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0:00 : Preview…
16:50 : Show begins🔥 - Special guest on Monday👀
17:50 : Ladies introduction & bodycount
20:45 : 12 bodies at 19?? WTF🤮
21:20 : Shoutout to this Black Qween 🍉🍗
23:00 : She was made in the lab??🧪
24:30 : How many d*cks have you s*cked?🍆
25:00 : Why do these Black guys always date Ms.Piggy?🐷😭
28:10 : Of course he’s black!
29:30 : Describe an average guy & why you deserve better
36:45 : Average girl doesn’t want an average guy🤦🏻
39:00 : Chats…💬
41:00 : Should Men and Women Live Together in 2026?
44:44 : Fresh & Chris explain why you shouldn’t live with your girl 🙋🏻♀️❌
46:00 : Ladies share their experiences living with a man
49:20 : If someone flies you out, he trynna hit!💦
52:40 : How to split expenses & chores living together?
58:40 : L Stepdaddy
59:50 : Dating in Miami is competitive
1:04:00 : Top 3 things you bring to the table
1:06:30 : Top 3 things men look in women
1:09:30 : If you live with your man and he cheats, what do you do?
1:14:00 : Show gets heated🔥 - Switch to Rumble
—— RUMBLE SWITCH ——
1:24:30 : Real men cheat
1:31:40 : Shoutout to threedigletts - “Women are too volatile to bring any type of peace”🔥✍️
1:34:00 : Thoughts on Polygamy & open relationships
1:40:00 : CLIP1 - Cheated on my girlfriend and she thrashed my apartment
1:42:00 : CLIP2 - Woman using hammer to destroy her man’s house🔨😳
1:46:00 : CLIP3 - Crazy cat lady wants to bring stray cat to her man’s house
1:50:20 : CLIP4 - Would you date a man like this?
1:54:00 : Men must make the choice to change their life
1:56:00 : Ratings for tonight
1:57:30 : Thoughts on the show | Outro Show less
Right now, we have an issue with how to issue with locals.
It's going to be fixed on Monday, right?
We're going to have a big guest on Monday and Wednesday.
Cool.
Can't say who it is yet, Chris.
Damn.
I might say I ended the show.
But you guys are going to love it.
But guys, we're going to do a pre-show on Monday for you guys on locals.
If you're on Castle Club, don't worry, guys.
We got you.
Pre-show with a guest on Monday and Wednesday.
And Chris, any updates?
Yeah, guys.
Follow me at my, you know, onlyfans.com fetch Aaron Poxon.
You know, content there.
I do feed pics and everything.
And it's been going late so far.
No, I'm talking, ladies.
I don't do on fans.
But follow me on my Twitch, Aaron Poxon.
And yeah, we're here.
You know, Marines wants to get under the weather.
It's me and Fresh holding it down.
I'm not 100% fresh, not 100%.
But, you know, it's all good.
Yeah, yeah.
But we know we're here for you guys.
So, you know, either cancel the show or just have a show with us.
But this year, boots on that.
We don't stop it.
Yeah, boots on next, man.
Let's go.
Let's get a mail.
Thank you for waiting.
If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status.
But if you want to, of course.
Your body count.
We'll start right there.
Hi.
Okay.
My name is Aisha.
Aisha with an A or?
Yeah, Aisha with an A.
And I'm 19.
Okay.
What do you mean for?
Well, I just recently got fired.
Actually, I was working as a concierge at a luxury apartment building.
Wait, Gables.
How'd you get fired from being concierge?
Hi.
Yeah.
Aisha.
Yeah.
Yeah, nah.
I feel like they were just racist.
They were just like...
To you?
Yeah.
Yeah, nah.
They said, like, I didn't feel their ideal image, like, for the building and shit, and they were like...
Is it because you're here?
Oh.
Or your nails?
I'm brown.
Look at me.
What the fuck?
I mean, okay, were they white?
Were they Hispanic?
Nah, they were white as fuck.
Okay, yeah, yeah, you're right.
Nah, Coral Gables, luxury building.
Oh, okay.
But who hired you, though?
I mean, that's the hireman department fault.
Yeah, that's the hiring department's fault.
I hired over like some um wait, I had like a friend of friend and they were like, all right, let's get you in.
Okay, that's what happened.
And then six months later they did a favor yeah, so what are you gonna do now then?
Um, right now I'm trying to work as like a jewelry manager and stuff.
So I don't know well guys, if you're, if you're hiring, she's actually available.
So if you guys need some assistance, she's 19 and ready to work right yes, and what's your background?
Well, I am Bengali actually, so I'm basically Indian.
You're Indian almost, come again, almost almost Indian, y'all.
Okay, question, you ever been with a black guy?
Uh yes, I have been with blank white guy yes, but yes, she's 19, though Fresh.
I got everyone bitch, everyone you know, like Danos, the Sones and and the six months.
What about?
What about?
What about Asian?
Yes, I have Asian too.
Yo, that's crazy.
Okay okay, we're in Asia.
I don't want to know, I don't own it anymore, it's all right.
Um okay uh, dating status, um, I'm single, single and you're Indian?
Okay, makes sense.
Oh, I'm kidding, I'm kidding, damn relax.
Okay um, highest education level, um, I'm studying mechanical engineering at FIU right now.
I'm second second year okay so, so completed, second year completed.
Yes okay, that's fine.
Okay, all right.
Parents together or no yes, my parents are together.
Good stuff uh, birth control.
Uh no, all right.
Chris uh, you have any kids?
No, all right.
So you're 19, right?
Yeah, what's your body count?
Uh, I was just like, we'll say 12, we'll say 12.
i'm 19.
So 2026, you're gonna try to beat your uh, your age?
Um sure okay, I mean, she's honest with it, you know, is it wait?
Is it over 20 or 20?
No no, we're.
We're at 12 12 no, it's definitely over 12, but she's the one tell the full truth for this year, okay 14 babe 14 okay no okay, all right, what about you?
Me like okay, what's your name?
Hey, y'all.
My name, Nessa hey y'all.
You got this out.
Yeah, I got it.
Um, how old are you?
22 22 oh, she a queen.
Uh, what's your background?
I'm a cosmetologist, model and entrepreneur overall no like uh, black city, oh, i'm talking about i'm Cherokee and I'm black okay, so you're okay cool, got you all right um, and you said you're entrepreneur cosmetologist model, creative director okay uh, dating status, all right um, who's up with single?
Yeah, okay.
Well like, why the hesitation right there?
No, I'm single okay, it's just like the raspy.
Oh okay, you smoke weed, okay.
Highest education level, you completed high school?
Okay cool uh, parents together, hell fuck no, that makes sense hey, y'all.
And then birth control, hell no, okay.
You have kids?
Hell no okay damn okay, not y'all though, but fuck them kids, okay.
And then um Chris, take it away.
Your body count over 10, 22?
Yeah, it's probably a little higher, but all right cool, at least she's honest.
I mean, so far we'll say, all right, thank you.
What about you?
My name is Ashley, i'm 19.
Okay.
I'm currently in school, so the highest degree right now is an associates in arts for journalism, and I'm studying public relations and doing law.
Period.
Okay, journalism.
Okay.
Girl, you.
What's your background, actually?
I'm Cuban.
Okay, Cuban.
You came off a boat or you were born here?
No, I didn't come off a boat.
I was born here.
Okay, there you go.
Well, apparently, you were born in a what?
In a lab?
Yeah, in the lab.
I'm an IVF baby.
So I was lab created.
You got your lab created.
Yeah, they created me in a lab.
What?
Are you serious?
Yeah.
Hell yeah.
They created me.
The colon time roll, man.
I'm like AI.
That's why she's pretty.
She's saying I'm like AI.
I sound like a robot.
Real life AI.
I sound like a robot.
Yeah.
Wait.
Yeah.
Are you like or are you like serious?
I'm dead ass.
I was born in a lab.
Like, I was made in a lab.
So your parents didn't conceive you somebody else.
No, no, no.
My mom conceived me, but she couldn't, like, they couldn't have me like naturally.
They tried for 17 years and then they did IVF.
So.
Okay, you came up pretty okay, I guess.
Thank you.
Okay, dating status.
I'm single.
All right, great.
Parents together or no?
No, my dad is dead, so.
Technically speaking, no.
It's good.
It's good.
Yo, at least we still together.
They're together, technically.
Sorry for your loss.
It's okay.
Chat for pop.
Okay.
You said.
Yeah, associates.
Okay, parents are not together.
You said fresh.
Yeah, that relates.
He's dead, so.
Birth control?
Oh, no.
Chris?
Okay.
So you're 19, right?
Yeah.
What's body count?
Two.
What dumb lips?
Two.
I don't know.
You probably got more.
No.
No.
I mean, she takes her lips, right?
I thought you can't see.
You know, I mean, I know his lips, though.
So tell me, how many dicks you saw?
I don't know who.
You see?
You see?
I told you.
Dumb lips?
I don't know.
She lost count, man.
No, I didn't lose count.
So you don't know?
Like three or four?
I don't know.
Or five or six.
Nah, I don't go around doing that with random men.
Oh, okay.
Yes.
Yeah, kick the headphones.
So we have a big headphones.
Yes.
Oh.
Okay, Mo, we need you over here.
What's that guy?
You're still good, though.
I'm good.
Oh, you can hear me?
Oh, okay.
All right.
Last but not least.
Hey, my name is Yuni.
I'm 35.
You said Julie?
Yuni.
Yuni?
Y-U-N-I.
Okay.
We're 35?
Yeah, I'm 35.
Yes.
Okay.
What's your background?
Cuban.
Okay.
And then dating status?
I am in a committed relationship.
Nice.
How'd you guys meet?
We met in Wynwood, actually.
Doing what, though?
Partying?
I was out just walking around.
I walked into a smoke shop and we met that way.
Okay.
Yeah.
So you smoke?
I vape.
Oh, you vape?
I went to get a vape and then he just so happened to be there.
Wait, wait.
What did he say to you?
Just like, hey, so it was like a very natural interaction.
He just said hi to me.
I looked at him.
I was like, hey.
And then we just started a conversation from there.
I'm happy for you.
That's great.
That's a true story.
Wait, but for how long you've been in my hand, though?
Almost a year.
Okay.
Is he Cuban, black?
He is black.
I know he's black, bro.
I know he's black, bro.
I know he's black, man.
You're black niggas, bro.
Shit up, bro.
Hold on.
I know you're black, bro.
I like my things.
Big and curse.
Don't holidays.
He'd be warm as fuck.
He's like a little heater.
Wait, I mean.
Is he big?
Yes.
Okay.
Okay.
Wait, like his body, like, he's just like a warm heater.
You know what I like?
When someone's confident in their own skin and they match your energy.
You know what?
Absolutely.
What's your favorite sex potential?
What?
You're saying Chris?
It's my favorite.
Yeah, sex.
I don't know.
Missionary, is it doggy style?
With him?
Yeah, because you know, if all of them.
If y'all big, you know what I'm saying?
I'm saying, like, how does that work?
It, so he's actually a very fit man.
And then I'm, of course, like a thicker girl.
Okay.
So, but I like all positions with him to be.
Wait, is he Jamaican?
He is not Jamaican.
He's African American.
Okay.
Yeah.
