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Joe Rogan Experience #1699 - Meghan Murphy
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unidentified
Hello Hi.
Welcome.
meghan murphy
Thank you.
joe rogan
Thanks for doing this.
Appreciate it.
meghan murphy
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
joe rogan
Very nice to meet you.
meghan murphy
It's great to meet you.
I'm really excited to be here.
joe rogan
We've talked about you eight or ten times.
meghan murphy
I know, it drives me crazy.
joe rogan
Does it?
meghan murphy
I'm like, I want to talk too.
joe rogan
What is your impression of the way people are interpreting what happened to you?
meghan murphy
Well, I was really frustrated when Jack, and I don't know how to say her name properly, and I'm going to muck it up.
Jack and the head of safety...
unidentified
Vidja?
joe rogan
Is that how you say it?
Vidja, yes.
Let's tell people the story of what happened.
meghan murphy
Okay.
joe rogan
You want some of this?
meghan murphy
Yes, okay, so let me, this is my favorite booze, and not just my favorite Mexican booze, my all-time favorite booze, and nobody likes it except for me, so even in Sayulita, which is, oh, this is where I'm living now, I just outed myself.
joe rogan
We could edit it out if you want.
meghan murphy
No, no, that's cool, that's cool, because I also, no, that's cool, leave it in.
Okay.
Okay, but this is like a sipping drink.
So be very reserved.
Cheers.
joe rogan
A sipping drink?
meghan murphy
Yeah, like don't take a big gulp.
joe rogan
Yo!
This is Mexican moonshine.
meghan murphy
Yeah, it's Mexican moonshine.
unidentified
Wow!
meghan murphy
So it's from the agave plant, which is like the same...
joe rogan
You like it hard, lady.
This is hard stuff.
meghan murphy
I really like it, and I don't know what's wrong with me, honestly, because it's not like I love hard alcohol.
It makes me feel warm inside, though, right?
joe rogan
Yeah, for sure.
jamie vernon
If that's your reaction, I can only imagine what it is like.
joe rogan
It's 40% alcohol.
unidentified
You should try.
joe rogan
Yeah, what is that?
80 proof?
That's 80 proof, right?
Isn't it like double the percent?
Is that how it works?
Yeah.
That's what that moonshine was we used to drink, I think.
meghan murphy
It's literally moonshine.
joe rogan
You want to try it?
meghan murphy
You should try it.
unidentified
I just want to see your reaction.
meghan murphy
I love forcing people to try it and then seeing what they do.
unidentified
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
meghan murphy
Calm down.
joe rogan
Oh, you got to cheers, Jamie.
We all cheers.
meghan murphy
Cheers.
You're welcome.
Thank you.
That was a joke.
joe rogan
Holy...
Yeah, right?
It smells like you're gonna clean something.
Yeah.
Something bad, like blood.
meghan murphy
This is how we stay healthy in Mexico.
unidentified
Oh, okay.
meghan murphy
We just clean everything out.
unidentified
I can't even drink it.
It's too, like, I just took a sniff as I was going to go up and like...
joe rogan
It's rough.
jamie vernon
It's like three times a tequila shot, it feels like, in one.
joe rogan
Yeah, it's exactly what it feels like.
What is it called?
unidentified
I believe you.
meghan murphy
I would say it's an acquired taste, but I loved it immediately, so...
joe rogan
Estancia?
meghan murphy
Okay, so it's from, it's specific to the region.
So I live in Sayulita because I ran away from China, I mean, Canada.
But, like, so it's like an hour away from Puerto Vallarta.
And it's in the state of Nayarit.
So this booze is specific to that state.
I don't love chugging vodka or gin or anything like that.
I do like scotch and whiskey and whatever.
But for whatever reason, I really love this.
And everyone else thinks I'm a psychopath.
Because I'll be like, try it, it's the best.
And they're like, why are you feeding me gasoline?
What the fuck is wrong with you?
joe rogan
Maybe it represents, like, change to you, you know?
Because it's like you're in this new place and you got fed up with these draconian Vancouver or Canadian restrictions.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
And you're just like, ah!
meghan murphy
And I was like, I'm gonna go get wasted in Mexico and live my life.
I actually genuinely like it.
I find it, like, sweet.
joe rogan
This stuff.
unidentified
Sweet.
joe rogan
Yeah, this is not...
meghan murphy
Did you also find it sweet?
It's not that sweet.
joe rogan
It's rugged.
I took a couple of sips and I'm lit.
My eyes are watering.
unidentified
I know.
meghan murphy
I have to be careful because I'll get drunk.
joe rogan
You didn't drink it at all?
meghan murphy
I can't.
unidentified
I can't.
joe rogan
I will vomit probably.
unidentified
I'll just spit it out so I don't want to do it.
joe rogan
So let's go to your story.
unidentified
Okay, okay, okay.
joe rogan
Explain to everybody what happened with you.
meghan murphy
Okay.
I mean, I'm not sure how far back you want me to start.
joe rogan
Let's...
You're getting kicked off Twitter.
meghan murphy
I was one of the only people in Canada who was talking about gender identity critically.
I'm not saying that to big myself up.
It was very annoying because I obviously was targeted.
There was Jordan Peterson who spoke out and then there was me and then there was a couple other people.
And I was pretty vocal about it.
I first started talking about it back in like 2016, 2017, because the Liberal government was pushing through Bill C-16, which was our gender identity legislation.
So they were trying to, and succeeded in, because the bill passed, incorporate gender identity into the Human Rights Code and the Criminal Code.
And I went and testified against that bill To say, like, this bill shouldn't pass.
It'll have a negative impact on women's rights, which of course it did.
joe rogan
For people who don't know what the bill, what it means, could you explain what it means?
Because some folks aren't hip to the argument.
meghan murphy
Right.
Sorry.
joe rogan
And also that Canada, we should explain, Canada does not have a First Amendment.
So you don't have freedom of speech over there.
You have Human Rights Council, right?
And then if laws violate, if rather some of your speech violates the laws that they put in place, you can literally be arrested.
meghan murphy
Yeah, you go through a human rights tribunal.
And so, I mean, the law didn't actually...
It was very vague.
Like, it didn't specifically say, for example, you know, if you misgender somebody, that's a hate crime or hate speech or something like that.
All it did was to say that gender identity and gender expression essentially needed to be protected under the law, just like whatever race, other sort of marginalized identities or whatever.
And what we thought would happen, which did happen, is that it would sort of direct policy.
And it would mean that, you know, anybody could use any bathroom or change room.
It would mean that men would have to be allowed in transition houses and women's shelters if they identified as women.
It would mean that men could be transferred to female prisons if they identified as women.
Essentially, like, to me, the concept of gender identity nullifies sex.
Like, you can't have both.
You can't say, either you are a woman, and you're a woman because you're female, or you identify as a woman.
You can't do both.
And then anybody, of course, can identify as a woman.
I'm sort of going about this a long way.
But, yeah, I was just worried about the implications.
I testified at the Senate.
Jordan Peterson testified.
Are you okay?
unidentified
Yeah, just to go.
meghan murphy
And so essentially, like, I was the loudest feminist voice in Canada, by far.
And I was tweeting about these issues.
I was asking questions about gender identity.
I was sort of saying, like, what does this mean?
Like, I said, one of the tweets that my account was locked down for was, what's the difference between a man and a trans woman?
And I wasn't saying that to try to be rude.
I was saying, like, somebody please explain what happens to a man between him being a man and then him being a trans woman.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, if he hasn't had any surgeries or anything like that, not that I think that a surgery can change your sex, but like, what is it?
So now, yesterday he was a man, today he identifies as a woman or a trans woman.
What's happened here?
What does this mean?
It was just so nonsensical.
It's just a belief system, right?
joe rogan
Well, it can get even worse, right?
But you can decide to go back and forth throughout the day.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
People have allowed that.
This is also accepted.
You can be gender fluid, and you can be gender fluid depending upon your mood multiple times a day.
meghan murphy
Right.
And that's what the concept of gender identity does.
It's just an identity.
It's just something you say.
It could be something you feel, but it's just a proclamation.
There's no material reality involved.
There's nothing concrete.
There's nothing you can point to.
Essentially, it's akin to a religion, as far as I'm concerned.
It's faith-based, right?
So, you know, I feel like these laws are, in a way, sort of enforcing religion on people.
Like, it's like they're enforcing this, like, faith-based...
joe rogan
Woke religion.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
joe rogan
Yeah, a lot of ways.
meghan murphy
I mean, you could call it progressive, but it's, of course, not progressive.
It's just weird and nonsensical and has a terrible impact on women.
But, um...
So, one of the tweets that I was locked down for was that one, you know, what's the difference between a man and a trans woman.
joe rogan
Just a question.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
And so they suspended you for that.
meghan murphy
So they, yeah, they locked down my account and they're like, you have to delete this tweet if you want your account back.
I appealed it.
It was every time I've appealed anything, it's just been totally ignored.
They don't explain why.
They never tell me what rules I break either or did break, right?
Like they never said, they say hateful conduct, but they don't say, oh, it's this specific rule.
Like you're not allowed to misgender or dead name or whatever it would be.
I mean, I don't even know what rule that would break saying like, what's the difference between a man and a trans woman?
The other tweet, of course, was men aren't women, which wasn't targeted at anybody.
I wasn't saying, you're not a woman.
It was like part of a thread.
It was part of a conversation that was back and forth.
And I was like, but men aren't women.
That was one of them that got me locked down again.
Which is crazy.
Well, yeah.
joe rogan
We're literally like denying biology.
meghan murphy
I mean, so what I think, I don't know, because again, no one's really explained anything to me.
No one from Twitter has communicated with me.
No one said what I did wrong, so I'm just guessing.
joe rogan
Can I tell you what they said?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
They said that you were told to delete the tweet, but you took a screenshot of it, and you deleted it, but then reposted the screenshot.
meghan murphy
I did do that.
I didn't know that I wasn't allowed to do that when I did that, so I wasn't trying to be a dick.
Like, I wasn't Trying to be like, fuck you!
I was so mad!
I was like, are you fucking serious?
Like, I got banned for saying, like, men aren't women, for asking these really basic questions.
joe rogan
That was their justification to me as to why they banned you for the rest of your life.
meghan murphy
Well, fair, fair.
joe rogan
Which is fucking bananas.
unidentified
Yeah.
joe rogan
There's the example that I bring up when I talk about this idea that you can just ban people for saying things that are factually correct, maybe politically insensitive, you know, depending upon the current climate, but factually correct, biologically correct, scientifically correct.
Maybe you might say that it's not kind, but what is wrong with being, are we really deciding that there's certain rules that we want to apply in regards to progressive thinking that bypass or supersede biology?
Is that what we're doing?
Because when you say a man, if you say a man is never a woman, that's what you said?
meghan murphy
Men aren't women.
Men aren't women.
joe rogan
That's a fact.
Men are not women.
Now, I believe in trans women.
I think there are people that have gender dysphoria and I think there are people that are happier if they identify as a woman, dress as a woman, are treated like a woman or use a woman's name and people describe them as a woman.
It's obviously real, right?
They obviously exist.
meghan murphy
I think, I mean, sure, like I could buy that there's such a thing as gender dysphoria So you have some kind of, like, mental condition or mental illness.
I'm not trying to be mean, I swear to God.
Like, people get, like, triggered if you say, like, a mental illness.
But I'm like, you literally think you're something that you're not.
Like, you literally believe you're a male.
You actually believe you're a woman.
That's a form of mental illness.
Fine.
It doesn't mean you're a bad person.
And I don't care.
unidentified
Right.
meghan murphy
If you want to dress in women's clothes, if you want to wear makeup, if you want to get cosmetic surgeries, if you want to change your name, go for it.
Like, do whatever makes you feel better.
That's fine.
But I'm not going to lie to comfort you or whomever else.
So I don't even agree that, like...
Gender dysphoria means there's such a thing as a trans woman.
To me, this concept doesn't make any sense.
What's a trans woman?
What does it mean?
Do you have to be on hormones?
Do you have to have a bunch of surgeries?
Do you have to have a neo-vagina?
joe rogan
It's weird because it's very strict that you must accept that people are trans women.
But then what defines a trans woman is completely open to interpretation.
It's the person who decides whatever identity they identify with, male, female, whatever it is, it's up to them.
It's up to them whether they have surgery.
It's up to them whether they take hormones.
It's up to them whatever.
You can do absolutely nothing.
You could have a full beard And say you're a woman.
With a penis, functional testicles, no problem at all.
And you can say you're a woman and everyone has to agree.
meghan murphy
Speaking of which, the final tweet that I was actually banned for, so they locked me down for those two things, right?
And then the final straw for them was when I said, yeah, it's him, in reference to Jessica Yaniv, who was once Jonathan.
If you recall, he was the man in Vancouver who was going around to local estheticians and asking them, To give him a Brazilian bikini wax.
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
And he is fully a man.
I mean...
joe rogan
Fully a man.
Intact testicles.
Intact penis.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Everything.
I mean...
joe rogan
Beard.
meghan murphy
And also a crazy person.
A crazy person.
And a major fucking creep.
And he is messaging these women on Facebook.
I think sometimes under a fake photo and name.
So maybe with a woman's photo and a woman's name that's not him.
And then they would realize that he was a man, I guess maybe if they talked to him on the phone or something like that, and they'd be like, no, sorry, we don't offer this service to men.
And he would accuse them of transphobia and essentially try to extort money out of them.
And when that didn't work, I guess he decided he wanted to, I mean, again, he's a crazy person, so we can't take this as representative of very much other than the fact that he's like a grifter and a crazy person.
But, you know, to take them all to the Human Rights Tribunal to say he's being discriminated against.
But this is exactly, exactly the perfect example of what happens if you just say anybody's a woman and you just have to accept it.
He has a penis.
He has balls.
He obviously looks like a man.
At that time, he was still using his male name in various places, like on Facebook, some other places.
I think on Twitter at that time, he was...
Maybe using both names.
But there was nothing to show me that he was a woman.
So I said, yeah, it's him.
I figured out that it was him.
And then I was permanently banned.
Yeah, and that was in November.
And that was it.
I appealed.
They were like, nope, sorry, hateful conduct.
Again, didn't tell me what rule I broke.
20 minutes after I was banned.
I was banned on Friday night.
I was at the bar.
I was like, what the fuck?
I'm trying to have fun!
20 minutes after I was banned, Pink News, which is like a LGBT queer news site, they post an article saying, Twitter has a new rule against misgendering and deadnaming.
And I was like, oh, this is a really funny coincidence that this went up 20 minutes after I was banned for some rule that they didn't specify, but I can only assume was misgendering.
Yeah.
Misgendering a man who's a predator and who is still going by his male name in various places on the internet.
joe rogan
Whoops.
meghan murphy
So, I mean, he should have been banned, too, for misgendering himself.
joe rogan
Good point.
meghan murphy
Thank you.
joe rogan
It's just so weird.
Because it's the one area that there's no room for...
There's no room for interpretation.
There's no room for debate or nuance.
It's just, like, you cannot misgender.
You cannot deadname.
You cannot, like...
meghan murphy
And you're cruel and horrible if you do.
joe rogan
Yeah, they're cruel and horrible to you.
meghan murphy
Well, yeah, I mean, the things that people aren't banned for on Twitter.
I mean, I have been, like, subject to countless death threats.
Like, you should die, you get the wall, you should go to the gulag.
Like, people show, you know, like, people say horrible things to me online.
I honestly don't care.
Like, I'm like, it's the internet, people say horrible things.
I'm not gonna crumble or feel hurt or offended because somebody says some bullshit to me on Twitter.
But you can't even say he to somebody who's declared themselves a woman or you're essentially guilty of hate speech.
joe rogan
But they can call you a stupid bitch.
meghan murphy
And worse.
joe rogan
Yeah, and worse.
meghan murphy
Believe it or not.
joe rogan
What's worse?
meghan murphy
Like, cunt?
I don't know.
joe rogan
Oh, there you go.
meghan murphy
Kill yourself, you turf cunt.
I've gotten that one.
joe rogan
Oh, that turf is my favorite.
Trans, exclusionary, radical, feminist.
meghan murphy
Yeah, yeah.
joe rogan
There's so many of those things.
People love those little acronyms, too, because it makes them feel like they're a part of some little group that knows these things and other people don't know these things.
meghan murphy
Yeah, and that acronym doesn't even make sense because it's applied.
I'm not a radical feminist.
I've never identified as a radical feminist.
I don't have anything against radical feminists, per se.
joe rogan
What is a radical feminist versus a regular feminist?
meghan murphy
I mean, technically, the word radical is meant in this context to get at the root.
So the difference, radical feminists would say, the difference between radical feminism and liberal feminism would be that they want to upend the whole system of patriarchy rather than just changing some of the surface things like legislation and things like that.
They want there to be a revolution.
joe rogan
Burn it all down.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
They're like the Antifa of feminists.
meghan murphy
I mean, I don't think most of them are violent, but some of them are probably violent, or some of them would want a violent revolution to overthrow the patriarchy.
joe rogan
Even when Antifa's violent, they're violent, like, you know, little small doughy people.
meghan murphy
You just think that because you know that you could beat them up, but I don't think that when they're...
unidentified
You think they're violent?
meghan murphy
Like, yes!
joe rogan
Yeah.
No, I think they're violent, too.
meghan murphy
I think they're quite scary, and again...
A lot of them seem really unstable.
Like, they've shown up at my events before to protest, and they're quite threatening and, you know, I kind of do find them scary because I find them unhinged.
And they obviously have perpetrated violence.
Like, Antifa was responsible for a whole bunch of violence during all the BLM stuff in the summer.
And I, you know, I'm not as strong as you are because I'm female.
I also don't work out as much as you.
But, you know, like, if a scrawny Antifa guy wanted to beat me up, he probably could.
joe rogan
Right.
Yeah, there's a weird like misfits revenge aspect to what they're doing.
meghan murphy
Yes.
joe rogan
Because they're all misfits.
They're all like either like really fat or really scrawny and really fucked up and they're wearing masks and screaming nonsensical shit.
