Trans TikToker regrets gender-affirming surgery, citing "Barbie-like" results and painful daily dilation required to prevent infection, while facing a $70,000 cost for revision. The conversation escalates with claims that men cannot perform oral sex on trans women, assertions that natural anatomy surpasses surgical genitalia, and derogatory insults labeling the procedure mutilation. Ultimately, the dialogue exposes deep societal polarization regarding transgender identity, contrasting personal regret with aggressive biological essentialism and highlighting the intense stigma surrounding medical transition. [Automatically generated summary]
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Regretting Gender Reaffirming Surgery00:05:14
Years ago, I got gender reaffirming surgery.
Here's a fucking honest update.
Do I regret it?
Short answer is yes.
Don't get me wrong.
I got it done twice.
It looks Barbie.
Why do I regret it?
Well, because I will never be able to live a normal life.
After the surgery, you have to start dilating to keep the space they gave you.
You start from doing it four times a day to once a week for the rest of your life.
I was fine with that.
See, the problem is I had major complications and now for some reason, I need to do it every single fucking day.
Now, obviously, I've had relations and girls, we all know guys don't fucking know what to do.
So it's not really worth it to me.
The problem is I cannot stop.
If I stop, it's going to close up and create a bubble.
And that bubble could literally create an infection that could the two options here are I dilate for the rest of my life or I get it removed surgically.
Surgery goes for 70,000 and I don't want to go through that again.
So I guess I'm dilating.
You need to speak for yourself.
Men don't know what to do.
I know what the hell I'm doing.
You need to speak for yourself.
Well, you would know, huh?
You are a guy.
That was messed up.
I shouldn't have said that.
Amen.
Oh, man.
What's called over?
I ain't starting shit over.
This is.
Anyway, I don't even know why you...
I don't know why men getting sex change operations, man.
You know, you're going to get fucked in the ass anyway.
Yeah.
Won't you just pretend that you're a cock is a big platoris?
Y'all seem to have amazing imaginations anyway.
Yeah.
Hey, so man, I mean, if I'm going to lay down with a woman like you, I'm not fucking no man-made whole.
At least the asshole is going to be natural.
Hey, let me say something.
So it turns out when you're getting a sex change, they make a little pouch.
She said it was like Barbie.
So they did a good job, but she's having complications.
So what does she mean?
She's talking about like an office for somebody, some dude to slam his cock in?
Yeah, man-made pussy.
Lack of better words.
Man-made.
Yeah, so, I mean, why is this such a big deal, though?
What?
Won't you just slam a damn butt plug in there and just leave it in there?
You ain't got a.
You see what I'm saying?
Yeah, that's a good idea, man.
Just take your butt plug and just slam it in there.
Take some duct tape and just tape it on the outside so it won't come out.
Well, you got to tape it.
I'm pretty sure she's pretty tight.
I mean, if a doctor's going to make a man-made sugar balls, I want it tight.
Yeah, just go get a butt plug and shove it up in there.
Don't get a huge butt plug.
Just give one to just keep it open.
Yeah, don't get no butt plug.
Just gonna leave you gaping the hell open.
You know, so you don't have to do that.
I would do that.
I mean, I'm just talking out of my ass right now.
I don't know what you're going through.
Yeah.
But I would think put a plug up around.
But seriously, just think about men getting sex changes so they can feel like a woman.
You're already a woman.
You just gotta...
I mean, you're already a woman.
You just got a dick.
Right?
That's how you do it.
Men can have.
I mean, women can have dicks too, right?
So if that's true, why the hell are you chopping it off?
Men could get pregnant.
Yeah, so why are you chopping it off?
I don't get it.
If men can have dicks, why are you going to chop it?
I mean, I'm sorry.
If women can have dicks, why are you going to chop it off?
Yeah.
Men can have babies.
Yeah.
It's like y'all lying to yourself.
It's like a lie because you're getting so caught up in all your lies.
Oh, I'm just going to go and get this sex change.
You know, women don't have muscles.
I mean, it's crazy what modern technology can do.
When I look at you, I do not see a man.
Yeah, you look at it.
I see a hot white bitch.
That was a gay one.
You even got little cute freckles on your face.
Yeah, pull a picture up.
I like freckles on a girl.
Yeah, freckles are a huge turn-on, man.
Oh, man.
Even if it's a dude, man.
Look at them cute little freckles, man.
Look at them nice full lips.
Them tits ain't bad.
Doc did good with them tits.
Damn, doctor, man.
I commend his work.
Well, her face got softened up because I'm sure she's on estrogen.
It softens the face up.
Because estrogen puts on a layer of little body fat.
It does?
Yeah, that's why women...
You notice a woman can get fatty.
Women can get big.
A woman can get like a damn because of their estrogen.
Yeah.
And it's like a mechanism in that body.
If you like really skinny as a woman, your body fats.
You don't even have a period.
So it's like that estrogen has something to do with that.
Shut up.
A lot of women in a bodybuilding, they get muscular, they get too tight, they get too cut, they can't even have periods.
They can't have, they don't.
Don't shut up.
I ain't done talking.
Can you shut up?
Why you say they can't have periods?
It's not like they're trying to have it.
I'm just saying, in the literal terms, they can't have periods.
Yeah.
If they do, they spot for like 10 minutes.
Like my wife, when I first got with her, she was a cross-country runner.
She used to lift weights and all that.
She's real cut.
When I first met her, her periods were horrible.
She would be in a fetal position and like two drops of blood would come out.
Estrogen and Body Fat00:01:14
It was horrible.
She would like OD on my doll every month.
Yeah.
I don't know how the hell I got on that topic, but.
Hey, but anyway, I take it what she's saying is when you get this sex change operation, it's like kind of like getting your ears pierced.
If you don't keep the earring in, it eventually close on you.
Well, that's man.
You're not even comparing apples to oranges, man.
Well, it's the same.
Just compared apples to oranges.
It's the same gist, though.
It's the same.
It might be the same gist, but it's not even the same league.
Well, that's all I'm saying.
It's the same.
They made a they carved her out of some sugar walls.
Yeah, she said complication.
I had complications.
Of course, why wouldn't you have complications when they just chopping off and putting a hole in your ass?
Yeah, I'm not.
Yeah, I'm having complications.
They have complications when they're taking diseased-infested stuff growing out of people, out of people.
Yeah.
You're taking, chopping off normally healthy body parts.
That's not normal.
That's not good for your body.
Of course, you're going to have complications.
I don't think that's not even complications.
I mean, what's happening to you is normal.
Yeah, that's a trauma.
Yeah.
They call it a sex chain, but you intentionally, how much?