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Aug. 6, 2025 - Fresh & Fit
01:00:37
5 Ways To Stop Her From Flaking On Dates
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That props women up pedestalizes them and tells them that they deserve the world No matter how they behave No matter how they look No matter what their background is no matter their skill set whatever every single girl is pretty much told that they deserve the world.
Okay, and then when they don't get the world They're on fucking TikTok crying in their car saying why can't I find a guy because they thought that they deserve their prince charming simply for existing now This feminism and this pernicious fucking lifestyle of women thinking that they're equal to you has bled over into the dating marketplace now I'm sure many of you guys are here in this chat right and found us because of some type of frustration that you had with women,
whether it was you got flaked on dates, you couldn't even secure dates, women don't respond, women don't treat you with respect, you haven't been late in many months or years.
We're all here for different reasons, maybe a bad breakup.
So no one, as Fresh said earlier, is impervious to this, whether you have millions of dollars or no dollars, everyone has to deal with female hypergamy at their level to some degree, right?
And we all deal with the same problems.
So since women have the ultimate choice and they have a lot of options, what ends up happening is they kind of play the field.
And as they play the field, they're waiting for something better.
As they're waiting for something better, a lot of times that's going to manifestest itself by you being flaked on.
And this is probably one of the biggest problems in the red pill.
I would argue that this is one of the reasons why dating channels in general are a thing for men.
I would argue that the flake epidemic has only gotten worse and it's going to continue to get worse as technology improves and as women become more and more equal to men.
And at some point, they are going to overtake us and make more than us guys.
Make no mistake about it.
They're already starting to make more money than men in a lot of cities in America.
So coming.
Over the next twenty, twenty years or so, be prepared to see a large amount of women be breadwinners in relationships and be able to take care of themselves and how that's going to manifest itself outwardly is they're not going to want a guy on their level or they're just going to only deal with the top tier guys right so in other words the rich will get richer and the poor will get poorer the top tier guys are going to have all the women the lower level guys more average guys are going to struggle and a lot of you guys have problems with women showing up on dates and flaking and this is a very serious problem whether in
the United States any western country where feminism is prominent to a degree you are going to deal with fucking flakes And I would argue that this is the root cause of most guys' problems with women.
Because there are guys out there, no matter how shy they are or whatever, they'll talk to a girl.
They'll try to entertain a girl.
They'll try to get her out on a date.
But she doesn't show up.
She doesn't respond on text messages.
She doesn't, she's not interested.
Low interest, right?
And the reason why they have this low interest is because they have so many goddamn options.
I don't think you guys understand the amount of options and maneuverability a female has in the dating marketplace compared to you.
A top tier dude, a celebrity, has less reach than an average woman.
Now I say this all the time, but I really need you guys to get this into your brains.
The girl next door to you that you thought was cute, right?
That's 21 years old, 22 years old, whatever the fuck, that has a following of maybe 200 people on Instagram.
has more social pull than some of the top YouTubers that are men.
Just to give you guys an idea of where you stand in the hierarchy of things.
Yes, Sam?
Yeah.
Special announcement.
Myron, once again, you've been vindicated.
Sam, Frank and Neon have broken up after two years of dating.
And they said you're misogynists.
We'll change this back in 2023.
So yeah, definitely it came true to fruition and they're broken up real quick.
So you mentioned before, Internet.
And she's an entertainer.
I warned him.
I told him, bro.
Yeah.
Never date a girl that's entertainer or sermon, bro.
And I guarantee you, since you quit her OnlyFans, what's coming back?
Her OnlyFans.
Oh, yeah.
I guarantee you.
So it's gone from that, from anyone to religion, back to OnlyFans.
Yeah.
Go back, yeah.
But just after your point real quick about why flaking is a thing now.
So five years ago, people looked at me and said, Fresh, you're crazy, bro.
Instagram isn't that serious.
It's not a dating app.
Relax, bro.
Fast forward.
Everyone and their mothers use Instagram for dating.
My friends, your friends, celebrities.
Now moving into this flaking topic.
now bring in DMs bro.
I can't tell you how many girls I've met you've met that said, hey yeah, look who's DM me, Tiger Usher da da da da da da da.
And I'm like, nigga, you were six at best but guess what access is available so you're competing with celebrities guys guys that have money business guys guys that were willing to trick every single day oh yeah so when she flicked on you you said bro i thought she liked me she might have but her opportunity is so great and so immense that i mean quite frankly bro you can't keep up so your only possible solution just to get this like a preface is to become the best version of yourself
whatever that means for you.
And even then, you might still get flaked on.
That's another thing.
I didn't even I forgot about that.
Like, besides the technology stifling your opportunities, the other thing that's stifling a lot of you guys is rich dudes pay to play.
Yeah.
Okay, guys?
Oh boy.
Rich dudes pay to play.
There's a multitude of different reasons for this, right?
Besides the emergence of the MeToo era, discretion, not dealing with headaches later on.
Maybe they're in a relationship and they're married.
So, all these rich dudes, bro?
What?
I would say 95% of them pay to play?
Yeah.
It's funny..
I make the joke all the time like, I'm gonna one day do it.
I can't do it.
But I got friends.
As you know, they literally target people's wives, bro.
It's scummy.
I can't think of anybody here in Miami that we know that doesn't pay to play.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's hard to pay to play here, bro.
Yeah.
And you know the scary part?
Some of them are married.
Oh, yeah.
Well, that's why they have to pay to play.
Yeah.
It's quite literally why they have to do it.
Hush, hush, quiet.
Don't talk about nothing.
I'll pay you.
Boom.
Done.
And that's what works.
So the dating game.
It's definitely rigged and competition is fierce.
So flaking guys is never going away.
Sorry to say.
You can minimize it, but it's just part of the game.
Yeah.
It's going to get worse and worse and worse.
So you guys got to understand, bro, that like, it's just this is just the beginning.
It's it's only going to get worse from this point forward.
As technology gets better, we become, we have more interconnectivity with each other as, um, social media and influencers continue to be the rising, um, I guess, litmus test of influence like that, this is it's it's only going to get worse here.
Another thing for you guys too.
Uh, these girls are all on social media.
That's fact.
Keith Trippin.
Yeah, you're right.
We all pay for it, but it's how you do it, bro.
There's one thing that's a transaction and one thing we're experiencing with the girl herself as a plus one.
Two different things, bro.
When we say pay to play, guys, let me be explicit.
Yeah.
Because you can.
But yeah, some of niggas here clearly like I don't have critical thinking skills.
And I'm amazed.
Well, I guess it's been a while since we've discussed this.
So niggas are retarded.
When we say pay to play guys.
Yeah, bro.
Okay.
When we say pay to play, we're talking about the explicit exchange of currency for sexual activity.
I'm gonna say that again.
Yeah.
When we say pay to play, we are talking about the explicit currency exchange for sexual activity.
Okay.
Now, I know what you're saying.
We all pay to a degree.
You are correct.
Yeah.
We you are absolutely correct.
But when we're referring to pay to play, we're talking about the hiring of escorts, prostitutes, whatever it is.
What I'm telling you is guys that have money engage in that.
Yes.
Bitch shows up, smashes them.
There's nothing to discuss.
She leaves.
And he gives her money.
Yep.
No date, no nothing.
She just leaves.
So that's what I'm talking about when we say pay to play.
Also, going on dates is not paying for box, by the way.
Yep.
You idiots.
Courting is not paying for box.
I don't know if these niggas are retarded, but that is common sense.