And loving the fact that they found others like them and that they're all willing to participate in this anarchy and trying to Burn it all down.
And because of their cute little name, anti-fascist, how could you disagree with them?
meghan murphy
Why do you love fascism?
joe rogan
It's like Antifa is anti-fascist.
And I've seen actually CNN buy into that.
No, they're misfits that are trying to burn down Seattle courthouses.
This is not anti-fascist.
In fact, if you follow the definition of fascism, they're literally trying to enforce their ideals upon other people.
unidentified
Right.
meghan murphy
I mean, this is the same thing.
People accuse me of bigotry.
They accuse all sorts of people of bigotry because they have non-approved progressive opinions.
And meanwhile, they're the most intolerant people ever.
And I'm like, no, actually, if you just Google the definition of the word bigot, what you're doing is literally bigotry.
You're intolerant of different opinions.
Right.
joe rogan
And lack of compassion.
That's a big aspect of a lot of this stuff.
I always used to think of progressive people and people with progressive ideas as being compassionate people.
That's the reason why they had these progressive ideas, whether it's about welfare or whether it's about civil rights or equal rights, whatever it is.
I thought it was like compassionate, kind people that wanted other people to have better opportunities and do better.
But when you realize that it's, no, it's people who have decided upon a tribe and they've subscribed to a predetermined set of opinions and then they use that to be a fucking douchebag and attack other people.
That's a lot of what's going on with the right and the left, with both sides.
meghan murphy
I mean, it's interesting because what they're doing is they're seeking power.
Like, I totally think you're right.
I think these are like ugly loser misfits who were unpopular in high school and are really fucking pissed off and want to get their revenge and so they're using politics to do it.
Yes.
But, you know, I like so I was a leftist my entire life.
I identified when I was a teenager, I think I identified as like a Marxist.
And then as a socialist, only recently, like within the past couple of years, have I been like, I don't think this is great.
Like, first of all, I don't want anything to do with these people.
But second of all, like, I don't know if capitalism is the worst thing in the world.
But I subscribed to these beliefs because I thought we were the nice people.
I thought we were the people who cared about people's well-being and happiness, about, obviously, equality and justice.
And I never even knew any right-wing people my whole life.
I grew up in Vancouver, which is a very progressive place.
My parents were super progressive.
I grew up atheist.
I didn't know religious people.
I didn't know right-wing people.
I almost really never even thought about them that much, but I just had decided...
So I understand these people, because I used to be like that.
I just thought that anybody that didn't see things my way were stupid.
We're assholes or we're greedy.
You know, like, you just don't care about helping out poor people.
You just care about yourself.
And, you know, obviously, over the past few years, I've seen the light.
And, you know, the left claims to be anti-hierarchy, right?
Which is stupid.
Like, hierarchies are natural.
You can't be anti-hierarchy.
That's not how the world works.
It's not how nature works.
But they claim to be opposed to power, essentially.
And meanwhile, all that they're doing is trying to hold power over everybody else and force everybody else to not even...
I don't even know if they care that people believe what they're saying.
They just want them to say it.
They just want them to repeat the mantras like they're in a cult.
joe rogan
Right.
There's a big aspect, a big cult-like aspect to this.
Yeah, it's a strange time because through social media people get to find other people that agree with them and they form these little attack groups.
They form these little echo chambers and they reinforce their opinions and they use that to target people that they find that disagree with them or they find that have opposing viewpoints.
And the way they do it is really nasty.
It's really nasty and really shitty and it's not compassionate at all.
It's not in a line with anything that I ever thought of as being progressive or being open-minded or liberal.
It's not like that.
It's like they're using their ideological differences they have with other people as an excuse to be a shitty person.
meghan murphy
And they've been doing this to me forever.
Like, this was a more famous moment.
But when I was writing for this, like, Canadian left-wing progressive news site back in 2015, I was an editor there, too, actually.
They started, these Toronto progressives, started a petition to have me fired and accused me of all sorts of things.
They accused me of being whorephobic, you know, afraid of prostitutes.
joe rogan
You're a horror-phobic?
meghan murphy
I'm not just a transphobe.
I'm also a horror-phobe.
joe rogan
I never heard of that one before.
meghan murphy
Yeah, this has been going on for a while.
joe rogan
You're a horror-phobe?
meghan murphy
I'm not a horror-phobe, but they...
Okay, so there is some context for this.
Because I'm scared of prostitutes.
I'm joking.
I don't have an irrational fear of prostitutes.
So most of my work before I started writing about gender identity, I was writing about...
Like, I run a feminist website for 10 years now.
I would write mostly about, like, violence against women, domestic abuse, but I did a lot of writing around pornography and prostitution.
And, you know, I'm opposed to the porn industry.
I personally don't like porn, but I think the porn industry is, like, pretty disgusting and exploitative and unethical.
I think it's obviously incredibly misogynistic, it's racist.
I think porn, I know you didn't ask me about this, but too bad.
I think porn's bad for men, I think it's bad for relationships, for the most part.
In any case, I did a lot of writing around pornography, about prostitution.
I advocate for a model that's called the Nordic Model, which criminalizes essentially the exploiters, so it criminalizes pimps, johns, broth owners, traffickers.
And decriminalizes the women.
So it sees women as essentially victims of prostitution for the most part.
Of course I'm aware that some women choose it.
And tries to punish the people who take advantage of vulnerable women essentially.
And this is why I was labeled a whore-phobe.
joe rogan
Hmm.
meghan murphy
And this is what the left was really angry at me about for the most part but they also of course accused me of being like a white supremacist and a transphobe and everything else because they like to just pile everything.
joe rogan
I was talking to my friend Ari about this and he was saying that he knows people in New York specifically where girls have men that they have sex with For money.
They've become friends with them and they have like these little relationship deals with them where they'll meet them and then maybe these guys have other relationships or maybe these guys are really busy and they don't want a relationship for whatever reason.
They just want to pay for sex and have it a clean transaction and these women will do it with like several different guys and that is how they get by.
And they like it.
They don't have pimps.
They don't have prostitutes.
And this sounds very utopian, right?
It sounds like very...
Like, best case scenario for the girl, best case scenario for the guy.
Like, we're painting this with rose-colored glasses, right?
Like, everybody loves it.
It's great.
There's no icky side effects, and there's no misogyny, and there's no...
Right.
In that scenario, are you okay with that?
meghan murphy
So, okay is not...
I'm not going to tell a woman not to do that.
joe rogan
Right.
meghan murphy
That's what she wants to do.
That's her own prerogative.
If it genuinely makes her happy, then go for it.
joe rogan
If it's better than working at Wendy's.
meghan murphy
Well, and it is better than working at Wendy's financially, probably.
I think that that relationship and that transaction is totally unhealthy and inhumane, and I think that it obviously treats sex as something that is separate from the human.
Separate from the human?
So, you're having sex with somebody, but you're not engaging in a relationship with them.
You're just using their body, essentially.
Which I think is weird, because we're more than just bodies.
We're not like, you know, our brains are, you know, it's all connected.
We have emotions, we have desires, we have feelings.
And I think if you're having sex with somebody, you sort of need to be accountable to them in some way and be considering that they have feelings and desires and needs of their own.
I don't think that it's healthy for sex to be treated as just a physical thing.
And I'm not saying Like, sex can't just be fun and just a physical thing.
Like, I've had lots of casual sex in my life.
joe rogan
How dare you?
meghan murphy
Everybody.
joe rogan
How dare you?
meghan murphy
Hundreds and thousands of people.
But, you know, I don't think it has to be like this romantic exchange every time.
It's not like you have to be married, like you have to be like staring into each other's eyes and like, I love you, I love you, I love you.
But I think that it's a really unhealthy thing for society to normalize sex as being something transactional.
And I think these women probably are going to have problems down the line.
Like, it's like, yeah, right now this might be fine.
Same thing with women who do porn are like, oh yeah, this is fine, great.
And it's like, okay, talk to me in 10 years and tell me how you feel when you reflect back.
Like, the decisions that we make, we can make all sorts of bad decisions when we're 20. And this can be applicable to probably casual sex, too.
I think that there are kind of mental and emotional repercussions from engaging in those kinds of relationships that people pretend don't exist.
I don't think that it could make you feel really good about yourself when a man is like paying for access to your body and not considering you as a human and how you feel and what you actually want.
And you're having sex that you don't enjoy.
Why would you want to have sex that you don't enjoy?
joe rogan
But are they mutually exclusive?
How do you know they don't enjoy it?
What if you do have sex with people?
meghan murphy
Why would they be getting paid if they were into it?
joe rogan
Because they have an arrangement.
meghan murphy
Like if I wanted to have sex with somebody, I wouldn't be like, okay, well give me some money.
I'd want to have sex with them.
joe rogan
Well you're not a hoe.
meghan murphy
Thank you.
That's true.
joe rogan
I mean, I think we're making it...
We're narrowly defining these exchanges.
And I'm not in support of prostitution.
I'm just trying to play devil's advocate.
meghan murphy
No, I appreciate it.
And to be honest, like, I... I'm totally changing the subject again.
I'm sorry.
I'm very bad at staying on track.
But I started to question feminism and the work that I was doing because I started to feel like there were questions that I couldn't answer and I wasn't being challenged enough.
So I appreciate you challenging me on this stuff, but I've sort of started to move away from feminism a bit in the past few years, partly because I just felt like I was repeating myself over and over and over again and like preaching to the choir and none of these people were asking me any questions.
And I was like, if I was having an argument with somebody who like didn't believe in patriarchy, they were like, what's a patriarchy?
I was like, would I be able to answer that question?
I don't actually think I can, so maybe I should stop saying this word over and over and over again.
joe rogan
It's a word that's supposed to put the brakes on any argument.
It's one of those words like, because of the patriarchy.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Oh, because of the patriarchy.
Tell me about that.
joe rogan
It's one of those things where if you ask someone to define what exactly do you mean by that, things can get real dicey.
meghan murphy
And I couldn't.
And I can't.
And so I've stopped using that word.
joe rogan
Well, the idea is that men are controlling everything, right?
Which is very disempowering for women, especially women that are very successful.
It's like, how did they get there?
Did they get there because men let them?
Or did they get there because there are certain aspects of society that are a meritocracy?
meghan murphy
And that should be a meritocracy.
This is what I was saying about hierarchy.
It's like there are some people who are better at things than other people.
There are some people who are better suited to be leaders.
It's not an equal playing field.
joe rogan
It's also not equal in the amount of effort that people put into things.
meghan murphy
Totally.
If you want to sit around in the house on your computer playing...
I was about to say video games because I'm 41 years old.
I was like...
I don't think they're called video games anymore.
joe rogan
They are.
meghan murphy
What are they called?
I don't know.
I feel like there's another...
Well, I obviously don't know.
joe rogan
I think they're video games.
They're just called video games.
meghan murphy
Oh, isn't it like...
Okay.
joe rogan
What else would you call them?
meghan murphy
Uh...
joe rogan
They're video games.
meghan murphy
Okay, great.
joe rogan
Even like the brand new ones that come out today.
meghan murphy
So I just outed my age for no good reason.
But like if you want to like sit around your house and be a loser, then you can go do that.
But you don't deserve to have the same amount of money or prestige or power or whatever it is as somebody else.
Like it shouldn't all be equal.
I think that it should be more equal.
Like I don't think that...
I really don't think that people should be in poverty or destitute or be homeless.
joe rogan
Agreed, yeah.
meghan murphy
But I don't agree with this delusion that everybody is capable of the same things, has the same skills, and they do that in feminism a lot.
They sort of pretend like everyone should have an equal say, and it's a really big problem within the movement.
I'm getting sort of meta here a bit, but You know, feminism can be very, like, pro-collective and advocates, you know, like, collective decision-making and things like that, which is crazy because if you're working in a collective and some women are, you know, 50 or 60 years old, they've been doing this work for a really long time.
If you're 50 or 60 years old, you probably know in general a lot more about Life and your work than a 20-year-old does.
And yet, within a collective, everybody has an equal say.
So, you know, the 20-year-old who just joined your collective has just as much to say and it's equally as legitimate as what this 60-year-old...
Like, it's disrespectful.
You know what I mean?
Like...
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
I don't know if this is, like, another, like...
Yeah, I have all these problems with feminism that I've sort of been trying to like address and articulate of late and I've gotten pretty attacked over it because people are used to me saying a certain thing and I've stopped saying those things and started asking questions and challenging things and people don't like it when you do that.
joe rogan
Yeah.
Well, specifically of those ideals that they would like you to subscribe to very rigidly define how they look at the world.
meghan murphy
Exactly.
joe rogan
And then if you step out, you were an ally, air quotes, and then all of a sudden you step out of the orthodoxy and you're starting to...
Say, well, maybe this is bullshit because maybe young people are filled with hubris and maybe one of the reasons why they're into Marxism is because they haven't accumulated any wealth yet and they would like everybody to have no wealth because they don't have any wealth.
And then as you see, as they gain wealth, which is one of the more slippery things about people as they get older, people that used to be Marxists and then they start like selling books and start doing well.
And then they're like, I'm not really into this anymore.
I like having money.
I kind of like to keep this money.
Well, that fucking lady from Black Lives Matter that was a trained Marxist and turns out she's got a multimillionaire real estate portfolio.
meghan murphy
Yeah, yeah.
joe rogan
And rental property and like, okay.
meghan murphy
I mean...
joe rogan
Like, what is Marxism to you?
meghan murphy
Well, and that's fine, but just don't be a liar.
Like, be rich.
Have a bunch of properties.
Have a bunch of money.
But don't be a liar.
Like, don't advocate this thing that is directly opposed to the life that you're living.
I mean, that's why I was a Marxist.
I was like, I don't have any money.
Fuck these people with money.
Like, how come my friends have houses and cars and I don't have anything?
I'm a Marxist.
And then I sort of started to make more money.
It's not like I make tons of money right now, but I'm okay.
I want to make more money.
joe rogan
Well, it's very rewarding when your effort gets paid off by something very tangible, like financial success.
And the idea that we're not all in it for some sort of reinforcement, whether it's monetary reinforcement, societal reinforcement, When you're doing something and you're putting out work, you're doing it for incentives.
You're not just doing it to just survive.
What am I, a fucking animal?
I only need enough meat to survive and enough water to drink so I can stay hydrated?
And who gets to decide that?
So if we pass that and you can accumulate more things, you could buy nice clothes, you could buy a TV, you could get a computer, who's to decide where that ends?
And how do you regulate this?
And who gets to regulate it?
And if you look at the loudest voices, they're usually the laziest fucks.
The laziest or the youngest or the ones who just haven't been successful at life.
This idea, and Jordan Peterson talks about this all the time, it's an infuriating idea of an equality of outcome.
Because there's no way that it's ever going to work.
But some people want that.
They want an equality of outcome in terms of financial success or life success.
There's not an equality of effort.
And this is the whole reason why we have innovation and why our society moves forth and why people put in a lot of effort and make extraordinary leaps and gains in their life.
It's because there's incentives.
That's why.
That's why they do it.
That's the good aspect of capitalism.
meghan murphy
Yeah, and I mean, the idea that, like, you shouldn't have to work hard.
I mean, working hard to achieve something like financial success is great.
Because, yeah, why would you do all this work for nothing, just out of the good of your heart?
Like, most people aren't going to do that.
Maybe there's some people who are incredibly charitable, but most people aren't going to do that.
But also, you know, it sort of erases the reality that, like, working really hard and achieving something and getting better at something is actually very, like, self-fulfilling.
It's really good for your confidence.
It helps you get to know yourself, which also builds confidence.
And this is what these leftists are all doing, essentially.
All of these, I mean, especially the younger leftists.
It's like, you shouldn't have to challenge yourself.
You shouldn't have to do anything that scares you.
You shouldn't have to do anything that's hard.
You should be comfortable all the time and everything should just be given to you.
I mean, all these, what is it, like Generation Z? I almost said Millennials, but every time I say Millennials, people scream at me and they're like, we're not Millennials!
I'm like, okay, whatever.
Everybody who's younger than me who's bad.
They complain constantly about not having anything.
Have you noticed that online?
It's like, oh, all these older people with their houses and their money and their jobs and all we have is debt and climate change and nothing.
And I'm like, you're 20 years old.
You're supposed to have nothing.
You deserve nothing.
You're a useless person.
What do you...
I mean, think about...
joe rogan
Well, I wouldn't say they're useless.
meghan murphy
When I was 20, I think I was quite useless.
joe rogan
Were you?
meghan murphy
I mean, I was just at the bar.
I mean, I'm still at the bar, but I'm productive aside from just being at the bar.
But I think when I was 20, I was literally just at the bar.
I don't know.
You don't know anything when you're 20. You don't know yourself.
joe rogan
You're learning, but you have a lot of hubris.
You know, people, they have a lot of ego, and they also want success immediately.
They want it right now.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
They're like, why don't I have a house?
joe rogan
That's part of the culture of, you know, participation trophies and this coddled helicopter parent culture where kids Haven't experienced, you know, in general.
They haven't experienced as much hardship as people of previous generations.
As much difficulty in getting through life.
And also they've been told, each one of them, that they're special and unique.
And told things like body positivity, which is one of my favorites.
Like, it's okay to be a glutton.
It's body positivity.
meghan murphy
Love yourself.
Eat that cupcake.
joe rogan
You should love yourself, but she also realized that cupcakes are basically poison that tastes good.
It's basically like a very slow drip poison.
meghan murphy
I eat them.
I eat a cupcake every now and then.
I really like cake a lot.
That's good.
It's very yummy.
Not every day.
joe rogan
Not every day.
unidentified
It does.
meghan murphy
It tastes really good.
joe rogan
It tastes great.
meghan murphy
I mean, and this plays into the gender identity stuff, right?
Because, I mean, this is really, again, taken over the younger generation who expect to be validated.
unidentified
Yeah.
meghan murphy
I feel non-binary.
It's like, good for you.
That doesn't mean anything.
Also, you're not special.
You're just like everyone else.
I think if you actually tried to explain what non-binary means, which most of them can't in any kind of cohesive way, you would discover that everybody is a bit non-binary.
