I must believe in something, so I'll make myself believe it.
It's like a lie.
I will never tell a sign.
If you get the lie, I will never tell a sign.
Questions and...
Alright, we're back, guys.
Listen, I know Myron isn't here right now.
He's actually going to be doing an actual...
School debate in South Carolina.
But he will be back on Wednesday for Wednesday's show.
How dare you!
Another news.
Welcome to the show, guys.
Officially. And it goes as well.
We'll do the intro to start off the show.
And we'll start here with the first person.
Welcome back, Paris.
Name age we do for a living and dating status.
Okay. My name is Paris.
I am 19 years old.
And I do OnlyFans for a living.
And dating status single.
All right.
Welcome back.
What about you?
Destiny. Age?
23. I go to school, but I'm also in the military.
All right.
Dadesitis? Single.
Still? Crazy.
What about you?
I'm Sammy.
I'm 21. I'm going to be attending Berkeley Law School in August, and I'm going to be a lawyer.
Good stuff.
Dadesitis? Single.
All right.
Wait, hold on.
Body count, Sammy?
Okay. You go to law school.
Come on.
I plead the fifth.
She's learning well, bro.
That's a good answer.
Ethnic background.
Oh, and background as well?
Yeah, I'm Cuban and I'm Polish.
And Spanish.
Interesting. Thanks.
Hi, my name's Nikki.
I'm 32. I'm a medical receptionist and I dance.
She belongs to the streets.
Oh, I'm single.
Yeah. Welcome back.
Alright, we'll start here.
My name is Dustin, 44. Just dating.
What do you do for a living, bro?
I have an IT company.
There you go.
We did a show earlier, guys, about tech, how to get into it, how to make money in tech as well.
Go check it out.
Amazing show for Money Monday.
My name's Eric.
I'm 38. I work in financial services.
I also have a couple of investment accounts, and I'm looking to lock down my first investment property.
I'm single.
I just moved to Miami about a month ago.
Welcome. Good stuff, man.
Welcome to Ho City.
Thanks. Last but not least.
My name's Johnny.
I'm 37. I'm from New York.
Single. Do real estate.
Our main focus is mixed-use, multifamily, and retail strips.
And I just moved to Miami about three months ago.
Dating status?
Single. Alright, so we've got a full panel of single people today.
Awesome stuff.
So let's go to the first question.
We'll start with the guys first.
What is the biggest issue with dating nowadays, you think, regarding men and women?
Like, for example, is it maybe girls flake?
Guys are not being serious.
What is the biggest issue you would see in dating market today, from your point of view?
And we'll start here.
Girls are just full of shit.
They lie.
I mean, it's almost impossible now.
I've dated in four decades, and it's worse than ever.
Really, to answer the question specifically, just lies.
Pure lies?
Lies. Okay.
What about you?
I couldn't have said it better myself.
No, there's a lot of women out there that are looking for the bigger, better thing.
And that's why they stay somewhat emotionally unattached.
Even after months or even years of dating.
Unfortunately, I know what that's like.
Sucks. Yeah.
Understandable. So I came down from New York, thinking Miami would be better.
And a month in, I'm...
My friend, you're cooked.
Not better at all, bro.
Worse, actually, I would say.
Maybe. Shit.
What about you?
I think social media plays a big role.
I think it causes people to have false expectations.
They think the grass is greener on the other side.
It's constantly happening.
The phone is in everyone's hand 24 /7.
Girls, if they're semi-good-looking, doesn't even have to be very good-looking, are getting constantly hit up.
So the competition is 50 times worse now.
There's Instagram, DMs, and I think false expectations is a big role, big factor, definitely.
Good point.
For you?
What's the biggest issue?
My goodness.
I think, honestly, it's just the amount of choice that men have.
It's very difficult to find someone who isn't shooting for the stars.
Very, very cutthroat.
And therefore, if they deem you as not marriage quality, they're only trying to sleep with you.
Whose fault do you think that is?
The girl's part?
I don't think it's anybody's fault in particular because when the world is at your fingertips, you have choice and everybody loves choice.
Everybody loves freedom.
So I think that that's really just what it is.
I mean, yeah, just the choice.
I think people are looking at when someone has 80% of everything that you want and then they're missing that 20, they really focus on that 20 and it's easy to see somebody else on like Facebook that has that 20% that you're looking for so yeah, okay for you I have to agree with Johnny about it being social media and There's so much access to be able to see people from all over the world and I feel like men are able to see the most beautiful models so
many more than they would ever be able to see in their lifetime if we hadn't had technology I feel like and I'm I think that's led to a lot of issues and also Maybe even with the rise of OnlyFans, I see a big problem with guys who pay for OnlyFans while having a girlfriend or while they're single.
That's sad, actually.
What about you?
I'm very old school, so I feel like technology...
Plays a big part.
Like, oh, you can just send a text.
And the guy will, like, wait outside in his car and be like, I'm here.
But no, the guy doesn't, like, walk up to the door, give you flowers, anything.
Like, I'm very old school.
I like the old school love.
Okay. And for you?
Guys, like, have such a bad past.
Like, every guy now has, like, been to, like, the strip club.
Strip clubs are bad.
It's the guy's fault.
Have you been there?
Yeah, but it's fine if I see a girl twerk or something.
I'm not going to get aroused like a guy would from that, you know?
So I guess from both ends, what do you say, Dustin?
Do you think that women understand men's place and care, or they just don't care?
They don't understand at all.
I mean, everything they just said right now is about the men having all the access, when actually you guys have all the access.
It's the opposite of what you're saying.
We don't have the access.
You guys are the ones that are getting 500 DMs a day, not us.
Do you agree or disagree?
I wish I was getting 500 DMs a day.
Clearly you guys think I'm cooler than I really am.
What? I think that's your, it's wildly, like, that opinion is wildly inaccurate.
Just because, for example, I'm not saying that I am.
Let's say you believe that I am the standard of beauty.
That doesn't mean that everybody else thinks that.
I think a lot of people like when I Interact with them.
They're like, oh my goodness.
You get like 500 DMs.
Everybody wants you know That's that that's just ignorant to say Not everybody likes slim girls.
Not everybody likes black girls So why would you think that everybody wants me or that it's easy for me to date?
Have you ever been asked out on a date?
Have I ever been asked on a date guys come to you and approach you?
No girls ever came to me and approached me that just your experience doesn't make it the benchmark It doesn't I've also asked men out on a date.
I'm actually very Proactive when it comes to dating I asked men on on a date if I see a man and I think he's attractive I have no issue going up to him saying I think you're cute.
Do you want to talk?
It doesn't always work out in my favor some guys are like no, thanks Some guys are like yeah, so my experience is not the benchmark.
Do you think a lot of women chase status?
Absolutely 100% 100%.
I think we're raised to chase status.
But have false expectations about this status.
A guy makes over six figures, all of a sudden girls, they think that's nothing.
They think that's Trump change.
I think that has to do with the economy and just inflation and things but that again that's just me because I think that's to do with mindset not the economy I kind of agree with you
Even before inflation was out of control and all that bullshit, it was a status symbol for a woman to be dating a man that's making six figures or seven figures.
I do agree with you that social media has definitely fucked things up.
For both sexes, though.
But I'll give you this, though.
I think men want variety.
They want to look at, you know, whether it's a blonde or a brunette or whatever.
And if you look at that Sydney ring card girl, I don't know her name.
I don't want to know her name.
Yeah, the blonde, right?
Yeah, yeah.
She went to, what is it?
She grew up in, like, Missouri or something, went to Alabama.
Nobody would know her name or give a shit if it wasn't about social media.
And I remember her...
She's doing an interview, and this is why I don't like her.
She dumped her boyfriend of three or four years, whatever it was, started going on podcasts, being single, going to events.
She's getting all this access because of social media.
That's not happening for any other man, except for maybe Dan Bilzerian, but that's the exception, not the rule.
That's an anomaly.
She belongs to the streets!
Agree, disagree?
May I say something?
Men often get insecure at the fact that women may easily have 500 DMs, but that's not positive attention.
We don't enjoy that.
And if men are in my DMs, most of the time what people are saying in your DMs, excuse me, is stuff you don't want to hear and it's disgusting and it makes my self-worth go down.
If anything, it makes it worse.
If someone's contacting me that way, excuse me, I don't want to be talking to a man like that.
I understand that men get insecure about our choices and options and how people can contact us online, but it's mostly bad things that we're hearing from these men.
It's not good things.
And I really prefer, like, in real life interactions.
I like being face-to-face with people.
I think it's much more.
Do you have social media?
Yeah. So, why do you have it?
To keep in contact with my friends and to keep them updated with my life.
Yeah, I mean, I was off social media for like seven years.
I recently just got back on.
It's just...
I would challenge anyone to get off social media and try and just live like a normal life.
It's much better.
It's much healthier.
Oh, I love it.
I have a question for you guys real quick.
When you go to social media, right?
Let's say Instagram, for example.
You get DMs of girls telling you, like, for example, hey, I wanted to go out with you.
I want to take a party with you.
I've never gotten that.
And I'm 6'6 with light eyes and I make good money and I present well.
Because I would argue that a lot of guys don't get attention like how girls do on social media.
I DM put guys all the time.
For what?
For what?
Me too.
You DM guys?
For what?
You what?
Really? Yeah, I've DM guys before.
How many?
Like five or six?
Four. No one's like answered though.
But like I DM guys.
I was going to say, how many of those guys you DM'd have you actually gone on a date with or were serious with?
No one's responded to me.
Welcome to the world of a man.
I mean, her page just has no photos of her.
Like two photos of her.
Well, I have three pages.
I have three pages.
Can we see it?
My page?
You know, it's funny.
Obviously, if you send them a DM, they're going to see your fake page.
I have three Instagram accounts.
Why do you have three?
Yeah, I also have multiple Instagram accounts.
I have Finsta because, I mean, back in the day in high school, we had Finstas.
Same. And then I have, like, because I wasn't allowed to have Instagram, so I have, like, my personal Instagram, and then I have a family Instagram.
That's too many, man.
Yeah, I have three Instagrams.
I have a personal Instagram that like, yes, three.
So it's that one.
My first one was a private page, really only friends and family, mainly because like I have minor relatives and I just don't think it's appropriate for me to post other people's children on public pages.
So that one's private.
And then I have one that I used for work because I used to do modeling and I used to promote a nightclub.
So I have one for Toronto, and then I also have my dancer page.
And those are the three that I use.
I have a question, fellas.
If you're talking to has three Instagram pages.
No. Is that a red flag?
No. Why is it a red flag?
It's not going to happen.
Honestly, if you have one picture or one selfie of yourself, I won't talk to you.
Why is that an issue?
For me, it just is.
It says a lot about your character.
I've never posted a selfie of myself.
It's about you.
And honestly, I haven't looked at any of your Instagrams because I don't really know who you are.
And I'm not saying you, but I'm saying in general.
There's pages with just nothing but selfies.
That's wild to me.
That's crazy.
I still don't understand that phenomenon.
I don't understand.
Maybe I'm an old head.
Can you elaborate on that?
Because I'm a little confused.
I confuse myself.
If I post a selfie, if there's one page and there's a selfie on there, what is that?
But why are you putting a picture of yourself out there?
What's the purpose of that?
What's the purpose of having a photo album?
Well, you can take pictures of things, of vacations, but what's the deal with yourself?
You're advertising yourself, right?
Oh, shit.
That's what it is.
I mean, you could be...
You're trying to sell yourself for a purpose.
I don't want to date a girl that's selling herself, because what else are you doing?
So you don't want to date a girl who uses social media?
No. But would you say the same thing for men?
Because, I mean, I've seen men flex.
So, yeah, no, I'm just, I just, before we...
Divert. I'm trying to understand what the red flags are of someone posting a selfie of themselves.
So you're saying that it's...
It's a me, me, me, me, me mentality.
So you're saying that someone who posts selfies is narcissistic or it displays...
I'm not using that word, but I'm just saying it's just about you.
I'm asking.
I just see it very, very entitled and very much about you.
Entitled? Yeah.
But would you say the same thing for men who post?
I just think that's fucking weird.
Okay. But we just spoke about attention and how much options you guys have.
Let's say a guy did post selfies all day.
No one's going to send him a DM.
Unless it's you.
Are you insinuating that no...
Do females DM you?
Well, hold on.
I'm not asking anything.
