"Your Girl is an Escort" dissects Miami’s transactional dating culture, where $300 late-night discounts and Instagram escorts redefine romance amid economic collapse. The speaker links rising escort demand to financial desperation—women trading intimacy for survival, men avoiding commitment via paid companionship—while exposing the "gray area" of relationships where money erases trust. From viral pricing wars to divorce risks, the episode argues that financial stability now dictates desire, with figures like CGA’s warnings validated as society pivots from marriage to mercenary connections. The conclusion: love is optional when survival depends on the ledger. [Automatically generated summary]
Well, everyone, fellas, we're gonna cover today the topic of hand, escorting or not money talks.
Let's get into it.
Open through the top, I'm not taking the fans.
Making them jump, making them dance, making them jump, making them dance.
We about to change the game, we out here taking names.
Let our voices rise, let them reach the skies.
All right, we're back.
Um, this is a bit focused this real quick.
One sec, guys.
There we go.
Yeah, so fellas, um, I know this is a very early show today.
We're gonna do afterwards as well with the girls after later tonight, 11 p.m.
But I had an issue yesterday, man.
Really bad issue.
I was with some friends and we were out and about.
But you know, the worst part about this is being here in Miami, you see a lot of things happen.
You see people come and go, you see, you know, girls do a lot of stuff.
And obviously, this is a high-pay society/slash, you know, state, it's like Vegas and New York.
It's very, very different to most other states.
It's almost like unreal, you know?
That being said, though, you see a lot of things happen really fast, and you just let it fly by like, oh, nothing crazy.
But we've been talking about this for years, right?
On Fresh and Fit, about the cycle women go through.
And usually ends up one or two ways.
And the crazy part is that right now, we're at the epitome of what we talked about five years ago.
People said, oh, it's not true.
It's only in your state.
But this is a widespread thing that's happening right under your eyes.
Some of you guys don't know this, but like it's been happening for years.
But it's happening as we speak.
We're going to show a video today as well of a girl that came on the show.
It's kind of exposing what's happening in Miami, especially.
But this is actually happening in every state through social media.
Some of you may not know.
Some of you guys may know.
But we'll cover it today afterwards as well with Organic and the girls.
But here's my point.
My point is, I was shot yesterday.
Super shocked.
Not because it's different, but because I was dinner with some friends and they wanted to bring some girls to the party, right?
I posted on my close friends actually yesterday.
People were like really shocked.
And we had to invite some girls to the party.
Now, one of the guys is a good investor friend of mine, a really cool guy.
Another guy is a famous athlete.
Another guy is a cool guy that just made money through crypto.
Pretty top team guys.
But here's the silver line here.
I actually went ahead and said, you know what?
I hit some girls up from Instagram, you know, from I met in the past, whatever, to pull up, you know, for my boys, whatever.
I'm chilling.
So I'm going through my phone.
And you know, crazy part about this, like, before I get to the story, is that I think every guy can safely say that dating now is more transactional than ever before.
Like, before it's more like, you know, you could put in the work, you could actually like really find that like sweet spot where you guys have that good consideration for each other.
And it's genuine.
But more and more time passes and money gets harder to come by, you know, job market is definitely at a low.
You get to see like a lot of people's true nature and, you know, survival tactics.
And if you guys are like on point, you would have seen most people hitting you up now are like, hey, stranger, how's it going?
They need money.
Fast forward to girls though.
That's like the actual, I want to say going factor now where girls are saying, you know what?
Instead of trying to get a job or go back to what was working before, I'm going to try to get money in different ways.
If you could read between the lines, you know what I'm saying?
But that's the actual thing happening right now.
And um, not every relationship is transactional, but you know, for the most part it's gonna be that way for majority of people.
Um, even tall guys that are successful in the looks department, they will have to have money as well, and this is why i'll say, guys like Cga oh, that's Golden Child.
Yeah, you're right, Cga was ahead of his time.
He called this out actually years ago.
And guys, the beef between Myron and CGA squashed it on the phone yesterday.
A little back and forth there.
Obviously speaking, misunderstanding, but it should be good to go now.
No more beef.
You know, things happen.
And it's resolved now.
So no more beef going on forward with CGA and Myron.
Of course, we're all fighting the same battle here, which is helping me become better and against these thousand hoes.
Yes, that's very important.
Another one.
But nonetheless, he was ahead of his time.
And you know what's crazy?
As time passes, I actually understand more and more why people pay.
You know, I used to be like, ew, like, disgusting.
Why would you do that?
But as time passes, I understand why.
And I get the thing all the time, Fresh, you're paying for box, bro.
You're definitely one of those guys that are tricking.
You know what?
I wish I was doing that.
It'd be way easier.
Actually, the Asian girl, if I had paid her, as you guys say I did, she wouldn't have been mad to the point where she wanted to show my name in public eye.
There would never be a whole like podcast against me because, you know, I would just pay it and dipped.
But this is why I always say all the time, things look a certain way online, but the facts of real life, you got to go and experience it.
I actually took some time to experience life, fellas.
I went to different countries.
I went to a lot of new places, met a lot of people.
And the more I go outside and the more I've socialized with people, and this is guys, this is the skill you want to learn.
Socializing is very important.
Because without that, in the real world, you're kind of screwed.
I've seen where people end up, and especially women, they tend to lean either two directions.
