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Sept. 17, 2025 - Fresh & Fit

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Fresh&Fit Taking These Girls To Therapy

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	Guys, I'm here.
	We have Jeff on the panel.
	Welcome to the Henny Therapy podcast with the live ladies on the panel.
	Let's make it happen.
	Let's go!
	music music What did you do?
	music How many cars bro?
	Get out!
	Get out!
	music music In the night, no control F*** out
	Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't have to put them on in here.
	Alright, guys, I know you're wondering right now, where the fuck is my words fresh?
	Blah blah blah.
	Listen, niggas, I walked in, right?
	Got the girls ready.
	You know, Jeff is in the house.
	Shout out to Jeff.
	He's uh you know a well-known therapist, and then he has his uh own podcast going on.
	And apparently these niggas are sick.
	So uh two options for you niggas, alright.
	Either a cancel show and all the ladies are gone and you guys got no show, or you can have uh tequila or vodka Chris, I don't know what the fuck I'm drinking right now.
	I have vodka, you know.
	Tito's what have uh Tos?
	Yo, I walked in, it was a bottle of Tito, it was just sitting there waiting for me.
	You know what?
	The show goes on!
	Hey, guys, show goes on, man.
	The world mind will turn on.
	Uh fresh works hard, so let's have the show already, right?
	And then we have Jeff, he's watch Balkans.
	So look listen, guys, it's gonna be a different format.
	I know the special going on and stuff like that.
	It is what it is, man.
	So anyways.
	Um announcements.
	We I have none personally, just follow me in my socials.
	Oh yeah.
	Oh yeah, but go away.
	So anyways...
	Yo, you know what I'm saying?
	So hard, bro.
	Hey!
	So anyways, uh yeah, shout out to the supporters, you guys, uh the haters, lovers, and everything.
	So, with that being said, you know, I'm gonna go over the intro with the ladies, starting with a few questions, alright?
	Your name, age, where you from, your status, what do you do for work?
	And uh Ethnicity and your body count, ladies, okay.
	So starting with you.
	So what's your name?
	Ivana.
	Ivana, speaking to Mike, please.
	Ivana.
	Okay, where are you from?
	Like, where am I born?
	Yeah, where you're born in a Miami.
	Miami?
	No, like what's your background?
	Oh, I'm Dominican.
	Dominican.
	All right.
	How old are you?
	Twenty-eight.
	Twenty-eight?
	Oh, are you single?
	No.
	Single?
	Okay.
	We do for work?
	I sell health insurance.
	Huh?
	I sell health insurance.
	Health insurance.
	So you're not a stripper.
	No.
	Because uh, you know, uh, I caught her a ladder, you know what I'm saying?
	Or Jasmine.
	She walked in with the thing.
	What's that thing you had by the way?
	Like, what's like what's that for?
	Is it a fight statement?
	It's just how I felt today.
	I felt like wearing it, so you felt.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I like switching it up sometimes.
	Okay, high level education you completed.
	College.
	College?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So which college you been to?
	I went to FSW.
	Okay, that's where?
	Fort Myers.
	Okay, that's not bad.
	And uh, what's your body count?
	That's my business.
	I mean, hey, listen.
	Is that high?
	No, it's just my business.
	Is it because normally if it's lower, you would actually say, you know what?
	I would still say it's my business.
	Oh, okay.
	All right, all right.
	I mean, are you married?
	I'm not married, no.
	Alright, well, let's see what happens.
	All right, next.
	How'd she say she?
	She's 28.
	So, you know, she has a you know, she's she's not married, she has about two years.
	Jeff, what do you think?
	I will not comment on that yet.
	Okay.
	I want to get through the intros at least.
	Alright, let's go.
	How about you?
	What's your name?
	Tamzin.
	Chanzen?
	Tamzin.
	Tomzin.
	Okay.
	What's your age?
	I'm 20.
	20.
	Okay, okay, okay.
	I I love that accent.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from London.
	Oh, yeah, which part of one then?
	Bombard!
	I'm from West London.
	West London.
	Is that is that the ghetto side?
	She's from Brixton?
	Brixton?
	No, that's South.
	Oh.
	Well, maybe not.
	Oh yeah?
	South pro kind of ghetto, yeah.
	Okay.
	Um, what's your status?
	Relationship status?
	Single.
	Oh, single?
	And uh, okay.
	I mean single, ready to mingle, or not really.
	Oh, sorry, sorry.
	So you're not fucking?
	No.
	So, okay, you know what?
	What's your body count?
	I'm gonna get right into it.
	Seven?
	At 20.
	Yeah.
	Damn, you was fucking early, huh?
	16.
	So 6C?
	Allegedly.
	Allegedly.
	Moving on, Smart.
	Is that early?
	Yeah, it's early, man.
	Like I'm younger Virginia.
	I was up on Virginia at 21.
	Yeah, I was a nervous.
	I was doing my thing.
	I play football.
	I ran track.
	Yes.
	Um, yes, niggas, I used to run track, I don't play football, okay?
	Right, you know, whatever it is, what it is.
	Um, but okay.
	And yeah, so uh Ivana.
	Also, are your parents together?
	Are my parents together?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Thank you, Mo.
	Uh, what do you do for work?
	You.
	Who me?
	Yeah.
	Oh, I just work in a bank.
	Oh, you work in a bank?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay, which bank do you mind?
	HSBC.
	I have no idea.
	One's in the UK.
	Okay, alright, cool.
	I mean, so far, no strippers on the panel.
	Wait, raise your hand if you're a dancer.
	Because I'm I'm a no one's dancing on this on this.
	You sure?
	Dancer, like South Sun?
	No, I just no, I saw the poll on a trip hole.
	Like, I mean vote.
	Only fans?
	Is that a big boat?
	Okay, we got one.
	Damn, she ruined it.
	Okay, um.
	Ethnicity.
	I'm just British.
	So you're not white, uh black.
	You don't know your ethnic background?
	Yeah.
	I'm just white.
	You just wet?
	What?
	White.
	Oh, okay.
	So you're just wet.
	That's what I heard.
	Her accent went when ham just now.
	So I don't know.
	So are you on birth control?
	Birth control?
	Yeah.
	Implant.
	Realize.
	And Ivana, you two are you on birth control?
	No.
	So uh what's your body count?
	Me?
	Yeah.
	Seven.
	Seven?
	What are you copying paste from her?
	She said seven.
	She said that she didn't answer.
	Oh, okay.
	I thought she said seven.
	He's right.
	See, he's losing this.
	Alright, well, she's paying attention.
	And you so are you.
	That's why Jeff is her, niggas.
	Uh um, well, not you girls and niggas.
	She's on nigga here and Jeff, but the chat.
	Alright, how about you?
	What's your name?
	My name is Gigi.
	Gigi.
	Okay.
	What's your age?
	I'm 20 as well.
	Birthdays in three days, baby last year.
	In three days?
	Yeah.
	That's why we're here.
	So what sign is that though?
	Duggo.
	Oh, Virgo.
	Yeah.
	Oh, no wonder.
	Okay.
	No one.
	Virgo are great.
	Uh uh, no, that's fine.
	My ex was a Virgo.
	Alright, so where are you from?
	I'm from Bristol, England, but I live in Gibraltar.
	I have done a god.
	Is that like ghetto?
	It's a lot of Jamaicans of niggas?
	Yeah.
	Oh, so you say you say fuck black guys.
	Yeah.
	Okay, alright.
	Are you single?
	I am.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What do you for work?
	Um a safer gambling officer.
	Oh, what?
	Safer gambling officer.
	A safer gambling officer?
	Yes.
	What is that?
	Like the the safer side of gambling, the financial side of gambling, just making sure that people don't spend too much money.
	Oh, so like do they hate you?
	Like gambling.
	Yeah, they hate us.
	Yeah, they hate us.
	I work I work for a specific company.
	So how's that work?
	That people just say, hey, look, I'm trying to gamble, but I'm not trying to get conned.
	No, no.
	If they spend a certain amount of money, then a trigger pops up and I would check their their account, their financial situation, and just make sure they're not spending above their means.
	Yeah, but do they go to you first for help, or do you just like see what's going on with the bank?
	They can.
	They can come to us.
	Okay, so she worked at a bank, right?
	So you two were together?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	Do I have money?
	Okay, so it's like it's one of the things where clients have to come to you, girls and have to come to you and then not necessarily.
	I've got all the information.
	So if they've spent over 600 pounds, 600, um, their account will flag, so I'll look through their account and just make sure that their activity is you know.
	Oh, so you're the one that calls my phone every every fucking uh spending too much money.
	Oh, it's okay.
	So um oh, sorry, so you're not a scam then.
	It's not it's not a scam.
	Oh, because like just call me randomly.
	Talk about money.
	I'm thinking you're a scam, you know.
	No, 100%.
	It would seem like a scam, but it's not.
	It's not.
	But we will ask you very invasive questions.
	I mean, if if if you would call me and talk to me, I'll be like, yeah, what's up, Eric?
	Talk to me slowly, right quick.
	Um what's your your ethnicity?
	Um English, Gibraltarian.
	Okay, that's that's um That's interesting.
	Yeah, it's interesting.
	I don't I don't know how first.
	Do you guys know where Gibraltar is?
	No bless you, no idea.
	No blessed.
	No.
	It's like the south of Spain, and it's English territory.
	Oh yeah, not a lot of people know.
	Alright, so are your parents together?
	No, they're not.
	Divorced?
	Passed away.
	Divorced.
	Okay, all right, cool.
	I mean your body count?
	Eight.
	So it's it's going up one by one.
	So nine?
	No.
	Oh, you're like, I was in a seven-year-old.
	So?
	Okay, you know what?
	What's the name?
	Nara.
	Nara.
	Okay.
	What's your age?
	23.
	Seven years.
	So since I was 15.
	15.
	How old was he?
	18.
	Oh.
	Freshman senior.
	Sophomore.
	Yeah, I mean, I think I guess he just pre-ordered off for yeah, pre-ordering from pre-order.
	Um fucking um elementary and shit.
	No, so just graduated.
	Oh also, um, Gigi, are your parents together?
	No, they're not.
	Thank you.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so where are you from?
	Uh Dominican Republic.
	Oh, so is she, right?
	Yeah, she's my cousin.
	Oh, your cousin?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Well, well, like French will say, Who's the baddest?
	Well, she is bad.
	No, you were seven years, she's single the whole life.
	Um not single.
	Oh, you're not single?
	No, no.
	Okay, well, she paused like this.
	So I thought she was maybe.
	I don't know.
	I can pause.
	Okay, I'm I'm just saying, if it's a situation ship, that's cool.
	No.
	Alright, so when you for work.
	I'm an account executive for a ship major shipping company.
	In the US.
	Oh I uh thought you did uh OF.
	I do.
	Part-time.
	Or okay.
	I mean, so which job will you like you like the most?
	Um not really on my OF.
	I don't manage it.
	Oh, so it's like no money, you're broke.
	No, it makes money.
	Oh I'm just not on it.
	I don't need to be on it.
	Oh, so it's like uh thing you just set up and forget it?
	Yeah.
	Do you have news on it and everything?
	Are you like fucking girls?
	No, no, no, no, no.
	Nothing like that.
	No.
	Just nudes.
	Yeah.
	Well, uh, can you do like a background check on that?
	I'm joking.
	Um verify.
	Highest level of um education?
	Uh associates and sonography.
	So like babies and shit?
	Uh scanning diagnostic medical sonography.
	So echocardiographic heart.
	Oh, the heart.
	Like um EKG and shit, right?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Umpleted.
	Associates and sonography.
	Okay.
	Are you parents together?
	Divorced.
	Damn.
	So no parents are together on this panel?
	My parents are together.
	Her parents have been married for a long time.
	Shout out to her.
	You know, she's uh holding herself properly.
	All right.
	Um what's your body count?
	Uh two.
	It is.
	Come on, Jeff.
	Do you believe that shit?
	I'm in a rel Wait, how old are you again?
	I'm 23.
	I just got out of my relationship.
	And I'm in another relationship right now.
	Well, she says she's got in a relationship at 15.
	And she just got out of this relationship.
	So on paper.
	She may be right.
	On paper is right.
	Yeah.
	But math is the math is math.
	But she's outside though.
	No, I have a man.
	I have a boyfriend.
	I mean So you've only been in two relationships?
	Since 15.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Like I had like little childhood like relationships, like in middle school.
	I mean, don't say all that.
	You know, I don't go pre, you know, 18, but um, because like once again in Miami my personal experience, many girls are, you know, they be fucking and sucking.
	Um, and all of a sudden they got a ring.
	They're married.
	Whole whole other nigga.
	So because you got a man doesn't mean you're you like you're loyal, but we're on a podcast, so I understand that, you know, trying to you know put airs, but um how many dicks you sucked in?
	What?
	Actually, that's a good question.
	It can be a quickie, guys.
	You know what I'm saying?
	That's a good position.
	Uh I got a man, but got you know what I'm saying?
	No, like someone driving you home on this nice car, you know.
	No, I don't I don't do that.
	You've never sucked a dick on car before.
	That's private.
	So yes.
	No, I'm saying I've been in obviously if you're in a relationship, you're gonna do fun things.
	All right, well, she she was trying to hold on her uh, you know, her heiress.
	All right.
	Um skipping Jeff for uh best for less.
	GG, your highest education.
	I I just finished school and that was it.
	I got just got straight into welcome.
	Um are you b on birth control?
	No.
	All right.
	Okay.
	All right, next.
	Um, what's your name?
	Sammy.
	Sammy?
	All right, what's your age?
	I am 24.
	24?
	Okay.
	Where are you from?
	Uh I was born in Boca, but I'm Albanian.
	Oh, Boca.
	Okay.
	You're born in Boca though.
	That's a funny.
	Born in Boca, but over there in Vero Beach area, Melbourne.
	Oh, so you're bougie then.
	She rich.
	I wish.
	She's the goal.
	Vera Beach is a nice place though, right?
	It is a nice place, yeah, for sure.
	Smaller town, definitely trying to move at some point.
	Yeah, uh I I went there for um uh Bible school.
	Did you?
	It's like in Vero or in Fort Pierce.
	In Vera Beach.
	Uh IRSC.
	Yeah, that's where I went to.
	We went in the in the cabins.
	Uh I don't know the area.
	I was like in high school.
	I didn't care.
	No, it was like churches.
	But um so are you single, right?
	Uh I'm single.
	Highest level of education?
	Uh college.
	I I went to cosmetology school.
	So I have uh I'm a certified cosmetologist.
	Which uh college?
	IRSC in Fort Pierce, Indian River State.
	Okay.
	Um so what did you fork again?
	To the X?
	Honestly, for work, I don't do much besides modeling.
	Okay, so you so you're bougie.
	So sugar daddy's and sugar.
	No sugar daddies.
	Come on, no sugar daddy.
	Yeah.
	I can put me as soon as we get to the introductions, I'll tell you which ones which of the ladies I believe in which ones I don't.
	I'm being as cool as possible.
	I wish that was the case.
	Speaking of blunt, do you smoke weed?
	Obviously.
	I have back pain.
	So like back pain.
	She can't hell yet.
	What's the cause of this back pain?
	Um, honestly, I feel like I look down all the time.
	So like all the minute.
	But I do what I do like when I'm at work at the salon, like I'm constantly like looking down, like makes sense.
	Getting the chemicals and color out of the hair.
	She gets her back blown, that's what it is.
	You know, I mean, I'm too small for that.
	What's your body count?
	Uh small.
	I'd like to keep it like around six.
	I'd say on one hand, but I think there's a lucky.
	All right.
	The girls from UK understand, you know, UK, I don't know that area too well.
	Uh bunker at on you and Miami.
	Don't tell me you you don't be outside Miami in clubs.
	Definitely not 100%.
	What do you say?
	110%.
	I'm not.
	But all right, niggas.
	If if you know her, hit me up, alright?
	Some screenshots.
	You need an investigation.
	I'm a hidden gem.
	Hidden gem?
	Hidden gem.
	Are you single?
	Yes, I am.
	I I recently got out of a relationship.
	And why is that?
	It was really abusive in certain ways.
	Well, actually, who uh just left our relationship uh seven years or someone?
	Okay, why did you and him break up?
	Um, so it was it's a lot, honestly.
	But the main reason is uh we both grew like we both want different paths.
	Grew apart.
	Interesting.
	Wait, so who said, Yeah, I'm tired.
	I'm you know, um like the sex stopped.
	So who said no to sex first?
	I never said no to sex.
	I never said no to sex.
	He didn't.
	Oh.
	He was depressed.
	Oh, he was depressed.
	Yeah.
	What was you doing to him?
	No, it wasn't me.
	We go we're gonna we're gonna revisit this.
	Let's just finish the intro.
	So I'm I'm gonna remember that piece.
	All right, all right.
	So uh what's your are your parents together?
	They are not.
	No, they die they got divorced when I was probably 12, maybe 13.
	Okay, so so far we're one and what, four or five?
	All right.
	Um Sammy and Nara.
	Are you birth control?
	No, not on breath control, no.
	Not currently, no.
	Oh, so we can show up the club then.
	Not me, that's a we mean like in general.
	What wait we?
	What did you say?
	Who's weak?
	And uh you too.
	And uh Sammy, right?
	Yes.
	Um Ethnicity?
	I'm Albanian.
	Alright.
	All right, next.
	Uh welcome back.
	What's your name?
	Um Jasmine.
	I'm 22.
	I'm a nail tech, hairstylist, a mom, a model.
	I do a lot.
	Um what's the next question?
	You're probably closer.
	Come a little closer.
	Um, I'm still at like eight to nine.
	I really like.
	Well, you still?
	I'm still at eight and nine.
	I haven't been active.
	I don't have a boyfriend.
	I've been single for a while.
	Um, I'm on a 90 day, so I'm not really partying, not outside.
	Yeah.
	It's like she's like, wait, are you in therapy right now?
	Chris, I'm not sure.
	Yeah, I am in therapy.
	Right before they came with a podcast, all of a sudden.
	Okay.
	It's like like the way she was talking, I'm like, that's supposed to be in therapy right now because she sound like she's like, it's counting the days.
	The days like she's like, hey, my name is Jasmine, wherever I'm like, I'm trying to get it out.
	She's getting it out.
	Okay.
	Shout out to you for being well, how are you?
	I'm 22.
	22?
	Shout out to you for being on therapy.
	Some girls are just uh 30 years old and they still think they don't need therapy.
	You know what I'm saying?
	You said you have one child.
	Yeah, I have one child.
	How old?
	He's three.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Um your body count is eight to nine, so I mean it's over nine children.
	She does therapy.
	I I believe it, man.
	Some girls be like delugial as fuck.
	Okay.
	Um, Mo, do you need anything else?
	Um how is the level of education?
	Um, I have a G E D. Oh, J D. Okay.
	Umicity.
	Um Haitian.
	Hey, hey!
	Oh!
	laughter
	All right.
	All right.
	Uh you answered everything, huh?
	Um are your parents together?
	Um, no, my mother passed, and my I just have my back.
	I was raised by him.
	I ain't playing it.
	Don't do it.
	Nah, go ahead, play it.
	I'm trying to there it is.
	I didn't know y'all, bro.
	Why would you do that?
	Why would you do that?
	Oh man.
	No, I don't think.
	Rumble, it was not me.
	Okay, no, because I wonder how y'all would feel if y'all said y'all parents died and somebody did that.
	That's fine.
	Like we are niggas saying.
	Well, y'all niggas, I'm a female.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I mean, it's fine.
	You know, like I know you can hold it.
	What?
	I know you can't hold it.
	Okay.
	Like you said, do it.
	So you said not to not to do it.
	Next question.
	Oh.
	Yeah.
	Um, listen, guys.
	It's fine.
	It's it's it's it's what it is.
	It's move on.
	But you know, I'm sorry for that to happen, but you know, it's one of those things where um, you know, it's it's a podcast, you know.
	Um you find that funny?
	It's not well, it's not funny.
	It's a podcast that finds things like that.
	All right, listen.
	Uh it's not funny that parents pass away.
	But end of the day, it's like that.
	Yeah, of course.
	No, no, well, like the town effect.
	Okay, so I do apologize if it's if it took it seriously.
	My bad.
	You know, if if because some girls say some girls, whatever, it's cool.
	I pass moved on.
	But for me to you, I do apologize if you took it, you know, if if if if it hurt your feelings, right?
	So I'm I'm just being straight up here, okay?
	So if mean to you, that's fine, but other girls take us up away.
	But you know, I drink Kenny, I talk I talk here, okay?
	You're good.
	Cool?
	Thank you.
	Alright, next.
	What's your name?
	My name is Summer.
	Your age?
	I'm 21.
	What are you from?
	I'm from New Jersey.
	Just recently uh relocated to Florida.
	Okay.
	Um are you single?
	Yes.
	Alright, what do you do for work?
	What do I do for work?
	I'm a model, and that's pretty much what I do.
	So you're broke.
	A model, and that's pretty much what I do.
	So who takes over your bills?
	Myself, my savings.
	How do you make money though?
	Like, how do you So you model with money?
	I model.
	Like what?
	Uh are you in Vogue?
	No.
	Like Drake said, if you're not a you know.
	If you're not a vogue, you're not a model.
	Well, it's how we met and we know each other because we both do modeling together.
	This is my best friend.
	So you two make money together.
	You do modeling what and what venues casinos.
	Casinos.
	Just marketing, rawboards.
	So you have billboards?
	Yes.
	Nice.
	Only fans?
	No.
	Nude.
	I'm very godly, no.
	Golly?
	Yes.
	We both are.
	Yes.
	Very, very conservative.
	So like do you show your body?
	Like do you model like dresses, you know?
	Yeah, some of them, some of them are bikinis that I do.
	Some shoots are very um sexualized, but at the end of the day, it's for work and so can guys jack off to your b your photos.
	If they want to, they jack off to feet or anything that they see that gets them up.
	Oh my god.
	Yeah.
	People are weird.
	Have you been paid for feet pics yet?
	Never.
	I don't do any of that stuff.
	Oh.
	I mean, uh, how old are you guys?
	I'm 21.
	Okay.
	I mean, not yet, at least.
	You wouldn't do that then?
	I don't think so.
	You wouldn't?
	You get paid to models.
	I literally am like, I've had like these weird messages come in saying that people wanted to buy like my youth socks, and I just think that's so weird.
	Well, like my wallet?
	I feel like I couldn't do that.
	Wait, how much do they know?
	I don't I don't even know.
	I'm thinking about it.
	I don't know.
	I mean I don't want to know.
	Would you do it though?
	No.
	I'm just very respectful of myself.
	Say yeah.
	Wait, you know what?
	I mean, uh I I would do feet feet modeling.
	I would not gonna lie.
	Okay, by feet modeling, you mean just like the just the picture?
	You mean like people putting stuff on your feet?
	Man, I'll drip some honey on my regular name.
	I got a couple friends that say cute stuff, man.
	Shit!
	This little piggy.
	If you think you either love it or hate it.
	I'll take care of your feet, because uh the only thing I mean, beauty is is your top factor, right, ladies?
	Because if you can't take care of your body or you know what like what do you have?
	Like no, if you have money, you ain't you ain't taking care of niggas.
	Amen.
	Correct?
	Raise your hand if if you'll take care of uh a guy in relationship.
	Oh no, you want to be single.
	I mean depends on the guy.
	All right, you know what?
	If he couldn't work his whole life, right?
	It's like you know what?
	Like if he had like you know, if like 30k, he's working stably, and you make at least I want to say 80k, right?
	Would you take care of him?
	No.
	What does he do?
	Nothing like he doesn't do nothing.
	He doesn't do anything.
	Does he cook?
	Does he clean?
	He's uh he's uh teacher.
	Okay, he's a teacher, but what I don't like to do in the house.
	What can he bring to the table?
	Hold on.
	This is the first time in the history I've ever heard somebody say they don't like teachers.
	Why?
	Not for me, like in a relationship, I wouldn't want my guy to be a teacher.
	Why not?
	I mean, I want to learn as much as I can from him, but like I just don't like it.
	No, it's just the teacher thing for me.
	No public teachers.
	Oh, so she's a free.
	She's a roleplay.
	It means like, yeah, students.
	And meet me after this class.
	I have to teach you, or you want to extra grade?
	Uh you want that a yeah, yeah.
	Sometimes you have to bring the apple.
	See, I thought she's a free.
	So ladies, having heard all of your introductions, first off, welcome.
	One of the things, and I know y'all might have some questions for me as well.
	Wait, before you begin, um the audience may not know you.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, you're right.
	Go ahead.
	Uh Before that, some sunshine.
	Yes.
	Um, sorry, aka my n my nickname is sunshine.
	I do prefer to be called sunshine.
	Are your parents together?
	Um, yes.
	Ethnicity.
	I'm East European.
	Which one?
	I don't know.
	I took a DNA test, my heritage.
	Oh, that's cat, bro.
	Um, your body count?
	I prefer not to talk about that.
	Sunshine, right?
	That sounds like a dancer's name.
	And no, I actually just got the sunshine.
	She's my sunshine.
	Who?
	My only sunshine.
	Oh, so you know her?
	I know her from now.
	All right.
	She's uh she she wants to take feet papers to you, you know.
	I'm gonna send her the weirdest.
	I like to do that.
	I'm gonna send her the weirdest on my phone.
	I told her.
	Oh, so you're calling them like um got to a weird weirdos.
	Yeah, whoever wants the whatever gets them all.
	Okay, all right.
	Um guys, um Jeff, you mind the audience?
	Yeah.
	All right, one go through.
	Fresh and fit um fans, people in the chat.
	My name is Jeff St. James.
	I'm a host of Ask a Brother Podcast.
	Uh my podcast went viral.
	I think I had 130 subscribers in July, and now it's at like 25,000.
	Yeah, man.
	So things are happening.
	I think people are really gravitating towards the new uh content.
	I just cover obviously psychology and mental health, but I also give my actual opinions about a whole host of things.
	Not everything people love or are a fan of.
	Um it seems like when whoever I'm talking to, the other group likes it.
	When I'm talking to women about things I think they can improve on, the men seem to be happy about that.
	When I'm talking to the men about things they can get better at, the women are like, yeah, tell them.
	Yeah, tell them so.
	What I'm learning and realizing is that um, you know, I think there's a lane for all of us to get better, and my goal is to play my small part to play and try to help us get there.
	Yes, sorry.
	All right, and guys, once again, if you're tuning in uh on tonight's show, uh once again, Myron is jacking off and he's you know, guess he broke his dick.
	And uh fresh is uh he had some bad food and taking a shit.
	So uh he's what yeah, yeah, I don't know, but the first time in Fresh First History that I'm hosting solo on after hours.
	So and then the Jeffrey and Henny show.
	No, well the Jeffrey.
	I like that word.
	Henny and Jeffrey or the henny and therapy show, because he's a therapist, you know, personally.
	Um but yeah, guys, uh, we're here um instead of counseling the show or whatever, and we're having a good time so far.
	Um and it's you know, it's one of those things where it's my first solo um hosting with uh with Jeff.
	How do you feel?
	So how do I feel?
	Listen, uh disclaimer the more I drink, if I say any coherent shit incoherent, don't mind me, guys.
	You know, I'm just having a good time.
	All right, uh, but I feel good, you know, and everyone's having a good time.
	Super chat.
	So um so do you want to ask questions first, or do you want to read chats first?
	Let's do chats first, knock those out.
	Alright, cool.
	Let's uh re chats first.
	Um all right, cool.
	So Jeff, you wanna read it?
	Oh, go ahead.
	All right, so Chase uh the man that's 6'6, 50 bucks.
	Shout out to you.
	What the ladies date a man that's uh five foot seven and makes 50k a year, or date a six foot that makes hundred K a year.
	So ladies, would you date a guy who's five foot seven?
	Is this guy blue?
	That was not agree.
	So listen, I think they should have mixed the the heights.
	Let's flip the heights.
	Alright, guys, so flip the heights.