Again, paying a transaction fee to smash, that's paying for box.
But going on a date that you want to go on, hers a plus one is.
not paying for boxes, you idiots.
I mean, is it common sense, bro?
Yeah, I mean, yeah, pay up guys, I'm shocked that we have again, it's a refresher, so I can't even be angry at you all.
Yeah, yeah.
Right?
Because some of you guys might be like, well, everybody pays.
Yeah, bro, we know that.
But we're talking about the explicit exchange of currency for sexual activity.
We are not fans of that, but that is a very popular.
And to be honest with you, the route most guys that have money go, which I don't even knock them at this point.
Like, what the fuck happened to Shannon Sharp and all his other rich guys, bro?
Yeah.
Like, bro, you know, when you pay chicks, like, they're going to be way less inclined to fucking come after you with some bullshit.
Because you're like, hey, what, what, I grabbed you.
What's this Cash App?
Shut up.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Because that's your clause to say, What did you say, bitch?
Yeah.
Oh, that's right.
Yeah.
I paid you ass.
Yeah.
So, but but now and her coming out, isn't it funny that she's probably going to be more ashamed that she got paid on Cash App than being a liar?
Exactly.
Because they have no more shame anyway.
Yeah.
That does hurt girls.
That's going to, that's going to fuck them up.
That's the one thing a girl wouldn't want to reveal about herself.
Yeah.
The fact she makes it look really bad.
That's, isn't that, that just goes to show you the priorities.
Like, she would rather, like, she won't come out when you pay her because you, you basically got receipts that she's basically a prostitute.
But she'll go ahead if you don't pay her and just drag your name through the mud and make herself look like a vindictive chick.
check if you didn't pay her.
I'll do one even better.
Even porn stars and prostitutes, you know what they do?
They put an email.
They don't say I get paid for boss.
Just put an email.
Book me.
They don't say, Oh, book me.
They don't say pay me here.
They just say book me through this email.
Because they don't want to look that obvious.
But it's obvious to us because we know the game.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But, Oh, yeah, you want to see me?
Book me here.
What does that mean?
Yeah.
So, yeah, it's what it is, but a part of the game is flaking.
That's just how it is, fellas.
Yeah.
But it is what it is.
It's an inherent, it's an inherent part of modern dating and it's only going to get worse.
So that's why we did this episode because we understand a lot of you guys suffer from this bullshit.
A lot of you guys are anno annoyed with it.
I know it's frustrating.
So we're going to give you guys five ways to mitigate it.
Now, as with everything we teach you guys, nothing is foolproof.
Okay?
Women are women.
Dating is dating.
Hypergamy is hypergamy.
So nothing we ever tell you guys is going to be 100% foolproof.
All we can do is give you guys the best practices so that you don't end up like a fool.
Yep.
And you can mitigate a lot of the problems that inherently come with dealing with women, modern women in the modern dating landscape.
Where quite frankly, they have all the leverage and you have almost no leverage.
Even as a top tier guy, attractive, tall, money, et cetera.
You know what that does?
does that just makes it where it's somewhat equal yeah that's what it is like and this is why we're so big on self-improvement with you guys because we understand that okay just to go into this a little bit more most of you motherfuckers let's be honest some of you is right now watching this show you guys are maybe with a girl that you got by the skin of your teeth all right or you're talking to a girl right now that doesn't like you most of you guys enter relationships like this you are here she's here okay She has low interest and you're working your way up to increase interest, right?
But most of you guys, when you deal with women, you guys started a fucking disparity.
Now here's the thing.
You can absolutely meet a girl that's low interest.
Use charisma, charm, game, multiple dates, and bring that interest up, right?
And grind.
You can do that.
But understand that that's a pain in the ass.
And quite frankly, I think it's better for you instead of taking that time to get this low interest girl up, why not just self-improve so you start at a closer level, right?
Because if you start a disparity, you can get her, but it's going to be very frustrating and very fucking annoying.
And she's going to be miserable.
But if you start at a higher level, you have to...
Put it this way.
It's either you work hard now, so you don't have to work as hard later, or...
And go get with girls and not have to work now, but you're going to have to work harder up front.
Sorry, you're going to have to work harder on the back end to keep her.
I think it's better to just self-approve and hit the dating marketplace assembled versus trying to assemble yourself as you're dating a chick.
Yeah.
You're going to say something?
No, I was going to say, I got a story about that, but I'll do it on the Zoom call.
All right.
You ready for the five points?
So yeah, we got half hours after this.
Yeah.
All right, guys.
So number one on the list.
Well, number five, counting down.
Oh, we do.
Okay.
Yeah, counting down.
Yeah, yeah.
So guys, it's going to go from order of.
least important to most important, we're going to count down to top five.
So, you guys got the monologue, you guys understand how the fuck we got here and the problem.
So, now we're going to get into number five of how to mitigate the flaking, which is going to be FaceTime calls.
So, usually speaking, the other way.
Bro.
Nigga, isn't it?
Nigga, this way.
No, no, no.
You're supposed to count down from five to one.
No, but this is the last, remember?
Because it's the most insignificant.
We do a lot.
We do a lot.
This one.
Double.
Remember?
No, but you start with that and then work your way up.
Are you starting?
You start it.
You start it.
This guy.
It's not you start it, bro.
Okay.
We'll get to that next.
We got it.
We got it.
But number five, guys, on the list is going to be double booking.
Okay.
What do we mean by double booking?
We mean as in set up a date with multiple girls.
Okay.
With multiple chicks.
Maybe it's two.
Maybe it's three.
And there's a bunch of reasons for this.
The reason why you're doing that is because number one, when you have multiple dates set up, you're going to be less thirsty.
You're going to naturally have an abundance mindset.
Okay.
Women naturally have an abundance mindset.
Men need to create their abundance mindset.
With men, you need to cultivate that abundance mindset by having options.
Okay.
Women naturally have options.
Women naturally don't feel thirsty towards men because they can walk outsside and get attention any time.
I need you guys to be able to personify that trait of I am not going to be thirsty with the opposite gender, right?
I'll give you guys an example of what I mean by this, right?
Because I know we got a lot of new viewers here or fresher for some of you niggas.
Let's imagine in a dream scenario that you're a guy, you're a guy and you have three girlfriends, okay?
A black chick, a white chick, an Asian chick, right?
And then maybe a Latino, four girlfriends, right?
And they all basically have different, you know, things that you like, right?
You have an assortment and these girls are always by your side.
One cooks, one cleans, another one fucking, you know, takes care of your shit, whatever, right?
These four women basically are your chicks all the time.
Now I want to ask you guys a question.
When you're on Tinder or when you're on Bumble or when you're on SA or when you're on any of these dating apps, right?
Or when you're out on a date with a girl, if a woman disrespected you and you had four girls at home that were all bad of different colors and types, would you tolerate bad behavior from women?
Let's see what you guys say in the chat.
You go on a date, she flakes, she's rude, she's rabunchious, any of this other stuff.
Would you guys tolerate that from this girl you just met?
if you have four girls at home.
See what the chest is.
Yes or no?
Close.
Awesome.
I see a whole bunch of no's.
All right.
This, my friends, is the mindset you need to have all the time.
And just so you guys know, this is how women feel all the time.
That not give a fuckitude of you having four girls and some woman treating you poorly and you're saying fuck this bitch?
That is precisely how women feel about men.
Now imagine having that post-nut clarity 24-7.
You'd be fucking unstoppable, wouldn't you?
Right?
Monster.
But since men have this insatiable thirst to always smash girls, right?
