Fresh & Fit - Why Girls Like Black Guys w/ Cousin Jay Aired: 2025-01-22 Duration: 57:22 === Thank You (08:40) === [00:00:00] Thank you. === Cousin J Introduces Himself (15:31) === [00:08:40] Let's go. [00:08:41] Guys, welcome back to episode 4 of Fresh Start with Cousin Jay. [00:08:44] Let's go. [00:08:45] Are you ready? [00:08:45] Yeah, I'm ready. [00:08:46] Are you ready? [00:08:46] Let's go! [00:08:48] Let's go, baby. [00:08:49] BBC Gang in the building. [00:08:49] Uncle Fred. [00:09:22] Let's go. [00:09:24] All right, guys. [00:09:30] Listen, Uncle Fresh is here. [00:09:31] Have no fear. [00:09:32] But Cousin J is here as well. [00:09:34] So listen, I know who Cousin J is from Nelk, doing the videos, having people laugh with the Riz, but they may not know who you are. [00:09:42] Cousin J, tell them who you are, bro. [00:09:46] Lovely introduction. [00:09:48] I am Cousin J. My real name is Jordan. [00:09:52] That's your real name, bro? [00:09:53] Yeah. [00:09:54] Damn, I didn't even know that. [00:09:55] Yeah. [00:09:55] And I do YouTube. [00:09:58] I'm soon going to be streaming, such as yourself, and I like to skate. [00:10:03] I'm from Sacramento, California. [00:10:07] I'm sober. [00:10:08] I don't drink ever. [00:10:10] Well, you don't drink at the college parties? [00:10:12] No, I just go there to do my work and dip out. [00:10:15] Okay, okay. [00:10:16] So listen, I've known Cousin Jay for quite some time, man. [00:10:19] I met him with Salim, Nutboys, but he's always in the mix, having fun, getting lit. [00:10:24] And the ladies love this guy. [00:10:25] I don't know what it is, but they just love you, bro. [00:10:27] I get it from you. [00:10:28] What are you talking about? [00:10:29] Come on, now. [00:10:30] Shout out to his merch, by the way. [00:10:31] Girls love artists. [00:10:32] Thank you, sir. [00:10:33] Amazing merch. [00:10:33] But, guys, today's episode is sponsored by none other than White Carrot. [00:10:37] It's a great company here in Florida and as well, Canada. [00:10:40] They have the best jewelry in town, hands down. [00:10:42] My ring, my bracelet, and my chain is from White Carrot. [00:10:46] Big pointers. [00:10:47] There we go. [00:10:48] We need to plug it up, too, bro. [00:10:48] For sure. [00:10:49] So shout out to them, White Carrot. [00:10:50] Adam at White Carrot. [00:10:51] Shout out to you. [00:10:51] But, guys, without further ado, we're back on the channel. [00:10:53] Glad to be here with my boy Cousin Jay. [00:10:56] Thank you so much. [00:10:57] But listen though. [00:10:57] So listen. [00:10:58] We're here right now talking as men. [00:11:00] But we need to figure out something with dating bro. [00:11:03] Right now the dating world is messed up. [00:11:04] Let's talk about it. [00:11:05] Remember we did an episode with your boy and he needed to find a girl? [00:11:08] Yes. [00:11:08] But stop because he wasn't one of us bro. [00:11:11] No yeah. [00:11:11] He wasn't a BBC gang. [00:11:12] So we need to figure out what's going on here because obviously we have it a little bit easier. [00:11:16] Yeah. [00:11:16] But why is that? [00:11:17] I don't know what it is bro. [00:11:19] Listen man. [00:11:20] It's the BBLs. [00:11:21] That's what caused the chaos, the obstruction for us. [00:11:27] You think so? [00:11:28] Their heads are getting too boosted now. [00:11:31] The girls, that's what's making it hard for us. [00:11:34] You live in Miami. [00:11:35] You should know this. [00:11:36] I know, bro, but let's say my brothers are white or they're Asian, bro. [00:11:39] I mean, obviously we're a BBC gang. [00:11:41] We give out our confidence, but we need to include them in the Riz, bro. [00:11:45] So we want to teach them some game. [00:11:48] Something. [00:11:48] Because, dude, you be getting all the sauce, bro. [00:11:51] Like, okay, listen. [00:11:52] I be going out with these guys, right? [00:11:54] And I'm like, yo, Jay's be killing this shit, bro. [00:11:56] The thing is he's humble about it. [00:11:58] But, Jay, whatever you're doing is working, bro. [00:12:00] No, thank you. [00:12:01] They're saying low audio, I think. [00:12:02] Low audio? [00:12:03] Oh, I got to get to the mic. [00:12:04] My fault, chat. [00:12:05] I'm new to this, but I'm true to it. [00:12:08] Can y'all hear me now? [00:12:10] Should be good. [00:12:12] In any case, so we did a video. [00:12:14] A couple days ago. [00:12:15] Yeah. [00:12:15] With your boy. [00:12:16] What's his name again? [00:12:17] His name is Chase. [00:12:18] I actually met him like maybe five minutes away because I got an Airbnb over here. [00:12:22] And we were just like thinking of ideas of what to do for my channel. [00:12:28] And I seen this guy in the elevator. [00:12:30] He's crippled. [00:12:32] I don't know if they can see him on the screen. [00:12:34] Yeah, but we're going to show the screen right now. [00:12:36] He's an amazing dude. [00:12:38] Like straight character, bro. [00:12:40] He's a straight character. [00:12:42] And he's like, yo, I watch your videos. [00:12:44] I'm like, yo, that's late. [00:12:45] Like, what's going on? [00:12:46] What you doing? [00:12:47] We should get into something before you leave. [00:12:50] And he's like, oh, I'm leaving tomorrow. [00:12:52] But, like, man, like, what you do is, like, really inspiring. [00:12:56] He kind of talks like that, too. [00:12:57] I'm like, thank you, bro. [00:12:58] Let me set you up. [00:13:00] Because I'm doing, like, a dating series on my channel where I'm trying to help people find love. [00:13:05] I would say, bro, no, it is tough. [00:13:07] But, yeah. [00:13:08] It's extremely tough. [00:13:09] And, I mean, I don't think I've been. [00:13:11] I feel like I've been close to it, but not fully. [00:13:15] It's hard for me. [00:13:16] We do content. [00:13:17] It's really hard for me to trust. [00:13:20] You're part of Nook, right? [00:13:21] Yes. [00:13:22] Are you still working with them? [00:13:23] Yes. [00:13:24] Same thing? [00:13:25] Nothing's changed? [00:13:25] Nothing's changed. [00:13:26] They just don't post as much. [00:13:28] Why is that? [00:13:31] I mean, the podcast is doing extremely well. [00:13:34] You have to focus on Happy Dad's doing really well. [00:13:37] So you have to compartmentalize. [00:13:41] Like, what you're doing. [00:13:42] You have to prioritize the certain things that you're doing in life, you know? [00:13:46] Where's Saleem, bro? [00:13:48] This nigga's been at MIA, bro. [00:13:49] Where's Saleem? [00:13:50] In LA, I believe, right now. [00:13:52] Okay. [00:13:53] They were just watching the fights. [00:13:55] Listen, he's a good guy. [00:13:56] Great guy. [00:13:57] He needs some help, bro. [00:13:58] He needs some milk. [00:13:59] That nigga needs some milk. [00:14:01] I ain't gonna lie. [00:14:01] Alright, so we're gonna play the video real quick, guys. [00:14:03] This is like the intro part of it where he does ladies' skits. [00:14:06] And of course, this is real time too as well. [00:14:08] This is real time. [00:14:09] This is real time. [00:14:09] Yeah. [00:14:10] So we were here together at the mall. [00:14:11] Yeah. [00:14:12] We just bumped into each other right here. [00:14:14] Randomly. [00:14:15] So let's play real quick. [00:14:17] And this is Chase. [00:14:18] I'd be down and try that. [00:14:19] Yeah, that'd be funny. [00:14:20] Joshy. [00:14:21] I have a question. [00:14:22] Answer. [00:14:22] So if I wasn't gay, would you let me hit? [00:14:25] Okay, let's explain this to them real quick, what this is. [00:14:28] So my boy Nick, he's in the background. [00:14:30] He's my manager. [00:14:32] He'd be giving me great advice. [00:14:34] For content ideas? [00:14:36] Yeah. [00:14:36] He told me, you've seen this TikTok. [00:14:38] It's going viral right now. [00:14:39] You pretty much go up to a girl and you say, if I wasn't gay... [00:14:46] Let me smash. [00:14:47] Yeah, pretty much. [00:14:48] And I pretty much said exactly what he said to her. [00:14:53] And it seemed like she was