	So guys who uh well he he's five foot seven and he makes a hundred K a year, or he's six foot tall and he makes 50k a year.
	So which one would you date?
	So raise your hand if you would date the guy who makes who is five foot seven and who makes 100k a year.
	So he's a short he's a short king.
	So you would if he's five foot seven and makes a hundred K a year, would you would you date him?
	No, you won't date him.
	Damn.
	So you do you would who are?
	Okay.
	Alright, cool.
	Uh and then other girls are you know, just like dating tall guys.
	That's broke.
	Damn.
	That's crazy, man.
	I just think it's a stupid question.
	I'm not gonna lie.
	Oh, how's it stupid?
	What do you mean?
	What's his personality?
	Doesn't all right, so like like it's a good uh good question.
	Um the guy who's short and the guy who saw it doesn't matter.
	He's he's a good guy.
	He took care of you.
	You know, uh all things how about this?
	All things are equal.
	But how do we get along?
	Like I can't just you know, damn.
	She's talking about it.
	Oh, yeah, she's one of those.
	What's going on?
	What am I dealing with?
	There's gotta be something.
	Well, what you I think what they were dealing with was just the height and the salary.
	That's it.
	But that's not that's not the truth.
	That's only part of the thing.
	You're not gonna date this man actually.
	I think it's I think it was just uh um I mean hypothetical.
	Um I'm five three, so anything that's taller than me is like oh, okay, and and heels though in heels.
	Um I wear like three inch heels, so uh they're still gonna be taller than me regardless.
	It doesn't matter.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah.
	So then what?
	By the way, have you ever dated a man that's shorter than you?
	No.
	Wait, I don't think there's I mean, wait, wait.
	You think they don't exist?
	Damn!
	I'm sure they do.
	That's what she said.
	Yeah, so short men, shorter men than her don't exist.
	I can't see them.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	So you're your currently, is he black?
	Huh?
	Is he black currently?
	Like you're mad?
	Or yeah, is he is he Haitian?
	No, he's not Haitian.
	Oh that's my business too.
	Okay.
	She date a secret agent.
	That's what's going on.
	I like that.
	Alright, so real quick before I know I'm sure that you ladies may have a couple questions in mind, but I did have a particular question.
	Um obviously my lane being a therapist, been working in the field for over a decade.
	I don't know how many men, women, and couples I've dealt with over the course of this time.
	Uh, but I've noticed some interesting themes, especially in light of like social media and a lot of the complaints on social media about different sexes.
	So for all you ladies, I want to know the simple question with the state of the current dating market here and in the UK, or just in Western countries in general, with how bad things are and how much everybody's complaining.
	I want you all to tell me who you think is ultimately at fault and why.
	If it's men, you say I believe it's men, and this is my reason why.
	If you think it's women, this is your reason why.
	So who would like to start first?
	I'll start.
	Um can I say both?
	Uh sure.
	You can just lean in a little bit more.
	Okay.
	I'll say both because um this generation has a hard time.
	Well, people in this generation have a hard time understanding each other, even in like deep conversations.
	Um they don't know how to communicate.
	Oh, my bad.
	They don't know how to communicate.
	And I don't know.
	Females, females nowadays think that they have to be even with men.
	So like if a dude cheat on a female, she'd be like, oh, let me go get my gig back.
	I'm gonna go, you know, it's wrong boy.
	But like everybody's at fault.
	Everybody has to, you know, participate for things not to go right.
	If one person wants it to go right and the next person don't want it to go right, remove yourself.
	But you you get what I'm saying.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Anybody else?
	I agree.
	I think both at fault.
	I feel like now gals, we like will come together and say if I stop talking to a guy, I'll show my I'll show him to my friends, and they're like, like, no, you could do way better, you know, girls we just think that.
	And and the same as guys, they always think they can get but uh girls think we can get about a so I would say I would say both.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	Now for future uh responses, no more both.
	You gotta choose.
	Thank you.
	Because everybody's gonna say, I think it's a little bit of both.
	I'm gonna crash out, man.
	Go ahead.
	I was gonna say both.
	I feel like both have to take accountability at the end of the day.
	All right, well, so which one you gonna lean more towards?
	So go ahead, Sunsha.
	But that's what I was gonna say.
	So my thoughts if you had to choose, who would you say you would lean a little bit more towards is probably contributing to the things being such an issue?
	I would lean towards the men, for sure.
	I feel like they're the aggressor.
	They're like the alpha, they're supposed to be the alpha, you know.
	I mean, at the end of the day, like they're supposed to be that alpha male, they're supposed to be the one like guiding you, doing all these things for the woman at the end of the day.
	You know, if you want a traditional man, it just depends on what you're looking for, honestly.
	But I feel like based on like how today is, it's just like not You're not gonna look for that traditional man because there's hardly any out there.
	Okay.
	So men aren't traditional.
	They're supposed to be alphas and a lot of them are not acting like it.
	Yes.
	Cool.
	Cool.
	It's the birth control in the water.
	Yeah, the catazine.
	It's in the water.
	Anyone else?
	Oh.
	Go ahead.
	I feel bad saying mine, because okay, I feel like I have a I'm around a lot of single women.
	So I feel like the women are single-minded women because of the lack of the more income a woman makes the less she feels like she needs to compromise to be with a man.
	So it's like if you're not able to compromise, you can't have a relationship.
	It's more like a s most women have a single mindset instead of having a relationship based mindset.
	So I mean, uh like for instance, my aunt and uncle, they're both married.
	She makes a good income, but she has a relationship minded mindset.
	She still comes home and cooks like two times out of the week.
	So they have like that compromise.
	But most women, the more money they make, the less they're willing to compromise.
	So that's gonna make it difficult to find a man who's gonna be willing to be in a relationship with you.
	Interesting.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	Different various different opinions.
	Anybody else?
	Go ahead.
	I know you want to say something.
	So yeah, I was kind of thinking about it.
	I would say women too.
	Um because men are born from a woman.
	I feel like it starts from when you're little.
	So a lot of women, they kind of treat their kids like a mama's boy or something, like they favor I don't know.
	They it's the teaching that women give their children.
	And then also um if a woman wants an alpha male, she has to figure out how to get that.
	You know, you can you don't need to say yes to everyone that comes around.
	You can say yes to the one that's actually showing their alpha status, and everybody else can just you know, hit whatever, kick the the curb or whatever.
	Cool, you know.
	May I actually say something?
	Um, so actually the man didn't come from the woman, the man created the woman, uh God, the our savior, you know, at the end of the day, like he's the one who made this world at the end of the day.
	The man, the god made the woman.
	Oh, I'm just saying that's we came from from where it all said.
	I'm not talking religion, but you came from men.
	And what about what about you?
	I mean, I'm not gonna talk religion, but that is a fact.
	Um, you know, us women are the rib.
	I'm talking about who you blame.
	So I blame okay, I'm not gonna get deep then.
	I I don't blame anybody at the end of the day.
	I feel like just the generation in society is just messed up all kinds of values and who we used to be, what woman was, what man was, and now it's all a combustion.
	I feel like um, so for me i it could possibly be a solid like 60 40, 60% on the woman, you know, and then 40% on the men.
	Why do you give the 60 a little bit more on the women's side?
	Because I feel like women are trying to play catch up.
	With what or with who?
	With the with the men.
	Like beyond that not equal status, but even above because of how much pressure we have nowadays.
	That's just my opinion.
	Interesting.
	Yeah, we do.
	So all of you are under 30, correct?
	Yes.
	Wait, I'm 30?
	Under 30.
	And not married yet?
	And all of you are unmarried, under 30.
	Damn.
	And what'd you say damn for her?
	I mean, hey, listen, I mean, if these girls w want to be married, correct?
	I don't know that.
	I don't know that all right.
	You do not want to be married.
	Do not.
	All right, there you go.
	Umbody wants to be married at some point.
	At some point.
	When like what is the point?
	When you find the right person.
	All right, so how do you find the right person?
	I don't know.
	That's what I was talking about.
	I don't know.
	You should know.
	How?
	Why should I know?
	Okay.
	So all right, shout out to Frost for 10 subs.
	Well, wait, who's getting subs?
	All right, because either modify uh gifting subs.
	They give this subs to the toilet, bro.
	Anyways, all right, so yeah, so you want to be married eventually, right?
	And you don't know how to get married.
	That's scary.
	We don't know how to get married.
	Yeah, like you know, well, her.
	Well, I'm I'm not in a relationship.
	Yeah, but you but at least you just have uh the certain steps how to learn how to get married, right?
	Well, yeah, but get in a relationship, find a man, settle down.
	All right, so raise your hand if you know how to get married or how to uh keep a man.
	No, you lost your man.
	You lost your man, so you know what fine, you know what top two things.
	Um compromise and also respect his wishes and know what yeah, learn him.
	Learn him, learn what makes him happy.
	Okay, all right.
	I feel like just be yourself, respect is you.
	Don't be yourself.
	Um Yeah, be my like my my angel on my left shoulder.
	Yeah, I'm a model I'm with Sunshine.
	Alright, no, what go ahead?
	No, really, all seriousness.
	I feel like with a with a man with a man, not a boy, but with a man, respect is number one.
	I mean, it's a boy.
	I mean, is it he's over 21, so he's a man either way.
	Uh classify it how's however you want.
	I feel like there's a difference between a boy and a man.
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Not me.
	No, like there's there's guys that are older than us that are more boys than men.
	Children.
	I mean, you know what?
	You know what?
	Like, she's saying that because she's fucked them and they're and that same guy left her hanging, bro.
	Because like it's why she's mad right now.
	That's for the year babies.
	I'm not mad at all.
	Yeah, she is, bro.
	Like you are you were invested in a nigga who was six foot three, who who hit yeah, baby girl, I'll I'll give you the world, and all of a sudden he did you're wrong, and now you're trying to call him shit.
	Yeah, and uh now you're talking shit about him.
	Not really.
	You call him a baby.
	That's your opinion.
	That's my fact.
	I mean, I've seen a lot of different types of people I'm an observer.
	So you call a 40-year-old man a baby.
	If they act like children, I'm gonna call it out.
	That's what they are.
	So then listen, in my experience, right?
	Girls who like actually, yeah, he's a baby and he's and you're smiling right now.
	Currently, right now you're smiling.
	So you're holding your rage in right now.
	I see the eye.
	I'm really not.
	No, you're just funny.
	Like I'm gonna do it.
	All right, so just to clarify, the reason why I asked that question is because it always sets the tone for the foundation of where it is I think everybody is in terms of how they're seeing the date market.
	I it was actually pretty balanced.
	Some people got away with the whole both.
	Um some of you put it on a little bit on the men, and some of the other ladies put it on the women.
	If I had to give my humble opinion, now mind you I'm a guy.
	Obviously, I get the fact that you know I'm gonna be biased to a degree, but when I look at what's happened, at least in the States specifically, I can't really speak to the other countries.
	And you're married.
	Oh, well that that's true.
	Yeah, um my opinion is it's probably closer to 80 20.
	Oh for what side?
	80 woman.
	Oh, what side do you think?
	Yeah.
	I was just hoping it has a little hope.
	Yeah, now the reason why I say this, of course.
	Wait, you didn't let him say it.
	Yeah, the 80% is definitely I'm gonna put on the women as of today.
	Now the reason is not all your fault, but I think it was a trajectory of how we got here.
	So for starting points, when feminism happened, right?
	What shifted when feminism came into the picture?
	We got right the power role, the power dynamic.
	Rights to do what?
	Work.
	Have money.
	Okay, dependency, independency.
	So independence.
	You said the ability to work and make money.
	What else changed?
	To have your own fat household dynamic.
	Uh you said what?
	Equality.
	Equality.
	And what else?
	You can have kids on your own without men.
	How uh donations?
	But I mean men.
	IBM, you know, IBM.
	Wait, but how many of us my parents can't have kids.
	Cool.
	So just to clarify, some of the things that maybe came with feminism potentially were very positive, right?
	Could get the vote.
	You could purchase property.
	You could uh have a bank account.
	You could have a credit card, right?
	These were positive, I'm assuming, right?
	Now I don't know about how y'all spending these credit cards.
	That may be a different discussion.
	But what changed between men and women when feminism came in?
	Respect was lost, probably.
	The power dynamic.
	In what way?
	As in now the woman can be the head of household and the male feels like he's undermined his potentially.
	That's I don't think that happened always, but that's a possibility.
	But his leadership was undermined, basically, by the woman.
	Okay.
	What else?
	What else changed?
	Between men and women.
	Go ahead.
	No, I'm sorry.
	I'm just I just think it's funny.
	You think feminism's funny?
	No, I just I'm listening to the responses, and I just think things are funny.
	I'm sorry.
	I mean, what what's funny though?
	Like, let's know.
	It's podcasts.
	Like her answer or yeah, her answer.
	Well, okay.
	So we heard her answer.
	I'm just it's a conversation.
	Yeah.
	What did you find funny about what she said?
	No, I just think it's funny that people would even feel undermined just because someone is elevating themselves.
	I feel like you know, we should be proud of each other.
	Oh, I get you.
	Actually, I actually get where you're coming from, right?
	The idea that somebody could feel undermined or the fact that you're getting right, so why would you be undermined by that kind of thing?
	Right.
	Fair.
	Fair fair.
	We elevate as a family.
	Yeah.
	Um, what do you think changed sexually between men and women after post-feminism?
	There's more bi girls now.
	More what?
	More bisexual girls.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	What changed in terms of women's views towards sex with men when feminism came?
	Sure.
	It became less the baby.
	All right, sexual liberation.
	Oh, shit, right?
	Yep.
	Like masturbation.
	No, like today's okay.
	Pre Oh.
	You could do what you want.
	Okay, okay, okay.
	Right.
	You could do what you want.
	You can have sex with who you want.
	You can have children with who you want.
	Right?
	That's you know, like it was socially in most other cultures not acceptable for women to be able to just sleep with different guys.
	And then in modernity, when feminism came, sexual liberation, you had the right to be able to have sex with whomever.
	We're just talking about Western culture though, right?
	Yes.
	Yes, uh, specifically.
	Um, where feminism occurred.
	Um so my my issue, or my contention, is I think that feminism in the quest of giving you all and pushing for you all to have certain rights and certain really positive things, they told you all the things that you can get, but I don't think that they told you all the consequences that comes with it.
	Ooh, bars.
	All right.
	So the first one, you all mentioned it.
	Money.
	Being able to make your own money, right?
	Remember that question we saw from the from the uh super chat?
	Where they was asking about who you whether you're gonna date a guy that makes 50K or 100K thing.
	Some of you may date the guy that's that makes the 50k.
	Um, you mentioned it, right?
	You you would you'd be open to dating a guy that makes 50?
	No, I didn't.
	Who was it?
	Who was it?
	Was it you?
	I mean, uh the average income in the United States is around $50,000 a year.
	And then you combine the income.
	What you date them though.
	Yeah.
	What you did.
	I dated my ex made less than 50k a year.
	Yeah, but you left them.
	Yeah, but you wouldn't have been forever.
	I was I was young when I was with him, so I mean, how old are you getting 28?
	I'm 23.
	23.
	Oh, I thought you're 28.
	So the reason why I'm bringing that up is because of all the different things that you gained.
	What happens when women start making money and their views of the men that are trying to date them in regards to how much he has to make?
	Oh, their standards go up.
	They start.
	Yeah, they're not.
	They start getting insecure.
	Whoa, whoa, whoa.
	No.
	What happens to the women?
	Oh, and their view of the men that's trying to pursue them when their money goes out.
	They don't want anybody that makes any lesser money than them.
	A lot of women, that's the thing.
	A lot of women, that's the thing.
	Not all.
	There will be exceptions to the rule.
	And you said you're 23?
	23, yeah.
	I envision that when you turn 28 or 32, what you were satisfied with at 21 of how much he can make is probably not gonna be the case.
	That's exactly why I left my relationship.
	Oh wait a minute.
	No, wait a minute.
	It's not the overall It's not the only reason.
	You can't go and tell her it's a pussy, bro.
	Come on, calm now.
	I'm sure she got multiple reasons.
	Like for me, when I was 15, I was just like movie dates made me happy.
	Getting food made me happy.
	Now that I'm an adult, I'm like, wait, we have to plan out our lives.
	When y'all were 16, that's why I'm saying I had to leave.
	What was the standard that you was expecting as a 16-year-old from this man?
	Go out to movies, right?
	And eat food.
	He maybe at best he had to have a car.
	And yeah, and then we got off our later.
	That was kind of it, right?
	Yeah.
	Like car, he could take you on a date.
	Exactly.
	Occasionally, you know, well, maybe get you some flowers every now and then.
	Exactly.
	Bare minimum.
	Yeah.
	Oh, When you turn 18, 19, 20, was that enough anymore?
	No.
	Probably not.
	So with feminism, one of the things that kind of came with that is higher expectations.
	So when feminism keeps pushing you all to keep making money, boss be a boss babe, killing it, you know, do handling your own.
	But if your standards keeps going up, what will happen by around 30 years old?
	You're fucked.
	Burnt out.
	Maybe.
	But it's more so this is the issue.
	And this is what I'm seeing in the counseling sessions.
	This is what I'm seeing in the trends.
	The ladies that don't figure it out before 30 have a substantially more difficult time post-30.
	Why do you think that is?
	Because they're stuck in their ways.
	Now they're not like they're not 50 or 60 yet.
	It's more so because they've spent a decade plus as an adult building up their income.
	So if you've spent all this time building up your income, and now you're like, I'm making 80,000.
	I'm making a hundred thousand.
	I'm making a hundred and twenty thousand.
	What are a majority of women in the West saying when they make that much money?
	Do they want the guy that makes 50,000 anymore?
	A lot of them don't.
	So the guys who make that much money, what is he looking for?
	What does he want?
	But why because he makes 50,000 does that make him like less successful.
	First of all, you gotta ask women that you gotta ask a lot of people.
	No, but yeah, that doesn't make sense.
	Because for us a 30,000 dollar tax bracket difference.
	Yeah, for us as guys, we can acknowledge two incomes and how they can come together.
	But a lot of ladies, when they're first being pursued by the guy, they're not thinking about two.
	They're thinking about his income.
	And number two, if she hasn't had kids yet or they want kids, my one of my beliefs, it's not for all women, but I believe it's a lot of women.
	Most of y'all ain't built to th to work 30, 40 years.
	You may like your career, you may like your degree.
	The truth is, most of y'all want to be work optional.
	You want to work when you want to work.
	You want to be in a relationship where you can take off when you need to.
	When you do need a break.
	You want to take off a kids, you just overworked, and the bills still get paid and nothing falls apart.
	Isn't that everyone though?
	No.
	Believe it or not.
	No.
	A lot of a lot of men have no problem working the course of their lives taking care of their families.
	That's that's how we're hardwired.
	Work smarter, not harder.
	A lot of ladies would prefer they want to be able to work when they want to, but they want to be work optional.
	But if you keep pushing the needle further and further financially bracket for yourself, and then you keep raising your standards as well, the pool of men that you like that you think will qualify for you is they get bigger or smaller.
	Smaller.
	So if you get to 30, and then you focusing on all the guys at the top, the guys that's making 120, 150, 200,000.
	Hey.
	Question.
	All the guys that's making that and more, who they signing up to date and deal with?
	Younger, hotter, tighter.
	What age?
	Uh probably in the 20s.
	18 to 23.
	23, 24.
	Yeah.
	So that window, that's the first issue.
	Financially.
	So I'm not saying y'all cook yet.
	Y'all still got time.
	But wait, wait, wait.
	I mean, I mean paddle.
	24.
	Wait, who's the old?
	Who's the oldest?
	Oldest one.
	And you're 20.
	28.
	Oh, and you're in a relationship.
	Yes.
	Alright, she got she got time.
	She crowded.
	She got some equity.
	She got a little equity.
	How long you've been together?
	Oh, yeah.
	For a while.
	But how long?
	A while.
	Well, listen, I don't need to know where he's from.
	I don't need to know his age.
	I don't need to know a lot of things.
	Have you been together at least a year?
	In a relationship.
	For a while.
	Listen, stop being fake because I'm not gonna.
	Some girls will like what what some women are watching this podcast, right?
	And if you're being fake and then you're being on whatever, how can I learn from you?
	Like, you're not sending a good example for the girls or women who are watching the podcast.
	So sh by keeping my business to imagine.
	They want to learn from you.
	Just ask the hey, listen, a few uh less than a year.
	Yeah.
	Over a year.
	Like, is it like it's even great?
	Okay.
	Alright, cool.
	So it's fine.
	If it's one month, it's fine.
	So that's issue number one.
	That was a change as a result of ladies.
	You you listen to your mothers.
	You may even listen to your fathers, who told you to make sure you, you know, get this education and get this degree.
	But your standards are adjusting with your your income is going up as well.
	The issue number two is the sexual liberation issue.
	Now my question is this.
	If the patriarchy was about kind of dictating who you could have sex with and who you could marry, that was the patriarchy, right?
	Well, what will what's the opposite of that?
	Who's deciding who you get to sleep with and who gets to sleep with you, and who gets who's choosing and picking who you giving kiss to?
	I'm confused about that question.
	You all are doing it.
	So my question is if other people outside of yourself and outside of your feelings and outside of your emotions was able to not have feelings attached to it and look to see if this is a good fit, if they come from a good household, if they're gonna be able to handle certain things, if they have certain traditions, and you're deciding I don't need anybody to make this decision for me.
	I can figure this out at 16, 15, 14.
	If you're 22 or 23 right now, and you started at 414, 15, 16 having sex with different guys, and we went from then till 22, you already have six years of evidence that you don't know what the hell you're doing.
	If you're not in a relationship and you're not married, and you've been having sex, you don't know what the fuck you're doing.
	Fraternity.
	That's a fact.
	That's not that's not a judgment thing.
	That's on all of us.
	So when I was in my 20s and I'm picking and choosing, I know what the hell I was doing.
	I'm going off of vibes and whether we like each other.
	My my warning to all of you is this.
	If you go from let's say 15 to 30, that's a 15-year track record if you do not end up married by that point of taking the same test and failing.
	Multiple times.
	Now, this is the issue with the ladies.
	If you hang around the wrong uh uh single women who keep telling you all the issues are just the men, everything that's wrong in life is just the men, and you've gone 15 years of failing the test, you don't get to keep failing the tests and then tell everybody you a star athlete.
	Oh, shit.
	Or that you a star student.
	You ain't getting A's.
	You could convince yourself you got A's and all your exes are the are the narcissists.
	But 15 years, 10 years, 15, 20 years of trying to do the same thing and still failing.
	That's gonna be a lot of people's future if they don't reevaluate what they've already started doing.
	So that was the reason why I asked that initial question.
	So I posed out two ideas.
	Obviously, they're my opinions, but I want to know what each of you think about those two initial things that I'm putting out there.
	You don't have to agree, you can disagree.
	But what do each of you think about those two things I just put out there?
	The economic part, and then also the sexual liberation part.
	Is that contributing heavily to why women are making a lot of the decisions or mistakes that they're making right now?
	What do y'all think?
	I mean, if if if the uh IQ is kind of low, because like I don't know, girls do you want to send this question?
	Or like can he say it repeat the question again in the simpler terms?
	So I mean, well, what do you think?
	Sunshine.
	I knew you were gonna call me.
	Um I feel like it's reasonable.
	Honestly.
	I don't know what else to say.
	I feel like I do agree in some parts.
	It does take an effect on to like today's world and what we've come to as uh individual.
	Yeah, okay.
	Which which part you you um agree on?
	Both of them the economic and the sexual liberation.
	Yeah, yeah, no, but it's uh that's what he said, like five seconds ago.
	What do you agree on though?
	Like exactly.
	Uh that it's just both of them take a role into the effect of the females being potentially the bigger percentage of the issue in this world compared to the men.
	Okay.
	Like he said.
	What about you?
	Into the mic, please.
	Sorry.
	Like closer louder.
	Okay, wait.
	Give me some damn time.
	Well, I mean, I mean I'm trying, nigga.
	Hey, three times told you to go on the mic.
	Um, well, damn.
	Come closer.
	You give me attitude?
	Why?
	You about to catch it.
	I do agree.
	I agree with both.
	No, like catch one though.
	The attitude.
	The attitude?
	Yeah, because you're pushing it.
	Sorry, but no, it's not Russia, but we told you three times speaking to the mic.
	Okay, well, let me move up.
	I'm literally sitting back while everyone's talking, so let me move on to the city.
	What do you sloth?
	What are you sloth?
	I do agree with both of both sides of what you were saying.
	You see?
	I'm sorry.
	Like, okay, um, I do agree with both what you were saying.
	I do feel like women and men well, I from what I understand, I feel like women and men kind of did switch places.
	Um with being financial and who's taking care of who and who's making the the rules or whatever.
	Yeah.
	And then sexually I I agree with all of that.
	You just said I agree with everything.
	All right.
	Does anybody does anyone thinking of what of those two things that I kind of put out there?
	Is it is it something that you never really thought about how important it was that could be can contribute to maybe why things are so bad or even maybe personally when you look back and reevaluate.
	Damn, I didn't realize that.
	Yeah, that was for me because I was in a seven year relationship, and I feel like um he was he proposed to me um in December of last year.
	And after six years.
	After six years, yes.
	Oh, no.
	Well, like I said, he proposed to me more so um because I guess my brother also was proposing to his fiancee at the time too.
	So he probably felt like, okay, I need to do something right.
	But within himself, he was battling a lot of things eternally.
	Um also, like I said, when I was 15, my standards or my things of what I wanted in a relationship was not what I wanted now as a grown woman.
	So those are things that at the end of the day, me making him feel like he needs to grow up faster was also make making him feel demasculated.
	Oh, so you're nagging.
	No, I wasn't nagging, I was trying to You were nagging.
	You're like, come on, grow up faster and that what's up, like that at all.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like trying to be like you were you were nagging.
	No, he told he told me that my brother he told me that my brother told him that he was gonna do it.
	Yeah, but he knew what you wanted though.
	Like guys are stupid.
	Did you want that at that time for him to propose?
	No.
	Yeah, you didn't because by six years, we by the fifth year of the relationship, I had already came to senses that maybe this is not something that I see in my future.
	But it was hard for me to leave because I was trauma bonded to him after being together for so many years.
	Okay.
	Wait, what the fuck is trauma bonded?
	People mean different things when they mean it.
	Sorry, but like yo, like I'm a dude, bro.
	What the fuck is trauma bonded?
	And and he's like, you know, he's hurt.
	Like, I don't know, like what does it mean?
	Like what happened?
	Like, basically.
	If you don't go into details, it's fine.
	I understand people who have personal issues, but I want to know, like, for the audience.
	We have over I think uh 21, like uh 22 uh 22k people watching right now.
	People have to know the shit, ladies.
	So stop being vague about shit.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like be like be oh, just say the facts, and it's what it is.
	Go ahead.
	Okay, yeah.
	So trauma bonded, I would say is like you're I was with that person every single day.
	So we need each other to function in order to regulate our emotions when I'm around him.
	I feel wait, so your emotions, because it like he's a dude, like dudes don't really call duty, we jerking off.
	He doesn't play any video games or anything like that.
	He is very emotional because he's a Caribbean man.
	I feel like most men are like Caribbean men are like more emotional.
	Mm-hmm.
	Yeah, we spaz out.
	Well, based on how you described it, that sounds more like codependency.
	Exactly.
	So I would say it was more codependency.
	Okay.
	And I didn't know how to do things like put gas.
	I didn't know.
	I never put gas for seven years.
	I didn't like spoilers.
	Oh wow.
	So he had you though.
	Mm-hmm.
	All right.
	He didn't make a lot of money, but he did the other.
	But that's still it was still things in the relationship that it doesn't like yeah.
	Now the dope thing is is that you're 23.
	Now reimagine if you had given another man if you if you hadn't experienced a seven-year relationship at 15.
	Exactly.
	What if you had started at 25?
