Jon Zherka exposes male-female dynamics, arguing women reject idle men while rewarding providers, and advocates waiting six dates for sex to maintain power. He critiques Gen Z's shyness versus wealthy men's direct commands, warns against intoxicated harassment by friend AB, and fears surgical advancements blur gender lines in clubs. Promoting a "red pill" view against feminism, he notes fame hinders commitment and concludes that Miami's fast-paced culture favors older, wealthy men over younger ones. [Automatically generated summary]
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Deepening Bonds Without Sex00:08:02
Six months.
Holy shit, he's gay as hell.
Bang this girl only one time.
Yeah.
You gotta be gay, nigga.
Yeah.
But you would never know for looking at him.
Yeah.
Because he, so, so.
I even think straight guys, most of them are gay because they tell me they spend eight hours a day talking to a woman.
And I'm like, if I don't fuck her immediately, I will never, ever spend eight hours.
You know how much money you can make in eight hours?
If you have time for eight hours of talking to another human, you're the highest level of loser in the universe.
And if you put that hours into work, Every girl says, I like him.
He's working, you know.
They reward you for working, yeah.
You know, women reward men who are working if they see you working all the time, they give you more.
That's just how it is.
If your man was home with you all day versus working, would you respect him?
It's taking you out, you guys having fun, but he wasn't working, just chilling with you all day.
Nah, I don't even like when people like you can talk to me all day, like text me all day.
I think that that's annoying.
Like, why are you not doing your job?
Yeah, and like, I think.
It's, I say that now, but like when me and my fiance first started dating, yeah, he would not text me throughout the entire day.
Like, he, I wouldn't hear from him.
I was like, Does he not even like me?
Like, I was like, I don't even know if he likes me, but all of a sudden, like, he'll talk to me at the end of the day, and he was like, and that'll be that.
But like, oh, there's studies that show if you're texting someone all day, they don't perceive you as an adult, yeah, they don't see you as an adult, they see you as a teenager, which really scares a girl.
If she thinks you're a teenager brain, she goes, Oh, he's not gonna take care of me, he's still a teen.
But if they go, oh, he's busy, that's an adults are busy.
Yeah, that's such a very good point you brought up.
What about you?
Your man's chilling with you all day, text you back and forth.
Yeah, I have no respect for a man that doesn't get off his lazy ass and doesn't go out and provide.
Like, you know, there is no reason, absolutely.
Bro, look into the studies of women watching their boyfriends chilling on a couch and how hard they get turned off by that.
Look into those studies.
It's like women start panicking if they see their boyfriend just watching a movie.
They start panicking.
Like, why is he watching a movie in the middle of the day?
Like, what the fuck is he doing?
What about you?
If your man was chilling with you all day, not working?
I just feel like I have a life too.
So, like, I don't have time to chill with him all day.
Yeah.
Like, I have things I'm doing.
I don't see why he.
I don't know.
I don't feel like I need to always spend time with a man to feel secure.
I want to spend time with him, but, like, I don't need to spend, like, hours and hours at a time with him.
It kind of gets, like, old for me.
Like, I get, like, annoyed where I'm just, like, are you doing good?
Like,.
Sometimes it's actually just easier to like go on a date, have sex with someone, and like not be chilling, you know?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Like just get to the point.
Yeah, she gets it.
Yeah.
Get to the point.
I don't have time to waste.
Like, we just.
It's like, are we compatible or not?
Yeah.
Like, hurry up.
Yeah.
Like, I don't want to like spend hours on a date.
Yeah.
It's like, why are you spending hours?
You wanted to fuck her in the first five minutes.
That's why you went up to her.
You already.
I have to get to know her.
No, you don't.
You went up to her.
You're already horny.
What the fuck?
I think attraction is like.
Is in your face when you talk to a girl for the first time, you know what's gonna happen.
For example, you meet a guy, right?
He goes up to you, you know, in the first five minutes.
All right, he's weird, he's cool.
You know what?
Yeah, I might smash him later on if he's still cool, right?
I have a six rule, I don't fuck anyone until I go out and like hang out with him for at least six times.
Six times is a lot.
That's a long time.
That's no, like that's six dates.
Yeah, like six times hanging out, or yeah, that's a lot.
What, and I used to not be that way, like I said.
But like nowadays, it's so easy.
I could get dick like a hundred times in a day.
It's too easy out here and it's so nasty.
I want you to imagine something, right?
It's so disgusting.
You're telling me you make dudes wait six dates to smash you.
That's a whole month.
Holy shit.
Yo, yo, yo, that's insane, bro.
Yeah.
Bro, that's insane.
It's so nasty out here.
I just, I'm not looking to get an STD or to, like, I'd rather risk it.
Like 20, 25.
I swear I'd rather risk an STD.
And I've never had an STD.
I don't know how, but I'm doing great, right?
No, I love condoms.
I love condoms.
I'm really smart.
But.
And I haven't fucked that much, but you check this out.
Head, I get head.
But check this out.
I'm telling you right now, I would much rather risk an STD than waste a month of my time.
Thanks.
That a month is how much money is in a month?
Bro.
Holy shit.
They want to tell me you got to spend?
We're not getting to know each other.
I'd rather.
But you have three kids, nigga.
With the same guy.
Yeah, she's loyal.
She's loyal.
Actually, I feel like guys decide if they like a girl, like actually like a girl, after they have sex with each other.
Exactly.
Yeah, 100%.