actually interested. [00:14:55] Does that work though? [00:14:56] I feel like girls like when you just don't care. [00:14:59] True. [00:14:59] You know? [00:15:00] Nonchalant, don't care. [00:15:01] Okay. [00:15:01] Yeah, let's see it. [00:15:03] Let's see what happens. [00:15:03] That was very straightforward. [00:15:05] You know? [00:15:06] Well, good thing I'm not gay. [00:15:07] Interesting. [00:15:07] I don't even know your name. [00:15:08] What's your name? [00:15:09] I'm Jay. [00:15:09] Emily. [00:15:10] Emily? [00:15:11] Emily. [00:15:11] Lovely to meet you. [00:15:12] Fire. [00:15:13] Is this on video? [00:15:14] Is this for YouTube? [00:15:14] No, that's AI. That's, like, not actually a camera. [00:15:17] That's not a camera. [00:15:18] Do you have, like, a TikTok, a YouTube, uh... [00:15:20] People post my clips on TikTok. [00:15:22] What does that mean? [00:15:23] I'm famous. [00:15:25] That doesn't mean that. [00:15:27] I mean, you can look me up if you want. [00:15:29] So what's up with Sephora? [00:15:30] I didn't know they had the hus in here like that. [00:15:32] You didn't tell me. [00:15:33] That's your manager? [00:15:34] Yeah, that's my man. [00:15:35] Your videographer? [00:15:35] My videographer, my manager, and then that's just like somebody who's a to be. [00:15:40] But he ain't got nothing on you. [00:15:43] I mean, are you gay or are you not gay? [00:15:45] I'm straight. [00:15:46] Okay. [00:15:48] Well, I'm gonna go find my concealer. [00:15:49] It was so nice meeting you. [00:15:52] Nice to meet you. [00:15:53] Today's Tuesday. [00:15:54] We're going to date Friday. [00:15:55] I don't want to see myself on TikTok. [00:15:57] You won't be on TikTok. [00:15:58] I promise that. [00:15:59] This was before the ban, right? [00:16:00] Yeah, this was right before the ban. [00:16:01] Right before I became blue-collar. [00:16:03] So, obviously, I've seen way better chicks than this. [00:16:05] This is kind of like a mid-chick. [00:16:07] But the confidence you had to walk up to chicks, how do you gain that, bro? [00:16:12] Honestly, it took me a long time. [00:16:14] Like, high school, I had it. [00:16:16] You know, when I graduated high school, that's when I lost a lot of confidence because now we're stepping into the real world, you know. [00:16:25] It's just fucking different, you know, going from high school to reality, high school to college. [00:16:30] For a lot of people out there, I feel like, because I was a man, you know. [00:16:36] In high school, you was the man, homie. [00:16:38] That's how I felt. [00:16:39] How tall are you, bro? [00:16:40] I'm 6'3". [00:16:41] No, you're not. [00:16:45] Chad, there's no... [00:16:47] God damn, nigga! [00:16:49] Okay, you're taller than me. [00:16:50] I'm like that. [00:16:51] Whatever, whatever. [00:16:52] Anyhow. [00:16:52] I developed the confidence from just constantly... [00:16:56] I was watching dating videos on YouTube and dumb shit. [00:17:00] And just shooting up shots. [00:17:02] Every time after we would film videos, after we filmed pranks, I would try to go up to two or three girls. [00:17:09] And sometimes it would take me hours to just say hi to a girl. [00:17:14] Like, I don't know what it was when I graduated. [00:17:15] I just felt like shit. [00:17:17] I don't know. [00:17:18] Because we're just on the grind. [00:17:20] I feel you. [00:17:21] Okay, we got fresh updates. [00:17:23] Don DeMarcus, you, bro. [00:17:27] I'm 32 now. [00:17:28] I feel old, bro. [00:17:28] I feel really old. [00:17:29] Old you? [00:17:29] That's a good age. [00:17:30] I'm 24. You're young, bro. [00:17:32] Young buck. [00:17:33] You got it, man. [00:17:34] I don't know, man. [00:17:35] You're not grandpa fresh yet. [00:17:37] I know, but still, bro. [00:17:38] I feel like... [00:17:38] Damn, dude. [00:17:40] I don't know. [00:17:41] I feel kind of old. [00:17:42] I know. [00:17:42] Let's continue. [00:17:44] Here we go. [00:17:45] Okay. [00:17:46] Trust me. [00:17:47] It's gone in a few days. [00:17:48] Oh, it is. [00:17:49] So don't even worry about it. [00:17:51] That sucks. [00:17:51] TikTok is getting deleted. [00:17:53] But we'll keep it tight. [00:17:54] I'm so sorry. [00:17:55] How young are you? [00:17:56] I'm older than you. [00:17:57] I'm 24. I'm 29. That's fine. [00:18:00] I date 60-plus-year-olds. [00:18:02] I'll get your number. [00:18:03] You better dance. [00:18:04] Is that why you guys walked into Sephora right now? [00:18:06] No, we walked here so we can get some smell good from my friend Chase, who's crippled. [00:18:09] And I'm actually trying to find him the love of his life. [00:18:11] You're a really good friend. [00:18:13] You decided to help him out. [00:18:14] Nice guy. [00:18:15] Emily. [00:18:16] Emily with an E. I'm going to call her right now to see if it's fake. [00:18:20] I might swerve on that corner wall. [00:18:23] Bro, I'll be honest, bro. [00:18:24] She got like no ass, bro. [00:18:26] I'm doing this strictly for content. [00:18:28] You know what I'm saying? [00:18:29] I know, I know. [00:18:30] It's just content, bro. [00:18:31] Chill, chill, chill. [00:18:33] I'm kidding, bro. [00:18:34] I'm kidding. [00:18:35] Time shit. [00:18:37] Time shit. [00:18:38] The fact that that line actually works, Nick. [00:18:40] Every time. [00:18:41] She was like, that's bold, but I like it. [00:18:42] Chase, we got the smell good. [00:18:44] What's next? [00:18:44] What do you feel? [00:18:45] I'm feeling like I look good, but I think I look a little better. [00:18:47] He needs to find a girlfriend, right? [00:18:49] This guy Chase, right? [00:18:50] He honestly told me in the elevator that he was having a hard time trying to get with girls since he's been disabled. [00:18:56] He got in a car accident. [00:18:58] Oh, okay. [00:18:59] So he's actually on crutches? [00:19:01] Yeah. [00:19:02] Winter Soldier! [00:19:03] What's going on, Fresh? [00:19:05] Yo, who is that? [00:19:05] You look good, man. [00:19:09] Let's go! [00:19:10] Uncle Fresh in the house! [00:19:12] Let's go! [00:19:13] I've been in the gym, bro. [00:19:14] Yeah, I see you, man. [00:19:15] So, what's up, man? [00:19:16] So, I'm actually trying to help this guy. [00:19:18] What was going through your head when you saw me, bro? [00:19:19] I was like, this nigga's a winter soldier. [00:19:23] Bro, I've seen you so long, bro. [00:19:24] Like, for real. [00:19:24] It's been, like, probably eight months, maybe. [00:19:26] Dude. [00:19:27] A little more. [00:19:27] But it's always good vibes when I see you, bro. [00:19:28] Always good vibes. [00:19:29] Yeah, you too. [00:19:29] I feel like Cousin Chase is in the moment. [00:19:31] He enjoys life, has fun with the girls, and it's just, like, a good vibe, you know? [00:19:36] Day by day, man. [00:19:37] That's it. [00:19:37] Day by day. [00:19:38] Got to chase, find some love. [00:19:39] I had a little car accident, but, you know, getting better every single day. [00:19:43] Now I'm looking for a wife. [00:19:44] Really? [00:19:45] Yeah. [00:19:45] Okay, black, white, Asian. [00:19:47] What are we talking right now? [00:19:48] Skinny, white, has to have no ass, no ass. [00:19:51] I know a girl actually. [00:19:52] So skinny, white, and no ass. [00:19:55] No booties. [00:19:56] Bro, who wants that? [00:19:57] Yo, chat, I kid you not, bro. [00:19:59] I've never heard anyone say such a thing. [00:20:01] Skinny, white, and no ass. [00:20:02] Who wants that, bro? [00:20:05] Oh, hell! [00:20:08] Somebody for everybody. [00:20:09] Yo, who playing locals? [00:20:10] Me and Brett Cooper, bro. [00:20:12] Listen, does she have ass? [00:20:14] You know what? [00:20:15] I'll let you find out on your own, bro. [00:20:17] I don't want to comment. [00:20:17] Yeah, this is his picture right here. [00:20:19] This is nigga, bro. [00:20:20] When was this? [00:20:21] This was at inauguration, like two days ago. [00:20:23] Sorry, one day ago. [00:20:25] Okay. [00:20:25] Pretty cool. [00:20:26] All right, let's continue, though. [00:20:29] That's