	Oh and gave some no, because a lot of ladies do it.
	Oh wow.
	A lot of ladies give years and years and years to a guy that they've already seen signs and red flags.
	And then when it finally I I I I literally have a friend.
	Who uh don't do that.
	Don't do that.
	Had a friend where I, you know, came to know her through my through my wife and getting to know her.
	I got I was cool with the guy as well.
	And over time I kind of learned and observed, and they were like, oh, they've been together for 10 years, and then they broke up.
	And this was like well into like her early 30s.
	And I'm like, did it take 10 years?
	Ten years?
	Ten years to realize this wasn't the guy.
	So my question is is like, yeah, I kind of have to start doing the the the wheels in your head now.
	Is that if you've been practicing trying to figure it out on your own the last two, three, four, five, eight years, and it's not and it hasn't led to the outcome you're wanting today.
	Perhaps just your thoughts, your thinking, and your feelings is not sufficient in order to screen the guy.
	How do we know this?
	Because ain't nobody here batting a hundred.
	What do we mean?
	No, no.
	I mean in terms of guys.
	Nobody's been with just one guy.
	She's close.
	She's been with two.
	That's capped up.
	If she's lying or not, we don't know.
	I'm gonna leave it real.
	But if all of you have been with three, four, five, six, seven, eight guys, and that's just the ones that you're telling us.
	Facts.
	Let alone the ones that you did the situationships with, or the one nice stands with, or the guys who you're entertaining, realize that the longer this goes, the more difficult it's gonna become.
	So, although that may be a little a little rough to hear, it's actually because I'm we're actually coming from a place of genuine care.
	We don't want y'all to be the 42-year-old talking about, well, I deserve you, don't deserve shit.
	You had your run.
	You had your on.
	Your run was in your 20s, in your 30s.
	You can't be 42 trying to compete compete with y'all.
	Right.
	You know what I'm saying?
	That that's crazy work.
	Because if if I'm a guy and I have to choose between the 42, she could look good, she could keep herself fit.
	But if I gotta choose between her and y'all, it's a very easy choice.
	If all things are equal, one's 42 and one's 22.
	Who you think I'm going with?
	Especially if I want to start a family.
	The younger one.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	There you go.
	So if y'all at the age where we want those things, this is why you have to be a little bit more serious.
	So you want to do some more uh super chats?
	Yep, chats.
	Uh we have uh chats pond up uh 20 plus.
	So Mo, uh we the chats because I'm too late to read.
	I got you.
	My eyesight spine as the fuck, so um cat catch him a cholge.
	I don't care.
	You girls are retarded, very simple.
	You girls are retarded.
	You you want to marry a high value man, go to the gym, don't be a bitch, then exchange your virginity for a wedding ring.
	You girls are single because you hoes don't deserve a good man.
	Oh shit.
	Oh damn.
	Somebody came a little bit.
	I mean, yeah, sure.
	Let's find out.
	So I've got this before, and I don't get offended because I'm very yeah, you do it because uh like you're mad right now, you're triggered.
	Yeah, just saying I used to be a personal trainer, I'm a bikini model as well.
	I have a very good physique.
	No, you do.
	Um I'm getting comments in the chat saying that I'm manly or I have a penis or something.
	I absolutely do not.
	I'm 100% woman.
	You know what?
	Uh I don't think she does.
	Can you like set up and do a twirl?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, yeah, here.
	Come on.
	Like, like the little toir.
	All right, there we go.
	Yeah, sure, sure, sure, you can.
	Alright, alright, all right, all right.
	Let me do a flex.
	Come on, do a flex.
	Alright, go ahead.
	There you go.
	Wait, right there.
	Oh, okay.
	Clap, clap, clap.
	Well, clap.
	Sunshine.
	See that yo.
	I caught her a model, okay?
	Cap.
	Oh, she got biceps too.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Go to the gym today.
	Damn.
	Oh shit.
	Wait, wait.
	So you have one tattoo right here?
	I have like a bunch, actually.
	They're all hidden though.
	They're like low-key.
	Can you show me afterwards?
	This is love you were by J. Cole.
	I'm joking.
	I'm joking.
	Yo.
	Alright, go ahead.
	No, no, no.
	So what?
	Next up.
	That's the means of her, like the camera.
	Like, go ahead.
	So what?
	The tattoo by J. Cole, love yours, because I really think about the song like loving your life and putting your life first and just valuing yourself.
	Huh.
	Alright.
	Well, yeah, they are not complaining, apparently.
	So I think they believe you.
	Okay, yeah.
	I just wanted to say I do not have a penis, okay?
	I mean I'm getting, you know, you know.
	What?
	Well, uh oh, the boobs on the book.
	Yeah, I'm getting my book.
	Yeah, I know you're spawned.
	But um But um gosh so fucked up, right?
	Yeah.
	What?
	Like, yeah, like God's so fucked, right?
	Yep.
	Like, yeah, oh, this is more titties.
	Yep.
	You know, I love my pergy titties.
	I am not gonna lie, I'm uh I'm definitely a little like selfish right now, getting rid of them, but they're gonna get some work.
	Listen, in my opinion, like don't do it.
	I'm sorry, but it's already deposited.
	Oh, damn.
	It's going down.
	Here, here or abroad.
	Why does every man say not to do it?
	Like every man I have her hands.
	All right, you know what?
	Because um Like do they hate it or do they love it?
	Alright, so if a guy has a girl, right?
	And he's like, all right, you know what?
	Like, it's my girl, right?
	A guy don't want his girl being awkward about other guys.
	Like, yo, yeah, she has a big titties.
	She's she's like per and the thing is like a girl only gets uh a tit job like the majority of the time is because she wants attention from other guys.
	Um this is what all men say.
	Let me say this real quick.
	Same posting every day.
	They say we post for attention, we do everything for attention.
	Do you want to be married?
	But what if her many?
	So listen to what I'm saying.
	Shut the fuck up.
	Okay?
	Because you're not married, right?
	If you're married, then yes.
	So listen.
	You're interrupting him.
	Do not get a fucking tit job, whatever, a boob job.
	Her husband wants her to get a boob job.
	He's a cuck.
	Why?
	He should love being good.
	Oh yeah, baby, yeah.
	Being OnlyFans or be like, listen, that guy that wants to get a tit job, you don't want him.
	No, I'm paying for it, and it's an insecurity.
	No, no, no, no, no.
	You don't want to, bro.
	If if you I do.
	Look, like well, I'll can I phrase it differently.
	I look very younger without them.
	Would do you think do you think that a guy do you think that you would feel differently about a man that was satisfied and want you for who you are today?
	Versus versus a man that would prefer you to after the procedure.
	A hundred percent, natural, but I feel like this is a self-thing.
	It's for myself at the end of the day, and I'm very open and transparent about my life and cosmetic changes.
	Yeah, yeah.
	And you know, so we're carry on.
	Yeah.
	Nah, nah, personal respect.
	Go ahead.
	We have the fear in the...
	The fear in the...
	The fear is in.
	Hey, hey, yeah, that's fine, man.
	Yo, yo, uh, I carried this, man.
	So yeah, yeah.
	No, you didn't.
	That's why I'm here, nigga.
	God damn.
	All right, nigga, whatever.
	Fuck it, man.
	Okay.
	Um, I'm listening.
	Go ahead.
	Continue on what you guys are talking about.
	I was listening into some of the discussion earlier, so cool.
	Mari, nice to meet you all of you.
	So, boob job.
	We get it.
	Um, I understand you say you're in the future.
	These girls have wonderful boobs so far, besides just girl and a hoodie, I can just tell.
	I'm jealous.
	Who has a um dumb best boobs?
	I think my bestie Sammy's got me natural.
	Like, minus her though.
	Um I can't see her as I got mommy.
	I like it.
	I need implants at the end of the day.
	Right here or across from me.
	All right, go ahead.
	Sorry, Jeff.
	Go ahead.
	I don't know where you were going with that boo job.
	The boob comparison part.
	What?
	They said which one's.
	No, I know he answered.
	I was confused at why he was.
	I was just answering the question.
	Understood.
	I understood.
	Alright, so um the other thing that I wanted to do was I know that you all had some potential questions.
	Right?
	Do y'all remember them?
	I think they have.
	All right, before we do that, let me just collect some information because I was going through trying to get all your guys' stuff.
	Um we'll start with uh I'll go with this way and then work that way.
	What's your name?
	Real quick.
	Summer.
	Alright, how old are you, Summer?
	Um, I'm 21.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from New Jersey.
	From uh South Jersey.
	Okay.
	Do you live here in Miami or you just visiting?
	Um no, I live about three hours north.
	Mike.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I live about three hours north.
	Cool.
	What do you do for work?
	Um I'm a model and I also personal train, and um I'm also a pole dance instructor.
	Oh, okay.
	Like, like close.
	So she knows, right?
	Close.
	She did not mention that ship like that.
	I need to say that because people are sending videos of me on the poll in there from the pregame and they think I'm a stripper or something, but I'm not.
	I do it for an exercise.
	You train the strippers.
	Yeah, you train.
	Uh actually a lot of the girls just go in there for classes to do day classes.
	Jeff.
	Some of them do go in who strip for like strength.
	Like an artist.
	Strength endurance.
	And then it's good training.
	Uh did you go to college or no?
	Um, yes.
	I have my associates in health services.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Um, I'm single.
	All right.
	Are your parents together?
	Uh yes.
	Okay.
	They're back in Jersey?
	Uh, yes.
	All right.
	And then birth control for you or no?
	Uh no.
	And then you're white?
	Uh I'm East European, but yes, white.
	What country?
	Uh Ukrainian.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	Are you were you born there or you or you lived here your whole life?
	No, I've lived in New Jersey my whole life.
	Okay.
	Do you speak Ukrainian or Russian or no?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Real quick.
	What's your name?
	Um, I'm Jasmine.
	All right, Jasmine.
	How old are you?
	Twenty-two.
	Where are you from?
	Um I'm Haitian, but I'm from Broward.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm a nail tech slash aerosolist, and I'll model.
	Okay.
	And then highest education level?
	G E D. Alright.
	Uh relationship status?
	Single.
	Alright.
	And are your parents together or no?
	No.
	Uh book control for you or no?
	No.
	Okay.
	And then I think I got most of the other girls' stuff.
	I watched back the show.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, so we didn't go through the whole thing again.
	Alright, cool.
	Um, all right, cool.
	So do we have the questions for the girls?
	For the Chris, they're behind you.
	Oh, no, sorry, sorry.
	Chats.
	We gotta do that.
	Oh, you gotta do chats?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah, it's all up.
	Frank, cool.
	No, we're not restarting a show, chat.
	I uh went back and got some of the stuff.
	All right.
	Uh we got ghetto Jafar on the panel.
	She comes out when you rub three uh backwards three times.
	Three wishes my nigga.
	Three the wishes.
	What?
	What is it?
	What is it?
	Okay.
	With you, I noticed that you don't want to disclose how long you've been in a relationship with your guy.
	Um that's a little strange.
	Uh why well, normally anytime I've seen girls like in a very happy relationship, they're very, you know, happy to disclose that.
	Oh, we've been together for five years, been together for ten years.
	So it's either one of two things.
	Either A, you guys are at a crossroads where you're deciding if you still want to be with them.
	B, it's been too damn long and he hasn't proposed.
	No has to be.
	Or C, um, something else that we're not aware of.
	Like, like it's my business.
	Like she's a friend of chicken.
	It's uh one of those then.
	Okay.
	Fantastic.
	Yeah.
	Because girls love to the thing I've noticed with women is if they're in a relationship and they're super happy about it, they want to make sure everybody fucking knows.
	Um when girls don't want to disclose the length of their relationship, something's off typically.
	But that's fine.
	Is it possible?
	No.
	So like family.
	Important people.
	Okay.
	I mean, all right, so niggas about you niggas.
	Yeah, that works on everybody else.
	But after you've talked to almost 4,000 girls like we have, that that just doesn't fly.
	We know what it is.
	It's fine.
	It is.
	Uh hey Sunshine, you said you are godly.
	You just said you can have kids without men.
	Necessarily against your conservatism.
	So I'm being a lying, oh, who's he talking about?
	Um that that's me.
	I'm not saying that personally, I would never have kids just by myself.
	I'm just saying that people have the rights to do that.
	I'm, you know, but I'm not for that.
	I at the end of the day, that doesn't follow the religion, but I didn't know if this is like you can talk about religion or not.
	Yeah, you can.
	Yeah, yeah, well, right, yeah, we're sure.
	So but yeah, you Christian Catholic?
	I'm Christian.
	Um, but I go to a non-dominant church just strictly just strictly about God, you know.
	But I choose non-dominancy because they don't get off track and they don't get like subsided into certain like bad categories.
	Okay.
	But yeah, church every Sunday.
	Did you uh Are you familiar with Charlie Kirk?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	No, obviously uh craziness went down with their I'm not political at all.
	I have no political opinion.
	I'm not even registered to vote or nothing.
	I know nothing about really what's going on with the policy.
	Oh, so just strictly like when it comes to conservatism, religious, not politically.
	No.
	Okay.
	No.
	Fair enough, I don't think women should vote anyway.
	Um that's fine.
	Uh ladies, the 19th Amendment is misogynistic.
	Should we take it away?
	Okay.
	You do any of you guys know what the 19th Amendment is?
	No.
	That's why you guys shouldn't have it.
	It's the right to vote.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	Damn.
	That's crazy.
	All right.
	For the uh mud trucks on a panel.
	This is your future.
	Make sure you pull out.
	Oh, damn.
	All right.
	Who here likes black guys?
	One, two, three, four, five, six.
	No, you two.
	I don't have a preference.
	I just are you.
	It's okay.
	No?
	We don't like black guys at home.
	Okay.
	We.
	Wild.
	All right.
	What else do we got here?
	Um.
	Yeah, this guy.
	Okay.
	Pull up Sunshine's Insta.
	Guarantee she's a hoe.
	Pull up my Instagram right now.
	Pull up my Instagram right now.
	Cool.
	Me?
	Alright.
	Cash says, uh, for the multiple obese girls on the panel, let me guess.
	Thyroid.
	Alright, so um, an insane insult.
	Was that you, Chris?
	So who's beast on a panel?
	Um, so who's fat?
	I mean, I'm pretty fat.
	Uh chubby, you know.
	Who else?
	I'm pretty chubby.
	Yeah, all right.
	Who else?
	You know, come on.
	I don't capture all right.
	You who else?
	I'm on the dick chat.
	I'm chubby.
	All right, cool.
	So, like, what's the problem?
	What do you mean?
	So I'm sorry.
	I was 200 pounds, but then I I lost 50 pounds.
	So I'm still on my weight loss.
	All right, cool.
	And then you?
	Good food.
	Good food.
	And you?
	Same at my food.
	British food sucks.
	I don't know what y'all talking about, bad.
	English food sucks.
	English food does suck.
	It does suck.
	There's a reason why you guys have to travel the world looking for spices, babe.
	No, you're right with that.
	Oh, man.
	Yeah, bro.
	Shit terrible.
	Uh, unlike those legends, uh, this new boy don't go out the sauce R.I.P. Kevin Samuels.
	Okay.
	What else do we got here?
	Uh oh.
	They're making fun of her with uh with the full dancing.
	Oh, she's an expert.
	Oh, okay, okay.
	Damn.
	But you on the ground, your knees.
	Okay.
	All right, just like.
	No, no, no, it's fine, bro.
	But like, don't like don't get a boobs or something.
	I didn't actually know that I was playing a live.
	Like, don't cut me up when I'm talking, okay?
	So if if if you want to be married, right?
	Don't cut me up on talking, okay?
	Ready?
	Alright, go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	Wait, did you want to say something?
	No, no, no.
	But like yo, your ass is nice, though.
	It is telling you right now.
	He ain't lying.
	The right guy would marry you, right?
	If you don't get a boop job.
	I so listen, I've been trying to look for the right guy, and they uh every single issue is either they're crazy.
	They're crazy what?
	Or like they put your hands on domestically violent.
	Stop being niggas, right?
	Hold on.
	And then the other one is they say I'm too masculine and I'm very powerful to that for them.
	Too powerful.
	Stop.
	Don't talk over guys, and don't be like, eh, all right, relax, all right.
	Well, I'll just be honest and no other podcasts admit this.
	Normally if a guy hits you, you've done some shit.
	Most guys don't wake up and say I'm gonna punch chicks.
	Like it's very frowned upon.
	There's a lot of social stigmas against it.
	So most guys don't do it.
	I'm not saying women deserve.
	Oh.
	Mama.
	Question for you.
	Have you have you put your hands on a man?
	Never.
	I would never put my hand on a man or a woman.
	Have you thrown anything at a man?
	No, never.
	Stab the nigga.
	No.
	I would never hurt anyone.
	Listen, I'm not saying that I I presuppose it.
	I'm just wondering, like Myron said, some usually just more than that enough.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, usually just more like, did he just wake up on a Tuesday and they just put their hands on you?
	They're just aggressive.
	Oh, you know what?
	You like aggressive guys.
	Huh.
	Alright, you know what?
	Interesting.
	What's wrong with you?
	Well, also keep in mind too.
	Girls like her typically date guys that are on gear.
	They tend to have, you know, less patience, get angry, etc.
	The thing is this, right?
	Fitness girls don't date guys that don't go to the gym.
	So in order for you to go to the gym and have physique and keep her in check, a lot of these guys, you know, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
	She sh she has a uh belly pressing.
	Chris, what the fuck?
	Okay, look, let me continue on what I'm saying.
	No, no, but it's obvious.
	Bro, you totally just divert me for no reason.
	So the point I'm trying to make is is that um what I've seen normally with girls that are fit that go to the gym, they get out with guys that are hyper high testosterone that are on drugs or on gear, these guys tend to have less emotional control, tend to be violent, but at the same time, you probably antagonize too.
	Because a lot of times when I see girls get hit, they antagonize a good portion of the time.
	Not every time, but they do antagonize a good part.
	And no one talks about this because you know women are above reproach, we can't criticize your bad behavior.
	But women absolutely antagonize bad uh violence for men a lot.
	And I'm saying that's you every time, but I see you nodding along.
	So and in terms of like domestic violence, the rates are actually pretty comparable between men and women.
	Um and because men are usually the ones that go on unreporting it or underreporting it, I wouldn't be shocked that ladies are usually doing far more than it than actually meets the eye.
	Um I don't know if you've seen this study, but like when it's one when it's uh one direction, it's typically woman to man.
	Almost always.
	Um almost always when one party's beating on the other, it's or never just the guy beating on the chick.
	That rarely happens.
	He's gonna go to jail some point, right?
	But for the for when it's one direction, it's the woman to the man, but overwhelmingly, domestic violence, it's uh b uh bi-directional.
	They're beating each other up.
	Right?
	Not saying I'm not condoning it, but I am saying that I think it's important that we analyze domestic violence is never one way, and if it is, it's typically female to male, because the guys are gonna report it.
	Right?
	Doesn't want to look like a bitch or whatever.
	So Sunshine, please stop throwing plates.
	Yeah.
	If you I wouldn't have no, no, but no, no, no.
	She's uh Loki um on the cover, so but yeah, also I can already tell it's from the type of men that she's picking too.
	She's gonna wanna wanna uh she's going to want to fitter.
	What these guys tend to be on drugs, and then you know, when they're on drugs, you know, niggas on T on some bullshit.
	Yeah.
	So yeah.
	Yeah, that's what I'm just gonna girls that go to the gym, bro.
	Like, they don't they don't they don't date guys that don't go to the gym.
	Wait, wait, yo, yo, uh Bill's as uh that on stream or no?
	No, no, bro.
	Fuck man.
	No, no, no, no, no, yo, he's mad yo.
	Fucking cut's club, man.
	Uh all right, what else we got?
	Uh Slate's birth control, also chick next to Chris, you look familiar.
	Oh.
	Well, Chris, uh fresh air here, man.
	He dies somewhere.
	Um, he's very sick, guys.
	Uh well lessons, uh, if shit too.
	Well, listen, do you hope the next generation of boys and girls won't have to unlearn.
	Okay.
	Um Jeff?
	Won't have to unlearn.
	I mean.
	What lessons do you hope the next generation of boys and girls won't have to?
	Oh, okay.
	Um, well, for one, my hope, and even when our discussion that we had earlier um during this podcast, my hope is A, that women don't believe that they have to go through a million experiments to find the guy that they want.
	That they could be open to not assuming and trusting just their own emotions and feelings is gonna get them there.
	That maybe the leadership of actually your male cousins, brothers, uncles, fathers, grandfathers, or even older male mentors, they may be able to see things that you don't because they don't have your feelings when analyzing the guy.
	Uh for men, my hope is actually that they don't all have to go through divorces to realize and be able to judge women better.
	A lot of times men typically get really, really good at screening out women after they go through really bad heartbreaks.
	Um the problem is not all men make it out on the other side of that.
	Many of them end up getting depressed, they end up deleting themselves, they end up losing so much, and many of them aren't able to recover.
	So my hope is that a lot of guys don't get to that point, and that a lot of y'all don't have to sleep with too many guys that get too traumatized to get to the end goal of actually being able to get into a successful relationship.
	I think that's crazy.
	Because I just feel like it's uh it's a cycle that that can and does happen where men like you said, they go for younger women.
	Um they'll get hurt at a young age, and then they be they delete themselves, they become someone completely different because they got hurt and now whenever they go towards younger women, sometimes they don't realize that they have learned behaviors from being hurt, and then they attack it on to the woman.
	So it's just like Yeah, we become savages.
	Yeah.
	We we we uh you know the women start doing the thing where they think like, okay, well now I'm gonna do the same thing.
	Yeah, we we become all savages.
	Y'all don't learn, and then y'all keep going for the bad boys until you age out.
	So it it is a vicious cycle.
	And unfortunately, I'm realizing um both as a clinician and just watching the stuff on social media, that like um if you don't kind of slow down and really realize and get help, and be self aware.
	You're gonna end up being a part of the cycle where you're gonna be jaded and hating men, or you're gonna be saying, uh all men ain't this, all men is shit.
	When in reality is you're not single by choice.
	You're single because of your choices.
	Correct.
	That's the truth.
	That's the reality of it.
	So my hope in terms of the future generation is that we kind of learn a lot sooner from other people's mistakes than having to feel like we gotta keep doing it on our own.
	You know, um I think that's some pretty wishful thing.
	I think it's gonna get worse.
	It probably way worse.
	Um, you know, uh the reality is that most men can't even make it to get married nowadays or get a girlfriend.
	A lot of guys just unfortunately are just not attractive to majority of women.
	Yeah.
	I think we're gonna see more single people.
	It's already going up now, but I think we're gonna see more single people than ever before.
	And the problem is that the women don't have a problem with finding a guy.
	It's that their standards are too damn high, right?
	Um you were talking about this earlier with income, and you're explaining to them how you know the higher your standards go on the more money you make, and the more money you want your partner to make, the less men qualify.
	But the problem with that is, you know, as you get into this up echelon of men, like you're asking him before, what does that guy want back in return?
	Yeah.
	Ladies, do you know what that guy wants back in return?
	I don't think anyone really answered.
	I was listening.
	No one gave what who wants in return.
	That higher earner, what does he but want back in return?
	Just respect to be pleased.
	Alright, let's go through well uh what do you think is the most important thing they want back in return?
	We'll go here and then work our way around.
	Someone who listens and is easy to deal with.
	Alright, what about you?
	Okay, what about you?
	Loyal, someone that listens to him, younger hotter.
	Alright, what about you?
	He wants his investment back in return.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I just feel like being a woman, being from your most feminine, some submissive to your man and respect.
	Alright.
	Goes a long way.
	What do you think?
	I think peace.
	A man uh a woman needs to bring peace and value into the man's life.
	Okay.
	So if you guys what do any of you guys have one of these guys?
	No.
	You do?
	She's she says she does.
	Cool.
	A peaceful man?
	Well, well, no, but like uh like our higher earner, one of these like top one percent.
	Yeah, my man, Mitch underscore the one exotics.
	He works at Rolls Royce, Miami right now.
	Okay.
	So you can get a car from him.
	Um, he's awesome.
	Um you caught him with another woman, what would you do?
	Nothing.
	Why?
	You stay?
	Hell yeah.
	He I I set him up with females, he do his thing.
	Like, me and him have an understanding.
	Okay.
	And it's closed on your and open on his?
	Closed on my yes.
	Okay.
	But it's not open on his either.
	All right.
	What?
	What?
	Uh that means you're saying two different things.
	Yeah.
	Meaning like he does car sales, so he needs to be around women.
	He w I met him when he was a general manager of a strip club.
	So we were already dating.
	He like there's an understanding.
	Okay, so is it if he fucked another chick, you'd be pissed off then?
	Because it's not open.
	I would be upset at him.
	Okay.
	But I'm not gonna leave him.
	But you wouldn't leave.
	Okay.
	Fair.
	Um what about the and and you guys the rest of you said that you don't have one of these guys right now, right?
	Okay.
	Now, would you guys be willing to like change who you are to get this guy right now?
	I'm not changing who I am.
	I am already the package that I'm gonna be.
	Fair.
	Anyone else agree with that sentiment?
	Um I'd be willing to change for like the right man.
	Okay, all right.
	Yo, yo, uh W. Let me ask you guys let me we'll kinda go through this.
	Are you willing to give up your girlfriends, not go out?
	No more girl strips, no more entertaining or talking to men, deactivating your Instagram, not dressing provocatively unless you're around him.
	Would you be willing to give up these things?
	Being isolated?
	Yes, basically, yeah, to a degree.
	If those are the things he values in the relationship, yeah.
	I would.
	You would I know you wouldn't.
	What about you?
	Or you wouldn't.
	I would if I was having not fun with him then.
	Do you know?
	I mean, if I'm not gonna do it.
	Okay, so you would need to get your party fixed through him.
	Well, yeah, if I'm having a good time with him.
	What if he doesn't drink, go out?
	Go out right.
	I'd be doing I'm not one about clubs, but still going out doing nice stuff, going to the beach.
	No, no, no, no, no.
	Okay.
	Alright, so she's still all right.
	So you want some semblance of being a girl.
	Okay, what about you?
	I would I think.
	Okay, you would okay, and then I don't know, and then you're in the I asked her if she would change her behaviors.
	She said, but she says I would I think.
	Alright, cool.
	Dick.
	You should.
	All right, what about you?
	Well, well, you got you said I was gonna say that there's always something that you can do better.
	As in bettering yourself to build with someone.
	So as long as it's not something that's demoralizing, tearing me down, tearing the other person down.
	So you know what's interesting, right?
	From the time we're little boys, we're taught go to school, make money, be a provider, because at some point you're gonna want to have a family, you're gonna want to have a woman rely on you, right?
	We kind of kinda are conditioned from this.
	Right?
	Be a gentleman, be a nice guy.
	You know what I've realized?
	Little girls are never taught how to treat a man.
	Like from it from an age.
	Like they're never taught this is how you treat a boy, this is what you want to do when you get older.
	What you know, never Hispanic as well.
	Um day one.
	Yeah, but we're talking about Western culture.
	Oh Western Western host.
	Oh, yeah, but yeah, but then but then they also that comes with that that but that also comes with the caveat of like you can be a raging bitch too, an attitude, and that's unacceptable.
	That's true, to be fair.
	So yeah, it's it's more about like being able to do it, but like you notice how like with young young boys, little boys, like we're taught to behave a certain way towards women pretty much all the time.
	But with women, you guys are not taught how to treat men at all.
	Some men are taught just like some women are taught.
	Some boys, little boys are taught the right way.
	And then she thinks for the other thing.
	What I'm trying to explain is that a majority of boys are taught how to treat women, but a majority of women are definitely not taught how to treat boys.
	Is that an actual statistic?
	Well, unfortunately, we can't we can't go ahead and make that into statistic, but what we can say is we can look at the you know, destruction of the family unit and the destruction of relationships, and we can pretty much figure out that feminism has created this air where a majority of women simply don't respect the majority of men.