You know, usually Jamaicans are Africans to muscle.
Right.
You're not curvy.
I mean, I like Kirby too, but you know, as you get older, I mean, right, right, right.
It's fine.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
Highest education level completed is high school.
Okay.
What do you do for it?
I am a publicist.
Oh, yo, we need to get a lot of fun.
Oh, shit.
Yo, yo, we need one of those like today.
I am a publicist and an artist manager.
What?
Music.
Who do you manage?
I manage Tiali.
Who is that?
She's an upcoming artist from Miami, Florida.
Is she black?
Good stuff.
She is black.
Okay.
I'm trying to get a cheese on.
She likes black people.
I love black people.
Yeah, we can tell.
Parents together or no?
My parents are not together.
Okay.
Birth control?
No birth control.
Okay.
Any kids?
Yes.
How many kids?
One.
Who's the father?
The father is not involved, unfortunately.
Is he black?
He is.
Yeah, I'll figure it out.
Oh, my God.
I mean, she's a pretty bomb.
She pronounced stereotypes at all.
Niggas not a page.
He's black.
You know, she likes black guys.
You know, I mean, like, my dad's not involved in my life.
He's black.
I think he's like, unfortunately.
That's a good mix, though.
Keep it up.
No, no, it's a good mix.
It's a good mix.
And he's actually Jamaican.
So, Cuban, Jamaican.
Oh, that's an amazing mix.
Oh, wow.
Boom, book, wow.
And then, um, Chris, take it away.
Oh, your body count.
My body count is I am negative with all SCDs.
Thank God.
That's good.
Okay.
Yep.
Okay.
Negative.
So what is it?
You know what?
You know what?
You actually have a man, so I ain't trying to ruin it online for you.
So I want you to get engaged one day.
Thank you, you know.
So I don't want to butcher business out there, but you hesitating, so I know it's a lot.
It's also okay.
It's more than 10.
It's more than 10.
That's okay.
I mean, I try to give you out here.
You ain't still said that anyway.
So it's fine.
It's fine.
All right.
All right.
So we're almost done with the headphones here, right?
Well, this man, do we want to?
Guys, I can't hear anything with this.
These hells right now.
But nonetheless, we're going to do the first question.
Oh, sorry, on the side.
Do we have any chats to read?
No.
Oh, we don't.
We got to.
Okay.
Gases.
Question for the bitches.
Describe the average guy and why you deserve better.
Bruh, if you're so black, you sweat crude oil.
Trump is going to be coming for you, nigga.
Be careful.
Oh, you're funny, bro.
Yo, that's funny.
You know what?
I love Garros.
Shout out to you guys.
He's a man at Network.
Shout out to him.
Question for the bitches.
Describe the average guy and what you deserve better.
Okay.
We'll start.
Over there.
Here.
Average guy, and obviously, average guy and why you deserve better.
The average man, I feel like deals with a lot of internal battles, and it's not necessarily their fault.
I mean, men, since they're children, they're told to not feel, you know, like feelings are not common.
Feelings are gay, this, that, and the other, which I don't think is fair for young boys, young men, men in general.
So I think the average man comes with, you know, his own internal battles that as a woman, you should be supportive of.
Let's put it in terms of tangibles.
Like, for example, high income.
Oh, high-income.
Okay, so height six feet and above.
Average man.
Oh, average.
Average?
Oh.
Like 5'8?
5'8, 5'9, 5'8 ⁇ , 5'9.
That's good.
Okay.
Why we deserve better?
No, no, so how much money he makes per year?
The average guy.
How much money he makes per year?
At least 90K per year.
Yeah, average guy.
Okay.
90K per year would be a good average.
And why you deserve better?
Like, we women deserve better?
Yeah, yeah.
Well, I would say that all men and women deserve the best.
No, but do you want better or are you okay with the average guy?
I'm okay with the average guy because it all depends on his character, to be honest.
Like, is he treating me correctly?
Is he treating the people he loves correctly?
So on and so forth.
Like, I think that's what's most important.
Question, is your man average?
You could be honest.
I would say he's average above average kind of realm.
Is he paying a rent for you?
Do you two live together?
Yes.
Okay.
Is he paying rent for you?
He's taking care of his responsibilities.
So he's 5'8, 90k a year.
He's 6 feet.
My man is 6 feet.
But the average man is about 5'8, 5'9.
I do think it's important for average or not average to just be a good charactered man, you know?
Now, what does that entail?
How does he treat his mother?
How does he treat his family?
How does he treat, you know, if he has children?
How does he treat them?
So on and so forth.
So was your baby daddy an average man?
He was a below average man, I would say.
Why is that?
At the time we met.
How tall is he?
He's about 5'8, 5'9.
Okay.
How much year he made roughly?
During the time we met, he was in college still.
Okay, so he was playing football.
So did you think dating him, you could have done better at the time?
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
That's fine.
All right.
What about you?
Average man, and why do you think women deserve better?
I mean, I don't think necessarily that there's something wrong with the average man.
I feel like, honestly, it's more about character and who he is as a person.
I don't think that looks and height should be that big of a deal.
If that's a deal breaker for you, I don't think you're grown enough.
Like, I feel like that's something that kids do when they're in middle school.
Okay, what's the lowest height you would date?
My height.
What's your height?
I'm like 5'5, 5'6.
What he's 5'3?
If he's a good person, then yeah.
No, he won't.
I won't.
5'3 guy?
I've dated a guy that's like 5'4 shorter than me.
Dated?
For how long?
Like talk to, not dated.
For how long, though?
Like a couple months.
But you fucked him?
No.
Okay.
I don't fuck anyone.
Oh, you fucked two guys already.
And now you suck their family.
Yeah.
No, I was a virgin until I met my ex-boyfriend.
Yeah, but the guy you dated, you wasn't a virgin then, right?
I was a virgin.
You was a virgin then?
Yes, I was.
Okay, I mean, all right.
I get what you do.
It has nothing to do with that.
But if he was taller, you probably would have sucked the person.
No.
Okay, so the first guy you fucked, how tall was he?
He was like six feet tall.
Exactly.
But he was my boyfriend.
Because he was six feet tall.
No, it was because he treated me with respect and dignity.
And he would give him a chance more than the other guys.
I mean, he wasn't my typical type, and he wasn't like the guy that I would go for.
It was more because of his personality.
your type though?
I feel like...
Merch.
Come on, Ashley.
What's your type, man?
Attraction-wise, I just wasn't attracted to him, but like my type just varies.
If you're hot, you're hot.
Like, that's how I think about it.
If you're attractive, you're attractive.
And being hot is...
Hold on.
Give me an actual type.
If he was walking in the room right now, you'd be like, you know what?
This is a guy I like.
He's a Cuban.
Is he black?
Is he tall?
Colombian.
Okay, Colombian.
I love Colombian men for some reason, I fear.
And probably like wavy, curly, dark hair, and a little tan.
How tall?
I don't really care, like, 5'9, 5'10.
Okay.
Like his height.
Does money matter to you or no?
Not really.
As long as he's able to succeed in life and create and achieve his goals, then I think that's the most important part of people who grind.
Yeah, when you get older, that's going to change.
But okay.
Yeah.
What about you, Miss Nessa?
I prefer a black king at this point.
Okay.
Only because only because they actually could value me.
But I'm open to dating any type shit.
Type shit.
And then define the average man for you.
Average man is a man who respects me as a woman.
Height, income, looks.
Height.
I'm 5'7, but on heels, I'm 5' It's really your confidence.
It's about man confidence because I've dated short people and I don't care.
Where are they now?
They're gone.
He doesn't respect me, so he gotta go.
You feel me?
Like, he's more of a bitch than me.
I don't like that.
You feel me?
Like, that was the shit.
Wait, but how is your bitch, though?
Because, like, he was mad because I lost a pair of his cartiers.
Oh, so you have money.
I mean, I'm probably mad too.
He fake had money.
No, no, no, no.
His levels.
It was passed down for him.
So was it really money?
And then I lost those, right?
And then he got a new pair and it was fake.
And I accidentally lost those.
And he kept mentioning it.
I'm like, I'll get you some new ones for Christmas.
He like, fuck that.
He's mad about his.
Because he felt like, you feel me?
But I feel like I'm non-materialistic.
So why you worry about some cards?
Well, I mean, it's a principle that he gave you his glasses, his shades, and someone gave it to him, apparently.
And he has, he uses them.
No, for sure.
Well, he lost them.
But what if you gave your man some hair and he lost it?
No, listen.
I'm non-materialistic.
So therefore, okay, I'm mad for a day.
But when you proceed to carry it on longer than two weeks, it's like, do you want me to just like, what do you need from me now?
Oh, he was dragging it.
He was dragging it.
And you still want to deal with me.
Oh, see, you wanted short kings, so there you go.
Type shit.
I'm kidding, by the way.
Short views.
What about you?
Average guy?
And then what's your type?
Honestly, to me, since I'm a college student, my average guy would be literally the average college student.
But they don't make money.
They don't work.
I don't really feel much to the money aspect since I'm going into engineering.
I'll make my own money.
It doesn't really matter what he makes.
Honestly, it's just if he bothers me, then he's got to go.
What does bother you mean?
It's like invading my space, overstepping my boundaries, not letting me do the things that I need to maintain myself as a person.
Because I'm also somebody who needs to stay on my own routine to be able to maintain myself, of course.
And I have a lot of responsibilities.
If a man comes into my life and then he ends up, you know, being like, hey, babe, can we do this?
Can we do that?
And then I end up going away from my responsibilities so I can go and serve him.
But honestly, I have my own things to take care of.
So for me.
So you want to put yourself first and him last?
Yeah, honestly.
Not last.
Wait, wait, wait.
So go ahead.
You have a lot of responsibilities, right?
Yeah.
Thanks all your hobbies, whatever.
You're 19, no job.
Do you live with your parents?
No, no.
By yourself?
Or roommate?
Alright, so what do you do day per day?
Like a daily responsibility?
Day per day, I like just recently got fired like this week.
Okay.
But day per day, I work, I go to class, I come home, I do my homework, I sit with my two friends that live with me.
Okay.
And I talk with them and we go to sleep.
That's it?
Yeah.
So you're getting busy?
Yeah, actually.
It's a very peaceful life.
I found a lot of peace with it, actually.
Okay, so you want to be bothered?
I mean, like, to yourself, then?
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
All right.
So Charlie Gas for the super chat, man.
Listen, average guy is around 5'7, making 40, 50K max, not 90k.
Per year, yeah, per year.
Now, mind you, with AI coming, how it is right now, it might even be less.
And I argue, and I wager because of AI coming, we're gonna have four people living together that they want to be together more so than ever before.
So it's gonna be insane.
All right, what's the next one?
No, shout out to AI, man.
Shout out to AI.
Fuck AI, bro.
That shit's crazy.
Eastside Dumbbell says, Y'all, yo, bro, I'm on YouTube, bro.
What's up with y'all niggas, man?
We're on YouTube still.
Okay, okay.
You know what?
Okay, I'm gonna say the word, but I don't mean what they mean, okay?
I'm just gonna say what I think they mean.
All right, dunk truck next to Fresh probably only masters the Walrus Tussle position.
Also, let's get an Adam's apple check for the panel.