Like, I don't subscribe fully to femininity.
You know, I'm obviously not a very passive person.
joe rogan
You tell me, box.
meghan murphy
I love punching things.
Yeah, shout out to my trainer Chris at Quilombo in Sailita.
You have to come visit us, by the way.
It's actually, it's a Muay Thai gym, I was telling you before the show, but he's doing jujitsu tournaments there.
So they just did the white belt tournament and then they'll move up and I think probably by around March they'll do the black belt tournament.
joe rogan
That's awesome.
meghan murphy
You should come visit.
joe rogan
How many people live in that area?
meghan murphy
Okay, so in Sayulita, like I think people who actually live there year-round is probably, I'm probably going to get this wrong, but like maybe around like 2,500.
joe rogan
That's it.
meghan murphy
And then there's tons of tourists that come.
And I was one of those tourists, but I never left, so now I'm a local.
joe rogan
So you went there as a tourist because you were kind of stuck in Canada.
Canada's lockdowns are fucking preposterous.
And by the way, did you see Trudeau yesterday on TV using different pronouns to describe the recession and the recovery?
unidentified
Yeah.
meghan murphy
Oh, like the She Session?
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
Did you see that?
I didn't actually watch it, but I did.
joe rogan
Go to Jordan Peterson's Instagram or his Twitter page.
He retweeted it and said that this cannot be shared enough.
People need to understand how ridiculous this person is.
meghan murphy
He's the worst.
joe rogan
What is he doing, though?
Why would he do that?
What's the motivation to do that?
He's just making up for all the times he wore a brown face.
meghan murphy
I mean, I don't know.
I mean, a few times.
I mean, that's the thing I care about least in terms of Trudeau.
joe rogan
Let's hear this.
Take it from the beginning, because it's...
justin trudeau
It is exactly the example of the kinds of things you need to do to counter the she-session and turn it into a she-covery.
unidentified
Fact is, the conservatives don't talk about that in their lengthy platform.
meghan murphy
Like, is it that the re-session is sexist, so he's called- what the fuck is a she-session?
joe rogan
What does that mean?
meghan murphy
I don't know.
joe rogan
She-session and she-covery?
meghan murphy
I think he's probably, I'm assuming...
joe rogan
He's such a tryhard.
meghan murphy
He's such a loser.
He's trying to say, like, maybe that women...
Is he trying to say that women suffered more during COVID financially?
He's not saying shit.
joe rogan
He's not saying shit.
He's just making up words.
meghan murphy
I should stop giving him so much credit to think that he's actually just saying something.
How many terms has he done?
So this is two.
joe rogan
This is his second term?
So he won the second term.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
When did that happen?
meghan murphy
Please don't ask me questions like this.
Oh, sorry.
joe rogan
But you're a Canadian.
meghan murphy
No, I know.
I have a terrible memory, though.
joe rogan
But that's hilariously bad.
Because I could tell you when Biden got elected.
meghan murphy
He just called a new election.
So there's going to be another election in October.
So he's been in for a while now.
joe rogan
He called an election?
So he gets to say, let's have a new election?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Why would he do that?
Well, I assume it has something to do with COVID and how well he thinks he's handled COVID. And he hasn't.
He's been the worst.
I mean, their shutdowns in Canada were...
Psycho and never-ending and destroyed so many businesses, so many small businesses.
We've all been miserable.
This is literally why I left the country.
The politics in Canada are terrible and the Liberal Party are also right now trying to push through all these anti-free speech bills.
And I honestly got scared that I was like, I'm not going to be able to work here.
I'm going to get arrested.
There's two bills, I think, Bill C36 and Bill C10. And one of them is to regulate online speech.
So what it would do is it would force platforms like YouTube or Twitter or Facebook to take down content that the Canadian government deemed to be hate speech.
So basically everything that I do.
Because they're on board with all this gender identity shit, right?
And you also, it's basically, it's practically illegal to say anything critical about COVID or vaccines and all of that stuff.
joe rogan
Really?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
And the other one is about changing hate speech laws.
I mean, they're working so hard to limit free speech in Canada, and nobody cares.
Canadians are the most passive people I have ever encountered, and they have no idea why any of these things are important.
Before I moved to Mexico, I was thinking about moving to the US, like to Texas, for example, because I think it's going in a really, really dangerous direction and nobody's doing anything or saying anything, or very few people in any case.
And this is our, you know, progressive, like, feminist prime minister.
People really, really trust the government.
So all these ongoing restrictions that were happening during COVID, they...
People genuinely believe that the government has their best interests in mind, and they think that if they just keep following the rules, then things will work out for them, even if that's irrational, even if they've seen, we've been following the rules this whole time, and nothing's changed, we're not being given our freedoms back, in fact, they're working to take away more of our freedoms, you know.
You can't!
It's illegal to say that you can't gather with other people, like you can't have religious gatherings, that you can't go to church, that you can't protest.
And that's what they did over COVID, right?
Like this BLM protest that happened during COVID is fine.
But this, you know, like anti-lockdown protest is illegal, essentially.
And people don't see why that's a problem.
And it's crazy to me.
And it's super scary to me.
joe rogan
De Blasio did that in New York City as well.
He said the only protests that are acceptable was Black Lives Matter protests.
I'm like, you're not allowed to do that, you fuck.
meghan murphy
No!
joe rogan
You're not allowed.
meghan murphy
That's not how rights work.
joe rogan
Especially in America.
I don't know how it works in Canada, but you can't do that.
But he did it.
And this is the same guy that just made a vaccine passport.
And I have a real problem because I have a show there in Madison Square Garden in October and I've already sold 13,000 tickets.
And now they say that everybody has to be vaccinated.
And I want everybody to know that you can get your money back.
I don't know what to do.
I'm stuck in this situation.
If someone has an ideological or a physiological reason for not getting vaccinated, I don't want to force them to get vaccinated to see a fucking stupid comedy show.
meghan murphy
No, I mean, people should be able to make their own choices about their health and their bodies.
But beyond that, I mean, vaccine mandates don't even work.
Like, I think in Sweden they've never had mandates, and yet more people are vaccinated in Sweden.
Like, they have a super high vaccination rate.
I mean, when you're telling somebody you have to do this, I think there is going to be some kind of questioning.
Obviously not for a lot of people who are, like, eagerly getting on board.
But, I mean, speaking personally, I'm much less likely to do something if someone tells me I have to.
You're like, no, you don't tell me what to do.
I'm going to figure this out myself.
Like, why do I have to?
Like, what's happening here?
joe rogan
Well, here's my main problem with it.
There's a lot of people that have gone through COVID already, and they have natural immunity.
And they're telling them they have to be vaccinated, too.
But that's not logical.
It's not rational.
And it doesn't...
It's not supported by science.
This doesn't make sense.
meghan murphy
No, none of it makes sense.
And, you know, and Trudeau just announced the other day that all government employees essentially were going to have to be vaccinated to work.
joe rogan
What about government employees that have gotten COVID and recovered?
meghan murphy
Exactly.
joe rogan
And have antibodies.
meghan murphy
But also, you can't say you can only have a job, i.e., you can only survive if you get this vaccine.
I mean, is this legal?
joe rogan
Well, not only that, it's not really a vaccine in the traditional sense.
A vaccine is where they take a dead virus and they turn into a vaccine and they inject it into your body so that your body fights off.
It develops the antibodies and your body understands what that is, whether it's the measles or polio.
It knows how to fight it off.
This is really gene therapy.
It's a different thing.
It's tricking your body into producing spike protein and making these antibodies for COVID. But it's only good for a few months.
They're finding out now the efficacy wanes after five or six months.
I'm not saying that people shouldn't take it, but I'm saying you're calling it a thing that it's not.
It's not exactly what you're saying it is.
And you're mandating people take it.
And there's no repercussions if they have any side effects.
There's nothing they can do about it.
meghan murphy
Yeah, and I mean, I think most people probably don't...
I mean, I've gotten a flu shot once in my entire life, and it wasn't because I was scared of getting the flu.
I've never really thought about vaccines that much before, to be honest.
So I was just like, okay, sure, I guess I'll get them.
And I was at the doctor's office, and she was like, do you want a flu shot?
And I was like, oh, okay, sure.
But I'm not, you know, I never got flu shots before that.
Like, I'm healthy.
I have a strong immune system.
I'm not worried about getting sick.
I'm not worried about COVID. Why do I need a vaccine?
Like, why do young, healthy people need a vaccine?
joe rogan
The idea is that you're going to give it to other people and you're going to spread it.
meghan murphy
But they have a vaccine, so why am I giving it to them?
joe rogan
Here's the problem.
The problem with that is even when you're vaccinated, you can get it and you can spread it.
So none of this makes sense.
meghan murphy
No.
So there's no point in any of this.
joe rogan
The only thing that is true is that if you're vaccinated, you have a better time recovering from COVID. They should try ivermectin.
Should they?
meghan murphy
Am I allowed to say that?
joe rogan
I think you're allowed to say it.
I think they need real studies on ivermectin.
That's what I think.
meghan murphy
I mean, I'm not a doctor.
joe rogan
I'm not a doctor either.
I think they need real studies.
I think there's some interesting evidence that shows that prophylactically it's very effective.
It's very effective to stop people from getting it.
There was a study out of Argentina I believe, where they give it to frontline healthcare workers.
And the healthcare workers that took it, it was like 100% of them didn't get COVID. And the ones that didn't, I believe it was almost half of them got it.
Somewhere in the neighborhood of half of them got it and half of them didn't get it.
meghan murphy
I mean, my understanding is just that your symptoms were worse or less bad and you would recover faster.
joe rogan
If you got the vaccine.
meghan murphy
No, if you take ivermectin.
joe rogan
Well, the vaccine as well, though.
That's the same thing.
meghan murphy
Oh, okay, okay.
joe rogan
Even people that do get COVID, when they've been vaccinated, it's a safer experience for them.
meghan murphy
Well, okay.
But I mean, the point is that ivermectin is an option that's essentially been banned in North America, whereas in Mexico, you can buy it over the counter at a pharmacy for real cheap.
And supposedly, I mean, there is research that shows that it helps.
And yet, in North America, they're just pushing vaccine, vaccine, vaccine.
That's the only option.
And it's not the only option.
joe rogan
Yeah, there's options for treatment, and the big one that I've been pushing from the beginning is, God, if there's ever been a wake-up call where you have clear reason to take care of your body, now's the time.
Like, please, if you're listening to this, lose weight.
Please exercise.
Please take vitamins.
Please eat healthy foods.
Please.
That will have a significant impact in your ability to withstand anything.
Not just this virus, but all viruses.
All colds.
You'll have a more resilient body.
You'll have a better immune system.
This is all proven stuff.
This is not voodoo.
Like, if you eat well and sleep well and take vitamins and exercise, you have a better immune system.
It's a fact.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
It's how it works.
meghan murphy
There's like basic practical things that you can do.
I mean, there's basic practical things that you can do, obviously, to improve your health and to avoid, you know, getting real sick if you get COVID or whatever.
But there's also like basic, this frustrates me a lot, there's basic practical things that you can do to help your own mental health.
joe rogan
Yes.
meghan murphy
You know, so this thing where it's like we throw prescriptions at people for everything.
We do that for, you know, physical health reasons, but we also do this for mental health reasons.
And it's like, you know, it seems really weird to me that so many people are really, really depressed and they all need to be on drugs for depression.
And I would like to offer exercise, doing something useful with your life that makes you feel good about yourself and productive and like you've succeeded.
Like try to learn and become better at like a new skill.
joe rogan
People don't want to hear that though.
meghan murphy
They want that pill.
joe rogan
There's a lot of people that really don't want to hear that.
They want to pretend that, first of all, with some people, there's a legitimate issue.
There's an absolute issue that can't be resolved with exercise and diet.
We have to make room for those people.
meghan murphy
It's a chemical imbalance.
joe rogan
Yeah.
unidentified
All of it.
joe rogan
Some of it.
I think for some people it's real.
meghan murphy
Yeah, of course.
Totally.
But not all of it and not for everybody.
joe rogan
A lot of people.
In fact, there was a study that showed that physical exercise was as effective, if not more effective, for treating depression statistically than SSRIs.
See if you can find that.
It was a rigorous cardiovascular exercise as or more effective than SSRIs to treat depression.
meghan murphy
I mean, I'm going to be honest.
Are you going to be honest?
I'm going to start right now.
Are you ready?
joe rogan
Is it this stuff?
meghan murphy
What do you call this?
I'm trying to go slow.
Go slow.
joe rogan
This stuff's horrific.
meghan murphy
I can't believe you purchased it.
Dude, I can drink so much of this stuff, and so I am trying to go slow.
joe rogan
How can you drink so much of this stuff?
I take a thimble full.
I want to black out.
meghan murphy
I really like it.
I'm very good at drinking, also.
I believe you.
joe rogan
Are you a lush?
meghan murphy
I said I'm very good at drinking.
I feel like a lush has a negative connotation like you're drunk all the time, and I'm not drunk all the time.
joe rogan
You just lick a lot?
meghan murphy
I can handle my booze.
I like to party.
Okay, so what I was going to say is that I haven't always, I'm going to be honest, I haven't always been a big exerciser.
I spent a very long time not exercising at all.
And, you know, a lot of that just had to do with the fact that, you know, like when I was younger, I was like when I was a teenager, when I was in my 20s, I was like naturally thin.
So I just didn't really have any reason to.
And then, you know, once you get older and your metabolism slows down, you start putting on weight and you're like, Oh shit, I guess I have to start exercising.
But what I learned, and again, you know, when I got to, I was working with a boxing trainer in Vancouver before I went to Sayalita and I swam laps and I was doing some strength training, which I really enjoyed a lot.
And then when I got to Sailita, I found Chris in Quilombo and started working with him.
And I really love it a lot.
It's fun.
I mean, I feel like I want to kill myself every time I go and lay down and die.
And I complain a lot the whole time.
I know you don't like complaining, but I'm a big fan of complaining.
But...
You know, like, it makes me feel...
Like, if I ever feel any kind of, like, anxiety or if I'm feeling sad about...
Like, it makes me feel so much better.
I feel so much better about myself.
I mean, just in terms of really basic stuff, like building muscles and you can feel your body changing, which is cool.
But in terms of...
I don't have major mental health issues, which I'm grateful for.
Like, I've never had big issues with depression or anxiety or anything like that.
But...
It just, you know, if I don't want to go, I'm like, okay, I gotta go.
Like, I feel like, I'm like, I feel bad.
I feel sad.
Like, I don't want to stay in bed.
It always, always makes me feel so much better.
And I just wish that people understood.
Like, it's not a lie.
It really, and it makes you feel better about yourself that you're doing something that's hard for you and that you're doing it even if you don't want to go.
Like, even if you're feeling lazy and you're like, I don't want to go.
And then you go and you're like, I did it.
Like, I can do things that I don't want to do.
joe rogan
Like, And they're beneficial.
meghan murphy
It's just so good for how you feel about yourself.
joe rogan
Yeah.
I think what you're doing too, like boxing, is so good because there's something about hitting a thing, like a punching bag, that is so stress relieving.
meghan murphy
Oh yeah.
I love it so much.
It's awesome.
I'm really not good, so I don't want to pretend.
I don't want to be like, yeah, I know what I'm doing.
I mean, I am getting better, but I'm just really slow, so it's frustrating.
joe rogan
Well, you don't have to be good just to hit things.
Here it is.
Oh, Rhonda Patrick, there you go.
Moderate aerobic exercise improved depressive symptoms by 55% in adults with major depressions.
Individuals with more severe symptoms and better reward processing seem to benefit from exercise the most.
jamie vernon
I couldn't find the part of being better than SSRIs, but...
joe rogan
That's pretty fucking good.
55% is pretty fucking impressive.
And this is a Rutgers study.
meghan murphy
These are good stats.
joe rogan
I've never had a problem with depression, but I've never not exercised.
So I've been very fortunate that since I was a teenager, I've always exercised.
I got involved in martial arts very early in life, and so I was involved with very rigorous exercise from the time I was really young.
meghan murphy
I regret.
I don't have very many regrets in my life.
I don't think that regrets are very useful, but I genuinely regret not having started boxing way, way, way earlier, just because, you know, when you start doing something like that in your 40s, you're just never going to be that good.
Like, you're always going to be a bit slow, and I really wish...
joe rogan
Do you feel like you're physically slow?
meghan murphy
I feel like...
joe rogan
Like fast twitch fibers, that kind of stuff?
meghan murphy
I mean, I have bad knees, so I just can't move very quickly.
joe rogan
What's wrong with your knees?
meghan murphy
Okay, well, I hurt my knee doing Taekwondo when I was like in my early 20s and never went to physio and I was having issues with it.
This is the least interesting thing I've ever said in my life.
I was having like, I had like this issue, actually a really gross issue with my knee when I was in high school.
So I'd be like running or playing basketball or something and my kneecap would move out of the way, which would cause me to fall down and was very painful.
joe rogan
Your kneecap would move out of the way?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
So I'd be like in the middle of running and my kneecap would sort of shift.
And then if your kneecap shifts and you try to bend your knee, you can't do it because your kneecap's not in the right place.
And I think it created, it made my knee pretty sensitive.
I didn't go to physio, so I actually can't.
I'm trying to like explain what it is, but I don't know what it is.
So I sort of already had a knee injury.
And then I heard it doing Taekwondo and again, just never dealt with it.
So it's just, it's stiff and it doesn't work very well.
joe rogan
I can't believe I'm going to bring this up again, but there's a guy who's got a website called, his Instagram is kneesovertoesguy.
meghan murphy
Oh, you're trying to help me.
You're not just trying to make me talk about my weird knee injury in a bunch of people.
joe rogan
He's got a bunch of great exercises for strengthening and stabilizing your knee.
meghan murphy
Okay.
joe rogan
That I'm a big proponent of.
meghan murphy
Weight training helped a lot.
Doing deadlifts and stuff like that and doing squats helped a lot.
