Fresh critiques modern dating’s transactional nature, where men face "6-6" demands—height, income, and physical traits—while women often prioritize financial gain or social validation over commitment, citing studies like the rise of female proposals for "50-50" relationships. He warns of red flags: multiple attention avenues (e.g., Instagram) and women using men for material benefits, like free meals or gifts, while ignoring exclusivity. With 2,000+ dates, he argues dating’s ROI is negative, even for wealthy individuals, and advises men to protect their resources by assessing genuine interest via FaceTime before investing time or money. Ultimately, he suggests dating’s current structure favors women’s convenience over men’s long-term security, making single life a pragmatic choice. [Automatically generated summary]
And it's crazy because at the same time, I was in Vegas with some good people.
I went to a bunch of podcasts and then LA as well.
And I found something very peculiar about the dating scene in Vegas.
And I was like, hold on a second here.
I put this together with Miami, Vegas, New York, LA.
And it was like, wow, this is so important.
And also, I spoke to a big dating coach over there.
You guys probably know who I mean.
He spoke about how dating nowadays is so transactional that even at the lowest level, if you're an average guy trying to make it out of life and you want to have a girlfriend, it's going to cost you a lot of money.
And not only that, is we're fighting a battle where we have to actually have all these things in check, which is, again, you guys know the 6-6 is six feet tall, six-figure income, and of course, six inches.
That's the standard for most girls.
But the requirements now are so upscale and so transactional that even if you could afford to take care of a chick and have done long term, is she even worth, you know, doing this for?
And then not only that, is that they've been with many guys before you.
So it's kind of like you're damn if you do that, damn if you don't.
So I mentioned this before on other podcasts.
A lot of my friends that I know just, quite frankly, just to be real, you guys, this is paper box.
Now, I used to be like, oh, you guys are weird.
Why are you doing that?
That's fucked up.
Is it not kind of like, you know, cringe?
But the more I'm into this scene, I see what's happening clear as day.
And it may so crazy, guys.
I know it sounds crazy.
Like, fresh, we talking about.
But at the same time, you got to remember this.
What is the ROI on your time?
What's the ROI on you making all the because guys, 2030 is around the corner.
We got what?
Four more years before AI is in full effect.
And then I wonder, like, okay, if we're going to put time and energy into women, you know, what is real ROI on this?
Because I get it.
You know, you want a baddie, you want a 10 out of 10, if you can.
But the maintenance on these hoes, bro, it's bad.
Like, like, dude, like, I was doing some stuff with some friends, and we just talked about like, you know, our lives, we got going on.
And the ones that have girlfriends, I look at their actual, like, I see, yo, bro, just keep her a beam, bro.
How much you spending like to maintain your girl?
And when I heard the numbers, I was like, yo, bruh.
Like, because, guys, I've been over 2,000 dates now at this point, over 2,000.
I can say this without a shadow of a doubt.
It is cheaper for me, for me personally to do this than have a girlfriend.
I'll tell you why.
Because I'm getting free access to things.
Shout out to good people here in Miami.
Free access in Vegas.
Shout out to Michael Sartain.
And I'm able to create an environment where we have everything that I can ask for.
Not because of me paying, but because I've made connections.
Now, in that environment, I'm able to thrive and do well and have my frame there because I'm living into the scenario, my good people that I know through and through.
So companies have to tell you guys that like, you know, I'm able to do things a certain way.
But for the average guy, you go out for some drinks with a girl, you're going to spend minimum 50 bucks.
And that's not terrible.
But let's say you get two, three drinks with your girl on the date.
That's maybe $200, $300 right there.
So on this cost alone, I just wonder, like, what's the ROA?
Because, yeah, okay, you get to smash.
Then what?
Now, this is where I say you have to understand what you want.
Now, as men, as we go about our daily day tasks, we want to optimize and be better at what we do through and through.
And then maybe on 2000 dates, I realize, yes, I get a lot of information for you guys on the podcast, obviously behind the scenes.
Obviously, you know, Mario's focused on politics, but nothing has improved at all.
When I say prove, I mean the actual worthiness of a date.
Because girls have the mindset of, okay, from TikTok and from other friends, bare minimum is you paying and at the bare minimum, taking care of her needs.
And obviously comfort is actually going to help you guys as well.
If the girl's comfortable, she's more easy to, you know, I want to say, be part of your program and of course follow your lead.
But here's where the issue comes.
There's a dating app called Court Courting.
And on the app, girls have a fee that you have to pay to take them on a date.
Nigga.
I'll say this again.
On the courting app, here's a fee that they put for their makeup, their hair, their nails.
And that's the requirement fee for you to even take them on a date.
Now, this is a U.S. thing and a Western thing for the most part.
Because I've been to DR Fellas and there is some money involved there for sure because a lot of the American guys are going over there, fucking it up.
You know what I'm saying?
Another one.
But some girls over abroad are just focused on a good experience.
And that could just involve you just going to dinner, which is cheap over there.
It's like 10 bucks.
Or you just go into a nice walk on the beach.
I was in DR Fellas in my steel network guys.
Shout out to them.
I love you guys.
By the way, if you're seeing network guys, you got a coin to buy.
It's going to change your fucking life.
You know, I got you guys in there.
And we were on a retreat over there, just the boys.
And obviously, you know, we did our activities.
We did the speech engagements.
We did the talk, brothers being brothers.
And then we went, you know, we had a good time.
We're going to go out and get some girls.
We go out, goes to the guys are doing their thing.
I meet a girl that works at a sports bar we had some food at.