You want to respond to him?
I'm not doing too much, but I'm gonna see Adam's apples.
She's straight.
She's straight.
She's engineered.
She's great.
Okay, so guys, no Adam Bapples.
I think we're good.
Call me this kid.
Yeah.
All right.
Just a walrus.
Nikki Monroe says, Chris looking fine next to the red-haired girl.
Okay, Chris, you got the admirer.
Shout out to Nikki.
Oh, shit.
Hey, yo.
We need the soundbite.
My son is off.
Yo, yo, how much you weigh?
Me?
Yeah.
$250.
Oh, they said $400.
Y'all niggas off, bro.
Don't ever be real.
Y'all niggas are.
Yo, these niggas are funny, bro.
Okay, okay.
We got Dark Shadow 65 says, I'm 5'5, making 60k from 34K salary in shape.
I'm Mexican.
I don't need anything, these women, an average college student for that girl is a black dude.
I don't need anything.
These women, I think, from these women, an average college student for that black girl is a black dude.
Which girl, bro?
Her?
Yeah.
Wait, what?
Her, normal.
You need to eat it all together.
That's what I'm saying.
Chris Grandma has a little thing spelled.
Yeah.
All right.
What's next one?
Cool, awesome.
All right.
So, ladies, real quick.
So, I mentioned before AI, right?
What's happening with people living together?
Jobs are being lost.
Times are harder.
Now, mind you, at the same time, I get living together is an issue because people get upset.
You know, they want to be together sometimes.
But does living together reinforce or challenge traditional gender roles?
So, for example, is it really good to live together, men and women?
We'll start here.
I would say that it is very important for a man and a woman to live together, to get to know each other, get to know what they like or don't like about each other.
It is a more traditional perspective, but I think it is a very important perspective, especially before you choose to marry.
And it is a way to bond more, even though it's important for men and women to have their own space as well.
Question: Before marriage or after marriage?
I would say beef.
So, if it's very traditional, it would be after marriage.
But if you're not as traditional, then I would say do it before marriage.
You live with your man right now?
I do.
And your kid?
Yes.
Okay.
We'll come back to you.
Wait, so Fresh, should I split rent or how does that work?
We'll come back to that.
Okay.
Should men and women live together?
Men and women should live together, especially when they're dating.
I think it's a very important part of the relationship.
You can't get married if you know if you can't live with somebody 24-7 because marriage, you're going to sleep next to the same person every day.
So I feel like it's something that you need to test run, and that's a really important part of a relationship, obviously, when you get to that aspect of your relationship.
So you're saying you need to test your car first before you buy the car?
Yeah, you can't.
You can't fully drive.
You can't fully marry someone if you don't even know what it's like to live with them or to be with them constantly.
Some people are messy.
Maybe you don't like someone who's messy and maybe they're not willing to compromise on that.
So it's a little easier to go.
Me?
Yeah.
Not really.
I just, I like my things clean and organized, but I'll clean.
You like your Columbians.
Okay, gotcha.
What about you?
I don't think so.
Why?
I don't even say that because I feel like traditional wise, marriage-wise, it happens after marriage.
You know, I feel like you, 2026-wise, when you really love somebody, you jump into it.
So y'all be together all the time.
You don't know if y'all nigga miss me off a week being with him.
And then like you're a woman, so you'll clean it up.
And you feel me?
So when I marry my man, I know my man do or not.
And even if he is messy, that's my man.
I'm going to fix it and he's going to learn how to, he's going to adapt to me because I'm a woman.
You know what I mean?
Like certain things.
Men are only messy when they don't have someone to after them because they have so much going on.
Right.
You feel me?
And busy man.
You feel me?
And I'm a busy woman.
So I clean up as I go because I do have OCD.
So you're saying better to do it after marriage.
I wouldn't even say after.
I just feel like naturally, when you attract to somebody, y'all be together all the time.
Okay.
So it's not really after you just see it when it goes along.
Yeah.
And I feel like if you know yourself, you're going to want your own space in general.
But yeah.
What about you?
I kind of agree with her.
Honestly, it depends on the type of person that you are.
If you feel like you genuinely can spend time with this person and their mannerisms and actions aren't proving to you something that would be bothersome in your own life or wouldn't take away from your life, honestly, go ahead and live with them.
Go ahead and get the help that you need from somebody else living with you in your life.
But I have never personally been in any experience where I have lived with somebody and I have felt that they are, you know, adding anything into my life or even I feel like they take you live with your parents or you live on campus.
No, I live right off campus on my own apartment.
Okay.
So Chris, let me ask you this.
So I lived with a girl before.
I'm sure you have as well.
And I think for most men, I can say this for a fact, it's annoying.
Like you have to put up with a lot of stuff.
I'm sure she does too as well.
But it's kind of like you have an anchor that's nagging you sometimes.
It's like, you just want to work, you know, fuck a bitch here and there.
Come back home and just chill.
And she's like, nagging.
But Chris, let me ask this question.
You're how old again?
37.
37.
If you could choose not to live with a girl or be single and live by yourself, what would you choose?
I'll be by myself.
Like having a girl living with you is really no benefits.
Like the only benefit you have is like sex on band, barely, if a girl feels like it.
But you know, other than that, they nag.
They're just sick.
They eat all the food.
You know, they don't want their hair done.
Then there's done.
And it's like, okay, if they're paying for you, that's cool.
But personally, it's like, and then they get more and more bitchy the more you live with them because they just find things to bitch about.
Because men are very simple.
Also, I'm sure guys in the chat know as well.
Like, you ever had an experience where you live with a chick and you're like, you know what?
Why did I do this?
Now let me ask this question to you guys as well.
From your point standpoint, living with a guy, who's paying the bills and what's the role split for you?
And we'll start here.
Is your man paying the bills?
Are you splitting the bills?
And then what are the roles for your man and roles for you?
I mean, I'll be honest, all the times that I was living with a man, it was honestly him just living off me.
I was the one who was.
Wait, wait, hold on, hold on, wait, hold on.
You should have used that name.
Hold on, Chris.
You live with a man.
No, but I did live with one for two weeks just recently.
And I just literally lived with a billionaire.
You just got to us.
You never lived with a man.
You don't never have experience.
What are you talking about?
No, no.
There's levels to it.
It's levels to a man.
I mean, two weeks isn't a real experience.
Exactly.
No, but I also have lived with somebody else.
Yo, yo, Chris, she's a little freak, bro.
Chris, she's a little freak, bro.
I know she's a little frick.
I know she's a little frickin' bird right here, man.
Where?
Like, her leg tattoos?
It's like Satan Marks.
Oh, she's a nice New Delhi Lawyer.
New Delhi, bro.
No, Satan.
I'm not actually Indian, y'all.
Misgendering.
Okay, so question, question.
What was it like living with that person?
And then for you, what were the roles?
Honestly, I was always the one cooking.
I was always the one cleaning after him.
He would make a mess everywhere and he would just leave stuff everywhere.
And I would always clean after him.
And honestly, I never said anything about it.
I never said anything about it until I kicked him out.
I was like, okay.
Guys, no headphones for right now because I think it's a little bit jammed up.
The headphones off.
We have to go.
So, okay, so you paid the bills.
Yeah, I paid the bills.
He made a mess.
He made the mess and I was cleaning after.
So then, what did he do for you then?
He was barely doing anything for me.
That's why he got kicked out.
Was it the dick?
I mean, honestly, the dick was good, but that doesn't constitute anything.
So, two weeks ago.
You can transform your life.
He got kicked out in two weeks.
But hold on, hold on, hold on.
You got to maintain, though.
You can't do a dumb shit.
You can't be messy.
You can't play Xbox.
You got to get the dick service and make sure she's happy.
Okay, so good theme, man, goes a long way.
All right.
What about you?
I mean, but for her, though, it's only two weeks, so.
Yeah, but the point is...
I lived with a man for six months, and he was bad.
Six months?
Yeah, I live with someone.
You just said earlier you didn't live with no man.
It was two different men.
It's like onions fresh.
The more you pull up layers, you get more and more.
Okay, what about you?
I grew up with my dad.
That don't count, nigga.
It gotta be like a boyfriend, like a man.
You gotta finish.
Or like a boss.
I finished.
Okay, sorry, god.
I grew up with my dad.
When he did too much, I ended up going with a dude 14 to 18.
I'm 22.
I grew up with bro.
We was like best friends, but hell no, you feel me?
It took him to actually try to, you feel me, for me to get out.
And then I just recently was trying to date someone who's off the rail.
So let me pill back a little bit here.
So you were 14, you moved out with this guy until 18.
And at that point, you didn't smash at all.
No, no, we were together.
I was in a relationship between 14 and 18.
Oh, high school.
How old was he?
Same age as me.
A year older than me.
Okay.
His mother tended to take me in because my parents, you know what I mean?
Personal, personal.
Okay, so yeah, gotcha.
So it was like a...
It was rough.
It was God.
Gotcha.
Okay.
And then you left him at 18 to go.
Nowhere between my dad, with my dad.
But it was too rocky.
And now recently, this last week or two, I've tried to date a man and be in his presence.
Hold on.
Let me stop you right there.
I know where this is going.
No, Miami fellas, right?
Hold on.
Hey, Miami, fellas, this is the thing called pressure play.
What does this mean?
It means a guy has a business, brings a girl in, and if she don't want to, like, I guess, do some favors, he'll send her back.
Is that true?
I'm telling you.
Especially in Miami.
You said Miami wanted to.
Miami, man.
You know, niggas?
Yeah, come work for me.
He said, be my secretary.
Yo, but they want to smash.
But he wants to smash.
All the ones that smash.
They're like, yeah, come live with me.
Bro, this is why I don't.
Nigga, I don't want a daughter, bro.
I will kill somebody, bro.
Yo, I'm sorry.
Allegedly.
Imagine your daughter is being told by a guy, come to Miami, I'll take care of you.
I got you.
Come work for me.
She pulls up.
You know what he wants to do?
Just smash, bro.
And then like, all right, I smash.
You're gone.
So it happens all the time, bro.
Okay, but in your case, what happened?
Literally, but he has split personalities.
The guy that I've been trying to fake date.
Oh.
Because I want to be a secret.
I'm really a helper.
You feel me?
Yo, you helped this dick at all.
Nope.
No, but I never gave him the dad.
She for real the secret.
That's what she was.
So yeah, so that's why he was mad.
I gotta drag it out.
Okay, okay.
So, so, so.
But if I would have given the coochie, then what?
I still gotta get out.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
Because I wasn't gonna be doing this and it all.
That's a question for you.
Knowing what you went through now, would you still live with a man?
Fuck no.
I never was, right?
But because I came to Miami to chase my dream and I found someone who a part of my, who sounds like my dream is part of his dream, I'm thinking, hell yeah, I could do this secretary shit I love unconditionally.
Fuck no.
That nigga wanted to get me.
Yeah, of course.
And it's like, it's cool.
Ladies, news flash.
If anything says you come to my crib, live with me, he's going to try to smash.
Come on.
Yeah, yes.
It's common sense, man.
And that's understandable, but like, you have to still make my coochie wet, though.
You feel me?
If you're trying to give me this and that, make the coochie wetter.
Hold on.
Question for you.
If someone flies you out to come see them, what do they expect?