He is not an A-list celebrity.
I'm not saying that you're not popular or anything.
Right? You're an A-list celebrity?
Listen, man.
Am I in these streets?
No, no.
Just keeping it cordial, though.
Respectfully. These guys are here, right?
Cool, guys.
I am as well.
But I'm just saying, options-wise, you guys getting DMs way more than us.
By far.
Doesn't mean we're responding to them or enjoy them, though.
I agree with you.
No, but he's just saying it doesn't matter if you're getting the attention.
Well, that's men doing it, not us.
I'm gonna be honest.
That's the men him hitting send, not us.
I'm not choosing.
But, like, if I could block anyone from DMing me who wanted to, like, hook up with me, I wouldn't want that.
Understandable. But the point is, we could pull shit all day.
Let's say attractives like thirst traps.
We might get, like, one, two DMs possible.
You guys just post anything, selfies, you get hella DMs.
Because men are thirstier.
But that's the point, though.
I don't know about that because, like, to be honest, like, if I saw you guys and you guys both are real estate, I would honestly hit you guys up and be like, hey, I want to get into real estate.
But it's not for romantic purposes.
That's what they're discussing, romantic purposes.
Let me just say this.
I think he gets more DMs out of the four of us because of his status.
And that's not a knock on you.
It's just he's known.
He has People know that he has a certain amount of money, and it's going to generate more leads for him, is what I'm saying.
The first thing I check is a girl's Instagram, right away.
If she doesn't have selfies everywhere, doesn't have vacation photos of just her by herself, all these fancy photos, non-stop selfies, I don't want to deal with that.
I know it's a red flag right off the rip.
I know exactly...
What she's into and what she's trying to do and what her focus is.
I just had this happen.
I met a girl.
Her Instagram.
She posted three pictures.
All normal, you know, PG pictures.
She turned out to be a great girl.
I don't have to worry.
She doesn't have three Instagrams.
If she told me she had three Instagrams, I would say, what the...
Can we curse on you?
Yeah. What the fuck do you have three Instagrams for?
If she gave me all of her passwords and I knew about it...
Maybe. It's like having two phones.
It's like having a backup phone.
One for the hoes, one for the bros.
Why? What's your agenda?
Ladies, real quick.
This is on your end now.
If a guy saw your page on Instagram, would they wife you up?
Yes. I don't know.
I don't really like...
I mean, as he said, I don't really post myself.
Okay, from your understanding, you think the guy would wife you up?
No. No?
I think the right man would immediately wife me up.
Okay. I got my graduation pictures on there.
And you?
I have been wifed up with my Instagrams.
You're married?
No. Okay, hold on.
Let's play a game here real quick.
You guys ready?
Yeah. We're going to show your pages to these guys right here.
And they're going to tell us why these are not.
Let's start.
The one you guys are going to show, these guys are going to say no for sure.
Nah, nah, nah.
I'm telling you.
I'll put money on it right now.
You guys are gorgeous on the panel.
I'm sure they're going to say yes.
Right, right, right, right.
Stop the cows.
That's my first one, Chris.
Alright, just give those one second.
Yeah, but honestly, man, listen, I get it.
People are worried about Instagram.
There's a lot of options.
But I will say, though, for girls, it is way easier because you post anything.
Bikini picture, selfie.
Oh, you're so cute.
You're so beautiful.
We post shit.
What do we get?
Oh, cool car, bro.
Like, it's not, like, life-changing.
Do you want men to be commenting, like, I want you so bad?
You want girls to be commenting that?
Why don't you guys just post thirst traps with that?
It's what you want so bad.
Well, let's be honest here.
There's men posting thirst traps that get so many girls that want them in the comments.
There's so many, like, guys on TikTok about it.
It's not the pictures.
It's the amount of followers they have.
It's the status.
They're focused on the status.
It's not just the amount.
It's the advertisement for me.
Okay. I can understand.
I'm just gonna...
Now, hold on.
It could be the body, pause, but let's be real here.
How many guys can actually do that?
A pretty solid amount.
I think a lot of men underestimate how horny women are.
That's true.
I don't know about that.
I'm telling you, I think it's just the simple fact that we were, like, on our last show, we spoke about purity culture.
Purity culture is instilled in us, right?
So we can't...
We're not, we can't.
We are taught that we shouldn't be as open with our sexuality.
So, but if you guys only knew how...
So you're corny and you post these provocative pictures.
No, no, no, no, no.
Is that what I just heard?
No, that's not what I said.
I'm trying to understand.
Yeah, so going back to her point where she said, do you know how many men have women who are thirsty in the comments and whatever?
And... There's the debate.
Is it because of his status?
And I'm like, no.
If you only really knew how horny women really are, you would see some very interesting comments on men's pages.
Very, very interesting.
Like, even if you just go to, like, a no-name OnlyFans guy, if you only knew, or even if you went to, like, a male strip club, not saying that you guys would, but I've been to a male strip club, and I was thoroughly shocked and appalled at how...
Yeah, those guys are all gay, though.
Are they really?
That's all gay.
Whether they're gay or not is irrelevant.
And gay dudes are horny.
Whether they're gay or not is irrelevant.
Women are going there to see these men, and the way that they are, you're like...
Dang, like...
But you said it earlier, though.
You said it earlier.
You're talking about guys that are doing OnlyFans or are male models.
No, I'm saying, for example, that's...
Okay, but that's not the everyday guy at all.
I'm saying even with the everyday guy, you'd be surprised.
Yeah, but I'm just saying, that's the exception, not the rule.
Yeah, I wasn't focusing on the exception.
I was just going to an extreme, but I'm saying, though, like...
Yeah, that's an extreme.
Yeah, I was going to an extreme.
So, listen, just real quick, because I get what you're saying, and it is true.
The problem is, they're horny for who?
What percentage of men?
The top percent, if possible.
The one with abs, good lifestyle, money, success.
Average guys don't have a chance.
If you believe so.
No. So you're fucking bottom feeders?
Sorry. I'm not going to say I'm a bottom feeders.
No, I don't need to go from one stream to the next.
I'm dating men that I find that are attractive.
Okay. Average men.
What about them are attractive?
So it only looks for you?
Pardon? It's only looks?
Of course it's not only looks.
Average men are fine.
Like, there's nothing wrong with an average man.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let me get this straight.
You're all single on the panel.
And it's average men every single day outside.
What's stopping you from dating an average man?
The way they act.
The way they act?
How? About crying about Instagram comments and posts.
Get over it.
Go to work.
Go to war.
What do you mean by career?
For me, like, I'm in the military.
I gotta have someone who understands the military.
So I'd rather date a military guy than a normal guy just because, like, if I go on a deployment, I understand he might cheat on me and I'm gonna be like, okay, goodbye.
Or because females cheat on deployment too, so my man's gotta be comfortable with the fact that, like, I'm gonna deploy and I'm not gonna cheat on him.
So it's that level of trust for me as far as, like, career.
Would you date a guy if you were the breadwinner?
Yeah. Yeah?
Yeah. Then you're the anomaly.
Okay. I think that's also incorrect.
There's not a lot of people who can afford to live on a one-income household.
True, but we're talking about would a girl date a guy if the girl was a breadwinner?
I think most answers would say no.
I don't mind being a breadwinner as long as there's rules to me.
So like, let's say if we're gonna have a child and we're married and everything,
I've already started that.
I need my other half to put in 50K because there's going to be a point where I don't want to work when I'm pregnant because I have a risk of high-risk pregnancies that my man's going to be like, okay, we have this money set aside for our child specifically, so we're going to take out of that so you and the baby can still have a good lifestyle.
I have a question real quick.
So you said you only want to date military men or men are in the military, right?
So they don't cheat too?
Huh? They don't cheat as well?
What do you mean like they don't cheat as well?
I mean, I'm not going to lie.
Military men are toxic.
So what's the difference between the average man and the guy that's in the military?
They're both going to cheat.
Yeah, but like it's a different level of toxicity and maybe I'm used to that.
I'm not going to lie.
I mean, you know, I'm pretty toxic.
So like I need somebody to like reach that toxicity with me.
But why would the military man be worse, sorry, better than the average man?
Because he understands my military schedule.
Oh. Can't you give somebody, like, the printout of your schedule?
Listen, I've been that female.
Who wasn't in the military and dated a military guy, and I'm not gonna lie, I didn't understand shit.
But until I got into the military, it's different.
Now you're dating, like, the same culture, and your man understands all have CQ, okay?
I'm gonna be on my phone 24-7 because I'm up for 24 hours blowing you up because I'm bored.
Or, you're deployed, okay?
I understand.
You can't text me all the time because your hours...
On deployments, your shifts are different.
So I just like dating a military guy because we understand each other's career.
And I need my guy to understand my career in the military will forever be the biggest thing to me.
Yeah, but not everyone's going to be able to text you back right away or know your schedule and shit like that, okay?
Everyone's going to have their own set schedule.
You're going to have to adjust around theirs.
Yeah. I think she's talking about the extremities of it.
And I had to work like 12 hours.
Just today like I would have been blowing off anything else just to get my shit done Yeah, but I mean I mean go ahead I think she's talking about like when you for example like when you go on like deployment not only are you for example working nine hours, but then you have the time difference and then It's like a long-distance relationship That's what I mean to me.
That's what I like I like my military relationships because we both understand we're not gonna be with each other 24 /7 and we can't be Needy 24 /7 because I feel like your career should come first and my career should come first because if you're trying to make points to bring in more money,
that's okay.
I'm not going to be like,"Oh my God, babe, where the fuck are you?" No, you're studying so you can make points so you can get a better promotion to take care of us.
That's just my opinion.
Listen, I'll be honest, you need some help.
I know.
We'll do the first one.
Nikki the Nerd.
Well, you're a nerd.
Come on now, do you think I'm out here making...
So, we'll start here.
First, from New York.
Would you wife up?
Oh, guys, by the way, like the video, man.
This is going to be hilarious.
What, you still following her?
That's messed up, bro.
Chris don't need to follow me, so...
Okay, hold on, hold on.
Yeah, of course, man.
Based on that, absolutely not.
Okay, but why not?
I wouldn't want a girl that is posting pictures of her in her thong or underwear or sexy pictures.
I wouldn't want it even if it was in her past because it makes me feel like her intentions are not so kosher or not so good.
Not so cultured?
Oh, culture, culture, culture, culture.
I thought you said cultured.
I was like, huh.
Not cultured, cultured.
Okay, got you.
And it looks like a trap.
And I'm not about to get trapped.
I don't want to get trapped.
You triggered my trap card!
I'm not focused on that.
A lot of people avoid that.
But you will find guys that would want to be with you.
But I don't think you will find a lot of guys that would want to wife you based on that Instagram Oh shit!
I have a question for you.
Do you ever feel like when a guy hits you up it's not for the pure-I mean obviously never mind that was a dumb question No, no, I guess-Are they purest intentions?
Yeah! Um, I definitely, it definitely depends on which Instagram that he hits me up on.
I'm not gonna sit here and lie to you I was just gonna say-It honestly depends on what Instagram he hits me up on
Like I said, I have a private Instagram that I've had since the inception of Instagram.
Typically when people hit me up on that, it's like, oh my gosh, I went to school with you, da-da-da-da-da, whatever.
And then when people hit me up on that Instagram, typically it's business inquiries.
That's the whole point of the page.
Absolutely, I've never been invited to Dubai.
Wait, hold up.
You said earlier you got wiped up from your page from earlier, right?
Is it that page?
No. I have three Instagrams.
Two of them are public, right?
And one is specifically...
It's a business.
Okay, so this page is not the one you got wiped up on?
No, no, no.
What about you?
No offense.
I'm not wiping up anyone that puts that much skin out there.
Let me ask you a question, honestly.
You can ask me anything.
You start talking.
Can you tell him I have another Instagram show?
I'm very open and transparent.
I don't lie about anything.
When it comes to dating, I'm a firm believer that your partner should have All of the information so they can make an informed decision.
Can I add a question to that?
Absolutely. If you have a guy and he met you when you were posting these on that profile, are you going to continue to post on that profile?
That would be a discussion between my partner and I. If he didn't feel comfortable with that, then no.
But why would you want to at that point if you had a guy?
I mean, it would honestly depend.
That whole page is solely for advertising the fact that I dance.
It's to entice clientele to come see me, right?
It's a business.
It's a business.
