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After Hours w/ Girls

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Body Count Questions 00:14:26
	All right, we're live guys back on the podcast.
	Special guest today, Big Baby Miller, New Building, Boxer Extraordinaire.
	Let's get it.
	We had a great stream on Wednesday with Fishback.
	That was amazing.
	We're back again today.
	Some lovely ladies.
	Thank you for coming once again.
	So we'll start here with questions.
	For example, where you're from, how old you are, what your name is, and of course, go from there.
	So what's your name?
	Age we do for living, dating status.
	So my name is Devin.
	How'd your body go?
	Chris and you're in back as well.
	I'm 25.
	I'm from Daytona Beach, Florida.
	What do you do for it?
	I'm a bartender.
	Bartender?
	How long have you been a bartender?
	Since I was like 18.
	18?
	Yeah.
	You like it?
	It's good money.
	It's fast money.
	Okay.
	What's your current education level, highest one?
	High school.
	High school?
	Dating status?
	Single.
	And then brands together or no?
	Yes.
	They're married.
	Birth control?
	No.
	Okay.
	And then last question is: what's your body count?
	Four.
	How's cap?
	Four this year?
	Yeah, she's bartends right now.
	Gotta be.
	Long-term relationships.
	Okay.
	We'll give it for her for now.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name is Valentina.
	I'm 21.
	Welcome back.
	Recently single.
	I'm an insurance agent for high-end clients.
	I'm not on birth control.
	Thankfully, not anymore.
	Dating status?
	Recently single.
	This is something you said.
	What's your highest education level?
	High school.
	High school.
	And then parents together or no?
	Nope.
	All right.
	And then, of course, body count.
	I paid the fifth.
	I'm not going to answer that.
	That means you point out.
	That's what it probably means.
	But I do want to clear up something because people were assuming that last time that I was on here, I had said I can count my body count on both my hands.
	That didn't mean that I have a body count of 10, just to clarify.
	So it's actually lower than?
	It's lower than 10.
	So is it 9?
	No, no.
	I'm not answering.
	Two hands, but.
	Okay, I got you.
	What about you?
	My name is Kiki.
	I'm from Las Vegas, Nevada.
	I'm an escort.
	I was going to say a stripper.
	I like the honesty.
	No, I don't.
	I was going to say a stripper.
	I ain't going to lie, but I'm an escort.
	So.
	Yo, so you know what's wild?
	Usually when someone's a stripper, by extension, that does mean you kind of.
	I danced too, though.
	No, I danced 10.
	Yeah, it depends.
	But no, props to you for being honest.
	I appreciate that.
	Yeah.
	Wait, how old are you again?
	I'm 22.
	22.
	Yeah.
	When'd you start stripping?
	Stripping?
	Yeah.
	When I was 19.
	Wow.
	Where are you from?
	Las Vegas.
	Las Vegas.
	Well, that makes sense.
	Okay.
	I want to go do that.
	Yeah, that makes sense.
	Okay, what's your dating status?
	I'm single.
	Why'd you say single?
	It's a relationship, but like, we're trying to work on it, but you feel me?
	I'm chilling.
	I feel like somebody's there.
	Hopefully, it's not a pimp.
	No, hell no.
	Not no parents.
	Yeah.
	No.
	Okay.
	We're going to move forward.
	Highest education level?
	Cosmetology.
	Okay.
	Birth control?
	Not at all.
	Parents together?
	No.
	Makes sense.
	Not even lie.
	And then, of course, it's already like at least 30.
	I know.
	But your body count.
	Wait, what's your body count?
	My body count.
	Yeah, body count.
	I pleaded the fifth, like she said.
	Way more than 30.
	Way more than 30.
	Way more than 30?
	Way more.
	Amy, no cap.
	So, so rough estimate.
	What would it be?
	I'm telling you, better than that.
	Rough estimate.
	She's trying to be funny.
	I'm just saying, like, you know how to better than us.
	Well, tell us.
	That shit in 30 digits.
	All right.
	Like, yeah, I'll say a thousand.
	Tell me.
	A thousand?
	Man, you closed it.
	Hold on, hold on.
	You believe her?
	I'm believing.
	My boy recorded like four digits and I'm like, she said a thousand.
	So respect honesty.
	It is what it is.
	Is it all in Vegas?
	Is it all in Vegas?
	No.
	Cross country with this shit.
	See, I like the honesty, though.
	It is true.
	I don't know.
	I don't like that.
	Damn.
	All right.
	Shit.
	Honesty, you can't be mad at.
	I'm not going to lie.
	Okay, what about you over here with the mic?
	What's your name?
	My name is Major.
	I am from New Jersey and I am 25 years old.
	All right.
	What do you do for it?
	For work, I am a bartender, but I'm trying to do other shit like streaming, podcasting, other things like that.
	I'm trying to expand.
	I just moved to Miami like a month ago.
	All right.
	Highest education level?
	GED.
	Okay.
	When I was younger, I was having mental issues.
	Okay.
	I've worked through it.
	I'm better now.
	I'm bigger and I'm better now.
	And that's just what it is.
	Good stuff.
	But you're working through it.
	Okay.
	Parents together or no?
	No, but I have a close relationship with my dad and my mother separately.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Birth control.
	I'm not answering that.
	Okay.
	Dating status.
	Dating status?
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	I just moved here, though, so who knows?
	Time will tell.
	Time will tell.
	All right.
	No, no, no.
	Body count.
	I said I'm not going to answer that, so you're going to respect that.
	So it's a lot.
	I will move if you're going.
	I will leave if you're going to be a little bit more.
	Okay.
	Nah, come on.
	Chris, come on.
	Chris, come on, man.
	Y'all don't even want to leave.
	She has to stop.
	Hey, Chris.
	What is it?
	Hey, Chris.
	Hey, listen.
	If she wants to leave, she can leave.
	I gotta be sluggish.
	You asked your body girl questions.
	If she won't leave, she can leave.
	I didn't ask herself, you know?
	Y'all gotta be disrespectful.
	Oh, well, you know, I'm asking the question.
	You said, you say yes or no?
	She didn't want to answer.
	Hey, you kind of like.
	Chris is on it already, bro.
	I'm asking you a nice question.
	You say yes or no.
	But she didn't have the ultimatum of what you leave on leave.
	Like, come on, man.
	Let me tell you something.
	I'm a grown woman, and if I have to.
	Say yes or no.
	She didn't ask me.
	She didn't want to answer though.
	But she's in our studio.
	Okay, I gotta give him the screen right now.
	You don't have to answer this question.
	And that's why you act that way, because you're feeling entitled right now because you're his friend.
	It's okay.
	Act entitled.
	Listen.
	If you are mad and mature, that's your problem.
	I am mature.
	If I don't want to answer something, I don't have to.
	You don't own me, and you don't own me.
	At this point, at this point, you guys have an argument.
	Can we resolve it?
	Or she's your guest, okay?
	And it's not.
	Making them all our guests.
	No, no, I'm affecting him.
	I don't care about you.
	You can dunk.
	No, it's not at your place.
	You can bounce.
	It's our platform, though.
	It's our platform.
	Stop acting like a 12-year-old and maybe.
	You can leave if you want to.
	You can get the fuck out.
	You know what I touch it right now?
	No.
	You know what?
	I'm going to stay.
	You're as disrespectful as fuck.
	That's your problem.
	I know I am.
	I'm petty.
	Okay, he just said he knows he is.
	So what are we talking about?
	Listen, you're going to leave or stay.
	Which one?
	We could always move forward.
	But again, we got to be at the same level.
	Because right now we're not.
	Don't throw me in the goats.
	This is real content, by the way.
	This is happening right now.
	Don't throw me in a good time.
	Don't tell me people to go top.
	I'm extremely petty.
	I have no time.
	So I send me the moment of peace.
	Yes.
	I think the show just started.
	My love, just take a seat, relax.
	Yeah, baby.
	Come on.
	I mean, it's the first hand.
	It's five minutes in.
	God damn.
	You can't turn up, man.
	But again, again, again, Chris is part of the team.
	We got to respect Chris.
	And of course, you know, it's content.
	All right.
	I'm going to cook for you.
	I'm cool, okay?
	All right.
	Thanks, John.
	And you want.
	Okay, we're going to move forward.
	We're going to move forward.
	What about you?
	Yeah, what's your name?
	My name is Jawbreaker Girl.
	Your mom gave you that name?
	No, it's because I'm the first person in the world to break my jaw on a jawbreaker.
	Okay, that was definitely random.
	How old are you?
	I'm 20.
	Is your jaw okay now?
	It's fine now.
	Yeah, I was wired shot for six weeks ago, like Kanye.
	Holy crap.
	Okay.
	What's your current dating status?
	Single.
	All right.
	Highest education level?
	I'm currently in college pursuing my degree for anti-colonial eco-feminism narrative justice studies.
	I want to be the president of Canada one day.
	is that a real no that doesn't sound like all right it's in your real self Something real.
	It sounds pretty.
	No, I'm a college student.
	That's my degree.
	I want to be the president of Canada one day.
	Why Canada?
	Because I live there.
	I just want to be the president of Canada.
	What's wrong with that?
	Okay, I wish you the best on that one.
	Okay.
	Are parents together enough?
	Yeah.
	Birth control?
	No.
	And then body count?
	Zero.
	No.
	So you broke your jaw.
	Are you telling me it's zero?
	On a jawbreaker.
	It's a candy.
	But still, though, like.
	Yeah, but I mean, I've.
	Okay, so.
	Putting things in your mouth.
	I mean, I've seen your reels recently.
	I don't do anything.
	I don't do reels.
	You're spitting on people's photos.
	What?
	Oh, no.
	I don't know what you're doing.
	Yo, that must have been AI.
	I don't do Instagram.
	I don't do.
	All right, all right.
	Crystal detective.
	But President of Canada is crazy.
	I mean, like, okay, you know what?
	Manifestation.
	There you go.
	You know, Canada has never had a female president before.
	I wonder why.
	Hey, if you win, congrats.
	But it's going to be definitely hard for you to win.
	Okay, what about you?
	I'm Maya.
	I'm 25.
	I'm telling them, right?
	Oh, my gosh.
	Okay, I'm...
	Can you see me?
	Yeah, can you see me?
	Yeah, can you see me?
	Hi, Maya.
	Hi, Maya.
	I'm 25.
	I live in Daytona.
	And what do you do for it?
	I work at a school right now.
	Teaching what?
	Special education.
	Oh, that's amazing.
	We got some people need some help here, actually.
	A lot of people need some help here.
	Okay, are you paid together or no?
	No.
	Birth control?
	No.
	And then, of course, body count.
	What's your body count?
	Eight.
	Wait, how old are you going?
	25.
	25.
	And eight.
	Teach your kids.
	I don't know about that one.
	Teach kids too.
	Up in the air.
	Like your freaks, so teachers are freaks.
	But it's fine.
	All right, and then guests of honor.
	Welcome, brother, to the show.
	Thank you.
	In the building, Don Demarco.