	And this is shown in relationships, high divorce rates, women's dissatisfaction with males in general.
	Like, I mean, we have a plethora of other data to show that women in general s in the West, where feminism is strong, simply don't respect male authority.
	We don't.
	Okay.
	And I mean it was shown just a second ago.
	What did I say?
	If you found this guy, which is top tier guy, would you change?
	I didn't hear now.
	One emphatic yes except for her.
	The rest of you kind of thought about it.
	No, I said But if I had this conversation seven years ago and I said, Would you change for that man?
	All of you would say, Yes, I would.
	Yes, I want to be married.
	See the difference?
	In fact, I would even add to that they wouldn't have had to change.
	They would have already been trained and taught and shown how to move in that direction, often by their like you said, their their mothers or some matriarch in the family.
	They there's not this changing that they would have had to do.
	All these behaviors that they gotta get rid of.
	They would have already been kind of walking as a future wife.
	Right.
	So that's where things are so skewed and so off nowadays, it's because he's literally telling the truth.
	What used to happen naturally in terms of training and teaching ladies, that now we call that finishing school.
	Right.
	Where now we have classes that people have to take to be taught how to fold napkins, how to do this, how to do that.
	That was just that was like a normal thing in in household, and now it's foreign.
	So the reality is, you know, Myron is unfortunately telling the truth, and what you're saying, well, the guys do it too.
	Um, yeah, but of the things that you all are expecting from us, most men do know how to do it.
	I'll put it this way every man is expected to be a gentleman.
	Yeah, women are not expected to be ladies.
	Right.
	I'm expected to hold the door for you.
	You're not expected to say thank you.
	I'm expected to be polite and be nice at all times.
	Ladies first, right, pay the bill, etc.
	These norms are still very strong on the male side, but you're not necessarily expected to respect me or my authority or what I think or you know, defer to my uh to my authority or my leadership.
	Women are not taught that if anything, I would argue it's the other way around.
	Women are taught you're independent, be strong, don't listen to a man and you don't need a man.
	Queen.
	Right?
	So in other words, my roles are static.
	I always have to be a man.
	Your roles are negotiable.
	You can pick and choose when you want to be a lady.
	That's a problem.
	Because I look at it like why the fuck am I gonna sit here, make money, acquire status, acquire resources, and then deal with a chick that doesn't want to do her job when I have to do my job all the fucking time.
	That's not a fair deal for me, right?
	But if you're doing your jobs, what the fuck, man?
	Uh that's fine.
	Go ahead.
	What are you gonna say?
	I was gonna do that.
	If you're doing your job as a man, then it shouldn't be hard to find a woman that wants to do her the job for you.
	Here in this country?
	She's basically saying like you you know, if you're If you got your shit together, it should be easy to find this woman, which I see her perspective.
	Yeah.
	But the point I'm trying to make is is that you need to become a top one percent man, get fifty percentile results.
	Does that make sense?
	Like this should be like the basics.
	I guess it's because I think differently.
	I don't know.
	I just I just feel like as long as you show consistency in what you want to be, so what you say is what you do, regardless of if you're starting here or you're in the middle or you're already up here.
	Like as long as you're consistent and what you say is what you do, then you should be able to So be a man of my word.
	Yeah.
	Right?
	Do what's do the right uh do the right thing.
	Correct.
	Okay, well, how's that fair when women are taught do what's right for you?
	If I'm supposed to do what's right, but you do what's right for you, who's gonna take an L every single time?
	I mean, he said that that women should Okay, let me answer it for you.
	I'm gonna take the L every single time.
	Because I'm doing what's right because I'm held to this high standard, you're doing what's right for you because society tells you you should always be happy.
	This is why the marriage rates are plummeted.
	What is that?
	What is happiness?
	That's the problem.
	No one can define it because women always change it.
	And it's unachievable for you guys.
	That's well I'll just let you know.
	Well, from a free that women are perpetually unhappy.
	Well, I was gonna say, add adding to this from the mental health perspective, one of the biggest challenges that I'm realizing in therapy sessions is ladies are going to therapy, talking to therapists, counselors, about their issues and ills of the relationship that they're in, and they're walking out being told the most important thing is your happiness.
	So when you have people who are giving oaths, who are making promises on their wedding day, and then you know, life happens, things change, feelings change, he's still thinking through the lens of I'm not going anywhere.
	Things are hard, things suck, I'm not getting sex as much as we used to get.
	She may put on some pounds.
	Yeah, fat.
	Yeah, like whatever it is, the his initial impulse isn't to leave.
	Oftentimes ladies are being indoctrinated in the therapy session that they can and should.
	So there is this element of I'm sorry, do you give that advice?
	Do I do what?
	Do you give that advice to leave?
	Rarely.
	Okay.
	Rarely.
	But the instances that I do, it's it's it's usually abuse.
	Right.
	Um, uh chronic cheating, where there wasn't an agreement at some point in time between both parties, because you gotta remember at even as guys, they're like, Oh, you just letting guys get away with it.
	You gotta realize you're putting her at risk.
	Go ahead.
	You're putting her health at risk.
	You're you know, you're putting your finances at risk by doing all of this stuff.
	You you really want to get in the habit as a guy of trying to establish with ladies what's the agreement.
	But you also gotta remember that therapy is a female dominated field, so like psychology and psychiatry, etc.
	And with women coming in and dominating this field, they're giving advice that is more towards the woman's happiness.
	Right?
	We don't tell again, we don't tell women do the right thing, we tell them do what's right for you, which a lot of times is to leave, because it's like, oh, I can find something better.
	Right?
	We we um you know, the whole, you know, women will destroy where you water it.
	I'll put it simple.
	Uh uh you say what the grass greener where you water it?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, but most of you bitches don't have enough water is a problem.
	There's another girl said the same exact thing.
	Oh, the grass is greener where you water.
	It's it's it's hilarious because the problem is that you guys think that your water is filtered and fantastic and you got a lot of it.
	The problem is that you don't.
	And a lot of times you guys can't afford the wand that you're trying to water.
	If we're gonna be honest, you can't.
	You guys want to go ahead and get to have the palatial grass and it's all great and all this other stuff.
	You don't qualify for the men that you think that you have the value to water the grass of.
	And when you leave matters too, you don't have enough water.
	But when you leave matters as well.
	And that's the other thing.
	Y'all are waiting until after two kids.
	After five, eight, ten years, and being like, all right, now I'm unhappy, now it's time for me to leave.
	And when you're coming back out there at 35, 38, 44, what do you think is out there waiting for you?
	If if everybody's in their twenties complaining about the dating market now, what you think the dating market is gonna be for you twenty years from now?
	So the reality is is everything he's saying is like I'm actually seeing it.
	And it's the field is dominated by seventy five percent women, and a whole bunch of the feminine uh men who's also using the same talking points, and the field has kind of moved into a place where they're trying to validate everything.
	Also, they may have more money.
	The more therapy sessions you get, the better.
	There's divorce attorneys, there's divorce courts, there's an entire family court system that's designed to take resources from the man and give them to the woman.
	So there's an entire infrastructure to keep men and women apart from a financial perspective.
	So I'll just say it like this, right?
	Men, right, will sacrifice their happiness for their family.
	Women will sacrifice their family for their happiness.
	Women initiate 80% of the divorces, they take the majority of the alimony, they're incentivized to break up relationships because there's a financial backing to do it, and you can kind of do it with you know, uh fault uh fall-free divorce.
	Wait, so um so the reality is like when I say all these things, I'm not saying this to say, oh my god, relationships are in the shitter, but let me ask you a question, because you've been the one that questioned me the most, which is fine.
	I I like the inquisitiveness.
	If I gave you a million dollars, right?
	I give you one million dollars, and you go ahead and you buy a real estate property, right?
	And they tell you this property is gonna be prosperous, it's gonna make you a bunch of money, you're gonna be able to get double your money in ten years, right?
	Five years passes, and it's lost 50% of value.
	How'd you feel about that investment?
	Well, what did I do to make it better?
	Well, here's the thing.
	You thought that the neighborhood is gonna grow, you thought, you know, Jews were gonna move in, ended up blacks coming in, properties, real estate went down, etc.
	Shit you couldn't foresee in other words.
	Yep.
	Goes down half 50%.
	What would you do?
	They would be pretty pissed off, right?
	What an analogy.
	Come on.
	I feel like I I don't know.
	I just feel like there's work that has to be put in.
	Like, did I not do anything?
	Is it just because there are certain things that you just can't control, right?
	The place becomes a crime-ridden area, a bunch of black people move in, they fuck it up, it turns into the hood, it is what it is.
	You thought the Jews are gonna move in, blacks moved in, cooked.
	Property value goes down.
	It is what it is.
	So I had to keep it the whole time.
	So I at one point You held on to it because you don't want to sell it at a loss.
	But it goes down 50%.
	How would you feel about that?
	I just feel like you can I don't know.
	I I don't want to say what I think actually.
	Okay, you're you're taking the analogy way too literally.
	The point I'm trying to make is is that why are men gonna bust their asses to become super successful, make this money, right, and invest in two properties that they know are gonna depreciate and create headaches for them later, which is modern women.
	They don't want to obey them, they don't want to serve them, they don't want to be good wives, they want to go to the club and party, they still want to act like they're single, but they have a man.
	That's where we are as men nowadays in 2025, unfortunately.
	Girls are more interested in having a lit Instagram than having a lit relationship.
	Yep.
	Even down to late in in in if you want to know how close you are to what he's describing, think about when it is you want to have kids and when you want to get married.
	20, 30, 50 years ago, you would have probably been saying 20, 18.
	Now a lot of you are thinking 28, 30, so you've already kind of got those seeds planted in you to delay family, delay being a wife, all the things that would make you attractive to men, you're pushing those things off because you want to have your fun and kind of get that run in.
	So this is this is the stuff of like the indoctrination is not just like there was a class of feminism, it's just all around you.
	You you're you when you when you look at social media and you see all your girlfriends, the homegirls traveling, purchasing stuff, going on all these trips, that requires time and resources.
	You most people aren't doing that at 16, 17, 18.
	They're going to college, they're coming out, and then they're seeing social media, and it's like I want to experience that.
	So, what do you think's happening?
	You're now trying to experience those things as well, and all the while, the time that you were supposed to be focused on the things we're talking about, time's passing you by.
	So, girls, uh, do you agree?
	It's a great idea.
	I disagree.
	Because um I know you've been in the therapy.
	Uh, I don't know if you want to share it or like if he's right.
	Someone said they disagree, who disagrees?
	Go ahead.
	Only with the beginning portion of what you said.
	Sure.
	What do you disagree with?
	What part?
	Um, about pushing back kids, because I feel like with inflation and everything that's going on, like even child care costs, and I feel like when you're in a relationship with your man, like my man, my husband is before my kids.
	It's like me and my husband against these kids.
	So it's like if he's if he's being overworked and feels like he needs to make more money, because I think the average, every time you give birth to a baby, it's like the average cost to raise a child is like more than a hundred thousand dollars.
	I think it's like three hundred thousand dollars.
	I think that was maybe on an earlier conversation.
	So go ahead.
	I'm sorry, I don't mean to cut you off.
	Go ahead.
	No, no, go ahead.
	So two things.
	Number one, the reason why the cost went so crazy is because who doubled the workforce and increased and stagnated the wages in the first place.
	Women did.
	Number two, women that talk about the cost of kids, don't talk about the ability to adjust their life to the what a man's life can afford in terms of a lifestyle.
	Well, I'm saying as a couple, like, okay, like a partnership, because that would be like a conversation that you would have with your man, like, hey, hey, baby, when do you think is a good time for us to have children?
	Because if we do have kids right now, you're probably gonna have to pick up more hours at work.
	And then so it's just like a conversation.
	Most households, the man is not just working, now the woman has to work too to be able to afford a comfortable life.
	And what I'm suggesting is because you were born in this era, you're you presuppose that your income means something to a fancy way of saying it is reimagine you couldn't get a job.
	Okay, but you do you know you both want kids at some point.
	Is that how what would type what would your life how would your lifestyle shift and change so that you could have kids?
	What ends up happening is because you don't want to change the lifestyle.
	Now you feel like, well, now we gotta send the kids to daycare.
	Now we gotta send now we gotta pay for a nanny.
	Wow.
	Now we gotta do this, now we gotta do that.
	Well, that's what I was talking about.
	Like now, I'm just saying the reflection of now because honestly, the best situation would be for the mom to stay at home and the dad to go to work, but that's just not the reality with a lot of American families right now.
	And what I'm suggesting again is if you maybe I'm saying it different, saying I'm not sorry, maybe I'm not saying it correctly.
	Rather than adjust your lifestyle to what he can afford so that he can afford being able to do that and provide for the kids, you would rather continue to work at just to maintain So you're saying downsize.
	So you're suggesting, oh, okay, okay.
	I get that.
	So baby, like okay, I get that.
	I understand.
	So instead of having two cars, you downsize to one.
	You could instead of that makes a lot of people.
	The cost of the car, the cost of the mortgage, where we're living in the country.
	Like it's an example.
	As an example, it makes sense.
	That'll make it work.
	That'll make it work.
	Like Jerry, like me and my wife live in Jersey.
	Right.
	We're one of the most expensive states in the entire country.
	Our property taxes, our mortgage.
	New Jersey and Connecticut go back and forth.
	Our tax, our taxes are the cost of some people's mortgages per I mean, or our rent per month.
	Sorry, she wired the black your wife.
	Black.
	Right, go.
	So the point I'm making is if we really, really had to adjust and was like, yo, we want a second kid, but I feel like Jeff, you're gonna have to pick up more hours, or my wife's gonna have to pick up more hours.
	I'd be like, or we could just adjust our lifestyle and live better within our means so that we can afford a second kid even if it's just on my income.
	We may have to leave Jersey.
	But that my thing is like when he and my man, for instance, he works at Rolls Royce, so he's very flashy.
	I just Mitch, his name is Mitch underscore the one.
	Real quick before you go into this, I kind of know where it's gonna go.
	But I do want to talk, I talk about I talk about this in my book, Why Women Deserve Less, right?
	It's a hundred pages because women deserve less.
	But uh the point is that Amazon bestseller, by the way, you guys go ahead and get it.
	But and I'm gonna write a second one.
	It's called the White Women Deserve Even Less.
	Not even kidding around.
	Second book on the way can I see it?
	Uh sure.
	Um, but I in the book I talk about um the doubling of the workforce now.
	And how feminism uh came in, double the workforce, and that was able to effectively increase inflation, lower wages, etc.
	Yeah.
	Now I do want to say this because I already know we're gonna go.
	Well, we don't want to downsize, right?
	And that is exactly what they want because women have a problem with consumerism.
	Women have a problem with that, women have a problem with living a certain lifestyle.
	Most of them want to live would rather live a certain lifestyle, right?
	Than um then cut back.
	And that's probably for me and him though.
	He's used to the flashy lifestyle.
	I grew up in Wellington, so I'm not used to like designer this, this is a good thing.
	That's so upper middle class area.
	But well, but he no, but he is like he likes like him for him, it's like we have to have a high rise with the water view.
	And for me, I'm like, oh, I don't care about that.
	That's fine.
	But this is a rare situation where it's a man that's wanting to be the um, but he just likes to be like Sue.
	But most of the time, when it's them buying the nice house and everything else, it's the woman pressuring it.
	Oh, I want the car, it's the woman pressuring it.
	The materialistic stuff, it's a woman.
	There's a reason why, like, when you guys look at commercials, commercials.
	Have you guys noticed that commercial gotten way more woke recently?
	Yes, they're less Gillette.
	Have you guys thought about why?
	Consumerism, well higher, But who's buying?
	The women are buying more.
	Who's more likely to be woke?
	The women.
	There you go.
	That's why cars are made differently now as well.
	Like if you see every single car, now they're made more feminely because women are purchasing more.
	But that's just internal.
	So and and women make, you know, most of the consumer decisions, 80% of the debt, you know what I mean?
	They create a lot of the consumerism.
	So advertisers understand this, and that's why they've marketed their um geared towards that.
	Exactly.
	Towards women.
	But that's what I mean when I say like we have a problem with consumerism in America where women would refuse would rather work a job they hate to buy things they don't need.
	To impress people that don't give a fuck about them.
	Yes, boss.
	This is just downsizing.
	We're boss and having more kids and having a family.
	Hello, boss.
	And now we have birth rates that are through the roof.
	I'm sorry, that are low, right?
	We have really low birth rates, and we gotta import more immigrants to replace that birth rate.
	I mean, I don't know about you guys, but I don't want more fucking Mexicans and Indians and uh people from you know third world countries coming in here and fucking shit up that don't want to acclimate and you know, learn uh the English language.
	You know, immigration, I think we need to be at a point now where we need to cut that shit back.
	Now obviously this isn't a political podcast if you guys don't have to go into that.
	But look at the UK.
	You guys are overrun right now with immigration problems.
	Look at Canada.
	Toronto's filled with nothing but stinky ass jeats now.
	It doesn't even look like uh a a first world western country.
	We I don't want that in America.
	And the only way we're gonna be able to replace uh to fight that is by having families and getting the uh birth rates up, but we can't do it.
	So what do they do?
	They bring in more immigrants.
	This is a very big problem.
	And you guys are already suffering with it in the UK.
	Uh you guys just had a big ass riot not too long ago.
	Uh hundreds of thousands of people on the streets.
	Do you guys hear about that?
	Yeah, a little bit.
	Yeah.
	In London.
	A little bit.
	You guys didn't hear about it.
	I live in Spain.
	Uh okay.
	Well, oh, well, you guys have immigration problem in Spain too.
	Yeah.
	Like all of Western Europe is cooked.
	So I see what's going on.
	I'm like, damn, we don't need this.
	So the only way we're gonna fight that is we need to have nuclear families here of Americans.
	So you're saying that the more nuclear families that we have, the less problems it affects immigration.
	Or the less or the more economically So you're saying that the more children that we have in households, that's going to make people make so the replacement rate we're not replacing.
	Okay.
	Right?
	So what ends up happening is when you're not able to replace, you have to import immigrants.
	Immigrants come in and they have way more kids.
	But with the problem is that they come in, they bring their fucked up backed up culture, their fucked up culture.
	They don't want to acclimate, they don't want to learn an English language, etc.
	And you run into problems.
	And if you guys don't believe me, go to the southwest border, right?
	Right in Texas, and you'll see everyone's masking, no one speaks English, doesn't feel like you're in the United States.
	I spent several years there, and I'm like, damn, we can't have this in the rest of the United States.
	And this is slowly happening in a lot of major cities.
	So um that's how you um and if we don't, then we have to bring in more immigrants, and that's a problem.
	Understood.
	You know.
	Uh chats?
	Yep.
	Yeah.
	Yep.
	Okay, yeah.
	So does anyone else have anything with uh saying like the nuclear family and birth rates are super important?
	So chats, uh questions, and then we uh we end the show.
	Uh I show tits and somewhat photoshopped fresh into that gold, Mr. Pobo hat.
	What?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Uh yeah, okay.
	All right, that's not making fun of fresh because uh fresh is so black.
	Okay.
	Capsclub got it.
	Okay, yeah, someone's gonna definitely do that.
	Ask all the girls to see if they want to be a wife and have a family.
	Let's see their Instagram and determine where whether they're.
	Does everyone here want to be married with kids one day and be a wife?
	Everybody.
	Of course.
	Bill's cra uh Mo, you guys know what to do.
	All right, yeah.
	You guys know what to do.
	Um girls name three countries.
	Let's see if they of these horse lets have any intelligence.
	Spell check your shit, bro, if you're gonna call them stupid.
	Yeah, yeah.
	All right, three countries.
	Uh we'll start here with um Miss Ukraine.
	Um you can name uh where you're from or where she's from, or whatever.
	And uh are your parents like from Ukraine, or are you like uh second generation or third generation American?
	I'm adopted.
	Oh.
	Oh, okay.
	But let's not get into that.
	But yeah, I'm not sure.
	So that's what an ancestors does.
	Okay, all right.
	No, that's fine, bro.
	All right, uh, all right, name three countries.
	You can't name Ukraine.
	Okay, or Russia.
	Or a word.
	Or United States or Mexico or any other country that's named.
	What?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, you got it.
	There's still like a hundred ninety.
	Hungary.
	All right.
	Um, she's fucked.
	So China and Asia.
	Oh, China.
	Asia.
	Asia.
	Or are they continents?
	That was a continent.
	You live named the same continent and country as a child.
	We'll go to uh place.
	Sorry.
	I didn't pass geography in school.
	Alright.
	Alright, you're go.
	Go ahead.
	You're up next.
	Three countries, please.
	Iraq.
	Alright.
	Move up quickly.
	Hello, my board!
	Iraq.
	Come on, girl.
	Got it, man.
	I already said on the station.
	I was trying to say Haiti.
	Um.
	Nope.
	Damn.
	China.
	She said to me.
	Oh shit.
	Do more, you got this.
	I really don't know that you're going to be a good thing.
	Girls.
	I'm gonna be able to do that.
	You want to get married, girls, alright?
	So like this is your man watching right now, right?
	Not me or him or this nigga, right?
	So like you have to like put out there.
	Come on.
	Like you live on Earth.
	You got this.
	Two more.
	Two more.
	Like you live on Earth.
	You got this.
	Come on, you got it.
	Like you got it.
	Like you're the only black girl on the panel.
	Black girls are watching right now.
	Punch in the hair.
	Black girls, I don't know what we're doing.
	One more.
	I got two.
	That's all I have.
	I normally don't count in Zero, but that's fine.
	Yes, we do more.
	One more.
	Um vacation.
	Come on, you got it.
	I don't know.
	Damn.
	Okay, damn.
	I could only name like fucking cities and state right now.
	Alright.
	Alright.
	Name like one.
	I think it's cooked.
	Hollandale.
	Alright.
	Somebody's cooked for that other country.
	You got it.
	Go ahead.
	Three countries.
	Greece, Turkey, Italy.
	Alright.
	Go work.
	Come on.
	I love you, Bestie.
	You know, it gets it gets harder as you go on.
	Right?
	Because you get like, you know, you get all the countries in the beginning.
	You had the easiest one.
	But that's fine.
	Alright, what about you?
	Uh Paraguay, Bolivia, Colombia.
	Crazy.
	Spain, Poland, Morocco.
	Spain doesn't count.
	Because you're living in the middle.
	Okay.
	Vietnam.
	Alright.
	No.
	Ghana, Somalia, and Belgium.
	Alright.
	Oh, she's from she smashed this.
	That's what it's.
	Somali niggas were Somali pirates.
	I'm the first.
	Yeah.
	Ethiopia niggas dirty.
	Alright, what about you?
	Brazil, Honduras.
	Oh, Brazil, Honduras.
	I was gonna say Maraca, but she took mine.
	Alright, so I heard.
	I'm on the spot right now.
	Okay.
	Greece.
	She's in a great set.
	Damn it.
	It's Dubai.
	I don't even know.
	India.
	India.
	So Arabia.
	What's your final answer?
	I wanted to say.
	Is it India or Dubai?
	Which one are you gonna go with?
	India.
	Alright, fair enough.
	Okay.
	No, it came close.
	It came close.
	It's a city in the UAE, United Arab Emirates.
	Okay.
	Alright, so who lost?
	A couple girls lost.
	You and you.
	Oh my god, too, yeah.
	I can name more now.
	Two more less options.
	Wait, you know what?
	Oh, you know what?
	No, no.
	Since you fucked up, okay.
	Russia or Ukraine.
	Who are you supporting?
	Who you wrong?
	That's a mix of it.
	No, I'm asking you.
	I'm asking you.
	Since you failed the three question thing and you said I'm ready now.
	Okay, here's a nice here's a redeeming question.
	Yeah, fuck it.
	What are your thoughts on Ukraine Russia?
	Alright, so your thoughts?
	What?
	Wow.
	I don't know.
	That's why I'm asking.
	But did I hear something about them before?
	Yeah, but what are your thoughts?
	So you don't know at all?
	I don't know anything.
	She said recently in the country.
	I think everybody's gonna be a little bit more.
	Oh recently.
	She said it was.
	She said it was a good one.
	Pretty much.
	I don't keep up with the wars.
	The wars.
	I live in the presence.
	Oh, your presence?
	I don't got nothing to do with that.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Most girls from Ukraine don't give a fuck.
	Like, yo, she's not really like she's like, most girls are like her like ties.
	She did a she did a 23 meeting.
	Oh my god!
	This is so cute!
	Like, what's that?
	You guys gotta show a picture of Mr. Popo.
	So she's quick slap.
	No, no, that's what she means.
	Because it looks like Mr. Gotta show a picture of Mr. Popo.
	Alright, so anyway, what's crazy is nobody said Palestine, which is insane.
	Oh, yeah.
	Well, most people don't even rest in peace.
	Yeah.
	To who?
	How you finish that question is crazy.
	That's crazy.
	Yo, you're you call it fuck.
	Like, like soon we go into you like, yo, confusion about Russia and Ukraine, but not about Palestine as wow.
	That's crazy, bro.
	You know a little bit about geopolitics, apparently.
	Alright, what do you know about Palestine?
	Tell us about what you know about Palestine.
	I don't know.
	Everyone like rushed to another country from there or something because they were getting like in war or something.
	That's all I know.
	I sound like a dummy.
	I don't even want to embarrass myself right now.
	Too late.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Fantastic.
	Um, what country passed?
	I don't know if it's a law or I don't know what it was, but there's a country that don't allow women, women to show any parts of their body but their eyes.
	Well, there's no country that has that as a woman.
	You're thinking of Saudi Arabia.
	Okay, yeah.
	Yeah, Saudi Arabia.
	You know, Saudi Arabia is a very safe country because women couldn't drive until 2018.
	But now they can drive.
	So it's not safe no more.
	It's not safe no more because women can drive inside Arabia.
	Um, the fear is here, oh fuck a slash.
	I appreciate you, sir.
	Um, okay.
	Uh let's say well, bro, we're not on fucking YouTube, man.
	It's so great that I can like say what I want to say.
	It's comedy skip.
	Oh man.
	It's terrible.
	We're comedians.
	Why did they do that?
	Why did they do what?
	Oh, oh, the Barney?
	Oh shit.
	You're not looking at it.
	Hey, yo, I didn't even see that.
	Come on, I'm gonna go.
	Damn it, you guys are fucked up, bro.
	Let's thank Barney for taking I love you.
	You love me.
	Let's go.
	What the fuck?
	All right, you have anything you want to say back to this guy?
	Well, you can't just say this.
	Okay.
	Hey, kids.
	All right.
	Uh K24 Lopez says, So the one next to Myron, get that boob job, but guy will want to try other boob sizes.
	Help out, Myron.
	You explain it better.
	Help me out.
	I I mean.
	Okay, so your main cause I wasn't a part of that conversation.
	Your purpose of getting a boot job is because men complain?
	No, I said it was a self-insecurity I've had for a while.
	I feel like I look a little younger, like without uh upper breasts.
	I feel a little, you know, I work my chest out in the gym, so I have like very good pec muscles and having a bigger chest.
	Not too big, guys.
	It's not it's gonna very look very natural.
	Yeah, but guys guys will still fuck you though.
	I'm not looking for that though.
	I'm not seeking sexual attention sexual attention off of me getting my boobs.
	I'm still gonna be who I am.
	I'm not gonna sexualize myself.
	Sexual attention, though.
	Yeah, you will.
	And significantly more.
	Yeah.
	You know you want to.
	So be it.
	I mean, she said it wasn't gonna be that much of a difference.
	All right, you're talking the jasmine.
	No, no, no, let her come on, be let her be a girl's girl.
	I was just saying sometimes she already took you.
	You know what a girl's girl is?
	That's like grim code watching credit.
	What is a girl's girl?
	Oh, girls' girl is translation.
	You are a girl's girl.
	Let me enable a woman to have a delusional belief system that is not gonna serve her in the long term.
