hold on, body count?
Oh, yeah, yeah, body count.
10.
I ain't 10, bro.
You're 35 years old, man.
What does that mean?
I mean, I was in long-term relationships with both of my kids.
I mean, you still cheat, though, don't you?
White women don't cheat.
All right.
So why don't you break up with them then?
White women don't cheat.
Okay, so what happened?
Like, why did you end it with the fathers?
It was abusive.
Okay.
Why didn't they hit you in the face or they yelled at you or shit?
Yeah, damn.
And you give them kids still?
That was before.
I mean, it was okay.
I gave them kids first.
And then they hit you.
That's crazy.
All right.
What about you?
What's your name?
I'm Chloe.
All right, Chloe.
Hey, y'all.
I'm 36.
We're about to be 36.
Are you good friends?
Yeah.
This is my friend.
Best friend since what?
20 years.
Ninth grade.
Talk about what the kid looks like.
Yes, Chloe with a K. Where are you from?
I am from the DMV area.
Well, the DM.
DC in Maryland, not from the Virginia area.
What do you do for work?
I'm an accountant as my career, and I bartend on the side.
I'm a super bartender.
Do you have your CPA?
No, I don't have my CPA, but I have my degree in hospitality.
She belongs to the streets.
So I do accounting.
I got it from PG Community College.
Okay.
Yeah.
Wait, they do.
They do a bachelor's?
No.
Okay.
So an associates?
Yes.
Okay.
All right.
All right.
Relationship status?
Single?
No, I'm not single.
I'm in a relationship.
No, it's not complicated.
I'm in a relationship.
Okay.
How long y'all been together?
I'm going on four years now.
Oh, shit.
How'd you meet him?
On the plane back home on September 11th.
Isn't that crazy?
What?
Yeah.
Right.
From Cali, back home.
September 11th?
Yeah.
Be on YouTube.
Chris, what's he?
Arab?
Oh, no, I call him like Jesus, but he's not Arab.
Okay, I assume he has long hair?
Yes, he does have long hair.
Okay.
Okay.
And you guys have been together for four years?
Are you guys just here for vacation, I'm guessing?
For spring break?
48 hours experience.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Interesting.
Why Miami?
I mean, we come to Miami twice a year.
Says a lot.
I mean, it's March.
We haven't been yet, so get out of here.
Says a lot.
I don't say much.
I mean, good to know.
What does Jesus think about that?
I mean, your boyfriend, sorry.
I mean, of course he wanted to be here, of course.
He said, no, you can't come, bro.
I didn't tell him he can't come, but it's just like, it's a girl thing.
Like, I haven't hung out with my girl.
Bro.
But that's your man's, though.
I mean, I call him FaceTime, send him pictures.
Like, what's up?
That can mean nothing.
Bro.
That means everything.
That's nighttime.
You don't want to follow him?
You in the club.
Send videos.
All right.
And I'm assuming black, right?
Yes, I am Jamaican.
My dad is Jamaican.
Oh, my God.
You're done, though.
You're done, though.
All right.
And then birth control for you.
You said birth control?
Yeah, birth control for you.
Oh, no, I do not take birth control.
Never have I. Never will I. You have kids?
I do have kids.
I have two kids.
My daughter is about to be 17 and my son's 11.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
Oh, y'all matching kids now?
Huh?
Like, you both have two kids.
Yeah, I do, but I had my daughter way before she had her first son.
Yeah.
Well, no, I mean, it's about to be an adult.
Yeah, my daughter.
She had her kid at like 17 or 18.
No, I had my kid at 19, almost 19.
Okay, okay.
Do you think it's better to have kids earlier or later?
I do because you don't have the patience you have as a 35-year-old or 30-year-old.
When you're younger, you want to play.
You want to do all the things that kid wanted to do.
Yeah.
When you're older, it's like, please calm down, settle down.
People want to give their kids melatonin.
I don't give my kids.
I never gave any of my kids melatonin.
Like, turn up, have fun.
Where's the father?
They're both their dad.
They're both their dad right now.
Same for them.
Both of them.
They're both their dad.
Yeah.
Okay, that's good.
Yeah.
All right.
How many bodies do you have in Miami so far?
Bodies in Miami?
Nobody's in Miami.
Nobody's Miami?
Nobody's in Miami at all.
No bodies?
Nobody.
Small jobs?
Oh, no.
Nobody's in Miami.
She said no bodies, okay?
In Miami.
In Miami.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Has been Alice?
Hi, my name is Nati.
All right, Nati.
Nati, right?
Okay.
How old are you?
25.
All right, where are you from?
Brazil.
Brazil.
Bonjour.
Brazil, you too.
What part of Brazil?
Mato Grosso.
Bless you.
Nobody knows it.
Usually I explain it to people is that Rio is kind of like Miami.
Sao Paulo is kind of like New York.
And Mato Grosso is kind of like Texas.
So I'm a country girl at heart.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
Good, good.
Okay.
That helps.
Good comparison, yeah.
All right.
What did you for work?
Cybersecurity.
Okay.
How long have you been in.
Do you live in Miami or do you?
I do live in Miami.
I came here for college about five years ago, and I'm going to leave now.
Oh, you're going back to live for good?
Yeah.
What made you make that move?
Visa situation.
That's how it is.
So when you come here for college, you do your whole degree and then you have one to three years for work and then you got to leave.
And I'm respecting that.
Wow.
And before leaving Miami, I wanted to come to a podcast.
I feel like that's a very Miami thing to do.
Yeah, admirable.
Okay, so you came on an F1 visa.
Then you stayed a little bit longer.
Did they give you an H-1B visa to work or no?
So within the student visa, they have like what they call like optical practical training, which is to practice what you studied while you're here.
So it's kind of like a work visa for three years.
Gotcha.
So the F1 visa extends and lets you stay longer for that.
Okay.
Where'd you, and you went for cybersecurity?
Do you have your bachelor's degree in it or where'd you go?
FIU.
