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May 30, 2025 - Fresh & Fit

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The Future Of Dating And Money With Coach Greg Adams

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	Three, two, one.
	And we're live.
	Welcome back to the show, guys.
	We're in Vegas right now.
	And of course, you know when I'm in Vegas, I got to see the top dog himself.
	Cold Dragon in the building.
	The notorious one.
	Coach Reg Adams is back with Fresh.
	What's going on, brother?
	I'm glad to see you back in Vegas, man, in the 702 and the 725.
	Always, bro.
	Welcome back, man.
	Appreciate you for being here.
	Thank you, bro.
	I was here for the conference of Bitcoin, of course.
	I was on the plane watching your video, bro.
	The entire show, four hours long, plus.
	And you spoke about a lot of things in there that was fucking amazing.
	About the current dating market, about money, about bossing up.
	So just real quick, bro, because obviously we're in a dating game right now ourselves.
	We date every single day.
	And most guys are suffering terribly, as we talk about on our shows.
	Now, can you tell them what it's like running out dating?
	Because they might have an idea, but they don't know the actual real of it.
	Yeah, they don't know the real.
	They only seen a small part of it.
	And a part of what I do is try to show them the big picture.
	That's where they try to argue and fight and disagree.
	I'm like, well, because you don't see it.
	You don't have access to this part of it.
	That's what builds into frustration.
	That's why you have a lot of frustrated men and women out here trying to figure out what dating is and how to make it work for them, but they're missing key pieces.
	The pieces that I try to give them, sometimes I've got to put behind a paywall because it's rough.
	Because if I told you on the regular show and showed you, dudes will melt down.
	You know what's scary, Coach?
	Sometimes, right?
	I'll be with a chick.
	Yeah.
	And we're just vibing.
	You know, I already smashed whatever, so it's cool.
	Yeah.
	Telling me the real.
	Oh, yeah, this guy gave me this, offered me this.
	And I'm like, man, you capping.
	Let me see your Instagram real quick.
	Yeah.
	Bro, I kid you not.
	I see your DMs.
	We'll check mark.
	Right.
	Then it's like, Dubai, France, rent, car.
	I'm like, wait a minute, why are you with me?
	Well, then I remember, there's only one of me.
	It's because it's an experience, right?
	But those guys are offering them the world.
	And it's like, how do they choose who to date?
	And it's because either you're giving them what they want, or you're that guy that actually is that guy.
	Exactly, yeah.
	So, you know, women date guys, kind of like they piece guys together.
	So that's what men have trouble with.
	They have trouble with understanding that you're a piece of a guy that they want a part of.
	You're not the complete guy.
	And so women will go to various phases of their lives piecing guys together and then eventually they might settle on one guy that gives them a majority of what they want from this.
	So she wants the security protection.
	She knows you'll never leave and eventually she'll settle for that and you think you won.
	All you did was it was a war of attrition and she got tired.
	Dating fatigue.
	She just got tired.
	And she was like, I'm tired of piecing five guys together.
	But coach, I have a good body, bro.
	I can get bitches.
	I'm six foot tall.
	I got abs, bro.
	I don't need money.
	But coach, I got spread, bro.
	And I feel like this is the only way.
	And I think, well, forgive me if I'm wrong, but I think nowadays, if you just have money, you're better off than having only a good body.
	Or only mouthpiece.
	Because nowadays, bro, the meta is pay-per-play.
	Listen, that's hard for men to accept.
	But look, it's always been pay-for-play.
	We just ended into a time where romance was put into it and you could get a woman to be like, hey, I feel good around you.
	I feel safe and secure and I love you.
	So they think that's the end-all be-all.
	But that's not going to keep her.
	That got you and she looked for that, but she might eventually say, well, we need to eat.
	You know what I mean?
	I need to pay my rent.
	There's some bills due.
	And that's why she might seek someone else and practice what they call hypergamy, right?
	Which people are trying to explain.
	She might practice that, and then that's when you get hurt as a man, right?
	And then you're like, man, hey, what happened?
	She dipped on me.
	She said she loved me, and I loved hard, and we were together, and then bills were due.
	And then she dipped.
	She experimented.
	Or she went with a rapper or athlete or whoever.
	She got seen with CGA.
	CGA put hands on her hips.
	How did that old ass ninja put hands on her hips?
	So that's when they're seeking answers.
	And that's where we come in.
	And this space has been like that.
	But where guys have to really understand is like, you'll have one element.
	You can't just depend on that element to keep her.
	You can attract her.
	But to keep her is a whole different skill set.
	So when I was a little bit younger, right?
	In Barbados.
	Obviously.
	I was not the most handsome guy.
	I understood that.
	But I understood positioning and environment.
	So what I would do is, I would say, alright, cool.
	In school, I'm the fool.
	But on the beach, I'm a leech.
	Let me explain.
	So now on the beach, it's tourists from all over.
	Germany, Canada, US.
	And they come for sand, sun, sex.
	So I'm like, alright, cool.
	If I'm on the beach, nigga, and I'm me, I'm just here.
	I'm in the right environment to Capitalize on what's happening.
	That's right.
	So, guys that are young, man, especially here in America, how can they prepare?
	Because I feel like sometimes they're mad because they're not getting what they want right now.
	They're 21, 18, looking hard, like, I was dating older guys.
	What should they look forward to or how should they prepare to move forward?
	Well, it's a long game.
	It's a long game.
	I was just talking to my son.
	He just graduated from high school.
	Shout out to him, man.
	Shout out to my son in Brooklyn in the house.
	He graduated from high school last night.
	And we were talking about time.
	And I said, man, you're going to look up and you're going to be 23. And then you're going to then look up and say 30 is right around the corner.
	So that little space and time where young men think they have an advantage, they got stamina, they're young, they got great bodies without doing much, they can eat Doritos and Takis all day and keep a great body.
	And they have their peer group.
	They're around young women all the time.
	They only see a portion of that and they think that time is going to be long, but it's going to be short.
	So, you might get disqualified out if you put all your eggs in that basket of, I'm going to be young and attractive and be around attractive young women.
	That time's going to run out.
	But what happens is, then you got to have to have something else.
	Coach, remember all the guys in the jocks in school?
	Yep.
	Football team, basketball team, you know, all the girls?
	I'm like, damn, only that could be me.
	Yeah.
	Then I kind of find out, 10 years later, they got four kids.
	Yep.
	Got a job at Walmart.
	Or Target.
	Yeah.
	And it's like, wait, isn't this the guy that was killing it?
	Yep.
	But the nerds, guys that were focusing on school and hustling, bustling, couldn't get no girls.
	Meta, banning your account.
	Yep.
	He said banning your account.
	Yeah, for real.
	For real, bro.
	And they got pulled.
	And it's, you know, the revenge of the nerds.
	There was a movie back in the day.
	That's real.
	Because people peak in high school.
	And you still hear them at 40-year-old talking about how they peaked.
	And they were like, I was the man back in the day.
	And I was that guy back in the day.
	But who are you now?
	You know what I mean?
	You old fat.
	You dressing still like you're 19 years old.
	You know what I'm saying?
	They still dressing like a 19-year-old.
	Talking about old war stories of when they was that guy.
	But they didn't transition out or they're married and stable.
	So it, men live a different phase of life.
	Some men are, Some men peak early and then they got their own child support for 20 years, right?
	Until they're 60. So, you know, they had all the girls.
	Now they're on child support and they had to slow up a little bit because that child support money was gone.
	Now they can't afford the date.
	So there's different lanes for different guys.
	But what I think guys are doing, the young guys are quitting because they're like, I'm already out and I can't win.
	I'm like, bro, look, you can win in one part of this.
	You just got to decide what part you want to win.
	Do you want to give up your 20s and lose long?
	Or do you want to build yourself up to a point where you boss up and then for the next 30 years, you were women that you've always desired.
	But it might come at a price.
	Coach, you made a very important statement.
	You said boss up or pay the price.
	Yes.
	Either way, you're going to pay the price.
	You're going to pay some way.
	Let's talk about what's happening now with AI.
	Listen, I am freaking out.
	Listen, I got money.
	I'm freaking out.
	Because I see what's happening here.
	I was at inauguration a couple months ago.
	I met some of Elon's top guys.
	I was at a meeting in France.
	The billionaires.
	It's all the same rhetoric.
	Listen, we're going to put AI in every company by 2030.
	We're going to do this whole rollout.
	It's going to be better for us at the top, but the bottom, who cares?
	And I'm like, god damn, I got family and friends that don't know what's happening.
	And I tell them, it's like, Oh, no.
	The rain won't fall.
	You'll remember knowing the arc when it was like, it's going to rain.
	It's going to rain.
	They're like, nope.
	It's not going to rain, buddy.
	You're a loser.
	Then it's like, all of a sudden, it's raining.
	But it's too late.
	You should have prepared before what happened.
	So guys watching, obviously, are more higher IQ, hopefully.
	And you're thinking about your future and your family.
	Now, come to find out, though, if you don't prepare now, look what's happening with job market.
	It's flopped.
	I'm in tech, bro.
	180,000 jobs were lost from Meta, from Microsoft, all over.
	Walmart, a whole bunch of people started coming.
	And it's like, wait, hold on.
	These people got a degree, and that's all they know how to do.
	How are they going to survive?
	And kind of find out as well, imagine regular jobs.
	Even Clippers, so to speak, that are not conventional jobs, they clip content.
	I could put it in the system, for the most part, website, put in like an hour, two hour long video, get 10 clips.
	Oh, yeah.
	Right off of the opus on all these clips.
	So I am worried for people.
	Because I'm like, damn, I want to help people wake up, but some people are asleep by the wheel.
	What do you say about that, Coach?
	The problem with what you're having is, and I'm having this problem too with some of my audience, some of my audience get it and some don't, is people hate change.
	But unfortunately, I'm almost to the point where I'm 50, so I know change is inevitable.
	I've seen change already, but you have a lot of people that want to keep status quo.
	So they think that things are going to remain the same.
	All they have to do is to better themselves in a In an old school way.
	I'll just get a degree and I'm going to let that degree ride.
	Well, man, dude, you know, people that are winning out here, they necessarily don't have degrees.
	They're finding a way to be innovative and they're using change in the tools, AI, crypto, technology, internet, YouTube.
	So check this out.
	We saw a day where YouTube was a hobby.
	Now these streamers are earning a million dollars a month.
	Career, bro.
	And so what'll happen is you have people that say, that ain't a real job.
	Okay, well, look, I just saw 106,000 black women get laid off, you know, right in April.
	And those were real jobs that required degrees.
	So then when you say, well, this could be a real job for you.
	Well, not everybody's cut out to be a streamer.
	Not everybody's cut out to use these tools.
	Understandable.
	I get it.
	But don't say I didn't warn you because this day was coming.
	And let me tell you something.
	Let me add this because this is being a reality.
	70% of the things we use today every day didn't even exist 20 years ago.
	Facebook, Instagram, Twitch, YouTube, DMs, phones, smartphones.
	I got three smartphones, remember?
	Yeah, you got three, bro.
	I got three smartphones, you know what I mean?
	and one to stream on, one for the JUCO.
	I got Mike.
	And I got my phone right here.
	Yeah.
	So, like, things that, you know, to have a cell phone, that was like a, you didn't need that.
	I'll just wait till I get home.
	Now you need that.
	So everything we use, almost everything we use was non-existent 20 years ago.
	20 years ago, I was in college.
	As an adult, I was an adult 20 years ago.
	So if I still stay status quo, if I just said, no, well, everything in tune, I'm not going to adjust to Facebook.
	I'm not going to get a social media account.
	Forget email.
	Forget YouTube.
	I don't need to subscribe to that.
	You lost.
	So when I'm saying with AI and all these things that men need to boss up on, and they're saying that they don't need to do it, when I'm saying, hey, obviously, if you use these tools, you'll be in better position, but you got to put in the work now or else you're going to be scrambling and scraping for shit.
	Yeah.
	I think a lot of people too don't see what's coming and they're kind of like, all right, well, you guys are talking, but I don't see anything happening.
	But when it's too late, it's too late.
	And I remember this happened a couple weeks ago.
	I met a guy actually, 21 years old, young kid, right?
	He created a business from AI, from the store to the content.
	Guys, by the way, guys watching, man, I know this sounds crazy, but it's happening in front of your eyes.
	We're bringing them on to shows.
	You think it's a joke.
	Oh, this is cool.
	Whatever.
	This is real life.
	21 years old has made last year 20 million bucks.
	20 million?
	At 21?
	What are you doing, coach?
	At 21 years old.
	Trying to play basketball, pick up the games at the park.
	You know what I mean?
	I think I was coaching some little league basketball teams.
	Bro, I'm in school nerding out with my games.
	I miss the fun a little bit, riding bikes, but I'm still trying to figure shit out.
	I don't know how to make money.
	He's 21. 20 mil last year.
	And it's all from AI.
	He was struggling.
	His mother needed money.
	Finally needed money.
	He didn't know what to do.
	He found a guy online promoting e-commerce.
	He said, okay, cool.
	If I can use AI with this right now, I can make this shit work.
	He did that.
	He built a store in two minutes.
	Literally.
	Two minutes.
	He put what he wanted.
	The AI system built it.
	Built.