A lot of times guys think with this head instead of this head.
And it puts you in very precarious situations.
So what I need you guys to do is be in a position where you feel like you got four girlfriends so you don't have to tolerate fuckery from women.
Okay?
mindset okay that's where you guys need to be as much as you can be now that's why it goes to point number five, double booking have other dates.
So number one, you don't come off as thirsty.
Number two, if she flakes, you have a contingency.
And then number three gives you a bit more peace of mind.
So that like if a girl does flake, which it will fucking happen, by the way, get ready.
You have a backup or backups.
And when you have this abundance mindset and you have backups, that's going to show when you interact with her.
You're not going to come off as thirsty.
You're not going to come off as desperate.
You're not going to come off as outcome dependent.
You're going to be outcome independent.
Basically, you kind of go and deal with a girl from a position of take it or fucking leave it.
Take it or fucking leave it.
But a lot of you guys are like, no, no, no, please, please.
And with women, unfortunately, as much as they try to sit there and say, I want a guy that's going to pursue me, and all of a sudden, they don't, bro.
They really don't.
They want a guy that's indifferent to them, that doesn't think that they're special, doesn't blow smoke up their ass.
Because you got to remember, guys, that for the average girl, ever since she's been hitting puberty, she's got male attention and validation for nothing more than existing.
You cannot be like every other guy.
So again.
You know, Bruce Lee says, be like water, my friend.
I'm telling you guys, be like womanizer, my friend.
Have four girls.
Pretend you need to envision that you got four bad chicks with you at all times and then Ask yourself, would you tolerate this behavior from this woman that you're talking to if you had four bad chicks?
The answer most of the time is going to be a profound fucking no.
That's where you guys need to be when it comes to mind state and dealing with women.
Post not clarity 24/7.
Well said.
I want you to imagine a day where you planned a date.
You went from work, home, you made phone calls, reservations, you planned a whole date in 10, 20 minutes.
And then the girl that you were going to date with an hour early says, hey, I can't make it.
My cat died.
How would you feel?
You'd be like, what the fuck?
Like, I just spent this time planning this date.
I'm horny as hell.
I can't even get to the date to smash.
So obviously you're going to feel like shit.
Now, double booking keeps you safe, secure, and insured.
If you felt like you've bought insurance and you didn't get your money's worth, here's your chance.
You can book multiple dates.
It's not that hard, by the way.
All you need is a source to source girls, which is Instagram, as you guys have known in the course, or dating apps.
But of course, in-person works as well.
That source should give you at least three to five to ten women you can ask on a date.
Out at ten, three or four may say yes.
And out at three or four, two might come through.
Either way, you want multiple.
Now, once this feeling is in your head and you know what can happen, you have the security and insurance there.
And this is why, listen, that first time I got flaked on, nigga, that shit was terrible.
I'll never forget it.
know what all right she got me I'm not mad she got me cool I understand what's happening here I wasn't the best option it is what it is happens all every single day however after that I was insured to the max and with car insurance bro you can barely use it but double booking insurance shit comes in handy every fucking week so So as your boy would say, man, don't hate the player, hate the game.
And if you got insurance for the game, you're going to win no matter what.
So listen guys, double booking is essential.
It is a big part of dating.
And if you don't do it, it's your loss.
And again, if you want to do a claim on your insurance, well, another girl.
If you don't claim insurance, you're a shit out of luck.
But double booking guys keeps you safe.
And at the end of the day, fellas, it is what it is.
Most girls have options and you're just another number to her.
Until she meets you, she sees your swagger, she sees what you got going on, how you are as a person, you know, your game so to speak, and your frame.
Once she sees that, all right, this dude's work worth me being around, got you.
But until then, just another guy she's talking to and that could lead to flaking.
So double book, so you don't get messed up and you've got insurance for your date.
That's pretty much it.
Yeah, you guys got, and again, guys, you got to operate with that mindset when you deal with women, man.
So double booking, you know, it's very simple.
Three is two, two is one, one is none.
You guys got to have that mindset, man.
And the thing is, is that this mindset is, you won't even notice it, but you're going to feel less thirsty.
That's just, and women can feel it.
That's the thing too.
Women are extremely receptive to communication.
So if you come off thirsty, even though you might not feel it.
or you don't think you came out thirsty.
She'll be able to detect it.
For sure.
So, very important that you guys understand this.
Also, don't get angry if she flakes, bro.
It's what it is.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Bro, yeah, look, man.
I know you guys are tempted to say, you stupid fucking bitch, like blah, blah, blah.
Yeah.
Look, bro, trust me.
Nigga, I get angry at these girls too, bro.
But like sending them an angry, rage filled voice note or text is not worth it, bro.
Just like, just fucking block her, delete her number.
She's just gonna say, I'm glad I didn't go out on a date.
Yeah, bro.
Now I see why I shouldn't go out on a date.
Yeah.
All she's gonna do is just justify, you're all you're doing is like justifying her stupid ass decision.
Yeah.
When you do that, bro.
So, like, there's no point sending an angry message.
I know a lot of you will anyway, but just understand that when you do that, she's gonna be like, I made the right decision.
You know what I mean?
Yep.
So it is what it is.
Number four, plan in detail for success.
So usually speaking, let's say you get a girl to go on a date with you.
You pretty much just maybe say, hey, you want to get coffee, hey, you want to do this, do that, and that's it.
There's no actual A to Z. You're pretty much saying, okay, let's go on a date.
I'll figure shit out on a date.
However, that's not how life works.
You have a plan to succeed and make things happen.
Now, obviously speaking, if you know the plan of a date, you're in good luck.
Most people don't know the plan of dates.
So let's go through it step by step.
Step A, have a plan to either meet her somewhere, her meet you, or translation so you guys can meet at the same place, whether it's Uber, have your car, that's plan A. Plan B is to have a actual location where you can, so to speak, get to know her a little bit better, whether it's coffee, a light snack, maybe some drinks at a bar, that's ideal.
And then plan C is to have another spot in mind that can either help you close the date faster or at that point move to the next stage which is to your crib or to a spot to smash.
That's how things should work.
Now, usually they just do plan A, maybe plan B and that's it.
Now, once you got a full plan intact, your confidence is going to go up because now you know, okay.
I go maybe to this lounge spot, this bar spot, then to my crib.
All right.
I got it in my head.
What's going to happen here?
Cool.
And again, you don't force it, of course, but you're planning the date.
You're the one paying.
So it's natural.
And at this point, you plan and detail the date and you can move forward with confidence knowing this is what it is.
She may say, Oh, I heard about this restaurant called Komodo down the street.
Can we go there?
Nah, I got you.
We're going to go over here.
Just dress, semi casual or casual.
Don't tell her where you're going.
Like tell her how to dress for it and make it kind of exciting, because girls love shit like that.
Exactly.
And she will test you to say, Oh, oh, you know what?
I heard about this spot on Instagram and TikTok.
It's fancy.
Can we go over here?
You're like, Oh, yeah, let's go over there there, babe.
No planning, nothing.
It just following her lead.
You're the loss, nigga.
You're following her frame, it's over.
That's a big red flag if she's like trying to get you to go to an expensive restaurant on the first date, bro.
Like that's like, you know, the way you deal with that is you say, oh, no, don't worry, I got a better plan.
Is it right?
And I got something in mind.
And then you just like take her somewhere else.
And don't tell her.
Just tell her how to dress, whatever.
But like don't, don't, never follow her if she says, I want to go to Komodo.
Bro, hell, I told you all this before.