Oh, okay.
Right there.
Yeah, I love Miami.
Yeah.
Okay.
And then you said you're going to go back.
When do you go back to Brazil?
April 4th.
So in less than a month.
Okay.
Relationship status?
Sorry?
Relationship status?
Single.
Okay.
And then are your parents together?
Yes, they are.
They love each other.
Nice.
And then birth control for you?
No.
Live life on the edge.
And then you said you're 100% Brazilian, right?
Yes, I am.
Been for a couple of generations now.
You want to go back or do you want to, or like, did you want to stay in America?
I love America, but it's what my visa has to do.
I don't want to stay here beyond that.
And I'm honestly not mad about it.
Brazil is a great country.
I was going to say, there's probably more opportunity there, bro.
Yeah, like I'm not mad about it.
I mean, I've been living here for a long time.
It's great.
I love partying and like the nightlife.
So that's something I really appreciate about here, especially the safety.
Brazilian Relationship Status00:05:04
Brazil is very dangerous in that context.
Mato Grosso.
Oh, I'm definitely not going back to Mato Grosso.
Well, I am now, but my long-term plan is to go to Sao Paulo.
But in Brazil, they kill you first and then they rob you.
So it's a little complicated.
Damn, it's like they could have just taken the money and let you live, right?
No, that's not an option.
Not to say, guys, do visit Brazil, please.
I'm not saying like, you know.
Oh, no, I mean, I've heard that.
That's just the reality.
You gotta be familiar with this tree to go there.
Are they close to the favela?
Depends on where you are, but the favelas are usually within everywhere.
So kind of, yeah, yeah.
You can kind of escape it.
There are favelas that are friendlier to tourists, and they take advantage of that because of the money that comes in.
But there are certain favelas that you do not go there unless you know where you're going.
Damn.
Is he still in Brazil?
He moved actually.
Got out?
Yeah, he left Brazil.
What was his reason for the same danger?
Well, he said the dating over there became monetized.
And it's just like Miami.
I feel like it's like that in all of Latin America.
I'm not kidding.
You go to a club, there is already a woman there in charge of all the women.
Here, I know they call them pimps.
Madame.
And they literally have a physical book where you can flip through and be like, so who do you want to be with tonight?
Yeah.
That's all Columbia was.
But I will say, though, I'm not saying that this woman want to be there, but it's not like here that they're forced to be there, if that makes sense.
Like that is like a chosen career path.
So at least compared to here, it's a little less horrible.
Well, if you're looking about it from a cost perspective, it's cheaper to go out to the guy over there than here because it's way cheaper.
But also, the girls are better and more feminine in that sense.
However, you're still paying for it.
So regardless, you're still paying.
Yeah, I agree.
I agree.
It's a passport rub movement, man.
Yeah.
They fucked it up.
Like, it used to be like going out to like South America was like kind of a secret.
Nobody knew about it.
But then everyone fled Medellin and then they fled Colombia.
Then they went to Brazil.
Then here's a secret.
Everyone knows the secret now so now is like ruined.
Yeah.
So that's what happens.
But I heard a lot of them are men.
Yeah, that's what I mean.
Yeah.
Some people are into that.
Yeah.
Well, they mean because wait, you mean the girls are men?
Well, the ones that portrayed as girls are men.
A lot of them.
And they look like women.
Ladybug misunderstood her.
Oh, hell no.
Yeah, yeah.
I think you're thinking of like, yo, you're thinking of Thailand.
It's everywhere.
There's a market.
Everywhere.
That's the market for everything now.
Do you guys know the soccer player, Jon El Jinho?
He's like black.
He has dreads.
He used to be really popular in the early 2000s.
I don't know, man.
Rona Dinho.
Honoura Jinho.
Jon El Jinho.
Yeah.
He used to be very popular.
He said Hona Duno.
I mean, if you say it with the accent, yeah.
She said it properly.
I saw him at a club.
But there's a very popular meme interview of him where they're like, hey, did you know that the girls that you were with were actually men?
And he's like, hey, I didn't know.
It's just a thing that happened.
But to be fair, I feel like when you are so famous and so popular and you have already seen everything, you kind of get curious, you know?
That's a real thing about him.
I was like, I'm going to Brazil, too.
I thought that was kind of a Thailand thing only.
Oh, no.
No, no, it's an everywhere thing.
It's an everywhere.
And DR as well.
Brazil is talking about the brand.
It's an everywhere thing.
Just because you're not within the market doesn't mean it's not happening.
No, no, no.
I mean, it's good to know.
I mean, it's where you know.
That's why I'm not a passport, bro.
Well, fun fact.
Dating coaches that we know, most of them are quitting the niche because the offer of giving people access to girls has changed completely.
I was monetized.
The ones were going for actual genuine desire.
And if you're a green girl slash tourist, you're treated as such.
So in essence, they ruined the game for everybody.
Yeah, everyone's just paying.
I go.
Yeah.
She is not saying it.
You know what I mean?
I don't know.
People can take whatever they want.
She's like, you're just deep as fuck.
Guys, relax.
I'm curious.
Where do you party in Miami?
Everywhere.
Space?
Yes.
I'm mostly of an Indian person, but yes, like Space, Floyd, Jolene, anywhere in Wynwood, Brick.
You like there?
Sorry?
You like there?
There.
I do like there.
They club is really good.
The nightclub is what it's a little over.
Up north.
Yeah, that's where the big ass guitar is.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Hard rock.
Yeah.
Can I make a little side comment?
Someone said show tits or lies.
If you are based on that, then you are gonna get someone who I'm not gonna say their name, but you know what I'm talking about.
If that's where you're basing it on, plastic surgery has been really good lately.
Duffy, yeah, it's kind of scary.
Sorry, I'm sorry.
Continue.
I had to say, yeah, if you're drunk in the club and you're not fully aware, and if you're just based on those, you might go home one.
Smoke Detector Stereotypes00:02:55
Don't go looking for a penis because you won't see one.