I feel like you could literally have sex with a guy like, Five minutes after meeting him, and if he actually likes you, he will like it's contrary to what we believe as women.
Like, we think, oh, if we're too easy, we're just gonna abandon us.
But, like, if he actually really likes you, yeah, that's my theory about it, honestly.
Like, all my actual, like, real, like, flings are like long term flings.
We're like, first night I smashed, yeah, and it was like, oh, she's cool as well, yeah, like, I like her, but I think there's nothing scarier than there's nothing scarier than when you like a girl.
And then you do smash, and then you go, Oh, this has to be my girlfriend in the first hour, and you have to hide it from her like, Oh, she's got power.
You gotta lower your power level.
If she senses it, she fucks you over.
You have to hide that shit.
It's true.
But no, to your point, I'm not saying it's bad, but I'm just saying, I don't know what guy would wait a month to smash.
That nigga's a weirdo, just saying.
But hey, if you're doing it, props to you.
No, look, waiting a month wouldn't be so bad if the rules were fair, but here's the real rules are if no, everyone else is fucking.
Everyone else is fucking so you don't know what she's doing for a month.
You have to kind of trust that she's not fucking someone else.
If the rules were fair and everyone was loyal, then a month wouldn't be horrific.
But since the rules are like people don't wait, you know, crazy in certain parts of Europe, they smash first and date after.
Yes, like France, yeah, France.
And I'm like, you're telling me that in Europe, you meet somebody, yeah, y'all smash in the first day or two, you're smashing.
Then it's okay.
I like this girl, like this guy, we're gonna date.
That's it.
There's no like wait a month, Steve Harvey, 90 days, bitch.
Nah, it's we're smashing.
And then let's see if we're compatible.
So I think nowadays that is seen as like, I don't want to say hedonistic, but in all reality, the carnal nature is to figure out if we're compatible or not.
I think the number one thing, something even better than fucking to find out if you guys are good together, there's one thing higher is when you, if you party with her, if you do like a three day bender with her, you don't fuck her, but you guys are partying together, then your bond deepens so much that it's impossible not to love sex with each other.
So, I think bonding is the most bonding you can do is partying with a girl.
That's why I recommend people are like, what's the best first date?
I don't believe in that.
Go to a festival with her.
You guys will love each other out of those three days when you're done.
But you go to the club with her, you could hate her.
It could get weird fast.
I think a lounge is perfect.
A lounge is more intimate.
What do you mean a lounge?
Like, name something.
For example, like here in Brickell, there's Gecko.
Okay.
That's a lounge.
Okay.
There's also like Rosa Sky, this sugar lounge.
There's also T Realty.
What about a house party?
Have you ever pulled off a house party and you're like, this is the best shit ever?
That could work too.
What I'm saying is, in an intimate setting like that, is you and her, you may get some drinks or whatever, and you can really feel her out.
Party Harder, Date Less00:14:33
And what's happening is eye contact, connection, one on one.
You get up, dance a little bit, drink some more if you want to, and then back to the crib.
That's like four dates in one, basically.
Now, obviously speaking, you need some game through that.
But if you can master that, you're pretty much good to go.
But one more time, though, we've got another video here by AB.
And look, AB's a dope boxer.
He's one of the best.
Don't you know that blonde as well?
That's your friend, that blonde.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I know most of them.
And the crazy part is that, like, in this video, it gets even worse, bro.
I don't know who gave him liquor, but that was a bad idea.
Like, this is actually how he acts when he's drunk.
No, no, this is like, look, he's a good dude, but when he's drunk, oh my god, this is bad.
Here we go.
That's crazy.
I'll kiss the child.
I'll kiss the child.
Where's the seasoning?
They don't.
She's gonna be a bitch, I'll leave, though.
Nah, I don't play with women.
All that playing.
I don't play with women, gang.
I'm that nigga.
I'm really him, bro.
I don't care how beautiful a woman is.
None of that, bro.
I make my own millions.
Don't nobody do a round for me.
Don't nobody run a mile for me.
None of that.
I don't care about a beautiful woman.
So if she want to go, let her go.
Nigga, I'm rich already, gang.
I'm me.
I'm me, bro.
I built it.
Let's kiss for the chat.
Okay, Zerga.
I want to defend him.
I don't give a fuck, bro.
That's a world champion.
She's a fucking loser, nobody.
Let's be real.
But that's a world champion.
Fucking two titles.
Like, who is she?
Who is she?
She's another fucking woman on.
No, I agree.
At a party?
Are you doing all that in front of her?
I'm not.
That's a little too much.
That's a little too much.
Just let her.
Goodbye, darling.
That's what you're supposed to say.
If someone wants to leave, just goodbye.
Yeah, hold on.
But there's more.
There's just one more there.
But he's mad that she's leaving his party, right?
That's it.
He wanted a kiss.
She said no.
Oh, yeah, oh, what the and then, yeah, I mean, yeah, yeah, she, yeah, if she says no, she gotta leave, but, but, wishfully, just get no, no, just get no, he, but he's drinking too.
Like, what do you want me to judge a drunk guy?
No, no, no, but my point is, sometimes your homeboy can up, yeah, I mean, the best thing to do is you grab your homie by the ear, you take him to the side, and you say, You get no tonight if you keep doing this, if you listen to me, you will have a good night, and the guys who don't.
Believe you, they go, nah, Zirka's just the guys who don't believe you at the end of the night when they get no pussy, they go, Zirka went home with those girls.