single right now. [00:20:31] Then she got a flat ass. [00:20:32] I mean, no ass at all? [00:20:36] But real talk though, we can find you a girl. [00:20:37] We gotta start from the core. [00:20:39] Yeah, we got him smelling good right now. [00:20:40] Can you handle a girl though, right now? [00:20:42] Obviously. [00:20:43] Okay. [00:20:43] That's a valid question. [00:20:45] Because you look like you need some damage control. [00:20:47] Okay, I'm getting controlled, but I can, you know... [00:20:51] That's a valid question. [00:20:53] Because you look like you need some damage control. [00:20:55] Okay, I'm getting controlled, but I cannot I can, you know, I can get in there. [00:21:01] It still works. [00:21:02] Huh? [00:21:02] He can barely walk. [00:21:04] That was the funniest shit you said. [00:21:05] Yeah, no, dude. [00:21:06] That was kind of messed up. [00:21:08] Yeah. [00:21:09] That was kind of messed up. [00:21:10] I'm not gonna lie. [00:21:10] It still works. [00:21:11] Don't let the cripple fool you. [00:21:13] Do you like old shit or do you like middle-aged shit? [00:21:17] Really? [00:21:18] Come on. [00:21:20] Hey, fine shit. [00:21:21] You just said fine shit. [00:21:23] Imagine. [00:21:23] What about this one? [00:21:24] Do you want? [00:21:24] She has like a backboard booty. [00:21:26] This is a new method. [00:21:28] Pull your phone out. [00:21:29] Go up to a girl. [00:21:30] Yep. [00:21:31] Find shit. [00:21:34] Wait, so you're saying go to a girl and say find shit and give her your phone? [00:21:36] Just say find shit. [00:21:37] Give her your phone. [00:21:38] If she fuck with you, she fuck with you. [00:21:40] If she don't, she don't. [00:21:41] You know what I'm saying? [00:21:41] You know why that might work? [00:21:42] Because she actually might like you. [00:21:43] It's like straight to it. [00:21:45] You're complimenting her by saying find shit. [00:21:49] A to B. Some people are A to Z. Some people are A to B. Get shit done. [00:21:56] Just like that. [00:21:56] Okay, okay. [00:21:57] I might give it a try. [00:21:58] One of these days. [00:22:00] In the brown? [00:22:00] Let's go. [00:22:01] Run it. [00:22:01] Run it. [00:22:05] Your outfit is amazing. [00:22:13] It's giving hair, face, ass, titties. [00:22:17] Everything. [00:22:18] Everything, girl. [00:22:19] What's your name? [00:22:20] He's our bailout. [00:22:21] He's our bailout. [00:22:22] Yo, it is funny. [00:22:23] So I'm like, yo, okay. [00:22:24] He said he wants a girl with no ass. [00:22:26] Flat. [00:22:27] And white. [00:22:27] I was like, this girl is perfect. [00:22:29] She got no ass. [00:22:29] Flat and white. [00:22:30] Backboard booty. [00:22:31] But let's see what happens now. [00:22:33] Are you from the favela? [00:22:35] I'm from Brazil. [00:22:36] Buongia. [00:22:37] Buongia. [00:22:37] That's all I know. [00:22:38] This is my good friend here. [00:22:39] Nice to meet you. [00:22:40] Nice to meet you. [00:22:42] Buongia in Portuguese means good morning. [00:22:44] And then buongia means good night. [00:22:46] Okay. [00:22:47] That's all I know in Portuguese, bro. [00:22:48] Buongia, good morning. [00:22:49] That's all I know, bro. [00:22:50] Buongia, good morning. [00:22:52] Something like that. [00:22:53] I don't know, bro. [00:22:54] I'm not Portuguese bad. [00:22:55] Listen, he's single right now, looking for a wife, and who wants to actually take care of and be with him. [00:23:00] But he's a little bit nervous. [00:23:02] So I'll give you the intro now to meet him. [00:23:04] And of course... [00:23:05] No, but I think I'm not the one for him. [00:23:08] Well, how do you know it if you've never tried? [00:23:10] You are in Miami. [00:23:12] There's a lot of girls here. [00:23:14] Only one of you. [00:23:15] Oh! [00:23:20] Yo! [00:23:20] With the bars! [00:23:22] Chase with the- Chase Bank with the bars! [00:23:24] Y'all be using the chat for Chase. [00:23:25] This guy can barely walk, but he can definitely shoot a shot. [00:23:28] Bro, that was some bars. [00:23:29] He said, hey, I'm out for you. [00:23:32] Chase Bank in the building! [00:23:36] He's banking in! [00:23:37] Don't let the cripple in this movie. [00:23:39] No, no, no. [00:23:40] No, no. [00:23:41] Sorry to disappoint you, but... [00:23:44] See, she was smiling, though. [00:23:46] She was engaged. [00:23:47] And she was having fun. [00:23:48] Yeah. [00:23:49] That's what it's about. [00:23:50] I feel like she was going to go for it, but she... [00:23:52] We'll see what happens. [00:23:53] If it wasn't cameras, is that what you're saying? === FaceTime Connection (13:37) === [00:23:58] Sometimes the camera could... [00:23:59] You know what I mean? [00:23:59] She'd just have a man. [00:24:01] So, she might have went for it in a different way, but this is kind of like a bit too interface to the camera. [00:24:09] Yeah. [00:24:09] Well, she was being nice, to be fair. [00:24:12] But if my shorty was like this, I'd be like, yo, shorty, just cut that shit and walk away. [00:24:16] Word. [00:24:17] Yeah, dude, that's too... [00:24:18] Hey, you're doing too much. [00:24:19] Rewind it, rewind it. [00:24:20] Let me really analyze. [00:24:22] From a boyfriend dating a girl perspective. [00:24:26] In Miami, there's a lot of girls here. [00:24:29] Only one of you. [00:24:30] Oh! [00:24:32] Chase, he got her blushing! [00:24:35] Chase's back in the building! [00:24:36] Yes, you see, she's blushing, she's laughing. [00:24:38] She's like, oh, this thing's got some riz. [00:24:40] You see? [00:24:41] And once they start laughing, bro, it's... [00:24:43] Oh, you're saying once you make them laugh and giggle, you can make... [00:24:47] Okay. [00:24:48] You can make it wiggle. [00:24:48] You know what I'm saying? [00:24:49] You don't want... [00:24:50] Okay. [00:24:50] If Chase made your girl wiggle, how are you feeling? [00:24:53] Well, first of all, any girl that I smash that Chase wants to smash, we're not in the same realm, bro. [00:24:58] You know what I'm saying? [00:24:59] Hold on. [00:25:02] Chase is the guy. [00:25:02] I'm just saying, like, you know what I'm saying? [00:25:04] We're different tastes. [00:25:05] I need the booty. [00:25:06] He don't like the booty. [00:25:07] So we would even, like, compete. [00:25:08] You know what I'm saying? [00:25:09] Some people like chocolate. [00:25:10] Some people like vanilla. [00:25:11] Some people like BBL. Some people like... [00:25:13] Exactly. [00:25:14] We got DominicanUD says, yo, this is Kaz, taking notes. [00:25:18] Yeah, brother? [00:25:18] Get your Instagram on point. [00:25:20] Talk in person. [00:25:21] Get your resume on point. [00:25:22] Listen, guys, it's an action and skill you've got to master. [00:25:24] It takes time to build it up. [00:25:26] But again, look at Cousin Jay. [00:25:27] He was scared to talk to girls in person. [00:25:29] Two years, man. [00:25:29] Two years. [00:25:30] But now he does videos talking to girls in real time for you guys on camera, on YouTube, by the way. [00:25:35] Go sub to his channel. [00:25:36] It's actually real Cousin Jay. [00:25:37] It's our Cousin Jay right here. [00:25:38] Thank you, man. [00:25:39] 118K subs. [00:25:40] Shout out to you, bro. [00:25:41] Let's go. [00:25:41] Obviously, I'm sub to your channel. [00:25:42] I like the video, of course. [00:25:43] But, yeah. [00:25:44] So, guys, it's confidence, man. [00:25:46] But it takes time to build that skill. [00:25:47] So you got to go out there, talk to girls, talk to people, and as well, try. [00:25:50] Give it a try. [00:25:52] No, but I'm not going to lie. [00:25:54] You got some great wingmaning abilities. [00:25:56] Oh, thank you, bro. [00:25:57] I don't know if you realize that. [00:25:59] Listen, I'm new to this. [00:26:00] I'm true to this. [00:26:01] Oh, I like that. [00:26:04] Okay, let's continue. [00:26:06] Let's continue Don't let the cripple in this morning No, no, no Sorry to disappoint you, but I believe in this, look Looking back at like 10 years, you're going