Either they work their ass off, become the man that they want to date, or they go to a lot of easy to moderate light work where they show up at a job, but it's not a blowjob, it's a blowjob.
And the point is that, like, right now, what's happening with the economy and society, it's only going to get worse.
Way worse.
But yeah, it's tough.
It's tough.
So we'll leave that there.
But yeah, I think for the most part, a lot of people have focused on obviously just finding a way to get their dating access done seamlessly.
But again, this is why I say all the time.
Even now with AI coming, it's going to get worse, a lot worse.
So I'll put a video for you guys right now so you can see the video I was talking about.
This one here was actually a couple days ago.
This girl's been on this show before.
She goes to my gym, I think, if I'm correct.
And shout out to our guy at Reclaim on X.
He posted this a couple days ago.
Here's a video.
Oh, a sec.
There we go.
We're making so much money off of supplement deals.
So when I first...
So watch the video and I'll tell you guys the story of what happened.
Here we go.
Crazy Dating Trends00:11:56
Moved to Miami.
I remember being so amazed that these girls were making so much money off of supplement deals and like the stuff they advertise on Instagram, whether it be like beauty products or clothing.
And I was like, wow, like how are they getting paid this much?
And they would be posting their lifestyle.
Like, you know.
I used to wonder too.
Shout out to all the passport bros that found another way out because I'm not going to lie, man.
It is a viable option.
You know, this is why I was a viable option, fellas.
It really is.
But I used to wonder, how are they in the gym?
Constantly in the gym all day and they don't work a regular job.
Then I come to find out they have a page where they do fitness boot camps.
But you never see any of their clients.
You never see testimonials.
You never see like them doing an actual boot camp in person.
Some do, of course, but not all.
Then they're like at a five-star restaurant.
They're in Aspen.
They're in Vale.
They're in Mikanos.
I'm just like, hmm.
She belongs to the barracks.
This is definitely an experienced traveler here.
But again, we'll get into this a little bit later.
I like soft life, whatever.
And I was like, oh, you know, good for them.
Like, I'm not a hater.
So I was like, oh, that's dope.
And my family's from Miami, a lot of them, but they're from like Miami, Miami, not like Brickle downtown.
So I obviously knew there were a lot of sugar babies.
Yeah, Miami is divided.
There's the Miami people think of more of like a working place where there's Doral, there's Hyalia, there's Pembroke Pines, there's Miramar.
That's the real Miami.
You know?
The Miami that you guys know is South Beach.
Brickle, where all the streamers come and do content.
That's what's seen, but the actual Miami is way more chill.
You get your tacos, you get your shopping done.
I was working 9 to 5 and we live in a fast-paced part of Miami called Brickle where things are definitely more fast-paced and expensive.
So on a scale of things, I think people don't understand there's two parts of Miami.
And look, I'm all for people judging Miami off of, you know, certain spots, but Miami's beautiful.
There's the beach, other than South Beach, there's North Beach.
And look, at any day, it is expensive, but this is the best state to live in, hands down.
I promise you guys, if you can get some money and you can move over here, do it.
Already in Miami and that kind of thing.
But I remember when I found out after being like a little more integrated into the Brick old downtown Miami.
Yeah, it's ASMR Live.
I'm going to stream with Clav this weekend as well.
Myra's doing a stream right now, guys, on the actual war is happening.
Guys, the war is happening.
I've definitely seen some stuff where I'm changing my mindset now.
Like, wow, this is definitely going to be a problem.
But, you know, we are in war.
So there you go.
We crowd.
Like, a lot of these girls are actually escorts.
And that's how they're paying for these apartments and cars and jewelry.
It's not off of supplement deals.
It's not off of OxyShred.
I remember being so amazed.
Like, I could, I, my, could not wrap my head around it.
And so for all the girls that like are watching YouTube and TikTok and being like, oh, like, I'm going to move to Miami and I'm going to be a fitness influencer, blah, blah, blah.
You can make a lot of money off of social media.
But what you're seeing online is not quite.
If I had to put in like an actual number, we're like out of 100%, how many girls make money off of their actual boot camp and actual like training for booty building?
Maybe 10%.
Maybe.
The rest of them, yo, bro.
It's crazy because like when you know the guys in the back end have the money and success and status, you get to understand how things really work.
And, you know, we think it's black and white.
This is a great area.
Definitely a great area.
Trading pod tonight?
No, but we're going to do one very soon with a top trader already.
No.
Actually, I did a post on X about what trader we should bring on for Money Mondays.
I got some really good ones, guys, for trading, especially nowadays with crypto, what's happening with the market, to make some good money.
So we'll do that a little bit later, but not today.
Not today.
The reality.
But the point is, yeah, not many of them make money from actual fitness stuff.
For a lot of things.
So I just want to de-influence young girls who maybe want to move to Miami and think that like it's like that.
It's not.
You can have a great life here.
But what a lot of these other older girls are selling you is not quite the truth.
So don't feel bad about having a regular job.
Don't feel bad about going to college and having aspirations.
Like that's super important.
Please keep your dreams and aspirations.
So basically what she's saying is, they'll come over here thinking for a quick buck you're going to do well and really, really pop off.
Like that's like hard to come by.
So here's the actual serverlining here.
She made a video.
I went viral by the way, super viral.
