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Oct. 15, 2025 - Fresh & Fit
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5 Things You Should Know About Women By 30
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Alright, and we're alive, fellas.
Back to the podcast, and today we're gonna cover five things you need to know before thirty about women.
Let's go.
We'll see you next time.
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Alright, and we're back, man.
Welcome fellas to the show.
Uh this is as you know, is a Wednesday.
Uh Mario's not here right now, he's gonna be back pretty soon, but until then, we got the show running still.
And fellas, man, listen, I'm 33 years old.
I feel great.
Been in the gym recently as well.
Uh talk is better as well, so I feel amazing, man.
And when I get older, I feel like nowadays especially, less is more.
You know, like I'm doing certain things I wouldn't do before, for example, being more focused on my health and taking things more seriously.
And honestly, man, like in my 20 to the 30s, it was kinda like uh early 30s, it's kinda like, this is cool, I'm a joint life, but now I'm more concise on what I want out of life and what I want to get out of it, you know.
So I think it's better being older.
You kind of realize that things are more important as you go along.
What's important to you, and you move smarter.
So glad to be 33, still living a good life and uh be here with you guys.
What's up, team?
Um, so I went on a hunt today looking at points for this topic, right?
From my experience from online, and also you know what?
Let me do a comparison for today.
I'm gonna put chat GPT five points and my five points.
And it's funny because Chat GPT is kinda based.
Well, kind of.
Not fully, but kind of.
So let's bring it up on screen feel my bills, these comparisons here between chat GPT and of course my points.
Yeah, they can see it.
So on the left we have here Chat GPT, on the right my points.
Now it's a bit uh wordy for Chat JPT, but I'll put you on what's happening here.
So I typed in five key points that you can find uh before 30 about women.
And I made it for um obviously dating purposes.
And look at the points, fellas.
So we'll go through this real quick.
Uh number one is gonna be women value emotional safety over looks our money.
Which fellas, that is some bull crap, but just for the argument's sake, we'll read out here.
Number two, traction isn't only physical, it's emotional and mental too.
I get what they're trying to say, but you know, that's kind of a nuance.
Number three, women communicating directly.
It's pretty on point.
Um if you watch none of us, womanese episodes, you can understand what's happening there.
I'm not gonna lie, man, that definitely is a thing.
Boundaries attract respect.
Yeah, you gotta be able to say no and show you're a man, of course.
But number five is the one that got me.
Because that's actually actually a really good point, which is one of mine as well.
Women remember how you make them feel, not what you give them.
So uh that in itself is a very good point, but all the rest are kind of like boohoo waba.
But the point is that Chat GBC is giving people pretty much information, but it's not always correct.
And the main contributors of who use chat GBT is women.
So that goes to tell you to tell you what's happening with that type of information.
But nonetheless, that was my comparison for today.
But we'll get into it right now.
Um, so number one, more than likely you won't get a girlfriend.
Uh, sorry, when you have a girlfriend, you won't get ahead in life, which means most people are gonna be held back by girlfriends because either it's the uh nagging annoying that happens whenever they come home, either it's because you're aware about what they're gonna say to you, or you're scared of losing them in the first place.
And there was a video that went viral uh like yesterday about a girl, a girl that had her man in the house, she got upset and went crazy on him.
And then it made me think all the friends I know that had girlfriends back in the day from school, from work, where are they now?
And I kid you, out of 10 of them, maybe only one is successful, but all the rest of them are pretty much with kids, not making much money, uh slaves at their jobs, and they have no type of like real uh self self-worth, you get me.
So, in that sense, it was kind of like seeing my experiences plus what's happening now.
I don't know how many people that are successfully still dating from 10 years ago, the same girlfriend, till now that's successful.
And if they were, they broke up and they moved on to somebody different.
But the point is, in this whole scheme of things, when you have a girlfriend long term like that, if you can't even keep a girlfriend that long, usually it doesn't last.
And what happens is you become a slave to her because either you don't lose her, or you say, you know what?
This chick, man, she's the bad ass I can ever get.
But you're wrong.
If you wait a little bit longer, we get older, you're more successful, you're working on yourself, you make more money.
There's way more options out there that you can find.
Way more options.
And the funny part is most guys don't know this because they're stuck on one girl.
Which, to be fair with you, I was too at one point.
However, I'm telling you, fellas, at the end of the road, it's more options than you can even imagine waiting for you.
But we'll play the uh the video if you don't mind, Bills, the one from um from ex.
Is it too much for YouTube you think?
Yeah, the one from my ex.
You think it's too much?
