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Jan. 8, 2025 - Fresh & Fit
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The Truth About Dating That No One Told You!
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We're live!
Guys, this is the first edition of A Fresh Start Podcast.
My new podcast on the other side of things.
And today we're going to interview Casey Redbeard, my boy, my ex-roommate, my homie.
He's been in the game for a while.
But guys, there's been lies told about the dating game so many times around the world.
And me, Casey, crap the code.
I've focused on Instagram, social media.
I've focused on traveling abroad and Instagram.
You guys, the best content possible for getting dates and getting laid.
So Casey, I know you are.
But they may not.
Tell them who you are, brother.
Yeah, Casey Redbeard for obvious reasons.
Passport bro extraordinaire.
Fluent in English, obviously.
Also Spanish and Portuguese.
Travel to minimum 25 countries.
Who's counting?
I've lost count.
Maybe something like 75 cities.
I have the insights and wisdom from pulling girls from the Amazon rainforest all the way to Africa.
From Tennessee to Taipei.
So you're going to get a big...
Broad spectrum of wisdom.
And we're going to break it down because there's a lot of clowns on the internet giving really bad dating advice.
We're here to give you the truth.
The best strategy is what's actually working both domestically and abroad.
And a little bit of a preamble or a little bit of a foreshadowing.
A lot of it's going to involve social media because the future is digital dating.
About 40 to 50% of relationships, romantic relationships, already begun on social media.
And it's...
Going up a lot as time goes on.
So, how do you want to start us off?
So, first of all, we've got to tell people the truth about dating.
Guys, dating games monetize.
What does that mean?
Let's be real here.
Most people nowadays are dating as a transaction.
It's scary, but it's the truth.
And a lot of times people say, oh, bro, I'll never pay.
But you'd be surprised.
Like, your girl next door is getting paid by possibly Sugar Daddy.
Or...
For some feet pics on OnlyFans.
Who knows nowadays, guys, but Drake made a song he mentioned, Hot Girl, but there's a link in the bio.
And it's almost like if, like, not every girl, but a lot of girls are almost, like, trapped in this world of, like, sex and selling.
So, it's monetized, man.
You've got to find the diamonds in the rough.
And to be honest with you guys, you have to source a lot of girls.
And this could be tiresome because it's everywhere.
It's in Miami, it's in Colombia.
Dude, it's in Brazil, too, right?
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
Huge pay-for-play problem.
Many parts of Brazil.
The North of Brazil is better, but we can talk about more.
So basically, guys, back in the day, what I did was I figured out very quickly that me being in Miami, where I'm at, I got to acquiesce to the actual environment.
Now, I figured out cold approaching was cool and all.
I did that for actually a year and a half.
I got some results, but it was time-consuming.
A little bit more nuances there, where I was kind of going to clubs, going to bars, but obviously speaking, cold approaching isn't the best approach all the time.
However, when I implemented Instagram, added to myself my profile, boosted it up, made it what it is today, it was insane getting a lot of matches.
Now, someone says to me, oh, fresh, DM 100 girls?
That's OD. Well, my friend, to save time, that's actually better because going out every single day, cold approaching is cool and all, but numbers and scale-wise, you can't scale that much.
If I could sit in bed, take a shower, get ready for the day, send some DMs out, I'm done.
Yo, come to Miami.
Come to Miami.
Come to Miami.
Okay, so that's one of my openers, come to Miami.
Which is very simple, guys, but a good profile doesn't matter.
So, my main thing, guys, is that sourcing is going to be one of your best tools to get girls, of course, because guys complain all the time, why don't we get a girl's kiss here or fresh?
What's happening?
Well, you don't source at all.
You kind of wish for them to fall in your lap, but it's not going to happen that way.
So, what have you figured out with dating yourself to get girls and sourcing?
Yeah, so you hit the nail on the head with a lot of things there.
Going out and doing cold approach, that should be the base of everything.
You're not going to learn how to have a strong, masculine frame.
You're going to be kind of an oofy-doofy around girls.
We even have a service where we have an online dating virtual assistant.
But if we get you 100 dates but you're a weirdo in real life, none of that's going to help.
So there's going to be some basis of lux-maxing or looks-maxing.
Some basic things that you've got to get handled.
Otherwise, if you're a fat piece of shit, obviously we're very average looking and we make social media game work.
But if you're not at least somewhat average looking, it's not going to work.
Another thing I like that you said is, we talked about cold approach is the basis of it.
That's where you build your confidence, your core social skills.
Nothing else works without some basis of understanding of female psychology, some confidence, be able to make good eye contact, keep a strong voice, a strong masculine frame around them.
But going back to what we said about, so that's like first box you've got to check, right?
Yeah.
Then, you know, sourcing online like you were talking about.
Mostly Instagram.
Do you use dating apps at all?
I use very little dating apps.
So back in the day, I actually used Tinder, Bumble, and I used to use POF. POF! No, to be honest, bro.
Shout out to Plenty of Fish.
You know your boy's almost like half Nigerian, so I was into the BBWs.
That worked very well for me.
Oh, man.
You hit a niche market, bro.
Bro, okay, you know what, guys?
If you're on premium, I'm going to show you my...
Past dating people that I dated in the past.
I got some pictures from the past, some catalogs.
So guys, what I did was I documented my whole journey from coming to America 10 years ago, dating, struggling, living in my car, all that stuff I covered.
And I have all the files and videos to show you guys behind the scenes.
But, you know, dating apps to me is not really the best way.
Hinge is a little bit of a...
It can be okay.
Instagram is the best.
But one of the best things I've seen is Instagram because think about it.
Think about this.
Literally, guys, Tinder and Bumble, you're getting the trash of the crop or you're getting the hand-me-downs.
They're on the apps.
They have a million guys.
You want girls that are not being hit up constantly, that are beautiful, that actually are not, I want to say, controlled by the TikTok mentality.
And I would say this because with Instagram, you can choose who to DM. You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, a lot of you guys will make a hinge, and if you're not some gorgeous, handsome, top, top, top level guy, they may show you hot girls for the first two or three days, and then put you in a cohort where basically the algorithm has said, he's not a 6'4 Chad, so we're going to show him ugly girls, because this is the only chance he has a matching width, versus a lot of these girls on Instagram, especially we like to find girls with private profiles.
Yes.
Guys, there's a secret sauce.
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Tell him, Casey!
Am I giving it away?
Yo!
Guys, guys, guys.
You know why we're excited?
Because once you understand Instagram and how it works, it is so easy.
Guys, I started over my Instagram page because it got banned.
You did a new one too as well, right?
I have a lot, but yeah.
The reach and people that respond to our DMs is insane because we know what to do from the very beginning.
Let me say one thing that was on my mind first.
Cold approach is like being kind of like a W-2 or 1099 employee.
Even if you make a good wage, you're trading your time for money.
A lawyer can make what?
$300, $400, $500 an hour?
If that lawyer takes a vacation, You don't make any money on that vacation versus when you have a business that runs in the background, you have passive income, it can continue to generate revenue like a rental property or something.
You have a rental property that generates passive income.
That's how social media can be.
Rather than you having to go out and do the work every single night, go to the club, put on a nice outfit, put on your cologne, get all well-groomed up, stay out really late, pressure to drink, stay out late, messing up your circadian rhythm, waking up at...
11, 12, 1 p.m.
sometimes because you're staying out late.
Social media, you put together a good profile once.
Now, if you don't post a single photo in a year, year and a half, that's a problem.
It's never like one and done.
But for the most part, you put together a really good profile, do a little bit of maintenance on it like you would a rental property.
You've got to change the water heater every now and again.
You've got to update, fresh coat of paint.
But for the most part, you do it once and that serves as passive income and the profile does the attraction for you.
That's why simple messages such as...
Oh, come to Miami.
Works.
Because it's not so much the content of what you say.
It's the profile.
What does a girl see when she sees Walter's profile?
Hanging out with A and B list celebrities, private jets, jewelry, cars.