They are totally way better than they used to be but they're just stiff and so I just feel like I can't move really quickly.
joe rogan
Weightlifting and squats and those sorts of exercises are great but what he's emphasizing is A very specific range of motion with lifting weights that strengthens the knee when you put the knee in positions where it's generally thought of as being more unstable, like when your knees are over your toes.
That's why his knees over toes guy.
And the idea is to like get it so that your knee can be very strong through the entire range of motion.
So if you look at someone like who's jumping, like he uses basketball as an example and it's a great example because you know when you're in the middle of like if someone's dribbling the ball and they're cutting left or right there's often times where your knee is in these like unstable positions or when you're jumping And landing,
you know, your knee is over your toes and his idea is to strengthen the knee in all of these ranges of motion where you traditionally would be weak and make your knees and all the surrounding muscles strong so that you can move in any direction and never have a problem with that sort of instability.
It's very beneficial.
I do it all the time.
meghan murphy
Yeah, this is great information.
So in my brain, I can't run and I can't jump because it hurts my knee.
If I tried to run a couple blocks, it would make my knee kind of hurt and swell up.
But in my brain, for a very long time, I've been like, I can't run, I can't jump.
And so, I mean, I suspect that there is...
unidentified
Some kind of solution I could maybe move past this block.
meghan murphy
I was like, no, no, no, I can't jump rope.
I mean, I don't want to jump rope.
joe rogan
You can't jump rope?
meghan murphy
No.
joe rogan
Really?
Just that?
meghan murphy
Yeah, like, yeah.
joe rogan
That hurts your knee?
meghan murphy
It hurts my knee.
Yeah, like, any kind of, like...
joe rogan
Did you ever get an MRI? No.
Maybe you should do one of those.
Do they have those in Mexico?
meghan murphy
Probably.
joe rogan
They just put your knee up to the light and...
meghan murphy
I'll check it out.
joe rogan
What is patellar tracking disorder?
Patellar tracking disorder means that the kneecap shifts out of place as the leg bends or straightens.
In most cases, the kneecap shifts too far toward the outside of the leg.
In a few people, it shifts towards the inside.
Your knee joint is a complex hinge that joins the two bones of the lower leg and the thigh bone.
That's just sort of maybe an explanation of...
meghan murphy
Who is this guy that you mentioned?
What was his name again?
joe rogan
Knees over toes guy on Instagram.
This is the man, Ben Patrick.
meghan murphy
I really hope that my trainer didn't tell me about this and I forgot and now he's going to kill me because he's going to be watching and be like, I told you!
joe rogan
See how he's doing that?
meghan murphy
That scares me.
The idea of trying to do that, I'm like, ugh.
joe rogan
My knee!
unidentified
Yeah, she's doing it a little lighter.
joe rogan
Yeah, she's got assisted with poles.
meghan murphy
This is giving me anxiety.
joe rogan
He's doing it with just body weight and he's going way deep.
But that's the way to do it.
If you can do that, you can get to a point where, you know, and you obviously you build up to it slowly and he has like a whole system where you start out very slowly and, you know, you progress towards what he calls dense strength.
And these positions like he's doing now, I do that all the time.
I work at it all the time.
It's really great for developing range of motion, strength, flexibility.
Watch this shit that he can do because this is so bizarre.
He can go all the way down there like this and then pops all the way back up.
And this guy's had major knee surgeries.
meghan murphy
Okay.
joe rogan
And he was told at one point in time that there was nothing that he was going to be able to do about his knees.
meghan murphy
This is stressing me out only because I'm thinking about how much...
This would hurt my knee.
And I'm like, oh.
joe rogan
Well, it's a great program.
meghan murphy
But I mean, I think that what I've learned from this conversation is that it was right to never go to physiotherapy and just to come on your podcast.
joe rogan
Maybe a physiotherapy people would have prescribed something similar along the same lines.
meghan murphy
It probably would have helped, but it's too late now.
joe rogan
Is it though?
meghan murphy
No.
Okay, I'll try to do something and I'll stop being like, I can't jump rope or run.
I mean, to be fair, I hate running and jumping rope.
joe rogan
Yeah, well, maybe the running thing, you build up to that.
You know, if your knee swells up and you run.
meghan murphy
And then I won't have an excuse anymore.
joe rogan
You might have something going on there.
You might have like a bad meniscus tear or some cartilage damage or something.
meghan murphy
Probably there's something going on.
joe rogan
Could be.
Yeah.
meghan murphy
Is this what we came here to do?
joe rogan
No, we can talk about anything.
It doesn't matter.
It doesn't matter what we're talking about.
meghan murphy
I feel like I'm almost done my drink.
Like, how far are you into your drink?
joe rogan
I'm pretty far in.
meghan murphy
Oh, God.
Pussy.
joe rogan
What are you talking about?
I'm almost done.
meghan murphy
Okay, okay.
joe rogan
This nasty shit you fucking forced me to drink.
meghan murphy
It'll grow on you.
joe rogan
But it won't.
I like whiskey.
I like things that taste good.
meghan murphy
Okay, let me ask you a question.
joe rogan
Please do.
meghan murphy
Since this is my podcast.
You use correct pronouns.
Correct.
Is that right?
joe rogan
Correct pronouns.
meghan murphy
Right.
So if a man identifies as a woman, you'll call him her or she.
joe rogan
If that's what she wants or he wants, yeah.
meghan murphy
Okay, so why is that?
joe rogan
Because if that's what they want.
I don't give a shit.
meghan murphy
Okay, but don't you think...
joe rogan
I'll change their name if they want to be called Debbie.
Okay, Debbie.
meghan murphy
The name doesn't bother me that much.
One-on-one I would do that.
Like if I was like talking to a friend and they identified as she and they were a man, then I don't feel like I would be super inclined to be like he, he, he, he.
joe rogan
Right, right, right.
To make a statement about doing it.
meghan murphy
But I feel like in public it has wider repercussions and I feel like it participates in this greater lie that if you identify as the opposite sex, that's what you are.
And I feel also that it's unnecessary.
So I feel like it plays into this idea that it's offensive to say what I say, for example.
So the fact that I called Yaniv him or You know, I refuse to use correct pronouns.
Unless it's like on a personal level, then I don't care.
I'm not trying to be rude.
joe rogan
And you do for a point.
You're making a point.
meghan murphy
Yeah, exactly.
I feel like it sells out people who don't use correct pronouns.
I feel like it plays into and reinforces this idea that it's offensive and it's not offensive.
To call a man he isn't offensive.
To call a male a man isn't offensive.
You're just stating a neutral fact.
So I sort of feel like the more people that participate in that, the more it does make it seem like a crazy, offensive, hateful, really mean thing to say if you don't use correct pronouns.
And I feel like that's a standard that's been set by companies like Twitter.
People often say to me, they act like I'm being stupid when I talk about this.
They're like, who cares?
You got kicked off of Twitter.
No big deal.
And it is a big deal for me because I'm independent.
Like, I don't work for anybody.
I don't have some other job.
I've built my own platform.
I've created my own audience.
This is how I make an income.
So it does matter to me in that sense.
But it's also that it's, like, set a precedent, right?
Like, it says, people will say, oh, Megan's hateful.
Like, Megan's a really bad person.
Megan's transphobic.
She even got kicked off Twitter.
So, and, you know, because it sort of seeped into journalism, for example, so people will report stories about pedophiles and rapists and abusers and use their preferred pronouns because that's like the polite thing to do.
I feel like, I'm not trying to be like, I came here to call you out, but I do...
I think people don't understand why it matters sometimes.
So they don't understand why I'm doing it because they're like, why don't you just be nice?
Like, why don't you just use the correct pronoun?
joe rogan
Right.
meghan murphy
And it's for me, it's like a much bigger thing than just a one-on-one interaction or like a polite thing.
joe rogan
Well, it's certainly a new thing.
And one of the problems with new things like this is that people, they want to reinforce it to the point where it's like doctrine, you know, like where there's no getting around it, like this is the rule and you have to abide by that rule or you're a piece of shit.
When it comes to men with beards and penises and testicles that want you to call them a woman, aren't you just crazy?
What is going on here?
You're saying you want me to call you a woman, but you have a full beard.
Like, I was looking at this one person, I don't need to name this person, but there's this one person that said, you know, that some women have penises, and if you don't like that, you can suck my dick.
That was a direct quote.
meghan murphy
Yeah, I saw somebody say that too.
I don't know if it was the same person.
joe rogan
With a full beard.
Full beard.
Like, terrorist beard.
meghan murphy
Oh, I know what you're talking about.
I can't remember his name.
joe rogan
And wearing a dress.
I'm like, you're throwing it in everybody's face that they have to accept that there's no way you're a woman.
You're clearly exhibiting all these masculine characteristics, but yet you want to be defined as a woman because you want to be special.
Because you want special treatment and maybe you do have gender dysphoria and maybe you do enjoy wearing a beard as well with your gender dysphoria, but there's also something about you that enjoys this authoritarian aspect of this forcing people to comply with calling you a woman.
It's fucking strange because there are definitely people with legitimate gender dysphoria that want to be a woman and they're biologically male.
And then there's grifters.
There's crazy people.
There's people that have locked onto this movement and they recognize that there's this thing that's happening now.
Where if someone says this, you can't say anything about them.
Like, you can't criticize their behavior, you can't criticize the way they communicate or discuss, because this person is now in a protected class, because it's a trans woman.
And so they can act bat shit fucking crazy.
Whereas if they were just a man, you'd be like, that guy's a fucking asshole.
But since it's a trans woman, you're like, everyone backs off because they don't want this anti-trans label attached to them.
They don't want to be accused of dead naming her.
And so they back off.
meghan murphy
Yeah, and I think you're right that there is, like, something that they enjoy about having that kind of power, and nobody can challenge them, and it's like, bow down.
I mean, the other part of it that people don't talk about is that, like, a lot of these guys have fetishes.
Like, some of them are mentally ill.
Some of them are just liars, and they're just trying to, like, Charlotte Clymer.
Do you know who he is?
joe rogan
No.
meghan murphy
What was his name before he changed his name?
joe rogan
You can say whatever you want.
meghan murphy
Oh, thank you.
joe rogan
We're on Spotify.
YouTube's not going to pull it.
We're in a weird realm.
meghan murphy
I thought they were trying to get you canned.
joe rogan
No.
meghan murphy
Oh, those people don't have power over you, huh?
joe rogan
They don't have any power.
meghan murphy
They sure thought they did.
I found that very cute.
I was like, oh, you guys are going to get Rogan pulled?
Good for you.
joe rogan
A very small group of people that misrepresent my stance on things, too, by the way.
They characterized me in a very...
It's a caricature of who I am versus the actual words that I say and why I say them.
And you take things out of context and try to pretend that I'm an anti-trans person or homophobic.
None of those things are true.
So even their motivation for doing it was just they don't want any gray area.
My own...
The only dispute about trans people came because of a trans woman who was competing as a female in MMA fights without telling these women that she's fighting that she was a man for 30 fucking years and just recently became a trans woman and was beating the shit out of them.
And I was like, this is fucked.
meghan murphy
And it's gross because that guy knows he's a guy.
These people, like that weightlifter Laurel Hubbard, you know you're a man.
You know you're cheating.
You know this isn't fair.
And you're doing it anyway.
I have no respect for that.
joe rogan
Did you see the actual competition?
She dropped the weights.
I almost feel like she just quit because she didn't want the heat of possibly winning.
meghan murphy
Really?
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
I didn't actually watch, I just read about it after fact.
joe rogan
Yeah, it was a whack attempt.
meghan murphy
Weird.
joe rogan
Yeah, it looked whack.
To win, to get to represent New Zealand in the Olympics, and then that's how you handle it?
Did you ever see when she's on the podium and those other two biological females are beside her, and they're like, what in the fuck?
Because she's number one, and they're sitting there like, this is some fucking bullshit.
You can see the look of their faces.
Have you seen it?
meghan murphy
Did you watch the No Thank You?
Oh, you didn't?
This is the best clip.
joe rogan
What?
meghan murphy
I don't know where you can find it.
It's on my Instagram.
Okay, so the chick that won at the weightlifting competition, at the press conference, they asked her, like, so, like, what do you think about this historic moment when a trans, whatever they said, was competing?
And she just doesn't say anything.
She's like...
No, thank you.
That's the greatest thing I've ever seen.
But you know, like they weren't down.
They were like, and how insulting to be like, you know, she won and you're going to say like, oh, isn't it amazing that a man tried to compete against you?
What a historic moment.
joe rogan
Historic moment.
Yeah.
meghan murphy
It's so offensive.
joe rogan
Historic moment.
I can't wait until there's real...
We're going to get to a time, I think, maybe sometime in our lifetime, where a man can become a woman, like legitimately.
meghan murphy
No.
Like how?
What does that mean?
joe rogan
Science.
Like some sort of literal change of their actual physical biology.
meghan murphy
Like, you would change their chromosomes and they would have a functioning uterus.
joe rogan
If we can get to a point where there's a complete understanding of all the processes that are involved in taking a fetus and having it become a grown adult, and if we can...
Bypass some of those processes in a male to convert a male to a female, or a female to convert a female to a male.
That's not outside the realm of possibility.
Literal artificial biological life is not outside the realm of possibility.
My point is, it's not here.
My point is, if one day it happens, then you'll have a real woman.
It'll really be a woman.
You'll be able to turn someone with an XY chromosome into someone with an XX chromosome.
How the fuck are you going to do it?
I don't know.
Look, we can make nuclear bombs.
We send video through the air.
If people keep working on things, I don't think it's an insurmountable obstacle.
When that happens...
Then we'll be dealing with a completely different thing.
Because then you will be like, one day I'll see you and I'm like, when did you become a dude?
And you're like, I got tired of this bitch shit.
meghan murphy
I changed my mind.
joe rogan
Yeah, I wanted to be a guy.
Fuck it.
meghan murphy
I want to be able to beat people up.
joe rogan
Yeah, I want to be jacked.
meghan murphy
No, that'll never happen.
joe rogan
No, but you enjoy being a woman.
But imagine if you didn't.
Imagine if you really felt like you should have been a man this whole time, and then someone can actually give you some gene therapy, and you actually do become a man.
meghan murphy
What would your male name be?
Oh my god.
I don't know.
What do you think my male name should be?
Do you have any idea?
Mike.
No, I had an ex-boyfriend named Mike.
joe rogan
Oh, fuck that guy.
meghan murphy
I don't want to...
He's nice, it's okay.
joe rogan
How about Mark?
meghan murphy
I had an ex-boyfriend named Mark also.
No, how many ex...
Mark was my first boyfriend.
joe rogan
Let's keep going down the Rolodex.
meghan murphy
Okay, try another one.
joe rogan
Tom.
meghan murphy
No, I've never had an ex-boyfriend named Tom.
I have a friend named Tom.
joe rogan
Do you want to be exotic?
meghan murphy
These are really boring names.
joe rogan
Manuel?
Because you're living in Mexico.
meghan murphy
Let's get exotic.
I'm Irish, man.
You can't call me Manuel.
joe rogan
Yeah, you can.
meghan murphy
Okay, give me an Irish name.
I could be Colin, I guess.
joe rogan
Colin?
How about Colin?
meghan murphy
I don't want to be a man.
I was like, wait, wait.
I changed my mind.
joe rogan
I was talking to a friend of mine on the podcast about if there was a time where you could give someone a pill.
And it would alleviate gender dysphoria.
Like imagine if gender dysphoria was something where they isolated it and they thought, oh, there's a protein that's off or we figured out how to do this.
And through this medication, you will no longer have gender dysphoria and it's permanent.
meghan murphy
That would be a great solution.
The solution of getting a ton of really, like, awful, painful...
These are still experimental surgeries.
Like, the surgeries that trans people get to transition, like, they're really horrible, they're ongoing, they're experimental.
Like, I think these surgeons should be sued.
joe rogan
What do you mean, the ones that turn a penis into a vagina?
meghan murphy
Totally.
Obviously, breast implants, they've got that covered.
But yeah, the genital creating a penis or a vagina.
I mean, I know trans people who've had these surgeries, and it's just like a nightmare.
And your genitals don't work anymore, and you can't have good sex.
You obviously can't reproduce.
You can't have an orgasm anymore.
You're fucking mangled.
It's a lie.
It's such a lie to tell people, right now anyway, who knows about this horrible future that you're predicting.
joe rogan
Is it horrible?
meghan murphy
That's not how nature works.
That's not a healthy thing for humanity to do.
joe rogan
There's a lot of things we do that are not how nature works.
meghan murphy
Okay, well I think this is a not good thing to do.
That's not how nature works.
But people are being lied to.
They're being told that they can change sex and they can't change sex.
And they're being mangled and they're being given these high doses of hormones that are really harmful.
These are things that will cause cancer.
And people just...
They pretend like it's possible and it's not possible and you end up...
I think so many trans people go through all these processes and transition and then I'm like, oh, I'm still not what I wanted.
I still look like a man.
It's very hard for an adult man to ever actually look like a woman.
Most of them don't look like women.
They look weird or they still just look like men but they have implants and...
Makeup and long hair or whatever, but you can't change the way they move, their bone size, their hand size, the way that they walk.
joe rogan
But some people clearly feel happier once they've done it.
meghan murphy
If they feel happy, that's great.
Like Caitlyn Jenner.
joe rogan
Don't you think Caitlyn Jenner feels happier?
meghan murphy
Probably.
I've never quite been able to figure out.
My theory about Caitlyn Jenner is that he just felt in the shadow all the time.
I don't know if you've watched Keeping Up Kardashian.
joe rogan
Oh, yeah.
meghan murphy
You do?
unidentified
Oh, yeah.
joe rogan
My wife watched it, so I've sat many times over her shoulder going, What the fuck are you watching?
What is this?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
And she would go, you should watch.
You should watch this.
meghan murphy
I agree you should watch.
joe rogan
It's very compelling.
meghan murphy
I don't know why it's compelling.
unidentified
It's very well edited.
meghan murphy
It is very compelling.
I actually, I think I watched the whole thing from the beginning like two years ago.
Like I didn't watch when it was on.