I don't give a fuck if you wanted to go to Komodo.
Now you gotta change it.
Like if you actually want to go to Komodo, then she suggests it.
Bro, it is so important that you have to go somewhere else now.
Yeah.
Because you can't even let her think that she's running shit.
No, what you can do is later on when she's cool and she's proved her worth.
Yeah.
And take her there.
Yeah, yeah.
But the first day, no.
Yeah, so that's that's very important.
And then another thing too.
I get this question all the time.
Myron, should I cover Uber?
So look guys, right when it comes to this, because this is like a contested topic.
When it comes to planning dates, your job as a man is to remove all fucking obstacles, okay?
Women are going to have reservations, they're going to have obstacles, they're going to have concerns, whatever the fucking may be.
Your job as a man is to make everything as smooth as possible.
So if that means, like she says, Oh, can I get a ride or some shit like that?
Just give her the fucking Uberber, bro.
Just get it.
And honestly, if you can't afford it, I don't know why you all niggas are damn bitches anyway.
From me all the way to 1000 here.
Because your job is to mitigate the problems.
Remember, guys, we're telling you guys how to get in a situation where you can get this date from the beginning all the way to the end.
And if something like a fucking Uber is holding you back, bro, I'll know I'll got 10 bucks to sit to do this, nigga, you just need to stay home.
But Myron, you're wrong.
No Uber is paying for box, bro.
What's wrong?
How dare you pay for box?
A Uber?
Nah, bro, you're not RPO here.
Now, here's my thing when it comes to women, right?
This is my thing when it comes to women, guys.
this all the time.
Reciprocation is good.
But when you're not getting reciprocation, that's when you run into problems.
Okay?
So if a girl's going out of her way to come to you, you should cover the Uber.
She's getting ready.
She's getting dressed for you, all this other shit.
And she's coming to you.
Because the other way is this.
The other option is you guys go to her.
We know what's going to happen if you go there.
Oh, it's going to trouble.
And you might end up like trouble.
Yeah.
Going to her.
I would rather cover an Uber have her come to me where I control everything than go to her where the fuck she's at.
Kibbe and ex-boyfriend..
Yeah, not even that.
Like she's because when you go to her place, number one, you're not familiar with the area.
You don't have a setup.
We tell you guys, have to have to game when it comes to dealing with females as logistics.
So you're bringing her to because you already have the plan set up.
But if you go over there, you put yourself at a serious fucking disadvantage, especially if you're trying to get a first day late.
We talked about this in the first day late bootprint.
So guys, getting a Uber for the chick to come.
So you control the variables.
That's the way to go.
And it shows it shows good traits about you as well.
So your gentleman shows that you are, um, you know, you could take a uh uh uh uh dominance.
You can be assertive, you could lead et cetera.
You can lead.
These are very small ways.
Now there's a very big difference between asserting dominance and showing that you're a gentleman from being a fucking simp.
Remember, she's coming to you, which means since she's coming to you and she's willing to follow you you reward that positive behavior okay always remember guys that when it comes to um dealing with women right i don't want to whatever fuck it like you have to you have to positively reinforce good behavior yes while negatively reinforcing others so if she says some you check her but if she does what she's supposed to do you reward that Right?
So if she's taking time out to come to you, right?
Especially if she's from far.
Some of these chicks like, well, like if you live in a major city, a lot of chicks will be like an hour away and shit like that.
Yeah.
Like, she's coming to you?
Bro, cover the fucking Uber, bro.
And for you niggas that sit there and say, oh, bro, I don't got no money, blah, blah, bro, you need to be focusing on something else instead of girls then.
Facts.
You got your priorities all fucked up.
You were to be a Uber nigga?
Yeah.
She should get a job first, and that's bad.
So, I'm a big supporter of removing fucking obstacles, especially obstacles that are small like that, because that could derail everything.
Okay?
So, that's my take on it.
Good point.
But again, if she's a chick that doesn't fuck with you, or she doesn't like you like that, or she's been a pain in the ass, no, then don't do it, obviously.
You want to do that for girls that are submissive, compliant, don't give you a headache, right?
They're eager to meet up, cool.
You'll reward that positively.
But if you've been talking to a chick bro for like three months, nigga, and she doesn't, you know, she's not, she doesn't show interest.
She's a pain in the ass.
She makes things difficult, then nah, fuck that.
Don't do it.
But you don't want to go ahead and negatively reinforce good behavior from a chick that's doing what she's supposed to do and reciprocating.
Facts.
Also, for the advanced bros that know the game, you can go to Shorty's Crib.
However, most people shouldn't be doing that.
But for advanced bros, they know what's up.
Okay.
Yeah.
Number three.
Yeah, that's advanced.
We keep it nice and simple for you guys.
We tell you I'll always have her come to you.
because realistically speaking, a lot of you guys are not going to be able to properly navigate if you go to her spot.
And then also there's a whole bunch of other problems that can arise.
So, yeah.
A little bit dangerous.
All right, number three, control your mental state to have the best mindset moving forward.
All it means is, fellas, when you get a girl to greet a date, things happen.
And no matter who you are, you can't control somebody with their actions.
They're going to do what they want to do, regardless of how you feel, how you've acted, what you've done.
the same time, if you understand that, you won't get upset or mad if she flix.
And this is why life is so good.
Because if you don't get mad and you're a cool guy, guess what what happens?
You could do this in two, one of two ways.
You could flex for the rebound or stay cool and calm and then get her back to the smash later on.
What does this mean?
All I'm saying is you can literally turn this around in your favor and she will come back to you.
This happens all the time.
A girl will get a better opportunity, maybe a yacht party, Christmas party, I don't know, a tiger pulled up, things happen.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, is it what it is?
You can't control that those variables.
However, you can control how you react to it and move forward.
So, this is what I used to do, right?
And I kind of do it now, but more or less, it's way easier.
I would sit there and say, okay, no problem.
Cool.
I leave it there.
But then I would go out with another girl that same night.
I post on my Instagram.
And she's like, wait a minute.
That looks like fun.
She'll heart it and say, where was this?
Ah, I won't respond until the next day, by the way.
But I'm with the chick having a great time.
Great old time.
I'm still on a date that I want to go on.
This is a different chick.
I'll respond the next day and say, oh, yeah, it was this spot.
You should have pulled up.
Bro, this happens all the time.
She would be like okay i'm free tonight where are you going tonight so now it's the ball's on my court and i can tell everything from the from the jump uh of course you know what happens bro bro.
We go out, things happen, you know.
What do you do when you get that?
Like, do you take her somewhere not as good to punish her?
Or like, what do you do?
Well, the thing with me is that I get free spots to go to.
So regardless of the fact, whatever is free for me, I'm going to go.
But at the same time, for you guys watching, you want to take care of the spot that, like you said before, not as investment worthy and more of a subtle chill spot.
So it won't be like a nice spot.
It'll be like a hole in the wall or something that's just chill that you can just talk to her or whatever.
Because she kind of feels the first test.
But if it's a good reason why she didn't come, I get it.
But even then, just take it to a chill spot.
Yeah.
Most of the time it's bullshit, guys.
Not nine out of ten times when she flakes her cat died it's some BS her mom is the only time I would say it's legitimate is if like she apologizes and she immediately says can you do tomorrow yeah or can you do this or like she gives you um Yeah, she offers to openly, whether it be rescheduling or I'm so sorry, I'll cover dinner, some bullshit like that.
Like, if she makes a sincere and earnest move to make it up to you, fine, right?
But let's be honest here, most of these chicks don't.