I should have listened to him next time, they're straight.
But most guys, if you take them aside, they snap out of it.
I, yeah, bro, I've even been told, man, I've been told, like, hey, Zirka, if you're a little less toxic, these bitches are.
And then I come back to my senses and I go, okay, but hold on, you're able to adapt and adjust.
Yes, what are the homeboys like just going overboard?
Doesn't give a fuck.
You need someone more aggressive than him to grab him and say, yo, stop fucking scaring the hoes, but, but, but, Dean is the guy to do it.
Everyone has to tell Dean.
Watch this.
Here we go.
Hey.
Here.
I want to fuck too.
I want to fuck.
Bro, you scared, bro.
That's why she wants to go home, cat.
Let her go home.
I'm going to suck that pussy.
He's going to fuck.
He don't want to suck that pussy.
You go with him, he's going to fuck you and pound your pussy.
That's crazy.
I'm trying to finesse your pussy.
That sounds like a better deal.
No, fuck the chat.
I'm trying to fuck this bitch.
Nope.
No, no.
Bro, look, that nigga, goddamn, girl, cuz, let me fucking rock, gang.
Fuck, my nigga.
I love you, rock.
Straight up.
Circuit, if that was you with the girl, your home was doing this, what would you do?
I'm identity.
Every time Dean says, yo, you're doing too much, you're being weird, even in the bed when he said that, I'm identical to Dean, that's.
You have to address it because I'm telling you, if you wait, it gets worse and worse.
If someone's drunk, nothing stops the drunkness from getting worse.
So it's like you have to shock them out of apathy, right?
You gotta.
Hold on, it gets worse.
I also think.
No way, it gets worse than this.
I also think that if you don't say anything, like if you as a man don't say anything, the girl's gonna leave.
Like, I'm not going home with you either.
I'm in a weird spot.
Yeah.
It's like you're trying to respect your friend.
I'm really shorty right now, trying to close this shit.
Nigga, you're being weird.
It's scaring the hoes off.
But there's also a rule of like.
You're not supposed to go be around hoes with guys who are not aware, you know?
Well, I would never.
The girls like it.
Earlier, you said that, oh, the girls would be so wet if, like, a guy was doing that.
Have you had two guys fight for you?
She's laughing about it.
She laughed at it after the check.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
She doesn't laugh.
But from a guy's perspective, yeah, you've got to stand up for yourself, I guess.
But what did she just say?
She didn't laugh after Dean checked.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
It wasn't in the moment.
It just turned around.
When her man's defense.
The guy's defending.
But I say this though.
If this was my homie, I wouldn't go out with him.
Like, I've got homies.
No, no, no.
Look, I got homies who like drinking more than pulling bitches.
I don't go out with those guys.
It's like back in the good old days, everyone would say Zerka likes cocaine more than the women.
That's why the women would chase me.
They're like, oh, he's in his own world.
He doesn't want to fuck me.
He just wants to get more high.
And they'd be more safe around me than the guys just trying to fuck him.
But if I'm around a homie who likes drugs or alcohol more than getting women, I say I'd rather go out with Fresh because Fresh.
Fresh is like, he doesn't waste a Friday or Saturday.
I hate wasting a Friday or Saturday.
Like, what?
I at least need to meet someone beautiful.
Just meet.
That's it.
Like, I'm not wasting a Friday or Saturday.
Because usually I'm sober anyway.
I'm all sober.
And then, like, I'm with a girl.
No, and you're aware.
You go, I went out tonight.
I spent this much on food and drinks.
Yeah.
That's not for free.
No.
If you ever spend money on food and drinks and you met zero women, do not go outside.
You're a fucking loser.
I see.
Have you seen everyone down in Miami?
Yeah.
They all hang out with their boys and then go home at 3 a.m.
I'm like, bro, you spent $250 USD doing nothing.
And oh, it was with my bros.
Then go fucking to the arcade.
Like, what are you doing?
The people are so.
If I spend money, I'm meeting people or I'm cold approaching or I'm talking to someone on the street.
Or I'm telling you, I will always pull something out of my Friday or Saturday.
And usually I don't fuck the girls, but they'll always introduce me to something.
You know, they'll help me with something.
You know.
I need an ROI.
Yeah, exactly.
Exactly.
Yeah.
If you're out here just winging it, chilling with homeboys on a block, that's stupid, bro.
Yeah.
All right.
It's like when people are like, yo, come get lit with me, Zerka.
No, because there's no podcast.
If we're doing a podcast, we can get drunk.
I'm not getting drunk just to get drunk.
That's such a waste of time.
I'm such a funny guy.
Put a microphone in front of me, you know?
Getting drunk just to get drunk is retarded.
Yeah, that's just stupid.
All right.
There you go.
He's cock blocking hardcore, though.
All the clip pharma shit is good, game, but you're doing too much, my nigga.
Go over there.
No.
Come on, bro.
Good thing.
Very good.
I ain't getting mad over no pussy, but I'm getting mad over you.
It's just like, come on, this is the principle.
And then he's drooling, you make her read it out.
Because he's split and drooling.
No, he's drooling.
But she owns us though.
I'm out of knock, bro.
Hey, how far you're gonna follow them?
I put good on this hole.
On this hole, I put good.
I swear.
Hey, did that.
She got asked though.
Is his arm broken?
I put good on his arm.
God damn, my nigga, what the fuck, bro?
No, but I. You're gonna fucking rock, gang.