	That's the one.
	She said she wasn't, she said she wasn't gonna do it.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	That is not a girl's girl.
	That is not a girl's girl.
	That's not.
	That's cool.
	A girl at all.
	Okay, give me an example of what a girl's girl says.
	Like a girl's girl would be like, okay, like let's say you have a girlfriend and she's asking you, like, does this outfit look good?
	You're gonna tell her the truth.
	Really?
	You're not gonna let her go out crazy.
	You're gonna be a girl's girl, you're not gonna let her go out crazy.
	So we're gonna tell her, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Are you gonna tell her, look, you're fat, we're not gonna get into this club.
	You need to wear this, or we can't go to the game.
	Right now, I can call my friend right now, and I can put her on speaker and I can be like she will lie to you.
	No, she won't.
	She'll be like, dude, you're fat as fuck.
	You was eating.
	You was breaking your diet earlier today.
	Notice how she said her friend.
	I'm talking about these girls don't know each other.
	They're not friends.
	Is she saying a girl's girl?
	Because here's the thing.
	She said, Oh, I'm gonna get my boobs because XYZ.
	He correctly points out, well, you're gonna get more sexual attention or sexualization.
	Oh, I'm not doing it for sexual stuff, but you're gonna get that.
	Oh, well, and then you go ahead and you're like, oh, well, you know, it's whatever.
	And you're trying to get it.
	But I wish you're delusional.
	No, what I was saying is she already said she's not trying to do it in an exaggerated way.
	And a lot of times women's bodies fluctuate anyways.
	So it changes.
	I understand that.
	But regardless, right?
	She is going to be more sexualized regardless, is what I'm trying to what we're trying to say compared to what she has now if she increases her boob size no matter what.
	Anytime a woman accentuates like sexual features, she is gonna be sexualized more.
	It's just a good idea.
	But men naturally like that.
	Men like the opposite of what they are.
	For what though?
	For sexual purposes.
	We're not disputing that though.
	We're just saying, like, if you dress a certain way or put your portray yourself in a certain way, you're gonna be sexualized.
	Yeah.
	Look, ladies, okay.
	You guys want a big red pill here, women?
	You guys might not like saying this, but men can't objectify you unless you objectify yourself first.
	So when you're a dumbass, what's on that tight dress and says, Oh, I look so good.
	You've actually objectified yourself.
	Then you walk outside, don't get mad when objectify you guys when men objectify you in response.
	The problem is that women don't like taking accountability for their actions because you guys are stupid.
	And you guys don't normally take accountability for your actions because no one tells you the truth.
	Hey, if you get your boobs done, men are going to start to look more at your boobs.
	If you get your ass done, guys are gonna look more at your ass.
	If you're dressed in a provocative way, men are gonna look at you in a provocative manner.
	That's understood, though.
	That's common sense.
	Do you think that's common sense?
	Do you think social media clothes?
	You're going to be cat called.
	If you wear it.
	Yeah, then why do women complain and say I'm being cat called and also the shirt?
	Because they're just delusional.
	Oh that's only the way.
	What would you want your ideal woman to look like?
	Really nigga.
	Okay, uh, when we're like outside and stuff, or what do you mean by this?
	No, just like organically, naturally.
	Are you okay with cosmetics surgery and stuff like that?
	Like what do you seek if it's so No?
	I mean, I pr I prefer her to be natural.
	I mean, look, you want to do surgery, do it.
	But I'm just saying, like, don't be delusional, think that you're not gonna get sexual more sexual attention.
	That's fine.
	That's all I'm saying.
	I'm not saying do your boobs, it's fine.
	But just understand that um you are gonna be objectified more so as you accentuate your looks.
	This is just an uncomfortable reality of being a female.
	And you know what?
	I kind of do feel bad for you guys, because you guys aren't really ever respected on your merit a lot of the times.
	You guys are respected on your looks.
	Yeah, right?
	No one really cares about a woman's opinion or intelligence or anything like that.
	It's like, is she hot or not?
	That's what men care about.
	And that kind of sucks.
	But, you know, it's a weapon that you guys could use to your advantage, which many of you do.
	Um, but I don't think you guys use it the right way.
	I think most girls use it to party, meet attractive men, get flown out, whatever, and then don't use it to find a husband and lock him down long term.
	So it's like, hey, look, if you want marriage.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Sure, what's wrong with marriage?
	Yeah.
	So it's like don't get your boobs on.
	What?
	Don't know, I get your boobs on.
	I don't think it'll keep her from getting married.
	Uh-huh.
	I think I think the thing is the gosh you want, so you want to do the calculator?
	Yeah, do it.
	Let's do the calculator real quick.
	Um, okay.
	Do you have high standards?
	Um, no.
	I don't believe that.
	All right.
	Pull the calculator real quick.
	And then also have the Instagram's right to the girls.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's right.
	Instagram, please.
	Yeah, well, and we'll have all the Instagrams too.
	Um, okay, let's pull up the calculator real quick.
	This is the um dating calculator, ladies.
	And this calculator is the most accurate assessment of men in the United States accounts uh for the U.S. Census Bureau, the um CDC, National Health and Uh Nutrition Examination Survey.
	So, uh, what is the minimum age that you want your guy to be in maximum?
	Talking to me?
	Yes.
	Um the maximum?
	No.
	Minimum maximum.
	Oh, minimum?
	Yeah.
	Minimum would be uh twenty-five to like 45.
	Cool.
	Minimum height?
	Uh minimum height would be 5'10.
	All right.
	Race.
	Uh white, Hispanic.
	Black.
	No.
	Good, nigga.
	All right.
	All right.
	Uh, education.
	Um, I have associates.
	What does he have to have?
	Oh, oh, um, a no degree.
	They don't need a degree.
	Education is bullshit.
	Okay.
	All right, good.
	You're facts.
	All right.
	Facts.
	Uh all right, minimum income for you per year.
	Uh 80K.
	Okay.
	A year?
	Okay.
	You sure?
	Yeah.
	Positive?
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Uh, can you be married?
	Can he be married?
	Absolutely not.
	Okay.
	Can he be obese?
	Sorry, man.
	Um no, you have to.
	If you can't take care of yourself, you can take care of a woman.
	Sorry, Mo.
	Thank you, Chris.
	Alright.
	Let's uh let's see how prevalent this man is in America.
	Let's go.
	And uh, we shouldn't get away.
	Can you get the stuff, Chris?
	Uh congratulations.
	Uh one percent of men meet your requirements.
	Oh god.
	Um percent, that's a big range though.
	Uh you score um you scored four out of five cat bags.
	Yes.
	So what was that?
	Four?
	Four out of five cat bags, yeah.
	The 80k saved her.
	It was the 80k.
	It was the 80k.
	And any education.
	So um, let me ask you this.
	So since this guy um is one percent of the population.
	You said earlier, right?
	That you wouldn't change for a man, right?
	Uh no.
	Do you would you change for this man?
	With the one percent?
	Well, that's what you want.
	Clearly, we've seen that you're where do they get that one?
	This calculator is bullshit because it's a Facebook there.
	I'll give you a big ass.
	I just told you, right?
	It's like this, though.
	So this is this is this is the um this is uh this is actually really good to see because this is perfectly encapsulates what I said about women.
	Women have a gross overestimization of attractive men that are available to them.
	Okay.
	Yep.
	We put the filters in of age, height, income, race, etc.
	Can't be fat, not married.
	There's not that many of those guys around in America.
	In Miami.
	That's making 80.
	No, no, this is America.
	Yeah, America.
	This is in America.
	This is America.
	So you're so you're one the man that you want is one percent of the population.
	Now you said earlier at the show that you would not change yourself for a man.
	Knowing now that your guys literally 1% of the population, would you change?
	No, I would just change my standards.
	That's it, not change who I am.
	Would you lower your standards then?
	Yeah, potentially.
	What would you lower it too?
	That's not uh personality.
	She's laughing, how he walks, how you're talking about.
	And like you said before, this doesn't account for him looking good.
	This doesn't account for him being in shape or going to the gym.
	It's probably even less talks, yeah.
	Visible abs and shit, which is what girls like you typically want.
	So, yeah, this guy.
	If his biceps are smaller than mine, absolutely not.
	Yeah, then you're cooked.
	This guy's less than one percent of the population, bro.
	That's your job, though.
	Just to clarify this, if y'all saw, if y'all saw this example for a second, he's one percent of the population.
	He's not even a six-figure earner.
	He's one percent of the population.
	That's why I said earlier that the $50,000 made more sense.
	And that's why I was saying that that's actually the average income in most households.
	It is.
	So we cannot base things off of what we think are.
	Like that's the average.
	My only suggestion.
	My only suggestion is for y'all to actually realize what just happened.
	If you have this vision in your head of what it is that you want, and you are saying that you're not going to adjust for that man.
	You're cooked.
	You're cooked.
	Done.
	You're cooked.
	And you won't realize it till the wall smacks you in the face.
	It it it the wall is undefeated.
	It will be here.
	Or dick.
	So that's the thing is like you kind of have to realize like you want water too?
	I'm not saying make really drastic decisions tomorrow.
	But what I am saying is it's like you kind of have to take this seriously.
	Of like, yeah, the guy that you say you want, when you've come across him or find him, uh outside of him like telling you something crazy, you better get on his timetable and program.
	Yeah.
	Because there's guys aren't just everywhere.
	Well five for ten, eighty K per year.
	Um, you know, white or Hispanic, which is the majority of the population would say anyway, between those two gen those two races.
	Um not married, not obese.
	I mean, yeah.
	Cut out the black guys, cut out the black Asian guys.
	It wouldn't even go much.
	Yeah, and we wouldn't even it wouldn't even go much if we had a black or Asians anyway, they're minority.
	Um, and this already one percent of the population.
	Like, I don't think women understand like how rare the guy they want is.
	Now, I'll be honest with you.
	There's millions of women in America that look like you have your build, you know, are in shape, etc.
	Maybe have bigger boobs, but look just like you.
	That will change.
	So how are you gonna compete with these women?
	I don't compete with anyone at the end of the day, it's just me versus myself.
	All right, go ahead.
	You got it.
	Nothing, come on, Queen.
	The right person's gonna be.
	No, no, no, no, no, you're good.
	And uh nothing's worse.
	Nothing's worse than watching a race and seeing one or two people at the starting line that didn't realize the way he started.
	Oh, oh, I oh I should raise life is a topical life.
	Life is a copy.
	And guess what?
	Can you imagine a man walking around?
	A man Walking around and saying I'm not in competition with other men.
	He that that's insanity.
	But at the end of the day, like I know my value in life and where I'm at very content.
	The va the value that you that what's on the screen.
	I don't need a man.
	Fuck what that screen is.
	Oh no, there we go.
	Now it all makes sense.
	I'm just loving most guys.
	I feel like that only applies to the 1% though.
	No.
	And I'll tell you and I'll personally tell you why.
	Because most of you won't come across or know where to even find a 1% man, and you're actually going to be fighting for the top 20% man.
	Yep.
	But that's the same.
	That's actually much more your exp that's actually much more your speed.
	You got lucky.
	No, you don't have to be a good idea.
	Here's how it is.
	I'm his personal assistant.
	So I've been.
	We just started dating, but I'm his personal assistant.
	So I I rent we just started dating though.
	Well, not dating, but you know, we've been together from almost a year.
	Oh, so he's a fucking I mean he can do whatever he wants with my baby.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	That's fine.
	Go ahead.
	Yeah, yeah.
	But um that's okay.
	He's late.
	Um, no, but I feel like the competition aspect the competition.
	She's smiling.
	Look at that.
	Bro, just like talk, bro.
	Alright, I'll find the competition aspect comes when you're competing for the 1%.
	Most guys are losers.
	They're going to accept anything from a woman.
	If you literally cook and clean for a guy and do the most bare minimum, most men will actually like want a relationship with you.
	Most men can't even get pussy accessible to them anymore because of all of the stuff that's going on, like with women, you know.
	So you so you're effectively saying most men are not attractive to most women.
	So what I'm saying is it's like easy to gain a husband.
	It's easy to get a man because most men are not.
	It's not easy to gain a husband if it's not the man you want to marry.
	It's not easy to you're not getting away.
	Why does his looks matter?
	Why does this looks like that?
	Well, you gotta ask the ladies why the looks matter.
	You gotta ask the ladies why the height matters.
	You gotta ask the ladies why the matter is.
	None of those things matter though.
	To you.
	It does matter to all the women around you.
	Wait, wait, wait, wait.
	Height.
	Girls, salary, uh, his build.
	I'm not arguing with him.
	His masculinity.
	I'm listening to him.
	Et cetera, et cetera.
	There's a whole host of things that most women have standards for.
	Okay.
	That disqualifies most men.
	So whereas for you, you're comfortable in your set.
	Most women today are not.
	And when they get post 30, it actually gets harder.
	So when we're saying yet absolutely it is a competition.
	And here's the other thing.
	Because y'all don't want y'all don't want all the men that's out there.
	See, so she's lucky because she's got a guy out of her league.
	That's why she's satisfied and happy.
	So it's on you to keep him, right?
	She rolled her eyes, bro.
	He's better than you in every way.
	No, no, no.
	That's nothing too.
	Let me be honest with you, girls.
	Stop for two seconds.
	Let me be very blunt with a lot of you women.
	A lot of you girls are fucking replaceable.
	Okay.
	The things that women bring to the table that men actually want are very easy to find.
	Very replicable.
	Don't be a pain in the ass.
	Be quiet.
	Don't argue with me.
	Don't be a whore, etc.
	Submit to me.
	A lot of women can do this.
	Okay?
	But the problem is that the things that you guys are looking for are not easy to find.
	Decisive.
	Confident.
	Good shape.
	Tall.
	Money.
	Competent.
	Cloud.
	Right?
	Can teach you something?
	Maybe Cloud with some degrees.
	Right?
	In her sh in her case, in good shape.
	So this is very hard to find.
	So the problem is that there's way more of you than him.
	Kanye West famously said this, right?
	Here's a million views, there's only one of me.
	Right?
	There's a thousand uses, there's only one of me.
	And he was very right about that.
	Because even Kim Kardashian is famous as she thinks that she is.
	Guess what?
	There's a lot of bitches that look like her that aren't whores that didn't have sex on camera that he could go and get a younger version that isn't a whore and be fine.
	Okay?
	Because the reality is Kanye West carries more sexual market value in the dating marketplace than Kim Kardashian does.
	How many Chris Jenners are there?
	What?
	Her mom.
	How many people?
	Yeah, who's this list of things?
	So there's a man's mom.
	You're saying that women should just be able to do that.
	I was just asking you to care.
	I'm not gonna do that.
	That's a nonsensical question.
	That's nothing to do with the topic at hand.
	The topic at hand is simply this.
	Men's standards are lower than women, so therefore we could replace you guys easier.
	Yeah.
	So the higher standards, the more you gotta get in line and shut the fuck up and acclimate to the man.
	You want a one percent guy, but let's be honest.
	You are a 90%ile woman.
	What should I change?
	What would you say?
	Your advice would be to change that into a bigger percentile for me to expand to potentially find the man.
	Well, I'll I'll tell you this.
	Uh so okay.
	Uh uh I'll do a fitness example with you, right?
	Let's say you wanted to cut and do a show, right?
	What would you need to do?
	Um Uh clean diet, you know, um low cow, low carb diet, high protein.
	Perfect.
	You'd have to put yourself in a calorie deficit, right?
	Yes.
	If you don't put yourself in a calorie deficit, you are not gonna lose a weight.
	Correct.
	Now, what would you do to get to that calorie deficit?
	Would you do whatever was required to hit that goal for that shoot or whatever, maybe?
	100%.
	You need to make weight.
	Can you drink?
	Perfect.
	Can you drink?
	Yeah.
	No, you have to sacrifice.
	Fuck.
	Okay.
	So you would do what's required.
	You would you because you would need to do it, right?
	Yes.
	Now, let me ask you this.
	If you didn't need to do all that stuff, would you do it?
	If you could have lost the weight without putting yourself in a calorie deficit, would you make yourself suffer like that?
	If I didn't need to.
	If you didn't need to.
	And a hypothetical.
	Obviously, we know scientifically you do.
	No.
	You wouldn't, right?
	No.
	So let me ask you this.
	Why would you bother to be attractive to get a guy if you don't need him like you claimed?
	See where I'm going with this?
	If you only want to do it.
	I feel like they're two different categories though.
	You're comparing two different catalogues.
	But that's what I'm trying to explain to you.
	If you're not, if you if you don't need it, you're not gonna work hard enough to achieve it.
	Like if you need to get cut weight by a certain day, right?
	You know I need to be in a carrier deficit.
	I must do this, otherwise I'm not gonna get it.
	Same exact thing with a man.
	If I want a higher status guy, 1% that's attractive, I need to acclimate on his schedule.
	But the problem is that women think that they're gonna, in your situation, I'm gonna eat in a calorie surplus, but still lose weight.
	It's impossible, right?
	Right.
	Same exact thing with getting a more attractive guy.
	You must eat, you must uh you must by definition eat in a carry deficit to a degree to get that guy.
	You have to make sacrifices to get that guy.
	But women think I can have it all.
	I could be a raging bitch, a feminist, rude, obnoxious, keep my standards high, and still get my man.
	It's not happening.
	It's not fucking happening.
	I'll tell you this.
	I can't get no fucking Instagram model, bitch, and be a broke nigga working at 7 Eleven, right?
	Or outside pan handling.
	You sure?
	What if I told you guys?
	Yo, you know what?
	Fuck it.
	I'm not changing.
	I'm gonna be outside of 7-Eleven, homeless, with a fucking thing saying, give me some money, I want to get an IG model.
	Would you guys say I'm delusional?
	Yeah.
	Right?
	I'm homeless and I want to get a bad bitch.
	You guys will all laugh at me.
	So why is it that women think I'm gonna be myself, be a raging bitch, be annoying as fuck, and still get a top tier guy?
	True.
	Right?
	Isn't it kind of wild?
	Okay, so just brought him off to that's what never mind.
	Do you wanted the Instagram model?
	Yeah, I'm saying like if I wanted to get a very attractive girl.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And I'm homeless.
	Homeless.
	All right, so you would laugh at me, right?
	If I said I want that baby.
	Earlier, he's he said that the woman would have to lower her standards, lower how she wants to live or whatever.
	So if she did that just to be with you, then would she still be an Instagram model?
	I'm almost and would you still want her?
	I'm gonna clarify something real quick.
	A lot of ladies that are hearing lower their standards, what that actually is making what's going on.
	Yeah, what I'm saying is actually it's about making your standards actually realistic for who you are and what you bring to the table.
	So lowering your standards is usually because it's too high for who you are and what you bring to the table to begin with.
	So that's so that's the starting point.
	So if I'm an Instagram model and I have created something for myself.
	Okay, and what is what is that?
	Whatever I have created.
	I'm just speaking in general.
	Is that a huge following?
	Is that a lot of money?
	My lifestyle, the lifestyle that I have.
	So I make enough to where I can get my nails done, or I can get my hair done.
	Or I can buy whatever.
	Yeah, exactly.
	So if I'm there already, right?
	And somebody w like I I want to get with someone or someone wants to get with me in a relationship.
	Why would I expect less than what I'm already getting?
	Okay, you you read way too deep into my analogy.
	All I'm simply saying, because she wants a 1% guy.
	So I told her.
	What is a 1% woman?
	Female.
	Uh no.
	Doesn't exist really.
	It doesn't really exist.
	And the reason why I say that is because I'm the hidden gem, and so is the guy I'm trying to find, so.
	Well, why are you that?
	Alright, so what wait, oh my gosh, dumb conversation.
	Literally, majority of it.
	It makes you different though.
	From all the time.
	I'm just independent.
	I really don't need a man unless you're not.
	These girls are penalty.
	This is such a dumb thing.
	Like, I feel like a lot of these girls like want a man, but I don't actually strive for a man.
	I want the man to come to me.
	Like, you know what I'm saying at the end of the day.
	Like, I'm not out here searching for a man or being like, I need to be married by this age.
	I understand actually put it in better perspective when he kind of explained it.
	You're wasting those 15 years on this.
	And I'm like, okay, well, maybe like I do if I'm not married by 25, this plan B is like, you know, I'd be open to fostering kids at the end of the day.
	Oh, really?
	Okay, so one of your um one of your I guess things that you said makes you special is that you're independent.
	Yeah.
	Do you think men care about that?
	Yeah, well, they care because they want you to be codependent on them.
	They want to take over the guide you.
	They want to fuck you and your ass and your pick together.
	Alright, let's go back.
	Let's go back to sorry real fast and we'll address this.
	Okay.
	Let's go or her.
	Chris.
	Chris probably.
	Come on, man.
	Just leave your sleep.
	Let me run this shit, bro.
	Um, let's go to you first.
	So you read way too much into my analogy when I'm talking about the Instagram situation.
	Well, I wasn't just talking about the Instagram.
	I was just saying you're trying to peel a black to explain it.
	I all I'm saying is like if I'm a homeless man and I'm a bum, I cannot expect to get a bad bitch.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I use the Instagram model just as a placeholder term.
	No, yeah.
	But I'm talking about a very attractive young woman.
	No, I cannot attract her.
	Because my sexual market value is too low.
	That is the equivalent to a woman like her, no offense, that might be physically attractive, however, has very bad characteristics that are not conducive to a good long-term relationship.
	Okay?
	Because guys that are in the 1% are gonna want something in return from their woman, not just looks.
	Yes.
	I feel like it's a good thing.
	Beauty fan for women though.
	Well, I mean, I don't know.
	I feel like it's the same for women.
	What's the same for women?
	That women don't just want looks, they want something else.
	Precisely want to be a good idea.
	No, no, no.
	That both people want to be free.
	Precisely.
	Okay.
	So has higher requirements?
	Men or women.
	Facts.
	Depends on the person.
	Okay.
	In general, who has higher requirements?
	Women or men?
	Do you want me to answer what you're doing?
	Yes, Jasmine.
	Just in general.
	Who has higher requirements?
	Men or women?
	Come on, Jasper, I think you'll do it.
	I can't answer that question, I guess.
	You don't know that it women.
	For the rest of you, who has higher requirements in general, men or women.
	Women, men would fuck anything, men would do anything.
	Women have higher standards, right?
	Women have higher standards.
	Oh, okay, good job.
	Okay.
	So since women have higher standards, right?
	Men have to bring more to the table, right?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Don't let the sequel and change.
	I don't know why we're not going to be able to do that.
	People should just be of their words.
	I'll make it even simpler for you.
	The most selective men don't even come close to women that aren't as selective.
	The pickiest guys don't even come close to girls that aren't that picky.
	That just goes to show the big difference between a man's selection and a woman's selection.
	Men fuck what they can, women fuck what they want.
	God fuck you, you, you, you, you, you, and you.
	So th this whole situ like you don't uh believe it or not, another way to look at another way that I think can be really effective to look at it, and I've actually used this in in different discussions with folks, is is is it's kind of how it relates to like when you when you go for a job.
	Right?
	When you go on for a job, what do you bring with you?
	Your You're selling yourself.
	Yeah, your job description, you know, you wear it apart.
	Yeah, your portfolio, your resume, right?
	And imagine if you slid over your resume and the job that you wanted and everything that's on the resume had nothing in common.
	Completely irrelevant.
	Are you listening to that?
	Like you just said, completely irrelevant to what it takes to get the position.
	Yo, Mar.
	You got Oh, but I I I did I did three years.
	Can you say that one more time for her because she didn't listen at all?
	Yeah, no, no.
	I got distracted when you slide your resume over for a job position that you say claim to want.
	Okay, and then the person looks at the job desc not job description, your resume.
	Okay, and they look at it, and they're like, Well, this is a pretty interesting resume, but this has nothing to do with the position that I'm trying to hire you for.
	And you're going off about wait, uh I I I worked three years at Chuck E. Cheese and I worked at Chick-fil-A and I've done this and done that, and they say, ma'am, this is a job for accounting.
	You would be like, Okay, but I want the job.
	And they were like, Yeah, but you don't you're not qualified for this position.
	None of the prerequisite things that we're looking for in terms of experience in terms of what you bring to the table, in terms of your credentials, warrants me picking you over the other candidate whose job to whose resume does show those things.
	So if you want a now, you claim as of right now, and in your early twenties, I don't care about this.
	This isn't something that I want.
	Unless you can project this out for the next 60 years, at some point in time, you may actually feel differently.
	So if you do want the position of being a wife, it would behoove you to actually get out of your head and thinking, I don't need to care about this, I don't need to change anything, I don't need to adjust anything.
	Because when people get on the other side, it's insane.
	It's really, really difficult.
	So what's on the what's on the resume of a woman who's ready to fill the position of a wife?
	Are we talking about an algae woman or a traditional woman back?
	Period.
	Of all of all civilizations at all periods of time, there were things that they had to have known that the man that they want would want.
	So if you don't know that, I'm not shitting on you.
	That just means, all right, I gotta put a little bit more time into me.
	Spend some time with wives.
	Spend some times with older women.
	Well, I'll tell you this, she's already fucked, and I'll tell you, you're being way more polite about it.
	See, you said I'm independent.
	By being a wife, by definition, it means you're all that wifey shit before.
	I'm I'm just gonna go.
	Okay, be quiet for two seconds.
	Okay.
	Be quiet for two seconds.
	You need to listen because you have a very hard head, and it's very obvious that you've dealt with retards, and and uh no one told you that you're not as smart as you think that you are.
	So let me be very clear about this.
	The first thing that you put out there was saying I'm independent.
	That is fundamentally antithetical to being a wife.
	By being a wife, by definition, that means you are dependent.
	So if you want to be a wife and find a guy, you need to shut the fuck up and be dependent.
	Being independent will keep you independent in perpetuity.
	You gotta pick one.
	And I'm telling you guys, telling you this, as a guy that's a higher earner.
	We don't want bitches that talk back to us.
	Multi-millionaire, I'm gonna tell you, all of us think this way.
	We don't want women that talk back to us that tell us I'm independent.
	None of this bullshit.
	Because I could go get a girl that's 21 that's gonna shut the fuck up when I tell her to.
	And she could put the prize in a bag and she'll gotta do it no more.
	I'm gonna shock y'all with what I'm about to say.
	We don't care about independent women.
	Going to shock y'all about this.
	He doesn't have to be a millionaire to feel that way either.
	Exactly.
	Higher earnest.
	I'm not, I'm not.
	I'm not a millionaire yet.
	But way before I could get to that point, I feel the same functional way.
	Same functional way.
	And I learned with time that when I started to respect myself more and prioritize the women that just get it, it's way better than trying to mold a woman into being the one that I'm looking for.
	Why would I Well I had the time for that?
	Why don't I just deal with somebody who just gets it, likes me, treats me well, respects me, changes and adjusts the things that she was doing on her own without me when she's realizing the scene why I want to do life with him, it makes sense for me to adjust these things.
	One of the things that should be on your resume is the ability for you to be teachable.
	Here's the other thing too, I will say, ladies.
	Yes, all men feel this way, whether they make $50,000, $100,000, $200,000, it doesn't matter.
	Their ability to be honest about it is contingent about how much money they make.
	So once he makes $50K, he can't really tell you to shut the hell up.
	Because he needs you to make money and work with him.
	100K?
	Hey, you know what?
	Cut the hours back, you know, chill out.
	200k, 300k, that's when he starts telling you shut the fuck up.
	Over that, he's not even gonna tell you to shut up no more.
	He's gonna go get another girl and divorce you or leave you or whatever it may be.
	So I think women need to understand that a man's honesty, a lot of times with what he wants is contingent upon his income and his status, right?
	And the more status income he has, the less he's gonna talk to you.
	So I'm telling you guys now, I'm warning you.
	You want a guy that makes a certain amount of money, he's gonna expect something in return.
	You're gonna want 80k per year, that's gonna be a guy that's higher earner, that's probably gonna make more than that in the future.