A couple people I know sent it to me.
And recently, I had a similar experience, but more in detail.
So again, and this is my preface here.
Not every actual relationship is going to be transactional, but the foundation of it has to be because if you look at it from the point of view of like wife and husband, kids, you got to pay the bills.
Love is one thing, but you know.
And this is where you say like at the very beginning, you got to run some tests on some girls because even with the highest level of success and looks, whatever, they're going to test you, bro.
Like, even, you know, King 68 the Great, he gets tested too as well.
Like, no one's actually preferred to get tested.
But again, that's how you handle it.
That matters.
Shout out to you for supporting.
But yeah, guys, here's the story, man.
So I should post a link real quick.
So it's crazy because a lot of people focus on only one side of things.
After being outside for this long and meeting people connections, I realized there's a black, there's a white, and then a gray area.
Now, in the REPL space, nobody really covers the gray area because it's kind of like a nuance where it's not that actual like, you know, importance to it.
But it does matter because if you look at it from the standpoint of black and white and then gray area, you understand black and white better when you understand gray.
So what I'm saying is this preface is that a lot of things we see, oh, he's a simp, he's paying, he's doing this.
Yeah, you're right.
But why is he doing it?
You know, like, why would they do this?
Like, for example, if you have a lot of money and status, why would you pay for Box?
Right?
Like, it makes no sense.
Like, why?
Goofy, right?
It's not smart.
But then the gray area is I might get robbed, which could still happen.
I might get a charge or a case.
I might get lied on and said, he hit me.
And then I'm in trouble.
And it's crazy because I never would have been like, yeah, you got money status.
Bro, just go ahead.
But the problem that I see is that, like, a lot of guys here, especially Miami, New York, and major cities, they've been either jammed up before by a girl or lied on by a girl, and now they just said, F it.
I don't want to ever go back on that path again.
I'm just going to pay, get over it, and leave.
Now, that is in itself an issue.
But the other issue is if you don't pay, you're going to pay in a different way.
Fellas, personal story here, man.
You've seen my issue with the Asian girl or I legit was chilling, having a vibe, you know what I'm saying?
A little finesse here and there.
But, you know, and because I didn't pay to Piper, wink wink, you know, came up with some BS and this and that.
And I look at all my friends that are around here, especially.
Some went to jail for some BS where like it was a fucking lie.
Nothing happened at all.
The girl was mad.
Either didn't get what they wanted or they didn't feel loved enough.
And they just said, you know what?
F it.
I'm going to go and say this guy hit me.
And they went to jail.
One guy lost his business.
One guy lost his income.
So my point is that right now, especially, in these times, I understand why it's happening this way.
The gray area we don't talk about is there for a reason.
Now, here's the bad part though.
If you're not successful and have enough money to spend in certain directions, you won't get a lot of girls.
I'll explain why.
You can get them maybe from game and cold approach, which is understandable.
But actual long-term financial trajectory, you got to be able to maintain that for a long period of time.
And people talk about, oh, marriage ends so early.
Well, a lot of divorce happens because of money issues.
You know?
If you look at it from a long-term standpoint as well, a lot of women nowadays, they want security more than anything else.
Obviously, they care about looks.
Some of them do, but they want security.
So if you can't have security for the girl, what do you really have?
Looks some D?
So yeah, I get both sides of it and a great area too now more than before.
But this is diabolical, man.
Yo, bruh, bruh, bruh, bruh.
This was yesterday.
I was just kind of like, you know what?
Maybe it's just me.
Maybe it's just me going through this.
Maybe just fresh, just having a bad day.
Maybe it's just me having an issue where, you know, girl's like, you know what?
I'm going to tax this nigga.
Just I'm going to tax this guy.
But then, hold on, hold on.
I posted on my social media.
I posted on my Instagram.
And lo and behold, it wasn't just me.
It was a lot of people.
And actually, I'm going to do a post here for you guys as well.
But it hit people's core.
Guys that are here in Miami, going through it all the time.
Guys that I know personally from other states.
Guys that you may know hit me up.
And I'm like, wow, this is actually a real issue.
Now, what am I talking about?
Talking about escorts, bro.
Nigga, I'm talking about escorts.
Talking about escorts, bro.
And again, I know the joke is fresh, you're paying for bucks, bro.
This and that.
You know, to everyone that says that, I just laugh because if I really was doing that, bro, I would not have any issues at all.
Actually, I'd be so much happier just because I would know that if a chick ever tried to say shit about me, I could just say I paid you.
Walks as Dates00:03:37
And then, bro, and that's it.
But then it's, it's always an issue because, hey, fresh has no game.
Fresh has to trick.
Bro, do you know my lifestyle, fellas?
Like, I can pull to any club, any spot, make a phone call, get on a yacht.
Why the fuck would I pay?
Like, that access I have is for a reason.
Actually, a lot of my clients are successful, balling.
They come, hey, we need a yacht.
We need this and that.
Dinner, boom, miss the phone calls, done.
You know?
And this is why I say, like, even at the lowest level of, like, IQ people, where they focus on, oh, bros, I'm just like, you know, you don't know how the world actually works, do you?
Because if you knew how it works properly, or even in the slightest, you would understand how things actually operate.
But again, you know, that's just kind of like my yapping here.
But I've seen it happen a lot where, you know, when you pay, there's no issues at all.