So talking to Shorty, whatever, get your Instagram.
Obviously, guys, as I said before, Instagram is the new dating app.
Sorry, the biggest dating app in the world because that's your social credit score and as well your digital footprint.
So she saw my page, of course.
Instantly, you know, she was ready to go.
And of course, that night we didn't hang out because we were all tired.
Next day we hang out, go to the beach.
You know, she told me in Spanish, because obviously, you know, niggas, I don't speak that much Spanish on translator.
She was like, I enjoy walking on the beach.
Thank you for this date.
I was like, oh, that is so sweet, man.
That is so sweet, man.
I was like, I have not heard that in the U.S. For decades, bro.
All I hear is, I want to go here.
This is what I expect.
This is what a man needs to do.
No, like, Where do we get so lost in society where women are just so entitled, bro?
And of course, you guys see the show we do every night pretty much, and it's just like, bro, what is the saving of grace here?
But here's my point: she was happy to just go walking on the beach with me, and that was it.
No money involved, just time, and of course, some effort with energy.
Then it's like, okay, I'm in America.
And just to even think about this on a real level with you guys, the average date nowadays, fellas, here's average date numbers, is a minimum 150.
Just minimum.
That's just food, possibly drinks, if you're lucky.
But then I say to myself, okay, women nowadays are more transactional than ever before because, obviously speaking, they want to make money off of guys.
But then if I do the math for a period of time, actually, there's a very good book that Aaron Clay wrote about this topic.
You guys should go check it out.
You're going to spend so much money and effort and time.
So use the box.
And I'm like, bro.
What is the ROI here?
And then it hit me when I went to Vegas, California, is right now, fellas, we're in a situation where there's no going back.
There's no like, oh, we're going to change women's minds and we're going to make sure we're good old America again, fellas.
We're cooked.
So here is my resolution for you guys, man.
After this, we'll do a Zoom call.
I'm going to show you guys some videos behind the scenes on Castle Club, Premium, and of course, Castle Club, of what I've been doing to get her up about this issue.
A lot of my friends do as well.
And this is something I was seeing in real time.
I told myself as well.
It's excuse.
I agree with you, brother.
Is right now we have an epidemic of escorts.
Now, you may say, Fresh, bro, dude, this has all been going on for generations, for years, like this is nothing new.
But then you have to realize, fellas, it is not only the women that you see that sell box online.
It is the college girls and the girls that you know, they're doing this same exact thing.
And then it's like, hold on, my girl would never do that.
You, Fresh, are you talking about?
My girl will never do that.
My sister, my auntie.
But then, you know, I hate to break it to you guys, but like this is something called Pretty Privilege.
And it goes as far as, you know, you're getting free drinks for yacht party, dinner.
You get as well gifts, wink wink, if you know what that means.
But then there's a level where it goes, for example, past that, where I'm going to keep it real with you guys.
There's girls that I've met.
I've told you guys some stories before in the past.
Here in Miami, traveling from maybe Ohio, maybe from Texas, come here for some fun, with boyfriends, by the way.
And their instant reaction to Miami is, wow, this is eye-opening.
This is amazing.
I'm in a whole new place.
I'm going to have some fun.
But then, here's my, I guess, conclusion to this statement.
Once they're here with the fun, pretty privileged, you know, and is happening.
They'll meet a guy.
And I know a bunch of them here in Miami.
Some scammers, some tricks.
They will splurge on these girls so much that now they're fucked up in the head.
And then you may say, oh, bro, I'm in all the way in Arkansas.
Like, this is not going to be how I'm going to be.
Well, fellas, there's internet.
There's TikTok.
There's X. Fellas, this shit spreads so fast.
And, you know, China.
China, by the way, bro.
China.
Them niggas are so smart.
They said, you know what, I'm not going to fight America head on.
I'm going to fight America from Wolfin, you know, them boys as well, with an app called TikTok.
And I'm going to brainwash the masks to say, you know what?
Fuck love.
I want some money.
Give me some money.
Just give me some money.
I'll be happy for women.
And that is the result we have today where women are entitled to the max.
Now, I said, I'll give you guys some solutions here, of course.
And this is some things I found on the go, thinking about it obviously all day, but I thought to dating coaches as well, my friends.
And we've been able to, I want to say, skip past some bullshit on this end because dating is definitely cooked.
But there is a hope you have, fellas, that is not going to make sure you're cooked, make sure you can survive and thrive in this escort economy.
Now, if you're broke, fellas, this is not going to work for you because you got to work on your money.
That's going to be number one.
Getting your money up.
That's going to be key for you because, fellas, any day, fellas, drinks of dinner.
It's more for you than her because, honestly speaking, fellas, that is not important.
You don't need to do all that stuff.
You can go for a nice walk, you know, nice date without having to pay for dinner or drinks or something very small.
Like, you know, some tacos, whatever.
Nothing crazy.
But if you're not where you want to be financially, you're still grinding, which most of you are, I guarantee you are because nobody is.
You know what I thought about, fellas, is that like, you have to make money for the rest of your life.
And look at it that way.
Like, okay, you might be balling now, but things can go down.
You can get fucked up financially.
You can get sued.
You never know what could happen.
So my point is, is that like your money has to be there working for you day in and day out.
But there's a sad tale here as well where I want to bring you guys attention is a lot of women, guys I met here in Miami especially, they've been balling.
They've been balling for years.
They've been going around town.
And I'm not going to lie.
Them niggas are on a different level.
But some of them get caught up in a trap where, you know, these women are very calculated, very conniving.
And I'm able to see it because I'm looking for an outside in.