	He'll listen to your back talk for a year, two years, three years.
	At some point, he's like, Man, fuck this shit, bro.
	He's gonna get rid of you.
	That back talk shit is not hot.
	Seven years.
	Men hate it.
	If you don't get this, if you don't get this 10, 15 years from now, you're gonna be talking about the man you're gonna be sharing.
	Okay.
	Because that's what's next on the list.
	If you think, oh, that that'll never be normal in America.
	Oh, we didn't think OnlyFans was gonna be normal.
	Now it is.
	We we didn't think a lot of the industries and things that's going on 10, 20 years ago that we have now, we didn't even know that men and women not being able to get along and have conversations without disrespecting each other was what it turned into right now.
	In the future, unless you're planning on being single in perpetuity or dating women, if you don't get this lesson now while you still had the youth on your side, you're going to the option is gonna be you reaching out, hey, hey, sis, how you feel about a sister wife?
	How do you feel about can I be number two, Number three, because that's what's next.
	Because a lot of women would rather stay alone than end up with a guy that they really didn't want.
	She's laughing, but I'm being she he's dead ass.
	I'll tell you guys, I'm never gonna be monogamous again.
	Every single girl I do it, I tell her I'm I'm having multiple women.
	Well, I don't like that.
	Well, that's too I don't give a fuck.
	What do you like?
	15 years from now, marriage won't be on the table, is what I'm basically saying for most of y'all.
	I can say that because there's only one of me, and there's thousands of millions of you, so I can say that.
	Oh, I'm telling you, ladies.
	That's why my guys are super conceited like you.
	You guys are so concealed.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Hold on, hold on.
	I mean, hold on.
	Hold on.
	He's in middle.
	Hold on.
	He is male.
	Hold on, hold on.
	I had to earn.
	I don't care.
	Hold on, stop for two seconds.
	Stop, stop.
	I had to earn this ability to be conceited.
	I had to earn this confidence.
	Competence leads to accomplishments, which leads to confidence.
	It's different.
	Women, you guys are born with your confidence because you guys, you know, maybe a Maybelline, whatever the fuck makeup titties, whatever.
	Men, we have to fight for our confidence.
	We have to fight for our ability to be accomplished.
	And once we do get the title, people say, damn, other guys want to be like us, other women want to be with us.
	So yes, I am gonna be conceited because we have to earn that.
	Women don't earn their conceitedness.
	You're 22, you haven't done anything.
	But you're very conceited, right?
	So you on other uh What are you saying?
	You're gonna say something?
	Well, I was gonna say so.
	Then what was the point of feminism if we didn't have to earn our conceitedness?
	Women never had to earn her conceitedness.
	And that's I I would argue female casiness is a problem.
	It's a big reason why a lot of you guys stay single.
	It's a big reason why you guys don't uh perpetually can never stay happy with a guy.
	Because you guys think you're worth more than you really are.
	But the reality is there's a lot of women like you.
	That's the problem.
	You guys don't see that.
	You all want a one percent guy, but you guys are all 99%ile checks.
	Yeah.
	If I have to do it, sorry, zero percent checks.
	A high value manager.
	That's a gay, that's a gay term.
	I hate that term.
	I I I think you can never call yourself that.
	That's what other people might attribute to you.
	But what I am saying is that men that are conceited, men that are uh that people say are cocky, whatever, nine out of ten times, they've done something to create that cockiness or cassittiness because we must become.
	At 18 years old, I'm useless.
	Ain't nobody inviting me to a fucking yacht party, right?
	Ain't nobody invited me to a magic party.
	But 99% of women don't want you because you want multiple women.
	And women don't know.
	You know what's interesting?
	Actually, most women will break that rule for the right guy.
	Yeah, they break that fucking role all the time.
	What about you breaking that rule?
	You just said you you you're with multiple women, like that's what you do, right?
	Yeah.
	So if the right wom woman were to come into your life, you would break that cycle.
	No.
	Okay, then.
	So why should she?
	Because there's way more of her than me.
	It's very simple.
	Supply and demand, ladies.
	So, ladies, if it's numbers, right?
	But like financially, like, where's your value?
	Like, what's your value?
	What do you mean by that?
	You say there's only one of you network.
	Why is there only one of you?
	Because I've seen billions and billions of the same you.
	Really?
	Yeah, all billions?
	Billions?
	Okay, thousands.
	We saw one person on the screen.
	We saw one person on the screen.
	Okay, so let's be let's be honest here.
	Do you think there's more attractive men or attractive women?
	Well, why is it all about attraction at the end of the day?
	Beauty phage.
	Like you're talking about.
	No, no, no, no.
	But here's the thing.
	That's the problem.
	See, thank you for proving my point.
	Beauty is your main commodity.
	Thank you for proving my point even further.
	Beauty is a woman's main commodity.
	That's not true.
	Yes, it is true.
	Because you're a model, you're a model.
	I don't think it's a good idea.
	You get paid to like topic.
	That's not true because you have it.
	You're a poop job.
	Why?
	I think you guys are definitely.
	What about you?
	Hold on one second.
	Hold on a second.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Hold on one second.
	Nobody cares that look the same.
	Nobody cares.
	Yo, look.
	Look.
	And that's why there's a lot of things.
	Here's the difference.
	Here's the difference.
	Okay.
	Let me be very honest with you.
	You're a cute girl.
	If you worked at McDonald's or you did the cosmetology that you do, no one would care.
	You'd still be able to get dates.
	If I worked at McDonald's or I did what I did, it would really affect the way for me to get dates.
	I think that's cat.
	That is my point.
	I think that's cap.
	Because he's an attractive guy.
	I would struggle with girls.
	He's a cute guy.
	I appreciate that.
	Cute?
	I try.
	I appreciate that.
	I appreciate that.
	But ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies.
	Stop.
	I don't know what ethnicity are you, but you know I'm not into black guys.
	He has 10 different girlfriends, so you can't even try it anyway.
	Ladies, ladies, ladies, that's not not sort of important.
	Okay.
	Because here's the thing.
	A male attraction, let's go with that.
	Oh, you're handsome.
	A male attraction.
	Male attraction does not go as far as female attraction.
	I'm never going to get into a club for free because I'm handsome.
	I'm never going to get invited on the yacht party because I'm handsome.
	I only get invited on the yacht party if I know the right people.
	I make a certain amount of money.
	I have a network.
	You on the other hand can get into that y'all party or get into certain social social situations because of your beauty.
	A woman's beauty burns brighter and stronger, shorter period of time, but it goes way further.
	A man's handsomeness doesn't get him anywhere, unfortunately.
	So it's not the same.
	I mean, I met a lot of male, but I got it.
	But no, no, no.
	Bathroom.
	Uh oh, wait.
	The black chick is leaving.
	Oh, yeah.
	The glue was getting into her head.
	Yeah.
	So I mean, like it's a good thing.
	So real quick, ladies, because I I between what Myron's saying, what I'm trying to communicate saying with Chris, I have a very, very short story, and I hope it could be helpful.
	Yeah, go ahead.
	When I was twenty-nine, about thirty.
	I uh had to fly to Chicago.
	My family lives out there.
	Love Chicago.
	And when I um got my layover, well, from leaving.
	I had a layover in Atlanta.
	And it was only for like an hour, hour and a half.
	Flew from Philly, Atlanta, from Atlanta to Chicago.
	I had a dating app on my phone.
	BLK.
	Black.
	Oh, black?
	Yeah, it was it was on it was popping, right?
	When I when I was black.
	When I left Philly, I forgot that the app was on and tracking my location.
	When I got to Atlanta, it picked up the fact that I was in Atlanta, and then when I got to Chicago, I turned my phone back on.
	Had seventy women that had initiated contact with me.
	Why?
	Which of those 70 women do you think would get to dictate and tell me what I can do with women in the market?
	I have been in one city for an hour and a half and I had landed and got in the car in Chicago.
	That was six years ago.
	What makes you think the overwhelming majority of women have any leverage over telling me what to do?
	And again, I'm not a millionaire.
	So if all almost eighty women are matching with me, choosing to initiate contact with me just by me getting on a plane and landing and then getting on another plane and landing with having no married.
	Yes.
	But the point that I'm trying to make is I don't think that y'all understand what this young lady, um uh Sunshine was struggling with this is why it's so important to not kind of go off of just that initial feeling of I'm gonna do what I want, I don't have to need a man, I don't need to change anything.
	Because when we say your leverage is effectively gone at 24.
	That's what I was trying to explain to her.
	It's like the leverage is gone.
	Like the beauty is common, and that's what men care about.
	Okay.
	Men only care about beauty only.
	That is a m that is the main commodity that men care about to start with.
	Who's gonna push your wheelchair?
	Like, let's say you get paralyzed.
	I mean, I like make a one of the ten bitches that you're you're seeing.
	No, just yes.
	So you have to think wrong, but who's gonna push your own?
	Actually, statistically speaking, what yes, what one will.
	But the point I'm trying to make is is that the main thing that men look for is beauty.
	That's common.
	That's what I'm trying to explain to you.
	The things that you guys look for are harder to find because women's standards are higher.
	But you're saying Okay.
	You're saying that the main thing that men look for is beauty.
	Yes, starting with it.
	But then we were just talking about attractiveness for men.
	So are we also talking about the physical attractive our handsomeness does not go as far, okay?
	Here's the thing.
	If I'm an ugly man or look or average looking or whatever.
	This is what I'm trying to explain to you.
	Fresh.
	But that Chris, stop, bro.
	I mean an ugly man, right, can make up for his ugliness in other ways.
	He can make money, he can be charming, he can be charismatic, he could be funny, he can be famous, he can be a good person, he could be polite, he can be charitable.
	There's many ways that a man can make up for being ugly.
	But if a woman's ugly, it's over.
	He she's not even gonna the guy's not even gonna want to talk to her if she's not if she's not attractive first.
	You understand?
	At least a man can make up for his lack of low sexual marketing.
	No, but I mean, I've seen women that are not the best looking being.
	Is that why are you making that?
	Is that common is that the exception?
	I never said I mean I never said it's common, but it's it all goes back to the natural buttons.
	I don't know, you just told her not to get them.
	I think it is more common for an average woman to be with a high earner.
	An average looking woman to be with a high earner because she's gonna take more than what a supermodel pretty girl.
	Well, I tell girls all the time.
	I mean I tell you more.
	I tell men that are higher earners to get more average girls.
	Six to sevens.
	You don't want to get like an eight, nine ten because these girls tend to come with problems.
	But yeah, but they're gonna have side chicks that are eight, nines, and six.
	But those don't matter.
	You're just a side chick.
	You're not benefiting.
	Who cares?
	You're if you're anyway.
	No, no, no, no.
	No, I'm just telling you what it is.
	Like, look, if you want a guy that's gonna be more faithful, that's only that's gonna have no other women, get a more average man.
	That's fine.
	Yeah, not wrong with that.
	That's not true.
	You can have a completely high value man higher than yourself.
	Who?
	My ex, for example.
	You're single.
	Yeah, I said my ex.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So aren't you all together then?
	Yeah, why?
	To be honest, domestic violence, and I told you that in the beginning.
	Because he like he wasn't high value.
	I'm sorry.
	He wasn't high value because it was domestic violence.
	He punched the shit out of you or like some like verbally shit.
	Yeah, I wouldn't see.
	I don't want to get into it, but as far as being I'm not gonna tell you like what he did to me, but it wasn't high value.
	Yeah, if you're punching chicks, bro.
	I don't think you should down at the end right place to be doesn't put it in or screen.
	You are a friend, all right?
	Any dude that's punching girls is not higher status, bro.
	Or uh so you don't higher value.
	Look, look, I I don't see respecting women.
	Yeah, I don't.
	Uh and I'll explain what I mean by this.
	Yeah, I don't.
	Exactly.
	And here's the thing.
	This is precisely what you're saying.
	Like I said, nobody's gonna push your wheelchair.
	Um here, here's the thing.
	You need to listen for two seconds before you just like respond.
	You just talk to you just listen to respond.
	When I say I don't respect women, I don't respect women as equals, and that's precisely how you want it.
	Because if I respected you as an equal.
	Listen.
	That's not how I want it at all.
	Well, you everybody just needs to go back to the traditional way of a woman being a woman and a man being a man.
	But you want ten women at once.
	So if you're not strapping, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Okay, you just said you want a traditional relationship, right?
	Correct.
	You do understand that a traditional relationship is inherently unequal.
	Yes.
	I do understand that.
	Okay.
	I am not trying to be able to.
	So I don't respect women as equals.
	Why?
	Because I understand traditional relationship dynamics.
	I am the leader.
	I am the dominant force.
	Understood.
	But you said you don't respect women.
	You didn't.
	Let me finish what I was saying.
	I said I don't respect them as equals because that's not what they want.
	You guys don't want to equal, and you just said it yourself.
	You admit it.
	I want a traditional relationship.
	A traditional relationship by definition is not equal.
	Because I have far different burden than you do.
	So we are not equal by any means of the str uh of the wheel.
	I wouldn't want to be equal either.
	What do you matter?
	I don't respect women as equals.
	That's what you want to do.
	You say you you disrespect women, but you got to be able to do that.
	No, I said I don't respect them as equals.
	That's what I said.
	But I get yeah, I get the status of the whole like.
	That's not disrespecting them.
	That's actually respecting them even more so because I understand their limitations.
	If me and you were dating and someone broke into the house, I would be disrespecting you by saying, hey, I need you to go fight them with me.
	I wouldn't be with you because you got ten bitches, which means you're not a good man.
	Yes, it's a hypothetical.
	Can you can you use your brain for two seconds and like get out of it?
	It's not hypothetical.
	Get out of your emotions for two seconds.
	It's not real.
	Hypothetically, again.
	It is.
	It's not.
	It's not.
	Oh yeah?
	No woman wants to be in that position where they're competing against ten different other women.
	You guys are so fucking dumb.
	You can't even go into the hypothetical world.
	We're not talking about ten women.
	I'm talking about I'm listening to the city.
	Listen for two seconds.
	You guys are so goddamn triggered about ten women.
	Let's assume I'm monogamous to you.
	Okay.
	So then let me have ten girls.
	Okay, no, no, no.
	Let's assume that makes you a whore.
	Anyway, let's assume.
	Let's assume we're in a monogamous relationship.
	Use your brain, ladies, and think for two seconds, not and just think and listen.
	Monogamous relationship, traditional relationship.
	I'm the breadwinner, you're at home.
	So motherfuckers break in.
	I tell you, I need you to come fight with me.
	That's not fair to you as the female.
	That is not your job.
	I'm gonna tell you to go hide in the fucking closet.
	I'm gonna go get the guns, and I'm gonna go deal with the problem.
	You're gonna call 911 and stay in a safe area.
	Lock yourself in a room.
	It would be unfair.
	It would be irresponsible.
	It would be evil of me to tell you to come fight with me.
	Because that is not your job.
	Guess what?
	That's not me treating you like an equal.
	And that's precisely what you want.
	You want me to be the one that's gonna be on the front line and deal with the problem while you stay in safety.
	We are not equal.
	That's what you want.
	That's not what I want.
	Oh, you want to go out and fight with me?
	You want to go out and shoot these motherfuckers with me?
	Yeah.
	Hell no.
	Where men got drafted, not women.
	So then I'm giving you the inequality that you want.
	That's fine.
	That's fine.
	I don't want to be equal with you.
	So what?
	So what the fuck are you bitching about?
	I'm not bitching about anything.
	You're just not a top tier mainland with 10 girls.
	You're still stuck on a 10 girl shit.
	That's that's way we're that's we're way better.
	You keep talking about women and respect woman, honestly.
	I have nothing left to say.
	Look, he's rich as fuck, he can do whatever he wants.
	Thank you.
	It's not a yeah, I mean it's not a good thing.
	I don't care.
	Look, I'm just I'm just telling you, like, this is just how these guys think.
	Like, you're so stuck on like 10 women or whatever.
	Look, guys that have money a lot of times or have status, they're gonna have multiple women.
	I'm just being honest about it.
	Most guys are not monogamous and never happened to me.
	Uh you think your guy never cheated on you?
	Never never, baby.
	You can put him on this camera right now, never.
	Why would he have a reason to cheat on me?
	I never.
	Yeah, listen, let's trust the guy that beats on women.
	His word matters, right?
	Oh, you never cheated on me.
	If you just punching me, I promise you're fucking other bitches.
	Yo, you promise you single.
	That's not a person of a good higher moral character.
	That's not a person of high moral character.
	If you're punching women, bruh, you are absolutely on some other bullshit.
	Yeah, sorry.
	If you think he was being, oh, you know what?
	I draw the line of cheating.
	But come over here.
	Get the fuck out of here, man.
	Then they're gonna write you and Ken at once.
	Listen, paint her with the Hadoukins and all that.
	Hold on, but I'm holding the bitches.
	Like just be real, man.
	Be real, bro.
	Like, come on, man.
	Oh, what?
	What?
	You uh triggered or what uh are you talking to me?
	Yes, but I'm not triggered.
	I'm like, I'm just looking for a time check.
	That's all.
	Oh, Tom Because you're triggered.
	I'm not triggered, honey.
	You told me 1230 and we drove three hours.
	Oh, 1230.
	You know what, girls?
	It's two o'clock almost.
	Is it really?
	Yeah, leave.
	I'm missing the club tonight.
	Oh, yeah.
	All right, who else?
	Look, you look, honestly, you guys are gonna get you guys getting the best advice ever.
	Yeah, right now.
	Oh, you know what?
	Ben?
	Okay, Ben.
	Oh, yeah, that's what we're supposed to do before, right?
	All right, fine.
	You know what?
	Girls, um, Maren, finish.
	And then girls.
	No, I'm good.
	I'm good.
	She just like stuck at the 10 girls thing.
	Like, that's what triggered her.
	Not you.
	You're your buddy over here.
	It's fine, bro.
	She's so mad about the 10 girl things.
	I'm not mad about anything.
	You live your life.
	I I think um she's gonna be like, You couldn't even listen to any knowledge.
	She didn't understand it.
	I think it was a miscommunication because she did not when you you didn't say monogamous.
	Yes.
	Correct.
	When she still kept bringing up these ten guys or ten girls, whatever.
	Yep.
	And she didn't know that you were just talking about an individual.
	She wasn't trying to understand that it was probably just an individual and not ten people.
	She needs to take the 10 person out of the consideration.
	Well, no, and the other way.
	The premise is basically I'm not gonna be monogamous to one woman.
	I'm just not doing it.
	But are you treating them?
	Like, are they when they're with you?
	Are you treating them out?
	No, no, no.
	Okay, the dungeons are happy.
	So then they're happy.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	So you want to know why they're even more happy because I'm up front.
	I tell them I'm not sure.
	So are you a sugar daddy?
	No.
	What the fuck?
	No.
	Never.
	No.
	I thought you didn't want a sugar daddy.
	Yeah, I yeah, it's not a big thing.
	How do you keep up with 10 women then?
	Put that on the shirt.
	Look, look, look, look, I don't have I don't have like 10 girlfriends like you guys think.
	I have girls that I deal with, whatever.
	If if uh she passes her vetting phase, then I date her seriously for a bit.
	Most girls don't make the vetting phase, so I don't take them seriously like that.
	They just say, Oh, okay, so you haven't found the person that you want to deal with and actually make the change for either.
	Yeah, but I'm not gonna change for a woman ever.
	Ever.
	That's the worst thing you can do, is change for a woman.
	I mean, what if you say this now?
	I mean, you don't first of all, you don't change for a woman.
	Okay.
	You change to become a better version of you.
	Okay.
	I'm doing that by myself, right?
	Right.
	So that's why she was attracted to me in the first place.
	But then, but then what if you find someone?
	You're saying this now, right?
	And you're not you're not married, right?
	Nope.
	Okay, so what happens if you find someone along the path that inspires you to change?
	What change for what?
	Have like not have multiple girls?
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	Something that happened.
	Yeah, I guess not have multiple girls or to change.
	Alright, let me be very blunt about this.
	Yeah.
	We don't negotiate with terrorists.
	We don't negotiate with women over here.
	I don't look at women as equals.
	I look at them as subordinates.
	Oh the boss doesn't listen to what the employee thinks.
	Your employee, you work for me or not.
	This is a prestigious law firm.
	You do what I say.
	This is my code of conduct.
	I don't fucking change for women ever.
	But most women are turned on by that.
	That's why they want the one person.
	Precisely, thank you.
	Yeah.
	That is why I will never change.
	That's why we want the one percent you see me.
	I don't negotiate with women.
	Negotiating with women is futile.
	It will lead you to problems.
	Like she sits here and says, Oh, you shouldn't have 10 girlfriends, blah, blah, blah.
	But the reality is she doesn't want this equality that she's claiming.
	And I don't mean to blame you.
	To insult you.
	But this is a female paradigm.
	Did you notice that she was arguing for equality, but at the same time, I was making points that she doesn't want to be equal?
	Do you notice that during that conversation?
	Facts.
	She literally got mad at me for practicing.
	She said, You I said, I don't respect women as equals.
	She went into a whole argument about why she thinks she's equal.
	And then I said presented facts where you actually don't want to be equal.
	She's like, You're right.
	I don't want to be equal.
	I'm like, so what are you arguing then?
	That is female mindset.
	Okay, so the reason why I'm asking is I have I like to read.
	Like I like to read comments, I like to read in general.
	Okay.
	So good book is called uh my struggle.
	Yeah.
	In German.
	call um Jeff.
	We're comedians.
	How do you feel about what he's saying?
	Comedians.
	Jeff.
	Jeff, you're not referenced.
	No answer.
	Oh my god.
	We're comedians.
	No, because we have like a chance to do that.
	I'll actually I'll actually answer that.
	We have a happily married man.
	Yeah, I'll and then a single man that has a lot of women that he deals with.
	Yeah, I'll actually answer.
	Number one, he's absolutely right that it's important for a man not to continually try to change and adjust for a woman because she a lot of times they actually end up losing respect for that man.
	Okay.
	Because they start to see he's malleable.
	That I can make him do what he wants.
	I can make him do what I want based on my feelings and emotions.
	They want a man that's going to be a leader, even when her emotions are good or bad, he's he knows what to do.
	So that's the first issue.
	Number two, that story that I gave in regards to the 70 plus women that were matching with me when I was just traveling.
	Okay.
	That's the that's the reality of the market.
	That's the reality of the market.
	And it was created like that because as women started to continue to work, there's their their their uh their uh desires and expectations for men went up.
	Now you have ladies like Sunshine over here saying they want a 1% man.
	And a lot of you are talking and behaving as if you want a top one five, 10% man.
	You all are effectively in the 90%.
	But what just to clarify, just hear me clearly.
	Yeah.
	The person that's in the 90% doesn't have a lot of negotiating power over the person that's in the 1%.
	Have you ever men and men how do we know that?
	How do you know that?
	Are you talking about the people here or just in general?
	Okay, the people here and the people in general.
	And what if how do we know this?
	Because of the attraction triggers.
	What you want and what I want are two totally different things.
	You want someone generally, or maybe not you specifically, but everybody else at the table want somebody that's taller than them.
	I would ideally want somebody that's shorter than me.
	You may want somebody that's stronger than you.
	I don't want to be dating with female bodybuilder.
	You may care about his money.
	I don't care about your money.
	So the reality is when you keep trying to have these, well, well, what about men and equal this and equal that?
	Nothing, nothing that we're looking at, nothing that we're before you respond, because you're as you're listening, instead of trying to engage to get ready to say the next part, realize what's what's being said.
	Every point that's being made from here, here, and here, is often about how things aren't equal and how things aren't fair.
	Right.
	The entire time, no matter how Myron is trying to explain it, even if I've said it in my professional way, there's a reason why it's not equal, and it feels that way.
	It wasn't equal five, eight years ago when you were getting more attention than you ever could, and I could barely get any.
	Dick.
	Okay.
	So you have a run where things are going to be more in your advantage.
	Okay.
	That happens for us after 30.
	Yep.
	So everything you're attracted to and I'm attracted to are often the opposite.
	Why does it happen before you're 30?
	And also Because the opposite, but I'll pause right there and slow down right there.
	Why?
	Why would I say that?
	Because an 18-year-old female and an 18-year-old male does not get the same attention in the dating market.
	Right?
	Everybody is if you ask why, it's it's quite obvious.
	Because your main uh product that's being offered to the market is what?
	Your youth and your beauty.
	A 18-year-old man for most women in society, 25, 35, 45, 55, do they want an 18-year-old man?
	No.
	No.
	Even if he's handsome.
	Flip it.
	Take the same exact example.
	Uh an 18-year-old woman.
	Would a 25-year-old want to deal with her?
	Would a 35-year-old potentially want to deal with her?
	So what we're saying is our attractions are different, different.
	What we're drawn to is different.
	Everything that we're looking for in each other.
	So when you're talking about your money, what's equal, what's fair, it ain't.
	And that's why.
	And the women who get it, the women who understand the difference.
	They were taught, they were trained, or they did what you said you were so good at earlier, the ability to observe and adjust.
	Right.
	If you have great observation skills, you should start screening out and looking at the women in your life, the women you follow on social media, and seeing are they having the outcomes I want versus the women who are wives or like many of you have said, This is what I want.
	I would suggest you surround yourself with those types of women and start being influenced with them.
	Because rather than go are if you're arguing with men on a platform about what men want, that lets you know how far off you are.
	Yeah.
	I'm not arguing about it.
	And I'm saying that I'm not saying that as a direct shot to any of you.
	I'm saying if you're going back and forth with men about what men want, and if a millionaire is telling you, and a non-millionaire is telling you.
	I mean, like we all think the same.
	Okay, regardless of income level.
	Okay.
	We really do all think the same.
	That's it.
	I think that everybody, everybody wants different things.
	And I think majority of women want a man that's taller than them.
	A majority of women want a man that makes a good amount of money.
	A majority of men, majority of women want a man that's very charismatic that can hold a conversation.
	So although everybody may want unique specific things, there's general things that both sexes tend to want.
	The majority of men want a woman that's attractive.
	Majority of men want a woman that's not gonna keep talking back.
	That's not gonna keep trying to get the last word.
	Look, I think you see.
	People are looking for the same general things in the apartments.
	Okay, can I say what I'm trying to say?
	What I'm trying to say is Yes, things are not equal, but they can complement each other.
	Agreed.
	If a man wants a woman that's shorter, the woman probably wants a man that's taller.
	Yeah.
	And other things like that that you already mentioned, the woman is gonna want the opposite or something that complements that.
	So what are we looking for?
	Are we looking for just looks?
	Are we like what are we in relationships for?
	Looks is just the starting point.
	I think what are we in relationships?
	But in the first place, looks like the initial trip relationship.
	The look, the looks is just the it's just what gets your foot in the door.
	I think the conversation actually got diverted.
	I think the whole point of this conversation is if you're looking for a husband, then you're not looking for the one percenter.
	You're looking if you're looking for a man to marry, then stop looking for the one percenter.
	Because if you're looking for a one percenter, you're gonna look to deal with certain things that you're just not ready to deal with.
	Look for a man that you want to marry.
	Look, find what is in your range that you're willing to deal with and that you want.
	And I'm don't mean to I know we're running on time, but when you say women don't want to look for the one percenter, they shouldn't.
	They don't need to.
	What she just gave, what Sunshine just gave is a guy that makes 80k.
	And it's five foot ten.
	You're picking one.
	And that's above the average American income.
	But what I'm but what I'm saying is is But the man means needs to make more than me, and I make nearly that.
	So, like I mean, I don't know at least 80K.
	Yeah, so what happens?
	No one is shitting on your standards.
	No, fine, no.
	He's simply saying, because you're being delusional about this, most women want what she wants.
	If her but then you have to, as a woman, you have to tell look at yourself in the mirror and say, is what I'm wanting or asking for even what I want.
	Oh, because if you're that's using your brain, and most women don't do that.
	Okay, but if you're then you're wasting your time in your life, and it's I wish more of them thought the same thing.