I just decided, I was like, I should watch this show.
joe rogan
When Caitlin was Bruce, they shit on him.
meghan murphy
He like hid in the TV room alone looking sad for so many years.
joe rogan
Yeah, he was the one that was like the brunt of all the jokes.
They mocked him.
He seemed like the only one that's accomplished.
I mean, he's a fucking goddamn Olympic gold medalist.
And the decathlon, like a legit Olympic gold medalist.
1776, cover of Wheaties.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
America, fuck yeah.
And now here he is in this house of like...
These weird internet influencers and this one accomplished person is the brunt of all the jokes.
It's very strange.
meghan murphy
Well, and also, I mean, yeah, and they all, I felt, I mean, I had sort of a different perspective than you did.
Maybe this is like because you're a man and I'm a woman, but I was like, this guy is kind of like he wants more attention and he's mad that he's not getting attention and all these chicks are getting all the attention and he's like, I know how to get attention.
I'm going to become one of them.
And it worked.
joe rogan
Maybe.
Definitely changed the whole attention spectrum.
Oh my goodness, right?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
Changed it radically.
meghan murphy
But I do, I believe that he probably did have, I think he had a fetish.
He, you know, was wearing his daughter's clothes and underwear and stuff like that.
joe rogan
Is that what you heard?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Oh, that's like, that's totally public information.
joe rogan
Oh.
meghan murphy
And he also, I read an interview with him.
It's older, but I think it was in Vanity Fair or something like that.
And he would talk about, like, he would wear pantyhose under his pants.
Like, he was really into wearing women's clothes.
And that's what autogynophilia is.
Like, it's having a fetish for...
Dressing like a woman or imagining yourself as a woman like it turns you on.
And there's research.
Ray Blanchard did research around this.
He's a sexologist.
And found that essentially, like, all trans women were either...
You know, effeminate men or gay men, or they were autogonophiles, and the men who transitioned when they were younger were the effeminate gay men, and the men who transitioned when they were older, like 40s, 50s, 60s, were the autogonophiles, so who have, like, this fetish.
And, of course, he's been, like, canceled many times over, because that's not something that you're supposed to talk about.
But usually what happens with the older guys who transition, it's, like, about that fetish.
And again, whatever.
Like, honestly, do what you want.
Do whatever makes you happy.
But stop trying to lie and say, like, I'm a woman on the inside.
I'm a literal female.
joe rogan
So as a woman, you find this offensive as an actual biological woman.
meghan murphy
Totally, of course.
Like, being a woman isn't about, like, you know, having long hair, wearing makeup, or, like...
joe rogan
Here's where it's different.
As a man, I do not give a fuck if a trans person becomes a man.
Like, if a woman chooses to be a man.
Like, you know Buck Angel?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
I've had Buck Angel on the podcast.
meghan murphy
We had this conversation.
Yeah, I interviewed him.
I call him him.
He's my friend.
He's a great guy.
And he's not trying to force me to pretend that he's a literal male, so I don't care.
joe rogan
Great guy.
meghan murphy
Really interesting to talk to.
joe rogan
And when he said, do you consider me a man?
I go, yeah.
That's what you want.
Yeah.
And I'll treat you like you're a man.
Talk to you like you're a man.
You know, I'll call you Buck.
I don't I mean, I don't.
It doesn't matter at all to me.
Like I never I would never say it's offensive that you are pretending to be a man like that.
That has zero registry.
It doesn't register at all with me.
meghan murphy
I mean, I think it has no impact on you.
The men transitioning to women has a really, really big and negative impact on women and girls.
joe rogan
I was going to get to that.
This is the thing, is that men transitioning to women use male tactics and male behavior as they invade feminist spaces.
And that's one of the things that I have seen that women get really kind of freaked out by, is that trans women then join these women groups and dominate them like men do.
They have male minds.
They have years and years of having gonads and having testosterone flow through their body and all of the hypersexual things that come from that.
And one thing that comes from being a biological male is they generally tend to be more aggressive.
They tend to be more assertive.
They tend to Try to dominate whenever possible if left unchecked and if their egos are not well managed.
But the big complaint that I hear from women, especially women that get labeled as TERFs, is that these trans women invade these traditionally just biological women groups and they sort of handle them like a man.
meghan murphy
Or they're predators.
Or worse.
I wonder what kind of...
This is not the worst of all the examples by far, but it's like, what kind of man actually wants to go into a woman's change room?
What would be your motivation for doing that?
joe rogan
Well, you could wish you were a woman and want to be a woman.
meghan murphy
But you must have some inclination that this is going to make women feel uncomfortable, and I think they kind of get off on that.
Like, what kind of man wants women to feel uncomfortable?
joe rogan
Maybe they want people to be accepting, want people to be open-minded to this and not have an issue with it at all.
meghan murphy
I mean, that's very unconsiderate.
Like, it's like, okay, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe they just want to be accepted and they want validation and they genuinely believe they're a woman, so they want to be treated like a woman, so they want to be in the change room with all the other women.
But I think, I mean, who is actually that delusional?
joe rogan
Yeah.
unidentified
Yeah.
meghan murphy
Maybe some people.
But I do, I think that there's something predatorial just in that, in the wanting to be in those spaces where they know that women don't want them there.
Like, where they know that they're making women uncomfortable and they're doing it anyway.
joe rogan
When my children were young, I have all daughters, and when they were young, one of the weird things was if they have to go potty and it's just me, I can't just send them into the women's room.
And I can't go into the women's room with them.
So I have to take them into the men's room.
So I'm talking like carry them, you know, like this age, right?
So I'm like either holding a hand and walking with them or I'm carrying them into the male bathroom.
And even then, it seems weird.
You know, it seems...
Like, I remember thinking, like, I can't wait until this stops.
Because it just...
I don't want to bring my little baby daughter into a room full of dudes.
It's just odd.
meghan murphy
You just feel inherently a bit uncomfortable about that.
joe rogan
Yeah.
It's not...
I didn't feel like I was in danger or she was in danger.
I didn't feel like that.
But I was like, this is...
Obviously this is like a societal thing, right?
This is a cultural thing.
Because in some cultures they have open bathrooms and men and women share bathrooms and that's just always how it's been.
But it's not how it's been in America.
So when I'm carrying a little girl or walking with a little girl into the men's room, it's weird.
You know, Louis C.K. had a bit about taking his daughter to the bathroom and that, like, two guys are shitting right next to, like, he's got her on the potty, and two guys are, like, having these horrible shits in the left side and the right stall.
meghan murphy
Men are so disgusting.
joe rogan
Yeah, they're gross, but gross too.
Everyone's gross.
But it just felt odd.
But at least I was with her.
If I sent her in there by herself, it would feel insanely odd.
meghan murphy
But you should feel a bit odd about that, and I don't even think you need to be able to explain why.
The sports thing has been, I think, probably the best in terms of opening up this conversation about men can't become women, or maybe there's a problem with a man identifying as a woman.
Because people don't need an explanation.
Like, people inherently will just look at this guy and be like, eh, no, this is not fair.
Like, you don't need an ideology.
You don't need to be a feminist.
You don't need to really, to just see, like, you don't need to know about biology.
You just know.
You're like, no, this is wrong.
Like...
joe rogan
The sports thing is the only reason why I got involved in this discussion at all.
And then once I got dragged into it, I realized, first of all, they misrepresent your position in the most horrific way possible.
And second of all, there's no one from the other side.
There are no trans men that are competing against men in sports that are notable.
It's just not an issue.
Not only is it not an issue, nobody gives a fuck.
All the men weightlifters are like, oh, you used to be a girl?
Cool.
Good luck!
Good luck, bro!
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
Like, literally no one gives a shit.
Because there's no perceived, and not even perceived, let's be real, it's a fucking advantage.
There's a giant advantage.
There's an advantage in tendon strength.
There's an advantage in the shape of the hips.
There's an advantage of years and years and years of having...
Huge levels of testosterone pumping through your system in terms of a biological female.
It's like if you took a woman and you put her on steroids for 30 years, and then she got off steroids for a year and she was competing against women in sports, women would be like, this is fucking bullshit.
This lady's been cheating her whole life, and now all of a sudden she's off the steroids, so I'm supposed to just accept her as a normal physiological female.
Well, it's not.
She's obviously been enhanced.
That's the same thing that if you grow up with testicles your whole life.
meghan murphy
But even more so, right?
People act like puberty doesn't matter.
And that rush of testosterone that happens when you go through puberty as a boy doesn't totally change your body.
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
And your brain.
joe rogan
It does.
And again, no one gives a fuck if some trans man wants to compete in the NBA. Good luck!
Get on in there.
A trans man who wants to compete in mixed martial arts.
Well, you know the problem with trans men competing in mixed martial arts or something like that is you wouldn't be able to because it's not legal to take testosterone.
So you literally wouldn't be able to.
You know, Texas has a really wacky way of looking at it, where there was a trans man, well, trans boy, I guess you would say, in high school wrestling.
So this was a biological female that was taking testosterone, but they wouldn't let her compete as a boy.
So they made her compete against girls while she was taking testosterone.
So she's, you know, ragdolling these girls because she's on the juice.
Like, literally.
And, you know, everybody was mad.
But they were mad at the girl.
And I'm like, well, is that her fault?
You know, she'd really let this girl who wants to be a boy and is taking testosterone, let her compete against boys.
Let's see what happens.
No one would care.
No one on the boy's side would care, is my opinion, is my position.
And that's why this is such a fucking loaded issue, is because we know males have a physical advantage in running, in lifting weights, in most sports that involve power.
meghan murphy
And you can explain why, you can talk to a scientist, you can talk to a doctor, and they'll explain why.
But everybody knows, everybody knows that men are stronger and bigger than women for the most part.
And likewise, I just think that, I think it's crazy, it makes me feel crazy to even have to explain to people that a man shouldn't have access to a change room.
Or that a man shouldn't be in a transition house with women who are escaping violence.
unidentified
Sexual abuse.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
And that a man shouldn't be in a women's prison.
It's like, you know why.
joe rogan
Right.
meghan murphy
It's not because all men are rapists or all men are predators.
But, you know, primarily the threat to women is men.
Primarily the threat to men is other men.
And also, why?
Why?
Why do you want to be in these spaces?
joe rogan
Well, the woke ideology is so fucking weird that they literally have allowed men who are sexual abusers to transition to women and be incarcerated with women.
This is a real thing.
That is so outside of any logic.
That's such a crazy way to handle it.
That you go, oh, you're a woman now?
Sure.
Guy who has sexually assaulted women, who has a history of this, is in jail for it, we're going to put you in with women.
meghan murphy
Yeah, and I mean, there's cases already.
There's a woman in Canada, Heather Mason, who's doing activism around this, and she was incarcerated for many years.
And even before this was an issue, this was starting to become an issue, where men who identified as women were being transferred into male prisons, and sexual assaults did happen.
You know, there was like a fucking baby rapist in there with like a mom and the baby, like in some kind of middle, I don't, obviously not in the prison prison, but like, you know, like they're putting dangerous men who are predators, who are rapists, who are serial predators in with these women, these women who are really vulnerable.
I mean, think about the kind of women who are in prison, like these are Actually, you care about marginalization.
Who's in prison?
Like, the most marginalized women in the entire country are going to be the ones who are in women's prisons.
And then you stick, like, a super violent rapist in there with them?
joe rogan
Just because he identifies as being a woman.
meghan murphy
And the government, the Canadian government will not even acknowledge this is happening.
They won't talk about it.
The media won't talk about it.
It's disgusting.
And Heather told me, she was like, you know, like, I think something really, really horrible is going to have to happen before anybody pays attention.
And it's true.
And think about what is the really horrible thing when there's already obviously really bad things happening in these prisons.
Like...
You know, like, what is it going to take?
And why is everybody pretending like this is okay?
Because everyone's scared of the blowback online.
joe rogan
They're scared of the blowback online.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
That's what a lot of it is, right?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
I mean, the liberal government, like, they're the worst.
They're the worst.
joe rogan
Well, your guy's the worst.
meghan murphy
Yeah, Trudeau's the worst.
joe rogan
He's the worst I've ever seen.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
He's so ridiculous.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
And I mean, he...
joe rogan
This she-covery and she-session, like...
meghan murphy
I mean, and it's...
joe rogan
Who's that for?
You think his wife makes him do that?
meghan murphy
I think he does it because, I mean, I think he's just trying to win favorites.
joe rogan
This is what I want you to do today at work, dear.
meghan murphy
You know what it says, though?
I mean, obviously it makes him look like an idiot, but it also makes Canadians vote for this guy.
They support him, and they're probably going to vote for him again.
You think so?
Okay, listen.
I, as I said, I'm a lifelong leftist.
I voted for the NDP. That's our leftist party.
That's like our labor party, basically, in Canada.
My anthem.
My entire life, like, as soon as I was legal to vote when I was 18, provincially and federally, in every single election, I voted for the NDP. Last election, I didn't vote at all because I was like, I can't in good faith vote for the Liberals or the NDP, and I didn't feel comfortable voting for the Conservative Party because I care about, like, healthcare.
This year, I'll vote Conservative.
Like, somebody who was, like, a crazy, like, I was, like, an extreme leftist.
For all of my life until, you know, two or three years ago, I'll vote conservative because these people are so unethical and so dangerous.
So dangerous.
unidentified
Like they're getting rid of our rights, our free speech.
joe rogan
The erosion of civil rights is the most disturbing aspects of it because they're willing to accept the erosion of rights and civil liberties because it aligns with whatever ideology they're pushing.
Yeah.
You're seeing that in America.
You're seeing that in a different realm with this whole COVID vaccine passport thing.
There's people that are accepting this idea that the government's going to be able to dictate whether or not you go to places, whether or not you could eat dinner, whether or not you could do things.
Depending upon your vaccination status, when they know that there's people that have gone through COVID and have natural immunity and it's just as robust, if not better.
That's a fact.
They know it, but yet they still are willing to accept these restrictions that you're going to give this new power to the government.
And this government is now going to be able to dictate whether or not you're able to do things.
And they like it.
These fucking people that become governors and mayors, they like telling people what to do.
It's part of the fun of the gig that they can tell people.
Now, as the mayor of New York, I have decided you have to do this or you can't do that.
meghan murphy
Here, here.
Yeah, but it's not just the politicians.
It's the regular citizens.
It's the public.
I mean, the problem is not just that the people in power are doing this.
It's that everyone's going along with it and supporting it.
I went back to Vancouver in June to deal with my apartment and my truck and banking stuff because I abandoned all my things in Vancouver.
And all anyone could talk about was the vaccine.
Did you get the vaccine?
I was like...
Are you all crazy?
Like, do you not have anything else to talk about?
First of all, it's none of your business.
Like, why are you intruding into my personal life?
Like, why are you asking me, like, personal health questions?
But also, like, why do you care?
And I would say, like, it was like, I don't know.
I mean, I'll see.
Like, I probably will have to eventually to travel.
This was before there was, like, a mandate.
And...
Or I'd say, I'm not super compelled.
Basically, I was super vague about it.
I don't want to have arguments with people about this.
It's not even something I'm that passionate about.
And they would start arguing with me.
Either if it was over text, they would start bombarding me with links.
You should really get vaccinated.
And I was like, can we talk about something else?
joe rogan
But there's a lot of people, when they do something, they want everyone to do it.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
Once they do it, and especially if they do something that might be a little risky, it might be a little risky.
But you did it and they got away with it.
You should do it too.
meghan murphy
Did you do it too?
You should do it too.
Yeah, we all did it.
unidentified
We're okay.
meghan murphy
You should do it.
Right?
This was the right thing to do.
unidentified
There's a little bit of that.
joe rogan
These weirdly obsessed people.
meghan murphy
And then this idea that everything will be okay.
If we all get vaccinated, everything will be okay.
They'll give us our rights back and it'll all be fine.
And they...
The way that people have started treating each other around this is, like, really disturbing.
Like, you know, blaming their loss of rights on people who didn't get vaccinated and, like, saying really, like, hateful things about people.
Like, it's your fault.
And, you know, this is like a tactic.
Like, I feel like this is how totalitarianism happens.
It's like, point your finger at your neighbor and then you don't pay attention to or You're not holding the people in power accountable.
They can do whatever they want.
Because it's not them.
They have your best interests in mind.
It's your friend.
It's your neighbor.
They're the problem.
They're the danger.
They're the enemy.
It's fucking creepy.
joe rogan
It is fucking creepy.
And it's real creepy that it's only about someone getting injected with the vaccine.
It's not about...
You're not going up to obese people.
And saying, you fucked this up.
You fucking fatso, you get sick too easy, and you're coughing on everybody, and you're spreading it everywhere, and people around you that aren't fat, they're not getting sick.
So you fucked this up because you're a spreader.
You're not hearing that, right?
You're not hearing people get upset at other people for their personal choices.
meghan murphy
Smokers.
joe rogan
Smokers, drinkers.
meghan murphy
Smokers and smokers actually do harm other people's health.
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
I don't like inhaling other people's smoke, but whatever.
I'm sure there's lots of things that I do that are even worse, but you know what I mean?
joe rogan
Yeah, you booze hound.
meghan murphy
I just said I like to party, that's all.
joe rogan
You like to party drinking fucking gasoline.
I still haven't gotten through this.
meghan murphy
I almost finished mine like an hour ago.
joe rogan
Yeah, well, you got an issue.
Jamie can't even smell his without throwing up.
meghan murphy
Look at him over there.
Okay, well, I was interested to see the reaction.
joe rogan
Of this?
Of this stuff?
I guess if I was really lit, I'd like it.
meghan murphy
To my favorite booze.
I can drink it so easy that I have to regulate myself.
joe rogan
That's weird.
How do you feel about other booze?
meghan murphy
I mean, I like scotch and whiskey.
I like bourbon, and that's pretty much it.
I really don't like vodka.
I don't like gin.
I like wine.
But I'm not actually just an alcoholic.
I'm not just like, yeah, I love chugging booze.
joe rogan
Oh, yeah, yeah, no problem.
unidentified
You're fine.
meghan murphy
I'm fine.
I'm good.
joe rogan
Nothing wrong at all.
meghan murphy
No, and you know what?