It might be a bit crazy, guys, because this one's kind of like aggressive, but uh we'll see what's happening here.
Uh yeah, this one here.
So usually what happens is you have a girlfriend, things go up and down.
I mean, you can have good moments, bad moments, but when it's bad, I think we'll be okay.
Okay, we'll play.
I think we'll be able to do that.
Um let the video play for itself and you guys can uh see from here.
But he gives me the one don't rumble.
Do it on a rumble.
Rumble?
Okay, well that one that one rumble.
Um, but nonetheless, a girlfriend itself is not terrible.
But the problem is that when you have a girlfriend, you tend to lean towards making her happy versus yourself, what's important for you and your family.
And as a result, you may shift schools because your girlfriend, you may even shift shift jobs, you may even say, you know what, forget my dreams, who put your dreams in front, which is a big L bro.
That's the red flag.
So, all in all to say, fellas, having a girlfriend could be uh bad for you because that can change your career path and your lifestyle in itself.
And honestly, fellas, like, what's more important?
A girl or your well-being and your your your success.
Because to me, success success was number one.
I mean, I chances to have girlfriends back in the day, you know, we're kind of chick-filade too, but it wasn't ever gonna be where we want it to be.
So, all in all, I would just say that the girlfriend angle is cool, but it could hold you back, especially if you're young.
You're trying to make it.
I remember um dating back then, I was so focused on like being present for the girl, and I almost lost sight of white kids in America, which is to be successful, and that helped me back a lot.
So I know for most guys it's not gonna be the same, but it could be.
Alright, um, let's do number two.
So, women will always be there growing out.
So, recently we've been seeing a lot of news about recession.
Uh, most Americans don't know this, but we're currently in one right now.
And they did a study to people's pockets for how much they have statement savings.
And it used to be a thousand dollars they didn't have.
Now it's less than 400 you have in your account for savings.
So that tells people, I want obviously people in charge that people don't have money nowadays.
And it's because we're actually in a recession.
If you guys realize uh the dollar doesn't worth shit, gold and silver is up, and so it's Bitcoin.
Obviously speaking, the fiat currency itself is dead, but they're holding up because they're picking more money as we go along.
The issue though is that like most people nowadays can't survive without credit, which means you have to have a credit card or a loan from the bank to pay your bills nowadays, which is sad because that's a reality that we have nowadays for most people.
But when it comes to having actual women in your life, I'm telling you, fellas, like if you focus now on getting your shit in order, and we say this all the time on the show because it's it's true because most guys that we know either they party every weekend, they get drunk, they have no type of like plan for the lives, and then they wonder, why don't I have Lambo?
Why don't I have the girl girl I want?
Why don't I have the life I want is because you focused on the wrong things.
And mind you, I have friends from back in school.
We would party all the time, he would get lit, and it was fun, don't be wrong, it was fun.
Boom book!
And I left the environment for a couple days.
I was like, yo, what am I doing this for?
We go party out of fun, we hit girls up, whatever, but what's the end result?
Nothing.
I mean, we spend money, if anything, uh, we're getting lit, but there's no actual real like benefit to getting better in life.
It's kind of like a circle of like jerking because you're having fun jerking off in circle, but there's no real exit to success.
So this is why I'm always like, you know what?
Parties are cool, having fun is cool, but what's the end result?
And you can ask yourself the same question because I guarantee you've been there too as well.
But end result is is that putting that aside, looking at what's important to you, your family, success.
Because other than that, how you can pay the bills, how you can have success for your friends and family.
And women will always be there, bro.
I got you know what?
Story time, real quick, story time.
I got you.
So uh show three years ago that came on.
I can say her name, but that's kind of fucked up.
I probably won't say her name.
But she was on the show talking about how she left her boyfriend, she's happy as hell, she's happy to be single, and she was married by the way.
If anyone knows in the chat who she is, she's married, she got bored, left her husband with a kid, by the way, and was living her life in Miami, having fun, whatever, and lo and behold, man, uh this is crazy, bro.
I go to the strip club with some friends of mine, right?
Company, event, quink wink, and who do I see at the strip club?
It's the same girl from the podcast.
What?
Wow.
I was like, wait a minute.
I know you, you look familiar.
What?
But full circle, husband took care of her, paid all the bills.
She was comfortably living at home with the kids, not working, and then all of a sudden she's like, This is boring.
I don't want to be here anymore.
I want to be free.
And then all of a sudden, three years later, fast forward, she's working strip club for some dollars.
Oh god.
Yeah, man.
So listen, women will always be there, bro.