Literally, it's a business.
Got it.
Right? As you can see, I'm definitely not dressed that way.
Got it.
Currently. I'm not Kai at the moment.
I'm just Nikki.
I'm just me currently at the moment.
Pardon? Can we go later?
Sure. I love the Booty Club.
Although, despite my job, I'm far more conservative than a lot of people would guess.
I've heard that before.
Yeah. I dated everything.
I'm far more conservative.
There are certain aspects of my culture, like there's a video of me at the Carabanda Festival.
Typically, our outfits are very scandalous, but it's a culture thing.
- That's even worse, actually.
- But do you really honestly believe that if a man sees that, you're gonna get the right man if he sees that?
Do you think a man is gonna ever look at that?
And if you do or you don't, it doesn't really matter.
What kind of man do you think is actually going to be with you with that?
That's the thing.
Like, you're gonna get...
A simpy little pussy boy is what you're going to get.
That's why the page is for business and not for advertising.
But it doesn't matter.
It's still there, whether it's for business or not.
I definitely don't attract simps.
I definitely attract men who know how to lead and are authoritative and don't take crap.
I'm not one who puts up a crap myself.
As I said, I'm very open and honest with my partners, and I give them the freedom.
You can either choose to be with me or not.
And I definitely have men who have dated me, who have proposed, who I've lived with.
Really, nigga?
Really, fam.
I just don't really think that any man that sees that, you're really going to get a man of quality that really accepts that kind of behavior.
And maybe I'm just too traditional, but that is a...
For every person I've ever talked to, and again, I'm the oldest person on this panel.
I've been around a long time.
I've talked to a lot of guys.
I have young co-workers.
No one is going to be accepting of that.
No one's going to.
It's going to be like.000000001% of the men are going to.
And even then, that man, I don't think it's someone that you're really going to want.
I firmly agree with your opinion.
However, I date men.
You don't.
I get that, but I'm a man.
But I'm a man.
And I've dated women like you before.
It's not that I haven't been there.
I've been there before.
But I know the mentality of men because I am a man.
No, you know your mentality and the mentality of your nucleus.
I date men.
I date men who are similar to you.
I've dated men of different texts.
Every stripper thinks this way.
Hey, I mean, if it wasn't accurate...
It's a mentality, it's just...
And there's no changing it.
And I get it.
I mean...
I get it.
So, if I may speak...
Yes, yes, you can.
If that's the case, and nobody would date sex workers, then...
All sex workers would be single.
No, they're going to date you.
I'm talking about even married.
Yeah, but they're going to end up divorced.
They're not going to be longstanding.
They're not going to last.
That's what I'm saying.
You also said that you were engaged by multiple men proposed to you?
Two. Okay.
What happened?
What happened?
Yeah. One of them...
Denied! No, no, I never denied anyone.
No, one of them, I just felt as though we were too young.
So you called it off?
Yeah. We were way too young.
And the other one just was a very unhealthy relationship.
So you said it yourself, you're more conservative than the content you have on that one Instagram page.
Do you think you're going to actually attract a man with the same kind of values having that out there?
Having it out there?
I have.
But they haven't stayed.
You're single now.
Yeah, well, it's not the fact that they haven't stayed.
How old are you again?
32. Okay.
Damn! I'm typically the one that ends my relationships.
So, I mean, I've definitely been broken up with, but it was never because I danced or...
I did sex work.
Because at the end of the day, like I said, it's not like I mislead them and I pretend, like, oh my goodness, I don't go outside, I don't show skin.
Like, they meet me as I am, and I say, this is me, you can take me or you can leave me.
But that is you.
That's my profession.
But that's you.
I know, that's me in my profession.
So you always ended the relationships?
Majority of the time I've ended my relationships, yes.
Let me ask you.
Do you do that subconsciously because you don't respect the men that that we're willing to put up with?
What we're talking about by posting pictures like that No, consciously you say this guy is willing to put up with that.
I don't want this type of man No, because I mean at the end of the day if I don't want something serious like if I'm just dating casually Then I also set that precedent like I openly admit like I'm not interested in whatever cool, whatever But it was never because I'm like,
oh, I don't respect this, man.
Because I know a lot of women who don't respect the guy because they're willing to put up with that.
And I've definitely seen that as well.
I've definitely, definitely seen that as well.
I mean, I have broken up with someone because I lost respect for them.
And I was like, yeah, I'm not doing this.
But, I mean, I'm about reciprocity.
If I can do it, you can do it too.
So if my partner says, you know what, listen, I thought I was cool with this, but I'm not anymore.
Then I have no choice but to respect the fact that they don't want to do it.
So what's your game plan?
I mean, you're 32. I mean...
Damn! You know, like, what's your game plan right now?
I mean, you're on the older side of females, right?
Okay, so I'm old, right?
I mean, you're over 30. Facts.
I'm not a spring chicken anymore.
No, you're not.
And just the reality of it is that your next mark is 40, right?
100%. So what's your game plan?
I want to go into business.
I want to do...
But you're going to keep doing all that?
I mean, to gain the capital.
Sure, why not?
I mean, you should have it by now.
How long have you been doing that for?
On and off for a few years.
Two years?
No, a few.
That's a good picture.
That's a beautiful picture.
Stop it.
Get some help.
I'll just be honest with you.
It's no hard feelings against you, but you're going to be very, very hard-pressed.
I would recommend that you delete all that shit and you go down a different career path like ASAP and try and get rid of it, because you're never, ever going to have a sustainable relationship with anybody with that.
Wait, hold on one second.
First and foremost, I just want to clarify that stripping is not my career, it's a job.
One. Well, it's what's paying the bills.
It's what's giving you capital so that you can go to the next thing.
So it is your career for right now.
It's my job.
It's definitely my job.
I would find a new job.
And I would delete it.
If you really want to have a relationship.
Because no man, I'm telling you, no man is ever going to tolerate that.
And when I find a partner, if he says, listen, I want you to delete that, then it'll be deleted.
But why not do it before?
I'm going to jump on it.
Because, as I said, it's...
Go to Google and clear that shit out and try and get rid of it.
So you're cool with not having a guy, period.
That's pretty much what it is.
That's what it is.
Because he's telling you, Your current status and current profile is never going to happen.
But I never said that I'm currently looking for a husband.
I never even implied that.
No, but you will in the next few years.
What's going to happen is you're getting older and then it's all going to set in and no one's going to want it.
I'm totally cool with that right now.
I'm not forcing myself on a man.
No man has to be with me.
At the end of the day, I don't want a man to settle for me if he's like, oh my goodness.
Whatever the case may be.
It's not one of those.
And I'm definitely not going to settle for a man either.
If you can't take me as I am, then I'm cool.
I'm not going to sit here and expect my man to be perfect.
You guys all have skeletons in your closet.
We also don't have it posted on the internet.
I mean, whether you have the skeletons posted on the internet or not, your skeletons are there.
My skeletons are dated women like you.
I mean, hey.
I'm just being honest.
I mean, it is.
I mean, it's just the reality of it.
Okay, listen.
Guys, we're gonna do some chats real quick.
This is getting spicy, and I love it.
So we'll do some chats real quick.
Listen, we wish you the best on that journey, but it's looking pretty tough.
Fresh updates.
Ladies, rate all the men 1 out of 10 based on looks alone.
Let's go!
Not fresh, though.
Yeah, not me, please.
We'll start here.
Start with him?
Yeah, start with him.
You're very tall.
You have nice eyes.
You have a good figure.
I like your watch.
Of course you notice what's up.
One out of ten.
Ten.
You, I like your hair.
I like your body.
You have a good skin color.
You guys look good in black.
Ten. What about him?
You're tan.
You look like an actor.
Like an actor?
Yes, he does.
I was thinking that.
You have a good accent.
I like your accent.
10. And your wallet?
Yeah, show me your pockets.
Oh, 10s?
Okay, cool.
So we're 30, right?
Fresh, you're 10. Oh, God.
Perfect score.
I'm not in this, man.
I'm too black.
All right, what about you?
I'm gonna say five for all of them.
You guys just aren't my type.
Nope! Hold on, what's your type, though?
Wait, what's your type?
I like Hispanic, who's tan.
He's tan?
You know what's funny?
I'm not Hispanic, but...
Everyone thinks I'm Hispanic.
Everyone thinks I'm Italian or Puerto Rican.
My dad's Iranian, born and raised in Iran.
My mom is born and raised in New York.
Her parents born and raised in New York.
And then I'm fully Jewish.
Damn. I mean, I would have been able to guess the J heritage.
What about you?
Me? Yeah.
One out of ten.
You're definitely conventionally attractive.
You're tall.
I like your build.
You have a good face.
You speak well.
I like it.
Ten. Okay.
I'd say you're attractive too.
You have a good build.
I like your outfit.
I like the slim shirt.
I'd say you're like an eight.
And I think you're attractive and you were nice when you came in here and said hi to me.
So I think you're also a ten.
Thank you.
Smash, smash, smash.
I wanna say hi too.
Oh shit, this is good.
Better than I saw.
What the heck?
Okay, what?
She wanna roast these niggas.
I wouldn't roast them.
I'm gonna give an honest answer.
You guys aren't my type, but that doesn't mean that I think you guys are unattractive.
So I can't really...
I don't know how to answer that.
I think...
Honestly, I think you're the most attractive to me, personally.
What's that one out of ten?
I don't really know.
I can't give you a number because...
Roughly. You can't offend us.
Go for it.
It's not about being offended.
Is it higher than your Instagram accounts?
the amount of Instagram or the amount of followers I got.
Um, Jeez Louise, can we come back?
Can we spin a block?
Just spit them out.
Come on, you got this.
Come on, Nikki.
No, no, no, no, no.
to give you know I'd say you're like a seven seven point eight okay seven point eight see
Just say it.
You're thick the way I like them.
I like my men thick.
In all regions?
I kid you not, I love thick men.
What? Yeah.
Moe. Moe.
Okay, so, what is he then?
I don't know.
That's what I'm saying.
Just say it.
I already know it's less than 7.8, so go for it.
No, I don't think so.
Eight? I think I'd give, I think you, I think, I don't know, about the same.
I think you're higher, brother.
I think you're about the same.
Okay. Okay.
Dustin? He's, what you'd say, socially attractive.
I don't know.
I'm going to say about a seven.
You're not ugly.
You're not ugly.
I'll take it.
Honestly, you guys are just not my type.
That's all.
Listen, I think we can tell right now, Dustin, you're the man of the hour.
Also, you guys are two as well, so that's good.
Alright, we'll go on to the actual next chat.
Okay, next Instagram?
Let's do it.
Alright, Sammy Gazda.
Who the heck is that?
That's me.
That's you?
Love that grad photo.
Thank you.
Oh, the mouse.
One of the three, though, right?
What's with the ATM?
See, this isn't that bad.
There's a couple in there, but it's not too bad.
I grew up in Miami.
So guys, wifey or not, we'll start with you, Dustin.
I would entertain it.
Hold on a second.
Hold on.
Hold on a second.
She's not my time.
Just based off the pictures.
Yeah, I would say girlfriend material at least.
Okay. Okay.
I would see no red flags with that profile.
Thank you.
But you have two more you said, right?
No, I didn't say that.
Okay, sorry.
No, I don't see any red flags with that one.
Hmm. Something's too perfect here.
Hold on a second.
Hold on a second.
Can we just bring it back for a moment?
All I saw was a bunny rabbit.
Oh, no, no, no.
I thought it was a hamster.
It was a hamster.
I used to have a hamster.
I love hamsters.
I just post cute stuff sometimes.
So I have a question because the gentleman here said that if you have even one selfie, it's a red flag.
And I'm seeing quite a few selfies.
There were two mirror selfies that I saw, but they weren't these selfies.
Those are weird, I'm not gonna lie.
Those are kind of weird.
There's a difference between showing off an outfit or showing off your body and shit like that.
I know I'm going through the weeds.
I can backtrack on the one.
It's when you scroll for 20 pages, and it's just you.
I was just saying, because he's like, if I see even one selfie, it's a write-off.
It's this one.
So, imagine my surprise.
Okay. You know what I'm saying?
And I'm like, oh, okay.
Well, apparently you passed this, so good job on that.
High five.
Okay, who's next?
We got two more to go.
Destin Heaven.
That's my middle name.
Destin Heaven?
Mm-hmm.
That's you?