No, but I put good on his arm.
Don't go do that, nigga.
Go to hell over there with your feet.
Bro, on his arm.
Dean is funny.
Bro, I put good on his arm.
Dean is funny.
You always mad.
You're mad.
You're always mad.
Go over there, gang.
Go over there, gang.
Go over there, bro.
What?
Go over there, bro.
Go that way.
Nigga, I got a point.
Nigga, go that way.
Oh, you want me with this?
I got a point.
You look that way.
I'm about to go over there.
No.
The whole day.
You love her?
No.
No.
No, we got to make this clear.
Do you love her?
Bro, what are you doing, gang?
Do you love her?
Man, I don't go fuck out mad you get, cut.
Funny dumbass.
You love her?
Go, you stalking now, nigga.
You know, it's time.
I got homies like that.
I still always invite them out because they're funny, and I always regret it.
I'm like, damn, he got too drunk.
How was Adrian Broder actually?
You met him?
You know, we had him on a podcast before.
Oh, really?
Was he that lit?
Nah, he got lit, bro.
He got lit.
But no, but it was a bunch of girls, so it didn't matter.
Imagine your homies got to close a girl, right, bro?
And that's what he's doing to you.
That's crazy, bro.
Yeah.
I don't think that's ever happened to me, though.
Like, I'm.
I'm kind of like you, you know, like when we, you, anytime we're together and there's weirdos somewhere, you and I kind of go to the corner and we get the bitches and we disappear.
Yeah.
So, all right.
Um, we got another video here as well.
I want you guys to see.
This one's actually pretty funny because, um, Zerka, honestly, I've been here.
Oh, they're trans.
But hold on.
You wouldn't know unless you, like, yeah, I've been here before.
I've been, I've had this problem.
I swear I've had this on camera.
Yeah, you can never tell.
You can.
Like, she embarrassed me on camera.
I couldn't tell she's trans, and she sat on my lap, and the whole chat's laughing.
I'm like, oh, you know how to absolutely 100% tell?
No, no, you get it's impossible to tell.
No, it's not.
Yo, can you tell?
Oh, that looks like a woman.
What the hell?
Yo, no, it doesn't.
No, it doesn't.
It looks like a Miami woman.
If you're drunk in a club, right?
And you're not all the way there, and you're a dude horny as hell, you would go for that, bro.
No, I wouldn't.
I wouldn't.
No, Hear me out.
Hear me out.
Hear me out.
I live in Miami.
I've been here for a while.
He's saying in a dark club where the lights are flashing blue, green.
You would think it's a.
She would fool you.
Bro, I am sober when I go out, right?
I'm literally sober.
I see everything.
I'm like, he's kissing the tranny, but he doesn't know.
He's lit.
Holy shit.
Bro, the surgery nowadays, it ain't that good, by the way, but for a guy, teasing ass.
If you ever want to know if someone's trans, shake their hand.
Because a man's, a woman's hand folds and a man's won't.
What do you mean by that?
Shake his hand.
Shake her hand and shake his hand.
No, squeeze it.
No, her knuckles together.
See how it folds?
Now do his.
Oh, oh, the stiffness is there.
It doesn't fold.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, I've thought of that too before.
But see, this is my point, though.
You're.
She got hand surgery?
You're fucked.
Very evolving.
But what's given me that, like, nowadays, look at the comments of her actual videos, her posts.
They say, no, fuck it, I don't care.
Whoa, that's fucked up.
That's fucked up.
Those guys are gay, bro.
That is right.
Look at the comments, bro.
I'm like, I don't care.
They're down bad.
Oh, you could tell it's a dude on the video.
How about you, Drake?
Oh, wow.
Look at you.
W trans community, they're winning.
They're fooling.
I just want to bring awareness because this is scary.
And the more this is happening and people don't realize this shit, you don't want to be embarrassed, bro.
Because, dude, I'm there like, let's think about the fuck of training.
Why?
I think that there's a rule to guarding yourself.
You just got to make videos.
Many videos online saying that if the trendies, you know, maybe in 20 years they get good enough, no one can tell.
Yeah.
If I find out you're a dude and I kissed you, I thought you were a girl.
Here's the number one rule you just beat the shit out of them, go to jail for that.
That'll win your honor back too.
You just attack them because that's illegal what they did.
That's rape.
That's rape what they did to you.
If you, that's why I say I'll make a video and I'll be like, if anyone ever did that to me in 20 years when they can do that, when the technology is strong enough.
I think the rule is you scare the fuck out of them.
They say, oh, maybe not Zerka.
Maybe I'll try this guy.
This guy will actually beat me with a stick.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, it will put fear.
But this man said on one of his videos saying, I don't have to tell anybody that I'm trans.
That's crazy, bro.
That's crazy.
So, so, so.
I mean, men do that too.
Like, they pretend they have money.
They pretend they have money and they fuck the girl and she finds out he's poor.
Yeah.
They lie too.
Yeah.
But this is disgusting.
Yeah, this is crazy.
I feel like that's.
Literally against your will.
I'm sorry.
Yeah.
No, it is.
And it's a man you're kissing.
Imagine kissing a dude with a penis.
That's why I stay sober in the clubs.
All right.
What's the next one?
I'm telling you, man.
It's wild.
This pickup actually here was insane.
Now, it may not be real, but the idea behind it is kind of real.
So here we go.
It's always some Zoomer cook.
Yo, you are so bad.
Is this your girl?