Coochie.
Okay, so hold on, hold on.
Same logic here.
If someone invites you to their house to live with them, what do they expect?
Type shit, but like, I understand that.
And that's why I say I dated him because like I wouldn't have minded giving him the coochie when he wanted to because he provided for me as a man and he helped me get into my feminine era.
You feel me?
But hold on, hold on.
Somebody got it for a day or less.
He had to go through all that just to smash.
And he's providing for you.
That's not really true, though.
So I'm just hitting the base.
You know what I mean?
Okay.
Because it's more to it, but I don't got to get into that.
Okay.
But it's just that the simple fact that even if I was to be everything a man want, he never satisfied.
So I got to have my own just in case he flip out on me and tell me to get out off the street because he has his own issues.
So that's why I say a man can't live with a woman.
A woman can't live with a man because y'all need y'all's space.
Regardless.
No, we do near our space for sure.
Everybody need their space.
Also, if you're not smashing, nigga, be gone.
Because it's another bitch that's going to smash off the street with a sill of a dream.
Niggas still dream.
That was bars just though.
But niggas still dreams every day in Miami for sure.
Yeah.
But I'm from Milwaukee.
They do that shit.
This is Dream Capital.
And play with y'all apps.
Well, I get what happened to you.
It makes a lot of sense.
What about you?
Can you repeat the question?
Because we've been going off topic a lot.
Yeah.
So again, you ever lived with a guy?
And what were the roles you guys played in that situation?
So I've never lived with anybody before.
So I wouldn't know personally.
But in my opinion, if I were to live with someone, I feel like I'm good with going 50-50 on things.
Like if he doesn't like cooking, I'll cook.
And if I don't want to wash the dishes, if he's willing to do that, then he can wash the dishes.
If he doesn't like to do laundry, I'll do the laundry.
Like, it's just 50-50.
Let me get it straight.
You're going to pay half the bills?
Hell yeah.
I pay my own bills.
You get respected more.
You got a life on here that's willing to pay the bill.
Listen, Shorty.
Shorty.
I pay my own bills.
I promise you, when you get older, that's going to be a thing of the past.
So you're telling me you beat a Columbian guy, six foot, in shape, makes good money, you pay half the bills?
Yeah.
Because I want to have my own things and I want the lease to be on both of our names and I want to pay half of it because I don't want to be left in the dust just in case he decides to dip on me.
No, no, you want control.
That's what you want.
I don't want control.
I want respect.
I want respect and I want everything to be equal.
Bro, a man's to put you in the middle of the money.
Hold on, but if a man loves and cares about you, it comes naturally.
Well, you got to force it.
I'm not forcing it.
I'm just stating that I would pay half of the rent because I feel like as I'm also like part of the relationship when we're both living together, I feel like it's necessary.
I'm going to comment on that after, but I'm going to let her hair go.
Wait, wait, so if he's paying half the rent, will you make all the food or most of the majority of the food?
Yeah, I don't mind cooking.
If he doesn't like to cook, I'll bake for him and I'll cook.
That's my love language.
I love like giving.
So if I have to give to my partner, like it's for me, it's not like I have to.
It's like I want to give it a natural thing.
So it comes naturally.
Coexist.
I love cooking.
So if he wants to cook with me, if he doesn't feel like cooking one day because he got off work and he's having a bad day, then like, yeah, for sure.
Because you know why?
Because the majority of the women, right?
If they pay 50-50, right?
Then somehow, I don't know what it is with your girls, but you turn into bitches.
You know what I'm saying?
The more you see him sitting down relaxing, why are you relaxing?
Let's do something.
Let's do this.
Wash the dishes.
That's so hot.
That's why, for the most part, It could be 60-20, 50%.
On his part?
Or 60% on his part?
Like, no, it could be, it's dependent.
Like, some days, like, maybe I don't want to do anything and he wants to cook for me.
Maybe some days he doesn't want to do anything else to sit on the couch and check.
That's where it begins.
Where it's like, okay, now you want to be lazy.
And it's like, okay, 50-50, what?
Because eventually you want a family, right?
Yeah.
So then, are you still going to pay 50-50 with him if you want kids?
Yeah, of course.
If he wants me to be a stay-at-home wife and he's able to support me financially, I'm 100% down to a stay-at-home wife.
If not, then in this economy, unfortunately, that's really unlikely unless I date a billionaire and I'm not looking for someone with money.
I'm just looking for citizenship.
Or fresh when she gets older, you know, like her.
Yeah, for sure.
Here's the issue, right, ladies.
When you do half an hour with a guy, Bob said a family, you're taking away from the family's nurturing and guidance.
And as a woman, the kids need that.
So I get you want to be, you know, respectful and have that level of, I guess, equality, but like the family matters more than equality.
Okay.
Yeah.
That's not true.
Family is important, but when it gets to that point.
You have to have quality to have a family.
That's just why people begin to do that.
But the roles work for a reason, though, back in the day.
Back in the day, it's 256.
I ain't back there no more.
Whoa, you're still single?
You're still single.
She's still single.
I'm going to be married.
That's going to happen for me.
My man going to love me.
You have a man, right?
Yes.
And he pays the majority of the bills?
Yes.
And then let's hear her thoughts on this.
Yeah.
Pardon me.
What is the question in particular?
So, once again, you live with your man right now.
Yes.
What are his roles and who's paying half and half or who's paying full?
Okay.
So we okay, so he pays the rent.
I pay the car.
We take turns on the bills that we pay kind of thing.
It's not necessarily 50-50.
I would say it's more like 80-20.
Is it his car or your car?
My.
It's under my name.
But we both use it.
He has his own mode of transportation, which is a motorcycle.
That's his preference.
And I support it because that's like a hobby, a leisure for him.
And it's like a way for him to, it's like therapeutics.
So I support it.
He could die, though.
God forbid.
He's very safe about when he rides.
He's very safe about when he rides and how he rides and stuff like that.
So I do support him because he's very smart about when he rides and stuff like that.
Yes.
But we are very like fair when it comes to like our bills.
Like we help each other out.
It's very like teamwork kind of thing.
Does he pay for your child as well?
So when it comes to like certain necessities like food and stuff like that, it's like a family effort.
Like he'll go ahead and pay for us.
But when it comes to like schooling and things like that, I take care of that because it's my responsibility as my child's mother.
Wow.
That's actually pretty good.
Yeah.
So he only has to pay for, like, car and, I guess, like...
Well, I pay for the car, he pays for the rent.
Sorry, the rent and then that's pretty much it.
Yeah, pretty much.
And then, like, if we have outings, roughly about $1,200.
And the car is like...
That's good.
That ain't nothing gonna be.
And the car's like.
Hi, Aliyah.
$1,200.
And the car is like $100.
The cars between car insurance and car note, it's about $800.
It's not too far off.
Right.
That's actually pretty fair.
So, but question.
Let's say there's a choice we made in a household.
Who gets like the last say?
You or him?
Him.
Okay.
You sure about my life?
yes see because usually i'm i'm uh pardon me fresh um I'm quite a submissive woman when it comes to the roles that we play.
Now, I believe that the man is the head, the woman is the neck.
Depending on the type of household that you're trying to build.
But the man is the head, the woman is the neck.
I'm there to support and to encourage, and then he's there to lead.
So, like, if there is a moment where I feel like he needs some guidance, that's where the neck comes into support, and I guide, you know, and then we speak about it back and forth, kind of thing.
How old's your kid, your son?
Uh, he's six.
Can he uh discipline your son?
Can he say like every son do something bad?
Can he say, hey, little nigga, relax?
He said, He doesn't say it in those words, but yes, yes, he does discipline him because he is a father figure to my son.
Okay, he does discipline him.
But is a real father okay with that?
Well, unfortunately, as I said previously, the father is not involved at all, so I am the sole parent and I'm able to raise my son as I choose with now his father figure being in his life as well.
I'll say this: uh, for a single mom, not with somebody, that that is some good terms.
I would say it's pretty favorable for the guy, um, but still, I still argue that like being by yourself is better just because, yes, you do have less responsibility, but as a man at least, survive and thrive, being alone is better.
But in your case, I see why it works because at least you make kiddos his free man.
That's good.
All right, um, we'll come back to the questions here.
Uh, Dark Shadow says, Dealing with the average man, having sex with a famous dude in Miami, are two different things.
What's he talking about?
What he said, dealing with the average man, have sex with a famous dude in Miami, are two different things.
Somebody fucking somebody's famous.
I think he's saying, like, either deal with an average man to have sex or deal with a famous thing to have sex.
Or he's saying something in general.
Dealing with an average is probably saying that.
Famous with an average man and having sex with a famous dude in Miami are two different things.
When did we mention famous dudes?
We haven't mentioned famous dudes.
Are you actually so famous?
Well, I think because, like, why business is that, like, in Miami, you could just be like living your regular day.
I mean, somebody that's famous, or you may get a DM.
It's like randomly to yell, like, right, we knew it tonight.
And then you know, at some club or restaurant, and then it's like, oh, shit.
Famous.
And then all of a sudden, it's two different things.
I'd rather roll with a rock star roll with these average niggas.
Only because I'm from Milwaukee.
Right.
So, so, Miami niggas, hold on.
It's in Milwaukee.
Imagine, right?
You're new to Miami.
Right.
There's Swaley.
There's Future.
There's.
well Drake's not coming here there's like oh it's here right I'm like yo Yo, like, pop up with us.
Y'all can say no.
Right.
So I say better because I literally got picked by sexy rentourage to go type shit.
They picked me.
You can look like a little bit.
Exactly.
That's why I got picked.
And because I miss my shit being paid.
I go with a regular ass nigga.
They might take me on my money and everything because they broke the whole time.
Right.
Waste my time.
When I just had a rockstar night and I got money for it.
It's like, why?
Hold on, hold on.
A rockstar night over a rockstar lifestyle.
No, rock star night.
You're never going to have a rockstar lifestyle unless you make it.
A rockstar night over actual good lifetime.
Because one night is fine.
These regular niggas will treat you like, you know what I mean?
Niggas don't.
Nowadays, niggas don't be who they want to be to you until you proved yourself to them.
Honestly, that's how it is because everybody.
But is that a bad thing though?
No.
No.
Because I'm one of them people who has brothers.
I grew up with all boys.
So I've seen firsthand how women can treat men and it's crazy.
So I have both sides.
I pay both sides respectfully because that's what I got.
So that's why my opinion is different.
But no, I would rather be with someone who has the means to make my life a movie than to make it something regular.
And now you're just an experience.
And now I got to be cautious.
Wait, so you want your life to be a movie?
It is the movie already.
I mean, but if you want to deal with a guy who's like, wants to build a future, but you guys don't want that.
No, there's a difference, though.
That's what I'm saying.
They said either a regular nigga.
Yeah, or a rock star or something.
Exactly.
So my first pick would be a rock star.
Only on the sense because I have some say-so just as much as he has some say-so.
No, because, but, but rock stars just want to have that fast life.
Just want to fuck many girls, wants to, you know, do their own thing.
It's a one-on-one, though.
So that's what I'm saying.
But once again, it's we know guys like that, all right?
They see you, a girl like you, they think of you for a fun time, right?
A week, a month.
Right.