That's an interesting name.
What kind of is your face?
That's the point.
Those pictures are from half a year ago.
Yeah. I don't post.
On that account.
No, in general, I don't post.
I'm a very private person.
Can we see the other ones?
Yeah, go ahead.
We can't see anything.
Were you raised in DR or were you raised here?
I was raised here.
But that first picture, those both pictures are in Dominican Republic.
Okay, you start first.
Okay, let's go from the point of view, for example, that she doesn't show a lot on Instagram.
How about that?
That point of view.
I think that's good.
Again, a girl who's posting non-stop selfies over and over, whether it's a selfie outside or a selfie on a vacation, which is even worse, then I don't see anything wrong with it.
Something like that.
That's simple.
Did you delete photos?
That's what I was just getting ready to ask.
Are you one of those that doesn't get enough likes and then deletes it?
Yeah, but same.
Okay. What about you for her page?
I think it's a green flag.
You got two pictures.
There's not much going on.
She's also not showing her face for a reason.
So, I'm just saying.
She's an attractive girl.
Show it off.
What do you believe the reason to be?
I don't know.
She's got three Instagram pictures and profiles.
No, no, no.
Forget the other two.
We're talking about the one that we have now.
You said she's covering her face for a reason.
What do you think that reason is?
I don't know.
In your guts of guts feeling.
Humor me.
She's hiding something.
I'm not hiding anything.
You're hiding something.
No. Because you're showing off a really nice tattoo you got on the side.
I have three tattoos, but yeah.
Okay. Why aren't you showing your face in those pictures?
I don't really like showing my face.
I'm going to be honest.
If you were my friend, I'm not going to lie.
That was a professional photo.
I sent my friends the professional photos.
My other Instagram has my face.
I'm going to ask you a question, though.
You say you don't like showing your face, but you're on a podcast.
I give people that Instagram from work, and people don't really know I'm on this podcast from work.
It had comments on there from Fresh and Fit.
Yeah. No, no.
They found her from the last show.
So question for you.
This isn't your main page, is it?
I like to think this is my main page, but my other page...
Oh, well, let's see that one.
Let's see the other one.
You want to see the other one?
Yeah. Because here's the issue, right?
Pages like that are low-key, and they're actually good because you don't see too much.
But it's because they have a real one that shows you way more.
But I'm not going to lie, like my other one, that picture, like...
The most recent picture, I think, is from high school.
Like, when I was...
Oh, hell no.
Yeah. Oh, that's...
Well, I don't even...
Nah, we good, we good, we good, we good, we good, we good, we good.
Nah, we good.
I mean, check it, check it.
Chris, check it.
Just make sure.
I mean, you can check it, like...
No, but her place is private right now.
Okay, nah, never mind.
So, don't worry about it, man.
She got a side tattoo.
It's fine.
She belongs to the street.
Alright, this one right here, Paris.
Oh, no, no, she done.
I want to ask you a question.
What the fuck is this?
Ask me a question.
Do you know the bop house?
Yeah. Can I go with you?
Girls, why do you want to go to the bop house?
Aren't you private?
What's wrong with you, man?
I'm a big fan of Camille.
Who? Camilla?
I don't know who that is.
Stop it.
Get some help.
Let's get you, bro.
Get me some help.
Okay fellas, this last one here.
No. What?
Dustin, why do you say no?
Look. You are fake news.
I kid you not.
It's a bikini.
Okay, what about you?
Hell no.
Hell no.
I'm sorry, but no.
You look like...
Hell no.
What about you, bro?
No, absolutely not.
You look, uh, way too young for me.
Aw, too young?
Way too young.
But I'm legal, so it's fine.
You look like one of the kids that got washed ashore from Epstein's Island.
No! No!
No! Is that a lot?
He deserves a Dr. Marshall post.
Dr. Marshall post.
No! No!
No!
We got that mo laugh.
Let's go!
We got that laugh for real.
Do me that mo!
Oh my god.
I'm good.
Paris, any response to that?
Uh, now you're a five.
Fuck the ten.
You were saying that earlier.
Okay. Uh, we'll go back to some chats real quick.
And then, uh, hit the second portion of the show.
By the way!
I think, uh, so far so good.
We're at a pretty even standstill right now.
No one's too triggering.
So good so far.
We'll see what happens next.
Alright. Next chat, of course.
Senor Granados says, if you aren't getting DMs, Big Moe is stealing your girl.
Oh shit, Moe, is that true?
You're stealing people's girls, bro?
That's Photoshop, bro.
Alright, buddy.
Can Newell says, she's just yapping nonsense.
Ruining the show.
Can someone else speak?
I think they're referring to...
What does that mean?
Shut your ass up.
Is that Canadian?
That's French.
French-Canadian, yeah.
Fresh updates?
I agree women are horny creatures.
They're freakier than men.
But only for a small percentage of men.
That's what I was saying earlier.
Social media is an illusion.
Girls simp over some guys online.
Maybe a couple of male strippers.
But the average man gets no attention from women.
A third of men aren't even having sex at all.
You want to respond to that?
I mean...
I mean, I can't speak to it.
I don't know.
The men that I'm around have sex.
I don't know what to say.
Your bubble, again.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
That's why I said...
Let me repeat myself.
I can't speak to that because the men I know are having sex.
Okay. So I cannot speak to that.
So, I don't know.
I mean, if anybody isn't having sex, I know men who pay for sex, so I really don't know.
Me too.
I don't know what to say.
Okay, you know what?
Real quick before we move on.
I think nowadays, especially, I got friends around the world, friends from all over, and they think it's a pay-to-play economy.
Which means, for example, nowadays girls are being paid to smash.
Paid to have fun, go out, get dinner.
And it's a norm now, which is kind of scary because, you know, back in the day, sugar sex were kind of like...
You know, a shame thing to do, like go on trigger sites?
That was more open.
What do you think, ladies?
Is that true?
Pay to play?
Yeah. Okay.
You have an example?
What? You have like an example of it?
Like someone paying to play?
Yeah. Like OnlyFans?
Okay. Yeah.
So again, I think the economy is changing now to more pay to play system for dating, but you tell me.
Yeah. I don't...
If you don't, it's fine.
I mean, I...
Yes, but also no.
Like... But why?
What? What the fuck?
Because, like, isn't that weird for men to pay for sex?
Like, why would you...
No, it is weird.
But, like, why would men...
Like, I have this mindset, why would a man degrade themselves to that level?
Like, what do you...
Damn, degrade.
That's not like...
Which is what I was trying to say earlier, which is why if you're doing what you're doing, then what kind of men are you attracting?
Hmm. Like, to me, that's the great thing as a man, but yes, men do pay, but I would never understand it.
A great man once said, men always pay, and the acronym is MEET.
Money, energy, tension, and time.
What about you?
Yeah, men do do that, and they were just raised wrong, and that's what leads the men that do do it to do it.
It's pretty disgusting.
Okay, for you?
No, yes.
Definitely. Definitely.
I find that a lot of men lead with that.
Yeah. Like, I've seen it happen where, like, my square homegirls are like, yeah, like, this guy hit me up and whatever.
And we went on a date and he gave me X amount of money and da-da-da-da-da.
Or he paid for my car to be serviced and bought new tires and blah-blah-blah-blah.
So, I think...
And those men are part of the problem.
Men like that, to me, I'm not gonna lie, I will use you and abuse you.
Of course, you see.
I think a lot of men don't realize how much...
Affluent men really do pay sex workers or engage in that.
And some of it is a power trip for them.
I understand that.
I know guys that do it, too.
So they're doing it, and from their perspective, they're like, hey, listen, I've got the money.
I can control this, and I can pay this.
I don't see it that way.
I've never paid for it.
You pay for it in other ways.
You pay for it in dinners, and you pay for it once you get romantically involved with other things.
But to pay for it up front, I hear these stories, too.
You're saying, pay for an extra thing at dinner.
That's crazy.
You've got dinner.
That's good enough.
Yeah, so it's a psychological thing, but there are a lot of men.
I think it's weird based on age.
I mean, I'm 37. When I was 19, I'm not going to lie, when I came on spring break to Miami, I slept with a high-class escort.
I was 19 years old.
That's a big yikes.
Yeah. I don't care.
I'm 37 years old right now.
I don't do that today.
Real quick, I'm just curious.
How was your experience?
Pause. What?
Because this should learn from example.
Was it worth it, you think, to pay?
Or was it better off not paying?
When I was 19?
Yeah. It was...
I don't know.
It was worth it, man.
The sex was great, if that's what you're asking.
But, like, I was 19 years old.
How much did you pay?
Really make it?
$400? Well, back then, that's like four grand now.
Yeah, back in college.
That was easy.
Why did you?
What, do you think I went to the street corner?
No. Yeah, I'm curious.
What made you want to pay?
What made me want to pay?
It was 19. It's because I was there for four days.
I was 19 on spring...
18, actually, on spring break vacation.
What was I going to do?
Would you do it again?
No, that's why I'm saying I did that when I was 19. People that are younger men are doing this.
The truth is, you guys are acting all surprised.
This is happening all the time.
No, I mean, I don't think it's the fact that we're more so surprised that you've done it.
I think it's your opinions that you have now.
They are coming across very...
It sounds like it's coming from somebody who's never engaged or interacted with people who've done sex work and never would because it goes against whatever moral or principles that you have.
So I think they're a little bit taken aback because like, wait, hold on.
You've done it.
Could it really be that bad?
It's like saying but it's the same thing as saying would you hook up with this girl and would you wife her?
Many people would say I would hook up with this girl, but I'm not gonna wife her.
No. Well, then I think you can turn around and ask the question of women.
Would you marry a man who pays for sex workers?
No. No.
How dare you?
We're talking 18 years ago.
I'm not saying that you currently do, but would you date a man that has paid for sex work?
My ex did, and I never went back to him after I found out about that.
Even if a man went to a strip club, I would leave him.
What? Oh, dang, sis.
Have you been to a strip club?
Yeah, many times.
Really? Have you?
Many times, but I've never paid.
I don't spend money when I go there, and I've never paid for something.
What goes to your head when you go there?
I was a bouncer when I was younger, so I worked in there, so I know the environment, so I already know how that goes.
And I go there to drink and hang out with my boys.
Let's keep it a beam, bro.
The food is amazing.
The food is the best food ever.
The food is amazing, bro.
I kid you not.
I kid you not.
Actually, fun fact.
All my business deals, I've closed, well, some of them, I've been at a strip club.
I'm sure.
I love going to a strip club.
No, if I'm a girl, I would go to a strip club as a girl, but like a guy, I would be so mad.
You know what's crazy?
For a date, I think it's actually pretty good.
It's so much fun.
I don't think you've really answered.
Would you date somebody that you knew that paid for sex in the past?
I have.
Okay, so it doesn't bother you.
So it's only you two.
Yeah, no.
I just broke up with a guy last night for going to a strip club.
Wait, wait, wait.
Your guy you had last show?
Yeah. He's gone now because he went to a strip club.
And I picked him up.
Chris, get on her ass, nigga.
Bro, so that's man 103 then.
Yeah. It's the same man from last time.
When did you meet him?
103. Like a month ago.
Two months ago.
Started dating him like a month ago.
Wasn't it two days ago?
Yeah, like, last week.
You said that last show.
Yeah, you said that last show.
Yeah, I know, but we've been talking, but, like, we actually locked in, like, last show.
Locked in?
Locked out.
Locked in.
Like, we started to, like, be like, okay, this is my boyfriend, this is my girlfriend.
So, you broke up with him because he went to a strip club?
Yeah, like, I broke up with him, he wasn't answering my phone, I was like, okay, this is your last chance, and then he was like, come pick me up, and it was a strip club, and then I was like, I'm done with you.
Which one?
I think it was booby trap.
On the river?
The one in the middle of nowhere, like a warehouse.
Love that one.
Diamond dogs.
You're terrible.
So, I think we can all agree here that sex work is disgusting.
Yes. And guys being for it is disgusting as well.
Yes. But, you would never know if a guy paid for it or not.
Let's be real here.
You would never know.
I found out.
How'd you find out?
I had signed up my ex-boyfriend for his therapy appointments and they ended up emailing me the transcripts where he admitted to having done what he did.
Sounds illegal.
Yeah, the psychiatrist is who gets in trouble, not me, because he's the one who released it.
HIPAA. Wow.