	Honestly, I but as you can see from during the course of this conversation, but if some women are trying to put the mirror up right now in this conversation, no, but as a high earning woman, more Most men want a high earning like most men who are married, if you look at the medium income in the household, they're married to wives who make almost the same amount of people.
	We don't give a fuck about your income, man.
	Holy shit.
	So you still got the feminist propaganda plugged in you.
	Like, no, no, I'm not saying that.
	If you lost your job tomorrow, your guy would not give a fuck.
	No, no, no.
	I'm not saying as a one percenter you wouldn't.
	But what I'm saying is a guy who makes 80k, who's an engineer and has a wife who's a nurse who's also making close to the same amount of income.
	He never made the decision to date her, deal with her, everyone's not.
	No, no, no, no.
	I'm not saying that.
	But that's the point I'm making.
	So you you almost have to stop referencing women's money to understand men's perspective.
	Your money means nothing.
	Take the money out of the question.
	Yeah.
	If my wife lost her job today, thank you.
	That would not change my feelings about her now or six months from now.
	If I lost my job today, six months from now, she's gonna start scratching.
	Yep.
	Really starting to reevaluate if this is the guy for me long term, and that's a totally normal thing.
	And healthy too.
	Just by default of the fact that typically what what you're actually speaking to is couples where both parties tend to make more money, especially the higher up they go in income, the less likely they are to divorce.
	That that doesn't have any bearing on why it is he chose to stay with her.
	It just so happens that people who tend to make really great decisions economically, financially, and if they get together and make it past, I think it's five or seven year period, they're statistically much better at staying long term than people where one person's making a certain amount and the other person's making nothing, or both people are broke.
	But I'm not sure.
	That's all that means.
	But the reason why he's staying with her, the reason why he's with her has nothing to do with them her money.
	As long as we if we can establish that, then that would re-change.
	Because remember, you're giving advice from something you haven't done and have an experience yet.
	You haven't counseled married couples.
	You are not married.
	So when you're putting things out on the internet over a microphone in front of other women who aren't even having what you have right now.
	Yeah.
	Well, I'm trying to tell the privilege of a higher earner.
	Yeah.
	When I'm saying, No, no, no, I'm not speaking out of privilege.
	I'm speaking out of the origin the origin of the conversation got diverted.
	So we were talking about basically you women being delusional and wanting a high percent earner and not being able to get that because their standards are all fucked up, and then they're not they're like, oh, I want a high percent earner, but I don't want to deal with what comes with that.
	That was like the or that was the basis of the conversation.
	So I was looking back to that.
	But in regards to the thing, the conversation got diverted.
	Yes, and I agree.
	And but back to your second piece, ladies, you can work if you want to work.
	You can get whatever job you want to make, make as much money as you want.
	But when you saw the calculator that shows you very clearly how hard it is to find that man, I'm just basically suggesting if you find him.
	I want to know what the one percent woman is.
	If it doesn't exist, it doesn't exist.
	It doesn't exist because you're not a one percent woman unless you're with a one percent man.
	Do you do you ladies understand that a woman is trying to take a man's last name?
	Your identity doesn't matter.
	Your career doesn't matter, your background doesn't matter.
	All that matters is can you get an attractive guy and have a family?
	Yeah.
	That's what matters.
	That's woman's legacy.
	No one says, oh man, what was her career?
	What did she do?
	Nobody gives a fuck.
	Nobody cares.
	A man's last name carries on, not a woman's for a reason.
	And you all want to take that man's last name.
	My mom didn't take my dad's last name, and they've been together and very much in love as I'm not sure.
	Rare situation almost never fucking happens.
	How old is your mom?
	Yes, yeah, 45.
	Comes from a different era.
	Women aren't doing that shit no more.
	They're not making it work with a guy that, you know, oh, whatever.
	Like women want a guy who's superior in every way.
	Does your guy make does your dad make more money than her?
	Or at least in the beginning?
	I just don't ask those questions either.
	That's gotta be some dynamic as to why they've been lasting for so long.
	Like in general, uh it look.
	I've seen that they're very good.
	Your situation is a rare situation, but women want to typically get married and take a man's last name.
	No one cares about a woman's last name.
	We don't take women's last names on.
	You guys want to take our last name on, which means you need to go ahead and find a guy that's better than you to take on that last name so you can be proud.
	No one cares about a woman's career.
	I'm sorry.
	It does not affect your ability to find a man.
	You lose your job tomorrow, Rolls Royce guy ain't going nowhere.
	Yep.
	Okay.
	Guy that you're with, you decide to go and say I don't want to work no more, he's probably not gonna leave you.
	Done.
	Right?
	Your guy.
	Yep.
	You ladies, you can work at McDonald's, you work at McDonald's, you guys will still be able to find dates.
	Yep.
	Right?
	No, it's not changing your ability to find a guy.
	But ours is.
	So this whole concept of like I'm uh uh whose question is this one, I don't know.
	Well, I need to know which one was a black girl so I can get rid of it.
	Oh Yeah, that's why I'm that's what I'm trying to.
	Wait, why would you get rid of it?
	Of the question.
	She's not.
	The black girl, she's not here.
	Aren't they anonymous though?
	Anyways.
	Yeah, but some girls like to figure say there it was them after.
	They get the answer.
	Alright.
	We're triggered you so bad that you started a show hating on women.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That question ain't for me.
	Yeah.
	Spark the black girl.
	Yeah, it's probably that's what I was gonna say.
	This gotta be the black girl.
	Oh, me, oh me.
	Um here's the thing.
	Uh the show, us um making fun of women or or doing this nighttime show.
	This is just a part of what we do.
	Honestly, I don't really like talking to all that much because I think women are generally stupid.
	I do my political show.
	I enjoy doing that way more than doing this and talking to women, because women are very hard headed and don't understand certain dynamics and they're not logically sound, no offense.
	But what I've noticed is the prettier that you guys tend to be, the less logically sound you guys are.
	Like these two, you guys are good looking.
	Uh, but you guys are not that smart, no offense.
	But that's okay though.
	You guys will be fine in life.
	Um Okay.
	Have you ever given a female grace or you have hater on everyone?
	Oh yeah, yeah.
	Uh um Christ, yeah.
	Is this your questions?
	No.
	No, probably I'm just trying to read it.
	Um what does your dream girl look like?
	Um, tight, hot, pretty, quiet, quiet and out of whore.
	Yeah.
	And out of horror.
	That's a big one, bro.
	Jeff?
	My wife.
	Oh, okay.
	I love that for you.
	Um, ladies, keep in mind that us getting married is not the goal.
	That's your job to get married.
	Yeah, facts.
	I mean, it's your job to lock us down and get us to propose.
	Not the other way around.
	Sure.
	Cause like I've noticed that I don't I don't know if you notice it, like the girls are kind of like, oh yeah, you're married.
	That's so great.
	No.
	That's his wife that did a good job.
	He but he's happily married.
	That's why I'm saying that.
	But it's not his job to get married, is my point.
	Yeah.
	Cause women tend to be like, oh, you're married?
	Like you because I asked I noticed this a few times.
	A couple of you guys asked him, Are you married?
	From a qualifying position, as if his duty is to get married.
	His duty is not to get married.
	It's your job to get married.
	So when you ask a guy, oh, are you married?
	That's not really uh like I gotcha.
	Like if a guy says no, I'm not married, good.
	That's like me, I'm not you.
	Do you fuck people?
	Who are you nigga?
	Do you fuck people?
	Retarded question, right?
	That's a retarded question, right?
	No, no, no, no.
	Do you agree that that was a stupid question I just gave you?
	No, Mark?
	Sure.
	Retarded, right?
	Why is it retarded?
	Because if I'm in a relationship, then fair.
	And also, you're a woman, young, fairly attractive.
	You can get laid whenever you want, right?
	Fucking the lattice.
	Exactly.
	So a woman saying that a woman asking me if I'm married when I can marry a girl easily because girls want to get married to me.
	Um, that's a retarded question.
	Just like me asking you if you're fucking people.
	Like, it's not it's my job to get laid, it's your job to get married.
	Does that make sense?
	So it's not a burn if a guy's single, unless he's a loser, of course.
	So would you say, like, uh out of all the time?
	A man I'll be honest with you, a man's job is to be in a position where women would want to marry him.
	Oh that doesn't mean that he has to.
	Oh.
	That's all it is.
	Like, he just needs to be in the position where women actually want.
	Don't do the remember, don't do the what about isn't.
	No, no, no.
	A woman also has to do the things it that she needs to do in order to be a married woman.
	Yeah, but she has to get married.
	When all these women brag about all the proposals they got, but you're not going to be able to do that.
	That's bragging about a job.
	Hold on, that's hold on.
	This is clarify.
	Hear me out.
	Okay.
	Are you a player?
	The way in which you're judged, it remember we're judged by two totally different screening systems.
	So from a female perspective, if the goal is to get married and get his last name, and you don't get that, you've effectively failed.
	But for us, you judge us totally differently.
	As an example, when it comes to sex, if I find out you've only been with one man or no man, I'm running to try to lock you down immediately.
	Yep.
	If you find out I'm a virgin, you're gonna be questioning what's wrong.
	Why is he a virgin at 25?
	Why is he a virgin at 30?
	What's wrong with him?
	Why does nobody else want him?
	Yeah, yeah, no.
	Oh, that's the thing.
	The reality is we have two totally different standards.
	Again, if I had three or four women that all wanted to pursue wanted me to marry them, that's excellent.
	But if but if no men wants to marry you, that's a reflection of something going on with you.
	Alright, so why did you want to um marry your wife?
	Because she was rare in America.
	Top three.
	Uh femininity.
	Okay.
	Um, meaning what though?
	Softness, uh, the willingness to do some some of the traditional roles.
	Um I mean, we're in America in 2025.
	I'm not looking at like I need her to just go.
	She cooks.
	Normal stuff.
	Cooks, cleans.
	Oh, it's all normal?
	No, but I'm s yeah, I'm I guess it's not a normal today.
	But in the sense of like a lot of the things that guys are fighting women to try to get them to do, it was very natural and normal for her.
	Plus, what?
	What?
	Uh?
	It was very natural and normal for her.
	Now the real key was I wanted a woman that was very intelligent.
	Okay.
	Because one of the things I think a lot of guys don't think about is they're so interested in how she looks, they don't think about the fact that this is the woman that's going to be raising your child.
	Exactly.
	So again, just to clear no, just to clarify, when Myron, uh Chris, myself, and other people are trying to explain, the beauty is just the piece that gets you in the door.
	We obviously care about more than she's like.
	She has the same intellect, but she wasn't attractive.
	They would not be together.
	Do you understand that?
	Like I said to be attracted to her to even get to that.
	You know what?
	Let me just fuck it.
	You're in a relationship that where you don't like your fucking guy.
	It's very fucking clear right now, and I can see it.
	Your guy's equal to you in every single way.
	That's why you have this blank slate equalism problem.
	I've noticed that you've had on let me let me because I've been studying your ass the whole time.
	I love that.
	You have a flawed logic of equality between men and women.
	And this stems from your relationship, which is why you're not actually pleased with your relationship with what's going on.
	Because you hold your man to the same standard that he holds you to.
	You guys have some type of weird partnership where you guys are equal.
	You maybe you brought into the whole partnership bullshit of we're 50-50 partners, whatever, which is a flawed relationship dynamic in the first place.
	But I'm starting to see here that this sounds like fucking Chinese to you because it's like your guy treats you like an equal.
	And that is why you don't want to claim that you're in a long-term relationship with that guy.
	So something is off here.
	Either you're lying about your relationship, you're not satisfied in your relationship, or a combination of them.
	Maybe you guys are on a break or whatever.
	But something is incredibly off here because your dynamic understanding of relationships is completely flawed.
	And it comes from probably the relationship that you have right now that you're not satisfied with, which is an egalitarian relationship.
	100%.
	Everything that you say that you argue comes from blank.
	Yeah, blank slate theory.
	And it's and it's the and it's the thing that feminism taught the population, which is every that work that all said anything about equality.
	I literally didn't understand.
	Every talking point has literally been about things not being equal.
	Things are not equal.
	And you're the only one that has a problem with that.
	No, I'm not.
	Okay.
	I literally never said I'm not sure.
	Do you prefer a women to be dominant or feminine?
	That's funny.
	Who asked this one?
	I gotta know.
	You asked this one?
	Sure.
	No.
	Black?
	No.
	I feel like it was her mind.
	I don't know.
	Yeah, it probably wasn't.
	No, no, it wasn't.
	Alright, forever West's question.
	Let me ask you this.
	Would you want a guy that gets his nails painted pink every week?
	But he still makes money still attractive.
	Would you guys want that?
	Okay.
	We don't want dominant women.
	Um what's something most guys wish women understood about men, but never said out loud?
	This is a damn good question.
	You want to hit that?
	Huh?
	Oh, this is good?
	Oh, okay.
	Smartest thing.
	You said all day.
	She had to write this one down, though.
	So I guess it can't be hard.
	Yeah, Myron.
	I'll have you um answer this one.
	What's something most guys wish women understood about them?
	And you've done a million times.
	I feel like we've said a bunch of the answers to this already.
	Yeah.
	But the number one is the belief that our roles are not the same and we're not equal.
	Correct.
	Men would love much of our arguments, much of us clashing, much of us going back and forth, is because of the blank swing theory that convinces you that all things are equal and fair and should be exact.
	Like that's what most of the competition and arguments in the house, outside the house, on podcasts, is because of this back and forth of you don't understand my role and you don't understand your role.
	Okay, what is your role?
	You should know the role.
	The role should be outlined already before you guys should even step into the relationship.
	Yeah, so most men would love it if...
	If one less thing we gotta argue about is who's supposed to be doing what in the relationship.
	Wonderful.
	We we would love it if you kind of just got with pick the guy whose program you already trust and whose leadership you can follow.
	Right versus undermining constantly challenging it.
	If that makes sense.
	Yeah.
	That's what we want.
	We want to get with the woman who trusts us, who believes in us, who wants to be led by us.
	We don't want to get With the woman who acts like that at the beginning, and then once she gets in the relationship or gets the ring or gets the kids, then she wants to do this power dynamic of fighting back and forth of who gets to dictate where we live.
	How does it happen?
	Yeah.
	Um his weakness of not standing firm on the type of woman that can actually he can actually do life with, and her lying to herself.
	What about what he said not being what he does?
	In terms of his actions not matching his words.
	Correct.
	I mean, he the um liar.
	And then I never said anything about being sexual either.
	Well, what I will say is complimentary.
	Yeah, answering your question.
	Very, very few men live a lie very long term.
	Okay.
	And that's most people.
	Most people, after about three to six months, start showing you straight traits and signs of what you end up leaving them for later on.
	Three, four, five years later.
	So the red flags that you left the last relationship for, you knew those red flags long before you actually left.
	Yes, I did.
	Year five.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, five.
	I I realized it.
	Yeah.
	And if me and her was to do a therapy session, I would start to learn even more information about the type of guy he was, uh, different things he was doing, and we'll start realizing, oh, there was even signs even earlier than the five-year mark.
	Yes, because his household, his mom is the earner, and his dad is not the earner.
	His dad is a stay-at-home dad.
	All right, so really weird.
	He grew up.
	So he grew up in an environment where he wasn't used to even seeing a man have to provide.
	What type of dynamics could that play into his view of leadership, initiative, being proactive, being wanting to be the like that thing that's supposed to be born inside of each man?
	It's this was from the beginning.
	She she's younger.
	We didn't really realize that when I was 15.
	I wasn't even looking at that.
	I was thinking about that.
	Uh, here's a good question.
	Uh, would you prefer a less who asked this crunch?
	This is actually a good question.
	Would you prefer a less attractive girl if she was a virgin and just for you, or a 10 out of 10, but she's a hoe?
	Oh.
	Good question.
	Question.
	Um the virgin.
	Virgin.
	And I and that, and I and I say that to let you guys know how much men value modesty.
	For a long-term relationship.
	For sex, they don't care.
	Oh, whore.
	I love it.
	But when it comes to like, oh, this is my girlfriend, this is who I'm gonna introduce people to, who's this who I'm gonna introduce is my girlfriend, etc.
	Modesty matters a lot.
	Yeah.
	So that that is how important.
	I I would say most men will take a five or a six.
	Yep.
	Yep.
	That is not a whore that's not gonna embarrass them over a girl that is a 10 out of 10 model, but a three or four.
	Yep.
	That's how important modesty is to us.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Next.
	Uh, okay.
	Uh, what makes you feel appreciated and seen as a man by a woman?
	You know what?
	I'll have you answer that because you could probably give a good more because I can think of what I would, but I think you give a better answer in general.
	Uh a few, because I I mean there's a million things that I think guys can really appreciate.
	But number one is the value of his voice.
	Whose voice matters the most in your relationship?
	Is it your girlfriend?
	Right.
	Is it your family?
	Right.
	Is it social media?
	Right, Jeff, yeah.
	Well, whose voice matters the most in your relationship or your household.
	That's a big, big thing to most men because that's often the thing that undermines the relationship.
	A woman everybody else's input, everybody else's voice above his and his leadership.
	That's number one.
	Number two, his image.
	Most you just said men ego, the woman by a man's side shapes how society sees him.
	There's a reason why there's a reason why uh Will Smith is not viewed and treated as we view and treat Denzel Washington.
	And it's not because of their acting careers or their accolades or how many blockbusters they sold.
	It's because of the woman next to him.
	Yep.
	Steph Curry is way above in leagues the woman he's with.
	Way above.
	Aisha.
	Aisha Curry.
	Nah, I don't do that.
	I'm not gonna call her that.
	What I will say is what I will say is she clearly isn't aware of where she is in the pecking order of you're an average-looking woman with a mega superstar, one of the most famous people in the planet.
	So he's out of the way, and the way in which you conduct yourself and talk about this man and throw him under the bus repeatedly to try to make him look bad.
	That's all.
	Will Smith is a multimillionaire, and there's men that's like me that will never trade places with him because of the woman he's with.
	Yeah.
	Fantastic point.
	All the Money that he has.
	I don't think anybody would want to be But that's the point.
	It's because of the woman he's with.
	His image matters.
	And and I want to add to that real quick.
	This is how important that is, right?
	Because you asked that good question.
	I really want to hammer this home for women.
	Kobe Bryant cheated on his wife.
	She didn't lose any credibility.
	Vanessa Bryant to this day is still revered as like she stuck by him when he had that whole scandal and he had sex with that girl, like what, 20 years ago now at this point.
	R.I.P. to Kobe Bryant.
	Right?
	Didn't lose any credibility.
	However, I love that you brought the Will Smith thing up.
	Will Smith's credibility is tarnished because of his stupid ass wife.
	No one remembers Fresh Prince of Belair, nor remembers the rap music number and no one remembers any of that shit.
	Because I you can make the argument, and I'm glad that you brought up Denzel.
	You can make the argument that Will Smith has actually had better movies than Denzel Washington who's had more.
	Bigger blockbusters.
	You can make that argument, but no one thinks of it that way because of Jada and the red table.
	There you go.
	Oh, in other words, a woman can destroy your fucking legacy.
	You can build it up or you can tear it down.
	Oh sure.
	But those are the only two options when it comes to that man.
	So the way you dress, the way you talk, the way you carry yourself, and what you display on social media is a reflection of his image.
	Yeah.
	So factor that in when you think, oh, I'm gonna do what I want, where what I want, act how I want.
	You should act that way when you're single.
	When you decide you want to be with a man, you're taking his last name and now a representation of him.
	Yep.
	And even what you do when you were single could come back and hurt him if it was fucking crazy.
	So yeah, I think um, you know, a man's reputation could be destroyed by a woman, but a woman's reputation is never really gonna be destroyed by a man.
	Cardi B spine, offset looks crazy.
	Right?
	So okay.
	Do you think people actually uh do you think people today actually want success, or do we just want the freedom to live on our own terms?
	Does success even mean the same thing it used to?
	So told, yeah.
	Um it depends on a person.
	Uh, you know, obviously the cost of living is going up.
	You know, I would say most people want I I think we've lied to a lot of people.
	I'll I'll be the first one to tell you guys.
	I came from the professional world I worked in law enforcement before this.
	This whole influencer or laptop lifestyle shit, it's all a fucking lie.
	Yeah, it is.
	Most people are not gonna be influencers from you know, become millionaire influencers and trade crypto or make all this money.
	Like, you're gonna need to get a skill set, get a job, yeah, be happy making six figures a year, maybe you know, may maybe you can you know invest in real estate, whatever, and become rich that way.
	But this whole fast path of wealth, it's it's a fucking lie.
	And this whole like, I'm gonna be free, it's very difficult to attain nowadays unless you have like some sensational skill set.
	But there's nothing wrong with working a regular job, and you can become financially free from working a regular job.
	It might take longer, but this whole lie of a laptop lifestyle or becoming a millionaire through a guru's course, it's not true.
	It's a lie.
	Yeah.
	Um Do you think men are taught how to express emotions the right way?
	This is a good question.
	I don't think men should ever express emotions around women.
	They're not taught how to express it the right way for you.
	Okay?
	And I'll tell you what I mean by this.
	When men express emotions, right?
	It comes out raw, weird, awkward.
	We're not used to doing it, right?
	There's nothing more disgusting than a man crying in my eyes, right?
	It's kind of weird.
	And I tell you guys all the time, look, don't cry in front of your girl.
	Avoid it, right?
	Huh?
	Why?
	Because women will look at you differently after that.
	They'll always look at you differently.
	Now, with that said, right, having a little bit of compassion, being sad or whatever, family member dying, whatever, there's you know, obviously exceptions to that.
	But what I've noticed is like if you like are crying from a position of weakness where it's like, fuck man, I don't got a job, I can't make this all my god, I can't take it anymore.
	A lot of girls are gonna look at that like, yo, this guy's a fucking bitch.
	I can't be with this guy.
	He look at him, he's breaking down.
	Like, what the hell?
	Is it like a multiple?
	I asked that question, but is it like a multiple time thing?
	Like, if you break down in front of your significant other one time, is that like a make or break or no?
	I don't think it's a make or break.
	I think every guy gets like one or two passes, but I'm I would be lying if I said women are gonna even give you one pass.
	There's some girls out there that might see you cry once.
	And you and unfortunately, because of that situation is so unique.
	Men don't know what's what that's going to be for the woman in front of him.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So he could he could cry over anything, have a moment, and it sows seeds of doubt in her about his ability to lead.
	Because she's like, if he's crying over this, well, what what happens if things get tough or even rougher?
	What happens if I lose my job?
	What happens if this happened?
	So now she spirals with the overthinking, constantly, you know, reevaluating what, and then what happens?
	She starts to look elsewhere.
	And at best, she's thinking, I don't know if I can trust him, but at best, I I'm probably gonna be better on my own with another man.
	So that's actually what what some of this comes from.
	And here's the scary part too.
	Though You won't know how the woman doesn't know how she responds to the crying until it happens.
	Yes.
	That's the other thing.
	Like almost sit there, no, I'd accept if he cried, blah blah.
	You don't know what when your life's in that guy's hands and he's your man and you see a future with him, and then he cries, it's gonna hit you different.
	You might respond favorably and you might be like, you know what?
	I understand.
	His mom died, fine.
	But it might be his mom died.
	Oh my god, I don't know how I feel about this.
	Every woman is different.
	And what I tell guys is don't cry in front of her because you don't know how the fuck she's gonna respond.
	Women are emotional creatures.
	There's so many different things that come in where you cry one day, might she might give you a different reaction another day.
	So I just say don't do it.
	I I tell guys, yo, show your emotions with your buddies, bro.
	Like, don't fucking cry in front of your girls.
	Women are not equipped to handle male emotion, unfortunately.
	I don't and that's why one of them say, open up to me.
	I'm not doing it.
	Because you guys can't even control your own emotions, let alone control mine.
	Cried.
	Yeah, I don't know.
	I just don't think it's worth it.
	But what about the what about the women that can control their emotions?
	That's a wild card of figuring out who those women are.
	Who?
	Yeah, mostly saying, like he just said, like he just said, the ladies themselves don't know until after it happens.
	But who?
	It's far better.
	It's far better.
	I'm not saying you can't talk to your woman.
	I'm not saying you can't share certain things with her.
	Yeah.
	What I'm saying is in terms of the breakdowns, in terms of the a lot of the extra weaknesses, it's actually better to go to other men, therapists, life coaches, mentors, uh, uh, uh, um, gym gym uh trainers and whatnot.
	There's a whole host of even just older male mentors, there's a whole host of men that can they know what you're going through.
	They may have gone through it themselves and they can help you through that, versus sharing so much of that with a woman who doesn't have your biology or physiology and won't be able to truly conceptually understand it.
	A man's life.
	Also, the other thing too, I'm glad you brought that up.
	We live a completely different life than you guys do.
	Yeah.
	Like completely different.
	There was a woman that did the the she did an experiment, she pretended to be a man for like a year, she killed herself after.
	Couldn't fucking understand it.
	I don't want to sound like an asshole, but women live life on easy mode.
	You guys live a different existence.
	You guys are able to get by with way less than we are, right?
	If I Okay, I'm gonna sound like a fucked asshole right here.
	But if I took your guys' brains and I put it in my head, I'd be fucking poor, bro.
	No offense, right?
	And I'm not saying that to shit on you guys or whatever, but the burden of performance on women is not the same as us.
	We must be exceptional to get to the same level as you guys.
	You guys are just able to get further with less.
	And that's fine, but that's just the reality.
	So if I cry to you, or if I tell you about my problems, you'll never be able to conceptualize it.
	And more importantly, you'll never be able to help me.
	Because you don't deal with my problems.
	But I can definitely help you with yours.
	You want to know why?
	Because my life is harder than yours.
	And on top of that, I'm not gonna lose attraction for you if you cry in front of me.
	You're a girl.
	That's your job.
	My job is to be the fucking rock.
	You can sit here and cry.
	Oh, I got there.
	What's that?
	Like, what am I doing about like I don't know?
	I'm just gonna go.
	Here's the difference.
	A man's job is here's the difference between men and women, right?
	If I talk to these guys and I tell them, here's my problem, they're gonna give me solutions.
	Yeah, men are problem solvers.
	Women, you guys cry, you guys just want somebody to fucking hear you.
	So I can sit there and be like, hey, this is what you gotta do, or you can just sit there and cry.
	But the key is this.
	If you cry to me, I'm not losing attraction for you.
	If you lose your job, I'm not losing traction for you.
	If you show weakness or emotional instability, I'm not losing attraction for you.
	I understand that this is part of the game, they're with women.
	But you didn't sign up for that with me.
	If I cry to you, you didn't sign up for this shit.
	I don't know what I'm gonna do.
	You didn't sign up for that shit.
	That's not fair to y'all.
	I mean, but you can have that moment and say, okay, I don't know what you're gonna what many moments are.
	The more important question to answer the more important question when you're posing and saying that should happen, is how many times is it allowed to happen?
	And men's perspectives are the reason why they stop doing it is because they've done it in the past.
	Yep.
	They've tried they have been vulnerable.
	They have opened up, they have cried.
	And once, twice or three times when they've seen women aren't built for this, they stop doing it.
	Yeah, that's the reality.
	I mean, tell them in your in your sessions.
	How many times have women admitted, like, yeah, like he cried and it changed my perception on him?
	They one of the major things when they're talking about either while they're going through the divorce or after they've divorced, is how their perspective of him changed after he failed at something, after he missed the mark at something.
	After the thing that he that they just assumed he would always be able to do, he wasn't able to do.
	And they sh they they just lost attraction for him.
	It's a very guttural biological hardwiring thing that's built within them.
	Your biological hardwiring is trying to find a man that can keep you safe and can take care of you.
	The very things he's talking about triggers and damages that potential thing that you tried to have rooted in him.
	That's the thing that we're talking about.
	If you're looking for a man to protect and provide for you, I'm not looking for you to protect and provide for me.