It depends on what kind of value that girl brings.
So eventually you want a guy who actually average or grounded who also wants you for you.
Like, not for like the whole fast life, because it's many girls out there.
Right, but so it's okay, but it's my role, right?
I'm a fast life girl.
So therefore, what I've experienced is whether I have a regular nigga or a rich nigga, they have to catch up with me.
Guys like us, guys like you, for now, we'll lie to you.
We'll say, you know what, girl, yeah, yeah, we want you, we want you until we fuck you a couple times, and then we'll just leave you hanging by the road.
But that's with a rich nigga or a bum.
No, but would you rather recover a rich nigga or a bum?
A rich nigga, but most likely.
All right, well, can you share a rich nigga?
Hell yeah.
Okay, so if you think Mariah, it's like hey, listen, if you want to share a rich nigga, then that could work for you.
Type shit.
Yeah, I'm fine.
But that's my lifestyle right now because I'm 22.
But until my real man, whether he's rich or not, finds me, that's that.
But I'm not looking for no man.
Finds you or will you find him?
Because like you know, he has to find me.
Like, do you know what it takes to actually be a wife to a person?
Yes.
So a man?
Top three things.
Love myself.
Love God.
And love yourself.
And love the space that I'm in.
It seems like it's just you, you, you, you.
Okay.
How could what the top three things that could benefit him?
Me pretending I am as a woman.
Okay.
If I say, hey, listen, why should I propose to you?
Top three things.
I can.
Like, I bring peace.
Okay, you bring peace to the household, right?
To you.
Could I jump in?
Go ahead.
Nah, yeah.
When somebody proposes to you, it's because they feel like that you bring out the best in them and that you are able to encourage them to do what is better in terms of like actions and whatnot.
Top three things.
So like best in me, like as in what though?
No, because if somebody is around you, and they're bringing out the best in you, like they're giving a good influence.
If you're a guy making six figures a year, you're you know, you're doing your thing, you're in shape, you're already a top 1%.
So how can you bring out that bottom 1%?
Like what's like what makes a difference between you, who, you, who you?
It's literally what feeds your soul.
No, it's not.
Like it's what you feel.
Like a lot of men get married off of energy, not what a bitch specifically.
No, we don't get married.
No, no, we know what it takes for, you know, what, for a man to drop down on one.
Right, so what do you mean?
Type shit.
That's what I'm saying.
But you should know.
No, every man are different.
I'm not trying to get with you, but I would only know what you're saying.
Well, when you said peace, because if me and you were getting married, you know, and then I bring you to my household, yeah, peace is a major factor.
Like, don't argue with me if I go home on late, don't, don't question me.
I'm going to tell you where I'm going now.
I'm going to tell you what time I come home.
You know, stuff like that.
That, like, you know, if I'm saying one thing, don't be like, okay, whoa, you know, that's peace.
And then what's number two?
What's something like that?
Because don't say, oh, you got, I bring out the best in you.
Anyone could do that.
No.
Anyone could do that.
No.
These women nowadays, it'd be fake facade.
Bitches will gash your head up and literally put whatever you do.
It's levels to it.
What I mean, what I mean is what I say.
Whatever you need me to do for you, I better do that without me telling you.
It should be a natural thing.
Is the energy based me.
Okay, well, what do you guys look for in women?
Well, me, my top three.
Let's see.
Be sexy.
Okay.
All right.
So if you don't take care of yourself, you know, for example, if you're just, you know, because once again, women's major components be, you know, woman in the household, husband, wife, whatever, a mother.
It's a take care of body.
You're going to give birth.
You're going to be, you know, if you're not healthy, the birth is going to suck for you.
You know what I'm saying?
And then if I'm walking down, you know, I want to see you butt naked as cities out looking nice.
You know, because that's what I care about.
That's what makes my dick hard.
Okay, but you see, every man is different because no, most men want a sexy ass lady.
Men settle for whatever they get because they can't get anything else.
So you say that a man would value your looks over anything else you can provide them?
That's a major component.
It is.
I feel like it gets you in the door.
Looks definitely do matter because it gets you in the door.
Now, your personality, how you handle things, of course, you're actually modesty as well.
And if you're not a hoe, it goes a long way.
So all this doesn't matter to a guy, but I'll say this.
Living with a guy is different because now that's like your girl.
So if that's your girl, you gotta act right.
If you're not right, you're nagging, you're annoying.
Why live with you?
I agree.
So looks, peace.
Okay, that's one thing too.
Like those two major things right there can get you far.
Okay.
Can get you to a guy to actually bend a knee down to you, okay?
What if a woman like uplifts you and encourages you to become a better person?
Sure, that's peace.
You can do that.
Hey, you know, you know, whatever, you know.
No, but someone who's like, who's like the yin to your yang that is constantly supporting you and like wanting you to become better?
That's peace.
That's involved.
That's what's more than peace.
That's good.
That's good.
I mean, I don't think that's goodness.
I feel like that's more.
You see, like, I'm telling you what peace means to me.
And you're like, I don't think that's peace.
Like, she mentioned that.
If that's peace to you, that's perfectly fine.
What?
But okay, what does that mean to you?
Like, yin and yang?
You mean like to help you become better?
Yeah, but becoming a better person and uplifting you as a man the same way he would uplift me as a woman, just uplifting each other and making ourselves the better, the best version of the world.
How would you uplift him?
Supporting him with whatever he needs.
Like for example, again, I'm a student, for example.
So when I was dating my ex, he's also a student.
I would make sure to help him if he needed help with his schoolwork or he needed help with something regarding college.
If he was really stressed out, I would focus on that and help uplift him in that way because I knew that's what he needed at the time.
So things of that sorts.
But obviously when you go into a more mature relationship, it becomes more mature adult things.
Why did it end?
I broke up with him.
Why is that?
So you're uplifting him.
I didn't.
And they ended it.
I ended it because he didn't have, we didn't have the same values anymore.
He wanted to choose the party life.
Oh, Chris.
So hold on.
I can get uplifting.
I can get a nice help with my schoolwork.
But the moment I'm not aligned, it's over.
Yeah, the moment you party too much, it's over, Chris.
I just don't want to be with somebody who's constantly partying, drinking, doing things that aren't beneficial to him.
He was hurting.
You picked him.
I didn't pick him when he was partying.
That happened later on in the relationship.
And then also a little bit of cheating, which I don't like disloyalty.
He cheated on you?
Yeah.
No way.
Yeah.
A man would never do that.
Yeah, a man would always do that to a woman.
These niggas need that Gucci when they want that Gucci.
They're going to get that Gucci.
I don't care how good you are.
Cheating is going to happen no matter what.
It doesn't matter how good of a woman you are.
So question real quick.
How would you handle living with a guy come cheating on you?
What would you do?
If you're a man cheating on you, you live with him.
What would you do?
It is over.
Really?
1,000%.
Okay, okay.
Question.
You made a mistake.
It won't happen again.
When you put cheating and mistake in the same sentence, it just sounds like an oxymoron because you don't just fall into some pussy.
Yeah.
You know, it's a conscious decision.
Tell me.
I mean, we're a man.
You wake up, you go to the club.
Oh, shit.
It's feeling that shit.
That was amazing.
Oh, you're right.
So, yes, in a sense, yes.
The rockstar life.
Just just in a sense, yes.
And I mean, there are like 10 to 12 women per man.
So, I understand that.
Like, there's billions of humans, and there's like 10 to 12 women per man.
Like, I get that.
But if you cheat on me consciously without any previous conversation of like, hey, let's have something together or so on and so forth.
So, you want to throw some with him though?
It's not that I want one, but I would be open to that conversation if my man, if that's what my man would want.
Because, because you're dating for a year, right?
Yes.
So, if eventually he's going to want to step out, I'm going to say it right now.
No, eventually.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Come on.
Wait, so you're trying to marry me now.
Hold on, you're married right now.
If he cheats on you, you're done.
Yes.
If he cheats on me without us planning anything together kind of thing, I'm done.
Because in my previous relationship that I had, I tolerated a lot of cheating and there was never any change.
And I tolerated and tolerated, and I was understanding and all of that.
And there was never any change.
So that's why I can no longer tolerate that.
But question for you.
I get what you're saying because it's not fair.
You feel like you're being lied to.
I understand that.
Here's the issue, though.
What if every man's going to do that to you?
You know, it's funny that you say that because I had the closest man in my life pretty much tell me that all men cheat, which is my father.
He was very real.
Wise man.
Wise man.
Wise man, right?
He's a Pisces.
Yeah.
Okay.
He was like, hey, it's okay to have a wife and a girlfriend.
And I'm like, I looked at him and I'm like, can you give me some hope?
No, it's not hope.
He's being realistic.
And he's being right.
He was being real.
But.
I mean, hold on.
Think about it from a logical standpoint.
Guy to guide me.
Right, right.
Guide a woman.
If you get rid of this guy, you have a kid.
Right.
So in the paradigm of dating, especially nowadays, people are very picky.
So if you have a kid plus your plus, I mean, it's going to be harder for you to actually get what you want.
So you got to settle for something.
Whether it's cheating or just dealing with the bullshit.
Because I'll tell you this.
If you don't settle for it, you may end up losing because I get it.
Things happen.
Men do dumb shit.
But to leave that for another one is going to do the same thing.
Not smart.
Yep.
Personally, I feel like once again, let's respond.
I understand your perspective and it is a valid one.
But I value myself too much to put up with that kind of behavior over and over again.
So I wouldn't worry about me finding someone else or so on and so forth because that other person will come if that's the case.
It may not be in a day or week or whatever, but they will come.
You're 35.
Right.
You have a kid.
Right.
It's hard.
It's really hard.
Like, you feel blessed to find and win with it.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But that's not easy though.
And you're right.
It's not easy, but nothing in life is easy.
And you have to be, it's all about mentality.
So if I have the mentality that I'm never going to meet anyone again, of course I won't because I'm blocking myself off to that.
Okay.
But if I remain open, I work on myself.
I let go of weight.
So on and so forth, of course I'll find somebody else.
Go to Rumble.
Guys, okay, guys, put a link in the chat if you don't mind.
YouTube.
Let's close YouTube off because I'm telling the truth right now.
Because listen, listen, listen.
Tell me.
I love that you're open ear.
You want to believe in manifestation.
Do better.
Think smart.
Think logically.
But the problem is that, like, you know, at the same time, things got to change.
And even I had to change.
Changing my vocabulary, changed my mindset.
If it didn't, I would have stayed the same in the same box.
But for you, I'm just saying, like, yes.
How old are you?
33?
35.
I'm 35.
No, you.
33.
And I'm 33.
But here's the point: you can get whatever you want for sure.
Yes.
I'm not whatever you want.
But hold on, but not how you want it.
If that makes sense.
And I see your point.
I see your perspective there.
Yes.
Okay.
We'll come back to you, though.
Yeah.
You live with a guy he cheats on you.
What are you doing?
Come out.
Real men don't cheat.
A real man won't cheat.
What?
Halfway.
A real man won't cheat.
Sorry.
So, Digletts.
Shout out to you, bro, for supporting the show.
Hold on, hold on.
So you're going to just leave.
Like, why are you cheating?
Why would you find yourself?
Well, no pussy.
No pussy is always great.
