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	All right.
	And fellas, we're live on a podcast for Shin Fit.
	Let's go.
	We got four lovely ladies, Prince, and Dom.
	Let's get it.
	Let's get it.
	Let's get it.
	But we're here today doing a show without Myron for now, so it's okay.
	Um, but without further ado, welcome to the show for people, especially Dom and uh Prince Ladies.
	We'll start with you.
	Uh, name, age, we do for living.
	Thanks, honest.
	So name is we do living.
	Okay, well, I'm gonna tell you where I'm from first.
	So I'm from Dallas, Texas.
	I live in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, and I'm a realtor in Fort Lauderdale.
	And body count.
	Well hold on.
	That's that's the last one.
	So you asked me what I did for a living.
	You guys have a name.
	What's your age?
	31.
	Okay, cool.
	Um and then dating status.
	I'm single, he's single, but we're together.
	So complicated.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Okay, highest education level?
	Uh bachelor's degree.
	Okay.
	And um parents together or no?
	No, divorce.
	All right.
	Birth control?
	Uh absolutely not.
	All right, and then body count.
	Um I'm more worried about my bank count and not my body count, baby.
	Okay, well like I guess rough estimate you would say.
	Um, I'm more worried about my bank account, not my body count.
	I just said what I said.
	There we go.
	There we go.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	We'll move on.
	What what about you?
	Hi, I'm Jamie.
	I'm 31.
	I am a law student, I'm an entrepreneur, and I'm originally from Miami.
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	And my body count, um I play the fifth.
	Please the fifth?
	Like a good lawyer.
	So you're currently in school right now.
	Um your parents together or no?
	Yes.
	Uh birth control?
	Yes.
	Okay, cool.
	All right.
	And we'll come back to you, Prince.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Ariel.
	I am 28.
	I am single.
	I am not on birth control.
	Okay.
	I am on OnlyFans, and that's what I do.
	And is that your main income source?
	It is.
	Cool.
	All right.
	It is.
	And body count?
	I I haven't been laid in months.
	I Wow.
	Yo, why are you lying, man?
	I swear.
	I'm how dare you?
	I wish I could get laid.
	Why can't you get laid?
	I I'm picky.
	Okay.
	Uh you're picky.
	I'm white.
	Okay.
	Um, let's troll.
	Are my parents together?
	No.
	Okay.
	Um, you said you're single?
	I am.
	Why okay, okay.
	Your last literature.
	Why did it end?
	She cheated on me.
	Oh, a girl?
	Oh shit.
	So you you don't like guys?
	No, I date both.
	Interesting.
	Okay, good to know.
	She belongs to the screen.
	All right, great.
	Moving on smartly.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Taylor.
	I'm 34.
	I'm a speech language pathologist, and I have my own private practice.
	Amazing.
	Christy's dad.
	Christney's that.
	Christy's that.
	Please help him.
	He's uh 37 years old.
	Yeah.
	I I love to help anybody who I could be of help to.
	So we can talk about that later.
	Good stuff.
	Um you said uh what you do for work, and then how you said level of education?
	I have a master's degree.
	Okay, cool.
	Uh dating status?
	I'm single.
	Parents together or no?
	They're divorced.
	Alright, birth control.
	That is my own business.
	Understandable.
	Uh body count.
	I don't kiss and tell.
	All right, let's say about 10.
	Just kidding.
	Um, okay, cool.
	And then Dom.
	Oh, what um relationship status and all that?
	Same thing.
	Body count.
	Oh, body count.
	Hold on.
	We know who you are, but they may not know who you are, so just tell him real quick.
	Um I'm a journalist, also content creator, White House journalists.
	Get invited to White House, do a lot of politics, help Donald Trump win the election, whatnot.
	One of the biggest creators on X for news, by the way.
	And then uh what what what's your background?
	My background?
	Yeah.
	Like Hispanic, white.
	Oh, ambiguous.
	Look, like in the middle.
	Everything's dude.
	Um I'm Jewish, and that's my cultural identity.
	You're Jewish.
	I'm a mix of uh all sorts of I'm a pizza bagel, actually.
	I found out my grandpa did a DNA test, and I'm really proud to be a pizza bagel.
	He's it's Italian heritage.
	There you go.
	Interesting.
	Chat's gonna love that one.
	All right, uh what's your background?
	Um half Puerto Rican, half Italian.
	You have kids?
	I do not.
	Interesting.
	Puerto Rican, no kids?
	Go figure.
	And then you?
	Latina.
	Latina?
	Yes, Colombian.
	Columbia?
	And then just Caucasian.
	Just white.
	Caucasian.
	Awesome.
	And it prints, take it away.
	Uh Prince, 36.
	Um, I do have my bachelor's.
	Um as far as work, I do a lot of things.
	Basically like entrepreneur content creation, reality TV.
	I'm a partner, some of the clubs in my life.
	I'm boxing now.
	So that's a new endeavor.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, body count.
	It's just up there.
	I guess.
	Single name in Miami is up there.
	Pretty high.
	Um but either way, welcome to the show, uh, people.
	Thank you for waiting.
	So, real quick, uh, we'll start with the girls first, right?
	So, dating, of course, is nowadays a bit crazy.
	It's kind of like uh Russia.
	Chaos.
	But do you guys approach you, and if they do approach you, how do they approach you normally?
	What do you mean how they approach you?
	Like in person, online, um I mean both, all everything, every like every which way they do, you know what I mean?
	It's just how they do it has to be the right way to do it, I guess, at the right time.
	You know what I mean?
	So, how how would you respond to somebody doing it the right way?
	Would you give them your phone number?
	Would you give them your Instagram?
	Typically, it depends on the situation.
	Depends on if I'm drinking, depends on if I'm sober, depends on how you catch me.
	You can catch me at Publix, you can catch me at Dunkin' Donuts, you can catch me on the street, or you catch me at the club, you know what I mean?
	Depends on how I feel.
	So if I'm a guy walking up to you, how should I okay?
	When is she the best thing to approach you?
	Publix?
	Club.
	Listen, my ex approached me at public, so you know what I mean.
	It doesn't matter, it just it's just the vibe you get with that person when they approach you.
	Does that make sense?
	Okay.
	That's it.
	What about you?
	In person.
	I love in person.
	You know, I've done online and I still think it's better on person all the time.
	So when they approach you, is it like um how do you pick to choose who you give your phone number too or Instagram too?
	I do.
	I I'm I I'm an open book, so until I see something that I feel that perhaps it's gonna be a doubt, or you know, I I'm pretty good at discerning in a sort of thing.
	So you know when you know.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Intuition.
	What about you?
	I prefer in person, but a lot of my life is online, unfortunately.
	So it just depends.
	So you say you do only fans for c for uh your your job, right?
	Yeah.
	Are you mailing like home?
	I'm sorry.
	Are you mainly home?
	Yes.
	So how would you meet people if you don't really go out?
	That's the thing.
	I don't really go out anymore because I'm so focused on work and my work keeps me home.
	Okay, okay.
	Well, that does sound nothing.
	Okay, gotcha.
	What about you?
	Um, I think that uh the online dating options provide up additional opportunities to meet people, and I'm very selective, so I need all the opportunities right now.
	I'm interested in guys that are from New York, from different parts of the world potentially, because there's not enough in Miami.
	There's not what I'm looking for here.
	That's actually a very good point.
	So would you say that dating in Miami is kind of like not not non-existent?
	It's the worst.
	I was living in Manhattan for eight years before I moved here.
	And people say that dating in Manhattan is bad, but I found it to not I found it to be good.
	There was a lot of good options.
	Just I think Guys with money, you would say, real money.
	Yeah, but but guys who are well educated who have who went to the best colleges, when I'm on a dating app down here, there's so much to filter through.
	So many people who they just went to high school, they don't list their school.
	Um I'm obviously I'm educated, so I'm looking for somebody who I can connect with on that level.
	Masters.
	Um they don't have to be have a master's degree, and I mean they don't even have to necessarily have a college degree, but they have to educate themselves and have a commitment to learning throughout their lives.
	And so, I mean, if someone went to Yale or whatever school, like if my sister, she but both of my sisters are dentists and dentists in the making.
	Like education in my family, yeah.
	So yeah, and my sisters.
	So um that's that's something that's important to me, and like I I need to be able to connect with someone a deep level level.
	I need someone that can like I talk a lot and I talk about uh deep things and all sorts of things.
	I need someone that can keep up with me in that respect.
	And and lift me up.
	So let's put it by this way again, right?
	So let's say someone approaches you online or or I guess offline.
	How would you reject them?
	If they're not your type.
	Well, um I'm always like confused with what to do to be honest.
	This is like it's kinda hard, right?
	You know, yeah.
	Um I mean, uh, even walking in brickle, I had like teenagers.
	People think I'm like really young.
	I'm 30.
	Oh, but like high schoolers tried to hit on me.
	No way.
	Yeah.
	What'd you do?
	And I'm like, I am like your mom's age.
	Like this is and they were like, what?
	And just like ran away.
	Okay.
	So I guess that works.
	How would you reject somebody that you don't want to talk to?
	Gently.
	As gently as possible.
	Thank you so much.
	I'm just not interested at this current moment.
	I agree.
	That's pretty direct.
	Okay.
	I would do the same.
	How about you?
	I like that.
	That's the same way I do.
	Is that what you do?
	Diplomatic.
	Yeah.
	I'm sure not the same way.
	I put a little Vaseline around it and make the you know the pain a little bit more easy.
	How would you do it?
	All right.
	I'm a little autistic, you know what I mean?
	Okay.
	No, I'm just kidding.
	No.
	No, she's right.
	I would just respectfully decline them.
	Yeah.
	In their face.
	I'm a real person.
	I'm gonna really tell you.
	I'm good.
	One more time.
	Let's say someone approaches you.
	What worked last time someone posted where you get them your phone number?
	What worked?
	I mean, like I said before, it's a connection you have with somebody when they approach you.
	As a female, you can already read someone when they walk up to you, you know.
	The first two minutes, you know, right?
	Off rip.
	Okay, so what what was that?
	I made you say, you know what?
	He deserves my phone number.
	Passion they have for themselves.
	Yes.
	The belief they have in themselves.
	A man for themselves.
	Exactly.
	All right.
	I'm just saying to that.
	That's true.
	Man, that got okay.
	Okay.
	Your last encounter, like it wasn't the same as hers, right?
	So what was it?
	No, no, in the sense of what?
	Like, for example, let's say you were at Publix and someone approached you.