And the funny part is at the very beginning, you may get mad and say, fuck this shit, bro.
I want it now.
And I get it.
Big ass, nice titties, bro.
I've been there.
I think I've been indulging too much, maybe.
But the point is, at some point, you know, you gotta say, fun now or fun later.
Because the fun now isn't gonna last, fellas.
I tell you this right now, it won't last.
You feel me?
Listen, I had a ball, niggas.
Y'all saw me with Miranda, Lingling, saw me with Jessica Alba.
All these shorties, bro, what's with you?
I had the album.
You watch but stupid.
But the point is, I had a blast.
I had a hit list, feel me?
I had a list, allegedly.
Everything on the list, everything allegedly, and more.
But what was the end result?
Okay, and mind you, I had a point where like I could do this shit comfortably and chill.
If you're not you're not successful to that point, you're trying to do the shit, it won't work out for you, brother.
I'm telling you.
So talk to the side, fellas.
That led me to down a path to say, you know what?
If I can give myself advice from the um future to the past, it'd be to say, you know what?
Less time on the hose, bro.
Like, like it was it was cool, but what was the end result?
Not much.
My soul wasn't enriched.
My maybe my pockets were kind of like, you know, a bit rich because it was a finesse.
But the point is that like I felt like it was fun in the moment, but long term, success-wise, it wasn't.
And all my friends are successful, say the same say the same shit.
Okay, it was fun, it was cool, whatever.
But all in all, was it really worth it?
Maybe for fun, but not for real long term, you know, longevity.
So we got video to play as well regarding that one.
Women will always be there.
Uh is it safe for YouTube?
Which one?
Safe.
Well, it's it's uh it depends on your version of site.
Let's do uh one second.
Uh yeah.
We can do that one.
Yeah.
Yeah, all right, all right so let's say your girl left you.
And I don't know what's gonna be worse.
The realization I'm single now, and again I don't even do shit.
Is it playing?
Alright, let's play the video.
Go ahead.
Tell you, on Sunday night, and I don't know what's gonna be worse.
The realization that's I'm single now, and again, and I have to go and sit there and obviously pick myself back up over the next couple weeks, months, etc.
Work on myself, uh, do that whole routine again.
Or the realization that I gotta try to date again.
And with today's dating scene and market.
That just makes you want to sit there and say anyone else?
Yeah, so this is typical because when is the breakup or you're single, you're like, you know what?
Fuck this shit.
Why even try?
And to be honest with you, you should probably shouldn't try because you should focus on success and get forward in life.
And this is why I say, okay, look, at the very beginning, it's hard because you want to smash everything.
You want to go inside, have fun, get lit, smash.
But let's look at it from a long-term uh point of view, right?
40 years, 30 years, maybe, right?
You're 21, you're maybe in school still, or you're working a job, and every here's a routine.
You go to work, you go, you go to school, come up, drink a beer, watch TV, tell your friends, party on weekends, right?
Typical American uh lifestyle.
And it's fine, by the way, but here's the issue.
Fast forward to 10 years down the line.
Let's say you find a girlfriend.
Are you where you want to be?
Probably not.
And let's say you don't find a girlfriend, single having fun, banging around random chicks.
That's fun too, but what's the actual end result?
Versus someone that said, you know what?
I'm gonna wait a little bit, sacrifice this have this discipline in my life.
I'm gonna focus on being better in the gym, probably, or business, or my career, or my path of success, whatever that may be.
And then fast forward, I got the baddest chick I ever wanted to have.
I have cars I want, lifestyle I want, and I have as well money success.
So I have options to do what I want to do.
Versus when you're not where you want to be, you gotta sell it for less, which means what's available to you at that time, and that's your best bet.
But again, this is where I say you can have fun now, but you're gonna pay later on.
Trust me.
I've been there myself, and it's fun, but not worth having because any day, fellas, let's see, listen, like 80 years old.
You gotta live long, think about what's happening in real time because right now, fellas, things are really bad in the economy.
Really bad.
I could tell you, like, firsthand experience, I got friends that are working at pet shop on master's degree.
It's just terrible.
So look at it for standpoint if women is a byproduct of your success, because at this point, putting her first before your success is a bad idea.
Alright, number three.
This one's uh pretty dark, but it's truthful.
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Alright, guys, number three.
Now uh I'll say the tell it the title itself is not bad, but the details will be bad, so I'll put it on a rumble.
But it says basically, guys, every woman is transactional pretty much nowadays, and that goes a long way because being in Miami, made a city, you see it all the time.
Now, the problem is if you're in a small city, you won't see it because for the most part, it's either on Instagram, dating apps, even sugar sites.