	Then he found a product, he said, "A.I., find me a product that's selling right now at a That's low volume.
	Found that.
	Then he had another program that created a creator, like actual creator, random person to push a product on TikTok.
	$20 million later.
	And I'm like, damn, nigga, make me one.
	Right.
	Make me one.
	Yeah.
	He's making me one right now to speak.
	But the point is that this is happening because the tools are here that weren't here in the past.
	They're here today.
	And the gap between wealthy and poor is being It's so wide now.
	It's almost like scary.
	And we got like five years left, bro.
	I always tell them.
	Guys.
	They don't want to listen to this.
	Five years left.
	Listen, guys.
	You know me, guys.
	I'm the networking king.
	Just saying.
	I love the network.
	He is, yeah.
	And ask questions.
	Hey, bro.
	What do you do for a living?
	What's your future outcome?
	What do you think is happening?
	And it's like the same thing.
	They're at the top.
	Or we're just going to travel to Ibiza, Monaco, 100K.
	People can't afford to pay rent.
	Yeah.
	And it's like, the difference is so vast.
	I'm going to come back to a point you said.
	You said you're trying to sound the alarm.
	And you're trying to help young men because you have a heart.
	You know what I mean?
	And you have an audience.
	And you're like, well, let me use this audience to tell them what they have.
	But also, there's some people at the top, they don't care, bro.
	They don't care about you.
	They don't care enough to tell you this.
	They have no clue.
	They was having a party!
	They had a party in Top Notch Punani, and they was spending money left and right, money that you could use, but they don't care about you.
	So I told people all the time on my show, it's only a matter of time before I say, well, I don't give a fuck about y 'all neither, right?
	Because I got mine, but don't say I didn't warn you.
	Unfortunately, when we're warning them, it's going to sound like grifting.
	Because, you know, the game is to be so not told.
	You got to make a couple of bucks.
	I don't have time to just counsel everybody off their couch.
	So I want them to put a little skin in the game.
	They don't want to put skin in the game.
	So at some particular point, you have to say, hey, I warned you.
	You didn't hear it.
	I always say 2032.
	I'm from the year 2032.
	I know it's already here.
	You guys are being left behind and priced out of life right now.
	You did a reaction to somebody that's a passport, bro.
	Traveling.
	Remember this guy, right?
	Even he admitted.
	He said it.
	Word for words to listen.
	It's too high now for prices for women.
	And I'm like, wait, wait, wait, what?
	You left America because you didn't like the woman here to go over there and find a feminine woman when it was too expensive?
	Oh, Nick, you're still paying.
	Still paying.
	And so they had to admit.
	And I was like, listen, and I know what's going on with it.
	When you travel, you know what time it is.
	And so he had to be like, what time it is.
	So his solution was, To lean back on some game and lean back.
	And I'm like, okay, wait.
	So you left America not to run game.
	Now you over there to run game?
	I was like, bro, that didn't work out.
	And he's like, oh yeah, I can make more money if I want to, but I don't want to spend money on this.
	Wait a minute.
	What are we doing?
	What are you doing?
	Why don't you bring your ass back here?
	But here is more expensive.
	Let's just call it what it is.
	The United States is very expensive.
	The UK is very expensive.
	The euro compared to the dollar is terrible.
	I mean, it's terrible.
	4,000 is 6,000 US.
	4,000 pounds is 6 grand here.
	So it's terrible.
	It's roughly that.
	So these places are expensive, but they're developed nations.
	They have opportunities of a lifetime.
	You can make more money in these places than ever if you use the tools.
	But when you're getting priced out, people will look for solutions.
	Let me go somewhere third world.
	Understandable.
	Hey, it is what it is.
	You got to go there.
	But I said in 2022, when there was kind of the hype of the Passport Bros, I said, they're going to adjust on you too.
	They're going to make it difficult for you, too, because especially if you're putting cameras out there and say these women are easy, well, they got internet, too.
	They got Instagram, too.
	They're going to find it.
	And then if you tell everybody to come down here, you just brought in more competition financially for you.
	So now they're there competing with you who was there before them, and now the prices will go up.
	This is all natural.
	And again, change.
	I think men, they struggle because they don't want to change.
	And it's hard for me to tell people that.
	But men don't want to change.
	They want to keep things the way they were for them to win.
	Unfortunately, that's not how the world works.
	When you're almost 50, you figure out real fast the world don't work like that.
	So I was in Georgia City with my boy Gary, right?
	And I met a guy that is 67 years old.
	Older guy from Barbados, actually.
	Funny enough.
	He mentioned to me that dating is not what it used to be.
	And he's older.
	Never watch any RP videos.
	Never watch any of us ever.
	They read a book.
	It's pure experience.
	Women escorts nowadays.
	Just want to take it for your money.
	There's no love anymore.
	I don't know what to do.
	But I'm going to say it to myself.
	I'm going to live my life.
	And I'm like, hold on, man.
	This sounds familiar.
	And it's funny because even he can see what's happening.
	And he's an old man.
	So young guys, I'm like, yo, guys, it's cooked, man.
	Obviously, I'm not saying every girl is going to cook you.
	But the majority are going to cook it.
	Yeah, I mean...
	They can.
	They can.
	That's the point.
	And so like you were saying, the one girl has DMs here and there.
	These are just options for her to piece a lifestyle together in their 20s.
	We tell men that all women between 20 and 30, they're going to be broke.
	Let's call it what it is.
	But they don't consider themselves broke because they have an option.
	You at 20 and 30, you're broke, but you have to build something.
	But if a guy's 60 and he can recognize that, There's no shame against a woman doing this.
	And they will do it.
	And then when they want to find someone else to settle down with, they'll transition out of it.
	I got a show tomorrow of a young lady I talked about today.
	I'm going to blow my audience's mind.
	Pause.
	But it was a young woman today that was married to a YouTuber.
	And she came out, oh, we were married, four kids, blah, blah, blah.
	Somebody did some recon on her.
	She used to be an escort.
	Yo.
	I remember when niggas gave me a lot of slack, right?
	Sorry.
	A lot of shit.
	For smashing this woman that was an escort.
	And then I was like, wait, wait.
	Y 'all niggas aren't smashing.
	Because I would wager, if not by activity, but by actions.
	Yes.
	Where like, it's online.
	They're all fucking escorts.
	Right.
	And it's kind of like, You're telling me that, because I smashed your escort, I'm a bad person?
	I'm thinking, what?
	You probably smashed one yesterday.
	You don't even know.
	You don't even know.
	So, to me, it's like, if you're going to be in the dead market, it is what it is.
	Fellas, times have changed, bro.
	Women need money.
	And it's funny.
	They'll find a guy.
	The guy's like, all right, I'm done with you.
	No, she's in the streets.
	What does she do?
	Back to the lifestyle.
	Yes.
	And let's say it's the last idea of hope to make some money.
	OnlyFans are escort.
	Yep.
	That's all they have.
	They got no skills.
	They don't have the skills, but their skills are their body.
	That's what they were born into.
	And we have a lot of thirsty men out here.
	No matter how much you guys want to say the Sims are messing it up for you, that's your competition.
	And they're paying.
	And they're going to pay.
	They're going to blow you out of the water, at least temporarily for that night, on that Friday night.
	Now, she'll come back on Sunday night after she get ran through more times in the damn hotel.
	Why'd she flick on me, coach?
	Why'd she flick on me?
	She got paid, nigga.
	Yeah, somebody came in with a bigger, better deal.
	And that's been a part of what the space has been telling men that women do this.
	For years, by the way.
	For years.
	But now when I tell you and show you, well, I got her for free on a slow Tuesday.
	You got her on the off day.
	All right.
	But what is she doing after that?
	People have to understand Gen Z women are completely different from millennial.
	And Boomers and Gen Z. I'm sorry, Gen X. Because I'm Gen X. But Gen Z is a different breed.
	They are on some different time.
	They're on the demon time.
	They're on demon time, man.
	You know how I know it's bad?
	I had to check over, right?
	And we're just vibing whatever.
	And she's like, I gotta be honest.
	I was like, what's going on?
	And I was like, just say what's up?
	She's like, well, I looked you up.
	I'm like, here we go, nigga.
	Here we go.
	She hooked me up on ChatGBT.
	She said, I kid you not, verbatim.
	She said, is dating fresh long-term a good idea?
	Bro, bro, bro.
	Nigga, I already know my digital footprint on social media.
	I already know what this is.
	Dude, she even tell me.
	I was like, oh, here we go.
	Here we go.
	I'm like, she said, it says, he's a very nice guy.
	Amazing guy.
	But long term, it won't work.
	Wow.
	Dang.
	I'm like, this thing is against me.
	AI is against me, bro.
	AI is against you.
	But this is because of the podcast.
	It's like, oh, his talking points are not for long term and maybe he won't take it serious.
	I mean, that's pretty obvious.
	But like, you know what I'm saying?
	So now it's like, I'm fighting against ChatGBT.
	Wow.
	Nigga.
	Cooked.
	But what we all still guys is that ChatGBT is their friend.
	Bro.
	That's their best friend now.
	They use it for everything.
	And I asked her, so why don't I just call your dad and ask him about what you know about me?
	Oh, I could call him, but this is easier.
	And I'm like, damn.
	So they're going to bypass their man and their dad and use chat JBT.
	Yep.
	Cooked.
	Yep.
	I have a Gen Z girl.
	She's sitting at the house waiting for me right now.
	Let's fucking go!
	She's waiting for me to come back.
	She said, if I want all the things that they needed men to learn from, So they no longer need a man to learn from.
	Like, think about this shit.
	Think about this.
	Think about the implications of this long term.
	Yeah.
	Where women have to go, okay, if I want to learn how to invest, if I want to learn how to, you know, this, and they don't need men for that now.
	So before, what would they do?
	Find an older guy, has some money, and say, listen, can you mentor and teach me or show me how to get some money?
	And he'd be like, all right, I'll show you a thing or two.
	Yep.
	Now they could do a full proof plan on ChatGPT A to Z. I'm like, damn.
	They don't need a man for that.
	Bro, I had a girl come in from overseas, right?
	She's like, alright, I want to live in America.
	I'm like, shit, we'll figure it out, nigga.
	Don't look at me.
	Boss up.
	You know what she did?
	What?
	Looked up a whole plan on her business idea that she had in her head on ChatJPT.
	Yeah.
	Hit up some people that she knew from her country.
	Bro, now she's living here in America for not playing.
	Yeah.
	And I'm like, God damn, bro.
	That's how fast things are moving.
	how slow things are moving for guys because this there's some guys right now telling me right now they're listening to this dream man y'all got it wrong yeah right because what their plan is and and i've been trying to get this and trying to expose the manosphere and the red pill for for this particular mistake that i've seen us make for 10 years the mistake is these guys are going to wait till they hit the wall and that's what they're doing That's a strategy.
	Well, it ain't going to work out for an end and they're going to be broke at 40 and they're going to be a single mama and they're going to hit the wall.
	Well, that's true.
	That's what we said in 2018 and 2017.
	It's true.
	And yes, women are going to be maybe regretful of making this decision.
	So let me get this straight, gentlemen.
	You're going to wait 25 years to say aha to a group of women that you couldn't be successful with.
	Now you're 48 with no goddamn money.
	And you think your only resort is to laugh at 48-year-old women instead of having a 24-year-old woman waiting at home because you lost up?
	That's where guys in the red pill have been cornered.
	Not only that, not only that, the old wall was like 32, 35. They're going to lose their looks.
	They're going to hit the wall.
	Their boobs are going to be sagging.
	And we win.
	And we win.
	And then we got advantage over them.
	Not anymore, bro.
	They got Botox, anti-aging studios.
	They got spas.
	All kind of stuff.
	They taking taekwondo and kickboxing classes.
	If you look at the 40-year-old women now, they BBLs and tinny implants.
	Bro, I met a 43-year-old.
	Yeah.
	Nigga.
	Keeping it real, I can tell how old she was.
	Mind you, she had stem cell down on her body.
	She had a full, like, lift or whatever.
	Bro, she looks like a fucking 28-year-old.
	Exactly.
	And I'm like, how much niggas are on our ass?
	Non-stop.
	And I'm like, You think they're worried about you?
	Please.
	It's laughable.
	So the women that they hear complaining on the internet are women that are looking for goofballs, right?
	They're out of shape, single mom, and this and that.
	But if you go to the higher end, you go to a suburban neighborhood, you go to Equinox, you go to these high-end gyms, bro, these women, they chopped, right?
	They steal 40 and they kill in the game and they got...
	We good.
	All we have to do is stay in shape.
	Where the Red Pill had a good idea with the wall, it just doesn't exist.
	These women are taking HGH and they put testosterone in their back.
	They're finding a way to beat that wall.
	They're finding a way.
	Now, it may not work out for them, for the guys, but that was our carrot.
	Okay, I'm going to be 32. She's going to be 32. She's going to be priced out.
	She's going to hit the wall.
	No job and this and that.
	But I think over the last 10 years, they found a way to insulate themselves against that and push that number to 42. And now they're having babies at 42. They'll find the SIM.
	Technology, new medicine, other means.
	Yeah, IVF.
	I call it the miracles of modern science.
	So they've used the miracles of modern science to So what do we do now?