	Yeah.
	What worked for you to give them your phone number?
	Confidence.
	I know me.
	It's I'm dead ass.
	It's not complicated.
	No, no, I I agree, Jew.
	So you have overcome.
	In your particular instance, what did they do?
	Would they say, hey, you're beautiful, you're nice smile.
	What was it?
	Oh my gosh, that's kind of a little hard.
	It just depends on if I'm ovulated or not.
	All right, ovulation.
	It's true.
	It's true.
	You date differently whenever you're on your period or not.
	So right?
	Nah.
	That's a five.
	I'll give you that.
	What about you?
	I'm very sapio-sexual.
	Have you ever heard of that?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I was really intelligent in school.
	I was always really advanced, and just like you said, I like somebody who's on the same level and can stimulate me intellectually.
	Sepio sexual.
	Yeah.
	So you see my brain.
	Save the oversexual.
	So you said uh it was been a while, but last time you were approached, how did they approach you to turn your, I guess.
	I I couldn't tell you the last time somebody approached me that I said, yeah.
	In her house.
	Yeah.
	In my house, like my dog licked my leg.
	It was really nice.
	Oh.
	Oh shit.
	What about you?
	Um I definitely just kept walking on my way here while somebody hit on me.
	That was the last time.
	And I just pretended I didn't hear them.
	How often do you get approached?
	Like uh if I I I'm I I live in Brickle and I walk around Brickle, and every time I leave the park, every time I leave.
	It could be my neighbor next door.
	Okay.
	Dom, real quick.
	Um, so you heard the responses, right?
	Yeah.
	Obviously, you know, we're guys in Miami.
	We uh approach girls all the time.
	Uh what would you say is best for you?
	On person uh in in person, online what works for you in person, definitely.
	And then how would you do it?
	Let's say for example, it was her next to you.
	I'll walk up and just get her Instagram, give her my phone, say put your Instagram in.
	Is that too direct, you think?
	A little bit.
	It's worked so far.
	It worked four times last night.
	Yeah, let it work.
	But okay, is that too too direct for you?
	You would say I feel like I'm what uh the way I'm gonna feel inside is I'm gonna feel like uncomfortable not doing it.
	So I'm gonna do it to be nice, uh, to be polite and just move forward with that.
	But I would I do prefer, like everybody else said, like I like a confident.
	We all we all like confidence, you know.
	If you love yourself, that comes across to other people.
	It makes other people love you.
	Right.
	Um so hold on, Prince.
	How would you approach somebody?
	Uh online in person.
	So what works for you?
	I'm not really that's not really my vibe.
	I'm a slow kill.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So I'll play the friend role first.
	Make you fuck with me, like genuinely, you know what I'm saying?
	Because like for me, like having like a promoter background, there's a lot of women that I've come across that you know, a lot of them are just you know, they're trying to get what's best for them.
	Yeah, so I've I've learned that being a friend first, they love you as a friend, they won't try you in certain ways, they won't do certain things to you, and then after they just get to know me and I'm around me a certain amount of time, then it kind of develops into something.
	So that that's me.
	Um, you know, I'm I'm a slow kill.
	I'm not really a sniper.
	Like I don't really the first time I meet a girl, I think she's beautiful.
	I'm not trying to like get on her like that.
	I just get to know you, which is vibe, kick it.
	Maybe she has on all honestly.
	Anytime you meet someone, they have something going on in Miami.
	Yeah.
	So it takes, you know, about like three to six months to shake the trees, and then afterwards is when I start going in.
	But that's that's me.
	It's always worked for me.
	We know a couple snipers uh here in Miami.
	We gotta couple snipers.
	That's a bit slow for me, but I I get it, I get it.
	So ladies, real quick.
	Um you heard the two responses, uh, more direct and then more like time and friendship.
	What do you think is better for man to poach you with?
	We'll start here.
	I would say he's right, a friendship because listen, I was in a relationship where it wasn't a friendship, it didn't work.
	Then we came back together and became friends.
	That worked.
	It's a friendship before you actually have a relationship because if they don't like you for who you are, it's never gonna work out.
	Does that make sense?
	A friend a friend is gonna like you for when no matter what you do and who you are.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	Perfect.
	For you, it's all about common like commonalities.
	Like, what do we have in common?
	You know, like are we moving up or are we staying stagnant or what's going on?
	Because based on that is where we measure people and see like if this person is gonna be a weight or it's gonna be a blessing, you know, someone that's gonna take you on to the next level or someone's gonna pull you back.
	So I'm very it I it just you know, I play with the lovers for sure.
	Okay, for you?
	Yeah, yeah.
	I think that if I g okay, if I give somebody my phone number with my phone number and five dollars, you can find out all of my information online.
	So that's not internet safety, but if somebody were to walk up to me direct and be like, hey, put your Instagram in my phone, then that's something different.
	Then okay, yeah, I'll give you my Instagram because I like that confidence.
	But if we're talking a long-term relationship, I do like to date my friends.
	Okay.
	And for you?
	I really liked what Prince said about um I what I what came across to me with in his words was safety, feelings of safety.
	And as a woman, I told you I get hit on when I leave my apartment.
	And for for me, that comes with feelings of like not feeling safe, a lot of that, unfortunately.
	Yeah.
	And so if and it doesn't I I don't know what three to six months, that might be a little bit more.
	Well, I'm saying to shake the tree because like people have things going on.
	Obviously, you seem a little bit different, you know what I'm saying?
	Than most people I come across on the day to day, but people usually have you know, little situationships or things going on.
	So sorry.
	So it usually takes a little bit of time, you know, to get through that.
	So real quick, you don't feel safe in Brickle.
	Um I can't I don't feel I'm five foot almost one.
	Like it just realistically, I'm not really safe by myself.
	I'm just it's statistics, unfortunately.
	Okay.
	Um so you know, and getting like hit on people there's a lot of people that aren't good people out there, unfortunately.
	Right.
	Um yeah, but uh he what he said like if somebody makes me feel safe at first, there's no pressure in the beginning, then I might take interest in them.
	So you're all saying basically in a nutshell, friendship first is better.
	But let me ask a question though.
	Most people that start in a friend zone stay in the friend zone.
	Yeah, right.
	So okay, you're different, right?
	But let's be honest, most men that do that, you're gonna stay in a friend zone.
	So how would you differentiate between friend forever or upgrade to man?
	Because that that's kind of difficult to do.
	I don't think that's actually difficult to do.
	I don't think it's such a strict black and white friend zone thing.
	Like it's one thing if you call if it's it's like you know, you're like my brother, and then that's more of like I'm friend zoning you.
	But um I think that if you're just genuinely trying to see what you have in common and I feel it's a safe space, it could be within the same night that we take it to a next the next level.
	It doesn't have to be three months, could be the next that night that we flirt a little bit after I feel safe for a five minutes with this person.
	So comfort is very important for sure.
	But okay, friend the friend zone itself is difficult.
	And I'll spend what because let's say for example, right?
	I like you, and I'm a bit nervous about getting to know you better because I feel like you might reject me.
	I'll be your friend and say, okay, I'm your friend.
	But eat down, I do want to smash.
	I want to be with you, right?
	So I'm pretending to be your friend.
	Is that really your friend?
	No.
	I don't think that anyone should pretend ever.
	Like I don't I I'm authentic from the start.
	And uh, I mean, I guess in the past, I used I'm 34 now, and in the past I used to uh try to go by the rules a little bit, but now I just I I don't want to fall for somebody who's pretending to this happened in my past relationship one of my past relationships where the first year I thought that my ex was somebody who it turned out not to be because he was doing little things to win me over and then that was just to win me over and
	and so i'm like especially the safety thing it's like i if someone's authentic that's really i can tell authenticity good point okay that's it what about you is that really your friend because i'm pretending to be your friend to smash no i think that if you want to smash you should say that okay so so but no most guys do that because they'll be like i like her but like i'm gonna be your friend first it's different but like most guys yeah so
	he's he's capping to kind of try to like get you yeah i don't agree with that i mean don't get me wrong it's definitely fucked me up sometimes like it's not every single time i'm i'm the homeboy there's times i've definitely been stuck like damn she's so bad you know what i'm saying but yeah it's i've mastered my game i don't i'm not i'm not i'm not i'm not i'm not a you know what i'm saying i don't i don't have the quick draw like that like i know who i am and and you know how i come off what i'm about so i just you know i just keep it cool and chill and i'm not ugly you know i got personality so yeah how many of them are willing
	to put the niggas that already smashed and in rotation aside during those three months you're talking to me no i'm actually i i see what you so he's in in a nutshell so let's say you're talking to the guy right and you're kind of like in a friend zone pretty much trying to figure him out starting off his friend how many guys that you're smashing currently would you put off to the while you're talking to the guy as a friend?
	For what?
	That's not about shaking the tree.
	Yeah.
	He's not gonna be able to experience that so yeah.
	I mean you gotta play them all, you know what I mean?
	You made the best man to win.
	So that nigga lose?
	No, no, no.
	a man you should elevate a woman that's hard differentiate as a man you should elevate a woman if you can't elevate a woman get the fuck out of my face like you know what I mean period okay no no no that's a good answer put me in a better position she's saying basically she's gonna play all the cards yeah yeah I'm gonna play the game like you baby problem why should a dude wait three months try to be your friend but friend you do it that way if other niggas are being able to then just say that off the rip so you at the same time recommended for dudes to come with a friendship they're losing in the end.
	I don't want to then just say that what you want to do for you say that if then we're supposed to give you what you want but you don't know what she wants and you but you said you want the friendship.
	Listen no that nigga loses so the one that you want is the one that's gonna lose it.
	I'm just saying if you want to if you want to push you that way the way that you won't you want to be approached as a friend.
	No he does that he loses because other niggas is hitting while he's waiting for his opportunity three months later.
	I never said I want you to approach me as a friend I want you to approach me with confidence.
	I haven't been laid in months I would just I guarantee you after this show we're gonna change that for you okay we'll change that for you I'm willing and able okay awesome I need a I need a co-star.
	Trust me I need a I need a content co-star well just so you know I I was a creator back in my in my day you know um okay allegedly so okay real quick what about you made a very a very good question if the guy you're talking to is in the preliminary friend zone right what you start talking to other guys you're smashing during that period.
	You know the funny thing is that you don't approach dating like a zero zone game.
	You know you approach it based on the instinct you you approach it based on what you know it could be mutually mutually beneficial for both parts you know I know that men have their urges to get things done and that's fine.
	You know that's why we're here for it.