	So listen, we know who you are.
	You don't know who you are.
	Tell them who you are.
	Jerome, Big Baby Miller.
	No, number three heavyweight box in the world.
	No Fatoga shit, knocking heads off.
	Recent went viral in the world three days in a row over the Grammys for losing a toupee.
	Yeah, actually, that was going super viral.
	I got full stairs.
	You went everywhere, bro.
	Everywhere.
	And I'm like, I know this guy.
	We're going to the same gym.
	He's popping, but every single one, bro.
	We had to win that after that fight.
	I lose in the first two rounds.
	This mentally wasn't in the game.
	And when I seen the toupee come off, I was like, it was time to rock and roll.
	I can't get my ass or better lose my time.
	He can't do both.
	Can't do it both.
	Wow.
	All right, funny note.
	If you want to answer it, if you want to answer it.
	In the ring or off the ring.
	Two.
	In the ring.
	He's a man of guy.
	He's a two-piece.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	You know what I mean?
	Can't get him numbers out right now.
	I feel it for you.
	All right, so we got an issue.
	I'm a birth control, too.
	Birth control?
	Yes.
	100%.
	Birth control, man.
	You have kids, don't you?
	You have kids?
	I got three kids.
	I got three kids.
	Two kids?
	Okay.
	Okay, body count is two.
	Three kids.
	I was married for 12 years.
	Okay.
	That's good stuff, man.
	So we got an issue here, especially in America and the West, where dating is kind of like, you would say cooked.
	When you said cooked, it's kind of like men and women have issues where they can't find a partner for themselves either because of infidelity or because just like don't have options.
	So the question is for you ladies here, why are you single?
	And what are you doing to like change that?
	Because obviously speaking, you don't single forever.
	So how are you going to change that in itself?
	And we'll start right here.
	Why are you single and then how are you changing it?
	Okay.
	I feel like I'm single because I'm too crazy.
	And a lot of men don't like crazy because they can't put up with it because they can't.
	What is crazy?
	No, I'm Mexican.
	What does crazy intelligence?
	Yeah, I'm Mexican.
	But what does that entail though?
	What does that entail?
	Just if you can't handle somebody, you can't handle them.
	Like, I don't know.
	Give me like one example of what crazy means in that sense.
	Because as a guy, it sounds good to be crazy, but what does it actually mean?
	Like fights, arguments?
	Do you like slapping people?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, a little bit.
	You get slapped around a little bit if you don't know how to act right.
	A little bit.
	It's bipolar.
	That ain't just crazy.
	That's a whole nother level.
	I don't know.
	I feel like it's pretty normal.
	I don't know.
	Normal.
	It's normal, but you got to know how to act right.
	Like, if you're a real man, you know how to act right and you don't gotta.
	A real man doesn't let this woman hit him anyway.
	You don't need a good hit if you're a real man, too.
	I don't know her.
	I don't know.
	Just man.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so because you're crazy, you're single.
	Yeah.
	That's a good answer.
	Yes.
	What about you?
	It's honesty.
	Yeah.
	Why am I single?
	Well, first off, I'm only like 20 years old, so I just feel like it's kind of young to be like looking for that kind of stuff.
	Also, truth be told, I don't know.
	It's kind of hard to find a guy who is at the same level or above me in my career-wise, you know?
	A guy that could break your jaw?
	No, no, no.
	Just like in like maturity and like, I don't know, like where we are in our careers, stuff like that.
	So when you say your career, are you doing like, you mean content itself?
	Yeah, I make some Instagram reels, yes.
Why I'm Single 00:05:07
	Is that all you do?
	I'm also a professional company suer.
	Companies?
	You sue companies?
	Yeah, I sued Jawbreaker after I broke my jaw.
	How much they paid you?
	Yeah, I'm still, I'm mostly.
	Yeah, tell us exactly.
	Honestly, that's your job guy.
	What's the point behind your breaking your jaw?
	So I bit into a jawbreaker candy and I broke my jaw into three pieces.
	I broke two of my teeth and I sued the company for $8 million.
	How much did you get?
	$8 million.
	How you doing?
	I'm talking.
	What's good?
	Two years old, yeah.
	I love it.
	By the looks of that car.
	Everybody come by to go to 3 boards.
	So you're chilling right now.
	You don't want to do what?
	He's gonna eat the butt.
	What?
	What do you mean?
	Christian said he's gonna eat the butt.
	That's crazy.
	I believe you, Chris.
	So, so hold on, hold on.
	And I also sued Bulldog Raman as well.
	So at your current level, right?
	Your current level, you have that amount of money.
	You have some success in the content world.
	Who's going to match that energy with you?
	It's going to be hard.
	It's going to be hard.
	Well, first off, like, I'm not, I wouldn't say I'm set for life.
	You know, I give my earnings to my dad.
	He's like investing them and growing it for me because it's really easy to blow that kind of money this young.
	But I do make money from social media as well.
	I just do comedy content.
	No, no OnlyFans, nothing like that.
	So what kind of caliber guy would you want to date?
	Because I mean, at that level, like your age, would you even want to date at this point?
	It's not about how much money they make.
	I think they just need to have the same level of drive to grow that I do, you know?
	That makes sense.
	Like, I want to see their ambition.
	They don't have to be rich right now, but I want them to be able to be pursuing that in the future, you know?
	Have a trajectory to work forward.
	Yeah, working forward.
	Okay, my bitch.
	All right.
	So if they broke, they're like on a skateboard and got three million.
	That's in the same projection to be able to feed there, I guess.
	But 8 million is a lot of money, though.
	What about you?
	Why are you single?
	And what do you want to change it?
	Well, I have options, okay?
	But they just don't meet my standard, and that's okay.
	I think everybody in this room could say that you could be with anybody, but you know, it's just you pick and you choose.
	That's it.
	So let's say you do find a guy.
	Is there anything about you that'll make him get turned off?
	Anything about you you think that'll turn him off?
	But maybe like about me?
	Yeah.
	I think yes, because I just moved to Miami probably like a month ago and it's hard to get not sucked into like the party lifestyle.
	Yeah.
	And sometimes I'm still battling with that.
	So if somebody sees me, they might be like, oh, like, you know, she parties too much.
	That might turn them off of it.
	But I'm still trying to regulate that, you know?
	I come from Jersey, so it's like, I'm just fresh, new into this.
	And like, Miami is like a dream.
	It's like some shit you dream about.
	Some GTA shit, you know?
	It is.
	So right now I'm just trying to regulate that.
	But if somebody met me right now, they might be like, like, you know.
	Okay.
	So you're in a phase right now of partying.
	Party phase.
	I'm trying not to.
	It's hard.
	It really is.
	Unless you come to Miami and you understand.
	Strategy and a game plan, I feel like.
	I do.
	I have a plan and I'm trying.
	So let's say you met her today, right?
	Beautiful girl, parties a lot.
	How would you, I guess, tell her or say, yo, you need to stop it or change it?
	I mean, you know, I've dated girls that are, you know, alcoholics and had problems in the past.
	And if I'm genuinely in love with them or like them, I'm going to try to help them.
	You know, as a man, we try to help you.
	But when I start to realize, if you're bringing me down, if I'm trying to help you, I'm going to let your ass go.
	And I understand that.
	And I've dated people and they're all into me.
	And then they see, and they're like, eh, maybe not.
	But you know what?
	I'm from Jersey.
	When I'm in Jersey, I'm slow and clone clean, you know?
	I'm clean as hell.
	But it's just hard me coming to Miami.
	Like, every day it's a party.
	And like, you have to be really mentally strong to like.
	Gotta be an adult.
	You can party every day of the weekend.
	And honestly speaking, it can mess you up.
	But you need discipline because you got to pay your pillow.
	So I feel you.
	Exactly.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Why are you single?
	Well, I mean, I know why you're single, but you can just tell me.
	Okay, well, I'm single.
	You don't know why I'm single.
	You don't know why I'm single.
	Okay, but I'm only single.
	You tell them.
	I'm single because every nigga that I give, I always have more money than them.
	That's why I'm single.
	So because of your money, you well, to be honest, though, customers in the strip club.
	Yes.
	Some of them call me balling.
	Scammers or whatever.
	So you have more money than them?
	Yes, I do.
	How do you know?
	I mean, say they don't do nothing with it.
	But every time I come around, they always want to act broke or anything.
	So that doesn't mean that they're broke.
	That just means that they don't spend it on you.
	They don't have no money, period.
	I'm sorry.
	Okay.
	So your actual answer is because you have more money than them.
	Got it.
	What about you?
Faults and Forgiveness 00:07:25
	I think that casual dating has just become more of a norm.
	And that also messes up a lot of things for the dating scene.
	Everybody's friends with their ex.
	Everybody doesn't know how to burn bridges when they're meant to be burned.
	When you say casual, you think it's a norm now?
	Just like casual dating?
	Yeah.
	It's become such a norm that it's honestly for me, it's not worth it dating in 2026.
	Okay.
	She's single recently.
	Yeah.
	So after a while, she broke up with her.
	Chris, how do you know this?
	Yeah, how'd you notice?
	She said, you don't listen?
	How did you notice?
	She said, I'm freshly single.
	I don't.
	Yeah.
	Oh, yeah.
	So what'd your breakup then?
	I cannot speak on that at this moment.
	So whose fault was it?
	Your fault or his fault?
	It's his fault.
	100%.
	It was his fault.
	Poor K. Poor K.
	I kind of just said it.
	Being friends with your ex.
	That's like, and then lying about it is another thing about it.
	Yeah.
	Well, I'll go into detail.
	I'm not going to say certain things that I can't say about it, but I recently, so I got caught up in my first fight and it was due to catching him with his ex after him lying about it.
	But I will give him one thing.
	I left a day prior, but I came 24 hours later just to check on him and just to make sure.
	Nah, I was.
	Come on, come on.
	Come on.
	Nah.
	Hey, Russ, go ahead.
	Yeah, nothing.
	I just was like, he had everything.
	The thing is that everything was open.
	His car door opened open.
	I'm like, this man just got home drunk and he's probably like not doing well.
	And I walk into his house.
	He had the door wide open and they're laid up there.
	But everybody clothes, everything normal.
	But what made me?
	Do you want to check on him though?
	Because his mental health.
	No, it's not that.
	I was the one dodging his phone calls.
	Like, I had had a whole day with my friends, had a whole friend day, and I was like, I'm doing good.
	Because I felt bad because he didn't seem like he was in a good mental space.
	And he started spiraling out.
	And then certain stuff happened with him that he just got locked up after it.
	Like, he started spiraling out.
	So I guess the cops were called.
	No, I didn't call the cops.
	No.
	I left.
	So what happened was that he, the girl comes out, like he's like, why are you here?
	Why are you here?
	I'm like, bro, all I came to do was check on you, but you seem like you're good.
	The girl comes out and she's like yelling.
	I'm like, yo, female, I'm not talking to you.
	And I put my hand in her face.
	And then the girl attacks me with her.
	Like, she didn't punch me.