That's what I'm saying.
Like, if you're facing it in here, surgery is good nowadays.
All right.
Really?
Go some chats real quick?
Yeah, that's uh, that was eye-opening.
Uh, Mo was telling me that it's top three in the world.
I was like, what the hell?
Yeah.
Oh, man.
All right.
Uh, okay, what do we got here?
What are these chats?
You got these fresh to the basic one in the middle.
How many of the kids in the school or bus are male and how many are female?
Um, it's mostly male, honestly.
It's a couple female, but mostly what percentage out of 100 males?
80.
80.
Wow, that's a huge.
See, that makes sense.
Misbehaving.
Yeah.
That makes sense, actually.
That's true.
All right.
Those men showed off.
Well, yeah, the education system is kind of geared more towards female way of learning, right?
Sitting still, complying with orders, you know, folding your hands, all that other stuff.
So, I mean, it's not an excuse.
You still got some stupid people that can't follow instructions, but oh my God, you guys are so mean.
I mean, bro, when I was growing up, like, if dudes could have beenhaved or whatever, and there's, we just call them retarded.
Like, nigga, what's wrong with you?
Like, what's, you know, you stupid?
Like, they got put out, right?
I had a sidebar with that smoke detector beeping thing.
I hear it all the time whenever I go to somebody.
Really?
Someone said that I hear it everywhere I go.
What shit is you're making?
What race are there?
Like, what race are they?
That means you just.
What, smoke detectors?
No, like when you hear it in the house, what?
Come on now.
You know what race they are.
They're black people.
Come on.
That's how you know.
You live in Annapolis and that's like 35, 40 minutes away from my house.
So I don't come to your house often.
My mind's been going off for that.
My other friends, I hear it.
So it's just like, yeah, I fill you with the smoke detector thing.
I don't know.
You're going to say something?
You were saying something?
Earlier before.
Yeah, something about kids being stupid.
Oh, wow.
I always say that.
I was saying that.
But I was going to ask you, why do you think it's like the stereotype about black people having that?
Because growing up in Africa, it's like not really a thing for black people.
Okay, well, black Americans.
Black Americans.
Black lawyers.
I'm trying to educate myself.
Black Americans.
Can you tell me why black Americans do that?
I mean, I don't know.
I feel like once black people come accustomed to a certain thing, they tend to ignore it or make it the normal.
And it's not the normal because for me, if I hear the smoke detector going off at two o'clock in the morning, I'm getting up.
I want to take the battery out because I can't sleep.
It's like another alarm clock.
So I don't understand how people even.
So like, why doesn't it go off in the first place?
Because the battery's going dead.
You need to go change the battery.
So they're saying lazy.
So they're saying black people are more lazier to change the battery compared to.
I'm not going to say black people are lazy.
Black people become more accustomed to their surroundings.
And there goes the beep.
I'm telling you, I really hear it.
And there goes the beep.
I can't hear the beep.
And there goes the beep.
Men As Friends Question00:15:32
There you go.
Fantastic.
T-Right.
Ladies, why don't y'all ever hear the beeping from the smoke detector when it's time to change the battery?
Fellas, the type of woman that can ignore something that's designed to annoy you.
I'm sorry.
Type of woman that will destroy you.
I can't.
Well, she says she hates it.
I can ignore it.
I'm sorry.
Anonymous.
Yeah, we'll do that one later.
One smooth criminal says, Stinger B is gold.
Yes, no pussy.
Is that even period?
I think he's talking shit about someone in the chat.
They're probably.
I think he gets laid, man.
Right.
He's talking to someone in the chat.
He gets laid.
They fight each other all the time.
Yeah, that's fine.
Anyway, guys, we're live on all platforms, man.
If you guys want to get involved in the show, it's uh, it's fnfsuperchat.com, right?
Yep, we'll put that link there.
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We got you guys.
Um, what else?
Uh, do we have a video or something like that?
You wanted uh we do, okay.
Um, so ladies, just before we do the video, um, do any of you have actual guy friends?
I do, yes, platonic friends, okay.
And do you believe they can only be friends, for example?
It's more of a no, no, no, I'm not even gonna let you finish.
No, why?
Because so I do have friends who are male, and I'm sure that if I ever were to give them the chance, they would take it.
But this is a me personal thing.
I think that I am enough of an intellectually and even motherly, if you want to be weird that way, person, that I think that they are able to put aside whatever carnal desires they have for me and to just see me as a friend.
But again, ultimately, if I were to give them a chance, they would.
But as long as I don't, I think it is a friendship.
So, then it's not platonic, it is platonic on my side, and that's all that matters to me.
No, but guys, I'm just going to take the chance to a street, so you need both sides.
No, no, no, because again, I'm going to reiterate.
I think that I don't think this applies to all women and no shade.
I do think that I bring enough of a listen and ear and of a friendship vibe in order for my friendship to be valuable regardless outside of sex, if that makes sense.
So, you add a lot of value to your guy friends.
I do think so.
I think all women, I think that men should have more platonic women within their lives.
I'm not saying I'm curious.
What about you add to your guy friends?
I'm curious now.
So, I am someone who is able to give a female perspective while still like keeping them on check.
And I think that's important because I think that's important because I think it is a little gay to always just-I don't know if I can say that word.
I'm sorry, to just listen about men and opinions of women.
Because ultimately, even though I think both men and women are important, we are completely different creatures and we think in completely different ways.
Therefore, if you're always only listening to a male perspective on what women want, you were gay.
You, I think that it is important and it is valuable if you are able to sometimes listen to women and what we want and what we think it's important in order to get a perspective from both sides.
And then you are able to make that decision yourself.
But I think that you are not fully equipped in order to navigate women if you've never heard a woman talk about themselves.
Really?
That's interesting.
I agree.
We'll come back to that full circle, but that's definitely interesting.
What about you?
What do you think about guys being platonic to you only as friends?