	That's why I'm okay with you breaking down and having moments.
	You're looking for that from me.
	But you would want someone that's nurturing, that takes care of the children.
	She can nurture, she can nurture when she cooks.
	She can nurture when she holds me.
	She can nurture in a whole bunch of ways.
	But what I'm saying is, again, blank slate theory.
	You're trying to assume that what she can get from me, I'm looking for from her.
	No.
	I'm not.
	What you're saying, which is different things.
	Yeah, so what you're saying right now is well, he should be able to find that in her.
	Only a blank slate theorist is talking that way.
	And just because you can do it, because you've also noticed that you attribute things to yourself.
	Yeah.
	Just because you can do it, doesn't mean the rest of them are gonna tolerate crying to them.
	No, I never said that.
	Other people, but just because it's possible doesn't mean it's probable.
	Most women are gonna have a problem with you crying for in front of them.
	And I'll tell you this as a guy because I know how women are, and you don't date women.
	This is just what it is.
	And he's telling you as a therapist.
	Yeah, when a guy fails, it's a problem.
	This is why women lose attraction faster.
	This is why women initiate breakups.
	This is why women uh are more likely to end things with a guy if he doesn't do what he's supposed to do.
	They change over a job loss that was out of his control.
	Okay, they change because he had a momentary emotional breakdown.
	They change because he didn't do X, Y, and Z. But what kind of woman is the one that changes?
	The overwhelming majority of women in the country.
	Okay, so I like that.
	And when a man cries and a woman changes her perspective, like, is the man doing something different to be better?
	Like, okay, you cried.
	What are we gonna do after that?
	What this is this is the pre supposed This is the presupposition that you're operating from.
	Whenever you raise a point about this thing between men and women, there's a benefit of the doubt on the female side with a burden of proof of what the man has to do on his side.
	What I'm suggesting is that if you're listening to two men, one of which is in his role and one of which is a clinician, and I am trying to explain to you as a man, you don't date women.
	Okay, you are not a man.
	No, you've never experienced what it's like to try to do life.
	The way in which y'all think y'all say about it?
	Yeah, the way in which y'all act, y'all don't realize how horrible y'all really are unless you were a man in the relationship with y'all.
	A lot of y'all would not.
	If y'all was a if y'all had a brother, y'all wouldn't want your brother to date some of y'all homegirls.
	Yeah, because y'all know how y'all get in these relationships when your emotions is not the best.
	So, what I'm saying is is there's a level of emotional vulnerability that men are more designed to be able to deal with, address, challenge, and help get him back on his right foot.
	You are great for a whole bunch of supplemental support roles.
	Him crying all the time, him being depressed all the time.
	She even said it herself about his depression, right?
	Correct.
	And it was ugly.
	And that was something that I could not fix for him because it was demasculating him.
	So that makes him feel more inferior.
	You're being real nice about this.
	Here's a notice how she said, Oh, he could cry and break down one time, but what if he like, you know, he's gonna fix it, right?
	What are we going to do?
	Yeah, together.
	I get that.
	But can I help you to be better?
	But you helping him is gonna break down his.
	No, no, no, stop.
	Most women aren't even gonna say, How can I help you fix this?
	Do you get do you understand that?
	Like, some women are gonna not even tolerate it.
	That's not true.
	A lot of women were.
	Don't take your perspective.
	This is this is why I don't like this why I don't like listening to women give their opinions.
	That's your perspective.
	Other women have way less tolerance.
	Let me tell you something about the most attractive women.
	Attractive women that have options, don't tolerate that fuckery.
	You cry one time, out the door.
	You fucking don't have a job, out the fucking door.
	Ugly bitches can have more tolerance.
	Not saying you guys are ugly, but maybe you guys are just nicer, kinder hearted, fine.
	A lot of women aren't like that, they're fucking ruthless.
	This whole thing about, well, he cries one time, let's figure it out together.
	I mean, other girls are out the fucking door, And this is the problem with women.
	You guys don't date each other.
	And here's the other ugly part.
	You guys don't know how you guys operate with other men.
	You guys know maybe some things, but you don't know the intricate nuances about how they really deal with their guys.
	You don't know that your girl has seven other niggas that she deals with.
	Good one guy Uber, one guy dating, one guy did this, one guy did that.
	She didn't like it.
	She left because of this reason.
	You guys don't know the dark side of how quickly women will cut men off.
	For any fucking reason.
	Some of you guys are in here talking other shit.
	I give a guy a second chance.
	You probably get uh got rid of a guy because he wasn't attractive enough.
	You probably got rid of a guy because the shoe didn't match.
	You probably got rid of a guy because he didn't like McDonald's.
	I don't fucking know.
	But the point is is that women get rid of men for fucking nothing.
	So for you to sit here and be like 2020 hindsight, like well, how are we gonna work on it together?
	That is foolish and that is not real about how women move.
	So we are saying, because we're men and we know how you guys are, because we have to actually attract you guys, don't even give her the chance.
	Don't ever cry, don't even fail, don't even let her know about it.
	You lose your job, don't fucking even let her know.
	Go find another job immediately.
	Fix the problem.
	Don't even know that let her know that there's a problem.
	Because women don't deal well well with insecurity.
	They just don't.
	Now, just to clarify, me and my wife have talked about this if I lost my job, because I know this about a lot of women.
	And she said same thing.
	Oh, you know, you would have at least a year.
	At least she told you.
	No, but again, we have those real legit conversations.
	That's why I love it.
	She said at least a year.
	She said you would have a year to get back on your feet, and and I wouldn't be coming at you crazy.
	Even if she stuck to her word, how do you think that you're gonna go between us?
	It's gonna be hard.
	But you guys have to pull through together as a team.
	That's why you guys married.
	Sadie's 70 to 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
	So there's a whole lot of not pulling through.
	So we have to go off of data.
	We have to go off to our experience.
	We have to go off.
	No, what I'm saying is this a lot of what you're establishing is based off of emotion that can change.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	If you're leaving 70 to 80% of the time, and we're telling you how y'all change even before we get to marriage when we show certain emotional vulnerabilities.
	I'm not saying as a man, don't deal with the emotions.
	I'm saying you have to find the right people to go to for to it for.
	That's the only difference.
	You can face your emotions, you can address them, you can you can you can even emote them on your own or with other men.
	With your with your woman, ideally, by the time you're bringing it to her, you're already letting her know what you're doing about it.
	You know what?
	That's how men have to do it.
	And I know you've probably noticed from being a therapist, but what I've realized is since women uh have an inability to empathize with the male experience.
	Let me make it easier for you guys.
	Let's go into a dream.
	Dream scenario, ladies, okay?
	Not saying any of you guys are hoes, but let's assume you were a hoe in your past life.
	Let's say you have a hundred bodies.
	Okay?
	Damn.
	100 bodies.
	I know.
	It's crazy.
	I know, I know.
	But just hypothetically.
	I'm not saying you guys are host, but in a past life, you're stripper, sold some ass on the side, whatever.
	Or or a hooker, whatever.
	You find your dream man.
	Right?
	Now, you know that it's great.
	You guys know that you're probably gonna get married, etc.
	He drops a question.
	What is your body count?
	Are you gonna tell him the truth or not?
	No.
	You're gonna tell him you got a hundred?
	Absolutely.
	Oh, no, no.
	Okay, okay.
	Are you the hypothetically?
	Are you gonna tell him you're a hundred?
	Oh no?
	Are you telling him the hundred?
	If I had a hundred, absolutely not.
	You okay, sure.
	No.
	No.
	I feel like we should be honest with who we want to be with.
	Okay, but would you give the hundred, honestly speaking?
	You wouldn't.
	If I if I wanted to be with him and he wanted to be with me, like I want to be with the person that can accept me for everything that I am.
	Okay, so you would take that risk.
	So I would tell people.
	But the rest of you intelligently would not take that risk, right?
	Why are you not taking that risk?
	You're stupid.
	Chris, they could fucking hear you, bro.
	Come on, man.
	Why would you not uh why would you not why would you not tell them you got a hundred bodies?
	Because you're gonna keep smiling.
	Because I know he's not gonna like it.
	Fair.
	Because he's gonna look at me entirely different.
	Fair.
	Lowers my value at least 80% if not 100%.
	Just the yeah, your value.
	Now only one of you would risk it, right?
	But the majority of you are saying no because you guys are smart enough to know that would completely change the perspective and fuck up what you got, right?
	Yes.
	Exactly.
	That's why we don't cry to y'all.
	Same situation.
	Um because we know what women's how women move and what they think.
	I mean, and same as accidents.
	That's what, bro.
	I gotta do it like that.
	Cause like that's the only way they get it.
	Almost steal that.
	Yeah, it's almost still that shit.
	That's it.
	You you gotta do it.
	But now you guys get it.
	This is why we can't Open up to you guys.
	If we open up to you guys like that and cry, that is equivalent to you saying I got a hundred bodies.
	Will I still marry you?
	Sure.
	There's always that chance.
	Well, why are you gonna risk it?
	Why?
	Yeah.
	So are you saying if a man has ever cried to them, then that man wasn't ever meant for you.
	Or is it not okay for a guy to show emotions sometimes through crying?
	I feel like it's okay to cry.
	It should be rare.
	Yeah, but uh he shouldn't be sure.
	No, no, no.
	You could cry.
	Uh uh, you know, I'm obviously I wasn't happy with my friend, uh, you know, Charlie got shot, right?
	But I'm not gonna cry to my girlfriend about problems that I got.
	Right?
	I tell men all the time, cry in solitude.
	Don't fucking do that shit in front of them.
	Cry in solitude, bro.
	It is what it is.
	Yeah.
	Don't cry in front of your girl.
	I don't like crying in front of people.
	Yeah, but you're a woman, no one cares.
	If you didn't cry, no, you wouldn't lose.
	Your point is it wouldn't affect you.
	Right?
	I remember there was a situation, I'm just getting flashbacks right now.
	If me and my ex-boyfriend, we were together for about a year or so.
	At the beginning of a relationship, I got a phone call while I was working saying that he needed to have a conversation with me, and when I got home, pretty much ended in with I don't want to lose you, like started crying to me.
	Okay, freeze frame.
	Did you d at that point did it change how you viewed him forever?
	No.
	No.
	How much longer in the relationship last after that?
	A whole year.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah.
	A whole year it lasted.
	You and your attraction firm stood the same.
	You still sucked this dick with the same verosity.
	Come on, man.
	I'm not gonna talk talk about my sex life on here, but um guarantee you he probably she stopped fucking him as much.
	I'll tell you that.
	Vagina was even as wet.
	Believe it or not, what tends to happen is even if even if you listen, even if consciously you think nothing changed.
	Three months, six months, a year later, when things finally ended, there that started the clock of now factoring and counting things as strikes against him.
	This is how it happens.
	Yeah.
	And guess what happens?
	When you finally decide to finally act on the leaving, you most women have already made that mental decision months or years in advance.
	So if she left him a year later, when did she actually mentally want to leave?
	I checked out probably a month into the relationship.
	Like way before I checked out like months into the relationship.
	Okay, and then he cried, which didn't help.
	And then it was RIP for real.
	But aren't you counting mentally checked out months before we were living together, so it was like a very quick, you know, codependency like we talked about.
	I didn't I don't really like to talk about my past life because I don't need judgment, but that's just a little bit of sharing from my past experience.
	That's why I tell guys not to live with girls either.
	Um never never I don't advise living with a partner.
	Have your own space, you know.
	Even when you're married and you eventually live together, have your own bedroom, you know.
	I really do see that as like that being beneficial.
	She hated that nigga, man.
	Yo, she hated it.
	What do you want to say?
	Uh uh and then we gotta close out because I know you guys well he was boring.
	We don't even got time for the clerk tonight.
	Yeah, well.
	I mean, a clo no, you can still go out.
	What time?
	It's Miami, it's three.
	Oh, you got hell no there's any.
	No, it's not that dude's Miami.
	Y'all can still go out.
	What the hell?
	The same West Palmer.
	Well, I got a 6 a.m. flight.
	So I get back to the case.
	Last thing and we gotta close out.
	Go ahead.
	Last word.
	Like if you're checked out or whatever, like there could be things that bring it back.
	And for m for me, or I feel like for women in general, if you have somebody that's ambitious that wants to do better, yes, they might fall, but how are you gonna get back up?
	And can I help you get back up?
	Is there something that I can do?
	That's it.
	There's a phrase I always say.
	All women are gold diggers, some are just better at hiding the shovel.
	Some girls say I need a millionaire.
	Some girls say he needs to be a high value guy.
	Some girls say he needs to be ambitious.
	But notice how it's always the same denominator.
	His ability to be successful.
	So everything is contingent upon that.
	Some girls are overt, I need a millionaire.
	Some girls are like, I need you to be ambitious.
	They hide the shovel.
	But the point is always the same.
	His ability to create resources is always what the basis is found uh the foundation.
	So I get what you're saying.
	What?
	How can you be a provider?
	Precisely my point.
	Precisely my point, which is what I'm trying to say.
	That it always comes back to his ability to earn.
	Some girls say I want potential.
	Some girls say I want ambition.
	Some girls say no, he needs to be rich now.
	Some girls say he needs to be wealthy in the next year or two.
	Or he needs to be in med school.
	But the point is always the same.
	There needs to be a future.
	Correct.
	On both, but I don't know.
	No, no, not both.
	Your future doesn't matter.
	You know what would matter actually more?
	But remember how you asked the thing?
	You know what men care more about?
	Your past.
	And your future.
	You care about my future, I care about your past.
	That's how it goes.
	I mean um, but I just bro.
	Uh we give the girls the last word.
	Last word will start here and then work our way around.
	Michael.
	What do you have to say?
	Thanks for having me on the show.
	I just appreciate Was that necessary?
	I just appreciate this opportunity to be able to come on here and just be a part of that barcap.
	Yeah, you can always go to the club another time, ladies.
	You get a opportunity to talk about it.
	I haven't been to the club.
	I haven't been to the club in months.
	You guys got life saving information.
	Yeah.
	Club is fuck what you're gonna dance with a bunch of fucking black dudes.
	Like they wanna like realistically speaking, it's Miami is a bunch of niggas like in chance from Atlanta.
	There's no white boys out here.
	No.
	No.
	No, it's a bunch of niggas.
	Alright, what'd you want?
	What's up?
	Oh yes, I'm racist.
	I forgot to tell you this.
	What about you?
	What's your final thoughts?
	Um I'm just shocked.
	No, I uh I learned a lot for sure.
	What'd you learn?
	Nope.
	I learned like a lot from the men's perspective.
	What?
	What's the number one thing you learned?
	That you could take away.
	Ten girls being triggered, maybe.
	Ten girls.
	Ten girls.
	Come on.
	Um just be uh, you know, more, you know, your your traditional woman's womanly self, you know.
	Just if you can't create your you can't trash your past, or you can only create your future.
	And you can't trash your past.
	But you can only create your future.
	Okay.
	So I don't know.
	I guess I took something out of that.
	Try that from a fortune cookie.
	Can't trash your past, but no, I do.
	I never get fortunes in my fortune cookies.
	What?
	I know.
	Oh.
	Wait, what?
	Every time I open one, there's nothing in there.
	I mean, because never heard that before.
	Multiple times.
	Yo, she got a bad omen on it.
	What's the what's a fortune?
	Oh shit.
	No, you're uh apparently.
	Too soon.
	Too soon.
	I'm not as old, apparently.
	Go ahead.
	All right.
	What about you?
	You're so straight.
	Well, me?
	It was nice.
	Oh, what?
	It was good.
	I think it was a lot of things.
	You ain't going nowhere now with your guy, right?
	No.
	Where?
	You better hold on to him tight.
	Not your guy that you got.
	Oh no, I'm as good.
	But no, but girls are gonna try to take him.
	Of course.
	Alright.
	But anyway, um, yeah, so good show.
	Wait.
	And follow me, Nara curves, because I'm a tax prepared person.
	Tax prepared?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Wait, you said you do some executive accounting, tax, and then OF too?
	Yo.
	No, no, no.
	Yeah, OF.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I was listening earlier.
	Sorry.
	Yeah, I thought you see.
	My agency controls my OF.
	I have a social media marketing agency, so hold on.
	Is he okay with that?
	Your guy?
	He didn't want me to quit because he said he's making us money.
	Oh yeah, cook us.
	Yeah, cook.
	Well, yeah, every guy's different.
	By the way, why are you clapping though?
	Because I feel like I don't I don't support the whole selling nudes, but if your man supports you at the end of the day, that's a good thing.
	My whole family is my whole family.
	Doesn't support a man.
	Look, I don't support the whole thing.
	Let me give you some game.
	Hold on.
	You only been dating for how long again?
	Eight months.
	Okay.
	Once he tells you to take the OF down and start dressing uh differently.
	It will be down.
	It will be done.
	It's it's not about it's not about you.
	I get that you're gonna do it.
	But once he starts restricting that, that's when he starts to care about you.
	He won't because he was the general manager of a strip club.
	So to him, seeing titties is nothing.
	It's like literally equivalent to nothing.
	Yeah, but he doesn't do anything.
	If you're seriously, though.
	Yeah, bro.
	Yeah, license to the young see, stop being a woman.
	Listen to the men.
	Okay.
	Men care about you once they start putting rules on you.
	Yeah.
	Restrictions.
	He does.
	No, we he does have rules and restrictions on that.
	No, that's just not one of the things.
	They're gonna increase.
	They're going to increase.
	No, no, they are increasing.
	You are married.
	But again, like I said, it's increasing as well speed.
	You're not married.
	People um have elevated.
	You're 28.
	All right.
	Yeah, you are.
	She's 23.
	I'm 23.
	She's 28.
	Oh, sh I'm 20.
	Oh shit.
	Yo, Chris.
	Yo, oh the fuck.
	All I'm saying is, all I'm saying is just hopefully a good sign.
	A good sign that he wants to take you seriously, more restrictions are gonna come.
	A lot of girls see more restrictions and they say, no.
	What you should do is if you're seeing A guy and restrictions increase, you should start getting excited.
	If he starts selling, you know what?
	I don't want you going to club no more.
	You know what?
	I don't like when he works.
	He said I'm not allowed to go to the club.
	Good.
	Then can let the more, the more um the more authoritarian.
	I don't have a problem.
	I mean you like you know the cheat code later.
	I'm just saying, look, I meant to say this.
	The cheat code is not waiting for him to say something.
	I tried to delete it.
	He told me not to.
	Let me say it again.
	Let me say it again.
	He's stopping you.
	The cheat code.
	What do you mean?
	She can she could shut it down at any point.
	No, no, I'm not even on it.
	It's bots.
	The cheat code is not waiting for the guy to constantly correct your behavior, which you know is going to be best aligned and makes him look the best.
	But in our relationship, that's not a good idea.
	We have our own understanding.
	You're telling you now.
	We're both from you now.
	How he views the strippers that work for him.
	You're not a kid.
	It's very different, right?
	How he views the strippers that works for the first time.
	That's why I want to say single bro.
	You don't shut up and listen.
	Listen, I'll follow it.
	Yo, yo, sorry, nigga.
	He works on strippers all the time.
	Yeah, what the hell?
	No, it's not that.
	It's just that not every guy thing.
	You're pretty, I uh love your teeth at you.
	All right, man, let's just move on to another girl that might want to listen.
	Give us your last thoughts.
	All right, all right, you're ho.
	Next.
	It ain't gonna get better in my.
	I've been very quiet, but I've been listening.
	No, no.
	I've noticed that.
	I ended up agreeing with you a lot more than I thought I would.
	And you made some very good points.
	Did you think I was just gonna sit here and say women suck and everything else like that, probably?
	Yeah, quite literally.
	I thought that I would have a lot to say back to you, but I ended up not with it.
	How dare you?
	Are your parents together?
	No.
	No?
	Uh do you have a relationship with your father or no?
	No.
	Do you have a brother or no?
	I've got two sisters.
	Do you have a a strong any strong male influence in your life, an uncle, somebody?
	No.
	No.
	Okay.
	Yeah, you got lucky.
	Yo, Jeff Myers.
	You got free therapy.
	If uh because normally nah, like I appreciate her reaction and response in light of the lack of male influence that she had.
	Like, you know.
	It's not that you agree with me with everything or agree with mine with everything, but it you just came off with somebody.
	I would have assumed the opposite.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Normally, because I I see that you're on the same wavelength as me.
	When women understand what what the hell we're talking about, most of the time they have a strong dad, a brother, someone's put them all in game.
	Because this is a radical way of thinking to a degree.
	Right?
	But women that get it, I'm like, all right.
	Someone in your life taught you about this shit because it's not shocking to you.
	So okay, but that's rare.
	I've never I mean, very rarely do a girl like no male influence, but understands the concepts.
	But what about you?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.
	But if um you were to lose weight, like you will kill it.
	Oh my god.
	No, no, no, no, no, you will kill it.
	She looks good.
	No, no, you no, you me?
	Yeah.
	Oh if I were to lose weight, I would just kill it.
	I I'm gonna try, I'm gonna try.
	When I agree when I get back to the UK.
	This week?
	I mean, I'm in America.
	I want to try the the worst possible.
	Dick, no, not do that.
	Alright, Chris is fat too, don't worry about him.
	All right, what about you?
	But it's mad, man.
	I said I said the same thing as her.
	Dick?
	Okay, do you talk about it?
	Alright, bro.
	Um Do you have a strong father figure in your life or a strong male?
	No.
	I do, my dad, yeah.
	Okay.
	Do you guys hang out a lot?
	You know, we live in different countries, but we've been friends since FaceTime though, but I'm just trying to figure out how you because again, when women understand this stuff, okay.
	So you have a strong you said dad or brother?
	Dad.
	Okay.
	And he taught you where's your dad from?
	UK.
	Like uh is it white?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Uh and your parents are still together or no.
	Did you live with him or with your mom?
	I grew up like partially with my mom, and then I moved with my dad.
	Okay.
	Were you with your dad in your teenures?
	Yeah.
	Yep.
	Yep.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	If it was ever the most critical times.
	If she it was reverse, she'd have been cooked.
	It was actually good that your mom did that.
	Yeah.
	For boys and girls, it's really good after about 10 years old.
	10 to 12 years old that they actually have a period of time where they're primarily with their father.
	If they're if they were too much.
	Who were you pointing at?
	You two.
	That's fine.
	Why?
	Why?
	Yeah.
	Did you guys have uh grow up in a two-parent household or no?
	Yeah.
	You did okay, you did.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	We both grew up with parents.
	Sorry.
	Like I thought he knew something I didn't.
	Okay.
	I was just trying to figure out okay.
	Did you impart this wisdom on her?
	Or I'm trying to figure out how she knows.
	she knows what.
	Because you guys have you guys both agree on the whole male dynamic.
	Like, did you impart this on her?
	You guys talk about this?
	I'm shocked.
	I came here with the the idea that I would disagree with absolutely everything.
	So I'm shocked.
	I'm shocked that I agree.
	Because I've seen some clips, and you know, online I guess things that are edited on TikTok and stuff.
	So no, that's why I've been pretty much silent because I was listening.
	Um I was shocked to be fair.
	I did say to you as well.
	I said like no, he's probably gonna lie.
	He's dance, he's that, he's that.
	Wait, wait, wait, he's who most girls think I'm just gonna come in here and say you know bitches are stupid and kill the blacks and shit.
	Yeah, true.
	So and the Jews are control of the world.
	Which a lot of that is true, but yeah, so but uh put him in jail.
	Alright.
	Uh thank you for that.
	I appreciate that.
	That makes sense.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What's your uh final thoughts?
	I mean, I like the whole conversation.
	How dare you?
	No, I love the channel.
	Did you learn anything at all or no?
	I listened to everybody's point of view.
	Okay.
	And I take everything into account.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Uh how long you been in a relationship with your guy?
	You wanna tell us now?
	Long enough.
	Long enough.
	Okay, that's not good.
	Long enough.
	Bro, I give it two weeks up.
	I thought she said eight months.
	That nigga's on probation.
	Yeah, I'm telling you, bro.
	Bro, like, yo, she's like like uh fed up.
	Like, you like yo, yo.
	Let's say, um then um when you're okay.
	I hope that it lasts until we both are done, like living kind of I give it two weeks.
	Yeah, the spiritual connection.
	Jeff if your wife will like, yeah, Jeff, nah, he's cool, whatever.
	Like, he's alright, you know, like all I know is I've never met a woman who's happy about the relationship she's in that won't tell you far more information that you need to know.
	All right, never experience that.
	Bragg about him.
	I love him, he's the best.
	He's a like, yeah, that's it.
	That's a that's a thing.
	But but I will give him I will give her this.
	All right, so I will give her.
	You say what?
	I'm wearing his grandfather's ring.
	And that's it.
	So where is he right now?
	That's not enough.
	That ain't enough.
	Home?
	Where?
	I'll be honest with you.
	That just means you like jewelry.
	That doesn't mean that doesn't mean what you think it means.
	That's like it was ugly, you might not be wearing it.
	So like the reality is like that's cool that you're wearing it and all.
	But like when you're really you're more proud of letting us know the information about the ring than the fact that you're with him.
	The weight that the ring holds for him.
	And only reason I'm saying is because we've been asking very direct questions that you wouldn't give.
	Oh, but then you volunteered information about something we never asked about.
	Because it's something that matters to him.
	I know this is weird to say what I'm about to say, but like I've been doing this for like 10 plus years.
	Okay.
	So something that matters to him, not that piece.
	I'm sure that it matters to both of you.
	What I am suggesting is I do wonder what it is about him that you feel uncertain about.
	What?
	Don't ask what.
	He's a professional been doing this for a long time.
	I've talked to a lot of women.
	We just kind of pick up on trends and I know what her man does.
	I know where he worked.
	I don't know.
	Mitch underscore the one exotics rolling.
	You know what I mean?
	Stop.
	Shut out your big.
	I've heard about exes.
	Okay.
	I've heard about I know more information about exes of people you're not even in relationships with anymore.
	So that's you nine times out of ten.
	And I'm not e that's not for you to tell us.
	But that's a reflection on if you so choose to, if there's things that you feel he needs to step up on, communicate it with him.
	That's all.
	That's all.
	A lot.
	Shit ain't working.
	That's why she might be.
	What's going on?
	All right.
	Um read the last chats.
	Okay, DBG, uh, learn the ways of your great grandma, ladies and generations cook, get a man, keep a man, start a family, and stop trying to tell him how to lead it maybe over for you, but you have a chance.
	We'll see what happens.
	Alright, I'll see you, man.
	Uh Chase says, here is some good advice to become a marriage material for a guy.
	Suck his dick every day, make him love every day, clean cook, and massage him every day.
	Yeah, they don't give a fuck, bro.
	Alright.
	We're we're gonna end the show.
	Uh love you guys.
	I'll be on tomorrow at like uh what?
	Alright, never mind.
	Yeah, that's never mind.
	Now you're gonna do more.
	Was there more chats?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	You sure?
	Yeah, yeah.
	No, no, alright.
	No, no, chat, chat.
	Come on, well, how much are like bro?
	It's like uh the black girl is a nigger and needs to be deported back to Africa.
	Damn, bro, okay.
	I agree with you though.
	All right, let's see if the Albanian girl knows her her history.
	Does she know the history of Albanian Serbia history?
	I highly doubt she does.
	Slut.
	Okay.
	You want to prove that?
	Yeah, Serbia took over Albania with the Ottoman Empire.
	I know every everything when it comes to Albania.
	Are you Muslim or Christian?
	I I just recently baptized as Christian.
	I was raised Catholic.
	Okay.
	That's it.
	Is that it?
	Alright, cool.
	Guys, I'll be on live tomorrow.
	We're gonna talk about um uh sorry Charlie Kirk uh assassination updates, obviously.
	Um we're gonna talk about the news, we're gonna talk about Israel, uh Palestine, and uh I'll see you guys tomorrow.
	Love you guys, peace.
	Peace.
	I ran so far away.
	I just ran.

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