	Hispanic or black?
	Hispanic.
	And she was bigger than me.
	And I still whooped her ass.
	And I will say that again.
	Yeah, way bigger than me.
	Talk your shit.
	Talk your shit.
	I mean, but like.
	I decked her.
	And I broke my finger because of it.
	But I mean, why don't you leave, though?
	Huh?
	I did leave.
	I did leave.
	So what happened?
	After you fought, though, you left me.
	Yeah, because she attacked me.
	And then I was like, obviously.
	So, true, but.
	Do you think that if he was really for you, he would do that to you?
	If he was for me, he was not for me.
	That I can be clarified.
	If you know he wasn't for you, why'd you choose him?
	Because mentally, he has like things going on.
	Yeah, it's not that.
	It's just he was weak.
	And I saw like a strong man, but that strong man was nowhere to be seen.
	I was, I fell in love with an illusion.
	But let's be honest.
	Let's be honest here.
	Most men are going to cheat anyway.
	Not saying that's good.
	I'm just saying it's going to happen.
	That is true.
	But was it the first time?
	For me, getting like played like that?
	Yeah.
	No, it's not.
	Okay.
	It's not.
	But me?
	Oh.
	Stop saying John.
	Because the problem is you're going to leave a guy that cheats on you, right?
	For another guy.
	Obviously, this guy has issues other than that.
	Yeah, way further than that.
	But in dating, that is a possibility where guys are going to cheat.
	So it's kind of like, is it worth taking a cheat for?
	But that's the part where I will say that I am a little bit crazy when it comes to that.
	Because when you put an oath to something and like I'm posing my end of the bargain and I'm like really lifting you up instead of you.
	Like they forgot though.
	Yeah, but then you pulled up like, hey, what's up, nigga?
	And he was with a girl.
	And why fill a void?
	You three times.
	So you left him, you avoided his phone calls, and then you went to his place and had a fight.
	Yeah, but yeah, what ended up happening with that fight is just that she, she kept just clawing me.
	She wasn't really like fighting me.
	Like she was just bitch fighting me.
	So then I actually decked her like many times simply because he basically blocked me in a way where I could just like I had one hand like over her and then the other hand on this one.
	I was punching her.
	And then eventually I was like, yo, if you stop, I'll stop.
	And then I left it.
	I was like, I looked at him and I was like, you're not worth this.
	So that's it.
	You fought her because she came at me.
	And I get it.
	But like, you just showed up there unannounced.
	I did.
	I will say that.
	That is also a part of the issue.
	But he had it.
	The day before I had left, he was like, I'm going to give you a key.
	I'm going to give you a key.
	There's no fucking key.
	He showed up unannounced.
	Imagine if he's supposed to take your house and you're like doing shit.
	But it wasn't like on bad terms.
	I was like, look, I got my things that I'd rather handle on my own.
	I don't need your help.
	Your help is only dragging me down.
	Yeah.
	I think you're going to be better off alone.
	But he was not better off alone after that.
	He went around and filled the void, but I get it.
	I get that concept that you're saying.
	The cheating is inevitable.
	A lot of people cheat.
	A lot of people in open relationships.
	Women understand that cheating is going to be part of cycle and they accept it in a certain way.
	Not obviously fully, but like, hey, this is a possibility.
	A little bit easier, but obviously, is it good?
	No.
	But as a woman, I'm just saying that you're a cheater.
	It happens.
	It happens.
	It's so easy.
	I'm being real.
	I'm being honest.
	We'll be honest.
	Women understand.
	I'm being honest.
	No, I think the woman that you're dealing with is going to know the man that she's with.
	And if she's going to accept him long term, you got to accept some of the bad behaviors that come with him.
	Agreed.
	Like you said, everybody's going to be able to say that.
	It's one thing.
	Listen, if somebody, if I'm dating someone and they come up to me and said, hey, yo, I screwed up.
	I hooked up with somebody.
	I will stay 100%.
	But if, like, I've been with somebody who's like a habitual cheater, like on hinge, consistently, and it's a sex addiction.
	And they, throughout the whole relationship, are just looking to, you know what I'm saying?
	It's one thing if you screw up and you tell me, I'll stay all day.
	Because if you're honest with me, it's gonna happen.
	You're a man, it happens.
	Probably more than once, though.
	Okay, but the problem is a lot of women can don't respect honesty either.
	They'll choose to be with that man when they know he has faults with him.
	And on top of that, when things start a little shaky, oh my god, he don't love me.
	I told you from the jump before I got with you.
	Right.
	Women.
	Right, be honest, though.
	So, like I said, even honesty, 100%.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	But when you deal with it, it's coming to maturity, though.
	A lot of girls say that until when they were the boy, my man that's, oh, he got money.
	I need a man that's seven figures.
	That's going to come with him doing some things that he wants to do.
	And you got to respect or believe.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	So any girl I deal with, I said, listen, I like this.
	You with it?
	Exactly.
	And that's how it should be.
	You know what I mean?
	But most men are not going to be honest about it.
	Okay, but that is fucked up.
	And sorry, it messes with girls' mental health.
	And when you're in heartbreak, like that shit affects everything.
	Your money, your well-being, and everything.
	So it's like, just be honest, and I can accept it or not.
	And that's it.
	You know what I mean?
	Yeah, I think honesty does play a part for sure.
	But most men just won't be honest.
	It's just the reality.
	What about you?
	So I'm newly single as well.
	Hold on.
	Why'd you break up?
	What's recent exchange?
He Beat Me Up 00:02:31
	He beat me up on Valentine's Day.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, he beat me up.
	He did what, allegedly?
	No, not allegedly.
	I still have brothers all over me.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	He beat you up on Valmont?
	Why?
	Yeah, he had a drinking problem.
	And so anytime he drank, he'd get really angry.
	So I tried to understand it, and he would like apologize.
	And I thought I was so in love and yada yada.
	No, no, he was.
	We met.
	It's not Chris.
	No, we met each other through my dad, actually.
	But that is a steep allegation, nigga.
	That is.
	When you met him, did you know he was like, no, no, I didn't.
	I knew from my so like he trained at my dad's gym and that's how we met through like MMA and Jiu-Jitsu and stuff.
	And so I thought he was cool at first.
	And then my coach was telling me, he's like, you know, he's got a gambling problem and he's got, he's a rat.
	Like he's a rat.
	Like he basically like he like will steal money from like the gym.
	Like he's not paying his dues and stuff.
	And I didn't believe him.
	And he like always was like trying to show me proof that he wasn't doing that.
	And then I took him back and we were together for like two years.
	And we were.
	They warned you.
	Two years.
	They did warn me.
	They did warn me.
	Two years of warning.
	They did.
	And I was dumb about it.
	You didn't want me to trouble was that?
	Oh, no, my dad.
	Yeah, he has it coming.
	He's got it coming very soon.
	My dad's in Miami right now, too, right now for work.
	Well, first of all, hitting you is definitely not acceptable.
	But two years of staying, how often was it?
	Like he was.
	No, it was this was the second time.
	There was one time like a year ago, and it wasn't even like a full hit.
	So I didn't like take it like that.
	It was more.
	It was a hit.
	It was like no, no, it was like a smack.
	It was like a hard smack.
	And then I. Harry Wheels smacking a Dean smack?
	No, maybe like a harder smack, I guess.
	I don't know.
	But he was drunk.
	He was drunk.
	So I don't know who that is.
	I'm sorry.
	But he was drunk again.
	And then he was like, I'm going to stop drinking.
	He did stop drinking for like six months.
	And then we were having our own issues.
	Like, he was just, he's just a mean person.
	He, he's like, you could say the sky's blue and he's going to want to argue.
	Like, he was just, he just had so much anger in his heart.
	I mean, why did he smack you, though?
	Um, he, I literally, he just came to my job and he got drunk there, and then he just got mad at me for whatever reason.
	Yeah, he just like gets mad.
	So let me get it straight.
	You knew for two years he was a bad person.
	You stayed, which because I tried to make it work.
	There was, there was a lot of good moments.
	There was definitely a lot of good moments with him.
Why Low Standards Attract Pimps 00:12:52
	And I thought I was very much in love.
	I didn't care.
	Like, he didn't make a lot of money.
	He made like 50K a year.
	He was five foot four.
	I was taller than him.
	What?
	Sounds like love.
	Yeah, I don't care.
	I don't judge people on looks at all.
	I'm not a little person.
	I'm 5'5.
	So he, yeah.
	I'm actually in shock, by the way.
	Yeah, with heels, I'm taller, yeah.
	But I was like a little bit taller than him.
	He had bad teeth.
	Like he, he, yeah.
	But I did, I did love him.
	I did love him.
	I don't judge on looks at all.
	I don't judge on money.
	Like, if I love you, I love you.
	I don't care how much you make because at the end of the day, as long as you have a good hustling job, then it's fine with me.
	Well, respect for that, but also, I just, if someone hits you one time, they're telling you, leave now.
	But again, at least you're gone now, so that's that's good.
	But yeah, wow.
	So your dad is gonna.
	Oh, my dad's gonna whoop him.
	My dad's gonna.
	Oh, my dad will flip him.
	My dad's got the number one guillotine in Florida.
	He's gonna, he's gonna, yeah.
	Yeah, he's gonna whoop him.
	Okay.
	So let's put it about it this way.
	And then, actually, you know what?
	You could tell me your experience with dating.
	Is it worth being married, you think, over being single nowadays?
	What do you think?
	No, I got a girl in my life, man.
	I can never be single, I feel like.
	You know what I mean?
	I need that camaraderie.
	You know what I mean?
	I need a cuddle at nighttime.
	I am a big baby.
	You know what I mean?
	So I want to be whole like a baby.
	As much as my job is to whoop people ass, at night time, I want to cuddle.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	And I was married.
	Like I said, I was married 13 years first.
	And, you know, it was beautiful in the beginning.
	But I do feel as you, and my wife at the time was older than me.
	You know, I helped her pay for her degree.
	You know, she's an RN, making 100-something change a year.
	And sometimes I feel like when, as a fighter struggling at the beginning of my career, started going into making money and millions of dollars, I feel like women start to feel that they're better than you, especially when you're at a place of a better financial state.
	And I started to see them type of things, and I started to just kind of pull back away.
	You know what I mean?
	There were some betrayal areas when it came to my child and naming him a certain name.
	And my son names would be Achilles King Miller.
	She changed my son name behind my back to please her mom and you're married to me.
	It's a lot, a lot of different things in my life that if I had to put foot down, it wouldn't have gone that way.
	But like I said before, I was really focused on becoming the best I can in my field.
	So I kind of brush with a lot of things, you know what I mean?
	And as a man, you got to put your foot down the minute you see something that's wrong.
	Because I was younger, you know what I'm trying to say?
	So I let certain things slide, you know, but I feel like in this day and age now, it is very hard, very hard to deal with women that are indecisive.
	The first thing that come out their mouth is, I make more money than him.
	For me, those are red flags.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	So for me, as a man that's of high income earner, with my girl now, we've been rocking together for a long time.