to be like, oh my god Love of my life I already have the right guy Ah, okay I like that, good shit I'll tell you that Amazing She's loyal, she's loyal We got to get you a Brazilian, go to Brazil There's a lot of girls in Brazil and they are off [00:26:33] Fun fact, the book goes from Brazil they are For everybody. [00:26:38] You took some shit down there? [00:26:40] No. [00:26:40] They came here. [00:26:41] But let me explain. [00:26:42] So girls in Brazil, my buddy obviously has been there for quite some time. [00:26:46] KS Redbeard. [00:26:47] They are like almost like Miami girls. [00:26:50] Let me explain. [00:26:52] They're more sexual. [00:26:53] And let's say they meet me one day. [00:26:55] Have a good time. [00:26:56] They meet you. [00:26:57] Have a good time. [00:26:58] They don't hold back because they want to have sex. [00:26:59] They want to have fun. [00:27:00] So in that sense, I would say to find a little Brazilian girl may not be the easiest thing to do. [00:27:06] You know what I'm saying? [00:27:07] They sound loyal. [00:27:09] Oh, she sounds loyal. [00:27:10] She sound loyal as fuck. [00:27:12] Giggly laughing with us? [00:27:13] I don't know, bro. [00:27:14] It's a little bit too friendly, bro. [00:27:16] You got more experience than I do in this dating room, so I trust your word. [00:27:20] I know, but still, you know, you're still doing the actions that help you become better, you know? [00:27:23] Yeah. [00:27:24] Okay, question. [00:27:25] If Chase wasn't crippled, do you think he could pull easier? [00:27:29] If he wasn't crippled, I think it almost might be an advantage that he is crippled. [00:27:34] I don't look at it as a disadvantage because, like, I feel like everybody has that one superpower and his cane is his superpower. [00:27:43] Yo, are you serious, bro? [00:27:45] Hey, whatever works, bro. [00:27:47] Listen, it's not the man. [00:27:48] Sorry, it's not the cane, it's the man. [00:27:50] It's what you do with what you got. [00:27:52] Yeah, the confidence and the swag behind it. [00:27:53] I got you. [00:27:55] Yeah. [00:27:55] But they're not like you, though. [00:27:56] She's good, though. [00:27:57] But she got a man already. [00:27:58] I know. [00:27:59] You know what? [00:27:59] In life, it's just numbers. [00:28:00] Listen, I gotta go, because I gotta run some numbers myself. [00:28:04] One today, one tomorrow. [00:28:06] Yeah, you got something in the back pocket. [00:28:08] All right. [00:28:08] Blessings. [00:28:08] Happy New Year, baby. [00:28:09] Happy New Year, bro. [00:28:11] Happy New Year. [00:28:11] Happy New Year, bro. [00:28:11] Happy New Year. [00:28:12] Happy New Year, bro. [00:28:12] Happy New Year. [00:28:12] Happy New Year, bro. [00:28:16] Anyhow, we'll stop right there. [00:28:17] But yeah, so listen, I'll tell you this, bro. [00:28:21] That was fun. [00:28:22] You know, just chopping up. [00:28:22] That was an amazing interaction, bro. [00:28:24] Going out, just chopping up. [00:28:25] So listen, Jay, I've been very close to watching you guys blow up from day one at NELC. You're doing everything with Salim. [00:28:34] Thank you, man. [00:28:35] What's coming next for you? [00:28:37] And then what's the key in plan from here on out with YouTube and content creation? [00:28:40] Every week on YouTube, we're posting every Sunday for the rest of this year. [00:28:44] We're creating, it's a love series. [00:28:47] I haven't figured out the name of it, but once I do, you guys will see it on my channel. [00:28:53] Pretty much like at the start of the video, when I introduce the guest, it's going to have like that little pop-up, little animation. [00:29:01] You know what I'm saying? [00:29:02] Okay. [00:29:02] So that's when you notice. [00:29:03] I thought we were doing a show called For the Love of Fresh. [00:29:05] Oh, I like that. [00:29:06] That'd be hard, right? [00:29:07] For the Love of Fresh. [00:29:08] Don't think about it. [00:29:09] Get shit done. [00:29:10] Because didn't they do that with Stiney? [00:29:12] Mm-hmm. [00:29:13] The Bachelor. [00:29:14] That's pretty good, actually. [00:29:15] Like recreating The Bachelor, I like that. [00:29:17] Yeah. [00:29:18] And just having characters just evolve. [00:29:20] And I really want to highlight. [00:29:23] Whatever superpowers each person has. [00:29:25] Yeah. [00:29:26] Yeah. [00:29:26] Do you think... [00:29:28] Well, let me ask you this question. [00:29:30] Yeah. [00:29:31] So let's say, for example, dating itself nowadays at your age. [00:29:35] Is it about, like, the status? [00:29:37] Is it about, like, you being, like, that guy that's known in campus? [00:29:41] Like, what do you think is the best way to get girls nowadays at your age, 24? [00:29:45] Honestly, in this reaction, that's contradicting to what I'm saying, but in general... [00:29:49] Like the reaction before this with the girl inside Sephora. [00:29:52] I don't really go up to girls and tell them who I am. [00:29:55] I honestly hate that shit. [00:29:57] But just for the plot in that one, I was like, okay, let me do it. [00:30:01] Just because I don't really want to date a girl who's in the same room as I am. [00:30:10] The girl who I actually date, I would not want it on the internet. [00:30:13] Of course, of course. [00:30:14] Guys, you've seen us have girls on the internet and it's definitely not been the best. [00:30:20] So, yeah. [00:30:21] It's better to be keeping them off camera. [00:30:23] So, let me ask you this question, though. [00:30:24] Sure. [00:30:24] So, being 6'3", black, and... [00:30:27] BBC stand-up. [00:30:28] BBC stand-up. [00:30:29] Charismatic. [00:30:30] This nigga, bro. [00:30:32] You think you have, like, an advantage? [00:30:34] Yeah. [00:30:35] Nigga, we're black. [00:30:38] It took me a while to realize that, though. [00:30:40] Yeah. [00:30:40] They try to hide that from you. [00:30:42] They try to hide that shit from you when you're young. [00:30:44] Let's go! [00:30:45] Okay, but hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. [00:30:47] What caused this to happen? [00:30:48] Especially in America. [00:30:49] I'm sure a couple years ago it wasn't that way. [00:30:52] Drake was up. [00:30:55] Chris Brown was up. [00:30:56] Breezy was up. [00:30:57] We were down. [00:30:58] What changed, bro? [00:30:59] Listen, we stayed down for the come up. [00:31:01] That's what happened. [00:31:03] Either way, though, I think that right now we got a chance to change a game. [00:31:09] Help guys actually come back to fruition. [00:31:12] White, black, Asian, doesn't matter. [00:31:14] Because we're all in this together. [00:31:15] I just think that, like, right now, they need help. [00:31:19] Who needs help? [00:31:20] The guys don't really need help, bro. [00:31:21] No, we all need help. [00:31:22] Listen, I think Instagram is one of the best ways you can talk to people nowadays. [00:31:25] Having a good profile, good content, good pictures, and, of course, having the right setup so when you see a dimmer girl, she wants to respond to you. [00:31:34] You ever seen Dems to girls? [00:31:36] For business. [00:31:37] For business only? [00:31:38] Never to smash? [00:31:39] No, yeah, definitely way earlier on. [00:31:42] And in between, yeah, you have your fair share. [00:31:44] But, like, Just because girls be screenshotting shit. [00:31:47] I'm not a fan of that. [00:31:49] That's why I like keeping it just business. [00:31:50] You know what I mean? [00:31:51] You know what's funny? [00:31:52] I've realized with creators especially, or someone that has clout, if you just say anything, you could put an emoji. [00:31:59] Screenshot. [00:32:00] Well, that too, but they'll respond to you for the most part. [00:32:03] I could put like, I don't know, a heart emoji. [00:32:06] Oh, I see what you're saying. [00:32:07] There's just something random. [00:32:08] And that can have me with a response. [00:32:11] First average guy, he's at the DM to a girl. [00:32:14] She's like, oh, Who is this guy? [00:32:16] So