And here's the thing.
Everyone's thinking, oh, well, I don't have a private jet or a photo with Andrew Tate.
We're going to talk more about that.
You just have to look high status.
I don't think his Instagram is like a cheapable.
To the average person.
Casey, we have evidence actually of people that came to us and have learned and grown to have an awesome page, right?
Actually, on your profile on Instagram.
Yeah.
Let's go to your page real quick, man.
Let's go to mine, yeah.
One second here, guys.
Can you see?
Screen share.
Okay, here we go.
Search.
Ha!
Red Bear Rants.
Alright, where is it?
There's a bunch of them, yeah.
Guys, look at this.
Before and after.
So you want to explain to them the process here?
Yeah, I mean, basically, there's art and science to photography, and you can spend, you know, two years learning it all about fashion, all about posing, all about finding these luxurious environments and where to go, how to do the touch-ups, everything.
There's a lot to it, or you can just hire an expert to do that, and we have a way.
What do you want them to DM me?
You know, my Instagram is redbeardrants1.
If they're interested, what should they message me?
A fresh start.
A fresh start.
Hey, no pun intended.
Message me a fresh start and we can do something where you can straight come out.
Oh, shout out to Austin Holloman, by the way.
Shout out to Austin, man.
Passport bro, extraordinaire like me.
Scroll through some of his photos.
He's got some really...
I mean, bro, this is the same person.
That's crazy, bro.
Night and fucking day.
Guys, wait for my before and after.
Yeah, it's coming.
We'll show you this.
It's coming.
Let's go!
Yeah, and that's like the video.
Cool.
But listen, man.
Guys, real quick.
Just an update so you guys know what's happening here.
So obviously I'm still on a podcast with Myron.
Don't worry about that.
But this is my way to add value in a different way.
You can get a different light of me.
You can see me in a different light, of course, because there's more light here.
But, you know, this is me being more personal, being more of my character, being more fun, friendly, more chill.
And at the same time, guys, like, I got a lot of gems I can share with you guys.
If you're on the Zoom calls at all, premium, you've seen gems I can share with you guys.
But...
Of course, I'm going to bring some celebrity guests here, some friends of mine that are experts in your field of service or careers, and you're going to see an in-depth review of things you can learn on the go, in real time, to better yourself in the future.
And then again, guys, this is a fresh start for me, because I'm being more open, being more vocal.
My buddy here, Casey, is here from Brazil, and I can think of a better idea to start with him on my podcast.
So shout out to you, bro, for coming through.
Absolutely.
Now, real quick, I've been told that fresh...
I'm not good looking, bro.
I'm short.
I'm not in shape.
What do I do?
And then I wonder, hold on.
I'm not good looking either.
Pause.
You're not good looking either.
Super average looking.
Right?
We're not six foot plus.
I mean, with certain shoes I am.
McQueen's!
But it's like, you know, we've been told that we're not those type of guys, but we still win at the game of life, dating, and success.
Why is that?
Well, guys, there's a formula you have to follow.
And if you don't know the formula, you're going to fail.
So the question is, okay, I want girls today, but I'm not getting any results.
What do you do?
So the dating game itself has changed immensely.
It is no longer just like you just show up and say, hey, you want to go on a date?
Good to meet you and leave.
It can happen that way, but guys, it is so much going on in the background right now with social media itself, TikTok brain.
It's almost like the world's caving on itself, right?
So how do you navigate through this crazy world to get dates and source?
Well, it's simple.
We've discovered through Instagram and other ways as well that that's the best way you can find girls and get business done.
But step one is having a good page.
So let's go through an example of your page as well, and then let's do that.
I don't give out any of my personal Instagrams.
If I send you a link, you can put it on that thing right there.
I'll send you my best picks.
Bro, it's crazy.
On the Fresh and Fit show with Myron and stuff, we'll talk later about what happens with the fame and all that.
So he's going to be on this show, and then the show with me and Myron after this.
Guys, real quick.
Actually, just before we get into that too as well.
This is my new channel, Rumble.
Go check it out.
It's called Fresh Start.
I'm going to be posting...
A lot of content here from myself.
And then, of course, some guests that are coming actually this week and next week as well.
I got like 10 guests lined up.
You guys have never met before for different genres, different careers.
You're going to see.
So join my page here called Fresh Start on Rumble.
And we're going to do as well YouTube a little bit here and there.
Real quick for you guys, YouTube.
You can see my new page as well.
Here we go.
View my channel.
I'll DM it to you on Instagram.
Is that the best way to share the link?
There you go.
Yeah, and then DM Casey.
The link as well.
Actually, no.
I'm talking about just show my photos.
You want to show some of my good photos?
You can send it to me on Telegram.
Oh, Telegram?
Okay, I already sent it on WhatsApp.
But either way, guys, we're focused on helping you guys actually get ahead in life and get girls for dating.
Now, I want to cover this as well.
So a memory I mentioned before is monetize the whole dating game.
So this is some dark truth here you're going to understand that's happening.
Sadly, guys, the girl next door that was cute, cully, and amazing...
Might be the girl that's selling feet pics or OnlyFans.
Which automatically makes it hard to hear because now she's been seeing everybody and no longer a commodity for you.
Also, let's say she's not the OnlyFans.
Cool.
She may even send a DM pic or Snapchat pic.
Premium Snapchat is what they call it.
And it's like a finesse because you don't see the link for OnlyFans but there's like a secret chat on Snapchat that they send you photos and then people buy the videos.
It's insane, man.
Anyhow, there's so many tricks and things going on in the background that you guys don't know that we'll share with you behind the membership because I can't put it on here.
But, just so you guys understand, the dating game is very, I want to say, dangerous.
Because you might actually find a good girl, but low-key, she's doing things behind the scenes.
As you guys have seen, my issues that I've been through, it's crazy, guys.
I've been through so many girls, so many dating experiences.
I can tell you what to do and what not to do.
Most people talk about it, but they've never been through it.
I've been through it, and so has Casey.
If you want the most headaches you've ever had in your life, start posting a lot of hot girls on your Instagram.
Take me down.
I don't want to be on your page.
I know I gave my permission two years ago, but we're not dating anymore.
Take me out.
I'm suing you.
I'm going to cancel you.
I had a girl, right, bro, I did a vlog with back in the day, because you know I used to do vlogs with girls, right?
And she was like, yeah, I'm cool with this.
This is awesome.
Bro, all of a sudden, like a year later, she's like, hey, can you take this video down?
I'm like, No.
What the fuck?
Why?
Oh, well, I got a boyfriend now, and I'm like, well, sweetheart, you know, this is what you can do.
Just keep moving on with your life.
Yeah, yeah.
And forget the video.
Just ignore the fucking video.
Take about this.
Go over there.
Yeah.
And it happens all the time.
But get back on track here, though, guys.
I think a lot of you guys want to have success in dating.
That's why you came to the Freshly Fit Podcast, of course.
I know you're coming here as well.
And today's episode is about getting things done the right way.
Now, one thing I do want to mention is that, like, Casey has a background from back in the day with me in Brickell, as roommates, and he's seen my evolution from working at Wix.com all the way to now, and the girls I've dealt with over that period of time.
Now, he decided to go, actually, overseas to...
All over Latin America, yeah.
To go where he's appreciated to get what he wants.
So when you talk to him about going overseas and what that means for you, I'll help us out the man.
Yeah, okay, so let's start with the basics here.
Whenever you become a passport bro, you know, all my comments, they start off with, this guy couldn't cut it in his own country.
He couldn't get girls in his own country.
No, he did.
Yeah, definitely did.
So if you guys, you know, good friends with every major pickup artist of all time.
Todd V. Dating, good friend of mine.
Owen Cook, good friend of mine.
Dave Perotta.
I knew all the Mystery Method guys.
I mean, I go way back.
I have tons of receipts at Evan's show I picked up.
Owen Cook.
Yeah.
Owen Cook.