That's where it's happening.
But what's funny is girls from over in different states will come over here to live that lifestyle.
Or to differ different state, whatever it may be, it's still happening in your city, whether you're in order or not.
Now, hopefully, you're not actually wife and when he goes up because if your wife wants to go up, then you're in trouble.
No, nonetheless, though, uh, this is where I say every girl has a price, whether it's price of admission, which is monetary, or price of security, with the right guy.
Because if you can pay the bills and be a provider, she might choose him.
So we'll get into Rumble itself and get more detail because it's kind of you know, not safe for YouTube.
So guys, come on over to Rumble Man.
Uh link should be down in the chat as well.
On Rumble, let's go.
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Cool.
You can read this chat while I'm going to be able to do that.
Alright, we'll do this chat real quick.
Uh, we got Kai the Great says, What's good, FNF?
I'm 22, you're barber out in Canada, working every day to build, coming from homelessness to room meeting in an apartment, no car.
What do you guys recommend me to do next?
So you were uh 22, you're a barber, you're homeless to a room with an apartment, no car.
So if you're a barber, right bro, uh, your time is money.
Because each person you cut is gonna add to your wealth, um, one by one.
But you want to maximize that as much as possible.
So, what you could do is on your weekdays, whenever you work your actual barbershop job, if you do work in a barbershop, you're gonna have to go ahead and obviously plug that out.
But you need to mark yourself online as well.
So my barber way does this he'll cut people's hair, and then if they have a good job about it, they'll say, you know what?
Uh you might me tag you in a post on Instagram.
He'll do that constantly each and every single time.
Now, mind you, other than that, he does house calls.
So his current job, he's locked in his company with the barbicting, but on the side, he does house calls.
So let's say for example, someone's busy can't come into the shop today.
I'm I'll cut you out after work at like 7 p.m.
So from eight to like I think five you works his regular job at the barbershop, and then from there from like seven to like maybe like 10 p.m.
He's on house calls, which means he's working his job at one point, and then as well, side gigs after work, plus promoting it on social media, Instagram, TikTok, and all the like because he's getting more traffic that way as well.
So you can do that as well, bro.
And again, you can give celebrities free cuts.
However, however, this can be tricky because I got friends that did this in the past and they got shafted.
So you need to be promised a post and either a video to say, hey, haircut by so and so, because if you do it for free and they just walk off, you're you're cooked, bro.
So keep that in mind.
Alright.
Um, any more?
Cool.
Let's watch it number one where I mentioned before um a girlfriend may hold you back.
Let's play the video from uh X because this is very important.
Video from X. Yeah.
The first one that was kind of knocked tip for YouTube.
We're good, right?
Alright, let's play it.
It's right.
There we go.
Come on, stop look at her, bro.
Get her.
Look at hey, See?
See?
See?
Stop.
Stop.
Nigga, everybody in here.
You're the problem, bro.
Grab her, Naya.
Grab her now.
Yes, go in the room.
Go in the living room, bro.
I gave you 350.
Get your fight.
Go home.
This is wild, bro.
This is bad.
Bro.
You did you hit me.
See?
Sorry, bitch.
I promise you, right, bro.
If this is ever you in the scenario, fellas, get up and leave.
Don't just sit there and look, listen, obviously record, of course, with your safety, but like, get up and walk away, bro.
Run out of the house, leave because this.
Bro, this is like you wanting to happen.
You know what she's gonna hit you continually.
Just leave, bro.
But let's continue, man.
Cause this is kind of what happens when you stay around to figure out find out what happens in real time.
That fucking drug bitch.
See, look at it.
Dirty bitch.
Look at her.
Dirty bitch.
You're a dirty bitch.
There you go.
You're a dirty me.
Yeah, there I go.
I had pressed charges.
She's over another person.
That's not her.
I got her.
It's fucking bitch.
And usually these fights happen because of money.
Whether it's you can't pay for something that she wants or maybe a trip she wants to go on and you can't go on, or because you're at work and you're busy.
And the funny part is that like, let's say you do take time for her and you give her what she wants.
Eventually, if that's always the case, she'll probably leave as well and get bored.
So this is where I say, like, man, like honestly, fellas, like, this behavior is terrible.
I mean, the full video is fucking disgusting.
But this is where you gotta say, listen, girlfriend like this could hold me back.
And the funny part is it may start off good.
Happy, rosy, everything's perfect.
But usually like around like the sixth month or after the year, things get started get like a little bit dry.
And after that, if it's our very genuine, you know, people's true colors start start start to come out.