	But at the same time it has to be mutual and it has to be consensus I feel like there's just levels right because okay there's some people that you just skip the line just some people that can just skip the line if you're in Europe if you know what I'm saying just somebody that can skip the line whether it's them tricking or paying bills or like if you come out the gate like that you skip the line.
	Me, I'm kind of like it's a little bit different.
	I'm waiting in line for my turn essentially but I'm I'm saving so much things like for example the person that the the guy that skips the line that's tricking on short and getting it because he's tricking yeah she he she's giving it up because he's tricking her he's doing every case is me she's fucking with me because she fuck with me genuinely.
	She's not gonna try me like that.
	We're gonna lay up on the couch and talk about how this nigga's gonna go by her this snowbag.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And I'm I'm cool with that.
	I can wait.
	I could chill because person, I have a question for you.
	Let's say, right?
	You're the guy that's waiting.
	Let's say I'm just big baller.
	Yeah.
	I'm just out there kicking you in the river.
	I'm out here doing the big ball and shit like that.
	I'm smashing.
	Yeah.
	You don't want seconds, do you?
	I think it is other people out there that's I'm doing me while she's doing her.
	This is the current project, but I got another going on.
	This is another thing that's a problem.
	You give them exactly what they want and you lose.
	Yeah.
	You shouldn't give them what you want.
	You should just be a man and tell them what they need.
	Bro, you can't give them women what they want.
	They don't know what the fuck they want.
	They're telling us to be a friend.
	But if someone chooses to enter that in a dominant space, that nigga not only getting past the condom level, after two months, he's hitting row and nutting in the bitch.
	That bitch is gonna be having none of her by the time that other nigga get a chance.
	Yeah, bro.
	That nigga has one.
	So this one has a better opportunity to wife her and give her kids than I'm gonna do.
	I disagree.
	To dog's point.
	But it is kind of true.
	To Dom's point, the man is waiting in the cut, not your prince, just in general.
	He loses because you know what's happening?
	In the same instance, someone else is winning by smashing, and then two, he's waiting to hopefully one day become in that spot.
	You're right.
	But so he loses everything, but you gain.
	So I think for a guy, if you're in a friend zone for the most part, you're losing.
	Now, uh, you want a statement?
	Yeah, because you know, what if in the case you know you're a nice guy and everything, but it just doesn't add up, and you we can go on many dates, but at the same time, perhaps it's not connecting.
	He's paying, he's paying the whole time.
	Yeah, he's paying the whole time, by the way.
	I can understand it, but just about 10 minutes ago, it was recommended to be that guy.
	Look at nature.
	It wasn't like that.
	I know, but we understand nature, but look at that.
	Everyone was here speaking against their nature.
	So look at the peacocks, for instance.
	Peacock's they have to do the most important thing.
	Every woman ever said they wanted the peacock instead of the lion.
	You are all speaking in delusions.
	No, it's not real.
	It's actually nature.
	You can see it in, you know, it's natural law, honey.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Sorry, go now.
	No, the reality is the peacock can't rule the jungle.
	Let's let's put off.
	Let's put all the lists.
	Can I say something?
	Yeah, but I I have a hard time waiting, and I was waiting a long time.
	Um, that's some niggas finding it.
	I know exactly.
	I know exactly what I want.
	Yeah, and I'm focused on finding the man that's gonna be my husband.
	And um, if somebody I I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me, and I think it's silly to go after somebody who doesn't like there's so many people out there.
	I agree.
	There's gonna be somebody who's gonna be receptive, obsessed with you, who's going to want you as much as you want them.
	And if you're wasting your time chasing these people that are willing to find somebody at the club, and you know that that that's they're willing to put you last, then that's not your person, and like just move on faster, make yourself available.
	Like I'm actually acting kind of what I think like most men do right now, because I am focused on on finding the one, and I don't want to get stuck with the wrong person.
	So I'd rather be not even not going on, I'm not going on dates, I'm matching with some people, but I'm like going on a few dates because my time, I'm a business owner, and I'm building my practice, and I wanna I don't want to waste times on time on the wrong ones where I could be finding the right one.
	Think about this.
	What if I told you there's no one?
	There's just many people.
	I know, I agree.
	So so so the one argument, I I I get that point, but it's kinda a waste of time.
	But I will say this.
	Be quite a waste of time.
	Waiting for the one.
	No, I'm not waiting.
	I'm I'm actively seeking the one.
	I know what I want.
	But you won't chase you attract.
	I'm not chasing, but I'm saying like I know what what I'm looking for when it comes, my I'm walking outside.
	People are hitting on me here and there.
	I'm not gonna go on a date with someone who might, I might be interested in no.
	I'm not I don't have time for that one.
	Got it.
	Like I'm being choosy, and I'm like, I'm I'm looking at my list of things that bot, like they need to be a good communicator of the list, okay?
	Real quick.
	If you can give me like a quick one to two minute synopsis of this guy, what if he he's watching right now?
	What you say to him, he needs to have a few to approach you.
	Maybe six foot tall, six figures in the bank.
	I don't know.
	Um, whatever it is, the degree, tell them right now what you want to do.
	I want somebody who's kind and authentic and um and who wants to build a future together, wants to I want to have a kid or two, um, and I want them to prioritize me.
	How how old are you again?
	34.
	So there's many men out there that are kind.
	Yeah, I want to have kids as well.
	But they're single right now, you're single too.
	So what else does he have to have?
	Just saying.
	Well, I okay that I have to I'm very I'm an emotional person, but I'm emotionally deep, you know, and I need I've had difficulty some sometimes with communication.
	There's levels of communication.
	It's not like you're a good communicator or bad.
	There's I for my job I help people to communicate, and I'm happy to do that in my relationship to a degree, but like it has to uh there has to be equal effort put in, or not you know, there has to be somebody who wants to be my teammate, my partner.
	I I feel like honestly, I just think that men and women are just at war right now, especially Miami.
	Because if you really if you really think about it, honestly, it's true.
	I I genuinely feel even the hoes in Miami, I genuinely feel they all want that.
	They all want a kind guy, a sweet guy, someone that's gonna give them security.
	The problem is this is what what happens.
	Good guy comes to Miami, he meets this girl, he's doing everything for her, paying her rent, doing this, that and a third, finds out that she's got six other niggas.
	Now that good guy turns into a dickhead.
	Dickhead comes across a good girl who really wants to be the one for him, care for him, do this and the third.
	She finds out he's got six other girls that he's doing this for now.
	She turns into that cold bitch, and it's just a perpetuating cycle.
	And it's just like who's gonna I don't know who started it.
	I I say it was women because it's Eve, you know what I'm saying?
	But it's a perpetuating cycle.
	Like, even me, I'm not the same person that I was when I when I first, but when I first came like to Edgewater to South Beach, da da da da, I was the sweetest, kindest, nicest guy ever.
	Oh, I'm still kinda nice, I'm still kind of sweet, but I definitely have an asshole in me.
	I can definitely be a dick kid, I can be abrasive, and it's just it's just because of the things, the the drama, this Miami trauma, it's a perpetuating cycle of fuck shit that people.
	Prince, you know that on the head.
	You know what's funny, uh Blah Dom?
	You've been here for how long.
	Uh since March.
	You can see it, right?
	Yeah.
	What are you talking about?
	So you're gonna Miami.
	You're like, oh, okay, everyone's cool, I'm amazing.
	Um she's a good person.
	She got three dudes.
	One pays the rent, one pays for the car, one pay is just for t take her out.
	You're like, okay, she's gonna be the one.
	But you don't know low-key what's happening behind the scenes.
	Vice versa, she's like, oh, he's the one, he's so nice.
	But he got the same thing.
	So And then on top of that, right?
	Every day you step outside, it's someone new that you've never seen before.
	A girl, I'm cool, I think I'm good looking, right?
	A girl might see a nigga that look just like me with green eyes, bigger muscles, more money.
	Yeah, every single day you go outside, there's so much you know what I'm saying?
	Like, and maybe you don't even look for something, but maybe this person just does something to you.
	Like, like you know what I'm saying, maybe this girl doesn't you're not even trying.
	It's it's it's it's hard.
	Everyone in the world comes to Miami.
	Everyone doesn't go to LA, everyone doesn't go to New York, everyone does go to Chicago.
	Everyone in the world comes to Miami.
	So it's just like that that's just another added level to the bullshit.
	And then just real quick, right?
	So just a response to you real quick.
	You're 34, right?
	Yeah.
	Just imagine this.
	I'm a guy with money, status, and I want a girl.
	Come to Miami.
	There's you.
	There's 28.
	Maybe like 25, 22.
	Why they pick you over the 22?
	Just uh honestly the question.
	Because I um I have a her I have a purpose in life.
	Um what I I'm extremely passionate about what I do.
	I add um fun and excitement to everyone's lives.
	Anyone who's, you know, my friend, I'm a very loyal friend and loving and affectionate, and I'll always be there for you.
	And uh people who appreciate the sweetness that I have to offer.
	We have wonderful relationships for long time friends friendships, you know.
	Uh I don't know, I I mean I've had two, I had two long-term relationships, five years and three years.
	I broke up with both of them.
	Oh, you and did it proposed to me.
	Yeah.
	Like I was single for a couple years here and there.
	Uh right now I'm in one of my one and a half year periods of being single.
	Uh, but um Yeah, I had the opportunity to to marry guys if I wanted to.
	Can I be honest with you?
	Real quick.
	Can I really be honest with you?
	You know you're cooked, right?
	Oh my god.
	No, no, no.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Hold up.
	I'm being real here.
	Because because we're a Miami, right?
	This is a high-paced society and fast moving culture.
	If you want to find a man, trust me, there's many men out there that would definitely want to date you.
	But the problem is, at your current age, what you're offering, you should offer at 22 as well.
	No, you, I mean at 22.
	I mean, I'm not having a problem.
	Well, hold on, it's a piggyback off that.
	But you're picky, right?
	Yeah, but I'm I'm I'm being particular, but it's serving me well.
	Any guy that I want to match with on a dating app matches with me.
	Any guy I want to go out with, he's taking me on a date.
	But you just said the guys that proposed to you, you didn't want to marry.
	So that's so that's because I learned because I was younger and I learned what I want for myself as I dated them.
	I was the first one, the five-year relationship, I was 22 to 27.
	I'm a different I'm always evolving.
	Like I'm not gonna be the same person.
	Some people say the same thing.
	What is those men want that you want?
	Do you know?
	So for example, the man, the man that you want, what does he want?