Obviously, you know, obviously, my boys warned him, bro, bro, this is a bad look.
Don't do this.
But they still do it sometimes because they're horny, whatever, they're in the feelings.
So I know a guy, Haitian guy.
He started a business during COVID.
He sold medical products and accessories to hospitals and, of course, people that needed the assistance.
Guys, he made a bunch of money.
Now, he was on a spree, trip clubs, throwing 20, 30k a night.
And I'm like, nigga, what is going on here?
Mind you, I'm still watching because I'm just like, it's a good time, bro.
This is free table.
I'll take this shit.
But I'm like, yo, bro, you sure you want to spend 20, 30k a night in the club?
I mean, just impress some hoes.
I mean, you know what I'm saying?
Why Men Need More Money00:09:31
This is a better use of your money.
You could put it into cars if you want to, or maybe investing or something.
And he said, fuck that.
I'm going to enjoy my life.
Which he did.
But then he met some girls in Miami that I've seen about multiple times with different guys.
And I'm like, brother, this is going to be bad for you, bro.
This is going to be bad for you.
Not because, you know, they weren't bad looking, but it's because they were calculated.
They were very, very sinister in their tactics.
So what happened is he started dating this girl from the strip club.
And guys, you know where this is going, right?
You know where this is going.
It's going very down the dark path.
Speaking of dark and very dark myself.
And they dated for like six months.
Kind of find out at the sixth month, Mark, he was in Crypto Heavy.
He was doing very well in crypto.
He put the money from the COVID apparel and accessories into Bitcoin.
And his girl got his login.
One day, he left his phone open.
She was there.
She already packed her bags.
She had his planned out for a while.
Saw his passcodes.
And she drained his wallet.
That's right.
Another one.
Drained his wallet.
Now, you could say, well, fresh, bro.
I mean, that was just dumb.
He should have known better by keeping his phone locked.
But when you live with somebody, or they're around you all the time, they see your phone constantly.
They may look at how you're putting your passcode.
They may even look at your pattern, how you move your fingers to figure out where your code is.
Now, he's bragging about his success and his Bitcoin portfolio, crypto portfolio, obviously his gains.
And she basically left him and went on a plane back to, you guessed it, Columbia.
Now, at the same time, you know, it's fucked up.
They're still trying to find her.
And, you know, this is not a one-off story.
This happens a lot.
You'd be surprised.
Where women see what you have to offer.
They'll take it.
They'll sell you a dream.
And then just go because they can.
Now, oh, what up, Rolo?
Good to see you, brother.
I was in Vegas, man, with Rolo.
Rolo's a good role model, man.
Married for a couple years.
Sorry, a lot of years.
Very good person.
And I will say that, you know, he's been telling me behind the scenes, Fresh, you got to chill on some stuff.
And he's been right.
You know, he's right about the red pill itself, people in it.
And shout out to you, Rolo for supporting.
As usual, good person.
So that story is definitely hurtful.
But here's the point of the story as well.
Is that's a one-off in itself, but it does happen.
But I want you to imagine, like, what was the ROI of that relationship with the girl and him?
The ROI was, yeah, he got the smash.
He had a fun time.
But the women of today, for the most part, are not here for you.
They're here for a good time and for your resources.
Which leads me to say to you guys, what do you want out of life?
Because I'll tell you this, fellas.
Again, I've been on over 2,000 dates.
And I've had an amazing time with women.
But the ROI I've gotten wasn't worth the squeeze.
You guys saw some debacles, you know, the girls on the podcast, the whole shit with the aging.
I didn't want to go there.
But they will see the opportunity and try to take it.
So this is why I say fellas at certain levels.
And we'll start from like, let's say you're getting your money up.
Let's say you make it like 5K.
Let's say 3K a month.
Let's do the math here.
3K a month.
That's going to be like what?
That's nothing, fellas.
I'm not going to lie, that's nothing.
So let's say like 4,000, right?
4,000 by 50K roughly a year.
You have no rights dating.
That's right.
Said it.
Unless your girl is very simple and she's willing to work as well.
But how things are going, fellas, by 2030 is going to be extremely hard.
Actually, it's going to be worse than 2008 from what I've hearing from people above me.
Worse in 2008.
It's going to be expensive to live.
And you should own nothing and be happy.
That's the end result of it.
You have nothing and be happy because you can't afford it.
Real estate is going up, also as well.
Um, yeah, a lot's going up, which is why I say, like, you got to focus on what's important to you and to your friends and your family and to your livelihood because the ROI just isn't there.
The ROI women is not there by any means possible.
And here's the worst part: it's not getting any better, and it won't be.
So, at that level, where you're at, 50k a year is not enough, but a girlfriend is gonna drain you for sure.
Now, the reality is, most men don't make a lot of money.
Women are making a lot of money now more than ever.
So, here's a video I want you guys real quick where it's actually on the podcast.
Actually, watch the video, guys, and tell me what you think after the see, real quick.
It's our boy right here.
There we go.
When women make more money, the last thing they want to do is support a man.
Last thing they want to do is support a man.
Believe it or not, no, when women make good money, when women make good money, they don't.
When women make money, they don't need a man because they make enough money.
They have somebody.
Okay, repeat that sentence again.
When women make enough money, they don't really need a man.
Okay, say that one more time again.
When make enough money, when women make what did you say?
When they make enough money, they really don't need a man.
You do understand your sentence just defeated your entire argument, right?
No, it didn't.
It didn't.
But that's what I'm saying.
You said, you said women can't, you said women cannot be able to fight off or fan.