No, there's no such thing because at the end of the day, like she just said, the man always wants something in the long run, even if he's playing the long haul.
He wants something in the long run, even he wants to be your friend right now.
In the back of his mind, I could be her friend right now, but in like five years, she's going to see all these guys don't mean anything.
And I've been the friend in her corner, and I want to be that guy.
And I'm going to step up, I'm going to show her.
They're never just friends, they always play the long road.
How'd you figure that out from experience?
Or I definitely figured that out by experience because I have had a couple guy friends that I consider as best friends.
Like, I've opened up to them, told them things that I thought that you know I can share with a friend, but then come down to the end road.
They want you to open up to them.
It's like, hey, I want, I like you, I really like you.
And it's just like, no, nope.
Yeah, interesting.
It's not that.
It's like, I thought she was a friend.
I thought that you can give me your insight on the guy position.
I can give you my insight on the girl's position.
And I can move forward.
And I can grow and build from that.
Give me them draws.
Yeah.
You want the draws.
What about you?
What do you think about this?
I don't feel like a man can genuinely be a woman's friend without, even if he doesn't intentionally want something, if she offers it, he's going to take it.
If that makes any sense.
What if he doesn't find you attractive, though?
Then he's not going to really.
I don't feel like he's really going to be your friend.
Okay.
I don't feel like it'll really be like a mean friend.
No, I'm saying I don't think it's going to be a genuine friendship.
You know what I mean?
That's fun.
What about you?
That would be if there's like guys that could be platonic, but in a sense, it's more so girls that control like the platonic part.
You know, like she said, if I was to give it, I know my guy friends with Barley Fold because I don't know.
How many do you have right now, currently, guy friends?
Definitely a lot of guy friends.
Like a lot.
Do you think they all want to smash?
Yep.
Yeah.
Probably.
Okay.
But they know it's never going to happen.
So that's why we're.
So you wouldn't give one of them a chance.
Just one.
Nope.
I'm not a homie hopper.
No, I just don't like to be talked about in that way.
But like I was attracted to one of them in the group and I was like, oh, you know, it's cool.
And like I noticed like my other friends were like getting like jealous and shit.
And I was like, we're friends.
Why you being jealous of like who I get with, you know?
Okay.
But yeah.
And Kelly?
I definitely think you can have guy friends.
I have plenty of guy friends, but yeah, I mean, they might take the chance, but it's all about having boundaries.
Like we both know that we're just friends.
So they're not going to try it.
And I think a lot of my guy friends are low-key scared of me.
Like I tell them too much.
So they don't, they know where to stay on the other side.
Sure.
Let's bring it back this way.
If you had a chance to, I guess, change that from friend to lover, what would that be, if anything at all?
How would I change it?
Yeah.
For example, let's say, you know what?
He's your guy friend.
You know what?
He did this.
Now I'm turned on.
I like him.
What would that be, if anything?
It would be easy.
I mean, guys are pretty easy.
You just got to make a move and they would probably go for it.
They'd be like, oh, I'm shocked, but it'll be with it.
What would he do?
Yeah.
They'll change from friendship to lover.
If anything at all.
Yeah.
Like, if they hit the lotto, you could say that.
Or you got surgery.
But he's basically saying, look, Maxing, clearly the guy's friendship.
He's in the friend zone for a reason.
What would he need to do to break out of the friend zone?
That's his question.
Honestly, I don't look at any of my guy friends like that, but I mean, they would just have to do like what normal guys do, like that I'm trying to talk to.
It's no cap, really.
I'm not attracted to my guy friends.
No, we know that, but what would they need to do to get out to become attracted to get a chance to get money?
Yeah, maybe get some money.
Okay, that's fair.
That's fair.
What's the number?
Hit the lotto.
One million, two million?
No, a million.
We might have something to talk about.
Okay.
Something to talk about.
Something to talk about.
You need a million just to talk?
Fuck it up.
If they got a million dollars, they would just break me off.
So I don't even need to go to that level with them.
So break you off is crazy.
They win a parlay.
I get something out of it.
Free money?
Yeah.
Okay, for you?
Fantastic.
I'm sorry.
Someone said I look like Lil Nas X, but...
I don't take it as an insult, it's a compliment.
It's what it's like to do.
Casually, they all know it in his lyrics.
I agree.
Like, I thought they just know.
A lot of people have asked me a lot of transgender.
I'm not going to show them my pussy, but I'm not.
I don't owe no one an explanation.
I mean, you don't strike me as that.
But, okay, so guy friend, how can you get out of the friend zone to become a lover?
If they're under the friend zone, they're probably not going to get past it.
I agree.
Yeah.
Well, if you have to pick, like, we understand they're not going to break out.
But, like, if you had to pick one thing that would help them jailbreak, what would it be?
Would it be an enormous increase in finances?
Would be them looks growing an inch.
Would it be them making more, you know, getting in shape, Jim?
They probably have to change their ways because, like, I know a lot of stuff about them.
So it's like, I don't trust them.
Okay, give us an example of what the issue is with change their ways of life.
I'm like, why are you cheating on your girl?
Okay.
So, all right.
So they're lying.
So single then.
Infidelity.
Yeah.
I can stand up.
All right.
How would they get out the friend zone?
I feel like they're in a friend zone for a reason.
So I don't feel like they can get out of it.
But how are you?
So they're hypothetical.
This is a hypothetical question, ladies.
This is strictly a hypothetical.
We know they're stuck there forever.
But hypothetically, if there was one thing that would get them out, what would it be?
Potentially.
Maybe taking care of your kids, maybe saying, you know what, I'll spoil you for life.
What could it be?
Stepdad.
I mean, I guess seeing a man in daddy mode, it really does something to me.
Even like if I didn't have kids, just seeing a man be a man, like a genuine man, like changing time.
A man or a father?
We're trying to figure out.
A man.
Like changing tires and doing stuff around the house.
Because a lot of men nowadays don't do that stuff.
So is a guy that you're friends with kind of feminine doesn't do any of that?