	The man so the man the man you want to end up marrying, right?
	To have kids with, have family with, what does he want?
	He wants to have a life partner.
	Okay.
	He wants to have somebody who he's gonna enjoy the rest of his life with that's gonna lift him up every day, and um that he can rely that he can rely on to be there and be the mother of his children.
	Um, and that he knows is gonna take care of him, make him feel safe, and um we're just um Okay, real quick, dumb.
	Dance and dance together and do fight like just love.
	Does that sound like somebody you want to wipe up right now?
	Be honest.
	You're you're successful, no most millionaire.
	No, I mean the main problem you say you have was like communication, it seems with men.
	No, no, no, only this one guy.
	Just one guy.
	Well, so he didn't have good communication, so I'm I'm uh looking for communication.
	So long-term relationship, did he not want any of those?
	Well, did not want the things that you want that you're saying that the guy will want.
	No, he he wanted that I didn't end up wanting him because well, this one particular guy like made me think he was somebody different than he was.
	And I broke up with him at the end, he said, uh if you want someone to take you on dates the rest of your life, that's not gonna be me.
	Like, oh my god.
	I broke up with him and he said that, and like I want to I I want to keep the romance alive.
	Like I want magic.
	You know, fairy tale.
	He was putting in more effort in the beginning than Yeah, he always had the chocolate I liked and the wine that I liked, and did he ever have any complaints before he stopped doing those things?
	Or he just stopped cold turkey?
	No, we were together for like a year and then like we were living together, and then like you know shit happened.
	It faded, faded out.
	But normally when God stopped doing stuff that they used to do, they have complaints normally.
	He worked too much.
	Maybe he got bored though, too.
	No.
	No.
	No, I don't even want to talk about it too much.
	I'm just it's like I don't need to focus on one person.
	Like I'm just saying in general, like I've learned from my relationships.
	I've learned a lot of things that I do want because especially like the first the guy I was in a five-year relationship with, there were a lot of things about him that made him like a wonderful person that I will look for in a man in the future.
	So, what do you think that you provide that no other female does that would make a man want to be with you forever?
	I'm I'm intelligent.
	Well, no, no.
	I said what do you provide that no other female can provide that like because there's a lot of intelligent women, you're not the only person with a masters, you know.
	No, no, no, no, I know, but like I'm not you're asking.
	I'm imaginative, I'm interested in a lot of things.
	I'm taking voice lessons right now.
	I was like, I I'm always gonna be interested in trying new things and doing doing fun things throughout life.
	And I I lift, I'm I'm an optimistic person, and I'm gonna lift you up whenever you're feeling feeling low.
	Like my that my exes, their moms always said to me that I was had a calming effect on them.
	And I don't think of myself as a very calm person.
	So you're just a niche woman, you gotta find a niche man.
	I mean you have a certain kind of niche.
	Yeah, I need someone to have like this really deep special connection.
	That's not hard, that's not easy to find.
	I don't expect that to be easy to find.
	So we can all agree here that like when you come to like pushing women, giving them what they want up front, it doesn't serve you pretty much as a man.
	So let's play a video real quick to kind of illustrate this in detail because I think answers today are hilarious, but some of them are actually good.
	So we'll respond to this with a video here.
	Um here we go.
	Is that Star Wars?
	The credits.
	We're doing the uh video.
	Yeah.
	No, that one next one.
	All right guys, just one second here, close as I bring it up.
	Cool?
	So this is this this isn't a full approach from a woman here in the streets.
	Uh actually real, by the way.
	And this is her reaction to uh his approach.
	There we go.
	If you want my number, you gotta pay me.
	You give me in the vlog for $10.
	Yeah.
	I got it.
	Okay.
	How long?
	For cash up.
	Cash up.
	Yeah.
	Alright, I guess you're gonna talk to my phone.
	Yeah, $10.
	20.
	$20.
	I got cash.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, beautiful, y'all know.
	Thank you.
	Oh shit in my car.
	Okay.
	Zero.
	No.
	I don't know.
	I'll know it when I see it.
	You know when you say I ain't different chat.
	Not yet, no.
	Not yet?
	No.
	What do you think?
	I don't know.
	What do you think?
	What do you think?
	Yeah.
	I'll give you my Instagram.
	I don't know what I'm saying, bro.
	I can advance.
	yeah If you want my number.
	Okay, uh, you just saw a lot of video there.
	Dom.
	What do you think, bro?
	Man, that nigga cut.
	Yeah, I mean, they that woman will never have no respect for him, even if he uh takes it farther.
	She don't have respect for herself.
	20 dollars?
	What the fuck is that?
	I thought about that.
	Right.
	I think she just did that just as a joke to the case.
	If he won't pay, if he walked in and gave her 10 bands, would she have respect then?
	No.
	So the the price don't.
	I don't know.
	So if she had respect for herself, it still won't change.
	She wouldn't have no respect for him.
	Right, because she's not even like willing and able to get to know him either way.
	You know what I mean?
	She's worried about the money, which is which is uh justifiable.
	I get that.
	Because if you have 10 bands, drop it.
	Justifiable.
	It's justifiable.
	Hold on, but she she just took the money and laughed in his face and said, Ha, I got 20 minutes.
	Well he gave it to her.
	But that's the point.
	She she gave her he gave her what she wanted, and he he ended up losing.
	You don't know if he's he lost or not.
	She lost away a lot of that.
	She's not she's clearly right though, but listen, both both of those parties are wrong.
	Both of those parties are stupid as fuck.
	Okay.
	When you're right to meet the right person, it's God's time, no matter what.
	So remember what makes sense.
	The pretense was if you give him what she wants to front, you end up losing.
	What about you?
	What do you think?
	That's a loaded question.
	You know, it depends because at the end of the day, you know, these situations you see, they're all for c clickbaits.
	You know, they're not necessarily real life situations.
	But if it is that case, I mean it's all based on the respect level that you know the person has for you.
	Otherwise, then it's not yeah.
	If I don't want to deal with someone, I'll probably do the same thing, you know.
	Okay, like opening.
	I think she wasn't as interested at all.
	I think she just did it to see if he would do it.
	He did it, and she just played along with it, but she wasn't I don't think she would think he would pay the ten dollars.
	She just would I get from that video.
	What do you think?
	I think that he shouldn't have paid her the ten dollars or to the twenty dollars.
	But I think she shouldn't have asked if she was never interested in the first place.
	Okay.
	So she was interested, she should ask.
	If she was interested, no, she shouldn't have asked for money, just give me your Instagram.
	I don't know.
	I don't think if somebody was like, yo, I'll give you ten dollars for your Instagram, I'd be like, nah, just take it.
	But like I said, I'm not gonna give you my phone number because with five dollars you can find a whole my address.
	Shit.
	Oh yeah, with the search.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I just laughed and thought that was so Miami.
	And um Good point.
	Yeah, that's not something that I saw dating in New York.
	But I it makes me giggle.
	So so that actual video, right?
	Even if it's not real, show us how dynamics between men and women are.
	So up front.
	Transactional, but that's not I don't know, that doesn't work for me.
	That's not how I I'm looking for that connection.
	But that's good.
	But a lot of women nowadays are looking for a monetary gain to possibly maybe give you a chance if they feel like it.
	But in this scenario here, she just said literally, you know what?
	Let me see if I can get $10 from this this guy.
	She got $20, and then you dipped off.
	So it could be 10k, 20k.
	And this happens all the time in Miami.
	You give a girl money up front.
	She's she she's she she doesn't like you, she just moves on.
	So Prince, what would you say is the best way to push woman in this case?
	Because 10 bucks is nothing but she got it and then left.
	Approach her like after she said that.
	Yeah.
	There's well, I don't even approach women, honestly.
	I don't cold start.
	I'm not a cold star kind of person.
	But but let's say you were in that scenario.
	Right?
	What would you how would you react to that?
	She said 10 bucks.
	Get my Instagram.
	What?
	Okay, have a great day, my love.
	And just keep it pushing.
	$10 for your Instagram?
	All right.
	Love you.
	Selena.
	You're right.
	Like some maybe something like that.
	And honestly, it depends if I'm irritable, if I had to smoke weed or not.
	If I was in a bad mood, maybe I'll say some 60 if not, I'd be like, alright.
	Can be fucked up and just keep it pushing.
	Dom.
	If that was you, how would you approach that?
	I'd tell her I charge up to $8,000 to follow people.
	I'll give it to her for free.
	Wait, what?
	Huh?
	That's my response.
	I'll tell her I'll charge $8,000 to follow people.
	I'll follow her for free.
	She's gonna give me hers for free.
	Ten dollars.
	Shit, she gets of someone that's worth $8,000 per follow for free, bro.
	It's a good investment.
	See, in this scenario here, bro, um, it's just it's mad disrespect.
	So I'll just walk away.
	Yeah.
	Because ten 10 bucks, bro, bitch, please.
	But at the same time, it's like he gave it to me because he wants to get a chance.
	If it's real.
	If it's real.
	And in Miami, I thought that's all the time.
	You would take me out, you can buy me a bag, you're gonna take me shopping.
	And then I'll smash you.
	No, you're a fucking cock.
	It looks crazy.
	But um, I just think the dating that I'm now it's more transactional than anything else.
	And it's not because that's a current uh dating market.
	That's what I get tell told.
	Sorry.
	And that's why I try to be a friend first, because like even dinner, it's just like it happened to me before.
	I took this girl out uh to Carbone, was not interested in me at all.
	After dinner, I think she went and fucked some other nigga.
	Yeah, like she said bye, okay, see you later.
	And that was that, you know.
	Uh that's why I like to be the friend first.
	We actually get to know which one you fuck with me genuinely.
	So you just you won't try certain shit.
	So if we go to dinner, you're gonna appreciate that dinner because you genuinely enjoy spending time with me and hanging out with me wherever it's the situation may be.
	You know, I that whole, like, hey, I think you're so beautiful.
	Can we go to dinner tonight?
	I can't do that.
	Yeah.
	Not that the woman doesn't deserve to be taken to dinner.
	I just believe they get to know each other first, and and you know, you know what I got going on, and I know what you got going on, because you know, there there is a lot of shit going on.
	And again, with my promoter background, I just know certain things.
	So I just move a little bit more cautiously.
	What do you think?
	I think that I if I were on the street and somebody approached me and was like, hey, can I have your Instagram?
	And I made a like a slick comment, like, yeah, $10, and they turned around and they said, I charge $8,000 to follow people.
	I'll follow you for free.