Guys, don't ever share your email with...
Therapist with your girl.
Or don't make your girlfriend sign you up for your fucking therapy.
Yeah, that was a red flag.
I should have known, but, you know, now we know.
The therapist should be in jail.
Oh, yeah.
So should my ex.
Why? Okay, what's the next one?
What's the next one, Bills?
Okay, cool.
So... Alright, this is the fun part.
Let's go a little bit deeper.
Summer, I have to play real quick.
So we'll start here on this end and then come up to the girls.
That's what she said.
So ask any girl this question and she has to answer it.
If not, any girl, not all the girls.
Just anyone you want.
Okay. Have you ever hooked up with a friend's sibling?
No. Do you have nudes of yourself or others saved on your phone?
Of yourself or others?
Both. You.
How do you know your partner is in the mood for sex?
How do I know he's in the mood?
They're normally very forthcoming, and they start feeling on me.
Or they just say, can I have some?
Yeah, something like that.
They're normally very forward.
They normally don't, you know?
No, what does that mean, though?
What do you mean?
What is what?
Like they say, I want to have sex, or can I get some head, or do you want to do it?
That second one's PTSD.
Or, like, I normally get the guys that say, do you want to do stuff?
Okay. I'm good off that.
That's funny.
I'm going to ask you, sir, over here in the corner, do you prefer making out or cuddling?
Making out or cuddling?
Yeah. Is this mine?
After sex?
I don't mind cuddling.
No, in general.
Just, do you prefer making out or cuddling?
I actually like kissing.
Really? Over cuddling?
Well, I said cuddling after sex, but you changed the question.
No, no, I'm just saying, it just says in general.
It doesn't say after sex or anything.
It just says, do you prefer making out or cuddling?
If it's no sex involved, making out.
Don't be a man.
W man.
I like that.
I like kissers.
Fresh I know it's on the first question you asked Sonax that you had sex with someone's sibling and destiny was laughing so Really
Let's elaborate.
Thank you.
Yeah, so you want to tell us what happened?
Yeah, okay Destiny, stop.
You ain't got to go.
We don't want to hear that.
First start to a story ever.
We are good off that one, my boy.
I thought she was the one from Epstein.
You what?
Good job, Grace.
Good job.
Okay. Anyone?
You. Do you prefer romantic sex or kinky sex?
Kinky. Kinky.
Yeah, knew that.
What kind of kinks are you into?
Not too kinky.
Like, don't, like, time me up or something.
What kind of kinks are you into?
I'm going to see if you're really kinky or not.
Deadass. You see the BDSM test results.
Yeah. We should do that live.
All of us.
Honestly, no, the test is too long.
Then I switch it up.
I think the other one...
No, no, no, no, no.
Wait, hold on.
What kind of kinks are you into?
Wait, wait, wait.
Stop the show.
Move. You know what I do?
Huh? What you know about his BDM?
It takes like 15 to 20 minutes to do it.
How do you know about his test, bro?
Wait. Because Moe is kinky.
Moe is hokey.
You guys don't know that?
You guys can't see it in his eyes.
He's a sub.
He's a sub for sure.
Just name one of your kids.
He said he's a sub.
For sure.
Like toes.
Really, Moe?
You like sucking on toes?
No, I don't suck on toes.
Oh. But like if a guy fucks with toes, that's how you know he's like a real man.
She does do everything with toes.
Oh, I was talking about that a few minutes ago, yeah.
Nah. This is for the panel.
What are three things you look for in a partner?
We'll start right here.
No crazy social medias.
Doesn't wear a lot of makeup.
Okay. Dresses properly.
Cool. Define proper.
Modestly? How you are right now is fine.
Modestly? Yeah, just covered up and stuff.
Not with waist and all that shit showing.
Modest. Okay.
Okay. For you?
All right.
Instead of honesty, I love transparency.
Instead of saying, oh, I went out with my ex last weekend on Thursday night.
Oh, my ex hit me up on social media.
He wants to have dinner with me.
That's much better.
That comes from a great family and knows what she wants in her future.
Good shit.
Very good.
If I can choose, and I knew, I would choose a woman that I knew had a good relationship with her dad.
That's a good one.
I don't know how I can always necessarily find out, but that's a big one.
I'm not gonna lie.
No one said looks, but looks, absolutely.
I have to be attracted to them.
Okay. Last one.
And honestly, slash boilerline loyalty.
Same. Yeah.
Okay. What about you?
Competency, looks, and a good sense of humor.
Okay. For you?
Ambitious, has a degree, And is loyal.
That's not me.
Okay, sorry.
What about you?
Oh, you gotta put up with me.
You gotta be a hustler.
And the sex.
You gotta like...
Oh shit!
Oh shit!
Because if the sex is bad, I'm probably gonna leave.
I believe her.
Why not teach your partner how to please you?
There's just some stuff you can't teach.
Not everyone can learn.
I mean, like what though?
Like what?
Yeah. Well like...
I like rough sex, but don't kill me sex.
Oh, so borderline make you pass out then?
Yeah, I like, uh, rough play.
So you're into masochism then?
Yeah. Like, my man's got his dominant.
And not all men can, like, be that in the bag.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
How old are you?
23. I don't want to say I'm dominant in the relationship,
but I can be I can be very aggressive and I need my man to be like hold the fuck up Don't act with me because you're gonna be putting your place So you want him to choke you?
Hell yeah!
Show me who's boss.
Aggressive? Yeah.
You know, it's crazy.
They're like, yeah, come aggressive.
Choke me.
Police! They hurt me!
I think we're missing a keyword.
They'll try to follow.
First of all, which is happiest to send.
What? It can change their mind the next day.
Exactly. No, but I've never done that.
Ayo, Fresh, they'll try to file a lawsuit when he gets a hundred million dollar deal, too.
Yes! That's scary shit.
How is that scary?
A hundred million.
It's kind of weird to see men get triggered by the consent word.
We're not triggered.
We're just aware.
You guys just started like...
Well, first of all, you're not a man.
We get actually...
I just don't think it's cool to be a rebel woman either.
I think women should be treated very dainty.
They don't want to be treated dainty.
Short-ended to stay up.
What do you mean by that?
In the bedroom, in our household, go all out.
I don't care.
Leave bruises.
I'd be afraid to hurt you.
You like that.
People seem to be shocked.
Why were you guys shocked?
I think the most innocent looking girls are the freakiest.
Once they find a guy that they're comfortable with, they become the freakiest, will do anything you want, and they're the most innocent looking, and sometimes the ones that are the opposite are the most boring in bed.
I'm still on your ass, Fresh.
So here's the issue, right?
A lot of girls will say this.
For example, choke me, slap me.
I love aggressive men.
Then what happens is, things don't work out how they should work out, and people get mad.
Then before you know it, I kid you not, we've seen all the time on the show, in public, on the news, she was attacked.
And I don't think this will happen in the beginning of the relationship, but if it's already out, and she's already tree branched out to somebody else, she can use that as a tactic to fuck him up if she took an L, too, because girls don't take L's very well.
My ex, the one that I'm digmatized by, he's done all that, help me, slap me, spit on me.
I've never said hey.
Because you're digmatized.
There's plenty of healthy relationships where that kind of sex goes on, and...
It's fine.
We're not saying it's bad.
We're just saying it can turn to that at some point.
You never know.
Sure it can.
There's seven billion people on the planet.
I'm sure one at least is going to have to happen.
I mean, for those people who do all that stuff, obviously I don't agree.
But like, so it's kind of be dominant and submissive.
When you're in that dominant and submissive relationship, your sub knows, like, even if the relationship ends, not to go out in public and not crazy.
Because that's just like BDSM.
Like, that's just the culture.
No. I don't know.
Missionary's fun.
Missionary's fun.
Listen, let's really disagree here because that's a bit different.
Okay, that's fine.
And then for you, two things in a man.
Money. Never been to a strip club.
One, money, obviously.
Three, loyalty.
Actually, like, loyalty...
Like, not too many bodies.
Like, below 10. If you have over 10, like, you're done.
I want to ask a question, because I hear this all the time, too.
What does loyalty mean to you guys?
When you define that, because loyalty for a man and a woman, I think it's two different things.
Like, answer.
Like, what does loyalty mean to you?
Don't call other girls behind someone's back.
Don't, obviously, sleep with any other girls.
Don't cheat, you know?
Like, don't.
Yeah, so it's just like no attention to towards another female from a sexual basis.
Yeah For me, I don't really like if you have any more friends I'm not gonna really care.
It's just like are you giving that art is your female friend taking it as a Are we gonna fuck type thing like that every female friend is one of the way I don't think so we all in Paris your your ideas about about men Looking at your pages and pussing nuts.
And I bet most of your customers are all married.
I don't even know who my customers are.
I don't run it.
So then Paris, like, why do you want your man to not focus on other women, but you are showing your asshole for $4.99?
$4.99?
$4.99 assholes.
$10.99.
So why?
Oh, $15.99.
It went up.
That makes it so much better.
Whoa. That's crazy, actually.
You would expect that of your man, but you're doing OnlyFans.
Yeah, seriously.
You put so much tight restrictions, like never can go to a strip club.
You literally just broke up with your boyfriend because he was going to a strip club.
And you are selling your ass on OnlyFans.
Yeah, to like weirdos.
Oh, okay.
That makes it so much better.
He was aware about it and consented to her doing it while they were in the relationship, so I don't see a problem.
It's fine, but she's judging him.
She would break up with him if you talk to another girl or something, but she's doing OnlyFans.
Yeah, I'm sorry.
It's just a double standard.
Yeah, it's kind of random because what you do is crazy.
Loyalty? Loyalty?
Yeah. Same thing.
Loyalty for you?
What is loyalty for you?
Oh, wait.
I didn't explain it.
No cheating.
No going to get a happy ending massage.
And just care about me.
Show me love.
Who hurt you, man?
Who hurt you?
What the heck?
That's so specific, bro.
What the fuck?
Reality to me is...
I would never, by the way, I would never.
Thank you.
What, happy ending?
No, I'd do it myself.
I'm better at it anyway, too.
What? I thought you were going to say you were going to do it for him.
I love you for us not like that.
I mean, my hands killed me my whole life, man.
Wow. Wow.
Wow. Wow.
Okay, what about you?
What about you?
Boys being boys.
Kidding. Boys being boys.
Kidding. Lotte.
Loyalty is just standing on your morals and your principles and standing for yourself.
So if you feel as though you're a man who believes in monogamy, then I would expect that you stand on your morals and your principles.
You need to be true to yourself before you can be true to anybody else.
I mean, that's about the closest one.
And for me, loyalty is just like being there and protecting you and saving you from half the shit that's going on over here and being there for you and taking care of you and guiding you.
To me, that's loyalty.
You know?
And being what a man is supposed to be.
It's always sexual for females, though.
It's funny because...
It's always sexual.
One word can mean one thing for us.
It's totally different for them.
But that's besides the point.
What do you think is the biggest issue in your sex life?
We'll start here.
Keep it real.
Don't cap.
Um, I think, actually, like, if you're having sex with someone and, like, they want it, like, all the time, like, you know what I mean?
Like, all the time, like, every single day.
But weren't you guys just saying before that women are hornier than men?
I didn't say that.
That's not what I said.
Don't misquote me.
To be honest, like, I'm barely ever horny.
I did not say that.
Yeah. I don't know.
So, you...
So, what's your...
Well, hold on.
Is it your schedule?
Do you want to know when she's going live?
Because, like, if you're saying every day, I mean, does J-Man watch you every day?
Isn't that a good thing?
Yeah, I know.
No, I mean, it's sometimes, like, it's weird.
Like, after a long time, like, it hurts.
You know what I mean?
Yeah. Like, you don't want to just get pounded every day.
Like, that's not good for you.
Wait. That's not good for you, honestly.
You're going to get UTI, and you're going to hurt, and you're going to be fucked up inside.
So, what's your average schedule like?
With your guy.
Like, if I'm dating someone, like, twice a week, like, once a week.
Yo! What?
That is horrible.
You know what?
Get out of here.
Get out of here.
That's horrible.
That's a lot better than a lot of men are getting.
Are you cool with that?
Not when you're in a relationship.
We're talking about being in a relationship.
Yeah, I'm aware.
I'm aware.
I'm still saying what I'm saying.
I mean, there's sexless marriages, but I don't know, like...
Me and the guys that date are, like, both busy.