What if he told you, hey, babe, you know, just be honest with you.
Like, this happened to me.
You know, this happened.
I'm sorry.
If he's unhappy and unsatisfied in our relationship, he should be telling me that.
Wave is just super excited.
He's happy.
Just, you know, he wanted something new.
He should have told me that and communicated with me.
Because if I did it, then I would be a whore and a slut.
But question, do you want to do it though?
No.
I don't find it.
Men want to do it.
Like, men actually would just want to procreate and just like meet different girls.
Okay, but you can procreate.
Isn't it supposed to be a man and a woman procreating together?
So why do you need to procreate with like 20 other bitches?
Because we have sperm for generations to come.
But if you look at traditional values, it's supposed to be you're supposed to be married to a woman, have a wife.
Traditional values, many men have different women.
Well, that's depending on the culture that you're in.
But culturally, Western culture is propaganda, bro.
Man, if you can marry a girl.
That's what most people reference when they say they want a traditional family.
And then they do the opposite where it's cheat.
If you want to get with multiple people, you can do that.
But just that's not what I want.
So I don't have to be with you.
It's fine.
You can do whatever you want.
It's each their own.
Okay.
What about you?
So when you're man, he cheats.
What you doing?
I think like a man.
Bae, tell me if we open.
Tell me when we close.
Because if you because.
No, no, no.
No.
He's open.
You're not.
Yeah.
Yeah, no.
I will never, I will never just be no, because I'm one of them ones.
So if we finna be doing all of them.
Let's go.
If we finna be doing open shit, okay, then we open.
And you're not gonna like that because I really am one of them ones, you know what I mean?
And then I have enough research for myself not to overdo it and be a whore and have my man looking dumb.
Because if I chose to marry you publicly, then I'm gonna respect myself publicly.
But if you want to be open and shit and have a little hug, nothing out my little shit.
You feel me?
Like, listen.
Listen.
It's life.
You feel me?
Fuck that tea, nigga.
No, but real shit is life.
You feel me?
And like, I understand.
Super sad.
But no, like, I understand.
You feel me?
Like, I understand.
And my dad is one of them ones who will switch him out quick.
So me being raised by my dad, not my mama.
I was raving my mama.
So you should understand how it is then.
That's what I'm saying.
That's why I said, babe, if you want to be open, we open then.
But do you want to be open?
Because if I be open, your homie might want me to be.
So you're going to match the energy.
If your homie wants me, you mad.
Wait, Exactly.
So you're going to match the energy and be open too.
It's not even like that.
But like, I'll match energy to the sense of don't think that you're the only one who can have this cake and eat it too.
Yeah, but you don't even want to cheat, though.
That's the point.
It's not about me cheating.
No, but no, because if it was honest, then you then.
Because honestly, if I say, babe, I ain't gonna lie, I want to fuck this nigga right now.
Either you finna watch me fuck him or what?
What?
What?
Oh, shit.
Now I'm the prop.
But then you tell me, but then you tell me, bae, go get this girl so we can fuck her together.
And I say, no, babe, she don't deserve my pussy.
Now I'm the prop.
No, you are a problem.
You are the problem.
No, these bitches be dirty.
They be having energy.
All right, just bring a test.
No, it's levels to it.
No, no, you're not.
Because I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna protest.
I'm not gonna protest and use condoms.
No, but it's energy.
Y'all like say I want to add it's more.
It's 2026.
Yes, it's just kind of no, it's about energy.
All right, blood.
I want to add on to what she's saying.
Unfortunately, they don't make SCD tests for spirituality.
Yeah.
And that's what she's talking about when it comes to energy.
How long you fucked Raw before?
I know, but back then you wasn't worried about SCD tests back in the day.
Don't sit here at 35 saying no.
You're too literal.
No, you gotta.
No, no.
Because back in the days, you fucked Raw, correct?
Yes or no?
It was literal.
For me, back in the day.
No, I'm saying you too.
You fucked Raw back in the day.
She's been big on protection.
All you girls.
Been big.
I've always been big on protection.
Come on, man.
Oh, damn, bro.
I have one.
Yeah, but back then, you know, you wasn't, you were handling Condoms.
Like, y'all can't.
You had a broke guy give you a baby back then.
When I was 29 years old, yes.
Doesn't matter.
Like, I'm sure back then it was one thing, but I was 29.
Yeah, so he wasn't, you know, but he was broke, though, right?
Right.
He was a college football player, yes.
So, yeah.
Maybe, like, like, once again, no, no, no, this is him, but it's your body.
You should know what you're doing in terms of giving birth to a baby.
You shouldn't, you shouldn't be fucking broke niggas and raw, and then all of a sudden you're out here talking about, oh, yeah, well, SCD says all kinds of stuff.
So it is worth it.
I mean, it's not true.
I'm just saying that, like, when he can grow in hair more than that.
There's the S C D, there's a physical S C D test, and then there is, unfortunately, there isn't an energetic S C D.
So, hold on.
What she's saying is basically there's a test of like physical realm, and then there's a spiritual realm.
So, sex is two parts, like soul, yes, right, right, right, right.
However, however, let's be honest here.
Does anyone care about spiritual?
No, so we're just gonna, bro.
There's some people putting that dick down on purpose.
Yes, so the bitch be crazy.
Okay, hold on.
It makes me crazy.
They're like, oh my god, maybe I'm being crazy.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I know a guy in Miami.
I want to say his name.
Okay.
He is very famous.
Okay.
Very wealthy.
This might sound crazy, fellas, but just hear me out here.
You know what he does?
What?
Fucks.
No, he was told by a spirit to fuck bitches, take their energy, and break to the spirit.
I kid you not, bro.
I believe you.
I kid you not.
He's like a warlock.
And they don't even know they're getting fucked.
Take your energy.
And it's like, bro, this thing is a fucking default, bro.
It's called energy side.
So there are two realms there: physical and spiritual.
So I get what you're saying.
So it does sound kind of crazy, but it is true to an extent.
And it is a real thing.
Okay, what about you, though?
Tell us, you live with a guy, he cheats on you.
What are you doing?
I mean, honestly, I have never been the type of person who would like to worry so much about it.
Sorry, go ahead.
Warcock.
Nah.
All right.
So if somebody cheats on me, honestly, either.
Like, if I actually care about them, then I'm going to leave.
Because who are you cheating on me?
But sometimes if I'm most of the time.
But if I'm with them just like for the sake of enjoying their company and whatnot, I'll happily let them have whatever pussy they want.
Because honestly, don't fuck me.
Don't mess with me.
You just hang out with me and we're good.
Honestly.
You think you're enough for one guy?
Be honest.
Yeah.
All right, you're cut, man.
Thank you.
Dickless, shout out to you for supporting the show.
I got you.
$100 super chat.
Shout out to you, bro.
He says, women literally always stay.
I bring peace because that's what they think.
Women are too volatile to bring any type of peace.
Yeah, I agree with you, man.
I feel like people don't know what peace really means to a guy.
But they believe I'll give him peace.
They nag him.
Like, bro, you're not giving a fuck.
I mean, like, for real, though, like, for real.
I mean, most women don't understand what, like, how to take to actually maintain a guy full term.
Like, she's saying, okay, one year, if he cheats, she's gone.
Like, dude, like, dude, takes care of your son properly.
Well, correct, right?
Like, he's like, he's a good, you know, stepdad.
Right.
He pays the majority of the bills.
Right.
And you're 35.
Right.
And you're overweight.
Right.
So it's like, you know, like, who do you think is winning from you and him being together?
What?
The both of us.
You asshole, Chris.
No, because I'm being honest right here.
Because in the day, he can easily step out, right?
And make his whole family.
Like I said, I'm willing to do that.
You will lose long term because the older you get.
I'm willing to share an experience with him if he talks to me about it previously.
Oh, yeah, sure.
Yeah.
My whole thing is if he does it unsolicited behind my back, that's backstabbing.
Yeah, you're right.
I wholly agree that he should talk to you.
Hey, listen, you know, like, I do want to step out and deal with a girl.
And let's have a conversation about it.
You know what I'm saying?
So if that happens, then yeah, sure.
But, you know, him going behind your back and sneaking and then fucking other girls.
Right.
For me, it's more of like, can you have a conversation?
Don't be a bitch about it.
Right.
Like, have a conversation with me.
Be up front.
Like, tell me what you need.
Tell me what you need from me, even if it's not from me.
Yeah, but the thing is, because he knows if he tells you the truth, right, you'll leave probably the majority of the time.
Well, if he, again, if he does it behind my back without having the conversation, if we have a conversation, he wants to have a past, like an experience on his own, that could be a possibility.
If he wants to have an experience together, can I do it?
No, can he does it?
Now, this is the thing.
Now we're stepping into it.
What, two years?
Now we're stepping into polyamory territory.
It depends.
Like, what type of relationship do we have?
Is it monogamous?
Is it polygamous?
On this part.
Polygamy in this part.
You monogamy.
You can't fuck other guys.
Okay.
So, personally, polygamy on the man's side and monogamy on the woman's side, I think is very one-sided.
How is it one-sided?
If we're doing polygamy, it's going to be all the way around.
Like, I have my own.
Yes, I have my own whatever I have going on, and you have your own, whatever you have.
Do you want to fuck other guys?
No.
Okay, but he probably does, but he probably do.
You mean like he wants to with other women, other girls.
If you want to, men just know.
If I tell you the truth, you're going to leave.
So they just lie.
No, that's some.
I'm saying the truth because, once again, we talked to me and France, talk to many, you know, our supporters around the world, right?
To five years on this shit.
You know what I'm saying?
And guys don't want to tell your girls the truth because they're bitches because they're afraid to lose you.
And a guy who isn't afraid to lose you, looks then, I'm going to be with you for a while, but I do want to introduce a girl here and there.
And the guy will still love you.
Like, he still loves you.
Like, his love is not going to be divided between, you know.
I would have so much respect for a man that is up front with me rather than one that goes behind my back.
But what he's saying is like, it's like, guys won't say that because you can, so you can leave.
So yeah, so you can leave.
No, no, no, no.
I would only leave if it's something that's done behind my back that feels like betrayal.
But if it's you don't want him to do it in the first place.
So if he tells you.
No, of course, I think any person you don't.
I wouldn't want him to, but if he does talk to me about it before he acts on anything, I would be open to him doing something because he was honest with me.
Okay, so can he do it right?
Like, what is the percentage of him, your current man, right now?
Like, if he comes to you right now, like right now or a year from now, saying, hey, baby, I love you.
I would say 50-50 right now.
Okay, so how about one more year?
One actually.
One more year, and he's doing all the right things.
Yeah, my son's right.
More year, um, 75-25 goes higher, yeah.
I would say, all right, so what I'm very doing to to lower the chances of him asking that, though, because once again, many women are very complacent, okay, and they don't want to work on their parts.
This is why I gotta step out.
Well, I would say that one of the things I need to work on clearly is my weight.
Yeah, so that's something that I'm I've started recently.
That's something that I've started recently.
You asshole, Fresh, bro.
No, she's that wasn't fresh.
Yeah, yeah, no, no, Bills.
Um, that's something that I've recently started my journey on.
Um, so yeah, that's something that I could work on personally.
Okay, I'm not ashamed of it either.