Which means in real time, you become a subject of her actual hate and animosity.
And of course, if you have if you're broke as well, then add it to that, she's in charge.
You're definitely cooked.
So I mean we can finish it off real quick and then we'll move on.
That's fine.
But I don't like though, fellas.
She got some bad nice ass tips, bro.
Come on, bro.
No, nigga's fire.
Bro, you see the tits, nigga?
She's fire, bro.
What you mean?
I ain't gonna lie, I don't I don't I don't blink.
That's just fire, bro.
Look at that shit, nigga.
She looks like it.
You want smash?
I wouldn't smash?
Hell yeah.
I ain't gonna lie, hell yeah.
Nigga, I'm in this.
Jacob, you won't smash Jacobs and that's fucked up.
That's my type of hair too, bro.
Nigga, she drop kicking me, bro.
That was smash, bro.
She can she can sharuk in me, nigga.
I'll destroy it.
Oh yeah, Jake, Jacob, Jacob, he heacob, he a slime ball, bro.
He'll have a slime ball is crazy.
Alright, let's play it.
Jacob, do some things.
Girl.
we're taking that home We gotta leave that bitch.
Man, this nigga got money too.
You can tell about it.
Look at the crib, bro.
Yo, hold on, look at the screen, bro.
Look at the crib.
Bro, look at the crib.
Sky's gonna sky on the screen.
This guy in the sky.
RK games.
Big ass kitchen.
What's going on here, bro?
And you got a disastrous bitch.
Bro, what?
Why is she fighting him on me?
Yeah, man, it's Halloween.
And it's Halloween, bro.
Mind you, that's a bottle of alcohol.
She poured out the alcohol.
Put a bottle on him.
That is diabolical.
That's insane, bro.
She wasted the alcohol, bro.
Throw it alcohol.
Let's all bottle at him directly.
That's where Chris will draw the line at that.
Chris will break up, right?
He's out.
He's on.
W Chris, by the way.
Yeah.
Uh let's play some more.
What are you doing, bro?
What do you think I'm doing?
Like, stop.
Stop.
Look at that, bro.
Stop.
Stop.
What do you think I'm doing?
Stop the helly, bro.
What do you think I'm doing?
Stop.
What do you think?
Stop.
What do you think?
It's not right, right?
October 14th.
Oh, bro, get out of it.
October 14th.
Nigga, that was yesterday.
Yeah, yesterday, bro.
Oh, your birthday, bro.
Bump on the back of my head.
But this is why I say, bro, like, okay.
God, she's a baddie in your in your eyes.
She's probably the best best you ever had ever had in your life.
But is that worth having a baddie?
I don't think so, bro.
Like at that point, it's cooked.
But mind you, there were signs at the very beginning.
There were signs there.
It's pretty evident of what's happening there.
And you stayed.
Because Kakucci, nice titties, who knows.
But I guarantee you, if he left her, or never had her at the very beginning, anyway, he bet he better he'd be better on life because at least he'd be free to focus on what's important to him and have more flexibility to do what he wants.
But this, your whole support's helpable.
How do you how do you focus?
How do you concentrate?
You can't.
That's what I'm saying, bro.
Like, it's bad.
Um, but you know, guys watching, man.
That's every you, bro.
Leave, bro.
Leave A side because staying there won't help at all.
And honestly, bro, she's crazy.
Fucking crazy, bro.
So, yeah, fellas.
Girlfriends can hold you back for sure.
And this one for sure will hurt you and all you back.
So there you go.
All right, uh, number three.
Uh, we mentioned this before.
Basically, it's uh every woman is transactional pretty much nowadays.
So uh we spoke about different states, different different cities, of course, how people uh can move back and forth, so no one's really safe.
But here's the bad part, right?
Is that let's say uh you are in I don't know.
Let's say you're in like Ohio, right?
And then let's say you're let's say I'm in Miami.
You're your girl's in Ohio, you guys are dating whatever.
Her friend says to her, hey, I'm on this website where this guy's paying me like 10k a month.
She's like, what?
How's he paying 10k a month?
It's because um, you know, it's a sugar cycle, like I don't give any sugar.
Funny.
True story, by the way.
So what happens is she's a boyfriend in Ohio that she's with.
Her girl's like, yo, let's go to Miami for a girl's trip.
Um, he's paid for everything.
She's also a boyfriend.
Listen, uh, I don't I want to go on a girl's trip to Miami.
Do you mind if I go?
It's me, Sally, and May.
And uh, he's like, sure, babe.
You go to Miami, have a have a blast.