What a dope edit.
Yo, what a dope edit.
That is a really good edit.
Whoever made that edit, don't market for you, brother.
So, look, look, look, this is the point of that video, right?
Men are making less money.
Women are up and right coming into college, university, getting degrees, and getting their education on point to make more money than most men.
Which means, here is the issue: if men are not making more money like they used to, women are coming more dominant and in power with money.
And it will not be the man that makes less than them, unless you got some good dick, which pause, which is few far between from what I understand with women.
And if you do happen to be in that scenario, she's the boss, you're not.
So you still lose.
So even if you do get a woman that has more money than you to like date you, this is where I say, What is the ROI?
Is it worth being insulted, being laughed at, being put down just to survive?
I don't think so.
But again, that's your prerogative.
Go for it.
Now, here's my issue.
I've had chances to have girlfriends long term.
If you get married, and you know why I didn't have a girlfriend long term, I get married.
Not because I'm a degenerate.
I mean, but because I've realized I'm here in Miami, we're still grinding, we're still working hard as hell.
And I used to think, okay, you know what?
I'm just gonna have one girl, settle down, and run this shit up as much as possible.
I'm gonna go out to Barbados and chill, sip some football on the beach or some coconuts, and just relax, you know?
But then it hit me real, real quick.
It hit me really hard.
It's like the woman I'm meeting here in America, and also, by the way, in Europe, overseas, I can't put my finger on it, but I just had this feeling where, like, the ROI is just not there.
Now, is that every girl?
No, there's something I did mess up on that.
I guarantee you were definitely amazing women, amazing wives as well.
But fellas, look at it this way: we're all in the same boat.
Whether you got money or not, you're a billionaire millionaire.
By the way, guys, I got billionaire friends that call me all the time on the phone.
We talk about this shit a lot and what's coming in next for the society.
And they have issues too.
They still get beat on.
They still get talked down to.
They still get cheated on.
No one's really that important to say that you're better than all this shit.
You're not.
And if you guys watching the show, especially, I want you guys to win.
Not because it helps me, but because if you guys win, you can change the next generation of guys as well.
Because, guys, where this is going is really bad because entering AI, sex robots, and oh, there's an app called Clara that's helping to build about AI girlfriends for people.
Women Proposing to Men00:02:38
We showed it on 35 podcast last night.
I can show you guys again if you want to.
But this is kind of like where we're going.
Now, I'm not going to lie to that, bro, fellas.
I need some real, real life women.
I can't do the AI stuff that I will not do.
But some guys have no choice.
And actually, there's a study that just came out, actually.
Bring you guys real quick up to speed.
Where more virgin men are being found as we pass this by.
Hold on one second here.
Where is it?
Oh no, this one's actually.
Oh, yeah.
Here we go.
This one was from today, actually.
So this is actually a real study.
And it's crazy because this has been going on, well, going viral for a while on Instagram and X for a little bit.
Here we go.
So one sec.
Here we go.
So we have here this post.
It says, news.
More women are proposing to men.
And it's not a trend.
It's a revolution.
It says here, now women are increasingly proposing to men, but this is still a minority practice, not a mass trend.
In heterosexual couples, most engagements are still initiated by men, even though surveys show that the majority of people generally considering it normal when a woman proposes.
Key reasons for this rise in women's proposals, a desire for equal 50-50 relationships, and a rejection of old gender stereotypes.
Women's growth financial and social independence, frustration with a partner's positivity, which is men being weak and not being leaders, and a wish to take the lead themselves.
At the same time, many women still fear breaking the rules or hurting their partner's ego.
So the share of those who actually propose remains small, usually just a few percent.
Shout out to James Devont as well supporting and commenting there.
But this is where I say, fellas, can you imagine, right?
We have more women proposing because they're the boss ladies.
They're the boss babes saying, well, men ain't shit.
I'm making money then, niggas.
So I might as well be the man in this relationship.
And you know the worst part?
All my black guys out there, white guys, Hispanic, even Jewish niggas, we all are under the same fucked up society.
And women's, I want to say, hate and anger towards men.
Because women don't like men, bro.
Honestly, women don't like most men.
So can you imagine?
Why someone like this that's gonna try to say we're 50-50 and she has the utmost respect for you, just kidding, she has no respect for you because she's gonna propose to you first, bro.
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It's cooked.
And if any man takes this deal of proposing to you, nigga, you just lost right there, bro.
No one is safe.
And even me being black, bro, I get, yo, fellas, shout out to Kanye West.
Shout out to Kim Kardashian and that whole show, giving up with Kardashians.
That shit made intersectional couples mainstream.
Okay, fuck about it.
Nobody says that made that shit mainstream where you have an upper hand as a black man.
I tell you, bro, you do.
Fuck these hoes.
It is what it is, bro.
Can I bring it to you?
All right, guys, later any guys, it is what it is.
But here's where I say we can win as a group of guys, as guys that are smart and not dumb, and have common sense, common sense gang in the building, where we can say we can still win this game.
By the way, guys, I'm gonna do a Zoom call for you guys, Castle Club, and as well.
Uh, premium after this, Mario's just gonna go live around 8:15, 820, I believe.
We'll do after our show after that, uh, with you guys for the girls on after hours.
But this is the issue now.
Sorry, the solution.
So, we get we highlighted the issues that we're going through.
Girls are definitely not, you know, respecting men, of course.
You guys see the layout, and also, there's more here as well.
I want to show you guys before we get into the solution.
One more thing.
So, what's coming up close to you guys?