	And I say, go to the JUCO, Ninja.
	Yo, yo, okay, okay.
	The JUCO is a place I've been trying to hide from for a while.
	It's because the argument is, all right, fresh, you pay for box.
	Right.
	There you go.
	I wish I did.
	Because if I did, nigga, that whole Asian debacle wouldn't have been a thing.
	But then I wonder, I got friends in the industry, celebrities, rappers, those would want today, and they all pay.
	And they have minimal to any issues at all.
	Because girls don't want to be seen as sluts.
	To that extent.
	Oh, he paid me for bucks.
	They don't want that shit.
	So they'll just walk away and say, alright, cool, fuck it, is what it is.
	But you're going to pay anyway.
	Even when it's free.
	Bro.
	Okay, I got the game.
	Got the lifestyle.
	I'm winning.
	She's happy with what's happening.
	We good.
	Ain't no money exchange.
	We just having a good time.
	And then things happen.
	Then it's like, yeah, but like, you know, times are hard and all that shit.
	And then before you know it, it was like, well, could you help me?
	No, bitch.
	I can't help you.
	Now they're mad.
	We got it for free.
	And fellas, this is why I learned the hard way.
	As you guys saw my situation, right?
	Like, legit, I thought I could do this.
	Sun comes out.
	All day.
	Just lifestyle, whatever.
	But they want their blood back.
	They want their pound of flesh.
	Exactly.
	See, there was a time, I always tell these stories, there was a time where, and you might have remembered it, where a woman was happy to get into, oh my boyfriend has a truck.
	My boyfriend has a Lambo.
	She was happy to be in the passenger seat.
	These bitches want their own Lambo.
	They want their own Porsche.
	They want their own.
	Like, that's where the times have changed.
	Coach, for example, you know we got G-Wagons, right?
	Who?
	We got G-Wagons.
	Yeah, yeah, exactly.
	You know what they said when I hop in the front seat?
	What?
	This is my dream car.
	I'm going to get one one day.
	Exactly.
	Or they're like, oh, I'm going to get one of these soon.
	Exactly.
	I'm like, bitch, from what?
	How?
	Yeah.
	But then I remember, it's the OnlyFans.
	It's the guys giving them what they need.
	Bro, there's so many avenues they can use to get one.
	Or they just say, oh, I've got a rich boyfriend.
	Babe, it's my birthday.
	I got one.
	Exactly.
	I just think that guys don't understand the actual issue.
	This is an issue for guys because it's not going to go your way at all.
	What do you do at this point?
	Boss up.
	I think that's the only solution because we tried to shame them.
	We tried to say they ain't going to win in the end.
	We tried to say the digital footprint is going to mess them up.
	We tried to shame the simps.
	We tried to shame the tricks.
	And we tried to.
	We tried just about everything.
	And it's not.
	We could clearly see that they did a good job of kind of working around beating those things.
	You know how bad it was, Coach?
	What's that?
	I remember we did a show back in the day after ours.
	Yeah.
	There's a girl on the show that did OnlyFans.
	Yeah.
	Bro, she was annoying, boisterous, all these things.
	Yeah.
	You know what she said after the show when I saw her out?
	What was that?
	Oh, myself's been up by 2K.
	Exactly.
	I'm like, hold on.
	2000 niggas took your channel after the show.
	Yeah, and now they want to fly me out.
	I'm like, bro.
	And then they wonder why we're in this position because niggas don't care.
	And the fact is, they might act like, oh yeah, bro, she's a bitch.
	She's a bitch, whatever.
	Bro, why I close doors?
	Oh, freshman iron or coach, you're just bad people.
	Don't mind them.
	You're a queen.
	And I'm like, nigga, I'm like, these niggas in the chat talking shit.
	I'm like, bro.
	Yeah, and I think that that's a tough thing for men to deal with because we're giving them exposure and People are watching us, but they're going to go to where the woman is.
	So they're going to find out everything about them.
	They're going to know them and their names, subscribe to them, follow them, and possibly send them money.
	I just don't see where men are going to win long-term by waiting for this to fall apart.
	That's where guys are waiting.
	This is going to fall apart.
	But now AI is here.
	Now video AI is here, where you can make a literally video person.
	So, I met a guy that manages OnlyFans creators.
	He's big.
	Like, this nigga's like millions of dollars, right?
	Retire today and live a good life.
	You know, he told me what they do?
	So, most guys, right, will follow them on Instagram.
	Think nothing of it.
	But what happens is, you start to become, like, infatuated with their beauty.
	And they post stories, they post, come find me here.
	Now, obviously, if you're a strong guy, I can't fuck about pick one of OnlyFans.
	But over time, it's kind of like a drip effect.
	You become kind of like amused by it.
	And then over time, it's like, you know what?
	I didn't want to see her without clothes on.
	Let me just take a peek.
	Before you know it, bro, you're something to her OnlyFans.
	Exactly.
	And it's over.
	Now you're a slave to her.
	Yeah, exactly.
	And now you're a slave to it and a slave to your lust.
	and we do have a lot of men trying to figure this out.
	It's just that And I saw that a lot of guys were stagnant.
	I was just going to wait until they hit the wall.
	But I think what they don't realize is that the average everyday woman, whether she reaches to monetize herself via social media or monetize herself in employment, whatever it is, the modern-day woman doesn't look at men.
	As what they used to look at him as.
	Alright, he's going to be my end-all, be-all.
	And I'm going to depend on love.
	The only way you can do that, and I'm going to give a guy's right here, the only way you can depend on that is if you see a woman grow up with her from junior high school through high school, and you see her through college, and y'all love mates, which is the rare thing.
	That's a lost art.
	Because there are people like that.
	And there are people that you might see because, you know, people will tell you, you guys need to touch grass.
	I see couples out all time and they look regular.
	And I'm like, if she's attractive, she's been monetized in some sort of way.
	Some sort of way.
	So what do you do against that?
	Well, you know what's scary?
	So like, this topic that we're talking about right now is kind of like forbidden because it's the monetized shadow ban.
	But then I wonder, okay, at what point is the shift going to happen?
	And then I realize, It's never going to happen.
	No.
	Never.
	Because I realized our space hit a ceiling.
	When Andrew Tate blew up and he was the face of RP, it was like, oh shit, we're not mainstream.
	But that was not a good thing.
	I said it then and people called me haters.
	They were like, you hate no Tate, you jealous.
	And I was like, nah.
	I was like, that's about the end right there.
	Because when they saw the influence that was upon the young generation, they said, fuck no.
	This will never happen again.
	Actually, I got a friend that works at Meta.
	He can't help me with my page, though, but he told me about what happened.
	And what happened was they saw someone that they didn't want to become big, tricked the system.
	Tricked it.
	He literally flooded it with content to maximum potential.
	Which is brilliant, by the way.
	Genius.
	He became the most Google man in the world, literally overnight.
	Overnight, within a six-month period.
	Flooding it with flips and all that stuff.
	And they made sure to put in the algorithm so that it never happens again.
	That means, bro, this whole thing about, yeah, we're going to survive and conquer.
	No, bro.
	It's close.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I tell guys, people are like, who's going to be the next star in this space?
	I'm like, they won't be.
	Bro, I don't want to be a star, nigga.
	I want to make money, live my life, and help some niggas that want to get help.
	Yeah, but a lot of guys are still like, because I get them in there, like, I want to be the next.
	I got something to say.
	I was like, You ain't about to make no money and you ain't about to get no push in here.
	You can do your reaction videos with little to say.
	But Andrew Tate was the last.
	Kevin Samuels kind of had that rise and then Andrew Tate and Pearl.
	But you see what happened to them.
	I mean, you see what happened to all three of them.
	Unfortunately, you know, they lost traction and they ain't let nobody else do it to the point where this is how they got us.
	Everything that we said the last 10 years.
	You can find anybody.
	Celebrities.
	Washed up athletes.
	You can find rappers.
	Former rappers.
	They're saying the exact same thing.
	Bro, yes.
	Paul Pierce.
	Paul Pierce.
	I'm like, wait a minute.
	Yeah, sounded just like...
	Gil Arena is saying this?
	Yeah, yeah.
	And so I'm looking at it like, oh, they basically what I call cherry picked the best stuff out of our space.
	They cherry picked it.
	And now I can't scroll through Instagram without seeing So when the talking points have ended, now all of those talking points are common conversation amongst the people.
	What are you going to bring new to this conversation?
	But maybe some experiences.
	Yeah.
	So that part of it, when I say the RP is dead, that part, that organic growth got...
	And you guys fresh and fit.
	That was the peak.
	Now we're at the crest and we're at the downside where everybody's adjusted against us.
	When Andrew blew up, he blew up with middle schoolers and high schoolers, right?
	So Kevin Sanders blew up with middle-agers and up.
	Andrew blew up with...
	And now here's the problem with that.
	When they saw that, they saw a avenue to reprogram people.
	So now the social media said, now we know what to give as an alternative solution.
	So you'll watch an Andrew video or you'll watch my video or your videos.
	And the next video suggestion is going to be anti-everything I just said.
	Okay?
	So it's going to be more balanced, anti, and they'll give it.
	They'll push you to Gilbert Arenas.
	They'll push you to Shannon Sharp.
	They'll push you off.
	They figured out how to push you away from me and limit my growth and shadow ban me to where now you're going to get a different message.
	You're not going to get that hardcore shit.
	You're going to get some watered-down version of it, and it's going to be comical.
	You're going to get a skit that says what I say.
	Oh, it's just a skit.
	So the conversation is going to be muted a little bit and it's going to be hard to pull more guys in by giving them hardcore truth because then you're going to get a counter argument that's going to be reprogrammed.
	You're going to get a reprogrammed burden of it.
	So let me ask you this question, Coach.
	Marriage itself, right?
	We've both been married, divorced.
	Is it viable today?
	How should somebody do it?
	Is it going to do it at all?
	The marriage is new, so it's not the old marriage.
	Okay, so that's what guys have to understand.
	That old marriage where the woman's going to be dedicated to you and grow underneath you, even if she's a stay-at-home wife or a mom, she might have come from a monetized profession, bartending, waitress, or something like that.
	So she's monetized.
	So she may end up being your stay-at-home wife or mom.
	But the new marriage is partnership.
	So women don't want you to be the dominant and hurt a submissive.
	They want to be friends.
	My friend, my best friend.
	My special friend and my best friend.
	But on the side, what you're going to find out is that partnership is her buy-in from having to be you responsible for her.
	So when a woman pays in, she pays in a variety of ways just like we pay in a variety of ways.
	But a partnership is her saying, you ain't my daddy.
	Okay?
	You can't tell me when I come or go.
	You can't tell me when I go on a girl's trip or not.
	So that's what a partnership is.
	And if you do want to get married, it's going to be under the auspice of a partnership instead of a husband and a wife.
	And when we get five years, ten years down the line, it's just going to be partnerships.
	It's not going to be this submissive wife.
	Doesn't mean she's not a submissive.
	Because there's a lot of women that want to be submissive.
	But it's not going to be this, okay, you...
	That's dead.
	They want to still work.
	They want to still be out there, and they want to have the kick.
	I need it, too, at the same time.
	And also, they're having their fun up front now.
	21 to 28. They say all the time, listen, I'm young.
	I don't want a man right now.
	Around 27, 28, I'm going to retire from this a little bit.
	I'll find a man.
	But they've already been used and abused.
	So you're getting used up, unless you followed them through junior high school to high school, You're getting a reclamation project, which is fine.
	For some men, they're fine with that.
	They're fine with that.
	I'm not saying that's a negative, but that's what you guys have.
	That's what you're going to have.
	You ain't getting nothing fresh at 28. You ain't getting nothing fresh out of the box.
	Oh, brother, this guy stinks!
	That's what they say to me.
	And here's another thing, which I've always, you know, I challenge the men's idea.
	I say, okay, you want someone submissive to you, right?
	Do you want a 50-50 relationship, too?
	Yeah, she should pay into it.
	How is she going to be submissive and you 50-50?
	It don't work.
	That doesn't work.
	It can't work.
	That cannot work.
	That is impossible.
	That is a low probability of you finding that, especially in a younger woman, that where your inability to financially provide for her She ain't gonna be submissive to not much.
	Maybe in the bedroom, she might be into some submissive stuff, stuff like that.
	But in terms of her being submissive, but you require her to pay into it, impossible.
	Now, we have experience, right?
	In most cases, we'll never have or we'll never be privy to.
	Now, more often than not, if a girl has a boyfriend or husband, I don't fuck with her.
	Just out of principle, I think that's bad juju, call it what you want, bad karma, I don't fuck with her.
	There's a problem, though.
	Sometimes you don't know.
	So, this happened to me, like, three months ago, right?
	I was with this Russian chick.
	Beautiful.
	Like, I got billionaires that want her, bro, that know me.
	Oh, bro, put me in a good world for me.
	They don't know I'm fucking with her, right?
	Yeah.
	But, it's like, they post up with me, have a good time, whatever.
	We go home, I do our thing.
	Mind you, the whole time, she got a man.
	I don't know this.
	But, I see her going to Ball Harbor, getting fucking Louis Vuitton, all this stuff.
	I'm like, Nigga, she ain't working no fucking job.
	Who's paying for this shit?
	Gotta be a man.