	I'd be like, absolutely.
	Here's my Instagram.
	That's clever though.
	I would love that.
	That's a clever rebuttal.
	I would love that banter so much that it would connect with me.
	But maybe a different tone because you sound like you're but if it was like a light hearted tone, yeah, that that's that's good.
	That's good.
	It was witty.
	It was witty.
	Yeah, isn't but if my response, my like, oh yeah, $10 to follow me, that should also be like a banter, not like serious.
	Okay.
	Uh shout out to uh I think this is Damon.
	Damon for the one subshout to your brother for supporting the show.
	Oh, you had three?
	Shout out to Damon Um Dabani.
	So uh, real quick.
	Dom, just real quick.
	Let's go back uh to what we said before.
	Yeah.
	Let's say um we're in the friend zone, right?
	And we want to get past your friends on.
	If you were that in that spot, how would you get past your friends off?
	I don't know if you can, man.
	Like that.
	I mean, I there's nothing I could really say to really guarantee that that's for no man.
	I mean, I mean, he has good success.
	I mean, shit, but I don't know.
	I don't really like doing the friend zone because a lot of women there, you can even see on this podcast, women, they're very influential creatures.
	Like, you guys are social.
	You one person said something and all of you agree, and then you start saying that's the same qualifications that you need.
	Yeah.
	You can set the standards on the first date, and you say, well, she won't do certain things to you because you're a friend.
	You can make, well, not, I don't want to say the word make, but a woman can sense your energy for what you gonna fuck with and what you won't.
	And on that first day, that standard is set, and she'll do shit for you that she won't do for other niggas, and she won't do shit to you that she'll do to other niggas just from the respect that you got from her on that first day.
	So, I mean, having it through weeks, I think it can help.
	But you can get that in the first day, just depending on how you lead with that woman, setting the standards.
	I mean, and women like to be corrected.
	You know, a lot of women, men are so afraid to correct women on the first day.
	I take them out to the date, expensive restaurant, and they do shit I don't like.
	I love them, I don't like that.
	I tell them on the first date what I want to see them wearing, what time to be ready, what shoes they should wear.
	They love that type of shit because they like, this nigga ain't gonna fuck around.
	So I'm experiencing a version of her that she wanna be that little girl again, the other man can't see.
	But it does work sometimes, you know, take care of your time.
	Everything is like I said, even said that the friends don't shit like it, it's fucked me up a couple of times, you know.
	But it does.
	I mean, it's a I think it's better to find a woman to marry if you start off as a friend.
	Can I say something real quick?
	No, a a woman wants a guy to lead.
	Yeah.
	So a a woman wants a guy to be dominant.
	Yeah, these guys out here are pussies.
	Like, if you want me to take you to Dave and Bush so we can play games together, we can do that.
	Does that make sense?
	Like, I mean, I'm 30, I'm 31, so like I'm gonna let you know what's real because I've learned lying to people.
	Maybe I'm a terrible liar, so I might as well just tell you we're playing.
	We're we're playing the game together, then you know what I mean?
	Yeah, but that's it.
	Serious.
	I've learned telling the truth is the only way to go in life.
	Seriously.
	So off your current answer, do you think most men mature up to be a real man nowadays, or no?
	No, because the society made men bitches.
	Men are more bitches than females, man.
	I'm just being honest here.
	I want a guy to be dominant.
	I want a guy to be daddy.
	That's your bitch.
	It's just so it's true.
	I I feel her on that.
	The thing is the the the climate that we're in, sometimes it's you you gotta really be careful what you do, what you say and how you say it, like even with just being dominant, because that shit can be misconstrued for you being aggressive or the narcissist, or it's it's the just the climate everything, even with like movies, how you can't make certain jokes.
	It's just that's why I play the friends so like so much, because I just like the world that I'm in, the life that I'm in, man.
	I am not trying to get caught up in my show.
	I don't want a guy that that if I feel controlled by them, it is a red flag and I run.
	Like I do not I like when a man is like I want to take what is your ideal first date, and I made the reservation, and that's how they're taking the lead in that way, right?
	They're making the what do you call controlling though?
	If they're telling me what shoes to wear, then that would feel I would I feel like I feel a balance between the two of these guys here.
	We're like, we're not gonna go on a date.
	More leaning on to this side, that's why uh uh um you want a guy in the middle of these two.
	I I mean yeah, I want someone to be real and be like really who they are, and if that's realness is not for me, that's okay.
	We go different ways, you know what I mean?
	Like, but I want I want someone who respects my and also and also like thinks it's sexy, my independence and like my own ability.
	Like I have I'm I'm confident in the way that I dress myself and like my fashion my sense of style.
	I would love it if a man wants to take me shopping or something.
	Not that too.
	But that's not that's just because he wants to, though.
	That's not a transactional thing, and I'm not gonna go on a date on a dinner date with you if I'm not genuinely interested.
	I'm not gonna use you for what you're bringing.
	I'm only doing that for the You may not, but a lot of women do.
	Um, okay, what about you?
	So do you think most men measure up today to be a real man or no?
	Most men measure up.
	It all depends.
	It all depends on the like how they were raised.
	You know, they come from you know, broken families per se.
	Or saying, like generally speaking, the men of 20.
	The men I use one of these.
	I think if anything, I'm I'm attracted to gentle masculinity.
	You know, not the like I'm the man and I'm gonna do this.
	Like, no, that isn't work with me because I'm an educated woman already, you know.
	I do talk back.
	So you talk back?
	Absolutely.
	A man like that.
	Um, whoa, whoa.
	There's ways to approach that, you know.
	But I mean, like what he's I like what Dom said.
	You know, you have to set the tone from the beginning, and this is the rules we're gonna be playing with, and then we take it from there.
	Can you describe a gentle masculine man?
	Oh, that's a good one.
	So it's the opposite of toxic masculinity.
	There we go.
	But gentle masculinity is a blend of uh emotional availability and intelligence, and it you know, it's a play where you're you have an ability to be able to discern and read a room and know how to manage women essentially correctly.
	Um, that's someone who's also per se uh understands the power of consent.
	I think that's very important.
	I'm in love.
	I just I'm just missing emotional maturity because I snap.
	So emotional you can show emotions, but you don't you don't know how to sometimes like with men, they do not, and this is something that women complain all the time is that he doesn't know, he doesn't tell me what he feels, and and at the end of the day, that's you know, very important to be able to, and it all comes down to mental health.
	That's a that's a rabbit hole in itself, you know.
	So is that considered emotional intelligence?
	Absolutely.
	Uh it's a very it's it's a very new word, you know.
	There's so many things involved into that, and it comes down to even like surrendering yourself to that person.
	All the things men have to men have to learn to even get into your psyche.
	That's that that's a lot.
	No, I'm not gonna learn it.
	No, this is everything.
	This is a mutual thing, even for women.
	Women that come also from broken families tend to act like men, and you know, that's that you know, it's not a good thing.
	See, they don't trust see we understand most guys watching don't understand all this going on, but I I get what you're saying.
	Yeah, but that that that is a lot.
	What do you think?
	Most men measure up.
	Oh, I I date both genders, right?
	So I like very masculine men and I like very feminine.
	I like very masculine men and very feminine women.
	So I do like a man who's gonna lead me.
	I like a man to be a little bossy, be a little bossy of me, put me in my place.
	But then I want to go do that if I'm in a relationship with a girl.
	So I guess for both genders, which one would you want to marry and have a family with?
	Oh, uh honestly, I'm really 50-50.
	Whoever I like more when I get there, uh, that I feel like I can build a comfy, happy life with, but I also am very into polyamory and potentially potentially being in more of like a I I believe that my I'm gonna love my partner.
	Nigga, we been up that I want them to have all of the experiences that they possibly can.
	Yeah, and I think that my partner at the end of the day should be my home-based partner.
	Like, if you want to go sleep with somebody else, I think we should be able to have that conversation.
	And if we're both comfortable with it, am I comfortable with you doing that without me?
	Do I want to join?
	Do I want to watch?
	Do am I not?
	All this shows is that there's no cookie cutter.
	Like different strokes are different, folks.
	You can't even really there's no palette, but hold on.
	So you're telling me it has to be under your guidance.
	Um, not guidance, communication.
	But yeah, a lot of polyamorous couples have like Google calendars that they share and put all of their information in.
	I think that's so beautiful.
	It's about not lying.
	It's about it's about knowing what you're what you're telling somebody else is what that you know that they can rely on you, that your word, you're gonna like hold yourself to your word, they're going to be able to trust you.
	And so if they if that's not for them, they can leave, right?
	It's like cheating is doing that with and like pretending that you're and I think nowadays everyone cheats.
	Everyone knows so.
	So how about we have this open dialogue and communication and trust to where like if you're gonna go do that, at least I want to know about it.
	So I'm I'm off honesty, I'm all for letting people know what the honest truth up front.
	That's fucking amazing.
	Right.
	The problem is I think you want to control a little bit what happens behind the scenes, which granted, you should know what's happening, but to say, if I allow, if I want you to do this, it's kind of like if I don't think if I allow, I think that's if both parties are comfortable.
	I didn't mean to stay that way.
	What if I want to do it and you don't want me to do it?
	Now what?
	Then there's a conversation.
	Then you say that.
	See, that's when they get cheap.
	All right, what about you?
	What about me?
	Most men measure up to what you want or your standards, you would say.
	Most men.
	No, that's why I'm single.
	Got it.
	So I think we have a dilemma here because if you notice Prince and Dom and ladies, we all have different things that we want, and most of them don't align.
	And the funny part is most men don't know what women want.
	Women don't care what men want.
	So it's kind of like that battle between sexes where we don't know what we each want.
	So, real quick, I guess if you could describe to me, Prince, what you look what are you looking for in a in a woman?
	Peace.
	I'm obviously I want her to be beautiful, you know what I'm saying?
	Like there's a level of superficialness, regardless.
	Like, no one looks at someone's like, oh my God.
	She looks, she has a great personality, made me laugh all day.
	No, there has to be an attraction, but I'm looking for peace.
	Someone that's gonna just give me peace and help up with you.
	Yeah, help up with me, just build me up.
	Like I have my days, like the world that we're in, the entertainment is crazy.
	It's a lot, you know.
	And just be there for me.
	Let's just build, you know what I'm saying?
	Like, I'm not even the time, I don't I don't care if you drive a grammary, I don't care.
	Like, I'm I've never been the type of person to really care about what you do, what you've done, your past.