That's RSD Tyler.
Shout out to him.
Yeah.
Still talk.
I talk to him like at least once a month.
We keep in touch.
And yeah, a lot of receipts.
I'm well known in the LA pickup scene.
But you have to understand.
And again, when we go on the other show, we can talk about the pros and cons of being a said passport.
Yes.
It's not all unicorns and rainbows.
They don't just all line up for gringos.
There's visa issues, learning a foreign language, the loneliness, making new friends, not understanding the culture.
They have their own memes and celebrities.
And you're like, well, I don't know who.
X, Y, Z, you know, person is.
But at the end of the day, you know, you go for a few reasons, right?
The two main ones would be femininity and an easier dating market.
And then it's a lot cheaper.
Now, his problem though, just as well, if you're not actually the man that you should be when you leave here, you're going to fail.
Exactly.
Yeah, people see my Instagram and, you know, a lot of comments say something to the effect more or less of like...
This is some 90-day fiancé shit.
Because they'll show...
Do you want to play a reel real quick?
Yes.
You don't have to do any audio or anything.
Where is it?
It's on my Instagram.
Got it.
Yeah.
You'll see it.
And just click Reels at the top there.
Just literally any one of them.
Cool.
That second one right there is a good one.
Why not?
And you've got to share a screen, I guess.
That one, that one, that one.
Sure.
Whichever one you want.
Look at this guy flexing, man.
Look at this guy flexing.
Yeah, you can just leave it with no audio.
That's fine.
And they see this, and I get it.
They see a super average looking white guy crushing it with girls that are all 8s, 8.5s and above.
And I get it.
I get why they would think that.
So to his credit, if you don't have a strong masculine frame, if you can't hold eye contact with girls, if you don't understand female psychology, if you don't know how to protect yourself from getting finessed.
Not too bad.
You know, I do okay for myself.
Given the body that I'm in, I wouldn't imagine...
Also, look at the hair, bro.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yo, Casey has a new hairstyle, pretty much.
That was bad, bro.
Yo, but you know what's funny?
You still pull girls.
Yeah, exactly.
Still.
Even when I was in what they call the ugly duckling phase of a hair transplant.
That's where they put the hair in, but then it all falls out afterwards.
But yeah, going overseas...
Yeah, I mean, you do get appreciated a lot more.
Everything works out easier.
If you go to the right place, there's actually, and I'll talk about this more, you can go to the wrong city.
The golden rule of being a passport, bro, is don't go to a city or a country where dating isn't any more advantageous than what you had in the U.S. Because at that point, you could just stay there.
Exactly.
But yeah, women are more, I mean, what else could I say that isn't obvious?
They're more feminine.
They're more appreciative.
They're less entitled.
They're more prone to being with a man based on chemistry and actual connection rather than a very transactional relationship like you would see in the United States and especially in Miami, how you're talking about this and that.
And one thing I'll say too, women are not women.
I get a little irritated.
Not irritated, but I'm just kind of like, people say like, Oh, well, you know, something like...
All you've got to do is make out with a girl because when you make out with her, then she's going to get too horny and she's going to want to smash.
Or you've got to do this.
You've got to make her jealous.
You've got to flirt with her other friend a little more or make her think you've got better options.
There's dating market-specific advice where that works.
Like a lot of this shit, you know, my roommate will say, never text a girl like a good morning text.
In America, true.
Absolutely.
But this is why, you know, having the wisdom of going, you know, so many places and...
When you have remote income, when you can make money online and go to so many places, you have the luxury and the privilege to, based on if you're a white guy, if you're a black guy, if you resonate more with, you know, Brazilian culture, Mexican culture, whatever language you want to learn, or if you don't want to learn a foreign language, if you want to go to the Philippines, if you like Asian chicks, you can really maximize your value and, like you said, go to where you're appreciated.
The grass really is greener.
Guys, real quick, we've got some chats here on Rumble.
Gaz says, Shelt's Captain Redbeard.
Donald DeMarco Fiume.
Xander says, Hey Fresh, if you guys have free after hours tonight, would you be able to bring Casey on and join?
It's been well since he's been on.
Yeah, I mean, I don't like him that much.
You're okay, but you're not that cool, bro.
Come on, man.
Gazgan says, Hey guys, what question can you ask on a date to make the girl give up red flags before making it obvious?
Ooh!
I like that one.
That is a very good one.
So, Gaz, I got your brother.
So, listen, guys.
The game is to be...
Sold, not told.
But you know what?
We give y'all a game for free because we love you guys, man.
So, it is a actual game you're playing with on a date, right?
More of like a dance because at this point, whoever asks the most questions wins.
Let me explain.
The one asking the questions is in control because questions are going to lead to answers that you have to kind of open up to to respond to and kind of expand on, right?
Which means...
If you ask those questions, right, they're going to talk a lot about themselves, because they love to talk about themselves, you know?
I'll say this about girls, bro, like, ask them a question about themselves, they'll expand upon that heavily.
Now, about you, not so much, but for them, they love talking.
So, use that to your advantage.
And I think for most people here, you can relate to not having to want to talk a lot anyway, so ask questions is way easier.
For me, especially because I hate talking that much, and honestly, bro, like, I just want to smash, so I just want to ask questions.
So, how do you begin?
Very simple, guys.
Ask about them.
You'll be surprised.
When you're interested in somebody and what they like, they tend to like you more.
You become more likable.
So it works in your favor tenfold.
Now, Gazan's question, what should he ask to bring up red flags right away?
Now, obviously speaking, you don't want to be like, hey, what are your red flags?
That's too obvious in plain sight.
So you want to be a ninja, a.k.a.
a Trojan horse, right?
You want to ask questions that are more, I want to say general, but lead to a directed response that you want to hear.
Which is, for example, Girls say all the time, oh, are you guys' question, what are your hobbies?
They'll be like, oh, having friends, beach, party sometimes.
Like, yeah, parties.
Yeah, parties.
And, guys, you've seen our videos on the podcast where girls talk about what they do.
And girls' nights out, right?
So this is what I like to ask girls especially.
So let's say you're off of work.
What do you do for fun?
They'll be like, oh, well, you know, girls' nights out.
I like to go on yachts.
I like to, like, travel in my free time.
Oh, really?
You like to travel?
Where do you travel to?
I've been to Dubai.
I've been to Cancun.
I've been to Turks and Caicos.
Oh, really?
That's amazing!
I'm the market for you!
It is like, uh, what do you go with?
Oh, myself.
Oh, hell no!
See how I just came to a conclusion when I have to answer if it's a red flag or not?
So...
I know it sounds crazy, guys, but it is pretty simple.
Just ask questions and then show interest and be like, really?
No way.
You go by yourself?
And then it's like, she's one of those.
So listen, guys, it's not that hard, but understand, like, ask questions, lead to more questions, sorry, lead to more answers, then you can kind of pinpoint and lead down your path to what you want to know.
But again, it's just answer questions, guys, be in general, and then putting it more of like a yes or no question to what you want to hear.
And obviously smile, laugh about it, don't be like, Travel alone?
Then it's obvious.
You want to be still chill, still the same, still normal, but ask questions to lead to a certain desired result.
And that's pretty much how you do it, man, at that point.
Now, I want to talk, let me add on this too.
You can tell a shitload of red flags just by looking at their social media.
That too.
If she has these story highlights, Paris, France, Dubai, nicest restaurant in her city.
A bottle of, you know, champagne either at a restaurant, this and that.
Who's paying for that fresh?
Is the typical beautiful 8.5 girl in Miami a successful crypto or stock trader?
Does she make online funnels for people?
Is she an online funnel builder?
Do they have the knowledge to have a business to make that type of money themselves?
Are they financing that?
I don't know my friend.
Do they have...
I mean, some things are too obvious, right?
Do they have, like, an Amazon wish list in their bio?
Do they have an OnlyFans link?
Are they, you know, showing scandalous photos?
Do they have a blue check and a lot of followers?