No, it's not like I can hide it.
So, other than that, other than that, it's um you know, how am I contributing to his life?
How am I contributing to my own?
How am I contributing to my son?
So on and so forth.
Just my natural character overall.
And how's the sex life?
It's great.
So, like, every time he goes out, the house, do you like, you know, suck his dick?
Do you have fuck him?
We so our sex life is very natural, very positive.
Chris, what you have to tell my nigga, come on, man.
No, but no, because most girls have to hear this.
Because once again, most girls sit there and think that healthy sex life, it's every day, multiple times a day.
Okay, good.
Yo, yo, yo, yo, sorry, in the chat.
The nigga's name is Thrid Niglitz.
Yo, nigga, I'm dead, bro.
Yo, I'm dead.
That's fucking hilarious.
That's hilarious.
Sorry.
Sex life.
Listen, all I'm saying is that if a guy cares about what she loves you, he may cheat.
Is it right?
No.
But it happens.
Saturday and day to leave him for another guy is not smart because he's going to park into the two as well.
So I'm just saying.
I wouldn't say fresh for another guy.
I would say I would leave him for myself if that were the case.
Okay.
Leave him for myself.
Why?
Because then I would have to work on myself, just be the best mother I could be.
Period.
But no matter what you do, you might get cheating on.
No, you're right.
You're right.
Men are primal.
I do agree with that.
Men are primal.
Not to like talk down on men, but men are primal.
So there's a sense of like respect there.
Like, okay, I see where you're coming from.
I see how you are.
But it doesn't mean that you have to continue to be that way.
It's also a choice.
Me us.
Men, yeah.
Men and women.
They said they have back tits.
Back.
Fresh.
I know, but it's a chat nigga.
You're saying booty shaking shit.
No, but it's like shit.
Yeah, yeah.
No, I could imagine.
I mean, the worst they can say and continue saying is about my weight, which is very third grade of them.
I mean, no, but like, you know, you seem like a girl who has a very, you know, stable and you know how to be a woman or whatever.
But it's like, it's one of those things where it's like, you said men are primal and they have to learn how to control.
No, it's like, this is our nature.
Like, you know, like, it's like me telling women, oh, stop relying on us.
You know, you have to learn how to be independent.
No, I mean, no, I feel like, okay, so what I truly feel when it comes to men and women is like men and women shouldn't compete because we are very, we have similarities as human beings, but we're very different.
So there shouldn't be a competition.
Yeah, 10 subs for y'all niggas, man, in the chat.
10 subs.
Love you guys, man.
We should leave competition for sports.
Like, and that, you know, that's subjective and objective.
But I'm talking.
You know, you know, listen, listen, Chris.
She's going to leave.
They're all going to leave.
If someone cheats, it's fine.
I ain't leaving.
They're going to find out what happens when they leave.
I'm going to stay with my man.
I'm going to stick with Zion.
Put this ring on my finger.
We did.
So, okay, ladies.
No shade.
Look how videos play here that illustrates if a man cheats, I live with a woman, as it works.
What happens?
We're gonna play it loud enough so that you can hear it in the headphones.
Because, yeah, at least for now.
Guys, by the way, we're gonna fix Castle Club live stream pre-show for Monday with a special guest.
So don't worry, it'll be fixed by then.
Not this one, should be the other one.
No, not this one.
That one, yeah.
Cheat on my girlfriend.
She trashed my apartment.
There you go.
No, you can play it.
It's fine.
Yeah, I'll just put it on the screen.
Got it.
So, fellas, you live with a girl.
Not only can she call the cops on you falsely, not only can she obviously trash your spot, but she can destroy your apartment totally because she's upset.
And now, you gotta rebuild by yourself because, hey, she's a champion of Bills, bro.
So, here we go.
He say that I'm good enough But think about shit that I should've known So I tell him it's one of me He make me Like that boy is a cat Yeah, he hope that he will be at Think about me because you know that it's fat.
And it been what it been.
Pulling his phone like he'll send me a pen.
Look at my shit because he knows what I want.
But when he hit me, I'm not going to spawn.
He said that I'm good enough.
If your man cheated, would you trash his spot?
Nope, no, no, no.
Run from that, bro.
I just leave it.
I was just grabbing my stuff.
Y'all are mature.
Run from that brookie.
Run from that brookie.
But you never know.
If you're the only time I'm going to do something is when I want to blow up that phone and make sure you train with me.
You got five, ten times, and I ask your phone.
Now I'm cool on you.
You better ask your mama about me.
Also, we got part two for this video.
The first video?
The first video?
The part two.
So this is a video going viral right now.
She's so jail.
A video that's going viral should seriously use a heavy hammer to destroy her boyfriend's house after heated arguments.
He got money.
It's an argument.
Right.
It's a viral clip.
The woman visibly enraged can be seen smashing windows, breaking furniture, and tearing down household items in a fit of anger.
Yeah.
Neighbors reportedly tried to intervene, but were too afraid to come close.
And she shouted angrily while leashing her destruction.
Here you go.
Yeah, I know.
That's not.
As a man, how would you react if this happened to you?
Did you call the police, walk away, or confront her?
Here we go.
That's a hammer.
That's a nice ass house.
I know.
I'll sit with my own eyes.
I love the windows.
Damn.
She got some ads though.
She has some ass.
I was just gonna say, she gotta be.
I'll be honest, bro.
Net bitch man.
That's most type.
Oh, shit.
She's strong.
She's trying to hustle a rage room, nigga.
Great times.
What?
Okay, so.
Chris, that's you.
What are you doing, bro?
I'm gonna restrain her.
Sorry to say.
It's like, no, no woman's on gun my property.
Can't turn on the bills.
And gonna do all that shit.
You know what I'm saying?
Because end of the day, like, that's not from like 060.
That's like in steps.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, this guy is allowing her to, you know, to say certain things, do certain things.
That's what I'm saying.
Like, if you're a guy, you can't allow your woman to talk a certain way.
Because, like, one minute you meet the first that you meet her, first week, she may try you.
And the guy, she got big eyes, so I'm gonna let her say what she wants.
Now, all of a sudden, week month six, she's doing this bullshit.
And it's like, bro, I'm sorry.
I'm stronger than her.
If she swings, I'm gonna grab her wrist, restrain her, and then call a cops.
You know, like, what are you gonna do?
Two guy me and miss.
And she hits me and shits me.
That's one thing, but she hits you, nigga.
Listen, I ain't no bitch, man.
So, anyways, I'm gonna restrain her.
You know what I'm saying?
Because it's like in the day, she's doing this shit right here.
So fellas, I'm going to be transparent here.
I was sitting with a chick for like a week.
I'm not going to hold you, bro.
It was tough.
Nigga, it wasn't worth the headache.
And you know what's funny?
Like, I thought to myself, maybe fresh, it's time for a girlfriend, bro.
Settle down, get out the game, live your life with a girlfriend, travel the world.
Kind of just getting her.
Well, that last part, but, you know, and I did it for a week.
And I was just like, bro, she's fucking hell on earth, nigga.
Bro, I was so annoyed, bro.
I couldn't breathe.
What's she Spanish?
Let a nigga breathe, bro.
She was white Spanish?
She was Swedish.
But the police are like, oh.
I legit, bro.
I think she's super cool, though.
Super cool, girl.
But to live for a girl, I can't do it.
I just can't do it.
Not to spare her, but like, bro, in essence, what I'm saying is for a guy, for you to thrive and do better in life, you got to have your clear mind and clear, like, living space.
Then after that fact, maybe if you want to the future, but like at the beginning, bro, you can't be doing that shit.
Mind you, though, if I got a girlfriend, though, she's her own apartment.
Because living with a girl, bro, it's a lot.
I mean, do you think it's like more girls in the West?
Or, you know, the Eastern girls are like people like girls from the West.
Obviously, so.
But I'll say this.
Even if it's in the East, bro, you need your space as a man, bro.
Yeah.
That is true.
And I think for a woman too, you need your space too.
Yeah.
And then when you want to come together, you come together and make it work.
So that works for me, but living with a girl, bro, is a headache.
And then all this bullshit might happen.
She might break her stuff, call the cops.
Like, I know a guy is in jail now because his girlfriend lied and said he hit her.
He never hit her.
He's in jail right now.
It's been six months.
My homeboy ex-wife just took his place off his shit.
Oh, gee.
What?
My homeboy ex-wife just took his license plate off his car.
Mind you, he got a warrant because of the bitch.
Wow.
I swear that that just happened before I came here.
But once again, Fresh, that behavior right there, it escalates.
And his own way, she woke up and chose violence like that.
You know, personally, it's like a guy has to see those signs, those red flags.
Yeah.
No, no, you're right.
It came before.
But fellas, if you're single living alone, bro, you're blessed.
I'm telling you.
There's another video we got here.
This one here as well.
Woman says she's exposing her boyfriend for being heartless and sensitive because he wants her to give a homeless stray cat a place to live at his house.
I made their uncle talks a relationship.
That's coming to an end.
Thoughts.
Play that video, bro.
It's just crazy, baby.
Not the cat.
Bro, I tell her I was leave.
She needs a cat.
She gotta go.
There we go.
Okay.
You can't let a nice.
Stop packing stray animals into my house.
Oh, okay.
A stray animal that came to me and asked me for help.
I can't stop bringing straight animals to my house.
Okay.
Bro in the back yelling.
Come on.
If you bring that fucking cat back in, you're going to have some issues, bro.
That cat is an outside cat.
You're not bringing random stray animals to my house.
Bullshit.
Just know.
Real shit.
You bring me back in with us.
Real fucking problem.
Just know that that's messed up.
Real fucking problem.
Okay, you're messed up.
Leave the house, bitch, too.
You go with him.
Puff.
So I met a girl one time, and she was like, do you have any pets?
I was like, yeah, my dog Hiro.
He's right here.
I love my dog.
He's amazing.
He's like, I have four.
I'm like, nigga, what?
Four?
Two cats and two dogs.
I'm like, where do they stay?
Oh, in my crib.
And I thought to myself, I might as well live with her, bro.
Oh, my God.
I could barely do with one dog, nigga.
Four?
Bro, please.
But getting strays in your crib, bro, that's insane.
But let's continue.
That's wild.
Mind you, he's paying the rent.
Yeah, he's at my house, yeah.
I know.
Look how amazing he is.
Oh, my gosh.
That voice, man.
Tell me crazy.
That motherfucker is crazy.
He's so crazy.
That got crazy.
Both of them crazy.
What the nigga got.
Oh, now that I went outside, but no herbies.
She seems like she's trying to save the cow, like save the world.
No, she's trying to save herself.
Literally.
She asked me.
She's shrinking the apartment number.
That's wild.
Like, she's wild.
Recording her.
Okay, well, he's not.
No, show me what you gotta do because niggas be crazy.
Because you will only be here for a day.
I will find no.
I need him gone.
I don't want a brand new cat in my fucking house.
Look how nice he is.
She's like, that's not peace like that.
For a day?
That's not my brain.
No one's gonna use it.
That's not peace.
We're not used to it.
We're not a piece of these boars.
But, you know, like, you see how nicely she's like talking to him, right?
He's saying no.
Oh, no, but, baby, yeah, yeah, no, no, no.
She keeps on.