	Like, I know Myron will probably like dig going on me for this, but I I can look past all that shit as long as you're for me.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like I can look past almost almost almost anything, but as long as you're for me, we're we're here.
	But I just I just want I just want peace.
	I get the peace part.
	Well, she got like 200 bodies.
	Okay, so I'm gonna keep it 100 with you.
	I don't I've I've dealt with a woman who I don't know if she had 200, but you know, she's known to kind of have done her thing.
	That coochie was amazing.
	What that shit grit Like it was amazing.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And I've I've dealt with women who who have not had so many bodies, and maybe there's a scent or the shit don't grip like how it no when I say set, like it doesn't stink, but you know, vagina vagina, you know what I'm saying?
	Like, or maybe it doesn't grip as much, or you know, maybe she can't suck that good or something like that.
	So that shit don't necessarily bother me.
	Now it depends on who you fucked.
	Right.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And where you fucked.
	If you if you when you had a time in Wisconsin, which I don't give a fuck, I don't like nobody from Wisconsin.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So for me, I know this is like going against everything y'all stand for personally.
	I don't really give a fuck as long as like everything is how it's supposed to be.
	So out of sight of the mine type shit.
	All right.
	Dom, what do you look for in a woman?
	Man, that's crazy answer.
	Uh one, you know what I'm saying?
	But I've been I've been to a lot of dated a stripper and I was fucking with her.
	I've dated a OnlyFans girl, I've dated a bottle girl, I've dated a nurse.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And I think being in Miami, it's a little different because you're exposed as a guy, especially in the uh in the streets, everything.
	Like young, old stripper.
	I wouldn't date a porn star.
	That I wouldn't do.
	Really?
	That nah I wouldn't do that.
	That I that's probably that's where I draw the line.
	I wouldn't do a porn star.
	Wait, what's the difference?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	But where do you draw the line in the difference between porn star and only fans girl?
	Ooh.
	Um, so only I'll tell you why.
	OnlyFans girl is the c the world that we live in now, everyone's making videos with their nigga and their girl.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So if you want OnlyFans and you're selling videos of you and your nigga, whatever.
	It is what it is.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like that were her niggas or just randomly.
	It's honestly.
	It would be it would really be case by case.
	Again, because you can be a porn star on OnlyFans.
	That's because they're not they're not necessarily super different, but they're not necessarily exactly the same.
	Two things can be true at the same time.
	So it really depends on what you got going on in your OnlyFans.
	If you fucking a bunch of different niggas, like a porn star, yeah, I'm not fucking with that.
	But if you OnlyFans and you did some shit with your boyfriend for two years, oh whatever.
	I don't give a fuck.
	I'm not gonna go subscribe and look at it.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I I don't think my friends are gonna screen record and send it to me, but I'm strong.
	Well, see, it's our boy, I don't know.
	But um I'm strong enough that you know I'm saying I could take like I I'll take it.
	If you keep playing with me, I'll just fight you.
	Stop talking about my bitch.
	Stop talking about my bitch.
	There's my bitch.
	Okay, okay.
	Dom, how would you look what you look for in the girl?
	I guess I could say, I mean, you know, peace is a good answer, but I would say I'll to look for a woman when I'm looking for a woman, it's to be like clay, more so because women, it doesn't matter how they start off, they're never really perfect for you.
	And I noticed the older they get, the less they're willing to listen.
	So I would say submission, but I'm not asking for a girl to be completely like dumb, submissive, and waiting on my answer on everything.
	I want her to want ambition, have ambitions, but at the same time allow me to play my role to help evolve and elevate them to be like clay.
	Because none of us are perfect, but the man, my job is to make you better.
	You got some colloquialism, my boy.
	You got some shit.
	You got some.
	So yeah.
	That's just the goal, just to play my role to make them better.
	But a lot of women, they're resistant because they've met man after man that disappoint them, they're not willing to be that clay anymore.
	And so they're less attractive to us because we're here to give you something to soak up.
	If I can't teach you anything, I don't even want to sleep with you.
	It's pointless.
	So I'm looking for a woman willing to evolve.
	I want to learn from my partner.
	I get that.
	And I am always evolving, like I said before.
	And I evolve from the people I surround myself with and the people I choose to surround myself with.
	Um, like I I think that we can lift each other up and we should grow together.
	Um in a relationship, you can grow together, you can grow apart, and you can build each other up, you can tear each other down.
	And like I think that I like even though I have an evolved sense of self at this point in my life compared to who I was before, like I never want to stop growing and changing.
	Like, even my grandmother is currently growing and changing in ways that you'd never expect a grandmother.
	I want to ask you a question.
	You don't, if you say if I told you to put the shoes on or what shoes to wear, that was that would we'll be the wrong way.
	If we went, if we went out on a date, not necessarily and we sat down to eat, where would you sit?
	Do you put any thought in where you sit?
	I appreciate when the man is gonna see is gonna you know pull out the chair for me and want me to sit in uh the better seat where I have a better uh view of the restaurant or something.
	How damn you see like I appreciate those things.
	I do appreciate those chivalrous and like family gestures and stuff.
	See, that answer is why you should listen to me when I tell you what shoes to wear.
	Because when we go to a restaurant and sit down, I'm looking at the door, so if there's an active shooter coming in, I can tell you to get down.
	That's my job as a man to protect you.
	We take it on a whole different level.
	So since I can see shit.
	Well you don't, so that's it.
	But that's why I lead that way because I know that I'm qualified to tell you that.
	But but see, he's saying from a safety standpoint.
	Remember, comfort and safety was your main objective.
	He's saying, I got you.
	I'm the man, don't worry.
	I appreciate that.
	Uh but in the beginning, that's not where this this is not how this came across when we first when you missed that opportunity with that man because he told you to put shoes on.
	Men like that tell you what shoes to wear.
	The men that's going to protect you, the men that's looking out for you.
	But communication, and that communication was lacking.
	He did it.
	But hold on, hold on.
	If there's an active shooter, right?
	And he told you to sit over here.
	I really hope there's no active shooter.
	But he said to sit here.
	You think it's time to say, oh, well, babe, just so you know, so it is because X, Y, Z. No, you gotta get down.
	No, no, no.
	You tell me that in advance.
	Or I get to know you, and we're we know each other already.
	And I know he's looking out for me, and it's coming from a place of safety.
	I'll never bring that up.
	I don't ever bring that up.
	I'm never bringing that up to women.
	That's not my job.
	We're here to eat and hopefully fuck after we done.
	I'm not trying to take that down.
	I'm just talking about it.
	Let's go!
	It's just my job to make sure you say you know, you gotta love that.
	I think it's my job.
	I just think I think I think at the root at the court, you fuck with what he's saying, is his delivery.
	I think that's a good thing.
	That's what I'm saying.
	It's the communication.
	That's why that's what's rubbing her the wrong way.
	You're not saying it's wrong, is it that's a good for being a energy is?
	So it's not what he's saying is how you're saying it.
	No, it's it's that there's there was some context missing.
	It's it's we can't.
	I'm a communication expert here, okay?
	So I'm saying speech pathologists.
	But what I'm saying is is the based on the context that I had and what we were talking about and dominance and all these other pieces to the puzzle of what we were talking about.
	It sounded like your perspective on that was like I'm gonna be controlling, I'm gonna tell my woman what to wear, I'm gonna tell my women, and I want to elevate her, and that's gonna be that's my job as a man.
	And I I think that it's a it's uh we elevate each other, and I I think I love to be with somebody who also wants to learn and grow, and I can be a source of that too, and I want them to respect me in that way.
	But without the context, I didn't belittle the woman in no way.
	I just told her set the standards what she was where.
	It shouldn't have really gave off any red flags from you unless you had some type of experiences to make you feel like a man that talked that way.
	It's negative.
	But like you say it's trauma.
	But you should identify a man that talks like that and say, That is the potential husband.
	That's the type of guy I should be running towards, not away from it.
	Well, it you know, they're gonna say other things to me too.
	So it's the whole package, right?
	I don't I don't immediately walk away from somebody based on one thing that they say to me ever.
	Like I I'm listening, I'm always listening as much as I'm talking.
	And the context is the thing that stops you from actually talking about a person.
	I know I talk a lot, but I also listen.
	I just can't imagine how many guys you might have met that need to get the full context.
	There could be possible husbands you could have had that you didn't get the full context on.
	No, no, no, I don't walk away from people right away.
	Okay.
	So what you say about the restaurant and shootings, so sitting so you can see the door.
	I think that's a beautiful thing that yes, a man should do.
	That's how my dad would sit with my mom.
	However, a lot of men, going back to the question before that men are pussies these days, a lot of men don't think like that.
	Yeah, exactly.
	That's not my experience with men looking out for my safety to that regard.
	Like in New York, there were some guys that would walk on the side of the sidewalk to protect me.
	And I and that was like it, and I appreciate that gesture, but I haven't even had that down here in so long.
	But but hold on, hold on.
	I get what you're saying.
	Most men are not like that.
	But to his point, when you meet a guy like that, and you dismouth because of things he's saying a certain way, you just lost him.
	Yeah.
	Right.
	But I don't let go of them from one thing that they said.
	I'm open to hearing the whole all the context, but uh all I had initially was the first part.
	That's it.
	Okay, so real quick, ladies.
	Let's say we just discuss how men are currently.
	How should man measure up for you to be your man?
	How how do the man measure up for you?
	I think they need to heal first.
	I think they need to heal first.
	Okay, it's not.
	Let's say let's say they're healed.
	What do they need to measure up to be your man?
	Let's say he's watching right now.
	If 10 kids walk right now, 10K and watch it.
	I can't I can't.
	I don't know.
	I don't know exactly like that answer.
	You know what I mean?
	Because that's scary though.
	It's hold on.
	Imagine, right?
	Imagine.
	He's in front of you.
	You can't even see him.
	Okay, yeah.
	Well then he doesn't he's not trying to be seen then.
	You know what I mean?
	Like it's that's not the case.
	I'm telling you, and when it's your time to find that right person, it's gonna it's gonna correlate.
	Everything the stars are gonna align.
	You don't know that.
	Does that make sense?
	What if he was in front of you the whole time you didn't see him?
	What if he was in your past and you just you just dissed him off?
	Now you're single forever.
	Maybe listen, listen, no, no, no.
	Maybe it wasn't meant to be back then, but it could be now.
	It isn't.
	How old do you know?
	I'm 30 I'm about to be 31.
	So I'm not sure.
	Are you getting older and prettier?
	Okay, well, I'm getting older.