	But then one day she comes over.
	I'm like, yo, let's keep it real with me.
	I don't want to get between you and your man.
	What's going on here?
	He said, oh yeah, I have a guy, but he doesn't care.
	He's paying the bills and I'm happy.
	I can do what I want.
	I was like, what?
	Bro.
	And he was crazy.
	She even said to me, you want your rent paid?
	I said, fuck no.
	I don't want a man to pay my rent.
	But if she says to him, oh, my friend needs his rent paid, he'll go do it.
	Bro, and this is where it got fucked up, right?
	So I'm like, this is kind of scary.
	So there's a party spot.
	I won't say what it is because I don't want anybody to know about the party spot in Miami, right?
	Huge party spot.
	All the celebrities go there.
	I'm there with some friends, right?
	On the yacht.
	She's there for her birthday.
	Bro, they're having dinner.
	Her man is there and all her friends.
	So her man is paying for her and all her friends at the table.
	I'm like, well, he's a nice guy.
	Not me.
	And she texted me like, hey, are you here?
	I'm like, yeah.
	Oh, do you know?
	I'll start your story.
	Oh, yeah.
	I'm here with some friends.
	I was like, pull up.
	Dinner with my girlfriends and my man.
	I'm like, oh, no, no, no.
	I'm straight.
	She said, oh, no, no.
	Don't worry.
	Bro, she tells him to go home.
	Dude, he pays the bill and goes home.
	And I'm like, yeah.
	Get that Undertaker bill.
	Bro!
	Yeah.
	And she comes on the boat, tells her friends bye, and I'm like, who?
	Because to me, bro, obviously speaking, I'm still a man.
	And most niggas don't care, but I'm like, damn, there's other girls that are single.
	So now it's like, bro, he don't know what's happening.
	He's just being a good boy.
	But that's the meta for most husbands.
	They pay the bills, the woman does what she wants, and he has no idea what's happening in real time.
	And let's say for that guy, he probably couldn't get her without that.
	True.
	He couldn't get access to her.
	He's a nerd.
	There you go.
	So he couldn't get access.
	So he's taking what he can get.
	This is kind of what I say.
	Men will have to deal with partnerships.
	They'll have to settle for this if they want this.
	If they want this.
	Or they have to be that guy.
	People will lean on that.
	They have to be that guy.
	Whatever that means.
	I just think where guys are missing it, they may say, well, that's in Las Vegas.
	That's in Los Angeles.
	That's in New York.
	That's in Miami.
	And those are the 304s you're messing with.
	Unfortunately, we do have to admit.
	Attractive women go to where money is.
	If you look at the cities that have the most attractive women, the men have access to those things.
	If you're going to be in Little Rock, Arkansas and tell me, oh, I'm going to just get me a girl from Little Rock, okay, you're going to deal with a Busted Pills biscuit can or some sloppy yogurt or a regular average Becky.
	You know, that's what you're dealing with.
	Bro, Miami is a hub.
	Vegas is a hub.
	New York is a hub.
	People come for vacation to let loose and have fun.
	You know who goes from Minnesota?
	Illinois, I met.
	Michigan, I met.
	I'm like, oh, these are some nice white girls.
	But again, a yacht, turking, fucking niggas.
	I'm like, yo.
	And they'll be like, oh, I have a boyfriend back home.
	You got a boyfriend back home?
	Yes.
	So the argument, oh, bro, my girl's from so-and-so.
	She travels sometimes.
	It's fine.
	Bro, the girl's not global.
	A flight isn't that much money.
	She can get flown out from a dude.
	$200 is nothing.
	She's here, fucked, and then back to you.
	And it's like...
	Gotta boss up.
	Gotta boss up.
	You gotta be the guy that's there that's actually the guy with the money.
	Or you gotta have whatever.
	You gotta be 6 '8".
	You gotta have that quality.
	King 6 '8".
	Love his content.
	I see him all the time in Miami.
	Okay, listen.
	Just keep it real.
	Guys, Mr. Organic and King are running Miami.
	Them niggas, bro.
	When they pull up, I don't care who you are.
	You could be a fucking celebrity athlete.
	Them niggas is 6 '5".
	Got my muscle tattoos.
	Bitches be like, bro, all I say to Mr. Granite, I want some scraps, nigga.
	Give some scraps.
	But when they pull up, bro, it's done.
	Over.
	But this is why I import my own girls.
	They're like, hey, they will be from the very start, the very finish.
	But again, how do you combat this?
	Because the guys that are actually getting the girls, bro, they don't give a fuck.
	They understand what it is.
	There you go.
	The guys not getting bitches, they're like, oh, bro, I'm going to find me a queen, bro.
	She's going to be a virgin.
	And y 'all niggas talking shit.
	Y 'all don't know what's happening.
	Bro, it's bad, bro.
	Well, men live in the fantasy world.
	We used a long time that women are delusional.
	I'm finding that the men are delusional.
	The men are absolutely delusional.
	But the important point you're saying is that, and you said this about the money, the people who have access, they don't care that you don't get access.
	Neither do the women.
	So there's no sympathy.
	Nobody's thinking about, maybe we should do something about this poor guy in Connecticut.
	That can't get any.
	Maybe we should be more sympathetic.
	What we've learned is they don't care.
	Coach, coach.
	Can I just add to your point real quick?
	I know niggas in Miami.
	They got bread.
	Some are scammers.
	Some niggas got money from whatever they do.
	Whatever, right?
	They'll see you with a girl.
	The moment you go to the bathroom, yo, I'm on Instagram.
	Bro, bro, I kid you not.
	This happened to me one time.
	I kid you not.
	I'm out with some people that are in the industry, right?
	And I want a chick from France.
	Legit, bro, right?
	I get up, go say hi to somebody at another table.
	Some guy I don't know that, I don't know where he's from, New York, whatever, is fucking in love with her or whatever, right?
	Comes to the table, like behind my table, no one really sees him.
	Yo, take my Instagram.
	As soon as you step away?
	Instant.
	Yeah.
	Now, mind you, luckily she didn't take the Instagram and she told me what happened.
	I'm like, who?
	I look in the corner.
	I know the guy.
	I actually know him.
	And I'm like, we're not friends, of course, but that just slammed me because if he's with a girl, look at her.
	Out of respect.
	But niggas got no respect, bro.
	No, not out here.
	They got sharks out here.
	It's like jaws and piranhas out here.
	Thirsty, bro.
	And they don't care.
	I have things where I say, I don't mess with married women.
	I have that principle because I don't have time to be So I'm like, if you're married, I'm not trying to talk to you.
	I don't care how fine you are.
	Yeah, they ain't coming to my house and following me, tracking me down.
	Because they'll track me down, right?
	I don't have time for them to follow me.
	Yeah, for real.
	And then these women share their locations and drop their locations.
	Oh, I'll drop their locations.
	So I don't have time for this.
	Shannon Sharp, yeah.
	So that's how they get got.
	And most guys don't realize this.
	They're just hoping it's not like this.
	Or they're hoping they're going to go to a location where it's not like this.
	So I'm going to get a rural girl, a small town girl.
	I was like, they got guys.
	I've flown in girls from small towns that had 100 people.
	And they will get on the airplane.
	They will drive from Wyoming.
	They'll drive from Cheyenne, Wyoming to Denver.
	Get on the flight and come through for a weekend.
	And they'll have a whole guy.
	They'll tell their whole family, I'm with so-and-so.
	Go back home.
	And they dating somebody else.
	They'll go on regular dates.
	And I'm like, what?
	So when we tell this to guys, they're like, well, y 'all tricking.
	It's because y 'all leading with your wife.
	And I'm like, bro, it's sad.
	And these aren't highly attractive women.
	These are regular women.
	Regular.
	Regular.
	Regular smeggler.
	Regular smeggler.
	So the marketplace is linked to that.
	Where guys are going to say they're going to wait that out.
	And I'm saying, unfortunately, people lied to you, sir.
	Yeah.
	People are lying to you to say that.
	You're going to get an advantage by waiting out, or they'll say things like, we need to bring back Sharia law, or we need to bring back, we need to change the Islam.
	It ain't going to happen, guys.
	That's a pipe dream, and you're just raging at this point.
	What I want you to understand is, as a person that has been put in a position to have an audience of men, I'm trying to tell you what it is, and like you said, it ain't changing.
	I don't think we go back.
	Too far gone.
	We're too far gone.
	I would argue now that, look at it from the standpoint of people that have Access.
	They ain't giving up.
	I worked so hard to come to this point, make money.
	You don't care about your bitch.
	No nigga, she's my bitch.
	And then, women.
	I worked this hard to get a degree, get to this level, to settle for a nigga like you.
	Bye, peon.
	And it's crazy because enter in AI.
	As far as good.
	You mentioned this on your show before.
	Imagine a woman that's independent.
	Boss babe, as you want to call it.
	Successful.
	Can have her pick of the litter.
	Has options.
	But she bought a house.
	You know where I'm going with this, right?
	And if you're bringing AI into the equation now, lose her job, what does she do?
	So the smart investment as a dominant female to buy property, to do this and that, if you lose your job, what do you need?
	You're going to have to go find them resources.
	Back on them knees.
	Because you got to look.
	Like they said, more single women own homes than single men.
	Like you were talking about that.
	Look.
	Look, that means she has a 30-year mortgage.
	That's what that means.
	That means if she's 30 and she bought a house, that means she's going to be pouring that mortgage at least till age 60. She got to work.
	So she got to work.
	So where does that put you?
	Where does that put you in terms of waiting for her to say, oh, feminism lied to us and we'll bow down?
	No, she's now monetized.
	So monetization doesn't mean she sells leg out here.
	That doesn't mean that.
	Monetized means she has a dependency on money where she will have to find ways to earn that money.
	Now that they are buying houses, she's going to need to earn money.
	That means she's debt servitude.
	That means she's going to have a need.
	Where does that put her?
	There's only two pounds I can see here.
	What?
	You find a man that's bossed up.
	She's helped pay the bills if he wants to.
	Or she's back to the streets.
	What do they do?
	So if you're waiting for them to cover it up and say, oh, I'll sell it for you, nigga, you're still broke.
	You're still broke.
	You can't support anything.
	So she ain't going to you at all.
	She's going to the niggas that got money or the niggas that want to pay her for sex or something like that.
	Something like that.
	But guys will still deny this, but they'll say there's an 80-20 rule.
	I did a show called The Red Pill Conundrums.
	And I said, guys will argue against, they're arguing against what we're talking about right now.
	They're going crazy.
	But they will also say there's an 80-20 rule.
	Which one is it, Ninja?
	Which one is it?
	Like, which one?
	Are you going to deny what we're saying?
	Or are you going to keep coping and saying there's an 80-20 rule and winning the way that dude's at the finish line?
	Or are you just going to say, I'm going to find one that doesn't do this?
	You can.
	I'm not saying you can't find someone like this, but it's going to be harder.
	Once she's employed, she's dependent on a greater amount of resources that most men can't provide.
	That's going to put her in a need position.
	That's going to erase all her morals, potentially.
	I was with this one chick.
	We were talking.
	She was a fine Russian chick, but from London.
	And yes, she flew in from London.
	She flew in from London, which means in effect this woman hopped over 6,000 miles to get on the plane to come see me.
	All 5 '7 and 8 of me and all that shit.
	She hopped on a plane from London to Las Vegas.
	But what she told me is we're having a conversation.
	She's about 26 years old.
	The conversation of a few pictures came up.
	And I was like, oh, you know, at the very least, you can sell some feed pictures.
	She said, already done that.
	Already done it.
	Now, this woman has a regular job in London.
	She has a regular job.
	She works.
	And she said, oh, I did that when I was 21. She already did it.
	She was like, already did that.
	I know the ins and outs of that.
	Been there, done that.
	So what guys have to realize is that since women are monetized, they're going to explore as many avenues of monetization as they can.
	Not all women will do feed pictures.
	Not all women will do OnlyFans.
	But what's the difference between being a bartender, a bottle service girl?
	There's not much difference between those jobs.
	I'm going to tell you right now, women will say, I just did bartending work.
	I'm just a bottle girl.
	That was it.
	Bro, let me tell you, right, bro?
	The meta for this.
	The meta for this is that they'll start as a bottle girl or they'll start as a waitress.
	What happens is they get tips.
	And I know niggas do this in Miami for a living.
	They love bottle girls and waitership because they're the easiest.
	You know why?
	$100 tip.
	Don't forget me next time.
	$100.
	$500.
	You know what?
	Tomorrow I miss work.
	I'm taking you out.
	$1,000.
	I think it should go.
	Go on.
	All the time Boyfriend, husband I take this all the time Go on.
	10 requests.
	Right.
	But 100?
	There you go.
	Nigga.
	Dude, you might find it could be a celebrity that you always wanted to meet.
	It could be a guy that's 6 '7".
	Yeah.
	It could be a guy that's just like balling in crypto money.
	Yep.
	It just is one offer that's like, damn, my nigga broke.
	Right.
	I'm going over here.
	Yeah, and for me, who's exceptionally handsome older man, right?
	I'm a handsome older guy, so a lot of women would be like, all right, I'll go.
	And you're in shape.
	Pause.
	You're in shape.
	I'm in shape.