Or he just doesn't.
They just pay people to do it.
And it's like, why can't you do it?
You're a man.
Oh, so you want a man's man?
A man's man.
That's just a lot right there.
Are these guys innovative?
Is this guys that are friends on?
Are they higher earners?
They are.
Oh.
So you want to waste time?
No, I want you to be a man.
No, like he's a man.
Time you spend doing that.
I get it.
You work hard.
You make money.
Fucking three hours do what?
Do the shelf.
You can make money three hours.
You can just, let me just watch you build a shelf, you know?
I see where she's coming from.
Like, I guess the guys that she's with probably, what do they do?
Like white collar work or some shit like that or not physical manual labor?
Right.
Okay.
So maybe them doing physical labor might be what it is.
Okay.
All right.
And then about you, how would he get out?
I mean, well, for me, I mean, this guy will have to speak to my speak to my inner soul, my inner me.
Yeah, like my inner me.
Like, you have to connect to me for me to want to open that box up for you.
Like, just because you're being, you know, doing what you're supposed to do or doing the everyday, that doesn't make me excited.
You got to connect with my inner core.
How would one connect with your inner core?
It's kind of old.
In a horror core.
That's core core.
One to connect to my inner core by speaking to my happiness on the inside.
My inside kid, my inside child.
Me.
My inner spirit.
Connecting with my inner spirit is what makes me happy on a bunch of what is that, though?
Like some Bengay on your joints?
It could be anything.
It could be just like, come on, babe, let's go for a walk.
Let's go talk to nature.
Let's get outside.
Bees and bugs.
Like, I'm a bee.
Isn't that what your friends do?
Let's go for a walk.
I'm a walk person.
She knows that we went on a two-mile walk earlier.
Just so I make sure I have this right.
So the guy that you're friends on right now, he's not spontaneous enough.
Oh, he's spontaneous.
But he doesn't take it to that level that I want it to be at that he should take it.
She needs to be more spontaneous.
Yes, you should.
Okay.
Why are you reading me right now?
I feel like you're reading me.
I'm paying attention.
You're paying too much attention.
Listen, man.
Wait, wait, wait.
They shouldn't understand.
So now you're doing too much of that.
Listen.
It's never enough.
Man, you don't know what you want, man.
Never enough.
I'm sticking to what matters to me the most on this inner soul guy.
You don't know what you want, man.
Yeah.
So, this is a little complicated.
Well, there we go.
There are two factors that for myself are very important.
I get the ick very easily, which I don't love.
I think that's bad.
I think that's self-sabotage, but it is what it is.
I want a man who not only I admire, and I know this is going to sound weird, but I want a man who other men also admire.
And what I mean by that is that women can be in love.
Women can be like, oh my God, you did like this.
You fixed my cabinet, or like, you do this for me.
Like, okay, cool.
But to be a man who other men admire, you need to have a lot of grit.
You need to have a lot of ambition.
And not only do you need to have it, you need to be able to show it.
Because I don't necessarily want a man who already made it.
I want a man who has a clear vision of where he wants to go.
And I see him actively working towards it.
Because even though if he doesn't particularly reach it, I see that he tried his best in a world that is very unfair and unjust.
So money is important.
I'm not going to say that it's not.
But I'm not talking that I want a millionaire or whatever.
I just want a man who is able to take care of myself and himself, what I take care of or children, and not have to worry about any of that.
Like, this is going to be super silly, but me as a broke person, like one of my dreams is to be able to go to the supermarket and buy whatever I want without having to think about any of the prices or anything.
And I just want a man who is able to work in his job, support me or family, so I can take care of him so he can take care of everything else.
So all of your guy friends now are they not up to that level?
I don't think not being to that level is always the person's fault, but it's also the cards that they were dealt with when they were born.
Oh, I don't think you're sad.
It is sad.
It is sad.
And that's just life and that's just unfair.
And that just is what it is.
When you are born, there is a lottery.
There is a lottery of where you're born, your family that you're born with, the relationship that you have.
And those are things that you just cannot pick.
And those are just things, cards that you're dealt with.
Does that suck?
Yes.
Is that life?
Yes.
But me personally, with the cards that I was dealt with and how I look and what I do and what I strive for personally in my life, I would like someone who has dealt similar cards to myself and it's also aiming towards a higher point just like me.
I totally agree because I would say I would never date someone who's never been out of the country because it's just like a different mentality and different mindcances.
I agree.
And there is someone for everyone.
Life Lottery Reality Check00:15:11
That's true.
Compare experience to what she's saying.
No, but like it may make sense because a global view.
A global view definitely does give you.
Because, for example, I would hate to be with a man who's easily rage debatable.
Like to me, that is so icky and that is so crazy.
Easily rage baited.
Yes.
Wait, can you break that down for me what that means?
So I know what he means by your point of view.
Okay, I'm going to just make an example.
Let's say you're my man and someone tells you like, oh, you're disgusting.
You're broke.
And you're like, oh my God, someone just called me broke and that just like ruins your day.
That's icky.
Okay.
If you're just like, they call me broke, but they don't get the vision and they don't know where I'm going.
Whatever, that's hot.
And that's what I mean by easily rage-baitable.
Like being able, being sure on yourself and your goals and where you're going.
But, but, but I will say, I've also in the past, unfortunately, been with men who are very sure of themselves.
For I am sure of them, but as time passes, I realize that is not what was going on.
I ain't gonna lie.
Somebody told me this broke.
Yo, whoever you dating, nigga.
Okay, let me go through this because it's obviously pretty good questions that you're talking about.
I do need less notes, whoever said that.
Sorry, continue.
All right.
So your question was, do you have guy friends?
All of them pretty much do.
And then your question was, hypothetically speaking, for those guy friends, what would be required for them to exit the friend zone?
Starting here, you said they'd have to get like a million dollars.
Make more money.
You're a guy.
You said your guy would have to be less and practice less infidelity cheating on his girl and be more traveled.