	So even when I was married, I was doing bullshit and she's around still.
	So I've given her leadency with certain things because I see the potential in her.
	You know what I mean?
	But as of right now, in America, any part of the world, especially in America, it's very hard to date.
	Is it really worth it?
	I mean, listen, nobody wants to die and go old and gray by themselves.
	So I think finding the right person and kind of learning each other, figuring out together, I think is a beautiful thing when you finally work it out.
	But if this person's really bringing you down and you can't reach your goal, you got to let them go.
	You can't hold them a dead weight, 100%.
	But, you know, everybody wants to be holding cuddle at nighttime sometimes, man.
	So I'm big and I'm strong, but this is how I get effed up.
	We all gonna need somebody one day.
	Facts.
	So you mentioned before, casual dating is a real thing.
	And dating now is more of a transaction where, like, I want something from you.
	Both of them took something from me.
	Let's just do it and see where it goes.
	In this case, how do you think men can improve to meet your standard?
	And for example, maybe what's your standard?
	How can men improve to meet your standard?
	You think?
	Well, my standard, I don't really have like high standards when it comes to like financially or anything.
	I just feel like you got to be a good person.
	I know, I don't.
	I don't care about that.
	As long as you're a hardworking man, if you have a job, you have a job.
	Like, I'm not talking about maybe McDonald's or something.
	That's like a job for when you're 19, 18.
	But if you're working hard, trying to build yourself up, that's all that matters.
	Like, I don't need to be with a millionaire to be happy.
	Like, that's not, like, ethical in this.
	You sound very good.
	You sound like you definitely have a good head on your shoulders.
	I just wonder, like, how long that's going to last.
	But so far, so good.
	Well, yeah, but I was just raised that way.
	You know, like, my dad grew up, like, he didn't have like a great job growing up, and then he now has like a really, really good job.
	Did you see you by himself?
	No, my parents have been together since they've had us, like, 20-something years, 25 years.
	Okay.
	But I feel like men, like, I don't know.
	When it comes to men, I feel like the standard is to like treat your woman like a lady and be chivalrous.
	The other issue I had with him, we were unequally yoked.
	I tried my best to lead him to the Lord.
	It didn't work.
	So, best of luck.
	Yeah, best of luck to him.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You don't mind asking the question one more time?
	Yeah, so again, catch up dating is a real thing.
	How could men meet your standard now to be more of an option for you?
	To meet my standards.
	What are your standards?
	Like, is it like six foot tall?
	I don't know.
	No, it's not about looks.
	If any of you remember me from the previous episodes, I had stated before that the previous relationship that I was in, I took care of everything.
	Not out of pity, but this person didn't.
	What the girls were talking about, they just want somebody that strives better for themselves, even if they don't have it all now.
	That's exactly how I thought.
	His situation was a little different due to like just the way he grew up.
	He didn't have, I have a mother that she was the man and the woman in the household, and she is the main breadwinner.
	So I grew up a little differently, but he had parents that were sorry to say, but lazy.
	My mom came here from Peru when she was 20 years old and she built it from the ground up.
	His parents, his mom came, not to compare, like situations, everybody's different, but he didn't have the same privileges, I guess.
	But I don't, the standards that I carry is just at least be honest, honestly.
	Honest about everything.
	But usually, if a man's honest, right?
	Let's be brilliant.
	It's because you want to know where he's at to either leave or disqualify him for the most part.
	Honestly, if you get the truth sometimes, you can't handle it.
	True.
	So then why would men want to tell you the truth?
	You might just like.
	But that's the option.
	Why would you want to be with a girl that doesn't want to be with you regardless?
	If a girl really wants to be with you, they're going to be with you regardless of what you put on the ground.
	You're going to have to watch the men, though.
	It's really hard to date for a man.
	Yeah.
	It's tough out here for a pimp.
	I think that my standard is just honesty.
	That's all I need for you.
	Okay, so honestly for you, that's all you need.
	Looks no matter, money don't matter, just honesty.
	I mean, just because of how I've been dealt with in the past, yeah, like I hope that striving to be better, like, you know, have something going on.
	Have some type of plan, some type of trajectory.
	So we got here low standards and for you, honesty.
	Well, nothing too crazy.
	No, like any high standards.
	Not low standards.
	Don't say that.
	You know what I mean?
	I think she's honest.
	I just want true.
	Exactly.
	I think she has low standards.
	He's so in love.
	Romantic.
	Yeah.
	Real love at girls never change.
	That I will say.
	I mean, they don't get trauma, though.
	So it does change a little bit.
	Slightly, it shapes you.
	Makes you rough around the edges.
	What about you?
	Say that question one more time.
	Once again, what are your standards?
	And how can men meet your standards you think nowadays?
	Is it money, status?
	Is it looks?
	Is it like how they move?
	I don't have no standards at all.
	You can match my honesty.
	Yeah, let me.
	I don't have no standards.
	If you match my vibe and you match my vibe, not just going to be that.
	But you just said that he got more money than that.
	Y'all didn't even let me finish when I said that.
	For what?
	Y'all didn't even let me finish when I said that.
	Like, for what I even, I haven't met no nigga that's like, you feel me?
	That's on top of their shit for one.
	You feel me?
	Like, I don't know.
	But.
	All right, so about how much a night done?
	For what?
	What?
	For how long?
	Chris.
	Oh, that's how long.
	Yo, Chris, Chris, chill.
	Chill.
	Just chill, bro.
	Yeah, this is a conference.
	So, so, I guess the question is, you said earlier you need a man that has more money than you.
	You say you make a lot of money.
	Because I ain't never met no nigga that I'm always the provider.
	Like, I ain't never met no nigga that's provided for me.
	Yes, I'm an escort, but like, shit, I ain't never met no nigga that could provide for me.
	No pimp or nothing like that.
	And I wouldn't fuck with pimps, but like, damn.
	So, let's say a guy you met in Miami, for example, is here, and he actually focuses on his business first.
	Exactly.
	He'll only meet you.
	And I have a business too, so what's that?
	Right.
	Well, he meets you.
	You might match his vibe.
	He might match your vibe.
	But he's like, you know what?
	I want to see where Shorty's at first before I, you know, invest into her wink wink financially.
	Is that a bad thing?
	It's not a bad thing.
	But you just said earlier that you need to see the money up front, and niggas won't spend money.
	So then, which one?
	I just need a nigga.
	Okay, look, from my perspective, all the niggas that I didn't been through and like, you feel me, I've always been the fucking provider.
	Like, I've, no, I'm not going.
	I'm not going for no law.
	No.
	No low barley.
	But if you're a boss, babe, right?
	And let's be honest, you're independent, you're making money.
	Right.
	why would I want to take care of you if you're independent?
	Like, I got money too, but it's like, why take care of you if you're independent?
	I mean, I could take care of you too, though.
	Like, Like, we could go ball for ball, give for give.
	But you don't do that.
	You don't want to.
	You don't want to do that.
	It depends on the situation.
	Okay, what are you trying to say?
	The point is, is that you want a man who has more money than you.
	That's fair.
	I don't want.
	Hold on, hold on.
	I don't want no man that has more money than me because I didn't dealt with men and I didn't want me at that.
	You feel me?
	Like, I don't care how much money that they got.
	Like, if I vibe with you, then I vibe with you.
	I don't care how much money you got or nothing like that.
	But like I said, I'm single because every nigga that I've been with, I didn't have more money and I had to take care of them.
	You know what I'm saying?
	You don't care about the money.
	So what I hear is you're choosing guys with less money than you.
	I'm glad I got this.
	And I'm seeing the question.
	No, no, no, no.
	You are a lot of people.
	Am I not understanding the question?
	I'm asking you directly.
	Again, again, this is what I'm saying.
	The impasters that you're seeing, you said earlier, you won't got no money.
	Now you're saying the five is all I need.
	I don't care about the money.
	So I'm confused.
	Press me, man.
	I'm going to say this.
	As a man that's in a lot of my female cousins' lives, you need to see a therapist.
	And I'm saying this respectfully as a young man.
	I'm not going to be able to do that.
	No, I'm saying, no, no, because what happened is there's a lot of things you're saying, you're contradicting yourself, right?
	And I feel like because maybe the kind of work you do, you need, like I said, that hug.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, we all need that hug and that love.
	So I feel like something's missing.
	I feel like there's something that's missing that you need to be.
	But listen, though.
	I don't know.
	And that's the reason why I'm saying you might need a therapist.
	Okay, so what am I saying, Ron?
	That y'all not understanding?
	It's a contradiction of what you're saying.
	I don't, I make more money than these dudes.
	I don't need none of them that's the niggas that I've been with.
	I make more than them.
	Okay, you could be talking about a rapper or something.
	No, I don't make more money than them.
	No, but the niggas that I've been with.
	Okay.
	Yes, pimps and these pimps from Vegas, Callie.
	The fuck, no.
	No, pimps.
	Okay, look.
	I don't even fuck with pimps.
	I'm just saying.
	The fuck, these niggas that I've dealt with and been with that talk to where the fuck, nigga, like.
	Forget it, therapist.
	You need Jesus Christ.
	Okay, we can move forward.
	I got that.
	All right.
	Thank you.
	What about you?
	Your standards for a guy that you want to meet.
	What does he have to have to date you?
	Honestly, I'm from Jersey, so everything is like very low quality there.
	But I just moved to Miami recently.
	And people here are very different.
	I'm all about ambition.
	And like every day, I want to be better.
	So like, for example, if I meet somebody and they just say they have money, right?
	It's not even about the money.
	It's about the ambition that I mess with, right?
	Because I want to be like that.
	So whatever I want to be like, if that dude is like that, I'm like hopping on the train.
	Like, yeah, let's go.
	So you want ambition?
	Ambition.
	You're cool.
	Like, I don't care if you got no money.
	If you're waking up every day and you're, say, for example, eight streams live streaming.
	Eight hours live streaming.
	Or eight hours doing this, that, and the third.
	That shit is mad attractive because most people will just be like, oh, I can't do it.
	I don't got the money.
	I don't got the time.
	Blase, blase.
	But it's like, if you're putting in that work, that shit is attractive.
	I don't care if you got nothing.
Ambition Attracts 00:04:53
	You know what I'm saying?
	Do you feel like you're putting in that work right now?
	What you would say?
	For sure.
	Well, you're saying you're still partying.
	You're not kind of like, you're trying to set up party lamblin and you're single.
	So you have to live that lifestyle to kind of attract that lifestyle.
	And I just moved here a month ago.
	I've been in Jersey for like four weeks of it.
	I've been here like a month.
	And it's very difficult coming from Jersey to Miami.
	And everybody, like Monday through Sunday, it's like, boop, boop, boop.
	I do have the fear of missing out.
	You know?
	So it's like, oh, if I don't go out, like, I might miss out on this.
	That's the biggest thing in Miami.
	FOMO's a real thing.
	But yeah.
	But what he's saying is, if you do find that guy, you should match his energy.
	So that's definitely on point.