A public account isn't necessarily, like, end all, you know, not Dan, but, you know, is she in Komodo every night?
What are the other ones?
Sugarfit?
What are they called?
Well, here's another thing that's out to your point.
Look at her stories.
Yeah.
When they go to dinner by themselves...
At a nice restaurant.
They're not by themselves.
They're with a dude, bro.
Like, dude, it is so obvious to me.
Girls will be like, oh, I'm at Komodo.
I'm at this restaurant here.
I'm just like, well, Chris, I'm like, you eat by yourself?
No eat by yourself, especially girls.
That's very weird.
So I'm thinking to myself, who are you with?
Obviously, I've been on dates where girls are like, click.
Now, they don't show me, but they show the food.
I'm like, yeah.
If only the dude's new that she's out with a guy.
Posting that pic.
So guys, you can see the signs of social media especially as well, but Dubai is a red flag.
Dubai is the worst.
Dubai is doo-doo.
I've never been to Dubai, but the reason why men go to Dubai is because they have an extremely successful business, and if they're in Dubai six months out of the year, they can claim that as their tax haven, their tax home, and effectively it's like zero taxes or low tax rate.
That's why men go there.
But again, is your typical 21-year-old, 9 out of 10, beautiful, Venezuelan or American white.
We'll say white.
Why am I shitting on Venezuela?
Who cares?
It doesn't matter.
Any girl of any ethnicity.
Is she a fucking, yeah, does she solve some massive problem in the marketplace?
No, no.
They're there to chase the sugar daddies, to chase the rich guys.
So this is the also opposite side of it as well.
Imagine you're judging her from her page.
What's she going to do to you as well?
If it's a bad page, like it's not good profile pictures, not good pictures for your posts or good reels at all.
Bad stories, then she can judge you off of that as well.
So it's a two-way street, guys.
Understand our principle because if you judge her off her page, she'll do the same for you.
And by default, guys, first impressions count.
So a bad impression at the very beginning ruins everything, which we cover as well in our training and in the membership as well.
So that's another thing too as well.
But again, guys, Instagram is the way to go.
I'm telling you.
You know what?
From the podcast itself, the connections I've made, people that come on the show, especially like girls as well, Instagram.
That's what we do it.
The system itself is set up.
So if we can use it for our advantage, why can't you?
Here's another thing too, right?
How weak of a cold approach, how lame and try-hard and self-qualifying would it be for a cold approach?
Walter, if you walked up to a girl and said, Hey, I know you may not know me, but...
I'm this big influencer and I have 17 supercars and I've been on a private jet and I did this really big live event where I was on stage in front of 300 people live.
You can't say that to a girl.
Super try-hard, super needy, super weird.
Good point.
You can showcase it by...
Instagram is a flexing app.
That's what you're supposed to do.
Instagram was invented.
It actually kind of started off as an app for like...
Literally flexing for fitness influence.
If you remember, most people on Instagram in 2011-2012 were literally flexing.
Now I mean flexing, showing off cars.
Instagram is like you show the highlights and best things of your life.
Even if you do do cold approach, some guys say, I'm a big cold approach guy.
That's fine.
A lot of times you cold approach a girl.
She may be like, oh, hey, nice to meet you, but my Uber's coming.
Or, hey, nice to meet you, but I'm on my lunch break.
I've got five minutes.
I've got to walk back.
You don't always have time to insta-date a girl or talk to her for a long time.
Rather than getting a phone number closed, you do a quick Instagram close at the club.
And then she may think of like, okay, he was fairly charming.
He was a normal guy.
I get hit on by a lot of guys.
He was, you know, he was all right in person.
He spoke well.
I kind of liked him.
But then she sees the social media and she goes, whoa, whoa, whoa.
That was the guy who talked to me?
I didn't know I was talking to a guy who does XYZ, fixes up commercial properties, flies around private, stayed at these nice places, has this amazing network, rooftop lounges, big fun friends, group guys, popping champagne, amazing things.
She sees that, she's like, that was the guy who talked to me for two minutes before I got in my Uber?
Now her interest went from like, you presented yourself well in person, but now you just shot through the roof when she sees your online resume.
To his point, guys, The game has changed so much that, like, you pushing a girl is like her having to scan to see who you are.
And the fastest that you can do that with, for example, showing your Instagram profile or your actual dating profile itself helps you.
Now, if you're a nobody, she doesn't know you, then it's like, okay, she might give you a phone number, but, like, there's nothing to it to, like, continue.
But, if you show DHV by not saying it, but just by, hey, here's my page.
And, guys, you don't need a Lambo.
You don't need a Jet.
I'm telling you, back in the day, we didn't have that shit.
Do you want to show my shit in a second here?
Which, it doesn't show, because you guys, Fresh does this on another level.
I send it to you on Telegram.
I can send it to you on, it's just a link, too.
It's just literally a Google Photos link.
Yeah, because I don't want to show it.
And you can scroll to the bottom.
Just show, like, the most recent.
Look at this guy.
Go scroll all the way to the bottom.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Scroll all the way to the bottom.
Guys, that is X-rated in there.
You don't want to see that, man.
Yeah, scroll all the way.
It's just my most...
I kept some of my best photos.
Okay, here we go.
Go all the way to the bottom.
All the way to the bottom.
Bottom, bottom.
Keep going.
Go, go, go, go.
Okay, about these most recent...
Here we go.
Okay, this is Casey.
Yeah, again, so...
Just click it, and we can scroll through it, and I'll explain it.
Just, yeah, click that, any one of them, and just hit the back arrow.
Okay, so this photo, there's no, like the rappers do with the stack of cash cell phone, and they're like, oh, I'm getting a call, and they're holding like 50k, I don't have that.
Where's the Rolex?
Where's the Lamborghini?
Nothing.
It doesn't exist, right?
This is the shirt from H&M, right?
Yeah.
It's Zara, actually, but yeah.
Zara.
I'm probably wearing $150, like shoes, belt, okay, maybe like $180, $200, and everything.
Guys, peep the game.
You can get a full...
Nice set of clothes bro from Zara H&M for under $200.
And guess what?
You can interchange.
Black, white, some slacks.
You're good to go.
Now, you get a camera.
Our photographer is really good.
Get some photos.
There you go.
Let's go through them a little bit more.
Again, here.
Again.
Let's say a girl knows absolutely nothing about me.
What does this photo portray?
Does it look like I'm antisocial and weird and my friends are weak too and I have no money?
I can't do...
I can't take a girl out to a nice place.
Or does it portray the exact opposite?
And another thing too is I don't want to get too off-tangent but a lot of you guys just do what I call the camera roll method which means I gotta make a hinge profile.
I gotta...
Make an Instagram post.
What's already lying around on my camera roll?
Guys, nobody has this lying around on their camera roll.
This is like coordinated with friends, exactly what we're going to wear, exactly what girls are going to be there.
We had the best table in the restaurant.
Two LED light panels, shining light on us.
And again, it's the environment.
There's five things.
I'll go through them real quick.
Lighting, fashion, grooming, location, and making a comfortable expression.
Lighting, fashion, grooming, location.
What's the last one?
Lighting, fashion, grooming, location, and making a comfortable expression.
But again, I'll go through these quick.
This is me giving each.
That was like a video.
Solid, man.
Solid.
Again, there's no Rolex.
There's no Lamborghini.
That blazer was $120.
Here's me feeding a giraffe.
Yeah, just some regular photos.
This is what I call a shirted physique shot because even though I'm wearing a t-shirt, you can clearly see the physique.
Yeah, again, it's, you know, these luxurious environments.
Project high status onto you.
Connection and chemistry matters a lot, but in terms of an online dating setting...
That's a cool shot.
Yeah, thank you.
Before you actually meet the girl and it's an online thing, there's two things she's looking at.
Number one is your genetics.
Are you the ethnicity she likes?
Are you the height she likes?
Are you the bone structure she likes?
Are you in shape?
Whatever.