And that shit was terrible.
But yeah, so we'll do one more video here before we get into the story because the story is actually wild.
Shout out to King68 the Great.
He actually had a Clickbook viral as well.
Where is it?
Here we go.
And this is why I say, fellas, even at the highest echelon of men, where they have the looks, they're maxing out.
They're having gold.
Bro, you can still lose because this marketplace is cooked.
Here we go.
Watch this video here.
Gold digger status when you came to these boats, chat.
You know, I'm not playing that gold digger shit.
I'll tell you that right now, chat.
She got to like me for me.
You hear me?
I'm not tricking.
I'm going to let y'all know this, chat.
We're not tricking over here, man.
I never had the trick on nothing.
So she over here, she came over here and she switched up.
She was cool.
We get to the yacht.
She's like, oh, this is your yacht.
This your yacht.
Let's get on the yacht.
Damn.
I'm thinking we're supposed to go on a walk together, chat.
What's going on?
What's going on?
Yo.
So what he just said there, just to translate real quick, is you're supposed to go on a walk, go on a chill date.
And by the way, fellas, a walk is actually a date as well.
You can go for a walk with a girl, have a good time, conversate.
It's very relaxed, and it's chill.
Just like this show.
This is a chill, relaxed show today.
You know, soak in the game here.
And what happened when there was no yacht for her to go on?
Another one.
What happened when there's no, oh, there's no dinner?
There's no afterpart of this?
Another one.
What happens when she wants to go to a lit event, but there's no lit event?
Just a walk.
Some of them are going to say, deuces them out.
And that's what it is because they want to have a fun time.
So, that's why I'm telling you guys, like, honestly speaking, even with the looks factor that King has, bro, sometimes you're not going to hit all targets.
Because, again, this is where I say there's a white, black area, and then a gray area.
And look, if there was money involved or like an event involved or like a secondary or third venue, yeah, she'll probably stay and he'll probably be able to put some more game on her and then work it out that way.
But you just go for a walk.
And the reaction is very telling.
You know what I mean?
Focus On One Thing00:06:54
Chat?
Nah, man.
That was a tester right there.
She tried to get in my pockets just now, chat.
She said I was window shopping.
No, she went.
I'm telling you, bro.
I'm telling you.
I'm telling you, these hoes are outside, bro.
And look, fellas, I know some of you don't like King, whatever.
But I'll be honest, man.
That is the example online of men's looks and height.
Black, six foot, what, seven or something like that?
Five, you know, smooth.
So my point is, even at the highest echelon of looks, so to speak, Wink Wink, you can have this happen to you.
Now, a lot of you fellas focus on getting only to Smash.
They don't care about going on dates, which I respect that.
That's fine.
I like going on dates, man.
I like going on dates, you know, getting to see her mindset, what she's about.
And then if we actually have a good vibe and wink wink vibe, then we can go to the next stage, which is probably just Smash and have a good time.
But again, I made some mistakes, by the way, fellas.
I've made some mistakes where I focus on only looks, where that's that's dope.
Looks are great, but then it's a lot of times issues where like they're either bipolar, they're a bit crazy.
Even the hottest girls, bro, like Damn, they're even OnlyFans girls.
Like, it's fun.
Don't get me wrong, it's fun as hell.
I'm sure if you could, you would smash.
I'm telling you, you would.
But looking back, was it really worth the squeeze, you know?
And obviously some were, but then some were just not worth the squeeze, you know?
Because you lose your soul and sanity and that madness.
And it's not talked about enough, but like, it's for a guy, it's very personal.
You guys know what I mean when you ever been able to a very chill, but you know, she's a hoe.
I'm saying, like, girl.
It's fun in the moment.
They understand how to play the game better.
But then it's like a dirty feeling after, you know?
If you understand what I'm saying, you understand.
But yeah.
But my point is, is you got to understand and pick your battles.
You can't shoot every shot and win.
You just can't.
Unless you're paying.
So I'm telling you, like, if you're paying, bro, you're going to get what you want.
She gets what she wants and then it's in and out.
That's what you get.
But if you're not paying, you can lose sometimes.
And it's fine.
But I think just out of respect for yourself, and look, I went through it for you guys.
I took the hours for you.
I took the pain for you.
I took the actual shame for you.
Y'all guys, man.
It's not worth the squeeze.
Yeah, it's not worth the squeeze.
But, you know, I'm sure some of you guys have been there as well.
Hopefully you can understand what I'm saying here.
And, you know, the pain point I felt yesterday was damn.
This is happening to a lot of my friends, myself.
And it's only going to get worse from here.
You know, like, like.
Another one.
Think of it as a way of, like, women are dating for financial gain and stability.
Men are dating for sex and love and attention.
But those two wants clash when there's no respect on both ends.
So what I mean by that is you focus on one thing where they want sex, most part.
Men want sex.
Women want actual stability.
But we're both fighting to get this want without giving up the other.
That makes sense.
But in the new economy of Holdom, which I call it the Escortalia economy, you will have people that say, you know what?
F this shit.
F the game.
F working on going on dates.
I want to be in and out.
And it's crazy because I know a couple guys like that.
Very successful, make millions of dollars a month.
Actually, almost damn near billionaire status.
They said, you know what?
I've been married for, had a girlfriend before.