	What about you?
	Again, once again, standards for a guy to meet up to you to date them.
	Well, I feel like there definitely has to be like a certain level of attractiveness there.
	I'm not going to be like, oh, he has to be over six foot or anything like that.
	But, um, like, you know, like, if you're like...
	No, go ahead.
	No, that's natural.
	That's true.
	If you like someone, like, you have to be attracted to them.
	You know what I mean?
	So.
	Okay.
	Just like.
	You like them.
	That's it.
	No, like, I have to be some level of attractive.
	I'm not going to lie and be like, but what does that entail?
	Like, what does that mean?
	Just like someone that I'm attracted to physically.
	Give me an example.
	I'm not what I'm saying.
	I'm not saying like, oh, he has to be over six foot.
	It has to be over six inches.
	I'm not saying like numbers like that.
	You're breaking my jaw here.
	We need an actual description.
	Is he going to be black, white, Hispanic?
	Is it going to be tall, short, is it going to be, what's your type?
	Every.
	What's your type?
	Yeah.
	White, white, white, Indian, Hispanic.
	Those ones.
	So no black?
	Damn.
	You don't like no chocolate?
	I like chocolate.
	I like children to have fathers.
	Wow.
	She's trying.
	Okay.
	She's trying to go viral.
	She's base.
	No, she's bad, though.
	She's base.
	Shut up.
	She's base, though.
	She's very basic.
	She told the truth.
	Shut up.
	No, no.
	You know statistically that is wrong, though.
	That's disrespectful.
	Black fathers?
	Yeah, you know that statistically, that is wrong in America.
	That's disrespectful.
	Listen, the number one father that stayed next to their kids the longest right now in America in the census is African Americans.
	Or black fathers.
	I don't say myself African American.
	I consider myself a black American.
	And I'm Afro-Latino, so I have Latin in my family as well.
	So yeah, so as of now, and even back in the 60s and 70s, the black families wouldn't want to sit together the longest.
	So for her to say that, that's miss.
	But you gotta admit, though.
	You can't just say that.
	Hold on, girl.
	Come on.
	No, no, no.
	She can free the freedom of streaming.
	Wait, wait, it's not that.
	No, no, you can say whatever.
	No, no, she can say whatever she wants.
	No, no, no.
	That's her opinion.
	But I feel like when she meets another educated brother like myself that loves his kids and runs for all his kids for my niece and nephews.
	You know, you gotta.
	But there is a reason why that is said because as a stereotype, hey, talking here.
	As a stereotype, it is a real thing.
	Now, obviously, stats itself do have to be brought up, but let's be honest here.
	The stigma is: you date a black guy, he's going to leave you at some point.
	That's a stigma.
	That's a stigma, but who put the stigma out there, though?
	Who said that?
	I think they said we beat the minorities, but really, in some way, people have called majorities.
	When we talk about the skin tone that we're black Americans, bro, we the ones that really hang by our kids a lot.
	Now, the system kind of portrays us different.
	It kind of moves out the family dynamic.
	You know, we're going through the whole politics and all that.
	You know what I mean?
	But I think, you know, it's something that's politically put out there by media just to make it look like we're not around.
	Question two: What is your nationality?
	I'm half Indian, half Pakistani.
	Yeah, I mean.
	Why are you laughing?
	You're Pakistani.
	Half Indian, half Pakistani.
	Yeah, it's the best combination.
	Come again.
	I won the ethnic and genetic lottery there.
	I really truly believe that I'm two of the best nationalities in the world.
	You take showers?
	Hmm?
	You took showers?
	Showers, like that.
	See?
	What?
	What are these big words?
	I know.
	So she says, I'm so happy.
	The same stigma she said about black folks.
	There's a huge stigma about Indians in Pakistani.
	Yeah.
	The guys smell really horrible.
	And I thought, and I thought, I really thought that was just some BS.
	But I've been in Thailand for three minutes, three months, and a lot of my Indian brothers do not like Wendy Odyssey.
	Okay, okay.
	I don't understand why you're guys saying we smell bad.
	I still have 12 minutes left on my 72-hour deodorant that I put on.
	So I don't know.
	She's joking.
	Listen, there are things out there for a reason about racism.
	And listen, we could all say we're offended, but let's be honest here.
	Just some words.
	People having some jokes.
What Men Really Want 00:14:39
	It ain't that serious.
	Now, of course, what you said earlier about guys leaving their kids is black people.
	That is funny to me because I see it all the time.
	But again, it's just a joke, it's stereotyping.
	And it is based off of something because it's reality.
	Now, what about you?
	I'm going to agree with her, Javathina, because it's honesty.
	Like, I love honesty.
	I love honesty, and that's the only thing that matters.
	But how honest can he go?
	Because you have to be honest with yourself.
	That's important.
	But honesty itself, right?
	Like, what is that?
	How far can I go?
	Because let's say, for example, hey, I just met you.
	I'm going to cheat on you for three years plus.
	And you're going to love it.
	Stay home.
	Don't go out.
	Yeah, be honest, though.
	Be honest with what you're going to do.
	But how would you respond to that, though?
	It depends on who you are to the girl, too.
	You leave, right?
	So imagine this.
	The guy that wants to date you, let's say he gets you by skin of his teeth.
	He ends up dating you.
	He's like, you know what?
	I'm a horn dog.
	I got problems, but you're cool as hell.
	I like you.
	I want to be with you.
	If I tell you the truth, you're going to leave.
	So then why would he tell you the truth?
	Because then it's your honest.
	If I want to stay or if I want to leave, that's my free will.
	You have to be honest about that shit.
	I agree with you.
	Men should be honest.
	But the problem is that, like, okay, as a man, dating is hard in itself.
	And let's say you are a guy that just got a girlfriend or got a girl.
	You don't lose her.
	She's like, you know what?
	I'm going to do as least as possible.
	Okay, so you're selfish then.
	And that's and you're going to get some karma.
	So it's up to you.
	It's a level of honesty in the beginning.
	I feel like I think all men should be honest.
	I prefer that shit.
	You definitely can't tell a girl you're calling.
	But if you look it up all the way from a girl at the very beginning, she's probably just like that.
	Nah, I prefer that shit.
	If you're going to say, hey, I'm open, I have a guy right now.
	Hey, I'm seeing other women.
	That's it what it is.
	I respect the fuck out of that.
	Certain things you give me.
	I really do because that shit is attractive.
	Like, that shit is different.
	And that's why I'm going to be more attracted to that person.
	Like, wow, you're honest.
	Like, you're real.
	Just because you stay doesn't mean she's going to stay.
	I don't have them.
	But still, you have karma coming your way if you don't.
	Either way, it is still good to be honest, but to what extent is my point?
	Because you're going to leave at some point.
	Whether it's honest or too hard.
	No, you be honest, and if they don't appreciate it, goodbye.
	You go to the next bitch.
	That's it.
	That's it.
	Be a real ass person.
	I agree with you, but definitely it doesn't work that way in real life.
	But go ahead.
	No, I was just going to say, for crazy girls, at least, be honest from the jump, especially if you know they're crazy.
	It doesn't work.
	Now, I'll say this, about being...
	If you want to get your way, don't work that way.
	But karma will meet.
	What was the question?
	Like, what are y'all talking about?
	What was the question?
	Because she wants to see other people.
	So, yeah, she wants to honestly.
	She should be honest or not.
	You should be honest.
	That shit for attractive.
	Because I'd be chasing that dude.
	Because choose me type shit.
	Yeah.
	If that's your man, if that's your girl, you should at least.
	And if she, like, you feel me?
	If she on program, just like you, you should let her know what's up.
	And if she with it, then she with that.
	She's not done.
	Kick her to the curve because that's what you want.
	That's what you want.
	Okay.
	How many guys are honest with you?
	Huh?
	How many guys are honest with you?
	Barely.
	And that's why the one dude that is, the one dude that is is attractive.
	The one dude that is, it's like you're honest, and that should attract.
	Yes, truthfully.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I'm telling you, as a guy, how are they going to respond to being honest?
	Because they don't want to be left.
	Now, you don't understand because you're not a girl.
	No, but is it right?
	No, but that's just how men operate.
	Okay, but as a woman, if you are honest and say, hey, I'm seeing other women, we're going to say, okay.
	And as we catch feelings, we're going to feel some type of way.
	Definitely.
	But we're going to be real, fucking real and be like, yo, he was honest with me as opposed to the other guys who don't have any accountability.
	It just, it just, I don't know how to explain it.
	It's like, I don't know how to explain it.
	Like, as a girl, you can't really understand as a man.
	But, like, I'll start to feel feelings for you.
	And then shit might start to change.
	I'll be real jealous and shit.
	But I'll still respect the fact that you were honest about it.
	Yeah.
	So, I get what you're saying.
	I'm sure you understand as well.
	What's the issue you think with that if you tell her everything up front in the very beginning?
	I mean, we all, see, I come from a street.
	I come from a street mentality.
	So my thing is, honesty gets you killed too.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	So there's certain things you can't tell in a relationship in the beginning, but you never tell a woman everything.
	As a man, you never give her all your cars.
	You know what I mean?
	Because what happens at some time, especially when a woman gets very emotional, because most women think emotion is not logical.
	They'll use the things against you that you told them before.
	So it is very, you know, unwise to tell a woman everything about yourself in the beginning.
	I feel like over time in a relationship, yes, I get to know you and I trust you, then I will start to, you know, show you more of myself and, you know, become open to you.
	But in the beginning, hell no.
	I'm going to give you the basic and see how we go from there.
	You know what I mean?
	So listen, there are some issues in dating, as we all know here.
	We got videos that play here that kind of illustrates this in full time because most people that date nowadays do it casually, like you said, for fun, for a little excitement, maybe even some FOMO.
	But there's no real connection here between both parties because I want something from her.
	She wants something from me.
	But at the same time, how do we bridge that gap between men and women?
	That's the hardest part.
	So video is going to be coming up here in one second here.
	Yeah.
	It's a guy, a random guy in the car, Spinny Fox Will dating in the current year we're in right now.
	Here we go.
	Go ahead, keep working.
	I might ruffle some feathers with this one, but if you thought that dating in 2025 was bad, 2026 just cremated it.
	Dating isn't just cooked anymore.
	It's overcooked.
	Charcoal.
	Burnt.
	And here's where it went wrong.
	Everyone was told they deserve the best without becoming better.
	Now, we've got people who want marriage benefits with talking stage effort.
	Everybody wants loyalty.
	Nobody wants discipline.
	Everybody wants honesty.
	Nobody wants accountability.
	Social media has convinced people that they've got many options.
	And dating apps convince them that they're special.
	Now, average effort thinks it deserves elite results.
	Men are becoming more feminine.
	Women are becoming more masculine.
	And everyone is shocked why.
	I'll tell you why.
	You've got men who want constant reassurance and emotional fucking babysitting.
	And you've got women who want to lead, dominate, and debate everything like it's a freaking podcast.
	Men say that women are unrealistic.
	And women say that men are immature.