that's why I think guys should create a profile for themselves that is definitely them, but obviously have some following, have some status, and then go ahead and send a DM. Because if you send a DM randomly, you got pictures in the bathroom selfie. [00:32:28] It doesn't do anything. [00:32:30] It's just like a turn off. [00:32:31] So that's what I think. [00:32:32] I feel like, I mean, if you're a social media influencer too, it would probably be way easier to get a response to. [00:32:41] But then, you still got to understand how to get that from Instagram. [00:32:45] To FaceTime to a date. [00:32:46] Because I think that path itself is hard to do sometimes. [00:32:49] Are you a big FaceTimer? [00:32:50] 100%. [00:32:51] Because I need... [00:32:52] All I need is 10 minutes with you. [00:32:53] 10 minutes on the phone. [00:32:54] We FaceTime. [00:32:55] I see your vibe, so to speak. [00:32:57] I can see what you're about. [00:32:59] And at the same time, that's like screening you before we go on a date. [00:33:02] So I know if you're about it or not. [00:33:03] Because what's about going on a date if you're not actually getting, for example, the months? [00:33:09] You know what I'm saying? [00:33:10] You have a more... [00:33:12] Dominant sense that she's actually going to play into it and be a part of your mission. [00:33:16] So do you think before you go on a date, you're able to tell whether she's type with it or not? [00:33:23] Yeah, of course. [00:33:24] What are some signs that would show you that a girl is with it? [00:33:29] So the thing is with this FaceTime call, you've got to ask questions to qualify her, right? [00:33:33] Because you've got to see where she's at. [00:33:34] Because she might be like, I'll give you my phone number, but I'm not into it like that. [00:33:38] And you can tell this from the vibe. [00:33:40] But what is the vibe? [00:33:41] All it is is her response, your questions, and how she's, like, giving you answers. [00:33:46] So, for example, I can ask her, listen, I think you're pretty cute. [00:33:49] I like your vibe. [00:33:50] I'm taking you out on Wednesday when you're free. [00:33:53] I'll pick you up at 8. She can say, for example, oh, I don't know. [00:33:57] I'll let you know. [00:33:58] The hesitation. [00:33:59] Or she can say, like, perfect. [00:34:01] I'll be ready that time. [00:34:02] I can't wait to see you. [00:34:03] Submit. [00:34:04] Submission. [00:34:05] So I know off rip her response is telling me she's ready. [00:34:08] What about the response time? [00:34:10] Does that add into it or no? [00:34:12] Not really. [00:34:12] Remember, we're on FaceTime. [00:34:14] So that's instant. [00:34:15] So FaceTime is like you're locked in for 10 minutes, 50 minutes max. [00:34:18] So no matter what, you're straight FaceTime. [00:34:20] What if they don't answer the FaceTime? [00:34:23] Well, this is why you've got to preamble. [00:34:26] For example, I'll say, hey, when are you free for a FaceTime call? [00:34:30] I'm busy. [00:34:31] Maybe I'm working. [00:34:32] Maybe I'm on the go. [00:34:33] So let's do a FaceTime call real quick. [00:34:34] I'm not going to lie. [00:34:35] I'm straight to FaceTime. [00:34:39] Set that up, though. [00:34:39] So, like, I meet a girl in person. [00:34:42] After I meet her in person, I might text her, say, hey, it's cousin, or hey, you know what I mean? [00:34:47] It's Jay. [00:34:49] And then, next day or two, like, whenever I'll remember, I'll hit her up. [00:34:54] I'll just randomly FaceTime, whether I text her or not. [00:34:57] Yeah. [00:34:58] I will say that that works, too, because, like, they're like, who is this calling me? [00:35:01] And they'll pick up the phone for FaceTime most of the time. [00:35:04] But, you can have it where, like, you just set it up where, are you free this time? [00:35:08] Boom. [00:35:09] For example, are you free right now? [00:35:11] Boom. [00:35:11] Face on call. [00:35:11] I feel like you're really good at communicating. [00:35:13] I suck at it. [00:35:14] I'm still working on it. [00:35:15] Even with me developing my own team, my channel, it's hard for me to communicate because I like to keep shit to myself. [00:35:22] I'm very closed off. [00:35:23] I'm an introvert at heart. [00:35:25] I couldn't tell, bro. [00:35:26] But being around extroverts such as yourself, I mean, would you consider yourself an extrovert? [00:35:30] You know, it's funny. [00:35:31] I'm actually not an extrovert. [00:35:32] But you know what it is? [00:35:33] Is that, like, I understand what I have to do to make things happen. [00:35:36] So I can't always be home alone. [00:35:38] I gotta network, make connections. [00:35:41] Like, for example, going to D.C. for inauguration. [00:35:44] I didn't want to go there, but I had to because I know for the team, I gotta make sure I connect to people. [00:35:48] Connections. [00:35:48] I see what's happening in the future with social media, what's happening with the current rules and regulations. [00:35:52] So, I gotta go there and meet people. [00:35:54] I met senators, congressmen. [00:35:56] I met a bunch of people that are successful. [00:35:58] That's cool. [00:35:58] Billionaires, too. [00:35:59] And it's like, yo, now I know what's happening for the future, I can move accordingly to make things happen. [00:36:03] So, I think for me, I'm not really an extrovert. [00:36:05] I just have to do things that are more... [00:36:07] Out there like that. [00:36:07] Because I'm part of the team, you know? [00:36:09] Oh, yeah. [00:36:09] And I feel like as you get older, you start to realize that. [00:36:12] And I'm maturing as I'm getting older, too. [00:36:14] And I'm realizing you just got to get shit done. [00:36:17] Because, bro, I could sit. [00:36:18] I swear to God, bro. [00:36:19] I could stay home, play my game, just watch a movie, and just, like, chill with my dog. [00:36:23] Go for a walk. [00:36:24] And that's all you need to do. [00:36:25] But having to go outside and meet people and, like, make connections, that's, like, a whole process in itself. [00:36:30] And it's like, oh, you make it look easy, but it's not easy. [00:36:33] You know? [00:36:34] It's like putting your reps in, like, how you do. [00:36:37] We're trying to learn how to ride a bike. [00:36:38] It's the same thing. [00:36:39] We're going to talk to new people to try to do business. [00:36:42] Even dating. [00:36:43] You know, dating. [00:36:44] Like, for example, you can talk to girls now because you've been through the reps and the skills of talking to girls. [00:36:48] Jump shots. [00:36:49] Constantly. [00:36:50] And you feel... [00:36:51] I guarantee you feel it a lot of times, right? [00:36:52] Yes, so many times. [00:36:54] Yeah. [00:36:55] So, it just happens that way, bro. [00:36:58] But, real quick, Jay. [00:36:59] So, let me ask you this. [00:37:01] If you're going to have a lot of status and get girls, what about the average guy? [00:37:04] How does he get a girl, you think? [00:37:05] No, it is. [00:37:07] And is it better to travel abroad or be in America? [00:37:11] I feel like you're appreciated where you're not known, just in general. [00:37:15] I feel like stepping out of your hometown, it's eye-opening, and then it challenges you to speak to different people and go on with a different mindset wherever you're from. === Starting on WorldStar (15:29) === [00:37:28] Yeah, but being a normal guy, I still look at myself as a normal person, which I still am. [00:37:35] I have, like, an audience of people that watch me, but if I were to take that away, start from scratch, I mean, I would hang around extroverts, people that talk more than I do. [00:37:49] So, let me ask you this, Jay. [00:37:50] So, listen, let's take it back a notch. [00:37:52] Yes. [00:37:53] When you first started your career, you know, how'd you get involved, make it content, and getting to milk itself? [00:37:58] So, 2017, I came up with the idea of filming content. [00:38:04] And making clothing. [00:38:06] I