They'll just flake and just like, eh.
And the point is, once the ball is in your court, your dick is in her mouth.
Done.
Because now, bro, it's only, no, I'm just saying, because the ball is in your court, the dick is in her mouth because now you got her oh i want to come to this spot hey meet me here we're good to go but you get mad and say fuck you you just turned away and it's over with bro on to the next and you missed out on some fun activities and kicking her to the streets but again now that's an advanced technique though using instagram like that yeah this is where you gotta use common sense Common sense gang.
Shout out to all niggas man.
But no, guys, it's simple.
Don't get mad.
Control your mental state and use common sense to move forward to get what you want.
And trust me, bro.
Nigga, we all are annoyed by these bimbos.
Trust me, bro.
Like, nigga, there's no one more frustrated withed with them than with us.
We get it that.
Listen.
It's a pain and a pity to deal with them, but.
Listen, looking like me, bro.
You got to be smart, bro.
Listen, listen.
I've been through the ringer, bro.
Oh, frustrated, listen, nigga, I know this.
But I use this to my advantage because now I've mastered all the skills.
I have the Gauntlet of Thanos.
I mastered this shit, bro.
It's not that hard for me.
It's very easy for me right now.
But for you guys watching, I got a tip for you, bro.
I've been through it.
From the very jump, which is zero to one hundred, real quick.
Okay.
Number two.
Oh no.
Three.
Chats real quick.
Oh yeah, we can reach chats.
Yeah, chats.
Because someone donated from the very beginning.
I forgot his name, Stormtrooper, shout to him.
I think it was him.
But not, fellas.
You got a Zoom call, by the way, after this?
Yes.
Promo code, free.
We're going to do a Zoom call after this, after these next two things.
Yeah.
By the way, the promo code is for one dollar.
So you're going to pay one dollar for the first month.
Yeah.
And it's basically free because you're getting the Zoom call, all the access for one dollar to the end of the month.
Yeah.
That's a fucking deal.
Fucking huge deal.
So there you go, fellas.
Jump in there while you still can.
Okay, um, and then, okay, we got Beth Styde, zero three Styde.
I have two side chicks.
They both tell me stories about how guys always try to simp on them by buying them gold bracelets and offering them to pay their bills.
Bro, I felt way worse than that.
I smashed both on our first meetups and all I put down was Dominoes and IHOP and Bring ASO vibes, as you should.
Y'all definitely taught me that nice guy shit doesn't work, like BFNF.
Bro, you can be nice and still be in frame at the same time, but again, being an asshole does work.
Yeah, I mean, bro, unfortunately, it's not the 1950s, man.
So it's like you get punished for being a nice guy most of the time.
Are there some women out there that are going to appreciate it and reciprocate?
Of course.
Some, yeah.
But unfortunately, it's just not a good modus operandi for 2025 with the way women are now.
Unfortunately, bro.
It's what it is.
Yeah, being a gentleman no longer goes, it's no longer appreciated by a majority of women, unfortunately.
By the way, this was from White Carrot.
Shelter Adam from White Carrot.
This is a crazy pendant.
It's a sword fighting all the, I don't want to say, but we're fighting a good fight with this sword.
You know what I'm saying?
Okay.
Move forward.
Raid.
If you're not 12 feet with 24 pack and you're not a trillionaire and want to be a stepdad for five kids, you don't qualify.
To her five kids.
Yeah.
That's the new requirements.
L. Benjamin and Oh, Benjamin and Yahoo.
Yo, Fresh.
Where would you take a three out of ten mid girl that you don't want to get seen in public but still want to sell her the dream just to smash?
Well for you nigga, you better just sell her you can't go outside you they want you to tell you got a rest warrant.
Oh yeah yeah bro you you just you got the best excuse to ICC bro Yo, yeah, yo Bills, this is the this is the three out of ten tooth is special he wants the sauce on this right so listen bro bro just say you wanted to buy the ICC man I'm gonna do this for you you can't go outside hold on I'm gonna do this for you nigga When I was broke in the in the hood nigga I was eating threes and fours like it was Skittles all right bro so this is what you do right bro?
You gotta find your spot, a hole in the wall.
Not a regular one, A hole in the fucking wall, where nobody goes.
It's a cheap fucking bar, two dollar drinks, happy hours fucking, almost a dollar for margaritas.
You go to that spot.
You tell, listen, babe, I've been thinking, you know, you're a little bit overweight, but I'll eat the cake.
I'm just kidding.
But no, all the looks are sigh, guys.
You got to go to the spot that's really far, hole in the wall, that people know you there.
Like, meet a barman.
Listen, Tom.
Here's ten bucks, nigga.
We walk in here, serve you quick, so get the fuck out of here.
Give her some drinks.
Make her happy.
Touch.
Yo, put her hand on her thigh.
God, then this shit big as fuck.
Yo, listen, bitch.
I love you.
Not just kidding.
I'll say that shit, nigga.
Anyhow, make her feel good, bro.
Get some drinks.
Chop it up with her real quick.
Get the fuck out of here.
Back to the crib.
You're good.
Hole in the wall close to your crib that you know the bartender by name Tommy.
Get the fuck out of here, nigga.
And you go home.
I smash.
Simple.
And then back to work, nigga.
But again, 3s and 4s, bro.
It's part of the game.
You gotta start somewhere.
And again, guys.
Hole in the fucking wall.
That's it.
That's it, bro.
That's it.
There we go.
All right.
Hands on the thighs for real quick, nigga.
That shit, big as hell.
All right, cool.
Mobi.
Hi guys.
Thanks for inspiring men worldwide.
I'm from Norway.
And I've become the best version of myself.
Myron, any drinks aren't good for you.
Stay safe and happy five years.
Fresh and fit.
Shout out to your brother for supporting the show five years running.
We're still going, bro.
Appreciate you, man.
Oh, also guys, just so you know, we're going to start streaming exclusively on Kick and Rumble.
Yep.
Right, guys?
So, you know, this week, obviously we're doing the segue, but get ready, guys, where we're going to start like cutting the YouTube stream and going to Kick and Rumble.
And the show is going to be better because I will finally be able to say what the fuck I want to say, bro.
And, um, and, uh, yeah, it just doesn't make make sense to stream on YouTube like that anymore, bro.
It really doesn't.
For two years, man.
For free.
These niggas been robbing us, bro.
So yeah, we're going to be streaming, at least this show.
For the next couple of months, we're going to be streaming on, and maybe we'll make a return to YouTube in a few months.
Who knows?
But for now, you know, we're going to be doing a transition.
So you're all going to start seeing us, like, you know, do cut screens and all this other shit on YouTube.
We'll stay on, so you guys know that we're on.
But we'll probably be, when you open it up, it'll be a fucking banner.
But you guys will be able to watch on either Rumble or on Kick.
And I think between those two platforms, every single one of you guys should be able to watch without problems.
Yeah.
Because I don't think kick is banned anywhere, right?
Not, not no.
I know France, Brazil, China, rumble's banned.
I think Brazil overturned it, I think.
And Russia.
They're probably going to.
But it's fine.
But the point is, is that, yeah, yeah, we'll be able to Will you be on X?
Uh, nah.
We still will be, but it's going to be mostly on kick and rumble.
Yeah, X don't do shit though.
No, it doesn't.
Well, that's no, but I'm saying they'll be able to see us and know that we're live and they gotta come over.
It'll be a banner screen.
Got you.
Got you.
All right.
So, like, what we'll do guys is, you, like, we'll be live?