	No, I'm not gonna I'm not Benjamin Button, but but the point is you're going upward.
	And and officers are going downward.
	You get yeah, but a lot of older women look younger because of you know, Botox and you know everything out there, whatever.
	But I mean, I mean, realistically, like when it's my time to find the right person, I'll find them.
	I'm gonna be real honest with you.
	Okay, we're gonna pray for you, okay?
	Um please, thank God.
	That's funny over spent all that nice.
	Okay, what about you?
	Okay.
	So honestly, it's not even about looks, it's not about age.
	It's more about really if I yeah.
	What is what if it's Indian?
	What if it's wait age?
	Indian.
	Oh, is he Indian?
	Oh, I'm open to that too.
	Chinese?
	I'm open to everyone.
	Let me nationality, yes.
	Yes.
	I don't care what race you probably don't see color.
	I don't see color.
	What if he's fat?
	I also like I like that.
	Yes, you got a chance to go.
	I do, I do, I do.
	But this is the caveat.
	Well, come here.
	I'm working, I'm working.
	Uh we got a friend over here.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	No, so I think at the end of the day, my partner has to be savvy and smart enough to save me out of a third world prison.
	So wow.
	That's that's you can't.
	Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what's it love and so.
	Yeah, that is fucking specific as hell, bro.
	So can you repeat that?
	I mean, there's my high IQ here.
	So that's true.
	How how was somebody because you're in America right now, right?
	Yes.
	How would somebody save you from a third country if you're in America?
	So, say for instance, we're like, I don't know, in Colombia.
	Okay.
	You know, say for instance, like, I don't know, we get moved over, we're trying to go see some.
	Because that's the only nigga that's jacked up.
	Yeah, he's a whole different country.
	You want a Navy Seal for real?
	You talk about some extra shit there.
	No, no.
	If the nigga's fat, how did he get you out of there?
	Rolling, rolling, rolling, not rolling.
	But that's the craziest part of the COT.
	I love this.
	I love this.
	I you know, it it what I'm trying to test at is resourcefulness.
	At the end of the day, like what if we're caught in a bind, whether it be in America or not, like how are we gonna solve this together?
	I done heard a lot of qualifications.
	That's a crazy hardest one.
	I like that.
	That's the hardest one.
	This this nigga gotta be ready to reveal.
	Look, see then he's like, what the fuck?
	Oh yeah, come here.
	You don't know what's happening right now.
	Maybe it's him.
	You're into dogs?
	Okay, what about you?
	Tim, I think I want a man who is emotionally intelligent, who has done some healing.
	I used to work in an ayahuasca church.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Okay, question.
	What have you taken ayahuasca?
	I have.
	I've sat seven times.
	Oh well.
	Okay, so are you like enlightened?
	Are you like enlightened?
	Uh I uh that's a big word.
	I don't that's a big word.
	I'm he I've got to be.
	I am.
	Oh, you oh you've done it?
	No, no, no.
	I just want to God, bro.
	But no no.
	Um so so okay, he he has to be enlightened.
	I'm sorry, I'm I guess like uh on your same level.
	Um I have emotional intelligence.
	That's it.
	Uh yeah.
	What's your type like six foot black, white Asian, Hispanic?
	Oh, I've dated all over.
	I date both genders, every shape and size.
	Okay, what else other than high EQ is?
	I think that I also think that people there's a connection.
	Like somebody can be completely your type on a piece of paper.
	You could check all of the boxes I think I want, but we could hang out, and I s my body would still not want to sleep.
	True, true.
	So at that point there has to be that connection, and that's a feeling that you get it or not.
	The chemistry.
	Yeah.
	That's a very good answer.
	It's very tricky, but okay.
	What about you?
	To measure up to your standards.
	I I said a lot about uh You did say that earlier.
	Um I do one of the things one of the things that makes dating difficult for me in Miami is that I'm looking to date a Jewish guy.
	I want to marry a Jewish guy too.
	Right to raise my children Jewish.
	I'm not super religious, it's a cultural thing, and especially with like everything going on in the world, like is it pressure from your parents too as well?
	No.
	My mom my mom recently gave me permission to date non-Jew.
	To like marry someone who's not Jewish.
	A black guy is funny.
	So no negative.
	Oh, sorry.
	Yeah, she had like a glass of wine and she was like, I gotta tell you a secret, Taylor.
	Really?
	She's like, it's okay.
	It's okay.
	Cause she knew how hard it's been for me.
	Yeah.
	To you know, to find find what I'm looking for.
	No, but dating in Miami is hard, but adding the Jewish factors.
	It's limiting.
	So um they all have money.
	So they all are here tricking.
	Yo, they're an eleven doing everything, nigga.
	You feel what I'm saying?
	Sorry, go ahead.
	It's um but yeah, it's it's important to me.
	I did date uh like one of my first boyfriends, he wasn't Jewish, and I realized that I want to I don't want to have a Christmas tree in my home.
	I want to be like proud.
	I want to raise my family to my to be proud of their Jewish heritage.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Um, and so yeah, I don't want to compromise on that, and I don't want to make anybody give up something that's important to them for me.
	Like I just want it to be a match for both of us.
	What do you think about um that yahoo?
	I don't want to talk about this cool stuff.
	Is it real?
	Oh just all right, cool.
	Um play here.
	Yeah, this video actually shows um again what we're talking about right now in detail.
	And it's funny because most women nowadays can't find their match because the standards are way too high, but we'll play it.
	If a guy is coming into my space.
	I'm about to be 25.
	Do you have a man?
	No, I've never had a man because my bar is up here, and all I'm receiving these days is uh bare minimum.
	You're 25 and you've never had a man, you've never been in a relationship.
	Uh I was plus size till I was 18.
	But that was what, eight years ago?
	I'm now come come c come close.
	I'm about to be 25.
	That's not that far away.
	But like when I I got officially slimmer at 19, I was like, okay, everyone's I I'm gonna get a boyfriend.
	Everyone just wants to fuck.
	Guys like girls with no personality.
	I intimidate half of the people I try to entertain.
	Have you been watching Love Island I Am Amaya?
	And I won't settle for less.
	If I'm not if I'm not the book, you should be reading the don't motherfucking read it, bitch.
	Okay, let me ask you.
	Take me as you take me.
	What would you bring to a man's life besides looks?
	No, no, no, and this is this is the number one thing that people should hear.
	I can offer myself everything.
	When I want a man, I need you to be adding to my life because I could sit in my room by myself and enjoy my life.
	That's not I I'm the prize, my guy.
	And then I feel like no, hold on, and I feel like I'm not trying to add to anybody's life.
	I'm a woman.
	I'm not seeking a man, I'm not seeking that.
	If a guy is coming into my space and he wants to be with me, I need you to be adding to my life.
	Because if you're not, I enjoy sitting alone by myself, talking to myself, being alone with myself, and I enjoy it and I love it.
	Like really men don't bring peace to your life, they bring uh trauma.
	How old are you?
	I'm about to think alone.
	She has a lot of she she she has a lot of personality.
	She seems fun.
	That's why I was so cool.
	So is she justified?
	Is she is she actually acting right?
	You think she can sit alone the rest of her life then, like she said.
	I'm dead ass.
	What do you think?
	Well, luxury doesn't say that it's luxury, so that's just all right.
	What do you think?
	I think she's 24 and she's from Miami.
	25.
	25 in fact.
	Get it right, 25.
	Okay, excuse me.
	Yeah, yeah.
	But I do think that that yeah, see, thank you.
	I do think that uh kind of like what you said, that it's just the perpetual battle, and that a lot of girls at that age that's kind of how they are now.
	Yeah.
	I do think that the hookup culture is kind of a problem, and I do think that dating apps are a contributor to that.
	It's so easy to access, you know, if you are someone who's always looking for the greener grass, then you can do that in the way that the world works.
	Um so I can understand it being hard and even harder than when I was her age, um, to be in a relationship with someone.
	But at the same time, uh I I mean I do think that both people need to add to the to the relationship.
	I don't think that I'm not like I'm princess over here and I'm waiting for you to make to make my life better.
	But I do think that when it's right, we're elevating each other.
	So uh this video just shows a lot of stuff where most women nowadays may be single forever.
	And it's because standards are way too high.
	And in her case, no offense.
	She's men at best.
	That's a fucking five or four.
	If if you're lucky.
	Now, mind you, she is bold and proud about her stance on finding a man.
	But at the same time, I guarantee you, she's been smashed a couple of times.
	Now, she didn't say that on camera, but from her actual responses, you can tell, I don't need no man, I'm not skinny man.
	She'd be smashed a couple couple times.
	So, Dom, and this is example here.
	What do you think she can do to find her man?
	She can't.
	That bitch is loud, ghetto, insufferable, chopped, and built backwards.
	He's setting sufferable.
	Nothing that bitch can do, bro.
	Bro, you cannot, you cannot be like you can't be louder than the bad bitches.
	Yeah, like bro, none of these women are as loud or as annoying as her.
	Yeah, and she has way more confidence in them.
	Yeah, it's crazy.
	And then she's stuck on her past.
	Like the bitch can't even get into the present or even look at the future.
	She's chopped.
	Prince, what do you think?
	All right, you know, I you know, I'll be going against the grain.
	So I'm I'm a I'm a girls' guy, right?
	I have five sisters.
	I'll say this.
	One, beauty's in the eye of the beholder, right?
	Not all of our family members are bad bitches.
	I know all of us got some not so great people in our chop people in our family, you know what I'm saying?
	Um, with that being said, just because someone's not beautiful doesn't mean they don't deserve to be loved.
	She can have all that personality, and there's gonna be somebody that loves her.
	I do believe she's a little bit, I think she's exaggerating embellishing this a little bit because she's on camera.
	Sorry, because she's on camera, this that and the third.
	But beauty's in the eye of the beholder.
	Someone's gonna love her for her personality, this that and a third.
	She does have a lot going on.
	I will say she's also right about everyone wants to fuck.
	We all do want to fuck, but some people you'll fuck and you'll end up in a relationship with.
	There's a girl that I I fucked with the first time we were together for five years, you know.
	Um, but to to bring it all back together, she she is uh I do believe she's doing a lot, but there's someone that's gonna love her for who she is, that personality that she has.
	Again, this is just what she's showing for for this camera in front of her homegirl.
	But when she's with someone that makes her feel soft or makes her feel some, she might that might tone down a little bit, you know what I'm saying?
	I think she's just being extra for the camera, but I don't think her being me at mid doesn't mean that she doesn't deserve to get what it is she wants.