Which is over by then, but at that point, it's it's it's fine.
She goes to Miami with her friends, she pulls up to this guy's penthouse, they get some drinks, they go for dinner, they go to club, and before you know it, she meets one of his friends, and it's over.
And people say, Oh, but fresh, bro, this is what happened to me in my state.
Well, how dare you too far off because bro, at this point, you never know how things happen.
That's just one example.
But the point is, women nowadays are moving off of transactions.
If you don't believe me, watch this video here coming up.
It should be a woman with Nick Cannon, and that lady.
Uh Nick Cannon.
Yeah.
Here we go.
Not that one.
Should be a TikTok video.
Thank you.
Not that one.
I don't think nothing would have it's in the chat, Bills.
Sure.
Yeah.
You don't see it?
No.
Isn't it takeover or uh should be the third TikTok link there in take over?
It's there, bro.
That's it.
Third TikTok.
There we go.
All right, finally found it, Bills.
Took a little bit, bro.
All right, let's people don't want love.
I think the reason why people don't want love is because most women want their bills paid.
They don't want love.
Oh they got four or five people.
They got four or five.
It's kinda it's kinda high.
Where's the cannon fresh?
Where's Nick Cannon?
He's coming very soon.
More than four or five bills.
And I think as long as we're in this transactional era of time, it's never gonna be able to get back to love.
We gotta focus on the core value of what actually matters inside of a relationship.
And we've strayed too far.
Honestly, don't get mad at me.
I know there's a lot of ladies in here.
It's the truth, you know.
Honestly, we live in a prostitution era.
Wow.
She can't tell you for real.
So she came on Nick Anna's show and told people the truth.
Obviously, we've been saying this for years, but obviously she's a woman saying, so it's it's amazing because she's a woman saying it.
Wow.
But here's the actual redlining here.
Because any day, we've been in Miami for how long?
Five years plus doing doing the show.
And they say all the time, oh bro, you're Miami Jade because you're in Miami.
But we've been to New York, been to Vegas, California, um, Washington, DC.
We've been everywhere.
And the same thing still stands.
Even in Columbia.
We were there uh a couple years ago with uh Casey, and the women there are even more Americanized than even before.
So here's the issue, right?
Um pills need to be paid.
Economy's really bad, fellas.
Like really bad.
We're actually in a current session right now.
People don't want to say because it's bad to say this, but like it's true.
And what's happening is women have got to pay to pay their bills, whether it's by you know, conventional means or unconventional means.
And more than often than not, if they've been offered money by guys, why wouldn't they take it?
So let's say you're offered ten times 10k.
How does 10 times you won't say it once?
So say yes one time.
And because again, this is where you have to put morals, people's wants in check.
Because a woman that needs things done, she'll take it because again, why not?
If I'm hot, attractive, and I look good, I'll not take it.
Like it could either be a rich boyfriend, of course, or a resent, but either way it doesn't matter.
They're getting offers every single day.
Whether it's Instagram DMs in person, doesn't matter how hard they get in these offers to get in the offers.
So in essence, when you women are transactional, whatever you give to them in that moment, is gone because that's their whole paradigm.
It's transactional.
You're just another another number.
And guarantee you is if it's just like you, it's maybe four of the other guys doing the same thing.
So the point is that like giving a woman up front something for you know tr transactional love, does a benefit in the long run because that just means you're just another number to her, and any guy can do the same thing.
Which is why you gotta say you gotta have some game because without gain, fellas, even with money, you're still stuck because you're still another number.
You're not important.
And then let's say for example, you're digging a chick uh seriously, right?
You're dating a girl for a long period of time, and she's like, you know what?
I'll be with you, blah blah blah.
And it's transactional.
If you stop whatever reason, she's gone.
So to me, it's not worth it because at that point, what's the point of even doing it?
Because she didn't leave it at some point anyway.
So transactional women, fellas, nowadays are red flag because that right there is a is an L because no matter what you do, you start paying her, you don't know what she wants, she goes somewhere else in a heartbeat.
And that just means you're another number to her at that point.
So nonetheless, fellas, that's the L in itself, and that's the number four as well.
Uh number four is gonna be, let's see here.
One sec.
Uh so if your girl breaks up with you, success is is your best revenge.
So your girl breaking up with you is not world, fellas, right?
It just means that right now, what you're going through means she's actually saying, okay, you're not worth my time anymore.
I'm gone.
Could either be you're out of shape, not enough money, or maybe you just lost your frame.
And that happens all the time, fellas.
You might get comfortable, be with a chick and you lost your frame.
However, it's not over.