Like, I'm better.
I'm not going to lie.
I'm better, bro.
My bad, G.
I had to.
Club Confidence and Lies00:06:31
She's so bad.
Look at her.
I had to.
Stole that shit.
That's what I do, nigga.
What's your name?
Alex.
I live.
Fear of basketball.
From the moment I started.
Alright, G. Have a good one, brother.
Let's go.
You're gonna come with me tonight.
I think it's fake.
I'm not gonna lie.
She's a terrible hoe.
What the fuck?
So, I think it might be fake.
It might be stage.
Yeah.
Either way, this happened.
This just happened outside, though.
I swear to God, let me clap mugs.
Yeah, that is like a bro.
If I see the frizzy hair zoomer, you know, like the zoomer, skinny kid, whatever this archetype is with the curly hair, you know what I'm talking about.
If I see this guy in public, nine times out of ten, I'll his girlfriend in front of him.
Like, they are the biggest cocks.
If I see someone like a millennial, yeah, they'll fight it a bit, but if it's a zoomer, they just get quiet and autistic and weird.
And if the zoomers are not built for the dating world, you know, 80% of them are not even drinking.
Like these kids up until young kids.
Young kids.
Yeah, very young kids.
Gen Z, Generation Zoomer.
They're shy.
Yeah, well, they're autistic and they don't drink.
And I don't think drinking is a good thing.
But if you're telling me 80% of them are not drinking, you're really telling me they're not going outside.
If they're not going outside, they'll never retain a woman.
Like, imagine when you talk to her and he just freezes.
Bro, if someone talks to your girl, it's time to die.
You might have to die.
They're like, bro, what the fuck?
Yeah, defending your honor is a big thing.
But they see it as, yo, like, just take it, bro.
What am I going to do?
Really?
The worst part is the, like.
Well, no, maybe if it's a turbo hole, you don't have to always defend a turbo bike as your girlfriend.
But imagine, this is probably a stage event, right?
But in real life, this happens all the time.
For example, hey, babe, I'm going to the bathroom.
Yeah.
To the bathroom, the sniper comes in.
Yo, what's your name?
What's your Instagram?
You know what's funny?
The number one factor of stealing someone's girl is always aggression.
You notice a guy and he's really talking to her for hours.
She likes him, but she can sense he's a pussy.
And then she's going to the bathroom and you grab her by the arm and you pull her close on some like going to prison shit.
And she smiles.
And you know, you knew she's going to smile because you saw her.
Talking to him for three hours.
You know how bored women get?
Yeah.
If you don't break the touch barrier, if you don't, they hate that.
It's like, bro, are you a man or what?
You even see some guys at the dance floor, they keep grabbing on women, and the woman says, no, no, no.
And then some beautiful woman just says, okay.
And he takes her in five minutes at the dance floor, and you're in the VIP section saying, wait a minute.
Wait a minute.
How did he do that?
And the only difference is aggression.
Because, you know, a lot of guys are afraid, oh, she's going to throw a drink on me.
Dude, if she's at the club, be more aggressive than the Zoomer.
Like, actually, and a lot of people are like, What do you say to get the number?
I say, Give me your number.
No, I don't, you don't have to talk to one, say, Give me your number.
Here, give me your number.
That's it.
Is it better than that?
What girls really want?
No, you know what I mean?
No, honestly, I know this sounds ridiculous.
This guy told me a story that he was in a hotel lobby, he just came back from the club, and he saw two hot girls in the lobby, and he literally just went up to them and was like, Let's go.
Yeah, yes, yes.
Yes, all you said was, Let's go.
Yes.
And they went.
Yes.
Because women like men who lead.
Yes.
It was no games.
It was no high.
What's your name?
It was literally, yes.
Go.
And they were like, period.
It's like when you see Fresh on the.
Is this attractive?
Yeah.
Well, no, no.
Look, when you see Fresh.
Obviously, that helps.
Because none of it is like some ugly looking eye.
If you see Fresh on the street walk up to two girls, he doesn't have something planned to say.
He whips out his phone like this, goes, hey, ladies, are you having a good night?
And as soon as he whips out his phone, They take out their phones because they know what he's doing.
When you see Fresh, whoa, beautiful.
But they immediately exchange within a minute, and Fresh doesn't waste his time.
Yeah, it's like you get the number and just fucking go.
In and out.
Also, you know what?
When you decide, I want her.
Yeah.
That's all it takes.
Yeah.
But you got to decide out for yourself.
Yeah.
The funny part is, like, if you're just like confident, hey, what's your name?
Where you from?
Yeah.
You know what?
Let's hang out sometime.
This, this, why directness is always rewarded with strangers is because she immediately assumes, oh, He asked for my number in two seconds.
That means if I don't give it, he has the power to do that to the next girl, and they might have fun, and I might have a horrible night.
And then they have horrible nights.
Look at all the celebrities you see that are at clubs, right?
You know what happens?
They're like, you know what?
I'm the shit.
Yeah.
I want her.
Come with us.
It's like, yeah, that's the Chris Brown thing.
The Chris Brown thing is like, but why did it?
Why did it's called because they know who they are as men.
I feel like you can't compare those types of people because you have to.
You know why?
Because as a man, your confidence comes from within.
If I have accomplished things in life, I've worked on myself, I've actually made things happen, aka podcasts.
I've dug good on my job, I've made a bunch of money.
I should be confident because I've done that shit, right?
So when I go out now, I'm going to show that to the world.