I enjoy doing this, which is paying more than anything else because I can work, have some fun, back to work.
And then there's families that have, you know, the structure of husband, wife, kids, but they're fighting constantly.
They're divorcing.
And I'm like, if you had a choice to make, what do you think is the better out for you?
Getting married with kids, which I think is definitely optimal and what you should do, or having your money and your sanity and then enjoying whenever you're ready.
That's the two things I see happening there.
Or just be single as well.
It's the third option.
But the reality is, as the window closes for opportunity, making money and rich and poor, the gap is closing very fast.
And I'm telling you guys, like, real talk, this is not going to end well because it's going to be the haves, as you guys know, and have-nots, rich and poor.
Where are the women going to go?
To the rich.
Because think about this.
See what I did there?
Think about this.
You're going to have a girlfriend.
And it can go great.
And then one day or one week or one month, things change.
She feels slighted.
She feels like you're not giving her what she needs anymore.
And then, you know, she just says, you know what?
I'm going to spawn my options.
I want to go.
Grass may be greener on this side.
I'm going to go explore.
Girls nice out.
And then it ends.
You're heartbroken.
You're hitting the gym trying to forget her.
You're like, damn, where did I mess up?
And you know what's crazy about that scenario?
Happens every day.
Happens every day.
But here's the good part: there's another part where you're single, focusing on yourself, making things happen for yourself.
And then you're financially stable.
And then you decide, you know what?
What do I want to do relationship-wise?
Do I want to have a girlfriend, a wife, escorts?
What do I want to have?
That's your choice to make.
But I'm just saying, from what I've seen, especially in the current marketplace here, a lot of girlfriends and wives I've seen are going for guys that are paying.
Proof Of Financial Influence00:12:01
I got some proof guys as well.
I'll show some screenshots.
Not on this platform, though, but probably locals or something like that.
But yeah, it was bad yesterday.
Anyhow, we'll get to the actual story.
Here we go.
So yeah, about yesterday around 8 p.m., you know, some friends came into town and they were having a great time at Castanios, which is a spot over here.
Have a great time, um, you know, in Miami, and they wanted to go to the next spot, you know.
Um, I said, Okay, I'll hook you guys up, you know, just uh, make sure you guys tip the guys, whatever.
And I got a table, and they're like, Fresh, meet some girls.
I'm like, Yeah, okay, okay, you know, send some over to you guys, like, you know, somebody know from back in the day or you know, from Instagram, cool, whatever.
So, um, I go to text some girls, man.
When I tell you, right?
Okay, because, like, okay, I have my like main girls I'm cool with, and girls are just like, okay, friends are in town, cool.
And what happened is, like, in that moment, I sent a text to some girls and I said, hey, listen, um, this is dinner party at you know, this spot, you can pull up, it's gonna be lit, you know, just show some love.
You know, they told me, man, you know, all them told me, you know, all like it was three girls, bro, three girls, right?
And they all said something to the similar effect.
And I'm like, okay, one of them, you know, I'm saying, like, I already, the rest, cool.
But it was astounding to see because in real time, I was like, wow, this is bad.
And it went to the tune of, hey, my time isn't free anymore.
So, what's up?
I was just like, damn, it's bad, man.
It's bad.
It's bad because it happens all the time.
But here's the issue.
You gotta have to have the strength to say no sometimes.
Because, you know, it's wild.
It's so easy to just say, you know what?
Given whatever you need, let's go.
If you've got money and status and success, it's really easy.
But yesterday was astounding.
And I posted on my story on Instagram posts, I'll bring it up real quick.
Where I mentioned this, and everyone's like, bro, this happened to me the other day.
And I'm like, this is happening a lot.
Not because of the individual, but like, women need money, bro.
Really badly.
And the worst part is that, like, even at the lowest level of survival, this is what they resort to.
So you could be married.
You could even be like, you had a boyfriend.
Someone's offering you like a bunch of money just to smash.
A lot of women take that shit, bro.
You'd be surprised.
And I'm going to show you guys real quick what I'm talking about here on my close friends.
But yeah, it was bad, man.
It was bad.
And then, kind of find out, I send one of the girls' Instagrams to my boy.
He's like, yeah, I hit that.
I said, what?
So, you know, this is a crazy time.
I kid you not.
And mind you, I didn't even know this.
One of them has a boyfriend.
And I'm like, you know, this is where I say, like, if guys only knew what's happening under the surface, they would understand that, like, this is way more than just, oh yeah, bro, black and white pay for bucks.
No, this is deeper than that.
This is more of a, we're in bad times.
And I said it before on my Instagram as well.
We're actually in a recession.
And the worst part is that, like, a lot of people focus on, oh yeah, bro, we're not, things are going well.
Well, you want to know how the economy is going in a bad direction?
Look what the holes are doing.
Another one.
Look what they're doing in real time.
And I kid you not.
There's a test called the Serper Memorandum.
I kid you not.
Economists know about this as well.
Well, the edgy ones.
Where the strippers will tell everything what's happening in the economy by their money-making capabilities.
And by that, I mean, are they making money in a strip club?
And some of them write down their income month by month, year by year.
And when you see it dropping to absurd levels where like they're not making any money outside of like maybe escorting, you know, it's bad.
But you know what is really bad?
When it goes beyond where even when they're escorting, it's low.