That's something that you can, you know, luxemax and do things.
Get a hair transplant, work out and stuff.
Hit the gym.
Hit the gym, yeah.
But the other thing is your status.
This is some real gay hair.
Guys, because, like, if you're going to sign this principle for your photos, you can kill it in anything.
Dating apps or Instagram.
Yeah, exactly.
So, you know...
Coconut tree.
Yeah, coconut fresh.
Let's go!
So, again, yeah, I think we're pretty much done here.
I'll show maybe, like, one or two more.
But, yeah, it's just, you know, it's the environment, the fashion.
And, again, I'm not attracting sugar babies.
There's no Lamborghini.
So don't think, like, oh, well, fresh, I don't have 17 supercars.
How much are you wearing right now, fresh?
Are you wearing, like, 100K? This is like...
This is $18K right here.
This is $15K. This is $15K. So let's say $50K, $60K, something like that.
I'm wearing $200, $300.
Yeah.
And my photos, you know, portray that too.
So don't think you've got to be like, oh, well, I'm not a B-list celebrity like Fresh and oh, I can't, this won't work for me.
But this is why I think also location is important.
Yeah.
You can go to a nice hotel.
Guys, you don't have to live like a millionaire.
You can live like a simple guy who's going to nice spots and post that.
Of course, like you said before, nice outfit, nice photo, be a little edits here and there, and then you're good to go.
But guys, again, now in the current climate of dating, it is a social media game for the most part, which means you're going to have good pictures.
Good profile for anything that you do.
If not, guys, you're going to get left behind.
Oh, Casey French, bro!
How do you social media?
Well, my friend, sorry, everyone else does.
So, you're going to be left out.
Now, let's play a quick game here, Casey.
I know you didn't even know this was happening, but we'll play a game, guys, here in the chat.
So, we told you guys red flags about girls on Instagram, not with the green flags.
But, let's go to my store page and see what we can find in my store page.
Looking for green flags?
Yeah, we'll try to find some.
We'll try to find some now, but it's going to be hard, right?
Well, for you, there's some fresh, specific green flags.
They're like BBC. Oh, yeah, I will.
Yo, the algorithm.
Shut up, shut up.
Yo!
Yo, okay, okay, you know what?
Yo.
Let's show yours.
No, yo.
In the building.
Show your Explorer page, bro.
Yo.
This AI shit, you know, social media, knowing who you are, spying on you, his page is curated to show hot white girls that like BBC. Holy shit.
Hold on.
My favorite, alright?
What's my favorite?
Real quick.
Mary515 says, I've been to Mexico, and the women there are better than Mexican-Americans.
They're nice, feminine, and quiet.
Bro, we need to go to Mexico, bro.
You're invited.
I've never been there.
Let's do a show there.
Oh, guys, you know what we should do?
We should travel.
And do shows in different countries with girls and throw parties there with Casey again.
The Colombian one was fun, bro.
Yeah, it was lit, dude.
So we should do more of that.
But hold on.
Real quick.
We got some...
Should we do this or no?
Yeah.
Let's do it.
Sure.
We're looking for a good fight.
This may be difficult.
Guys, so...
We'll do positive flags and then red flags.
So let's see if we can find here on Mike's part page.
We have to stretch this out a bit.
I can say one thing that I see...
One right here.
Hold on.
Hold on.
Guys, put in the chat, thought or not.
Let's see.
Well, the explore page is...
I mean, bro.
What the fuck?
It's an explore page.
Okay, bro.
Guys, put in the chat, thought or not.
You guys tell me real quick, bro.
If anybody says not, just give up on that.
Let him stay for us, bro.
Okay, thought.
Escort.
Let's go back.
But if I'm trying to be friendly...
Okay, freeze it there for one second.
Just one second.
Her?
No, no.
Just go scroll up a little bit.
No, no, no.
Don't even click anything.
Just scroll up.
Okay, freeze.
I will say one thing.
You could...
Again, if I'm to be very generous here, you could say it's a green flag for a girl to post a photo with her man because a lot of hot girls in Miami, even when they have a pretty serious relationship, will not post any guys they're with.
That is true.
So the fact that she...
Again, if I'm to be generous here...
I see some girls posting with their man.
I heard that he's in Dubai running from a case, bro.
I heard it was a setup.
Corey from YouTube.
He's doing what I said.
Why does every rapper or...
I don't know.
What is every tan person?
Please do not show money like this.
Sorry, Corey, but this is not a flex, bro.
Guys, show money like a rapper is an L. You're just a target at that point.
Don't do that shit, man.
It's pointless.
And you know what?
What are you going to track?
Gold diggers.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Just saying, bro.
That's what I saw in my photos.
There was no, you know, whatever.
Okay, what about her?
Let's see.
Ash Kardashian.
Ash Kardashian.
Bro.
Yeah, tattoos.
Bro.
Showing her ass.
No man in the photos.
But she got like 15 tattoos.
That's the tag photos.
Okay, nothing.
Reels.
Bro.
Stop, bro.
Dude, this is pure ass, bro.
Okay, what else we got here?
The fact that it's so curated.
Okay, look.
White girl.
Helen Flanagan.
Okay, let's go.
Okay, no followers.
It's a fan page.
It's a fan page?
Ah, bro, never mind.
I thought we had one.
Okay, guys.
So, typically speaking, you can do a low follower count and, like, that helps sometimes.
But you know what I realize about girls nowadays, bro?
Even the private ones.
Put on the main camera.
Could be hoes, bro.
Like, for example, I bet girls, bro, that are, like, private, with less than a thousand followers, 2K followers, and they be, bro, they be hoeing worse than the ones that are public.
So it's a gamble, guys.
You gotta understand, like, the game nowadays is fucked up, bro.
It's fucked up.
It's scary out here, man.
It's scary out here.
Especially if you don't know what you're doing.
It's hard to learn from the mistakes of others, right?
Follow our content, you know what I'm saying?
We talk about this a lot, rather than make the same mistakes that we did.
But either way, guys...
What the fuck are you holding your hair?
You're not sharing the screen.
No, I'm not.
Alright guys, just so you understand, this page called ExplorePage is a, I want to say, meat market.
Where celebrities and guys that like to have status, I can actually DM girls, look here, and they send them DMs.
So, by analysis and you looking at it from what it is, if the girls showing up here on ExplorePage...
She for the streets.
Just keep it real with you, bro.
I'm telling you right now, bro, she's be damned by celebrities, athletes, NBA players, NFL players, probably me.
It's crazy how the AI knows that if a girl has ever posed with a black guy to show it to you.
That is wild.
Holy!
That's what Fresh likes.
Wait!
She goes to my gym.
It's too scary how these apps...
Oh, she goes to my gym, bro.
No, you.
Bruv.
Holy moly.
That thing is singing.
Quick tangent.
There's going to be some AI in the future that's going to know every text message you sent, every photo you ever liked, every voicemail you ever sent, all your shopping habits.
How you talk to friends, what was said in the group chat, and then on Bumble, your AI is going to date her AI and know what photos you share, what girl, what your type is.
But anyway, that's a tangent, but that's going to be something in the future.
It's going to get really weird, but I'm going to be on top of it.
As this digital dating thing evolves, I'm going to be on the cutting edge of it.
Hey, guys, those are some gems that you can learn from.
Honestly speaking, guys, there's a lot more we can cover here, but I want to get into traveling abroad now.
Oh, sure.
Fully.
Because, guys, here in America, There are good girls out there, I will tell you that.
It's not totally toasted or cooked, but they're hard to find because they're shrouded by the thoughts and the holes out there.
It's the culture.
Mainstream culture is men suck, men are garbage, women rock, girl power!
Men are...
But you know what the big problem here, guys?
The regular female, sorry, woman, that you encounter, maybe a good girl on paper, a TikTok, Her friends, culture, music.
Now she's destroyed because now she can't think for herself.
She's like, oh, follow the crowd.
Go over here.
Go over here.
And it's like...