	Although both are right, both are still single.
	I miss when dating used to be, how do we build this together, babe?
	Now it's, what can I get without committing?
	And no.
	That is the actual issue now isn't dating.
	How do I get what I want without committing in real time?
	And that's both men and women, by the way.
	What can you offer me?
	How can I get sex?
	So with that example, obviously from the video as well, how would you, I guess, solve the issue from your point of view?
	And I'll start here because I feel like you might have a bit more of a deal, but like, how would you fix the issue now?
	Because that's the issue.
	We want something for nothing.
	But I'm giving up honesty, loyalty, and respect.
	Man, I don't know.
	It's kind of deep.
	So I got it.
	It was kind of deep.
	i just feel like you're just choosing the easy way like the easiest way is to be i don't know man Because I'll give you an example, right?
	Here's the issue.
	You meet a girl.
	Let's say you're a guy, right?
	You meet a girl.
	You want sex.
	She wants provision and like, obviously, she wants to be taken care of.
	But she doesn't know you.
	You don't know her.
	So you're going to finagle, maybe like finesse like, yo, this is my car.
	This is where I live.
	Because you want to show that you could provide, but you're not really doing anything in real time.
	She may say, you know what?
	Oh, this guy's living a lifestyle.
	He's dope.
	I'm going to go for him.
	But there's two things that happen in there.
	One, he told you, in a way, he could provide for you.
	But he didn't give much, if anything at all.
	She's like, you know what?
	I got a provider.
	I'll give it to him.
	So that's the issue here where both parties are trying to get something from each other without giving them actually what they want or need.
	What do you think?
	I really believe it comes down to who, if the man really wants a relationship.
	Because I feel like people say women dictate stuff.
	Now, men dictate, I feel like 100% relationship, especially in the beginning.
	If a man wants to be with a woman and he wants to see if she's worthy, he's going to take his time.
	A real man is not going to leave with money.
	If I really like you, I'm going to hit you with like, hey, let's catch a movie, you know, have a cafe, let's talk because I want to see if you're genuine.
	Now, if a man just wanted to, you know, get his rocks off, I'm going to jump out, hop the wallet from the beginning, put the Lambo out, rent the house, come pull up, try to get the panties the first night.
	So it all depends on where the man wants to go in a relationship.
	Like if I'm looking for a wifey, I'm going to do wifey things, which is going to take me time and I'm going to slow things down.
	And if that woman kind of follows in my footsteps and she's taking things slow, then it's for me to take it serious.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	So I really feel like it comes down to what the man wants.
	Now, if the woman jumps really quick, try to, you know, jump at the money, yeah, I know she's a piece of shit.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, unfortunately not.
	Straight up.
	But if she kind of sits me and I say, you know what?
	I kind of like you.
	Well, that's not what I'm feeling right now.
	She'll walk away from you.
	Now it's for you to recalibrate.
	You'll be like, you know what?
	I kind of like this shit because she didn't jump out the window when I pulled the Lambo out.
	And she's telling me she don't like what I'm doing.
	So you know what?
	Let me be more real.
	You know what I mean?
	Come open up to him.
	I'm like, you know, this is what I thought it was.
	But you know what?
	I kind of like you more because you kind of, you put me in my place.
	I'm like, you know what?
	I'm doing shit kind of wrong.
	Yeah.
	So I feel like it really comes down to what the man really wants because if the woman sees you real, she's gonna come at you real.
	But if you see you a bullshitter, man, come with your bullshit, too.
	Who agrees with that sentiment?
	Okay.
	So man should be up front and be real at the very beginning.
	Okay.
	What should a woman do?
	The same.
	I don't know, the same, the exact same.
	Just be man, honest.
	And I don't know, yeah.
	So when you go with a guy, be honest.
	You meet a guy, right?
	At the very beginning of that date, you tell him everything about yourself?
	No.
	That scares off people.
	So that's my point.
	You can't even tell a nigga everything.
	But that's my point with both parties.
	If we both said at the very beginning, hey, I just want to fuck you or I just want to get your money, it wouldn't work, right?
	No.
	But to your point, you got it better for a process.
	So coffee date, chill date, get to see who she really is, go from there.
	However, in this case, Ms. Jarbreaker, you just made $8 million, right?
	Off of a lawsuit, which is fucking insane, by the way.
	I don't understand.
	If you're at that point, how would someone even like match that?
	Because what do you compare that to?
	Other than a multi-millionaire that's super successful.
	I'm like, I'm so retarded.
	What's the question again?
	I completely leave it today.
	Okay, we watched the video.
	Okay.
	He said there's an impasse between men and women because obviously men are focused on getting what they want.
	Okay.
	Women are too.
	Okay.
	She's mentioned before.
	She'd be honest up front.
	Okay, men want sex, women want money.
	Exactly.
	Okay.
	But you already have your money.
	Okay, yeah.
	So my question for you is, how do you get past that hurdle because you're already at that point?
	Well, okay, I have my money from like my lawsuits.
	I also make my money from social media.
	It's good money combined.
	Like I said, it's not like for life.
	And like, I don't want just these like.
	It's not like, okay, I want to keep growing.
	I want to be with a guy and I want to do business together.
	I want to be an entrepreneur.
	That's actually like my dream.
	I don't want to do social media.
	He can't eat chocolate, though.
	But he can't be chocolate.
	No, again, I want my children to have fathers.
	So other than that, anything else, I just want to be able to grow a business without you.
	For my vacation today.
	Listen.
	Be it for my kids, you know what I mean?
	Everybody in your life.
	You're a little bit special.
	My favorite Flint.
	Okay, oh, yeah, but.
	I forgot.
	What's the question you get?
	I'm so confused.
	maybe above you're talking about you're talking about oh I already have money so what do I want from a man Yes.
	Yeah, like I said, I want more money.
	Okay.
	Okay, I want to grow together.
	I want to have a business together and work our way up and I want to rule the world with my men together.
	You know what I mean?
	Obviously, have a happy family, you know, have kids and travel, do all the fun stuff that you do in life, you know?
	There's no end goal in life.
	You just progress as much as you can with career and family.
	Got it.
	So you want more money?
	We'll go over here.
	Again, the impasse here is that men want something for women, a little committing, and vice versa.
	Should I be kind?
	Should I be kind?
	Just keep it real.
	I think that your race is a fuck.
	And I think that you're going.
	I think you're a snow bunny.
	I think that you're offending that guys that you like.
	I think that you're saying what one race is mad, fucking weird.
	I don't like that.
	You're trying to go viral or you're just weird.
	I'm already viral, girl.
	Okay.
	So either way, I'm going to say what I'm going to say.
	Yeah, I wasn't interrupting you, girl.
	I thought the definition of racism was hatred towards an ethnic group.
	Yeah, she's saying...
	Did she say she hates black people?
	No.
	No, she didn't.
	She's going to date them.
	Yeah, she has her type that she likes when she don't like.
	That's why you know that is like for me, certain chicks I don't like, but certain most chicks I do like.
	So it all depends on what you like And unfortunately she's been She's saying that black people will not be fathers She's making a joke.
	It's a statement.
	That's not a joke, though.
	But it's not racist either.
	I'm a quarter black.
	I'm not offended.
	I'm not offended.
	I'm saying that I'm not a Fanji either.
	But I'm saying, if you're saying black people cannot take care of children, that's a problem.
	She's a lot of people.
	I'm not saying they can't take care of that.
	It's a system.
	That's a fucking problem.
	I ain't gonna cap.
	My mama's Mexican and black, but I'm black.
	Black people can take care of fathers, period.
	Like, period.
	There are some, yes, but it's also just like how she made the joke that she's stinky because she's not a fan of that.
	It's not a joke.
	She's in the air.
	I don't take care of fathers.
	I don't give a fuck.
	All black people.
	So where's your father?
	I'm just asking.
	Who's my father?
	I'm saying my father's Anthony Banks.
	What's she talking about?
Black People Can Take Care 00:10:07
	Okay, get her out of here.
	Okay.
	Get her out of my mind.
	My dad is having a father.
	No, no, Stephen.
	Here's the issue.
	I think the impasse here is that, like, you know, like, look at what you said in the first place, which is fine.
	Who gives a fuck?
	She's being racist and weird as fuck.
	No, you're white.
	What are you talking about?
	Hold on.
	Talk to a black person, man, because I'm black.
	You just said, where's her phone?
	Don't talk.
	I'm just talking about chill.
	What was the question?
	You said earlier that you did not have a father.
	Hold on.
	I have a father.
	Mr. Banks.
	I have a father.
	You said he wasn't in your life.
	I have a father.
	My mom is not in my life because she's dead.
	You said your father was on your life earlier.
	My father is in my life.
	He's currently in my life.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Here we go.
	Listen, we're going to swatch this here because there's, listen, I get it.
	You don't like it.
	What does she want to do?
	She can say what she wants to say.
	It's a free-speech platform.
	Say what she wants to say.
	It's fine.
	All right.
	We'll go over here.
	You can.
	The video you watched it.
	What's the impasse here?
	Yes.
	I do agree.
	I think that nowadays people are just sleeping around with anybody.
	I think that you should really think about what you're doing when you're sleeping around because you're exchanging energy with people.
	I believe that if you want to find the one, find the one.
	But if you don't, stay single.
	If you're not a Christian, don't get married.
	And that's all I have to say.
	Here's the issue.
	She's wiping with her.
	No, no, she definitely has her right head on her shoulders.
	But my issue is we're not getting any better.
	We should do things a certain way.
	Be honest, be truthful, be real.
	But no one does that.
	It sounds good on paper, but like, let's be honest.
	No one tells them at the very beginning, I'm going to be the type of person dating you.
	I'm going to do this, this, and that.
	No one does that.
	So in all reality, we're still going to do the same things we do every single day with dating.
	My question is, to everyone watching, and you guys hear, if we want to do better as a society, how do we ever get past this impasse?
	Because remember, honesty is important, and being real is important.
	But being too real, sometimes, being too honest, could fuck you up.
	How do we get past that?
	Is this question of the only answer?
	But that's the thing with dating nowadays.
	I realize no matter how cool you are, how good you are, how much stats you have on the board, if you're not honest to a T where it makes sense for both parties, what do you really have?
	Nothing.
	Well, he said, like withholding certain information to a certain point so you know you can trust them.
	I feel like that definitely, I mean, we're on this earth.
	But again, he's skilled.
	He can actually say, you know, from my experience, if I give her this much, she can understand and move forward.
	But the average guy doesn't know that.
	True.
	Women don't know.
	I feel like women don't know that either.
	Women are kind of like...
	I feel like women go through the honeymoon phase every time they see something they like.
	Yeah.
	I feel like internet, social media as well, too, is brainwashed a lot of females nowadays to see, I cut a shit out.
	This is what I want.
	I have the fairy tale.
	The fairy tale feels like every time they might see something that's genuine or it feels good in the beginning, they jump on that bandwagon.
	Women got to take their time too because I feel like a woman is even more precious, you know, because you have that vagina.