And being here, Miami, we're in a fast-paced, expensive part to be in.
Fellas, I promise you, they're actually advertising their bodies on Instagram.
Like, bro, bro, bro, you will not believe the girls.
Like, okay.
I have a friend.
It's actually a friend of mine.
This friend of mine, you know what?
Hold on.
I'm going to show y'all, because I'm saying this shit, you guys are probably like, Fresh, you're just talking all your ass.
I'm not.
I wish I was, but I'm actually not.
It's bad, fellas.
It's bad.
And look, Coach was right.
Coach was right.
He was right about this 100%.
CGA was right, bro.
I kid you not.
I called him the other day.
Bro, he was right.
Look, by the way, guys, the beef is squashed between Myron and Coach.
I suppose it's squashed.
No beef at all.
Just misunderstanding.
But this is why I say, like, what do you want out of this?
Like, what is the actual Goal for you because it's only getting harder.
And then, guys, I've been in every scenario you can think of.
I've been in a scenario of dating a single mother, talking to you, well, smashing a stripper, OnlyFans girl.
Shit, some girls I smash were escorts.
I didn't even know.
So, after the fact.
And it's like, you don't really know nowadays.
Like, even with the most keen and acute senses, you could assume obviously from Instagram, of course, that's one thing.
But there's some that are so quiet and chill and not a lot of followers and very like low profiles.
Bro, it's bad.
And I made a post actually yesterday.
And someone's, I said, I'm going to unfollow all the girls I know that are escorts on my page.
Because I'm telling you, my friend I have, like, he was like a game to him, bro.
He just has a bunch of money and time.
He's like, you know what?
What girl do I want to smash today?
And he will DM them.
I kid you not.
He'll DM them and be like, here's my offer.
Take it or leave it.
Some of them are married.
Some of them have like boyfriends and kids.
And I'm like, damn, this is fucked up.
But hey, he's doing what he wants to do.
And they go for it.
And I'm like, wow.
Wow.
This is bad.
So, here we go.
Sec, guys.
One sec.
One sec.
Okay.
So, look.
This is where I always say, man, like, you know, the poof is in the pudding.
But in real life, you see the truth.
So, one second here.
One sec.
You see my screen, guys?
Here we go.
Posted this today.
Okay, pause it right here.
So look.
This is what happened yesterday.
I said, can I have bibi?
Have dinner and then party.
Baby, how much?
I was like, huh?
I said, now.
How much money do you pay for a company?
I asked, love.
Oh, I don't do that.
Then no.
My time is valuable.
I won't go just for the sake of going, baby.
Sorry.
Enjoy your night.
Yo, then I posted this.
I was like, if I find out your escort, I'm unfollowing you.
20 girls have been following Miami already.
Yo, bro, bro, bro, bro.
Yo, dog, I kid you not.
Like, I unfollow some girls and they're like, why'd you follow me?
I'm like, no, it's not about you.
It's not about you.
And then, and then, and then, and then, um, the one that responded that, I don't show her because it's kind of fucked up if I show her her face.
I'm going to show you the guys on that shit, but like, she asks, why I unfollow her.
Homeboy paid her $300 late night discount.
Doing a podcast on this today.
Fuck it.
Bro.
Yo, Bro, I kid you not.
You know what's wild about this too?
At some point in a man's life, he made a sit F it.
I'm going to do it.
It sounds crazy, but if you, guys, I know this sounds like very obscure and very not normal, but like I've seen enough guys go through bullshit where they're like, you know what?
F it.
Now, again, I get kissed all the time.
Fresh, you're doing this and fellas.
I wish I could do this, but I wouldn't even get my dick hard, bro.
Like, like, like, because you know what is, I just know too much about how women operate.
And the fact that he can pay for her and get her, and I could too if I was doing that shit, it just turns me off.
I don't know what you guys, but like, if I know too much, and then that's when I'm like, okay, I get why people do it, but maybe my mental is not really able to adapt to that.
But I just, yo, bro, I can't do it, man, bro.
But, like, like, I tell my all the time, bro.
It'd be way easier if you just pay for box, but dude, it's just maybe when I get older, maybe that'll be holy be the way, but I just, I don't know, man.
It's, it's, it's messed up.
But yeah, so that was the response, bro.
But, you know, it gets worse.
One second, guys.
It gets worse.
Uh, sir, I just want to say a question.
Yeah, go ahead, bro.
What's the question?
It gets worse.
So actually, here's the worst part too.
The girl that one of the girls that responded to me, right?
If you go to her page, she's a boyfriend.
And one of the guys knows her boyfriend.
So this is why I'm like, okay, when you have a girlfriend nowadays, even if you're successful, bro, even if you have money, bro.
Some of them have lies that you know nothing about from the past.
Some of them were strippers or escorts from the past.
And you know, when things aren't going well, what women do, they revert back to their old ways.
I promise you.
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Even the ones that say, I'm a Christian, now I'm a Muslim now.
What did they do?
Back to Hohen right after.
And homeboy's cooked, bro.
Yo, bro.
Homeboy is cooked.
And then, you know, the worst part too?
If I go say to him, bro, this is your shorty.
What was you doing?
He might get mad at me.
This is why you don't help Blue Pillow Simps, bro.
You just don't, because, bro, you never know their reaction.
It's probably gonna be negative to you.