Let her go because she wants to go s to somebody else at that point.
Because mentally for a woman, if she breaks up with you before uh you're ready, it means because she found somebody else for the most part.
So let her leave.
And I guarantee, fellas, there's been fellas that peop people I know in real life that they said, you know what?
She broke up with me.
I'm gonna give up on life and just do what I do what I gotta do, which means commit suicide.
Which is terrible by the way, but that's an L because that means that she won.
You know what's the best thing to do, fellas, if you get broken a win to actually beat her in this this same game, get success.
That's gonna make her feel like shit, because when you win in life, fellas, they want to win too with you as well.
Now, mind you, once she leaves you, she's on to somebody else, which is fine, but focus on yourself, hit the gym, make some money, become better, and watch as time passes, how you become more confident in yourself, become more sure of yourself.
And I it's funny, but nowadays it's social media.
It's Instagram, TikTok, it's also um as well, um, Snapchat.
Miami means that that that she can see you in real life after the facts.
And I know people here in Miami especially that were down and out at the very beginning.
They worked on themselves, got into business, did pretty well.
And I know the girlfriends from the past.
They were out on the boat with them all the time, they broke up, now they're onto somebody else.
But they turned up.
They got lit again, started making money, and we're out together, you know, as boys just having fun.
LC their girlfriends staring them up down in the corner like, damn, I messed up.
We're laughing like, yeah, she fucked up because she's with a bum versus with a winner now.
So all in all, fellas, revenge is easy for success is your best option.
And uh this video we can play too as well with Andrew Tate coming up.
This one right here, that's two.
Hurrah!
This one here.
Here we go.
No, it was a mutual Why do you think she left you?
It was people outgrow each other, bro.
That's what girls say when they're fucking someone else.
People outgrow each other.
It's not you, it's me.
Who does she fuck?
No yet?
Did you even find out?
No, I don't think she is fucking here.
Oh, yeah, she left you to be by herself.
She left you to sit at home alone and watch TV.
100% that's why she left you, G. You just really wanted to sit at home by herself, not to run around with some other dude.
You're totally right.
She's a good person, she's different than all the rest.
Completely agree.
Yeah, so uh that that's a funny funny uh video with obviously Aiden Ross, but the fact is, fellas, once she leaves you, fellas, it's on to somebody else.
Either it's a friend, close to her or friend, um, a guy in her DMs, or just guy she knows from maybe the gym, maybe from work, you don't know who it is.
But the point is, your success is gonna make them feel like shit.
I guarantee you.
Whether it's this here or not, doesn't matter.
You're still running in life, and end of the day, it's your success.
But if you try to text her back, like, hey, let's chill, we need to talk.
You're losing because now it's in her frame.
The moment you cowers with her demands of her um approval, she's gonna win.
So if you want to win in life, man, move forward, forget about her for a little bit.
Obviously, use that anger, use that actual momentum to yourself to become better.
But going back to her, it's gonna be L, so just leave it alone.
Alright.
And last but not least, number five.
So this is the one that um ChatGPT got right as well.
Which I'm not gonna lie, man.
Chat GBT is a finesse, bro.
Imagine, right?
You're doing content online, you go to Chat GPT, type in what you want to say, and then it brings it up for you.
That's crazy, bro.
It's it's the cheat code for content, by the way.
Alright, number five.
So uh women remember how you make them feel, not what you give them.
So for the most part, I've been dating for what?
Shit.
In America, like 10 years now.
And out of all girls that I've been dating, um, what they mainly say is I feel good around you, right?
Um broke, I didn't have shit.
So all I have was how I made them feel with going out, having a good time, you know, the vibe, so to speak.
And that was basically me, just me, me being being myself, funny, whatever, a little bit goofy, but having for him to say, you know what, I'm gonna plan a date.
I'm gonna set it up where like I know what's fun for me, I know what I like, she's a plus one.
So I'm in the frame now of control.
Where before it was kind of like, oh, I don't know where I want to go, what should I eat?
That right there shows uh non-leadership skills, and of course, no real frame.
However, uh there are guys I know that pay pretty much every single time.
And they have think of a girl's like bracelets, of course, um, chains, cars, watch everything.
And what happens is they break up.
Where does she go?
Somebody else.
You might have got her a gift, but like she was with somebody else.
Versus experiences they don't forget, which is why a guy that has like a girlfriend where he left her, he can go back anytime.
Because the experience that she left the guy with was good because she didn't end it, he ended it on his terms, which means she did she was happy or satisfied to leave at that point, so it's still his frame for that interaction.