If ladies, ladies watching, if a guy tells you no, no, ask one more time for sure.
That's fine.
Right?
But then if it says no again, just touch the fuck up and walk away, all right?
Yo, tell us in the chat.
If that's your crib, we telling the girl, bro, can you stay?
Can she leave?
Because, nigga, she's gone, bro.
Off my crib, bro.
No facts.
Yeah.
There's no way, bro.
No vex.
So she's recording, acting like a kid and egging him on to talk more.
Yeah.
On camera.
Yeah, she's purpose.
Yeah, she's fucked up.
It's red flat, crimson.
Yeah, recording it is kind of just trying to weapons.
She's wearing her birthday.
She's just trying to make him look like a bad person, and she's recording him in like a moment of stress when he's in his.
Hold on, ladies.
You know what happens?
But everything's fighting and dandy.
You're happy with the guy.
You never do this to a guy.
Right.
When you're upset, you're emotional.
Fuck this nigga.
I'm about to expose him and blow the spot up.
It happens all the time.
That's a certain type of women.
That's not all women.
I'm used to the 70% of them.
I'm the 30%.
I'm the 30s liar.
70% of them bitches is like that.
Them dumbass bitches.
The bitch didn't even come right here.
The bitch did it in your birthday.
How she let her get in.
And she ain't even brushed her ass.
She ain't even trying to take the pet to the thing.
If the bitch wanted a pet, she should have said, Hey, babe, can we get a pet?
Let's pick out a pet.
Bitch trying to get astray.
We got one more question.
All right, so we'll stop it here.
Okay, so fellas, this one here, we played it on Thriller Fight Podcast yesterday.
But ladies, watch this video.
You tell me your honest god truth about this.
Not Jews.
Jewski?
This is bad.
Really bad.
Oh my gosh.
Let's play it.
I've been sitting in this car.
Can you hear it?
My headphones are good.
Just put it close to like.
Yeah.
Hers.
Yeah.
Bro, I've been sitting in this car for about two hours now.
Because I refuse to go inside and be with my wife.
Like, I hate her that much.
The only reason why I'm with her is because I'm broke and I don't have nowhere else to go.
Like, I can't afford to rent on my own.
And she makes more money than me.
So, I mean, if I was to get a good job tomorrow, I'd be gone just like that.
All you gotta do is the woman I really want.
But I can't afford the woman I want, so I gotta settle for her.
Literally.
If we're being honest, I think I'm doing her a favor.
Because she got low self-esteem anyway, and she's bad built.
So she's been lucky that I'm with her, if that makes sense.
So I don't feel guilty about it, but I mean, you know, some gotta give because I can't keep doing this.
Like, I could be with somebody I really want, but I refuse to do more, you know?
I'm kind of comfortable with being nothing.
He has to be charged.
Bro, no, most guys actually do that.
That's how they treat me.
He's gotta be charged.
Most guys do that.
He left for it, still in his car.
He dropped my drink and doesn't want to.
That's right.
Because of he hates his wife.
Because he's a little gay.
No, he's broke.
Let's start here.
What's his issue?
What can he do?
Oh, no.
I mean, he stated his issue.
He said it was financial.
So, what can he do?
He needs to get a better job and strive for a life that he actually wants.
Love himself better.
Yeah, love himself more.
And that's loving himself more would be get a better job.
Get a better beach.
Would you ever date a man like this?
No, that's all I get.
No.
That's all I get.
It's crazy.
That's crazy.
Tired.
But you have in the past, all right?
Yeah.
In the past.
Yeah, a guy who makes a million die.
I mean, my baby daddy, he was an exception at that time.
Like, I was younger.
I wasn't a logical, as logical thinker.
Yeah.
How old was you when you was in him?
29.
29, you know.
Oh, okay.
I know.
That's still grown.
That's still grown.
But out 29 was.
It's just a Gen Z thing.
I'm 22, so that's why I'm like, wait, no.
I was.
I do.
I'm a millennial.
I'm cool.
But I mean, I do.
We do have the right to change our minds and like make better choices as we get.
You made a better choice.
You got you a man now.
So baby daddy.
And then new man now.
Yes.
But you're happier now.
Oh, most definitely.
But that's because I've made changes within myself.
Yeah.
Okay.
So, okay, ladies, that man you see on the screen, you won't date him, right?
No.
But you've all dated men that were not up to par at some point.
Yeah.
Now, obviously, you learn from your mistakes.
You move forward.
But you know what's crazy?
He's married to somebody and he's stuck.
Right.
Fellas.
Oh, that could be you.
He's married.
He's married to the woman, yeah.
Right.
So the issues that, like, when you marry somebody and you're not financially well and you're not stable, this could be you.
Because remember, now you're under her.
Because remember, she's making more money than you.
That's a boss.
It's 50-50.
But on his end, it's like 40-60.
It's emotionally emotionally more than physically.
Because he can't be a man, bro.
He has no balls.
Because he's stuck there.
Emotionally, he's fucked up.
Fresh, would you say he's stuck or he feels stuck?
No, no.
He's stuck mentally.
Yeah.
Right.
He's frustrated.
He's making the video.
But my point is, he can make a change today if he wanted to.
But when he says in the video, he doesn't want to make a change.
You know.
He's doing some stuff.
He doesn't want to improve.
No ambition.
That's bad because as a guy, with no ambition and drive, what do you really have?
Nothing.
Right.
Yeah.
So he's stuck with this chick.
He doesn't like in a house, he doesn't like going to work in a job.
He doesn't like.
Yeah, light as fuck, bro.
So, as a man, you got to make the choice to say, you know what?
I'm tired of this bullshit.
I want to change how to make it happen?
My first job here was Chick-fil-a.
Think about it, 12 years ago, Chick-fil-a I was working at.
From there to here is impossible right yeah, but I want to make a change.
You made it happen.
So I see, like most guys nowadays, they don't see there's a light in a tunnel, but there is.
No matter how you want to look at it, you can make a way out.
Um okay, we got my chat, by the way.
So, ladies, real quick, we'll do last thoughts and questions for me or Chris.
Anybody?
Yeah, what?
And can you show the screen, please, Phil?
What?
By the way, guys, Chris is sick.
I'm sick as well.
We still made a show.
The ladies came as well.
Shout out to Lady Devil.
We do drink tea.
Yeah, we got some tea on the way.
Yeah.
I have a vertical, vertical.
What's this one?
Oh, cool.
But you know, it just stopped because, like, that guy in the video, bro, it's like, that's a lot.
Guys, know it is, bro.
It's different.
Sexy marriage.
Tired.
You see, like, what, like, you know, like, most guys don't know how to get out of that lifestyle because like all they know is like poverty, you know, like the lower cap, the lower class.
Like, I grew up in the hood.
You know, like, lots of people think like that.
And they think it's average.
So, but once I went out of that lifestyle, then I started to pay around myself while people actually make money successful and stuff like that.
I've gotten better in my lifestyle too.
So, you know, sometimes guys like him see things as average.
It's cool, but before you know it, you end up in Brickle, social media.
It's one of those things where it's like, damn, that's crazy.
So.
All right, we got here Eastside Dumbbell, like that name.
Rating from the Extra Dark Knight.
Thank you, brother.
Gorlock, negative one.
Loud Grown Arby's Roast Beef Sandwich 3.
God damn.
Damn.
Is it because I'm death?
Definite Adam's Apple Surgery Negative One.
What that post to me, right?
Your man.
Yeah, mom's.
Permanent onions and curry surgery.
Your mom's two.
No, Jay.
You smell like curry?
No, because I'm thinking of it.
You want to sniff me?
I think it's his mama.
They look like a man.
Some people sneak curry fresh.
Or maybe he never had a dad.
It's never that deep.
That should have been on camera.
She smelled out of curry.
I missed you.
I mean, it's off-camera right now.
It's off-camera.
Oh, my.
Show them leg tattoos, fresh.
It smells like...
it smells like...
It smells like curry.
It's not curry, it's...
It smells like roti.
What?
Niggas are just rotating.
By the way, come again.
No, but honestly, guys, like, I'll say this.
It smells good.
But nonetheless, though, man, permanent onions of curry is crazy, bro.
All right, cool.
What's the next one?
Flash chat?
All right.
We'll start here.
Thoughts on the show?
Hit it, love it.
And any questions at all?
Okay, I loved this episode.
Let's go.
I felt like...
Yes, I felt comfortable.
It was...
It was great to give my own opinions and to hear other women's opinions as well.
And your opinions as well.
Fresh and Chris.
So thank you for having me.
I just had an idea.
What if we did a vlog date, Miss India, for Korean rotis?
It's Miss Korean rotis.
See, I like that.
Okay, we might do one of those streams.
I might do a stream for that.
Okay.
Chat, new name.
Cheese on bread.
What about you?
I enjoyed it.
I feel like we all were pretty much as respectful as we could possibly be.
I feel like, you know, it's jokes.
It's all for shits and gigs.
Like, it's not that serious.
Should it be taken that serious?
But I feel like a lot of things that were talked about are like topics that are ongoing.
And I feel like the chat also has their opinions.
So they're funny.
I'm not going to give them that.
They're funny.
Listen, the chat's undefeated.
They roast me.
They roast Chris.
There was everybody.
But you know what it is?
They're funny, though.
They have good ass comebacks.
I'll give them that.
I think, even if I look at it from the standpoint of bad, it's good because, dude, they support us.
Yeah, they're supporting you.
They watch the show and, like, we can't stop, bro.
Them niggas are like family.
We can't stop.
So, like, you know what I'm saying?
But I love you, chat.
Awesome.
What about you?
Yeah, it is.
It's rapture voice.
This real shit.
What's gone?
Not for this.
We'll beat his ass after the show.
Beat his ass.
No, that's how he's set up.
But that's, I feel like I fuck with it.
You feel me?
Like, as long as it's real, as long as y'all not fake kicking it, as long as y'all rage baiting us, y'all just being who y'all is, we as women supposed to adapt to the situation regardless.
You feel me?
And I feel like a lot of times with this type of podcast, women get out their body because they get triggered.
Yeah.
When all time I'm a trigger, so what y'all really, you know what I mean?
I mean, we got some understanding here, so you did a good job.
What about you?
Honestly, I think this is chill.
From the freshman shit that I've seen beforehand, y'all be raging, raging them women.
Oh, shit.
I mean, tell them the facts, tell them they don't like it, and they get in their emotional stuff.
Hey, listen, I went crazy.
Well, he's sick, so you know what I'm saying?
I'm sick too, but either way, we had a good time.
Oh, because y'all sick we didn't cry tonight.
No, no, no, no.
Today's a chill song.
Today we'll take a show.
Next.
With the two guests we got next week, guys, it's going to be insane.
We got some big guests next week.
I mean, Chris knows.
I know.
You want to tell them right now?
Because it's wordless.
Nah.
I can't say it right now.
Oh, don't say it right now.
Fellas.
Just be here Monday, ready to go for Castle Club pre-stream.
You're going to be surprised.
I'm telling you, you're going to be happy as fuck.
It's going to be a W stream, a lot of views.
Viral again.
It's going to be insane.
This year we're taking over.
And last but not least, man, shout out to Icy, Melissa, Bills, and Mo for coming through on Friday.