created my brand, Girls Love Artists. [00:38:08] But first, before that, I would paint canvases, murals, acrylic, like, all different types of art. [00:38:17] And I was posting that on my Instagram, Cousin J Online. [00:38:20] Like, that's where there's an archive of, like, all of my old shit. [00:38:24] I archived a lot of it because, like, yeah, I'm an introvert with the art. [00:38:27] You know, like, I care about my shit. [00:38:29] And so, like, you know, being an artist, I'm weird. [00:38:32] Not music-wise, but just... [00:38:34] I really love to paint. [00:38:36] And I haven't done it. [00:38:37] You can paint? [00:38:37] Yeah, I can paint. [00:38:38] Shit, I didn't even know that, bro. [00:38:39] Like, that's really what started everything. [00:38:41] Just a stroke of a paintbrush. [00:38:43] Pause. [00:38:44] What are you talking about? [00:38:46] You said a stroke, nigga? [00:38:47] No, yeah, yeah. [00:38:48] Yeah, no diddy. [00:38:50] But, yeah. [00:38:52] And so, I would... [00:38:53] You know the Nike Hirachi shoes? [00:38:55] I would paint those. [00:38:56] I would just splatter paint on it. [00:38:58] And it would just go viral on Instagram. [00:39:00] Way before Reels. [00:39:03] And... [00:39:03] Boom. [00:39:04] So then, that's like my freshman year. [00:39:07] Time goes by, I keep doing that, and I bump into Slim, and he's not doing videos, but he kind of tried to roast me, and he said I look like Kodak, like I mentioned before. [00:39:17] I'm not going to host you, but you kind of do, actually. [00:39:19] What the fuck? [00:39:20] Yeah. [00:39:21] And I was pretty much like, get the fuck out of my face. [00:39:25] I like to be by myself. [00:39:26] Why are you trying to roast? [00:39:27] And that's what he does in his videos. [00:39:30] He doesn't post that much, how he used to, but... [00:39:33] That's what he would do on the videos that we filmed. [00:39:34] So you met Salim at the very beginning? [00:39:37] Yeah. [00:39:38] Like, that was my idea to create videos. [00:39:40] Okay. [00:39:41] And so, like, I was like, we should move to L.A. Like, if shit starts popping off, and just go full throttle. [00:39:48] And that's what we did. [00:39:48] And that's why we're speaking to each other today. [00:39:50] So you left school and everything? [00:39:52] You just went straight to... [00:39:53] I graduated. [00:39:54] He expedited his process with graduating because I was like... [00:39:59] Like, we got motion. [00:40:00] We need to get out of here ASAP. Either you dropping out or we're moving straight. [00:40:06] I mean, or you're going to, like, take, like, a class to, like, expedite it. [00:40:10] And we did that. [00:40:11] How did you know that it was time to, like, move on and make content? [00:40:15] So, like, whenever... [00:40:16] I told him to reach out to Worldstar and just DM all the random pages. [00:40:22] Because... [00:40:22] I was like... [00:40:25] At the time... [00:40:27] Worldstar was charging people $3,000 to post your video. [00:40:32] Yeah, and I was like, nigga, we ain't got that type of money. [00:40:35] I was making money from selling clothes and art, but not consistently to have 3K to just invest into it. [00:40:43] So I was going through their following and see who were the managers or whoever is posting their shit. [00:40:49] I sent them three accounts, I believe, and I was like, just send them their video and see what happens. [00:40:57] Literally the next morning, I think one of them sent laughing emojis and just started posting every single video. [00:41:03] And from there, I was like, yo, this is lit. [00:41:06] And it changed the whole trajectory of what we were doing. [00:41:10] And I was like, nigga, we gotta get out of here. [00:41:11] So, this is actually funny because a lot of people don't understand how social media works. [00:41:17] And it's all marketing and reach, right? [00:41:19] So, you can have your channel on YouTube. [00:41:21] And it may be small. [00:41:22] Yeah. [00:41:22] But you can blow it up. [00:41:24] In many different ways. [00:41:25] Yeah. [00:41:25] Like, I haven't done anything on my channel now. [00:41:26] Sure. [00:41:27] But once I get monetized again, I'm going to blow this shit up so big. [00:41:29] Yeah. [00:41:30] But you made a breaking point. [00:41:31] Having backlinks on WorldStar. [00:41:33] Oh, my gosh. [00:41:35] Yo, yo, hold on, hold on. [00:41:36] W's in the chat for WorldStar. [00:41:37] That shit. [00:41:42] Videos that go on WorldStar have backlinks, right? [00:41:45] That trail to your videos on YouTube, Rumble, wherever you post your main videos, right? [00:41:49] What's a backlink? [00:41:50] It just means a video that has links to your other channels. [00:41:53] So, which means, I've watched a video on WorldStar. [00:41:56] Yeah. [00:41:56] I'm watching the video, and the links go to my YouTube right after. [00:42:00] Guys, understand that, like, that through your channel is a huge boost. [00:42:03] That's a blessing. [00:42:04] It's traffic coming through your channel. [00:42:06] Otherwise, it would not have been there. [00:42:07] So, having WorldStar post your videos is insane. [00:42:11] At that time, they were on fire, bro. [00:42:14] Am I going to think of pranks, bro? [00:42:15] Actually, you know what? [00:42:15] Real quick. [00:42:16] So, my pranks on WorldStar were kind of the same thing. [00:42:20] Yeah. [00:42:20] Where, like, I said, am I going to think of pranks? [00:42:22] And they post them too. [00:42:23] Yeah. [00:42:25] Is this a poppin' or not really? [00:42:27] I mean, what's his name who made the song? [00:42:30] I might swerve on it. [00:42:32] He brought it back. [00:42:33] Jello. [00:42:34] Yeah, Jello brought it back. [00:42:35] Jello. [00:42:36] Hold on, let me take this one in. [00:42:38] So it's the Fresh Prince CEO. The Gold Digging Prince? [00:42:42] Yeah, yeah. [00:42:42] Oh, buddy. [00:42:44] Old, bro. [00:42:44] Old. [00:42:46] Why are you searching this up? [00:42:47] Like, that was a time, bro. [00:42:49] That changed our life. [00:42:53] 192k views. [00:42:54] What? [00:42:55] That's free promo. [00:42:57] Did you pay for that? [00:42:58] 100%. [00:42:59] And how much did they charge you? [00:43:00] Well, no. [00:43:01] I had a hookup. [00:43:02] So, I'm a YouTuber that did it before and he helped me up and I got a special. [00:43:07] See, that's about who you know? [00:43:08] Exactly. [00:43:09] Or who knows you? [00:43:09] That's right. [00:43:10] It says here sponsored. [00:43:12] But look at the views. [00:43:13] Wow. [00:43:14] So, remember, this is my channel on YouTube. [00:43:16] That's COVID time. [00:43:17] So, the backlink, basically, is literally... [00:43:20] On to my channel. [00:43:22] So now, if I click it right here, guys. [00:43:25] Hey, guys. [00:43:25] It's your boy, Freshprint CEO. We're out here once again. [00:43:29] And we are in Miami. [00:43:30] Okay? [00:43:31] So today, Corona's going around. [00:43:33] It's kind of crazy how much people are out. [00:43:35] But today, we're going to do the gold digger prank, right? [00:43:37] This is actually a plug because now, if you can put videos on Rollstar or, for example, any other platform, Shade Room, whatever it is, and you backlinks your main channel, mad traffic. [00:43:50] So it's like, people wonder, how do you grow? [00:43:53] Like, how do you grow your channel organically? [00:43:55] How do you grow it, like, outside of your platform, like YouTube, Twitch, X? It's by doing shit like this. [00:44:02] And we never paid for an advertisement at all. [00:44:05] That's great. [00:44:07] Let me try to find one of your videos. [00:44:08] Is it still here? [00:44:10] On Worldstar? [00:44:11] No, they posted it on Worldstar's Instagram. [00:44:14] Oh, Instagram. [00:44:14] That's where it popped off. [00:44:16] And at that time, what I was going to say is that... [00:44:19] We were grinding videos. [00:44:20] We filmed every single day right after school. [00:44:25] Sometimes we would skip