	I got a good look at face balls, but they're expecting these old guys to just be old, worn out, hairy back, big ninjas.
	They ain't going to go.
	I'm like, no, they going.
	They going.
	It's just a matter of time.
	You just wear them down long enough.
	They'll consider it.
	Now, I think the age for this, for the women to start considering this, is above 21. But some women, depending on where you are, they'll do it at 18, 19. Shannon Sharpe's girl, right?
	We had a girl on the show.
	She's 18 years old.
	She made her first We Can Only Find 3K.
	And she made 100K before that from a sugar daddy.
	So I'm like, bro, she's only 18. Left her parents' house.
	I'm like, bro, this is crazy to me.
	It's crazy.
	And I want guys to understand this because what they're saying is not many women are doing this type of thing.
	But I'm saying for you, just to tell you, I'm not bullshitting.
	It's happening.
	They're just not telling you about it.
	They'll tell you.
	This is what I tell guys to do.
	All right.
	Take any woman 25 and up.
	Take her to the nicest restaurant you think you can take her to.
	And then tell me if she's going to tell you she ain't been there before.
	That's a cool one.
	Damn, that's a good one, actually.
	Ask her if she ever been here.
	You know, like, the coach asked him, where have you been to restaurant-wise in this area?
	I live in a good area, right?
	Yeah.
	They tell me certain spots.
	I'm like, oh, I know you didn't pay for that meal.
	That meal was $3.50, and that was just two drinks and the entrees.
	Bro, that's it?
	Right, $3.50.
	So, then you take it past that, women in their 30s, right, that are attractive, like, that are what you would want.
	Take them somewhere or ask them if they've traveled.
	Oh, I've been to Tulum.
	I've been to here.
	They'll start naming places they've been.
	Monaco, Ibiza.
	I've been to Monaco, Ibiza.
	I've been to London and Paris and France.
	Who took them there?
	Now, sometimes their father might have taken them there.
	Or their boyfriend might have taken them there.
	They travel with their boyfriend.
	Sometimes it's even more than that.
	Where they know guys will say, these women are lying.
	And I'm here to tell you, man, y 'all can depend on that if y 'all want.
	Yeah.
	It's relatively easy in this marketplace because there's no shame for men or women to participate in this.
	Many of my people say, well, this is illegal or whatever you guys could come up with to cope to see if you can stop this.
	Where I'm finding that men in this space are trying to find a way for them to overcome this, but they don't have a plan to stop it.
	Good point.
	There was a solution back in the day called Passport Bros, where they would travel overseas and say, okay, well, forget American girls.
	There are ways.
	I won't go to Thailand.
	I won't go to Colombia, Brazil.
	But what's happening is everyone's looking for that solution as well.
	Correct.
	So when you have a supply and demand issue where like the supply is there, the demand isn't there.
	It's good.
	Yes.
	Once the demand is there, the supply is there, everyone's going to that spot.
	So Colombia used to be a haven for guys.
	Yep.
	Back in 2015, 2016, it was bumping.
	But one of the guys that knew and became mainstream, now everybody wants to get paid.
	Or they want to get something in return for an American man.
	It's like, they expect it now because niggas messed it up.
	So now, the safety reasons are being fucked up.
	You know what niggas are doing now?
	They're going to small islands that are remote and not saying shit no more.
	They're not saying shit.
	So it's like, man, the game is rigged because niggas fucked it up.
	Well, we can say that, you know, I love the passport bros.
	I have no beef with them.
	My philosophy kind of preceded the passport bros where I said men go travel, travel for culture, free agent lifestyle.
	That's fine.
	Kind of preceded the popularity of it.
	And then when I said, well, what you're doing is you're telling people where to go specifically.
	And you're telling them how it is then.
	So you have a guy that says, okay, I'm going to save up all my money for three years.
	And in three years, I'm going to go to the Dominican Republic.
	Where's the undertaker bell?
	All right.
	Hit the undertaker bell.
	All right.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So let me tell you what happens.
	Okay.
	I went, I've been to the Dominican Republic.
	I think I went 2018 or 2019.
	And by that point, it was cooked.
	All right.
	It was cooked.
	Now, if you go in there now, it's cooked.
	Now, I went to the Dominican Republic.
	I'm in the airport.
	And it's looked like the soul plane.
	Bro.
	In Miami.
	Yo.
	It was filled with niggas.
	I was like, God damn.
	Me and Myron.
	Bro, bro, bro.
	I kid you not.
	Yo, Myron can tell me this later on, right?
	Yeah.
	Maybe I'm traveling to, I think it was going to the UK or something like that, right?
	We passed by a terminal.
	Fresh and fit!
	So, what's up, bro?
	How you doing, man?
	Yeah.
	I'm looking late.
	There's a bunch of niggas in this line right now.
	Yeah.
	I said, bro, where you going?
	They are?
	I said, like a soul train!
	Yeah.
	I'm like, what the fuck?
	Yeah, only.
	Big niggas, small niggas, short niggas?
	Every type of nigga you can find.
	The funny thing is, I went during, it was a holiday.
	I can't remember if it was Memorial Day weekend.
	It was something going on.
	I saw NBA players.
	I won't name names.
	I won't name names.
	It was rappers, NBA players, because I think I got in in Miami.
	So I flew in from LA to Miami, to Miami to DR. Man, I was like...
	And I'm going to fall in love.
	I'm going to find my wife.
	All right, bro.
	This look like so many niggas in here, bro.
	I was like the whole place.
	And there were women on there, too.
	Yo, Cole, you know what's the problem?
	Yeah.
	I come to DR. You go to DR. It's the same woman.
	Same women.
	Bro, same women because they're on Tinder.
	They're on the apps.
	Oh, yeah.
	And they're selling on Tinder, too.
	No, they're smart.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	So imagine you're like, oh, I found me a queen.
	She a baddie.
	Bro, she was with somebody yesterday.
	The fuck?
	Bro, and then when you left that weekend, another plane, Seoul plane came in the weekend.
	Yeah, another American.
	Guys, not only American, United Kingdom, Sweden.
	Yeah.
	Like, same thing in the Philippines, dude.
	You know who they got?
	Koreans, Swedish, Australian, New Zealand, America.
	Everybody's going there.
	And of course, they're like, I'm the man.
	Here's Max of 200.
	Yeah.
	Now, fuck that.
	I'm the man.
	Here's one.
	And then niggas wonder why the price is so high.
	Exactly.
	These girls charging me $100.
	I'm like, bro, it used to be $30.
	Bro, it used to be $40.
	But now guys are going over there dropping $200 and pricing you out.
	Now, I can't stop them from doing that.
	But they will see.
	They'll give a girl $200.
	I was in Brazil and it was easy.
	There was nothing going to be over $150.
	I mean, it was good.
	But you getting like top notch.
	And if you do, they're scab, peeling, skeezers.
	You don't want it because you could go to the poor spot in Brazil and you're taking chances, right?
	You're taking chances with your life.
	But the whole thing about that is it exposed it to the world and now it takes you three years to save.
	Dudes are going tomorrow.
	Oh, what?
	This is a spot?
	They there tomorrow.
	They booked the trip on the weekend.
	With a group of guys.
	And they got their Airbnb and they running in and out.
	They got four girls a day.
	I get invited to go to Colombia and DR Brazil every week.
	I kid you not.
	Oh, bro, we're going over here.
	Nigga, I'm not going over for pay for no pussy, nigga.
	I can do that shit right here if I wanted to.
	But the problem is that like, to them is like, all right, it's cheaper.
	But by the time you, hold on, by the time you added the plane, Yeah.
	And food and beverages.
	Yeah.
	It may be the same shit.
	You down 3,500 minimum.
	Done.
	You down 3,500 minimum, right?
	I can sit right here in Miami.
	Exactly.
	Got my supercar.
	Yeah.
	Pull up to the spot.
	My life is monetized.
	You know why?
	Yeah.
	Feel free from me.
	Right.
	I know club owners.
	I know the guys at the lounge.
	Yeah.
	Trick club.
	Yeah.
	I just pull up.
	It was fresh.
	Walk in.
	Yeah.
	Oh, he was a celebrity?
	Table free.
	And I've seen this, by the way.
	Yeah.
	Because we hung out.
	I've seen people knew you going in because you networked.
	Yeah.
	And I learned this from Odell Beckham and some other people.
	Dude, they show up.
	Man, I love.
	But if you start paying, you're a customer.
	Yeah.
	You walk in there like you're the shit.
	Yeah.
	We got you.
	Right.
	Obviously, everyone can do this, but I'm just saying what I do.
	Yeah.
	So it's like, okay, they come to Miami.
	We have a good time.
	Done.
	Yeah.
	But I travel now.
	I got to go spam bread.
	A little bullshit.
	Just to smash it.
	They don't know you.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Exactly.
	But I get why guys do it because that's probably the only option.
	But now with the high prices, it's like, bro, you're being fucked.
	Because, dude, it used to be $40.
	Now it's $200.
	Now it's $200 or $150.
	So now you thought you was going to have run through eight girls.
	And them girls been touched up.
	Look, Thailand had Rolling Loud run through there.
	Yeah.
	They did Rolling Loud in Thailand.
	Really?
	Yes.
	That was about a year or two ago.
	It's cooked.
	Right?
	But that was the place where you could go to find, you know, to find the cheap.
	Travis Scott.
	Who are you now to go into Thailand?
	Who are you and who has she been with?
	Oh, shit.
	Oh, so there it is.
	November.
	November.
	Oh, damn.
	I'm going to be there.
	Wow.
	Oh, that's actually Formula One here in Vegas.
	Wow.
	But I'm going to Thailand after that.
	So guess who I'm going to be following up?
	You know what I like about you, though?
	You keep it real.
	You give an actual issue and a solution.
	You say, listen, this is what it is.
	You may not like it, but it's a hard facts.
	I like that.
	You can deal with it.
	But I think guys are hopeful.
	And the other thing about it is, you know, them women in the Philippines, Thailand, Colombia, they got Instagram, too.
	They got Instagram, too.
	They got Tinder, they got Instagram, and they got other shit.
	They got other stuff.
	Sugar stuff.
	Sugar stuff.
	And they got stuff that only sugar stuff in their language.
	So when you get there, you go to Brazil or Colombia, you get on a site that only is for their locals.
	So they have some stuff in Spanish and Portuguese there.
	And I think what guys are hoping is that they're going to go find a province woman.
	A local province woman that speaks English.
	With no American guy, I'm like, nigga, sorry to tell you this, bro.
	Passport, bro.
	If your current girl talking to you in Colombia, Brazil, speaks English, she's probably with an American guy for you.
	Guaranteed.
	I'd argue that a couple.
	Well, that's a red flag.
	If she speaks English.
	The Philippines typically speaks English fluently.
	When I was in Brazil, Some of the girls I was with spoke limited English.
	But I was with one that was fluent in English.
	Oh, bro.
	She expert.
	And she was expert.
	I love you, Poppy.
	Yeah, she knew the whole thing.
	She could speak to me like she was American.
	Damn.
	And same thing with Costa Rica.
	I was in Costa Rica.
	And yeah, it's cheap.
	You can get what you want.
	But you guys got to realize, when your plane leaves, another plane coming in.
	Guys, like the video, man.
	We got 2.3k watching here on YouTube.
	800 likes.
	And then on Rumble, we got 1,000.
	Like this video, man.
	It's free content.
	So coach, listen.
	We give a lot of things out there that are truthful from the heart, from my experience that niggas don't have.
	And in your humble opinion, what's the solution guys can do right now?
	Because I can think of a few where like, okay, you want to have a girl in your life?
	You got to boss up, nigga.
	To have that as a foundation is key.
	Without that, bro, all the game in the world and looks is cool.
	But nigga, someone else has worked on their wealth.
	And we'll price you out in a second.
	Quick.
	A lot of the things that we leaned on, like game, it can work for low-quality women.
	You can get some strags in Atlanta and Memphis.
	That's going to work.
	Women that never had fathers and issues like this.
	Issues.
	Issues.
	These people have issues.
	And pretty much all women got issues.
	But these women got some extreme issues.
	Daddy issues.
	Daddy issues.
	They haven't been beaten by pookies.
	They'll go with you with some game on that, but they know more game than you.
	They have way more experience.
	So if you had to take a course to learn your game, when you apply that on her, she had street game, real life experience.
	So you're having a problem.
	So I tell guys, number one, you got to boss up.
	You got to find your way out of the predicament that you're in.
	That's number one.
	Number two, you got to get rid of that red pill rage or that RP rage.
	That's dead.
	It's not going to do you any favors.
	Specifically around the fact that you're hoping for something to help you.
	That's what people are hoping.
	Oh, the law is going to change and we're going to do this and the women are going to get it.
	Coach, can we just spell something real quick?
	Yeah.
	When niggas say, the father will save the women.
	The who?
	The father.
	The sky daddy.
	The sky daddy.
	The sky daddy coming.
	Wait, Coach.
	Hold on.
	Yeah.
	She's the father in her life.
	She's good.
	Oh, if they have a dad?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Guys, I want to put that the Oh, these women have daddy issues.
	They didn't have a father.
	You know how many women I've been with that have fathers?
	Bro.
	They own this side.
	I have a young lady that I know.