Uh, you guys know for February is Valentine's Day.
And Valentine's Day is very important because that's the day that you show love to people you care about, Wink, Wink, women, for the most part.
It's called V-Day for a reason.
Get a V vagina.
But this is the reason why I say all the time before V-Day, break it with your girl.
Hold on, hold on, hear me out.
Hear me out, hear me out because you want to see you want to see certain things for her to deserve a gift.
Because I'll be real, you guys.
V-Day itself is a psyop.
You focus on V-Day to give her a gift.
You'll let everybody else.
You know what you do?
If you're a real G, you say, you know what?
Fuck V-Day.
I'll get you if what I feel like.
Okay, hold on.
Simply go, guys.
You got to do it a certain way.
I'm not saying to break out with her just because I'm saying because you want it a certain way.
So what I'm saying is, be like a G. Listen, babe.
I know V-Day is coming up, but you know what?
We celebrate every day of life the same way.
I got shit.
You're going to give it to her two days later.
Not to make her mad, but because you want to see her reaction.
And you know what's crazy about this, fellas?
If your girl gets mad, you know, I'll give you a gift on V-Day.
You know what that really is?
Especially from other women, from the posts on Instagram, from the stories, because they feel like they're being left out and FOMO.
That's what it really is.
You didn't give a fuck about gifts on one day.
No.
I mean, obviously, that gifts, but like the point is that one day is because everyone in society is saying, buy gifts now.
So hold on.
There's a video you guys can see real quick.
One second here.
Someone you think.
Where is it?
What's up, Instagram, man?
This should be loading mad weird.
Okay, here we go.
This is actually a girl that lives in Miami.
I've seen her a bunch of times.
And I'll just say, you guys probably know who she is.
This shit not loading.
One second, guys.
Let me try a different browser.
But yeah, bro, this is.
I promise you, man, this is kind of like oh, this is weight.
This is like a browser issue.
One sec.
Let me use Brave browser.
Shout out to Brave.
Brave's lit.
Here we go.
This is for my young ladies.
If you are intimate with anybody and they don't have enough common sense to get you something for Valentine's.
Oh, common sense.
Valentine's Day.
You better be celibate for the remainder of the year.
Because even if you guys aren't in a committed relationship, all women love little sweet somethings.
Okay?
And if he doesn't have enough common sense to say, let me go to Trader Joe's and maybe get her some $12 again.
Common sense is not common anymore, fellas.
This shit is rigged.
It's all a side up, bro.
It's all a side up.
Flowers at the minimum.
You have no responsibility giving that man that box.
Okay.
Common sense would tell him to get you some chocolate or something.
You know, some women like, bitch, I wish, yo, I wish a shorty would, bro.
She belongs to the American.
I wish a shorty would just because you didn't get a gift.
Nigga, where are we?
Antarctica?
Video games.
Get me a video game.
Get me a new controller.
Different women like different things.
He knows exactly what you like.
He knows what you're into because he be inside you.
Do not allow a man to act like Valentine's Day is only for relationships.
If he's intimate with you, he should be able to comprehend to get her a little sweet something for Valentine's Day.
Now, if you allow it to not be that way, because you're like, oh, I don't care about Valentine's Day.
No, all women care.
We all care, especially from the right guy.
We all care.
But we'll use a coping mechanism.
I don't care about Valentine's Day.
I've said it.
I love Valentine's Day.
I love Valentine's Day.
Of course, she does.
It's because that is the day everyone validates women to say, Here's a gift.
Here you go.
Here's a gift.
And I'm just like, bro, what if I don't feel like giving you a gift that day?
Am I a bad person because of that?
So now I got no box because of that?
Bro, miss me with that bullshit, bro.
This is why I'm all for being single with these women out here.
Look, look, niggas like, Fresh, you're 33 with no women, no wife, and no kids.
Yeah, nigga, obviously want kids one day, but bro, you see this shit, bro.
This is like every day.
Yo, bro, this is what I'm around every day, bro.
I'm in Miami.
Nigga, this is crazy.
By the way, this is everywhere, by the way.
Not just mine.
This is California.
This is Texas.
This is Dubai.
This is also in the Colombian DR, by the way.
This is not just like Miami, by the way.
So you get my point here.
The point is, fellas, VA Day is not important to them personally.
But at the collective level for women, it's important because they feel special as a community, as a group of people that say, you know what?
We deserve something this day because we're women.
That's what it really is, fellas.
So, again, this is where I always come into play and just say, you know what?
I've been single for a long time.
Since my first marriage, I've been single since then.
And I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life.
Fellas, I can't tell you, look, I don't think it's hate on me, bro.
Niggas talk shit about me or whatever, but my life is amazing.
If you are here, Miami, you see me in Miami.
I am having an amazing life, good friends, good people, and I have zero stress from fucking women.
Not because I'm better, but because I just realized what is the ROI?
And guys, I've been on more dates than your dating, your favorite dating coach, your favorite artist.
I've been on more dates myself than most niggas could imagine.
Not because I'm better, because I just have more time on my hands.
And all these, you know, for research purposes, did as well.
And I've realized there is no silver lining in this game.
All you have is what you get out of it in real time, and that is it.
And I just say, what is the end result here?
Kids in a family?
Fucked up.
Child support?
Divorce?
Alimony?
No, I'm good.
I'll have fun being me, enjoying life without any of that bullshit.
Hey, because you're fresh.
You should be doing better as a Christian.
Well, to realize you guys, I'm trying to get there.
I'm not perfect.
I'm definitely going to move towards that.
I'm going to alter.