So, hot girl, listen, she's not better than me.
I'm the shit.
Come over here, come with us.
It's done.
It's not like, do you want to come over here?
It's confidence.
It's who I am.
So, as a celebrity, why are they confident?
Multiple albums sold, shows, tours.
Oh, we want you so bad.
There's nothing for them.
So, I'm not saying you should be a celebrity.
I'm just saying have that confidence and power to say, you know what?
I'm the man.
I want her.
That's it.
Yeah, because technically she won't know you're a loser until after.
You can remember.
I used to think talking to them a lot is like, oh, I'm going to stand out.
Then maybe.
Everyone's just trying to fuck.
I stand out talking to her a lot.
Actually, no, they hate you for it.
They despise you for talking a lot.
They despise you.
They think you're a coward.
Action.
Yeah, it's all about action.
And another thing is like if you're working at Walmart, it's really hard to say, come here.
But if you're a CEO, it's really easy to just put your arm on a stranger.
So that's what I'm saying is like if you're broke, nothing we say is going to make sense to you.
Like nothing.
I've seen fat guys pull up.
To clubs, yeah, and get a table.
They're by themselves.
I'm like, Nick is a fat turd, yeah, bro.
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Within an hour, come over here, pop a bottle.
The club gives you, uh, tell me if I'm wrong, if I'm wrong, right?
In the club, you could be a lame, a weirdo, a fat soul, right?
When you get a table at a club, yeah, you become that guy, yeah, you got a two hour power play, it gives you confidence, yeah.
And I'm just like, imagine you're not in the club if you have that same confidence, what you could do, yeah.
So if a fat guy that's out of shape.
Out of breath, can pull these holes.
Why can't you?
Yeah, are they pulling holes or are they just having them for those two hours while they're in the club so they can sit down?
No, Is DJ Khaled fucking?
DJ Khaled's fucking.
Some girls will leave for sure, but what I'm saying is they actually have the confidence to say, you know what?
I'm gonna make this happen.
Don't make it happen.
Whether they appear or not, don't make it happen.
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All right.
We're going to do QAs here for the guys.
Huh?
QA for the people in the comments?
For Zerka.
Dave.
Okay.
I have to answer.
So he's an expert dating coach here.
He's been coaching men for years now.
I'm a red pill dating coach because there are other kinds of dating coaches that are like, bro, one of the highest paid dating coaches teaches men 1950s tactics.
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Pretty much, you have to get to really know her and blah, blah.
Have you seen dating coaches that don't have the red pill installed in it?
Yeah.
It's all cope.
And they still get views, they still get a lot of views, yeah, because it's palatable, it's not as hard.
It's but that's evil, like selling a lie.
That's like selling a lie.
But you know what it is about people, though?
They're already they're rather be sold a lie than a truth, yeah.
If I can lie to you and you make you feel good, they'll pay, like, even women, no offense.
I can tell them, that's real.
If I'm your dream man, if you just like be independent and be a boss, babe, you got this girl, yeah, I'll make millions, but it's a lie, though, yeah.
But that's what they want to hear, but that's how they sold body positivity, like, that's how they sold a lot of stuff, yeah, like, we got.
To this point where we're like, oh yeah, like love yourself the way you are.
Like, girl, you need to go on a diet.
Like, feminism also was a lie, too.
Yeah, you have all you could have, you could be equal to us, you could be like, like men, you could have what you want and have a family.
Yeah, that was a fucking lie.
Now you taking care of the kids and going to work.
This shit is hard.
I'm a feminist.
You're caught in the trap, but you can have three kids and do cocaine.
You can do it all.
You can have it all.
So, did you was the beeper actually broken that night?
No.
Oh, it wasn't.
You were just hearing shit.
Yeah, man, I hate that for me.
That's what it was.
No, I'll never use cocaine again.
But that means it's good coke if you're hearing shit.
What does cocaine feel like?
Like an anxiety attack.
No, I don't think it's one.
Yeah, literally, like, I'll never use cocaine.
Here's what cocaine feels like.
It's just a sharp voice in your head saying, fight him.
Fuck her.
Fight him.
Fuck her.
Anytime you see a man.
Bro, I'm telling you.
Anytime you see a man.
If you're doing a bunch of coke, anytime you see a man, you hear a voice saying, punch him.
Anytime you see a woman, you say, fuck her.
It's like.
It's like your sense is maximized.
That's what I was.
Yeah, yeah.
So you always feel that way.
No, I'm talking about like if you do a bunch of coke, you're either fighting people or fucking women.
You're doing nothing else or looking for it.
You're looking for trouble, right?
I heard if you do coke, your dick won't get up.
Yeah, it won't.
But mentally, you need touch.
You need, like, bro, the horniest people on earth are cocaine addicts.
Even if their dick doesn't work, they want to talk her ear off in the bedroom, right?
They go, I want to do this.
I want to do this with my life.
Like, they sell her.
Really?
Yeah, coke is horrible.
It's like the worst drug ever made in history.
It's horrible.
Like, think about it.
I want to start a business on cocaine.
Do it on Adderall.
Do it on Adderall.
That's a lot of people do that.
On cocaine, you can't do it.
It's the worst drug ever made.
I don't know how it's so popular.
It's horrible, you know?
That's why I do ketamine now.
That's the opposite.
That's like tranquilized.
What about 2C?
2C is the look.
I'm not promoting drugs, but.
Holy fuck, is it a mystical experience?