Actually, I mean, this is like a clean alcohol, so I don't actually get hangovers.
Oh, it's clean.
I'm a scientist.
I don't know if I mentioned that earlier.
And a doctor.
I'm not.
joe rogan
You like clean eating?
Like people eat clean?
meghan murphy
Yeah, yeah.
unidentified
Exactly like that.
joe rogan
Oh, I eat clean for the most part.
meghan murphy
And I drink clean.
Yeah.
Same, same.
Like, I don't get hangovers because there's no sugar in it.
So if you just drank Mycia all night...
Is that where you think the hangovers are coming from?
Sugar.
joe rogan
Really?
meghan murphy
Okay, am I wrong?
joe rogan
Yeah, it's dehydration.
meghan murphy
Oh, okay.
I also drink a lot of water.
joe rogan
Well, there you go.
That's why.
That's why you're not getting hangovers.
meghan murphy
I thought that it was because it wasn't processed and there wasn't a bunch of chemicals.
Because it's natural and clean.
joe rogan
Incorrect.
Well, two things.
One, according to Dr. Carl Hart, who's an actual addiction specialist, he says that what's happening is...
That your body actually becomes addicted to alcohol.
And what hangovers are is there's an addiction process that happens during a drinking phase.
So like say if you're drinking and you get boozed up that night, your body literally starts craving that alcohol.
And that part of the hangover is you being addicted to alcohol.
That's why people say, you know, take a hair of the dog that bit you.
meghan murphy
But I hate that.
I never want booze the next morning.
I think it's gross.
Also, if I drink a bunch of Prosecco, I do get a hangover.
But if I just drink Ricea, I don't get a hangover.
joe rogan
Interesting.
meghan murphy
So that's why I assumed there was like a sugar factor.
joe rogan
I don't think so.
Well, I mean, there's probably a bunch of different biological reasons and different people.
Sugar and alcohol both have a lot in common.
They both cause dehydration, and they're both processed through the liver.
These commonalities mean that when combined, sugary alcoholic drinks produce a much more severe hangover than alcohol alone.
So, like, sangria would fuck you up?
There are many theories as to why sugary alcoholic beverages seem to result in a worse hangover than lower sugar counterparts, but no real proof positive.
Daiquiris, sweet martinis, and Mai Tais all contain sugar and alcohol.
What is this website?
MyGutHealth?
meghan murphy
I just want to know if I'm right or not.
joe rogan
I don't know if that's true.
meghan murphy
About my theory.
joe rogan
The thing that I've noticed is if I drink electrolyte drinks, electrolyte supplements, during and after the booze, it has a giant impact on what kind of headaches I have.
And ironically, those things have sugar in them.
meghan murphy
Oh, okay.
Yeah, that is interesting because, yeah, I'll drink electrolytes after, like, if I've been out the night before and it does help a lot, but I didn't think about the sugar thing.
joe rogan
Yeah, like electrolytes like liquid IV, which is my favorite one, has a very specific ratio of glucose to sodium and all the different electrolytes, potassium and whatnot.
And it's like the scientifically designed way they've incorporated these things so it enters into your bloodstream quicker and more effectively and rehydrates you better.
meghan murphy
Right.
joe rogan
But there is sugar in that.
unidentified
Mmm, yeah.
joe rogan
It tastes good.
meghan murphy
I mean, the hydrate, I do, like, I swear to, like, if I'm out drinking, I probably am also drinking, like, two or three liters of water.
Like, I drink a lot of water.
joe rogan
I would like to see an actual study, not some wacky, my gut health.
unidentified
Here, 1998 study, so same thing.
joe rogan
Same thing.
Dehydration and electrolyte imbalance.
Oh, okay.
Alcohol causes the body to increase.
Well, that makes sense that electrolytes, if you had electrolytes afterwards, it would help juice it up.
It's also a low blood sugar thing.
Several alterations in the metabolic state of the liver and other organs occur in response to the presence of alcohol in the body.
It could result in low blood sugar levels, low glucose levels, or hypoglycemia.
So that would make sense where one of those electrolyte supplements would be really good after you drink.
Alcohol-induced hypoglycemia generally occurs after binge drinking.
Over several days in alcoholics who have not been eating.
Oh, okay.
So you gotta eat too.
meghan murphy
Damn.
joe rogan
Either way, not good for you.
meghan murphy
I mean, so this like...
My theory about ricea being healthy for me was not...
joe rogan
It's fucking so bad for you.
meghan murphy
Like, I feel great.
It's great.
joe rogan
I think you just sip it.
meghan murphy
Like, what vitamins are in this booze?
joe rogan
Well, it's so rank that you have to just sip it.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
You know, because it tastes like shit.
So if you were drinking...
meghan murphy
It doesn't taste like shit.
unidentified
Like, I'm not trying to like seem tough.
meghan murphy
I genuinely like the way that it tastes.
unidentified
I believe you.
joe rogan
Obviously, people have different kinds of...
meghan murphy
What's your favorite booze?
joe rogan
I like whiskey.
meghan murphy
Okay.
I also love whiskey.
Whiskey's a good one.
joe rogan
I like scotch.
I like bourbon.
I like a good aged whiskey.
Like an eight-year whiskey.
That's what I like.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
I mean, you can't drink that kind of stuff really fast either.
Or I can anyway.
I mean, I feel like whiskey is like a slow drinking thing.
Even slower.
joe rogan
What?
Slower than this horseshit?
meghan murphy
Yeah, dude.
I mean, again, like I'm not, I actually drink Ricea pretty quickly.
joe rogan
You've finished that, right?
meghan murphy
I finished this so long ago.
Like, okay, a little bit left.
joe rogan
Get you some real stuff.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
jamie vernon
A list of things I would rather drink than that.
unidentified
Jägermeister.
meghan murphy
Okay.
joe rogan
This is still Austin.
This is some local whiskey.
unidentified
Oh, really?
meghan murphy
Okay, cool.
Maybe I should buy some wine here.
joe rogan
I'll give you a bottle.
meghan murphy
This is my...
Really?
That would be awesome.
joe rogan
Cheers.
meghan murphy
Cheers.
Thank you so much.
unidentified
I'm stoked.
joe rogan
Alright, now we're drinking.
meghan murphy
I want to see the label.
joe rogan
Oh my god, it's like Kool-Aid compared to that horse shit.
unidentified
Oh, it's so good.
meghan murphy
It's not as good.
Fine.
It's fine.
It's fine.
joe rogan
So are you doing your podcast and everything out of Mexico?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Yeah.
Which is...
It's working okay.
It's not ideal because the Wi-Fi situation in Sayulita is still a bit wack.
joe rogan
Shocking.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
The infrastructure there is not up to par as compared to Vancouver.
joe rogan
How crazy?
meghan murphy
Like, duh.
But also right now is the rainy season, so there's like crazy thunderstorms almost every night, and that also doesn't help with things like power and Wi-Fi.
So it's a bit sketchier, but I have been able to manage to do it, which is great, because I really don't want to go back to Canada ever again.
joe rogan
Ever?
meghan murphy
I hate it.
I hate it.
joe rogan
Really?
meghan murphy
I hate it.
joe rogan
Because of all this political shit?
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Yeah, I loved it for a long time.
Like, I was born in Vancouver.
I've lived there my whole life.
I have friends in Vancouver that I've known.
Like, I have a lot of really close friends.
Like, my family is there.
Like, you know, like, I have friends there that I've known since I was five years old.
And I still don't want to go back.
And I hate it because I think the politics are so scary.
And it makes me feel so scared that nobody is standing up, that they're just going along.
Because they're so agreeable.
Yeah, yeah.
And they trust the government a lot and they're just, they're really passive and they're scared of their friends.
Like, they're scared to say anything to go against the grain, right?
joe rogan
That's been the most disturbing thing about this pandemic is people turning against other people.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
And just being...
Scared.
Generally, when you put people in a high anxiety state and you make them scared, they get fucking sketchy.
They get weird.
It's hard to...
They're not rational.
It's hard to communicate with them rationally and logically.
meghan murphy
Yeah, it's fear and lack of control because I find that, like, so some of my friends are genuinely fearful about COVID and they're like, if I get COVID, I'm going to die.
And I'm like, you're not going to die.
You're not going to die.
You're the same age as me.
You don't have, like, diabetes.
You're not going to die of COVID. But there's a lot of people, I think, who just feel like they have no control over the situation, so they don't know what to do.
So I think they try to control other people or police other people.
And that's their form of control.
Or their form of control is following the rules.
Okay, just like shut down my brain, put my mask on, stay in my apartment, don't go anywhere.
Like, you know, they just don't know what to do.
And to me, like, that's not my nature.
My nature is the opposite of that.
So I don't totally relate, but...
Yeah, Canadians, very passive, very interested in going along, very interested in being told what to do, and it's really dangerous.
I feel like everybody needs to reread 1984. Actually, when I got to Mexico, the first book that I read, the last time I'd read it was in college or maybe even high school or something, and I reread it, and it was terrifying.
joe rogan
Yeah, it's very foreshadowing, right?
meghan murphy
Yeah, absolutely.
And even like that idea of, you know, going along with something that you know to be untrue, you know, you know that person's not really a woman, but you're just going to say it, you know, that's like that step in that direction.
Yeah, exactly.
Exactly.
And, you know, yeah, it's just it's really depressing and scary how many people haven't paid attention to history and can't see the path that they're going down.
joe rogan
Well, what's weird to me was that it was one of the first things that Biden did in getting into office was to make it so that high school kids can compete in the gender that they identify with.
All the shit that's wrong in this country right now, all the issues that we're facing, that's one of the first things you do.
This weird just fucking wave to the woke.
meghan murphy
And he promised to do that.
unidentified
Yeah, but he doesn't remember.
meghan murphy
I mean, fair, but I just mean people voted for him.
You know, feminists that I know voted for him.
Like feminists who have been working against this gender identity shit for a long time and who have been fighting it still voted for Biden because they're like, oh, well, not Trump.
Trump's awful.
And I don't like Trump.
But I, for sure, I didn't vote in this election.
I actually am an American citizen, but I've never lived in America before, so I've not actually voted.
joe rogan
How's that work?
meghan murphy
What?
joe rogan
How are you an American citizen?
meghan murphy
My mom's American.
I have dual.
Oh, nice.
I know.
That's why I was like, I could actually move here.
I mean, I'm happy in Mexico, but I actually have been considering trying to do, like, part-time...
I mean, it would be helpful for work and also accessing...
joe rogan
Actual internet?
unidentified
Yeah.
meghan murphy
Some things that don't exist in my, like, dusty, little, weird, sketchy Mexican town.
joe rogan
Yeah, there you go.
meghan murphy
I could, like, have clean clothes.
But, like, I said, you know, like, I was like, if I lived in the U.S., I would vote for Trump because I think Biden's scarier, partly because of the gender identity stuff, which, again, he promised to do.
He said, you know, one of the first things that I'll do if I win the election is Is to, you know, make it so that boys and men can compete against girls and women in sports.
And he did.
And, you know, the fact that he's obviously in bed with big tech.
And it's like, I may not like Trump and I may think he's an idiot or an asshole or like a buffoon, but I don't at all think that he's as dangerous as Biden.
And people really freaked out at me over that.
And I was just like, why would you vote for somebody who's going to take away all of your rights?
And has promised to take away all your rights.
You're destroying sex-based rights.
Sorry, not all of your rights.
I shouldn't say that.
But take away sex-based rights.
You're a woman.
And you're a woman who's very concerned about this.
And you just can't break out of this Trump thing.
And it's not like I'm saying, oh, you should vote for Trump.
But why are you voting for this person who's working against you openly?
joe rogan
Well, the media did a great job of highlighting any negative issue about Trump and constantly beating it into people's brains, that he's a misogynist, that he's a racist, that he's a this, that he's a that, and exaggerating any flaws that he may have had ad nauseum, any slurs in his speech, any things that he fucked up or gigantic huge red flags.
But then you see the opposite with Biden.
They're letting Biden slide.
Watching Don Lemon interview him and watching him babble in these weird, nonsensical, circular sentences that don't mean anything, just talking, just making noises with his face.
Like, what did you just say?
He's not saying anything.
And Don Lemon is there pretending that it makes sense.
Like, if he was talking to Trump, he would...
For sure say, oh my god, this man is not fit for office.
This man is mentally impaired.
There's something wrong here.
We have a huge issue.
It's a national security issue.
We need to deal with this right now.
But the fact that they don't look at Biden the same way they would look at Trump in terms of judging him by his actual speech and actions.
There's a little bit of that going on right now because of Afghanistan.
And what's interesting is Michael Malice actually pointed this out.
I think he was being interviewed by George Stephanopoulos.
Is that who it was?
meghan murphy
I don't know about this interview.
joe rogan
Anyway, they made him orange.
meghan murphy
Really?
joe rogan
Yes.
They used something where either that or he got a fake tan.
Either he got a fake tan or they used the same sort of color correction and filters that they would use with Trump.
But Biden, in his most latest interview, looks fucking orange all of a sudden.
He used to look like this translucent, sort of jellyfish-skinned, dying man.
And now he's got Trump skin.
meghan murphy
Weird.
joe rogan
Let's see if you can find that video.
Because it's fucking odd.
And Malice pointed it out.
Malice was like, I think they're doing that to make people think of Trump because they're throwing him under the bus now.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
They're throwing him under the bus on CNN. They're throwing him under the bus on mainstream media.
meghan murphy
This is all Biden's fault.
I mean...
I think the knee-jerking stuff around Trump versus Biden, I think, is so representative of how progressives engage with all politics.
It's all not thinking and knee-jerking.
It's all we support.
We support BLM. We support trans people.
We hate Trump.
Anyone who has anything critical to say about these movements is a white supremacist or a bigot or a trans woman.
Nobody's thinking.
joe rogan
Look at this.
meghan murphy
Oh, what a nice tan.
joe rogan
How crazy is that?
Biden dismisses Afghans falling out of planes by saying it was four or five days ago.
meghan murphy
Yeah, totally.
joe rogan
Look at what they're doing.
meghan murphy
How strange.
unidentified
We've seen those hundreds of people packed into a C-17.
We've seen Afghans falling.
That was four days ago, five days ago.
What did you think when you first saw those pictures?
But we've all seen the pictures.
joe rogan
What does that mean?
It's like when someone sends you a meme, like, bro, I saw it last week.
That's what he's saying about people falling out of fucking planes.
meghan murphy
Yeah, he's like, didn't you see that on Instagram?
Like, I saw that on Instagram.
joe rogan
He's like, it was four days ago.
Like, what does that mean?
Is that bad?
Is it nothing?
Because it's four days ago?
meghan murphy
That was during the Vietnam era.
unidentified
We all saw that already.
joe rogan
That was during the Korean War.
Why are you bringing that up?
meghan murphy
It was pretty upsetting.
joe rogan
Four days ago.
meghan murphy
Pretty big deal.
He's so dead.
joe rogan
He's so cognitively impaired.
It's so disturbing to watch.
And zero faith as a leader.
No one has faith in him to make good decisions.
They lie and they pretend they do.
But no one looks at him and go, he's fucking nailing it.
The guy's got it.
Like when Obama was in office, when Obama would speak, you would go, that guy is fucking smart.
That guy's cool, calm, and collected.
He's a statesman.
meghan murphy
I loved Obama.
I mean, I know that he's not perfect on policy, but he's obviously a very intelligent, competent man, quite charming, quite funny.
That sold me.
Agreed.
joe rogan
And a perfect representative of the United States in terms of the way he speaks.
He's so eloquent.
meghan murphy
He's so respected.
He's so classy.
joe rogan
Never lost his shit.
meghan murphy
Great taste in music.
joe rogan
It's like...
I think the policy thing, and I think in terms of enforcing foreign policy in particular, I think we have an illusion of how much control they actually have.
I think the deep state, the idea of the deep state is real.
There's people that are in politics, they're in office and government that never leave.
meghan murphy
Well, how would somebody like Biden end up in power?
Like, what a useless person to put in power.
joe rogan
Exactly.
Exactly.
Oh, and also it showed how hypocritically people are when it comes to sexual assault.
Because all the allegations against Biden, they were like, well, I don't believe her.
But what happened to all that believe all women shit?
Where was all that?
meghan murphy
Well, that's a really stupid mantra to begin with.
unidentified
It is.
meghan murphy
But, I mean, like, obviously you shouldn't just believe all women, no matter what.
I mean, again, this is another one of those things, like I said, you know, like, I've sort of been, like, moving away from feminism.
And it doesn't mean that I'm not a feminist anymore.
Like, I've actually been, ironically, like, under attack by the radical feminists lately.
joe rogan
Who are the radical feminists?
You don't have to name names, but, like, I know Christina Hoff Summers gets attacked by them.
meghan murphy
I mean, they identify themselves as radical feminists.
I mean, I guess their ideology generally would be like, they would be anti-pornography, they would be anti-prostitution, they would be anti the gender identity stuff.
joe rogan
Wait a minute.
You just outed yourself, lady.
meghan murphy
Okay, okay, okay.
Okay, but there's more.
I mean, I don't believe...
joe rogan
But you just listed off the three things that you...
meghan murphy
I don't want to upend the system.
unidentified
Oh, okay.
meghan murphy
I don't believe men are responsible for all of the bad things that happen in the world.
joe rogan
Right.
meghan murphy
They're going to get mad at me again because now they're going to act like I'm stereotyping.
But I mean, the answer is men.
Men are the problem.
Men are responsible for all of the violence, all the bad things that happen in this world.
Men have all this power.
Men are always in a position of privilege.
Women are always the victims.
I don't believe that at all.
I don't believe that women are not responsible for their choices in life.
I think that women should...
Take responsibility for the choices that they make.
And I feel like radical feminism, I mean, maybe, you know, feminism in general does this.
It's probably not just radical feminism.
Goes in too hard on this, like, women are perpetual victims and they can't be blamed, even for bad behavior.
So even if a woman acts like shitty or acts like a bitch or says something horrible, it's like...