But right now, where I'm at, it is looking bleak, very bleak.
But there's more.
There's actually more, fellas.
There's actually more.
I'll show you guys real quick because this is bad.
This Is Bad00:04:59
All right.
Here we go.
Oh, it's not.
See, now it's not loading.
Bro, I hate, bro.
What's on with Google Phone, bro?
Come on, man.
So, guys, remember back in the day, I was focused on getting first date lays and focusing on, like, you know, you got to smash on the first date, which I guarantee you, within the first three dates, you should smash just because that's the ideal, you know, time period because you don't want to waste your time.
But the more I've been on dates, the more I realize, fellas, this shit is fucked up.
Watch this video because you tell me what you think about this after.
Think about this.
Here we go.
Care with me?
I ain't gonna lie.
I gotta work tomorrow.
I will drop you off.
I'm on my period.
You always on your fucking period.
I feel like you're lying to me, dude.
But I got you next time.
Like, all right.
All right, bro.
Hey, I'm glad you finally pulled up on me, though.
I missed you.
I ain't gonna lie.
I low-key missed you, too.
You missed me.
So, what's up?
You said, you said next time we do something, but I'm trying to get enough.
No, the fuck.
No.
No, nigga.
Why are you acting like that?
I'm sorry, fellas.
I'm sorry.
I'm very sorry.
If a girl says to me, nigga, bro, dude, it just turns me off.
Bro, I was with this girl from Argentina, right?
And we were on a date.
We're going out.
Obviously, you know, your boy already smashed.
She's very comfortable right now at this point.
She's very comfortable.
She's like chilling, whatever.
We're in the car.
She says to me, Oh, have a great time.
I'm like, Yes, what's up?
She's like, You are my nigga.
I was like, Oh, I smacked that head so hard.
I was like, First of all, I was laughing because I was like, What the fuck?
Then I was like, That is cringe.
Not because of the word, but because you're saying it's cringe.
It's funny because you said it, but it's like that's not sexy.
That's that's that's cringe.
But then I was like, hold on.
Why are you saying that to me about people?
And you know what it is?
Imagine if I was like a raging, like FBA and I was like, yo, that's not cool.
And I get it, you know, the word offends on people.
But it's because I think it's cute.
It's not cute.
It is just, it's not cute because, bro, that is like, we're not, you're not a dude.
You're not, you're not a guy.
I get it.
It's funny, but it's not cute.
It's kind of like, ugh.
Fellas, I'm telling you, bro, if you've ever been with a girl and she's like, yeah, you're my.
All right, well, what are we doing?
What are we doing here?
But I just find that's kind of weird.
Oh, yeah, you're my.
All right, bro.
It's cool.
Because I ain't shaved.
Okay, I'm brooding as fuck.
Bro, let's just watch the movie.
Trisha.
Girl, y'all let him come over yesterday.
He keeps trying to get in my pants.
But I got two more days of these BV pills.
And after that, he can fuck.
Yeah, I'ma let him fuck after that.
Yo!
Y'all caught that?
Yo, yo, yo.
You did all the way.
Guys, guys, guys, guys.
I know it's a skit.
Oh, first is not real.
Fellas, this happens every fucking day.
Bro, bro.
She just said, he's going to wait because I have BV.
Another one.
Another one.
You know what's crazy, fellas?
I've been on dates where I'm like, you know what?
She's feeling me.
The vibe is there.
Wink, wink.
We're good to go.
This is a slam dunk, my nigga.
Woo!
This is like, oh, we can't.
I'm like, all right, you know what?
No pressure is what it is.
I respect that.
We'll run this back a different day.
Then finally, I get the box.
But there's a little whiff going on.
There's a little like scent.
Like where are we?
A land, a land dump, a garbage, mine?
And i'm like this is what I waited for.
Nigga, some used up dirty box, yo bro.
I'm like what's going on?
So so so fellas, I know this is like funny or like you know, it's not real.
This happens a lot.
Uh, it could even be worse, could be even std, which Thank the Lord that I've been able to survive without anything serious happened to me.
Because, bro, it's data here.
That's why I slow.
Fellas, I've slowed down a lot, man.
I've been slowing down a lot.
I've been like, you know what?
I'm good off this a little bit, bro.
I'm just going to chill, make money, network, and, you know, keep things chill.
Red Flags in Relationships00:15:11
And guys, by the way, I am not banned from the club.
I'm going out still.
If you're on my Instagram, you guys will see me going out.
But here's the silver lining here.
There's no, oh yeah, bro, we're going to make women better and change the landscape.
No.
It's only going to be how you mitigate losses and move forward in your best interest.
We got some super chats here on Rumble Shout, you guys, for supporting the show.
Yes.
Women expect men to jump through hoops like a performing monkey and waste their money on them only for at best mediocre used pussy.
See, brother, you got it, bro.
He got it.
He has got it.
Tony in the chat, man.
Guys again says, if she doesn't allow you to vigorously clap her cheeks, then you send her stupid ass back to the streets.
That is the quote, my friend, of the day.
Yeah, listen.
That's 35 podcast chat.
So, listen, I believe that we can do better as men for ourselves.
But when it comes to helping women out and making them better people and hoping for a better solution, fellas, it's not happening.
All you can do is focus on yourself and get what you want.
Now, here's my solution for you guys.
The solution is basically going to be this.
It's going to be, understand what the ROI is for you.
Obviously, we all want to smash.
That's guaranteed.
Niggas want to smash.
It is what it is.
That's not me trying to, oh yeah, you guys want to smash.
However, is she worth the smash?