Okay.
Passport money.
Okay.
And then for you, your guy would need to do more physical labor.
What does he do now?
You don't have to go specific.
I just want to know, because it's important for me to know how you came to that conclusion of I want them to do more physical labor.
So what does he do now?
I'm talking about my male friends.
Yeah, well, I'm saying like what type of work do they do?
Like business management, like office stuff.
Okay.
They all work in like corporate.
Okay.
Are they like all six-figure earners?
Yeah.
Okay.
So just your friends?
Yeah.
All right.
So they all do wear a suit to work and six figures, white collar type shit.
I think so.
Okay.
All right.
And then for you, you said you want a guy inner soul.
That's what she said.
But we translate the women's to be more spontaneous.
Yes.
Thank you.
Right.
I'm trolling you.
I'm trolling you.
Okay.
More spontaneous.
Like, you guys are so dry.
So your guy, because you said your guy was spontaneous, just not enough.
Not enough.
Yeah, he's not spontaneous.
You don't think outside the box?
Think outside the box.
You guys are always thinking inside the box.
Oh, you're saying he doesn't think outside the box enough.
Exactly.
You guys are always in the box.
Like, you guys are always playing it shit.
No, no, no.
We are the box.
It's called logic.
No, but take it outside the box.
Girl, get ready.
We're about to go fucking mud crawl or fucking.
I like shit like that.
I like to be in tune with things and doing things like, yo, I'm going to remember this.
Just to make sure I have this.
Okay.
And then finally, you said for you, for your guy to get out the zone, they need to acquire a bit more social status.
They don't get the same recognition and respect from their male peers.
Yes.
Okay, what do your guys do where they don't recognize it, where they don't get this recognition?
Are they all like kind of fresh out of college like you?
Yes and no.
So I've had boyfriends who have really good degrees and have really good jobs and are doing really well in life, but their friends are, in my opinion, bums.
And what I mean by that is that when I feel like you are in a circle where you are the best one and all of them are just kind of like looking up to you, like, is there really room for growth?
Okay.
So let me ask you this then.
So you said that that was with a guy that you dated.
But as far as like the guy that you have in your friend zone or guys you have in your friend zone.
None of them.
If not, they wouldn't be in the friend zone.
Okay.
So all of them have an issue with they're not really accomplishing anything where other men would respect them.
Yes.
Okay.
All right.
Now good questions, Fresh.
So we kind of have a thing here.
Good foundation here.
Yeah.
Did you want to play the video and then yeah.
So this video showcases in real time someone I was in their friend zone and got out after a certain amount of years.
Now, what you're about to see is, I think, one of the biggest simps in history.
But for the example of the chat to see as well, it's possible, but is it worth it?
let's play the video yeah you just play without music It's kind of gay.
Okay, and the caption reads: Love Wednesday after 13 years in the friend zone.
She finally chose him as a stepdad for her five kids.
Bro, bro.
That's getting a relationship just by the video.
She just wanted a dad for her kids.
I'm telling you.
I mean, you know how you just want a dad for your kids.
Then you really end up loving that guy because he loves your kids.
That's yeah, that probably helps.
Yeah.
As a mom, I didn't say that.
So 13 years he was there, and only after you got come came in, you got paraded around.
You want him afterwards?
I'm not gonna lie.
A lot of women, it takes for that to happen for a lot of women to open their eyes.
But five kids, my nigga.
I mean, but my thing is, a lot of women don't know.
Like, you may come in the picture and they don't know if you're really a solid dude.
Those niggas came inside of her five times.
I mean, they did.
But you took on the responsibility.
So I love you for that.
It's hilarious for that.
I love you deep down inside for that.
Yeah, I feel like it's kind of like incest.
Like you're friends with someone like Platonic.
It's like I call my guy friends brothers.
Okay, I mean, if you call them brothers, I don't know.
It's like weird if we're going to be like that was probably her brother.
I think he was my brother.
I guess you want to get their general thoughts on yourself.
Start here.
Yeah, and then give me your honest opinion.
Is the guy doing the right thing?
The girl, who do you think has a better setup for this?
Because I think, personally speaking, I'll say afterwards, but yeah, what do you think?
So in this situation, all I'm seeing is a girl that was able to get five children and a guy who was able to get none.
So in this, that's a good way to put it.
And in this, like, for them specifically, them two.
Clearly, she was in a situation where she was able to see other men and try her best.
And he was in a situation where he was with other women.
He couldn't see whatever he saw in them that he saw in her.
Sorry.
So he made that decision where he was like, fuck these other bitches.
I want her regardless if she has five kids.
And that's what works for both of them.
So, like, to a certain amount, it works.
And that's it.
For me, I can't speak on the guy's perspective because it could be anything.
But for me, as a woman, I can say that, like, like she said, she's seen, she tested the water.
She didn't see anything or see anybody that over and over again.
Yes, that can step up to the plate and be that guy.
And this guy, he loved her kids.
He loved her.
And she took it on.
So, I mean, I can see it happening.
I can see it happening when you want someone for your kids.
When you want something good for your kids, I can see it happening.
Is your current guy, the one you met on the plane, does he take care of your kids too?
No, he do not take care of my kids.
However, he does step up to the plate if I do need him.
Like, hey, can you pick my kids up from school?
But do you want him to at some point?
I mean, at any point, do I need him?
He does step up for sure.
No, no, but do you want him to full-time at some point?
No, because I don't need him to step up full-time because their dad is there.
Their dad is there.
He probably doesn't want him to be involved anyway, right?
I'm assuming that.
I mean, dad has his ways on feeling with men, but he has a girlfriend.
So we both come to an agreement.
We both, as long as I get along with your girlfriend, you get along with my boyfriend and we love each other.
That's all that matters.
Okay.
We get along.
But there's no need to make your, I guess, boyfriend step up because the dad's very involved.
Exactly.
Wait, wait.
So let me get it straight.
You know, Miami, and you have to deal with your kids and baby daddy.