	You have to protect that.
	You really got to really protect that.
	So if you guys think you see something that looks good and you get hyper about it and finally breaks your heart, it's not what you wanted.
	You got to have all man's garbage.
	No, you didn't take the time to vent that man.
	Men are not garbage.
	You just didn't vent the right guy.
	So there's nothing wrong with, I feel like, yes, women should date on a multiple level.
	Nah, never said sleeping with, date.
	Meaning, I should go on a coffee date.
	I should go on an alums date and hear that, I feel like, is the best thing women should do.
	Go on multiple dates, and you'll start learning about men.
	You'll start seeing triggers in this guy.
	This guy does certain things.
	His phone is down.
	He doesn't pick his phone up at nine o'clock.
	Yeah, date multiple guys.
	Go out and talk.
	You know, have conversations.
	Don't sleep with them.
	When you sleep with him and then he's not the guy you thought he was, then you guys have a problem with it.
	Oh, all guys are a piece of shit.
	No, you just didn't do the right thing.
	Well, they are.
	No, that's not true.
	That's not true.
	Not all men are bad.
	They're not.
	But most of them are.
	No, that's not true either.
	Just the men that you ran into in a small percentage.
	No.
	How old are you getting?
	I'm 22.
	You didn't even.
	How are you?
	36.
	Okay.
	How many bitches have you ran into that you didn't ran past?
	Let me tell you something.
	That you didn't dog out.
	Let me tell you something.
	I've doged out not even nowhere near what you probably think I would have dogged that.
	Every relationship I've ever left, I left him a decent note, except my ex-wife.
	Because she was emotional.
	She's the older woman.
	But because of my, what I've seen growing up around my uncles and my aunts and how they've gotten to arguments and how they de-escalate things, I've used that in my life.
	Outside of boxing, I'm a terrorist.
	I run down everybody.
	I'm a bully.
	I'm known for that.
	But in the real world, I've realized that coming to a situation with a female and it's not going my direction, I'd rather pull out.
	My mom has a same.
	When your hands in an alligator mouth, pull out slowly.
	Is your mom Jamaican?
	No, my mom's from Belize.
	But I have Jamaican parents.
	I have Jamaican dominance.
	You don't want to jump out of the frying pan into the fire.
	So the main thing is like this.
	If I know this woman is not all right in the head, I'm not going to, oh, fuck her, not pick a phone call.
	But you know what, baby girl, this ain't for me.
	You know, I think, you know, we got to separate and face it.
	Why?
	Because I know you're emotional.
	I've seen what you've done when you don't get your own way.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	Like, the way how you guys are fired up to come each other.
	Because she said something.
	No, I'm a mature man.
	It's not what she said.
	No, no.
	Well, I'm saying it triggered you in some capacity.
	It did not even trigger you.
	No, no.
	Well, I'm trying to say it did.
	Because look how you're getting angry about it.
	You know what I'm trying to say?
	Because, like, I'm not taking it.
	No, what she said.
	You can't let somebody else.
	You can't.
	What she said about black fathers don't take care of their kids out of the picture.
	Because I have many black fathers.
	No, no, no, no.
	What I'm trying to say is that you're not going to be able to.
	Nobody tell me.
	No, what I'm trying to say.
	No, it's not about that.
	We're on a show.
	But she's expressing her opinion.
	It's a show.
	It's a show.
	What I'm trying to say.
	For you to even get that loud show is a maturity level we're at right now.
	It's understandable you're defending the black folks right now.
	That's great.
	And I don't care if you're black, spat, or white.
	I don't respect bullies.
	It's not being a bully.
	She's not being a bully.
	She's not being a bully.
	She's trying to be viral.
	Okay, you don't see that.
	Everybody else sees that.
	You can say she's cracking jokes and she's taking a phone call.
	It's not a joke.
	She's getting fucking serious.
	I mean, listen.
	She's capitalizing at the end of the day.
	She's using it for content.
	That's her prerogative.
	I'm just going to say this.
	This is a platform she can say whatever she wants on this present fit.
	We go back all the time.
	We say we're shit.
	But be honest with you guys, I'm not going to lie.
	That actual core scene is kind of a real thing because, okay, look at this way.
	The stats are different, of course, from what you're saying.
	But people say it all the time.
	It's out there.
	So it's there for a reason.
	Anyhow, we should do a short break here.
	We're from our sponsor.
	Please.
	And then we'll come back.
	But listen, I get it.
	You're offended by it.
	Nobody's offended by it.
	She's just saying it.
	You're either trying to go viral or you're weird as fuck.
	So I don't really fuck with you.
	That's it.
	I don't care who agrees with it.
	I don't fuck with you.
	That's it.
	So cool.
	So come fight me.
	Yeah.
	Come fight me.
	Stop.
	She just.
	and not all that is my father it's a father in the middle there's no fight if he's not all black people can't take care of that so come hit me and not love in your way that's wrong this wouldn't be happening if my room was here I know.
	Myron would have already been settled.
	You guys can't expect you too much to matter.
	Myron would have been like, chill, chill, chill.
	Black fathers take turns to can't take care of their kids.
	My dad does.
	My dad is one of the ones.
	My dad's like blessed.
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	Alright, you may have seen all black people, period.
	What's that?
	I know what's wrong with us.
	Is there a problem?
	No, no, honestly.
	Is there a problem?
	Guys, because I don't read what she said.
	I ain't gonna lie.
	So if you don't agree with someone's side, you're gonna fight then or get mad at me.
	Girl, shut the fuck up!
	Fuck your ass!
	You're sleeping!
	One camera!
	Girl, shut the fuck up!
	No one's gonna get fighting, no one's gonna get hurt.
	Nothing's happening here.
	Get her out of here, W rigs, babe.
	Do you want to take a breather?
	Okay, okay, we're gonna chill.
	All right, I need everyone quiet in this room.
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Proving Stereotypes Wrong 00:13:36
	Period.
	Hello.
	Okay, so listen.
	We're looking at last thoughts here on the show before we close out.
	And of course, we're going to move on from there and be all good.
	If you need to leave, you can leave.
	It's fine.
	All right, cool.
	All right, Miller.
	All right, so we're going to start here.
	How's the show for you?
	Yeah, give me one second.
	Oh, y'all want to close out?
	Yeah, we're going to close that out.
	I enjoyed it.
	I like having conversations.
	I like being open to dialogue and having new opinions on things.
	I don't have like a closed off opinion.
	I'm always open to learning new things.
	And I enjoyed talking about dating and stuff and what's going on.
	And I hope Myron feels better.
	I know he's sick.
	But yeah, it was nice.
	Thank you.
	What about you?
	Wasn't what I was expecting, but it still turned out best the best way that you guys possibly can.
	I did want to ask him, as somebody that you are in, you're a boxer.
	What would you give?
	What advice would you give to somebody that wants to get into boxing?
	Boxing?
	Well, how old are they?
	21.
	I'm asked for myself because yes, if I'm Valentina, we're Valentina on Instagram.
	If any of my friends are watching, of course, I know they are.
	Are you trying to be a fighter?
	You're trying to get into it.
	I want to get in boxing both at the end of the day.
	It's good.
	Starting out.
	That's good.
	My vision board, I posted it today early in the morning.
	I wanted to.
	I have a boxing one.
	I've always wanted to.
	And after that fight, I'm telling you, I've never wanted to not want to be.
	Yeah, starting out, especially when you're going through relationship problems.
	I feel like with women, sometimes you're used to being in a relationship, right?
	Even with me, when I left, I got my marriage.
	I didn't like being alone.
	So I ended up being in a relationship that I wasn't supposed to right away because I want a rebound, right, to fill that void and gap.
	If I'd have focused more on my boxing, I wouldn't have got back in a rebound relationship so quick.
	So I feel like, especially as a woman, you need time to heal because you guys love emotionally very strong more than a man.
	That says when you break up, yeah, work on yourself, work on physical fitness, you know, eating, living healthy, being better for yourself mentally because you don't want to get from something like Caribbean out of the frying pan into the fire.
	Go from bad to worse.
	And then, you know what?
	It takes even twice as much work to get out of that deep hole.
	So for you, I would definitely say, you know what?
	Take a break from dating for a while.
	Focus on yourself.
	You know, like I said, people say, when I say get a therapist, not disrespect to her.
	What I'm saying sometimes is your friends that are around you are the ones that your therapists most of the time, right?
	And they might not have the information that you need to help yourself get out of that hole.
	Because no, all y'all are probably around the same age.
	Yeah, all have the same experience.
	None of y'all have been mature mentally enough to give the proper conversation or advice.
	So seeking help is nothing wrong with that.
	I have three therapists.
	I have a sports psychiatrist therapist.
	I have a relationship therapist.
	I have the marriage counselor I still told to.
	Damn.
	Why?
	Because the reason why is I know me.
	I have a built-in anger.
	That's why I love boxing.
	So once that switches on, there's no turn off.
	I'm killing everybody, right?
	But unfortunately, that's my part of my job.
	And I have three kids.
	So I have to know when I'm home to know how to turn it off.
	And sometimes it takes somebody, hey, you know what?
	When you see these things in your own behavior, how do I deal with that?
	Bro, I'm kind of going home angry because my contract wasn't done this way or somebody cut me off on the road.
	That's become an adult, you know.
	And us as men, we don't really have much people to talk to, right?
	About emotional things like that.
	So yes, training, exercise is one of them.
	But having somebody to talk to, there's nothing wrong with that.
	Nothing wrong with saying I need someone to talk to that that's been there and done that.
	You know, sometimes our parents are the ones we go through the most therapists, but sometimes our parents didn't have the right information for us and puts more in the deep hole.
	So again, professional help and staying in the gym, you'd be more than fine.
	You bounce back 10 times quicker.
	Okay, thank you so much.
	I really appreciate that.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Thoughts on the show?
	Hey, they love it.
	What was the question?
	What was the question?
	Thoughts on the show?
	I love this show, but I didn't give a fuck what the fuck this bitch said right here.
	Because what?
	Black fathers, they take care of their children.
	The fuck, period.
	Hello.
	Okay, what about you?
	And then okay, wait.
	Okay, I understand that not all black fathers take care of their children.
	Hold on.
	Do me a favor.
	Let's go through this after we do all this and then we'll.
	Nah, look, hold on, hold on.
	Let me talk.
	I understand what.
	No, I don't understand what she's saying, but I'm just saying, like.
	We're going to pause real quick.
	Come back to this after the altitude therapies.
	Oh, my God.
	I'm going to forget.
	I got you.
	We'll come back to it.
	We'll get off YouTube, but we'll get off other stuff too.
	Yeah.
	Closing thoughts.
	Closing thoughts.
	Okay.
	Burn it hurts.
	Yeah.
	Rumble after.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I was just joking.
	My name is Jawbreaker Girl underscore.
	My name is Jawbreaker Girl underscore Instagram.
	I'm a professional rage baiter and internet troll.
	I just about to get beat up.
	That would get me out of the way.
	No, no, no.
	Very viral clips.