	I think she's just being extra for the camera.
	I personally think she's being extra for the camera.
	So I have I have cousins, you know, they're a little bit like that, and they're they're big, but they're funny, you know, they're not saying they don't think they know they know themselves, they know they're big, they know they're not fucking Tyra Banks and this, that and the third, and they accept it, but they're who they are.
	You know what I'm saying?
	When they are in a presence of a man that they fuck with, they tone that shit down.
	I think if she's goes in the presence of someone she actually fucks with, she'll turn it on.
	So this is what you call, I think, wishful thinking.
	Because let's be real here.
	This lady right here, right, bro, um, is cooked.
	I mean, I think worse than you.
	Because in the case, is she drunk or she's sober?
	I don't know.
	I don't know what she is right now at the current standard.
	Yeah, she doesn't seem sober.
	But let's say she is drunk, what's coming up the truth?
	So, in essence here, she's saying t telling the world, listen, I don't need no man.
	I can do everything myself.
	Fuck niggas.
	I got this.
	I'm the bad bitch.
	And I get it.
	The confidence is there, but to what avail.
	This just means sick this tells me single old cats.
	That's what it tells me, bro.
	And it's crazy that if it would take the right man to tone her down, it's completely unfair to men because we're being told here that men supposed to heal first.
	So she don't need to.
	She needs to heal.
	She has to do that, she has to do that shadow work herself.
	She has to be able to heal before she is even approachable.
	For me, uh, I'm just a little bit more empathetic when it comes to women because I I come from a single mother household where it was just her, you know what I'm saying, and having to raise me and then raise my little sister.
	So I just have a little bit more grace for women like this.
	I feel like she's just young, you know what I'm saying?
	She's gonna grow and I I do I I I hear you, but I do feel like there's someone that's gonna soften her up.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Someone that's gonna make her that's gonna love her for her, make her feel like she's the only girl in the world, you know what I'm saying?
	And all that shit will wash.
	But here's the issue though.
	Almost 25, right?
	Going on 30s, if it's too late, who's gonna like for us?
	It's not too late.
	She's young.
	Yeah, but past 30, you're you're getting to that age.
	Uh no, people.
	I I work with parents, okay, and these parents are in their 40s having kids right now, having their second child.
	But that's that is a risky uh.
	But that is so many parents in Miami that I'm working with.
	Like it's not just one, it's not just it is the norm.
	I I understand, but it's still very very risky.
	They could die, they can't make it.
	But they're not.
	I like this is maybe yours, but I know others that work.
	But that can happen at any that can happen in childbirth at any time.
	But it's way higher when they're way older.
	I'm I'm just saying, right now, she should be humble.
	No, she actually's drunk, she's having fun, and she's probably in she has some insecurity.
	Because she's just like, everybody does carry.
	Yeah, and she's being asked these questions, and yeah, that she's still holding on.
	She hasn't fully healed from that.
	And she's trying to like look tough.
	She's trying to like, she's trying to present herself in a certain way on camera.
	She doesn't want to be like, oh, I'm desperate.
	I'm not with somebody.
	She's uh I've never been with somebody.
	Poor me.
	She's like saying that she doesn't need a man to cover for some of that insecurity.
	But then even just a little bit.
	I mean, again, she's she's kind of like OD, but some of the things where she was like, you know, I can do certain things for myself, right?
	I like I said, I have five sisters.
	I don't want none of my sisters fuck with no bum nigga.
	I want them to fuck with someone who's gonna love them for them and treat them, give them that little fairy tale fan fantasy that they want.
	You know what I'm saying?
	But that that's because I have five sisters.
	You know, so I I don't think it's wrong for women to be like, hey, if I can go to Saks and buy myself some heels, you know what I'm saying?
	My nigga, you should be able to do that too.
	You know, that's just because I'm biased.
	I have five sisters.
	Which established man that's successful that's worked his ass off to get to the top isn't tolerate that bullshit.
	Yeah.
	Please.
	Oh nah.
	But she's not gonna, but she's not gonna get that.
	You gotta say you you you you you gotta bring she's not gonna get that person.
	But she's gonna get a personal.
	She don't want the nigga at the bottom in the middle.
	She wants to get the top.
	So dump.
	Does that make sense?
	And it doesn't.
	No.
	But wait, there's niggas at the top that aren't six four, great looking.
	There's some nerdy looking niggas that got bred and they know that they're they're nerds and they gotta pay for pussy, or they don't they don't not everyone that's successful ha is a is a Caesar or a Cedric or you or me, you know what I'm saying?
	There's there's there's there's niggas that aren't and they just leave normal lives.
	I agree, but what what often she's gonna find out guy he's anywhere that now that's very slim is very slim, yeah.
	So you know I I have uh three sisters, I don't have five, but at the same time, I have my little sister, and I never prepare her for failure.
	I'll tell her what a man like me is looking for.
	You just gotta give them reality.
	She shouldn't live in a world of delusions.
	Oh, best believe I get my sister's listen, you might want to go get in a treadmill.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I'll tell my sister.
	But yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Just she's not gonna be able to do it.
	But if she does, if my sister does decide to say a big bitch, yeah, there's there's there's a nigga that's gonna love her for that.
	You know what I'm saying?
	But at the same time, we all know that nigga ain't gonna be as good as the one that Mata loved.
	She was on the trip mill.
	I'll tell my sister.
	You're gonna find love, but you might not find the love that you deserve.
	You're gonna give up on your dreams the same way that people men give up on their dreams and settle for less.
	Women do the same thing in love the older they get.
	She's got time, she's only 25.
	You can find a man that loves you.
	You can find a man that cherishes you, but at the same time, that might be a man that's desperate.
	It's not a man that has many options, and no woman really wants that.
	They want to feel special.
	You don't feel special when you're talking to someone that's desperate.
	I think that there's there isn't just I think that it's hard to find the right person for you if you're looking for the if you're looking for the best person for you.
	I think it shouldn't be easy to find datings about finding all the wrong people until you find the right one.
	Like, it's I I just don't think that I think that there is gonna be someone out there for her.
	Maybe he's loud.
	Maybe he's loud and obnoxious, and that's the person for her.
	Don, let me ask you something.
	What is the premise of having a relationship then?
	Like, what do you what's your what's the central focus of having a good relationship?
	Um focused on building the empire.
	Does that include children as well?
	Yes.
	What if the what if one partner doesn't want children?
	That's not a partner for me.
	It's too easy.
	I'm not about to force that on her.
	She got the right to choose to believe how she wants to.
	It's very important for me.
	I've worked too hard to let this die with me.
	Yeah.
	So I gotta give it to someone.
	Okay, like that.
	That's fair.
	Some sense latent conversation.
	Yeah, uh sorry about that, guys.
	Scream is black.
	So um, yeah, I I just think, man, like if you want to have a man a certain caliber, you gotta be on uh realize what it really takes to have that man and know what he wants as well, but she's kinda like in her overall, so it's fine.
	Alright, um chats here or no guys.
	No.
	Alright, so we'll do last thoughts on the show and give your comments about the show here.
	Love it, and then we'll start here.
	Sorry, what?
	Thoughts on the show, comments?
	Like the sh our show, yeah.
	Okay.
	Any last comments, any last thoughts, any last uh things you want to say?
	I found it fun.
	And I like to hear everybody's different thoughts and uh I don't know, I really I really enjoyed it the dog here that love getting a little bit tired, but having a good yeah, sorry, uh quick slap just made this uh meme says this that ain't Prince, this is Prince.
	You forgot to bring the pancakes.
	How you funny, nigga.
	Screw your dog.
	You know what's funny too.
	I thought you said French Prince CEO the uh my nickname was Fresh Princess Salveach when I really damn.
	I was a huge uh Fresh Prince of Bel Air fan.
	Me too.
	Until he got uh destroyed by J Picker Smith.
	I actually I actually auditioned to to play uh Fresh Prince when they were doing the reboot on on Peacock, but I just didn't get picked.
	Oh man you been in a bunch of shows, alright?
	Yeah, I've been in a bunch of shows.
	Which one's you been on?
	Uh Love and Hip Hop Miami, Bad Boys, Eric Menis dating show.
	I'm leaving uh I'm leaving again in January to film the third season of Bad Boys.
	Oh shit.
	Uh huh.
	That's where I seen you in the movie.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	See, huh?
	At least our dogs, we don't shock.
	Shock the hero man, Hasanny piece of shit, bro.
	Shock your dog on camera, bro.
	Fucking weirdo.
	Uh hero's good though.
	Okay, what about you?
	Thoughts on the show.
	Oh, I thought it was great.
	I I think it's really interesting to hear all of the different opinions, and especially I'm not from Miami, I'm from a little bit more North Florida.
	And I know that the culture down here is so different.
	So it's just interesting.
	Thank you for coming.
	Thank you.
	I might try wait, what's it called?
	I wonder.
	IOSC.
	I'm just kidding, I won't try it.
	Uh but I love you.
	I actually, you know, was underestimating the show.
	I actually overestimated the show because I was like, oh my god, they're gonna be aggressive, you know.
	I'm a feminist, I'm a liberal, and they're gonna come for me, and then I guess not.
	I mean, I think it was pretty nice.
	Well no, you were saved this show.
	Uh my my other half is is abroad right now.
	So you were saved this show.
	I love it.
	I'm a nice guy.
	He is too, but he's just very direct.
	Uh what about you?
	I liked it.
	I liked hearing everyone's different perspective on uh relationship statuses and situations.
	Yeah.
	I'm glad you stayed.
	Shout out to you.
	Yeah.
	Ladies, uh some history here, but uh we won't get into it.
	We won't get into it.
	Um so fellas, thank you for watching, man.
	We'll be back on uh Monday uh for after hours and of course uh money Mondays.
	And Dom, where can I find you, brother?
	On Twitch, Dom Lucre, Twitter, uh YouTube, all other social.
	Prince, where can I find you?
	Prince has spoken um on Twitch on Poppy Rose, a two eyes.
	Um hey, appreciate you for having me, bro.
	Of course, bro.
	I was I've looked so honestly I was looking forward to my review.
	I thought we were gonna have a little, you know what I'm saying?
	But he would have came back at you for sure.
	I know for sure I was waiting for it.
	So uh thank you for watching, fellas.
	We're out of here, man.
	And guys, once again, podcast on YouTube, 305 podcasts.
	Look at it right there on screen.
	Go sub to that channel, tank it on the way.
	Let's go.
	Peace, we're out of here.

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