school just to get the content because we had a great idea. [00:44:29] And Salim is very, very good at ideas. [00:44:33] But the time Worldstar posted it is when we were at maybe 6-7k on Instagram on his page. [00:44:40] And we had 60 videos up. [00:44:44] And when they posted it, those views went from like... [00:44:47] 30k views, 100k views to like 500,000, 700,000 on average. [00:44:54] And then we just kept posting. [00:44:56] 2 million, 11 million. [00:44:58] If you look at his page on Instagram, you'll literally see the numbers like at the time. [00:45:02] Insane, bro. [00:45:03] Life changing. [00:45:04] So crazy. [00:45:05] So do you think that like, okay, let's say I'm new to YouTube, right? [00:45:08] Yeah. [00:45:09] And I want to blow up on YouTube. [00:45:11] What's the best way you go ask someone to blow up now? [00:45:13] Like you tell them, listen, do X, Y, Z, step one, two, three. [00:45:17] I mean, be nice to everyone. [00:45:19] Not for just benefits with content. [00:45:25] Me being nice to everybody, I feel like that's why I'm still in the game. [00:45:28] You're likable. [00:45:29] Yeah, be likable. [00:45:30] But that can make you be fake, you know what I'm saying, if I say that vaguely. [00:45:36] Just try to be yourself. [00:45:38] If you're a scumbag, then you might be cooked. [00:45:41] If no one likes you, you're cooked. [00:45:43] Unless you're... [00:45:44] Jack Doherty, and you start fucking managing, you know? [00:45:47] Both girls? [00:45:48] Yeah, then you're good. [00:45:50] Okay, and then let's say we talked about having videos outside of YouTube on the platforms. [00:45:56] That helps with backlinks. [00:45:58] Oh, you definitely got to post short-form content. [00:46:00] That's how people know my face, like outside of note. [00:46:03] I post clips on TikTok, YouTube shorts, and my most viral shit is from a clip. [00:46:12] It just takes like six seconds for somebody to really fuck with you. [00:46:15] Were you on Vine at all? [00:46:17] Were you on Vine? [00:46:18] I was on there just watching people's content. [00:46:20] Never posted. [00:46:21] So you did only YouTube, basically? [00:46:23] YouTube, TikTok, Instagram. [00:46:26] Now, tickets from those videos to Nelk. [00:46:28] How'd you join Nelk? [00:46:31] Oh, so like when we were in L.A., when we moved there from Sacramento, we met them at a house party. [00:46:37] They DM'd them. [00:46:39] We bumped into each other at a party. [00:46:40] Or they invited us to a party. [00:46:42] I think it was during Coachella. [00:46:44] Yeah. [00:46:46] And I didn't really know who they were at first. [00:46:48] I would hear them talk about it when we were in school. [00:46:52] And when we started collabing, the videos just went through the roof every single time. [00:46:57] And then, shout out to them. [00:46:59] They let us move into their spot because we were couch surfing. [00:47:03] Extremely grateful for them. [00:47:05] Okay, so back then, money-wise, how much were you actually making? [00:47:08] I wasn't making shit. [00:47:10] Really? [00:47:11] Yeah, I was just filming videos. [00:47:12] I mean, I would make money from just asking people at the gas station, like, could you give me money for gas? [00:47:19] I just had a car. [00:47:21] We'd get chips and shit like that. [00:47:23] And that was the best feeling. [00:47:25] I'd get like $20 for a bag of chips or some shit. [00:47:28] Some water. [00:47:30] What? [00:47:30] Yeah, and we'd just split it and just go. [00:47:32] Literally right after we got it, we'd push. [00:47:35] Sometimes it would take like three, four stops just to get to UCLA. And then all the way back to the house that we were sleeping at, you know? [00:47:43] Okay, so they DMed Saleem. [00:47:45] You guys meet up at a party. [00:47:46] Yeah. [00:47:47] What happened next? [00:47:48] We were just honestly just talking about girls. [00:47:51] I feel like that's the best way to connect with people. [00:47:54] Me being sober, that's my outlet. [00:47:56] Just, oh my bad. [00:47:59] Like, the best, that's also, the reason why I had a hard time like communicating with people after high school is because I realized that everyone's alcoholics. [00:48:09] And so, like, I felt like a weirdo for not drinking and shit, you know? [00:48:15] So you never drank at all in college? [00:48:17] I never. [00:48:18] I went to college for one day, but... [00:48:20] For one day? [00:48:21] Yeah. [00:48:22] Damn. [00:48:24] And, um... [00:48:25] Oh, yeah. [00:48:26] I just... [00:48:27] I don't... [00:48:28] I personally don't drink because that fucked up my family, for real. [00:48:32] Like, ruined it. [00:48:33] Wow. [00:48:34] And so, like, yeah. [00:48:35] Like your mom and dad? [00:48:37] Um... [00:48:38] I've never seen my dad, but mom... [00:48:41] I know that's what it was. [00:48:42] Yeah, it definitely... [00:48:43] Being black, you know? [00:48:44] No, yeah. [00:48:44] What's it like having a dad? [00:48:45] I don't know. [00:48:46] But I think it's very important to have father figures. [00:48:48] Yeah. [00:48:49] Or a mentor. [00:48:50] My granddad for me. [00:48:51] Shout out to Granddad Fresh. [00:48:53] Granddaddy Fresh? [00:48:54] Granddaddy Fresh. [00:48:55] Take shit. [00:48:55] Uncle Fresh. [00:48:56] That should be your name once you get up there. [00:48:58] No, stop it. [00:48:58] To the big league. [00:48:59] Stop it. [00:48:59] Give it two years. [00:49:00] No, I'm joking. [00:49:00] No, I'm joking. [00:49:01] But, no, yeah. [00:49:02] Drinking in that room with my family, so that's why I don't really do that shit. [00:49:05] I shotgunned a... [00:49:07] White Claw before. [00:49:09] And I shotgun some shit with P&E. It's YouTubers. [00:49:13] Recently. [00:49:14] And that's pretty much. [00:49:15] So, let me get it straight. [00:49:17] So, you pretty much go to a party. [00:49:19] You know, we now talk about girls. [00:49:21] Yeah. [00:49:21] And then, when did they sign you? [00:49:25] After like a month and a half, I think, of filming with them. [00:49:30] Like, every single video we did with them for their channel. [00:49:34] Because I was full-time filming for Slim at the time. [00:49:38] It just went fucking viral. [00:49:40] Like, back to back to back. [00:49:41] Like, imagine 20, 30 videos in a row, like, outperforming the last one. [00:49:47] That's a great feeling. [00:49:48] Yeah. [00:49:49] It's like a high. [00:49:50] But you know what they say. [00:49:51] You're always good as your last video. [00:49:53] Only. [00:49:53] Oh, yeah. [00:49:54] That's what they say. [00:49:55] Yeah. [00:49:55] So, like, how would you be able to, like... [00:49:57] Because mentally, you've got to prepare the next video, keep it going. [00:50:01] How'd you, like... [00:50:02] I mean, nope. [00:50:04] We have such a great team. [00:50:05] Like... [00:50:06] I have at least five editors cooking up at all times. [00:50:11] You got managers. [00:50:15] Kyle has really good ideas. [00:50:17] When you have a synergy of people that just have like minds, it just makes everything so much easier. [00:50:23] Yeah. [00:50:25] So, what's next for you, bro? [00:50:28] Streaming. [00:50:29] And DJ as well, too. [00:50:31] I've been a bender of that. [00:50:33] You got to have that energy, bro. [00:50:34] To stream and go crazy. [00:50:35] You got to be, like, popping. [00:50:37] You got to be, like, on point. [00:50:38] All the time. [00:50:39] It's not easy, bro. [00:50:41] Oh, yeah. [00:50:41] Especially when you're a fucking introvert. [00:50:43] But that's why, if I can have people around me, like my crew, just with good energy, I can do it. [00:50:50] Okay. [00:50:51] All right. [00:50:52] So, listen. [00:50:53] We're going to cut it here. [00:50:54] But where can they find your bro? [00:50:55] What's next for you? [00:50:56] If anything else, other than that, and then we'll move on. [00:50:58] I mean, you guys can find me. [00:51:00] If you want to see me in person. [00:51:02] Pull up to Gasparilla. [00:51:03] It's