Like, we don't just sit around every day and just fuck.
So I can tell why a guy went to strip club.
Damn. That's so fucking good.
You're right, you're right, you're right.
You're right.
No, there's a...
What was the question?
Just looking at Paris.
Because she's saying that she's tired of, you know, a man fucking her, pounding her, right?
I think she's boring in bed.
That's why a man has to do something.
You know what I'm saying?
Are you done yet?
He's like, oh, wait, let me finish.
Oh, I do say that, actually.
You see that?
What? You see that shit?
Once again, if she gets a guy's nut fast, she won't be in pain.
Yeah, actually, I love guys that nut fast, because, like, why are you going for ten minutes?
What? Are you talking, like, ten minutes of just penetration?
Are you talking about, like, including foreplay?
No, like, just fucking.
Okay, just penetration.
Yeah, like, I feel like three minutes is, like, perfect.
Wait, you like black guys?
Sometimes. That's why her manners are beat up.
She said ten minutes.
What? Oh my, wow.
Okay. Chris, she ain't ready, bro.
She ain't ready.
Alright, what about you?
So again, what do you think is your biggest issue in your sex life?
Finding a dominant man in bed.
You don't, like, misunderstand the question?
So you're telling me, after all this time, 23 years old on Earth, you didn't find one guy?
Are you really including the whole 23 years?
Okay, I'm gonna be honest.
We have three bodies, so it's hard finding someone who...
I mean, I think he's killed, man.
He's not dead.
I'm gonna fuck you when he comes home.
Are you sure?
Wait, she said that.
Yeah, you guys missed a couple of episodes.
I guess so.
Okay, so he's the only guy.
He's the only guy that, like, gives me what I want in bed.
What if one person was here on the panel that could do the same?
She's not attracted to any of us, though.
Yeah. Are any of you guys Hispanic?
She likes Latins.
He's Hispanic.
No, he's not.
I can say I am, but...
I have a house in DR. I don't like black guys, but I don't like white guys.
Wait, you're a Dominican, right?
I'm not white.
Hold on.
Dustin. I'm not white.
I have a house in DR. Oh, I'm trying to get like you.
You have a password, bro?
I don't like that word, but that's where I'm going now, yeah.
Wait, Dustin, don't you have something to show her on your arm?
He's committed.
Oh, okay.
Wait, yeah, you're really committed.
DR's second home, it's really good.
Yeah, I wanted to buy a house in DR. These committed guys.
He gets that so he's safe over there when he goes.
Yeah. It's DRDR news a lot to me.
I love DRDR.
DR saved me from a couple of really bad times in life and I love that country and the people are amazing.
They're very sweet.
They're very kind.
I've never met a culture like that anywhere and I've been going there for over 10 years so I went there before it was a passport bro thing.
No, no, Dominican women are toxic.
Yeah, they can be.
Y'all are crazy.
Caribbean women.
They can be.
They can be.
Jeez, dang, you have to bring me down with you?
Jeez Louise.
I'm sorry.
Guys, to be fair, that's a completely different culture over there.
Right, if you don't play us on Rumble and as well on YouTube, guys, we support the show.
Thank you for watching.
And again, they are crazy, though.
They can be.
Hold on.
Tell us a story about DR, if you don't mind.
I need a lot.
A cool one, a cool one.
Yeah, they can be.
Y'all are crazy.
I don't know that I have any right now.
I go over there to relax and chill.
Which part?
I'm in Santo Domingo.
Okay, me too.
So I'm in the capital.
My family's from there.
I like it.
It's just a different vibe.
And like I said, the people are different.
I'm not going crazy.
I actually go over there to just relax and chill and get away from this craziness.
It's a totally different vibe.
Traveling will open up your eyes a lot.
Yeah. What about you?
Biggest issue in your sex life?
I wouldn't say it's anything within my control.
It would just be any variable that I can't.
So it would be the man I'm with.
It's up to him how good he is, I guess.
So you're saying that it's perfect on your end?
Yep. Yeah.
Okay. I'm confused, but so no issues at all?
Right. Like there's none that are within my control.
I do what I can.
And I guess the...
Exactly. So the biggest issue would be potentially whoever I'm with, like, that's on them.
Cool. What do you like, though?
I'm going to plead the fifth again.
Nope. What would you...
I don't have any complaints about my sex life, to be honest.
Like, I have none.
I know.
I'm sorry.
It's a very anticlimactic response.
I have none.
Okay, we'll go over here.
What's the biggest issue of my sex life?
Well, I'm single.
Having sex every night.
You really want to have sex every night, though?
No, I'm saying I want one girl.
I'm talking about every single night a different girl.
No, no, no, no, I'm saying like...
Continuous sex with the same person.
I already am having that, but I'm saying I have no problems with my sex life.
Okay, so your sex life's great.
So I'm saying...
Yeah, just continue having sex.
Look, there we go.
We're lit.
We're lit over here.
We're lit.
Wait, you fuck every night?
Me? No, no, no.
I said I have no issues in my sex life.
I'm high-fiving them because we're all content with our sex life.
How about I say, nigga?
Alright, what about you?
Besides the fact that I've only slept with Long Island girls.
That's where my mom's from.
Mineola? I'm sorry to hear that, brother.
Well, I'm definitely not sleeping with your mom.
I don't think she would either.
It's okay.
Yeah, I got time, guys.
Nah, I...
I don't know.
I'm at the age now I'd rather have somebody long-term and just consistent, great sex life.
Transparency again.
You know, I want this.
I want that.
What makes a great sex life?
What? What makes a great sex life?
Just knowing each other.
Knowing what hits and what doesn't.
Knowing what is off-limits and what you can explore.
Go ahead.
Okay. Are you okay?
With girls who don't have a lot of bodies and you have to teach them how to pleasure you.
I mean, that's kind of what every man wants, right?
Yeah. Some guys want a girl who has the full package.
What? Who said that?
I've met men who are like, I don't want no newbie.
I want a girl who knows what she's doing.
That's why they go for girls who look crazier because they're like, oh, they're definitely really good in bed if they look like that.
The problem is that if a girl's experience like that, She did it on somebody first.
Oh, yeah.
We don't want that show.
And that's all I can think of.
If I'm intimate with a girl and she's going hard on it or she's doing something outside, she's...
Asking to be choked and slapped and shit.
I'm thinking how many other dudes have done this to her?
Wow, you're in a girl and you're thinking about another man?
No! That is crazy!
Before that, I'm just thinking if that's the game plan, that's me.
No, I understand that.
I like giving instructions.
I think that's hot.
Tell your girl how to do it.
What you like and teaching her what you like.
Yeah, that's being dominant.
It's harder to untrain bad habits than it is to teach new ones, too.
So, you know.
I want to be brainless when I'm in there.
I don't want to think about anything.
I just want it to flow.
I don't want to have to teach you anything.
I don't want to know, like...
Yeah, for a girl, you want a man as experienced.
But for us...
Yeah, but if we're leading, then you can be brainless.
Like, you know, that's the way it should be.
I mean, yeah.
Like, typically.
I mean, to be fair, women are brainless.
Alright, what about you?
What was the question again?
Stupid! What was that?
Biggest issue in your sex life?
What's your biggest issue?
No, no problems with sex life.
I mean, the biggest thing is getting to the sex part and weeding out the trash and getting to the right one is the biggest problem.
Yeah. You know, because there's a lot of trash.
It's Miami.
It is what it is.
Men too, by the way.
Men and women.
I mean, it goes bad on both sides, but it's just, that's the biggest part is weeding out the garbage.
Good point.
Okay, we got any more chats before we hit the next one?
Alright, Mr. B93.
Toronto girl.
First of all, if you're going to speak in French, stop using Google Translate.
That was terrible French.
Horrible. The sentence is backwards, so I know you definitely Googled that.
I don't know what it is that you guys are Googling things and think you guys can come and talk to me.
I'm actually educated.
I actually speak the language.
I don't understand what you're on.
But your rubricos make the show funny.
That Cuban...
Blue dress has some cake.
Nineteen-year-old has no ass at all.
Earlier, we saw a rotating pole on the pole.
That Destiny girl needs to go back and detox Mo Goldburn.
Remember that after yacht?
What after the yacht?
I want to know.
Because I'm sober.
I can't do drugs.
I don't drink.
She's still not clean.
I want to know.
What the fuck happened on the yacht?
Nothing. We went to a strip club.
I had fun at the strip club.
Moe, why is that you're always behind all of these, like, scandals?
What the fuck is that?
Moe! I don't know.
I just mean, I just mean at home.
No, because we were at the strip club together, Moe.
What happened at the strip club?
I want to know.
I'm not going to lie.
I heard that Moe had somebody twerking on his forehead.
I think I got the video of that, I ain't gonna lie.
Guys, you know what?
If we get 2k likes on this video, we might show it on YouTube.
The video of Moe getting...
You know what, Moe?
I always thought that you were innocent.
I am innocent.
We almost there.
That's crazy.
That's actually pretty funny.
Mo's a real freak.
What do you like in bed, Mo?
I was there too.
So you know, I was throwing money while he was getting...
Yeah, I'm saying.
Mo, what do you like in bed?
What's an ideal sex life to you, Mo?
I want to know.
What? Mo.
I just like to donate to the church and to the non-profit.
Mo, sometimes the nuns get you off.
I like that for you.
Mo, thank you for the Lambo, bro.
Oh, man.
You know, anytime, bro.
You know, I like to give back.
Thank you for the Lambo, bro.
Can Mo fit in Lambo?
Oh, Jesus wept.
Damn. Yo!
It's yours!
I'm trying to be exactly clear here, man.
Okay. I should be in two wheels.
Good shit, good shit, good shit.
Don't worry, ladies.
We roast each other.
It's all right.
Yeah, we do.
We do.
We do.
Guys, this Friday we're doing a sub-a-thon on Rumble Only.
It's going to be insane.
Special guests.
A lot going on.
More stuff like this happening as well.
And we're going for like 12 hours.
12 hour stream.
We're going insane.
Guys, hope you're ready for this show, man, because it's going to be long.
But Summathon on Friday.
Mine's going to be back.
It's going to go crazy here in the studio with you guys.
Special guests.
It's going to be insane.
So check it out on Friday.
We'll let you know the time, but until then, we'll see you there.
Okay, what's the next one?
Okay, well, we have the girls' questions.
Oh, we do?
Yep. Oh, can we get the questions over there?
But no, I think...
I think having boundaries is good.
And then Fresh, we have the video we haven't seen yet.
Yeah, we'll play after.
Okay, cool.
Okay, what is the biggest misconception men and women have about each other when it comes to modern dating?
Wow, see, I knew it.
You're a freak.
What? It's not what it looks like.
We had you to have a conversation after this.
There you go.
Um... Okay.
We kind of covered this a little bit earlier.
So we'll...
Let's get this one for now.
Unless you guys want to answer again?
I'll pass.
What goes through your head at a strip club?
This is you!
I'm just so mad about the strip club, honestly.
Why? I just can't get over it.
Because I was dating a guy, and I liked him, and he went to a strip club, and now I just can't get over it.
But was he, like, doing champagne rooms and shit?
No, he was there for 30 minutes, and then I came and kidnapped him and got him.
But why'd you pick him up if you were gonna break up with him?
Just to get him out of there, honestly.
I would've left him there.
Hell no, I would've cried.
Did you fuck him?
Did I fuck him?
That night.
The night of the...
No. What the...
No wonder.
That's why.
Hell no.
So, what'd you do?
Just take him home?
Domestic violence.
Call the police.
I expect that from Destiny.
I trapped him in the closet.
He kept him there.
RKR Kelly.
Shit, I can't say that name.
What goes through your head at a strip club, Dustin?
Yeah, Dustin.
I go to hang out with my boys.
I don't really go there for the girls.
I don't throw money like that.
Different in the club.
She wouldn't like me there.
I'm the guy that gets $1,000 and puts it there and makes them all come to me to try and work for it, but I don't give it away.
I'm that asshole.
What's the logic behind that?
I don't know.
It works.
So you do it to attract women to talk to?
Yeah, just like your Instagram.
So you're paying to win, too.
No, but I don't give it away.
But I'm making money off of it, so it's not the same thing.
Yeah, no, I get it.
I get it.
That's what I was saying.
What's the logic behind it?
I don't really go anymore.