You're talking about my kids, his kids.
He got to deal with his kids while I'm in Miami and it's a toilet.
He definitely do.
Your boyfriend.
Oh, no, he's just at work.
Okay.
He's just at work.
And he's enjoying the videos and pictures that I'm sending.
Because I think you misunderstood.
She's saying the dad is heavily involved with her kids.
Yeah.
So the stepdad only steps in if like an emergency situation.
The boyfriend.
Sorry.
The boyfriend steps in, I guess, in certain situations.
But this is what I'm saying, though.
Like, the boyfriend has to deal with the dad, the kids.
Everyone's friends.
Everyone's friends.
And the Tupac Miami.
Everybody's friends.
That's crazy.
Everybody's friends.
And the boyfriend.
All the boyfriend's doing is working and dealing with the podcast.
It's a neighborhood, bro.
What does he get from you then?
A community.
My boyfriend?
No, boyfriend.
My boyfriend gets love.
Unconditional love.
Shout out to white people.
But you're here in Miami, though, so it's not unconditional.
It is unconditional.
Just because I'm in Miami doesn't mean that I'm, it doesn't dictate what I'm doing.
It does not.
I'm out here.
I'm having a great time.
Yes.
If he said to you, listen, babe, I don't want you to Miami.
You stay here with me.
Would you stay or would you go?
She left.
No.
If he put that on the table, he would say, he will always have a reason why.
He's not going to just say, stay.
Like, he's not no hater.
But what would you do?
As long as the reason is valid, of course.
What if you said, you know, babe?
No reason.
I just don't want you to go right now.
I mean, for me, I would contemplate it.
If it was on based upon, oh, okay, because you're going with a certain friend.
I don't want you to go.
Then, no, because I'm going to be me regardless of who I'm with or whatever I'm doing.
I'm going to be me.
But if it's based upon, hey, I just want you to stay because right now I just don't feel it in me.
Like, I just feel like you should stay.
Then maybe I will stay.
90% of me will stay.
I'm not going to lie.
90% of me will stay because I actually care about how he feels and how he's going to react after I go and how it's going to be when I come home.
I actually give a fuck.
I do.
What?
Can girls not go on a girls trip?
Let's be honest, though.
Miami is a bit different for trips.
Yes, it is.
You'd be surprised that what happens with couples here.
I think you're giving Miami men much more credit than they deserve.
Houston is where is that?
Miami is chill now.
Now, Miami's tough.
That's what I'm saying.
Oh, all right.
And then for you, you saw the video.
13 years.
Five kids.
Five kids.
No, I think he's tripping.
Honestly, I think he's tripping.
Because if you sit there and watch her go through five kids, no, she fucked up five times.
And I just feel like he should have got out of there.
If he's going to remain her friend for 13 years, he need to just finish out being her friend.
I feel you.
Honestly.
Welcome, Charlie.
Hey, yellow.
To the show.
This is my white Jesus friend over here.
Kidding.
Welcome.
I know who you are.
They don't know who you are.
My name's Charlie.
Cultivate Crypto.
We were just on the previous stream.
Yeah.
Talking about the crypto mindset course.
Yeah.
It's live right now, guys, down below.
We'll continue real quick.
So we saw the video, 13 years guy is now dating woman with five kids.
What do you think?
It boils down to like what she said earlier.
When given the opportunity, don't go for it.
I think he just always liked her from day one.
And that's, wow, that's some unconditional love.
13 years, five kids later?
Like, wow.
Let him do the crypto thing.
Okay.
We're almost done here.
And then last but not least.
I think she just settled for the nice guy in her life.
And he was probably desperate.
And he probably liked her the whole entire time.
Because no one's doing that.
Like taking on five kids that you seeing her go through all that for all this time.
But yeah, that's my opinion.
She was like, he's a nice guy.
Let me just settle.
And that's what happened.
Yeah.
The sad part about this is that like I get it.
You like a girl and me and her friend may be a way in, but 13 years is too long, one.
And then two is like five kids is insane.
That's your kids.
So you're taking out 13 years of your life waiting for her to have five kids to take care of?
Bro, that's a fucking L. You're fucking simp.
I definitely agree with you on that.
That's insane.
Yeah.
But yeah, no, we're pushing out the crypto mindset course here because it's a good time for everybody to be getting in crypto here at this point in 2026.
Basically, it's a wealth generation year for everybody who's paying attention to the long-term where crypto's going.
Wall Street's getting into it.
So why aren't you, right?
So that's why we're doing the crypto mindset course here.
We pretty much hit a local low of 60K.
We're going to hold that pretty well.
Now Bitcoin's 74,000, 75,000 basically and pushing up.
So yeah, good time to get in, get in the course.
We'll be doing webinars from April 4th, which is a Friday.
We'll be selling the course through the Fresh and Fit link all the way until, I believe, Sunday, the 22nd at Midnight Pacific Standard Time.
You do get 20 webinars with that plus flash webinars.
So five are pre-recorded plus a few extra.
We do one for taxes in April, which is specific.
Very important.
Yeah, to that time period.
Then we also have 15 live webinars that we do with everybody, starting from basically the foundation of what you need to know in crypto now and then also for the future.
Then we go into basically what's hot now and then we go towards more professionals in the space who are building things, interview them.
You get to ask them questions directly, stuff like that.
Then we do flash webinars throughout the quarter when prices change to make sure that you guys are on the ball.
So we basically support you all the way through Q2 here.
It's a mega course.
So usually we do about 20 webinars.
We're probably going to do about 30 in this one in total, including pre-records.
We also include three AI webinars, two also of which are pre-recorded.
So I would say for AI, that's probably like four to five webinars specifically on that if you're looking to get into that as well.
It's a good way to earn income so that you can buy more crypto down the line later in the year when we hit the bear market low, probably around October.
I think the biggest thing is knowing when to buy and when to sell so you can maximize profits and also get in the right time.
So that's good.
Correct, correct.