a pirate-themed event. [00:51:04] You should definitely go to this. [00:51:06] Where is it? [00:51:06] It's in Tampa. [00:51:09] Is it like house music? [00:51:10] What is it like? [00:51:10] It's just a bunch of people. [00:51:12] It's like Mardi Gras. [00:51:13] Everybody. [00:51:13] It's a parade where a bunch of people dress up as pirates. [00:51:17] I went last year. [00:51:19] You know what I mean? [00:51:20] You're going to be a pirate? [00:51:21] I'm going to be a pirate. [00:51:22] Black Sparrow. [00:51:24] But if you guys want to catch me, see me in person. [00:51:26] If you don't know me, you can find me on Instagram at RealCousinJay. [00:51:31] YouTube, Cousin J. Yeah, man. [00:51:38] Get shit done. [00:51:41] That's one piece of advice I'll leave to you. [00:51:44] Here it is, guys. [00:51:45] Cousin J right here. [00:51:46] What's your funniest skit, bro? [00:51:49] Funniest video? [00:51:50] I'd say the most recent YouTube video that you were in. [00:51:53] But, oh, right here. [00:51:54] This is the craziest shit on my Instagram, I feel like. [00:51:57] Yeah. [00:52:01] Yes, I have, brother! [00:52:02] Yes, I am! [00:52:03] No! [00:52:04] What's going on there, bro? [00:52:10] So, we're going to Moxie. [00:52:11] She ain't never met a nigga like me. [00:52:13] And these people ran into us. [00:52:16] They seen the camera. [00:52:17] They're like, what do you do? [00:52:17] I'm like, I do YouTube. [00:52:19] This mom's granddaughter is like, yo, they're famous! [00:52:23] Like, because they looked me up. [00:52:25] Yeah. [00:52:26] And... [00:52:26] That was it? [00:52:28] This lady. [00:52:28] She ain't never met a nigga like me. [00:52:30] Hey! [00:52:31] Yes, I have, brother! [00:52:33] Yes, I have! === Imagine Your Grandma (02:24) === [00:52:34] She's married? [00:52:41] I didn't know. [00:52:42] I would never knowingly go into a situation trying to bag some shit. [00:52:47] She says it right here. [00:52:48] Right after this. [00:52:49] boom she wanna go you gotta start up the new year right my husband you gotta this is why generations that's somebody's uh that's someone's And mother. [00:53:06] And grandmother. [00:53:07] Okay, she's the 304 grandmother. [00:53:10] Wow. [00:53:11] Interesting. [00:53:13] That's shameful, bro. [00:53:14] That's disgusting. [00:53:15] What the fuck, bro? [00:53:16] Imagine that's your grandmother. [00:53:18] But if you think about it, we have to come to the realization, this is what Martin Luther King died for. [00:53:23] What the fuck, man? [00:53:26] Hold on, he's there for grandmother's to twerk on niggas? [00:53:29] This wouldn't have happened if it wasn't for the king. [00:53:32] That is true, actually. [00:53:34] So, he did it justice, but with justice, there comes disjustice. [00:53:41] And, I mean, black power. [00:53:45] Black power. [00:53:47] Okay, okay, okay. [00:53:48] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:53:49] This is Cousin J, man. [00:53:51] This guy right here is hilarious. [00:53:53] He's way funnier in a natural habitat. [00:53:55] Not really on camera sometimes. [00:53:56] No, I agree. [00:53:57] I agree. [00:53:57] My best moments are captured off camera. [00:53:59] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:54:00] 100%. [00:54:01] But he's coming out with his episodes that you can see on his YouTube channel. [00:54:05] Every Sunday, baby. [00:54:06] We get shit done over here. [00:54:07] Every Sunday, man. [00:54:08] Go support him. [00:54:09] There's a bunch of stuff coming. [00:54:10] And as well, you're going to be at Gasparilla, you said? [00:54:13] Gasparilla. [00:54:13] Gasparilla. [00:54:14] And you'll be seeing, if you guys want to meet fresh, definitely pull up to Gasparilla because he'll be there. [00:54:20] Where was this? [00:54:22] This was Michigan. [00:54:25] Yeah. [00:54:26] And also Boston, Massachusetts. [00:54:29] Okay. [00:54:29] Best college parties you've been to? [00:54:31] Penn State. [00:54:31] Penn State? [00:54:32] Hands down. [00:54:32] They're fucking electric. [00:54:34] Okay. [00:54:35] Okay. [00:54:35] Penn State. [00:54:35] And Alabama go crazy too. [00:54:37] But Penn State, literally anytime someone asks me, that's the first thing that comes to mind. [00:54:42] Okay. [00:54:42] And also UConn. === Why Greece Over Israel? (02:26) === [00:54:44] Connecticut, they have my heart. [00:54:46] Connecticut. [00:54:46] That's where I blew up on my channel. [00:54:48] That's where Myron's from. [00:54:49] Connecticut. [00:54:50] Say it. [00:54:51] Swear. [00:54:52] Yeah. [00:54:52] I think he's a part of the law, too. [00:54:54] Oh, my gosh. [00:54:56] You can never find a girlfriend there, guys. [00:54:58] Don't find a girlfriend there. [00:54:58] Oh, Miami's cooked, too, bro. [00:55:00] Trust me. [00:55:01] It might be cooked everywhere. [00:55:02] Well, it's a lot harder nowadays, bro, for sure. [00:55:05] Yeah. [00:55:06] What about Arizona? [00:55:07] Someone say Arizona. [00:55:08] Doobie stew? [00:55:09] I don't know about Arizona, but it's definitely... [00:55:12] They got some hot chicks here. [00:55:13] But, I mean, I personally... [00:55:15] I don't want to... [00:55:16] I'm not going to marry a girl who's fucking fine as shit. [00:55:20] Why is that? [00:55:23] I mean, it's fine as shit to what other people view it as. [00:55:26] It's BBLs. [00:55:27] I want a natural girl. [00:55:29] Yeah, natural girl. [00:55:30] I don't want her to rely on makeup. [00:55:33] I don't have a problem with it, but she's not going to rely on makeup. [00:55:35] Best country to travel to? [00:55:39] I guess for girls. [00:55:40] In your space. [00:55:41] For girls? [00:55:42] Russia? [00:55:44] They had some fine shit. [00:55:45] I don't know why. [00:55:47] Israel had some... [00:55:49] Israel? [00:55:50] Pretty fine shit. [00:55:51] Wait, wait, wait. [00:55:51] Israel? [00:55:52] Israel, yeah. [00:55:53] Wait, wait, wait. [00:55:54] Where Jesus walked. [00:55:56] Really? [00:55:56] Yeah. [00:55:58] Jerusalem. [00:55:59] How many of you go to Israel, bro? [00:56:01] Yeah. [00:56:03] I mean, Brazil. [00:56:05] Brazil? [00:56:05] Yeah, I went to Rio de Janeiro. [00:56:07] Okay. [00:56:08] Fine shit. [00:56:09] Okay, okay. [00:56:10] The club's there. [00:56:10] Brazil was like, was it hard to like close or was it just like, yo, we're here, we're lit, we're having fun? [00:56:16] Google Translate. [00:56:19] Worked well? [00:56:20] Yeah. [00:56:21] Okay. [00:56:22] And then last but not least, I'll say Greece. [00:56:24] Had some fine shit too. [00:56:25] Greece? [00:56:26] Yeah. [00:56:27] Mykonos? [00:56:28] Mykonos, yeah. [00:56:29] See, I've never been, but I do want to go. [00:56:31] Their clubs are lit. [00:56:32] It was this place. [00:56:33] What was it called? [00:56:35] It had like that Miami feel to it. [00:56:37] Wait, did you go to visit Andrew? [00:56:39] Yeah. [00:56:40] In your group? [00:56:40] Yeah, I met him out there. [00:56:41] You were there too? [00:56:41] Okay, cool. [00:56:42] That was in Croatia. [00:56:43] Croatia? [00:56:44] How was that? [00:56:44] It was amazing. [00:56:46] It was amazing. [00:56:47] It looked like a lot of fun. [00:56:48] Yeah, it was unreal. [00:56:49] Just being on the boats out there. [00:56:51] Just experiencing the weather. [00:56:53] And just people. === Alright Man (00:26) === [00:56:55] You walk everywhere in Europe. [00:56:58] Okay, listen guys. [00:56:59] This is it for the stream. [00:57:01] Shout out to Cousin Jay. [00:57:01] Thank you for coming through, bro. [00:57:02] Appreciate it. [00:57:03] Thank you, bro. [00:57:03] And until next time, we'll see you guys later. [00:57:06] Let's go. [00:57:07] Any last thoughts for the chat? [00:57:08] At all? [00:57:09] Any last words? [00:57:12] Get. [00:57:13] Shit. [00:57:14] Done. [00:57:14] Done, let's go. [00:57:15] Let's go, let's go. [00:57:16] Peace, guys. [00:57:18] Let's go. [00:57:19] Alright. [00:57:19] Just like that, man. [00:57:21] Just like that, man. [00:57:22] Cool.