Unless it's like your boy where you're like, bro, wake up, bro, like, get out of this funk.
But even that's kind of bad because you never know how they may react.
So, I promise you, man, this is like a problem.
And the worst part is that, like, it's not getting any better.
Like, look at it other ways, like, right now, what is your biggest pain point with dating?
It's probably going to be you not having options because you don't source girls or because maybe you don't want to improve yourself physically, mentally, financially.
Which, if you want to do that, that's fine.
You don't have to.
I mean, saying you could do whatever you want to do.
But if you want to have access, you're going to have to improve.
And my point in this video is not to push anything to you towards like getting married or getting escort.
It's because we all need to improve the common economy.
Now, the only thing that matters now moving forward, I kid you not.
Looks maximum is cool.
I get that part.
You know, looking your best is very important, essential to your health.
But what matters now is money.
Like, strip away all the things you know about like dating and like having like game and having like access.
Well, access is very important too, but this is gonna come down to you having money to be sustainable with the coming economy crash and recession.
Because at the end of the day, fellas, I get it.
You say, bro, I got game.
I can get girls.
Cool.
But what's the ROI in that?
You smash and then what?
Okay, congrats.
Another one.
Smash again.
ROI on that.
Another one.
So I've also found a way where, here's a solution for you guys.
If you could pull this off, you're friggin' G, you understand the game and you've mastered discipline and self-control.
Because for a while, guys, I was, I'm not holding you, I was wild.
There's a part of dating where you're foundationally and financially stable, your health is in check, and you have time after you work your ass off to enjoy.
Now, as the economy gets worse and worse and worse, you become more and more attractive.
However, prices will go up.
Now, look at my story.
I just posted here, right?
Look at my story.
She asked me why I unfolded her.
Homeboy paid you $300 late night discount.
Fellas, look at this as a logical point of view from your frame of reference, right?
If they're charging some people $500 to smash, right?
Yo, dude, dude, that in itself is funny.
People go to Columbia where it's $16 for a girl, $20 for a girl.
Why would you want to smash here?
It's my point.
You get what I'm saying?
Like, if I have money, time access, maybe because I work maybe here, but like, you would go somewhere else where it's cheaper, women are more feminine, and you get more access.
You know what I'm saying?
This is what I'm telling you guys.
Forget what you know about dating from the past.
You need money.
You need money.
I don't care if you're Chad or Tyrone or Aladdin or friggin Bruce Lee.
You need money.
What are we talking about?
Nigga, this is facts.
Like, like, back in 20, I went to Columbia in 2018 with a group of friends of mine.
I'll never forget.
It was still a relatively untapped marketplace.
It was still getting there, but it wasn't really tapped into that much.
And I used to see guys from Miami, Vegas, New York, other parts of the states go to Columbia all the time.
They call them expats, right?
And they made their lives over there with their condo, whatever, their money.
And they realize, and this is their point of view, that financially, just being over there and dating, they saved thousands of dollars, if not millions.
And then come full circle, bringing this back to where it was before, with the prices going up.
If you focus on, by the way, from what I've seen, that's low.
Like, some girls are charging niggas to $2,000, by the way.
And my friend that pays for box, like, he said there's metrics to it because the metrics are, the more followers a girl has, the more they charge.
Bro, what?
So this means if she has like 500k followers, it goes off of those increments.
Now, mind you, I know what they do.
They buy fake followers and they boost it up and then they charge niggas a bunch of money.
But here's my issue.
All right, here's my question, you could say.
If I'm going to have to pay for some BS box that other niggas could just pay for and they've ran through, If I'm a passport, bro, that's the willing to pay, I just go somewhere else where it's cheaper and then figure out how I want to operate over there.
Obviously, never bring them back to America because that's going to ruin their um psyche.
But my point is, is like financially and logically speaking, here I get why passport bros do what they do, bro.
I understand because you get a thoughtful here, nigga.
Yo, if you're paying for box, bro, you're being ripped off.
Because imagine these are American hoes that have been ran through for decades.
You're paying a bunch of money for.
But if you are smart, you feel me, and you're going to do this method, which quite frankly, I don't want to be a part of, but I understand what it is.
You go to like Brazil, Colombia, someplace like that, maybe even, I don't know, Europe.
But here's my point: my point is: this is the new and improved dating scale.
It's going to be the factor of how much money you have to be sustainable in this recession, and then two, how do you look up to the standards for stability long term?
Because, fellas, all fun, all in all, I get it, but people are paying to smash these girls, bro.
And to me, it's incredible because I'm like, why not just go to somewhere cheaper, somewhere else where there's hotter girls in this less BS?
But again, this is why I say, like, after all my experiences here in Miami, Vegas, New York, LA, dude, they're all going, bro.
Like, yo, bro, most of them are, bro, man, bro.
I can't say this on here.
Yo, you know what?
I'm going to cut YouTube real quick.
This last part, because I can't say this on YouTube.
I can't.
I just can't.
It'd be kind of messed up if I did.
But yeah, I think for the most part, you get what I'm saying here, guys.
This is not a question of like if it's a matter of now.
It's happening right now.
So the bottom line is, fellas, you need money.
That's going to be what it is.
And honestly, passport bros, you have a solution.
You have found a way to get on the marketplace and also get what you want at the same time.
And in my opinion, congrats.