You know what's funny?
Girls that come to Miami for the first time are so awesome because they're pure for the most part.
They're new.
They've been tainted by the culture.
And then the moment they get on a yacht, I'm like, you got got.
It's over.
It's just like...
You're cooked to that point.
So the culture does affect women heavily.
That's why going abroad can change that environment in a different way.
Yeah.
So...
So tell them the good and the bad.
Yeah.
Two parts of it.
Okay.
Not fully, but it's two parts.
Yeah, the good and the bad.
We'll cover it on the podcast later on.
Yeah, exactly.
So the good and the bad is this, right?
So the obvious.
You can find women that are all of your type, right?
If you like big booty Latina morenas, you can go to a city where, you know, they're all like that.
If you like Asian girls, you can find all that.
And generally, in most places, they're going to be very receptive to foreigners.
And they're going to be more feminine, more cooperative, and just generally more easy to deal with, more in touch with their femininity.
They're going to actually behave like women.
They're not going to have this kind of combative, persnickety, snarky, sarcastic demeanor.
That's the positives.
The negatives is that certain cities, certain places...
The pay-for-play problem can be just as big as it is in here in Miami and stuff.
This is why you've got to be really, really careful on where you go.
Tattoos, especially Latin America, if disgusting bumper stickers and scribbles of women who have scarred their collagen feminine skin with a needle and injected ink underneath their skin disgusts you as much as it disgusts me, that can be a problem.
There are cities where 80% to 90% of the girls, there are cities where 100% of the girls, the young, beautiful girls, have tattoos.
If you don't know anything about female psychology, having a strong masculine frame, if you're a total oofy-doofy here in the U.S., then that's not going to save you overseas.
You can get finessed a lot.
You could also pick the wrong dating market.
For example, I know very, very few people who have ever said good things about Buenos Aires, Argentina.
Generally prefer their own kind, not super impressed with foreigners, and then you're going to leave the most prosperous country.
Which is the U.S., Canada, Australia.
That's probably where most of our viewers are in the first world.
You're going to deal with visa nightmares, learning a foreign language, leaving behind all your friends or going to a dating market.
That isn't even that much better.
And again, for the guy that comes from West Virginia, he's going to go to Buenos Aires and be like, I smashed a six.
It took me a month, but I smashed a six.
Whereas in West Virginia, he was probably an incel.
So he thinks it's all good.
And then there's a lot of random other negatives.
So, hold on.
Let's say I'm black.
Okay.
Where should I go?
If you're a brother.
Yeah, if you're a brother.
Yeah, brother.
Let's see.
Paraguay.
Okay, okay, okay.
Austin Holloman did really, really well in Paraguay.
That's a good one.
Let's see.
What else?
I'm trying to think.
You know, shout out to my boy Austin Holloman.
He could probably tell you more.
He did really well in Salvador, Bahia, Brazil.
What about Africa?
He kills it in Africa, bro.
He moved to Nairobi.
He actually, his whole business now is like offering consultations and how to move to Nairobi, how to buy property there, how to move when you're there.
Bro, I know two millionaires from here that moved to Africa.
I'm like, why would they go to Africa?
But I heard it's thriving over there.
At least like, was it Kenya?
I think it's one of those.
But either way, they moved completely from here over there and they love it.
So you're a bit of a different case.
Fresh likes the Snow Buddies, right?
Fresh is a different case.
But I would say...
Most black guys, in my experience from what I've witnessed, they cab.
They say they want a snow bunny.
They say they like white girls.
Everyone will date Latina.
But at the end of the day, most black guys, at least the ones that I know, they want to go be with a black girl eventually.
It's similar culture.
It's what they like.
They're black.
They like black girls.
Makes sense.
And the thing is, how can I say this in a PC way?
Do you think that black girls in America have a bit of a peppery personality?
Maybe a bit of a sharp tongue.
Then go to Africa, it's a completely different thing.
Super well-behaved, super humble, very, very submissive.
Actually, do you have a reel with one of the girls from there, actually?
It's somewhere in there.
I think you do.
The African girl.
I was surprised to see this, actually.
I was like, what is Casey doing?
Well, he's in Africa, so it makes sense.
Yeah, these guys took reels.
It'll be like on the front.
It's like me kissing her.
She was actually from South Africa, so this was in Kenya.
Oh, right there.
Bruv.
Look at this guy, bro.
The chocolate.
It was just a quick one, yeah.
Yo, this nigga, bro.
Yeah.
This guy, bro.
Goblin all the way in the dark.
Bruv.
No, I do.
I always say this, too, at the end of the day.
So I'm going to do a full video, a full breakdown of Kenya, what it was like to be a white girl.
A white boy there.
What it's like to be a white guy in Kenya and how the women treat you.
But at the end of the day, I am not racist, but my penis is.
Asian girls, white girls, super dark-skinned black girls, they serve their purpose.
I can get down.
I can dabble.
Latinas have my heart, bro.
No, I know.
There's some beautiful white girls.
The Scandinavian girls that have the cheekbones.
Blue eyes.
Polish girls.
They're beautiful.
I'm not going to lie.
Dark-skinned black girls, some of them are beautiful.
But at the end of the day, Latinas have my heart.
But let me say one thing too about Africa and Kenya.
Especially in Nairobi.
It is very normal for girls to approach guys there.
They're about about it.
If you're annoyed with If I had a business meeting with a client and said, yeah, we're interested in doing a deal on property together or interested in just networking, seeing where we can go, the odds that a man would flake on me would be practically zero.
When you say, oh, we're going to meet up with XYZ, a guy who can help us with marketing, we're going to get drinks at Moxie's, he's not going to flake.
We set a time.
We set a location.
We're going to be there.
That's kind of how girls operate in Kenya, at least from my perspective.
I don't know if they operate like that with Kenya guys, but at least for me, if we matched on a dating app, it was for a reason.
We matched, therefore the next logical step is we're going to meet.
We're going to meet in person versus the flake rate.
For you personally, but for the average guy, what is the flake rate of a random hinge match on Miami?
I'll tell you how it was before I am.
Yeah, because now you're famous and shit, but...
Our club is bad, but we have, like, bad clout.
It's not good clout, guys.
Trust me when you say it.
You're like, you're one of them!
I'm like, yeah, bro, here we go.
No, but, um, so back in the day, bro, it would be, like, 100%, I would say, like, around, like, 60% click rate.
Yeah.
And then, the more we got into the culture and the more it got more devolved, 70%.
Easily.
So, but because, remember, in Miami, especially where I'm at, it's almost like if, like, okay, She gets offers every single day, every hour.
Yacht parties, dinner parties, matchup parties, celebrity.
So it's a little more intense here than most places, so it was pretty high for a flavor again.
Oh, just one comment.
JC, dude got jaw filler.
Okay, so here's what I want to address something real quick.
He's a beard, guys.
Yeah.
I'm not the expert on Luke's maxing.
Clearly, right?
I did get a hair transplant.
It's not perfect, but it looks, you know, decent.
I had to get the hair transplant.
I'm doing skin regimen.
I got a whole new, you know, gym thing.
I'm going to start taking some supplements, let's say.
Maybe we can find a physique shot, you know, show the physique.
It's, you know, I'm wearing a blazer now, but, you know, I do have a decent physique under this blazer.
Yeah, we'll find one.
Scroll up a little bit.
Oh, yeah, just show that one.
Whatever, fuck it.
But I did not get jaw filler.
This is called, you know...
Properly trimming your beard, right?
Wes Watson does that too.
And that's when the beard was short.
Yeah, you can see that.
That's the jawline, you know, before the beard.
But yeah, this is all, when we go back to the main camera, you can show it.
Like, this is all just like properly trimming the beard.
It's not bone structure under here.
It's just hair.
It's just hair, guys.
And this is why, I'll get off on a quick tangent here.
You know, Walter, you know, the way you meet girls on, you know, Instagram and what I do.