	She's been through OnlyFans and Men Spit Out.
	She lives with her dad and her mom.
	Two-parent household, all that.
	You know what I know is bad?
	This girl I was talking to, right?
	I was, you know, I like...
	And her father was manager for OnlyFans.
	Bro, I was like, yes.
	Talk the fucking show, bro.
	Yes.
	Her father, that's what I'm saying, was manager for OnlyFans.
	That's right.
	That's the budgeting.
	That was the money.
	I'm like, wait a minute.
	You don't work.
	She's a breadwinner and he submits it to her.
	Yeah.
	What the fuck?
	If a woman's 22, that means the father is 42. 48. Okay, what's his perspective from earning income?
	Probably limited.
	Limited.
	Right?
	He's not going to be able to make 100K.
	Most men don't make 100K.
	But if he sees his daughter making 100K, potential to make 500K, he's going to have to look the other way or help her.
	He's not going to be able to just be like, I'm going to write you off.
	And those days where the parents write their kids off is not there.
	But Coach, he's a strong father.
	He's a fighter.
	Okay.
	That sounds good, man.
	That sounds good.
	Gen Z is just different.
	They don't lean on their fathers that way.
	Most fathers are wusses.
	They're passive.
	And they're trained to be passive.
	They're trained to love their kids more than discipline their kids.
	Be friends with their kids.
	Be friends with their kids.
	My dad is my best friend.
	He's amazing.
	And I've seen a lot of women.
	I remember I was at this party.
	It was a fight.
	It was pay-per-view, and he invited us over, and I saw him interacting with his daughter.
	I was like, this dude's cooked because it was a divorced parent, but he was having time with his daughter, and the daughter was with a little female friend, and I was like, they up to no good.
	They plotting, right?
	And so then I saw her come over.
	Hi, Dad.
	Give him a hug, and I love you.
	Kissed him on his head and all that.
	Can I go hang out at mom's house this weekend?
	Yeah, me and her, we're going to do.
	She went out to somebody else's house.
	She went to go meet Chad, Tyrone, Dexter.
	Yeah.
	Beat that up.
	But before she asked, I saw them in the corner.
	They were whispering to each other.
	Diabolical.
	And I'm like, he didn't see it.
	So then she came up with, oh, dad, kiss me.
	And he was like, here's $50.
	go half a time.
	And I was like, Father's completely ignorant to it, or just maybe he doesn't want to deal with it, or maybe he knows.
	But we call that thought and plot.
	Yeah.
	All right, so they always thought and plot to the point where even if she has a dad, a father figure, if you're American and you're not Nigerian or, you know, one of these fathers that have control over your kids and you can discipline them, yeah, the American dad is not the dad that is going to be the strong dad.
	Not in this world.
	But men are depending on that, and I find that to be a cop-out.
	My daughter, first of all, they'll be like, I'm not going to be like that with my daughter because I'm going to tell her what to do.
	Okay.
	I hope your wife supports you doing that.
	I hope your wife tells you that you can discipline your daughter.
	I hope you don't get divorced, because if you get divorced, that's going to take away your input to dictate what you can do with your daughter in today's world.
	I mean, I've experienced that as well.
	Dude, that's hard in itself.
	Yeah.
	Because you want to be there to discipline properly and be a provider, but if you've got to split time, she may be like, he's a bad person, girl.
	Don't trust him.
	Poisoning all your hard work.
	Yep.
	And there's not much you can do when they're on parenting time with mom over here.
	And then they come back to you, and now you've got to re-correct, re-correct.
	And once the kid gets about 14, 15, or 16, they can decide what parent they live with.
	Now your input is gone.
	And a lot of men are going to experience that.
	I think that a lot of men are going to experience that.
	The one thing that used to help men, because you said the solution, was religion.
	Right?
	Religion.
	You can be like, hey, I'm Baptist, Protestant.
	She grew up in the church.
	I'm a reverend.
	I'm a deacon, clap cheeks.
	And we're going to put that Bible on her, and we're going to tell her she's going to go to hell.
	People don't believe that anymore.
	They don't care.
	You know what?
	Coach, I was so scared when the girl told me this, right?
	She was like, this is so good, like, hanging with you and stuff.
	She's, like, Muslim.
	And then she was like, I'll go to hell for you.
	I said, what?
	I said, yeah, I'll go to hell for you.
	I said, yo, this is bad.
	I felt bad.
	What the fuck?
	Go to hell for me?
	But this is crazy because, like, they're raised a certain way.
	They live the lifestyle, meet a guy, and they say, fuck it.
	I don't care anymore.
	I'm just going to have fun.
	Forget God.
	Forget God.
	I think people don't believe in heaven and hell like that anymore.
	Where are you going to be?
	They don't care, bro.
	They'll be like, I'll deal with that when I get to it.
	Or I'll repent my sins and wash all my sins away.
	Now listen, nigga.
	I ain't perfect either, nigga.
	But I ain't saying that, though, off the cuff.
	Ain't no way God forgetting for that shit.
	I ain't saying none of that.
	Well, people have to pay the price when they get to it, but they think they're going to have time to be able to repent and wash their sins away and repackage themselves and fall back into the hands of the Lord after they get ran through.
	So, they look at their ability to do that so that doesn't scare them anymore.
	So, what's the solution?
	So, boss up number one.
	Boss up number one.
	Number two, you got to find your solution to what type of woman you want.
	What position you want.
	Do you want a highly attractive woman?
	Okay, they're all monetized.
	Eight, nine, and ten are monetized.
	It's that.
	In terms of that, well, I'm going to run game.
	Okay, you're getting broken women.
	Okay, so now there's women in between that.
	Okay, I'm gonna want a woman that is willing to go 50-50 You can find it, but you know that when women pay into it, they're paying to preserve their own rights.
	So if a woman says, like you say, I want a woman that pays in or pays for the first date.
	If she pays for the first date, she's a real one.
	That's problematic for you because what you just don't understand, because guys will do that.
	If she pays on the first date or pays half or Pays for the entire date.
	She's a real one.
	She really likes you.
	And guys want to be liked.
	I think that's a negative thing, but guys want to be liked.
	What eventually will happen is you'll find out that she has put herself on par with you.
	She'll never have to listen to you, but you'll get into a relationship really quick with her and say you didn't pay or she paid in.
	My question is, how much you about to pay now are you in a relationship?
	And she paid up front.
	She paid up front.
	So do you pay later?
	So do you pay later?
	She paid up front, so you're going to pay later.
	So now, once the relationship happens, because you chose the real one, and in six dates, you're like, hey, she paid, or she took the cheap date, or she took cheap tacos, or she took coffee.
	She knew what she was doing.
	She snookered you in.
	Now you're in a relationship.
	Now you're going to find out how much a relationship costs.
	You didn't have to pay an expensive date up front.
	You didn't have to pay for the draws up front.
	But when that relationship goes over six months, a year, two years, quantify what you contributed to that relationship or what you put up with.
	What did you put up with?
	Attitude.
	You had to spend a lot more time with her.
	She's a woman that says, hey, we're in a relationship.
	Let's see each other every day.
	Now, you ain't got no side hoes.
	You ain't got no time for that because she's milking you over there.
	But eventually what she'll do is she'll cut more sex off.
	Because she's not getting paid.
	People don't understand this.
	Women have always monetized their vagina.
	Or they monetized their availability or access.
	In the beginning, she'll loss lead it.
	She'll give it away.
	She'll give it away.
	But then what'll happen is she'll flood you with it.
	She'll love bomb you.
	She'll flood you with it.
	Then you think it was free.
	But what'll happen is she'll realize, wait a minute.
	I'm giving this guy access to me every day.
	And all we do is sit here on the couch and this and that.
	So she'll become a malcontent.
	So she'll be like, hey, what's going on here?
	And then eventually she'll dwindle it down.
	She'll take away a little bit more access.
	She'll ask you to go out to the festival, the fair, the farmer's market.
	So she'll limit the access.
	Then what she'll do is make you work for it.
	She'll dangle the carrot.
	And she'll ask her to go to a trip, a nice restaurant, a date.
	A vacation, a cruise.
	Then all of a sudden, you will find that you're contributing to that.
	You'll have to contribute to that to keep getting access.
	The minute you then say, I'm not taking you out to dinners.
	I'm not taking you on a trip.
	I ain't taking you on a vacation.
	What's she going to do?
	She's going to pull back?
	Or she's going to ask you to pay up?
	Okay, well, somebody else is going to take me on a cruise.
	And now you lost a girl.
	So these guys are playing a game that they're not equipped to understand.
	And their whole thing is they're going to free their way to it.
	I'm going to find someone that I can get as much free access as I can.
	How long are you going to play that game?
	You're going to live to 65, 75, 80. Do you have the stomach?
	Do you have the stomach?
	Do you have the stomach?
	Do you have the patience?
	How long can you exist in that mind frame?
	Even marriage, to an extent, is women positioning themselves to get you to go into it cheaply.
	They'll say, hey, we'll build a family together.
	We'll have kids.
	That's what I want, coach.
	I want to have a family and kids.
	How much does that cost?
	Is that free?
	Are kids free?
	No.
	To raise kids, is that free to house kids?
	Is that free to feed kids?
	Is that free?
	Even if she pays 50%, she's raised up.
	Amount of that 50%.
	Let's say you have two or three kids and you live in a one or two bedroom apartment.
	You think she's going to stay in that one two bedroom apartment?
	How long is she going to stay there?
	Not long.
	So she'll be like, we need a condo.
	We need a townhouse.
	We need a bigger house.
	Eventually you'll have to outgrow that.
	You have toddlers, but now they're in middle school.
	You know what I realized too about this whole paradigm and this whole relationship?
	If you stop doing what you're supposed to do for a second, you just stop doing What she wants you to do, she's gone.
	Gone.
	So all of the sweet times you had together, the years you put in, all the effort, the moment you stop doing what she wants you to do.
	Yeah.
	So these are investments.
	And people will say, well, I never pay.
	I invest.
	Okay, stop investing and see what happens.
	It's finished.
	It's finished.
	Bro.
	So you're on a hamster wheel.
	Like, people will say, I would never pay.
	I invest in my woman.
	Okay, my question is, stop investing.
	If you stop investing, what would happen?
	Remember Judge Mathis?
	Correct.
	Years he'd been with that woman, right?
	Yep.
	He stopped doing what he was doing?
	Yep.
	She won't leave.
	He said, please don't leave me.
	39 years.
	And she pulled his whole card.
	I call it pull his whole card.
	So he might have got it for free up until that point.
	And with one signature on a document, she pulled that away.
	So, you know, I mean, it can happen.
	And younger men are typically trying to use this as a strategy.
	I'm not ever going to pay.
	I'm not ever going to do this.
	And I say, guys, you're a lunatic.
	You're a lunatic if you think you can do this for that long.
	And keep your girl.
	You better be the man.
	Because she got options, brother.
	She got options.
	Or she believes she has options.
	As long as there's a belief, then that means she'll jump.
	So it's difficult for guys.
	I'm saying boss up is number one.
	You got to get yourself into a position.
	Number two, be realistic about what you're looking for, what you're doing.
	Are you looking for a less strategy?
	Okay, let's say this.
	I'm going to go to a country and third world underdeveloped.
	The women got dirty feet and they ain't never seen the internet.
	And I'm going to go there and I'm going to rescue this woman who lives in a hovel.
	Okay, so you don't went over there and did that.
	But you put yourself in a financial position where you're never going to make over $80,000.
	Because now that's where you work.
	Unless you work on the internet in America, You gotta survive in that, which people have called the land of losers.
	It's funny.
	They call guys that go overseas LBH.
	You know what I mean?
	Loser back home.
	Yeah.
	That's crazy, bro.
	Loser back home.
	Now, guys that make money where they work mobile, right?
	They can make money from America.
	Anywhere.
	Right?
	So they got over there.
	If you're that guy and AI doesn't replace you, you're good.
	Yeah, you're good.
	You're going to get cooked because they'll run through your wallet.
	We have a guy named Sunshine Shoulders that says, he's in the Philippines and he's married.
	He says, you're in an open relationship over there.
	You open your wallet, she opens her legs.
	So it always works that way, no matter when you go over there or over here.
	So they'll get you a nickel and dime you.
	$5 here.
	30 baht, 150 baht there, and it'll be small until she bleeds you dry.
	If you get bled dry, you ain't keeping that woman nipple there either.
	Over.
	It's over.
	She's going to dip.
	So men are trying to find this as a solution, and only a small percentage of men will be able to execute that successfully where they don't have to invest and put skin in the game.
	But I would say, what's the quality of a woman?
	Show me a picture of the woman that you're doing that with, and I guarantee you.
	She ain't half of what I can get for pennies on the dollar here in America and overseas.
	You're messing with a slump buster, a booger wolf, a cockeyed, knock-knee, broken-down woman who look like a busted Pillsbury biscuit can when she gets naked, and she gonna blow up like the Goodyear blimp in a matter of time.
	You put one baby in her.
	So that woman is a liability to you.
	She ain't gonna be an asset to you.
	Wow.
	Yeah, that was some game right there, fellas.
	Holy shit.
	Real quick.
	Can we bring in complicated real quick?
	Complicated in the building.
	What's up, man?
	You know this guy, right?