But for the rest of us here in America, you got to find your solution.
And here's my three things you can do, I think, for as a man for options.
Of course, number one is get a family and kids and a wife.
Is it easy to do?
Easy to do?
No, it's hard to tell to do because finding a good woman nowadays, especially is almost impossible, but you can do it.
All right.
Whether you have to go to Midwest or someplace way more chill, understandable.
But then again, you run the risk of losing money with divorce and other things.
So that's up to you how you want to do it, which I recommend getting married by the church, not living a common law state, or have separate properties in that regard to avoid that being done to you.
Number two is you can have the option of being a bachelor for life, have one or two mains.
And I see guys here doing magnet all the time.
They just pay in, move and go.
And that's how they operate.
They make a bunch of money, pay, move and go, travel the world with their friends, enjoy life.
And honestly, I can understand why they do it.
It's less stress, but also I don't think it's long-term a good strategy, but hey, they make it work.
Or number three, you stay single, lock in, and you have a main girl or two that you rock with, that you can trust and you respect, and you just run it like that.
You don't make a pressure of a title, you just run it like that.
Or there's a fourth option that most guys do that are married, where they do join OnlyFans or they join the actual escort sites.
But again, as a man, it's your choice to meet what you want to do.
I'm just saying, bro, like, bro, it's getting bad out here, bro.
Because, dude, that was three shorties that said that in a span of like an hour coming to the party.
And I'm like, bro, you're not coming to the party.
We're not paying you shit.
Like, what the?
What are you on?
But the problem is, guys pay.
That's why they think it's normal.
Because imagine this, fellas.
Guys will pay to go to dinner with a girl.
What?
What are we doing?
Like, like, what do we, bro?
What's the goal here?
Like, like, dinner should be you talking with a chick that you actually know likes you versus like to me, it's just like a waste of time and money.
And long-term success, that's not how it should start.
You got to start the right way to finish the right way.
And this whole topic itself is disgusting, but the point is, it's happening.
You know?
It's what it is.
Yeah, yeah.
Sir B says afresh.
I heard some people pay women to watch them play video games.
Bro, it's only going to get worse, fellas.
There was a time when crypto was booming back in the day, you know, the crypto boom, and guys were paying for bottles in crypto in Miami.
They're popping off, going crazy.
I'm like, damn, these niggas are balling.
And then kind of find out, you know, they were having girls at the crib and they're paying them to stay there for days.
So they'll say, yeah, I'm leaving.
Oh, no, here's five bands to stay longer.
I mean that didn't go very well for them, but for the girls, they made a bunch of money.
Some of them are strippers, some of them were escorts, and it's like, wow.
So now their mindset is, well, if he's going to pay me this money, I can get it elsewhere.
So imagine girls are getting paid to go on dates just to go have dinner, go home and smash their boyfriend at home after the fact.
Or if the guy pays enough, they may smash the boy, the guy on the date, and the boyfriend after.
So yeah, fellas, my point here is that you need to make some money, prepare for what's coming next with the recession, what's already here.
And understand that this is going to be the final factor for dating the long run.
Other than sex dollars, or maybe, for example, maybe like in real life or like a virtual world where you're with a girl or maybe even some factor of OnlyFans may be an option.
But other than that, if you want to have actual real-life physical love, your money needs to be on point.
Now, is it for everybody?
No.
I'm just saying, generally speaking here, for long-term success, your money should be on point because that's going to dictate a lot of how things go you and your girl.
I know all guys that have girlfriends as well, where the girl makes most of the money, and they're surviving, but like, you're not really a man in that scenario.
You're kind of like the girl because now she's taking care of you.
If you're not taking care of her, at some point, it may mess you up where, like, mentally, you know what?
I can't take this shit anymore.
And like, she's like, oh, I'm over this guy.
So I'm telling you guys, like, this is a real concern.
And money seems to be the only factor where like the foundationally will help you.
But obviously, obviously, you know, you still need game, of course.
But like, my point is, money will dictate how things operate in a way where like you have more control.
Without that, dude, we're cooked, bro.
We're cut chat.
We're cut chat.
It's not like we're cooked.
But I'm going to end the stream here.
What I'm going to do, guys, I'm going to actually do a session with Organic tonight after hours because I'm going to focus on the war with Iran.
Which is very important, by the way, guys.
Go check it out.
So I'm going to come back out and stream with Organic and some girls around 11 p.m. on Fresh and Fit.
Tune into that.
But again, guys, I'm going to show you guys another screenshot from yesterday on After Girls.
I want them to tell me if you think this is normal because I kid you not.
Like, this is bad, bro.
This is bad.
And this is where I say, like, even at the highest degree, you got to find a way to maneuver.
And Instagram is another way you can do this where you build a good page up for yourself.
You work on that page.
It's very well laid out.
It becomes your business card and your data profile.
From there, you can leverage that to obviously reach out.
But again, what do girls do on Instagram?
Show their bodies, they show their, you know, God-given parts.
And from there, they find guys.
So, all right, guys, I'm out of here.
W Stream man, we'll get this running afterwards tonight on Fresh and Fit.
We'll do it here in this studio over here.
And I'll see you guys in a little bit.
Peace out, love, and thanks for watching.
They counted me out, pressing my destiny, shaking his hand, flipping the script, changing the plans.