And I can say this because, bro, I've been there, right?
And I'm like, you know what?
This is not worth the smash.
Like, the Asian girl wasn't worth the smash.
I did it anyway.
Lesson learned.
But everyone's going to have red flags, fellas.
Every girl you meet is going to have red flags.
And this is the point of this whole stream here.
Are her red flags worth the risk?
Because some are not so bad as others.
For example, if she just doesn't like, you know, if she doesn't like to, like, I don't know, make tuna.
She's casserole.
Whatever that thing is that she has is a red flag for you.
Could be minuscule.
Or it could be, for example, her carmen start to party every night.
That's a red flag that you got to understand.
There's red flags on each woman.
You got to choose and kind of dissect.
Is it worth me even smashing?
One.
And then two, is it worth me keeping her own long term?
Because again, this is where I say I've been done where I've actually said, you know what?
It's not that bad.
I'll be fine.
And, you know, push come to shove.
It just showed me that, like, bro, I just wasted my time here.
It was not even worth the squeeze.
And even the club scene, fellas, like, here, I'm here, my mate, especially.
Like, it's like a revolving door of women and guys just smashing and juking and driving.
And, you know, I'm there sober.
I'm there sober watching this shit play out.
I'm just like, I'm getting over this shit, man.
This shit is going nowhere fast.
So now, the new culture is gym culture where people have the gym as a club.
If you know what that means, you know what it means, but that's the new stomping grounds for guys and girls, the gym.
So, 2K, okay, John says, what are 2K red flags?
Oh, yeah.
So, I'll give you some flags, fellas, you can look out for in real time.
And this is where I say red flags are there for a reason.
Don't ignore them.
Choose the ones you can deal with in real time.
And they will tell you up front, guys.
Women are so smart.
They will tell you the flags up front.
And if you guys use a common sense here, part of the gang here, you realize that the common sense that you have as the man, the logical speaking man that understands rationale and how things work, you come maneuver, you're your best advantage.
Now, red flag number one.
Actually, you know what?
I'm going to do this with videos on Castle Club for more breakdown.
But I'll give you guys here the points.
But I'll show a video of some girls I've been talking to on Castle Club because I don't put on rubble.
I'll use it, whatever.
But you'll see what I mean.
And it's funny, me and Dawn went on a double date.
Me and Dom Looker.
And, bro, I kid you not, it was the most weird experience we've had I've had in my life.
Like, me and Dawn were like, what the fuck is this shit, bro?
Like, bro, another one.
This is like, like, fellas, I'm telling you, this is where I focus on value over the box now.
Because, fellas, I've been there.
Trust me.
There is, I don't know any dating coach that has been as many dates as me or smash more than me.
I just keep rolling you guys.
I'm not proud of it, by the way, but it is what it is.
And again, this is where I say, it's not worth the squeeze, fellas.
Now, number one, red flag is she has multiple avenues of attention.
Now, fellas, that's going to be a lot of girls.
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Shout out to your brother for supporting the show.
Gallish King.
Thank you, brother.
This is where I say most women are going to have this issue because they're validated by their attention online.
And the problem with that is that, like, women don't just get attention.
They get offers.
They get hit up in the DMs.
Fellas, I might be a culprit as well, just saying, but where they're showing attention.
There's no attention by guys.
And not only that, but they get offers where they'll get like, come to Dubai or come to Miami.
That's my tagline.
But this happens because they're posting online.
And guys are like, oh, they're single.
I'm going to go ahead and shoot my shot.
And what have Michael Jordan say about shots?
You guys know that quote?
I'll bring it for you guys real quick if you don't know the quote.
But this is very important because as a guy that's successful or, you know, focused on maximizing his leg count, you're going to shoot your shots.
Much as possible.
Here we go.
So you guys can see on the screen here as well.
So we have here the famous quote from Michael Jordan.
He says here, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Right?
And fellas, even though I say it's a red flag where you have, oh, super chats or guys are on Rumble only.
We're still demonizing on YouTube or today.
We're still demonetized on YouTube.
Also, we're also on We got a chat here as well.
Bills, we have a chat from StreamYard, sorry, Streamlabs, I believe.
How do I bring it up, please?
I need to bring it up chat.
But this is why I say, like, okay.
Attention itself is bad because you have so many entry points of guys hitting her up or liking her posts.
It's just like you have no filter to negate that.
And even though you might be a top-tier guy, there's always better than you out there.
So you have to have that shit locked down where she's like into you that much, where it's like, you know what?
He's not worth fucking up for this new guy.
And that's a whole different podcast in itself to be that guy with frame where she's under your frame and not someone else's frame.
That's going to be a more in-depth video, which I've done this multiple times throughout the years.
You get to see me real life.
But my point is that in this paradigm of attention that they font and they want, they actually end up hurting themselves because now they can't choose the best option because to them, the options are there, but just to smash.
It's not real.
But that mindset leaves you in a bad spot because now as a guy coming in to make her your girl, what do you get?
You get a woman that's focused on attention and gaining it, even though you're a good option for her, you're not seen as a good option because she's so caught up in her options.
You get what I'm saying?
So that's why I say red flag is she has a lot of attention on Instagram, Snapchat.
Twitter is just a no-no.
Bro, if a girl has a Twitter, bro, oh man, she's posting like almost new photos in there like bikini pictures, bro, you're cooked, bro.
Like that's, dude, forget it.
But also, I'm going to bring this up as well.
So regarding actual like shooting your shot as well, just because this is very important, shout out to Michael Jordan.