	Not on YouTube.
	If you want to, please do.
	But yeah, if you want to see comedy content like racist dark humor, no only fans, jobber girl underscore on Instagram.
	That's what to say.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I loved it.
	I love it.
	Let's go.
	Where can I find you, brother?
	You know, Big Baby Miller, B-I-G-B-B-Y-M-I-L-L-E-R, Instagram, TikTok, Twitter.
	Google me.
	You're going to find a bunch of shit.
	And we'll bring you back, bro, in the other studio as well.
	Yeah, 100%, man.
	Bills, cut YouTube.
	I want to go into these two right here.
	These three right here.
	Because I'm not going to hold you.
	You need to use Bipolar, right?
	Oh, no, no.
	So listen.
	I got to exit my mic.
	Good.
	You go ahead.
	You go.
	You're going to talk.
	All right, bro.
	Yeah, we can.
	All right.
	Okay.
	So guys, come on to Rumble Man.
	We're going to close out YouTube and, of course, keep Rumble and kick on going.
	So listen.
	I'll give you confirmation.
	Yeah, let me know real quick.
	Before we do that.
	Hey, ladies, have baby guys up.
	Good to go.
	One sec, guys.
	Good.
	All right.
	We're free now on Rumble.
	You can say whatever you want to say.
	Do whatever you want to do.
	My question for you is, she made a statement.
	What was the statement?
	What was the statement?
	She mentioned that.
	I want her to talk to me.
	Yeah.
	What was the statement that you said, please?
	I would prefer the father of my children not to be black because I want him to be present in their life.
	Okay.
	And I understand.
	Okay, look.
	I understand what you're saying.
	Let me show it in the middle.
	But not all black fathers is bad.
	This.
	I want to hear it.
	Of course, not all black fathers are bad.
	We just saw over here.
	He's an amazing father.
	And I'm not saying, like, to say that 100% of them are bad is obviously like okay.
	You prefer bad though.
	That's not what you said then.
	You prefer your father to be what?
	White?
	No.
	What?
	From Canada or something like this?
	Not that.
	Where then?
	Where?
	Her preference?
	Anywhere else.
	But why?
	Not black preference?
	Because there's good black people.
	Like, what are you talking about?
	That's culture.
	Okay.
	So, like, this is bad, black people.
	White people.
	Hold on, no.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Let her get a piece in.
	Can I get her in?
	Listen.
	Listen.
	She's a rage man.
	She.
	No, no, no, no.
	She.
	She's serious.
	I would never do that.
	That's messed up.
	So you're dressed.
	Fuck you said you're a rage.
	Don't tell me.
	I shouldn't even get mad.
	Don't have to talk about it.
	I should never mad.
	Let me know now.
	I shouldn't even get mad.
	No, no.
	I mean, she said it.
	She said it.
	No, I shouldn't get mad.
	That was AI.
	You didn't say you're a rage man.
	That was AI.
	That was artificial intelligence.
	That was children.
	She's the type of bitch.
	I fucking fuck up into the dirt, bitch.
	You fuck up AI girls?
	Bitch, shut the fuck up.
	Why would you beat up AI?
	Your nipples about to come out.
	Yeah, we don't want to put this on camera.
	Please, dear girl.
	Are you mad because what she said earlier?
	Fuck out of my face.
	No, hold on.
	I said, get the fuck up.
	No, That's staff.
	She's a part of the team.
	Let's focus.
	Nobody wants to talk about the racism part.
	It wasn't racist.
	No, it's not racist.
	It wasn't racist.
	No, he cares.
	Nobody else is offended but you.
	And you're like, white person.
	You can't take care of children.
	Did you say that?
	Did you say that?
	Yes or no?
	Did you say that?
	Black people.
	I will give you.
	Did you say that black people can't take care of children?
	Say that.
	Yes or no?
	Did you say that?
	I'm saying that you guys.
	Did you say that?
	Black people can't take care of children.
	Did you say that?
	Yes or no?
	I'm waiting for you to stop screaming so I can answer.
	What's that?
	Good.
	I want you to go back and show me exactly where I said that black people can't take care of children.
	I will give you double what you make in a year as an escort.
	I'm asking you.
	And I'm not saying you.
	Oh, shit.
	Did you say that?
	I'm asking you.
	I didn't say it.
	I'm asking you to find you.
	I said that.
	Pay you double what you make in this court.
	I'm asking you, did you say that?
	I can give you 2K, whatever the fuck you make.
	Double God, babes.
	Fresh.
	Are you going to be a good father one day?
	You know what?
	Yes.
	Yes, I think so too.
	I think so too.
	But again, can y'all run that back?
	This is what you said it.
	Every black man.
	So I think that's a good man.
	Not every white man.
	Not every white man.
	So, okay, okay, okay, but y'all don't got kids off.
	Okay, well, y'all don't got kids.
	Oh, y'all is crazy.
	Y'all is crazy.
	I ain't gonna care.
	I got that though.
	Because about the niggas that got kids, nigga, they take care of their kids.
	The niggas that I fuck with, they take care of their kids.
	What?
	Ten toes behind their kids.
	Like, the fuck.
	But that's.
	But why are you getting so mad, though?
	Because, like, look, I don't have no problem with you, but you speaking on like shit that you really like, okay?
	You probably do know, but you, because, because shit that you've seen online and shit.
	Like, you.
	Look, shut up.
	No, no, look, shut up.
	No.
	She's like, shut up.
	Look.
	She's all got shit that you.
	No, look.
	You're trying to instagate girl.
	But you guys fell for it.
	You fell for it.
	Okay, listen.
	I see you're right.
	Stereotypes exist for a reason.
	Look.
	Just don't say shit about black people.
	Stereotypes exist for a reason.
	Why is I'm offending them?
	There's multiple.
	Basically, yeah.
	There's multiple black men in the room right now or any of you are familiar with.
	You're not offending me, but people you're gonna defend.
	No one, everyone said.
	I'm Asian.
	I'm smart.
	My IQ is 114.
	My dad's black and Asian.
	My mom's Cuban.
	I'm not offended.
	My mom is Mexican and black, nigga.
	My daddy's fuck black.
	Like, the fuck.
	But again, we're proving stereotypes here.
	I'm not.
	I'm just trying to, like.
	Hey, look, at the end of the day, words and words.
	She's not talking about.
	She's getting mad at words.
	She's not talking about enough.
	That's me.
	Nathaniel here.
	She's not talking about me.
	It's just words.
	Don't nobody know who take care of who.
	What?
	Black people, white people.
	What you saw in Canada?
	Like, the fuck?
	I'm still Canadian.
	Yeah, whatever.
	I'm just telling you.
	I'm taking care of people, bitch, because I got people in my family, bitch.
	That's from Canada, bitch, and don't take care of their kids.
	Fuck you talking about the fuck.
	So what you really talking about?
	Bitch, you're going to get me hyped up, and I'm not trying to.
	I'm going to do all of that in front of you.
	So let me before I get hyped up.
	I'm just saying.
	Y'all not trying to hear that, though.
	That's what?
	She just told me.
	She just told me.
	Back in the day.
	Back in the day.
	Yo, dog.
	She's a master at this.
	Oh, yeah.
	She just said that.
	Yeah, she's a red Myron, right?
	And she got me baited.
	You guys are so lucky.
	You guys are so lucky Myron's not here.
	He would have been like, he would have said so much worse shit and it would have made you guys so upset.
	He would have said Indians stink.
	He would have said Asians are smart.
	He would have said women deserve less.
	He would have said all the stuff that would have made you guys so mad.
	Words and words, guys.
	Don't take it that serious.
	Listen, it's all content.
	And they fellas.
	Sorry, ladies, I get it.
	It's triggering, but it's true.
	Triggering.
	I would argue that.
	What's true?
	What's true?
	I could debate off the body.
	I'm talking about faith.
	I would argue that most people would make the joke of saying, hey, as a black father, most of them leave.
	That's a joke.
	Okay, no, no, no, no.
	There's some death to a stereotype here as well.
	Where, you know what?
	And you've heard the saying, like, oh, we went to go get milk.
	Like, that's a saying.
	Like, it's literally just a saying.
	There's many stereotypes.
	Like, when she's, she's just trying to read it.
	Yeah, she is.
	Don't get milky.
	You don't know.
	I would never rage bait.
	Exactly.
	That's just a single serial.
	And then they say Asians are smart.
	And then they say, like, Asians are super smart.
	They say Indians sing.
	She even made a joke about herself saying that she is wearing 72-hour deodorants.
	Okay, well, I didn't hear that.
	All I heard was the bad part.
	I didn't hear that.
	I would never rage bait.
	I'm being very serious.
	But on real, though, I do think that, yes, there are negative stereotypes.
	Of course, like, oh, whatever.
	Black people don't, you know, not good fathers.
	Indian people smell bad.
	But the thing is, if you're gonna, if we're gonna, if someone tells me, like, yo, job girl, you smell like shit.
	I'm like, no, I know, I shower every day.
	I start getting mad at them.
	Does that not, like, does that not make me look bad?
	You know what I mean?
	If I'm able to joke about it, then that proves that I know that, oh, Indians don't shower.
	I know it's just a stereotype.
	I know it's just a joke.
	At the end of the day, when you said...
	I wouldn't say Indian's like, but Indian aliens.
Raging Against Stereotypes 00:01:17
	I'll take care of their kids.
	But you gotta make it.
	There's some truth to that.
	I love butter chicken every day.
	That's what I eat.
	That's what it is.
	Butter chicken.
	With the bread, with the garlic bread.
	What are you talking about?
	The non, the garlic non.
	But I don't want to sit there and talk about like, nigga, they don't take care of their kids or nothing like that.
	You could say any other joke.
	Fuck you talking about do you want?
	No, hell no.
	They're stereotypes.
	If someone says that stereotype and I get mad at them, oh my god, what do you mean I don't shower?
	I do shower.
	Does it not look bad for me?
	That looks like I.
	Oh, well, you said butterfly.
	But if I'm like, oh, it's funny.
	And I say, oh, oh, my God, what's a shower?
	And I joke around.
	Here's the issue.
	I'll just say this and we can close up.
	When you say certain words and they control you, that means that you're under control of a word.
	Or a group of words, which means you don't.
	I really don't even give a fuck, but I just feel like shit.
	I'm the only one.
	You don't give a fuck here.
	You're not getting mixed.
	You're not raging.
	You feel me?
	Like, you're raging.
	I'm on the successful rage.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Well, listen, this was a great show.
	A lot of back and forth here.
	I wish you guys the best with the wording.
	And you can't handle it.
	It's funny.
	Guys, we're back on.
	You can handle it.
	Well, you get, you can handle it.
	I can handle it.
	Chessmack can handle it.
	I'm on my way.
	I don't want to make everything.
	Okay.
	What are you talking about?
	All right, guys.
	Peace right here.
	He's right.

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00:56:29 What Men Really Want
01:11:08 Black People Can Take Care
01:21:15 Proving Stereotypes Wrong
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