None of this, I'm going to say none of this, like, the girls we date, you saw on the reels, but check out my Instagram, and you know the type of girls that he dates.
They're all, you know, 8, 8.5s in that range that are really, really beautiful.
You can get lesser quality girls if you're out of shape and stuff, but to get, like, actually attractive girls, especially in the U.S. and probably even in most markets overseas, you have to achieve what I call becoming a universal six.
Okay.
If you're a universal, you know, five and a half, six, something like that, like, you're at least in good shape, you're at least well-groomed, you got a hair transplant, you do a skincare thing, you dress well.
You guys ever be in a group chat with your friends and some guys will post, like, you know, a dark black girl with a fat ass, then the other guy will post, like, a skinny Asian girl, then the next guy will post, like, a very tall Scandinavian chick and someone's guy's like, oh, that black chick is fat, oh, that white girl has no ass, oh, that Asian girl looks like an alien, like, just like the same way that, like, men have, like, very different, you know, tastes in women.
Women got different tastes in guys.
So if you can be a universal 6 and you're doing a lot of volume on the dating apps and Instagram, to some girls, if you're like a universal 5.5, 6, you're going to be a 7.5 and an 8. For a girl who only likes black guys, I'm probably a 2. Vice versa.
For a girl who loves ginger beard, blue eyes, that's her archetype, you're probably a 1. You know what I'm saying?
And you can't get every girl, guys.
So it's going to depend on her preference, of course, but if you can actually be a universal 6, you're going to cover most businesses.
So that's a very good point, bro.
But, in any case, guys, like, I want to say this real quick.
I think for most people here, you came to us, well, beforehand, for dating advice and to become better in life, right?
And it's a whole new year.
It should be a new you as well.
And I think for most people here, you want to grow and become better.
So, if you're doing the old shit from the past and it doesn't work, stop and try the new stuff that we're telling you.
Because, listen, we've been doing it for how long now?
Four or five years?
Yeah, yeah.
And, like, it's been non-stop since I've met you.
Have you seen me go on a drought?
No.
I probably should have.
It's never dry.
I probably should have, but like, at some point, like, doing the same thing over and over again, and it's a different result, it's what?
Insanity.
So I think for most people here, you want to make a change.
So start now, man.
Listen, going out is important.
Most people are home by your computer, just like, rocking off to like, well, pee up is banned in Florida, so whatever you have before you're rocking off to, stop, man.
You need new habits.
There's something you can do that's a new habit, right?
Get out of bed.
Go to your local store or local pub.
Conversate.
Talk to people.
Because I think people here, a lot of people here, especially in the chat, they don't go outside at all.
Which to me is funny because they get so, I want to say, caught up in ideology online.
When you go outside and you actually experience it, you're like, oh wait, hold on.
The world's bigger than this ideology.
It's more like, it's focused on what you know, but then when you go outside, you learn so much more.
So I think just getting outside your house, many people make connections, it goes a long way.
And then of course, when it comes to dating, Try different things.
Listen, some guys are like, bro, I go to Bush, no progress.
Cool.
Maybe it's not for you.
Try online dating.
Try going to different events.
Change your environment, guys.
You can't get a new result speed in the same environment.
You've got to change that shit up.
So my thing for you guys is for the new year, get outside, man.
Do different stuff.
Explore.
Do some hobbies.
Find a sport you want to play.
Right now I'm playing tennis and pickleball.
Think about it.
I've met hell of girls who don't pickleball because they like playing that sport.
Get out of your environment, man.
Try new things.
It's a different year and expand your network, man.
Because I'll tell you this right now, guys.
How we're moving with AI is going to be less social than ever before.
And your whole thing about, oh, bro, I don't want to do social media.
Well, guess what?
With AI, everyone's going to be on that shit no matter what you say.
So it's what it is.
Yeah, I did a whole strategy video.
Maybe at some point we'll kind of break down some of the same things.
My thing was, you know, looks maxing, social media maxing.
Money maxing, doing some automation maxing, online dating virtual assistant service for Myron.
But the one that you were just talking about is social skills maxing.
Social skills is like a muscle, right?
So when you're in the gym, you can put your muscles under stress and tension.
Your muscles go, holy shit, we better adapt.
That was stressful.
We could die.
We were barely able to...
Push the mountain lion off of us or whatever your muscles think on a genetic level, right?
So they've got to adapt and come back stronger and you can train your muscles.
You can train your social skills in the exact same way.
And it's funny.
Just like you can lose your gains by stopping going to the gym.
Bro, sometimes I work all day and...
I'm in my house.
I'm in deep work.
Maybe I was trying something with coding or numbers, not even making content.
And I go outside.
Maybe I'll buy a coffee.
The bracelet goes, oh, enjoy your coffee.
And I'm like, yeah, you too.
And I'm like, oh, she's not drinking coffee.
And I'm just like, just in my head.
Being social skills is something that you have to keep up with.
It's something that...
It's one of these things that very few people, for ego-based reasons...
We'll ever admit that they're lacking in.
Like, no guy will ever admit, like, he's bad in bed or that he can't fight.
There's something core about your masculine.
Like, every guy wants to think he's amazing in bed and that he knows how to fight, even though, you know, a lot of people are, you know, suck at both.
And social skills is another thing.
So just like he was, you know, just like making that quick conversation in the elevator, the Uber driver.
Actually, forget all that, bro.
How did we even meet?
You guys had a terrible stutter.
It was so bad.
Do you remember it was really bad back then, right?
It's almost like if, like, we just going outside, conversating, like, the things happening for me.
I met Casey actually leaving my job, walking Hero, up and down the actual...
Lincoln Road.
Lincoln Road.
And randomly, he's like, oh, nice dog, bro.
Oh, thanks, brother.
Conversating.
Mind you, I didn't know who this guy was.
I was like, bro.
I was kind of like, yo, okay, alright, brother.
I'm popping on YouTube.
Don't go through your pranks.
I'm like, oh, I'm that nigga now.
So I'm like, I'm that guy.
But, you know, we spoke a little bit.
Bro, if you ever go out, I want to come with you.
And then we're linked up.
And then we were best friends from there.
So, get out your host, man.
It's paramount to your success because you leave your host, bro.
You get more access.
You meet more people.
And you never know who you're going to meet.
Let's emphasize that because maybe we just kind of glossed over that.
Think about the friendship.
Think about this.
Yeah.
Think about the friendship that was formed.
The money we've made together.
I'll be honest.
I helped them a little bit in the beginning.
They've helped me a lot more than I've helped them.
Bro, hold on, hold on.
Guys, back then I was a brokie.
Trying to make it.
I wasn't an insult, but I was trying to figure shit out, bro.
I was like, bro, I got a bad stutter.
I'm a black guy from the islands.
I'm trying to figure shit out.
I'm living in the hood right now.
What do I do?
And he just taught me a lot about marketing.
And of course, I did the marketing to the dating, which is Instagram.
Ta-da!
Hence, the course is on demand.
All of our students, guys, have excelled immensely.
Actually, there's a guy on the show, sorry, a girl on the show got married from a guy and I dimmed her from the course.
So it plays into everything, guys, but getting outside is paramount.
Sorry, go ahead.
Yeah, like, you know, when I do sales, because you guys can learn more about me and what I do.
I build a high-status social media presence for men, and then the strategy, once they have that super high-status social media presence, the strategy to then use that for dating or networking.
But we can talk more about...
That stuff later.
But whenever I get on sales calls for people, I always ask them, first thing, hey man, so we're on this call.
Just curious before we begin, how did you even hear about me?
I'm starting to hear YouTube.
I found you on YouTube.
I'm starting to hear I found you on Instagram.
But at least 50% or more, still to this very day, still say, oh, I saw you on Fresh and Fit.
I saw you on Fresh and Fit.
That's marketing, baby.
I don't know, you know, tens of thousands of dollars, you know, soon to be in the future, hundreds of thousands of dollars that I made from the relationship.
I've added, you know, value to myself.