Well, you know, the patriarchy, like, she's suffered under patriarchy her whole life.
She's been abused.
Like, this lack of accountability.
Women don't have to be accountable for the things that they do.
And, you know, I... That's a good question.
Like, who are the radical feminists?
I mean, they're women who identify themselves as radical feminists, and they've turned against me in part because I've been trying to have more nuanced conversations, even about pornography.
Like, yes, I'm anti-pornography, but I also recently...
Sort of tried to say like, okay, I, you know, men use pornography.
Most men use pornography.
This is a reality.
All of those men are bad men.
I can't say in good faith that all men who use pornography are like misogynists or hate women, and that's what these women would say.
Any man who consumes pornography hates women, hates women, or is a misogynist.
I'm like, okay, I mean, that's like a lot of men.
And it's a lot of men that I know, you know, that's like my boyfriends or like my male friends.
And I understand the train of thought because they're thinking of the porn industry as this hugely unethical, again, exploitative, abusive industry.
And they're saying, If a man's making a choice to consume this and he knows that she doesn't want to be there, he knows that she's being hurt or he knows that she's being abused, then obviously he doesn't care about women.
Obviously he's a misogynist.
And I'm like, but that's not always the case.
And he doesn't know that.
That's not what men are thinking about for the most part when they're, you know, watching pornography.
They're not thinking, oh, this woman is being abused.
Like, and we have to be able to have real, honest, empathetic, compassionate conversations with one another, and it doesn't fucking help.
Like, if you want to stop men from using pornography, do you think screaming, you're a misogynist, is going to stop him?
Like, you're a horrible person, like, you hate women?
He's going to be like, oh, I do hate women.
I should stop.
unidentified
Like...
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
And they got really angry at me because they accused me, essentially, of coddling men.
They also called me a ball palmer.
joe rogan
A ball palmer?
What is a ball palmer?
You're palming balls?
meghan murphy
I mean, like...
joe rogan
You're cradling balls?
meghan murphy
And I was like, well...
joe rogan
What does that mean?
meghan murphy
It means...
joe rogan
Have you ever heard of that, Jen?
A ball palmer?
jamie vernon
Not in an ironic context, I don't think, but...
meghan murphy
Like, they're accusing me of being, like, so, like, enamored with men that I can't think straight, basically, that I'm coddling men.
But I found the term very amusing because they called me a ball palmer and I was like, well, I mean, I'm like a heterosexual woman, so...
joe rogan
Is there something that works like that the opposite for men?
Is there like a breast cradler?
meghan murphy
Oh, like it would be like Pussy Whipped, probably.
Right?
joe rogan
Yeah, I guess so.
meghan murphy
But no, that's not even the same thing.
unidentified
That's like a guy who's got a girl who's just got him like googly.
jamie vernon
That's called Simp, I think.
meghan murphy
Oh, okay.
joe rogan
Simp.
meghan murphy
Maybe that's better.
jamie vernon
I just looked up Ball Palmer and it doesn't come up.
meghan murphy
It's just a radical feminist insult for women who aren't like...
joe rogan
A ball palmer!
meghan murphy
I know.
I really like it.
Like, I've been using it a lot.
I found it very funny.
But, you know, like, it's essentially like, if I'm not gonna vilify men, like, if I'm not, like, hard-ass enough, then I'm a ball palmer.
joe rogan
Got it.
meghan murphy
Like, I'm, like, I'm too soft on men, basically.
unidentified
Got it.
joe rogan
I got it.
meghan murphy
And I'm like, I'm just trying to talk to people like I'm genuinely like I want to understand people, even if they're people I don't agree with, like, God forbid.
And I you know, like, if you genuinely want to change people's minds, then you have to treat them as humans and be fair.
And I think you do have to try to understand them.
Not if they're horrible murderers or they're sociopaths or whatever, but just regular people.
You think that everybody in the world has been exposed to a radical feminist analysis of pornography?
No, no one has and nobody cares.
You have to have conversations with people.
joe rogan
Has anyone ever successfully argued for pornography?
Have you ever heard anybody making good arguments, whether it's a woman or a man, for pornography?
meghan murphy
I mean, I think that people would argue that men need a sexual outlet.
So I just interviewed on my YouTube channel a woman who's a stripper.
And she's actually anti-porn, but she's worked as a stripper for like 20 years.
And she's a feminist.
And, you know, she was like, the reality is that a lot of men don't have access to sex.
Or they don't have access to as much sex as they want to have.
Or they don't have access to the kind of sex they want to have.
And like, what do we do with men?
What do we do with those men?
How do we deal with this?
And the radical feminists would say, too bad, fuck them, like, go masturbate in your corner.
Right, it's not my problem.
And I think on a certain level women really don't totally understand the male libido and male sexuality.
I assume it's probably different than how women feel or think about sex.
joe rogan
It's one of the things that trans men always say.
They have a different understanding.
Once they start taking testosterone, they're like, oh, God.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
Like, no wonder white men are so pushy.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
I thought you were going to say, like, perverted.
unidentified
Perverted, too.
joe rogan
That, too.
Just horny.
meghan murphy
Yeah, I think it's more intense.
joe rogan
I mean, males in general, because of just biological history, we have more of a history of aggression, more of a history of also the competition for mating.
The competition amongst males is very aggressive.
Like if one man finds, I was just, a friend of mine was just telling me this story about this woman who was, who's dating one guy and then she broke up with this guy and then dated a guy that worked with him and it became this fucking colossal catastrophe and these guys had a fist fight at work and I was like, holy shit, but that's like standard male breeding behavior amongst wolves, amongst gorillas, amongst like all sorts of different male animals.
meghan murphy
Like this is mine or like it's a threat to my masculinity?
joe rogan
I think there's a, well, it's a threat to their hierarchy, their position in the social food chain, the idea that, you know, that now they don't get to breed with this female, but now this other male gets to breed with this female, whether it's a gorilla or a male or a wolf or whatever.
And then there's like, fuck him!
You know, and then there's this weird sort of natural built-in shit.
And with beta males, it's like, you know, reputation destruction.
They'll talk shit about you behind your back and, you know, and mail things to your ex-girlfriends and, you know, get crazy in that way.
But there's a weird sort of aggression thing that's involved with testosterone and dating.
You know, it's a weird...
It's an undeniable aspect of some parts of male behavior.
unidentified
Yeah.
meghan murphy
Yeah, I mean, men are obviously super competitive in that way.
I mean, I've had that experience, yeah, like, with men that I've broken up with, and there's no thing, and, like, we're friends, and it's been a long time, and they get super, like, competitive and weird when I start dating someone else.
And it's like, man, you're dating somebody else.
Like, you don't want me.
Like, we're not this, like, you know, it's not that you want me.
It's that it's like, oh, somebody, it's like...
joe rogan
It's like men are supposed to, and they should, figure out a way to manage that.
But I think we need to recognize that there's some sort of weird inherent programming in human beings that's biological, that is completely about passing on your DNA, and that is...
Ingrained in your cells in some strange way that manifests itself in relationships in really gross and horrible ways.
And there's no management skills that are taught to men.
There's no mitigation skills in terms of strategies of releasing this kind of aggressive energy, working out, going to the gym, maybe jerking off before you call your girlfriend and say you're sorry.
That kind of stuff.
There's so many...
Your ex-girlfriend, rather.
There's so many weird things that are involved with being a biological human being, whether it's female or male.
meghan murphy
Yeah, exactly.
And so telling men to just suppress it is the least helpful thing ever.
It's like, oh, you feel this way?
Too bad.
Fuck you.
Fuck off.
You're bad.
You're pathetic.
You're right, and men aren't offered, and boys especially, they're not offered alternatives, they're not offered healthy outlets, again, like sports or martial arts or whatever.
joe rogan
I think more importantly, they're not offered an understanding of a female's perspective either.
That's a real big, they think about what they want, especially when people are young, right?
When you're young and your frontal lobe hasn't developed, you're thinking about what you want.
You're not thinking about what the other person wants.
And I think from an early age, it would be great if we had a better understanding, like a real honest understanding of how the other side thinks.
meghan murphy
Yes, exactly.
And I feel like that was the conversation that I was trying to open up.
And, you know, my audience includes, you know, primarily like a lot of, I mean, there's men in my audience too, but obviously tons and tons of feminists and tons and tons of radical feminists.
And I'm saying like, we have to try, we don't understand each other and we have to try to understand each other and be realistic about what's going on.
And we live in a world where boys are growing up We're good to go.
Whatever.
And people just want to shut it down or they don't want to talk about it or they just want to shut it up.
The people who don't really feel concerned about porn will more likely be like, oh, it's just sex.
It's just a fantasy.
joe rogan
I think also we have to take into consideration the way girls' brains are being rewired because they're looking at that in terms of what the expectations on them are.
meghan murphy
Yeah, totally.
joe rogan
I read this study and it was kind of a fucked up study because it was like a study about how kids are having much more anal sex now than ever before.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
And part of me was like, What kind of scientist is like, what do you want to study?
I want to study kids' buttfucking.
meghan murphy
How many teenagers are having anal sex?
Let's poll.
joe rogan
Hey, I want to talk to that fucking scientist and make sure they're on the up and up.
But the reality is that seeing those images, like any child that has access to a phone.
Your little perverted friends are going to say, have you Googled this yet?
Have you seen that?
Most parents don't have restrictions on their kids' phones, so if you give a boy a phone, you're basically saying, hey little fella, go watch people fuck.
Go watch violence and go watch people fuck.
meghan murphy
Go watch gunshot videos and Don't find the most deranged shit that you can find.
Your brain's developing.
joe rogan
This is perfect.
That's what they're doing.
meghan murphy
Look at this.
joe rogan
I think the expectations on girls is another thing that should be studied about that, too.
Because if you're watching grown adults that enjoy participating in kinky shit...
That's a grown adult that's been through the ringer.
They've been through a lot of things in their life, and then they have two shots of this wacky shit that you like, and they're like, go ahead, put it in my ass.
meghan murphy
This is the problem.
The problem is, like, they're doing two shots of rice and they're like, yeah, put it anywhere.
joe rogan
Yeah, exactly.
They're getting crazy.
And then, you know, some high school girl sees that and like, is that what we're supposed to do?
Is that what we do?
Like, do we have to say we like that so that people like us?
meghan murphy
Yes, and this is a huge problem, and it makes me really upset.
I feel really bad for girls who are growing up in this world.
jamie vernon
Right around the time we started today, this is kind of like the news of the day online I'm seeing.
OnlyFans has announced they're going to ban sexually explicit videos.
meghan murphy
What?
joe rogan
I thought that was their whole business model.
jamie vernon
That's what everyone's been discussing.
In the article, if you read into it, it does say what they're trying to get rid of is like...
Bestiality and rape and everything that would be bad, but it's all getting encompassed in this blanket statement.
joe rogan
Do you think this has anything to do with Rachel Dolezal opening up her early fans?
I think that's a very bad timing for her.
meghan murphy
Is that real?
Did that happen?
unidentified
No.
He said it to me.
meghan murphy
I can't believe it took her so long, honestly.
joe rogan
And one of the things is cooking and exercise, but also feet.
Yeah, she did mention that.
Look at the Daily Beast titled it.
meghan murphy
Oh my god.
joe rogan
Rachel Dolezal's new side hustle, OnlyFans.
meghan murphy
I mean, I'm not saying that I support it, but it's like, I mean, she obviously lost access to almost any income, so I'm saying I'm surprised it took her this long.
joe rogan
Look what she used to look like.
How bizarre.
Like with her fake tan.
meghan murphy
I feel bad for her.
joe rogan
Do you feel like what she does is any different than someone who identifies with a different gender?
meghan murphy
Sex.
So gender and sex are not the same thing.
So gender to me, gender means masculinity or femininity.
So that's like referring to the roles that are assigned to people based on their sex.
So like those stereotypes where it's like...
joe rogan
So a feminine male, his gender is female?
Like a guy who's in a gay relationship, but he's the wife?
unidentified
No.
meghan murphy
So I don't think that gender is a very useful concept.
joe rogan
Okay, let's just say sex.
meghan murphy
Okay, great.
joe rogan
But just to get away from that, do you think that what she does or did, when she says she identifies with African Americans, that's like the culture that she's...
meghan murphy
No, I don't think it's the same thing.
And I don't, I mean, this is a very complex conversation, but...
joe rogan
Is there racial dysphoria?
Like, there's gender just for her?
meghan murphy
I mean, maybe.
Those people are crazy, too.
But I don't...
You know, like, did you watch the documentary about her?
joe rogan
No.
meghan murphy
Okay, it's good.
joe rogan
I can't.
I can barely get through this HBO documentary on QAnon.
meghan murphy
Oh, okay.
I watched that one.
joe rogan
Have you seen that?
meghan murphy
Yeah, yeah.
joe rogan
I'm four episodes in.
It keeps going back and forth.
Now, for a moment, I was thinking it was Steve Bannon.
But now I'm back to that fucking kid.
meghan murphy
Well, keep at it.
It's a good...
Best of luck.
It's a good documentary.
It's sympathetic and deservedly so.
She had a really hard childhood.
There was abuse.
And I think she just was seeking...
And seeking and she found an identity.
And she also like she was doing good in that community.
joe rogan
She was.
meghan murphy
She was the head of the NAACP. Like, no, it's not good to say that you're black when you're white.
But I mean, she didn't actually do any harm by doing that.
And I do think that I mean, race is not as black and white as sex is, right?
Right.
joe rogan
Because we all come from Africa.
Like all human beings.
meghan murphy
Yeah, and we're all like a crazy mix.
And also there isn't actually...
I mean, you know, in Canada and in the United States, people act like there's this binary, like white versus black.
And, you know, whites are in power and black people don't have power.
And racism always goes in one direction.
And that's total bullshit.
Like, I mean, the history of the world shows otherwise.
joe rogan
Right.
meghan murphy
But yeah, it's not a binary thing.
It's not black and white.
She wasn't trying to...
I don't think she was going out of her way to usurp a position that should have been for a black person.
I think she was looking for community and she was looking for purpose and trying to help.
And yeah, and she was troubled.
She probably has some mental illness issues.
joe rogan
Well, she changed her name.
Do you know what her new name is?
meghan murphy
No.
Is it Colin?
joe rogan
No.
Colin would be more realistic.
meghan murphy
Is it Mark?
joe rogan
It's like some African priest name.
It's the most ridiculous name.
meghan murphy
Okay, so she's a little bit crazy.
joe rogan
You need to see it.
meghan murphy
I feel bad for her.
joe rogan
But she did it publicly.
She wanted to let everyone know.
unidentified
That she's officially African?
joe rogan
Yeah, I mean, she's all in with this transracial thing.
She's not abandoning it.
She's changed her name.
What is her name?
That was four days ago.
Four days ago!
People were falling out of planes.
unidentified
Let it go.
meghan murphy
That was four days ago.
Hanging on the tires.
Four days ago.
It was over four days ago.
They're dead by now.
Sorry, that was crude.
unidentified
No big deal.
joe rogan
No big deal.
Look at my orange skin.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
joe rogan
They made him orange.
Did you notice that?
I think they're fucking with him.
I think he's on his way out.
I really do.
I think Michael Malice is correct.
meghan murphy
Who will they put in now?
joe rogan
Here, how about this new name?
Nakechi Amari Diallo.
Her new full name, Nakechi Amare Diallo.
It's a West African name that means gift of God.
meghan murphy
Oh no.
joe rogan
Yeah, see?
meghan murphy
I mean, poor lady.
joe rogan
Now I'm not on her team anymore.
Now I'm not on her side.
meghan murphy
Okay, but she's mentally ill.
She's troubled.
joe rogan
Sure.
But you like that.
That's okay.
meghan murphy
I don't like it, no.
But you're okay.
I feel bad for her.
unidentified
Right.
joe rogan
Do you feel bad for trans people?
meghan murphy
Okay, she doesn't have...
Sure, yes.
If you're suffering because you hate your body, you feel so uncomfortable in your skin, of course I feel bad for you.
joe rogan
But do you think that should be okay?
Is it okay to be transracial?
meghan murphy
No.
But I feel bad for her.
She's not a threat to anybody.
There's a difference when you're changing legislation and policy and it's having a really, really serious negative impact on half of the population versus one lady who's had a sad life and she's just trying to...
joe rogan
Yeah, that's a good point.
That's a good point.
meghan murphy
It's different.
If it was a major phenomenon and people were losing access to funding or jobs or whatever because white people were posing as black and getting the funding instead or getting these positions instead or whatever it is...
joe rogan
That's reasonable.
meghan murphy
And again, this thing where these men who are entering into women's spaces really are a threat to women, in a physical sense as well as in a political sense.
I don't think that that's, again, such a black and white issue when it comes to race.
joe rogan
Has being kicked off of Twitter made you more free in terms of your ability to discuss things?
Because you don't get the same sort of instantaneous feedback on your ideas that you do with Twitter, which I think is...
In some ways, positive, like the discussions you can have with people, but in a lot of ways, negative.
Because a lot of what you're dealing with is just people complaining and criticizing and insulting and being really shitty in a way that people...
Generally, don't do in real life.
They only do when they're hiding behind a screen name and only using text and not in front of a person so they don't get social cues and see the impact that their insulting statements have on this person's personality.
You know, they're doing it like they're throwing bombs over a fence and they can't see what's on the other side.
meghan murphy
I mean, I had a lot of support on Twitter, to be honest, and I think that that was part of why they got rid of me.
Like, I think people were feeling emboldened by what I was saying and I was getting a lot of support and they were like, I don't know who they is.
I don't know if it's like, you know, trans activists who had connections at Twitter or who worked there or, you know, whether it was the head of safety, who's again, I can't say her name.
If they were like, oh, she's getting too much traction and this is starting to legitimize.
I was talking about this stuff in a rational way.
I wasn't being an asshole.
joe rogan
Is that part of the problem?
meghan murphy
Yes.
I think that these questions that I was asking were legitimate in making people question this ideology and I think they didn't want that, whoever they is.
I wasn't having a bad time on Twitter.
I got a lot of shit, but who cares?