Is it a cosmic psychedelic experience?
Like, if you obviously you could die if you do this, but if you do 2C with a girl, bro, you see her for what she is.
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You see her whole soul.
It's like an MDMA experience, but a little different, more psychedelic, depending on what kind of 2C you have.
And dude, you love her with your heart chakra blown wide open.
It's the deepest.
Obviously, it's so bad because it burns out your serotonin.
So you want to kill yourself after.
Yeah, it's.
Oh, it's strong.
It's 2C is strong, right?
But man, like the drugs are getting way too powerful out here.
It's like way too.
Ask Adam22, right?
He likes 2C.
He'll tell you how powerful it gets.
It's so, drugs are so bad, man.
That's scary.
Yeah.
And alcohol.
Alcohol is horrible too.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I'm good.
Cheers.
Cheers.
I'll just drink some water.
Okay.
Any questions for Zerka at all before we head out here?
Any last questions?
Comments?
What's the longest relationship you've ever had?
For me, it was two years.
And a lot of people laugh at that.
They're like, oh, that's so short.
For me, that was a long time.
It felt like 10 years.
I swear.
I felt like that was a marriage.
Two years is a long time.
And it was the best two years of my life, you know.
Like a lot of red pill guys don't admit it.
I love being in a relationship because it's like, you know, when you gotta not worry about missing variables and factors, and you're not upsetting many people if you're a player, you're upsetting multiple women at the same time.
Yeah, you can't keep up, but upsetting only one person is like you can always recover, you can always, and it's weird because the fame doesn't allow, like, if you have a bit of status, not like playing video games fame, but like if you're known as like, oh, the women like this Zerka guy, if you have that kind of fame.
It blocks relationship life because all you're thinking in your head is, I've only had this life for a couple of years.
Like, I don't want to be an old man right now.
Yeah.
You know?
Yeah.
I don't want to be.
You want to enjoy it?
Yeah.
But before the fame, a relationship made so much sense.
Like, oh, I get it.
You have nothing to do besides go to Walmart with it.
You have nothing to do.
But if you have fame, it's like you're, I was in Argentina a month, Brazil a month, Colombia a month.
I have Tokyo next.
It never ends.
It never ends.
And to settle down is just so depressing to think about.
It's tough.
Yeah.
And I have to eventually.
Like, my parents really, in eight years, they said, you got to do it.
Wait, are you 32?
I'm 32.
So, like, we might have to have kids very soon.
Yeah.
Right?
Kids before marriage.
Good idea.
Yeah.
What?
Talking to Italian.
I want some Italian kids.
There you go.
I'm trying to pop them out too.
Really?
Yeah.
I thought.
Aren't you too young for this?
No, no, no.
I'm 28.
You're 28.
Yeah.
I told Walter earlier as we were walking the dog, I was like, Walter, I'm going to pop.
Them out, not with him.
If it comes out looking like fresh, it's like, What the fuck?
I already have a kid, I have my dog, and I'm pretty.
But don't you think about it in like five years, you should have a child?
Yeah, no, no, I do want to have a kid one day.
I just don't do it right now.
Yeah, you know, do you see yourself 33?
Do you see yourself with a kid but probably no woman in your visions, or is there a woman 100%?
100% woman, really?
Because I, it's wild because like.
Before I'd ever want to have a girlfriend just because I lifestyle, but the more as I get older, I'm like, damn, like someone I care about, actually, like respect and love better than five girls one time, yeah, you know.
And it's funny in the moment, but it's like, bro, I got to do with this person, that person's emotions.
Holy, I just want peace, I just want peace, bro.
But yeah, but when I think of all the podcast guys doing it big, none of them have girlfriends because you know, as soon as you're dating a girl and she starts complaining as you're setting up a podcast, you get the fuck out, what the fuck, you don't have time for this, yeah.
This is the only entertainment job where you don't have time for other humans.
You're like, you it's hard, yeah, because you do want it, but with all the going on, like you gotta focus.
I think if you have a quiet life, it's so easy.
If you have a more like whatever this is, this kind of life, yeah, really tough, you know.
Yeah, I think for a guy though, like you should have a girl that you could trust and respect and love, but yeah, to find out now it is, it's tough, bro.
Like, you'll look, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's out there though.
Really, no, no, no, it is.
I think there's a lot like of people that are not loyal, whatever.
But I think there are a lot of good women, and there's a lot of good men still.
I'm very hopeful.
I'm just worried that I'm worried.
I know Miami's maybe not the best place, but I'm still very hopeful.
My only issue is, Fresh, throughout the years, the shinier his Rolex gets and his car gets bigger and better, and the more Fresh goes up in life, the more better Fresh does in life actually makes Fresh's patience way shorter, which is important.
If you have a short patience level, you cannot have a girlfriend.
It's literally impossible.
You have to compromise this shit.
So I'm saying success actually does the opposite.
You go, whoa, like you're not supposed to be in my system, you're not in my schedule.
You know what I mean?
You know what I thought about?
If I ever.
That's why when you see losers at Walmart, they're always coupled up.
Have you seen like two fat losers in Walmart?
They're always.
Two workers.
Yeah.
Or third worlders and all that.
If I change my environment, like if I ever left Miami, that'll change because Miami's a direct breakout space.
It's also very like.
Yeah, if you went to Nebraska, it's a lot easier than Miami.
Miami's just so.
So being here, dating is kind of like a speed dating test.
You know what dating in Miami is?