30, 40 minutes on YouTube, whatever the fuck.
And then we'll.
switch banners and then you guys will see that we're like the stream is only going to be live on you'll see that we're live, but it will only be able to be watchable on Kick and Rumble.
So that's where it's at.
There you go.
Demetrius Rapp says, Hi Key.
I found success picking up girls on the first time we meet because you catch a vibe with them in the car, crack the barrier of feeling each other out for the first time rather than cracking the barrier in a restaurant or whatever the first date is.
On top of that, I know Briar Miami from the back of my hand, so I know where's the red flag when she sends me the location.
There you go.
See, he found a method that works for him.
In the car.
Not bad at all.
If it works, it works.
DC Badass says, Yo, Fresh.
I met this chick and she called me a baby.
Because I'm two years younger than her.
She was Stacy Dash, fine.
But I got some crutches in my trunk for her next time I see her.
I mean, bro, age is just a number, bro.
But at the same time, yeah, if you're younger than her, she might say you're a baby.
Yeah.
But that doesn't mean shit, bro.
Okay, I'm a baby.
But guess what I can do?
Well, it's kinda PG.
Sorry, kinda R, R to R. The point is, bro, it doesn't matter what you what you what you say, bro.
You can still smash.
No matter.
Okay.
He said add it to last?
Okay, cool.
Ryan Smith, always remember Donathan Sharp's TIRS acronym.
Time, energy, attention, resources.
There you go.
Okay.
That's the last one.
Cool.
All right, guys, last two here on the list before we do the Zoom call.
Don't text a call too much because it will mess up the actual date.
So usually what happens is guys, you plan a date a week in advance.
You're excited.
Oh yeah.
I'm going to leave work early.
This is going to be lit.
That's the AMF strategy.
I bought a smash.
Yeah, wait a week.
Oh man.
And then she's the whole time she's like, okay, this guy seems cool.
This seems like a good date, blah, blah, blah.
Blah, blah, blah.
What happens is you get over excited.
You get very happy and you're texting her like, How's your morning?
Good morning Queen.
How's your day?
Did you eat today?
Oh, send me some money for Uber.
Yeah.
You don't want to make us like to yapp too much, bro.
Do it too much, bro.
Stupid.
You become her pen pal.
Now she's looking at you like, Nigga, you're a friend.
Why would I go on a date with you?
So you just turn her off by texting too much, calling too much.
The actual point of this is to plan a date with her, FaceTime call, and leave that date.
They're too familiar.
Exactly.
All the in between.
Men love familiarity.
Women don't, bro.
Because you gotta understand this shit.
Mystery's better.
Women hate familiarity.
We love it.
We're mundane.
We like to have a routine, do the same shit every day.
Men are simple.
Women aren't like that.
They like to be spontaneous and adventurous and not have a routine.
They don't like familiarity like we do.
Also, fellas, here's what you can do to create suspense, keep her engaged, and not talk to her every day.
Instagram, my friend.
This is a tool you can use for almost any type of interaction with a girl to show high value and at the same time, be discreet and not be as interface as you need to be.
is very simple.
Just post stories.
That's it.
Don't text her like, hey, post stories.
If she hearts it, that's cool.
but the point is fellas texting her directly before the date multiple times back and forth calling her it's a l leave mystery up to what it what it does plan the date make concrete plans plan in detail hey i'll pick you up at 8 p.m on this day that's it and keep it brief short and to the point anything else fellas you might fuck it up oh yeah uh uh i saw on your page that you you like flowers I'll bring you some.
You're thinking to stop.
Bro, the more you talk, the more you fuck yourself up, bro.
Yeah.
Like, another thing.
Again, refresher.
You guys got to understand that when women are talking to you, they're looking for something to disqualify you.
Anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of women ease.
Yeah.
Like they're going to go ahead and look for any little thing to disqualify you guys.
Remember, when you got a bunch of applications pending, a bunch of offers, you're going to go with the best one.
And if you can disqualify people to kind of rationalize in your head, you made the right decision, they will.
So the less you talk, the better.
And we're going to talk about how to appropriately do that in the next step.
But guys, limit interaction, especially texting.
Some of you motherfuckers want to say good morning, Texas shit.
Bro, don't do that.
Another thing, a lot of you guys like to to take like the AMS strategy, wait a week or whatever and contact her.
Bro, that shit is not going to work in 2025, bro.
Nigga, she's gone.
Look, I like AMS, you guys know, we rock with him.
But in modern society, the way women are now, bro, TikTok brain, bro, you could barely get these girls' attention for 40 seconds.
Yeah.
You think about a seven days?
Nigga, hell, no.
Seven days?
She'd be like, who's this?
Yeah.
Who the fuck is this?
Especially with the amount of contact that they began on the internet, bro.
You gotta make shit happen that day within, bro, honestly, it's like the first 48 hours with solving a murder investigation.
If you meet a girl and you don't make something happen within the first 48 hours, the likelihood of you making something happen is low.
Something happened or slim to none at that point.
It's cooked.
Nigga, I want it the same day.
I'm hungry.
Yeah, bro.
Like, you gotta make moves right then and there.
You gotta strike while the iron's hot because women have too many goddamn options, bro.
The smartphone, unfortunately for you guys, was the worst invention ever when it came to men and dating in the sexual marketplace.
Great for them, terrible for you.
Yeah, and absolutely terrible for me.
And Instagram.
Yeah.
But good for us though.
All right.
And now if you do, now if you know what you're doing, you can set yourself ahead of most guys, but it's still a uphill battle.
Also, I still do Instagram reviews if you guys want on my channel or in Zoom calls, if you guys want that, I got you guys.
And then number one, FaceTime call.
This one here, man, is the triumphant action that will get you what you need and set you up for a good foundation on a date.
This right here is the number one thing you can do to secure and minimize flaking.
Now, how you do this is important because you can do this in a number of ways, but the most simple, concise way is this.
You say, listen, hey, I want to talk to you on FaceTime.
When are you free?
Or you say, hey, are you free for FaceTime?
However, you want to word it.
Free on FaceTime, it needs to be in there in a concise way.
So you're going to say, oh, I'm at work right now.
I'm free at like 8 p.m., boom, call her at 8 p.m.
The call should not be longer than 15 to 20 minutes.
Pass that, you're having a fucking conversation that's too long and you're no pen pals or friends.
Going over the limit is just unnecessary and dumb.
And that call's predominantly for her to hear your voice, make sure you're not a weirdo, right?
And also for her to kind of gain a little bit of safety and trust because that 15 minutes that you talk to her guys is the equivalent of like spending hours texting.
Yes.
You basically cut the fucking waiting time down and you build a lot more trust much faster and it's more natural.
So that's why we advocate for FaceTime calls.
And also you can kind of see what our buying temperature is.
Like, hell, maybe she might not be interesting on the call or maybe she's like low interest.
I tell you guys personally, it's not worth it to go out with low interest girls.
Some of you guys still do it.
I don't like it.
Low interest girls is a pain in the ass.
It's not worth the work.
But for some of you guys, you know, if she has low interest, you might be able to increase it during that call.
Now, if you're a pro, you can do it in five minutes, ten minutes, seven minutes.
But if you need longer, that's fine.
We get it.
Now, precaution here.
You should be in a well lit room, not in a fucking dark room.
So, oh yeah.
Hey, baby, what are you up to?
Nigga, what the fuck are you?
You weird ass niggas will call her from the darkness of your bed, bro.
Bro.
Don't do that.
Yo, what's up, Floaty?