I brought them to Columbia.
I gave them a free penthouse to crash in.
Yes.
Put together an entire show of Colombian girls, you know, that speak English.
That show got more than, you know, a million views.
Really put them on the map, you know, internationally.
You know, it went viral and stuff like that.
Myron, Frank Castle goes, fun times.
But I'm just saying, all that, you know, we're starting a dating show together.
We're going to go, you know, once a week, maybe Wednesday, Thursdays.
Announcement!
Don DeMarco.
Hey Casey, get back to our roots.
We're going to do a show at least once or twice a week on dating and base topics, for example, truth about dating, what's happening behind the scenes, the real gems, because guys, we all know dating nowadays is tough.
Add in AI, add in sex robots, add in OnlyFans, add in prawn, it is all geared towards monetizing the dating market.
But you can still win.
And win smart and win big.
But you got to know what to do.
If you're trying to muddle around and figure it out, you're going to get lost in the sauce.
But we have the plan for you guys.
Trust me.
And, of course, it's free.
Just join the show.
Follow my page right now, actually, on this page here.
A Fresh Start.
As you can see here, my new channel on Rumble.
Let's get up to 1,000 people.
60 right now.
I appreciate the support, guys.
Listen, I know some of you guys will let me in the chat.
It's cool.
But what does that do?
I appreciate you guys, man.
I love you guys.
And we'll keep rocking on as much as possible.
But...
And all that was started just because I said, yo, what's up, brother?
You got that cute dog?
I'm here chasing down girls trying to get fun of us on Lincoln Road, but you got a much better...
Rather than you chasing the girls, you got that cute dog.
Dog game!
The girls are coming to you.
I just saw him.
Yeah.
And look at all the cascade of shit that happened just from saying, what's up, brother?
Because, you know, if I... I'm being outside.
If I didn't kiss you, I never would have met Myron.
That's true.
So, guys, I would not have been in Brickell.
I would have been back in the hood.
At my property.
Trying to figure shit out.
Yeah, so it's a chain effect.
And guys, oh, networking is kept.
Brother, I can tell you right now, I've met billionaires, millionaires, people that have status as a success, and they all say it's networking.
Everybody.
And it's because your network, your network is your network.
Exactly.
Your network is your net worth.
And it's funny because people say, oh, bro, like, I'm never going to make it, bro.
I'm not you.
Well, guess what?
I'm not Casey.
I'm not white.
Because the argument is I'm black.
I can never make it.
Bro, that shit's for the birds, bro.
This is garbage, bro.
You can make it, guys.
I'm telling you right now.
It's about connections and not giving up and also having a plan.
Even if the plan fails, guys, it doesn't matter.
So, oh, my bad.
But yeah, either way, guys, what I'm saying is you can make it happen for yourself, whether it's dating, business, just don't give up.
It's a new year and try different things.
Real quick, Casey, let's go to your actual YouTube as well, bro.
Okay, sure.
And then we should finish off with a game of Smash.
You want it?
Yeah, we should actually.
Guys, I'm going to smash Casey.
Turn the camera.
Pause.
Big pause.
Just put red beard bands, yeah.
Yeah, red beard.
Here we go.
Here's Casey's actual YouTube channel.
Damn, we've got a lot of videos.
Here we go.
That's a nice thumbnail.
11K, yeah.
Okay, okay, okay.
Guys, if you want more detailed stuff from Casey, this is his page right here on YouTube.
Good content.
Amazing stuff.
One of the best coaches I know for dating and Instagram, other than myself, is here with me.
So, here we go.
Alright, so, last thoughts, Casey, before we exit out of this awesome podcast.
And I'll give it up to you.
What can I say?
Pleasure to be here.
You guys tune in.
And I'll say one thing, too.
The window is closing.
Like, okay, my parents bought a home in Southern California just for inflation around $500,000.
20 years ago, now it's worth $1.5 million.
And it's basically cooked.
They were like normal teacher sellers and they were to buy a home, you know, 20 years ago.
So now you can't do that.
Now the normal person cannot buy a home or in a housing marketing crisis, right?
So the best time to buy a home in Southern California is maybe like 20 years ago.
No, I take it back.
Maybe like, it's probably better like 30 years ago.
Wait, wait, wait.
Maybe better actually like 40 years ago.
No, probably like 50 years ago.
Anyway, you see what I'm doing?
The further back you go, the more accessible the housing market was, the more easier you could actually like realistically buy a home that wasn't out of reach to the average person.
But we're just beginning to see the same thing in dating.
You're seeing more and more tattoos, more and more of the dating market being monetized, OF-seeking, more and more women becoming generally masculinized.
More and more of just like, you know, poor values and men being seen as garbage and stuff like that.
So you really need to make this a top priority in your life.
That doesn't mean you stop hustling at your job.
That doesn't mean you stop going to the gym.
You're cut off your friends.
But if you don't really, really focus like, okay, why am I not needing girls?
Am I not getting enough leads?
Am I getting leads but I can't close them?
Are the leads not hot enough?
Whatever it is.
And you're maximizing looks, networking, social media, strategy, how you text girls, how you screen for time wasters versus girls that actually want to go out with you.
You're basically cooked.
So I would say make this a top priority in your life.
Otherwise, just get a Fleshlight and a Pornhub account and call it quits because that's pretty much your only chance if you're not making this a big focus in your life.
And guys, real quick.
This dumb hoe in the chat, Jessica Princess, Kissy pays for box.
Yo, I've known this nigga forever.
He don't pay for shit!
Actually, and neither do I, you dumb bitch.
Anyhow, guys, follow Kissy on Instagram, Red Bear Rants, right here.
This is my guy getting 20k.
He's almost there.
And follow me.
We're going to be doing some rails on here as well.
Some more content.
But yeah, guys.
Thanks for watching, man.
Appreciate you guys for tuning in to us for our first show.
And let's end with a smash game.
What do you think?
Let's do that.
Why not?
I kind of want to smash you.
I want to smash you, bro.
Pause.
Wait, hold on.
Pause.
Are you okay, bro?
Yeah, I'll turn real quick.
Bills, we got time or no?
Huh?
I said no.
One game, bro.
One game, man.
One game.
Hold on.
We'll play one game.
Let's turn the camera real quick.
I'm actually going to be so salty if he loses.
I know.
I don't want to lose.
I don't want to lose.
All right, guys.
Let's play one game of Smash, bro.
No, that's fine.
I can play Sound Up.
All right, guys.
So yesterday we played a bunch of games and he lost.
Get out of here, boy.
Tell them what really happened.
Tell them what really happened.
OK, so I did lose some.
I will say that.
But yeah, we were trying to make sure it worked, you know?
Yeah.
Just a little bit there.
OK. Get off my name, boy.
What is that black line there?
Oh, it is hell, boy.
Oh, it is?
The TV's kind of like, oh yeah, this is not going to be the greatest stream, but whatever.
It's all good.
I'm on your name, right?
Danendorf.
Cool.
You better go to San Luis, bro.
Boy.
This line is kind of annoying me.
Is that better?
Yeah, but it's something to do with...
The camera?
No, it's the screen.
It's because it's an LED screen or some shit like that.
Alright.
Let's go, boy.
Let's go.
What the?
That is my combo.
Let's go.
Let's grab.
What the?
No!
Tricked him!
Wait!
Trick them.
Let's go.
Oh, wow.
Bro.
Bro.
Bro, I'm losing. I'm losing.
I'm losing. Just kidding. Just kidding. Just kidding. Just kidding. Just kidding. Just kidding. Just kidding.
What's going on right now?
Bruv!
Ooh!
What the heck?
No!
Bro!
No way!
Ooh!
Ooh!
What up, man boy?
Alright, he won!
He won!
Thank you.
He won fair and square.
Good game.
All right, guys.
We're out here, man.
Good game.
Listen.
Tune to the channel.
Love you guys, man.
See you on the podcast with Myron later on.
Peace.
He beat me!
He beat me!
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