It's speed dating.
It is.
If you're a guy with money, you're just going from date to date to date.
You're a girl that's hot.
Same shit, yeah.
However, if you connect with somebody and you vibe, so to speak, then it may last a little bit longer.
But honestly, speaking, Miami is a flight by night city.
You're having fun with this girl one night, doesn't work out.
She's doing ketamine, she's doing drugs, doesn't work out.
It's just like, bro, like it's crazy over here.
But I still think, you know, have fun.
You know, if you're a man, you can extend that dating life.
A woman, they get really, you know, they get uncomfortable if they extend it too long, yeah.
But as a man, it's like, bro, these women are trying to suck George Clooney's cock.
He's like, I got.
Dinosaur.
They're trying to fuck Brad Pitt still.
And, you know, like at 50, it's actually not that much harder.
It's actually easier.
You have more money, you have more resources, you have more friends.
As a man, it's like, I think it's horrific if you start a relationship early, you know?
Yeah, I don't get why on the internet they say, oh, this is cope about a male's prime.
I genuinely think a man, think of a CEO with a suit and tie, 45 year old, he's pulling every bitch in the club.
If you get cucked, you're not getting cucked by a 21 year old ever in your life.
No.
I've never been cucked by someone younger than me, ever.
Right?
That doesn't.
He's a guy that does business at a high level.
Yeah.
You don't even know his name.
He's.
Whoever has got that table at the club taking all the bitches is never a 21 year old, ever.
You'll never see that.
Yeah.
That's why I'm like, a male's prime is later.
So that's just the same.
So Sunday, right?
I was at Casernillo's.
I was next to a billionaire's table.
Bro, random guy owns like five planes here in Miami.
You never even know.
Yeah.
And it's like.
He's there with two girls by himself, chilling.
And I'm like, who the fuck is this nigga?
Couldn't find out who he was.
I was like, oh shit.
But you never know.
And it's like, that guy will take your bitch any day.
So to me, it's kind of like, you could have all the jewelry, all that stuff, lay that out, but bro, the real ballers, bro, you don't even know who they are.
The scarier thing is women love a dad.
They love to, if they think their boyfriend is like their dad, they get wet.
Especially the broken one.
No, she doesn't even have to have daddy issues.
It's like, Bro, if you're reminding someone of family, they love you.
That's what family is love.
That's why I'm saying a male peek is an old dad.
You know, the more dad I put a fisherman hat on, she likes me more.
No, it's not about how you act, it's about your energy.
Like, if you have a lot of masculine energy, I think that's more the daddy vibe.
I'll say this.
You have a lot of masculine energy.
I do, but I also think you need a little.
Thank you to keep touching me.
Yo, check this out.
Here's what I.
It's not even on.
Imagine the show is not even, it's like a fake chat.
No, but check this out.
I'm telling you right now, this woman right here has never had a 21 year old pick her up in her life.
It's always been some dad.
It's always been some dad.
No, I'm not sure.
You've had a 21 year old fucking little nerd.
I went through phases.
Yeah, I went through phases where I actually liked guys that were like 21.
Really?
Yeah, I did.
And what happened?
You got turned off?
I became mommy.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
So she shifted.
But now I shifted back into the normal thing.
Oh, really?
Wow.
That's the first time I heard that.
I'll say this fresh.
I remember being 21, a good looking guy, getting women, but I was like, how come my competition is these guys aren't even in shape, you know, the businessmen at the club?
And I kept saying to myself, I can't wait till I'm 30.
I can't wait till I didn't even party.
I was like, I'll party when I'm 30 and when I have all the money and stuff.
And now partying is so much fun.
Partying in your 20s fucking sucks, bro.
It sucks.
Being in GA is like being in GA at festival.
It sucks.
You want to be VIP.
Yeah.
Once you get there.
Yeah, like golden.
All right, we'll do some last thoughts here, thoughts on the show, and we'll start here.
I don't really have much to say.
I feel like I always appreciate coming by, and we always have good conversations.
So I never feel a type of way by the talks.
So we'll show it.
Well, congrats on your weight loss and your fiance.
Thank you.
What about you?
Thank you guys for having me.
This is my first official podcast.
So I'm thankful to be here, and I think you guys are all amazing.
Thank you.
That was nice.
For you?
No, he's left.
Dude, she's so polite.
I love this girl, bro.
Where'd you find her?
Instagram.
I thought this was really fun.
I like to talk about controversial topics, even though it wasn't that controversial today.
I think you guys are really nice men.
Really, I do.
Don't say that.
Nice men.
Yeah.
I think you guys are really in your masculine.
I like it, you know?
And these ladies are very sweet.
And yeah, it's just a vibe, you know?
Just to talk about things that are happening and get the word out about the Miami lifestyle.
It's kind of funny.
Yeah, that girl in the middle was wildin', though.
Yeah, I was gonna say, she got that start off.
Oh, yeah, who was that?
Who was that woman?
I don't know.
What do you think?
I think she was just a little drunk.
A little drunk?
She was wildin'.
She was a lot of drunk, but, like, I feel bad.
I felt bad, too.
She was like, I got a Jewish partner.
I better listen.
Bitch, nobody asked you that.
Bro, she came in, grabbed my leg here, and I smiled.
I'm like, oh, very good.
I'm a narcissist, so I'm like, very good, very good.
And then she said, I'm a stripper, and I'm like, okay, we're done here.
She's like, I'm a stripper at some, what was the club?