	Yeah, I just did a swing with him.
	Shout out to your brother.
	Good to see you, man.
	Good to see you.
	Listen, man.
	What's up, brother?
	You good?
	I actually met him on a strip yesterday.
	Oh, did you?
	Okay, yeah.
	Good guy.
	Yeah, man.
	So we're talking about dating in the future.
	Does he have a mic?
	Excuse me, a mic underneath you.
	On your left side.
	Yeah.
	Gotcha.
	And welcome, brother.
	Thank you for having me.
	Just real quick, before we finish this show real quick.
	So, let me answer this.
	Dating itself, you go around to questions to women all the time.
	Yes.
	What is your consensus or what's your summary of dating today with women?
	Is it worth it?
	Is it, like, beneficial for guys?
	What's your take on this?
	A lot of times I'm starting to almost lean a little bit more into, like, the black pill kind of mentality where it's like, you see a lot of guys going MGTOW, they're opting out, they're saying the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
	So, I'm asking, Why today should men be expected to bring more to the table than they ever have for women who bring less to the table than they ever have?
	And at what point are you overpaying?
	Do you think that traveling overseas is an option?
	But going to Brazil, Colombia, do you think it's an option?
	I think it's definitely a viable option.
	I would almost consider the Passport Bros to almost be like a shortcut to becoming high value because the fact that Passport Bros even exists...
	Now, obviously, I've heard stories about guys who go there, they don't have any game.
	There's still some skill level that you have to have in order to get the women over there.
	And I think I overheard you guys talking earlier about how a lot of men are going there and they're kind of just getting priced out.
	So, I mean, I guess we're just going to have to keep looking for more and more remote villages.
	find these women who are just off the grid.
	You got to find where nobody touches them with a son.
	Yeah, which the Philippines is full of islands, so you're going to hit a whole bunch of islands out there.
	And you got to stay there.
	You can't bring her back here, right?
	Yeah, yeah.
	You know what they say?
	Okay, I can bring her back, bro.
	Keep her in the house.
	She won't have any friends.
	I'm like, nigga, are you a fucking slave master?
	she's going to find...
	Let's TikTok.
	It's Instagram.
	It's social media.
	She can find a way to find information and they say, you know what?
	This nigga's a fucking slave master.
	Get me out of here.
	He's controlling.
	Exactly.
	And one thing, I've dated a lot of foreign women.
	What they tend to do, and you'll never be able to overcome this, is when they come here, they're going to associate with their people.
	They're going to find their people.
	So if she's Russian, she's going to find Russian people or Russian adjacent people.
	If she's Filipino, she's going to find Filipino people.
	So she's going to find those people here.
	Because that's her social group.
	You brought her here with nothing.
	And now she wants to socialize.
	This is common.
	She's going to find them.
	Once she does, you better cross your fingers.
	Because they're going to put her up on some information.
	They're going to put her up on games.
	So get this, right?
	I had a girl come in.
	I want to see where she's from because it would be too obvious.
	She came in, right?
	And she's like, I like Miami.
	Better than where I'm from.
	I was like, okay.
	Nothing of it.
	It's just like, how does it work to like...
	I'm like, here we go.
	Then she's like, I have a friend in Sunny L's that's not far away.
	Am I going to visit her?
	I was like, I don't care, nigga, go.
	Hold on.
	Here's where it gets funny, right?
	She comes back.
	Okay, babe, on the way back.
	She's like, yeah, so she has a guy that's paying for her school and she got a visa, a student visa.
	And I'm like, "Yeah, I gotta go to my show, so you gotta bounce." Because she's trying to find a way to get here, and her friend put her on game.
	Find a guy.
	And I'm like, "I gots to go." But you're right.
	They'll find their tribe here, and if they've been here for a period of time, they ain't dumb.
	They know, "All right, some liggas got money, some don't.
	I want to make it here." They'll find a way to make it happen.
	And you become the subject of that.
	Yeah, well, and you brought her here.
	And I think where guys make the mistake is that in our nature is controlling, which is a hard thing to balance.
	We want to feel like we can control and contribute to the woman.
	And the only way we can do that is hold her close and limit her access.
	That worked in a time before the internet.
	That worked in a time before we have what we see here in Las Vegas and the ability to travel from one city to the next.
	Guys want to still exhibit that control.
	I know it's a touch point because women don't want to be controlled.
	They want to be free, independent, but still have access to a relationship.
	Guys still try to exhibit that control to protect the woman against losing her or protect her against herself.
	I think today that's impossible to do for a long period of time.
	Look at Cassie.
	Cassie is a perfect example of did he was able to Keep her.
	And she drunk up all the food.
	She drank up all the drink, right?
	She ate the food.
	She traveled to a five-star restaurant and all that.
	And he introduced her to a lifestyle that she wouldn't have access to.
	Now, the narrative now was that he was a controlling abuser.
	But he exposed her to a level of lifestyle that she would not have been able to attain herself.
	And now, he's a controlling, abusive male.
	At the end of it.
	So, this is a difficulty.
	And she enjoyed it during.
	Yeah.
	Clearly.
	She enjoyed it during.
	She had fun.
	So now the narrative would be, hey, I was taken advantage of, I was manipulated, but he gave her a life that only five people in the world can give her.
	And he still came out the controlling abuser for better or for worse.
	I think men want to control women.
	It's not a negative thing, but that's the only way he can keep that woman hers.
	But as long as there's an internet, an Instagram, a YouTube, a sugar daddy app, a dating app.
	He has less ability to do this.
	And as long as she's a sympathetic victim after any type of relationship, anything.
	He didn't let me work.
	Or he forced me to work.
	You can't win.
	You can't win.
	This is why men have to become partners.
	What percentage of the women would you say that men are seeking when they travel overseas are looking for citizenship versus actually… Well, that's a funny question because it's hard to say because let's say, for example, they know that you want to bring them back, then it's an option for them.
	Let's say there's no chance that you bring them back, then you're good of use while you're there.
	It depends on, I guess, that scenario and that setup.
	But what I will say is that if the opportunity comes up, they want it.
	I mean, why not?
	Why not leave my shitty country to go to America?
	Some women don't want to leave because they have family.
	Some women don't want to leave.
	I found that you will run into women overseas that are like, hey, America's nice, but I'll never want to live there.
	But they will have a relationship distance with you up until a certain point.
	I don't think that's a smart idea.
	And obviously, there's also men who go there looking for sex tourism, and there's men who go there looking for a relationship.
	So, I mean, women can tell if you're looking for a short-term or a long-term deal, I guess.
	So, you have to kind of be up front with that.
	Single by choice.
	Last one for me.
	Single by choice.
	Is that a real thing where you think it's viable?
	I actually have an episode called Single by Choice.
	Oh, what a coincidence.
	Well, I mean, obviously, I think that...
	But I think that a lot of women today, on the episode I did, I said, do you think that most women are single by choice or by circumstance?
	So women's dating options, they confuse sexual options with dating options.
	But there's a lot of beautiful, gorgeous women who are not in relationships.
	They're just celibate.
	And I'm saying, well, you're obviously just not happy with your celibate.
	Whereas, you know, you have, what is it, 33% of men are sexless.
	So there's a lot of men who are just, you know, involuntarily celibate.
	So I think that a lot of men are single by circumstance.
	Thanks for what you're asking.
	Yeah, good point.
	Yeah, for me, well, look, as the great Black Ram 313 said, relationships for women are just a break from the cock carousel.
	Woo!
	Yeah.
	So if she is single...
	She might be tired of dating.
	There's dating fatigue for men and women.
	So she might be fatigued from dating.
	Relationship.
	She's a man I was controlling for too long.
	She wants to break away.
	That doesn't mean she's going to get ran through out there, but odds are somebody's going to put hands on those hips.
	Now, it might be one guy.
	It might be two.
	Then she'll get fatigued or a scare.
	A STI scare.
	A pregnancy.
	She might have an abusive man.
	Yeah.
	And then that will...
	But then summer comes.
	Spring break comes.
	Her friends are single.
	Her best friend just got a divorce.
	Divorce is contagious.
	So you find that there's going to be breaks and periods.
	Some women will go through a whole phase.
	Some women will be celibate virgins all the way up until 30. They'll get married.
	Then they'll be like, I got to try some new deals.
	So you just don't know.
	You just open a mystery bag of what you're going to get.
	You just don't know.
	But what men do is we think the worst.
	We always think the worst.
	She's been with 100 guys.
	She's been ran through.
	But it's only 37. Multiply by 3. It was only 37. It wasn't that bad.
	But in terms of saying women are single by choice, I think it is true that they can be single and survive more than they could have before.
	The average age of marriage 40, 50 years ago.
	Today it's 29, 30, 31. What are they doing in between those years?
	It's choice.
	So she's choosing to step out of that in hopes that maybe later on she can start something else.
	So yeah, there is single by choice.
	Now, can they get married?
	By choice, no.
	No.
	That's correct.
	But women, obviously, they know if they approach a man, they know that their success rate is far higher than if a man approaches a woman.
	True.
	One thing I wanted to ask, actually I asked you on our stream, but I want to ask you this.
	Do you think the biggest goal or the bigger goal of the manosphere would be to address the incel problem or the divorce problem?
	Ooh.
	Well, currently, bro, I think divorce itself is a scary thing because men are scared to get divorced.
	So I just think, you know what?
	Rather than get married, I'd rather just avoid the entirety.
	But with incels, I feel like they have no choice.
	The choice is, okay, do I become better?
	My look status?
	Or do I stay the same?
	I want to stay the same.
	So there's a choice in marriage, but incels don't have a choice.
	I wish they had a choice, but they don't want to boss up.
	They don't want to boss up, or they might drop out, or they might do something like that.
	I think what eventually will happen with them is nature.
	They'll get weeded out.
	Yeah.
	And so only the strongest survive.
	And we're seeing evolution and hyperspeed.
	Yeah.
	I think we haven't caught up with technology.
	I think we've had so much technology that our brains and our cultures, our social mores and norms haven't caught up with technology.
	So people are still trying to take relationships.
	And they go, well, if we got rid of Instagram, we'll make relationships better.
	Well, unfortunately, Instagram's not going away.
	No.
	So you got to be secure with the fact that.
	Your girl has an Instagram.
	If you're insecure about that, what do you do?
	What do you do?
	You're cooked.
	So you haven't caught up with it.
	But does the solution always have to be to boss up and pay a higher price?
	Or could we possibly, you know, all collectively come together and find a way to lower the price?
	No.
	I wish it was that hopeful.
	I wish it was possible.
	But let's real here.
	Most guys that want to do better in life, if you do better, they hate you.
	Because why not me?
	Why you?
	And the problem is that, like, when someone's doing well, people always want to bring them down.
	So, yes, I wish we could all come together and say, oh, bro, let's work together and become better.
	But reality is, most niggas are not doing that shit.
	They're just going to hate or they're going to be like, why him or not me?
	Right.
	Well, I call that coochie communism.
	Well, I'm not against the idea of self-improvement.
	I think that's fine.
	I'm just saying that, you know, if you look at, like, you know, post-World War II, you know, the conditions were more viable for your average man to be able to find a wife, find a woman.
	So what created those conditions, and is there some kind of, you know, modern-day equivalent or something like that that we can look into?
	Well, the things that created that conditions were women didn't have enough, they didn't have the rights they had today.
	They didn't have access to be able to support themselves.
	They didn't have the ability to earn incomes.
	They were seen as if they did earn income, that income was considered supplementary to their husband's income.
	Well, today, we don't have that scenario.
	We have women that can make 80 grand in a variety of ways, monetized dating-wise and or careers.
	So we would have to eliminate that.
	And then peel back rights of women to make that exist, which I'm going to tell you ain't going to happen.
	You're going to have women fight you tooth and nail to be able to have the rights that they have and they want more.
	Also, men today are simps.
	They're feminized.
	If we come together as men, it should be masculine men working together for a common goal.
	What's happening here?
	Feminine men, I don't want to work.
	Oh, that's too hard for me.
	Oh, I'm a good boy.
	Girls are right.
	So the men that would come together are the cooked.
	So mixing with them is an L. So I just think, personally speaking, it's never going to happen, honestly.
	And they hate what we've become because masculinity now is frowned upon.
	Back in the day, being a man, being a provider, I was like, pay off the bills, babe.
	Do you work while I play Xbox?
	I'm like, what?
	So I don't think it's going to ever happen.
	You can't depend on men.
	But at what point does masculinity become a utility?
	Because women often will not deal with a man unless he provides some type of utility value.
	A wallet, a bodyguard, protector, provider, whatever it is.
	So at some point, are we almost like feeding the problem by expecting men to, you know, provide more than they ever have for women who are bringing less than they ever have?
	Well, currently, the scenario that we're in right now is what it is.
	Women are independent.
	They're making more money than a lot of men.
	And the issue is that most men just give up.
	So the reality is, I get it.
	Masculine itself is brought upon.
	And I wish it came back as something that was good.
	But look at the algorithm.
	Look at society.
	Us as men are being those bad people, misogynistic.
	So it's kind of like fighting the system doesn't work.
	Either you create your own system or you break away from it.
	But being a part of the system itself won't work.
	I think this too.
	But the one thing I see is happening, and we talked about this earlier, is we're practicing on form of poly relationships.