So she might find a boyfriend, husband, but if he texts and says, hey, pull up on me or where you at, she might actually go because that experience you have with the guy is one of our best experiences possible.
That's what they say, also like Alpha Widow because is because the Alpha is still there, even though she's not there as well.
So in essence, fellas, um, what I'm saying here is that women remember what you how to meet in the field versus what you give them.
Um should be another video there as well.
Can I showcase this as well?
Last one.
Huh?
Should be.
Um you tell me you get me another one.
Yeah.
Yeah, cool.
Here we go.
Revenge on you.
You is instant.
Her revenge on you is going out to party and you're sitting at home alone.
Her revenge is instant.
Your revenge takes a little bit longer.
But it is a better revenge overall.
Like all good things in life, good things come to those who wait.
Good things don't come instantly.
Your revenge is gonna be using that sadness, using that sorrow to become such an amazing man that she realizes she fed up.
And so if you get to take that sadness and sorrow and truly become the man that you know you can become, your victory comes.
It's maybe a little bit delayed, but it's certainly not least coming, and you should be excited by that.
There'll be a day where she regrets the decision she made.
There'll be a day where she understands that she fed up and her life would be better if she kept me.
And I'm gonna prove it to her.
That's what you have to do.
You have to go do it.
You have to go and force her to feel regret by the magnitude of your actions.
If you sit around your ass being mopey, she ain't gonna feel regret.
If you text her, you're gonna regret losing me, she ain't gonna feel regret.
You have to get up and attack the universe through the force of your monumental achievements.
The universe is gonna create a massive sadness ball.
A nice big ball of regret and dump it on her fing head.
You can do that.
Her revenge on you is instant.
Yeah, so her revenge on you is going out to power and sit at home alone.
Her you can stop, yeah.
So you broke it down basically in a says where for example, let's say you have a girlfriend, right?
And she does like uh really bad things to you, she may break it with you, whatever.
She's saying to you, just doesn't like no respect.
Versus when you actually say, you know what, I'm gonna focus on myself, become better, and she can feel it.
You know what?
He's being a man that he needs to be.
Which way I say all the time, how they feel is important because that's all that matters.
You could do her give her the moon and the sun all day every single day, but it's what she feels.
Now, in essence, that means that every day could be a different feeling.
So she might get a period, she might say, you know what, today I feel like cranky.
Ooh, but of course, more love that.
But um, this is why you say, fellas.
You have to be first.
Put yourself first, be successful, and then by the byproduct, whatever you do as a secondary action, should involve her.
What I mean by that.
I mean, let's say you're uh working on becoming an electrician, right?
You're going to school, getting your actual um certs.
You get that, right?
But to level up, you need to do extra classes.
She says to you, oh, let's stay home and watch a movie.
Let's go get ice cream.
You're like, you know what?
Fuck it.
I'll go with her because it's my girlfriend, and I feel like I need to make I need to make her happy.
That'll make her happy for the moment, but long term, let's say you need to get a raise for your job or upgrade, you put her first in that scenario.
So now you didn't go to classes.
You didn't get your extra like credits, whatever.
And now you're stuck there at that point at a level of um, you know, your job.
Which means you can't plateau because you didn't do what you have to do at the very beginning to get to get to where you want to go.
And she's gonna be like, Yeah, like I want to go travel, I want to do things certain things because you know, why not?
But because your job, you're limited to what you can do.
So, in essence, you put yourself first.
You worked on your certs, you upgraded your lifestyle, for example, for from your job um point of view, you and you and then you did better.
She's like, you know what?
Damn, he's working on himself as a man, gotta respect that.
And once you're making money, you can take her out and travel, whatever.
The point is that like once you work once you work on yourself, you become better.
So, in essence, fellas, if you want to focus on her first, she's it's kind of like you're gonna put her first, but she'll put you last.
That's the end of it, pretty much, because that just means that she's first and you're last.
So there you go.
Alright, what's the um is that is that next one or that's good.
That's good, right?
Cool.
And then the chats?
No, we don't have one.
All right, we got DC Balasser says if she's willing to ruin your house, they'll put your dick in her mouth.
Hey, that's kind of bars, though.
That's bird dashly.
Good shit, bro.
That's funny as hell, bro.
Holy shit.
Okay.
Good to go.
Alright, we're gonna do a stream, fellas, with uh PJ tonight for after hours.
Um like 10 or so.
If he's back, we'll do it with him as well.
But if not, we'll do PJ with some girls coming up so you guys at like 10:30, 11.
Um, so you guys then, peace.
I ran.
I ran so far away.
I just done.
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