This has been years and years ago, but I haven't been in a long time.
Wait, hold on a second.
We're not going to skirt past and I answer the question.
That doesn't make any sense.
What's the logic?
The logic is that they're all hungry for the money, and they're all going to come to it, and they all want to get a piece of it, so they come over to get it.
But most of the time, they come to the table, and if they're chill and you vibe, then you can hang out.
I don't like the dancers thing and I don't like you being on top of me and I don't want your glitter on me and all that bullshit.
I just want to chill and we can talk and I'll buy you some chicken wings.
I'll treat it like a date, but I normally just go with my boys when I go.
I've never been to the back.
I don't really do that.
So you're doing it for the attention.
There's a back?
Yeah, champagne rooms.
VIP and champagne rooms.
That's where my ex went.
That's where your ex was for 30 minutes.
And you're not supposed to do nothing back there, but shit goes on back there.
You know what I mean?
They play a minute and a half long songs.
Which is why I'm not back there.
Hold on.
I'm not a crip.
Can you stop affiliating me with the gang?
Can you tell me with a straight face?
You've never been in the back?
No, no, I have, but I don't do BFB dances anymore.
What do you mean?
Who lies about being in the back?
What happens in the back?
You've been back there at least once.
Maybe you didn't fuck back there, but you've been back there.
Hold on a second.
Hold on.
Pause. Pause.
Pause. Pause.
Why are you there, then?
Pause. You're gonna stop.
Answering just to respond because I literally just said I have been in the back.
I no longer go to the back There's no cap in that because my colleagues can confirm that I do not go I do not do VIP dances It's it's too risky for me back there I've had instances where men have gotten violent back there and because it's private It takes time for security to get to me.
I'm not doing it anymore But I don't know where the cap was but take time to listen to me for your response.
My bad.
She dusted in the car I really knock you out right now.
Come on.
Is he lying though?
I didn't hear a denial.
Is he lying though?
No, no, no.
I don't do any of that.
I'm strictly a dancer.
What goes through your head at strip club?
Ass and teddies.
That's what we're there for.
Honest man.
I only go once in a while, but yeah.
I want to see it all.
What's your name at strip club?
I don't know.
I've been here for a month.
Really? I'm talking about in general.
I never sit here.
Bro, you know what?
I'm going to take you out.
I got you, brother.
Alright. We'll take him out.
We have really good strip clubs.
I mean, we never met before.
I'll take you out, bro.
I got you.
Can we all go?
Yeah, let's go.
Let's bring your friend here.
Yeah, let me go so I can get my lick back, please.
No, I'm going to a male strip club.
I already told him that.
I was like, I'm going to a male strip club.
I'm not going to lie.
I like strip clubs and I do not like male strip clubs.
Hold on.
Chat, tell us if Paris should come with us to a strip club.
You guys tell us in the chat.
No one for yes.
Two for no.
Just for the reaction.
She's 19. Old enough.
She's 19. I know the owner of the strip club.
Girls really only need to be 18 to get in.
Most of them are 18 over for girls.
Oh my gosh, where I'm from, you can be 18 and get into a strip club.
You can't drink, though.
Listen, I know what Chad's going to say, so thank God.
But what about you?
What do you think about strip club?
What goes along your head?
If I go to a strip club, which is...
Actually, very rare.
Just to have a good time, vibe.
And the one thing I'm avoiding is if there's a girl that I'm not attracted to in any way, I do not want her to come up to me.
Start talking to me.
Start chatting with me.
The answer is no.
I don't want to go to the back.
I don't want to dance.
Don't fucking bother me.
Are you ever just, like, flat-out rude to them?
Like, fuck you, get away from me.
No, no, no, no.
What's the point?
I say it's not for me.
I've said some mean things before.
Get your greasy ass off my lap.
It's not a cold day in hell, bitch.
No, no.
I haven't done that.
I joke around.
I kind of believe that you have.
The chat has spoken, Paris.
It was Easter when he went, too.
Isn't that so crazy?
Maybe he was a missionary trying to save him.
Like, God forbid a guy should have spread the gospel.
Yes, sir.
The chat said...
Hell no, so you're not going to us.
Okay, well, I'm going to the male strip club and I'm going to the back room.
I'll take a video.
Yeah, we're going.
Tonight. My nigga, you're a kid.
Relax. Tell me about a pivotal moment.
Wait. Wow.
Go ahead.
Rewind. No, go ahead.
No, no, no, no.
Go ahead.
No, I'm good.
Yeah, I got time, cuz.
Sam, are you agreeing with this?
Sam. Fam!
Fam, that was Tizzix.
Holy, that was truth, though.
What? Tell me about a pivotal moment in your life.
Huh? Pivotal moment in my life.
Starting my business.
You know, going to the next level.
So that was about 12 years ago we started it, and yeah, it was a big change.
How much are you making now in like a year, roughly?
It's up there.
Smart math.
How many figures?
Well under the six figures.
How much a month?
Wow. Yeah, I mean, it varies.
Our months are up, but it could be anywhere between 40 and 80k a month.
And that's net?
Or gross.
Wait, hold on.
Paris, why are you laughing?
How much do you make a month?
I'm not doing this again.
I quit.
No, no, tell us!
Yeah, share, please share.
Oh my god, they already know.
Yeah, she's making $180k a month.
I don't know.
Whoa, why do you know that?
He did his research on you.
Are you making like Camilla's figures?
She's making $180,000 and you don't want your boyfriend going to a strip club?
My best month I made $180,000 but it varies around $100,000 at the least to $200,000 at the best.
But you did a lot to do that and you don't want your boyfriend?
That's the deciding factor?
Men benefit from double standards all the time.
Mo, you are a ladies man.
I am jealous.
Oh my God.
We gotta stop subscribing to that shit.
We gotta stop subscribing to that.
It's Photoshop.
Do better, please.
That's how we fix the problem.
I don't know what I do with the money.
What do you do with the money?
My parents invest it, buy properties.
Your parents know about this?
Yeah, my parents get all these things.
I just need you to take a moment and think about it for real.
I could not tell my parents if I was to do OnlyFans.
My parents paid for my boot job and said go do OnlyFans the day I turned 18. You don't need to tell them, let's find out.
Let me talk to your Paige's parents.
My parents, bro.
Your name is Paige, right?
Paris. Oh, Paris.
Yeah. It doesn't matter what she's on the bed.
My sister's name is Paige, that's why.
Oh, really?
You got me confused with your sister?
Oh, Jesus!
What about the rest of you guys?
Yeah, okay, so a pivotal moment in your life.
And you can't say start your business because you said that.
I know, I know.
First time I saw S in Chinese.
There you go.
Bro, these are the men that we need to stay away from.
Right. That's fine.
Imagine we were like the first time we saw dick.
We love dick and balls.
Yeah, you guys would've been like,"I love dick and balls." Nigga, you have OnlyFans!
What are you saying?
If you were a girl, you would have OnlyFans.
I don't have OnlyFans.
You know what I would have?
I'll be a finesser, dawg.
And that's what I am!
No, no, no.
I wouldn't put myself out there.
I wouldn't do that.
But I'm too private for that.
I'm a very private person.
I can give a real answer.
When I met Robert Kiyosaki.
There you go.
That guy's fucking awesome.
He is awesome.
I know you've had him on here.
Yeah. Love that episode with him.
And, yeah, he just changed my outlook.
Awesome. You read his books?
Oh, yeah.
He's the...
Yeah. Rich Dad, Poor Dad, right?
Quadrant. Quadrant.
Yeah. He's the man.
I read it, too.
He's awesome.
What about you?
Moment of your life?
Pivotal? Pivotal.
Keeping it real.
When I got sober off of drugs.
What were you on?
Another high fives?
Yeah, let's do it.
I did that too.
What's the question?
What were you on?
Opiates, pain pills, mostly.
Okay. And then, yeah, opiates and pain pills.
Good stuff, man.
And then I stopped.
I haven't done it for about close to eight years now.
Congratulations. Good for you.
That's tough.
Good stuff, bro.
Yeah, I'm an open book.
I have a lot to hide, actually.
Skeletons in the closet.
I believe you.
Okay, what's the next one, Bills?
Oh, you want to do your video brush?
Yeah. So guys, this video was actually circulating a lot past three days on social media.
Shout out to our boy, The Desirable Truth.
And this showcases a lot of modern-day dating, especially relationships nowadays.
So you guys tell me your opinion after watching this video, but I think it's very telling of where we're going in the future and currently where we're at.
So we'll play real quick.
I'm 26. I'm 30. And how long have you been together?
Four years.
Yeah, four years.
If you guys were to break up, who do you think it would affect more?
The truth is, I think it will affect me more.
But also the truth, I don't think we will ever break up.
That is the truth.
This is something that a lot of men don't say, but I believe that men are truly more emotionally attached to anything they actually get themselves into.
Especially in a relationship.
So, do you think that the relationship functions better when you, the man, is more emotionally invested in her?
A hundred percent.
I think so.
How come?
I just think that when the girl is too invested, she sacrifices herself too much.
But when the man is the one that's too invested, he can afford to, you know, be way more invested than the girl.
Why the double standard there in that scenario?
I personally believe that there's no double standards.
You know, I believe that as a man, you should become a provider, you know, and that you should also be emotionally invested in a relationship that you're in.
But why do you feel like you wouldn't be as hurt as him?
Will you be hurt, though?
Yeah, I'd be very, very hurt.
But we've been there before.
Whoa, whoa, wait.
Like, you broke up with him already?
Oh, shit!
We weren't really official, yeah, but we were trying things out.
In the beginning, it was very tough because we're very similar but different in a sense, you know?
So we're always offering each other a lot of friction.
And especially when two people just get to know each other, you know, it's always going to be hard in the beginning.
But that's where most people fall off instead of actually just keep going and giving it a try.
Yeah, it's true.
We're making it work.
Bro, she cheating, man.
Yo! I was just gonna say, she's been cheating on him the whole relationship.
It's gotta be a generational thing.
That's wild.
Let's start right here.
Tell us your opinion.
Is she cheating?
Is he cheating?
And is it gonna last?
I think it's gonna last because that guy is definitely really locked in.
But I don't think she's cheating.
Is she locked in?
Yeah, I think so.
You're cooked.
I don't think she's locked in, I'm gonna be honest.
I mean, in my opinion, I feel like both emotional investments have to match.
Because if the man is putting in too much, the man is sacrificing too much.
If the woman is putting in too much, she's sacrificing herself.
So I do agree with that.
But I feel like it should be equal.
It's impossible.
Let's say it can be equal.
Which gender has to be more into it for it to work?
Men or women?
For example, who has to be more invested in that relationship for it to work?
Men or women?
I don't know.
If you had to choose one gender, men or women?
I really don't know.
I'm gonna be honest.
Stupid! What about you?
I think it just depends on the individual relationship and the person's needs.
I want someone who's emotionally invested.
The guy in that video seemed emotionally invested.
That's something I'm attracted to.
I like emotional intelligence.
I like you telling me how you feel.
So I think he's locked in.
I don't know about her fully.
I don't know if their personalities really match, but he seemed really invested, and I thought that was really sweet.
We don't know, based on a small video, whether she's doing that, but my guess, I don't know.
I don't think they're going to last, but most people don't.
You know, 50% divorce rate and all that.
Can't avoid it.
All right.
For you?
I believe that in order for it to work, the man needs to be more emotionally invested.
Really? What?
That's only what I've been told by a variety of couples who are like 30 plus years in.
They all say that the man, you need to love, like your husband needs to love you.
I mean, I'm just gonna go ahead and say these are people who have been married for decades and never got a divorce, whatever the case is, very traditional.
And I'm just gonna go with the experts on the subject, right?
Like I haven't been married, let alone for 30, 40 years.
If a man is so invested in you that he kind of like puts himself last.
Is that hot to you?
That he puts himself last?
I'll put you first.
Is that hot to you?
Keep it real.
How can he lead when he's in that role?
Keep it a bean.
To me, a good leader is always thinking about those he's leading first.
That doesn't necessarily mean that he put himself last.
I think that there's a balance.
But if a leader is all about self or the majority of self, that's more of a dictatorship than, you know, leadership.
And that's just not where my ethics and my morals come from.
We'll come back to you.
I think girls take advantage of guys when they show too much emotional attachment, Not just attachment, but emotional actions.
I think the girls should be the ones that say good morning.