Bruh, she can't even see you.
Yeah.
Anyway, you guys are kinda weird.
But the point is, have a well lit room.
Hopefully you got a haircut and you don't look shy.
And please, for the love of God, bro, don't call her in the toilet.
Bro, I don't know what's wrong, niggas.
Niggas be in the toilet late.
What's up?
Can you hear me?
Nigga, she doesn't want to see you.
You're in the fucking toilet.
Please, stop that shit.
Okay.
I've heard stories, bro, by the way.
I've heard stories.
So listen, fellas.
This is very important.
FaceTime call.
If you're a normy doing this and you have no experience, it could be from ten minutes to fifteen minutes plus.
Now.
Now, on the call, it's very simple.
You're not going to over-axe, over-deliver.
You're filling the vibe out, get it the vibe, but ask the questions and you're control here.
So, what do you like to do for fun?
I'm just curious.
She's going to say, hey, I like to go maybe to, I don't know, go dance with my friends, I like to go to the market, whatever it is, whatever the bullshit is, right?
And then from her axe, she's going to plan a date that's going to be fun, filled for yourself first, but for her second.
You get what I'm saying?
So you can kind of pick up what she likes to do from questions.
But the main thing is guys, you're pre screening her to see if she's cool, if you like her as well.
And then for the date.
Now, closing this is going to be basically, listen, you seem pretty cool.
I like your vibe.
I'm going to take you out when next you're free.
Friday, Saturday, Sunday, when are you free?
She's going to say, oh, well, I'm free on Saturday after work at 9 p.m.
Cool.
I'll pick you up at 9.30.
Send me your address later on.
I got you.
And then close it there.
So you just planned the date.
You felt the vibe.
You screened her out.
So now she's cool.
You can take on her date.
It's planned.
Remember, fellas, this is only to plan the date, not to talk to her about her family, her life story.
That you can do maybe if you want to.
When you're on the date.
But on the phone, bro, it's the first encounter, Face FaceTime call, short, concising, to the point.
Your goal is to plan logistics, show you're not a weirdo.
Show that you have good tonality, you can command a presence when you speak.
And convey confidence.
That's what the purpose of this.
You're basically showing that you're not a fucking idiot and that you can go ahead and be somewhat competent when you speak and setting up logistics.
Now, for my niggas that Flaychecks out, listen, bro, this is very important.
You need to do this FaceTime call because Oh yeah.
You all got to see Flaychecks out.
He talked to the bitch once on a personal, you don't know how she is.
He's not so fat she's on camera, nigga.
And that shit.
She comes in, Catfish.
Oh, you spent money for a catfish, my nigga.
And she's a fucking weirdo.
So calls are important for every traction after because even if flanking soft bro, you never know.
And I recommend you find her out, nigga, get a full hey, let me see what you're wearing real quick.
Let me see your outfit.
Oh, this looks nice.
Because nigga, you don't need to know the we've, the width, the length, everything, nigga.
Because that shit could be a catfish.
But yeah, that's basically it for FaceTime calls, man.
Be careful, fellas.
It's out there, man.
I've seen it myself.
I'm sure you have to.
Catfish are real.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's another thing with the FaceTime call also is, um, you know, it kind of puts her on the spot too, which is good.
Yeah.
You want to put her on the spot, bro.
Because the thing is, is that with women, bro, they think that they look like their pictures sometimes.
So when you kind of like say, hey, let''s FaceTime call.
You bring that bitch back to reality, bro.
They're gonna say, Oh, I didn't do my makeup yet.
I don't care.
I'm gonna see what widowed anyway.
Yeah.
Guys, she's gonna have a lot of rebuttals.
She might, yeah.
She's not doing it.
Just be funny with it and witty with it.
Oh, I'm not dressed yet.
Yeah, what do you got to hide?
Are you a murderer?
Like all the objections, what I like to do is I like to flip it on them.
Yeah.
Like all the objections that women have on men about, Are you a creed?
blah, blah, blah.
You just reverse it on them.
You basically talk, you basically use the same exact objections they bring up and then they're gonna be like, Oh, shit.
And you know the funny part?
She's gonna laugh and say, Oh, you're right.
And then once you conceded to your rebuttals, you got her.
Got you, bitch.
But yeah, that's it, fellas.
Listen, it seems difficult, but it's simple.
These five things will reduce flaking.
So let's recap them.
There you go.
So coming out for number five.
I got you.
Well, he's recap.
Press the fucking like button.
Zoom call after this.
Code is free.
We're going to answer your guys' dating questions.
It's been a minute since we've done a Zoom call.
Fresh has been gone for a few weeks, but we're going to start getting back on it the rest of this month.
And we're really going to start going hard.
We're going to bring back subathons this summer and shit like that.
So I'm going to go do Tim Pool on Saturday.
Then it's fucking ball so well.
We're fresher.
We need a sub counter as well on the screen for Rumble for sure.
Because that needs to go up.
But it'll go crazy.
All right.
List, right?
Five to one?
Here we go.
Yeah.
So guys, number five, double booking.
This right here.
Important.
Essential.
This is insurance.
Insurance for your date, so you don't waste time and get irate.
And it keeps you from being thirsty.
Yeah.
You don't want to be thirsty, fellas, because that's the worst you can do to a girl.
You'll turn her off.
Yeah.
Number four, plan in detail.
Guys, this is pretty simple.
You're the man you need to lead.
Set the frame.
If you don't plan.
Plan the Uber if you need to, have the date planned.
Control as many variables as you can, so you don't end up with SOL.
If you don't plan to succeed, you plan to fail.
Number three, control mental state.
Fellas, you're the king of the castle.
If you're not in a good mental state, everything crumbles.
Now, for you're just a woman, guys, for you're pedestalizing.
So, from your point of view, remember, you're pink.
So, if you don't control this date, bro, and your mental state, you lose everything.
Don't be nervous.
She's just a female.
Her shit stinks like yours.
Her breast stinks in the morning too.
She's not special.
And quite frankly, she's probably dumber than you two.
So, guys, don't go in there thinking like, Oh my God, I got it.
I'm so nervous.
Bro, she ain't special, bro.
Knock her off the pedestal now.
Yep.
Number two.
Don't test and call too much.
Because if you do that, you might turn her off.
Why are you guys fucking idiots?.
You niggas be on here, simping the shit, talking to her on the phone and going back and forth forever.
Bro, don't do that shit, man.
Yeah.
Don't FaceTime call.
There is a time and place for certain things to happen, but this is advanced only.
If you're talking to her and you guys have a son going on, that's fine.
That's different.
But we're talking about on the first first encounter.
Yes.
First encounter, you don't want to be too crazy.
Once you start developing a relationship with her and you guys communicate more, that's different.
Yeah.
But we're talking about upfront, guys.
Maintenance in a relationship is way different than attracting to attain the relationship.
Yeah.
Way different.
Completely different strategies, right?
Because if you're dealing with a girl and you're maintaining her, right?
And you're with her, she's obviously done things to get in a position to get there in the first place.
So you're not going to treat her like a new girl.
She's going to get certain benefits for assuming you're not an idiot and you're not a simp.
She's passed compliance tests.
She's been submissive.
She's been behaving, doing what she needs to do.
Yeah, reward that well, because now you guys have something going on.
But up front, guys, no, you got to be careful.
Yeah, indifference is your best friend.
If you're indifferent, you can win the game for sure.
And the last one, FaceTime call.
Social guys, this is where you meet the pedal meets the metal.
And this is where you get set the phone.