You need to have the aspect or the, I want to say mindset that if you are shooting your shots, you need a full toolback because tool belt because you need all as much tools as possible to get this shit done.
But what I mean by that, I mean, you need to have Instagram.
I think Instagram is probably the number one thing you need to have.
That's that stands on.
Like, fellas, I can go to your page right now and tell you why you're not getting DMs responded to, why you're not getting business done because your page sucks.
That's the reality of it.
If your page sucks, bro, you're cooked.
And as you move forward in a more AI society where things are more based off of digital footprints versus like in real life, you want to have a good page built up no matter what.
Dating is important, yes, I get it.
But like even for business itself, fellas, and for marketing, for exposure, a good page will give you what you need.
So you have as well Instagram.
That's one source of our tool you can use in your tool belt.
You have dating apps, which I think date apps are more of a Chad or Tyrone method.
If you're not good looking like that or don't have the lifestyle, it's going to be hard to keep that shit, you know, effective for you.
It's going to be really hard.
But you cannot do that as well.
So Instagram, dating apps, in-person approach.
This is more of a skill set you got to learn, of course, fellas, as we say before.
You have as well sugar sites.
That's more of a high-value DHV display.
You have as well, you know, social circle, which shout out to Sartania Vegas.
He does that very well with his girls.
And you know what?
What I realize about that as well, guys, especially when it comes to going out, if I'm with two hot girls, I get massive amounts of like respect and just like love.
And it's like, I get more girls just being with two girls.
That makes sense.
And I do it in a cool, calm way where it's not like in their face, but it's like, yo, what's your Instagram?
Boom, right there.
It's done.
So you can do those things to get, you know, obviously shoot your shot.
But my point is that, like, right now, we have the issue of guys aren't sourcing anymore.
They're not shooting their shot.
And then, two, the quality isn't even there.
It's not even there.
So that itself is a major issue because, again, you guys want to have some dates and smash all that stuff like that.
But like, bro, honestly, speaking, you know, it's going to be hard to because it's cooked.
It really is cooked, fellas.
And even the top guys in industries, they're successful, billionaires, they have issues too, fellas.
No one is actually safe from this totally.
You can mitigate the risk.
You can mitigate the losses.
You can mitigate the issues you have.
But no one's safe.
No one's safe.
Telling you.
Number two, red flag.
And guys, we'll do the Zoom call right now, actually, as we speak.
After this second red flag.
One second here.
We will do this Zoom call.
I'll start up right now.
But I'm going to show you guys guys.
So I'm going to show you guys behind the scenes shit on some dates.
And you guys tell me your experiences as well with your dates and what's going to be going on with you guys.
One second here.
Making a Zoom call as we speak.
But yeah, fellas, I think, just by itself, by and large, we are in a downward spot of downward spiral of dating itself.
And we can just focus on ourselves, fellas.
For the most part, that's all we can do.
Let's make cap actually Zoom call.
Limited space in here.
Oh, wow.
All right, I'm going to send this out right now.
So, guys, if you're in Council Club, if you're in the chats and Telegram, you get the link here for the actual Zoom call.
Hopefully, we don't get maxed out.
Oh, my God.
All right.
Here we go.
Cool.
Number two, fellas, is she actually is not available for you.
What does that mean?
Put it this way: if you're focused on making money, your purpose, your passion, your mission, as you guys know, you should be doing anyway.
You're not focused on what she needs in real time.
But if she's not focused on you at all, and you're more of an option to her, as in, like, yeah, I'll go with him because I can get some food, or for example, I can get like, you know, gifts or whatever, or I can get even like a good time only and not being to you like that.
What are we doing here?
And this, this is comes in the form of like them being your friend and playing along, or just even, for example, just stringing you along because they can.
This is why I say all the time, guys, before a date, I do a FaceTime call with the girl.
10 minutes to 15 minutes FaceTime call, feel her out, feel the vibe, so to speak.
And I get information on that call to say, you know what?
I'm going or I'm not going.
And usually when I do that call, it goes pretty well.
We chop it up.
And yeah, fellas, it works.
I want to say 95% of the time it works that way.
But the problem is, if you go on a date with a chick, she's not feeling you at all.
She's just there to tick from you and finesse you, then that in itself is going to be your issue.
And I met guys that didn't have a clue, goes into them, and they even married them, took them on dates, meeting the girlfriends, and then they're fucking my homeboys in the background.
I'm like, dog.
If homie only knew he's paying for her, he's paying for rent, paying for a car, paying for insurance, paying for a lifestyle.
Babe, I'm going to go to the gym.
I'm going to with my girls tonight.
She's in the club with us, smashing one of the homies, bro.
Yo, yeah, this is this is normal, fellas.
This is not even like a weird uh occurrence.
So, yeah, all right, guys, there's more red flags we could cover as well.
Going to the Gym with Girls00:01:02
But we want to show you guys some more information and more videos on Castle Club and also the Zoom call.
Link is posted.
I'll see you guys in the Zoom call.
Uh, thanks for watching, guys.
And Myron will be on later on for after hours.
We're gonna do the show with some girls.
I think we have like 10 girls.
That's Chris.
So, W Chris on that one.
10 girls coming up.
And then, Friday, we have Jack Morgan.
If you don't know who that is, he's a good YouTuber from West Palm, blown blowing up, doing amazing work.
Also, RP Aware, which is dope.
And good friend of mine as well.
He'll be on the show on Friday.
We'll do a one-on-one and then girls' show with that good guest.
This is Jack's page right here.
If you guys don't know who Jack is, Jack is this guy right here.