It's so blown out of proportion, this idea that people are being devastated by online harassment.
I think that cancel culture can be really awful and ruin people's lives, but being called names on Twitter, I mean, who cares?
Just block them.
Somebody says something mean to you, somebody insults your appearance, even somebody threatens you.
It's not as big a deal as people pretend it is.
I mean, I've been threatened more than most people in the world on the internet, and I I don't really care that much.
And part of it is probably that I'm used to it.
Part of it is that I think I just have a thick skin.
Like, as a person, I'm not a super...
I'm not sensitive in that way.
Like, I'm not super upset by what people say to me.
joe rogan
You're not fragile.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
Yes, I'm not fragile.
joe rogan
Thank you.
meghan murphy
So no, it doesn't help.
It's been worse.
The only thing that's been good about being kicked off of Twitter is that I can have these conversations and that, you know what, it actually connected me with a whole bunch of people that I never would have connected with otherwise.
You know, like people who are right wing.
People who I wrote off as a committed leftist and feminist.
Ben Shapiro called me after I got kicked off of Twitter and he was like, can I support you?
And I think he's a really nice guy and I never would have talked to him or considered that he's not just an enemy to my cause.
And it really shook up my ideas about politics and about this left-right binary and made me very passionate about free speech.
And I wasn't before and I feel bad about that.
And I apologized about that publicly.
I was never openly against free speech, but I never really bothered standing up for free speech.
I never thought about it much.
In Canada, we really don't.
And now I've realized, and it's unfortunate that something like that would have to happen to me in order for me to realize how important it is and to stand up.
But it did.
And it made me realize how awful and destructive and dangerous these corporate monopolies are, these big tech monopolies are.
And they are.
They're really fucking dangerous and a lot of people don't realize.
joe rogan
I agree, and I think free speech is almost everything.
It's the only way we ever discuss things and figure out what's right and what's wrong, and you've got to let it sort itself out.
And if you don't, if you just put the walls up and say you're kicked out of the kingdom, like, wow.
Especially, you know, we're not talking about a small-scale thing.
We're talking about a massive multi-billion member thing.
We're talking about what essentially should be a utility.
It should be a public right to use these things to communicate.
And it's one thing if you're doxing people or harassing people, but if you're just discussing ideas, you should be able to discuss ideas openly and without fear of repercussion from the administrators who are essentially just appealing to one particular ideology and not supporting the other ideology at all.
It's fucking dangerous and it's unprecedented because there's never been a thing like this before.
And the people that, well, their side is supported by these conversations and these people getting censored.
They're like, well, it's a private company.
They can do what they like.
It's a nonsense, horseshit argument.
This is not a private company.
This is essentially just like a utility.
It's massive.
There's way too many people, and the impact that it has is so huge.
Here's how fucking ridiculous they are.
The Taliban's on Twitter, and you're not.
And you're not.
meghan murphy
I mean, to be fair, I am worse than the Taliban.
joe rogan
Do you know how crazy that is?
The Taliban's on Twitter.
Belittle all you.
meghan murphy
Like, she said him.
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
I mean, I, like, I know, I just think that, and the private company argument is coming from leftists or progressives, and it's like, oh, suddenly you're a fan of corporate monopolies?
Yeah.
joe rogan
Hilarious.
meghan murphy
And what a joke.
Please, you cannot in good faith pretend that this is just a business.
This is where conversations happen.
This is where journalism happens.
I'm a journalist.
I don't actually produce very much journalism these days, but I'm a writer.
I'm trained in journalism.
This is my job.
It's very difficult to participate in public conversations and to do your job if you're a media producer or a journalist without access to social media platforms.
Well, impossible now.
Yeah.
joe rogan
But you still have Instagram, right?
meghan murphy
Well, yeah, but...
joe rogan
Do you have Facebook as well?
meghan murphy
Yeah, but...
So I was just...
I was really just using Twitter before I got kicked off because I don't...
I mean, I honestly don't love social media, to be honest, and I really don't like Facebook at all.
So I didn't have a public Facebook account.
I didn't have a public Instagram account.
I didn't have a YouTube channel.
And then I got kicked off and I was like, oh, shit.
Like...
joe rogan
Put all your eggs in one basket.
meghan murphy
I was shocked.
I cried.
I'm not joking.
I cried when I got kicked off of Twitter.
Well, I was scared.
I was like, how am I going to work?
How am I going to make an income?
And I just didn't think that would happen.
Again, I didn't think I was doing anything offensive.
I wasn't doing anything offensive.
But I just didn't anticipate it.
I remember somebody asking me, John Kay, who's a Canadian journalist, and he's like, Well, you must have seen it coming.
And I was like, no, I was totally shocked and I was really upset and I was scared.
joe rogan
Well, they've ramped up their censorship to the point where Sean Baker, who is an advocate of the carnivore diet, he's a guy who, he's like this very fit guy who's in his, I think he's 55, and posts these videos.
He's an orthopedic surgeon, I believe.
He's some sort of physician.
He's an actual medical doctor.
And he believes that meat is the healthiest thing for people to eat.
It's a very controversial opinion.
Some people agree.
Some people disagree.
There's more than one doctor that agrees with him, though.
But meanwhile, he just got kicked off Twitter for this.
meghan murphy
Ridiculous.
joe rogan
Like they banned him.
meghan murphy
They banned him from Twitter?
joe rogan
He's banned forever from Twitter.
They don't offer any explanation.
meghan murphy
Crazy.
joe rogan
And most of his posts are just about meat.
About eating meat.
About how healthy meat is for you.
And obviously someone at Twitter finds that...
Whether it's a political perspective, a social perspective, whatever it is, they think that it's bad for the environment of the world.
They kicked them off Twitter.
meghan murphy
So, I mean, you've talked to these guys.
Like, what do you think?
Like, you had Jack Dorsey here and, oh my god, please let me learn how to say her name.
Vijah?
joe rogan
Yeah.
meghan murphy
And, like, are they lying?
Like, I felt when they talked about me here, I thought they were lying about me.
I was like...
Jack Dorsey might be out to lunch and may not have known what happened to me, but I think she knows and she lied.
They essentially implied that I had been harassing people.
There's a long history of her harassing trans people.
Yeah, that's what I do with my time.
I harass trans people on the internet.
They have to justify their censorship position.
When people like him are being banned for advocating an all-meat diet or whatever he's doing, is he advocating an all-meat diet?
Yeah.
I mean, I've heard of this before.
And I know people who've...
I mean, I guess Jordan Peterson was doing that for a bit, right?
Is it politically motivated or is it just like you got reported one too many times or they're like, oh, this is a...
joe rogan
I think that's it.
I think that's it.
He's aggressive in his evangelism for it.
And I think they just decided at one point in time that they just were going to get rid of him.
And now he's banned permanently.
It's fucking wild.
Are you suing them?
Are you suing Twitter?
meghan murphy
Well, we did, but we lost.
unidentified
Oh.
meghan murphy
And we lost because of Section 230, which is supposed to protect platforms from being, you know, essentially held accountable for what people post on their platforms.
So, like, I have a website, so if somebody posted a comment...
joe rogan
Tell your website.
meghan murphy
Tell people your website.
FeministCurrent.com or.ca?
.com.
Okay.
And then I also have a podcast and a YouTube show.
It's called The Same Drugs with Megan Murphy.
I'm Megan Murphy.
joe rogan
The Same Drugs?
meghan murphy
It's like a shout out to Chance the Rapper and who I'm a big fan of his and I really like that song.
But also sort of I felt like there was some kind of like zeitgeist thing where everybody was...
Changing their minds in the same direction at the same time.
Starting to question, not everyone obviously, but question orthodoxies and the kind of interviews.
The same drugs with Megan Murphy.
That's me.
joe rogan
Conversations outside the algorithm.
meghan murphy
Thanks, Jamie.
joe rogan
And you got your hoops on and everything.
Look at you.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
That's you.
That's what I look like.
unidentified
That is you.
meghan murphy
You're here right now.
joe rogan
I'm looking at you.
I've watched many of your YouTube videos.
Oh, thank you.
That's one of the reasons why I wanted to talk to you.
meghan murphy
Okay.
joe rogan
When you're portrayed one way as being this hostile, disagreeable, unreasonable person who's harassing people, and then I actually see you talk, It's frustrating.
I hate that.
I hate when people are misrepresented.
It drives me nuts.
It's rude, and it's diametrically opposed to free speech.
Free speech is supposed to be about a person expressing themselves and I want to know what they really think and then I want to know is there a counter to that and who's right and let these people talk.
But when you misrepresent someone and you taint them and you change who they are, you've already poisoned the argument, right?
And I felt...
Like, I didn't know about you until I found out you got kicked off of Twitter and then someone let me know that you got kicked off of Twitter for saying a woman isn't a man.
And I was like, that is the most fucking ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
And then I heard that, you know, I tried to do some research on you, found out you're a feminist, and I'm like...
But she's right.
We're talking about biology.
What are you allowed to say and why are you not allowed to say that?
What are you trying to protect by stopping this from being said?
And why can't we have that said and then have someone counter that in a way that's intelligent and robust and let's have a debate and a discussion and see if there's common ground that we can reach.
meghan murphy
If there's some sort of a Yeah, and this has been one of my biggest frustrations is that no one will debate me.
So these people who say that I'm hateful or bigoted and completely, the misrepresentation thing completely drives me crazy.
I can't lie.
I don't think I'm ever going to get over it.
Not when I'm misrepresented, not when other people are.
You were talking about these Spotify employees who are trying to get rid of you, which is, of course, ridiculous.
But it's like, do you listen to this show?
I don't actually believe they listen to your show.
Just like I don't believe that the people who misrepresent me are actually listening to what I'm saying, because I don't know how they could listen to what I'm saying and then say those things about me.
joe rogan
They don't care.
They don't care to be truthful.
They have an ideology.
There's very clear borders of what's allowed and what's not allowed.
You stepped outside that border by saying a woman is never a man.
They're like, that bitch!
Clutch those pearls.
You fucked up their little narrative.
But it's the wrong way to approach any debatable issue.
And this is clearly a confusing, nuanced, debatable issue.
meghan murphy
Well, and so...
This booze is really good, by the way.
I'm really enjoying it.
That's the real shit!
I'm trying to like...
joe rogan
American whiskey!
Still Austin!
Right here, baby.
meghan murphy
But I'm like, okay, water, whiskey, water, whiskey.
joe rogan
Yeah, fuck all this nonsense.
You're drinking paint thinner.
meghan murphy
I mean, more than one thing can be good.
joe rogan
This is good if the apocalypse happens, because I think you could use it as gas.
meghan murphy
Okay, well, great.
The apocalypse is coming, so you're welcome for your gift.
joe rogan
I don't even smell that bottle when I pushed it.
It wafted up into me.
I'll never drink that again.
meghan murphy
That's fine.
Thank you for that gift.
joe rogan
Thank you very much.
unidentified
Very kind of me.
meghan murphy
You're welcome.
Okay, so, like, nobody, like, people, these people won't debate me.
Like, people have tried to set up debates between me, like, the monk debates.
Who would be the person to debate on the other side?
And nobody will do it.
joe rogan
Who would be the person to debate you on the other side?
meghan murphy
Well, it could...
I mean, anybody who advocates gender identity ideology, right?
Like, anybody who thinks that the concept of changing sex is legitimate, anyone really who thinks the concept of, like, you know, a transgender in general, I would be interested in debating because I don't think that is a rational concept.
And nobody will do it.
And to me, that speaks...
Volumes about their position.
Because I would debate anybody.
You know, if I'm wrong, I'm wrong.
I've been wrong lots of times before.
I've changed my mind about lots of things.
I don't find it embarrassing.
I don't, you know, like I'm happy to change my mind.
If I change my mind, I'm like, right, I learned something new.
Other people don't like it when I change my mind.
joe rogan
Yeah, that's okay.
meghan murphy
You're like, we thought you were our...
Keep saying the same thing over and over and over again because otherwise we're going to have to rethink what we're saying over and over and over again.
She's a flip-flopper.
Yeah.
joe rogan
Well, you can't be married to your ideas.
You just can't because then you will be literally attached to the first ideas you've ever had.
The whole idea about being a human being is you learn and you grow and you see things from different perspectives.
It's one of the most incredibly beneficial things that I've gotten out of this podcast, is that I get to talk to so many different people.
meghan murphy
Totally.
joe rogan
With so many different backgrounds, so many different perspectives, and it's informed me and changed my perspective on things, and it's made me a much more nuanced thinker, because I get to see things from other people's eyes.
I get to listen to their arguments.
I get to hear their impassioned pleas and go, Oh, that makes sense.
Okay, I see why you say that.
Okay, I didn't think about it that way.
I love that.
I love when someone says something, I go, oh, okay.
All right.
I mean, it's an ego battle, right?
Because you don't want to be wrong.
But you got to know when the idea that you were attached to is a bad idea.
Don't be married to them.
You're not your ideas.
You're a thinking organism.
And when ideas come across you, they should be carefully examined.
And any of them that are forcing you to adopt them without any scrutiny, those are dangerous.
These dogmatic positions that you see where people rigidly adhere to ideologies, it's one of the reasons why free speech is so fucking important.
Because those things are how you lead to dictatorship.
Those things are how you lead to communism.
Those things are how you lead to A literal inability to debate, discuss, and examine things.
Because some things cannot be discussed.
The thing that cannot be said.
The ideas that cannot be examined.
Those are bullshit.
It's terrible.
meghan murphy
When you can't count yourself as an intelligent person or a critical thinker if you won't do that.
If you won't challenge your own ideas or let your ideas be challenged.
And your idea is not valid.
If you're not going to challenge your own ideas and if you're not going to allow others to challenge your ideas, then your idea is not valid.
It has to be put to the test, essentially.
And it's incredible to me how few people understand that and think that What strength is, is to just stick doggedly to the thing that you've always said.
You've been saying the same thing for 20 years.
Hopefully, you've changed your mind about things since you were 20 years old and now you're 40. I mean, that's what growth and wisdom is.
I mean, how sad and pathetic if you still believe all the same things you did in your 20s.
But they see it as a form of weakness, I guess.
Again, I know that I'm being repetitive, but I came from that place where I did post hyperbolic statements on Twitter and I was kind of black and white in my thinking in terms of certain issues.
And I did think that people who saw things differently were bad or dumb or whatever.
And, you know, having nuanced conversations is so much harder and for whatever reason so much more controversial and you get attacked so much more.
I get, I mean you do of course too, but like I get attacked for having conversations with people even if I don't agree with them.
unidentified
Right.
meghan murphy
Just because I'm having the conversation with them.
joe rogan
Yeah, but you platform them.
meghan murphy
Yeah.
And people assume that I agree with them because I'm having the conversation with them and I'm not being mean to them or I'm not like, you're a terrible person.
I'm like, but they're not a terrible person.
We just have different ideas.
joe rogan
The Ben Shapiro example is a good one.
Ben's a friend of mine.
I like him a lot.
I disagree with him on many, many, many things.
But I like him.
I think he's a very friendly guy.
He's a very nice guy.
I like talking to him.
meghan murphy
I really like him too.
And he's super smart.
Yeah, of course I don't agree with him on all things.
We're very different people.
But I think he's super smart.
I think he's super ethical.
He's legit.
I have so much more respect for somebody who is honest and authentic and rational versus somebody who's going to doggedly stick to ideology no matter what.
Even if they don't believe it.
Even if they're proven wrong.
Even if it doesn't make sense.
It's not a coherent argument.
You know...
I don't want that.
I'm not interested in that.
I'm interested in truth.
I'm interested in authenticity.
And if that makes me, which is what everybody else says, that makes me like right wing or like a ball palmer.
joe rogan
Or a simp.
meghan murphy
So be it.
joe rogan
Are you a female simp?
meghan murphy
A whore-phobe.
joe rogan
A whore-phobe.
meghan murphy
That's my favorite.
joe rogan
I learned two new terms today because of you.
Ball Palmer and Horphobe.
meghan murphy
And we've been introduced to Razia.
joe rogan
Yes, I've learned a lot.
Alright, one more time, Jamie, put up her show, The Same Drugs.
meghan murphy
Thank you.
joe rogan
Who'd do the artwork for you?
I like that.
meghan murphy
My friend Carrie.
joe rogan
Carrie did a good job.
meghan murphy
Thanks, Carrie.
joe rogan
The same drugs with Megan Murphy.
Is this on iTunes and Spotify?
meghan murphy
Yeah, yeah, it's on all that.
joe rogan
Everything, all that stuff.
And you're on Instagram.
meghan murphy
What's your Instagram?
MeganEmilyMurphy.
joe rogan
And Facebook, same.
meghan murphy
And Facebook.
joe rogan
Same shit.
meghan murphy
Not on Twitter.
joe rogan
Not on Twitter.
Come on, Twitter.
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Fuck you!
Let me back!
joe rogan
Come on, Twitter.
Let her back.
meghan murphy
Let me back.
Everyone wants me back.
I think now it's just like a contest of like, they're just being stubborn.
They're like, nah.
joe rogan
But the concept of like, no forgiveness, no redemption ever.
It's like, God damn it.
Really?
For saying a woman or a man is not a woman?
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Admit you made a mistake.
meghan murphy
Admit this was a stupid decision.
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You made a mistake.
joe rogan
Come on, Jack.
Get your shit together.
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Jack.
joe rogan
Honestly, I think they're managing at scale.
That's what I think it is.
I think there's too many fucking people on that.
And it's impossible.
And the people that are pulling the banhammers, there's so many of them.
There are so many people working over there that are doing that.
The idea that there's one person who reviews thousands and thousands and thousands and thousands of human beings that are stepping outside the lines.
meghan murphy
Yeah, those quick decisions.
Like, bad, good, bad, good.
Right, wrong, right, wrong.
joe rogan
Ban forever.
He promotes steak.
Ban him.
Megan, I enjoyed our conversation.
I appreciate you very much.
meghan murphy
Thank you so much.
joe rogan
Let's do it again.
meghan murphy
Totally, I would love to.
joe rogan
Thank you.
Bye, everybody.
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