This is where you kind of like put in action the date because if you sell call basically if this doesn't go through properly you fucked it up.
Yeah.
Because if this is weird or you're not like on point, she'll be like, Oh, these guys are fucking weird.
And if you can't do FaceTime, at least do a phone call.
At least if you can't do FaceTime.
At least.
And another reason too, guys, is because if she won't jump on the phone, she definitely won't show up to meet you.
Yeah, bro.
She's like, Oh, she's coming, she's coming, she's coming.
The best that can happen is she shows up.
The worst that can happen, you identify that she's low interest and not even into you, and you don't waste your time.
Yeah.
That's true.
So those are the top five things you can do to reduce flaking.
Guys, we all go through it, bro.
Nobody's safe.
No one is safe, dude.
But double booking keeps you insured.
You guys take money and clout is going to help, bro.
No.
It literally bro.
I'll give an example.
We were doing the same bullshit.
We were at Now Beast Club in Marbella.
Tiger's pulling up, right?
There's some girls at our table that came that came to chill with us, right?
Bro, you know what's funny about those girls?
They waited the whole time.
Mike, Tiger missed his first flight.
So he showed up late.
They waited there.
That's perfect.
Tiger to show up to go to his table.
Luckily we had girls with us already, but like, imagine we were backing up those girls to chill with us after.
No, they're for Tiger.
So, fellas, you may be cool.
He may be a top dog in your community, but bigger top dog pulls up.
He might go away.
You never know.
So, again, flaking guys is just part of the game, fellas.
Yeah.
It is.
It is a part of the game.
And the reason why we gave you guys all these steps is so that you guys don't sit there.
Because the worst scenario is you're sitting at the fucking bar waiting for her.
Yeah.
Bro, we've all been there.
I don't want another man to be in a situation like that where they show up to the fucking location.
They drove an hour to get there.
They got dressed.
They're sitting there with their fucking vodka soda.
Where is she?
She doesn't show up.
Bro, if you guys listen to what we're saying, number one, you're not going to drive anywhere for an hour.
Number two, you're going to be in a position where you're not far from your house.
And then number three, you're not even going to show up or be at that place because you did the work out of time.
But I can't tell you how many of you guys because we've all been there.
You show up thinking everything is good.
and she flakes and she sends you while you're there.
Oh, sorry, I won't make it.
Yeah.
We're trying to mitigate that so you never have to fucking experience that guys.
Every guy here has felt it before and it's it's a fucking suck.
Pin in your gun.
It sucks and I don't want none of you to ever go through that.
So we give you guys these five steps so you never ever have to experience that again.
Because if you follow what we just said guys, you're never gonna be in that position.
100%.
Anyway, guys, we're gonna move on over to Castle Club.
A lot of you guys want coaching.
Guys, just so you guys know on OSS and then CS.
CS Common Sense Gang, right?
There's no Zoom calls.
There's no Zoom calls on there.
There's no coaching on there.
That is strictly for fresh and fit Castle Club content.
OSS is to combat the massacre.
And then, you know, Common Sense Gang?
It's to navigate the world with Common Sense.
There you go.
If you guys want the actual coaching, that is only on Cast Club, guys.
All right.
We don't do Zoom calls on those other services.
That's only for Cast Club.
Fresh Effect is a self-improvement banner.
That is the underlying thing, right?
OSS is more politics and controversial shit like that.
And then, obviously, Custom Gang.
Common Sense Gang.
Common Sense Gang.
Finance, common sense, and moving as a group.
Not being stupid.
Exactly.
We got the code as well in the last chat here.
The code is free guys F R E E capital letter.
And then for a dollar negative code is a dollar.
You have to jump into this code.
This is only for the first months.
Yeah, normally 35 a month.
So you get it for free the first month and from there.
And we're going to be doing more Zoom calls this month.
So we're going to be doing, because like I said, we've been away for a bit because Fresh is out of the country, but now that Fresh is back, you guys are going to get a lot more of these Zoom calls.
Yep.
All right.
You guys ready?
This month.
And after hours as well.
Yeah.
Once you're back from DC guys this weekend, we're cooking all next week and the week after that.
So that's why we're telling you guys, yo, get ready.
We're going to be on Rumble and Kick.
We're, you know, we're going to move the YouTube viewershiphip over there because honestly YouTube don't pay us, fuck YouTube.
So yeah.
Big Moss dates on God.
What the hell?
I can see that happening.
Bro, what the fuck?
How'd you guys make it?
Kane Ull.
What the fuck, nigga?
Stop your game up, gentlemen.
It's one chance.
Let me fresh just lapping you all with your force.
Nigga, I'm a beatable, bro.
Ain't no, bro.
Listen, fellas.
I can say one thing about myself, bro.
Nobody I know has had more experience with girls than myself.
Apart from Andrew Taylor, probably.
Dead ass, bro.
Dead ass.
What?
Yeah.
That's pretty much it.
Okay, Craig K.O. says, what about flying girls out?
Yeah, bro.
That's a whole other episode.
FaceTime call is important.
Honestly, I don't even want to put that on YouTube.
No, that dude dude.
If I'm being honest with you.
That's behind the payload.
That's a whole other fucking thing.
Because that could fuck you up heavily bro.
Uh, if you're not careful.
If you're not careful, bro, that could fuck you up heavily.
Especially with Diddy though.
Yeah, man.
That's what.
Because some of you niggas be paying for a box and flying them out.
You niggas are Dennis.
You guys are prostitution.
Yeah.
That's prostitution, dude.
Next thing you know, you niggas are going to do that shit.
Yeah, bro.
Holy.
FBI open it up.
You thought you were going to bring some baddie over.
Next thing you know, fucking Tom from the FBI shows at your door.
Yo.
Interstate lines, buddy.
Yeah, buddy.
Interstate lines.
You guys, you niggas are gonna end up like the Diddler.
What the fuck, man?
That's why we tell you all, bro.
Don't, don't pay for box, man.
I know a lot of you guys are gonna do it anyway.
But if you're flying to check out Hell, though.
Now you're really gonna.
Check here, I'm opening up.
Here you go.
That's what we're getting, guys.
Demetrius says, Top five places you don't pick up a girl from in South Florida.
Mo Bill's Byron and Fresh.
Very fine, Melly.
One, Lauderdale.
What the fuck?
Like, who the fuck goes there?
Two, Lauderdale Lakes, bro.
Come on, man.
Florida City.
Three.
Oh, Mo Bill.
Four, some parts of Pompano.
Yeah, for sure, bro.
A lot of farm.
A lot of farm.
5 NM.
North Miami.
Yeah, send the Uber.
She lives in any one of these cities.
Bro, that's a good list.
I'm not offended.
Azadore, 4000, 20 bucks.
He said something crazy.
Stormtrooper K 981 says, sorry for asking you to repeat yourself, Myron.
Are you going to meet up at the weekend and this weekend in DC?
How do we know where to meet up?
OSS, WFNF, thank you.
I'm going to be there at the venue.
Doors open at two.
I'll be there at three.
So, well, I'll be there around two when the doors open, but yeah, I'm goingll probably link up with you niggas after.
I'll stay, I always stay back and take pictures and all that other shit, so don't worry.
There you go.
All right guys, uh, zoom call right now.
zoom call guys, get in there.
Discount code is free f r e capital all capital for a dollar for the first month.
Hop in there, hop on a zoom call.
So you got it.
Yeah, this month we're going to be, uh, lots of zoom calls this month coming up guys, so come on over.
All right, come on over Ninjas.
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