Bitcoin Timing Strategy00:04:42
What do you guys know about Bitcoin or Ethereum?
Have you ever heard of Bitcoin or Ethereum?
Literally on my 2026 goals.
I was like, I want to learn more about crypto.
So I'm going to hear all right.
You know what?
How about this, ladies?
Would you rather $10,000 or one Bitcoin?
We'll start here.
One Bitcoin.
As and as he just mentioned, Bacon is almost a 70K.
And nowadays, it is really easy to sell it out.
It's not like back then that you had to have some special service.
Right now, with just cash up, you can buy and sell.
But I don't know.
You sound like you got some.
Have a cybersecurity thing.
I ain't saying nothing else.
Yeah, but cybersecurity.
Smart, smart.
I have a question, though.
Would you say, like, get into crypto is kind of like math around it, like gambling?
Or does that guarantee that if you learn like what you're supposed to know, like, you know, well-equipped and not just like emotionally.
Right.
Like, yeah, if you know the risk management, it's the key.
First, figure out how to not lose money, right?
And that's basically buying Bitcoin and Ethereum.
You can buy a little bit of Solana as well.
It's a little bit more risky, but it's probably going to stick around pretty well.
So if you focus on those three, the name of the channel is Cultivate Crypto.
So that the meaning of that is you're just trying to compound your Bitcoin, Ethereum, and Solana.
Because if you get more of those coins, the dollars, basically, they go up every five years more than they go down.
And so if you cultivate crypto, you're going to cultivate dollars as well, just by default.
So focus on those three first.
I have a question.
How is it different buying crypto than just buying stocks?
Pretty similar.
So Bitcoin's a commodity.
I would say Ethereum, they consider a non-security, so it's kind of similar to a stock, but it's kind of not.
And so I would say the volatility is much, much higher.
So you have a much for Bitcoin specifically, yes.
For everything.
It depends, but yes.
Yeah, because Ethereum hasn't hit a new all-time high, but it hit 5,000.
It's definitely more stable, though.
What?
Than Bitcoin, Ethereum.
You could argue that, yeah, for the last four years, but it will have more volatility to the upside as well, probably in the future.
I mean, you can say it about that anything in the future.
Not gold.
Gold's not going to outpace Bitcoin.
I thought we were talking about crypto.
No, but you asked about securities, commodities.
I apologize, continue.
So I'm just saying that.
But if you want to go any, like she was saying, what's gambling, right?
If you go outside of Bitcoin, Ethereum, Seoul, you walk into the casino.
So everything, all those coins are higher risk, and so you have to be able to trade that.
Okay.
Well, just I'll just say the secrets of being successful in this, is it like doing it long-term, like practicing or just buying at the right time the best?
Okay.
So once every four years, Bitcoin crashes, everybody freaks out, everybody says Bitcoin is dead, crypto is dead, it's not going anywhere.
That's when you want to buy.
So if you buy during those times, that's when we got Myron in in 2018.
Sorry, I was talking about like as a beginner.
Like if you're like getting into it, because I know a lot of people get like discouraged like the first few times and they're like, I don't want to.
So would you say it's like all the mindset thing?
Yeah, so time timing is somewhat important.
So I'd say second half of this year, if you're like unsure about crypto, learn about it.
You don't have to put money in it right away.
Then when you want to put basically some money on the line, I would say second half of this year going into early 2027, you can pretty much buy as much as you want.
And then you basically be set up for the next four years.
If you buy Bitcoin, Ethereum, and Seoul, have that as a focus.
You're pretty much, what do you call it, in the safer assets in the space.
And then once we go up into the next four-year cycle, basically 28, 29 is going to be pretty good.
Once we go down again, if it follows a four-year cycle, that should be around 2030.
And so let's say Bitcoin right now, this year, the low hits $40,000 as an example, right?
If it hits $40,000, probably in 2030, when it goes down again, it's going to come down maybe below $100,000 a bit, but you're going to be up even if you didn't sell.
So when you say 2030, is that like guaranteed, or can the polls change on any kind of chicken shift?
I would say.
But Wall Street's getting in, so that is changing the game.
So you have to stay on top of it for sure.
And then AI as well.
Do you care about Bitcoin more as an asset or as a free world currency?
In terms of free world currency, being able to move your money around anywhere you want.
I lived in Japan for 13 years, so I used it for that.
Yeah, absolutely.
So I like making money, but I also like keeping my money.
In Japan, were you able to use it in common businesses or was that an issue?
I'm not familiar with it at all.
You can go to an electronics store and buy stuff with Bitcoin.
Oh, that's cool.
Yeah.
Well, in the future, they're going to use it in many more stores, right?
Shop stores.
Yeah, Visa is actually making a back end for it right now visa master card.
Crypto Free World Currency00:01:46
It's the future, ladies.
Especially with state coins.
Yeah.
Yeah.
All right.
Thank you, Charlie.
That was definitely a great segue.
And also, of course, down below, when does it start?
The course actually starts on April 4th, but we're going to have your guys' link open until Sunday, midnight Pacific Standard Time on the 22nd.
All right, guys, you heard that?
Get in there, man.
All right, cool.
Appreciate it.
WHAT THEY?
I told you.
W Charlie.
Yeah, W Charlie.
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All right, cool.
Where were we before?
Oh, we went through the video.
Yeah, so video and you got all their opinions.
Yeah.
Okay.
So pretty much, you can give your opinion as well.
Yeah, yeah, no, because I was going to ask with you, because you said that having a female friend is important for like a female perspective, right?
Like for, is it in relation to like relationships or like, you mean in general?
In general, I think that any piece of extra information that you can get to make whatever decision you have is very valuable.
But I think that having the right female friends to give you perspective is very valuable when making any move.
Like for example, I was helping a friend make a hinge profile earlier today.
He as a man, he has a certain, and this is normal.
This is completely normal.
You as a man, you have a certain perspective of what you think it's cool and what you think is going to get you bitches.