	Women engage in poly.
	Men, a certain group of men engage in the form of poly as well.
	Where I say women piece together four or five guys to equal one at some point.
	And then they'll decide, they'll take an overwhelming majority of what this guy provides later.
	But he's not the one guy.
	She'll kind of say, okay, I'll make something out of this one guy.
	But at some point in their early dating exploration, they'll talk to a guy who was a provider, talk to a guy who provides security, masculinity, protection.
	Then he provides romance.
	This guy provides dates.
	So she's practicing a form of poly, which I think we're going to have more poly than we're going to have monogamy.
	It's like they're spinning plates and they've got their rotation.
	They've got their rotation.
	How many women today say they've got a rotation?
	You're in a relationship with a woman.
	Oh, this is my homie that I went to school with.
	This is my friend.
	This is my play cousin.
	Oh, this is the guy that I used to be with.
	This is my ex.
	We broke up, but we're amicable.
	This is my baby daddy.
	That's a form of poly.
	My ex-husband.
	These are multiple men that she engages with that keeps her That equals one.
	I get child support from this guy.
	Okay, I get alimony from this guy.
	This is my sugar daddy over here.
	This is my boyfriend boyfriend.
	This guy I go to cheap dates with.
	This is the nigga I go fly in to go see.
	So let me ask you, does the fact that women no longer need men mean that the main reason women were with men was because they had to be?
	Correct.
	And wouldn't that prove men were just a utility to be used?
	They were, always.
	Always, from the beginning of time.
	So survival was, back in the day, what it was.
	Remember cavemen?
	If you weren't with a man and something came with a club, you're done.
	But now women have...
	Nothing.
	They're nothing.
	Not much.
	But men, we still have needs that we're forced to be with women, right?
	So, is that, in a sense, almost forcing men to conform to what women want?
	Is that a form of simping?
	Well, I'll say this, bro.
	If you're a guy out there now that's not You're going to follow the common norms.
	What is that?
	Give her what she wants.
	If you don't, you're a bad person.
	You're misogynistic.
	You're not the guy that a girl should be with.
	Versus, okay, logically speaking here, I'm a man.
	I have my standards.
	This is what I'm about.
	So I think, nowadays especially, women have the idea that, okay, if he's not doing what I want, I'll go somewhere else.
	And that's what it is.
	They have the options.
	Yes.
	They have the options for a period of time.
	For a period of time.
	We mentioned this a lot on the show.
	At some point, what if they lose their jobs?
	What do they have?
	They're going to need men again.
	Only the top man.
	Well, I always tell guys, they're going to always need a man.
	It's just a matter of how.
	They're going to need a government daddy man, a corporate boss man.
	They're going to need a provider male.
	They're going to need a father as a man.
	They're going to need a husband.
	They're going to need a boy.
	They'll need a man.
	It's just a matter of Today, in America, that doesn't happen in the Philippines.
	They have the government.
	She's not happy with you.
	She can sue you like Cassie.
	The minute that she's not happy with sharing parenting roles with you, she takes you to child support court.
	And so she can reach to something else.
	But you go to Philippines, I'm going to get a traditional woman.
	The only reason she's more traditional is she don't have the government to reach to.
	That is why that she can have to stay in line.
	Whereas in America, the woman says, okay, I had a baby with him.
	It's been a year.
	I feel like a single mother.
	He's off working.
	He's cheating on me.
	Let's get rid of him.
	And I can get something.
	Back from that.
	So as long as they have these arms to reach to, men will have to figure out a way to adapt to this.
	And all women are temporary, bro.
	Always ask what she's doing.
	Whatever she does for you or whatever she says, you have the best day.
	Add right now to it.
	You fuck me the best right now.
	I love you right now.
	You're mine.
	I'll be with you forever right now.
	You're the best lover I ever had right now.
	You're temporary.
	It's a matter of time.
	Coach, you know what I do?
	I beat them to the punch.
	I said everything that they told me.
	You're the best, babe.
	I love you forever.
	Are they looking for Mr. Right?
	No, they're looking for Mr. Right now.
	So that's what it is.
	But try not to idealize the past.
	The past is reflected conditions that don't exist today.
	So if we say we wanted like the 70s, the 90s, the 60s, those conditions don't exist.
	Listen, the laws aren't changing.
	We're not getting any better in terms of like how things are now.
	It's going to be worse.
	So keeping it realistic.
	It sounds black-filled, but it's the truth.
	I mean, we are black, but that's not the point.
	The point is that right now, it's what we have.
	If men ever become women, women have become men.
	And the result is, basically, only a certain part of men can have the access to women that men want.
	Which means the bottom half of men don't have that.
	They have to either simp, grovel out the grounds, or whatever you want, and settle for whatever they can get.
	Which sucks, but it's a reality.
	But what is the incentive for those bottom 80% of men to continue Investing and running the infrastructure of society.
	I mean, there's nothing for them.
	They're going to do it.
	They need to work.
	Hold on.
	I got you now.
	Fuck that.
	What's coming next?
	AI.
	AI.
	So with robots and new inventions, men are going to be AI girlfriends?
	Are you talking about that?
	Also, yeah.
	Men can go towards affection from OnlyFans, virtual people, metaverse, and of course, robots.
	I mean, that's the future, bro.
	But aren't we already shaming men for corn addiction currently?
	They don't care.
	Shame has been removed across the world.
	So men are going to do what they want to do.
	Men are controlled by shame.
	Women are not.
	Women are shameless.
	They wear shame like a badge of honor.
	I believe.
	Men are only worried about shame publicly.
	My closed doors don't give a fuck, bro.
	Think about this, right?
	Think about this.
	On the show, we bring girls on the show, right?
	Every Monday, Wednesday, Friday.
	Some do OnlyFans.
	Some do porn.
	Some do nothing.
	Some just go to school.
	It's what it is.
	What happens is guys will say, oh, fuck this bitch, bro.
	She's a whore.
	She's for the streets.
	And then some of them will go DM her and say, oh, Russian Myron are bad people.
	Don't worry about them.
	You're a queen.
	Can I fly you out?
	I'm like, nigga.
	I just saw your name on the fucking screen.
	With a $50 super chat.
	Talking about this woman.
	But they'll be in the DMs.
	This is why you can't trust men.
	At this point, to be able to unify, to get a better situation for the lower tier of men.
	Let's help the lower tier of men.
	It's never going to happen.
	Never do it, bro.
	It sounds bleak and dystopian, but it's the reality, bro.
	It's never going to happen.
	I think that men have just been robbed of...
	There's an unprecedented amount of pressure placed on men more than it's ever been in history.
	I think that's'cause they're idealizing a peer You're idealizing the previous 80 years.
	But let's look 80 years before that.
	That 80 years, the 60s, the 70s, the 80s, that was a time where it was somewhat easier, perceived to be easier to get a wife and a girlfriend and there was a committed relationship.
	But 80 years before that, there was slavery.
	Cowboys and Indians, ninjas, you couldn't live past the age of five.
	There was a 50% chance you didn't live past the age of five.
	Famine, wars, So, men had to fight.
	They had to put skin in the game.
	There was a time where men, if you didn't have property, you couldn't get a wife.
	So, you had the whole dowry issue.
	So, 80 years before that, there was a dowry where the woman had to bring in money.
	The father had to bring in money.
	Bringing up the dowry, that's something I'm not sure how familiar you are with that concept.
	But basically, a dowry refers to money or property brought by a bride to her husband on their own.
	So basically, what I was asking is why is it – And also if women have always been considered the prize, why was a dowry even a thing to begin with?
	So it's like the whole concept of how we approach relationships has just flipped and done a whole 180.
	And I think that when we try to go back to this concept of traditional marriage, which tradition are we talking about?
	Because this has been the tradition for a thousand years.
	So a question for you.
	If you had the perfect solution to this issue, what would you do?
	Well, I'm not a coach, so I don't know if I can comment on that.
	I would just say I think that men have to kind of collectively come together and maybe form some type of lobby group and force some type of political change because I don't think we're going to negotiate our way out of this.
	I think that it just comes down to who has the leverage.
	Basically, what I like to talk about is Women have these three superpowers.
	I call it the Holy Trinity.
	They have sexual power, power of the P, which obviously men simp for.
	They have victim power, which is believe all women.
	And they have chivalry power, which basically, chivalry is not just about opening up a door.
	Chivalry is ladies first.
	It's permeated all the laws and institutions.
	The family court system is a chivalrous court system.
	We have a chivalrous government.
	So women kind of have these three superpowers, and I think that if women all came together and lobbied and got laws changed, I don't understand why men wouldn't be able to do that as well.
	Because whenever women complain, reforms are made, and whenever men complain, we're just told to improve.
	I get what you're saying.
	Yeah.
	It's true.
	Well, it's true.
	I think we have to understand in the political realm, women...
	Black men, black women.
	It's like 70-30.
	Okay, so with that, in terms of that, and they have lobby groups, they have all these organizations.
	Men don't have many of them.
	So the politician, you can blame the politicians and the laws, but they gotta vote the way the constituents have them vote.
	To an extent.
	When are you seeing men dominating that arena?
	Well, it's funny that you bring this up because this is something I wanted to discuss.
	So did you hear that the Democratic Party is investing $20 million to try to win back voters to the Democratic Party?
	They want AOC up there.
	They want AOC back.
	They want AOC in there to fight back for everything they fought for before.
	They want Trump out of there.
	And they want the revenge for Kamala.
	But I think the Democrats would be crazy to run another woman.
	They already ran two.
	We need to see Barack and Trump.
	That'll be the best matchup.
	If so many feminists want to see a female president, would they vote for a Republican female?
	No, they would not.
	That's the hypocrisy of them wanting a female president.
	I always said the first female president would be conservative Republican.
	We will see the hypocrisy if it happens, but we will see the hypocrisy.
	Actually, we had what was the woman for Nikki Haley?
	She had a good little run.
	Women didn't overwhelmingly support her initially.
	So the hypocrisy is they don't want a woman president.
	They want a woman president who's going to give them what they want.
	That's pretty much it.
	That's why you won't see pro-lifers at a woman's march.
	So listen, this has been a great podcast.
	I think we've covered a lot of topics here.
	Coach, where can I find you, brother?
	Man, find me everywhere.
	You can put in Coach Greg Adams, but look, Free Agent Lifestyle channel, the Coach Greg Adams channel.
	All my channels are demonetized.
	You looking at the most dangerous man on YouTube.
	I'm the king of kings, the king of content, the speaker of truth.
	Yours truly here, the notorious one.
	But you can also find me on Twitch, live streaming at IRL.
	You can find me everywhere.
	Put Coach Greg Adams in and you're going to find the one.
	The anointed one.
	Talk about bossing up.
	Yeah.
	Tell them.
	Why do they need to boss up now before it's too late?
	Well, you're getting priced out of life right now.
	You're getting cooked.
	You're the frog in the boiling pot right now.
	And people are getting cooked financially right now.
	So there is only one choice.
	It's not related to women either.
	But there's a lot of guys that are using old methods to survive that will not be relevant.
	By 2032, you're going to be priced out of life.
	You guys are being priced out of vacations and trips.
	People are trying to minimize their lifestyle to be able to afford just hunkering down in their apartment.
	You're going to live in a cement apartment for the rest of your life if you don't boss up.
	That's all you got.
	You're going to live between four freaking walls.
	You're going to be in a storage unit at this particular point if you don't boss up.
	So you got to take some steps to be proactive.
	Men are reactive.
	You got to be proactive about this life.
	And also, Everything men do is they live their lives through women.
	They don't go to good restaurants unless there's a woman involved.
	They don't sit in the 100 section of an NBA game unless you bring a woman.
	They don't travel on vacation unless there's a woman involved.
	Why don't you do that for yourself first to understand how to do that instead of waiting for a woman to come into your life to live your life through that woman?
	What's that, bro?
	And my channel is called the It's Complicated channel on YouTube.
	That's my main platform, but I'm also on Instagram.
	I'm on Facebook, TikTok, Twitter, and basically just It's Complicated channel, all one word.
	And the longer title is just Rules of Modern Dating and Understanding Women.
	I want to bring him on a panel with girls in Miami.
	Yeah.
	Because think about him, bro.
	He has questions to ladies on the street, right?
	Which is fucking amazing.
	Amazing.
	But when it's sitting next to you for an hour or two?
	And they say, what'd you say?
	If you don't follow him, you got to follow him.
	He has the best questions of anybody I've ever saw.
	Thoughtful working, from the heart, genuine.
	Logic traps.
	Logic traps.
	Yeah, he sets them up pretty good.
	How do you create those questions, though?
	I don't know.
	I guess I just start out with a certain concept and then I ask them, oh, We agree on a certain premise.
	And then I ask them a follow-up, which completely contradicts the first premise.
	And it's too late.
	They're already in a trap.
	They already bought into it.
	You got to watch out for this guy because he'll trap you with some questions.
	Thank you for coming, guys.
	And again, this is the Fresh Fit Podcast.
	We're going to do another show right now with a friend of mine called Maverick.
	He has a lot to say about what's happening.
	With elections, Tory Lanez.
	So tune in for that podcast.
	He's going viral right now on Instagram and YouTube.
	So we'll see you guys until next time.

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