I don't think a guy should be sending good morning texts.
I don't think they should be the one to hunt you down.
I think the attention and the emotion should be more stimulated from the girl's end.
Okay. Definitely.
Yeah. He's definitely more invested in her than she is in him.
She's the more likely one to cheat on him.
Then he is to cheat on her.
That relationship is not going to last.
You saw her reaction when he asked, who's more vested?
Yeah. If it works?
She was like, ah.
Exactly. Crazy, bro.
That pause alone.
It's insane.
Well, yeah, and they paused, too, when they were saying they've already kind of gone through some struggles.
What I took away from that is she's probably already cheated, and I feel like he's chasing her back and trying to win her back already.
And it's just doomed.
He's going to chase her until she goes and fucks some other dude, and then that'll be it.
So, funny story.
You know what's funny about these videos, right?
I mean, I'm a realist.
I've been dating for four years, though.
Yeah, four years is crazy.
Off and on.
By the way, Miami's very small.
So, you know, at some point, you're going to see somebody that you know in these videos.
Yeah, I've run into a few.
I just think that, like, he doesn't know it's over, but it's already over.
Because, nigga, she belongs to the streets.
I'm going to say that.
But nonetheless, I think in this video, it shows that a lot of men are invested in women.
And that is fine.
The problem is, though, is that a woman's not invested in them more.
So what happens is they do too much.
They go overboard and they give them the world.
But let's be real here.
She's doing her own thing.
Keeping it real with you.
Because her answers alone, and knowing her as well, for the streets.
Do you know her personally?
I know of her.
But it's funny because people that I don't know are saying the same things.
Oh, yeah, so I was right.
Yeah. But it's funny when you said it.
They're going to be together.
I'm so young, man.
I feel sorry for you.
Come on, it's Paris, man.
She's naive, man.
Yeah, it's fine, though.
She's young.
Yeah. Nah, she's not.
We can see that.
I guess she's young.
What? What?
What? Nothing.
Let's move forward.
Okay. Next chat.
Last thoughts?
No more chats left.
Chats? Okay, cool.
With the last thoughts, I kind of want to go a little bit longer.
We agree.
We agree.
All right, man.
All right, chat.
Hey, listen.
Up to you, man.
You know what, chat?
This is what I'll do.
If you guys like this episode, let me know in the comments down below, and we'll make it way longer next time at more games as well.
But then again, we need Mario here as well.
It'll be even funnier.
Alright, so we'll start here.
Thoughts on the show?
Hate it, love it.
How was it for you?
It's good.
I enjoyed it.
First time on.
It's cool.
Nice meeting everybody.
It was cordial.
Nothing went crazy.
Nobody got too sauced up and left and got mad.
A couple eye rolls, but that's about it.
Question. Who would you take on a date from these girls right here?
That's tough, man.
Just, if you had to pick somebody.
Just for argument.
And not knowing what I know?
Yeah. Her.
Me? Yeah.
Whoa! Damn, she's surprised, bro!
Just a shock!
You're staring at me!
Shock! I was really fine!
I was already looking at her, I was like...
We're not talking about wife and shit, we're just talking about going out on a date and have fun.
I'm about to tell you some things in a different language.
What about you?
I had a lot of fun.
Thanks for inviting me.
Appreciate it.
It's been nice meeting you all.
And yeah, definitely do it again sometime.
Thank you for coming, bro.
It's funny.
I don't know you two very well, but you did awesome on the show.
So congrats for coming.
I think the audience would like you two as well.
So good stuff.
Real quick, you as well.
Who would you pick?
Let's say...
Okay, the crazy one?
I'm not crazy.
You're not healed because if you were healed and you weren't crazy anymore, you wouldn't be in therapy anymore.
You ever did a girl from DR before?
Yeah. I'm sorry to hear that, brother.
You're still here?
Breathing? I'm impressed, bro.
You're still breathing?
That's crazy.
Do you mind if I ask you a question?
What's your type?
Like physically?
Yes, you do.
You know what your type is.
I think all four of you are attractive.
What is your preference?
My preference.
I think that Jim Carrey was attractive in his heyday.
He's not my preference.
What? Let me tell you something.
I used to have a thing for Bill Nye the Science Guy.
Bill! Bill!
Bill! Okay, out of the three, which one would you prefer to date?
India girls!
Yeah. Hell yeah!
Okay, ass or titties then.
Are you an ass man or a titties guy?
Oof. Oof.
Titties. Okay, there we go.
So we do have some of a preference.
You know what I'm saying?
I know you're a liar.
Let the man breathe.
Let him breathe.
Damn. What's the safe word?
George Floyd.
pineapple juice.
What's the question?
What is it?
What? Who said that?
Is that great, man?
First of all, he's not even that word.
Let's start there.
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding.
Yeah, right.
Okay. The question is, how's it short for you?
Hit it, love it.
And then, who'd you take on a date over here?
Oh, the show was great.
First time on here.
Better than I expected.
It was fun.
The vibe was chill.
Who would I take on a date?
Yeah, after.
Because of what she said, she likes her.
No! No!
Let's go!
So there ain't no problem with the slapping then.
Listen, we already understood.
We're here.
I have a type.
You guys are not really my type, but I have a particular type.
What's your type?
I like short, tan, fat ass, and skinny.
5'2".
You like travel size, fun size.
5'2, 5'1, yeah.
I'm 5'3.
I'm 5'4.
Well, I don't know.
You're all sitting down.
But, um...
And I can't see your asses, so...
But, uh...
I mean, if you want to see...
If you want to see...
I mean, if they want to.
If they don't want to get out, I could give up, but I don't think they want to do that.
You don't need to twirl out of me.
Come on.
We saw.
We saw.
But we didn't see.
All we gotta do is log in.
Well, they saw us on the livestream earlier.
They saw me, and I got a comment about my ass being fat, so thank you for that.
You got fat?
Oh, yeah, no, they did say that she had a fat ass earlier on.
Ass over cheese.
Ass over cheese.
No, I'm not a comment.
I'm not an ass man.
I'm okay, I'm okay.
You sure?
It's alright.
Thank you.
Well, either way, he chose his girl, so thank you for coming, bro.
What about you?
How was today's show?
It was actually not as volatile as I thought it was going to be.
Wait, wait.
The audience told me that you left last show with your friend.
I told him, hey, listen, you left because your friend wanted to leave.
It's been an okay show with you, but next time I'm going to do it again.
If you leave, then there's no advice.
Realistically, if you're going to take issue with the fact that I left with my ride...
No, I'm being very clear with you right now, okay?
Normally, I don't take her back, but our audience is like, yo, Chris, last time she left the show, and I said, you know what?
She left because her ride left, you know what I'm saying?
So it wasn't an issue with me bringing you back.
I think she did okay today.
Did okay?
Don't do that.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
She did aight.
You did aight today, and the chat forgave you a little bit, so you're good.
Fuck the chat.
The chat don't like me.
The chat don't like me.
Don't do that.
The chat was on my ass.
You would have thought that their nose was in it.
The fat one that I'm sitting on.
The one that you were looking at when you went in the elevator.
That doesn't mean you aren't looking.
My ass.
It's my dog I was looking at.
What do you mean?
That's true, I believe him.
I believe you, Fresh.
I believe you.
I believe you.
Fresh is correct.
Are we really going to stress Moe?
What? Moe!
What? I don't want to hear nothing.
You had a stripper twerking on your forehead.
What? Last night.
That was photoshopped.
What do you mean last night?
There were like several pictures.
That's a lot of photoshopped.
Listen. One thing I will tell you this.
Straight up.
Tell me two things, babes.
Tell them fresh.
What about you?
I had a fantastic time.
I love a stimulating intellectual conversation.
Love you guys.
This was great.
Thank you for coming.
Who would you go on a date with?
Yeah, I was going to wait for you guys to ask.
Low-key, you were mean at first, but I fuck with you.
Okay, okay.
What about you?
What I want to date with you, please and honestly Probably you you're mad chill Johnny's chill.
Yeah, you're chill mad So I think that you and I could have like a time like on a date
I like fun dates.
I'm very fun.
I like fun dates, too.
I love fun dates.
I love adrenaline.
I'm an outdoorsman.
I feel like me and you could.
Right there.
Right there.
Wait, so Nikki, would you smash on the first date, though?
Pardon? Would you smash him on the first date, though?
No. Yo, Chris!
Stop. Stop, Chris.
Alright, what about you?
It's always a pleasure being on here.
So... I'm not...
We're gonna find you a guy.
I can give you what you need in the bedroom.
We'll find you a guy.
But before that, who would you go on a date with?
Um, you seem like you can give me what I need in the bedroom, so you.
Falcon Punch!
Okay! She got two!
Alright, what about you, Paris?
How was the show for you?
It's always super fun.
It's always something new.
This one is definitely different than all the regular ones.
It's like something new.
Yeah. You like new stuff?
Yeah, I love new stuff.
You like new boyfriends?
Yep, she does.
Okay, so all this panel here, who are you going to deal with?
Um, all three at the same time.
Wow. Jesus.
I don't know what it means, but it's provocative.
That's the people going.
Okay, LP9 says, ladies, do you think the modern woman is worth struggling for?
Do you feel like the world would be better if everyone isn't superficial?
Paris? I don't even understand that.
Stupid! Alright, we'll skip Paris.
Modern woman?
No. No.
You know what's funny about this question?
You know what the title was?
What? Modern Women.
Okay. What about you?
Damn. Struggling is a very vague word.
Like fighting for.
I mean, absolutely.
If you find someone who you think is your soulmate and deserves your heart, then fuck yeah, you should fight for it because love is amazing.
Do I feel like the world would be better if everyone wasn't superficial?
Fuck yeah.
Someone who's lived in Miami and L.A., the world would be a much better place if they were just eradicated.
Yes. You lived in L.A.?
Yeah, I went to UCLA.
Red flag.
My condolences.
4.0.
Type shit.
That's even worse.
That's like the fifth handshake.
I mean, high five.
I'm giving you.
What's going on?
Okay. For you?
Go Bruins.
And Bears.
I mean, unless you want to be single and not date anyone, then yeah.
Fight for them.
Or get a passport.
What do you want?
Next one.
You're shady.
I'm just keeping it real, man.
I mean, he comes with me, so.
Oh, you're a passport, bro, too?
Nah, nigga, I live in Miami.
But I like to travel sometimes.
Your Paris was lit, though.
Was it good?
Thank you.
Did you have conversations with anybody there?
What's dating like over there?
So I met a girl.
Here in Miami.
And she took me around Paris a little bit.
And it's funny because her connections were so high up or high level that I got to see Paris from a local level.
Because you know the tourist tower.
It's whatever.
So she had nice plugs in there over there at Paris?
Yeah. Why is that though?
Did you sleep with her?
Yo, come on.
Chill, dog.
Chill. What the fuck, man?
Fresh only donated to the church.
You like Paris?
I believe him.
You enjoy Paris?
I'll be honest, I believe you.
I will not live there, but I do like it.
No, stop the castle.
Because, for one...
So you'll go back?
The food is amazing.
I hated it.
I didn't like it either.
Really? I didn't like it.
I told you before.
Like, for example, if you're a tourist, they don't talk to you.
Yeah, because we're very nice to me.
Yeah, yeah.
But if you're like...
The locals, and they know you?
Oh, they'll figure it out.
Good ass time, bro.
Yeah. They're very classist, very racist.
I don't know.
I didn't like Paris at all.
It stunk.
It was terrible.
Oh, man.
I heard Paris is dirty.
It is.
But it's like any metropolitan city.
I need to ice on my drinks.
I got it, Chris.
Paris is horrible, bro.
Rep said he liked it, so...
You know, the food, the cuisine is good, especially if you're a fan of fine dining, you're gonna like the Parisian food, because it is fine dining, right?
The food is good.
Also, the food is healthier than food in America, for sure.
Food everywhere is healthier than food in America.
Alright, guys, so, you know what I think we should do?
Chris? Well, okay.
No, nigga.
I'm in the show, man.
But this is fine.
I want to do like a date segment, like a one-on-one date.
Would you guys pair it up?
We'll do it next time.
All right.
I'm about to say, yeah, it's not even.
I would do it.
Yeah? Yeah.
She gonna kill somebody.
Wait, do it.
Do it on my first start.
*crash*
We'll make it longer next show for sure.
A lot more longer.
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